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February 16, 2009
Services
Funeral services will be held 10 AM Friday February 20, 2009 from the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home then to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church where at 11 AM a funeral mass will be offered. Friends may visit with the family on Thursday February 19th from 2-4, 7-9 PM at the funeral home.
Hendrika “Henny” Vespia (nee Dolstra) age 61 died on Monday February 16 peacefully at home.
She was born in Brunssum, Netherlands and came to this country when she was 12 years old in 1958. She settled in California where she met and married her husband Dominic. They lived in Franklin Lakes for 20 years before moving to Wayne 10 years ago.
Henny enjoyed cooking and belonged to The Gourmet Club in Franklin Lakes for several years. One of her standout culinary masterpieces was her “outrageous” taco salad.
She met her husband at a neighbors party in California and their first date was at The Captain’s Table restaurant in Hollywood, CA. They were married in Hacienda Heights, CA on November 16, 1968 and honeymooned in Las Vegas and San Francisco accompanied by fifteen family members.
Henny was the beloved wife of forty-one years to Dominic Vespia; loving mother of Danielle Vespia and Deanna Valenzuela and her husband Jose all of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Kayla Vespia and Dominic Valenzuela; loved sister of Albert Dolstra of Murrieta, CA.
In lieu of flowers the family has asked that donations be made in Hendrika’s name to Wayne Township Memorial 1st Aid Squad, P.O. Box 291, Wayne, NJ 07470.
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Funeral services will be held 10 AM Friday February 20, 2009 from the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home then to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church where at 11 AM a funeral mass will be offered. Friends may visit with the family on Thursday February 19th from 2-4, 7-9 PM at the funeral home.

February 16, 2009
Services
Funeral services will be held 10 AM Friday February 20, 2009 from the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home then to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church where at 11 AM a funeral mass will be offered. Friends may visit with the family on Thursday February 19th from 2-4, 7-9 PM at the funeral home.
Hendrika “Henny” Vespia (nee Dolstra) age 61 died on Monday February 16 peacefully at home.
She was born in Brunssum, Netherlands and came to this country when she was 12 years old in 1958. She settled in California where she met and married her husband Dominic. They lived in Franklin Lakes for 20 years before moving to Wayne 10 years ago.
Henny enjoyed cooking and belonged to The Gourmet Club in Franklin Lakes for several years. One of her standout culinary masterpieces was her “outrageous” taco salad.
She met her husband at a neighbors party in California and their first date was at The Captain’s Table restaurant in Hollywood, CA. They were married in Hacienda Heights, CA on November 16, 1968 and honeymooned in Las Vegas and San Francisco accompanied by fifteen family members.
Henny was the beloved wife of forty-one years to Dominic Vespia; loving mother of Danielle Vespia and Deanna Valenzuela and her husband Jose all of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Kayla Vespia and Dominic Valenzuela; loved sister of Albert Dolstra of Murrieta, CA.
In lieu of flowers the family has asked that donations be made in Hendrika’s name to Wayne Township Memorial 1st Aid Squad, P.O. Box 291, Wayne, NJ 07470.
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