Harry Cagnina, age 84, of Orlando Florida and former long-term Wayne resident, passed away Wednesday, July 19, 2023, with the comfort of family by his side.

Harry was born to Peter Cagnina and Yolanda Renna in 1939 and graduated from Central High School in Newark in 1957.

 He served as a police officer for the Wanaque Police Department and later in life as a welder for Vibra Screw Incorporated for 40 years. He took great pride in the work he did and even participated in manufacturing the parts for the upkeep of the Barnegat Lighthouse. Once he retired, Harry moved to Orlando, where he could enjoy the warm weather and sunshine.

Harry proudly served in the United States Marine Corps in 1958 during the Vietnam War. He was awarded the Silver Star, Bronze Star, and Purple Heart and was honorably discharged in 1961, having attained the rank of Sergeant.

He was a huge baseball fan and enjoyed watching Yankee games with his three sons. He loved to support his sons and attended as many baseball and football games as he could. He quickly became known as “Big Harry” to anyone who knew him in the neighborhood. You could always find him outside watching the birds, feeding off the bird feeder in the backyard. His love for birds continued as he collected as many bald eagle figures as possible. He loved his unofficial pet “Harry the Herring” and would feed him fish every day, when he came to visit his home in Florida. Harry had a big, sweet tooth and always enjoyed a Klondike Bar or a big piece of chocolate cake after dinner. Whenever he missed New Jersey, he was sure to watch the live camera feed from the Seaside Heights Boardwalk and always asked his friends and family to give him a wave.

Harry is survived by his children Darlene of Mount Jackson, Virgina, Harry, Keith and his wife Melanie, Kyle and his wife Maria, all of Wayne, New Jersey.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Harry’s name are asked to consider P.O.L Fire Company 2 of Wayne. http://waynefireco2.com/donate.html

To family and friends far and near;

It is with the saddest of hearts that we must announce the passing of our dear little Karen. Karen was a gentle innocent soul who saw the world through the eyes of a child.

Despite her many challenges, her frail body belied an inner strength, courage and resilience. With the heroic efforts of our parents, especially our mother who cared for all her needs every day of her life, she was able to defy the odds and live a long and meaningful life, becoming  the longest surviving dialysis patient at St Joseph’s Hospital. She had a very vivid and active imagination, which allowed her to live a life of excitement and adventure that was otherwise denied to her.

She liked watching TV and using her iPad. We made the mistake of showing her how to use  Amazon, and Thomas the Tank toys and Paul McCartney memorabilia started showing up at the door! Karen was very sweet, loving and caring, occasionally surprising us with thoughts of family and friends she hadn’t seen in a long time.

She loved all the cats we had over the years, especially Eliza, who she picked out herself at the animal shelter a few years ago. She recently asked what would happen to the cat after she and our mother died. She could also be very feisty and assertive. Many times she put my brothers and me in our places when she felt we needed it.  In the last two weeks, it became increasingly clear that her body was failing fast, and Tuesday afternoon she passed away surrounded by her mother and her brothers.

Her long struggle is over. She will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Rest in Eternal Peace Karen. We love you.

Jacoba (Jackie) Mol, age 73, of Clifton, passed away Wednesday, July 19, 2023 after a long battle with cancer.  She was a member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes, New Jersey.

Jackie was born to Elias and Wilma DeBel on September 30, 1949, in the Netherlands.  Her family immigrated to New Jersey when Jackie was two years old.  Her childhood years were spent in Wayne, riding bareback down rural Valley Road.  She graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1967 and worked as a service representative at New Jersey Bell Telephone Company after her schooling. She met her husband, Bill, in 1967, and they were married in 1970 upon his return from Vietnam.  Jackie and Bill loved receiving each other’s love letters from overseas, looking forward to the time they could be together again.

Jackie always had a good attention for detail and always put everyone’s happiness and needs first.  Jackie was a loving and devoted mother to her three children; they will miss her very much.  The daily phone calls and time spent with her children were often filled with comfort and advice.  Her personality resulted in many lifelong friends, leaving many fond memories.

Jackie is survived by Bill, her husband and loving caretaker during her twenty year battle with cancer.  They were blessed with fifty-three years of marriage and three children:  Troy (Aileen) Mol of Newfoundland, NJ; Susan (Robert) Okken of Oak Ridge, NJ; and Timothy (Lisa) Mol of Oak Ridge, NJ.  In addition, they were blessed with fourteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Jackie is survived by five siblings:  Abe & Lois Debel of Florida, and Martina Newton, John & Carol DeBel, Jake & Nancy DeBel, and Rick & Ellen DeBel, all of New Jersey.  Jackie was pre-deceased by her parents, Elias and Wilma DeBel.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, N.J. 07444.

Carl A Perini, age 73, of Wayne NJ passed away peacefully at his home on July 17, 2023 with the love and comfort of his wife and children by his side.

He was born to Vivian and Charles Perini and graduated from Mater Christi High School in Astoria, NY in 1967.  He was a member of the camera club and the dance band.  Carl graduated Queens College with a degree in chemistry and Adelphi University in Garden City, NY with a Master’s in organic chemistry magna cum laude.

Carl’s first job was at Alexanders Department Store in Rego Park Queens.  He worked as a stock boy and in the bedding and linen department.  Upon graduation from college Carl worked at Bulova Watch Company.  He worked in their chemical metallurgical laboratory department.  While working at Bulova, Carl was pursuing his master’s in organic chemistry.  He obtained his master’s and worked for several different companies during his lifetime.  He worked as a chemical salesperson and then a material and process engineer.  As the years went on, he focused on quality engineering and became a lead auditor.  One of the most exiting moments at work was when he got to meet with Neil Armstrong, the first man on the moon.  Among the companies Carl worked for were AIL in Deer Park Long Island, ITT in Clifton, NJ, ISP in Wayne, NJ and Fisher Scientific in Fair Lawn, NJ.  His last job was at Getinge in Wayne, NJ.  He was very proud to work at Getinge as he felt they provided top-notch equipment for healthcare.  He had not yet retired, he was on medical leave when he passed away.  Carl truly loved his profession and work.  He always wanted to keep his mind active.
Carl had many hobbies and talents.  He was an accomplished guitar player.  He loved playing in a band for many years when he was younger.  He always kept in touch with his bandmates, and they would play virtually together as they all lived in different parts of the country.  He shared his love of guitar with family and friends.  Music was always present in the Perini household.  Carl had a superior ability to remember long jokes and never messed up the punchline!  He loved to cook and was very creative at it.  He would take a look at the leftovers in the refrigerator, then put them together in such a way that a delicious meal was served.  One sport he loved playing was golf.  He played in many work leagues.  His son took up golf which thrilled Carl and he was always giving him pointers on improving his game.  In addition, Carl was an avid reader for pleasure and to obtain knowledge.
Carl met the love of his life, Eve, at the Stratton in Forest Hills Queens.  He was apprehensive to approach her as he said she did not look that friendly.  But…he took his chances and they ended up getting married two and a half years later.  Carl and Eve were married for forty-five years and were blessed with two children, Sara and Glen.  Carl is survived by his wife Eve, his two children Sara and Glen, his son-in-law Tim, and grandson Remy.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Carl’s name to New Jersey Death with Dignity, www.njdeathwithdignity.org or P.A.T.C.H., 26 Lakeside Ave, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442 would be greatly appreciated.

Michael Peter Cauda, age 76, of Wanaque, formerly of Wyckoff, passed away on July 12, 2023, surrounded by his loving wife and family.

He was born on October 8, 1946, in Paterson, and was raised in Haledon where he attended and played football and baseball at Manchester High School, graduating in 1964. He earned a Bachelor of Arts, in 1968, in Industrial Arts and a Master of Arts, in 1974, in Industrial Education at Montclair State College.

During his 42-year teaching career at Ramapo High School, from 1968 to 2010, Mike taught Industrial Arts and Industrial Education & Technology.  He was head teacher of the Industrial Arts and Home Economics Departments for the school district, coached a total of 22 years in football, baseball, and softball, and even held the unofficial title of assistant gymnastics coach to assist his wife, Chris, during her coaching tenure.  Mike was inducted in the Ramapo High School Athletic Hall of Fame in March 2010.

As part of his service to our country, Mike was a Sergeant in the Army Reserve, and part of the National Guard.  Over his lifetime of service to others, he served as past president and treasurer of UNICO – the North Haledon Chapter of the Italian Heritage Commission. He served on the North Haledon Board of Recreation, the Board of Health, and the Board of Education.  Mike was the negotiation chairperson for the Ramapo and Indian Hills Education Association for 20 years, a member of the NJEA State Health Benefits Committee, and a state and local delegate to the NEA for 15 years.  He was a member of the Bergen County Education and Coaches Associations. Mike also served on the Board of Governors at North Jersey Country Club in Wayne and was on the Board of Trustees at Grace United Methodist Church in Wyckoff.

A caring husband, father, and the best Pop-Pop there ever was, always a gift of love to his seven grandchildren. What became an endearing exchange, whenever they asked for something, he would say, “it will cost you $5” and there were giggles all around. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for his family.  He was full of life and always made us laugh. He did not know a stranger. He was selfless, gentle, and kind, a man of integrity, and always there for anyone who needed a hand.  

His special love was his Golden Retriever, Murphy. He would take Murphy for rides in his car almost every day. He even designed a plaque for his dog that said “Murphy’s Walk” which he placed on the back road of Fieldstone Terrace, the family residence for 20 years before moving to Wanaque Reserve.

An avid golfer, he was a member of North Jersey Country Club for 42 years where he grew his love of the game, forged forever friendships on the golf course and was a master of Gin in the cardroom.

Mike was a diehard NY Giants and Yankees fan. He loved to cook, and his specialty was Linguini and Clam Sauce. We would compare his dish to every place that we went, and his by far was the best.

He was a dedicated member of Psi Chi Fraternity at Montclair State, where he forged lifelong friendships and enjoyed his annual treks to the Jersey shore for reunions.

In his last two years, he enjoyed playing cards with some buddies he met at the Reserve, always willing to teach and help any of the guys how to play cards because he was very good at it.

His youngest daughter, Dana, defined him as optimistic, patient, nostalgic, proud, steadfast, and loyal, to family and friends.

His oldest daughter, Alicia, describes her dad: “My dad was my hero, and I am proud to be his daughter. He led by example, teaching me how to be generous, to give and help and be present for those who need it, and family is the most important thing. Great dads own a significant piece of our hearts, and he was such a great dad.” 

From his son, Michael: “He was generous, supportive and always there for us.  Family was paramount.  He taught me everything…most importantly, how to be a great parent and role model.  Every man has a father…I had a dad.  He was my best friend.”

Mike is survived by his wife, Christine Fornarotto Cauda of 53 years.  Mike and Chris were blessed with three children – Michael J. Cauda of Warwick, NY, Alicia Hodnett and her husband Chris of McCordsville, IN, and Dana Bergin and her husband Bryan of Massapequa, NY, and seven grandchildren – Mackenzie, Emily and Ava Cauda, Ella and Michael Hodnett, and Aubrey and Ascher Bergin.  As well as his sister-in-law, Doris Cauda of Toms River, NJ, and his cousin, Rosalie Collinge Failla of Palm Beach Gardens, FL. Mike was pre-deceased by his parents, Peter and Myrtle Cauda (nee Collinge), and his brother, Robert Cauda. 

As our family closes this chapter of our life with Mike, we know you will hold him close to your heart, remembering all the memories, love and life shared together over these past 76 years.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to the North Jersey Country Club Caddie Scholarship Fund.  

Donation checks can be made out to North Jersey Country Club.  In the memo section, please indicate the Caddie Fund.

Mail to: North Jersey Country Club, 594 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470, Attention of General Manager, Chelsea Creo

Robert Lee Ricciardi, 73, of Wayne, NJ passed away on July 11, 2023 surrounded by his loving family. Born in Jersey City, raised in New Milford, Robert attended and graduated from Don Bosco Prep in 1968 where he was a three sport Ironman (football, basketball, and track) captain of the football team and senior class president. Upon graduation, Bob enrolled at St. Peter’s College where he majored in business and played four more years of football, ultimately graduating in 1972. However, the most important event of his four years was in 1969 when he met a cheerleader named Debbie. The two were married on July 14, 1973 while receiving the Papal Blessing at St. Augustine’s in Union City and shortly thereafter they started and raised all four of their children in Wayne, NJ. 

Immediately following graduation, Bob began working for Mahieu Construction in North Haledon where he would meet his future business partner, Ben Della Cerra. In May of 1976, Bob and Ben started Delric Construction Company also located in North Haledon, which grew to be a very successful commercial construction business. Starting as residential, the company moved to commercial in the 1980. Delric’s  first commercial  job was building the Pompton Plains Post Office.  In 2007 the company transitioned into doing public work in the 5 boroughs of NY. Their  first job was the construction of a superior courthouse for the state of NY in Staten Island with the DASNY organization and then multiple schools projects for the NYCSC and housing authority projects with NYCHA.

Aside from his business acumen, Bob was a loving, caring and devoted son, brother, husband, father, uncle  and grandfather. When his four children were younger, you’d find him on the sidelines coaching his son Paul’s Wayne PAL football and baseball teams, marshaling Gina’s swim meets, Lisa’s basketball team or his youngest daughter Tara’s soccer team. A true leader with a passion for teaching the youth skills and techniques, Bob formed with longtime friend Scott Seldeen, the Believers Soccer Team in order for young athletes to hone their skills. 

As Bob’s children grew into adulthood, he gave up the sideline as a coach and enjoyed it as a spectator for any one of his nine grandchildren. Bob would travel to venues near and far in order to support their personal endeavors whether it was a baseball or soccer game, a band concert or a dance recital. Bob loved showing pictures of his grandchildren to anyone he met whether they were interested or not. He truly cherished watching all of nine of his grandchildren, ranging from 20 years old to 9 months,  flourish and succeed. 

As time went on Bob enjoyed spending time at his beach house in Lavalette, NJ whether that was watching his grandchildren play on the beach or enjoying a Bacardi and Diet while the Yankees were on. There, Bob and Debbie celebrated and hosted many occasions ranging from anniversaries to birthdays and graduations. Also, Bob loved taking his family on vacations to Disney, Bermuda, Hollywood Beach along with countless cruises, but the Florida Keys was a special place where he and Debbie would go for their together time. 

When Bob wasn’t traveling, he was at his workbench woodworking projects for his children and grandchildren. For each of his children he made separate pieces of furniture ranging from shelves, bird houses, gates, custom closets, fireplace mantels, desks, credenzas and the list goes on. A trained and true master craftsman, his work is something to be admired and the pieces he built will be kept in the family for generations. Bob was the definition of a true patriarch who cared, supported and loved his wife, children and grandchildren with all of his heart. 

Robert was predeceased by his parents Angelo and Florence Ricciardi. He is survived by all three of his younger siblings: Richard Ricciardi, Raymond Ricciardi and Judith O’Connor (nee Ricciardi). His beloved wife Debbie Ricciardi (nee Waldy), his son Paul Ricciardi and his wife Lori, Lumberton, NJ, and his daughters Gina Aiello and her husband Stephen, Oak Ridge, NJ, Lisa Priestner and her husband Matthew, Wayne, NJ, Tara Agelis and her husband Nicholas, Wayne, NJ and his adoring grandchildren: Luke and Jake Ricciardi; Nicholas and Alyssa Aiello; Brianna and Emma Priestner; and Dorothy, Kimberly and Angela Agelis.

In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital and John Theurer Cancer Center - Multiple Myeloma Division

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Sheila Ellen Zieger (nee Connor) of Highlands Ranch, CO, formerly of Rockaway and Clifton, NJ.

Sheila passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 11, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born in Hackensack NJ, raised in Lyndhurst, NJ and was one of three children to Eugene and Evelyn Connor.   As a young woman, Sheila left school early and accepted a position as assistant manager at a clothing store in Rutherford, NJ where her mother was store manager.  Sheila worked alongside her mom for about two or three years. One night while Sheila was at a German Dance Hall in Lyndhurst, she met a handsome young man by the name of Herbert Zieger.  Herbert and Sheila started dating and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds honeymooned in Niagara Falls then settled Clifton, NJ. 

While residing in Clifton, the couple welcomed the births of their four children, Paula, Bruce, Herbert, and Eric.  Shortly after the birth of her first child.  Sheila decided that she would become a full-time homemaker, dedicating her life to raising and caring for her family.  For many years she worked alongside her husband Herbert at his Plumbing business, Zieger Plumbing and Heating in Clifton, as a secretary and bookkeeper. 

Helping her husband with the family business and raising four children did not leave much spare time for Sheila to pursue any hobbies.  This was not a concern for Sheila because her true passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Sheila than spending time with her children and grandchildren.  Sheila and Herbert cherished a loving and loyal marriage for more than sixty-five years until Herbert’s passing in July of 2021.  Sheila was not only dedicated to her family but also to her Christian Faith.  While living in Clifton, Sheila and her family were very active members of Calvary Baptist Church.  For many years after, Sheila and Herbert were members of Preakness Baptist church in Wayne. She was also a member of the Women’s Circle and a prayer group while living at the Fox Hills at Rockaway.

Sheila treasured their family vacations to the Poconos, their trips to Villa Roma Resort in the Catskill Mountains area of upstate New York, as well as camping and boating.  Sheila was a quiet and private lady who loved her family deeply and was able to make friends wherever she went.  She will be forever remembered as a devoted wife, a loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Sheila is survived by her four children; Paula L. Van Gurp and her husband Karl of Ohio, her son Bruce Zieger and his wife Allison of Highlands Ranch, CO, her son Herbert Zieger, Jr. and his wife Laura of Lincoln Park, NJ, and Eric Zieger and his wife Barbara of Clifton, NJ, six grandchildren; Michelle Van Gurp, Nicole Kilfoile and her husband Pat, Herbert Zieger III, Vincent Zieger, Meghan Zieger, and Eric Zieger, and two great grandchildren; Mason and Thomas.  She was predeceased by her brother Steve Connor and her sister Jean Koppel. 

Bella Op’t Hof ( née Mac Donald )

Bella was born November 27, 1924 in Hampton Roads, Virginia, and died on July 11, 2023 at age 98. She was the second daughter of Frank McDonald and Carrie Baake. Her sister Virginia was born before her on January 14, 1921

It was  the beginning of the Great depression, but Bella still became the epitome of a princess into her teen years and beyond. She and her sister Virginia double dated in high school. Bella had natural grace, dancing on roller-skates and singing in the choir.

Bella married her high school sweetheart Jerry Op’t Hof. The two lead a high life in their adorable log cabin at Packanack Lake. They could see the beautiful lake from the picture window in their living room with its built-in bar and baby grand piano where musical friends gathered many times to play the piano and sing.

In those years she enjoyed the glamour of sailing, skiing and ice-skating. She and Jerry owned a Lincoln Continental which was the height of luxury that they sought.

Bella was known as “ the Donut Lady “ because every Halloween she would  open the doors to generations of children who enjoyed cider and donuts on their evening rounds of trick-or-treating.

In the early 1970s, Bella and Jerry purchased 90 acres of land in northern Vermont and Jerry set to imagining and then constructing a Swiss style chalet with a giant natural stone fireplace that rose two floors opposite the grand views of the field and mountains. Bella reveled in the company that gathered there as her friends, the McCormick’s and the Hubble’s, visited often. When Gerard passed away at an early age, Bella was surrounded by her friends from church and the lake. They kept her busy. She loved going to the Papermill playhouse to see shows with her good friend Margie Smith.

When Bella turned 90, her niece and nephew threw her a party in her house in Packanack Lake where Bella directed the catering and list of guests. She had a great time!

Bella was a dedicated employee for many years. She worked in managerial positions at large companies like Cooper Labs. She took her work seriously but enjoyed it as well. In her mid-90s she sold her house at the lake and moved into the Cedar Crest Village community in Pompton Plains New Jersey. She lived independently there for a few years and at her side when she passed was her devoted friend Marge Smith who cared for and looked after Bella until her passing. 

It is with a great deal of sadness that we announce the passing of Robert H. Crane, age 76, of Wayne, NJ.

Robert passed away peacefully on Monday, July 10, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family. Robert was born in Passaic and raised in Paterson. He was the only child to Harold and Sydney Crane. At the age of twelve, Robert and his family moved to Wayne. Those who were closest to Robert and knew him best affectionally refer to him as “Bob.” 

After moving to Wayne, Bob attended St Mary’s High School in Paterson where he was extremely social and made life-long friends. Friends, who till this day, still get together twice a year. Following his high school graduation with the class of 1964, Bob attended St Francis College in Loretto, PA where he studied Commerce. Bob graduated from St Francis College in 1968 earning his bachelor’s degree. Instead of joining the workforce, Bob instead felt he should serve his country and enlisted in the United States Navy. While in the US Navy, he was stationed on the USS San Diego, which at the time was a brand-new ship making Bob a “Plank Owner.” On the ship’s maiden voyage, it crossed through the Panama Canal, becoming a part of the US Atlantic Fleet. Bob served honorably and proudly in the United States Navy from 1968 until 1972.

Bob found work quickly after being honorably discharged from the Navy. He accepted a position in sales at Garden State Brickface in Roselle, NJ where he was employed for several years. Bob left Garden State Brickface for another position in sales at Kane Screens in Kane, PA. Bob then worked for Atas International where he sold building and construction materials. He worked at Atas International for about eight years until his retirement in 2011. 

In 1968, after graduating from college, Bob was introduced to a young, attractive girl named Suzanne Waters by a friend of his from St Mary's High School. Bob gave Suzanne a call and the couple went out on a date. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on July 19, 1969 at St Mary’s Abbey in Morristown, NJ. Being that Bob was still in the Navy at the time, the newlyweds settled in Norfolk, VA near the Naval base. While residing in Norfolk, Bob and Suzanne welcomed the births of their first two children, Sean and Kimberly. The family then moved to Wayne following Bob’s discharge from the Navy where they welcomed their next two children, Kristin and Jonathan. Bob and Suzanne have called Wayne their home ever since. 

Bob was a Scout Master for Boy Scout Troop 127 of Wayne for many years where he trained many Eagle Scouts. He was a member of the Riverview Garden Club, the American Model Association, and Construction Specification Institute (CSI). 

Those who knew Bob best would consider him to be a “serial hobbyist” with a creative spirit. Bob had his hand in many different crafts, activities, and interests. Bob was not the type of person to take any interest lightly. Whatever he did, he worked tenaciously at it. He enjoyed building and flying model airplanes, RC cars, gardening, kite flying, archery, quilling, and photography. He built a model of the famous Jane’s Carousel under the Brooklyn Bridge which was featured in an edition of ScrollSaw Magazine. He also designed, created, and cut his own jigsaw puzzles out of wood. 

Bob’s hobbies were more than a leisurely activity, he was so engrossed in his interests, he wrote and published articles about them in various magazines. He was truly an “influencer” before the days of Instagram and TikTok. With respect to his magazine articles, companies would send him various products for Bob to use, review, and write about. Bob was also quite an accomplished cook and was famous by his family and friends for his Hot Pepper Flakes which he made from scratch.

Aside from all of Bob’s hobbies, interests, and talents, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Bob than providing for, and spending time with his children and grandchildren. He relished in his family vacations, camping trips, or just dancing in the living room. He and his wife Suzanne cherished 53 years of loving and loyal marriage. Bob was also a spiritual man and was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne with his family. 

Bob was a charming man, a gentleman, and the kind of person that could talk to anyone about anything. When someone needed help with something, he was glad to lend a hand. It was always certain that the people Bob was helping were going to learn something from him. Bob was blessed with a gift in being able to convey information to people and teach them. He also had the ability to captivate an audience of any age with his stories and explanations. 

Bob will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around him and will be missed by his family and friends. 

Robert is survived by his wife Suzanne (nee Waters) of Wayne, his four children; Sean Crane and his wife Janet of Westfield, NJ, Kim Hammermueller and her husband Kurt of Califon, NJ, Kristin Crane and her husband David Hansen of Providence, RI, and Jonathan Crane of Wayne, NJ, three grandchildren; Kayla Hammermueller, Aidan Crane, and Remington Crane. 

In lieu of flowers, donations to Wayne Township Memorial First Aide Squad would be greatly appreciated. www.waynefirstaid.com/donate.php

Caroline Frey (maiden name McAdam) passed away peacefully on July 9, 2023 at the age of 90.

She is survived by her devoted and loving husband of 71 years John I. Frey, her son, John W. Frey, and his partner, Susan Wiederman, of Clifton NJ, her daughter, Carolyn Baum, and her husband, Howard, of Green Pond, NJ and her sister, Theresa Sorrentino of Neshonic Station, NJ. She is also survived by her 4 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren; Glenn Frey, and his wife Torrey, who have children Kennedy and Sawyer residing in Austin, Texas; Brian Frey, and his wife, Lily, who have a son Jacob residing in Henderson, Nevada; Eric Baum, and his wife, Danielle, who have daughters Charlotte and Blake residing in Chicago, IL.; and Evan Baum, who resides in New York City. 

Caroline was born on June 15, 1933, in Brooklyn, New York, the daughter of William and Caroline McAdam, and was one of nine children. She met John when she was 16 and famously (at least in her family’s circle) turned down his date offer twice before finally accepting his third request. John’s perseverance paid off and they married on June 25, 1952. They shortly thereafter moved to Clifton where they built a life together. Caroline worked at the store Popular Merchandise in Passaic for over 20 years where she made some lifelong friends. In 1977, John and Caroline moved from Clifton to Wayne where they have lived together for the past 45+ years.

Faith and family were defining pillars in Caroline’s life. She was a devoted parishioner of Sacred Heart in Clifton and Our Lady of Consolation in Wayne. Caroline loved her grandchildren immensely and was an extremely active participant in their lives, even teaching a couple of them to ride bikes. She was renowned for her baking and cooking skills and her grandchildren could be frequently found huddled around her kitchen table for crepes, pancakes, and bacon for breakfast or family spaghetti Bolognese nights. Her famous tassies were legendary around the holidays! Caroline will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

Rosemary Halas, age 88, of Wayne, passed away on July 8, 2023. Rosemary is survived by her children: John (Susan) of Danville, CA, Karen (Daniel) Fern of Oakland, NJ, Kathleen (Matthew) Shoztic of Stamford, CT, Maribeth (Barry) Hastings of Greenville, NC and Thomas (Tracey) of North Arlington, NJ, and twelve beloved grandchildren: Paige, Derek, Aiden and Mason Halas, William and Bradley Fern, Zachary and Ryan Shoztic, and Jackson, Emma, Avery and Brady Hastings. She was preceded in death by her parents, Anna and John O’Malley, and husband, George Halas.

Rosemary, a 58-year resident of Wayne, was born and raised in Pennsylvania. Upon graduating from Meecha-Wyoming High School in 1952 and Misericordia University in 1956, Rosemary began her career as a registered dietician. She then went on to pursue a career in education and worked as an elementary school teacher in the City of Paterson and a culinary arts instructor at Passaic County Technical Institute in Wayne.

While she very much enjoyed teaching, her family and faith were always the cornerstones of her life. Rosemary was an amazing daughter, wife, mother and grandmother who lovingly and selflessly cared for her husband, children, grandchildren, parents and mother-in-law over the course of her adult life. She was a very skilled seamstress and a wonderful cook/baker who always made every occasion special. Rosemary was also a loyal fan of the New York Mets and Rutgers University athletics and spent many hours watching and rooting for her favorite teams alongside her husband, George. She enjoyed traveling and was an avid skier and member of the PasClif Ski Club where she met her lifelong love and devoted husband of 59 years.

Rosemary, and her husband, George, were two of the founding members of the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne. As an active church member, Rosemary served her parish and the surrounding community for many years as a eucharistic minister and a volunteer for the annual thanksgiving food drive and church picnic, the Annunciation Prime Timers Club, Eva’s Village and the Father English Community Center.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Rosemary’s memory to St. Jude Children's ResearchHospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or to Annunciation Church of the Blessed Virgin Mary, 45 Urban Club Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Frank Elefante, age 92, of Lincoln Park, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 6, 2023.

Frank was the sixth born child of Joseph and Victoria (DiGrazia) Elefante’s seven children. Born in New York City, he grew up in a railroad tenement home on 103rd Street in Harlem.

After graduating from high school, Frank worked several jobs, including for a premier clock maker in New York City named Mr. Froh, before finding his calling in the field of horticultural nurseries in 1950. Frank started as a delivery person for “Nielsen’s Flowers” on East 28th Street in the flower district of New York City. Soon after, his career with Nielsen’s ventured into plantscaping and holiday decorating before he moved into sales for the company. As a salesman his first challenge came from none other than a fellow company salesman who wanted all the sales success for himself and would not give Frank the company pricing. Frank met this challenge by employing a strategy of selling everything for pennies. It was a brilliant tactical move as it drove all the business to himself, undercut the other salesman and quickly got Mr. Nielsen’s attention. In the long run, Frank’s keen business acumen resulted in a long-term position for him and the other salesman was shown the door. In 1952, Franks boss purchased a 28-acre farm in Lincoln Park, NJ and started a horticultural nursery. Then, in 1958, he and his now nursery manager, Frank Elefante, were among the first pioneers in the Northeast to begin growing shrubs and trees in cans above the ground – making for greatly increased portability. In 1976, Mr. Nielsen retired and Frank took over and was joined by his eldest son, James --- and so began Nielsen-Elefante Nurseries. The business continues to the present and, while Frank officially retired, he still frequently showed up to work as recently as three weeks before his passing.

One night, Frank’s buddies dragged him out to a dance at a local church. He had to be dragged because he had just learned that his former girlfriend had just got engaged that day and Frank was feeling down. Little did he realize that his life would change forever that night when he had the pleasure of meeting a fine young lady named Vivian Vessichio  At the end of the evening, Frank offered Vivian a ride home and then he asked her for her number. Trying to be politely coy, she said she had nothing to write her number down on. Frank didn’t miss a beat. He pulled a cocktail napkin out of his pocket and suggested that Vivian write down her number with “that beautiful lipstick you’re wearing tonight.” It took three weeks before they went out on a date because, every time she returned his call, Frank’s mother, whose English was not so good, answered the phone and never got the message right that Vivian called. To make a long story just a tiny bit longer, they fell in love and married on January 23rd,  1955 at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in the Bronx, NY and honeymooned in the Poconos. Frank almost didn’t make the wedding because he went with his groomsman to Tavern on the Green the night before and had a little bit too good of a time.

