Vander May Funeral Home

Edwin “Eddie” Spitzers, age 84 of Wayne, died at home on Friday, July 31, 2020. He was raised in the Netherlands and lived in Wayne since 1974.

Eddie was maître d of the Upper Montclair Country Club for thirty years, where he also served as manager, retiring in 2001.

Growing up in the Netherlands, Eddie started working for the Holland American Cruise Line as a teenager. Beginning as a busboy, he worked his way up the ranks during nearly twenty years with the cruise line. When he decided to settle down, he easily transitioned to the Upper Montclair Country Club.

On one occasion in the early 1970’s, Eddie returned to Holland to visit family and friends. Good fortune struck on the final day of his six-week visit when he met Marianne at a local pub. Marianne had stopped in to visit her friend who worked at the pub, and a conversation started with Eddie. After a few hours of conversation, Eddie boldly invited Marianne to come visit him in America – and she accepted! After a few successful visits, and some quality time getting to know each other, they decided to get married. They exchanged vows on August 30, 1973 in Clifton and settled to Eddie’s home in Carlstadt, NJ. They moved to Wayne in 1974, where they have lived ever since. Together, they’ve vacationed at St. Maarten many times, and he especially loved Sandy Hook at the Jersey Shore. He also enjoyed cruising on his BMW K75 motorcycle, or relaxing by his pool in the back yard. Most of all, Marianne will miss their daily card games at the kitchen table.

Eddie is survived by his wife of forty-seven years; Marianne of Wayne, their two children; Diana Spitzers of Wichita, Kansas and Robert Spitzers of Merrimac, Wisconsin, and two grandchildren; Kyler Sianis of Wichita, and Alana Spitzers of Livingston, NJ.

Edwin Spitzers

July 31, 2020

Due to power outages, visiting hours have been moved to Saturday, August 8 from 6-9 PM at the VANDER MAY WAYNE COLONIAL FUNERAL HOME, 567 RATZER RD, WAYNE, NJ. A funeral service will be held at 7:30 PM on Saturday during the visiting hours.

Marietta A Virges (nee Ballesteros), age 64, of Haskell passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 30, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Marietta was born and raised in Cabusao Camarines Sur, Philippines and was one of six children to Santiago and Maura Ballesteros. Marietta attended High School in Camarines Sur National High School and graduated with the class of 1973. Following her graduation from High School, Marietta enrolled at the Bicol University in the Philippines where she graduated in 1978 with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing Degree. Marietta found work quickly as a registered nurse in a hospital in Manila where she worked for about a year. Marietta then picked up and moved to Libya where she accepted a position again as a registered nurse. Marietta remained in Libya for nearly seven years. During her time there, Marietta was introduced to a handsome young man by the name of Nelson Virges. The two started dating and as fate would have it they fell in love and after about three years were married on December 11, 1986.

After getting married, Marietta and Nelson returned to their jobs, Marietta went back to Libya and Nelson returned to his job in Oman. In 1988, the couple made a life-changing decision and quit their jobs and returned to their homeland, the Philippines. After only a short time back in the Philippines, in 1990, Marietta and Nelson made another momentous and profound decision. The couple decided that they would immigrate to the United States in search of a better life and the American Dream. When they arrived in America they settled in the city of Paterson. Marietta and Nelson lived there for about four years. Once again, Marietta found work quickly and continued her career as a Registered Nurse employed at the Preakness HealthCare Center in Wayne. Marietta worked for Preakness HealthCare Center for twenty-six years until her retirement in 2016. During that time, between 1995 and 2015, she also worked part time for Lakeland HealthCare Center in her hometown of Haskell.

In 1992, Marietta and Nelson welcomed their first and only child, their son Rob. Marietta was a truly devoted mother and instilled the importance and value of a good education in her son Rob throughout his life. Marietta was an avid gardener, being able to grow just about anything. Every summer Marietta had her husband Nelson and son Rob transport all of her tropical plants from inside the house to outside in the backyard. The guest room in her home was dedicated to her immeasurable collection of tropical trees and plants. Not only was Marietta a wonderful gardener and dedicated mother, she was also devoted to her Catholic Faith. Oftentimes on the weekends Marietta would wake up her son and husband and get them to attend Catholic Mass with her. Throughout her life, Marietta donated to a variety of different charities. Aside from all of Marietta’s interests and talents, her greatest passion was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Marietta than spending time with, and providing for her family. Marietta and Nelson cherished thirty-four years of loving and loyal marriage together. Marietta was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Marietta is survived by her husband Nelson Virges of Haskell, one son Rob Virges of Haskell, three brothers; Raul Ballesteros and his wife Victoria of Los Angeles, CA, Santiago Ballesteros of Cebu City, Philippines, and Adrian Catbagan and his wife Edith of Manila, Philippines, two sisters Grace Atienza and her husband Ding of Napa Valley, CA, and Marilyn Grimes and her husband Randy of American Canyon, CA, and many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents Santiago and Maura Ballesteros.

In lieu of flowers, those planning to make a donation in Marietta’s name are asked to consider Cancer Treatment Center of America, Gateway for Cancer Research, 500 E. Remington Rd, Schaumburg, IL 60173. www.gatewayforcancerresearch.org

Marietta Virges

July 30, 2020

Haskell

Anthony Pagnotta, age 50, of Wayne passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Tuesday, July 28, 2020 while in the presence of his loving family.

Anthony was raised in East Northport, Long Island and was one of five children to John and Carol Pagnotta. While growing up, Anthony developed a great passion for sports, particularly Soccer and Baseball. As a student at Northport High School in New York, Anthony excelled in Soccer and as a result was awarded a partial Soccer Scholarship. After his graduation from Northport High School in 1987 he attended Averett University in Danville, VA. While at Averett, Anthony majored in Business. He was only there for a couple of years when he was offered an opportunity to work at his Uncle’s Company as a Healthcare Consultant. Anthony worked for his uncle for several years, he was then offered a position, again as a Healthcare Consultant, for a company called SPS (Self Pay Solutions) based in the city of Clifton. Anthony worked for SPS for nearly ten years when he decided to branch out on his own and start his own company. He was the founder and president of Managed Care Recovery Solutions for the last ten years. Anthony’s career as a Healthcare Consultant spanned nearly thirty years until his passing.

Anthony never lost his love for sports. He was a fan of the New York Giants and an avid New York Yankee fan as well. Anthony’s basement was basically a shrine dedicated and decorated with Yankee memorabilia including signed photographs of Yankee legends such as Joe DiMaggio and Mickey Mantle. In 1993, Anthony welcomed the birth of his first child Anthony, later in 1997 his second son Mason. In 1998, through some mutual friends, Anthony met an attractive young lady by the name of Linda Zalewski. The two hit it off great and started dating. Anthony and Linda dated for about four years and on March 10, 2002 while in Miami on a cruise ship, Linda and Anthony became husband and wife and set sail on their honeymoon to the Caribbean Islands with their family and friends. The couple settled in Wayne after getting married and have been there ever since. In 2004 they welcomed their first child John and in 2006 their second son Jake. Through the years, Anthony always remained a loyal and devoted father to all of his children. He and his wife Linda cherished eighteen years of loving marriage together. He was a generous, kind hearted man who would give you the shirt off his back. He was the kind of friend that was always there when you needed him. He invariably had a “larger-than-life” personality, he loved being the life of the party and could regularly be found telling great entertaining stories while surrounded by groups of his friends and family. Anthony was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Anthony is survived by his wife Linda (nee Zalewski) of Wayne, four sons; Anthony Pagnotta of Bridgewater, NJ, Mason Pagnotta of Bridgewater, NJ, John Pagnotta of Wayne, and Jake Pagnotta of Wayne, his father John Pagnotta of Naples, FL, one sister Gina Pagnotta-Strebel and her husband Robert of East Northport, NY, three brothers; John Pagnotta and his wife Denise of East Northport, NY, Michael Pagnotta and his wife Kerry of East Northport, NY, and Chris Pagnotta and his wife Kristi of San Diego, CA, and many nieces and nephews. Anthony is also survived by one of his new best friends, Coco, the family’s rescued pitbull. He was predeceased by his mother Carol Pagnotta (nee Beuther) earlier this year.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Anthony’s name are asked to consider The Sumaira Foundation for NMO, PO Box 161 Brookline, MA 02446. https://www.sumairafoundation.org/

Anthony Pagnotta

July 28, 2020

Sean M. Donahue, age 36, of Jersey City and formerly of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, July 26, 2020.

Sean was born in St. Luke’s Roosevelt Hospital in New York City. He was raised in Passaic until age nine when he moved to Wayne.

Sean graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 2002 and then attended Chubb Institute where he earned his certification in networking security administration. His first job in technology was with IND Corporation in Parsippany, NJ as a network engineer. Gaining valuable experience, Sean moved on to positions with DeWitt Stern Risk Strategies, New York, NY as Vice President of Technology and XL Catlin Insurance, New York, NY as Assistant Vice President, Underwriter in Cyber Technology. Most recently, he was employed by Beecher Carlson Insurance Services, New York, NY as Senior Vice President/Technology Risk Management. Sean loved his work and he especially enjoyed mentoring and sharing his knowledge with younger professionals and helping them strive to be their best.

Sean met his wife, Erika, at a Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation event in May of 2010. They were married two years later, on August 27, 2012 in a civil ceremony conducted by the justice of the peace at City Hall in New York, NY. A celebration of their union was held on Sunday, May 5, 2013 at the Tides Estate in North Haledon.

Sean enjoyed numerous hobbies and pastimes. As a young boy, you could often find him outside in front of his house, playing street hockey with his friends. A love of fishing was also sparked during those early years of life and one time, he won a pool for catching the biggest fish. His love of fishing continued throughout his life and he also enjoyed having fish as pets in his beautiful saltwater fish tank. As he progressed into adulthood, Sean’s love of the wonderful invention of things progressed right along with him. He loved playing with all things mechanical but he was also intrigued by the intricacies of how things worked. Sean loved to read about subjects like the workings of the brain and of course computers. He loved playing video games, especially those that involve risk. No doubt, these interests led him to his life’s vocation and, in his spare time, one of his favorite hobbies - being what’s known as an ethical computer hacker. An ethical computer hacker is a person who is hired by companies to try to hack their computer systems as a way of revealing any real-life vulnerabilities. In fact, Sean earned certifications to engage in ethical computer hacking.

Sean was truly a loving, sensitive, caring and gentle soul. Beyond all of his zest-for-life pursuits, was a man who loved his family and friends and always desired that those who spent time with him were enjoying themselves. He loved to take friends out for dinner and wanted them to have a good time. He also had a soft spot in his heart for those in need. Sean never came across a worthy cause he didn’t want to get behind and support. Favorite charitable organizations included but were not limited to the Humane Society, the Crohn’s and Colitis Foundation, and most recently any endeavor to help front line workers in the battle against COVID-19 to get the personal protective equipment they needed to protect themselves while caring for others. During 9-11 Sean’s father had a friend who was a lieutenant in the New York City Fire Department who commandeered a ferry boat to rescue many who were at ground zero. As Sean learned of this heroic act, it instilled a great love and respect for firefighters in his heart. A charitable organization called the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation arose from that effort and Sean and Erika actively supported the organization. They also frequented a local butcher shop in Jersey City near their home and always left a generous amount of money with the store owner with instructions to use it for the local firefighters when they came in.

Sean was the beloved husband of Erika Donahue (nee Rein), and the loving son of Peter and Judy Donahue of Bradenton, Florida.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Stephen Siller Tunnel to Towers Foundation would be appreciated.

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Sean Donahue

July 26, 2020

Jersey City

Vukosava Vlajovanov, age 74 of Blakeslee, PA, died on Wednesday, July 22, 2020. She had lived in Paterson and Oak Ridge, NJ for many years before retiring to Blakeslee, Pennsylvania.

Ljuba, as she was affectionately known, was born to the late Stevan and Kristina Lazic, in Budisava, Yugoslavia. The youngest of five sisters, she was raised in Novi Sad, Serbia before coming to America in 1982 with her husband and two children.

Ljuba was truly a master of her trade. Learning to be a seamstress from a young age, she was able to make anything. She could knit a hat or a sweater, sew a dress or a coat, make sofa covers or curtains, she even made wedding dresses for her daughter and daughter in law. If anyone needed an alteration, she was just a phone call away. She made beautiful things with such passion and creativity.

Ljuba was never afraid to learn something new. A strong-willed woman, she could change a flat tire on the car just easily as mowing the lawn, or cooking a world-class meal. She loved to cook and bake, and no one ever left her home hungry. She enjoyed finding the freshest ingredients at the local farmer’s markets, or harvesting from her own incredible garden. Her cooking skills were amazing and to this day her children don’t know how she managed to work full-time every day, and then cook a fabulous meal from scratch each night. She also loved to read and spend time outside.

Ljuba was a selfless person who was always doing what she could for others. She put everyone else’s needs above her own. She was generous and kind. Her family was her life, especially her grandchildren who called her "Baba". She loved spending time with them, playing games or just talking until late at night. She loved cooking and baking for them and they enjoyed everything she made. They are heartbroken and will miss her tremendously.

A beautiful soul was lost. An amazing mother, wife, grandmother, sister and a friend to everyone, Ljuba will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

Ljuba is survived by her beloved husband of fifty-five years; Slobodan Vlajovanov of Blakeslee, PA, their two children; Dusan Vlajovanov and his wife Marija of Wayne, NJ and Milica Kear of Monroe, NY, two grandchildren; Daniella and Dylan Kear of Monroe, NY, and two sisters; Marija and Ljiljana of Novi Sad, Serbia. She was predeceased by her two sisters, Biserka and Miladinka.

Vukasava Vlajovanov

July 22, 2020

Blakeslee

James C. Payne, age 90 of Wayne, died peacefully on Wednesday, July 22, 2020. He had lived in Wayne since 2001. He had lived in Dumont from 1970 to 2001, Union City prior to that, and enjoyed spending winters in his vacation home in Jupiter, Florida for many years.

James was raised in the Ridgewood section of Queens and graduated from Brooklyn Technical High School. He was a very bright young man, and following high school, began taking classes as Cooper Union in Brooklyn. He eventually earned his Bachelor’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering from the Newark College of Engineering, while working full-time and taking night classes.

He began working at Merkel Meat Market at the age of 14, and in 1947, became a full time machinist at the Wagner Litho Machinery Division of National Standard, rising to the position of factory manager. This turned into a career lasting twenty-nine years when he retired in 1976. The following year, Jim co-founded Metal Decorating Parts Company, Inc., fabricating parts for lithography equipment. He operated this company for over twenty-three years before finally deciding to retire in 2000. By this point, he had been working full-time from the age of sixteen until he was seventy years old!

Jim was a Third Degree Knight with the Knights of Columbus, St. John’s Council of Dumont and Bergenfield.

Jim met his wife, Joan, while working at Wagner Litho, as Jim’s uncle and Joan’s father, who were childhood friends, both also worked there. They arranged for Jim and Joan to go on a date, and this led to a relationship. They married on November 5, 1955 at St. Michael’s Monastery in Union City, NJ and enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon to Bermuda. They loved Bermuda so much, they went back many times throughout the years. They also traveled throughout the Caribbean Islands, Hawaii, Ireland, France, and many other fabulous destinations. Together, they have enjoyed nearly sixty-five years of a very loving and happy marriage, filled with great memories. Jim always took good care of Joan, and his whole family. He was a generous man, kind, and always protective. He loved spending time with family, especially his grandchildren. They will all miss him very much.

Jim is survived by his wife Joan (nee Ibold) of Wayne, two children; Karen McMillin and her husband William of Wayne, and David Payne and his wife Helen of Jupiter, Florida, four grandchildren; Audrey and Brian McMillin of Wayne, and Samuel and Olivia Payne of Jupiter, Florida.

James C Payne

July 22, 2020

Lucy Palatucci, age 106, passed peacefully at home on Monday, July 20, 2020.

She was born to Anthony and Patrina Campagnia in Midvale. Lucy graduated from Butler High School with the Class of 1931. Just out of high school, Lucy worked as a secretary at a local insurance company before setting out on her own, eventually opening The Pompton Lakes Insurance Agency, which was located at 290 Wanaque Avenue in Pompton Lakes. At her agency she sold insurance and was a real estate broker. Lucy ran her company for many years and retired in the 1980s.

Lucy met the love of her life, Armand Palatucci in the late 1930s. They married on October 27, 1940 at St. Francis Church in Wanaque. They drove down south on their honeymoon, stopping to see the sites in Washington, D.C. As they continued on their journey south, having the time of their lives, the giggling newlyweds attempted to sneak onto a cottonfield to try their hand at picking cotton. They were soon chased off the field by a warning shot. Lucy and Armand enjoyed 43 years of marriage until his passing in March of 1984.

In addition to working and raising her children, Lucy was a Brownie Troop Leader and a member of the Ground Observer Corp., often bringing her two children to the watch tower in Butler in the middle of the night to help out with identifying the planes that flew overhead.

Upon her retirement Lucy became very active with the Saint Mary’s Seniors with whom she took many memorable trips. Some of her favorite vacations, which she enjoyed with the many friends whom she met through the Seniors, included Hawaii, where she took a helicopter ride that flew into a volcano; Rome, where she met the Pope; and a trip through the Panama Canal. The Pompton Lakes Woman’s Club would host an annual flower competition and Lucy’s roses won several prizes over the years. Lucy had an adventurous spirit and enjoyed country line dancing, watching the soap opera The Young & Restless, and keeping up with the times by reading Star Magazine. Through the years her home was the go-to place for Sunday dinners and all family gatherings. She would effortlessly prepare huge multi-course meals with love as one of her main ingredients.

She was the loving mother of Armand Palatucci, Jr. and his wife Patricia of Medford, and Barbara Cahill and her late husband Bill (d.2015); she was the cherished grandmother of Christine Wilson and her husband Douglas, Brian Palatucci, Deborah Simpkins and her husband Christopher, Todd Cahill and his wife Michelle, Allison Harraka and her husband Brian, and Melanie Lamon and her husband Randy; Lucy was also the dearly loved great-grandmother of thirteen great-grandchildren; she was also the loved sister of Lena Carlough and her late husband Chester of Mooresville, NC and was predeceased by her siblings Theresa, Mary, Rose, Millie, John, and Frank.

Memorial donations to the Hospice of NJ, 400 Broadacres Drive #1, Bloomfield, NJ 07003 would be appreciated.

Lucy Palatucci

July 20, 2020

Leos Hernandez, age 62, of East Rutherford passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Sunday July, 19, 2020.

Leos was born in Manhattan, NY and was one of three children to Luis and Fermina Hernandez. Leos spent his formative years growing up in the Bronx and when he was about nine years old, his family moved to Passaic, NJ. The family was only there a couple of years when they moved again to the city of Paterson. While living in Paterson, Leos attended John F. Kennedy High School.

As a young boy, Leos was tremendously mechanically inclined. He was often found taking various things apart in his home to find out just how they worked, including his mother’s radio. This mechanical inquisitiveness would shape his education and his career for the remainder of his life. Shortly after high school, Leos found work quickly. He was employed at a company in East Hanover where they rebuilt generators and train engines. He performed so well at his position, and his company being thoroughly impressed, enrolled him in courses which taught advanced mechanics. Leos worked there for about eight years. During his time at this position, Leos was invited to Niagara Falls where he assisted in rebuilding the famous Hydroelectric Generators.

Leos was then offered a position at a company known as Lanxess Solutions U.S. in East Hanover where he continued his career employed as a mechanic maintaining, fixing, and rebuilding machinery. Leos held this position until his passing. Being mechanically inclined at such a young age, it was no surprise that one of Leos’ favorite past times was fixing up and restoring automobiles. At a young age he could rebuild car engines and transmissions. Through the years, Leos owned, rebuilt, and restored many different vehicles including a Pontiac GTO, Ford Mustang Cobra, ’63 Chevy Impala, and a ’84 Iroc Z to name just a few. Leos enjoyed frequenting car shows at the Javits Center in New York, as well as attending and participating in car shows with his own vehicles in Middletown, NY and in Pennsylvania.

