“Don’t be sad, don’t cry.  Be happy for me!  I’ve had a long, good life!”

Antionette Gaffney passed away peacefully the morning of February 20, 2025 – those were her last words, in the days prior, to her loved ones.

Ann lived a full life and while not always easy, she always persevered.  That is what anyone who knew her would remember – her strength, her perseverance, and her grace – even during the toughest of times.  One of her go-to sayings was, “Life is not fair, but we keep going and we do the best we can.”  That’s what Ann did and the advice so many of us will continue to carry with us in her absence.

Ahead of her time, Ann always worked and prided herself in doing so.  She had a career as a legal secretary that she loved – even in her later years, she’d spend her time reading contracts, drafting wills, and taking personal notes in short-hand.  She was married to the love of her life, George and after many years of trying, had her daughter Doris who she called “her blessing from God”.  She was blessed to have spent time raising her grandchildren, Gianna and Joseph, and being in the lives of her great-grandchildren, Elyse, Aria and Anthony.

Near the end, Ann recalled all the wonderful people in her life that she’d loved so much and her gratitude.  Whether it be a freshly made apple pie, a crossword puzzle, a crocheted sweater, or a John Grisham novel, we will always all remember Ann in our hearts with the same gratitude.

Dr. Young Bok Kim, 92, passed away on February 14, 2025, at his home in Wayne, New Jersey where he’s lived since 1978.  Born on June 27, 1932, in Taegu, South Korea.  Young was a selfless and generous man throughout his life.  He always put the needs of others ahead of his own, which is the definition of “love.”   At work, Dr. Kim was the epitome of the patient’s doctor who cared for each patient as if they were family.  He was beloved by hospital staff and colleagues alike.

         Young was the son of Jae Gyun Kim (M) born 1905,  and So Nam Go (F) born 1908, and brother to seven siblings.  Young Hee Kim (F) born 1928, Young Tae Kim (M) born 1935, Young Eh Kim (F) born 1938, Soon Ja Kim (F) born 1940, Young Boo Kim (M) born 1943, Soon Hee Kim (F) born 1947, and Kwang Duck Kim (M) born 1950.  Young was raised in Taegu, South Korea and in June 1950 with the breakout of the Korean War, he was drafted as an Infantry soldier at the age of 18.  After the war ended,  Young attended Kyungpook National University School of Medicine and graduated in March 1957 with his medical degree as a board-certified physician.  From June 1957 to February 1964, he served 7 years as an intern, resident, and orthopedist in training at various military hospitals from Seoul to Hawaii.  Upon his discharge from military service as an Army Major in 1964, he moved back to his hometown and served as the Orthopedic resident at the Presbyterian General Hospital in Taegu, South Korea from April 1964 to November 1966.  From 1967 to 1972,  he relocated the family to West Malaysia serving in the Ministry of Health as the Chief of Orthopedics in the City of Johor Bahru General hospital.   In 1973,  he relocated the family to Union City, New Jersey and began his medical career in the United States of America at St. Mary’s hospital in Hoboken, New Jersey.  In 1976,  he relocated the family to Wayne, New Jersey and served as the House Physician at Wayne General Hospital from 1976 to 2015 (39 years).  At the age of 83,  Young retired as a medical doctor.

         Young was always active in his community and served as an Elder for Bethany Church.  He volunteered his time on weekends at the Wayne General Hospital clinic in Paterson, New Jersey serving low to moderate income families seeking medical services and assistance.  He also volunteered his time with the local Wayne township school district as the school  physician for medical screening and consultation for junior high and high school students.  

         Young married Ki Chung Chang of Taegu, South Korea in 1961.  Ki (Kay) was born in 1936 and passed in 2011.  He is survived by his two sons, John Chan-Kyu Kim of Cliffside Park, New Jersey; son James Chan-Ho Kim (Mary) of Aledo, Texas; grandchildren, Amanda, James Jr, Andrew, and Daniel Kim; great grandchildren, Kobe Rose (3) and Kaiya James Kim (1).

Contributions can be made to the Bethany Church, 491 Alps Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 in care of Young Bok Kim.

Gerardo“Jerry” Speziale, age 88, of Wayne, passed Wednesday, February 19, 2025.

He was born in Paterson to Bruno and Catherina Speziale and raised in West Paterson.  He was a graduate of Passaic Valley High School.

Jerry entered the US Airforce in 1953 while serving as an Airman 1st Class he received training as a Ground Radio Operator and Radio Interpreter Operator. While enlisted, he served two years in Hokkaido, Japan as a radio operator.  For his service he received the National Defense Service Medal and the Good Conduct Medal. Thereafter, Jerry was Honorably Discharged in 1957.

After completing his service in the military, Jerry returned to the family home in West Paterson. Soon after, Jerry entered the New York City Barber & Beauty School where he began his lifelong career as a barber. Jerry served as an apprentice barber at Fazio’s Barber Shop in Little Falls. Later on, he purchased his own barber shop on Market Street in Paterson called Gerard’s Barber Shop,” which he later relocated to Totowa. For the last forty years he has been a partner of Mario & Gerard’s Haircutters in Wayne.

Jerry lived in Paterson, Cedar Grove, and West Paterson before settling with his family in Wayne, his hometown for the past sixty years.

Jerry met the love of his life Barbara Padula through mutual friends at Passaic Valley High School. Their first date was to the Oxford Theatre where they saw the movie “Love is a Many Splendored Thing.” Not long after, Jerry asked Barbara’s father for her hand, to which he readily agreed as he was reassured his then future son-in-law would provide his daughter with a beautiful full life. And he surely did. After receiving her father’s blessing, Jerry proposed to Barbara at the Falls View in Paterson. Jerry and Barbara married on October 5, 1958, at Saint James Church in Totowa and had their wedding reception at The Circle Restaurant. They then set off for their honeymoon in Miami, Florida. Jerry and Barbara had a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-seven years that was blessed with love, kindness, faith, and two children, Jerry and Debbie.

Jerry was a gentle soul with a heart full of kindness. His sweet demeanor reflecting the beauty of his spirit. A deeply religious man, he found immense joy in his faith, which served as a guiding light in his life.   The pride he felt for his family was immeasurable; they were the highlights of his existence, filling his days with laughter and love.  Jerry’s barbershop was not just a place of work, but a sanctuary where each customer felt like a cherished friend-every haircut accompanied by heartfelt conversations and genuine care.  His car and wallet were adorned with memorial cards honoring those who had passed, and cards with prayers of all kinds, while rosary beads were lovingly placed in every corner of his home, reminding him of the sacred connections he held dear.  His grandchildren went through Jerry’s home, and each took a rosary to keep a little of Jerry close to their hearts. In Jerry’s world, love, faith, and community intertwined creating a tapestry of warmth and compassion that touched everyone he met. Although Jerry’s family was central to his being he also held his community close as well.  He was a member of the The Wayne Lions Club, and The Bartimaeus Club in Paterson.

Jerry and Barbara were founding members of the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne. He was currently a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.  He was a member of the Knights of Columbus, Council 6354, a Eucharistic Minister, and each week attended a group aimed at honoring the late Monsignor Mark Giordano.

Jerry was the devoted husband of Barbara (nee Padula) Speziale; devoted father of Jerry Speziale and his wife Beatrice, and Debbie Mastrangelo and her husband Thomas; he was the cherished grandfather of Francesca Richmond and her husband Walter, Brittney Mastrangelo and her fiancé Tyler Hogan, Jerry Speziale, Jr. and his girlfriend Bruna Dos Reis, Paige Speziale and her boyfriend Michael Casasanta, Christopher Mastrangelo and his wife Allyson, Michael Mastrangelo, Kenny Kerwin and Connor Kerwin; he was the dearly loved great-grandfather of Madison, Adriana, Audriana, Emma, and Nicholas. Jerry will be forever missed by his family, and his memory will always be cherished. He is deeply loved.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Tunnels to Towers or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Janet Von Glahn Dean of Wayne NJ passed February 19, one day after her 66th birthday.

Janet was born to Henry and Frances Von Glahn and graduated Wayne Valley High School in June 1977. She continued her education at Fairleigh Dickinson in Madison NJ and graduated as an X-ray technician. She worked in this field for over 20 years.

Janet met her husband Pete Dean when she watched him p lay at a nearby club. They married and lived in Franklin NJ. Later they moved to St. Petersburg FL where they visited often with Willa and her family, and Grandma Belle.

Janet was always happy and smiling. Her favorite thing was to give and get hugs. She liked to feed the squirrels in her yard (some of whom ate right out of her hand). She loved all the camaraderie in their trailer park where her and Pete lived in a spacious double-wide before buying their house. Janet was always generous and opened her home to everyone.

After she began to feel sick, she searched for answers to no avail. She ended up returning to NJ where her parents worked tirelessly to get her a diagnosis. She has Multiple Sclerosis. Janet continued to live with both of them, and then just with her mom when her dad died in 2008. When her mom got sick, her siblings Willa, Linda, and Hank moved her into Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne. Her mom died in 2013.

Janet loved living at Preakness Healthcare Center. She was always the happy and upbeat person, and enjoyed welcoming and meeting new people. She loved the staff and they were so good to her. She lived there until her death.

Janet is survived by her siblings Willa Kippert and husband Rick, Linda Laidlaw and her husband Tom, and Henry (Hank) Von Glahn and his wife Sandi. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews Jonathon Kippert, Shawn Laidlaw, Lynne Koukoutsakis, Karla Kasumovic, and Carl Von Glahn, as well as their spouses and children.

Although Janet had a hard life, she never once complained. Love, smiles, and hugs- that sums Janet up.

In lieu of flowers please consider donating to the Multiple Sclerosis Association of America

Susan J. Tantow (nee Carino), age 83 of Wayne, NJ, died on Tuesday, February 18, 2025 in her home surrounded by her loved ones. Susan lived in Wayne for twenty-five years, having previously lived in West Orange, Ringwood & Waldwick, NJ.

Susan was a Registered Nurse throughout her professional career, working for decades at the Hackensack University Hospital, as well as at the Christian Healthcare Center in Wyckoff. She absolutely loved her occupation and was truly a nurse at heart.

Having grown up in Waldwick, NJ, Susan went on to graduate from Ramsey High School where she had been a JV Cheerleader and was dating her ‘high school sweetheart’ Karsten Sandsmark. They would marry and eventually build a home in Ringwood, NJ where they raised their two sons, Kirk and Eric. Her marriage to Karsten ended in the 1980’s, years later she met Henry Tantow at a “Parents Without Partners” gathering. They started dating and three years later were married. The two of them worked extremely hard at their professions, Susan would take on two jobs in order to enjoy worldwide travel. In Susan’s own words, they traveled everywhere sometimes two or three times except China. Susan and her husband, Henry particularly enjoyed river cruises and they went on many of them. For a number of years, Susan and Henry also kept a condo in Cape Coral, Florida, where they enjoyed themselves as snowbirds in the winter months. Almost twenty-five years ago, Susan and Henry moved to Four Seasons in Wayne, where they embraced the community. Susan always enjoyed socializing at the Four Seasons club house with her neighbors. Sadly, Henry passed away in 2018 after nearly thirty years of marriage, and Susan has missed him ever since.

Susan adored her family and her world revolved around her loved ones. She enjoyed doting on her sons, her grandchildren, and her great-grandchildren. She counted her beloved dogs as family members as well, and her favorite two favorite dogs were Tinker and Zoey. She was also a diehard METS fan and always rooted for the NY GIANTS.

Susan is survived by her two sons; Kirk D. Sandsmark and his wife Tara of Highland Lakes, NJ, and Eric Sandsmark of Highland Lakes, NJ, her step-son Jeff Tantow, six grandchildren; Kirk Sandsmark, Jr. (Sarah), Karley Sandsmark (Sean), Katelynn Sandsmark (Nick), Sarah Sandsmark (Ryan), Taylor Shearer (Josh), and Jeff Jr., ten great-grandchildren, a sister; Rosemary Klingen (Jack), one niece; Jill Hasting (Jon), one nephew; Jack Klingen (Stacey) and predeceased by her beloved parents Carmine and Rose Carino.

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In lieu of flowers, donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Annette Ford’s long, blessing-filled life ended peacefully on February 18th, at the age of 104.

Annette was born to Harold & Elizabeth Brown on August 19th, 1920. Elizabeth passed soon after, and Annette was raised by her father & grandmother in Newark, NJ, attending Blessed Sacrament School. Growing up in Newark, she walked up & down the streets to save a dime on bus fare so she could catch a double feature at the movie theatre.

As a young woman, Annette worked in a church rectory, where she met her husband, Fabian O’Neill. Fabian & Annette said “I do” in autumn of 1938, and four years later, moved to Wayne. Annette lived in Wayne for more than 80 years, raising four children of her own; Elizabeth, Kathleen, Jack, & Dennis. While raising her children, she worked at J. Wiss & Sons Co. Scissors in Newark, and at Mack Molding in the early 1950s.

Annette was always a social butterfly with an infectious laugh & contagious smile. She was a lifetime member of the Ladies Auxiliary, American Legion Post #174, and part of the Columbiettes Auxiliary for the Knights of Columbus. Annette was part of Elks Lodge #2181, where she volunteered to work bingo nights for 8 years. For over 40 years, Annette was a member of the Golden Key Club for senior citizens. She served as President and as Chaplain of the Club, and always looked forward to having lunch and playing cards with the group on Fridays.

As Annette’s children grew up and their families blossomed, “Gram’s house” down the street became everybody’s favorite place to play cards, assemble puzzles, and have Sunday suppers. She spent her spare time sewing, knitting, and crocheting, and she was always happy to share her skills, knowledge, & stories with others.

Later in life, Annette met her second love, Mike Ford, through the American Legion. When they married in 1977, she became a step-mother to Mike’s three children; Marianne, Ellen, & Martin. The couple enjoyed their retirement by traveling the world; one of her favorite trips was to Ireland, where she & Mike reconnected with their Irish roots.

When Annette turned 100 in 2020, she received the gift of her first great-great-grandchild, and welcomed two more great-great-grandchildren into the world a few years later. She did not take her long life for granted, and knew what a blessing it was to see her family span five generations. The four generations she leaves behind will remember her in every stitch they sew & crochet, on every travel adventure, and while playing her many favorite card games.

Annette was preceded in death by her husband Fabian O’Neill in 1970, daughter Elizabeth Baier in 1983, and second husband Mike Ford in 1997. She is survived by three of her children; Kathleen Thoma, Jack O’Neill, and Dennis O’Neill, three step-children; Maryann Callaghan & her husband Johnny, Ellen Hayes, and Martin Ford & his wife Colleen, as well as Annette’s large blended family of twenty-three grandchildren, thirty-seven great-grandchildren, and four great-great grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Covenant House Newark would be appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Florence Murray, age 102, of Wayne, NJ.  Florence passed away peacefully on Monday February 17, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Florence was born in Garfield and raised in East Paterson NJ, now known as Elmwood Park.  She was one of three children to Vincent and Josephine Tavone.  While growing up in Elmwood Park, Florence attended Eastside High School where she graduated with the class of 1940. Florence was known to her classmates as an avid ice skater, and she enjoyed badminton as an adult.

Shortly after graduating from high school, Florence enrolled in a local business school where she earned certification as a secretary.  She found a position with Curtis-Wright in one of their plants around Paterson, NJ.  Her work with the Curtis-Wright Corporation directly supported the war effort at home, exemplifying the strength and courage of the Greatest Generation.

Florence met the love of her life, a handsome young man by the name of Charles Murray.  Florence and Charles fell in love and were married in 1943, while Charles was on leave from service during World War II as a proud member of the US Navy Seabees. Following Charles’ honorable discharge from the Navy, the newlyweds settled in Wayne, NJ.  Florence and Charles called Wayne their home for their entire married life and while residing there, welcomed the birth of their only child, their son Glenn.

Florence’s greatest passion in life was for her family and home. Nothing in the world meant more to Florence than providing for and spending time with her husband and son.  Shortly after the birth of her son, Florence decided to become a full-time homemaker, devoting herself to nurturing and caring for her family.  Florence and Charles cherished nearly forty years of marriage until Charles passed away in 1980.

While living in Wayne, Florence was a parishioner of Holy Cross Church and Our Lady of the Valley RC Church for many years.  Florence was also a dedicated volunteer at St Joseph’s Wayne Hospital in Wayne.

In her spare time, Florence enjoyed crossword puzzles and crocheting.  She also treasured traveling with her family to a variety of destinations over the years such as Japan, Korea, Hawaii, Italy, Switzerland, Germany, the Netherlands, and Canada.  Florence was a strong, independent, and very home-oriented woman who was wonderfully organized.  She had a place for everything and everything was in its place.  Florence could often be found keeping busy around her house cleaning and organizing or outside her home meticulously manicuring her front and back yard.

Florence will forever be remembered as a truly devoted wife and mother.  She was blessed with and enjoyed good health for more than a century.  Florence was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be missed sincerely by all who knew her.

Florence is survived by her son Dr. Glenn Murray and his wife Kinuko Fukumine of Wayne, and one niece Marie A Tavone of Elmwood Park.  She was predeceased by her husband Charles Murray, her brother Anthony Tavone, and by her sister Marie Tavone.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Florences name may be made to the American Lung Association at www.lung.org

Kathy Hogan, age 71 of West Milford, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 16, 2025.

Born in the Netherlands as the oldest of 9 children to Hendrik and Maud Van Wageningen, Kathy’s early life was spent in the Netherlands until her family moved to the United States where they settled in Wayne, NJ. Her family were active members of the Dutch Reformed Church.

After graduating high school, Kathy was introduced to her brother’s friend Bruce Hogan. They started off as just friends, but they quickly fell in love and before long the two became a couple. They dated for a year and a half before marrying on July 3rd, 1974, enjoying a loving marriage of over 50 years together.

After getting married, Kathy and Bruce lived in several apartments until their family started to grow. With the need for more space, the couple decided to buy their first home together in West Milford, NJ where they lived for 12 years before moving once more to their current home for the last 33 years.

Kathy and Bruce loved to travel making annual trips to one of the warm beautiful islands of Aruba, Jamaica, Antigua, St. Thomas, St. Marten and several others. They were well loved by the staff for their generosity and infectious ability to have a great time long into the night.

Kathy will be remembered for her love of life and good times. She enjoyed hosting parties with family and friends, gardening, swimming / sunbathing by the pool, knitting, and enjoying a cold Miller Lite. She loved her children more than words can describe and devoted herself to taking care of them. She participated in their school functions, drove them to all their sports, and spent time with them watching the Giants, Yankees, and Nascar races.

Kathy is survived by her husband Bruce Hogan; her eight siblings; her sons: Bruce Jr. and his wife Amber Hogan, and Shawn and his wife Heather Hogan; and her grandkids: Draiden, Memphis, Weston, Brian, Nathan, and Peyton. She is predeceased by her parents Hendrik and Maud Van Wageningen and her granddaughter Izabella Hogan.

Joseph Celeste Sr, passed away peacefully on February 16, 2025 at 98 years old with his wife of over 70 years by his side.  Joseph was born in Newark, NJ and was a long time resident of Clark, NJ and Easton, PA. He attended St. Agnes Church in Clark and St. Mark’s Church in Rahway until moving out of the area.

He was drafted during World War II at only 18 years old and served for several years in the Philippines. His focus was the communication systems for the American Forces in the area. After the war, he spent some time as a real estate agent.  As new electronic items began to be created like TV and stereos, Joseph launched his own business Short Hills TV based in Maplewood, NJ. When the “latest and greatest” electronic items came to market, Joseph was ready to service all of them.  As his business grew, he moved to a custom built building also in Maplewood, NJ and renamed the company JC Electronics and retired in 1985.

Joseph was predeceased by his parents, John and Adaline (Cicenia) Celeste and four of his siblings, Madeline Celeste, Michael Celeste, Florence Macera and Helen Racano.

Surviving are his devoted wife, Columbia (Lardiere) Celeste, his loving children, Karen and her husband Patrick Ruby, Joseph Jr and his wife Mary, Diana and her husband Joseph Sznaza and Mark and his wife Loreen.  He is also survived by 7 grandchildren, Jennifer (Ruby) and her husband Joseph Losco, Patricia (Ruby) and her husband William Bachmann, Kristen (Ruby) and her husband Donald Cervellini, Kathryn (Ruby) and her husband Tyler Tresslar, Olivia Sznaza, Joseph Sznaza and Chelsea Sznaza.  In addition, Joseph’s long life provided him the great honor of 8 great-grandchildren - Dylan and Alyssa Losco, Emma and Wyatt Bachmann, Clayton Cervellini and Jack, Ian and Layne Tresslar. He is also survived by his sister Theresa Band.

James “Jim” R. LeFevre, age 79, of Ticonderoga, NY, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed Sunday, February 16, 2025. Jim moved to Ticonderoga, NY in 2022.

Jim worked as a Metropolitan Life Insurance agent and worked for them at their Wayne, Butler, Saddle Brook, Rochelle Park, and Paramus, New Jersey offices for twenty-five years before retiring in 1993.

Jim loved sports and enjoyed fishing, travel and especially like the Florida Keys and Quebec, Canada.  A little known fact about Jim is that he served as a Fishing Guide in the New Brunswick Province of Quebec, Canada in the 1960’s. Jim was dedicated to his Catholic faith and for many years was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Holy Angels Church, 473 Main Street, Little Falls, NJ.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Peter "Pierre" Massoud, age 74, of Little Ferry, passed Saturday, February 15, 2025.

Pierre, you were my best friend and youngest brother. We communicated all the time and I am going to miss you a lot now. I would see you every Monday. We talk about everything together and I will miss you. You were the baby of the family, the "youngest grape." You had more than your share of tragedy, but you stayed strong. I am going to miss seeing your face. You loved sports and were an excellent baseball player. You went to Public School number 9 in South Paterson at the age of 8 years old when you came here from Lebanon. You graduated from Kennedy High School. You are survived by your wife Nancy and your brothers, John, Nabil, Robert and Raymond, and me, Michele. You were a good, loyal and supportive husband, and you meant the world to Nancy. You were a helpful brother, son, husband, and Uncle. We will all miss you. We cannot believe you are gone. We miss you every day.  Your family, friends, work colleagues, and especially your wife, Nancy. You were a wonderful father to your baby, Justin, who you are now reunited with in heaven. We love you.”

James Stewart Moore

January 10, 1936 – February 15, 2025

James Stewart "Stew" Moore, 89, of Packanack Lake, Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on February 15, 2025 at Chilton Hospital due to complications from pneumonia. Born on January 10, 1936, in Lawrence, Kansas, he was the son of George W. Moore and Sylvia (Stewart) Moore. He moved with his family to Packanack Lake in 1953, where he built a life and resided until his passing.

Stew graduated from the University of Maryland in 1959 and went on to have a successful career as a packaging salesman. A longtime resident of Packanack Lake, he was a dedicated member of the Packanack Golf Club, where he enjoyed countless rounds of golf including a hole in one and built lasting friendships. He also cherished the time he spent in Freeport, Bahamas, a place that brought him much joy and relaxation.

James was the beloved husband of Mary Lou (Bolster) Moore, his devoted wife of 65 years. In addition to his wife Mary Lou, he is survived by his sister, Pamela (Moore) Grogan; his children, James S. Moore, Jr. and his wife Cathy; Port Moore and his wife Margery; and Kate Moore. He is also survived by his grandchildren, Nicholas, Jack, and Jonathan. He was predeceased by his sister, Anita (Moore) Sullivan.

James was a cherished husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. He will be remembered for his warmth, quick wit, love of golf, and his deep commitment to family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to a charity of your choice in his memory.

He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all who knew and loved him.

Edythe (Edie) M. Shaw of Wayne passed unexpectedly on February 15, 2025, at the age of 78.

Edie was born to Joseph and Ann Sheridan on June 14, 1946 at St. Mary’s Hospital, Passaic, NJ. She lived in Lyndhurst until moving to Wayne when she was five. Edie graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1964 and married high school sweetheart, James (Jim) Shaw on September 4, 1965.

They welcomed son James jr (Jimmy) in 1966, daughter Edie in 1967 and son Joseph in 1969, all raised in the same house Edie grew up in and where she lived out the rest of her life.

Edie was a housewife and enjoyed ceramics, bowling, trips to Atlantic City and Seaside Heights Boardwalk with her family playing games and enjoying Midway cheesesteaks and lemonade. She loved summer barbecues and pool days with the family and always made it a priority to cheer on the grandkids at sporting events and school events.

Edie is survived by her son Joseph and his wife Bonnie, son in law Steve Sich, grandchildren Tyler and husband Danny, Casey, Nikole, Kerri, Ryan, Steven, Brandon, Megan, Riley, 3 great-grandchildren, sisters Mary Ann Connelly, Mildred Ferraro, brother in law Tom Shaw and his wife Fran, and sisters in law Donna Shaw and Sharon Shaw as well as many nieces and nephews. She was pre deceased by her husband Jim, son Jimmy and daughter Edie, Brother John and his wife Barbara and brother in laws Ed Connelly and Mike Ferraro.

She will be greatly missed by all who love her.

The family would like to invite you to be comfortable and wear any NY Yankee attire to celebrate Edythe's life.

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing from this life of John Robert Brown, Sr., 78, of Wayne, NJ, on February 13, 2025.  John passed peacefully in the arms of his wife and son.

John was born to John and Genevieve Brown on January 4, 1947.  He graduated North Bergen HS in 1964 and attended Jersey City State College for years at night. John began his career in 1964 as a butcher with the A&P, later becoming meat manager. He retired in 2010 after 46 years of dedicated service.

While attending JCSC John met the love of his life, Katherine.  They were married for 49 years this past February 7, 2025.  John and Kathy settled into married life in Weehawken in 1976, purchasing their first home in North Bergen two years later. In 1982 they welcomed their son, John, Jr. and in 1986 they moved to Wayne, NJ.

John was a sweet, gentle and intelligent man. He enjoyed being with his family and friends more than anything.  He was a talented carpenter, having created many beautiful pieces of oak furniture for his home.  He was a super handyman around the house and kept his property manicured and attractive. He read the New York Times every day for over fifty years and enjoyed the four dogs he had over the years, walking them every day.  He loved rock n roll and his early Corvettes.

When John was a teenager, his dad was a supervisor of setting up events at Madison Square Garden. John enjoyed ice skating there when the Ice Capades were in town, he met Roy Rogers and Dale Evans, a highlight of visits with his dad at work.

John and his son, John, Jr., were best friends.  They adored each other....they loved being  together, working around the house together, building their train set in the early days, attending car races, playing pinball, and going to Johnny's many sports events and practices and eating White Castles and Hiram's hotdogs a few times a year.

John is survived by his wife, Katherine, and his son, John, Jr. He is also survived by his sister, Arlene, her husband Walter; his sister, Janet; his brothers-in-law Stephen and Robert, their wives Barbara and Pam; and nine nephews and nieces.

Donald F. DeRenzo, 76, of Fairfield, passed away peacefully on Thursday, February 13, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family.

Born in Passaic, NJ, and raised in Clifton, Donald was a proud graduate of Clifton High School, Class of 1966. From an early age, he had an adventurous spirit—selling Civil War relics, working on bridges, and spending summers at the Boys Club camp. His zest for life was matched by his determination, which led him to serve his country overseas in the U.S. Army from 1970 to 1972, followed by four additional years in the U.S. Army Reserve before graduating from St. Peter’s College in Jersey City.

After his military service, Donald embarked on a successful career with Associated Insurance Brokers (AIB) in Clifton, NJ, working his way up to partner. It was there that he met the love of his life, Diane Wojtowicz. Their story began when he invited her to join him and some friends after work at Joey Harrison’s Night Club on Van Houten Avenue. Their first official date was at Francesca’s Restaurant, a night so special that Diane still remembers the outfit she bought for the occasion. That night they sealed a connection that would last the rest of their lives. Donald had a love for the Jersey Shore, spending weekends at the Surf Club with friends, hosting countless parties, and creating memories that would last a lifetime. It was there that he proposed to Diane, sealing their love with an engagement ring the following Christmas. The two were married on Friday, June 24, 1977, at Mt. Carmel Church in Passaic, arriving in style in a Rolls Royce. They honeymooned in Bermuda before settling into their first apartment together on Paulison Ave in Clifton and a second apartment on Grove Street in Clifton. Eventually, they put down roots in Fairfield, where they built a life and a home together for 47 wonderful years.

A devoted New York Yankees and Giants fan, Donald also loved good food, great company, and treating Diane like a princess. While they never had children of their own, he wholeheartedly supported Diane in helping her sisters in caring for their children. Together, they traveled extensively, enjoying cruises to tropical islands, city getaways to Toronto, Boston, Charleston, and Fort Lauderdale, and countless summers at Diamond Beach and Cape May with Diane’s entire family. Donald even rented a yacht on the Hudson River once, and he and Diane enjoyed numerous trips to West Point. He had a deep appreciation for music, especially the music of Frank Sinatra.

Donald was a man of many passions—golfing with his buddies, tending to his yard, and cherishing the time spending time with their beloved golden retrievers, Laddie, and Barney. He was intelligent, well-rounded, and though he carried himself with a quiet, conservative demeanor, he had a warm heart and an incredible ability to connect with people from all walks of life.