Pardon the pun but, being a man in the nursery business, Frank put down deep roots in Lincoln Park. A resident since 1957, He served the town in various capacities including as the shade tree commissioner and, in  1968, he agreed to volunteer as a special Lincoln Park Police Reserves and Civil Defense Director. The town leaders sold him on the idea by convincing him that it was an easy job because nothing ever really happened. Then came the great floods of 1968 and all Frank had was a town-issued boat that would not float.

Frank volunteered for many years as a member of the Pequannock UNICO. UNICO was founded in 1922 to unite people of Italian heritage in an organization to perform charitable, patriotic and educational deeds. UNICO’s motto is “Service Above Self”. UNICO means “unique” or “only one of its kind” in Italian and additionally, the letters represent: U-Unity, N-Neighborliness, I-Integrity, C-Charity and O-Opportunity. This was an organization that upheld the great ideals that Frank believed in. He served valiantly and in 2021, he was awarded the UNICO Lifetime Achievement Award.

In his spare time, Frank enjoyed playing with his clocks – a lifelong love he derived from his work for Mr. Froh the clock maker as a young man. He liked putzing with his koi pond, trading stocks, and ballroom dancing with his beloved wife Vivian. Frank was an all-around well-loved man who made friends wherever he went. He was well-known for telling jokes and great stories. He also wrote poetry and even wrote his autobiography – a treasure his children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and further generations will enjoy forever.

Frank was the beloved husband of Vivian (Vessichio), blessed in a cherished marriage until her passing in 2007. He was the dear father of: James and wife Debbie Elefante of Lincoln Park, Andrew Elefante and wife Donna of Lincoln Park, Joseph Elefante of Pompton Plains, and Gina McKenna and husband John of Lincoln Park; dear brother of: Jim Elefante, Lucy Elefante, Mike Elefante, Anne Damico, and Joe Elefante, all predeceased, and Toni Tantillo and husband Frank of North Hills; adored grandfather of Daniel, Anna, Alexis, and Ryan Elefante and the late Luke Warbeck; and adoring great-grandfather of Charlie and Nora Elefante. He is also survived by numerous, nieces, nephews, and cousins.

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Frank’s name are asked to consider two charitable organizations that were close to Frank’s heart:

UNICO National

271 US-46 F103

Fairfield, NJ 07004

If you donate to UNICO online, please take the time to send an email to UnicoNational@UNICO.org to indicate that you made a donation in Frank Elefante's memory. This will ensure that Unico can let his family know of your generosity. Thanks.

Wounded Warrior Project

P.O. Box 78516

Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516

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Nancy L. McDonnell (nee Shaw), age 85, passed on Tuesday, July 4, 2023.

Nancy was born in Philadelphia, PA, the only child to the late Nellie and Fred Shaw on April 11, 1938 and was a member of Woodland Baptist Church.

During her childhood, Nancy had a love of tennis and the Girls Scouts. She continued both activities throughout her life. When she was a teenager, she traveled the country for six weeks with her Girl Scout Troop visiting many of the National Parks and Monuments. Her love of all sports developed into a career as a Physical Education Teacher.

Nancy attended Beaver College and eventually earned her Master’s Degree from Montclair State College and became a teacher. One of her first experiences as a teacher was in Wyckoff, NJ.  In New Jersey, she became a member of Preakness Baptist Church in Wayne, as her faith was always the center of her life.

She met and fell in love with fellow Wyckoff  teacher, Gerard McDonnell. They married in 1966. They bought a home in Pequannock to raise their four children.  While Jerry pursued his Doctorate and career advancement, Nancy stayed home with the children. She volunteered for the Pequannock Board of Education, where she ran the physical education programs. She also taught once a week at St. Anthony’s School in Butler. In furthering her own education, she took a class which introduced her to upholstery, which included sewing, one of her favorite hobbies. In her enjoyment of giving an old piece of furniture new life, she started a small business out of her home reupholstering for clients. She combined her love of teaching and this new talent to facilitate expanding upholstery into the adult education program in the local communities. Her clients only came through referrals, as her artistry for the field was remarkable.

She instilled a strong sense of faith and having fun in life by the many family outings including New York Yankees games, holidays with family, visiting the local sights, and the weeks each year in Ocean Isle Beach, North Carolina. Later in life she owned property at that beach to continue the tradition of family and fun.

Her hobbies included crafts of all kinds, including making the centerpieces for her daughter's weddings. She also enjoyed cooking, and while looking through recipe books was able to create new dishes that have become family favorites. 

In her later years, she worked at Country Furniture, which became Fireside Furniture. There, she worked part time for the Gift Shop, where she assisted in the staging and decorating of rooms. She worked there for fifteen years, until she turned 80, and enjoyed every moment. 

Through the years while raising their children, Nancy became an important part of Preakness Baptist Church, where she led many Sunday School Classes and began working with the senior congregants. She eventually founded the ‘Young at Heart’ group for the church, in which she ministered to the aging population, ran activities, and even provided in-home services. Another outreach program that she began at Preakness Baptist Church was ‘Soup for the Soul’ that ran each year through the Lenten period to provide spiritual and physical nourishment for the community at large. At that time, she also became a volunteer for the Baptist Home Society in Paterson. It is during these years that her most important friendships were formed. The Baptist Home eventually became The Cliffs at Eagle Rock, where she was a board member for many years.

In 2021, she decided it was her time to make The Cliff’s in West Orange her new home, remaining on the Board of Directors until her passing..

Nancy is survived by her children Margaret (Peggy) Denequolo, Timothy McDonnell, Elizabeth (Betsy) Botbyl, and Amy Meyer, and her sons-in-laws Ronald Denequolo and Ronald Meyer. In addition, she had 6 grandchildren, Douglas Denequolo, Danielle Denequolo, Jerilyn Meyer, Jenifer Meyer, Liam McDonnell and Magdelena McDonnell. She also welcomed a great-grandchild In June 2023, Isabella Denequolo.

Nancy is predeceased by her husband in 1989, Gerard McDonnell, her parents, Nellie and Fred Shaw, and her son-in-law, Todd Botbyl.

Mae Pepe, age 92, of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, July 2, 2023, surrounded by her children and grandchildren.  Mae was born to Thomas and Angelina Grossi on January 7, 1931, in Paterson, NJ.  She graduated from Central High School and soon after, married Florie Pepe, of Wyoming, Pennsylvania.  

Shortly after having their first child, Florie and Mae moved to Wayne, where they raised their three children, Patricia, Gregory, and David, sending each of them to catholic elementary and high schools and then on to colleges of their own choosing.  In addition to raising her own children, Mae cherished spending time with her three brothers and three sisters, Bette, Jimmy, Rosie, Lou, Tommy, and Emmie.  And through her altruistic nature, she treated their spouses and children as if they were her own - Sam (wed to Bette), Patricia (wed to Lou), Ralph (wed to Rosie) and especially much like a fourth sister to her, Alice (wed to Thomas).

Contrary to social norms, in the 1950’s and 1960’s, Mae began working as a bookkeeper at Nu-Dye in Paterson, as she and Florie raised their family.  She attended William Paterson University part time for business, prior to being hired to work in the accounting departments at both GAF and Becton Dickinson.  Mae officially retired from Becton Dickinson at the age of 62.  However, in true Mae fashion, she knew that keeping busy was important to staying healthy.  She began working for Sterns (renamed Macy’s) in the Wayne Preakness Mall, on a part-time basis.  She officially ended her working career at 87 years old, when Macy’s finally shut their doors.

Mae and Florie were blessed with five grandchildren - Michael Pepe (wife Regina), Lori Schmatz (husband Pete) and Kristin Pepe, children of Gregory (wife Judy), Rebecca Cecala (husband Patrick) daughter of Patricia, and Amanda Pepe, daughter of David (wife Doris).  In addition, they were also blessed with nine great-grandchildren.  As family was so very important to her, Mae always made sure to never miss a birthday party, a gathering, or any outing if it was within her ability to do so.  She was always present, always positive, and grateful for her blessings. 

One of Mae’s greatest pleasures was spending time at the Jersey shore, with her family.  You could often find Mae sitting outside of her beach house, breathing in the saltwater air, and listening to the Yankee game on the radio.  And if she wasn’t there, she would have been at the dining room table, playing cards with her great-grandsons or completing puzzles, which she continued to enjoy until the very end.

Very rarely would Mae take the lead in a situation, but she certainly led by example.  It was always important to her that everyone felt loved and welcomed.  And even in times of struggle and adversity, Mae always demonstrated grace, compassion, and forgiveness.  She never gave herself enough credit for her knowledge and wisdom that she inadvertently imparted to others.  She never acknowledged the profound influence that she had on those who were blessed enough to know her, as she always remained humble.  However, her legacy and the impact that she had on her family and friends will continue to live on in our hearts and minds.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the American Heart Association would be greatly appreciated.  www.heart.org

Dana Marie Bateman (nee Many), aged 42, of Oak Ridge died on July 2nd 2023.

She grew up in Dumont and also lived in Wayne, Wanaque and South Hackensack, ultimately moving to Oak Ridge in 2018.

Dana is survived by Mark, her loving husband of 19 years and her children Evan and Sarah ages 18 and 11 respectively. She is also survived by her mother, Frances Many Harris, her sister Brenda Many, and her stepfather Dwight Harris.

Dana met her future husband Mark on the day they both began work at Pompton Honda in 2002. They became fast friends and were soon inseparable. They moved in together and before long were married in 2004 and were happily blessed with the birth of their son, Evan.

In 2011, they moved to South Hackensack, where they welcomed their daughter Sarah. Dana was so very happy when she found out that she would be having a baby girl.

Dana was truly an amazing woman who loved riding horses as a young girl, a love she passed on to her daughter Sarah. She also loved riding four-wheelers (faster than most guys!) and went on to own several street bikes which she loved to ride, a passion which she passed to her son Evan.

She was truly a confident and fearless individual yet also thoughtful, caring and there when needed. We were all lucky to have had the opportunity to know and love her.

In 2018 Dana moved with her family to Oak Ridge New Jersey into her dream house in the country which she worked hard to transform from just a house into a true family home.

She will be greatly missed by her family and friends and probably anyone who ever met her.

To say that she was amazing, unique and beautiful is an understatement. We will miss her so much, and she will always and forever be in our hearts.

Rest in well-deserved peace and serenity.                                       

Good night, Dana

Ann Catherine (Koenig) Biancheri passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her family, on July 2, 2023 at the age of 92.

Ann is survived by Eugene, her loving husband of nearly 65 years, her children Elizabeth Smith and her husband Daniel, Eugene, Jr. and his wife Barbara, Paul, Catherine Danial and her husband Alfred, Philip and his wife Portia, and Maria and her husband Steven De Paul, her grandchildren Rachel Alberque and her husband Michael, Rebecca Smith, Gabrielle Smith, Josef Danial, Genevieve Danial, Marco Danial, Phoebe Biancheri, Julian Biancheri, and Greer Biancheri. She is predeceased by her parents Herman and Lillian Koenig and her sister Lucille Spire. She leaves behind her sister Lillian von Brockdorff and her husband Harold, as well as a host of nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Born in the Bronx, Ann was known in the family as the “charming child.” She attended Mount St. Ursula Academy, and then the College of New Rochelle where she majored in art. After graduation, she got a job at Reader’s Digest, which she loved. As a young woman, she volunteered at St. Vincent’s Hospital in NYC. Ann met Gene on a blind date and knew he was “the one.”

Ann was a resident of Wayne, New Jersey and a member of the Our Lady of Consolation parish for over 50 years. She started the pre-school program at OLC and taught there for 17 years. Upon retirement, she started a Rainbows program for the parish, a counseling program for children grieving the loss of a parent. Ann had a wonderful singing voice and was in the church choir for over 30 years. In 2016, together with her husband, Ann received the Vivere Christus award from the Diocese of Paterson in recognition of a lifetime of service.

A talented artist, Ann worked in pastel, pencil, stained glass, sculpture, and felt. She enjoyed entertaining for family and friends and she had the loveliest smile and the most infectious laugh. Ann was a wonderful wife and mother, generous, loving, and devoted. She lived a life of faith, family, and service, and she will be greatly missed.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Rainbows for All Children are greatly appreciated. 

Rainbows for All Children

614 Dempster Street

Suite C

Evanston, IL 60202

George Joseph Kaplow, age 76, of Bloomingdale, NJ, passed peacefully on July 1,2023 after a long hospitalization, with his family at his side.

George was born to Albert and Mildred Kaplow, (Formerly Mildred Selzer) on Jun 4, 1947. George’s father was a pharmacist who owned his own pharmacy and popular soda shop. His other was a teacher in the local school district on a part time basis.

He grew up in North Bergen NJ and attended North Bergen High School, where he was a member of a band that performed locally. He later attended New York University where he earned an Associate Degree in Applied Science in Respiratory Therapy.

After graduation he worked for many years at St. Barnabas Hospital in Livingston, NJ, working primarily in the Burn Unit and the NICU.  He later became Assistant Director of Respiratory Therapy at United Hospital in Newark, NJ. After he married, he went to work for Siemens Corporation as a Sales Professional, selling hyperbaric chambers and ventilators; a job he enjoyed very much, despite the large amount of travel involved. He lastly worked for Community Surgical in Tom’s River, NJ until he retired due to the pandemic.

George met and later married the former Anne Dommermuth. They met at St. Barnabas, where Anne was a nurse in the NICU. They later worked together at United Hospital and decided that after 5 years together it was time they got married and start a family. They were married on October 16, 1981, at the home of Anne’s sister and brother-in-law, Doctor Robert and Susan DeBenedetto. The ceremony was performed by the then Mayor of Roseland, NJ. After a 2-day honeymoon, they returned to work as a married couple, to the surprise of their coworkers. They had been married forty-one years at the time of George’s death.

They were blessed with the birth of their daughter, Danielle Elizabeth, on August 27, 1986. George was 39 at the time of her birth and was instantly in love with her. Prior to her birth, he enjoyed racquetball, cooking, music and cars. He adored his daughter and enjoyed taking her to visit family, playing Mario Kart and other similar games (which Danielle usually won), going for ice cream, and in later years they shared many pizzas together while watching game shows on TV. They both loved music and even performed a clarinet duet at the school’s talent show.

George was very supportive of his wife through several chronic illnesses and multiple back surgeries. She will miss his love and support forever.

George was preceded in death by his parents and is survived by his wife, Anne; his daughter, Danielle Elizabeth Kaplowe; his brother, Stephen and his wife Susan Kaplowe, and many nieces and nephews on both his and his wife’s sides.

Ralph Cicetti, age 50 of Wayne passed away very unexpectedly on Saturday July 1, 2023

Ralph was born in Belleville at Clara Maas hospital on April 22, 1973 with his fraternal twin brother Donald, Jr. to Donald Sr and Colette Cicetti. He was raised in Stephen Crane Village in Newark and graduated from Essex County Vocational Technical High School in 1993.

Ralph began his career as a mosquito inspector for Essex County Public Works in 1998 thru 2020 and was most recently employed by Mosquito Shield in West Orange.

Ralph was loving, caring, funny and kind-hearted. He loved cooking and baking, especially his Christmas cookies which included his grandmother’s recipe for pignoli cookies. He loved his sports, including Yankees Baseball and Nascar. He was the most avid Minnesota Vikings football fan and a season ticket holder to the New Jersey Devils hockey team. He was truly a “fanatic”. He loved being with his friends at dinners, parties and social gatherings.

Ralph met his wife Cheryl thru going to the New Jersey Devils hockey games, where they both held season tickets separately. Ralph would bring his nephew Gary and Cheryl would bring her nephew Jack. They would occasionally meet for the warm-ups for the team , or see each other at team events,  and pass each other on the concourse, until Ralph finally asked her out for dinner. They were married on August 30, 2015 to a New Jersey Devils themed wedding and reception. They have now been season ticket holders together for 20 years.

Ralph is pre-deceased by his father Donald Cicetti, Sr and his mother-in-law Pat Sisco

Ralph is survived by his loving wife Cheryl (Sisco) of Wayne, his mother Colette Cicetti, brother Donald, Jr. and sister Gina Cicetti (formerly Falzarano) , all of Toms River. His father-in-law Arnold Sisco, sister-in-law Laurie Palatucci and her husband Angelo. Nephews, Gary Falzarano and his wife Marissa, Anthony Palatucci and his wife Lauren, Nick Palatucci and Jack Palatucci. Nieces, Antonia Mages and her husband Alex, Taylor Cicetti and his god-daughter Gia Falzarano. Great nephew Salvatore Falzarano and great niece Anella Mages. His aunts, uncles , and cousins.

To assist Cheryl with these unexpected circumstances, please click HERE to donate to the GoFundMe campaign. Any amount is truly and gratefully appreciated. 

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Patricia A. Longo, age 74, of Wayne NJ.

Patricia passed away peacefully on Friday, June 30, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Patricia was born in Paterson and raised in Wanaque, NJ.  She was the youngest of three children to Rosario and Della Longo.  Those who came to know Patricia best, affectionately referred to her as “Patty.”  

Patty attended Lakeland Regional High School and graduated with the class of 1966.  Immediately following her graduation from high school, Patty found work quickly as a secretary in accounting at American Cyanamid in Wayne, NJ.  Years later, while Patty was still working with American Cyanamid, a new company was created through them called Cytec.  Patty accepted a position with Cytec in Woodland Park, NJ and remained employed with them until her retirement in 2013.  

Patty at first lived in Haskell, NJ and after her father’s passing she moved to Hawthorne, NJ with her mom.  While living in Hawthorne her mom passed away.  Patty remained in Hawthorne until 2013 when she moved to Wayne following her retirement and has been there ever since.    

Throughout her life, Patty was truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  While living in Haskell, she was a parishioner of St Francis Catholic Church.  She was also a parishioner of St Anthony Catholic Church in Hawthorne and most recently a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church after moving to Wayne about ten years ago.  

Patty truly enjoyed cooking and baking.  She was famous through her family and friends for her Christmas cookies.  She also loved to knit and sew.  She knitted blankets, sweaters, and hats for her nieces and nephews and her friends every time there was an announcement of a birth.  She also treasured shopping at various Shopping Outlet locations.  She took great pride in saving money and being extremely thrifty.  

Aside from all of Patty’s hobbies and interests, her greatest passion was for her family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Patty than spending time with those she loved.  Patty was a quiet sweet lady, easy going, and made friends wherever she went. She was always able to see the good in everyone she met and never had a bad word to say about anyone.  Patty will be truly missed by her family and friends.

Patty is survived by her brother George Longo and his wife Elissa of Toms River, NJ, two nieces; her goddaughter Doreen Longo of Toms River, and Lisa Marie Longo Cavico and her husband Stephen of Brick Township, NJ, one grandniece Diana Cavico of Brick Township, NJ  and her dear friend Bruce Vivino of Wayne, NJ.  She was predeceased by her sister Joan D’Alessio.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Patricia’s name may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org 

Edna Antionette Malyack, age 61, of Wayne passed Thursday June 29th, 2023, with the comfort of family by her side.

On June 13, 1962, Edna was born in Msida, Malta to Stella Runza and was adopted by John and Esther Galea in Manhattan, New York. Interestingly, the building they lived in was owned by actor Ben Gazzara’s mother who, along with Ben sometimes, would babysit for her.  The family then bought a house in Astoria, Queens, where Edna ultimately graduated from Mater Christi H.S. in the Class of 1980.  She took on many jobs, including McDonald’s, Citibank, Apple Bank, Swingline, and the Bibb Company ultimately completing her Secretarial Degree from Drake Business School in 1987.

Edna met the love of her life, Christopher, briefly after high school in a bowling alley (she became a very good bowler, incidentally.) . They immediately fell in love and were married on July 28th, 1990 at Saint Francis Roman Catholic Church in Astoria, Queens, New York with a reception at Roslyn Country Club. They honeymooned in the Poconos, Pennsylvania, at Cove Haven where they won a couples billiards competition and spent their time relaxing together at the resort. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 33 years.

An industrious and relentless worker, she took on second jobs many times throughout her working history.  Edna worked as a waitress at Uno’s, and did home typing for an insurance company while working these other positions.   Upon the birth of her first child, Colette, in 1994 she switched her career trajectory to homemaker with the intention of focusing on raising her children and caring for her mother-in-law. She gave birth to a second child, Joseph, in 1997.  When she did return to working part-time she drew her attention to jobs in the community ranging from bowling alley assistant to school bus driver. Her final position before being placed on disability was at Jordan Transportation.

Edna was loving, caring, and devoted to her family and closest friends. Without hesitation she would provide support to those nearest and dearest to her. She was a great cook, world traveler, and a jack of all trades willing to participate in any hobby or activity presented to her. Without fear Edna would challenge herself and others to grow and take advantage of every opportunity, no matter how frightening. Her personality and presence brought a brightness to every family outing and friendly get together.

As mentioned before, Edna and Chris’ marriage was blessed with two children; Colette and Joseph. Edna was a devoted and compassionate mother. Always wanting the best for her children and unafraid to fight for them no matter the personal cost. She left a mark on the lives of all who met her. Her immeasurable strength in the face of hardships and positive outlook in the worst scenarios is a lasting inspiration to all.

She is survived by her husband, Christopher, her daughter Colette, son-in-law John Paul, son Joseph, future daughter-in-law Abbey, mother-in-law Yvonne, and countless friends and other relatives.

 In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the National Scleroderma Foundation, 300 Rosewood Dr., Suite 105, Danvers, MA 01923, or the Pulmonary Hypertension Association, 8401 Colesville Rd, Suite 200, Silver Spring, MD 20910 would be greatly appreciated.

Sharon Ann Gough, age 64, of Wayne passed Thursday, June 29, 2023, surrounded by her family.

Sharon was born to Albert and Ruth Backus and grew up in Pompton Lakes, NJ. After graduating high school she was employed by the US Postal Service.  Unbeknownst to her, she was working with her future father-in-law who set them up on their first date in 1979. After 3 years she married the love of her life, Kurt Gough. They started building their beautiful life together and welcomed their pride and joy into the world, their son Michael, in 1986. 

Sharon proudly graduated from William Paterson University with her Bachelors of Science in Nursing in 1995. She began her beloved career as a Registered Nurse and was well known for her passionate, caring, and loving nature. She worked in various disciplines until finding her calling in oncology. After 15 years Sharon began working at Saint Joseph’s Hospital in Wayne, where she worked closely with co-worker and friend Dr. Stephan Dorkhom until her passing. Her co-workers and patients were like family.

Sharon joined the Wayne First Aid Squad in 1999 (member number: 391) where she proudly donated her time to serve the community. She was a very active member in this organization and was involved in running many tricky trays and wet downs. This organization became a family affair when her husband and son joined her and they would take many calls together. She was recognized as EMT of the Year in 2007 and honorably received the prestigious Kathleen Bolan Memorial Award in 2008.

Sharon was well known for her love of cooking and baking; she could spend all day in the kitchen. She enjoyed playing bingo and going to the casino to win the big one and enjoyed fishing to catch the big one. Sharon loved her annual trips to Florida, where she was always on the hunt to find a new casino. She enjoyed sewing. She had a love for animals, loved to watch the deer and feed the birds off her deck. She especially loved her poodles (AKA “The Girls”), Katie and Ally.

Sharon is survived by her husband, Kurt; her son Mike and his wife Amanda; her brother-in-law Wayne and his wife Linda of Hackettstown; and her brother Albert and his wife Kimberly of Kinnelon. Sharon also leaves behind a niece, nephews, cousins, and many friends. She was predeceased by her parents, Albert Backus, Sr. and Ruth Backus (Barkenbush). 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated. (https://www.waynefirstaid.com/donate.php)

Ruth Lois Carlson, age 89, of Wayne NJ passed away peacefully surrounded by loved ones. 

Ruth was born to Cornelia (Katie) and Cornelius Grinwis on August 13, 1933, the youngest of five children.  She graduated Clifton High School where she met Lorraine Sager, a lifelong friend and fellow adventurer, and her husband, Allen Carlson.  She continued her education at Passaic General Nursing School. 

Ruth’s professional career spanned many aspects of nursing, from doctor’s offices to Labor & Delivery, to Visiting Nurse to Utilization Review.  She retired from Preakness Hospital in 1999 where she was Infection Control/Quality Assurance Director.  Ruth’s passion for nursing encompassed all areas of her life.  She used her nursing skills on anyone who needed help and shared her medical knowledge freely. 

Ruth loved spending time with family and friends.  Her door was open to all.  Her Christmas Open House parties were legendary, along with her famous sausage peppers and onions.  During the summer months she spent many days by her pool where, again, all were welcome. 

If Ruth wasn’t home at her pool, she was at the beach.  Every summer she would pack up her kids and any willing participant and drive to Gulf Shores, Alabama to her sister Grace’s beach house.  She would visit Freeport, Bahamas with Lorraine every winter.  Later in life she would spend summers with her children and grandchildren at Myrtle Beach and the Jersey Shore.   She travelled extensively in the Caribbean.  Most sunsets she would crack open an ice cold canned beer on the beach and savor the moment. 

Ruth’s passport was filled with stamps from Egypt, Greece, Netherlands, Turkey, Belgium, Australia, New Zealand, Fiji, and Africa. She white water rafted on the Zambezi River (grade 5) in her 70’s.  She enjoyed travelling to many Western states with her boyfriend Don Fissel, Lorraine, and other friends.  She had no qualms about travelling alone – if there was somewhere she wanted to go, she went.  

Ruth’s hobbies included bridge, tennis, bowling, reading, scrabble, doing crosswords, and ping pong.  She owned multitudes of cats; at one time she had 16, including rescued feral cats.  She was a talented artist and her oil paintings are displayed throughout her home. 

Ruth lived in Packanack Lake for 56 years and loved the community.  She was known as Dr. Ruth for her frank and open conversation.  She had a quick wit and a wry sense of humor.  She made an indelible impression on everyone she encountered. 

Ruth was a loving and supportive mom to Cathy, Tommy and Barbara and an adoring mema to James, Samantha and Katie.  She was an amazing Aunt Ruth to numerous nieces and nephews and a great friend and confidant to many. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroads, Wayne NJ or the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne NJ, would be appreciated. 

Mary L. Carlon, age 92, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 26, 2023.  Born on July 15, 1930, in Orange, NJ.  She was the oldest daughter to the late Charles and Catherine Schauder. 

Mary Lou, as she was affectionately known, grew up in Bloomfield, NJ and attended Immaculate Conception High School in Montclair, where she was active on the Girls Varsity Basketball team.  

After high school, Mary Lou went on to attend Berkeley Secretarial School where she obtained a degree as an Executive Assistant.  Mary Lou worked briefly for Prudential Insurance and then became the secretary and bookkeeper for her husband’s business for over 30 years.   She would use her shorthand skills to keep the children’s Christmas lists a secret.  

As all great New Jersey love stories began, Mary Lou and Jim met one night at a Jersey Shore bar called Campbells Evans in Belmar.  Jim offered to buy Mary Lou a drink and they hit it off, starting a lifetime of memories. 

Mary Lou and Jim married on November 26th, 1955, at St. Thomas Church in Bloomfield, NJ and honeymooned in Florida.  Dinner time was always important to Marylou and Jim, demanding the family eat together.  There was always room at the table for many guests.  Mary Lou and Jim spent 58 years devoted to each other, their family and faith until Jim’s passing in 2013.  

One of Mary Lou’s favorite Christmas traditions, carried on from her mother, was buying a special Christmas ornament for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.  Each ornament would be unique to each child and depict a special event that happened in their lives during that year.  Everyone would rush to the Christmas tree to find their name on the special ornament.  Those annual ornaments adorn each one of their own Christmas trees as a tribute to their parent and grandmother.  

Mary Lou was one of the founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church.  Her Catholic Faith was very important to her.  She volunteered in the cafeteria while her children were attending school and she worked hot dog Day and McDonalds day.   Mary Lou was involved with the Rosary Society, the Prayer Shawl Ministry and Seniors Unlimited.  She also volunteered in the Parish office, answering the phone, doing mailings and preparing the weekly bulletins for mass.  Fr. Wolsin and Fr. Michael knew that Mary Lou and Jim were always willing to help in any aspect that was needed.  

Mary Lou also volunteered at Chilton Hospital for over 25 years, working the front desk and other jobs that volunteers were assigned. 

Mary Lou was a diehard Giants fan, Notre Dame fan, and Mets fan and would spend late nights on the phone talking to her grandchildren and texting them about the game.

Mary Lou is survived by her 8 children: Kathleen Bionde and her husband Jim (Pompton Plains), Ann Feeney and her husband Kevin (Pequannock), Patti Ringen and her husband Jeff (Pompton Plains), Jim Carlon and his wife Dawn (Allentown, PA), Elizabeth Stockinger (Pompton Plains), Michael Carlon and his wife Joanne (Pompton Plains), Mary Thomas and her husband Ben (Pequannock), and John Carlon and his wife Jenene (Pequannock); along with her 26 grandchildren and 16 great grandchildren – the first Carlon great grandchild will be coming in September of 2023!  Mary Lou is also survived by her sister-in-law Ruth Ellen Schauder and many nieces and nephews. 

Mary Lou is predeceased by her parents: Catherine and Charles Schauder; her husband James Carlon, her siblings Charles (Bud) Schauder and his wife Eileen, Donald Schauder, Gertrude Brennan and her husband Bill, 6 nieces and nephews and one great grandchild Amelia. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to Atlantic Health Visiting Nurse Hospice and Ecuador Quilt are greatly appreciated. 

In Loving Memory of
Sharon Farnon
1946-2023

Sharon Farnon, Age 76, passed away on Sunday June 25th 2023 at Cleveland Tradition Hospital in Stuart Florida with family at her side. Born in Iowa the youngest daughter of Milton-Stevenson, later moving to Wayne New Jersey and marrying her husband Robert J. Farnon, before retiring together to Port St. Lucie Florida in 2002. 

She pursued a career in finance, where she flourished eventually reaching and retiring as the regional manager for PNC Banks in New Jersey. It was through her career connections she also met Robert Farnon, the love of her life. They married in 1988 and shared many happy years together. Sharon was an avid golfer and past member of the Upper Montclair Country Club in Clifton, and PGA Country Club in Port St. Lucie. She enjoyed mahjong, mystery novels, watching British television, and was also a loyal supporter and contributing member of the St. Jude Children’s Foundation. Most of all Sharon loved her family, and cherished the time she spent with them. 

Mrs. Farnon is survived by her three daughters Catherine Mendel, Donna Gedra, and Kristin Farnon-Szieber, her ten grandchildren, two great grandchildren, and her sister Joan Stevenson Rusk. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Robert J. Farnon, and one daughter Suzanne Farnon-Walker. 

