MARY MATILDA RONAYNE, age 78 of Wanaque, New Jersey, slipped into the arms of our heavenly Father on Wednesday, November 8, 2023. She was at home with the family she dearly loved as she drew her last breath. God blessed her to bless others. Born on January 29, 1945, Mary was the eldest child of Gerald and Matilda Hulton of Nutley, New Jersey.

Mary was a graduate of Marylawn of the Oranges High School in 1962. She then went on to St. Mary's School of Nursing where she graduated in 1965. She worked at Berverly Hills Doctors Hospital in California, St. Mary's Hospital Passaic, NJ and Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ as a ICU/CICU nurse. Mary then went on to become a school nurse at Immaculate Conception School in Montclair, New Jersey.

Mary is survived by her 2 sisters, Jane Vecciarelli (John) and Patricia Petry. In 1970, Mary Hulton married Michael Ronayne at Saint Mary’s Church in Nutley, New Jersey. They raised 4 children together, Mary Beth Kopacz (Henry), Michael Ronayne (Nicole), Laura Healy (Kevin) and Sarah Molnoski (Brian). Mary was blessed with 7 grandchildren that she loved dearly, Lillian Kopacz (16), Katie Molnoski (16), Grace Healy (14), Sheila Healy (11), Brian Molnoski (10), Hudson Ronayne (9), Evelyn Ronayne (4).

The family respectfully requests that, in lieu of flowers, a tax-deductible tribute donation be made in Mary's honor to St Jude Children's Research Hospital

John Joseph Di Maria, 87, of Wayne, NJ, who was born July 9, 1938, in Paterson, NJ, died May 18, 2026. John lived the past 50 years in Wayne following his emigration from Paterson. He leaves behind his devoted wife, Angela (nee Juliano) Di Maria, dedicated children, Donna Di Maria and Lindsey (Jon) Di Maria, both of Las Vegas and Cristina Di Maria, of Sparta, NJ; his beloved brother, Robert Di Maria and his wonderful wife Jeanne Di Maria; loving granddaughters, Lucia Lauria and Ruby Sisskind; caring siblings, Tracy Di Maria and Brian Di Maria and his family; as well as many cousins and friends.

Preceding John in death were his beautiful daughter, Debbie Di Maria; parents John Di Maria, Sr (The Chief) and the exceedingly kind and gentle, Lucy (Moraino) Di Maria, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

John moved from Paterson to Wayne with Angela in 1976, as they recently celebrated their 50th anniversary in a home that hosted many social events and family game nights throughout the years. With Donna and Lindsey established in the world by John’s previous marriage, John and Angela produced Cristina in 1979, and thus began a new era of the Di Maria family.

John worked several jobs during his early years, especially in his parents’ small grocery store in Paterson. He was the oldest of the four cousins who labored in that cozy shop as boys and young men. John clearly developed his work ethic as a result of his father’s consistency and motivation to provide and, as importantly, his mother’s impeccable devotion to their home stability and being the compassionate voice in their family dynamic.

In his mid-twenties, John found his niche when he began selling Chefco knives door-to-door. And within 20 years at Townecraft, he became a trusted regional manager, and, a short time later, an Executive Vice-President and part owner. With John’s FBI aspirations fully behind him, he plunged into his work and produced a lovely home for his family and the friends that often visited for good times and humorous banter.

John relished his trips to Wildwood every summer with his family. A 40-year odyssey of beach snacks, boardwalk rides, food excess, and the infamous chair game were some of the signature events of the Di Maria family’s annual foray to south Jersey.

Cooking was not in John’s lexicon, but eating was. He fancied himself one of the world’s great food critics (especially, Italian) and had a knack of being one of the region's best neophyte wine connoisseurs.

The holidays were clearly John’s favorite time of year. Perhaps his only regret was that he was of slight frame and that he’d be a fraud if he would have had to stuff pillows in an oversized shirt to qualify as jolly St. Nick. He was enthusiastic in his own right and Christmas at the Di Maria residence with John and Angela hosting the festivities was always a rich occasion.

John led a long and fruitful life and he will be missed by all who were fortunate enough to know him and those hundreds of business associates who were moved by both his acumen and sense of fairness and integrity.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in John's name can be made to the wonderful One Tree Planted organization.

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Elyse Conrad, age 75, of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by the love and presence of her family, on Monday, May 18, 2026.

George and Anna Mae (Stanard) Amelung’s third child, Elyse was born in Jersey City. She spent her early childhood there before moving with her family to First Street in Bergenfield during the year she entered kindergarten.

After graduating from Bergenfield High School with the Class of 1968, Elyse worked for a book publisher before relocating to Florida with her parents. When her parents later returned to New Jersey, Elyse chose to remain in Boynton Beach, Florida, where she had built a life of her own.

During a visit back home to New Jersey, Elyse found herself at the home of her cousin Gary, who happened to be close friends with a kind-hearted man named Wayne Conrad. Although Elyse and Wayne remembered one another from high school, the timing years earlier had never quite aligned. This reunion, however, proved different. Their first date took place at Libonati’s in Bergenfield, and just six months later Wayne proposed to Elyse at the Island Beach State Park Motor Lodge, with Elyse’s brother Bobby and his wife Eloise present as witnesses to the special moment. Elyse happily accepted Wayne’s proposal, and the two were married on Thursday, May 24, 1984, at Trinity Lutheran Church in Tenafly. Following a reception at the Bergenfield Elks Lodge, they honeymooned in Orlando, Florida, where they visited Disney World and spent time with friends in Boynton Beach.

Wayne and Elyse began their married life together at the Brookchester Apartments in New Milford. It was there that they welcomed their beloved daughter, Michelle, and embraced the joys of parenthood. In the fall before Michelle entered kindergarten, the family purchased a home in Pompton Lakes, which would remain Elyse’s cherished home for the rest of her life.

Once Michelle reached an age of relative independence, Elyse began what would become a long and meaningful career as a waitress at Gilly’s Restaurant in Pompton Plains. For more than twenty-five years, she warmly served both longtime regulars and new patrons alike. Elyse genuinely loved her customers, and the affection they returned to her spoke volumes about the kindness and warmth she shared so naturally.

Elyse found boundless joy in reading and spent nearly every evening immersed in an enjoyable book, especially true crime, and mystery stories. Her Kindle became a constant companion, often enjoyed with one of her beloved dogs curled up beside her. Over the years there was Misty and Maggie, her Shetland Sheepdogs; Jill, a Shetland Sheepdog mix; and Daisy, her cherished Chihuahua and faithful lap companion. Elyse would insist each one was her favorite, though in truth she loved them all deeply. She was also a devoted fan of the New York Yankees. One particularly memorable day at Gilly’s, Elyse waited on a customer affiliated with the Yankees who was wearing one of the team’s championship rings. She was thrilled when the customer graciously allowed her to wear the ring for a photograph.

Elyse loved the beach — the sand, the sea, and the calming ocean breezes. When Michelle was young, the family enjoyed many vacations to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, as well as treasured stays at their beachfront timeshare in Hilton Head. Being by the ocean brought Elyse a deep sense of happiness and peace. She also shared a special mother-daughter trip to the Dominican Republic with Michelle that remained close to her heart.

As summer faded into winter, Elyse eagerly embraced another season she dearly loved: Christmas. She found immense joy in transforming her home into a festive winter wonderland, adorned with thousands of lights and decorations that reflected her warmth, creativity, and holiday spirit.

Above all else, Elyse will be remembered as a sweet, kind, and deeply loving woman. Michelle described her as an incredible mother whose door was always open to family and friends alike. Neighborhood children knew they were always welcome, greeted by juice boxes, snacks, and Elyse’s generous hospitality. In recent years, Elyse’s greatest joy became her granddaughter, Madison. Caring for her while Michelle worked was a true labor of love, and Elyse delighted in every opportunity to spoil and cherish her precious granddaughter.

Elyse was the beloved and devoted wife of Wayne Conrad, blessed in marriage for 41 years. She was the loving mother of Michelle Conrad; adoring “Nanny” to her precious granddaughter Madison; dearest aunt of Dawn Fuller and her husband Bill, Robert Amelung, Jr., Jill Amelung, and Lauren Marco and her husband Greg; dear great-aunt of Autumn, Evan, Samantha, Anthony, and Gianna; and dear sister-in-law of Eloise Amelung of Dunedin, Florida. Elyse was predeceased by her siblings, Joyce Decanio, Robert Amelung, and Denise Amelung.

Kelly Ann Hannigan, 57, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family, on Sunday, May 17, 2026.

Born in New York City to Maureen Hannigan (née Naughton) and James Hannigan, Kelly moved with her family to Elmwood Park in 1970. Her mother wanted Kelly and her sisters to enjoy a better quality of life than city living could offer. Although Kelly always cherished visits back to New York and held a deep affection for the city, she was a New Jersey girl at heart.

Kelly attended St. Anne’s School and graduated from Paramus Catholic High School in 1987. She initially pursued a degree in computer systems from the Computer Learning Center, but soon discovered her true passion was in cosmetology. She attended Roman Academy of Beauty Culture, where she earned her cosmetology license, following in the footsteps of her sister Terry.

Kelly began her career as a hairstylist at Hans Maxem’s Salon in Westwood. In 2006, she and her sister Terry fulfilled a lifelong dream by opening Hair Trendz. Together, they built the salon through hard work, dedication, and an unwavering commitment to their clients, many of whom became like family. The business continues to thrive and will celebrate its 20th anniversary in September 2026.

Above all else, Kelly was a devoted and loving mother to her two sons, Tyler and Jake Andreas. Her children were the center of her world. She raised them in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where she was deeply involved in every aspect of their lives. She served as class mom, attended countless extracurricular activities, and never missed an important moment.

Kelly loved cheering Tyler on at Wayne Valley High School football and basketball games. The two shared a special bond over movies, especially classics such as A League of Their Own, A Bronx Tale, Goodfellas, and Grease. They also enjoyed watching Sunday football and rooting for the San Francisco 49ers and Boston Celtics together.

Kelly was equally devoted to Jake, proudly attending every one of his musicals and plays and carefully saving each playbill as a treasured keepsake. During his high school years, they loved using his employee discount at Abercrombie and Hollister, as shopping was something they both greatly enjoyed. She especially loved visiting him in New York City for traditions like the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and Fourth of July fireworks. Some of their favorite memories were made dining at restaurants and spending days exploring the city together. They also shared a love of television, especially Bravo, often spending hours watching The Real Housewives franchises together. After college, their shared love of beauty brought things full circle when Jake began working in the beauty industry, just like his mother. While working in Macy’s Buying Office, he helped launch the hair category — a meaningful connection, as Kelly herself had been a hairstylist. Their mutual passion for all things beauty was something they deeply bonded over throughout their lives.

Family was everything to Kelly. She cherished beach vacations down the Jersey Shore, girls’ weekends with her sisters and close friends, and holiday gatherings. Christmas was her favorite time of year. She was known for her delicious Christmas morning French toast, her love of Home Alone, and her tendency to leave the Christmas tree up long after the season had ended. One of her most cherished traditions was sharing the symbolic turtle doves from the movie with Tyler and Jake—gifting one to each of them while keeping two for herself, a small but meaningful symbol of the bond they would always share.

Kelly also had a passion for television and was an enthusiastic fan of Bravo, the Food Network, and Court TV. She had an incredible memory for crime stories and could recount details of nearly every nationally televised case. She also deeply loved music, especially classic rock, and rarely passed up the chance to see a live performance. She met Don Henley in person and would often say he was “the one that got away.” She remained a devoted fan of the Eagles throughout her life.

She is survived by her two sons; Tyler and Jake, her sisters and best friends, Colleen (Billy), Mary (Michael), and Terry (Rob); and by her cherished nieces and nephews, Billy, Nico, Devyn (Erich), Connor (Brianna), Kyle, Ryan, Robbie, and Shannon.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474, would be greatly appreciated.

David Materna, age 60, of Pompton Lakes, New Jersey, formerly of Wayne, passed away peacefully on May 5, 2026.

Born to Robert and Margaret Materna, David was raised in Wayne, NJ, where he built lifelong friendships and memories that remained deeply important to him throughout his life. He graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1984, where he proudly participated in both the Marching Band and the Golf Team. His love for music and camaraderie began there and stayed with him always.

David continued his education at Rutgers University–Newark, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in accounting in 1988. He went on to build a respected career in the accounting and financial industry. A Certified Public Accountant, David began his professional journey with Ernst & Young and later spent many successful years at UBS. He also operated his own consulting firm.  In recent years, he continued serving others through his work with a local tax firm preparing both personal and corporate taxes.

While David was highly accomplished professionally, those who knew him best understood that his true joy came from the people and passions that filled his life. He was a devoted son, loving brother, caring brother-in-law, proud uncle, and loyal friend. Family and friendships were at the center of everything he did.

Music was David’s greatest passion. A talented musician, he played both the trombone and keyboard and found endless joy in concerts, festivals, and live performances. Whether surrounded by friends or attending a show on his own, music brought him energy, connection, and peace.

David cherished his time spent in Wildwood Crest with family, where he loved playing cards, diving into ocean waves, and walking the boardwalk with his nieces and nephews. He also loved to ski; he created treasured memories on the slopes with family and lifelong friends over many years.

In recent years, one of David’s greatest joys was performing at family holidays and gatherings alongside his father and his incredibly talented drummer nephew, Garrett. Their trio performances brought laughter, music, and unforgettable memories that his family will hold close forever.

David will be deeply missed by all who loved him. He leaves behind a legacy of kindness, laughter, loyalty, music, and love. Though his passing leaves a profound emptiness, his family and friends will forever remember the joy he brought into their lives and the countless memories shared together.

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Eleanor M. Kucinski, age 94, of Wayne passed away on Wednesday May 13, 2026, peacefully.

She was born in Passaic, NJ to Joseph and Mary Ann Golembieski, raised in Wallington NJ and attended Garfield High School. Her first job after high school was with ITT and later moved on to Hoffman LaRoche where she met Raymond Kucinski.  The two married in 1953 and subsequently raised four children.  After taking time to raise her children, Eleanor’s education continued at William Paterson University, where she majored in Psychology and was awarded a bachelor’s degree with high honors with the class of 1988.

Eleanor had a warm and vibrant spirit, was devoted to her family, and always gave the best advice which reflected her wisdom. She was an avid reader, loved to cook for her family, and enjoyed writing letters to her friends. And she absolutely loved the two dogs from her adult life, Misty and Abby.  They are all playing together in heavenly fields. She also was involved with her Catholic faith serving as a Eucharistic Minister, Lector and experiencing Marriage Encounter and Cursillo. She is survived by three children (Jim, Barbara, Tom), her son-in-law Tom Mabey and three grandchildren Sharon, Tommy and Kimberly.  Her son Rich predeceased her in January 2025.

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Margaret Favocci (née Pandocchi), 90, was born on November 20, 1935, in Fredericktown, Pennsylvania. She was the youngest daughter of Italian immigrants who came to America in pursuit of a better life. When the coal mines in Fredericktown closed, her family relocated to Paterson, New Jersey, where Margaret, affectionately known as Peggy, graduated from Eastside High School and began her career as a secretary.

During her senior year of high school, Peggy met the love of her life, Rudy Favocci, at a football game. They were married in October of 1956 and began a life together built on dedication, perseverance, and love. In the years that followed, Peggy worked alongside her husband in his pharmacy and later supported him as he pursued his medical degree, living in Missouri and Michigan before ultimately returning to New Jersey. They settled in Wayne, NJ, where they raised their three children: Rudy Jr., Chris, and Mary.

Peggy was the heart of her family. She devoted herself fully to raising her children, volunteering for countless school activities, and managing her husband’s medical practice in Hawthorne, New Jersey—all with grace and tireless energy.

She is survived by her loving children: Rudy Favocci, Jr.; Chris Favocci and his wife, Maria; and Mary LaSala and her husband, Joe. She was a proud and devoted grandmother to eight grandchildren: Rudy Favocci III and his wife, Cristina; Rebecca Brookland and her husband, Marc; Gina Keane and her husband, Brian; CJ Favocci and his wife, Kelsey; Frank LaSala; Matthew LaSala; Morgan LaSala; and Julia LaSala. She also leaves behind four cherished great-grandchildren: Rudy IV and Elizabeth (Lizzy) Favocci, and Layla and Joelle (Jojo) Brookland. Peggy is also survived by her dear sister, Josephine Smith of Bradenton, Florida.

Peggy was pre-deceased by her beloved husband, Dr. Rudolph Favocci; her parents; her sisters, Gina Pandocchi and Julia Venticinque; and her daughter-in-law, Sherin Werr Favocci.

Peggy found great joy in cooking, traveling, crocheting and entertaining in her Toms River home on the bay. Above all, she treasured time spent with her family and took immense pride in watching three generations grow and flourish. For Peggy, this was the truest expression of the American Dream she and Rudy worked so hard to achieve.

Entombment will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, 59 Totowa Rd, Totowa, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Roman Catholic Church, 45 Urban Club Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

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Dr. Thomas J. Drag II, 48, of East Fishkill, NY, passed away suddenly at home on May 9, 2026.

Born on July 24, 1977, to Thomas and Renee Drag, Tom was raised in Pompton Plains, New Jersey, and graduated from Pequannock High School in 1995. He went on to attend Marist College, earning his degree in 1999. He later completed his Doctor of Chiropractic degree at New York Chiropractic College and worked as a chiropractor throughout his career.

Tom was predeceased by his parents, Thomas and Renee Drag.

He is survived by his three children, Thomas III, Catherine, and Gavin; his partner, Amy Hillenbrand; his brothers, Timothy and Daniel Drag; and many extended family members and friends.

Tom’s greatest accomplishment in life was his children. He was devoted to them and took great pride in being their father. He made a consistent effort to be present and involved in their lives, and his relationship with each of them was central to who he was.

Missely Alexandra Curitomay, 26, of Princeton, Texas and formerly of Pompton Lakes, New Jersey, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, April 30, 2026.

Missely was born in Paterson at St. Joseph’s Hospital. She grew up in Pompton Lakes where she attended Pompton Lakes High School and graduated with the Class of 2018.

As a child, Missely was delighted when her parents introduced her to the world of horses. She loved horseback riding at Garrett Mountain in Woodland Park and always marveled at how beautiful and majestic those creatures were.

During high school, Missely was a proud member of the school’s marching band where she played the trombone with both skill and animation. Like many children of her generation, she learned to play computer games at a young age, and gaming became a lifelong passion, especially once online gaming enabled her to connect and play remotely with friends. She was also a member of the former St. Michael’s Episcopal Church in Wayne where she volunteered as a game night host for the church’s ministry serving disabled persons. Her caring heart also prompted her to donate her hair to children suffering from the ill-effects of cancer. During those years, Missely also experienced her first young love with a boy named Matthew, a relationship that remained a fond and meaningful memory from her youth. While they did not continue dating, Missely and Matthew presently remained good friends.

Missely had the sweetest disposition and shared an especially close bond with her sister Charlotte. The two had so much fun whenever they were together. They enjoyed bowling, playing laser tag, and simply spending time in each other’s company, whether in person or through FaceTime visits.

Missely was an enthusiastic and hardworking young woman. Her first job was at the Dunkin’ Donuts located inside the BJ’s Wholesale Club in Butler where she worked her way up to manager. She later worked for the United States Postal Service at the Pompton Plains Post Office. When the COVID-19 pandemic occurred in 2020, she left that position and eventually began a career in logistics with Amazon.

While living in Pompton Lakes, Missely welcomed her beloved German Shepherd Athena into her life and lovingly trained her to serve as a service dog. In a quest for independence, Missely later relocated to Ohio where she continued her work with Amazon and where she welcomed a second German Shepherd, Kronos, to her family. She gave both dogs names inspired by Greek mythology. Her dogs were her babies, and she took them everywhere. Missely’s job with Amazon most recently caused her to relocate to Texas.

Missely was the precious daughter of Jesus and Martha Curitomay, the dearest sister of Charlotte Curitomay and Christopher Conde, and the cherished partner of Cole Rogers.

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Angelo G. Potenza, lovingly known as “Gary,” age 72, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 9, 2026.

Born in Passaic, Gary was the beloved son of the late Joseph and Angelina (Lapadura) Potenza. He was raised in Garfield and graduated from Garfield High School with the Class of 1971. During his high school years, Gary proudly played second base for the Garfield Boilermakers.

Following graduation, Gary began what would become a lifelong career in the commercial printing industry. Starting at just eighteen years old, he devoted 49 years to the trade before retiring in 2020 during the COVID pandemic. Over the course of his career, Gary worked for several respected printing companies, including Word Press in Paterson, Sandy Alexander in Clifton, L.P. Thebault, later known as EarthColor in Parsippany, and Unimac Graphics in Carlstadt.

Gary was the dearly loved husband of Michele (Dougherty) Potenza. The couple was introduced through mutual friends — Tommy, Gary’s coworker, and Sue, Michele’s best friend. Their first date was at the movies to see The Deer Hunter, which Michele fondly recalled as “a disgusting movie.” Thankfully, it was not a deal breaker. After the movie, they shared a bar pie at Charlie Blood’s in Garfield, and what began as a simple evening together soon blossomed into a loving relationship and a shared dream of marriage.

A true gentleman, Gary first asked Michele’s parents for permission before proposing. Michele’s father gladly gave his blessing, with one condition: Michele’s two beloved dogs — Duke, her Afghan Hound, and Barney, her Shih Tzu — had to come as part of the package. With their approval secured, Gary proposed in September of 1979, and Michele enthusiastically said “Yes!”

Gary and Michele were married on Saturday, June 14, 1980, at St. Andrew’s Roman Catholic Church in Clifton. It was a beautiful sunny day, followed by a reception at the Inwood Manor in Teaneck. The newlyweds then departed for a honeymoon in the Bahamas.

Together, Gary and Michele built a beautiful life filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Their first home was a second-floor apartment on Malcom Avenue in Garfield, where close friends lived downstairs, making for many happy and fun-filled times. They later purchased their first home on Iroquois Avenue in Lake Hiawatha, then moved to Zambrano Drive in West Paterson, before finally settling in 1996 into their present home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne.

Gary’s mechanical talents were remarkable. He could fix virtually anything and even remodeled his kitchen and bathroom himself. He enjoyed playing card games and, when no one was available to join him, he happily challenged himself to a game of Solitaire. Two things were part of Gary’s daily routine: reading The Record newspaper from front to back and playing the lottery. If it was your birthday, chances were good that Gary would hand you a lottery ticket as part of your gift.

Sundays were reserved for watching sports on television. Gary especially loved football and baseball and remained a loyal fan of the New York Yankees and the New York Giants throughout his life.

Though a man of few words, Gary noticed everything around him and spoke thoughtfully and meaningfully. Above all else, he treasured his family, whom he considered the greatest blessing of his life. Nothing brought him more joy than spending quality time with his three adored grandchildren. He loved his family deeply and wholeheartedly.

Gary was the beloved husband of Michele (Dougherty) Potenza, with whom he shared nearly 46 wonderful years of marriage. He was the loving father of Danielle Lesser and her husband, Robert, of Newfoundland; the adored grandfather of Giavanna, Logan, and Jayce; the much-loved brother of Joseph Potenza and his wife, Kathy, of Lincoln Park, Richard Potenza of Garfield, Marlaine Janots of Lodi, and Peter Potenza and his wife, Veronica, of Garfield; and the dear uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Gary was predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Angelina Potenza, and by his brother-in-law, Dominic Janots.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Gary’s name may be made to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Donations may also be made by mail or by calling 800-805-5856.

Please indicate that your gift is made in memory of Angelo “Gary” Potenza.

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Laura Anne Delli Santi, age 65, passed away on Wednesday, May 6, 2026.

Laura was the youngest of three children born to John and Geraldine Delli Santi. She was born and raised in Newark, NJ and from a young age she excelled in school. Her academic excellence led her to Bloomfield College where she earned her master’s degree in teaching. Early on, she decided she wanted to work with children, and with her degree in hand, she dedicated her career to education for the rest of her life.

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She loved going to Keansburg Beach with her parents & in her later life enjoyed trips to Atlantic city listening to the music from the shows & spending a little time in the casinos too.  

Laura is the loving sister of Louis Delli Santi and his wife Jo-Ann, Joseph Delli Santi and his wife Elaine; and the loving aunt of Julianne McCarthy & husband Scott & great niece Kiley Ann along with many loving cousins. She was predeceased by her mother Geraldine Delli Santi and her father John Delli Santi.

Antoinette Ester Cavarra, age 95, passed away on May 2, 2026 surrounded by the love of her family, leaving behind a legacy of warmth, grace, and unwavering devotion to those she cherished most. Born on May 5, 1930, in Newark to Angelo and Theresa DiPaolo, Antoinette lived a life centered on family, kindness, and love.

In 1952, she married Johnny Cuccurullo in Brooklyn, and together they welcomed two beloved children, Joseph Cuccurullo and Anni Cuccurullo. Following their divorce in 1960, Antoinette devoted herself to raising her children while living in her parents’ home on Pierce Avenue in Bronx, NY.

In 1986, Antoinette married the love of her life, Frank Cavarra. Their marriage was one of deep companionship and devotion. Frank, a decorated World War II Army veteran, was captured during the Normandy Landings and courageously survived a year in a Nazi prisoner-of-war camp. Together, Frank and Antoinette lovingly cared for Antoinette’s mother, Theresa DiPaolo, who lived to the remarkable age of 102 before passing in 2004. Frank and Antoinette cherished seven years of loving and loyal marriage until Frank’s passing 1993.

Antoinette leaves behind her younger brother Joe and will see her older sister Emily who predeceased her recently.Antoinette is survived by her son Joseph Cuccurullo and wife Linda as well as daughter Anni Cusack & husband Jim.

Antoinette was the proud and loving grandmother of Eric, Travis, Meaghan, Chelsea, Madison, ToniAnn, Joey Rocco, Maxwell & Rilee and the adored great-grandmother of Giovanni and Augustus Oakley. In 2005, she moved from the Bronx to be closer to her daughter Anni Cusack and her family, where she continued to be a constant source of love, encouragement, and wisdom.

Antoinette possessed many talents and passions. An accomplished pianist, she proudly performed at Carnegie Hall, a memory she treasured throughout her life. She was also an exceptional Italian cook whose eggplant, pizza rustica, and famous bran muffins became beloved family traditions that brought everyone together around her table.

To her family and friends, Antoinette was truly a class act, she was elegant, gentle, and endlessly supportive. She never spoke a harsh word and always offered love, comfort, and encouragement to everyone fortunate enough to know her. Her strength, kindness, and beautiful spirit will remain forever in the hearts of those she leaves behind.

Wilma J. Oliphant (nee Nyland), 92, passed away peacefully on Friday, May 1, 2026. She leaves a legacy of devotion to family, faith, and her community.

Wilma was born in Clifton, New Jersey, where she spent her early years. She resided in Pompton Plains for much of her life, where she also raised her family. In 1994, she moved to Wayne, where she would reside for the remainder of her life.

In the 1950s, Wilma worked as a secretary for NJM Insurance on Piaget Avenue in Clifton. It was there that she met her future husband, James. Their shared workplace led to a lasting partnership, and they exchanged vows in 1957. They enjoyed a life together centered on love and mutual support until Jim’s passing in 1991.

Wilma was a devoted and caring mother to her three sons, James, Steven, and David. She took great pride in her home and found joy in preparing meals for her family—no small task given her sons’ famously selective tastes. Nevertheless, her cooking was cherished, and her egg noodle casserole became a particular family favorite.

A woman of quiet talent and determination, Wilma was a self-taught piano and organ player. Her passion for music began at the age of fourteen, when her parents gifted her a piano. She would go on to share that gift for many years, playing both piano and organ at her church, the Fairfield Reformed Church, where her dedication enriched countless services and touched many lives.

Wilma’s creative spirit extended beyond music. She enjoyed crafting, ceramics, and needlepoint, and she spent many hours knitting small blankets and hats, which she generously donated to local hospitals for newborn babies—a reflection of her lifelong kindness and thoughtfulness.

In her later years, Wilma spent a brief period in retirement in Bradenton, Florida, before returning to Wayne, New Jersey, where she remained close to her family.

Wilma is survived by her three sons, James, David, and Steven, who will remember her as a loving mother, a gifted musician, and a woman whose warmth and generosity left a lasting impression on all who knew her. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, James, in 1991, as well as all five of her brothers. Wilma will be dearly missed and fondly remembered.

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Louis U. Zazzella, age 100, passed away peacefully on Friday, May 1, 2026, while receiving the loving care of his family.

Born in his parents’ home in Paterson, New Jersey, Louis was the son of Louis and Helen Zazzella and one of two children. At a young age, his family moved to Haledon, where he spent his formative years. Life called him to responsibility early, and he left school before attending high school to help support his family, a decision that would come to define the outstanding work ethic he carried throughout his life.

Louis began working at a local dairy farm in Wayne, New Jersey, and went on to develop a wide range of practical skills. A gifted and entirely self-taught handyman, he had a natural talent for working on cars, especially wiring and electrical systems, as well as fixing anything that required patience and ingenuity.

In 1944, he answered the call to serve his country during World War II, serving in the United States Navy. He served honorably as a Machinist’s Mate Third Class and was awarded the American Theatre Medal, the Victory Medal, and the Asiatic-Pacific Medal I star.

Upon his honorable discharge, Louis began what would become a decades-long career as a truck driver for the Sam Braen stone quarry company in Haledon, later known as Stone Industries. His dedication and steady commitment carried him through more than forty years of service until his retirement in 1990.

Retirement did not slow him down. Louis found joy and purpose in working with his hands through woodworking in his home workshop, building birdhouses, tinkering with electronics and small engines, and tending to his extensive vegetable garden. His property was a reflection of his gardening skills. His lawn was always meticulously cared for. He was also a proud member of VFW Post #9458 in Bloomingdale.

As a young man, Louis served his community as a volunteer firefighter in Haledon. It was there, outside the firehouse, that fate intervened.  One day a young woman named Elizabeth Soder passed by. The two started talking and hit it off wonderfully. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on January 26, 1952, beginning a partnership that would span more than seventy years until Elizabeth’s passing in 2022.

The couple first lived in Pompton Lakes, where they welcomed their son, Michael, before settling in a home they built together in Wayne. There, they welcomed their daughter, Linda, and created a lifetime of memories. Louis remained in that home for the rest of his life.

A devoted husband, father, and man of deep faith, Louis and his family were longtime parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. His Catholic faith was a guiding presence in his life.

Louis was a quiet and private man.  He was someone who had much to say but never needed to raise his voice to be heard. He was always willing to lend a hand to anyone in need.

In his leisure, Louis was an avid hockey fan, proudly supporting both the New York Rangers and the New Jersey Devils.

Louis will be remembered as a truly special man, hardworking, and deeply devoted to those he loved. He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by all who knew him.

Louis is survived by his son Michael Zazzella and his wife Debra of Vernon, NJ, his daughter Linda Zazzella of Wayne, NJ, and several nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.  He was predeceased by his wife Elizabeth Zazzella (2022), and his sister Mae Maccia (2007).

Friends may visit with the family from 10am-12pm on Wednesday May 6, 2026 at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home. 567 Ratzer Rd, Wayne NJ.  A funeral service will be held at 12pm on Wednesday, May 6, 2026 at the funeral home immediately following the visiting hours

Interment will be in Christ the King Cemetery, 980 Huron Rd, Franklin Lakes, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Louis’ name to the charity of your choice

John “Jack” Wallace, 90, passed away peacefully at home on April 30, 2026, with his wife at his side.

Born in Christ Hospital, Jersey City, NJ on October 5, 1935, to Jack Wallace and Marguerite Shea, he was the eldest of four brothers and remained deeply connected to his family throughout his life. He took great pride in his Irish heritage and in sharing that connection with his family.  He attended Regis High School, the College of the Holy Cross, and Fordham University School of Law. After graduating from law school, Jack served in the United States Army.

In 1963, Jack married Rosemarie Moore, with whom he shared 63 years of marriage. Together they raised four children: Marybeth, John, Ann, and Kath.  A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, Jack made family the center of his life. He was a constant presence—never missing important moments and always offering his support, guidance, and encouragement.

Jack practiced law for five decades, building a reputation for integrity, intelligence, and a deep commitment to helping others. Over time, his work became as much a service to family, friends, and longtime clients as it was a profession.  He was a lifelong sports fan, especially of the New York Giants, and enjoyed spending time at the beach in Surf City with his family and friends.

