George R. Matash, age 81 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 8, 2026.

George was born on February 25, 1944, in Passaic, NJ to George and Sophie Matash. He attended Pope Pius XII High School in Passaic and later earned his degree from St. Peter’s College, going on to become a CPA. After college, he built a successful career as an accountant, working for several corporations before opening and managing his own accounting firm. 

George lived in Garfield before settling in Wayne in 1975 where he remained for the rest of his life. He was happiest working on projects around his home, both inside and out, and was a devoted Giants fan who never missed a game.

George is predeceased by his parents George and Sophie Matash.

He is survived by his sister Carolee Matash.

Amarachi Okere, 15, of Kinnelon, passed away at home on Sunday, February 8, 2026, after a long and courageous fight against cancer. She was a member of the Sophomore Class at Kinnelon High School. Amarachi was a beloved daughter, sister, granddaughter, and an amazing friend to all who knew her.

She is survived by her loving mother, Nkechinyere; father, Kenneth; brother, Nnaemeka; and grandparents, Noel Amadi, Nkiru Amadi, and Angelina Okere; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Amarachi was truly a bright and beautiful light in the lives of everyone she touched, bringing joy wherever she went. Much of Machi’s time was spent caring for her beloved animals, reading, horseback riding, and practicing her faith. Her strength, kindness, and love left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her. Though her time here was far too short, her light and spirit will continue to live on in the hearts of all who loved her.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to honor Amarachi's life can be directed to the Amarachi Foundation (click on the text to be directed to the website) and will help perpetuate her memory and devotion of compassion and care for others.

Dennis J. Helm, age 80, of Cedar Grove, NJ passed away peacefully on Thursday, February 5, 2026, surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Dennis was born in Hudson County, New Jersey, and raised in Union City. He was one of two children born to Frank and Lillian Helm. He attended Memorial High School in West New York, graduating with the Class of 1964.

Following high school, Dennis began his career as an airplane technician at Teterboro Airport in Teterboro, NJ. He later switched his sights to a career in public service and graduated from the Port Authority Police Academy in 1974. Dennis proudly served with the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey for twenty-five years.  Through the years he rose to the rank of Detective before retiring in 1999.  Throughout his career, Dennis was truly loved and respected by his colleagues and his peers.

Dennis embraced retirement fully and with open arms. He loved to spend his time freshwater fishing, especially at his favorite fishing spot in Franklin Lakes, NJ, on property bordering the home of his dear friend Joe. Dennis was a man of many interests, he enjoyed learning to play the guitar, painting, and spending time playing poker with his “Holly Lane Poker Group.”  He also enjoyed trips to Atlantic City and Mount Airy, PA, where he played his favorite casino games, including blackjack, Caribbean stud, and craps.

On May 4, 1968, Dennis married his high school sweetheart and the love of his life, Sandra DiPaolo, at Lady of Libera Church in West New York. Together, they built a life centered on love, family, and raising their two dear children, Jill and Dennis.

Dennis and Sandra shared a love of travel, enjoying cruises to many destinations.  One of their most memorable vacations was a European trip in the 1990s with friends, visiting Italy, Germany, and Austria. Their final trip as a family was a treasured visit to New York City’s oldest tavern, McSorley’s.

Dennis was most happy when surrounded by family and friends. He enjoyed dining out, especially for Chinese food, steak dinners, and his favorite meal of all…hot dogs!  Dennis and Sandra were longtime parishioner of St. Catherine of Siena Church in Cedar Grove.  He also held a special place in his heart for his beloved Havanese, Buddy, who survives him, and his cherished poodle, Sammy, who predeceased him.

Above all else, Dennis’s greatest passion in life was his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Dennis than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He and Sandra cherished fifty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage.  He was known as a jokester and prankster.  He delighted in teasing those he loved most, which was a clear reflection of the warmth, humor, and joy he brought everyone around him.

Dennis will be remembered as a loving husband, and a truly devoted father and grandfather.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone he met and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Dennis is survived by his wife Sandra Helm  (nee DiPaolo) of Cedar Grove, NJ, one son Dennis Helm of North Arlington, NJ, one daughter Jill Higuera and her husband Steven of Wayne, NJ, five grandchildren; Jake Higuera of Wayne, NJ, Justin Higuera of Wayne, NJ, Richard Helm of North Arlington, NJ, Jackie Helm and her wife Samantha of Secaucus, NJ, and Sabrina Luna-Helm and her husband Fernando Luna Cuevas of Bergenfield, NJ, his sister-in-law Josephine Helm of Bergenfield, NJ.  He was predeceased by his brother Frank Helm.

William “Bill” Neurouter, age 63, of Wayne passed away on Wednesday, February 4th, 2026, with the comfort of family by his side after a four-year battle with kidney cancer.

Bill lived his entire life in Wayne and retired from the Wayne DPW.

He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend. He is survived by his wife of 42 years, Charlene (Kubisky) Neurouter; his daughter, Kacie Neurouter and her wife, Shelby Neurouter; his two grandchildren, Taytum Neurouter and Tyson Neurouter. He is also survived by his mother, Louise Neurouter; his brother, Henry Neurouter and his wife, Karen Neurouter; his sister, Dawn Del Monico who is predeceased by her husband, Steve Del Monico; his niece and nephews Stephen Del Monico, Hank Neurouter, John Neurouter, Dan Del Monico and Brianna Galloway; his sister-in-law, Stacey Galloway; and other loving family members.

He truly loved life and was always the hit of the party —everyone has a story about time spent in his man cave. Bill enjoyed golfing, cornhole, vacationing, boating and riding his motorcycle.

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center through the link below:

Donation In memory of William Neurouter

Or by check to:

Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center

PO Box 27106

New York, NY 10087-7106

Raquel Gonzalez, age 93, of Wayne passed Tuesday, February 3, 2026, with the comfort of her husband of 63 years by her side.

Raquel was born in 1932 to parents Angel and Carmen Pacheco in her hometown of Meda Luna, Oriente, Cuba. She earned her nursing degree at Hospital Calixto Havana, Cuba.  Raquel worked as a nurse for over 30 years before retiring. During Raquel’s retirement she frequently spent time with her grandchildren.

Raquel was an incredibly witty and strong-willed woman. Raquel loved the ocean and loved spending time with her family. Raquel was also an avid collector of bells. Raquel married her husband, Gregorio Alfredo Gonzalez, on October 6, 1952. She is survived by her children Radame Gonzalez, his wife Linda O’Brien-Racine, and Rachel Ruf. Predeceased by Alfredo Amaury (1964-1964) Gonzalez. Loving grandmother of Andrew J. Ruf, Alyssa G. Ruf, Brad Gonzalez, Brooke Gonzalez, Ashley Gonzalez, and Dakota Racine.

Angelo Gulino, age 85, of Totowa, will be laid to rest peacefully on February 7, 2026.

Angelo was predeceased by his beloved parents, Giuseppe and Nunziata Gulino (née Scrofani), and his dear sister, Rosetta Gulino Lisitano. He is survived by his devoted wife of 61 years, Comasia Gulino (née Aquaro), and his loving daughters and sons-in-law, Nancy and Paul Burger, Marilyn and Hank Pellegrino, and Roselle and Brian Pellegrino. He was a proud and cherished grandfather to Alexa Bodall, Nicolas Burger, Michael Pellegrino, Anthony Pellegrino, Cristina Pellegrino, Brendan Pellegrino, and Christopher Burger, and a treasured great-grandfather to JoAnn and Lucas Bodall, and Dane Burger. Angelo is also survived by his brother, John Gulino, his nephews, Robert and Nuccio Lisitano, and his nieces, Marie Hiles and Nancy Gulino.

Born in Santa Croce Camerina, Sicily, Angelo carried his heritage with him throughout his life. In 1955, he immigrated to the United States aboard the ship Saturnia. That journey first brought him to Genoa, Italy, where he purchased his very first set of barber tools—marking the beginning of a lifelong profession and passion. In 1966, he opened Wayne Barbershop, which became far more than a place of work. It was a gathering place for the community, where lifelong friendships were formed and where Angelo’s genuine love for people was evident every day.

Angelo was known for his unmatched work ethic and willingness to sacrifice for his family. When he first arrived in the United States, he attended night school and worked in a shoe factory while building his future. He never missed a day of work and was, as his family fondly recalls, “forced to retire.” His dedication to providing for his family was unwavering and matched only by the love he showed them throughout his life.

Though he spent the majority of his life in the United States, Angelo never lost touch with his roots. He returned to Sicily many times over the years, each visit renewing his spirit and strengthening his connection to his homeland. He also proudly served for many years as President of the Santa Croce Camerina Società, remaining deeply involved in preserving his culture and community.

Angelo Gulino will be remembered for his strength, warmth, generosity, and unwavering devotion to his family, friends, and heritage. His legacy lives on through the many lives he touched and the family he loved so deeply.

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Carol Blazier (née Wicks), age 90, of Middletown, New York, and formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 1, 2026.

Born in Brooklyn, NY, Carol was the elder of two children born to Kenneth and Marjorie Wicks. During her childhood, her family moved to Long Island, where she attended Sewanhaka Central High School and proudly graduated with the Class of 1953. Following high school, Carol earned an associate degree in secretarial studies and quickly entered the workforce, spending the next several years employed by several prominent advertising agencies.

In the late 1950’s, Carol met the love of her life, Alfred Blazier. The two were married on April 8, 1961 surrounded by friends and family. After briefly residing in Nutley, NJ, they settled in Wayne, NJ, where they made their home for more than fifty years and raised their three children, Rick, Raymond, and Laura.

After the birth of her children, Carol dedicated herself to her family as a homemaker before later returning to the workforce as a real estate agent with Weichert Realtors in Wayne. She worked as a Real Estate agent for approximately eighteen years, eventually retiring in 1998.

Carol had a deep appreciation for nature and animals. She found joy and peace in creative pursuits such as painting, crocheting, needlepoint, and various arts and crafts. An avid reader, she especially enjoyed works of fiction, with James Patterson and Harlan Coben among her favorite authors. Gardening was one of her greatest pleasures; she took pride in growing flowers and vegetables, nurturing her many houseplants, and spending quiet moments watching the wildlife in her yard, from squirrels to the birds that gathered at her many birdfeeders.

A longtime member of St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne, Carol gave generously of her time, including volunteering as a Sunday school teacher. Above all else, her greatest passion was her family. Carol and her husband Alfred cherished 53 years of loving and loyal marriage until Alfred’s passing in 2014.  She was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, known for her quiet nature, caring heart, and deeply private devotion to those she loved.

Carol also held a special place in her heart for her two rescued cats, Jacob and Buddy, who were cherished companions.

Carol is survived by her two sons Rick Blazier and his wife Diane of Wayne, NJ and Raymond Blazier of Chester, NY, one brother David Wicks of Colorado, two grandchildren; Kyle Blazier and his wife Veronica, and Cailey and her fiancé John Malley, and one great grandchild Nolan Blazier.  She was predeceased by her husband Alfred William Blazier in 2014 and by her daughter Laura Blazier in 2023.

Florence LoCascio age 64 of Toms River NJ passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving Family on January 29, 2026. 

Born in the City of Passaic, NJ on July 11, 1961, to Victor and Rosemary Trentacost. “Flo” as she was lovingly called by her family and friends grew up in Passaic on Autum St in a 3-family home shared with Grandma Russo and later moved to Dakota St. She attended Our Lady of Mount Carmel Catholic School and then graduated from Passaic High School in 1979. She worked at Friendly’s, Jefferson National Bank, and then for many years at Majka Oil Company.  Flo married John (Jake) LoCascio who proceeded her in death 2016 and moved to West Paterson NJ. 

She was often seen wearing flipflops, tee shirts and bright red hair. She loved the Jersey shore, but hated the beach. She enjoyed walking on the boardwalk and eating ice cream and funnel cake. She also loved her trips to AC, traveling to Europe and gambling online. The last 6 years she enjoyed the time spent with Family on Green Island. 

She shared most of her time with her beloved pugs Oliver and Ike. Florence loved her 3 nephews: Patrick her godson, Victor and Louis Trentacost. She never had children, but she loved them like they were her own. She took pride in spending time with her family. She always said how proud she was of her 2 brothers: Patrick Trentacost - City of Passaic Fire Chief and Anthony Trentacost. The last few years she lived with Anthony in Toms River. They were often visited by Anthony’s partner Richie who would care for them both. She lived for her family especially the newest additions: her 2 great nieces Mia and Bianca and she couldn’t wait for the arrival of “Baby Trent.” Flo did not have any sisters but was blessed with the loved she received from her sister-in-law Torrie Trentacost and her 2 nieces Danielle Trentacost and Megan Trentacost. She was also blessed with so many loving cousins and friends.

Flo did not cook or bake but knew how to pick up a phone and order food. The Family would always be waiting to see what was going to be delivered. Her usual was Dunkin' coffee and donuts. On a good day, a crave case would be delivered. She loved to eat. Some of her favorites were smores, bones in the gravy, mac n cheese and hibachi. 

Florence will be missed by those who knew and loved her. Her memories will continue on with the gifts she shared. She always shopped on line and bought large pictures of the kids, tee shirts with crazy pictures and what ever Amazon had on sale that week. To know her was to love her. Florence, Flo, Aunti Flo will be greatly missed……….

Dorothy M. DiPatria (known to many as Dottie), 83, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, January 29, 2026, surrounded by the love of her family.

Dottie was the first of two children born to George and Dorothy (Stansfield) Pugh. She was born and raised in Paterson and attended Central High School. When she was a little girl, her father gave her the nickname “Dumpie” which stuck with her throughout her life and was remembered fondly by those closest to her.

After marrying Herman Imperatore Sr., Dottie lived in Paterson before moving to West Paterson, now known as Woodland Park. She spent many years working as an administrative assistant at Opici Wine and Spirits in Glen Rock until her retirement. Later in life, after her divorce, Dottie met Edward DiPatria. They fell in love and were married on May 21st. 1988. They settled in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne, where they built a life together and shared thirty-five happy years of marriage until Ed’s passing in January 2024.

Summers were a favorite time for Dottie and Ed. Every year, they made their way to Ocean City, Maryland, to enjoy the hot-air balloon festival and some time in the sun. Dottie also loved to relax with a good book, especially novels by Danielle Steel and Nora Roberts. In more recent years, particularly after Ed’s passing, she enjoyed watching Wheel of Fortune, Jeopardy, Judge Judy, and catching up on the news.

Dottie took a lot of pride in her home and kept it spotless, inside and out. If it snowed, she was outside soon after, clearing the sidewalks and driveway herself—and doing it right. Her house was more than just a place to live; it was a true home and always felt welcoming. As the family matriarch, Dottie hosted the holidays and loved having everyone together. She especially treasured time with her grandchildren and enjoyed spoiling them at Christmas. On birthdays, they could always count on an envelope from Grandma—something practical, appreciated, and very much her way. Even the neighbors’ kids across the street were remembered with birthday envelopes.

Dottie was gentle, kind, and thoughtful, and she was deeply loved by family and friends. She will be missed.

Dottie is survived by her sons, Herman Imperatore, Jr. and his wife Lynn of Vernon, and Scott DiPatria and his wife Laura of Kinnelon; her grandchildren, Zachary DiPatria and his fiancée Christina, Richard Chuck, Michael Chuck, and Dylan Chuck; her sister, Georgeanna Pugh of Paterson; and her niece, Pamela Pugh

She was predeceased by her parents, George Pugh and Dorothy (Stansfield) Pugh; her first husband, Herman Imperatore Sr.; her second husband, Edward DiPatria; her son, George Imperatore; her daughter, Darnell Chuck; her son Edward J. DiPatria; and her son-in-law, Edward Chuck.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Dorothy’s memory may consider a donation to:

Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad

c/o Wayne Twp Memorial First Aid Inc.

P.O. Box 2004

Wayne, NJ 07474

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Dorothy DiPatria

Lorraine Mary Caravaglia, age 99, of Wayne New Jersey passed away peacefully during a very snowy night on January 26th, 2026.

Lorraine was the first of three daughters born on January 2,1927 to Joseph and Ann Graupp of Carlstadt New Jersey. She was the last surviving sibling of her family.

Growing up in Carlstadt Lorraine graduated high-school and went on to work as a secretary at a small local business. She continued living at home until she met Nunzio Caravaglia, a handsome Navy man home on leave from the war. They were married in 1948 when Lorraine was twenty-one years old.

As a housewife and mother, living together with her husband in a small rented apartment in Carlstadt, Lorraine had three children- two daughters and a son.

Eight years later, in 1956, they moved a little north to the town of Woodcliff Lake New Jersey to a home they built together with Lorraine’s father who was a carpenter. They lived there for twenty years until all three of their  children were grown and left home to start their own families.

As a warm, loving mother and grandmother, Lorraine lived a long, healthy and happy life. She left a lasting impression on everyone she met and will be remembered by many as one of the kindest, most gentle souls to ever grace our world.

Giuseppe Palumbo, age 75, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on January 26, 2026, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Scoglitti, Italy, Giuseppe was the eldest of three children to the late Giovanni and Nunziatina Palumbo. From a young age, he developed a deep love for the outdoors, especially hunting and fishing. These were passions that would remain with him throughout his life. He attended Professionale di Vittoria High School in Sicily, where he graduated in 1967 with a degree as a chemical analyst.

In 1972, with determination and hope for a better future, and his pursuit of the “America Dream,” Giuseppe immigrated to the United States and settled in Paterson, New Jersey. He quickly found work as a machinist in a local dye house and went on to build a long and honorable career in the trade. Giuseppe was known for his outstanding work ethic, reliability, and dedication. These were values he not only lived by but proudly passed down to his family through his example. He worked as a machinist for many years, including his time at Frutarom in Union City, New Jersey, where he remained employed until his retirement in 2010.

While living in Paterson, Giuseppe’s life changed forever when he walked into D’Angelo’s Bakery and met a beautiful young woman behind the counter named Rosaria Domicoli. The two began dating and, as fate would have, they fell in love and on July 10, 1974, traveled back to Scoglitti, Italy, where they were married at Santa Maria Porto Salvo.

Giuseppe and Rosaria settled in Paterson, where they welcomed the births of their two children, Nancy and Giovanni. The family later moved to Totowa, New Jersey, where they resided for twenty-five years, before settling in Wayne fifteen years ago.

Giuseppe was a warm, social, and joyful man, always smiling and a pleasure to be around. He enjoyed playing poker, frequenting Atlantic City, and spending time with friends and family playing Italian card games, especially the card game Thirty-One. He was a devoted fan of Italian soccer, he also cherished time spent at the beach and greatly looked forward to his annual family vacations to Aruba, a place he lovingly considered his second home.

Above all else, Giuseppe’s greatest passion was his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Giuseppe than providing for and spending time with his family. Giuseppe cherished fifty-two years of a loving and loyal marriage to his wife, Rosaria. He will be remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father, and a proud grandfather. He was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around him. He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Giuseppe is survived by his wife Rosaria Domicoli, of Wayne NJ, his daughter Nancy Hennen of Wayne, NJ, his son Giovanni Palumbo and his wife Diana of Franklin Lakes, NJ, one sister Graziella Caci of Scoglitti, Italy, one brother Nunzio Palumbo and his wife Phyllis of Wayne, NJ, and five grandchildren; Peter Hennen and Michael Hennen of Wayne, NJ, Luca Palumbo, Matteo Palumbo, and Nico Palumbo of Franklin Lakes. He was predeceased by his parents Giovanni and Nunziatina Palumbo, his mother-in-law Filippina Domicoli, his father-in-law Giuseppe Domicoli, his brother-in-law Giovanni Domicoli, and his cousins; Mario and Margherita Ciciulla, and Carmela Giacomarro. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Giuseppe’s name may be made to the American Heart Association www.heart.org, or Alzheimer’s Association NJ Chapter www.alz.org/nj.

Sophie Zdrojeski (nee Maslanek), age 103, of Wayne and formerly of Botany Village, Clifton, died peacefully at home, surrounded by her loving family on Monday, January 26, 2026.

Born on October 17, 1922, Sophie lived through the Great Depression, was educated across early school subjects in both English and Polish, and remained bilingual in reading, writing, and speaking Polish throughout her life. She took great pride in her work as third shift bookkeeper/payroll clerk for Wright Aeronautical Corporation in Paterson during World War II, and as secretary for Fair Lawn Cemetery in Fair Lawn. 

Sophie married Casimir “Cap” Zdrojeski in 1946 and together had their daughter Michelle. Sophie was active in the seniors’ groups at the parishes of Saint Cyril and Methodius, and Sacred Heart in Clifton. She was known for enthusiastically dancing the polka and relished authentic Italian food. Over the years, Sophie enjoyed home life, reading biographies, completing crossword and word-search puzzles, and watching Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune. Having a perpetual sweet tooth, she never refused a dessert treat, a Manhattan, or blackberry brandy shared with her son-in-law. Sophie survived two COVID diagnoses, saw nine popes, five British monarchs, and nineteen U.S. presidents. Of greatest significance, on her 103rd birthday, she was the ring-bearer at her granddaughter Lauren’s backyard wedding celebration. 

Sophie was predeceased by her husband Cap, her sister Anna Torjek and husband Joseph, her sister Cecilia Bodziak and husband Victor, her brothers Stephen Maslanek and Michael Maslanek–World War II Air Medal and Purple Heart recipient. 

Sophie is survived by her daughter and caregiver Michelle Campbell, son-in-law Joe Campbell, granddaughters Jennifer and Lauren, grandson Adam Heverly, nieces, nephews, and friends who became family. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Sophie’s name, are asked to consider a donation to a favorite charity.

Leonard Nicholas Papile passed away January 22, 2026, surrounded by his family.

He was born in Wayne and raised in Paterson before moving to Wayne as a child. Lenny graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1999. After graduation, he went to work alongside his father, Mario, for many years, learning trades quickly. They took their knowledge of HVAC and started their own business, Wayne Climate and Energy Solutions. Lenny was proud of the business he and his father built.

Predeceased by his mother, Marilyn Papile, and his grandparents, June and August Berkhofer, and Matilde and Luigi Papile. Lenny was a caring son, brother, nephew, and the Fun Uncle affectionately referred to as "Uncle Lenny" by more than just his nephew, Giancarlo.

The oldest of the Papile children, he will be dearly missed. He is survived by his father, Mario Papile; his brother, Steven Papile and wife Jenny; his sister, Theresa Surdyka and husband Robert, as well as aunts, uncles and cousins.

Lenny's phone was constantly buzzing with friends and family needing his help around the house. A true handyman, he enjoyed working on cars and all things mechanical. He loved football and Formula One racing; you could always find him cheering for the Giants and his F1 team, Ferrari. He enjoyed being outside foraging for mushrooms or finding a good fishing spot. Lenny loved animals, especially his dogs, Kaia and Dakota. He was also known to be a "bird whisperer" to the family parrot, Bingo. He enjoyed continuing the family traditions from Italy, learning from his mother and grandparents how to make homemade mozzarella, tomato sauce, and cured meat.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Leonard’s name are asked to consider:

FOWA Rescue

Friends of Wayne Animals

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

Countless friends and dearest family members lost their beloved Phyllis Supko January 19, 2026, after a full 85 years of life and love.

Phyllis shared sincerity and compassion with the world through the many joys she found in a life well lived.

She enjoyed gardening, dancing and days spent playing mahjong with the girls.

She loved going to shows, Broadway musicals and parties at the Brownstone.

She cherished her cousins that were close like sisters and the many friendships she maintained across decades, near and far.

Family was her heart, and her grandkids were happiness.

And then, through it all, there was her Richard. An honest example of true love and a model marriage of 63 years. High school sweethearts with a lifetime of games, gatherings and laughter spent together.

Always, always together.

Phyllis lived a beautiful life and was a beautiful lady. She will be forever missed by all and always remembered with love.

Jeanette L. Paczolt, age 85, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on January 18, 2026.

Jeanette was born on June 12, 1940, in Scranton, Pennsylvania, to the late Julius and Helen (Karluk) Micks. She was raised in Paterson, New Jersey, where she graduated from Central High School in 1959 and was affectionately known by her classmates as “Jet.”

Jeanette began her working life as a secretary at Hill Machine in Paterson. A woman of quiet faith and service, she also taught Sunday school at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church. After settling in Wayne, she worked as a cafeteria aide at Ryerson Elementary School, where she enjoyed caring for children, and later as a medical receptionist at Pediatric Professional Associates in Wayne, where her warmth and kindness were felt by both families and coworkers.

While teaching Sunday school at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Paterson, Jeanette was introduced to the love of her life, Charles Joseph Paczolt, Sr., who predeceased her in 2005. They quickly fell in love and were married on February 16, 1963, at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Paterson, followed by a honeymoon in California. Together, they shared forty-two years of marriage, building a life centered on love, faith, and family.

Jeanette took great pride in being a devoted wife, mother, and homemaker. She enjoyed hobbies such as ceramics, macramé and challenging crossword puzzles; but her greatest joy came from time spent with her family. She especially cherished moments with her grandchildren, who were the light of her life.

Jeanette is survived by her son, Charles Paczolt (Kathleen) of Butler, New Jersey, and her  daughter, Julie Worsham (Paul) of Oviedo, Florida; four grandchildren, Matthew (Lauren), Kyle, Thomas, and Samantha; and one beloved great-grandchild, Nolan.

Anne Lee, age 80, of Rockaway Township, NJ, and a longtime resident of Chinatown in New York City, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, January 17, 2026.

Anne was the fourth of Dick and Bin (Lee) Lee’s six children. Born in Brooklyn, NY, she spent nearly her entire life in Manhattan’s Chinatown before relocating across the Hudson River to Rockaway Township, NJ in 2023.

A graduate of Washington Irving High School, Anne went on to pursue higher education at Hunter College on Manhattan’s Upper East Side, where she earned both a bachelor’s degree and a master’s degree in education. She enjoyed a long and fulfilling career as a beloved elementary school teacher at PS 137 located in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. A dedicated education professional, Anne was an active member of APALA (Asian Pacific American Labor Alliance where she had been recognized as a Lifetime Warrior and UFT (United Federation of Teachers), where she continually sought ways to contribute and improve her skills as an educator while also fostering meaningful and lasting friendships with her colleagues.

Anne made it her life’s ambition to walk faithfully in the footsteps of her Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. For many years, she was a devoted member of True Light Lutheran Church in NYC Chinatown, where she served on the Board of Directors, sang proudly in the choir and generously gave her time as a Sunday School teacher and Cub Scout den mother. After moving to Rockaway Township during Covid, Anne worshiped with family at First Lutheran Church in Clifton, where she also continued her service by teaching Sunday School when needed.

In her spare time, Anne enjoyed knitting, calligraphy, playing Mahjong, reading romance novels, watching TV, attending broadway shows for “girls night out” and faithfully cheering on her beloved New York Yankees. She also loved to travel with friends and family, with highlights including trips to Hawaii, the Bahamas, England, Asia and Western Europe, numerous cruises, and a special journey to the Holy Land in Israel.

Throughout her life, Anne believed deeply in the importance of strong family ties. She cherished time spent with her brothers and sisters, as well as her nieces and nephews. She often invited her nieces and nephews to join her on Sunday school outings to various museums and landmarks, at Yankees games to cheer them on to victory and visiting them at college Anne was a truly generous soul who gave back to God with a thankful heart and extended her time and resources to anyone in need. She had multiple god children, some of whom were grown adults at the time! To Anne, everyone was family, and her family and friends will fondly remember her joyful spirit, warm generosity, enthusiastic sense of humor, and boundless kindness.

Anne was predeceased by her parents, Dick, and Bin Lee, as well as three brothers and one sister: Richard, William, Lydia, and Robert. She is survived by her sister Jeanne and husband Wai; her brother William’s wife, Gloria; her sister Lydia’s husband, Frank; and many loving nieces, nephews, great-nieces, and great-nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Anne’s memory are invited to donation to either:

First Lutheran Church

1337 Van Houten Avenue

Clifton, NJ 07013

or

True Light Lutheran Church

195 Worth Street

New York, NY 10013

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Anne Lee.

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Ingeborg M Fono (nee Schifko), age 89, of Pequannock, NJ passed away peacefully on Friday, January 16, 2026 while receiving the loving care of her family.

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Wayne B. Hook, age 81, of Pequannock, passed away at home on Friday, January 16, 2026, while in the presence of his loving family.

Wayne was born in Paterson and raised in Prospect Park for two years before moving with his parents and siblings to Pompton Plains. He graduated from Pequannock High School with the class of 1963 then served in Korea in the U.S. Army.

Wayne married Wilhelmina (Willekes) on May 2, 1969, and enjoyed God’s blessing of a loving and devoted marriage for 56 years. They moved to Pequannock in 1971 where they have lived ever since.

Wayne was a self-employed tile installer and mason. Since 1972 he served his community as a life member of the Pequannock Township Fire Company 2. He was a member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes. 

Wayne is survived by his beloved wife Wilhelmina (Willekes) Hook; his four children: Robin and husband Cornelius VanWingerden of Andover, NJ, Ronald Hook of Franklin, Sharon and husband Craig Tanis of Pompton Plains, and Warren and wife Debbie Hook of Warwick, NY; thirteen grandchildren: Jeffrey (Natasha), Melanie (Steve), Christopher (Hannah), Forrest (fiancé Becky), Michael, Zachary, Tara, Alyssa (Tony), Daniel, Julie (Eric), Cody, Katie, and Matthew; 7 great-grandchildren; and his sister and brothers: Joyce DeRuiter, Ralph and wife Marion Hook, Donald and wife Debbie Hook, and Allen and wife Marnie Hook; and numerous nieces and nephews. Wayne was predeceased by his brother Russell Hook and his brother-in-law Don DeRuiter.  

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Wayne’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Pequannock Fire Company 2

24 Oak Avenue

Pequannock, NJ 07440

On the memo line of your check please write “Fireman’s Relief Association”

Netherland Reformed Christian School

164 Jacksonville Road

Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

For either charitable organization, please leave a brief note that your gift is in memory of Wayne Hook. Thank you. 

Anthony (Tony) Najjar, age 87, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday January 16, 2026 surrounded by his family.