In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Sharon’s name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital. 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. 

Jarret William Smith, age 44, of Wayne, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Friday, June 23, 2023.

Born to William and Patricia (Stanisci) Smith in Livingston, NJ, Jarret spent his formative years in Bloomfield, where he forged lifelong friendships with whom he cherished as brothers. A graduate of Bloomfield High School, Jarret was an integral part of the school's soccer team. He furthered his education at Seton Hall University, graduating with the Class of 2001 and earning a Bachelor's Degree in Graphic Design.

Throughout his entire life, Jarret worked in the automotive industry, fueled by his passion for cars and his genuine desire to help others. His dedication and entrepreneurial spirit led him to establish a successful business within the industry.

Jarret was known for his loving and caring nature, always putting his family and friends first. He dedicated his life to supporting his loved ones and worked tirelessly to build a bright future for them. Whether it was lending a helping hand or offering a listening ear, Jarret was always there, selflessly assisting those in need without expecting anything in return. His remarkable character and unwavering devotion earned him the status of a brother to many. Jarret found immense joy in gathering his loved ones together, creating an atmosphere of happiness, laughter, and unforgettable memories.

Thirteen years ago, Jarret met the love of his life, Amy. Their marriage on September 21, 2019, was a testament to their devoted and loving relationship. Jarret eagerly anticipated the arrival of their son, due in September. He also cherished his daily walks with Charlie, their beloved Labrador, and the cozy moments spent snuggling on the couch with both Amy and Charlie.

Jarret is survived by his beloved wife Amy (Stack) and their soon-to-be-born son (due September). Predeceased by his father, William Smith. He is also survived by his mother, Patricia (Stanisci) Smith, father-in law and mother-in-law John and Carol Stack, sister Heather (Betty)  Smith-Bermudez, brother-in-law Michael (Christine) Stack, uncle to Yazmine, Ashley, Trisha, Jack, and Timothy, and great uncle to Luis, as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, family, and friends.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests memorial donations to Jarret's Smith's Go Fund Me page, which would be greatly appreciated in this difficult time.

Jarret's sudden departure leaves a void in the lives of those who knew and loved him. May his spirit live on through the cherished memories he leaves behind, and may his soul find eternal peace.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Jarret's Go Fund Me page would be greatly appreciated.

Hortencia Rizzo Andrade, was a dedicated and devoted homemaker and a life-long resident of Guayaquil, Ecuador.  The importance of her family and friends were her main priority in life and she led by example of how to be the matriarch of the family.

Hortencia was born in Salitre, Ecuador on July 25, 1927 to her father Abel Felipe Rizzo, and mother, Carmen Andrade. Hortencia had a smile that would simply light up a room. She had a warmth that would make you feel like you belonged and a love that would always bring comfort. Her house was always open, and she welcomed everyone with open arms as they were family. She had a passion for gardening, singing, gambling, and cooking. Hortencia’s favorite thing to do was to be with her family and friends. There was nothing better than being surrounded by people she loved, creating memories, and having a little bit of Johnnie Walker Blue to celebrate all that life had to offer.

Hortencia leaves behind her three beloved daughters, Marlene Ragusca, Bianca Vanderbeck, Pilar Sanchez and her husband Adan Sanchez, her sister Gladys Rizzo, and five adored grandchildren, Bonnie Watts and her husband Eric Watts, Bianca Erika Bayley husband David Bayley, Adrian Sanchez, Sebastian Sanchez, and Luciano Sanchez.

Lastly, she was able to have many cherished memories with her 4 great grandchildren Gabriella Watts, Brandon Watts, Gavin Bayley, and Preston Bayley.

Our Dad, Joseph J. Sandi age 100 of Wayne, passed away Monday June 19, 2023.

Joseph was the seventh child born to Vincent and Maria in 1923 in NYC, NY. His siblings, who predeceased him were Eleanor, Marie, Angelo, Sisto, Louis and Salvatore.

He attended college and graduated with a B.S. degree in accounting. Joseph was passionate about his work and pursued work as an Accountant with the Union Carbide Corporation where he worked at several of their office locations for 39 years, having finished his career having retired from their Tarrytown, NY offices.

Joseph was in the Army during WWII along with his brothers. Sadly, Sisto and Angelo died in the war. Because WWII was coming to an end, and Joseph’s family had sacrificed two children, the Army Honorably Discharged Joseph in September of 1943, ahead of his service obligation.

After his discharge he went to the hospital for surgery where he met the love of his life, Ruth who he affectionately called his “girlfriend” through the years. Sometime later after they were married (they were married 67 years) they were blessed with two children Cheryl and John.

Joseph was a man who truly enjoyed his retirement.  He spent much of his time working in the yard, taking walks with his wife, and traveling to new and exciting places.  He loved spending time with his family and was always excited to celebrate many events with them. He enjoyed working with numbers, so it wasn’t unusual to hear him help friends with tax questions. He loved to play golf and had a growing collection of coins that he was proud of.  Joseph enjoyed life to the fullest and cherished every moment he had with his loved ones.

Joseph was not only dedicated to his family but also his community. He was a member a Lifetime of the American Legion 50 years, Golden Age Circle of Wayne 39 years and a former member of the Wayne First Aid Squad (exempt member).

Joseph was predeceased by his wife Ruth(d.2015) and his six siblings. He is survived by his daughter Cheryl, son John and daughter-in-law Janet.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ, 07474 would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Charles R. DeBrock of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Charles passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 18, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in his family home in Hawthorne, NJ and was the youngest of ten children to Peter and Amelia DeBrock.  Charles’ mother had passed away while he was a young boy.  These circumstances led him to move in with his sister Elenore and other siblings for various periods of time.

He attended Central High School in Paterson and graduated with the class of 1948.  Following his high school graduation, Charles felt it in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army.  While serving in the US Army, Charles was stationed at Fort Knox in Kentucky where he was assigned as an LT VEH Driver.  Charles was awarded the Korean Service Medal, three Bonze Service Stars, the United Nations Service Medal, as well as the National Defense Service Medal.  Charles served honorably and proudly in the US Army from 1951 to 1953.  

After his honorable discharge from the armed forces, Charles found work quickly with Erie Railroad where he worked for several years.  He took advantage of the GI Bill and went to school at night and earned his bachelor’s degree in accounting.  Subsequent to earning his degree in Accounting, Charles again found employment quickly with Trans Colonial Trucking located in Suffern, NY.  Charles’ career with Trans Colonial spanned more than twenty years.  Following the closing of Trans Colonial, Charles accepted an accounting position with Walter Bauman Jeweler in West Orange, NJ.  He later earned his Real Estate License and was employed with Stoney Brook Realty in Towaco until his retirement in 1995.  Charles continued working part time in Real Estate for many years after his official retirement.

As a young man, Charles met an attractive young lady who worked in the State Employment Office named Carmela Ciarla.  At first Carmela wasn’t interested in Charles and was trying to fix him up with one of her friends, however, they agreed to go out on a date together to see a Rock Hudson movie.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and they became husband and wife in 1955 at St. Anthony’s RC Church.  They settled in Wayne, NJ after getting married and while residing there, they welcomed the births of all five of their children.  After raising their family in Wayne, in 1977 Charles and Carmela moved to Pompton Plains where they remained for the rest of their lives.  

Charles was a truly devoted husband and dedicated himself to caring for his wife Carmela when she fell ill.  Charles and Carmela cherished their fifty-seven years in their loving and loyal marriage together until Carmela’s passing in December of 2012.  

Charles enjoyed the art of woodworking, oil painting and took delight in fresh water fishing.  He was an outstanding cook and loved to bake.  He was famous by family and friends for his Peach Tart and his Chocolate Chocolate cake.  He was also a devoted New York Giants fan.  But aside from all of Charles’ talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Charles than providing for and spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  Charles was not only dedicated to his family but also to his Catholic Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of Our Lady of Good Counsel RC Church in Pompton Plains for many years.  

Charles will forever be remembered as a humble man who was liked by everyone that met him.  He was funny, uplifting to others, and often times selfless.  He always had a positive attitude and was able to see the good in people.  He had an infectious personality that left an impression on all those around him.  Charles will be sincerely missed by his family and friends. Including his girlfriend Diane Kayser of ten years. Diane and Charles met at a grief meeting after they both lost their spouses. They spent the last ten years traveling,  going out to dinner, spending time at the casino, enjoying shows and solving puzzles.

Charles is survived by his five children; his daughter Theresa Rink and her husband Donald of Wanaque, NJ, his son Christopher DeBrock and his wife Laura of Towaco, NJ, his daughter Lisa Kane and her husband David of Kinnelon, NJ, his daughter Eileen Schissler and her husband Mark of Flanders, NJ, and his daughter Paula DeBrock of Pompton Plains, NJ,  twelve grandchildren; Erica Torres, Brandon Rink, Christopher DeBrock, Kelsy DeBrock, Kristen Abou-Ezzeddine, Heather Schissler, Kaitlyn Schissler, Troy Kane, Kyle Kane, Sean Kane, Sierra Messina, and Chas Messina, and two great grandchildren; AJ Torres and Amelia Mae Torres.  He was predeceased by his wife Carmela DeBrock in 2012 and by his siblings, Elenore, Jean, Peter, James, Dorothy, Edna, Ruth, Edith, and Mildred.

Richard A. White, age 85 of Pompton Plains, NJ, and formerly of Wayne and Galloway, died on Sunday, June 18, 2023.

“Dick,”as most knew him, grew up in Warren, Pennsylvania, living and working on the family farm in Starbrick, PA. At an early age, he set out to read every book he could get his hands on. Once he finished all the books in his small school library, he went back and read his favorites over again and again, often the history books. 

After graduating from Warren High School in 1956, Dick wasted no time in joining the U.S. Air Force.  He was stationed all around the United States during his time in the service, including McGuire AFB in New Jersey. He served proudly as a Ground Surveillance Radar Technician with the 332nd Fighter-Interceptor Squadron from 1956 – 1960. 

Upon his honorable discharge from the Air Force in 1961, Dick began working forBunker Ramo Corporation, a leader in computer innovation. He stayed on with them throughout his entire forty-one-year career! He retired in 2000 as a Field Service Engineer. During that time he also served in the National Guard.

Dick met his wife, Lynn, while he was in the Air Force. Stationed at McGuire AirForce Base, he and his fellow Airmen would head ‘down the shore’ to Seaside Heights. On one particular day, they stopped to talk with some girls that caught their eye. Lynn accepted a date with Dick, and a romance ensued. 

When Dick started his new job with Bunker Ramo, it required a move to Salt Lake City, Utah. Not wanting to be separated, Lynn and Dick tied the knot on July 24,1961 and headed west. They lived in Salt Lake City for the first four months of their marriage before coming back to New Jersey. They settled in North Arlington for ten years, then lived in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne fornearly fifteen years, followed by twenty years in Montville. They retired to Galloway, NJ where they lived for nearly fifteen years before settling at Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains just three years ago. They enjoyed some wonderful travel together over the years, visiting places like Mexico, Bavaria, Russia, Italy, The Netherlands, England, and almost all of the fifty United States. They also treasured several multi-generational family vacations over the years with their children and grandchildren. He and Lynn had over sixty wonderful years together, and she will miss him dearly.

Dick loved wildlife photography and had won awards for his pictures. He also remained an avid reader during his lifetime and was a true history buff. He loved playing chess, cards, and darts. He also loved all things technology. He was a pretty darned good cook, too, in later years. He was a fan of the NY Mets, the NY Jets, and the Penn State Nittany Lions. More recently at Cedar Crest Village, he was a skilled Bocce ball player and co-captain of “The Olympians” Bocce team. He lived well and made good use of the time he enjoyed here.

Dick was a devoted and loving husband, father, grandfather, and uncle. Family meant everything to him. He is survived by his dear wife of almost sixty-two years; Lynn of Pompton Plains, their two children; Bill White and his wife Julia of Ardmore, PA, and Dana White Petrie and her husband Bob of Wayne, and six grandchildren; Miranda, Rebecca, and Sarah White, and Siena, Nieve, and Blaise Petrie, as well as several nieces, nephews, and half siblings. He was predeceased by his three siblings; David White, Nancy Griffin, and Linda (Marion) Swanson. He was also predeceased by Carol and Morris Hauser, his mother- and father-in-law, who loved him like a son. 

Don M. Matthews, age 88, of Wanaque, NJ passed away Sunday, June 18, 2023, with family by his side.

Don was born to Don E. and Lorena Matthews in Jacksonville, Texas, just outside of Dallas. He graduated from North Dallas High School playing for the football team and sparking his interest in the field of Chemistry. He frequently told a story that he actually played in the Cotton Bowl. It is true it was just in high school!  Don met the love of his life, Rosemary in Dallas in 1956. Rosemary had finished her degree at the University of Arizona and went to Dallas with her friends that year. They were married in Denton, TX in August of 1957.

Also in 1957, he earned a MS degree in Chemistry from Oklahoma University. Don’s first jobs were in the chemical industry with Humko Sheffield, a Division of Kraft Foods in Tennessee. His job as a chemical salesman, while the beginning of his career, it was also the beginning of several relocations because of the work he was doing. Between 1957 and 1963, he relocated to the following states: Tennessee, Illinois, Texas and then finally to NJ.

During this time, they raised 2 children: Kelly born in 1959 and Scott born in 1963. While Kelly was born in Illinois and Scott in Houston, both children were essentially raised in Morristown, NJ for their childhood and young adult lives. While Don is a true Texan through and through, it would also be true that the Matthews family would call Morristown their hometown. Don and Rosemary enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage for 66 years.

In 1979, he was appointed general manager of the Chemical Specialties Division of PVO International, Inc. located in Boonton, NJ. He was formerly the division general sales manager. He was responsible for the sales and marketing of the line of specialty additives for the food, pharmaceutical, cosmetic, textile and thermoplastics industries. PVO went through several different ownerships in the next few years. It was acquired by Kay Corporation in 1980.

During this time, Don traveled for work but also for fun. Don and Rosemary would drive across the country to visit various sites, visit friends and relatives and often return to Rosemary’s roots in Tucson Arizona. Don enjoyed showing the Arizona sites to his grandkids, Michael and Max.  They also took trips to Europe. Highlights include Amsterdam and the Netherlands where they would purchase some of their most prized antique furniture to furnish their home. There was another trip to Rome where they rented an apartment right in the middle of the city for an entire month.

Don was an avid gardener. On his 2-acre home in Morristown, NJ he would work tirelessly to grow numerous kinds of fruits and vegetables: okra, zucchini, corn, cucumbers, lettuce, watermelons, strawberries and green beans to name a few. Every summer we would often have entire meals from his garden.

To complement his gardening skills, Don was also a master of the grill. Always using charcoal, but also experimenting with different woods (he had an apple tree in the backyard) for delicious smoked meats. During all seasons he would BBQ whether it was 20 below in the winter or pouring down rain in the spring. A few times, in his later years, the fire department paid him a visit because of the amount of smoke coming from his BBQ . . . the fire department had never seen such thing!

Anyone who has a memory of Don Matthews will remember one of the parties or celebrations. Whether it was in Morristown, Manhattan, Nyack, or Tucson, or even in the end in Wanaque, NJ, Don and Rosemary had the best of friends and had the best of times. He will be greatly missed.

John Vincent Chiaramonte, age 96 of Wayne, formerly of Nutley, NJ, passed away peacefully on June 17, 2023. Born on February 11th, 1927, in Newark, NJ, he was the son of the late Joseph and Dominica Chiaramonte. 

From the time John was a boy he had a strong work ethic that led him to excel in anything he set his mind to. He attended Immaculate Conception High School in Montclair where he played baseball, basketball, and his two most competitive sports football and track which he lettered in. Somehow amidst all his training for sports and his education, he found time to commit himself to working multiple jobs. His incredible work ethic instilled in him from his parents never faded. He worked for years and saved up what he could to eventually put himself through college not once but twice! He would go on to graduate from Seton Hall University first with a degree in business and then again to earn a degree in education as well.

John was incredibly proud of his Seton Hall education. He loved the school and it left such a mark on him that he decided to become a teacher himself. John had a knack for teaching every subject but those who knew him will remember him for his fascination with science and nature – it only follows that he favored teaching those subjects! 

In 1946 John would meet the love of his life. Rosemary was the sibling of one of John’s friend Otto, but the moment he first saw her he knew he was in love. He asked Otto to introduce him and the two never looked back. They attended countless dances and parties together before their eventual marriage in 1951. Rosemary and John enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage to one another. They settled in Nutley, NJ where they spent many wonderful years together raising their three children. John’s charisma and his knack for socializing led him to be a well-known figure in Nutley for many years until the two decided to retire to Tom’s River. His grandchildren will remember many fond memories with John exploring nature, bird watching, and picking fresh blueberries off a secret path John found in the woods.

John will be remembered for his ability to be naturally funny. He could make an entire room belly laugh with nothing but his wits and a simple gesture. His friends will remember his great sense of humor, but also his competitive edge that saw him playing Pinochle every Friday and even bowling well into his 90’s! One of John’s most admirable traits was his strong work ethic. He was unquestionably reliable, always on time, and never missed a day. John is a role model to everyone who knew him, and he will be dearly missed.

John is survived by his three children: Sue and her spouse Andy Kish, Linda and her spouse Randy Diana, and John and his spouse Michael Chiaramonte; six grandchildren: Ryan and his spouse JenniferKish, Thomas and his spouse Kacy Kish, Mathew Diana, Lauren Chiaramonte, Olivia Chiaramonte, and Reese Chiaramonte; his great grandchild Adalyn Kish. John is predeceased by his spouse Rosemary Chiaramonte; parents Joseph Chiaramonte and Dominica Chiaramonte; sister Phyllis Dugan; and his grandchild Nicholas Diana. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in John’s memory to St. Joseph’s Indian School

Mary Abajian (nee Tchalikian), age 91 of Pembroke Pines, Florida, died peacefully on Saturday, June 17, 2023. She had been a seamstress for over seventy years.

Mary was the child of an Armenian Genocide survivor, Artine Tchalikian from Marash, and Wadiha Tohme. Her father had fled the massacres and deportations occurring in Marash and settled to Jerusalem, Palestine.

Mary grew up in Jerusalem, and in 1952 she married Fayez Manuel Abajian. Mary and Fayez moved to Beirut, Lebanon, after they were married. They were blessed with three sons, Tony, Harry, and Berge. In 1976, due to civil war in Lebanon, Fayez and Mary moved their family to New Jersey. Mary was a model wife and a very elegant, classy mother and grandmother.  She was devoted to her family. She had a business mind, working as a seamstress while raising three sons and ensuring they each received the best education and sending them to the best schools in Lebanon. She always enjoyed discussing business with her children and encouraged them to follow their dreams. She also helped raise her grandchildren.

Everyone knew Mary as a very energetic, Optimistic woman who was loved by her family and friends.  Her house was always open to everyone. She loved music and dancing. Even in her last days, she listened to music on YouTube and sang along to the tunes.

She is survived by her three sons; Tony and his wife Sylvie, Harry and his wife Magda, and Berge and his wife Arpi, her grandchildren; Gregory, Sandra, Steven, and Shant, her brother Berge and her sister Alice.  She will be sorely missed by her family and friends. She will always be in their hearts and minds.

In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Leon’s Church would be appreciated. 

Ethel M Ferray, age 96 of Wayne passed away on Friday, June 16, 2023.

She was born on February 21, 1927 to George, Sr. and Margaret (nee Grasso) Fitzgerald and raised in Elmwood Park along with her older brother, George Jr. and younger sister Margaret (Peggy).

She graduated East Side High School in Paterson in 1944 and was the Treasurer of her Junior High School Public School 25 in Paterson.

She married Charles Ferray April 15^th, 1950. They moved to Wayne after building their dream home in 1965 where they raised their only child, Dennis.

Ethel’s first job was waitressing at a restaurant in Paterson, NJ. When her boss opened the Wayne Manor, he asked her to work there where she later became a head waitress and then the bookkeeper. She retired at age 75 after being there for over 40 years.

She loved animals and had dogs, cats and birds for many years. She reveled in her “grand dogs” when she no longer had her own. She also loved to travel with her friends particularly to historic locations where she always brought back historical information for her family on where she’d been.

Her passion was fashion. She loved to shop for clothes, mix and match donning the latest classy fashions complete with matching shoes and purses. Her favorite activity was dining out checking out new restaurants with her big circle of friends.

She leaves behind her only child, Dennis, his wife Leslee and the center of her universe, her granddaughter, Shannon. She was predeceased by her precious brother, George Fitzgerald, Jr and sister Margaret (Peggy) Lozito.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alan Parcell Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne, NJ  07470.  www.waynetownship.com/animal-shelter.html

Edward Wolf, age 86, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 15, 2023.

Ed, the most loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather, is survived by his wife, Mary; sons, Edward and James; daughter, Debbie; grandsons, EJ, Garret, James and Thomas; granddaughters, Camryn, Vanessa, Krystina, and Lori; Son in law, Glenn Laborda; and Daughter in laws. Karen and Sonia.

Ed joined the Army and proudly served his country in the 82nd Airborne in North Carolina. When his military service ended, Ed met Mary, the love of his life, and the woman who would stand by his side through thick and thin. 

Ed had the perfect personality and natural charisma to make friends no matter the situation, and his whit was infectious to everyone around him. He was a man who went above and beyond to make sure everyone had whatever they needed and his goal was always to leave them in a better place.

As a man of true integrity, Ed would never compromise under any circumstances. He was a blue jean and t-shirt kind of a guy Ed who never focused on himself. Instead, his family was his greatest joy and highest priority and he always did his best to provide his wife and children with the best life possible.

Ed was a truly great man whose impact will be forever felt by his family and friends who all loved him dearly. He was a selfless man whose passing leaves an unfillable gap in the hearts of all. His ability to sacrifice, provide, support, forgive, and love will be forever engrained in all he knew.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ed’s name are asked to consider:

Fischer House

12300 Twinbrook Pkwy, Suite 410

Rockville, MD  20852

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Edward Wolf

Edward Gambuti, age 82 of N. Haledon, died peacefully on Thursday, June 15, 2023. He was owner of Main Wholesale Florist of Clifton, NJ and Hawthorne, NY.

Ed grew up in the 21^st Ave neighborhood of Paterson and attended East Side High School. At sixteen years old, he began working for his uncle at his wholesale florist supply company, which was located on Main St. in Paterson at the time. He was a dedicated and extremely hard worker, often putting in 6-1/2 days per week, which probably helped to keep him out of trouble. In 1982, Ed bought the company from his uncle and he’s owned Main Wholesale Florist ever since. Along with the help of his three sons, they’ve grown the company to be among the largest wholesale florist suppliers in the area.

Ed was also a dedicated family man, and he utterly adored his wife Janet. They met at a bar in Lodi, NJ, and after a few dances, Eddie asked her out to the movies. Things started off just great, until Janet learned that Eddie had a habit of dumping girlfriends after about two weeks. When she learned that Eddie was planning to breakup with her, she cunningly let him know how heartbroken her mother was going to be if he ever did so. Eddie, always the sweetheart, planned another date with Janet, and the rest is history. They were married on September 22, 1963, at St. Francis of Assisi RC Church in Hackensack, followed by a honeymoon to the Poconos. Throughout their sixty years together, they traveled extensively, mostly to floral trade conventions in places like Costa Rica, Hawaii, and the Cayman Islands. Ed loved the beach, any beach, and enjoyed a home on Long Beach Island for many years, and they wintered in Naples, Florida as well. He was happiest at any place where he could be on the beach and see the water. Janet describes Ed as “passive and non-confrontational.” She also describes their sixty years together as being very peaceful, calm, and filled with a lot of laughter. She will miss him dearly.

Ed’s hobbies included photography and he was an excellent bowler back in the day. He also enjoyed cooking and made some incredible Italian dishes, and there was something very special about his tomato salad that made everyone ask for more. His greatest love was indeed his family. Besides being a great husband, he was an incredible father who led by example each and every day. He adored his ten grandchildren and there was nothing that made him happier than being with them, sharing hugs and snuggles. Perhaps among his greatest compliments was when his granddaughter said; “I want to marry someone just like Poppy.” They too will all miss him dearly.

Ed is survived by his wife of sixty years; Janet (nee Paladino) of N. Haledon, their three sons; Ed Jr. and his wife Darlene of N. Haledon, Greg and his wife Cheryl of Wayne, and Jeff and his wife Stacey of Wyckoff, and ten grandchildren; Eddie, Alexa, Gianna, Megan, Noelle, Hunter, Nicholas, Olivia, Anthony, and Sophia.

Theodore Charles Argeson, 95, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 15, 2023 at St. Luke’s Hospice House in Bethlehem, PA.  Born on June 28, 1927 in Allentown, PA, he was the son of the late Charles and Sylvia (nee Vasil) Argeson. He moved to Paterson, NJ in 1941 where he graduated from Eastside High School in 1945.
Ted was drafted after high school and proudly served in the United States Army from 1945-1947. He was stationed in Germany as part of the Counter Intelligence Corps and was honorably discharged as a Staff Sergeant.

Ted entered Muhlenberg College in the fall of 1947.  He was Vice President of his class and a member of Lambda Chi Alpha Fraternity.  He graduated in 1951 but would continue his involvement with Muhlenberg for many years. He served as President of the Alumni Association as well as his Class Fund Chair and Reunion Chair for years.  He received Muhlenberg’s Alumni Achievement Award in 1986.

Ted worked at Blue Cross in Newark, NJ where he met Connie Dibilio, the love of his life. They were married on February 20, 1966 at St. Athanasios Greek Orthodox Church in Paterson, NJ. They were happily married for 50 years until Connie’s passing in 2016.

Ted’s primary career was the restaurant business. Shortly after getting married, Ted and Connie owned and operated The Mark Restaurant in Mahwah, NJ. He later managed several restaurants before becoming the Area Director of Emerson’s Ltd. Restaurants.  He then left the restaurant business and worked on Wall Street until his retirement in 1991.

Ted always enjoyed cooking.  He had quite the cookbook collection but rarely referred to any of them while cooking.  He could whip up a dish in no time, using almost every pot and pan in the kitchen.  He was very well read, having a special interest in military history. He loved going on cruises to Bermuda and the Caribbean and looked forward to his yearly summer vacation to Wildwood Crest, NJ.

Ted spent most of his life in Wayne, NJ, living there for 56 years until 2022, when he relocated to Bethlehem, PA with his son.  He enjoyed many things in his life, but he loved nothing more than spending time with his family.

Ted is survived by his children Chris Argeson of Bethlehem, PA, Dr. Andrea Argeson and her husband Dr. Ralph Hawks of Stroudsburg, PA and Lisa Finnegan and her husband Michael of Millstone Township, NJ; his cherished grandchildren Gillian and Brendan Finnegan and Becca and Andrew Hawks; and many loving nieces and nephews.  In addition to his wife, he was predeceased by his sister Maria Fotinis and his brother Harry Argeson.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 or St. Luke’s Hospice, 2455 Black River Road, Bethlehem, PA 18015

David Andrew Allen, Jr. passed away on June 14, 2023 from Alzheimer’s disease. 

Raised in Pompton Lakes NJ, David was the son of David Allen, Sr. and Doris Allen. He was one of five children. He married Jill Windwer in 1994, moved to Glen Ridge, NJ and had a son, Davis, in 1996.

David graduated from Trenton State (now the College of New Jersey) and worked as a graphic artist until the birth of his son. He then became a stay-at-home dad, later going back to school for audio engineering and then guitar repair. He started his own guitar repair business which he ran for several years.

David was an avid fisherman. He self-published a book called “Fishing for Beginners” in the early ‘90s. He rarely missed opening day of trout season and in the winter often went ice fishing. He loved the outdoors and music. He played several instruments including keyboard, guitar, mandolin and trumpet.

David is survived by his wife, son and siblings - Kate, Donna, Doug and Carol as well as nieces and nephews - Chris, Al, Laura, Kevin and Nicole.

Donations are welcome to:

Alzheimer's New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer's New Jersey.

In the early morning hours of June 6th, 2023, John A. Vuz, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle passed away at the age of 80 after a long, courageous battle with cancer. He was born on a warm summer day on August 13th, 1943 to his parents, the late Stanley and Mary Vuz and grew up in Wallington, NJ. 

John's career in sales was long and successful, a testament to his unwavering work ethic and his innate ability to connect with others. He held a B.A. in Chemistry and a Master's degree in Marketing from Fairleigh Dickinson University, and his reputation in his field was second to none. 

But it was in his personal life where John truly shone. A dedicated baseball coach, he spent countless hours on the field, instilling a love of the game in his sons and generations of young players. He was also an avid Mets fan and played softball with the Purple Gang in Packanack Lake. In his free time, John enjoyed trout fishing, coin collecting, bird watching, bowling, making his famous white wine mushroom sauce, gardening, and playing Rummy 500 and Poker with his beloved grandchildren. He also loved working with his hands and was always ready with his toolbox at a moment's notice to help with any home improvement project.

John's personality was as bright as the sun, and he possessed a wonderful sense of humor. He had a determination that was unmatched and a spirit that could not be broken. 

John's family was the center of his world, and his devotion to them was unwavering. He leaves behind his grammar school sweetheart and beloved wife of fifty-nine years, Barbara Vuz, and their three sons, John, Scott, and Shawn. He is also survived by his grandchildren, John, Jared, Kelly, William, Victoria, Quinn, and Veronica, as well as his daughters-in-law, Barbara, Kimberly, and Jacqueline. John is also survived by his sister, Arlene Kaiser, brother-in-law, Frank Kaiser, and his nephews, Todd and Erik Kaiser. 

John's passing leaves a void in the hearts of all who knew him, but his memory will live on in the countless lives he touched during his time on this earth. His was a life of purpose, of passion, and of love, and his legacy will continue to inspire and uplift those who were fortunate enough to know him.

In lieu of flowers, donations in John's name may be made to the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation, 383 Main Ave 5th Floor, Norwalk, CT 06851, a cause that was close to his heart. www.themmrf.org 

*Please check back later for a more complete obituary at a later time*

Joseph F. Napoli Jr., age 50, passed away on Monday, June 5th, 2023. 

Marianne Pass nee Caluori died peacefully on May 31^st, 2023 at home in Wayne, NJ

Born December 22^nd 1935 to George and Armande Caluori from Passaic, NJ where she grew up and graduated from St. Mary’s High School in Rutherford, NJ Class of 1953.