Jack was known for his sharp mind, remarkable memory, and genuine interest in others. He will be remembered for his kindness, humility, and unwavering loyalty.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Rosemarie; his children and their spouses, Marybeth, John (Pam), Ann (Chris), and Kathleen (Ed); and his ten grandchildren: Patrick, Caity, Michael, Brendan, Christopher, Maddie, Lily, James, Danny, and Matthew. He is also survived by his younger brother George Wallace and extended family.

In lieu of flowers, donations in John's name may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Michael “Mike” Howard Steinberg, age 85, of Wayne, passed Tuesday, April 28, 2026.

He was born in Newark to Maxwell and Lillian Steinberg and raised in Passaic.  He graduated from Passaic High School, where he played football, with the class of 1958.  He attended Oklahoma University in Norman, Oklahoma and  American University in Washington, DC, where he played football at  both schools.

In his younger years, Mike began building a strong work ethic through a variety of jobs that reflected his dedication and drive. He worked at Ben Crones Clothing Store in Passaic and later at the Glamourine Company, also in Passaic. He then worked for his wife’s father, Hy Fingrel, in Totowa, making truck deliveries. For the last 30 years of his career, Mike served as a Sales Representative for Bacon & Graham Packaging Supply Company in Paterson, where he built lasting relationships and earned the respect of colleagues and customers alike before retiring just two years ago.

Michael met Carole Fingrel while he was dating her backyard neighbor in Clifton, a chance encounter that would lead to a lifetime together. He later proposed to Carole at her family home in Clifton, and the two were married on June 9, 1962, at Steiners in Newark. After their wedding, they celebrated their new life together with a honeymoon at Mount Airy Lodge in the Pocono Mountains. Their marriage was blessed with two children Todd and Jamie.

Mike was a man who embraced life with enthusiasm, friendship, and pride in the things he loved most. A longtime member and past president of the Tri County Cruisers, he especially cherished his classic 1951 Pontiac, complete with its glowing Indian head hood ornament that always turned heads wherever he went. He was a devoted fan of the New York Jets and rarely missed a chance to cheer them on. Mike was also a proud member of the Freemasons and the Shriners International at Salaam Temple in Livingston. In quieter moments, he enjoyed relaxing in the sunshine and treating himself to his favorite Chinese food, simple pleasures that brought him great happiness.

He was the beloved husband of sixty-four years to Carole (Fingrel) Steinberg; devoted father of Todd Steinberg and his wife Jennifer and Jamie Lillis and her husband William; he was the cherished grandfather of Madison and her husband Anthony Bernal, Hunter Beides, Maxwell Steinberg, Lily Steinberg, Brody Lilllis, and Harleigh Lillis.

An 11 AM graveside service will be held Thursday, April 30, 2026, at the Passaic Junction Cemetery, Dewey Road, Saddle Brook.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Diabetes Foundation, 45 Whitney Road, Mahwah, NJ 07430 would be greatly appreciated.  

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Anthony V. Latona, 66, of Haledon, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 27, 2026, surrounded by the love and care of his family.

Born in Passaic and raised in Wayne, Anthony was one of four children of Frank and Janet Latona. He attended Passaic County Technical Institute in Wayne, where he studied auto mechanics, a passion that began in his youth and remained with him throughout his life. Anthony had a lifelong love of cars and motorcycles, and those who knew him will always remember his passion for them.

After graduating with the Class of 1977, Anthony found employment quickly and began his career as a mechanic with Prompt Lift Trucking, a forklift company in Paterson, where he developed a strong foundation in the trade. In 1985, he accepted a position with Crown Lift Truck in Oakland. Over the next thirty-five years, he became a respected and valued member of the company, admired by coworkers and peers for his skill. He remained there until his retirement in 2023.

In 1982, Anthony met the love of his life, Connie Siersma, at Paul’s Bar and Bowling in Paterson. The two of them hit it off great and as fate would have it, they fell in love and exchanged vows in front of family and friends on September 29, 1985 at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne becoming husband and wife. After a brief time in Elmwood Park, they settled in Connie’s hometown of Haledon, where they have been ever since, and raised their two children, April and Frank.

Anthony was a proud member of the Blue Knights Motorcycle Club and treasured the friendships and experiences that came with it. He found great joy in riding with fellow members over the years. He was an avid fisherman, and especially cherished family trips to the Chesapeake Bay and the Outer Banks. He also enjoyed camping trips with his family throughout Pennsylvania, New York, and New Hampshire.

Anthony was a man of quiet strength and deep dedication. He worked hard and took great pride in providing for his family. Though he may not have always expressed his feelings openly, there was never any doubt about the love he had for his family. He was a devoted husband, cherishing forty-one years of loving and loyal marriage to his wife Connie, and a proud father. In his younger years, he enjoyed attending gatherings with friends alongside Connie, while in later years, he found his greatest contentment at home, surrounded by family.

He was a loyal New York Giants fan and shared a special bond with his beloved pit bull, Nash, who was his constant companion and best friend.

Anthony will be remembered for his strong work ethic, and the love he gave in his own quiet, enduring way to his family.

Anthony is survived by his wife Connie (nee Siersma) of Haledon, NJ, his daughter April Latona of Hawthorne, NJ, his son Frank Latona of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ, his sister Janice Moore of Wayne, NJ, two brothers; Frank Latona of Prospect Park, NJ, and Lourens Latona of Mahwah, NJ, two cousins Doreen, and Tracey, and many extended family.  He is predeceased by his parents Frank and Janet Latona.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Pitties & Pals Rescue Inc. PO Box 692, Jackson, NJ 08527  

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Kathleen Mary Rothberg, age 82, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home with the loving comfort of her daughter, son-in-law, and grandson caring for her.

Kathleen was born in Paterson on August 16, 1943, to Mary and John Graham. In October, 1950, she was joined by her little brother, Jack. She was raised in Paterson and attended school there until she graduated high school. 

Kathy's first job was as a receptionist at a physician's office, along with being a doting mother to her two daughters. Tracey was born in 1963, followed by Colleen, in 1965. She was taught beautician skills by an uncle and enjoyed doing some side work as a hairstylist for some years. Her next position was working as a cashier in a pharmacy. During most of her adult life, she was a phenomenal homemaker, taking great pride in her home. She was also a very talented decorator. Her house was always spotless, making a white cotton glove test difficult to pick up a speck of dust. She eventually did go back to working part time at a pharmacy and later on in her 60's, she worked in the mall, for a skincare line and enjoyed selling the products. For a time, she also enjoyed selling costume jewelry. Most of all, she was a homemaker, creating the beautiful home her family shared together.

Kathy was quite the shopper. She would frequent the mall and her favorite department stores, where she would find many treasures for her children and grandchildren. Kathy would ALWAYS remember birthdays. She would go to the store and mail a card to arrive right on time with a sweet message. She was a very generous soul and had so many special qualities. She loved to cook and try new recipes. She would clip and save recipes from magazines, but mainly learned her cooking skills from her mother. She made notes for everything. There was always a sticky note or notepad in her drawer with little scribbles on what she needed to remember for that particular day or the next. Kathy loved sunny beach days with her family and friends. She took many family vacations to Long Beach Island with the entire family. They rented a big house and made priceless memories there. She very much enjoyed sitting out by her daughter's pool on warmer days when the sun was shining. She had many gatherings at her home on Benson Drive in Wayne. She was a wonderful hostess and it was always a treat for her family to go to Sunday dinner, whether it was barbecue or a pasta dish. Some of her specialties where pot roasts and stews. She loved to spend her evenings relaxing in bed watching her crime drama shows until she was so tired from the day that she would sometimes just doze off. Kathy had a great love for gardening. Her yard was meticulously landscaped and had many different types of perennial flowers and bushes. She had an endearing saying that she used with her family, when they said "Love you", she would always say, "I love you more." Hearing that will surely be something her family will miss. More than anything in her life, she cherished her family and they were her life. When her nieces' mother was very ill, she took them into her home and provided and cared for them as her own. She also had a dog, Maggie, who she loved very much, and was her companion for many years.

Kathy met her future husband, Alan, at Sussman Pharmacy in Paterson. She had been working for Dr. Hirsch, and a nurse associate who worked with her, told Alan about a nice girl that she worked with. Alan took her advice and gave Kathy a call. They went on their first date to an exquisite restaurant in Whippany, where they hit it off, and continued dating. They married on November 22, 1969, at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne and honeymooned in Florida. Alan treated Kathy's two daughters with great love and respect, and after their marriage, it gave him great joy to adopt them both as his own daughters. In 1971, Kathy and Alan welcomed a son, Scott. The family of five lived briefly in Marlboro, before moving to Wayne where they remained for 33 years before moving to Pompton Lakes in 2005.

Kathleen was the beloved wife of Alan, blessed in a loving marriage spanning 44 years until his passing in 2013. She is survived by her two daughters and her one son: Tracey Seylaz, Colleen Darpino and husband Dean, and Scott Rothberg, and wife Angela; her brother Jack, and his wife Sandy; eight grandchildren: Ryan, Connor, Meghan, Brianna, Brynn, Trevor, James and Alyssa; eight great-grandchildren: Austin, Brooks, Peyton, Mackenzie, Johnny, Blake, Oakley and Piper; two nieces: Wendy, Beth and nephew Brian; and two great-nieces: Shea and Kylee.

In memory of Kathleen, please consider a donation to her niece Shea's School Foundation (Shea has Down Syndrome, and had a very special bond with Kathy). They're phone calls always ended with "Oh Dear!", as Shea would ask her to count to three and repeat after each phone call! 

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Sr. Marie José Sicard, 71, of Oakland, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 1, 2026, while receiving loving care of her family.

Born and raised in Port-au-Prince, Haiti, Marie developed a deep appreciation for the arts at an early age. She loved drawing and painting and became a skilled seamstress. These would be talents she carried with her throughout her life.

At the age of eighteen, Marie immigrated to the United States in 1972, along with her beloved twin sister Margarette, and older brother Jean Robert. She began her life in the United States in Brooklyn, NY where she lived from 1972 to 1979,before moving to Manhattan, where she resided for over three decades. During that time Marie proud that she attained her citizenship in the United States. In 2016, she relocated to Trenton, NJ to live with her twin sister Magarette.

While living in New York City, Marie welcomed the births of her three children, Jasmine, Jeffery, and Jean Samuel who were the center of her world.

Marie’s greatest passion in life was her unwavering Christian faith. As a devoted believer in God and Jesus Christ, her faith sustained and guided her through every chapter of her life, especially as a single mother. She was a longtime and active member of the Church of God Manhattan in New York City, where she served faithfully as a volunteer, a member of the women’s ministry, and an usher. With her gentle spirit and warm smile, she made everyone feel welcome, often greeting others with the heartfelt words, “Jesus loves you.”

She treasured traveling, especially to her favorite place, Kissimmee, Florida, and taking trips by train, which she always enjoyed. Marie was a woman of many talents, she had a lifelong passion for knitting and crocheting, and she never lost her gift as a seamstress. She lovingly created countless blankets, baby booties, scarves, and dresses, many of which she sold and shared with others. She was also a wonderful cook, fondly remembered by family and friends for her delicious Haitian Legume.

In her later years, Marie found her greatest joy in her grandchildren, cherishing every moment spent with them and creating lasting memories filled with love. Marie also shared an extraordinary bond with her twin sister, Margarette, who was not only her sibling but her lifelong best friend.

Marie was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her. She will be sincerely missed by all that knew her.

Marie is survived by her daughter Jasmine Bernard-Straker and her husband Anderson of Wayne, NJ, and two sons; Jeffery Bernard, and Jean Samuel Brannon, her four brothers; Jean Robert Sicard of Queens, NY, Emmanuel Sicard of Brooklyn, NY, Emile Sicard, and Freddy Sicard, two sisters; Carol Sicard Gransoult of Queens, NY, and Magdala Sicard of Queens, NY, five grandchildren, Isaiah Jordan, Imani Straker, Anderson Straker, Miyah Brannon, and Niyah Brannon. She was predeceased by her twin sister Margarette Sicard, and her youngest sister Denise Sicard.  

Deborah Jayne Priestner (nee Day) of Riverdale, passed peacefully on April 21, 2026, surrounded by the love of her family, after a brief illness. Debbie lived her life influenced by the pillars of the Christian faith, believing that helping others, tithing and valuing each and every individual for who they are, builds a foundation of strength on which life can be built and lived. She was a member of the First Reformed Church of Pompton Plains where she enjoyed giving of her time and was supported by a wonderful extended family of hope and faith. Debbie would tell you that her greatest accomplishment was her family. There was nothing more in the world that Debbie loved more than her family, with her children and grandchildren being what she cherished most, above all else.

Debbie was predeceased by her husband, James Priestner, mother, Jayne Schneider, sister Marilyn Winfield and brother JR Schneider. Debbie is survived by her children, Carly Johnson (Chris) and Matthew Priestner (Lisa), her grandchildren Caleigh, Brianna, Emma and Cole, her brother Tom Schneider (Mary) and nieces Brittany Schneider and Janelle Firavanti (Frank) as well as one great-nephew Tommy.

Vincent Demetrio Schiavone

May 13, 1940 – April 21, 2026

Vincent Demetrio Schiavone, a devoted public servant and deeply cherished husband, father, grandfather, and brother, passed away peacefully on April 21, 2026, at the age of 85.

Born on May 13, 1940, to Vincent and Adeline (Giannico) Schiavone, Vincent was raised in Yonkers, New York. From an early age, he carried with him a strong sense of duty, integrity, and compassion, qualities that would guide him throughout his life. After graduating high school, he proudly served his country in the United States Navy, an experience that reflected his lifelong commitment to service.

Upon returning home, Vincent met the love of his life, Ann (Anderson). Together, they built a beautiful life over 51 years of marriage, rooted in love, laughter, and unwavering devotion. Though Ann predeceased him, her presence remained close to his heart always.

Vincent began his career as a corrections officer in Westchester County and then entered the police academy.  He dedicated 38 years to serving the community of Hastings-on-Hudson, New York, first as a police officer and later as a lieutenant. Vincent was a professor of Criminal Justice at Mercy College for many years. He was known for his fairness, integrity, and quiet strength, earning the deep respect of both his colleagues, students and the community he protected. Even in retirement, Vincent continued to give back as he served the Johnsburg, New York community with his work on the Youth Commission and eventually serving as the Municipal Court Judge for seven years.

In recent years, Vincent made his home at Brightview Senior Living in Wayne, where he formed meaningful friendships and embraced life’s simple pleasures. He especially enjoyed his poker games, music-filled happy hours, and the camaraderie of those around him. His quick wit and warm sense of humor brought joy to all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

Above all else, Vincent’s greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his loving children: Melissa Schiavone (James Rosenberg), Michele DePalma (John), and Michael Schiavone (Erika Peterson). He was a proud and devoted grandfather to Nicholas DePalma (Randi), Vincent DePalma (fiance, Sarah Farnan), Anthony DePalma, Demetrio Schiavone, and Amalyiah Rosenberg, each of whom brought him immense happiness.

He is also survived by his beloved sister, Lynn DeBuono, and his nieces: Daria DeBuono (Stephen Voland), Cathy DeBuono, and Toni Lynn DeBuono.  Vincent will be remembered for his steadfast dedication to his family, his distinguished life of service, and the kindness, humility, and quiet strength that defined him. His legacy lives on in the many lives he touched and in the family he loved so deeply. He will be dearly missed and forever remembered.

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to Tunnels to Towers Foundation in his honor.

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Dominic D. Vespia ,age 85, of Rutherford, NJ peacefully went home to God in the morning of April 16, 2026. He was born August 13, 1940 in Jersey City, NJ to Anthony and Mary (Perotta) Vespia and later the family moved to Palisades Park, NJ.

At age 17, his father signed the papers and he enrolled in the United States Marine Corp and attended Marine Corp School in Quantico, VA where his speciality was machine gunner.  He was stationed in Okinawa, Japan and received a Good Conduct Medal .  He served from August 30, 1957 and was honorably discharged August 29, 1960.  He often said those were the “best years of his life” and where he made lifelong friends.  “Semper Fi”.

After the Marine Corp. he started working at Shipman Ward and with hard work in 1983 Swintec Corporation was born and Dominic was elected President of the typewriter company in Moonachie, NJ eventually becoming sole owner in 1994. He traveled to Japan many times for business where he acquired an affinity for rice (as some of us know he loved to make his rice pudding!) and there also making lifelong friends with the executives of the company often taking them on fishing boat charters in Florida and New Jersey when they came to the U.S..  Under Dominic’s leadership the company received multiple awards through the years including in 1985 winning the first sole source typewriter contract from GSA and future ones going forward. Dominic was able to grow and sustain the typewriter company to this day where he started over 40 years ago.

Dominic moved to California where he worked for Shipman Ward in sales.  While living there, he met his wife Henny at a friend’s house party and the two quickly formed a deep and lasting bond.  They were married on November 16, 1968 in Hacienda Heights, CA.  Shortly thereafter they moved back to New Jersey where they began their family in Waldwick before eventually settling in Franklin Lakes, a community that became the heart of their family life for many years.

Dominic loved a good time, loved not to follow rules(!), to sing, eat (pasta & sweets!), laugh, he loved action movies, a good book (preferably a thriller), to play golf (he was great!), smoke a cigar, have a Black on the Rocks, be at his place in Ballenisles in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida.

Dominic loved his family, his friends and will be deeply missed.

He was the beloved father of Deanna (Jose) Valenzuela and Danielle (John) Flaherty;  grandfather of Kayla Vespia and Dominic, Dayna and Devin Valenzuela; brother of Phil Vespia; leaves behind many cousins, nieces, and nephews and also his beloved Aunt Dot, he was husband to the late Hendrika Vespia; and leaves behind his loving companion of many years Noelle Aversano.

We are sure he will be giving all the angels a hard time in Heaven!

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Bernhard “Bernie” Vollmin, also known as “The Swiss Carpenter,” age 84, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Friday, March 6, 2026.

Bernie was born on April 30, 1941, in Blanquefort, France, to Joseph and Minni Vollmin. He was the ninth of ten children. He was raised in Liestal, Switzerland, for most of his childhood. As an adventurous teenager, he became a carpenter apprentice, where he discovered his lifelong passion for working with wood.  He proudly served in the Swiss Armed Forces. After serving his country, he traveled through Europe's countryside, gaining experience and perfecting his carpentry skills along the way.

In early 1961, Bernhard met Regina while traveling in Austria. He knew he had found a real gem.  Soon after, he immigrated to the United States ahead of Regina to start their American dream. After Bernie settled in New Jersey, Regina joined him, while she was seven months pregnant and they got married in September 1961 in New Jersey. They welcomed their first child Monica in November 1961 and their second child Michael in January 1963.

He held his native Switzerland country close to his heart, returning several times to take in the beauty of the Swiss Alps and visit his family and friends. Bernie and Regina shared more than 64 wonderful years of marriage. They loved Oktoberfest celebrations because they felt like home.  He was known for his festive Bavarian hats and for being the life of the party.

In 1970, Bernie's dreams came true when he established his own carpentry business, “The Swiss Carpenter.” He was a true master of his craft. He was known in Northern New Jersey for his precision, dedication, and tireless work ethic.  Regina worked alongside Bernie for 25 years, and together they built their dream.

When Bernie “built” something, he built it to last.  His carpentry, his relationships, and his love for everyone. Bernie was truly a one-of-a-kind individual. To know him was to love him. While he could be rough around the edges, he had a heart of gold and deep devotion to his family and friends. Once Bernie became a grandfather in 1987, he was forever called “OPA” by his immediate family and close friends.

Bernhards other passion was soccer. He joined the Sportfriends Soccer Club back in the 1960’s, now based in Wayne, NJ.  He played on and coached several Sportfriends teams over the years. He devoted countless hours volunteering, helping with improvements to the club facilities, and assisting with fundraisers. For more than 60 years, Bernie could be found at the soccer club nearly every weekend—either playing, watching games, or lending a hand while having the occasional cigar or two.

Bernhard will be deeply missed by his beloved wife, Regina Vollmin; his two children, daughter Monica Luyster and son Michael Vollmin and his partner Annette Kenyon; his five grandchildren, Natalie Kazak and her husband Corey Kazak, Brian Luyster and his wife Kiara Luyster, Lindsay McGee and her husband Jeff McGee, Michael Vollmin and his wife Stephanie Vollmin, and Elizabeth Vollmin; and his four great-grandchildren, Weston, Holden, Cooper, and Colton. He will also be greatly missed by his extended family in Switzerland, his Sportfriends Soccer family, and many close friends.

In lieu of flowers, please feel free to donate to the Sportsfriends Soccer Club in his name.  P.O. Box 72, Wayne, NJ  07470.

Brian Thomas Higgins, 72, of Wayne via Upper Saddle River went home to the Lord Thursday, April 16. He was surrounded by the love of family and friends in his final days.

Brian was born to Patrick and Florence Higgins and lived his early years in Chicago before spending most of his youth in Rutherford. He excelled as a student and athlete at Saint Mary High School, where he was quarterback of the football team, a star baseball player, and a member of the basketball team. His athletic achievements earned him a place in St. Mary’s Hall of Fame, and he remained active in the school’s life long after he was a student. He went on to the University of Pennsylvania and earned his law degree at the University of Notre Dame, where he made lifelong friends in the school’s famed intramural sports.

It was also at Notre Dame where Brian met Karen, his classmate and herself a successful corporate attorney. They married in her hometown of Johnstown, Pennsylvania – the event’s attendees maintain to this day that it was both the most fun and wildest crowd any wedding has seen, primarily due to the antics of the groom’s softball buddies.

Brian had a long and successful career as a litigator, specializing in personal injury defense work. The bulk of his professional life took place at the law firm he co-founded in 1994, Norton, Arpert, Sheehy and Higgins. In addition to his legal success and tireless work ethic, he was beloved within the firm and the North Jersey legal community for his jovial professionalism, loyalty, and esprit de corps. He finished his career at the law firm of Foster and Mazzie, and retired from legal practice in 2020.

Brian threw himself wholeheartedly into every community where he belonged and became part of its fabric. Nowhere was this more evident than in Upper Saddle River where he and his wife of 44 years, Karen, made their home and raised their sons Adam and Tim. Brian was a fixture of the town’s youth sports programs, especially in leading its thriving baseball leagues for many years while the boys played. He was active in the parish life of the Church of the Presentation, where the Christmas Eve and Easter parking ministry relied on his steadfast service. Brian was also an enthusiastic volunteer in the activities of Boy Scout Troop 133 where both sons became Eagle Scouts. He enjoyed many nights bonding with other dads on camping trips to West Point and Harriman State Park. Even after he and Karen moved to Wayne, they volunteered and he participated in the annual Upper Saddle River 5K on Thanksgiving.

In the Manitou community where Brian and Karen moved, Brian continued to be an integral part of his community by volunteering in multiple capacities.  He beautified Manitou by planting flowers every year on the corners of the community and at the clubhouse and could be seen daily watering and nurturing the flowers that he planted.

Brian loved sports, especially baseball, as a passionate fan of the New York Yankees, Cal Ripken Jr., and Notre Dame football. During the Yankee championship seasons of the late 1990s, when the Yankees entered the final inning of a series-clinching victory, Brian and his boys were known to mute TV audio and turn on the home’s built-in radio system to blare John Sterling’s famous “Ballgame over! World Series over! Yankees win! The-uh-uh-uh Yankees win!”

Brian and Karen dedicated their lives to their sons and the rest of their extended family. Brian warmly welcomed his daughter-in-law Erica to the family in 2021, and his latest and greatest joy was his young grandchildren Patrick and Mary, who feel deep affection for their “Pa.” Even at the very end of his life as his body faltered, his spirit came to life in his grandchildren’s presence.

As the third of eight siblings, Brian cherished his large family. Along with Karen and his sons and grandchildren, he is survived by siblings Patty (Joe Gazdowicz), Kevin (Maryellen), Barbara (Kevin McCallion), Sheila (John Bedard), and Tom (Stacey) and all of their children. Sisters Kathy (Victor Steckler) and Mary (Ted Gonzalez) preceded him in death. The broader family’s best weeks each year were spent at the annual summer vacation that Brian and Karen hosted at Long Beach Island. He loved tossing the football with his sons and their cousins and friends, fishing trips on Barnegat Bay, and fitting in as many “dips” in the Atlantic Ocean as he could each day.

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Joseph A. Portelli, age 71, passed away peacefully in the comfort of his home, on Wednesday, April 15th, 2026.

Joseph was born on March 31st, 1955, in Paterson, New Jersey, and raised by his parents, Lillian and Andrew Soter. He grew up alongside his sister, Linda Mallaney, and his brother, Thomas Portelli, on Dixon Ave, and later moved to Avenue C in Haledon. Joseph looked back quite fondly on the memories they made together in the North Jersey neighborhoods.

A graduate of Paterson Catholic (1973), Villanova University (1977), and Delaware Law School (1981), his career began as a law clerk to the Honorable Carmen Ferrante, followed by three years as an Assistant Passaic County Prosecutor. He then joined Barnes and Barnes in Newark before opening his practice, where he specialized in criminal law for over two decades. In 2009, he was appointed to the Passaic County Superior Court, where he served with integrity and fairness until his retirement in March of 2025. He was firm in his decisions and gave honest interpretations of the law while also maintaining tremendous grace, humility, and understanding.

Outside years of service in the courthouse, he was an incredibly selfless, loving, and resilient husband, father, son, brother, and friend. He met the love of his life, Brenda, at Smokey Joe’s in Philadelphia, PA, beginning a lifelong affinity for the city. They married on June 15, 1985 and enjoyed over 40 years of marriage together. Joseph and Brenda have four children–Joseph, Olivia, Rachel, and Michael–whom he adored. He has since welcomed his son and daughter in-laws, Anthony Colontonio and Andrea Portelli, and his three beautiful granddaughters, Emilia, Carolina, and Giulia.

Joseph is predeceased by his parents, Lillian and Andrew Soter, and his brother, Thomas Portelli. He is survived by his sister, Linda Mallaney (Thomas Mallaney), brothers-in-law, Brian Cosgrove (Tammy Cosgrove), AJ Williams (Sharon Straiton), and sister-in-law, Mary Jane Portelli (Thomas Portelli), many nieces and nephews, and a beloved extended family.

Joseph and his family spent countless summers in North Wildwood, a place near and dear to his heart. In his free time, Joseph loved crosswords, Scrabble, playing guitars, immersing himself in the world of Rock & Roll, and attending as many The Who concerts as he possibly could. He had the privilege of spending a lifetime with family and many wonderful friends that he valued and appreciated. Joseph will be deeply missed by all.

Julia Tammaro (née Bushnauskas), age 96, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 15, 2026, surrounded by the loving care of her family.

Born and raised in Paterson, New Jersey, Julia was the cherished middle child of three, born to Joseph and Brone Bushnauskas. From a young age, she demonstrated a strong sense of responsibility and devotion to family, leaving school early to help support her household by working as a secretary for a local company.

In 1947, Julia’s life changed forever when she went on a blind date with John Andrew Tammaro, a United States Army veteran.  The two went out together dancing all night.  As fate would have it, they fell in love.  On February 26, 1948, they exchanged wedding vows in the presence of family and friends becoming husband and wife in a Catholic church in Paterson. They began their life together in Paterson, where they welcomed their first two children, Frank and Patricia. Immediately after getting married, Julia embraced her role as a full-time homemaker, dedicating herself wholeheartedly to her family.

In 1958, the family relocated to Ramsey, NJ, where they spent thirty-three wonderful years and welcomed two more children, Christina and Tracey. Later in life, Julia returned to Paterson, eventually living with her daughter Tracey before moving to Arbor Ridge Nursing Home. There, she was adored by the staff, who treated her like royalty and brought her comfort and companionship in her later years.

Julia was an exceptional cook, best known for her delicious eggplant and “hot chops,” and took great joy in hosting family gatherings and holiday celebrations. Her home was always open.  It was always known as a warm and welcoming place where friends and loved ones gathered often. It truly was the heart of the family.

Above all else, Julia’s greatest passion in life was her family. She was a devoted and loving mother and grandmother. She was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic faith. As a longtime parishioner of St. Leo’s Catholic Church in Elmwood Park, she attended Mass regularly alongside her sisters-in-law.  Her faith sustained her through life’s most difficult moments, including the heartbreaking loss of her beloved children, Frank and Patricia.  Julia was also a twelve-year breast cancer survivor.

Julia’s family fondly remembers the many joyful vacations spent together in Florida and along the Jersey Shore, where they would stay for a month each summer, creating memories that would last a lifetime.  She also enjoyed playing poker with her sisters-in-law.

She shared fifty years of loving and devoted marriage with her husband, John, until his passing in 1999.

Julia will be remembered as a strong, spirited woman.  That’s why she earned her name as “Jewels” the gem of our family! She was sassy, kind, and opinionated, yet always respectful and loving.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  Jewels will be tremendously missed by all who knew her.

Julia is survived by her two daughters, Christina Thomas and her husband Paul of Canton, GA, and Tracey Mondestin of Wanaque, NJ, eleven grandchildren; John Tammaro and his wife Jennifer, Andrew Tammaro, Charlie Tammaro, Frank Tammaro, Elizabeth Tammaro and husband, Jason Tammaro, Daniel Thomas and his fiancée Libby Scofield, Joseph Thomas and his wife Amanda, Brian Mondestin, Gabriella Mondestin, and Justin Mondestin,and four great grandchildren.  She was predeceased by her husband John Andrew Tammaro, her son Frank Tammaro, her daughter Patricia Tammaro, her brother Joseph Bushnauskas, her sister Eleanor Hilarik, and her two sisters-in-law Theresa Vaccaro, and Antoinette Maresca.

Friends may visit with the family from 4-8pm on Sunday, April 19, 2026 at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Rd, Wayne NJ. Funeral services will be held at 12pm on Monday, April 20, 2026 at the funeral home.

Interment will be in Holy Sepulchre Cemetery, 59 Totowa Rd, Totowa, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Julia’s name may be made to the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 840692 Dallas, TX 75284-0692 or American Cancer Society, P.O. Box 6704 Hagerstown, MD 21741.

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Leona R. Markovich, age 89, of Wayne, peacefully passed on Wednesday, April 8, 2026, with her family by her side.

Lee was born on December 10, 1936, on a snowy day in New York City. Her parents Harold and Ruth along with her brother Bruce lived in Elmont, NY. Lee attended St. Agnes Academic High School in Queens and the Katherine Gibbs School. She was a secretary with Mercedes-Benz for many years and continued with other administrative roles throughout her career.

Lee met the love of her life, Joseph Markovich, at a jazz club in 1957. They married the next year, honeymooned in the Poconos, and went on to raise four children: Janet, Michael, Robert, and Karen. They initially lived in Fair Lawn, NJ and later moved to Wayne, NJ.

A devoted wife and mother, Lee was always on the go: attending school activities, participating in carpools, and cheering her children from the sidelines. She enjoyed bowling, playing Mahjong with the ladies and reading mystery books.

Lee was also a passionate cook who loved trying new recipes using her family as taste testers. She earned the title “Gravy Queen” because no one could match her Thanksgiving gravy. Her love of food led her to join a Culinary Club in Cedar Grove, NJ where they met regularly to cook, share recipes, and learn new techniques. She especially liked the themed cuisines as she enjoyed learning about other cultures.

Above all, Lee cherished her family and the simple joys of life. She loved backyard BBQs at her daughters’ homes, hearty Sunday dinners together, cheesecake, anything pork, and a cold beer.

Lee had a great smile and her legacy lives on in the family she loved so deeply.

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Graham John Fill, age 76, of Tallahassee Florida, passed Saturday morning, April 11, 2026, with the comfort of his loving family by his side.

Graham was born and raised in Islington, a suburb of London England. His parents were George William Fill and Rose May (Madge) Fill, affectionately known as "Nana England". He graduated from Roxeth Manor Secondary Modern where he enjoyed playing on the rugby team as a hooker.

Immediately after graduating, Graham went to work as a Junior accountant for George Newnes Publishing at South Hampton Street in London. In addition, he worked for Hamlin House Books as Product Manager then Marketing Manager. When he turned twenty-one, Graham moved to Sydney Australia to work at several companies including Kevin Weldon’s Publishing and Fairfax Publishing and held various positions in music CD, children’s books, and cookbook publishing. He also started his own business - Jigsaw Publishing LLC, where he focused on music CD publishing and children’s books and collaborating with Allied Artists. After moving to the United States, Graham travelled the world selling publishing products at the London, Bologna, Frankfort, USA and Guadalajara Book Fairs as President and CEO of Jigsaw Publishing. When things got slow Graham worked in other positions such as a realtor, working in the leasing department of Lincoln of Wayne and he was an adored greeter at Vander May’s Wayne Colonial Funeral Home. Graham and his wife Barbara moved to Tallahassee, Florida where he ultimately retired.

