Donald J. Boonstra, age 76 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Saturday, Dec. 19, 2020. Don has been a Wayne resident since 1980.

Don grew up in Paterson and was born into the family business; Boonstra’s Dairy, located on Union Avenue in Paterson.  The dairy dates back to the early 1800’s and Don was among the fourth generation to operate it.  Needless to say, Don knows his ice cream better than anyone!

Leading into the 1970’s, the dairy industry had changed almost as much as the City of Paterson had changed, and his family made the decision to sell the dairy.  It was then that Don decided to join the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department.  He graduated at the top of his class from the Police Academy, where he was also the oldest guy in the class, at thirty-six years old. He excelled in his new career, rising rapidly through the ranks. He was well respected among his peers and became the “go-to” guy for just about everything. Don enjoyed his career and the many friends he made along the way, but he always remained an ‘ice cream man’ at heart.

Don had been a fan of baseball his whole life.  He played ball for many years, was a devoted Brooklyn Dodgers fan, and later became a loyal METS fan. He was a ‘trivia master,’ with a vast knowledge of all sorts of things. He loved reading history, particularly about WWII, and he recently finished reading the World Almanac.  His brain was like a sponge for all things. It makes sense that he was a huge fan of Jeopardy!, watching the show faithfully each night. He went to a try-out session for the television gameshow in Atlantic City once, but he didn’t fare as well there as he ordinarily did in his own living room. Don also enjoyed doing research on his family history. He knew his Dutch heritage pretty well, so he thought, until his own DNA analysis revealed that he was primarily of Irish decent, with relatives hailing from the County Cork and County Cavan regions of Ireland.

Don met his wife, Suzanne Robinson, at Gino’s on Haledon Ave. in Haledon during the early 1960’s. He was smitten from the moment he met her and he took her to the movies for their first date. He proposed in 1965 and they were married on April 20, 1966 at St. Paul’s Church in Haledon.  After a honeymoon to the Poconos and Atlantic City, they settled into their first home in Haledon. They eventually moved to Wayne in 1980 and have called this their home ever since. They have enjoyed a “great” marriage for more than fifty-four years. More recently, they traveled together to Disney World and had taken several cruises as well. Don has always been very family oriented, teaching his children the importance of keeping close to one another. He was a hard worker and dedicated provider for his family. A generous dad, his children and grandchildren have never wanted for anything from him. He loved spending his free time with his family, and they all have countless great memories. Don had an especially close relationship will all of his grandchildren as well, and he was truly devoted to them. He was proud of all their accomplishments. They each adore him, and will miss him dearly.

Don is survived by his wife Suzanne (nee Robinson) of Wayne, three children; Jennifer Miller and her husband John of Sussex, Kevin Boonstra of Wayne and Brian Boonstra of Wayne, four grandchildren; Lauren Boonstra, John Boonstra, Skyler Boonstra, and Christine Miller, and his dear sister; Carol Schultz and her husband Frank of Secaucus.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Don’s memory would be appreciated to the Friends of Wayne Animals, FOWA Rescue, PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470 or visit www.fowarescue.org.

John Geger, age 61, of Wayne passed away unexpectedly but peacefully on Wednesday, December 16, 2020 as a result of complications from COVID 19.

John was born in Passaic, and grew up in Bloomfield before moving to Wayne more than ten years ago.  He attended Essex Catholic High School in Newark.  During his years in high school, tragedy struck John’s life when his father passed away suddenly and unexpectedly.  Following his graduation from high school, John found work quickly with a company named SEBCO Laundry Systems in Raritan, NJ.  John’s career with SEBCO spanned more than thirty-five years.  He started out at an entry level position and over the years climbed the company ladder to the position of Operations Manager.  John held the position of Operations Manager for several years until his passing.

In 1994, John married the love of his life, Grace Van Der Veen.  The couple moved to Wayne and called it their home for the rest of their lives together.  John and Grace cherished twenty six years of loving and loyal marriage.  Apart from all of John’s talents, hobbies and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  He will always be remembered as a kind, loving, and caring man.  John was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by his family and friends alike.

John is survived by his wife Grace Geger (nee Van Der Veen), one son Jeffrey Sisco, his mother Jean Geger, one sister Jean Loesch and her husband Gerard, two nieces; Brianna Van Der Veen, and Clare Loesch, one nephew Brandon Van Der Veen, his brother-in-law Donald Van Der Veen and his wife Dianne, and his Goddaughter Kaitlyn Cropanese.  He was predeceased by his father John Geger and by his brother James Geger.

Gary P. Ragusa, age 49, of Wayne, passed away at his home on Thursday, December 16, 2020, with loving family at his side at the time of his passing.

In 2015, Gary was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) – a progressive neurodegenerative disease that affects nerve cells in the brain and spinal cord. While his family mourns his loss, they are grateful that his suffering is no more.

The oldest of Andrew and Kathleen Ragusa’s three children, Gary was born at Barnet Hospital in Paterson. His arrival into this world was a little early and since he only weighed two pounds at the time of his birth, his stay at the hospital was a bit longer than average.

As a child, Gary took a great interest in sports. He could always be found at the Wayne P.A.L. playing basketball and also baseball on the traveling team. His favorite sport of all though was hockey. Gary was already on skates when he was just three years old and he was playing street hockey by first grade. To make things even more interesting, Gary’s father Andy was a mechanic who worked on the cars of several professional players from the NHL New Jersey Devils. This relationship gave Gary the rare opportunity to attend almost every Devils home game. One time, they even got four tickets behind the goal for the all-star game. If this didn’t spark Gary’s interest in the sport enough, the fact that he got to meet a lot of those Devils players at their practices at the former Ice World in Totowa surely did. Street hockey games with neighborhood friends in front of his childhood home in Wayne were a regular pastime, and by the time he was eleven or twelve, he was regularly playing games on the ice at Ice World in Totowa and later at the Ice Vault in Wayne. Gary’s love of Hockey continued well into adulthood. He played for the Comets in a league that traveled all over – even to Canada. This continued until his ALS diagnosis. To those close to Gary, including his teammates, his nickname was “Goose” and various fundraisers under the name “Team Goose” have been organized to help pay for Gary’s ongoing medical expenses.

Upon graduation from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1990, Gary started full-time work as a floor manager for N.D. Industries in Oakland. From there he took a job with A&A Oil Company in Wayne doing oil tank environmental remediation. Most recently, he worked for ten years with the Township of Wayne Water Department until his health condition necessitated retirement in 2015.

Gary was the kind of guy who never stood still. Fastidious about everything, you could always find him in his yard making sure it looked pristine. He loved caring for his coy fish which found solitude in the beautiful pond that he made with his own two hands. His son Ryan and all his neighborhood friends loved the zip line that Gary erected in the yard for good times. His cars were always clean, including his classic 1964 Ford Falcon Sprint Convertible which he enjoyed taking on leisurely rides on dry sunny days. In the house, Gary considered it a hobby to be in the kitchen trying cooking up his favorites or trying out new healthy recipes.

Gary’s sons meant the world to him. He loved them so much and did his best to give them memorable childhoods. When they were young, the family took great vacations like cruises and weeks down the shore. Gary enjoyed watching his son, Ryan playing basketball. He enjoyed riding on ATV’s with them and taking them to the shooting range. He’d get right in there with them to play street hockey in front of the house, teaching little Gary how to skate on the pond, and he enjoyed coaching them at the Ice Vault in Wayne and also driving the Zamboni ice grooming machine on the ice rink. He was so proud of his son Ryan who graduated with honors from Passaic County Technical High School.

Gary will always be remembered for his friendly, outgoing nature. Whether it was coaching the kids at the Ice Vault or helping any of his neighbors in need, Gary was the caring kind of a soul you could always count on to be there in your time of need or to make your life a little easier. He will be dearly missed.  

Gary was the loving father of Gary P. Ragusa, Jr. and Ryan M. Ragusa, both of Boonton; much-loved son of Andrew and Kathleen (Becker) Ragusa of Denville; dearest brother of the late Dennis Ragusa (2017), Sister-in-law Tara Ragusa, his sister Crystal Ann and husband Thomas Loweth of Oakland; dear uncle of: Cameron Ragusa, Julianna Ragusa, Tommy Loweth, Jr., and Isabella Loweth; and his beloved girlfriend Chelsea Otte. He is also survived by his grandmother Shirley Remella and numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Gary’s name are asked to consider:

ALS Association – Greater New York Chapter

42 Broadway, Suite 1724

New York, NY 10004

If sending a check, please click here for printable donation form and make your check payable to “ALS Association Greater New York Chapter”

If donating online, click here (als-ny.org)

Daniel J. Biroc died suddenly on December 16, 2020 at Valley Hospital in Ridgewood, NJ. He was the eldest of three sons born to Lucien and Genevieve Biroc in Jersey City NJ. His parents and two brothers, Albert and Richard predeceased him.

He was a forty eight year resident of Wayne and is survived by his wife Frances Bridget to whom he was married for over fifty years, by his step child Jackie Faulkner, her husband Pat and their children Padraig and Grainne, by his step child Barry McArdle and his children Aisling, Cian and Aoife, by the families of his sisters-in-law Monica Boyle, Bernadette McKittrick and Angela Daly, the families of his brothers Albert and Richard and his god-son Marc Richardson.

Daniel was raised in Union City where he was educated in the public school system and graduated from Edison High School. He later attended Pace University in New York City.

He spent most of his career at Chase Manhattan Bank working for 34 years in credit and finance areas of the retail bank. He retired as an Assistant Vice President. Following retirement Dan enjoyed spending time in Sandy Hook at the Jersey shore. He enjoyed gardening and keeping the property in tip top shape.

Daniel was a big sports fan and attended Giant games at the Meadowlands for years. He and his wife enjoyed each other’s company and traveled extensively together. He loved cruising. Being out on the water far from land had a special appeal for him. They vacationed on many Caribbean islands where they enjoyed getting to know the indigenous people. For years while the grandchildren were growing up, the family vacationed in Wildwood Crest where they created lasting memories.

Daniel and Frances Bridget owned a second home in Ireland where they spent time during the summer and at Christmastime with their Irish family who were all very close to Daniel. There were regular family visits and wonderful celebrations. A friend once asked Daniel what he did when in Ireland and he responded with a smile, ‘I answer the door’. He loved his Irish family and felt blest to be part of the love and good feelings they shared with him and with each other.

Daniel enjoyed long term relationships with close friends in Wayne, people he knew for over forty years and considered his American family. Shared dinners at home, dining out, and participating in events like Thanksgiving dinners, super-bowl parties, holiday celebrations and neighborhood get-togethers were among the things he treasured.

He also enjoyed a more recent group of friends known as the ‘Lunch Bunch’ who met at Justin’s restaurant in Hawthorne. They brightened his Fridays with their banter, jokes and sometimes serious conversion.

Those who knew Daniel will remember him as a sincere and caring man.  The world was a better place when he was in it. He will be sorely missed.

Albert V. Ruffini, age 82 of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, Dec. 16, 2020.  He had been a science teacher at Wayne Hills High School for forty-six years.

Al was raised in West Paterson and graduated from Passaic Valley High School with the class 1956. He earned his varsity letter on the golf team at P.V. and went on to be nominated “Class Clown” and “Class Chatterbox!” Al stayed in close contact with many of his former high school classmates and they would gather monthly at the Wayne Hills Diner for breakfast.  He went on to serve in the U.S. Army before pursuing his higher education. He earned degrees from Newark State College, Montclair State, and eventually earned his Ph.D. from Arizona State. He was a proud member of Mensa with an IQ of 156. Al was always enthusiastic about education and knowledge, and his career as a teacher was a perfect fit for him.

Al was active with many benevolent organizations throughout his lifetime.  He was a member of the American Legion, Lions Club International, the Wayne Environmental Commission, the NJ Camp for Blind Children, and he was a member of the Board of Trustees for the Foundation of the Handicapped in Wayne.  He founded the Leo Club, a student organization sponsored by Lions International, with many Wayne student members dedicated to community service. With the Leo Club, Al organized fund raisers for the St. Joseph School for the Blind, Walk for Juvenile Diabetes, and beach cleanups at Asbury Park. He was like the Energizer Bunny; rarely slowing down.  He had a generous spirit as well, and was always enthusiastic to help others in need. Al was a caring and good person in all respects.

Al met his wife, Rosa (nee Russo) at a party in early 1983. He was smitten from the moment he met her, and called her the very next day for a date. They married later that same year, on November 22, 1983 and enjoyed a honeymoon the following summer to Hawaii. They’ve enjoyed thirty-seven years in a loving, fun, and very active marriage. Together, they traveled all over the United States, and Al has visited every state except for Alaska.  They also visited Puerto Rico several times, and took a great trip to Italy a few years back. Al particularly liked playing three card poker in Atlantic City, and they made many trips there as well. He loved life, lived it well, and will be missed by many.

Al is survived by his beloved wife, Rosa of Wayne, daughter Tammi Lynn Ruffini of Canada, two step-children; Deborah Clark of Wayne and Dan Clark of Texas, eight grandchildren; Mikaela and Noelle Wood, Stephanie, John, Robert and Daniel Critchfield, Nicholas and Danielle Clark, and one brother; Robert Ruffini and his wife Barbara of Wayne.

For those wishing to make a donation in Al’s memory, please consider the Wayne Lions Club, 782 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ  07470, or the St. Joseph’s School for the Blind, 761 Summit Ave., Jersey City, NJ 07307.

Robert ”Bob” Eugene Gut ,age 88, passed away peacefully at his home with his family by his side on December 14, 2020.

Bob was born in 1932 to Antonina and Frank Gut in Passaic, NJ. He grew up in Garfield when the family purchased a home on Hudson St. Bob attended Pope Pius XII High School in Passaic where he was a member of the football, basketball and baseball team earning varsity letters all four years and All State honors as well as being captain of each sport. When he was 16, he met the love of his life Florence Serafin at CYO dance. They were married in 1955, and enjoyed a wonderful 65 year marriage. He affectionately called her Flocha and his “Baba” and their love story flourished for all to admire.

Upon graduation from high school, Bob accepted a full football scholarship to the University of Virginia, where he played offensive center and defensive linebacker. He was a sixty minute man playing both sides and was a part of a defense that in 1952 was number one in the nation. Upon graduation, he was commissioned a Second Lieutenant in the U.S. Army and went to Germany to fulfill his ROTC commitment. His wife joined him in 1955 and there their daughter Karen was born. In 1960 they moved to the “country” from Garfield to Wayne and were founding members of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church.

Bob was known for always being on the go with his cherished wife Florence. Be it Aruba, Europe, cruising, a Giant's game, an athletic dinner or LBI summer vacations. They especially loved their weekly trips to Atlantic City where a one night stay would often become three.

 In 1956, Bob returned from Germany and began his professional career teaching physical education, science and driver's education in the Paterson School System at School 21, Central and John F. Kennedy High School until his retirement in 2007. . While teaching at Kennedy, he became the head coach of football, golf, track and tennis. In 1974 his JFK football team had its first undefeated season, going 9-0 and participated in the first state playoffs.

 In 1979, Bob became the Athletic Director at Kennedy High, which under his leadership in the 1980s and 90s, became known as ``Championship High.'' The Boys Basketball team won four County titles in a row, and a sectional title; the Girls team won five straight county titles and the Tournament of Champions. Championships, League and Sectional titles were also won by the Track, Cross Country, Soccer, Baseball and Football teams. As Athletic Director, Mr. Gut has organized the annual John F. Kennedy All Sports Awards Dinner, and he was involved in the creation of the Central-Kennedy Athletic Hall of Fame

In 2000, Bob was named a Passaic County ``Player of the Century'' by the Bergen Record and the Herald News. Coach and athletic director Paul Kelly called Bob, ``the greatest athlete he ever coached--bar none,''

 Bob's professionalism has extended beyond Passaic County. He served for 20 years on the Advisory Board and Eligibility Committee of the NJSIAA governing body and was the chairperson of the Eligibility Committee for 10 years. He served 28 years as the Chairperson of Bowling in the Northern New Jersey Interscholastic League. He has long been a high school referee and umpire and served as President of the Tri-County Basketball Officials Association. He also volunteered his time for Passaic County Coaches Association, the Old Timers Association of Greater Paterson, and The Do-Good House.

He received numerous recognition throughout his career including being inducted into the Hall of Fame of Old Timers Athletic Association, Central-Kennedy and the Director of Athletics NJ.

Sportsmanship has always been his first priority for his players, coaches, and the fans. Bob was proudest of ``Sportsmanship Awards,'' and the NNJIL Sportsmanship banners that Kennedy High continuously won while he was Athletic Director.  He felt sports developed strong moral and ethical standards. His coaching peers across the state nicknamed him ``The Monsignor.''

Whether you knew him as Dad, Pop, Uncle, teacher, coach or monsignor, he will be remembered for his great love of family and his strong moral presence. He was loved by many and respected by all.

Bob was the beloved husband of the late Florence Gut(2020), loving father of Karen Giblin, and her husband Jim of Wayne. He is the cherished grandfather of James Giblin and his wife Victoria of Colonia and Kristen Giblin of Verona NJ.  He leaves great grandchildren Charlotte and James. He is predeceased by siblings Nellie Hetel(2016), Stanley Gut(1979) and Eugene Gut (1976).

Memorial donations to the Do-Good House 195 Union Boulevard, Totowa NJ would be greatly appreciated.

Robert “Bob” “Chief” "Beansie" W. Plavier, passed Sunday, December 13, 2020.

He was born to Peter and Anna Plavier in Paterson. Robert grew up in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School in the city and played baseball and football for the high school teams with the Class of 1956. Although his grandfather was his biggest fan and never missed a game, his father never thought he should play sports because he would get injured for the rest of his life.  His dad refused to sign any sports forms and never saw him play an inning of baseball or saw a single football play during his four years of high school sports where he lettered two years with football and in baseball as well.  Bob played football with a leather helmet, no face mask, no ankle tape, no mouth guard and he said you were “lucky if you had a jock strap.”  On the football team he was a second string center, long snapper, starting defensive linebacker, and played both offense and defense never missing a play. Bob also played softball and basketball in the city leagues because all of his friends were playing.

Bob met Joan in West Side Park when she was skating on a tennis court that was flooded during the winter so people could ice skate. Bob spotted Joan skating and borrowed a pair of skates from a friend so he could skate with her and hopefully meet her.  Their first date was to the movies at the Fabian Theatre in Paterson as per Bob “you always took your best date to the Fabian Theatre as it was a first class place to go.” Lou Costello would have his film world premieres at the Fabian Theatre and the Alexander Hamilton Hotel was next door where all the celebrities attending the premiere would stay.  Bob’s father, who owned P.G. Plavier & Sons Funeral Home in Paterson, and had two limousines, would drive the celebrities around town. Bob recalled his father driving Bella Lugosi at one time. Bob and Joan fell in love and married on June 24, 1961 at the Cedar Cliff Methodist Church in Haledon where Joan taught Sunday school and sang in the choir. They honeymooned at Cape Cod, Massachusetts and had a loving and devoted marriage.  They purchased a home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 1963 where they raised their two children Robert and Suzanne. Bob was a truly devoted husband and held Joan’s hand until her last breath.

During his high school years Bob’s teacher Charlie Temple saw what a good kid Bob was and soon befriended him.  Bob would go to Charlie’s house all the time and his wife, who was a teacher at School 7 in Paterson, “treated him like gold” and would always make them something to eat.  Bob and Charlie would go fishing all over the place including trips to Lake Hopatcong. Often at lunch time during school Charlie would ask Bob to call his mom to tell her they were coming for lunch and the two of them would jump in Charlie’s car and run to Bob’s home to get something  to eat. Charlie Temple got Bob a job at Rocco Press in Paterson where he would work after school and weekends.  This part-time job would turn into a forty-five year career for Bob setting line-o-type at Rocco Press. This typesetting system cast blocks of metal type for individual uses where Bob would enter text on a 90 character keyboard.  Any mistakes were a nightmare so Bob got really good at proofreading.  As a matter of fact he would often call Vander May Funeral Home to alert us there was a typo in our obituaries. Bob was a member of International Typographical Union Local 195 in Paterson. For about seven years Bob worked two full time jobs.  He would go to Rocco Press from 6 AM – 2 PM and then worked as a Park Ranger for Wayne Township from 3:45 PM until Midnight. During the time he worked the two jobs his wife Joan began showing signs of dementia. He finally had to give up working at Rocco Press in 2000 and was able to work as a Park Ranger for a few more years until Joan’s condition worsened and he devoted his time to caring for her needs.

When Bob moved to Wayne one of his friends Bill Butler who lived down the street and a friend Jim Thompson, who Bob used to hang out with in Paterson and also lived in Packanack Lake, invited Bob to join Packanack Fire Company #5. Bob was active with the fire company for thirty years until he needed to direct all his time to caring for his wife Joan. Bob was Chief of Packanack Fire Company #5 from 1979-1980 and again from 1987-1988, he was Assistant Chief for five years, Wayne Township Fire Commissioner for two years, he was President of the Wayne Township Fireman’s Relief from 1995-1996 and 2005-2006, a Life Member of the Fireman’s Relief and Exempt Association, Member of the NJ State Fire Chiefs Association and a member of the NJ State Volunteer Chief’s Association.

Bob was the loving and devoted husband of the late Joan (DeBlock) Plavier (d.2004); devoted father of Robert J. Plavier of Montrose, PA, and Suzanne Amabile and her husband Scott of Wayne; he is the cherished grandfather of Miranda Luce and husband Jason and Hanna Amabile; and great grandfather to Joana Luce; he was the dear brother of the late Peter Plavier of Totowa and Earl T. Plavier (d.2006).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Fire Company #5 would be greatly appreciated.

Marion Mullen, age 88, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home, with loving members of her family by her side, on Friday, December 11, 2020.

Born and raised in New York City, Marion was the fourth of five children born to Joseph and Ethel (nee Pritchard) Faust. She attended Sacred Heart Grammar School in New York City.

After high school graduation, Marion joined the telephone operator pool at AT&T and worked there until marriage and the duty and privilege of raising her own five children became her new calling.

Although they grew up on the same street, it wasn’t until she was a teenager that Marion started seeing a fine gentleman name Thomas Mullen. Tom had just returned from service in the U.S. Army. He was part of a social club called the Happy Boys and it was at one of their events that Marion and Tom really hit it off. Of course, this made Tom the happiest of the Happy Boys and, as time went on, they knew they were meant for each other. They exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, September 16, 1950 at Sacred Heart Church in New York City. Marion was just eighteen years old when she married.

As newlyweds, Marion and Tom’s first home together was an apartment on 60th Street between 9th and 10th Avenue. It was a humble abode with a common bathroom and a bathtub in the kitchen. Humble doesn’t matter though when you’re in love and many happy memories were made there. In 1958, with the family growing, they moved to 416 West 49th Street in an apartment building where Marion’s mom also lived. They stayed there for twenty years and might have stayed longer if the building didn’t collapse one night with one wall completely being destroyed giving a full view into countless apartments. It happened late at night and just Marion and her daughter Debbie were home at the time. Since this happened years before the age of cell phones, Marion’s son Kenny recalls getting a phone call at a local bar telling him to come home because the building collapsed. Thank God, not one person got hurt but it was certainly time to find a new place to live! They moved to 736 10th Ave and stayed there for nine years before moving across the river to Bergenfield, NJ. While living in Bergenfield, sadly, Marion’s beloved husband Tom passed away. In 1995, she moved to Wayne where she lived with her daughter Debbie’s family and son Kenny.

Marion embraced motherhood. To her, there was nothing more important than providing a warm, welcoming place for her family to call home. She was the finest of cooks and she always did her best to be at all the important events in her four sons and one daughter’s lives. Hockey was always a big thing in the Mullen family and she had her younger boys on skates before they could pronounce multisyllabic words. It seemed to pay off as two of her sons – Joey and Brian both enjoyed careers in professional hockey with one of them making it into the National Hockey League Hall of Fame.

In between caring for her kids, Marion worked a part-time job as an usherette at Broadhurst Theater on Broadway while living on 49th Street, and she and her mother Ethel turned their cooking skills into cold cash by working as cooks at Columbia University.

Next to her faith in God, nothing was more precious to Marion than the love and laughter of being with family. Playing games was a great way for everyone to enjoy time together and throughout her entire life games of rummy, poker and pinochle were never in short supply. Her children remember Marion and Tom having friends over every Saturday night to play cards – the room filled with smoke. Marion was also an avid bingo player playing at Sacred Heart Church when living in New York and at the Boys and Girls Club and Wayne PAL when living in New Jersey. Then of course, there were the games of bingo played at home where the stakes would sometimes get pretty high and a winner could walk away from the table with $100 in their pocket. When her own children were younger, she and Tom would rent a bungalow every summer in Rockaway, NY where they would all have a blast. While she and Tom didn’t travel a lot during their lives, one year, they especially enjoyed a trip to Edmonton in Alberta Canada to see the National Hockey League All-Star Game with her two sons competing against each.  

Marion was blessed with eleven grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. She actually lived with her youngest grandson Tom and helped to raise him while his parents went to work every day. Always the loving grandmother, Marion knitted for each of her grandchildren. She also loved it when her grandchildren would call her to find out how to make one of her recipes or just to chat about anything.

Marion will be remembered for her gentle, easy-going nature, her hard work, dedication and love to her family as well as countless friends she made along life’s path. If Marion considered you a friend, you were a true friend. She was selfless as a saint and would do anything for anyone in need. Her family gives thanks for her life and, while they will miss her dearly, they are thankful for the memories and grateful for her new life in a better place.

Marion was the beloved wife of Thomas Mullen, blessed in marriage for 39 years until his passing in 1989. She was the most loving mother of:  Kenneth Mullen of Wayne, Thomas Mullen of Roanoke, VA, Joseph and wife Linda Mullen of Cape Cod, MA, Debra Ann Mullen-Esposito and husband Al of Wayne, and Brian and wife Linda Mullen of Basking Ridge; adored grandmother of: Ryan and wife Stephanie, Joey and wife Ashley, Michael, Jared and wife Kendra, Patrick, Nicole and husband Mat, Jordan and husband Brandon, Chris, Erin, Bryce, and Tom; cherished great-grandmother of: Liam, Sawyer, Ellie, Jenson, and Max; and dear aunt of: John, Donna, and Michael. She was also predeceased by her four siblings: Raymond, Harold and Joseph Faust, and Jane Grasso.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Marion’s name are asked to consider a contribution to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, or online at www.stjude.org.

John Martin Duddy, Sr., age 60, of Pompton Lakes, passed Friday, December 11, 2020 with his wife, Linda, and daughter, Patti, by his side.

He was born in Newark, NJ, to Thomas and Dorothy Duddy. Later his family moved to Irvington where he was raised and graduated from Irvington High School with the Class of 1978.

John’s work history started at the Komishane’s Pharmacy in Irvington, where he was the youngest store manager in the store’s history. In later years, John managed New Jersey Gifts in Madison, NJ, where he also lived. For many of those years, John sold cologne and perfumes as a second job to support his growing family.

John got a job at a new startup software company called Novadigm, where he was initially responsible for packing and shipping the product, and worked his way into several management roles until Novadigm was ultimately bought out by Hewlett Packard. While at HP, John again worked his way through the ranks where he was regularly recognized and awarded for his hard work. John held the title of Customer Advocacy Manager with some of HP’s largest accounts before he was forced to retire after a serious injury in 2017.

John will be remembered as a happy and hard-working man who loved to spend time with his family.

John also enjoyed time as an avid boater for many years, as well as tending to his yearly vegetable garden. Every year for the past 22 years he would take the family up to Lake Wallenpaupack, PA where he kept his boat and where many of the family’s best memories were made. Most of all, John will be remembered as a loving brother and devoted husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather. His family was everything to him and they were a source of great happiness in his life.

John met Linda Carlson at the P.S. Pub in Madison. He asked where she was from and she said Buffalo, NY.  John caught her eye by “claiming” he could cook Buffalo chicken wings which may or may not have been true. John and Linda hit it off immediately that night and became inseparable ever since. Linda met and fell in love with John’s two children Patti and John and always considered them “her” children. Just a short 4 months after meeting, John proposed to Linda on Halloween night and they were married 10 months later at the First Congregational Church in Angola, NY. They were blessed with another son, Ryan, 4 years after they were married. John and Linda were happily married for 32 years.

John was the loving husband of Linda Duddy; devoted father of Patricia A. Duddy and her fiancé Brian Anthony Prawdzik, John M. Duddy, Jr. and Ryan C. Duddy, cherished grandfather of Jasmine M. Duddy, Lauren V. and Bella E. Zarate; the dearly loved great-grandfather of Luther, Hayden and Blake Ordonez-Duddy; beloved brother of Dennis J. Duddy and his wife Lissa, Dorothy E. D’Amore and her husband Phil, and the late Thomas E. Duddy and his wife Debbie, and uncle of several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his mother and father Dorothy and Thomas Duddy.

In lieu of flowers please consider a memorial donation to the Multiple Sclerosis Association or the Christopher & Dana Reeve Foundation would be greatly appreciated in John’s name.

https://www.nationalmssociety.org/Donate

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Dorothy “Aunt Toot” Baisch, age 90, a lifelong resident of Paterson, passed peacefully on Thursday, December 10, 2020.

She was born in Paterson to Robert and Mary Baisch and lived at the family home located at 424 Mc Bride Avenue in Paterson. She graduated from Central High School with the Class of 1947.  After high school she continued her education at Saint Josephs Hospital in Paterson where she earned her degree as a Registered Nurse.  For many years she was a member of the Westside Methodist Church in Paterson and was very devoted to her Christian faith.

On February 21, 1953 Dorothy entered into the US Air Force and served as a nurse and flight nurse. She served during the Korean War and was stationed in Italy and Germany for nine years. She was honorably discharged on September 20, 1961 and received the National Defense Service Medal and the Air Force Longevity Service Award with one Bronze Oak Leaf Cluster in recognition for her service.

After leaving the US Air Force Dorothy, whose heart was truly dedicated to serving others, worked for several area nursing homes including: Chestnut Hill Convalescent Home in Passaic and the Preakness Health Care Center in Wayne. She was always a very private person and didn’t want people to know her business!  Most recently she was living in the Renaissance at Lincoln Park where she continued with her passion of helping others and would visit patients she felt needed companionship. Many will remember her playing bingo, cards, and playing the horses before going outside with her walker to smoke a cigarette.

She was the loving sister of Helen Boqucz of Manahawkin and the late: Charles Baisch, Marjorie Edward, Evelyn Baisch, Ruth Stout, and Robert Baisch. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews and friends.

Maureen “Mo” Kessanis, age 65, of Wayne, passed Sunday, December 6, 2020.

She was born to Stephen and Patricia Buckley in Long Beach, New York.  Maureen was raised in Long Beach and graduated from Stella Maris High School in Rockaway, NY with the Class of 1973. As a young girl Maureen was always pushing the limits while hanging out under the boardwalk or at bonfires at the beach. Her dad, a detective with the NY Police Department, would come down to the beach looking for her and the kids would scramble away saying “here comes Mr. Buckley.”

Maureen continued her education at the Berkeley College in New York where she learned secretarial skills. Her first two jobs were in administration for the Ad Council then the Squibb Corporation both in New York City. Her next career move was as a flight attendant where she earned her wings working for a small charter airline named Sunland. She continued her flight attendant career when she joined Arista Airlines at JFK Airport. She returned to her secretarial roots having worked as the personal assistant to the CEO of the Formica Corporation in Wayne and later again as a personal assistant to the CEO of Atlas Copco in Pine Brook.  Maureen spent the last fifteen years working in the Wayne School System, collimating in the position of Secretary to the Principal at Wayne Valley High School. She retired in September of 2020.

Maureen met her husband George Kessanis while working at Arista Airlines. On his first day at work his boss assigned him a task where he had to organize flight schedules on a large board in the administrative office. As he worked on the board he overheard  three girls behind him giggling. The girls were Maureen, her cousin Mary Pat, and a secretary name Ilene. When George looked over his shoulder and saw Maureen’s face and smile he was sold. Maureen and Mary Pat would often get picked up from their job at JFK Airport by family.  George offered to drive them home as a way to get closer to Maureen.  He would drop both girls off at Mary Pat’s house. One day George was bringing the girls home and suggested they stop for dinner at La Goulet in Atlantic Beach.  When the three of them got back in the car George leaned over, in his gold 1970 Ford Mach 1 Mustang, and kissed Maureen.  Mary Pat screamed! You see Maureen and Mary Pat came from a devoted Irish Catholic family and the public kissing of a Greek was scandalous. Maureen and George fell in love and he proposed marriage at his parents’ home in Wayne during a big party where Maureen’s family was meeting George’s family. They married in a Catholic ceremony on May 3, 1985 at St. Ignatius R.C. church and married again on May 11, 1985 in Athens, Greece. Their connections in the airline industry helped them have an extra special honeymoon.  They flew on a Flying Tigers Cargo 747 to London then Tel Aviv, Israel. George’s dad arranged first class hotel accommodations and tours to the holy land, Jerusalem. They also embarked on a cruise and visited Cyprus, Turkey, and several Greek Islands before finishing in the Port of Alexandria in Egypt, where George’s parents had met.  While in Egypt George showed Maureen where his parents  lived and courted before they were married.  George and Maureen’s marriage was blessed with two children John George and Patricia Anne. There is a family tradition of naming boys John George or George John. The father’s first name is traditionally the middle name given to the child, and the child’s first name is that of his grandfather. This is a tradition that has been ongoing for generations. George and Maureen have had a loving, devoted, and fulfilling marriage of thirty-five years.

Maureen was dedicated to her Catholic Faith and always saying The Rosary.  She was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne where she served as a Eucharistic Minister for several years.