Leos was a quiet person, observant one might say, and extremely private. He was also very spiritual. Leos was also an avid dancer, particularly of Salsa and as of recent, has been rather passionate about politics. However, Leos’ pride and joy and greatest passion was given to him in 2006 when his son Gianluccas was born. Nothing in the world meant more to Leos than providing for, and spending time with his son. He was a truly devoted father. Leos was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Leos is survived by his son Gianluccas Hernandez of East Rutherford, one sister Nancy Porta and her husband John of Wayne, one brother Samuel Hernandez and his wife Isabel of Kissimmee, FL, Two children, Luis and Kristina Hernendez Rodriguez, five nieces; Samantha Hernandez, Megan Hernandez, Alexis Hernandez, and Jacqueline Carter, one nephew Phillip Muniz, and two grandnieces; Kaylin, and Scarlet. He is also survived by Gainluccas’ sister Ashley Jarllene Tosado.

Leos Hernandez

July 19, 2020

East Rutherford

Eileen Smith, age 69 of Wayne, dies on July 18, 2020.

It is with great sadness that I inform you that Eileen Smith of Wayne died at home with her sister Racquel by her side on July 18, 2020. She was born in the Bronx to Eva and Henry Bentz and remained close with some of her best childhood friends. She attended Grace Lutheran parochial school, where she was a classmate of former Kiss guitarist, Paul “Ace” Frehley. Eileen worked many years in New York City for ING Group, in Banking and Finance. She earned an Associates in Applied Science degree from New York University, a Bachelor of Business Administration and Master of Business Administration from Pace University.

In July 1972 she married Joseph Smith and moved to Woodside Queens. Joe and Eileen honeymooned in Mexico, starting in Mexico City exploring the country on their way to Alcapulco. Joe’s jobs required him to travel frequently and Eileen traveled with him whenever possible living for a short period in Redondo Beach, California, Seattle, Washington and Galveston. After 31 years in Woodside they moved to Wayne to be close to her family in Wayne and closer to Joe’s family in Albany. Eileen made many wonderful friends in Wayne and loved going out to some of the local eateries like the “OD” (Oakland Diner), Bensi and Little Food Café.

It was always a priority for Eileen to stay in close touch friends and to get together with family whenever possible, especially during the holidays. If you were part of her church communities, pool group, oatmeal club, neighbor, friend or friend of a friend you would most certainly get a plate of homemade Christmas cookies every year. She was an accomplished cook and loved cooking for her family and friends. Her holiday dinners which she prepared for her family in Wayne were always delicious, creatively presented with name tags and holiday nik-naks and included some unique dishes like worm soup (Passatelli Dei Nonni). She also prepared and coordinated an immensely popular holiday party for Joe’s family and relatives in Albany. A considerable undertaking which she loved to do for Joe and his family.

Eileen was very close to her nephews Eric and Scott and was with them throughout their lives. Whether it was cheering Eric on in baseball or Scott’s band recital she enjoyed watching them grow up. She conducted a beautiful wedding ceremony for Eric and Nicole just a couple of years ago which had us all in joyful tears. She was always there to provide them support and instill in them the valuable life lessons which they will remember forever.

Eileen was diagnosed with a very rare form of cancer nearly ten years ago. She immediately researched and learned everything she could about her disease and treatment. She soon learned there was only limited treatment and few doctors with experience treating the disease. She actively advocated for more research, funding and greater awareness to help in the fight against this disease and was even awarded by then NJ Governor Chris Christie for her efforts.

Eileen remained active in the church throughout her life. As an adult she entered the Lutheran diaconate and was set apart as a deacon by the Metro New York Synod of the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America on June 17, 1998. She served faithfully in the Metro Synod, often planning synod-wide educational and administrative events. She was a gifted preacher and often substituted for vacationing pastors.

When She moved to New Jersey, Eileen joined St. Timothy Lutheran Church and quickly became a faithful worker and congregational leader. She served on the Mutual Ministry Committee, chaired the Worship and Outreach Committees, and was a faithful sacristan and liturgical assistant. Eileen founded St. Timothy’s very successful seniors’ program, Prime Timers, planning monthly luncheons and securing speakers for each gathering. She preached and led worship several times a year when the senior pastor vacationed. She served as a mentor for several generations of catechism students and coordinated the mentoring program. Eileen introduced St. Timothy to “Stew Sunday,” which operates in conjunction with Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, providing nourishing meals for the clients of Eva’s Kitchen in Paterson several times a year.

Eileen was a prolific writer, contributing articles to synodical and parish newsletters, as well as several nationally circulated publications, including The Lutheran Magazine and the Lutheran Forum. She was the editor of the Metro New York Synod’s monthly newsletter. She was conversant in Lutheran theology and was an avid reader of theological tomes.

Eileen was a wonderful person, who did so much to make our lives and the world a better place. It is impossible to mention everyone whose life she touched and how much each person in her life meant to her. Her loss will be felt by many.

She is survived by her sister Racquel White, brother in law Arthur White, her nephews and nieces: Eric (Nicole) White, Scott White, Michael (Mary Jean) Jackson, Thomas (Janice) Jackson, Daniel Jackson, Marybeth (Thomas) Huyck, and great nephews and nieces: Stephanie (Jason) Cosco, Renee Jackson, Marissa (Trey and Chase) Jasenski and Thomas Huyck. She was predeceased by her parents Eva and Henry Bentz, her husband Joseph Smith who passed away in 2020 and her great nephew Christopher Jackson.

Donations can be made to:

NET Research Foundation

31 St. James Avenue, Suite 365

Boston, MA 02116

Eileen Smith

July 18, 2020

Gary J Denovchik, age 68, of Fairfield passed away peacefully on Friday, July 17, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gary was born and raised in Passaic, NJ and was one of four children to Nicholas and Etta Denovchik. While growing up, at the early age of ten years old, Gary began working at the family owned store in Passaic. Gary worked closely with his family for many years until the closing of the store in 1996. Gary attended Passaic High School and after graduating with the class of 1970, he enrolled at Lincoln Technical Institute where he studied Refrigeration for a time. Gary was accepted at Rutgers University where he studied Water Filtration for a short time as well.

In 1982, Gary welcomed the birth of his first and only child, Christopher. Realizing that working in the family store may not be enough to support his son, Gary set out to find a position with better pay and healthcare benefits. He accepted a position at Passaic Valley Water Commission in Little Falls where he was employed as a Heavy Equipment Operator. Gary held this position for nearly twenty years until his retirement in 2001.

One of Gary’s favorite past times was boating, he owned several boats including a pontoon boat which he would frequent the Atlantic City area with. For nearly fifteen years Gary and his son took yearly vacations to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Gary also enjoyed walking his dogs and taking long drives in his cars. In only recent days, Gary was able to see his first and only grandchild, Emelia. Gary was a member of the National Society Sons of the American Revolution for many years, as well as the Conover Family Association, and Lake Family association. He was also a member for many years of the First United Methodist Church in Passaic.

Gary was a football fan, his favorite team being the New York Giants. Later as his son grew up, Gary jumped the fence and became a New York Jets fan being that his son was a fan. Gary was funny, witty and always straightforward with everyone he met. He was the kind of guy that was not afraid to tell you what he thought and never beat around the bush. You always knew where you stood with him. Aside from all of Gary’s interests and hobbies, his greatest passion was for his family. Gary would come up with just about any excuse to jump in his car and visit with his son and daughter-in-law. He was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Gary is survived by his son Christopher Denovchik and his wife Jennifer of Wayne, one sister Patricia Kerekes of Freehold, and one granddaughter Emelia Denovchik of Wayne, and many cousins, nieces, and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers Nicholas Denovchik, and Mark Denovchik.

Gary Denovchik

July 17, 2020

Fairfield

Antonio Manente, age 80 of Wayne, left us to be with Our Lord on Thursday, July 16, 2020 with his loving family at his bedside. He had lived in Wayne for the past thirty years.

Antonio’s career spanned more than forty-five years as a piano technician with Baldwin Pianos, at their showroom on 58th Street in Manhattan.

Antonio was born in Molfetta, Italy, one of seven children. His father Vito Manente worked as a Longshoreman and was able to establish himself in Hoboken, NJ, in the 1950’s. He brought his family over to America. Antonio was blind but you would never know it because of his independence and love of life. He attended a vocational school for the blind in New York City and it was here that he learned piano. He had already developed a love of music and singing as a young boy, and through this program he learned to play piano in record time. He graduated from the program in just three months, faster than anyone ever had before that! His hearing was exceptional and his ability to tune a piano was amazing. Working for Baldwin Piano in New York City enabled him to earn distinction for his skill. Throughout his career, he was personally requested to tune pianos for performers such as Leonard Bernstein, Luciano Pavarotti, Placido Domingo, Debra Gibson, and many more elite musical artists. They all knew him by name. Antonio had a true love of music, and especially the opera. He was a marvelous singer himself, and sang in his church choir for several years at Our Lady of the Valley church in his hometown of Wayne. His talent, passion, and love will be missed by all.

Antonio has been married for sixty years to Antonia (nee Raffaele). They met when Antonio was a teenager seeking medical care for his blindness. He was a patient at the Clinica Motolese in Martina Franca, Italy where he met a cute nurse named Antonia. They began dating and after Antonio came to America, he invited her to join him here and they could get married. Her parents would not allow that, and told her that if he wants to marry, then he will come to Italy and they will marry first. Antonio obliged, went to Italy and they married on September 4, 1960 in Molfetta. They lived in Hoboken, Union City, and settled to their home in Wayne in 1990. They have since traveled back to Italy on many occasions, including a memorable family vacation to Lourdes and Fatima, where they visited with family there. They have enjoyed sixty years of marriage, always sticking together, through thick and thin, sharing genuine love and loyalty. Antonia will miss him dearly.

Antonio is survived by his beloved wife Antonia (nee Rafaella) of Wayne, four children; Vito Manente of Union City, NJ, and his daughter-in-law Denise Manente of Union City, NJ, Filomena Manente of Jupiter, FL, Nancy Antolini and her husband Justin of Wyomissing, PA, and Tony (Reno) Manente and his wife Brianna of Wayne, NJ, eight grandchildren; Christina, Vito, Anthony, Victoria, Jacob, Roger, Antonia, and Antonio James, and three great-grandchildren; CJ, Juliana, and Eleanora. He is also survived by his six brothers and sisters; Joseph Manente and his wife Maria of Moonachie, NJ, Maddalena Binetti of New York, Louisa Mongelli and her husband Vito of Woodridge, NJ, Tina Petruzzella of Woodridge, NJ, Franca Orsini of Hackensack, NJ, and Antonia Mezzina of Moonachie, NJ.

Antonio Manente

July 16, 2020

David C. Menegus, 95, of Spring Hill Florida passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 11, 2020. Born and raised in Clifton, NJ, David served as a naval gunner’s mate during WWII. Honorably discharged in 1946 he received the American Theatre Ribbon, Victory Medal, European African Middle Eastern Ribbon, Philippine Liberation Ribbon and the Asiatic Pacific Ribbon. After the war he owned Dayton Wine and Liquors and subsequently Broad Liquors in Clifton, NJ.

David was an avid golfer, snow and water skier and enjoyed playing tennis and swimming at the Montclair Beach Club. After his retirement, he moved to Spring Hill, Florida where he was a member of the Timber Pines Country Club. He continued to enjoy tennis, swimming and golf. Dave hit nine holes in one in his lifetime.

David is predeceased by his mother and father, Amabile and Vincent Menegus; brother and sister-in-law, Bruno and Lilyan Menegus; sister Viola Adamczyk; former wife Eileen Burchill Cortazzo and cherished daughter, Susan Eichen.

David is survived by his loving wife of thirty-four years, June Bardel Menegus and her children: daughter Jackie Van Gelderen of Holmdel, NJ; grandchildren Jeffrey and Ashley Mottley and husband John; great-grandchildren Madison, Morgan, and Adalynn; daughter Jeanne Bardel of Sarasota, Florida; grandchildren Justin and Ryan; son Rene Bardel and wife LoriAnn of Tampa, Florida; granddaughter Ava; grandchildren Rene, Jordan, and Evan; son Robert Bardel of Lutz, Florida and grandson Brandon.

David is also survived by his children: daughter Kathleen Martello and her husband Philip of Wayne, NJ; grandson Philip and great-grandson Evan; grandson Michael and wife Jessica; daughter Claire Baragona and her husband Peter of Tucson, AZ and Barnegat Light, NJ; grandchildren Ariele and Ben; son David V. Menegus of Bend Oregon; grandchildren Jake and Lina; nephew Mark Menegus and wife Jane; great nephew Bryan and great niece Sara; niece Donna McLaughlin and husband John; great nieces Brittany Biron and husband Todd and Nicole McLaughlin.

David Menegus

July 11, 2020

Spring Hill

Victor “Vic” Criswell Oburg, age 86, of Kinnelon, passed peacefully at home on Thursday, July 9, 2020. Vic was born on 12/15/1933 in Pittsburgh, PA. the son of Arnett Grunder Oburg and Rebecca Criswell Oburg. As a youth, he was active in the Boy Scouts, achieving the rank of Eagle Scout in 1950. He graduated from Peabody High School in 1952 and attended Carnegie Tech, now Carnegie Mellon University, graduating in 1956 with a degree in mechanical engineering. While at Carnegie Tech, he played bagpipes for the marching band, which he picked up again later in life to play on sailing trips and for his son’s wedding. He was also a member of Pi Kappa Alpha Fraternity and Pi Tau Sigma, an honorary mechanical engineering fraternity. He received a Master of Science degree from Stevens Institute of Technology, in NJ in 1961.

Vic also served in the United States Army and was stationed at the Pentagon for much of his service. He would recount that he was a Lieutenant and had to salute just about everyone because almost everyone at the Pentagon’s rank was higher than his.

As a young man Vic worked summers for the Koppers Company in Pittsburgh. They were manufacturers of coke ovens relating of the coal industry. After he graduated from college, he worked for Reaction Motors in Rockaway, New Jersey in Proposal Engineering. He later worked for the Hoke Company in Cresskill, New Jersey in the Quality Assurance Department. He also worked for the Leslie Valve Corporation in Parsippany, New Jersey as a Quality Assurance Manager before retiring from the Howmedica Division of Pfizer in Rutherford again in Quality Assurance.

Vic was an avid skier for many years and served on the Ski Patrol at Mad River Glenn ski area in Waitsfield, Vermont for thirty-three years. In the late sixties, Vic and friends built an A-Frame house in Bomoseen, VT, and later purchased two other rental houses near Bristol, VT, all to have a place to stay closer to the ski slopes.

In 1975, the family moved to the Fayson Lakes Community of Kinnelon, NJ where Vic became an active member for over 40 years. He served in many roles in Fayson Lakes including Association President and Commodore of the Yacht Club for many years. He was also instrumental in heading up the lake dredging project from 1982- 1993 that helped clean debris out of all 3 lakes as well as provide funds to the association. When the work was complete and the lake was still drained he placed a statue of a woman at the bottom of West Lake. She stands in about forty feet of water still today and is known as the “lady of the lake.”

He had mutual friends with Kathy Keesler-Barr and heard through the grapevine that she too was divorced. They met again at a Pines Lake home for a brunch meeting of the Ramapo Mountain Ski Club. They began dating and fell in love. Vic and Kathy married on September 24, 1993 aboard a paddle wheel boat on the Hudson River. Vic and Kathy enjoyed being outdoors and for many years enjoyed sunfish sailing in area regattas. They have enjoyed twenty-seven years of marriage.

His hobbies included skiing, sailing, tennis, playing and teaching bridge as well as being a master at fixing things! He was also an American Heart Association certified CPR Instructor for many years. He traveled the world with one of his favorite trips being to Antarctica in 2004 where he dressed as a penguin to get closer to the native birds. In 2012, he and Kathy took a trip around the world with National Geographic and he said that was his second favorite trip.

Vic and Kathy were members of the Montclair Ski Club for about 20 years. They used the club's lodge at Mad River Glen often when Vic was doing his patrol stints. Over the years they participated in many of the social activities and enjoyed being members. Vic also organized a ski trip to Big Sky, Montana for members in one of their early years.

Vic is survived by his wife, Katharine Oburg, his sister Mary Louise Oburg Lavender (Richard) of San Antonio, TX and he was a devoted father to his 3 children from his first marriage; Kris Dell of Stanley, NC, Lynn Oburg of Winters, CA, and Marc Oburg (Cherie), of Moore, SC, and grandfather to Katrina Dell, Collin Oburg and Katelyn Oburg.

Victor Oburg

July 9, 2020

Kinnelon

John Schaffer, age 95, of Wallington, died peacefully on Thursday, July 9, 2020.

The oldest of eleven children born to John and Rosa (Glazer) Schaffer, John was born in Kohanyas, Hungary (a town with 17 homes and buildings including a church and school) where he met his future wife Theresa. The two met in grade school when they were about 6 or 7 years old. John was always worried Theresa thought he wasn’t good enough for her so he went around her and tried to convince her father he was worthy of her hand. Theresa wasn’t impressed by money, but loved the fact that John had a great bicycle - it even had a seat! She was convinced she could convince her dad John had potential. They fell in love and married in the Kohanyas Church, which sat about twenty people, on March 29, 1948.

John and Theresa secretly talked about emigrating to the United States, but leaving Hungary was no easy task. At 3 AM on the morning they were heading for the boarder they told their family they were leaving for the United States. John’s father told him he would never make it with a wife and two kids in tow, but they were determined to make a better life for their children. Their journey started in November of 1956. They ran through fields, paid off people to keep their travels quiet, and eventually made it to the boarders of Austria. They were granted political asylum in the United States and took an eleven day trip on the USS Leon to America. They weathered heavy seas and were all seasick by the time they entered the New York Harbor. John’s son Laszlo remembers awaking early one morning and climbing the stairs of the ship to glimpse at the Statue of Liberty. The family spent a few months in Camp Kilmer in New Brunswick, NJ. A family member, already in America, was to come and sign them out but the public address system was very poor and they kept mispronouncing the family name. Eventually the family was signed out and settled in Passaic.

John and Theresa started out in America with no money and no knowledge of the English language. They possessed nothing but one precious asset – hope. To most people hope would not be enough. But if you were as determined as John and Theresa were, and encouraged by no longer being under the oppression of a communist regime, hope would be a precious possession!

There was one thing that John was never afraid of and that was work. As a young man living in Hungary, John was a farmer by trade. With no farming happening in Passaic, NJ, John had to find an alternative means of work to provide for him and his family. Consequently, starting out in the United States meant doing whatever work he could find that no one else wanted to do. They turned out to be jobs that would give him skills that he could utilize for the rest of his life. These included working as a helper for carpenters, electricians and plumbers. He eventually landed a steady job as a welder for a company called Falstrom in Passaic. John showed great skill and aptitude as a welder and at one point he was even featured on the cover of a welding trade magazine featuring new welding technology called a heliarc welding machine.

John kept working hard and it paid off. After just seven and a half years in his new country, John and Theresa were able to purchase their first home – a two-family in nearby Garfield. They remained there until moving to Wallington in 1969. Eventually, John landed a job that would turn out to be the one he loved the most. He took a position as the animal caretaker for the Hoffman LaRoche Corporation in Nutley. It would turn out to be the closest he would ever return to his farming roots in the sense that, once again, he was taking care of animals. John loved this job so much, he was regularly at work an hour early every morning. During his career there, John was instrumental in getting many other people jobs at the company. Even his wife Theresa worked for Hoffman LaRoche as a Lab Technician. John finished out his full-time working days there and was able to retire in 1986 at the age of sixty-two.

John was never one to sit still as most evidenced by his love of taking daily walks at the park in Wallington. True to his farming upbringing, John dedicated a large portion of his small yard in Wallington to gardening. If you can name it, John and Theresa grew it back there – prize tomatoes, beans, garlic, cucumbers, lettuce, etc. Their crops were so bountiful, they ended up giving a lot of this fresh delicious produce away. They grew the most beautiful flowers too!

John had been a devoted parishioner of Holy Trinity Church in Passaic for over fifty-seven years. He was a man who walked close with God and his church was one of his greatest connections to that loving God. It was there that the virtues of caring for others was taught and reinforced and John embraced those virtues wholeheartedly. Utilizing all those trade skills he learned when he was starting out in America, John was always ready, willing and able to volunteer to do small repairs and maintenance at the church. John was also known for his willingness to help anyone with a need. Consequently, many were blessed by his small gestures of help, like helping the old widow down the street by taking out her garbage or giving a person who could not drive anymore a ride to a doctor’s appointment. It seemed that John and Theresa were everywhere and one of their favorite pastimes was attending the Hungarian Club in Garfield. They truly enjoyed the cultural camaraderie and were always a big help when it came to organizing the club’s annual festivals and picnics.