Graham was a loving, caring, husband and father who was devoted to his family. For those who knew him he had a clever quick wit and a great sense of humor. He could put a smile on anyone’s face. He was very personable and caring to everyone, even strangers. Graham was sharp minded with numbers and always had a quick comeback whenever people were teasing each other. He loved boating and always liked to “stay above the water and not be in it.” He loved boating so much that, over the course of his boating years, he had owned a total of seven different boats. He loved to travel all over the world, making new friends and acquaintances too. When moving to Tallahassee Florida, Graham became the neighborhood “guv’nah.” He easily became good friends with all the restaurant owners and, when home, he loved a good barbecue or seafood boil.

Graham loved to help others so much! He gladly volunteered as a playground monitor at St Anthony's Grammar School in Butler, NJ where he was known as “Guard Guard.” He lent a hand to the stage crew for the Butler High School plays and musicals and he became an Assistant Scoutmaster for Troop 192 at Immaculate Heart of Mary in Wayne, NJ where he was the counselor for the Cooking Merit Badge (he loved tasty food!). For Graham, his involvement with the Boys Scouts held a special place in his heart for the comradery and bonding of all the leaders as they strived to be the best guides to the young boys and young men while having a great time doing it. When moving to Tallahassee he became one the biggest fans of Florida State University’s football team and especially the FSU Marching Band and their war chant  - “Go Noles!”

Graham met his beloved wife Barbara in New Jersey, while both were travelling on business. The relationship blossomed from there. Graham and Barbara were married on June 11th, 1995, at Our Lady of the Holy Angels Catholic Church in Little Falls NJ. They immediately moved to England for a few years. In 1997, they moved back to the States – Bayville, New Jersey. After living in there for a few more years, they started a new family together in Butler, New Jersey with the arrival of two wonderful children - Georgie and Jonathan (and Acie the dog). His two fantastic sons David and his wife Emma, and Michael (both Australia) from a previous marriage (Lesley- Australia) and his daughter Georgie and son Jonathan(USA) are very close and have a positive and special sibling’s bond of love and kinship. All four children have Graham’s fantastic sense of humor and wit. Graham and Barbara enjoyed the blessing of celebrating their 30 years of marriage last year. Graham also held a special place in his heart for his cousin Stephen Say and wife Pamela (England) and late cousin Peter Watson and surviving wife Mandy (England) as well as for the blessing of being a brother-in-law to Barbara’s siblings Louis Lechner and his wife Doreen (Atlanta, Georgia USA) and Cathy Lechner-Abbott and her husband John (Wayne, NJ USA).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the following worthy charities in Graham's memory, would be appreciated: 

St.Judes Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

If you will be mailing a donation, click here for a printable donation form

American Heart Association

P.O. Box 840692

Dallas TX 75284-0692

Barbara J. Boyle, 91, of Wayne and formerly of Paterson, passed away peacefully on Saturday, April 11, 2026.

Barbara was born and raised in Paterson where she spent most of her life until moving to Wayne in recent years.

Following graduation from St. Joseph’s High School in Paterson, she took a job as a switchboard operator for NJ Bell in the 1950’s. That job turned into a full-time career that spanned several decades in which the company went through various corporate takeovers. At the time of her retirement NJ Bell had morphed into Lucent Technologies where Barbara was a trainer and coordinator.

Barbara’s Catholic Christian faith was foundational in forming her to be a person of deep faith in God. Having grown up in St. Joseph’s parish in Paterson, she had been a member of St. Gerard’s Church in Paterson for the past sixty years. Her involvement in the church was extensive having worked in the rectory, serving as a lector, and as a member of the church’s Rosary Society where she was treasurer.

Barbara was known for her impressive sense of fashion. She certainly loved her high-end designer clothing. She also was an avid bowler who competed for years in league play at Fair Lawn Bowling Lanes. In her spare time, she loved to travel. She had been to destinations all over the world, and she especially cherished a trip to Jerusalem to walk where Jesus walked.

Barbara was the aunt of Stephen Boyle and wife Valerie of North Haledon, Laura Gombash and husband Greg of Lincoln Park, and Catherine McGinnis of Wayne. She also leaves behind many great-nieces and nephews and great-great-nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents Thomas and Catherine (Day) Boyle, her brother Robert Boyle (2012) and his wife Doris (2026), and her niece Denise Mann (2022).

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Barbara’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Eva’s Village

393 Main Street

Paterson, NJ 07501

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Albert Newton Martin was born to George Albert Martin and Mildred Sophia Martin in Alexandria, VA on April 11, 1934 and died on April 7, 2026, in West Orange, NJ.

He joins both his first wife Marilyn and his second wife Dorothy in heaven. Albert is survived by 9 of his 11 siblings, his 3 children, Joel, Heidi and Beth, Heidi’s husband Gordon, his 7 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren.

He labored joyfully for 46 years as pastor at Trinity Baptist Church in Montville, NJ. He is beloved as a pastor, teacher, author, father, stepfather, grandfather and friend. He leaves behind the rich legacy of a man who lived for his Savior and loved Him with all his heart, soul, mind and strength.

Joseph “Jerry” Drelich, age 81, of Wayne, passed on Sunday, April 5, 2026, peacefully at home with the comfort of family by his side.

Jerry was born and raised in Clifton, NJ.  He was a graduate of St. Benedict’s Prep School in Newark, NJ. He began his career as an apprentice with an electrical contractor, where he developed the skills and dedication that would define his life’s work. He later spent over a decade working for the Garden State Parkway.

Jerry went on to establish his own business, Jerry’s Electric, where he became known as a true “Mr. Fix-it” with a heart of gold. Whether helping a customer, a neighbor, or a friend, he was always willing to lend a hand and share his talents generously.

Using the skills he honed throughout his career, Jerry built the family home in Wayne with his own hands—a place that has been filled with love and continues to shelter generations of his family to this day.

He was an enthusiastic collector of baseball cards, records, stamps, trains and tools. He was also a devoted fan of Elvis Presley, whose music brought him lasting enjoyment throughout his life.

Above all, Jerry was a loving husband, devoted father, and cherished grandfather. He went above and beyond to create meaningful and lasting memories with his family—moments that will be treasured forever.

He will be remembered for his kindness, generosity, and the deep love he shared with those closest to him. His presence will be profoundly missed, but his spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

Jerry is survived by his wife of fifty-nine years, two weeks short of reaching the milestone of their 60th wedding anniversary, Mary (nee Lochli) Drelich; he was the loving father of Darlene Gerritsen and her husband Bruce of Wayne, and Debbie Galante and her husband Frank of Totowa; he was the cherished grandfather of Christine Gerritsen and her fiancé Andreas Buss and Kaitlyn Gerritsen; he was also the loved brother of Elaine Maksym of Clifton.

Robert Emil Williams passed away peacefully on March 15, 2025. He lived a long and meaningful life defined by service to his country, dedication to his work, and deep love for his family.

Bob attended Eastside High School before proudly serving in the United States Navy. He enlisted in 1947 and was stationed aboard the aircraft carrier USS Hornet. During his service he achieved the rank of Airman and served honorably until his discharge in 1952.

While on leave from the Navy, Bob met the love of his life, Rosemarie. Their relationship quickly grew, and they were married on January 5, 1951, at Our Lady of Lourdes Church. The couple lived in Paterson, New Jersey for a short time before purchasing their home in 1956 in Wayne, New Jersey, where they lived together for the rest of their lives. Bob and Rosemarie shared 73 years of marriage and a lifetime of devotion to one another.

Following his military service, Bob built a remarkable career in manufacturing. He worked for Singer-Kearfott for 40 years, beginning as a machinist. Later in his career, he worked in the glass lab producing products that were used in military equipment. 

Bob loved traveling with his wife, Rose and their friends. He especially cherished spending time traveling with their granddaughter, Cristy. They often took Cristy on trips to Lancaster, PA, where a round of 18 holes of miniature golf was always part of the trip. Bob was also a devoted Boy Scout leader and coached basketball for his son Bob. He especially loved fishing and always looked forward to their annual fishing trips to Canada.

Bob was predeceased by his beloved wife, Rosemarie (nee Wills), who passed away in March 2024.

He is survived by his daughter, Barbara Hamilton and her husband Brian; his son, Robert Williams and his partner Debra Leifer and granddaughter,  Cristy (Hamilton) Testino and her husband Peter; and his cherished great-granddaughters, Ava Rosemarie and Eden Grace.

Bob was also deeply grateful for the devoted care he received from his caregiver of nearly three years, Linda Sarpong, whose kindness, compassion, and dedication provided him with love, comfort, dignity, and companionship in his final years.

Bob will be remembered for his strong work ethic, his service to his country, and the love and devotion he gave to his family. His legacy lives on through the generations who were fortunate to know and love him. ❤️

In lieu of flowers, the Williams family asks for memorial contributions in Robert’s name be made St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital or your favorite pet charity. 

Mr. Wayne Nystrom, 78, passed away on Wednesday, February 4, 2026. Born in 1947, Wayne was a proud son of Charles and Lee Nystrom, the second child of six. He lived a life distinguished by dedication to the education of children, and an enduring love for family and friends.

Wayne was raised in Lincoln Park and Wayne, New Jersey, where he developed the strong character, values, and lifelong friendships that remained central to his life. A proud product of Catholic education, he attended Catholic schools throughout his academic journey, graduating from Holy Cross in Wayne, from St. Peter’s High School in Jersey City, New Jersey where he performed as a trumpet player in the band, before continuing his education at St. Joseph’s College in Philadelphia. While attending St. Joseph’s College, Wayne embraced campus life enthusiastically as a cheerleader, demonstrating the school spirit and energy that would later define much of his professional and personal life.

Wayne devoted his professional career to teaching mathematics at Camden Catholic High School in Camden, New Jersey, from 1969 to 2015, where he became an admired and respected faculty member. Over many years in the classroom, he taught mathematics, including honors-level courses, with passion, structure, and an unwavering commitment to student achievement. Known for holding high academic standards while offering patient guidance and encouragement, Wayne influenced generations of students and remained deeply invested in their growth both academically and personally. His students endearingly called him “Pancho,” a moniker that stuck with him for decades.

Beyond the classroom, Wayne played a vital role in student life and faculty leadership. He served as the high school’s bowling team coach, earning coaching awards in recognition of his dedication and mentorship. A constant and enthusiastic presence at school events, Wayne could often be found supporting students in their extracurricular pursuits, proudly cheering them on in athletic competitions and school activities. He was also an active member of the Camden Catholic High School cheering club as a faculty representative. Among colleagues, Wayne was known as a trusted mentor to younger teachers, a collaborative leader within the faculty, and someone who exemplified the values of honor, faith, and loyalty that were central to the school community.

Wayne had a deep appreciation for travel and culture, finding great joy in exploring the world. He especially treasured his travels throughout Europe, with Germany, England, and Italy holding particular significance for him. His journeys included memorable visits to Bermuda, the Berlin Wall, the Eiffel Tower, London Bridge, and the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Wayne delighted in sharing stories from his travels.

In his leisure time, Wayne enjoyed activities that reflected both his intellectual curiosity and social personality. He was an avid poker player and puzzle enthusiast who loved jigsaw puzzles and crossword puzzles. Wayne was also an avid reader and enthusiastically followed politics and current events. He was a devoted sports fan who passionately supported the Philadelphia Eagles, Philadelphia Phillies, New York Yankees, and the Philadelphia 76ers.

Above all else, Wayne was known for his warm, outgoing nature and his deep devotion to his family. He cherished time spent at family and freind gatherings and maintained close and loving relationships with his siblings, nieces, nephews and close friends. His humor, kindness, and genuine interest in others left a lasting impact on all who knew him.

Wayne will be remembered for his lifelong dedication to education, his enthusiastic school and community spirit and, most importantly, his unwavering commitment to his family, colleagues, students, and friends. Wayne wanted to be remembered as living his life being respectful and helpful to everyone he knew. His legacy lives on in the countless lives he shaped as a teacher, mentor, and beloved family member.

Wayne is survived by his siblings, Donald C. Nystrom and his wife Carol of Hamburg, Dwight Nystrom and his wife Teresa of Pompton Lakes, Claud Nystrom and his wife Ann Marie of Chardon, Ohio, Gail Cicen of Nutley, and Keith Nystrom and his wife Lisa of Magnolia, Texas. He was a beloved uncle to many nephews and nieces, and a cherished lifelong friend to numerous people that were considered extended family to him.

"In lieu of flowers, donations in Wayne's honor may be sent to the “Wayne Nystrom Memorial Scholarship Fund” that supports Camden Catholic High School. https://givebutter.com/Nystrom

Joseph August Iacobucci, 96, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, April 2, 2026, just one month shy of his 97^th birthday.

Born in Brooklyn to Rose and Costanzo Iacobucci, Joe grew up in Cambria Heights, Queens. He graduated from Brooklyn Technical High School and earned a Bachelor of Civil Engineering from City College of New York in1952.

His early career as a structural engineer at North American Aviation in California was interrupted when he was drafted into the U.S. Army in 1953. Stationed in Karlsruhe, Germany, with a construction engineering battalion, Joe took every opportunity to travel throughout Europe before his honorable discharge. Following his service, he used the G.I. Bill to attend night classes at Columbia University, earning a graduate degree in Structural Engineering in 1960.

Joe had a distinguished career as a chief structural engineer and was known for his dedication to mentoring the engineers who worked under him. While he was based in offices at the World Trade Center in Manhattan, Edison, NJ, and Trumbull, CT, his projects took him as far as Paris and Venezuela. His work ranged from the F-86 Sabrejet fuselage to the structural design of oil refineries, fertilizer/metal plants, and LNG facilities.

While in college, Joe met the love of his life, Joan Kedrovic. They married five years later and shared 70 years of marriage. After starting their family in Queens, they moved to Wayne, New Jersey, where they lived for 60 years. Joe’s professional precision extended to the family home and their “great escape” log cabin in the Poconos.

Joe was an active member of the Wayne Elks Lodge and Golden Ages and volunteered at Eva’s Village Community Kitchen in Paterson. He enjoyed bowling, cards, bocce, and dancing. Family holidays were defined by abundant food and friendly competition - most notably dominoes and Pictionary, where Joe was known for his remarkably precise, time-consuming drawings. His family fondly remembers cross-country vacations, watching Star Trek and The Three Stooges, and fishing trips to Canada where he served sandwiches with unbelievably thin layers of peanut butter.

An avid gardener and lifelong learner, Joe followed science, history, and finance closely. He was active throughout his life, from sandlot baseball to tri-county Senior Olympics, and loved watching sports. He was a dedicated Rutgers football and basketball fan - affectionately referring to the teams as “you bums” when they (perpetually) struggled.

Joe’s most repeated advice was: “Remember to be humble.”

Joe is survived by his wife, Joan; his children, Jean (Joe), Joseph (Terry), and James(Jennifer); seven grandchildren, Corinne, Joseph (Gianna), Lauren, Christopher, Jason, Ryan, and Bailey; and his great-granddaughter, Isabella.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Eva’s Village would be greatly appreciated.

Jack Nemeth, 83, of Wayne, passed away on Monday, March 30, 2026.

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He was born and raised on 6th Avenue in the Bunker Hill section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the Class of 1960.

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Jack’s love story with his beloved wife, JoAnn, began when she was just fourteen years old, marking the start of a lifelong partnership rooted in devotion and shared memories. They attended prom together at Central High School, and their first official date followed at the St. Gerard’s Church carnival, where their young romance blossomed. Jack later proposed to JoAnn atop Garrett Mountain.

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They were married on Jack’s 20th birthday, September 29, 1962, at Our Lady of Pompeii Church in Paterson, followed by a reception at The Brownstone and a honeymoon in Miami Beach. Jack and JoAnn had three children together and shared 63 years of marriage filled with love, commitment, and cherished memories.

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Jack built a long and dedicated career with Tel-Instrument Electronics Corp. in Carlstadt. He began working there during his college years and quickly became a valued and dependable member of the organization. Over the decades, he took great pride in his work and in the relationships he formed with colleagues who came to respect his steady presence, strong work ethic, and commitment to excellence. Jack remained loyal to the company throughout his professional life, ultimately retiring in 2012 at the age of 70 after many years of faithful service.

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A man of many talents and passions, Jack’s curiosity and creativity shaped the way he lived his life. He found great joy in both fresh and saltwater fishing and cherished time spent camping outdoors. For many years, he especially looked forward to fishing trips to Canada with his father, uncle, and cousins—experiences that brought both adventure and lasting family memories. For many years he volunteered and served as a trustee of the Wayne P.A.L. 

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Jack also enjoyed collecting and savoring fine French wines, often sharing them during evenings with a close-knit group of fellow enthusiasts. Gifted with remarkable skill and patience, he could fix nearly anything—from furniture to cars—and often crafted or repaired items so seamlessly that his handiwork went unnoticed. His basement workshop reflected this dedication, filled with an extensive tool collection he was famously reluctant to part with, even into his 80s, always keeping items “just in case.”

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Artistic by nature, Jack could draw, paint, and carve with impressive ability. He especially enjoyed helping his children with school projects that called for his creative touch. Even his handwriting reflected his artistry, resembling elegant calligraphy—a small but telling detail of the care he brought to everything he did.

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Above all, Jack cherished time spent with his family: his three children, Jon (Shari), Kim (Michael), and Eric (Tierney); his six granddaughters, Alexis (Adam), Jessica (Albert), Genevieve (William), Lillian, Jackie, and Violet; and his great-grandchild, AJ.

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The family kindly requests that, instead of sending flowers, donations be made to St. Joseph’s Health Foundation in Jack’s name.

IreneMcMurdy, Age 90 of Packanack Lake passed away peacefully at home on Friday,March 27, 2026.  

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Irene was born on January 8, 1936 in Nanticoke, PA to Frances Ratajczak Prymowicz and Zygmund Prymowicz.  She was raised by her grandmother along with her cousins in Wilksboro, PA until her passing when she moved to Bloomfield, NJ to live with her mother and Stepfather, Peter Kmeic and their two sons Tommy and Johnny.

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She married Clyde McMurdy on May 16, 1959 and they were married for 56 years until his death on December 3, 2015.  They were long time residents of the Packanack Lake community where she attended church at Immaculate Heart of Mary.  They raised a son, Clyde, and 3 daughters, Marleen, Susan and Karen, in the lake community.

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She was a gifted seamstress and knitter with numerous awards for her craft and could often be found playing cards with her friends in the lake.  She was actively involved in recreational activities, including playing on a volleyball league with her daughter and bowlingin a league every Friday evening.  

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Professionally, she served as a school crossing guard until her retirement.  Earlier in her career, she worked as a horticulturalist, specializing in floral arrangement. Irene is survived by her Step-brother, Tommy Kmiec and his son Jason, son Clyde, his wife Juliana and his sons, Patrick and Clyde, daughter Marleen, daughter Susan Gambergand her two daughters, Ashley and Madison Lind, Daughter Karen Davidson, her husband Troy and her three children, Katie, Kimberly, and Eric.

Dianne M. Benson, age 63, of Wayne passed without suffering on Friday, December 1, 2023.

Dianne was raised by Ed and Selma Will and graduated from DePaul High School in Wayne.  She continued her education at Trenton State College, leaving to pursue further education as an RN at Passaic Community College where she graduated with an Associate of Applied Science in Nursing.

Dianne followed her calling and pursued an education that enabled her to become a registered nurse.  Caring for others was what she did best and the nursing profession was one in which she knew would bring her happiness.  She started her nursing career at St. Joseph’s Wayne Hospital as a medical surgical floor nurse.  Shortly thereafter, she transferred to the operating room where she stayed for the remainder of her 25-year career.  In the operating room, Dianne assisted surgeons in a wide array of surgeries, both minor and major.  Additionally, on rare occasions, she assisted surgical teams from the Sharing Network, in harvesting organs for donation.

Dianne met her husband, Jon, at St. Joseph Wayne Hospital.  Within 2 months of dating, they both realized that there was a chance that this might turn into a lifetime commitment.  Within a year’s time, Jon romantically proposed at the White Mountain Resort in New Hampshire.  The following year they wed on August 19, 2001 at the Ramsey Golf and Country Club and subsequently honeymooned in their favorite vacation spot, Hilton Head Island, South Carolina.  Dianne and Jon enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of twenty-two years

Dianne always valued her family above everything else.  A loving mother to her son, Patrick, she delighted in seeing him grow through his grammar school years.  While in high school, she was always thrilled to see him perform in athletic competitions.  Later on in life, she took great pride in the man who Patrick became.  She was overjoyed to see him marry the love of his life, Aubrielle.  She was an exceptionally caring daughter to her parents, Ed and Selma.  She helped both greatly in the later years of their lives.  She is survived by her sister, Kathleen Savacool and by a niece and two nephews.

Dianne had a true love for music and was graced with a wonderful singing voice.  She often performed in choirs and sang at church weddings.  Dianne loved the beach and enjoyed spending many, many vacations on Hilton Head Island. Her favorite part of the day was her early morning walks on the beach with Patrick. Most recently, she and Jon, visited Cape May, NJ where they shared what they thought was the best vacation they had ever experienced.  Dianne had a special kinship with the elderly and often spent time keeping company with many residents of Bristal  Assisted Living Facility in Wayne, NJ.

Dianne had a soft spot in her heart for Max, the dog that she and Jon bought for Patrick. She was an avid reader and was one of those people who always got hardcovers, preferring the feeling of an actual book to a virtual one.  She enjoyed reading a wide range of genres but her favorite book was “Where the Crawdads Sing”.  Cooking was more than a chore to Dianne and she particularly loved researching and trying new recipes.  Cacio e pepe was a dish that was her specialty.  

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to NJ Sharing Network and their Foundation online at www.SharingNetworkFoundation.org/Contribute or via mail to NJ Sharing Network, Attn: Foundation, 691 Central Ave. New Providence, NJ 07974

Harry M. Barany, age 69, of Pequannock passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 30, 2023 at home surrounded by his wife and kids. Harry was born in Paterson, NJ, to Harry and Martha Barany, was one of seven children and was raised in Wayne, NJ. He attended Catholic grammar school and graduated from Wayne Valley High School class of 1973. 

For work Harry was a jack of all trades. Some of the places he worked included Politi Auto, OK Battery, Bertolini Engineering Co., Foremost Machine Builders, Arrow Sheds, and Palisades Insurance. He later owned Sunset Valley Inspections where he worked as an insurance inspector. He also enjoyed working as a fire inspector for Pequannock, Kinnelon, and Butler Townships. 

Harry was dedicated to being a volunteer fire fighter for over 40 years in both Wayne Company 1 and Pequannock Company 2. As a fireman he held the positions of company president, engineer, participated in fire prevention, taught the junior firefighter program, and he was a secretary of exempt and local relief for many years. As a fireman Harry was certified in Arson investigation and as a Fire instructor at the Morris County NJ Fire Academy.

Harry was extremely hard working, thoughtful, romantic, devoted to his family, an avid dating tip giver to his son, he was generous and would lend a helping hand to anyone that asked. He had a great sense of humor, a goofy personality and was always successful at making his family laugh. Harry was very outgoing and friendly, the life of the party. He loved to cook and grill and was famous for his crumb cake, sourdough bread, garlic bread, Thanksgiving day pies, and he made the BEST coffee. Some of the things he enjoyed were walks on the beach collecting shells, fishing, golfing, bowling, dancing with Diane, coaching little league baseball, and flying kites. He enjoyed softball both playing in the Pequannock Reformed Church and Pequannock Men’s Softball Leagues. He loved to travel and two of his favorite destinations were Maine and Hilton Head, SC. 

Harry was a member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne for over 30 years and a recent member of Emergence Church in Totowa. At Pequannock Reformed Church he served as an elder, deacon, Classis Representative, Sunday school teacher, and sang in the church choir. Harry’s faith and love for Jesus led him to be a good and faithful servant. 

Harry met his wife, Diane, of 42 years, on a blind date at a mutual friend's house. He was late for their first introduction because he was busy washing dishes, but he made up for that by proposing on the second date, and she said yes! They married on June 21, 1981 at Pequannock Reformed church in Wayne and had the reception at Perona Farms in Andover. Harry and Diane were blessed with 3 children, Dana, Emily and Harrison. Their family continues to grow with the addition of son-in-law Brian, daughter-in-law Juliana and two precious granddaughters Serena and Fiona. 

In memory of Harry, donations can be made to Pequannock Engine Company 2 or the NJ State Fireman’s Association. 

It is with bright sadness, in the hope of the resurrection, that Walter Nemitz died on November 30, 2023, after a brief illness.  Walter brought much joy to many during his 96 years of living, spending more than 50 years in Wayne, New Jersey, affectionately being known by many family members as the “Mayor”.

Walter was born in Jermyn, Pennsylvania on July 19, 1927, the 11th child of George and Catherine Nemitz (Pelacek).  After graduating from Jermyn High School, he served his country in Korea from 1945-1947 as a World War II veteran in the Army Air Force as an air mechanic and crew member on B-17s and PBY search and rescue planes. Walter returned home to begin a career spanning more than 50 years as a widely respected bartender in Midtown Manhattan, while raising his family in Cambria Heights, Queens, NY. He worked in restaurants and hotels including the Faison D’or Restaurant, Rose Restaurant on 52nd Street, St. Regis Hotel on 5th Avenue, ending his career at the landmark hotel, The Warwick Hotel on 54th and 6th Avenue. As an iconic New York City bartender, Walter served everyone with the same level of exceptional service regardless of their station in life, always ready with a smile and compassionate ear.  Along the way, he served many of the Yankee greats at Rose Restaurant, including Whitey Ford, Mickey Mantle, Roger Maris, Yogi Berra and Billy Martin. Other celebrities included Ted Williams, Joe DiMaggio, Truman Capote, Liberace, Mayor John Lindsey, Governor Cuomo, and many other notable sports, entertainment, and political figures.  Highlights of his career as one of the best bartenders in NYC during the “Mad Men” era, included being the personal bartender for Yankee Manager Ralph Houk during the 1964 World Series, head bartender at the newly renovated Randolph Bar at The Warwick, Hearst’s landmark hotel, where he also served Patty Hearst, Randolph’s granddaughter.  It was at The Warwick where Walter ended his career; the hotel provided him with a memorable retirement party attended by his many patrons from over the years.

Walter and Ina Barna married on October 6, 1951, at St. John’s Russian Orthodox Church in Mayfield, Pennsylvania.  They had a 72-year marriage that was as good and loving as any, they were a true team to the very end.  Together they created a loving and caring home where they raised their three children, James, George, and Lorraine.   They taught their children the values of hard work, responsibility, accountability, resilience, faith, and love.  Walter spent his retirement in Wayne, New Jersey.  He enjoyed an abundant life with his family, friends and was always looking for good values at the grocery store! Walter especially looked forward to a mealtime with a good drink and food, finding pleasure in hosting whoever had the good fortune of sharing that time with him and his beloved, Ina. They were exceptional hosts.  Everyone who entered their home was welcomed as royalty.  There was no limit to their gracious hospitality, with Walter preparing wonderful cocktails to enjoy and Ina cooking an abundance of food that would rival any kitchen.  Their home was always welcoming to those who entered, often being the focal point for both immediate and extended family celebrations, most memorable being the many years of bringing in the New Year!  Walter really enjoyed life and truly enjoyed having fun.  Walter’s passions included enjoying good food and drink, travel, airplanes and flying, car racing (especially Indy and NASCAR), New York Giants football, reading newspapers, enjoying country western and polka music and being a lifetime member of the Golden Age Club in Wayne, NJ.   He embraced and loved living his life fully to the very end.

In many ways the word “dedication” captures one of Walter’s basic characteristics as a person.  He was an incredibly dedicated person to his wife, his children, his family, his home, his work, and his church.  Walter always held himself to a high standard whether he was building his own garage or making a cocktail for a good friend.  He was dependable. He did not let people down; he was a true servant to others and always carried himself with the utmost dignity.  Walter was especially dedicated to his Eastern Orthodox faith, serving faithfully for decades in various capacities, including as a parish council member, at Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne, New Jersey.

Walter is survived by his loving wife, Ina (Barna); his son James and his wife, Nancy; his son George and his wife, Janine; his daughter Lorraine Ciarfella (Nemitz), and her husband Robert; his four grandchildren, Julianna Quick (Nemitz) and her husband Chris; Melissa Nemitz, Christopher Nemitz, and Alexia Ciarfella; and a great granddaughter, Nora Quick.

In lieu of flowers, please make your donation to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne NJ.

May His Memory Be Eternal!

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Amy E. Niosi (nee Parisi), age 41, of Wayne.  Amy passed away peacefully on Thursday November 30, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Ridgewood, NJ and was the oldest of three children to James and Susan Parisi.  At the age of four, Amy’s family moved to Howell, NJ where they resided for several years.  When Amy was in sixth grade, her family moved to Maywood.  While living in Maywood, she attended Hackensack High School where she excelled in Academics and was on the high school tennis team.

After graduating from Hackensack High School with the class of 2000, Amy attended Caldwell University where she studied English Literature. Amy graduated from Caldwell University in 2004 earning her Bachelor Degree and certification as a public school teacher.  She found employment quickly at Paterson Catholic High School where she taught English Literature.  Amy remained at Paterson Catholic for about seven years until accepting a position at Passaic Valley High School.  

It was clear to everyone that knew Amy, that she had found her true calling in the vibrant world of high school English literature. With a genuine love for the written word, she embarked on a fulfilling journey as an English literature teacher. Amy's classroom was not just a space for learning; it was a judgement-free haven, an open door, and a safe place for all to vent and receive welcomed life advice.   Amy reveled in the joy of introducing her students to the timeless classics, and the discussions that transcended the pages of textbooks. Amy's legacy as an inspiring educator will echo through the corridors of the high school and shaped the literary journeys of those fortunate enough to be her students.  She was sincerely loved and respected by her students and colleagues.  Throughout the years Amy's former students made a conscience effort to keep in touch with her.  And in turn Amy did the same.

In 2008, while at a fund raiser in Hackensack, Amy met a handsome young man at the event named James Niosi.  The two hit it off great and started to date for the next several years.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on July 8, 2012, Amy and Jim became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Ridgefield Park, NJ and resided there for about five years.  While living there, they welcomed the birth of their first child, their daughter Ariel.  The family moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 2016 where they welcomed their second child, their son John.  The family has called Wayne their home ever since.

While living in Wayne, Amy was a member of the Packanack Mother’s Club.  Amy also loved to read. You could often find her lost in the pages of old, wonderful stories, and classic novels.  She was a joyful woman who simply adored animals and treasured keeping up with popular culture.  But aside from all of Amy’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Amy than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  Amy and Jim cherished eleven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Amy was not only devoted to her family but was also truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  

Amy was a remarkable woman, known for her warm and loving nature that embraced everyone surrounding her.  Her caring and sweet demeanor made her a cherished presence in the lives of those fortunate enough to have known her.  Amy had a unique ability to be upfront and honest, yet always maintained a deep respect for others.  Her sincerity and straightforwardness were never harsh; instead, they were delivered with a gentle touch that left people appreciating her authenticity.  What set Amy apart was her innate talent for connecting with others on a profound level.  Whether through a shared laugh, a comforting gesture, or an empathetic conversation, she had a way of creating bonds that felt like a warm embrace, making her a beloved friend to everyone.

Amy will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, daughter and truly respected and loved educational figure.  She will be sincerely missed by her family, friends, and colleagues.

Amy is survived by her husband Jimmy Niosi and her two children; Ariel and John, all of Wayne, NJ, her mother Susan Parisi of Wayne, two sisters; Amanda Tasca and her husband Steve of Vernon, NJ, and Alyssa Parisi of Wayne, three nieces; Eliana, Serafina, and Marabella, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family.  Amy was predeceased by her father James Parisi in 2018.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Amy’s name may be made to the National Blue Army Shrine of our Lady of Fatima

Jennifer A. Bonsanto, aged 56, of Wayne, passed away on November 28, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of love, warmth, and a life well-lived. Jennifer was a proud graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Fairleigh Dickinson University. Her journey through life was marked by a remarkable career, and a deep commitment to her family. One of Jennifer’s most endearing qualities was her quick-witted remarks and clever observations bringing humor to all who were fortunate enough to share in her company.

Jennifer commenced her professional journey as a skilled beautician, bringing joy and confidence to those who entrusted her with their care. Later, she transitioned into the steamship industry, showcasing her versatility and determination in pursuing her passions.