Donald leaves behind his beloved wife, Diane (Wojtowicz) DeRenzo, with whom he shared 47 years of love and partnership. He was the loving older brother of Delia Gutkin and her husband, Alan, of Fairfield; dear brother-in-law of Monica Demmers and her husband, Barry, of Wayne, and Susan Ramirez and her husband, Nacio, of Riverdale. He was the adoring uncle of Thomas Demmers and his wife, Shannon, Eric Demmers and his wife, Monica, Brett Demmers and his wife, Toni, Michael Ramirez and his wife, Amanda, Danny Ramirez and his fiancée, Tina, David Gutkin, and Amy Gutkin. He was also a cherished great uncle to Thomas, Brooke, Liam, Brody, Brett, and Makaela, and a dear cousin to twelve cousins. He was predeceased by his parents, Albert and Grace (Cerame) DeRenzo, his mother-in-law and father-in-law, Janina and Konstantin Wojtowicz, and his brother-in-law, Edward Wojtowicz.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Donald’s name are asked to consider

American Red Cross

PO Box 37839

Boone, IA 50037-0839

Dr. Andrea Barbier, D.O., age 59 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, February 11, 2025. She had fought a courageous battle with head and neck cancer for five years.

Dr. Andrea was a dedicated family physician for more than thirty years with a solo practice in Bloomfield, NJ. She loved her patients and truly cared for each of them. When she became ill herself, one of her greatest concerns was the continued care of her patients, and she is grateful to her medical colleagues who have assisted with seeing her patients. To her patients; she will miss each of you dearly. To all the children who came from Stephen Crane Village in Newark, you can achieve great things in life through hard work and determination.

Andrea earned her undergraduate degree from Seton Hall University and then her doctorate from the Philadelphia College of Osteopathic Medicine. During her years of practice, she had been associated with such institutions as Columbus Hospital, Mountainside Hospital, and Clara Maass Medical Center. It was at each of these that she built relationships with innumerable professional colleagues whom she held the highest regard for. She respected and admired them all, and many of them became dear friends. Andrea became the 1st female President of the Clara Maass Medical Staff on 1/1/2020. She served as President with Honor and Dignity always in service to the Doctors, Nurses, Support Staff and patients of Clara Maass. As a medical professional herself, she knew with clarity that her cancer diagnosis would require a fight for her life. She would call upon these colleagues and friends in her time of need, and Andrea is eternally grateful to each of you for the care, support, and encouragement you provided. It meant the world to her that you were there to help in that fight. To all her nurses, you truly run the medical profession, never forget your value and worth to the medical doctors and patients you care for.

Andrea and her husband, Anthony Gagliano, were introduced by one of Andrea’s patients, Pete Benedetto who worked at the NJ Meadowlands with Anthony. They spoke on the phone a few times before meeting at Giants Stadium at a Bruce Springsteen concert in the fall of 2003. They both enjoy classic rock from the 70’s and 80’s, and they went to many concerts over the years. They dated for a few years, settled into their home in the Packanack Lake area of Wayne in June of 2005 and as fate would have it, they were married a few years later on April 21, 2007. They honeymooned to Kauai, Hawaii. Andrea was a student of all thing’s history related, and together they enjoyed road trips to interesting and historic places. Of course, those places always included visiting old Catholic churches, good Italian restaurants and seafood! Andrea also enjoyed spicy foods and she could go toe-to-toe eating long-hot peppers, or even ghost peppers, with the best of them! The hotter the pepper, the better! She was also a big sports fan who had season tickets to the NY YANKEES for decades and had been fortunate enough to meet several of the players throughout the years. She was also a NY GIANTS fan and met Eli Manning on Hospital Charity Golf events. She was also a NJ DEVILS hockey fan and met her favorite player, “Mr. Devil” Ken Danyeko. Whatever the sport, she had a love for the game.

Andrea is survived by her beloved husband, Anthony Gagliano of Wayne, her brother; Charles Barbier of Calicoon, NY, her nephew; Peter John Barbier and his girlfriend Ashley Crawford of Succasunna, NJ, one great-nephew; Julian Barbier, and her three beloved and much adored dogs; Phoebe, Buttons, and Munson, and her predeceased pooches Rocky and Nina. Andrea was predeceased by her father, Peter Barbier, Sr. in 1997, by her mother, Theresa Del Mauro in 2017, and by her brother Peter Barbier in 2018.

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Alfred Fiorentino, age 101, of Wayne, passed away on Monday, February 10, 2025.  

Born in New York City to Italian immigrants Luigi and Carmela Fiorentino, Alfred's early years reflected the immigrant experience of his time.  While his father worked as a waiter and his mother a furrier, Alfred spent his first ten years being raised by family friends in Tuxedo Park, NY - an arrangement that spoke to his parents' determination to build a better life in America.

Alfred's education began at Saint Columba School through grade 8 and then continued at the High School of Commerce in NYC.  Just two weeks after graduating from the High School of Commerce in January 1943, Alfred reported to selected service in Fort Dix.  After being trained in radar, automotive and tank mechanics, Alfred was tested by the army in his knowledge of mathematics, and upon achieving high scores, was sent to Georgetown University, Washington D. C. for an accelerated college program for engineering.  It was during a wartime leave in 1944 that a mutual friend introduced him to a beautiful woman named Angelina Catalano.  The two fell in love during a time when the war was escalating, and although Alfred's education was not yet completed, he was deployed to the Pacific Theater of WWII.  He left for the Philippines for the duration of his service, while he and Angelina kept in touch by sending one another letters until Alfred returned home.  His deployment to the Philippines placed him in the unique position of protecting Japanese prisoners of war from retribution by the local Filipinos of Luzon.

Shortly after his return, Alfred and Angelina married in St. Patrick's Cathedral, New York City.  After their honeymoon at Lake George, Alfred pursued his education at NYU, where he played hockey and earned a degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1952.  As their family grew with the birth of their children Fred, Diane and Karen, Alfred and Angelina decided to leave the city for the suburbs.  They lived in Ridgefield, NJ for a time before making Wayne their permanent home shortly thereafter.

Alfred's 29-year career at Picatinny Arsenal showcased his engineering brilliance.  His work on warheads and missiles, particularly in developing heat signature detection technology and corresponding protective measures, earned him military medals and led to collaborations with the Pentagon and NASA.  He retired in 1986 to care for his aging parents, demonstrating the same dedication to family that shaped his early life.

Alfred was well known for his impressive garden filled with delicious vegetables he wouldn't eat.  He notoriously preferred the junk food he playfully credited for his longevity.  His love for Disney World's Soarin' ride, casinos, Wayne Senior Club, the New York Yankees and New York Giants will be remembered by all who were lucky enough to get to know him.

Alfred will be remembered as strong-willed, determined and yet big-hearted and generous.  He held high expectations for others and showed this with a tough love that helped make him into who he was.  His strong will is best evidenced by his refusal to use a walker even after turning 100!  Those who knew Alfred best will know that his strict tough love went soft when it came to his loving wife, Angelina, of 73 years. She was the real boss and everyone knew it.

In his final years, Alfred found comfort in the care of his granddaughter Kaitlyn and her husband David, who purchased his home and lived with him.  His legacy lives on through his children, Fred and his wife Nina Fiorentino, Diane Cottrell, and Karen and her husband Ed Siwicki Jr.; his grandchildren: Michael and his wife Katie Fiorentino, Kristi and her husband James Smith, Daniel and his wife Ann Marie Cottrell, Jacqueline and her husband Keith Heyman, Christine Cottrell, Kaitlyn and her husband David Rose, Edward Siwicki III, Drew Siwicki; and his great grandchildren: Arianna and Dominic Fiorentino, Skyler Smith, Daniel and Madeline Cottrell, Zachary and Brooke Heyman, and Charlotte Rose.

After lighting up every room he walked into, beloved husband, father, grandfather and brother Robert Andrew Nick, age 81, of Lincoln Park, passed away Sunday, February 9, 2025.

Bobber, as he was known to those who loved him, passed quietly in his sleep after spending the day surrounded by his wife, children, grandchildren, family, music that he was moving his feet to, laughter and plenty of love.

Spending time with his family was Bob’s favorite thing, especially his grandkids (Sophia, Jake, Andrew, Taylor, Brandon and McKenna) as Pa loved going to their games, taking them on boat rides, eating their food and pushing their faces into their birthday cake.

His children, Yolanda Weiner (Marc), Robert Nick and Melissa Majocha (Tom) witnessed Bob transform from a disciplinarian to a man who would cry while reading the simplest of birthday cards. He was so proud of who they have become and just wanted to talk and laugh with them and the rest of the family, whether it was the Saturday morning group breakfast, dressing up and winning cornhole every year at the annual theme party, playing blackjack deep into the night or going to Lake George - unless there was a NASCAR race on. If you planned an event at the same time as a race, he would be there but he wouldn’t be happy about it.

This kind of behavior began in Passaic, NJ as the first child to the late Andrew and Lee Nick (Sakas) was born on May 15, 1943. Bob’s favorite place to be as a child was the family farm in Livingstonville, NY, where he would be from the moment school ended in June until it started again in September. He was proud of how surprised everyone in town was when he rolled in driving the family tractor by himself at the age of 12.

The self-proclaimed “Country Boy” proudly served in the US Army 7th Special Forces and loved to talk about his jumps and PLF’s. (Inside joke)

Bob tortured his two siblings for as long as he could, introducing his younger brother Roger Nick (Terri) as his older brother and annoying his sister Denise Budzynski (Jack, deceased) every time he used his favorite phrase, “Your sister’s ass.”

After 20 years working in trucking, Bob moved over to buses before “retiring” to the Wayne Board of Education, as a school bus driver. His love and commitment to his special needs students earned him multiple Perfect Attendance awards and the nickname “Captain Bob”. Those kids were the topic of conversation at dinner each night and his boss repeatedly told Bob he wished he had ten of him.

Wherever Bob was, it was never far from his wife of over 26 years, Liz. His partner in crime had the tall task of keeping him in line. On some occasions when Bobber may have had a bit too much to drink, he would wake up to find his face painted or toenails polished as a reminder that Liz made sure he made it home safe and sound.

Bob loved his yearly drive from New Jersey to Florida with his best friend, Ron, as the two wreaked havoc up and down the East Coast, including a broken rib or two.

While he never got to see his Vikings win a Super Bowl, he watched many Yankees championships and whoever had the best team in college football was suddenly his favorite team so between that and a family that loved him so much, he had plenty of chances to show off that million dollar smile.

Bobber has gone fishing, his other favorite pastime, and you can wish him well on his next journey.

Josephine Florence (Spennicchia) Buononato, 96, of Boynton Beach, Florida, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, February 8, 2025.

Born on September 5, 1928, in Morristown, NJ, Josephine was the daughter of Biagio and Josephine (Merlino) Spennicchia. Josephine grew up in Wharton, NJ, where the family lived above her dad’s shoe repair shop and she played with her beloved dog Sandy.  She and her sister Antoinette loved their years in Wharton and enjoyed visiting Wharton on recent visits to NJ to reminisce.

Josephine was predeceased by her parents, her beloved husband, Joseph Buononato (1997); her sister Antoinette Barone (2022) and sadly her eldest son, Joseph Buononato Jr (2021).

She leaves behind a large and loving family: her children, Valerie Moravec (Otto), Amy Orrico (John), John Buononato, Blasé Buononato (Katie), Vincent Buononato, and JoAnne Buononato. She was a cherished grandmother to Anthony Mannello (Karen), Jason Orrico (Nicole), Joseph Orrico (Brittany), Dr.  Josephine Starks (Josh), Benedetto Orrico (Brianna), Monica Diffendale (Alex), Thomas Buononato (Lauren) and Dominic Buononato, Jessika Almeida, and Junior Almeida (Fernanda), .  Her legacy continues through her great-grandchildren: Ellie, Cole, and Emerson Mannello, Tucker, Everly, Taylor, Christian, Vanessa, Nella, and Santina Orrico, Jameson Diffendale and Jack Starks, Melanie, James, and Isaac Almeida.

Josephine found joy in the kitchen, cooking for family, friends, neighbors, and the priests at her church. She had a secret ingredient that made everything extra delicious—anchovies. “Don’t tell the kids, or they won’t eat it,” she’d say with a wink. After preparing a feast, she would drink a brandy or her favorite, Riunite Lambrusco wine, to ease her aches and pains.  Every dinner began with a prayer, always followed by blessing the cook.

An artist at heart, Josephine honed her talents at Passaic High School, where she worked on the yearbook committee, contributing photography and layout designs. Known for her striking eyes and petite stature, she made up for height with immense strength and determination. She was deeply involved in her church communities both in Boynton Beach, FL and in Wayne, NJ, where she named Our Lady of the Valley RC Church. She devoted countless hours to church events, cooking for breakfasts after Mass, spaghetti dinners, fundraisers, and annual carnivals—her famous zeppole, which she called “crispellas,” were always a highlight. She even supervised the painting of the carnival clowns.

A passionate advocate for the unborn, Josephine instilled in her children the importance of protecting life. The overturning of Roe v. Wade in June 2022 was a moment of triumph for her, a victory for the lives she fought to protect. Her devotion to the Blessed Mother was unwavering; she prayed The Rosary every morning after Mass and again each night before bed. A rosary was always within reach.

Josephine was a devoted member of numerous church organizations, including the Council of Catholic Women (CCW), The Legion of Mary, The Blue Army, The Columbiettes, and The Madonna Guild. Her artistic talents shone in her work designing programs for church fashion shows, talent shows, and arts and crafts fairs, as well as painting backdrops for performances.

However, her greatest artistry was in the kitchen. If the church was hosting a meal, she was cooking, often alongside her husband, Joe. Holidays and birthdays in the Buononato home were filled with the rich aromas of her legendary dishes—eggplant parmesan, onion pie, baked ziti, and countless other homemade specialties. Nothing compared to the way she woke her family on Sunday mornings: the smell of onions, garlic, and basil simmering on the stove, signaling the start of Sunday gravy.

Josephine’s love, faith, and unwavering strength will live on in the hearts of those who knew her. Her family finds comfort knowing she is now at peace, watching over them with her rosary in hand.

Fernanda Iacobucci (Salerni), 98, of Wayne, NJ, formerly of Garfield, NJ, passed away peacefully on February 6, 2025, surrounded by her beloved family. The third of ten children born to Amilcare and Adelina Salerni in San Valentino, Abruzzo, Italy, Fernanda led a life filled with love, dedication, and an unwavering devotion to her family and faith.

In her early years in San Valentino, Fernanda ran a small shop, crafting sweaters for friends and family. It was during this time that she met and married Lucio, also from San Valentino. Their first child, Robert, was born in Venezuela, and shortly after, the family moved back to San Valentino. Lucio then traveled to America to work and build a future for his family. While Lucio was in America, Fernanda gave birth to their daughter, Linda. In 1968, Fernanda, Robert, and Linda joined Lucio in America to begin their new life and pursue the American dream.

Fernanda was deeply committed to her Catholic faith, and for many years, she was a devoted parishioner at Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne, NJ. Each morning, Fernanda prayed her rosary for the health and well-being of her loved ones, ensuring that God’s blessings were always with them. She also had a strong devotion to Saint Padre Pio, whose spiritual presence was always a guiding force in her life.

Known affectionately as Nonna, Fernanda’s life was centered around her family. She could always be found sitting outside her daughter’s home, greeting neighbors and friends with a warm wave. Fernanda’s greatest joy came from cooking traditional Italian dishes, especially for her grandchildren. No Christmas celebration was complete without her famous escarole and meatball soup. She also loved singing Italian songs on the karaoke microphone, often expressing her wish to have been a singer.

Fernanda is survived by her two children, Robert and his wife Gail, and Linda and her husband Anthony. She was the proud grandmother of Anthony, Gabriella, Jordan, Victoria, and her husband Christopher, all of whom filled her heart with joy. She also leaves behind her brother Nicola and his wife Mary, her sister Giovanna and her husband Antonio, her brother Alfonso, and many nieces and nephews both in the United States and Italy, all of whom she adored.

Fernanda was predeceased by her loving husband, Lucio, in 2000, and her dear sisters, Maria and Olivetta. She was also preceded in death by her brothers, Rafaele, Carlo, Valentino, and Antonio.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to all those who have been a part of Fernanda’s life, bringing her so much love and happiness. We ask that you continue to  cherish her memory and keep her in your hearts.

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In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital in Fernanda’s memory.

May Fernanda’s spirit rest in peace, forever in our hearts.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Emilia “Lia” Maguire (nee Barca) of Wayne, NJ.

Emilia was born in Paterson and was one of two children to Raffaele and Maria Barca.   She spent her formative years in Saddle Brook and as a teenager, her parents moved their family to North Haledon.  Lia attended Paramus Catholic High School graduating with the class of 1984.  Upon graduating from high school, she attended St Peter’s University in Jersey City, NJ where she earned her bachelor’s degree in computer science.  In her mid-twenties, Lia accepted a position at Deloitte LLP and most recently worked in their Morristown, NJ office.  Exhibiting her strong work ethic, Lia advanced her responsibilities through the years and achieved the position of Managing Director.  Lia’s career at Deloitte spanned a period of more than thirty-three years until her retirement in November of 2024.  Lia was truly well respected and loved by her peers and colleagues throughout her career.

In 1993, Lia was introduced to her future husband, Bob Maguire by his friend and Lia’s neighbor. As Lia and Bob struck up a conversation, they were both surprised to realize they had grown up in the same neighborhood in Saddle Brook. The two marveled at how their paths had never crossed before. The more they talked, the deeper their connection grew.  As fate would have it, they fell in love.  On September 23, 1995, Lia and Bob became husband and wife exchanging wedding vows at St Anthony RC Church in Hawthorne, NJ.

The newlyweds bought a house in Wayne, NJ and have been there ever since.  Lia and Bob spent their entire married life in Wayne, building a warm and loving home where they raised their two daughters Marissa and Jenna.

For ten years, Lia was the Cheerleading Commissioner for the Wayne Boys and Girls Club.  Through Lia’s leadership and guidance, she more than tripled the participants in the Cheerleading program to more than three hundred girls.  Lia then proceeded to preside over the Wayne Hills High School Cheerleading Booster Club as well as the Competition Cheerleading Booster Club where she also enjoyed great success.   In addition, she ran the Wayne Hills High School Softball Booster Club for several years.

Lia was a take-charge kind of woman, “A Force of Nature”, known for her strong leadership skills and impeccable organization. Whether managing her career, planning events, or keeping her daily life in order, she thrived on structure and efficiency.  No matter what Lia got involved in, she was always “all in!” Lia also knew how to unwind and enjoy life’s simple pleasures. She had a deep love for the beach, owning a home in Lavallette, NJ.  She spent countless days soaking up the sun, taking long walks along the shore, spending time with close friends and listening to her favorite country music.

Aside from all of Lia’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Lia than providing for and spending time with her friends and family.  She loved and provided great care for her mother and loved her brother and sister-in-law with all her heart.   She had a very special bond with her aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews that brought her tremendous joy.  Her close friends were part of her extended family and she treasured their love and friendship.  She also loved traveling to Tuscaloosa Alabama to cheer on her daughter’s Alabama Crimson Tide football team and spending time with dear friends. She was a talented baker, famous by family and friends for her Christmas Cookies and her Birthday Cakes.  Lia and her husband Bob cherished thirty years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Lia will be forever remembered as a devoted wife and a loving and dedicated mother.  She had an immense pride in her daughters and her love and impact lives on in them.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Lia is survived by her husband Bob Maguire of Wayne, NJ, two daughters; Marissa Maguire of Wayne, NJ and Jenna Maguire of Winston-Salem, NC, her mother Maria Barca of North Haledon, NJ, one brother Ralph Barca and his wife Sandy of North Haledon, NJ, four nephews; Ralphie Barca, John Iglesias, James Billera, and Vinny Maguire, her brother-in-law Vincent Maguire and his wife Kim, her sister-in-law Mary Billera, and many loving extended family members.  She was predeceased by her father Raffaele Barca.

Louis (Lojzek) Pekar, 98, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on February 5, 2025. Born in Hovezi, Czechoslovakia, on November 10, 1926, to Pavel Pekar and Rozalie Janus, Louis led a remarkable life defined by courage, passion, and unwavering dedication to his family and principles.

At the age of 18, Louis made a bold escape from his homeland, defying the communist regime under the cover of darkness. Hidden in a freight car, he fled to Germany before eventually finding his way to São Paulo, Brazil, where he worked as a livery driver for a wealthy industrialist. This industrialist recognized Louis' ambition and helped him realize his dream of emigrating to the United States. Louis became a proud U.S. citizen in 1953, embracing his new home with fervor.

In the United States, Louis built a long and successful career in the restaurant industry, where he became well-respected as a professional who valued hard work and excellence. Known for his generosity, Louis always provided abundantly for his family and friends making sure there was good food, good drink, and good company at every gathering. His love for bringing people together was especially felt during the Christmas season, which he made truly magical for his loved ones. And when Louis reflected on his past, he would often say with a smile, “It was a good time.”

Louis' meticulous nature was evident in all aspects of his life. He took great pride in maintaining his home and yard and could often be found working outdoors on his day off. Louis also instilled a love of water and the outdoors in his family, creating memories with trips to lakes and summers spent at the Jersey Shore.

Louis leaves behind his beloved children Carmine Pekar and his wife Cindi of Jerome, Idaho; his daughter, Dolores Forget of Hatboro, Pennsylvania; and his son Paul of Mesa, Arizona. He is also survived by two grandchildren, Michael Forget of Hatboro, PA, and Mindi Spencer of Jerome, ID; as well as five great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren.

The family extends their deepest gratitude to our wonderful neighbors, the Blau and Sirkus families, and the caring staff at Arbor Ridge Rehabilitation Center, Lisa Gapski, Gertha Francois, and Lucia Ramirez, for their unwavering care and support. They would also like to thank Affinity Hospice, especially Amy Kerr, for the comfort provided in his final days.

In honor of Louis’ commitment to helping others, the family requests that donations be made to the charity of your choice.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Robert Chanson, age 87 of Wayne, NJ.

Bob was born and raised in Paterson, NJ and was the only child to Andrew and Lucy Chanson.  As a student, Bob attended high school in Paterson where he played organized football and worked part time at a local pharmacy to help his parents make ends meet.  

As a young man shortly after graduating from high school, Bob felt it in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army.  Bob served honorably and proudly in the army as an MP.

Following his honorable discharge from the US Army, Bob found employment quickly as a Pressman with Unified Printing in Fair Lawn, NJ.  After approximately twenty years, Bob left the printing industry and accepted a position with the Wayne Board of Education.  Bob worked for Wayne BOE for more than twenty-five years until his retirement in 2011.

As a young man just out of the army, while at a local dance, Bob met an attractive young lady by the name of Betty Oakley.  Bob asked Betty to dance, and they hit it off great.  They immediately started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and Bob and Betty became husband and wife in Totowa, NJ.  After getting married, the newlyweds moved to the town of Wayne and called it their home for more than sixty years.  While living in Wayne, Bob and Betty welcomed the births of both of their children Roy and Cheryl.

One of Bob’s favorite pastimes was landscaping.  Friends and family could often find Bob in his yard grooming his lawn.  Bob kept his front and back yards meticulously manicured and pristine all year round.  He not only meticulously cared for his lawn but also for his automobiles, keeping them in tip-top shape throughout his entire life.  He enjoyed traveling with his wife Betty throughout the Caribbean and held a time share in Dewey Beach, DE where they spent a great deal of time together.  Aside from all Bob’s talents, hobbies and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Bob than providing for and spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  He attended all their sporting events and was a little league coach for his son’s baseball team.   He was often seen with his long red horn at Wayne Hills High School football games cheering on his grandsons.  Bob and Betty cherished more than sixty years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Bob’s heart truly broke when his beloved wife Betty passed away in 2022.

Bob was not only devoted to his family but also cherished his Catholic Faith.  He attended mass at Our Lady of Consolation every Sunday, where he treasured the many friendships he made.  

Bob was the perfect example of a gentleman.  He was kind, caring, and compassionate.  He loved to interact with people and could talk to anyone about anything.  He was truly a special person who touched the lives of many people.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Robert is survived by his son Roy Chanson and his wife Amy of Princeton, NJ his daughter Cheryl Romeo and her husband Ralph of Wayne, NJ, four grandchildren; Nick Romeo and his wife Allie of Wayne NJ, Mark Romeo and his wife Kristy of Little Silver, NJ, Eric Chanson of Princeton, NJ, and Alex Chanson and his wife Nicole of Atlanta, GA, and seven great grandchildren, Mason Romeo, Tenley Romeo, Sienna Romeo, Charli Chanson, Brooke Romeo, Simon Chanson, and Judith Chanson.  Bob was predeceased by his wife Betty in September of 2022, and by his granddaughter Melissa Romeo in 1995.

Marie Drost, 87, of Montville, formerly a longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 4, 2025.

Born and raised in Prospect Park, New Jersey, Marie was the daughter of Albert and Jeanette Van Grouw. She graduated from Hawthorne High School, was a member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes, and worked for many years as a medical secretary at the Holland Christian Home in North Haledon.

Marie married the love of her life, Peter, in Paterson, New Jersey. The couple honeymooned in Florida and shared 48 wonderful years together, wholly devoted to one another, until Pete’s passing in 2004.

Marie will be remembered for her warmth, kindness, and ability to make friends wherever she went and was always ready with a smile for anyone she might encounter. She found joy in baking, regularly making cookies, cakes, and other sweet treats for her family. She was a competitive bowler, an avid lover of the outdoors, and enjoyed walking, biking, and spending time in nature. A passionate sports fan, she especially loved cheering for the Yankees and rarely missed a game or event involving her children and grandchildren—she was a proud and devoted supporter of all their activities.

During the spring and summer, Marie could often be found tending to her garden, nurturing her flowers, and caring for her home. She had a deep love for swimming and trips to the beach.

Marie’s legacy is one of love, dedication, and kindness. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt and friend. Her family extends their heartfelt gratitude to all who supported and befriended her, especially in her later years.

Marie was predeceased by her husband, Peter Drost, and her brother, Albert Van Grouw Jr.. She is survived by her children: Nancy Eswood and her husband Lou of Parsippany, NJ; Ken Drost and his wife Dawn of Sarasota, FL; Tim Drost and his wife Jeananne of Verona, NJ; and Laurie Larsen of Wharton, NJ. She was a proud grandmother to Louis Eswood III and his wife Alyssa, Brian Eswood and his wife Anna, Alex Drost, Zach Drost, Heather Larsen, Michael Walshe, Patrick Walshe, Rachael Larsen, Kenny Larsen, and Alana Drost. She also leaves behind her four cherished great-grandchildren.

Marie’s warmth and love will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who knew her.

In lieu of flowers, Please consider a donation to: www.allys-elves.org.   Ally’s Elves, Inc. is a charity inspired by and founded in the special connection between Marie’s granddaughter, Alana (Ally), and the seniors whose lives are brightened by the joy and companionship Alana and her community deliver each holiday season.

Edward Meidl, age 79, passed away on Tuesday, February 4, 2025.

Born in Bavaria, Germany to Edward and Maria Meidl, Ed grew up alongside his siblings Gisela and Andrew before their family embarked on a life-changing journey to America. In 1957, they made their new home in Paterson, New Jersey, where Ed developed an interest in engineering.

His path took an unexpected turn in August 1965 when he enlisted into the U.S. Air Force during the Vietnam War. Stationed in Japan, Ed served with distinction for four years utilizing his engineering skills as a mechanic and contributing to rescue operations. This experience fostered a lifelong commitment to veterans' causes, as he continued supporting his fellow servicemembers long after his own military service concluded.

Upon returning to civilian life, Ed channeled his mechanical expertise into a successful career as Chief Engineer at Farmland Dairy. His entrepreneurial spirit eventually led him to establish his own machine shop, specializing in compressor and distributor company work. Ed gave his all to his machine shop business and worked there his whole life.

Beyond his professional achievements, Ed cultivated an impressive collection of coins and stamps from around the world. His passion for soccer made him a devoted fan of Manchester City Football Club, and he found joy in the classic tunes of the 1950s and '60s.

Those who knew Ed will remember him for his incredible generosity and clever wit. He was always ready to lend a helping hand to anyone in need, especially if the gesture might be rewarded with a delicious meal. His caring nature and helpful spirit touched countless lives throughout his journey.

Ed is survived by his sister Gisela; his nieces Denise, Patricia, and Jennifer; and his nephew Andre' and his wife Sylvia. He is predeceased by his brother Andrew.

Christine M. DeWitt (nee Sheehan), age 77, of Riverdale passed away peacefully on Monday, February 3, 2025 with the comfort of her spouse, Wayne DeWitt by her side.

Christine was born to John and Jane Sheehan in Jersey City, New Jersey and spent her formative years in Dumont and Wyckoff, New Jersey.  Christine attended Ramapo Regional High School and she was a high school graduate.

Christine worked for years in the hospitality industry before devoting her time to being a homemaker.  

Christine was loving, caring, and devoted to her family.  She was an avid reader of history, had a great sense of humor, and was deeply religious.  Christine loved animals and lavished her cat, Joey with affection.

Christine is survived by her devoted husband Wayne Dewitt, her sister Jane, and her brother Kevin, as well as her nieces Colleen Miri, Tara Reeder, and her nephew, Brendon Sheehan.

Yuda W. Sunarno, age 43, of Oak Ridge, passed at home on Sunday, February 2, 2025.

He was born in New York City to Bambang and Enny Sunarno.  Yuda lived in New York City, and in about the second grade his family moved to Bloomfield, New Jersey.  Yuda was raised in Bloomfield and graduated from Bloomfield High School with the class of 1999.  During his years at Bloomfield High School he played on the football team. Yuda continued his education at Montclair State University in Montclair.

Yuda’s working career started at the Aeropostale store at the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne, and he eventually worked for their corporate office.  He later applied to the Passaic County Sheriff’s Office, and after completing courses at the Essex County Corrections Academy in Cedar Grove. he found work as a Corrections Officer for the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department.  Yuda worked as a Corrections Officer for over ten years at their Grand Street Jail in Paterson.