Maureen had a huge personality that would take over a room as soon as she walked in.  She loved to sing, made up songs as she sang, enjoyed dancing, and had a severe addiction to playing Angry Birds.  She was fun, personable, caring, an overly cautious driver, and would admit in a second that her husband was a better cook than she was. Her favorite television shows were Colombo and Murder She Wrote. Her favorite movies were Fargo, Remember the Titans, Sharknado, but her favorite movie of all time was Jaws.  She loved her job at Wayne Valley High School and was always greeted by current and former students anywhere and everywhere she went. Amongst her peers she was known as a prankster and someone who never failed to make you laugh even in the most stressful of work days. Most of all Maureen was proud of her family and will be lovingly remembered as a dedicated wife, mother, and grandmother.

Maureen was the beloved wife of George Kessanis; devoted mother of John George Kessanis and his wife Lisa of Wayne, and Patricia Kessanis and her fiancé Zachary Kozak of Orlando, FL; cherished grandmother of George John “Georgie” Kessanis; loved sister of Stephen “Bookah” Buckley, Christine Fowler and her husband Walter, and James Buckley and his wife Kathy all of Long Beach, NY.

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memorials Processing, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

Please note; due to COVID-19 concerns, the funeral mass on Friday has been cancelled. A memorial mass will be scheduled at a future date.  

Evelyn Mennella (nee Tammaro), 91 of Toms River, died peacefully after a brief illness on Friday, Dec. 4, 2020. She had lived in Paterson before retiring to Toms River twenty five years ago.

Evelyn grew up in Paterson and graduated from Eastside High School. She met Tom Mennella when the two of them were just teenagers, and loved blossomed.  They married on June 25, 1950 at St. Anthony’s Church on Beech St. in Paterson, followed by a honeymoon to Niagara Falls. Their honeymoon was marked by many memorable moments, not the least of which was when Tom left his wedding ring in a men’s room and they had to drive back to retrieve it! Their marriage was “traditional” in the Italian sense; two large families were merged together and this formed their foundation. Holidays and family gatherings included large numbers of people, either on her side or his side of the family, where good times were had by all. They raised their children on Michigan Ave in Paterson, and great memories were made in their neighborhood. Her children recall how wonderful Evelyn’s chicken soup was, as well as her homemade roasted red peppers and broccoli rabe. Evelyn enjoyed bowling and belonged to a bowling league years ago, and she was very good.  She also enjoyed politics and had been a Passaic County Committeewoman for a period of time.  Evelyn loved to travel and she had visited many European destinations, sailed on many cruises, and explored numerous islands with Tom. Evelyn and Tom were blessed to enjoy many years of retirement at the Pine Ridge North condos in Green Acres, Florida. Their friends and neighbors there became like a second family and they enjoyed genuine, strong friendships with all of them.  After Tom passed away in 2010, Evelyn’s neighbors all stepped in to help her.  This truly meant a lot to Evelyn’s children who didn’t have to worry about her being alone in Florida – there was always someone available to help.

Evelyn is survived by her two children; Janice Mennella of Montville, NJ, and Thomas Mennella and his wife Barbara of Montville, NJ, four grandchildren; Timothy and Jennifer Mennella; Brandon Schweizer Sr. (and wife Sharon) and Eric Schweizer (and wife Jillian) and great-grandchildren; Avery, Aubrey, Brandon, Jr., Brett and Alexander, one sister, Frances Cunningham and her husband James, a brother; Anthony Tammaro.  She was predeceased by her husband Thomas in 2010.  She was also predeceased by her infant brother John, by her sister; Lora Messina and brother in law, Sonny Messina, Evelyn is also survived by several devoted nieces and nephews.  

Donations in Evelyn’s memory would be appreciated to the Little Sisters of the Poor, 140 Shepherd Lane, Totowa, NJ 07512.

Yorghi Turkmany, Jr., age 32 of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 2, 2020.

Yorghi was born in West Palm Beach, Florida, the fourth child of George and Siham Turkmany. The first twelve years of his life were spent in Florida where he especially loved saltwater fishing at Lake Worth Beach and swimming in the warm waters of the Atlantic as well as in his family’s pool. Upon becoming a teenager, Yorghi’s family moved to Wayne, NJ. He attended George Washington Middle School and later, Wayne Valley High School.

Yorghi was the epitome of a free spirit. He could decide to take a trip to Florida and, in less than an hour, he’d be on his way leaving everyone wondering “Where did Yorghi go?” But he was a happy-go-lucky, loving kind of free spirit. Always smiling, he had a real gift for making you laugh and no one was better at making you feel better if you were feeling down. He was affectionate and was known among his family for giving his parents kisses on the forehead on a regular basis and bringing them fresh coffee every morning.

Yorghi had a real creative side which manifested itself in various ways. He enjoyed cooking – especially Syrian dishes and no one was better equipped to teach him the ropes in the kitchen than his dear mother Siham whom he loved to share cooking ideas with. From a young age, Yorghi showed a real talent for free-hand sketching and drawing. Later in his life, he took this gift of drawing and used the human body as his favorite canvas in the form of tattoos. At one time or another, just about everyone in his family had been the recipient of one of Yorghi’s tattoos – something they will, no doubt, treasure as a daily reminder of their love for him. He would also gladly give any of his friends a tattoo too!

Yorghi’s favorite ways to unwind usually involved listening to music, no doubt with his favorite Chihuahua named Lucky by his side. He listened mostly to rap, hip-hop, R&B, and the Arabic tunes of his ancestry. He definitely never listened to classical or country. He also was a number one fan of the Dallas Cowboys despite the fact that he didn’t live in Texas and his family always teased him by calling his team the Dallas Cowgirls.

Above all else, Yorghi loved people. He made friends easily and was one of the most helpful people you could have ever met. If you needed a hand, Yorghi would drop everything and be there in a flash to lend a hand or offer support.  

Yorghi was the son of George and Siham (Attieh) Turkmany of Wayne; brother of: Elias Turkmany and wife Victoria of Hackettstown, Bertha Qassar of Wayne, Loris Turkmany of Wayne, Touma Turkmany of Wayne, and Nadima Turkmany of Wayne; nephew of Badia Turkmany of West Palm Beach, FL and numerous other uncles and aunts. He was also the uncle of many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Yorghi’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Michael Massood Sr., age 96 of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, December 2, 2020. He had lived in Paterson, NJ and Fairlawn, NJ before moving to Wayne in 1970.

Michael was born on July 29, 1924 to Louis and Mary (Tashash) Massood in Paterson, New Jersey, the oldest boy of ten children in his family, who emigrated from Aleppo, Syria.

With humble beginnings, he strived for a better life. Michael, a self-educated man, worked for his father’s business, Lou Massood and Sons, delivering fruit in the 1940s. In 1952, after serving in the Army Air Force and having attained the rank of Corporal with a specialty as an Airplane Engine Mechanic and received the Good Conduct Medal during World War II, Michael co-founded MGM Transport Corp., with his brother George Massood. MGM Transport Corp., would grow to be one of the largest furniture distributors in the United States for the next fifty-nine years. Because of Michael’s character and leadership, he grew his business to over 700 employees and operated in 48 states. In 2015, Michael was inducted into the American Home Furnishings Hall of Fame, honoring his legacy of hard work, reliability, integrity and innovation. Michael was also honored with the International Home Furnishings Representatives Association's Pillar of the Industry Award, the City of Hope's National Home Furnishings Industry Man of the Year Award, the Anti-Defamation League's Lifetime Achievement Award and the Greater New York Home Furnishings Association's Hal Meadoff Award and David Druckman Lifetime Achievement Award.

Michael was happiest when his family was gathered around. He enjoyed raising his five children and spending time with family, including his ten grandchildren in addition to nieces, nephews, godchildren, great-grandchildren and friends. Throughout Michael’s life he was truly passionate about his Catholic faith and shared his passion with his family, having started a foundation for cancer research at St. Joseph's Hospital Medical Center in Paterson, N.J. Michael, a talented speaker and writer, who advised his children and grandchildren to be well-spoken noting, “a good speech is like an airplane ride, if the take-off [opening] and landing [conclusion] are memorable, relatable and humorous, the speech will be a great success.” Michael also enjoyed his time on the beach, and had a home in South Florida, where he spent many cold New Jersey winters with family and friends.

Michael will be remembered for his charismatic appeal to all strata of people. It can be said that he never met a stranger, was a friend to everyone, and could light up a room upon his arrival.  He always had a comforting, welcoming smile and was proud to have lived the American Dream. Michael was always ready and willing to share his success and was philanthropic to a fault. He was also a lover of cats and through the years shared his love with Tiger, Buzz, Omar, Molly, and Baby.

Michael is preceded in death by his parents; Louis and Mary, Siblings; Rose Ward, Jeanette Kishfy, Josephine Massood, Albert Massood, George Massood, Louis (Babe) Massood, and wife of forty-seven years; Helen the mother of his children.

Michael was lucky to find love once again and was married to Norma Massood for the past twenty-two years. He was the beloved father of Elias A. Massood and his wife Patricia of North Wildwood,NJ; Michael J. Massood and his wife Vivian of Wayne, NJ; Edward A. Massood of Greensboro, NC, Mary A. Massood of Woodland Park, NJ; and Bernadette S. Varone of Wayne, NJ; cherished grandfather (Gido) of Tiffany Massood Hadzi married to late Kerim of Medfield, MA, and Tara Massood Prevo of Greensboro, NC, and Michael Varone and his wife Jessica of Wayne, NJ, and Biagio Varone of Wayne, NJ, and Elias Massood of Wildwood, NJ, and Michael John Massood and his wife Chelsea of Wayne, NJ, and Nicole Massood of Wildwood, NJ, and Hillary Titus and her fiancé Kevin Bruns of Lincoln Park, NJ, and Chris Massood and his fiancé Cara Allison of Little Falls, NJ, and Matthew Varone of Wayne, NJ, and dearly loved great-grandfather (G-Gido) of Edward, Aiden, Mason, Alivia, Michael, Joseph, and Genevieve. He was the dear brother of Gloria Massoud, Joseph Massood and Shirley Massood. He was the beloved step-father of Edward Shrek and his wife Dawn of Dingman’s Ferry, PA and Thomas Shrek and his wife Jennifer of Hawley, PA.

In lieu of flowers please consider Mary Help of Christians in North Haledon or the City of Hope Cancer Center.

Frances R. Ivankovic (nee Shaffer) of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, December 2, 2020. She has lived in Wayne since 1966.

Frances was born and raised in Lafayette, NJ.  After graduating from nursing school, she began a career as a Registered Nurse at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson. She later trader her nurse’s uniform to become a full-time mother when her son, John, was born.

Frances enjoyed ballroom dancing and in 1962, she went with some fellow nurses to New York City. It was here that she met Anton Ivankovic.  It didn’t take long for them to realize that they were great dance partners, and love blossomed. They married on September 14, 1963 at St. Bonaventure RC Church in Paterson and their love has endured for more than fifty-seven years since.  They moved to Wayne in 1966 and planted deep roots.  Frances enjoyed maintaining the landscaping around their home, growing flowers, and she always kept an immaculate home.  Together with Anton, their Catholic faith was foundational to their marriage and they quickly became active members of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne. Frances taught CCD and served as a Eucharistic Minister, volunteering at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson for many years. She and Anton also enjoyed travelling and had visited Croatia, Mexico, Israel, Italy, and the island of St. Maarten was her favorite destination.

Frances was a wonderful homemaker.  She enjoyed hosting family gatherings and holidays. She was a wonderful cook who made the best fruit salad and was a master at cooking chicken. Frances was also a very nurturing mother to her son, John. She was devoted to him and taught him so many things.  She was a prolific reader herself, and she would often read to John, starting when he was a small baby. She successfully taught John to read before he entered preschool, and he has enjoyed reading throughout his lifetime as well.  She inspired John to look at life as a Mandala; a gift he will always cherish.

Frances is survived by her loving husband Anton of Wayne, their son John of Wayne, and two sisters; Eleanor Shaffer and Helen Bridges of Hampton Township, NJ, and two nieces; Sharon Bridges-Marino of Branchville, NJ, and Michele Bridges-Lopez of State College, PA.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Celia Rivas-Plata, age 42, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 2, 2020 after a courageous battle with cancer and while receiving the loving care of her family.

Celia was born in Queens, NY and was the older of two children to Adolfo and Mirtha Rivas-Plata.  In 1992, at the age of fourteen, Celia’s family moved to New Jersey and settled in the town of Wayne.  Shortly after settling in Wayne, Celia attended Wayne Valley High School where she made long lasting friendships and participated in the high school’s theatre productions as an actress and vocalist.

Following her high school graduation in 1996, Celia attended Bergen Community College followed by the Berdan Institute in Wayne where she earned her certification in Medical Billing.

Celia found work quickly after receiving her certification at Wayne Hematology And Oncology with Dr. Harish Shah.  She was employed there as a Medical Biller for about three years.  Celia was then offered another position, again as a Medical Biller, with Hackensack University Medical Center.  Celia’s career at Hackensack Medical Center spanned over ten years.  In 2013 Celia was diagnosed with Breast Cancer which forced her to stop working and begin her courageous battle.

In 2002 Celia met the light of her life when her son Mateo was born.  Being a mother was truly Celia’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.  Celia was a wonderfully dedicated mother and always there for her son.  Celia was a “Happy Go Lucky” kind of lady whom everyone seemed to know and love.  Throughout the years, she cherished planning parties and holidays with her friends and family.  She was known affectionately to her family and friends as the “Super Cel” because of her willingness to defend those who couldn’t stick up for themselves.  Celia was a generous person willing to help anyone in any way that she could.  She was wonderfully funny and often the life of the party.  Although she was funny, Celia was also outspoken and was never afraid to let you know what she thought or how she felt.  People always knew where they stood with Celia.  Apart from all of Celia’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Celia than providing for her son and spending time with her family and friends.  Celia was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Celia is survived by her son Mateo Mirko of Wayne, her mother Mirtha Rivas-Plata of Wayne, her brother Adolfo Rivas-Plata and his fiancé Michelle Fontanella of Woodland Park, her uncle William Revilla and his wife Maria of Wayne, her cousin Kathleen Hooban and her husband Joseph of Wayne, extended family in Arizona, Florida, New Jersey and New York, and her best friends, Marie Macrone, Bree Kelly and Lauren Bruno. Celia was also “Fairy Godmother” to Emma Jane Sheldon.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Celia’s name are asked to consider Fighting Pretty, 2300 SW 1st Ave Suite 104, Portland, OR 97201.  https://www.fightingpretty.org/

Jacqueline Scott Lenda (Hyer), age 88, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 1, 2020.

Jacqueline was born in Glen Ridge in 1932 and was the only child to Jackson and Carol Hyer. While growing up, her family moved to Roseland where she attended Grover Cleveland High School and graduated in the class of 1950. This is where Jackie met the love of her life, Alfred Lenda. Following her graduation, Jackie found work quickly at a local bank, eventually working her way up to Manager at a bank in Northern NJ. Shortly thereafter Jackie and Alfred decided to get married. The couple eventually moved to Fort Hood Texas for a time while Alfred was serving with the United States Army. Following Alfred’s honorable discharge in 1953, the couple moved back to New Jersey and settled in the town of Wayne. Al and Jackie called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together.

Tragedy struck Jackie in the middle of her life when she suffered a debilitating stroke, rendering her permanently disabled. However, Jackie’s robust will and positive attitude gave her the strength to continue. Although she never returned to the workplace, she became an avid gardener. Jackie spent endless hours and days planting flowers all around her home. The couple’s front and back yards could pass for botanical gardens. Jackie was also a wonderfully generous person and loved animals, donating regularly to the ASPCA. Jackie and Alfred cherished over sixty years of loving and loyal marriage together until Alfred’s passing in December of 2014.

Jackie was a warmhearted person, always generous and willing to help anyone in any way she could. She was witty and funny, yet she was strong willed and the kind of person who would let you know exactly how she felt. Jackie was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Jacqueline was predeceased by her husband Alfred Lenda in 2014, and by her parents; Jackson and Carol Hyer.

Those wishing to make a gesture of sympathy are asked to consider donations in Jacqueline’s name to ASPCA 424 East 92nd St, New York, NY 10128-*6804, https://www.aspca.org

Memorial visitation will be held from 1-3 PM on Saturday, January 9, 2020 at the Vander May Wayne Colonial Funeral Home, 567 Ratzer Road, Wayne. A 3 PM Funeral Service will be held at the conclusion of the visitation hours.

William “Bill” J. Daddio, Jr., age 74, of Ortley Beach, passed Monday, November 30, 2020

Bill was born in Newark to William Sr. and Elizabeth Daddio.  He was raised in Belleville and the family moved to Nutley where Bill would graduate from Nutley High School with the Class of 1964. After Nutley he lived in Rockaway and Mount Olive before moving to Ortley Beach in retirement.

While in high school Bill’s dad helped him get a job at DeLuxe Check Printing and he worked at DeLuxe for the next forty years.  Bill met Doris Quint at DeLuxe and they were friends for many years.  Bill and Doris married on November 24, 2003. Bill always put Doris first and to this day she says she couldn’t have married a better man.

Bill will be remembered as a quiet, strong, caring and loving man. He enjoyed sports and was a loyal New York Yankee fan that held season tickets for many years. He also enjoyed playing golf and when it came to football he was a Dallas Cowboys fan. Bill will be dearly missed by his two birds a Conure Parrot named Sammy and a Cockatiel named Kiwi.

Bill was the loving husband of seventeen years to Doris; devoted father of Shannon Daddio of Columbia, SC and Drew Daddio of Carlsbad, CA; he was the loved brother of Marilyn Peters and her husband Thomas of Nutley and uncle to their children Heather and Tracy.

For those inclined to make a memorial donation in Bill’s memory are asked to consider St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, Memphis, TN.

Dorothy “Dottie” “Maka” A.  Meurer, age 75, of Wayne (35 years), Sunrise Beach, Forked River (15 years), and Englewood, Florida (10 years), passed peacefully at her son’s home in Ridgefield on Saturday, November 28, 2020 with the comfort of family by her side.

Dorothy was a graduate of Pompton Lakes High School with the Class of 1963. During her senior year she was voted Cardinal Queen – Ms. Pompton Lakes and served as Treasurer of her class. During her high school years she met the love of her life Jack Meurer. Jack was a few years older than Dottie and would wait for her at The Cardinal – a sweet shop across from the high school. They fell deeply in love and Jack proposed marriage in his 1957 yellow and white Ford.  They were married by Dottie’s cousin Fr. Ray McKeon at Saint Marys Church in Pompton Lakes on May 2, 1964.  They honeymooned at The Sands Hotel in Miami Beach Florida and their marriage was blessed with two children Bobby and Dana.

Dottie’s working life includes her first job working at a shoe store in Pompton Lakes. After high school she got a secretarial job at the State Rehabilitation Center in Paterson having also worked as a crossing guard for the Township of Wayne and in a secretarial capacity at Jersey Specialty in Wayne.  For several years she worked as an executive administrative assistant at the Corporate World Headquarters of the Toshiba America Corporation in Totowa. Before retiring in 2000 Dottie worked as a trade show manager for the Reed Elsenier Corporation where she was responsible for getting vendors to commit to booths and corporate sponsorships at both national and international trade shows.

She will be lovingly remembered for her friendly and kind hearted personality.  She had a smile and a hug for just about everyone she met and was extremely sociable. Most of all she adored her family and especially her grandchildren.  Dottie was given the nickname Maka because her granddaughter Shayne couldn’t pronounce the word grandma but instead referred to Dottie as Maka. The name stuck and she is referred to as Maka to this day.

Dottie was the loving wife of fifty-six years to Jack Meurer; devoted mother of Bobby Meurer and his wife Isabelle of Ridgefield and Dana McNally of Bradley Beach; she was the cherished grandmother of Joseph, Nicholas, Gianna, and Francesca Meurer and Shayne, Brady, and Dale McNally; she was also the dearly loved sister of the late Bill and John Potter.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Salvation Army would be greatly appreciated.

Clifford Alan Vander Have, age 74, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, November 28, 2020.

Cliff was born in Paterson and raised in Prospect Park. After graduating from Manchester High School in Haledon, he earned his bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University.

Cliff enjoyed a career in the insurance industry and, upon retirement, he worked as a substitute teacher in the Wayne and North Haledon Public Schools. He was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church of Franklin Lakes.

He will be lovingly remembered for his kind hearted personality and devotion to his wife, whom he told he loved countless times a day.  His family will never forget the happiness he had as Janet and he celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in October.  He was a wonderful father who gave great advice, was always there to help, be our biggest fan and of course, have a hug ready when we needed it.  His hugs will be missed immensely, anyone who met him agreed, he gave the very best ones.  The happiness he had when with his granddaughters couldn’t be beat.  He thought they were the best, and they knew their Pop was the best too.

Clifford was the beloved husband of Janet Vander Have (nee Van Peenen); loving father of Kimberly Ann Vander Have of Wayne and Karen Lynn and husband Michael Soliman of Hawthorne; dear grandfather of: Emma Kate Soliman and Hailey Grace Soliman; dear brother of Jaynce and husband Anthony Van Grouw.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Clifford’s name are asked to consider the Netherland Reformed Christian School Endowment Fund, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444, or a charity of your choice.

Judith Prol, age 73, of Allendale, passed away on Thursday, November 26, 2020.

Judy was born in Paterson, raised in Prospect Park until the age of six, then she moved to Hawthorne where she lived the most of her life until moving to Allendale in 2019.

In her younger days Judy worked for Western Union and also as a home health aide.

Judy enjoyed embroidering and loved to bake, no doubt oftentimes in the company of her pet cockatoo, affectionately named Peaches, as well as other exotic birds that she had as pets throughout her lifetime.

Judy was a member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church of Franklin Lakes. She used her crocheting skills to make blankets which she would donate to the Lois Circle, a group in the church which she enjoyed so much being a part of.

Judy was the loving sister of Geraldine and her husband Rodney Verblaauw of Wyckoff, NJ, dear aunt of two nieces, two nephews and their spouses, and dear great-aunt of fifteen great-nieces and great-nephews. She was predeceased by her mother Geraldine Prol (Den Braven) in 1999 and her father Henry Prol in 2004.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Judith’s name are asked to consider the Netherlands Reformed Christian School Endowment Fund, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Rogelio Deibe, “Roger”, age 59 of Wayne, passed away suddenly on Nov. 25, 2020.  He was predeceased by his parents Marina and Rogelio I. Deibe.

Roger was born on March 11, 1961 in Havana, Cuba, and moved to the United States at the age of nine.  He attended St. Mary’s High School in Elizabeth, NJ where he was a member of the varsity basketball team.  He received his Bachelor of Science degree in Diagnostic Medical Imaging from SUNY Brooklyn Health Sciences Center and worked in several hospitals and doctors’ offices in New York and New Jersey.  He was a truly gifted vascular technician.  He was a member of ARDMS and previously the Knights of Columbus.

Roger had a passion for music of all kinds and enjoyed cooking his native Cuban foods.  He was an avid sports fan, especially the New York JETS.

Roger is survived by his beloved son Jared, extended family in Cuba, and his dear friends Rolando and Terry Pacheco.

Memorial donations can be made to the MS Center, Holy Name Medical Center Foundation, 718 Teaneck Road, Teaneck NJ 07666, holyname.org.

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John Yeung, age 65 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Wednesday, Nov. 25, 2020.

Born in Hong Kong, John came to America when he was just eight years old.  His family was sponsored by his aunt, who owned a Chinese Laundry in Guttenberg, NJ.  They lived in an apartment behind the laundry for a short while before moving to Union City, NJ.  John graduated from Union Hill High School and went on to earn his Bachelor’s Degree in Business Administration from Rutgers University.  He went on to enjoy a career in sales, working for companies like NCR, AT&T, Lucent Technologies, Cablevision, and Verizon. He enjoyed lots of global travel as a part of his career, and he’s been to many countries around the globe.

John was a huge sports fan, rooting for his beloved NY GIANTS and NY YANKEES. He liked going to games and spending time with friends and family in the stands. He also enjoyed bowling and had belonged to a bowling league for many years.  He also liked working on his cars; fixing, maintaining, and customizing.  Relaxing at the Jersey Shore was also a favorite pastime, and he spent many days on the beach in Belmar with his family.  He loved all kinds of food and could usually out-eat just about anyone! He liked Italian food, Chinese food, and hot dogs, joined by either a nice cold beer or a glass of wine. John’s greatest love, of course, was his daughter Stefanie.  He was an outstanding dad, always active in her schooling and always supportive of her extracurricular activities. Stefanie was a cheerleader, and John always attended games and competitions throughout the years. He also enjoyed going on ski trips with Stefanie and other family members. Stefanie will always be his little girl, and she will surely miss him dearly.  

John is survived by his beloved daughter Stefanie of Hawthorne, five brothers; George and his wife Anh of Fairfax, VA, James and his wife Bellie of McLean, VA, David and his wife Esther of North Brunswick, NJ, William of Waldwick, NJ, and Edward and his wife Rosemary of Alexandria, VA, many nieces and nephews including Eric Yeung of New York, a dear cousin Bernice Eng of Rumson, NJ, and he remained dear friends with his former wife, Patricia Yeung of Wayne.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the American Cancer Society would be appreciated.

Maria Amanda Lagala

Loving Wife, Mother, Grandmother, and devout Catholic. Maria Amanda Lagala age 82 passed away on Tuesday, November 24, 2020. Maria was born June 1, 1938 in Pitalito-Huila, Colombia, South America. She graduated from the Universidad de Valle in Cali where she studied and worked as a medical technician. Shortly after moving to Manhattan, NY, she met her husband of 56 years, Neil Lagala. They married in 1964 and lived in Hawthorne Heights, NJ. where they raised their two daughters, Linda & Lisa. Maria and her husband traveled extensively throughout the U.S., Europe, South America, Mexico and Morocco.

Maria was an active member of the V.F.W. Ladies Auxiliary Post #1593. She volunteered to visit and cheer disabled veterans at the Paramus, NJ Veterans Home, as well as, assisting with other members to play bingo games and provide shows to entertain larger groups of veterans.

She had a personal interest and devotion to the Lady of Guadalupe and visited her shrine in Mexico City on two separate occasions, including one on the Feast Day. She is survived by her brother Tainé Calderón, her husband Neil, her daughter Linda Lagala-Spano and husband John Spano of Myrtle Beach, SC, her daughter Lisa Keiser and husband David Keiser of Hawthorne, NJ, and 6 very loved grandchildren, Nicholas, Jacklyn, Christopher, Gianna, Amanda and Bradley.

During her final days she would often softly say, “I want to go home now.” She is now home. She will be missed, but she is not gone because she is always in our hearts.

Willy Hector Marcel De Moor, age 77, of Wayne, passed Monday, November 23, 2020.

He was born to Roger and Andrea De Moor in Waregem, Belgium and moved to the United States when he was about 2 ½ years old.  The family settled in Lavonia, Georgia. Willy’s parents were unhappy in the United States and moved back to Belgium but there was no work to be found and they soon moved back to the United States.  This time they settled in a home at 26th and 6th in Paterson, New Jersey. Willy went on to graduate from Eastside High School where he played on the football team and was voted “Most Athletic.”

Much of Willy’s working career was spent in the retail industry.  He worked for stores such as Alexanders, Kmart, and Kids R Us for many years. Eventually he purchased his own business and was the proprietor of Pilgrim Liquors in Verona for several years before retiring in 2018.

Willy met the love of his life while working at K-Mart.  Mary De Matteo worked in the offices at K-Mart and Willy was a buyer.  He spotted Mary and said “that woman is going to change my life!”  Their first date was to a Mexican restaurant in Pelham, New York. They married at St. John The Baptist Church in Yonkers on August 15, 1982 and they honeymooned in Acapulco, Mexico. They have had a loving and caring marriage of thirty-eight years. Many would say they were “cute together.”

Many who knew him will remember he was a loving, family man who didn’t like being told what to do!  One of his favorite sayings was “I hate this!”  When Willy didn’t like something there was no gray area.  He hated some very specific words too: dating, closure, passing away, and TRUMP. He truly enjoyed an evening cocktail and enjoyed reading, music and stamp collecting. Willy was a sports fan and enjoyed watching the Pittsburgh Steelers and Pittsburgh Pirates. He would talk about how the first football game he saw was the NY Giants vs. the Pittsburgh Steelers.  The Giants won but Willy thought the Steelers were trying so hard his heart opened to them and never let go. He also enjoyed watching his children play sports and was the dad who would yell out the moment everyone else seemed to go quiet. He was also the dad who would ask the referee where he put his seeing-eye dog and would start singing "turn out the lights, the party’s over" when his child’s team was inevitably going to win.

Willy was the loving husband of thirty-eight years to Mary De Moor; devoted father of Debra and her husband Kurt Ludwig of Milltown, Diana and her husband Jordan Brown of Wayne, Joanna “Joni” and her husband James Audenried of Wayne, Michael De Moor of Wayne; he was the cherished grandfather of Sara, Allie, Jack, Luke, James, and Daniel Will.

Ryan Francis Plateroti, age 27, of Lincoln Park, passed in his sleep on Monday, November 23, 2020.

Ryan was born to Frank and Mary Ann Plateroti in Hackettstown and was raised in Lincoln Park. He graduated from DePaul Catholic High School with the Class of 2011. He continued his education at William Paterson Univeristy in Wayne where he received bachelor’s degrees in Political Science, Pre-Law, and Political Philosophy. Ryan was a certified paralegal and studying to take the LSTAT in order to gain admission to law school.

He worked as an assistant at the dental offices of John R. Mully, DMD, PA in Saddle Brook and as a Manager for 24hour Fitness in Wayne through 2019.

Ryan will be remembered for his warm hearted, caring, and compassionate way.  He had a great sense of humor and an acumen for all types of electronics and computers.

Ryan was the loving son of Frank Plateroti and the late Mary Ann Plateroti (d.1996); he was the dearly loved brother of Catherine and her husband Anthony Troncillito of Highland Hills, NY and Nicholas Mully of Lincoln Park. He also be missed by his beloved godfather and Uncle John Mully of Lincoln Park. Ryan was greeted in Heaven by his dearly loved Bichon Frise dog Lulu who passed earlier this year.

In lieu of flowers please consider a memorial donation to: Children’s Aid and Family Services. (please click this link to access their donation page)

Susan Maffei, age 92, of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, November 22, 2020 while in the loving presence of her family.

Susan was born in Wanaque and raised there for the early part of her childhood before moving to Paterson.

After attending Paterson’s Central High School, Susan went to school to become a licensed beautician. Her first job in her chosen profession was joining her sister Josephine at her beauty shop in Fair Lawn.

As a young lady, Susan enjoyed singing. Consequently, she was once asked to sing at a wedding which took place at the Haledon Fire Department. It was there that she met a handsome fireman named David Maffei. They soon fell in love and married on Sunday, September 14, 1947 at St. Michael’s Church in Paterson. After a honeymoon in Niagara Falls, they settled into their first home together in Haledon.

Soon after marriage, Susan and David were blessed with two beautiful daughters, Linda and Nancy. Susan put away her beauty shop scissors so that she could focus all of her loving care on raising her growing daughters. She enjoyed being home with them and her favorite room in the house was her kitchen. She was an outstanding cook and baker. When asked what their favorite recipes were that Mom made, Linda and Nancy emphatically exclaimed “Her eggplant parmigiana, lasagna, Easter pies….actually, everything!” If you closed your eyes for five seconds, she’d have a pie crust in the pan, and it would be made from scratch.

After her family was grown Susan picked up those beauty shop scissors again. She worked at A Brand New Touch Beauty Salon in Haledon for twenty-three years from 1981 until permanently retiring in 2004.

With extra spare time, Sue concentrated her time on some of her other favorite pastimes – shopping and keeping her house spotless. She was a shopping queen who loved the thrill of finding a great bargain.

For Susan, life was all about faith, family, and friends. She and her husband David were faithful parishioners of St. Gerard’s Church in Paterson while living in Haledon from 1947 to 1998. When her beloved husband passed away that year, Susan moved to Wayne and began attending Our Lady of Consolation Church. Susan’s faith was dear to her and, among other things, it taught her the virtues of caring for others. She would regularly visit shut-inns in nursing homes or go shopping for friends who couldn’t go on their own. Susan loved her family dearly and they will miss the simple things that made her special like seeing her, sharing time with her in the kitchen, and regularly talking with her on the phone.

Susan was the beloved wife of the late David P. Maffei, blessed in marriage for 50 years until his passing in 1998. She was the much-loved mother of Linda Di Mezza and husband Martin of Wayne, and Nancy Adams and husband Larry of Venice, Florida. She also leaves behind five step-grandchildren, thirteen step-great-grandchildren, and four step-great-great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her two sisters and brother: Josephine Yocamelli, Mary Aslan, and Andrew Della Sala; and one step-grandchild.      

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Susan’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959. To donate online click here www.stjude.org.

Michael A. Voglis, age 92, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, November 20, 2020.

Michalis (Michael) Athanasios Voglis, was born just outside of Athens, Greece on November 4, 1928, although his Mother swore it was November 5th because she heard the clock strike twelve right before the second son of Athanasios and Ifigenia Voglis was born.

In Greece, each child is educated in a second language from grade school through high school.  Mike attended the French school. Upon graduation he planned to go to Paris for college. His brother George, attended the English school and went to college in the U.S. He convinced Mike to go to America instead.

His first job when he arrived in America was working in his uncle’s restaurant, The Oritani Diner in Hackensack, New Jersey. He lived with his aunt and uncle and cousins Alice, George, and Michael Lendrihas.

He began his college education at Bergen Junior Community College (now the Teaneck campus of Fairleigh Dickinson). It was there he met the love of his life, Joan Sheldon. Joan was a nursing student at Barnert Hospital in Paterson and met Mike while taking required courses at Bergen Junior.

Their real chemistry happened in the Student Lounge where the magic of a juke box and a dashing Greek dancer charmed all the ladies; but it was Joan who captured his heart. And the dancing led to a 68-year marriage, six children, eleven grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.