Born and raised in Rhode Island, Tony was the fourth of five children. Tony graduated from high school at the age of 16 and went on to receive a degree in accounting and finance from Bryant College. Before pursuing his career in the food industry, he served in the army reserves and received an honorable discharge.

Tony met the love of his life Fran in 1963 when out on a double date with another girl. He realized she was the one for him on that date and asked her out. In August 1965, the couple exchanged vows at St. Basil’s Melkite Catholic Church in Rhode Island. They lived in Massachusetts before settling in Wayne, New Jersey in 1972 where they continue to reside.

Tony always had a passion for food and a natural affinity for people and business. His inclination for a career in food started during his college years where he worked for a local supermarket chain and learned hands-on from his brother-in-law, who owned a fruit stand. After graduating college, he quickly progressed through a variety of roles, before accepting an executive position with a food distribution company in New Jersey, where he would ultimately become President.

As an accomplished executive in the retail food industry, Tony was widely respected for his integrity and leadership. Known as an honest businessman, he prided himself not only on his own success, but on mentoring and supporting others in achieving their professional goals. His career took him up and down the East Coast, where he helped shape and improve food retail chains. Many of his ideas changed the way people shopped for food, especially in the New York metropolitan area.

His work and service were recognized with numerous honors, including serving as the chair of the Boy Scouts of America Scouting for Food Program (Manhattan Chapter) and being awarded Man of the Year from the Catholic Institute of the Food Industry, reflecting both his professional excellence and deep commitment to community service.

Tony enjoyed listening to the crooners, especially the Rat Pack, and dancing with Fran. He got to see his New York Yankees win the world series multiple times - and loved watching the games with his son and grandson (though not so much enjoyment last year). He loved cooking Italian food, especially making his special bolognese sauce for his granddaughters - and spoiling them with their favorite chocolates. Tony was the beloved husband of Fran Najjar, with whom he shared 60 wonderful years of marriage. He was the loving father of Tracey Paylo and her husband Dennis of Wayne, Tobey Hill and her husband Tom of London, England, and Anthony (Tony) Najjar of Wayne. He was the proud and cherished grandfather of Tommy, Alexandra and Kiana Hill and Victoria Paylo.

He was predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Widad Najjar; his sisters Mary Mardo, Margaret Ajami,and Josephne Byrnes and his twin brother Louis Najjar.

He will be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father and grandfather, respected leader, and a man who made a meaningful difference in the lives of others.

As Tony always said to Fran, you can’t eat flowers (so he gave her chocolate). In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy in Tony’s memory are kindly asked to consider a donation the St Ann’s Melkite catholic church, Lupus Foundation Alliance, or Tunnels to Towers Foundation.

Afrodite E. Lewnes, age 70, of Wayne passed away Tuesday, January 13, 2026, with her sisters Olga and Mary and her goddaughter Ashley Talarico Welp and Ashley’s sister Alyssa Talarico-Tamburri by her side. She was preceded in death by her parents, Peter and Sofie (Chilakos) Lewnes, her grandparents, and numerous aunts and uncles. She was a Class of 1973 Wayne Valley High School graduate and went on to earn a Bachelor of Fine Arts at Columbus College of Art and Design in Columbus, Ohio. Afrodite had a long career in graphic design and as a print production manager at various companies, including Sanofi, from which she retired in 2015.

She was fun, creative, always up for a new adventure or idea, compassionate, empathetic, kind and generous. She was passionate about current events and was active in the Wayne Democratic Club. She had a gift for making friends and had many throughout her life – friends who became her family and their families welcomed her into theirs.

Her passion in life was life itself and pursuing her interests in art and travel. She was an award-winning artist whose work was quirky, modernistic, and fantastical. She self-published a children’s book Errol’s Tail, a story of a mouse with a very long tail that led to his adventures, which she wrote and illustrated. She spent many afternoons exploring museums and art installations in New York City. She traveled across the globe, visiting art museums and historic sites including Alaska; St. Petersburg, Russia; Paris, France; Greece; England; Florence and Rome, Italy; Bali, Indonesia; the pyramids and treasures of Egypt; and Petra, a UNESCO World Heritage Site, in Jordan.

Please consider a memorial gift to one of the organizations for which she cared - the Metropolitan Museum of Art of New York City (https://www.metmuseum.org/), World Central Kitchen (https://wck.org/) or the St. George Greek Orthodox Church, Clifton, NJ (https://www.stgeorgeclifton.org/). 

Martin Parahus, age 93, of Wayne passed away Friday, January 9, 2026.

Martin, born and raised in Clifton, was the son of Eghnaty and Katherine Parahus.  He graduated from Clifton High School, and served in the United States Army during the Korean War.

The son of a carpenter, Martin was a carpenter and woodworker throughout his career.  He built the house in Wayne where he lived for all 65 years of his marriage to his wife Ethel, and where they raised their two sons, Stephen and Robert.  The house included Marty’s workshop, where he specialized in making custom furniture, including much of the furniture in the house.

Martin met Ethel in 1958 and they married January 7, 1961.  They enjoyed traveling, and traveled throughout the United States, Europe, and Central America.  They lived together, independently, until the time of his death.

Martin was a devoted grandfather to Cortney, Sean, and Connor, and a doting great-grandfather to Ava and Caden.

Rita E. Temes (Sonko), of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully and went home to be with the Lord on Wednesday, January 7,  2026, at the age of 83, with the comfort of her loving family by her side. Rita was born on May 27, 1942, in Elmira, New York  to the late Irene Polachek and Lee Sonko. They moved to New Jersey when she was a pre-teen and spent most of her life in Wayne, NJ.  She was predeceased by her beloved sister, Marcia, and her brother, Lee.

Rita graduated from Boonton High School and went on to attend business school. She enjoyed a long and successful career as a sales representative for the Mars, Wrigley Jr.  Company and later in the pharmaceutical industry.

A devoted and loving mother and grandmother, Rita’s greatest joy was her family. She is survived by her three children: Wendy Sabino and her husband Justin; Craig Temes; and Bart Temes.  She was a cherished grandmother to Alexa and Arianna Sabino; Tiffany and Craig Temes; and Jenelle Temes, all of whom brought her immense pride and happiness. she also has family in Pennsylvania.

Rita had a passion for gardening and decorating, and her favorite pastime was shopping.  Rita was an awesome cook and even a better baker . She was constantly making home cooked meals for everyone.  She baked for every holiday and on weekends making her signature Hungarian desserts.   She enjoyed reading, which was one of her favorite pastime hobbies -especially if it was a  good mystery novel. Above all else, spending time with her family and grandchildren brought her the greatest excitement and joy. She especially loved family vacations to the Jersey Shore, which held a special place in her heart and created memories that will be treasured forever.

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Rita’s memory to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474, whose compassion and dedication were always there to help her.

Michael James Chambers, 35, of Elizabeth, New Jersey, passed away on January 6, 2026, with his family by his side.

Michael was born to Richard and Debra Chambers. He was preceded in death by his mother, Debra Chambers. He graduated from Chancellor Academy.

Michael is survived by his father, Richard Chambers; his brother, Richard Chambers; and his two sons, Michael Jr. and Kayden.

Michael enjoyed music, playing the guitar, shooting pool, glamping, because we all know camping was too basic, and good food—especially sushi, tacos, and according to him, the superior hot dogs are Ball Park. He had a heart of gold and was loved by many.

Michael loved to get in the car with his friends in younger ages and let the road take him to new places. He was always ready for an adventure and new places. He definitely had a wandering soul. Michael was not one to hold back the jokes, sharp remarks, cleaver come backs and the occasional hard truths. He was a comedian that told jokes in many forms. He was extremely intelligent and always leaves you impressed and shocked, that boy definitely knew how to turn heads and keep you on your toes. 

Michael had many loves throughout his life, especially in the Pennsylvania region, Michaels love was felt by anyone that ever was in his presence, he fell hard and would stand not only in your corner but right next to you! When he believed he gave it everything he had. He was not afraid to hold his own and he will be deeply missed by all who knew him. We all know words can not replace the feelings we all have.

Karen Ann Barbera (née Lahr), age 76, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 6, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Jersey City, New Jersey, Karen was raised in Secaucus and was the beloved daughter of the late John and June Lahr. She graduated from Weehawken High School with the Class of 1967. Following high school, Karen worked as a clerk for the Public Service Department in Secaucus, where she was employed for approximately seven years.

During her high school years, Karen met a handsome young man named Peter Barbera. As fate would have it, they fell in love and after several years of courtship, they were married on July 17, 1971, at Immaculate Conception Church in Secaucus.  The couple initially settled in Secaucus, where they welcomed their first two children, Tim and Lauren. In November of 1977, the family moved to Wayne, where they welcomed their third child, Kevin, and where Karen and Peter remained proud residents for the rest of their lives together.

Karen was a wonderful cook and an avid reader, especially enjoying mystery novels, with James Patterson among her favorite authors.  She treasured the many family vacations to Point Pleasant Beach, NJ, and Naples, FL. She was feisty, spirited, and full of life.  Karen had a larger-than-life personality that left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her.

Deeply devoted to her Catholic faith, Karen was a longtime parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. Above all else, her greatest joy and passion in life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Karen than spending time with her children and grandchildren. She and Peter cherished fifty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Karen will be fondly remembered as a devoted wife, loving mother, and cherished grandmother.  She was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be missed by all who knew her.

Karen is survived by her husband Peter Barbera of Wayne, NJ, three children; her son Tim Barbera and his wife Amy of Wayne, NJ, her daughter Lauren Till and her husband Chris of Wayne, NJ, and her son Kevin Barbera and his wife Colleen of Seaford, NY, ten grandchildren; Emily, Andrew, Lillian, Grant, Jack, Brynn, Braden, Colin, Everly, and Declan. 

Norman Kerton of West Milford passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on January 5, 2026.

Norman was born in Paterson, the youngest of 5 boys, to Buell and Bessie Kerton. Norman grew up in Lincoln Park. He left high school to join the army, something he was very proud of. He spoke often of his time in Germany and England. While in the army, Norman learned how to run large machinery, skills that served him well in providing for his family.

When Norman returned to the states, he met and married Margaret, his loving wife of 60 years. Together they started their married life in Lincoln Park. With the arrival of their 3rd child, they moved their family to a larger home in Pequannock. They soon outgrew this home with the arrival of their 4th child, so they purchased a piece of property and designed and built their own home. Norman oversaw the construction, running machines and digging the foundation. As the children started to move out, they returned to Pequannock, where they lived for 30 years. In 2015, an opportunity arose and a move to Cape May was made. Norman loved Cape May, taking many walks in the neighborhood with his beloved pup, Maddie. Spending time by the Cape May ferry was another favorite pastime of his, as he enjoyed the peacefulness of the water and the ferries coming and going.

Norman was always a hard worker and loved working with his hands. In his early married years, he worked for the town of Lincoln Park. A career change led him into road construction, where he was able to use his skills as a heavy machinery operator. He actually paved his daughter's driveway, years before she owned the house. In the early '80s, a different career opportunity opened up, and Norman purchased his own big rig. Norman loved driving cross country, hauling oversized loads. Margaret and the kids would each get a turn on a trip, which was always a highlight of the summer. When Norman retired, he couldn't sit still, so he got a part time job at the senior citizen housing complex as a handyman.

In the late '70's, Norman was an excellent marksman, a member of the Riverdale Pistol Team, competing and winning trophies. Norman loved working on cars. His pride and joy was a '67 Chevy Camaro that he rebuilt inside and out. Norman shared his skills with his sons, helping them with their own cars whenever he could. Later on, Norman's hobby changed to computers. When his first Dell computer was just too slow to do what he wanted, he went and built his own. As technology changed, he would tweak his current computer or build another. He even became a computer game tester. 

Norman was predeceased by his loving wife, Margaret. Norman is survived by his children, Daryl Kerton and his wife Kirsten, Linda De Cumber and her husband Jon, and Shane Kerton and his fiancé Syrena Stanford. He is survived by his grandchildren Jevon Kerton, Bailey Kerton, Kiana Kerton, Jeremiah Kerton, Connor De Cumber, Mia De Cumber and Riley De Cumber.

In lieu of flowers, a donation to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated.

Dr. Louis J. Rivela, age 83, of Wayne for more than 50 years and recently of Wanaque, passed away on Friday, January 2, 2026.

Born in Brooklyn and raised in Staten Island, Louis and his younger sister Sally are the two children of Salvatore and Madeline Rivela. When Louis was in his teens, his family moved to New Brunswick, NJ, where he attended and graduated from New Brunswick High School. There, he developed a passion for science, particularly chemistry, which led him to pursue a chemistry degree at Rutgers University. After graduating, Louis continued his education at the University of North Carolina, Chapel Hill, where he earned his doctorate in Chemistry.

Louis then began a distinguished 39-year career teaching Chemistry at William Paterson College (later William Paterson University), later becoming Chairman of the Chemistry Department. He was a member of the American Chemical Society and NEACT.

While studying at Rutgers, Louis met Daria Nebeluk, a student at the Douglas Women's College. The two fell in love and married in 1964. They moved to Chapel Hill, where Daria attended Library School and they were blessed with their daughter Christina. During their time in Chapel Hill, the young family became devoted fans of the UNC Tar Heels Basketball team, a passion that would last a lifetime. After completing their degrees, the family settled in Wayne where they lived for the next fifty years.

Louis loved traveling throughout the United States and Canada, visiting National Parks along the way. An avid photographer, he captured the beauty of each park he explored, building an impressive collection of nature photographs. He and his family's favorite destination was Bar Harbor in Acadia National Park. He also developed a deep interest in Chinese culture studying Mandarin and embarking on a month-long trip to China with Daria where they explored the country’s rich history and learned authentic Chinese cooking. Louis became so proficient at Chinese cuisine that he could properly prepare Peking Duck, a notoriously difficult dish!

Beyond travel, Louis was a member of the Museum of Natural History and frequently attended operas, even meeting Luciano Pavarotti. His love of science, which defined his long career, extended naturally to science fiction. Most of all, he was devoted to Star Trek.

Louis will be remembered as a wonderful man with a warm, kind soul who was always willing to help others. Whether it was family, friends, or students struggling with chemistry problems or life's challenges, Louis made time for everyone who needed him. He was an inspiration who led by example, and his generosity and wisdom touched countless lives. He will be dearly missed by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

Louis is predeceased by his parents Salvatore Rivela and Madeline Rivela.

He is survived by his wife Daria Rivela; his daughter Christina Busseno and her husband Carl; his grandchildren: Brian, Kevin, and Steven Busseno; his sister Sally and her husband Bob Blaine; his Niece Ashley and her husband Tim Black; and his two great nieces.

Vito J. Losito, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, January 2, 2026. 

One of Joseph and Catherine (Florio) Losito’s six children, Vito was born in Bari, Italy and came to the United States as a baby. He was raised in the Bronx, NY, where he attended High School, graduating with the Class of 1952. 

Vito proudly served his country in the United States Army from 1955 to 1957. During his service, he was stationed in England, where a chance encounter would change his life forever. One evening, while waiting for a taxi, Vito stopped into a café that also served as the local taxi base. There, he met a lovely young woman named Shirley Wood, a native of England, who kindly served him a cup of tea. A warm conversation followed, and Vito soon found reasons to return—being stationed near Stansted Airport made it easy to stop in again for tea and conversation. Before long, the two fell in love. 

In 1957, Vito and Shirley came to America and were married on Sunday, June 22, 1957, at St. Francis de Chantal Parish in the Bronx. They enjoyed a honeymoon in the Poconos and began their married life together in the Bronx. They lived there for several years, including part of the time they awaited the completion of their new home in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne. In 1961, they moved into that home, where they spent the next 64 years building a life filled with cherished memories and good times. 

Vito was a man who could make or fix anything. He came from a generation that believed in repairing rather than replacing. He once built a shed entirely from pallet materials and loved working on cars—especially Chevy Corvairs, which were known for being quirky and difficult to repair. When necessary, Vito simply made his own tools to get the job done. Whatever he owned, he fixed. 

He also loved being outdoors, working in his garden, planting his prize-worthy tomatoes and tending to his herbs. His love of gardening was matched only by his disdain for chipmunks, who found his herbs and vegetables just as delicious as he did. 

Known as “Pop-Pop” to his grandchildren, Vito adored each and every one of them. He delighted in time spent with them when they were little, playing baseball in his backyard. Vito never missed a sporting event or school program and was immensely proud of their accomplishments as young adults. 

Gifted with a sharp intellect and a strong drive to succeed, Vito worked as a tool-and-die maker for the Levolor Blind Company in Hoboken, NJ, from 1961 to 1971. Those were the days when his commute from Wayne to Hoboken involved only one traffic light. Just as he created tools for his cars, Vito also designed and built custom tools for his work, allowing him to perform his job with exceptional professionalism and efficiency. 

In 1971, Vito decided to take his professional life in a new direction. He purchased a truck and became an owner-operator employed by Acme Supermarkets in South Kearny. His son Tony fondly recalls being around ten to twelve years old and visiting Acme’s truck yard, where his father once let him drive the truck—an unforgettable thrill for a young boy. While at Acme, Vito worked alongside Nelson Van Eck, and in 1976, the two went into business together, forming Van Eck and Losito Trucking, Inc. Their first contract was with Yoohoo Chocolate Drink in Carlstadt. Through integrity, hard work, and a strong partnership, the company grew tremendously. In 1993, they relocated their operation to a brand-new warehouse and truck yard in Clifton. In 2012, Vito retired so he could devote himself to caring for his beloved wife Shirley during her health challenges. 

To his granddaughter Alyssa, Pop-Pop and Yoo-hoo were inseparable. As a little girl, she genuinely believed that Pop-Pop had invented Yoo-hoo. For more than thirty years, Halloween at the Losito home meant no candy or coins—just Yoo-hoo chocolate drink boxes. The house became famously known as “the Yoo-hoo House,” and generation after generation of neighborhood children returned year after year, eventually bringing their own children. When Vito celebrated his 90th birthday, his family invited former employees, many of whom traveled from near and far, even out of state, to honor him for being such an exceptional boss. 

It came as no surprise that Vito was so deeply loved by those who worked for him. Everyone loved Vito. Yes, he was “handsome”, but even more so, he was kind, charming, and endlessly warm. Never grumpy, he was always the first to offer help and did so with a smile. Vito and Shirley were wonderful entertainers, with their home serving as headquarters for block parties and pool parties for family and neighbors alike. People were drawn to Vito’s warmth, charisma, and genuine interest in others. He loved listening to people’s stories and was always happy to share his life wisdom. To many, he was called the Godfather of the neighborhood. With Vito’s passing, everyone lost a close friend. 

Vito was the beloved husband of Shirley, blessed with a beautiful marriage that spanned 57 years until her passing in September 2013. He was the loving father of his two sons: Anthony and his wife Paula Losito of Wayne, and Robert and his wife Terry Losito of Wayne. He was the cherished grandfather of Alexis, Alyssa, Anthony, Ashleigh, Alyson, and Aiden; dear brother-in-law of Remo Apuzzo of Clintondale, NY; and loving uncle to numerous nieces and nephews. Vito was predeceased by all of his siblings: John, Dominica “Margie,” Martin, Joseph, and Mary. 

Gregory “Greg” W. Ridgway, age 62, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on January 1, 2026.

He was born in Montclair to Warren and Patricia Ridgway and raised in Bloomfield.  He graduated from Bloomfield High School with the Class of 1981.

Out of high school Greg worked as a press operator for Belson’s Uniform Shop in Bloomfield.  He enlisted in the United States Airforce and was honorably discharged in 1986.  After his military service he worked as a security office for the Short Hills Mall. For a few years Greg worked with the Department of Public Works in Fairfield then Essex Fells. Gregs most recent work was as a Crane Operator for Millenium Marine Rail in Port Elizabeth where all knew Greg as “duder” a nickname he loved.  

Greg loved to cook and, fittingly, passed away with a cookbook by his side. Some of his favorite dishes included shrimp and rice, wings, filet mignon, pork ribs, and pork loins, to name just a few. Greg was crazy, loud, and fun-loving, always teasing everyone around him and filling every space with laughter. In his youth, he insisted on being the very first one in the family to jump into the pool each year. The neighbors always knew when Greg was swimming—his booming voice could be heard blocks away. He also had a deep love for animals and was predeceased by his two beloved cats.

He is survived by his mother Patricia Ridgway of Wayne and predeceased by his father Warren Ridgway in 2000; he was the loved brother of two sisters Linda Milone and her husband Thomas of Wayne, and Karen Brauss of Toms River. He was predeceased by his brother Warren Ridgway in 2022.  Greg is survived by two nieces Danielle Forstenhausler and Samantha Milone, and one nephew Nicholas Milone.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the AmericanHeart Association would be appreciated.

Alan J. Surdyka, age 77, of Riverdale, passed away peacefully, with loving family by his side, on Thursday, January 1, 2026.

Born in Passaic, Alan was the second-born of Frederick and Stacia (Sondey) Surdyka. He was raised in Wallington and was a graduate of Wallington High School’s Class of 1967.

Following high school, Alan went straight to work. His first full-time position was with Western Electric, where he served as a journeyman and honed his skills. In 1975, when Western Electric closed its doors, Alan accepted a position as a maintenance mechanic with Alfred Heller Heat Treating Company in Clifton. He genuinely loved his work and dedicated over thirty-five years there before choosing retirement in 2013. After just a couple of months, he realized he needed something to keep himself occupied, leading him to take a part-time position as a maintenance mechanic with Precision Custom Coating Company in Totowa. He worked there for several years before finally choosing full retirement. Concurrent with his time at Western Electric and Alfred Heller Heat Treating Company, Alan served his country with honest and faithful service as an Army Reservist from 1971 until being honorably discharged in 1977.

Alan met the love of his life, Carol Fitzpatrick, through friends while they were in high school. The two were high school sweethearts and married on November 25, 1972, at St. Philip’s R.C. Church in Clifton. They honeymooned in the Bahamas and at Disney World before settling into their first home together—an apartment at his parents’ home on Koster Street in Wallington. In 1978, they moved to their present home in Riverdale, where they raised their three sons and created a lifetime of happy memories.

Alan enjoyed filling his time with many pursuits. Golf was by far his favorite sport, and at least once a week he met up with his buddies to play nine or eighteen holes at Sunset Valley Golf Course in Pompton Plains. At one point, he owned and loved riding his Harley Davidson motorcycle—until he was involved in an accident that led him to realize he cherished life and health more than the bike. He also spent countless hours caring for and manicuring his yard to Better Homes and Gardens standards. In between, Alan was always willing and able to help anyone who needed something fixed or upgraded in their home. He was truly the go-to “fix-it” guy for all his neighbors.

More than anything else, Alan was happiest when he was with his family. When his sons were young, he and Carol enjoyed taking them to Florida, staying in their timeshare, and visiting Disney World. Alan and Carol also celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary with a trip to Hawaii and took several trips to Aruba. Alan especially enjoyed working on home projects with his sons - ranging from small tasks like replacing a light switch or faucet, to reroofing a home, installing a fence, or building decks for both the house and the pool. One of the greatest joys of his life was his grandson, Joseph. As Joseph’s “Pop-Pop,” Alan happily picked him up from school three days a week, treasured spending time with him, and loved teaching him how to fix things.

Alan will be remembered as a hardworking and caring man who was always generous in sharing his time and talents with others. A beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and uncle, he always placed his family above anything else life had to offer. He will be deeply missed.

Alan was the beloved husband of Carol (Fitzpatrick) Surdyka, blessed in marriage for 53 years. He was the proud and loving father of his three sons: Joseph Surdyka and his wife, Shelly Rankin, of West Milford; Robert Surdyka and his wife, Theresa, of Riverdale; and Kevin Surdyka of Bloomingdale. He was the cherished grandfather of Joseph; dearest brother of Frederick Surdyka and his wife, Arlene; and dear uncle to several nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Alan’s name are asked to consider the following charitable organizations:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

American Cancer Society

P.O. Box 6704

Hagerstown, MD 21741

Louise Marie Albano Theiller was the heart of her family and a blessing to everyone who knew her. Born on May 31, 1940, in Yonkers, New York, she was the daughter her mother had long wished and prayed for—a gift whose kindness and devotion would shape generations. Her older brother, Bob, helped her pave the way and continued to be an important part of her life until the very end. Louise lived a life rooted in faith, humility, and deep, abiding love.

Her faith was the anchor of her life. Louise’s love of God guided her through every joy and every sorrow. Daily Mass, countless rosaries, and an unwavering trust in God sustained her, especially during life’s hardest moments. Even in the face of profound loss, her faith never wavered.

Louise shared a beautiful love story with her husband Charlie. They met by chance at the Culvermere Resort in Sussex County, NJ. From that very first meeting, Charlie often said “there was something about her eyes that glowed”. Their unexpected meeting led to a 65-year marriage built on devotion, respect, laughter, and faith. Together they welcomed Bob, Patty, Phil & Kenny. Together they created a loving home grounded in strong family values, faith, and togetherness.

Louise balanced work and family with remarkable dedication, holding positions at World Book Company, Otis Elevator, Reliance Insurance, Crum & Forster and ended her career at Accenture. She pursued her business degree for 13 years at night, and one of her proudest moments was walking across the graduation stage at William Paterson University side by side with her daughter Patty, who was earning her nursing degree.

Though she endured the heartbreaking loss of Patty and her son Kenny, Louise met that pain with extraordinary strength and poured even more love into those around her. She was a Eucharistic minister for many years, and involved in many charitable causes including Lots for Little, Meals on Wheels, and Saint Vincent DePaul. To honor Patty, Louise and Charlie created a scholarship fund for nursing students at William Paterson University in Patty’s name as well as a Biology and Biotechnology scholarship fund in their names - since inception they have given out over 125 scholarships!

Her children—and especially her seven grandchildren—were the light of her life. She followed every game, performance, graduation, and achievement with pride. If she couldn’t attend an event in person, she made sure to watch live on her computer so she wouldn’t miss a moment. She loved nothing more than being present in their lives, offering encouragement, prayers, and unconditional love. She was blessed to welcome two great granddaughters and delighted in every visit with them.

A true matriarch, Louise had an extraordinary gift for remembering people. She could meet someone once and, even decades later, recall their name and personal details, making everyone feel seen and valued. Thoughtful and intuitive, she never missed a birthday, milestone, or worry.

She found joy in life’s simple pleasures—card games around the table, bocce and shuffleboard, golden oldies, watching The Price Is Right and New York Yankees, and time spent laughing with family and friends. She loved to travel, and her 99-day cruise around the world remained one of the great highlights of her life.

In her final year, despite difficult health struggles, Louise continued to bring her family together. Son-in-law Gary and wife Eileen’s house was the central hub and provided unconditional love and support through the trying times. From buffet breakfasts to steak dinners and evenings filled with cards, shared memories, laughter, and quiet comfort became treasured moments that reflected exactly who she was.

Louise lived a simple life, yet one overflowing with meaning and generosity. She taught those around her how to love selflessly, live faithfully, and show up for others in both big and small ways. Her legacy lives on in her children, her grandchildren, her great grandchildren, and all who were blessed to know her.

She is now at peace, reunited with those she loved so dearly, and welcomed home by the God she served so faithfully.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the William Paterson University Louise and Charles Theiller Endowed Scholarship Fund.

Kenneth Arbuckle, age 87 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, December 31, 2025.

Ken was the middle child of three boys born January 3, 1938, to Betty and Harold Arbuckle in Brooklyn New York. The Brooklyn part was something he always took great pride in! When he was growing up, he often felt he was being called to become a priest someday.  He joked that he went out the window when his older brother Walter fell in love with Joanne MacIsaac, who was often followed on get togethers by her younger sister Dorothy, as well as Walter being tagged along by his younger brother Ken.  He said it was love at first sight for him when he met Dorothy and he would have to find other ways to serve the Lord.

Dorothy and Ken married and moved to beautiful Packanack Lake and started a family. They were blessed with two daughters, Christine and Pamela, but unfortunately soon after Dorothy was struck with breast cancer and passed away in 1973. Unbelievably his younger brother Jon was involved in a car accident going to see Dorothy in the hospital right before she died and was killed. That same month his beloved grandmother Louise, whom he lived in the same building with growing up, died suddenly that month as well. Needless to say, Ken was devastated but found so much strength in God and leaned in hard for God’s love to get him through and did not waiver from his strong faith. He was forever grateful to God for getting him through such tough times. He was often told that people got through extreme hard times in their life by using him as an example for them to follow.

God was very good to him and brought great happiness to his life again. He would enjoy wonderful family vacations, holidays, and gatherings with Walter and Joanne and their five daughters along with his two girls at annual LBI vacations together. Seven little girls in a little Cape Cod at the beach were some of the best times of his life. He was very close to his parents and enjoyed many weekends with them while he was getting his strength back. With God’s grace, in 1978, he met the second love of his life, Mary Copeland along with his two bonus children Matthew and Melissa. Ken and Mary soon married in 1979 and went on to have a son together, Peter. Ken and Mary worked very hard together to operate a successful family business, Sentry Water Treatment, which filled him with so much pride. Together Ken and Mary dedicated their time to the catholic faith and taught people who chose to become Catholic through the RCIA program which gave them so much joy. They were always there to help in any way they were called upon to help their parish they loved, Our Lady of Consolation’s church, which had become a family to them. Unfortunately, Mary passed away in 2013 of pancreatic cancer and not long after Ken was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.

We will all miss Ken’s presence, his five children, his two grandchildren, Ryan and Alyssa Folkertsma, and the many people his light touched in his lifetime. We take great comfort in knowing that he’s no longer struggling with dementia and enjoying eternal joy and glory with the Lord, surrounded with his loved ones who had passed before him.

Eleanor “Ellie” Vander Meulen, age 85 of Oakland, died on Wednesday, December 31, 2025 with the comfort of family by her side. Ellie was formerly of North Haledon, where she had lived for over sixty years.

