Richard Tuit
2/3/2010

Richard Tuit age 83 of Pompton Plains entered his Lord’s presence on Wednesday, February 3, 2010 at the Renaissance Gardens at Cedar Crest Village, Pompton Plains.

 

He was born in North Haledon to Nicholas and Susanna Tuit and resided in Haledon and North Haledon before moving to Highland Lakes where he lived for nineteen years, he wintered in Bradenton, FL for sixteen years before moving to Cedar Crest Village, Pompton Plains last year.

 

Richard graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1944.  He was drafted into the United States Army during WWII in February of 1945 at the age of eighteen. With his skills of operating heavy equipment he was given the task of driving a tank.  He later became a Military Policeman and was stationed in Puerto Rico where he drove a motorcycle and jeep to escort the high echelon of military personnel.

 

After WWII Richard  and his brother Nicholas partnered to form Tuit Brothers, a paving and excavating company they ran for forty years in the North Haledon area. They both retired on the same day nineteen years ago.

 

He met the love of his life Wilma Heerema at Sunday evening church services at the Bethel Christian Reformed Church, Paterson.  Their first date was to 7 Lakes Drive in Bear Mountain, NY. He purchased a diamond in HoHoKus and couldn’t wait to propose to Wilma.  He proposed on a hill in HoHoKus overlooking the lights of Manhattan on December 21, 1950.  They married at the Bethel Christian Reformed Church, Paterson on March 15, 1951.  They honeymooned in Florida and drove there in a 1940 Buick into which Richard had put a 1950 engine.  

 

Religion being a very important part of his life, Richard was a member  of the Bethel Christian Reformed Church, Paterson from 1951 through 1989; he served as an Elder for three terms and as a Deacon for four terms. He made his profession at the 2nd Christian Reformed Church(Unity), Prospect Park the same night Wilma made hers at Bethel Christian Reformed Church, Paterson.  They presently are members of Christ Community Church of Highland Lakes at which Rich served as its first elder.

 

Richard is best described as a man who could fix anything; he was kind, patient, industrious, and a hard working person with a strong and committed faith in his Lord. He built both houses he has lived in from the ground up. He enjoyed hunting and fishing and golf. He also purchased a vacation farm in Sharon Springs, NY where he built yet another home. He always befriended others and fulfilled thier needs as an expression of his strong faith in Jesus Christ.

 

He was the loving husband of fifty-eight years to Wilma (Heerema) Tuit; loving father of Ronald W. Tuit and his wife Debbie of Kanab, UT, Rick Tuit of Highland Lakes, NJ,  Janis R. Warden and her husband James of Pella, IA, Glen D. Tuit of Highland Lakes, NJ and Bob C. Tuit and his wife Janine of Bloomingdale; brother of Hilda Borduin of North Haledon and the late John, Nicholas Jr., Alice VanDokkenberg, Wilhelmina Tuit and Jean Mapes; cherished grandfather of thirteen grandchildren Lora and Dr. Robert Smid, Jessica and Mark Van Wyngarden, Merissa and Brandon Nishijo, Brian, Jason, Jonathan, Robert S. and Jeanae Tuit, James Richard, Cory, Steven, Alexis and Briana Warden; much loved great-grandfather of Dalia and Keira Smid, Wyatt Nishijo and Benjamin Van Wyngarden.

 

Funeral services will be held 10 AM on Monday, February 8, 2010 at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Road, Wayne. Friends may visit with the family on Sunday, February 7, 2010 from 2-6 PM at the funeral home.
 
Interment will be in Laurel Grove Memorial Park, Totowa.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Back to God Ministries Intl., 6555 West College Dr., Palos Heights, IL 60463 or the Eastern Christian School Association(ECSA), 50 Oakwood Ave., North Haledon, NJ, 07508 would be appreciated.