John was a true doer, but everything he did was done with great humility. He walked close with God, gave of his time, talents and treasures and would often express that he truly felt more blessed than a millionaire. In fact one of his greatest beliefs about this life, which he freely shared with his family, was that “In life you have to find that point of comfort and peace in your heart where it does not matter what the next person has.” John lived a blessed life and felt truly blessed by God and truly proud and grateful in his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

John was the loving husband of Theresa Schaffer, blessed in marriage for sixty-five years until her passing in 2013. He was the devoted father of Elizabeth Celmer and her husband John of Andover, Laszlo Schaffer and his wife Patty of Williamsburg, VA; cherished grandfather of John Celmer and his wife Anitra, Bonnie Batiuk and her husband Ray, Michael Schaffer and his wife Tammie, Dr. Christine Schaffer and her husband David Cazee, Christopher VanDalinda and his wife Kelly, and Lisa Napora and her husband Krys; much loved great-grandfather of Brandon and Elisa Batiuk, Ariana and Alexa Schaffer, and Callan and Nolan Cazee; and dear brother of Frank of Budapest, Hungary, Tony of Oraszlany, Hungary and Kati of Oraszlany, Hungary. He was predeceased by his seven other siblings.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Holy Trinity Church, 226 Harrison Street, Passaic, NJ 07055, would be appreciated.

John Schaffer

July 9, 2020

Wallington

He was born to Richard and Maryann Hester and raised in Newark. Brian graduated from Saint Benedicts High School. He continued his education at Rutgers Newark where he received his undergraduate degree in Economics. Brian always spoke fondly of being on the radio station for Rutgers,WRNU. He would go on to get his Masters Degree in Industrial Management from the New Jersey Institute of Technology.

Brian met Marianne Albarez in November 1990 at a band concert. They got engaged in December 1991 and married June 1993. The inside joke was that their vacations were always an adventure and it began on their honeymoon to Cancun during a tropical storm. Brian’s children were the light of his life. They were his reason for everything. Matthew was born in 1995 and Alicia in 1996. He was the most involved father and was an integral part of their lives and the lives of all their friends

Brian worked for the Verizon Corporation as a Lineman and advanced to management through his twenty years working there. While at Verizon he enjoyed working with their Disaster Relief Team that was dispatched across the country. He was active in the telephone Pioneers. After some other positions, he ended up working for the Times Square Alliance in New York City where he was a Public Safety Supervisor overseeing events like the New Year’s Eve ball drop and many other public gatherings in Times Square. In his later years Brian turned his love of photography into a business.

Brian will be remembered for his love of photography. Many will recall his videos that started with his slogan “We here live.” He enjoyed photographing anything and everything including the hummingbirds in his backyard…which almost became a hummingbird sanctuary. He was spontaneous, and his willingness to help anyone, anytime, even if it meant going out of his way and cost him money out of his pocket. He was that friend you could always count on. When it came to friendship Brian became friends with just about anyone, he was loving, charismatic, and spent as much time as he could volunteering. He was truly selfless and would say: “When I win the lottery I will open a soup kitchen.” He was Rutgers #1 football fan, a sideline photographer, and was always saying and that they were going to win the National Championship…next year. His children say Brian has more Instagram posts than both his children combined. He also loved NY Giants Football and just last year got Season Tickets.

Brian was the loving husband of Marianne Albarez-Hester; loving father of Matthew Hester of New York City and Alicia Hester of Wayne; he was the loving son of Maryann Hester; loved son-in-law of Mary Ann Albarez; brother of fifteen siblings: Marylou, Maureen, Susan, Siobhan, Sean, Paul, Mary Ann, Edward, Barbara, Bridget, and Timothy. He was predeceased by his siblings Richard, Owen, Theresa, and Matthew. He was the brother in law of Lauren Rodriguez and Richard Albarez. He was the devoted friend of Kim Redstone and Vicki Hickey. He will be dearly missed by many in-laws, nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to either The Children’s Home Society CHSOFNJ.org or Reeve Foundation Team LeGrand would be greatly appreciated.

Brian Hester

July 9, 2020

James “Jimbo” Andrew McManus, age 62, of Wayne, passed Wednesday, July 8, 2020. Jim has lived in Paterson, Scotland, Texas, Florida , and North Haledon before moving to Wayne in 2009.

He was born in Dumont to James and Marie McManus. He graduated from Manchester High School with the Class of 1976. He served in the US Navy in both Scotland and Texas. He always enjoyed working with his hands and has held many jobs relating to mechanic work and as a truck driver. He loved motorcycles and currently had three. For over forty years he has been working, tinkering and riding all kinds of motorcycles. His 1951 Harley Davidson Pan Head, that he built himself, was his baby.

Jimbo loved being outdoors. He enjoyed blasting music in the garage and listened to it while sitting in his chair under the tree in the yard. He enjoyed trips to Disney World and summers in Wildwood. Most important to him was his family. The close knit bond they all had was devastated by his passing. The memory of him endearingly calling his daughter Hanna “My Little Pooperella” will always be treasured. Hanna used to be embarrassed when Jimbo would pick her up or drop her off from school in his old 1964 Ford pickup. That was until one of the kids said her dad’s truck was awesome. This gave Hanna her initial appreciation and helped her understand her dad’s love for the beauty of nostalgic cars, trucks, and motorcycles. He was very proud to see Hanna when attending her fencing competitions. He bought Hanna a cat named Cookie and wound up loving that cat to pieces. Cookie would wait for him to come in the door and roll over for belly rubs. Jim will also be fondly remembered for always saying: “If I don’t see you through the week. I’ll see you through the window.”

Jim and Lorraine were introduced by mutual friends. She was living in an apartment above Wizard’s Pub in North Haledon and met Jim when he was going to a concert with friends. Their first date was to his basement apartment where he made her Italian Sauce and pasta for dinner. They soon fell in love and married on December 4, 2004.

He is survived by his loving wife of sixteen years Lorraine McManus; his loving daughter Hanna McManus of Wayne; his cherished mother Marie LaBarck of Haledon; His late father James McManus; his dear sister Jill Colella and her husband Rob of Pompton Plains, his late brother Ronny McManus and his surviving wife Valerie McManus of Oakland; his late sister Jackie McManus; and was loved by many nieces and nephews. He was also the loved son-in-law of Louise and Tony Machado of Clifton and her late husband Tom Jobeless; and his sister-in-laws Lois Jobeless of North Haledon and Elaine Bruce and her husband Wil of Clifton.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

James McManus

July 8, 2020

Arthur “Tom” Frerichs, age 82, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday July 8, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family. Family and friends knew him as Tom.

Tom was born and raised in Paterson and was the only child to Arthur and Marjorie Frerichs. While growing up, Tom developed a great love of the sport of Golf. He started as a young boy at the age of fourteen while working at the Passaic County Golf Course and never looked back. While attending St Joseph’s High School in Paterson, Tom was also the manager of the high school basketball team. After graduating St Joseph’s High School with the class of 1956, Tom was accepted and attended Seton Hall University where he earned his Bachelors of Science Degree in Business Administration in 1960.

Tom found work quickly following his graduation and in 1961 he began his career employed as an accountant with American Cyanamid in Wayne. Shortly after starting his employment at American Cyanamid, he went back to school at night at Seton Hall University and obtained his Master’s Degree in Business Administration in 1972. Tom’s career at American Cyanamid spanned thirty five years, during which he worked in the accounting and credit departments and eventually became the Corporate Payroll Manager. He held this position until his retirement in 1996. As an accountant at American Cyanamid,he worked on the same floor as a young attractive woman by the name of Susan Carlile. The two of them hit it off and started dating. The couple dated for about six years and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on April 21, 1968. He and Sue were married at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne and honeymooned on the island of Bermuda.

After getting married the couple settled in Wayne and have been there ever since. They called Wayne their home for the next fifty two years and raised their family there. Tom was an avid golfer to put it lightly. In 1966 he joined the High Mountain golf Club in Franklin Lakes and remained a member there until its closing in 2014. During his years as a member, he participated in many golf tournaments winning six club championships and earning the nickname, “The King.” Subsequent to his retirement in 1996, Tom, not being able to stay away from golf, took a job as a landscaper at the Meadows Golf Course in Lincoln Park where he worked for about five years.

After retirement in 1996, Tom and Sue became "Snow Birds" and bought a condo in Naples, FL situated on the Countryside Golf Club, where he was also a member. They spent several winters in Naples.

Tom was a devoted husband and father. His greatest passion was his family, nothing in the world meant more to him than spending time with, and providing for his family. He and his wife cherished fifty two years of loyal and loving marriage together. He was not only devoted to his family but also to his Catholic Faith. He and his family were parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne for many years. He also worked and managed the Bingo nights at Our Lady of Consolation in the early years when Msgr. Wolsin was Pastor.. His personality was a melting pot of everything so to speak. He was everything he needed to be when the times in his life called for it. He was strong, serious, funny, compassionate, conscientious, agreeable, open, and private. Tom touched the lives of many people and will be missed by his family and his friends alike.

He is survived by his wife Susan Ann (nee Carlile), his daughter Susan Frerichs of Wayne, his son Thomas Frerichs and his wife Maria of Wayne, his son Michael Frerichs and his wife Patti of Wayne, and his daughter Patricia Frerichs of Wayne, six grandchildren; Natale, Dakota, Lane, Arabella, Caylee and Liam.

In lieu of flowers, those planning to make a donation in Tom’s name are asked to consider Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Tpk, Wayne, NJ 07470, Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad, P.O. Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 or Wayne Fire Co. #3, 130 Jackson Avenue, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Arthur T. Frerichs

July 8, 2020

Joseph Sindt, age 71 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, July 7, 2020. His life was a version of the American dream: arriving as an immigrant in 1950 from a refugee camp in Austria, obtaining a solid education and going on to lead companies, launch businesses and build several residences.

Joe’s career was primarily in the wristwatch industry. For several years, he was an executive with Seiko and was selected to run its sister brand, Lorus, producer of the highly popular Mickey Mouse watches. His most recent position was as President of Hirsch USA, a noted Austrian watchband company. In the mid-'90s, he formed his own company supplying brand-name watches to a variety of corporate clients.

Joe was not the kind of man to sit still in his retirement. For the past ten years, he and his son Jameson launched and operated a number of "pop-up" seasonal Halloween stores throughout the greater Northern New Jersey area. Four years ago, father and son opened Gotham Comics, a comic book and collectibles store in Caldwell, NJ.

Joe was born in Linz, Austria, and came to the USA with his parents when he was just two years old. They initially lived in New York City before settling in Emerson, NJ. Joe graduated from Bergen Catholic High School, earned a degree in political science and business from Fairfield University and a Master’s degree from Fairleigh Dickinson.

At his first job, Joe met coworker Nancy Pier. They were married in 1975 and resided in Bogota, NJ. In 1986, they moved to Nancy's hometown of Wayne, where they raised their son, Jameson; they have lived there ever since. Joe and Nancy were fortunate to travel together throughout the years, including trips to Asia, Europe, and many parts of the United States. Joe was always up for a fun adventure, and he enjoyed collecting souvenirs everywhere he went.

In his younger years, Joe was an avid sportsman, playing rugby and softball, tennis and golf. (As his friends attest, he could always be depended upon to shout boisterous comments to fellow players.) Later in life, he enjoyed collecting vintage movie memorabilia and fine wines. Even as his health began to fail in recent months, he agreed with his wife that he “had a good run.”

Joe is survived by his beloved wife Nancy of Wayne, their son, Jameson of Boonton, NJ, and his mother, Rosalie Sindt of Tom's River. Joe was predeceased by his father; John Sindt, in 1998, and by his sister; Anne Marie Larkins in 1986.

To his family and many friends, Joe was honest and opinionated, but always generous and giving. He will be missed dearly.

Joseph Sindt

July 7, 2020

Forked River NJ — Eda B. Sole, a long-time resident of the Pequannock NJ and southern NJ area, died July 7th at Community Medical Center in Toms River NJ.

Born in Lincoln Park in 1931 Edie was a long-time resident of Pequannock NJ. She was active at Holy Spirit Church in the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s. She was also active in many other community activities.

Edie worked at many restaurants and catered events throughout her life. Edie loved cooking, socializing and enjoyed hosting and planning parties with friends and family. She was an avid reader and later in life loved crafting. She had a fun personality and could light up a room with a story or joke.

She is survived by her daughters Linda Sole, Pat Sole, Lorrie Sole. Her grandchildren Amanda Sole, Jimi Ackerman Jr., Cara Purgavie, Tommy Glynn, Dylan and Gavin Purgavie, and great grandchildren Jordyn Thompson and Jimmy Ackerman III and her many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in memory of our mother to Somerset Hills Learning Institute (1810 Burnt Mills Road, Bedminster, NJ 07921) to benefit children and adults with autism. This is a cause that our mother admired and was proud to support. To donate online, please visit Invest - Somerset Hills Learning Institute . Autism is a life-long, neurological disorder that robs children of the ability to speak and relate to others. It robs families of the hopes and dreams they have for their children. And until recently, it robbed children of a future. Autism once led to a life of isolation and institutionalization. After more than 50 years of research we know that this no longer needs to be the case. In fact, with early effective treatment, like Somerset Hills Learning Institute delivers, these children go on to lead purposeful and independent lives.

Eda Sole

July 7, 2020

Forked River

Charles Mario Robertson, nee Ciarfella, of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Tuesday, July 7, 2020. Known as Charlie to friends and family, he was the owner of Robbie's Music in Wayne for over 60 years.

Charlie was born in 1927, one of nine children to Roberto and Libertina Ciarfella in the Riverside section of Paterson, NJ. The family later moved to Hawthorne where he graduated from Hawthorne High School.

At age 14, restless and growing up during the Great Depression, Charlie and a few friends decided to "see the world." They hitch hiked and jumped freight trains on their way to the Grand Canyon, having many memorable adventures along the way, including nights in jail for vagrancy where Charlie always commented that it was good to occasionally get a warm bed and a hot meal while on "the road!" Thankfully, all returned home safely and in time for school to begin in the Fall.

In his youth, Charlie also belonged to the Golden Gloves boxing program in Paterson. While not a very good boxer, he was always a good sport. Charlie earned the nickname "Canvas Back," and graciously endured the endless teasing of friends for his "less than stellar" skills in the ring.

Charlie was drafted and served in World War II in the Army Air Force Division. He served primarily in Berea, Ohio where he was a member of the ground crew.

After being honorably discharged, Charlie attended college at Florida Southern University on the GI bill, completing his Baccalaureate degree in just over two years. It was during this time that he legally changed his name from Ciarfella to Robertson.

He eventually returned home to work in the family business, Robbie's Music, started by his father in 1927. The business was successful and grew to include several locations, including the one in Wayne that Charlie owned for over 60 years. Known as "Mr Robbie", Charlie loved his business and never thought of it as "work." Retail, specifically wheeling and dealing, was in his blood. Luckier than most, Charlie loved what he did for a living. He was also well known and well liked among his employees and peers in the music industry.

In 1957, Charlie met and married Marion DeGrezia of Paterson. She was the love of his life. They met at a meeting of the New Jersey Wiz Skiiers Ski Club where they were both members. After a year of dating, Charlie proposed marriage by holding a box with an engagement ring and saying "here...look!" They married at St. Joseph's Church in Paterson on September 28, 1957, which was also Charlie's 30th birthday. The reception was held at The Fiesta and they honeymooned in Bermuda. After living in Clifton for several years, they eventually settled in Wayne where they raised their three daughters. It was a loving and comfortable marriage.

Charlie leaves behind Marion, his wife of almost 63 years, daughter Lynn Robertson and partner James Dupree, Janice Robertson Craig, husband Michael, grandsons Andrew and Daniel, and Elayne Robertson Demby, husband Glenn and grandchildren Evan and Charlotte.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to NEHSA.org or the Alzheimer's Association would be appreciated.

Charles “Charlie” Robertson

July 7, 2020

Margaret Kulik, (nee Stefancik), age 92, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, July, 3, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Margaret was born and raised in Passaic and was the older of two children to Michael and Mary Stefancik. She was a member of a group in our society known of late as “The Greatest Generation.” People of the Greatest Generation are people who grew up during the struggling times of the Great Depression and as young adults witnessed and fought for our country in the Second World War. Marge graduated from High School with the class of 1945 and briefly attended a local secretarial school. She then found work quickly at a local high school employed as a secretary. She held this position until about 1949.

While on a trip to the circus with her Uncle John and his wife Josie, she met a handsome young man (Josie’s brother) by the name of John Kulik. The two sat apart at the circus but made a connection that would have Marge mailing him letters after he was sent overseas and serving in the Navy during World War II. Upon John’s return from the service, John took Marge to her high school prom and as fate would have it, they soon fell in love. After asking Marge’s parents for her hand in marriage they married at Saint Peter & Paul Russian Orthodox Cathedral in Passaic on February 5, 1949 and honeymooned in Florida.

After getting married, Marge and John settled in Passaic and soon started their family in 1953 with the birth of Joanne. It was time to move out to the country and expand their family so in 1956 they built a house in the Pines Lake section of Wayne the year Michael was born and in 1964 their third child Carol arrived. John and Marge lived their entire lives in that house that they built. Shortly after getting married and starting a family, Marge decided to become a full-time homemaker. This was truly her calling and where she flourished. She was everything her children could ask for in a Mother and more. She cared deeply about all of her children equally and gave them unconditional love. She made sure her family had everything they needed and made a good life for them growing up in Pines Lake.

Over the years the Kulik house was filled with family and friends especially on Christmas and Russian Easters. Marge enjoyed dancing, Jazzercise, and Aerobics, and was a member of the Seniors Follies of Wayne where she treasured performing on stage. Throughout her life there were many family vacations to the Jersey shore and the big one in 1970 touring the United States in their family camper, a 9,000 mile journey. Marge also cherished her visits to Florida for a few months in the winter to see her daughter Joanne, her son in law James and her grandson Jimmy. While there, she would go bowling with Jimmy and never missed his baseball games. When Marge’s daughter Carol would go on vacation, she and John would dog-sit their pet, Scrufty. They would frequently take him for walks and truly considered him to be a part of the family. Being a dancer and performer, it was no surprise that Marge was a fan of the show “Dancing with the Stars.” She was fortunate enough to attend a touring production of the show at Continental Area along with her daughter Carol. Marge looked forward to spending Christmas Eve’s with Michael’s family and all the great grandchildren dubbed “Chaos at the Kulik’s”. Taking the group family photo of 17 all in the same jammies was always a challenge that she enjoyed being part of and then spending a more mellow Christmas day with Carol’s family. She loved the Holidays.

On several occasions, when Joanne would visit from Florida, Joanne, Carol and Marge would spend a girl’s weekend together dining at Portobello’s Restaurant in Oakland, drinking Moscato wine and eating chocolate mousse cake.

She was a soft spoken lady and very private. However, Marge was an extremely strong woman. Not only was Marge dedicated to her family she was also devoted to her Orthodox Faith. She and her family were members of Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne for many years. She was a long time member of the Pines Lake Women’s Club, Wayne Elks Lodge and the Golden Age Club of Wayne as well. Marge was devoted to her husband and her children and was adored by her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Marge and John were always on the sidelines watching Michael play soccer and ice hockey through high school and college. They continued that same support for all five of their grand children attending the various sporting events that they were involved in.

Marge and John cherished sixty seven years of loving and loyal marriage together until John passing in 2016. In her final 4 years Marge counted on her three children to assist her with shopping and driving her to doctors appointments. Michael assumed “the man of the house duties” to handle all of the things that John used to do. Joanne and Carol would call her almost daily to check up on her. It was her children’s way of caring for the mother that they loved so much. She loved her independence and didn’t want to live anywhere but home. People were amazing that she lived all alone and took care of herself until her passing. Marge was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Margaret is survived by her son Michael Kulik and his wife Michelle of Kinnelon, two daughters, Joanne Ferrara and her husband James of Port St Lucie, FL, and Carol Bencivengo and her husband Peter of Flanders, NJ, one brother William Stefancik and his wife Virginia of Denville, five grandchildren; Matthew Kulik and his wife Sarah of Montville, Amanda Galluscio and her husband Robert of Kinnelon, Mark Kulik and his wife Samantha, James Ferrara of Port St Lucie, FL, Justin Bencivengo of Flanders, NJ, eight great grandchildren; Kaylee, Leah, Everly, Adalyn, Alivia, Austin, Maxton, Madisyn. She was predeceased by her husband John Kulik in 2016.