Ellie was born on February 3, 1940 and raised by her parents Louis and Angela DiPalma in Brooklyn, NY.  She enjoyed summers in Cozy Lake, NJ where, at age 15, she met her eventual husband, Bob. Ellie and Bob were married in 1960, bought their home on Hillside Drive where they and their children formed numerous lasting friendships.  They also made many wonderful friends through their association with the North Haledon Volunteer Fire Company #2.  Ellie was the planner of many amazing road trips that she and Bob took throughout the country.  They were especially fond of the National Parks and visited many of them over the years.  Ellie orchestrated family vacations in Wildwood, the Poconos and elsewhere for decades, a tradition that continues to be cherished by all.  She was an avid reader which led her to help form the North Haledon Friends of the Library, for which she served as its first president.  Ellie enjoyed crocheting, singing in the St. Paul’s choir and attending the theater with musicals being her favorite shows. 

When their children were a little older, Ellie began working in the parts department at Sears, Roebuck & Company and continued there for over 30 years.  Her friends and coworkers all looked forward to her homemade Christmas cookies. 

Ellie was a devout Catholic who attended Mass regularly.  She continued to pray the rosary daily as long as she was physically able and her faith sustained her through several serious illnesses throughout her life.

Ellie was predeceased by her beloved husband of sixty-one years, Bob, in 2021.  She is survived by her brother John and his wife Pat of Blairstown, NJ.  Ellie was the beloved mother of four children; Debby Tarsitano of North Haledon, NJ, Bob Vander Meulen and his wife Cathy of Madison, NJ, Sue Antoci and her husband Sam of Oakland, NJ and Linda Avolio and her husband Anthony of North Haledon.  She is also lovingly remembered by nine grandchildren; Michelle and her husband Paul, Tom and his wife Meredith, Bobby and his wife Gena, Billy, Jack and his wife Amy, Rowen and her husband Chris, Quinn, Angela and Anthony, and five great-grandchildren; Gwyn, Henry, Lili, Belle, Ellie. Ellie passes with the joyful knowledge that another great-grandson will arrive in the coming year.

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Eleanor's memory would be appreciated to;

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Jan Van Wageningen Sr. (John), lovingly know as “Farmer” and “Opa”, age 70, of Ogdensburg, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 30, 2025.

Jan was born in the Netherlands to Hendrick and Maud Van Wageningen. He spent his early life there before his family immigrated to the United States, eventually settling in Wayne, New Jersey.

In March of 1974, Jan enlisted in the United States Army, proudly serving his country. While stationed in Germany, he earned his high school diploma from Frankfurt American High School. After being honorably discharged from the Army, Jan returned home and worked a variety of jobs before finding his place at Alexander Hay Greenhouses in North Haledon. The greenhouse became more than just a job- it reflected who he was: steady, hardworking, and quietly dedicated. He remained there for several years until his retirement in 2019.

Jan was a man of few words, but his actions spoke volumes. His love for his family was steady, constant, and deeply felt. He found joy in the simple things- sharing a cup of coffee, fishing, playing scratch off lottery tickets, watching NASCAR or football, and spending time with the people he loved most.

Of all his accomplishments nothing meant more to Jan than being a grandfather. Being “Opa” was his greatest pride and joy, a role he embraced fully and spoke about often with a quiet smile and unmistakable love.

Jan will be remembered for his quiet strength, gentle presence, and the deep love he carried for his family. He was the kind of man who didn’t need many words to make a lasting impact. His love, his strength, and his memory will live on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know him.

Jan is survived by his two sisters: Corey Pollara, Tanny Schneider and five brothers: Hank, Johan, Neil, Pete, and Dave Van Wageningen; his six children: Dawn and her husband Timothy (Tex) Beeman, Brian and his wife Lindsay Van Wageningen, Jeffrey (Jeff) and his wife Briana Van Wageningen, Shannon and her husband Kenneth (Kenny) Poyer, Douglas (Doug) Van Wageningen and his fiancé Cara Maloney, and Dennis Van Wageningen; his eighteen grandchildren: Brayden, Olivia, Evan William, Tyler & (fiancé Jojo Krimmer), Jenn & (husband Lance Cotter), Matthew, Kayden, Bryce, Preston, Karlie, Lydia, Riley, Emma, Codie, Chase, Raelynn, Zoey, Kensley; his five step grandchildren: Anna, Sara, Justin, Ayden, StarLynn; and future great grand daughter River Noel Cotter.

Jan is predeceased by his parents Hendrik and Maud Van Wageningen, his sister Kathy Hogan, and his son Jan (John) Van Wageningen, Jr..

Martin L. Ludwig, Ph.D., age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 27, 2025.

The son of Louis Lee and Agnes (Gentile) Ludwig, Martin was born in Brooklyn, NY. 

Martin was a graduate of Admiral Farragut Academy in Pine Beach, NJ, Class of 1954. He went on to pursue higher education at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, where he earned his bachelor’s degree in industrial engineering. Martin was a very proud veteran of the United States Navy, having served a tour of duty aboard the USS Essex (CV-9). During his naval service, he served as the ship’s Chaplain’s Mate, arranging all religious services and handling clerical work for the ship’s clergy. In recent years, Martin was often seen proudly wearing his USS Essex (CV-9) cap.

Following his honorable discharge from the Navy, Martin worked for the Sperry Rand Corporation, selling military electronics. He later joined the Univac Corporation as a mainframe computer salesman. In the 1960s, he launched the first of three companies he would go on to lead. These included Command Control, Energy Management Engineering in 1980, and, in his eighties, Hello Energy, where he served as CEO until 2023. As if that were not enough, Martin earned a doctorate in engineering in the late 1990s. Always determined to remain on the cutting edge of his profession, he viewed pursuing a doctorate as the pathway to that goal. Following graduation, he became an adjunct professor in the School of Business at William Paterson University, where he taught from 1998 until 2012.

Next to his love for family, Martin’s greatest passions were entrepreneurship, business, sales, and marketing—disciplines which he was both passionate about and naturally gifted. As his son Louis fondly remarked, Martin could sell ice to Eskimos and leave them delighted with the purchase. For Martin, work was fun. Even as recently as three years ago, he was actively developing his skills as an artificial intelligence programmer.

Despite his tireless work ethic, Martin always made time to enjoy a New York Yankees game. A devoted fan of the Bronx Bombers, few things delighted him more than attending games at Yankee Stadium with his grandchildren by his side. He also had a lifelong fascination with aerospace engineering, with rocket launches being a particular thrill.

Martin was friendly, outgoing, and enthusiastic about life, which he lived to the fullest. He was deeply loved by his devoted wife Camille, his children, and his grandchildren. His mere presence—marked by warmth, joy, and exuberance—will be dearly missed.

Martin was the beloved husband of Camille Ludwig (née Traino), blessed with a loving and devoted marriage of 66 years. He was the loving father of Louis Ludwig and his wife Brenda of Wayne, and Eric Ludwig and his wife Yvette of Hamburg; cherished grandfather of Chelsea Zayas, Deanna Lawson and her husband Mark, and Jonathan Ludwig and his wife Alli; and proud great-grandfather of Riley Ann Lawson.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Martin’s memory are asked to consider a donation to:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Robert Richardson, 91, a beloved father, grandfather, and great grandfather, passed away on December 27, 2025 in the comfort of his home surrounded by family in Orlando FL.

Bob was born March 27, 1934 in Brooklyn, NY to Edward and Matilda (Dolly) Richardson. They moved to Sloatsburg NY when he was a young boy. 

Bob lettered in cross country while attending Suffern High School in 1952. He served 4 years in the Navy after high school as a SeaBee. After returning home, he worked at Avon in the carpenter shop. He then worked at Singer Kearfott until his retirement in 1996. 

Bob married Frances DeVries in 1958. Bob and Fran loved traveling and camping. They took many exciting trips; his favorite was their trip to Hawaii. The two enjoyed 63 years of marriage before Frances' death in 2022.

He is survived by his children Sharon and husband Robert Verbeke, Linda and husband Andrew Andela, and Scott and wife Michelle Richardson, along with his many grandchildren and great grandchildren: Laura and husband James Everett; Rachael, Alicia, Tyler and Luke; Peter Andela and fiancé Melissa; James and Ava; Kelly Andela; Kimberly and husband Kevin Vandervalk; Aidan and Elise Frances; Benjamin Richardson; Steven Verbeke; Kenzie; Kayleigh and husband Carl Ciullo; Cooper; Kristine Verbeke and Ryen Beach.

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In lieu of flowers the family requests that donations be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Jean Susino (nee Baker), age 87, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 27, 2025, with her loving family by her side.

Jean was born and raised in Paterson, NJ, one of ten children born to Kenneth and Edith Baker. She attended Central High School in Paterson and carried with her the strong values and work ethic she learned early in life.

She fell madly in love with Joseph Susino, and on September 24, 1955, the two eloped to Brooklyn, New York. It was the start of a lifelong love story. They returned to Paterson to build their life together and welcomed five children: John, Joseph, Jean, Michele, and April. In 1973, the family moved to Wayne, New Jersey, where Jean remained for the rest of her life.

Jean was the heart of her home. As a devoted homemaker, she managed the household finances, tackled home improvement projects, and even handled bookkeeping for her father-in-law’s service station simply because she was always willing to help. Her family often joked that she was their own version of “Wonder Woman,” somehow doing it all with ease.

Later in life, encouraged by her daughter April, Jean applied for a position with the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department. She was hired right away and worked as a secretary there for over 10 years until her retirement.

Jean’s faith was an important part of her life. She was a longtime parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne and prayed the Rosary every day.

She also knew how to enjoy life and had a competitive spirit. Jean was an avid bowler who played in several local leagues, earning trophies along the way.  Although she never bowled professionally, she took great pride in successfully converting the notoriously difficult 7–10 split multiple times throughout her life.  She traveled to destinations such as Las Vegas and Reno to compete in bowling tournaments also frequently enjoyed horseback riding.

A wonderful cook, Jean was especially known for her homemade pies and ravioli. She loved hosting Sunday dinners and holidays, filling her home with great food, laughter, and love.

Jean will be remembered as funny, upbeat, and incredibly selfless, always putting others before herself. Her greatest joy and true passion in life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jean than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She and her husband Joseph cherished an amazing seventy years of loving and loyal marriage together. 

She will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew her.

Jean is survived by her husband Joseph Susino, Sr of Wayne, NJ five children; John Susino and his wife Donna of Ocala, FL, Joseph Susino, Jr and his wife Denise of Howell, NJ, Jean Bennett and her husband Scott of Dawsonville, GA, Michele Schaffner and her husband John of Cornwall, NY, and April Hand and her husband Todd of Susquehanna, PA, thirteen grandchildren; Paul Susino of Ocala, FL, John Susino of Ocala, FL, Tina Nicole Susino of Ocala, FL, Melissa Nussbaum of Freehold, NJ, Meghan Susino of Kissimmee, FL, Brittany Susino of Howell, NJ, Alexis Susino of Howell, NJ, Rebecca Susino of Howell, NJ, Michelle Taber of Dawsonville, GA, Alexander Putnam of Dawsonville, GA, John Joseph Schaffner of New Windsor, NY, Sonny Schaffner of Lake Tahoe, CA, and TJ Hand of Susquehanna, PA, and fourteen great grandchildren.  She was predeceased by all nine of her siblings.

William Henry “Bill” Butler, 95, passed away peacefully on December 25, 2025, in Boonton, New Jersey. A proud husband, father, grandfather, Navy veteran, dedicated volunteer firefighter, and passionate radio enthusiast, Bill’s life was one of service, connection, and joy.

Born on September 28, 1930, in Paterson, New Jersey, Bill graduated from Central High School in 1949. A gifted tenor and music lover, he served as president of the school’s Music Club and was honored with selection to the All-State Choir all four years—a remarkable achievement reflecting his exceptional talent.

Bill enlisted in the United States Navy during the Korean War and served from January 1952 to December 1955 aboard the USS Harwood (DDE-861) as a radio operator in the Mediterranean Sea. He earned the Navy Occupation Medal with the Europe Clasp and the National Defense Medal for his honorable service.

After his military service, Bill studied at The RCA Technical Institute in New York City. His career began in radio broadcasting with WKER in Pennsylvania and AM 1500 in Pompton Lakes before moving into telecommunications with AT&T. He later joined Bendix Corporation in Teterboro as a Service Support Engineer, where he worked for 34 years and traveled extensively. Following retirement, Bill served as a part-time crossing guard for Wayne Township.

Known by his ham radio call letters W2LOT, he maintained daily global connections with fellow enthusiasts.

For 61 years, Bill volunteered with Packanack Lake Fire Company #5, earning deep respect for his unwavering commitment to community. Throughout his years of service he served as Assistant Engineer in 1964 & 1965, Second Lieutenant in 1966 & 1967, Captain in 1968, 1969 & 1982, Assistant Chief in 1970, 1971, 1972, 1983 & 1984, Chief in 1976, 1977 & 1978, Treasurer in 1973 and Trustee in 1979 & 1980. Bill was instrumental in providing training and leadership to ensure that Co.#5 always has been a progressive, well-disciplined and efficient organization that was up to date on the best practices of the fire service. Co. #5 will always be grateful for his years of service and dedication.

Bill enjoyed fishing, bowling in a local league, and traveling with his family—cherished memories include yearly trips to Florida, the Jersey Shore, the Grand Canyon, Colorado Springs, Yellowstone, and California. He was also a coffee lover, drinking at least 4 cups daily, and always making sure there was a fresh pot of coffee on at the firehouse.

He is survived by his beloved wife Claire Butler; children Karen Dunn (Edward), William Butler (Amy), Robert Butler, Kelly Zaffarino; and grandchildren Lindsay, Danielle, Keith, Gabrielle, and Christian. He was predeceased by his parents Elizabeth and William Butler.

Bill leaves behind a legacy of service, love, and joyful connection. May his memory bring comfort and inspiration to all who knew him.

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the following,

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Packanack Lake Fire Company #5

5 Lake Drive West

Wayne, NJ 07470

or

NJ Fireman's Home

565 Lathrop Ave.

Boonton, NJ 07005

Renee Marion Drol (nee Locker), age 95, of West Milford, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 24, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Renee was born in Paterson, New Jersey, and raised in Woodland Park, formerly known as West Paterson. She was one of two children born to Henry and Gladys Locker.

Renee was a polio survivor at a time when no cure existed. Through constant therapy and the devoted support of her parents, friends, and relatives, she overcame its challenges with strength and determination. As a young girl, she enjoyed riding her bicycle with her brother, Hank, into Totowa, where she attended school, though she often remarked on how difficult the ride home was up the steep hill on Meriline Avenue.

She graduated from Passaic Valley High School with the Class of 1947. During her school years, Renee excelled in girls’ intramural basketball and was an accomplished figure skater, often skating at Barber’s Pond.

Following high school, Renee worked at a bank in downtown Paterson and later at Bendix Corporation in Teterboro, New Jersey. She also spent several years as a professional model with Barbizon. After the birth of her first child, she chose to devote herself fully to her family as a homemaker.

On September 13, 1956, Renee married her high school sweetheart, Andrew Drol. The couple initially lived in West Paterson before building a home in Wayne, New Jersey, where they raised their family and resided for nearly 50 years. Together, they welcomed three children Andy, Brad, and Karen whom they lovingly raised. In the early 2000s, Renee relocated to West Milford to be closer to family.

After her children were grown, Renee returned to the workforce. She worked as a receptionist and telephone operator at Meyer Brothers in West Caldwell, held sales positions with local department and clothing stores, and later served as an administrative assistant for State Farm Insurance in Wayne for more than ten years before retiring.

Renee was a longtime member of St. Michael’s Church in Wayne, where she taught Sunday School for many years, and later became an active member of Smoke Rise Community Church. She was deeply devoted to her Christian faith.

Her greatest joy in life was her family, and she treasured every moment spent with her children and grandchildren. Renee also enjoyed playing bingo and was an exceptional cook, well known for her many cherished recipes, including rice pudding, brownies, Dutch apple cake, and pies.

Renee shared more than forty years of marriage with her beloved husband, Andrew, until his passing in 1999. She cherished family vacations to Disney World in Orlando, Florida, and to Point Pleasant, New Jersey, always traveling together by car.

A devoted mother and grandmother, Renee will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Renee is survived by her three children: her daughter Karen Straub and her partner Michael DeJohn of West Milford, NJ; her son Brad Drol and his wife Julie of West Milford, NJ, and her son Andy Drál, of Redwood City, CA. She is also survived by her two grandchildren; Kelly Behnke and her husband Rich of Bayville NJ, and Kayla Drol of West Milford, NJ. She was predeceased by her husband, Andrew Drol (1999), and her brother, Henry Locker (2019).

In lieu of flowers, donations in Renee’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, Greater New Jersey Chapter, 23 Vreeland Road, Suite 105, Florham Park, New Jersey 07932.

Jeanne L. Karle, age 72 passed peacefully to heaven on Tuesday, December 23, 2025 after a brief illness.  Jeanne was pre-deceased by her parents, Kenneth W. and Irene S. Karle who faithfully cared for her in their Wayne home for most of her life.  Jeanne attended Wayne schools for twelve years in Mrs. Hamilton's special education class in Kern Cottage.

Jeanne is survived by her older sister, Karen (and John) Kenderdine of Gouldsboro, PA and her younger brother, Kenneth H. (and Diane) Karle of Chester, MD along with five nieces and nephews.  For the past decade, Jeanne lived in the Pompton Lakes Group home where she was well cared for by an empathetic and loving staff in a family setting with three house mates.

Thelma Frasca (nee Wagnecz), age 93, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, December 22, 2025.

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Thelma was the second-born of Alexander and Anna (Simchock) Wagnecz’s two children. Born in Passaic, NJ, she was raised in Garfield, NJ, where she was a graduate of Garfield High School, Class of 1949.

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After high school, Thelma worked as a secretary. She met and fell in love with Julio “Jul” Michael Frasca, who was enlisted in the United States Navy during their courtship. They shared their wedding vows before God, family, and friends at St. Stephen’s Roman Catholic Magyar Church in Passaic on Sunday, December 21, 1952.

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Following their wedding, Thelma and Jul lived in Takoma Park, MD, where Jul was stationed with the U.S. Navy. Upon his return to civilian life, they moved back to New Jersey, briefly settling in East Paterson and later in Garfield. Sadly, while living in Garfield, Jul passed away unexpectedly in 1982 at the young age of 51.    In 1996, Thelma moved to Wayne, where she shared a home with her daughter Anne and son-in-law Marc.

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Thelma was, first and foremost, a devoted mother to her two sons and one daughter, Michael, James, and Anne. A homemaker, she provided love, guidance, and a warm, welcoming home where her husband and children always looked forward to returning after a long day at work or school. She was also a precious “Bomba” to her eight grandchildren and six great grandchildren whose nickname was lovingly embraced when one of her grandchildren called her that when trying to say “Grandma,”   Bomba was so devoted to her grandchildren that she earned the affectionate title of “America’s Grandma”.  She was a good sport in every sense, even when her grandchildren crumpled up Christmas wrapping paper and used Bomba for target practice. One of Thelma’s summertime highlights was spending time with her family at their lake house in Georgia.

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In addition to her roles as wife, mother, and homemaker, Thelma worked as a secretary for various companies, most recently with Aircraft Engineering in Clifton.

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Thelma preferred to live a simple, quiet life in the loving company of her family. That said, she did enjoy playing bingo and taking bus trips to Mount Airy Lodge Casino, where testing her luck at the Triple 7 slot machine was her game of choice. When relaxing at home, Thelma liked to keep her mind sharp by watching game shows, including Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune, among others. She also enjoyed The Golden Girls, Big Brother, Survivor, and anything on the Hallmark Channel. Oftentimes, television time was shared with her rescue dog Frankie by her side.

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The memory of Thelma will be truly cherished by her family and friends alike. Quiet yet caring and loving, she was a generous soul who touched others with her easygoing and loving heart.

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Thelma was the beloved wife of Julio “Jul” Frasca, blessed in marriage for 29 years until his passing in 1982. She was the loving mother of Dr. Michael Frasca and his wife Jessica of Peoria, IL, whose children are Amy (Aaron), Alexander, and Christopher; James Frasca and his wife Angela of Apex, North Carolina, whose children are Giulio and Teresa; and Anne Sotsky and her husband Marc of Wayne, NJ, whose children are Bethany (Matthew) and their children Caden and Liam; Eric (Megan) and their children Avery, Eliana, Ethan, and Luke; and Kelly (Boriana). She was the dear younger sister of Alexander Wagnecz and his late wife Sylvia of Succasunna, NJ, and is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews.

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Thelma’s memory are asked to consider:

Christian Health

Foundation Department

Attn: Sue Kelly

301 Sicomac Ave.

Wyckoff, NJ 07481

 Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Thelma Frasca.

Marye (Kardux) Heatley passed away peacefully in West Milford, New Jersey, on Saturday, December 20, 2025 after a long and blessed life of 97 years. 

A gifted pianist and a loving wife, she was deeply devoted to her family and her faith. While she will be dearly missed by her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and friends, we can take comfort in her favorite Bible verse: “To every thing there is a season, and a time for every purpose under heaven.”

Born in Hawthorne, New Jersey, Marye graduated from Central High School, where she enjoyed playing the piano and performing as a majorette. After briefly working for the telephone company, she married William A. Heatley Jr. in 1949. Together they made their home in North Haledon and later Wayne, New Jersey, where they raised their three children. Marye cherished spending summers in Ocean Grove, delighting in days at the beach and singing in the Ocean Grove Auditorium Choir.

Music was central to Marye’s life. An accomplished pianist, she shared her gifts at church services, family gatherings, and social events. Her faith life was rooted at Sixth Reformed Church (now Living Word Reformed Church) in Paterson and later in North Haledon, where she sang in the Senior Choir and served as accompanist for the Male Chorus and Children’s Choir. Alongside her husband Bill, a soloist, she brought joy and inspiration to countless worship services and weddings. Music remained a constant throughout her life - from accompanying the church’s praise band while in her eighties, to later playing regularly at worship services in the assisted living facility where she spent her final years.

Marye was predeceased by her husband of 49 years, William A. Heatley Jr., in 1998. She is survived by her three children: William P. Heatley of Ocean Grove, New Jersey; Jane P. Sherwood and her husband, Jonathan, of Andover, New Jersey; and Donald A. Heatley and his wife, Pamela, of Keyport, New Jersey; as well as five grandchildren: Veronica, Virginia, Ava, Tara, and Isaac; and three great-grandchildren: Paul, Talia, and Theodore.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society.

Susan Brigida, age 65, of Wayne, passed Saturday, December 20, 2025.

She was born in Newark and has lived in Wayne for the past sixty years. Susan graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1978.  

During her high school years she worked for her brother, James T. Voglino, DMD in Wayne. She soon pursued an education in cosmetology and esthetician at the Capri Institute in Clifton. Upon graduation she worked with her sister at the Beauty Doctor in Livingston. 

Susan met the love of her life, Gino Brigida, at Ashley’s in Clifton. Their first date was a return to Ashley’s just one week later, and they soon fell deeply in love. Gino quickly became part of Susan’s family, who welcomed him with open arms and grew to love him as their own.

Gino proposed to Susan at her home in Wayne after first asking her parents for their blessing. They were married on June 17, 1984, celebrated with a reception at The Manor in West Orange, and honeymooned in Acapulco. Susan and Gino lived with her parents for about six months before purchasing a home in the Pines Lake section of Wayne, where they built a life filled with love and devotion.

Their marriage was blessed with two children—a honeymoon baby, their daughter Gina, followed soon after by their son, Frank. Susan often fondly shared that she fell in love with Gino’s “sparkling green eyes,” a detail that perfectly captured the joy and romance of their life together.

Susan was a beacon of love and devotion, deeply rooted in her Catholic faith and her lifelong passion for caring for others. She radiated warmth and kindness, embracing everyone she met with the nurturing spirit of a mother. Her family was her world, and she poured her heart into making every meal a labor of love. Sunday pasta with homemade meatballs became a cherished family tradition, symbolizing her deep commitment to togetherness.

Susan’s culinary talents shone especially bright in her homemade soups, which she lovingly prepared. With her door always open, she welcomed everyone into her home, embodying true selflessness and compassion. Her children, Frank and Gina, along with her beloved grandchildren and extended family, were the center of her universe. She would have put a tracker on each family member if they let her. Susan also found joy in life’s simple pleasures, often taking peaceful walks around her beloved Pines Lake, where she cherished the beauty and calm of nature.

Susan was the loving wife of over forty years to Gino Brigida; devoted mother of Gina Rose and her husband Guy of Wayne and Frank Brigida and his wife Jenna of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Luca, Vienna, and Dante Rose and Giovanni, Lorenzo, and Leonardo Brigida; loved sister of James Voglino and his wife Barbara of Wayne, Phyllis Velardi of Livingston, Carol Maglio (Susan’s twin sister) of Totowa, and the late Dolores Pacelli (d. 2023). 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society would be greatly appreciated.

Michael Angelo Lorusso, age 66, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away peacefully on Friday, December 19, 2025 with his loving family by his side.

Mike was born to Angelo Lorusso and Jenny Gradzki in Brooklyn, New York and later relocated to West Orange, New Jersey with his brother, Vinny. He graduated from West Orange High School in 1977, where he played varsity football and enjoyed playing tennis, softball, and ice skating with friends. He continued his education at William Paterson University, earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in accounting in 1981.

In 1987, Mike started his own accounting practice, Lorusso & Company, which he ran for 17 years and later continued as a consulting firm throughout his professional journey. He became an accounting and tax manager at Cullari Carrico, LLC, before moving to The Dunn Group as a controller. In 2015, Mike began providing his accounting services to The Meglio Group where he worked for eight years before resuming his full-time practice.

Mike dedicated 45 years to the volunteer fire service in Wayne at POL Company #2 and Foresport Fire Department in Forestport, New York. He held various ranks including Lieutenant, Captain, Assistant Chief, and Chief. In 2003, he assumed the role of Fire Commissioner where he oversaw Wayne’s five fire companies. He also held an administrative position as Company #2’s Treasurer which aligned perfectly with his profession. In Forestport, he achieved Lieutenant and Captain after bringing the “big city” firefighting experience to small town New York. His knowledge made him a valuable asset in training and operating procedures which allowed him to move through the ranks rather quickly, all while still learning firematics, after decades of experience, from his friends in Forestport.

Mike’s favorite hobby was snowmobiling in Old Forge with his daughter Gina, and friends Joe, Tammy, Jack, and John. He developed a love for Ski-Doo snowmobiles and BRP ATVs, refusing to purchase any other brand because the exhaust sounded just right, not too pitchy. In 2022, he briefly moved to a beautiful cabin just outside Adirondack Park in Forestport, where he enjoyed the fresh mountain air and could access the snowmobile trails right from his own driveway.

There, he prepared many delicious home-cooked meals after long days of riding, especially on holiday weekends when his daughter and friends would drive up to enjoy the snow and scenery. His favorite feature of the house was the wood stove which not only kept the home warm, but also kept his coffee warm as well when he would place his mug on the top of it. He enjoyed sitting in the backyard by the fire as he watched his dog, Hazel, run around the five-acre property, sniffing for any deer that may have passed through. He loved cooking and grilling, tackling home projects, playing golf, and watching and attending hockey games with Gina. His sense of humor could light up any room, and he made everyone feel welcomed and cared for — it’s the Lorusso way.

Gina was the center of Mike’s world, and he was her biggest supporter in anything she did. Above all, he was her best friend. He read every article she wrote for her college newspaper and cherished watching her grow and succeed every step of the way. He never failed to mention her in conversation, always making sure people knew how proud he was of her. He was a wonderful father, teacher of life lessons, and made the best school lunches, always excited to pack her the new flavor of Oreo he found at the food store. He attended every soccer game and school event to make sure Gina always had someone in the crowd. They bonded over a shared love of coffee, their favorite movie Slap Shot, and long walks with Hazel. So much of Mike’s personality shines in his daughter, from his dedication to his work to his quiet strength and unwavering loyalty to the people he loved.

Mike is predeceased by his parents Jenny Gradzki and Angelo Lorusso, and his beloved son, Anthony who suddenly and unexpectedly passed away at the age of 16 in 2002.

He is survived by his cherished daughter Gina, his brother Vinny, cousin Linda Lopez Papetti and her husband Joe, cousin Steven Shovelson and his wife Mickie, and cousins Jeff and Tammy Shovelson.

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The family requests in lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the following organizations:

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- Wayne POL Fire Company #2 | PO Box 1, Wayne, NJ 07470

- Trackside Blazers Snowmobile Club Inc. | PO Box 334, Forestport, NY 13338

- Forestport Fire Department, Forestport Firefighters Inc. | 11965 River Rd, Forestport, NY 13338

Shirley P. MacLeod, age 91 of Lakewood, passed away on Friday, December 19, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson as an only child to Sterli and Louise Molteni, Shirley grew up with a love for ballroom dancing and cherished memories of family picnics and trips to the beach in Atlantic City. During these early years, she also developed a passion for photography that would stay with her throughout her life.

After graduating from Central High School in Paterson, Shirley began her professional career as a secretary at Prudential Incorporated before moving to Metropolitan Life, where she worked until her retirement in the late 1990s.

Shirley met and fell in love with Anton Hartman, and the two married. He lovingly became a father to her daughter Karen, and together they shared a happy marriage until his untimely passing in 1969. After his passing, Shirley found comfort and companionship with James MacLeod, with whom she spent the next twenty-five years until his passing in 2006.

Though not naturally athletic, Shirley embraced roller skating when her daughter Karen took up the sport, and it became a beloved family tradition. The two would go to the Paramus Roller Rink regularly, where they joined a skating group that became like family. Every Sunday, the group gathered at Cold Spring Lake to enjoy the beach and share picnics together. 

In her later years, Shirley enjoyed collecting dolls, especially the Shirley Temple Dolls after which she was named. She was an active member of the Leisure Village Doll Club and found peace watching the waves roll in at the ocean and spending time with her family. Easy-going yet occasionally stubborn, Shirley was quiet but very sociable and quick to make friends. She will be dearly missed.

Shirley is predeceased by her husband Anton Hartman, her companion James MacLeod, and her parents Sterli Molteni and Louise Molteni. 

Shirley is survived by her daughter Karen Zimin and her Husband Al Zimin; her grandkids: Alex Zimin and his wife Paula Zimin, and Paul Zimin and his wife Robin Butler; and her great grandkids: Lautner and Landon Zimin, and Lainey and Liv Zimin.