After college graduation, Mike obtained full-time employment at Givaudan Corporation in Clifton, NJ. During his tenure there, he served as the Union President for the Oil, Chemical and Atomic Workers International Union, Local 8-559, AFL-CIO, Delawanna, NJ. He was the go-to guy for his co-workers. He successfully negotiated several contracts and made sure everyone got the best possible outcomes. It was at Givaudan he received the moniker, “Greek.” He retired after 45 years of employment and was honored with a huge retirement party.

The family home in Wayne was established in 1960 after he won $1,500 in the lottery. Mike and Joan found a three-bedroom, one bath home on a dirt road in Wayne. Part of the house dated back to the 1800s and had no foundation. That didn’t stop Mike. He hand-dug a basement, famously starting the process with a soup spoon, affectionately known as “the dirt spoon.” After the basement was adequately deep, the house was raised and a new foundation was built. Home improvements continued for the next year with the help of his father-in-law, Walter Sheldon. In 1962, the family moved from 400 Broadway in Paterson, NJ to what is now affectionately known as “63.”

Mike also loved his dog, Jet. Jet returned that love tenfold. Whenever he came home, Jet would wag her tail and howl “Hello.” Really, she actually said that! We all believe Jet was among the first to greet Dad in Heaven.

He also loved soccer. He was an avid fan of The Cosmos and even got to see the great Pelé play. In 1977, he served as head coach for The Getaways, a Wayne PAL soccer team. The previous season, they had the worst record in the league, but Mike was determined to have a winning season and actively scouted and recruited players from Wayne, including his sons Tom and John. His roster was so strong, they had a 15-1 season and played in the Championship Game. It was the season’s only loss and ironically, to a team called The Acropolis!

His passion for fishing, either in a small brook, Toms Lake, the Atlantic Ocean or Aegean Sea was shared with his family. All of his children have fishing with Dad memories. Sometimes Mike would strip leaves off branches from the family’s willow tree and add a string so everyone could have a fishing pole. Other times it was chartered fishing expeditions off Point Pleasant. In Greece, it could be snorkeling in the sea to find octopus for dinner. And he could fillet a fish like a five-star chef.

Like Zorba, Mike’s love of life included dancing, cooking, and being with family. He was a pragmatic man, not impressed with “things.” It was not unusual to see him under a car on a Saturday changing his own oil or fixing a broken fuel pump. He truly cared more about people than things and always lent a helping hand to anyone who needed it.

One undeniable fact, he deeply loved Joan. It is said the greatest gift a man can give his children is to love their mother. He blessed us all with that knowledge.

Surviving are his wife, Joan (nee) Sheldon. Children: Linda Gottfried (Brad), Diane Hewitt (Bill, d. 2017), Nancy Dann (Roger), Tom Voglis and John Voglis. His son Michael Voglis predeceased in 1984. Grandchildren: Thomas Nieman (Janine) and Michael Nieman (Joanne), Benjamin Berry, Stephanie Berry (Jordan Malenke), Steven Dann (Janice), Emily and Kevin Dann, Michael and Melissa Voglis, Derek and Erika Voglis. Great-Grandchildren: Aiden and Amelia Nieman, Aleah Voglis, Adina and Elias Nieman, Everly and Jack Malenke.

Willie Mae Lamb (nee Whatley), age 91 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Thursday, Nov. 19, 2020. She had lived in Queens, NY before moving to Wayne in 2018.

Willie Mae was born in Columbus, Georgia, one of seven children in her family. She grew up very poor in the deep South and strived for a better life. After graduating high school in the late 1940’s, she headed north to Brooklyn, New York and joined her older sister in the big city. On the day she arrived in New York, she met Henry Lamb while moving into her sister’s apartment.  The two of them began dating and quickly fell in love.  They married on February 11, 1950 and settled in with family in Bedford-Stuyvesant, Brooklyn. They eventually moved and purchased a home in Hollis, Queens, raising their three girls. They enjoyed a very loving marriage of thirty-five years with summer vacations to the Poconos and lots of travel. Willie Mae also enjoyed more than a few trips to Atlantic City with her girlfriends. Living in New York, they were also fortunate to see several live concerts, including Whitney Houston, Diana Ross, Johnny Mathis, Anita Baker, Kenny G, Tracy Chapman, and many more. Sadly, Henry passed in 1985 while they were vacationing in Hawaii. This was a tragic loss for Willie Mae, but with the love and support of her family, she endured.

Willie Mae was at her happiest when her family was gathered around.  She always hosted Thanksgiving at her home and she was an excellent cook.  If you were lucky enough to eat her lasagna, banana pudding, or sweet potato pie, you’d never forget it! Willie Mae’s favorite ‘meal’ was, of course, dessert! She couldn’t pass up a slice of cake or anything sweet.

Willie Mae’s favorite hobby was kids!  She adored children and, while raising her own kids in Queens, she became a sort of ‘neighborhood mom’ to lots of other kids, watching after many of them. Throughout her life, she had a very loving and nurturing disposition. Her grandsons are among the lucky recipients of her love, and they have enjoyed a very close relationship with her. She traveled to New Jersey practically every week to help her daughter Sophiea take care of the boys for over seventeen years.  She became a permanent resident of Wayne upon selling her home in Queens.  Since living with her grandsons and granddog Benny, their bond grew even stronger. They will always love her and miss her dearly.

Willie Mae is survived by two daughters; Denise Martin and her husband Clarence of Jacksonville, FL, and Sophiea Lamb-de Lagarde and her husband Adrian of Wayne, two grandsons; Christopher Henry de Lagarde and Maxwell Xavier de Lagarde of Wayne, three sisters; Mattie Lee Bradley, Mary Alice Clark, and Carrie Zellner, all of Michigan.  Willie Mae was predeceased by her daughter, Rosemarie Lamb in 2012.

William J. Post, age 76 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, Nov. 18, 2020. He was the founder of W.J. Post, Inc., Mechanical Contractors.

Raised in Clifton, Bill graduated from Clifton High School in 1962 and began working as a Union Pipefitter. During the 1960’s, he served in the U.S. Army as a Sergeant in a Military Police unit and later in the National Guard. He joined the Clifton Special Police and headed up that unit between 1967 and 1986.

Many people knew Bill professionally as the owner of W. J. Post Mechanical Contractors.  He started the company in 1977 and has earned the respect of many throughout the years and he’s made many friends along the way.

Bill was a generous and selfless man with a ‘larger than life’ personality.  He lived for his family and his friends, and he had friends from all walks of life who he truly cared about. The world would be a better place if there were more people like Bill. As his son said; “If I could be half the man my father was, I would be doing alright.” Bill was also an avid fisherman whose best days were spent aboard his boat out on the Atlantic Ocean. He absolutely loved fishing and always looked forward to the next trip!

Bill was especially devoted to his wife, Louise (nee Hopphan).  They met in Clifton during the 1960’s and Bill proposed soon after.  They were married on April 1, 1967 at Holy Name Church in Garfield, but Bill was unable to take time off from work to enjoy a honeymoon. That didn’t stop them from starting a family. They eventually welcomed three boys, raising them at their home in Wayne. Bill and Louise were inseparable during the fifty-three years since their marriage. They were meant to be, and enjoyed doing everything together. Louise will miss him dearly.

Bill was tragically predeceased by his son; Charles “Chucky” Post in 2011.  He is survived by his beloved wife Louise of Wayne, by their two sons; William Jr. and his wife Petra of Whippany, and Robert “Bobby” of Woodland Park, two grandchildren; William III and Amanda of Whippany, his sister-in-law; Dorothy Simon of Oakland, a nephew; William Simon of Oakland, and one sister; Helen Berkenbush of Clifton.

Donations in Bill’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Laurie C. Parnau (nee Campbell), age 67, originally of Union passed away peacefully on Monday, November 16, 2020 in her home surrounded by her loving family after a courageous battle with cancer.

Laurie was raised in Union and was the oldest of three children to William and Nancy Campbell.  She attended Union High School and graduated with the class of 1971.  Following her high school graduation, she attended Seton Hall University where she earned her Bachelor of Science Degree in Nursing in 1975.  

Laurie accepted a position with Visiting Nurses of Union County where she worked for approximately fourteen years.  She then operated an in-home daycare where she lovingly cared for children while she gained her School Nurse Certificate to start the next chapter of her career. For 25 years Laurie was a beloved school nurse starting at Navesink Elementary School and then spending twenty-two years at Livingston Elementary School where she eventually retired in 2015.  

For nearly a century and for six generations, Laurie’s family owned a lake house in the Green Pond area of Rockaway Township.  Laurie always called this place, “our little piece of Heaven on earth.”  While living there, she was a member of the Green Pond Historical Society, as well as the Lake End Corporation Board of Directors for three years.  Laurie was also a long-time active parishioner of Townley Presbyterian Church in Union, NJ. She loved singing in the church choir and considered all of the members her second family.

Laurie’s mother Nancy was a trained vocalist and a Julliard School graduate so it came as no surprise that Laurie had a deep love for music.  In addition to singing in the Choir at church, she truly enjoyed attending plays and musicals.  She not only attended large professional performances but also attended and supported productions by local and community theatres. Laurie also had a passion for nature and animals. You would often find her exploring new trails or taking her grandchildren hiking through the “Magic Forest” or up to “Indian Look-Out” at Green Pond. She regularly supported animal rescue organizations and her rescue chihuahua, Georgia Mae, is a loved and spoiled member of her family that never left her side.

In 1981, Laurie married Robert Peter Kranz.  Laurie and Robert were married for twenty-two years and together raised four beautiful daughters. In 2004, Laurie found love again when she met a gentleman named Alan Parnau on a hike at the Trailside Nature & Science Center located on the Watchung Reservation. As fate would have it, Laurie and Alan fell in love and were married on July 18, 2009.  Laurie and Alan cherished eleven years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Laurie was the “Ultimate Care Giver.”  She was a completely selfless person, always putting other needs ahead of her own.  She always had a cheerful attitude about everything, and a positive outlook about every situation.  She was the kind of person who saw the good in everyone and never had a bad word to say about anybody.  Laurie was that certain type of person that you couldn’t help but like and admire.  Aside from all of her interests, hobbies, and talents, Laurie’s greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Laurie than providing for, and spending time with her family and friends.  Laurie was a wonderfully special person who touched and enriched the lives of countless people.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Laurie is survived by her husband Alan Parnau of Hackettstown, four daughters; Lori Coponi and her husband Steven of Hazlet, Dawn Kranz and her partner Craig Milintschuk of Old Bridge, NJ, Melissa Ricci and her husband Marc of Cranford, NJ, and Katherine Bourke and her husband Ryan of Pearl River, NY, two stepchildren; April Parnau and her husband Kyle Roper of Saylorsburg, PA, and Adam Parnau of Brooklyn, NY, two sisters; Jennifer Serzan of Westfield, NJ, and Heather Campbell of Rockaway, NJ, eight grandchildren; Steven, Alexandra, Olivia, Ava, Lia, Riley, William, and Maxwell.  She was predeceased by her parents William and Nancy Campbell.

Those wishing to make a donation in Laurie’s name are asked to consider the following organizations.  Townley Presbyterian Church, 829 Salem Rd, Union, NJ 07083 https://www.townleychurch.org or Mt Pleasant Animal Shelter, 194 NJ-10, East Hanover, NJ 07936, https://njshelter.org/

William Palo, age 84, passed Sunday, November 15, 2020 at home with the comfort of family by his side.

He was born to Alfonso and Mary Palo and raised in Lyndhurst. He was a pitcher for the Lyndhurst High School baseball team and went on to pitch in the semi-pro leagues in the New York Giants baseball organization. A few years into his semi-pro career he received an injury that would end his baseball career. He was inducted into the Lyndhurst High School Athletic Hall of Fame in 1989.

William continued his education and received his undergraduate degree in Education (1959) and he also received a Master’s Degree in Education Administration from William Paterson University in Wayne.  During his years playing baseball he also took a few classes at the Western Carolina University in Cullowhee, North Carolina. He spend his final years working in the Verona School System and retired as Principal at H.B. Whitehorne Middle School.

He was likeable, outgoing and the kind of person who could talk to just about anyone. He loved the outdoors, especially sitting by the water in Florida. He enjoyed movies, game shows and sports on television.  He liked following the professional sports teams: Knicks, Jets, Dodgers and Yankees. When it came to a single player of any professional team he was a huge Tom Brady fan. William also enjoyed golfing in both New Jersey and Florida and especially liked following Tiger Woods achievements.  

William met Mary Ann Kurtz through his brother Angelo and they soon fell in love. They married in Miami Beach, Florida on December 16, 1961 and honeymooned in the Bahamas.  Their marriage was blessed with a daughter Michelle and a son Robert.  William and Mary Ann enjoyed a loving and caring marriage of 43 years before her passing in July of 2004.

William was the loving husband of the late Mary Ann Palo (d.2004); devoted father of Michelle Palo of Wayne and Robert Palo of Boynton Beach, FL; brother of Angelo Palo and his wife Julie of Fort Pierce, FL and the late Jean Henderson; he was the loved uncle of Karen Henderson-Melone, Kevin Palo and the late Kathy Palo.

Thaddeus Joseph Jachera, age 90, of Marco Island, FL and Pompton Plains, NJ, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side on Sunday, November 15, 2020.

Thaddeus, known to all as “Ted” was born in Bayonne, NJ on 3/12/30, the third of four children of Polish immigrant parents Louis and Aniela. Ted grew up in Bayonne with his family.  He went to high school at St. John Kanty All Boys School in Erie, PA and graduated in 1948. Soon after graduation, he worked as a runner for the NYC Stock Exchange. Ted was then called to duty in the US Army where he served as cook on the front lines during the Korean War. The experience he gained as a cook would affect the future course of his life.

Ted’s family eventually moved from Bayonne to Wayne, NJ.  His parents purchased a tavern called the Hi Ho Club and his entire family worked there. Ted played the drums with his band at the club and during breaks he would bartend.

Ted would eventually meet the love of his life, Sugar, at a dance in the Poconos. What began that evening was a beautiful love story and on November 12, 1960 Ted and Sugar exchanged their wedding vows at the Epiphany Church in Cliffside Park.  They settled into their first home in Packanack Manor on Chandler Drive.

With the skills he had learned, Ted decided to take a chance and open a catering business in 1964. He, his brother Stan Jachera and friend Jerry Cardillo built a catering hall on Route 23 and called it the Wayne Manor. Ted’s younger brother John Jachera would also join the business and together the Wayne Manor became a huge success. They brought joy to many people’s lives by hosting thousands of weddings and social events throughout the years. After Ted’s retirement, the family business continued on with the next generation for a total of 41 years.

Ted and Sugar were blessed with three children Kathleen, Robert and Thomas. In 1980, the family moved into their dream home in Pompton Plains, NJ. They enjoyed many summer vacations at their home at the Hideout in PA.  In their golden years, they retired to Marco Island, FL. They were able to travel the world, took up playing golf, played tennis and enjoyed their wonderful friends and extended family, including nine grandchildren.

Ted was a diehard NY Giants fan! He has been a season ticket holder since 1958. One of his greatest memories was attending the Giants first Super Bowl win in 1987 with his family and his brother-in-law, Al Aitkens.

Ted was a man who always acknowledged God’s presence in his life. He was an active parishioner in every church he belonged to. Ted was extremely kind and generous, yet very humble. On their twenty-fifth wedding anniversary and the Wayne Manor’s twentieth anniversary of business, Ted took 75 staff members, friends and family away to the Bahamas for a celebration like no other. He donated to many charitable organizations: Little Sisters of the Poor, Huntington’s Disease and also set up a scholarship at DePaul Catholic High School, to name a few. Ted’s life philosophy was God comes first, family next and if you work hard, are a good person and give back to those less fortunate, you will be blessed.

Ted is survived by his beloved wife, Ethel “Sugar” Jachera, blessed in a loving marriage for 60 years: his daughter Kathleen Jachera and her children Keith and Ryan Agnello; his son Robert and his wife Nancy Jachera and their children Matthew, Daniel, David and Jessica; his son Thomas and his wife Lisa Jachera and their children Nicholas, Gabriella and Thomas; numerous nieces and nephews; and his sister-in-law Winifred Jachera. Ted was predeceased by his sister Helen Zuba and husband Stan, his brother Stanley Jachera, his brother John Jachera, and his nephew Michael Jachera.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Thaddeus’ name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959. To donate online click here www.stjude.org.

William Garcia, Sr., age 80 an over thirty year resident of North Bergen, most recently of Pompton Lakes, passed Saturday, November 14, 2020.

William was born to Andreas and Petra Garcia in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico.  When William was ten years old his parents moved the family to the United States with dreams of a better life for their children.  They first settled in New York City and soon moved to Union City, then North Bergen.

   William found work in the textile industry working at a company that manufactured handbags and belts. He also worked at the Penettone Chemical Company in Teaneck, and the National Container Company in North Bergen, before taking a position with the United States Post Office in Secaucus in 1972. He worked for the US Post Office for thirty years before retiring in 2003.  Through the years many of his co-workers became his friends.  He valued these friendships greatly and wouldn’t take on a Supervisor position as he just couldn’t bring himself to tell his friends what to do.

He will be lovingly remembered for being both funny and loud.  He had a great sense of humor although it could be a bit dirty at times and if he was paired up with his sister Rosita the two of them could overtake a room full of people. He loved fishing and for many years had a boat named the D-n-D which he kept in a slip in Bayonne and would often go fishing in the rivers surrounding New York. For the last ten years he mostly fished area lakes. During his post office years William belonged to the post office bowling league. On bowling night it was always Spaghetti Wednesday as this was a quick meal and dad could get to the lanes on time.  He will also be remembered for his skill at playing dominos.  After just a few moves he would know and remember what you had in your hand and even knew when you could or couldn’t go. When it came to area sports teams William loved NY Mets, the NY Rangers, and the NY Giants. He was never afraid to tell you he couldn’t stand the NY Jets or NY Yankees. William also loved watching television.  He enjoyed westerns, Jerry Springer, Cheaters, any of the judge shows, and game shows, especially Deal or No Deal.  He was a hard worker who was always taking on holiday, Saturday, and Sunday hours at the post office. Many a Christmas was spent waiting for him to come home from work. He also had a love of dogs and through the years had several.  His Doberman Pinscher Max would often test him by tearing apart the living room couch or running around the yard dragging the garbage bag and emptying its contents all over the front lawn. Most of all William will be remembered for his loving, caring, considerate, and kind way.

William was the husband of Numidia Lucia Garcia (Rivera) of Ridgefield; loving father of: Diane Incognito and her husband Nick of Rivera Beach, Florida, William Garcia, Jr. of his late wife Pattie (2016) of Pompton Lakes, Steven Garcia and his wife Elaine of Carlstadt, and Aurora Aranzazu and her husband Kenny of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Nick Incognito and wife Helene, the late Michael Incognito (2015), William Garcia, III and wife Jessica, Frank Garcia, Justine Marie Garcia, Eric Garcia, Nina Garcia, Adam Aranzazu, and Daniel Aranzazu; adored great-grandfather of: Penelope Incognito, Andie Incognito, Cole William Garcia, Chelsea Struble, and Cayden Struble; dear brother of:  the late Andrea Torres the late Rosita Cortez, Eva Lopena and husband Bob of Myrtle Beach, NC, and Victor Mercado of Rutherford; and dear uncle of numerous nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to The American Heart Association (heart.org) would be appreciated.

Thomas A. Antonucci, age 78 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 14, 2020.

Tom was born in Paterson and, soon moved to Wayne where he remained his entire life. He was a graduate of Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1961. Coming from a long line of mason contractors in his family, it was no surprise that Tom chose this field of work for his own life’s occupation. He joined Bricklayers Allied Craftworkers Local 4 (BAC) of Fairfield and enjoyed a career that spanned 43 years before retiring in 2004. After retiring, he worked for a short time as a building inspector in West Paterson.

Thomas was introduced, by the parish priest at Saint Michaels Church in Paterson, to a young woman named Rosa Iacono. They were married on September 19, 1971 at Saint Michaels Church and honeymooned in Jamaica. Tom and Rosa were inseparable. They were truly always there for each other, loved their trips to Italy as well as traveling all over Europe and going out to dinner with family and friends, and enjoyed trips to Atlantic City together. They lovingly were blessed with forty-six years of devoted marriage, living all those years in Wayne where they raised their three beautiful daughters. Sadly, Rosa passed away in June, 2017.

One of Tom’s favorite pastimes was getting away to the cabin in New York State that had been in his family for many years. When he and Rosa’s girls were growing up, they enjoyed many family vacations there and, in colder months, Tom would go upstate to fish and hunt deer. One year he even got a bobcat! He was a great hunter so there was always a good supply of venison in the freezer. This worked out real well because one of Tom’s other favorite hobbies was cooking and barbequing. Everyone loved Tom’s venison stew, and Italian recipes were his favorites. He also made some pretty tasty Pasta Fazool (Faggioli).

Tom was a parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes and earlier at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne where he especially enjoyed singing in the church’s choir. He was also a member of the Italian American Club in Totowa.

Tom will be remembered for his outgoing, fun-loving nature. He had a great sense of humor and because he liked showing his silly side, he was affectionately nicknamed “Yappy” and “Yappo”. Most of all Tom will be remembered for being a loving and devoted husband, father, and cherished “Pop-Pop”.

Tom was the loving husband of the late Rosa Antonietta Antonucci (June 2017). He was the dearly loved son of the late Thomas E. Antonucci and the late Sarah Antonucci; devoted father of Rosanne Antonucci of Wayne, Gina Biro and husband Chris of Pompton Plains, and the late Paula Jean Antonucci (May 1994); cherished grandfather of Justin, Christopher, and Olivia; loved brother of: Louis Antonucci and wife Donna, Jeffery Antonucci and wife Kathleen, John Antonucci and wife Rina, and Ron Antonucci; and dear uncle of numerous nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Alzheimer’s New Jersey 425 Eagle Rock Ave., Suite 203, Roseland, NJ 07068, would be appreciated.  Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey or, to donate online, click on this link www.alznj.org.

Gloria A. Focazio (Abdelnour), age 92, of Del Ray Beach, FL, passed peacefully on Saturday, November 14, 2020.

Gloria was born in Paterson to George and Najiba Abdelnour. She lived on Grand Street in Paterson and graduated from Central High School, where she sang in the choir with the Class of 1946. She continued her education at William Paterson University in Wayne and graduated with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Education.

Gloria married John “Jack” Focazio and had a loving marriage of fifty-four years until his passing in May of 2004. They first lived in Niagara Falls, NY for a brief period of time and then moved to Montclair Avenue, Paterson, NJ where they started their family. They eventually moved to Sloping Hill Terrace, the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, NJ, and continued to raise their family.

Gloria was the youngest of eight girls. At the age of eleven she began working in a Paterson textile mill folding handkerchiefs, bed sheets, napkins, and tablecloths. After graduating from college she taught at the Ridgewood Secretarial School and soon found work with the Paterson Board of Education. Gloria taught at School 25 where she taught middle school-aged children and later worked at the Martin Luther King School as a reading specialist. She retired in 1985 and she and Jack moved to Del Ray Beach, Florida.

Gloria, her sisters, and friends started a Friday night “Knitting Club.” They wanted to  knit argyle socks for their husbands. Not a single pair of socks were ever finished because they decided to play cards instead. Many card games and fun filled nights were had during these “knitting club” meetings. Gloria was also an awesome cook. Her special touch on Arabic and Italian specialties will be greatly missed. Her home was always the destination for family holiday gatherings. You can imagine this was one busy house and kitchen! She also loved to watch her favorite television shows especially “Wheel of Fortune”. In her retirement Gloria found she had a talent for painting portraits with oil and painted many portraits of her grandchildren. She was one of the most progressive ninety-two year olds you will ever meet. She had a strong will, was faith-filled, and had a perseverance second to none. Gloria loved being with her family and friends. There could never be too many people!  Her welcoming way made her house a home.

She was also very dedicated to her Melkite Catholic faith and was a founding parishioner of Saint Ann’s Melkite Catholic Church that was originally in Paterson and is now located in Woodland Park. Gloria came from a family dedicated to their faith and had extended family members that were Bishops, Arch Bishops, and nuns. She could often be quoted as saying “If I didn’t have my faith, I would have nothing.”

Gloria was the loving wife of the late John “Jack” Focazio (d.2004); devoted mother of Jacqueline Focazio and her husband Manny of Point Pleasant Beach, Denise Fatica and her husband Pat of Wayne, and William Focazio,M.D. and his wife Debra of Saddle River; cherished grandmother of Dominique Focazio,Vanessa Focazio, Cara Focazio Koelsch,M.D,  Olivia Focazio, Remington Focazio,  Jack Fatica,M.D., William Fatica, Michael Fatica, ; she was the dearly loved great-grandmother of Marlo and Layla; she was predeceased by her seven sisters Mary Coussa, Helen Ged, Rita Cortese, Julia Sarapuchiello, Agnes Sciarrino, Emily Abdy, and Vera Hajjar; and will be dearly missed by many extended family and friends.

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Flowers are welcomed or if you would like to make a memorial donation the family asks you to consider Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing Center, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Walter Mazzie, age 62, of Wayne, passed Monday, November 9, 2020.

Walter was born to Donald and Betty Mazzie in Scotch Plains and lived in Wayne for the past fifty-eight years. He graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1976. While growing up he was a member of the 4H Club in Wayne.

Walter was the owner of WDC Landscaping in Wayne for many years.

He will be remembered for his love of animals, generous heart, and class clown antics.  He was always ready to help those in need and was a source of strength for those he was close with.  His class clown antics were evident as he often enjoyed getting up to mischief with the younger kids within his family. As a young boy his family had many horses and chickens at the home in Wayne and this began Walter’s love of animals.  For a while he even bred Bernese Mountain Dogs.  He was outgoing, “Mazzie loud,” and someone who could fix just about anything.  He could always be found out in the garage working on a project or fixing something.

He is survived by his daughter Samantha Jones of Louisburg, NC; his sisters Donna Fugate of Ohio, Candice Manasse of AZ, and brothers Carl Mazzie (Debbie) of Wayne and Duke Mazzie (Jennifer) of AZ; he is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews and his dear friends Christina Kay (Jason Owens) and Carter Owens.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated.

Raymond John Witzak-husband, father, grandpa, age 82, of Pequannock passed away peacefully on Monday, November 9, 2020 with his family by his side.

The son of John and Sophie (Née Rubel) Witzak, Ray was Bayonne born in 1938, living there until relocating to Ridgewood in 1952. He was a 1956 graduate of Ridgewood high school, before enlisting in the U.S. army security agency. He had a two year tour of duty in Japan as a Russian linguist for the intelligence unit, following language school in California.

His work career spanned 45 years, began at Western Electric, and included 35 years as a sales representative, with 25 years with Lever Brothers. In 1964 he married Sandra (Née Yanulewicz), and briefly resided in Rochelle Park, and then Hawthorne. They came to Pequannock in 1966, and raised two sons, Richard and David.

Ray ran the Pequannock Men’s Independent softball league for ten years, and was a Little League baseball officer for twelve years, managing and coaching in both organizations. Ray also served Pequannock Township twice, on the Parks & Recreation board, and the Board of Adjustments after that.

In retirement, Ray served his Lord and Savior at Grace Bible church in Pompton Plains: Hosting hospitality, running the ushers, leading bible study, and servicing on the elder board.

He is survived by his wife Sandra, sons Richard & David, granddaughters Evangeline & Franchesca.

Josephine A. Lavina (nee Bonica), age 93, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 8, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Born November 17, 1926 in Waltham, Massachusetts to Giuseppe and Mary Bonica, Josephine (known to her family and friends  as “Jo”) left school to work and help her family. She spent time working for Waltham Watch Company and Servend. Josephine married the love of her life, Guy, in 1958.

Josephine was a dedicated daughter, sister, mother, and grandmother.  She dedicated much of her life to caring for her family. She was also dedicated to her Catholic faith and to helping those less fortunate than her.  She spent years volunteering for Meals on Wheels.

Josephine loved to cook and bake. Her banana bread recipe is well-loved in the family. She also was very social, and she always had many friends visiting and calling her home. Josephine was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Josephine is survived by her son, Bob, and daughter-in-law, Cindy, of Wayne, and her granddaughter, Rachael of Hoboken. She is predeceased by her husband, Guy, and her sister, Frances Bonica.

Mary Ann Dowling, age 80 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Saturday, Nov. 7, 2020 with her family gathered at her bedside.  She has lived in Wayne for twenty-eight years.

Mary Ann grew up in Paterson, born the fourth of six girls in her family. At Central High School, Mary Ann was in the Drum and Bugle Corps.  Her sisters were her lifelong best friends. While in high school, Mary Ann fell in love with Ronald Dowling, whose family owned the neighborhood delicatessen. They married as teenagers and first lived in Paterson and Saddle Brook before establishing their family home in N. Haledon. Mary Ann helped her husband running his business, “Quality Dairy,” as a milkman. She did the bookkeeping while he did the deliveries. It was probably around this time that she developed her lifelong love of milk, and she truly appreciated a tall glass of quality milk. In 1971, Mary Ann and Ron ventured into the restaurant business, purchasing the Eagles Nest in N. Haledon. Ironically, they had no restaurant experience at all, but Mary Ann became the cook! They successfully ran the restaurant until 1981. Not long after, Ron passed away suddenly, and Mary Ann became a widow at just forty-seven years old. She went to work full-time at Purex in Hawthorne, and she also worked as a mortgage specialist with a few area banks. She eventually retired and moved to Wayne, taking on the role of full-time grandmother!

Mary Ann grew up in a tight-knit family and that carried over to her own family with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. “Nana,” as she was affectionately called by them all, loved spending time with each of them, and she was very involved in their lives. Her grandchildren recall how much she enjoyed going to IHOP, the Hot Grill, and Patty’s Pancakes.  Family was simply her greatest joy.  Mary Ann was also extremely artistic and very talented as a seamstress, sketch artist, painter, ceramics crafter, and all sorts of things.  Her seamstress work was nothing short of amazing, and no garment was complete unless is was flawlessly perfect.  She handcrafted a magnificent Christening gown that has endured for over thirty-six years, used by more than twenty babies in the family.  She’s made First Communion dresses for her granddaughters, as well as countless garments for dolls – all of them perfect.  She took great pride in her gift wrapping as well. If you ever received a gift from her, you were reluctant to unwrap it because you could see how much love and care she had put into wrapping it.  She even tied her bows by hand, and each “Nana bow” was special and unique with a consideration for the people she made them for.  Easter baskets were among one of her favorite things to create. They turned out better than anything you would find in a store, each one more beautiful than the last, overflowing with love. The love that she shared with her family is a gift to them all that will endure forever.

Mary Ann is survived by four children; Kathleen Peragallo and her husband John of Wayne, Donald Dowling and his wife Tricia of N. Caldwell, Julia Paulison and her husband Ronald of Wanaque, and Elizabeth Murray and her husband Craig of Westfield, Indiana, one sister; Jane Salmanowitz, fourteen grandchildren and ten great-grandchildren, and her daughter-in-law; Kathleen Dowling of San Diego, California.  Mary Ann was predeceased by her husband Ronald in 1987, and by two sons; Charles in 2014 and Ronald, Jr. in 1995.

Friends wishing to make a donation in Mary Ann’s memory are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Peter Schemly, age 71 of Wayne, died on Thursday, November 5, 2020.  He has lived in Packanack Lake in Wayne since 1978.

Peter was born in Bielefeld, Germany and his family came to America in 1950, while he was just a small baby.  He grew up in Little Falls and graduated from Passaic Valley High School before being drafted into the U.S. Army.  The Vietnam War was winding down at this time, and he was fortunate to avoid combat service.  After being discharged, he started working for NJ Bell Telephone, climbing telephone poles.  He advanced to become a software specialist, programming phone systems, and eventually retired from Avaya Technologies.  Peter was not one to sit still and he soon started his own company, Schemly, LLC, providing telecomm software support services for his clients.  Novartis was among his largest clients, and he made many friends there.  Pete would still be working today if he could.

Peter was a true family man and enjoyed living in Packanack Lake.  Raising his kids there, he became involved with Boy Scouts.  He was Scout Master of Troop 104 for many years, leading expeditions to Philmont, New Mexico and Sea Base in the Florida Keys. Peter was particularly proud that both of his sons became Eagle Scouts. Peter was especially devoted to his grandkids. “Pop-Pop Peter,” as many of them called him, loved spending every minute possible with his six grandchildren. Summer vacations at Long Beach Island, NJ, were always memorable, where he would gather with his children, their spouses, and his grandchildren.  Anytime he visited with his grandchildren, also meant visiting with his grand-dogs too!  Peter would arrive with dog treats in his pockets, and the dogs knew they were going to be spoiled whenever he came to visit.  Peter enjoyed boating and always kept his Pontoon Boat on Greenwood Lake.  He also liked to golf and he has a closet filled with at least three sets of old clubs, balls, shoes, and a large assortment of golfing paraphernalia that would be the envy of any golfer.

Peter was married to his wife, Janis, for thirty-two years.  They met at Montclair State College and married on April 19, 1975.  In 1978, they purchased their home in Packanack Lake. They were a very close couple, and they did everything together. When children came along, they simply grew closer to one another, and included the kids in all their activities. Sadly, after thirty-two years of marriage, Janis became ill and passed away in 2007. This was a difficult time for Peter, but as grandchildren began to arrive in his life, they brought him a new purpose. His grandchildren were everything to him, and he loves them all very dearly.  They will all miss him.

Peter is survived by his four children; Thomas Schemly and his wife Susan of Wayne, Nancy L’Heureux and her husband Charles of Wyckoff, Douglas Schemly and his wife Cinzia of Washington Township and Alyssa Zimmerly and her husband David of Wayne, and six grandchildren; Hailey and Kayla of Wayne, Ava and Luke of Wyckoff and Nicholas and Ryan of Washington Township, his sister; Vera Schemly of Little Falls.  He was predeceased by his wife, Janis, in 2007.  

