Herbert J. Bischof

Herbert J. Bischof "Pop Pop", age 82 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, July 14, 2025.

Herb was born in Paterson, NJ and raised in Saddle Brook as the eldest of three children to Herbert and Lily Bischof. Throughout his life, Herb or “Pop Pop” as he was lovingly known, embodied what it meant to be a devoted family man above all else.

Herb always went the extra mile to be there for his family. Whether that meant his unwavering support at all their events, or making celebrations extra special in the little ways only he could come up with. Pop Pop’s biggest fans were his Pussycats: his daughters Jennifer and Amy. As a father he was consistently reliable, creating weekend plans with activities prepped so his daughters had fun and joy throughout their shared time. When he was blessed with four grandchildren, the love, affection, and laughs grew and expanded to include them as well. 

Herb’s ability to make holidays extra special was second to none. He always found unique ways to make the memories unforgettable. He famously made his grandkids dress up in themed outfits each month. His love of pictures only grew when he began turning them into custom calendars for himself and his family to cherish. Additionally, he was notorious for always keeping a few gifts tucked away during special occasions like Christmas, only to be revealed near the end. He would say at the end of unwrapping gifts, there might be oneeeee more, before leaving to grab it. He would then surprise someone with an extra present he hid away. Then once their excitement settled and the other’s expressions started to droop from disappointment that they did not receive something special, he would say it again and surprise the rest with that one last item. It was a small tradition that never failed to bring smiles and laughter to everyone’s faces. 

Herb’s social life centered around “The Gang” a group of eight men (and their wives) who were best friends for over 60 years. They brought out the best in each other (or the worst depending on who you asked)! They shared a tough love that had newcomers questioning how they could actually be friends. Based on the way they talked, you never would have guessed. The truth is they shared a camaraderie that was forged over years of wonderful friendship. Their ability to joke around and never take anything too seriously, helped make them all friends for life. The Gang was famous for their barbecues, parties, and annual fishing trips to Chincoteague; where they would make new memories and reminisce about old ones. 

One of those famous parties with The Gang introduced Herb to a beautiful woman named Lydia. At the time, Lydia was enjoying a glass of wine and a cigarette when Herb came up and introduced himself. She offered him both, which he declined, claiming he didn't drink or smoke. By the end of the evening, however, Herb had a glass of wine in one hand and two cigarettes in the other, asking Lydia for her number. She relented on the condition that he wouldn’t call her on Thursdays as she was typically busy that day bowling with her league. Well, true to Herb, he called her on Thursday regardless and Lydia answered. The couple fell in love and enjoyed a loving relationship and marriage for forty-five years. 

Beyond his roles as husband, father, and grandfather, Herb was known for his remarkable handyman skills and his eagerness to help family members or neighbors with home improvement projects. Whether it was electrical work or major structural projects like building decks, Herb had the expertise to tackle any challenge. There was just one catch: if you wanted Herb's help, it had to be done his way. This stubborn streak earned him the ironic nickname "Mr. Flexible." Many tried to suggest alternative approaches, but they ultimately learned to accept that Herb's way was the only way the job would get done.

Above all, Herb will be remembered for his constant reminders of love. Like a broken record, he would regularly ask his family, "Did I tell you today that I love you?" But his love wasn't solely expressed in words - it was demonstrated through his unwavering presence at school events and athletic competitions (even though he didn't particularly care for sports), his willingness to help with any project, and his ability to make every gathering special.

Herbert "Herb" Bischof was a jokester, a talented handyman, and most importantly, a loving husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. His legacy lives on in the countless memories he created and the deep love he shared with all who were fortunate enough to get to know him. Pop Pop will be dearly missed, but his spirit of devotion, creativity, and unconditional love will continue to inspire his family for generations to come.

Herb is survived by his wife Lydia Bischof; his daughters: Jennifer Maguire and Amy McEvoy-Font and her husband David Font; and his grandchildren: Lily Maguire, Kaitlyn McEvoy, Liam Maguire, and Madison Font.

Herb is predeceased by his parents Herbert and Lily Bischof; and his siblings: Dennis Bischof and Diane Cavallo.