Laura DeBrock, 61, of Towaco, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 18, 2025. 

Laura was born in Livingston and raised in Cedar Grove. She was the firstborn of Joseph and Nancy (MacFarlane) Freda’s three children. 

A graduate of Cedar Grove High School’s Class of 1982, Laura, after completing her education, worked at the Fortunoffs Store in Wayne’s Willowbrook Mall. While there, she established deep friendships that spanned more than forty years with two of her coworkers, Cheryl, and Pam. That job also proved pivotal in her life, as it was where she met the man she would eventually marry - Christopher “Chris” DeBrock. 

Chris’s sister, Eileen, also worked at Fortunoffs, and one day she brought Laura home, where Laura and Chris met for the first time. Around that same time, Eileen had purchased a new home, which served as the perfect excuse for Chris to ask Laura if she wanted to take a ride together to see it. A few days later, Chris was supposed to meet a friend at the 94th Bomb Grill in Fairfield. The friend never showed up, but—wouldn’t you know - Laura was there. From that point on, for both Laura and Chris, there was never a thought of turning back. 

Their dating relationship ultimately led to a marriage proposal by Chris, which took place at the former With Love Restaurant in Lincoln Park. Seizing the moment, Chris dropped to one knee right in the middle of the dining room, in front of all the other patrons. He popped the question, and, caught completely off guard, Laura smiled and said “yes,” as the entire restaurant erupted into applause. 

They exchanged wedding vows on Sunday, May 19, 1991, at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church in Pompton Plains. It was a beautiful, sunny spring day - perfect for a wedding. A reception followed at the former Mayfair Farms in West Orange, and they then honeymooned in Aruba. 

After the wedding and honeymoon, Laura and Chris began married life in their home at 19 Albert Street in Pompton Lakes. While there, they were blessed with two children, Christopher and Kelsy. It was during this time that Laura established a cherished friendship with her neighbor, Janine. After several more moves, Laura and Chris settled in their present home in Towaco, but their friendship with Janine and her husband, Perry, never ended. Laura and Chris enjoyed time spent together at Janine and Perry’s home in Florida, and every weekend their families gathered at one another’s homes for cake and coffee. 

Laura poured herself into her children. For all the years that Kelsy played youth softball, Laura served as the head coach. She never missed any of her son Chris’s football or lacrosse games, and she was always happy to play bus driver for her children and all their friends. Sometimes she would even take them all to the diner after a game, and her home was a welcoming place where her children’s friends loved to visit. She was simply a great mom. 

In between her “Mommy” activities, Laura worked for many years as a dental assistant for several dental practices. 

Laura enjoyed working in her gardens, tending to her flowers and vegetables. She was also every dog in the world’s best friend. If the names of every dog touched by Laura’s love were written down, they would fill a page and more. Some notable ones included Hunter, Calvin, and Benny. She never passed up an opportunity to give an animal a second chance. Just ask Benny - a dog who remained unclaimed at a shelter for more than two years. Moved by compassion for this pooch who had no chance of winning a beauty contest, Laura finally took him home and gave him the love that every living creature deserves. Laura’s love of animals extended far beyond dogs. She also helped care for cats, birds, parakeets, and even tarantulas and lizards. If Dr. Doolittle had a wife, it could have been Laura. 

Above all else, Laura cherished her family. Recently blessed with two grandchildren, she loved being their “Nuny”. She adored them with all her heart, and despite her physical limitations, those two little angels were welcomed any day of the week and every weekend. Laura was a truly generous and giving person. It was not unusual to arrive at her home and hear her say, “Hey! Open that box. I saw it, thought about you, and thought you’d like it.” Or she would call her daughter and say, “Hey, put on the QVC channel right now. Whatta ya think? I want to get that for you. What size should I get?” 

Laura was the captain of her ship - no grass ever grew under her feet. She knew what she wanted, and she made it happen. Laura and her husband Chris were the ultimate hosts, always eager to welcome friends and family into their home. There was always plenty of laughter, and Laura made sure there was more than enough food - so guests could head home with a nice helping of leftovers. 

Laura’s warm personality and the energy she brought into a room will be dearly missed by all who were privileged to share life with her. In recent years, after losing mobility, her family got her a Google Home speaker. While it was helpful for making and receiving calls, getting information, or listening to music, it also became a great source of entertainment for her family as they listened to her interact with the device. Her children and grandchildren will deeply miss FaceTime calls with Nuny. Laura had a knack for calling right before dinner, naps, or whenever she could find an excuse. 

Laura was the kind of person who was always there for you. She lived to help others. 

Laura was the beloved wife of Chris DeBrock, blessed in marriage for 34 years. She was the loving mother of Christopher and his wife, Jillian DeBrock, of Oak Ridge, NJ, and Kelsy and her husband, Albert Tyma, of Green Township, NJ; the adoring grandmother of Owen and Alexandra; the dearest sister of James and his wife, Marianne Freda, of Kinnelon, and Craig and his late wife, Kelly Freda, of Hope, NJ; and the dear aunt of Gavin, Casey, Mackenzie, Hayden, and Kiernan. 

Because of her great love and big heart for all of God’s creatures, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Laura’s name are asked to consider the Montville Animal Shelter, 7 Church Lane, Montville, NJ 07045.

Emma Lorell (Gordon) Thompson peacefully journeyed into heaven on Wednesday, December 17 , 2025. She was 95 years old.

Emma, known better by her nickname, "Peggy" was born on August 28, 1930, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She was the beloved daughter and only child of the late Frances Henrietta (Jones) Gordon and Walter Avery Gordon.

Emma was serving as an American Red Cross Volunteer at the Veterans Hospital in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania in 1944 when she met her future husband, Edward Lewis Thompson (1924-2004). He was an injured and decorated soldier who served in the US Army. They were married in 1948 and moved first to his native home in Closter, New Jersey, then to Teaneck, New Jersey, and eventually made Wayne, New Jersey their home. They shared a loving and spiritual family life with their two children: Chery! Ann (1951-2008) and Edward A(1954-2016).

Emma was a strong and independent woman with a sharp and wonderful sense of humor and a contagious laugh. She found joy in her various Arts and Crafts, watching her favorite sports teams on television, and -most of all-staying connected with others. She was both a colleague and mentor to many other employees and students throughout her many years at William Paterson University. Her photo was used and featured in the University's New Student recruitment ads during its "Making a Difference" campaign, showcasing one of its employees on campus who was making a difference.

She certainly made a difference to everyone in her life, including co-workers, colleagues, students (and the children of students), and those she knew and loved as friends.

Miss Emma/Peggy was an endearing wife and mother. Her children and family were her heart, her joy, her everything. Both children were exceptional artists in their respective fields of Music and Art. Their parents have created endowed scholarships in their names at William Paterson University, their Alma Mater.

Her favorite book: The Holy Bible

Her favorite song: Over the Rainbow (James Taylor)

Her favorite poem: God Grant Me the Serenity (Rheinhold Niebuhr)

Emma's spirit, kindness, generosity and love wilt live in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. She will be remembered always for her strength, humor, advice (whether requested or not), and the deep love and respect for others she shared so freely.

Alice Catherine Larranaga (Herrmann), age 86, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home, in the presence of her loving family, on Wednesday, December 17, 2025.

Alice was the firstborn of Eugene and Irene (Muckenhoupt) Herrmann’s three children. She was born in New York City and raised in the Parkchester neighborhood of the Bronx.

Alice was a graduate of St. Helena’s High School in the Bronx and Hunter College in Manhattan, where she earned her bachelor’s degree with a major in mathematics. She married shortly after graduating from college and had three children, embracing her life as a mother and homemaker. 

In 1966, the Larranaga family moved to Wayne, NJ and purchased their home at 12 Cathy Ann Court.  Alice worked for the Township of Wayne in the personnel department, retiring after 30 years of service at age sixty-two. In 1985, she moved to her present home in the Lion’s Head Lake section of Wayne. She remained there for the rest of her life and, to her, it was truly “Home-Sweet-Home.”

Alice was gifted by God with a creative spirit and found many outlets for expression throughout her life. As a teenager, she was active in high school theater productions; as the mother of three children at Our Lady of the Valley Grammar School, Alice was active in the OLV Church music ministry and often led Masses as a solo singer accompanied by her guitar. Other musical outlets she cherished were her roles with the Stuart Smith Singers, performing in large productions twice each year and her role in an educational program called the Sweet Inspiration Vocal Trio. The group put on educational performances at schools and shopping malls. In retirement, she continued to develop her musical talents, learning to play the piano and enjoying bringing her guitar to her grandchildren’s schools to entertain the children.

When she was not performing, Alice loved spending time in bookstores and visiting the Wayne Public Library. She enjoyed losing herself in a good story and she made it a practice to donate her books once finished so others could experience them as well.

And then there were the art classes – an opportunity she seized upon in retirement to enrich her life and keep her mind sharp. Drawn to fresh air and sunshine, Alice especially enjoyed painting landscapes primarily utilizing oil-based acrylics as her medium of choice. She cherished fond memories of summers as a child with her mom, dad, and brothers at Squam Lake in New Hampshire and, as an adult, with family and friends at the Jersey Shore. Retirement also allowed more opportunities to gather with friends for lunch or dinner - something Alice relished, as it combined her love of exploring new foods with enjoying the company of those she held dear.

Above all, Alice treasured time spent with her family. She was a loving and devoted grandmother to her seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.  Summer visits to “Camp Grandma” and bathtime are cherished memories for all the grandchildren. And back-yard gatherings at Bill & Joan’s house brought the entire family together, including extended family and friends.

Alice embodied the qualities that make a person a true blessing in the lives of others. Never one to complain, she was loving, caring, and selfless. Patient yet direct, you always knew where you stood with her—and it was usually in a good place. Her creativity sustained her through life’s challenges and inspired those around her to see the good in the world.

Alice was the loving mother of William Larranaga and his wife Joan of Wayne; Catherine Thiel of Marlton, NJ, and her late husband Frank (2024); Thomas Larranaga of Verona; and her daughter-in-law, Amy Bergen Larranaga of Park City, Utah. She was the cherished grandmother of John and his wife Tameka; Thomas and his partner, Luisanna; Colleen, Brian, Jason, Michael, and Jennifer; and the adoring great-grandmother of Arya, Grayson, and Jaylen. She was the dearest sister of Thomas Herrmann of Citrus Heights, CA, and Reverend Francis Herrmann of Chestnut Hill, MA, and a dear aunt to many nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Alice’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Alice C. Larranaga.

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For those of you who are unable to attend the mass services on Tuesday, please click on the link below to watch the livestream service.  

https://ecatholic.live/I6y40566uVswWhCySGEuIssgRFMVtQHE/channels/1/event/1492/public/view?signature=4f25c00f705c6ad835f10a143887cde160e4937d33d45c88982157d7761d6e6b.

Eleanor Wnorowski Adamchak, a loving mother, grandmother, and dedicated professional, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 14, 2025, in Wayne, New Jersey, after a brief illness. She was 89 years old.

Born on May 19, 1936, in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, Eleanor was the daughter of the late John and Jeannette Wnorowski. She grew up in Wilkes-Barre and graduated from Meyers High School with the Class of 1953.

Eleanor began her career at The Times Leader Publishing Company before her marriage. She later applied her sharp skills in finance, working for GMAC as a loan processor across several locations, including Camden, White Plains, and Paterson. After taking time to be a dedicated homemaker while raising her three young children, she returned to the professional world, finishing her career as a clerk in the Note Department at First Union Bank until her retirement in 1995.

Eleanor met the love of her life, Cornelius “Whitey” Adamchak, at a high school football game. They were married on October 19, 1959, beginning their life together with a honeymoon in the Poconos and moved to Haddonfield, NJ.   They also lived in Yonkers, NY and Marlton, NJ before settling down in Wayne, NJ.  They shared a devoted marriage for 38 years until Whitey’s passing.

Eleanor enjoyed spending time reading, solving crosswords, playing cards, baking banana bread and cookies.  She loved to travel around the world, especially on Viking River Cruises, with friends and family. She attended many plays at the Paper Mill Playhouse and enjoyed quality time with the Golden Age Circle of Wayne community.   She was a devout member of Our Lady of the Valley Church.

Eleanor’s greatest pride was her family. She is survived by her three devoted children, Erik Adamchak (m. Angela) of Wayne, NJ; Susan (Adamchak) Smith (m. Dan Smith) of Springfield, NJ; and Cory (Adamchak) May (m. Ben May) of Saylorsburg, PA.

Her laugher and overwhelming affection will be missed by her cherished grandchildren: Brooke Adamchak, Sarah Adamchak, Colin Adamchak, Jordan Smith, Tyler Smith, Riley Smith, Nathan May and Claire May.

She is survived by her brother Joseph Wnorowski and sister-in-law Barbara Adamchak, and several nieces and nephews who love her dearly. 

She was preceded in death by her husband, Cornelius Adamchak, her sister, Jeannette (Wnorowski) Bukevicz, brothers, John Wnorowski, Eugene Wnorowski and her parents.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the V Foundation for Cancer Research (donate.v.org).

George Carmen Dent, age 98 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, December 14, 2025.

Born and raised in Lyndhurst, NJ as one of four children to Patrick and Rose Dent, George grew up during difficult times but always described his childhood as idyllic. Though everyone had very little, there was a camaraderie and joy among neighbors that made those years special. He cherished fond memories of kids always playing outside in the neighborhood that you don’t see any more in today’s world. With World War II underway, George was accelerated through high school, graduating at just 16 years old to help support the war effort. True to that calling, he joined the United States Army Air Corps (the U.S. Air Force didn’t become an independent branch until 1947).

After his military service, George was set up on a blind date with a beautiful woman named Mary Mirti. The two hit it off immediately, and one date kept leading to another. They fell in love and married at the Military Hotel in Mary’s hometown of Newark. They settled in Wayne, NJ where they purchased a home together and were blessed with three beautiful children: Theresa, Patrick, and Julie. George and Mary enjoyed a loving marriage of over 60 years and ran a successful business together while raising their family. During their marriage, George and Mary also got enjoyment from their beach house in North Carolina as well as their travels to our National Parks, Hawaii and Brazil. When Mary became sick, George devoted himself to caring for her until her passing in 2019.

George had a passion for dancing, which started in his youth and never wavered. He competed as a ballroom dancer for a time but even after he stopped dancing competitively, he never lost his passion. He danced his whole life well into his 90’s! He was famous for his Jitterbug and especially loved moving to Big Band music. Beyond the dance floor, George was an avid gardener and maintained an incredible garden full of flowers and vegetables. He also loved reading the newspaper daily, excelled at random trivia, and enjoyed watching Jeopardy every night. George also got pleasure from watching his favorite sporting teams, the Mets and the Giants. After Mary passed away in 2019, George taught himself to cook proving it’s never too late to learn new skills.

George will be remembered as someone everyone loved. He was sociable, loved to smile and laugh, and occasionally shared a complaint or several. But above all, he loved life. Bright and articulate, he could seemingly converse on any subject with anyone (and he would). Most important to George was his faith and his family. He was a deeply religious man who shared both his faith and his love of life with everyone lucky enough to cross his path. He will be dearly missed.

George is predeceased by his wife Mary Dent; his parents; Patrick Dent and Rose Dent; and his siblings: Madeline Huss, and Benjamin Dent.

George is survived by his sister Connie Morton; his three children and their spouses: Theresa and Mark Davies, Patrick and Renee Dent, and Julie and Richard Koop; his five grandchildren: Christopher Dent, Erika Kelly, Rachel Davies, Zachary Koop, and Joshua Koop; and his 4 great-grandkids: Nash Ryan Kelly, Colton Patrick Kelly, Madison Charlotte Kelly, and Cassen Joel Dent.

Donations to the American Cancer Society or Alzheimer’s Association are appreciated in lieu of flowers.

Stephen “Steve” Savva, age 90, of Queens, NY peacefully passed on Saturday, December 13, 2025, with the comfort of family by his side. Steve was residing in Wayne, NJ the past two years with his son and his family.

Steve was born to Savvas and Despina Georgion on September 22, 1935 and graduated from Stuyvesant High School in NYC. Both of his parents came from Rhodes Greece through Ellis Island with no more than their suitcase, where they later ventured to opening their own luncheonette.

Steve’s first job was working in his local butcher shop in the South Bronx where he met his first wife, Winnie. He spent his career with early mornings in a butcher/deli shop for 10 years before moving to wholesale at the Hunts Point Market in the Bronx. He worked in this field until he was 65 years old. After long work hours he enjoyed going to play paddle ball at Orchard Beach and Castle Hill Pool with his friends. He was known for his strong work ethic and many side hustles ranging from a vending machine route to selling gold jewelry. While enjoying his retirement he enjoyed traveling with his wife and friends to many memorable locations.

Steve enlisted with the Army National Guard at age 18, where he spent four years mainly in the kitchen feeding over 400 service members at a time. This is where he stumbled upon his love for cooking and spending time in the kitchen.

Steve was a devoted family man, father and husband. He is survived by his wife Elizabeth Savva of 52 years where they lived in Whitestone, Queens with their toy poodle Ceasar. Before selling his home in Whitestone he enjoyed hosting his friends on his deck for barbecues and weekly card games. He also enjoyed playing pool, bowling leagues, betting at Belmont race track, golf, trips to Lake George, lunch with his friends and being the comedian of the group. Steve will be remembered by his never ending stream of jokes with any topic of conversation. It amazed all of his family and friends with his endless memory of jokes and childhood stories. He was a devoted new york sports team lover, putting in weekly bets with his Giants, Yankees, and Knicks team with his son, Nick. He was thrilled when fanduel betting came out so he did not need to call his bookie as often.

Steve was preceded in death by his older brothers George and Bundy. He is survived by his son from his first marriage, Nicholas Savva and Stephen Savva from his second marriage. He is also survived by his daughter in law Andrea Savva and grandchildren Karlee Owens, Haley Savva, Marc Laufer and great grandchildren Zanee, Lucius, and another baby boy arriving in February. Steve moved out of Whitestone in 2022 and into Nick and Andreas' home where they cared for him in his final years. They created many special memories together during these years including sitting on their deck in the summer with Bowie and Zowie, football sundays, tending to their vegetable garden, feeding the birds, audio books, sharing his family recipes including his famous twice baked potatoes, casino trips with his son, and many home cooked meals followed by his famous jokes. Haley and Karlee cherished the past years of quality time and conversations where he slowly became grandpa to all of their close friends. He enjoyed watching the success of his children and grandchildren as they grew through life and was happy to be apart of so many milestones.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Valley Hospital would be greatly appreciated. (or Nick Savva and Connor Owens Fanduel accounts, Go Giants!)

Ruth Frances Gilmore Murphy was joyfully welcomed into the arms of Jesus surrounded by her children on December 11, 2025. She was 85 years old.

Born on September 12, 1940, in Paterson, NJ, Ruth was the beloved daughter of the late Robert Aloysius Gilmore and Maria Naomi Rutt Gilmore. She grew up in Paterson and graduated from Saint Mary’s High School in 1958. 

After graduating, Ruth started her career with New Jersey Bell (NJB) as a Service Representative.

In 1961, Ruth married Robert P. Murphy of Fair Lawn, NJ and together they had three children: Robert, Christine, and Heather. They moved to Wayne, NJ to raise their children, after which she returned to NJB, continued her career, and eventually retired from her position as an IT Systems Analyst.

Ruth was quick-witted and had an infectious laugh that filled a room. She was a super competitive scrabble opponent, loved crime fiction novels, and was passionate about ballroom dancing.  But more than anything, she loved her children, nieces, nephews, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

In her final years, Ruth lived at Mira Vie Assisted Living in Montville, NJ. She was part of a loving and supportive community where she had many friends with whom she enjoyed exploring her faith while attending weekly Bible study.

Her presence, love, and sense of humor will be deeply missed by her loving and devoted children, Robert Peter Murphy Jr. of Pittstown, NJ, Christine Ann Murphy of Warwick, NY, and Heather Maria (Murphy) Bonner (m. Jack Bonner) of Montville, NJ.

Her laughter, and overflowing affection will be missed by her grandchildren: Stephanie (Murphy) Shepard (m. Michael Shepard), Alexandra (Holmes) Rosario (m. Clint Rosario), Timothy Holmes, Taylor (Wright) Campbell (m. Philip Campbell), and Victoria Holmes; and her five cherished great-grandchildren: Jayden Shepard, Karter Shepard, Zander Shepard, Sol Rosario, Rory Campbell, and of course, her favorite grand-dog, Mia.

She is survived by her sisters, Pamela (Gilmore) Dolan (m. James Dolan) and Anne Gilmore, and several nieces and nephews who love her dearly.

She was preceded in death by her brothers, Robert A. Gilmore Jr., Paul Gilmore, and by her sisters, Rosemary Gilmore, Claire (Gilmore) Burger (m. Robert Burger), and her parents.

William F. Benedict, age 87, formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, and most recently of Long Beach Island, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on December 10, 2025.

Born in Montclair, New Jersey, and raised in Belleville, he was the eldest of three children born to William and Eleanor Benedict. He attended Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington, graduating in 1956, and went on to Seton Hall University, where he earned a bachelor’s degree in Business Management.

In 1961, William got the call to serve his country in the United States Army and served honorably until 1962. Following his military service, he began a distinguished career with the International Nickel Company in New York City. Over the course of thirty-five years, he rose through the ranks, heading the accounting department in Sterling Forest, New York, and ultimately as a financial executive before retiring in 1996. He was widely respected and deeply admired by his colleagues and peers for his integrity, leadership, and dedication.

In retirement, William devoted himself to faith-based service and charitable work. He became a Knight of Malta and later took the vow of obedience.  Through the Knights of Malta, he was one of the founders of their Prison Ministry program.  For this work, he received the President’s Award from the American Association.  He also received the Caritas Award from the Catholic Diocese of Paterson for his dedication and outreach to the incarcerated.  He went on to found the charity “Knights For Christ The Healer” which supported members of the military and first responders, coordinated an annual Mass of Appreciation and awarded scholarships to children of active duty and honorably discharged veterans.

A devout Catholic, William served as a trustee of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne for twenty-five years and was a parishioner of St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Long Beach Island. He was also a proud Fourth Degree Knight of Columbus in Wayne and Manahawkin.

William met the love of his life, Theresa Trivigno, in 1960 while attending college. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on October 3, 1964, at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne surrounded by friends and family.  They made their home in Wayne, where they raised their two sons, William and Gerard. Approximately thirteen years ago, they relocated to Long Beach Island. Family and faith were the cornerstones of William’s life, and he cherished sixty-one years of loving and loyal marriage to Theresa.  Nothing in the world meant more to William than providing for and spending time with his family and the people he loved. 

In 2015, William endured the profound loss of his son Gerard. Through this tragedy, his faith and the love of his family sustained him and remained his source of strength.

William enjoyed hunting, golfing, real estate, and closely following the stock market. He possessed a remarkable ability to connect with others.  He was able to engage in conversation on nearly any topic and made friends wherever he went. It was said that no matter where he traveled, he was sure to encounter someone he knew.

William will be deeply missed by all who knew him. He will be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, proud grandfather, faithful son, brother and uncle, and a man whose warmth, generosity, and true faith left a lasting impression on every life he touched.

William is survived by his wife Theresa (Trivigno) of Long Beach Island, NJ, his son Bill Benedict of Manahawkin, NJ, his only grandchild Katherine Benedict of Little Falls, NJ, and his sister-in-law Diane Benedict of St Helena, SC.  He was predeceased by his son Gerard M. Benedict (2015), and his two brothers Raymond J. Benedict (2023), and Gerard J. Benedict (1957).

Andrew “Andy” Canavan, originally of Emerson, New Jersey, formerly of Little Falls, passed away suddenly on December 8, 2025 in his home in Jonesborough, Tennessee.

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Andy was a loving father who wanted nothing more than his children to succeed and stood behind them with love and pride. He was known for being firm when it mattered and gentle when it counted, and he showed his love through the practical, steady ways he cared for family. While his life took different paths, one constant was the pride he felt for his family and the joy he found in being a father. His recent years with Maureen were filled with true happiness. A first degree Knight of Columbus at St. Philip the Apostle Church of Clifton, his faith was also very important to him. 

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A Marine Corps veteran and master electrician, Andy took immense pride in his service and his craft. He spent his career enjoying work he genuinely loved and was widely respected for his skill. His expertise played a key role in creating some of New York City’s most iconic holiday displays including the famous snowflake on 5th Ave., Christmas lights, and the New Year’s Eve Ball in Times Square.  His work and contribution brought brightness to the city and joy to millions. He later founded Great Notch Electric and then continued to make an impact by contributing his skills to many major corporations.

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Those who knew Andy remember him as being kind, down-to-earth, and always ready to lend a helping hand or offer advice. He was known by everyone for his generous heart, vibrant laugh, his commanding presence, and constant ability to be there when it mattered most. A motorcycle enthusiast who enjoyed hunting, wood working, taking scenic rides, and playing with his German Shepherds, he enjoyed life to the fullest. 

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Andy will be deeply missed by all who loved him, and he will be remembered for the warmth he brought into the lives of those fortunate enough to know him.

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Andy is survived by his wife, Maureen, who brought companionship, laughter, and comfort in his later years. He also leaves behind his children - his son Peter Canavan and wife Caryn of Wayne, NJ, and stepdaughter Edvie Marie Castro and husband Jean Carlos of Wayne, NJ and one granddaughter - who were truly the light of his life.  Also surviving are his wife Maureen’s children to whom he was a cherished friend. He is survived as well by his brothers Bob and wife Julia Bryan of Raleigh, NC, Joe and wife Rosemary of Dayton, NJ, Fred and partner Mary Jane of North Salem, NY, and his brother-in-law Tom Petrowski of Wayne, NJ, as well as his nieces and nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews who will remember him for his loving character, quick wit, and loyalty to family.  He was predeceased by his parents, Cira and Peter Canavan, and his sister, Patricia Petrowski.

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Donations to the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, Convent Station, NJ may be sent in lieu of flowers. 

Ann V. Dwyer, age 96 and a longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully in the presence of her loving and comforting family on Monday, December 8, 2025.

The daughter of the late William and Anna (Doubrava) Novotny, Ann was born and raised in Nutley, NJ. She enjoyed a wonderful childhood there, making many neighborhood friends, one of whom was a young boy named Vincent Dwyer. They took a special interest in one another and began dating when Ann was just fourteen and Vincent was fifteen. After seven years of courtship, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends in a ceremony held at her parents’ home at 42 Chase Street in Nutley. Following the wedding, Ann and Vince lived with her parents for five years before moving into a brand-new home, in Wayne, which they built themselves, and where they lived for the rest of their lives. They were eventually blessed with three sons—Michael, Gregory, and William. During their boys’ formative years, Ann devoted herself to raising them, and once they reached a more independent age, she worked outside the home: first at Bekin’s Moving Company in Wayne, later at Suburban Bank in Wayne, and most recently at Acme Fabric in Pequannock.

In 1966, Ann and Vince purchased land in Hague, NY, near Lake George, and the following year they broke ground and built a home. It was truly a family project, with Ann, Vince, their three sons, and their girlfriends all contributing to the construction. It quickly became the family’s summer haven, and Ann was happiest when spending her summers there surrounded by loved ones and friends. She enjoyed swimming, boating, and tending her large vegetable garden, proudly canning its bounty to be enjoyed throughout the year.

Ann’s hobbies were many. She loved making puzzles, playing cards, sewing, and knitting. Her love of sewing was so strong that her job at Acme Fabrics was motivated largely by the perks—especially discounts on materials that allowed her to create even more. Later in life, she lovingly knitted countless hats for cancer patients at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock. She also enjoyed crafting and often sold her creations at local craft fairs. Ann loved going out for a delicious meal, with favorite restaurants including the Grasshopper Restaurant in Wayne, the Pompton Queen Diner in Pompton Plains, and the Chit Chat Diner in Hackensack.

One of the great joys of Ann’s later years was the gift of travel. She explored the world with her best friend Alta at her side, creating memories and adventures that brought her tremendous happiness.

Ann was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and sister. Her family cherished her kind, sweet personality, and even-keeled disposition. She lived her life with class and propriety, serving as a beautiful example of a life well lived.

Ann was the beloved wife of the late Vincent “Vinnie” Dwyer (1992); the most loving mother of: Michael S. and wife Angela Dwyer of Wayne, Gregory V. and wife Bonnie Maura Dwyer of Wayne, and William G. and wife Robin Dwyer of Pompton Plains; adored grandmother of: Gregory Joseph and wife Kathleen (Bronson) Dwyer of Wayne, Jonathan Vincent and wife Christyn (Babieri) Dwyer of Ridgefield, NJ, Sarah Maura (Dwyer) and husband Zachary I. Cantor of Raleigh, NC, Kyle William and Stephanie (Yosco) Dwyer of Towaco, NJ, Lindsay Lesia Dwyer of Boonton, NJ, and Matthew Raymond and Alexandra (Koschtial) Dwyer of Flat Rock, Michigan; cherished great-grandmother of: Ethan Gregory Dwyer, Dylan Walter Dwyer, Amber Elizabeth Dwyer, Ava Maura Cantor, Owen Bruce Cantor, Brooks Matthew Dwyer, Rylie Lynn Dwyer, and Olivia Marie Dwyer; and the dear sister of William and wife Nancy Novotny of Ticonderoga, NY.

Carl P. Padula "Butchie" passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, December 6, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson, Butchie was the youngest of two children to Happy Harry and Angie Padula, as they were affectionately known. After spending his early years in Paterson, the family moved to Pompton Lakes, where Butchie would eventually make his permanent home.

In 1966, Butchie enlisted in the United States Army during the Vietnam War, serving stateside throughout his deployment. After completing his military service, he joined the Military Police for two years, discovering his calling in law enforcement. He began his career with the Paterson Police Department, where he spent his entire career advancing from patrolman to the motorcycle division and ultimately to Detective in the Narcotics division. During this time, he also served in the National Guard. Butchie retired from the force in 1993 and went on to serve as Director of Security at Passaic County Community College's Paterson Campus.

