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November 14, 2023
Services
Services to honor and celebrate Ray’s life will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 from 2-5PM at the Vander May Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470. A funeral service will be held at 5pm on Saturday December 16, 2023 at the funeral home following the visiting hours.
Raymond Rapp, age 84, of Wayne passed Tuesday, November 14, 2023, with the love and comfort of family by his side.
Raymond, fondly known as Ray, was born on January 29, 1939 to Edward and Anna Rapczynski and graduated from Harrison High School in Harrison, N.J., having played on the football team with the Class of 1957. His journey through life was marked by dedication, love, and a spirit of adventure.
Ray’s commitment to service began early when he enlisted in the Army as a cook, discovering a love for culinary arts that would become a lifelong passion. After his honorable service, he continued his pursuit of education and personal growth, working diligently as he attended school at night at Upsala College.
In 1969, Ray embarked on a beautiful journey of 54 years of marriage with his beloved spouse, Linda. Their union was a testament to love, commitment, and the joy found in shared experiences.
Following his military service, Ray found employment as an Office Manager at Coastal Oil Company, where his dedication and work ethic quickly garnered recognition. Over the years, he demonstrated not only his organizational skills but also his ability to adapt and learn, earning him a promotion to the position of Controller.
For the next 25 years, Ray dedicated himself to Coastal Oil Company, witnessing and contributing to its growth through a merger with BP. His commitment to excellence and his unwavering work ethic were not just professional qualities but integral aspects of his character. He retired in 2004, concluding his remarkable career as a Comptroller with Prolerized Shiabo Neu.
Upon his retirement in 2004, Ray embraced the next chapter of his life with the same enthusiasm that defined his earlier years. His honesty, patience, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him. A man of few complaints, he faced life’s challenges with a stoic grace that left a lasting impression on those around him.
Ray’s sense of humor, twinkle in his eye, and easy going nature made him a joy to be around. He approached each day with a sense of adventure, whether it was fishing, golfing or enjoying the tranquility of the beach. His love for the outdoors and hands-on work led him to find joy in renovating and building, leaving behind tangible reminders of his skill and dedication.
A loving father, Ray took pride in his two daughters, offering unwavering support and encouragement. He was equally proud of his five grandchildren and cherished attending their sporting events, dance competitions, cheer showcases, theater performances and graduations. His presence was a source of strength and inspiration for each of them.
Ray was not only a loving father but also a cherished father-in-law and uncle. His warmth and guidance extended to his extended family, creating lasting bonds of love and support. His role as a father-in-law and uncle was marked by the same generosity, compassion, and wisdom that defined his relationships with his immediate family.
Ray’s love for cooking extended beyond his military days, and he became known for always preparing enough to feed an army or a few hundred people. This generous spirit reflected his desire to share not just meals but moments of joy and togetherness with others.
Ray’s inquisitive mind found joy in learning through reading the daily paper and listening to NPR. His generosity and acceptance touched the lives of many, making him a beloved friend and confidant. Whether traveling, socializing with friends, or spending cherished moments with family, Ray’s warmth and compassion left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to share in his life.
Ray’s legacy extends beyond his professional achievements and family bonds; he was a founding parent who played an instrumental role in creating the youth soccer program that has become an integral part of his beloved Packanack community. His vision, passion and commitment to fostering community spirit through sports have left an indelible mark. As a founding parent, Ray's dedication went beyond administrative duties. He was a mentor, coach, and advocate for the values of teamwork, discipline, and sportsmanship. The program, which started as a small initiative, flourished with his guidance, becoming a cherished institution that continues to shape the lives of countless young athletes in the community.
Ray is survived by his loving wife, Linda (nee Wanke), his two daughters: Christine Rogan of Wayne and Holly McAllen and her husband Joseph of Wayne; five grandchildren: Caitlyn Rogan, Liam Rogan, Connor McAllen, Kyra McAllen, Cali Rae McAllen; niece Victory Magee and her husband Henry, niece Elyssa Magee, niece Sabrina Jenkins and her husband Ramon, niece Natasha, nephew Mathew Rapczynski, nephew Kenneth Rapczynski, and sister-in-law Nina Rapczynski. He was predeceased by his brothers, Matthew and Richard.
As we say our goodbyes, let us remember Ray for the extraordinary person he was - a man of integrity, resilience, and boundless love. May his memory live on in our hearts as we celebrate the remarkable life he lived.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Alzheimer's Association and Atlantic Visiting Nurses.
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Services to honor and celebrate Ray’s life will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 from 2-5PM at the Vander May Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470. A funeral service will be held at 5pm on Saturday December 16, 2023 at the funeral home following the visiting hours.