A devoted wife to Michael Bonsanto, the love of her life for the past 32 years. Jennifer's love extended to her cherished children, Nicholas, 23 and Julianna, 18. Her role as a mother was central to her identity, and the love she bestowed upon her family was immeasurable.

Jennifer is survived by her sisters Suzanne Ricciardelli and Mabel Van Daalen, along with their respective spouses Vincent Ricciardelli and Bill De Mio. She will be dearly missed by her nephew Vincent Ricciardelli and his girlfriend Margot Kolator, niece Jacalyn Van Daalen, and “newest sister” Jo Ann Richardelli. Jennifer's presence and love created a tapestry of family bonds that will endure through the generations.

Apart from her family, Jennifer had a special affection for Ortley Beach, NJ, where she found solace and joy. Her love for this seaside haven was a reflection of her appreciation for life's simple pleasures.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Friends of Wayne Animals, American Diabetes Association, or the American Liver Foundation, organizations that held personal significance for Jennifer.

Her memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing and loving her. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the love she so freely gave during her time on this earth.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Florence R. Mischuk (nee Zbytniewski), age 88, of Wayne NJ and formerly of Flushing, NY.

Florence passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 28, 2023, while receiving the loving care of her family. She was born and raised in Maspeth, NY, and was one of four children to Joseph and Helen Zbytniewski.

In her youth, Florence attended Bishop McDonnell High School in Brooklyn and graduated with the class of 1953. Following graduation, she was employed by American Airlines in the company’s Lost and Found Department and was often amused by the variety of lost items they collected. As an employee of the airline, Florence received the benefit of free airfare, which helped spur her love of travel and adventure.

In 1954, she caught the eye of a handsome American Navy Veteran named Myron Mischuk, while attending a Catholic Youth Organization dance. Florence’s beauty and elegant sense of style, in addition to their shared faith and Polish heritage, encouraged Myron to ask her out on a date to White Castle, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and soon married. On August 6, 1955, they became husband and wife at St. Stanislaus Church in New York City, where her father was the organist. A reception at the Governor Clinton Hotel in Manhattan followed the ceremony.

The newlyweds settled in the Auburndale section of Flushing, NY, where they purchased a two-family home along with Florence’s sister Theresa and brother-in-law George. While living there, they welcomed their only child, their daughter Maria (who they nicknamed Mia), and Florence left her job to become a full-time homemaker. This was truly Florence’s calling and where she genuinely flourished. Florence poured her time, energy, and nurturing spirit into creating a supportive and loving environment for her daughter’s childhood. Once Mia set off to college, Florence, with pride and fulfillment, decided to reenter the workforce. She accepted a job with the Registrar department of St. John’s University in Queens, NY, and held this position until her retirement.  

Florence was very creative and often enjoyed crafting and learning new skills such as piano and crocheting. As part of a family of accomplished musicians, artists, and performers, she developed a deep appreciation for music and art. She spent much of her life enjoying diverse genres of music, from classical to jazz to pop and beyond, each resonating in the walls of her home. Florence loved to dance, and she and Myron continued perfecting their Lindy Hop dance moves at such events as the Kosciusko Foundation Balls and the Cresthaven Yacht Club socials. She was a devotee of Big Band music and Broadway Musicals and enjoyed creating elaborate décor for theme parties she and her family hosted in the rumpus room of their home. She became known for entertaining with style and for her perfect Manhattan cocktails.

Florence and Myron also found great joy in traveling the world. Some of their destinations included Hawaii, Poland, Germany, Bermuda, England, and France, as well as many US tourist locations.

Above all, Florence’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to her than providing for and spending time with her friends and family. She was a truly devoted wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and godmother. Florence and Myron cherished thirty-four years of loving and loyal marriage until Myron’s passing in 1989, after which she took on the role of caregiver for her mother in her advanced age and for her sister when she became ill.  

Florence was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic faith. While residing in Queens, she and her family were parishioners of St. Kevin’s RC Church. In addition, she had been a hostess at the 1964 World’s Fair Vatican Pavilion exhibit, where she was among those who gave tours to bishops, actors, politicians, and the public. After the passing of her sister, she moved to Wayne, NJ, to be near her daughter and son-in-law and help raise her granddaughter, Stephanie. There, Florence became a parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, where she relished the liturgical music of Warren Helms so much, she became a contributor to the funding of the church’s new organ and her name appears on the plaque of donors.  

Florence will be forever remembered as a woman truly dedicated to her family and faith, and as one who always had a smile on her face. She will be sincerely missed by all who knew her, especially her daughter who confirms that she was the most sincere listener and shoulder to lean on.

Florence is survived by her daughter Maria “Mia” Mischuk-O’Brien and her husband William of Wayne, NJ, her brother John Zbytniewski and his wife Natalie of Southold, NY, one granddaughter Stephanie O’Brien, several godchildren, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. Florence was predeceased by her husband Myron Mischuk, her grandson Brendan O’Brien, her sister Theresa Cognard, and her brother Joseph Zbytniewski.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Florence’s name may be made to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church  or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Andrew F. Noll’s Life Story

Andrew F. Noll III, age 92, of Ringwood, New Jersey, passed away peacefully in the early morning of Monday, November 27, 2023. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Lorraine Noll, his sister Gail Silva, his daughters; Loren Noll, Kathy Drago and her husband Mike Drago, and Sharon Weiss, his grandchildren; Danielle Drago, Justin Weiss, Kristen Weiss, and Michael Drago, and his nieces and nephew. He was predeceased by his sister Patricia DeMasso and his son-in-law Scott Weiss.

Andrew was born to Andrew and Margaret Noll in Mt. Vernon, New York on December 25, 1930. He was raised in Dumont, New Jersey with his two sisters, Patricia and Gail. After graduating from Dumont High School, he studied architecture in New York City.

After studying architecture, he transitioned into a successful career in banking. Before retiring, Andrew worked as the Senior Vice President at United Jersey Bank, where he worked for over 30 years. Andrew also served in the United States Army during the European Occupation as a Sergeant in the 1st Infantry Division. During his retirement, he spent his free time volunteering as the Treasurer for the Skyland Association with the New Jersey Botanical Gardens.

Andrew was a man of few words but was never afraid to speak his mind. There was nowhere he loved more than his property in Gilboa, New York. Sitting on over 20 acres of land, the house on the property was built by Andrew with the help of his family and friends. He would take trips hunting, taking care of the property, and just enjoying the land. Over the years, the property became a shared place for his children, and eventually their own families, to enjoy as well. It became an inside joke within his family that whenever Andrew got the call that someone was taking a trip to Gilboa, he would be ready and waiting to leave within five minutes. Andrew was a skilled woodworker and was known for carving intricate statues and decoys. For over 30 years, he would gift Santa figurines to his daughters that he carved and painted by hand. He also loved making furniture for his family, and many of the pieces he’s created are used daily by his loved ones.

Andrew met the love of his life, Lorraine Keeble, while working at People’s Trust Bank in Westwood, New Jersey. They married in the autumn of 1957.  Andrew and Lorraine were blessed with three lovely daughters: Loren, Kathy, and Sharon. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 66 years.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the New Jersey Botanical Gardens would be greatly appreciated.

Aurora Smith, age 99, of Wayne passed Sunday, November 26, 2023, surrounded and comforted by family.

She is survived by her children: son, Cliff Smith of Escondido, CA; daughter, Louise (nee Smith) and her husband Mark Aceino of Butler, NJ and Louise’s three daughters Lindsay, Jackie, & Melanie and their husbands Yaron, Mike, and Kevin respectively, and great-grandchildren Aiden & Becca (Lindsay & Yaron), and Phoebe (Mel & Kev); son, Steve and his wife Irene of Sackets Harbor, NY and their children Steve & Kelly; and son David and his wife Emily of Orlando, FL, and their two children, Justin & Dani and Justin’s wife Emely and two more great-grandchildren, Keanu & Harold (Justin & Emely).

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Children of Fallen Patriots.  Children of Fallen Patriots provides college scholarships and educational counseling to military children who have lost a parent in the line of duty.  Donations can be made online at Donate to CFP Donation Page (fallenpatriots.org) or by mail, with a note indicating the donation is “in honor of Aurora Smith” and addressed to:

Children of Fallen Patriots

1818 Library Street

Suite 500

Reston, VA 20190

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Mom’s “Dash”

Summing up 99 years of such a wonderful life is difficult, but if you’ve got some time and want to get to know our Mom a little better, grab a drink, perhaps some tissues and settle in.

Mom’s world began and ended with Family.  Her parents, Orazio and Louise Zanin (nee Razzolini) – whom she loved dearly, were immigrants to the US from Northern Italy.  Following his Service as an artilleryman in the Italian Army during WWI, the already engaged Orazio, met Louise.  They fell in love, got married and shortly thereafter, immigrated to the US thru Canada, settling in Buffalo, New York.  (We suspect there were multiple reasons for their immigration and assume escaping the wrath of Grandpa’s spurned fiancé was among them… but that remains uncorroborated).  Grandpa came from a large Family, many of whom had already immigrated and settled between Hamilton in Canada and across the border in Buffalo, NY.

In Buffalo, they shared a home with Grandma’s sister and her Family, where they raised four children of their own: twins Armando and Adriana; our Mom, Aurora; and their younger brother, Amerigo whom we affectionately called “Uncle Butch”.

She would fondly share stories of her childhood and life growing up in Buffalo, surrounded by extended Family and close friends.  For us it was always a bit confusing as she often referred to multiple people as “Zia & Zio”.  As kids, we assumed they were their given names and that it odd she knew so many people with the same names.  Only later did we learn “Zia & Zio” were just Italian for Aunt & Uncle. (We were kids, so stop your judging!)

Mom adored her parents (that’s a call back to the first paragraph).  Whenever she spoke of them, she beamed.  To her, Grandpa, was a “renaissance man,” willing and able to do or try anything and Grandma the epitome of what a wife and Mom should be – caring, nurturing and always there for her family (this is called foreshadowing).

As a young girl, growing up during prohibition and the depression, she and her family did whatever was necessary to get by.  Grandpa held multiple jobs, doing anything and everything to support them.  At one point he distilled his own liquor and used their family car to transport and deliver it to local speakeasies. On one such journey, my Mom rode along with the barrels hidden under a blanket on which she was seated.  Like many we suppose, he ultimately got caught and had to spend a little time “in college” … or at least that was the euphemism Mom used when she told us the story.    

Like her Dad, Mom saw herself as “fearless,” willing to try anything.  She loved to play sports and, despite her 5’ 4” frame, basketball was her favorite.  Nevertheless, she grew up in a time where there were things that ladies just didn’t do.  While she desperately wanted to get and learn how to ride a bike, Grandpa thought it neither appropriate, nor “ladylike” and chose not to allow it.  Despite her disappointment, Mom abided.

A recurring theme in Mom’s childhood stories was that she “never got in trouble”.  Yet, recognizing the difficulty the four of us had (have?) avoiding it, we often wondered whether she was being truthful or just thought that if she said it enough, maybe it would take root in us…it did not.  As her siblings adored her, we’ve never managed to gather any substantive proof to the contrary.

Though she never really spoke much about her scholastic abilities, it was evident she was more than just a pretty face.  She was a voracious reader and could carry on conversations about most topics.  While she wanted to go to college, the attack on Pearl Harbor changed her plans as she instead entered the workforce.  She took a job with National Gypsum in Buffalo, which manufactured building supplies and other materials to support the war effort.  She very much enjoyed the opportunity to “spread her wings,” earning a paycheck to help at home, and connecting with co-workers and others outside home and school.

As a young, working woman, she continued living at home.  Although she met and dated several eligible men, a few of whom proposed to her, none quite caught her fancy enough for her to commit.  In 1957, while on a vacation in the Poconos at the Chestnut Lodge, she met our Dad who had recently left the Army following his service in the war.  Describing how they met, Dad made it clear that he was immediately smitten, proposing to her on their first date!  While she initially deferred, Dad persisted and subsequently won her over.  They were married on November 8th, 1958, in Buffalo, New York and moved to Hoboken, NJ to start their life together.

For the next 6 years, they were quite “busy”.  Mom gave birth to Cliff in August, 1959; Louise in January, 1961, Steve in March, 1962; and Dave in April, 1964.  After Cliff was born, Mom & Dad moved to the North Jersey town of Saddle Brook, buying a small “Cape Cod” home within walking distance of our grammar school.  That was where we shared our formative years under our parent’s oversight and, at least for us, remains “home”.  There, they provided us with all we needed, each working hard to give us a wonderful childhood.

When we were very young, Mom stayed at home, busy raising the four of us and taking exceptional care of our home.  While we were in no way a family “of means,” it never felt that way.  Mom stretched every dollar Dad earned to assure we were always fed, clothed, and cared for!  She used her cooking skills to make great food (unless it was lentil soup or Liver & onions which our Dad loved… and we did not!), sewing skills to make & repair clothes, curtains, slip covers and just about anything else made of fabric, and about a bazillion bottles of mercurochrome and St Joseph’s aspirin to fix us!

When Dad got laid off in the early 70’s, Mom went back to work, getting a secretarial job at Grand Union, a grocery chain with its headquarters in Elmwood Park, NJ.  She worked full time, Monday thru Friday while Dad worked odd jobs, refusing to take unemployment.  Between them, they assured we had no wants, parenting us through the 70’s and early 80’s (think crazy long hair… yes, that’s what we said) before we fledged ourselves.

When not working, Mom was a member of the Saddle Brook Women’s Club & a local theater group.  She thoroughly enjoyed socializing and entertaining, always conscious to carry and represent herself and our Family well outside the house.  She and the other neighborhood Moms would take turns hosting “Coffee Klatches,” sharing the latest about their Families and all that was going on in their lives.  She would often invite “company” to our house – whether relatives, neighbors, or friends… again.  Every visit was punctuated with good conversation, laughter, and some sort of Entenmann’s cake.    

She loved to shop though, given our limited income, “shopping ≠ buying”.  And while shopping, particularly when we were young, she’d always bring (drag?) the four of us with her.  While Louise quickly learned to love it, the three boys quickly learned to dread these “outings”.  (Editorial comment: it always seemed as though we just wandered around aimlessly for hours, in and out of every store, looking at everything and coming away with nothing… still a mystery to at least three of us!)

While Dad was clearly more imposing, Mom was no shrinking violet when it came to meting out punishment.  Again, Louise was rarely in her crosshairs, the boys seemed to attract it.  Her “go to” implement was the “wooden spoon,” (yes, that really was a thing).  While she had a very long fuse, as she had much more patience than most – there was indeed a limit.  She broke many a spoon raising us and, despite how it may sound – it was necessary and helped shape us into who we are today.  That said, there were indeed times when even the spoon wasn’t enough, and she would throw her trump card, “what until your father gets home!”  Those days / nights never ended well.  (Again, at least for the boys).

While she was the most caring and adoring parent, grandparent, and great grandparent in the world, she was oddly never an “animal person” nor a fan of “the great outdoors” – the exact opposite of Dad and the four of us (at least with the animals… Louise tended to side with Mom on the outdoors stuff).  Yet, she chose to “take one for the team,” letting us have pets and occasionally even agreeing to go camping – though she was clearly a fish out of water on those occasions!

While she drove (and was proud of it), she hated driving on highways, more often than not, choosing “to take the back roads”.  Doing so would invariably turn a :20-minute drive into an hour.  Now, she was not keen on directions which, upon reflection, is quite at odds with “taking the back way”.  So, what should have taken an hour, was now a solid hour and a half.  (But hey, at least we had AM Radio!)

She was incredibly proud of her Italian heritage, and, to our benefit, it reflected in her cooking.  Her lasagna was and remains the best we’ve ever had – and we’ll fight you if you think differently.  She would make sauce every few weeks, cooking it all day in a huge pot on the stove.  The smell of her sauce wafting through the house would invariably draw us to the kitchen where we’d wait anxiously for it to finish.  We’d be standing by with Italian bread, occasionally dipping bread into the pot when she wasn’t looking.  Then, after she poured it into containers to freeze, we’d attack the pot like hungry vultures!

Perry Como was far and away her favorite singer – she loved dancing with my Dad to his music.  It’s that last bit, that is perhaps what we will remember most.  The enduring love affair between them to which we were treated with front row seats.  While, like every couple, they had their moments – the time they spent together dancing (and it was much more often than you may think), was pure romance.  The way they looked at each other, held each other, and danced made it clear – there was nowhere else in the world they would rather be in those moments.  And that is how we will remember them.  Together, dancing in heaven, forever.

Bonus material - a few more personal stories:

Cliff: My memories of mom are many with some more prominent than others. I too was attracted to the kitchen and learned MANY different recipes from Mom and her family, particularly the Italian ones that to this day have stayed with me. While keeping true to the original, I blended them with my own style, all firmly based upon mom’s original family taught, tried and true go-to Italian dishes.  The many memories of what was for dinner or even more so, what’s in the pot, were paramount as growing children and young adults. Mom’s work with Grand Union provided our growing family with the added benefit and unforeseen bounty of various large roasts and meats provided to her because of her job as the assistant to the National Meat Buyer at Grand Union. Growing up we were fortunate to have so much protein, great for boys in sports, that we would literally take bags of meats and deliver them to our neighbors who also had young growing families…take this bag to Mrs. Linkletter, take this bag to Mrs. Puzio, and take this bag to Mrs. Evans, all of whom loved her special perk.  Both within our family and our neighbors’, everyone’s kids participated in many different sports, which required a great deal of calories to support. Her generosity towards them helped forge healthy kids and strong bodies all around our immediate neighborhood, none of which was fully recognized until years later.

Mom also had a particular fondness for our childhood pet cats and music. Cats, known for kindness and softness, provided mom with moments of sheer terror as they would intertwine between her legs while she cooked over the stove or peeled vegetables in the sink. As we watched late afternoon episodes of Batman, hoping for a CAT-woman villain, along with other shows of that era, Mom would suddenly let out a blood curdling scream from the kitchen as if she burned or cut herself badly. Alas, it was just the cat merely showing love to be quickly followed by, “get this “darn” cat out of here…I hate it!”

Musically, both mom and dad were from a different era where melody and crooners were the music of their day. I on the other hand was into anything but. From the soul pounding blues stylings of Led Zepplin to the Rolling Stones, to the R&B Funk bands of the day, the only music she could stand was Steely Dan, a staple of my listening library. All of these were played fiercely loud by a Soundsystem that literally dimmed the house lights due to the power they consumed and the volumes at which they were played. Ahh large stereo systems…nothing like it!  A particular song that became one of moms’ favorites was Eric Clapton’s, Lay Down Sally, that mom just adored. Oh, this is a nice song she would say, and come time for the chorus, “Lay Down Sally” became “Way Down South”, to which we would look at her proudly singing along while literally changing the lyrics completely unaware of the true words. Hey, Mom was singing, so why ruin things…sing on Mom!

Losing her, as one could imagine, is not easy, nor should it be. We were a loving family who cared greatly for each other and Mom’s support in whatever we were doing was always proud, loud, and evident.  Rest easy Mom, you were one of the best to ever own the title and wear the crown.  

Wease:  As Mom's only daughter I was blessed to have such an extraordinary woman as my Mom and roll model.  Mom was strong, kind, fun, creative and loving.  Her love and pride in her family was ever at the forefront.  She delighted in her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  No matter what kind of day she might be having her eyes would shine brightly when she was around them.  My girls especially had the privilege to spend a lot of time with her and benefit from her life lessons of what family means and so much more.   Mom was a lady to her core.  She always made an effort to primp and present herself as a lady should.  Some might think that old-fashioned but for Mom it was simply who she was, and she was admired by all for that quality.   Mom was very creative and would tell us that her childhood dream was to become an actress.  Although that particular dream wasn't fulfilled, she joined a local drama club in Saddle Brook and enjoyed it immensely.  Mom was also an incredible self-taught seamstress.   She made me the most beautiful dresses growing up and even sewed her own wedding dress.  She would tell us the story of how her Dad helped her cut out the pattern on their huge dining room table.  Of course, it was stunning, and Mom looked incredible.  How lucky and blessed I was to have such a special lady as my role model.   I will love you forever Mom.

Steve: Once, when I was 5, my Mom took an overnight trip with her brothers to visit my Aunt Adriana.  This was quite out of the ordinary for my Mom, as I don’t ever recall a time before or since that she traveled anywhere without my Dad or us, overnight.  Nevertheless, she’d arranged for a neighborhood girl to babysit the four of us while my Dad was at work.  That first day, Cliff was teaching me to ride my bike without training wheels in the backyard.  Together we decided I was ready for a road test, so we moved to the front yard, and he helped launch me down the driveway and into the street in front of the house.  It was awesome and I headed down the street on my own.  After briefly stopping to see if my friend was home (he wasn’t), I doubled back towards my house without first checking my 6.  Lying on the road, under the front end of a car, I realized I may have gotten ahead of myself.  While I don’t know the exact chain of events surrounding the notification of my Mom – I just know she got back home as quickly as she could and made my Dad take her to the hospital.  Seeing her in my room after the day’s event was perhaps the most welcome and reassuring sight of my life.  From that point on, within what the hospital would permit and afterwards through my recovery -- my Mom (and Dad) was there to care for me, fight for me and nurse me through about a 6 month recovery.   She’s always been there for my siblings and I – and I know somehow, she will be with us always.  Love you forever, Mom.  Get the sauce started, we’ll bring the Italian bread.

Dave:  Fighting back the tears as I write this and thinking about all the memories I have of my Mom is not easy.  Everything my brothers and sisters have shared about Mom sums up how much we loved her.  I wish I had called more or visited more but it's too late.  I'm so sorry mom, I will always remember you and love you and think of you forever.  Now go dance with Dad, ya hear?!!

Ion Petrescu, age 91 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 25, 2023, exactly sixteen years to the very day that his beloved wife Stefana left this world. Now they are reunited.

Ion was born and raised in Curtea de Arges, Romania.

After high school Ion pursued his dream of serving in the Romanian Army. He attended the Romanian Military Academy with the goal of qualifying to serve in the tank division. Technically, at six feet two inches tall, Ion was too big to fit properly, according to Army standards, in a tank, but he insisted that this was how he wanted to serve. The Army ultimately accommodated his wishes and Ion went on to attain the rank of Colonel and serve a thirty-plus year career as a tank commander and, for the last five years before retirement in 1986, as a professor in the Technical Military Academy of Bucharest teaching young soldiers tank combat maneuvers in even smaller tanks.

Ion met the love of his life, his beautiful wife Stefana, in his hometown of Curtea de Arges. They married on March 8, 1956 in the Curtea de Arges Monastery (Mănăstirea Curtea de Argeș). They were blessed with a storybook marriage including the blessing of their daughter Delia.

After Delia moved to the United States in 1986, Ion and Stefana began wintering with her and her husband Liviu in 1992. In 2007, they permanently relocated to the USA.

The greatest benefit of coming to America was the precious time that Ion was able to spend time with his daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren. He loved playing with his grandchildren and they always enjoyed hearing his interesting stories. But alas, kids eventually grow up and move out. When that time came, he turned his attention to the care of the family pooches, Fabio and Chance. He even tried to teach those dogs military time so that they knew exactly when to eat – 1800 hours. In between, Ion worked on writing his memoirs. He never finished but he left his family with lots of clearly written notes to share the tales of his rich life.

Ion was a quiet, soft-spoken man who lived life by the book and on a military schedule. His family was his greatest love and finest treasure.

Ion is survived by his loving daughter Dr. Delia Rappaport and husband Liviu, his two grandchildren: Sarah Rappaport and Jacob Rappaport and wife Kristen; his precious two-month old great-grandson Austin; and his sister Milita in Romania. He was predeceased by his older sister.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ion’s name are asked to consider:  

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society

P.O. Box 22324

New York, NY 10087

To donate by phone: 888-557-7177

Please indicate that your gift is in loving memory of Ion Petrescu

Thomas James Williams, Jr. age 52, of Wayne, passed quietly and unexpectedly on Friday, November 24, 2023. Tom was born in Pequannock to Tom and Corinne Williams, he was raised in Wayne and graduated from DePaul High School.

An incredibly kind-hearted, genuine and humorous gentleman, Tom met the woman who became his wife, Dana Kuehm, at Farms View in Wayne. Tom and Dana married at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson on December 6, 1998, and honeymooned in Las Vegas then Disney World and then on a cruise. Their marriage was just shy of 25 years and blessed them with two sons: Alec and Adam.

For all the characteristics and personality that Tom had, he is best known as a selfless, thoughtful, caring, devoted and fantastic father to his sons. Tom lived what he believed and gave those same traits to his children. Tom’s love of nature and the outdoors was also a way of life.  Tom was most at peace in the tranquility of hunting and fishing with his sons.  He proudly wore the title of an Eagle Scout, a testament to his dedication, leadership, and unwavering commitment to serving others. Tom coached baseball and hockey for both boys.

Tom was always humble and kind.  His selflessness was evident everyday, one of his father in laws favorite memories was when he went to visit him at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital. A normally cold place, Tom’s mother-in-law was wearing a sweat shirt, only to find out there was a malfunction with the hospital’s heat and the room was unbearably hot.  Tom took the shirt off his back so that she could wear it. Of course, he had some explaining to do when he got home from the hospital shirtless.

Tom was the loving husband of Dana Kuehm-Williams; loving father of Alec and Adam Williams; son of Tom and Corrine Williams; 2 brothers; nephews & nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Daynas Pink Wishes, daynaspinkwishes.org, would be greatly appreciated.

Lilia C Andres, age 92, of Wayne NJ passed away on November 20th, 2023.

Lilia was born to Manuel P. Dopazo and Carmen Sabas in Entre Rios,  Argentina.  Her mother passed away from Pneumonia when she was just 10 months old.  Her father then married Sara Petrona Izaguirrez.  Her sister Sara Ines Dopazo was born of this marriage.

Lilia grew up in Entre Rios and went to school in Concordia. She went on to become a teacher.  She moved to Cordoba where she met Carlos Andres.  They married and had two daughters, Silvia and Maria Alejandra. In 1963 they emigrated to the United States.  In the US “Lila” worked as a teacher and graduated from St. John’s University with a Master’s Degree in Spanish Literature.   Later on, she worked with Carlos in their jewelry store “Andres Jewelers” in Paterson and then moved the store to Pompton Plains.  Silvia married Mario H Gonzalez and Alejandra married Robert Wuss. Silvia and Mario gave them 4 grandchildren: Mario, Gabriela, Gaston and Alejandro.  Maria and Robert had 3 children, Robert, Gregory and Matthew.  Maria died of cancer and Robert married Denise and had 2 daughters, Danielle and Nicole.  “Lila” had 4 great grandchildren August, Jasper, Carla and Nuno.

“Lila” enjoyed reading, gardening and dancing.  She loved playing with her grandchildren.  She was a very elegant, fashionable woman. She loved to entertain.  Her table settings had to be perfect and Mario and Robert enjoyed teasing her by removing food from her presentations before dinner was started! They also loved annoying her and even after she started losing her memory she would respond with a quick comeback. That playfulness remained well into her last days.  She was feisty but just as loving.  She will be missed by all that knew her.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Gaetana M. Acquaviva, age 92, entered into our God’s glorious kingdom on Saturday, November 18, 2023.

Gae was born on July 27, 1931 in Paterson, NJ. She was the second child of Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio(a) of Italy.  Gae celebrated her youth in Paterson, often discussing the long walks she would take to swimming pools, hikes in the woods, visits with aunts and uncles, big band concerts, church-centered festivals, and dances at the local Polish halls. She enjoyed singing in the acapella choir as a young girl and attending and participating in local opera productions.

Gae and Vince Acquaviva were married in 1954 and were active members of the Blessed Sacrament Roman Catholic parish community in Paterson, NJ. There they volunteered whenever needed, especially during the annual Parish Festival. Great memories of rides and stands, exceptional sausage and peppers sandwiches, and fresh zeppole were made.  Gae and Vince raised their two children, Camille and Vincent in the Riverside section where lifelong friendships and a love of our Italian-American heritage were firmly established.  Strong faith and values, devotion to family, country, and community, loyalty, tolerance, service, generosity, and compassion were ingrained daily.

Gae had compassion for and believed in a life of service to those with health challenges and to those in need financially or emotionally.  Her door was always open to joyfully serve and feed anyone who entered.

Gae worked in many capacities since she was 18 years old. She entered the work force as a medical secretary for local doctors and later worked as secretary at Kearfott Corporation before her children were born.  Gae had a strong work ethic and believed in contributing to her family’s income as her mother did before her.  She later worked in the main branch of the Paterson Public Library for several years, where she truly enjoyed her service in the music department.  There she arranged regular musical events and shared her love of music, theatre, and opera with her family.  She and Vince brought her children to their first Broadway musical where they had backstage passes and met with the star of the show!  Gae was also a beloved piano teacher after work and sometimes on Saturday mornings.  She loved the music vocation and the opportunity to further contribute to her family’s income. Again seeking to further benefit her family, Gae began college in her forties, and graduated from William Paterson University as a Teacher- Librarian in 1978, on the same day as her daughter’s college graduation. Gae then began teaching and completed her teaching career in 1997.  She was a trail blazer. Gae did it all – home, family, wife, career, and lots of socializing!

Gae loved to spend time with her husband, children, grandchildren, her parents, her brother Carmine, her brothers and sisters-in-law, and she cherished her nieces and nephews.  She remained close with her aunts and uncles, cousins, and their now grown children and was loved by all.

Gae always felt blessed, no matter life’s circumstances.  She believed that you must take the good with the bad and always be thankful.

Gae was a loving wife, mother, daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin, and friend.  She was a prayerful and faithful woman throughout her life, with a special devotion to the Blessed Mother.  An active member of the Legion of Mary, regular prayers, rosary recitation, visits to the sick, and works of charity were offered as part of her devotion to Our Lady.

Known for her delightful personality always having a smile on her face, Gae brought sunshine and hope to others on a regular basis.  She nourished souls.  Gae will be deeply and forever missed by her dear daughter Camille and her husband, Michael of Hazle Township, PA; her beloved son, Vincent Joseph and his wife Patrizia of Montville, NJ; and her adored grandchildren Kevin M. Reilly and his wife, Kelsey, Danielle M. Reilly, Vincent G. Acquaviva, Gianna Pierce and her husband, Brendan.  There will be an emptiness left in the hearts of her nieces and nephews Vincent J. Sabio and Robert Chavez, Joseph and RoseMary Saccoman, Joseph and Nancy Acquaviva,  Alfred and AnnMarie Acquaviva, her grand nieces and nephews, cousins, her dear friends at Siena Village and beyond, and her personal angel/caretaker, Marcelle.  Gae will join her deceased husband, Vincent; her grandson, Vincent George; her parents, Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio; her brother, Carmine Sabio; her sisters and brothers-in law, Mary, Madeline, Victor, Alfred, and Josephine; her beloved nieces, JoAnn and Anna; her grand nephews, Matthew and John, and more family members and dear friends in God’s heavenly kingdom.

Gaetana stands as an inspiration to us all, representing faith, family, sacrifice, mercy, tenacity, personality, and the celebration of what is good.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorials Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959

On November 17, 2023, Jill Alison Rapp (née Kempe), 69, passed away peacefully with the comfort of her family by her side. Jill is survived by her beloved husband James, of Wayne, NJ, and their three children; Alicia and Joseph of Wayne, NJ; Talia, of Queens, NY; and sister, Ginger (Kempe) Maione, of Madison, NJ.

Born in Glen Ridge, NJ, on March 19, 1954, to parents Hugh Arthur Kempe and Thelma Fox, Jill briefly lived in Nutley before the family moved to Wayne, to the house she lived in for the rest of her life. Through Sunday visits to Verps Bakery, or their yearly trips to the Cape, her tight-knit family was always there for each other. Jill attended Wayne Hills High School, and in lieu of traditional college, followed her artistic passion for performing music.

While in elementary school, Jill taught herself guitar which was the start of many years of playing, songwriting and singing. At fifteen years old, she and her sister attended Woodstock ’69, storming into the festival on the hood of a car. This love of music led to her fronting several bands—Eli Stone, The Crayons, and Burgundy Mist, to name a few—before performing solo as Jill Alison at any and every venue she could.

A lifelong lover of horses, Jill fondly recalled early riding lessons on her favorite horse, Comet, or dreams of owning her own Black Friesian Stallion to ride at a whim.

Jill’s work history was as varied as her interests. From the local video store, the assembly line at the cookie factory, and as a telemarketer, it wasn’t until later in life she found her calling in real estate. As an agent for Nico Reality, RE/MAX, and finally finding a home at Realty Executives, she exuded a no-nonsense confidence which garnered both her customers’ and co-workers’ respect.