Throughout his life, Butchie was deeply committed to his community. He served on the Pompton Lakes School Board and also the Town Councilman for years and was an active member of the Elks Club, Rotary, Blue Knights, Honor Legion, Italian American Club, and 200 Club. He also proudly served as President of the Retired Policemen Club for many years.

One evening at a local diner, Butchie met a beautiful young woman named Barbara Ann Fitzgerald. As they talked, Barbara reminded him they'd actually met years earlier in grammar school when young Butchie used to dip the ends of her braids in ink and paint with them! Fortunately, Barbara found the memory hilarious, and the two began dating and quickly fell in love. They married on September 13, 1969, and settled in Pompton Lakes, where they welcomed two sons: Carl E. Padula and Randy V. Padula. Barbara and Butchie shared a loving marriage of 50 years before Barbara's passing in 2019.

Butchie loved riding his motorcycle and was a member of the Corvette Club. Above all, he was a true food connoisseur who founded both a dinner club to explore new restaurants and a Saturday morning breakfast club. He cherished family vacations to Lancaster, Pennsylvania, where they attended Dutch fairs and savored the delicious homemade food that became a family tradition. He also enjoyed trips to the beaches in Wildwood with his family.

Butchie will be remembered as an honorable man who was always willing to help others. He was tough and stubborn, yet kind and loving in an old-school way that made everyone admire him. He will be dearly missed by his sons, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and the countless friends he made throughout his remarkable life.

Butchie is predeceased by his parents Happy Harry and Angie Padula, and his wife of 50 years Barbara Ann Padula.

He is survived by his two sons: Carl E. Padula and Randy Padula; his 5 grandchildren: Dominick Padula, Rachael Padula, Michael Padula, Bella Padula, Giada Padula; and his 2 great-grandchildren: Dayna Melo and Aurora Padula.

We ask that Law Enforcement escorts please arrive by 8:45 AM on Thursday.

Anna Dall’omo Starita, age 97, of Wayne and formerly of Woodridge, pass away peacefully on Saturday, December 6, 2025, while in the loving presence of her dear family.

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Anna was born on March 4, 1928, in Loiano, Italy, where she lived as a young woman through the hardships of World War II and the Nazi occupation. During the war, when the U.S. Army took over her uncle’s farm, Anna met an American soldier names Charles “Charlie” Starita. They were married for 61 years, from 1947 until his passing in 2008.

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Anna and Charlie’s life together took them from Jersey City to Georgia, Virginia, and Germany before they settled in Woodridge, New Jersey, where they raised their four children. They were avid travelers and returned to Anna’s hometown in Italy every summer. 

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Anna was a woman of many talents and passions. An excellent cook, she taught her children and grandchildren the art of making fresh pasta. She was an avid and talented knitter, and she enjoyed staying active through swimming and tennis. A devoted and sharp card player who maintained that canasta was for dummies, she spent many hours playing cards and Mahjong with friends at the Wayne Adult Center. 

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Most recently, Anna resided with her daughter and son-in-law in Wayne where she was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church. 

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Anna is survived by her children and their spouses: Carla Scheld (née Starita) and her husband John, Richard Starita, Paul Starita and Sheila Peterson, widow of her son Robert “Topo” Starita who predeceased Anna in 2022. She also leaves behind four grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and six great-great-grandchildren, and she was predeceased by her two brothers: Bertino Dall’omo and Giorgio Dall’omo. 

Carol Mary Mackie of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, December 5. 2025. 

Carol was born in Brooklyn, NY to Marguerite and Edward Naylor. She graduated from Midwood High School and began working as a bookkeeper at Noyes Co at the age of seventeen. After fourteen years, when Noyes Co. moved offices, Carol began working at Credit Suisse. It was while working at Credit Suisse that Carol had her first date with who would become her husband, her love, and life partner, Joseph “Bob” Mackie. 

Carol enjoyed sewing and spent much of her life making her own clothes. She told stories of her mother teaching her to sew when she was young and how she picked it up quite naturally. She had a special knack for zippers; her mother would tell her. Over the years, Carol sewed many beautiful and colorful outfits for herself, but her favorite color for clothing and everything else was always purple. 

Throughout the years, Carol made an impact wherever she went. She spoke to everyone and if you had a conversation with her, you’d always remember it. And, if you were lucky enough to make her laugh, you’d also notice the room light up. She had a take-charge attitude about everything and a wry sense of humor. Everyone she spoke to, right down to the clerk at the grocery store, felt immediately like Carol was a friend after a single conversation. 

Although they basically grew up together, Carol and her beloved husband, “Bob,” wouldn’t begin dating until prompted by Carol’s brother, Donald, who was a good friend of Bob’s. While both working in Manhattan, Carol and Bob began dating with a lunch date on South Street and then continued with trips to Marine Theater on Flatbush Avenue, Broadway shows, Luigi’s pizza parlor, and Friday night fried shrimp dates. After a year and a half of dating, they were married at Our Lady of the Skies on May 5,1973, coincidentally Kentucky Derby Day. Carol and Bob honeymooned in Florida and then continued their lives going everywhere together. Vacations to New England or road trips to Lancaster, Spring Lake, grocery shopping and all of Bob’s softball games, they went everywhere together. For over fifty years of marriage, Carol and Bob never spent even one night apart, a true testament to their love story. After a lifetime of love and partnership, Carol leaves her husband of 52 years, along with her sisters and many adoring family members and friends. Carol was predeceased by her parents, her brother, Donald, and her niece, Gayle.

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In lieu of Flowers memorial donations to Disability Rights New Jersey would be appreciated.

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Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Carol Mackie. Thanks.

Anna “Anne” Josephine Arnowitz (nee DeSpirito), age 95, of Kinnelon, NJ, passed away peacefully on December 4, 2025. She was born to Joseph and Anna DeSpirito on June 7, 1930 in Paterson, NJ and as the baby of the family had four older siblings: Mary, Nick, Phil, and Catherine.  She spent her early years working in her parent’s pastry shop, Caruso’s, on Market Street, Paterson, along with her family. Anne graduated from Central High School in Paterson and continued her education at Paterson State College (William Paterson University) where she earned her Master of Education degree in teaching. Her first job was in the Clifton Elementary School System and eventually landing a position at Ryerson School in Lincoln Park, NJ where she taught grades 2 through 5.  Anne had a love for learning and valued education and later became a Learning Disability Specialist where she continued to work in the Lincoln Park School System until she retired in 1994.

Shortly after High School, Anne met the love of her life, Marty, in Paterson, and they were married for 32 years until his passing in 1987. They were soulmates, and loved entertaining, spending time with family, traveling and were extraordinary dancers. The struggles they endured uniting the two Paterson families—Catholic Italians on one side and Eastern European Jews on the other—was a testament to their love. They began their life together in an apartment in Clifton, NJ and purchased their first home in Lincoln Park, NJ, where their only child, Glenn, was born, and finally moved to Kinnelon, NJ in 1969. 

Anne possessed a positive outlook on life and always saw the good in others. One of her favorite sayings was “This too Shall Pass”, when faced with adversity. Her generosity touched countless lives as she donated to numerous charities and volunteered for many organizations. Her faith was a fundamental part of her life, and she was a devout Catholic and parishioner of Our Lady of the Magnificat in Kinnelon. Anne was a very social person and had a passionate curiosity about people and loved to socialize. Travel was one of her great joys and she explored the world with wonder and appreciation visiting Europe, Hawaii, Asia, South America, Africa and Australia, collecting artifacts from each adventure.

She was very active in her community as well and was a board member of the Kinnelon Friends of the Library, and of her Italian American club. Anne was also on the committees for her elementary, high school and college reunions. She was a member of many book clubs, and a long-time member of the “Birthday Girls”– a group of over 25 friends who celebrated monthly birthdays with long afternoon lunches. She exercised, aqua-sized, walked, and enjoyed the theatre, opera, movies and was an avid reader. Anne was a talented chef, and her specialty was anything Italian. Her gravy with meatballs was a Sunday staple.

Anne loved life and possessed a youthful spirit, regularly commenting that her age was “just a number”. She had a wonderful fashion sense as well and was always dressed perfectly for any occasion.

Without a doubt, the biggest joy in Anne’s life was her two granddaughters, Kara and Lisa. She was their “Nonnie” and showered them with endless love and affection. Her serenading “Happy Birthday” phone calls each year were legendary and just one example of her youthful spirit and playfulness.

Anne is predeceased by her parents, Joseph and Anna, her husband, Marty, her sisters Mary, Catherine, brothers Phil and Nick and daughter-in-law, Suzanne. She is survived by her son, Glenn John Arnowitz and wife, Colleen, granddaughter Kara and her husband, Matt McKevitt and great-grandchildren, Lily and River, and also granddaughter, Lisa Arnowitz and partner, Andre Woods, as well as many nieces and nephews. 

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In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the American Heart Association and American Cancer Society.

John James Hackett, age 77, of Wayne passed away on Tuesday, December 02, 2025, surrounded by his family and an immense amount of love and gratitude.

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John was born on February 13, 1948 to his loving and adoring parents, John and Margaret Hackett. John was raised in Ridgefield Park and enjoyed his childhood in small town America.  He spent his days with the neighborhood kids riding his bike all over town, playing stickball and stoopball, and coming home when the street lights came on.  One of John’s favorite things to do as a child was to run and grab the family camera when his Dad was leaving for work. That camera would then capture the “big smooch” shared by his parents, for all to see in the family photo albums.  When John was four years old, he reluctantly welcomed his sister Anne into his life but that reluctance quickly turned to seventy-three years of love and admiration.  There was nothing that John wouldn’t do for his sister and he left this world with her knowing that.

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John attended St. Frances Grammar School in Ridgefield Park and was a proud graduate and member of the inaugural freshman class of St. Joseph’s Regional High School in Montvale.  He later went on to attend William Paterson College for a short time.  On March 19, 1970 John followed in his father’s footsteps and reported to ARMY boot camp at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri.  The Missouri sun and John’s pale Irish skin proved to not be a friendly match.  After days of blistering sunburns, John’s commanding officer approached him and in his southern drawl stated, “Son, unless we’re fighting war in Siberia, you ain’t going to no war!”  Can’t fight in warm weather climates then became a notation in John’s ARMY file.  After bootcamp, John completed his service agreement with the New Jersey National Guard and he was Honorably Discharged.

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John was employed for thirty-five years by the SEARS Roebuck and Company, which John referred to as the Great American Company.  Throughout his thirty-five years he worked in many store locations (Hackensack, Irvington, Union City, Livingston, White Plains, Wayne, Maywood,  Paramus) and served in many different roles.  John found his niche was in working in Loss Prevention.  John took great pride in protecting the store and the company from theft and fraud and did so with a way of professionalism and grace that people noticed.  John built relationships with the local police departments that very few other Loss Prevention managers were able to do before or since.  While working at Willowbrook Mall, John even had his own typewriter in the Wayne Police Department Detective Bureau and was once honored as the Wayne PBA Citizen of the Year.  John also worked sixteen years as a security manager at Giants Stadium.  Two of his favorite events that he worked for were World Cup ‘94 and Pope John Paul II’s mass.  He loved working Giants games and he slightly tolerated working Jets games.  After retiring from SEARS, he worked briefly with the MarMAxx company, in their fraud division.

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John’s favorite things in life always revolved around his family, his faith, and dogs.  The 4th of July, to John, was like no other holiday.  Being a son of Ridgefield Park can have that effect on you, as it hosts the longest continuous running parade in America.  John could be seen standing at Preston Street and Main Street for every year of his life, minus just a few.  For years that parade ended and the party continued at the family home in Clifton.  Where family and friends gathered in John’s manicured backyard, with beautiful gardens, and the kids splashed around in the pool that he was so proud of.  John thrived in being a part of whichever church community he was in.  He was an active member as a teen and young adult in the St. Frances CYO.  At St. Phillip’s in Clifton he helped run Thursday night bingo and the annual carnival.  John took great pride in working with his hands and doing things for himself.  There wasn’t much he couldn’t fix or much he couldn’t figure out how to fix in his way (he was like MacGyver). John’s greatest trait though was his personality and humor was his greatest asset.  He had the ability to draw people in and allow them to feel seen in his presence.  If you ever met John, then you met John.  He was love personified and extended that love and grace to all that he met, even those that may not have deserved it at the time.  His heart was big and his nature was forgiving.  John found love in the many dogs that graced his life, especially his grandpuppies.  It was apropos that in his own home he welcomed two golden retrievers, a breed that shares and exudes the same qualities that he did. 

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One night in 1965 John was in the presence of the love of his life; he just didn’t know it.  You see, because on that night John was trying to avenge the honor of his cousin who had been wronged by a man and as he was being dragged out of the house screaming obscenities, he was pulled past Donna Hausler, a friend of his other cousin Noreen, who promptly asked who was that and she stated, “Oh, that was just my cousin John, don’t worry about him!”  Their second and more formal meeting came at the St. Frances car wash, where John saw Donna pull into the parking lot in her Ford Mustang and told her he needed to wash that car.  After that car wash, they were inseparable for the next sixty years.  They walked through this life, wherever they were and whoever was around, hand in hand.  Their love was one for the ages and a guide to those who witnessed it.  They were married on November 29, 1970 at St. Frances followed by a reception at The Fiesta.  They settled into an apartment in Leonia, and on January 26, 1974 welcomed their son John.  In 1975, their family of three moved into a two-family home in Clifton on Normal Avenue, after the insistence of the home owner Erik who they had met several times.  On November 14, 1977 they welcomed their daughter Kerri Anne and thought at the time, their family was complete.  In 1981, Erik came to them and said he wanted to sell them the house because they had helped him so much with the gardens and helped keep pride in the house he loved so much.  On February 8, 1983 they welcomed their son Bryan and now their family was finally complete.  The role of father came as naturally to John, as his dad jokes did.  He loved hard, he loved often, and he disciplined with love.  He believed in family dinners, he believed in having an open door for his children’s friends, and he believed in whatever it is that you did, make sure people know you care.  He was there for all the big moments and all the quiet moments, and whatever it was that his kids were doing they knew if they looked over their shoulder, he would be there.  John will miss him during Giants and Yankees games, Kerri will miss the love in his eyes as he looked at his daughter, and Bryan will miss him every time he steps foot into Rutt’s Hut.  In those memories and in those moments they will know how lucky they were to have a man like him as their father.  He also welcomed in Michael and Lauren, not as in-laws, but as a new son and a new daughter into his life.  They both were held in the same amount of love as his children.

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There was no greater role in John’s life, than that of Poppy. Bryn (his Baby doll), Caitrin (his Princess), Brady (his Best Pal), and Delaney (his Pumpkin).  The four of them brought a light to his life and he could never get enough of them.  Whether he stopped by to see them or stopped by the house when they weren’t home, they always knew Poppy was there because their favorite snack or candy was left on the counter or their favorite ice cream was left in the freezer.  A little something to say here is something you love left by someone who loves you immensely.  John relished in the fact that, in retirement, he was able to enjoy his grandchildren in a completely different way than he was able to enjoy his children.  When they came to the house for the day he was up making breakfast, he was taking them on walks in the stroller, he thoroughly enjoyed partaking in nap time with them, and he always ended the day with a trademark Poppy hug and kiss.  They will live their lives knowing what unconditional love is because Poppy helped teach them that.

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John is survived by his devoted wife of fifty-five years, Donna (nee Hausler), their three children John, Kerri O’Rourke and her husband Michael, and Bryan and his wife Lauren, his grandchildren, Bryn, Caitrin, Brady, and Delaney, his sister Anne, and his adored cousin Noreen and her husband Ron (a childhood friend of John’s), Brother-in-law Jack Hausler and his wife Kathy, along with nieces and nephews that he loved as his own.  John was predeceased by many people in his life that he had great love for but most importantly his father John and mother Margaret, who we know were waiting in front of the gates of Heaven to bring their Johnny home.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in the name of John Hackett to Found Abilities, 30 Woodridge Terrace Wayne, NJ 07470.  John had great love for the special needs community and nothing would make him happier than knowing his name is helping keep them active in this world.

Jane F. Picone (nee Liffers), age 93, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, with her family by her side.

Born and raised in Union City, Jane was the younger of two children of Robert and Marie Liffers. She was a proud graduate of Holy Family High School in Union City, Class of 1949. Shortly after graduation, she began her career as a dental assistant for a local dentist, a position she held for five years.

After marrying, Jane spent several years living in Norfolk, Virginia.  She then moved back to her hometown of Union City where she began raising her family. She welcomed her three children, Michael, Patricia, and Robert, while living in Union City. In 1962, the family settled in Weehawken, New Jersey, where they remained until 2003, when Jane relocated to Wayne.

After the birth of her first child, Jane devoted herself wholeheartedly to being a full-time homemaker. Later in life, she returned to the workforce as a bank teller in Weehawken, working for several financial institutions located in the same building, including Provident Bank, Wachovia, and Wells Fargo. She found great fulfillment in her work, cherished the relationships she formed, and was truly loved by both clients and colleagues. She retired from full-time employment at age seventy, though she continued to work part-time for another decade in the banking industry. Jane’s love for staying active led her to continue working as a receptionist at Llanfair House Nursing Home in Wayne well into her mid 80’s.

She was an outgoing and social member of her community.  Jane was involved with the Weehawken Adult Club that frequently attended Broadway shows, a pastime she greatly enjoyed.  She was also a member of the Golden Age of Wayne.  Jane was a woman of deep Catholic faith and a longtime and active parishioner of St. Lawrence Church in Weehawken, later becoming a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

Jane loved spending time with friends and family, especially playing Bingo and Rummikub. In her younger years, she enjoyed biking through Weehawken and cherished her annual September trips to Cape May.

Above all, Jane was a devoted mother whose greatest joy in life was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She will be remembered for her warmth, spontaneity, quick wit, and wonderful sense of humor. She was a truly special person who loved her family deeply and will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

Jane is survived by her three children; Michael Picone and his wife Lynn of Scotch Plains, NJ, Patricia Picone and her husband Andy of Ottsville, PA, and Robert Picone and his wife Eileen of Rivervale, NJ, five grandchildren; Greg Vigilante of Myrtle Beach, SC, Lauren Ramos of Scotch Plains, NJ, Katie Picone of Morganville, NJ, Matthew Picone of Warren, NJ, and Andrew Quartuccio of Hoboken, NJ, and three great grandchildren; CJ, Ryan and Enza.  Jane was predeceased by her sister Marie Liffers.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jane’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105.

Barbara “Basia” “Barb” Voss, age 55, of Wayne passed away on Monday, December 1, 2025.

She was born in Queens, New York, and raised in the Bensonhurst section of Brooklyn, where she graduated from John Dewey High School in the Gravesend neighborhood as part of the Class of 1988. Barbara later lived in East Rutherford and Morris Plains before settling in Wayne, where she has made her home for the past twenty-four years.

Barbara’s work life began at a bakery in Brooklyn, New York, and shortly after graduating high school she joined the Balfour Maclaine Corporation, a commodity trading and brokerage firm, on Wall Street. Over the years, she built a distinguished career in accounting and finance, holding roles of increasing responsibility across several corporations. Her positions included Accounting Supervisor and Financial Reporting at CMC Electronics in East Rutherford; Manager of International Accounting for Computron Software, Inc. in Rutherford; Senior Manager of International Finance for the National Basketball Association (NBA) in Secaucus; and roles in Accounting and Financial Reporting for Content Critical, LLC in Carlstadt. She later served as Director of Finance for MWWPR in East Rutherford and, most recently, as Controller for Marketsmith, Inc. in Whippany.

Barbara met the love of her life, Earl Voss, while they were both working at CMC Electronics in East Rutherford. Their first date—a dinner at a restaurant in Fairfield—quickly led to a deep and lasting connection, and it wasn’t long before they fell in love. Earl proposed on a balcony at the Brittany Chase development in Wayne, a moment Barbara treasured. They were married on February 4, 2001, at the Ramsey Golf and Country Club and celebrated their honeymoon in Las Vegas. For nearly twenty-five years, they shared a happy and devoted marriage, one that Barbara often described as being “rich in love.”

Barbara’s personality was straightforward, caring, and selfless, and she approached everything in life with an extraordinary work ethic and unwavering devotion to her family. She was also a wonderful cook, and the special ingredient of love she infused into her bolognese sauce, meatballs, chicken cutlets, macaroni and cheese, and Thanksgiving stuffing will be dearly missed by all who were lucky enough to enjoy them.

She was the loving wife of Earl Voss; cherished daughter of Diane Kozlowski of Wayne and the late Alexander Kozlowski; devoted mother of Emma Voss of Wayne; loved stepmother of Jason Voss of Belleville and Julian Voss of Mahwah; she was the loved sister of Robert Kozlowski of Chandler, AZ.  She was also the much loved aunt of her sister-in-law Lisa Dragone’s pets.

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For those wishing to make a memorial donation in Barbara’s memory we ask you to consider the Wayne First Aid Squad.

Joanne Okken, age 82, of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, November 30, 2025.

She was born and raised in Passaic, New Jersey and married Jacobus “Jack” Okken on June 23, 1975. They soon moved to Wayne where they would live their whole life.

Joanne was a homemaker and loving mother, ever caring for her husband and four children. She was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes where she was active for many years in the church’s Lois Circle. She loved the years she was a helper in the kindergarten class and for the many kindergarteners at Netherlands Reformed Christian School.

Joanne loved to bake and cook. The large assortment of her cookies and Dutch Oliebollen (deep-fried pastries) were family favorites. Her family was a constant source of joy, and making crafts with her dear grandchildren, and nieces and nephews, was always very special to her. 

Joanne was the beloved wife of the late Jack Okken (2003). She was the loving mother of: Laura and husband Jake Van Dalen of Middletown, NY, Craig and wife Cathy Okken of Sparta, James and wife Andrea Okken of Hackettstown, and Joseph and wife Christene Okken of Park Ridge. She was the cherished grandmother of: Kaitlyn, Jacob, Kristina, Emma, Shannon, Jackson, Callie, Adley, Hanna, Ronald, and Amelia. She was the dear sister of: the late Walter Hoogmoed and his late wife Evelyn, the late Gertrude Van Houten and her late husband Paul, the late Cornelius Hoogmoed and his late wife Claire, Lena “Winkie” Southway and her late husband Peter, Elizabeth Okken and her late husband Henry, the late Cornelia “Cookie” Hoogmoed, and Arthur Hoogmoed and his wife Chris. She is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews. 

Joanne’s family would like to take this opportunity to express their sincere thanks to the staff at Sunrise Assisted Living, Wayne, for their kindness and caring. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joanne’s name are asked to please consider a memorial contribution to the Netherland Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444. 

Edward Charles Nann, age 89, of Jupiter, FL passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 27, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Totowa, Edward was the elder of two children born to Edward and Pauline Nann. A proud graduate of Passaic Valley High School, Class of 1954.   Edward was an accomplished basketball player, earning All-State recognition for his talent in the sport.

Following graduation, Edward enlisted in the United States Army.  He served proudly and honorably for two years. Upon his honorable discharge, he quickly found work as a carpenter, a trade in which would help build his legacy.

After gaining valuable experience in the field, Edward partnered to form Smith & Nann Framing Contractors. Through hard work, and an unwavering commitment to quality, the company grew to become one of the largest framing contractors in northern New Jersey. In time, Edward expanded his work into building and selling homes, and later co-founded Environmental Developers, a firm that focused on multi-family real estate development. He had the privilege of working alongside his sons, Jeffrey, Edward and Kenneth, for more than 30 years.

Edward’s career in construction and real estate spanned more than forty-five years, until his retirement in 2002, when he relocated to Jupiter, Florida. He was a respected leader and known as a hardworking boss, a patient mentor, and a true role model. He took pride in training young and inexperienced employees, and he never asked anyone to perform a task he would not do himself. He earned the admiration and respect of employees, clients, and peers.

Edward married the love of his life, Diana, and together they raised three sons; Jeffrey, Kenneth, and Edward.  Edward and Diana shared many wonderful years of loving and loyal marriage until Diana’s passing in 1991.

Outside of work, Edward had many passions. He loved to cook, and his family and friends fondly remember a number of special dishes he loved to prepare. He was an avid boxing fan, his favorite boxer being the famous Sugar Ray Robinson.  He also loved to listen to Jazz, and watch Notre Dame Football.  While living in Florida, he enjoyed deep-sea fishing and riding his bike throughout Jupiter. He also took great pride in gardening, meticulously maintaining his beautifully landscaped front and back yards all year-round.

Above all, Edward’s greatest passion was his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Edward than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He was a truly devoted husband, father, and grandfather whose presence, guidance, and love will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Edward is survived by his three sons; Jeffery Nann of Delray Beach, FL, Kenneth Nann and his wife Sharon of Bradley Beach, NJ, and Edward Paul Nann and his wife Kathy of Bradley Beach, NJ.  Seven grandchildren; Jason, Ryan, Amanda, Laura, Samantha, Daniel, Jaime and twelve great grand children.   He was predeceased by his wife Diana Nann in 1991, and by his parents Edward and Pauline Nann. 

Margaret T. Gross (née Gilmartin) of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 25, 2025, with her family by her side. She was born on January 14, 1937, the youngest of seven children to Michael and Teresa Gilmartin.

Margaret experienced profound loss early in life with the passing of her mother when she was just three years old. During the hardships of the Great Depression, her father was unable to care for all seven children on his own, and they were placed in foster homes. When Margaret was fourteen, her oldest brother welcomed her into his home in Pompton Lakes, where she became a cherished part of his family.

She attended Pompton Lakes High School, where she was a tumbler, and later worked at the local A&P. It was there that she met the love of her life, Robert “Bob” Gross, just months before he was deployed to Germany with the U.S. Army. While overseas, Bob mailed Margaret an engagement ring, and the two were married upon his return from Europe.

Their first daughter, Mary, was born in 1958, followed by their second daughter, Cathy, two and a half years later, and their son Bobby five years after. In 1967, the family settled in Wayne, where they made their home for more than fifty years.

In her forties, Margaret became a Licensed Practical Nurse after spending many years working with individuals with disabilities. She was deeply dedicated to caring for others and found great purpose in her work.

Margaret and Bob shared a lifetime of love and adventure. They created lasting memories with family vacations to Disney and Lavallette and continued their travels later in life with trips to Europe, Hilton Head, and numerous cruises to beautiful and exotic destinations.

Margaret’s greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Margaret than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.  Margaret and Bob cherished many years of loving and loyal marriage together until his passing in 2018.  Tragedy also struck the family’s lives when her only son Bobby passed away in 2000.

Margaret will be remembered for her resilience, her warmth, and her unwavering devotion to her family.

Margaret is survived by her two daughters; Mary Meyer and her husband Danny of Wayne, NJ, and Catherine Burke and her husband Larry of South Heidleberg, PA, four grandchildren; Leiha and her husband Mike of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Dawn and husband Aaron of Pompton Plains, NJ, Danny of Wayne, NJ, and Zach of Wyomissing, PA, great-grandsons; Dennis and Michael of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and great-granddaughters; Vanna and Quinn of Pompton Plains, NJ.  She was predeceased by her husband Robert Gross in 2018 and her son Bobby Gross in 2000.

Mary Claire Skillen, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 22, 2025.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Mary's name are asked to consider:

John Theurer Cancer Center at Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

343 Thornall Street, 7th Floor

Edison, NJ 08837

If you wish, you may also give online at John Theurer Cancer Center.

Please make a note that your gift is in memory of Mary Skillen.

Mary Ketterer, a long-time resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 20, 2025. She lived a blessed and remarkable life that spanned 101 years.

The third-born of Henry and Lillian (Kick) Clark, Mary was born in Passaic and raised in Nutley, where she graduated with Nutley High School’s Class of 1941. She continued her education at Newark Teachers College (now Kean University), earning her B.A. in education before going on to teach kindergarten at Jefferson Elementary School in Wallington for several years.

While attending college, Mary worked part-time for a local dentist. One day, a familiar face from high school came in for dental work—a young man named Albert “Al” Ketterer. Al must have had a winning smile, because the two quickly hit it off. They dated for several years, including during Al’s service in the U.S. Army. Upon his return to civilian life, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends at a church in Mary’s hometown of Nutley. After a reception at the former Marlboro Company in Montclair, they honeymooned down the Jersey Shore.

Because Al had one more semester to complete at Syracuse University, the couple’s first home was an apartment in Syracuse, NY. They later moved to a one-bedroom apartment in the Styertowne section of Clifton, where their first three children—Kathy, David, and Doug—were born. With the three children sharing the only bedroom and Mary and Al sleeping in the living room every night, it became clear that more space was needed. In 1954, they purchased a home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, and Mary lovingly called that house home for the rest of her life.

Once in Packanack, four more children—Paul, Susan, Victoria, and Nancy—were welcomed into the family. Mary devoted herself to caring for her home and raising her children. In later years, once her children reached a level of independence, she joined the family business, Clark Transmission Company in Fairfield, working as a bookkeeper. Remarkably, Mary worked remotely long before remote work became commonplace.

Mary was a woman of many interests. Her home featured both a baby grand piano and a harp, and no one could make those instruments sing quite like she could. She loved reading—especially detective novels by Agatha Christie and suspense stories by Mary Higgins Clark. Gardening was another passion she shared with Al, and their gardens were a joy to behold. A talented, self-taught seamstress, Mary passed her skills on to her daughters, sewing all their matching Christmas and Easter dresses, as well as their school clothes, for many years—at least until homemade clothing became less “cool.” She also knitted and crocheted. After Al retired, the couple traveled extensively for over a decade, visiting international destinations throughout Western Europe.

Faith and family were the true centerpieces of Mary’s life. When she and Al moved to Packanack Lake, the area was rapidly becoming a year-round community. Recognizing the growing need, the Catholic Archdiocese established Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, where Mary and Al became founding parishioners. It was there that they raised their children in faith. Mary also created a warm, welcoming home—a place of comfort at the end of every school day or workday. She was a steady, calming presence and a gifted cook and baker.

During her children’s early years, a Sunday afternoon tea tradition gradually took root. After the children were grown and out of the house, the tradition continued weekly—only now on Thursdays. Visitors could always count on a homemade crimpit, scone, or other baked treat lovingly prepared by Mary to accompany a cup of tea and cherished family time. She loved her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, sharing with them the joys she knew best: playing piano, sewing, cooking, and always extending an open invitation to tea night. As the family grew, birthday parties often became outdoor picnics at Ringwood Manor to accommodate everyone.