Yuda and Kristina’s love story began in the Aeropostale Store at the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne where they both worked.  After sharing countless moments together, Yuda decided to take the next step and proposed marriage. He asked Kristina’s father if he could marry her over drinks and also asked her mother and two sister’s for permission.  On June 20, just a week before Kristina’s birthday, he gently woke her while she was sleeping on the couch, only to find her initially annoyed at being disturbed.  But as she turned around, her annoyance turned into joy when she saw Yuda on one knee, ready to ask for her hand in marriage. Their love culminated in a beautiful wedding on October 25, 2014 at the Crystal Springs Resort in Vernon, followed by a romantic weekend honeymoon at the Inner Harbor of Baltimore and later a trip to Mexico where they celebrated the beginning of their new life together.  Their ten years of a loving and devoted marriage was blessed with two daughters Genevieve (8)and Danyka (4).

Yuda was a man of few words, yet his presence lit up every room he entered, effortlessly bringing laughter and smiles to those around him.  A private individual at heart and a true homebody, he cherished the comfort of his own space while maintaining a large circle of friends from elementary school through high school and work.  His love for his daughters was profound and unwavering, a bond that transcended words.  Yuda found joy in the thrill of sports, proudly cheering for his beloved New York Yankees and New York Giants.  Yuda often showcased an impressive trivia knowledge about all kinds of topics.  He enjoyed cozy evenings watching his favorite shows, including Jeopardy, the Travel Channel, The Office, and The Sopranos, which added to the warmth of his home life. He cherished the outdoors and days spent at the beach. Nothing brought him more contentment than unwinding on his back deck with a cigar and a drink.

Yuda was the beloved husband to Kristina; devoted father of Genevieve and Danyka; beloved brother of Wenny Fahey, her husband Paul, and their daughter Ava of Totowa and many loving aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Yuda's memory to the Recanti/Miller Transplantation Institute at Mount Siani Hospital would be greatly appreciated. When you click on the above link please follow the instructions below.

Please click on the “other” under Direct My Gift to… and then type in “Recanati/Miller Transplantation Institute”. Also put Yuda Sunarno in the “in memory of” to assure you donation can be properly processed and acknowledged.

Jim Ritter, age 83, beloved husband, father, brother and friend passed away on February 2, 2025. A long-time resident of Wayne and member of Packanack Community Church, his loss is profoundly felt by his family and many friends.

Jim was born on July 10, 1941 to Gerda and Marvin Ritter in the small community of Montevideo, Minnesota.  Growing up, he and his younger brother Norm enjoyed trading comic books, taking turns with their prized crystal radio and learning to play the trumpet, something encouraged by their father who was an accomplished musician. Jim was a good student and loved reading and participating in his school’s current events club. One of his first big adventures out of Montevideo was to Minneapolis where he proudly represented Chippewa County in the state Spelling Bee finals. He loved the big city!

His academic journey took an unexpected turn during his senior year when his father passed away suddenly, requiring Jim to help run his dad’s meat market. Despite this challenge, Jim graduated from Montevideo High School in 1959 and became the first member of his family to attend 4-year college, earning a scholarship to the University of Minnesota where he majored in an exciting new field of study—Broadcast Journalism. After completing his degree, Jim entered the Army as a film librarian and served in the Army Reserves. His first full-time job was in Norfolk, Virginia where he worked as an on-camera news reporter.

A few years later, Jim met the love of his life, Marianne, in Philadelphia while he was working at WCAU- TV and she at United Press International. They were both assigned by their news organizations to cover the same story. One year later, they married on June 24, 1967 in Chester, Pennsylvania and spent the next 57 years devoted to each other.

Jim’s distinguished career in the field of broadcasting spanned more than 40 years. Early in his career, he was honored as a 1969-1970 recipient of the prestigious CBS Foundation News Fellowship at Columbia University. He later served as Vice President of Affiliate Services for NBC and spent 15 years at CBS News.

Jim was known to his friends and family for being kind, big-hearted, generous and always a gentleman. His smile and positive energy would light up a room.

He was a loving father to Scott and Amy and enjoyed attending their school events--band competitions, concerts and plays, and could often be seen in the back of the auditorium capturing everything on videotape. He and Marianne also enjoyed taking the kids on exciting family vacations visiting family in California and Wisconsin, and many national parks-- Yellowstone, Yosemite, the Grand Canyon, and a spectacular trip to the Canadian Rockies.

Jim enjoyed a life-long passion for travel, and loved exploring new places, cultures, architecture, and cuisine all over the world. He also kept busy in retirement by serving his church community as a Trustee, singing his heart out in the choir and even appearing in some of the church musical productions, including The Music Man and The King and I.  He loved jazz and big band music and often on the weekends he would be seated in front of the TV rooting for his favorite teams---the NY Yankees and Penn State football. Given his background in journalism, he also closely followed current events and read the New York Times cover to cover every day.

Jim is survived by his wife, Marianne, son, Scott Ritter and wife Huichong of Tennessee, daughter, Amy Whited and husband Phil of Colorado, his brother Norm Ritter and wife Mary of North Carolina and their two children Eric Ritter and Andrea Ritter.

He is preceded in death by his parents Gerda and Marvin Ritter and Aunt Mary Ritter.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider a donation in Jim’s memory to either Packanack Community Church Music Fund or the American Cancer Society.

Mona Georgetti, age 80 of Wayne and formerly of North Bergen died on Saturday, February 1, 2025. Before retiring, she had worked as a secretary for APA Transport in North Bergen, and for Moskowitz Trucking, also in North Bergen.

Mona was born to Nicola and Jennie Giorgetti, and grew up in North Bergen. She went on to graduate from North Bergen High School with the class of 1964 and lived there her whole life. In recent years it was common for her to be seen cruising around North Bergen on her little scooter. She was an avid reader, which is an understatement if you knew how many books she had actually read. She also enjoyed taking pictures of everyday events happening around her, and she spent countless hours doing crochet. Mona was a big fan of CBS FM radio and loved listening to Cousin Brucie. She was also known to have made many trips to Atlantic City, visiting the boardwalk and casinos with her sisters.

Mona is survived by her two sons; Stefan Vassallo and his wife Colleen of Wayne, and Sean Vassallo and his wife Paige of North Bergen, two grandchildren; Abbie and Paul Vassallo of Wayne, and one sister; Delores McDonald and her husband Bob, as well as many nieces and nephews. Mona was predeceased by both of her parents, and by two brothers: Nicholas and Anthony (brother), and by four sisters: Victoria Sabella, Mary McCann, Florence Palumbo, and Josephine Ilovichny.

Louis J. Warner, age 96, of Totowa, and formerly a longtime resident of North Bergen, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by his loving family, on Saturday, February 1, 2025.

Born and raised in Jersey City, NJ, Louis was the youngest of five children to Henry and Florence Warner. He attended Dickinson High School until the age of sixteen, at which time he left to tend to his ailing father.

Louis’ first job was in Jersey City, working for a company that baled corrugated boxes. He later drove taxis transporting customers that arrived from the ferry in Edgewater. However, it was trucking that became Lou’s true passion. He began his career driving dump trucks for the construction of the Palisades Interstate Parkway—old-school truckers would appreciate that he drove the chain-drive variety. Eventually, he transitioned to driving tractor-trailers for Langer Transport, a common carrier. When Langer expanded into hauling fuel tankers, the risk was too great for a man with a wife and three daughters, so Louis moved to a company that ultimately became Port Motor Lines in Secaucus. Throughout his career, he drove all the great trucks—Brockways, Diamond T’s, snub-nosed GMC’s, Macks, and big Fords—always taking meticulous care of his rig. His diligence didn’t go unnoticed, and whenever the company acquired a new truck, it was assigned to Lou. After forty years on the road, he retired at age 65—reluctantly, and only at the urging of his beloved wife.

Speaking of his wife, Louis met her by chance one night at a bowling alley. They encountered one another when the owner double-booked their lane. Seeing the pretty gals across the room, Louis quickly made a deal with the owner to have the girls share the lanes with him and his friends. One of them caught Lou’s eye -  Waldtraudt Strecker though he soon learned everyone called her “Wally”. Determined to not let her slip away, he managed to get a car to give Wally and her girlfriends a ride home. He dropped off Wally’s friends first so he could secure a moment alone with her. That night, in typical confident fashion, Louis declared he would marry her in six months. He kept his promise and they shared their wedding vows before God, family, and friends on Sunday, April 8, 1951 at Zion Lutheran Church in Jersey City.

Lou and Wally began their life together living in an apartment near Journal Square before settling in their own home in North Bergen in 1957. There, they raised their three daughters and built a life filled with love and laughter. Sadly, Wally passed away in 2008. Louis remained in their North Bergen home until 2019, when he moved to Totowa to live with his grandson.

A man who cherished time with his family, Louis enjoyed years of weekends at their second home near Lake Wallenpaupack in Pennsylvania. Whether boating, riding mopeds, or snowmobiling for hours with friends, he made the most of their little haven. After retirement, he and Wally split their time between Pennsylvania and North Bergen. Lou adored his eight grandchildren, twenty great-grandchildren, and his newest legacy - his great-great-granddaughter. He never missed a milestone, celebrating sporting events, musical performances, graduations, and weddings. Being the family’s professional driver, you could say that he unofficially ran “Lou’s Driving School” as he taught many of his grandchildren how to navigate the roads behind the wheel.  

Lou was the consummate husband and father, always sharing his interests with his family. He loved model trains and took great joy in building intricately creative layouts. His daughters fondly remember nights when their mom was out bowling—Dad would let them run the slot cars, eat ice cream, and stay up late, only to scramble into bed the moment they saw Mom’s car rounding the corner.

Lou and Wally were an inseparable team, whether traveling—always by car, often to Wally’s bowling tournaments—or making wood crafts together in his basement workshop. Lou would cut out intricate wooden designs, from flowers and butterflies to reindeer and welcome signs, while Wally meticulously painted them. Their talent became so well known that one Christmas, the town of Bogota commissioned them to make candy canes to decorate Main Street.

Louis' faith was the guiding force of his life. He and Wally were longtime members of Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen. For many years Lou taught Sunday School to four- and five-year-olds at Bethany and St. John’s Episcopal Church in Hamlin, PA. Later he played an active role in the Heart and Hands Mission based out of St. Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne. Known affectionately as "Shoe Man," he took pride in cleaning donated shoes and ensuring they reached those in need. A friend once made T-shirts for Lou and his fellow volunteer that displayed his signature saying, “We may not be the best, but there are none better.” —a fitting reflection of Lou’s humor and spirit.

Generally mild-mannered and easygoing, he was as warm and lovable as they come. Everyone who met Lou was drawn to his kindness. Ever the storyteller, Lou was always the last to leave church, lingering to chat and brighten someone's day. He was always know as “Sweet Lovable Lou”.

Louis was blessed with a life full of love, laughter, and good fortune. His legacy of warmth, humor, and kindness lives on in his family, who are endlessly grateful for him. Though he will be deeply missed, they take comfort in knowing he is with the Lord, reunited with those who have gone before him.

Louis was the beloved husband of Waldtraudt “Wally” Warner, with whom he shared a devoted 57-year marriage until her passing in 2008. He was the cherished father of three daughters: Louise Cropley, who predeceased him in 2023; Barbara Kaplan, whose husband, Patrick, predeceased him in 2024; and Betty Pisani and her companion Vinnie Martino.

A proud and loving grandfather, he leaves behind: Steven Jarvis (Cristine), Matthew Kaplan (Erica), Brian Jarvis (Danielle), Patrick Kaplan (Allison), Melissa Mutia (Alex), Nathaniel Kaplan, Daniel Pisani (Jaemma), and Victoria Pisani-Rodriguez (Ruben).

An adoring great-grandfather, he was loved by: Spencer, Savannah, Jasmine, Jenna, Katelyn, Sara, Kaitlyn, Ruben Jr., Alexander, Jesse, Emma, Jaime, Olivia, Avery, Matthew, Eden, Skylar, Michael, Lexi, and Aubrey.

Most recently, he became a great-great-grandfather to Willow.

He was predeceased by his four siblings—Hazel Mueller, Dorothy Bergner, George Warner, and Florence Silver—and was a dear uncle to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Louis’ name are asked to consider St. Timothy Lutheran Church with all gifts going to offset the cost of the recently replaced roof.

Heather Louise Vaccaro, age 52, of Wayne passed peacefully at home with the comfort of family by her side.

She was born in Paterson to Carol and Robert Phelan. Heather was raised in Wayne where she graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the class of 1991. Heather began her undergraduate studies at West Virginia University and completed them and her master’s degree in education at William Paterson University in Wayne.

Heather began teaching at the Rockaway Board of Education, and after raising her children, she worked as a science teacher for the Immaculate Heart of Mary School in Wayne.

Heather was a loving and kind soul, known for her gentle spirit and the warmth she brought to everyone around her. As a devoted wife, mother, daughter, and sister, she embraced her family with open arms and an open heart. Heather found joy in the simple pleasures of life, whether it was basking in the sun in Long Branch or exploring the scenic trails of the Ramapo Mountains. Her love for Border Collies was unmatched, with her first beloved dog, Callie, having passed away and now sharing her life with Chloe. A talented cook, she delighted her family with mouthwatering ribs, savory pinwheels, and banana crunch cake. Even in her quieter moments, she found excitement in watching shows like Survivor and Wheel of Fortune, where her competitive spirit shone through. In her final days, the spark of her personality remained evident when her husband, Nick, jokingly claimed he would tell everyone he had beaten her at Wheel of Fortune, prompting her to open her eyes with a playful challenge. Heather’s legacy of love and joy will forever be cherished by those who knew and loved her.

Nick and Heather’s love story began as a beautiful friendship that blossomed against the backdrop of the Jersey Shore. In 2001, their bond deepened when they went of their first date to the San Gennaro festival in New York City, where the lively atmosphere mirrored their growing affection for one another. Nicks heartfelt proposal came at their Union Beach residence, although they had envisioned a romantic moment at Sandy Hook, the firerce winds forced them indoors, making the day even more memorable. They celebrated their union with a destination wedding in Mexico on March 30, 2007, surrounded by loved ones, and their marriage flourished into a deep and loving partnership. Their marriage was blessed with two children, Julianne and Fredrick. Heather and Nick built a life filled with love, joy, laughter, and unwavering support for each other.

Heather was the devoted wife of seventeen years to Nick Vaccaro; she was the devoted mother of Julianne and Fredrick; she was the dearly loved daughter of the late Robert Phelan (d. 2023) and Carol Armando and the late Richard Sr(d. 2018); loved sister of Melanie Giordano and her husband Robert of Oakridge NJ, Jennifer Wells and her husband Stephen of Lakeworth, FL, and Rich Armando and his wife Noelle of Wayne, and John Armando and his wife Beth of West Milford. A loved aunt of 11 nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Edward A. Zahn, age 86 of Riverdale, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Wednesday, January 29, 2025. Ed was born to Edward and Louise Zahn and grew up in Newark, NJ. He enlisted in the Navy at 17 years old and he was a proud “Navy Man” for the entire duration of his life, which led to a deep love for fishing and the ocean.

Ed retired as the mailroom supervisor for Equitable Insurance in Clark, and had been a Chemical Engineer prior to that for Millmaster Onyx Corporation. He maintained his Black Seal boiler license for many years.

Ed is survived by his wife of fifty years, Victoria Zahn of Riverdale; their daughter: Lisa Marie Cassilli and her husband Richard of Cedar Grove; three beloved grandchildren whom he adored beyond words: Ava Rose, Giovanni and Vincent Cassilli; his sister: Marianne Jones of Ledgewood, NJ and a son: Edward Zahn who resides in Florida. He is also survived by many treasured adopted grandchildren whom affectionately knew him only as “Poppy”.

Ed was devoted to his family and enjoyed traveling the world with the “greatest catch of his life”: his wife Victoria. They checked off each state and country, fulfilling their bucket list with joy. He created incredible videos of these trips and collected baseball hats for his grandchildren to have as permanent keepsakes. When not traveling, Ed enjoyed fishing and going to the racetrack. He taught his daughter how to handicap horses when she was ten years old. Ironically, whenever he returned from the track, he announced that he just “broke even” which is statistically impossible. He loved his son-in-law, Rich, like a son and borrowed every tool he had on a weekly basis.

Ed’s most special moments were spent with his wife and their beloved grandchildren. He never missed a sporting event or a special occasion for them. He watched Ava “Rosie”  and “Johnny Boy” when the Cedar Grove Panthers won the State Championship at Metlife Stadium, which thrilled him due to his love for football. Ed enjoyed watching his buddy “Mr. Vincent” wrestle and laughed at his wild personality. In Ed’s eyes, his grandchildren could do no wrong. He assembled their toys, took them for food they weren’t supposed to eat, and made them beautiful videos of their lives. They will cherish his memory forever. In recent years, he developed a special bond with their dog, Viviana, who considered Poppy her special human and never left his side.

Antonella Klizos, age 93 of Singer Island, Florida, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 28, 2025.

Born and raised in Rome, Italy, Antonella grew up in an acting household with her parents Armando and Luigia Guarneri and her younger brother Stefano. Her family’s passion for acting led to Antonella’s work as a voice actress, dubbing American films into Italian.

While in Rome, Antonella met a talented musician studying the violin named Stan Klizos. Their shared passion for the arts led to the couple falling in love and after several years together they got married and decided to move to Stan’s birthplace in Sudan, Africa.  A few years later the couple moved once more to the United States where they lived in Brooklyn, New York for a time before settling in New Jersey. In America, Antonella learned English by watching American television shows like “I Love Lucy” and even some she had previously dubbed in Italian while back in Rome.

The couple embraced the snowbird lifestyle, escaping the harsh winters of New Jersey, for the warm shores of Singer Island, Florida, before ultimately moving to the sunshine state permanently. Throughout her life, Antonella’s vibrant personality made her the life of any party. She cultivated friendships with people from all walks of life who will remember her fondly for her fun and lively personality, her appreciation for crispy calamari, and for her love of a chilled glass of chardonnay.

Antonella is survived by her brother Stefano Guarneri; her two daughters: Elaine Klizos and Laurie Klizos; her grandchildren Isabella Rossi and her fiancé Alex Hedgren, and Lily Rossi; and several beloved nieces and nephews, in the U.S and overseas. She is predeceased by her husband Stan Klizos and her son-in-law Robert Rossi.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be appreciated.

Rose Mastrorilli was truly one of a kind! A big heart and a fiercely independent spirit, she enjoyed life on her own terms. Rose, of Whiting NJ and formerly of Cliffside Park NJ, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 27, 2025 at the age of 94.

Rose was the daughter of Elizabeth and George Popovich, and one of six children raised in the family’s home on Lafayette Street in Jersey City, NJ. She graduated from Lincoln High School in 1948.

In 1952, Rose met her beloved husband, Joe, on a blind date at a local bowling alley. While her first impression of Joe’s bowling advice wasn’t exactly favorable - resulting in numerous gutter balls - subsequent dates went much better. Their relationship endured even when Joe enlisted into the U.S. Army and was stationed in Munich, Germany. With no email in those days, they stayed connected through countless letters. When Joe returned home, he proposed with a beautiful engagement ring, and on October 30, 1954, they exchanged vows in a joyful autumn wedding. Their honeymoon took them to Miami, Florida.

After the honeymoon, Rose and Joe started married life together in an apartment on Pine Street in Jersey City. They were soon blessed with the birth of their firstborn, Joan, who was followed by baby sister Marian. In 1960, they moved to their own home in Cliffside Park, where they enjoyed a stunning view of the New York City skyline. After 28 years, they relocated to Marietta, GA, for Joe’s job. Sadly, Joe passed away just a year later in March 1989. With no deep ties to Georgia, Rose moved back north, settling in a houseboat in Northfield, NJ, her favorite home ever, at the Jersey Shore. She spent the next eight years there, visiting Atlantic City’s casinos, where she favored slot machines and enjoyed shows by entertainers like Jerry Seinfeld and Don Rickles. Eventually, she moved to a mobile home in Whiting, NJ, until 2023, when at age 92, declining health necessitated her move to Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center in Oakland, NJ.

Rose was sharp-witted and intelligent. She worked as a secretary for various Manhattan companies, including a role with the Army Signal Corps. After taking time to raise her daughters, she returned to work as a secretary in the physical therapy department at Hudson Manor Nursing Home in North Bergen, NJ. She essentially ran the department and loved every moment of her job, earning the respect of coworkers and residents alike. She worked there for about ten years before leaving in the early 1980s. Rose never needed a driver’s license, she simply walked to work every day.

Despite her sharp mind (she could write backward and upside down), Rose preferred to keep life simple. She never embraced modern technology. Her idea of a cell phone was a well-worn cordless phone held together with tape. Rather than streaming movies, she relied on her VHS player, and she balanced her checkbook to the penny using nothing but a pencil and scrap paper.

Rose found joy in creating handmade gifts for friends and family with liquid embroidery, a fabric painting technique that gave a three-dimensional effect similar to embroidery. She decorated T-shirts with original designs, bed sheets with Archie comic characters, and lyrics from songs including originals by her daughter Marian. She was also a gifted Hungarian cook, known for family favorites like potato soup with kielbasa, stuffed cabbage, kapusta, potato salad and pot roast. Her ability to make perfect gravy from seemingly nothing earned her the affectionate title of "The Gravy Master."

Above all, Rose will be remembered as a devoted mother, mother-in-law, sister, aunt, and friend. She was a kindhearted and generous woman who valued people over possessions and always gave freely to those in need. Rose had particular affection for cats, and always had a cat in her life. She had a wonderful and mischievous sense of humor, making her a joy to be around.

Rose was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Mastrorilli, with whom she shared 35 wonderful years of marriage. She was a loving mother to her daughters, Joan Mastrorilli and her companion Trapper Quinn of Wayne, NJ,  and Marian Mastrorilli and her husband Glenn Govier of Huntington, NY. She was predeceased by her five siblings: George Popovich, Joseph Kizmann, William Popovich, Anna Marie Shustowitz, and Clara McGill. She was also a dear aunt to many nieces and nephews.

Rose’s family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to the caring, loving, and dedicated staff at the Oakland Rehabilitation and Healthcare Center for the exceptional compassion and support they provided to Rose during her time there. Their kindness and attentive care brought comfort to both Rose and her family, and their efforts will always be truly appreciated.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Rose’s memory may consider a donation to:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

The Humane Society of the United States

1255 23rd Street, NW, Suite 450

Washington, DC 20037

Mary Miller's incredible life began in the most extraordinary way. Born at home on Moreland Avenue in West Paterson in 1929, her arrival was nothing short of amazing- her mother, home alone, bravely delivered Mary by herself. After gathering her strength, she made her way to the front door and called out for help, marking the start of Mary's resilient and remarkable journey.

She grew up in that same home with her parents and four brothers, spending her teenage years surrounded by family and friends. A proud graduate of St. Bonaventure, Mary was a cheerleader who brought spirit and joy wherever she went. After high school, she worked as a

clerk in the accounting department at the New Jersey Telephone Company.

At just seventeen, Mary met the love of her life, Russell Miller. Their connection was immediate, and after a whirlwind romance, they married on October 8, 1948. Wasting no time, they built a beautiful life together, raising eight children- because for Mary, family was everything. Her love for children was boundless, and she poured her heart into motherhood.

As their family grew, they moved to West Milford, where all eight children attended St. Joseph Catholic School. A devoted parishioner, Mary's faith was a guiding force in her life. She was also known for her incredible baking skills, especially her famous Christmas gingerbread houses- a tradition she lovingly continued with her great-grandchildren right up until her passing. Her family will proudly carry on this sweet legacy.

When asked by her granddaughters what the best part of her life was, Mary didn't

hesitate- "When my children were little." She truly loved being a mother, and that love only grew as her family expanded. She was blessed with eighteen grandchildren and twenty-seven great-grandchildren, each one adding to the legacy of love she leaves behind.

In 1988, Mary and Russ retired to Venice, Florida, where they embraced beach life, planted orange and lemon trees, and enjoyed their well-earned relaxation. Their time together in Florida was filled with laughter and love until Russ passed away in 1998, just shy of their 50th wedding anniversary.

Mary then moved to Hilton Head, South Carolina, where three of her sons lived, and she thrived in this new chapter of retirement. She filled her days with the things that brought her joy, even partnering with a legally blind shuffleboard player who, despite the odds, was a fierce competitor.

In 2018, she returned to New Jersey, spending her final years surrounded by family, love, and countless cherished memories. Mary lived a truly blessed life, and her legacy of warmth, kindness, and devotion to family will live on for generations to come.

Mary is survived by seven of her children; Russell Miller and his wife Jackie of S. Carolina, Bob Miller of S. Carolina, Jim Miller of S. Carolina, mark Miller of Virginia, Richard Miller of W. Milford, Chris Majcen and her husband Gus of Virginia, and Nancy Lowe and her husband Gene of Wayne, eighteen grandchildren and twenty-seven great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband, Russell, in 1998, and by her son Gary in 2024.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Stanley A. Wysocki Jr., a beloved brother, cherished uncle, successful businessman, and loyal friend. Stanley passed away on January 25th, leaving behind a legacy of kindness, dedication, and unwavering support.

As a brother, Stanley was always there with a listening ear, a comforting word, and a helping hand. His siblings will cherish the memories of laughter, shared dreams, and the bond that only siblings can share.

In the business world, Stanley was a dedicated employee of Exxon and Sony for the majority of his career. His collaborative spirit and keen business sense was respected and admired by colleagues and clients alike. His integrity and commitment to excellence set a standard that inspired many.

As a friend, Stanley was loyal and true. He had a unique ability to make everyone feel valued and appreciated. His friends knew they could always count on him for support, whether in times of joy or sorrow. His genuine kindness and generosity touched the lives of many.

Stanley will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing him. His legacy of caring, hard work, and loyalty will always be remembered. May he rest in peace and may we one day all be re-united in the kingdom of heaven.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Newark Archdiocese in Stanley's honor.

Dolores Gabriele (nee Rutz), age 90 of West Milford, died on Friday, January 24, 2025. She grew up in Fort Lee where her family made a name for themselves in the lace and embroidery industry.

Dee, as she was affectionately known, met her husband, Charles, at a local sock-hop. They hit it off from the start and were married soon after. They wasted no time starting a family and soon needed more space for their kids. They moved to West Milford in the 1960’s, which was like a different world from Bergen County. Their kids had room to explore and Dee earned the nickname “copperhead killer.” Rural West Milford came with some unwelcome neighbors, but they were no match for Dee. She was an athlete and a sports fan her whole life. She was an avid tennis player and encouraged her kids in all sorts of sporting activities. Somehow she managed to make it to every game and every practice, and her children are all very grateful for it. Dee’s life was built around her family, and nothing made her more happy. Dee was also a devout Catholic and nurtured her strong faith at St. Joseph RC Church on Germantown Road in West Milford. She was a faithful parishioner there for many years.

Dee is survived by her four children: Charles Gabriele, Jr. and his wife Deb of West Milford, Alexis Roberts and her husband Doug of Hawley, PA, Greg Gabriele and his wife Theresa of Wayne, and Eric Gabriele and his wife Jaimie of Highland Lakes, nine grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Charles in 2012, after enjoying more than sixty years of marriage together.

Vivian V. Costanzo (nee Tagliaferro), 87, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 23, 2025 surrounded by loving family. The older of two children of Stephen and Flora Tagliaferro, she was born and raised in the Bronx. Vivian attended Evander Childs High School, graduating in 1955. Although she enjoyed truly wonderful high school years, Vivian often complained about her swimming class – noting that the school always issued bathing suits riddled with holes, making an already awkward experience even worse.

Vivian never learned to ride a bike, a fact that set her apart from most of her peers. Raised by ultra-caring parents, she wasn’t allowed to take risks like other kids. Her parents always insisted it was safer to walk or be driven, shielding her from what they saw as unnecessary harm. Like a scene from the movie “A Bronx Tale,” Vivian grew up in a very large and fun Italian family with many living nearby in the same neighborhood. She could often be found enjoying time with them on the apartment building’s front stoop or playing weekly Italian card games such as Scopa.

Vivian attended Westchester Community College in NYC where she studied to be a lab technician. After earning her associate’s degree, she accepted a position at a NYC doctor’s office where she worked for a few years.

Vivian later left the workforce when she married and dedicated herself to being a full-time homemaker. She moved to Woodbridge, NJ and eventually to Wayne where – for more than 50 years – she was devoted to her family, nurturing and caring for her children. After her children had grown, Vivian went back to work for several businesses, including Montclair Radiology in Nutley until her retirement in 2007.

While her children were in school, Vivian was a member of the PTA. She enjoyed sewing and was an extraordinary cook, famous by family and friends for her meatballs. Her family remembers their weekly traditional Sunday dinner get-togethers at her home – the aromas of amazing food and the guarantee of much fun and laughter around a table filled with her love.

Aside from her talents, hobbies, and interests, Vivian’s greatest passion was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Vivian than providing for and spending time with her children, and especially her grandchildren. Throughout the years, Vivian especially cherished family trips to Disney World and their summers in Ocean City at the Jersey Shore. While at the beach, she was often found basking in the sun and reading Daniel Steele novels. Over the years, her grandchildren affectionately referred to her as “G-Viv,” and more recently referring to her lovingly as simply “G.”

Vivian was not only dedicated to her family but also to her Catholic Faith. She was a parishioner of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary RC Church in Wayne for more than twenty years. Vivian found solace and strength in her Catholic faith, which became her anchor as she navigated the profound grief of losing her beloved daughter Maria DeBenedetto in 2023.

Vivian was an extraordinary emotionally strong woman of faith who was kind and compassionate. She often thought of others’ needs before her own. She had an unwavering belief in the goodness of others. Vivian was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone she met and will be missed tremendously by her family and friends.

