Marilyn Parr

It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we share the passing of our treasured wife, mother, and grandmother, Marilyn C. Parr, who left us peacefully on August 3, 2024, while in the arms of her loving husband. She was an inspiration of love, kindness, and spirituality to all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

Born on September 27, 1942, in Paterson, NJ, Marilyn was a cherished daughter of William and Helen Phillips. She shared a delightful childhood with her sister, Margaret McCall of Teaneck, NJ and her brother, William Phillips II, predeceased of Lincoln Park, NJ, where they grew up on Spring St. in Paterson NJ., before moving to Wayne. 

She married John Parr Sr. on September 26, 1964, and together they built a life filled with joy, laughter, and unending devotion for 60 years. 

As a mother to Robin Quiles of Highland Mills, NY, John Parr of Wayne, NJ, and Danay Murphy of Friendswood TX, Marilyn poured her love and wisdom into raising a family grounded in compassion and respect.  Her home was a place of comfort where her children and their friends learned the values of kindness, the importance of family bonds, the joy of laughter, and the practice of empathy.  Her nurturing spirit extended to her role as a highly involved grandmother to her favorite eight: J.P., Ricky, Shane, Liam, Elias, Macie, Bridget and Gracin with whom she shared countless moments of joy, laughter, and creating traditions.  She shared a special, unique relationship with each of her grandchildren and nothing gave her more happiness than time spent with them. 

Marilyn was an Executive Assistant and worked for American Cyanamid, American Home Products, Wyeth, and Pfizer for many years. She served in the Agricultural Division and traveled throughout the west and midwest for her position. She also enjoyed leisure travel and explored different parts of Italy with John and lifetime friends.  Her favorite spot was, however, the Jersey shore where she had many great childhood memories. 

Marilyn was known for her creativity, generosity, and community service. She crocheted a myriad of quilts and hats for veterans, her loved ones, and those in need. She was highly involved in Our Lady of Consolation Church and once active in Prayer Shawl, Cornerstone, Rainbows, and Amity.  She was a sewer as well, making curtains, clothing, and memory quilts and pillows.  There was no end to her creativity.  

Marilyn leaves behind her beloved spouse John Parr Sr., her three children and their spouses, eight grandchildren, and a host of family and friends who will forever treasure the memories shared with her. She has become a part of their tapestry for a lifetime. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to either Tunnel to Towers Foundation t2t.org, or fundamaya.org, two organizations that Marilyn felt strongly about.