Mary was a dear soul—kind, gentle, and full of grace. Everything she did was touched with her desire to make others happy. Her family is deeply grateful for the many years they were blessed with her love and influence. They rejoice in knowing she is reunited with her beloved husband, Al, and look forward to seeing her again.

Mary was the beloved wife of Albert, to whom she was married for 58 years until his passing in 2007. She was the most loving mother of: Kathleen Bogert and husband John of Wayne; David Ketterer and wife Jeanne of Chapel Hill, NC; Douglas Ketterer and wife Julann of Lincoln Park; the late Paul Ketterer (2008); the late Susan Ketterer (2023); Victoria Witterschein and husband James of Wayne; and Nancy Cohen and husband Scott of Cedar Grove. She was the cherished grandmother of: Jack and companion Courtney, Steven, Stephanie and husband Mark, Robert and wife Kerry, Matthew and wife Jaclyn, Daniel and wife Brianne, Melissa and husband Shawn, Mark, Mary Caitlin and husband Brian, and Anneliese and husband Tom. She was the adoring great-grandmother of: Nicholas, Noah, Dorothy, Miles, Wrenly, Aiden, Laura Rose, and Audrey. She was the dear sister of the late Henry Clark and the late Gerald Clark, and a beloved aunt to numerous nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Mary’s name are asked to consider:

Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad

PO Box 2004

Wayne, NJ 07474

Alice Irene Booth, born on January 22, 1938, in Teaneck, New Jersey, passed away on November 20, 2025 at the age of 87. Alice was the cherished daughter of George Augustus Decourcey and Laura Peterson Decourcey. She was one of the renowned "Decourcey triplets," alongside her sisters Lorraine and Pat. Her older siblings, Mariane and Frank, and her sister-in-law Cynthia, all predeceased her in death.  Alice was a devoted daughter who remained at home to care for her mother during her illness with lung cancer.

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Alice married her beloved husband, Arthur Dewitt Booth, on April 20, 1963, after meeting and becoming friends at Rutgers University. Their marriage, spanning 62 years, was a testament to deep love and dedication. Alice and Art (affectionately known as Bud) shared a close, loving relationship that inspired everyone who knew them.

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After marrying Bud, Alice partnered with her mother-in-law, Lois, to create the antique business "The Two Bee’s”. A graduate of Douglas College with a history degree, Alice developed a passion for hunting antiques for their home and participating in antique shows. Over time, her love for 18th-century antiques grew, and Bud shared her enthusiasm. Together, they collected and sold antiques, spending weekends at auctions and shows throughout the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic. Through this shared passion, they formed lasting friendships with other collectors and dealers.

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Alice enjoyed a long career as an investigator for the Passaic County Department of Social Services, where she served for 25 years before retiring. As an advocate for equal rights, one of her proudest achievements was helping to introduce the CWA union to her office. She also generously volunteered her time to assist coworkers in studying for and passing Civil Service tests needed for career advancement.

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Alice will be dearly missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her loving husband of 62 years, Arthur Booth; her daughters, Christine Booth and Ann-Marie Linz; son-in-law, Robert Linz; grandsons, Jason Linz and Ryan Linz; sisters, Pat Snow and Lorraine Lehman; brother-in-law, Bill Lehman; sister-in-law, Louise Decourcey; sister-in-law, Betsy Cronk; brother-in-law, Dave Cronk; and many beloved nieces, nephews and her many friends.

We honor and celebrate the life of Vivian (Golten) Bayley, a devoted wife, cherished mother, beloved Nana, and proud keeper of her Norwegian heritage. Born with a gentle spirit and a strong heart, Vivian filled every chapter of her life with love, resilience, and compassion for others.

Born in Brooklyn, NY to Sigurd and Aagot Golten, whom she adored, Vivian’s family soon settled in Pines Lake. Growing up there brought her some of the happiest moments of her life. The calm mornings, lake adventures, endless swimming, and the long summer days gave Vivian and her siblings—Sylvia, Norman, and Carol—and her forever best friend, Cathie Hinchman, an upbringing filled with happiness and lasting memories.

Vivian carried the traditions of her Norwegian roots with great pride and joy. She shared stories of her family’s heritage, passed down traditions that became favorites at every gathering, and kept alive the customs and values that shaped her life. Her home was filled with the warmth and spirit of Norway—especially during holidays, when she made certain, the family felt connected to where they came from.

She loved her husband (Richard) deeply, and it showed in everything she did. She was his partner, his friend, and his biggest supporter. Their life together was filled with love and care, and the way she stood by him for 55 years will always be treasured and never forgotten.

As a mother, Vivian had a steady, nurturing presence. She raised her three children (Paula, Ellen and David) with patience, encouragement, and a quiet strength that guided them through life. Vivian and Richard gave their children a childhood full of happiness and unforgettable memories. A mother-in-law, to Bianca Bayley, she was a source of unconditional love—always ready with a smile and a warm hug. As a Nana, to her four grandchildren (Gavin, Ella, Emme and Preston) they will forever remember the countless hours of love she gave them and the lessons she taught them through her actions: to, “Be Good and Kind to Everyone.”

Vivian’s kindness extended beyond her family. Whether offering a helping hand, sharing a thoughtful word, or simply bringing comfort with her gentle nature, she touched the lives of so many. Her warmth made people feel seen and welcomed, and her presence brought a peaceful steadiness to those fortunate enough to know her.

Though the loss of Vivian leaves a deep ache, her legacy is a lasting one—found in the beliefs she passed on, the love she gave freely, and the countless memories held close by those who loved her. Her spirit continues and will always guide and embrace her family, reminding them of the importance of love, relationships, and heritage.

For those looking to make a tribute in Vivian’s name, please consider donating to De Paul Catholic "Days of Giving."

Kasey Ryan Siepe, age 44, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 16, 2025, with his loving family by his side, following a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Paterson and raised in Wayne, Kasey was the youngest of three children to Kim and Karen Siepe. From an early age, he displayed exceptional athletic talent, especially on the baseball field. He was a standout player throughout his youth and went on to play for the Wayne Valley High School Boys Varsity Baseball Team. One of the many things he was proud of was being captain of the Wayne Valley baseball team , in the footsteps of his Uncle's Craig. Jeff and his father Kim.

 He was a graduate of the Wayne Valley, Class of 1998.  Kasey continued his academic and athletic journey at Greensboro College in North Carolina. While there, he studied Business Administration and graduated with his bachelor’s degree in 2002.

Following college, Kasey returned home and quickly began building his professional career. Landing a role in the healthcare field, he quickly excelled into the administrator role,  most recently at The Buckingham at Norwood, where he was admired for his work ethic and dedication.

Kasey never lost his passion for sports. He was a devoted fan of the Chicago Bears, the New York Yankees, and the New Jersey Devils. He also continued to enjoy playing sports himself, participating in softball leagues in his Packanack Lake community and playing hockey in local leagues in Wayne and Hackensack. An enthusiastic golfer, he enjoyed exploring courses throughout New Jersey and traveling on golf trips with close friends.

In 2007, while out with friends at The Barnyard in Totowa, Kasey met an attractive young lady bartending by the name of Effie Haralambidis.  This was an encounter that changed the course of his life. The two connected and began dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and in the presence of family and friends became husband and wife on September 08, 2019. The couple built their life together first in Pine Brook, where they welcomed their first two children; Kristian and Zoi and then moving to Packanack and welcoming their third child Dylan.  

Above all, Kasey’s greatest passion was his family. He treasured six years of loving and loyal marriage to his wife Effie.  Nothing in the world meant more to Kasey than providing for and spending time with his friends and family.  He treasured his summer family vacations to Brigantine, NJ.  Though quiet by nature, he possessed a fiery spirit, a deeply kind heart, and an unwavering devotion to those he loved. He defended his family fiercely, loved them wholeheartedly, and brought endless laughter to their lives with his sharp, dry, and wonderfully sarcastic sense of humor. He delighted in teasing those closest to him, which became his personal trademark.

He will be remembered as a loving husband, a devoted father, a dedicated son, and a wonderfully kind spirit.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Kasey is survived by his wife Effie Siepe of Wayne, NJ , his three children; Kristian, Zoi, and Dylan, his father Kim Siepe and step mother Lisa of Lake Hopatcong, two sisters; Keather Siepe and her partner Andy Picarelli of Pompton Plains, and Kourtney Simonson and her partner Tim of Newton, NJ, Six nieces and nephews; Kyana, Meiha, Kenna, Kacer, Jeffrey and Everleigh, three uncles; Craig Siepe and his life partner Narmeen, Jeff Siepe and his wife Juani and Keith Radhuber and his wife Janice. Kasey was predeceased by his mother Karen Siepe. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider contributions to Kasey’s Gofundme account.

Marie N. Dato of Wayne, N.J. age 96, passed away peacefully on Wednesday November 12th, 2025.

Marie was a Sister, Wife, Mother, Grandma and GG! It was always about her Family, Friends and Faith.

Born in Jersey City to Carmine and Rose Napolitano in 1928 she grew up there with her brother Joe and sisters Francis and Dolores. Graduating from Lincoln HS and going on to work at Merrill Lynch in NYC.

She met her “Sweetheart” Anthony in the late 1940’s “Down the Jersey Shore” in Keansburg, and it was ALWAYS a duo from Day One - Marie and Tony.

Married in 1950, her next career - and most important to her - would begin. MOM. Marie and Tony were married for 71 years and raised a family of Four. The first Susan was born in 1953, followed by John in 1955 living in Union City (Above their Brother-In-Law’s STAR Ravioli store)…Moving to New Milford in 1957, Michele was born in 1960 and then Daniel in 1967.

New Milford would see Marie’s circle of friends grow larger, with time at Little League Games, Girl Scouts and Brownies and of course the New Milford Swim Club, where her family and friends would enjoy leisurely summer days. As the young couple on the street, Reichelt Road, their neighbors- The Schultz’s and Renner’s would become 2nd family. Sending their children to Ascension School in New Milford would again grow their circle - Church, CYO, Communions, Baptism’s Confirmations and Weddings through Ascension.

After an amazing 19 years in New Milford, their circle of friends would grow again, moving to Wayne in 1976. OLC became an anchor, and a new circle of friends grew. Again Communions, Confirmations and Weddings at OLC.

Marie and Tony’s family was to grow again and take on a new role as Grandparents. Susan got married to Stephen (Rutkowski) and had - Scott, Stephanie and Sara. Michele got married to John (Brigham) and had - Jessica, John Robert and Thomas. Years again of a building a friend’s base through their children’s and grandchildren’s friends. School events, Football games and of course backyard parties at the kids houses.

Marie’s and Tony’s family grew once again as GG and G2 (Great-grandparents). Jessica married Michael (Valter) and had Ryleigh in 2018 and Harper in 2020. John Robert married Lauren and had Jay in 2019, Hailey in 2022 and Summer in 2025. Stephanie married Nick (Pacchiano) and had Anthony in 2021 and Luca in 2024. Sara married Mike (O’Leary) and had Benjamin in 2021 and Arthur in 2023. 9 count ‘em 9 Great Grandkids for GG & G2.

Marie’s family grew once more with Dan marrying Amber in 2023 and her having a new Daughter-in-law.

Continuing their family ties were their “Cousins” group from Hoboken. 12 people who would get together to enjoy good times traveling the world to drink some good wine, have a great meal and enjoy each other’s company. Marie’s family of In-Law’s, Nephews and Niece’s through the Napolitano’s, Patruno’s, Cerruti’s, D’Onofrio’s and Dato’s were “a crew”… when getting together would need a full backyard to enjoy the day.

Marie - A Sister, Wife, Mother, Grandma and GG. A smile will always be brought thinking of her.

Philip Scavone

July 7, 1976  — November 12, 2025

Lincoln Park, New Jersey

Philip Scavone, 49, of Lincoln Park, New Jersey, passed away on November 12, 2025. Born and raised in Little Falls, NJ, Philip built a life defined by hard work, creativity, and love for his family.

Dear son of Sharon Marquez (Pombo) and Philip Scavone. He graduated from Passaic Valley High School Class of 1995 in Little Falls, NJ. He continued his education at Engine City Technical Institute for diesel mechanics.

He began his career at Dell Landscaping, continuing his passion for small engine repairs. He later became the proud owner of StoneyBrooke Landscaping, where his dedication, skill, and craftsmanship could be seen in every project he touched. He had an incredible talent for building and fixing things whether it was a new project in the yard or tinkering with his quads, he found joy in his ability to construct and fix things. He could look at a broken object and somehow know just how to bring it back to life. If you gave him just a hammer and a nail, he could build you an entire house. His hands were never still, and his creativity and resourcefulness left a mark on everything he touched.

Phil met the love of his life Michele, during their high school years.  They married on June 7, 2003, and have been married 22 years. They began their life in Little Falls before moving to Lincoln Park. Phil and Michele’s marriage blessed them with two beautiful daughters Ashley & Brooke. He enjoyed spending time camping with them and sharing his love of quads. Sunday morning breakfast at his favorite diner with his family was always the highlight of his week.

Phil’s true passion was building and racing his quads.  He built his first quad in 1999 and from there his passion grew. Phil traveled the country racing his quad on the ice and on dirt tracks. He never cared if he came in first, last or crashed!

Philip’s greatest pride and joy were his family. He is survived by his beloved wife, Michele Scavone, and their daughters, Ashley and Brooke Scavone. He is also survived by his parents Sharon Marquez and Philip Scavone and his sister, April Scavone and her husband Carlo Galizia & their two children Giana & Carlo. Adored son-in-law to Anthony & Barbara Toscano. He was a beloved brother-in-law to Michael & Caryn Toscano and their children Michael & Vincent Toscano, Matthew & Colette Toscano, Jeffrey and Judy Toscano and their 2 children Jayden & Jocelyn Toscano and his great nephew Michael (MJ).

Philip will be remembered for his strong work ethic, boundless creativity, dedication to helping others and a remarkable ability to build and repair anything with his own two hands. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who loved him. 

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In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Mental Health Association of Essex and Morris County.

Alma Galante, age 82, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 12th 2025.

Alma was born in the Dominican Republic on January 13th 1943.  She was born to Melida Sanabia and was the step-daughter of Elpidio Sanabia.  The family moved to the Bronx when she was nine. Alma noted missing her red roller skates but absolutely loved seeing snow for the first time.

Alma had a love for learning and valued education. She earned her citizenship in 1961 and Masters degree in 1998. She was a supervisor at UA Columbia Cablevision for a number of years.

Alma is the beloved wife of Salvatore Galante. They began their marriage in the Bronx in 1963 then moved to Dumont NJ. They ultimately made their home in Ringwood, NJ where they raised their daughter, Marie.

Alma enjoyed crafting. She especially loved making piñatas for Christmas because she deeply treasured the magical moments that brought light to a child’s eyes.

Alma is survived by her husband Salvatore, daughter Marie Kreutz, Son In-law Bob, and three grandchildren, Alexandra, Marcus, and Zariyah. Alma was very close to her sister Rose and brother Robert. She also has a very large and loving extended family.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s Association, alz.org would be greatly appreciated.

Valerie Joan Howard, age 61, of Montville, passed peacefully on 11/12/2025, with the comfort of family by her side.

Valerie was born in East Orange, NJ, in 1964 to Marcia and Wsewolod Luckewicz, the youngest of four children. She grew up in Livingston, NJ, graduated from Livingston High School in 1982, and from Rutgers University four years later. After graduating Rutgers, Val pursued a career in finance, which continued until Michael’s birth.

Val and Gregg met in 1987 and were planning their thirty-fifth wedding anniversary in July. They settled in Montville and started a family. Michael was born in 1995, and Graycen in 2000. Being a full-time wife and mother was Val’s true calling. She cherished each day spent raising a family. Val enjoyed getting involved in school activities and fundraising, and participated in whatever Valley View Elementary and Lazar Middle School needed her to do.

She formed close, life-long relationships in Montville, cherishing her “ladies’” nights out, which included Thursday night happy hour and Friday night BUNCO. For five summers, Michael played travel baseball for Montville, and some of Val’s fondest moments were watching his success and spending time with her baseball family.

Through the years she remained “sister” close to her Livingston “girls,” most of whom were able to visit her in her final days.

Val was a devoted lover of the ocean; she found her greatest joy on a beach. Val loved to eat what the sea offered, especially raw clams and oysters. Growing up, her family vacationed in Beach Haven every summer. Val’s sister Pat will remember celebrating their shared August birthdays, having banana ice cream at The Frosted Mug. That Luckewicz tradition continued as adults and parents. The first two weeks of August were spent in Beach Haven, joined by her two sisters and brothers’ families. Val always had a special place in her heart for her seven nieces and nephew, and spending those weeks together every year, seeing their growth and maturity, meant the world to her. She was always known as the “cool aunt.” After dating Gregg for a few months, Val discovered Longboat Key, FL. It was a place she always called her paradise. Her favorite time of day was sitting on that beach with a glass of wine and watching the sunset.

Val loved the holidays. Christmastime was spent decorating the house into a Christmas wonderland, she loved the smell of the tree in the house. Val would spend hours making sure she picked out the perfect tree. When the kids got older, for Halloween Val would dress up (usually as a witch) and trick-or-treat around Montville with Cathie S.

Michael is getting married this coming spring. From the very beginning, Val adored Willing. She would always say with a smile, “They’re so in love; Michael truly found his soulmate.”

Val’s fight with breast cancer began in 2014, and in 2021, she showed her strength once again, taking on metastatic breast cancer. For eleven years, Val faced this relentless disease with extraordinary strength, courage, and grace. Her will to live can only be described as superhuman.

Throughout these eleven years, Val was lifted by an incredible outpouring of love, support, and prayers. Val had such a huge heart, and the love she gave was returned to her many times over.

Val was predeceased by her father Wsewolod, and her brother, Michael. She leaves behind Gregg, Michael, and Graycen, whom she loved with every fiber of her body. She is also survived by her mother Marcia, sisters, Patricia Singley and Diana von Hoffman, seven nieces, and one nephew.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Valerie’s memory to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation (BCRF) or METAvivor.

Gail (nee Natale) Messercola, age 84, of Wayne, passed surrounded by her loving family.

Gail was born in Paterson to Fred and Flora Natale. She attended Central High School, where she graduated with the Class of 1959 and proudly served as a Drum Corps Majorette. It was there that she met her future husband, Louis Messercola, who was also a member of the Drum Corps. High school sweethearts from the start, Gail and Louis shared many memories together — including attending their prom side by side.

Gail and Lou fell deeply in love and were married on August 28, 1961, at St. Mary’s Church in Paterson. Their wedding celebration was held at the Villa Nova Restaurant, in Garfield, surrounded by family and friends. The newlyweds honeymooned in Bermuda before beginning their life together. Their loving and devoted marriage was blessed with two children, Louis and Susan, who became the heart of their world.

Gail began her career working at her family’s shoe factory in Paterson before joining the Nabisco Corporation in Fair Lawn as a secretary. After becoming a mother, she devoted herself wholeheartedly to raising her children. Once Louis and Susan reached elementary school, Gail returned to the workforce as the Administrative Assistant to the Director of Parks and Recreation for the Township of Wayne. She served the community with dedication and professionalism for more than thirty years, retiring in 2005.

When describing Gail, the words family and faithful come immediately to mind. She was the kind of mom and “Gamma” who would insist you eat something—offering food until you finally gave in. Though she wasn’t fond of cooking, she often joked that the best thing she made was reservations. Gail liked to say that the only two things she needed in the kitchen were a phone and a refrigerator.

The phone was essential for two of her favorite activities: making reservations and calling family. Her cheerful calls always began with the familiar greeting, “This is your charming—mother, Gamma, sister, aunt, mother-in-law, cousin,” or whichever endearment fit the occasion. The refrigerator, meanwhile, kept her Tab soda and Fiji water cold.

Gail loved to start her mornings with the newspaper, reading it cover to cover before officially beginning her day. Always a lady, she had her hair done once a week without fail, carried herself with grace and poise, and—much to the delight of her grandchildren—made sure they learned every colorful word in her vocabulary. She cherished her daily two-mile walks with her neighbors, could remove a stain from almost anything, and kept her home spotless—a reflection of the care and pride she brought to everything she did.

For her grandchildren, there were no limits to what Gail would do. It was often said that she truly lived for their happiness. Every year she hosted Christmas at Gamma’s—a cherished family tradition filled with laughter, excitement, and love. At Thanksgiving, she would hand each grandchild a Toys “R” Us or Target Wish Book and have them circle everything they wanted. She’d then collect the books and, come Christmas, each grandchild would find a mountain of gifts under the tree—every wish list fulfilled with her trademark thoughtfulness.

Gail also had a special way of making even the smallest occasions memorable. For every imaginable holiday, she sent each grandchild a card—always with a $5 bill and a cheerful smiley face inside. Birthdays at Gamma’s were equally magical: the birthday child would be showered with gifts, while the other grandchildren received their own small presents—perhaps a bag of snacks, a cozy hat and scarf, or something she knew would make them smile. It was her way of spreading joy evenly, making sure no one ever felt left out.

Gail was deeply devoted to her Catholic faith. For countless years, she and Lou faithfully attended Saturday evening Mass at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, where she also volunteered her time in service to the parish community. Their Saturday nights became a cherished ritual—after Mass, they would head out to dinner, often joined by family or close friends, sharing good food, conversation, and laughter. It was a simple tradition, but one that reflected the love, faith, and fellowship that defined their lives together.

Gail was the loving wife of sixty-four years to Louis “Lou” V. Messercola; she was the devoted mother of Susan Bio and her husband Nino of Montville and Louis Messercola, Jr. and his wife Francesca of Wayne and; she was the cherished grandmother of Sebastian, Anthony, and Nicholas Bio and Daniella, Louis and Lucas Messercola.  Gail was predeceased by her sister Marie Meyers in 2023. She will be dearly missed by her caretaker of the last seven years Milica.

Gail was also the reluctant grandmother of her beloved “granddogs,” Zeke and Vienna. She would often protest when they greeted her with enthusiastic licks, claiming to hate it—but, of course, she loved them anyway. Her gentle affection for them was just another sign of the big heart she carried for all members of her family, furry ones included.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

In Loving Memory of Leonor (Mom)

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Leonor Reyes, age 91, of Wayne NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday November 8th, 2025 

Born on November 19th 1933 in Girardot Colombia, South America, she was the daughter of Mercedes Rojas and Emilio Rodriguez. The family later moved to Bogota, where mom received her formal education and graduated from a professional secretarial school.  

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After graduation mom starting working for the Club De Leones (aka Lyons Club) in Bogota, supporting businessmen in the financial industry. It was at that time mom met the love of her life, Hermes, with whom she celebrated 54 years of marriage.  They were united in matrimony on December 24th, 1955.   Following their wedding, Mom devoted herself to raising their five children: Colombia, Joseph, Angela, Clemencia and Diego. 

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Despite her full schedule as a mom, she found time to enjoy her favorite hobbies, including knitting, sewing and crocheting while listing to traditional Colombian music.    

Courageously, mom and dad made the decision to emigrate to the United States for the betterment of their children.  They recognized the opportunities available for those willing to strive for success.  THANK YOU, MOM AND DAD, FOR THE SACRIFICE!

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Mom is survived by all her children, two daughters-in-law Debbie and Iliana; five grandchildren, Joe, Andrea, Zachary, Matthew, and Elizabeth; one great granddaughter, Stella.

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It’s with a heavy heart we celebrate a life well lived.

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We fine comfort in knowing that she has reunited with her mom and dad and her husband who we know have welcomed her with open arms!

Eileen M. Amoruso, 76, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, November 7, 2025.

The third child of Matthias and Lucy (Buoye) Flammer, Eileen was born in Orange, NJ, and raised in Cedar Grove. A graduate of Immaculate High School in Montclair, she went on to Felician College in Lodi, where she earned her registered nurse degree. Eileen later continued her education at Jersey City State, receiving her Bachelor of Science in Nursing.

Eileen began her nursing career at Saint Joseph’s Medical Center in Paterson working in the Intensive Care Unit and later as nursing supervisor on the surgical floor. After a break to raise her children, she returned to St. Joe’s, working in the infectious disease clinic. In 2001, Eileen, along with her close friend, Rita, were nurse founders of the St. Mary’s Church Medical Assistance Program.

It was at St. Joseph’s that Eileen met her future husband, Dr. Robert “Bob” Amoruso, a young pulmonary critical care physician. Though Bob tried several times to catch Eileen’s attention in the hospital coffee shop, his early attempts went unnoticed. Persistence eventually paid off, and their first date took place at a New Year’s Eve party in 1976. Many dates later came a perfectly planned proposal: while vacationing in Lavallette, Bob placed an engagement ring inside a box of Cracker Jacks, letting it serve as the “prize.” When Eileen found the ring, Bob dropped to one knee—only for Eileen to drop the ring into the sand! Thankfully, it was quickly recovered, and the couple exchanged their wedding promises before God, family, and friends on March 8, 1980. Though the day was rainy and sleety, their love easily outshone the weather. Both avid skiers, they honeymooned in Aspen and Vail, Colorado.

Eileen and Bob began their married life in Clifton in a house located at 15 Renaissance Drive, where they welcomed their first two children, Katie and Dan. They later moved to 23 Robin Hood Way in Wayne, where their third child, Christina, was born, and in 2019 they moved to their present home in Wayne.

The Amoruso family created countless cherished memories at their getaway home in Smugglers’ Notch, Vermont, where they enjoyed hiking and skiing, and especially après ski. Eventually, she and Bob traded Vermont winters for the warmth of Bonita Springs, Florida, where she made new friends, enjoyed sunset cocktails at the beach and walks around the neighborhood.

Over 45 wonderful years of marriage, Eileen and Bob traveled extensively, visiting Italy, Peru, Scandinavia, Spain, and Australia, to name a few.  Eileen and Bob loved to travel with their extensive group of friends, especially the “WOWs” and their spouses.  Though, her favorite vacations were with her family, proudly dubbed “Amopalooza”. Just last year, for Eileen’s 75th birthday, they celebrated with their entire family—children, spouses, and grandchildren—on a trip to Ireland.

Eileen was the best kind of friend—loyal, kind, enthusiastic, and always ready to gather, whether for dinner, a game, or a celebration. She was invariably the first to arrive and the last to leave. She and Bob hosted Super Bowl parties for years, and in more recent times, Eileen loved playing Mahjong and Canasta with her close circle of friends.

Nothing brought Eileen greater joy than being surrounded by her family. She was especially proud to welcome daughter-in-law, Dawn, and son-in-law, Nathaniel into the family. Her two grandsons, Blake and Ryan, were her latest, greatest joy. She loved hosting family gatherings, especially Thanksgiving and Christmas, where her beautifully decorated home, delicious food, and warm, welcoming spirit made every celebration special. She was known for her impeccable hospitality, and her fondness for a glass of Chardonnay—or, on special occasions, a Manhattan.

Eileen kept an immaculate home, earning the nickname “Scoop.” If something was left in “the wrong place,” she would whisk it away in a New York minute to what she deemed “a better place,” leaving everyone wondering, “What just happened?”

Eileen took deep pride in her family’s accomplishments—her husband’s medical career, her daughters’ shared calling as nurses, and her son’s work as a cardiologist.

When Eileen was diagnosed with ovarian cancer nearly 12 years ago, she faced it with strength and grace. Through surgery and multiple rounds of chemotherapy she bravely fought, and, as many of her friends and family would attest, never complained.

Eileen was the beloved wife of Dr. Robert Amoruso, blessed with 45 beautiful years of marriage. She was the loving mother of Katie Amoruso and her husband Nathaniel, now residing in Kathmandu, Nepal; Dr. Daniel Amoruso and his wife Dawn of Mountain Lakes; and Christina Amoruso of Jersey City. She was the cherished grandmother of Blake and Ryan Amoruso; dear sister of Donald Flammer and his wife Carole of Albuquerque, New Mexico; the late Gerald Flammer and his late wife Connie; and Michael Flammer. She is also lovingly remembered by many nieces and nephews.

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The family requests that in lieu of flowers, remembrances be made by making a donation to:

John Theurer Cancer Center GYN Oncology Division at: Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

343 Thornall Street, 7th Floor

Edison, NJ 08837

If you wish, you may also give online at John Theurer Cancer Center

Please make a note that your gift is in memory of Eileen Amoruso

Laura Dunham, age 85 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Tuesday, November 4, 2025.

Born in the town of Russia, New York, Laura was the second of two children to Elsie Simonsen. When Laura was just five years old, her mother, Elsie, passed away after a battle with cancer. She and her sister Ann went to live with their aunt Esther in Cedar Grove, NJ, where they were lovingly raised. Laura attended Cedar Grove Public Schools before graduating from Bloomfield High School. Her pursuit of education continued at Houghton College in Houghton, NY, and she later earned her master's degree from Montana State University at Missoula, with additional coursework at Montclair State University and William Paterson University.

Music was Laura's lifelong passion. From an early age, she learned to play several instruments including the piano, organ, and cello. Her love for music led her to a rewarding career teaching music to others. Beginning in 1963, Laura taught private music lessons and shared her talents with numerous schools and churches throughout New Jersey. She held positions at several congregations, including Second Reformed Church in Little Falls, Calvary Baptist Church in Clifton, and Grace Church in Clifton, serving in roles such as choir director, organist, accompanist and even handbell director. Her musical excellence also led her to Carnegie Hall, where she had the honor of performing on the cello.

Beyond music, Laura expressed her creativity through handmade quilts and crocheted pieces. Known for her generosity, she worked tirelessly to create quilts as Christmas gifts and crocheted crosses for Easter, ensuring each friend and family member received something made with love.

Over the years, she cherished many beloved pets: Penny, a sassy Siberian Husky; Max, a beautiful Golden Retriever; and Teddy, an English Golden Retriever with whom she'd share burgers at Burger King (Teddy had a slight weight problem). She also adored her cats Hansel and Gretel, and most recently, Pumpkin.

Laura treasured her relationships, especially shopping trips with her sister Ann and the adventures she shared with her neighbor Judy exploring fun restaurants and stores together.

