Vivian Bayley

We honor and celebrate the life of Vivian (Golten) Bayley, a devoted wife, cherished mother, beloved Nana, and proud keeper of her Norwegian heritage. Born with a gentle spirit and a strong heart, Vivian filled every chapter of her life with love, resilience, and compassion for others.

Born in Brooklyn, NY to Sigurd and Aagot Golten, whom she adored, Vivian’s family soon settled in Pines Lake. Growing up there brought her some of the happiest moments of her life. The calm mornings, lake adventures, endless swimming, and the long summer days gave Vivian and her siblings—Sylvia, Norman, and Carol—and her forever best friend, Cathie Hinchman, an upbringing filled with happiness and lasting memories.

Vivian carried the traditions of her Norwegian roots with great pride and joy. She shared stories of her family’s heritage, passed down traditions that became favorites at every gathering, and kept alive the customs and values that shaped her life. Her home was filled with the warmth and spirit of Norway—especially during holidays, when she made certain, the family felt connected to where they came from.

She loved her husband (Richard) deeply, and it showed in everything she did. She was his partner, his friend, and his biggest supporter. Their life together was filled with love and care, and the way she stood by him for 55 years will always be treasured and never forgotten.

As a mother, Vivian had a steady, nurturing presence. She raised her three children (Paula, Ellen and David) with patience, encouragement, and a quiet strength that guided them through life. Vivian and Richard gave their children a childhood full of happiness and unforgettable memories. A mother-in-law, to Bianca Bayley, she was a source of unconditional love—always ready with a smile and a warm hug. As a Nana, to her four grandchildren (Gavin, Ella, Emme and Preston) they will forever remember the countless hours of love she gave them and the lessons she taught them through her actions: to, “Be Good and Kind to Everyone.”

Vivian’s kindness extended beyond her family. Whether offering a helping hand, sharing a thoughtful word, or simply bringing comfort with her gentle nature, she touched the lives of so many. Her warmth made people feel seen and welcomed, and her presence brought a peaceful steadiness to those fortunate enough to know her.

Though the loss of Vivian leaves a deep ache, her legacy is a lasting one—found in the beliefs she passed on, the love she gave freely, and the countless memories held close by those who loved her. Her spirit continues and will always guide and embrace her family, reminding them of the importance of love, relationships, and heritage.

For those looking to make a tribute in Vivian’s name, please consider donating to De Paul Catholic "Days of Giving."