In 1953 she met the love of her life Edgar (Ed) Pass. They married in June 1955 at St Claire’s Church in Clifton, NJ. Ed & Marianne settled in Clifton shortly after marriage where they welcomed the birth of their first son Ed Jr in 1956 and their second son Bobby in 1959. The family of four moved to Wayne Township in 1961 where they lived most of their life.

Marianne lived a full life as a wonderful mother, homemaker and worked at various Kelly Services locations as a receptionist before her and Ed retired to Jupiter, Florida in 1993 where they remained until returning to Wayne in 2015.

Marianne loved traveling with her family and friends; enjoyed Friday night dinner dates with her girlfriends, capping the evening off with a game of Rumikub or cards and get-togethers with the neighbors. She was part of the Our Lady of Consolation Prayer Shawl Knitting Club & the Golden Age Club

Marianne was an amazing cook, great seamstress, and skillful at knitting & crocheting, making blankets afghans for her loving grandchildren and great grandchildren. To top it off, she had a green thumb, whether it was her plants inside or flowers out in the garden, she enjoyed and took pride in them all.

Marianne and her family were founding parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church. She will be profoundly missed by family and numerous friends.

Marianne is survived by her two sons; Ed Pass Jr. and his wife Kim of Winter Garden, FL, and Bob Pass and his wife Kathy of Wayne, NJ, three grandchildren; Eddie Pass III, Ashley Hawthorne and her husband Stu, and Todd Pass and his wife Kelly, six great grandchildren; Micah, Ava, Jack, Hawk, Remy and Emma. She was predeceased by her devoted husband Edgar, older brother George Caluori and her great grandchild Baylee Pass.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marianne’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Our Lady of Consolation R.C. Church

1799 Hamburg Turpike

Wayne, NJ 07470

Friends of Wayne Animal Rescue

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

Click here for Mail-in Donation form

Liam Christopher Pakonis, age 16, of Wayne, passed in a tragic accident on Friday, March 31, 2023. 

Liam was born to Gregory and Fiona Pakonis and was a Junior at Wayne Hills High School, Wayne where he was a multiple award-winning swimmer in the 50- and 100-meter Freestyle events.

Liam loved to cause trouble, hated to have dirty hands, loved cars and enjoyed washing them, was always playing computer games, and even built his own computer. He was a huge fan of the Marvel Universe and loved Iron Man and the Avengers. He was a night owl who would sleep all day and be up all night.  His family knew him as the Midnight Mouse as they would hear him eating cereal and toast at all hours of the night.  Liam was also known as a neat freak and the only child in the Pakonis home that didn’t need to be told to clean his room.

Liam was the beloved son of Gregory and Fiona Pakonis; was the dearly loved brother of Logan and Caitlin Pakonis cherished grandson of Patricia and Vito Pakonis and Joy and Peter Sanger; he was loved by his aunts, uncles, cousins, girlfriend Emma and many friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Liam's name may be made to the Wayne Hills Swim Team Booster Club, c/o Christine Gentile, 33 Marlton Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470, an option to make donations through venmo is also available; @waynehillsswim2022 . All donations will go towards an award and scholarship in Liam's name.

‍Mary Frank (nee Pfeiffer), a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, and cherished friend, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Tuesday, May 30, 2023, at the age of 84 in Wayne, NJ.

Mary was born on February 8, 1939, in Satnica, Yugoslavia, the 13th of 15 children born to Franz and Katharina Pfeiffer. During the first twelve years of her life, she and her family experienced the tumultuous era of World War II, and subsequently endured the upheaval that ensued in the aftermath of the conflict's conclusion. At the age of 12, she immigrated to the United States from Germany in 1951, accompanied by her parents and six of her fifteen siblings, settling in Passaic, NJ. Despite not speaking a word of English and her formal education ending before high school graduation, Mary worked tirelessly to ensure her family did not endure the same hardships she faced throughout her life.

Growing up in Passaic, NJ, Mary spent her teenage years frequenting a dance hall called President's Palace. It was there that she met the love of her life, a Hungarian immigrant named Johann (John) Frank, whom she married on May 2, 1959. Just six months later, on November 12 of the same year, John, still a German citizen, was drafted into the United States Army. He was eventually deployed to Heidelberg, Germany, leaving behind his new bride. Mary joined him overseas, on June 22, 1960, and on May 12, 1961, their son, John Frank Jr., was born. After serving overseas for one year and nine months, John, Mary, and John Jr. returned home to and settled in West Paterson, NJ. On April 13, 1965, Mary and John welcomed their daughter, Linda Frank, into the world.

Both Mary and John were skilled craftsmen. John worked as a Master Cabinet Maker, while Mary pursued a career as a seamstress for most of their children's young lives. She worked at Botany Mills in Passaic, NJ, and later at Jack Fin Clothing Company in Paterson, NJ, before deciding to retire to focus on raising her children. However, her boss couldn't bear to lose such a valuable seamstress, so he sent a professional-grade Singer Sewing Machine to her home and arranged for pants, shirts, and dresses to be delivered there. Naturally, this sparked jealousy among others in the factory. In a way, Mary can be considered a pioneer of work-from-home moms. She was also not one to sit idly by when there was work to be done. She frequently assisted her brother-in-law, Ignatz (Iggy) Frank, in his machine tooling shop, supporting the manufacturing of T's for jet engine aircraft. Additionally, Mary worked at Ken-Mar Mfg. Corp, where she meticulously deburred medical implants and components used in human joint replacements.

In 1976, Mary and John broke ground in Wayne, NJ, and fulfilled their dream of building their beautiful home. Mary found great joy in working on the house, particularly on landscaping and gardening projects. She also actively supported the Sports Friends Soccer Club in Wayne, where her husband played a pivotal role in establishing one of North Jersey's earliest dedicated soccer complexes.

Tragedy struck on July 6, 1991, when Mary, at just 52 years old, lost the love of her life in an instant. Despite the heartbreak she endured, Mary demonstrated remarkable resilience and an unwavering determination to persevere. She drew strength from the cherished memories she shared with her beloved John and found solace in the love and support of her family and friends.

In the years that followed, Mary continued to exemplify her unwavering work ethic and dedication to her family and loved ones. She poured her heart and soul into being a devoted mother, grandmother (Oma), and recently great grandmother, providing them all with unconditional love, guidance, and encouragement. Mary's nurturing nature extended beyond her immediate family, as she embraced her role as a cherished sister, Aunt, and a loyal friend to many.

Throughout her life, Mary remained deeply connected to her roots and cherished her heritage. She was an active member of Germania Park serving as the entertainment chairwoman for years, was a member of the singing club, often hosted band members from Germany during the clubs annual Octoberfest and enjoyed hours of dancing to her favorite German songs. She treasured the fond memories and the strong bonds she forged with her large Germania Park family. Mary's legacy will live on in the hearts of those she touched with her kindness, strength, and unwavering spirit.

Mary also enjoyed crafting in many forms and Christmas trees everywhere are adorned with her ornaments year after year. She also enjoyed playing cards, however it was smart to set aside her sweet and innocent demeanor when playing with her because she didn’t like to lose. Friends and family were convinced she’d often change the rules mid game if the cards were not in her favor. She took her cards seriously and everyone loved it. Mary loved cooking and baking, yet she had a habit of preparing meals that were always disproportionate to the number of people she intended to serve. It became a regular occurrence for her to leave containers filled with stuffed peppers, hot potato salad, schnitzel, and her beloved chicken paprikash (also known as chicken o'my gosh) on people's doorsteps. Unfortunately, a significant number of people have discovered themselves burdened with a few extra pounds, all thanks to the time Mary spent in her kitchen.

On Tuesday, May 30, 2023, Mary peacefully passed away in her sleep, leaving behind a legacy of love, resilience, and determination. She is survived by her son John Frank, Jr. and his wife Susan; daughter Linda (nee Frank) Carlucci and her husband Paul; her grandchildren Alexandra Frank and her fiancé Alec Rhoads; Robert Frank, Madison (nee Carlucci) Bingler and her husband Justin; Joseph Carlucci; and her great grandson Joseph Bingler. She is also survived by her brother Stefan (Steve) Pfeiffer and his wife Gloria, sister-In-law Gertrude (nee Gruberman) Pfeiffer, and many nieces and nephews. May she rest in eternal peace, reunited with her beloved John, and may her inspiring spirit continue to guide and inspire all those whose lives she touched.

In Loving Memory of Dolores Slivka

Dolores Slivka (née Ruppert), loving wife, mother, grandmother and sister passed away peacefully on May 29, 2023. She was born August 6, 1934 in Clifton, New Jersey, to her beloved parents Anna and Stephen Ruppert.

Dolores' warm and compassionate nature inspired all who knew her. She met the love her life, William Slivka, at a local ice cream shop. They married in 1955, spent 51 wonderful years together, celebrating their 50th anniversary visiting Europe, before WIlliam's passing in 2006. Dolores is survived by her brother, Stephen Ruppert II of Ft. Myers, Florida; her sons, William Slivka of South Amboy, Robert Slivka of Pompton Lakes; and three grandchildren, Justin, Lauren, and Nicole. 

She touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all. The family will be having a private burial celebrating her life. 

With love and sympathy,

Robert Slivka and family

William “Bill” Spirig passed away at home surrounded by his three children on Monday, May 29^th, 2023. He was born in November 1958 at Valley Hospital.  Bill was raised in New Jersey by his parents Annelise and Arnold with his surviving brother, John.

Bill was an avid reader, enjoyed going to the movies, and loved cooking.  Whether it was taking a trip to the Bahamas or going to Ikea, he treated everything like an adventure.  What was most important to him, though, was being able to spend that time with his children.

Bill is survived by his brother John and his wife Barbara, and his three children Michael, Kristen, and Kevin.

Rita Joan Magarelli nee Wisner, age 89 of Port St. Lucie, FL & Wayne, NJ passed on May 28th, 2023. She was born on December 1, 1933 in Jersey City, NJ. She will be remembered as a loving and devoted mother and wife. 

Rita is survived by her children: Mary Vacca & her husband Keith Vacca, Theresa Sebastiano & her husband Frank Sebastiano, and her son Guy Magarelli; her 6 grandchildren: David Vacca & his wife Amy, Courtney Vacca, Jonathan Vacca, Corey Vacca, Joseph Sebastiano & his wife Juliane, and Rita Sebastiano & her husband Michael Leslie;  her 7 great grandchildren: Matthew and Nicholas Vacca, Dominic and Isabella Sebastiano, Gianna, Francesca and Michaela Sebastiano. She is predeceased by her husband Ottavio David Magarelli, her mother Mary Scottie & father Preston Wisner, and her brother Preston Wisner Jr.

John M. Hatala SR., age 61, of Wayne peacefully passed Friday, May 26th, 2023. 

John was born to Eleanor (Bundas) and John Hatala in 1962. As the eldest of three children, John was a role model for his brothers, Mark and James. Beginning at a young age, John enjoyed tinkering with his “toys”. He was always seen fixing a car, motorcycle, and even the occasional flaming tennis ball launcher. While attending Wayne Valley High School, he continued to work with his hands by taking wood shop and metal shop. It came as no surprise when he graduated high school that he wanted to pursue a career in engineering. 

John graduated with his bachelor’s degree from NJIT in electrical engineering. The first job he landed after college was at Lakehurst Naval Base for the Department of the Navy. At Lakehurst, he was a contractor that assisted in purchasing of materials for weapons, structures, and other naval defense systems. After leaving his position in Lakehurst, he worked a couple different jobs before finally settling at Passaic County Community College in Paterson, NJ. He began there in 2007 as a testing department administrator and quickly felt at home. Before his passing, he was the testing and technical operations manager for the entire testing department. 

John normally came across as a grumpy or stoic man, but everyone that knew him knew the real John. He became a second dad to most of his children’s friends.  He was constantly joking, smiling, and laughing -especially when he became “Grandpa”. Throughout his life, he always had some sort of project that he was working on. He would fix old lawn mowers, snowblowers, cars, motorcycles - you name it! John also loved to garden and use all his fresh produce to try new recipes. In the last few years, he was really into his smoker and crafting his own beer. He would spend hours perfecting ribs, chicken, and his own homemade jerky. If it was too cold for him to spend his time outdoors, he was inside working on his model trains. 

Out of everything in his life, his two children were the biggest obstacle, yet, the most rewarding. Some of the fondest memories his children have are from hot summer nights, being stuck under a car, trying to hold the flashlight in the “perfect spot” for him. He never missed a graduation, an awards ceremony, or any of their sports events. John was always the man that you could count on to show up and show his support. His love grew even more when his first grandson, John Michael the 3rd (JJ), was born in June of 2020. John loved chasing JJ around the yard and getting down to show him all his trains, including all the ones that made very loud noises. 

John was loved by many and he will be greatly missed. Predeceased by his father, John Hatala JR., his mother Eleanor Hatala (Bundas), and his daughter Melissa Hatala. He is survived by his son, John Michael Hatala JR., daughter-in-law, Ashlyn Hatala (Miller), and their son John Michael the 3rd of Wayne, NJ; his daughter Sheila “Alex” Hatala and her fiancé, Andre Vicari of Wayne, NJ; his brothers - Mark Hatala of Morristown, NJ and James Hatala of Glen Cove, NY; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Yellow Ribbon Fund would be greatly appreciated.

Vincent Louis Bolognini, age 65, of Flanders passed unexpectedly on Wednesday, May 24, 2023.

Vincent was born to Louis and Dolores Bolognini in Whitestone, Queens, NY in 1957. He attended Francis Lewis High School, followed by college at The Cooper Union, where he earned his degree in mechanical engineering. He would go on to attain a Master’s in Mechanical Engineering from NYU, and an M.B.A. in corporate finance from Adelphi University.

Vincent started his professional career as a mechanical engineer working for Lilco in power generation. Staying within that industry he moved on to work at Con Edison and then for 35 years at the Ogden Corporation now known as Covanta Energy. He rose through the ranks into the role of Executive Vice President of Business Development and was admired by his colleagues and family for all that he accomplished. His life saw him evolve from delivering newspapers on his bicycle in Queens to brokering business deals with foreign officials.

Vincent was also an intelligent and opinionated man. He enjoyed spirited debate on all manner of topics, and was also known to deliver the occasional joke with a wry smile. On top of the time he spent at work, he loved listening to music and would travel to attend concerts with his friends and family. He was an avid golfer, and lover of all New York sports, especially the Yankees. He spent as much time as possible outside, whether working on the yard, swimming in the pool, or just lounging in the sun. He also loved trips to the beach, making many dear memories with his family during annual trips to Longboat Key in Florida.

Vincent was a devoted father, husband, son, and brother. He was a deeply selfless and dependable man. He enjoyed 33 years of marriage with his beloved wife Marcia, and raised his two children Nicole and Daniel with love and care. He was overjoyed to attend the weddings for both of his children that took place in 2022. Vincent is survived by his two parents Louis and Dolores, who loved and cherished him deeply. He also relished the time when his whole family could be together during holidays and special occasions, including his siblings Cathy and Philip, and nieces and nephews Jack, Sophia, James, and Danielle.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Vincent’s name.

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Eugene J. Tully of Pompton Plains.

Eugene passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 24, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Eugene was born in New York City and was the middle child of three children to John and Sarah Tully.  Those who were closest to Eugene came to know him affectionately as Gene.  Gene’s family lived in New York City for a time and as a young boy they moved to Fair Lawn, NJ where he spent his formative years.  Gene attended Fair Lawn High School where he started dating his high school sweetheart Marilyn Collins.  Although Marilyn and Gene attended different high schools, Marilyn at Eastside High School in Paterson and Gene in Fair Lawn, as fate would have it, they fell in in love and were married on October 5, 1957 just two years after graduating with the class of 1955. 

Gene was gifted with the entrepreneurial spirit as a young man and opened an Esso gas station in Wayne, NJ when he was only in his early twenties.  He owned and operated the Esso station for about two years when he decided to change careers and accepted and internship with his father-in-law as an optician.  After earning his certification as an optician, Gene again started his own business in 1960, EJ Optician located in the Preakness Shopping Center in Wayne, NJ.  Gene also owned an operated Tri Lite Optics, a company that manufactured prescription eyeglass lenses.  Gene owned and operated both businesses concurrently until 1995.  After Gene closed his Tri Lite Optics business he continued to own and operate his EJ Tully Optician until 2002 when he retired.  Gene’s career as an optician and local business owner spanned more than thirty years. 

Shortly after getting married, Marilyn and Gene settled in Elmwood Park, NJ.  While residing in Elmwood Park, they welcomed into their lives, their first four children Barbara, John, Karen, and Linda.  Tragedy struck Gene and Marilyn’s lives when their daughter Karen passed away suddenly and unexpectedly when she was just a toddler.  The family persevered then moved to Wayne where they were blessed with their fifth child, Susan.  Gene and Marilyn remained in Wayne for many years to come and raised their family there. While living and working in Wayne, Gene was closely involved with the Wayne’s Lions Club and their Blind box, donating and recycling eyeglasses. 

Gene was a loyal New York Yankees fan and a long-time season ticket holder.  He was a loyal fan of the New York Giants as well.  One of Gene’s favorite places to be was in the casino playing Black Jack and the slot machines. He also enjoyed purchasing and playing his daily lottery tickets.  Aside from all of Gene’s interests, talents and hobbies, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gene than spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  Gene and Marilyn cherished forty-two years of loving and loyal marriage until Marilyn’s passing in 1999. Gene touched the lives of all those around him and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Gene will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, and a loving and cherished father, grandfather, and great grandfather.

Gene is survived by his four children; his daughter Linda Albolino of Florida, his son John Tully and his wife Rosalie of Vernon, NJ, his daughter Barbara Warhurst and her husband Gregg of Wayne, NJ, and his daughter Susan Pedicone and her husband Bob of Pompton Plains, NJ, two sisters Lorraine Gontzes of Florida, and Dolores Infante and her husband Lenny of Florida, seven grandchildren; Karen Ziegler of Florida, Christina Sellitti and her husband Anthony of Ogdensburg, NJ, John Tully and his wife Brigitte of Little Falls, NJ, Ashley Warhurst of Wayne, NJ, Brooke Warhurst and her fiancé Michael Sochaski of Wayne, NJ, Joey Pedicone of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Jake Pedicone of Pompton Plains, NJ, and two great grandchildren Gianna and Anthony.  He was predeceased by his wife Marilyn Tully, and his daughter Karen Tully.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Gene’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org

Jean Tahan, 91, of Totowa, formerly of Clifton, NJ, passed away peacefully on Sunday, May 21, 2023 surrounded by her children and grandchildren.

Jean lived most of her life with her loving husband, Basil, and seven children.  Jean graduated from the nursing school at Mountainside Hospital in Montclair, NJ in 1952, and worked as a registered nurse for 45 years thereafter.  She spent 40 years at St. Joseph’s Hospital and Medical Center in Paterson, NJ in the maternity and NICU departments, where she helped deliver thousands of babies into our lives and helped so many new parents.  She and Basil were devoted volunteers at their church, St. Ann Melkite Catholic Church in Woodland Park, NJ.

Jean is survived by her seven children, Elaine Farraye and husband Tony of North Carolina: Kathy Pospiech and husband Steve of Stockholm, NJ; Norman Tahan of Clifton, NJ; David Tahan and wife Mimi of Morristown, NJ; Sharon Olivo and husband Jim of Towaco, NJ; Patti Tahan of Philadelphia, PA; Brian Tahan and wife Heather of Morristown, NJ; brother Philip Fimiani of North Carolina, sister Catherine Fimiani of Arizona, Godchild Chrissy Fimiani of North Carolina, brother-in-law Frank Petriello of Clifton, NJ, and sister-in-law Joan Tahan of Clifton, NJ, 12 grandchildren, 16 great grandchildren and many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Jean’s memory to St. Ann Melkite Catholic Church, 802 Rifle Camp Road, Woodland Park, NJ 07424, or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Jean & Basil.  Two hearts – One love

Lily E. Berenbroick (nee Haiss), age 95 of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, died on Friday, April 21, 2023, after a brief illness.  She had lived in River Edge, Woodcliff Lake, and Green Pond, New Jersey before retiring to Deerfield Beach, Florida where she lived for nearly thirty-five years.  In 2008, she returned to New Jersey, settling in at Cedar Crest Village.

Lily was born in New York City to the late Alice and Raymond C. Haiss.  She graduated from Rhodes High School in New York City and attended Berkeley College until her marriage to A. Starr Berenbroick in 1947.  After marrying, Lily took great pride in raising her family.  She was a PTA President, Little League Mother, Cub Scout Den Leader, Girl Scout Leader, and was President of the Green Pond Summer Women’s Club.  After volunteering, she worked at many different jobs.  These included Manager of Knits Galore in Newfoundland, Secretary at Mayer Beaton in Totowa and Trainer of new Tellers at Glendale Federal Bank in Florida.

 She enjoyed sailing, golfing, tennis, dancing, and playing Bridge.  She truly enjoyed time spent with her dear friends at Cedar Crest playing Duplicate Bridge, Pinochle and Polish Poker.  She loved the many trips into New York City and the two river cruises in Europe.  She was particularly proud to have bowled many 300 games with the Wii bowling league at Cedar Crest.  She was also grateful for all the memories and dear friends she enjoyed at Green Pond throughout her many years there.  For the last fifteen years, she looked forward to having lunch on the deck of the Green Pond Yacht Club with her daughter and family.

Lily was predeceased by her husband of sixty years:  A. Starr Berenbroick in 2007.  She was the adored mother of Carolyn Keegan and her husband James of Green Pond, New Jersey, and son Starr H. Berenbroick and his wife Debbie of Radcliff, Kentucky.  Cherished grandmother of James C. Keegan and his wife Maribel, Carly Carrocioli, Phillip Berenbroick and his wife Reshma, and Jacob Berenbroick and his wife Adriane.  She was a loving great-grandmother to Maya, Marc, Ryder, Hunter, Indira and Nikhil.

Barbara Ann Boyle (nee Carlile), age 76 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, May 20, 2023.

Barbara was born on April 5th, 1947 and enjoyed her childhood years at Packanack Lake and has been a lifelong resident of Wayne.

Barbara graduated from Wayne High School with the class of 1965 and soon began working at the First National Bank in Totowa. It was here that she met Bill Boyle and their romance led to wedding bells on July 13, 1969. After a honeymoon to Bermuda, they settled in Wayne and raised their two sons together. Barbara was a devoted wife and mother, always on the go and doing everything to keep her family and household running smoothly. Barbara also enjoyed the performing arts, attending shows at the Papermill Playhouse regularly, and she also loved to see Broadway shows in New York City. She and Bill enjoyed fifty-two years of loving marriage together before Bill passed away in May of 2022. Losing Bill weighed heavily on Barbara’s heart during these past twelve months, and she has missed him terribly every day since.

Barbara’s childhood included a strong Catholic foundation, which she nourished throughout her lifetime. As a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne, she became deeply involved in all sorts of church activities. She was one of those parishioners who would volunteer for everything and anything, and the church became like a second home for her. She became the church secretary and served in that role for about 20 years before retiring close to 10 years ago. She loved her church family at OLV, and she was truly devoted to her Catholic faith.

Barbara is survived by her two sons; Christopher Boyle and his wife Jenny, and Carl Boyle, all of Wayne, her three siblings; Susan Frerichs of Wayne, John Carlile and his wife Jill of Blairstown, NJ, and James Carlile of Arizona, as well as many loving nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husband, Bill, in May of 2022.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara’s memory would be appreciated to ASPCA, www.aspca.org, or the Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad, www.waynefirstaid.com 

Rather than continue to watch the useless activities of a dysfunctional government, Ron (Ronnie) Califre passed into eternal rest on May 20, 2023, albeit reluctantly, after a 2.5 year battle with cancer.

The loving son of Italian immigrants, Peter and Claire Califre, Ron grew up in Paterson, NJ and remained fiercely proud of his Paterson “roots” throughout his life. Ron was a graduate of Montclair State College, receiving a bachelor’s degree in Biological Science and a Doctor of Science (hc) from the institution—where he remained active in an advisory capacity.

He started his professional career with the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (FDA) and later transitioned into pharmaceutical research and development. He then worked 30 years for the Swiss-based innovator, Novartis, and its predecessor companies, in positions of increasing responsibility.  Among other roles, he functioned as Head, Sr. V.P, Medicine and Clinical Development and ultimately retired as Sr. V.P., Research and Development, U.S. Operations, where he had oversight for the multi-disciplinary new drug development activities of over 2000 highly-skilled employees. He was proud of his work, but even more proud of the people he worked with and the innovative therapies that they brought to patients.

While at the FDA, he met his loving wife of 38 years, Marcy, and embarked on a life and adventure that he never dreamed of as a young kid in Paterson. He was a devoted husband and the extremely proud, loving father of Evan and Gabrielle Califre and father-in-law to her husband, Brendan Boerbaitz.  Ron was predeceased by his parents and a brother, Frank, as well as many aunts and uncles, but leaves behind a large, loving family of cousins, nieces, nephews, and brothers and sisters in-law, as well as what he could only describe as the best friends anyone could ever have—bar none. 

He traveled extensively, internationally and domestically, in both his professional and personal life and left feeling like he’d had a fulfilling life. He had read once that “you get one spin” and by his own admission, he crammed a lot of living into his years—perhaps to a fault. LOL. A life-long nature and animal lover, he favored the outdoors—hiking, biking, fishing and golfing. Ron was also skilled at art, another interest and hobby, and had a number of scientific illustrations published. 

He was a “foodie” at heart and took great pleasure in cooking for friends and family—an activity that served as the platform for consuming copious amounts of red wine—another favorite pastime.  Following his retirement, Ron and Marcy split time between homes in Pines Lake and Long Beach Island—the latter enjoying a special place in his heart. He loved meeting and talking to people and was never a stranger to anyone for very long. Not big on material things, he left this world viewing his family, friendships, relationships and experiences as the greatest gifts anyone could have ever bestowed upon him.

In his words, “it was a good run” and in reflecting on his own life at the end, counseled folks with a quote from Dr. Seuss: “don’t cry that it’s over; smile that it happened.”

Thanks to all, including his physicians and the staff at Valley Medical Group, Atlantic Health, Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center and the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, for their expertise, compassion and care. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ron’s name are asked to consider donating to the National Leiomyosarcoma Foundation (NLMSF) or to the Laurelwood Arboretum in Wayne, NJ.

Remedios Arevalo Arcilla, age 80, of Jersey City passed away Friday, May 19, 2023, with the comfort of family and God.

Remedios was born to Mateo and Juliana Arevalo and graduated from Far Eastern University/FEU Philippines with a Bachelor of Nursing degree. Remedios was a distinguished student who excelled in all her disciplines. She became a student teacher and was instrumental in guiding and helping candidates to also realize their dreams of becoming a nurse.

In the early 1970s, Remedios was selected and accepted a nursing sponsorship in West Orange, NJ USA. Leaving her husband Felicito and 2-year-old son Adrian, Remedios was determined to find and ensure a better life for her family. The first year in the United States was difficult and lonely but she persevered and using her strong work ethic was able to quickly acclimate and excel in her profession. In 1976, her family was finally able to join her in the US. Soon thereafter, the Arcilla family moved to Jersey City, NJ where she continued her career working for multiple hospitals that included, St. Francis Hospital, Jersey Medical Hospital, Greenville Hospital and Bayonne Hospital. Remedios’ nursing career spanned 40 years until 2014 when she decided to retire and become the caretaker for her beloved grandchildren.

Remedios was kind, generous, smart, loving, happy go lucky, devoted to family, and always spoke her mind. She loved to cook, entertain, and enjoyed having company over specially to celebrate New Year’s Eve, which was a family tradition. She had a witty sense of humor and did her best to make everyone feel comfortable and welcomed in her home. Her favorite past times were finding the best sales at the mall and testing her luck at the blackjack tables in Atlantic City. Her proudest life moments were the birth of her grandchildren Braylon and Sophia Arcilla who she loved beyond measure.  

She is survived by her husband, Felicito Arcilla, her son Adrian Arcilla, her daughter in law Yvonne Arcilla and her two grandchildren Braylon and Sophia Arcilla.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated. 

Therese Y. Shahin (nee Azouri), age 78 of Oakland, died on Monday, May 15, 2023. She lived in Oakland for more than forty years.

Therese was born in Cairo, Egypt and after finishing school, she began teaching French in an elementary school. It was here that she met Joseph Shahin of Jordan, who was in Cairo to visit family. It wasn’t long before they married, moved to Jordan and started a family. They remained in Jordan for only a few years before the civil unrest there motivated them to seek a better life in America.  They packed up and moved to Los Angeles in 1971. Therese had two little girls at the time and moving her family halfway around the world was no easy feat, but she knew that a better life awaited them all. They lived briefly in Los Angeles before finally settling in northern New Jersey. Hard work paid off and the family eventually owned two gas stations, and they both worked tirelessly to make them a success. She was a hands-on owner; pumping gas and changing tires on any given day, then going home to take care of the kids. 

Therese was a truly lovable person who was sincerely devoted to her family. She was everything a mother should be; loving, hardworking, and dedicated to her children.  Her grandchildren, who affectionately call her “Tatti,” all adore her and each of them will miss her dearly. Whether she was cooking for her family, playing “Left, Right, Center” with her grandkids, she was always there to make everyone happy. She was very easy to talk to and put everyone at ease.  She always remained very close to her relatives living in California, speaking to them daily (and sometimes more than once a day!). Her brother Antoine and sister Mary in California, as well as all of her nieces and nephews spread out far and wide, will all miss their beloved Zuza. 

Therese is survived by three daughters; Jeannette Saporito and her husband Richard of Oakland, NJ, Norma DiIanni and her husband Angelo of Wayne, NJ, and Rosemary Morgan and her husband David of Maywood, NJ, predeceased by her daughter, Suzanne "Suzie" Shahin; four grandchildren: Julia and A.J. DiIanni of Wayne, and Olivia and Abby Morgan of Maywood, a sister; Mary Azouri of Los Angeles, and two brothers: Tony and Farid Azouri, both of Los Angeles, as well as countless nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her brother, Alex Azouri.

Therese loved the color Red. For those inclined to send flowers, please use this as a consideration.

Harold G. “Smitty” Smith, age 100, of Wayne passed Thursday, May 11, 2023, with the comfort of family by his side.

