Vander May Funeral Home

Robert Edward Corcoran was suddenly called home by his beloved Lord on June 27, 2025.

He was born on April 20,1948 in Paterson, NJ, but was raised in Wayne NJ where he lived most of his life.

Bob was predeceased by his loving parents James M. Corcoran and Kathryn( Powers) of Wayne NJ. He is survived by his brothers James Corcoran and his wife Jean ( Wilson) of Sellersville, PA and brother Charles Corcoran and wife Wanda (Petrosewitz) of Olean, NY, nephew Mark Corcoran and Kate( Kelley), niece Lisa {Corcoran}Wichert and husband Kent Wichert and 15 great nieces and nephews.

He is also survived by his beloved partner of 38 Years Erik Linotte from the Netherlands, who currently resides in their residence in Wayne NJ.

Bob received his degree in liberal arts and history from Christian Brothers University Memphis TN. After Graduation Bob traveled the world extensively mainly Asia where he taught English and history in Hong Kong where he lived for several years. After returning to the USA he lived for several years in Hawaii and California before returning to New Jersey where he managed his parents ‘Jay hardware store in Mountain view.

Erik and Robert met each other 38 years ago in Amsterdam during one of his travels and they had that instant connection, they lived a simple life but filled with love and respect for one another.

Bob was a man of faith, he was a true believer and if you would ask him what his faith was he would tell you’ he is following the Gospel of Jesus’, because of his strong faith his partner and family know that Bob was taken by his beloved Lord into His Kingdom with wide open arms where he is at a good place surrounded by his beloved cats and dogs that have passed over the years.

Bob loved to be outside and work in his garden which he was so proud of, he created a piece of heaven for himself and Erik. He also loved his animals, no animal too big or small he took care of them with great care and love. As a profound history buff he could tell you many interesting stories and people loved his stories about history and his travels, his partner Erik had to listen to many history lessons mostly very early in the morning .There are so many things that can be said about Robert but he will always be remembered by his personality, his kindness and beautiful heart, he will be missed by those who knew him but he will watch over us forever.

In Robert’s honor, please make a donation to your local animal shelter, or the Sid Roth ministries.

Robert Edward Corcoran

June 27, 2025

Johanna Pettrizzie, age 85, of Wayne passed peacefully on Friday, June 27th, 2025.

Johanna was born to John and Antoinette (nee Romano) Pettrizzie, she was one of six children in her family. Sadly, Johanna’s father passed away at a young age, and her older sister, Madeline, helped to raise her siblings. Johanna went on to graduate from Emerson High School in Union City, NJ, with the class off 1958, where she had also been a majorette with the marching band! After high school, she began working as a receptionist/office manager for Foremost Corrugated in Little Ferry. She enjoyed a lengthy career before retiring in '95. She had lived in N. Arlington, Union City, and Ridgefield before moving to Wayne in 1995.

Johanna was of fan of the “Big Apple” and enjoyed all that New York City had to offer, especially the night life. She would frequently bring her niece and nephews to see the Christmas Show at Radio City Music Hall starring the Rockettes and Parade of the Wooden Soldiers during the winter holidays, and Broadway shows like Peter Pan, Annie, etc. She took in live concerts, seeing Elton John, John Denver, and so many more. She frequented “The Barge Club” on the Hackensack River in Carlstadt, The Bicycle Club in Fort Lee, and the Meadowbrook in Cedar Grove. She had a lot of fun through the years.

Johanna loved her independence, enjoyed bike riding and was an animal lover. Her poodles, first Max then Buster were like children to her and she would spoil them to no end. After they left her for doggie heaven she would always enthusiastically volunteer to "babysit" for her niece's Yorkshire terrior, Rosie. Johanna shared her love unconditionally. In addition to her love of dogs Johanna would always make sure the local squirrels in her backyard had their daily snacks of peanuts that she fed them on the deck. She was also an avid reader and enjoyed diving into a good novel. She has a book collection like no other. She had also enjoyed some world travel, visiting Rome, Italy, and Hawaii.

Johanna remained extremely close with her siblings Madeline and John. The three of them lived together throughout their lifetimes. Her family, and the love they all shared, was essential to her. She is the last of her siblings to have passed away after her sister Madeline died in 2001, her sisters Agnes Spada and Marie Manzini in 2013, her brother John in 2014, and her sister Frances Ianuale in 2020.

Johanna is survived by her niece, Marissa Sabia and her husband Carmine, three nephews; Steve Ianuale, Michael Ianuale and his wife Laura, and Robert Spada, her great-nieces and great-nephews; Nicole, Francesca, Mark and Cory, and a large extended family. They will all miss her dearly.

Johanna Pettrizzie

June 27, 2025

Deborah (Debbie) Lynn Cassidy, 71, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on June 27, 2025.

Born on May 20, 1954, in Ridgewood, NJ, Debbie dedicated her life to raising her five children. She is survived by her loving children: Jessica Vander Wall and her husband Todd Vander Wall; Mark D. Cassidy and his wife Wendy Cassidy; Kristin Figueroa and her husband Jesse Figueroa; Leanne Lewis and her husband Tom Lewis; and her daughter Karen Cassidy.

She also leaves behind six cherished grandchildren: Matthew, Hunter, Liam, Quinn, Peyton, and Olivia, as well as her beloved nieces and nephew. Debbie was a devoted mother, and her impact extended beyond her own children to their friends and her beloved nieces. Debbie is also survived by her brother, Glenn Sisco, and Annette Peshia. Debbie was previously married to Mark Dennis Cassidy of Ridgewood, NJ.

In her leisure time, Debbie enjoyed reading, listening to Rock-n-Roll music, and relaxing in the sun, especially at the beach. Some of her most treasured memories were made in Spring Lake, NJ, where she enjoyed bike riding with her children, fishing, and crabbing. A true lover of lobster and all things seafood, she also loved dining out and was a great cook herself. Debbie was widely known for her infectious and boisterous laugh.

Debbie's life was enriched by the close friendships she found at Summerhill, where she appreciated their companionship and daily visits. She especially looked forward to playing Bingo with her friends there.

Deborah Lynn Cassidy

June 27, 2025

Matthew Walton, 26, of Wayne, NJ, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, June 25, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of quiet strength, loyalty, and a deep love for those around him.

Born and raised in Wayne, Matthew graduated with the Wayne Valley High School Class of 2017. A lifelong sports fan, Matthew especially loved the New York Jets, proudly enjoying the season tickets that his father held. They made countless memories at MetLife Stadium. One of the highlights of his young life was attending the 2015 Super Bowl through the Make-A-Wish Foundation. This included four fun-packet days with VIP treatment for him and his family, with great seats to the big game! It was a dream come true for Matthew.

Matthew had a passion for fashion and collected sneakers with a discerning eye, appreciating the unique designs and stories behind each pair. He loved music and was a really good dancer, often surprising friends with his smooth moves, even though he was otherwise an introverted and quiet soul. Matthew was especially proud of his Italian heritage, and he never missed an opportunity to share that fact.

A lover of video games, it’s anyone’s guess how many hours he spent on his Xbox, but it was a lot. He found comfort and relaxation in the time he spent gaming. For the past three years, he shared a loving relationship with his girlfriend Nicole. They were introduced by a mutual acquaintance, and together they found happiness in simple moments—taking walks around Packanack Lake and dining at Portobello restaurant. Of course, Matthew also liked to argue with her, and Nicole would give anything today to argue with him just one more time. She will miss him dearly.

Matthew battled with Crohn’s disease for many years, the reason he was granted his wish by Make-A-Wish Foundation. Despite those challenges, he faced each day with courage and resilience, never allowing his illness to define his spirit. His love, kindness, and quiet presence will be remembered by his family, friends, and all who knew him. Matthew will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered for the joy he brought to others, his dedication to the things he loved, and the quiet but strong way he walked through the world.

Matthew is survived by his mother, Jackie Valorani and her husband Anthony of Wayne, his brother Eddie Walton of Woodland Park, his grandmother; Sue Walton of N. Carolina, and his girlfriend; Nicole Lucero, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and heartbroken friends. He was predeceased by his father; Mike Walton in 2021.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Matthew’s memory to the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation or the Make-A-Wish Foundation, organizations that made a meaningful difference in his life. www.wish.org

Matthew Walton

June 25, 2025

Joseph A. Stinziano, age 88, a man whose bright colored outfits and even brighter spirit could light up any room, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, June 25, 2025, in Oak Park, Illinois. Joe had resided in Wayne, NJ, for much of his life before moving briefly to Wanaque, NJ, and then to Oak Park in 2017.

Born in Jersey City, NJ, in 1937, Joe graduated from Ferris High School, where he discovered his passion for music and maybe even a little mischief. Joe played drums for more than ten years with “The Tunesters,” touring across the country and holding a three-year residency in Las Vegas during the late 1950s and early 1960s. On one particular occasion, he returned home late at night from a lengthy tour and was unable to get into his parent’s home, so he slept on the porch. In the morning, his mother discovered him there and didn’t recognize him. Thinking he was vagrant, she proceeded to yell and call the police! One of his greatest musical influences was Frank Sinatra, and Joe remained a loyal fan of his music “Saturdays with Sinatra” throughout the house for many years.

After retiring from the music scene, Joe became a general contractor and painter in the Jersey City area before making a bold move in mid-life: he went to college, eventually earning his Master’s Degree in Teaching. Joe began teaching special education at Passaic County Vo-Tech High School in the 1970’s, where he created a “life skills” curriculum for deaf students that continues to be used today, a legacy that made him deeply proud. Joe loved being a teacher, and his students benefited from the same warmth, humor, and a firm belief that anything was possible. He retired from teaching in 2005.

It was at Passaic County Vo-Tech High School that Joe met the love of his life, Ellen. He used a corny pickup line to convince her to join him for lunch, and so began their romance. It only took thirteen years of courtship before Joe asked Ellen to marry him, and they tied the knot on July 27, 2003, followed by a honeymoon aboard a Caribbean cruise. They enjoyed cruising so much that they’ve embarked on more than one hundred cruises to ports all around the world. This year they’ve already enjoyed three cruises and had three more booked in the coming months. Joe would often pack his suitcase about thirty minutes before leaving the house, filling it with his ‘cruise clothes’ which included the most outlandish outfits of crazy shirts, patterned pants, and bright colored belts. His attire only served to enhance his already-exuberant persona.

Joe could certainly be described as a big dreamer, always believing in the impossible. His purpose was simple; to make people smile. He brought a special energy, fun, and chaos wherever he went, and there was never a dull moment when Joe was around. In order to provide a great environment for all the family fun, Joe and his sons built a huge party room, where Joe hosted and held court over many memorable parties. He spent weeks planning the menu and choosing the perfect décor, and he cooked everything to perfection. Joe truly loved his family, believing that time spent with loved ones was the most important gift in life. He is a testament to living boldly, loving deeply, and finding joy in everyday moments. His family and friends will forever remember the way he could turn an ordinary day into something special, simply by showing up as himself.

He was also a “master putzer” who loved to tinker and fix things around the house—though finishing projects was never as important to him as the joy of starting them. Most of his projects would reach a point of ‘nearly complete,’ and that’s where they would remain. He’s left little reminders of his handiwork all over the place.

He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by his wife Ellen of Oak Park, IL., his two sons; Joseph Stinziano and his wife Laura of Wayne, Mark Stinziano and his wife Kelly of Hewitt, his daughter Julie Cantrell and her husband Mike of Missouri, one brother; Dennis Stinziano and his wife Patricia of Hollywood, FL, his cherished grandchildren who all called him Pop-Pop: Joseph, Jaclyn, Donna, Donald, Philip, and Phylicia Stinziano and Ferris Cantrel, many friends, former students, and all those whose lives he touched with his humor and kindness. Joe was predeceased by his parents: John and Rose Stinziano; his five beloved sisters and two dear brothers: Theresa Sucato, Anna Kachnowski, Jeanette Quarterbosh, Rosemary Falcone, Josephine Lombardi, Dominick and John Stinziano; and his former wives Patricia Brunning and Donna Cortese.

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In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated to Wounded Warriors or to The Maria Costanzo DeBenedetto Memorial Foundation (find Foundation on PayPal, or by check mailed to MCDM Foundation, 19 Point Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Joseph Stinziano

June 25, 2025

Oak Park

Mark William Rudiger, age 65, of Hackettstown, NJ, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Tuesday, June 24, 2025.

Born in Passaic, Mark spent his early years in East Rutherford before his family settled in Wayne, NJ, where he was raised and shaped by the close bonds of his large family as one of six children to Harry and Barbara Rudiger. He graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1977, where he was a proud member of the varsity football team and also enjoyed playing hockey and competitive skiing during his youth.

After high school, Mark began his professional journey with the Wanaque Reservoir. He later joined Interstate Maintenance in Boonton, NJ, where he spent nearly two decades mastering the trade of Building Engineering. His career continued with Newmark Law Offices in West Orange, where he worked as a Building Engineer for over twenty years until his passing—a testament to his strong work ethic and dedication.

In the early 1980s, Mark married Kathleen Brown, and together they raised their two children, Cynthia and William. Through the years, the couple grew apart and their marriage eventually ended.

While working at Interstate Maintenance, Mark met Jamileth Arrieta—a connection that would change his life. After a first date at the beach in Long Branch, the two quickly formed a deep bond. Their love grew, and on October 5, 2006, they were married. The couple first lived in Elizabeth before settling in Hackettstown, where they built a home filled with warmth, laughter, and love.

Mark had a passion for cooking and grilling, often hosting lively family gatherings. He and Jamileth shared a love for gardening and could often be found working side by side in their yard, meticulously tending to their flower beds and vegetable garden. Mark was a skilled handyman who took pride in his home, always keeping it in immaculate condition. Together, he and Jamileth traveled to places like Cancun, Punta Cana, and Costa Rica. They also cruised together on several occasions to many of the exotic islands in the Caribbean, creating memories that became cherished chapters of their life together.

Above all else, Mark’s greatest devotion was to his family. He found true joy in providing for them and spending time with those he loved most. His Christian faith was also a central part of his life. Mark accepted Jesus in 1980 and remained a devoted student of the Bible, eventually inspiring his parents to draw closer to the Lord as well.

Known for his easygoing nature, infectious humor, and generous spirit, Mark had a gift for making those around him smile. He never missed an opportunity to share a joke or lighten the mood. He was a loving son, a devoted father, a supportive brother, and a cherished grandfather. Most of all, he was a faithful and loving husband who treasured more than two decades of marriage to his beloved Jamileth.

Mark is survived by his wife, Jamileth Rudiger (née Arrieta) of Hackettstown, NJ; his children, William Rudiger and his wife Lauren, and Cynthia Andrews, all of Bradenton, FL; his grandchildren, McKenna, Kaleb, Jaxon, Ashton, and Jordon; his siblings, Lorraine Marquez and her husband Marrio of Ronda, NC; Carol Rudiger of Montville, NJ; Karen Rudiger of Fort Lee, NJ; Karl Rudiger and his wife Susanne of Charleston, SC; and David Rudiger and his wife Debby of Clemmons, NC; as well as seven nieces and nephews and 6 grand nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by both his parents, Harry and Barbara Rudiger, within the last thirteen months.

Mark’s sudden departure leaves a deep void in the lives of all who knew and loved him. He will be remembered for his kind heart, unwavering faith, and the legacy of love and laughter he leaves behind.

Mark William Rudiger

June 24, 2025

Hackettstown

Roy John Miller, 78, of Hackensack, NJ, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 23, 2025, surrounded by the love and care of his family.

Born in the Bronx, NY, Roy was raised in Teaneck, NJ, the beloved son of Royale and Cecelia Miller, and the youngest of their three children. He began his education at the Essie Olive Abeel School in Hackensack before attending Valley Forge Military Academy in Wayne, Pennsylvania, where he graduated with the Class of 1965. Shortly thereafter, Roy proudly enlisted in the United States Marine Corps, answering the call to serve his country.

Tragically, before he could deploy overseas, Roy was involved in a devastating car accident during a brief period of leave. Ejected from the vehicle due to his position in the backseat, he was the sole survivor among his group of friends. The accident brought a premature end to his military service, and he spent a lengthy recovery period at a hospital in Petersburg, Virginia.

Following his recovery, Roy began a successful career in the automotive industry, working as a service manager for a Mercedes-Benz dealership in Englewood, NJ, and later at other locations. He eventually transitioned into sales at George Glove, Inc. in Midland Park, NJ, where he rose to the position of Vice President of Sales.

It was during his time at the Mercedes dealership that Roy met Joan Foschini, a young woman who brought her car in for service and was immediately drawn to his charm. She asked him to dinner, and the two quickly formed a deep connection. They married in 1980 and made their home in Hackensack in a condo owned by Joan’s family. Though their marriage lasted nearly twenty years before they eventually divorced, Roy and Joan remained close companions and caring friends throughout their lives.

After the divorce, Roy returned to the home where he was raised in Teaneck to care for his aging mother. Following her passing in 2004, he moved back to Hackensack, where he remained.

Roy was a man of quiet strength, deep intelligence, and thoughtful presence. He loved nothing more than spending time by the beach, drink in hand, basking in the sun and sea breeze. A connoisseur of good food and drink, he was a regular at the Miller Ale House in Paramus, always enjoying a scotch on the rocks and a hearty steak. An avid Mets fan and a devoted viewer of Jeopardy!, Roy was both intellectually curious and deeply grounded.

Above all, Roy was a kind and loyal soul, devoted to his family and especially close to his sister Patricia, with whom he spoke daily. His warmth, wisdom, and gentle spirit will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.

He is survived by his former wife and dear friend, Joan Foschini of Glen Rock, NJ; his loving sister, Patricia Deraney of Wayne, NJ; his niece, Danielle Palumbo of Oakland; and his nephews: Rod Deraney of Newtown, CT, Ed Deraney of Wayne, NJ, Robert Nardi of Virginia, and Christopher Nardi of Missouri, and many great nieces and great nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, Royale and Cecelia Miller, and his sister, Flora Nardi.

Roy John Miller

June 23, 2025

Hackensack

Joseph Stern, Jr., of Hardyston, passed away on June 20, 2025, at United Methodist Communities Bristol Glen, in Newton.

Joe grew up in the Wanaque, Pompton Lakes area and spent most of his life there. During his high school years in Pompton Lakes Joe went into a work program and started working at the Riverdale Rambler Auto Dealership. He started out in the Parts Department and over a period of a few years, he purchased the property and turned it into an RV center called VanCon, that he ran for many years.

Joe moved to Sussex County 25 years ago, spending 20 years in Oakridge, and the last 5 years in Hardyston, in Crystal Springs.

One of Joe’s favorite past times was boating, and he did many enjoyable trips up and down the East Coast, going to Florida and the Carolinas.

Joe will be deeply missed by his brother Albert of Hardyston, his Aunt Effie Stern of Wayne, and many nieces, nephews, and friends.

Joseph Stern, Jr.

June 20, 2025

Hardyston

Richard W. Falato, age 79, of Wayne and Marco Island, FL went to his eternal rest on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, with the comfort of his wife by his side.

He was born in Paterson to John and Ruth Falato and raised at 849 Main Street in Paterson New Jersey, graduating from Central High School with the Class of 1964. He continued his education at the Newark School of Fine and Industrial Arts where he studied Advertising Design with the Class of 1967.

Rich’s remarkable career began humbly, plucking eyes out of potatoes at the farmers’ market on Railway Avenue in Paterson. His first job in his field was with the American Cyanamid Corporation in Wayne working in the art department. Rich went on to serve as Art Director for the Ridgewood News. In 1972 he moved his young family to Sherman Oaks, California, where he joined the printing department at Price Waterhouse, a job his brother in law secured for him until he could find something of his own in a more creative vain. Two years later, they returned to New Jersey, where Rich worked for Westshore Publishing in Bogota before joining Curtin and Kissane in New York City.

There, he designed brochures, game tickets and other promotional materials. This led him to establish his own firm, Joshua Productions in Riverdale, New Jersey. Changes in the graphics business led him to establish a home-based company on Oakwood Drive in Wayne. He specialized in advertising, product photography, brochures, and magazine ad placement. Ready for a change, and ever adaptable, Rich transitioned into a scientific role at Schering-Plough—later Merck—where he spent the last seven years of his work life as a Pharmaceutical Lab Process Specialist. Rich officially retired in 2015.

Rich was always on the move, embracing an active lifestyle with his trademark enthusiasm and good humor. He loved playing golf at the Packanack Golf Club, especially with the Wednesday Seniors, even if his skills on the course were more often the source of friendly teasing than trophies. What he lacked in golfing precision, he made up for with laughter and camaraderie. Rich also enjoyed the fast-paced game of pickleball and was a regular at the gym, where he was known for his dedication to staying fit. One of his favorite pastimes in Florida, was playing bocce ball, a sport that brought him many dear friends.

Rich met the love of his life, Patricia “Pat” Dowd, at a Central High School football game in Paterson—a serendipitous moment that marked the beginning of a beautiful lifelong partnership. Their relationship deepened over time, and Rich proposed to Pat while they sat together in a car near William Paterson University, then known by its earlier name. They were married on June 22, 1968, at St. Mary’s Church on Union Avenue in Paterson, and celebrated their union with a joyful reception at the Wayne Manor. Their honeymoon to the sun-soaked shores of Saint Thomas and Puerto Rico marked the start of a marriage rooted in love, respect, and shared values. This union produced two children, a source of tremendous pride to Rich. Years as a coach, rooter, advice-giver, all rolls played by him, thanks to two children born nine years apart – to the day. These two children brought him tremendous joy by making him a grandfather of six. This new generation kept him on the go with ball games, graduations, building projects, bedtime stories, and home-cooked meals. Over 57 years of marriage, Rich and Pat built a life full of meaning, and Pat remained faithfully by Rich’s side, a constant presence of love and strength, at the time of his passing.

Rich was the loving husband of 57 years to Patricia “Pat” Falato; devoted father of Joshua Falato of Hoboken, Bree Falato and her husband Terry Kelly of Hoboken; cherished grandfather of Samantha Falato, Dean Falato, and Vincent Falato all of Wayne; Shane Kelly, Damon Kelly, and Sophie Kelly all of Hoboken; he was the loved brother of John Falato, James Falato, and Evelyn Wedel all of Tucson, AZ.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital or Avow Hospice would be greatly appreciated. You can click on the blue text to redirect you to their donation pages.

Richard William Falato

June 18, 2025

Marco Island

Michael Dennis Oscar, age 72 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 16, 2025.

Born as the youngest of four children to John and Stella Oscar, Mike was raised in Norwalk and Stamford, Connecticut. From a young age, he enjoyed photography and the outdoors, interests that would remain with him throughout his life. After high school, Michael continued his education at Newark College of Engineering (now known as NJIT), where he studied engineering. During his studies, he met a beautiful young woman named Joyce McPartland, who was studying at nearby Rutgers University.

Michael fell head over heels for Joyce, expressing his love and admiration with flowers that he would place on her car or on her lab seat at university. The two fell deeply in love, and shortly after graduating, they exchanged vows on May 2, 1976. After a honeymoon in Hawaii, the newlyweds moved into an apartment in Elizabeth before purchasing their home together in Packanack Lake, Wayne, where they’ve lived ever since. Their family grew with the birth of their son Craig in 1981 and their daughter Karen in 1983.

Michael and Joyce shared a passion for show dogs for many years, raising beautiful Shelties and Min Pins. They competed with their beloved animals across the United States, traveling extensively as a family. Their adventures took them to nearly every state, visiting unique destinations such as Busch Gardens, Disney World, New Orleans, the Grand Canyon, and countless other locations during their road trips.

One particularly memorable journey to the Delaware River included a canoeing adventure that became a family legend. When their group took a wrong turn through the rapids, Mike and Joyce's canoe flipped, sending everything to the bottom of the river. Though Mike could not swim, Joyce managed to dive down and pull him to safety under their overturned canoe. After flipping the canoe with help from their group, they discovered that a single rock had somehow remained in the canoe throughout the entire ordeal. That rock became a centerpiece on their fireplace mantle, serving as a reminder of the trial they overcame together.

Mike was a determined man with tremendous grit and a true family man who could help fix anything. He loved to cook and experiment with new recipes for his family's enjoyment. His passion for camping complemented their frequent road trips, creating countless memories with Joyce as they explored the country together.

Michael will be remembered for his loving devotion to his family, his adventurous spirit, and his generous heart that touched all who knew him.

Michael is survived by his wife Joyce Oscar; his brother Richard Oscar; his two children: Craig Oscar and Karen Garrett; and his three grandchildren: Wyatt Oscar and Skyla and James Garrett.

Michael is Predeceased by his parents: John and Stella Oscar and his brother Ken and sister Marcia.

Michael Dennis Oscar

June 16, 2025

Wounded Warrior Project

John J. Sidor passed away unexpectedly on Monday, June 16, 2025, just one day shy of his ninety-first birthday. He was a longtime resident of Wayne.

Born in Jersey City, John was the oldest of John J. and Annie (Turker) Sidor’s three children. He was raised in Hoboken and after graduating from Demarest High School, he attended Seton Hall University.

As a young man, John managed an IGA grocery store in Lyndhurst. He later drove a truck for Sexton Food Service. As a driver, he would frequently take his little daughter Pamela with him in the truck. John also took Pam on rides on his motorcycle. She was just 3 years old and they’d ride for hours.

In 1953, John joined the United States Army, where he served with great pride and distinction from 1953 to 1957. Upon his honorable discharge, he continued to serve in the Army Reserve until 1990, meaning John’s service to his country spanned a total of 37 years! He retired as a Sergeant Major at the age of 56. His service as a reservist consisted of one weekend a month as well as two weeks in a row, three times a year. He primarily served as a drill sergeant and his work in the Army took him all over the country, with most of his time spent at Fort Dix in Lakehurst, NJ. There was probably no bigger part of John’s life than serving in the Army. You could say his blood flowed Army green. He even preferred going all the way to Tobyhanna, PA to shop at the Picatinny Commissary instead of his local grocery store. He’d boast about the great deals he could get there and quite frankly, he just loved the militaristic atmosphere. John was truly proud of his Army service and he beamed with pride when people saw his Sergeant Major stripes and saluted him.

After his full-time Army service ended, John took a job as a district manager with Burger King. A single father of his precious daughter Pamela, it was while working at Burger King that John met the true love of his life. Her name was Arlene Moran, and she was a cashier at the Hackensack location and a single mother of two young boys — Richard and James. At the time they met, John was 34 and Arlene was just 24. You could say that their relationship got off to a cold start. You see, they happened to meet on a day when that Burger King got robbed. The perpetrators locked all the employees in the freezer. Talk about a captive audience! They hugged each other to keep warm and that close encounter led to a flame-broiled relationship, a marriage proposal at a restaurant in Englewood, and a marriage ceremony before God, family, and friends on Saturday, January 19, 1974.

Married life for John and Arlene began in River Edge, where they stayed until moving to their present home in Wayne 45 years ago.

John’s favorite pastimes included cooking on his grill and camping at Otter Lake in the Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania. Camping started in a tent, progressed to a pop-up trailer, and ultimately to a twenty-seven-foot trailer. In the early days, that trailer was located on a lakeside campsite. It later became a permanent trailer on campsite “X-3.” Camping at Otter Lake was a longtime family tradition and, to this day, John’s kids have fond memories of campfires, roasted marshmallows, and even watching their father build cages around the hummingbird feeders to keep the bears from drinking all the sweet nectar.

John was also a very gifted painter. All you had to do was ask him to paint whatever you wanted, then leave him alone and watch the magic. Murals, nature scenes — you name it, John was a modern-day Picasso. At his campsite, he painted rocks to look like real turtles. Once he did that, his campsite became known as “Turtle Site” by all the other campers.

John was a man who treasured the love and presence of his family. For Halloween, he painted the most amazing pumpkins for all his grandchildren and, at Christmas, he was the go-to guy to put together all of their Christmas presents. Around his family, you’d never know he was the tough Army drill sergeant. They would describe him more as “funny” and “relaxed” and the guy who had fun going pumpkin picking and dancing in his living room. He was the “Poppy” who loved Charles Shulz’s Peanuts characters — especially Snoopy, and especially when Snoopy was imagining himself as the Red Baron. In fact, John had over fifty Snoopy Christmas Ornaments and, when it came to dancing, there was no more enjoyable sight than to watch him perform the Schroeder dance. John also loved his cat, whom he rewarded with the name “Killer” because Killer caught a mouse in his apartment.

After retiring from his position with Burger King, John took a job with the Wayne Township Board of Education as a bus driver. With his wife Arlene by his side as his school bus aid, John drove Bus 77 for the next twenty-one years, not retiring until he was 84 years old. The first 5 years he drove the big buses and after that he transitioned to the shorter buses for the special ed kids. He transported literally hundreds of kids during his final career and they all loved him! They even would invite him and Arlene to their summer barbecues. Of course, he went! After all, he loved those kids as much as they loved him.

Later in life, John put his faith in God. It meant a lot to him and, while he is no longer here, because of his faith, they know where John is. They bask in that comfort and they’ll always cherish the memories and the beautiful gift that he was until, sharing in his faith, they will see him again one day.

John was the beloved husband of Arlene (Moran) Sidor, blessed in marriage for 51 beautiful years. He was the loving father of Pamela and her husband Robert Reilly of Lake Ariel, PA, Richard Albolino of Wayne, and James and his wife Kerry Albolino of Stony Point, NY; adored “Poppy” of Jimmny Rivera, Jason Reilly, Melisa Reilly, Eaker Smith, Brittney Albolino, Kyle Albolino, Tyler Albolino, and Catrina Albolino; proud great-grandfather of Max Reilly, Alyssa Rivera, Ayden Finley, Alivia Finley, Savanna Rayner, and Aaron Albolino; and dear brother of Philip and his wife Sheila Sidor of Florida. John was predeceased by his parents — John J. Sidor and Annie (Turker) Sidor — and his sister Evelyn Jadevia.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in John’s memory to:

P.O. Box 758516

Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516

To download a mailable form CLICK HERE.

Donations can also be made by calling 855-448-3997.

Please be sure to indicate that your gift is in memory of John J. Sidor.

John J. Sidor

June 16, 2025

Ida J. Van Dalen, age 89, of Wayne for 62 years, passed Monday, June 16, 2025.

She was born in Passaic to Chris and Anna Van Der Stad. Ida has lived in Passaic, Newfoundland, Totowa, Prospect Park, and Wayne. In 1964 they moved to Wayne in a house that her husband Jake built with the help of family and friends. Prior to her marriage Ida worked for the Travelers Insurance Company, Paterson in their claims department.

Ida’s future husband Jake was serving in the U.S. Army and when he was able to come home on temporary leave from the military, his sister Elizabeth invited her good friend Ida Van Der Stad to go for a ride with her and Jake. They drove into New York City and one of Ida’s distinct memories was that Jake, who was driving, ran through every red traffic light that they encountered. In today’s day and age, such driving behavior might land you in jail but this was the 1950’s when there weren’t nearly the number of cars on the road that we see today. That night was the beginning of a loving and devoted relationship that ultimately led to Jake and Ida’s marriage with a ceremony taking place on Friday, June 1, 1956 at the Netherland Reformed Church in Passaic. After the wedding ceremony and reception, Jake and Ida set off on their honeymoon to Niagara Falls on the Canadian Side where they visited the famous Lover’s Lane and Holland, Michigan. Thus was the start of many trips they would take together and with their family exploring the United States and Canada as well as Europe, Australia, and New Zealand.

Ida was a warm, social woman whose zest for life was matched only by her deep love for family and community. She was a lifelong traveler and camper. She gradually upgraded from an umbrella tent, to a tent trailer, to various other trailers, and then finally a 30-foot travel trailer, embracing adventure at every stage. She cherished the many family trips (more than 20 trips) to P.E.I.(Prince Edward Island), Canada, where memories were made along the red roads & cliffs. They visited many lighthouses, especially their favorite Panmure Island, which they loved viewing from their camp site. They enjoyed driving around the island and exploring many of their favorite spots along the shores. There were also several trips to the western part of the United States and Canada to see the beauty of God’s creation. They went for the first time in 1959 as a couple and then in 1976, 1978, 1981 (for their 25th anniversary) with their children and finally in 1989 with their new son-in-law. In addition, each year for twenty-one years, in August, they held a family reunion at a campground in Lancaster, PA amongst the corn fields. A true conversationalist, Ida thrived in the company of others—always engaging with loved ones, neighbors, and friends with a genuine interest and warmth. She found joy in the simple, grounding pleasures of life: sewing which later developed into a love of quilting. She also enjoyed reading, thus when the Netherlands Reformed Christian School library was looking for volunteers she thought this would be a way to help students to explore the world through reading. She was a dedicated volunteer here for thirty-five years and eventually became the head librarian. She reluctantly retired in 2020 because of COVID. Ida also had a love of flowers, especially gladiolus, which her husband would plant for her each year, but in return she had to clean and cook the abundant harvest. Both her and her husband enjoyed watching wildlife—especially birds who came to their feeders, and deer if they were not eating in their garden. Another way she served her family and friends was baking delicious desserts and cookies. She would complain that she was tired, but then she could be found baking cookies in the kitchen. Whether nurturing plants, stitching quilts, or sharing stories around the kitchen table, Ida lived each day with warmth, purpose, and grace. Ida was a long standing member of the Netherlands Reformed Church in Clifton.

Ida was the loving wife of sixty-four years to Jacob G. Van Dalen (d. 2021); loving mother of Ruth Ann and her husband John Bosch of Wayne, their children: Rebecca, Chris-John and his wife Jana; three sons: Jacob Jr. and his wife Laura Van Dalen of Wallkill, NY, their children: Kaitlyn, Jacob III, Kristina; Jan and his wife Lori Van Dalen of Easton, MD, his children: Michael and his wife Lacey and their children (Joseph, Caroline, and Samuel), Daniel, Rachel, and Jonathan and his wife Shirley Van Dalen of Grand Rapids, MI, their children: Nathaniel, Colleen, Melanie, and Meghan; and numerous nieces and nephews. She was the beloved sister of Len Van Der Stad and his wife Alyce of Wayne, Dave Van Der Stad and his wife Lois of Wayne, and the late Cornelius “Neil” Van Der Stad and his surviving wife Grace of North Haledon.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School Library, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

Ida Van Dalen

June 16, 2025

Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church

George R. Van Vliet, age 88, of Little Falls, NJ passed away peacefully Friday, June 13, 2025, while receiving the loving care and support of the DMAVA Staff, the Valley Hospice Staff and his family.

George was born to Henry and Katherine (Fink) Van Vliet and graduated from Roosevelt High School in Hyde Park, NY having been in the band playing tuba and bass, as well as focusing on Industrial Arts with the Class of 1954. After graduating, he pursued his interest in airplanes, taking flying lessons in Klaverack, NY and obtained his pilots license in the Fall of 1957. He and a few friends were able to come together to own a Piper TriPacer. During this time, he worked on his family’s dairy farm and a local Agway store.

George served in the Army at Ft. Monmouth where he was the Link Trainer, performing training for instrument flight, and part of Flight Operations. He was a noted Marksman and Sharpshooter. He was also able to see a bit of Europe during his time in the Army. He was honorably discharged in 1961. George worked for several Savings and Loan Associations over the years and retired in 1979. He was a Brother Mason and a member of the Little Falls Lodge No.154 F. & A.M. for 58 years, a Noble of Salaam Shriners for 52 years and a member of the Valley of Northern NJ Scottish Rite.

Before leaving the Army, on a weekend leave, his buddy John took him to his hometown and there George met his future wife, Nancy. They were married a year later, almost to the day! They celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary last fall. They were blessed with a son Michael and his wife Nancy, a daughter Lori, a granddaughter Rebecca, his loving caregiver Connie, his Gal Friday Daria, Nurses Cynthia and Ronnie, as well as many caregivers over the years. He is also survived by his sister Margaret and her husband I.W., his Koumas Olga and Doris, many nieces, nephews, cousins, friends and a very dear and supportive Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church Family. He is predeceased by his parents, Henry and Katherine, his sisters Gretchen and Louise and his mother-in-law Mary.

George was a faith-filled family man. Despite having Multiple Sclerosis since his mid-twenties, he approached life with a remarkable sense of striving to do as much as he could, for as long as he could. Several cross-country trips were made with a pop-up camper in tow! He and his wife Nancy enjoyed many years spending winters in Florida with family, friends and while there, attended St. Andrew the First Called Orthodox Church. He accepted the constraints of his limitations, but never complained. Always having a positive outlook and a smile. He will be deeply missed, but always in our hearts.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to one of the organizations below would be greatly appreciated:

285 French Hill Road

Wayne, NJ 07470

The Valley Hospital Foundation

Please indicate the donation is going to: Hospice Care

4 Valley Health Plaza

Paramus, NJ 07652

National MS Society

P.O. Box 91891

Washington, D.C. 20090-1891

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George R. Van Vliet

June 13, 2025

Little Falls

Frederick Wallert, Jr., age 90 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 10, 2025.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Fred was the youngest of three children raised by Frederick Sr. and Katherine Wallert. Fred was a lifelong learner and from a young age he was fascinated by technology. At just 12 years old in the year 1947, Fred built a television – a remarkable feat of engineering for someone so young.