Peter would enjoy having some flowers at his funeral, but if friends would prefer to make a donation in his memory, please consider either the Veterans Administration New Jersey Health Care System, www.newjersey.va.gov/giving/index.asp, or Susan G. Komen, ww5.komen.org.

Jane M. Zierer, age 85, of Wayne passed peacefully on Tuesday, November 3, 2020.

She was born in Paterson and graduated from Eastside High School in Paterson where she played on the basketball team.  In her youth she always enjoyed roller-skating at the roller rink in Paterson-her husband Frank thinks he still has her roller skates somewhere in the garage.  Jane lived in Clifton before moving to Wayne over fifty years ago.

Jane and Frank met through a mutual friend named Rodger Lutz.  Rodger and Frank were friends with a mutual love of motorcycles. One day when Frank and Rodger were repairing Rodger’s motorcycle they received a call to give a friend a ride home.  That friend was Jane.  Rodger and his girlfriend Ethel were in the front two seats of the car and Frank was in the back where Jane sat next to him.  Little did she know that Frank fell in love at first sight. When she heard Frank referred to as “Tonto” (his nickname because he rode an Indian motorcycle) she slide away from him.  It seems Jane’s father had warned her to stay away from this guy named “Tonto” as her dad saw him standing on the seat of his Indian motorcycle while riding down the street in Paterson.  They met on a Friday and went to Johnny & Hanges in Paterson for hot dogs.  It took Frank about a week to propose marriage.  They went to Howard’s Jewelers in Paterson and picked out an engagement ring. They couldn’t afford it and saved for two years to buy it.  On occasion they would drive by the jewelers and peer into the window to look at the safe where there ring was being held. They married on September 17, 1955 at St. Josephs Catholic Church in Paterson and took his 1949 Ford convertible on a trip North towards Canada.  They visited Howe Caverns, Niagara Falls, took the Maid of the Mist boat tour of Niagara Falls and had a beautiful meal at a restaurant called Refractor which overlooked the falls. During their two week honeymoon they spent a total of $500.00. They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-five years that was blessed with a son Frank.

Here’s a little more from an open letter from Jane:

    “Tonto”

I remember the night so well; walking from 79 Alabama Ave to Ethel’s house on the corner near Wonder Bread. The date was September 4th, Friday, 1953.  My life was about to change.

    The only way Ethel could see Roger Lutz was to arrange for him to come with a buddy to drive me home.  It was supposed to be “Tonto,” whom I had heard many talk about.  Up pulls the car and out steps this six foot, slim, well-built guy, jeans and white tee shirt, blue-green eyes and our eyes met and it was love at first sight. I though “Tonto” had been left behind and this fellow filled in.  It was Friday and we went to “Johnny & Hanges” near River Street, Paterson.  I had a hot dog with mustard.  On the way Roger turned and said “hey Tonto” and I jumped to the far side of the vehicle, practically scratching at the handle.  This couldn’t be “Tonto” but oh yes it was!  In the meantime he was trying to remember if he had cursed or worse was his fly open? They must have driven me home (I was dazed) as he had already asked me for a date. At the time Ronnie Bell, a very nice boy whom I was passing time with, was in the picture. Our final date was a day later as I informed him I had met someone and wanted to be fair with him.  He said “I hope it’s not Tonto - he’s tough as nails.”  And so the story begins...

Jane will be remembered as a quiet, reserved person who loved animals and gardening.  When it came to animals their house was a veritable zoo.  Through the years they had dogs Sniffy, Cleo, and Flint; cats Foxy, Pumpkin, Shadow, and Batman.  They also had pigeons, quail, a Macaw Parrot, a parakeet, and tropical fish. When it came to gardening she was by Frank’s side clearing trees and planting all kinds of flowers.  She was even cited in the Paterson Newspaper for the sunflowers and roses she grew.  She enjoyed watching General Hospital together with Frank even though he liked the Westerns better. She also enjoyed all kinds of educational television programming and loved crossword puzzles.

Jane was a playground aide for the Wayne Board of Education for over twenty years before retiring in 1994.

She was the loving wife of sixty-five years to Frank M. Zierer; devoted mother of Frank N. Zierer and his wife Rizalina of Bergenfield; daughter of the late Leo and Mary McHale; cherished aunt of nephews the late Frank Cerrato, and surviving nephews Timothy and Steven Krumm and nieces Coleen McHale and Maureen McHale.

Lydia Hoitsma (nee Caroselli), 98, a longtime resident of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, October 29, 2020.

Born November 12, 1921 in Jersey City to Ernesto Caroselli and Marie (nee Egle), Lydia graduated from Henry Snyder High School in 1939 and worked for Bendix Aviation Corporation in Teterboro during WWII. After the war, she was a secretary at Diebold Inc. in New York City. She also worked for ten years in the credit department of Meyer Brothers Department Store in Wayne before retiring in 1984. Married in 1951, Lydia was a devoted wife and mother to her loving family.

Lydia was the beloved wife of Peter who passed away in 1998. She is survived by her two sons, Gary of Washington D.C. and Jeffrey and daughter-in-law Sharon of Pompton Plains, her daughter Christine and son-in-law William Kirk of York, PA; five grandchildren: Steven Hoitsma and wife Kyle, Justin Hoitsma, Doug Kirk and wife Kelsey, Michelle Kirk, and Michael Kirk; great-granddaughter Aubrey Hoitsma; and her brother Edwin Carrell of The Villages, FL. She is predeceased by her brothers Enrico (Rick) Carell and Julius Carell, and sisters Claudia Ascough and Eugenia (Jean) Murphy.

George J. Heppel, age 87 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 26, 2020. George was born in New York City in 1933. The son of German immigrants, he didn’t learn to speak English until he started going to kindergarten. He grew up in New York City and was a graduate of Stuyvesant High School with the Class of 1952.

As a teenager, George was so determined to join the armed forces and enlisted in the National Guard when he was just sixteen years old. Because he was so young, he had to lie about his age to get in. After high school he worked for a year as a warehouseman at Globe Wernicke in the Bronx before enlisting in the United States Army. From 1952 to 1954 George proudly served in Korea and Japan during the Korean War. For his service to his country, he was awarded the Korean Service Medal with one Bronze Star, the United Nations Service Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal. After his return home with the rank of Corporal, he continued to serve in the Army Reserve Infantry until being honorably discharged in 1957.

After getting out of the service, George worked as a zookeeper at the Bronx Zoo. He absolutely loved that job and would never have left the zoo if his future wife Ronnie didn’t put her foot down and have him join her at the New York Telephone Company where the pay was better and he wasn’t quite as fragrant when he came home from work. There was also less chance of getting bitten in the backside by a sea lion there, as happened during his time at the Bronx Zoo. He worked for the telephone company for almost 40 years and retired in 1993 at the age of 60.

After marrying his wife of 63 years, Ronnie, they moved to New Jersey in 1965 where they bought a house and called Wayne, NJ home. George was a loving father to his sons George and Eric. He truly enjoyed sharing life with them by doing things like taking them to the shooting range at the Sportsman Club in Pennsylvania and going on an fishing trips to Ontario Canada together. Anyone who knew George, knew how much his sons meant to him. Until…his grandson Ryan was born and they both took a backseat. Ryan and Grandpa were pals and regularly did things together. George regularly picked Ryan up from school and took him to his football practices or wherever he had to go. He attended his football games and high school graduation and was more than happy to drive to South Carolina to watch him graduate from the United States Marine Corps boot camp as well as attending his Passaic County Sheriff’s Department pinning ceremony, even though it was starting to be tough to get around. He was always there for Ryan.

Serving in the Army awoke the travel bug in George. He served part of his tour of duty in Japan and, as a result, he fell in love with the country. He and Ronnie enjoyed trips to Mexico as well as going to Europe at times to see his relatives. He also loved vacationing in Turkey and recently took a trip to Italy.

It seemed that George never came across a book that he didn’t want to read. He could often be seen with his nose in a good story and he loved to read from a wide spectrum of subjects including westerns, science fiction, and anything having to do with any type of history. He loved animals and, while dogs were a part of his life in his earlier years, it was usually one of his cats, Milo, Rusty, or Tux, who would sit by his side as he enjoyed a good book.

George generally lived a quiet, private life choosing to enjoy the blessings of spending time with his loving family. He will be dearly missed by those whose life he touched.

George is survived by his son George Heppel, Jr. and daughter in law Geri of Wayne, his grandson Ryan Heppel of Wayne, and his honorary son Mike Stubbington of Portsmouth, England. He was predeceased by his beloved wife Veronica and by his loving son Eric Heppel - both in 2019.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in George’s name are asked to consider the Alan Purcell Wayne Township Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Johanna Wilbert (nee Metzler), age 93 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday October 23, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Johanna was born in Bockenau, Germany in 1927 and was the middle child of three children to Karl and Johanna Metzler.  As a young girl in the midst of the Second World War, Johanna left the eighth grade to go to work and help her family.  She was employed as a bookkeeper at a hardware store in Germany named Eckenroth, which would be the equivalent to an establishment such as Home Depot in the United States.  Later, after arriving in the United States in 1954, Johanna continued to work as a bookkeeper at various businesses. She worked at Bosland’s Hardware for nine years and Godwin Tool and Hardware Supply in Midland Park for about ten years.

As a young woman while living in Germany, Johanna would take the bus to work every day.  While standing at the bus stop, she met a handsome young man by the name of Hans Wilbert.  Johanna sat next to Hans on the bus so as to talk with the girls sitting in frontof her and Hans.  However, Johanna never got to speak with the girls due to the fact that she and Hans talked the entire ride.  Later, Hans invited Johanna to hear him play the violin, as he was an accomplished violinist.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on May 24, 1952 in Bad Kreuznach and then honeymooned in Bavaria.

Johanna and Hans immigrated to the United States in 1954 in search of a better life and the American Dream.  They settled in Brooklyn where Hans and Johanna found work quickly.  Johanna and Hans welcomed their first daughter, Linda, in 1959.  The company that Hans was working for moved from Brooklyn to Paterson and the family moved.  The couple had one of the first homes built in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne.  In 1965, after living in Wayne for a number of years, they welcomed their second daughter, Susan.  Johanna and Hans remained in Wayne for the rest of their lives together.

Johanna was a dedicated mother and grandmother.  She was also dedicated to her Lutheran Faith.  She and her family were members of St Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne for many years.  Johanna was also a member of the Golden Age Group of Wayne for many years as well.   From a young age, Johanna loved sports.  She loved soccer and kept pictures of the entire New York Cosmos soccer team in her home.  She also enjoyed watching golf on TV mainly because of its illustrious and colorful backgrounds.  She loved gardening, growing vegetables and flowers all year round.  She also loved to sew and read, particularly autobiographies and about history mostly.  Aside from all of Johanna’s interests, hobbies, and talents, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Johanna than providing for and spending time with her family.  She and Hans cherished an amazing fifty-nine years of loving and loyal marriage until Hans’ passing in 2011.  Johanna was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.  

Johanna is survived by her two daughters; Linda Sopko and her husband John of Wall Township, and Susan Phelan and her Husband Chris of Wayne, four grandchildren; Brian Phelan, Jake Sopko, Kevin Phelan, and Maxxi Sopko, she was predeceased by her husband Hans Wilbert in 2011, she was also predeceased by her sister Elfrieda Metzlerand her brother Loda Metzler.

Flowers are most welcome, however in lieu of flowers, donations in Johanna’s name may be made to St Timothy’s Lutheran Church, 395 Valley Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Igor was born in Germany in 1947 and was the oldest of four children to Arcenti and Anna Umansky.  The family moved to Belgium where they lived for several years until Igor was about twelve years old.  It was at this time the family immigrated to the United States in search of a better life and the American Dream.  When arriving in America, the family settled in Passaic where Igor attended Passaic High School.  While at Passaic High, Igor discovered his hidden skills and talent for the sport of American Football.  He was placed at the position of Center and made the high school All-State team.  Following his graduation from Passaic High School with the class of 1965 he earned a full football scholarship to Clemson University in South Carolina.  Igor transferred to Colorado State where he continued his All American College Football career but unfortunately suffered a shoulder injury which would cause him to miss his window of opportunity playing in the pros.  

While at a party in his college years, Igor met an attractive young lady by the name of Mildred Kneeland.  Igor and Mildred hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it they fell in love and were married in 1971 at St John the Baptist Russian Orthodox Church in Passaic.  They had their reception at the Wayne Manor and honeymooned in the Bahamas.  Igor and Mildred settled in Cliffwood Lake in the town of Vernon in the early 1970’s and remained there for the rest of their lives together.  During their time living in Vernon they welcomed their one and only child Michael.

Over the years Mildred and Igor traveled quite a bit and frequented Marco Island in Florida.  Igor and Mildred cherished forty-two years of loving and loyal marriage together until Mildred’s passing in 2013.  Following his wife’s passing, Igor carried on and fulfilled their dream when he moved to Marco Island, Florida in 2017 after retiring from a 20+ year career with Tri-Coastal Design in East Hanover as Director of Logistics.

Igor never lost his love for sports, he followed professional football and also took up Karate when his son was a teenager, eventually earning a black belt.  One of Igor’s favorite past times was fishing, particularly saltwater fishing.  He was the captain/owner of a private fishing boat charter company Reel-Xtreem Fishing.  After moving to Florida he spent his time fishing for a variety of species of fish such as Tarpon, Common Snook, and Atlantic Tripletail fish.  Igor was also a member of the environmental organization Captains for Clean Water.  Igor also enjoyed cooking and in his free time he loved visiting one of his very good friends in Oak Ridge who owned Giuseppe’s Restaurant.  There Igor would drop in on occasion and do some cooking for his friend in the restaurant’s kitchen.

Igor was a fun person to be around.  He was the kind of person you couldn’t help but like.  He was funny, sarcastic and enjoyed socializing.  Every year his high school graduating class held a special get-together at Rut's Hut Hot Dog Restaurant in Clifton.  Igor was a wonderful outgoing person who made and cherished many life-long friendships.  Apart from all of Igor’s talents, interests, and hobbies, his greatest passion was for his friends and family.  He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and brother.  He was the rock of his siblings and treasured spending time with his only granddaughter Collin.  Igor was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Igor is survived by his son Michael Umansky and his wife Kristen of Vernon, his brother Alex Umansky of Naples, FL, one granddaughter Collin Umansky of Vernon, Sisters-in-law Susan Kneeland of Wall Twp and Sonja Kneeland of Butler.  He was predeceased by his wife Mildred Umansky (nee Kneeland) in 2013, and also by his two sisters; Lydia Umansky, and Tania Umansky.

In lieu of flowers, donation in Igor’s name may be made to Captains for Clean Water, 2031 Jackson St, Fort Meyers, FL 33901.  http://www.captainsforcleanwater.org/

Daniel Shark, age 65, of Montville, passed away suddenly on Tuesday, October 20, 2020.

Daniel was born in Paterson and raised in Little Falls and Wayne. He played basketball during his years at Wayne Hills High School and, after graduating with the Class of 1973, he continued his education at Waynesburg College in Waynesburg, PA, majoring in biology and earning his Bachelor’s Degree in 1977. After college, Dan launched right into a career as a sales representative with Standard Register and soon after became an independent contractor with FormTech Graphics in Warren, NJ. He enjoyed a long and rewarding career with FormTech and was presently anticipating retirement from the company he had worked for almost his entire career.

While working at Standard Register, Daniel had the good fortune of meeting a dear woman named Cabrina Potente who was employed as a part-time secretary. He quickly took a liking to Cabrina and desired to go with her on a date. Needing a way to get Cabrina’s attention, one day he hid her handbag in his office. As Cabrina was preparing to leave work for the day, he watched as she searched for the handbag and asked coworkers if they had seen it. Eventually, he approached her at her desk and asked, “Are you looking for this?” They ended up going out that very evening to a NJ Devils hockey game. They soon fell in love and, after a season of dating, the desire for marriage mutually increased. Dan’s first attempt at a formal marriage proposal came during an evening at his home in Basking Ridge. He prepared a delicious lamb chop dinner complete with the finest wine. He was about to propose when suddenly a friend of his arrived unannounced to share the exciting news of how he was going to propose marriage to his girlfriend the next day. Not wanting to steal his friend’s thunder, Dan postponed his own grand plans for the evening. Dan’s second attempt took place at Cabrina’s sister and brother-in-law’s home on the lake in Kinnelon. With the ring in his pocket, Dan invited Cabrina for a stroll around the lake. Cabrina thought this was a nice idea. Dan’s plan was working perfectly until Cabrina asked her mother if she would like to join them for the walk. That evening, again, the ring never left his pocket. The saying goes that “three’s a charm” and, in the case of his marriage proposal, it proved true. On another evening at Dan’s house, no one unexpectedly showed up and Dan was able to ask Cabrina to marry him. The wedding day came on Saturday, May 14, 1988 when Daniel and Cabrina exchanged their wedding vows before God, family and friends at Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne with Father Paul Kucynda officiating. It was a beautiful spring day and the reception followed at Cabrina’s sister and brother-in-law’s house by the lake in Kinnelon. After a honeymoon in France and England, the newlyweds made Basking Ridge their first home as husband and wife. Soon after they moved to Montville where they have lived for the past thirty one years.

It seemed that Dan and Cabrina’s marriage was meant to be. As a teenager, Dan loved to spend summers down the Jersey shore in Belmar. His days consisted of fun in the sun and surf but also included manning the grill and the Hire’s Root Beer barrel at his Aunt Nat’s beachfront restaurant, Sidoroff’s, alongside his parents, siblings, and cousins.  Ironically, when Cabrina was in her early twenties, she and her girlfriends would stay in Belmar, and they would have breakfast at Dan’s aunt’s restaurant every weekend. Little did Dan and Cabrina know that, in that restaurant, their paths were almost literally crossing and they would someday meet and marry.

Dan and Cabrina’s favorite getaways included St. Croix in the U.S. Virgin Islands. Visiting two weeks out of every year, they felt like they were nearly residents and Dan actually would express a desire to permanently move there some day. They also loved sailing in the Tonga Islands in the South Pacific as well as in Greece and Corsica. They would charter a fifty five foot sailing vessel and sail themselves with friends who were certified sailing captains. Because Dan was a passionate wine collector with a beautiful wine cellar in his own basement, he was always commissioned to be the sommelier or wine steward on these sailing expeditions.  

In addition to his love of sailing and fine wines, Dan was a highly skilled pool player who could clear the table in record time… a talent honed in his college days. Friends would try to compete but never proved to be a match for Dan’s superior expertise of the game. Despite his intimidating ability, he and Cabrina enjoyed playing and Dan was always patient and helpful. Dan was also an avid fan of the New York Yankees and New York Giants. When it came to basketball, he preferred the college games and rooted especially for Duke University.

Dan was a lifelong member of Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne. He served for many years on the Church Council and was always active in the continued development of the Church. He loved the liturgy and was always willing to serve the Lord by serving the church. He especially enjoyed assisting in the partaking of Holy Communion, and as a greeter of the congregation, his warmth and kindness was given to each person.

Daniel was a most outgoing person who always possessed a happy heart. He was a gentle and kind soul with a most generous spirit – never refusing a request for assistance and always helping to his maximum potential.

To his nieces and nephews, Uncle Dan was more than just an Uncle. He was also a best friend, a mentor, and opened up their eyes to the finer things in life.  From Broadway shows, to rock concerts, and visits to Morrell Wine Bar, he was always sure to give them unforgettable experiences; they were his “children on loan”. He always made sure they had the best seat in the house while drinking the finest wine in town. Large or small, Uncle Dan always made sure he was active in all life events for his nieces and nephews. He was never too busy for them, and he could never think of enough reasons to celebrate. He brightened their lives every time he walked into the room, always with a smile that exhibited his endless love for them.

Uncle Dan’s positive energy and great sense of humor made each family gathering a memorable one; and we always looked forward to spending time with him.  He was our “cool Uncle” and enriched our lives in new ways throughout the years as we grew from children into adults.  

Daniel was the beloved husband of Cabrina Potente, blessed in marriage for thirty two years. He was the loving son of Marion Shark of Jackson and the late Nicholas Shark (2008); dear brother of: Gregory and wife Tina Shark of Little Falls, Tamara and husband William Germann of Belle Mead, ..and Leonard and wife Brenda Shark of Lake Hopatcong; much-loved uncle of: Kathryn, Jaclyn and husband Michael, Zachary and wife Danielle, Anastasia, Lindsey, Dominick and wife Lauren, Michael; and dear brother-in-law of Carol and husband Bob Kerris of Mountain Lakes, and Dominick and wife Linda Potente of Myrtle Beach, SC.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Daniel’s name are asked to consider a donation to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, Wayne, NJ.

William Comfort Hayden, known as Bill to most, died peacefully on October 19, 2020, at the age of 91.  He was born on August 7, 1929 in Tecumseh, Michigan to Perry and Elizabeth Comfort Hayden.

He was well known in high school for running track and winning awards on the state level. He was also senior class president.

He attended Kansas State University, Taylor University and graduated from Michigan State University with a degree in Agricultural Economics with a plan to take over the Hayden Flour Mill which had been in the family for 3 generations.

After being in the Army in the Counter Intelligence Corps he settled in Tecumseh.  Finding the mill to not be a good fit for him he pursued other lines of work and found his niche in the insurance industry in which he worked for over 40 years specializing in life and benefits products.  Most of that time he was a partner at Dunlop, Onderdonk and Wilson Agency (DOW) in Wayne, NJ. He held the insurance designations of CLU and CHFC. He also was a life and qualifying member of the Million Dollar Life Insurance Round Table.

He participated in several work-related organizations like the National Association of Life Underwriters, American Society of Financial Services, Bergen County Estate Planners Council.

During this time, he was also President of the Wayne Area Chamber of Commerce.

For 25 years he was married to Faith Dugan, had 4 children and divorced in 1977.

In 1984 he married Lenore Voorhis-Hayden and became step dad to her 3 children. They were married for 36 years.

For the last 45 years he has been a member of the First Presbyterian Church in Caldwell, sharing his talents as an elder, member of several committees, and chair of several stewardship drives. He and his good friend, Ray Corbin, helped start the adult bible class.  Everyone who knew him knew that his faith in God was of utmost importance to him.

He was a member of the Essex Fells Country Club for almost 50 years where he enjoyed playing golf and did win several tournaments.  He was also a past member of the Kiwanis Club of Caldwell/West Essex and the Old Guard.

He served for 17 years on the board of trustees of the Job Haines Home in Bloomfield, NJ and as president of the Parkview Chateau Condo Association. Upon retiring he volunteered at St. Barnabas Hospital in Livingston to visit patients on behalf of the chaplain’s office and pray with them, logging in 300 hours.

He also enjoyed traveling be it to the insurance conventions that he qualified for to Alaska, Hawaii, Bermuda, Canada or on other tours to Provence, France, England, Scotland and Wales or a Danube cruise from Passau to Budapest.  Bermuda was a favorite spot where he frequented many times.  He also enjoyed the family condo during many summers at Ocean Edge, Brewster on Cape Cod.

Bill is survived by his wife, Lenore, his children Dr William Hayden (Nancy) of Tenn., Debi Inch (Joel) and Nancy Hueber (Tom) of Illinois, and Barbara Wright (Chuck) of New York.

He was a much-loved stepdad to Deborah Coughlin (John) of Massachusetts, Craig Voorhis (Andrea) of New York and Kevin Voorhis (Marisa) of Rhode Island.

He is also survived by sisters Mary Jane Wells of South Carolina and Martha Woodward of Michigan and brother John Hayden (Linda) also from Michigan.

He also leaves 17 grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren.

He was predeceased by brother Joe Hayden and sister Elizabeth Sprunger. Also, by brother in-laws Kenneth Woodward and Ronald Wells.

The family wishes to extend sincere thanks to the staff at The Cliffs at Eagle Rock for their continued compassionate care and support of Bill during his 5 year stay there.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to the First Presbyterian Church at Caldwell, 326 Bloomfield Ave., Caldwell, NJ 07006 or The Cliffs at Eagle Rock, 707 Eagle Rock Avenue, West Orange, NJ 07052

John Andelora, Jr., age 93 of Haledon passed away peacefully on Monday October 19, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

John was born, raised, and a lifelong resident of Haledon.  He was the older of two children to John and Josephine Andelora.  While growing up in Haledon, he attended his local high school and as a teenager worked on a farm in Parsippany.  While in his last years of high school, John felt deep in his heart, a desire to serve his country.  John dropped out of high school and enlisted in the United States Navy. When signing his DD Form 4/1 for the Navy, John fabricated his age to be eighteen years old when in actuality he was only seventeen.  John served proudly in the US Navy being stationed in Europe, and was honorably discharged in 1946.  Later in 1951 he was called up from the reserves and served honorably once more in the Navy from 1951 until 1953 during the Korean Conflict, during this service he was stationed in Pearl Harbor.

The time between his services with the Navy, John started what would turn out to be his life long career in Graphic Arts.  He worked for a book bindery in Clifton after his first service with the Navy, then eventually earning and accepting a position at Russak Bindery in Paterson where he retired from in 1990.  While employed in Clifton, John worked closely with an attractive young woman buy the name of Anita Tanzillo.  John asked her out to the movies in Passaic and the couple started dating.  As fate would have it they fell in love and were married on May 21, 1950.  John and Anita lived on Zabriski St in Haledon for a number of years then moved to John Parents’ house in Haledon several years later.  In 1952 they welcomed the birth of their first son Roger, and later in 1958, their second son Donald.  John and Anita spent their entire lives in Haledon where they raised their two sons.  The couple cherished an amazing sixty-three years of loving and loyal marriage until Anita’s passing in 2013.

John was a diehard New York Yankees fan, his favorite player being Joltin’ Joe DiMaggio.  He was also a huge fan of the New York Giants as well.  As a young man he enjoyed fishing and bowling.  He was also an avid gardener and took great pride in his tomato gardens throughout the years. He was a member of the American Legion in Fairlawn for many years.  He also loved “dining out,” frequenting various restaurants with his family and friends.  Aside from all of John’s talents and hobbies, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to John than spending time with his family and providing for them.  John was a truly dedicated father, grandfather, and great-grandfather.  Becoming a great-grandfather was without a doubt one of highlights in his life.  John was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.    

John is survived by his two sons; Roger Andelora and his wife Donna of Wayne, and Donald Andelora and his wife Carol of Elmwood Park, one brother Robert Andelora and his wife Sharon of Allentown, PA, four grandchildren; Nicholas Andelora of Wayne, Cristina Andelora of Elmwood Park, Gina Andelora of Wayne, Elizabeth Andelora of Ladson, SC, one great grandchild Joseph Stoupakis of Wayne.  He was predeceased by his wife Anita Andelora (nee Tanzillo) in 2013 and his grandson Joseph Andelora in 2012.

In lieu of flowers, donations in John’s name may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorials Processing 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959. http://www.stjude.org or Wounded Warrior Project, 370 7th Ave Suite 1802, New York, NY 10001.  https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/

Brian Conrad Spring, age 59, of Kinnelon, formerly of Pompton Plains, passed peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, October 18, 2020 after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Brian was the Police Chief and a 34-year veteran of the Pequannock Township Police Department up until the time of his death.  During his tenure with the department, Brian attended the FBI Academy in Quantico, VA and the West Point School in Command and Leadership.  He was the treasurer and a member of the executive board of the Morris County Police Chiefs’ Association.

Brian was born in Chilton Hospital and raised in Pompton Plains.  He attended Our Lady of Good Counsel Elementary School and Pequannock Township High School where he was on the tennis team.  Brian went on to Lynchburg College in Virginia where played on the tennis team and received a degree in business administration.  Brian later attended Jersey City State College where he received a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice, and Fairleigh Dickenson University where he received a master’s degree in administrative science.  He was also certified as a public administrator. After returning from Lynchburg College, Brian joined the Pequannock Township Police Department in 1986.

In addition to his service in the police department, Brian was active in the community as a coach of softball and basketball with the Pequannock Township Little League, Boys and Girls Club of Northwest New Jersey, and the New Jersey Sparks Travel Softball Program.  Brian was passionate about softball and he loved being out on the field coaching and traveling with the New Jersey Sparks throughout the New York – New Jersey metropolitan area.  His players and parents loved him for his support and encouragement.  Brian always had a smile on his face when he was on the field and winning was secondary to Brian as long as the kids were having fun.

Brian loved playing tennis and continued to play long after college.  He gave lessons through the Pequannock Department of Recreation and at the Pacquenac Tennis Club.

Brian’s family was always the most important aspect of his life.  Brian and Stacy were together for 31 years and were married on March 19, 1994.  He loved Stacy and his daughter, Melissa more than anything else in the world.  Brian was so proud of his family and he was almost always at the shows and sporting events of his many nieces and nephews and it meant so much to them.  Brian was a huge fan of the New York Mets and he enjoyed going to games with Melissa at Shea Stadium and Citifield.   He enjoyed vacationing with his extended family during the summer on Lake George in Bolton Landing, New York and at the Five Kezars in Waterford, Maine.  He often complained about how cold the water was but for some reason he was always the first one in the lake and the last one out.

Brian is survived by his beloved wife, Stacy (Elvin) Spring and his adoring daughter, Melissa Spring and her partner Brad Schuler;   Brian was the son of Elizabeth (Spano) Spring and the late Conrad Spring of Pompton Plains and was the only brother to three sisters, Linda Mycock (Jim) of Windham, Maine, Kathleen Spring of Irmo, SC, and Susan Smith of Pompton Plains, NJ.  He was the son-in-law of Keith and Susan Elvin of Bolton Landing, NY and the brother-in-law of Kristin (Tim) Carr of Pompton Plains and the late Kevin Elvin.  He is the uncle of Megan Smith of Hamden, CT and James Smith of Pompton Plains, Joseph Mycock of Ft. Worth TX, Elizabeth Mycock of Windham, Maine, Bridget Carr and her fiancé, Vincent Zarrillo, Joshua Carr and Emma Carr, all of Pompton Plains and Megan (Carr) Cannella and her husband Justin and the great uncle to their two daughters, Lily and Molly of Chester, NJ.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the John Theurer Cancer Center - Bone Marrow Transplant Division at Hackensack University Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Evelyn Quint, age 89 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 16, 2020.

Evelyn was born at home in Wallington, the fifth of Constantine and Mary (Gazda) Dombrowski’s eight children. She grew up in Passaic and was raised primarily by her mother, as her father passed away suddenly after a scaffolding accident when she was just six years old. Life was not easy during that time and, at a very early age, Evelyn had to quickly learn the virtue of chipping in to help her family.  Thus, she left high school before graduating in order to take a job and earn an income. She learned to sew and took a job at Barbizon as a seamstress to do her part to help provide for her struggling family. Later in life, she would return to school to earn her certificate so that she could pursue a career as a nurse’s aide.

Evelyn was the beloved wife of H. Albert Quint. A nod to their shared appreciation of the simple things in life, their first date included hot dogs at Johnny and Hanges, followed by some friendly competition at the local bowling alley. They soon fell in love and married on Saturday, November 8, 1952 at St. Ann’s church in Fairlawn. This was followed by a beautiful reception at the Crystal Room in Passaic and a romantic road trip to Florida for their honeymoon.

Evelyn and Albert’s first home as husband and wife was on the third floor of a cold water flat on Sixth Street in Paterson. On cold winter nights, they would regularly engage in their playful dispute of who should get in bed first to warm the icy blankets. Well, the bed must have been warm enough because, while living there, they welcomed the births of three of their four children, Doris, Evelyn, and Albert. In 1959, their young family was proud to purchase their brand-new house in Wayne, built on the former property of the old Sheffield Farm. Prior to the completion of construction, Evelyn’s children fondly remember the excitement of their weekend trips to the house to inspect its progress and lay claims to the bedrooms they dreamed of making memories in. Several years after moving in, they welcomed Michael, their fourth child and little brother.

Evelyn wholeheartedly embraced her role as homemaker and mother, right from the very start. Those years of unconditional love and dedicated care would turn out to be valuable training for the full-time work she would later pursue once her children matured. She took a position as a nurse’s aide at the former Wayne Haven Nursing Home on Black Oak Ridge Road in Wayne. During the span of 28 years of work at Wayne Haven, Evelyn was like an angel to the elderly residents she cared for, regularly going above and beyond the duties of her job description. It was not unusual for her to bring her patients fresh coffee from home, just the way they liked it, or to take their clothing and bedding home to personally wash in her own machine. She would do whatever it took to bring a little sunshine and happiness into their lives – even doing personal shopping for them in her spare time. Evelyn’s grandchildren, whom she adored, will always have fond memories of how she would bring them to work to spread some cheer into those old people’s hearts. And Evelyn put the capital “D” in the word dependable! She never turned down a day of overtime, often to the dismay of her devoted husband. When Wayne Haven closed its doors, Evelyn continued her calling of service to others, performing private duty care, and continued to do so until fully retiring at the age of 76.

As a young lady, one of Evelyn’s favorite pastimes was strapping on her roller skates, complete with wooden wheels, and flying around the Wallington Roller Rink, impressing onlookers with her fancy footwork. As a mother and homemaker, she put those skates on the shelf to put her kitchen utensils and gardening tools to use instead.  Her greatest passions were cooking and baking, most famous for her babka, stuffed cabbage and melt-in-your-mouth apple pie.  Her pierogis were her greatest masterpiece of all, highly coveted and the cause of many a spat amongst her children and grandchildren as to who would lay claim to the next batch.  She also found gardening to be therapeutic, not to mention very rewarding, and took great pride in caring for her property along with her husband. Their yard was always adorned with the most beautiful flowers, and the vegetables that they planted came in real handy when preparing delicious meals for the family.