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“The Rest of the Story” (courtesy of Paul Harvey)

Dad’s Mom Shafika “Sophie” Hanna Abi’Mansour, immigrated to the US thru Ellis Island just after the turn of the century with her first husband, Kosma Dammous Selloum in an arranged marriage, from current day Lebanon at 16, taking up residence in Brooklyn, NY.  Following the birth of 5 kids, he left them.  She then met and married our Dad’s Father, Harry.  The general story of our Grandfather Harry was that he was a German immigrant who himself, upon arrival at Ellis Island, had a difficult name and was given the name “Harry Smith” by the immigration officials – which he cheerfully accepted as a newly minted US citizen.  Alternately, there were rumors that his last name was actually “Wingate”… which seemed simple enough to spell and not exactly German.  Nevertheless, that’s what we knew / know.

Together they moved to Hoboken, NJ and had 4 children together.  One of nine children in total, our Dad was born to Harry and Sophie Smith on January 6^th, 1923.  Harry died of tuberculosis in 1932, leaving our Grandmother, Dad (age 9), and his 8 siblings to fend for themselves at the height of the Great Depression.  Later, our grandmother met Joe Labbeke, a Dutch Merchant Marine who elected to “jump ship” in the Port of NY.  At first he dated our Grandmother’s oldest daughter, our Aunt Emily, but ultimately fell in love and married our Grandmother and became the man we knew as our Grandfather.

So that’s the context of our Dad’s early life and Family.  Understandably, and no doubt the result of those experiences, Dad was a huge Family man – his parents & siblings, our Family, and later, our Families (grandkids and Great Grandkids).  He also became a master storyteller.  His stories ran the gamut from his childhood to the Army & WWII to meeting and marrying my Mom and everything in between.

As a child, Dad ran in the streets of Hoboken with his older brothers, playing marbles on the church steps betting with match sticks, and running numbers to help bring in much needed money during the great depression. Life Lesson: “Provide for your Family”

He shared a story in which he and his brother Vic climbed a telephone pole, hoisted then placed an overturned garbage can on top.  As the “cops” arrived and they tried to flee, Uncle Vic got caught on the pole by his pant leg, suspended upside down.  While they got caught, they broke free, hustling thru the streets of Hoboken to get home safely.  (There used to be a TV show called “The Bowery Boys” … which seemed to echo Dad’s stories… perhaps some of those episodes were inspired by his true-life exploits.) Dad attended the same high school as the one and only, Frank Sinatra.  While in High School, Frank, already graduated, came back to Demarest High School to perform, and “snaked” Dad’s girlfriend which, as you might imagine, left a sour taste in his mouth as Frank wooed her away with his crooning abilities. Despite the loss of a girlfriend, Dad remained a HUGE Frank Sinatra fan. Life Lesson: “Don’t hold grudges”

As children we were subjected to the Lawrence Welk show that both he and Mom loved.  To say that it was painful to watch would be an understatement as we were unwillingly introduced to the show.  We specifically found pain in the singing of Irish Tenor, Joe Feeny. The one saving grace on the show was the young, talented, and beautiful Anacani Echeverria, who the boys adored (even if we weren’t necessarily old enough to understand why).  But as “The Lawrence Welk Show” preceded “Mutual of Omaha’s Wild Kingdom” and “The Wonderful World of Disney” we soldiered on.  Life Lesson: “You have to give to get”

With the outbreak of WWII, the call to action for young men was palpable, made even more urgent with the attack on Pearl Harbor.  One by one, the 5 older brothers enlisted, with our Uncles Vic, Jimmy & Charlie in the Navy, and our Uncle Phillip and Dad in the Army.  Following basic training, Infantry training and reconnaissance school, Dad deployed to England.  Originally deployed as a replacement, upon discovery of his recon training, the undermanned 29^th ID Recon Company pulled him into their formation.  His platoon was aligned to the 116^th Regiment.  With his newly assigned unit, Dad participated in the pre-invasion train up at Slapton Sands and then Operation Overlord, the invasion of France, as part of the first wave on Omaha Beach on June 6^th, 1944.  He stayed with the Division, fighting across France, the Netherlands & Belgium, culminating in Bremen when the war ended.

After the war, he reenlisted, serving as a part of the occupation force in West Berlin before ultimately completing two additional tours Stateside, completing 10 years of active-duty service, and achieving the rank of Technical Sergeant (E7).  His service, as well as that of his four brothers, inspired their youngest brother, Harry, too young for WWII, to enlist in the US Marine Corps and fight in Korea – despite his Mother’s protests. Life Lesson: “Service to Country matters”

After a proud and successful military career, Harold met his wife to be, Aurora Zanin in 1957.  They first met at the Chestnut Lodge in the Poconos, with Dad proposing to her on their first date.  My Mom’s response, “What are you, nuts?”.  Yet, he persisted, and she acquiesced, marrying on November 8^th, 1958.  Life Lesson: “If it’s worth having, it’s worth pursuing”

Marrying relatively later in life, there was an apparent sense of urgency to have children.  In the span of 5 years, they had the four of us: Cliff, Louise “Wease”, Steve, & Dave.  Life Lesson: “Set priorities and stick to them”

After Cliff’s birth, they moved to the North Jersey town of Saddle Brook, buying a small “Cape Cod” home within walking distance of our Grammar School.  That was where we shared our formative years under our parent’s oversight and, at least for us, remains “home”.  There, they provided us all we needed, each working hard giving us a wonderful childhood.

Dad worked as a “warper” at a textile mill in Little Ferry, NJ near current day Teterboro Airport.  (Now you’re asking yourself… “what’s a warper? In the textile industry, it is both the machine used to wind warp ends in preparation for weaving and the title of the individual operating said machine… “the more you know”).

He worked there for many years but was let go when the company folded in the early 70’s. Unwilling to accept unemployment, he landed a job as a driver / delivery man for McGraw Hill Publishing and Time Life Magazine bringing clients and products in and out of New York City for many years, all on tight timelines that he met without fail. He was later hired back by his original firm, now under new ownership, to again serve as a warper until all four kids were grown and out of the house.  He transitioned one more time, completing his “working career” as a school crossing guard for Saddle Brook Township for 15 years, from 1985 – 2001, including several years serving alongside his brother Jimmy who lived just up the street from his post.  Life Lesson: “Earn your way in life and provide for your Family”

For our Dad, discipline and a strong work ethic were a thing.  He was a strict, yet loving father and he modeled the work ethic and values he sought to instill in us.  He expected everyone to do their part without hesitation and to do every assigned task “to standard”.  As young kids, he would publish a weekly “duty roster,” prominently posted on the inside door of the center kitchen cabinet.  It outlined who was responsible for what each night – washing, drying, clearing the table, and sweeping the floor.  Outside, he’d line us up in the spring and summer to conduct “police call”.  Sweeping the front and backyard for debris, admonishing us, “if it isn’t living, pick it up”.  He’d inspect our rooms for cleanliness and to ensure we’d made our beds.  At the table, he expected us to eat whatever my Mom cooked and was on our plates.  Homework was to be done and he’d review it, call out errors and make us “fix them”.  (Dave probably recalls that last bit in vivid detail.) Infractions of any of the aforementioned items did not end well.  Life Lesson: “If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing correctly”

He enjoyed and proved to be an exceptional home gardener, enthusiastically growing a variety of fresh vegetables for family and neighbors.  Gardening was a great joy to him as he found solace in the activity which he did, as with all things, with meticulous detail.  He was most proud of his HUGE Jersey Tomatoes, some weighing as much as two pounds each.  Life Lesson: “Find something you enjoy doing… and do it”

When Cliff became a Cub/Boy Scout, Dad volunteered to serve as an assistant scout master, running the pack along with former Army Drill Sargent, Don Cypher (imagine that fun).  Together, they instilled a discipline and taught us “field craft”.   During camping trips, neither Dad nor Mr. Cypher exhibited much sympathy for the cold and sometimes overwhelming weather conditions. “It builds character, they both explained”, to our tremendous dismay along with our fellow “Scouts”.  We looked at them both in amazement and fear.  Between these two hardened veterans, they created one tough group of scouts who never quit, looking up to them with sincere admiration.  Life Lesson: “99% of your limits are in your head”

Although not a huge sports nut, Dad was an avid Yankee fan.  As a result, so are we. He would routinely share stories about the Yankees from his childhood… yes, those Yankees – Ruth, Gehrig, DiMaggio, Berra, et.al.  Whether listening to them on the radio, watching them on TV or going to the game.  And, like most of us, when they lost, he somehow found a way to blame himself for watching and “causing them to lose”!  But that of course was never the case, to wit, he attended Game 6 of the 1977 World Series with our Grandfather Orazio (Mom’s Dad) at which Reggie Jackson hit 3 HR’s and earned the moniker “Mr. October”.  Life Lesson: “Yankees Rule”

In 2021, Mom & Dad moved from Saddle Brook to Wayne, NJ, getting a condominium called the Four Seasons where they lived together for the next 23 years.  As grandchildren began “arriving”, Dad’s disposition changed dramatically.  Gone was the strict disciplinarian and stoic.  More stories began to flow, in greater and sometimes, “startling” detail… like wait… what?  Holy cow Dad!  While the four of us were spread across the Country / World… we would reassemble for major Family events at their new home, celebrating and sharing our own stories… and often, revealing some of our own “added details” to what our parent’s “thought they knew”.  Life Lesson: “Home is not a place, it’s your Family”

As the year’s passed and Mom’s health and memory began to fade, there was an amazing “role reversal”.  Dad stepped up “big league,” assuming full responsibility as her sole care provider.  He did the cooking, the cleaning, the shopping, the pill sorting, the bills … he did it all and pushed back against any offers of assistance, with a gentle, “No, no, thank you.  That’s my responsibility”. Life Lesson: “You are responsible for your Family”

In January of this year, we had the privilege of celebrating our Dad’s 100^th birthday.  It was an amazing celebration and an incredible milestone. Towards the end of last year, with Dad’s health failing, and shortly after his birthday, we made the decision to move them to the Sunrise Assisted Living community in Fairfield, NJ.  They spent the last 4 months together there and we remained routine fixtures in their lives, visiting often, assisting them as necessary, and basking in the warmth of their eternal love story.  Life Lesson: “We are our Father’s Keeper”

Cliff:  Dad was a very supportive father, when his schedule permitted, teaching his eldest son, Cliff to pitch sidearm like Sandy Koufax. At a young age Cliff was a dangerous threat to opposing teams, which brought him great joy watching him throw his one and only no-hitter. Cliff now resides in San Diego California after a 33-year career with Marriott Hotels. Life Lesson: “Teaching and Learning is a Life Sport”

Wease:  As Dad’s only daughter I can confidently say I was treated in a gentler way growing up.   Having a very difficult childhood, Dad was hardened in many ways.  A child of the Great Depression, losing his own father at the age of nine and being in World War II it is no wonder he was a tough guy.   But, despite all that he had a gentler side that few got to see.  As he aged it would become more apparent, but I was lucky enough to get that side of him early on.  Every night as a child he would come to kiss me good night and tell me our special story.  He dubbed me “Princess Louise” and would make up magical stories that included my brothers coming to my rescue. I married my high school sweetheart, Mark, in 2016 and have three adult, married daughters, Lindsay, Jackie, and Melanie.  Lindsay and her husband, Yaron have a young son, Aiden, and a beautiful baby daughter, Becca.  No matter the kind of day Dad might be having, a visit, or a shared video or picture of his great grandbabies would bring so much joy.  Jackie and her husband Mike are both in the medical field.  Jackie has been our parents’ constant in everything related to their medical care and beyond.  My Dad would call her all the time and she would drop everything to be by his side.  Their relationship was extra special.  Melanie and her husband Kevin are expecting their first baby in September.  Melanie was Dad’s personal hair stylist as her skills he could not deny.  He loved her sense of humor, and they would have long talks.  He imparted his wisdom and opinions often and all the “kids” would listen and absorb intently.  He had no problem posing for selfies and being silly with them.  They will carry his memory with them always.  To feel so loved and protected is something I was privileged to feel throughout my life.   I will love and miss him forever.  Life Lesson: “Love is All”

Steve: My Dad’s life and influence on me cannot be overstated.  Like my siblings, I am steeped in the lessons he taught us.  My memories of him are vivid and I am thankful to have had the privilege of being his son.  As a child of the 70’s… long hair was a thing, for me and my brothers.  While Dad hated it, because I was a pretty good student, he kept his feelings somewhat at bay.  I guess his biggest lesson for me was his sense of duty.  His military service inspired my own.  In retrospect, my mistake was not letting him know my intentions sooner.  I applied and pursued entry into the US Military Academy “in secret,” largely because I didn’t want to be embarrassed if I failed to get in.  But as the process went forward and I needed a military physical, not yet owning a car, I had to ask my Dad to drive me to Fort Dix. From that day forward, I could do “no wrong”.  Instead of chastising me for my hair or coming home late, Dad became my biggest supporter and advocate, to the point he’d push back on my behalf to my Mom if she was on my case about something, “Aww come on Aurora, he’s gonna be a Soldier for crying out loud.”   I married my own High School sweetheart, Irene (although she hates me saying that since technically, we didn’t begin dating until late in our Senior Year… but I’m writing this, so too bad).  We have two wonderful adult children of our own, Steve and Kelly. Growing up as “Army Brats,” they didn’t get to know my Dad as well as my Sister’s daughters, but nevertheless, were always a central focus of any conversation I had with my Dad, even until the very end.  Life Lesson: “Service to Country and something bigger than yourself is an obligation”

Dave:  Being the youngest of four siblings you'd think I'd be the spoiled one by my Dad, you'd be wrong. Trust me, I felt his wrath and in all cases I deserved it. My Dad didn't have the patience for misbehavior. He was old school and is what is missing in today's world. There have been so many great memories of my dad but one simple one stands out. I remember when I was young sitting on the stoop waiting for my dad to come home from work. He’d make that right turn and I’d see that big old Chevy station wagon (’62 Bel Air) and he slowed down and stopped and waited for me to run toward the car. The door would open, and I'd sit on his lap and grab the steering wheel. From there he'd let me steer the rest of the way home while he controlled the gas and brake pedals. He would tell me good job David as we parked in the driveway.  It's the little things that I'll remember of my Dad. Like Steve, I followed in my Dad’s military footsteps, enlisting, and serving as a Marine for 10+ years.  I met and married my wife Emily, (who also served as a Marine, for 20+ years) and together, we have two adult children, Justin, and Dani.  Justin, currently serving as a Marine, is himself married to Emily, with a young Son, Keanu, and another on the way.  Dani is living in CA and is an aspiring actress.  I love you Dad and miss you.  Love David.  Life Lesson: “Little things matter”  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Harold’s name are asked to consider donating to Children of Fallen Patriots.  Children of Fallen Patriots provides college scholarships and educational counseling to military children who have lost a parent in the line of duty.  Donations can be made online at Donate to CFP Donation Page (fallenpatriots.org) or by mail, with a note indicating the donation is “in honor of Harold G. Smith” and addressed to:

Children of Fallen Patriots

1818 Library Street

Suite 500

Reston, VA 20190

Total: $

Tax ID – EIN#: 47-0902295

It is with great sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of Mark Andrew Lamberski of Wayne, NJ from a sudden heart attack on Thursday May 11, 2023. Mark was only 54.

Mark was born in Passaic, NJ on August 1, 1968 to Edwin and Christine Lamberski. He has one younger sister, Amy. He attended St. Philip the Apostle Preparatory school in Clifton, NJ until 1980, when his family moved to Wayne, NJ. He finished his elementary education at Our Lady of the Valley School in Wayne and went on to graduate from Don Bosco Technical High School in Paterson, NJ. After high school, Mark enlisted in the United States Air Force and earned an honorable discharge in 1988.

In 1992, Mark fathered his only son, Mark (Markie) Ruiz. He adored his son and worked long hours to provide for him, first as an Equipment Manager at Verizon Wireless and later as a Manager at Radio Shack.

Those who knew Mark speak fondly of his enormous heart, kind spirit, generosity, humor and unwavering love of his family. Mark was selfless, consistently putting the needs of his family and friends ahead of his own. He was a great lover of animals and found much joy in spending time with his many furry companions over the years, including Sooty, Cecil, Kitty, Molly and Pippi, to name a few. He was an extraordinary person who touched many lives and will be missed by all of those who were blessed to have known him.

Mark is survived by his son, Mark Ruiz of Wayne, NJ; his mother Christine (Snyder) Lamberski of Wayne, NJ; his father Edwin Lamberski and his wife Maryann Lamberski of Cape Coral FL; his sister Amy Herlihy and her husband Donagh Herlihy of St. Petersburg, FL; his nephews Sam Herlihy of Boston, MA and Kieran Herlihy of St. Petersburg, FL; his step-sisters Deborah Valanzola of Flanders, NJ and Michele Gowing and her husband Pete Gowing of Randolph, NJ; and many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews and friends. He was predeceased by his grandparents Christine Snyder, Wilfred (Bud) Snyder, Kasimer (Casey) Lamberski and Sophie Lamberski.

Flowers are welcome, or those that wish to honor Mark’s memory may make a donation in his name to a charity of their choice. 

Anthony A. Angelicola, age 85, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, and formerly of North Haledon, died peacefully on Wednesday, May 10, 2023

Tony, as he was known by family and friends, was born and raised in Paterson, NJ.  He attended the Paterson school system, where he met the love of his life, Anna or Annie, as he called her.  He attended East Side High School.  In 1955, at the young age of 17, he married Anna and enlisted in the Army.  While serving on Active Duty, Tony learned to repair airplanes and helicopters, and became a skilled mechanic.  Upon honorable discharge from the Army in 1958, he went to work in auto body repair.  He soon realized he could combine his skill set of mechanics with his organizational and people skills to land a job with Allstate Insurance Company.  He held several positions with the company during his nearly 40 year tenure, the last of which was Property Claims Manager. 

Tony and Anna remained in Paterson for the first twelve years of their marriage, and then moved to North Haledon in 1967.  It was here that they raised their three children, and it was here that they called “home” for many decades.  They enjoyed 38 years of marriage together before Anna lost her battle with cancer in 1993.  He would never remarry, insisting that he already had a wife…Anna.

His family was the most important thing to him and he always made each of his children feel important and loved.  He coached sports teams, served as a scout leader, attended school functions, and remained a loving and supportive parent throughout the years and until his time of death. 

Tony always maintained his love of mechanical things.  He could fix just about anything, and he was especially fond of and good at fixing engines of any kind, both large and small.  He was a skilled carpenter as well, and added an addition to his home, built a garage and workshop where he could tinker, and finished basements for himself and his children.  He was an avid reader and loved learning about all kinds of things.  He took numerous college courses and certifications in subjects of interest to him.  He loved playing on his computer and forwarding what seemed like a million emails a week to his children and grandchildren!

His oldest daughter remembers her Dad as being a great listener, a skill he passed on to her that she deems to be one of the most important skills a person can possess. 

Tony is survived by his three children:  Ann Meyer and her husband Richard of Tewksbury, Patty Goerl of Wayne, and Carlo Angelicola and his wife Susan of Morris Plains, his three grandchildren:  Jessica Pertuz and her husband Gregory, Matthew Goerl and his wife Dakota, and Nicholas Goerl and his wife Stefani, and three great grandchildren:  James Goerl, Indiana Goerl and Lucas Anthony Pertuz, one sister, Gloria Varcadipane of Illinois, and his “Brother from another Mother”, Ben Della Cerra of North Haledon.  Tony was predeceased by his wife Anna in 1993, his grandson, Jordan Meyer in 2007, a brother Dan, a sister Caroline Biagi, and by his son in law, James Goerl in 2014. 

For those wishing to make a donation in Tony’s memory and in lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org.  

For those wishing to make a donation in Tony’s memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Leonard Dale.
Leonard Dale, age 89, of Bloomingdale, NJ passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 10, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Leonard was born in Paterson and was the older of two children to Floyd and Edna Dale.  Those closest the Leonard knew him affectionately as “Lennie”.  Lennie and his family moved to Totowa, NJ when he was only a few years old.  As a young man and while a student at Passaic Valley High School, Lennie decided to leave school and enter into the workforce early.  He found employment very quickly with a local construction company. 

After working in the construction field for several years, Lennie got the call to serve his country and was selected for service in the United States Army.  Lennie served honorably in the US Army for several years.  Subsequent to his honorable discharge, Lennie immediately got back to work in the construction industry.  While working for another private construction company, Lennie got the opportunity to join the Operating Engineers Local Union 825 based in Springfield, NJ.  Lennie continued to work in the Engineers Union for many years until 1996 when he retired.  His career in construction spanned more than forty-five years.

In 1962, Lennie married the love of his life, an attractive young lady by the name of Nancy Abrams.  After getting married, the newlyweds settled in West Paterson, now known as Woodland Park.  Nancy and Lennie moved to Bloomingdale a few years later and have been there ever since.  Lennie always had a love for sports and coached little league while his stepson Frank was growing up.  Later, as Lennie got older, he enjoyed going to the sporting events of his nieces, nephews, as well as his neighbor’s children. 

One of Lennie’s favorite past times was gardening and landscaping.  His back and front yards were his pride and joy and were always meticulously manicured.  Lennie was a wonderfully kind and thoughtful person.  He always spoke his mind and “told it like it is.”  He was well known and well loved in his neighborhood and would always drop what he was doing to help one of his friends or neighbors.  He also enjoyed listening to music, particularly the famous crooners such as Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, and Tony Bennett. 

Lennie will be forever remembered as a thoughtful and kind man who took great pride and interest in his community and loved his family very deeply.  Lennie was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Lennie is survived by his sister Pat Miklos and her husband Andrew Miklos of Hamburg, NJ, his stepson Frank Delmonaco and his wife Linda of Florida, his nephew Louis Coppa and his wife Linda Mae of Kinnelon, NJ, his niece Lisa Moore of Lebanon, TN, a step grandson Ryan Delmonaco, three grandnieces: Melissa Coppa, Kate Coppa, and Emily Coppa, and one grandnephew Louis Coppa, Jr.

Wayne LoPresti, aged 74 of Wayne, passed away on Tuesday, May 9th after a long battle with cancer. 

Wayne was born in Biloxi, Mississippi before moving in his early years to Clifton, NJ. He was the proud graduate of St. Peter’s Prep where his independence and passion for life began. Wayne will be remembered for his great sense of humor and his ability to carve his own path through life that led others to admire him.  

He started his professional career scaling telephone poles and “climbed” his way up the ranks within AT&T into telecommunications sales and project management positions. He concluded his career using his accumulated knowledge on various consulting jobs within the industry. 

His success in his professional career is outshined by his passions outside of his work life. Wayne was well known as a musician whose skill with a guitar first manifested itself in his garage band at the age of 16. They were called “The Jades” and his followers will remember rooting for him and The Jades in the Battle of the Bands. He would go on to play in several rock and roll bands where he would perform professionally for weddings. In addition to his music, Wayne loved spending time outside. He maintained a thriving garden and landscape. 

Beyond all of Wayne’s hobbies, he was most passionate about his family. Wayne shared a loving marriage of 42 years with his wife and soulmate, Catherine. Wayne and Catherine’s marriage was a strong bond built on a deep connection, bringing a sense of joy and contentment to their daily lives together. Their shared love led to Wayne’s pride and joy; their two children Michael and Erica. Wayne was the biggest fan of his children – he shared deep connections with them and led a life that helped shape theirs as well. 

Wayne enjoyed making cartoons and his daughter Erica embodied his artistic talent and expanded on it. Wayne prized her art above anything he created, and he loved that her artistic talents flowed with his own. Thanks to her father's nurturing influence, Erica developed not only exceptional creativity, but also a strong sense of independence and confidence in forging her own unique path in life. Wayne also inspired Erica to cultivate her own green thumb and find joy and fulfillment in nurturing and growing beautiful plants.

Michael inherited Wayne’s musical ability and love for baseball. Wayne was a lifelong Yankees fan, and he took great pride in Michael’s baseball career that spanned from little league all the way up to the minor leagues of professional baseball. Wayne’s unwavering passion for watching his son play baseball not only brought him immense joy, but also helped him form meaningful relationships with fellow parents and coaches who shared his love for the sport and their children. Wayne’s passion for the guitar also inspired Michael to learn to play himself. 

Wayne will be remembered for his incredible sense of humor and his unique passion for all that life has to offer. He always had the best jokes and was truly one of a kind. He leaves behind an indelible mark on all of those who were lucky enough to learn from and spend time with him. He will be missed.

Wayne is survived by his wife Catherine LoPresti of Wayne and their two children: Michael LoPresti of Wayne and Erica LoPresti of Wayne; his brother Bob Lopresti formerly of Clifton and Pompton Plains; his niece Jackie Grasso, her husband Tom Grasso, and their two children Xander and Averie of Lake Hiawatha, and his nephew Robbie Lopresti and his wife Jackie Lopresti of Montville; and his 4 cats: Cali, Lucky, Luna, and Axel. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made out to St. Jude’s Children Research Hospital, The Wounded Warrior Project, or Tunnel to Towers Foundation.

Carl W. Wolff Jr., 92, of Pompton Plains, NJ formerly of Spring Hill, FL and Packanack Lake, Wayne, NJ passed away on Monday May 8, 2023 after a brief illness.

Carl was born on December 23, 1930, the only son of Alice Luther and Carl Wolff Sr. of Montclair, NJ.  Though he was their only child, he was born into a large and loving family of many uncles and beloved grandparents, Mom and Pop.  He spent his youth doing odd jobs for Pop who owned several apartment houses in Montclair.  He earned his keep sweeping sidewalks and emptying the ash cans.  When he was a teenager, he had an after school job as a soda jerk in town.  He would spend his summers at his grandparents’ summer house on Culver Lake.  His best buddy, his cousin Steve, would be at his parents’ house across the lake. They would call out to each other during the day with a hearty “HOY” and then canoe or swim across the lake to hang out together. As a child, Carl also spent some summers traveling by train– alone! – to St Louis MO to visit his cousin and uncle.  It was there he saw his first baseball game and found his passion for the St. Louis Cardinals. He also found an appreciation for steam engines. He took train trips with his cousin, Steve, and never missed a chance to go to local train stations to see steam engines ride by.

Carl graduated from Montclair High School in 1949 and through a family friend got a job working for the Osborne Company in the Woolworth Building in Manhattan.  During his tenure there he commuted to work by train with his best friend, Don Coffin and another friend, Doris Ackerman who worked for Young and Rubicam.  Doris thought her coworker, Carol, would make a great match for Carl. Doris set them up on a blind date to the Spring dance at the 200 Club in West Orange with a whole group of friends.  Things went so well that Carol and Carl went out again the very next night.

Those two nights in 1952 began a three year courtship that ultimately culminated in Carl asking Carol to marry him.  They were married on April 16, 1955 and were able to spend 58 loving years together before Carol’s passing in 2013.  For their honeymoon, the couple drove down to Key West Florida in Carl’s Chevy Bel Air.  After a few years living in an apartment in Rutherford, some friends had announced they were moving to the country.  The country turned out to be Packanack Lake in Wayne, and Carl and Carol fell in love with the area.  They bought their first house at 20 Hillcrest and soon welcomed their first child, daughter Karen.  She was soon followed by another daughter, Susan, and then a son, James.  The family eventually outgrew their little house and made a move to a larger home just down the road at 188 Hillcrest. 

In 1954, Carl’s soon to be mother-in-law had a friend who got Carl a job with NJ Bell Telephone as a lineman.  He began with the company climbing telephone poles, stringing wire, and installing phone booths around North Jersey.  He worked his way up the company ladder through NJ Bell and Bell Atlantic and eventually the takeover by Verizon.  He retired from the company as a Systems Design Engineer.  Carl also served in the Naval Reserves as a Seabee for eight years and was honorably discharged in 1958.

At home, Carl was involved with the Packanack Lake Country Club governing body for twelve years eventually serving as president of the Board of Governors.  He also dedicated time to working with the swim team at Packanack while all three children swam for the team. As the children grew up and went off to college, Carol had the itch to move again, and as luck would have it they found a third house on Hillcrest Drive, this time at 131.  Many summers were spent at their favorite vacation spot down the Jersey Shore in Stone Harbor.  Days were spent on the beach and evenings were spent enjoying cheesesteaks from the Dugout and ice cream from Springers. While Carol enjoyed shopping along 96^th Street, Carl would patiently wait on the benches under the twinkling lights.

In 1994 after Carl’s retirement from now Verizon after 40 years, he and Carol made the big move to Florida. They spent their retirement years golfing and traveling.  Some of their amazing trips were to Europe, taking river cruises there and looking up family history in Germany and Ireland.  They also loved visiting the US National Parks out west and took trips to Hawaii and Alaska. Many Thanksgivings were spent in Duck, NC with Carol’s sister, Joan, and her husband, Andy, enjoying the peace of the off season on the Outer Banks.

In 1998 Carl and Carol were thrilled to finally become grandparents to little Katharine, their bundle.  Katharine was the joy of their lives and all the incentive they needed to come north several times a year to visit.  They would come for Mother’s Day and Christmas each year for extended visits. Their favorite time was in the summer when they would rent a house in Stone Harbor and spend some quality time at the beach with Katharine showing her all the family traditions down the shore.

In 2012 after some health issues for bothof them, Carl and Carol finally moved back north to be close to family and took a place at Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains.  It was here that first Carol and then Carl lived out their final days surrounded by their loving children.

Carl is survived by his three children, Karen Talerico and husband Amedeo of Monmouth Beach, NJ, Susan McNaught and husband William of West Milford, NJ, son James Wolff of Pompton Plains, NJ, and granddaughter, Katharine McNaught of West Milford, NJ. He was predeceased by his beloved wife Carol (Prezkuta) in 2013.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Margaret Anne Rice.

Margaret Anne Rice, age 71, of Parsippany, NJ passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, May 6, 2023.

Margaret was born in Manhattan and was the oldest of five children to Francis and Marie Rice.  Margaret was known to those closest to her as “Peggy.”  Peggy’s family moved to Westfield, NJ when she was a young girl and resided there until she was twelve years old.  She also lived in Ridgewood and Butler, NJ.  As a young girl, Peggy attended Mary Help Christian Academy in North Haledon, NJ and graduated with the class of 1970.

Shortly after graduating high school, Peggy enrolled in the Holy Name Hospital Nursing Program located in Teaneck, NJ.  After about two years she earned her certification as a Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN).  She found employment quickly at Valley Hospital in Ridgewood, NJ where she worked as an LPN for a number of years during the 1970’s and 1980’s.  Peggy eventually left Valley hospital and accepted a position as a Home Health Aide through the Easterseals of NJ, an organization dedicated to expanding opportunities for people living with disabilities in the state of NJ.  This was work that Peggy was dedicated to and truly enjoyed.  During many of her years as a Home Health Aide, she lived in Lake Hiawatha, NJ until moving to Parsippany in 2021.