After graduating high school, Fred enlisted in the Navy where his aptitude for learning was quickly recognized. The Navy offered him the opportunity to study and learn more about the electronics that fascinated him. In the 4 years he served, he spent 3 of those years studying and applying his knowledge to the Navy. The education proved worthwhile as he was able to contribute his growing expertise to Naval Mine Warfare and to the Talos telemetry systems (missile guidance). The Navy made several requests to Fred to try and keep him in their service including offering admittance to OCS and Naval Air Cadet (now TOPGUN) but, after four years in the Navy Fred decided to return to civilian life where he discovered a new opportunity on Wall Street.

In 1961, Fred started his Wall Street career with Loeb Rhoades and Co. handling phases of Venture Capital Investment for the Loeb family and associates. That included tracking all aspects of financial performance, reporting, and real estate, motion picture, music, theatrical plays, and other various industries. In the 1970’s Fred served on the Board of Directors of Lol Oil Corporation, MGT Corporation, Rescent Corp, and Aerospace Mortgage Corp. Over time, he became Vice President of Loeb Partners Corporation – the successor to Loeb Rhoades and Co.

In 1980 Fred joined the Loeb family by personally participating as a general partner in various Loeb Investor Co. deals. His work in Venture Capital saw him participate in over 80 ventures including many innovative new ideas like the MRI machine, 1st Response Pregnancy Tests, and Monoclonal Antibodies to name a few. He was well known in the industry for his exceptional ability to recognize the innovations that would prove to be a success at a rate far exceeding the industry average. Fred continued in this role until 1999 when he was recruited by Wave Entertainment Inc. as Senior Vice President of Corporate Development.

Fred will be remembered as a self-made man. His expertise across such a broad range of subjects made him a remarkable individual that could truly talk about anything from a knowledgeable perspective. His skills made him invaluable to the Venture Capital world. Even in his 90’s Fred was approached for advice on prospective ventures! Apart from his professional career, Fred will be remembered as the loving husband of his wife of 63 years – Gail Wallert as well as a loving and generous father and grandfather.

Fred is survived by his wife Gail Wallert; his two children: Cathy Spence (spouse Vic Spence) and Rick Wallert (spouse Nancy Wallert); and his grandchildren: Laura Spence, Kelly Wallert and Rick Wallert. Fred is predeceased by his parents and his older brothers, Charles and George Wallert.

Frederick Wallert Jr.

June 10, 2025

Celeste (Opsomer) Gardiner, age 108, of Wayne, passed away peacefully Monday, June 9, 2025 surrounded by those who loved her.

Celeste was born in Sweveghem, Belgium to Hector Josef and Zulma Selvie Opsomer on April 21, 1917, just a year and a half before the end of WWI, a war in which her father fought and received a Medal of Honor for his service. On November 15, 1927, at age 9, Celeste arrived in the USA via the SS Lapland Steamliner and entered America through Ellis Island with her parents and older sister, Estella. The Opsomer family, through their sponsor, Charles Castelein, made their home in the Bunker Hill section of Paterson. Celeste was a life-long resident of Passaic County. A full-time homemaker, later in life Celeste made a life-changing decision to attend Capri Institute of Cosmetology in Clifton from which she graduated and worked as a beautician and manicurist until her retirement. Years later her granddaughter, Christine, followed in her footsteps and graduated from the same school for cosmetology.

Due to the crash of the stock market in 1929, and only two years in America, Celeste and Estella were compelled to seek work to help provide for the family. Their father worked for Crucible Steel and was a barber for extra income. Her mother remained a homemaker. At age 11, Celeste worked for a shirt factory in Paterson as a ‘clipper’, cutting and securing the threads between the garments coming off the line.

As a teenager she met her future husband on a blind date arranged through friends. There are many stories of late nights, big band music and dance halls, and long walks to and from as cars were too costly at the time. She was soon impressed when Frank bought a new Ford with a rumble seat. They were married in Our Lady of Lourdes Church on November 7, 1937, making their home in Paterson. They honeymooned in Niagara Falls and once made a joke that they actually went back years later to see the Falls. Their marriage lasted 73 years before Frank’s passing on June 9, 2010, exactly 15 years prior to the day of Celeste’s passing.

Celeste as a youth was a member of Our Lady of Lourdes School and Parish in Paterson. Later in life she and Frank and their family found their home in South Paterson and were long-time members of St. George’s R.C. Church. The Gardiner family moved to Wayne in 1964 and is currently a member of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

Celeste so loved her home in Wayne where she resided for 60 years and enjoyed their summer home in Marshall’s Creek. Her passion was gardening, indoors and out, and was known to have an incredible “green thumb”; something she inherited from her father and passed on to at least one of her children. She also loved her Bingo but would only play for money and enjoyed raising her arm and yelling “woo-hoo” when she won, often followed by a little friendly but competitive game of 7-card Poker. She also enjoyed an occasional quiet moment peering out her window to the beautiful waterfall and lily pond below listening to her favorite music, Elvis Presley and Jackie Evancho.

Celeste was a passionate, dedicated, hard-working, devoted and loving mother to their three daughters – Barbara, Beverly and Brenda. She never sat still. She was always working in the house and in the yard making sure everything was neat, orderly, always taking pride in everything she did.

Celeste was an avid knitter and while Frank watched TV, they sat in their matching recliners as she toiled away making baby blankets, always trying to keep one or two ahead of her growing family. Each of their 16 great-grandchild and one great-great-grandchild, has a well-loved, some well-worn remnants of a blanket made with Celeste’s love and affection for her entire family. Celeste was also an excellent cook. Everything from scratch, Frank’s favorites were her creamy mashed potatoes and home-made gravy and her crusty-on-the-outside pink-in-the-middle eye of round roasts. Everyone raved about and tried to duplicate her recipes for potato salad and deviled eggs. Celeste hosted her first Thanksgiving dinner for the entire family just 18 days after she and Frank wed. She prepared every Thanksgiving dinner for the next 50 plus years until one turkey wasn’t enough, 10 pounds of potatoes didn’t make it around the table and Frank couldn’t extend the dining table any further for the growing family. The family tradition was moved to the Lafayette House until after Frank’s passing and the family dinner was passed on to another family member.

Celeste and Frank were long-time active members of the Wanaque Senior Citizens Club. They made many friends and traveled often with the group. Once Frank retired, they spent much time traveling across the USA mainland and took memorable trips to Hawaii and Versailles, France.

Strong-willed, independent and a fighter to the end. Celeste loved her home and her family and friends. Born during WWI and the pandemic of 1917, she lived through the Depression, WWII, all the wars that followed, and the pandemic of 2020. Life was good, but times were tough. Frank worked for Crucible Steel and later Curtis-Wright during and following WWII. Once the war efforts ended and to preempt a lay-off, Frank became a licensed general agent for John Hancock Mutual Life Insurance Company and later All-American Life Insurance Companies until his retirement. Even though Frank had a supervisory position at Curtis-Wright during the war, living on rations for meat, sugar and flour was difficult. Celeste was a master in making things work with whatever she had at the time.

Celeste was a very empathetic person yet was known for the school of hard knocks approach to life. Celeste always said, you have to have a good sense of humor to get through life or you won’t make it, and she always took her own advice. Regardless of the circumstances, Celeste was always happy, could tell a good joke, and made the people around her feel comfortable and welcomed. Celeste was always smiling, loved to be with people, enjoyed keeping up with and discussing current events. She was willing but not pushy in giving advice and her opinion on a situation, like it or not, sometimes it was just what you needed to hear.

In November of 2018, Celeste was thrilled to meet Judge Jeanine Pirro at a Guardian of The Family Banquet dinner and book signing and wowed the Judge when she raced with her walker up to the front of the line and told her she was a mere 101 years old. The Judge reached across the table to hug her.

Celeste was predeceased by her parents, Hector and Zulma Opsomer; her sister, Estella Winschuh and brother-in-law William Winschuh, beloved wife of 73 years to the late Frank W. Gardiner, and her son-in-law Thomas Colella.

Celeste is survived by her three daughters Barbara (Anthony) Toscano of Wayne, Beverly (widow to Thomas) Colella of Wayne and Brenda Aldi of Hardyston (fiancé John Hauck) of Frelinghuysen.

Loving grandmother to her nine grandchildren Michael (Caryn) of Wayne, Matthew (Colette) of Annandale VA, Jeffrey (Judy) of Bay Minette AL, Michele (Phil) of Lincoln Park, Tom (Christine) of Wayne, Dawn Marie (Pat) of Pompton Lakes, Jessica (Chris) of Sparta, Christine (Bill) of Oak Ridge, Marissa (Sterling) of Sandy UT.

Loving great-grandmother to her 16 great-grandchildren Mikey (Sarah), Vincent, Jayden, Jocelyn, Ashley, Brooke, Reid, Ryan, Pasquale, Amanda, Daniella, Dominic, Lily, Bryce, Bane and Sage.

Loving great-great grandmother to her one great-great grandson, Michael “MJ” Joseph.

The family would like to thank Merry Heart Assted Living for their outstanding care, kindness, compassion and dedicated staff. A special thank you to her private care givers, Oscar and Felix but especially to Elizabeth “Lizzy” who cared for Celeste 16 hours a day, 7 days a week, for the last 8 weeks. We are eternally grateful.

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In lieu of flowers, the family request donations be made in Celeste’s memory to the Charity of your choice. If you do not have a charity in mind, please consider donating in Celeste’s Memory to any of Merry Heart’s facilities living, rehabilitation, nursing care and memory units (Checks are to be made out to Merry Heart and mailed to 200 Route 10 West, Succasunna, NJ 07876).

Celeste Gardiner

June 9, 2025

Joseph Gilmore, age 84, and a longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 5, 2025.

Joe was the firstborn of Joseph and Mary Gilmore’s two children. He grew up in the family home at 135 Jasper Street, in Paterson, and graduated from Paterson Central High School with the Class of 1958.

After high school, one of Joe’s first jobs was an offset printer and foreman for Program Printing and Advertising Company, in Fairfield. It was 1967, and at that print shop, Joe’s life would change forever. There, he met a young woman named Betty Vanden Bosch. Joe affectionately nicknamed her “Smocks” because she always wore a smock to protect her clothes from ink. He was smitten from the start, and after just a few months of dating, he proposed to her at the top of Hunter Mountain, New York, in May of 1967. They were married on January 20, 1968, and honeymooned in Mount Snow, Vermont—although the sub-zero temperatures quickly taught them to choose warmer destinations for future getaways. In the decades that followed, Joe and Betty shared a loving and joyful marriage filled with travel, partnership, and deep devotion. Joe often said the best response to any of Betty’s requests—especially for a Diet Coke—was a heartfelt, “Yes, dear.”

Joe and Betty initially made their home in Wayne, later moving to Cliffwood Lake for five years. In 1976, they returned to Wayne, where they remained for the rest of their lives.

Together, Joe and Betty owned and operated Associated Diamond Products in Paterson from 1985 until 2009, taking over the business from Betty’s parents upon their retirement. After selling the company in 2009, Joe worked behind the deli counter at the former A&P in Pompton

Plains. When the store closed due to flooding, he joined Jack’s Foodtown in Wayne, serving customers with his usual friendly demeanor until he retired at the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Joe’s greatest joy came from serving as a volunteer firefighter. He began his service in 1970 with the Hardyston Volunteer Fire Department. After moving back to Wayne, he joined Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Department, Wayne Fire Company #3, on August 2, 1978. In 1981, he stepped into the role of assistant treasurer following the unexpected passing of the department’s treasurer—and he continued in that role for an incredible 36 years, retiring from the position in 2017. He also served as a trustee for many years. Among the many calls he answered, two fires stood out most vividly in his memory: a house fire on Alps Road and a fire in the Red Barn Furniture on Black Oak Ridge Road. Joe had a Philadelphia Flyers shirt that became well-known as the “bad luck” shirt as there seemed to be a working house fire every time he wore it. They took the shirt away from him. This calmed their concerns and made them happy because none of them were fans of the Flyers! When asked why he loved being a firefighter, Joe simply said, “It just felt so good giving back to the community that I called home.”

Joe was an avid racing fan with a lifelong love of cars. He followed NASCAR and IndyCar Series racing, cheering for drivers like AJ Foyt and most recently Kyle Larson. One of the highlights of his life was each time he attended the Indianapolis 500 with his father-in-law. He enjoyed watching the Barrett-Jackson collector car auctions on television and took considerable pride in his own cars, especially the 2002 convertible Chevy Corvette he and Betty loved to cruise around in. He was meticulous in caring for his cars and was often found outside cleaning them to a shine.

He also cherished music and was the proud owner of an extensive LP collection. It was common to find Joe listening to his records with headphones on, lost in his favorite tunes. He and Betty shared a deep love for animals and welcomed many beloved pets into their home throughout their 50 years together. Their dogs—Lovey, Rebel, Dee Dee, Max, Cutter, Tawney, Ember, and Dusty—were cherished companions, as were their cats Morris and Peanut, and even a bunny, Bunsker E. Bunny, who was rescued from a fire at the former Wayne Hills Mall. One especially memorable rescue was Sparky; a dog Joe saved from a fire and gave it to his parents.

Travel was another passion for Joe and Betty. They went on 33 cruises together, visiting destinations around the globe—from the Caribbean to Alaska, Vietnam, the Philippines, Bora Bora, Tahiti, and beyond. The world was their playground, and they made the most of every adventure.

Joe was a joy to be around. Always easygoing, he had a constant smile and never a harsh word for anyone. He let the little things roll off his back and never took life too seriously. He was a devoted husband, a loving father, a proud “Papa” to his grandchildren, and a true friend to many.

Joe was predeceased by his beloved wife, Betty, in May 2018. He is survived by his two children: Michael Gilmore of Winter Springs, FL, and Kimberley Rossi and her husband Michael of Wayne; and by his six grandchildren: Alexis, Amanda, and Anthony Rossi, of Wayne, and Benjamin, Katelyn, and Liam Gilmore, of Sussex.

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For those wishing to make a donation in Joe’s memory, please consider the Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Company #3, 130 Jackson Ave., Wayne, NJ 07470, or click here to donate online.

Joseph Gilmore

June 5, 2025

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Arlene Cooper, age 76, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully from this life into the everlasting arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Thursday, June 5, 2025, while receiving the loving care of her family.

The daughter of Frederick and Elizabeth (Beversluis) Rogers, Arlene was born in Paterson and spent her early years there and in nearby Prospect Park.

Arlene met and married John Cooper on August 28, 1983. She adopted her first two children before marriage – Matthew, Elizabeth, and after marrying John, adopted Brian and lived for several years in Sussex County. Later the family moved to Pompton Plains where Arlene and John adopted their last two other children, Sean and Abigail. The family had called Pompton Plains their cherished home ever since.

A woman of deep Christian faith, Arlene walked closely with God—her Maker, Provider, and Sustainer—throughout her life. She and her family were faithful attenders of the Trinity Baptist Church in Montville where she delighted in attending the church’s Helping Hands ministry – a program dedicated to helping those with disabilities.

Arlene’s life was one clearly marked by service to others. She always put her children’s best interests before herself, even in situations where it might take a toll on her own health. She loved them immensely and was always on her best game when it came to celebrating their milestones, like birthdays, graduations, and personal achievements. As if raising five children wasn’t enough to keep anyone’s time fully occupied, Arlene also was also a volunteer with the Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) organization by passionately supporting their mission to advocate for the best interests of youth in foster care. In addition, because of her son Matthew’s battle with Cystic Fibrosis, which ultimately took his life on earth in 2010, Arlene was a faithful volunteer to raise financial support and awareness for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Her tireless devotion in all she did was a reflection of her love for God and her faithful obedience to Jesus’ command to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, and mind—and to love your neighbor as yourself.

On a lighter note, Arlene found horses to be such a delight. Deacon, Trooper, and Moe were her equestrian friends that she had the privilege of caring for and riding and, just last year, she even had the thrill of jumping into the saddle for a ride on a giant Clydesdale! Her love for animals extended to a wide variety of pets throughout her life, including a goat, rabbits, birds, guinea pigs, gerbils, a frog, a tortoise, a turtle named J.J. (rescued by her husband John shortly before his passing), and her loyal dog Jake, whom she affectionately called her protector. She truly was a real-life Dr. Dolittle!

Arlene’s favorite Bible verse was Psalm 4:8

I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety.

The Lord gave deep comfort to her in this verse, especially in times of restlessness.

Arlene was a cherished wife, a devoted mother, a dear sister and aunt, and a trusted and treasured friend. Her absence will be deeply felt, but her memory and the legacy of her love and faith will live on in the memories and hearts of those whose lives she so deeply richly blest. Her family rejoices in knowing that she is with the Lord and by God’s saving grace will see her again.

Arlene was predeceased in August, 2023, by her beloved husband John to whom she cherished 40 years of marriage, and by her precious son Matthew in 2010. She is survived by her other four dearly loved children: Elizabeth Cooper, Brian Cooper, and Sean Cooper, all of Pompton Plains, and Abigail Cooper of Little Falls. She is also survived by her dear brothers John and wife Cindy Rogers of Sebastian, FL, and Donald and wife Helen Rogers of Pompton Plains, as well as numerous loved nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Arlene’s name are asked to consider the following charitable organization:

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Click here to download a mailable form

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Arlene Cooper.

Arlene Cooper

June 5, 2025

Thomas Joseph Burns, widely known as T.J. Burns, passed away on Wednesday, June 4, 2025. He was 35 years old.

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T.J. was born to Thomas and Pamela Burns on October 3, 1989. He graduated from Wayne Valley High School and played on the varsity soccer team. He went on to graduate from William Paterson University with a degree in exercise science.

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From his early childhood through his high school and early college years, T.J. was the guy that everybody wanted to be around. He was funny, sharp, and loyal- and knew how to work hard for the things he cared about.

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T.J. loved his family. To his mother, he was her one and only "baby son." His father never missed a single soccer game. His older sister, Lindsey, could often be found in his room on school nights, helping him complete a school assignment or write a paper. His younger sister, Dana, looked up to him as her soccer hero. Both sisters and his parents loved T.J. very much.

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T.J. also had a group of cherished family cousins he spent countless memorable times with growing up. The time the cousins spent together as kids made up so many of those golden childhood moments- the kind a person remembers even later in life and can't help but smile.

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And all throughout his school years, T.J. had the same close circle of friends. The group remained almost unchanged all the way through high school. Whether it was weekdays at Wayne Valley, weekends on the soccer field, or weeknights in an endless rotation of visiting one another's houses, it truly seemed that they were always together. They were teammates, friends and brothers.

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T.J. was surrounded by family and friends like these all the best years of his life. His story simply cannot be told without them.

Thomas Joseph Burns

June 4, 2025

Gloria R. Diaz, age 78 of Wayne and Paterson, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 3, 2025.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY to Salvador and Alpha Reyes, Gloria was one of ten children! She was friendly, sociable and trustworthy from a young age.

Love found Gloria in an unexpected way when friends convinced her to attend a wedding as a blind date with a gentleman named Robert Diaz. Though initially hesitant, Gloria decided to go on the condition that if she didn’t like Robert she was going to go to the bathroom and sneak out the back! Fate had other plans, however, as she and Robert had a great time enjoying each other’s company as if they’d already known each other for years! The couple dated for three more years and on July 20^th, 1984, they were married.

The newlyweds began their married life in Brookly, NY before seeking the tranquility of suburban life, moving to Wayne in 1989. They cherished their Wayne home for over two decades until 2015, when they downsized to Paterson, NJ. There, they discovered a great and close-knit community where they formed many lifelong friends.

Gloria’s passion for gardening was well known in her neighborhood and she was affectionately known as the rose lady on Alps Road. Her green thumb and love for flowers naturally led to her dream to own and operate her own flower shop in Hoboken. She achieved that dream and opened her storefront called Sister’s Flowers on 1^st.

Gloria was strong-willed and yet open-minded. She loved her lapdog named Boobie and her travels all over the world. She and Robert travelled for a period of several consecutive months exploring Hawaii, Portugal, Spain and Florida.

Gloria R. Diaz

June 3, 2025

Paterson

Obituaries for Donald and Grace

Donald Nicholas Malone, of Wayne NJ passed away on June 2, 2025 at the age of 83, just one day before the passing of his beloved wife of 59 years, Grace (nee Mandragona) Malone of Wayne.

Born May 4, 1942 in Passaic, NJ to the late Trina (nee Leeuwrik) and Jerry Malone, Don was brought up in Passaic and Clifton, NJ before settling in Wayne, NJ in 1966 upon marrying Grace. He attended Stevens Institute of Technology where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering. As an undergraduate in his junior year, he was able to simultaneously enroll in and attend Stevens’ graduate school on his way towards earning a Master’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Don was an engineer at Exxon Research and Engineering Co. in Florham Park, NJ, for 36 years before retiring in 2000. During his career he was involved with the planning, design, construction, and startup of new and expanded oil refineries. As a result, he and his family lived in numerous locations throughout the world including Thailand, Venezuela, France, Canada, England, Singapore, and California for periods of up to two years. He did extensive consulting and contributed to safety and environmental improvements and the reduction of energy use in refineries. Don also wrote and taught design methods courses for Exxon.

Don was an auto enthusiast from a young age and did most of his own maintenance and repairs. He was an avid “Do it Yourselfer”, who painted his house, designed and built a rear deck for his house, and did much of his own plumbing and electrical work. He and Grace thoroughly enjoyed their annual summer vacations to St. Augustine, Florida over a span of decades.

Above all, he cherished his family and prioritized spending time with them and sharing his life values and philosophy.

Surviving Don are his loving daughter Deborah G. Kayal and her husband George of Mahwah, NJ; dear son Gregory N. Malone and his wife Ann of South Windsor; CT; cherished grandchildren Jordan, James, Michael, and Joseph Kayal, and Elizabeth, Rachel, and Kyle Malone and sister-in-law, Rosanne Mandragona of Red Bank, NJ. Don was predeceased by his brother, Kenneth R. Malone of Clifton in 2006 and his dear grandson Marcus Kayal in 2019.

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Grace (nee Mandragona) Malone, of Wayne NJ passed away on June 3, 2025 at the age of 82, just one day after the passing of her beloved husband of 59 years, Donald N. Malone of Wayne.

Born August 7, 1942 in New York City to the late Lillian (nee Mancuso) and James Mandragona, Grace was a graduate of Christopher Columbus High School in the Bronx. She attended Hunter College evenings while working full-time as a secretary in the Instrumentation Division (where she met Don in 1963) and, subsequently, the Legal Department of the United States Atomic Energy Commission in New York City. She moved to Wayne NJ in May 1966 upon getting married.

Grace traveled extensively throughout the world with her family in connection with Don’s career. The family lived in Thailand, Venezuela, France, Canada, California, England, and Singapore for periods of up to two years. She was an active member of the Newcomers of Wayne / Prime Timers since 1984 and the Golden Age Circle of Wayne since 2008 where she ran multiple outings each year to Camp Hope in West Milford. Grace was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. A loving wife and devoted mother and grandmother, Grace was very family- oriented. She spent countless hours on family genealogy and wrote a 376-page biography of her closest relatives, presenting a copy to each of her children and grandchildren. Over a period of fourteen years, she also babysat each of her daughter’s five boys before they began regular school.

Surviving Grace are her loving daughter Deborah G. Kayal and her husband George of Mahwah, NJ; dear son Gregory N. Malone and his wife Ann of South Windsor, CT; cherished grandchildren Jordan, James, Michael, and Joseph Kayal, and Elizabeth, Rachel, and Kyle Malone; and sister-in-law, Rosanne Mandragona of Red Bank, NJ. Grace was predeceased by her brother, James S. Mandragona, in 2010 and her dear grandson, Marcus Kayal in 2019.

Donald and Grace Malone

June 3, 2025

Rosanne M. Bowles, 89, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne, NJ on June 2, 2025. A funeral mass will be held at Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church at 10:30am on Saturday, June 7, 2025.

Rosanne was born on July 6, 1935 in Kearny, NJ. She was raised in Clifton, NJ, graduating from Pope Pius XII high school in Passaic in 1953 and William Patterson University in 1957. She had a teaching fellowship at the University of Denver in 1960 and earned an MBA there in 1961.

She taught business courses at Clifton High School and West Essex Regional High School from 1961 through 1998. She was recognized as Teacher of the Year in 1991/2. She was a member of several education associations.

Rosanne was an avid skier and loved to ski in Aspen and Vail, often as a member of a ski club. She played tennis and golf. She loved opera and held season tickets at the Metropolitan Opera for many years. She also enjoyed attending ballets and symphony performances at Lincoln Center in New York City and elsewhere.

She enjoyed travel for sports and fun. She traveled in the United States, Europe, Canada, Mexico, and the Caribbean.

Rosanne has been a parishioner at Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne, NJ, since 1964.

Rosanne is survived by her brother, Lawrence (Margaret) Bowles, and nieces and nephew, Jean Bolger, James (Martha) Bowles, Megan (Alfred Levitt) Bowles, Nora Bowles, Cathy (Brian) Collins, and Ann (Bruce) Fort. She was beloved by her grand-nieces and nephew, Maddy Bowles, Clare Bowles, Margaret Bolger, Jacob Levitt, Mairead Levitt, Kenneth Collins, Christopher Collins, Catherine Fort, and Evelyn Fort. She was predeceased by her sister, Mary-Ellen (John) Grunewald.

Rosanne M. Bowles

June 2, 2025

Patricia “Trish” Szlembarski (nee O’Connor), age 61 of Wayne, a beloved sister, friend, and cherished member of her community, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 29, 2025.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, Trish moved with her family to Wayne when she was just ten years old—a community that would hold a special place in her heart throughout her life. She graduated from Wayne Valley High School and earned her business degree from Katherine Gibbs School, laying the foundation for a diverse and successful professional career.

Trish began her career working at her father’s business, Center Sheet Metal in the Bronx, before moving on to Singer-Kearfott in Totowa. She later worked as a paralegal at several area law firms and concluded her career at Englewood Allergy with Dr. From, where she was deeply appreciated for her dedication and warmth.

While working at Singer-Kearfott in the 1980s, Trish met Robert “Bob” Szlembarski during a company charity event at The Barnyard in Totowa. Their connection deepened through shared activities like shooting pool and playing darts, and their romance blossomed. Less than a year after meeting, they exchanged vows on August 1, 1987 at St. Michael’s Church followed by a beautiful reception at The Manor. They honeymooned in the Pocono’s and eventually settled into their home in Packanack Lake, close to family and friends. Sadly, Bob passed away in 2001 after just fourteen years of marriage and Trish has missed him dearly ever since.

In 2011, Trish moved to Florida to lovingly care for her ailing father during his final years — a testament to her loving, generous and loyal spirit. She cherished those years, especially all the one-on-one time she was able to enjoy with her father. She also enjoyed hosting all the visitors her father was blessed have stay at his home during that time. Following his passing, she returned to Wayne in 2013 and purchased her “dream home” on Packanack Lake. There, living close to her family and friends, and surrounded by the beauty of the lake, Trish built her own little haven of warmth and comfort.

Trish’s home was always filled with the scent of fresh-baked goodies — though, ironically, she never ate the treats she so lovingly made. Baking was just one of the many ways she shared love with those around her. She was also an avid music lover with a special fondness for Elvis Presley, Olivia Newton-John, and Neil Diamond. With her deepest roots in Brooklyn and the Bronx, she remained a loyal fan of the New York Yankees and the New York Giants (naming her cat “Jeter”), and she never missed a game!

Trish also loved watching movies and enjoyed many memorable trips to Atlantic City with her dear friends and former coworkers, where laughter, stories, and slot machines filled the days.

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She enjoyed every family gathering, never happier than when she was surrounded by those she loved most. Her bright smile and infectious giggle could light up any room, and her generosity, loyalty, and deep devotion will be remembered by all who had the privilege to know and love her. She took her role as an aunt very seriously and was truly and lovingly devoted to all her nieces and nephews.

Since 2020, Trish faced serious health challenges with incredible strength and grace. Even through this hardship, her love for life, her family, and her faith never wavered. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion, laughter, and love — and she will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Trish is survived by two sisters: Maureen Cretella (Joey) of Wayne, and Irene Yalicki (Eddie) of Manahawkin; nieces and nephews: Annie (Greg), Amanda, Amy (Sean), Joey, John (John), James, Kelly (Ryan), Jimmy O’Connor III, Alexa and Rachel; cousins: Ron, Tom, Bill, and Rosie; aunt and uncle: Nancy and Jimmy Mike, and most recently her companion dog Alani, who brought her so much joy.

Trish was predeceased by her husband Bob in 2001; by her parents: James (2013) and Mary (2010) O’Connor; her sister Colleen Youngman (2015), her brother James, Jr. (2015), her brother-in-law Steveo (2015), her Uncle Ronnie (2024), and her cousins Greg (2001) and Dorothy (2020).

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made in Trish’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, reflecting her generous spirit and commitment to helping others. Trish’s quiet compassion and selfless nature touched the lives of many, and supporting this cause would honor her legacy. Donations can be made online at www.stjude.org

Patricia “Trish” Szlembarski

May 29, 2025

Brian J. Goger, 43 of Pequannock passed away suddenly on May 29, 2025.

Brian was born in Rahway to Frank and Deborah Goger and graduated from Linden High School in 2000 where he played on the high school golf team.

Brian’s first job was at Steak and Ale as a busboy, followed by a work study program at House of Flowers in Linden cutting flowers. After High School he worked for Cooper Electric as a salesman for ten years. Brian then worked at Proud Papa’s Pizzeria in Edison as a manager for 6 years where he made many friends. Brian drove for Lyft for a year spending as much time with Dana as he could, shifting hours around her work schedule. After Lyft he worked at Texima until March 2020 when COVID hit. He then found his home at Atra Janitorial the summer of 2020 and has worked there ever since. Atra/Brady Plus truly became a family for him as he started as a truck driver, moved to warehouse supervisor and most recently Branch Manager. Brian took great pride in all his jobs but Atra held a special place in his heart.

Brian was the life of the party, had a great sense of humor, was a fantastic dancer as he perfected Michael Jackson’s thriller. Brian was an amazing cook and enjoyed making guacamole, empanadas, breakfast sandwiches, taco bake, Mexican chicken, and many other dishes his family enjoyed. Brian had an extreme love for NY sports which was evident by his many tattoos. His most loved team was the NY Giants, he never missed a single game, and you could hear him cheering down the street. He also loved the NY Rangers, NY Yankees and NY Knicks, along with Golf and Bowling. Brian was an avid bowler and drew a crowd with his 205 average and Wooooos throughout the bowling alley. He even convinced Dana to join a doubles league which won them several vacations and where they made many friends. Brian had a huge passion for WWE and he shared his passion with Dana taking her on a date to Monday night RAW. This is now a big part of the Goger household as Fiona has her own championship belt and sings the wrestlers entrances. Brian enjoyed family BBQ’s always bringing his beer pong table and enjoying playlists on his speaker. Brian’s favorite place to vacation was Wildwood, NJ which was an annual Goger vacation spot. He carried on the tradition with Dana and Fiona even going now in the fall as he loved the area so much. Brian had a love for fashion always coordinated from his sunglasses down to his sneakers. He had a different pair of sneakers for every outfit. Brian was always punctual, organized, and adamant about keeping a clean house and car at all times. Brian was a caring and thoughtful person, always putting his family first. He was honest and romantic, hardworking, determined, and loving. He valued family time at home teaching Fiona that weekends was fun time with mommy and daddy.

Brian met the love of his life Dana on Plenty of Fish, as he spotted her wearing a NY Giants jersey. They started dating January 2017, became official July 2017 and within 6 months they fell in love. Brian and Dana dated for 3 years before he proposed on November 19, 2019 at a beautiful restaurant in Pompano Beach, Florida. They married November 15, 2020 in the middle of COVID, a date that was special to them being the same anniversary as Brian’s parents. Brian and Dana welcomed their daughter Fiona May 1. 2023. Fiona completed their family and brought them tremendous joy. Dana and Fiona never doubted Brian’s love as he made it evident to them daily.

Brian was dearly loved by his father Frank Goger, his late mother Deborah Goger (2019), his sister Jessica Diddle, nieces Kylee, Skylar and Noelle, his Aunt Kathy and Uncle Bruce, and Aunt Maureen. Brian was the beloved son in law to the late Harry Barany (2023), and Diane Barany, brother in law of Emily Barany, Harrison and Juliana Barany and uncle to Serena and Isabella.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning to make charitable donations in Brian's name, are asked to please consider donating to Brian's GoFundMe page.

Brian J. Goger

May 29, 2025

Pequannock

Donna Niethe, age 63, of Wayne, formerly of Newark, Irvington, Clifton, West Orange, and Livingston, passed Wednesday, May 28, 2025.

Donna was born in Newark to Karl and Marilyn Niethe and raised in Irvington. In a memorable family story, when Donna was born, her father Karl was nowhere to be found—he had fallen asleep in the doctor’s office. The family later settled in Wayne, where Donna graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1979. She went on to attend William Paterson College in Wayne and later earned her Master’s Degree from Montclair State University in Montclair. Over the years, Donna held various roles, including working at Jamesway in Pompton Plains and as a graphic designer in Fair Lawn and Totowa.

Donna was a gentle and compassionate soul, known for her quiet strength and caring nature. She had a deep love for soccer, playing as a dedicated goalie and even coaching the sport she adored. Donna's talent and determination led her to compete as a member of the U.S. Paralympic Soccer Team, and she also played indoor soccer in Pequannock, where her passion for the game shone brightly. In addition to soccer, Donna found joy in horseback riding and excelled in dressage, earning recognition in several competitions. A true animal lover, she enjoyed watching animal shows, as well as professional wrestling, soccer, and horse racing on television—interests that reflected her spirited and diverse personality.

Donna had a simple and particular palate when it came to food—she never liked onions on her cheeseburgers and always made sure to ask for them without. She also had no interest in spicy food, preferring milder flavors that didn’t overwhelm her taste buds. Her food preferences became a running joke among family and friends, who knew Donna’s order by heart and lovingly teased her about her aversion to anything with a kick.

Donna was born with a mild form of cerebral palsy, a condition that challenged her balance and made her the target of teasing during her early years. But Donna refused to be defined or limited by her disability. Determined to prove herself, she achieved far beyond what others believed possible. She fell in love with soccer and, despite the physical obstacles, became a skilled goalie, ultimately earning a spot on the United States Cerebral Palsy Athletics Association's National Soccer Team. Her passion extended beyond playing; she also dedicated several years to coaching, inspiring others with her resilience and love for the game. Donna also found freedom in a second sport—horseback riding. What began as therapeutic riding became a source of joy and empowerment, as she felt completely unburdened by her disability while on horseback. With a deep sense of pride in her journey, Donna often said she wouldn’t change a single thing about her life. She lived by the motto, “Quitters never win, and winners never quit,” a philosophy she embodied every day.

This was read at Donna's Funeral Service:

Today, we gather in this room to celebrate the life of a remarkable woman—Donna. In her quiet strength, boundless compassion, and unwavering spirit, she touched each of us in unique and lasting ways.

But instead of us speaking about her, Donna wanted to speak to us—one last time.

What you’re about to hear is an open letter, written from Donna’s own point of view. It’s not just a eulogy—it’s her voice, her heart, and her goodbye. Though she is no longer physically with us, her words remind us that love, laughter, and memory never truly leave.

So now, with love and reverence, we share this letter from Donna… to all of us.

An Open Letter from Donna:

I was born with a mild form of cerebral palsy, which meant I walked with a scissor gait, and had a little trouble with my balance and coordination. At times, I was laughed at and teased. I was always the one who was 'different'. Little did those bullies (or I), know what was to come later on in my life; and how I turned around all the negativity I've experienced, to help me achieve things no one else ever thought possible, and prove them all wrong.

A friend took me to a Cosmos soccer game in 1979, and I became hooked on soccer. I spent 5 years watching and analyzing 'the beautiful game'. Then I finally got up the courage to try it. I showed up for the first night of indoor play (in a high school gym) in a rec league, and there were only men players. I had determined the best position for me to play was as a goalkeeper, and having those years of experience studying both of the Cosmos goalkeepers, I knew it would pay off. Playing with (and against) players who are much better than you is the best way to elevate your own game; no matter what sport it is. The more I played with and alongside men, the sharper my skills, quickness, and reading of the game grew. I had a friend who lives in NJ, who drove out to Long Island every weekend for either practice or games. Initially I went with her to keep her company, but eventually started playing in some tournaments as well.