Margaret will be laid to rest with her husband John Kulik in St Peter and Paul Cemetery, Saddle Brook, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Margaret’s name to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, 285, French Hill Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470. https://www.heisrisen.org/

Margaret Kulik

July 3, 2020

Paul P. DiPetrillo, 87 of Wayne, died suddenly on Thursday, July 2, 2020. He has lived in Wayne since 2003, and had lived in Mahwah and Oakland prior.

Paul had been an Air Traffic Controller his entire career, first in the U.S. Air Force, then at LaGuardia Airport, JFK Airport, and he retired from TRACON on Long Island. He had an incredible work ethic and during the famous ‘air traffic controller strike’ of the 1980’s, Paul worked so much overtime at TRACON that he was able to retire almost four years earlier than anticipated!

Paul grew up in Palisades Park, NJ and graduated from Leonia High Scholl with the class of 1950. He was a good kid who kept out of trouble, for the most part. He liked playing hooky from school and almost got caught once when he saw his father approaching the luncheonette where he was hanging out with his pals. Paul’s friends ran off while he ducked behind the service counter and hid until his father finished having lunch! Later on, as a teenager, he worked for his dad doing landscaping and also worked at the La France Dye house in Paterson. After high school, he joined the U.S. Air Force and served until 1955, spending part of that time in Korea. It was in the Air Force that Paul learned to be an air traffic controller and after being discharged in 1955, he embarked on a lifelong career as such. He was also active in the VFW, belonging to the Franklin Lakes post, and later to the Glen Rock post.

Paul was a generous man, always willing to lend a helping hand, and a true gentleman. He was a wonderful father and grandfather, devoted to his family. Years ago, he was a basketball coach with the CYO and an active member of Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Oakland. His children have many fond memories of those years, as well as many other area kids who were on his team. Paul was always anxious to spend time with his grandchildren, and enjoyed frequent family gatherings. He was affectionately called “Poppy” by his grandchildren, and he loved to be with them every chance he got! Poppy had an expert ability to fall asleep at the drop of a hat, so he wasn’t always the best babysitter or driving instructor, but he was certainly happy to be with them.

Paul had lived in Oakland, NJ for many years, and raised his family there. Sadly, Paul lost his first wife Joan in 1992. A few years later, he mustered the courage to ask Janet Horan, who he knew from church, out on a date. They went to the opera together, and the date went very well, even though Paul fell asleep! Janet enjoyed that he was a good dancer, a great conversationalist, and a perfect gentleman. He had a big heart and took great care of her. Both of their families were enthusiastic when they married on January 14, 1995, and they quickly became one big family. Paul and Janet have traveled extensively, including to Ireland, England, Italy, Hawaii, Costa Rica, and many more exciting destinations. Paul especially loved visiting Ocean Beach Shores at the Jersey Shore. He was truly a “beach guy” and loved floating in the ocean there. In their twenty five years of marriage, Janet can’t recall a single time that Paul said “no” to her. They loved each other very much, and she will miss him dearly.

Paul is survived by his loving wife Janet (nee Cappock) of Wayne, five children; Stephen DiPetrillo and his wife Simone of Oakland, Dianne Martello and her husband Dr. Robert of Mt. Dora, FL, Michael DiPetrillo of Oakland, Patricia Capitelli of Totowa, Thomas Horan and his wife Patty of W. Milford, nine grandchildren; Craig, Megan, Sean and Brendan Capitelli, Emily and Andrew Martello, Corrigan and Cameron Horan, and Liam DiPetrillo, one sister; Edith Loehing and her husband Richard of E. Hanover, and one brother; James DiPetrillo of E. Brunswick. Paul was predeceased by his first wife Joan in 1992, and by his sister Jeanne Barone in 2017.

Those wishing to make a donation in Paul’s memory are asked to please consider his parish; Annunciation RC Church, 45 Urban Club Rd., Wayne, NJ 07470.

Paul DiPetrillo

July 2, 2020

Joseph Mazujian, age 96, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 2, 2020.

Joseph, known as Joe, was born in Newark and lived in Belleville, Kearny and Clifton before moving to Wayne in 2000.

Joe spent his youthful years in Belleville and received his formal education at Belleville High School, graduating with the Class of 1941. He went on for further study of chemistry at Seton Hall University.

As he was continuing his education Joseph and his brother Edward made a decision to partner and succeed their father in the family dry cleaning and tailoring business. Their enterprise was located in Kearny and was fittingly named Kearny Cleaners. Joe’s original plan was to work days and continue college at night, however the hard work and dedication during the day changed his plans to stay with the family business full time. After graduating from the National Institute of Dry Cleaning in Silver Spring, MD, he and his brother ran Kearny Cleaners for twenty-six years until 1974. Joe then went to work for the International Division of the United States Postal Service in Jersey City, ultimately retiring in 1992.

Joseph served as a member and Past President of the Kearny Optimist Club and was a member of the parish, and member of the Vestry at Saint John’s Episcopal Church in Passaic. He was most recently a member of Saint Michael’s Episcopal Church in Wayne. He was also a member of the Copestone-Ophir Mason Lodge #108 in Kearny and reached the 32nd degree.

Joe proudly served in the United States Air Force during World War II in the Pacific Theater. He was a radio operator and gunner on a B-24 Bomber serving as a Staff Sergeant for the 46th Troop Carrier Squadron and 317th Troop Carrier Group. As Joe described it, his final orders were to fly his B-24 from the Motobu Airstrip on Northern Okinawa with the sole purpose of bombing the southern island of Kyushu – prior to the invasion of Japan. After the atomic bomb was dropped his orders were changed as he was given the mission of transporting allied prisoners in Japan to the Philippines, to be transported to their final destinations. For the last five months he flew on C-46’s and C-47’s transporting service personnel and supplies from Korea and Japan down to the Philippines. His detail objective was to keep radio contact with all the bases en-route. During his life, Joe often expressed his particular joy of flying and aviation and his utmost love and patriotism for his country. For his service Joe was the recipient of the American Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal, World War II Victory Medal, and the Asiatic Pacific Service Medal.

Joe enjoyed such hobbies as playing bridge and poker, backgammon (teaching both his sons), collecting and studying antiques, and reading books, especially those about history/American history. He was also an active member of the Widows and Widowers Travel Club (WTC) in Passaic County and traveled often to Aruba and many US destinations.

Joseph and his beloved wife Ann (nee Broojian) had thirty-seven years of “a marriage made in heaven” before Ann’s passing in 1994. Joe is survived by his dear son David Aram Mazujian of East Hampton. He was predeceased by his son Stephen Edward Mazujian in 2014, and by two siblings: his brother Edward Mazujian in 1988 and his sister Sara Iskendarian in 1992. Joseph enjoyed spending time with his loving family including his many cousins, nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Armenian Missionary Association of America, 31 W. Century Road, Paramus, NJ 07652 (www.amaa.org).

Joseph Mazujian

July 2, 2020

Leona Eckert age 87 of Wayne, died on July 1, 2020. She has lived in Wayne since 1969.

Leona had grown up in the Essex, MD area. She met her husband, Frank, while attending Towson University. They married on June 27, 1953 and after a honeymoon to Atlantic City, moved to Pennsylvania, Illinois, and North Carolina before settling in Wayne, NJ.

Leona had been a 1st grade teacher at Randall Carter Elementary School in Wayne for 20+ years. She was an active member of St. Timothy’s Evangelical Lutheran Church and very active throughout the community. She had been treasurer of the Wayne Education Association and was always volunteering at the Friend’s Room of the Wayne Public Library and the Wayne Interfaith Network – Food Bank. Her love of community and teaching, was obvious to all that knew her.

Leona’s children recall her being a great mom, nurturing, supportive, and encouraging them in all their endeavors. She was a good disciplinarian as well, keeping her four children in line! She was a strong woman and never stopped working. She loved gardening and cooking. She was a great role model.

She and Frank traveled extensively during their marriage, including trips to Alaska, Australia, Egypt, Europe, Fiji, India and many other destinations. Family members were often included in their excursions to share their explorations and adventures. They enjoyed fifty-nine years of marriage before Frank passed in 2013.

Leona’s strength was evident in the years that followed, and she continued to keep herself very busy with groups at the church, her community work, knitting prayer shawls as well as taking care of her gardens.

Leona was predeceased by 1 granddaughter (Sienna Eckert) and is survived by her four children; Cynthia Tschanz of Sharm el Sheikh, Egypt, Mark Eckert & Becky Guttstein of Fort Wayne , IN, Keith & Carolyn Eckert of Wayne, NJ, and Rob & Patty Eckert of East Windsor, NJ, seven grandchildren (Karl & Qian Tschanz, Sarah Eckert & Tony Dickman, Eric Tschanz, William Eckert, Kendall Eckert, Gavin Eckert and Lucas Eckert), and 4 great-grandchildren (Jake Dickman, Madison Dickman, Jacqueline Tschanz and Jocelyn Tschanz).

Memorial donations to St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church, 395 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.

Leona Eckert

July 1, 2020

Caroline Brugaletta (nee Maratta), age 88, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday July 1, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Caroline was born and raised in Paterson and was one of two children to Salvatore and Carmela Maratta. Caroline attended Central High School in Paterson graduating with the class of 1948. Following her graduation, Caroline found work at Food Fair in Paterson. While at Food Fair, Caroline worked alongside a handsome young man named John Brugaletta. John asked Caroline out on a date and picked her up in his mother’s car, which he told Caroline was his. As fate would have it they fell in love and while at church one Sunday afternoon, John proposed to Caroline. The couple became husband and wife on April 20, 1952 and honeymooned in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania.

After getting married, Caroline and John settled in Paterson where they grew up and moved into an apartment on Union Ave just upstairs from Caroline’s parents. During their time in Paterson, the couple welcomed the births of both their daughters Carol Ann and Judy. As their family grew, in 1963, Caroline, John and their two children moved to Wayne. The couple remained in Wayne for the rest of their lives together.

Caroline made the decision to become a full time homemaker when her first child was born. She remained a homemaker until the family moved to Wayne where she then found work at Western Publishing in Wayne. After a time at Western Publishing, unfortunately, she was let go from her position. Caroline again found work quickly, this time as a sales clerk at the Meyer Brothers Department Store in Wayne. Caroline held this position until the store’s closing in 1995.

Caroline was a devoted wife, her husband John “held her up on a pedestal” their entire marriage. She and John cherished sixty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together. Caroline was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She also enjoyed crocheting from time to time making blankets and other crafts for her friends and family. Caroline and her family frequented the Jersey Shore points such as Seaside Heights and Wildwood Crest during the summer for many memorable family vacations. Caroline was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Caroline is survived by her husband John Brugaletta of Wayne, two daughters, Carol Ann Johanson and her husband Frank of Rockaway, and Judy Hanenberg and her husband Jay of Wayne, one brother Carmen Maratta (Madeline Carini) of Elmwood Park, five grandchildren; Keith D. Hanenberg and his wife Katie, Kevin Hanenberg and his wife Brooke, Renee Ross and her husband Tim, Lori Della Valle and her husband Jeff, and Michelle Johanson and her fiancé Tom, and seven great grandchildren; Tyler Hanenberg, Jared Hanenberg, Hadley Hanenberg, Kendall Hanenberg, Leah Hanenberg, Kaylee Hanenberg, and Sophia Della Valle.

Caroline Brugaletta

July 1, 2020

Anna Rich (nee Gargano), age 100, of Wayne passed away peacefully at home on Monday, June 29, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Anna was born and raised in Clifton and was one of four children to Louis and Rose Gargano. Being born in 1919, Anna was a member of group in our society known as “The Greatest Generation.” People of the Greatest Generation are those who grew up during the struggling times of the Great Depression and as young adults fought in the Second World War. Anna, like many other teenagers her age, needed to leave school at an early age and work to help support her family. She worked for Botany Mills in Clifton as a Supervisor for about two years when the events of World War II broke out. As many American GI’s were being shipped overseas to fight in the Second World War, Anna did her part and found employment as a Head Inspector working on Boeing B17 Flying Fortresses. She worked alongside her sister, mostly working ten hour days and six days a week. Anna held this position for approximately five years.

A couple of years before the onset of World War II, in 1940, Anna was out with one of her girlfriends at a “hamburger joint.” There she met, through mutual friends, a handsome young man by the name of Frank Rich. The two of them hit it off great and started dating. After about two years, as fate would have it they fell in love. In 1942 Frank got the call to serve his country in World War II. Just before shipping out to the European Theater, Anna and Frank became husband and wife. Frank shipped out to Europe and served proudly and honorably with the United States Army from 1942 to 1945.

After Frank was honorably discharged from the US Army and returned home, the couple settled in Clifton. They rented space in special housing units for GI’s returning home from war, which looked very much like army barracks. Not long after Frank’s return home, Anna and Frank welcomed their first child, Frank, Jr. While still living in Clifton, the couple then welcomed their second child, Carol. In 1957, as the family grew, they moved to Wayne where they would remain for the rest of their lives together. During their first few years after moving to Wayne, Anna and Frank welcomed their third child Roseann. Shortly after the birth of their first child, Anna made the decision to become a full-time homemaker. This was clearly Anna’s calling and where she truly flourished. Anna’s greatest passion was her family and nothing in the world meant more to her than spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She cherished fifty seven years of loving and loyal marriage until Frank’s passing in October of 1999.

Anna was a wonderful cook. Although cooking was not her most favorite activity, Anna became quite good at it. Anna always made sure dinner was on the table every night when Frank got home from work and that her family sat down together when dinner was served. Sunday dinner was always at two o’clock sharp. Saturday nights were usually spent in Totowa with sisters, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Holidays, especially Christmas, were always big family gatherings and filled with many memorable rituals and ceremonies. Anna was not only devoted to her family but also to her Catholic faith. She and her family were parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne for many years. Outside of her family, one of Anna’s favorite past times was frequenting Atlantic City with her husband Frank, her sister Josephine, family and friends. Her many trips to Atlantic City earned her recognition of family and friends for her excellent playing skills in the game of Black Jack. Ann was a truly special person blessed with a long and fruitful life. She touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

She was the loving wife of the late Frank Rich (d. 1999). Anna was the devoted mother of Frank Rich, Jr., and his wife Madelyn of Trinity, FL, Carol Rich of Wayne, and Roseann Abate and her husband George of Wayne, and Anita Carpino Godmother and dear friend of the family for over forty years. She was the cherished grandmother of Christopher (Karen), Darren (Megan), Scott (Catherine), Katelyn, Michael and Daniel. She was the loved sister of Josephine Gargano of Oakridge, and was predeceased by her siblings Fred and Violet.

Anna Rich

June 29, 2020

Marcia Anne Steinberg (nee Kasselman), age 81, of Roseland NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 27, 2020.

Born in Miami, FL on October 22, 1938, Marcia attended to North Miami High School and went onto University of Miami, where she studied advertising and interior design. Marcia moved to New Jersey in December of 1963, getting a quick education about winters in the north. She eventually settled in the Pines Lake section of Wayne where she raised three daughters.

Throughout her life, Marcia enjoyed a variety of jobs and activities highlighting her entrepreneurial and adventurous spirit. At one point, she and a friend used their love of painting and wallpapering to create an interior design business called “The Paper Dollies”. Other jobs included real estate and fashion retailing. She especially enjoyed working with the public. For many years, Marcia was a devoted volunteer at the Daughters of Israel nursing home in West Orange. She got much joy out of offering comfort and care to the residents.

Marcia always had a tremendous love of old movies, music, dance, art and culture. She sang and danced her way through life. In 1999, she married William (Bill) Steinberg, who died in 2005. Both Marcia and Bill were extremely active in the New Jersey Jazz Society where Bill served as President and she as a board member until her death. Together, they had an extensive music collection. But most of all, Marcia adored being a “granny” to her 6 grandchildren.

Marcia is survived by her children: Laurie (Flinn) Micoletti and her husband Greg of South Windsor, CT; Karen (Flinn) Calvert and her husband Chris of Haworth, NJ and Linda (Flinn) Bocco of Robbinsville, NJ, as well as the father of her children, Frank Flinn. She will be deeply missed by her grandchildren Nicole, Ryan, Julia, Siena, Aidan and Brody.

Marcia is now reunited in Heaven with her beloved husband, Bill, her parents, Benjamin and Florence Kasselman, her brother David and many treasured friends.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the New Jersey Jazz Society c/o Dave Dilzell P.O. Box 223 Garwood, NJ 07027 or www.njjs.org.

Please click here to view the memorial service held on July 1, 2020.

Marcia Steinberg

June 27, 2020

Roseland

Joan Pra Sisto, loving wife, mother, and grandmother passed Friday, June 26, 2020.

Joan grew up in Clifton, New Jersey. She was one of eight children. Being the oldest girl, she helped take care of her siblings and that caring nature carried throughout her life. Joan was a cheerleader at Clifton High School and she loved to dance. After high school, she was employed at the office of Moon Carrier where she met the handsome son of the company’s owner, Jack Pra Sisto. They began dating and were married in May of 1959. They started their lives together in an apartment in Richfield Village in Clifton, but soon built a house in Wayne to raise their family.

Joan enjoyed organizing parties. Her dinner and holiday gatherings would always draw rave reviews. She enjoyed cooking and took several cooking classes once her children were older. Joan’s homemade ravioli earned a standing ovation! She loved to have her family at the table and her husband Jack was ready with a nice glass of wine or a Manhattan.

Joan was a loving and attentive mother to her three children and a doting grandmother to her six grandchildren. She adored her grandchildren and was so grateful to spend time with them, spoiling them rotten. Mimi, as she was affectionately called by them, thoroughly enjoyed this role. Her grandchildren enjoyed it, too!

The family summered in Pt. Pleasant Beach where they had a home. Jack would go fishing and Joan would have to figure out what to do with all those fluke and blue fish filets! The kids thought her fried flounder was the best! Joan especially enjoyed the beach and a gin and tonic after a long sunny day. The house would be very full when everyone was there and Joan enjoyed seeing us all help out in the kitchen, washing and drying dishes, and singing along with Mitch Miller music.

Joan always put her family first as that was her number one priority in life. She once said that she married well and was truly grateful for the life she and her husband had created together. Joan truly was a kind and caring soul, always looking out for the people in her life.

Joan lived at Victoria Mews Assisted Living over the past nine years where she enjoyed participating in the bell choir, writing for the newsletter, running the general store, and playing dominos and bingo with her friends. In fact, Joan became rather good at Bingo, always giving her winnings to her granddaughter, Carly.

Joan will be greatly missed by her three children John, Ken, and Jackie along with her their spouses, Sheila, Blake and, Al. She will also be deeply missed by her grandchildren, Johnny, Matt, Nick, Amanda, Molly, and Carly. She is survived by her sister, Lynn and brother, Jimmy. She is predeceased by her husband, Jack.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, (www.stjude.org), would be greatly appreciated.

Joan Pra Sisto

June 26, 2020

Daniel L. Nevins, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday day, June 24, 2020.

Daniel was born in New London, Connecticut. The oldest of three children, his father Leonard Nevins was taken from this life when Dan was just an infant of sixth months of age. After his father’s passing, his mother Josephine did her best to love, nurture, and care for Dan. Then, when he was seven years old, he went to live with his paternal grandparents in Indian Orchard, Massachusetts. There he attended and graduated from Cathedral High School in nearby Springfield with the Class of 1948. The next four years were a time of further education at Holy Cross College in Worcester, Massachusetts. Then, in 1952, he enlisted in the U.S. Army and proudly served his country as a member of the 69th Infantry Division stationed at Fort Dix, NJ where he served stateside during the Korean War. Two years later, Daniel was honorably discharged as a sergeant and was the recipient of the National Defense Medal. He continued to serve in the Army Reserves for several more years.

In 1954, with the assistance of the G.I. Bill, Daniel returned to school once again – this time to Pratt Institute in Brooklyn, NY where he pursued his love for commercial art and design. Three years later, he graduated with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree and began his career. His first job was with the American Management Association in New York City. After gaining some experience, he took a job as a commercial artist with the New York Daily News. He remained with the paper for eight years before going out on his own as a freelance artist. One of his more interesting projects was actually a collaboration he participated in with his wife Ann. She had written a series of children’s books and naturally, she felt that no one would be a better choice to illustrate those books than her dear husband Dan. He also did a series of paintings of historical homes in Wayne. As an independent artist, Dan loved his work and was able to provide a good income to support his wife and three children. Because of that love, he continued to serve his clients into his mid-seventies.