Eventually, Evelyn’s children began to bless her with grandchildren, and some of those grandchildren in turn blessed her with great-grandchildren. From that time forward, hobbies and pastimes took a back seat to the unconditional and adoring love she lavished upon them. Her life’s calling became creating childhood dreams for her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. They fondly remember being able to do pretty-much anything they wanted at Grandma’s house. Play in the mud and splash in the sprinkler for hours on end?  No problem! She was a young grandma too, so getting right in there to share in activities like jumping rope, hopscotch and tossing a ball was never an issue. Always demonstrating the patience of a saint when it came to her grandkids, games of Rummy 500 usually turned into games of Rummy 3500.  There was never such a thing as too many treats at grandma’s house either, “If you want another ice cream, feel free to grab one out of the freezer whenever you wish!”

Evelyn will always be remembered for her innumerable virtues. She was a selfless caregiver with a motivation that came from a very pure and loving place in her heart. Make no mistake, though small in stature, she was full of spunk and a force to be reckoned with. Channeling a strong will for the good of others, she leaves behind a legacy of demonstrating to her children and grandchildren, the virtues of hard work and selflessness.  Evelyn was the epitome of the adage “It is better to give than to receive.”    

Evelyn was the beloved wife of H. Albert Quint, blessed in marriage for 46 years until his passing in 1998. She was the very loving mother of Doris Daddio and husband William of Seaside Heights, Evelyn Celentano of Wayne, the late Al Quint (2017), and Michael Quint of Wayne; most adored grandmother of: Tony and partner Vito, Nicole and husband Andrew, Thomas, Michelle, and Cristina; cherished great-grandmother of: Cole, TJ, Niko, and Andrew; dear sister of: Joseph Dombrowski and wife Audrey of Elmwood Park, and Dolores Kunzig of Wayne and her late husband George; mother-in-law of Deborah Quint of Wayne; and aunt to numerous nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her sister Wanda Zaleski and her three brothers: Chet, Walter, and Eddie Dombrowski.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Evelyn’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959 (www.stjude.org).

Spiro Economou, age 82, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, October 15, 2020.

Born “Spyros Economou” in 1937, and raised in Newark, Spiro was the son of Constantine “Gus” and Mary (nee Nicholas) Economou, Sadly, Spiro’s father passed away when he was just nine years old. Thanks in large part to the loving care of his mother, Spiro went on to graduate from Central High School in Newark.

Through hard work and the blessing of a great personality and a genuinely warm heart, Spiro enjoyed a long career as a salesman in the health and beauty field. His dedication to his profession paid off as he eventually became a self-employed sales executive who cherished the countless friendships he made as much as the work that he did all those years. Even though he was 82 years old, Spiro never totally retired still having a client or two up to the present time.

One sunny day in November, 1954 when Spiro was just seventeen, he and his buddy decided to catch a movie at the theater in downtown Newark. After purchasing their tickets and getting their popcorn, they entered the theater and looked for good seats to watch the film. They spotted seats behind two beautiful young ladies and quickly agreed that those were the best seats in the house. Upon sitting down, Spiro wasted no time to engage in some small talk with one of the girls named Bella (Isabel) by asking her “Did the movie begin yet?” After the movie was over, the guys offered the girls a ride home in Spiro’s friend’s Studebaker. This car was perfect as it only had room for three so Bella ended up having to sit on Spiro’s lap. With such a warm, friendly and persuasive personality, Spiro was able to secure a future date with Bella and many more after that. The dating routine typically consisted of Spiro taking the bus to Bella’s house, then Bella and Spiro taking the bus to their dating destination, then taking the bus back to Bella’s home where her father was always willing to give Spiro a ride home. Needless to say, Spiro and Bella’s friendship turned to love and exactly five years to the day they first met, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family and friends on Saturday, November 7, 1959 at Bella’s church – St. Catherine of Siena R.C. Church in Cedar Grove. After a reception at the Douglas Hotel in Newark, the newlyweds honeymooned in Florida.

Life as husband and wife began in a brand new apartment in Nutley. Spiro and Bella lived there for three years and welcomed their firstborn Lisa. Upon moving to another new apartment in Bellville, they welcomed their second daughter Vicki. After three years living there, they moved in 1965 into their present home in Wayne where they welcomed two sons – Michael and Spiro T.

Spiro and Bella always looked forward to their annual trips to Aruba. They loved it there so much that they decided to buy two timeshares so they could go twice a year. They also took a vacation one time to the home of Bella’s ancestors in Italy.

Spiro’s greatest spare time enjoyment was spent playing cards with his buddies and cheering on his beloved New York Giants. Cards night with his friends was every Tuesday and there was always a wager on the games. Spiro was proud that, at the end of the night, though he didn’t always win, the worst he ever did was break even. One of Spiro and Bella’s favorite past times in Aruba was going to the casino. Spiro had a real attraction for the roulette table where his favorite numbers were 14, 2, and 35. Play them some time in memory of Spiro. Maybe you’ll be a winner. Bella simply liked to play craps and she loved to quip about how she always won until Spiro came along to give her advice. A New York Giants fan since he could remember, Spiro was a season ticket holder since 1960. Throughout the many years of sitting through those cold winter games, only to see his beloved Giants lose, there were certainly some special memories of some great wins also.

Spiro was a great guy who’s warm, friendly, outgoing, kind and generous nature was a blessing to family, friends and acquaintances alike.

Spiro was the beloved husband of Bella (nee Blasi), blessed in marriage for 60 years. He was the father of: Lisa and husband Joseph Zisa of Wayne, Vicki Economou of Hilton Head, SC, Michael Economou of Wayne, and Spiro T. and wife Lisa Marie Economou of Rumson; grandfather of: Allison, Alexis, Ava, Nicole, Joseph, Nicolas, and Christopher; brother-in-law of Michael and wife Sharon Blasi of San Diego, CA; and sister-in-law of Patricia Blasi of Cedar Grove.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Spiro’s name are asked to consider Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470, or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959 (www.stjude.org).

Peter J. Scibetta, age 93 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 15, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Peter was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ and was one of eleven children to Biagio and Sarah Scibetta.  Peter grew up in the midst of the Great Depression as many people of the “Greatest Generation” did.  Peter at an early age harnessed the incredible work ethic that would fuel his career and character throughout his life.  When he was only eight years old, his brothers Benny and Carl took him to New York City where he shined shoes.  Peter gave the money that he earned directly to his parents to help support the family. Peter was employed by the United States Post Office sorting mail on trains in New York State for many years, eventually transferring to the Post Office in Paterson, gaining the title of Supervisor, and retiring nearly forty years ago.

Throughout Peter’s life he did whatever had to be done and more to support and provide for his family.  He was willing to work two jobs, often overnight pulling double shifts.  One of the main goals early in Peter’s life was to work and save enough money so that he would be able to move his growing family from Jersey City to the Town of Wayne, which he did in 1958.  Peter also worked for A&P part time at night as a clerk for twenty years as well as for Skyline Auto Exchange as a driver for twenty years.

After graduating from Ferris High School in 1945, Peter thought he would be spending his summer at the beaches of the Jersey Shore.  However, the United States Army had something different in mind.  Instead of soaking up the sun at the beach, Peter spent his summer in Fort Dix at basic training.  Peter served honorably in the United States Army from 1945 -1947, stationed in Fort Devins, MA barracks.  There he discharged GI’s returning from Europe.  Also while stationed in Fort Devins, he and his army buddies once had lunch with Louella Parsons, a famous journalist.

On January 7, 1951 Peter married the love of his life Mary Bogan.  Peter and Mary cherished nearly seventy years of loving and loyal marriage, and raised their ten children together.  Some of Peter’s most treasured past times included watching his beloved NY Giants and his favorite college football teams, Clemson and LSU on TV.  Peter also cherished traveling to various destinations throughout the world including Paris, Lourdes, Canada, and Mexico.  One of his most frequented destinations was Italy.  He traveled with his wife five times to Rome, Pompeii, Amalfi Coast, Venice, Pisa and Sicily where he was treated “like a king.” He spent many hours watching travel videos of Italy. Peter also enjoyed watching cowboy movies, particularly movies with Clint Walker. He also enjoyed movies with Errol Flynn, James Cagney and Judy Garland. He was a fan of the opera, as well.   Peter was also devoted to his Catholic Faith. He was one of the founding members of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne as well as a fourth degree member of the Knights of Columbus.  Above all of Peter’s interests and hobbies, his greatest passion was providing for and spending time with his family.  He was a very generous man, never forgetting any of his children’s or grandchildren’s birthdays. Peter was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Peter is survived by his wife Mary (nee Bogan) of Wayne, ten children; Peter and his wife Barbara, Mary Jane Doud and her husband Tommy, Bernadette, John and his wife Marianne, Sarah Nunziata and her husband Tom, Frances Moraca and her deceased husband Pete, Blaise, Edward and Irene, Michael and his wife Allyson, Nancy Meyer and her husband Dave, two brothers; Paul and his wife Lucille, and Joseph, one sister; Anna Marie Cavanaugh, twenty-one grandchildren; Brian Scibetta and his wife Shadi, David Scibetta, Christopher, Ryan, and Kate Doud, Michael Zeigler and his fiancée Kate Woodward, Samantha Scibetta, Jacqueline and her fiancé Mike Bollard, Allessandra Scibetta, Melanie Nunziata, Thomas Nunziata and his wife Samantha, Ann Ziata, Amanda and Peter Moraca, Elena Scibetta, Bethany Scibetta, Kayla, Shayna, Heather, Sabrina, and Chloe Meyer, one great-grandchild Sophia Mann, and 49 nieces and nephews.  Peter was predeceased by his siblings; Biagio (Benny), Carl, and Gabriel Scibetta, Lillian Stinziano, and Virginia (Dolly) Loredo, and by his infant daughter, Theresa.

Lorraine Zahner (nee Grabowski) age 84 of Wanaque, formerly of Pompton Plains passed at home on Thursday, October 15, 2020.

She was born in Passaic to Alexander and Tillie Grabowski. She was raised in Clifton where she graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1953.  After marriage she lived in Clifton, Wayne, and Pompton Plains before moving to Wanaque Reserve in Wanaque.

In her younger years she worked at Meyer Brothers Store in Paterson and as a waitress in a diner.  She didn't work outside the home after marriage until the kids were older, when she turned her love of garage sales into her own business - a second hand store called The Thrift Shop on Browertown Road in West Paterson. She truly loved that store.

For many years she dedicated herself to raising her four children. She was always a fixture at her children's activities and sporting events. In her later years she loved babysitting her grandchildren.  All fondly remember her high energy babysitting where she would help them do crafts, read books, take day trips to the park, and make tents in the house among many other activities.  On special occasions she even dressed up as Big Bird or Snoopy. When you were with "Gram", there was no sitting still.  Her love of activity translated into her adult social life as well.  She was always hosting parties for which she did all the cooking but it didn't stop there.  She knew how to make these get togethers a lot of fun.  She organized parades, contests, quizzes, charades and all kinds of fun events. Her home also had an open door policy, and neighbors and relatives were always stopping by unannounced for a quick cup of coffee.  When not entertaining, she was on the phone for hours.  Her caring and welcoming personality was the glue that kept her immediate family, extended family, extended-extended family, church family, and friends' family close to her.  For many years she bowled but had a tough time breaking 100 where it seemed she was there more for the social aspects than the sport itself.  

Lorraine and Charles' first meeting and courtship is filled with love and persistence - on Charles' part.  He first eyed Lorraine when she was wearing white buck shoes, red knee socks, and Bermuda shorts. He didn't get to talk to Lorraine that day but their paths would cross months later on a blind date.  When Lorraine first laid eyes upon Charles she groaned to her friends about the nerd she had been set up with.  He was persistent and when he finally worked up the nerve to ask Lorraine for a kiss she just stared back at him with an, I can't believe this guy, look.  Eventually he did get that kiss and Lorraine soon fell in love. Lorraine's brothers liked Charles because they heard he was studying to be an engineer and perhaps they could have the good fortune to get a ride on his train someday.  Their first date was on June 11, 1953 and they married on June 11, 1955 at the Holy Assumption Russian Orthodox Church in Clifton and honeymooned at the Pocono Mountain Inn.  They enjoyed a loving, caring, and giving marriage of fifty-nine years before Charles' passing in February of 2014.

Lorraine was an active member of the Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne for many years.  At the church she served in many capacities including being President of the Evening Circle, involved with the Couples Club, served as an Elder, was always hard at work at the church's Soup Luncheons, and loved supervising the Haggle Table at the Christmas Fair. She was dedicated to her faith and enjoyed all aspects of the church's faith based activities.

Lorraine (Grabowski) Zahner was the beloved wife of the late Charles Zahner (d. February 15, 2014); devoted mother of Diane Barany and her husband Harry of Pequannock, Richard Zahner and his wife Cheryl of Schenectady, NY, Steven Zahner and his wife Denice of Pompton Plains, and Daniel Zahner and his wife Cindy of Pompton Plains; cherished grandmother of Dana, Timothy, Allen, Emily, Harrison, Mitchell, Stefanie, Michele, Samuel, Joseph, Rebecca, and Jennifer; dear sister of the late Alan and Robert Grabowski.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated.

June Lillian Gregory, age 90 of Clifton, New Jersey passed away peacefully on October 14, 2020.

June was happily married to her beloved husband Sergo for 66 years. She was the devoted mother to Lisa Galo and mother-in-law to Felix Galo. June was grandmother to Gina Christiano and her husband Dr. Tom Christiano, Matthew and Caitlin Galo, Thomas Galo and Cristina Giappone. June was the cherished great-grandmother to Thomas and Luke Christiano and Felicity Davis Galo.

June lived most of her life in Plainview, New York. She enjoyed playing Mah-jong, knitting, sewing, and watching Yankees baseball. She loved to travel and spend time with her beloved family. June was loved by all and will be greatly missed.

Charles (Skip) Jordan Robert Howe, age 72, of Lake Ariel, Pennsylvania, formerly of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Monday, October 12, 2020.

He was born in Montclair to the late Virginia and Charles Jordan Robert Howe and raised in Livingston where he graduated from Livingston High School with the Class of 1966. Skip was a natural athlete and during his high school years played golf, football, baseball and tennis.  He continued his education at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison and was later accepted into Pace University in New York City.  During his college years his father passed away at the age of fifty-two and he left college to become the provider and head of household for his mother and brother.

Skip found work in the dental field where he designed dental offices and procured the necessary equipment and supplies to run those offices. He was an exceptional man that was revered throughout his industry. Over the course of his career, Skip was nationally ranked in the top 20 of his field. In 2005 Skip’s battle with Parkinson’s made it hard for him to perform up to the high level he was used to and chose to retire.

He will be lovingly remembered for his brilliant mind, his outgoing personality, and his “sure I’ll try that” attitude. He fiercely fought Parkinson’s disease for the past thirty years without a complaint. He amazed many with his positive attitude, never letting Parkinson’s hold him back.

Skip’s determination coupled with his thrust for knowledge led him to not only teach himself guitar but become successful with his rock band Rain Tree County during the 70’s and 80’s. His passion for music continued throughout his life and had a positive impact on those he shared it with.

Skip was successful at just about anything he put his mind to. One of his passions beside music was golf.  He was an excellent golfer who at a young age would do just about anything to get on the course. Starting with being a caddy at his local country club. His love for golf was shared with his son Jordan and they often played together at Packanack Golf Course.  

In 1983 while working at a dentists office, Karen Ohlson met Skip Howe and that was the start of their thirty-seven year romance. Their first phone call on a Saturday lasted for about three hours.  At the end of the call Skip asked Karen to go out with him on Monday.  She said for him to call back to confirm and the salesman in him came out to close the deal and said “no…I’m confirming now.” Their first date, November 21, 1983 was to The Office in Summit and they got along so well they closed the place. And they have been inseparable ever since.

One month into their love affair, Skip asked Karen to move in with him, a story she loves to relive - When Karen arrived at his house after work he stopped her at the front door and cued up the song “I’ve Been Waiting for A Girl Like You”. With the fire going and a glass of Champagne, Skip took Karens hand for a slow dance. He sang the words aloud, told her how beautiful she was and they could truly rely on each other through thick and thin. Words that rang true throughout their relationship.

They married on September 21, 1985, two years after their first date. Through the years they acknowledged monthly the 21st as their special day.  They wished each other happy anniversary each month over the past thirty-seven years.  Actually it was a competition to see who could say it first on the 21st of each month.  Karen even set her bedside alarm for one minute after midnight so she could awaken Skip with a “happy anniversary” to which he replied “that’s cheating.”

Skip was the loving husband of thirty-five years to Karen (Ohlson) Howe; devoted father of Jordan Robert Howe of Chambersburg, PA and Paige Rigoglioso and her husband Charles of Wayne; cherished grandfather of Charles Rigoglioso III; he was the loved brother of Ricky Howe of Wayne and his late wife Marie (Mulick) Howe (d.2020); he was the dear uncle of Carrie Howe Franco (Pat), Laura Howe Jung (Ed), Ryan Howe. Brother-in-law to Stymie Ohlson (Kevin), Kristine (Ohlson) Walby (Christopher), and uncle to Chandlar Walby and Grant Walby; Great-Uncle to Aubrey Hartwell and Jaxton Walby. Skip was also dearly loved by his extended family and a multitude of friends he made over the years.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Skip's Go Fund Me Page would be greatly appreciated.

Patricia A. Montalbano (nee Nanus), age 73 of Little Falls, died peacefully on Friday, October 9, 2020.

Pat grew up in Wood-Ridge, NJ and after graduating from Wood-Ridge High School, she learned Interior Design at Pratt Institute in New York City.  Early in her career, she worked as an art teacher at several area parochial schools, and was a designer for Brenner Desk.  She went on to open her own interior design business known as Montalbano Design Group, in Little Falls.  She taught interior design at Berkeley College and also served as the President of the NJ Chapter of the American Society of Interior Designers.

Pat loved her family and friends and enjoyed socializing and entertaining with them.  They enjoyed many great years at Rockaway River Country Club with friends and family.  Pat was a fantastic cook and made many traditional Italian foods.  Christmas Eve was always a big event in their home, and no one ever went home hungry.  Pat especially loved being a grandmother – her granddaughters fondly called her "Mima".  She enjoyed a very close,  special and unique relationship with each one of her granddaughters.  Of course she enjoyed shopping, and that was something she gladly did with all of them.  On their birthdays, Mima’s tradition was to take them shopping for the day, and they all had very special memories to cherish.  Her granddaughters will all miss her dearly.

Pat met her husband, Bernie Montalbano, after being introduced by a mutual friend.  They hit it off immediately and Bernie asked her out on a date.  They went to a local restaurant and their affection for one another became apparent very early on.  Bernie proposed to Pat while they were strolling along Main Street in Rutherford, window shopping during the Christmas season.  They were married at St. Philips Church in Clifton on November 21, 1970 and honeymooned in Montego Bay, Jamaica.  They eventually settled in Little Falls, where they have lived happily ever since.  Throughout the years, they were very social and enjoyed playing tennis and golf at Rockaway River Country Club.  Pat also enjoyed playing Mahjong with friends from the club.  Eventually they purchased a vacation home in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina where Pat and Bernie enjoyed watching the sunset from the beach and spending time with children, granddaughters, and friends.  They loved being there together, and they would often go down to the beach, sit on ‘their’ bench, and simply watch the ocean.  Together, they enjoyed fifty years of what Bernie describes as a “perfect” marriage.  Bernie has lost his soulmate and the love of his life.

Pat is survived by her beloved husband Bernard of Little Falls, their two children; Mark Montalbano and his wife Mary Ann, Paula Rubenacker and her husband Matthew, and four granddaughters; Madeline and Grace Montalbano and Lea and Eryn Rubenacker, all of Wayne.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Sharing Network would be greatly appreciated.  Pat has long been an advocate for organ donation, having received a living donor kidney herself many years ago, your support to the Sharing Network would be most meaningful. www.njsharingnetwork.org.

Theodore “Teddy” DeVries, 29 years old of Oak Ridge, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, October 7, 2020.  Sadly, his grandfather, Dewain Crim of Denville, passed away just hours after on the same day.

Teddy grew up in Oak Ridge where he loved the outdoors, riding his quad in the woods, and hanging out with his friends.  As a young boy, he was like a monkey and shortly after he learned to walk, his mother found him climbing into the highest kitchen cabinets!  There was simply no way of holding him back.  Teddy had a big heart and made friends everywhere he went.  He also had the uncanny ability to make friends with all sorts of different people.  He meshed well with everyone and was sweet, polite, and generous.  He was the type of guy who would do anything to help a friend in need, no matter what.

Teddy’s true love was his dog, Janii.  She’s nearly eighteen years old, and the two of them have been inseparable for the past thirteen years or so.  Teddy loved Janii more than anything, and she loved him right back.  In his heart, Teddy had so much love to give and Janii was the lucky recipient.

Teddy is survived by his mother; Patricia Siek and her husband George of Whiting, NJ, and by his father; Phillip DeVries of Oak Ridge, NJ, his three siblings; Heather DeVries and her fiancé Bryan Walsh of Jefferson, Catherine DeVries and her boyfriend Josh Nussbaum of Franklin, and Philip J. DeVries, Jr. of Totowa, his grandmother; Cecilia Crim of Denville, his niece; Hailey DeVries, and two nephews; Cooper and Jasper DeVries, and a large family of aunts, uncles, cousins, and beloved friends.  He was predeceased by his grandparents; Hendrick and Margaret DeVries, and Dewain Crim.

Mary E. Ihne (nee Vojvodich), age 90 of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, formerly a 58 year resident of North Bergen, passed peacefully on Tuesday, October 6, 2020.

Mary was the loving wife of twenty-five years to the late Robert Ihne (d.1981); loving mother of John Ihne and his wife Bernadette of Wayne, and Joseph Ihne of Denville; cherished grandmother of John Ihne, Jr. and his wife Katelyn of Parsippany, and Gina Fernicola and her husband Joseph of Randolph; she was the dearly loved great-grandmother of John “Jack” Ihne, III, Nicholas Fernicola, and Madison Ihne; she was the loved sister of Mario Vojvodich and his wife Barbara of Pompton Plains; and dearly loved aunt of Laura Eisen.

Mary was born in Jersey City to Martin and Jaka Vojvodich.  She was raised on 12th Street in Union City and graduated from St. Michael’s High School in Union City with the Class of 1948.  Just out of high school, she soon found work as a secretary at the Netherlands Trading Society Bank in New York City.  She often spoke of how she would walk in heels from her home in Jersey City to the Path Train then to the office in the city through the rain and snow. During this time, she also worked as a seamstress helping friends and family with wedding and evening gowns.

Mary met the love of her life, Robert Ihne, through mutual friends, Marian and Don Addas.  They married on November 24, 1956, at St. Joseph’s Church in Union City, then drove to Niagara Falls in their blue and white Dodge Coronet for their honeymoon.  They started their life together on Congress Street in Jersey City where their first son, John was born.  Shortly thereafter they purchased their first and only home on 76th Street in North Bergen where their marriage was again blessed with their second son, Joseph.  They had a loving and devoted marriage of twenty-five years before Robert’s passing in August of 1981.

After dedicating herself to raising her two boys, Mary returned to work as a bookkeeper at the Balance Foods Store in North Bergen and eventually retired from the law firm of Verde, Steinberg & Pontell, LLC in Hackensack at the age of 87 after 25 plus years.  She was known as “Miss Mary” by all of her co-workers and was loved and respected by all who worked with her.

Mary was always particular about her appearance and never went out without her accessories and the right shoes. She loved New York City, and was always out on the town with her many friends to see Operas, Ballets and Plays and was a member of the Metropolitan Opera Society.

Those who knew Mary knew she couldn’t sit still.  She was at the movies each month, went out to dinner with friends, and loved to attend dances, aside from her love of dancing, she also traveled extensively.  Newly widowed, she booked trips to Bermuda and Hawaii with travel tours.  However, she was never alone for long as she met and kept friends from each trip she was on.  Mary could and would talk to anyone.  She had a kind and compassionate way about her and many of whom she met quickly became fast friends.  She cruised the Mississippi on the River Boat Queen, went to England and boarded the Queen Mary II for a cruise.  She loved the casinos and visited Las Vegas many times.

Being of Croatian descent, Mary visited her family and friends in Korcula many times over the years.  In fact, Mary was the first stop for family who emigrated from Croatia. She helped with translation, locating housing, and employment while assisting them through everyday life in America. She often was the NYC ‘tour guide’ for many of her overseas family who stayed with her for weeks at a time - never saying no to their visit no matter when they planned to arrive.

Most of all Mary cherished her family and friends. She was a caring friend to anyone who needed her help in times of need. She would visit, bring food, and comfort not only her family and extended family, but her friends and did so without hesitation.  Mary volunteered at a nursing home after her dear friend Rose passed and quickly made more friends who also cherished her friendship till this day.

She attended church every Sunday and afterwards would join her friends at the area diners for brunch. Mary enjoyed dancing and could often be found at The Bayway in Elizabeth, The Coupe in Fairview, or the Fort Lee Senior Center dancing up a storm. . Whenever you visited Mary, you could find her sitting at the kitchen table with her feet up, phone on her ear, laughing and chatting away. She was always there when you needed her, she was selfless, loyal, and an easy-to-talk-to confidant. Her children, grandchildren and family will always remember the holidays and the delicious Histula and Christmas Cookies she prepared with so much love and hard work.  The cookies were put in her dozen or more tins and the Histula would be placed gently in huge coat boxes and stored on the bed in the guest room.  When the cookies came out on Christmas Day, everyone enjoyed the love she put into them.

Mary adored her grandchildren and was fortunate enough to know and love her three great-grandchildren.  Her grandchildren, John and Gina, were her pride and joy. They could do nothing wrong. She was their ‘Grandma’ and they loved her more than anything.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memphis, TN would be greatly appreciated.

Friends are warmly invited to join with Ruth’s family for a service in memory of her life and new life in Christ, which will take place 11 AM on Saturday, November 7, 2020 at The Chapel, 264 Jacksonville Road, Lincoln Park, NJ 07035.

Ruth Jones, age 87, of Pequannock, NJ has passed away on October 5th, 2020.

Born in Montclair, NJ, Ruth was the daughter to Andrew and Marie Van Buskirk and the youngest of their thirteen children.

Ruth is survived by her husband David Jones, her sister Betty and a multitude of nieces and nephews. She is the mother of six children, the grandmother to twelve grandchildren and the great grandmother to five great grandchildren.

Ruth married David, her high school sweetheart and they recently celebrated their 69th wedding anniversary. She attended Jacksonville Chapel for 62 years where she taught Sunday school. Ruth enjoyed family gatherings, reading, bible studies, music, singing, baking, knitting, playing cards with her grandchildren, participating in the Senior Olympics and watching the NY Yankees. Ruth's number one title was "MOM".

In memory of Ruth, donations may be sent to The Chapel 264 Jacksonville Road Lincoln Park, NJ 07035, and would be greatly appreciated by the Jones family.

Katarzyna Tieluszecka age 38 of Toms River passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Sunday, October 4, 2020 while spending time with her loving family.

Katarzyna, affectionately known as Kasia to her family and friends, was born in Hajnowka, Poland and was the oldest of three children to Miroslaw and Alina Tieluszecki.  Kasia was raised in Poland until the age of ten when her family immigrated to the United States in search of a better life and the American Dream.  Upon arriving in the United States, the family settled in Garfield where they lived for about four years.  In 1996, Kasia and her family then moved to the town of Haskell.  While living in Haskell, Kasia attended Wanaque High School where she was on the girl’s field hockey team.  Kasia had an incredible work ethic in her and sought employment at the age of fifteen at a local bagel store. She then worked as a waitress at the IHOP with her sister Adela on Hamburg Tpk in Wayne.  Following her graduation from Lakeland High School in 2001, she attended William Paterson University where she studied Business and Marketing.  In 2006 she graduated from William Paterson with high honors, earning her Bachelor’s Degree.

Subsequent to graduating college and earning her degree, Kasia worked tending bars for a few years for some different taverns and restaurants including Franklin Steakhouse in Nutley where she lived at the time.  Kasia truly enjoyed this work as it put her in the position to meet many people and make many friends.  After working a few years tending bar, Kasia started a new career as a Pharmaceutical Sales Representative with Primex Pharmaceuticals Ltd.  She held this position for about two years and was then offered another job with Horizon Pharmaceuticals. She earned several awards and bonuses, being named their top sales representative for several years.  During her time in Pharmaceutical Sales she moved to Brick Township for two years, then to Toms River where she was currently residing.

Kasia had a great love for the outdoors and enjoyed hiking, camping, mountain biking, and was obsessed with picking mushrooms.  She loved being on the water; boating, fishing, kayaking, paddle boarding, swimming, or just soaking up the sun.  Because Kasia cherished the outdoors, it came as no surprise that she loved gardening.  Kasia grew a variety of flowers, vegetables, and fruit including blackberries, cucumbers and tomatoes nearly all year long.  Not only did Kasia love to grow the vegetables, she also put them to good use with her outstanding cooking skills.  Kasia treasured cooking a large variety of food for her family and friends for all sorts of occasions.  As people were sitting down to eat her delicious meals, Kasia would remain in the kitchen, continuing to cook and then clean.

Kasia was a selfless person who was there for those she cared for and always wanted the best for them. She worked with the Coalition for Peace Action in Paterson and their gun buyback program for several years.  She also had a deep love for animals, especially cats. She was known as the “Cat Lady”  because she would walk her cats Mishka, Bella, and Fluffy around the neighborhood on a leash.  Kasia loved to show off her awesome dance moves and was a big fan of music and concerts, her tastes ranged from Electronic Dance to Sinatra.  She had a natural talent for painting with acrylic and oil paints, creating beautiful landscapes and truly unique abstract art. Her favorite thing to paint was also her favorite place to be, the ocean.  Kasia was extremely creative and treasured spending time on her arts and crafts. She loved animals from all walks of life and enjoyed caring for wild life. A woman of culture, Kasia loved to travel. She and her family enjoyed wonderful vacations together to far away destinations all over the world including their homeland of Poland.  Kasia always told her family the city of Krakow, Poland was the most beautiful city in the world.   Other favorite places Kasia visited included Florida, Hawaii, Jamaica, Puerto Rico and most memorably traveling all over Europe for 30 days.

During the last year and half Kasia happily spent her time in a loving relationship with the love of her life, Pasquale Destro. They spent everyday together in their own paradise on the bay, enjoying life to the fullest and doing all of the things she loved, and looking forward to weekly visits from her parents and sisters.

Kasia was a smart, selfless person who was helpful, hardworking and had a great deal of determination in whatever she did.  She was funny and sarcastic and was the type of person whom you couldn’t help but want to be around.  Aside from all of her interests, hobbies, and talents, Kasia’s greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Kasia than spending time with her friends and family.  Kasia was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Kasia is survived by her parents Miroslaw and Alina Tieluszecki of Haskell, two younger sisters, Adela and Diana, both of Haskell, one aunt (Godmother) Theresa Durzynska and her husband Edmund, her aunt Lilla Durzynska and her daughters Eliza and Dominica, as well as family from Poland, Canada, and Australia.

Kasia’s beautiful soul will never be forgotten.

In addition to and in lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Kasia's name are asked to consider Kasisi Foundation, ul. Klarysewska 52C 02-936 Warsaw, Poland https://www.fundacjakasisi.pl/ or Compassion International,  Inc 12290 Voyager Parkway Colorado Springs, CO 80921 https://www.compassion.com/.

Susanne V. McGarry, age 71, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home, while in the loving company of her family, on Thursday, October 1, 2020.

Born is Passaic, Susanne’s childhood was spent in Garfield, Sacramento, CA, Passaic, and many years in Wayne in the family home on Clifford Drive. After graduation from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1968, she joined the workforce with a position at Hoffmann La Roche in Clifton.

In 1968, while working at La Roche, Sue met the love of her life – Owen McGarry. She didn’t know it but, one day, Owen had noticed her in the company cafeteria. Later that day, he saw Sue again as she was walking across the parking lot towards her car to go home. He politely approached her and struck up a conversation. The mutual vibe seemed positive so Owen asked Sue if she would like to go out with him the following Friday night. Much to his delight, she agreed and they spent that Friday night enjoying dinner at a restaurant across the highway from La Roche. As Sue and Owen’s love for each other grew, Owen came up with a plan to ask for Sue’s hand in marriage. Of course, he started by purchasing a beautiful ring. One evening, he and Sue and another couple – Patty and Bill met at Susy’s house before going to see Tom Jones perform at the Copacabana in New York City. Before they left for the concert, Sue’s mother wanted to take a group photo and, as they posed for the picture, Owen reached into his pocket and held up the box with the ring. Of course, Sue’s mom noticed immediately and screamed in delight! They married on Sunday, August 23, 1970 at Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. A reception was held at The Wayne Manor on route 23 (now a BMW dealership) where they danced to the Beatles “Something” for their first dance as husband and wife. Afterwards, they honeymooned in Hawaii.

Sue and Owen’s first home together was in Wallington. They soon moved to Sparta and were blessed with their daughter Tracy and son Ian. In 1985, they moved to Wayne where they’ve lived ever since. With the arrival of children Sue left her work at Hoffman La Roche to become a fulltime mother and homemaker. She learned to become an excellent cook – so good that her son Ian said that his friends would rather eat at his house than their own. Family favorites included Sue’s meatloaf, shepherd’s pie, ravioli and spaghetti, and any recipe with flounder. Sue had the greatest knack for making the McGarry house the type of place you simply looked forward to coming home to. Susanne was so energized by the magic of the holidays and that energy was contagious. With the enthusiasm of a youngster, she’d start decorating for Halloween and Christmas a month or two before the big days actually arrived. The house smelled delicious from the aroma of the fresh pine needles on the always real Christmas tree and the nostalgia of the Department 56 Christmas Village always put everyone in that holiday spirit.