Every year they have a big tournament, and teams come from all over to participate in it. One of the coaches, whose team we had played against, approached me about playing in goal for his team in a tournament in Florida, as I accepted his invitation, and played well. A few weeks later, I was back in Long Island playing in an indoor tournament. One of the refs during the tournament noticed me, and asked about my disability. He had a friend who coached the USCPAA (United States Cerebral Palsy Athletics Association) National Soccer Team, and he wanted my contact information. The coach did call me, three times while I was in Florida, and requested a tape of me for them to review. The only game footage I had was from the tournament in Florida; which I sent for their review. A week later, I was invited to tryout for the US National Team, all expenses paid - a trip to Texas, with a lot on the line. I had nothing to lose, and everything to gain. It was the culmination of everything I had been through, the reason why - I knew this day would come!

We had practice three times a day, and mid-afternoon, the coaches pulled me aside and told me that I made the team, I was elated! The team got together two or three times a year to train, and the rest of the time you were on your own. At that time, the focus was on the Paralympic Games coming up in 1996 in Atlanta, Georgia. The only thing standing in my way was that coaches/countries from South America would not allow co-ed play, and even after a few appeals through the appropriate Governing Bodies, sadly, permission was not granted. Knowing I was ranked no.1, and would have played in goal in Atlanta, for my country, is still a huge honor and privilege to this day. My ranking was earned, not given, and there's a big difference between the two.

There's a lot of hard work that goes into maintaining your fitness and agility during your 'off' season, and riding was a very good way of filling that void.

In addition to playing soccer, I wanted to coach it as well. So I took the necessary licensing courses so I could do that. I loved coaching, especially within the 'Buddy Ball' program, (where a child would have a volunteer guide them through the game, offering as much, or as little, help as needed). I was coaching a group of kids, ages 5 to 10, with physical and mental challenges. The parents would say that all their kids would talk about during the week was 'Soccer Saturday', and asked why it took so long to get here every week!

There was one young boy who came each week, but he wouldn't join in and play with the rest of the kids. He wouldn't leave his mother's side, he was too frightened; but he didn't want to leave until the session was over. For weeks the volunteer 'buddies' tried to persuade him to play, to no avail. Finally, I decided it was my turn. I went to him and asked if he wanted to play, that I would be his 'buddy', but only with his mom's permission, of course, and that I would hold his hand the entire time. I could sense his hesitancy, and then I remembered something. He was fascinated with my whistle - a shiny silver one, hanging on its cord, around my neck. I asked if he could help me, by blowing the whistle when I told him to, during the course of play and the end of the session. That was it - the connection he needed, finally something he felt comfortable with. It took about four weeks, but he came out of his shell, he was soon running and playing with the rest of the kids, coming to me when it was time to blow the whistle. To me, nothing is more important than making a difference in life of a child; that even if I only help one child, it's all worth it.

Simultaneously, along with soccer, came my second sport - riding. After finally getting a doctor's clearance, I was able to start therapeutic riding with horses. The warmth of the horse relaxes muscles that are stiff, and helps bring your body back into its natural alignment. I always felt so much better after my riding lesson, even though it was painful, I thought of it as the best physical therapy I could ever have. Riding is a full body workout, and it helped keep me in shape for soccer during the off season. The thing I loved the most, is when on a horse, no one could tell I had a disability, only when I got off. It was so much fun to compete at horse shows, many, many hours of practice come down to only a few minutes in the ring, so you have only one chance to get it right!

That was then, and this is now. So much has changed physically with my body. It has become a battle, and I have lost the war. Slowly but surely I lost the abilities to walk, stand, and transfer, and I am now in a powerchair. I fought as long and as hard as I could to stay out of my wheelchair.

I have no regrets, and if I had the chance I wouldn't change a thing, because I wouldn't be the same person that I am today. All things considered, I think I've turned out alright! I've lived by this motto: "Quitters never win, and winners never quit".

And so, as I bring this letter to a close, know that you leave today with a heart full of gratitude—for the life Donna lived, for the love she received, and for each of you who helped make her journey so meaningful.

Please don’t remember Donna in sadness, but in the quiet moments of laughter, in the warmth of shared stories, and in the everyday beauty of a life marked by courage and grace. Remember her not in grief, but in gratitude—for the strength she showed in the face of challenges, and for the way she turned that strength into inspiration for others.

Live fully. Love deeply. And never forget—Donna is still with you. Just beyond the veil of sight, her memory endures. And as you meet life’s challenges, know she is there, cheering you on with every step.

Donna was dearly loved by her father Karl Niethe, her late mother Marilyn Niethe (d.2016) and her late sister Robin Niethe (d.1961); her brothers: Kevin and his wife Karen Niethe and Glenn Niethe all of Wayne; and her 3 nephews Zachary, Aaron, and Corey Niethe. She will be dearly missed by her aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

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Flowers would be welcomed. Those considering a donation in lieu of flowers are asked to consider a memorial donation to the Carousel Horsemanship Pompton Plains.

Donna Niethe

May 28, 2025

In Loving Memory of Louis Russo

July 25, 1950 – May 26, 2025

It is with full hearts and fond memories that we celebrate the life of Louis Russo, a man whose humor, warmth, and devotion left a lasting mark on everyone lucky enough to know him.

Louis passed away on May 26, 2025 surrounded by his loving family: his devoted wife Diane, his son Anthony with his wife Nicole, and his son Nick with his wife Jillian.

Lou was a devoted husband to his beloved wife Diane, with whom he shared 48 beautiful years of marriage. Their love story began in 1973 and only grew stronger with time. Together, they raised two sons, Anthony and Nick, who they cherished with unwavering love, and took immense pride in the men they became. Lou found endless joy in his four grandsons: Dominic, Lucas, Ty, and Chase. Lou’s family was truly the center of his world.

Lou was preceded in death by his father, Anthony Russo, and his mother, Betty Russo, who no doubt welcomed him with open arms. He is also survived by his sisters, Kathy Valentine and Diane Cody, his brother Robert Russo, and Matthew Brophy, his sons’ lifelong friend, who held a place in his heart like a son. Lou is also lovingly remembered by his many nieces and nephews.

A proud veteran of the National Guard, Lou served his country with honor for eight years. Professionally, he was an accomplished electrical contractor and co-owner of Kristy Electric, where his work ethic and integrity shone brightly.

Beyond his career, Lou was deeply involved in his community. He served as chief umpire and later commissioner of the Metropolitan Baseball League and was a proud supporter of the Wayne Little League, helping to sponsor and run youth sports that meant so much to him.

Many mornings, you could find Lou at The Bagel Stop, holding court with his close-knit group of friends. He was also an avid woodworker, happiest in his impeccably organized workshop, turning pieces of wood into works of art – just like he turned moments into memories.

Lou had a deep love for his shore house in Seaside Park, NJ, a place that brought him immense happiness. He and Diane poured their hearts into that home on 22^nd Avenue turning it into a warm, beautiful gathering place for the family. Memorial Day weekend, the unofficial start of summer, meant everything for Lou. It was when his sons, their wives, and his grandchildren would arrive for weekends filled with sunshine, joy, celebration, and lots of laughter – exactly what Lou cherished the most. That house overflowed with love, just like the couple who filled it.

Above all, Lou will be remembered for his quick wit, infectious laughter, and unmatched energy. He had a gift for lighting up a room, and his presence made everything more joyful.

Lou leaves behind a life well lived, a family deeply loved, and a community forever better for having known him. His spirit, his stories, and that unforgettable sense of humor will live on in all of us.

Louis Russo

May 26, 2025

Seaside Park

Lillian Putz, age 91 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, May 26, 2025.

Born and raised in Jersey City, New Jersey, Lillian was the youngest of five children to Joseph and Helen Krause. A dedicated student, she graduated from Lincoln High School in Jersey City. From an early age, Lillian demonstrated the caring nature that would define her throughout her life, helping her older siblings as their families grew and establishing herself as an exceptional caregiver who would be forever remembered as a devoted mother and grandmother.

Lillian found great joy in life’s simple pleasures: reading fiction novels and sewing her own unique dresses which she loved to showcase at weekly polka dances. It was at one of these dances that she met a gentleman named Richard Putz. Their connection was immediate and before they knew it, they were engaged. Around a year after the couple’s engagement the two were married.

The newlyweds began their family journey together, welcoming their first daughter Diane just a year after their wedding. Their children Lydia and Robert followed in the years that came, and the growing family made their home in Clifton, New Jersey before eventually settling in Wayne.

From the beginning, Lillian cherished time spent with family above all else. Whether it was quiet evenings at home or the holiday gatherings shared with her sisters, Claire and Terry and their families. And years later, with her own family that grew from grandchildren to great grandchildren. It was these simple everyday moments; she found joy and meaning in being surrounded by loved ones.

Lillian and Richard shared a passion for travel and adventure, often exploring the world alongside Lillian’s sister Terry and her husband Joe Kizmann. Their journeys took them across continents from Europe to Alaska, through the Panama Canal, and to many other destinations. Among their most treasured experiences was a trip to Italy, where they were blessed with a private audience with Pope John Paul II at the Vatican, receiving his personal blessing.

After Richard’s untimely passing in 1997, Lillian remained true to her adventurous spirit and continued to explore the world with her sister Terry at her side. She never lost her zest for life or her desire to discover new places.

Lillian will be dearly missed by all who knew her, remembered not only for her role as a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, but for her generous heart, adventurous spirit, and the love she shared with everyone around her.

She is survived by her children: Diane Dario, Lydia Mandrikin, and Robert Putz; her grandchildren Jaime, Danielle, and Christopher; and her eight great-grandchildren.

Lillian is predeceased by her husband Richard Putz; her parents Joseph and Helen Krause; and her four siblings: Bill, Claire, Veronica, and Theresa.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial contribution in Lillian's name to the Wayne PBA or Wayne First Aid Squad.

Lillian Putz

May 26, 2025

Renée S. Wilke, 39, of Clifton, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, May 25, 2025.

Born in Hackensack, Renée was raised in Totowa and Wayne and attended Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls.

Throughout her young life, Renée held various jobs. She worked at Frederick Goodman Jewelers in the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne, Kohl’s in Wayne, and the Donna Reed Daycare Center in Wayne. She also worked as a receptionist at Absolute Glass in Wayne – a job that meant a lot to her, and she was currently working as a warehouse coordinator for Hotels and Home Worldwide in Fairfield and at Hope Through Care in the their women’s shelter in Clifton.

Renée’s life was marked by many years of difficulty and challenge. Like so many young people, she made one particularly devastating decision that led to a long and painful struggle with drug addiction. It was a hard season—for Renée and for her family, whom she dearly loved and stayed in daily contact with throughout. Her journey included desperate times, even homelessness. But thanks to her family’s unwavering love and support—and a powerful measure of God’s grace—her life began to turn around in the past four years.

In the Holy Bible in Isaiah 61:1–3 it says:

“The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion—to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor.”

The Bible often uses “ashes” to symbolize mourning, a state of lowliness and despair, and repentance —but also spiritual renewal and transformation. Specifically in Isaiah 61:3, God describes God giving a "crown of beauty for ashes," reminding us that even in sorrow, God can bring joy, praise, and renewal.

God never gave up on Renée. Ultimately, she was able to receive the help she needed and rise from the ashes of her past into a new life. She was recently baptized in her church and living at the Hope through Care group home in Clifton, where she was a constant source of encouragement to others recovering from addiction. She was also training to become a case manager to help others in their journey to healing.

Renée deeply loved her family. She considered her two children, Madison and Jeremiah, among the greatest blessings in her life. Every Halloween, she would visit her parents in Florida where Madison encouraged her and Jeremiah to dress up and go trick-or-treating together. One memorable year, they went as characters from the Addams Family—it was a blast. Living in Florida, Madison and Renée Face Timed daily and spent hours together playing Minecraft and other video games. Her son Jeremiah’s name was inspired by Jeremiah 29:11, which reads:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Renée had a beautiful, encouraging spirit. She was a constant cheerleader for her mom in all of her endeavors, and was also a steady presence in the life of her grandmother “G. G.” who recently fell and needed daily care. Renée and Jeremiah spent many evenings having dinner with G. G. and caring for her.

Renée loved the natural beauty of the world, a passion that earned her the nickname from her sister Nicollette: “My Little Hippie.” Her idea of a perfect day was hiking outdoors at Garrett Mountain, something she did as often as she could.

When asked to describe Renée, her family offered words like: heartfelt, caring, loving, compassionate, strong, empathetic, encouraging, and a survivor. Renée is at peace. Though her time on earth was short and often filled with hardship, God delivered her from the ashes and gave her a crown of beauty—one she wore with a radiant smile, offering love, compassion, and grace to all those she met.

Renée was the devoted and loving mother of Madison and Jeremiah. She was the beloved daughter of Renee Albanese of Parrish, FL; William Wilke of Jacksonville, FL; and stepdaughter of Joseph Albanese of Parrish, FL. She was the cherished sister of Nicollette Kuiken and her husband Joshua, Cecile Wilke and her husband Melvin, Joseph Albanese III and his wife Randi, Michele Barth and her husband Austin, Sarah Wilke, and the late Dylan Wilke. She was the treasured granddaughter of Barbara Veltri and her husband Tony, and the late Christine Wilke. Renee was the proud and loving aunt of David, Kevin, Tyler, Brianna, Olivia, and Julianna and is also survived by her many loving aunts, uncles and cousins.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Renee’s name are asked to consider:

Hope Through Care/Heart of Hannah

Attn: Kelly Moss-Brown

89 1st St.

Clifton, NJ 07011

Renee Wilke

May 25, 2025

Clifton

Owen Lyon, age 92, of Wayne, passed away Thursday, May 22nd, 2025.

Born to Charles and Edna Lyon in West Orange, New Jersey, he graduated from Seton Hall Prep in 1951 before earning a Bachelor of Science in Physics from Seton Hall University.

Fresh out of college, Owen began cutting the grass at PSE&G’s local office, and forty-five years later proudly retired as one of their well noted Project Managers, VP.

Before leaving to serve in the Korean War as a U.S. Army gun specialist Owen met and proposed to the true love of his life, Frances Cort of South Orange, beginning a six-decade long love story. According to Owen, from the moment he spotted her at the Cricklewood Store soda shop, he “knew she was the girl” for him– even inviting himself along on her dates with other boys as a self-appointed chaperone. After returning home from the war, Owen and Fran were married on May 28, 1955 at Our Lady of Sorrows in South Orange.

Owen often said the pair were “well married”, as they had six priests on the altar and a Papal Blessing secured by the Passionist Brothers. They had a reception at the Condor in Livingston, and drove to their honeymoon in Miami, Florida. Owen and Fran enjoyed a loving and caring marriage for sixty-four years, both here in Wayne, and at their summer home in Long Beach Island.

In addition to being a loving husband, Owen was a devoted father and grandfather, survived by his daughter Karen, and husband John Holmes, of Perkasie, PA; daughter Sharon, and husband Paul Giordano, of Lincoln Park; son Tom Lyon, and partner Joe Breen of Montclair; and pre-deceased by his infant daughter, Joanne. He leaves cherished grandchildren, John and Julie Holmes of Long Valley, NJ; Justin and Alise Holmes of Perkasie, PA; Jessica and Derek Fromm of Quakertown, PA; Taylor Giordano of Springfield, and Michael Giordano of Lincoln Park; as well as great-grandchildren Mila Rose Holmes, Brody Holmes, Jackson Holmes, Dylan Homes, Charlotte Rae Holmes, Colton Fromm, Caleb Fromm, and Avery Fromm. Sadly, Owen also leaves behind his best friend, and constant companion Riley, his seven-year-old feisty yet devoted Shitzu.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to WOUNDED WARRIORS

Owen Lyon

May 22, 2025

Compassion, Passion and Fashion

Gloria G Chappa, known for her passion compassion and fashion was the last of her generation of the Garofoli/Basista clans, passed away at age 96 on May 20th, 2025. She was a special person who was upbeat with compassion to everyone she interacted with. She lived a comfortable life surrounded by her family and friends and made the world around her a better place.

Gloria and her two sisters, Helen and Teresa were born in the Bronx, New York in a walk-up apartment with family and lifelong friends on the floors of the tenement building. The sense of community comes from having an extended family living and celebrating their Italian heritage in their neighborhood. The daughter of immigrants from Como, Italy had some surviving home movies of family picnics with a large kettle of pasta being cooked at a barbeque in a park rather than the traditional burgers and dogs.

Gloria was a mother of Jody, Tom and Brian and with her first husband Ed lived in Massapequa Park, Long Island, Cherry Hill, New Jersey before settling in Wayne, New Jersey. In addition to being a home maker, Gloria had several jobs after her children grew up but her work at Passaic County Vocational High School gave her the most satisfaction working as an administrative assistant until her retirement at age 90.

Gloria was a deeply religious person who regularly attended services and whose compassion for children and underserved communities allowed her to donate her time to several charities including St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.

Gloria had an eye and passion for fashion and home décor. Her mother was an accomplished seamstress who made and embroidered clothing for Gloria and her granddaughters. For her entire life she was always well dressed and had a large wardrobe of clothes. Gloria was constantly decorating, redesigning and moving furniture creating warm and inviting homes. In her later stages of her life, she enjoyed arts and crafts including painting and dried flower arrangements.

Gloria’s first husband and father to her children, Ed Basista, shared a life in Wayne, New Jersey enjoying dancing, watching movies, hosting friends and cooking. Nobody ever left Gloria’s home, being hungry with her being a fantastic cook and baker, guests always left with a care package of baked goods and desserts. Gloria had 4 grandchildren Brent, Michael, Mathew and Mark and a great grandson, Sonny. Her family meant everything, and she was generous with gifts and giving advice at family holiday gatherings and on the telephone. Goria’s second husband Joe was also from Wayne New Jersey.

Gloria Chappa

May 20, 2025

Doris Sinofsky (nee Hanssen) passed away at home on May 18, 2025, at the age of 97. She was born in Roseville, CA, the daughter of Joseph Clifford and Mildred (Warren) Hanssen. She was the wife of the late Kenneth Sinofsky and the mother of five children. She received her early education in the Roseville schools and graduated from Sparks High School in Sparks, NV. She graduated from the University of Nevada in Reno with a BA degree in Journalism. While there, she was twice elected to Who’s Who in American Universities and Colleges. She later obtained her MA in Reading from William Paterson University.

She began her teaching career in Sparks, NV where she taught fourth grade at the Robert E. Mitchell School. After marriage, she taught at Union School in Rutherford, NJ. After her children started school, she returned to work at the John F. Kennedy School in Wayne where she taught fifth and third grades. She remained there until her retirement. She was chosen as Teacher of the Year in 1986.

Mrs. Sinofsky had been a member of the Wayne Presbyterian Church where she served as a deacon and a teacher in the church school.

After retiring, she and her husband purchased a home in Pompano Beach, FL and were snowbirds for many years. After his death in 2003, she moved to Cedar Crest Village where she returned to her interest in writing and became a reporter for the monthly “Mountain Matters”. In addition, she began working in the TV studio where she worked on the weekly television programs and also became involved in the production of documentaries. She was especially proud of her two Telly awards presented for “Our Heroes” and “Never Forgotten,” two of the documentaries that she helped produce at Cedar Crest. All three documentaries told the lives of Cedar Crest residents. Her next endeavor was playwriting and many of her plays were performed by the Cedar Crest Players and were enjoyed by many.

Mrs. Sinofsky is survived by her children, Dr. Francine Sinofsky, Steven and his wife, Susan, Karen Mahida and her husband, Sanjay, Linda Sinofsky and her husband, Daniel DiTolla and Paul. Her grandchildren are Brett, Madison and Kenneth Sinofsky, Alfred (Jake) and Emily DiTolla, Cristina and Daniella Sinofsky, Isabella Mahida and Megan Watson and her husband Randy. Her great grandchildren are Gianna, Wari, Journey, Emiliano, Brooklyn, and Riley. She was predeceased by her sisters Alice Hanssen and Joyce Pinckney and her husband Bob, her brother Clifford Hanssen and his wife Dottie, and her sisters-in-law Bernice Russ and Miriam Holzsager. She also leaves many loving nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers the family has requested that you make a memorial gift to the Endowment Fund for the Doris H. Sinofsky Award for the Outstanding Electronic Media Student at the University of Nevada, Reno/Mailstop 310 Reynolds School of Journalism, Attn: Carol McIntosh, 1664 N. Virginia Street, Reno, NV 89557 or online at http://unr.edu/giving and click on the “Give Now” button. Please reference the Doris H. Sinofsky Endowed Award in the Gift Instructions or Comments’ section.

Doris Sinofsky

May 18, 2025

Susan Kathleen Biroc Stender

November 30, 1960 – May 16, 2025

With deep sorrow and boundless love, we announce the passing of Susan Kathleen Biroc Stender on May 16, 2025, in Bradenton, Florida, at the age of 64, after a courageous battle with cancer. Throughout her illness, Susan never lost her radiant positivity, grace, or her unwavering generosity of spirit.

Susan was born to Barbara and Albert Biroc in Jersey City, New Jersey. She grew up in Wayne, New Jersey, in the Lionshead Lake community where she attended Wayne Hills High School.

She was predeceased by both of her parents, who instilled in her the strength, compassion, and joyful spirit that defined her life.

From a young age, she was known for her beauty, warmth, and natural charisma.

She met the love of her life, George Stender, in 2004, and they married in 2006. Together, they shared a deep and joyful partnership built on love, laughter, and unwavering support. In George’s words, “She was the greatest wife on this earth.”

Susan is survived by her loving husband, George Stender; her daughter, Kathryn Keskinyan; her son, Michael Culhane; her son-in-law, Shant Keskinyan; and her cherished granddaughter, Claire Keskinyan. She is also survived by her brothers, Patrick Biroc and Richard Biroc; her sisters-in-law, Monica Biroc and Lizette Biroc; her nieces, Kimberly Biroc and Sophia Biroc; her nephew, Chris Biroc; and her beloved dog, Rusty. She is also lovingly remembered by her aunt and uncle, Kathy and Eddie Agresta; her cousins, Jill Skinner, Todd Agresta, Kurt Biroc his wife Malaina and many extended family members and friends who cherished her deeply.

Above all, Susan was devoted to her family. Being a mother was her greatest passion and proudest role. She welcomed her daughter Katie into this world in 1990 and her son, Michael arrived in 1991. She often said that every age of her children was the best age—she truly loved every moment of motherhood. She embraced each season of their lives with joy, patience, and wonder. She was the most loving, attentive, and inspiring mother one could imagine, and she was also the proud and adoring grandmother to Claire, who brought endless joy to her life.

Susan was a gifted athlete and natural leader. She was an accomplished volleyball player who treasured playing on a recreational team with her mother and aunt, and in her twenties, she worked as a fitness instructor. Athletic and adventurous, her and her husband later became a certified master and rescue scuba diver, fearlessly diving with sharks and exploring underwater caves.

A lover of the outdoors, Susan was drawn to the beauty of wildlife—especially dolphins, manatees, cardinals, chipmunks, and pelicans. She found peace in sunsets over the canal behind her dream home in Florida, where she loved boating and exploring dockside restaurants with her husband.

In addition to a successful career in marketing and advertising—where she excelled at building relationships and leading with creativity—Susan was a bold entrepreneur and the founder of SNG Transportation Solutions. She was also a fierce and strategic Texas Hold ’em player who won multiple tournaments and was known for her sharp mind and fearless play.

Susan was an excellent and self-taught cook who delighted her family and friends with meals made from the heart. Her shrimp with white wine sauce and homemade chicken soup were legendary and filled her home with warmth and comfort.

She had a particular love for Christmas. Susan made the holidays magical, not just through her warmth and generosity, but with her famously over-the-top gift wrapping. She was an expert wrapper—each package meticulously decorated and sealed with so much tape that opening it became a joyful challenge. Her festive spirit brought delight to everyone around her.

Susan was stunningly beautiful, both inside and out. Her vibrant presence lit up every room she entered. She lived with purpose, gave selflessly, loved deeply, and brought joy to everyone around her.

Her warmth, courage, and radiant light will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She was truly one of a kind—forever loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Susan’s honor to:

- Cancer Research Institute give.cancerresearch.org

- National Wildlife Federation support.nwf.org

Susan Biroc Stender

May 16, 2025

Bradenton

William A. Lindsay Sr. 82, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, May 15, 2025. He was born in Jersey City, to the late William R. and Elizabeth (Yockel) Lindsay.

He was the devoted husband of Carol Ann (Ciaston) Lindsay for sixty years and was the beloved father of William A. Jr., Chuck (Charles) and Rachel Lindsay and father-in-law of Jörg Raab and Jeana Lindsay. His greatest pride and joy were his granddaughters: Samantha Lindsay, Sophia and Stella Raab. He was the older brother of Robert Lindsay, JoAnne Harder and Susan Maak, and uncle and great uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Bill grew up in Jersey City and was a graduate of St. Peter’s Prep and College. He studied Corporate Finance at NYU and later received a Graduate Certificate in Administration from Harvard. He retired from Harvard University Press where he was Associate Director and Chief Financial Officer for 18 years. Previous to that he was President of Dell (Doubleday) Publishing in NYC. During his time working for Doubleday, Bill enjoyed being a fan of the NY Mets with his kids and even got to attend the magical game six of the World Series in 1986 and many opening days.

While working at Harvard he served on the Board of Beacon Press. He was also instrumental in gathering books from other university presses for libraries in countries which were war-torn and/or impoverished for the Sabre Foundation. For five years he was a general trustee of the Archaeological Institute of America.

In retirement Bill enjoyed his granddaughters, reading, poetry, cooking, watching Jeopardy, bird feeding and watching, and supporting good causes.

The yearly highlight for Bill was a vacation on Long Beach Island with his family, walking to Skipper Dipper with his granddaughters in the evening to get ice cream and visiting his favorite Osprey at Barnegat Light, which he also followed via a webcam from home.

Most of all, Bill was known for his patience, generosity, humility and integrity. He believed that everyone deserved a chance and quietly cared for relatives and strangers in need.

In lieu of flowers we respectfully ask for contributions to Hearts n’ Hands Mission, St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church, 395 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 or your favorite charity.

William A. Lindsay, Sr.

May 15, 2025

It is with a profound sense of sadness that we announce the passing of RaeAnn Cheon, age 66, of Lincoln Park, NJ. Surrounded by the love and care of her family, RaeAnn passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 14, 2025.

Born in Paterson, NJ, RaeAnn was the beloved daughter of Henry and Muriel Bogert and one of two children. Her early years were spent in Paterson before her family settled in West Paterson (now known as Woodland Park), where she was raised and graduated from Passaic Valley High School, Class of 1976.

After high school, RaeAnn began her professional life at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson. She worked there for several years before embracing the role of full-time homemaker following the birth of her first son, Ronald. Her second son, Christopher, soon followed, and the family later moved to Wayne, NJ, before RaeAnn eventually made her home in Lincoln Park.

As her children grew older, RaeAnn returned to the workforce, joining the Lincoln Park Care Center in the Medical Records department. She served there with quiet dedication for more than two decades until her passing.

RaeAnn was a gentle and private soul who found her greatest joy in family. She was deeply devoted to her children, grandchildren, and her sister, and treasured every moment spent with them. Her love and selflessness were the heart of her family, and her presence will be deeply missed.

She fell into the role of grandmother with such excitement, joy, pride, and love and willingly gave that to her grandchildren up until her last breath. From daycare pickups, dance recitals, talent shows, sleepovers, birthday parties, times spent at the Jersey Shore, and holidays, Grandma was ALWAYS there, with arms full of presents, of course!

RaeAnn is survived by her loving sons: Ronald Cheon and his wife Molly Cunder of West Orange, NJ, and Christopher Cheon and his wife Divna Burchici of Roxbury, NJ; her dear sister Debbie Sampat and her husband Vijay of Clifton, NJ; and her cherished grandchildren, Penelope and Jason Cheon. She was predeceased by her parents, Henry and Muriel Bogert.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in RaeAnn’s memory to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation

RaeAnn Cheon

May 14, 2025

Lincoln Park

With deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Isabella M. LoRé (née Martin), age 96, of Pompton Lakes, who passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, surrounded by the love and care of her family.

Born and raised in Boston, Massachusetts, Isabella was one of two children of Hugh and Dorothea Martin. Tragically, she lost her mother at the tender age of two. Her father later remarried, and together with his second wife, the family grew to include two more children. They remained in Boston until Isabella was about fifteen, after which they relocated to Dedham, MA. While attending Brighton High School, Isabella formed a close lifelong friendship with her best friend, June. The two shared many joyful moments, attending school dances and local events, navigating their youth during the challenging yet defining years of World War II.

A proud member of the Greatest Generation, Isabella graduated with honors from Brighton High School in 1947. She soon began her career as an accounting clerk at Sears & Roebuck in Boston and later worked at R.H. Stearns Department Store, where she thrived as an assistant buyer, model, and salesperson. After four years, Isabella left her job to embark on an exciting journey through Europe with three close friends.

The trip proved life-changing. While boarding the SS Constitution en route to England—just in time to witness Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation—she caught the eye of 3rd Mate Anthony LoRé. He famously told his shipmates, “I’m going to marry that girl.” True to his word, the two began dating upon Isabella’s return to the U.S., and their romance blossomed. On December 4, 1954, they were married in Brooklyn, surrounded by loved ones.

The couple made their home in Brooklyn, NY, where they welcomed their first three children: Louis, Carolina, and Peter. Later, the growing family moved to Clifton, NJ, where their youngest daughter, Lisa, was born. Isabella dedicated herself wholeheartedly to raising her children, embracing her role as a full-time homemaker with devotion and joy. In 1984, Isabella and Anthony moved to Brick Township, NJ, and after more than two decades there, they settled in Pompton Lakes, where Isabella spent her later years.

Isabella had a passion for reading—especially mystery novels—and counted Alexander McCall Smith among her favorite authors. She was a talented knitter and lovingly created knit blankets for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Known for her culinary talents, she was especially admired for her creampuffs, pound cakes, and artichokes.

She loved to travel, often accompanying her beloved husband Anthony, who rose through the ranks to become a ship captain. Together, they explored the world, from a memorable nine-week trip to Australia and New Zealand to her final voyage across the Atlantic aboard the Queen Mary II with her sister Nancy, revisiting their family roots in Scotland.

Isabella’s greatest joy in life was her family. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, and nothing brought her more happiness than spending time with those she loved. She and Anthony shared 52 beautiful years of marriage before his passing in 2005.

Isabella will be remembered for her strength, intelligence, and unwavering love for her family. She touched countless lives with her warmth and generosity, and her memory will forever live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.

Isabella is survived by her children; Carolina Brown and her husband Christopher of Ringwood, NJ, Peter LoRé of Pennsylvania, and Lisa Fierro and her husband Michael of Hewitt, NJ, her sisters; Nancy Martin-Li and her husband Litian of New York City, and Carol Martin of Massachusetts, seven grandchildren; Lindsay Baron and her husband Matthew of Andover, MA, Christian Stanton and his wife My of Boynton Beach, FL, Peter LoRé of Syracuse, NY, Katie Isabella Fierro-Ripoll and her husband Steven of Riverdale, NJ, Alice LoRé of Pennsylvania, Bella LoRé of Philadelphia, PA, and Henry LoRé of Massachusetts, ten great grandchildren; Jack, Julia, Alex, Isaac, Kayla, Anthony, Quinn, Tate, Charlie and Nico and her daughter-in-law Tiffany LoRé. She was predeceased by her husband Captain Anthony LoRé in 2005 and by her son Louis Anthony LoRé in 2024. She was also predeceased by her sister Dorothea Queenan, her brother-in-law Francis Queenan and Stepmom Helen Martin.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Isabella’s name may be made to Toys for Tots, Boys Town, or the Pompton Lakes First Aid Squad.

Isabella M. LoRe

May 14, 2025

Pompton Lakes

Thomas “Tommy” Vigorito of Wayne, passed on Tuesday, May 13, 2025, at home receiving the love and comfort of family and his wife Natalie by his side.

He was born to the late Ralph (link to Ralph's obituary can be found below) and Dorothy (Vigorito) Lukacsko in Passaic General Hospital. Interestingly Tommy was born the day before his wife Natalie in the same hospital and they likely shared time in the nursery together in 1959.

The family lived in Clifton, then moved to Wayne in 1967, where he entered Holy Cross Elementary School in 3rd grade. He went on to graduate from DePaul Catholic High School in Wayne. He continued his studies at the University of Virginia. Throughout his schooling, he not only pursued academic excellence but also forged lifelong friendships. These enduring bonds, formed at Holy Cross, DePaul, and UVA, flourished and reflected the loyalty and warmth that defined his character.

Tommy’s love for football began in his youth with the Clifton B&C Aluminum Football program at Nash Park. When his family moved to Wayne, he and his brother Ralph would engage in spirited one-on-one tackle football games on the front lawn at their home on Leo Place. Their passion for the sport grew, and both brothers went on to play for the Wayne PAL Football program, where they were coached by their father, Ralph. Football was truly a family affair for the Vigoritos—while the boys played, their mother, Dorothy, led the Wayne PAL Cheerleaders, including sisters Darcy and Patti who cheered on the sidelines. The Vigorito family became a fixture at the Wayne PAL Parish Oval field, a place they grew to love.

A standout high school All-American at DePaul Catholic High School in the Class of 1977, Tommy drew scholarship offers from prestigious programs such as Notre Dame, Boston College, Duke, Purdue, Penn State, and Virginia. Ultimately, he chose to continue his football journey at the University of Virginia, where he quickly earned a reputation for his remarkable combination of toughness and speed.

When he left Virginia in 1981, Tommy ranked second on the Cavaliers' all-time career rushing list. He finished his collegiate career with 2,913 rushing yards, a mark that now places him seventh on the all-time list for Virginia. His 648 carries remain the fifth-most in program history, and his 3,922 all-purpose yards, including 587 yards in kickoff returns, rank 12th among the Cavaliers' all-time leaders.

Following his successful college career, Tommy was selected in the fifth round of the NFL Draft by the Miami Dolphins, joining the legendary coach Don Shula. Over a five-year NFL career, he made his mark with several memorable plays, including an iconic 87-yard game-winning punt return against the Pittsburgh Steelers, which remains one of the most celebrated moments in the history of Thursday Night Football.

Tommy’s work history was a journey marked by dedication and consistency. His early years saw him selling soda amid the smoke-filled atmosphere of Wayne PAL bingo nights and bussing tables at Gabriel’s in the Mountain View section of Wayne. He later served as a server for Hap Nightingale's legendary beefsteaks. Tommy’s career reached new heights when he played for five seasons in the National Football League with the Miami Dolphins. Following his NFL career, he transitioned into the business world, working several years in financial printing for the Chas. P. Young Company in Miami, Florida. The bulk of his career was spent selling municipal bonds with Roosevelt & Cross Incorporated in NYC, a job that he truly loved.

Tommy was a man of unwavering honesty, loyalty, and devotion, qualities that defined his life as a husband. He met his first wife, Dianne (Quaratino) Vigorito, at Holy Cross School, and the two attended DePaul together. They shared a long and loving marriage, raising two beloved sons, Justin and Michael, until Dianne’s passing in 2015. The link to Dianne's obituary can be found below. He untiringly dedicated his time and efforts for many years to caring for her when she was sick, and he protected her with all his might.

In 2016, “Tom” found love again with Natalie (Wagner) Vigorito, another DePaul classmate. Their bond was strengthened by shared faith, as Natalie sang at Mass every weekend. He never missed an opportunity to go with her, sometimes attending back-to-back Masses, even weddings and funerals, just to hear her voice, and afterwards telling her each time how beautifully she sang and complimenting her outfit. His heartfelt gestures such as these captured his enduring admiration and love for both of his cherished wives.

An exceptional golfer, Tommy achieved the rare feat of several holes-in-one and was once a proud member of the Montclair Golf Club in West Orange. His golfing prowess was further highlighted by his two-time status as a finalist in the NFL Alumni Association's Super Bowl of Golf Championship. He was a loyal participant in the annual IGT (Irv’s Golf Tournament)—a cherished tradition organized for many years by “The Commissioner”, longtime friend Bob Mulvihill. For those who didn’t know, Tommy’s father Ralph was affectionately known as “Irv,” making this trip even more meaningful.

Tommy’s interests extended beyond sports. He was an avid reader who read many novels in his youth and always listened to audiobooks in the car while riding with Natalie. His love for oldies music was profound – amazingly, he could sing all the lyrics of hundreds of songs while his actual speech declined due to his illness. He watched Jeopardy every night and amazed everyone with the breadth of his knowledge and intelligence. His love of Elvis Presley and football legend Joe Namath remained unwavering. His generous spirit was evident in his service on the Board of Directors of the Buoniconti Fund to Cure Paralysis in Miami, where he avidly supported the organization’s groundbreaking research as well as the Miami Project Great Sports Legend Dinner.

Tommy participated in a research project at the Boston University Alzheimer's and CTE Center, the goal of which was to find tests that could diagnose Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy before death. Tom suffered from suspected CTE and confirmed Progressive Supranuclear Palsy, conditions that both can be caused by repeated head trauma. With Natalie’s assistance, he organized a fundraiser for the 2024 End CTE campaign run by the Concussion Legacy Foundation, and he was deeply grateful to all those who contributed. He wanted everyone to understand the potential dangers of long-term playing of football and hockey, and wanted to find ways to protect young athletes.