During her years residing in Lake Hiawatha, Peggy was a member of the American Legion Auxiliary Unit 249 located just across the street from her home.  She took pride in helping military, veterans and their families. Peggy was always the first to volunteer for any activity especially going to the VA hospital to support the wounded Veterans.  Her good heart and energy will surely be missed.

Aside from all of Peggy’s interests and talents, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Peggy than spending time with her friends and family.  She was a truly devoted daughter, sister, aunt, and grandaunt.  Peggy was a giving and good-hearted person who was often selfless, putting the needs of others around her before her own.  Peggy will be forever remembered as a giving woman who touched the lives of many.

Peggy is survived by her brother Larry Rice and his wife Ginger of Raleigh, NC, her sister Elizabeth Rice of Highland Park, NJ, two nieces; Rebecca Rice of Annapolis, MD, and Claire Marie Schlesinger and her fiancé Jarrett Mack of Wantage, NJ, two nephews; Ryan Rice and his wife Dr. Erika Rice of Cary, NC, and Bill Schlesinger and his wife Kimberly of Denville, NJ, one grandniece Amelia Rice and another grandniece “on the way”, she is also survived by brother-in-law Joel Schlesinger of Vernon, NJ.  Peggy was predeceased by her brother Michael Rice, and by her sister Julia Rice.

In Lieu of flowers donations to American Legion Auxiliary Unit 249 be made in Peggy's honor, 91 North Beverwyck RD, Lake Hiawatha NJ 07034.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Eleanore (Betsy) Andersen née Kopp, age 83, of Wayne, New Jersey. She died on May 4^th 2023, in the comfort of her home with her family caring for her.  

Betsy was born in Jersey City in 1939 to Eleanore Elizabeth née Grunwald and Edwin Frank Kopp. She grew up in East Paterson (now Elmwood Park) and attended Gantner Ave Elementary School before graduating from Lodi High School in 1957. She was elated that she and her two sons, Ron and Bob, all had the same cherished kindergarten teacher (Mrs. Hopper) at Ganter Ave School.

Betsy met Ronald Andersen, the love of her life, at age 1. Her grandmother and Ron’s grandmother were best friends, so Ron and Betsy were placed in the crib together at family picnics. Betsy shared that in her early teens, she always dreamed of marrying Ron. After their high school graduations, the two families were vacationing near each other in Wildwood, N.J. They happened to meet up during an evening walk on the boardwalk, and Betsy and Ron started dating. They married in 1959 and honeymooned in Miami, Florida. They have enjoyed 64 years of marriage.

Betsy loved raising her family in their Wayne home since 1969. She took care of her boys Ron and Bob, her husband Ron, and her mother and grandfather as all four generations lived together in their home for many years. She was at peace when she knew that her family was home, safe and together. She was a meticulous homemaker and hosted large gatherings for the holidays. The ping pong table replaced the dining room table so that everyone would have room to sit. Our family was small, but all the friends invited were adopted into the family for those memorable gatherings.     

As her boys married and her six grandchildren were born, she was again at peace when all were gathered, whether in New Jersey or during Christmas vacations to Wyoming. As long as the family was to be together, she would go anywhere.   

She was a skilled crafter and homemaker who enjoyed sewing, crocheting, needlework, and a number of other crafts that piqued her interest. Creating well-made clothes for her grandchildren was a priority. As a board member of the Wayne Woman’s Club, she made the floral centerpieces for their annual dinners. She and Ron were avid bowlers and country dancers. They loved to travel and share more than fifty years of memories from traveling throughout the United States and Europe and on many cruises, almost all with their friends Lois and Matt Marakovitz.  

Betsy’s first job was with Orange Roller Bearing Co. Inc. in Orange, N.J., where her father Edwin worked in the office. She worked as a bookkeeper for him, entering all data manually into the ledger sheets and calculating on a Monroe Calculating Machine. She left that position to raise her children.     

While her boys were in college, she held various secretarial positions at IBM, American Cyanamid, and other local companies. She learned all the required word processing systems to keep up with the times. When her boys graduated from college, she retired again. She became interested in home computer systems as they became available in the 1980s and always stayed up to date with systems and software that helped her manage the home finances. She also learned multiple ways to use the computer to help with her arts and crafts.

Her son Bob started a business (RC Andersen LLC) in 2006, and Betsy inquired as to how the bookkeeping and accounting would be handled. She volunteered her services to help jumpstart her son’s business and soon became a full-time employee. She couldn’t believe how easy and accurate the new computer software was in comparison with her early career experiences. She loved the work and loved seeing the company grow successfully while she handled the books. She worked for another 17 years until a month before her passing. Her husband Ron helped with the filing.
Betsy is survived by her husband Ronald; her son Ronald and his wife Theresa née Werns of Kinnelon and their children Brian, Meghan, and Sean; her son Robert (Bob) and his wife Andrea née Rittenhouse of Wayne and their children Erica, Valerie, and Christopher. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or the Make a Wish Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness we announce the passing of Robert (Bob) Timko, age 71, of Wayne, NJ.

Bob was born in New York City to William and Margaret Timko. He grew up in the Bronx with his brother Billy and attended St. Mary's Catholic elementary and All Hollows High School. After graduation he attended NY Institute of Technology, graduating with a BA in Marketing.

Bob was always ambitious and worked many jobs during his life, starting in High School as a hospital volunteer, a messenger, and retail sales. For more than 32 years, he excelled as a shoe buyer for Brylane where he designed and introduced ladies boots and shoes.

Bob was an avid world traveler and loved to visit new places. With his job he was able to visit Shanghai, Hong Kong, South Korea, Spain and Italy. His absolute favorite destination was Italy, where he returned several times on vacation. Bob also enjoyed his stateside travels with his family to Vermont, Florida, California, Nevada and Hawaii.

Bob met his wife, Alice in high school, where he often said it was love at first sight. After marrying, they moved to New Jersey where they started their family and set down roots. After retiring, he started watching the food network and became a wonderful chef in the kitchen. His tasty meals with be missed along with his expertise in the Hungarian specialties handed down from his parents.

His favorite time of year was during the Holidays when the entire family would get together. From coordinating the menu to a rousing game night where he excelled in random trivia, he loved spending time with the family. He always had a great sense of humor and continuously kept the family entertained with his wit and conversation.

Bob was also a devoted pet “Dad”, of which he had 2 dogs, 8 cats, various goldfish and the neighborhood birds, squirrels and chipmunks. His gentle nature with animals always made him a favorite of our animal family.

Bob was diagnosed with Dementia in 2017 and with medication was able to help slow the process. However, due to health issues, he entered Sunrise Senior Living in Sept 2022. While there, he made friends with the residents and staff. Many times he helped to assist other residents and always had a smile and a funny comment.

Bob is survived by his wife Alice of 48 years; daughter Lauren; in-law's Deborah and Robert; cousins Olga, James, Kyle and wife Kirsten; nephew Matthew and wife Brianna; niece Juliana and fiancé Robert.

James “Jim” William Kearns, III, of Oak Ridge, NJ, passed away on Wednesday, April 26, 2023, in the comfort of his younger siblings, Patrick and Laura.  He died shortly after celebrating his 77^th birthday with his two beloved daughters, and while returning home from an unforgettable vacation with his brother and four sons.

Jim was born on April 24, 1946, to Gladys Albonica and James William Kearns, Jr. He graduated from Wayne High School and went on to continue his education at Yale University, where he obtained a bachelor’s degree in political science. Jim was a man of great intellect, and we feel certain he would frown upon the bad grammar and poor literary structure of this obituary.

Jim lived a life that reflected his eclectic sensibilities. He served in the United States Marine Corps during the Vietnam War and completed three combat tours (or as he maintained, his period of “studying abroad”). Though he recognized and often commented upon the tragedies of war, he was a remarkable servicemember, receiving the National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal, Combat Action Ribbon, Good Conduct Medal, Vietnam Campaign Medal, and the Rifle Marksmanship Badge before being honorably discharged, having attained the rank of Sergeant and commanding his own platoon. In Vietnam, Jim met and married Hanh To, and together they had six wonderful children, (the “Florida Family OG”), growing now to a legacy of 20+.

After his service, Jim returned to New Jersey and to careers that often continued his commitment to public service. He was in the United States Secret Service; was the youngest Police Chief and Warden in state history; ran the largest private ambulance and public safety company in New Jersey; referred to by his moniker as “#1” at Farmland/Parmalat U.S.A., he oversaw and managed their state-of-the-art sanitary packaging facility; and in the twilight of his professional career, helped manage and run the family contracting business.

Jim was the most unique man many of us have ever met. He was brilliant and always at least one step ahead of his target audience, often outwitting or shocking the crowd. He was a lover of cinema and was quick to quote a line or reenact an entire scene. Jim may have moved slow, but it was only because Jim didn’t have to move for anybody. He loved food, and he loved cooking all types of cuisines, ranging from his famous spicy vindaloo to the finest Sunday gravy that rivaled any Italian nonna’s. Jim also loved to travel, with frequent trips to Cape Hatteras, NC; to the New Jersey Seashore (seahorse, see hell!); to the island of Culebra, PR (where his frozen vindaloo always found a place in his suitcase); and to places further abroad where he could explore new foods and cultures. He passed his love of travel on to his children and delighted in the fact that they had the opportunity to see even more of the world than he did.

Jim constantly challenged the status quo and was known to be an antithetical “rebel.” When he wanted to, he was the life of the party, enjoying a good cocktail (vodka, neat) and capturing a room with tales of his experiences and escapades. His house was a testament to his adventures and personality, filled with keepsakes and souvenirs, some purchased, even more, suspiciously “acquired.”

Above all, Jim loved his family. He is survived and overwhelmingly grieved by his loving children, James (Deborah) Kearns, IV, of Charlottesville, VA; Nathan (Christine) Kearns of Portsmouth, RI; Jessica (Edward) Liva of Allendale, NJ; Jerome (Lauren) Kearns of Robbinsville, NJ; Christopher Kearns of Jersey City, NJ; and Elizabeth (Joshua) Wishman of Wyckoff, NJ; his beloved siblings: Charles (Shirley) Kearns of Rockport, MA; Helen “Bebe” (Haddon) Reines of Ocean View, DE; Laura (Kevin) Labadie of Hudson, OH; and Patrick “Bart” (Janet Scales) Kearns of Oak Ridge, NJ; along with seven adoring grandchildren: James V “Little Jimmy”, Nathan James “NJ”, Scarlett, Grant, Beau, Colin & Morgan; and eight devoted nieces and nephews. Jim was preceded in death by both his parents, and his younger brother, Matthew Kearns.

We love you and will forever miss you Dad, Brother, Poppie, Uncle and friend.

GERTRUDE KULICK

May 23, 1933 – April 22, 2023

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of our beloved mom, Gertrude (Trudy) Kulick, age 89 of Wayne, NJ. She passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, April 22^nd.

Trudy was born in Rotterdam, Holland, the oldest of 9 children. She demonstrated her characteristic strength and determination early on in her life when she left Holland at the age of 17, with nothing but her younger brother, Simon in tow. They arrived by boat in NYC and lived with an Aunt and Uncle in Prospect Park, NJ.  She learned to speak English while working as a housekeeper and nanny for a family in Wayne, and she dreamed of living in that town one day.  She spent every day working towards a better life, always keeping in touch with her big family back in Holland, and weekly sending money to her mom and dresses for her younger sisters. 

Within a few years in the country, Trudy proudly became an American citizen.  She worked hard, but also loved life and having fun. Her favorite flower was tulips, she was a great swimmer, she loved going to the beach with her girlfriends. And once, while on a girl’s trip to Las Vegas she and her friends (and 100 other fans) ate lunch with Elvis Presley.   

Every Friday night Trudy and her brother Simon would go to the local dance hall in Passaic NJ.  One night, she met a tall, dark haired college student named Ed. They hit it off and on November 7, 1959 they were married.   The two settled into a small fixer upper in Clifton, NJ, where she quickly made the house a home. There was nothing she was afraid to tackle, she was fearless and had a thirst for learning. She went to night school so she could land a job as a bookkeeper, a job she loved. Five years later she welcomed her first child, Jeff and 15 months after that, her daughter Kim was born. Soon after in 1967, Trudy, Ed and their 2 toddlers bought their brand-new house in Wayne, it was literally a dream come true for Trudy. She loved raising her family in that home and the door was always open to neighborhood kids and Jeff and Kim’s friends. She loved hosting Christmas eve dinners, Easter, backyard BBQ’s, birthday and graduation parties, any excuse for a full house.  She welcomed everyone in her home.

Trudy, a forever learner taught herself to do everything: cook, sew, bake… her homemade bread was legendary, and she loved sharing it with family and friends.  

Trudy worked as a cafeteria worker in the local high school for many years and she said the best part of that job was the kids… she loved the kids and they loved her.  But when her own kids were grown, she was ready to take on a new challenge. So, at age 50, she studied and proudly received her GED and later went to real estate school to get her license. She loved real estate and excelled at it. She was ambitious, hardworking and focused, yet she had a unique and sweet warmth to her, truly always wanting the best for her clients. She was honest and authentic, willing to sacrifice a sale if she didn’t think it was right for her client.

Trudy was kind, easy going, strong, smart and fiercely independent.  She was truly one of a kind. She never lost her Dutch accent, which only made her more endearing. She always believed she could achieve anything and taught her kids to aim high. Later in life, she loved traveling – Aruba was one of her favorite destinations.

For all of her achievements in life, her greatest pride was her family. She loved her family more than anything. She cherished her 2 grand daughters and lit up when she saw them.  She was predeceased by her loving husband Edward and dearest brothers Simon and Bastian.  She is survived by her son Jeffery, wife Kaori of Tokyo, Japan and daughter Kim of Wayne NJ and her two beloved granddaughters, Ellie and Charlotte as well as 5, sisters and 1 brother and lots of extended family in Rotterdam, Holland.

Trudy was well-loved by family, friends and colleagues and will be dearly missed. When you see the Spring tulips bloom… think of her.

Maryann Powers (nee Cauda), age 66 of Wayne, died on Saturday, April 22, 2023. She’s lived in Wayne since 1991.

Maryann grew up in Cliffside Park, NJ and graduated from Cliffside Park High School in 1974. She went on to earn her Bachelor’s Degree from Felician College, and later her Master’s Degree in Cytotechnology from UMDNJ. She retired in 2019 after more than twenty years with Quest Diagnostics where she had been a Clinical Trial Project Manager in Teterboro.

Maryann enjoyed life, had a great sense of humor, and she was incredibly crafty. She loved sewing and quilting, scrapbooking (or as her husband describes it; cutting big pieces of paper into little pieces of paper), she was a talented calligrapher, and played the harp and piano. She was generous to a fault and there are plenty of friends to affirm that.

In 1973, Jesse Powers found himself sitting behind Maryann in high school. They quickly became friends and one day she asked him for a ride home from school. As it turned out, she lived less than a block from the school, and this was just her way of getting to know him a little better. They were married on January 27, 1979 at St. John’s Church in Fairview followed by a honeymoon to Spain. They settled in Bergenfield upon their return, and then moved to Wayne in 1991. Throughout the years, they traveled extensively to places like Italy, France, Scotland, Mexico, Hawaii, and all around the Caribbean. Her favorite place to visit was Venice, Italy. Jesse will tell you they were all good years and they had lots of fun together. Maryann was also a devoted mother to her three children. They describe her as a true “Mamma Bear” who was always quick to defend them, and who loved them more than anything. Maryann also loved her granddaughter, Kacie, more than words could ever describe. They will all miss her dearly.

Maryann is survived by her beloved husband Jesse of Wayne, their three children: Adam Powers and his husband Robert of Brooklyn, Ashley Rockwell and her husband Norm of Windham, ME, and Kelly Powers and her husband Brian of W. Milford, NJ, one granddaughter; Kacie Basile and two brothers: John Cauda of Demarest, and Glenn Cauda and his wife Louise of Henderson, NV.

Francis E Scillieri, age 68, entered into our God’s glorious kingdom on Saturday, April 22, 2023.

Frank was born on October 10th, 1954 in Paterson, NJ. He was the fourth child to Dr. Frank and Gertrude Scillieri.  As a boy, he was an alter server, delivered newspapers and spent most days playing baseball with his friends at School 25.  Frank pitched and played shortstop in Paterson’s city leagues and he continued to play baseball at Paterson Catholic high school.  There he met the love of his life, Jeanette Spanedda. Although Frank was a senior and Jeanette a sophomore, they shared a typing class.  Frank sat in front of Jeanette, since the teacher put her students in alphabetical order.  Each day he would come in and tease Jeanette by pulling the typing paper out of her typewriter.  It really was love at first type! After high school, Frank attended Rutgers University in New Brunswick, NJ where he worked hard to achieve his Bachelor’s degree in Science. He was in several college clubs, lectured at a local church and made some fantastic friends while living on campus there with roommates Carl and Tom.  On his breaks from college, he always came back to visit his neighborhood friends, especially his best friend, Rocco. After college, Frank worked in a lab for Hoffman La Roche and eventually made his 40+ year career in Medical and Clinical Sales for a variety of companies throughout the US.  

Frank and Jeanette married in 1979 and were active members of the Blessed Sacrament RC church community in Paterson, NJ. They lived in Paterson and Clifton, before moving to Wayne, NJ where they raised their three beautiful children Frank, Diane and Michael.  During those years, Frank coached his children in basketball, baseball and soccer at the Wayne Boys and Girls Club. He became a parishioner and daily communicant at Our Lady of The Valley RC church, where he was a part of the church’s cleaning crew, helped out with the annual parish festival, and volunteered as an outreach worker for Eva’s Village. 

Frank loved astronomy and looking into the greatness of the night sky. He even made his own telescope as a young boy! His love for the stars continued with his own children and he would bring them outside to explore the beauty of the heavens.  Frank was incredibly active and family oriented his entire life. He enjoyed being outdoors, taking walks around the block with his family to “go see the cows”, gardening and mowing the lawn. On Friday nights, he was typically around the family table with Jeanette’s parents, John and Emma, playing their favorite card game “May I”. He continued to play softball in the men’s recreational 40, 50, and 60+ leagues. He loved to bike, hike, raft “oars down!”, and spent many summer vacations exploring the National Parks with his family and friends. Frank thoroughly enjoyed spending time with Jeanette, his children, son and daughter in laws, his grandchildren, and other family and friends at their condo in North Wildwood.  He was delighted to bike the entire island, walk the beach at sunset, body surf in the ocean, walk the sea wall and the boardwalk and have a slice of pizza at Sam’s Pizza Palace.

Frank felt so very happy with the life, family and friends that God had blessed him with.  He loved his family and loved seeing each of his children marry wonderful spouses. But most of all, he simply melted with the birth of each of his grandchildren, which he claimed was one of the best blessings that God ever gave him.  His heart was filled with such happiness when he could chase them in the yard, play horsey, build towers with blocks, play cars or just sit with his little ones to read a book or share a story with them.  

Frank was a prayerful and faithful man during his life, but most especially in the years leading up to the end of his life. He was a loving husband, father, son, son-in-law, brother and friend.  He had a special devotion to the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the Rosary and Our Lord’s Promise of Divine Mercy. He was never shy in sharing his faith or love for Our Lord with others.

He will be deeply and forever missed by his loving wife of 43 years, Jeanette; daughter Diane Estevez and husband Rubiel of Sinking Spring, PA; son Frank Scillieri and wife Elissa of Wayne, NJ; son Michael Scillieri and wife Jennifer of Butler, NJ; grandchildren Samantha, Jackson, Gabriel, Claire, Jacob, David and John.  Frank will be joining his deceased brother Donald Scillieri in God’s heavenly kingdom, and will be greatly missed by his sister Mary Sheehan and husband Tom of Jefferson, NJ; brother John Scillieri and wife Angela of Wayne, NJ; brother James Scillieri and wife Freida of Wayne, NJ; best friend Rocco Andriulli and wife Nancy of Elmwood Park, NJ; sister-in-law Julia Welsh and her companion Steve Defilippo of Manchester, NJ; sister-in-law Carol Funicelli and her husband Jim of Toms River, NJ; sister-in-law Elisa Spanedda and her husband Guy Margolin of Hawthorne, NJ; brother-in-law John Spanedda and his wife Susan of Franklin Lakes, NJ; brother-in-law Peter Spanedda and his wife Debbie of Newtown, CT.  In addition to his huge family, there will be an emptiness left in the hearts of his many nieces and nephews, cousins, close neighbors (who will forever remember Frank’s Super bowl dance), his softball buddies and church friends.

The Scillieri family would like everyone to remember that each day is truly a gift from God. Our family relished every last moment we had with Frank and wished that time would never end. He stands as an inspiration to us all, representing faith, family, sacrifice, mercy and most especially love.

In Lieu of flowers memorial donations to Eva’s Village, 393 Main Street, Paterson, NJ 07501 or the Wayne Interfaith Network, PO Box 3341, Wayne, NJ 07474-3341 would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anthony David Gerleit, age 73, of Wayne, NJ.

Anthony passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Wednesday, April 19, 2023.

Anthony was born in Pequannock at Chilton Hospital and raised in the Pines Lake section of Wayne.  He was one of five sons to Warren and Marilyn Gerleit. Those who got to know Anthony knew him best as “Tony”.  While growing up in Wayne, Tony attended Wayne Hills High School and excelled in athletics.  He was on the Wayne Hills High School wrestling team as well as their varsity soccer team.  Tony graduated from high school in 1968, which was Wayne Hills High School’s first graduating class.  Following his graduation from high school, Tony went on to Graham Junior College in Boston, MA where he earned his Associates degree. 

Not long after earning his college degree, Tony fulfilled his responsibilities to his country and enlisted in the United States Army in 1971.  While serving in the Army, Tony was stationed in Worms, Germany where he made lifelong friends whom he kept in touch with for many years.  He served honorably and proudly from 1971 until 1974.

Tony was honorably discharged from the US Army in 1974 and settled in Baton Rouge Louisiana for a few years.  While residing there, he was contracted to work with one of the major petroleum companies.  Over the next several years, Tony made his way back up to the tri state area and moved to Long Island, NY.  During that time, Tony began his lifelong career in the retail and wholesale Industry. 

For more than thirty years, Tony traveled the world buying and selling in retail and wholesale.  Tony specialized in Christmas décor and merchandise.  He traveled throughout the entire world year-round buying and selling a wide variety of Christmas products and paraphernalia.  Tony was most recently employed by Regency International in New York City.  Tony sincerely loved his work and was truly loved and respected in his industry and by his colleagues. 

Christmas was always a very special time of the year for Tony.  Fortunately, he worked in the industry that allowed him to enjoy Christmas all year long.

Tony moved back to New Jersey, living in Ringwood for a time then eventually back to his roots in the Pines Lake section of Wayne in 2013.  Wherever he resided, Tony’s house, his friends’ homes, as well as his family’s homes, were always decorated wonderfully for the holidays.  Where most people usually only have one Christmas tree in the home, Tony had five, and they were all fully and beautifully decorated. 

A few of Tony’s favorite pastimes were skiing and sailing.  As a young boy he treasured sailing on Pines Lake where he grew up.  Later as an adult he earned his Captain’s License and sailed mostly on the ocean, traveling to a variety of destinations around the world including the Caribbean and Thailand.  Growing up, Tony and his family cherished their yearly vacations to Long Beach Island, Martha’s Vineyard, and the Outer Banks. 

Tony was often a quiet and reserved gentleman.  He was giving, empathetic, and had a wonderfully positive attitude about everything.  He brought out the best in his family and friends.  Tony always surrounded himself with kindhearted and good-natured people.  He was often selfless, putting the wants and needs of his friends and family before his own.  Those who knew Tony best, knew that his greatest passions in life were his family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Tony than spending time with the people he loved.  Tony was a very special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be missed by all those that were fortunate enough to have known him.

Tony is survived by his four brothers; Randy Gerleit and his wife Linda of Lebanon, NJ, Steven Gerleit and his wife Pat of Harrison, NY, Carl Gerleit of Phoenix, AZ, and Andrew Gerleit and his wife Christine of Wayne NJ, ten nieces and nephews; Krista, Katie, Steven, Erin, Kelly, Stephanie, Alexis, Brianna, Derek, and Chelsea, and seven grandnieces and grandnephews. He was predeceased by his nephew Kevin Gerleit, by his sister-in-law Suzanne Gerleit, and by his parents Warren and Marilyn Gerleit.

Those planning to make a donation in Anthony's name are asked to consider Friends of Laurel Wood Arboretum, PO Box 2433, Wayne NJ 07474 www.laurelwoodarboretum.org

Richard C. “Rick” Powell, age 69 of Wayne, died unexpectedly on Tuesday, April 18, 2023.

Rick was a member of the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne, and a member of the Grand Lodge of New Jersey Free and Accepted Masons. Rick volunteered at the New Jersey Veteran’s Home in Paramus, was a member of the Son’s of the American Revolution, and his high IQ earned him membership in MENSA.

Christian Bizzotto-Pascal passed away peacefully on Tuesday, April 18^th in Pompton Lakes, NJ with his family by his side. 

He was predeceased by his father Gino Bizzotto (Antibes, France), his mother Corine Pascal (Santa Cruz, CA), and his sisters Ginette LaFosse (Santa Cruz, CA) and Paulette Greaume (Paris, France)

He is survived by his wife Barbara Pascal (nee Vohs) of Pompton Lakes, NJ; five children including his son Christian and his wife Lorraine Pascal of Edison, NJ; his son Mark and his wife Jenifer Pascal of Cranford, NJ; his daughter Michelle and her husband Fabio Chavez of Pompton Lakes, NJ; his daughter Kristen Pascal and fiancé John King of Hopewell Junction, NY; and his youngest daughter Natalie and her husband Joseph Careri of Bloomingdale, NJ.  Chris also leaves behind nine grandchildren; Brian & his wife Dayna Pascal of West Orange, NJ; Stephanie Pascal and her fiancée Julia Blasl of Forked River, NJ, Laura Pascal of Highland Park, NJ; Spencer Pascal of Hoboken, NJ, Caroline and Sarah Pascal of Cranford, NJ; Lucas Chavez of Pompton Lakes, NJ; and Joseph and Nicholas Careri of Bloomingdale, NJ.  Chris has one great-grandchild, Emmarie Pascal of West Orange, NJ.

Chris was born in Boulogne-Billancourt, France just outside Paris, before World War II.  His early life was difficult as he spent much of his time separated from his parents and cared for by his older sisters during the war.  He always spoke of his sisters’ importance in his life and how they protected and nurtured him.  This was the root of his strong beliefs in family, loyalty, and responsibility.

In 1946, he moved to New York City with his mother and sisters.  He learned English with a proficiency even greater than his native French tongue.  Even as a young child he was industrious and driven.  Extremely intelligent and hard-working, he went to school while also working to help contribute to the family’s income.  That built his foundational principles around selflessness, altruism and being fiscally prudent.

When Chris went to Bishop DuBois High School, he was a member of the nationally renowned New York Boys Choir and recorded an album while there. After graduating high school in 1955 with high honors, Chris was granted a full scholarship to New York University and earned a Bachelor of Science in Chemical Engineering. He was also a key member of NYU’s National Champion Fencing Team. 

After graduation, Chris married his first wife Elaine Pascal (nee Lombardi).  They moved to Montreal, Quebec where Chris was able to utilize his French fluency and his Chemical Engineering degree to secure product development work at General Foods.  Chris’ two boys, Christian and Mark were born while in Canada. He was a dedicated father and taught his sons to strive high and to be their best selves. 

His entrepreneurial nature was initially sparked during this time as he ran a bakery, with his mother - all while working his primary job and attending graduate school at McGill University in the evenings, ultimately, earning an MBA degree.

In 1969, Chris moved the family to Nutley, NJ when he got a promotional offer from Shulton/Mennen. In the early 1970’s, he decided that his true calling was as an entrepreneur and started an export company with his cousin, outsourcing Professional Purchasing services for large overseas companies. The business became a huge success, especially as requirements for US-made parts grew internationally.

During this time, Chris and Elaine were divorced.  This was very difficult for him, but ultimately, it became a blessing, as he married his current wife, Barbara, in 1979. She has faithfully been by his side for 44 years.  Chris and Barbara had three wonderful daughters, Michelle, Kristen, and Natalie who have all grown up with the same strong principles around family, responsibility, commitment, and loyalty.

Not finished, Chris and Barbara opened their home to take in four foster children and had a critically important impact on their lives using the same character-building approach and love.

Chris always wanted to do more and created a new company, CD&P Health Products using his Chemical Engineering talents and education.  There he developed skin care formulas using essential oils, several years ahead of the mainstream industry. Leading spas including The Spa at the Hotel Hershey and The Greenbrier used his products exclusively at their resorts. 

His accomplishments only grew from there. He had a strong interest in flying and fulfilled the associated training and extensive flight hours to be certified as a fully licensed pilot. He was a professional speaker at skin care conferences. In his 70’s he wrote a book. In his 80’s, even as his health started to fail, he got a patent for one of his skin care formulations.

He was also a strongly religious man and deeply committed to his church and community.  As a deacon at Calvary Temple International, he always looked to help others that were less fortunate and teach God’s word.  He gave more than he took and has a long list of people that benefitted from his generosity.

He truly loved being around people, having food and sharing stories. One of his greatest gifts was his laugh.  It was deep and genuine and made others feel accepted and wanted.

A great, great “good” man who achieved much more than most.

In lieu of flowers please consider donating to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital at www.stjude.org or His Helping Hands at https://linktr.ee/Hishelpinghands  HisHelpingHands is a local charity, providing food, medicine, and supplies to homeless people in Paterson, NJ.  It was set-up a few years ago by Chris’ son-in-law, Joseph Careri, in his efforts to give back to his community.

Elizabeth "Betty" Schulte 67 of North Haledon, NJ passed away on April 18th, 2023 in the loving presence of her daughter after an inspiring fight with pancreatic cancer.

Born on August 10th, 1955 to parents Frank Schulte and Paula Ficucell, Betty grew up in Wayne and knew she wanted to be two things in life: a teacher and a mom. She attended Wayne Valley HS Class of '73, and went on to receive her BS in K-12 Math and Science Education from William Paterson University.