As a young boy growing up in Indian Orchard, Massachusetts, one of Daniel’s first jobs was serving as a local paper boy. It was a great experience which taught him the virtues of hard work, taking initiative, being responsible, learning the ins-and-outs of management, interacting with his customers, and having a little spending money in his pocket. While all those things were good, the greatest part of the whole newspaper delivering experience turned out to be that it afforded Daniel the opportunity to meet the girl that would one day become his wife. Her name was Ann Cartwright and Ann was the young daughter of one of Dan’s newspaper customers. She was just fourteen years of age when Dan started to notice that she was the prettiest person on his whole route. Her house became his favorite to deliver to and to collect his pay from. Ann apparently took a liking to Dan too. She quickly learned the approximate time he would show up with the paper every day and she made it her business to be there to receive it. Despite their mutual admiration, due to an age disparity, they had to wait a few years for that first date. It turned out to be worth the wait! The first date eventually came and, over the course of time, they went out many, many times. Ann said that Dan loved to watch movies, so the local movie theater made a lot of money off of them. After a five year courtship, marriage came on Saturday, April 18, 1959. They exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends at St. Matthews Church in Indian Orchard, Massachusetts. After a honeymoon in Bermuda, they began married life in an apartment in Brooklyn, NY that today would go for a million dollars. In 1968, Dan and Ann moved to Wayne, NJ and have lived in the town ever since.

Aside from his daily work, Dan had plenty of interests to enrich his life. Being artistically gifted, it’s no surprise that he loved to engage in creating beautiful things like oil paintings and sculptures. His home was adorned with his works and who else’s children could boast that their father had sculpted a bust of each of them? No doubt, music such as old-time country, bluegrass, and Irish folk or even a favorite opera was often being played in the background, setting a nice mood while Dan was working in his studio. Dan was also an avid reader and thus, not a day went by without him devouring many of the articles published in the New York Times, New York Post and the local Bergen Record newspaper. Passionate about certain subjects, he was known to somewhat regularly submit letters to the editorial page of the Record. Sometimes they would be published but other times not. Either way, it proved to be a good outlet for Dan to get things off his chest.

Through their travels throughout the U.S.A. and abroad, Dan and Ann were able to create some special memories. Favorite destinations included a Viking cruise throughout Germany, trips to Italy and Ireland, and taking in the grand magnificence out west in the United States. Having spent his boyhood years growing up in Connecticut and Massachusetts, Dan’s allegiance was strictly to the Boston Red Sox and New England Patriots. Good times at home included watching a game on television, or sitting in his yard on a warm spring, summer or fall day studying the indigenous birds. When he wanted to be with friends, one of his favorite places to go was to the Wayne YMCA for a good workout and pleasant camaraderie.

When asked for words that described Dan, his wife Ann said he was just such a kind person! He was one who was always thinking about others – a quality which was so evidently demonstrated through his 68 year membership in the Knights of Columbus. He joined when he was just 18 years old while attending Holy Cross College. Most recently he was an emeritus member in the local Wayne K of C chapter 6354. Dan loved the opportunity for philanthropy and service to others that being a Knight offered. Ann said that Dan was a proud American who loved to read about and was a true student of American history. And he was a good Catholic Christian who, for the past 52 years, was a faithful parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church.

Dan’s children truly loved and respected him as the best father anyone could ask for. To them he was a father but he was also like a friend. They will always admire him for his wisdom, his very forgiving nature, and his great sense of humor. They loved how Dan just seemed to have a song for anything that came up and how he had no reservations about breaking out into song, and they would marvel and laugh about how he could talk to anyone – something that in recent years seemed to be his primary focus in going to the YMCA. They loved it that he clearly loved his whole family so very much and how he expressed that love in so many ways.

Dan’s grandchildren also have cherished memories of him and Ann coming to babysit, taking them on hikes, feeding the ducks by their house and on many of their vacations. He loved being around them, enjoying a later-in-life hobby of photographing them, and being the best grandpa he could be.

Daniel was the beloved husband of Ann (nee Cartwright) blessed in marriage for 61 years. He was the loving father of Michael Nevins of Vernon, Kathleen Nevins of Wayne, Thomas Nevins and wife Deborah of Denville, and Bill Nevins of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Daniel and fiancé Nicole, Erika, Zachary, and Ryan; adoring great-grandfather of Brianna; dear brother of his late sister and late brother: Jeanette Stanton and Robert Martin; and dear uncle of many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, (www.stjude.org), would be appreciated.

Daniel L. Nevins

June 24, 2020

Alfreda “Fritzie” Fitzgerald (nee Weinhold), age 102, of Wayne passed away peacefully on June 24, 2020.

She was born in Paterson, New Jersey and moved to Wayne and lived there for over 80 years. Fritzie was born in February of 1918 and in March the Spanish Flu Pandemic of 1918 began, so it appears she survived two pandemics refusing to yield to either. Woodrow Wilson was President and War World I was still in progress.

At age 16 she met a 17-year-old Robert Fitzgerald and went on their first date to the movies. Four years later on June 16, 1938 they were married. During her lifetime she held many different jobs, seamstress, working making wire products for communications and as a school crossing guard for Wayne Township. She had been a member of the Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Department’s Women’s Auxiliary for over fifteen years.

Surviving her are one son, John and daughter-in-law Karen of Florida, two granddaughters, Stacy Rach of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and Amy Meininger of Wantage, New Jersey, step granddaughter Christine Fitzgerald of Vernon, New Jersey and five great-grandsons. Her husband Robert predeceased her in 2000 and her son Robert P. Fitzgerald predeceased her in 1947.

Alfreda “Fritzie” Fitzgerald

June 24, 2020

Radulka Z. Todorov, age 79, of Butler passed away peacefully on June 23, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Radulka Z. Todorov

June 23, 2020

Butler

After a brief battle with cancer, Michael Anthony Sarracino passed away at home on June 21, 2020 at the age of 99 yrs., 9 months.

Michael Anthony Sarracino was born September 1, 1920 in Moonachie, NJ to Anthony and Maria Germana Sarracino. He was the first of four boys the Sarracino’s would have.

During his early years, he attended Moonachie Grammar School #2 through the eighth grade in a single room, multi-grade school house, graduating in 1934 with twenty-two other students in his class. He went on to East Rutherford High School, graduating in 1938. During his childhood, Michael enjoyed playing baseball, being a member of Boy Scouts and working a variety of jobs in farming and construction.

As the threat of World War II loomed, Michael proactively joined the U.S. Coast Guard where he served from 1942 through 1946. The Coast Guard Station where Michael was assigned was on the Potomac River, just below Washington D.C., with the task to patrol and protect the U.S. capital waterway access. When President Roosevelt died in April 1945, Michael was chosen as one of only two Coast Guard members to represent that branch of service to march in the President’s funeral procession.

Michael was honorably discharged from the Coast Guard in 1946 and took advantage of the G.I. Bill attending Western State College in Colorado before transferring to Bowling Green State University in Ohio. He graduated in 1949 with a BA degree in Economics and thereafter returned to Moonachie, New Jersey.

In 1950, on a “blind date” arranged by Michael’s sister-in-law Alice, Michael met Frances Kellenberger of Clifton NJ. A match was made and the two were married on September 2, 1950 at St. Paul’s Roman Catholic Church in Clifton NJ. They moved to Wayne, NJ shortly after building their home (literally) and began their family together. The family would soon grow to four children, with Michael W., Peter, Amy and John following over eight years. Michael continued his education attending New York University and graduating with a Master’s Degree in Economics in October 1955. He worked in sales while attending NYU and continued in sales working for Wollen Chemical and Hi-Brett Chemical until his retirement at the age of 83.

Michael had always been very civically minded. While in Wayne, he joined and was an active member of the Elks Club Lodge for many years. Michael was very involved with the Roman Catholic Church even at an early age (having served as altar boy, then Junior Holy Name Society Treasurer in 1936) and he continued that involvement with Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. During his nearly seventy years as a Wayne resident, Michael served on and participated in numerous church committees including Holy Name Society, Church Decorating Committee and Funeral Ministry. He attended mass regularly through February 2020 (only stopping due to the pandemic) and made a long list of friends throughout his years at OLV.

During his “retirement” years, Michael continued to remain busy in other ways, taking several cruises, trips to both Oregon and California, all with his wife Frances, as well as enjoying his family, children and grandchildren still in New Jersey. What kept Michael most busy, however, was his volunteer work at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Wayne where he logged more than 5,000 hours of volunteer service over sixteen years of volunteering in the MRI department. During that time, he came to know many of the other volunteers as well as staff at St. Joseph’s and he established many friendships there. He also enjoyed a very active social life, going to lunch with friends several times a week. He had every intention of living to at least 100 years old.

Michael was a devoted husband and dedicated father who loved gardening, boating on Greenwood Lake (or anywhere for that matter), the NY Yankees, life-long learning, staying busy through volunteering, service to the church and trying to make a positive impact on other people’s lives. His near century of wisdom, humorous mannerisms, easy smile, laughing blue eyes, willingness to help humbly and without self-promotion, fair-mindedness and “constant motion” will be sorely missed by his family, friends and others whom he touched.

Michael was predeceased by his wife Frances, his brothers Lou and Albert and sister-in-law Alice. He is survived by his brother Aurelio and wife Marie and sister-in-law Phyllis, his four children Michael and wife Gail and their daughter Christine, Peter and his daughter Ashley, Amy and husband John and their children Linda and Stefanie, and John and wife Julie and their daughter Kelsey and two great-grandchildren Lana and Sydney.

Michael A. Sarracino

June 21, 2020

Raymond Anthony Seville, age 64 of Newton, passed suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, June 20, 2020.

He was born to Warren and Josephine Seville in Paterson where he was raised at the family home on East 24th Street close to Baer Track Park. He attended School 18 in Paterson and later Passaic County Technical High School with the Class of 1973. Ray has lived in Totowa, Lake Hiawatha, Ocala, Florida, and Port Saint Lucie, Florida before moving to Newton, New Jersey sixteen years ago.

Through his working years Ray always worked with his hands. In his early years he worked as a mechanic at the Exxon Station on 1st Avenue in Paterson, as a “lugger” moving bulk material in the Paterson textile mills. For a time he worked at Curtis-Wright Aeronautical making brakes for the Airline Industry - there was always a standing joke that after he saw how the brakes were made he refused to fly. While in Lake Hiawatha he worked at an excavating company and while in Florida he worked with his brother Mike at a restaurant within a Florida Auto Auction and at the Kegel & Stilli Cabinetry Shop in Port Saint Lucie, Florida. When he returned to Newton, New Jersey Ray in 2004 he started his own business “Ray Seville Home Improvements” where he specialized as a painting contractor. He also worked at Vision Research in Wayne as a carpenter, plumber, and in general maintenance. Each year Vision Research would have an “employee day” where Ray would set everything up and cook for the entire staff.

Ray knew Diane Bonadies from his Paterson days and reconnected with her after their high school years. Their first date was to a picnic at Diane’s mother’s home in Paterson and they soon fell in love. Ray proposed to Diane at a park in Cedar Grove. She had a family heirloom stone and together they set out to find a setting. They married in Totowa on August 16, 1980 and honeymooned at the Pocono Palace Resort on Fantasy Road in East Stroudsburg, Pennsylvania. Diane characterized Ray as her “rock” and that she was blessed with a forty year, loving, caring, and devoted marriage.

Ray was fun, opinionated, and crazy. He portrayed himself as a tough guy but in reality he would help anyone and had a heart of gold! He loved his Harley- Fat Boy and always enjoyed day trips and annual trips to Bike Week in Daytona, Florida. Just four months ago he rescued two German Shepherds Stella and Frankie who he adored.

Ray is survived by his loving wife Diane; he was predeceased by his brother Michael and his sister Susan; he is also survived by his loving nieces and nephews Larry Seville, Lisa Fisacaro, Michael Seville, and Sophia Fiscaro; he will also be greatly missed by his brother-in-law Art Bonadies (Joyce), sister-in-law Linda Jantzen (her husband Charles “Andy” Jantzen predeceased in 2017) and their children Phillip Jantzen (Meghan) and their children Elizabeth and Charlie, Daniel Jantzen (Carrie), Stephanie ( Jantzen ) Sigman (Stephen), and Clare Edwards (TJ); nephew Michael (Janel) and thier children Drake, Logan, Amy, Mitchel and Michael. He will also be dearly missed by other extended family and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Garden State German Shepherd Rescue, https://gsgsr.org/donate/, would be greatly appreciated.

Raymond Seville

June 20, 2020

Newton

Theresa Suchar (nee Surdel) died peacefully on June 17, 2020. She was born to Joseph and Josephine Surdel on March 11, 1936 in Wilkes-Barre, PA. Theresa led her life with love and demonstrated compassion in everything she did.

She was the loving wife of Casper M. Suchar, Sr. for thirty seven years, until his death in 1997. She continued to speak about him as if he was in the other room for her remaining twenty three years. They relocated to Wayne, NJ where Theresa lived for nearly fifty years.

Most importantly, she was a doting mother to her children: Casper M. Suchar, Jr., Mary Therese Gusler, Judith Ann Villani, Alyson Ann Suchar, Sandra-Jean Mayer, David Suchar (deceased 1998), and Daniel Suchar. Through them, Theresa leaves behind fifteen cherished grandchildren and nine beloved great-grandchildren. She is survived by her siblings; Joseph Surdel, Agnes Curry, and Deborah Gronkowski. She is now reunited in Heaven with her siblings; Ray Surdel and Charlotte Shanko. Through them, she had many treasured nieces and nephews.

Theresa was a devout parishioner of Holy Cross Catholic Church in Wayne, NJ as well as a member of the Altar and Rosary Society, Church Choir, Columbiettes Biship Navagh Council, Prayer Shawl Ministry, and Cornerstone. Earlier in life, she worked as a bus aide for Laidlaw. She always enjoyed sewing, bingo, and later in life especially dedicated her time to crocheting baby blankets and prayer shawls to donate to Paterson and those in need. A special mention to all her driving buddies, bingo buddies, and also M.J.B.

Theresa loved flowers and her family would be grateful to those who choose to send flowers to her funeral. For those wishing to make a memorial donation in Theresa’s honor, please consider her beloved parish; Holy Cross RC Church, c/o OLV Church, 630 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ 07470.

Theresa Suchar

June 17, 2020

Butler

Sergo P. Gregory, age 96 of Clifton, New Jersey passed away peacefully on June 17, 2020.

Sergo is survived by his loving wife of 66 years June Gregory. He was the devoted father to Lisa Galo and father-in-law to Felix Galo. He is Grandfather to Gina Christiano and her husband Dr. Tom Christiano, Matthew and Caitlin Galo, Thomas Galo and Cristina Giappone. Sergo was the cherished Great-Grandpa to Thomas and Luke Christiano and Felicity Davis Galo.

Sergo had a lifelong career in the New York stock exchange. He loved traveling and spending time with his beloved family. He was loved by all and will be greatly missed.

Sergo P. Gregory

June 17, 2020

Clifton

Shirley Waldeck (nee Schilling), age 91, formerly of Wayne passed away peacefully on June 15, 2020 surrounded by her loving family.

Shirley was born and raised in Riverdale, NJ and was one of three children to Arthur and Mabel Schilling. While growing up in Riverdale, Shirley’s parents introduced her to music and had her take piano lessons. Later as a young lady, Shirley gave piano lessons to the local kids and adults in her neighborhood and frequently played the organ in church. Shirley attended Pompton Lakes High School and while a student there she met a handsome young man by the name of Richard Calvin Waldeck known to his friends as “Cal”. Shirley and Cal started dating and became high school sweethearts. While in high school, Shirley accepted a position at Bloomingdale Bank where she was employed as a secretary. As fate would have it, Shirley and Cal fell in love and a few years after graduating from Pompton Lakes High School, they became husband and wife. A few years later, Cal and Shirley started their family and moved to Wayne. While living in Wayne, they welcomed the births of their three children, Richard, David and Cheryl Ann.

Not long after they started their family, Shirley decided to become a full time homemaker. This was truly Shirley’s calling and where she flourished. Shirley was a devoted mom and was always there for her children. Later, as her children got older, Shirley went back to work as a secretary at Jordan Bus Company where her husband Cal worked at the time. Shirley held this position until her retirement. Cal and Shirley remained in Wayne until 2004 when they moved to Washington, NJ to be close to their daughter Cheryl and their grandchildren. Shirley and Cal cherished fifty five years of loving and loyal marriage until Cal’s passing in March of 2005.

Shirley was a lifetime member of the Pompton Reformed Church in Pompton Lakes. She was also a member of the Eastern Star since she was eighteen years old. Later, Shirley attended Annandale Reformed Church where she was an active member of the Lady's Society and a devoted and respected member of her weekly bible study group. Aside from all of Shirley’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Shirley than providing for, and spending time with her children and grandchildren. She was often heard to say her favorite bible verse, Matthew 6:21, “for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" referred to her grandchildren. Shirley was feisty, outgoing yet shy, compassionate, kind, and spiritual. She touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Shirley is survived by her daughter Cheryl Mulligan and her husband Robert Wilson of Hampton, NJ, David Waldeck and his wife Nancy of Sauquoit, NY, four grandchildren, Ryan Mulligan, Kevin Mulligan, Kyle Waldeck and Sara Waldeck. She was predeceased by her husband Cal Waldeck in 2005, her son Richard Waldeck in 1989, and her two brothers Richard Schilling and Arthur Schilling.

Shirley Waldeck

June 15, 2020

Edward A Tumminello, age 60, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 14, 2020, at Chilton Memorial hospital, while receiving the loving care of his family.

Edward was born and raised in the Township of Wayne, and was the younger of two children to Edward and Florence Tumminello. His mother doted on him, his dad was his buddy, and Ed and his sister "Betty Ann", although 8 years apart, were very close. While growing up, Ed’s father along with his uncles, owned the T-Bowl Bowling Alley in Wayne (Hence, the T in T-Bowl). There was no surprise that Ed became an outstanding bowler and earned the position of Captain of the Wayne Hills Bowling Team. Ed loved sports, playing Little League Baseball, where he is still known as the most feared pitcher in the league, and basketball for the Wayne Boys Club. Sports, especially bowling and baseball, would be passions that Edward carried throughout the remainder of his life.

After graduating from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1978, Ed was offered a full bowling scholarship at the University of Kentucky. Ed's father was ill at the time, and family always came first. Ed decided to stay close to home and attend William Paterson College, where he studied Business. During his time as a child, the family sold the T-Bowl business and formed Dee Jays Amusements, where Ed also worked with his dad for many years. When Ed was in his third year of college, his father became seriously ill, prompting Ed to leave school and run the carnival business with his dad's partners. In 1986, Ed merged Dee Jay Amusements with State Fair Amusements in Belleville. His children and their friends thought Ed had the coolest job, and they enjoyed many nights at carnivals throughout NJ. Ed remained a partner until 2009, when he had to leave for various reasons. Unfortunately, he was never able to return to work and was forced into retirement due to his illness. Ed fought long and hard through multiple illnesses and setbacks through the last 10 years. He was an inspiration to many, with a positive attitude, and always came through like a champ.

Ed and Elaine had many mutual friends in high school. In May of 1979, Ed ran into an attractive young woman by the name of Elaine Ambrogio, whom he had attended middle school and high school with. With Ed being on the shy side, and Elaine the total opposite, she snatched Ed’s watch and told him if he wanted it back, he would have to meet her that night, at a bar called Moustache Pete's, where mutual friends were gathering. Ed showed up, and from then on, it was always Ed and Elaine. They had a large group of friends and they enjoyed many good times with them. Ed could usually be found at the Meadowlands with his buddies. Ed and Elaine fell in love, dated for 7 years, and were married on October 5, 1986. They settled in Clifton immediately after getting married but in 1988, moved back to Wayne to Ed's childhood home. During their time living in Wayne they welcomed the births of all three of their sons, Edward in 1989, Nicholas in 1992, and Justin in 1995. They were fortunate enough to enjoy a great neighborhood, where they had a large group of families that became and still are some of their closest friends. Ed and Elaine enjoyed 34 years of marriage together.