Vivian is survived by three children including Guy Costanzo and his wife Lisa of Anderson, SC, Stephen Costanzo and his wife Donna of Oak Ridge, NJ, and Laura Stinziano and her husband Joe of Wayne, NJ; her son-in-law Martin DeBenedetto; one brother Steven Taglia and his wife Maxine of Bradenton, FL; and nine grandchildren including Hannah Costanzo, Daniella Martin (Brendan aka Gregory), Ryan Sylvester (Brie), Matthew Costanzo (Kenya), Joey Stinziano, Michael DeBenedetto, Jaclyn Stinziano, Zachary Costanzo, and Olivia Costanzo. She was predeceased by her daughter Maria DeBenedetto and also her longtime companion Michael Guarino.

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In lieu of flowers, the family asks donations be made in Vivian’s name to Alzheimer's Association  or the Maria Costanzo DeBenedetto Memorial Foundation (find Foundation on PayPal, or by check mailed to MCDM Foundation, 19 Point Road, Wayne, NJ  07470).

Margaret Ellen Cully, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on January 23, 2025, with the comfort of family by her side. She was 88 years old.

Margaret was born to Jacob and Clara Kypers in Little Falls, NJ.

She graduated from Passaic Valley High School and worked for American Cyanamid, which eventually became Home Products.

Before Margaret started work, she and her husband raised four daughters. Robert and Margaret married on April 14, 1956. They honeymooned in Niagra Falls, NY. Margaret and Robert were blessed with four daughters, Laureen, Susan, Deborah and Lisa.  They enjoyed 65 years of marriage together.

Margaret enjoyed hosting neighborhood parties, cruises, sunbathing and the beach. She enjoyed taking care of the neighborhood feral cat community and was a crazy cat lady.

She is predeceased by her husband, Robert, grandson-in-law, Michael Basso, her parents, Jacob and Clara, and all of her siblings.

She is survived by her daughters, Laureen, Susan, Deborah and Lisa; her grandchildren; Tracey, Jessica, Brandon, Brian, Kristen, Rachel and Daniel.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Barbara C. Wheeler (nee Curtis), age 79, of Wayne NJ.

Barbara passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 22, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family. She was raised in Albany, NY and was the youngest of three children to F. Norton and June Curtis.  While growing up in Albany, Barbara attended high school at St Agnes School for Girls.  While a student at St Agnes School for Girls, Barbara excelled in sports, playing on the girl’s tennis and field hockey varsity teams.

Following her high school graduation with the class of 1962, she attended a local college for a couple of years.  While attending a sporting event at Colgate College, Barbara met a handsome young student by the name of Richard Wheeler.  The couple hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and in 1968 they exchanged wedding vows, becoming husband and wife.

They newlyweds resided in a few different locations throughout New York State while Richard was working toward his law degree.  They eventually settled in Wayne, NJ where they raised their two sons, Andrew and Daniel.  Their journey as husband and wife lasted over twenty years but unfortunately ended in divorce.  During Barbara’s marriage, she dedicated herself to being a homemaker, nurturing and raising her sons.  She later re-entered the workforce, accepting a position as an insurance agent with Gorga Insurance in Fairfield, NJ and later with Richards Associates Insurance Company in Clifton, NJ.  Barbara’s career as an insurance agent spanned nearly thirty years until her retirement in 2010.

Barbara kept the love of sports throughout her life, being an avid tennis player and a member of the Packanack Lake Tennis Club.  She loved to cook and was famous with family and friends for her Strawberry Shortcake, her Baked Mac & Cheese, and her mashed potatoes.  Aside from Barbara’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Barbara than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and her dear cat Pumpkin.

Barbara was a chatty, bubbly, and charming lady who loved to interact with others.  Standing at just five feet tall, she was a petite figure who held her own in any social gathering. Her height a charming contrast made her all the more unique.  She was the kind of lady who would often “go with the flow” but was not afraid to speak her mind when she felt strongly about something.

Barbara was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Barbara is survived by her two sons, Andrew Wheeler and his wife Christine of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Daniel Wheeler of Wayne, NJ; two grandchildren, Alexander Wheeler, and Nicholas Wheeler.  She is also survived by her cat Pumpkin.  She was predeceased by her sisters Susan Thompson, and Nancy LeGacy.

Those wishing to make a donation in Barbara’s name are asked to consider House of Dreams Shelter

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Barbara C. Wheeler (nee Curtis), age 79, of Wayne NJ.

Barbara passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 22, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family. She was raised in Albany, NY and was the youngest of three children to F. Norton and June Curtis.  While growing up in Albany, Barbara attended high school at St Agnes School for Girls.  While a student at St Agnes School for Girls, Barbara excelled in sports, playing on the girl’s tennis and field hockey varsity teams.

Following her high school graduation with the class of 1962, she attended a local college for a couple of years.  While attending a sporting event at Colgate College, Barbara met a handsome young student by the name of Richard Wheeler.  The couple hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and in 1968 they exchanged wedding vows, becoming husband and wife.

They newlyweds resided in a few different locations throughout New York State while Richard was working toward his law degree.  They eventually settled in Wayne, NJ where they raised their two sons, Andrew and Daniel.  Their journey as husband and wife lasted over twenty years but unfortunately ended in divorce.  During Barbara’s marriage, she dedicated herself to being a homemaker, nurturing and raising her sons.  She later re-entered the workforce, accepting a position as an insurance agent with Gorga Insurance in Fairfield, NJ and later with Richards Associates Insurance Company in Clifton, NJ.  Barbara’s career as an insurance agent spanned nearly thirty years until her retirement in 2010.

Barbara kept the love of sports throughout her life, being an avid tennis player and a member of the Packanack Lake Tennis Club.  She loved to cook and was famous with family and friends for her Strawberry Shortcake, her Baked Mac & Cheese, and her mashed potatoes.  Aside from Barbara’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Barbara than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and her dear cat Pumpkin.

Barbara was a chatty, bubbly, and charming lady who loved to interact with others.  Standing at just five feet tall, she was a petite figure who held her own in any social gathering. Her height a charming contrast made her all the more unique.  She was the kind of lady who would often “go with the flow” but was not afraid to speak her mind when she felt strongly about something.

Barbara was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Barbara is survived by her two sons, Andrew Wheeler and his wife Christine of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Daniel Wheeler of Wayne, NJ; two grandchildren, Alice Wheeler, and Nicholas Wheeler.  She is also survived by her cat Pumpkin.  She was predeceased by her sisters Susan Thompson, and Nancy LeGacy.

Those wishing to make a donation in Barbara’s name are asked to consider House of Dreams Shelter

Marah R Malgapo passed Sunday January 19, 2025 in Bayonne, NJ. Marah was the beloved daughter of Mel and Carol List and loving sister of Darren List. She is preceded in death by her father, Mel List.

Marah was raised in Montclair NJ and enjoyed playing violin throughout her childhood. She became a nurse and spent many years dedicated to the care of others.

Marah’s love of music, which came from her father, continued into her adulthood. Everyone who knew her, knew she was an avid fan of 1980s music especially Madonna and Boyz II Men. Marah shared her mother’s love of animals and spoke often of her own cat Angel and the place she held in Marah’s heart. She enjoyed spending time with her friends and her family.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to https://colelchabad.org would be greatly appreciated.

Joseph Dodds, Jr. age 83, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 18, 2025.

The elder son of Joseph and Ruth (Seiberlin) Dodds, Joe was born in Paterson and raised in Wayne at the family homestead located at 864 Ratzer Road. He was a graduate of the original Wayne High School Class of 1959, where he excelled at football and baseball. During his high school years Joe was also a talented competition ice skater, earning him the Silver Skates award after placing first in a skating competition at Madison Square Garden in New York City.

After high school, Joe worked a variety of jobs before establishing a career as an owner operator of his own trucking business based in Wayne, NJ. He owned two eighteen wheelers with which he typically hauled cargo from Pennsylvania to New York City and Newark, NJ. Later Joe moved his business to Florida where he primarily hauled paper for recycling. Eventually he sold his trucking business to pursue a new adventure as a restauranteur. Joe was the owner of Darby’s Pub in Brandon, FL – a popular spot on Friday and Saturday nights for many years.

Joe was a devoted sports fan and active community member. While raising his two sons and daughter in Wayne, NJ, he served as a head coach for the Wayne PAL for 15 years. Coaching his sons in football and baseball was a source of considerable pride for him. He also loved golf and never missed an opportunity to play eighteen holes, particularly with his sons. Joe also enjoyed watching sports as much as he enjoyed playing – especially football. When his granddaughter Kirsten began attending the University of Notre Dame, the Fighting Irish became his favorite team to cheer for—second only to the New York Giants.

Way before it enjoyed popular acclaim, Joe was a country music fan. He enjoyed listening in his truck, to classic artists like Hank Williams and Johnny Cash, but he appreciated modern country music as well. One of Joe’s other favorite pastimes was an evening at home watching a good old classic western.

More than anything else, Joe enjoyed his family, and treating his grandchildren to a nice cash gift on their birthdays and Christmas gave him much joy.    

Joe was the loving father of: Michael Dodds of Tahoe City, CA, Kolleen “Kelly” Gibson of Lawrenceville, NJ, and Kevin and wife Christine Dodds of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Lena, Elize and husband Todd, Colin, Kirsten, Kyle and Kai; dearest great-grandfather of Sage and Rider; dear brother of William and his wife Cheryl Dodds of Longmont, CO; and dear uncle of Christine and husband Greg, and Casey and wife Kim.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider:

American Foundation for the Blind

Attn:  Gift Processing

1108 Third Avenue, Suite 200

Huntington, WV 25701

Please make your check payable to American Foundation for the Blind and indicate that it is in memory of Joseph Dodds.

Catherine “Kay” Granville, age 91, of Clifton passed away early Saturday morning, January 18th, 2025.  She was surrounded by the love of her children and grandchildren all week as she slowly transitioned to leave us.    

Catherine was born and raised on Center Street, in Dunmore Pennsylvania, the daughter of the late Donato Fabricatore and RoseMarie DiNicola Fabricatore. She graduated from Dunmore High School in 1951. After graduation she was employed by Picardy Mills.  She loved spending time with her friends, going to Virginia Beach and the many dances her and her friends would attend on the weekends. At one of these dances is where she met her long time husband of over fifty years, Earl Richard Granville of Carbondale Pennsylvania who preceded her in death in 2013.  He was living in New Jersey at the time and they dated for three years before they wed in November of 1962.  

Over the years, she worked in a few places while raising her children, the last being Sprectrix Material Inc, from where she retired.  She enjoyed being with her grandchildren and was lucky to see them all grow up.  She attended numerous sporting events over the years that her grandchildren participated in and never missed a birthday, special occasion or function with her family. Kay loved to go to Atlantic City and play the penny slot machines. She put in a big 40 cents a spin sometimes and would sit there for hours having so much fun.  She loved to talk to anyone that would listen and made friends everywhere she went.  Everybody loved her.  

Kay was the youngest of 7 children, and was preceded in death by 1 sister Francis, and 5 brothers, Peter, Angelo, Anthony, Joseph and Gerald.  She was a loving and caring wife, mother, grandmother, Aunt, sister and friend.  She made friends with everyone everywhere she went and always left her beautiful smile behind.   She is survived by a daughter Rose Marie and husband Tony Loffredo of Ringwood, a son Earl Granville, III and wife Lori Loftus of Clifton.  Six grandchildren, Melanie and Breanna Loffredo of Ringwood, Veronica Granville and fiancé Reuben Cottingham of Clifton, Shannon, Kyle and Chris Loftus of Old Bridge and many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the American Heart Association, PO Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692.

Josephine Pudup, age 96, passed away peacefully on January 17,2025. Josephine was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Growing up in the South Side, she played volleyball and enjoyed activities at the Polish Falcons. In the aftermath of World War II, Josephine crossed paths with a handsome U.S. marine just returning from his service in the Pacific theater. Leo Albert Pudup and Josephine fell in love and in 1949 the couple were married. They enjoyed a long, loving marriage that spanned more than six decades until his passing in 2013.

Josephine was a devoted homemaker for most of her life. She served as a Den Mother for the local scouts and became known for organizing successful candy sale fundraisers for her parish. She enjoyed summer vacations down to Long Beach Island and loved attending theater performances with her friends.

Josephine is survived by her three children, Leo David (Suzanne), Gary (Kathy) and Dawn (Gary d 2012). GrandChildren Michael (Alima), Edward (Cassie), Pamela (Shawn) Dwyer, Tommy (Elaine) Clar, James (Tabatha) Clar, Colleen (Tom) Pirog. Great grandchildren Leo Michael Pudup, Owen and Griffin Pudup, Colin and Emily Dwyer, Garret and Gabriela Clar, Forest Clar, Chase, Cole and Carolina Pirog. Josephine would have also recognized her close friends, the Russell Family.

Edith M. Ryle, age 78, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 16, 2025.

One of the last surviving members of the famed Ryle family, who established the silk industry that earned the City of Paterson its nickname, "Silk City," Edith was born in Paterson to James and Edith (Ryle) McTighe.

A proud graduate of St. Bonaventure High School in Paterson, Edith called Paterson home until her marriage and the blessing of her two sons, Michael and Jeffrey, inspired her to move to Wayne, where she resided for the remainder of her life.

During her sons’ childhood years, Edith’s life revolved around nurturing and caring for them. She always put Michael and Jeffrey’s well-being first, and they credit her with countless important life lessons. They were also the lucky recipients of her culinary talents. Jeffrey especially loved her "Tatties and Mince", a delicious take on shepherd’s pie—while Michael was thrilled whenever she baked her famous red velvet cake. As active members of the Wayne PAL sports teams, her sons benefited from her unrelenting support. Edith participated in countless fundraisers and kept the team fueled with endless supplies of Gatorade and homemade food, earning her the affectionate nickname "Team Mom."

When her sons grew older and became more independent, Edith began working in the administrative office of the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department. She wore her uniform with immense pride and cherished the camaraderie, respect, and friendships she formed during her ten-year career, which spanned from 2000 until her retirement in 2010.

Edith had a boundless love for animals and a heart as compassionate as it was generous. She never met a dog, cat, or even more exotic creatures—like her son’s ferret—that she didn’t adore. Particularly drawn to Old English Sheepdogs, Edith provided a loving home to many of them throughout her life. Her kindness extended to homeless pets as well. Her deep love for animals was something she instilled in her sons, and later in life, she found immense joy in visiting with her beloved "grand dogs."

Edith was a true people person. Her optimistic outlook on life radiated from within, drawing family, friends, and even strangers into her warm, glowing presence. She was deeply involved in various charitable and community efforts, including Sheriff’s events, fundraisers, and political gatherings.

More than anything else, Edith’s greatest joy came from her loving family. The loss of her parents, her brother, her nephew, and other dear family members brought her profound sadness, but her spirit remained strong. The last twelve years of her life were particularly challenging as she endured the effects of dementia and other health concerns, but she remained surrounded by the love of her family.

Edith will be fondly remembered for her many virtues, including her sensitivity, empathy, compassion, nurturing spirit, strong will, and quiet wisdom.

She is survived by her two devoted sons: Michael Findlay of Paterson, and Jeffrey Findlay and his husband, John Miele, of Sussex; her cherished sister-in-law Elena McTighe of Delray Beach, FL; numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins; and her treasured "grand-dogs." Edith was predeceased by her beloved parents, James and Edith (Ryle) McTighe, her dear brother William J. McTighe, and her dear nephew, William “Billy” McTighe, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Edith’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Alzheimer's New Jersey

Attn:  Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Father John’s Animal House

50 Father Johns Lane

Lafayette Township, NJ 07848

Frank John Sabatelli, born on a warm spring day, September 29, 1947, and sadly passed Monday, January 13, 2025.

He is survived by his wife Eileen and sons Frank and Brian residing in Ringwood. Frank and his wife Heather have three daughters: Olivia, Victoria, and Mia. Brian and his wife Jaclyn have a daughter Gabriella and son Brayden. Frank’s surviving brother Richard is married to wife Alena and other brother Ron and wife Christine. Frank is also survived by Mother Freida.  Also survived by his brother in-law John and Geralyn Korin with their two sons John Zachary and Joseph. He was named by his granddaughter Pa-Ba and the name has stuck all of these years…

Frank was born in NY city and was raised in Wood-Ridge, NJ by his parents Freida and Frank, along with his brothers Richard and Ron. He grew up across the street from Eileen, the love of his life. They met at an early age and grew up dating across the street! Frank went to Bergen Catholic High School and excelled in class as well as the baseball field where he was a star pitcher. His love for Baseball, academics and his future wife were all themes throughout his childhood and into High School. He went onto his undergrad work at Providence College in Rhode Island, where he studied Biology. He went to Seton Hall College to gain his Master’s degree. He ultimately started his amazing career at Schering-Plough as a Microbiologist. His career there spanned over 30 years where he became a Master Microbiology Scientist working on some of the biggest projects of the company’s success and helping to produce some of the medications and products that have become household names to us all.

He started dating Eileen at age 16, dated throughout high school and college and were married in the summer of ’69. We all think that the song was written just for them! Frank and Eileen have been married for 55 wonderful years!

Frank served in the Army National Guard from 1970-76 and was proud to not only serve his country but meet some of his best friends as well.

His life changed forever in the 70’s with the birth of his two sons and moving to beautiful Ringwood, NJ. He continued his love for baseball by coaching both of his sons through their childhood and into High School. He also developed a love for playing softball and was instrumental in running, coaching, playing, and pitching in multiple softball leagues in Ringwood, Ramsey, and Mahwah.  Some of the family’s fondest memories are from Frank playing softball with his two adult sons in Ringwood’s men’s softball league. He enjoyed playing ball well into his 60’s and brought so many good friends together.  

Some of Pa-Ba’s other loves were his time in Lake George NY where the family vacationed, boated, skied, camped and enjoyed many years of family, friends, cousins and breathtaking views. These family vacations went on for over 40 years and have been a part of the family culture that continues today.  We all met and vacationed with families that forever will be in our fondest memories. A typical day would include him pulling everyone skiing in Huddle Bay and loving every minute of it. LG misses his boat appropriately named “Makin’ Tracks”.

Frank’s retirement from Schering-Plough ended his science chapter and he began another career with PSE&G. His work there brought him outside and was met with many more friends and some new softball experiences where he enjoyed some very exciting leagues.

We would be remised if we didn’t speak of Pa-Ba’s love for everything Trains. Having grown up a bike ride away from some of the most exciting Erie railroad train hubs, the family came to accept his love and enjoy our local trips to chase engines and snag that ‘perfect picture’ of a passing engine. Erie K5, the license plate of his Ford Raptor is a tribute to an Erie steam engine that only a true enthusiast would appreciate. Train whistles and model trains have been a staple in the Sabatelli family forever.

Pa-Ba and G-ma have been the center of our family and have touched so many that we are thankful for every year of the 55 that we have been able to share with them. Pa-Ba will forever be in our memories, our hearts and our conversations. We love you Pa-Ba, you are missed so much.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Susan Dammassa-Kraus, age 69, of Wyckoff, NJ.  Susan Passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 11, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her friends and family.

She was born and raised in Hoboken, NJ and was the only child to Angelo and Assunta Dammassa.  Susan attended Hoboken High School and graduated with the class of 1973.  Susan always knew she wanted to make a difference in people's lives, so immediately after graduating high school, she decided to pursue her dream of becoming a registered nurse. With determination and a passion for healthcare, she enrolled in St Mary’s Nursing School in Hoboken, NJ.  There she dedicated herself to mastering the skills and knowledge needed to care for others.

Susan dove into her role as a trusted healthcare professional by first accepting a position as an Emergency Room Nurse with St Mary’s Hospital in Hoboken.  She left St Mary’s Hospital to work for the Meadowlands Hospital in Secaucus again as an Emergency Room Nurse.  For a while Susan was employed in the field of Home Healthcare working for a variety of companies over the next several years.  She was a Unit Nurse at Clara Maas Medical center in Belleville, NJ for a time and eventually accepted a position as Case Manager for St Joseph Hospital where she transferred between their Wayne and Paterson locations.  Susan’s career as a Registered Nurse spanned a period of over forty-five years.  During her career, she was truly loved and respected by her peers and colleagues, focusing on smoothing the way for patients being discharged to get the resources they needed as soon as possible. Susan dedicated forty-five years of her life to her career as a compassionate and skilled Registered Nurse, retiring only when her illness made it impossible for her to continue the work she loved.

In 1988 Susan was introduced by a mutual friend to a man by the name of Peter Kraus.  The two went out on a blind date to Bennigan’s in Fairfield, NJ.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and became instant soul mates, later exchanging wedding vows and becoming husband and wife on December 9, 1990.  The couple lived in Wayne for many years together and cherished nearly twenty-two years of loving and loyal marriage until Peter’s sudden passing. They were inseparable and enjoyed traveling together and taking photos wherever they went.  Their trip to Walt Disney World in 2011 was one highlight of their married life that Susan cherished.  Several years after Peter’s passing, Susan moved to the Vista, the independent living community that is part of Christian Health in Wyckoff, New Jersey, where she treasured the many friendships she created with her fellow residents.

Susan was not only devoted to her husband Peter, she was a woman deeply devoted to her Catholic faith, living it out through tireless service to her community. She worked closely with Holy Angels Church in Little Falls and other local churches, offering her time and talents to organize events, support parish activities, and strengthen her fellow parishioners’ spiritual lives. Beyond her parish, Susan was actively involved in Catholic charities, dedicating herself to helping those in need.  Through her unwavering commitment and acts of devotion, Susan was a shining example of living her life with faith.

Susan loved all things Christmas! The first year at The Vista she covered every surface in her new apartment with Christmas memorabilia and covered her tree with many special Disney ornaments. She loved everything related to Disney - artwork, ornaments, movies, photos, and more.  Susan’s hobbies included photography, games like canasta, Peanuts and Snoopy cartoons, and music. Every time a different song came on the radio or came through the speaker system, it was her favorite!  She knew all the lyrics to songs from the popular music groups of her growing up years.

Susan is survived by her stepson, Jeff Kraus, and his wife Maria, her stepdaughter, Denise Jurewicz, and her husband Bill, six grandchildren, Kaitlyn Kraus, Vincent Colley, Justin Colley, Will Jurewicz, Ben Jurewicz, and Kayla Jurewicz, her dear cousin Phyllis Clemente, her grandniece Samara Bruschi, and her dear friend Anita Kromrey.  Susan will be missed by all the residents of The Vista. She will especially be missed by her close group of friends who bonded with her during her time there. She was predeceased by her husband Peter Kraus in November of 2012.

Born on the Fourth of July in 1930, Anne Marie Delevante grew up in Brooklyn, New York. She graduated Public School #9, then the High School of Music and Art in Manhattan and completed one year of Cooper Union with a focus on fine arts. Her parents were Sigrid (Svenson) and Gunnar Nelson.

At age 16, she volunteered for the New York State Farm Corps and worked on a farm in Cooperstown, an area where many men had not returned from fighting in World War II. She had an indelible happy memory of everyone in town participating outdoors in a community square dance, from toddlers who could barely walk to elderly people.

In 1950, Anne Marie married Owen Delevante, a fellow student at Cooper Union, and worked in a variety of settings in New York City and New Jersey: for Commercial Factors and Ames Textile in New York, and for architects in Waldwick, an electrical engineer in HoHoKus, and a survey company in Ridgewood. In 1956, the couple bought a home in Glen Rock, where she lived for 58 years. When Owen opened a sole proprietor architectural office in Ridgewood, she helped in his practice, doing a range of jobs, until Owen's death in 1991. Soon afterwards, her elderly mother moved in with her. Anne Marie cared for Sigrid at home until her mother's death.

She had an active life as a volunteer. She learned Braille and belonged to Literacy Volunteers. At The Depot, a gift shop to benefit Family Counseling Service, she volunteered for several years in sales. And she volunteered at the Glen Rock Public Library.

Anne Marie and Owen traveled widely, taking two trips to Jamaica to visit his family, enjoying three voyages on the Queen Elizabeth II, and visiting all the Scandinavian countries, Canada and several European countries. With her second husband, Ed, annual vacations on Cape Cod were a special source of delight.

Having met Edward Breuer of Glen Rock while working with his wife, Lois, at the library, she began dating him in 2000 after Lois's death. They married in June 2002 and lived on Harding Road, where Anne Marie had been a Harding Road Gang member for years, building floats for Glen Rock's 4th of July parade. In 2014, they moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ.

In Glen Rock, she was a member of Good Shepherd Lutheran Church and was active in the women's group. After her marriage to Edward, she attended Community Church of Glen Rock, where her ashes will be laid to rest in the memorial garden, where his ashes were interred three years ago.

Anne Marie completed the New York Times crossword puzzle every day—in ink. She was an avid reader all her life. Her skill at sewing was widely known and appreciated, as she sewed for her parents, brother, friends and their children, even creating a deerskin vest for a friend who had felled a deer and had always wanted the vest. She described the task as like sewing butter. From conversation to gift-giving, she brought an artistic flair to everything she did.

She is survived by her nephew Gustav. Gus and Lucy Nelson live in Lisbon Falls, Maine with their three children, Keenan, Ezra and Mira.

Geraldine Ann Walker (nee Earls) age 79 passed away peacefully on January 9, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Born in Passaic, NJ in 1945, Gerry was the second daughter of the late Edward and Margaret Earles. She is predeceased by her sister Judith Kovalcik.

Throughout her career, she was employed by the Solar Oil Company, where she met her husband, Anthony. She eventually retired after many years as a classroom paraprofessional from the Wayne Board of Education.

Gerry’s hobbies included knitting and crocheting where she was a member of the Our Lady of Consolation Prayer Shawl Ministry group. She also enjoyed reading, baking, and completing one of her many puzzle books.

Gerry is survived by her husband of almost 51 years Anthony Walker and her daughter Lynn Walker, along with her niece Karen Kovalcik Schiffel and her nephew Kenneth Kovalcik and their families.

Her family would like to thank Dr. Roy and the staff at Wayne Hematology and Oncology, as well as the staff at St. Joseph’s Wayne Medical and Infusion Center for taking care of her for the past several years.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Gerry’s memory to The Leukemia and Lymphoma Society by clicking the link below or by donating blood at a location of your choosing.

https://diy.lls.org/fundraiser/6005147

Virginia Tisdale passed away peacefully on January 8, 2025 at a Wayne nursing home at the age of 79.

Born September 11, 1945, Virginia ("Ginny") was raised in Fair Lawn, NJ where she graduated from Fair Lawn High School in 1963. She was married to Richard D. Tisdale, a fellow Fair Lawn graduate, from 1967 to 1987.  She is predeceased by her parents, George and Ortrude Storms, and her older sisters Jane Templin and Carol Shattuck.

She enjoyed playing tennis, a sport that she excelled at, and all kinds of games with her Fair Lawn friends and children, such as bridge, mahjong and cards, and she was actively involved in her children's schools, as a PTA member, and activities, including Brownies and Girl Scout troops.

She is survived by her children, Jennifer Nemeth-Tisdale of Frostproof, Florida, and Richard Tisdale of West Orange, NJ, and grandchildren, Jacquelyn Nemeth, and Oliver, Elliott and Charlie Tisdale.

The family kindly requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to The Radburn Association, a non-profit organization dedicated to preserving the community's National Historic Landmark designation and supporting its ongoing efforts throughout the community. Please click on the link to donate https://radburn.wildapricot.org/Donate

Anthony Avolio, Jr., age 85 of North Haledon, died on Wednesday, January 8, 2025. Born and raised in Paterson, Anthony had lived in North Haledon for over 45 years. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend.

Anthony was a proud veteran of the U.S. Army. He worked in the construction industry as a carpenter and was a proud member of Carpenter’s Union Local 253 for nearly sixty years.

Anthony was a loving husband to his wife Janice (nee Decker) for fifty-five years until her passing just a few weeks ago. He is survived by their two children; Anthony and his wife Linda of North Haledon, and Michele Pellegrino and her husband Carmen of Wayne, and three grandchildren; Angela, Christopher, and Anthony. He was predeceased by his sister Rose Marino in 2016.

Frank Louis Tomaselli, age 91 of Wanaque, NJ passed away on Monday, January 6, 2025.

He was born and raised in Hackensack, having graduated from Hackensack High School with the Class of 1952. He had lived in Paramus before moving to Wanaque in 1988.

His work history includes: packaging pharmaceuticals to be shipped out to drug stores for the Bergen Drug Company in Hackensack, a grocery clerk stocking shelves for a store on Main Street in Hackensack for $13.43 per week after school, an envelope machine operator for the Tension Envelope Company in South Hackensack, and a shipping clerk for the James Phillips Furniture company in Paterson where he would ship furniture to area furniture stores.

Frank served in the US Army during the Korean War.  He was stationed in a hospital in Texas and later in Seattle, Washington.  With just six months of service left he was sent by ship to Bremerhaven Germany to serve in a hospital there, however, he got violently seasick and spent eleven days in the hospital himself.  Upon completion of his duty he was sent back to the United States, by ship, and spent nine days recovering from seasickness here.

After his military service Frank enrolled in a Barber School in New York City following in his father’s footsteps. He would be sent to the Bowery to cut the hair of the indigent people.  He quit school five different times and eventually received his certificate and worked for Romano’s Barber Shop in Maywood for thirty years. He bought a Rick’s Luncheonette in Maywood that he ran for two years but was overwhelmed by the operating hours of 4 AM – 11 PM seven days a week. In 1995 he retired and took a part-time position at Saint Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes where he worked as a maintenance man for six years before completely retiring in 2001.