Tommy was a man of vibrant contrasts—sarcastic yet caring, quick-witted but deeply giving, friendly and outgoing yet somewhat antisocial. Nevertheless, he loved being with his close friends, teammates and colleagues. Above all, Tommy was devoted to his family. He never missed a family function—whether birthdays, holidays, or special celebrations—always showing up with his characteristic warmth, enthusiasm and humor, making every gathering more memorable. DGGG - “Do good, get good”, a family saying Tommy would write in his cards to family members.

Tommy had many wonderful healthcare providers, especially Dr. David Goldbloom of Wayne (9 years), and his physical therapist, Joel Menendez of Performance Physical Therapy (4.5 years), also in Wayne. Finally, he was blessed by the assistance and companionship of many kind caregivers in recent years, especially Jireh Brown, his “PBR” buddy for the past 2.5 years. Everyone took extra good care of Tommy, who was deeply thankful for their friendship, presence and support, and he always kept them entertained in return.

Tommy was the loving husband of the late Dianne (Quaratino) Vigorito (d. 2015) and Natalie (Wagner) Vigorito for the past nine years; he was the cherished son of the late Ralph “Irv” Vigorito (d. 2023) and his late wife Sandy Vigorito (d. 2010), and Dorothy Lukacsko of Pembroke Pines, Fl and her late husband John (d. 2016); he was the devoted father of Justin Vigorito (Becka) of Jupiter, FL and Michael Vigorito of Brooklyn, NY; he was the dearly loved brother of Ralph Vigorito (Debbie) of Lincoln Park, Darcy Nash of Pembroke Pines, FL, and Patricia Babich (Matt) of Wayne; he was also the proud grandfather of Dominick Vigorito, Mackenzie Payne and Ivy Payne. Tom was also the proud step-father of Anthony Marzocca of New York City, Charlotte Marzocca (Mike Payne) of Wayne, and Theo Kadela (Ingrid Gres) of Totowa. Tommy will be dearly missed by his aunts, nieces, nephews, and cousins, as well as his cherished friends.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations the Concussion Legacy Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Thomas “Tommy” Vigorito

May 13, 2025

Wesley J. Winkler, Jr. passed away on Monday, May 12, 2025; he was 77 years old.

Born in Paterson to Wesley and Etna Winkler, Wes was raised in Prospect Park, New Jersey. He was active in his church, Cedar Cliff United Methodist, where he met many lifelong friends as well as his future wife. Wes and Merrily were married in 1975 at the church where they’d met many years before. A few years later, they moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne where they raised two sons, Keith and Matthew. Wes’ and Merrily’s bond remained steadfast and strong over the years, and they were inseparable until the end.

Wes had a long career at New Jersey Bell and AT&T, where he progressed from installer to successful sales manager. He served in the Navy during Vietnam, and returned to complete the entirety of his higher education – undergraduate at Rutgers and MBA at Montclair State – taking night classes while working full time. Wes later retired from AT&T and had a short but successful tenure with Global Crossing.

One of Wes’ great loves was travel. Wes and Merrily took their children all over the United States, from local historic spots to national parks, as well as resorts in Hawaii. After their children had left home, they continued to travel, from cross-country drives to visit friends and family, to a cruise in Alaska. One of Wes’ proud accomplishments was having visited almost every state in the US.

Wes also loved his family dearly. Anyone who knew him for more than 10 minutes would have already heard proud stories of his children’s accomplishments. When his children were younger, he became very active in their Boy Scout troop, serving for years as Troop 104’s Committee Chairman. Once his sons were older, he and Merrily eagerly attended many of Matthew’s track meets and Keith’s musician gigs. Once he had grandchildren – eventually 6 of them – Wes loved seeing and playing with them, both at home and in the family’s beach house in Brigantine, NJ.

And that shore house was the place Wes loved to be most of all. He and Merrily rebuilt a small shore house into a vacation home that could fit them as well as their adult children and families. He loved time spent with them and with close friends at the beach. Wes had a lifelong love of the ocean, and could often be found body surfing or boogie boarding – either alone or with his kids and grandkids.

Wes was a devout member of the Methodist church, a member of both Wayne UMC and Grace UMC Wyckoff, where he again made lasting friendships. He raised his children in the church, and was active in bible study and other church activities. Through his church, Wes became devoted to helping those less fortunate. He served for many years as a board member of CUMAC food bank in Paterson, NJ; both he and Merrily spent much time volunteering there. Wes also volunteered building houses for Habitat for Humanity.

Wes had many other loves besides those as well. He loved watching sports, in particular football and golf. He was a lifelong handyman, tinkering and repairing his own home and later his children’s. And finally, he loved meeting new people, making friends wherever he went. Everyone he met soon knew Wes for his outgoing personality and love of helping friends and neighbors. He will be missed by all who had the fortune of knowing him.

Wes is survived by his wife, Merrily; his brother Wayne and sister-in-law Merry; his sons Keith and Matthew, and daughters-in-law Vicky and Maya; and his six grandchildren: Travis, June, Miles, Mira, Daphne, and Fern.

In lieu of flowers, donations to CUMAC: Feeding People, Changing Lives in Wes’ name would be greatly appreciated.

Wesley Winkler

May 12, 2025

Riverdale

Louis A. Vanzini, age 90, of Wayne passed on Monday, May 12, 2025.

Louis was born to Frank and Erminia Vanzini in the family home at 124 Grassy Plain Street in Bethel, Connecticut. Raised in Bethel, he graduated from Bethel High School in 1952, where he served as Class President. Louis pursued higher education at the University of Connecticut, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Following his studies, Louis served in the United States Army, where he was stationed overseas in several countries. His service was marked by dedication, and he achieved the “Marksman” designation before being honorably discharged on August 31, 1963, upon completing his reserve obligation.

Louis built a successful career as an engineer, working for various companies before establishing his own business, P.C. Drilling, in 1972. Originally based in Paterson, New Jersey, the company later relocated to Fairfield. For three decades, Louis led the company with integrity and expertise until his son, Mark, assumed leadership in 2002. Under new management, the company evolved, merging with partners to become PCR Technologies, now located in Pine Brook, New Jersey.

Louis was a man of quiet brilliance, a steady presence whose intelligence and reliability were matched only by his subtle, quick wit. Beneath his reserved demeanor was a man of immense integrity, someone whose word was his bond and whose actions always aligned with his values. An avid snow skier and golfer, Louis found joy both on the slopes and fairways, but it was in his garage workshop that his true talents shined. With a natural gift for craftsmanship, he transformed raw wood into beautiful furniture, from intricate toy boxes and charming rocking horses for his grandchildren to custom fencing that framed his home with care. There was little he couldn’t fix, his hands skilled and his mind ever resourceful. Beyond his woodworking, Louis possessed a remarkable artistic flair, creating stunning paintings that revealed his keen eye for detail and beauty, a quiet testament to his boundless creativity.

He was the loving husband of the late Maureen Vanzini (d. 2022) and the mother of his children Beverlee Vanzini of Budd Lake; he was the devoted father of Mark Vanzini and his wife Lisa of Wayne, and Matthew Vanzini and his wife Jane of Somerset, and his step children Christopher Cerrina and his wife Elisa of Tuscaloosa, AL, and Terry Davis and her husband Terry of Park Ridge; he was the cherished grandfather of Louis, Christian, Julia, Christopher, Emily and Lindsay; he was the loved brother of Diana Wellman of Newtown, CT; and devoted uncle of Kyle Wellman and Parris Wellman.

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Flowers or memorial donations would be greatly appreciated. For those interested in making a memorial donation please consider St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the Michael J Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research.

Louis A. Vanzini

May 12, 2025

Sandra J. Coyle, age 80, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, May 9, 2025.

The second of five children and the only daughter of Harold and Grace (Ruuth) Coyle, Sandy was born in Paterson and raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, NJ. She graduated from DePaul High School, Wayne, NJ, Class of 1962, and went on to complete her education at Berkeley Secretarial School in West Paterson, graduating with honors.

Sandy’s first job after graduating from Berkeley was with an insurance agency in Montclair.

Following her marriage and the blessing of a daughter and three sons, Sandy devoted the formative years of her children’s lives to being a loving mother and homemaker. Once her children gained a measure of independence, she reentered the workforce in 1991 as a secretary at the Federated Department Stores headquarters in Totowa. Her flair for efficiency, accuracy, and organizational skill quickly led to a series of promotions, culminating in her role as Executive Secretary to the Vice President of Field Logistics. She retired in 2001.

Sandy met her future husband, Edward Coyle, through one of Ed’s coworkers. While in college, Ed worked part-time at Grand Way Grocery, where a coworker excitedly told him about a girl she knew who happened to share his last name. After several attempts to meet—delayed because Sandy was busy babysitting her three younger brothers—the two finally went on a date. Her name was Sandra Coyle, and that first Sunday afternoon trip to Asbury Park launched a wonderful relationship and an even more extraordinary marriage that would span over 61 years.

After just eight months of dating, Ed proposed to Sandy at a boat basin marina on the Hudson River. With her radiant smile, Sandy said yes, and together they began planning their wedding. Her father had one condition: Sandy couldn’t marry until she was at least twenty. So, two days after her twentieth birthday, Sandy and Ed exchanged vows before God, family, and friends on Saturday, September 19, 1964, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Sandy’s hometown of Wayne. Their reception was held at the Friar Tuck Inn in Clifton, and they honeymooned at Elbow Beach in Bermuda. That trip almost took a tragic turn when Sandy, unfamiliar with driving on the left side of the road, accidentally steered her moped into oncoming traffic!

The newlyweds began their life together in an apartment above Ed’s parents’ home in Elmwood Park, on 18 Church Street. In 1969, they moved into their brand-new home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, built on a cul-de-sac with four family homes next to each other along with Ed’s parents and two sisters and brother in laws. At one point, Sandy even petitioned the town to rename their road to “Coyle Way.” Though the effort was unsuccessful, it demonstrated her trademark tenacity.

Sandy and Ed remained in their Packanack Lake home to the present day. It was the perfect place to raise their four children, who enjoyed a warm and structured upbringing. Sandy ran a tight but loving household. Dinner was served daily at 4:30 PM sharp, and on Sundays at 5:00 PM, the Coyles were always at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church—often followed by a family trip to Hardie’s for hot dogs. A resourceful mother, Sandy was always ready to support her children. When algebra posed a challenge, she taught herself the subject so she could teach them. Her children knew they couldn’t get away with much, but they also knew how deeply she loved them—because she told them so every day.

Family vacations were filled with joyful memories. Each summer, Sandy and Ed took their family to Wildwood Crest, staying at the Pan American in Room 114. Fresh donuts from Packanack Bakery sweetened the two-and-a-half-hour drive. In later years, they enjoyed time at their condo in Ocean City, NJ, and wintered at Sugar Creek Country Club in Bradenton, Florida.

Sandy’s unwavering faith in God was the foundation of her life and informed all her most important decisions. Since 1969, she was a devoted parishioner at Immaculate Heart of Mary R.C. Church. A true prayer warrior, she prayed E-V-E-R-Y D-A-Y for everything and everyone. Despite her fiery spirit, she had a heart full of compassion. Who else but Sandy would give mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to her son’s dog during a seizure? And who else but Ed would happen to drive by at that exact moment—and keep on driving in classic, humorous Ed fashion?

Sandy’s love for Christmas was legendary. Each year, she sang “Happy Birthday” to Jesus on Christmas Day and hosted Ed’s family on Christmas Eve and her own on Christmas Day—nearly thirty years in a row.

She also had a cherished relationship with her favorite soap opera, The Young and the Restless. Watching it was sacred—no interruptions allowed. Her devotion to the show earned her nicknames like “Marge” and “The Duchess” from her kids.

Sandy will be remembered for countless reasons. Spirited and driven, she set high standards for herself and encouraged others to be their best. A true Energizer Bunny, she wouldn’t rest until she had walked at least 10,000 steps each day. She was a fighter—for her family, her beliefs, and even her cable bill, which she was disputing with Optimum just days before her passing.

To Sandy, her family extended beyond her immediate circle. Her daughters-in-law were daughters in her eyes, and she maintained strong friendships from her DePaul High School days.

The world was truly a better place with Sandy in it. Her legacy lives on in all those she touched.

Sandra was the beloved wife of Edward Coyle, with whom she shared 61 blessed years of marriage. She was the devoted mother of Cathy Lynn Coyle of Wayne; Ryan P. Coyle and wife Nancy of Wayne; Mark Coyle and wife Carla of Wayne; and Greg Coyle and wife Lara of Wayne. She was the cherished grandmother of Brittany (Jonathan), Ryan (Emma), Taylor (Zach), Nick (Olivia), Canon (Hannah), Tommy (Carla), Mackenzie, and Chelsea; the proud great-grandmother of Jaxon; and the dear sister of Harold “Buzz” Coyle of South Jersey, Ken Coyle and wife Ginger of Tempe, Arizona, Doug Coyle and wife Donna of North Carolina, and Wayne Coyle and wife Sissy of South Jersey. She is also lovingly remembered by numerous nieces and nephews. Sandy was predeceased by her parents, Harold and Grace (Ruuth) Coyle.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy in Sandy’s memory may consider a donation to one of the following charitable organizations:

Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center

P.O. Box 5028

Hagerstown, MD 21741-5028

To download a mailable form CLICK HERE

John Theurer Cancer Center

c/o Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

92 2nd Street

Hackensack, NJ 07601

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Sandra J. Coyle

Sandra J. Coyle

May 9, 2025

🌹 A Celebration of the Life of Joan Maiello 🌹

“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.”

Heaven gained an angel. Earth lost a soul who breathed love into the very air she touched. Joan Maiello was not just a mother, a sister, or a friend—she was a radiant force of love, sacrifice, and joy in human form.

Even at 72, Joan carried a zest for life that danced through every conversation, every moment, and every memory she helped create. She lived not from the world, but for the people in it. And when we say she loved? She chose love. Daily. Intentionally. Endlessly.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Frank—her partner in all things; her cherished son Robert, whose memory she kept alive with every breath; and her parents, Doris and Wilbur, whose hearts surely greeted her at Heaven’s gates.

She is survived by her devoted daughter, Nicole Maiello, a reflection of her strength and spirit, and her loving sister, Patricia Powers.

Her friends and classmates became her chosen family—faithful friends from as far back as four years old. Through every season of life, they stood strong by her side. And in her final days, they wrapped Joan’s daughter in fierce, faithful love—as if she were their own, as if Joan were their sister. That’s not just friendship—that’s forever. That’s the power of belonging, built through decades of devotion, unbreakable bonds, and deep, enduring love.

And it didn’t stop there. Joan’s world pulsed with a vibrant crew of volleyball teammates—bound by a rhythm as timeless as the tides—and former colleagues who transformed into chosen family. Joan was the epicenter of joy, warmth, inclusion, and belonging. She didn’t just create community—she embodied it.

Her love was felt across rooms, through the thickest of walls, beyond the borders of time and space. She brought joy to strangers. She gave kindness without condition. She lit up every room not just with her presence, but with the presence she gave others.

How do you put into words a woman whose impact is felt in silent tears and unfillable space? You don’t. You feel her. You live her legacy. You become her ripple.

We believe in what she believed—that this is not the end. That love does not die. That her spirit is not gone but ascended. Joan hasn’t left us. She’s loving us from a more soulful place. She's still choosing family. Still choosing love. First. Always.

So this is not goodbye. This is farewell for now. Until we meet again.

To honor Joan Maiello is to love with all your heart. To protect with all your might. To laugh like it’s your last day. To give when you have nothing left. To celebrate the people you’re gifted with—and never take one breath of that gift for granted.

She walks now with the angels who missed her dearly—Frank, Robert, Doris, Wilbur. And somewhere beyond this world, they’re laughing, embracing, and saying, “Welcome home.”

Joan Maiello didn’t just leave this world better than she found it. She redefined what better looks like.

And if we could choose family? We’d still choose her.

Joan Maiello

May 5, 2025

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Elaine M Mingo (nee Tibus), age 90, of Wayne passed away peacefully at home on Monday, May 5, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Elaine M Mingo was born in Clifton, NJ and attended Clifton schools. She graduated Passaic General Hospital School of Nursing and attended Providence Lying-In Hospital in Rhode Island for post graduate study in obstetrics.

An active volunteer in Wayne Township all her life, she coached PAL and Our Lady of the Valley cheerleading squads and was the editor of the PAL newsletter. She worked in crisis intervention at the Wayne Counseling Center and was a member of the medical team for Special Olympics. For 18 years, Elaine was an active member of the Wayne First Aid Squad and as an exempt member continued to volunteer on the fund drive committee.

Our Lady of the Valley Parish in Wayne, was blessed with Elaine’s membership since the 1960s. She regularly prepared meals for Eva’s Kitchen and participated in the Cornerstone Women’s Retreats. Her love of knitting and crocheting inspired her to start the church’s Prayer Shawl Ministry more than 20 years ago. In 2015, she received The Vivere Christus Award in recognition of her outstanding and faithful service.

Elaine started her nursing career at Passaic General Hospital. For 20 years she was employed by Hospital Nurses Registry doing private duty, and was a staff nurse at Little Sisters of the Poor in Totowa until she retired.

She was predeceased by her husband of 41 years, James A. Mingo, of Wayne, NJ; her father and mother, John and Mary Tibus of Clifton, NJ; and her brother, John D. Tibus of Springdale, Utah.

Surviving is a loving and devoted family. Sons James G. Mingo of Wayne, NJ; Gerard J. Mingo of Wayne, NJ, partner Donna Cahill, and grandsons Michael and Matthew. Daughters Christine Mingo Byrd and grandson Justin of PA; Marianne Mingo Hazzard, husband Thomas and grandsons Jonathan and Joshua of Lake Worth, FL.

More than anything, Elaine loved the Lord, her family, friends, and neighborhood - with all her heart and soul. She was a giver! If you stopped by her home, which was always open and welcoming, you’d likely find her knitting, share a few laughs, and she would definitely try to feed you. She loved to cook, had a great sense of humor, and always put others first.

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In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Wayne First Aid Squad.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed. Please click the link below to watch livestream.

Elaine M. Mingo

May 5, 2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Judith A Kloo (nee Kieck), age 72, of Wayne, NJ.

Judith was born in Jersey City and raised in Secaucus, NJ. She was one of two children of George and Violet Kieck. While growing up in Secaucus, Judith attended Holy Family High School in Union City, NJ and graduated with the class of 1971. After graduating high school, Judy attended Jersey City State College in Jersey City for a couple of years.

In 1971 while at a relative’s wedding, Judy stood as a radiant bridesmaid, not knowing the day would change her life forever. She was paired with an usher, a young man named Chuck Kloo, a close friend of the groom. Judy initially exchanged only polite small talk. As the celebration unfolded, their connection blossomed into something more. They hit it off wonderfully and started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on Easter Sunday, April 14, 1974, Judy and Chuck exchanged wedding vows at Immaculate Conception Church in Secaucus surrounded by friends and family becoming husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Secaucus for a few years before moving to Wayne Township in 1977. While residing in Wayne, Judy and Chuck welcomed the birth of their one and only son, Matthew. Judy and Chuck called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together.

Shortly after getting married, Judy decided to become a full-time homemaker. Judy’s dedication to being a wife and mother was truly her calling and where she flourished. Those who knew Judy knew that her greatest passion was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Judy than providing for and spending time with her family. Judy discovered a new kind of joy with the addition of a “daughter” and especially when her grandchildren were born. In her grandchildren, Judy found not just delight, but a new sense of purpose. She treasured spending time with her grandchildren and spoiling them to no end. Throughout the years, Judy cherished hosting the holidays at her home, especially Christmas. Judy and Chuck recently celebrated an amazing fifty-one years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Judy was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Christian Faith. For many years she was an active member of the United Methodist Church in Wayne. Judy was a wonderfully social lady who could talk to anyone about anything. She and her husband Chuck owned a home in Naples, Florida where they would spend their winters. There, the couple spent countless afternoons and evenings with their friends and neighbors in front of their home eating, drinking and talking. Those who participated in the gatherings called it “Driveway Therapy.”

Judy will forever be remembered as an outgoing and compassionate lady who deeply loved her family and friends. She was a very special person who touched the lives of many people. She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Judy is survived by her husband Alfred “Chuck” Kloo of Wayne, NJ, son Matthew Kloo and his wife Tracy of Wayne, NJ, sister Patricia Beider and her fiancé James of Toms River, NJ, two grandchildren Braylee and Braeden Kloo both of Wayne, NJ, and many beloved extended family members. She was predeceased by her parents George and Violet Kieck of Secaucus, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Police Unity Tour in Judy’s name would be greatly appreciated.

Judith A. Kloo

May 1, 2025

Peter Mierop, age 87, of North Haledon, passed peacefully at home on Sunday, April 27, 2025.

He was born to Jacob and Elizabeth Mierop at the family home in Clifton. He was raised in Clifton and graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1955.

Pete began his working life early, delivering the Herald & News newspaper as a paperboy in Clifton. As he grew older, he took a job in the produce department of the Grand Union grocery store in town, where he developed a strong work ethic and a knack for customer service. Pete later transitioned into the trucking industry, working as a driver for Oppelaar & Meyer Trucking in Kearny, transporting goods with reliability and care. He went on to become a route man for the Frito-Lay Corporation in Little Falls, where he built lasting relationships with his clients. Eventually, Pete finished his career proudly serving Bergen and Passaic Counties as a trusted route man for Pepperidge Farm, known for his dedication, friendly demeanor, and commitment to doing the job right.

Pete’s life was a living testament to his deep faith and unwavering devotion to the Lord. A lifelong member of Hope Reformed Church in Clifton, he poured his heart into the church community that he loved so dearly. Over the years, Pete served in countless roles — as a deacon, elder, Sunday School teacher, Sunday School Superintendent, Youth Group leader, and Prayer Group leader — always leading with humility, kindness, and a servant’s heart. His quiet strength, compassionate guidance, and steadfast spirit left a lasting imprint on everyone he met. Pete didn’t just talk about his faith; he lived it daily, offering an enduring example of what it meant to walk closely with God.

Pete was a man whose deep faith shaped every part of his life. Outgoing, kind-hearted, and full of genuine warmth, he was always ready to lend a hand to anyone in need. If there was a job to be done or someone who needed help, Pete never hesitated — he simply jumped in without a second thought.

Pete met the love of his life, Karen Meyer, while working for her father at Opelaar & Meyer Trucking in Kearny. Their connection quickly grew into a deep and lasting love, and they were married on September 28, 1963, at Bethel Christian Reformed Church in Paterson. After their wedding, they set off for their honeymoon in Florida, driving Pete’s beloved 1959 white convertible Pontiac. Over the years, Pete and Karen built a strong, devoted marriage filled with love, laughter, and faith, celebrating sixty-one wonderful years together. Their life together was richly blessed with two daughters, Kimberly and Wendy, who were the joy of their hearts.

At home, Pete was like a real-life Dr. Dolittle, happily caring for a lively menagerie of pets. Over the years, he and his family shared their home with their beloved terrier, Muffin, as well as three cats, rabbits, fish, hamsters, a chameleon, and even a gerbil. Pete had a natural way with animals, showing them the same kindness, patience, and gentle spirit that he offered to everyone in his life.

Pete was the loving husband of sixty-one years to Karen (nee Meyer) Mierop; devoted father of Kimberly Veinberg and her husband Dima of North Haledon and Wendy DeWall and her husband Stephen of Newtown Square, PA; cherished grandfather of Anya Veinberg, Peter DeWall, Nathan DeWall, Elise DeWall, and Anna DeWall; and loving brother of Elizabeth Kranik, Bertha Bassani, and Jacob Mierop.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Pete’s memory may be made to: Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center, 297 Lafayette Avenue, Hawthorne.

Peter Mierop

April 27, 2025

North Haledon

Thomas P. Ayres

February 28, 1948 – April 26, 2025

Thomas P. Ayres, age 77, of Parsippany, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Saturday, April 26, 2025, surrounded by his loved ones.

Born to Raymond and Audrey Ayres at Wickersham Hospital in New York City, Tom grew up in the family home at 47-24 204th Street in Bayside, Queens. He graduated from Saint Helena’s High School in the Bronx with the Class of 1965. The commute to high school and after-school jobs left little time for sports. Still, Tom played catcher for a Catholic Youth Organization (CYO) baseball team. In his senior year, he formed his own Police Athletic League (PAL) team with friends, proudly helping them win the 1965 Queens County Championship for their age group.

Following high school, Tom answered the call to serve his country, enlisting in the United States Marine Corps. He served honorably, attaining the rank of Sergeant and receiving the Good Conduct Medal and the National Defense Service Medal. His sense of discipline, loyalty, and quiet strength would be hallmarks of his life.

After his military service, Tom pursued his education at night and on weekends while working full time, first at Western Connecticut State College (now University) and then at The New School in New York City. There, he earned both his bachelor’s and master’s degrees focusing on Human Resources (HR) - a testament to his self-driven spirit, desire to succeed, and unwavering commitment to providing for his family.

Tom’s professional journey was as hardworking and honest as he was. He started working as a boy with humble jobs — mucking out stalls at Bayside Stables, hauling stacks of Long Island Star Journal on his paper route, bringing home the meat as a delivery boy for “Pete’s” Meat, and hustling as a messenger at the Equitable Life Assurance Company. After his time in the Marines, he joined Xerox Corporation as a service technician, eventually working his way up to become Personnel Operations Manager for the New York Region. His HR career continued to evolve at CYRO Industries, which was ultimately acquired by Evonik Industries in Parsippany, where he rose to the position of Vice President of Human Resources for North America. He retired in January 2011 after a long and distinguished career, respected for his leadership, fairness, wisdom, and unwavering work ethic.

Tom was known for his serious demeanor, but beneath it lay a wry sense of humor and an endless repertoire of "dad jokes" that he delivered with perfect timing. He had a deep appreciation for life’s simple pleasures: photographing quiet moments, tending his roses, reading on the back deck, and hitting the greens as a longtime member — and former board member — of Newton Country Club. He also loved to travel, embracing each new place with a sense of wonder and gratitude.

A natural mentor, Tom guided countless young professionals with patience and encouragement. Outside the office, he shared his love of sports with the next generation, coaching and managing the Morris County Dynamo soccer teams. Both on and off the field, he inspired others through his steady leadership and kind heart.

Tom truly shined in his role as a grandfather, a chapter of life he cherished deeply. After retirement, he became a “professional grandpa,” eagerly cheering from the sidelines, capturing photos of milestones and special events, hosting sleepovers, organizing holiday celebrations, and creating memories that his grandchildren will carry forever.

After years of companionship and love, Tom recently married his beloved Marie Armenio on April 17, 2025. He was the proud and devoted father of Thomas Ayres and his wife Jennifer of Milltown; Sherry Ayres of Jersey City; and MaryAlice Ayres of Wharton. He was the adored grandfather of Fiona Marin-Ayres, Brady Ayres, Alaura Ayres, Jordyn Ayres, and Savannah Budinger.

Tom also leaves behind his loving siblings: Raymond P. Ayres, Jr. and his wife Linda of St. Marys, GA; Nancy Pricci and her husband William of Amityville, NY; Patricia Harford of Patchogue, NY; Michael Ayres and his wife Leslie of Marietta, GA; and Mary Beth Daly and her husband Bill of Kings Park, NY. His many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends will forever remember his steadfast love, sharp wit, and generous spirit.

In place of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Lustgarten Foundation in Tom’s honor, supporting the fight against pancreatic cancer — a cause close to the family's heart.

Tom's life was a beautiful example of quiet strength, deep loyalty, and steadfast love. His legacy will live on in every life he touched.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Lustgarten Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed.

Thomas Ayres

April 26, 2025

Parsippany

Hans Ruffler, age 88, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 25, 2025.

Hans was born in Heilbronn, Germany, the third of four children and the only son to his parents, Karl and Else (née Rechkemmer) Ruffler. The Ruffler family lived in a house in the city center, above the family’s furniture store and upholstery rooms.

Hans’ grandfather, Karl Ruffler, had left Germany for the United States in the 1870s and become a U.S. citizen in 1878, but then returned to Germany and opened the furniture store in the mid-1880s.

In 1944, the Ruffler family’s house was destroyed during a bombing of the city center. Hans’ father was killed, and his mother and the four children, sheltering in the basement during the bombing, eventually found refuge outside of the city. After living in multiple temporary locations, the family rebuilt their house and business.

The Rufflers lived near the Neckar River, where Hans swam often. He and his friends once built a raft from scraps they found along the river bank. They toiled many hours. When they finally floated down the river, they realized they had forgotten to account for the current making it impossible to come back. The friends abandoned their raft and resigned to a long walk home.

Hans’ love for adventure was undeterred. As a teenager, he and his friends went on weeklong excursions to Switzerland by bicycle. In his teen years, he also developed a lifelong love of photography, inspired by his father.

During high school, students were encouraged to have an American pen pal. Hans became pen pals with a girl living in Mesa, Arizona. They stayed in contact long after high school.

After graduating, Hans completed a three-year apprenticeship to prepare him to take over the family business. However, plans changed, and in 1957 he followed his sister Eva to the United States instead, landing jobs such as surveyor’s helper and Bond Bread salesman, making early morning deliveries and singing as he drove. (To his surprise, he found out much later that his customers could hear him and had dubbed him the “singing bread man”.)

Hans’ American pen pal’s parents owned a swimming pool business in Mesa. They invited Hans to come and work for them, and he was ready for a new adventure. In Arizona, Hans spent his free time exploring the surroundings in his first car, a Studebaker, marveling at the landscape so different from what he knew.

Hans’ mother, stepfather, and younger sister, Ute, arrived in New Jersey in 1959. His mother sent him a plane ticket to return to New Jersey. Shortly thereafter, he was inducted into the Army and went to basic training at Camp Kilmer, where officers encouraged him to pursue higher education.

After an honorable discharge, Hans began working at Warner-Lambert Pharmaceutical Company in Morris Plains. He enrolled at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison, attending classes at night over the next twelve years and graduating with a B.S. in Marketing and, ultimately, an MBA.

As if he weren’t busy enough during those years, he found time to fall in love with a fellow immigrant, from Sweden, Gunnel (née Larsson), who also worked in the International Division of Warner Lambert. In 1966, they married and held their reception at Germania Park, Dover. They then settled into a garden apartment in Parsippany and over the next few years, they welcomed their daughters Lisa and Susan.

In 1971, Hans took a job with American Cyanamid in Wayne and the family moved to Packanack Lake. The house at 1 Sunset Terrace was a dream come true for the couple. Hans was thrilled to have a workshop in the basement, where he made bookshelves, a toy chest, candlesticks, and later on an incredible dollhouse with handmade furniture. He built a work bench for his girls and introduced them to woodworking. (Much later, he also built a playhouse for the girls, “1½ Sunset Terrace,” from scraps after a renovation project. The playhouse was eventually taken over by his grandchildren. It is still there!)

The family joined the Packanack Community Church, where Hans and Gunnel made lifelong friendships and Hans sang in the church choir, served as a trustee, and helped wherever he could lend a hand.

Hans and Gunnel welcomed a third daughter, Heidi, in 1974.

In February 1979, the Rufflers moved to Gosport, England after Hans accepted a transfer, which lasted until the summer of 1980. The family then returned to their treasured home in Packanack Lake, which had been rented out.

In 1982, Hans accepted a position with Luitpold Pharma, a pharmaceutical company in Munich, Germany. This lasted until 1999, when the company was acquired by a Japanese company, Sankyo GMBH, and Hans retired.

One of Hans’ countless highlights of being back in Germany was reconnecting with his German relatives, including his older sister, Inge, who had stayed in Germany, and her family. He went on many mountain climbing weekend trips with two cousins also named Hans, a cause of confusion when the two other fellows would call out “Hans” and all three responded.

One other highlight was the family’s cabin in Sweden, where Hans used his skills and strength, felling trees and building a stone path when Gunnel asked for one.

Other highlights included making a great group of friends and enjoying an active lifestyle, skiing in the Alps, hiking, learning to play the guitar, and traveling. Hans also developed a love of cooking, exploring many German recipes and keeping track in the margins of his cookbooks of the date and how well the recipe turned out. (Almost all, “very good!”)

After retirement, Hans and Gunnel once again returned to their home in Packanack Lake and were welcomed back warmly by their friends and family. Hans re-joined the church choir and took up watercolor painting with a group of friends at the Packanack Lake Clubhouse. He also loved playing tennis and enjoyed a variety of classes at the Center for Lifelong Learning at Kinnelon Library.

Hans and Gunnel welcomed numerous grandchildren: Alexandra and bonus granddaughter Sarah, Markus, Mia, Annika, and Matteo. The grandchildren were introduced to German nursery rhymes and songs by their Opa (grandfather in German). In time, family members couldn’t help but notice several of Opa’s traits among the grandkids, including athleticism, music, art, curiosity, mischievousness, interest in cooking and sharing food, and a love for nature.

In 2020, Hans and Gunnel sold their beloved home in Packanack Lake and moved to Cedar Crest. The pandemic had just started. In spite of restrictions, Hans and Gunnel were lucky to start playing bocce and meet fellow residents that summer.

Eventually, hiking, gardening, exercise classes, and pickle ball became part of their daily lives. Last summer, Hans had a chance to show some of his watercolor paintings at Cedar Crest, an occasion for an extended family gathering. Time seemed to pass faster than ever.

Hans is survived by Gunnel, his wife of 59 years, daughters Lisa, Susan (Andrew), and Heidi, grandchildren Alexandra, Sarah, Markus, Mia, Annika, and Matteo, his sister Ute Morris, many nieces and nephews, and friends in the U.S., Germany, Sweden, U.K., and Portugal.

For those unable to attend in person, the ceremony will be live-streamed at https://www.youtube.com/@packanackcommunitychurch/streams.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Hans’ name to the Packanack Community Church or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Hans Ruffler

April 25, 2025

Virginia A. Bailey NEE Nazzaro, Age 74, of Pequannock NJ passed away on Wednesday April 23, 2025.

Virginia was born in Paterson to Dr. Rocco and Pearline Nazzaro, the second of five siblings. She grew up in Wayne NJ, attending Wayne schools and graduated from Wayne Valley High School's Class of 1968. She extended her education at The Wilfred Academy.

She worked at various clerical jobs until being employed by New Jersey Bell Telephone Company in Morristown.

She was married to Christopher Bailey and was blessed with a son, Anthony. She leaves behind a son, Anthony Bailey, his wife Heather and two grandsons, Austin and Kyle. Her siblings, Rocco Nazzaro and his wife Dorothy, Kathleen Stanicki and her husband Gary, Loretta Maloney and her husband Martin, Lou Nazzaro and his wife Eileen and five nephews and a niece.

She was loved by all and will be dearly missed.

Virginia Bailey

April 23, 2025

Pequannock

Patricia “Pat” (nee Lazzaro) Santana, age 71, of Wayne for thirteen years and previously of Clifton, passed Friday, April 18, 2025.

She was born to Salvatore and Theresa Lazzaro in Passaic and raised in Clifton. Pat graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1972.

Pat worked as a data processor for entire working career. First for the ADP Corporation on Market Street in Paterson, then the UPS Corporation in Parsippany, and finally the GAF Corporation first in Wayne and later in Parsippany before retiring in 2018.

Pat met the love of her life, Benjamin “Ben” Santana, at the Dealer’s Inn on Main Avenue in Paterson. Apparently, Ben’s language was a little salty and Pat called him out for it. That was their first encounter. It was soon followed up by a formal date for dinner at the Jade Fountain in Clifton. They fell in love and decided to spend the rest of their lives together. Benny and Pat exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, September 8, 1979 at St. John Kanty Church on Speer Avenue in Clifton Pat was just out of high school. Everyone celebrated the marriage at a reception at the Athenia Veteran’s Post at 147 Huron Avenue in Clifton. Afterwards, the newlyweds set off for their honeymoon to Virginia Beach, Virginia. After the honeymoon, the first place they called home was a first-floor apartment at 193 Ludington Avenue in Clifton. From there they moved into a first-floor apartment in a four-family home at 227 Speer Avenue in Clifton that was owned by Pat’s mother. In 2010 Ben and Pat moved to Wayne.

Pat was truly a one-of-a-kind person, a vibrant spirit with a personality that could light up any room. Her love for music was evident in her adoration for The Beatles and Phil Collins, and her caring nature made her a beloved friend to many. A lifelong cat lover, she formed deep bonds with her furry companions, especially Nika and Jordan, though she welcomed numerous feline friends throughout the years. Pat enjoyed her evenings, engrossed in her favorite TV shows like Survivor, The Andy Griffith Show, 48 Hours, Court TV, and various programs on the Lifetime Channel. In the kitchen, she was a culinary wizard, whipped up delicious sausage, lasagna, savory pastas, and delightful baked goods, including her famous Rum Balls and all kinds of Italian specialties. However, despite her love for cooking there was one dish that she could never bring herself to enjoy: spaghetti, which she humorously dismissed as looking too much like worms. Pat’s unique quirks and boundless affection left a lasting impression on those who had the pleasure of knowing her.