When Laura began as the choir director at Calvary Baptist Church in Clifton, she quickly caught the attention of a man named James Hiram Dunham, Jr (Jim).   Laura’s new role inspired Jim to join the choir – something he never had participated in before.  Laura and Jim fell in love quickly and the two were married in November of 1974. In September of 1975, the couple were blessed with their son James, III (also Jim).

Laura loved being a mom and she made it a point to be there for every boy scout event Jim participated in and every marching band performance he performed. When Jim and his wife Jennifer welcomed their two children, Kate and Jack, Laura’s heart grew even fuller. She absolutely adored being a grandmother—her pride in them was boundless. She wanted to be there for everything, from music recitals and sports games to cheerleading performances, cheering them on with joy and excitement. Talking about Kate and Jack always brought a sparkle to her eyes; they were truly the light of her life.

Laura will be remembered as a loving mother and grandmother, a gifted musician and artist, and a kind soul who was deeply sensitive to others. 

Laura is survived by her son, James Dunham III, and his wife, Jennifer; her cherished grandchildren, Kate and Jack; and her beloved cat, Pumpkin. She was predeceased by her husband, James Dunham Jr.; her sister, Ann; her aunt, Esther; and her mother, Elsie.

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to the Clifton Public Library or the Wayne Animal Shelter.

Mary Kovach, age 98 of Wayne, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Monday, November 3, 2025.

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Born in 1927 to Charles and Mary Kovach, Mary was the second of three children. Tragedy struck when she was just five years old as her mother passed away unexpectedly in 1933. Just two years later, faced with the difficult circumstance of raising three children as a single father, Mary’s dad made the decision to place her and her siblings into an orphanage at the Sisters of St Basil orphanage in Elmhurst PA. It was there that Mary grew up, graduated from high school, and developed many of the skills and values that defined her life: her unwavering faith, her remarkable organizational abilities, and her talent for crocheting.

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After graduation, Mary immediately went to work to support herself and her father. She began her career as an administrator at Sika Construction, the company that famously built many sections of the Garden State Parkway. Her organizational skills were so exceptional that salesmen from around the country would reach out to her for assistance. The construction workers adored her for her kindness and compassion, always looking out for her. They even went so far as to put chains on her tires when it snowed to help keep her safe. After her tenure at Sika Construction, Mary finished her career at General Foods before retiring after a long and successful career.

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Throughout her working years and beyond, Mary lived in the same residence in Clifton with her sister Helen for over fifty-five years. Though not twins, they were inseparable and as close as two sisters could be. They lived apart for a short time after Helen got married and moved to Philadelphia. After Helen’s husband passed away, they moved back together finding a new condo in Wayne where they have resided together ever since. 

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Despite her modest beginnings at the orphanage, Mary was determined to better her circumstances. When she first sought out to learn about investing, she was dismissed because she was a woman. Mary’s determination and ability eventually won over her teacher who recognized her potential and decided to impart as much as he could teach her. Mary excelled and built and managed her investment portfolio that grew steadily over the years. With her success, she graciously shared her earnings with the Church, numerous religious organizations, and orphanages.

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Mary was a woman of many passions. She was an avid skier, golfer, dancer, and crocheter. On the dance floor, especially when Polka music played, Mary and her sister Helen captivated the audience with their Polka dance. As a crocheter, Mary was as generous as she was talented, creating countless blankets and sweaters for family members and charitable donations alike.

Those who knew Mary will remember her for positive outlook and refusal to complain about anything. She had a gift for seeing the good in others and never spoke ill of anyone. Her kindness and generosity touched countless lives, and her faith was the true cornerstone of her life. Her commitment to her faith never wavered from her early years in the orphanage through her final days. She devoted herself to the Blessed Mother and to St. Michael the Archangel Byzantine Catholic Cathedral, where she put her administrative skills to work in service of the parish. More than anything, Mary’s faith was the source of her strength to help her through life’s toughest moments. 

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Mary is predeceased by her parents Charles and Mary Kovach; her sister Helen Niewodowski and her husband Frank; and her brother Michael Kovach and his wife Anneliese; her nephews Michael Kovach and Thomas Kovach; her great niece Margaret Caubet; and her great, great niece Alaina Teixeira.

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She is survived by her nieces Virginia Jakimowicz and her husband Patrick, Elisabeth Godlesky and her husband Richard, and Anneliese Nault and her husband David; her nephews Daniel Kovach and his wife Susan, and John Kovach and his wife Geralyn; her great nieces and nephews: Michael Kovach, William Kovach, Christopher Kovach, James Jakimowicz, Andrew Jakimowicz, Anneliese Meloni, Laura Godlesky, Christine Teixeira, Timothy Kovach, Gabriel Kovach, Melanie Nault, and Sarah Nault; and great great nieces and nephews: Mary Kovach, Anneliese Kovach, Michael Kovach, Amelia Meloni, Sophia Meloni, Kayden Godlesky, Benjamin Teixeira, Joseph Perkins, Anthony Perkins, and  Nathan Kovach.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to St. Michael the Archangel Byzantine Catholic Cathedral. 

Anthony C. Giaccio, a devoted husband, father of three, grandfather of six, great-grandfather of two, accomplished businessman, community leader, and a passionate master sailor, passed away peacefully on November 3, 2025, at the age of 87.

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Born in Jersey City, New Jersey on January 26, 1938, Anthony spent most of his early life in the Lafayette section of the city. His life was defined by industriousness, generosity, a spirit of adventure, and an unwavering commitment to faith and family. He attended Saint Peter’s Grammar School and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1956. His entrepreneurial spirit emerged at the early age of nine when he began selling used toys and worked at local church bingo nights, selling sodas to attendees. He also served as an altar boy for three years.

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In high school, Anthony was widely recognized as the best dancer in his class and took initiative to organize and host Friday night dances at the local YMCA. His strong work ethic continued into college, where he balanced his studies with a role at Worthington Corporation in the machinery industry. He earned his degree from Saint Peters University over four and a half years while gaining valuable professional experience. 

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Anthony spent initially over two decades in leadership roles within the machinery business before transitioning to his true professional passion, financial advising. In his late 40’s, he joined Merrill Lynch, where he built a distinguished 32-year career as a full-time financial advisor, earning the trust and admiration of clients and colleagues alike.

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Anthony’s life was forever changed when he met Margaret “Peggy” Giaccio in high school at one of the dances he arranged. They married on August 28, 1960, beginning a loving partnership that spanned 65 years. Together, they raised three children, Cheryl, Arlene, and Anthony, having eventually settled in Wayne, New Jersey, in the mid-1960s. Cheryl married John Goggin, Arlene married Andy Schaeffer, and Anthony married Laura Draudt resulting in the growth of the family even further. Over the years, he was blessed further with the birth of his grandchildren Daniel, Christopher, Jenna, David, Jack, and Ava then subsequent birth of his great grandchildren Ainsley and Kallie.

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Shortly after settling in Wayne, Anthony discovered the one thing, other than his family, that he was most passionate about….sailing!  Over the next 42 years, Anthony and his family enjoyed sailing primarily on Long Island Sound having had many adventures throughout the entire area.  These adventures eventually led to settling in East Hampton NY where he lived out his sailing days as a profound expert seaman of the Gardiners Bay area up to the age of 80.

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Anthony’s faith remained central throughout his life. He was an active member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne, NJ, where he supported church initiatives, assisted with construction programs, and offered financial guidance. He was also a longtime member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fidelians of America, contributing to charitable efforts that benefited countless families.

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Anthony will be remembered for his love for his family, his love for the sea and sailing, leadership, business acumen, a trusted confidant and counsel, dependability, and his unwavering dedication to those around him. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched and the family he cherished.  He will be sorely miss but absolutely never forgotten!

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital at www.stjude.org. 

Thank you, and God bless.

Gail Smiecinski, 62, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Sunday, November 2nd, 2025 at Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, NJ. Gail was born on January 9th, 1963 in Providence, RI, beloved daughter to Robert J. Richard, Sr. and Gail (Douglas) Richard.

Gail was preceded in death by her partner, David Boyle; her father, Robert J. Richard, Sr.; and her daughter, Regis Smiecinski.

Gail spent much of her childhood moving around to different areas of the country, including Terre Haute, IN and Baton Rouge, LA, before her family finally came to rest in Far Hills, NJ. Throughout her youth she engaged in a myriad of outdoor hobbies, including horseback riding, off-road dirt biking, and hiking. She also spent her free time learning to play the cello.

Graduating from Bernards High School in Bernardsville, NJ in 1980, Gail went on to work an assortment of different jobs, including bus driver, deli clerk, and accounts receivable for her own father's business; however, there was no job she loved more than being a stay-at-home mom and wife for her family. Gail married her former husband Mark Smiecinski in September 1983. They lived together in Cedar Knolls, NJ for 20 years with their two daughters, Regis and Katherine.

Due to the advanced progression of her multiple sclerosis (MS), Gail was moved into a nursing home full-time at the age of 39, spending most of the remainder of her life in Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, NJ. Despite these hardships, however, Gail flourished from the life she was presented with. In 2010, she met fellow MS patient David Boyle. The two quickly became friends and before long, that friendship blossomed into romance. They were inseparable; wherever one was, the other wasn’t far behind. They spent 10 beautiful years together before David's passing in 2020. She became a pillar within her nursing home community, serving for several years as president of the Resident Council where she helped organize activities and outings for her fellow residents, such as bingo and trips to local shops. She was extremely active in the Church community as well, her faith serving as a great source of strength and comfort for her.

Gail is survived by her daughter, Katherine Smiecinski; her grandchildren, Genevieve, Bobby, and Clifford; her mother, Gail Richard; her stepmother, Marlene Richard; her sister, Debra (Richard) Manahan; her brother, Robert Richard, Jr.; her stepsister, Kellie Piekarsky; her half-sister, Hillary Richard; and several nieces and nephews.

Gail was a bright light in the lives of all who met her. Her quick wit and kind heart gained her fast friends everywhere she went. She will be missed by many and replaced by none.

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations be made to the MS Society in Gail's name.

Natalie Conte – a beloved former wife and loving mother – passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 2, 2025, at the age of 93. She was a beautiful woman blessed with a long and wonderful life.

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Born and raised in Newark, Natalie was the youngest of ten children of Dominic and Rose (Basso) Delli Paoli. She spent the first sixty-eight years of her life in Newark. After high school, she developed exceptional skill as a seamstress, creating beautiful dresses in Newark’s garment factories.

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As a young woman—and truthfully, throughout her life—Natalie was a true beauty. One man who couldn’t help but notice her was Anthony “Tony” Conte. Their story began one day when Natalie stepped out of a restaurant wearing a short white coat and a black tammy hat. For Tony, that was it—he had to meet her. When he sent his cousin to introduce them, Natalie replied, “If he wants to meet me, he can come in here to meet me.” Tony mustered his courage, and he never regretted it. They soon hit it off, dated for some time, and were married on August 19, 1951, at St. Michael’s R.C. Church in Newark. A joyful reception followed at The Fountain in Belleville, and their honeymoon in Atlantic City—reached by bus—marked the start of a beautiful life together.

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The newlyweds began their marriage in a furnished Newark apartment, later moving into a home built into Natalie’s parents’ house. There, she and Tony welcomed their daughter, Antonia “Toni,” followed by their son, Louis. Eighteen years later, the family moved next door to her parents, and eventually to another Newark home. In 1995, after 44 years of marriage, Natalie faced the heartbreak of losing Tony. She remained in Newark for several more years before joining her daughter Toni and son-in-law Gary in Wayne, where she lived for the rest of her life.

Natalie devoted herself to her family as a nurturing mother and homemaker. She helped fundraise for her children’s school, hand-sewed Barbie clothes for Toni, and created a loving home. The family cherished their summer vacations at the Jersey Shore in Long Branch, surrounded by extended family and laughter.

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Always active, Natalie loved visiting flea markets, attending live shows in New York City, and playing bingo—first at St. Michael’s in Newark, later at the Wayne PAL. She enjoyed restaurants, scenic drives through quaint towns in New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, Italian card games, and traveling with her daughter Toni throughout the world—visiting the British Isles, Italy, Greece, England, Ireland, and across the U.S., with New Orleans a favorite. She also enjoyed time in Florida and Canada.

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A talented cook, Natalie was known for her homemade lasagna and her famous Sunday gravy with meatballs and sausage. She especially loved the holidays - Christmas and Easter most of all. At Christmas, her home was filled with the scent of freshly baked Italian cookies and decorated from floor to ceiling, welcoming family and friends with warmth and joy. For years, New Year’s Eve was a lively family tradition filled with celebration and bingo with her siblings.

Though naturally shy and quiet, once you got to know Natalie, you discovered her generous heart. She was caring to the core—a true nurturer who would help anyone in need, even an enemy (if she’d had any). Selfless and loving, she always put others first. More than a mother, she was a best friend.

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Natalie was the adored wife of the late Anthony “Tony” Conte; the devoted mother of Antonia “Toni” MacDonald of Wayne and the late Louis Conte (2019); cherished sister of Dominic Delli Paoli and his wife Carol of Bloomfield; and beloved aunt to many nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her dear son-in-law, Gary MacDonald (2017), and by seven sisters and one brother.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Natalie’s memory are asked to consider a donation to:

Dementia Society of America

PO Box 600

Doylestown, PA 18901

To download a form to mail in a donation, please CLICK HERE.

Please make sure to designate that your gift is in memory of Natalie Conte

Robin Mae Voag, age 69, of North Haledon passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 2, 2025.

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Robin was born to Robert and Dorothy Voag of Haledon, NJ and attended Manchester Regional High School in Haledon. Robin began working at Foodtown of North Haledon in 1972 and retired in 2023. She dedicated 51 years of loyal and faithful service to Foodtown, where she was cherished and loved by customers and colleagues alike. Her friendly spirit often created a line at her register, as so many enjoyed the chance to chat with her.

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Robin will be remembered for her quirky sense of humor, kind heart, and unwavering desire to help others. She had a lifelong passion for animals, especially birds, and shared a special bond with her beloved parrot, BooBoo, who was by her side for 27 years. Robin’s compassion extended beyond her own pets- she was a devoted supporter of animal shelters and frequently donated to causes that helped animals in need.

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Beloved daughter of Robert Voag (1980) and Dorothy Voag-nee Mehalco (2007), and loving sister-in-law of John Levine (2014). Robin is survived by her brother Robert Voag and his wife Lori of Magnolia, Texas, her brother Carl Voag and his wife Maryanne of Highland Lakes, NJ, her sister Dawn Dunn and husband Chuck of Hamburg, NJ, her sister Jacqueline Levine of North Haledon, NJ and her sister Lisa Voag of Haledon, NJ. She is also survived by her 16 nieces and nephews and 20 great nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Ramapo-Bergen Animal Refuge, would be appreciated.

Jack Nick Riggio, age 89 of Pequannock passed away on Saturday, November 1, 2025.

Jack was born to Joseph and Josephine Riggio in Brooklyn NY where he grew up and attended high school. His father Joseph, was a furrier in the garment district in New York City and Jack and his brother John followed that career. Jack owned AA Fur Processing in NYC for many years until he retired at the age of 84 when Covid shut everything down. 

Jack was a very handsome outgoing guy and at the age of 21, he went dancing at the Starlight Ballroom in NYC and that is where he met the love of his life, Pauline.  Six months after meeting, they were married on September 8, 1957 and spent their honeymoon in Niagara Falls. Jack was 21 years old and Pauline was 26, Jack didn't tell her how old he was until they went for the marriage license because he thought she wouldn't marry him.  In March of 1959 they welcomed their daughter Joann into the family and in May of 1964, their son Joseph was added. Jack was a loving and caring husband and father and worked hard to support his family.

In 1967 they moved from Brooklyn NY to Wayne NJ into a brand new house where they raised their family and they remained there until 2021 when they moved to Cedar Crest. That year was hard for Jack, his son passed in March and Pauline passed in October. Thankfully he had made many friends at Cedar Crest. His daughter Joann, has received many messages and phone calls from his poker group and friends at Cedar Crest offering their condolences and expressing what a great guy he was and that he will be missed.

For many years Jack and Pauline were avid bowlers and belonged to leagues at T-Bowl but Jack's passion was hunting, he went upstate NY every year in November for a week to go deer hunting with the guys. Last month he went and bought a hunting license for 2025, even if he couldn't hunt, he just wanted to go and spend time with his friends John and Chris, they are much younger than him, but they all enjoyed each other's company and they truly became family.

Jack is survived by his daughter Joann (Riggio) Dura and her husband Glenn and two nephews John and Jason Riggio.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St Jude's or the American Diabetes Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Lorraine Florence Monk, age 87, of Wayne, passed away on Friday, October 31^st, 2025 with her daughter by her side.

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Lorraine was born to Olga & George Arnold in Hackensack, NJ. She was raised in New Milford, NJ. She graduated from Immaculata College and went on to teach Latin and English until her first daughter was born. When she went back to work, she became a bookkeeper for a law firm in Hackensack.

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Lorraine was a loving and caring mother, sister, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was a member of the Brownstone Quilters and the Prayer Shawl Ministry at St. Anne’s Church in Fairlawn. Her passions were watching tennis, doing her crosswords and jigsaw puzzles, knitting, and going to the opera.

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Lorraine was blessed with two daughters and two wonderful sons-in-law, Sandra Boes & William Boes, and Donna Rossi & Tom Rossi. Unfortunately, Donna Rossi predeceased her mother in 2017. She was blessed with four handsome grandsons, Kevin Rossi (spouse Aubrey Nagle), James Rossi (spouse Kacee Rossi), Brett Boes, and Christopher Boes, who unfortunately predeceased her in 2016 at the age of 20. She was then blessed with a beautiful great-granddaughter Zoey Rossi (parents James & Kacee Rossi), who is 3 ½ years old. She is also survived by her loving sister and brother-in-law Adele & George Zawisa, her two nephews Michael Zawisa (spouse Tina Zawisa) and John Zawisa (spouse Daria Zawisa), and her great niece and nephew Koriann & Dylan (parents John & Daria).

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In lieu of flowers, Lorraine asked that memorial donations be made to the Chris Boes Foundation in honor of her grandson. A check can be sent to Sandra & Bill Boes at 49 High Street, West Milford, NJ 07480, made out to Chris Boes Foundation, or via Venmo to William Boes @chrisboesfoundation

Patricia DiCarlo, aged 94, of Wayne, peacefully passed away on Wednesday, October 29, 2025, surrounded by her loving family, whose hearts will forever carry her memory.

Patricia was born on June 6, 1931, in Totowa, New Jersey, to her loving parents, Rose and Oscar Pudula. As the eldest of three children, she took on a nurturing role, looking after her younger brother, Anthony, and her sister, Barbra. Patricia's journey included heartfelt moments at Memorial Grammar School and Passaic Valley High School, where she laid the foundation for her future. She also found joy and camaraderie as a teenager, singing in the choir at Saint James Roman Catholic Church alongside her sister, creating cherished memories together in their close-knit community.

Patricia dedicated many years of her life to working as a receptionist at First Fidelity Bank in Wayne. With her warm smile and genuine sense of humor, she had a special way of welcoming everyone who walked through the door, often leaving them in laughter before they departed.

As a loving mother, wife, sister, aunt, great aunt, cousin, and friend, Patricia's devotion to her family was evident in everything she did. She was always there to offer a helping hand, sound advice, or a comforting shoulder to cry on when it was needed most. Her youthful spirit shone through her love for fashion, always dressing impeccably and showcasing her collection of beautiful shoes that brought joy to those around her.

Patricia found great pleasure in the arts, enjoying outings to the theatre, ballet, and opera. Above all, it was the time spent with her family and friends that brought her the greatest happiness—those treasured moments filled with love and laughter that she held dear. She touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed.

Patricia met her beloved husband, Joseph, and together they created a beautiful family with their three children: Joseph Jr., Steven, and Richard. She cherished her role as a grandmother to Joseph, Domenic, and Isabella, who brought immense joy to her life. Patricia was so proud of each of them and eagerly anticipated the arrival of her first great-grandchild. In her later years, she found happiness in spending time with her partner, Dan DeStefano, and embraced his family as her own. Patricia's warmth and kindness left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her, and her absence will be deeply felt by all who loved her.

Patricia was a deeply devoted wife to Joseph (who has predeceased her) and a loving mother to her son Joseph Jr. (also predeceased), Steven and his wife Joanna DiCarlo, and Richard and his wife Donna DiCarlo. She cherished her role as a beloved grandmother to Joseph and his wife Nicole DiCarlo, Domenic and his girlfriend Gabriela Insignares, Isabella DiCarlo, Michael and Karlee Rouskas, Roxanne Rouskas, Vasili Rouskas, Samantha and Evan Ruben, Kyra Ruben, and William Mazzia. Patricia found comfort and companionship as the forever partner of Daniel DeStefano.

Her heart was always open as a faithful sister to Barbara and Brother-in-law Jerry Speziale (predeceased), and her brother Anthony Padula (predeceased). She was a nurturing aunt and great-aunt, whose love and care extended to several nieces and nephews, creating cherished connections that will be remembered and celebrated.

Norman Hosier, Sr., age 98 of Wayne, passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday, October 29, 2025.

Born in Paterson to James and May Hosier, Norman was one of many children in a bustling household. His love for the outdoors began early with the Boy Scouts and turned into a lifelong passion for fishing and hunting; a trait he eventually passed down to his kids too.

When Norman turned 17, the attacks on Pearl Harbor shook the nation and led Norm to the Draft Board to serve his country. Assigned to the Navy and stationed in Hawaii, he served as a chef and baker for the next 14-18 months before returning home with his newfound skills and enjoyment for baking.

After Norman returned home from the United States Navy, he learned a beautiful young woman named Jennie had moved in next door to his parents at 147 Garfield Avenue in Paterson. Wasting absolutely no time, Norm asked Jennie to go out with him, and she said yes. The couple quickly fell in love and were married in less than a year on Saturday, September 16, 1950, at Pascack Reformed Church in Park Ridge. After a reception in the family’s home, Norman and Jennie jumped into his light green Nash and headed for Sarasota Springs, NY for a beautiful honeymoon.

The young couple began their married life in Norman’s parents’ apartment at 147 Garfield Avenue. They shared the apartment with his parents, and it was there that they were blessed with the first of their five children, a baby girl who they named Deborah. They quickly decided they needed a bit more space and conveniently enough Jennie’s parents in the apartment next door offered the newlyweds the upstairs apartment all to themselves. There, they were blessed with two more girls: first Janice and then Norma Jean. With their family growing they decided to move to Genessee Avenue in Paterson where they welcomed their two boys: Norman, Jr. and James. In 1962, they moved to their home in Wayne where they’ve lived ever since.

Norman built a career as a specialty cake maker and baker, putting his Navy training to expert use. Despite offers from large conglomerates eager to recruit his talents, he preferred working at local bakeries where he could perfect his craft. Besides baking, Norman was also an incredible carpenter. He built out his house himself, redid his own roof, and tackled just about any project you can think of in his home apart from electrical work which he wisely left to professionals. Norman was generous with his time going out of his way to help friends, neighbors and eventually his kids with their own home projects.

Norm and Jennie loved Long Island and Barnegat and made sure to pass on that love to their children by taking their family out on summer trips to their favorite spots. Norm taught his kids to crab off the bay docks and enjoyed every second spent with them, especially in the places they loved. Working six days a week never diminished his devotion to his children. On his Mondays off, he would sometimes surprise them by waking them up and exclaiming there was no school today because they were going fishing or hunting instead!

Norman approached both work and life with tireless ambition and the belief that every problem was simply a new challenge to overcome. This resilient mindset, which he embodied every day until his final moments, became a cornerstone value he passed down to his children.

Norman and Jennie shared a loving marriage that spanned a remarkable 73 years before her passing in October 2023. He will be remembered as a devoted family man who worked tirelessly for those he loved and who always made time for what truly mattered in life.

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Norman was the beloved husband of Jennie who predeceased him in October of 2023.  He was the proud and loving father of five children: Deborah LaSala and husband William of Wantage, Janice Nolan and husband Thomas of Pompton Plains, Norma Jean Johnson and husband Scott of Newton, Norman Hosier, Jr. and wife Maryrose of Newton, and James Hosier of Wayne; adoring grandfather of five grandsons: Jason Grieves, Billy LaSala, the late Christopher Grieves (2007), Michael Hosier and Matthew Hosier; dear uncle of several nieces and nephews and great grandchildren.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making memorial contributions to: The Plant Church, 115 Franklin Tpke. #155, Mahwah, NJ 07430 

Dolores H. Udland, 95, of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Tuesday, Oct. 28, 2025. Dee, as she was known to friends and family, was born on July 2, 1930 and had been a resident of Wayne since 1953.

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Dee was predeceased by her husband Arthur, to whom she was married for 68 years until his death in 2018. She is survived by her four children, Richard, Kenneth (Rosemary), Carol and Susan.

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Known as Grandma or Great Grandma, Dee treasured her time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Dee is survived by 8 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren. Dee was predeceased by her great grandson, Joseph Mongelluzzo, who died in 2022.

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Art and Dee were married on April 9, 1950, and moved to Wayne three years later, raising all four of their children in the home they built together. A longtime member of the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne, Dee was a faithful volunteer for various church groups and other organizations through the years.

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An animal lover, Dee was the faithful companion over the years to a series of small, white dogs – Pierre, Tiki, Jake, Milo, Teddy and Benji. Dee was an avid collector of owls – figurines, glassware, bowls, plates. If they could put an owl on it, Dee would find it.

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For the Udland family, Christmas Eve at Grandma’s was a tradition that went unbroken for decades, and her memory will live on in the hundreds of gold ornaments that adorn trees across the family each December. An avid baker, no Udland will eat a brownie and not think of Grandma.

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A dedicated scrapbooker, Dee leaves her family with dozens of binders, hundreds of photos, and countless memories of vacations, graduations, weddings, and all manner of family milestones. Dee was also a tennis player and enthusiast. She would spend hours watching all of the major tennis tournaments and of course she would have her strawberries and whipped cream prepared when watching the Wimbledon finals. Dee organized family reunions, kept tabs on family members spread across the country and the world, and kept the Udland clan together through so many of life’s ups and downs.

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In lieu of flowers donations to St. Judes Children’s Hospital or the Wayne Memorial First Aid squad would be appreciated. 

Edna May Nick (née Congleton), age 78, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 28, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

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Born in her family home in the Preakness section of Wayne, New Jersey, Edna was the beloved daughter of Warren and Edna Congleton. As the family grew larger, Edna's parents moved frequently to accommodate the significant size of the family. They lived in Wayne, NJ Kingston, NY, Totowa ,NJ, Lincoln Park NJ and then eventually settled down permanently back in Wayne. Like many young women of her generation, Edna left school early to help her mother take care of her siblings and to earn a living. Along side her mother, she worked cleaning offices at Kearfott in Totowa. Edna also did other jobs to earn money along the way.

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As a young woman, Edna lived just up the street from a handsome young man named Kenneth Nick in Paterson. At the time, Kenneth, known to everyone as Mike, was dating someone else, but Edna's best friend Lois, got Mike to break up with his girlfriend and convinced him to start dating Edna. After just six weeks of courtship, the couple knew they were destined to be together and the married on Edna's 18th birthday, December 19th 1964.

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The couple began their life together in Paterson, New Jersey, where they welcomed their first 3 children, Margaret, Brenda and Tammy. They then lived on Fayette Avenue in a house behind Edna's parents. Edna got pregnant with their fourth child and the couple needed a bigger house, so they bought a boarding house in Wayne that had many rooms to accommodate their quickly growing family. There they had the rest of their children,  Paula, Karey, Krissy, Erica, Kenny and Michael.

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Edna went on to drive a school bus for the Wayne Board of Education for several years as well as volunteering for the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad. During this time tragedy struck in February of 1985,  Edna's son Kenny passed away unexpectedly. This rocked Edna to her core. She knew she still had other children to care for so she picked up the pieces of her heart to continue on for her  family with the help of her husband, parents, older daughters, Margaret, Brenda and Tammy. Edna was always looking for jobs that allowed her to provide medical and financial stability for her family.  In March of 1985, Edna left the Wayne Board of Education to begin her career with General Motors in Tarrytown, New York as an auto assembler with UAW Local 664. She worked there for ten years until the plant was closed. In 1995, Edna was transferred to General Motors in Linden, New Jersey UAW Local 595. Shortly after transferring Edna had an opportunity to become a tradesman with the company. She originally wanted to be a Union Electrician, however the need for them was scarce. Instead, she decided to try her hand at carpentry. In April of 1996, Edna graduated from Middlesex County Vocational and Technical Adult Schools with a certificate in Carpentry. She then started her career as a Carpenter's Apprentice at GM and eventually worked her way to Journeyman Carpenter. In 2008, GM announced they would be closing the Linden Plant, so Edna was faced with deciding to transfer out of state or to retire. Edna's love for her family made that decision easy, she decided to retire from GM in June of 2008. 

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 Edna’s greatest joy was her family. She cherished every moment spent with her parents, siblings, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. When her mother fell ill, Edna devoted herself wholeheartedly to her care, just as she did for so many others throughout her life. Edna's parents were the foundation of the family. Her father passed in 1999 and her mother in 2003. She also lost her baby brother Frank to pulmonary fibrosis just a few months prior to losing their mother. Frank and his wife Kathy were very close with Edna's family. They were always together whether at Edna and Mike's house for pizza Fridays or bbqs at Frank and Kathy's house. Kathy her sister in-law was her best friend. In October 2010, Kathy unexpectedly passed away. This was a huge loss for Edna, she was almost inconsolable. Within a few weeks of Kathy's passing, Edna suffered a catastrophic, rare stroke that put her in a coma. The doctors weren't optimistic but after a week Edna regained consciousness. She said she could hear her family the entire time she was comatose and she knew that they needed her. Her awakening from the coma showed her strength, will, and love for her family. Edna was physically strong after her stroke but suffered cognitive deficits. She was unable to care for herself, so her husband Mike and their children cared for Edna. They did for her as she had done for them all the years prior. She instilled a great family ethic in all of her children. During the years that followed, Edna lost her brothers Alan and Bill, as well as her sister Jane. She also lost two daughters, Erica and Karey. 