He had a loving marriage to Arlinda for over forty years and took great pride in the accomplishments of his children and grandchildren. After retiring Frank enjoyed traveling with Arlinda to Aruba where he was affectionately known as the “Mayor of Paradise.” He was a great athlete and in his younger years he was active with the South Hackensack Boys Club, played semi-pro football with the Paterson Panthers, semi-pro baseball with the Hackensack “Troasts,” and in his later years he bowled in Hackensack at Bowler City and in Hasbrouck Heights at the Eclipse. He was a dedicated and loyal New York Yankee and New York Giants fan.

Frank was the loving husband of Arlinda (Loschiavo) Tomaselli; devoted father of Mark Anthony and Gary Allan Tomaselli both of Paramus; dear stepfather of Susan Conklin and her husband Philip of West Milford, Dr. Katherine Taylor and her husband Halston of Arlington, MA, and Thomas Dabulis; cherished grandfather of 8 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Mary’s Church would be appreciated.

Marie D. Loria, 81, of Wayne, passed away peacefully, with her loving family by her side, on Sunday, January 5, 2025.

Marie was the second of three children born to Dan Sr. and Antoinette “ Toni” Marie (Cutitieo) DeMarco, flanked by her older brother Dan and her younger brother Joseph. She was raised in West New York, NJ where she attended Memorial High School, graduating with the Class of 1961. She enjoyed reminiscing about her weekly trips to the library with her father as a little girl which undoubtedly marked the beginning of her love of reading. She retold stories of Saturday mornings spent at the movie theater and summer trips to Rockaway Beach.

Life introduced Marie into the work world behind a switchboard as a telephone operator. From there, she took a position as a receptionist for Atlantic Aviation at Teterboro Airport. One day while at work, the angels up above smiled down on Marie in the likeness of a handsome young man named Rudolph Loria who came in for a scheduled interview. Upon reflecting on that moment, Marie recalled that the second their eyes met, she knew it was forever. She was right. Marie and Rudy’s first date took place on Valentine’s Day. Talk about romantic! They went out for dinner at Nico’s Pier 17 on Route 17 in Paramus, NJ. By the time Rudy reached into the back of the car to grab the dozen roses he got for Marie, they were frozen. Their love was warm though and grew quickly. One night, while out together, for some reason Marie got a look at Rudy’s driver’s license which revealed that he was a couple of years younger than he had told her. Taken aback, Rudy, wasting no time, blurted out, “Will you still marry me?” Fifty-four years later, you can rest assured that the answer was “Yes.” They were married at a ranch by the justice of the peace in Milford, PA on Monday, January 4, 1971. The day before Marie’s passing, she and Rudy marked fifty-four years of a love and laughter-filled journey as husband and wife. They celebrated their nuptial with an impromptu honeymoon up at beautiful Lake George in New York State which became their favorite vacation spot for nearly every summer thereafter for decades.

Marie and Rudy started married life together in Ridgefield, NJ.  They found their forever home in Wayne, NJ in 1988.

Marie gave Rudy two precious daughters, Jennifer and Laura. She loved, cared for and blessed them with a great childhood as a homemaker and mother while Rudy provided for his family. The girls shared childhood memories of family trips to Lake George and summer road trips to Michigan’s Upper Peninsula. The trips to Michigan were long but always entertaining.  Marie made sure the girls had plenty of activity books and snacks .

Once their girls reached an age of relative independence, Marie returned to work outside the home as a receptionist at AAA in Wayne where her warm, friendly disposition earned her Employee of the Month the first month she worked there. Full retirement came in 2001 and Marie set her sites on an activity she truly relished – being a sweet “Nana” caring for her grandchildren and their pets.

Marie was a prolific reader and the most excellent cook. In fact, she was passionate about cooking and even took cooking classes at home and abroad when she joined Rudy on business trips or when they vacationed at different destinations. Her family loved all her offerings but especially her pot roast, roast beef, stuffed artichokes, and the old Italian sauce on Sundays. Not only was she an excellent cook but the family delighted in her baking talents.  As Rudy says, “She put love in her cooking.” She leaves behind her kitchen -  one of her favorite rooms in the house, and her countless hand-written recipes.

She looked forward to her daily dose of General Hospital having been a loyal fan for 45  years.  She enjoyed football; any game on any day and always pizza to go with it.  She loved listening to the Oldies, Il Volo, Edith Piaf, Nana Mouskouri, Elvis and Lee Greenwood. She loved jokes.

Most of all, Marie loved her family and that love was reflected in every kind word and thoughtful gesture.

Marie blessed people in all walks of life with her sincere kindness. Wherever she went, her unintimidating conversational talents emerged. She could talk with total strangers as if they were life-long friends. Her kindness was only equaled by her generous nature.

Marie loved animals.  Once, when the family was having dinner outside together at Spiaggetta Restaurant in Stone Harbor, Marie couldn’t resist sneaking food to the seagulls flying overhead. She did this despite seeing the “Don’t Feed the Seagulls” signs and it prompted one of the cooks to come out and scold her. It was Marie’s kind and generous heart that made her risk the cook’s wrath because she felt so bad for the poor seagulls. Lincoln, the neighbor’s dog, had Marie’s number too. He’d call for her to give him a cookie over the fence and she could never resist. Chipmunks (“chippies”) were another favorite. She fed them corn whenever they visited . She just loved animals.

Marie was loving, loyal, gentle, strong, determined, silly and blessed to be a blessing through her truly generous heart. She was “Boo” to her beloved Rudy because her big, beautiful eyes lit up when surprised, and he was affectionately referred to as “Ru” (for Rudy) to her.  

Marie was the beloved and treasured wife of Rudolph “Rudy” Loria, blessed to be married for fifty-four joy-filled years. She was the most loving mother of Jennifer Marie Krazinski and husband Scott of Hewitt, and Laura Marie Sek and husband Robert of Wayne; adoring grandmother of: Parker James Sek, Hunter Stefan Sek, and Sebastian Krazinski; dearest sister of Dan DeMarco and wife Pat of Ridgefield Park, and Joseph DeMarco and wife Kristine of Bayville, NJ; and dear aunt of the late Theresa, and Donna, Joe, Danny, Michael, Sara, and Kyle. She is also survived by her “grand dogs”  Lola and Spartan, and she was predeceased by her pet calico kitty Cinnamon.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marie’s memory are asked to consider:

Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center

P.O. Box 5028

Hagerstown, MD 21741-5028

Please make check or money order payable to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Marie Loria.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Lorraine P. Stevens (née Parker) of Port Orange, FL.

Lorraine passed away peacefully in Wayne, NJ, on Thursday, January 2, 2025, while receiving the loving care of her family. She was born in Pedro Miguel, located in the Panama Canal Zone, and was the only child of Sumner and Eleanor Parker.

Lorraine’s life changed profoundly at the age of 12 when she tragically lost her father. He passed away while working as an electrician on the Panama Canal, leaving a void that deeply impacted Lorraine and her mother. Seeking a fresh start, they moved to the United States, eventually settling in Miami, FL. While there, Lorraine attended Miami Jackson High School, graduating with the class of 1960.

While living in Miami, Lorraine worked as a hostess at the Miami Beach Servicemen’s Center, where she was even named “Hostess of the Month.” The center was a lively gathering spot for servicemen stationed nearby, and it was there that Lorraine’s life took a romantic turn. She brought her friend Judy to the center, where they met two U.S. Navy servicemen from the Sonar Base in Key West: Dennis and Lloyd, their future husbands. Sparks flew between Lorraine and Dennis, and the two quickly grew close, falling in love.

In addition to her work at the servicemen’s center, Lorraine worked as a secretary to the claims manager at Conger Life Insurance Company in Miami (Allapattah).

On July 31, 1962, Lorraine and Dennis exchanged vows, beginning their journey as husband and wife. The newlyweds initially settled in Hallandale, FL. However, their joy was tempered as Dennis soon received orders to ship out aboard the USS Johnston, a Navy Fletcher-class destroyer bound for the tumultuous waters near the Bay of Pigs, Cuba. After his service, the couple reunited and briefly lived in Nebraska (where Dennis was from) before returning to Florida, where they welcomed their first child, Ken. They later moved to West Palm Beach, FL, where their daughter Denise was born. Driven by Dennis’ career training needs, the family relocated to California before eventually returning to the East Coast, settling in Clifton, NJ, where they welcomed their third child, Caren. Lorraine and Dennis later purchased their first home in Prospect Park, NJ, where they raised their children.

Throughout the years, Lorraine balanced work and family, taking on roles as a bartender, pharmacy technician, and cashier at Pathmark in Fair Lawn, NJ, later transferring to West Paterson. She dedicated over 30 years to Pathmark before retiring in 2010. Lorraine’s mornings often began with her favorite hot chocolate, always made just the way she liked it—by Dennis. She also loved spoiling her many dogs over the years, including Prissy, Tinker, Pepper, and Pebbles, who were cherished members of the family.

In retirement, Lorraine and Dennis returned to Florida, where they embraced a life of leisure and connection. Lorraine treasured evenings spent with her senior friends playing Mexican Train Dominoes, shopping for bargains, dining out, and sipping mojitos. A devoted fan of Dairy Queen, she loved treating herself to a sweet indulgence. Known for her determination and resilience, Lorraine overcame countless health challenges, including multiple cancers and tumors. She often remarked that if an elderly man with COPD could climb Mount Everest, so could she—her optimism and tenacity never wavered.

Above all, Lorraine’s greatest passion was her family. She cherished every moment spent with her children, grandchildren, and, more recently, her great-grandson, fulfilling a lifelong dream of becoming a great-grandmother. Lorraine and Dennis shared an extraordinary 62 years of marriage until his passing in March 2024.

Lorraine’s bold and outspoken personality left a lasting impression. She spoke with fiery confidence and honesty, often surprising those around her. Despite her lack of a filter, her words were always rooted in the best intentions.

Lorraine was a remarkable woman who touched the lives of everyone she met. She will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Lorraine is survived by her son, Ken Stevens, and his wife Donna of East Stroudsburg, PA; her daughters, Denise Conti and her husband Tony of Binghamton, NY, and Caren Scardilli and her husband Scott of Wayne, NJ; five grandsons, Ryan Stevens and his wife Amanda of Harrisburg, PA, Daniel Stevens of East Stroudsburg, PA, Matthew Conti of Binghamton, NY, Christopher Conti of Binghamton, NY, and Dylan Scardilli of Wayne, NJ; her only granddaughter, Taylor Scardilli of Wayne, NJ; and her first and only great-grandson, Jackson Stevens of Harrisburg, PA. She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Dennis Stevens, in March 2024.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Lorraine’s memory are encouraged to consider a donation to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Kenneth Nicholas Kuiken, 80, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 2, 2025.

Ken was the eldest of two children born to George and Jeanette (Freeling) Kuiken. He entered the world in Paterson, NJ, and spent his formative years in Fair Lawn before moving to Little Falls. He attended Eastern Christian Elementary and Junior High School before graduating from Passaic Valley Regional High School.

At the age of twenty-one, Ken was drafted into the U.S. Army, where he honorably served his country in Germany from 1965 to 1967. Following his active duty, he continued serving in the U.S. Army Reserve until 1971. Ken’s dedication to his country earned him the Good Conduct Medal, the National Defense Medal, and recognition as a rifle sharpshooter.

After completing his military service, Ken pursued higher education at the College of Emporia in Kansas. It was there, during a game of Double Deck Pinochle, that he met the love of his life, Kathryn Thompson. Their connection blossomed quickly, leading to their marriage on June 12, 1970, in Emporia. Following a honeymoon in New Orleans, the couple settled in New Jersey, living in Clifton and Little Falls before making Wayne their home in 1975. Together, they built a life centered around family and love.

Ken devoted his professional career to the Social Security Administration, where he served as a manager until retiring in 2004.

In his leisure time, Ken found joy in fishing, particularly at Glen Wild Lake in Bloomingdale, where his parents owned a home. Being on the water brought him a profound sense of peace. He was also an avid sports fan, cheering on the Yankees in baseball, the Giants and Chiefs in professional football, and the Alabama Crimson Tide in college football.

Ken and Kathryn shared a love for travel, embarking on numerous adventures together, including up to six cruises a year. St. Maarten was a particular favorite, and they also cherished family vacations in Duck, North Carolina, on the Outer Banks. These trips, often accompanied by their children and grandchildren, were a source of immense happiness and pride for Ken, who treasured his role as “Grandpa” and attended every one of his grandchildren’s milestone moments.

Ken and Kathryn shared a loving and blessed marriage for 48 years until Kathryn's passing in March 2019. After her loss, Ken sought solace in the places they had cherished together, often spending time near the ocean and in the Outer Banks. He also redefined the concept of the kitchen, favoring breakfast at the Wayne Hills Diner or the Pompton Queen Diner. Ken became a regular, sitting on a barstool seven mornings a week at these spots, which held special meaning as places he and Kathryn had enjoyed together.

Ken leaves behind a legacy of love, devotion, and cherished memories that will forever remain in the hearts of his family and friends.

Ken was predeceased by his beloved wife Kathryn (nee Thompson) in 2019, his dear son Ryan in 2002 and his sister Carol Spada. He is survived by his loving daughter Michelle Graffanino and her husband Richard of Oakland; two cherished grandchildren: Emma and Connor Graffanino of Oakland; his brother-in-law John Spada; and his two nephews and one niece: Ken Spada, George Spada and his wife Jen, and Misti Spada.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ken’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Emil Moretti, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 2, 2025, after a brief illness.

Born in New York City, Emil was raised in Hasbrouck Heights, NJ, from the age of seven. He graduated from Seton Hall Preparatory School in West Orange and later earned bachelor’s degree from Fordham University and his master’s degrees from Rutgers School of Law.

Emil enjoyed a fulfilling career as a purchasing and inventory manager at Riviera Swimwear in Clifton, retiring in 2004. His days were enriched by the camaraderie of coworkers who were both family and friends.

Emil met his beloved wife, Jean Marie (Marino), on a blind date. Their deep connection blossomed into a marriage at Sacred Heart R.C. Church in Lyndhurst on June 22, 1957. After their honeymoon in the Bahamas, the couple settled in Lyndhurst, where they lovingly raised their daughters, Robyn and Susan. They moved to Wayne in 1986 and later to the Brittany Chase community in 1992, where Emil and Jean forged cherished friendships and embraced a close-knit community. They shared a tender marriage of nearly 65 years until Jean’s passing in 2022.

Emil was a lifelong bowler whose accomplishments included numerous 300 games—a perfect score. He bowled in the Monday night league for many years and once had the chance to bowl with professional Mike Limongello. After moving to Wayne, Emil became a regular at T-Bowl, where his frequent presence earned him the nickname “The Mayor of T-Bowl.” Even when he played less often, he still visited daily to share tips and advice with other bowlers. His return after heart surgery was met with a standing ovation, showing the respect and admiration he earned from the bowling community.

An avid golfer, Emil notably shot his age 13 times between ages 75 and 85. His sharp mind found joy in Sudoku puzzles, whether in newspapers or books, and his skill with numbers was so impressive. It was like he was a human calculator. He cherished time with his grandchildren, whether drawing floor plans, practicing putting golf balls into tin cans in the living room, or playing backgammon. Emil’s enduring fondness for carbs, especially pasta and Friday night pizza, was balanced by his dedication to regular exercise, which kept him vibrant and driving as recently as November.

Known for his encyclopedic knowledge of directions, Emil was a pre-Google Maps guide, often asking, “Why are you going that way?” when riding with others. He and Jean shared joyful visits to their dear cousins Angela and Peter at their Jersey Shore home in Mantoloking, creating treasured memories.

A devout parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, Emil’s faith was central to his life, shaping him into the honorable, caring, and loving man cherished by all who knew him.

Described by family as classy, protective, fiercely loyal, and unconditionally loving, Emil’s family meant the world to him. He was a good man whose love will be deeply missed.

Rest in peace, Emil. When we hear the thunder, we’ll think of you bowling perfect games in heaven.

Emil was the beloved husband of Jean Marie (Marino) Moretti who passed away in 2022. He was the loving father of Robyn Moretti and fiancé Ron Gagliardi of Pompton Lakes, and the late Susan Fredericks; cherished grandfather of: Gina and husband Joe Amica Terra, Cara and husband Mark Dunn, and Breanna Resciniti; adoring great-grandfather of: Bianca, Roma, Luca, Donovan, and Rocco; dear brother of: the late Salvatore Moretti and the late Jerry Moretti; special cousin of Angelo Marrocco; and dear father-in-law of Al Fredericks.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Emil’s name are asked to consider:

Tunnels to Towers Foundation

2361 Hylan Boulevard

Staten Island, NY 10306

To download a printable donation form, Click Here

Stephen J. Sanchez, age 91 of Wayne, died on January 1, 2025. Born in San Antonio, Texas, raised in Massachusetts, after serving in the Navy, he earned a BA in chemistry and an MBA in marketing. He did market and purchasing research as well as bought for, among others, American Cyanamid and Verizon. “A source before google.”

Steve was an active Trustee in the Pines Lake Association, president of the Pines Lake Seniors and Commodore of the Pines Lake Sailing Club and an active racing sailor. He permanently changed the Pines Lake community by adding two homes when bringing the original metes and bounds in conformance with changed Wayne tax maps. He managed the installation of the bridge railings in 1985 and uncovered the marble Pines Lake dedication plaque. He was an active Trustee on the board of the Friends of the Kinnelon Library, a regular instructor in the Kinnelon Library’s continuous learning program and an active volunteer and participant. He started and moderated the current events discussion group at the Wayne Library, now on zoom, and belonged to various book groups.

He leaves his beloved wife, Janice Gardner, two sons, Dan and David as well as three grandchildren: Ethan, Max and Leah. His first wife, Peg, and a son, Michael, predeceased him.

Joseph J. Haddad, age 92, of Boonton, passed Tuesday, December 31, 2024.

Joseph was born in Paterson to John and Jamile Haddad.  Joe went to Central High School and participated in the photography club, rifle club and baseball team. He graduated with the Class of 1950 with hopes to become a draftsman.

When Joe was just fourteen years old, he found work as a shoeshine and golf caddy. He often told of his first true job as a soda jerk at Tomkins Ice Cream in Paterson; this began his lifelong streak of continuous earning, never going a week without employment. During high school, he also worked for his father as a weaver on a silk loom. Following high school Joe also worked as an under-presser at a ladies clothing store in Paterson.

As a young adult, Joe had great aspirations and always actively pursued them. After high school Joe completed training to become a draftsman.  From 1951 to 1957, he served in the US Navy.  During his two-year active duty tour, he sailed on the USS Lloyd Thomas.  After completing his Reserve obligation, he was Honorably discharged with the rank of MML3 (Machinist's Mate 3rd Class) on June 5, 1957. Following his naval service, Joe studied engineering at Farleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck.  He then began a career as a draftsman for the Curtis Wright Corporation and Picatinny Arsenal in Wharton. In 1969 Joe’s entrepreneurial spirit moved him into the pet industry.  For years he owned the Pet Pourri store in Willowbrook Mall in Wayne. He would go on to open six pet store locations, The Game Room store in Fairfield, and other business ventures such as ice cream parlors, Tex-Mex restaurant, children’s clothing store, optical stores, solar panels, online pet supply, and a photography kiosk.  He later established the All Creatures Great & Small Animal Hospital in Fairfield with his son Glen who now carries on the family business.  Joe stopped going into his office in 2023, at the age of 91, but he never truly retired.

Joe met the love of his life, Loretta Lopusnak, at the Mushroom Farm Dance Hall in Bergen County, where he asked Loretta for their first dance. Deeply in love and respectful of tradition, Joe asked Loretta's father for her hand in marriage, a moment filled with anticipation and reverence. On August 11, 1962, they were married in a beautiful ceremony at St. Anne’s Church in Paterson, followed by a joyous reception at The Brownstone in Paterson. Joe planned and arranged a month-long honeymoon to Europe, visiting England, Italy, Germany, France, and Switzerland.  This was the start of Joe creating memories that would last a lifetime. In 1964, Joe designed, drafted and built his forever home in Boonton Township where Joe and Loretta’s loving and devoted marriage was blessed with four children and nine grandchildren.

Joe was a devoted man whose unwavering commitment to his Christian faith touched the lives of everyone who knew him. Joe often shared about the pivotal moment that occurred in December 1971, when he committed his life to Christ. For many years, he was a long-standing and active member of Calvary Temple in Wayne, where he served as a deacon and on the board of directors. He was the chairman of the building committee when Calvary Temple expanded to Preakness Ave and played an integral role in the construction of the facility and campus. His dedication to the church extended beyond his leadership roles, as he was always ready to lend a helping hand, offer guidance, and share the love of Christ with others. Joe’s faithfulness and service were a testament to his beliefs, making him a cherished figure within the congregation and a dependable friend to many.

Joe was a man of words, never short on them, always ready with a story or an opinion, whether you asked for it or not. His voice, full of conviction, could fill any room, often sharing advice about life, faith, and family. A man who placed Christ first and his family a close second, Joe's passion for both ran deep. Joe had a love for food; he had a longstanding weekly tradition inviting friends and family to his favorite hot dog eateries for “2 no onions 2”.   For recreation he enjoyed tennis, golf, traveling and truly cherished family vacations. Traveling brought him joy, and he loved exploring new places, but nothing compared to the warmth and laughter of family gatherings, where his stories flowed freely and advice was always given with a hearty dose of humor and care. “Uncle Joe” was always recording family events on video and engaging all. He enjoyed photography, and loved any type of gadget he could get his hands on. One of Joe’s favorite family traditions was having Sunday Dinner at his mother’s home, where she would cook a traditional Lebanese dinner.

Joe is the beloved husband of sixty-two years to Loretta (Lopusnak) Haddad; devoted father of Gary and his wife Susan Haddad of Marietta, GA, Glen and his wife Jodi Haddad of Fairfield, Jill and her husband Rob Murray of Collegeville, PA, and Jane and her husband Tony Stuart of Kintnersville, PA; he is the cherished grandfather of Nickolas, Steven, Mitchell Haddad; Luke, Ruby, Lila Murray; Eden, Daphne, and Coco Stuart; he is the loved brother of Fred Haddad of Lincoln Park and Helen Cubby of Hewitt.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Samaritan’s Purse (samaritanspurse.org)

William “Bill” H. Gierisch, Jr., age 82 of Wayne, passed away on Monday, December 30, 2024.

Bill was born the eldest of three children to William Sr. and Dorothy Gierisch in Queens, NY. His early years in Queens fostered a love for the Brooklyn Dodgers – a team he would loyally follow even after their move to Los Angeles (he still referred to them as the Brooklyn Dodgers regardless of their location). During his high school years, the Gierisch family moved to New Jersey, where Bill became an active member of the Boy Scouts, developing a lifelong passion for camping and outdoor activities.

After graduation, Bill began his working life at the School of Conservation handling general maintenance before moving to WR Grace, a plastic manufacturer. However, his career path took a significant turn when he first received his draft notice and enlisted in the United States Navy. His military career started with boot camp in Michigan and led him to San Diego, where he served as a boilerman aboard the Destroyer Herbert J. Thomas for six years.

Following Bill’s service, he took advantage of his skills as a boilerman with the Navy and worked briefly for Beatty Rugs before finding his professional home at Dye Specialties. He had an unconventional career working nights and having irregular days off. He also worked hard to earn his black seal and blue seal licensures while working full-time. His work at Dye Specialties included contributing to the production of dye used in the U.S. dollar by the United States Treasury Department! He remained with the company until its closure in his 60s, at which point he embraced a well-deserved retirement.

Bill was a man content with the simple life. He enjoyed watching his favorite sports teams like the Brooklyn Dodgers and Navy football team, old country music and old westerns, and traveling to San Diego to see his friends from the Navy. Notably, Bill loved the holidays, especially Christmas. Bill loved Christmas so much he kept a Christmas tree up year-round! He will be deeply missed by his friends and family.

Kathleen Corrao, 93, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 29th, 2024.

Born in Springfield, Massachusetts, Kathleen was the second of five children to George and Mary (O’Dea) Georgeou. She spent her early childhood in Springfield before her family relocated to Paterson, New Jersey. Kathleen attended Eastside High School. Like many of her generation, Kathleen left school early to support her family, taking on various jobs before marrying the love of her life, Joseph Corrao.

Kathleen and Joseph’s love story began at a birthday party, during a game of spin the bottle. When Joe’s spin landed on Kathleen, he kissed her and declared to his friends, “I’ll be marrying that girl.” After a two-year courtship, they exchanged wedding vows on Sunday, April 27th, 1952, in a joyous ceremony surrounded by God, family and friends. Their 57 years of marriage was filled with love, laughter, and devotion until Joe’s passing in April 2009.

After their wedding, the couple settled in Passaic, later moving to Clifton and Glen Rock, where they purchased their first home. Eventually, they made Wayne their permanent residence, creating a warm and loving household that they cherished for decades.

Kathleen embraced her role as a homemaker, devoting herself to raising her two sons, Joseph Jr., and Robert. She poured all her love into her family, welcoming her boys home each day from school with a smile and memorable treats. Her son Joe fondly recalls her making Fluffernutter sandwiches with peanut butter served up with a glass of Orange Aid for him and his friends.

As her sons grew older and more independent, Kathleen returned to the workforce, finding fulfillment as a book packer for Dell Publishing in Pinebrook. Kathleen also expressed her love through cooking and baking, filling her home with the irresistible aromas of fresh chocolate chip cookies, seven-layer bars, and her beloved Italian Christmas cookies, including anisette and snowballs.

Known for her impeccable sense of style, Kathleen enjoyed shopping trips with her sister Helen. They would have their hair and nails done before venturing out to find the latest fashions. Kathleen and Joseph spent winters in Margate, Florida, where shopping was Kathleen’s preferred activity over beach outings.

Kathleen’s faith was a cornerstone of her life. A devoted parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, she attended daily Mass for many years and regularly participated in Saturday Novenas in Paterson.

Family was Kathleen’s greatest joy. Holidays were especially dear to her, as they brought her loved ones together. Her grandchildren were her pride and joy, and she created lasting memories with them through sleepovers, baking cookies, and feeding the horses carrots in her backyard. They remember her delicious chicken cutlets, served in the TV room while watching Judge Judy, Dancing with the Stars, or Wheel of Fortune. Kathleen loved taking them on adventures, whether to get their nails done or to create custom T-shirts at Wessel's Uniform Store in the Wayne Hills Mall, where she once worked part-time.

Kathleen was a gentle, soft-spoken, and fabulously loving woman who exuded kindness and grace. She leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories for all who knew her.

Kathleen was the beloved wife of Joseph, blessed in marriage for 57 years. She was the most loving mother of Joseph T. Corrao, Jr. and wife Linda of Wayne, and Robert T. Corrao and wife Mila of Pompton Lakes; cherished grandmother of: Kevin T. and wife Pamela, Lauren and husband Antonio, Joseph T., III, Stephanie, and Roma and husband Giovanni; adored great-grandmother of: Enzo, Gino, and Stella; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews. Kathleen was predeceased by her three sisters and one brother: Helen, Mary, George, and Barbara.

Kathleen’s family extends their heartfelt gratitude to her caregiver, Winsome “Winnie,” who gave her devoted love and care to Kathleen for over six years, forming a deep and precious bond.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Kathleen’s memory may be made to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959

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Michael James Craig, age 78, of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 28, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Sherry Bright (nee Ruerup), age 57, of Pequannock, NJ passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 22, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Passaic and raised in Paterson, NJ and was the daughter of Barbara Ruerup and the late Wilbur G. Ruerup, Jr.  

During the final months of her life, she resided with her beloved sister, Kimberly Geffinger Schneller, her brother-in-law, John Schneller, and her dear niece, Lauren Geffinger.  Throughout her life, she often reminisced growing up in the city of Paterson with her family.  Sherry, wife of John Bright, was a homemaker and mother of four loving children, David, Kimberly, John, and Richard.  She is also survived by her aunts; Maryanne Montione, and Georgeann Gosnell.  She was always kind and compassionate to anyone in need.  She loved cooking, and baking, and had a flair for making specialty cakes.  She was also an avid thrift store shopper.  

Robert “Bob” Marrone, age 79, of Wayne passed Saturday, December 28, 2024 at St. Joseph’s Wayne Medical Center.

Bob was born to Antonio and Assunta Marrone and graduated from Lodi High School in 1962. While attending Lodi High School he met is beloved wife Anne (Giardina) and the two married in 1968.

After high school Bob joined the Army National Guard in which he served six years. While serving he attended night classes at Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, NY where he earned his Bachelor’s Degree. After several years of working as a Construction Manager, Bob ultimately became an owner of Meridian Construction in Mahwah. He would go on to develop many well-known commercial buildings and residential developments across Northern New Jersey. Bob enjoyed his later years in the construction industry serving as an independent Construction Manager for developers, corporations and municipalities in the area. His final role in the industry was with Durite Construction which concluded in 2008.

Bob was also a talented athlete whose abilities have clearly passed on to his children and grandchildren. In high school he was on the competitive dive team and he was also a very skilled baseball player. His love of playing baseball was passed on to his daughter Jennifer and son Robert who both played in the Wayne PAL programs throughout the 1980s and early 1990s. Bob was also a coach in the PAL system, for well over a decade, for both baseball and girls basketball. In his free time, he enjoyed playing golf with his closest friends and his son. In addition to his love of sports, he also enjoyed playing cards, especially Poker, War and Pinochle.

While known to be serious at work, Bob was always the comedian at every family gathering. His antics always kept everyone entertained, you were sure to leave any get together with a new joke to tell. As entertaining as he was, his generosity was equally as impactful to those around him. If you asked for an inch he would give you a yard if he could. This generosity of course didn’t apply on the putting green or the card table.

Bob was preceded in death by his parents Antonio and Assunta; his brother Anthony; and his sister Celeste (Lovelock). He is survived by his wife of 56 years Anne; his daughter Jennifer and her husband, Sean; his son Robert and his wife, Allyson; and his grandchildren Juliana, Ryan and Colin.