Pat was the loving wife of wife of forty-five years to the late Benjamin Santana (d. 2024); she was the loved sister of Vincent Consalvo of Beverly Hills, FL and his late wife Penny (d. 2021); she was also dearly loved by her in-laws, Juana Santana of Clifton, the late Patrick Santana (d. 2005), Monte Santana, Jr. and his wife Barbara of Clifton, and Maria and Hector Lopez of Clifton; she was the cherished aunt of Monte Santana, III and his wife Ashley and Vincent Santana and Nina Ibarria.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Patricia Santana

John David (Jack) Coleman, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 18, 2025.

Jack was born in southern New Jersey, in the town of Matawan. He was the second of two sons born to Edward J. and Agnes (Shields) Coleman and was raised in the family home at 308 Montgomery Street in Jersey City.

A proud member of the Class of 1950, John graduated from Ferris High School before continuing his education at St. Peter’s College in Jersey City. Determined and hardworking, he paid his own way through college and earned his bachelor’s degree before being called to serve in the United States Army. From 1956 to 1958, he trained in Ft. Lee Virginia and deployed to Korea where he served his country honorably. While there, he meticulously photo journaled his experiences.

Jack began his professional career with Equitable Life Insurance Company, where he was fortunate to receive early IBM computer training - a fortuitous opportunity that launched him into a long and successful career in the emerging world of technology. As a programmer and systems analyst, he contributed his expertise to several well-known companies, including Union Camp, ABC, Western Union, Otis Elevator, Nasdaq, American Express (in the World Trade Center), ADP and finally, Computer Horizons, where he worked until his retirement in the mid 1990s.

It was at Equitable Life that John met a young woman named Patricia Prior. Though his job would change, his heart stayed with Pat. The two fell in love and were married on Saturday, September 12, 1959, in a church in Jersey City. They began their life together in Jersey City on Varick Street before moving across town to 112 Duncan Avenue. In 1968, they made a lasting move to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they raised their three sons and shared a loving marriage that spanned 63 years until Pat’s passing in February 2023.

Outside of work, Jack was a devoted family man. A loving and involved father, he poured his energy into raising his sons, creating lasting memories of pickup basketball games and family bike rides. He was an amateur artist and known for his corny Dad jokes. An avid self-taught handyman, he often spent time working on his cars and home repairs. As a grandfather, he cherished every moment spent with his four grandsons and three granddaughters, always offering kindness, wisdom, and warmth.

John was the beloved husband of the late Patricia (Prior) Coleman; the loving father of John R. Coleman and his wife Robin of Wayne, Robert Coleman and his wife Irene of Butler, and Martin Coleman and his wife Christine of Clifton; the proud grandfather of John Coleman III and his wife Lina, Emily Coleman, Marjorie Coleman, Christopher Coleman, Thomas Coleman, Maura Coleman, and Brian Coleman; the adoring great-grandfather of Jameson and Raelynn; and the dear brother of the late Edward Coleman.

John “Jack” Coleman

John Matysik Jr., age 82, of Wayne passed on Friday, April 18, 2025 after an illness.

John was born on May 31, 1942, the oldest of John and Genevieve Matysik's three children. John grew up in Clifton, NJ and graduated from Clifton High School. John was drafted into the Army during the Vietnam War. He was honorably discharged in March of 1966.

John was quiet and humble and had the strongest work ethic of anyone you could ever meet. John worked as a tool and die maker in various machine shops for most of his life. His daughter recalls many years of her childhood where her father would work 10 hours a day, 6 days a week, standing in a hot machine shop. Despite those conditions, he rarely missed a day of work. Yearly summer vacations took place in Seaside Heights, NJ. The family also took trips to Washington, DC and Disney World. After his son-in-law Anthony passed away in 2009, John immediately went back into "dad mode" and made sure Heather, Krystian and AJ always had the help they needed. John and Eleanor even moved in with Heather and the kids for the first year after Anthony's passing.

John could fix just about anything and was always the first call Heather made when something broke at the house (which was often). John took great pride in his lawn, which was often described as a "mattress". John also spent nearly 16 years taking care of the lawn at Heather's house and taking care of the pool. Every Sunday morning John would go grocery shopping and bring bagels to Heather and the kids and ham for his grand-dog, JJ. John took up skiing when Heather was younger because she wanted to ski like her friends. After a few years, Heather decided she didn't like being cold and quit but John continued to ski for many years, into his 70's. In recent years John began going to Reloaderz where he enjoyed his new hobby of target shooting. The employees got to know him very well and even got him a cake and sang happy birthday to him a few years ago.

John was introduced to the love of his life, Eleanor, by a friend. The two dated shortly before John was drafted into the Army. They wrote letters to each other while he was away and when he returned from the Army he proposed. John and Eleanor were married on September 22, 1968 at Sacred Heart RC Church in Bloomfield. After their honeymoon in Niagara Falls, John and Eleanor settled in Belleville. John and Eleanor welcomed their daughter, Heather, on October 7, 1976 and a few months later moved to Wayne, where John continued to reside in the same home until his passing. John and Eleanor enjoyed nearly 45 years of a devoted marriage until Eleanor's passing in 2013. John's greatest pride and joy were his grandchildren, Krystian and AJ. He would tell everyone he met, from the cashier at Stop and Shop to the hospital and rehab staff, all about them. He attended every school event that he could and enjoyed taking them for ice cream and to Dave and Busters.

John was predeceased by his wife Eleanor in 2013, his sister Elizabeth in 2024 and his son-in-law Anthony in 2009. He will be deeply missed by his daughter Heather, grandchildren Krystian and AJ Lanza, brother Ralph and his wife Phyllis, nieces and nephews PJ (Kim), Maryanne, Ron (Kim) and Doug (Erin), the Lanza family and many other extended family members, friends and neighbors.

John Matysik

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arnold Raquet, age 93, of Wayne, NJ.

Arnold passed away peacefully on Friday, April 18, 2025. Arnold was born and raised in New York City and was one of two children to Andrew and Anna Raquet. While growing up in New York, Arnold attended Brooklyn High School of Automotive Trades.

Following his high school graduation with the class of 1950, Arnold found employment quickly with W. & J. Sloane. There he was hired as a delivery truck driver. Arnold worked for W. & J. Sloane for more than thirty years until the company’s closing. After W. & J. Sloane closed its doors, Arnold took a position with the Township of Wayne. Throughout the years, Arnold held several positions with Wayne Township and eventually became a Water Pollution Control Plant Operator. This was the position Arnold held until his retirement in 2010.

In the mid 1950’s, Arnold agreed to go on a blind date with a young attractive woman by the name of Gloria Wisloh. The two hit it off great and started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 29, 1956 the two exchanged wedding vows surrounded by family and friends and became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Brooklyn after first getting married and then moved to Wayne, NJ. While living in Wayne, they welcomed the birth of their one and only daughter, Evelyn. Arnold and Gloria raised their daughter in Wayne and called it their home for the rest of their lives together.

Arnold enjoyed tinkering with all sorts of machinery and electronics and could fix and build just about anything. He also never lost interest in cars, he treasured working on and maintaining his automobiles throughout his life. One of his favorite cars he owned was his pink and black 1957 Buick. In 2005, a truly special event occurred for the Raquet family. The Norway Spruce tree on the Raquet family’s property was selected to be the Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center in New York City.

Aside from all of Arnold’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Arnold than providing for and spending time with his friends and family. Arnold and his wife Gloria cherished over forty-six years of loving and loyal marriage until Gloria’s passing in 2003

Arnold was a man of few words, known for his quiet stubbornness and tendency to keep to himself. He wasn't the type to seek out conversation or spend time in crowds. Those who took the time to look past his reserved nature discovered something unexpected. He had a warm, thoughtful side marked by loyalty and kindness. Beneath his tough exterior was a man who cared deeply for family and friend.

Arnold will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people. He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Arnold is survived by his daughter Evelyn Zerenner and her husband Steve of Newark, DE, two grandchildren: Michael Zerenner, and Kaitlyn Zerenner both of Newark, DE. He was predeceased by his wife Gloria Raquet in 2003 and by his brother Robert Raquet.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Arnold’s name may be made to the Friends of Wayne Animal Shelter PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470

Arnold Raquet

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Agostino V. Rottino, age 84, of Wayne, NJ. He was known by all family and friends as Augie.

Augie was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ and was the only child of Anthony and Antoinette Rottino.

One of Augie’s first jobs as a young 5-year old boy was scooping Italian ice in his grandfather’s deli. Then at the age of 15 he started cutting hair at his father’s barber shop. Augie went to barber school and obtained a legal license to cut hair.

He attended St. Aloysius High School in Jersey City graduating with the class of 1959. Upon graduating Augie enrolled at St. Peter’s University located in Jersey City where he earned his Bachelor's Degree. Augie found work quickly after graduating from college and accepted a position as an economics teacher with Snyder High in Jersey City. Later, after establishing his career as a teacher, Augie earned his Master’s Degree in Education at Seton Hall University.

Augie was a dedicated teacher, known for his passion for helping others grow and succeed. After four years in the classroom, he felt a pull toward something new. Teaming up with a close friend who shared his entrepreneurial spirit, Augie co-founded the Commerce Employment Agency in Morristown, NJ. Their goal was to connect talented individuals with meaningful job opportunities. Augie and his partner owned and operated the business for more than ten years.

While the experience was rewarding and full of valuable lessons, Augie eventually felt a strong pull back to his roots. He returned to the field of education with a renewed sense of purpose. This time, he brought with him a wealth of real-world experience, which enriched his teaching and allowed him to connect with students more deeply. He accepted a position as the director of Project Coop in Newark, NJ. He also became the Business Administrator for the Board of Education in Lyndhurst and for Englewood Cliffs Board of Education. Later, Augie earned the positions of Superintendent and Business Administrator for the Leonia Board of Education. Augie would hold these positions until his retirement in 2005. The George Washington School in Leonia dedicated the Agostino V. Rottino Gymnatorium in 2005 to Augie’s legacy. Throughout his life and career, Augie owned and operated several businesses including The Breadbasket Deli and Hollar’s Restaurant in Clifton, NJ. In his retirement, he acted as a consultant to several boards of education in New Jersey including Little Ferry, Hasbrouck Heights, and Paterson. He was hired to oversee the building project of the George Washington School in Edgewater. Throughout his career, which spanned over fifty years, Augie was truly loved and well respected by his colleagues and his peers. Alongside his career, Augie was also on the Board of Directors at The Woods at Waterview Estates in Wayne, where he resided.

Augie and Mary Jane met in September of 1991 and formed a friendship that lasted forever. They moved in together in 2000, married, and lived happily in Wayne, NJ for 25 years. They had a loving and loyal marriage. Augie and Mary Jane enjoyed setting off on cruises to a variety of breathtaking destinations, each vacation bringing new adventures and cherished memories. Among all the places they visited, Aruba held a special place in their hearts.

Augie was a fan of the New York Yankees and the San Francisco 49ers. His greatest hobby was stamp collecting. He also had an obsession for following the New York Stock Exchange. Above all else, Augie’s greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Augie than spending time with and providing for his family.

Augie will forever be remembered as a dedicated educator, a loving and devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was truly a special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Augie is survived by his wife Mary Jane (nee Gallagher) of Wayne, NJ, his son Anthony Rottino of Toms River, NJ, two daughters: Alicia Johnson and her husband James of Green Pond, NJ and Denise Donohue and her husband Michael of Myrtle Beach, SC, six grandchildren; Kelly Sherin and her husband Alex of Hoboken, NJ. Michael Rottino and his wife Stefanie of Toms River, NJ, Matthew Rottino of Newark, DE, Jacquelyn Johnson of Green Pond, NJ, Julia Johnson of Green Pond, NJ and Michael Donohue of Cary, NC. Augie was predeceased by his parents Anthony and Antoinette Rottino.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed. To watch the livestream, please click on the link below.

https://ecatholic.live/I6y40566uVswWhCySGEuIssgRFMVtQHE/channels/1/event/1000/public/view?signature=22e6392aa86265376813592f37c3ee7c1ff5e53f53d9f9117142ed9db8ace767

In lieu of flowers, donations in Agostino’s name may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center or The Wounded Warrior Project

Agostino V. Rottino

April 17, 2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anna M. Froehner (nee Temple), age 101, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Anna passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 16, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family. Anna was born and raised in Secaucus, New Jersey, and her life took a tragic turn before she could even form memories. Her mother passed away when Anna was just a year and a half old. Left without a mother, she was taken in by her Aunt Ella, who raised her in an apartment above a well-known establishment named Mosie’s Tavern. Mosie’s Tavern was a local bar nestled in the heart of Secaucus. For the first few years of her life, Anna believed Ella was her mother, clinging to her with the trust and innocence only a child could offer. It wasn’t until she turned five that she discovered the truth. At five years old, Anna found out that the woman she called “mom” was actually her aunt. The revelation marked the beginning of a lifelong journey of self-discovery.

She attended A. J. Demarest high school in Hoboken graduating with the class of 1941. After graduating from high school, Aunt Ella handed her bus fare and told Anna to head down to the Social Security office in town where they would help getting a job. The Social Security Administration Office helped her by finding her a job as a secretary at a local insurance office.

On Anna’s second day at work a young handsome man by the name of Kenneth H. Froehner spotted Anna in the office window when getting off the bus. Anna previously met Ken at a church group meeting. The first night they met, Ken saw Anna from across the room and asked a mutual friend if he could meet her. When Anna found out, she went to the ladies’ room and hid there for the rest of the night! She was only fifteen and not allowed to date, but she admits that he was very handsome. Ken got off the bus, went into the office and spoke to her, inviting her to the movies. The two hit it off great and started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on May 27, 1944 at St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, they exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife surrounded by family and friends.

Since Ken was still serving in the US Navy, the newlyweds moved around a bit from Oregon to a naval base in Florida. Anna also lived with her in-laws for a short time in West New York, NJ. The couple also lived in Lakehurst where they welcomed their first born, their son Ken. Then, after moving to Dumont, NJ, the family welcomed their second son Gregg and their only daughter Dorell. As the family grew, they eventually settled in Wayne, NJ where they would spend the next thirty years. In 1989, Anna and Ken retired, moving to Toms River, NJ. Later in 1998, they moved to Chester, NJ to be closer to family. In 2014, Anna and Ken became residents of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains.

Immediately after getting married, Anna devoted her life to being a full-time homemaker. This was indeed Anna’s calling and where she flourished. It was truly apparent to everyone that knew Anna, her greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Anna than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great-great granddaughter. Anna and Ken cherished an amazing seventy years of loving and loyal marriage until Ken’s passing in 2015. Tragedy also struck Anna and her family’s lives when her son Gregg passed away in the tragic and devastating events of September 11, 2001.

As Anna’s children got older, she decided to get back into the workforce and found employment quickly with Valley Cleaners in Wayne where she worked as a front counter clerk and seamstress. She worked for Valley Cleaners for over ten years. She also co-owned a small gift shop with one of her neighbors in Midland Park, NJ for a short time.

Anna was not only dedicated to her family, but also to her Lutheran Faith. She and her husband Ken were long-time members of St Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne. In her spare time, Anna loved to go shopping with family and friends. Her favorite item to shop for was by far, clothing. She also treasured playing a variety of card games with her friends such as Canasta and Pinochle.

Every Friday night, Anna and Ken would take turns hosting dinner with their close childhood friends, creating a cozy tradition that everyone looked forward to. The men would settle in for their weekly chess matches, filled with quiet concentration. Meanwhile, the ladies prepared dinner in the kitchen then afterwards all played their favorite card games.

Friday was also a day set aside for Anna to get her hair done. Anna was the kind of woman who never left the house without looking impeccably put together. Whether she was headed to the grocery store or a dinner party, she treated every outing like a special occasion. Her makeup was always flawlessly applied and her outfit meticulously coordinated.

Throughout the years, Ken and Anna traveled across the entire United States. Anna would never set foot on an airplane or boat, so their traveling was done by way of the automobile. They visited a variety of placed withing the US including New Mexico, the Locks in New York, The Grand Canyon, and Yellowstone National Park to name a few. The first and only time that Anna traveled by boat was a memorable trip to Nova Scotia.

Anna will forever be remembered as truly devoted mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and great-great grandmother. She was a very special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by family and friends.

Anna is survived by her son Kenneth A Froehner of Pompton Lakes, NJ, her daughter Dorell McNamara and her husband Tom of Wayne, NJ, Mary M. Froehner, daughter-in-law of Lakewood Ranch, FL; seven grandchildren; Kimberly Gifford and her husband Mike of Massillon, OH, Kenneth W. Froehner and his wife Kristen of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Kyle Froehner and his wife Casey of Wayne, NJ, Meghan Froehner Reyes and her husband Gino of Geneva, Switzerland, Heather Froehner Lawrence and her husband Timothy of Califon, NJ, Matthew Froehner and his fiancé Madeline Floyd of Randolph, NJ, and Kathleen “Katie” Froehner of Wausau, WI, seven great grandchildren; Michaela Gifford, Hannah Gifford, Kenneth John Froehner, Oisin Reyes-Froehner, Rowan Reyes-Froehner, Odin Lawrence and Cian Lawrence, and one great-great grandchild Laila Mae Gifford. Anna was predeceased by her husband Kenneth H. Froehner in 2015 and by her son Gregg J. Froehner in 2001.

Donations in lieu of flowers to the Parkinson’s Foundation (https://www.parkinson.org/) or the Popcorn Park Animal Refuge (https://ahscares.org/) are appreciated.

Anna M. Foehner

April 16, 2025

Albert J. Scala, age 74, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 16, 2025.

Born in Paterson, NJ, to the late George and Eleanor Scala, Al was a proud graduate of John F. Kennedy High School, Class of 1968 – with the “Great 68!” He went on to earn a degree in history from St. Francis College in Loretto, PA, where he was a proud brother of the Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity.

Following college, Al began his career in the insurance industry, eventually founding his own firm, A.J. Scala & Associates. He was a dedicated and hardworking businessman, but his greatest joy came from serving his community and spending time with his family.

Al was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He met the love of his life, Roxanne, in high school, and their bond only grew stronger with time. The two were named Mr. and Ms. Collegiate their senior year and married on March 22, 1975, at St. Mary Help of Christians Church in Paterson. They celebrated their wedding surrounded by family and friends at the Westmount Country Club, followed by a honeymoon in Hawaii. Together, they built a beautiful life and were blessed with three children: Jason, Jonathan, and Alicyn; two daughters-in-law, Kathleen and Kristen; and a son-in-law, Chris. Al’s greatest pride and joy were his grandchildren: Connor, Declan, Brielle, Greyson, Addison, and Talon - with one more on the way.

Al was deeply committed to giving back. He was an active and longtime member of the Rotary Club of Paterson, where he served as President and volunteered tirelessly to support others. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus at the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne, where he served as Treasurer. Al loved to grill for his family and found joy in watching his grandchildren enjoy the backyard pool.

He will be remembered for his warm heart, unwavering devotion to his loved ones, and his generosity toward his community.

In lieu of flowers, a donation in Al’s name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or to the ASPCA would be greatly appreciated.

Albert J. Scala

April 16, 2025

Robert "Jim" Kauer, age 93 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 14, 2025, in the comfort of his own home.

Jim was born as the only child to Robert and Henrietta Kauer in Pequannock, New Jersey. Growing up in Wyckoff, he attended Ramsey High School before immediately beginning his lifelong career with PSE&G, where he steadily worked his way up to earn the position of inspector.

Jim’s life changed forever when he invited a beautiful woman named Rosemarie to go for a ride on his boat at Greenwood Lake. The two hit it off and he formally asked her to go on a date with him to the Mountain Lakes Tavern at Greenwood Lake shortly after. It didn’t take long for Jim and Rosemarie to fall in love and Jim asked Rosemarie to marry him in his distinctive two-toned blue and white Cadillac. The couple married on August 19, 1961, at St. Joan of Arc Church before spending their honeymoon in Quebec, Canada. Jim took great pride in their home in Wayne, New Jersey where they raised their three beloved daughters: MaryAnn, Lisa, and Karen. Jim had a special soft spot for his daughters and grandchildren (and grand pups) loving them dearly and doing everything he could to provide them with an incredible childhood in their close-knit community. His loving marriage to Rosemarie lasted 61 years until her passing in 2023.

Jim’s entire life revolved around the outdoors. His dad taught him to hunt and started a lifelong passion for hunting. Familiar with the Upstate New York area from his formative years, Jim made it his goal to build a vacation home there and with the help of his dad and some friends he made that goal a reality. The family cherished their weekend trips and extended vacations to this retreat, enjoying the peaceful surroundings and the cool waters of Lake George.

Jim will be fondly remembered for his generous spirit and willingness to help others. A man of many talents, from woodworking to general repairs, people from all walks of life sought his assistance. His tools were distinctly marked with yellow paint, and he lent them freely along with his advice and expertise.

Even in his later years, Jim maintained a remarkable memory, often recalling small details from conversations that others would typically forget. This attentiveness demonstrated how deeply he really listened to others. His kindness, generosity, and genuine interest in people and their lives will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

Jim was the loving husband of his wife who predeceased him, Rosemarie Kauer; devoted father of three children: MaryAnn Fallon, Lisa Cullen and Karen Kauer-Kiraly and her husband Jeffrey Kiraly; cherished grandfather of Carolyn Cullen, Erin Cullen, Amanda Fallon, Nicholas Kiraly, and Joseph Kiraly. He will also be dearly missed by his grand pups Milo, Chloe, and Maverick.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Robert “Jim” Kauer

April 14, 2025

Kenneth J. Palczewski, 58, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, April 10, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family.

The son of Leonard and the late Rosemarie Palczewski, Ken was born in Elizabeth, NJ, and raised in Avenel, NJ. He graduated with the Class of 1984 from Colonia High School, where he was a standout athlete—quarterbacking the football team, pitching for the baseball team, and playing forward on the basketball team. Standing six feet, seven inches tall, Ken was a true force on every field and court he played on.

Ken went on to attend La Salle University in Philadelphia, PA, where he played basketball and initially pursued a degree in economics, to then obtain a law degree upon graduation. During college, a life-changing week spent volunteering at a camp for children battling cancer shifted the course of his life. Inspired and moved, he changed his focus from law to education.

After graduating from La Salle, Ken began his career in education with a year of teaching in the Woodbridge Public School System. He then spent six years at Manchester Regional High School in Haledon, NJ, teaching Social Studies and coaching football, basketball, and softball. In 1998, he joined Wayne Valley High School as a teacher in the history department, coaching the girls’ basketball and softball teams all while pursuing his master’s degree in counseling at William Paterson University. He then transitioned from teaching to guidance counseling and later served as dean of students at Schuyler-Colfax Middle School after earning his master’s in Educational Leadership and Administration. Eventually, he became a vice principal at Wayne Hills High School. In 2013, he returned to Wayne Valley as principal—a role he cherished and held until his passing.

Ken was passionate about his work and took great pride in being part of the Wayne Valley community. He often said he loved every minute of it. He appreciated the unique energy of each day and the richness of the school environment. His “my door is always open” approach created a welcoming atmosphere for both students and staff. He found joy in the little things—like the student who visited his office daily to share a clever joke.

Ken met the love of his life, Maureen Donohue, at the Parker House in Sea Girt, NJ, a chance encounter that led to not only their love story, but six other marriages as well. Ken and Maureen’s romance blossomed quickly, engaged on St. Patrick’s Day of 1995, then later married in a picturesque beach ceremony in Barbados on Wednesday, August 14th, 1996.They began married life in a cozy home at 4 Sycamore Terrace in Wayne where they welcomed both of their beloved children Peter and Brenna before settling into their current residence in 2003. Over the years, Ken immersed himself in the Wayne community—not just during school hours but through coaching both his children in youth sports, his school’s extracurricular activities, and sporting events. If he wasn’t at school, he was likely at the Passaic County Golf Course, where he served as Co-President of the Elm Tree Golf Club and enjoyed early Sunday tee times with close friends.

Above all, Ken’s greatest joy was his family. Maureen was his partner, his soulmate. Together they raised two children, Peter and Brenna, who were the light of his life. Spring break trips became cherished traditions—from Disney vacations during their early years as a family to more recent getaways to Hilton Head, where Ken would golf and Maureen would relax with a good book. Through their shared love of sports as a family, Ken never missed a game in either of Peter or Brenna’s athletic careers. When Peter became a football coach to follow in his father’s footsteps, Ken and Maureen traveled to support him at games, often tailgating and listening to the classics. Evenings around the fire pit with Maureen, Peter, Brenna, and Amanda, sometimes with a glass of bourbon in hand, brought quiet moments of connection and laughter.

During his nine-month battle with cancer, Ken remained strong, optimistic, and uncomplaining. Every day was a fight—motivated by his desire to spend just a little more time with the people he loved most.

Ken will be remembered for so many things: his love of life and living in the moment, his eloquence and wit, his gift for storytelling, his loyalty, his generosity, and above all, his boundless heart.

He is survived by his loving wife of almost 30 years, Maureen (Donohue) Palczewski; his dearly-loved children, Peter Palczewski of Albany, NY, and Brenna Palczewski of Wayne; his father, Leonard Palczewski; his sister, Donna Garcia, and her husband Evelio, of Doylestown, PA; and his niece and nephews: Joshua Garcia and wife Laura, Alec Garcia, Bradley Garcia and fiancée Olivia, Ben Garcia, Catherine Dixon, and Sean Dixon. He was predeceased by his mother, Rosemarie Palczewski, in 2008.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers, and in honor of Ken’s lifelong devotion to his students, a scholarship fund has been established in his memory. Contributions may be sent to:

Ken Palczewski Scholarship Fund

c/o Lucy Couso

Wayne Valley High School

551 Valley Road

Wayne, NJ 07470

Please make checks out to Ken Palczewski Scholarship Fund.

Kenneth Palczewski

April 10, 2025

In loving memory of Marion Shepherd, age 97, of Wayne, she entered into eternal life on Sunday, April 6, 2025.

She was born in Waterbury, Connecticut to Harold and Marion Connelly. Marion graduated from Watertown High School, Waterbury, CT with the class of 1946.

Marion graduated from the Saint Joseph’s Hospital Nursing School in Paterson. She began her career at Barnert Hospital in Paterson. While raising her four children, Marion worked for Dr. Brogan on Broadway in Paterson. Once her children were older, she returned to nursing at Barnert Hospital, where she continued working until her retirement in 1993.

Marion married the love of her life, Vance, on February 14, 1953, at St. Mary’s Church in Oakville, Connecticut. Their marriage was a true partnership, blessed with four children: Margaret, Patricia, Phyllis, and Paula. They made their home in Wayne, New Jersey, where they raised their family and spent all their married years together. After retiring, Marion and Vance enjoyed traveling extensively across the United States, creating lasting memories along the way. Their loving union endured for fifty-six wonderful years until Vance’s passing in November of 2009.

Marion was a vibrant and spirited woman with a sharp mind and a deep love for reading. She read extensively and never missed a day without going through the newspaper, staying informed and engaged with the world around her. A loyal viewer of Bill O’Reilly and Fox News, she had strong opinions and wasn’t shy about sharing them—her fiery Irish temper made sure of that. Marion was also a devoted New Jersey Devils fan, cheering on her team with passion and sometimes a beer. In quieter moments, she found joy in watching classic old movies, appreciating the timeless charm of Hollywood’s golden era.

Marion had a lifelong love for dogs, and over the years, she shared her heart and home with several beloved Beagles, including Dandy, Dutchess, Henry, and Dylan; and each one held a special place in her life, bringing her endless joy, companionship, and laughter. In more recent years, she proudly became the devoted dog mom of her Dachshund, Jake, who was her loyal and loving companion. Her deep bond with her dogs was a constant source of comfort and happiness, and she cherished every moment spent with them.

Marion was the loving wife of the late Vance G. Shepherd (d. 11/8/2009); she was the devoted mother of Margaret Shepherd, Patricia and her husband Emmett McDowell, Phyllis Bogart, and Paula Shepherd; cherished grandmother of Erin and her husband Leonidas Anagnostopoulos, Charlie Bogart, Elizabeth McDowell, and Meghan McDowell; she was also the loved sister of James Connelly and the loved cousin of Lynn and her husband Dick Timas.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Marion Shepherd

April 6, 2025

Ann Pillar, age 88, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 6, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson, Ann was the youngest of four children of Dominic and Carmela (Venditti) Ciarlo. A graduate of Eastside High School’s Class of 1954, after high school, she worked as a bookkeeper at Spotless Dry Cleaning, located near Paterson’s historic falls. In this role, she expertly used a key-driven mechanical calculator, known as a comptometer—an invention dating back to 1887.

Ann’s love story began one evening at Falls View Grill, where she caught the eye of a handsome Marine Corps serviceman, Joseph Pillar, who was home on leave. Over burgers, hotdogs, and French fries, a romantic courtship began—one that would continue through Joe’s military service. The couple exchanged vows at St. Anthony Church in Paterson, celebrating their honeymoon on the Canadian side of Niagara Falls before settling into their first home on Twenty-First Street in Paterson. They later lived on Front Street before moving to Wayne in 1961, where they would spend the rest of their lives together, raising their two beloved daughters, JoAnn and Debbie. Ann and Joe shared sixty years of loving and devoted marriage until Joe’s passing in 2017.

As a young mother, Ann fully embraced her role as homemaker. Her greatest priority was creating a warm, nurturing, and immaculately clean home for her family. Summers were marked by treasured annual vacations to St. Petersburg, Florida, during the last week of July through the first week of August. Once her daughters grew more independent, Ann returned to the workforce—first as a waitress at Casa Mia Restaurant, owned by her brother in Wayne, and later at Patty’s Pancakes in Haledon.

Faith and family were the cornerstones of Ann’s life. A devoted parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, she rarely missed Sunday Mass until health concerns intervened about four years ago. Undeterred, she found spiritual nourishment through a televised 9:00 AM Mass, and her family quickly learned not to call and disturb her in any way during that sacred hour.

Ann was a cherished wife, mother, grandmother “Grammy,” and great-grandmother. Nothing brought her more joy than time spent with her loved ones. She was the ever-willing, always-loving babysitter for her grandchildren—an experience she found joyful, not a chore. Her baking and cooking were legendary among the family: cranberry cakes, chocolate peanut butter cakes, cream cheese cupcakes, and her Thanksgiving stuffing were all favorites. Her son-in-law Don especially loved her potato croquettes. With nimble fingers and a generous heart, she crocheted countless baby blankets, pocketbooks, and other handmade treasures for her family, and also enjoyed needlepoint.

Ann was a firecracker—spirited, strong-willed, and clear about how she wanted things done. Thank God, her mind remained sharp as a tack throughout her life. Her passing was sudden and has left a sad void in the hearts of those who loved her. Yet, her family takes comfort in the legacy of love, laughter, and beautiful memories she leaves behind.

Ann was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Pillar, with whom she shared 60 wonderful years of marriage. She was the loving mother of JoAnn Stinnard and her husband Donald of Pompton Lakes, and Debbie Arena, also of Pompton Lakes. She was the proud and cherished grandmother of Michelle Warren and her husband Eric, Aimee Pires and her husband Dan, Mark Stinnard, Dale Arena and his fiancée Misty Yesuda, Jenna Kennedy and her husband Ryan, and Shane Stinnard and his wife Becki. She was the adored great-grandmother of Nathan Pires, Nicholas Warren, Jake Warren, Andrew Pires, Olivia Kennedy, Jackson Kennedy, Joseph Kennedy, and Addison Yasuda. Ann also leaves behind her “adopted” daughter Debbie and husband Robbie Kutcher and their family, who held a special place in her heart.

She was predeceased by her parents, Dominic and Carmela Ciarlo; her stepmother, Maria Ciarlo; her brothers, Mario and Angelo Ciarlo; and her sister, Phyllis Ciarlo.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy in Ann’s memory are kindly asked to consider a donation to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please be sure to mention that your gift is in memory of Ann Pillar.

Ann Pillar

April 6, 2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Frank Eller, age 92, of Allentown, PA and formerly of Wayne, NJ. Frank passed away peacefully on Friday, April 4, 2025 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Frank was born and raised in Csibrak Hungary and was one of five children to Anton and Anna Eller. Frank, the son of Hungarian parents, in the wake of World War II, made a move from Hungary to Germany. Germany became a temporary refuge and steppingstone toward immigrating to the United States. In December of 1951, the family got their chance at a better life, and a new beginning. With courage and determination, they secured passage on a ship bound for America, braving the long and uncertain journey that took thirteen days.

Upon arriving in the United States, the family settled in Temple, Texas. After moving to New Jersey, Frank attended the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York and took courses in fashion and tailoring. His first opportunity to apply his skills was when he accepted a position as a custom tailor at Tozzi’s Custom Tailoring in Nutley, NJ.

Frank, a hardworking and determined man, opened his own business, Valley Cleaners and Tailoring, in Clifton, New Jersey. Drawing on skills honed through years of hands-on experience, Frank built his business from the ground up, stitching together not just garments, but a loyal customer base that appreciated his craftsmanship and personal touch. Frank owned and operated Valley Cleaners and Tailoring for the next twenty-one years until retiring in 1992. Upon his retirement, Frank worked part time for several years as a tailor for the Lord and Taylor department store. However his passion was devoted to assist in raising his six grandchildren and set an example and served as a true role model showing them the importance of family, love, kindness, responsibility and hard work.

As a young man, Frank would attend local dance halls where young men and women would get together to dance and socialize. There, one night in 1960, Frank met a young attractive woman by the name of Teresa Kaindl. Frank and Teresa started dating and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 5, 1961 they became husband and wife at Holy Trinity Church in Passaic, NJ surrounded by friends and family. The newlyweds settled in Passaic and lived there for only a couple of years. During their time living in Passaic, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter, Monika. The family moved to Clifton, NJ where they welcomed their second daughter Renee. Frank and his family remained in Clifton until 1975 when they built a home in Wayne. Frank and Teresa remained in Wayne for nearly fifty years.

Frank enjoyed playing golf and bowling with friends. He was a member of the SportsFriends Soccer Club for many years. He and his wife Teresa and their friends enjoyed many nights dancing waltzes and polkas at Domyon’s Hall in Clifton or at President’s Palace in Passaic. Frank was also a man who could fix just about anything around the house. He was intuitively creative and called upon his tailoring and sewing skills to alter or make garments for his family.

Aside from all Frank’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Frank than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren. He and his wife Teresa cherished nearly sixty-four amazing years of loving and loyal marriage together. Tragedy struck Frank’s and his family’s lives when his dear daughter Renee passed away. Frank was not only devoted to his family but also to his Catholic Faith. He and his family were parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne for many years.

Frank was an intelligent man who spoke five languages. He had a playful nature and loved to make Teresa laugh. His sense of playfulness and humor was one of his ways of showing affection to those he loved.

Frank will forever be remembered as a loving husband, and a devoted father, grandfather, and great grandfather. He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by his friends and family.

Frank is survived by his wife Teresa (nee Kaindl) of Allentown, PA, his daughter Monika Goldman and her husband Eric of Allentown, PA, nine grandchildren; Alexandra Lowry of Seattle, WA, Brittany Fetcho and her husband JD of Kingston, NY, Amanda Lowry of Millbury, MA, Nicholas Li-Lowry and his wife Anne of Long Island City, NY, Taryn Naundorff of Philadelphia, PA, Carly Naundorff who is finishing grad school in Texas, and Eric’s children, Brian Goldman and his wife Lauren of Atlanta, GA, Nathan Goldman of Chapel Hill, NC, and Danielle Goldman of Philadelphia, PA, and two great grandchildren, Reid Goldman and Georgia Fetcho. Frank was predeceased by his three brothers Anton Eller, Joseph Eller, and John Eller, and by his sister Anna Fett. Frank also has many nieces and nephews in NJ as well as Texas and Austria.

The family would like to suggest, in lieu of flowers, a donation to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, Wayne, NJ.

Frank Eller

April 4, 2025

Allentown

It is with great sadness that announce the passing of Robert Alan Laskowski, age 74, of Wayne, NJ. Robert passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on April 3, 2025.

Robert was born in Passaic, NJ, lived in Wallington, NJ with his family until about the age of eleven and then moved to the city of Clifton where he attended Clifton High School. He was the only child to Benjamin and Adeline Laskowski.

Following his graduation from Clifton High School with the class of 1968, he attended Rutgers University in New Brunswick where he earned his Bachelor of Science Degree. While attending Rutgers University, Bob was a member of the Rutgers men’s basketball team. Subsequent to earning his Bachelor of Science Degree, Bob furthered his studies and became a Board-Certified Pharmacist.