Guest Book

2/5/2010 9:05:00 AM
We Love you Wilma and we Loved Rich too. He was the Best. Always good to us. He will be missed
Roger and Dottie
2/5/2010 12:10:00 PM
Dear Wilma, You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength and peace as you face the days ahead.
Neal & Ethel Baum
2/5/2010 5:16:00 PM
We will always remember the good times we had with your hubby and yourself , Wilma, and were very happy to be your friends. Our love and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time and in the weeks and months to follow. May His Grace, Comfort and Strenth be your daily portion. With much love and prayers, Henry and Marilyn
Henry & Marilyn Nye
2/5/2010 6:37:00 PM
Dear Bob, Janine and the Tuit Family; Our deepest condolences on the passing of you father. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Love, Laura, Bob, Erin and Meghan McGowan
Laura & Bob McGowan
2/5/2010 7:49:00 PM
Dear Aunt Wilma and Family, We send you are deepest condolences with the passing of Uncle Rich. Paul has been sharing many fond memories of his Uncle, especially back in the days of working with his Uncle Rich and his dad, Nick Tuit.Lots of great stories, for sure! Blessings to you all on the day you remember and celebrate his life. What a lovely obituary. He was quite a man. Love to all our family. Sincerely, Paul, Debbie and Family Tuit, from British Columbia,Canada.
Paul and Debbie Tuit
2/6/2010 4:41:00 AM
Dear Wilma and family, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family as you go through these difficult days. Cherish the many memories you have of a husband, dad and grandfather. I'll always remember having the Heerema Christmas party at your house in the basement and singing Away in a Manger with the kids! ...great times and great memories.. . May you find His peace and comfort in the coming days. Carole and Jim
Carole Brinks
2/6/2010 6:53:00 AM
Our heart goes out to all the Tuit Family members. Our Deepest Sympathies to you all!
Jim & Jenn DeHope
2/6/2010 11:45:00 AM
Dear Ron and Debbie i am very sorry, my heart is broken..... may the lord bless you always peace out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Joao M.
joao m.
2/6/2010 11:48:00 AM
Dear Ron and Debbie, Thank you for letting me know. I imagine that everyone has mixed feelings. It is a blessing to know he is with the Lord. What that must be like! But those left behind have the sorrow of not being with him for the time being. Our prayers are with you. May God that created the human heart now grant you comfort. Mark, Lisa, Josh, Jonathan, Jeremy Woolery
MarkWoolery
2/6/2010 12:49:00 PM
As I thought about the life and death of this Christian man, a song came on the radio called "I Can Only Imagine". The lyrics spoke about going to heaven and what will we do when we get there. I thought about Rich being there and reconnecting with family. What a joyous thought to be in heaven. May God's peace fill you as you think about his contagious laugh and his garden fresh vegatable dishes.
Wade & Donna
2/6/2010 1:16:00 PM
Dear Wilma, Dear Wilma, Our deepest sympathy at this time. Rich now knows what we can only hope for. We pray that God will comfort you and your family Hank&Ruth
Hank&Ruth DeLeeuw
2/6/2010 1:50:00 PM
It's good to be back in touch with you Wilma. Sorry it's under these sad circumstances. Like you said though, Rich is in a better place. You were both great neighbors (and friends)in Highland Lakes and I think of you often.
Maryann Zeliznak
2/6/2010 4:36:00 PM
Dear Bob, Janine & Family, We are so sorry to hear about your loss. You are all in our toughts and prayers. He is in a better place now & you have someone to look over you from heaven. If there is anything we can do for you please lets us know. Stefanie, Shawn, Sadie, & Stella
Stefanie & Shawn
2/7/2010 8:28:00 AM
To all the Tuit Family, our love and condolences are with you all. You will be in our thoughts during this sad times. Love, Dawn & Sam De Hope, Florida.
Dawn & Samuel De Hope
2/9/2010 8:38:00 AM
We were really sorry to hear about your Father; however we all know that he is now in a better place with his suffering gone. We know how much his pain caused you sorrow and grief, and that it was extremely difficult for you to see. Your dad will always be with you; his love will be part of you no matter where you go. We know that you wanted and hoped for more time to spend with him, but always remember the time you did spend with him meant so much to you both . Your dad loved you all very much and we know you will miss him terribly but it is important to always think of the good memories. If there is anything we can do please let us know. With my deepest sympathy
Larry De Hope and Jenn Altman and family
2/10/2010 7:23:00 AM
Dear Wilma and family, may you continue to know the grace of God and his loving presence furing the days that lie ahead. God is faithful; may you always experience that.
Evan Heerema
2/12/2010 9:13:00 AM
Ron and Deb: I'm so sorry to hear about Rich. I really enjoyed it when they came to do the bulletins. He was always the quiet one and Wilma was the talker. Our thoughts are with you, Wilma and the rest of the family. Mary Meiste
mary meiste
2/12/2010 9:16:00 AM
Ron and Deb, Saddened to hear of the passing of Ron’s dad. Even though we’re comforted with the knowledge that he’s now with Jesus, the relational loss will always be felt in some way this side of heaven. You’ll be in our prayers as will Wilma and the rest of the family. Let me know if there is any way that we can be of help to you . . . okay? Bert Downs President Southwest Conservative Baptist Association
Bert Downs
2/12/2010 9:17:00 AM
Ron... I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father! Please know that you and your family are in my prayers!! Pastor Richard Kroll
Richard Kroll
2/12/2010 9:19:00 AM
Dear Wilma, Deb and Ron, May the grace of our LORD Jesus Chris, the love of God the Father, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you and your family. Pastor Jeff Rev. Jeff Klingenberg, M.T.S., M.Div. Associate Pastor, Director of Youth and Young Adult Ministries, Ancaster Christian Reformed Church 70 Garner Road East Ancaster, Ontario
Jeff Klingenberg
2/12/2010 9:21:00 AM
Dear Ron and Deb: Praise be to our Lord for he has passed from suffering to glory. I'm sure hewouldn't have wanted to stay a minute longer. Our prayers will still beforthcoming. Alan and Kim Titus
Alan Titus
2/12/2010 9:22:00 AM
Dear Ron and Deb, I am so sorry to hear of your lose but what a great blessing knowing he is with our Heavenly Father. I will be praying for your family and especially your mom during this time of mourning. I love you guys very much! Robin Goode
Robin Goode
2/14/2010 12:25:00 PM
Dear Wilma and family, Mom Baker and I want you to know you will be in our prayers at this time and in the months ahead. Love, Marilyn & Aunt Gert
Marilyn Halstead
2/16/2010 8:41:00 AM
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. ~Author Unknown
Karen Anderson
2/16/2010 8:46:00 AM
Sending our love to each of you from Peru. Lisa & José Chambilla
Lisa
2/16/2010 3:50:00 PM
Dear Tuit Family: We are so saddened by Rich's death. He was like the patriarch of our church. Such a kind, soft-spoken man who always had a smile and a kind word for everyone he came in contact with. He was a shining example of what a Godly, Christian man should be. We share in your sorrow, but also rejoice in his life that now continues in eternity with Our Lord and Savior. What a joy to know that he is in the presence of Jesus! "...and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever." Our love and prayers are with you all. Love, Ken, Terry and Katie Reilly
Ken, Terry and Katie Reilly

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