November 14, 2023
Services
Services to honor and celebrate Ray’s life will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 from 2-5PM at the Vander May Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470. A funeral service will be held at 5pm on Saturday December 16, 2023 at the funeral home following the visiting hours.
Raymond Rapp, age 84, of Wayne passed Tuesday, November 14, 2023, with the love and comfort of family by his side.
Raymond, fondly known as Ray, was born on January 29, 1939 to Edward and Anna Rapczynski and graduated from Harrison High School in Harrison, N.J., having played on the football team with the Class of 1957. His journey through life was marked by dedication, love, and a spirit of adventure.
Ray’s commitment to service began early when he enlisted in the Army as a cook, discovering a love for culinary arts that would become a lifelong passion. After his honorable service, he continued his pursuit of education and personal growth, working diligently as he attended school at night at Upsala College.
In 1969, Ray embarked on a beautiful journey of 54 years of marriage with his beloved spouse, Linda. Their union was a testament to love, commitment, and the joy found in shared experiences.
Following his military service, Ray found employment as an Office Manager at Coastal Oil Company, where his dedication and work ethic quickly garnered recognition. Over the years, he demonstrated not only his organizational skills but also his ability to adapt and learn, earning him a promotion to the position of Controller.
For the next 25 years, Ray dedicated himself to Coastal Oil Company, witnessing and contributing to its growth through a merger with BP. His commitment to excellence and his unwavering work ethic were not just professional qualities but integral aspects of his character. He retired in 2004, concluding his remarkable career as a Comptroller with Prolerized Shiabo Neu.
Upon his retirement in 2004, Ray embraced the next chapter of his life with the same enthusiasm that defined his earlier years. His honesty, patience, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him. A man of few complaints, he faced life’s challenges with a stoic grace that left a lasting impression on those around him.
Ray’s sense of humor, twinkle in his eye, and easy going nature made him a joy to be around. He approached each day with a sense of adventure, whether it was fishing, golfing or enjoying the tranquility of the beach. His love for the outdoors and hands-on work led him to find joy in renovating and building, leaving behind tangible reminders of his skill and dedication.
A loving father, Ray took pride in his two daughters, offering unwavering support and encouragement. He was equally proud of his five grandchildren and cherished attending their sporting events, dance competitions, cheer showcases, theater performances and graduations. His presence was a source of strength and inspiration for each of them.
Ray was not only a loving father but also a cherished father-in-law and uncle. His warmth and guidance extended to his extended family, creating lasting bonds of love and support. His role as a father-in-law and uncle was marked by the same generosity, compassion, and wisdom that defined his relationships with his immediate family.
Ray’s love for cooking extended beyond his military days, and he became known for always preparing enough to feed an army or a few hundred people. This generous spirit reflected his desire to share not just meals but moments of joy and togetherness with others.
Ray’s inquisitive mind found joy in learning through reading the daily paper and listening to NPR. His generosity and acceptance touched the lives of many, making him a beloved friend and confidant. Whether traveling, socializing with friends, or spending cherished moments with family, Ray’s warmth and compassion left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to share in his life.
Ray’s legacy extends beyond his professional achievements and family bonds; he was a founding parent who played an instrumental role in creating the youth soccer program that has become an integral part of his beloved Packanack community. His vision, passion and commitment to fostering community spirit through sports have left an indelible mark. As a founding parent, Ray's dedication went beyond administrative duties. He was a mentor, coach, and advocate for the values of teamwork, discipline, and sportsmanship. The program, which started as a small initiative, flourished with his guidance, becoming a cherished institution that continues to shape the lives of countless young athletes in the community.
Ray is survived by his loving wife, Linda (nee Wanke), his two daughters: Christine Rogan of Wayne and Holly McAllen and her husband Joseph of Wayne; five grandchildren: Caitlyn Rogan, Liam Rogan, Connor McAllen, Kyra McAllen, Cali Rae McAllen; niece Victory Magee and her husband Henry, niece Elyssa Magee, niece Sabrina Jenkins and her husband Ramon, niece Natasha, nephew Mathew Rapczynski, nephew Kenneth Rapczynski, and sister-in-law Nina Rapczynski. He was predeceased by his brothers, Matthew and Richard.
As we say our goodbyes, let us remember Ray for the extraordinary person he was - a man of integrity, resilience, and boundless love. May his memory live on in our hearts as we celebrate the remarkable life he lived.
In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Alzheimer's Association and Atlantic Visiting Nurses.
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