Bob dedicated his life to serving others through his work as a pharmacist. He began his career working for Hospital Pharmacy and Williams Pharmacy, both located in Paterson, NJ. There he gained valuable experience and built strong relationships with his customers. However, his true calling was ownership, and after several years of hard work, he opened his own pharmacy, Kay Pharmacy in Paterson, which he ran for the next thirty-three years. Through his commitment to quality care and personalized service, Bob became a trusted figure in the community, known not just for filling prescriptions but for his kindness, advice, and unwavering dedication to those he served. His pharmacy became more than a business, it was a cornerstone of the neighborhood, a place where people felt valued and cared for. Bob was truly well respected and loved by the members of the community.

Eventually Bob sold his business but because of his dedication and connection to the neighborhood, he remained on staff as a close consultant. Bob truly loved his work and the people he served and never had the urge to retire.

In May of 1978, Bob was introduced to a young lady by the name of Eligia Marte, also know as Ellie, by a mutual friend. Bob asked Ellie out and they had dinner at a local restaurant. The two hit it off great and started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on March 28, 1984 Bob and Ellie married surrounded by family and friends. The newlyweds settled in Paterson where they lived for about five years. While residing there, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter, Elayne. In 1987, the family moved to Clifton where they welcomed their second daughter, Adele. In 1989 as the family grew, they moved to the Township of Wayne where they raised their children and have been ever since.

He had a passion for playing dominoes, spending countless hours strategizing and laughing with friends over intense matches. Bowling was another love of his, and he took pride in competing in local leagues with his wife Ellie, always striving to improve his game.

Travel was another venue that Bob and Ellie treasured together. The two traveled extensively to a variety of different destinations around the world, such as the Dominican Republic, Ireland, Spain, Italy, England, Aruba & Costa Rica.

Aside from all of Bob’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Bob than providing for and spending time with his wife, daughters, and grandchildren. Bob and his wife Ellie cherished more than forty-one years of loving and loyal marriage together. His family recalls their many family vacations to their timeshare in Puerto Plata, Dominican Republic.

Bob was the kind of guy who could turn any moment into a comedy show with his quick wit and playful sarcasm. A natural jokester, he loved to tease his friends and family. His humor was never mean-spirited, it was just the right mix of mischief and charm that made people laugh. Bob always had a way of making even the most ordinary moments entertaining. His laughter was contagious, and his knack for humor made him the life of any gathering, making sure there was never a dull moment when he was around.

Bob will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and a dedicated member of his community. He touched the lives of countless people and will be sincerely missed by all that knew him.

Bob is survived by his wife Ellie Laskowski (nee Marte) of Wayne, NJ, his two daughters; Elayne Laskowski of Clifton, NJ and Adele Torres and her husband Jensen of Wayne, NJ and five grandchildren; Elliot, Emmett, Essex, Sebastian, and Julien. He was predeceased by his parents Benjamin and Adeline Laskowski.

For those who are unable to attend the Funeral Mass on Friday, April 11, 2025 at 9 AM, the services will be livestreamed. Please click on one of the two links on Friday morning to access the livestream: Facebook or Youtube.

Robert Laskowski

April 3, 2025

Edward Gilmore, age 90, passed peacefully on April 3,2025, surrounded by his loving family. He was born in Paterson NJ to Edward and Dorothy (Waltz)Gilmore on January 6,1935.

Ed worked in the art department of Continental Can in his early years, and owned and operated E.G. Vending since the 1960’s, retiring in 1997. He coached baseball for Haledon PAL for many years and the kids always enjoyed going for ice cream after the games. Ed loved traveling, golfing, fishing, going to his grandchildren’s sporting events and was an avid skier along with his wife. They were members of the North Jersey Whiz Skiers enjoying frequent trips to the Club lodge at Mad River Glen, Vermont. They also traveled more than 20 times to ski the American west with Some of Ed’s favorites being Vail, Park City and Deer Valley. Their adventures also took them to Europe, the United Kingdom, Canada, Mexico, Alaska, Hawaii, Tahiti, Bermuda and many Caribbean destinations.

Ed loved nothing more than spending summer days at his home in Wildwood Crest with family and friends. He was also a member of the Adam Reiser Social Club (known as the club with the heart) whose goal was to provide food and gifts for needy families in Paterson during the holidays and throughout the year. He was truly a generous man always willing to help others and will be missed by all.

Ed was especially proud of his large, loving family. He is survived by his high school sweetheart and wife of 67 years, Carol (Platte) of Wayne, their four children, Edward and his wife Debbie of Green Pond, Darren and his wife Rita of Park City, Utah, Scott of Hamilton, NJ and Darlene DeStefano and her husband Scott of Wayne, 11 grandchildren: Chris, Brad, Brittany, Cameron, Corey, Monika, Drew, Paige, Luke, Justin and Taylor, as well as 13 great-grandchildren.

No flowers please. A memorial donation can be made to St Jude’s children’s Hospital, Memphis, Tennessee

Edward Gilmore

April 3, 2025

Joseph E. Rolandelli, age 87 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, March 31, 2025.

Joe was born and raised in Newark – a place that always held a special place in his heart. From a young age Joe had an entrepreneurial mind that his mentors in life encouraged. Coming from a family of blue-collar workers, they recognized his aptitude for business and pushed him to pave a new path for himself. His uncle John was one of the most instrumental in that decision; when Joe would ask for a screwdriver, John would instead hand him a pencil and explain that was what he really needed to learn to use. His entrepreneurial spirit started with a paper route before he turned 10 years old and turned into an egg route shortly after. He was a true self-made man. Starting from humble beginnings, he worked his way up to senior vice president and comptroller of Midlantic/PNC Bank.

One summer day Joseph met his wife Catherine at the beach in Manasquan. He was just minding his own business when a beautiful woman named Catherine started kicking sand on him. His response was simply, “Go away” and their playfully combative relationship began. The two started dating and after falling in love Joe decided he wanted to propose. He convinced Catherine to go with him after he got off work to look at engagement rings, but with her eager anticipation of the trip he decided to play a little trick on her. He told her he was running late at work and would come pick her up as soon as he could. Catherine, stressing that they would not make it to the Jeweler in time exclaimed to him, “By the time we get there, the store will be closed!” Joe’s carefully plotted scheme was timed perfectly as the jewelry store closed and Joe nonchalantly pulled over into a romantic setting in Branch Brook Park to surprise Catherine with the ring that he had the whole time. Cathy went from punching Joe to kissing him, and on Saturday, August 18, 1962, the couple were married at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Nutley with Joe’s cousin Bishop Mestice officiating the wedding ceremony. They were blessed with a loving marriage of 56 years until Catherine’s passing in 2019.

After their wedding, Joe and Cathy moved into their first home together – a four-room apartment in a multi-family home on Woodside Avenue in Newark. They created many happy memories there surrounded by extended family as the whole Rolandelli clan lived together in three multi-family homes on the same block. They spent the next 15 years at that home and during that time, were blessed with two beautiful daughters, Karen and Debra, before Cathy convinced Joe to leave the “old neighborhood” and build a new home in Wayne in 1978. Even after moving to Wayne, the apartments in Newark held a special place in Joe’s heart and he never parted ways with the three buildings. He even made regular trips back to maintain them over the years.

Joseph and Cathy had the privilege of traveling extensively through Europe with family and friends, especially Joe’s best friend Victor. Joe and Cathy returned to Italy many times through the years with Joe holding a particular fondness for being there and connecting with his Italian heritage. Joe was also well known for his love of cruises. He went on cruises with Cathy, his kids and grandkids. He was a frugal man but when it came to exploring the world and experiencing all it had to offer, he was incredibly generous to those around him. They share treasured memories of annual cruises with the whole family, including their grandchildren to the Caribbean, Alaska, and a Disney cruise too. Joe’s grandchildren will recall that some of their favorite memories are of the twelve years at the annual Rolandelli & Buttitta family vacation home in Lavallette, NJ nicknamed the “Big Brown House”.

Joe will be remembered as strict and tough but generous and loving. He cared deeply for those around him and always wanted what was best for you. He was a maverick with a zest for life that was rivaled only by his loving wife Cathy. What made Joe tick was his love for making deals and making money. He was clever and persistent, never taking no for an answer. Joseph was the embodiment of the expression, “Give a man a fish and feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.” A great example of this was Joe’s weekly meetings with his grandkids to go over their stock portfolios that he helped them establish. You didn’t show up to that meeting without having done your “homework”. He insisted on passing his success down to his kids and his grandkids in the form of education and experience. If you showed the initiative, he would provide you with the best opportunities in life. He was so proud to be able to put his kids and grandkids into elite schools throughout their entire education, and even more proud of the success they achieved from their hard work and heeding his advice.

Joseph can be described as driven, tenacious, determined, stubborn and loyal. He was a great storyteller and was fortunate to remain sharp even in old age. He never stopped “wheeling and dealing” making deals right up until his passing. The famous sayings of Joe Rolandelli will be dearly missed by all. Joe will be missed most for his mentorship and love. He was the man you turned to when you found yourself in a bind; despite his tough demeanor he was always there for you when you needed him. He truly wanted the best for those he cared about and went out of his way to help (of course, he also never failed to make sure you remembered that help). Joe reveled in his role as patriarch of his family and was proud to leave a legacy for future generations. His leadership and guidance will be greatly missed.

Joseph E. Rolandelli

March 31, 2025

Linda Maresca Wright, 83, passed away peacefully on March 29, 2025, in Denville, New Jersey. Born on October 24, 1941, in Jersey City, New Jersey, Linda lived a life grounded in faith, family, and cherished traditions.

A devout Catholic throughout her life, Linda was a lifelong member of St. Simon the Apostle Roman Catholic Church in Green Pond, New Jersey. Her faith remained a constant source of strength and guidance. While residing in Rotonda West, Florida, she continued her spiritual journey by attending Mass at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church.

Green Pond Lake held a special place in Linda’s heart. It was there she met her beloved husband Larry “Lar” Wright, raised their children, and created a home filled with warmth and laughter. Even after Larry’s passing, the lake remained a treasured sanctuary where memories endured and family traditions thrived.

Linda is lovingly remembered by her sister Barbara; her sons Gilbert, Christopher, Michael, and Joseph; daughters-in-law Leanne, Mindy, and Stephanie; grandchildren Katie, Brianna, Sean, Eric, Megan, Devin and Emma; grandchildren-in-law Eric, Alice, Bridget, Kaitlyn, and Ezra; and great-grandchildren Taylor, Hannah, Michael, Charlotte, Lucas, Elliott, and Ruth.

Linda was an animal lover and particularly enjoyed the company of her Muggins and her many grand dogs over the years.

She found joy in music as a proud member of Sweet Adelines and deeply valued the enduring friendships she shared with her beloved YaYas.

Linda was preceded in death by her devoted husband Larry “Lar” Wright; her father Joseph Maresca; and mother Betty Maresca.

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Linda Wright

March 29, 2025

Newfoundland

John Van Hoven, age 94, of Pompton Plains, NJ passed Saturday, March 29, 2025.

He had lived in Woodland Park since 1956 before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2007.

John was born at home in Prospect Park, NJ and graduated from Paterson Vocational Technical High School. He worked at various jobs as a draftsman and retired from John Verduin Machinery in Paterson in 1996.

John was an excellent bowler and card player and always assisted his wife Doris when she was baking and making homemade applesauce. He enjoyed getting together with friends for pot luck dinners and card games. At Cedar Crest he played Wii Bowling and played cards. He was a member of the 2nd Reformed Church in Little Falls for many years and served as an usher. Once they moved to Cedar Crest Village, John attended the services there.

John met his wife Doris through a mutual friend. They had been acquainted for years.

John served in the US Army in Germany from January 1952 to January 1954. Upon his return from the military, they began dating and were married on July 17, 1954 with a service in his sister in laws home, followed by a honeymoon in Lake George.

During his 63 years married they were blessed to share a bond with one another that grew stronger through each year. John enjoyed family vacations to the Jersey Shore, including Ocean Beach and LBI which made for some wonderful memories and also enjoyed frequent visits to Lancaster, PA and occasional trips to Florida, Viriginia and Mrytle Beach.

John is survived by his two daughters: Diane Spath and her husband Alfred of Edison, NJ and Nancy Huhn of Parsippany, NJ, Five grandchildren; Stephen Huhn of Houston, Tx, Daniel Huhn of Parsippany, Lauren Caviglia and her husband Marco of Parlin, NJ, Gregory Spath of Edison, NJ and Michael Spath and his wife Laura of Oklahoma, three great-grandchildren Aubrey and Bryce Huhn of Houston, TX and Madelyn Caviglia of Parlin, NJ. He was pre-deceased by his wife Doris Van Hoven and his sister Elizabeth De Block.

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Eulogy read by John's Daughter Diane:

Dad

Today we bury John Van Hoven our Dad, Grandfather and Great Grandfather. He was also a husband, uncle, brother and friend to many. He lived to 94 and lived a good life and the most recent 15 months were difficult and challenging for him when we had to move him out of his apartment to LTC. All he wanted was to be able to walk to his meals. Dad and Mom loved their family and enjoyed their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. They traveled to Florida, Texas, Virginia, MB and enjoyed frequent trips to Lancaster, Pennsylvania. As kids we visited friends in LBI and Ocean Beach. Dad was advic bowler and enjoyed playing cards and watching sports especially if the Yankees loss. Despite him not remembering our names we had good visits with him. We all have great memories of Dad. Dad and all of us have been without Mom for the last 7 1/2 years and He always said I should of gone first. Dad died peacefully at the end but had many trials and tribulation while in LTC which frustrated him and now he is with our Mom. He is now our second angels watching over us now. We all love you Dad. Till we meet again

John Van Hoven

March 29, 2025

Sondra “Sandy” Lenore Pine (née Rachesky)

A life devoted to family, faith, and the power of education

Sondra “Sandy” Lenore Pine passed away peacefully, leaving behind a legacy rooted in love, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to others. Born in Passaic, New Jersey, to Samuel and Tillie Rachesky, Sandy was a bright light from the very beginning. She grew up in Clifton and graduated from Clifton High School (Class of 1952), proudly serving in the Math Club before earning her Bachelor of Science degree in Mathematics from Montclair State University.

A devoted wife, Sandy married the love of her life, Dr. Leonard Pine, in 1955. Their bond was a true partnership, forged in love and shared purpose. When Leonard was stationed at Fort Campbell, Kentucky, with the U.S. Army, Sandy followed him without hesitation, teaching the children of military personnel. She would fondly recall watching paratroopers descend from the sky—her students eagerly pressing their faces to the windows, searching for their fathers.

Sandy poured her heart into teaching, both in and out of the classroom. Whether in Clifton, Wayne Valley, or during her 17 impactful years at Morris Knolls High School, she was known as a gifted and compassionate educator who believed deeply in her students’ potential. Long after retirement, she continued to tutor students well into her 80s—proof that teaching was never just a job, but her true calling.

She was a guiding force in her community as well. A founding member of Temple Beth Tikvah in Wayne, she helped establish local chapters of Hadassah and B’nai B’rith and nurtured them through every transition. Together with Leonard, she co-founded the Foundation for the Handicapped in Wayne and later served as its Executive Director, committed to enriching the lives of those she served.

But above all else, Sandy’s greatest joy came from being a wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was the heartbeat of her family, offering strength, unconditional love, and steadfast support. She was the beloved wife of Dr. Leonard Pine; devoted mother to the late Judith Ann Pine-Cooke and Michael Pine and his wife, Lori; cherished Nana to the late Willie Cooke, Brian and Adriana Dela Barrera, Alyssa and Kevin Smith, and Tyler Pine; and adoring great-grandmother to Juliana and Oliver Smith, and Drew Pine. She was the loving sister of Robert Rachesky and the late Herbert Rachesky.

Sandy will be remembered not only for her intellect and dedication, but for her grace, warmth, and the deep pride she took in her family. Her impact will be felt for generations to come.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Sondra's name may be made to Abilities First 167 Myers Corners Road, Suite 202, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590.

Sondra Lenore Pine

March 28, 2025

Patricia Lee Gagis (née Bernat), 85, of Wayne, NJ, a devoted wife, loving mother, cherished grandmother, and steadfast woman of faith, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 26, 2025, surrounded by her three adoring children and embraced in the love of her family.

Born in New York City to Donald and Antoinette (Caiola) Bernat, Patty moved with her parents to Paterson as a young child. There, she flourished, graduating with the Class of 1957 from Eastside High School.

It was at Eastside where she met the love of her life, Augustus “Gus” Gagis. Patty was a spirited 15-year-old sophomore; Gus, a 17-year-old senior. Their first date—hot dogs “all-the-way” at Libby’s in Paterson—sparked a lifelong romance. Three years later, on December 6, 1958, they exchanged vows at St. Brendan’s R.C. Church in Clifton, celebrating their union with a reception at Natoli’s in Saddle Brook, NJ before honeymooning in the scenic Poconos.

Pat and Gus started married life on Buffalo Avenue in Paterson, where they welcomed their son, John, followed by their daughter, Dona. In 1966, they settled in Wayne, where their youngest, Judeth, was born. Patty embraced motherhood wholeheartedly, considering her children to be among her greatest blessings. She devoted herself to raising them full-time before eventually joining Gus in the workforce at BASF in Clifton, where she took great pride in her efficiency and organizational skills.

Faith and family were the cornerstones of Patty’s life. A dedicated parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, she served with devotion—teaching CCD, acting as a Eucharistic minister, organizing food drives, and even helping to clean the church. She found true joy in attending Mass and praying for her loved ones and anyone in need.

As an only child, Patty found immense fulfillment in the family she and Gus built together. She adored her three children and their spouses, treasured her eleven grandchildren, and delighted in her nine great-grandchildren. She never missed an opportunity to share her gratitude for the abundance of love in her life. Patty also held a soft spot for the four-legged canine companions who brought her joy over the years—Maggie, T.J., Josh, and Marcie.

Patricia is survived by her devoted husband of 66 years, Augustus “Gus” Gagis; her loving children: John Gagis and his wife Judy of Bernardsville, NJ, Dona Meringer and her husband Jim of Wayne, and Judeth DeMonico and her husband John of Parsippany; her cherished grandchildren: Elizabeth and her husband Grant, Augustus and his wife Bridget, Patricia and her fiancé Huan Tran, Joseph and his girlfriend Emily, Lieutenant Commander Zachary and his wife Micah, Abigail and her fiancé Stephen, Donald, Emily and her fiancé Matthew, Anna, Luke, and Michael; and her beloved great-grandchildren: John Peter, Alessandra, Evelyn, Lyla, Chloe, Sarah, Callum, and Theresa. She was predeceased by her parents, Donald and Antoinette Bernat, and her great-granddaughter, Zoey.

Patty’s legacy is one of unwavering faith, boundless love, and joyful service to others. She will be deeply missed but forever remembered in the hearts of those who were blessed to know her.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Patricia’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Friends of Wayne Animal Rescue

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

To download a mailable form, Click Here.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Patricia Lee Gagis

Patricia Lee Gagis

March 26, 2025

Our beloved Wesner Pierre, fondly remembered as Wes by his coworkers and friends and NèNè by his family, sadly passed away in the early morning hours on Tuesday, March 25, 2025, at the age of 73. Wesner was born in Archahaie, Haiti on December 20, 1951 to the late Joseph Legrand Pierre and Asefille Marcellus. He migrated to the US in 1975.

Wes was a bright light in every room he walked into, always greeting others with his signature smile. He was incredibly devoted to his family, and he worked hard throughout his life to give them all the very best. Wes was always a practical man, emphasizing his core values of responsibility, respect, and fairness throughout all of his decisions, and demonstrating a strong sense of maturity from a very young age. Growing up in Haiti, he was affectionately referred to as Pèpè, or “Grandpa.” Wes was a determined and bright professional, he earned his Bachelor of Science while new to the US, learning English, and working several jobs to support himself. After graduating, he married his beloved wife in 1982. He worked a successful and full career as a chemical engineer for several prominent companies, working his way up to be a seasoned and respected leader on his teams. At home, his daughters and wife were constantly showered with love by him, and they enjoyed going on family adventures together that took advantage of his love for exercise and the outdoors. Whether it was a family bike ride, a hike, or just a walk around the lake, Wes was always the fittest and fastest of the bunch. These interests were luckily shared with his wife of 42 years, with whom he shared a friendship since early childhood.

Through date nights, moves, vacations, lighting up various dance floors and all of the twists and turns of raising two children, Wes and Maggie remained deeply committed to one another, and shared a strong bond and deep love that was ever-present in his final days.

Wesner was a beloved husband and father, and he will be deeply missed by his family and friends. There are not enough words to truly encapsulate what an incredible person he was.

He is survived by his wife Margarett Muse Pierre, daughter Jennifer Pierre and husband Michael Colin Schramm, daughter Stephanie Pierre and husband Jomari Picazo, brothers Marcaisse, Bercon, Jean-Eddy, Getty, and family, sister Yanick, Marie Lucienne, Rosena and family, and cousins Marie Carmel, Maryse and family, and additional family.

Wes was a long-time member of the Knights of Columbus. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Knights of Columbus organization, Chapter #6212, would be greatly appreciated. For additional information on the Knights of Columbus Chapter #6212, please visit their Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AL4adywvi/?mibextid=wwXIfr .

Wesner Pierre

March 25, 2025

Ringwood

David W. Levine, age 32 of Wayne, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, March 25, 2025.

It is with a heavy heart that the Levine family announces the passing of our beloved, beautiful David. David passed away in the early morning of March 25th 2025 and leaves behind his adoring Mother and Father, Theresa and Josh Levine, his two treasured younger brothers; Keith and Marc, his precious dog, Moose, his dear cousins, along with his close friends, his wife Priyal, and countless number of people, all whom he touched with his gentle, easy going personality, wonderful character, and funny and quirky sense of humor, throughout his life. Always so kind and knowledgeable, he could find common ground with just about anyone, and engage in such fascinating conversations. He loved all things related to science, space and the cosmos, and while we are devastated he is no longer on this earth with us, we find great peace in knowing he will always be among the stars.

For those wishing to make a donation in David's memory, please consider the Epilepsy Foundation, www.epilepsy.com. It was through the Foundation that his wife received a certification in seizure first aid, providing her with critical skills to help Dave on many occasions. David had also been planning to participate in a charity walk with the Foundation in the near future, and your support, in his memory, would be very much appreciated.

David W. Levine

March 25, 2025

Carol E. Beatty, age 89, a longtime resident of Wayne, passed Tuesday, March 25, 2025.

She was born in Newark to William and Elsetta Gailey and raised at 174 Newark Pompton Turnpike in Wayne. She was in the first graduating class of the Wayne High School’s Class of 1953.

As Carol would wait for the bus to high school a passing truck would toot its horn at her daily and she would turn her back. Eventually Carol’s sisters, who worked at the local luncheonette, would introduce her to the horn honking Donald Beatty who often frequented the luncheonette. Their first date was to the movie theatre in Pompton Lakes and as fate would have it they fell in love. Donald proposed marriage to Carol in the kitchen of the family home on Newark Pompton Turnpike and they married at the Pompton Lakes Reformed Church on July 19, 1954. After a reception at Community Fire Company #1 in the Mountain View section of Wayne they honeymooned in Niagara Falls, New York.

Soon after their marriage Carol and Don bought a log cabin in the Pines Lake section of Wayne where they raised their three sons. When Carol’s third son was just nine months old she got a call from a friend at the Wayne Police Department asking if she would be interested in being a crossing guard at the Pines Lake School in Wayne. Carol said yes she would help and figured she would do it for a couple of years. She would cross children along Pines Lake Road to the Pines Lake School for thirty-two years before retiring in 1997.

Carol was a member of the Wayne First Aid Squad’s “Wives Club” for many years. In 1971, she and Don started vacationing in Old Forge, New York and they finally purchased a mobile home in 1985. They moved to Old Forge in 1998 but Carol returned to Wayne shortly after Don's passing to be closer to family.

Carol was an avid crafter enjoying both sewing and crocheting. You would often find her and her sisters at local craft shows where she sold hand-made pillows and potholders.

Carol was the loving wife of the late Donald Beatty (d. 2004); she was the loving mother of Donald Beatty, Jr. and his wife Cynthia of Wayne, William Beatty and his wife Joyce of Pennsylvania, and Mark Beatty and his wife Kathleen of Bloomingdale; she was the cherished grandmother of Ian Beatty, Kelly Post, Kim Beatty, Brittany Beatty, and Allison Beatty; she was also the dearly loved great-grandmother of Alexandra and Cassandra Post, Brynn, Kyle, and Charley Beatty; she was the loved sister of the late Joyce Fedell of Ormond Beach, FL, the late Merilyn Martin of Holly Hill, FL, Gloria Hinderlong of Jefferson, and Bonnie Longo of West Milford.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 would be greatly appreciated.

Carol Beatty

March 25, 2025

Dennis James Martin, age 81, of Cedar Grove, passed Monday, March 24, 2025.

He was born to James and Irene Martin in Brooklyn, NY. When he was about seven years old the family moved to Clifton. He graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1961. During his high school years he was a pitcher on the baseball team and learned to play the piano. Dennis continued his education at Montclair State Teacher’s College where he received his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Education. He later continued his education at the University of Maryland where he received his Doctorate Degree in Education.

In his early years, Dennis worked as a helper in an auto repair shop in Clifton. He began his teaching career in Paramus and Passaic, later teaching in Maryland. He also spent time working in the aerospace industry, where he specialized in drafting and mechanical drawings. Eventually, Dennis returned to education, teaching in East Orange and then West Orange, before retiring in 2007.

Dennis was a complex and vibrant soul—moody at times, but undeniably brilliant. He had a sharp mind and a quick wit that made his company unforgettable. A natural performer, Dennis was a talented dancer and singer, and skilled with a piano. He had a deep love for comedy and could light up a room with his spot-on imitations and infectious laugh. Fun-loving at heart, Dennis was the kind of person who brought energy and joy wherever he went. He adored movies, music, and his friends.

Dennis was the loved brother of Robert Martin and his wife Jennifer of Cedar Grove; cherished uncle of Cynthia and Dan Valeri of New Windsor, NY and Tim and Iris Martin of Olethe, KS; he was the dearly loved great-uncle of Dominic and Nico Valeri and Mya and Noah Martin.

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Dennis Martin

March 24, 2025

Cedar Grove

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Rene Graniere of Atlantic City, NJ.

Born to Richard Charles and Janet Graniere, Rene grew up in Wayne, NJ, where she built lifelong friendships and cherished memories. She graduated from DePaul Catholic High School in 1984 and later earned her bachelor’s degree in Marketing and Business Management from Stockton University in Galloway, NJ.

In her mid-twenties, Rene began her career at American Express in Manhattan. Through her dedication and strong work ethic, she rose through the ranks, earning leadership positions and earning great success.

Rene was a force of nature—a take-charge woman with a bold personality and an even bigger heart. Her greatest joy in life was her family, especially her beloved niece and nephews. She adored every moment spent with them and was deeply devoted to her parents, brother, and sister-in-law. Rene’s love extended beyond her immediate family to her aunts, uncles, and cousins, with whom she shared a special bond.

She found peace on the beaches of South Jersey and loved walking along the boardwalk. A skilled Blackjack player, Rene inherited her passion for the game from her uncle and often found herself on the winning side of Atlantic City. She also had a deep appreciation for music, especially The Grateful Dead and Queen.

Rene’s presence and unwavering love will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

She is survived by her mother, Janet Graniere of Lakewood, NJ; her brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Ann Marie Graniere of Wayne; her niece, Brooke Graniere of Easton, Pennsylvania; her nephews, Richard, Anthony, and Jake Graniere of Wayne; and many loving extended family members. She is now reunited in peace with her father, Richard Charles Graniere.

May Rene’s memory live on in the hearts of all who loved her.

René Graniere

March 21, 2025

Atlantic City

Margaret Kerton of West Milford passed away peacefully, in the comfort of her home surrounded by loving family on March 20th 2025.

Daughter of Olive and Corbin Parkhurst and born in Montclair, NJ, Margaret was raised in Pequannock and graduated from Butler High School.

Margaret’s work experience began with Prudential Insurance in the early 1960’s. She left Prudential to begin raising a family with her new husband, Norman Kerton. Later in 1981, she answered a calling that lasted thirty giving years, opening her home as a safe haven for foster children. Along with her family, she cared for and transitioned roughly two hundred children to many permanent homes. After retirement from her foster career, this kind nature led her to volunteer at Cape May Regional Hospital.

Margaret loved lobster and baked potato. So much that she’d ensure a portion came home from the restaurant on the front of her sweater. She bred and raised exotic cats, and adored her many kitties and the couple’s sweetheart Shih Tzu, Madison. Crochet was often a pastime. The national pastime was also dear to her as an avid Yankees fan. The Pequannock Reformed Church, and her relationship with God held a very special place in her heart.

Margaret met Norman, the love of her life and husband of over sixty years, at Monahan’s Bar in Wayne on a night out. Finding common ground, after a year together they married. Their first home purchase was in Lincoln Park, where they grew their union by having three children. For the expanding family, a move to Pequannock was necessary and shortly thereafter a fourth child arrived. Soon the couple designed and built a house in Kinnelon, with Norman handling much of the labor and construction. The Kerton family spent eight lively years in this home they built. When the time to move came once again, the family found themselves back in Pequannock. After some years, and with an empty nest, the couple made a move south to beautiful Cape May. Seven enjoyable years passed, and a need to be near their children and grandchildren was fulfilled. They chose West Milford to spend peaceful time together with family.

Margaret is survived by her loving husband Norman and their children - Daryl Kerton and his wife Kirsten, Linda DeCumber and her husband Jon, and Shane Kerton. She is survived by her grandchildren - Jevon Kerton, Bailey Kerton, Kiana Kerton, Jeremiah Kerton, Connor DeCumber, Mia DeCumber and Riley DeCumber.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Pequannock Reformed Church would be greatly appreciated.

Margaret Kerton

March 20, 2025

West Milford

Jo-Ann Nauta (née Harraka)

January 12, 1955 – March 20, 2025

Jo-Ann Nauta, a beloved mother, sister, and friend, passed away in Wayne, NJ, on March 20, 2025, at the age of 70. She was a long-standing resident of Totowa, NJ.

Born in Paterson, NJ, on January 12, 1955, Jo-Ann was the daughter of the late George and Helen Harraka. She was a devoted mother to Dana Nauta and partner Travis Schmeisser of Brooklyn, NY, Ashlee Nauta, and a cherished Sitto to Bear Schmeisser-Nauta and Abigail Manzo.

Jo-Ann is survived by her loving siblings: Patricia Spinella and her husband Peter of Wayne, and Richard Harraka and his wife Maria of Little Falls. She was predeceased by her brother, George (Georgie) Harraka Jr. She was also a beloved aunt to Jeffrey, Keith, and his wife Cheryl, and Rachel, as well as a great-aunt to James and Jordan Spinella. She is also lovingly remembered by extended family Jessica, Brendan and Matilda Nunn.

She will be remembered for her kindness, warmth, love of crafts, Syrian food and watermelon motifs, her enjoyment of bingo and dominoes, and her passion for shopping for the latest fashions.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jo-Ann’s memory are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

National Ataxia Foundation

To accelerate the development of treatments and a cure while working to improve the lives of those living with Ataxia.

Women for Women

To create a world in which all women determine the course of their lives & reach their full potential.

Jo-Ann Nauta

March 20, 2025

Margaret Joan Terry affectionately known as P.J. and Peggy. age 82 passed away Monday, March 17, 2025 in the comfort of Bob, Troy, Linda and Dominick.

Her mother Margaret was from Scranton, PA and her father, Frederick, was from Hawley, PA. They met at Lake Wallenpaupack and married, December 25, 1941. Peggy‘s father was in the weaving industry so they moved to Newton New Jersey where Fred was employed in a weaving mill. Peggy was born in Newton on September 15, 1942 along with her twin brother who died at birth. A few years later, they moved to Scranton to find better employment and it was there that Peggy's sister Florence was born. The family moved to Clifton, New Jersey in 1955, where Peggy and Bob's paths first crossed at Number 10 Middle School. Peggy and Bob graduated Clifton High School in 1960. Soon after, Bob enlisted in the U.S. Navy and Peggy was hired as a secretary to the owner of Blanchete Tool & Gauge in Clifton. Several years later, she became the credit manager at Kem Manufacturing in Fairlawn, N.J. while also working part-time during the tax season for the Leibowtz Accounting Firm in Clifton. In 1967, Peggy and Bob's paths crossed again at the Barn Restaurant in Wyckoff and their relationship grew from there.

Peggy and Bob married December 28, 1968, surrounded by friends and family in Clifton, NJ where they resided and worked, saving money to start a business or buy a home. In 1971, Peggy gave birth to their son, Troy, and since he was such an easy baby (lol), a few months later, they decided to start their own business. In 1972 Terry’s Trophy Shop opened on Route 23 in Wayne, NJ where it still thrives today as Hero's Salute Awards Co. (a name change made in the 90's to market nationwide). With Peggy serving as VP and treasurer and Bob as President and Operations Manager, they spent days and nights working tirelessly in between changing diapers, to make the shop a pillar of the community and recognized all over the tri-state area as the source for LL trophies, engraving and awards for corporations and organizations. After three years of blood, sweat and tears, the business was thriving enough for Peggy and Bob to buy their first home in Packanack Lake where they raised Troy and developed many deep friendships in the Lake Community.

Also, during this time they built a cabin in the Catskills and spent many weekends there with friends. They enjoyed the country life after a busy work week and Troy and his friends and cousins Tim and Jason were able to grow up the "old fashioned way" hunting, camping, fishing, picking berries and riding dirt bikes. Peggy was an amazing cook and baker and loved using her skills to make family gatherings special at home, or entertain friends they brought with them for weekend trips to the cabin. To say Peggy was well rounded would be putting it mildly, as not only was she an extraordinary home maker, cook and baker, but she was with Bob every step of the way risking it all and working tirelessly at the shop to build a solid business that not only served the community but provided a great life. When it came to getting ahead, Peggy worked relentlessly from carrying cinder blocks with Bob to build their Catskill cabin to doing accounts payable, receivable and everything in between at the shop while Bob took care of production. When out of the shop, Peggy would flip the switch to packing all the essentials in by snowmobile or four wheel drive for a weekend cabin getaway or to throw a first-class dinner party at their Packanack home. Peggy was never afraid of hard work, in fact, it was how she loved others. When Troy left for college at ASU, Peg and Bob sold the Packanack home and moved to a beautiful custom log cabin in NY State for a few years, before buying and renovating a ranch style house in Montville. Peggy took great pride in decorating their Montville home tastefully and filled it with a lifetime collection of beautiful antiques and memories of a life well lived.

During the years of raising Troy, Peggy and Bob closed the store during their vacation weeks, exploring the National Parks of the US & Canada. In later years, she and Bob visited Alaska, the Caribbean, Mexico, Wales, England and finally Italy. Peggy also enjoyed visiting her beloved Aunt Bev and Uncle Jeff in Indiana. Throughout adulthood, Peggy remained close with her sister Flossy, a relationship that continued right to the end as Flossy was integral in Peggy's support system while Bob managed her day-to-day care through her Leukemia battle along with Troy and his wife Linda.

Throughout the last 25 years, Peggy enjoyed watching Troy and Linda raise Dominick and took Linda in like a daughter with friendship, advice and unyielding support and love. She also loved being a grandmother to her grandson Dominick which brought back great memories of raising Troy. Throughout Dominick's childhood she enjoyed going to as many of his sporting events as possible, from Tae Kwon Do to football, baseball, lacrosse and wrestling. Just as she did with her own son, she tried to never miss an event and was always glowing when talking about a game or achievement. Peggy had one of her proudest moments when her grandson, Dominick became a US Marine after high school, just about the time she started her fight with Leukemia. Despite her uphill battle for the four years Dominick was serving, her focus was always selfless, and the first words out of her mouth each day to Bob, Troy or Linda was, "How is Dom?"

Of course, this is all just a very brief snapshot of Peggy Terry's life. Peggy, was kind to a fault and would do anything she could to help any one of the many friends she was blessed with, many of which were friendships that have lasted since her youth. She was a supportive, loving wife who epitomized selflessness helping Bob to achieve his goals, build a business, keep an immaculate home and allow him to live life to the fullest by following his passion for hunting from North America to Africa for decades. Peggy will also always be remembered as an amazing mother, grandmother and mother-in-law who never failed to have a kind word, thoughtful advice, a shoulder to cry on, bold encouragement, prayers to Jesus, or, when necessary, a wooden spoon... God has found another angel for sure.

Memorial donations to the Tunnels to Towers or the Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated.

Margaret “Peggy” Terry

March 17, 2025

Towaco

Jaime Buchicchio, age 62, of Wayne, passed with the comfort of his family by his side.

Jaime was born in Jersey City to the late Anthony and Teresa Buchicchio. He grew up at 593 Liberty Avenue and graduated from Hudson Catholic High School, Class of 1980. He later studied engineering at the New Jersey Institute of Technology for three and a half years before pursuing a different career path.