The Marrone family would like to extend our gratitude to the family and friends who have helped to support us throughout Bob’s journey. We would like to specifically extend our deepest thanks to the staff at Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne who took such great care of Bob since 2018. In lieu of gifts or flowers the family suggests donations to the Preakness Hospital Auxiliary in memory of Bob. Funds will be used to help supplement the costs of entertainment and events for the residents. Checks can be mailed to Preakness Hospital Auxiliary, 305 Oldham Rd. Wayne, NJ 07470. Please be sure to mention in memoriam of Bob Marrone on the check memo.

Robert J. Micek, age 86 of Wayne, died on December 26, 2024. He had also lived in Port Charlotte, Florida and Columbus, New Jersey.

Bob had been a Wayne Township Police officer from 1967 to 1993, serving in the patrol division, and as a detective in the narcotics and antigambling squad..

Bob grew up in Wallington, NJ and graduated from Wallington High School with the class of 1957. He served in the 9th Artillery with the U.S. Army from 1957 to 1959, stationed much of that time in Schweinfurt, Germany. Upon being discharged, he came back to New Jersey and settled in Wayne. He was doing landscape work with a friend before they both decided to join the Wayne Police, and the rest is history, as they say. In 1982, he met Sheila King and their romance led to a wedding on December 23, 1983. They enjoyed thirty-two loving years together, with twenty-two of those years retired in Port Charlotte, FL. Sadly, Sheila passed in 2016, shortly after they had moved back to New Jersey, and Bob has missed her dearly ever since.

Anyone who knew Bob knew how much he loved fishing. During his lengthy retirement years in Florida, he enjoyed more days fishing than anyone could possibly count. He kept a boat in Port Charlotte, in the canal right behind his house, and would frequently fish in the Gulf of Mexico, off Florida’s west coast. His first boat was named “SAM ONE” which was a creative play on his wife Sheila’s initials. When he purchased a second boat, he named that one “SAMTU” in honor, once again, of the wife he loved so much. Any chance he got to go fishing, whether it was on his own boat, or a charter boat, or just off a pier, he loved to have a line in the water. He had other hobbies as well, though. Bob was a good bowler, and he could finish the LA Times and NY Times crossword puzzles with no difficulty at all. He also had a really dry sense of humor and could weave together a story that sounded incredibly believable, but no one was really sure if it was true or not. He also had a soft spot in his heart for animals and he always kept two cats for pets. Among his favorite kitties were Fridgett, Boots, and Sabrina. He was also a loving father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and a dear friend to so many. He will be sorely missed.

Bob is survived by his daughter, Lauren Opolin, a brother; Archpriest Basil Micek, a brother-in-law Frank Felice, Jr, four stepchildren; Niki Lanza (Tom), Lori Ellicott (Jack), Michael Petruska (Helen), and Frank Ricciardi, a granddaughter; Stacey Carney (Chris), and seven step-grandchildren, a great-grandson; Dylan Carney and eight step-grandchildren, and a large, extended family of nieces and nephews. Bob was predeceased by his wife; Sheila Micek, his parents; Joseph and Anna Micek, his sister; Mary Ann Felice, by his two sisters-in-law; Pamela Micek and Arlene Forte, and by his son-in-law; Thomas Opolin.

Linda Catherine Hoski, 69, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Christmas night, surrounded by the love and comfort of her companion, brother, and sister.

Born in Jersey City to Joseph P. Hoski and Theresa C. Hoski (Wroblewski), Linda moved with her family to Middlesex, NJ, in 1962. Her parents established Hoski Florist and Gift Shop in Middlesex, where Linda began working at a young age. A graduate of Middlesex High School, Linda remained devoted to the family business and pursued her lifelong passion as a florist.

Linda had a remarkable talent for music trivia, winning numerous radio contests in her youth. She often used her winnings to buy 45s and albums, ensuring the house was always filled with new music, much to the delight of her brother and sister. Her love of music was a guiding force in her life and influenced her many pursuits.

An adventurous spirit, Linda enjoyed skiing, hiking, and visiting the family home in the Poconos. She was a lifelong enthusiast of live music and concerts. Linda is survived by her loving companion of 13 years, Jeff Windwer. Together, they attended and worked at countless rock ‘n’ roll shows, dedicating themselves to the music community by supporting both large venues and charitable events. Beyond their love for music, Linda and Jeff found joy in hiking and searching for Native American artifacts and arrowheads.

Linda’s warmth, generosity, and radiant smile left a lasting impression on everyone she met. Whether interacting with customers at the flower shop or friends at a music venue, she made every encounter meaningful.

Linda is survived by her loving companion, Jeff Windwer of Wayne; her sister, Renee Hoski of Readington, NJ; and her brother, Marty Hoski, and his wife Laurie of Dunellen, NJ. She will be dearly missed by her nephews, Dean (wife Alyssa and son Logan), Drew (wife Jamie and their twins Catherine and Rory), and Dylan Hoski. Linda is also mourned by her cherished cat, Blackie, and countless friends who feel the loss of her presence deeply.

Linda’s light will continue to shine in the lives of those she touched. She will be forever remembered for her kindness, passion, and the joy she brought to the world.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Linda’s memory may be made to ROCKNRECOVERY Karl Cochran, a longtime friend and an initiative close to the heart of Linda. Her nephews Drew and Dylan were mentored by Karl in rock guitar and music theory. Her brother, Marty, sat in on occasion with Karl’s local band, Far Cry, as a guest keyboardist.

Antoinette Marie Violante (nee Pompeii), age 93 of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, December 25, 2024.

Toni, as she was affectionately known by many, grew up in Binghamton, New York, the ninth of eleven children born to Nicholas and Henrietta Pompeii. Her parents had emigrated from Italy, and Toni recalled stories of her father keeping an amazing garden and making his own wine, while her mother cooked and canned much of their garden’s harvest herself. Throughout the years, she cherished her relationships with her five brothers and five sisters and remained close with them. Toni was raised in the Catholic faith and carried that with her throughout her life, always trusting in God.

Antoinette was among the sweetest and kindest people you may have ever met. She was a selfless soul who found joy in making sure everyone around her was happy. She was a gracious hostess, a comforting and gentle friend, and a loving and affectionate mother and grandmother. She made sure to celebrate everyone’s birthday, make their favorite food, and made everyone feel special. She personified “love” in everything she did, and her disposition was something to admire. It’s no surprise that Toni loved sweets such as cannolis and ice cream, which may have contributed to her being so sweet herself.

Toni met her husband, Peter, in the summer of 1951. Peter was in the Army with Toni’s brother, Ralph, and Ralph brought Peter home with him to Binghamton on one occasion. The moment Peter laid eyes on Toni, he fell head over heels in love, and it was love at first sight for both of them. With her parent’s blessing, the two were married just three months later. They exchanged vows at St. Mary’s RC Church in Binghamton on November 22, 1951, and moved to New Jersey shortly thereafter. They built a home in Englewood Cliffs and lived there for thirty-five years, raising a family and enjoying their time together. Peter and Toni ran their own milk delivery business, with Toni responsible for the books. Sadly, in 1986, just five months after retiring, Peter passed away suddenly. Toni was heartbroken and moved to Wayne to be closer to her children. Family was a very natural priority for Toni, and she adored and spoiled her grandchildren.

While living in Wayne, Toni worked as the receptionist for various doctors in the area.  Her warm nature and upbeat personality made her a favorite amongst patients and doctors.  She was an active member of the Catholic community.  She attended mass daily and volunteered in various capacities at Our Lady of the Valley RC Church. She also volunteered as a Eucharistic minister at Preakness Healthcare Center and made practicing her faith part of her daily routine.  

Antoinette is survived by her three children; Paul Violante of Maryland, Linda Bleznick (Howard) of Wayne, and Peter Violante of Pennsylvania, nine grandchildren:  Paul Violante II (Stephanie), Bianca Anderson (Tyler), Stacie Principe (Nicholas), Brenton Violante, Amy Violante, Peter Violante, Emily Violante, Tod Street (Salina) and Camaron Street, six great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband Peter in 1986, her daughter-in-law Karen in 2020, and her grandson Adam Bleznick (Emmie) in June 2024.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Alzheimer's of New Jersey would be greatly appreciated.

Gerald “Jerry” Buonomo, 79, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 25, 2024.

Born and raised in Paterson, Jerry was the second child of Gerard and Asunta (Minieri) Buonomo. A true character with a spirited personality, Jerry made life anything but dull. During his time at Eastside High School, he earned a reputation for standing up for himself—perhaps too boldly, as one infamous incident of “hanging a classmate out a window by his ankles” proved. Despite this colorful episode resulting Jerry’s permanent dismissal, he earned his high school diploma and later attended Passaic County Community College.

Between high school and college, Jerry proudly served in the U.S. Army from 1965 to 1966 and in the U.S. Army Reserves for five additional years. His service to his country earned him the National Defense Service Medal, a testament to his patriotism and dedication.

Jerry spent an impressive 45 years as a U.S. Postal Service letter carrier, primarily in Wayne. His daily routes took him to the Willowbrook Mall, where he became a beloved figure among storeowners, often earning heartfelt discounts for his friendliness and consistently excellent work. One can only imagine how many steps he logged over the decades—what a number that would be with a smart watch!

Jerry’s love story with Diane Colyer is the stuff of romantic comedies. After each had experienced first marriages, fate brought them together at Lou Duva’s Club (now a CVS Pharmacy) on Union Boulevard in Totowa during a Coasters concert. Captivated by Diane, Jerry sent her a drink and a rose before serenading her with his smooth tenor voice. Their first night together included a sunrise at the Jersey Shore—an unmistakable sign of the love that would follow. When Jerry proposed to Diane while she was recovering from surgery, her delayed response was later encouraged by her pastor: “Follow your heart.” Two months later, on September 15, 1996, they exchanged vows  before God, family and friends at Packanack Community Church in Wayne and celebrated their union with a reception at the Brownstone in Paterson. Their honeymoon in New England was cut short by a Nor’easter, but their marriage was a storm-proof bond lasting 28 wonderful years.

Outside of work and family, Jerry enjoyed bowling in a Sunday league at T-Bowl in Wayne and never missed a chance to cheer for his beloved Giants, through wins and losses. A passionate NASCAR fan, he took pride whenever he wore his Dale Earnhardt autographed jacket.

Nothing, however, surpassed Jerry’s devotion to his family. After retiring, he launched “Grandpa’s Babysitting Service,” a free-of-charge enterprise dedicated to his grandchildren. He had a special bond with his grandson Brandon but poured his love equally into all his grandchildren. Whether following them on Halloween in a scary mask or indulging in their every request, Jerry was always present and never said “no.”

Known for his humor and antics, Jerry once wore a headband with his name on it to help his mother-in-law remember it and was famous for keeping family and friends laughing with his warmth and lighthearted approach to life. Forever in our hearts, Jerry’s unforgettable spirit, humor, and devotion to his loved ones will be missed but never forgotten.

Jerry was the beloved husband of Diane Colyer-Buonomo; loving father of: Courtnay Buonomo and husband Jason, Dana Salazar and husband Luis, Stacey Maimone and husband Joseph, and Trisha Colyer; and adoring grandfather of: Tyler, Brandon, Monica, Matthew, Michael, and Joey. Jerry was predeceased by his parents Gerard and Asunta (Minieri) Buonomo, and his sister Carmel Buonomo.

Because of his great love for America, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jerry’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Tunnel to Towers Foundation

2361 Hylan Boulevard

Staten Island, NY 10306

To download a printable donation form, Click Here

Wounded Warrior Project

P.O. Box 758516

Topeka, Kansas

66675-8516

To download a printable donation form, Click Here

Matthew Elia Tavaglione, 77, died on Christmas day, December 25, 2024.

Matthew was born to Anna (nee Fischetti) & Matthew Tavaglione, in Hoboken, New Jersey on November 10, 1947. He graduated from Hoboken High School and later earned a Bachelors Degree from St. Peter’s College in Jersey City.

The majority of Matty’s career was at Maxwell House Coffee in Hoboken and he started in the mailroom at age 19. Over several decades, he held various positions & worked to advance both his education & career in the fields of logistics & purchasing. When the Hoboken plant was closed, he stayed with the company & transferred to the plant in Jacksonville, Florida. He ended his career with the parent company, Kraft, in the Nabisco division and retired in 2008.

Matty was an incredibly friendly guy who never met a stranger. He was a bit mischievious, loved to crack a joke & made others laugh wherever he went. He had a passion for New York sports and Sunday dinners were always scheduled around the Giants game. He was an avid golfer & he did so as much as possible, with friends, his grandson & in a senior league.

Matty met the love of his life, Karen, when he was just 17 & she was 13. They were high school sweethearts, who went on to marry soon after she graduated. They recently celebrated their 55th wedding anniversary in November. Matty was a devoted husband and father to his daughters, Liese & Jen. There was nothing he wouldn’t do for all three of his girls and eventually for his grandchildren, Izzie & Cal too. He loved attending all their games & events in Pompton Lakes & rooting for the Cardinals.

Matthew leaves behind his beloved wife Karen (nee Federico), his daughters, Anneliese & Jennifer, his grandchildren Isabella & Calvin, his sister in law, Anne Federico, his brother in law Mark Federico (Lori), his sister in law Christina Stites (Stephen Brattoli), & many nieces & nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Matthew and Anna Tavaglione, his brother Nicholas, and his sisters Lucille Nisler (Charles) & Flora Amato (Michael).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Tunnels to Towers Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Lorraine Theresa Demkow, (nee Makl), age 91 of Pompton Plains, NJ passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 24, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was a life long resident of New Jersey born in Passaic and raised in Garfield.  She graduated with honors from Garfield High School with the Class of 1951. Lorraine continued her education at Montclair State College where she received her Bachelor's Degree in Spanish with a double minor in English and Elementary Education.

Her first teaching job was with the Paramus Board of Education. She later worked for the Wayne Board of Education as a substitute teacher and was then offered a job as a Supplemental Education Teacher which she said was her favorite job.  She later taught at the Packanack Elementary School in Wayne before retiring in 1996.

Lorraine met the love of her life, George, through mutual friends. They went on double dates, then George and Lorraine started dating regularly and Lorraine quickly realized that George was a special guy. Lorraine and George were married twice. The first time they eloped to Maryland and were married in a civil ceremony. The second time they had a a church wedding at Our Lady of Sorrows Church in Garfield. They settled into life in Garfield for 9 years and moved to Wayne where they lived for 51 years. They eventually moved to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in 2017. Lorraine and George were married for 65 years until George's passing in 2020.

Lorraine was a dedicated wife and mother who enjoyed making her house home-base for family get-togethers where she would love to cook for occasions like Christmas, birthdays, and all kinds of family affairs. As a young girl she played piano and loved to swim at the YMCA. Later on she loved to play tennis and Bridge. She also loved to ski. Lorraine particularly loved skiing with her family and especially with her grandchildren. She skied until she was 78 years old and spent many years as a member of The Ski Club of New Jersey. In her downtime she was an avid reader and enjoyed many different types of books. She also had a great love for dogs.

Lorraine is survived by her children, George Demkow Jr. of Clearwater, FL and his fiancé, Kim Gill, Cindy Bowen and her husband Alan Bowen of Mendham, NJ and Glenn Demkow of Howell, NJ, her grandchildren Kelly Clavin-Newins and her husband Kyle Newins, Michael Bowen, Andrew Demkow and Timothy Demkow. She was also the loved sister of the late Robert Makl.

It is with a bittersweet calmness that the family announces the passing of Ralph Oscar Scott, age 97, of Wayne, NJ.

Ralph was born and raised in Paterson, NJ, the only child to Oscar and Adelaide Scott.  He was a family boy of strong mind and body through those tough Depression years.  

In 1945, at the age of seventeen and a student at Paterson’s Central High School, Ralph made the courageous decision to join the U.S. Navy, where he served, trained and readied for battle, from 1945 to 1946.  To this day, the family believes that the enemy heard “Ralph Scott is in” and promptly surrendered.  

Ralph, a vigorous man of strength and dignity returned to Paterson to complete his education. He became the starting tight end with the Varsity High School Football Team.  He also loved boxing.  He earned his degree.

As it turns out, it might not all have been about earning a high school diploma.  It was at Central that Ralph met the young woman who would become the love of his life.  Ralph and Noemi Galfione exchanged vows on October 25, 1947.  

A worker, Ralph found employment quickly in the newspaper industry.  He worked as a Stereotyper.  A union man, he worked for The Wall Street Journal, The Daily News, and the New York Times.  While at the Daily News, Ralph skillfully worked his way to the corporate position of Production Manager.  Respected by both corporate types and union men, Ralph served as a Union Negotiator for the Daily News while a member of the Stereotyper’s Union.  Ralph was known to work patiently and calmly 24 hours plus to fix problems, whether it was a huge machine that broke down or the resolution of corporate/labor issues.  

Ralph’s career in the newspaper industry spanned nearly fifty-two years until his retirement, in 1999.  

Back to the newlyweds.  Ralph and Amy settled into Noemi’s parents’ house in Paterson.  There, Ralph and Noemi and family would welcome the births of Gregory, Karen, and Nina.  

Always moving forward, Ralph and Noemi built their first home, brick-by-brick, up on a beautiful hill in Totowa, NJ.  Later on during this time, alas, their son Gregory would die suddenly and tragically at the age of 18.  The family prevailed, later to welcome their fourth child, Kristen.  

The family remained in their hand-built house on the hill in Totowa for the next sixty years before Ralph and Amy moved in 2019 to a different residence, in Wayne, NJ.  

All his life, Ralph was an exceptional athlete.  He loved racket ball, squash, golf, and especially tennis.  (Not one of his three sons-in-law ever beat Ralph at racquetball.)  

Earlier, Ralph was an avid dirt bike rider.  He belonged to Cycle Alley Riders, a New Jersey Motorcycle Club.  Later, Ralph taught himself and then his entire family how to ski.  Ralph embraced challenges and the satisfaction of meeting them.  

Ralph’s greatest and growing passion in life was for his family.  These past years, nothing meant more to Ralph than spending time with his children and grandchildren and his great grandchild.  

Ralph and Noemi cherished an amazing seventy-seven years of loyal and loving marriage together.  When Noemi recently asked Ralph, “Do you know how long we’ve been married?”  Ralph answered, “Not long enough.”

Ralph touched the lives of everyone around him with his strength, love, loyalty, and life-learned wisdom.  

Ralph is survived by his wife, Noemi Scott (nee Galfione) of Wayne; three daughters Karen Boates and her husband Reid of Pittstown, NJ;  Nina Kramer and her husband Philip of Chatham, NJ;  Kristen Pisa and her husband Joseph of Franklin Lakes, NJ;  his five grandchildren Joseph Boates, Alexander Boates, Jonathan Kramer, Jessica Kramer, and Gracyn Pisa;  his great grandchild Michael Boates.  Ralph was predeceased by his son Gregory Scott in 1966.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Ralph’s name are asked to consider The Salvation Army  or Oasis 59 Mill St., Paterson, NJ 07501

Barbara Bukowski, age 85, passed away surrounded by her loving family on Monday, December 23, 2024.

Born and raised in Jersey City as an only child to Dominick and Florence Rendenna, Barbara discovered her artistic passion during her high school years. She explored various mediums such as pencil drawings and acrylic painting, but she ultimately found her favorite medium to be oil painting. She loved to express her art through her oil paintings of scenic landscapes, capturing the beauty of the world around her.

As a young woman in the late 1950s and early 1960s, Barbara embarked on an exploration across Europe, traveling solo at a time when few women did so. Her travels across the continent came at a time when the Cold War was at its peak. As a result, she has many incredible stories she enjoyed sharing of her adventures. One included a memorable train ride through the Swiss Alps alongside a company of soldiers in full uniform.

Life blessed Barbara with her beloved son John Bukowski. She raised John as a single mother while she forged her career path working full time as an executive secretary. She worked for several companies before finding her professional home at Bayer Pharmaceuticals. Despite the challenges of single parenthood, Barbara created countless memories with John. They took summer adventures along the Jersey Shore to the boardwalks of Keansburg and Seaside Heights, enjoying the salty sea air and amusement park rides the Jersey Shore was famous for.

Throughout her life, Barbara maintained her passion for art. She found the simple pleasure of painting to be one of life’s greatest joys. Her ability to see and express the beauty of the world she loved to explore through her art will be enjoyed by her family for years to come. Her life was characterized by her resilience, creativity, and dedication to her family. She will be deeply missed by all who were blessed to get to know her.

Barbara is survived by her son John Bukowski and his wife Linda Bukowski, and her grandkids Jon Bukowski and Jenna Bukowski.

Ray passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on December 21, 2024.

Ray was born to Nancy (Callegari) and Raymond Wright in 1960. He was born and raised in Woodland Park. He graduated from Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls in 1978 where he was a member of the baseball team and lettered all 4 years as a pitcher. He then went on and graduated with a BA in Business and Economics from William Paterson University, that lead him into his career for over 41 years in beverage distribution.

While in college, Ray worked for Pepsi-Cola and after graduating started his long career with Coca-Cola as a route supervisor. It didn't take long for Ray to figure out that he was not an office guy, and he made the decision to become an owner-operator for over 35 years with Coca-Cola, Canada Dry, Snapple, and most recently Arizona under the name JJC distributors after his 3 daughters, his greatest pride and joy.

Ray married Cindy (Zuaro) in 1987. Together they raised 3 beautiful daughters Jaimie, Jenna, and Casey. Ray had many accomplishments over the years but always referred to the girls as his best accomplishment in life. After his divorce from Cindy, they remained good friends and continued to support and love the girls in every part of their lives. On top of being an amazing father, he was a fantastic uncle to his nieces Chloe and Samantha, nephew and godson Alex, and nephews Michael, and Nicholas.

Ray spent the last 17 years with his partner Jennifer and their cats (Sam, Callen, Maddie, Spook, and Nando). Whether down in Long Beach Island, the Florida Keys, or Aruba, the water was Ray's happy place where him and Jenn made friends and countless memories along the way.  

There was no one Ray was closer to than his brother Bill. They would share stories of all their adventures together from childhood to the present. Whether stopping to have a beer with Mom and Dad, out on the water or a round of golf, they would be in the woods of NY State where Ray said time didn't matter.

Ray is survived by his parents, Nancy (Callegari) and Raymond Wright, his daughters, Jaimie, Jenna, and Casey, their mother, Cindy (Zuaro) Wright, his brother Bill and sister-in-law Kristi (Latrecchia) Wright, nephew, and niece Alex and Chloe Wright, his partner Jennifer Baird, and many loving cousins and close friends who Ray would refer to as family.

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In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to American Cancer Society Skin Cancer Research https://donate.cancer.org

Emil Peter Lobosco, adored husband, son, father, brother, grandfather, uncle, and friend passed on Friday, December 20, 2024. By the age of 58, Emil lived such a vibrant life full of love and generosity. This was evident by the roar of laughter, music, and booming conversation radiating from his home, affectionately referred to as Club Lobosco, in Pompton Lakes on any given Sunday after mass.

Emil was born to Josephine and Peter Lobosco, who raised him on a foundation of faith and family that Emil embodied every day. He lived these simple values with resolute integrity and co-constructed a legacy of them with his wife, Lisa.

To know Emil was to experience joy – always with a Dean Martin or country song being belted out in his backyard as he mowed the lawn or getting a spontaneous visit with his big smile just because he was thinking of you. He loved life and never missed an opportunity to share his love with those around him. To some, it looked like his reliability, knowing that Emil would always lend his time, talents and wisdom whenever someone called him up. To others, it looked like a morning walk, hand in hand, where he’d share deeply from his heart. And to others, it was simply sharing his happy place with him, feeling the sun on his face by the ocean in his beach chair on the sand. Any way Emil expressed his love, everyone felt how genuine and sincere their bond was with him.

An avid athlete and competitor to his core, Emil had an incredible passion for sport – excelling in football and basketball his entire life, supporting his family on the sidelines of any sport they played, and willingly enduring the emotional rollercoaster of being a lifelong New York Jets fan. Whether at a massive tailgate welcoming everyone to his tent or sitting around a card table with his closest buddies, Emil found community and brotherhood in these spaces.

Emil met the love of his life, Lisa, in high school at Passaic County Technical High School. Building from this high school friendship, the two began their journey as a couple just after graduation when they went on their first movie date to see Purple Rain. Emil and Lisa were blessed with 40 years together, and as Emil would jokingly say, without ever having a fight. While they enjoyed so many exciting experiences like traveling across Europe, their love was in the quiet, steady rhythm of life that flowed through the regular days. It was in their morning coffees, the revolving door of family and friends buzzing through their home, tearing up a dance floor whenever given the chance, and hosting family gatherings and traditions. There was never a day Emil and Lisa did not know their unforgettable love for one another.

From that love grew a tremendous legacy of family. Emil and Lisa have 4 daughters, Samara and her husband Jordan Avanzato, Sydney and her partner Francesca Piccone, Alexa and her husband Richard Grofsick, and Danika. Emil was beyond proud of his daughters and supported all the journeys to happiness his girls explored. His Sammy Girl, Sydney Bear, Half Pint, and Doodlebop will always remember that Emil “loved them most.” It was Emil’s greatest joy and honor to be a grandfather to Jace Avanzato, Troy Avanzato and Nolan Grofsick. Poppop filled his grandsons’ lives with endless laughter and memories that will always be cherished. Emil is also survived by his Mother, Josephine Lobosco, sister, Marilyn Colella, brother, Peter Lobosco, and sister Lorianne McGrory and her husband George McGrory. Emil will be held closely in each of their hearts.

Emil was devoutly generous – volunteering with Our Lady of Consolation’s community service efforts by spending every Wednesday morning volunteering at soup kitchens and building homes with to those in need with other parishioners. To honor Emil’s legacy of giving, memorial donations to Our Lady of Consolation would be greatly appreciated in place of flowers to continue these efforts.

With deep sorrow, we announce the unexpected passing of Jodie M. Powell, age 40, of Wayne, on Thursday, December 19, 2024. Jodie spent most of her life in Wayne, with a few years in Philadelphia.

Jodie graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 2002, where she shined as a field hockey player and a proud member of the National Honor Society. Her high school friendships were lifelong treasures, and she remained close with many of her classmates through the years. She went on to earn a bachelor’s degree from Montclair State University and later a master’s degree from The New School in New York City.

Jodie was an adventurous traveler, studied abroad in London and enjoyed extended visits to Brazil and Chile, where she embraced new cultures and experiences. While pursuing her education, she took an interest in unions. Jodie found immense joy in helping others and carried that passion into her career as a union representative with the American Federation of Teachers in the Philadelphia area. Her work with AFT brought her purpose and pride, and she always spoke fondly of those she served. Although health challenges and life led her to leave that role, Jodie faced her illness with a bright attitude, inspiring everyone around her with her resilience. Through these difficult times, she formed lasting adult friendships that became a source of strength and joy in her life. She also had beautiful friendships with her two cousins, Tom and Jess.

Jodie was a vibrant soul with a deep love for books, music, food, and her furry companions. She was an avid concertgoer, often seeing her favorite bands like The Red Hot Chili Peppers (her all-time favorite), The Bouncing Souls, The Offspring, and many others. Her love of music was deeply influenced by her brother Matthew, with whom she attended countless concerts over the years, creating cherished memories that fueled her passion for live performances. Some of her happiest teenage moments were sneaking into shows with her older sister, Jaye, creating unforgettable memories. Jodie was also a talented cook and baker, always eager to share her culinary creations. By her own admission, she was becoming a “cat lady,” doting on her beloved cats, Church, Kitty, and Roxy. Though she has now reunited with Church and Kitty, her treasured cat Roxy remains lovingly cared for by her mother.

Jodie’s warmth, kindness, and spirited nature will be deeply missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her devoted mother; Darcy Powell of Wayne, her two siblings; Jaye Barbanti (Amie) and Matthew Powell (Jess), her loving boyfriend; Michael Riter, her four loving aunts; Cheryl Monaco (Eric), Faith Moskal (Ted), Carol Newman (Steve) and Bobbi Kolment (Ron), as well as many cousins, extended family members, and dear friends. She was predeceased by her grandmother, her Uncle George, and cousin Nicole.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that you consider making a donation to your local animal shelter, or to the Cooper Foundation at Cooper University Hospital, where Jodie underwent her surgeries. Your generosity will honor her love for animals and her resilience during her health journey.

Wolfgang Crone, age 81, of Denver, North Carolina passed away peacefully Wednesday, December 18, 2024 in Charlotte, North Carolina.  

Wolfgang was born to Hans and Irmgard (née Huesker) Crone on April 19, 1943 in Munster, Germany.   Wolfgang served in the German army with NATO forces before attending university. He graduated from the University of Reutlingen in Germany with degrees in Chemical and Industrial Engineering.    His work as a textile consultant took him all over the world.    He lived in Germany, Belgium, South Africa, and France before moving to the United States and becoming a naturalized U.S. Citizen in 2015.

Wolfgang met his wife Jeanie of 24 years while working on a consulting project together in Belgium and Germany.   They lived 10 years together in France before moving to the U.S. in 2009.

Wolfgang was a lifelong Mason.    At the time of his death, he was a member of a Masonic Lodge in Germany and the Scottish Rite of Tulsa, Oklahoma.   Masonry was his passion, rising to the highest ranks of the order.

Survivors include his wife Jeanie (née Muzik), his brother-in-law Douglas Muzik of Salem, South Carolina, a sister, Helga Dragert and his nephews Christian Dragert and Jorg Dragert, all of Germany, and many Huesker cousins.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the

National Canine Cancer Foundation

13835 N Tatum BLVD

Suite 9-448

Phoenix, AZ 85032

Norma Joan Kath Babjak, age 92, of Pompton Plains, previously of Pines Lake in Wayne, N.J. passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 18, 2024.