She would often be seen at the breakfast table or at the school pick-up line reading her current literary obsession, or doing the New York Times Crossword puzzle in bright blue pen—never trifling with pencils. Every conversation someone found themselves in with her—often around the kitchen table over a vodka & Peach Snapple or martini—held a thoughtful, spirited (and often swear-filled) conversation. She made you feel smarter by association and was quick to have you laughing with her brutally-honest, yet always-empathetic point of view. In a world of people walking on eggshells, Jill stepped firmly in the direction she wanted to go.

Everyone who met Jill loved her, but none more than her husband, James. They met in 1977 on a softball field, and Jill knew a home run when she saw it. It wasn’t long before she was at his mother’s house for Sunday dinners with the rest of the family—having a bourbon with his father, Joseph, and sister, Felicia. She met Felicia’s son, Robbie when he was drooling into a can of Charles Chips and loved him ever since. She found easy conversations with Bob, and laughing fits with Margaret, James’ brother and other sister. Matriarch, Anita, took Jill under her cooking wing, even complimenting Jill’s sauce many years later—the highest praise. Everyone who saw Jim and Jill knew they were a match, especially Jill’s mother. Their families merged easily, leading the way to form their own.

Jill’s three lights of her life were her children: Alicia, Talia, and Joseph. A devoted mother, she sacrificed anything and everything to give her children every happiness and comfort. But Jill’s personal brand of motherhood didn’t stop with her own children; she looked out for all her many nieces and nephews. Always good for a sarcastic comeback, sharp joke, or sage advice, Jill would earn the mantle of ‘favorite,’ by many.

Jane passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 16, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Jane was born in Utica, NY and was one of six children to Harry and Mary Saccal.  The family resided in Utica, NY until Jane was about 5 years old, they then moved to Paterson, NJ.  While growing up in Paterson, Jane attended Our Lady of Lourdes and  St Bonaventure High School and graduated with the class of 1956.

As a young girl, Jane met a boy her same age, named Thomas DePasquale.  Jane and Thomas, who were intricately connected by the bonds of proximity and time, shared a unique journey that began in the neighborhood where they both grew up. As children, they played and attended school together.  As the years passed, so did the seasons of life, and the friendship that blossomed across the street evolved into a profound love. On the memorable day of September 14, 1957, Jane and Thomas exchanged vows, uniting their lives in matrimony at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Paterson, NJ.

The newlyweds settled in Paterson and while residing there, they welcomed the births of their first two sons, Thomas, and Gary.  The family then moved to West Paterson where they welcomed their next two sons, Steven, and David.  They raised their children in West Paterson, They moved to Totowa in 1974 and after they had grown, the couple moved to Boonton, NJ in 2004, with their son David to help with child care for his two children Mia and Nicky. David and his wife Ann were respected physicians,  Jane and Thomas wanted to ensure that their grandchildren were cared for by family , and help David and Ann pursue professional careers.

Jane, a determined and skilled woman, embarked on her professional journey right after high school, joining the dynamic world of Bell Telephone in the Accounting Department. Her few years of dedicated service to the telecommunications giant allowed her to hone her communication and organizational skills. However, life took an enchanting turn when she found love and had her first child. Faced with the choice between career and family, Jane made the heartfelt decision to embrace the role of a full-time mother. Transitioning from the bustling office environment to the warmth of her home, she poured her energy into creating a nurturing and loving environment for her family.  Jane eventually went back to work after her children had grown, helping as a receptionist at the family owned “DePasquale Salon” in Morris Plains, NJ.

Jane was a vibrant and adventurous woman whose zest for life was reflected in her diverse interests. Her passion for traveling took her frequently to destinations in Europe, where she immersed herself in the rich tapestry of cultures, savoring the unique experiences each destination offered.  Jane was an avid tennis player and embraced the sport's competitive and social aspects. Complementing her active lifestyle, she found solace in the gym, and maintained a healthy balance between strength and agility. Jane also discovered a tranquil sanctuary on the Yoga mat, harmonizing her mind and body in a practice to achieve an overall well-being.

Aside from all her interests, talents, and hobbies, Jane’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  Jane was not only devoted to her family, but she was also devoted to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of St Bonaventure Church in Paterson and later St James of the Marches RC Church in Totowa.

Jane was a “larger than life” person who was outspoken and “told it like it is.” Those who knew Jane always knew where they stood with her.  Jane will be forever remembered as a truly devoted mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She was a sincerely special person who touched the lives of all those around her.  Jane will be sorely missed by her family and friends.

Jane is survived by her three sons; Thomas DePasquale and his wife Linda of Wayne, NJ, Gary DePasquale and his wife Elisa of Naples, FL, Steve DePasquale and his wife Sue of Lafayette, NJ,and her daughter inlaw Ann of Booton, two brothers Joseph Saccal, and George Saccal, one sister Shirley DeMeyere, nine grandchildren; Thomas DePasquale IV, Dawn Marie DePasquale, Michael DePasquale, Jordan Jane DePasquale, Steven James DePasquale, Robert Thomas DePasquale, Mia Evelyn DePasquale, Nicholas Daniel DePasquale, and Bianca Louise DePasquale, and seven great grandchildren; Julien David DePasquale, Wyatt Jack DePasquale, Daniel Matthew DePasquale, Michael James DePasquale, Harlie Jane DePasquale, and Levi David DePasquale.  Jane was predeceased by her son Dr David DePasquale in 2009, and by her two sisters; Rosie Sano, and Margie Previte.

In lieu of flowers , donations in Jane's name may be made to Alzheimer's Association.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nathalie Lindsay Skorton (nee Heaphy), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Nathalie passed away peacefully on Tuesday November 14, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Nathalie was born and raised in Lyndhurst, NJ and was the older of two daughters to Bernard and Gloria Heaphy.  As a young girl, Nathalie and her sister, Evelyn, spent their summers at Lindy Lake in West Milford and attended Lyndhurst High School where she excelled in academics.  She was also a gifted athlete playing tennis and swimming while a student in high school.  After graduating with the class of 1948, Nathalie attended Rutgers University and earned her insurance broker’s license and went to work in the insurance field with Cullen, Bogart & Parker in Newark where she learned the intricacies of the industry.

Nathalie seized an opportunity to join the Steel Insurance Agency in Wayne in 1966 where she grew her business as a Broker and office manager. In 1983 she embarked on her dream to own her own business opening the Natalie Lindsay Skorton Insurance Agency in Wayne. With a passion for helping others and a keen understanding of the industry, Nathalie built her business from the ground up and became an embodiment in the spirit of the “Greatest Generation” where hard work and perseverance bring just rewards. Her dedication, integrity, and commitment to personalized service set her agency apart in a competitive industry. Her son James, who had grown up witnessing his mother's entrepreneurial spirit, joined her at the agency and stepped into the leadership role in later years.  After retiring at age eighty-nine in 2020, Nathalie's legacy lives on through James, ensuring the ongoing success of the insurance agency she had lovingly built.

Nathalie moved to the town of Wayne in 1966 where she raised her two sons, Robert and James.  After moving to Wayne, she called it her home for the rest of her life.  While on a bus trip to Lake Placid sponsored by Wayne Township, Nathalie met a charming man named Donald Skorton.  On the return trip home, there was a terrible snowstorm that brought traffic to a standstill.  The two talked for several hours and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on November 28, 1968 they became husband and wife at the First Reformed Church in Wayne. Nathalie and Donald cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Donald’s passing in 2018

Nathalie was a captivating individual with an insatiable passion for politics and an innate gift for conversation and debate. She served as Secretary of the Republican Party in Wayne in the late 1960’s. Nathalie was the consummate “news junkie” and when important national or global stories would unfold she would invariably absorb different sides of a story gaining the perspective from varied news outlets before formulating her own point of view. In her later years she became a champion for woman’s rights and the Me Too Movement. To open a discussion with her about current events it was best to have one’s facts in order because her conversations were more than exchanges of information; they were dynamic, thought-provoking dialogues that engaged and challenged those around her.

Above all Nathalie’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  She was an avid NY Mets fan and never missed a Notre Dame football game. Nothing in the world meant more to Nathalie than providing for and spending time with her children and her grandchildren.  Nathalie was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people.  She was truly loved by her family and friends as well as her colleagues and peers.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Nathalie is survived by her sons Robert Lindsay and his wife Bernadette of Denville, NJ, and James Lindsay of Wayne, NJ, four grandchildren: Ryan Lindsay and his wife Jess of Oakland, CA, Katelyn Cronin and her husband Nick of Wynnewood, PA, Jessica Lindsay of Denville. NJ, and Bobby Lindsay of Cherry Hill, NJ, four great granddaughters; Willa, RobIn, Norah, and Margot. She was predeceased by her husband Donald Skorton in 2018, and by her sister (and best friend) Evelyn Eberling.

Raymond Rapp, age 84, of Wayne passed Tuesday, November 14, 2023, with the love and comfort of family by his side.

Raymond, fondly known as Ray, was born on January 29, 1939 to Edward and Anna Rapczynski and graduated from Harrison High School in Harrison, N.J., having played on the football team with the Class of 1957.  His journey through life was marked by dedication, love, and a spirit of adventure.

Ray’s commitment to service began early when he enlisted in the Army as a cook, discovering a love for culinary arts that would become a lifelong passion.  After his honorable service, he continued his pursuit of education and personal growth, working diligently as he attended school at night at Upsala College.

In 1969, Ray embarked on a beautiful journey of 54 years of marriage with his beloved spouse, Linda. Their union was a testament to love, commitment, and the joy found in shared experiences.

Following his military service, Ray found employment as an Office Manager at Coastal Oil Company, where his dedication and work ethic quickly garnered recognition.  Over the years, he demonstrated not only his organizational skills but also his ability to adapt and learn, earning him a promotion to the position of Controller.

For the next 25 years, Ray dedicated himself to Coastal Oil Company, witnessing and contributing to its growth through a merger with BP.  His commitment to excellence and his unwavering work ethic were not just professional qualities but integral aspects of his character.  He retired in 2004, concluding his remarkable career as a Comptroller with Prolerized Shiabo Neu.

Upon his retirement in 2004, Ray embraced the next chapter of his life with the same enthusiasm that defined his earlier years.  His honesty, patience, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him.  A man of few complaints, he faced life’s challenges with a stoic grace that left a lasting impression on those around him.

Ray’s sense of humor, twinkle in his eye, and easy going nature made him a joy to be around.  He approached each day with a sense of adventure, whether it was fishing, golfing or enjoying the tranquility of the beach.  His love for the outdoors and hands-on work led him to find joy in renovating and building, leaving behind tangible reminders of his skill and dedication.

A loving father, Ray took pride in his two daughters, offering unwavering support and encouragement.  He was equally proud of his five grandchildren and cherished attending their sporting events, dance competitions, cheer showcases, theater performances and graduations.  His presence was a source of strength and inspiration for each of them.

Ray was not only a loving father but also a cherished father-in-law and uncle.  His warmth and guidance extended to his extended family, creating lasting bonds of love and support.  His role as a father-in-law and uncle was marked by the same generosity, compassion, and wisdom that defined his relationships with his immediate family.

Ray’s love for cooking extended beyond his military days, and he became known for always preparing enough to feed an army or a few hundred people.  This generous spirit reflected his desire to share not just meals but moments of joy and togetherness with others.

Ray’s inquisitive mind found joy in learning through reading the daily paper and listening to NPR.  His generosity and acceptance touched the lives of many, making him a beloved friend and confidant. Whether traveling, socializing with friends, or spending cherished moments with family, Ray’s warmth and compassion left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to share in his life.

Ray’s legacy extends beyond his professional achievements and family bonds; he was a founding parent who played an instrumental role in creating the youth soccer program that has become an integral part of his beloved Packanack community. His vision, passion and commitment to fostering community spirit through sports have left an indelible mark.  As a founding parent, Ray's dedication went beyond administrative duties. He was a mentor, coach, and advocate for the values of teamwork, discipline, and sportsmanship. The program, which started as a small initiative, flourished with his guidance, becoming a cherished institution that continues to shape the lives of countless young athletes in the community.

Ray is survived by his loving wife, Linda (nee Wanke), his two daughters:  Christine Rogan of Wayne and Holly McAllen and her husband Joseph of Wayne; five grandchildren:  Caitlyn Rogan, Liam Rogan, Connor McAllen, Kyra McAllen, Cali Rae McAllen; niece Victory Magee and her husband Henry, niece Elyssa Magee, niece Sabrina Jenkins and her husband Ramon, niece Natasha, nephew Mathew Rapczynski, nephew Kenneth Rapczynski, and sister-in-law Nina Rapczynski.  He was predeceased by his brothers, Matthew and Richard.

As we say our goodbyes, let us remember Ray for the extraordinary person he was - a man of integrity, resilience, and boundless love.  May his memory live on in our hearts as we celebrate the remarkable life he lived.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Alzheimer's Association and Atlantic Visiting Nurses.

John "JC" Cunningham, age 88 of Oakland and formerly of Towaco, died peacefully at home on Sunday, November 12, 2023 surrounded by his wife, Marge and daughters, Lori and Debbie.

Raised in Irvington, NJ, John spent his formative years in Wayne, NJ, where he graduated from Wayne High School in 1953. A man of strong work ethic, John began working as a delivery truck driver for Circle Building Supply in Wayne when he was just a teenager. After several weeks of driving the delivery truck, he asked his boss if he could have an afternoon off. When his boss asked him why, John explained that he didn’t have a driver’s license and it might be a good idea to get one. In 1958, duty called and John was drafted into the U.S. Army, serving with honor until 1960.

Upon returning from service, John drove trucks for several area companies, and he owned and operated his own dump truck as well, delivering stone, fill, and topsoil throughout the Northern New Jersey area. His love of cars found him operating Little Falls Auto Repair from 1977 to 1985.  During this time, he owned a race car, and weekends were synonymous with family trips to the Orange County, NY racetrack. Racing was part of John’s soul, and his enthusiasm for racing was infectious, creating lasting memories for his family and friends.

Later in his career, John worked as a dedicated truck driver for Dan Como and Sons in Towaco, NJ. He retired from there on July 2, 2008, the same day his beloved wife Marge retired from her job. A true perfectionist, John insisted on doing things his way, leaving a legacy of excellence in everything he touched. His cherished 1999 Chevy Silverado Pickup truck, meticulously maintained by John himself, stands as a testament to his care and pride.

In January of 1961, during a significant snowstorm, fate intervened when John came to the aid of Marge Douma, helping to free her car from a snowdrift. She was out cruising in her father’s ’51 Chevy, which she was sure could never get stuck in anything…until it did. This chance encounter led to a cup of coffee. Soon thereafter, John took her out on a first date, showing up to her house wearing a suit. Marge’s mother was very impressed, and she loved John even before Marge had a chance to get to know him! After many fun nights at the bowling alley, the beginnings of their love story unfolded. They married on October 27, 1962, followed by a honeymoon in Miami Beach. Throughout their journey together, they lived in Hawthorne and Pompton Plains before settling into their family home in Towaco, NJ, where they shared twenty-five years of love and laughter. In 2008, after retiring, John and Marge embarked on a new chapter in Mooresville, NC, where they lived near their daughter and grandchildren. More recently they moved to Oakland, NJ to be near to their other daughter, always keeping family close.

A man of diverse interests, John had a soft spot for his cats. Over the years, he welcomed five beloved cats into his home, each leaving paw prints on his heart. There was Skeeter whose disposition earned him the nickname “Lucifer,” and then there was DJ (perhaps his favorite of all), and Miss Daisy, Mister, and Gary. He adored his cats and loved them all to the fullest.

John will be fondly remembered by his friends and loved ones. He is survived by his loving wife, Marge (nee Douma), his two daughters: Lori Brolsma and her husband Larry of Mooresville, NC and Debbie Tuit and her husband Ray of Oakland, NJ; five grandchildren: Ashley Bryan (Chris), Chuck Zulovitz, Alexandra Zulovitz, Shelby Dench (Kyle), Garrett Brolsma (Karlyn); seven great-grandchildren: Clara, Bonham, Tyler, Erica, Colin, Sula, and Prescott, and one brother: Robert Cunningham (Ellie) of Columbia, SC. He was predeceased by his brother, Richard Cunningham.

Robert D Avrach, age 72 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Friday, November 10, 2023 with the comfort of his family by his side.

Robert was the son of David and Joyce Avrach. He grew up in Riverdale, NY along with his two sisters Linda and Donna. He went to  DeWitt Clinton High School where he was a great athlete throughout  his school years, baseball being his favorite sport.

Robert joined the US Army in November 1970 and served in Vietnam. He ended his army service in October of 1972 and he was always so very proud of his service to his country.

Robert had many different jobs throughout his life. His first job as an adult was in the corporate offices of Toys R Us.  He retired from Fleetwash, Fairfield NJ in 2018, where he had worked for the last 10 years.

Robert met his wife Maureen on a blind date at the end of October 1974 and they were married on January 9, 1975. They have been married for 48 years and have one son, Matthew age 43 and a wonderful daughter in law Valerie.

Robert has always loved playing guitar, his favorite song being Steamer Lane Breakdown by the Doobie Brothers. He loved his cats, the most recent one being Daisy. They would spend many hours together watching TV and sleeping. During his retirement years Robert volunteered at a cat rescue and he was always feeding stray cats.

Robert enjoyed spending time with his family. One of his favorite hobbies was to act as the family weatherman. He liked to refer to himself as “Baarometer Bob”. He would keep everyone in the family who was traveling abreast of their weather conditions.

In lieu of flowers or gifts the family would love if you would donate to the Friends of Wayne Animals. It is a no kill animal shelter in Wayne. If you prefer to mail in a donation, please send to:

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

Paul Joseph Crecca Sr. passed away on November 7, 2023, at the age of 92.

He is survived by his wife Louise of nearly 70 years and his three children, Paul Jr., Sharon, and Carrie, along with three grandchildren and four great grandchildren, and his beloved Shih Tzu, Snoopy.

Paul was an electrical engineer by trade who worked for Otis Elevator for over 50 years, where he started out of high school and with his mechanical genius rose to become the supervising elevator engineer on the construction of the World Trade Center, just one of many major accomplishments of note. Paul loved fishing and all animals. Paul was born and raised in Bloomfield NJ, moving to Wayne NJ in 1986 where he lived until his passing. Please God bless Paul, he will be greatly missed by all his family.

Clarence Place, 96, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Sunday, November 5, 2023, in the comfort of his family.

“Keep moving” was his motto. Born in Brooklyn, NY, “Buddy” sure did keep moving. He attended Grover Cleveland High School, took a job delivering meat, and then worked for Transogram Toy Factory in Long Island City. At 16 years old his family moved to Wayne, where he worked for Heyer Schultz as a metal polisher and then lathe operator. At 17 years old he got permission to join the Navy. He bravely served with the Seabees and was sent to Okinawa where he was stationed at Yellow Beach #3.

In June of 1946, he left the service and went back to work for Heyer Schultz. In 1947, his brother Bill took over his job and Buddy then went to work at the Parker Shell Gas Station. After that he became a Fireman on a steam engine for the Lackawanna Railroad. He also worked in a machine shop for Ernie Miles and delivered coal for Bailey & Winters.

In those days there were Fireman’s Fairs at the Parish Oval ball field in Wayne. His future father-in-law, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Community Fire Company #1 at the time. And it was there that he met his sweetheart, Roberta “Bobbie” Wenderoth, while giving her quarters to play the games. They were married in 1952. His boss, Ernie Miles, let him borrow his car for the wedding. They settled in Wayne, building a house on Market Street with the help of his in-laws, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth, who also had a home next door. Both houses were later relocated across the street when Route 80 was established. They had two wonderful children, Robert and Susan. They all enjoyed many backyard picnics and barbecues, usually serenaded by the family “band”. Buddy also purchased a boat, named it “Windy”, and had many days of fun with swimming and water skiing at Greenwood Lake, and crabbing at the Jersey Shore.

During their early married years, Buddy worked for Richtex Company doing laminating and embossing. The company became a division of Firestone, where he became a foreman and then Assistant Plant Manager. In 1974, he and his wife Bobbie purchased a house in Seaside Park, NJ, where after retiring from Firestone in 1981, he did commercial crabbing with 100 pots in the bay from 1982-1983. He later built a new home on a lagoon in Forked River, but relocated back to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just a block and a half away from their first home.

To keep “busy” he became a part-time bartender for Gabriel’s Hotel and Restaurant. He further served his community in Wayne by being on the Planning Board from 1972-1979, and Chairman in 1974. He also purchased a motorhome and took many trips.

Buddy and Bobbie eventually sold their house in Wayne and settled permanently in Seaside Park where they spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time relaxing together on their front porch. He stopped working for a short time, but, being a life-long avid golfer, he went to work for the Cedar Creek Golf Course in Berkeley Township 3-4 days a week at 80 years old. He retired from that job in December of 2018 at the age of 92.

Always known for his friendly and helpful demeanor, he had his supply inventory of fix-it’s to help anyone in need. Being an accomplished self-taught builder, carpenter, electrician, plumber, etc. he was one-of-a-kind. And the best cheek pincher ever!

Clarence is predeceased, only three weeks prior, by his loving wife of 71 years, Roberta “Bobbie” Place. He is survived by his son Robert Place, Patricia Place, granddaughter Krysti Place and her partner Jeffrey Palmer, and great-grandson Chase; his daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr., granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; sister-in-law Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and his wife Laura, and their son Eric, nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew; and sister Denny Knight and her husband Dave.

He was a remarkable man who led a remarkable life. A loving son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, friend, and neighbor. Keep moving indeed. And while he will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate his incredible life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Raymond Smith Eutermarks, IV, born July 30th, 1976, age 47, of Pequannock, NJ passed away Saturday, November 4th, 2023, of a sudden and unexpected heart attack.

Raymond is survived by his three children, Mikayla, Emily, and Raymond, who were the light of his life, his wife, Kelly, his parents, Raymond, and Elizabeth, three siblings, Jean, Ryan and Robyn and his partner, Gena Pilitsis. Among his immediate family there are countless aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends who would have considered him to be as close as a brother and loved just as much.

Raymond grew up in Pequannock, the beloved first born of Raymond and Elizabeth. Their childhood home was a center for countless memories from birthday parties and holiday celebrations to the numerous gatherings that brought forth hours of jokes and love of just being together.

Raymond’s greatest accomplishment was the birth of his children. It is from them that his greatest joy came. He was so immensely proud of them and all their accomplishments. He loved to share with them his interests and hobbies. Some of his favorite memories came from their trips down the shore. The children were so proud of his new apartment and were looking forward to creating many memories there.

Raymond had first started to work alongside his Father at Butler Printing and Laminating, where they worked together for over 20 years. He later obtained his Black Seal low pressure boiler operator license and continued to work in various maintenance positions over the past years including his latest at Arrow Shed Industries.

Raymond’s personality can best be explained through his passion. He never did anything small. There were no half measures or easing into anything; it was always full bore, 120%, all or nothing, top of the line only. He took the bull by the horns and would enjoy anything life had to offer to its fullest extent.

He had a contagious laugh, recognizable from miles away. It was as boisterous as it was charming. Raymond had a love for people. He was one of the most charismatic people anyone could meet. Ray could connect with and befriend just about any person in the world, no matter what walk of life they may have been from.

His hobbies were immense, fish tanks, video games, drones, collectible cards, etc. But whatever it was, you knew he was going to jump into it with everything he had. His fish tanks were going to be the best, filled with the most colorful fish and rarest coral. He also had a love for music. 90’s Rap, most notably Wu Tang Clan, was among his favorites.

Raymond’s enthusiasm did not just exist for all that life had to offer, but more importantly for his family. It was his love of his family that was most important to him. The love of his children, parents, sisters, and brother is what drove him the most every day. Being surrounded by them is what he loved most.

Raymond will be missed and loved more than can be written. His Family will forever have his memory and love reside within each of them. His passion and legacy will live on within his children for whom he loved more than could ever be explained.

Biagio “Gino” Varone, Jr., age 37 of Wayne, died Saturday, November 4, 2023.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden and untimely passing of Gino Varone, a beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. Gino leaves behind a legacy of kindness, strength, and love. Gino’s personality was very much like his own father’s; making friends everywhere he went. He demonstrated an exceptional willingness to help others in need, showcasing a unique blend of strength and toughness combined with compassion and protectiveness.

Gino was passionate about exercising and maintaining a healthy lifestyle through fitness, throughout high school and adulthood he remained fiercely dedicated to sustaining excellent physical condition by frequenting the gym and eating well. Gino always felt compelled to be prepared for life’s challenges, especially for the unexpected. If anyone was ready for the Apocalypse, it was Gino! His preparedness and resourcefulness were just a few of his endearing qualities.

In his early professional life, Gino worked in private security, having worked with renowned artists such as Brett Michaels and various EDM artists across marque New Jersey venues. Since 2018, he’s dedicated his time and energy to Passaic County Technical Institute (PCTI), where he worked in maintenance. As Gino did best, he made friends with everyone there and left a lasting impact on the PCTI community.

Gino’s love extended beyond humans; he deeply cherished his three dogs, Spock, Thor and Ace and his cat, Sylvester. His love for his animals knew no bounds, and his furry companions brought him immense joy and comfort.

In celebrating Gino’s life, let us remember the lessons he imparted - the importance of kindness, the power of resilience, and the beauty of his special love. His memory will forever live on in the hearts of those he touched, reminding us all to be compassionate, strong, and willing to help others in need.

Gino is survived by his beloved mother; Bernadette Varone of Wayne, his two brothers; Michael Varone and his wife Jessica of Pompton Lakes, and Matthew Varone of Wayne, his three nephews; Mason, Micheal, and Joseph; his uncles Elias Massood and his wife Patricia of North Wildwood, NJ; Michael Massood and his wife Vivian of Franklin Lakes, NJ; and Edward Massood and his fiancé Robin of Greensboro, NC; his aunt Mary Massood of Woodland Park, NJ; his cousins, and dear friends. Gino was predeceased by his father, Gino Sr., in 2007; by his grandfather, Michael Massood Sr., in 2020 and his grandmother, Helen Massood, in 1997.

Robert A. Hughes of Wayne passed away peacefully on November 3, 2023 surrounded by his family.  He was 85.

Bob was a Certified Public Accountant with ‘Paul Newman eyes’, and resided in Wayne for 54 years where he and his wife, Barbara, raised their two children.  He will be fondly remembered for his masterful storytelling, his love of sports, and his ever present sense of humor.  

Bob will be dearly missed by his loving wife Barbara, his children, Kathleen and her partner Mark, and Thomas and wife Maori, and his beloved grandchildren Teddy and Maya.

Gayle W. Babitz, age 82, of Wayne passed peacefully holding the hand of her husband John, on Thursday, November 2, 2023.

She was born in Paterson and raised at 23 Squaw Brook Road in North Haledon. She graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1959.  After high school she continued her education at a Paterson secretarial school.  

Gayle’s first job was for one dollar an hour at the Haband store on North 8th Street in Paterson, the Sears Roebuck Company in Paterson and the New Jersey Bell Telephone Company in Paterson as a keypunch operator until 1964 when she was pregnant with her first child.   In 1982, when her children were old enough, she worked for the Sicoma Chiropractic Company in Prospect Park and finally the Dale Family Chiropractic Company in Midland Park where she worked for twenty years before retiring in 2001.

Gayle was a lady of remarkable strength and talent, who has a profound love for crafting.  Her passion for knitting, quilting, sewing, and especially crocheting, has always been a vibrant part of her life.  In 2001, Gayle faced a significant health challenge when she had to get a mechanical valve in her aorta.  Her spirit remained undeterred, and this didn’t slow her down in the least.  During the challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic, she found a unique way to make a difference.  Gayle crocheted 400 vibrantly colored pillows, a testament to her skill and dedication to others. These were donated to the Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, bringing comfort and a touch of home to others.  Her story is a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and kindness. Gayle’s dedication to others is also exemplified by her joining the Ladies Auxiliary of Preakness Volunteer Fire Company 4 in Wayne where she has served from 1967 and was still a member in 2023. Those who know Gayle will remember her never being able to sit for too long and suddenly stating “C’mon Let’s Go!”

John and Gayle's serendipitous encounter began with a blind date that would change their lives forever. On a warm summer evening, they found themselves at a nostalgic drive-in theater, where they were about to watch "The Misfits," starring Clark Gable and Marilyn Monroe. As the screen flickered to life, John's heart raced with anticipation. Sitting beside him was Gayle, a woman of grace and charm, who shared his excitement. What made this rendezvous even more special was the company of John's supportive brother and sister-in-law, who had orchestrated the blind date. Little did John and Gayle know that the silver screen would be the backdrop to their first kiss, budding romance, one that would flourish into a lifelong love story, full of adventure, laughter, and cherished memories. John asked Gayle’s mom if he could marry her, and she emphatically said “NO.” John’s mom felt the same way and insisted they wait until they were twenty-one years old. John and Gayle would outlast his and her mother’s and marry on November 3, 1962, when they were both twenty-one, at Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson.  It is said they honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  John and Gayle have enjoyed sixty-one years of a loving, laughter-filled, and devoted, marriage of “best friends.”

Gayle is survived by her husband John J. Babitz, Jr., she was the loving mother of Bryan Babitz and his wife Ruth of Zephyrhills, FL, Cheryl Barnes and her husband Kevin of Totowa, John Babitz and his wife Lisa of Maiden, NC, and her extended family Diane Simon of Euless, TX and Paul Simon of Grand Prairie, TX; and she was the devoted grandmother of Liz Babitz, Johnny Babitz, Lexi Babitz, Kevin Barnes, Jake Barnes, and Christopher Fuentes.

Instead of flowers the family would greatly appreciate memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s New Jersey, or the St Jude Children’s Research Hospital to honor Gayle’s memory.

Antoinette Cafone, 100, of Wayne, lovingly known as Toni, passed away peacefully with her cherished family around her.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to immigrant parents Aniello and Rose, Toni was also known for her modeling and love of baseball, theater, and world travel.

She was known for her proficiency as a local beautician for over 50 years and so graciously donated her time as a stylist to Little Sisters of the Poor Nursing Home as well as visits to her homebound clients.

Toni was predeceased by her husband Julio, survived by her sister Phyllis Solino, and predeceased by her dear brothers Rev. Arthur DeMaio, and Frank DeMaio, and sisters Anna Scirone, Lucy Picarello, and Vera Vingelli.  She is survived by her daughters: Fredlyn and her husband Peter, Ginny and her husband Jack, Julianne and her husband Craig, Sue Ellen and her husband Brendan, Nicole and her husband Jack.  She is also survived by her grandchildren: Tara (Jeff) Barnard, Dawn (Greg) Ross, Adrianna (Rob) Parsons, Jesse Cuff, Kelly (Chris) Vieira, Erin Kearney, Kristen Meyer, Bobby (Amanda) Taylor, and Jack Meyer.  Toni was blessed to have 13 loving great-grandchildren: Matthew, Caleb, Angelina, Christopher, Braden, Bella, Julia, Julian, Antonia, Scarlett, Johnny, Savannah, and Theo. Toni is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews.

Holiday traditions were an important part of her legacy, as family was her first priority and her greatest gift of all. Toni had a unique relationship with each of her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, making each feel special and loved.  She will be deeply missed by all.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Antoinette's name are asked to consider Suncrest Hospice, 35 Waterview Blvd #100, Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ 07054 or Annunication of the Blessed Virgin Mary RC 45 Urban Club Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Leslie Ronald Spencer, age 83 of Paterson, died on October 31, 2023. Leslie, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and uncle, was born in Georgetown, Guyana in 1940. Leslie was the beloved son of a tightly knit family with three brothers and a sister. His early fascination with boat and motor repair in his native land revealed his inherent mechanical aptitude, a talent that would shape his life and leave a lasting impression on those who knew him.

In 1968, Leslie and his beloved wife, Leonora, began a new journey by immigrating to the United States. Together, they navigated life’s ups and downs with steadfast love and commitment. Leslie’s dedication wasn’t confined to his family; he served as a Union Shop Steward for Kaysam Corporation, representing his co-workers in the Amalgamated Transit Union Local 1056 in New York with pride. His dedication and hard work led to his Black Seal Boiler License. Even after Kaysam Corp. shut down, Leslie continued to work for Harman Cove Towers until his well-earned retirement in 2003. His knack for fixing anything was not just a skill but a testament to his generosity and readiness to assist others. Leslie’s hands were always busy; he devoted his time to helping relatives with various home repairs and enhancements, leaving a legacy of skill and care in many homes.