Her first life goal was achieved when she was hired as a teacher at PCTI in 1978. Teaching wasn't enough and Betty felt a calling to help students beyond the classroom, leading her to receive her MS in Counseling at William Paterson University. She switched roles and became a guidance counselor and later a crisis counselor, where she touched hundreds if not thousands of students lives. Before her retirement earlier this year, Betty's final position was Supervisor of Admissions where each year she single-handedly gave thousands of students the opportunity for an amazing education. During her 44 years at PCTI she served on many committees, received awards such as Counselor of the year twice, and was recognized by the PCTI Board and Passaic County Freeholders for her efforts in saving a student who had attempted suicide. 

Her second life goal of being a mom became a reality when she adopted her daughter Anastasia (Stacey) in August of 1993. Having received the call for adoption on her 37th birthday, she would forever regard her daughter as the greatest gift she ever received. She spent her life dedicated to her daughter as a single mom, filling in as both mom and dad effortlessly. When asked what her proudest life achievement was, she would always say "my daughter." 

Betty lived her life in the service of others, feeling it was her purpose to help people in any and all ways. As a nearly lifelong resident of Wayne, she served proudly alongside her mother Paula on the Wayne First Aid Squad where she coached, mentored and trained many new EMTs, served as the squads Director, and holds a lifetime membership.

Betty was well known for her kindness, generosity, and her infectiously loud laugh that could be heard through the halls of PCTI and her home. Often regarded as "the kindest person anyone ever knew" she saw the world and people as good, and never had a negative outlook on anything. In addition to being a kind soul, to those who knew her best, Betty was also painfully funny and told the best stories. She was an avid Mah Jong player, loved a good Sudoku book, was always watching soap operas or reality TV, and was her happiest in the presence of others. She was a beloved member of her family and community, and will be sorely missed. 

Betty is predeceased by her parents Frank and Paula Schulte, her sister Patricia "Patty" Garcia, and nephew Will Garcia III. She is survived by her daughter Anastasia, brothers John, Fran, and Bill Schulte and many nieces and nephews. 

Anyone wishing to donate money can donate to the Betty Schulte Scholarship Fund for students at PCTI.

Donations: 

Please make checks payable to PCTVS and note Betty Schulte Scholarship in the memo line

Miguel Valera , of Wayne, N.J. Age 76 passed suddenly on April 18,2023.

Miguel also known to family and friends as Mike or Don Miguel was born April 3, 1947 in Zurgena, Spain. His early childhood was spent in this small farm town where his family name was very well known, until the civil war forced his father to take a job in the coal mines in Brussels, Belgium. Although his family did not want to relocate because Spain had always been there home, the war had made employment scarce. Miguel was 8 years old when they arrived in Belgium, and he would spend about the next 12 years of his life there. After graduating High school Miguel joined the merchant marines as an electrical apprentice on a huge ship. He was able to travel all of South America and North America as well as some parts of Europe.

In 1971 Miguel and his brother Diego sold their prize Aston Martin sports car to finally able to come to America. When he arrived in Paterson, N.J. He worked for many different companies and jobs. April 16, 1974 he met the love of his life Louise Sinicalchi in Peekskill, N.Y. They were soon engaged that same year in June and married in October. There whirlwind romance turned into a beautiful lifelong dedication to each other of the purest form. It was truly the meaning of unconditional love. In 1975 they bought a home in Paterson, N.J. In 1983 he received his Electrical Contractor License for the state of NJ. He refused to take the test in his native language of Spanish. Instead, he studied very hard with many late nights learning English as well as studying for the state test and passed the electrical license exam in English.

In 1984, blessed with a baby girl he became a father for the first time. Marie Dolores Valera was named after his mother and was a beautiful bright ray of sunshine in his life. In 1987 God blessed Miguel with a baby boy. Michael Diego Valera. A son to carry on his name and whom he would later teach how to be a man was very important to Miguel. In 1989, Miguel and Louise bought a beautiful home in Wayne, N.J. They made it their dream home for themselves and all their hard work getting to this point was a beautiful moment for Miguel and Louise. Miguel was truly an amazing father. He never missed a softball game, a soccer tournament, or a graduation. He worked so very hard for his family but before work, or anything his family always came first. Miguel loved to take crabbing trips down the shore. He loved vacationing to Florida and eating shrimp and drinking ice cold Budweiser at a restaurant on the beach. He loved to take his family on ski trips or even just simply having a movie night or a game night. He would do anything for Daddies little girl including buying her anything she would ever want.

Miguel had a very special bond like no other with his son. Miguel and his son Michael were inseparable, starting to work together when Michael was just 8-10 years old and it stayed that way for the remainder of his life. In 2002 Miguel and Louise formed MLV Reality LLC and it took off, becoming a very well know real estate company in Passaic N.J.

August 7, 2018 his heart became completely full with the birth of his first granddaughter Ella Rose Valera.  Miguel and Ella had a bond like no other. He played with her as much as he could, they pick on each other and truly had a beautiful relationship. So much so that Ella says grandpa lives in her heart now. He was truly an amazing man. In his last conversation with his son, Miguel wanted to express just how much he loved his wife.  Louise, he said deserves everything and he would have nothing without her. He told Michael to take care of her. To always put his family first. When Miguel got engaged to Louise he told her, “I know I don’t have much right now, but if you let me one day I will give you the moon.” A promise he made so long ago that he has kept. Miguel always kept his promises. 

Miguel is survived by his wife Louise (nee Sinisalchi) of Wayne, his son Michael Diego Valera of Wayne, his daughter Marie Dolores Valera of Wayne, His brother Manuel Valera, his two sisters; Emilia Valera, and Anita Cacoulidis, and his granddaughter Ella Rose Valera.  He was predeceased by his brother Diego Valera. 

Paul Breen, Jr., age 83 of Wayne, died peacefully on Friday, April 14, 2023. He has lived in Wayne since 1967.

Paul grew up in Fair Lawn, NJ and graduated from Fair Lawn High School in 1957. He attended Roanoke College where he joined the Pi Kappa Phi fraternity. He went on to earn his Associates Degree from the County College of Morris, but remained a loyal fan of Roanoke College throughout his lifetime, attending Roanoke Alumni Weekends every April for decades. He began his career working for various electronics distributors before starting his own Manufacturer's Rep  company in 1983; Breen Associates.  He continued operating Breen Associates until just last year.

Paul had many, diverse interests, including snow skiing, water skiing, fishing, bicycling, playing the organ, reading, and his all-time greatest passion was tennis. He played tennis at every chance he had, and was a lifelong member and past president of the Wayne Racquet Club.  With family and friends, he very much enjoyed their house at Lake Wallenpaupack, Pennsylvania, where Paul would go fishing with his dog, Brandy.  He also took his family to Seaside Heights, NJ, for annual summer vacations. He learned to ski at Vernon Valley Great Gorge and belonged to Hidden Valley in Highland Lakes, but once he experienced skiing at Park City, Utah, this became his favorite ski destination. Paul devoured books and favored nonfiction and sci-fi novels. When his eyesight began to fail him, he would still read with the aid of a magnifying glass. More recently, he enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren around the pool. His great-grandkids would gather around him when he played the organ. He loved all the time he was able to spend with each of them, and they will miss him dearly. 

Paul met his wife, Sandy (nee Kidd), at a friend’s house. It was love at first sight, at least for Paul. Sandy turned him down once or twice before she finally relented, and they began dating. Things move quickly and they were married on September 9, 1961. They initially settled in Fair Lawn, and lived in Trumbull, Connecticut, briefly before buying their forever home in Wayne in 1967. During their marriage, they traveled extensively to places like Bermuda, Las Vegas, the Bahamas, and four trips to Hawaii. Sandy was the love of his life, and he told her that often. 

Paul is survived by his beloved wife, Sandy, their two children; Robert and his wife Elizabeth, and Deborah Pinand and her husband Paul, Sr., six grandchildren: Dana Pinand (Timmy), PJ Pinand, Jr., Matthew Pinand and his wife Ashley, Joseph Pinand, Cassidy Breen, and Michael Breen, five great-grandchildren: Nolah Rounds, Ryder Decker, Cheyenne Pinand, Chase Pinand, and Carter Pinand. His sister: Marilyn Whetham and her late husband Bob, and his sister-in-law: Ellen Cosgrove and her husband Bob. Paul was predeceased by his daughter Tracey Breen in 1997 and by his grandson Christopher Breen-Stivala in 2013

In lieu of flowers, donations in Paul’s memory would be appreciated to RBARI, c/o Ramapo-Bergen Animal Refuge, Inc., 2 Shelter Lane, Oakland, NJ 07436, www.rbari.org

Lewis P. DeMarco of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully at his home on the afternoon of April 13th, 2023, at the age of 84.

Lew was born in Paterson, NJ, on October 5th, 1938, to Bessie and Charles DeMarco. Growing up in Paterson, he graduated from Eastside High School in 1956. Afterward, he enlisted in the United States National Guard, where he was trained as a Medic. He frequently joked that he was part of the “Garden State Parkway War” while stationed in NJ.

On May 25th, 1963, Lew married his first great-love, Carol Herringslack. They moved to Wayne, NJ, in 1965 after the birth of their first child, Deborah. They would have two more children, Jeffrey and Victoria, in the following years. They had a loving and beautiful marriage, enjoying many years of raising children, hosting Sunday family BBQs by the pool, and living up to their agreement to never fight with each other. Sadly, Carol passed away in 2000 at the young age of 57.

In the following years, Lew was fortunate to find love again with Edna McCann. They shared more than 20 happy years together, and she has remained his companion until his passing.

Lew learned the printing trade at Riverside Press where he worked for years as a teenager under the guidance of his father Charles DeMarco. With his knowledge from his father he started working for the Bergen Record as a printer. He then established his own business, Grandview Printing Company, in 1974 in Hawthorne, NJ, which expanded to its current location in Totowa, NJ. Grandview was one of Lew’s proudest accomplishments, and he looked forward to going to work daily, frequently saying that “when you enjoy your work, you never need a vacation.” His son, Jeff, learned about the business, and they worked together for many years.

Lew was a humorous, caring, loving father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. He enjoyed gardening, caring for his koi pond, and restoring antique cars to be entered in car shows. He enjoyed sharing his love of movies with his children and grandchildren, especially the movie “The Old Man and the Sea” over and over and over again. He also loved to test his mind while watching Jeopardy every night. He enjoyed yearly trips to Aruba with his partner, Edna, and frequent dinners with friends and family. He was incredibly proud of his children and grandchildren and was lucky to celebrate many milestones with them.

Lew is survived by his sister, Gail DiLella, and his children, Deborah Cocilovo and her partner, Scott Keegstra, Jeffrey DeMarco, and his wife, Kimberley, Victoria Evans, and her husband, Eric. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Carolynn, Katie, Kristina, Nicholas, Tyler, and Matthew, and a recently added great-grandchild, Abigail. In addition, he is survived by his long-time companion, Edna McCann.

Anna Katherine (Nuss) Evans, 95, of Wayne, formerly of Paterson and Clifton, passed away peacefully on April 12, 2023. The youngest of three children, Anna was born to William and Katherine (Werthmann) Nuss on May 28, 1927 in Brooklyn, NY. She graduated from East New York Vocational High School in 1945. Anna was the beloved wife of the late Howard F. Evans, whom she married on September 28, 1946.

From 1946 to 1948, Anna worked as a Construction News Reporter for F.W. Dodge, a division of McGraw-Hill, before leaving to raise a family. She returned to F.W. Dodge eighteen years later in 1966 once her youngest child reached school age and worked there until she retired in 1993. Anna proudly called herself an “A.C.E” reporter, a play on her initials. It wasn’t until later in life that she learned her middle initial was the letter K, not C.

For many years, Anna spent almost every Wednesday night bowling at Parkway Lanes in Elmwood Park. She was part of a league with her husband and her father, who drove all the way from Staten Island to bowl with her. She also loved watching the New York Mets, scratching lottery tickets, playing the slot machines in Atlantic City, going to bingo, playing cards (and beating everyone at rummy well into her 90s), listening to Frank Sinatra, and enjoying a French Cruller with coffee. Anna had many pets throughout her life and was especially fond of miniature schnauzers, Siamese cats, and most recently, her rescue cat named “Kitty Cat” whom she affectionately referred to as “my girl.”

Anna is survived by her four children: Noreen Evans, Janice Rapp and fiancé Edward Petrosky, Eric Evans and wife Emily Evans, Todd Evans and wife Patricia Evans; her eight grandchildren: Kenneth Gayda Jr., Laura Villanueva and husband Joseph Villanueva, Lisa Gayda, Erica Evans and husband James Schleppenbach, Jason Evans and wife Kristin Evans, Ariana Evans, Christopher Evans and fiancée Nathaly Cabrera, Kristina Rappaport and husband Jason Rappaport; and one great grandson, Vincent Evans. She is predeceased by her brothers, William and Arthur Nuss.

 In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Anna’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Henry Clover, 95, formerly of Paterson, NJ, began his Easter celebration early on April 5th, 2023, when he was released from his temporary earthly home at the White Oak Manor Nursing Facility in Shelby, NC into the loving arms of Jesus.  Words cannot express the joy he experienced finding himself freed from the pain and suffering of this corrupted world, safely in the embrace of his Savior, surrounded by former friends, family, and his loving wife Ruth, who passed into glory in 2017.  God’s gift to Henry was Faith to cling to Christ’s atoning sacrifice on his behalf and His victorious Resurrection – this was Henry’s ticket into glory.  All Praise be to God alone!

Of Dutch descent, he was born into this world on August 20, 1927 in Paterson to Herman and Anna Clover. He lived in West Paterson for a time before moving to Prospect Park, where they shared a home during the Great Depression with his Aunt Dora and Uncle Arend DeVos.  He graduated Central High School in Paterson and served stateside in the US Army during World War II until the war’s end in 1945. In 1951 he married Ruth Edna MacMillan, by whom he fathered three sons.

He was a butcher by trade. With his long-time friend and business partner, William Peters, he co-purchased and operated a local grocery and butcher shop, Pee Wee Superette on East Main Street, Paterson for several years.  After selling the business in the late 1960’s he worked at Mobay Chemical Corp. in Haledon where he served as union shop steward until his retirement. In 2012 he and Ruth moved from Wayne to Shelby, NC under the care of family.

Aside from his business and working life Henry was active in church, serving as a Deacon in the former Central Reformed Church in Paterson, and also as Deacon and Treasurer for the Preakness Valley United Reformed Church, Wayne, NJ.  His hobbies included bowling, NY Mets baseball and NY Giants football, and after retirement taking vacation trips with Bill and Jo Peters.

Henry is survived by his three sons: Stephen H. of Shelby, NC, David W. of Sioux City, IA, and Thomas W. of Denville, NJ,  six grandchildren : Heather Allen, Joseph Clover, Brendan and Breanna Clover, Daniel and Laura Clover, and nine great grandchildren : Jamari, Damani, Amontae, Eli, Dylanee, Paislee, Ruthee, Sonora and Raymond.

In lieu of flowers, Memorials may be sent to the Preakness Valley United Reformed Church, 480 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

James J. Kindler, age 80 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, April 11, 2023. He’s been a resident of Wayne since 1974.

Jim had most recently been a realtor with Nico Realty in Wayne before retiring, and he was previously an RV rental agent with Cruise America in Lodi, NJ, as well as a truck mechanic and truck rental manager with Turnpike Ford in Secaucus.

Jim grew up in Jersey City, NJ and graduated from Snyder High School with the class of 1961. Shortly thereafter, he joined the Army National Guard and proudly served for more than six years before being honorably discharged in 1970. Jim remained proudly patriotic throughout his lifetime and was always supportive of his fellow veterans.

Jim enjoyed arts & crafts and had created many shadow boxes using memorabilia from their numerous vacations to memorialize their trips, and they’re displayed throughout their home. He also loved canoeing and had actually traversed all of Lake George in his canoe! He also enjoyed deer hunting and target shooting at Cherry Ridge range in Highland Lakes, NJ. He was also a very proud member of the NRA. He especially loved cruising on his 1977 Yamaha motorcycle, which he kept in pristine condition.

In January of 1969, Jim met Sharon Wiles on a blind date. They hit it off immediately and a storybook romance ensued, including a legendary weekend that summer to the Woodstock music festival. Jim proposed to Sharon on Christmas day of that same year, and they were married on August 30, 1970. After a memorable honeymoon to Bermuda they settled in Little Falls before moving to Wayne in 1975. They enjoyed raising their two boys together, vacationing many summers at Lake George, and they traveled extensively to such places as Alaska, St. Maarten, and Aruba. Sharon describes their fifty-three years together as “magical,” and she’s grateful to have been married to such a very special man. She will miss him dearly.

Jim is survived by his loving wife, Sharon, their two sons: Paul and his wife Christina, and Jonathan and his wife Filiz, four grandchildren: Brandon, Aidan, Devin, and Jasmine, and one brother; Charles. Jim was predeceased by two brothers: Raymond and Joseph.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory would be greatly appreciated to the Cherry Ridge Range, care of; Association-NJ Rifle & Pistol Clubs, 100 Range Rd., Highland Lakes, NJ, www.anjrpc.org, or to the National Rifle Association, www.nra.org

Benjamin P. Schittone, age 96, of Wayne passed away Saturday, April 8, 2023, with family by his side.

Born to Vincenzo and Anna Schittone on December 13, 1926, in Manhattan, New York. He and his parents relocated to Sicily before eventually returning to New York City permanently. He spent his youth in East Harlem, where he formed lifelong friendships and developed his artistic skill set.

Ben was drafted for World War II and honorably discharged in 1945 whereupon he attended New York University and Parsons School of Design. 

His early career was spent in various art studios and marketing agencies around Manhattan, before becoming an art director for Lanvin-Charles of the Ritz. There, he met his future wife, Susan, and they were married in 1975. His daughter Veronica was born in 1979 and his son Vincenzo in 1981. 

Ben was an artist; he created commercial art (without a computer) for many luxury and premium brand names. His fine art, while private, has won many local awards and continues to be an inspiration for family and friends.

Ben was also a storyteller. And as if he was standing in front of a canvas, could paint you a picture of anything from The Fall of Roman Empire to his own life, growing up in 1930s/40s East Harlem, New York City.

Benjamin P. Schittone lived a full and wonderful life. He will be remembered lovingly by his wife, children and four grandchildren: Sara, Parker, Ben, and Connor.

Walter R. Herbst, age 89 of Wayne, died peacefully on Friday, April 7, 2023. He came to the United States after World War II and was able to realize the American Dream through his hard work and perseverance.

Walter was born in Gottschee, Austria in 1933. His family was driven out of their home as a result of the events of World War II. . Eventually, he and his family arrived in a refugee camp in Europe and they were provided safe passage to America. His family settled in Queens, New York, where there were many other Gottschee refugees. Upon arrival in the United States, he barely spoke English, but successfully graduated from Grover Cleveland High School in Queens and went on to earn his Engineering Degree from Manhattan College. He began his career with J.G. White and later moved to Hewitt Robbins before co-founding EDC, Inc.He operated that company for more than 45 years before selling it in 2011. He wasn't the type of man to sit still, however, and continued working as an engineer until 2020. Engineering was his life's work and passion. 

Walter met his wife, Maria (nee Melz) in Queens.  She was the younger sister of a good friend of his, and the two of them hit it off. They were married on May 12, 1956 at St. Mathias Church and set out to build a beautiful life together. Walter traveled extensively during his career, and Maria worked tirelessly raising their three boys. She will tell you that he was a great guy, a kind man, and they built a beautiful life together. His hard work and perseverance enabled them to buy a home in Wayne, NJ in 1965, Walter was a devoted husband, father, and family man who loved weekend barbeques and watching the young ones swimming in his pool. He and Maria were eventually blessed with six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren, all of whom brought him the greatest joy. He loved them all very much and they will each miss him dearly.

Walter did occasionally relax and when he did, he enjoyed reading history books and watching classic western movies on TV. He was a huge Mets and Jets fan and loved watching World Cup soccer. . He and Maria were also able to travel throughout the years and had gone back to visit Austria on several occasions. He truly had a good life.

Walter is survived by his wife of sixty-seven years; Maria of Wayne, their three sons: Walter and his wife Margaret, James and his wife Debra, and Robert, six grandchildren: Michael, Diana, Andrew, Eric, Jackson, and Tessa, as well as seven great-grandchildren: Julia, Emily, Ryan, Norah, Colin, Jonah, and Eva.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the CTC Academy, 125 Bauer Drive, Oakland,NJ 07436 would be appreciated.

Joseph Phillip Ofmani, age 75, of Wayne passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, April 4, 2023.

Joe was raised in Union City, NJ and was the youngest of two sons born to Giuseppi and Marta Ofmani. He graduated from Emerson High School in 1966 where he played on the varsity football team. He was then drafted into the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War where he was stationed in Korea and served as a Military Police (MP) until he was honorably discharged in 1969.  Shortly after his discharge from the military, Joe lost both his mother and father within the span of only one year. He loved sharing memories of his parents and was forever trying to recreate his mother’s recipes. 

Joe married his high school girlfriend, Linda Cattani.  The couple settled in Union City and while residing there welcomed the birth of their daughter Amy.  After ten years of marriage, the couple separated. Joe remarried after being introduced to Vicki Gentempo on a blind date. The newlyweds settled in Wayne where they raised their two children Joseph and Antonia and resided ever since.

Joe was a member of Plumbers Local #14 (now #24) out of West Caldwell, NJ and part of the New Jersey State League of Master Plumbers. Although he technically retired in 2011, his passion for plumbing never faded and he worked until his passing.

Joe was an avid fisherman. He looked forward to fishing in Chateauguay, New York annually and was also known to catch an occasional tuna during deep sea expeditions with his friends. Joe frequented many of the golf courses and enjoyed spending time outdoors with family and friends.  He was an extraordinary cook and was famous for his homemade pizza and Christmas Eve frittelle.  Joe could often be found in his yard gardening or starting a project around the house. 

Those who knew Joe best understood that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Joe than spending time with his grandchildren.  He was truly a devoted husband, father and especially a beloved grandfather.  Joe will forever be remembered for having a deep love for his family and friends who extended far and wide. He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.  

Joe is survived by his wife Vicki (nee Gentempo) of Wayne, his daughter Amy Volk and her husband Ken of Newton, MA, his son Joseph Ofmani and his wife Alissa of Wayne, NJ, and his daughter Antonia Demmers and her husband Brett of Wayne, NJ. Also, six grandchildren; Aidan Volk, Alivia Ofmani, Andrea Ofmani, Makaela Demmers, Brett Demmers, and Angelo Ofmani. And his mother-in-law Antoinette Gentempo. He was predeceased by his brother John.  

In lieu of flowers, the family will be making a donation in Joe's honor to the New Jersey State League of Master Plumbers scholarship fund.

Anita Susan Stoll (nee Rapps) age 92, formerly of Wayne, passed away peacefully on April 3, 2023, while receiving the loving care of her family.

Anita was born and raised in Brooklyn, lived in Forrest Hills and Comack, Long Island, then lived in Wayne from 1963 until 1990 and finally retiring to Florida. After Graduating from Lincoln High School with the class of 1948, Anita quickly got a job at a local but well-known talent agency in New York City.  She worked there as a receptionist for a few years. 

In 1949 she met a young man by the name of Herbert Stoll at a mutual friend’s party.  They hit it off nicely and when Anita left the party, she told her friends and family, “This is the man I am going to marry.”  Fate did not disappoint because on October 22, 1950, Anita and Herbert became husband and wife. They began what would be a loving and loyal marriage for the next forty-five years.  They settled in Forrest Hills long Island, then moved to Comack, Long Island.  They finally moved to Wayne in 1963, where they would call home for the next twenty-seven years and raise their five children.  Immediately after getting married, Anita decided she would take on the noble career of a homemaker.  She dedicated her life to nurturing her children and pampering her husband. 

In 1984 tragedy struck Anita’s life when her son Ted Stoll passed away after a courageous battle with leukemia.  Anita was heartbroken to say the least and her life would never be the same, however she found the will and strength to go on.  She and her husband Herbert started traveling, eventually becoming world travelers.   Herbert and Anita retired to Florida in 1990 and spent the next five years there, they cherished forty-five years of marriage until Herbert’s sudden and unexpected passing in 1995.  Aside from traveling, Anita didn’t have many hobbies or interests, the most precious thing in her life was her family whom she loved with all of her heart.  Anita touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew her. 

Anita is survived by her son David Stoll and his wife Robin of Stockholm, her two daughters; Deborah Stoll of Fall Church, VA, and Bonnie Halpern and her husband Felix of Wayne, and her son Michael and his wife Angela of Fair Lawn, seven grandchildren; Heather, Kelly, Kaitlyn, Teo, Daniel, Tara, and Isabella, eight great-grandchildren; Hudson, Peyton, Ellie, Jocelyn, Evie, Aaron, Raegen, and Riley, two nephews; Jeffery Pollack and Gary Pollack, she was predeceased by her husband Herbert Stoll in 1995, and her son Ted Stoll in 1984, as well as her sister Sonia Pollack. 

Barbara Acker, age 86 of Narvon PA, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 2, 2023. Her family is grateful for her life and celebrate her new life with God her father in heaven.

She was a wonderful wife to our Father, George, and later to Tom. A wonderful Mother, Mother-In-Law and Grandmother to Glenn, Kelly and their children Andrew and Olivia, to Dwayne, his daughter Nicole and Myself, Ken.  She is at Peace finally.  Dementia is a horrible disease.

Arthur (Art) Henry Dardia Jr., 72, passed away on April 1, 2023 at his home in Wayne, New Jersey.  He was born on September 16, 1950 in Paterson, New Jersey to Arthur Henry Dardia Sr. and Edythe Dardia, both deceased.

Art is survived by his loving wife, Barbara Feddema Dardia, their two children, Arthur Henry Dardia III and his wife Julia Hillje Dardia of Wayne, NJ, and Kristen Dardia Turner and her husband Christopher Turner of Jersey City, NJ, and three grandchildren, Arthur Henry Dardia IV, Isabelle Dardia, and Cameron Turner.  He is also survived by his sisters, Judith and her husband Bruce Bristol of Wharton, NJ, and Leslie and her husband Leo Mozulay of Oak Ridge, NJ and several nieces and nephews.

Art graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1968. He earned a BS in Marketing from Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1972. Art was an avid golfer, playing on both his high school and college golf teams while also finding time to hustle at the county golf course.  He was a member of Packanack Golf Club where he consistently received the award for “Best Swing”. Art qualified for the Northeast Regional Amateur Golf Tournament, but missed qualifying by a stroke when going on to the national tournament. Shortly after college, he pursued a professional golfing career and traveled to Qualifying School in Florida where, after playing with the likes of Tom Watson, Art realized his career lay in his family’s business, Neil Hardware in Paterson, NJ.

While in school, he also played bass guitar in The Garden, a band he formed with high school classmates. The Garden played at Fairleigh Dickinson University as backup for Wilson Picket, competed in numerous Battle of the Bands, and produced an original song, “Almost Making It.”

Art had begun working part-time at Neil Hardware in his early teen years and after returning from Qualifying School continued on full time until his retirement in 2014. Art’s experience in the hardware business allowed him to take on numerous projects at home. He could not pass up scrap lumber and always had a stash to repair or to build something whenever the inspiration hit him. He often happily assisted friends and family in their own projects. He was an engineer by nature with a compulsion to figure out how everything worked, and consequently, he could fix anything that was fixable.

Art was also passionate about baseball, making the All-Star Little League team as catcher. He later became a Little League Board member when his son started playing. He formulated a plan to turn the wooded property adjoining the Little League fields in Wayne, New Jersey into an additional field for younger players, and he oversaw the project through its completion. He also combined his hardware experience with his wife’s home computer-based business, and revived the field sign programs as a source of funding for lighting the existing fields.

Art was deeply involved in the lives of his two children, Art and Kristen. Even though running a retail hardware business leaves little time on Saturdays, Art made the time to coach both of his children’s soccer teams. Art enthusiastically shared each of his passions with his kids, and his interests became their interests too. Art spent many weekends golfing with his family, taught his kids how to be handy around the house, and always had their backs.

 In retirement, Art found time to continue golfing, fishing, entertaining friends, and family and traveling with his wife to Alaska and China. Art was incredibly kind and considerate. His friends and family will fondly remember the little things he would do to help others. He was patient and generous with a simple and humble outlook on life. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad P.O. Box 2004 Wayne, NJ 07474

Fay C. Ricciardi (nee Sciamarelli) of Wayne, formerly of Paterson and Lodi NJ, passed away at home, Saturday, April 1, surrounded by her adoring family and loving friends.

Fay was raised in Lodi NJ before marrying her beloved husband, former Paterson Firefighter  Nicholas A. Ricciardi (deceased 1984) and moving to Paterson. Devoted mother of ChrisRicciardi (Debi), KathyRicciardi, and Linda Ricciardi-Mcnerney (Mark), Cherished Grandma to John (Natalia), Nicholas, Nicole, (Elias), Rachel, Joseph (Mary) and Christopher. Beloved Great Grandma to Julian, Nilo and Nicolas.

Predeceased by parents Lena and Frank Sciamarelli and brother Joseph.

Fay enjoyed travelling with friends and vacationing with her children, cooking with her grandchildren and spending time with her great grandchildren.

Fay was active in Our Lady of Pompeii Senior Club and Our Lady of Consolation Seniors' , and was happy to be able to volunteer at Eva's Kitchen, Paterson, NJ. She also enjoyed participating in The Good Shepherd Adult Program in Pompton Lakes, NJ.

Memorial Donations in Fay's honor can  be sent to: Shepherds Haven Adult Day Center, 420 Ramapo Ave, Pompton Lakes, NJ or Community Food Bank of NJ, cfbnj.org, Hillside,NJ.

John “Big John” Singletary, age 68, of Lincoln Park passed Friday, March 31.

John was born to George and Helen Singletary in Hackensack, New Jersey on February 12, 1955. After the passing of his mother at age 6, he moved to North Carolina where he lived with extended family for several years until he moved to Bonnie Brae Farm for Boys in Basking Ridge, New Jersey. While at Bonnie Brae, John’s father passed away when he was 14. He ultimately went to Northfield Mount Hermon in Massachusetts as part of the Head-Start program during his high school years. He left school and began working various jobs until he started at the McDonalds in the former Wayne Hills Mall. During this time he met the love of his life, Jane Singletary (Straub), and after dating for five years, they married in 1988. Three years later, the entrepreneurial opportunity of a lifetime was presented to him enabling him to purchase his own McDonald’s franchise at 157 W 63^rd Street in Bayonne, NJ. John poured his heart and soul into his business. He sat on the purchasing and finance committees for many years providing valuable input to improve operations within the corporation. He enjoyed volunteering his time with the Ronald McDonald House Charity. He provided mentorship to his employees and others, enhancing their careers and development. He retired after 23 years in 2014.