Norma was born to Francis and Harriet Kath on July 12, 1932 in Perth Amboy, New Jersey. Her parents and younger sister Marcia, lived in Woodbridge, N.J. for many years, eventually settling in Westfield, N.J. when Norma was in the 10th grade. They lived in a beautiful house with a large yard, a giant willow tree and a beautiful fragrant rose garden planted by her father. She graduated from Westfield High School in 1950 and first attended Montclair College and then attended William Paterson College (now University).

Norma’s childhood life was very good and full of many adventures near and far as her parents liked to travel around the United States. Her parents moved to Woodbridge, N.J. where they owned a grocery store, which they eventually sold. Norma’s family then moved to Westfield. Her father went to work for S&W Foods and her mother went to work as the secretary to the mayor of Westfield. In Westfield, Norma and her friends like to swim in the Tuscan Farms swimming hole and sleigh ride there in the winter. Her sister said she also liked to help the boy next door do his math homework through their open windows. She told her parents it was strictly platonic. Her parents took her and her sister to many beaches, mountains and to Niagara Falls. They also went on long train rides across the United States to Pasadena, California to visit her father’s brothers. Norma really did not enjoy the train trips as it made her “train sick”. Another time they took Norma and her sister to see the Grand Canyon but getting there proved difficult as they had to take a bus from the train station when a blizzard struck. The bus could not follow the road and ended up driving through a snow-covered field filled with cows. When the bus got stuck the driver told the passengers to get off and carry their luggage, following the bus tire tracks, until they found a road.

Norma met her beloved husband Walter Babjak on a blind date set up by mutual friends. On that first night out together, a nervous Norma spilled her drink on Walter. Despite the mishap, they fortunately continued to date and eventually married on December 6, 1952 at the Westfield Presbyterian Church. Norma’s parents were married twenty-five years earlier on this same date.

While Norma started out as a basic cook, like most of us, she worked diligently to expand her variety and gained excellent skills in the kitchen. One of her biggest challenges was to adjust to the cultural food differences between her and Walter. He loved Ukrainian food such as liver, chicken gizzards and perogy, while she ate Swiss/German food such as yogurt, cottage cheese, fresh vegetables, fish oil and sardines. Fortunately, especially for their children, they both loved fresh fruit.

Norma’s specialties were soups such as clam chowder and fancy wonderful deserts. She also made delicious lasagna (especially the spaghetti sauce), fancy appetizers, and a large variety of delicious cookies every holiday season.

After the wedding, Walter’s job transferred him to Utica, New York, where their first child Kathie was born in 1954, before moving back to New Jersey. Norma and Walter decided to take a risk, be adventurous and move to the country rather than remain in the city life of central N.J. In 1956, they had the foresight to purchase their first home in Pines Lake in Wayne, N.J., in a beautiful log cabin resort lake community, where their second child Kevin and third child Tim were born in 1956 and 1964 respectively.

After her first 2 children were born Norma went back to William Patterson College to finish her undergraduate degree and eventually went on to complete her master’s degree in education. No small feat when you have 3 children. During this time, they also moved across the lake to a larger home for their growing family. Norma worked for the Oakland school system for 25 years. She was a much-loved and very hard-working elementary school teacher who taught in a regular classroom for many years and eventually became the schools math specialist teacher, before retiring.

After raising their children and finishing her teaching career, Norma moved to the Stoneybrook section of Sarasota, Florida in 1998 with Walter. Norma loved living in Florida. She also followed in the footsteps of her parents who also moved to Florida after they retired. Norma loved meeting new people and volunteering to help others. She volunteered at Shelby Botanical Gardens, Women’s Exchange, and tutored non-English speaking children at their Church. She loved doing water aerobics and going to the beach at Sarasota. They remained in Florida for the next fifteen years before moving back to New Jersey and settling at the Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, where they joined many old friends from Pines Lake.

Norma and Walter had a very active social life and many friends. They enjoyed time with many families with young children like themselves. Walter and Norma’s children will also always look back and remember the social gatherings at their house. There were many parties, Bridge games/groups throughout her life, tennis games, swimming, boating, ice skating, and so much more. For the 4th of July parades, Norma made the costumes for her children, while Walter built the parade floats. Norma was also an active member of the Pines Lake Garden Club. It was really a wonderful place to live and grow a family. Norma loved being busy, keeping active and playing games. The family had so much fun playing games together both cards, board games and tennis, among others.

When her children were young, Norma and Walter took the family on wonderful camping vacation adventures with other families and friends. They went down to the Jersey shore camping in Cape May, Stone Harbor, Sea Isle City, as well as up north to East Orleans and Wellfleet in Cape Cod Massachusetts and on down to Washington, DC, camping by the side of the Potomac River. Norma and Walter also loved to go antiquing especially at the Jersey shore, much to the dismay of her children who did not like waiting in the car and wished they were at the beach (but who now appreciate the antiques). They also loved to take their children to craft shows up and down the east coast. Later in life Norma and Walter traveled to Europe and to the Panama Canal.

Besides cooking Norma loved to sew, quilt, knit, crochet make crafts and garden. She perfected everything she taught herself. When Walter started doing craft shows up and down the east coast from Massachusetts to Virginia to sell his hand carved decoys, Norma decided she needed to also sell something she made. So, she learned to quilt and then sold the beautiful detailed handmade quilted blankets and pillows that she made, as well as stuffed toys. She also sewed many wonderful pieces of clothing for her children. Norma loved all the antiques Walter restored and the furniture that he built, and which she displayed proudly throughout their house. Norma also developed a love and appreciation for local artists and their artwork. The first artist she loved was Ruth Nielssen from Pines Lake. Later in life she collected paintings by local Sarasota artists and Cape Cod artists, displaying their beautiful watercolor paintings in her home.

Norma loved being with her family, going with us to visit her parents and Walters parents, every other weekend, for wonderful family gatherings and dinners. When we went to Norma’s parent’s house, the family had picnics on a blanket under the weeping willow tree and also played croquet. There were many fun times. When the blessings of grandchildren came into their lives, Walter and Norma looked forward to their visits at their home in Florida and she helped care for her grandchildren when needed. Norma and Walter were very active members of the St. Michaels Church in Wayne for more than 16 years, where Norma taught Sunday School. They also attended Preakness Reformed Church for over 20 years, and when they moved to Florida, they were members of and regularly attended and served at the Church of the Palms.

Norma was the beloved wife of Walter; loving mother of 3 children: Kathie Babjak Genge of Fairfax, VA (husband George Genge, daughter Nicole McConnell, her husband Ian Mc Connell and children Charlotte, Coleman and Caroline) of Fairfax, VA and son Jason (and his daughter Freya) of Fairfax, VA; Kevin Babjak of Topeka, KS (and his son Sean, Sean’s wife Heather and their children Connor, Cooper and Collin) of Wichita Kansas, and Tim Babjak (wife Dena, and their children Austin and Ashley) of Wayne; Norma, was the dear sister of Marcia Prevost of Hobe Sound, FL and dear Aunt of Bruce, Mark, Gary and Danny Prevost. Norma dearly loved her husband, sister, children, grandchildren and great grandchildren;

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Norma’s name are asked to consider a gift to the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America , American Heart Association and  American Cancer Society.

Barbara J. Nolan, age 92, of Lincoln Park passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 18, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Paterson and raised in Hawthorne, NJ. Barbara graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1950.

Her first job was working at Kresge’s in Paterson where she was hired as a cashier during the holidays. Soon after high school Barbara entered Nursing School at the Englewood Hospital’s Nursing program. In 1953 she worked at that hospital’s newborn nursery, then at a pediatrician practice in Englewood, and later a newborn nursery at Valley Hospital in Ridgewood. Barbara went on to have three children, James, Thomas, and Nancy, and made a career choice to care for her own family. When her youngest, Nancy, was about thirteen years old Barbara got tired of watching soap operas and began working as a substitute school nurse with the Wayne Board of Education. She found school nursing very rewarding and became a part-time nurse for Wayne Valley High School. Soon she transitioned to full-time school nurse at George Washington Middle School in Wayne. After twenty years there she retired in 1996.

Barbara sang swing era music with the Roy Meyer Swingers, a modern harmony choral group based in Oakland. This was a big part of her life for about 40 years and blessed her with many friends. She also enjoyed dancing with the Best Foot Forward Dance Troupe who would tap dance for veteran groups, seniors, and at area nursing homes. Her life partner for 24 years, Charlie Nunzio, asked her to join the troupe. Already into ballroom dance, she wanted to learn tap dancing since she was a little girl. Charlie would prove to be a worthy ballroom dance partner and a much-loved companion.

Barbara was an active parishioner of Saint Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes. She volunteered at the church’s Food Pantry, knit for the Shawl Ministry, and was active with the Christian care-giving Stephen Ministry of the church. Barbara also applied her listening and nursing skills by volunteering with a hospice program. In her spare time, she took a flower arranging course at a community college and enjoyed working with and arranging plants and flowers. One of her greatest joys was food, and Barbara was a fabulous cook and even better baker. Her special touch on Kilkenny Corned Beef, raspberry bars, and all types of desserts will be greatly missed. She also ministered with her baking, bringing her kitchen creations to church functions and the hospice patients she visited.

Barbara is survived by her two sons; Thomas Nolan and his wife Stacey of Wayne, NJ, and James Nolan of Boca Raton, FL, one daughter Nancy Nolan of Pompton Lakes, NJ, three grandchildren; Ceara Nolan of Wayne, NJ, Shayla Nolan of Wayne, NJ, and Haley Nolan of Ft Lauderdale, FL, one niece Susan Gilpin, and one nephew Robert Gilpin. She was predeceased by her brother Robert Gilpin, and her parents Francis and Edith Gilpin.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to donate in Barbara’s name are asked to consider St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes

Martin Dekker, Jr., age 87, of Fairfield, NJ, died peacefully at home on Wednesday, December 18, 2024. He was in the comforting presence of his loving family at the time of his passing.

Martin was born in Paterson, NJ and grew up in Clifton, graduating from Clifton High School in 1955.

Martin was predeceased by his loving parents, Martin and Catherine (Hoogmoed) Dekker, his stepmother Nellie Hook and his two dear sisters: Mrs. Nellie Baum and Mrs. Johanna Vander Weile.

Martin served his country in the U.S. Army from 1957 to 1959. He was employed in the savings and loan business as a mortgage executive for many years. More recently he was actively engaged in the courier business until retiring in 2015.

Martin was a life-long member of the Netherlands Reformed Congregation in Clifton where he served on the consistory for 32 years, taught Bible Class for 52 years and also served as a catechism teacher.

Martin was the beloved husband of Carol (Post) Dekker, blessed by God in marriage for 63 years. He was the loving father of Edward M. Dekker and his wife Terri, and Caryn R. and husband Richard Van Sweden, and he was the cherished grandfather of Jessica Van Sweden, Kyle Van Sweden, Ryan E. Dekker, and Abigail L. Dekker.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Martins’ name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Netherlands Reformed Christian School

164 Jacksonville Road

Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

Operation Kindness, NJ

23 Quaker Church Road

Andover, NJ 07821

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Martin Dekker, Jr.

Eugene “Gene” Ingrassia, age 88 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Tuesday, December 17, 2024.

Born in Newark, NJ on October 23, 1936, to the late Anthony and Mary (nee LaVecchia) Ingrassia, Gene was raised in Irvington, NJ. He graduated from Irvington High School with the class of 1954 and attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, graduating with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1958. In 1963, after attending evening classes at the Newark College of Engineering (now NJIT), he received a Masters of Science Degree in Electrical Engineering and obtained his Professional Engineering License in NJ. In 1978, after attending the weekend program at Fairleigh Dickenson University in Rutherford, he received his Masters Degree in Business Administration.

Gene started his career at Kearfott in Clifton and Little Falls, NJ, where he met the love of his life, Patricia Grale. They married on June 7, 1964, and moved to Wayne, NJ, living there for over fifty years at four different locations. Their son, Jeffrey, was born in 1966 and daughter, Christie, in 1969, both in Wayne. Gene and Pat celebrated sixty years of marriage together this past June.

Gene and Pat had made a decision early in their marriage to place family ties first. This greatly influenced his work life in that despite many opportunities, they never relocated outside of New Jersey.

Besides Kearfott, he held positions of ever-increasing responsibility at Litton Industries/Monroe/Litton Business Systems in Orange and Pine Brook, NJ; Pyrotronics, Div. of Borg-Warner in Cedar Knolls, NJ; and at Cerberus/Siemens Building Technologies in Florham Park, NJ, retiring in 2001. These companies were involved in manufacturing products in a wide variety of markets, including guidance systems for aircraft and missiles, computer accounting systems, and fire protection systems for hi-rise buildings. He was promoted from Project Engineer to Project Manager to Director of Engineering to Vice President of Product Development, all in various high technology operations, but remained in New Jersey, living in only two towns his entire life; Irvington and Wayne. Gene never lived more than thirty miles from where he was born.

Gene enjoyed regular exercise, including long walks and working out at the Wayne WMCA, where he was a member since 1980. He also served for many years as a member of the Wayne Planning Board and Wayne Environmental Committee. For over ten years, he was a Board member of his townhouse community; Manitou Homeowners Association, and six years as the President.

Besides being the loving husband to Patricia, he was a devoted father to Jeffrey Ingrassia and his wife Regina of Red Bank, NJ and Christie Vanaria and her husband Matthew of Pompton Plains, NJ.  He was a cherished grandfather to Sierra Schwartz – Benedetto and her husband James, Michelle Vanaria, John Vanaria and step grandchildren Elizabeth Barham, Robert Barham and his wife Caitlyn. He was also a loving uncle to 7 nieces and nephews. He predeceased by his brothers; Archie and Anthony Ingrassia, his sister Frances Iezzi, and his nephew Christopher Noble Ingrassia.  

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to make a donation to your favorite charity.

John R. Redinger

September 21, 1962 – December 16, 2024

John R. Redinger, a beloved husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend to many, passed away on December 16, 2024. Born on September 21, 1962, he was the son of the late Dorothy and Ruel Redinger of Avon Lake, Ohio.  He was preceded in death by his sister, Lynne Harmon, and his father-in-law, Roger Swajger.

John graduated from Avon Lake High School in 1981, where he played football. He earned his Bachelor of Science in Business from Ohio University and was a proud member of Beta Theta Pi fraternity. After graduation, John began his career with DialAmerica’s management program, which took him to Greenville, South Carolina, and Northern New Jersey, where he met his wife, Nancy (née Swajger). Together, they built a life in Ramsey, NJ, raising their two sons, Jack and Colin.

A successful businessman, John rose to the position of Chief Marketing Officer at DialAmerica and later served as Chief Revenue Officer for another company. Known for his outgoing nature, quick wit, and sharp sense of humor, John had a gift for making people feel at ease. He surrounded himself with an eclectic group of friends, each drawn to his warmth and engaging personality.

John loved connecting with people, often forming his strongest relationships on the golf course. For him, golf was less about the score and more about the conversations, stories, and camaraderie it inspired. His ability to listen, ask thoughtful questions, and tell captivating stories made him truly one of a kind.

John was incredibly generous, often going out of his way to offer guidance and support to family and friends. As a father, he was deeply devoted to his sons, Jack and Colin, instilling in them his values, endless drive, and love.

John lived life to the fullest, though it was far too short. He had a passion for good food, fine wine, golf, and rock and roll—especially the Rolling Stones. Above all, John cherished his family, who were the center of his world.

He is survived by his wife Nancy, sons Jack and Colin, mother-in-law Alice Swajger, siblings Christopher and Tammy Redinger, Nancy Geagea, Mark and Sharon Swajger, Keith and Judy Swajger, Glenn and Jennifer Swajger, and many beloved nieces and nephews, including Emeline, Elias, Mary, Anthony, Bradley, Amanda, Leanne, Kate, Julia, Erin, Ben, Matt, Alex, Gabriel, and Ryleigh.

John’s memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. He will be deeply missed.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Suzanna Buriani-DeSantis, a beloved resident of Wayne, NJ. Suzanna was born on August 7, 1946, and left us with cherished memories and a legacy of compassion and dedication. She was the beloved daughter of Arnold and Anna Burian.

Suzanna dedicated her career to serving the community, most notably as the County Representative for the State of New Jersey Division of Pensions and Benefits. Her passion for social work and her commitment to helping others were evident in her many years of service at the Passaic County Board of Social Services, where she tirelessly worked to assist individuals in accessing social programs provided by the city and state.

A devout Catholic, Suzanna found solace and strength in attending services at Our Lady of Consolation Church. Her faith was a guiding force throughout her life.

Suzanna had a deep love for rescue dogs and always had one by her side. She cherished the companionship and unconditional love they brought to her life.

Suzanna was married to Edmond Angelo DeSantis for many years, who passed away in 2012. Their union was a source of joy and strength for her.

Outside of her professional achievements, Suzanna found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved spending time in the green mountains of Vermont and the warm, sandy beaches of St. Croix. Seaside Heights was another favorite destination, where she enjoyed the oceanfront and the beauty of the shore.

Even after her retirement, Suzanna remained passionate about teaching and learning. She continued to attend conferences and maintain her credentials, demonstrating her lifelong commitment to education and personal growth. Suzanna was always fiercely competitive, constantly pushing herself to do more and achieve greater heights.

Suzanna is survived by her brother, Arnold Burian, who mourns her loss and celebrates the remarkable life she led.

Her compassion, dedication, and love for others will be remembered by all who knew her. Suzanna's legacy of service and kindness will continue to inspire us.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a local animal shelter.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gary Miller, age 67, of West Milford, NJ.  Gary passed away peacefully on Friday, December 13, 2024, while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gary was born in Paterson, NJ and grew up in West Milford.  He was one of eight children to Russell and Mary Miller.  Gary attended West Milford High School where he graduated with the class of 1975.  Following his high school graduation, Gary decided to take a different path than most of his peers. Instead of pursuing a traditional job or further education, he ventured into self-employment, starting his own cleaning business. With determination and a strong work ethic, Gary began offering cleaning services to local banks in his community.

Several years later, Gary received an opportunity to become a welder.  He worked for a few different companies including Titanium Industries located in the Northern New Jersey area.  While employed there as a skilled welder, Gary worked on a project that played a crucial role in a collaborative project with NASA, contributing his expertise to the precision manufacturing of components for space exploration.

Although Gary remained a skilled welder the rest of his life, he left his welding position behind and became a Union Mechanic working for Mid-Atlantic Forklift in Edison, NJ.  Gary’s career with Mid-Atlantic Forklift spanned a period of more than twenty years until his retirement on October 28, 2001.  Although retiring at an early age, Gary took on countless odd jobs for the rest of his life.

While living in West Milford, Gary welcomed the births of his two sons, Brian, and David.  Gary enjoyed taking his sons fishing, watching Nascar, Indy racing, and professional football.  His greatest passion, however, was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gary than spending time with his children and grandchildren.  Gary was not only devoted to his children, but also to his Catholic Faith.  He was a parishioner of St Joseph Roman Catholic Church in West Milford for many years. In 2015, tragedy struck Gary’s life when his son David passed away suddenly and unexpectedly.  

Gary was a kind-hearted man who was always able to “see the good in people.”  He was truly trusting of people, some would say almost to a fault.  Gary touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Gary is survived by his son Brian Miller and his wife Valerie of Scotch Plains, NJ, five grandchildren; Zoey Miller of Scotch Plains, NJ, Aurora Miller of Scotch Plains, NJ, Tyler Miller of West Milford, NJ, Jacob Miller of West Milford, NJ, and Adam Miller of West Milford, NJ, five brothers; Russell Miller and his wife Jackie of South Carolina, Bob Miller of South Carolina, Jim Miller of South Carolina, Mark Miller of Virginia, and Richard Miller of West Milford, NJ, two sisters; Chris Majcen and her husband Gus of Virginia, and Nancy Lowe and her husband Gene of Wayne, NJ.  He is also survived by his mother Mary Miller of Wayne, NJ.  Gary was predeceased by his son David in 2015.

Dorothy (Dot) Elsie Powley, 87, of The Villages, FL, passed away peacefully at home on December 11, 2024, surrounded by her family.  She was born on November 16, 1937, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to Joseph and Gertrude A. (Schuster) Schultheis.  She married Dr. Kenneth A. Powley in 1959, with whom she shared an incredible 65 years and raised two sons.

Dot graduated from Temple University in 1957 with a Certificate in Dental Hygiene Education. She worked in several dental offices before helping her husband, Ken, set up his dental practice in their home at Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey.  While her focus was a stay-at-home mom, she filled in at the dental practice when needed.  

Dot was amazing at crafts, especially flower arranging.  She was a gifted painter and wreath maker as well.  She always made it look so easy!  Dot was very active in clubs at Packanack Lake, including the Welcome Wagon, Hospital Auxiliary, and the Garden Club.  After spending many winters in The Villages, Ken and Dot made The Villages their permanent home in 2016.  They thoroughly enjoyed their time in Florida by joining clubs, attending concerts, dining out, playing golf, and getting together with their many good friends.

Dot is survived by her brother, Edward W. Schultheis of Fort Walton Beach, FL; her son John Powley and wife Melanie of Frisco, TX; her daughter-in-law Ellen Powley of Wayne, NJ; and six grandchildren: Mary, Ken, Troy (and wife Courtney), Sharon, Nathan, and Jennifer.  She was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. Kenneth A. Powley, her brother Franz Schultheis, and her son Kenneth A. Powley, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Dot to Packanack Community Church, 120 Lake Drive East, Wayne, NJ 07470 or to the United Church of Christ at The Villages, P.O. Box 194, Oxford, FL 34484.

Jerry Di Santo, age 77, of Hewitt, passed Tuesday, December 10, 2024, with the comfort of family by his side.

Jerry was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. He attended Central High School and worked locally in maintenance and management services for many years, most recently maintaining plants at a local nursery. Jerry spent most of his adult life at his home in Hewitt, where he moved 35 years ago with his then wife Debbie Smith.

Jerry served in the United States Air Force as a sergeant, having toured overseas in Japan during The Vietnam War. Jerry was a true patriot and always took tremendous pride in his time serving in The Air Force.

Jerry was known for his sense of humor and quick wit, often a source of laughter for his friends and family. He lived a peaceful lifestyle, enjoying the nature surrounding him at home in his backyard and taking advantage of his proximity to Wawayanda State Park, often walking his dogs through the trails. Jerry was a devout animal lover, always attentive and kindhearted towards his numerous dogs and birds.

Jerry was predeceased by his wife Debbie, who passed in 2018, his brother-in-law Peter Geanoules and his parents Bertha Shupin and Nicholas Di Santo. Jerry was a devoted brother to Paul Di Santo and Joann Geanoules, as well as a cherished brother-in-law to Sandy Di Santo. He was a beloved Uncle to his nieces Nicole Iacolina-Alta and Angela Cleveland, and his nephews Marc and Peter Geanoules.

Donations to Ramapo Bergen Animal Refuge Inc. at rbari.org in honor of Jerry would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Bettina Migliore (nee Donati), age 86, of Wayne, NJ.

Bettina passed away on Monday, December 9, 2024 while in the loving care of her family. She was born in Mount Vernon, NY to Mario and Florence Donati, then spent most of her childhood in Paterson, NJ after the family relocated.

Immediately following her graduation from Central High School, Bettina attended Montclair Teachers' College in Montclair, NJ, now known as Montclair State University.  She earned her degree in 1959 as well as her teacher’s certification.  Bettina found employment quickly with Eastside High School in Paterson as an English Teacher.  She later left Eastside High School and accepted a position with Little Falls Board of Education.  Bettina remained with the Little Falls Board of Education employed as a fourth-grade teacher, which was her "favorite grade to teach."  She was truly well-respected and loved by her peers and her students. Bettina remained a dedicated schoolteacher until her retirement in 1998.

While a student in high school, Bettina met a handsome young man by the name of Jim Migliore.  The two attended the senior prom together and afterwards, Jim asked her to “go steady.”  As fate would have it, they fell in love, and on June 25, 1960 Jim and Bettina exchanged wedding vows at St. Michael’s Church in Paterson becoming husband and wife.

Not long after getting married, Jim and Bettina moved to Little Falls where they welcomed the birth of their only daughter, Beth on December 9, 1964.  Shortly after the birth of their daughter, Bettina decided to put her career on hold and take on the role of a full-time homemaker.  She spent the next decade caring for and raising her daughter.  After her daughter Beth had grown up, Bettina returned to the workforce as a full-time teacher again.  In 1984, the family moved to West Paterson, now known as Woodland Park. They resided there for the next fifteen years until moving to Four Seasons in Wayne in 1999, where they were one of the original owners in the development.

Being a teacher, it came to no one’s surprise that Bettina was an avid reader.  Over her lifetime, Bettina read over two thousand books, mostly fiction.  She was a woman who found solace in the pages of books, a passion she carried with her until the very end of her life.  Those who knew Bettina best knew that her true passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Bettina than spending time with her husband, daughter, and especially her granddaughter Kara.  Bettina was a warm and loving individual.  She treasured spending time with her family, helping with her granddaughter, and playing board games with her friends and neighbors.  She and her husband Jim cherished fifty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together until Jim's passing in 2015.

Bettina was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her, including the thousands of students she taught over her career.  She will be truly missed by everyone that knew her.

Bettina is survived by her daughter Beth Silvestri and her husband Al of Wayne, NJ, her brother Joseph Donati and his wife Ellen of Madison, NJ, and one granddaughter Kara Silvestri.  She was predeceased by her husband Jim Migliore in 2015.

For those who prefer a charitable contribution to flowers, please consider Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, Donation Processing Center, PO Box 5041, Boone, IA 50950-0041.

Elias Anthony Harraka, age 79, passed away on Saturday, December 7, 2024.

Elias, also known as Lou, grew up with his sister Carol in Paterson as the children of Anthony and Antoinette Harraka. After graduating high school, Lou enrolled at Rutgers University and around the same time started what would become a lifelong career at Dorfman Abrams Music. Beginning in a modest position, his loyalty, dedication and talent would eventually earn him a partnership at the firm.

Elias met his future wife, Antoinette, one fateful night and knew right away that she was the girl for him. Shortly after meeting Antoinette, his education at Rutgers was unexpectedly interrupted when he was drafted by the United States Army for the Vietnam War. Lou’s accounting knowledge proved valuable to the Army, leading to a stateside assignment at Fort Bliss, Texas, where he also served in the Military Police Division. After completing his military service, Lou went back to Rutgers University to complete his degree in accounting.

After graduating with his bachelor’s degree in accounting and earning his CPA certification, Antoinette and Elias were married in July 1968. The newlyweds celebrated their marriage with a honeymoon in Paradise Island, Bahamas, before returning home to Paterson. Their family started to grow with the birth of their first son, Louis. As their family grew, Lou and Antoinette moved to Wayne, NJ where they were soon blessed with two more children: Renee and Brian.

Elias will be remembered for his kind and loyal heart. His selfless nature extended beyond his family to strangers in need, a true testament to his generous spirit. While he loved to support his favorite sports teams (the New York Jets and Yankees), his greatest passion was supporting his family. He never missed an opportunity to attend his children’s and his grandchildren’s sporting events with his proud presence a constant on the sidelines. His love for travel was another constant in his life. He loved to share in that joy with his family which led to 40 years of family Aruba vacations. There he enjoyed the salty sea air, warm beaches and of course the restaurants and casinos the island had to offer.

Elias is survived by his wife Antoinette, his sister Carol Kalkan and her spouse Robert, his 3 children: Louis Harraka and his spouse Anju, Renee Kates and her spouse Joseph, and Brian Harraka and his spouse Allison; his 3 nieces: Donna, Dora, and Jennifer; and his 5 grandkids: Anjeli, Brandon, Matthew, Nicole, and Nicholas.

Elias is predeceased by his parents Anthony and Antoinette Harraka.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Tunnel to Tower’s Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Sadie Beck, age 90, of Galloway. NJ, formerly of Wayne, passed Friday, December 6, 2024.

She was born in Paterson to Charles and Rose Seminerio and raised in the City of Paterson.  Sadie attended High School in Paterson.  

During her young working years Sadie held several jobs: one where she helped manufacture television sets as well as working at the Marcal Paper Plant in Paterson.  Having married just after high school Sadie followed her husband Al, who had joined the United States Navy, and was stationed in Massachusetts where she found work at the Welsh’s Chocolate Factory in Boston.

Sadie and Al met at the Paterson Rec Center’s roller rink.  Al fell in love with Sadie the moment he laid eyes on her.  In his high school yearbook, he even captioned his photo by saying someday he would marry Sadie. Sadie Seminerio and Al Beck were married on April 12, 1953, at St Michael Church in Paterson, NJ. Sadie and Al had a marriage that was blessed with three children: Vincent, Regina, and Angela.  They were together for sixty-two years before Al’s passing in 2014.

Sadie was a woman who held family close to her heart, coming from a large and loving family herself.  Her passion for cooking and baking made her an exceptional homemaker, known for her delicious carrot cake, meatballs, and sauce that were unrivaled. Her signature sauce, cooked in a pot lovingly named Big Ben, was a staple at family gatherings. She always made sure that her door was open to family, friends and neighbors where she would cook for each and every one of them.

In addition to her culinary talents, Sadie was meticulous with her financial management skills as she could balance her checkbook to the penny without the need for a calculator.  Sadie found joy in crocheting, often creating beautiful blankets for family members’ newborns with care and love. She also indulged in painting and ceramics, showcasing her artistic flair.  Known for her considerate nature, Sadie always put others first, showing genuine concern for their well-being. She always wanted to make sure that everyone was safe and happy.

