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Gary Anthony Aiello
7/27/2010

Gary A. Aiello, age 60, died on July 27, 2010 with his family by his side at Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ.  
 
Gary was born in Fairview, NJ on September 18, 1949 and moved to Maryland in 1964, graduating from Bowie Sr. H.S. in 1967.  He returned to NJ and attended Holy Name Hosp. School of Radiography, graduating in 1969.  In 1972 Gary took a position at Albert Einstein College Hospital, Bronx, NY, where he worked for 15 years.  In 1986 he obtained his BS degree from Manhattan College in Riverdale, NY.  Also in 1986 Gary had his only child, Gary II, and took a position at West Hudson Hospital in Kearny, NJ as Director of Radiology.  In 2004 he accepted a job as the Director of Radiology at Clara Maass Medical Center until 2009 when the effects of ALS forced early retirement.  Professionally he was a member of the American Healthcare Radiology Administrators (AHRA), American Registry of Radiological Technologists (ARRT), and served on the advisory boards of Essex County College School of Radiography and Eastwick College of Ramsey.  
 
Gary was “the best of the best’.  He was just one of those guys that everyone loved.  He would help anyone and was very supportive of his staff.  He could see the good in people and helped many people get their careers started simply by giving them a chance.  He also had confidence that allowed him to calmly work through any difficulty that would have thrown others into a panic; nothing was too challenging for him.  He will be sadly missed by all.
 
Gary met his wife in 1975.  The two of them enjoyed listening to a band called “Long Train” that often played at local clubs.  One New Years Eve while watching the band play, Gary saw Marge and asked for her phone number - he called her the very next day.  Their first date was to the Apollo Room at the Hasbrouck Heights Sheraton, one of the fanciest restaurants around at the time, where Gary was intent on making the best first impression.  During their dinner, Marge ended up dropping her cigarette lighter in her salad, but that didn’t sway Gary and they’ve never been apart since.  They married in 1978 at Our Lady of Sorrows Church in Garfield with a reception at the Cameo, now called the Venetian.  They lived in Garfield for eighteen years and raised their son Gary II there also.  They have lived in Bloomingdale since 1996.  Gary always put his family first, especially his son. Best friends since day one, they always spent time with each other. Called "Poppa A" by his son's friends, he was a father figure to many.
 
Gary is survived by his devoted wife, Margaret Mary of Bloomingdale, his loving son; Gary II of New York, NY, his father; Joseph Aiello of Tennessee, his three sisters; Donna Pascrell of Clifton, Marie Rodgers of New Mexico, and Nancy Granados of Maryland, his two brothers; Joseph Aiello Jr. of Maryland, and John Aiello of California, his dear brother-in-law; Det. Robert Ridarick of Garfield, as well as many nieces and nephews.  As a young boy of less than six years old, Gary was predeceased by his mother Louise in 1955.
 
Friends may visit with the family at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Road, Wayne, on Thursday, July 29, 2010 from 7-9P PM and on Friday, July 30 from 2-4 & 7-9 PM.
 
Funeral Services will be held at 9 AM on Saturday, July 31, 2010 from the funeral home, then to Our Lady of Magnificat, Kinnelon, NJ where at 10 AM a Funeral Mass will be offered.  

As expressions of sympathy, if friends so wish, donations may be made in Gary's memory to the Clara Maass Foundation, One Clara Maass Drive, Belleville, NJ 07109.

Guest Book

7/27/2010

God Bless the family during this time of physical loss. Gary will surely be missed! I know his spirit will surely always be with his beloved wife & son. May Marge & Gary feel/sense his presence in their lives. The entire family is in our thoughts & prayers.

Maria Jackson (Valerie's Daughter)

7/28/2010

Dear Marge and Family, I am so sorry for your lose. Death comes in many different ways, either quick and unexpected or slow and probable. Neither one is easy for those remaining but the one thing you have to keep in your heart is that he passed knowing the love that surrounded him. You are an amazing woman. My prayers and love are with you and your family.

Pam Rink

7/28/2010

I know his family will miss him. I hope they have faith and know he is in a better place. My prayers are answered,he is finally at peace.

Claudia (Fayle ) Muse

7/28/2010

I can't express how sorry I am for your loss. My son was very blessed to have had Gary in his life. Your family has touched ours in so many ways! My thoughts and prayers are with both of you now and always!

Sharon Hoitsma

7/28/2010

Words can't express how sorry we are for your loss. We were so blessed to have had the chance to get to know Gary. He was an inspiration to everyone who knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Gary.

Tom and Carol Fiorilla

7/28/2010

My prayers are with Gary's family. I worked with Gary at WHH and he was a very special person in the WHH Family. When my son was very sick it was Gary who would walk with him through Radiology and talk to him, for this I will be every grateful. I know he and my son are now walking together in heaven. He will be in my prayers always.

Irene Kirst

7/28/2010

Dear Marge I am so sorry to hear about Gary. I know it has been several years since we have seen one another but have thought about you many times. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Fran

Fran Mascelli-Ryan

7/28/2010

I prayed for You often and I will never forget You, I enjoyed working with You at WHH, You could always make Me laugh !