A fervent sports fan, Leslie took pleasure in baseball and was a devoted New York Mets supporter. Despite his family’s disappointment, he was also a NY Giants fan. He derived joy from the victories of his favorite teams. However, the most significant source of joy for him was spending cherished moments with his family, children, and grandchildren. He maintained a unique bond with his brothers through weekly Saturday phone calls that kept them connected despite the distance.

Leslie’s romance with Leonora was akin to a fairy tale. They met serendipitously on a cruise and fell profoundly in love. In no time at all, Leslie asked Leonora’s parents for her hand in marriage—a proposal initially rejected by Leonora’s father! Undeterred, Leslie eventually won him over, and they were married on June 1, 1963. Their enduring union was filled with love and blessed with family and cherished memories. For over sixty years, they shared their lives and dreams—an embodiment of love’s power, resilience, and commitment.

Leslie leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and kindness. His memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those lucky enough to have known him. As we honor his life, let’s remember the lessons he imparted—the significance of family, the worth of hard work, and the infinite potential of love. As we grieve his departure, let’s also commemorate the extraordinary journey of a dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and uncle who touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Leslie is survived by his wife Leonora of Paterson; their four children: Ronald (and wife Rosalie) of Brooklyn, Roger of New Jersey, Marcelle Cheron (and husband Harry) of Paterson, and Arthur of Paterson; eleven grandchildren: Shanisse, Spencer, Quintin, Danielle, Samantha, Sydney, Abigail, Nazreen, Shaun, Janae, and Nevaeh; five great-grandchildren: Mason, Jaxon, Jaylen, Quinell, and Ezra; and one sister: Jennifer David of Paterson. He was predeceased by his three brothers: Allan Spencer of Guyana, James Spencer of Guyana and Frank Spencer of Canada.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Leslie’s memory would be greatly appreciated to Royal Family Ministries Inc. Please click on this link to donate online: Royal Family Ministries.

John A. Demetrius, a man of great energy and boundless love passed away on Monday, October 30, 2023. He was 92.

Born and raised in the borough of Brooklyn, NY, John was the child of James and Anna Demetrius. He departed this world leaving behind a legacy of resilience, generosity, and an indomitable work ethic.

John began his journey as a young adult by graduating with the Class of 1949 from Midwood High School in Brooklyn. His thirst for knowledge and academic excellence led him to pursue a bachelor's degree from New York University and a master's degree in accounting from Pace University. Remarkably, John put himself through both college and graduate school, achieving honors at both institutions.

During his time at NYU, John patriotism inspired him to enlist in the U.S. Navy, serving abroad from 1952 to 1955 during the Korean War. Upon his honorable discharge, his service was recognized with the bestowment of  the National Defense Service Medal, Navy Occupation (Europe) Service Medal, and the China Service Medal. Throughout his life, John was a true patriot who loved his country.

John's professional endeavor in his chosen field of accountancy began at Haskin and Sells in New York City, where his mastery of the material saw him successfully pass the CPA exam. Upon passing, he was generously gifted $100 from his employer. Being a generous man himself, he donated one half of that $100 gift to help support Danny Thomas’ efforts to establish St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, This was a testament to his philanthropic spirit but it was just the start as John continued to support this worthy cause for the rest of his life.

John’s career flourished as he later transitioned to Brout and Company in New York City until 1984 when he decided to establish his own accountancy firm, Demetrius and Company LLC. He loved his work and remained dedicated to his profession and clients until the remarkable age of ninety when he finally retired.

Family was central to John's life. His loving marriage to Millena Rapuano began during a professional encounter, where John, conducting an audit at the company where Millena worked, Taking a liking to her, he discovered it was Millena’s birthday. Hearing about her wish for a camera, he saw an opportunity to ask her out for a drink and dinner with the offer to also assist her in shopping for a good camera. This small gesture eventually led to a beautiful marriage at the Basilica of Regina Pacis in Brooklyn on June 11, 1961.

The couple celebrated their union with a reception at Grace Chateau in Brooklyn, followed by a memorable honeymoon in Puerto Rico. Their honeymoon concluded with a heartwarming gesture of bringing a stray puppy back from Puerto Rico to comfort Millena's mother who had recently experienced the passing of her dear dog.

John and Millena’s first home in an apartment on Bay 17th Street in Brooklyn welcomed the birth of their son Gerard. Shortly after, they moved to a brand-new home at 39 Weinmanns Boulevard in Wayne, NJ. The move marked a significant change, offering a quieter, more country-like lifestyle compared to their life in Brooklyn. It also marked the further growth of their family as they welcomed their daughter Gineen and their son Gregory.

In times of leisure, John cultivated various hobbies, including coin and stamp collecting, as well as being an active member of the Radio Club of America. He found solace and joy in the tranquility of his beautiful flower gardens, often accompanied by his beloved dogs throughout the years, including Max, Wally, Gizmo, Bailey, Jeffrey, and presently Spencer, as well as his cherished cats, Spencer, Princess, and Bandit.

Above all else, John’s truest passion lay in his devotion to his faith in God and his family.

As a charter Parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne, NJ, John dedicated himself to serving the church community for decades. His commitment was evident through his role as an usher from 1968 until just two months ago, where he continued to assist Sunday mass attendees, despite relying on a cane to usher them to their seats. He was also a devoted member of the Our Lady of the Valley Church’s Holy Name Society, participating in philanthropic activities such as feeding the homeless at Eva’s Village in Paterson. John's service even went beyond the church doors serving as a Grand Knight with the Knights of Columbus in Little Falls and as a member of the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). His selflessness was also acknowledged by the American Cancer Society, for his volunteering efforts.

In addition to his love and devotion for his wife Millena, John was a loving father to his children, Gerard, Gineen, and Gregory. His legacy lives on through his three children, who at one point, all worked alongside him in his accounting business. He supported his son Gregory as a coach in his youth sports leagues and as an active fund raiser for his high school booster club. His grandchildren—Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack—held a special place in his heart, affectionately calling him “Papa-Moo” and having great times together, going on rides and creating great memories. Alongside his wife Millena, John played a vital role in raising his grandchildren, always offering unwavering support and love and being there for all their significant milestones and events. His dedication shone through in every aspect of his life, even extending to supporting his grandson's sports teams through his accounting firm's sponsorship.

John’s legacy is marked by his generosity, loyalty, hard work, and an unyielding love for his family and friends. His presence will be sorely missed, but the impact of his kindness and the memories he created will forever be treasured by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

John was the beloved husband of Millena, blessed in marriage for 62 years. He was the loving father of: Gerard Demetrius and wife Christine of Ledgewood, NJ, Gineen Serafin and husband Bill of Wayne, NJ, and Gregory Demetrius and wife Johanna of Wayne; and cherished grandfather of: Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in John’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Shriners Hospitals for Children

Attn: Office of Development

2900 Rocky Point Dr.

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Joseph Peter Cabrelli, age 93 of Monroe Township and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Here is a short story of a very kind man who was a gentle giant, with a good nature and a welcome sense of humor.

Joe was born in Philadelphia and lived for a short time in California. He moved to Wayne in 1976.

Joe received his formal education at Saint Thomas More High School in Philadelphia, graduating with the Class of 1948. He then went on to the University of Pennsylvania, at the evening division of The  Wharton School of Business where he received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration with the Class of 1952.

Joe joined the U.S. Army and, after basic training, he was offered many options including Officer Candidate School, paratrooper, or a special language school that the Army had in Monterey, California. Because of his intellect and innate talents as an individual, he was encouraged to go to the Army Language School in Monterey. His language of choice was Polish and he spoke it fluently. He had a very enlightening and enjoyable military experience and was honorably discharged in 1955.

After his Army service, he was employed at Gimbel Brothers Department Store where his abilities were recognized and he rose to be Senior Vice President of Gimbel’s flagship store in Philadelphia. Later, Joe took a job at a department store in California only to return to Philadelphia after three years and resume his position at Gimbel’s in Philadelphia. He later became Senior Vice President of Orbach’s Department Store in New York City. Joe was also President of the Metropolitan New York Credit Association.

He met Loretta Helmuth who was a secretary at Gimbel’s Department Store and they married on August 30, 1974. They have had 49 years of warm, caring, and loving marriage together. Joe and Loretta loved to travel and they made many trips to Europe to experience the beautiful cultures that exist there.

His family history is interesting as he was the first generation of his family born in America.  His father and mother were born in Tuscany, Italy. The economic climate for living and advancing to a better life was not in place. His father had a sister who immigrated to Scotland and spoke of good opportunities there. At that time in history, people living in Italy were immigrating either to Argentina or America and, at age fifteen his father chose America. San Francisco was advertised as the best place to go but his father had difficulties finding work. Joe’s father then moved to Philadelphia and became a talented chef. His work days were twelve and fourteen hour days, seven days a week, never missing a day of work. This work ethic rubbed off on his sons who, in their personal lives pursued the same kind of ambitious life style which made them successful in life.

Joe had a special bearing about him of the kind of person who could get things done at whatever he endeavored to do. His father’s work ethic rubbed off on Joe and even as a youngster his paper route was huge! Most boys were minimalists as to the size of their route. Joe excelled as a paper boy and he had over one hundred thirty customers. He even had a strategy that helped him to throw the papers on the porch of his customers with aplomb. His work ethic did not let him take days off and efficiency was always built into his mode of operation.

Joe was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne and he was an active member of the community. He was a member of a volunteer teaching group at the Wayne Library, teaching people English as a second language, and provided weekly lectures on a variety of topics to the Four Seasons community in Wayne. Joe also was a leading member of the Wayne Mayor's Senior Advisory Council.

Surviving are Joe’s loving wife Loretta, two daughters: Denise and husband Nicholas Lepore of Monroe, and Jacqueline and husband Victor Ricci of Freehold; five adoring grandchildren: Marisa and husband Frank DeBiase, Dr. Nicholas Lepore, Tyler Lepore, Gabrielle and husband Joseph Siragusa , and Dominick Ricci; four cherished great-grandchildren: Juliana and Emilia DeBiase, and Joseph and Gianna Siragusa; and two sister-in-laws: Marie Cabrelli of Drexel Hill, PA, Rita and her husband Joe Barnitz of Fort Myers, FL,

Joe was predeceased by five brothers: Joseph who passed away at age four, before Joe was born, Andrew, Frank, James, and Peter Cabrelli; and one sister: Vonda Lallo.

Joe always said, "My life was ahead of my dreams." He will be very missed.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider:

Covenant House

460 West 41st Street

New York, NY 10036-6801

ny.covenanthouse.org.

Covenant House’s mission is to inspire homeless and at-risk young people to move to safe, stable, and loving places where they can continue to live out their life dreams. In short, they strive to help each young person find “safe places” in their lives.

Brian G. David, age 51 of Wayne, NJ passed on Friday, October 27,2023. Brian departed this life too early and will be missed by his many family and friends.

Brian graduated from California University Long Beach with a BS in Finance but lived the majority of his life in his hometown of Wayne. He was a graduate of Wayne Valley high school and his hometown was a special place for Brian as he loved being a part of the Wayne community.

Brian’s passion was cooking and he was most happy creating meals for his friends and loved ones. He took that passion to the next level when he opened “Brian’s Kitchen” in Wayne last year. He got immense joy seeing people enjoy the food he created. He was a devoted father who loved spending time with his children. Since Brian was so handy, he loved building and creating and he used those skills to fashion outdoor swings and toys for his kids. Most of all he was someone who appreciated the little things in life; making his children laugh, fishing, carvel with extra sprinkles and a good reuben.

Brian is survived by his wife, Althea David (nee Lazzara) and his four beautiful children, Sydney, Skylar, Sylvie and Ben. His parents Bernardine David and Gerald David. His sister Nicole Adams and her husband Michael and her children, Lily, Luke and Sadie. His in-laws, Ruth and Ed Lazzara. His sister in law Alicia Heller and her husband Jon and their children Noah, Olivia and Myla. His sister in law Alexis and her husband Michael and their children Ava, Jack and Alek. As well as his brother in law Scott Spages.

Dora Charlotte Peschel (nee Bernstengel), age 103, of Wayne, passed away peacefully while in the comfort of her home, on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Dora was born on January 1, 1920 in the family home in Grundstasse-Dresden Germany, as the youngest of 11 children. When she was three years old, the family immigrated to the United States on a ship called the George Washington. Dora’s father Willy was already in the United States working as a carpenter. Her mother traveled for ten days on that ship with six children, including Dora in tow, where they entered America through Ellis Island.  

Dora was raised in North Bergen and graduated from Emerson High School in Union City with the Class of 1937. After high school she went to business school and soon found work as a clerk/bookkeeper with the American Fly Paper Company in New York City. Her salary was $14.00  per week. In 1940, Dora met a man named Fred Peschel on a blind date arranged by Dora’s brother Eric. Fred took Dora to her Senior Prom and proposed to her on New Year’s Eve in 1941. They married in December 1941 in North Bergen but there was no time for a honeymoon as Fred had to return to his military service. They lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne in 1949. Dora and Fred enjoyed fifty-three years in a loving marriage before Fred’s passing in 1995.

In addition to raising 5 children, Dora worked at Two Guys in Totowa and as a cook in the Wayne Schools cafeterias.  She was active in many roles at the Wayne United Methodist church in the choir, women’s circles, bible studies, book groups, cookie sales, vacation bible school, as a Den Mother of the Cub Scout Pac 101 at its founding, and volunteering at CUMAC.  Dora enjoyed gardening in her yard and especially loved to grow dahlias, her favorite flower.  She was an excellent seamstress having made clothes for her daughter, drapes for the house, and just about any other conceivable item one might sew. A voracious reader, she was always keeping herself up to date with a daily newspaper and loved a good book. She enjoyed crossword puzzles (in ink!), and excelled when playing Rummikub and Scrabble.  Dora was also active in the Wayne Golden Agers, Senior Follies, the Red Hat Club, and a bowling league. She drove until age 95 and often attended the many activities of her grandchildren. Family gatherings for Dora’s birthday on New Year’s Day were always a highlight for singing, playing games, and celebrating.

Dora was the loving wife of the late Fred Peschel (1995); adored mother of Rudy K. Peschel of Wayne, Robert F. Peschel and his wife Susan of Shorewood, WI,  Anita M. Dispenziere and her husband Ben of Wayne, David W. Peschel and his wife Wendy of Ringwood, Timothy R. Peschel and his wife Margaret of Wayne, and Carol Peschel of Longboat Key, FL; cherished by thirteen grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. She was loved and respected by her church family.  Dora’s family is grateful for the devoted care she received from Sophia, Renata, Monika, and Donna.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to:  

The United Methodist Church of Wayne

99 Parish Drive

Wayne, NJ 07470

John (Jack) Belanger of Pompton Lakes, formerly of Kinnelon passed away on October 26, 2023 at home.  Jack was born on January 26, 1968, and was the son of Pat and Jack Belanger of Clifton.  Jack grew up in Clifton with his two sisters, Kathy and Dee. He began his love of sports at a young age, playing football and lacrosse all through high school and college. To earn a little money during this time, he started flippin’ burgers at The Red Chimney in Clifton. After he got tired of asking “Ya want fries with that”, he went to work for his brother-in-law in construction. There he learned how to swing a hammer and carry sheetrock and shingles in 105 degree weather. He loved it!  Jack graduated from Montclair State University with a Bachelor of Science degree, and where he played middie for the lacrosse team. After college graduation he began his lifelong career in law enforcement. Jack graduated from the Morris County Police Academy and worked for the Morris County Park Police, Morris County Prosecutor’s Office, and Wayne Police Department until his retirement. He learned the art of fishing from his dad, was an avid hunter, and was able to pass down these traits to his children.

John met his future wife Fran (DeVito) while at Montclair, and they married in 1993, after dating for  five years.  As time went by, they were blessed with three beautiful children. Nicole, who resides in CT, John in Toms River and Kyle in Point Pleasant. Jack passed on his love of sports to all three of them, and he had many fun years coaching lacrosse for the Kinnelon Recreation Department. Jack was so very proud of his children and seeing their kind demeanor, strong work ethic and their caring attitudes towards others.

Jack was “little brother” to Kathaleen Brolsma, of Butler, NJ and Diane Mongelli, of Kinnelon, NJ. He was brother-in-law to Tom Mongelli, also from Kinnelon, but was more of a brother, than an in-law. Jack was the fun-time uncle to six nieces and nephews, and great-uncle to eight more.

Hundreds of memories will be kept in our hearts by his forever love Fran, his children, his family, his friends, and many others who will remember Jack and think of him with huge smiles on their faces. May he find peace.

Daniel (Dan) J. Schreck, age 67, of Wayne and North Beach, NJ passed away unexpectedly Monday, October 23, 2023.

Dan was born in Jersey City, NJ to Joseph and Barbara (Reilly) Schreck on September 11, 1956. Dan grew up in Ridgefield Park, NJ with his two sisters: Maureen and Elizabeth. Dan played football for Ridgefield Park High School, where he graduated in 1974. Growing up, Dan spent his summers with his family in the Highlands where he began his lifelong love affair with the Jersey Shore. After high school, Dan went on to play football at Glassboro State College (now Rowan University), where he and his teammates won the Division 3 NCAA Conference Championship all four years that he played. Dan graduated with a degree in accounting in 1978. While in college, Dan spent his summers in Belmar and Sea Bright where he was an ocean lifeguard, beer delivery guy, bouncer, and full-time beach bum.

Dan received his CPA license and started his career in accounting in 1978. He then joined Rayfield and Co. in where he became a partner in 1986. Always ambitious, Dan left Rayfield to start his own practice in 1991, when he and his partner formed Schreck, Bavaro and Co.

Dan spent the next three decades building a highly successful firm with offices in Morristown and Princeton. During this time, Dan served on numerous corporate and not-for-profit boards, including D.A.R.E. NJ. A respected member of the NJ business community, Dan took immense pleasure in helping nurture and grow countless businesses in the tri-state area.

Dan was a giant of a man, in both stature and personality. His love of his friends, family, work, and desire to succeed drove him to constantly push himself. Long after many would have hung up their spurs, Dan continued to hit the gym, the links, and the waves, nurturing those hobbies and relationships that would sustain him throughout his life. His special love for the Jersey Shore continually pulled to LBI, where Dan would spend as much time as he could cycling the boulevard, catching the morning sun on the beach, or floating in pool in the afternoon sun.

Dan met his biggest supporter and lifelong cheerleader, Patricia (Trish) Resco while working together at Rayfield and Co. in 1982. Trish and Dan married on July 11th, 1987, in Wayne, NJ surrounded by their friends and family. They had their first and only child, Kristen—the light of his life, on March 6, 1989, in Morris County, before moving to Wayne, where they built their lives together. Dan was an enthusiastic (if not exactly expert) coach of Kristen’s soccer team while she was growing up and gifted her his competitive nature during countless afternoon tennis matches and mini-golf tournaments. He also nurtured in her his love of the beach, teaching her to bodysurf on warm summer days at the shore.

As a family, they enjoyed going to sporting events, traveling to the Caribbean, lazy days in LBI, live music, and long dinners where Dan was sure to quiz everyone at the table about batting averages for former Yankee sluggers, fun-facts about the Garden State, and obscure points in US history.

Dan is loved and missed immensely by his wife, Trish; his daughter, Kristen; his son-in-law, Grant; his step-granddaughters Margot and Ella; his sister Maureen and her husband, David Campbell of Paramus, NJ; his in-laws: Lydia and her husband John Hirsch of Wayne, NJ; Bob Resco and his wife Linda of Crozet, VA; his nieces Kim, Colleen, Katie, Carolyn, and Kayla; his nephews, Chris, Andy, and Kyle; as well as his innumerable friends, family, and associates. Dan was predeceased by his sister Liz Converse, brother-in-law Frank Converse, and his parents Joe and Barbara Schreck.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Barnegat Light First Aid Squad, 15 W 10th Street, Barnegat Light, NJ 08006 or the Surf City Volunteer Fire & EMS, 713 Long Beach Bld., Surf City, NJ 08008 would be greatly appreciated.

Eleanor Bradford, age 93, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 23, 2023.

Eleanor was born in Newark, NJ, the seventh of her parents Luigi and Angelina (Russo) Arainte’s nine children. She was raised in Newark where she was a graduate of Westside High School. Upon graduating, Eleanor worked for many years as a secretary for Prudential Insurance Company in Newark.

Once while down the Jersey Shore in Seaside Heights with her girlfriends, Eleanor met a handsome young lifeguard on the beach named George Bradford. They fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on February 14, 1953. They were blessed with a long and loving and devoted marriage until George’s passing in 1995.

Soon Eleanor and George welcomed the birth of their son Brian. Eleanor cherished being a devoted and caring mom and she considered her role to be of paramount importance. She was also the adoring grandmother of her granddaughter Emily who was Eleanor’s pride and joy. The two of them had plenty of quality times which are now cherished memories for Emily. Emily spent many days being cared for by Grandma who was always ready to color or to play a game – UNO being a favorite – with her. This, of course, was traditionally followed by making and eating some delicious homemade pizza together.  

In her spare time, Eleanor could be found in the kitchen happily cooking and baking. This was a very fortunate thing for her family because they were the primary benefactors of her delicious culinary creations. Her homemade Manicotti, and beef stew, and her cookies and amazing sour cream coffee cake were favorites of her family. In the spring and summer Eleanor loved being out in her yard tending to her flowers, especially her impatients which were her favorites. She cut her own grass with an old push mower and her lawn always looked meticulous! In the fall and winter, it was football season and Eleanor always rooted for the New York Giants. She was a passionate fan and, if the Giants lost, Eleanor could often be found standing in front of her television yelling at her team.

Above all else, Eleanor’s greatest love was for her family and friends. She loved gathering together and she loved to laugh. Her outlook on life was always positive and, in her own quiet and loving way, she truly cared more about others than herself.    

Eleanor was the beloved wife of George Bradford, blessed in marriage for many years until George’s passing in 1995. She was the most loving mother of Brian Bradford of Oak Ridge and adoring grandmother of Emily Bradford. Eleanor is also survived by her sisters: Susie Fernicola, Louise Palmisano, and Evelyn Forester and numerous nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by one brother and four sisters.

Ernestine Aviles, age 93 of Wayne, died peacefully on Sunday, October 22, 2023, just six days after her husband, Moises, passed away.

Born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, she moved to New York City when she was just sixteen years old. Shortly after arriving in New York, she met Moises Aviles and their romance blossomed. They were married just two years later, on December 7, 1948. They lived in Manhattan briefly before settling into their home in the Bronx. They resided in the Bronx for nearly forty years, raising their two children; Edward and Rosemary. Ernestine and Moises often found themselves traveling out to Wayne, NJ, to visit with their family. They liked the Wayne area so much that in 1991 they decided to move there. Having lived in New York City for so long, Ernestine had never learned to drive a car – there was just no reason to. She didn’t allow that to slow her down, though, and she quickly learned the bus routes so she could go to the movies, and she made regular trips into New York. She would ride the bus back to the Bronx every few weeks, just to get her hair done! Ernestine never left the house without having her hair and nails done just right, and she always took pride in her appearance.

Although they enjoyed many happy years together, sadness also visited Ernestine and Moises during those years. In 1995, they lost their son Edward and in 2017 they lost their daughter Rosemary. Despite these trials, and the strains put on their marriage, they persevered. As they aged together, they faced many challenges, but love prevailed and they stood by each other’s side through it all. When Ernestine began showing signs of dementia, Moises did his best to care for her. Sadly, Moises passed away just a few days ago, and only weeks shy of their seventy-fifth wedding anniversary.

Ernestine and Moises cherished their three grandsons and six great-grandchildren, and would spend time with them whenever possible. They will each cherish the memories and miss them very much.

Ernestine is survived by her grandchildren; Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; six great-grandchildren: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; and a niece and God daughter; Rebecca Colon of Englewood. Ernestine was predeceased by her husband Moises, and their two children: Rosemary Bartolomey (2017) and Edward Aviles (1995).

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Jay Thomas Simmons, age 72, of Kinnelon, NJ.

Jay passed away on Friday, October 20, 2023, surrounded by his loving family.

Jay was born in San Juan Puerto Rico and was the younger of two sons to John and Olga Simmons. Being that Jay’s father was on active duty with the United States Navy, Jay spent his formative years living in Japan. While growing up in Japan, Jay developed many of his wonderful and powerful personality traits, such as his generosity, kindness, humility, and graciousness. At the age of thirteen, his family moved back to the Unites States and settled in Palisades Park, NJ. As a young man, Jay attended Palisades Park High School, where he was a member of the Boys Varsity Wrestling team.  

Following his high school graduation in 1968, Jay attended Pennsylvania Military College. He graduated from PMC in 1972, earning his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Behavioral Psychology and Organizational Dynamics. Shortly after Jay’s graduation in 1972, Pennsylvania Military College became Widener University.

Subsequent to earning his college degree, Jay quickly found work in the banking industry. During his long, successful career, he accepted positions at JP Morgan, Bank of America, and Citibank. Throughout the years, he was also an entrepreneur for various companies all relating to finance. Jay’s latest position was with Valley National Bank in Wayne, NJ, as Senior Vice President. For Jay, his role at Valley, and the people he worked with, was one of the most rewarding of his career. He held this position until his passing. Jay’s career in finance and banking spanned a period of more than fifty years. He was a wonderful boss, colleague, and peer, truly loved and well respected.

On many occasions, Jay was asked to give formal talks at various speaking engagements. On one such occasion, Jay was chosen to speak at a Chemical Bank seminar, and it was there that he met a young attractive girl by the name of Anne Friedman. Anne found Jay to be a wonderful speaker, charismatic and kind. She also thought he was quite the intellectual. Anne introduced herself to Jay afterwards, and the two became good friends. In the following years, their friendship blossomed into a wonderful and romantic courtship, and, as fate would have it, they fell in love. On September 27, 1998, Jay and Anne became husband and wife, with a small, intimate wedding in Napa Valley, California.  

The newlyweds settled in the upper East side of Manhattan. In 2001, while residing in New York City, the couple welcomed the birth of their twins, Kendal and Stephen. When their children were about six years old, the family moved to the Smoke Rise community in Kinnelon, NJ, where they still reside. Jay loved his community and the life he was able to build. As an active member of his community, he served as treasurer of the Smoke Rise Board of Directors for more than ten years, and he was also part of the historical restoration of the Smoke Rise Chapel.

Jay also had an adventurous side: he was an avid golfer, occasional skier alongside his wife, snorkeler, race driver, and world traveler. Whether for business or vacation, Jay treasured traveling to destinations such as Chile, Argentina, Columbia, France, Italy, England, Ireland, Malta, and Spain, as well as many places across the US. He loved music, sometimes just listening and, other times, singing along. He was also quite handy and loved to work with his hands, whether that meant sitting down to build Legos with his kids or fixing up things around the house. He loved his sports and always enjoyed cheering on his favorite teams, the New York Yankees and the Dallas Cowboys, with his son, Stephen. He loved sharing snacks with his daughter, Kendal, and savoring the delicious treats that his wife and daughter often baked. One of his most treasured pastimes was going out to the movies with his wife, Anne, just about every weekend. He also adored each and every one of his pets; they brought the biggest smiles to his face.

Aside from all of Jay’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jay than providing for and spending time with his wife and children. He was a truly devoted father, supporting his children through everything, in every way that he could. He was involved in every aspect of their lives, from first steps to college graduation. He adored them, and he could not have been more proud of who they have become. Jay and Anne were more than partners, they were best friends, soulmates, cherishing more than twenty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together.  

Jay was a kind and thoughtful man, a true gentleman. His selflessness and generosity were his greatest assets. He was charming and had a wonderful charisma about him. Jay was a proficient public speaker, so it was no surprise that he had the ability to captivate an audience of any age with his skill to tell a story. He was a pillar in his community and was sincerely loved by everyone that knew him.  

Jay will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father and a well-respected, well-loved member of his community and profession. Jay touched the lives of many people and will be truly missed by his family, friends, and his colleagues.      

Jay is survived by his wife Anne (nee Friedman) of Kinnelon, NJ, his daughter Kendal Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his son Stephen Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his brother David Simmons and his wife Donna of Little River, SC, two nieces: Kiera Prior and Karen Bond, one nephew Kevin Simmons, and his sister-in-law Stephanie Friedman. He was predeceased by his parents, John and Olga Simmons.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jay’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Dennis John Paduch, age 75, of Wayne passed on Wednesday October 18, 2023. He’s lived in Wayne since 1978.

Dennis was born to Walter and Marie Paduch (Oliva) of Passaic where he attended Passaic high school. After high school, Dennis joined the United States Navy and served for six years during the Vietnam War. After being honorably discharged in 1973, he began a career with Verizon Telephone. He worked for Verizon as a special operations technician for 33 years.

Dennis was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He was an avid hunter and fisherman since the age of 13. As a young boy, he enjoyed hunting and fishing with his three neighbors: Maxey, Donald and Tutti.  As an adult, you could find him hunting and fishing on his property in upstate New York, or taking his Bassboat out on Lake Hopatcong, Greenwood Lake, or York Lake in Sullivan County. When he was not hunting or fishing, you could find him watching the Giants game, or partaking in carpentry, as he was a master carpenter, having built many beautiful structures both in his home in Wayne and on his property in upstate NY.

Dennis met his wife Joanne while they were both working for Lummos Engineering. Joanne was an engineer assistant and Dennis, working for Verizon, was contracted to install new phone systems in the building. Joanne was carrying a coffee to her boss when Dennis backed out of the closet, causing her to spill the coffee and burn her hand! Despite the resulting mess and Joanne’s injury, Dennis was smitten. He asked his friend Paulie if he should ask Joanne for a date, but he was concerned because she looked very young. Paulie was bold and simply asked Joanne to see her driver’s license to confirm, and Dennis asked her out! They went on their first date at a local bar and the rest was history, dating for a short while before marrying on January 28, 1978.  Dennis and Joanne’s marriage was blessed with one daughter, Danielle. They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage for 45 years.

Dennis is survived by his wife Joanne Paduch (nee Trabucco), their daughter Danielle Paduch and son in law Sean Roe of Wayne, granddaughter; Skyla Roe of Wayne, sister Darlene Tursi and husband Robert Tursi of Keansburg, NJ and sister Gail Trent of Evington, VA, along with many nieces and nephews.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Cecilia M Kelnhofer-Feeley, age 54 of Wayne, NJ.

Cecilia passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 18, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

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Susan Walker Weiss, age 86 of Wayne, NJ and East Longmeadow, MA died Tuesday, October 17, 2023 after a long illness.

Sue grew up in Clifton, New Jersey, graduating high school from Benedictine Academy in Paterson. She received a Bachelor of Arts Degree from Barnard College and later earned a Masters Degree in Religious Studies from Union Theological Seminary in New York.

After graduating from Barnard, Sue married Fred Weiss and they enjoyed over 50 years of marriage. Along the way, Sue had four children, Kate, Ted, Peter and Al.

Sue and Fred moved to the Packanack section of Wayne after living for a short time on East 88th Street in New York City.  Sue attended Union Theological Seminary while raising her four children, graduating while she had two children in college, one in high school and one in middle school.

Sue was a devoted member of the Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church in Wayne, where she served as

Director of Religious Education, CCD teacher, RCIA Director, Eucharistic Minister and Lector.

Sue was the loving wife of the late Edward (Fred) Weiss; loving mother of Katherine “Kate” DiSabito and her husband David of East Longmeadow, MA, Edward “Ted” Weiss and his wife Katharine of San Francisco, CA, Peter Weiss and his wife Susan of Wayne, NJ, and Alfred Weiss and his wife Sarah of Forest Grove, OR.  Fourteen grandchildren, David DiSabito and his wife Liz, Anna Rosenthal and her husband Jason, Anthony DiSabito and his wife Katie, Joseph DiSabito, John DiSabito, Heather Weiss, Brian Weiss, Hunter Ryan and his wife Crystal, Colin Ryan, Thomas Weiss, Rose Weiss, Sophia Barbour-Weiss, Helena Barbour-Weiss and Irene Barbour-Weiss as well as three great grandchildren, Isabella, Tyler and David. She is also survived by her brothers, Alfred Walker and his wife Heather, Douglas Walker and his wife Nancy, her sister-in-law Joy Walker, wife of her late brother, Richard Walker, Willis "Bill" Walker and his wife Beth, and her brother-in law, Robert Weiss and his wife Anita. Also surviving Sue are numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider a donation to Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation in Sue’s name.

Roberta Place, 90, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Monday, October 16, 2023 in the comfort of her family.

Born at Paterson General Hospital, December 18, 1932, she was the loving, caring light of her family.