One of Sue’s greatest joys was listening to music. In fact, music was playing in the house all the time. Favorite artists included Janice Joplin, The Beatles, Paul McCartney, Joe Cocker, Canned Heat, Simon and Garfunkel, James Taylor, Stevie Winwood, Fleetwood Mac, Jefferson Starship, Genesis, Rod Stewart, The Rolling Stones, Elton John, and Billy Joel. She and Owen saw many of these artists in live concerts. Before the got married, they were planning to go to Woodstock but opted out to save their money in anticipation of marriage. There was also no bigger Mets fan than Sue. Many trips were made to Flushing Queens to see the Amazin’ Mets including thirty times in the 1986 season when they last won the World Series. Even in the last five years since suffering a stroke, Sue made it to a game at least once a season and enjoyed the action from her wheelchair while enjoying her favorite snack of Cracker Jacks.

When her kids were younger, the family enjoyed trips to Virginia Beach and later in life, she and Owen to several trips to Las Vegas where several times they got to see George Carlin perform his comedy routine. Closer to home, Sue enjoyed working in her garden, so much so, that she became a florist and worked at Strawberry Blossom Garden Center when it was owned by her husband Owen. Later, when they sold the business, Sue got a job in the floral department at the Kings Grocery Store in Wayne (which is now Corrado’s Market). Sue and Owen were blessed with 50 years of marriage. They loved each other’s company and special date nights out to favorite restaurants including, Mt. Fuji Japanese Steakhouse, Ben Benson’s Steakhouse, Houston’s in Hackensack, and Houlihan’s in Wayne never grew old. She adored her children through all their phases of life. When Tracy was younger, Sue was there for all her figure skating practices and competitions and they family would take trips to Lake Placid to see figure skating. She and Tracy also enjoyed day trips together down the Jersey Shore at Spring Lake and, of course, going shopping together. After filling the trunk with their purchases, they often hit a favorite restaurant for lunch. With her son Ian, Sue learned the true meaning of travel by traveling all over the place to see him play hockey on a traveling team, and she even accepted his invitation to a Van Halen and Metallica concert.

Despite numerous battles with health over the past recent years, Sue always remained upbeat and positive – even in the worst of times. Not only did she dress classy, she always behaved in a classy manner and was truly one of the kindest persons you would ever meet. She loved visitors to her house and they were always allowed to stay for as long as they wanted. And she loved calling and receiving phone calls from good friends. Sue loved good conversation and short ones often turned into long ones. She could talk about anything but especially liked to talk about current affairs. When Owen would come home from work, he simply just enjoyed seeing her because she was always happy and upbeat.            

Susanne was the beloved wife of Owen, blessed in marriage for fifty years. She was the most loving mother of Tracy McGarry of Scotch Plains and Ian McGarry of Wayne; cherished sister of Kathy West of Pompton Lakes and her son Jason West; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Susanne’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

(www.stjude.org)

Mary Ann Scharf, age 81, of Butler, passed peacefully on Saturday, September 26, 2020.

Mary Ann was born to Salvatore and Genevieve Greco at the family home in West Orange.  Mary Ann was a twin and she was born in the bathtub and delivered by her father at the family home in West Orange. Her twin brother was born fifteen minutes later in the bed.

Mary Ann grew up in a family that was deeply devoted to their Catholic faith.  She attended Our Lady of Lourdes Grammar School in West Orange and Mt. St. Dominic Academy in Caldwell where she graduated with the Class of 1956.  She continued her education at the Caldwell College where she graduated with the Class of 1960 with a Bachelor’s Degree in English. She also attended Jersey City State College where she received her Masters Degree in Guidance and a State of NJ Certification for drug and alcohol counseling.  In 1956 Maryann entered the Dominican Sisters of Caldwell, received her Habit in 1957 and took her 1st Vows in 1958 and her Final Vows in 1964.  It was in 1968 she left the Dominican Order and married Robert Scharf in a private ceremony on May 10, 1968 that was officiated by the Most Reverend Thomas A. Boland, Archbishop of Newark.

MaryAnn will be lovingly remembered for her devotion to her Catholic faith, wonderful sense of humor, and as a great all-around cook. Although she cooked the special ingredient of love into everything she made, her shrimp scampi will be remembered as her signature dish. For ten years she served as the Pastor’s Cook for the late Monsignor Stanley E. Schinski at the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne where she also served on the Parish Council for four years. Mary Ann worked as a Guidance Counselor for the Jersey City Board of Education for many years.

Mary Ann was the loving wife of forty-five years to the late Robert Scharf (2013); she was the devoted mother of Stacy Scharf and devoted foster mother of Thuy Dinh, and Duyen Pham; adored grandmother of Emma Pham; she was the dearly loved sister of her twin brother Richard K. Greco of Wilton, FL, Martha Shadwell of Kinnelon, John Greco and his wife Nancy of Toms River, Alberta C. Greco of Totowa, Reverend Raymond Greco OSB of Sun City, AZ; she was predeceased by her siblings Joseph P. Greco, ESQ., Genevieve Mary Morgan, Angela Jean Mc Cluskey, Reverend Evan Joseph Greco, OFM, Reverend Robert Paschal Greco, and  Loren A. Greco. Mary Ann was also the dearly loved aunt to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Catholic Charities, 777 Valley Road, Clifton, NJ 07013 would be greatly appreciated.

Arlene Elizabeth den Hollander, age 61, of Pompton Plains, passed away on Saturday, September 26, 2020, after a brief illness.

Born in Passaic, Arlene was raised in Clifton and North Haledon and had been a long-time resident of Lincoln Park before moving to Pompton Plains in 2017.

Arlene was a graduate of Upsala College where she earned the honor of being her class’s salutatorian. She went on to enjoy a long and fruitful career as a faithful and dedicated school teacher at the Netherlands Reformed Christian School in Pompton Plains. In between her years of teaching, Arlene stayed home to raise her own children, and over the span of her teaching career, which only stopped due to her recent illness, she taught many different grade levels and subjects. She was a member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church of Franklin Lakes where she served for many years as organist.  

Arlene was the beloved wife of the late Jon den Hollander who passed away in 2009. She was the loving mother of Leah and husband Samuel Moerdyk of Grand Rapids, Michigan, Sarah den Hollander of Pompton Plains, and Jonathan den Hollander of Pompton Plains; cherished grandmother of: Juan, Johanna, Tirzah, Samson, and Simeon; dearest daughter of Lena Southway (nee Hoogmoed) of Pompton Plains and the late Peter Southway who passed away in 2016; dear sister of Peter J. and wife Marilyn Southway of Newton; daughter-in-law of Claire den Hollander of Pittstown, NJ and the late Jacob den Hollander who passed away in 2004; sister-in-law of David and Cindy den Hollander, Jacob and Tammi den Hollander, Elizabeth and Ray Grisnich, Rev. Henry and Ada den Hollander, Cheryl den Hollander, Mark and Gwen den Hollander, Roy and Karen den Hollander, Dawn and Corne Vogelaar, Dwayne den Hollander and the late Kevin den Hollander and Steven den Hollander; and dear aunt of many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Arlene’s name are asked to consider the Netherlands Reformed Christian School Endowment Fund, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Joseph was born in Passaic and was one of four children to Joseph and Caroline Opalka.  Joe was raised in Clifton until moving to Wayne in 1960.  Following his graduation from high school, he attended Paterson Technical Institute where he studied Mechanical Drafting for approximately two years.  Joe then found work quickly as an Aerospace Machinist at Singer Kearfott in West Paterson.  His career as an Aerospace Machinist spanned more than thirty years until his retirement in the late 1990’s.

In 1957 as a young man, Joe got the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States National Guard with the 215th Infantry.  After his honorable discharge in 1960, he served a total of six years in the reserves.

On May 24, 1958 Joe married he girl of his dreams, Patricia "Pat" Fertal.  He was introduced to her at a church function by Pat’s 2nd cousin.  The couple dated for a while and as fate would have it, they fell in love getting married in St Peter and Paul Catholic Church in Passaic.  Joe and Pat settled in Clifton for a short time then moved to the town of Wayne in 1960.  There they welcomed the births of their three children Joseph Jr., Margaret, and Cheryll.  Joe and Pat raised their children there and remained in Wayne for the rest of their lives together.  One of Joe’s favorite pastimes was Ballroom Dancing.  He cherished Ballroom Dancing along with his wife Pat for more than twenty five years.  

Joe was a member of the Wayne Elks Lodge #2181 for many years and was a dedicated New York Giants Fan.  Joe was a truly dedicated husband and father.  His greatest passion throughout his life was his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Joe than providing for and spending time with his family.  He and his wife Pat's treasured fifty four years of loving and loyal marriage until Pat’s passing in 2012.  Joe was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone that met him.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends alike.    

Joseph is survived by his son Joseph Opalka, Jr. and his wife Christine of Wayne, two daughters; Margaret Hochkeppel and her husband William of Kinnelon, and Cheryll Remus and her husband John of Jefferson, one brother John Opalka and his wife Glory of Wayne, and one sister Elsie Kacmarik of Clifton, three grandchildren; William and his wife Brianne of Union, Patricia of Oakland, CA, and Andre of New Hampshire.  He was predeceased by his brother Edward Opalka.

Cecilia (nee Willekes) Sweetman, age 75 of Fairfield, passed away after a long illness on Friday, Sept. 25, 2020.  Cecilia was born in Ridderkerk, Netherlands, and came to America with her family at the age of seven.

Cecilia was widowed first to Robert Kievit in 1992, and then by her second husband, Barney Sweetman, in 2014, and was also predeceased by one of her great grandchildren.  She is survived by ten children; Robert Kievit and his wife Andrea of Oak Ridge, NJ, Rita Anzelmo and her husband Gary, Jr., of Bloomingdale, NJ, Donna Mol and her husband Doug of Lincoln Park, NJ Richard Kievit and his wife Stacy of Highland Lakes, NJ, John Sweetman and his wife Sandra of Boonton, NJ, Margaret Baum and her husband Leonard of Butler, NJ, Samuel Sweetman and his wife Ruth of Otisville, NY, Barbara Greendyk and her husband Peter of Montville, NJ, Florence VanVugt and her husband Arie of Andover, NJ, and Laurie Van Wingerden and her husband Kenneth of Lincoln Park, NJ, forty-two grandchildren and forty-seven great grandchildren, six brothers and sisters; Anna Warmenhoven and her husband Paul of Washington, Wilhemina Hook and her husband Wayne of Pequannock, Rose Heerschap and her husband William (predeceased) of Ontario, Lou Willekes and his wife Marie of Michigan, John Willekes and his wife Joke (predeceased) of Pompton Plains, and Joe Willekes and his wife Margaret of Oak Ridge.

As expressions of sympathy in Cecilia’s memory, donations would be appreciated to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Rd., Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Michael P Hodupski, age 36, of Hewitt passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Thursday, September 24, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Michael was born in Pequannock and raised in Wayne.  He was one of two children to Michael and Irene Hodupski.  As a young boy, Michael was an avid dirt bike and motocross fan.  He enjoyed riding his motorcycles and his BMX bikes trying to push the envelope racing and performing stunts.  Along with his passion for motorcycles and bikes, Michael had a great interest in camping and fishing.  These were interests that Michael held his entire life and passed on, and shared with, his family.  He played competitive baseball and basketball for the Wayne Boys and Girls Club as a youngster as well.

Michael attended Wayne Valley High School and graduated with the class of 2002.  Following his graduation, he held a few various landscaping jobs.  In 2011, he was then offered a position as a Service Technician at Corner to Corner Irrigation in Wyckoff.  Michael held this position for six years until 2017.  Michael then accepted an offer as a Pesticide Service Technician from Western Pest Service in West Orange.  Michael held this position for about three years until his passing.

In 2012, as like many other couples their age, Michael met the girl of his dreams Christine Schall on an online dating service.  The couple dated for almost three years and as fate would have it they fell in love and were married on October 24, 2014. The following year in 2015 Christine and Michael welcomed their twins, Michael and Makayla.  Michael was a loving and devoted husband and father. Michael’s family were known affectionately as the “Weekend Warriors.”  Michael, Christine, and their children treasured their yearly family vacations, traveling in their camper to various destinations including Keen Lake in Pennsylvania.

Michael was a warm hearted person who loved life.  He was quite a prankster to the people closest to him and had an unwavering love for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Michael than providing for and spending time with his friends and family.   He was lovingly known to his family as “Mayor of His Street.”  He was the kind of person you couldn’t help but like and wanted to be around.  Michael would walk into a room and instantly brighten it with his signature smile.  He could and would always make you feel comfortable, right at home, and have a conversation with anyone about anything.  Michael was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Michael is survived by his wife Christine Hodupski (nee Schall) of Hewitt, his son Michael Hodupski, and his daughter MaKayla Hodupski both of Hewitt, one sister Linda Cicchetti and her husband Steve of Lincoln Park, his parents Michael and Irene Hodupski of Wayne, four nieces; Emerson Cicchetti, Alexandria Crockford, Arianna Crockford, and Darcy Schall, four nephews; Jackson Cicchetti, Derek Schall, Oliver Schall, and Bernard Schall, his mother and father-in-law Joseph and Mary Schall of Pompton Lakes, four brother-in-laws; Robert Crockford of Moore, SC, William Schall of Duncan, SC, Edward Schall and his wife Ana of Easley, SC, and Matthew Schall and his wife Shana of Pompton Lakes, his grandparents Marianna (Nana) and Patrick (Papa) Perrotta of Clifton, and Jacqueline (Nanny) Crockford of Moore, SC.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Michael’s name are asked to consider Cares, 99 Bank St, Rockaway, NJ 07866.  http://www.caresnj.org

Andrew J. Brennan, age 63 of Wayne, died on Thursday, September 24, 2020.  Andy was employed with Team Logistics in Fair Lawn for twenty-four years.  He enjoyed the people he worked with at Team, and he was well loved by his coworkers.

Andy grew up in Riverdale and went on to graduate from DePaul High School with the class of 1975.  Affectionately known as “The Duke,” he played Varsity basketball at DePaul, was in the National Honor Society, and also made Dean’s List while at Seton Hall University.  As a kid, Andy loved to produce home movies, recreating popular films and TV shows of the era.  He always loved movies and had an uncanny ability to recite dialogue verbatim.  His creativity led him to host elaborate neighborhood carnivals, and he also built a two-story fort, complete with a basement, in his backyard.  Andy also loved history and had an amazing ability to remember dates and times of all sorts of historical events.  He was an expert of all things related to The Revolutionary War and the Civil War, and he was named official historian of the 1976 Bicentennial celebration in Wayne.  He loved music as well, listening to John Denver, America, Seals and Croft, and Dan Fogelberg, just to name a few.  He enjoyed the outdoors, hiking, did his share of camping, and enjoyed relaxing at the Jersey Shore.

Andy was the second-oldest of six children in his family, and his family members remained his closest friends throughout the years.  “Uncle Andy” was the hands-down favorite uncle among his ten nieces and nephews, and he loved them all dearly.  Andy had a great sense of humor, was a kind & gentle soul, always happy, and he was generous to a fault.  He made friends with everyone he met, could laugh at himself, and was always a good sport.  He will be missed by so many who truly loved him.

Andy was predeceased by his beloved parents; Andrew and Dolores (nee Cimins) Brennan, and by two siblings; John Brennan and Rosemary Uhl.  He is survived by his companion of more than twenty years; Andrea Gubitosi, and by siblings; Maureen Tencza, Richard Brennan, Joseph Brennan and his wife Beth, sister-in-law; Sharon Lang Brennan, brother-in-law; Bill Uhl, ten nieces and nephews, two great nephews and one great niece.  He was also predeceased by his brother-in-law; Robert Tencza, and by his sister-in-law; Nancy Pankow Brennan.

Maria Martinez, age 86, of Paterson passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 23, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Maria was born and raised in Florida, Cuba and was the older of two daughters to Manuel and Ana Martinez.  In 1969, Maria, her husband Ramon R., her mother Ana, and her only son Ramon, immigrated to the United States during the final years of the Freedom Flights from Cuba.  In search of a better life and the “American Dream”, the family arrived in the United States and settled in Paterson.

Maria found work quickly at a semiconductor plant known as UPI located in Paterson and was employed as a Transmitter Tester. A few years later, her husband Ramon later started a travel agency/accounting services, also located in Paterson and later expanding to a second location in Passaic. Maria worked alongside her husband for nearly thirty years as a travel agent.  Following her husband Ramon’s passing; Maria found work again as a Travel Agent at RTN Travel Agency located in Passaic.  She held this position until her retirement several years ago.

Being a travel agent, it came as no surprise that Maria loved to travel.  She and her family treasured visiting exotic destinations such as Bermuda, Bahamas, and her homeland of Cuba.  Maria’s favorite place to visit was any destination that had a beach. Later in life, she met her second husband, Fidel Gonzales, and together they enjoyed cooking, traveling, and going to Atlantic City. Her love for her family was unwavering and was her greatest passion.  Nothing in the world meant more to Maria that providing for and spending time with her son Ramon and her grandchildren. She also loved spending time with her sister Sila. In her later years as she became ill her dear friend Carlos provided and took great care of her. Maria was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by her family and friends alike.

Maria is survived by her son Ramon Lopez and his wife Susan of Pompton Lakes, her sister Sila Suri and her husband Emilio of Paterson, three grandchildren; Gina Lopez and her partner Bob of Hoboken, Chris Lopez and his wife Kate of Ramsey, and Marissa Buklad and her husband Corey of Butler, and four great grandchildren; Emma, Ethan, Nora, and Mason.  She was predeceased by her late husband Fidel Gonzales, and by her four brothers; Antonio Martinez, Orlando Martinez, Jose Martinez, and Guillermo Martinez.  

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Maria’s name to Risen King Church.26 Manning Ave, Butler, NJ 07405.  https://www.risenkingchurch.com/

Alan Robin, age 85 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 22. 2020 surrounded by his children and grandchildren. Al has been a resident of Wayne since 1969

Al was born on November 17, 1934, in Brooklyn, New York, one of six siblings. He married his high school sweetheart Joyce Robin in 1956 and moved to Wayne in 1968 where he raised four children. A true patriot Alan served twice in the US Army. He raised his family to respect and honor America.

Al leaves a legacy of Coaching in the Wayne community for 50 years. It was his passion, he shared his time, attention and wisdom with thousands of kids over the years. Further, Al had the distinction of being the first baseball coach in Wayne PAL history to have two sons plus two grandsons play on his team.  Al’s “home base” was the former Tom’s Lake field, which is next to Captain Kilroy Park. In 2008, this field was dedicated to his years of dedication and in recognition of his commitment to his community.  Al’s enthusiasm for the youth of Wayne was not limited to baseball.  He philosophy “You only learn when you  make mistakes… you gotta make mistakes to succeed” became his mantra not only for the sports of baseball and basketball, but for life.  Aly-Kat will be missed by all the generations of children and families he so loving influenced.  His amazing life will be celebrated with a memorial post Covid.   Donations in his name can be made to the Wayne PAL to continue to support the programs he so genuinely believed in.

Al was proceeded in death by his son Dave and survived by his children Loren Robin, Cindy Kyparissis, Son-in-law Jimmy, Steven Robin and companion Maria Spina, Grandsons Adam, Alex, Jonathan, Daniel.  He will always be remember by his long time best friend Angela McClane and countless extended family and friends.

Vasilija Vasic, age 88, of Paterson, passed away peacefully on Monday, September 21, 2020.

Vasilija, known to all as “Vaso”, was born in May of 1932 in Bosnia, the former Yugoslavia, in the town of Modrica. Vaso was one of Gligor and Jovanka Vasic’s four children.

As Vaso grew into adulthood, he chose construction as a life’s vocation. Along with his cousin, Vaso built homes and performed all kinds of other construction projects for his customers. With skills not limited to just one trade, he was just as much a skilled mason, working with stone, as he was a carpenter, working with wood. All the while, he worked simultaneously as a farmer, running a family farm to provide meat, milk and produce for his own wife and children while also serving as a local merchant by selling some of the fruits of his labor to the local townspeople.

Together with his dear wife Gospa, Vaso raised their five children – four sons and one daughter. In 1985, in search of the best quality of life he could provide for his family, Vaso, Gospa, and their by now adult children emigrated from Bosnia to the United States of America. Vaso’s first home was at 29 Ward Street in Paterson. From there he moved to 144 Mill Street in Paterson where he remained all these years until recently moving to Wayne.

Upon coming to America, Vaso originally worked for Three Guys Restoration (TGR) Company of Clifton, working in asbestos abatement. Shortly thereafter, he had to retire due to a back injury.

Vaso was a true outdoorsman who enjoyed nature. In his native land of Bosnia, he was an avid hunter and, when he came to the United States, he developed a real interest in going fishing. In his spare time, he especially loved spending time with his friends playing games at the Serbian Social Club on Grand Street in Paterson.    

Vaso was the beloved husband of the late Gospa Vasic who predeceased him in 2018. He was the loving father of: Stojan Vasic and wife Vidosava of Paterson, Savo Vasic and wife Duka of Slovenia, Niko Vasic and wife Joka of Clifton, Toda Simic and her late husband Branko (2019) of Bosnia, and Dragan Vasic and wife Alexandra of Kinnelon. He is also survived by ten grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren, and predeceased by his brother Ranko, and two sisters: Durdia and Jerosima.

Warren A. Helms, age 58, of West Milford, passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 20, 2020, after a long battle with cancer. His loving wife, Andrea, was at his side.

Warren was born to Warren H. and Antoinette Helms (nee Vitetta) in Paterson, NJ, in 1961. Warren lived all over New Jersey throughout his life, including Saddle Brook, Fair Lawn, Mount Olive, Boonton, Mount Tabor, and Pompton Lakes before moving to West Milford about two years ago.

He attended Morris Catholic High School where he was a member of the Instrumental Music Program and played trombone. He graduated from Mount Olive High School with the Class of 1979 where he was Drum Major for the Marching Band. Warren attended County College of Morris and William Paterson University where he received his Bachelors of Music Education. He received a full scholarship to the Manhattan School of Music in New York City where he attained his Master’s Degree.

Warren’s musical career began with performances in local venues such as Lovey’s Showcase in Cranberry Lake, NJ. Two months after graduating from Manhattan School of Music he was hired to be part of their accompanying faculty. He soon began teaching at The Juilliard School as well. Warren was passionate about teaching and worked at Kinnelon High School, followed by many years at William Paterson University in Wayne, and Caldwell University in Caldwell. He served at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne from 1998-2019, first as the Choir Accompanist and then as Director of Music and Liturgy. Most recently, he served as Minister of Music at of Our Lady of the Lake Church in Sparta. Notably close to his heart were his years with the IHM Church Choir, his work at Plays in the Park in Edison, NJ, and the Coro Lirico choral group, based in Madison, NJ.

Warren was a virtuoso pianist who worked on- and off- Broadway for years. He accompanied legends such as Aretha Franklin and international stars like Susan Boyle, Clay Aiken, and the Irish Tenors. He appeared on The Today Show and The View, as well as at Lincoln Center. In 2015, he worked with Broadway legend Hal Prince.

Warren met the love of his life, Andrea (nee Brown), at the Manhattan School of Music and they began dating in 1993. The two married on October 14, 1995 and honeymooned in Ireland, their favorite place in the world. Warren and Andrea enjoyed twenty-five years of loving and devoted marriage and had two beautiful daughters, Fiona and Julia, whom Warren adored.

Warren will be lovingly remembered as a giant in the New York/New Jersey music and theatre world, having played for some of the most talented (both known and unknown) as well as some of the most promising singers. He was kind, selfless, talented, compassionate, and a friend to everyone. It is often said, but could not be truer in Warren’s case: he was a wonderful husband, father, and friend. He loved his work deeply and was one of the hardest working people you could possibly meet. Warren had a robust laugh, a radiant smile, a great sense of humor, and an ability to make anyone feel important when he talked to them. For many years he has been a member of Cosmos Club, his beloved Italian-American social club, in Fair Lawn.

Warren is survived by his wife and daughters; his sisters, Diane Miller of Atlantic City, and Rosanna Fox (Michael) of Nashua, New Hampshire; his niece, Jennifer Battista (Brian), her sons Michael and Braedan; his niece and nephew Elizabeth and Matthew Fox; his mother-in-law, Kathy Brown; as well as many treasured family members, in-laws, friends, students, and fellow musicians and performers. He is predeceased by his cherished parents.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the upcoming Warren Helms Scholarship Fund, which is currently being established at William Paterson University. More information and details will be posted soon. Thank you.

Geraldine Ellen Pinto, age 75 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, September 20, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Geraldine was born and raised in Brooklyn and was the younger of two children to James and Ida Cuilla.  As a young girl, Geraldine took to being an artist.  In her youth she showed great talent drawing and sketching various objects and scenes.  She truly had an eye for beauty at a very early age.  Geraldine attended Bay Ridge High School in New York and graduated with the class of 1962.  Following her graduation, she earned her Associates Degree at Drake’s Business School, also in New York. She then worked as a secretary and manager in Manhattan for two years.

Geraldine married and soon went to work at Saint Louis University in Missouri while her husband attended medical school. She later put her drawing and sketching skills to work and was contracted to sketch medical illustrations. Not long after, Geraldine devoted her life to being a full time homemaker and taking care of her children.  

In 1968, Geraldine welcomed the birth of her fist son Richard, and later in 1970 her second son Matthew.  As a young woman raising two boys, she moved around, living in Virginia at a US Army Base where her husband was stationed at the time.  The family then moved to Little Falls, NJ in 1973 and remained there for about three years.  Subsequent to living in Little Falls, the family moved to Wayne, then to Texas.  After spending a short amount of time in Texas, the family was drawn back to Wayne in 1978.  Geraldine remained in Wayne for the rest of her life.  

Geraldine was truly dedicated to her family and was always there when they needed her.  She was a wonderful cook and cherished hosting holidays for her family, friends, and those who had nowhere to spend the holidays. She was a highly skilled craftsperson creating quilts, clothing and embroideries for her loved ones. She was wonderfully generous and dedicated to her community.  When she knew someone was sick or having a hard time, she would take time out of her day to check up on them and would send them hand made cards and notes.  

Geraldine was not only dedicated to her family but also to her Catholic Faith.  She was a parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church in Wayne for many years. There she also volunteered at the school library.  Geraldine loved animals, especially dogs, and treasured everything that nature had to offer.  She often took nature walks and enjoyed bird watching as well.  She was a voracious reader of all sorts of literature, always trying to fill her mind with knowledge.

Throughout the years, Geraldine and her family enjoyed traveling, visiting a number of destination such as Hawaii, Scandinavia, and Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.  She was a quiet and private person who truly enjoyed her independence.  Her greatest passion however, was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Geraldine than caring for, and spending time with her family.  Geraldine was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  

Geraldine is survived by her two sons; Richard Pinto and his wife Rosie of New York, NY, and Matthew Pinto of Ashburn, VA.  One sister Diane Cuilla of Brooklyn, NY, one aunt Patricia Wells of Lakeland, FL, four cousins, Ellen Madjidi of Long Island, NY, Vera Garret of Westchester, NY, Deborah Oliver of Stafford, Virginia and Sal Trapani of Jacksonville FL and other extended family.        

In lieu of flowers, donations in Geraldine’s name may be made to Friends of Wayne Animals PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470 http://www.fowarescue.org or Lustgarten Foundation 1111 Stewart Ave, Bethpage, NY 11714. http://www.lustgarten.org .

Carol Margaret Ahart (nee Dahl), beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, passed peacefully on September 18, 2020.

Carol, the only child of the late Hanna Spence Dahl and Warren Dahl was born on March 10, 1934 in Hasbrouck Heights, New Jersey. She was raised in Teaneck, New Jersey where she lived with her parents, grandparents, and extended family. She especially adored and treasured her grandmother, the late Carrie Dahl.

Carol graduated Teaneck High School and attended Fairleigh Dickinson University, where she initially met her future husband, Robert (Bob) Ahart. Carol then worked at Bendix Corporation as a switchboard operator, where she met Bob for the second time, who also worked for Bendix as an industrial engineer. They fell in love and were married in September 1956. They eventually settled in Wayne where they raised their five children: Bob, Joann, John, Joseph, and Susan.

Carol was a full-time homemaker and kept busy raising her five very active children. She was extremely outgoing and established many lifelong friendships. She was well known for telling delightful stories of her life, children, and grandchildren to anyone and everyone. One could say she had the gift of gab.

Carol was a talented and avid painter who blessed her family with her artistic gift. She taught her children and grandchildren to see the world and every sunset through the eyes of an artist. Her other passion was driving. She offered to drive anyone who needed a ride and took the scenic route every chance she had. Carol was especially proud of her knowledge of every back road and destination in New Jersey… she was the first “navigation system.”

Another passion was her love for the water, especially the ocean. She enjoyed 60 years of annual vacations to the Jersey Shore. Carol spent countless hours on the beach and swimming in the waves with her family. She passed her love for the water to her children and grandchildren. When not at the Jersey Shore, she could be found enjoying her pool and lake views at her house

in Lake Hopatcong, New Jersey.

Similarly to her love for the ocean, Carol passed her love for the holidays to her family, especially Christmas. From a year-round Christmas tree (tastefully decorated according to each season) to life sized gift bags filled with matching pajamas and unique gifts, she knew how to make Christmas truly magical. Carol has touched many lives and will be greatly missed.

Carol was predeceased by her husband Robert Ahart in 2017. She was the most loved mother of:  Robert Ahart (Kelly) of Tuxedo Park, NY, Joann Vander Zee (John) of Montville, John Ahart of Kinnelon, Joseph Ahart (Mary Lynn) of Lake Hopatcong, and Susan Sesko (Steve) of Pine Brook; adored grandmother of: Carolyn (Nicholas), Stephanie, Brian, Joseph, Hanna, Robert, Julia, Stephen, Jacqueline, Jennifer, Erin, Michael, Jack, and Christopher; and cherished great-grandmother of Thea and Grey.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

(www.stjude.org)

Stella De Biasio (nee Groncki) age 98 of Wayne passed away peacefully in her home on September 14, 2020.

She was born in Passaic, New Jersey to Wojciech and Mary Groncki. Stella’s father, three siblings, and extended family raised her from when she was three years old following her mother’s untimely passing. Stella and her family supported and relied on each other as they strove to maintain the welfare of their family. They each contributed to maintaining the family’s independence, and Stella began working in the clothing mills of Passaic at a young age. The loving bonds she and her siblings developed as children continued to grow throughout their lives.

One evening at a dance during the Second World War, Stella met a handsome young man named John De Biasio. They danced together, began a wonderful courtship, and soon fell in love. They were married at St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Passaic in 1944 and celebrated their honeymoon in New York City. They initially settled in Clifton, NJ where they lived for fifteen years before finding their permanent home in Wayne. The love the two of them shared for each other lasted their entire lives.

To Stella, the greatest personal values grew from an appreciation of family and home. She instilled in her children and grandchildren the same virtues with which she was raised: kindness, industriousness, honor, and integrity. Despite the challenge of losing most of her hearing in her 40’s, Stella demonstrated her resilience: she adapted and maintained her cherished connections to friends and family. Well into her 80’s, Stella modeled the remarkable strength of her character as she never failed to offer time, effort, or love to those important to her.

Stella will be remembered fondly by her family and friends for the many ways in which she connected with other people. Over the years, she became known for her cooking and baking, especially her lasagna, crisp roasted potatoes, cookies, and homemade pies. For her grandchildren, she was always a welcome presence whether she watched a performance proudly from the audience or hugged them with all her strength. She and her husband John were avid travelers and loved to explore the world with family and friends. Stella was an active Roman Catholic and founding member of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. She always found ways to support her family and her community.

Stella was defined by her strength, hard work, generosity, and love of family. Above all she loved her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren all of whom she was always ready to help whenever she could. She loved people, whether dancing with friends or traveling the world. She was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people and will be deeply missed by all who were blessed to know her.

Stella is survived by her two daughters, Joan Chrisbacher and her husband Al of Stonington, CT and Barbara DeCamp and her husband Tim of Wayne; one son, John and his wife Lynn of River Vale; twelve grandchildren, John, Donna, Jason, Michele, Kristy, Thomas, Justin, Nicole, Danielle, Lauren, Kim, and Greg; and twelve  great-grandchildren, Elise, Amy, Alexander, Alexa, Gavin, Isabella, Ian, Emilia, Lorenzo, Annabelle, Liliana, and Ainsley. She was predeceased by her husband, John De Biasio; her brother, John Groncki; her sisters, Sophie Jaskot and Jean Waller; and her granddaughter Karen.

Those wishing to make a donation in Stella’s name are asked to consider Alzheimer’s Foundation, 425 Eagle Rock Avenue., Suite 203, Roseland, NJ 07068.

Robert V. Costantin, age 90 of Wayne, died peacefully on Monday, September 14, 2020.  He has lived in Wayne since 1959.

Bob grew up in Clifton and after graduating from high school, he played semi-pro baseball before joining the U.S. Marine Corps.  During his time in the service, he was a tank mechanic at Quantico and San Diego, also earning his expert rifleman designation.  After being honorably discharged in 1952, he maintained close ties to his fellow Marines and was active with the Marine Corps League Lakeland Detachment 744 in Oakland, NJ.

Bob enjoyed a career spanning nearly forty years with Local 102 IBEW, retiring nearly thirty years ago as an Electrician General Foreman.

Bob’s interests were wide-spread.  He was always passionate about auto racing, and he drag raced with his son during the early 1970’s, racing at Island Dragway and Raceway Park.  He attended the Indianapolis 500 many times throughout the years, went to Trenton Speedway, and others. Bob also loved to watch his son, Robert, build and race his own car in more recent years.  Bob was also a big fan of the NY GIANTS and the NY YANKEES.  He remained a loyal Willy Mays fan his entire life.  Bob also loved watching any movie that starred his favorite actor; John Wayne.  He could watch John Wayne films all day long, reciting nearly every line, and he collected various John Wayne memorabilia over the years.  He also enjoyed landscaping his yard, target shooting, and collecting toy trains.