John was always known as the life of the party; he loved his music as loud as possible, dancing, and having a great time. John loved sports and was a loyal Giants and New York baseball fan. He never missed a game, including those that his children were playing in. He was a great sideline cheerleader, coach, and referee. He always supported his children through all their endeavors. He was a supporter of the Lincoln Park Police Athletic League for many years, and even successfully petitioned to have the snack stand at Lincoln Park Field erected through the Ronald McDonald House Foundation.

John was preceded in death by his parents, George Franklin Singletary, Sr. and Helen Ursula Singletary (Foye); sister, Catherine Singletary; and his brothers and sisters (cousins), Richard Singletary, Rachel Singletary, Laura Singletary, Edward Singletary, and Miriam Allen of North Carolina. 

John leaves behind his loving wife, Jane Singletary, his daughters, Allison Singletary of Michigan; Jessica Singletary of Garfield; Amanda Gough and husband Michael of Wayne; and son John Singletary, Jr. of Lincoln Park; and four grandchildren Mariah, DeAnna, Sabrina, and Junior. He is also survived by his sister, Sheila Schottman and her husband Edward of Seal Beach, CA; and brothers George Singletary, Jr. of Basking Ridge and William Singletary of Long Beach, CA; sisters (cousins) Alice Singletary and Martha Singletary of North Carolina; many in-laws/out-laws, nieces and nephews; and the dog he never wanted but loved so much, Jake. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Ronald McDonald House- New York, a charity near and dear to his heart, in the name of John Singletary (rmh-newyork.org).

Dennis C. McQuaid, 79, of Lincoln Park, went to be with God his heavenly Father on Friday, March 31, 2023.

Dennis was born in Newark, the first of Charles and Emily McQuaid’s three children. He was raised in Nutley until age eight when his family moved to Lincoln Park where he lived for the rest of his life. 

After graduating high school from Bloomfield Tech in 1962, Dennis served in Vietnam as a soldier in the United States Army  from 1964 to 1966. For his brave service he received one overseas bar, the Vietnam Service Medal and the National Defense Service Medal.

As a child, Dennis walked closely with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. His desire was to know God more and more so, upon returning to civilian life, he enrolled in Northeastern Bible College in Essex Fells, NJ. There he studied God’s words in the Holy Bible and graduated four years later with his bachelor’s degree.

Much like the apostle Paul one of the most important figures in the bible who worked as a tent maker to provide for his daily needs so that he could pursue his greatest passion – leading others to the saving grace of God through his son Jesus, Dennis worked in his primary vocation as a Water Plant Operator for the Borough of Butler, NJ to provide for his daily needs so that he could pursue that same passion that the apostle Paul had.

Dennis’ zeal for the Lord started at a young age when he joined a group in his local church on Parish Drive called  Christian Service Brigade As stated on the organization’s website northernfrontier.org, the purpose of this group was to guide groups of boys and young men like Dennis through adventure-packed, action-filled experiences that would draw them closer to God and equip them to be leaders of tomorrow. In 1946 The Bridgade started a camp called Northern Frontier Camp in New York’s Adirondack Mountains. Dennis was blessed to visit this camp every summer where he experienced wilderness activities, skill work, Bible exploration, service, and camping in order to bring about internal, permanent change that enabled him to stand strong in Biblical conviction (Galatians 2:20) and to learn to make disciples and disciple makers of Christ (Matt 28:19-20).

The old adage that “Boys will be Boys” is often meant to be an excuse for men to engage in questionable activity. The Brigade and Northern Frontier Camp believes that “Boys will be Men” and therefore purposefully makes it their mission to prepare boys for that role for the glory of God and the ultimate betterment of society.

Throughout his career with the Borough of Butler Dennis stayed active in the Brigade and at Northern Frontier Camp in the summers. In fact, he would often use his vacation time at work to volunteer at the camp. Since retiring at the age of 63, Dennis spent entire summers volunteering at the camp. The only one he missed was the summer of COVID. He loved to counsel and mentor the boys as had been done for him. He loved being a camp cook, driving the bus and was always able and willing to build or repair anything at the facilities.

Dennis was also a true family man. Though he never married or had children of his own, he was a dear uncle to his nieces and nephews, great nieces and great nephews, and even his two great-great nieces. He loved surprising them with coins for Christmas and he made it a priority to visit his sister and brother-in-law in Alaska when  their children were young.

If you needed prayer for a challenge in your life, Dennis was the man to ask to pray for you. His list must have been longer than Santa’s at Christmas because he would faithfully wake up every morning at 5 AM and proceed to pray for two hours.

Dennis didn’t value earthly treasures where moth and rust will always ultimately destroy. Instead he sought treasures in heaven where moth and rust could not destroy. He invested in eternity by investing in God’s word, prayer, and people. Quiet, meek, helpful, were words that could be used to describe Dennis. He regularly sponsored kids who otherwise would not be able to afford camp, and he would often go to the sporting events of boys who had no father figure in their lives.

Dennis always prayed that when he passed away, the Lord would say “Well done thou good and faithful servant.” He didn’t believe that he could earn eternal life by doing good works, but he wanted others to know about the great God and creator he served so that they too could have eternal life. Well done Dennis! You were a good and faithful servant.

Dennis was predeceased by his dear parents, Charles in 1976 and Emily (Hopkins) McQuaid in 2018. He was the loving brother of Arthur and wife Susan McQuaid of West Milford, and Nancy and husband Richard Green of Fairbanks, Alaska; dearest uncle of: Tim McQuaid and wife Rosalie, Denise McQuaid, Shawn McQuaid and wife Laura, Melissa Rose and husband Lou, Chuck McQuaid and wife Elizabeth, Christopher Green and partner Marta, and Kimberly Ives and husband Caleb; dear uncle of numerous great nieces and great nephews and his two great-great nieces.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Dennis’ name are asked to consider:

Northern Frontier Camp

38 Cadwallader Ct.

Yardley, PA 19067

If you wish to donate online just CLICK HERE

Thomas (Tom) Mennella, age 68 of Montville, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Friday, March 31, 2023. Tom was a resident of Wayne for 27 years before moving to Montville in 2016.

Tom was born in Paterson to Thomas and Evelyn Mennella. He was the baby brother to his older sister Janice. He attended St. Anthony’s Catholic School on Beech Street in Paterson. He then attended Paterson Catholic and William Paterson University.

Tom started working for the family business, Mennella’s Poultry, at the age of 9. He never attended school during Thanksgiving week because the family needed him to help deliver turkeys. His dad taught him to drive at the age of 13 to help move chicken trucks around the parking lot. Mennella’s Poultry was founded by his grandparents and then taken over by his father and 3 brothers. Tom was a part of the third generation along with his 4 cousins. He retired at the end of 2019.

He met the love of his life Barbara at the Getaway in Wayne, wearing his gold chains and saddle shoes. They dated for 3 years when he proposed to her in church on Easter Sunday. They married at St. Joseph’s Church in Lincoln Park on October 2, 1983. They went on to have two children, Tim and Jennifer. Tom loved spending time with his family, especially during their yearly trips to the Jersey Shore. He never left the boardwalk without winning the biggest prizes for his kids.

Tom lived for football Sundays with his son Tim. His favorite team was the New York Giants. They would watch football together from 1pm to midnight.

Just this month, Tom read to his daughter Jennifer’s third grade class for Read Across America. He surprised the whole class with joke books.

Each night he loved to surprise his wife with a homemade gourmet meal. Some of his specialties were Shrimp Francese and Chicken Murphy. He always kept the wine refrigerator fully stocked for her.

Lucy, Tom’s 4 pound Yorkie, was always by his side. They would look out the window and wait for their Amazon deliveries.

Tom is survived by his wife Barbara (maiden name Duderich); two children Tim and Jennifer Mennella; sister Janice Mennella; two nephews Brandon Schweizer Sr. (and wife Sharon) and Eric Schweizer (and

wife Jillian). He is predeceased by his father Thomas in 2010 and mother Evelyn in 2020.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to FOWA (Friends of Wayne Animals) Animal Rescue, PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470, would be greatly appreciated

Meredith Leigh Lempke, age 65, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 30, 2023 after succumbing to chronic health difficulties.
Meredith was born at Chilton Memorial Hospital in Pequannock and raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, NJ. She was one of five children to Richard J. Lempke, M.D. and Elizabeth Lempke. As a child, Meredith’s spirited personality earned her the nick name “Merrily We Roll Along.” She attended Wayne Valley High School where, during her senior year in 1975, she was voted “Best Smile” by her graduating class. She excelled in History and English, and one beloved English teacher described her to the class as “a very old soul.” After graduation, Meredith went on to William Paterson University in Wayne where she earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Communications in 1979. Following her college graduation, she found employment at Cablevision and worked there for a number of years.

Later in life, Meredith vacationed on Nantucket Island in Massachusetts and fell in love with the natural, rustic beauty of the area and decided this was the place for her. After pulling up stakes and moving there, Meredith displayed her industriousness and work ethic to make ends meet. She worked multiple jobs to stay on island, including opening and closing seasonal estates, and driving a taxi for a short time in the summer. She persevered and found permanent employment with the Town of Nantucket in the Tax Assessor’s Office, and eventually became the Planning Board Secretary.

Additionally, she took it upon herself to further her education by becoming a certified paralegal. In a time before online courses, this was not easy to do as she had to fly off island to attend classes and take her certification exam. Meredith then worked for a number of attorneys as a paralegal in Nantucket.

Meredith truly enjoyed the island life and its rituals, including annual scallop harvesting with friends. She also enjoyed when her family visited during the beautiful summer and autumn months.
Meredith was an outgoing social person whose “Best Smile” award was supplemented by her boisterous laugh, which became a hallmark of her personality. Also, as one close friend said, she had an innate intelligence with an undercurrent of humor.

Meredith is survived by her sister Betsey Cochrane and her husband Bill of Wayne, NJ, her brother Richard Lempke of Wayne, NJ, her brother-in-law Benjamin Clarke of Wayne, NJ, her niece Elizabeth Cochrane M.D. and her husband of New York City, and her nephew Ernest Clarke and his wife and children of Westfield NJ, as well as multiple cousins. She was predeceased by her parents Dr. Richard and Elizabeth Lempke (Dick and Betty), and by her two sisters Susan Lempke and Cynthia Lempke Clarke.

Those wishing to make a donation in Meredith’s name are encouraged to consider Packanack Community Church, 120 Lake Dr East, Wayne, NJ 07470 www.packanackchurch.org or Friends of Wayne Animals, PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470. 

Jason Yu Liaban, age 39 of Packanack Lake in Wayne, died unexpectedly on Thursday, March 30, 2023. 
Jason was the eldest son of Ronaldo and Maria Yu Liaban, born in Quezon City, Philippines. He was raised there until the age of eight when his family emigrated to the United States. They originally settled in Leonia, New Jersey then moved to Bergenfield. Jason graduated with Bergenfield High School’s Class of 2002. Jason then attended Rutgers University where he received his bachelor's degree majoring in criminal justice.  

Due to his prowess, sense of social responsibility, and conscientiousness, he was hired by the Maywood Police Department January 10, 2008. Jason graduated from the Bergen County Police Academy class #100, where he earned the physical fitness “Ironman” award and the Bergen County Prosecutor’s Office best all-around recruit award. During his outstanding 16-year career, he was assigned to the Detective Bureau on July 1, 2014, served as the Detective Bureau Commander and was promoted to Sergeant on October 8, 2019. 
Jason was a decorated officer who received numerous awards and commendations for his heroic actions in the line of duty. Some of his remarkable feats were de-escalation of a suicidal party armed with a knife, several CPR saves, apprehension of an armed robbery suspect, and multiple commendations for narcotics arrests. Well-regarded, Jason fulfilled his duties as a former operator of the Bergen County Rapid Deployment Force (RDF), Hackensack Youth Academy Instructor, Counter-Terrorism Coordinator and spent time as an Internal Affairs Investigator. Jason was a well-loved member of the community where he served, but most significantly a beloved member of the police department. He was the epitome of what a police officer should be: honorable, kind, compassionate and caring. He was an incredible role model to his fellow officers and an exceptional asset to his supervisors. 
Through the grace of God, Jason met his wife Kriezl when they were in high school. They first met at a basketball game at Wayne Hills High School against Bergenfield High School. The first date was at Stars Billiards in Little Ferry. The high school sweethearts fell in love and one night while out to dinner at Giannarelli’s Cuisina in Montclair, Jason proposed. On July 2, 2010, they were married before God, family and friends at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne. A joyful wedding reception was held at Nanina’s in the Park in Belleville. Jason and Kriezl honeymooned in Cancun, Mexico. 

Jason and Kriezl started their life in their first home in Englewood. From there they moved to New Milford before settling in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 2016. In the ensuing years God blessed them with four beautiful children: Ava Grace, Alexis, JJ, and Jett. 

In his spare time one of Jason’s greatest passions was playing basketball. From the time anyone can remember, Jason played in high school and was currently in the men’s leagues. His favorite professional basketball player was Kobe Bryant and for that reason he always rooted for the LA Lakers. Jason also liked working out and could frequently be found at Gold’s Gym or at Shred, both in Totowa. 
Above all else, Jason’s family was his greatest pride and ultimate joy. A devoted father, he enthusiastically shared his love of sports with his children and he truly enjoyed being their coach in their Wayne PAL basketball league and Boys Club football league. His parents were so proud of him and considered him a treasure! Jason did his best to raise his family in their Catholic faith as a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne. 

Jason will be remembered as an outgoing and friendly person who always strived to see the good in everyone he encountered. He demonstrated this in every facet of his life including in his vocation, with family and friends, and in living out his faith.  In his short span of life, he has impacted so many, making a difference in their lives. With God’s infinite mercy and love he will continue to look after loved ones, friends, and his beloved coworkers and community.     
Jason is survived by his wife Kriezl, his four children: Ava Grace, Alexis, Jason, Jr. “JJ”, and Jett; his parents Ronaldo and Maria Yu Liaban of Bergenfield; his brother Mark and wife Erika of Wayne, and his niece and nephew Isabella and Marcus. 
Friends may visit with the family at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Road, Wayne, on Monday, April 3, 2023 from 2-8 PM. 

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Jason’s memory may be made to:

Jason’s children’s GoFundMe

or

Maywood Police Officer’s Association (MPOA)

15 Park Avenue

Maywood, NJ 07607

The Mass service can also be livestreamed by clicking on one of the links below:

https://venue.streamspot.com/event/Mzc5NzU4Ng or  youtube, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6aOVlWXs8g.

Lynn Diane Scornavacca 

April 11^th 1948 - March 30^th  2023 

Lynn Scornavacca, 74 of Wayne, NJ passed peacefully on March 30th, 2023. Lynn was born to Rudy and Alice Steudel and attended Saddle Brook High School graduating with the class of 1966. After she attended Newark State College earning her bachelor's in special education in 1970, she then continued on to earn her master's degree plus thirty. Lynn touched numerous lives through her long career as a special education teacher within the Wayne School District. 

Lynn met the love of her life John F Scornavacca during her college years. They were married June 19th, 1970, in Fair Lawn, NJ. They were blessed with two sons John and Kris which Lynn dedicated her life to, showing them all the things, this world has to offer. She adored her two grandchildren Kate and LJ who filled her life with joy. John and Lynn led a beautiful life and loved each other for over fifty-two years. 

To sum up Lynns life in a paragraph would be impossible. She was the most extraordinary wife, mother and nana. Lynn had the patience of a saint and could light up the room with her laugh. As an avid adventurer she saw all corners of the world with a love for Grand Cayman and family trips to the Jersey Shore. Lynn cherished her friendships, which include far too many to mention, some spanning over fifty years. She took on the world with a positive attitude and a zest for life. 

Lynn is survived by her husband John, sons John and Kris, and grandchildren Kate and LJ. Also survived by sister Karen and brother Rudy. She will continue to be loved by nieces and nephews and adoring friends. 

If you would like to make donations in Lynn's name, please donate at the following: curecalpain3.org.

Robert “Bobby” Konowich, 70 of W. Milford and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Saturday, March 25, 2023.

Bobby is survived by his beloved wife, Vita, their four children: Vita Tangorra (Jason), Katie Konowich, April Zozzaro (Stephen), and Bobbi Konowich, three grandchildren: Jake, Nicholas, and Viviana, a sister: Jackie Wakefield, and two brothers; Joe “Butch”, and Stephen. He was predeceased by his sister Paulette DeFrance.

Bobby was born to Jacob and Anna Konowich in November of 1952. He was born in Newark and raised in West Orange, NJ. Bobby graduated from West Orange High School and continued his education at Ramapo College with a degree in Political Science. 

After college he started a wholesale flower business in New York City and moved on to open his own property maintenance and landscaping company. Over the 30+ years of working in the industry he made many lifelong business partners and friends. His ambition allowed him to grasp any small business opportunity that crossed his path. From selling flowers and Christmas trees around the holidays, to various chimeneas stands from north to south Jersey to name a few. His want to always help people eventually led him to become highly involved in disaster relief clean ups across the country. The business opportunities he sought after were endless.

Bob was resilient, a true rebel, an innovator, a man who didn’t take no for an answer, but more importantly was generous to a fault. There is nothing he wouldn’t have done for his family and friends. A man of many ideas and talents with endless surprises up his sleeve. He made sure there was never a dull moment. If he was involved, you were guaranteed a great memory. Bobby’s ability to bring a unique and exciting experience to anything he did came effortlessly.

He was a man of many hobbies, a jack of all trades, which earned him the nickname MacGyver. Often seen in Indian motorcycle gear, Bob had a passion for riding from a very young age. His patriotism led him on countless motorcycle cross-country trips that fulfilled his true love for the USA.  His biggest interest was motorcycles, but he had limitless other hobbies such as beekeeping, hunting, wine making, snowmobiling, and scuba diving, just to name a handful. Every few months or so, he would pick up a new hobby, entirely different from any others he had before. His drive to learn about anything that intrigued him, just a bit, was one of his most admirable qualities.

Bob met his wife Vita in 1974 on spring break in Fort Lauderdale, Florida and later was married in Illinois in the summer of ‘77. They moved to Wayne, NJ in 1984 where they raised their four daughters, Vita, Katie, April and Bobbi. In 2010 & 2019, Bob finally was no longer the only man in the family, and got the sons he always wanted, Jay & Steve. But by far, one of his most treasured titles, was that of Pop Pop to his three adoring grandchildren, Jake, Nicholas and Viviana. 

The everlasting impression he made on anyone he met, the life lessons he taught us, and the memories he gave us all will forever be remembered. He was a one of kind, legendary man who will be incredibly missed. He would want us all to celebrate him in whatever way that he impacted your life the most. In doing this, his memory will live on forever in each of us.

For those wishing to make a donation in Bobby’s memory, please consider the Brain Injury Alliance of New Jersey, 825 Georges Rd, North Brunswick Township, NJ 08902, www.bianj.org.

Mary Richter (nee Glatcz), age 95 of N. Bergen and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, March 23, 2023. She had lived in Wayne for fifty-three years before moving to N. Bergen just ten years ago.

Mary grew up in Passaic, NJ, and her formative years were largely shaped by the Great Depression and World War II. She attended Holy Trinity grammar school in Passaic and went on to graduate from Pope Pius XII High School in 1945.

Mary was introduced to Richard Richter by a cousin of hers. That first date eventually led to a wedding on June 18, 1949, at St. Stephen Catholic Church. In 1960, they purchased a home on Patricia Court in Wayne, where they would establish their homestead, raise their family, and establish many endearing friendships.  She enjoyed a strong sense of community and relationships within the Patricia Court community. They were also parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church in Wayne for many years. Mary and Richard enjoyed thirty-two years of a very loving marriage before Richard died in 1982. His loss was difficult for her, but she persevered through the forty years since then with the love and support of her family and friends.

Mary is survived by her two children; Jeffrey and his wife Kathy of Texas, and Donna and her husband Joseph, and two grandchildren: Matthew Richter of Virginia, and Daniel Richter of Texas. She was predeceased by her brother, George Glatcz, many years ago.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Mary's memory to either St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, stjude.org, or Toni’s Kitchen, 73 S Fullerton Ave, Montclair, NJ, 07042, toniskitchen.org

Salvatore C. Mariconda, 57, a lifelong resident of Wayne, passed away on March 21, 2023. Sal was the proprietor of A-Mar HVAC since 1990.

He had countless wonderful friends, a number of whom he had since early childhood. He enjoyed playing many sports, excelling in baseball and softball and loved watching his Miami Dolphins, NY Mets, and NY Rangers. He took great joy in the opportunity to coach his son Nick in Little League, and was blessed to continue watching Nick play baseball through high school and into college. Sal particularly enjoyed a good meal with a good drink, surrounded by good friends, creating timeless memories.

He is survived by his wife Arlene, son Nicholas, sisters Louise Mogitz and Linda Mariconda, brother Anthony Mariconda and his wife Linda, and many dear extended family members.

Donations in Sal’s memory may be made to www.fredhutch.org/memorial.

Louis H. Castro, age 89, of Waldwick passed on March 21, 2023 with the comfort of his two daughters by his side.  

He was born to Luis and Pura Castro and graduated from the Universidad Nacional De Colombia’ with a degree in chemistry.  Smitten by Gloria E. Escobars’ spunk and sense of humor he married the love of his life in 1959. They shared a loving and devoted marriage of 60 years.  Louis worked throughout Colombia in different industries as a Chemist.  The last position he held prior to migrating to the Untied States was analyzing and overseeing the water treatment protocols for the Colombian government.  The instability of the job market at the time was the reason he and his wife immigrated.  He continued his profession at ‘Du Bois Chemicals’ located in Rutherford, New Jersey.

Louis and his brother-in-law, Roberto Escobar traveled to the USA first.  They settled in New Jersey and were joined by their wives and children months later.  His love for his new homeland drove him and his family to discovery.  He took his family every year to learn and explore the history and the beauty of this great country.  Louis’s zest for knowledge didn’t stop just at traveling to parts unknown.  He was also intrigued by languages.  Chinese and Hebrew were two of his passions.  When he retired, he took up baking breads and different cakes which was always a nice surprise and treat for his family. 

Louis was a life learner, a witty man, a man of strong faith in Christ.  He loved God, his wife and his daughters very much.

 It is with great sadness we announce the passing of Dorothy M Harrison of Wayne NJ.  Dorothy left this life on March 21, 2023. She was at home with the comfort of her family by her side.

Dot was born the only child of Mae and Herman Fiedler on December 3, 1930, in Paterson NJ. She and her lifelong friend Ruth attended Central High in Paterson graduated in 1948 and went on to the Paterson General Hospital School of Nursing together. Dorothy became a Registered Nurse in 1951

Dot continued to work at Paterson General Hospital and its successors in Wayne for her entire career. She made many friends there. One especially good one was Betty Re. Dot worked in many departments over the years, she ended her career as head nurse of the recovery room in 1994. Over her 43 years as a nurse, she touched many lives with her compassion and left a lasting positive impression on them.

In 1951 Dot met her future husband on a blind date set up by her friend Ruth. Dorothy Fiedler and Robert Harrison were married on July 26,1952. They moved to Packanack Lake in 1955 and had 3 children, Susan 1957, Nancy 1958, and Steven 1961. They raised their 3 kids in that small house filled with Pets, People, and all things family. Shore vacations, camping trips, skiing adventures, swimming and sailing at the lake filled our lives. Unfortunately, after 32 years Dot and Bob’s marriage came to an end. Dot stayed on at the house in Packanack where she lived for 68 years.

Throughout her life Dorothy was a loving, devoted, and wonderful mother and Grandmother. She was a helpful and caring friend to all who knew her. Although voted most bashful by her high school peers she came out of her shell as she got older. She was known for her humor, and easy-going nature. She could tell a good story, and she often did, much to the delight of her family and friends. Dot had many passions, she loved animals especially dogs. She always had a dog and used to breed and show Golden Retrievers in the later 1960s. She was a card player, with regular dates set up for playing with friends, especially a monthly poker game with “Aunt Ruth”, “Aunt Betty” and their spouses. Traveling was also at the top of her list; she traveled the world with Betty and friends by ship and bus. Seeing the Baltic nations, the Panama Canal, and the Amazon River to name a few. Many bus trips across America and short ones to “AC” made her happy. Her greatest love though was fishing, from her younger days on the Pequest with Ruth and her family, to landing a sea run Dolly Varden trout from a canoe with Steve, she loved it all. Surf fishing was her favorite though, she could stand in the wash at Ocean Beach or Island Beach State Park and just wait. In 1999 at the age of 69 Dot won the Governors Surf Fishing Tournament, the highlight of thousands of fish caught in her life.

It was through her that the three of us have learned to love a little friendly competition and the outdoor pursuits we enjoy so much.  We will miss her everyday.

Dorothy is survived by her children Susan Harrison Wayne NJ, Nancy Harrison Coe Northwood NH, Steven Harrison Issaquah WA, four grandchildren she loved so much, Silas Harrison, David Coe, Ruby Harrison, and Jamie Coe. Dot is also survived by her dog Penny and 3 “Grandoggers”

Joseph Heitzman of Pompton Plains peacefully passed away in his home on March 21, 2023 at the age of 91. He was the son of Joseph and Josephine Heitzman of Paterson. He fondly spoke of growing up with his extended family in Paterson and attending their catholic grammar and high schools.

Joe went on to earn a teaching degree from Paterson State Teachers College in 1954. He then enlisted in the Army and served his country in France, working in the communications center. During his service, he taught GED classes to enlisted men who had not graduated high school. He saved his money and bought the love of his life, Ruth, her engagement diamond in Amsterdam. Upon his discharge, he proposed to Ruth and they married in 1957.  They shared 64 years of marriage; building a life and family filled with joy and compassion.

Joe began his teaching career in the Business Education department at Eastside High School in Paterson. While teaching, he earned his Master of Business Administration from Seton Hall. In 1963 he became the President of the Paterson Education Association. Using his finance knowledge from Seton Hall, he worked to establish a fair and equitable salary guide for Paterson teachers and to have medical benefits become part of teachers’ contracts. Joe shifted from teaching to administration becoming the Director of Funded Programs in Paterson.

Joe was a devoted father to his only child, Elizabeth. He relished his time with his grandchildren, Joe and Katie. He shared his love of Wildwood with his grandchildren, taking them on yearly trips during their childhoods. He created so many amazing memories at the beach building sandcastles and on the boardwalk riding “choppers,” and playing skeeball. He was always ready to take a day trip or attend any of their games and activities.

Some of his happiest times were spent at his home in Saddle Brook, where he gardened, read, watched the Mets, and planned amazing trips for his family.

Joe and Ruth enjoyed years of traveling the world and educating themselves about the places and people they met. Early in their marriage they drove cross country in a car with no air conditioning and toured Europe on five dollars a day. After retiring, some of his favorite trips were to Alaska, Poland, Budapest, Ireland, the Panama Canal, and European river cruises. He absolutely loved his yearly winter cruises in the Caribbean to escape the cold New Jersey winter. Give Joe a beach chair, a book, some sun and he was content. They enjoyed exploring the world and laughing about the mishaps of their travels. Much to his wife’s surprise, later in life they took dancing lessons and enjoyed dancing to the big band music of their youth.

Joe was a devout Catholic who rarely missed Sunday mass. He was a parishioner of St. Philip the Apostle Parish in Saddle Brook from 1959 until 2013, when he moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains. Joe and Ruth quickly found spiritual homes at the Cedar Crest Chapel and Our Lady of Good Counsel in Pompton Plains.

Joe is predeceased by his wife, Ruth. Loving father of Elizabeth Sponenburg and her husband, Jeff, of Wayne, NJ. Cherished grandfather of Joseph and Kathryn Sponenburg of Wayne. Beloved brother of Charles Heitzman and Emil Heitzman and predeceased by his sister, Carolyn Pacca. Brother-in-law of Janice Glock and dear godfather to Helen Hallberg. He will be missed by many cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends whose lives he touched over the years.

Louis A. Belle, age 80, of Wayne passed Monday, March 20, 2023, with the comfort of family by his side.

Louis was born in Paterson, NJ to Louis and Teena Belle. He grew up in Haledon, NJ and spent 44 years in Haledon, before moving to Wayne in 1987.  Louis graduated from Central High School in Paterson with the Class of June of 1960, where he played on the football and baseball teams and was voted nicest smile. 

After graduation Louis worked for Jersey State Chemical and Sybron Corporation, in Haledon, before starting his own business in 1970.  He was the founder of Kaybe Chemical and continued to run the business for over 50 years, up until the time of his passing.

Louis met his wife Ginger in Greenwood Lake, where they were introduced by a mutual friend. From a first date at Tavern on the Mall in Paramus, Louis and Ginger would date for four years before getting married on January 20, 1973. 

Louis will be fondly remembered as being an extremely generous, warm and fun-loving person.  He had a passion for restaurants and travel and would think nothing of taking a road trip for a good meal.  He was an avid handball and tennis player in his younger years.  He enjoyed boating and spent time at the Jersey Shore during the summer and spent many winters in Fort Lauderdale, FL.   

Louis was the devoted husband of Kathleen “Ginger” Belle for 44 years, until her passing in 2017; beloved father of Robert Belle of North Haledon, Lara Belle and her husband Scott Stegen of Tuxedo, NY, and Heather Cruz of Sloatsburg, NY; he was the cherished grandfather of Siena Cruz, Madison Cruz, Alessandra Stegen, Jack Stegen, Logan Belle and Lincoln Belle.

He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research, 469 7th Ave., NY, NY 10018 would be greatly appreciated. 

Margaret Laura Scotto, daughter of Antoinina and Giuseppe Plaia, was born on July 19, 1925 in Brooklyn, NY where she grew up with her 5 siblings.
After finishing high school she began a career in banking, at which time she met her husband of 59 years, Salvatore V. Scotto.

They were blessed with two children, Joseph & Karen. They moved to Long Island, but ultimately put long lasting roots down in Fair Lawn, New Jersey starting in 1962.
Margaret continued to focus on her professional career and moved up the corporate ladders in the insurance, retail, and banking industries.

Marge was a devoted wife and tirelessly cared for Sal during his many times of heath needs. She was truly a Florence Nightingale. In her spare time Marge was an active member of the Italian American Cosmo’s Club, took golf lessons, and became federally certified to translate books from text to braille.

Marge is survived by her grandchildren, Matthew, Melanie, & Alyssa for whom her love was endless.

In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting donations to the American Heart Association or Cancer Society.