She graduated from Pompton Lakes High School where she was an enthusiastic cheerleader, and then went on to work for NJ Bell in Paterson. Her father, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Wayne Fire Company #1 at the time, and “Bobbie” volunteered at the fire company’s Parish Oval fairs. It was there she met her sweetheart and future husband, Clarence “Buddy” Place, who became her “Junie” and the love of her life. He gave her quarters to play the games, and so their life together began.

They were married January 19, 1952, having their reception at the Old Peacock House. They moved into their first little apartment on Fairfield Road in Wayne, until one day her father saw a stove pipe going across the ceiling and said “you are not staying here”. Then commenced the building of their first home, right next to her beloved parents, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth. Later when Route 80 was established, both homes had to be moved across the street to a relative’s property. This became the beginning of many memorable backyard picnics, celebrations with family and friends, and the never forgotten “backyard family band”. Good times were had by all.

Roberta went on to work for Wayne Township in 1971 for the Records and Information (R&I) bureau, eventually becoming Secretary to several Police Chiefs. She also became a Special Police Officer and retired from the Wayne Police Department in 1990.

She worked part-time at the Hi-Ho Club, owned by close family friends, which was next to the old MacMoulding building where her father worked, and he would occasionally come by for lunch.

During their married life, Bobbie and her “Junie” enjoyed many happy times, and took many trips that included going to several islands and taking a cruise to Alaska. In 1974 they bought “the little house” in Seaside Park, NJ where they enjoyed many summers with family and friends. When they retired in 1990, they moved to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just around the corner. They spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time just relaxing together sitting on their front porch.

Bobbie was a lifelong Parishioner of Holy Cross Church in Wayne, and then of St. Catherine’s Church in Seaside Park.

Bobbie’s joy and shining light was her family. She was the family “glue”, selflessly never failing to call and make sure everyone was ok. Always a smile, a hug, and a good meal. “Nothing fancy!” she would say. “You get what you get!” And it was always delicious!

Bobbie and Buddy had two children, Robert and Susan, who they love and adore, and always helped when they could.

She is survived by her husband of 71 wonderful years, Clarence “Buddy” Place; her son Robert Place, daughter-in-law Patricia, granddaughter Krysti, and great-grandson Chase; her daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr.; granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; her sister Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and wife Laura, and their son Eric; nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew.

She has left a place in our hearts that no one else can fill, and we are so lucky to have had her as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, and friend. She had so much love for all of us and while she will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate her beautiful life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Moises Aviles, age 97, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 16, 2023.

Moises was born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, one of Juan and Dionisa (Camacho) Aviles’ ten children. He grew up in Puerto Rico until the age of 16 when he joined his older brother Pedro who had already moved to the Bronx, New York. Soon after, in 1945, Moises became a Merchant Marine serving as a seaman on the United States merchant ships. As a Mariner, Moises traveled extensively throughout the world.

Upon his retirement as a Merchant Marine, Moises returned to New York. Shortly thereafter, he met a beautiful young lady named Ernestine Alvarez. She also had come from Puerto Rico to New York and the two fell in love and soon married. For many years they lived in the Bronx where they raised their two children, Edward and Rosemary. Moises enjoyed a career with the New York City Transit Authority that spanned twenty-five years until his retirement in 1991. The funny sidenote to his retirement occurred a whole year later when he got a call from the Transit Authority informing him that they found a glitch in his employment records and that, in order to keep his pension, Moises had to come to work for one more day. Obliging the technicality, Moises reported for work and promptly announced “If anyone needs me, I’ll be across the street at the bar.”  With full-time work behind him, he and Ernestine moved to Wayne, NJ where they remained to the present.

One of Moises’ favorite places to be, was in the kitchen where he could fully hone his culinary skills. He was known for the delicious sauces that he made. They tasted so good with some nice pasta and a glass of fine wine. Moises whole family benefited from his love of cooking and one of their favorite recipes was his sweet potato pie. Moises also enjoyed working in his yard. He kept his lawn in meticulous condition and, when his grandsons came over to cut his grass, he expected nothing but the straightest of lines. He believed that no wild animals should be allowed in his yard because, as he liked to say, “They didn’t pay any rent.” Consequently, those humane HavaHart traps were employed to safely remove them from his yard. In spite of his disdain for the squirrels, chipmunks and bunnies, Moises had a soft spot for the ducks which he fed on a daily basis. One particular duck took a real liking to Moises so, when he would go on his daily walks through the neighborhood to catch up on the gossip, that duck always walked behind him.  

While traveling wasn’t frequent in later years, Moises and Ernestine did enjoy occasional trips to Florida and Puerto Rico to visit family. Older age led to an increasingly mellower demeaner for Moises and along with that came an increasing love and admiration for his three grandsons and six great-grandchildren. He loved spending time with them and he always had some cash in his pocket to spoil them.

Practical to a fault, blunt and to the point, Moises had a knack for sarcasm, but it was his sarcasm that made him so endearing and frankly, it’s one of the reasons he will be so missed by his family and friends. He will also be missed for his great stories about his experiences as a Merchant Mariner and with his job with the Transit Authority. Most of all, he’ll be missed for his mere presence.

Moises was the beloved husband of Ernestine and much-loved father of his late son Edward (1995) and late daughter Rosemary Aviles-Cruz (2017); cherished grandfather of: Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; adoring great-grandfather of: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; precious great-uncle of Rebecca Colon of Englewood; and dear godfather of Christopher Nelles. Moises was also predeceased by his nine siblings.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Moises’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To make a donation by mail, please click here to print out mailable donation form

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Moises Aviles.

Patricia Ann Blewitt (nee Scott) of Wayne, NJ, age 76, passed away on Saturday, October 14th, 2023.

Patty was born in Rochester, NY to Marjorie Jackson and Kelly John.  Weeks later she was adopted by Edith and Bill Scott who soon moved to Long Island, NY.  After living there briefly the family moved to Glen Olden, PA, for two years before finally settling in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne Township, NJ.  Except for two years spent living in Skyline Lakes, NJ, with Kevin, Patty resided in Wayne for the rest of her life.

After graduating from Wayne HS (class of ‘65) Patty decided to pursue her dream of becoming a beautician.  She went to school, got her license, and found her dream job at Joe Paternos Beauty Shop in Kinnelon, NJ.  After working there for ten years Patty grew discouraged, was tired of being on her feet all day and decided to make a change.

Several of her friends were school bus drivers and they persuaded her to give it a try.  Patty liked the challenge and said, “Could I really drive that big bus around without hitting anything?”  Well, it turns out she could and for the next 32 years she could be seen driving her bus around Wayne and the surrounding towns, driving to the schools, sporting events, and school trips.  She especially loved signing up for trips to the circus at the Meadowlands where the teachers always made sure the drivers got into see the show.  She loved the clowns!  Patty retired from the Wayne Board of Education in 2009.

Patty enjoyed many things in her life, most sports, gardening, music, especially mo-town, she loved anything by The Temptations, playing her piano(she was an expert), reading music, and also loved the oboe.  She especially loved swimming, loved the ocean, and many days spent on the beach at “The Hook”(aka Sandy Hook State Park) where the life guards always had to wave her in because she had swam too far out.

Patty loved all animals especially her dogs. Between herself, Kevin and their two boys they raised six all together, all German Shepherds, all female, and all brought home between 8 – 10 weeks old.  All predeceased her, Mona, Samantha, Coyote, Katie, Abbey and Hannah.  They gave her so much joy.

Since a young age Patty knew she was Native American but had no idea of her family history.  Although adoption records were sealed Patty was determined to find out about her past.  After extensive research and a little luck Patty found that her biological parents were both enrolled members of the Seneca Nation of Indians.  When this was verified Patty was invited to become an enrolled member.  She applied and was accepted, and along with her two sons became enrolled members, thus enabling them all to enjoy the many benefits the Nation has to offer for the rest of their lives.  Patty was now complete, her search was finally over and she could now relax and enjoy her heritage in which nothing else gave her more joy.

Survived by her loving husband of 43 years, Kevin, of Wayne NJ, her son Patrick of Steamburg NY, and her son Nicholas of Wayne NJ.

Also survived by a sister Sal,(Bob)Nelsen of Westbrook, MN.

Also survived by sister in-law Katie,(Blase) of Wayne, NJ.  Brother in-law Joseph,(Racie) of Siesta Key, FL.  Sister in-law Maureen,(Rick) of Caldwell, NJ.  Brother in-law Michael,(Christina) of E. Patchogue, NY.  Sister in-law Laura,(Tom) of Syracuse, NY.  Brother in-law Daniel,(Ofie) of Lincoln Park, NJ.    Sister in-law Ellen,(Jim) of Myrtle Beach, SC.   Sister in-law Ginny,(Ed) of St. Louis, MO. Sister in-law Mary Anne,(Chuck) of Pompton Plains, NJ, and brother in-law Tony Dapolito of Wayne, NJ.

She is also survived by 32 nieces and nephews whom she all loved dearly.

Patty was predeceased by both of her biological parents Marjorie and Kelly, her adoptive parents Edith and Bill Scott, her brothers Bill and Ralph, sister in-law Sharen Scott of Australia, sister in-law Christine Dapolito of Morristown, NJ, and niece Andrea Morelli of Syracuse, NY.

The family would like to thank the ICU staff at St. Joes Hospital in Paterson, NJ for the kindness and care of Patty in her final weeks.Also the staff at Morristown Medical Center for all the care and support they gave Patty these past few months.

And the family can not forget the kindness and extreme support that was given to Patty at her favorite place to stay, “The Chilton Hilton” as she liked to call it.  Over the past several years Dr. Rappaport and his staff have shown such great understanding and excellent care for all of her stays there.  Words can not express our gratitude.  Thank you Dr. Rappaport.

And finally to Patty's private nurse, Maria, who was provided to her by the Woodland Park Dialysis Center where Patty began her dialysis treatments.  Maria, you are a true guardian angel.  With your help, understanding, and extreme kindness, Patty was able to manage her weekly treatments and then with your training was able to do the treatments at home.  It made it so much easier on her these past several years.  Without your care Maria, none of that would have been possible.  Thank you so much.

Rosemarie J. Manza, age 85 years, passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 14, 2023, surrounded by her loving family at her home in Wayne, NJ.  Born on May 10, 1938, in Clifton, NJ. She was oldest daughter of the late Daniel and Josephine LaBrie.

Mimi, as she was affectionately named by her brother, Joseph who could not say Rosemarie when he was younger, grew up in Queens, NY, she attended Saint Mary’s Winfield school and later graduated from All Saints High School.

Mimi’s first job was working at Kraft Foods.  It was here that Mimi made several dear friends that to this day remain cherished.  Once Mimi married, she became a homemaker and made her husband and her children, her everything.

Mimi was devoted to her husband, her family, and her faith.  She was a great cook, reminding her family every chance she got that she learned to cook from her “Irish” Mother-in-Law.  She loved preparing Sunday dinners at her house for her family and all who gathered at the holidays to enjoy her hospitality and Italian traditions.  She loved celebrating holidays, birthdays, and special events at home.  She was the best party planner and the most gracious hostess.  Mimi enjoyed decorating her home and making it comfortable for all who entered.  Mimi enjoyed traveling having been to Bermuda, Saint Croix, St. Maartin, and Italy but the greatest of her travels was to the Catskills Mountains with her family.  Mimi and her family vacationed there for many years and after the kids were on their own, her and Michael continued to enjoy the mountains vacationing in Wyndam, NY.  Her laugh was infectious and made you laugh just hearing it.  Mimi was one of the founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church.  Her Catholic faith was especially important to her.

Mimi met the love of her life, Michael, while both of their families vacationed in the Catskill Mountains.  Michael’s family came from Brooklyn and Mimi’s from Queens, and they became fast friend.  Michael was 13 years old, and Mimi was 10 years old.  Their relationship grew over the years, and they married April 25, 1959, at Saint Bernardo Church in Queens, NY and honeymooned in Lake Placid, NY.  They made their home in Brooklyn, NY and in December of 1964, they bought their first home in Wayne, NJ.  Mimi and Michael’s marriage was blessed with three children: Michael, Helen, and Kim.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-four years.

Mimi is survived by her husband, Michael, her children Michael Manza, and his wife Kathryn (Lincoln Park), Helen Kueck and her husband Rudy (Wayne) and Kimberly Ann (Wayne); along with two grandchildren Nicole and Zachery.  Mimi is also survived by her brother Joseph and his wife Marie, and several nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Jennie Christina Hosier, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home and with her loving family by her side, on Saturday, October 14, 2023.

Jennie was born and raised in Paterson, the second of James and Josephine (Stanzio) Jarvis’ three children. She attended Paterson’s Central High School and worked at Yardley of London, maker of personal care and beauty products, in Totowa. She was employed there for ten years after high school and then Jennie went to work as a factory line worker at Hoffman LaRoche in Nutley for another twenty years before retiring in 1994. During all the years she worked fulltime, Jennie also managed to raise five children, albeit with a little help from some friends as well as her older children helping to care for the younger ones.  

Jennie was the devoted and truly loved wife of Norman Hosier. They met for the first time when Norman came home from U.S. Navy service, only to discover that Jennie, this beautiful seventeen-year-old, had moved in next door to Norm’s parents at 147 Garfield Ave. in Paterson. Wasting no precious time, Norm asked Jennie to go out with him and the chemistry was just right. They fell in love and married just three weeks before Jennie’s eighteenth birthday on Saturday, September 16, 1950 at Pascack Reformed Church in Park Ridge. After a reception in the family’s home, Jennie and Norman jumped into his light green Nash and headed for Sarasota Springs, NY for a heavenly honeymoon.

Married life began on the first floor of the home at 147 Garfield Avenue that Norm grew up in. Jennie and Norm shared the apartment with his parents. It was there that they were blessed with the first of their five children, a baby girl which they named Deborah. They eventually moved next door into Jennie’s parent’s home in which they had an apartment upstairs, all to themselves. There, they were blessed with two more baby girls, first Janice and then Norma Jean. From there they moved to Genessee Ave. in Paterson where baby boys Norman, Jr. and James were born. In 1962, they moved to their present home in Wayne.  

One of Jennie’s favorite pastimes was bowling. She bowled for many years in various houses in the area. In the 1970’s she bowled at Little Falls Lanes where she sported a 156 average and at the Garden Place Lanes in Clifton where her average was 151. She also bowled at Astro Bowl and at the Brunswick Lanes in Bellville where she bowled in the Hoffmann LaRoche League. Jennie instilled a great love of bowling in her children by taking them to Leisure Lanes in Fairfield. Her son James especially took a love to the game and eventually went pro.  

Jennie’s greatest love was for her family. She and her husband Norm made sure to supply their children with a great upbringing filled with fun and special memories. They enjoyed annual tent camping trips and vacations every summer for a week down the Jersey Shore where Jennie especially loved to go crabbing. Jennie was a longtime member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne, and she saw to it that her children dressed in their Sunday best for church each week and that they all attended Sunday school. She herself enjoyed her weeknight bible studies at the church. She loved an impeccably clean home and she left the cooking to husband Norm. Instead, she found great satisfaction in knitting and crocheting scarves, mittens, hats, and afghans for her children and much-adored five grandsons. She loved those boys, felt very close to them and enjoyed favoring them with little acts of love to spoil them. The only thing she never did was babysit them. Her philosophy was always, “I raised mine, now you raise yours.”

In between work and family, Jennie enjoyed working outside in her gardens and enjoying the company of her two favorite pooches – miniature poodles named Misty and Minka.

Jennie could best be described as feisty and outspoken. She was also very loving and, if she liked you, she’d give you the shirt off of her back if you needed it. Her mere presence will be dearly missed by her family and friends. Rest in peace Jennie!      

Jennie was the beloved wife of Norman, blessed in marriage for 73 years. She was the proud and loving mother of five children: Deborah LaSala and husband William of Wantage, Janice Nolan and husband Thomas of Pompton Plains, Norma Jean Johnson and husband Scott of Newton, Norman Hosier, Jr. and wife Maryrose of Newton, and James Hosier of Wayne; adoring grandmother of five grandsons: Jason Grieves, Billy LaSala, the late Christopher Grieves (2007), Michael Hosier and Matthew Hosier; dear aunt of several nieces and nephews and four great grandchildren. Jennie was also predeceased by her sister Rose McAteer and her brother Sonny Jarvis.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jennie’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attention Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Martin E. Laschet, “Marty”, of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on Friday, October 13th, 2023, at the age of 93.

Marty was born and raised in New York City, where he was married to his wife, Ann, and had four beautiful children. In 1964 the family moved to the Pines Lake community in Wayne, New Jersey.

He was a U.S. Army veteran serving before the outbreak of the Korean War. He worked and retired from Bendix Aviation as an electronics technician until 1996. His accomplishments include working on the electronics systems on the STS-1 for the Space Shuttle, for which he received commendation.

Martin was always quick with a joke and had an interesting sense of humor to all that knew him. He would always listen to what you had to say, give advice, and his honest opinion (whether you wanted it or not).

He was a proud member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fairfield Golden Agers. He loved to travel with his family as well as with the Golden Agers. He would often tell stories of his travels to anyone who would listen.

Marty was predeceased by his loving wife, Ann, in 1999 and is survived by four children: Carol Porcelli of Whiting, NJ, Martin and his wife Kim of Middletown, NY, Joan and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and Donna and her husband Chuck of Surprise, AZ, six grandchildren: Liam and his wife Jennifer, Terrence and his wife Janine, Laura, Daniel, Bobby, and Justin, and five great-grandchildren: Aiden, Jackson, Lina, Gavin, and Riley, a sister Margaret, and a brother Raymond. Marty was also predeceased by his grandson, Seamus, and by his brother Edward.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Marty’s memory would be appreciated to Valley Hospice, 15 Essex Rd, Paramus, NJ 07652.

Brooks Scholz, age 95, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 11, 2023, surrounded by her family.

Brooks was born and raised in Shelby , NC by her parents Edna Lequeux Dennis and Carol Dennis.  She attended Furman University for 1 year.

Then she married Fred Whitener and  moved to Durham NC  in 1951,for his job at Duke University, where they raised 3 daughters.  This is where she became such an avid fan of Duke football and basketball teams.  She often got to travel with the team and was their loudest cheerleader.

Brooks worked as a secretary at Duke in the Psychiatric Department for a period of time.

In 1964 they moved to Franklin Lakes, NJ.

In New Jersey she later worked at Valley Hospital in the admitting Department for many years and later as Head of admitting at Fair Lawn Memorial Hospital.

Brooks owned a hair salon in Franklin Lakes called Shear Expressions and had many friends from there.

She met and fell in love with Bob Scholz in 1973 and they were never apart after that first dance. They loved to dance and even won dance contests, sometimes with their grandchildren cheering them on.

She had a charming Southern accent and loved to entertain especially at Christmas when she hosted a large family gathering. She always dressed as a witch on Halloween, and all the neighborhood kids loved it.

She remained an avid Duke basketball and football fan from her years in Durham, and would call her daughters to tell them when there was a Duke game on TV to make sure they were watching it. She still yelled the loudest.

She loved her many (many, many!!) cats. 

She is survived by her daughters, Lynn Brescia of Wayne, Mary Brooks Holmgren of Wayne, Claire Shaw and Ike, of Florissant Co., and stepson Carter Scholz of California. Her grandchildren Noelle Brescia of Wayne, Rachel Brooks Lauretta and Danny of Wayne, Bjorn Holmgren and Sunshine of Wantage, and Crystal Shaw and Joseph of Colorado Springs. Her great-grandchildren, Isabella Brooks Lauretta, Emily Lauretta, Chase Lauretta of Wayne, and Shylynn Sinio of Colorado Springs.

Predeceased by her husband Robert Scholz, her son in law Bob Ricker Jr, her brother Carol Dennis and her beloved grandson, Joshua Holmgren.

She has many nieces and nephews in North Carolina. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to PATCH ( Pet Adoption Through Caring Hands) in Pompton Lakes, N.J.

Charles W. Kelly, age 90, of Cedar Crest, NJ passed away Wednesday, October 11, 2023, peacefully in his sleep, just weeks after celebrating his 90th birthday.

Charlie was born to Maude and William Kelly of Orange, NJ. After he graduated from Montclair State College, he continued his higher education at Brooklyn College, New York University, and Columbia with Graduate Studies in recreation.

Mr. Kelly will be remembered locally as the beloved Director of Parks and Recreation of Wayne, NJ, where he was instrumental in starting many community programs, and developed a sense of family within the department. These programs continue today, helping Wayne to become recognized as one of New Jersey’s best places to live.

Charlie proudly served in the US Marines from 1951-54 as a Staff Sargent and a Flight Crew Chief. He was a decorated Korean War Veteran receiving a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart for his heroic and distinguished service. He was the sole survivor of an airplane crash, and walked across enemy lines, at night, for almost two weeks before being rescued by Turkish forces.

Charlie was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He always had a great sense of humor, and never missed a chance to good-naturedly poke fun at friends and family. He enjoyed golf, tennis, boating, and spending time in Lake Bomoseen, Vermont. He loved playing bocce with his team, “The Mighty Geezers”, with his wife, and friends. He held court wherever he was at Cedar Crest, and knew almost everyone, staff included, by first name.

He is predeceased by his parents, William and Maude, and his brother, William. He is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Joan Kelly, his daughters, Joyce Kardux and Jo Ann Bigsby, his son Rick Kelly, their spouses, his stepsons John and Jim Wickes, stepdaughter, Jennifer Ullman, and their spouses, thirteen grandchildren, and his former wife.

Donations can be made to the United States Marine Corps Wounded Warriors.

Stasia Elizabeth Skula, age 105 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, October 8, 2023 at home surrounded by loving family members and friends.

Stasia was born in Passaic to parents Joseph and Catherine Siwiec before moving to Wallington, NJ. She was the second of six  children. With both of her parents being immigrants from Poland to the United States, they had to work hard to feed so many mouths. This meant that Stasia and her siblings each had responsibilities with house-hold chores that they diligently kept up with. As a result, she and her siblings all became so close with one another that they created lasting relationships for the rest of their lives.

Stasia met her husband Emil after her sister Albina introduced the two. They found themselves falling in love and were married on December 29, 1940. Stasia and Emil found an apartment together, but in 1944 Emil was drafted into the United States Navy during World War II. Not knowing how long Emil would be gone and faced with the stark contrast of an empty home compared with her household of eight growing up, Stasia quickly made the decision to temporarily move back in with her siblings. Fortunately, Emil was able to return from the war a year and a half later and the two decided it was time to start a family together.

Stasia and Emil were blessed with three children: Emil Richard in 1946, Robert in 1948, and Debra Catherine in 1959. Stasia wanted her children to have a good education and a close relationship with God so Emil Richard and Robert were enrolled in St. Mary’s Grammar School for their education. Stasia belonged to St. Mary’s Church while they lived in Rutherford, and she even volunteered in the lunchroom there. Although her volunteer work was ultimately for altruistic reasons, Stasia did make use of her position by making sure her kids all ate their veggies and avoided the all-too-tempting sweets.  

In 1959, God blessed Stasia with a daughter, Debbie. Debbie was diagnosed with Down syndrome and therefore required special attention. Stasia did all of that and more for her and the two quickly became inseparable. It was a major responsibility taking care of Debbie, but it was a labor of love for Stasia, and Debbie was a great helper and companion and brought her much joy. In 1960, Stasia and Emil realized that their expanded family needed a home to match them. They decided to build their dream home together in Packanack Lake, customizing everything from the layout and architecture all the way to the landscaping and everything in between. They made Wayne their home and became parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.

In 1982, Stasia lost the love of her life when Emil passed. Her close relationship with her family helped guide her through that challenging time. Her sisters also lost their respective loved ones, and it was  their relationship with God and one another that helped them get through those tough times. They went on to travel the world: Aruba, Florida, Poland, Las Vegas, and California were just a few of the places they explored and enjoyed.

Stasia will be remembered for her patient, independent, and strong character (she drove her car until she was 100 years old!). She loved to host parties and cook everything from standard American food to stuffed cabbages and pierogies. And, she was an avid gardener.  She was loving and held her family, her relationship with God, and her responsibilities as a homemaker and caregiver above all else. She took care of Debbie her whole life and made it one that Debbie loved. They had a mutual respect and understanding for one another that could only come from a lifelong bond. The two loved to shop, go to Atlantic City and play the slot machines, and vacation at the Jersey Shore over in Chadwick Beach. They were best friends until Debbie’s untimely passing in 2021.

Stasia is survived by her two children: Emil Richard Skula, Esq.,  and Robert Skula; and her four grandchildren: Joseph E. Skula, Steven R. Skula M.D., Robert E. Skula, and Thomas Skula.

She is predeceased by her husband Emil Skula; her daughter Debbie Skula; her parents: Joseph Siwiec, and Catherine Siwiec; and her siblings: Sophia Kerr, Albina Bulanda, Josephine Kocsis, Jean Popek, and Louis Siwiec.  

If you are unable to attend the funeral mass at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, a livestream will be available at the following link: Immaculate Heart of Mary Church

Joan P. Stappenbeck, age 79 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, October 6, 2023, surrounded by her loved ones. She fought a very brief but courageous battle with cancer.

“Joanie,” as she was affectionately known by everyone, grew up in Teaneck and graduated from St. Francis High School in Ridgefield Park. She was born a twin with her brother, Tommy, and she was one of ten children born to Haywood and Katherine Morrow. As a young woman, Joanie did some modeling in New York City, something she remained very proud of throughout the years.

In the late 1990’s, Joanie met Robert Stappenbeck. They enjoyed a first date at The Crows Nest in Hackensack, and romance blossomed. After courting for a few years, they were married on November 11, 2005 and settled in Wayne. They had a lot of fun together and particularly enjoyed live music. They’ve seen Johnny Mathis, Bobby Rydell, Paul Anka, Engelbert Humperdinck, Frankie Avalon, the Beach Boys, and many more. They visited Atlantic City often and Joanie always seemed to get lucky playing the slots! Whether it was going out to a show, sharing good times with their friends, or dining at Gianna’s Restaurant in Carlstadt, they have had over twenty years of fun and Bob will miss her dearly.

Joanie was also a great baker and would bake her signature crumb cake for everyone. Her father, a loyal RED SOX fan, forbid his children from being YANKEES fans, so Joanie was a NY METS fan her whole life. Of course, there was nothing that brought Joanie more joy than her granddaughter, Caitlin. She would FaceTime with Caitlin every day and the two of them are very close. Caitlin is the light of her life and they will miss each other very much.

Joanie is survived by her devoted husband Robert of Wayne, her two children; Cheryl Giroux of Massachusetts, and Andrea Hayes and her husband Alex of Maryland, her beloved granddaughter; Caitlin McKenzie Hayes of Maryland, two stepchildren; Linda DeFelice and her husband Larry of Lyndhurst, and Scott Stappenbeck of West New York, six siblings: Eileen Ippoloti (John) of W. Milford, Richard Morrow of Hackettstown, Kevin Morrow (Patricia) of Waldwick, Daniel Morrow (Margaret) of California, Michael Morrow (Debra) of Monroe, NY, and Kenneth Morrow (Cindy) of Virginia, as well as many loving nieces and nephews. Joanie was predeceased by her infant son, Brian, by her brother John Morrow (1979), by her twin brother Tommy Morrow (2022), and by her sister Anne Scheidecker.

Recently, Joanie received the most compassionate care imaginable from the nurses working with Valley Hospice. Therefore, in her memory, donations would be greatly appreciated to Valley Hospice by way of The Valley Hospital Foundation, 223 N. Van Dien Avenue, Ridgewood, NJ 07450.

Lucy Alfreda Piontkowski DAUM, age 95 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 after a long illness. She was married to Richard Daum for sixty-five years. They were parents to Jeffrey, Susan and Timothy, and her faithful friend Molly. She was predeceased by her parents Frank and Mary Piontkowski, her brother Stanley and her sisters Helen Anderson, Jennie Dzuiba, and Gene Kapchonick. She leaves behind several nephews and a niece.

Lucy graduated from Passaic Valley High School and Jersey City State Teachers College where she received her bachelor’s degree in education and also received her R.N. after graduating from Jersey City Medical Center. She was employed as an operating room nurse in Jersey City for several years. Following this, she was a school nurse in Little Falls. In the summer, she was a camp nurse at Camp Mitigwa in Rangely, Maine. It is here that she met Richard and they were married. She was also a camp nurse at Camp Wyoda in Vermont and at the Boy Scout camp; Camp Turrell, in New York. The remainder of her career was spent as a school nurse at Peter Cooper School in Ringwood.

Memorial contributions in Lucy’s name may be sent to Holy Cross Church, 220 Browertown Rd., Woodland Park, NJ 07424, or to the Fr. English Food Pantry, Paterson.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gerald Matthew Martin, age 70, of West Caldwell, NJ.  Gerald passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gerald was born in Queens, NY and was one of four children to Francis and Margaret Martin.  Those who knew Gerald best, came to know him affectionately as “Jerry.”  Jerry was living in Queens with his family until about the age of six years old when his family moved to the Lion’s Head section of Wayne.  It was in Wayne where Jerry would spend his formative years, attending Wayne Hills High School.

Following Jerry's graduation from high school with the class of 1971, he found work quickly in the drafting department at American Cyanamid in Wayne.  After working there for a couple of years, Jerry joined the team at New Jersey Bell employed as a Lineman.  New Jersey Bell eventually became Atlantic Bell and later Verizon.  Although Jerry worked in the company’s office for a short time, the bulk of his career was spent as a Lineman installing fiber optic cable.  He spent many an afternoon enjoying his lunch hours at the Haledon Pork Store.  One of his most memorable days at work was his “Bring Your Daughter to Work Day,” where Jerry got stuck in the bucket of his boom truck while his daughter Alyson patiently waited for her family to rescue her.  Jerry’s career as a Lineman spanned over a period of forty years.  During that time, he was truly well respected and loved by his colleagues and peers.  Jerry eventually retired in 2013.  He remained active in retirement occasionally consulting and helping his son Nicholas’ contracting business.  He was also an accomplished carpenter and worked on various projects while employed as a Lineman.  

He married his first wife Joyce Johnson in 1979.  The couple settled in Hawthorne and while residing there they welcomed the births of both their children, Alyson and Nicholas.  While his children were growing up, he also coached their soccer teams. Unfortunately, the couple split up.  Then in 2002 Jerry met the love of his life, Deborah Reynolds.  As fate would have it, they fell in love, got engaged in 2004 in Cozumel, then August 26, 2006, they became husband and wife. Jerry and Deborah, settled in West Caldwell and have been there ever since.  

Jerry and Deborah are both true animal lovers. They have had a total of 5 dachshunds at different times in their twenty-one and a half year relationship; the most they have had is three at the same time when they first met in 2002.  Presently, they share their home with "Remy", age 71/2.  Since Martin is Jerry's family name, it was a no-brainer adopting "Remy Martin"!

Jerry was a member of the Verizon Pioneers.  He also performed beach clean-ups at the Jersey Shore throughout the years with Bell Atlantic.  Jerry and Deborah treasured traveling to a number of exotic destinations.  Most all the destinations they travelled to included a beach.  They cherished cruising to places throughout the Caribbean and to Mexico including Riviera Mya.  They also loved tailgating together, never missing an NY Giants home game at the Meadowlands as they were season ticket holders.

Jerry was an “Old School” type of individual, having a close friendship with his barber in town.  For many years he stood as a pillar of strength in his neighborhood.  He was extremely proud of his Irish Heritage and devoutly celebrated St Patrick’s Day, and cherished listening to the bagpipes.  Jerry could always be found helping his neighbors, cutting their lawns, shoveling their snow, or lending a hand whenever needed.  He was extremely talented with his hands and could fix just about anything at all.  He loved listening to music and attending live concerts such as:  Bruce Springsteen, Billy Joel, Elton John, Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac and Credence Clearwater Revival, to name a few.

As a toddler, Jerry was an “Ivory Soap Baby”, frequently appearing in television   commercials and magazine ads.  When not helping his neighbors, Jerry could often be found washing and maintaining his cars.  One of his first and favorite cars was his brown Datsun 280Z.  Not only did Jerry enjoy maintaining his cars, but also his personal home/deck and his portable grill used while tailgating.  He was known to family and friends as the “Grill-master.”  In addition to being an expert griller, Jerry was also famous for his talent to cook an outstanding breakfast, particularly Pancakes and French Toast.  Although Gerry worked a lot with his hands, you would never know it because his hands and nails were always clean and incredibly soft.

Aside from all of Jerry's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jerry than providing for and spending time with friends and family.  Jerry and Deborah cherished seventeen years of loving and loyal marriage.