Bob met his wife, Alice (nee Rigney), in 1951 at Mario’s Restaurant in Clifton.  They hit it off right from the start and their romance blossomed.  They married in 1952 and lived in Clifton before moving to Wayne in 1959.  Together, they hosted weekend-long parties at their home, including backyard BBQ’s where the pool was always full of family and friends.  They made a great team raising their three children, followed by seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.  They enjoyed fifty-nine years together before Alice passed away in 2011.  Bob has missed her dearly ever since.  Sadly, Bob also lost his daughter, Carlene Gruber, in 2019.

Bob is survived by two of his children; Robert N. Costantin and his wife Patty of Sayreville, NJ, and Michele Costantin of Little Egg Harbor, NJ, his son-in-law; James Gruber of Naperville, IL, seven grandchildren; Dave, Brian, Jennifer, Amanda, Kristine, RJ, and Marissa, as well as three great-grandchildren.  He was predeceased by his wife Alice in 2011, by his daughter Carlene Gruber of Naperville, IL in 2019, mother Eleanor (nee Collari) in 1984, father Attilio Costantin in 1989, and sister, Alice Cutrona, of Bradenton, FL, in 2005.

Ljiljana Bijelonic, age 38, of Wayne passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Monday, September 14, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Ljiljana was born in Prnjavor, Bosnia and was the younger of two children to Ljubomir and Grozda Bijelonic.  When Ljiljana was twelve years old, her parents immigrated to the United States in search of a better life.  When arriving the Unites States, the family settled in Paterson.  Ljiljana attended Passaic County Technical Institute and graduated with the class of 2000.  Upon her graduation she was accepted and enrolled at Rutgers University in New Brunswick where she earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology with the class of 2004.

Following her graduation, tragedy struck her life, when Ljiljana had a terrible accident which left her paralyzed from the chest down.  Most people would not find the will to go on with their lives, but Ljiljana was a courageous and strong-willed woman who would not give up.  One of her doctors, Dr. Robert Heary, invited her as a guest speaker at one of his seminars.  She was asked to speak on the subject of providing personal insight to physicians about the daily lives and struggles of those with her disability.  Throughout the years, Ljiljana also participated in research for spinal cord injuries, again providing understanding and awareness in regards to people in her position.

Ljiljana was an avid reader and an animal lover.  She was not only an animal lover but someone who deeply cared about all living things and the environment in which they lived.  She was a vegetarian and was the kind of person who wouldn’t do harm to anyone or anything.  When a spider, ant or fly was in the house, she made sure that her family would “escort it outside and not kill it.”  She was truly someone who cherished nature and all of its inhabitants.

Ljiljana was a cherished daughter, sister, and aunt.  Her greatest passion was for her family and she was loved deeply by everyone she knew.  Ljiljana was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Ljiljana is survived by her parents Ljubomir and Grozda Bijelonic of Wayne, her brother Ranko Bijelonic and his wife Jelena of Hoboken, two nieces Milena Bijelonic, and Larisa Bijelonic both of Hoboken, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Ljiljana's name to the Humane Society of The United States, 1255 23rd Street, NW, Suite 450 Washington, DC 20037.  https://www.humanesociety.org/

Santina Calafiore, 87 of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, September 9, 2020.

Santina was born in Siracusa, Sicily and came to America in 1958.  A talented seamstress, she found work among the mills of Paterson and was able to bring her husband and sons here soon after.  At almost fifty years of age, she made a career shift and started working as a custodian for the Wayne Township Board of Education.  She enjoyed cleaning and worked for nearly ten years at the George Washington Middle School before retiring.

Santina was an amazing cook and many of the memories made in her home happened in the kitchen, with her standing at the stove.  She loved her family and was always there for them.

Heartache and sadness visited Santina much too often in her lifetime.  She lost both her husband and grandson, Luca, to a house fire in 1988, and later she lost her sons; Salvatore in 2009, and Paul in 2014.  Somehow, she found the strength to persevere and she remained grateful for all the blessings in her life, including her seven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.

Santina is survived by her grandchildren; Sandra Piccininni and her husband Mario of Cedar Knolls, NJ, Jessica Snover and her husband Anthony of N. Haledon, Anna Calafiore of Wayne, Marco Calafiore of Little Falls, Tina Rose Calafiore of Dover, Doren Calafiore and his fiancé Jaclyn of Pomtpon Plains, , PJ Carradori and his wife Stephanie of N. Carolina, her six great-grandchildren; Harley and Hunter Vandunk, Anthony and Brooke Snover, and Max and Scarlett Carradori, her daughter-in-law; Salvatrice Calafiore of Wayne, and a brother; Salvatore Aliano and his wife Maria of Solarino, Sicily.  She was predeceased by 2 brothers; Michael and Paolo, and by three sisters; Maria, Josephine, and Lina.

Anthony “Tony” Digiorgio, age 26, of Wayne passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Wednesday, September 9, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Anthony was born in New York City.  He was one of two children to Debra and Alexis Digiorgio.  When Tony was just four years old, his family moved to Wayne where he spent most of his life.  During his formative years, Tony attended Calvary Christian Academy in Wayne.  During his High School years, he attended Eastern Christian School in North Haledon where he graduated with the class of 2011.  During his time in High School, he played tennis for the Eastern Christian High School tennis team.  Following his graduation from High School, Tony enrolled at Ramapo College of New Jersey where he earned his Bachelor’s Degree in Liberal Arts.  Subsequent to earning his Bachelor’s Degree, Tony took a semester or two off, then re-enrolled at Ramapo College where he then earned his Master’s Degree.

During his time in and out of college, Tony worked with his dad, helping him with sales at his company called Watch and Jewelry Creations, located in Manhattan.  He worked with his father for about two years.  After struggling with his own troubles, Tony dedicated himself to trying to help others and accepted a position working at Turning Point in Paterson, a drug and alcohol rehabilitation center.  Tony then accepted a position as an Intern at JCC Social Services in Teaneck, NJ where he was employed until his passing.

Tony enjoyed playing tennis as a teenager and also played frequently as an adult.  He treasured playing video games and watching movies, particularly documentaries.  Tony was fascinated by history.  He loved reading, researching, and watching documentaries about many different periods in history including the first and second world wars.  Tony was captivated by Greek Mythology, he could often be found watching specials on television and reading about the subject.

Travel was also something that was a passion of Tony’s.  He had visited Portugal while attending college, and France while in High School.  While in France, Tony visited Paris and Normandy, which of course was his favorite due to its obvious historical content.  One of Tony’s aspired places to travel, although he never got a chance to visit, was Sicily.  Travel and family vacations were somewhat of a tradition in Tony’s life.  During the summers, his family would spend time frequenting Seaside Heights at the Jersey Shore.  He cherished many family vacations with aunts, uncles, and cousins to destinations such as Mexico, Turks and Caicos, and other exotic Caribbean locations.  Tony was a super competitive guy, who took winning very seriously.  If he were to lose at something, he would relentlessly practice and until he was able to eventually win.  Tony was a good hearted person who was often the life of the party.  He was energetic, kind, funny, and the kind of person you couldn’t help but like and want to be around.  Of all his talents, interests, and hobbies, Tony’s greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to him than spending time with family and friends.  Tony was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Tony is survived by his mother Debra Digiorgio of Wayne, his father Alexis Digiorgio of Wayne, his brother Joseph Digiorgio of Wayne, his grandmother Theresa Giordano of Bloomingdale, two Aunts; Susan Lopez and her husband Ray of Pompton Lakes, and Patti Sudal and her husband Ronnie of Toms River, three uncles; Ray Martino of Hewitt, Jimmy Digiorgio of Clifton, and Mario Digiorgio and his wife Pat of Chester, and eleven cousins; Gina, Christopher, Marissa, Michelle, Roseanne, Tina, Ron, Chad, Mario, Annie, and Joanne.  He is also survived by his two dogs; Lucy (a Wheaten Terrier) and Desi (a Havanese).  Tony was predeceased by his Aunt Joann Martino and his grandfather Anthony Giordano.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Tony’s name to the charity of your choice.

Mark B. Troy died unexpectedly on Saturday, September 5, 2020, at the age of 77. He suffered a ruptured aneurysm the previous day, resulting in intracranial hemorrhage and coma, then passed away in the early morning.

He is survived by his wife of 33 years, Elaine Kirsh; their daughter, Jeanne Troy Stockwell (Nick); his son, Andrew Troy (Yessenia), and two grandchildren.

Mark was born on November 10, 1942 to Leon and Julia Mayers Troy, in Wilkes-Barre, PA. He graduated from Meyers High School in 1960, where he participated in several sports and was a member of the National Honor Society. His family was well-known locally for owning a furniture store, and as active members of the Wilkes-Barre Jewish Community Center.

In 1964, Mark graduated from Wilkes College (now Wilkes University) with a degree in industrial engineering and math. He moved to New York City and began his 36 year career with JP Morgan Chase and its predecessors. He made monthly trips home to participate in the Air Force Reserves from 1964-68, He received an MBA in Finance from Long Island University in 1971,

Mark retired in 2001 as a Vice President in Financial Planning and Control at JP Morgan Chase, having earned a reputation as an outstanding cost accountant, financial analyst, and manager. He then brought that same skillset and extensive experience to Search and Care, a not-for-profit dedicated to independent living assistance for seniors in the Upper East Side and East Harlem. During his 13 years in this role, Mark designed a financial management program (Money Matters) to help elderly clients understand and oversee their own finances with the help of retired professionals.

Mark thrived with an active and healthy lifestyle until his untimely death, with weekends spent in the Packanack Lake community of Wayne, NJ. He especially enjoyed skiing, hiking, swimming, and tennis, as well as long walks and playing with the family dog (Sweetie, and then Zephyr). He took every possible opportunity to travel, including many summers spent in Vermont and Maine, family vacations to Paris, Costa Rica, and Alaska, and regular visits to his daughter in Washington state. In the last few years, he and his wife made world travel a priority, with extraordinary trips to Croatia, Slovenia, Montenegro, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Peru, Australia and New Zealand.

He will be missed by the many people who were in his life. They will continue to be in his wife’s. His wife, Elaine, said, “Mark was my best friend. It hurts to lose your best friend but he will remain in my thoughts forever.”

Our exceptionally talented daughter, Jeanne, wrote the following eulogy to her father:

Almost eight years since I left New York, I miss nothing as acutely as the storms. Watercolor sunsets over Jersey, pastel orange and pink suddenly obscured by ominous dark clouds. Rain doesn’t come gradually; no individual droplets, only a relentless cascade. Unhindered by buildings, heedless of traffic, they swallow the city like some harbinger of Lovecraftian myth - fracture the impenetrable sky with exultant lightning, shake the deepest subway lines with thunder, and then move on.

Storms of that magnitude are rare in the Pacific Northwest. The rain here hardly qualifies as more than drizzle; thunder is distant and fleeting, if it manifests at all.

Those summer squalls are more than a cornerstone of my childhood. Formidable and formative in memory, they persist in my absence. They are timeless - individually, each one blows through fierce and fast, disperses within a few hours. Collectively, as a natural element, they continue. Perpetual, inevitable.

Yet we made them our own. Willingly soaked, grinning haphazardly, I was insatiably drawn to each new and dizzying spectacle over the Hudson, and my dad was always at my side.

I never considered that those storms - our storms - would cease to exist. It was simply inconceivable.

I never doubted that he would be there. Always sharing in calculated risk, judging it to be ever-so-slightly outweighed by a mutual sense of adventure. Booking it down double black diamond slopes in Vermont, before I knew how to be afraid. A treacherous zig-zag ascent in a rented Jeep, rising hundreds of feet above vast Utah desert. Snorkeling rough waters in Costa Rica, undeterred by losing his goggles when I jumped in. I never met a rollercoaster too big, and even when I (finally, barely) edged past the height requirement, he didn’t hesitate to join me. He embraced every challenge, savored every new experience, and instilled in me the same - but his own involvement was understated. He possessed a kind of unassuming charisma that doesn’t seek the spotlight, and instead reflects it onto those nearby.

My dad was never beyond reach, never out of sight or earshot - and even when shared adventures became solitary, autonomous, it was for him that I memorized seemingly inane moments. When the default of our stories became my stories, I still brought them home to him.

I don’t know how to do this.

I can construct palaces out of paragraphs, but I don’t know how to translate my incoherent brain-noise into something that resembles closure. I don’t know how to embrace this challenge, let alone articulate it. Past tense does not compute; my internal clock is paused, in limbo, somewhere in the days and weeks before his very essence was suddenly extinguished.

Intellectually, logically, I understand - this vertigo will pass. Eventually I’ll learn to make sense of the world without him in it. I’ll turn to another confidante; my stories will be redirected. But I’m not there yet, and I don’t want to be.

Through emotional freefall, this is the question I shout into the void: Did he know?

He knew I loved him, despite weeks and months of distraction. Three thousand miles apart, finding my way, living on my own terms - I loved him like no other, but we said that readily enough.

What I never said was: You made me.

Not with any particular artistic touch; some early phases of the work in progress were, to put it gently, a cluster*$@#. Nonetheless, it was his influence that gave definition to the messy, awkward hodgepodge. His understated conviction countered every misstep, nudged me back on course. Though he worked best with numbers, he ignited my lifelong passion for words virtually overnight.

So many of my quirks and nuances come from him. Northeastern turns of phrase. Inescapably Jewish tastes, made eclectic through a touch of wanderlust. Pragmatic conversations, iconic movie references. Insatiable hunger for knowledge. A secret love of dad-jokes and bad puns.

It was no real surprise when I eventually fell in love with a man who embodies many of my dad’s same fundamental traits - soft-spoken; slow to anger; goofy humor; affectionate; insightful; humble; quiet confidence; endlessly curious.

But these are just words. Descriptors; adjectives and verbs. Various arrangements of twenty-six letters, more or less contained within the structure of punctuation. They cannot possibly convey who he was (past tense), or who he is to me (present tense, now and always). At best, they illustrate the rain with some measure of accuracy, but losing him - that’s the thunder and lightning. A Nor’easter raging through.

My grief is not verbose. It is unintelligible, unrecognizable, unfathomable. It is halfway-hyperventilating, a waterlogged paroxysm. Relentless and cataclysmic and upside-down. It is the momentary gurgle of misplaced laughter, a sliver of morbid humor, the absurdity of a two-hour breakdown set off by swiss cheese.

It is almost, almost reason to believe in ‘something greater’. Maybe this is all some sort of cosmic jest, at my unapologetically atheist expense?

Bad joke. In his honor, here’s one more:

Mark - you left your mark.

If you wish to make a donation in Mark’s name, consider

Search and Care, Inc:  Seeks out older people on the Upper Eastside and in East Harlem communities who need help in managing life’s daily activities or accessing essential services, and to provide them the support and companionship they require to live with security and dignity in the manner they choose. Mark designed and led their home-based financial management program, called Money Matters. A not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization. You can make donations online at www.searchandcare.org or by mail at Search and Care, 1844 Second Avenue, New York, NY 10128, 212-289-5300.

Union of Concerned Scientists: Uses rigorous, independent science to solve our planet’s most pressing problems and improve people’s lives.  A not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization. You can donate online at www.ucusa.org or Union of Concerned Scientists, 12 Brattle Square, Cambridge, MA 0213

Wildlife Conservation Society: Works to save wildlife and wild places in nearly 60 countries around the world. They also run 4 wildlife parks and 1 aquarium in NYC. Mark and his family were frequent visitors to the wildlife parks. A not-for-profit 501(c)(3) organization. You can make donations on line at www.wcs.org or by mail at WCS Donations, 2300 Southern Blvd, Bronx, NY 10460.

Louis Cafasso, age 66 of New York City and formerly of Paterson, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, September 3, 2020.

The younger of Aniello and Carmela Cafasso’s two children, Lou was raised in the family home in Paterson on Marion Street. After graduating from Kennedy High School with the Class of 1971, he attended William Paterson College where he earned a bachelor’s degree in education.

Lou’s secured his first job as an English teacher with the local private catholic school in Kearny. He taught for several years until the school closed. Choosing to pursue a different direction, he took a job in construction engineering as a plans and specification proof reader with Syska Hennessy Group in New York City. He truly enjoyed his new career – so much so that he stayed with the company for the next thirty years, only choosing to leave in 2016 to enjoy his next life’s venture – retirement.

Subsequent to beginning his work at Syska and Hennessy, Lou decided to move to New York City feeling that it made the most sense with respect to his daily commute to the office. It turned out to be a great decision as he truly came to love life in the “the city” and he called that coveted *&*!#& 6th floor walk-up studio apartment home.

The City was the perfect place for Lou to indulge his varied outside-of-work interests. A quick jump on the train and he could get to Yankee Stadium in no time to see his beloved New York Yankees. You would swear that Lou had Yankee blue blood running through his veins and his favorite player of all time was Hall of Fame pitcher Mike “Moose” Mussina. He loved going to games with his sister, nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews. Lou also loved attending Broadway shows- day or night. To Kill a Mockingbird was his all-time favorite with King Kong coming in at a close second. He was so bummed that the theater had been closed these past six months during the COVID-19 pandemic.

A huge Walking Dead and American Horror Story fan, Lou frankly had an eclectic taste when it came to the movies he enjoyed. He loved everything, from those low budget “B” movies to the greatest classics. He had a huge DVD collection to prove it and he could quote lines right off the top of his head because he watched them so much. Lou’s family always knew what to give him for Christmas or his birthday. One of his gifts they gave him was every season of the original I Love Lucy series.

Being an English major in college, it should come as no surprise that Lou also had a true admiration for great literature. He loved reading the classics like Frankenstein, To Kill a Mockingbird, and Les Miserables. When he was more up for listening to good music, he would reach for an album from his huge vinyl record collection to play songs from the Beatles, Rolling Stones, The Who, Pink Floyd, Meatloaf, and “The Boss” – Bruce Springsteen. Speaking of Springsteen, Lou clocked in at going to over 50 of Bruce’s concerts. One of the most memorable being a Christmas concert performance in Asbury Park that took place on the day of a huge blizzard. New Jersey had declared a state of emergency but hey!......we’re talking about a Springsteen concert in a small venue here! Lou and his niece Jacqui hopped into her Chevy Trailblazer and weathered the storm; made it to the concert and rocked out the entire night.

And then there was Lou’s extremely unique cow collection. These weren’t your ordinary cows! They were certainly interesting in that each one was fashioned along a different theme.

Above all else, Lou’s greatest interest lied in the bonds of love, admiration and affection for his family that were sewn over the course of his entire life. While he loved New York City, frequently took rides across the other side of the Hudson to visit his family back in Jersey where his roots were established. His family will always hold cherished memories of “Sweet” Uncle Lou at all the family Italian barbeques, special holidays and birthday gatherings. And when your birthday was coming up, you could always count on the fact that a gift from Lou was going to be something special. He had such a knack for getting the coolest, most thoughtful presents. Truth be told, he was just as excited to watch the birthday boy or girl open their birthday package as they were.

Lou was the best! Kind hearted and carefree, he didn’t know what it meant to hold a grudge. He was just a free spirit. Shoot! It should come as no surprise when one recalls that he was a long-haired, peace sign’n hippie from the 1970’s. To his nieces and nephews and grand-nieces and nephews, he was “Cool Uncle Lou.” He was always there for his family and friends when they needed a wise, encouraging, or sympathetic ear to listen and was a confidant for many family secrets.

Lou, had a great sense of humor and hardy laugh.  He could take the brunt of any joke thrown at him by his family.  Now you may want to know WHO in his family made him laugh the hardest or WHO in his large family busted his chops the most or you may want to know WHO always seemed to get him to say “WHO”?

Lou was the much loved brother of the late Ann Lemay (2015) and her husband Ernie of Wayne; coolest uncle of: Jacqueline and husband Michael Tirella of Wayne, Ernest and wife Christine LeMay of West Milford, Christopher and wife Jess LeMay of North Haledon, and David and wife Cindy LeMay of West Milford; dearest great-uncle of: Michael, Nicholas, Dominic, Jay, Mathew, Anthony and wife Ashlee, Joey, C.J. Miliana, Donevan, Aaron, and Evan; dear great-great-uncle of Adalynn; and special friend, Cindy, for always being there.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Lou’s name are asked to consider the New York Public Library (https://www.nypl.org/give) or by mail:  The New York Public Library, Membership Office • 445 Fifth Avenue • New York, NY 10016 • 212.930.0653

Karen Lichtenberg, age 68, of Little Falls, left this life unexpectedly on Thursday, September 3, 2020. Her family was lovingly by her side at the time of her passing.

One of James and Loretta (Alfano) Caravetta’s three children, Karen was born in Newark and moved to Little Falls when she was just three years old. With the exception of a short time living in Belleville, when she was first married, Karen lived the rest of her life in Little Falls. In fact, having purchased her parent’s home when they decided to move to South Jersey, she lived almost her entire life in the same house that she was raised in.

Karen was a graduate of Passaic Valley High School, Class of 1970, where she loved being a baton twirler in the school’s marching band. She furthered her studies at William Paterson College earning a bachelor’s degree in the school’s speech therapy program.

It was at Calvary Temple in Wayne that Karen met the love of her life – Dennis Lichtenberg. Active in the church, she started a singles ministry and the kickoff event was a barbeque in the church’s parking lot. She met Dennis at the barbeque and they turned out to be as compatible as a hot dog and a bun. They fell in love, which ultimately led to their marriage. On Saturday, January 8, 1983, they exchanged their wedding promises to each other before God, family and friends at the Calvary Temple in Wayne with Reverend Fogel officiating the ceremony. The honeymoon destination was St. Thomas. They rented a car and were given a street map to help them find their way around the island. While in theory, this should have worked perfectly, the map proved to be almost useless as none of the actual streets had street signs. Karen and Dennis tried to do their best to find their way but it just seemed that all roads ended up in the weeds and swamp grass.

Initially living in an apartment of a two-family house in Belleville, Karen and Dennis were soon blessed with their son Jason. From there they moved to Little Falls where they welcomed baby Ryan, their second son.

Karen dedicated herself to lovingly raising Jason and Ryan. When they were old enough to be in school all day, she entered the workforce, ready to use all the speech therapy knowledge she had learned in college. Her first employment was as a state supplied therapist working at St Philip’s private school in Clifton. From there she moved on to the Lincoln Park public schools where she enjoyed a long and rewarding career in the elementary and middle school. She loved her work and as a result it was so easy for her to bring great compassionate energy to her students. Karen was an awesome speech therapist who strongly advocated for the kids and she was always encouraging to the parents in helping them to reinforce the concepts that their children were learning. Bringing candy and all kinds of things to play with, Karen always tried to make therapy fun. Her husband Dennis even built her a puppet stage to be used as an aid in teaching and it is still being used by the school today. Karen continued to bless children over a long career until retiring in 2018.

You could say that Karen had the travel bug. She especially loved Europe and thus, she took a trip to Italy with Dennis and her sister Mary Ann and husband Tom. She went to London with her girlfriend Marian and she and Dennis took a romantic trip to Scotland. Karen was especially fascinated with the castles in London and Scotland and she thoroughly enjoyed all the romance of floating down the river on a gondola in Venice, while being serenated by an Italian singer and mandolin player. While not quite the same as being there, she would often play the video of that event to recall what a special time it was.

After retirement, Karen had no intentions of morphing into a couch potato. The first thing she did was purchase a pair of crocheting needles. She crocheted many-a baby hat and she donated them to St. Joseph’s hospital in Paterson. She joined the Women’s Club of Little Falls and put her looming skills to work to make more hats and scarves to sell in fundraisers so that the club could raise money to support worthy causes in Little Falls. She also joined the town’s Friends of the Library Club where she served as secretary and membership coordinator to raise funds to help the library be a wonderful place to learn and grow in knowledge.

When she wasn’t engaged in the activity of blessing others, Karen did enjoy time spent with Dennis watching favorite shows on television. She loved the British mysteries on PBS’s Channel 13, especially Downton Abbey. She enjoyed House Hunters and was thrilled when Dennis discovered the British version of House Hunters. While watching it, she would sometimes recall seeing places on the show that she had been to when they went to England. Of course, while settled on the couch, Ashley, – her dear Yorkshire Terrier and later, – Toby her Maltese/Yorkshire , would gladly snuggle up by her side. Karen also had a love for visiting tea houses. She frequently got together with three of her girlfriends from kindergarten for a day at Sally Lunn’s Tea Room in Chester.

Karen had an incredibly generous heart. When she sensed a need, she responded with love and compassion. For example, when her sons Jason and Ryan were little boys, she would often take them to the library. She got to know the librarian staff quite well and, when she learned that one of the librarians was not going to have enough money to purchase Christmas presents for her family, Karen stepped up to the plate. She loved to donate to Goodwill, raise money for back-to-school children’s backpack fund raisers and purchase Christmas gifts for kids by pulling their name off the Christmas tree at her church.

Above all, Karen’s home was where her heart was. She was a devoted wife, mother, and new grandmother. Her sons Jason and Ryan called her every day and, if she was on the phone with a friend when they called, she never hesitated to say, “I gotta go! My son is calling me on the other line!” She was so excited about the arrival of her new grandson James Thomas last year. She loved Facetiming him and getting the daily video tapes which she would play over and over again.
Karen touched the lives of many in a positive way. While her family rests in the assurance that she is with her Lord and Savior, she will be dearly missed.

Karen is survived by her beloved husband Dennis; two sons: Jason and wife Danielle Lichtenberg of Butler, and Ryan Lichtenberg of Kinnelon; her grandson James Thomas Lichtenberg; two siblings: Anthony and wife Karen Caravetta of Cape Coral, FL, and Mary Ann and husband Thomas Warden of Pequannock; her sister-in-law: Donna Poirier of Belleville; and four nephews: Steven and wife Jennifer Warden of Pequannock, Michael Warden of Pompton Plains, Keith and wife Melanie Poirier of Phillipsburg, NJ, and Anthony and wife Danielle Caravetta of Armonk, NY.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Karen’s name are asked to consider donations made to honor her grandson James. All donations will be going to a special needs trust to ensure James’s future is as bright as Grandma wanted it to be. To donate, CLICK HERE.

Carol Lynn De Blasio (nee Quintieri), age 82 of Ramsey, NJ passed away on Tuesday, September 1, 2020.

Carol grew up in Paterson, NJ with her parents, Leo and May Quintieri, and her younger brother, Ricky, in their home on West Broadway.  As a teenager, Carol attended Central High School, where she met some of her dearest friends and future husband.  Shortly after graduation, she married her high school sweetheart, Bobby, on June 8, 1958.  In 1960, they welcomed their first daughter, Lisa.  In 1963, they welcomed their second daughter, Lora.

The home she created with her husband, Bob, was full of life, love, and laughter.  Carol filled it with style, and her home was always open to gatherings both big and small.  To put it simply; she had a passion for parties.  She was a woman of great spirit.  Carol loved the energy of a disco, the fun of newest fashions, along with art, cooking, sewing, and traveling.

Cigarette in hand, Carol could always be found bathing in the sun from the Jersey Shore to the casinos in the Dominican Republic.  Carol’s home away from home was their ski house in the Catskills, another venue for her legendary parties.  Her time in the mountains was most importantly spent creating lifelong friends.

Carol was a loving wife, mother, and grandmother.  The love she had for her family translated into every aspect of her life.  Carol lived life to the absolute fullest with sass and enthusiasm that shined brightly until the end.  To know Carol was to know the life of the party.

She will live on in our hearts, thoughts, prayers, and laughter forever.

Carol is survived by her two daughters; Lisa and Lora, two granddaughters; Jessica and Kayla, brother; Ricky, and two sons-in-laws; Marty and Stan.

Edythe Sich (nee Shaw), 52 of Haskell, NJ passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 1, 2020.

Edythe was born in the old Chilton Hospital in Pequannock, NJ and lived in Wayne for most of her life with her parents, James and Edythe Shaw, and her brothers; James and Joseph.

Edythe and her husband Steve moved to Haskell with her two children from a previous marriage, Tyler and Nikole, in 1997 and they were married in 1999.  They had two more children; Steven and Brandon.  She was even lucky enough to have her two grandchildren; Meah and Max, live with her after their births in 2011 and 2013, respectively.

She loved playing Bingo, watching wrestling, and being with her friends and family.

Edythe is survived by her mother; Edythe Shaw, by her husband Steven Sich, and her children; Tyler, Nikole, Steven, and Brandon, three grandchildren; Meah, Max and Blake, her brothers; James and Joseph, sister-in-law; Bonnie, nieces and nephews; Casey, Kerri, Ryan, Megan, and Riley, Aunt Maryann Connolly of Fairfield, NJ, Aunt Mildred Ferraro of Wayne, as well as a very large extended family.  She will be very missed.

Janice Zagra, age 57, of Pine Brook passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Monday, August 31, 2020.

Janice was born in Paterson, grew up in Wayne, and was one of two children to Joseph and Nettie Zagra.  She also lived in Franklin Township before moving to Pine Brook, NJ many years ago.  Janice attended Wayne Valley High School and graduated with the class of 1981.

Following her graduation, she was accepted at St Francis University in Altoona, PA where she received her Bachelor’s Degree in Accounting, graduating with the class of 1985.  Subsequent to earning her Bachelor’s Degree, Janice found work quickly as an accountant and worked for a few different accounting firms.  She eventually accepted a position at Radics Public Accountants & Consultants LLC in Pine Brook where she worked until approximately 1995.

Janice’s favorite past time was spending time with family and friends.  She cherished yearly family picnics where she would organize and participate in a number of different games and family activities.  She was outgoing, compassionate and a truly devoted daughter.  Janice touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  

Janice is survived by her mother Nettie Zagra of Wayne, one sister Debra Scism of Flanders, and two nephews; Ryan Scism of Flanders, and Stephen Scism of Hackettstown, NJ.  She was predeceased by her father Joseph Zagra in June of 2013.

Zachary S. Wichot, age 66, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, August 30, 2020 while his family was lovingly by his side.

Zak was born in Passaic and raised in Clifton. He graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1972 where he starred as a Clifton Mustang on the school’s football and field and track team.

After high school, he was recruited by William Penn University in Oskaloosa, Iowa to play football for the William Penn Statesmen. While attending college, he studied chemistry.

After college, Zak returned to Clifton, New Jersey and began a 23 year career as a mechanic with Frank Taibi and Sons where he worked on diesel engines and installed commercial and residential boilers. In reality, it could be said that Zak’s career with the company actually spanned more years than that. Already as a young boy, Zak displayed a natural, God-given talent for taking complex mechanical things apart and putting them back together. Such activities fed his curiosity of how things work and, since he lived so close to this company, he’d often hang out at the shop to pick the skilled minds of the seasoned mechanics. They took a liking to him and by the mere age of twelve, Zak was driving the big, stick-shift company trucks around the parking lot.

Zak ultimately left that job and went to work for Breure Sheet Metal Company, also of Clifton, where he installed heating, ventilating, and air conditioning systems in residential and commercial applications. After retiring in 2018, Zak still kept his license active to help out his brother Greg with jobs.

Zak met his wife Donna in 1984. His father Pete and brother Greg were in the plumbing business and were doing a big job at the company where Donna was working. One day Zak’s father got to talking with Donna and came to realize she was single. Not being a man to mince words, he let Donna know that his son Zak was single too and asked for her phone number, suggesting that maybe they should go out on a date. Although Donna was hesitant at first she provided her phone number and a few weeks later, Zak worked up the nerve and gave her a call. Their first date was to the former Victoria Station Restaurant on Hamburg Turnpike in Wayne. They fell in love and married on June 7, 1986 at the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne. A year-and-a-half later, they welcomed a beautiful baby daughter which they named Kelly.

Zak was a man with many varied interests. He was a master at working on anything with an engine. This skill started at the age of thirteen when he and his brother Greg built a go-cart and got pulled over by the police while driving it on Route 46. Developing a keen interest in Harley Davidson motorcycles, he rebuilt a 1967 model from the ground up and later bought the 2003 100th anniversary Screamin Eagle Road King model as a homage to the brand and everything that he loved about motorcycles. He thoroughly enjoyed that bike and got a big kick out of accessorizing it with all kinds of personalized modifications. Most recently, Zak had been working on the restoration of a 1975 Chevy Corvette Stingray. Needless to say, much of this work took place in his garage – his getaway and happy place.

Those that knew Zak well will always have a fond memory of seeing him in that garage, working on one of his projects usually smoking his pipe and listening to music all while enjoying the company of his faithful sidekick and companion Nala.  He came to love Nala so much that it sparked an interest in supporting an organization called Long Island Bulldog Rescue whose mission is to provide education, prevention, intervention, and adaption services to ensure that all English bulldogs enjoy long, healthy lives in a loving, safe, appropriate homes where they are provided the life-long care they require.

Friendly, outgoing and approachable, whether greeting them while taking Nala for a walk, or hanging with the guys who would stop by his garage, Zak truly enjoyed the company of his neighbors. He had a heart of gold too. When a family member, friend, or neighbor needed help, Zak was always willing to fix the problem. And even though he is no longer physically in this world, his generous heart continues to bless others through his desire to be an organ donor. Through his gift of tissue and long bone donation, other humans in need will have a new lease on life because of Zak’s altruistic, caring spirit.

It was evident to all that Donna was the love of Zak’s life and he was hers. Every morning he would verbally express his love and admiration for her. Then, concerned for her safety, he’d tell her to be careful driving to work. He also called Kelly a few times a week to check in with her, tell her that he loved her and that he was always thinking of her, just because.

Zak will be truly missed by those whose lives he touched and who had the honor and pleasure of knowing him.