Jaime found his calling at the Hyatt Grand Central New York, where he wore many hats, but most predominantly served as a Banquet Captain for over 20 years. His work was more than just a job—it was a source of immense pride and joy. He took great honor in orchestrating some of the most prestigious events, ensuring every detail was flawless. He had the privilege of meeting celebrities, world leaders, and U.S. presidents, always carrying himself with professionalism and charm. The Grand Hyatt wasn’t just a workplace for him; it was a second home, filled with colleagues who became lifelong friends. Even after retiring in 2020 due to the COVID-19 crisis, his stories from those years remained some of his favorites to share. Jaime also co-founded Nicco’s Restaurant in Jersey City with a partner, successfully running the establishment for more than seven years.

Jaime was a charismatic and personable man with a natural gift for making friends wherever he went. His infectious laughter and sharp sense of humor brought joy to those around him, always ready with a joke or a captivating story. A hardworking and detail-oriented individual. Whether he was riding his bike through the neighborhood, relaxing in his backyard, or tackling projects around the house, he was always on the move, finding joy in the little things that made his home a welcoming and beautiful place for his family.

His wife, Marie, was not just his partner but his best friend and one true love. Jaime adored his wife, from the very first moment he laid eyes on her. When he walked into Rosebuds in Hoboken and saw her, he immediately said, “I’m gonna marry that girl,” knowing right then that she was the one. Their love story began that night, and it would go on to shape the rest of their lives. Their first official date was at Casa Dante in Jersey City, where they quickly realized they had found something special in each other. As their love blossomed, they exchanged vows on August 2, 1987, at Saint Nicholas Church in Jersey City, surrounded by family and friends. Together, Jaime and Marie built a life filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Their thirty-seven years of marriage were a testament to enduring love, devotion, and the unbreakable bond they shared.

Jaime was a devoted father who cherished every moment with his family. His children, Brianna, Matthew, and Giana, were the center of his world—the greatest joys of his life. He found true fulfillment in being their father, always making sure they felt loved, protected, and supported in everything they did. He was more than just a dad; he was their biggest cheerleader, their wisest advisor, and their most loyal friend. Whether it was helping them navigate life’s challenges, celebrating their accomplishments, or simply making them laugh with his sharp wit and unforgettable stories, Jaime’s presence was constant and unwavering. He had a way of making each of his children feel special, as if they were the most important person in the world whenever they were with him.

A devoted family man, Jaime cherished time spent with his loved ones, especially during family vacations and beach trips, where he created lasting memories. He loved to drive his convertible down to Cape May. His passion for travel led him to seek out the best accommodations around the world, ensuring each and every trip was special for his family as well as the many lavish trips he took alone with his wife Marie. He took great pride in knowing these memories shared on vacations would last a lifetime, never batting an eye at any expense.

A true Jersey boy, Jaime had a deep appreciation for classic movies and shows, with The Sopranos being one of his all-time favorites. An avid reader, he enjoyed John Grisham novels, in his downtime. He also loved skiing and fluke fishing beginning in youth and sharing that passion with his son. Jaime valued his friendships deeply. He made it a priority to keep in touch, always picking up the phone to check in, share a laugh, or reminisce about old times. Whether it was a quick call or a long conversation, he cherished those connections and made sure the people in his life knew they mattered to him.

Jaime was incredibly resilient, facing every challenge with unwavering strength and determination. Even in his battle with cancer, his positive spirit never wavered. His warmth, perseverance, and zest for life left an indelible mark on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Jaime was the loving husband of thirty-seven years to Marie (Cannizzaro) Buchicchio; devoted father of Brianna Buchicchio, Matthew Buchicchio, and Giana Buchicchio; and the beloved brother Anthony Buchicchio and his wife Joyce of Jersey City, and sister the late Mia Buchicchio.

In lieu of flowers donations to St Jude's Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Jaime Buchicchio

March 16, 2025

Richard Allen Ruck, age 82, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Saturday, March 15, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.

Richard was born in Passaic, NJ and grew up in Garfield, NJ. He was a graduate of Garfield High School, Class of 1960. Following high school, he began working for Western Electric while attending William Paterson College, where he graduated with a business degree in 1972. He continued his professional career with AT&T until retirement.

Rich met his beloved wife, Joyce Pekaar, in an unexpected way. Though they were acquaintances in high school, it wasn’t until after graduation that they truly got to know each other. Following surgery, Rich was advised by his doctors to take regular walks to regain his strength. His usual route took him past Joyce’s parents’ house, where her family often sat on the front porch, enjoying a cup of tea. At first, they exchanged simple greetings, but those brief moments soon turned into longer conversations. Around that time, Joyce had recently ended a relationship and needed a date for her college prom. She asked Rich, and he happily agreed. However, when his boss threatened to fire him if he took the night off for the prom, Rich chose love over his job. True to his word, he accompanied Joyce to the prom, lost his job, but gained a lifelong partner. In time, he proposed to her at Garrett Mountain and on May 14, 1966, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends at St. Mary’s Church in Passaic. Their marriage began with a honeymoon in Jamaica, where they stayed at the Half Moon Resort.

Rich and Joyce were blessed with three wonderful children and cherished family life together. They created lasting memories on numerous family cruises and at their summer home in Wildwood Crest, where dining at The Lobster House and feeding the seagulls became a family tradition. Their retirement years were filled with adventure, traveling extensively throughout the Caribbean, across most of the United States, and through numerous European countries, including their ancestral homelands of the Netherlands and Hungary.

At home, Rich was a man of many talents, hobbies, and philanthropic pursuits. A gifted craftsman, he could build or repair just about anything. He constructed the addition to their home, built a deck, and finished the basement himself, mastering everything from framing and plumbing to electrical work, siding, drywall, and painting. He also had a passion for restoring antique furniture and driving classic British cars, particularly his Austin Healey and MG.

Rich had a generous heart and a deep love for animals. Throughout the years he was never without a dog at his side. He was a devoted husband, father, and friend—a man whose kindness, skill, and love left a lasting imprint on all who knew him.

Rich was the beloved husband of Joyce (Pekaar) Ruck, blessed in marriage for 58 wonderful years. He was the devoted father of Rick and his wife Margie of Pittsburgh, PA, Lori Varty and her husband Geoff of Annandale, NJ, and Michael and his wife Lilia of Murrieta, CA; proud grandfather of: Hunter Ruck and wife Carlisle Turner, Faith Ruck, Caleb Ruck, Kendall Varty and Abigail Varty. Rich is survived by his brother Kenneth and his wife Rosann of Brooksville FL and his sister-in-law Diane of West Milford NJ as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Rich was predeceased by his loving parents, William and Ethel (Schweighardt) Ruck, and his two brothers, William and Roger.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy for Rich are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Amyloidosis Research Consortium

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Matthew M. Marakovitz, age 86, of Wayne NJ.

Matthew, the older of two sons, was born to Matthew and Elizabeth Marakovitz. While growing up, he and his family lived in Garfield and Clifton before settling in East Paterson, now known as Elmwood Park. He attended St. Leo’s Catholic School for several years, often recollecting that this is where he acquired his facility with math facts and calculation.

As a teenager living in Elmwood Park, Matthew attended Lodi High School. He played on the varsity basketball team and was a member of the glee club. He made friends easily, culminating in being crowned “king” of the junior prom and voted Typical High School Boy and Most Popular. Fifty years and many memories later, he served on the reunion committee, celebrating his high school years and bringing together his classmates.

Following his graduation from Lodi High School with the class of 1956, Matthew found employment quickly as a teller at the Bank of Passaic and Trust Company. In 1957, he enlisted in the United States Army. He was stationed in Schweinfurt, Germany, which whetted his appetite for travel, a passion he avidly pursued later in life. He was a member of the Color Guard and the recipient of the Good Conduct Medal. Matthew served honorably and proudly in the US Army from 1957 to 1959.

After being discharged from the US military, Matthew returned to banking. He honed his skills and advanced to Assistant Vice President at the Bank of Passaic and Clifton. In 1968, he moved to National State Bank for five years. He returned to the Bank of Passaic and Clifton/Valley National Bank where in 1976 he was promoted to Senior Vice President of Marketing. He made two more moves in his career, first to North Jersey Savings and Loan Association and, finally, to the Trust Company of New Jersey. In 2000, he retired from his position as Senior Vice President, Regional Business Development Officer, at the Trust Company of NJ.

Throughout over 40 years in banking, Matthew brought his indefatigable energy, creativity and business acumen to roles in marketing, personnel, and business development. He built strong professional and personal relationships, never hesitated to serve as a mentor, and valued giving back to the community. He was an active member of numerous organizations including Junior Achievement, Passaic Jaycees, The Red Cross, Salvation Army, The Heart Fund, and United Way. He served on the Board of Directors of the Clifton/Passaic Regional Chamber of Commerce. In 1999, he was unanimously elected as Chairman of the Board of the North Jersey Regional Chamber of Commerce. He was known for his strategic vision, passion for local businesses and community engagement.

Matthew met the love of his life, Lois Jane Keyser, roller skating. Saturday night at the local rink was ‘pick-up night;’ Matthew asked her to skate with him and the rest was history. After dating for a few years including the time that Matthew served in the US Army, he proposed to Lois in Goffle Brook Park while they were listening to the “Caballeros” band play on the lawn. As fate would have it, on July 1, 1961, they were married at St. Leo’s Roman Catholic Church in Elmwood Park. The two went on to cherish nearly fifty-two years of marriage until Lois’ passing in February of 2013.  The couple settled and remained in Wayne where they raised both of their daughters - Susan and Sharon.

Nothing in the world meant more to Matthew than providing for and spending time with his family. As a provider, he worked hard and maintained a beautiful home. As a father, he led by example. He took care of the day-to-day and passed on his values. He was a parishioner of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Church and raised his daughters in the Catholic faith. He truly held his wife and girls close to his heart throughout his life, celebrating their successes as if they were his own and supporting them however he could.

He rounded out his full life with many hobbies and interests, always sharing these with others and making many friends along the way. He was a sports enthusiast, holding season tickets for the Giants and following the Yankees. He was also an avid bowler, ping pong player, and ice skater. He enjoyed skiing, a sport which he and his wife Lois first learned in their forties. Matthew and his wife Lois took ballroom and country western dance lessons regularly.  With their close friends, they enjoyed musicals at the Paper Mill Playhouse. After retiring, Matthew and Lois traveled together extensively along with their close friends. They visited many places in the U.S. and went abroad to Europe, traveling to Austria, Denmark, Germany, Italy, Switzerland, and Russia. They also visited many of the U.S. National Parks and covered the Eastern Seaboard from Maine to Florida on their many family vacations.

Matthew will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, and man who had a magnetic personality that drew people to him. He had friends from every walk of life and maintained some friends for over 60 years. He could easily strike up a conversation and captivate an audience with his talent for public speaking and storytelling. He was kind, generous, disciplined and civic minded. He will live on in our loving memories and be forever missed.

Matthew is survived by his two daughters; Sharon Marakovitz of Lincoln Park, NJ, and Susan Marakovitz of Cambridge, MA, one brother Edward Marakovitz and his wife Dorinda Jaquith of Somerville, MA, and two nephews; Christopher Marakovitz, and Matthew Marakovitz.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Matthew’s name may be made to the Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad or the United Way of Northern New Jersey

Matthew M. Marakovitz

March 15, 2025

Ester Dulay Ocampo, age 81 of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, March 15, 2025.

Born in Urbiztondo, Pangasinan, Philippines as the second of five children to Gonzalo and Generosa DeVera Dulay, Ester’s early life was full of wonderful and funny memories with her siblings at her family’s store. Growing up in a large family in the same province, Ester was also close to her many cousins. She worked hard and was admitted to Far Eastern University, one of the Philippines’ premier institutions, to study nursing.

After graduation, Ester lived in a boarding house with other nurses. Ester had to walk back and forth from the hospital at night, and a nurse at the house named Emy suggested her cousin serve as “bodyguard” and keep her company. That was when she was introduced to Carlos Cunanan Ocampo and the couple fell in love. Ester was part of the major recruitment of Filipino nurses to the U.S., so she and Carlos decided to get married and set their sights on the American dream.

Timing was on their side as the two left the Philippines for their honeymoon right before the country fell into a terrible period of Martial Law. Ester and Carlos’s journey did not come without challenge as their flight to Japan experienced a landing gear malfunction which led to an emergency belly landing on the runway in Tokyo. The newlyweds slid down the chute of their small plane to safety and ran away from being in any news reports to avoid creating panic for their family back home. Continuing their travels, the couple finished their honeymoon in Hawaii, and with only a few hundred dollars left in their pockets, Ester and Carlos made their way to New Jersey to build a new better life for themselves and their future family.

Ester passed the U.S. Registered Nurse Boards and immediately earned a position at Passaic General Hospital continuing a nursing career that spanned nearly five decades and included positions in multiple hospitals. She worked at Passaic General (now St. Mary’s General Hospital), Daughters of Miriam, Chilton Medical Center ICU, and Bergen Pines Medical Center (now Bergen New Bridge Medical Center) throughout her long career until she retired in 2020 during the pandemic.

Driven by faith and family, Ester was committed to creating a “colorful life” for her family filled with as many exciting and memorable experiences. Ester took a brief hiatus as an ICU nurse to support the acting endeavors for three of her children as they embarked on unique opportunities ranging from Broadway shows, to commercials, soap operas and films. She traveled with them and helped on set earning her the “stage mom” title that she held with pride.

Throughout her life, Ester’s faith remained constant. As a devoted parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church from 1989 until her passing, she attributed much of her success to God’s grace. Her gratitude manifested in generosity, regularly sending Balikbayan boxes filled with goods to her family and those in need back in the Philippines.

She was known as “Mama Ester” to her beloved “mga apo” (grandchildren). Moments like birthday parties, going pumpkin picking and “just because” visits were made into big memorable moments. Mama Ester attended every dance recital, theater performance, swim meet, sporting event her grandkids took part in. Her minivan was iconic in family adventures, both big and small, symbolizing her belief there was always enough room for everyone to be included. This held true for her grandchildren, shuttling them all around together to all their favorite places, with lots of trips to Chuck E. Cheese. Ester was well known for inviting anyone she met to come to her home to visit, especially for Noche Buena (Filipino Christmas Eve) which was always an open door, an open table and a present for everyone who joined.

Ester took immense pride in her children’s college education, having worked tirelessly to provide them with the opportunity. She always believed in living big and it meant the world to her to see that drive and ambition continue in all her children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and their children. Her legacy of faith, love, and ambition lives on through the generations she helped nurture.

Ester is survived by her husband Carlos Cunanan Ocampo; her four children: Cheryll Ocampo Forsatz and her husband John Forsatz, Christiane Ocampo and her husband Ronald Pottie, Carlos (Chuck) Ocampo, Jr, and Chester Ocampo and his wife Danielle Krumholz; her six grandchildren: Jordan Rose Bernstein, John T. Forsatz, Cadence Cecile Bernstein, Elizabeth Bernadina Forsatz, Avery Alexandra Ocampo, and Baby Ocampo; three of her four siblings: Ramon Dulay, Juan “Sonny” Dulay, and Teresita De La Vega; and fourteen nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her parents, Gonzalo and Generosa DeVera Dulay, and her sister Hilda Bautista.

Ester Dulay Ocampo

March 15, 2025

Marie Corso, 89, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 14, 2025.

Marie was born in June 1935 to Victor and Isabella “Rena” (Robustellini) DeSalvo. She grew up in the family home on Bell Avenue in Lodi and graduated from Lodi High School with the Class of 1953.

After high school, Marie worked for Trubek Chemical Company in East Rutherford until she married the love of her life, Michael Corso. Their families had long known each other, but their romance truly began when Michael was building a home down the block. Marie often walked by, hoping to catch his eye—her plan worked! They fell in love, and after Michael proposed in front of the grotto at St. Francis de Sales Roman Catholic Church in Lodi, they married on May 5, 1956, at St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Lodi. Following their morning ceremony, they indulged in one of their favorite pastimes—watching a Yankees game on TV—before celebrating at their reception at Terribile’s in Lodi. After a honeymoon in Bermuda, they began their life together at 39 Central Avenue, where they raised their four children: Michael, Frank, Vicki, and Tracey. In 1976, they moved into the home they designed together, which Michael built in Maywood. Following Michael’s passing in 1993, Marie eventually relocated to Four Seasons in Wayne and, most recently, to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains.

As a young mother, Marie dedicated herself to raising her children while also serving as the administrative backbone of her husband’s construction business, Corso’s Cabinets. Later, she worked in the business office of Panico’s Hair Salon in Ridgewood.

Marie was actively involved at St. Francis de Sales School in Lodi and participated in the Renew program and Cursillo Movement. She had a special heart for caring for others and lovingly supported a young boy named Johnny by patterning him for several years.

With her impeccable fashion sense, elegance, and grace, Marie was always a true lady. She had a natural talent in the kitchen, creating meals and baked goods so delicious that those lucky enough to enjoy them often said they were restaurant-quality.

Above all else, Marie treasured her family. She found her greatest joy in their company, whether skiing together—more for the camaraderie than the slopes—or simply gathering at home. She adored her grandchildren and cherished every moment spent with them, whether playing cards over fresh-off-the-griddle chocolate chip pancakes, making her famous from-scratch chocolate pudding, or spoiling them with her beloved macaroni and egg dish and all-they-could-eat ice cream. Her love of cooking and baking was passed down to her grandchildren, who credit her with inspiring their own culinary passions.

Marie will be remembered not only for her elegance and class but also for her easy-going, sweet disposition. She will be deeply missed but never forgotten.

Marie was the beloved wife of Michael Corso, Sr., with whom she shared 37 wonderful years of marriage until his passing in December 1993. She was the loving mother of Michael V. Corso, Jr. and his wife, Teri, of Kunkletown, PA; Frank Corso and his wife, Teresa, of Pompton Plains; Vicki Conklin and her husband, John, of Pequannock; and Tracey Sujkowski and her husband, John, of Pompton Plains. She was the cherished grandmother of Michael III, Ryan and his wife, Barret, Bobbi and her fiancé, Pat, Kevin, Bridget, Tom, Brendan, and Connor, as well as the sweet great-grandmother of Jaxon. She is also survived by her dear younger brother, Ron DeSalvo, and his wife, Kathy, of Georgia; her nephews, Victor DeSalvo and Dr. Jeff DeSalvo and his wife, Molly and children. Marie is survived by her Aunt Connie Toth and sisters-in-law Anne Wiggins, and Pat Corso, plus numerous beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins on the Corso and DeSalvo sides. Marie is survived by her dear life-long friends Irma and Gary Carabin. Marie was predeceased by numerous cousins with whom she shared cherished memories as an unofficial member of the “Cousins Club.”

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marie’s name are asked to consider one of the following charities:

American Cancer Society

P.O. Box 6704

Hagerstown, MD 21741

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American Diabetes Association

P.O. Box 7023

Merriefield, VA 22116-7023

Marie Corso

March 14, 2025

Karen M. Hancock (Deblasio), age 71, of Verona, passed Friday, March 14, 2025.

Karen was born in Paterson to Mary and Francis Deblasio and spent many years residing at 159 Liberty Street in Paterson. She attended St. Mary’s Grammar School and later attended John F. Kennedy high school in Paterson and Mary Help of Christians High School in North Haledon. After starting a family, Karen pursued higher education at Montclair State University, earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in Art History. Throughout her life, she has lived in Paterson, Wanaque, Montclair, and Verona.

Karen was a truly caring and considerate woman, always showing love and warmth to those around her. She was passionate about art with an emphasis on watercolor painting and sketching. Her talent for creating beautiful art was matched only by her devotion to her family, especially her beloved granddaughter Bianca, whom she adored. Karen was also a terrific cook and baker. Italian specialties being her favorite from Pasta Fagioli and Broccoli Cavitelli to making Struffoli and chocolate chip cookies during the holidays.

Karen met her future husband Mike at Netzler’s Sweet Shop on Union Avenue in Paterson. They were just teenagers then, when Mike asked her out. They went to see “Summer of ‘42” at the local drive-in theatre which soon led to their engagement. They were married on April 22, 1973 and honeymooned at Lake George later that summer. They settled to a home on Redwood Ave. in Paterson before eventually moving to Haskell in 1986. During their marriage, Mike and Karen visited Ireland, Scotland, Spain, London, Rome, and often spent summers at the New Jersey Shore. Karen and Mike have enjoyed forty-five years together, raising their three children.

Karen was a true theatre enthusiast, making a point to visit Broadway in New York at least three times a year, immersing herself in the magic of live performances. She also loved movies and British sitcoms, like Doc Martin and Downton Abbey. A devoted Beatles maniac, she could talk endlessly about their music and legacy. Karen also cherished outings to lunch with friends and family. Antiquing and yard sales were among her favorite pastimes, as she delighted in uncovering unique treasures and hidden gems.

Karen was also a self-proclaimed germaphobe, always mindful of cleanliness, and above all, she had a heart full of concern for others, constantly worrying about their well-being and happiness. Her kindness and thoughtful nature touched everyone who knew her. She had the reputation as a serial card sender. With a stationery store’s worth of cards at her fingertips for every occasion—thank you cards, birthday cards, Christmas cards, and Mass cards, ensuring no milestone or moment went unrecognized. Her generosity and thoughtfulness knew no bounds, always putting the happiness and comfort of others before her own. A true animal lover, Karen shared her life with several beloved stray cats over the years. Currently, she is devoted to her loyal dog, Pharaoh, who brings her immense joy and companionship. Whether through her affectionate gestures or the unconditional love she showed her furry friends, Karen’s warmth and compassion left a lasting imprint on all who knew her.

Karen was the loving wife of the late Michael Hancock (d. 2018); cherished daughter of Mary “Mimi” Louise Deblasio of Oakland and the late Francis Deblasio; devoted mother of Tara Hancock of Verona, Kyle Hancock of Ringwood, and Jason Hancock of Montclair; dearly loved great-grandmother of Bianca; and loved sister of Mark Deblasio and his wife Patty of Paterson, Damon Deblasio of Lincoln Park, Diane Arbus and her husband Michael of Paterson, and the late Chris Deblasio.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Karen's name may be made to North Shore Animal League or Verona Ambulance Department

Karen M. Hancock

March 14, 2025

Verona

Helen Wisbauer (née Mullanaphy), of Pompton Plains and a long-time resident of Pines Lake in Wayne, NJ, passed peacefully on Friday, March 14, 2025. She was 102!

Born and raised in Paterson, NJ, as the eldest daughter of Henry and Helen (née Grosser) Mullanaphy. She had a younger sister, Edna, who passed away in 2012.

In 1944, Helen married William F. Wisbauer Jr., who predeceased her in February 1980. After graduating high school, she worked at Wright Aeronautical in Paterson, NJ, before dedicating herself as a stay-at-home mother to her two sons. In 1962, she began a career at American Cyanamid Co. in Wayne, NJ, where she worked as an operator in the Wire Room and later as a coordinator in the Transportation Department. She retired in 1986 but maintained many cherished friendships with her coworkers.

After their marriage in 1944, Helen and her husband William made their home in Lodi, NJ, before settling in Pines Lake, Wayne, NJ, where she resided for 60 years. She deeply appreciated the lake's natural beauty and joyfully shared it with her family through annual holiday beach celebrations. She was an active member of the Pines Lake Seniors, engaging in entertaining and cultural activities. For the past four years, she lived at Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ.

Helen had a love for music, dancing at her children’s weddings, and classic movies from the 1940s. She was also an accomplished local artist, winning numerous oil painting awards at the American Cyanamid Hobby Shows and also art exhibitions at Ringwood Manor, NJ. She continued to participate in local art instruction classes with her friends throughout her life.

A devoted member of Pompton Reformed Church in Pompton Lakes, Helen attended and supported faithfully for 65 years.

Helen was the beloved mother of James and his wife, Elaine, of Newfoundland, NJ, and David and his wife, Bonnie, of Hackettstown, NJ. She was blessed with eight cherished grandchildren—Kevin, Brian, Denise, Matthew, Laura, Gretchen, Noelle, and Cortney—as well as seventeen special great-grandchildren: Patrick, Brad Jr., Aubrey, Eljan, Tyler, Peyton, Logan, Lincoln, Landon, Wesley, Carter, Gabriel, Hannah, Grace, Rebekah, Charlotte, and Sadie.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Helen’s memory, may be made to Pompton Reformed Church, 59 Hamburg Tpke, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Helen Wisbauer

March 14, 2025

Howard J. Botbyl passed peacefully at his home on Thursday, March 13, 2025. He joined his beautiful wife, Marion, in Heaven, where they are holding hands once again.

Howard was born to his parents, Abram Botbyl & Frances Boos at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Wayne and never left town. Especially once he met the love of his life, Ms. Marion Downer. They courted for a short time before Howard decided to enlist and join all 7 of his brothers who were serving in the US Army. On September 28th, 1954, at the young age of 18, Howard left before graduating High School and would serve in Germany. Marion waited patiently for his return, and soon they were reunited. On February 1, 1958, Howard & Marion shared their vows, and were together for the next 65 years, before Marion’s passing. Even though Howard went to serve before graduating High School, in 1979 he was awarded his diploma by the United States Congress, acknowledging his life accomplishments in both the US Army, and his career.

Howard learned the craft of masonry from his father Abram, his brothers, and friends who worked with each other for many years. He celebrated 50 years of service with the BACNJ Local #4 in Fairfield, NJ, and retired soon after. His specialty was curved structures, with glass block. Everyone wanted Howard to create magic with their buildings, and that is what he did.

One of the biggest successes of Howards life, was creating the Red Barn Hunting Club. He identified a piece of property near where he and his brothers hunted, and soon it was theirs. At first, the only structure they could afford for his family of 12, was a two-room barn. The main room was all bunk beds, and the smaller room a kitchen. No running water, and no electric, but they didn’t care. That mountain, and that barn, has created so many memories for him and his family, and today, still does for the extended family of nearly 300! The Red Barn is a legacy for the entire Botbyl family to enjoy. A retreat that sits high up on a mountain overlooking the entire Catskill Mountain range, today with more homes, and yes, electric and running water! The Red Barn still stands, and if those walls could talk.. the story’s they would tell. All thanks, to Howard who found the property, and his brothers & sisters who brought that mountain to life.

Howard is survived by his four children: Howard, and his wife Sharon Botbyl of Westbrookville, NY. Cindy Kelly & Ronnie Lenoir of Butler, NJ. Timothy and his wife Linda Botbyl of Westbrookville, NY, and Christine and her husband Billy Struble of Newton, NJ. Howard was blessed with 10 Grandchildren: Justin, Jessica, Tim, Kyle, James, Rebecca, Emily, Ryan, Robert and Randall, as well as 9 Great Grandchildren: Kaylee, Joey, Bently, Hunter, Alexis, Peter, Ronnie, Madelyn & Millie.

Howard J. Botbyl

March 13, 2025

Karen Ann Havel (nee Arbucci), age 51 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, March 12, 2025, with her family gathered at her bedside.

Karen grew up in the Bronx until she was about 8 years old, when her family moved to Wayne, NJ. She graduated from Wayne Valley High School the class of 1991, where she was on the basketball team. She went on to earn her bachelor’s degree from William Paterson University with aspirations of being a schoolteacher. However, shortly after graduation she began working in banking, which ultimately became her career path. She started with Wayne Savings Bank and then to Valley Bank where she has served twenty plus years working her way up to Senior Personal Banker. She was very good at her job and especially loved her customers and working with her co-workers.

Karen met her husband, Travis, after being introduced by a mutual friend. When the time came for Travis to propose, he gave Karen a new toolbox…which didn’t exactly excite her. But he encouraged her to open the toolbox, and inside she found a sparkling engagement ring! They were married on October 2, 2004, at Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne, and honeymooned in Hawaii. During their marriage, they attended countless NASCAR races, football games, and minor league hockey and baseball games. They were big fans of the Wilkes-Barre Penguins, and they enthusiastically participated in the “toss a teddy bear” tradition, where fans would throw teddy bears onto the ice after the Penguins scored their first goal. She was able to enjoy this tradition this past December with her sister Patty and nephew Devin.

Karen is survived by her loving parents; Vincent and Barbara Arbucci of Wayne, two sisters; Lorraine Arbucci and her husband David Holowiecki of Saint Cloud, Florida; Patricia Arbucci of Pompton Plains and three nephews; Dylan, Derek, and Devin Rhinesmith and their Father William Rhinesmith. and her sister’s two dogs Penny and Harley of Wayne, NJ.

She was predeceased by her husband, Travis, in 2022, who she missed dearly every day.

Karen Havel

March 12, 2025

Anne Frances Drago (Serpico), age 88, of Wayne passed away peacefully Monday March 10th, 2025.

Anne was born to John and Josephine Serpico in Jersey City, New Jersey. After graduating from high school, she went on to secretarial school and soon after began working as a bank teller in Journal Square. It was there that a handsome gentleman would purposefully get on her line to make the weekly deposits from Paramount Grocery Store. One week, rather than writing the deposit amount on the ticket, he wrote a note asking her on a date. She accepted and the rest was history. Anne and Anthony (Tony) Drago were married on January 4, 1964, and shared a fun loving and faithful marriage until his death in January of 1993.

After Anne and Tony were married, they left Jersey City and moved to Wayne. Anne stayed home raising their only daughter Susan. When Susan was in 7th Grade, Anne took a job as a secretary to the Dean of the Art Department at William Paterson University. It was there she made many friends and had a wonderful career spanning almost 20 years.

Anne was a faithful and devoted member of her church community. She found much joy going to Sunday Mass and singing along to Liturgical Music. Anne was a woman whose thoughts were never a mystery. You always knew exactly what she was thinking, good or bad. She always had a way of keeping her friends and family on their toes. For many years Anne enjoyed taking trips to Atlantic City and Mount Airy to make her donation. She spent many summers visiting her nephew’s marina in Lewisetta, Virginia where she spent long and peaceful hours sitting on the beach waving to the boats that passed by. It was one of her and Tony’s favorite places to be. The yearly family reunions were something she really looked forward to, despite the long car rides and too much traffic.

Anne was Nana to two beautiful granddaughters Jenna and Gabrielle. She took great joy in their game nights. Whether it was a friendly round of Go Fish or an intense checkers match, this competition brought them all closer together creating memories that will be cherished forever.

After Tony died Anne moved in with Susan, Charles and the girls. She enjoyed watching the girls grow up. Some of her favorite things were taking them to McDonald’s after picking them up from school, making the best peanut butter and jelly sandwiches for lunch and being a fixture at so many of their soccer and softball games. Those are only a few of the precious memories that will be fondly and lovingly remembered.

Anne was predeceased by her husband Anthony (Tony) Drago, her parents Michael and Josephine Serpico as well as her brother Michael Serpico and sister Grace Scerbo. Anne is survived by her loving daughter Susan and her husband Charles and their two daughters Jenna and Gabrielle. She is also “TanTan” to many nieces and nephews who always held a special place in her heart.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Faith Hospice Care, Fairfield, NJ.

Anne Drago

March 10, 2025

Joseph “Joe” Cretella, age 95, of Pompano Beach, Florida – formerly of Wayne, NJ and Brooklyn, NY – passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 8, 2025.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Joe learned the values of hard work and perseverance at an early age. When his mother passed away when he was just 13 years old, he took on the responsibility of helping to support his family, sweeping floors at EJ Trump Printing Company. Through dedication and determination, he earned the opportunity to become an apprentice printer. However, his path took a different turn when he enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1951. Serving as a private first class and a medic during the Korean War, he was stationed in Germany and was awarded the Army of Occupation Medal. Upon returning home from his military service in 1953, Joe resumed employment at EJ Trump Printing Company, where he advanced over the next thirty-five years before concluding his career at Queens College in Queens, NY. After a decade of service, he retired in 1998, ready to enjoy life’s next chapter.

In 1949, Joe met the love of his life, Angelina Lanza, through mutual friends. Despite the distance and challenges of his military service, their love endured, strengthened by letters and the promise of a future together. When he returned home in 1953, they knew they were meant to be. On November 13, 1954, they exchanged vows and began a beautiful journey together. Their forty-three-year marriage was filled with love, devotion, and the joy of raising their four sons—Louis, Joseph Jr., John, and Frank.

Joe’s adventurous nature shone through the way he embraced new experiences—one of the most memorable being a spontaneous trip to Lake George, NY, inspired solely by a friend’s recommendation. Without reservations, he loaded up the car with his wife, kids, and a batch of homemade eggplant sandwiches before setting off on an adventure. They eventually stumbled upon Whispering Pines, a cozy spot nestled along the Hudson River. That first visit sparked a beloved family tradition, as Lake George became their summer retreat for years to come, filled with laughter, scenic views, and cherished memories that spanned generations.

A natural athlete, Joe excelled in every sport he played, but baseball was his passion. As a phenomenal third baseman and a powerhouse at the plate, he even caught the attention of the Brooklyn Dodgers. However, at his father’s insistence, he pursued a more traditional career path. Though he set aside his baseball dreams, his love for the game never wavered. A true baseball fan and a devoted NY Mets fan, he coached his sons’ Little League teams and loved playing catch in the yard with his grandchildren.

Joe had a quiet strength and a sharp sense of humor, often delighting his grandchildren with funny faces and serenading his family with his favorite Frank Sinatra songs. He found joy in the little things—cheering for his beloved NY Mets, watching classic westerns like "Gunsmoke," and never missing an episode of "Wheel of Fortune" or "Jeopardy." But above all, he was “Pop,” not just to his grandchildren, but to everyone who knew him. His warm, loving, and steady nature had a way of making everyone around him feel special. In his later years, Joe found joy in wintering in Pompano Beach, FL, where he could relax, fish from the pier, and enjoy life’s simple pleasures.

Joe was the devoted husband of forty-three years to the late Angelina Cretella (d. 1997); a loving father to Louis (Josephine) Cretella of Lakeland, FL, Joseph (Maureen) Cretella of Wayne, NJ, John (Rose) Cretella of Manalapan, NJ, and Frank (Debra) Cretella of Staten Island, NY; a cherished “Pop” to his grandchildren—Annie, Joseph, Amanda, Amy, Kristina, Joey, Thomas, Michelle, Stephanie, Francesca, Julianna, Anthony, and John; and a beloved great-grandfather to Allie, Angelina, Isabella, Serena, Scarlett, Joseph John (JJ), Eliana, Christopher, and Gabrielle. He was also a dear brother to the late Frank, Tessie, Louis, and Anthony.

Joe’s legacy is one of love, laughter, and unwavering dedication to his family. His warmth and kindness will be deeply missed but forever remembered in the hearts of those who knew and loved him.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Tunnel to Towers Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Joseph Cretella, Sr.

March 8, 2025

Rob Williams, age 60 of Pequannock, NJ died suddenly and unexpectedly on Friday, March 7, 2025. “Big Rob,” as he was affectionately known, was raised in Pompton Lakes and lived in Pequannock since 1993.

If you’re reading this, the odds are pretty good that Rob has helped you or bailed you out of trouble at some point in time. He would drop everything to help a friend in need, and was a true “MacGyver” who could build or fix anything. He rarely met a challenge he couldn’t overcome, with skills ranging from HVAC, auto mechanics, motorcycle repair, carpentry, excavating, and just about everything else. His garage was his haven, and at any given time you could find a variety of projects underway, like a Jeep CJ, a Harley-Davidson, or a home improvement project. He was a very smart guy and knew how to do everything.

Rob’s early years were enjoyed in Pompton Lakes where he lived with his adored mother, Bette and forged his lifelong friendships. He graduated from Pompton Lakes High School with the class of 1983. He was a proud member of the Sigma Kappa Delta fraternity in high school, and he remained close with his fellow fraternity brothers throughout the years. As a teenager, Rob loved riding dirt bikes, quads, and going four-wheeling up Federal Hill with his friends. He infamously rode his dirt bike down the halls of his high school, riding a wheely the whole way, earning himself a school suspension (well worth it). He had a reputation for being a bit crazy in those days and his antics were always in the spirit of good fun. It was at Pompton Lakes High School that Rob met Danielle Cappetta. She had no interest in dating a guy with his sort of ‘reputation,’ but he was persistent, and she reluctantly agreed to go out with him for one date – just one. That one date was all it took for Rob to win her heart and their loved blossomed. They were married on September 11, 1993 and bought their home in Pequannock soon thereafter. They began raising a family, eventually welcoming a son, Robbie, Jr. and a daughter, Nikki. Rob was an amazing dad, very hands-on, and he loved watching his kids play sports. He enjoyed taking them camping, quad riding, and on summer vacations to Wildwood, NJ. His kids particularly remember Rob pulling them around behind his quad in a sled after a big snowstorm, riding quads at Uncle Billy’s, and going to monster truck shows. Most recently, Rob was helping his son, Robbie, to fix up his own home. The kids made great memories with their dad that they will hold onto forever.

Rob was a big guy with an imposing, almost scary presence. He had a ‘resting grump face,’ as his daughter describes, which made him look intimidating. But Rob was a big teddy bear at heart, who may very well have loved animals more than people! Although he didn’t smile often, his daughter recalled how Rob had an ear-to-ear smile throughout the sealion show at Hershey Park. Critters made him happy. His own dogs and cats melted his heart daily and they meant the world to him. Rob has had many pets throughout the years, currently loving on Nash & Dakota, his dogs, and two cats named Tigger and Boo. They’re all going to miss him.