Edward and Elaine participated in a bowling league together throughout the years. For many years, Ed coached Little League Baseball and both basketball and baseball at the Wayne PAL, where he was also a Trustee. He inspired his teams with confidence and a positive attitude to bring out the best in them. Ed was a dedicated father. Although he worked long hours, he never missed any of his boys sporting events. Ed and Elaine were active volunteers in the PTA and in the Wayne Hills Football program. He enjoyed the four years while his son Nick played, and as a senior dad, he became in charge of blowing up the giant helmet the team ran through during home games. His sons were his pride and joy, and coaching them and attending their games made him so proud. He and his sons also attended many Giants, Met and Devil's games together. They went to many WWE events, as they all loved professional wrestling. Besides sports, Ed also enjoyed frequenting the Meadowlands for horseracing and going to Atlantic City for his favorite game, Blackjack. Through the years Ed and his family treasured vacationing at the Jersey Shore every summer, particularly in Lavallette with his sister and nieces and nephew and their children. As a group of 21 people, they took over the Starlight Motel and this was something Ed would look forward to every year. He loved the ocean and the Jersey shore.

Ed’s greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Ed than providing for, and spending time with his family. He was happiest when everyone was together for large birthday celebrations and holidays. He was a loving uncle to his nieces and nephews and their children. He was also Uncle Ed to many of their close friend's children, who adored him. As their children got older and Ed was at home, a group of their friends and his nephew Jason, would spend every Monday, Thursday and Sunday at the Tumminello house, watching football with him, and every other sport imaginable. They played poker and his favorite card game Skat with him, on many occasions. He cherished these moments and looked forward to his Fantasy Football draft with them, and enjoyed arguing over trades and picks during the season. He will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Edward is survived by his wife Elaine (nee Ambrogio), his three sons Edward Tumminello , Nicholas Tumminello, and Justin Tumminello all of Wayne, one sister, Elizabeth Ann Nabba and her husband Raymond of Mountaintop, PA, his nieces and nephews, Tracy Scala and her husband Anthony, Randi Nochumson and her husband Dr. Joshua Nochumson, Kelly Federico and her husband Jim, Jason Nabba, his mother-in-law Mildred Ambrogio, his sister-in-law Cindy Dolan and her husband Bill, niece and nephew Demi and Jon Dolan, his in-laws Tom and Donna Van Sickell, nephew Thomas Van Sickell and his wife Kelly, and his niece Lisa Farley; Ed is also survived by ten great nieces and nephews and numerous cousins who adored him.

The Tumminello family would also like to thank all the medical professionals who helped Ed through the last 10 years. They are eternally grateful for the care and dedication they gave to Ed..

Edward A. Tumminello

June 15, 2020

Salvatore “Sal” J. Reale, age 87, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, formerly of Wayne, passed Monday, June 15, 2020.

He was born in Grammichele, Sicily, Italy and came to the United States when he was just nine months old. The family settled into life in The Bronx, New York and graduated from Cardinal Hayes High School in The Bronx with the Class of 1951.

After high school Sal enlisted in the United States Army where he served for two years during the Korean Conflict. Upon being honorably discharged Sal attended Manhattan College in New York City where he received his degree in Civil Engineering. Sal worked for forty-five years at the Foster Wheeler Corporation and lived through several location changes before retiring from the Clinton facility in 1997.

Sal met the love of his life Rita Casatelli while at a dance at the Roseland Ballroom in New York City. He offered to drive Rita home to her house at 14 Riverview Avenue in Cliffside Park, NJ. Rita accepted but told him he had to drive the two friends she came with home as well. Sal agreed and upon making it to Rita’s house she invited him in for coffee with her parents. Rita had given Sal her home number so they could meet up again, however, she confided in her mother that she had given Sal a fake phone number as she wasn’t quite sure about him. Her mom said he seemed like a nice guy and that she should have given him the right phone number. Rita called the fake number she had given Sal and asked the girl at the other end of the line to give him her real phone number when and if he called. Well Sal called the wrong number, then called Rita at the right number and said: “don’t you realize I drove you home and know where you live?” They eventually fell in love. Sal arrived to take Rita out one evening and said “hey – look…that’s your ring” as he had placed the engagement ring on a table in the house. They married on May 21, 1960 at Church of the Epiphany in Cliffside Park with the wedding reception in New York City and honeymooned in Puerto Rico. Rita and Sal lived in an apartment on Anderson Avenue in Cliffside Park when they first married and later moved into the second floor of a two family home Rita’s sister Virginia and her husband Andy had purchased. When Rita and Sal purchased a home on Raymar Lane in Wayne, Rita’s sister soon followed and bought the house next door for over 50 years. Just a short time ago Rita and Sal moved into Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains and celebrated sixty years of marriage last month.

Sal will be lovingly remembered as a quiet, reserved person who enjoyed golfing, swimming at the Lincoln Park Swim Club and later swimming with friends he met at the Wayne Township Pool. His New York roots instilled a loyalty to the New York Yankees and the New York Jets where for many years he held season tickets and enjoyed taking his daughters to the games.

Rita and Sal’s marriage was blessed with two children Lauren Fuentes and her husband Nelson of Fairfield and Joanne Jaworski and her husband Frederick of Waxhaw, North Carolina; they have also been blessed with three grandchildren: Christopher Fuentes and his wife Kelly, Denean Fuentes, and Lara Jaworski.

In lieu of flowers those inclined to make a memorial donation are asked to consider St. Judes Children’s Research Hospital.

Salvatore Reale

June 14, 2020

Herman Thomas Voelkner, age 88, of Fort Myers, Florida, formerly of Clifton for over twenty-five years, passed Sunday, June 14, 2020.

He was born to Herman and Marie Voelkner in Paterson New Jersey. Herman was raised at 25 Goshen Street in South Paterson where he graduated from Paterson Technical High School with the Class of 1949.

From 1950 through 1951 Herman worked as a Floor Manager for the Haband & Co. in Paterson. He enlisted in the United States Army and began his service on April 12, 1951 in Newark, NJ during the Korean War. For most of his service he was stationed in Austria and Germany. He was Honorably Discharged from the Army as a Sergeant after three years of service and received the Army of Occupation Medal – Germany, and the National Service Medal. After his service in the Army Herman found work at the Insulfab Plastics Company in East Rutherford, NJ. He would work at Insulfab for thirty-six years before he retired as a Plant Manager in 1991.

Herman’s family had a party for him when he was discharged from the Army, where he met a beautiful girl named Mary Lou Stoehr. Their first date was to one of Herman’s friend’s wedding and they soon fell in love. They married on July 23, 1955 at St George Church in Paterson, had a reception at the Robin Hood Inn in Clifton, and honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York. When they first married they lived in Richfield Village in Clifton and then bought a home on Maple Hill Road in Clifton where they raised their family before retiring to Fort Myers, Florida. Herman and Mary Lou have enjoyed sixty-five years of a loving and caring marriage.

Herman was deeply dedicated to his Catholic faith and was a member of the Knights of Columbus. For many years he served as an usher, lector, on the finance board, and with the Boy Scout Troop 21 with St. Philip Church in Clifton. Herman’s sons have fond memories of Scouting and overnight trips to Camp Aheka in Towaco, NJ.

He was a dedicated family man and will be lovingly remembered for being efficient, responsible, and a fun loving man. When Herman was just nine years old, his brother Tom was five, and his mother was nine months pregnant, his father tragically passed away in a truck accident. Upon coming home from his father’s funeral his mother told him he was now the man of the house. Herman, trying to bring income into the house, had three paper routes to help make ends meet.

He was the loving husband of sixty-five years to Mary Lou Voelkner; devoted father of Herman T. Voelkner, Jr. of Savannah, GA, J. William Voelkner and his wife Rae-Ann Aldrich-Voelkner of Warrenton, VA, Patrick E. Voelkner of Little Falls, and Susan Voelkner of Pompton Lakes; he was the cherished grandfather of Kathryn Voelkner-Silvis and her husband Nicholas Silvis, and Megan Voelkner; cherished great-grandfather of Madison Silvis and Jackson Silvis; dearly loved brother of William D. Voelkner and his late wife Sue of Henderson, NV and the late Thomas Voelkner (d.12/2013) and his late wife Jean (d. 1/2015).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Herman Thomas Voelkner

June 14, 2020

Clifton

Brittany Lynn McGuinness (Powell), age 32, of Cedar Knolls and formerly of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly, on Saturday, June 13, 2020.

Brittany was born in Ridgewood. She spent the first three months of her precious life in Paterson before moving with her family to Wayne. That’s where she went from being a little girl to a young woman, graduating from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 2005. Throughout her childhood and beyond, Brittany always seemed to have a song in her heart, and with a voice like an angel, she made a joyful noise as a member of many choirs during her years in school. She would go on to earn a bachelor’s degree in the field of music at Monmouth University where she was also a member of the Zeta Tau Alpha (ZTA) sorority, but her career aspirations ultimately took a different path. Most recently, she worked as an I.T. recruiter for TEK Systems in Parsippany.

Brittany was a true daddy’s girl. She was his little shadow, always wanting to be by him. A carpenter by trade, when Daddy was putting the addition on the house, Brittany was his best assistant throughout the whole project. Brittany’s dad also taught her to wet the line in Lion’s Head Lake where she caught her first fish. Once in a while he’d also take her and her brother James, III out on his boat to go deep sea fishing in Sea Girt Reef, down by the Jersey shore.

Brittany and her mom enjoyed an equally special relationship. They called each other on the phone, never missing a day. They shared great times going shopping or cooking up something delicious in the kitchen. Momma taught Brittany how to cook but Brittany took it to the next level! Her family especially enjoyed her broccoli cavatelli with sausage and her homemade Italian meatballs. She would take a recipe and challenge herself to make it even better. Sometimes Brittany and her mom had trouble seeing eye-to-eye. This would result in threats of blocking each other’s number. But that would only last about ten minutes because, when it came right down to it, they truly had the greatest love and admiration for each other.

Brittany also shared a special relationship with her younger brother James, III. She graduated from Wayne Hills High School just before he was coming in as a freshman but she made sure to share all her high school wisdom, helping him to be better equipped to navigate his next four years. James had a dog – a Puggle affectionately named Babe that stole Brittany’s heart and which she enjoyed as a precious companion during her years living home.

One night when Brittany was preparing to leave after getting together with her girlfriends at the Grasshopper Irish Pub and Eatery in Morristown, a handsome gentleman by the name of Matthew McGuinness was just arriving. Their paths crossed and, after some casual conversation, Brittany headed home for the night, but not before obliging Matt’s request for her phone number. He called the next day and they had a pleasant conversation which was followed by several days of texting one another. Their first official date was to the Sunset Grill in Pequannock. Genuine friendship grew to a loving relationship which ultimately lead to Matt’s proposal of marriage. It took place at the Morristown Green – a sort of town square area of Morristown typically referred by the locals as “The Green”. Matt got down on one knee and, while he had a little trouble articulating the longings of his heart in an eloquent fashion, he did manage to communicate his desire for Brittany’s hand in marriage. Fortunately, she understood what Matt was trying to say and, even more fortunate for Matt, she was delighted at his proposal. Brittany and Matt set the date for the wedding and all of their family and friends gathered to join them in celebrating the marriage ceremony on Friday, December 6, 2019 at the Crystal Springs Resort in Hamburg, NJ. After a honeymoon in the capital city of Nassau, in the Bahamas, they chose Cedar Knolls to be the place to begin their married life. Sadly, their marriage spanned a mere six months but thankfully, it was a sweet time of love and abiding devotion. Matt will certainly be able to cherish lots of special memories of the times he and Brittany spent together. They shared a love of summering down the shore in places like Point Pleasant, Seaside and Belmar, hiking to the castle on Ramapo Reservation – a place where her Dad would take her as a child, and celebrating the fall season by taking a ride up to Penning’s Farm in Warwick, NY to go apple picking.

When asked to describe Brittany, her family expressed their feelings about her with words like “caring”, “compassionate”, “loving”, “generous” to the point of giving you the shirt off her back if she felt you needed it more than she did, “strong

willed” to the point of sometimes being a real pain in the posterior, and “fiercely loyal”. If someone spoke ill of a person that Brittany respected, she would defend that person like a mamma lion defending her cubs. You always knew Brittany had your back and she had a natural ability of putting people at ease from the first time she met them. She was the life of the party and lit up the room always able to make people laugh.

Brittany was the beloved wife of Matthew McGuinness; loving daughter of Karen Limone of Wayne, and James Powell of Brick; dear sister of James Powell, III and girlfriend Suzy Falcicchio of Morristown; cherished maternal granddaughter of Lucille Limone of Hawthorne and the late Anthony Limone; cherished paternal granddaughter of the late Marion “Meema” Powell; cherished niece of RoseLynn Shawah and husband Gary, Anthony Limone, Jr. and wife Denise, Mary Powell, Glenda Grandioso, and Melvin Powell; dear daughter-in-law of John and Judith McGuinness, dear sister-in-law of Charlie McGuinness and wife Beth, and Annie McGuinness; sweet aunt of two nephews and one niece; dear cousin of numerous cousins; step grandchild of Anthony “Poppy” Cervone; and step daughter to Maureen Scheper, step sister to Stephanie Reustle of Rumson, Jessica Scheper of Byram, and Christopher Scheper of Bloomingdale.

Brittany McGuinness (Powell)

June 13, 2020

Cedar Knolls

Robert Juster, age 78 of Wayne, died peacefully on June 11 in hospice care at Sunrise Memory Care in Wayne after a short battle with cancer.

Bob was born to Charles and Alvina Juster, nee Vacca, in 1942 in East Orange and grew up in Clifton, NJ. He enjoyed growing up and playing with his two younger brothers, Chuck and Jim, and later on with little sister Marianne. Bob also loved being a part of a large extended family. He was one of the oldest of over 30 first cousins.

Bob attended St. Benedict’s Prep School in Newark where he ran cross country and track. While in high school, Bob decided he would like to apply to the University of Notre Dame. He found it very funny that his counselor was not sure he would be admitted, but Bob applied anyway, securing a spot in the Class of 1963. He studied Civil Engineering and continued to run cross country and track while at Notre Dame. He enjoyed rooting for the Fighting Irish football team despite the losing record they had during his four years. His ND legacy includes his two brothers, daughter Suzanne, and two nephews who all followed him there. Bob loved cheering for all the Irish sports teams throughout his life.

After college, Bob served as a First Lieutenant in the Army. He was an ammunitions officer. While stationed in Fort Devens, MA, he ran in the Boston Marathon. He was very proud of this accomplishment. While serving in the Army, he also received a Commendation Medal.

Upon leaving the Army after his service term was completed, he worked as a civil engineer. He was proud to have his Professional Engineer license. He worked as a civil engineer until 1980. At that time he became a self-taught computer programmer for a large construction company. His technical mind and experience enabled him to create techniques that allowed the company to complete hours of manual work into a half hour on the computer. He retired in 2006.

On April 16, 1966, he married Gail Wilkinson. They settled in Wayne, where they raised their two daughters, Cathie and Suzanne. Bob was a very involved father. He was an Indian Princess leader and coach of many youth sports teams in the community. As his daughters got older, he was always there to support them and was so happy when both settled in Packanack Lake with their families. Bob was a proud Packanack Lake resident (living in three different homes there) for over 50 years.

Bob always said his greatest accomplishment was his family. He was immensely proud of his daughters, sons-in-law, and his four adored grandchildren, and all their talents. He loved attending everything from track meets, to dance recitals, to gymnastics meets, to basketball and lacrosse games. Everyone who knew him, from his neighbors to the staff at Sunrise, knew all about his family.

While he loved to play tennis and to go bowling, his passion was running. For decades after his high school/college running career, he ran in several races per year. He ran the Giralda Farms 10K each fall since the early 1980s. Every Memorial Day weekend he ran in the Spring Lake 5 mile race with his family from the mid 1990s until 2018. He ran nearly every day into his mid-70s, which included daily runs around Packanack Lake. He was thrilled to find out, just two months ago, that he was inducted into the St. Benedict’s Prep Sports Hall of Fame as a member of the 1958 Cross Country Team.

Bob particularly enjoyed the outdoors. He loved working in his yard, and over the years, built a deck and a large shed. He always wanted to own a second home near the beach. Bob and Gail fulfilled that dream in 2000 when they bought a home on Long Beach Island. He enjoyed vacationing and running in LBI during the summers.

Bob was an unpretentious person with no airs about him. He was also very generous. He always looked to give to those close to him as well as strangers without looking for anything in return. He donated to many charities over the years. He would even donate money to families he heard about on the news. He would describe himself as fairly shy, yet he always enjoyed making people laugh with his jokes and remarks. Bob was only at Sunrise a short time, but he made an impact on the staff. They remarked how polite and outgoing he was and they loved his sense of humor.

Surviving are his devoted daughters, Cathie and husband Vin Przybylinski of Wayne, Suzanne and husband Josh Shapiro of Wayne, four cherished grandchildren Brooke and Grace Przybylinski and Katie and Matthew Shapiro. Bob was predeceased by his dear wife Gail in 2013 and beloved brother Jim in 2015.

If you wish to make a donation, please consider Alzheimer’s Association , National Processing Center Alzheimer’s Association, Greater NJ Chapter PO Box 96011, Washington DC 20090. http://www.alznj.org

Robert C. Juster

June 11, 2020

Patrick G. Donovan, age 50, of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, June 10, 2020.

Patrick was born in Paterson and lived there until age five when he moved to Wayne. He remained a resident of Wayne for the rest of his life.

After graduating from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1988, Patrick studied at Stockton State College where he earned his B.A. degree in business administration.

One of Patrick’s greatest pleasures in his life came from the love he gave and received from his pets. There were numerous ones over the years, most recently two dogs rescued from the shelters named Sadie and January, and two cats named Maxine and Chloe – both of whom lived for just over twenty years.

Patrick is survived by his parents: Urban “Chuck” Donovan, Jr. and Judith Donovan (nee DiLallo) of Wayne; his brother Craig Donovan and companion Tracey Rust and her daughter Kaitlin of Rochelle Park; his sister Jennifer and husband Walter Tauro, Jr. of North Reading, Massachusetts; and his niece and nephew: Samantha and Mason Tauro.

Because of his love for animals, those planning an expression of sympathy in Patrick’s name are asked to consider Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroads, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Patrick Donovan

June 10, 2020

Madalyn C. Ulino (nee Cioffe), age 86, of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, June 10, 2020.

Born in Brooklyn, NY, Madalyn lived her life there before moving to New Jersey in 1955, and later building her home in Wayne, where she remained a lifelong resident.

A model student in Brooklyn, Madalyn received many awards through her academic years, including the Susan B. Anthony Award in high school, later attending Brooklyn College.

She worked for Caravan Products Co, Inc. first in Passaic, then Totowa, for a total of 41 years, retiring her position as VP of Finance. Madalyn held this positon at a time when women were not seen equally in the corporate world. Her family believes she paved the path for more women to be recognized as corporate leaders.

Madalyn's true love was traveling, especially on cruises, to places like Japan, Italy, Alaska, and more. A true New York Yankees fan, she cruised with them, along with her grandson, a memory she treasured greatly. She enjoyed learning new cultures, and experiencing life through others eyes. She also had a passion for reading, where she enjoyed all genres and had an extensive book collection.

Madalyn is survived by her daughter, Dorinda and her husband, Neil Duclos, of Wayne, two grandchildren, Jonathan Duclos and Alyssa Duclos, both of Wayne, her sister Denyse Cacchione of Hawthorne, NJ, her Godson Vincent Cacchione, his wife Magali and their daughter, Alaska of Brooklyn, NY, her niece, Talya Rose Cacchione of Hawthorne, NJ, as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Madalyn's name, may make a donation to the National MS Society, The Sjogren's Foundation or the World Wildlife Fund.

Madalyn Ulino

June 10, 2020

Cynthia Jane Clarke, nee Lempke, passed away peacefully on June 6, 2020, surrounded by her loved ones. She succumbed to the long-term effects of a rare autoimmune disease (relapsing polychondritis) that she successfully battled from adolescence through grandmotherhood. She packed several lifetimes of joy, fun and love into her 64 years of life.

