May 31, 2020

Donald De Ruiter

Pompton Plains

Services

Funeral services will be private.

Donald "Don" J. DeRuiter, age 76, of Pompton Plains, entered the Lord's presence on Sunday, May 31, 2020 while in the loving presence of family.

Donald was born in Paterson, New Jersey. He was the oldest son of Nicholas and Marie DeRuiter.

Donald graduated from Paterson Tech and went on to work at Watson Machine Company in Paterson, NJ for many years. In the late 60's he went on a blind date with a woman named Joyce Hook. They fell in love and were married on July 17, 1971, surrounded by their dearest friends and loved ones.

He spent 30 years bowling in leagues all across Northern New Jersey. He recalled many fond memories of those times and the people he met. He introduced his children and grandchildren to the game and many memories included bowling.

Donald was a man of large stature and had a friendly heart. He loved his Lord first and foremost, and he loved to tell a good story. If you encountered him, you most likely heard of one of his adventures in young adulthood or the latest sports news. He enjoyed making people smile.

Donald was very active in the churches he attended in his life. He was quick to join a Bible study and help in the church in various ways. His love for the Lord was evident in his perseverance in life. He loved worshiping in God’s house and showing God’s love to those around him.

Donald was the beloved husband of Joyce, blessed in marriage for 48 years. He was the loving father of: Brian and wife Kerri DeRuiter of  Fair Lawn, NJ, Jennifer and husband Daniel Beato of Pompton Lakes, NJ; father-in-love to Toni Ann DeRuiter of Seaside Heights, NJ; cherished grandfather of: Brandon, Faith, Josiah, Gideon, Moriah, and Evangeline; dear brother of Mary Ann Gacek and the late Robert Gacek; dear brother-in-law of: Wayne and Mieke Hook, Ralph and Marion Hook, Donald and Debbie Hook, and Allen and Marnie Hook, and the late Russell Hook. He was a loved uncle and great uncle to many.

In lieu of flower donations memorial donations may be made in Donald's memory to:

Pompton Lakes Education Foundation http://www.pomptonlakesef.org/ (click the donate button)

Pompton Lakes Ed Foundation

Attention: Diane Gelok, President

91 Durham Street

Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

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