Rob is predeceased by his mother Bette Soder and mother-in-law April Cappetta. He is survived by his beloved wife of thirty-one years, Danielle, of Pequannock, their two children; Robbie, Jr. of Rockaway, and Nikki of Pequannock, a brother; Bob Soder and his wife Mary of Bayville, NJ , his father-in-law Frank Cappetta of Lincoln Park, two sisters-in-law; Tracy Rosky and her husband Pete of Wayne, Suzanne Deutsch and her husband Bert of Wayne, as well as his niece and nephews

Rob “Big Rob” Williams

March 7, 2025

Pequannock

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Paul S. Tanis, age 74, of North Haledon, NJ. Paul passed away peacefully on Friday, March 7, 2025 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Paul was born in Paterson, raised in Hawthorne, and was one of four sons born to Roy and Virginia Tanis. As a boy growing up with three brothers, Paul became a talented athlete. He played baseball as a young boy and later while a student at Hawthorne High School, he played football and basketball for the school’s teams. Following his graduation from high school with the class of 1967, Paul enrolled at William Paterson University where he earned his bachelor’s degree. He later went back for his two master’s degrees in both Administration and Mathematics.

Paul found employment quickly and accepted a position as a math teacher with the Mahwah Board of Education. He first taught in Park Ridge High School and later the township’s middle school. It was in middle school where Paul found his career as a teacher most rewarding. Paul also coached Junior Varsity basketball for a number of years and was the administrator for the school’s summer school program. Paul was truly dedicated to his profession and was sincerely loved and respected by his colleagues, peers, and his students. During his summers between school years, Paul would often take on handy man jobs, painting, and building projects.

Paul’s career as a teacher with the Mahwah Board of Education spanned over three decades until his retirement in 2010.

While at his brother’s wedding in 1974, Paul met a young attractive woman by the name of Kathy Bertsch. The two hit it off wonderfully and started dating. After about a year, as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on June 21, 1975 at St Nicholas RC Church in Palisades Park, NJ. The newlyweds lived in an apartment for about a year then bought a house in North Haledon where they have been ever since. While living there, they raised both of their beloved daughters, Jessica, and Lauren.

Paul never lost his love of sports and enjoyed playing in a men’s basketball league well into his forties. He had a true love of the great outdoors. He and his family cherished their yearly summer vacations to Cape Cod, where he would lavish freshwater fishing, canoeing, walking and hiking. He was also a talented cook and was famous by family and friends for his Italian food dishes and recipes. Paul could frequently be found in his back or front yard landscaping, gardening, and meticulously manicuring his property.

Aside from all Paul’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Paul than spending time with his family and friends. In 2021, the family’s world was shattered when his beloved daughter Lauren passed away.

Paul had a wonderful and infectious sense of humor and a knack for keeping everyone around him on their toes. He loved to tease his friends and family, always ready with a witty remark or a mischievous grin. Practical jokes were his specialty, he found endless joy in harmless pranks. But beneath all the laughter, Paul had a heart of gold; his jokes were never mean-spirited, just his way of bringing a little extra fun into people’s lives. No matter the situation, he had a way of turning even the dullest moments into something unforgettable.

Paul will be forever remembered as a truly devoted husband, father, grandfather, and a man who dedicated his life to teaching others.

Paul is survived by his wife Kathy (nee Bertsch) of North Haledon, NJ, one daughter Jessica Tanis of Montclair, NJ, two brothers, Roy Tanis and his wife Peg of Melbourne Beach, FL, and Tod Tanis and his wife Lisa of Melbourne Beach, FL, one granddaughter Quinn Raineri of Wayne, NJ, and one son-in-law Kevin Raineri of Wayne, NJ. Paul was predeceased by his daughter Lauren Raineri in 2021 and his brother David Tanis.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Paul’s name may be made to Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary RC Church or the Alzheimer’s Association

Paul S. Tanis

March 7, 2025

North Haledon

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Albert Jablonski, age 75, of Wayne NJ.

Albert was born in Germany and was the oldest of three children born to Edward and Stephanie Jablonski. When Albert was only two years old, his parents left their homeland in Europe and immigrated to the United States for a better life and in search of the American Dream. The family settled in Newark, NJ upon arriving in the US, then moved to Irvington, NJ after a couple of years. It was in Irvington where Albert would spend his formative years. He attended high school in Irvington and graduated with the class of 1968. Following his high school graduation, he attended Rutgers University in Newark where he earned his Bachelor of Science Degree in Zoology.

Albert was a hardworking and adaptable man who built a diverse career across different industries. With his degree in zoology, he found work in a local laboratory conducting animal research. However, needing more financial stability, he transitioned into working as a forklift operator, working for multiple companies over the years. Despite the blatant contrast between his two fields of work, Albert took pride in everything he did.

In 1975 Albert met an attractive young lady by the name of Annmarie Griswold. Annmarie’s brother was dating Albert’s sister. The two hit it off wonderfully and started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on January 27, 1979 surrounded by friends and family. The couple settled in Wayne, NJ where they raised their three sons: Keith, Alan, and Jason. After years of marriage and raising three sons together, the couple realized they had grown apart and ultimately decided to separate.

Albert had a deep passion for gardening, spending countless hours tending to his vegetable patches, vibrant flower beds, and carefully cultivated his rose bushes. He could often be found in his front and back yards meticulously manicuring his home’s landscape. He took great pride in his talent as a gardener and constantly sought to expand his knowledge. This led him to join a Master Gardening Club in Wayne.

Albert also enjoyed puzzles, billiards and anything having to do with the great outdoors. However, Albert’s greatest passion in life was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Albert than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren. Throughout his life he cherished their family vacations to Seaside Heights, Ocean City, MD and other destinations at the Jersey Shore. Albert was not only dedicated to his family but also to his Christian Faith. He was deeply spiritual and religious.

Albert was often very quiet and serious. He was a deeply intellectual man who thrived on learning, constantly immersing himself in books, documentaries, and thought-provoking discussions. He had a wonderfully dry sense of humor which everyone loved about him. There was never a question about Albert’s opinion or thoughts due to his bluntness, which many people often appreciated.

Albert will be forever remembered as a loving father, and a devoted and cherished grandfather. He was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around him. He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Albert is survived by his three sons: Keith Jablonski and his wife Virginia of Cape Coral, FL, Alan Marandola and his husband Sabatino Marandola, Jr. of Cedar Grove, NJ, and Jason Jablonski of Wayne, NJ, one sister Mary Toepfer and her husband Mikle of Sand Springs, OK, two grandchildren; Kori Jablonski of Cape Coral, FL, and Elise Marandola of Cedar Grove, NJ, and his former wife Annmarie Kozla of Cape Coral, FL. He was predeceased by his sister Joan Jablonski.

Albert Jablonski

March 7, 2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph F. Vitale, age 86, of Wayne, NJ.

Joseph passed away peacefully at his home on Tuesday, March 4, 2025. Joe was born and raised in the Riverside section of Paterson. NJ, one of two children to Joseph and Lena Vitale. As a child growing up in Paterson, Joe was an avid baseball player where he played on All Wag baseball teams. As a student at Eastside High School in Paterson, Joe continued his love of the game, playing for the school’s varsity baseball team. Joe graduated from Eastside High School with the class of 1956.

Joe had always dreamed of serving his country. The moment he graduated from high school, he enlisted in the U.S. Marines. Joe was promoted to the rank of Corporal while serving with the marines. He was stationed in Beirut and Turkey during US peace missions. Joe served proudly and honorably with the US Marines from 1956 to 1959.

After being honorably discharged from the military, Joe enrolled at Fairleigh Dickenson University where he played baseball and earned his Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting in May 1963. While in school he had interned at an accounting firm and decided it was not for him. Joe realized he wanted to teach and was offered a provisional teaching position with the Hawthorne Board of Education. He taught business subjects at Hawthorne High School beginning in September 1963. Joe returned to school at night and Saturdays taking teaching classes at Seton Hall University, where Joe earned his Master’s Degree. He then accepted a permanent position as a teacher at Hawthorne High School, teaching accounting and economics. Joe also served as Freshman and Junior Varsity football coach at Hawthorne High School.

Throughout his career Joe not only taught but eventually served as Principal of several elementary schools within Hawthorne and Lincoln Middle School. Joe’s career in education spanned nearly forty years until his retirement in 1998. Throughout his career Joe was truly and sincerely loved by his colleagues, peers, and students alike. Although he enjoyed being a Principal, he always missed being in the classroom.

As a young man, Joe was attended a friend’s wedding where he met Elinore Sesso. Joe and Elinore later became husband and wife. During their marriage they lived in Paterson, Fair Lawn, and eventually the town of Wayne where they raised their two sons, Stephen and Thomas.

Joe was an avid golfer. He treasured his golf vacations and golf outings with his friends as well as his trips to college football games. Joe was a die-hard New York sports fan, dedicating his Sundays in the fall to cheering on, and often complaining about the Giants. He spent his summers glued to every Yankees game. Joe was also known as a talented individual in the kitchen. He was a wonderful cook and famous with family and friends for his various Italian dishes and recipes. Christmas Eve dinner was hosted at the Vitale household for 51 years.

Aside from Joe’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Joe than providing for and spending time with his sons, and granddaughters. Joe could be a “tough guy”, but it was very apparent he had a soft side for his granddaughters who adored him. He was a true guy’s guy and easy to get along with. Many of his friends and family would often come to Joe for his advice and knowledge.

Joe will forever be remembered as a truly devoted father, grandfather, and a dedicated teacher and member of his community. Joe touched the lives of countless people throughout his life, and he will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Joe is survived by his two sons, Stephen Vitale and his wife Lily of Newbury Park, CA, and Thomas Vitale and his wife Florence of Wyckoff, NJ, four grandchildren: Samantha Vitale of Newbury Park, CA, Adelina Vitale of Newbury Park, CA, Gianna Vitale of Wyckoff, NJ, and Ava Maria Vitale of Wyckoff, NJ, former wife Elinore, along with many loving nieces and nephews. Joe was predeceased by his sister Rosemarie Greco and his brother-in-law Frank Greco.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Joe’s name may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital , Wounded Warrior Project, or the American Heart Association

Joseph F. Vitale

Test

Julia Clark-Molloy (née Aboyoun), a devoted mother, grandmother, sister, and cherished friend, passed away peacefully on March 2 surrounded by her loving family.

Julia’s greatest joy was spending time with family, especially her grandchildren, whom she adored beyond measure. Julia also loved sharing her delicious Syrian cooking with loved ones.

Julia was born and raised in Paterson where she met her lifelong best friend, Patti Tahan (née Coussa), with whom she shared a bond that truly lasted a lifetime. A woman of faith, Julia was an active parishioner of St. Ann’s Melkite Catholic Church, where she found joy in reading the Epistle during Liturgy for many years.

Julia now joins in heaven her beloved parents, Joseph and Mary (née Harraka) Aboyoun, and her dear brother, George Aboyoun, who passed before her.

Julia was a loving mother to her son, Matthew Clark, and his wife, Melissa; her daughter, Michelle Kight, and her husband, Scott; a cherished Sito to her grandchildren, Caitlin Maeve Tarpey, Lindsay Clark, Marin Tarpey, Gavin Clark, and Julian Kight; devoted sibling to sister Ann Aboyoun, and brother Joe Aboyoun and his wife Robin; and a beloved Aunt to niece Stacy Aboyoun Martinez and nephew Mark Aboyoun.

Julia will be deeply missed, but her warmth, kindness, and love will live on in our hearts until we meet again.

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In lieu of flowers, please send a donation to St. Ann's Melkite Catholic Church 802 Rifle Camp Rd, Woodland Park, NJ 07424.

Julia Clark-Molloy

March 2, 2025

Woodland Park

Katherine Torsiello, a loving daughter, sister and aunt, passed away into God’s loving embrace on March 2, 2025.

Katherine, a longtime resident of Kearny, NJ and, more recently Wayne, NJ, was born February 23, 1929 and raised in Newark, NJ by her late parents Anthony and Mary (Lapenz) Torsiello. Besides her parents, Katherine was predeceased by her brothers Victor and Vincent Torsiello and sister Elizabeth Walendzinski as well as her life partner and love of her life, Edward A. Forfa. In addition to her beloved brother, Anthony Torsiello of Newington, CT, Katherine leaves to mourn her loss several nieces and nephews as well as several grand-nieces and grand-nephews.

Katherine Torsiello

March 2, 2025

Kearny

Mafalda Castellano, age 95, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 1, 2025, surrounded by the loving presence of her family.

Mafalda was born in Frosinone, Italy, the second eldest of four children born to Crescenzo and Antonia (Capozio) DiCocco. Her early childhood was spent in Italy, and she often shared stories with her children about milking cows and tending chickens. At the age of eight, Mafalda, her mother, and her older brother immigrated to the United States to join her father, who had come ahead of them to work as a house painter and mason. Crescenzo helped lay Belgian block to construct the streets of Newark, NJ, all to establish a foundation for his family’s future in their new country.

One evening at a church dance in Newark, Mafalda caught the eye of a handsome young man with a big smile named Carmen Castellano. With his natural warmth and charm, Carmen quickly won Mafalda’s heart, and soon they were a steady couple. They married on April 24, 1949, at Saint Philip Neri Church in Newark. Their first home as newlyweds was a cold-water flat in Newark, where they welcomed their first child, Alex. Before long, they upgraded to a hot-water apartment in Belleville, where their second son, Raymond, was born. When that apartment became too small, the growing family moved again—this time just around the corner—to a larger home where their daughter Diane was born. Mafalda and Carmen raised their family in Belleville until 1988, when they relocated to the Packanack Woods section of Packanack Lake in Wayne.

Mafalda was the quintessential Italian mother and homemaker—capable of just about anything. She painted, wallpapered, gardened, cut the lawn, trimmed the bushes, and even changed electrical outlets and switches all by herself. Most people would think twice about tackling electrical work, but Mafalda’s resourcefulness knew no bounds. Her home was always filled with the mouthwatering aromas of her Italian cooking, and her husband Carmen often said no restaurant could hold a candle to his wife’s culinary talents.

Mafalda also had a gift with a needle and thread. She sewed many of her own clothes and crafted beautiful knitted and crocheted blankets and quilts, which she shared generously with family and friends. To most, her daily work might have seemed exhausting, but to Mafalda, it was a labor of love—she truly enjoyed every minute. There was one other passion that brought her joy: shopping. Wherever Mafalda went, she loved hunting for stylish clothing that would keep her looking her best.

Once her children reached a certain independence, Mafalda entered the workforce. She held positions at Mutual Benefit Life Insurance Company in Newark and later at Lummus of Bloomfield, where she served as an engineering administrator.

Family vacations were a cherished tradition, especially the annual trips to Wildwood Crest down the Jersey Shore. Later in life, Mafalda and Carmen enjoyed traveling with friends—visiting Europe several times, taking a memorable trip to Hawaii, and embarking on a number of cruises. After retirement, the couple began a new chapter in a retirement community in Lakewood, NJ, before returning to Wayne in 2013, where they remained for the rest of their lives.

Mafalda’s Christian faith was a cornerstone of her life. While living in Belleville, she was a devoted parishioner of Holy Family Church in Nutley, where she attended Mass regularly and took great comfort in her faith. Her belief in God’s grace gave her strength through life’s challenges and joy in life’s blessings, and it remained a guiding light throughout her years.

Despite her many interests and talents, Mafalda’s greatest love was always her family. Her children and their spouses were her pride and joy, and her grandchildren were the apples of her eye. She cherished every moment spent with them. A weekly gathering with her sisters and her mother was another treasured tradition that Mafalda always eagerly anticipated. Her beloved husband Carmen was her forever sweetheart, and together they enjoyed a remarkable 73-year marriage until Carmen’s passing in 2023.

Mafalda was the loving mother of Alex and his wife Nancy Castellano of Colonie NY, and the cherished grandmother of their son Mark Castellano and daughter Laura, along with Laura’s husband Nicholas Stong. She was also the adoring great-grandmother of their children Dylan and Cameron. She was the loving mother of Raymond and his wife Maryellen Castellano of Bradley Beach NJ, and the proud grandmother of their son Steven Castellano. She was the loving mother of Diane and her husband Alfred Ascione of Wayne NJ, and the cherished grandmother of their daughter Nicole and her husband Christopher Diaz, as well as their son Jesse and a daughter on the way, and their daughter Kristen Ascione. Mafalda is also survived by her dear sisters, Norina Fuschetti (predeceased by her husband Alfred in 1999) and Cleo Boiko (predeceased by her husband John in 1997). She was also predeceased by her brother Dionisio DiCocco in 2013 and his wife Messina in 2012.

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In lieu of flowers, those who wish to honor Mafalda’s memory are kindly asked to consider a donation to:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Department

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make checks payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

Mafalda Castellano

March 1, 2025

Frank Holzl, age 84 of Wayne, passed away on Friday, February 28, 2025.

Born as the younger of two children to Frank and Othelia Holzl, Frank grew up in Saddlebrook. His family passed on to him the beauty of being out and around nature. Frank loved taking hunting trips to Nahmakanta Maine where he spent time with his father, grandfather and a number of friends. He forged a special connection with his best friend, cousin and hunting partner John Rabinsky. They were inseparable and would spend hours on end chatting about life, hunting, fishing and working on numerous projects until John's passing in 2022.

Frank enjoyed spending his free time in his backyard. He loved seeing the deer roam his property and quiet time spent watching and maintaining his fishpond along with his four-legged friend Abby, was time well spent. He was also very active in and around his home even in his 80's, there was no project too big or too small. He was not afraid to climb up on the roof and change or fix whatever needed fixing much to the dismay of his friends and family. He had incredible energy and an amazing will forward. Outside of his wildlife endeavors, frank was a very creative man. He was a taxidermist, a woodworker, and an architect of sorts. He was able to build and recreate almost anything. Truly a talented man.

Frank was the epitome of a family man. He married his high school sweetheart Leanore La Russo on September 4th, 1966, and remained happily married until her passing in June 25th, 2001. Frank's confidant and partner was always his daughter Dawn and will remain so forever. They enjoyed some of the same hobbies such as crafting, spending time down the shore and most notably party planning. Frank was famous for hosting a huge 4th of July party while sporting his famous plaid shirts and sipping on a cold Coors Light.

Frank was calm, fun, thoughtful and loving. He had a huge heart that was best demonstrated by his constantly growing family. He welcomed everyone, genuinely enjoyed the company of others and was always willing to help those in need.

He is survived by his only daughter Dawn Holzl, sister Carol Holzl Polito, his niece and two nephews Margaret Sabino, Emio Polito, Frank Polito and honorary grandchildren, Serenity Rodriguez, Jeramiah Rodriguez and Maya Villarreal.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Frank's memory to the Wildlife Conservation Society, ASPCA, or the American Heart Association.

Frank Holzl

February 28, 2025

IMPORTANT: DUE TO THE SNOW STORM FORCASTED FOR SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 15, 2025, ALL FUNERAL SERVICES FOR ROSE MASTRORILLI HAVE BEEN RESCHEDULED TO TAKE PLACE ONE WEEK LATER, ON SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 22, 2025. VISITATION WILL BE FROM 2-4 PM AND A SERVICE WILL IMMEDIATELY FOLLOW AT 4:00 PM.

Rose Mastrorilli was truly one of a kind! A big heart and a fiercely independent spirit, she enjoyed life on her own terms. Rose, of Whiting NJ and formerly of Cliffside Park NJ, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 27, 2025 at the age of 94.

Rose was the daughter of Elizabeth and George Popovich, and one of six children raised in the family’s home on Lafayette Street in Jersey City, NJ. She graduated from Lincoln High School in 1948.

In 1952, Rose met her beloved husband, Joe, on a blind date at a local bowling alley. While her first impression of Joe’s bowling advice wasn’t exactly favorable - resulting in numerous gutter balls - subsequent dates went much better. Their relationship endured even when Joe enlisted into the U.S. Army and was stationed in Munich, Germany. With no email in those days, they stayed connected through countless letters. When Joe returned home, he proposed with a beautiful engagement ring, and on October 30, 1954, they exchanged vows in a joyful autumn wedding. Their honeymoon took them to Miami, Florida.

After the honeymoon, Rose and Joe started married life together in an apartment on Pine Street in Jersey City. They were soon blessed with the birth of their firstborn, Joan, who was followed by baby sister Marian. In 1960, they moved to their own home in Cliffside Park, where they enjoyed a stunning view of the New York City skyline. After 28 years, they relocated to Marietta, GA, for Joe’s job. Sadly, Joe passed away just a year later in March 1989. With no deep ties to Georgia, Rose moved back north, settling in a houseboat in Northfield, NJ, her favorite home ever, at the Jersey Shore. She spent the next eight years there, visiting Atlantic City’s casinos, where she favored slot machines and enjoyed shows by entertainers like Jerry Seinfeld and Don Rickles. Eventually, she moved to a mobile home in Whiting, NJ, until 2023, when at age 92, declining health necessitated her move to Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center in Oakland, NJ.

Rose was sharp-witted and intelligent. She worked as a secretary for various Manhattan companies, including a role with the Army Signal Corps. After taking time to raise her daughters, she returned to work as a secretary in the physical therapy department at Hudson Manor Nursing Home in North Bergen, NJ. She essentially ran the department and loved every moment of her job, earning the respect of coworkers and residents alike. She worked there for about ten years before leaving in the early 1980s. Rose never needed a driver’s license, she simply walked to work every day.

Despite her sharp mind (she could write backward and upside down), Rose preferred to keep life simple. She never embraced modern technology. Her idea of a cell phone was a well-worn cordless phone held together with tape. Rather than streaming movies, she relied on her VHS player, and she balanced her checkbook to the penny using nothing but a pencil and scrap paper.

Rose found joy in creating handmade gifts for friends and family with liquid embroidery, a fabric painting technique that gave a three-dimensional effect similar to embroidery. She decorated T-shirts with original designs, bed sheets with Archie comic characters, and lyrics from songs including originals by her daughter Marian. She was also a gifted Hungarian cook, known for family favorites like potato soup with kielbasa, stuffed cabbage, kapusta, potato salad and pot roast. Her ability to make perfect gravy from seemingly nothing earned her the affectionate title of "The Gravy Master."

Above all, Rose will be remembered as a devoted mother, mother-in-law, sister, aunt, and friend. She was a kindhearted and generous woman who valued people over possessions and always gave freely to those in need. Rose had particular affection for cats, and always had a cat in her life. She had a wonderful and mischievous sense of humor, making her a joy to be around.

Rose was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Mastrorilli, with whom she shared 35 wonderful years of marriage. She was a loving mother to her daughters, Joan Mastrorilli and her companion Trapper Quinn of Wayne, NJ, and Marian Mastrorilli and her husband Glenn Govier of Huntington, NY. She was predeceased by her five siblings: George Popovich, Joseph Kizmann, William Popovich, Anna Marie Shustowitz, and Clara McGill. She was also a dear aunt to many nieces and nephews.

Rose’s family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the caring, loving, and dedicated staff at the Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center for the exceptional compassion and support they provided to Rose during her time there. Their kindness and attentive care brought comfort to both Rose and her family, and their efforts will always be truly appreciated.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Rose’s memory may consider a donation to:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

The Humane Society of the United States

1255 23rd Street, NW, Suite 450

Washington, DC 20037

Rose Mastrorilli

February 27, 2025

Whiting

John “Jack” Dawson, 88, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Thursday, February 27, 2025.

Jack was born on February 4, 1937, the son of John A. and Emilie (Merkle) Dawson. He was raised in Rutherford, NJ, where he attended and graduated from Rutherford High School with the Class of 1954.

In his early years Jack enlisted in the National Guard to serve his country, where he made lifelong friends. Jack began his working life sweeping floors at Bergen Sheet Metal in East Rutherford while attending Bergen Community College at night. Even after earning his associate’s degree, he continued working at Bergen Sheet Metal, gaining valuable hands-on experience as a sheet metal worker. After ten years with the company, Jack transitioned into a successful career as an engineer in the television industry. Over the years, he designed and installed TV studios across the country—and around the world. Among his many accomplishments, Jack was the creator and designer of the very first mobile television truck, built for ABC Sports and sent to China with Nixon. He loved the challenges of his work and earned the respect of colleagues throughout the industry, working for various companies over the years. Including the Japanese company Fujinon, where he served as Executive Vice President and traveled to Japan multiple times per year. He later went on to serve as the CEO of Vinten. He finished his career working with The Systems Group in Hoboken, where he retired at the age of seventy-nine.

Jack met his beloved wife, Barbara Bogert, through mutual friends. They married on a beautiful, sunny fall day—Saturday, November 11, 1961—at Holy Spirit Church in Pequannock. Afterward, they honeymooned at Mount Airy Lodge in the Poconos. As newlyweds, they lived in an apartment in Clifton for a brief time before moving to Wayne. There, they raised their two sons, John “Jack” and Craig Dawson. Jack adored his sons and showed it by being deeply involved in their lives. They frequented Vermont with the Chernalis family, where they taught their family to ski and spent quality time mountainside at Bromley Mountain.

A proud Eagle Scout himself, Jack served as a Boy Scout leader for his grandson, Noah’s, troop, and even after he grew up and their troop became inactive, he and his fellow leaders continued their tradition of gathering for dinner on the third Wednesday of every month.

When Jack wasn’t traveling for work, he cherished time at home with his family. A natural tinkerer, he enjoyed fixing things around the house and spending quality time with his wife Barbara tending to her beautiful gardens. He also loved to ski and play golf whenever the chance arose. Eventually, Barbara picked up golf too, and the couple made wonderful memories of taking golf vacations with friends.

Jack’s career offered him and Barbara many opportunities to travel, including attending National Association of Broadcasting conventions in places like Las Vegas, Germany, Switzerland, and Japan. One especially treasured trip was a family-and-friends vacation to Alaska with a group of twenty-one loved ones. Closer to home, Jack found great joy at his house on Lake Wallenpaupack in Pennsylvania, where he could relax and make memories with family and friends.

Jack will be fondly remembered for his easy-going nature and the genuine satisfaction he found in helping others. His sons, Jack, and Craig, will always cherish the countless weekends their father spent by their sides, generously giving his time and talents to help them build their homes. His grandson, Noah, will forever be thankful for the guidance and wisdom his grandfather offered, always willing to lend a hand or give a thought any way he could.

Jack was the beloved husband of Barbara (Bogert) Dawson, blessed in marriage for 63 years. He was the loving father of John “Jack” Dawson and wife Melissa of Wayne, and Craig Dawson of Hopatcong; cherished grandfather of John Noah Dawson; dearest brother of the late Dennis Dawson and his late wife Shirley; dear uncle of Kevin Dawson and wife Chelsey, and Glen Dawson; and great uncle of Cooper and Cody, Tyler, Page, and Hunter Dawson.

John “Jack” Dawson

February 27, 2025

Kattiparambil "Mr. I" Ingersoll, 89, of Oak Ridge, passed away on Monday, February 24, 2025.

Born in Karthikappally, India, Mr. I dedicated 30 years to the Indian government's Textile Commissioner's Office, overseeing import and export licenses for various textiles. He was known for his impeccable appearance, and he often changed outfits twice daily.

His journey to the United States began when he assisted Molly, a nurse aspiring to study anesthesiology in America, in obtaining a passport—a challenging task in India at the time. Molly would later find out that Mr. I had obtained her passport much earlier, but he kept stalling as he wanted their relationship to grow. Their collaboration blossomed into love, leading to marriage and a family. Their love and family stalled Molly’s quest to go to the United States for many years. Life eventually led them to the United States, where they began anew, building fresh relationships and navigating new challenges. For Mr. Ingersoll, it was a fresh start that required strength and resilience, especially as he worked to establish a new foundation for his family in a foreign land.

One of the first places where he found connection was the church, where he became beloved by all who knew him. His friends, along with his children’s friends, affectionately referred to him as “Mr. I.” It was here that he formed lasting friendships that would provide him with the sense of community he so cherished.

In America, Mr. I embraced the role of a devoted husband and father, managing household responsibilities while Molly pursued her nursing career. Known for his distinctive laugh, a passionate cook, Mr. I delighted in preparing meals for friends and family, often remarking, "I don't have a recipe—I just cook." His culinary adventures were complemented by a love for diverse cuisines as he was a “foodie” that loved to explore different foods.

Mr. I had a deep appreciation for music, especially Bollywood classics from the '60s and '70s. He maintained an active lifestyle, walking 2 to 3 miles daily and practicing yoga regularly. A man of faith, he was an active member of the Church of St. Paul’s & Resurrection in Wood-Ridge, cherishing the friendships he formed there. Engaging in political discussions, whether about Indian or American affairs, he was always open to sharing his perspectives. Known for his humility, Mr. I was quick to apologize, often preparing a favorite dish to mend any disagreements.

He is survived by his beloved wife of over fifty years, Molly Ingersoll; his son, Segreen Ingersoll, and his wife, Sara, of Pine Brook; his daughter, Sheryline Ingersoll, of Montville; and his cherished grandson, Ivan Ingersoll. He was the youngest of three brothers and one sister, all of whom predeceased him.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Fr Agnel Ashram Orphanage would be greatly appreciated.

Kattiparambil Ingersoll

February 24, 2025

Oak Ridge

George Schmitt, 93, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 23rd, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.

George was born on July 22nd, 1931, in Paterson, NJ to Robert and Anna Schmitt (nee Mandak). He grew up in South Paterson where he attended elementary school #9 and graduated from Central High School.

After high school, George joined the carpenters union as an apprentice, beginning a four-year journey that shaped him into a skilled carpenter. During this time, he also served in the Construction Battalion of the Navy during the Korean War. He spent many years leading jobsites that are still standing today including the Wayne Municipal Building. His dedication and expertise in the trade led to a swift promotion to supervisor. While still working in the field George taught night classes for the union carpenter apprenticeship programs at PCTI in Wayne. After many successful years in the field, his passion for education grew, prompting him to leave the field and become a full-time shop teacher at PCTI where he eventually was promoted to director of facilities. Throughout his career, George earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from Rutgers, furthering his commitment to both the craft and education.

On February 14th, 1953, George married the love of his life, Joan McBride. Their love story began when George was 15 and Joan was just 13, and it blossomed into a remarkable 66-year marriage that endured until Joan's passing in November 2019. During their 73 years together, they have welcomed five children: Debra and her husband Richard Mirabelli of West Milford, NJ, George Schmitt of Wayne, NJ, Edward and his wife Kim Schmitt of Warwick, NY, Diane and husband Dave Brennan of Alpharetta, Georgia, and Lisa Schmitt of Wayne, NJ.

George was blessed with 11 grandchildren. Melissa Welch of West Milford, NJ, Dana and her husband Donald Reonieri of Landing, NJ, Michele and her husband Erik Gillis of Ringwood, NJ, Scott and his wife Rosy Schmitt of Belvidere, NJ, Kayla Schmitt of Warwick, NY, Patrick Liszewski of Warwick, NY, Jahne Liszewski and her husband Miquel Gonzalez of Warwick, NY, Ashley Brennan of Wayne, NJ, Casey and her husband Mike Riccardello of Wayne, NJ and Shannon and her husband Peter Rinsland of Wallingford, CT, and Melvin Green of Woodbridge, NJ.

On their 59th wedding anniversary, George and Joan welcomed their first great-grandchild, and since then, George was blessed with 10 more: Denis, Aubrey, Ryan, Owen, Edison, Daphne, DJ, Wade, Georgie, Francesca, and Peter. He cherished every moment spent with his growing family, marveling at how it expanded over the years. Family was the heart of his life, and he made sure to share stories, sweet treats, especially Tootsie Rolls, Root Beer Barrels, Candy Kisses, and Butterscotch, and plenty of love, earning the endearing nickname "Grandpa George."

As a dad, grandpa, great-grandpa, brother, uncle and friend, George was always there for his loved ones, ready to listen, offer a helping-hand, kind words, or share a laugh. He treasured these precious times together. He had fond memories of summers spent at Lake Hopatcong and annual vacations to Wildwood Crest, where he was happiest surrounded by family and friends. Whether hosting or attending family gatherings, George was always involved in the planning, especially when it came to food. He would always be sure to suggest his favorite, hot dogs all-the-way, especially when everyone just showed up. If nothing else, he always made sure everyone ate. He was always concerned about others, offering love and care to all.

George had many hobbies and passions, including tending to his lawn and garden, cruising around the neighborhood on his John Deere, up keeping his house, tinkering with his next project and sitting out front, giving treats to all of the dogs and waving to his neighbors. Let’s not forget his favorite thing to do was watch sports especially his favorite team, the Mets! George could often be found sporting his Mets gear and eagerly watching his team play, a passion he shared with those closest to him. George was blessed with the gift of gab and was never short of words or conversations with those he met. His stories, his smiles, and his waves were his signature to being the happy person that he was.

After a full and happy life—one spent in the loving company of his wife, Joan, and their four generations of family—George leaves behind a lasting legacy. His memory will live on through the children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and friends who had the privilege of knowing him. His life was a testament to love, devotion, and the joy of family. May his love, wisdom, and warmth continue to inspire all those who knew him.

George was predeceased by his parents, Anna and Robert Schmitt and brother Robert. He is survived by his sister, Mildred, and brother, William and many nieces and nephews.

George Schmitt

February 23, 2025

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Margaret M. Siegrist (nee O’Brien) of Wayne, NJ.

Margaret passed away peacefully on Thursday, February 20, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family. She was born and raised in the West Village of Manhattan. Margaret was one of nine children to Patrick and Annie O’Brien, and those who came to know Margaret affectionately referred to her as Peggy. She was part of a group in our country’s society known as “The Greatest Generation.”

As a young girl growing up in the West Village, Peggy spent her summers at Orchard Beach with her friends and family. Her parents would erect a small cottage where they would stay at the beach for the summer then dismantle it at the end of the season. She attended a high school on the West Side of Manhattan and continued on at Mary Mount College in New York. Peggy accepted a position with the City of New York as an Administrative Assistant where she met her future husband, Bill.

Surrounded by family and friends, Peggy and Bill sealed their love in marriage on July 11, 1953, beginning a lifelong journey together filled with devotion, companionship, and cherished memories. They were married in St Bernard’s RC Church in the City and settled in Riverdale, NY. While residing in Riverdale, Peggy and Bill welcomed the birth of all four of their children, Mary Beth, Peggy, Bill, and Christine. In 1964, as the family grew, Peggy and Bill moved their family from the city to Wayne, NJ. They called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and raised all four of their children there.

Shortly after getting married, Peggy made the decision to become a full-time homemaker, dedicating her life to nurturing and caring for her family. Peggy had a talent for sewing, knitting, and baking. She created beautiful handmade items. Peggy’s talent and creativity excelled in every piece she made, leaving lasting gifts for her friends and family. She was also a talented and accomplished baker and was famous with family and friends for her cookies, especially her Chocolate Chip Cookies.

Aside from her talents, interests, and hobbies, Peggy’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Peggy than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren. She and her husband Bill cherished fifty-two years of loyal and loving marriage together until Bill’s passing in November of 2005. Peggy was not only dedicated to her family but also to her Catholic Faith. She was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church where she was extremely active. Peggy was on several church committees throughout her time at Our Lady of the Valley and was a Eucharistic Minister to the homebound and lunch mother for the church’s school. She was also a volunteer at DePaul Catholic High School for several years. Peggy was also devoted to her community where she was truly loved by friends and neighbors.

Peggy cherished the joy of summer adventures with her children, creating unforgettable memories at some of New York’s most beloved destinations. She would pack up for trips to Coney Island, where the kids reveled in the thrill of amusement rides. At Rockaway Beach and Jones Beach, they spent hours swimming in the ocean and soaking up the sun. Swimming was one of Peggy’s favorite past-times. Hamptom Bays was her home away from home where she loved relaxing on the beach and swimming in the ocean.

Peggy was blessed with good health and a long life. She often stated that her secret to longevity and model for life was, “Faith, Family, Friends, and Chocolate!”. Peggy was a truly special person who touched the lives of countless people throughout her life. She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Peggy is survived by her four children: Mary Beth Ryan and her husband Tom of Butler, NJ. Peggy Siegrist of Wayne, NJ, Bill Siegrist of Wayne, NJ, and Christine Dodds and her husband Kevin of Wayne, NJ, five grandchildren; Tom Ryan, Christopher Ryan and his wife Stacey, Colin Dodds, Kirsten Dodds, and Kyle Dodds, and many, many nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews, and great-great nieces and nephews. Peggy was predeceased by her husband Bill Siegrist in 2005. She was also predeceased by her eight siblings: Thomas and his wife Kay, Patrick and his wife Kay, Beatrice, Francis, Gerald, John William and his wife Mary Anna, Sister Marita Rose, and Monsignor Edward O’Brien.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Margaret's name may be made to Catholic Charities, Diocese of Paterson.

Margaret M. Siegrist

February 20, 2025