Jerry was a kind, gentle, and quiet man who truly loved his family.  He was loved throughout his community and his profession.  He had an understated humble personality and a wonderfully dry sense of humor that could bring a smile to anyone’s face. Jerry was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Jerry is survived by his wife Deborah  (nee Reynolds) of West Caldwell, NJ, his son Nicholas Martin of Sparta, NJ, his daughter Alyson Payerl and her husband Christopher of Sparta, NJ, two brothers; Bill Martin and his wife Janet of Franklin Lakes, NJ, and Jack Martin and his wife Debbie of Wayne, NJ, one sister Eileen Joyce and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and many nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents Francis and Margaret Martin.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Gerry’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing, Memphis TN 38105.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nina Leslie Gray, age 76, of Riverdale, NJ.

Nina passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 3, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Nina was born in the Bronx, NY on February 19, 1947 and was one of two children to Albert and Miriam Golubock.  She attended Queens College and pursued a successful career in marketing.  She settled in New Jersey and worked full-time along with raising her only child, Deena.  After retiring, Nina kept busy by doing what she truly enjoyed.

She treasured traveling to the casino to play her favorite game, Keno.  She also treasured shopping and spoiling her two grandchildren, Francesco and Antonia.  She frequented exotic destinations with her family, mostly by way of cruises, such as Bermuda, the Caribbean, and journeys to the Mediterranean.

Nina was quite a spitfire of a woman.  She was strong, independent, and not afraid to speak her mind.  She was a no-nonsense lady, and you always knew where you stood with her.  She was a sincerely classy lady who made sure she always looked her best before leaving the house, and this always included her cherished pieces of jewelry.  Those who knew Nina best, quickly realized that her greatest passion in her life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Nina than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.

Nina will be forever remembered as a loving mother and cherished grandmother.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Nina is survived by her daughter Deena Vincenti and her husband Frank of Woodland Park, two loving grandchildren Francesco Vincenti, Jr., and Antonia Vincenti both of Woodland Park, NJ, one sister-in-law Barbara Golubock of Suffern, NY, and two nieces; Rhona and Janis.  She was predeceased by her brother Harvey Golubock, and her parents Albert and Miriam Golubock.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Nina’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing,  Memphis, TN 38105.

Dino Christopher Vergano, age 97, of Wayne passed Monday, October 2, 2023.

He was born to Peter Dino and Mary (Savio) Vergano at the family home in West New York, NJ. He graduated from Memorial High School in West New York with the Class of 1944.

Dino worked from the age of seven on.  His first job was setting bowling pins at the local bowling alley and he delivered groceries for a small grocery store.  He enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps on April 13, 1944 and passed the tests to be a pilot, bombardier, and navigator for aircraft.  He did have one bad eye but memorized the eye chart so he could pass the vision test. He graduated Gunnery School and was honorably discharged on May 11, 1946.

Dino and Dolores had only one date together before he went off to serve in the US Army’s Air Corps. They corresponded by mail and when he came home from the war they fell in love. Dolores and Dino were married on June 4, 1950, at St Joseph of the Palisades Church in West New York and honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  They have had seventy-two years of a loving and devoted marriage before Dolores’ passing on November 11, 2022.

Under the GI Bill, Dino went to Brooklyn Polytechnical Institute and then to the Newark College of Engineering (now known as NJIT).  He attended school at night for twelve years having graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in May of 1959. Dino had a successful career specializing in the industrial Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning field. Through the years he has owned several companies in the HVAC industry and represented as many as twelve lines of equipment.  His family remembers him always being on the phone (not a cellphone but a wired land line) even when they were on vacation.  Along with the constant telephone calls he was forever in his car. He formally retired in 2013 at the age of eighty-eight.

Dino and his late wife Dolores were dedicated to their Catholic faith, and both were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. A small group founding the church would meet to worship on Sundays at the Schuyler Colfax School in Wayne prior to the completion of the church.  For many years Dino served as an Usher and Eucharistic Minister.

Some will remember Dino volunteering as a Little League baseball coach in Wayne.  He did this for several years during his son Chris’ youth.

Dino will be lovingly remembered as a truly remarkable individual exuding a quiet and personable nature that effortlessly drew people towards him.  With an innate charm and warmth, he possessed an extraordinary ability to make everyone he encountered feel valued and appreciated. Whether engaging in light-hearted banter or lending a listening ear, Dino had an uncanny knack for establishing genuine connections. His selflessness and genuine interest in others made him an all-around nice person, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to cross his path.

Dino was the loving husband of seventy-two years to the late Dolores (Ferris) Vergano (d. November 11, 2022); devoted father of Christopher Vergano and his wife Deneen of Wayne and Cynthia Vergano Brozuski of Oak Ridge and her late husband Chris (d. January 6, 2023); loved brother of the late Ernani Vergano (d. July 19,2021) and his wife Egidia of Attleboro, MA; he was the cherished grandfather of Kyle Vergano and his wife Jenna, Allison Vergano, and Gregory Brozuski and his fiancé Keira Logue.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Veronica Obringer (nee Bruder), age 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 1, 2023.

Veronica was born in Union City and lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne. After calling Wayne her home for many years, she moved to Cedar Crest Village in 2011 where she had been an active resident ever since.

After Veronica graduated from high school, she went to work in New York City where she got a job as a bathing suit wholesaler for Jantzen Swimsuits. She worked in the Empire State Building for seven years. She also worked as an aid in the Wayne School System helping handicapped children. Finally, she worked as a legal secretary for GAF Corp in Wayne.

Dancing was something that Veronica loved. She met a gentleman named Robert at a ballroom dance academy. They danced very well and very naturally together and, they subsequently fell in love and were married a short time later on April 7, 1951. After honeymooning in the Bahamas, they first settled in North Bergen where they were blessed with their two sons, Steven and Robert. They later moved to Wayne where they were blessed with their daughter Lynn. The area around Veronica’s home was a virtual playground. All of the neighborhood children would gather there to play. Veronica’s travels spanned the globe! She traveled throughout North America, took cruises to almost all the Caribbean islands, traveled abroad to all of Europe, China, Russia, Africa, and Patagonia. Closer to home when her kids were young, she was known for her spontaneity when traveling, whether it be when camping or even a trip to Disney World for a long weekend. Veronica was a devoted mother to her children and an adoring grandmother to her grandchildren. She was a parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes for many years.

Veronica is survived by her daughter Lynn Obringer and husband Joseph Petrick of Key West, Florida, two sons: Steven Obringer and wife Linda of Kinnelon, and Robert Obringer and wife Marlee of Pompton Plains; her cherished grandchildren: Katy and husband Andy, Steven and wife Crystal, Mary and husband Nate, Bobby and wife Jill, Heather and husband Rob; and her precious great-grandchildren: Emily, Ashley, Emma, Charlotte, Matthew, Ben, Hunter, Nolan, Vaughn, and Christie. She was predeceased by her husband Robert in 2005, her brother Bernard in 1973, and her sister Florence Waldy in 2017.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Veronica’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To mail a donation, click here  

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place,

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

UPDATE: Janet will be laid to rest with her husband at the Arlington National Cemetery on August 4, 2025.

Janet McLean Thompson (nee Steenstra), age 86 of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, September 27, 2023. She was a Wayne resident for more than fifty years.

Janet was born and raised in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1954. She was a Band Majorette and member of the Color Guard spending Saturday afternoons in the fall cheering on the Colts at Hinchliffe Stadium.

Janet met Jimmy Thompson as a teenager while they were both attending the First Presbyterian Church in Paterson and Jim played on Central’s football team.

After graduation, she began her career working for the telephone company. During this time, Jim had joined the military and was serving with the Army in Germany when he proposed to 19 year old Janet! With her father’s blessing, Janet traveled overseas (alone) and married Jim in Munich on August 4, 1956. They enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon there as well. Once Jim returned home, they married again for the benefit of their family and friends.

They bought their first home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they lived for 20 years before building a new home across town.

Eventually, Janet and her sister Clariss joined her father’s company, Steenstra Paper Products in Paterson. After her father’s untimely passing, Jim needed to step in and run the day to day business operations. Janet was at his side the whole time for over 25 years. They were a loving couple and Janet was utterly devoted to her beloved Jim. They always considered themselves lucky to work together at Steenstra Paper Products, and they loved being together each and every day. After Jim’s unexpected passing, Janet led the business for another 5 years until her retirement.

Together, they raised their two boys, James and Edward. Janet was a very involved and attentive mother. She was always supportive of her boys, attending their sporting events, scouting activities, band concerts, and school events. She and Jim were proud to attend Wayne Valley Marching Band competitions as well as football games at Muhlenberg College. She was an excellent cook and spoiled her loved ones with her baking.

During the 1970’s, at the urging of her high school friends Charlene Delvecchio and Maggie McMahon, Janet and Jim purchased several acres in the town of Cobleskill, NY. Jim worked alongside his close friend Jerry Delvecchio to design and build a country “cottage” on the property. Affectionately known as “The Farm”, Janet and her loved ones enjoyed countless trips to her second home over the past 50 years. This despite the home having neither electricity nor running water! These trips eventually included her grandsons where she would enjoy teaching them to play games such as Pokeno and Uno as well as dying easter eggs.

She was perhaps an even better YaYa, babysitting at every opportunity and spoiling her grandsons with love and hugs and lots of cookies. They will all miss her dearly.

In 2003, Janet moved to Oak Ridge where she lived on the fourth hole of Bowling Green Country Club. With the help of several close friends and neighbors, she quickly picked up the sport of golf and treasured her time on the greens.

Janet was fortunate to always have a large group of friends and she was very social. She played cards with her girlfriends often and loved playing tennis and golf over the years. Somehow, she also found time to tend to her garden or do needlework. She was very fond of her Dalmatians: Chequers, Chief and Mikey and considered them her other sons. Janet was blessed in many ways and her family will miss her presence.

Janet was predeceased by her loving husband, James(1994)and her parents, Edward Steenstra(1965) and Minnie(nee McLean) Steenstra(2006). She is survived by her loving sons: James and his wife Peggy of Seattle, Washington, and Edward and his wife Kathleen of Wayne, four adoring grandsons: McLean, James, Danny, and Matthew, one sister, Clariss Rock of W. Caldwell, and three loving nieces; Jocelyn Anderson, Cynthia Mizzone and Joanna Clarke.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Packanack Lake Fire Co. #5, 5 Lake Drive West, Wayne, NJ or the Alzheimer's Association.

In Loving Memory of Robert "Bob" Trent

Robert "Bob" Trent of West Milford, NJ passed away on Tuesday, September 26, 2023, at the age of 64. Born on July 4th, 1959, to Raymond and Eileen Trent, he grew up in Wayne, NJ alongside his sister Kathie. He brought warmth and laughter to the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Bob's life was a testament to his passion for mechanics which began in his high school automotive class working on his '67 Mustang fastback alongside his partner in crime, Ranger.  Not only did the Mustang get him into some trouble, it also helped capture the attention of Sharon, whom he later married. He dedicated his entire career to the world of engines and grease, working as a mechanic, where his expertise was unmatched. Not only did he cherish his fastback, but also his '67 Mustang convertible, '62 Falcon ranchero, and "Moe", his trusted backhoe.

Beyond his love for all things mechanical, Bob was a hardworking man who took pride in providing for his family. Bob and his wife Sharon raised two wonderful children, who were the pride and joy of his life. Bob is survived by his wife, Sharon; sister, Kathie and her husband Peter; son, Eric and daughter-in-law Ashley, and daughter, Amy and son-in-law Scott. His legacy extends to his role as a loving grandfather to Leah and Calvin.

As we mourn the loss of Bob, we also celebrate the beautiful life he lived and the love he shared. His memory will continue to live on in the hearts of his family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob's name are asked to consider donations to NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), 4301 Wilson Blvd, Suite 300, Arlington, VA 22203, be made in his memory.

Carol Cook, age 85 of Wayne, passed away on Monday, September 25, 2023.

Carol was born in Secaucus to Albert and Meta Wolf. She spent her childhood there and  attended Weehawken High School where she played basketball and graduated with the class of ’54. Carol loved being outdoors and spent her summers at Hockenberry’s Farm in Flemington, NJ. Carol loved it so much she returned with Paul and their children. They all share fond memories of making blackberry ice cream with fresh picked blackberries from around the farm grounds.

Shortly after Carol’s graduation from high school, she was introduced to Paul Cook on a blind date set up by her family. The two were set up to build her cousin’s garage together and Carol quickly became attracted to his patience and kindness. Not long after, the pair fell in love. They went for a drive down route 202 in Montville and Paul asked her to pick out a style of house that she liked so that he could build it for her. After purchasing property in Wayne, they built their home with the help of family and friends. The two were married on August 17, 1957, at St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, NJ. They went on a honeymoon canoe trip to the Adirondacks. The trip was so enjoyable, they decided to make it a tradition to go back every 5 years. Paul and Carol maintained this tradition until Paul’s untimely passing in 2002.

Carol and Paul’s loving marriage led them to start a family together. They had 3 children: Paul, Lorraine and Stacey.

Carol was a loving wife and mother who made fresh baked cookies for dessert. Her children have fond memories of coming in from playing outside to the smell of those fresh baked cookies. She worked hard for her family and returned to work after her youngest daughter Stacey started high school.

Hard worker she was, Carol brushed up on her stenography skills by transcribing sermons while in church. She was hired as an executive secretary at Lincoln Park Nursing Home where she worked for over twenty-five years.  Her kids joked that she had hieroglyphic notes strewn about because only she could understand them (they suspect that at least some of those notes included some jibes & barbs about them).

Carol loved gardening and is aptly referred to as the “weeding fairy” by her family because she would painstakingly remove every weed including its root system wherever she went.  She loved reading, knitting, and tending to her flowers.

Carol will be remembered as loving, caring, and kind. She was very strict but in a loving way that helped instill a strong work ethic and an attitude that you could accomplish anything if you set your mind to it. She led by example and found much of her strength of will from her relationship with God. Carol attended St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne every Sunday with her family and volunteered there in many ways: she taught Sunday school, worked in the nursery, helped with Heart & Hands Mission, knitting scarves for Seafarers, preparing quilts for those in need,  a member of WELCA, Adult Forum, church book club, bible study, and volunteered for Wayne Interfaith Network Food Pantry of which she became the President.

One of Carol’s proudest moments occurred just this past year on Mother’s Day. Paul, Lorraine, Stacey, Don and granddaughter Hannah all decided to come together from near and far to surprise her in church as one big family. It was a moment that Carol would bring up with pride to everyone, as a special moment together in the place that she loved and devoted her life to.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are encouraged to consider a donation to St Timothy’s Lutheran Church Pastor’s Discretionary Fund.

Donald B. Van Grouw, age 87, of North Haledon, died Sunday, September 24, 2023, at St Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson, following a hemorrhagic stroke on Thursday.  He passed into glory and exchanged the corruptible for the incorruptible and eternal life with his Savior Jesus Christ. (1Cor. 15:53-55)

He was born in the family home on 8th Street in Prospect Park to Bastian and Jeanette Van Grouw and raised at 258 Fairview Street in Prospect Park.  He graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1955. He attended The Cooper Union School of Art in New York City before marrying Gerda Aria den Hollander, his beloved wife of 62 years. Shortly thereafter he suffered the shock of his father’s unexpected death. The scripture, 1 Peter 5:7 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you” was a special comfort to him at this time.  

Donald worked as an apprentice at International Design in Paterson, soon moving to Burlington Industries where he became Managing Director of their Jacquard Art Studios in New York City until his retirement in 1998. He also served in the New Jersey National Guard for six years at the Teaneck Armory.

Donald was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Congregation in Franklin Lakes.  He served the church for forty-eight years as a deacon, Sunday School teacher, and an elder.  Donald was a longtime resident of Prospect Park before moving to Pequannock in 2001 and subsequently to the Holland Christian Home of North Haledon in 2022.  His lifelong passion was gardening and floral design, in which he saw many spiritual parallels.  Isaiah 40:8 “The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand forever.” He tended the gardens in Hofstra Park in Prospect Park for many years, receiving public awards and recognition for his volunteer community service. Among his flower beds he highlighted Bible verses so others could see not only natural beauty, but also consider the goodness and beauty of our Creator. He is remembered by family and friends as a generous, selfless and loving man who pointed us to Christ and led by his godly and devoted example.  

He is survived by his loving wife Gerda (DenHollander) Van Grouw; he was the devoted father of Bastian (Bob) Van Grouw (Amanda, Jason)  and his wife Irene of Vernon, Ellen Greendyk and her husband Paul of Pompton Plains (Philip, Eric, Julia, Aria), Kathleen Van Grouw of Riverdale, Donald Van Grouw and his wife Ellen of Wayne (Matthew), and Scott Van Grouw and his wife Lenora (Lora) of Pompton Plains (Katrina, Taylor, Jeremy, Annika, Eliza); Loved brother of Barbara Tanis and her husband William of Wayne; he was the great grandfather of ten great-grandchildren and many nephews and great nephews and nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

Josef Kneis - loving husband, father, Opa and Great Opa, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne on September 23rd, 2023, at age 94.

Joe was a simple and humble man in many ways, but he, along with his beloved wife, Sieglinde, who passed in 2020, made a remarkable impact on many lives - particularly those of his family, which includes 13 grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren (with more on the way).  

Born in Bakonyjako, Hungary, Joe was the youngest of 9 surviving children. After losing 4 brothers in WWII, Joe was left at a young age to tend the family farm with his sisters. Forced to leave Hungary following the Russian occupation of the country, he was sent to East Germany, thereafter escaping to the west, and settling in Munich, West Germany, where he met the love of his life, Sieglinde. They married and emigrated to the U.S. in 1955, in search of opportunity. After briefly residing in Haledon, they settled in Wayne, where they lived together for 62 years and raised a family, prior to Sieglinde’s passing in 2020.

Initially working as a mason, Josef, in need of year-round work, took a job at the Ford automotive plant in Mahwah, where he worked in the Trim Department for 24 years, until the plant’s closing. He then took a maintenance position with Estee Lauder/Aramis in Oakland, NJ, where he worked until his retirement.

If Joe had a hobby, it was landscaping. Passersby often commented on how meticulously well-maintained his yard always was. If Joe had any enemies, they were certainly chipmunks or squirrels (see prior sentence).

Josef leaves behind four children – daughters Irene Riley (Tim – recently deceased) and Debbie Grant, and sons Walter Kneis (Debbie) and Michael Kneis (Clare), along with the aforementioned legacy of grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Cornelius “Neil” Southway, age 94 of Warwick, NY died on Saturday, September 23, 2023.

Neil was born at home on Brown Avenue in Prospect Park, NJ just a few months before the Stock Market crash of 1929. He was the oldest of five sons born into his family, with one of them passing away as an infant. As a teenager, Neil began working as a painter with his uncle before finishing high school. Times were tough and he did what was necessary to help support his family. Soon he found himself drafted into the U.S. Army, serving during the Korean War. Upon returning to civilian life, Neil carried with him a heavy PTSD burden that remained with him throughout his lifetime. As a result, he resolved never to marry. He focused on his life’s work and became a skilled craftsman and a master of many trades, including masonry, carpentry, and cabinet making. He could build anything, fix anything, and was the handiest guy you could ever hope to have around. Family and friends alike would frequently call on Neil for help, and he was always glad to be of service. He was well loved by all who knew him, a reliable friend, and generous almost to a fault.

In 2001, Neil was working on a project for a local green house when he met Jean Mol, a bookkeeper there. Neil was seventy-two years old when he mustered the courage to ask her out to dinner, and she accepted. Within a year, at the young age of seventy-three, Neil married for the first time. He and Jean enjoyed a honeymoon to Maine and then settled into a loving and supportive marriage of twenty-one years. He was simply a great guy who adored his wife, and Jean will miss him dearly.

Neil is survived by his wife, Jean (Mol) of Warwick, NY, his three stepchildren: Cindy Verblaauw and her husband Ed of Warwick, NY, Mark Prol and his wife Nina of Alpharetta, Georgia, and Andy Prol and his wife Lori of Medford, NJ, a brother; Howard Southway and his wife Eleanor of Rockaway, NJ, sister-in-law; Lena Southway of Pompton Plains, eight grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews that loved and respected him. Neil was predeceased by his brother Robert Southway and his wife Beatrice, and by his brother Peter Southway.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gail Kramer, age 84, of Wayne.

Gail passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 20, 2023 while in the presence of her family and Pastor.  She was born in Elizabeth, NJ, the older of two children to Emil and Dora Kuzsma.  While growing up, Gail attended St John's School in Mountain Lakes, NJ, and Westfield High in Westfield, NJ, where she graduated in 1956.  Following her graduation from Westfield High, she enrolled at Montclair State College where she earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in 1961.  After obtaining her degree, Gail taught at Dover High School.

While attending Montclair State Gail was introduced to a student at Stevens Institute by the name of Melvin Kramer.  The two went out on a blind date and hit it off, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on June 30, 1962.  Mel enlisted in the Army in December of 1961, and both she and Mel moved as the government saw fit, first spending time at Fort Dix New Jersey for basic training, then Lockport NY, at a military installation, and finally at Fort Belvoir, VA.  It was at Fort Belvoir where they welcomed the birth of their first son Brian.  After leaving the military they lived in Rutherford, NJ, for a bit before settling in West Paterson, NJ, where they purchased their first home.  While living in West Paterson, Gail and Mel welcomed their next three children into their lives, their sons Mark, James and Eric.  As their family grew, they moved again, this time to Wayne in 1977 where they have been ever since.

In her spare time, Gail was an avid reader.  However, her greatest passion in life was for her family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gail than spending time with and providing for her children.  While her children were school aged, Gail became a full-time homemaker and dedicated her life to caring for her husband and children.  She always cared about and enjoyed other people, working as a teacher early in her marriage, and as a practical nurse later on.  Gail and Mel cherished forty years of loving and loyal marriage until Melvin’s passing in 2016.

Gail was not only dedicated to her family and friends, but also to her Christian Faith.  She was a member of Wayne Presbyterian Church for many years, where among other things she was a co-leader in the church fundraising garage sale.  Some of her closest friends were from the church community.

Gail was a warm-hearted lady who was loved by everyone she met.  She will be forever remembered as a loving, kind, and compassionate person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She is survived by her son Brian Kramer and his wife Denise of New York City, her son Eric Kramer and his wife Julie of Honolulu, HI, her son Mark of West Milford, NJ, one sister Lynne Wagner of Rahway, NJ, two grandchildren Lili Kramer of Honolulu, HI, and Benjamin Kramer of New York City, three nephews; Brett, Shane, and Larry, and two nieces; Rita, and Hillary.  She was predeceased by her husband Melvin in 2016, and her son James in 2022.

Evelyn M. Boissonneault, age 91, of Butler, passed on Tuesday, September 19, 2023.

She was born to the late Rose and Victor Thibault in Acushnet, MA and raised in Island Park, Rhode Island.

Evelyn met Ray as he wanted to go fishing with his brother Leo and they spied a boat in Evelyn’s yard. They knocked on the door asking if they could borrow the boat and Evelyn immediately realized these two guys needed help with fishing as they were in dress clothes. Ray and Evelyn had a first date at a drive-in movie and instead of the normal popcorn they had a container of crab legs they ate in the car during the film.  They soon fell in love and married, when she was just eighteen years old at St. Anthony’s Church in Portsmouth, RI on August 26, 1950. After they married, they lived in Fall River, MA, Paterson, NJ, Lodi, NJ, before moving to Butler, NJ in 1964.

Through the years Evelyn has worked at St. George’s School in Paterson, NJ, and St. Joseph’s School in Lodi as a cafeteria worker. Evelyn worked the second shift in Paterson, the kids would be tended to by a babysitter as they waited for their dad to come home from work. She also worked at Maloney’s Machine Shop in Bloomingdale, Edo-Aire in Fairfield, and the Generant Company in West Milford before retiring in 1994.

Evelyn was dedicated to her Catholic faith and for many years attended St Anthony’s Church in Butler. Evelyn was an avid reader, she enjoyed reading novels of suspense and romance. Some of her favorite authors were Phyllis A. Whitney, Jean Anne Bartlett, and Mary Stewert among several others.   Evelyn also loved watching and listening to birds and reading books about them. Family was everything to Evelyn, she enjoyed having everyone around.  She had a spit-fire personality and did not possess the ability to sugar-coat anything.  She just said it as she saw it. She would go above and beyond to help anyone.  Evelyn will always be remembered as fun-loving, funny, accommodating to a fault, and will be most remembered for her kind, beautiful soul.

She was the loving wife of fifty-two years to the late Raymond Boissonneault (d. 2002); she was the devoted mother of Colleen Basile and her husband Mike of Lewes, DE, the late June Bardi (d. 2020) and her late husband Gary (d. 2006), Linda Miller and her husband Andy of Milton, DE, and Cheryl Roscoe of Butler; cherished grandmother of Michele Aldridge and her husband Chris of Salisbury, NC, Michael Basile and his wife Barbara of Bethel, CT, the late Jennifer Dey (d. 2006) , the late Jason Bardi (d. 2022), Heather Muckelston and Keith Hestermann of Forked River, NJ, Bryan Miller and his wife Bonnielee of Anchorage, AK, Christopher Miller and his wife Nicole of Chester, NJ, Danielle Roscoe of Butler, NJ, Nicole Beek and her late husband Robert (d. 2022) of Bloomingdale, NJ,  Tiffany Troup and her husband Mike of Bloomingdale, NJ, her sister the late Loretta Legre Goguen (d. 1993) and her brother the late Henry Thibault (d. 2005). She was dearly loved by twenty-one great grandchildren: Amber, Krista, Cameron, Thomas, Ana, Liam, Gabrielle, Benjamin, Teagan, Briar, Logan, Hayden, Hudson, Paisley, Hunter, Skyler, Ryleigh, Willow, Cedar, Charlotte, and Koda. One great-great-grandson: Luke.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be greatly appreciated. Evelyn truly enjoyed the time she spent, and the friends she made, at Shepherd's Haven Social Adult Day Center in Pompton Lakes, and your memorial donations would be very meaningful here. You can visit their website at www.shepherdshavennj.org, or mail your donation to: Shepherd's Haven, 420 Ramapo Avenue, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

It is with profound sadness we announce the passing of Mark Wieseltier, age 74, of Wayne, New Jersey.

Mark passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19th 2023 surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Mark was one of four children, born in New York City to Milton and Yetta Wieseltier. He entered this world with his twin brother, Harvey Wieseltier. At the age of three Mark’s family moved to Clifton, New Jersey where he enjoyed the next ten years of his childhood. At thirteen Mark’s family settled in Passaic, New Jersey. There Mark made life-long friends while attending Passaic High School. He graduated from Passaic High School in 1967.    

The only thing Mark enjoyed more than spending time with his family was baseball. Mark’s passion for baseball began as a child. As a young boy he excelled at baseball. He began playing baseball on the Babe Ruth Little League team and continued playing baseball throughout high school.

After graduating from Passaic High School Mark enrolled at Rutgers University.  

While at Rutgers, Mark heard the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army. He served proudly and honorably.  

After being honorably discharged from the military, Mark returned to Rutgers University to complete his education. Mark graduated from Rutgers University in 1972 with a bachelor’s degree in biological science. Following his graduation from Rutgers, Mark quickly found employment as a pharmaceutical sales representative with Curtin Matheson Scientific.

One evening in the spring of 1984 at TGI Fridays, Mark met an attractive, kind, young lady by the name of Mary Ann Santora. The two instantly hit it off and began dating. Mark was a planner, later in life he would unabashedly confess he planned to spend a lifetime with Mary Ann from the very first evening they met. His persistence was evident, as he always made plans for their next date the minute he picked her up. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 2nd 1986 the couple joined together as husband and wife at an unforgettable reception at the Town and Campus in West Orange, New Jersey.

The newlyweds settled in Pines Lake, a close-knit lake community nestled in Wayne, which they called home ever since. While residing in Pines Lake, Mark and Mary Ann welcomed their one and only daughter, Ashley. Mark truly cherished watching his daughter grow up in Wayne and was involved in every aspect of her life. His pride was unsurpassed as he warmly shared her accomplishments with any and all who would listen. Mark often gushed ‘he hit the lottery’ when he and Mary Ann were blessed with Ashley. Mark was the loudest cheerleader in the stands of Ashley’s life and his voice will be deeply missed. Mark loved watching the relationship flourish between his daughter and son-in-law Adam. Mark loved Adam like a son and was over-joyed when Adam asked Mark for Ashley’s hand in marriage. Mark loved spending time at his daughter and son-in-law’s house, watching Yankees’ games outside, while listening to the Beatles as boats passed on the lake. He loved visiting and playing tug with his grand-puppy Hudson. Mark was a pillar in his community bringing friends and family together throughout his years in the Pines Lake community, attending many parties and watching several generations go through the summer program at the beach. He could be seen daily strolling the neighborhood with his beloved dog Bailey.

For the last twenty years, Mark was a real estate agent for Weichert Real Estate in Wayne, New Jersey. Mark and his wife, Mary Ann, lovingly known as the M&Ms, worked as a close team until his retirement earlier this year. Mark enjoyed serving clients and helping his clients find their forever homes or new investment properties.

Mark served as a member of the Wayne Rotary Club. While serving as President of the Wayne Rotary Club Mark dressed-up as Santa Claus to provide the seniors with Christmas in July, he lavished the seniors with gifts, joy and festivities during the hot summer month. Mark enjoyed playing golf every day he could, oftentimes playing and walking thirty-six holes in one day in his early years. His love of baseball remained throughout his life.  Mark was a truly devoted NY Yankees fan, Mickey Mantle being his favorite player. Mark fondly reflected attending games during his childhood with his father and brothers and recalled the first time he attended a game seeing the stadium in living color. He made it a ritual to attend a number of games each season.  Two of his most memorable games attended were Derek Jeter's final game and a 2022 playoff game.

Aside from all of Mark's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Mark than spending time with, and providing for his family. He and his wife Mary Ann cherished thirty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage together, including twenty years as partners at Weichert Realtors. He enjoyed time spent with family for holidays and Sunday dinner, mostly looking forward to the poker game that would ensue when he would enjoy the banter with the guys.

He treasured his yearly family vacations, periodically enjoying trips and cruises to various destinations such as Aruba, St Martin, Bermuda, Hawaii, Italy, Greece, and other Caribbean and European locations.  He enjoyed numerous trips to the Jersey Shore. He loved to walk on the boardwalk and join his daughter, nieces and nephews on the rides.

Everyone who met Mark genuinely and truly enjoyed his company.  He had a wonderfully explosive sense of humor and had a talent to captivate an audience of any age with his stories and jokes. In his later years he ventured into standup comedy at a local cafe, but his most loyal fan base remained his family, who looked forward to his jokes every time they saw him.  

He was a dependable, supportive, patient man, who never missed a family gathering or milestone. Mark was the first on the dance floor at family events and was the loudest voice in the room each time ‘Shout’ hit the speakers. He was always there to lend a hand or accomplish whatever Santora feat or logistical undertaking arose. He enjoyed his time with the “Golden Girls”, creating many fond memories with his sister-in-law and mother-in-law over the years. Without question, he would drive the trio to Foxwoods in Connecticut.

Mark was blessed to spend the last few months taking care of his grandson, Avery two days a week. Avery quickly developed a deep love for his Pops, always having a smile on his face when Pops was in the room. Pops enjoyed watching his first swim lessons and outings at The Little Gym. Avery loved chasing Pops around in the car he bought him. Mark’s ability to light up a room lives on in Avery.

Mark will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, father, and especially loving grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew him.

Mark is survived by his wife Mary Ann (nee Santora) of Pines Lake in Wayne, his daughter Ashley Wieseltier and her husband Adam Tett also of Pines Lake, one grandson Avery Mark Tett of Pines Lake, one brother Harvey Wieseltier and his wife Margarita of Guadalajara, Mexico, his sister-in-law Helen Lavelle of Pines Lake, his brother-in-law Salvatore Santora of Bloomfield, NJ, his mother-in-law Angela Santora of Lodi, NJ, and many nieces and nephews who adored him.  He was predeceased by his brother Ross Weiss, his sister Beverly Friedentag, his parents Milton and Yetta Wieseltier, and his father-in-law Joseph Santora.

Mark was given precious years of borrowed time due to the generous gift of blood donors, therefore those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donating blood to their local blood drives, or making a donation to the MDS Foundation, 4573 South Broad St, Suite 150, Yardville, NJ 08620  

To schedule a blood donation please visit redcrossblood.org.