Sadie’s love for animals knew no bounds, particularly her fondness for dogs that had been a constant source of joy to her and her family throughout the years.  Among her cherished pets is a doubly yellow Amazon parrot, now 40 years old, whose vibrant presence added a unique charm to her home.  This wise parrot can talk and picked up amusing sayings like “what the hell” from Sadie.

Sadie’s bond with her feathered companion was a testament to her nurturing spirit and deep connection with all creatures, big and small.  The parrot’s quirky phrases and endearing antics brought laughter and warmth to Sadie’s home, creating a lively and vibrant atmosphere filled with love and companionship.

Sadie was the loving and devoted wife of the late Al Beck (d.2014); devoted mother of Vincent Beck and his wife Karen of Manalapan, Regina Beck of Galloway, and Angela Duva and her husband John of Stockholm, NJ; she was the cherished grandmother of Melissa Duva, Lisa Sweeny, and Lindsay Donnelly; she as the dearly loved great-grandmother of Brooke Hough, Gabby Sweeny, Danny Sweeny, McKenzie Sweeny, Trevor Donnelly and Julie Donnelly.  Sadie was predeceased by her siblings: Joe Seminerio, Frank Seminerio, and Ida LaGatta.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the ASPCA would be greatly appreciated.

Paul Simonetti, age 94, of Haledon, passed peacefully at home on Friday, December 6, 2024.

He was born in Paterson to Anthony and Mary Simonetti. Paul was raised in Paterson and attended Paterson Vocational and Technical High School.

Paul worked at A&P grocery stores in Paterson, in the dye house industry for a few years, and then joined the United States Air Force. For the last fifteen years of his working life, he worked for the North Jersey District Water Supply Commission at the Wanaque Reservoir as a Maintenance and Construction Foreman. He officially retired in 1992.

In 1951, Paul joined the United States Air Force and was a Drill Instructor at Sampson Air Force Base in Geneva, New York. Paul was involved with sports of all kinds, including baseball, basketball, and softball, winning many base championships. He was Honorably Discharged from the Air Force on May 14, 1955, attaining the rank of Staff Sergeant. For his service he was awarded the Good Conduct Medal and the National Defense Service Medal.

Paul exemplified honor and integrity. He embodied kindness in every action, displaying a gentle demeanor alongside a remarkable strength and resilience. Paul’s capacity for forgiveness and generosity was boundless, often giving selflessly. His unwavering bravery and courage shone through even in the face of adversity, making him a true symbol of resilience. Despite a challenging medical history, Paul never uttered a word of complaint, facing his struggles with grace and determination.

Paul’s devout Catholic faith was the cornerstone of his life. His heart resonated with the teachings and values of the Catholic Church, guiding his actions and decisions. Paul found solace and strength in his devotion to the Sacred Heart, drawing comfort from its symbolism of love and compassion. Saint Anthony held a special place in his prayers, as he sought intercession and guidance in times of need. Paul’s spiritual connection to these revered figures shaped his character and inspired him to live a life guided by faith and compassion. Furthermore, Paul was a man of unparalleled fairness, common sense, and wisdom, and he was always there to guide and assist anyone who sought his help.

Paul’s life took a beautiful turn when he met the love of his life Anna Marie Farina. Ann saw Paul while he was working at the A&P on 21st Avenue in Paterson, and she thought he was the most handsome man she had ever seen. After a first date to a Paterson Crescents basketball game at the Paterson Armory, they soon fell in love. Ann would often go to the Sandy Hill Soccer Field in Paterson and watch Paul play soccer. Ann and Paul’s relationship stood the test of his being called to serve in the Air Force, and Paul proposed marriage to Ann while he was still in the service. Ann and Paul were married at St Anthony’s Church in Paterson on November 14, 1953. Paul was a devoted husband who stood by Ann unwaveringly, always ready to protect and support her. He had a natural instinct to be her shield and to help her stay focused and calm in challenging moments. Paul enjoyed the art of cooking and baking many things from scratch, including pasta and sauces. Paul and Ann have had a loving and devoted relationship of over seventy-one years.

Paul was a man who found joy in the simplicity of life’s pleasures, particularly his love for movies and television, travel, sports, and keeping up on the latest news to keep his mind sharp and engaged. Trips to the casinos and restaurants of Atlantic City were cherished moments for Paul and Ann. His quest for the perfect pizza and discovering charming Italian restaurants brought him joy, as did the simple pleasure of going out for breakfast.

In addition to being survived by Ann, Paul was the youngest of five children and was predeceased by his beloved brothers Emil Simonetti and Rudolph Simonetti and his beloved sisters Delma Cuccinello and Lena Martinelli. He loved and was loved by his very large extended family. Indeed, Paul dearly loved his many nieces and nephews, and he had a special place in his heart for his nephew Patrick Zaretski, niece Kathy Zaretski, and his great-niece Nicole Zaretski. Paul’s impact on everyone’s lives, friends and family, was profound, leaving a lasting legacy of love and fond memories that will be eternally remembered.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated.

Donald D. Dunn, age 90, of Passaic, NJ and formerly of Clifton, passed away on Thursday, December 5, 2024.

Born in Paterson, NJ, Donald was one of James and Marie (Belsser) Dunn’s four sons.  He was a machinist for many years with Curtis-Wright Corporation.

Donald was predeceased by his first wife Katherine, his daughter Linda Pavlick, his son Donald M. Dunn, and his brother John “Jean” Dunn. He is survived by his second wife Antoinette Dunn, his son Charles Dunn and wife Dawn; six grandchildren: Michael and wife Kiersten, Christopher and husband Garry, Cynthia and husband James, Catherine, Charles, Jr. and Steven and wife Denise; seven great-grandchildren: Steven, Johnathan, Aenoxie, Michael, Sophia, Kyle, and David; his two brothers: August James Dunn and Eugene Dunn: his three step-children: John, Michael, and Isabella “Donna”; and ten step-grandchildren: Claryssa, Justin, Ashleigh, Kassidy, Anthony, Jonathan, Maddalena, Lucia, Meilo, and Antoinette.

April 24, 1932 - December 5, 2024  

Polo Mihali passed away peacefully on December 5, 2024, in Wayne, New Jersey, surrounded by his loving family. He was 92 years old.

Born on April 24, 1932, in the village of Krinë, Albania, Polo carried a deep love for his hometown throughout his life. During his childhood, he, his mother, Amalia, and sister Marina, went through difficult times together due to the Second World War, as their home was burned down by Occupation forces and the three were left with little to eat. Their grit and tight bond as a family got them through these times, instilling the values of family and hard work in Polo that he would honor and emulate for the rest of his life.  

He served as the Commissioner of Animal Husbandry for the government of Albania for 30 years, dedicating his career to the development and improvement of the nation's agricultural sector. Polo loved traveling, gardening, and writing. A man of few words, Polo expressed his devotion for his homeland, family and friends by writing poetry.

At the age of 21, he met his wife, Katerina, with whom he would spend the next 70 years. Their enduring partnership was an inspiration to all who knew them. Together, they filled their home with laughter and music, performing original duets at family gatherings and participating in fierce dominos tournaments.  

In 1992, following his father’s footsteps, Polo immigrated with his family to the United States, where he continued to work until he retired at the age of 78.

Always a man of action, Polo could rarely be found sitting still. His curious mind and handy nature led him to constantly tinker with gadgets and machinery, from rewiring the toaster when an indicator light went out, taping headsets back together, and keeping meticulous notebooks of instructions from his grandchildren on how to use the latest computer programming.

Polo's legacy lives on through his wife, Katerina, three children, Aida, Aneta, and George, eight grandchildren, Mariela, Blerta, Valbona, Stela, Gent, Apostolos, Katerina, and Efthymia, and three great-grandchildren, Stevie, Marlow, and Jack Jr., who brought him immense happiness in his later years.

A beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend, Polo will be deeply missed by all who knew him. His warmth, love, and dedication to both family and country will continue through the generations he leaves behind.

Martha Ann Plowman, aged 77, a woman of immense strength and kindness, left us on December 3, 2024 at the PAM Hospital in Sarasota, Florida with her loving family by her side after a courageous battle.

Born to Ann and Kenneth Smith of Wayne, NJ, Martha graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1965. She became a devoted nurse, specializing in geriatric care, who dedicated her life to providing compassionate care to countless patients. She was known for her warm smile and remembered for her unwavering dedication and ability to bring comfort during difficult times.

Martha married the love of her life, Craig, fifty-three years ago on November 27, 1971. Growing by three children and many different pets, our family enjoyed Life on the Lake in Pompton Lakes, NJ for thirty years, spending summers “down the shore” at our condo in Seaside Heights, NJ. Martha loved the beach and water of all kinds and found great peace when she was near it. Naturally, when it was time to retire, she and Craig would find themselves in Venice, Florida where she lived happily with her husband and pets near the waters of the Gulf; palm trees in the yard.

Martha loved animals and she was known to rescue random strays that became pets quite frequently. Animals of all kinds were drawn to her, as if they knew they would be safe around her. Her compassion extended to people as well. She always had enough room for another seat and we often had strangers at our table on Thanksgiving. She was also an avid photographer and our homes are filled with pictures she took herself. The impact she has made on our lives is immense and her presence will be missed immensely. We learned strength from her.

Martha is survived by her husband Craig Plowman of Venice, FL, two daughters: Sandra Small and her husband Stephan of Martinsburg, WV, and Gail DeSantis and her husband Peter of Rivervale, NJ, one son Eric C. Plowman and his wife Kelly of Delanco, NJ, four grandchildren; Sam, Brooke, Kinsley, and Madison, and one sister Karen Rodriguez and her husband Edward of Inverness, FL, her cousin Gail Cahill of Pompton Plains, NJ and her adoring pets, her pup Toby and her bird Maggie.

Andrew "Andy" Sisco, age 82, passed away unexpectedly yet peacefully at home on Monday, December 2, 2024.

Andy was born in Paterson to his father Andrew, a Paterson Police Officer, and his mother Regina, a nurse. Andy was the eldest child and had four younger sisters, Pat, Noreen, Clair and Joann, all of whom he loved and cherished deeply. Andy graduated from St. Mary's High School in 1959, having played on the school's baseball and basketball teams and captained their cross country team.

Andy and his wife, Roberta Reid, met as teenagers, having grown up only two blocks apart in Paterson. They were married at Saint Bonaventure's Church on October 6, 1961 and remained devoted to one another up until the time of Andy's passing. Andy and Roberta were blessed with two sons, Kevin and Kenneth.

Andy dedicated his professional career to the supermarket industry. He started working at the ACME on Union Boulevard in Paterson as a teenager before eventually working his way up to managing a number of supermarkets throughout northern New Jersey. During that time he owned and operated the Royal Economy in Bloomingdale and the Food Barn in Randolph. Andy capped off his career as the owner and operator of an Arnold Bread Route.

Andy was a man of simple pleasures and love for his family. He was a great dad and even better grandfather. Nothing gave him greater joy than spending time with his grandchildren, Maclaine, Brindley, Holly, Drew and Jack. Earlier this year, Andy was blessed with a great-grandson, Kieran, who he would Facetime with on a daily basis.

Simply put, anyone who ever had the pleasure of meeting Andy would all tell you the same thing, he was the best. And they were correct.

Please omit flowers.

Zdenka Genc Pavlovich, age 93, passed peacefully on Sunday, December 1, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She is survived by her two sons, Robert and Davor Pavlovich, nine grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

Zdenka was born in Zagreb, Yugoslavia (now Croatia) on March 12, 1931 to Mihael and Dragica Genc. She was the second oldest of six children and is survived by her older sister Mira Martinovich.

Zdenka was born in Zagreb to a poor family from the surrounding mountains. During World War II food and work were not available in the cities. The family suffered greatly, but they all survived. Baka often said that they would split up the little that they had without complaint, and they remained a very close family throughout their lives. According to Mira, Zdenka was a quiet and well-behaved child. She had some ambition to become a nun, but that was discouraged when the communists won the war. She completed school through the eighth grade and then apprenticed as a knitting machine operator. She went to work at the Tresnjaka factory in Zagreb, where she met her best friend, Maria Zidarevic, who was later her maid-of-honor and Davor's godmother.

Zdenka met her husband, Ivan (Ivo) Pavlovich, at dancing school. She had had several proposals for marriage that she rejected. She accepted Ivo's proposal, because they were in love, and because she saw Ivo’s work ethic and ambition. She was already twenty-five, which was considered old for marriage. After they married they lived with her family, but Zdenka dreamed of one day having a home of her own. Their first son, Robert, was born two years later, in September, 1959.

Zdenka and Ivo worked hard in the early years of their marriage. Due to the poor economic situation in Yugoslavia, Ivo went to find work in West Germany as a plumber/sheet metal worker. Zdenka followed soon afterwards, entrusting Robert to his grandparents and aunts in Zagreb. Their goal was to work hard, save money, and build a house in Zagreb. Around 1965 they purchased land in Zagreb and started building a house while still working in West Germany. The couple visited Robert and the rest of the family on holidays. Zdenka moved back to Yugoslavia in 1966 when she was expecting her second son, Davor, who was born in January, 1967. After a few months she returned to West Germany to work and left Davor with caretakers. At the time her sister Mira lived in the U.S. and offered to sponsor the family's immigration. Mira wanted to be close to her sister and for the family to be together. Zdenka was reluctant to leave the country she had always known, especially now that the house in Zagreb was completed, but she was persuaded by her husband and by Mira. Mira continues to remind Baka's daughters-in-law, Laura and Kim, that they should be grateful, because she brought them husbands from Europe.

Zdenka's life in America began when they arrived in New York by steamship on December 5, 1969. The family of four lived with Aunt Mira and Uncle Rudy for several months, along with Rudy's niece, Dragica Francetic, before finding an apartment in Astoria, Queens. Zdenka got a job at a German Lutheran Church in Manhattan, where she cleaned and opened/closed the church for services. She kept that job for twenty years. She was a diligent and dedicated employee, and the Pastor came to rely upon her. The Pastor appreciated that Zdenka spoke German, as well as Croatian and now English. Just four years after immigrating, Zdenka and Ivo had saved enough to purchase a house in Ridgewood, Queens, largely due to Zdenka's economic prudence. Zdenka and Ivo’s sons were raised in this house that they kept through their lives.

Ivo and Zdenka embodied a Horatio Alger story. Ivo used his training in Germany to get a job in the sheet metal industry in New York, and then he bought out his boss and started AWL Industries in 1979, just a decade after arriving in this U.S. The family went months without a paycheck in the early stage to assure that the business would survive. Although Zdenka was not a risk taker, she supported her husband in his plans. Her support behind the scenes was key to Ivo's success. Robert and Davor both went into the family business, and the business is still in the family.

Zdenka valued education and social propriety. She always encouraged her boys to work hard, be respectful, kind, and polite, and to take care of their appearance and reputation. A woman of few words, her care and generosity showed her love. Zdenka became a grandmother ("Baka" in Croatian) in 1985, and from then on she was known by everyone as Baka, a loving grandmother. As her granddaughter Liz wrote, "Baka's love was fierce and unwavering, with lipstick marks all over your cheeks. She paced her days slowly and rhythmically while caring for me when I was a young child. When she hugged, she squeezed too hard, and when she laughed, she scrunched her eyes and looked like she would cry from amusement. As I reached adulthood and faced life’s struggles, she made it known that she only ever wanted was for me and others to be treated well. I felt unconditionally loved in her presence — a precious and comforting connection that one can easily take for granted." Baka and Deda loved all their grandchildren and were the happiest when they were all together.

When Ivo ("Deda" in Croatian) semi-retired, Baka and Deda spent more time in Croatia. Each summer they would invite and sponsor their family for a vacation on one of the Croatian islands. Robert and Davor took advantage of this to reconnect with them. Baka never liked the sun, and she would sit under the trees and play with the grandchildren while Deda would be lying in the blazing sun reading the political newspaper, sleeping or tossing the ball with the kids. In the evening, the three generations would all wash up, have dinner, and listen to a local band. At times Deda would show off his dancing skills by getting his wife out on the dance floor. It was beautiful to watch them together in their element.

Baka was a wonderful cook. She knew many Croatian recipes, but her cooking was also influenced by the years in Germany when she was first married. When granddaughter Liz was little she told her that she should open a restaurant, but Baka was strictly a family cook — every day and especially on the holidays. In her modest kitchen in the house in Queens she turned out amazing three course holiday feasts featuring lasagna, spaetzle, Wiener schnitzel (now Davor's specialty), fried shrimp and calamari, and stuffed cabbage ("sarma," now Hannah's specialty). For dessert there might be almond moon cookies ("kifli," now Kim's specialty) or strudel. She made the yeasty Croatian strudel dough from scratch. She would roll the dough out to cover the whole kitchen table, fill it with walnuts, apples, or poppyseeds, then roll it up and bake it. She made enough strudel in one day to be able to give it away generously. Christmas will never be the same without Baka's strudel.

As much as Baka was an old-school cook — she cracked whole walnuts to make her walnut strudel — she also embraced American convenience foods. She served corn flakes in the morning and rice-a-roni with dinner. When she babysat the grandkids, she gave them packaged ramen noodle soup for lunch so often that the kids started calling it Baka Soup.

After Ivo/Deda passed in December, 2012, Baka became more independent. She took care of the house in Zagreb, spent time with friends, and planned for the future. She continued to be involved with her sons and grandchildren, splitting her time between New York and Zagreb. She moved in with Robert's family for a few months during the Covid shutdowns and isolation. Then she went back to Zagreb under the care of her good friend Mira Falica and granddaughter Hannah. When Mira Falica became too ill herself, it was decided that Baka should return to the U.S. and have more help. Davor and his family offered to take her in, and she had been living with them since January, 2022. She was happy with all the activity at Davor's house and to be part of his family. Kim found caregivers, Yelena and Stephanie, to take care of Baka's daily needs so that her sons could just be sons. Six months ago, Baka broke a hip and then had a stroke. Davor and his family provided comfortable and loving care right to the end when she died at home surrounded by family.

Robert “Bob” Anthony Szal, age 81, of Wayne, passed Sunday, December 1, 2024.

He was the son of Anthony and Jane Szal, of Passaic, and raised in Garfield before the family moved to Elmwood Park.  Bob attended St. Leo’s Elementary School in Elmwood Park before graduating from St. Joseph’s High School in Paterson, with the Class of 1961. He continued his education at Fordham University’s School of Pharmacy in the Bronx, NY, with the Class of 1966.

Bob initially worked for his uncle Anthony, who owned the Steigner Pharmacy on Main Street, in Paterson. He was drafted into the US Army in 1969 and served during the Vietnam War.  While in the Army, a pharmacist assignment was not available, so he volunteered for Graves Registration Duty, where he was tasked with helping to identify human remains.  After he was Honorably discharged from the Army in 1971, he worked as a pharmacist in Englewood, NJ, and then at Plains Pharmacy in Pompton Plains, and at CVS Pharmacy in Wayne, before retiring in 2010.

He was a dedicated man who served as an assistant scoutmaster for Troop 108 at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.  His passion for learning is evident, as he would frequent the Wayne Public Library on almost a daily basis.   Apart from his commitment to scouting and reading, Bob was an avid angler who enjoyed fishing in lakes, ponds, and even some deep-sea fishing at the Jersey shore in Pt. Pleasant and Lavallette.  Bob passed on his love of fishing to his beloved son Bryan, creating a special bond between them through their shared passion for the sport and fishing gear.  Despite his busy schedule, Bob managed to prioritize his family, especially his two granddaughters Juliana and Elena, whom he has lovingly cared for since the day they were born.

Bob was very proud of his Polish heritage, and kept it alive by maintaining his family's many holiday traditions.

Bob, a man of remarkable intelligence and creativity, had a deep passion for gardening that extended to vegetables, flowers, and even trees.  His love for nature was evident in the way he tended to those trees and plants, finding solace in the soil as he nurtured his garden and shared his tomato harvest with many. There was nothing like the taste of tomatoes from the abundance of the Szal Farm crop that Bob lovingly shared with great joy.  Bob’s commitment to sustainability was reflected in his daily composting routine, a practice he diligently followed.  Beyond his green thumb, Bob possessed exceptional crafting skills, especially with his granddaughters, and was known as a proficient fixer of all things broken. He was always ready to lend a hand and help solve any problem that came his way.  His legacy lives on through the beauty he cultivated and the skills he shared with those around him. He was also a devoted dog lover, and recently experienced the heartbreaking loss of his beloved yellow lab, Lacie. Their bond was one of unconditional love and companionship, as Lacie was not just a pet but a cherished member of the family. Despite the grief of losing Lacie, Bob found solace in the joy and love they shared, forever grateful for the special bond they had. Those who knew Bob also knew he had a passion for collecting flashlights, pocketknives, tools, and was one of the biggest lovers of anything LL Bean.

Bob and Marian initially met as children, when Marian was a pianist and soloist at concerts, and he was working as a coat check.  While Bob was in the Army stationed in Virginia, he was re-introduced to Marian by his dear cousin Eleanor Brangan on one of his trips home.  From this point on, Bob would return to New Jersey on weekends to spend time with Marian, gaining many speeding tickets while driving his bright yellow Corvette. There's nothing like speeding home to see the love of his life of 52 years.  Marian and Bob maintained their relationship even after he was sent to Vietnam.  Marian would send him letters and he would correspond back.  Upon his discharge from the military their relationship flourished, and they fell in love.  Bob and Marian married on July 15, 1972, at Saint Joseph’s Church in Passaic, and they honeymooned in Barbados.  After they were married, they lived in Garfield for one year before moving to Wayne over fifty years ago.

Bob was the loving husband of Marian (Halka) Szal; devoted father of Janine (Szal) Paavola and her husband Tommi of Oakland, and Bryan Szal of Ventura, CA; he was the cherished grandfather of Juliana and Elena Paavola.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Our Lady of the Valley Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated (we will have donations cards at the funeral home).

Maria T. Herbst (nee Melz), age 90 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, Nov. 30, 2024.

Maria grew up in Gottschee, a region of Austria. Her formative years were generally pleasant, living on the family farm with her parents, Louis and Theresa, and older brothers Louis Jr. and Joseph. However, the events of World War II changed things, to say the least. They lost their home and became displaced persons, and in the late 1940s, her family made the bold move from Austria to Queens, New York, where other family members had already settled. Her new neighborhood in the Ridgewood section of Queens was largely made up of Austrian immigrants from the Gottschee region. It was here, in Queens, that Maria met Walter Herbst, also from Gottschee. After a brief courtship, they were married in 1956 and began to raise a family together. Walter’s career soon required a move, and they settled in Wayne, New Jersey, in 1965. Maria and Walter were able to travel throughout their 67 years of marriage and returned to visit Austria on several occasions.

Maria was an extremely devoted wife and mother. She cooked fantastic meals every day, drove her sons to all their sporting events and activities, and enjoyed bowling and playing volleyball. She was a lunch-mother at DePaul High School for more than a decade. Maria also had a natural aura that kids gravitated to. Many of her children’s friends adored her and loved spending time at the Herbst house where she made everyone feel like part of the family.  Maria was an extremely selfless person as she always put the needs of her sons and family ahead of her own.

Maria was an exceptional cook and especially enjoyed holiday and weekend family gatherings.    It brought her great pleasure to have her family and friends gather at her home.  She was very close with her brothers and their families as well as her husband’s brother’s family.  

Maria’s grandchildren and great grandchildren brought her to a new level of joy, and she would do anything for each of them. They will never forget the special bond they shared with her, and they will carry those memories throughout their lifetime.

Maria was the glue that lovingly pulled her family together and kept everyone close. She will be dearly missed by all of them.

Maria is survived by her three sons; Walter Herbst and his wife Margaret, James Herbst and his wife Debra, and Robert Herbst; six grandchildren, Michael, Diana, Andrew, Eric, Jackson, Tessa, and eight great-grandchildren, Julia, Emily, Ryan, Norah, Colin, Jonah, Eva, and Noah.  She was predeceased by her husband Walter in 2023, and by both of her brothers.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the CTC Academy, 125 Bauer Drive, Oakland, NJ, 07436, would be appreciated.

Luz Marina, age 61 of Wayne, NJ passed away Saturday, November 30th after a long battle with cancer.

Luz Marina met her life partner, Ruben Dario at the age of 15. She had her first-born son, Juan at the age of 22.

She migrated from Medellin, Colombia with her son in 1987. Her dream was to build a future here for her family. Shortly after, her life partner also migrated and they settled in Union City, NJ where they lived for many years.

In 1989 Luz Marina gave birth to her daughter Catherine. Together, the family worked tirelessly to have a better future.  The family later moved to Wayne, NJ where they finally felt at home.

Luz Marina loved her grandchildren and lived for her children. They meant the world to her. They brought her so much joy in her hardest moments. No matter how she was feeling, when they came to visit her, she had life in her eyes again. She was the strongest person we have ever known. She loved her family and was the glue that kept them all together.

She was a kind soul, a silent giver, and a devoted sister. Her faith was unwavering until the very end. She loved God and turned to prayer to help her through her hardest moments.

She was blessed to be comforted and accompanied by all the people she loved before her soul departed.

We will remember her as she always was: a fierce woman, a loving mother and grandmother, and a loyal partner.

We would like to thank all of our friends and family for your prayers and support during this difficult time.

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Luz Marina, de 61 años, de Wayne, Nueva Jersey, falleció el Sábado 30 de Noviembre después de una larga batalla contra el cáncer.

Luz Marina conoció a su compañero de vida, Rubén Darío, a la edad de 15 años. Tuvo a su primer hijo, Juan Esteban, a la edad de 22 años.

Emigró de Medellín, Colombia con su hijo en 1987. Su sueño era construir un futuro aquí para su familia. Poco después, su compañero de vida también emigró y se establecieron en Union City, Nueva Jersey, donde vivieron durante muchos años.

En 1989 Luz Marina dio a luz a su hija Catherine. Juntos, la familia trabajó incansablemente para tener un futuro mejor. Más tarde, la familia se mudó a Wayne, Nueva Jersey, donde finalmente se sintieron como en casa.

Luz Marina amaba a sus nietos y vivía para sus hijos. Significaban el mundo para ella. Le trajeron mucha alegría en sus momentos más difíciles. No importaba cómo se sintiera, cuando venian a visitarla, volvia a tener vida en sus ojos. Era la persona más fuerte que hemos conocido. Amaba a su familia y siempre la mantuvo unida.

Era un alma bondadosa, una persona que siempre daba en silencio, y una hermana devota. Su fe fue inquebrantable hasta el final. Amaba a Dios y recurrió a la oración para ayudarla en sus momentos más difíciles.

Fue bendecida al ser consolada y acompañada por todas las personas que amaba antes de que su alma partiera.

La recordaremos como siempre fue: una mujer feroz, una madre y abuela amorosa y una compañera leal.

Gracias a todos sus amigos y familiares por el apoyo y oraciones que le brindaron durante todos estos anos.

Joseph “Joe” Colavita, age 85, a fifty-eight-year resident of Wayne, passed Tuesday, November 26, 2024.

He was born to Benjamin and Anna Colavita (nee Mikucka) in the Sandy Hill section of Paterson where the family eventually settled in the Riverside section of the city.  Joe attended Eastside High School showing an interest in art and music.  After high school Joseph briefly served in the US Army Reserves before being discharged on February 28, 1965.  Joe loved to dance and even appeared on the television show American Bandstand a couple of times.

Joe worked as a photo engraver in Paterson. Through the years he has worked at the Nabisco Factory in Fair Lawn, as a truck driver for Interstate Systems and Maislan Trucking both in Carlstadt and was a member of the Teamsters Union Local 560 before retiring in 2000.  Joe and his truck even made a cameo in the 1978 film, An Unmarried Woman.  

Joe met the love of his life Angela DeVito when both were at the wedding of mutual friends in 1961.  They fell in love and married on October 1, 1966 at Saint Andrew’s Church in Clifton.  Joe and Angela honeymooned at Montego Bay, Jamaica and in San Juan, Puerto Rico.  They had a loving and caring marriage that was blessed with three children, five grandchildren and nine cats.

Joe is a man with a heart as big as his love for his family.  Generous and family-oriented, he cherished every moment spent with his loved ones, especially the kids who brought endless joy to his life.  Joe’s sociable nature mirrors the vibrant spirit of the New York Giants, and he could engage effortlessly with others spreading positivity wherever he went.  In his downtime, Joe found solace in nature, and often would watch the National Geographic channel on television.  He loved cars and also enjoyed being an animal shelter volunteer as he always had a deep love for animals. His humorous personality lit up any room, and he was always ready to bring a smile to people’s faces and brighten their day with his laughter.  Joe’s commitment to making others happy is a testament to his kind and compassionate soul.  

Joe was the loving husband of fifty-eight years to Angela (DeVito) Colavita; he was the devoted father of Michael (Stephanie) Colavita of Caldwell, NJ, Christine Hawn (Thomas) of Falls Church, VA, and Melissa (Michael) Escudero of Tega Cay, SC; he was the cherished grandfather of Ethan Hawn, Peter Escudero, Sophia Escudero, Marie Colavita and Caitlyn Colavita. He was the brother of Barbara Donohue of Doylestown, PA, and Marlene DeGennaro of AZ and was an uncle to a host of nieces and nephews.  Joe was predeceased by his parents Benjamin and Anna and brothers-in-laws Henry DeVito, Jr. and Thomas Donohue.

In lieu of flowers please honor Joe’s dedication to animals at https://njshelter.org/donate-form-new/ Mt Pleasant Animal Shelter, 194 NJ-10, East Hanover, NJ 07937. When donating please look for the “Additional Information - Acknowledgment Details” and put “In Memory of Joe Colavita” in the Acknowledgement Details box so the family can be properly notified of your gift.