Debbie Nadolny

7/28/2010

Dear Marge and Family, Our deepest sympathy as you go through this difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Dawn Smith-Denizac and Bobby & Kayla

Dawn Smith-Denizac

7/29/2010

Dear Marge and Gary Jr., While there are no words adequate enough to comfort you for your loss, please know that we pray that God will watch over you and continue to give you the strength to get through the time ahead. Gary will always be remembered with much love. He was a very special man who gave so much of himself to others. He always looked out for Steve and the other Bosco boys as if they were his own. He has been a very special friend and role model for Steve and we will always be greatful for the care and guidance he gave to him. We feel so blessed to have had him be a part of our son's life. He was truly an angel on earth and will be lovingly remembered always. With love and sympathy, Stephen & Cherie

Stephen & Cherie Ragonese

7/29/2010

To the Aiello Family~~Having known Gary for over 45 years has been a privilege. His love and courage will be remembered by everyone who knew him. Accept our sincere sympathy and know you have an angel looking over you. His friendship will be cherished forever. We will miss him. With our Love, Dottie & A.J.

Dottie and A.J. Simons

7/29/2010

Dearest Marge, I was so saddened to hear of Gary's passing. What wonderful memories I have of times spent with your beloved husband and his pals at Albert Einstein Hospital. We all grew up together there and were like a family. I can't remember a time when Gary didn't have a smile on his face and a funny story to tell. Douglas is in good company in heaven. With much love and my deepest sympathy, Mary Ellen Franklin

Mary Ellen Franklin

7/29/2010

Marge, Gary and Donna, Cannot find the words. The world just lost an Amazingly Generous Gentleman. Love All of You very much and will always be here for you WHENEVER you need me.

Susan Ricciardi

7/29/2010

Dear Marge, Gary Anthony, Donna and Joe...I am deeply saddened at Gary's passing. He is at Peace and out of pain but this does not diminish this great loss. What consoles me to a degree is that I visualize him meeting with his beautiful Mom, Nana, Pop Palu and his dear Uncle Neil. What a reunion they are having!!!! My thoughts and Prayers are with you all. Love, Aunt Pat Palu

Aunt Pat Palu

7/29/2010

Dear Marge and Family, Please know that during this difficult time we care and express our heartfelt sympathy to you and yours. May the love of God surround you during this time of sorrow.Our love, prayers, and deepest sympathy Darlene, Dara, and Mrs. Drzymala

Darlene & Dara Smith

7/30/2010

I knew this special person in our youth, one of the few one may meet in a life. Before and now when I think of Gary I will remember his wonderful smile and spirit. Our prince will be missed!

Calvin "Ray" Macon

7/30/2010

To Gary's family: I just called my mother-in-law, Mary (Ronnie) Starr, to inform her of Gary's passing after reading his obituary in the Star-Ledger. She is crying for his loss, and will pray for his family. I recognized Gary's name because my mother-in-law always spoke with love and respect for 'her boss' at West Hudson. Her son and my husband, Tom, helps organize a fundraiser for ALS every year at Nanina's in Belleville. With sympathy, from the Starr Family

Cheryl Starr

7/30/2010

Gary will be missed by all that knew him, he was truely a good person and a gentle man. His humor and positive attitude regardless of the circumstances made him unique. My prayers and condolences go out to his family.

John Manginelli - CMMC

7/30/2010

Dear Donna and Family, Please accept our deepest sympathies and prayers on Gary's passing. I will fondly remember the times we spent at Aunt Pat's and Uncle Neil's as "kids". May the memories you all have of Gary heal the pain in your hearts. I agree with Aunt Patty, "What a party they're having in heaven today, especially with Aunt Louise."

Joyce Capone Shelley

7/30/2010

"Lives of great men all remind us We can make our lives sublime, And, departing, leave behind us Footprints on the sands of time;" The Psalm of Life Henry W.Longfellow Mr Gary Aiello was not only our Manager but also a mentor and a friend. He touched our lives in many ways,for which we will always be gratefull. It was an honour working with him. We are sad by his passing and will always remember him. The Technologists,past and present,of the Dept of Nuclear Medicine,West Hudson and Clara Maass express their sincere sympathies to the Aiello family.

Satish Chandra

7/31/2010

"Aunt" Marge and Gary, I am so sorry for your loss. I remember growing up, how when mom and dad would bring us up to visit, how much "Uncle" Gary enjoyed the company. He was always telling stories and laughing with all of us "kids". By reading this guest book, you know that "Uncle" Gary has touched many lives. People will remember him fondly. My prayers are with you.

Danielle Sims (Reiman)

7/31/2010

Dear Marge and Gary I know that you have thanked me for what I did for Gary but really it is I who have to thank him. First and foremost, he was one of the kindest people I ever encountered. He was always there for everyone. And that did not go unnoticed by his CMMC family. At the time of his retirement there was a general clamor that this not go unnoticed as you will remember by the tribute that he received. There was no coercing of that group to get together for "our" Gary! On a personal note, I will always admire the courage and grace he exhibited after he was stricken. I don't know if I could react as he did. He was a source of strength to me during those days. What a role reversal! And he loved you both. When you are together every day like we were, you get to know alot about a person. And you were both very much a part of his daily thoughts. I could say so very much more but I won't belabor the point. I have lost my "buddy" but I will keep him in my heart forever. My family and I will always keep you in our prayers.

Frank Mazzarella

8/2/2010

Dear Donna & Family.....We extend our deepest condolences for the loss of your dear brother, Gary. Some of my fondest memories of childhood are drawn from summers spent at Aunt Pat & Uncle Neil's house....always surrounded by family...all of us growing up together. May your cherished memories be a constant source of comfort throughout this most difficult time. All of you remain in our prayers....

Linda & Joe DeCoro

8/3/2010

I knew Gary for only a short time in the early high school years at St. Luke's, but I've never forgotten him. A great guy always with a rascal's smile and a scheme of something fun to do. My condolences to all. I can see he possessed a wealth that only a lucky few can realize. God bless him.

Vince Lombardi


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