Born and raised in Packanack Lake, the third of five Lempke children, Cindy was taught by her parents Dicka and BEtty never to let her physical impairments stand in her way, and boy did the lesson take. Despite having to live with a tracheostomy from age twelve to fifteen, she enjoyed all the normal activities of high school life, and then some. After graduating from William Paterson University in 1977, she became a Montesorri pre-school teacher. No one was better with little children than Cindy, or loved them more.

In the summer of 1976, she met her husband-to-be, Benjamin Clarke, during Hurricane Belle, while both were marooned in Buxton, North Carolina. Born, as a couple, in a crossfire hurricane, the two never parted. They married in 1982. Memorably, and to the quiet dismay of her always supportive mother, Ciondy allowed Ben to hold a pick-up softball game during their reception, though she declined to play herself. Her bridal radiance was undiminished by the “what’s wrong with this picture” spectacle of having to cut her wedding cake with someone wearing cut-offs.

A few years later, Cindy and Ben were joined by their son Ernest, the true love of Cindy’s life. Due to her narrowed airways, Cindy had to undergo a second tracheostomy prior to childbirth, but it would have taken a lot more than a plastic breathing tube to keep her from fulfilling her life’s dream of being another. Her Montessori training was put to good use on Ernie: the highlights of her adult life were seeing Ernie graduate first in her class at Boston University, attending her wedding to beloved daughter-in-law Pamela Bookbinder and (most of all) living to see the birth of her granddaughter Aviva and grandson Noah.

With a close-knit family that extended beyond siblings, in-laws and offspring to nieces, nephews, cousins, grand-nephews and -nieces, and in-laws of in-laws, and a vast network of friends who were more like family, Cindy enjoyed travel, cooking, homemaking, beach life, gift-giving, card-writing, and anything that promised fun. A glint of mischief was always in her eyes, and remains behind in our memories forever. To those who loved her, and there were so many, her uncomplaining perseverance in the face of physical adversity was super-human, but to Cindy life was to be lived, love was to be shared, and time was to be savored, not wasted. As her brother Richard put it, no one appreciated the gift of a day more than Cindy, and her days with us were all gifts.

Predeceased by her “Irish twin” Susan, she is survived by her husband, Benjamin, son Ernest, daughter -in-law, Pamela, two preposterously adorable grandchildren, Aviva and Noah, her sister and brother-in-law Elizabeth and William Cochrane, her niece Lempke, and a bereft fan-club of extended family members and friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Relapsing Polychondritis Foundation, 1202 Lexington Ave, Box 112, New York, NY 10028, Planned Parenthood, or any green charity of your choosing.

Cynthia Lempke Clark

June 6, 2020

Carmella “Candy” Gamberale, age 87 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Saturday, June 6, 2020. She had been landscaping that day, one of her favorite things to do, shortly before she passed away.

Candy had worked for Singer-Kearfott in West Paterson for her entire career. She was among the most dedicated, hard-working people you would have ever met, and she was particularly proud of her career accomplishments at ‘Kearfott.’ Considering the era she grew up in, there were not many great career opportunities for women, then add on the fact that she hadn’t completed high school. Yet Candy rose to become a Supervisor at Kearfott, overseeing a large team of engineers, all because of her natural intelligence, perseverance, and hard work. She had the respect and admiration of her team, and she maintained close friendships with all of her coworkers throughout the years. To say she was strong-willed and determined to succeed would be an understatement.

Candy grew up in Newark, NJ, in the North End of the city. She attended Central High School and had a personality that endeared her to everyone she met. As a young woman, she used to rent a cabin at the Jersey Shore each summer with her many friends, and her place was always ‘party central.’ Candy enjoyed entertaining, and this continued throughout her lifetime. Her home was the center of some great parties over the years, and all of her family members fondly remember the parties at Candy’s house! She had a really big heart and was generous to a fault, loved her family and all of her friends. Nothing made her happier than having people over to her home for a BBQ and a party! Her house was the location of countless parties and gatherings that typically included serval dozens of guests! Her lawn shed was converted into a bar, and food never stopped flowing! Along with her husband, Tom, they threw epic parties and simply loved having everyone over to join them.

Candy was always on the “go” and rarely sat still. Her house was immaculate, she was always dressed perfectly and her hair was never out of place. She enjoyed dressing up for holidays, whether it was Halloween or St. Patrick’s Day, she was dressed accordingly and having fun! She found happiness by sharing her life with friends and family, and nothing made her more happy than having a crowd of loved-ones around the house!

Candy was also devoted to her husband, Thomas Dowd. They had been together since the mid-1970’s and finally decided to marry sometime in the 1990’s. They did everything together and took great care of each other. They loved to go on cruises and were “Diamond” members with Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines. It wasn’t uncommon for them to go on 3-4 cruises per year, and they especially loved getting away of ten days or more. They’ve cruised all over the place, and made great memories together. Sadly, Tom died in 2011 and Candy has missed him dearly ever since.

Candy is survived by her daughter; Joanna Osbun and her husband Lewis of Stockholm, NJ, Brian Dowd and his wife Elizabeth of Little Egg Harbor, NJ, her grandchildren; Tyler and Jenna Dowd, Lori and her husband Brian White, great-grandchidlren; Brianna and Kaitlyn White, a brother; Ben Gamberale of Orlando, FL, and her nephew; Joseph Gamberale of Florida. She was predeceased by her husband Tom Dowd in 2011, by her brother Joseph Gamberale in 2011, by her sister-in-law and best friend; Edith Gamberale in 2009, and by her niece Valerie Gamberale in 2011.

Carmella “Candy” Gamberale

June 6, 2020

Italina Citro (“Aunt Lee”) - Pioneer Working Woman

Italina Citro of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on June 2, 2020 of natural causes.

She is survived by her sister Mary Civardi, nieces Frances DiSarro and Lydia Pasqualina, nephews John Civardi and Michael Siciliani, and her grand nieces and nephews and great grand nieces and nephews. Mrs. Citro was born on June 24, 1929. Three words best describe her beautiful life: Devotion, Loyalty, and Tirelessness. She is the daughter of Frank and Ida Sartori. Frank and Ida emigrated to the United States from Italy in the 1920s. None of their siblings followed them to America. Her parents settled into Astoria Queens. In 1930, Lee was blessed with the birth of her sister Mary. As all of their relatives were in Italy, their family relied on each other. With the onset of the Great Depression and having parents that were still discovering how to assimilate into the changing American culture, Lee became a trailblazer. She graduated from William Cullen Bryant High school, attended business college, was the first among her friends to learn how to drive and took a administrative job working for Sears and Roebuck eventually rising to a key executive level position - one typically reserved for men at that time. Life for a working woman in the 1950s and 60s had its challenges but she embraced them and she LOVED Sears. Even after she retired from Sears after 40 plus years she loved to shop there and engage with the employees.

She married Albert Citro in 1956. Al and Lee made a great team. They were a gorgeous fashionable couple who embraced every aspect of life in New York City. And they were both quick witted, funny and entertaining. Lee and Al did not have biological children but they were blessed with nieces and nephews for whom they were like second parents. Devotion, Loyalty and Tirelessness to their nieces and nephews, Lee and Al would take them each summer to spend their vacations in Florida, take them to ball games and concerts, we’re enormously generous to them. When her nephew John was running marathons and needed someone to help drive him home, who would go and spend hours waiting for him to finish and then drive him home? It was Aunt Lee. When her niece Frances performed in summer stock around the country, it was Lee who would travel miles to see her, taking a seat at every performance.

In 1975 Sears relocated her to Chicago and she had to learn a new city and adapt to a changing culture at Sears which she did with determination and good humor. Unexpectedly Albert passed away in the early 1980s. In the midst of this change she persevered, and she grew closer to her sister Mary and brother-in-law Frank Civardi. Vacations and holidays were spent with her sister and brother in law and often with their families. In 1990, Aunt Lee retired from Sears and facing more uncertainty, Frank followed the biblical tradition of taking in his widowed sister-in- law into his home. Frank affectionately became known as the “Man with Two Wives”. Aunt Lee became like a sister to Frank. The family all cared for each other in a way that words cannot describe but all those who had the opportunity to spend time with them could feel it and appreciate it. In our current era where sacrifice and devotion can be uncommon or are thought of in some kind of transactional way, Aunt Lee embodied a selflessness. When Frank took ill she was his driver and helped her sister during his illness. When Mary broke her leg and was immobilized for months, Aunt Lee was her Florence Nightingale. She was the go to babysitter for her close by grand niece and nephews when they were small. And a champion of their accomplishments as they grew.

Aunt Lee was a person of great faith and attended Immaculate Heart of Mary RC in Wayne. She was in church every Sunday no matter the conditions. Having lived through turbulent times whether it was the depression, WWII, the Vietnam war, the civil unrest of the 1960s, and the recession of the 1970s she was devoted and loyal to her church and recognized that love of her God.

And God had a plan for Aunt Lee. In 2001, when her brother in law Frank passed away, she became an even greater comfort to her sister. Only 18 months apart they looked alike and talked alike and folks would sometimes confuse them. They spent the last 20 years devoted to their family, helping them care for their children, helping their neighbors and friends, and driving them to their Doctor’s appointments. Even when she took ill, Lee was tireless in her fight. She continued to drive until she was 89 years old. She just would not give up. And she found out she was a good teacher. Those traits of devotion and loyalty and tirelessness were embodied by her family, especially in these last years her sister and niece Frances. During this difficult time Mary and Fran cared for Aunt Lee with a love and compassion that one wishes could be bottled up and shown to the world. And through all the people she has touched, her legacy will live on.

While we on earth have lost our beloved Aunt Lee, the trumpets in Heaven are blowing loud and God is preparing a parade to welcome his loyal servant.

Godspeed Aunt Lee

Italina Citro

June 2, 2020

Frank Maiello, age 67, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Sunday, May 31, 2020.

Frank was predeceased by his father James Maiello, mother Santa Maiello, brothers Anthony and Jim Maiello, sister Angela Maiello and son Robert Maiello. He is survived by his loving wife Joan Maiello and by his daughter Nicole Maiello who cherished him deeply.

If you were blessed enough to cross paths with Frank you knew these things were certain: he was brilliantly funny with the quickest wit you'd ever encounter, and he would do anything for the people he loved. To his daughter and many others Frank had been and always will be a hero.

Frank absolutely loved animals and they loved him too. He fed flocks of birds and families of squirrels, deer, rabbits and other wildlife on a daily basis. Thanks to Frank they probably ate better than most people.

Frank truly missed his calling as a chef and baker. Whether it was rice balls, stromboli, home-made pasta, or cookies and cakes that would make Mrs. Fields and the Cake Boss jealous, he always had a masterpiece in the works in the kitchen.

Frank's loving heart and devotion to those he cared about knew no bounds. He was an incredible husband, father, and friend who was kind to all who crossed his path. He lived as an example of love, strength, kindness and character. We were truly blessed to have him in this world and it was and is a better place because Frank was in it. His loss will be felt greatly.

Frank Maiello

May 31, 2020

Donald "Don" J. DeRuiter, age 76, of Pompton Plains, entered the Lord's presence on Sunday, May 31, 2020 while in the loving presence of family.

Donald was born in Paterson, New Jersey. He was the oldest son of Nicholas and Marie DeRuiter.

Donald graduated from Paterson Tech and went on to work at Watson Machine Company in Paterson, NJ for many years. In the late 60's he went on a blind date with a woman named Joyce Hook. They fell in love and were married on July 17, 1971, surrounded by their dearest friends and loved ones.

He spent 30 years bowling in leagues all across Northern New Jersey. He recalled many fond memories of those times and the people he met. He introduced his children and grandchildren to the game and many memories included bowling.

Donald was a man of large stature and had a friendly heart. He loved his Lord first and foremost, and he loved to tell a good story. If you encountered him, you most likely heard of one of his adventures in young adulthood or the latest sports news. He enjoyed making people smile.

Donald was very active in the churches he attended in his life. He was quick to join a Bible study and help in the church in various ways. His love for the Lord was evident in his perseverance in life. He loved worshiping in God’s house and showing God’s love to those around him.

Donald was the beloved husband of Joyce, blessed in marriage for 48 years. He was the loving father of: Brian and wife Kerri DeRuiter of Fair Lawn, NJ, Jennifer and husband Daniel Beato of Pompton Lakes, NJ; father-in-love to Toni Ann DeRuiter of Seaside Heights, NJ; cherished grandfather of: Brandon, Faith, Josiah, Gideon, Moriah, and Evangeline; dear brother of Mary Ann Gacek and the late Robert Gacek; dear brother-in-law of: Wayne and Mieke Hook, Ralph and Marion Hook, Donald and Debbie Hook, and Allen and Marnie Hook, and the late Russell Hook. He was a loved uncle and great uncle to many.

In lieu of flower donations memorial donations may be made in Donald's memory to:

Pompton Lakes Education Foundation http://www.pomptonlakesef.org/ (click the donate button)

Pompton Lakes Ed Foundation

Attention: Diane Gelok, President

91 Durham Street

Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

Donald De Ruiter

May 31, 2020

George Francis Barbour, age 74, of Haledon, passed Friday, May 29, 2020.

He was born in Paterson to George and Edith Barbour, Sr. and raised at the family home located at 18-02 Morlot Avenue in Fair Lawn. George was drafted into the United States Army and fought in Vietnam War.

George attended Fair Lawn High School with the Class of 1963. He went to school to learn the printing trade and was soon an apprentice printer. George spent over forty years in the printing industry and retired from printing as a Journeyman Printer with the Bengal Graphics Company in New York City. In his semi-retirement he worked as a Security Guard for about ten years with Sanofi-Aventis building (now the Novartis building) in East Hanover.

In his leisure George enjoyed playing his Fender Stratocaster guitar, loved action movies, riding his motorcycle, and enjoyed working on his computer.

George met the love of his life Patricia Chesarok as she was attending a class with his sister Karen. Pat was single and Karen set up a first date at a local club with music and dancing. They fell in love and married on August 14, 1982 at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Oakland. After a reception at the Fair Lawn Athletic Club they honeymooned in Wildwood, New Jersey. Pat and George have enjoyed a loving marriage of thirty-eight years.

George was the loving husband of Patricia Barbour; devoted step-father of Christine Del Vecchio and her husband Michael of Dover, and Donna De Leon of Haledon; he was the loved brother of Karen Roenisch and her husband Troy of Fair Lawn; he was also the uncle and Godfather of Ava Mae Roenisch. George was lovingly greeted in heaven by his loving snow-white cat Daisy.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Vietnam Vets or the DAV (Disabled American Veterans) would be greatly appreciated.

George Barbour

May 29, 2020

Haledon

Antonio Rhamades Cruz, age 38, of Wayne passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Friday May 29, 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Antonio was born and raised in Manhattan and was one of three children to Zoraida Gonzalez. While growing up in New York City as a young man, Antonio learned a great many lessons that would affect his life and his character. When Antonio was in High School, he always stuck up for those who were being picked on or bullied. Many of the fellow students that he so willingly stuck up for were not even his friends, Antonio was just interested and motivated in “doing the right thing.”

After graduating from high school with the class of 1998, Antonio attended the Brooklyn School of Technology, which is now known as the New York City College of Technology. Antonio graduated in 2004 and earned his Bachelor of Science Degree. Antonio found work quickly in the Information Technology field working remotely from home for several different companies. In 2005 his career led him to move to London, England where he remained for about two years. In 2007, Antonio moved back to the United States where he again worked for a few different start-up companies including CDI based in Massachusetts for two years, and his most recent position at a company called ICF.

In 2008, Antonio met an attractive young lady by the name of Jenelle Eng online at OkCupid.com, which at the time was not as popular and accepted as today’s online dating services. Antonio and Jenelle decided to meet after work one day. The two of them were working in midtown Manhattan at the time and went for a cup of coffee at a bakery near to Jenelle’s office. After having their coffee, Antonio and Jenelle took a stroll through Central Park. Antonio then escorted Jenelle to where she picked up her bus, and Jenelle then headed home to Queens, NY. As fate would have it, the two fell in love and dated for many years. On December 19, 2017 Antonio and Jenelle became husband and wife and welcomed the birth of their first and only child Antonio Eng Cruz. Antonio and his family remained in Manhattan until October of 2019 when they moved to Wayne, NJ.

One of Antonio’s favorite pastimes was reading, particularly self-improvement or self-help literature. Antonio was always trying to improve himself and make his life better. Being able to help yourself and make good decisions was something Antonio wanted desperately to pass on to his son. Antonio was also motivated to improving the lives of others, he spent a lot of his spare time online connecting with others and trying to help them. He would often chat with young people who seemed to be at a crossroad in their life, particularly military veterans, and offer advice. Much of the advice that Antonio would offer to others was based on everyday life situations. Antonio always felt a great sense of reward when he was able to help someone with his advice. Improving and fixing things carried over when the family moved to Wayne and bought their house. Home ownership gave Antonio an abundance of opportunity to “fix and improve” a great many things and situations. Antonio was a subtle but funny guy and was the type of person that you couldn’t help but like. Apart from all of Antonio’s interests and talents, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Antonio than providing for, and spending time with his wife, son and family. Antonio was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people. He will be missed sincerely by everyone that knew him.

Antonio is survived by his wife Jenelle Cruz (nee Eng) of Wayne, his son Antonio Eng Cruz of Wayne, his mother Zoraida Gonzalez of New York City, one sister Christina Pagan of New York City, his half-brother Michael A Cruz and his wife Tessa of Leander, TX, his uncle Mario Gonzalez of New York City, two nieces; Jessica Cruz and Savanah Cruz both of Leander, TX, and his cousin Grant Cruz of New York City.

Antonio Rhadames Cruz

May 29, 2020

Concetta D’Amico (nee Giubilo), age 89, of Tenafly passed away peacefully on Tuesday May 26, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Concetta was born and raised in Augusta, Italy and was one of nine children to Giovanni and Domenica Giubilo. Growing up in the 1930’s and 1940’s were a difficult time for everyone in Europe with the onset of World War II displacing many families. Concetta was more or less forced to leave school at an early age and went to work as a seamstress. Concetta continued to work as a seamstress after the war and met a young handsome Italian man by the name of Anthony D’Amico. They started dating and as fate would have it they fell in love.

In 1955 Concetta immigrated to the United States in search for a better life and the American Dream. Anthony soon followed her to the US a short time later. On October 6, 1963 Concetta and Anthony became husband and wife. Anthony and Concetta moved to Paterson, New Jersey a short time later and Concetta found work quickly, once again as a skilled seamstress. On May 26, 1968, the couple welcomed their first and only child into their lives, and adopted their daughter Maria when she was only three weeks old.

Concetta and her family moved to Elmwood Park in 1978 and remained there for the next twenty-six years. It was after moving to Elmwood Park when Concetta decided that she would devote herself to being a full time homemaker. This was truly Concetta’s calling and where she flourished. Concetta was a devoted mother and a dedicated wife. She had dinner on the table every night at 5PM and Sunday dinners were always at 2 o’clock sharp. She was a wonderful cook and treasured the family gatherings and holidays that she hosted in her home. In 2005 the family moved to Long Valley with their daughter and to be close to her grandchildren. Eventually in 2014, Concetta moved to a retirement community with her husband.

Concetta and Anthony were parishioners of St. Anne’s RC Church in Fair Lawn for many years. The couple also hosted and volunteered for the Our Lady of Tears Festival in Bloomfield every year for many years as well. Not only was Concetta a great cook but she was also an avid gardener. She took great pride in her front yard and won a variety of prizes over the years for her Christmas decorations and gardening skills. Concetta was a typical Italian mother and wife. She was full of drama and passion, and nothing in the world meant more to her than her family. Concetta was an extraordinary woman who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Concetta is survived by her husband Anthony D’Amico of Tenafly, her daughter Maria Mikol and her husband Robert of Long Valley, four sisters; Anna Sicari of Spotsylvania, Va, Sister Maria Giubilo of Sicily, Italy, Giovanna Nizza of Boston, MA, and Frances Giubilo of Boston, MA, three grandchildren; Brianna Mikol, Amanda Mikol, and Robbie Mikol, many nieces and nephews, as well as many grandnieces and grandnephews. She was predeceased by her siblings; Joseph Giubilo, Pasquale Giubilo, Thomas Giubilo, Umberto Giubilo.

Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donations to Sarah’s Fight for Hope Foundation, 10 Amherst Drive, Long Valley, NJ 07853. http://https://www.sarahsfightforhope.org/

Concetta D’Amico

May 26, 2020

Tenafly

George Louis Holterhoff Jr. passed away peacefully on May 25, 2020 at his home in Palm Coast, FL surrounded by his loving wife and family. He was 84.

