August 11, 2008

Paul R. Castello

West Paterson

Services

A Memorial Mass will be offered 9 AM on Saturday, August 16, 2008 at Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne.

After the Memorial Mass the family has made arrangements for you to join them, in a celebration of Paul's life, from 11:30 AM - 3:30 PM at the Paris Inn Restaurant, 1292 Alps Rd., Wayne(973) 696-0543. Directions to Paris Inn...turn right out of the church onto Valley Rd., at your first traffic light turn left onto Ratzer Rd., at your first traffic light on Ratzer Rd. turn right onto Alps Rd...the Paris Inn is 100 yards on your right.

Paul R. Castello, age 54, of West Paterson, NJ died Monday, August 11, 2008 at the Hospice of New Jersey, Wayne.

He was born in Easton, PA and was raised in Scotch Plains, NJ. He lived in Norwalk, CT before moving to West Paterson, NJ fourteen years ago.

Paul graduated from Rutgers University with the class of 1975 receiving a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Math. He continued his education at Rutgers having received his Masters in Business Administration with the class of 1977. While at Rutgers University he was a member and Treasurer of the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity.

He held several marketing and finance positions for the Ricoh Corporation in West Caldwell since 1993, before his health forced him to retire in 2007.

Paul is the beloved son of Margaret (nee Horan) Castello of Fuquay-Varina, NC and the late Ralph V. Castello; he is the loving brother of Tricia Meade of Fuquay-Varina, NC, Jacqueline Churchill of Westminster, CO, Chris Castello of Green Brook, NJ and Michael Castello of Chapel Hill, NC; cherished uncle of Kaitlin, Jillian, and Olivia Meade and Matthew and John Castello; he will be dearly misssed by numerous other loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Paul enjoyed skiing and golfing with friends, rock n roll music, and sporting events.

If you have favorite pictures or special memories of Paul to share please bring them to the service or remembrance celebration. You can always send our family a note by clicking on the "send condolence" button on this page.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Hospice of NJ, 400 Broad Acres Drive, 4th floor, Bloomfield, NJ 07003 would be appreciated.

A Note from Paul and His Family

First, our heartfelt “THANKS” go out to all who have shared their visits, prayers, and presence with Paul and us in these difficult last few weeks since Paul became so ill. During this time Paul’s main desire was to feel safe and loved. Thanks for helping us satisfy his request. Please know that Paul treasured those moments, with all the laughs and memories they evoked.

The last gift we (Paul included) received was the first hand knowledge that he touched so many people so deeply during his life. Paul’s love and commitment for family, his loyalty to friends (his many Bro’s), his generosity, and his fun loving spirit were recognized by everyone. His philosophy on life was black and white, and could be summarized in a few of his favorite expressions: carpe diem!; you can sleep when your dead (said when others wanted to quit the party); clothes don’t make the man; you can’t take it with you; and, Party on! Consider these lessons learned.

Paul, we will miss you dearly, but always with laughter and smiles on our faces.

Mission accomplished. Party on Bro!

Chris, Jacq, Tricia, Mike, Mom

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Services

A Memorial Mass will be offered 9 AM on Saturday, August 16, 2008 at Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne.

After the Memorial Mass the family has made arrangements for you to join them, in a celebration of Paul's life, from 11:30 AM - 3:30 PM at the Paris Inn Restaurant, 1292 Alps Rd., Wayne(973) 696-0543. Directions to Paris Inn...turn right out of the church onto Valley Rd., at your first traffic light turn left onto Ratzer Rd., at your first traffic light on Ratzer Rd. turn right onto Alps Rd...the Paris Inn is 100 yards on your right.

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