Zak was the beloved husband of Donna (nee Drake), blessed in marriage for 34 years. He was the loving father of: Kelly and husband Michael Messina of Wayne, and Melissa and husband Bill Kohlman of West Orange; adored grandfather of: Matigan and Allison Kohlman; dear brother of Gregory and wife Barbara Wichot of Wayne; dear brother-in-law of: Patricia Drake of Wayne, and Asuncion Drake of Chula Vista, CA and her late husband Robert Drake; uncle of Amanda and husband Marc Dreyer, Pamela Wichot, Jeffrey Wichot and Paul Drake; and great-uncle of Reagan Dreyer.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Zak’s name are asked to consider one of the following two charitable organizations:

The Michael J. Fox Foundation For Parkinson’s Research

By Mail:

Donation Processing,

The Michael J. Fox Foundation,

P.O. Box 5014

Hagerstown, MD 21741-5014

Online:  https://www.michaeljfox.org/donate

Long Island Bulldog Rescue

By Mail:

Long Island Bulldog Rescue

PO Box 239

Stony Brook, NY 11790

Online: http://longislandbulldogrescue.org/

(1929 – 2020) On August 30 2020, Sonia peacefully passed in Mystic, Conn with loving sons by her side. Born in Phila, PA on July 28, 1929.

She is preceded by her Mother, Louise Fulmer, a portrait painter and her Father, Paul W. Thomas, a pioneer in aviation. Preceding her are younger sisters Thalia Cohen, Donna Skeen, and former husbands Carter Gardner and Ted Scholnick.

She devoted her energy to her children, grandchildren, extended family, husband, friends, ancestry, community and country. She attended the Univ. of PA. Was always active in civic groups. In Packanack Lake, NJ operated her own Real Estate office for 14 years, appointed Governor of NJ Women’s Council of Realtors, first woman elected to Board of Governors of Packanack Lake, on Board of Directors Planned Parenthood, founder of Wayne Federation of Republican Women, Republican County Committeewoman, President of UNITED GIVERS Plan, Secretary of Yacht Club & active in PLAYERS Theater Group. In Atlanta, GA President of Welcome Wagon, & held positions w/ Council for Art & Atlanta Symphony Allegro Chapter. In Goshen/Litchfield, Conn. Regent to Mary Floyd Tallmadge chapter of DAR, Chair for Social Committee & arts fundraisers, co-hosted a radio program on WPKN, active in garden club. In Mystic, Conn. in Stone Ridge active w/ movies & groups. A participating and contributing Episcopalian.

She had an infectious laugh, spark for life, love for people and made all smile w/ wit. She lived a full & exciting 91 years & was loved by many. Was avid bridge player, walker & swimmer. Loved dancing, music, Broadway shows, dogs, lobster & travelling especially in trains. Strong in spirit after a radical mastectomy, at age 39, she lived cancer free; after formaldehyde exposure, at age 60, she struggled with chemical sensitivities. She passed from dementia.

Surviving are her beloved husband N. Terry Hall of 36 years, her children: Jeffrey T. Gardner of Westerly, RI, David C. Gardner of Silver Spring, MD, and Lisa G. Feibelman of Vienna, VA.; grandchildren Michael, Augie, Todd, Catie, Thomas, Paul and Laura; great grandchild Brooks; nieces and nephews: Jessica, Jonathan, Jacquie, Andy and Ryan. She encouraged good behavior saying: “Did you wash your hands?”, “Go slow and realize your health and now is all you really have.” “Do unto others what you would have done to you.” “Write thank you notes.” “Stand up straight.”

Lakshmikantam Govardhan, age 89, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Saturday August 29, 2020 while receiving the loving care of the family.

Lakshmikantam was born and raised in Bangalore, India and was the only child to TL Kantam and Kanakamma Kantam.  Lakshmikantam grew up and lived his entire life in the house that he was born in.  As a young boy, he had a great love for sports and was an avid fan of Cricket.  After graduating from high school, he attended Bangalore University in India where he earned his Bachelor’s Degree of Science.  He then accepted a position at his alma mater, Bangalore University, as a professor of Microbiology and Biochemistry.  In 1959, Lakshmikantam moved to the United States where he attended the University of North Texas and earned his Master’s Degree in Microbiology and Biochemistry.  During his time in the United States, he also attended Penn State University where he did more post graduate work until moving back to India in 1966.  Following his move back to India, Lakshmikantam resumed his career as a College Professor at Bangalore University and remained there for nearly forty years until his retirement in 1991.  Subsequent to his retirement, Lakshmikantam remained on the staff at Bangalore University for years as a visiting professor.

As with many marriages in India, Lakshmikantam’s marriage was arranged and was introduced to his wife, Padma Akula, and was married on February 25, 1966.  As fate would have it, he and Padma fell in love and cherished nearly forty years of loving and loyal marriage.  In 1972 the couple welcomed their first child, their son Srikant.  Later in 1976 they welcomed their second child, their daughter Kanaka.  After Lakshmikantam’s wife Padma passed away in 2005 he moved to the United States where his son and daughter were living and remained here until his passing.

Lakshmikantam was a fan of all sports, baseball, football, and basketball.  He could always be found in front of the television watching a sporting event.  He was not a fan of a particular team, but a fan of the sport itself.  He was a voracious reader, particularly of crime and detective novels.  He also enjoyed reading and researching, and continued to educate himself on all sorts of topics.  He was like an encyclopedia of just about anything.  He was able to contribute to any conversation, and contribute legitimately. Lakshmikantam had a wonderfully positive attitude, he never complained and never had a bad word to say about anything or anyone.  He was the kind of person you couldn’t help but like to be around, and you were most likely liable to learn a thing or two while in his company.  Lakshmikantam was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by his family and friends alike.  

Lakshmikantam is survived by his son Srikant Govardhan and his wife Gayathri of Wayne, his daughter Kanaka Aspari and her husband Rajesh of Lexington, KY, and three grandchildren; Chetan Aspari of Lexington, KY, Vishnu Srikant of Wayne, and Divith Aspari of Lexington, KY.  He was predeceased by his wife Padma Govardhan in 2005.

June Marie Bangma, age 69, passed on to glory August 29th, 2020.  She was born June Marie Rosendale, to Richard and Henrietta Rosendale (both preceded in death) in June of 1951, in Paterson, New Jersey.

June’s first passion was her grandchildren and she found true joy spending time with each one of them.  Second to her love of family was her love of church.  She attended Bridgeway Community Church in Haledon, New Jersey where she had the privilege to be part of the worship team.  Here, her love of people and constant smile were tools to help bring others to know the joy and love of Jesus.  In her free time, she enjoyed trivia and reading.

June worked for 18 years as a Registered Nurse at the Christian Health Care Center in Wycoff, NJ where her coworkers will always remember her extraordinary faith and her infectious laughter.  Prior to her time at the CHCC, June worked at the Wanaque Center where she was particularly proud of her time working in the first AIDS unit in the State of New Jersey and was very proud of the difference that she was able to make in the lives of those who were suffering.  

June is survived by her 3 children, Deborah Ross (Bangma), husband Kenneth Ross, Michael Bangma, partner Robert Hauck, and Brian Bangma, wife Tiffany Bangma (Heemstra).  Grandchildren, Caleb (19), Jacob (16), Grayson (6), and Sydney (3).  Also survived by Elizabeth Rosendale, Mother, James and Robert Rosendale, siblings, and James Bangma, father of her children.

Although she was taken much too soon, we can find comfort in her favorite song, “No guilt in life, no fear in death.  This is the pow'r of Christ in me.  From life's first cry to final breath.  Jesus commands my destiny…. 'Til He returns or calls me home.  Here in the pow'r of Christ I'll stand”- In Christ Alone.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Kidney Fund, www.kidneyfund.org, or the courageous first responders of her hometown of Pompton Lakes, www.pomptonlakes-nj.gov/164/First-Aid-Squad.

Frank (Junior) J. Mona, age 80, a forty-three year resident of Wayne, NJ, passed at home on Saturday, August 29, 2020.

Junior was born to the late Francis and Josephine Mona and raised at the family home on 5th Street in Brooklyn, NY. Just after high school Junior was drafted into the US Army and served two years mostly stationed in Panama.  Upon his discharge from the Army he found work in the building maintenance industry in New York City. Through the years he working for the Cigna Company in Wayne, NJ and the GHI Insurance Company in New York City before retiring in 2008.

He met the love of his life, Marie Mansi, while at work in New York City.  Marie would pass Junior’s office each day as she went out for coffee and would often ask him if she could get him a cup. One day Junior offered to take Marie to dinner, as thanks for always offering to get him coffee.  They soon fell in love and married.  After their honeymoon in Costa Rica they had a loving and caring marriage of twenty-nine years that was blessed with a son they named Frank.

Junior will be lovingly remembered as an outgoing, nice guy who made friends easily.  He enjoyed talking to people and loved to go to the Meadowlands to watch and bet on the horses.  He also liked trips to Atlantic City and Las Vegas.  His son Frank fondly remembers family trips to Disney World and summer vacations in Wildwood Crest at the Jersey Shore.

Frank was the loving husband of the late Marie Mona (d.2001); the devoted father of Frank Mona and his loving companion Joy cherished grandfather of Adrianna and Francesca Mona; and dearly loved brother of Marie (Dolly) Mona of New York City.

Stephen M. Sohmer, age 50, of Wayne, passed away on Thursday, August 20, 2020.

Stephen was born in Jersey City, the firstborn of Mark and Carole Sohmer. He was raised in North Bergen and later moved to Pine Brook. After graduating from Montville High School with the class of 1988, Stephen attended college at Binghamton University, where he earned an honors degree and gained admission into the prestigious Phi Beta Kappa academic excellence society. His original desire was to have a career as a certified public accountant but while at Binghamton University, he had a change of heart and pursued a degree in law instead. From there he attended the University of Michigan Law School in Ann Arbor, Michigan where, in 1995, he earned his Juris Doctorate degree – again with honors.

After starting his career to gain experience with various law firms, Stephen opened his own practice – Sohmer Law Firm in Fairfield. He practiced law for several years. Then that original desire to be an accountant led him to open his own accounting firm – Freedom Tax and Payroll Services LLC, in Bloomfield. Stephen had been running the service for the past ten years and in the last two years he had been running a concurrent venture called Prime Refunds. Clearly, Stephen was an ambitious man who pursued everything with integrity and hard work. He was also a very family oriented individual and would be the first to give credit for his success to family members such as his niece Carla Pardo, his sister Samantha Sohmer, and his three sons Jeremy, Tyler, and Kyle, who at one time or another all were helping or had helped him in his business.

Stephen met his beloved wife Alicia “Alice” Miclat while representing a client in a real-estate deal where Alice was selling her home. They truly felt a connection and fell in love. They married in one of Stephen’s favorite places – Las Vegas, Nevada, on Wednesday, January 23, 2007 in a little chapel. They moved to Wayne where Stephen had been living to the present. Stephen loved Alice’s three sons like they were his own and did his best to help her give them a great childhood while also guiding them along life’s path and instilling the best of values in them.

Stephen had an endless hunger for knowledge. While his humble nature would never allow him to admit it, he was very intelligent and was in a seemingly constant pursuit to learn new things. He had recently taken some woodworking classes in upstate New York and an end table in his living room and a book shelf were some of the things he built with this newfound knowledge. YouTube was one of his favorite places to learn and it was a place where he turned to get better at one of his favorite pastimes – cooking. He would watch famous chefs on YouTube and try to incorporate the cooking tips he learned into his own work in the kitchen. Dinner time was always exciting at the Sohmer home as Stephen cooked American style while Alice prepared meals more in keeping with her Filipino roots. A real “foodie”, Stephen’s favorite food was steak and his favorite place to go for a nice juicy steak was Arthur’s Tavern in Morris Plains.

Stephen loved going to the movies. It had been a long-standing tradition on his birthday to go out to dinner with his family and to follow it up with a night at the movies, usually to see a Marvel adventure. As mentioned, Stephen was very impressed with and drawn to Las Vegas. It’s not that he was really much of a gambler, he just found the lights and glitter, and also the great entertainment to be so exciting. As an accountant, he couldn’t have been more pleased that, for many years, the annual tax convention was held in Las Vegas. Even when that stopped, he and Alice still made regular trips to the “neon capital of the world”.

Closer to home, Stephen had a great love of reading – especially mystery novels. He loved doing things with Alice and the boys too. They would sometimes go out to the shooting range in Bellville called the Bullet Hole. With his heart of gold and a large generous spirit, he loved to throw big summer parties at his home in Wayne where you could always count on hearing one of his corny jokes.

Stephen was always eager to give of his time, talents and treasure. If you were in need, he’d be there for you and he was the “go-to” guy for many who needed a bit of advice. Stephen felt so blessed and his desire to give back to his community led him to volunteer at Habitat for Humanity in Randolph and to give to many worthy causes including the local ambulance corps and volunteer fire department.

There is great sadness in Stephen’s untimely passing from this life and, while his family grieves his loss, they are so grateful for the time he was here to bless and touch their lives.

Stephen was the beloved and devoted husband of Alicia “Alice” (nee Miclat), blessed in marriage for thirteen-and-a-half years. He was the loving father of Jeremy Ereno of Lodi, Tyler Ereno of Carlstadt, and Kyle Ereno of Wayne; much-loved brother of: Lisa Siperstein and husband Jeff of Lake Worth, FL, Samantha Sohmer of Parsippany, and Nicole Capuano and husband Dominick of Paramus; and dear uncle of: Matthew Siperstein, Kayla Siperstein, and Giovanni Capuano. Stephen was predeceased by his wonderful parents: Mark and Carole Sohmer.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Stephen’s name are asked to consider:

American Diabetes Association          

P.O. Box 15829

Arlington, VA 22215

Please make your check out to American Diabetes Association and click on the following link to print the form to send with your donation:   https://www.diabetes.org/donate/by-mail

If you would like to make a donation online click on this link:  https://www.diabetes.org/donate

Helmut Plein, age 91 of Wayne forty-one years, formerly of Saddle Brook, passed Monday August 17, 2020.

Helmut was born in Hambergen, Germany to Johann and Meta Plein.  In Germany he was trained as an apprentice tool & die maker. At the age of twenty-three he emigrated from Germany in 1952 settling with his aunt Martha Bultman and family in New York City. He found work as a tool & die maker and worked for Western Electric and Arrow Stapler.  He started a side-business called Tri County Irrigation in 1977 while living is Saddle Brook, New Jersey and before long this was his full time work. In January of 1979 he moved his family and the company to Wayne as the company was growing and he needed more space.  He owned and operated Tri County Irrigation until he was sixty-five years old when he sold the company. Helmut always had to be busy so in his retirement he found work with the Shotmeyer Oil Company where he initially did general maintenance and later helped with EPA obligations. He officially and really retired in 2007.

Helmut and Ilse Schaaf met by chance at a home in Germany. An Army buddy of Helmut heard he was assigned duty in Germany and asked him to hand deliver a letter to his mother. When Helmut went to her home Ilse was there mending some clothes as she was a seamstress. With that chance meeting they soon fell in love and married on November 25, 1956 in New York City.  They have had a devoted marriage of sixty-four years.

Helmut wasn’t even a United States citizen when he was drafted into the US Army and began his service on September 28, 1953 in New York City.  Although he served during the Korean War he was assigned to the post-war occupation force in Germany.  It was because of his ability to speak German and English, his knowledge of the German roads, and his jeep and tank driving skills, that he was assigned to drive US Generals and their wives all around Germany.  For his service he received the Occupation Medal-Germany, the Good Conduct Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal when honorably discharged on August 26, 1955.

Helmut will be remembered as a strong willed, hard-working man who was very particular about his work.  He enjoyed planting flowers around the house and planted at least twenty flats of flowers each year. He loved the fish pond in the yard and enjoyed feeding the birds as well.

Helmut enjoyed playing chess for many years and in 1973 he played in a by-mail chess tournament sponsored by Western Electric.  The fifteen enrolled players were in the United States and Canada and would mail a post card with the next move on it to each player. He was very proud of the fact that for two years he had fifteen chess boards set up and won the tournament. He was still playing with an electronic chess device just the week before he passed. Helmut always enjoyed sports and in his youth excelled at soccer. He loved to follow his favorite soccer team Werder Breman based in Bremen, Germany and also enjoyed watching the New York Giants and New York Jets on television. For many years he was also a member of the German Club in Carlstadt.

He was the loving husband of sixty-four years to Ilse Plein; devoted father of Evelyn (Michael) Growney of Rockaway, and Peter (Beverly) Plein of Glen Rock and Wall Twp; cherished grandfather of Christopher (Sarah) Plein, and Kevin (fiancé Cait) and Hailey (Mike) Tubb; loved brother of Herman (Diane) Plein of Beach Haven, and the late Erwin, Marianna, and Lisa; dearly loved uncle to his nieces and nephews.

Santina “Santa” Trama, age 89, of Pompton Lakes and formerly of Paterson and Elmwood Park, passed away on Sunday August 16, 2020.

Santa was born and raised in Gela, Italy in the region of Sicily. When she was just twelve years old, her dear mother passed away. While this was certainly a hard reality for such a young girl to experience, thankfully, Santa’s loving Godmother Lucia took Santa under her wings and helped guide her into her adult years. Santa always spoke fondly of how Lucia  showed such love and especially how she taught her to be a spectacular cook – a skill that she would use throughout her lifetime to bless her family and friends.

Santa met her husband Francesco through family ties in Italy. They married on December 26, 1948 in San Francesco Church in her hometown of Gela, Italy. Soon after their marriage brought the gift of four beautiful children – Emanuela, Giuseppe, Maria, and Vera. With her husband Francesco employed as a merchant marine, he was often gone for months at a time. Santa lovingly and enthusiastically took care of things at home embracing her role as full-time mother and homemaker.

Santa’s greatest pleasures involved anything that made her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren’s lives happy. Her favorite place to be was in the kitchen cooking up something delicious for them. All of her family will cherish special memories of seeing Santa cook, oftentimes humming or singing along to some Italian music that would be playing in the background. Santa’s daughter Emanuela shared this love of cooking and the two of them were always in charge of making all the meals for holiday get-togethers. A skilled seamstress, Santa’s two younger daughters, Maria and Vera, were sometimes mistaken for twins because of the beautiful matching outfits that she would hand sew for them, and thanks to those sewing skills, Santa’s children and grandchildren always had the coolest, most creative Halloween costumes. Santa also loved to crochet and make intricate needle work creations.

When Santa and Francesco’s daughter Emanuela married in 1968, it was one of the happiest days of their lives, but it was also one of the saddest. Emanuela’s new husband had dual citizenship and consequently, Santa’s dear daughter moved to the United States. In a very short span of time, Santa missed Emanuela so much that something needed to be done. Not being able to not see her, Santa, Francesco and their three younger children moved to the United States to be near Emanuela. Settling originally in Paterson, after some time the family moved to 50 Newark Ave in Wayne, then back to a three family home all shared by family at 1020 East 24th Street in Paterson, and finally to 135A River Drive in Elmwood Park. Santa remained in Elmwood Park for many years, recently moving in with her daughter Maria in Pompton Lakes in 2018.

Santa and Francesco enjoyed travels to Argentina, Canada, Florida and, of course, back to see family in Italy. Always happy to care for her grandchildren while their parents were at work, Santa’s grandchildren and great-grandchildren will always have wonderful memories of just spending time with their loving “Nonna” and “Bisnonna” doing simple but memorable things like getting ice cream from the ice cream truck that would ring its bell as it drove by their house.

A real spitfire with a wicked sense of humor, Santa was truly outgoing and adored by family, friends and neighbors. Her generosity overflowed from her heart and she would gladly share her time, talents and treasures to help anyone in need. As the saying goes, she’d give you the shirt off her back if you needed it. She will be missed for all these qualities but mostly for that great sense of humor. Even as she spent her final day in the hospital and while waiting for test results, she woke up at 1:00 AM in the morning and started asking her daughter Vera the following questions; ”Do I have COVID? Do I have cancer?” Vera answered “No”. After Vera explained to her mom what the doctors had found Santa dry-wittingly responded, “After all these years, that’s what I get?” And then she concluded “As the old Italian saying goes, a bad seed never dies.”      

Santa was the beloved wife of Francesco, blessed in marriage for 62 years until his passing in 2010. She was the loving mother of the late Emanuela Minardi (2009), Giuseppe “Joe” Trama and wife Daniela of League City, Texas, Maria Ferrigno of Pompton Lakes, and Vera De Frances and late husband Stephen (2014) of Mendham; cherished grandmother of: Neil Minardi and wife Marybeth, Anna Batelli and husband Enrico, Melissa De Frances and husband Derek Disbrow, Stephen De Frances and wife Lauren, Danielle Kornitzer and husband David, Alexander De Frances, and Alexa Trama; adoring great-grandmother of: Gregory, Patrick, Kevin, Nicholas, Gabriella, and Sullivan; and dear sister of the late Joseph Carnevale and Angela Vinci of Sicily, Italy. She is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, or online at www.stjude.org, would be appreciated.

Ronald Maggio, age 70 of Tavernier, Florida, died peacefully at home with his family by his side.  He was born to Thomas and Evelyn Maggio, and for the first five years of his life lived in Haledon, NJ.  The family moved to Wayne and Ron graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1968.  It was during his high school years that he developed a love for snow skiing. Surely his love of skiing influenced his choice of colleges and he continued his education, North of New Jersey, at the Western New England College in Springfield, MA, where he was a member of the Pi Tau Kappa fraternity and graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration and Marketing with the Class of 1972.  Although life brought him to Long Island, New York and South Bend, Indiana he has primarily lived in Florida since the 1980’s.

Ron made his living as a real estate developer, having built more than twenty-five hundred homes throughout south-east Florida.  Of course, the first half of his working life was more of an adventure that included the Griffith Company in Jacksonville, FL which converted Toyota Celicas into convertible “Sunchasers,” Stainless Fittings in Boynton Beach, FL where they manufactured fittings, the Avanti Motor Company in South Bend Indiana, Black Fin Yachts where he built ‘boutique’ yachts in southern Florida, a foundry and manufacturing company that built food service equipment on Long Island, NY and much more.  In 1994, he left manufacturing behind and after one year in the Florida Real Estate market he founded RJM Homes.  He was never one to sit still and never afraid to try his hand at anything.  His brothers were always involved with him at the various places he worked.

Ron was married for thirty-seven years to his wife Susan and they lived the majority of those years in Wellington, Florida, before life took them in different directions.  Despite his busy work life, Ron managed his time well and was very involved with his children.  He was very active in all of his kids activities as they were growing up.  They enjoyed many vacations together and they all worked together as well.  His children recall how he enjoyed tinkering in his tool shed, and going crabbing.  Once he moved to ‘paradise’ in the Florida Keys, he went crabbing all the time, catching more crab than many of the commercial fishermen!  His house in the Keys on the water had an open door policy; he invited everyone and anyone to come enjoy his slice of paradise, and there was always someone sleeping on the couch.  Ron’s house was always the Spring Break destination of choice for nieces, nephews, and 37 1st cousins.  He was very generous and caring and a great host who many knew him as the “King of the Conch Republic”!  Recently he formally retired to the Florida Keys to enjoy boating, diving, becoming a good pirate, catching stone crabs-during season of course.  It was here that he met Susan King-Hynes, his love for the past eight years.  Together, they enjoyed life to the fullest.  His family and friends will all miss him dearly.

Ron is survived by his three children; Kim Bunner and her husband Nick of Loxahatchee, FL, Ron Maggio and his wife Julia Dagan of Lake Worth, FL, and Rick Maggio and his wife Stacie of Wellington, FL, four grandchildren; Ethan, Sage, Mia and Cody, his fiancé Susan King-Hynes of Homestead, FL, a brother; Tom Maggio of Wayne, NJ, and one sister; Donna Ash and her husband William of Wayne, NJ and his late brother Richard “Rick” Maggio (d.2009).

Friends wishing to make a donation in Ron’s memory are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org or San Padro Catholic Church, Tavernier, FL 33070.

Genevieve V. Harraka, age 99 of Riverdale, died peacefully on Friday, August 14, 2020.

Genevieve grew up in Harrison, NJ and attended Harrison High School.  She left school in the eleventh grade and began working full-time to help support her family.  Her first job was at the Thermwell Company in Newark where she earned 35 cents per hour!  She felt like a millionaire when they boosted her pay to 50 cents per hour!  Later she worked at Liggetts Drugs in Montclair, then at Stanton’s Drugs in Little Falls where she served malted milk shakes to Yogi Berra on occasion.  After marrying her husband, Jim, she worked at Lee’s Luncheonette in Cedar Grove until they closed their doors.  Together, she and Jim opened “C Jay’s Luncheonette” on First Ave. in Denville and they ran that until retiring in 1987.  She also enjoyed working in the cafeteria at DePaul High School from 1973 to 1983, where Fr. O’Rourke frequently scolded her for feeding the dairy cows grazing nearby.

Genevieve met her husband Jim at his deli; Lee’s luncheonette, in Cedar Grove.  She was having lunch there and he sat down at her table asked her out on a date.  They went to dinner in Clifton and as fate would have it, they hit it off!  They were married on October 5, 1958 at St. Ann’s Church on Mill Street in Paterson, followed by a honeymoon to Niagara Falls.  They enjoyed a very loving and loyal marriage of fifty-five years, raising three daughters, before Jim passed away in 2001.

Genevieve is survived by two daughters; Carolee Mearon and her husband Gene of Wayne, and Jeannie Malone of Hedgesville, WV, six grandchildren; Michael and Jeffrey Luberto, Amy Mehl, Leah and Michael Malone, and Colleen Mearon, five great-grandchildren; Julia and Ryan Luberto, Michael Luberto, Kailee and Kyle Mehl, and one sister; Virginia McCue of Fairfield, NJ.  She was predeceased by her daughter Janet Luberto in 2016, and by her beloved husband Jim in 2001.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Norma M. Mulligan, age 96, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 13, 2020.

Norma was born and raised in Newark, NJ during the time of the Great Depression. She graduated from South Side High School with the Class of 1941 where she was a classmate of famous former New York City Mayor Ed Koch who she described as smart and very outgoing. Possessing a bit of a mischievous nature, during her years in attendance at South Side, she was known for occasionally cutting school to go see a rising star named Frank Sinatra perform.

One evening a few years after graduation, Norma was attending a military service dance. While enjoying the evening, she had the fortune of meeting a distinguished young gentleman named Robert Charles Mulligan. A loving relationship began which ultimately led to the exchange of wedding promises on Saturday, February 5, 1950 at St. Peter’s Church in Bellville.

After their wedding Norma and Bob’s adventurous journey as husband and wife began in an apartment in Bloomfield. This was followed by the purchase of their own home in the same town, and ultimately a new home in the Pines Lake section of Wayne where they lived for many years. When Bob retired from ABC Broadcasting Company, they moved permanently into their townhouse in Vero Beach, FL. They enjoyed some special years there until Bob’s passing in 1991. Norma remained in Vero Beach until her home was destroyed by two successive hurricanes in 2004. She decided to return to New Jersey and found a wonderful community at Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains where she remained to the present.

Throughout their marriage and during Bob’s career as an upper-level executive with the American Broadcasting Company (ABC), Norma loyally supported Bob in every possible way she could. One time she even cleared a field with Bob’s tractor so that he could land his plane. She drew the line though on another occasion when they flew to Oshkosh, Wisconsin. Upon landing, Bob wanted to camp together under the wing of the plane. Norma obliged for that night but that was the last. From that time on, it was hotels or Bob was going without Norma. Always desiring to make sure he looked as sharp and professional as possible, Norma frequently purchased the suit, shirt and tie combo that was displayed on the mannequin in the men’s department in the Sears Department Store because it looked so good!    

Norma was the most fastidious homemaker that ever lived. When visiting her home it was expected that you took off your shoes. This rule paid off very well because the white carpet that she had in her home for years never even got one stain on it. Being the granddaughter of a wounded Civil War veteran made a great impression on Norma and sparked a keen interest in reading historical novels. She was an avid reader who regularly read three books a week even up until just three weeks before her passing.   Norma and Bob also enjoyed spending nice days down by the water and sand along the West Beach near their home on Indian Road in the Pines Lake section of Wayne.

Norma was greatly loved and respected by her family for her sharp wit and friendly personality. She was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew her.

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James Fitzpatrick, age 71, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Wednesday August 12, 2020

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Jim was born in Manhattan and was the oldest of four children to James and Margaret Fitzpatrick.  He attended St. Elizabeth grammar school and served as an altar boy at St. Elizabeth Church.   Jim was a Boy Scout and eventually earned the title of Eagle Scout.  He attended Cardinal Hayes High School in the Bronx, NY.  After his high school graduation, he attended Manhattan College where he earned his Bachelor’s and Master’s Degree in Environmental Science.   Jim moved to New Jersey and accepted a position with Hydro Science located in Mahwah, NJ, which became Hydro Qual and eventually HDR Inc.  His career with them spanned 50 years.

Jim was a lifelong fan of the Fighting Irish and the Dodgers.  He became an avid skier, traveling to destinations all over Europe, the United States, and Canada to test his skills.  Jim also frequented Aruba and other exotic destinations where he enjoyed the sport of Windsurfing.  Traveling was one of Jim’s favorite things to do.  He was always willing to travel great distances to be with family and friends.  He was a music lover, particularly of Hot Tuna, and Shilelagh Law.  Not only was Jim a lover of listening to music but also a player of music.  As of recent, Jim was challenging himself by learning to play the Cigar Box Guitar.

Jim was a very happy person throughout his life, had a wonderful sense of humor, and enjoyed being the life of the party.  He was affectionately known to his nieces and nephews as, “Crazy Uncle Jim.”  Aside from all of his interests, hobbies, and talents, his greatest passion was for his friends and family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jim than spending time with his brothers, sister, nieces, nephews, and friends.  He was a very special person who touched the lives of everyone he met and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Jim is survived by his sister Kathy Ferre and her husband Bill of Wayne, two brothers John Fitzpatrick and his wife Mary Ellen of Boynton Beach, FL, and Kevin Fitzpatrick and his wife Peggy of Spring Lake, NJ, four nieces, Laura Fitzpatrick and her partner Tommy of Baltimore, MD, Caitlin Fitzpatrick and her husband Corey of Westbrook, Ct, Keri Fitzpatrick of Hoboken, NJ, and Jocelyn Ruggiero of Madison, CT, one nephew Brendan and his wife Sarah of Cincinnati, OH.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s name may be made to St. Elizabeth School at St E Fund P.O. Box 312 Bronxville, NY 10708.  https://saintelizabethschool.org/

Irene Ann Schulze (nee Muschko), age 85, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday August 11, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a courageous battle with cancer.

Irene was born in Northampton, PA and was the youngest of three children to John and Suzanne Muschko.  As a young girl, Irene and her family moved to the Bunker Hill section of Paterson.  As a teenager, Irene attended Central High School and graduated with the class of 1952.  Following Irene’s graduation, she found work quickly at the Prospect Park National Bank in Prospect Park where she held a clerical position.  Irene worked there for about five years.  During that time in her life she met a handsome young man by the name of John Schulze.  The two of them lived in the same neighborhood, hit it off great, and started dating.  As fate would have it they fell in love.  John got the call to serve his country in the Korean Conflict and after his return home from his service with the United States Army the two became husband and wife on June 1, 1957, getting married in St John’s Lutheran Church in Passaic, NJ.

Irene and John settled in Paterson, in the same apartment building in which Irene’s brother Edward lived.  In 1959, Irene and John welcomed their first child, their daughter Judy.  Shortly after the New Year in 1962, they welcomed their second daughter Diane.  That same year a fire swept through their apartment building and the family was forced to move.  Irene and her family moved to Wayne where they remained for the rest of their lives.  After moving to Wayne, John and Irene welcomed their other two children, their son John in 1963, and their daughter Karen in 1967.

Shortly after the birth of their first child, Irene decided that she would become a full time homemaker, devoting herself to caring and nurturing her husband and children.  This was Irene’s true calling and where she flourished.  She was a totally devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  Not only was Irene devoted totally to her family but she was also wholly dedicated to her Lutheran Faith.  She and her family were members of St Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne for many years.  Irene was a member of the Eastern Star and recently in 2019 received her fifty year service pin.  Irene was also a member of the Scottish Rite Lady’s Auxiliary in Lincoln Park for many years as well.

The one place that Irene considered her home away from home was the beach.  She enjoyed frequenting the beaches of the Jersey Shore and Myrtle Beach, SC.  She loved to swim, bathe in the sun, and spending time on their boat.  Irene and John also treasured traveling and cruising to destinations such as Alaska, Hawaii, and various islands in the Caribbean.  She was a wonderful cook, and enjoyed exercising as long as it was fun, and she was also quite a dancer.  Irene was a genuine connoisseur of coffee, she described coffee as being “The Nectar of the Gods,”  Irene could always be seen with a smile on her face, she was one of the nicest, kindest, and wholesome people you could have ever met and never had a bad word to say about anyone.  Aside from all of Irene’s interests and hobbies, her greatest passion was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Irene than spending time with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.  She and John cherished forty nine years of loving and loyal marriage together until John’s passing in 2006.  Irene was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Irene is survived by her three daughters; Judith Lynn Beasley of Pittston, PA, Diane Christiano and her husband Ken of Newton, NJ, and Karen Ann Schulze of Wayne, NJ, one son John Robert Schulze and his wife Joann of Little Egg Harbor, NJ, one brother William Muschko of Totowa, eight grandchildren; Caitlyn Michelle Hollingshead and her husband Brian of Plains, PA, Alyssa Karen Beasley of Inkerman, PA, Dayton Orville Beasley and his wife Layne of Bethlehem, PA, Quinton Kenneth Christiano and his fiancé Tori of Newton, NJ, Danielle Irene Christiano of Newton, NJ, Alexis Diane Christiano of Newton, NJ, Brittany Lynn Schulze of Little Egg Harbor, NJ and Anastasia Alexis Schulze of Little Egg Harbor, NJ, and four great grandchildren; Braedon John Hollingshead of Plains, PA, Bryce Jeffrey Hollingshead of Plains, PA, Brooks Jackson Hollingshead of Plains, PA, and Camryn Michelle Hollingshead of Plains, PA. She was predeceased by her brother Edward Muschko of Oakland, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Irene’s name are asked to consider  St Timothy’s Lutheran Church Memorial Fund, 395 Valley Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.  https://www.sttimothynj.org/