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Edna will be remembered for her love, warmth, and generosity.  She was a woman who always placed the needs of others before her own. She leaves behind a legacy of hard work, kindness, and devotion that will continue to live on through the family she so deeply loved.

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She will forever be remembered as a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.

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Edna is survived by her husband Kenneth Nick, Sr (Mike). of Wayne, to whom she was married for almost 61 years , five daughters; Margaret Nick Henry of Lincoln Park, Brenda Amaya and her husband Luis of Wayne, Tammy Miller and her husband Mark of Wayne,  Paula DiBartolo and her husband John of Wayne, Krissy Montana of Wayne, a son Michael Nick and his wife Jessica of Pompton Lakes, and a son in-law Anthony Sorrentino of Totowa,  nine siblings; Robert Frields (Sue), Marilyn Wehnert, Bruce Frields, Elaine Maggiore, Warren Congleton, Jr. (Gerry), Philip Congleton (Lynn), Julia Swanson (Jim), Deborah Bailey, and Gay Longo (Steve), fourteen grandchildren; Emily (Dillon), Josh (Jess), Ashlyn (John), Amanda, Sarah, Lia (Chris), Brandon, Scott, Stacey (Andrew), AJ (Kristen), Kathleen, Allyson, Michael Jr., and Katie,  and seven great grandchildren; Decker, Evie, Brayden, Riley, Noah, John III, and Mark James.  She was predeceased by her parents Warren and Edna, her daughters; Karey Ann Sorrentino, Erica Mandeville and her son Kenneth Nick, Jr.  She was also predeceased by her siblings; Beverly Frields, Frank Congleton, Alan Congleton, Jane Ruck, and William Frields, and nephews William T. Frields Jr., William Frields, William Bailey, and nieces Daria Frey (her Goddaughter), and Tanya Congleton.

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Edna's name may be made to:

FOWA Rescue PO Box 3701 Wayne NJ 07470

or

Helping Felines In Need PO Box 2586 Wayne, NJ 07474.  

It is with great sadness, yet with immense thankfulness for his beautiful life, that we share the passing of Eugene “Gene” R. Kelly, age 64, of Wayne, on Saturday, October 25, 2025.

Gene was the firstborn of Eugene and Assunta “Susan” (D’Amato) Kelly’s two sons. Born in Jersey City, he moved with his family to Wayne three years later and lived in the family home at 43 Mandeville Drive for nearly his entire life - relocating only in 2022 to Pompton Lakes. Alongside his younger brother, Joe, the family spent many summers traveling the United States in their pop-up trailer. By the time they were done, they had probably been in or through at least 40 of the nation’s 50 states—without ever once asking, “Are we there yet?” (Well…maybe once.) Everytime they crossed a border, there would be a thrusting forward of hands on the dashboard to claim who was "first" in that particular state. They also cherished weekends spent at their permanent trailer in the Poconos.

Gene graduated from Wayne Hills High School, Class of 1981, where he had a blast serving as manager of the basketball team for all four years. Decades later, he could still recall key plays from standout games with laser accuracy—whether you asked him or not. After high school, he earned his associate’s degree from Edward Williams College, where he graduated in 1984 and his bachelor’s degree in history from Fairleigh Dickinson University, where he graduated in 1986—no surprise, given his lifelong passion for the subject.

Gene enjoyed a remarkable thirty-eight-year career as a maintenance worker with King’s Supermarkets. From 1987 to the present, he served many years at the Wayne store and most recently at the Verona location.

A deeply spiritual man, Gene was devoted to God and to his lifelong parish, Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. He served enthusiastically as an usher, a Eucharistic minister both at Mass and in local nursing homes, and as a Sunday collection counter. Gene loved his parish, often remarking proudly that he had been there since the building was first constructed.

Gene’s memory was legendary. It fueled his love for history and his uncanny ability to recall the past. Fiercely proud to be an American, he could frequently be found wearing patriotic shirts and—almost without exception—a baseball-style cap. He devoured book after book on U.S. history, could name exact dates of major events, and remembered precisely where he was during the notable moments of his own lifetime. He especially admired Abraham Lincoln, proudly sharing a birthday with “Honest Abe.” When his grandmother won a trip to Hawaii, she brought Gene and his cousin along. And though Gene did try a little surfing, what thrilled him most was visiting the historic site of the Pearl Harbor bombing.

Gene loved sports - especially the New York Yankees, the New York Jets, and the New Jersey Devils. Despite his loyalty to Gang Green, he and Joe would often use their dad’s season tickets to catch a Giants game at the Meadowlands in East Rutherford. He was also a dedicated Star Trek fan and enjoyed word search puzzles, shouting out answers during Jeopardy, solving phrases on Wheel of Fortune, and listening to good music – especially The Beatles and Simon & Garfunkel. Throughout his life, Gene was also a collector. It wasn’t necessarily about the items or the reasons; it was the thrill of collecting itself. His baseball cards were his most impressive stockpile - at least in sheer numbers. Ask him if he had a particular card, and he probably couldn’t tell you. Inventory wasn’t his thing - collecting absolutely was.

Gene was a true family man - the greatest storyteller and the family historian. Joe affectionately called him “my personal hard drive,” because whenever he couldn’t remember something, Gene would supply the memory in 1080p detail. He had a huge heart and was generous beyond his personal means. A major fan of video games, he loved old-school classics like Space Invaders, Super Mario Brothers, and Pac-Man. At Christmas, he lit up watching his nephews open new video games from Uncle Gene. Holidays were also about the only time Gene would enjoy a drink - a nice glass of Guinness Stout or maybe a shot (or two) of Bailey’s Irish Cream.

And Gene always had to be the first to deliver breaking news. The story could be splashed across every TV network and social media feed, but Gene would still get to you personally—face-to-face, by text, or maybe with a dramatic tone for effect.

Gene was a loyal friend, evidenced by over forty years of friendship with a core group of high school buddies (George, Chris, Eric, and Andy). Nearly every Saturday night for decades, they gathered to watch movies, enjoy snacks, and drink soda. And when it came to food, Gene never met a fast-food restaurant he didn’t like. Kind, loving, funny, thoughtful—Gene truly would have given you the shirt off his back, a quality modeled consistently by his parents.

Gene was the loving son of Eugene and Susan (D’Amato) Kelly, both of whom predeceased him. He was the dear brother of Joseph Kelly and his wife, Sharon, of Pompton Lakes, the cherished uncle of Ryan and Evan Kelly, and a treasured cousin to many. He also held a special place in his heart for his girlfriend, Kim Welma. They met in high school and remained close until losing touch when Kim moved to Texas. In recent years, they reconnected through mutual friends, gifting them a second chance to rekindle their relationship. Though long-distance, they spoke daily and visited each other a couple of times each year. Gene loved going to Texas to see Kim - and, naturally, to visit the historic Alamo. (Yes, he took notes.)

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Gene’s name are asked to consider sending a donation to:

Our Lady of Consolation R.C. Church,

1799 Hamburg Turnpike

Wayne, NJ 07470

For other ways to donate to the ministry of Our Lady of Consolation Church, CLICK HERE.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Eugene “Gene” Kelly.

Theresa Gollinger died at the age of 107.  

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She was born in Rabafuzes, Hungary and came to the United States in 1951 with four children. She was a homemaker and also worked fulltime with Brooks Brothers in New York as a seamstress. After retirement she moved to Wayne, New Jersey.   

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At the age of 101, she moved in with her daughter in New Port Richey, Florida. She died on October 24, 2025 and is survived by her three daughters, Anna, Irmgard and Brigitta. She had one son, Emil who is deceased. She has four granddaughters, Carol, Monica, Judy and Andrea.  Her family increased with eight great-grandchildren, George, Michelle, George, Justine, Katrina, Kristina, Gina and Leah; and four great-great grandchildren, Wayne, Walker, Gemma and Madison.

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She loved being around all her family and she will be missed.

Kathleen “Kay” (Cummings) Iapoce, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 24, 2025.

Kay was born on September 25, 1934, to Patrick and Margaret (nee Joyce) Cummings. Six weeks after her younger sister Mary was born, Kay and Mary’s mother Margaret passed away leaving Patrick a single father of two daughters under the age of 14 months. With the help of extended family, Kay’s father raised his daughters on West 90th Street in Manhattan. Tragedy struck the girls again when their father died in January of 1952. They moved from Manhattan to Mayflower Avenue in the Bronx to live with their Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie. At the time, Kay was attending Cathedral High School on Lexington and 50th in Manhattan.  She continued to commute via trains and buses to Manhattan for the rest of her high school years graduating in June of 1952. 

While vacationing in the Berkshires, Kathleen met a handsome young man from Long Island City in his twenties named Richard “Buddy” Iapoce. The two began dating and distance was no matter. Buddy traveled back and forth to the Bronx on the subway to see Kay as often as he could. They were married on May 19, 1962, and they enjoyed a honeymoon in the Pocono’s. They first settled down in North Bellmore, Long Island before a new job for Buddy prompted a move to Wayne in 1967.

A passionate traveler, Kay spent much of her life exploring the world with Buddy, and their many dear friends and family. Together they loved journeying coast to coast. Whether driving cross-country in the car for five or six weeks at a time, finding landmarks and historical places (maybe even a casino or two), or taking their annual Disney World trip with their grandchildren, they were always eager to discover new places and make memories they would cherish for their lifetimes. Kay found joy in seeing the world and experiencing all life had to offer. She continued to travel and create memories with her family, most notably to Outer Banks and Disney World.

Kay was a hard worker and had many jobs in her lifetime. She recently mentioned that she enjoyed every place she worked because there was something she learned from each experience. She had an extraordinary depth of knowledge across a wide variety of subjects. Her curiosity knew no bounds and she was always motivated to learn something new, solve a difficult puzzle, or simply engage in thoughtful conversations. Her family and friends often marveled at how much she knew about so many different topics. Her ability to absorb and share information made her a cherished source of wisdom and insight to all that knew her.

Faith was an important part of Kay’s life.  She was baptized, received her First Communion and was Confirmed at St. Gregory the Great Church on West 90th in Manhattan where her Father was the Sexton  (and rumor had it that her father had to stand in as best man for Babe Ruth at his wedding at St. Gregory’s Rector in 1928 because Babe’s chosen Best Man was not Catholic.. but you didn’t hear that from us).  Once she moved to Wayne, Our Lady of the Valley Church became her home parish for the next 58 years.  

Kay was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Richard Iapoce, “Buddy” in 2013. She was the loving mother of: Michael Iapoce and his wife Suzanne of Lincoln Park and their children Kevin, Connor, Kieran and the late Kyle Patrick Iapoce (1996) , Mary LaBarre and her late husband Edward (2021) of Wayne and their children Alyssa and her partner Ryan and their son Hunter Edward, Casey and Gregory LaBarre of Wayne, and Rick Iapoce and his wife Sue of Wayne and their children Ricky Iapoce, Nick and Dan Hanrahan, Katie and Justin Destefano and their daughter Vienna Grace.  She is also predeceased by her parents Patrick and Margaret Cummings, her Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie and her sister Mary Cummings.  

In Lieu of flowers, a memorial donation to the following charitable organization would be greatly appreciated:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Stjude.org

Dorothy Locker Martin (Dot), age 94, of Little Falls, NJ, passed in the early hours of Monday, Oct. 20, 2025, while in hospice care at Sunrise of West Essex.  

Dorothy was born at home in Lodi, NJ, to Marinus and Trina Stienstra Locker in 1930. After her mother lost her battle with tuberculosis at Dot’s tender age of 9, her dad remarried Margie Van Wyen who largely contributed to raising Dot. In 1948, Dot graduated from Lodi High School and eventually married William Ray Martin in April 1956. They honeymooned in Williamsburg, VA. Dot was married to Ray for 66 years before he passed in October 2022. 

As a young adult, Dot traveled by bus every day to the phone company, where she worked as a switchboard operator. She also worked as a bookkeeper at the J.L. Prescott Company.  Ultimately, she worked at Bamberger’s (later Macy's) in the Willowbrook Mall. She held that position for more than 25 years, while raising her daughter, Brenda.

Dot was devoted to her family and was involved in the Second Reformed Church of Little Falls. Having been brought up in the Great Depression era she learned the value of financial stability early on, and instilled the value of fiscal responsibility into her family members by showing how to be a wise saver and shopper.

Dot and Ray enjoyed many summer and holiday weeks at their home with their two grandchildren playing in the pool, going to the local park, and shopping for back to school clothing. She also loved being with family in Ocean City, NJ, and going on cruises to many different destinations with friends and family.

Dot was an avid cook of both meals and desserts, especially during holidays when her homemade creations were desired and showcased. She felt great satisfaction knowing that her husband, Ray, had everything he needed to enjoy his daily meals to the fullest. She loved the company of her dog Snoopy and his support in licking up the kitchen floor. She enjoyed simple things such as the occasional game of cards and Rummikub.

Dot was predeceased by her husband Ray, and brother, Robert. She is survived by a daughter Brenda (who also married a man with the last name Martin), son-in-law Kevin, granddaughters Alison and Ellen, and great-grandchildren Keagan and Talia. Also surviving are cousins Kathryn and Lillian, cousins (twins) Robert and Ronald, and nieces Lauren, Alice and Cindy. Dot also leaves behind various grand-dogs and great grand-dogs.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Humane Society of New Jersey would be greatly appreciated using the following link - https://njhumanesociety.square.site

Garret A. Hoogerhyde Sr., 95, of North Haledon, was called home to be with his Lord and Savior on Sunday morning, October 19, 2025.

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Born in Paterson, Garry was the firstborn of Carl and Marie (Wiegel) Hoogerhyde’s six children. He grew up in Prospect Park in the family home at 111 Brown Avenue. A member of the Class of 1946 at Eastern Academy (now Eastern Christian High School), he went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in accounting from Pace University in New York City.

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In October 1951, Garry was inducted into the U.S. Army, where he proudly served at an anti-aircraft radar site protecting New York City. Following his honorable service, he began a long and rewarding career as a Certified Public Accountant.

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Garry’s first position was with Betts and Gilmore CPAs on Virginia Avenue in Paterson, and his apartment was conveniently located just above the office—leaving him no excuse to ever be late. Over the years, as his mentors retired, Garry assumed leadership of the firm, partnering with several colleagues along the way. His last partner was Dave Baker, giving the firm its name: Hoogerhyde & Baker CPA’s. For a time, he ran the business out of his home on John Ryle Avenue in Haledon. Most of the firm’s history was spent at 909 Belmont Avenue and later at 886 Belmont Avenue in North Haledon. In 2000, Garry sold his share of the business to his son Douglas, but he continued to come into the office—mainly to chat with longtime clients and let Doug handle the paperwork—until full retirement in 2019.

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Garry was the devoted husband of Marlene (Kara) Hoogerhyde for 70 years, until her passing in November 2024. Their love story began with a blind date arranged by a friend while Garry was on military leave. Intent on making a good impression, he showed up at Marlene’s home in his full Army uniform. Though neither remembered the specifics of that first date, it clearly made a lasting impact. They were married on May 8, 1954, at the Hawthorne United Methodist Church, with a reception in the church fellowship hall, and honeymooned through New England, finishing at Niagara Falls.

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The newlyweds settled in the Virginia Avenue apartment above Garry’s first office. Over the years, the family moved several times, including a relocation prompted by the planned construction of Route 80—which would have cut directly through their living room. Eventually, they settled in North Haledon at 326 Squaw Brook Road, where they raised their eight children. Later, they moved to 22 Brian Court, and most recently resided at the Windmere (formerly the Holland Christian Home) in North Haledon.

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Faith was the foundation of Garry and Marlene’s life together. Introduced to the Orthodox Presbyterian Church through the ministry of Grace OPC in Fair Lawn, they joined the congregation in 1956. Garry was ordained and installed as a ruling elder two years later. Over 63 years of service, he became probably the longest continuously serving elder in the history of the OPC, ministering at Grace OPC (Fair Lawn), Emmanuel OPC (Whippany), Living Hope OPC (Nutley), and Church of the Covenant OPC (Hackettstown).

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Garry taught Old Testament adult Sunday School classes and served the denomination in remarkable ways, including: 56 years on the Home Missions Committee, 58 years on the Pensions Committee, 43 years overseeing the hospitalization plan, and 36 years as the president of the Loan Fund Board. In 1976, he was elected moderator of the denomination’s General Assembly.  In addition, he served on the Presbytery of New Jersey’s Home Missions Committee, Diaconal Committee, and as its treasurer.

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To those who served alongside him, Garry embodied the qualities of a wise elder—humble, prayerful, joyful, and filled with Spirit-led wisdom. He worked tirelessly and quietly, always for God’s glory, never his own. In reflecting on his years of service, Garry would often say: “It’s astounding to realize that the Lord saw fit to use me that length of time and that the church feels I’ve been useful. That is encouraging and humbling—but it’s the Lord’s work. Unless the Lord had done it, it wouldn’t have happened.”

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Even with a demanding professional life and active church involvement, Garry found time to serve elsewhere. All eight of his children attended Eastern Christian Schools, and when asked to serve as president of the school board, he answered the call. He also served on the board of American Christian Schools in Succasunna, on the board of Christian Schools International and on their pension committee, on the pension funds for Christian Health Care Center (now Christian Health) and the Passaic County Public Employees’ Pension Fund, and on the advisory committee that helped launch Atlantic Stewardship Bank (now part of Columbia Bank).

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Garry also made room for hobbies. A passionate philatelist and numismatist (stamp and coin collector), he loved crossword puzzles, jigsaw puzzles, sudoku, and quiet moments in his easy chair with a hot cup of coffee and sacred hymns or classical music playing in the background. Nights often ended with The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson—prompting Marlene’s frequent calls from the bedroom to “turn it down!”—or family Star Trek nights, the only time the kids could watch TV at dinner.

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He also loved road trips. With many of his children attending Dordt College, he cherished the long drives between North Haledon and Sioux Center, Iowa. Trips to Vermont were special favorites, and visits by plane to his sons in Washington State became treasured memories.

Garry was a man of strong convictions, anchored in his Christian faith. Though accomplished, he remained profoundly humble, often deflecting praise. His life of service to his family, work, church, and community was, to him, simply a way to follow Christ’s example. Principled yet approachable, firm yet kind, Garry treated everyone—from the janitor to the CEO—with the same respect and friendly smile. And to all who knew him, that warm, familiar chuckle will always be remembered.

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Garry was predeceased by his beloved wife Marlene in 2024. He was the loving father of eight children: Stephen Hoogerhyde of Hackensack; Susan and husband George Lindemulder of Wanaque; Roy and wife Juanita Hoogerhyde of Nazareth, PA; Kathleen and husband Timothy Kline of Fair Lawn; Glenn and wife Jill Hoogerhyde of Lynnwood, WA; Stuart and wife Karen Hoogerhyde of Lynden, WA; Garret Jr. and wife Anita Hoogerhyde of Bothell, WA; and Douglas and wife Leah Hoogerhyde of Franklin Lakes. He was the cherished grandfather of 20 grandchildren and adored great-grandfather of 23 great-grandchildren. He was the dear brother of the late Arthur Hoogerhyde; Carl Hoogerhyde, Jr. and wife Edna of Hawthorne; the late Lawrence Hoogerhyde and wife Linda of Jenison, MI; Marie Zuidema and husband Fred of Portage, MI; and Kenneth and wife Pamela Hoogerhyde of Lamoine, Maine. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

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Special thanks to all who have kept Garry in prayer, visited him, called him, and encouraged him in his final days on this earth.  Also, his family would like to express our deep appreciation to the incredibly loving and caring team of caregivers at Windmere, who took amazing care of Garry.  Your work is often hard and thankless, but you took it as a calling as well as a job. Know that you are loved and greatly appreciated by the Hoogerhyde family!

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations in Garry’s memory to one of the following:

The Orthodox Presbyterian Church

607 North Easton Road, Bldg. E

Willow Grove, PA 19090-2539

Mid-America Reformed Seminary

229 Seminary Dr.

Dyer, IN 46311

Lorraine Ho, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home in the presence of her loving family on Sunday, October 19, 2025.

Lorraine was born in Nanking, China. Early in her life, her family escaped to Taiwan, where she attended middle school, high school, and college. She earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from Taiwan Normal University in 1957. After graduation, she moved to Saigon, Vietnam, where she taught English and worked as a translator for the American war correspondence press from 1958 to 1959.

Lorraine’s life changed course when she relocated to the United States to pursue a master’s degree in library science at Marywood College (now Marywood University) in Scranton, Pennsylvania, graduating in 1961.

After earning her degree, Lorraine began her career as a librarian with the former Engineering Societies Library (ESL) in New York City. It was there that she met a young engineering student named Tony Ho, who was working in the city during his summer internships from Virginia Tech. The two began dating, fell in love, and became engaged in December 1961. They married on March 16, 1963, at Corpus Christi Church on 121st Street in New York City. A reception followed at Earl Hall at Columbia University, and they honeymooned in Philadelphia.

Lorraine and Tony began married life in Hackensack, where Lorraine worked at the Johnson Public Library from 1964 to 1967. In 1967, they moved to Wayne, settling into a brand-new home where they would remain for the rest of their respective lives. In 1972, they were blessed with the birth of their son, Andrew.

Professionally, Lorraine served as librarian at the Okonite Research Library in Passaic from 1968 to 1969 and at the Clifton Public Library from 1969 to 1973. She later dedicated herself to raising Andrew, attending his sporting events, and taking him to all his Boy Scouting activities. She was also very active in the local Chinese American community and served as President of the Northern New Jersey Chinese Association (NNJCA) in the early 90s.

After retiring in 1995, Lorraine and Tony spent their later years traveling extensively, usually taking one major trip each year. Their favorite places to travel were England, France, and Hawaii, but they also loved travelling through Spain, Italy, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Greece, China, and Tahiti. When not travelling abroad, they loved spending time together at their condominium in Wildwood Crest on the Jersey Shore.

In her spare time, Lorraine enjoyed swimming in Wildwood Crest, and at the Preakness Pool and Toms Lake in Wayne. An enthusiastic tennis fan and long-time member of the Pacquenac Tennis Club, she enjoyed both playing and watching the sport. She also loved capturing memories and was the self-appointed family photographer at all events and trips. While Tony oversaw most of the cooking, Lorraine’s specialties were her version of roast Peking duck for Thanksgiving and scallion pancakes for special occasions throughout the year.

Above all, Lorraine’s family was her greatest source of pride and joy. She adored her two grandsons, Nathan and Alex, and always looked forward to spending time with them. Known for her attention to detail, strong organizational skills, energetic personality, forthcoming nature and overall love of life, Lorraine touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Lorraine was the beloved wife of Tony Ho, with whom she shared 58 years of marriage before his passing in 2021. She was the loving mother of Andrew Ho and his wife Yani of Tenafly; cherished grandmother of Nathan and Alex; dear sister of Ting Pei Lee, Ting Yu Lee, Ting Cai Lee, An Yi Lee, and Frances Lee who all predeceased her; and the beloved aunt of many nieces and nephews.

Hazel Ann Neil, age 85 of Packanack Lake in Wayne passed away on October 19, 2025 in her home with her loved ones by her side.

Ann was born on May 29, 1940 to Louis and Hazel Hopper in Newark NJ and lived in Nutley as a child. She was a graduate of Wayne High School in 1958 and later Kathrine Gibbs School where she learned professional office skills. She worked in the Wayne school system for years and also at a Consumer Product testing facility until she became the Principal Clerk Typist at William Paterson College in the library department. Ann was the one that professors went to for help when trying to find information, and for the library Christmas parties she always got everything organized so everyone had a good time.

Ann was a loving mother to her daughter Heather Barno and son Chris Neil and his partner Lisa of Wayne. Ann's granddaughter Samantha Oras and her husband Alex, and is also survived by her nephew Raymond, and nieces Susan and Lisa.

Ann loved to read mystery novels particularly Agatha Christie and watch old Charlie Chan movies while she embroidered and did needlepoint. One of her favorite things to do was go on day trips to Atlantic city with her friends, she loved playing the slot machines. When she was younger, she liked to put together jigsaw puzzles and make matching clothes for her and her daughter Heather.

Patricia Kaelin, beloved mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on October 18, 2025, at the age of 66.

Born in Paterson, New Jersey, on June 1, 1959, Patricia was the cherished daughter of Kenneth and Angelina Armstrong. She grew up in Wayne, NJ in a close-knit family alongside her sisters Joan Green (Jeffrey) and Karen McIntyre (James), and remained deeply connected to her roots throughout her life.

Patricia was the devoted mother of Kimberly Kowzun (Richard) and Stephanie Kaelin, and the proud grandmother of Ricky and June Kowzun, who brought her endless joy. Her family was the center of her world, and she committed her heart and hours to their happiness.

A graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Rutgers University, Patricia served as the recreation director of JDT at Lincoln Park Care Center, where her creativity and compassion touched the lives of many. She had a gift for bringing joy to others, whether through her work or her beautiful singing voice, which she shared generously with those around her.

Alan D. Green, age 79, of Wayne and Hopatcong NJ passed peacefully on Friday evening, October 17th, 2025.

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Alan was born in Manhattan, NY and lived in Brooklyn, NY until the age of 5 when his family moved to Bogota, NJ.

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Alan served in the army from 1964 to 1967. Alan enlisted proactively and served in Texas until he was honorably discharged.

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Alan met Joan Vorch at a bingo event in 1969. They dated for six weeks before Alan proposed and married shortly after. Alan just knew. Joan and Alan were set to celebrate their 55th anniversary this November.

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Alan graduated from Thomas Edison College when he began work as an accountant. Alan loved working with numbers and the work he did as an accountant. However he hated tax season. He really hated tax season. Alan’s proudest highlight came early in his career. He loved to share that he had Clarence Clemons of The E Street Band as a client. He enjoyed going to Clarence’s Bar, “Big Man’s West” in Red Bank to sit back and take in the bands and atmosphere while he worked on the books.

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Alan was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He loved nothing more than to sit back with a hot dog at Rutts Hutt and tell stories of his past to his children. The stories were always the same, but the passion and smile for them were always infectious. His grandchildren were the light of his life. Scarlett, Grayson and Luca always made him laugh and he loved sharing their world. Alan had many hobbies but his favorite by far was fishing. He always looked forward to his annual fishing trip with his two best friends, (or as they called themselves, the three ballerinas) to Lake Gananoque in Canada.

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Alan is survived by his wife Joan, his son Jay, his wife Devan, their two sons Grayson and Luca, his daughter Joelle, her husband Jonathan and their daughter Scarlett. Alan is pre-deceased by Irving and Murray his two parrots.

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In lieu of flowers the family asks that you take the time to hug your loved ones and never pass up the opportunity to say, “I love you." Or as Alan would put it, “you can call me anything you want, just don’t call me late for dinner.”

Louis J. Eswood, Jr. age 68, of Parsippany, passed Tuesday, October 14, 2025 with the comfort of family by his side.

He was born in Paterson to Louis and Frances Eswood and grew up at 302 Michigan Avenue. He attended St. Brendan’s Elementary School later graduating from Paterson Catholic High School with the Class of 1975. Continuing his education, Louis earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration from Montclair State College.

Louis met the love of his life, Nancy Drost, during a happy hour at Gaspar’s Restaurant & Night Club, in Wayne, after work. That chance encounter continued later that evening at the Pompton Queen Diner on Route 23, where their connection quickly deepened. After asking for her father’s blessing, Louis proposed to Nancy at her apartment. They were married on June 1, 1985, at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton, followed by a reception at The Tides in North Haledon. The couple honeymooned in Bermuda and went on to share a loving and devoted marriage of forty years, blessed with two sons and four cherished grandchildren.

Louis’ strong work ethic began early in life. As a boy, he delivered newspapers to nearly one hundred customers each day, balancing the heavy basket on his bicycle as he made his rounds. He also cut lawns in Paterson, always willing to put in the effort to earn his way. During his high school and college years, he worked in the paint department of Sears at Willowbrook Mall, where he learned the value of customer service and responsibility. After graduating college, Louis began his professional career with Union Carbide Corporation in Wayne, working in the customer service division of their home and automotive group. When Union Carbide merged into 1st Brands Corporation in Parsippany, he transitioned into the role of Fulfillment Manager for Promotional Products. In 1999, Louis joined Prudential Financial in Newark as a Purchasing Manager for Consolidated Fulfillment, a position he held with dedication until his retirement in 2020. Over the years, Louis built a reputation as a dependable professional, admired for his integrity, attention to detail, and commitment to every role he undertook.

Louis was gifted with the talent of storytelling, captivating anyone who listened with his humor and insight. Inquisitive by nature and a true problem-solver, he was “Mr. Fix It” to family and friends alike, always ready to lend a hand or figure out a solution. His patience extended even to teaching parallel parking, where he turned a nerve-wracking rite of passage into a lesson in calm encouragement. He loved his time at the beach in Sea Isle City, found daily perspective in watching World News Tonight with David Muir, and delighted in dropping everything to catch Produce Pete on WNBC, eager to learn something new. Louis had a particular passion for investigating dairy product plant codes and sharing his discoveries with anyone willing to listen. Informative, resourceful, and endlessly curious, he found joy in the small details of everyday life and shared that joy generously with those around him.

Louis was the loving husband of forty years to Nancy Lynn Eswood (née Drost). He was the devoted father of Louis Joseph Eswood III and his wife Alyssa of Fairfax, VA, and Brian John Eswood and his wife Anna of Sewell. He took great pride in being the cherished grandfather of four—Madelyn, Connor, Olivia, and Bianca Eswood who brought him endless joy; he was the loved brother of MaryAnn Wiarda and her husband Pete of Green Pond. Louis was also the much loved brother-in-law to Ken Drost and his wife Dawn of Lafayette, CO, Tim Drost and his wife Jeananne of Verona, and Laurie Larsen of Wharton. He will be dearly missed by his many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends whose lives were touched by his kindness and love.

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In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Ally’sElves, Inc. www.allys-elves.org is a charity inspired by Louis' niece Alana (Ally), and the seniors whose lives are brightened by the joy and companionship Alana and her community deliver each holiday season.