George was born September 15, 1934 in Paterson, New Jersey to George Louis and Madeline (Van Allen) Holterhoff. After graduating high school from Paterson Tech HS in 1952, George went on to earn his mechanical engineering degree at Newark College of Engineering (NJIT). In February 1957, George entered the United States Air Force as a 2nd Lieutenant where he was a flight navigator. After three years of service, George and his wife Sandra, returned to New Jersey with their family. George would go on to earn his MBA from Farleigh Dickinson University in 1969.

Upon his return to New Jersey, George began his engineering career at Kearfott. After several years in engineering he ventured out on his own in 1974 and became president and owner of Standard Springs Incorporated in Paterson, New Jersey. For over thirty years, George dedicated his career to growing the business which remains in the family today.

George met his wife Sandra in February 1956 at a Wonderbread function where his father was an accountant. The two fell in love and were married one year later, on February 2, 1957. They started a family soon after and eventually made Wayne, New Jersey their home in 1966. Spending over thirty years in the same home and raising their family, George and Sandra moved to Pompton Lakes, New Jersey in 1998. After retiring, George and Sandra moved to Manahawkin, New Jersey in 2008 before settling in Palm Coast, FL for the last two years.

George loved collecting classic cars including a rare 1941 Lincoln Continental. He loved tinkering and could fix almost anything. On weekends he enjoyed skiing in Vermont and swimming in the ocean. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather whose greatest joy was caring for and spending time with his family. He always loved when the entire family spent time with one another at the family beach house in Long Beach Island. He touched so many people’s lives and was well respected by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him both personally and professionally.

George is survived by his wife, Sandra (nee Golchuck) of Palm Coast, his daughter Karen L Pagliaro, his daughter Cheryl A Albanese, his son George L Holterhoff III and wife Kim, and his daughter Loren M Barrows. He also had eight grandchildren Philip, Christopher, Kim (who just passed away last month and welcomed her grandfather to heaven), Katie, Kerry, Joseph, George and Blair as well as seven great grandchildren. In addition, he is survived by his sister Nancy Meenen and was predeceased by his twin sister Madeline Holterhoff who passed in 2017.

Like the vintage cars he loved, George will always be remembered as a classic that never goes out of style.

George Louis Holterhoff

May 25, 2020

Palm Coast

John Alfred Maroon, age 80 of Clifton passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 23, 2020.

John was born in Paterson and was one of five children to Shakeeb (John) and Jeannette Maroon. After graduating high school, John heard the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army. John served proudly and honorably in the US Army, assigned duty as an MP and was stationed in Germany during the Vietnam War. John was honorably discharged from the US Army in 1964. Subsequent to his military service, John returned to the states, moved to Clifton, then very quickly started his own business and founded Auto City of Clifton which he owned and operated for over sixty years. On October 7th of 1967 he married the love of his life Marilyn Power. John and Marilyn remained in Clifton and raised their two children.

John will be remembered for his dry wit, his incredible hard work ethic, and for his love of gardening.

John is survived by his daughter Jeanine Hassert and her husband Kurt of Wayne, two grandchildren, John and Keely, his loving and caring daughter-in-law Noelle Maroon (nee Toohers), and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his loving wife Marilyn (Power), his beloved son John Maroon, and his siblings; Mary Gorayeb, Gabriel Maroon, Charles Maroon, and Raymond Maroon.

John Maroon

May 23, 2020

Clifton

Eleanor Ruth Kelly, age 88 of Hackensack, died on Saturday, May 23, 2020. She had lived in Hackensack for nearly sixty years and was a sales clerk at B. Altman’s in Paramus for many years.

Ellie loved visiting Atlantic City to play the slot machines! She would often go with her sisters and stroll on the boardwalk as they went from casino to casino. She played BINGO as often as she could, sometimes seven days a week. She always made friends at the BINGO hall, and some of the other players would make ‘good luck’ charms for her!

Ellie was very kind and sweet to all she met, and had a good sense of humor. She was proud of her home and enjoyed entertaining during the years. She was also a strong-willed, independent woman who like everything in its place. She didn’t travel very much, but enjoyed trips to the Jersey Shore and going swimming.

Eleanor is survived by two sisters; Carol Adamo of Pompton Lakes, and Dorothy Kapusta of Wallington. She was predeceased by four siblings; Fred “Sonny” Boettcher, Joan Bentivegna, Harry Boettcher, and William Boettcher.

Eleanor “Ellie” Kelly

May 23, 2020

Hackensack

Mimma Del Vecchio, age 95 of Wayne and formerly of Paterson, passed away on Friday, May 22, 2020.

Mimma grew up on Madison Ave. in Paterson. She fondly recalled what a great town it had been to grow up in, and all the great stores and shopping that downtown had to offer. Her father had been a tailor, making fine custom suits. The doctors at St. Joseph’s Hospital were among his best clients and he claims to have paid for the delivery of all of his children, including Mimma, by making the doctors each a brand new custom suit after each of his babies were born. Those were the days…

Among Mimma’s earliest jobs was as the switchboard operator at the Paterson Evening News, and later in the same role for ADP. She also worked for many years at Meyer Brothers department store where she was most recognized as the voice shoppers would hear over the loudspeaker; “Miss B, Miss B…”

Mimma is survived by her children; Marian Reda of Byram Township, Joseph Mendillo and his wife Patricia of Utah, her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her son Joseph who died of cancer at just five years old, and by her son Donald Mendillo in 1996.

Mimma Delvecchio

May 22, 2020

Charles S. Burt, age 93 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on May 22, 2020 of natural causes. He has lived in Wayne for more than fifty years.

Charlie was most proud of his job as Director the Boys Club in Astoria, Queens, where he worked for many years.

Charles grew up in Greenwood Lake, NY, and had been a member, along with his dad, of the Greenwood Lake Volunteer Fire Department. There was a great camaraderie amongst the firefighters and he enjoyed his experiences there immensely. He remained a firefighter in Greenwood Lake for the better part of his adult life.

In 1943, at just seventeen years old, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy. Serving aboard the USS Denver CL-58 for nearly all of his time in the service, Charlie saw active duty during World War II and was recalled to the Korean War as well. Later in life, during his retirement years, he attended annual reunions with his USS Denver shipmates at various events around the country. He remained fond of his ship, and proud of his time in the U.S. Navy.

After being discharged from the Navy, Charlie began his education and pursued a teaching career. It was during a student-teaching stint in Greenwich Village, NY, that Charlie met the beautiful Carmela Frezzo. She was an Arts & Crafts teacher at the same school and they hit it off. They were married in Greenwich Village in 1950 and started their family there. Shortly thereafter, Charlie was recalled to the U.S. Navy to fight in Korea. During his deployment, he learned of the birth of his first child via telegram. Upon his return, they settled in Flushing, Queens for several years before moving to Wayne in 1967, where he has lived ever since. Charlie went on to earn his Master’s Degree and Carmela affectionately referred to him as “the professor.” He and Carmela enjoyed a loving marriage that included hard work and perseverance. They worked hard for everything that they had. Throughout their marriage, they traveled to Europe on a few occasions, visited Alaska, and enjoyed annual vacations to Upstate New York, the Lake George region, and the Adirondacks. To celebrate his retirement, he treated his family to a wonderful Caribbean vacation on the islands of St. Maarten and St. Croix.

Charlie was among those we refer to as “The Greatest Generation.” He was a good man, generous, honest, and caring. When he took interest in something, he became passionate about learning to do it right. His love of golf was proof of that! He spent many Sunday mornings on the golf course, trying to improve his game. He often played with the same friends, many of whom he’d been close to since early childhood. He appreciated his friends and held onto them for life. He also volunteered at Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne, perhaps most remembered for being their resident Santa Claus at Christmastime. He naturally looked the part, with his cute blue eyes standing out against his white hair. He happily played this role for many years and truly loved it. He was a good man in many ways, and he’ll be missed dearly.

Charlie is survived by his children; Carol Burt of Greenwood Lake, NY, Charles Burt, Jr. of Hewitt, NJ, as well as many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews; Richard, Ryan and MaryKaye Peschieri, Anthony and his wife Harriet Peschieri, David and his wife Tanya Carey, Heather and Richard Valeao, Sophia, Bella, and Bianca Valeao, and Helen and Bill Panas, and nephew, John Nehrich.

For those wishing to make a donation in Charles’ memory, please consider the Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Charles Burt, Sr.

May 22, 2020

Angelina “Gina” Pandocchi, age 92, of Wyckoff and formerly of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, May 22, 2020.

Angelina was born in Newtown, PA and was one of four children to Leo and Josephine Pandocchi. She grew up in Newtown, she attended high school and graduated with the class of 1944. When she was seventeen years old and just after graduating, she moved to New Jersey. Upon moving to New Jersey she first lived in Paterson. After a while she moved to Haledon and eventually to the town of Wayne. She remained in Wayne for many years until moving to the Christian Health Care Center in Wyckoff about three years ago.

Gina found work quickly after arriving in New Jersey. She accepted a position at Bell Telephone as an Operator. Over the years, Gina worked her way up through the ranks, eventually earning the position of Supervisor. Bell Telephone eventually became Verizon and Gina’s career with them spanned a total of forty-five years until her retirement many years ago.

While living in New Jersey, Gina was a parishioner of St Paul’s Church in Prospect Park for many years. Gina was extremely gifted in the art of Master Hand Knitting. Gina was also a voracious reader, she loved picking up a copy of the latest bestselling novel and could always be found with a book in her hand. Gina was always very independent, even at an early age and her family remembers her as being “ahead of her time.” While living in New Jersey in her twenties, she frequented New York City where she would attend events of live orchestras and participate in Ballroom Dancing, which she was quite good at. Although Gina wasn’t married and didn’t have children of her own, she treated her many nephews, nieces, grandnephews, and grandnieces as her own. She was a loving, compassionate and warm hearted person with a wonderful sense of humor who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Angelina is survived by her two sisters; Margaret Favocci of Wayne, and Josephine Smith of Brandenton, FL, four nephews; Rudy Favocci of Wayne, Christopher Favocci and his wife Maria of Wayne, Stephen Smith and his wife Maryanne of Bradenton, FL, and Raymond Smith of Bradenton, FL, one niece Mary La Sala and her husband Joseph of Wayne, and ten grandnieces and grandnephews; Rebecca, Rudy III, Gina, C.J., Frank, Matthew, Morgan, Julia, Austin, Devon. Angelina was predeceased by her sister Julia Venticinque in 2015.

Those wishing to make a donation in Angelina’s name are asked to consider Little Sisters of the Poor, 140 Shepherd Lane, Totowa, NJ 07512. http://http://littlesistersofthepoor.org/

Angelina Pandocchi

May 22, 2020

Homer E. Martin, Jr., age 93, a resident of Moravian Manor in Lititz, PA passed away on May 20, 2020. Born in Lancaster, PA on August 28, 1926, he was the son of the late Homer E. and Margaret Wagner Martin. He was preceded in death by his beloved wife of nearly 66 years, Flora Adams Martin.

Homer graduated from Rothsville High School in 1943 and joined the U.S. Naval Reserve in 1944. He was accepted into the V-12 Navy Aviation College Training Program at Mount St. Mary’s College in Emmitsburg, MD and then transferred to Yale University’s V-12\ROTC program to study naval science. He later served as an Ensign on the USS Cambria in the Caribbean. In 1949, Homer was appointed a Lieutenant Junior Grade in the Naval Reserve and returned to Yale. In 1950, he graduated from Yale with a B.A. in History and married his sweetheart, Flora.

Homer discovered his niche in the newspaper library when, in 1953, he took a job with the Lancaster Newspapers. It was the perfect career for a man who loved reading, history, politics, and current events. He worked in that library for seven years until, in 1961, he began his 29-year tenure as Chief Librarian at the Record Newspaper in Hackensack, NJ. Soon after, Homer and Flora moved their family to Wayne, NJ.

Homer was active in the Special Libraries Association (SLA) and served as chairman and officer of SLA’s News Division. In 1986, he won the Agnes Henebry Roll of Honor Award for outstanding service to the Association and in 1989, he won the Joseph F. Kwapil Memorial Award, the highest recognition of the News Division, for major achievement in the field of news librarianship.

Homer put the Record in the forefront of the industry by transferring the library collection of paper files and microfilm to an electronic data base. At the time, it was a technological marvel which became a model for other newspaper and business libraries. In 1987, Homer was honored by the Record, when he won the Chairman’s Award, given to an outstanding employee for extraordinary personal and professional contributions to the paper.

For 40 years, Homer and Flora were active members of Packanack Community Church of Wayne, NJ. Homer served on many church boards and committees, chaired the Church Council, sang in the choir, and was a member of the men’s reading group. Homer was an avid reader and bridge player, and also enjoyed sailing, gardening, and listening to classical and jazz music. After retiring back to Lititz in 2003, Homer and Flora joined the Lititz Moravian Congregation. Homer was a loving husband, father, and grandfather.

Homer is survived by two daughters: Suzanne, married to Robert Ward, of Burlington, NJ, and Carol, married to David Dickey, of Reston, VA, and three grandchildren: Steven Ward, Jennifer Dickey, and Kevin Dickey. He also is survived by two brothers: James Martin (Lucille Grube) of Manheim and Kenneth Martin (Gladys Sangrey) of Lititz. He was preceded in death by his sister, Lois Martin and his brother, Glenn Martin (Wanda Emich). Also surviving are his brother-in-law, J. Robert Hess and sister-in-law June Strohm Adams.

Homer Martin, Jr.

May 20, 2020

Lititz

A memorial visitation for Aranka has been scheduled for Saturday, September 19, 2020 from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. A memorial service will be held at 3:30 p.m. at the funeral home.

Aranka "Goldi" Rozsa Sonyi (nee Urge), of Wayne, NJ and formerly of Franklin, and Sparta, NJ passed away peacefully on May 19th, 2020, at age 102.

Goldi was born on October 18, 1917 in what is presently known as Subotica,Serbia to Katalin Kurcsák and Erno Urge. As an only child of factory owners, she was afforded an education that was not common to girls during that time. Learning beyond the finishing’s of a young girl, she learned French and Latin and became fluent in four other languages including Serbian, Hungarian, German and English. During the war, Goldi worked in her parent's factory until the close of its doors.

In December of 1944, Goldi married the late Walter H. Sonyi, a decorated Hungarian cavalry officer, but a honeymoon during the war was not possible. Shortly after they wed, Goldi had to seek refuge in Germany as her husband had been taken to a prisoner of war camp. Goldi worked tirelessly to find him and thankfully they were reunited. They had their only son, the late Walter Sonyi, Jr., on April 1, 1947 in Pfarrkirchen, Germany. Walter Jr. was a blessing and Goldi loved sharing stories of Walter as a child and her struggles as a new mother during the war. In 1951, the family immigrated to America and settled in Franklin, NJ, as there was a large Hungarian community in this area. The family lived in both Franklin, Sparta, and Wayne, NJ. Goldi and her husband both worked at a local factory in town until retirement. Sparta aka "the lake house" was one of her favorite places to entertain friends, family and her grandchildren. Goldi was a wonderful host and treasured having family and friends at her home for parties and holidays. Some of Goldi’s fondest memories were watching her grandchildren swim in the lake. Goldi was an avid reader and loved reading the newest autobiographies while enjoying the sunshine by the lake.

Most of all, beyond all of Goldi’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family and spending time with them meant the world to her. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She and Walter cherished fifty-two years of loving and loyal marriage together until Walter Sr.’s passing in 1996. Goldi was again struck with tragedy in 2009 when her son, Walter Sonyi Jr., passed away unexpectedly. She was blessed with a long and fruitful life, she touched the lives of many people, and she will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Goldi is survived by her daughter-in-law Theresia Sonyi of Southbury, CT, grandson Ernest Sonyi and his wife Leah of Saunderstown, RI, grandson Andreas and his wife Regina of Southbury, CT, and three great-grandchildren; Katherine Sonyi, Sebastian Sonyi, and Vincent Sonyi.

Aranka Sonyi

May 19, 2020

Garry I. Simmons, age 90, of Pequannock, went home to be with the Lord on Friday, May 15, 2020.

Garry was born in St Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson in the summer of 1929. He spent his formative years growing up in Hawthorne where he graduated from Hawthorne High School.

As a young man, Garry met a loving young lady named Margaret Jean Smith and eventually they married. They were blessed with their son Garry T. Simmons and their daughter Kimberly.

Garry’s lifelong career path was somewhat two-tiered. On one hand, for most of his life, Garry drove a variety of different vehicles. When his children were very young, he ran a milk route for Sicomac Dairy of Wyckoff. He also drove limousines for various livery services, one of them being Executive Limousine of Midland Park. In recent years, driving involved getting behind the wheel of a much larger and brighter colored vehicle when he took on a job as a school bus driver for Jordan Transportation of Butler. Garry loved that job and kept driving all the way up to the age of 86. Interspersed between these various jobs, Garry held positions in various Christian ministerial work. While running his milk route, he spent evenings studying at home in pursuit of a degree in Pastoral Theology from a local bible college. He ultimately graduated and, although he never accepted a call to be the full-time minister of a church, working in Christian ministry did play a prominent role throughout the rest of his life. One of those ministries included moving his family to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania where he worked for a Christian organization called Youth Guidance Ministry (YGI). He later followed one of his YGI coworkers to Syracuse, New York to work as a minister/counselor at a mission for homeless men. After a few years serving in Syracuse, Garry returned to the Pittsburgh area to rejoin YGI which was now actually operating under a different name. Eventually, he and his wife Marge and daughter Kimberly returned to New Jersey while his son Garry T. remained in Pittsburgh.

Garry and Marge joined the Trinity Baptist Church in Montville where he was a faithful and active member for many years.

In 1988, Garry began a long season of sadness in his life. That year he and his family grieved the passing of his young daughter Kimberly to a sudden accident. Then, in 1992, Garry’s wife Marge succumbed to cancer and passed away. After laying Marge to rest, Garry moved to Oregon to serve as an interim pastor in a local church. Serving a congregation on an interim basis by definition is a temporary calling, so when his work was done, Garry returned to New Jersey. One day, a good five years after Marge’s passing, Garry asked a kind woman from Trinity Baptist Church named Elaine Lemieux to go out with him on a date. Understandably so, by the end of that date, despite trying, Garry was not successful in convincing Elaine to say “yes” to a proposal of marriage. They continued getting together on a regular basis and three months later, when Garry asked Elaine again, this time she gladly said “yes”. They married on Friday, January 31, 1997 at the Trinity Baptist Church and were blessed by God with 23 years of married life together.

Garry loved the outdoors and so that is where he pursued adventure and relaxation. He was an excellent marksman. So accurate was his aim, many farmers in North Jersey who would call him to control the damage to their crops caused by black crows. The farmers provided the gun shells and Garry provided the firing expertise. Garry also loved to go freshwater fishing. He put his small boat with outboard motor into many of New Jersey’s lakes and ponds communing with nature while trying to land the “big one”.

Together Garry and Elaine enjoyed taking trips to see his son Garry T. and wife Lael in Murrysville, PA and trips to Michigan to see Elaine’s friend as well as Garry’s nephew Tim Schuil.

Generally speaking, Garry was a quiet-natured guy who kept fairly much to himself, that is, unless he knew you well. Then it was quite a different story altogether. Garry would talk to you forever. He loved people and especially loved working for his Lord Jesus, spreading His word and helping others to know Christ as their personal Lord and Savior. In recent years Garry worked remotely with a prison ministry, helping inmates learn the life-saving truths of God’s word – the Holy Bible. The inmates would take tests based on what they had learned from the bible and Garry’s primary job was to grade their tests and offer encouraging feedback to these young believers.

Garry was the beloved husband of Elaine; dear father of Garry T. Simmons and wife Lael of Murrysville, PA and the late Kimberly Leadbitter (1988); cherished grandfather of Christopher and wife Rita Simmons of Pittsburgh, PA, and Daniel Simmons of Cranberry Township, PA; adoring great-grandfather of Eloise Simmons; and dear brother of five sisters who have all predeceased him.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Garry’s name are asked to The Trinity Baptist Church Mission Fund, 160 Changebridge Road, Montville, NJ 07045.

Garry I. Simmons

May 15, 2020

Pequannock

Charles Peter Cunningham, age 27, of Thornton,CO, passed away suddenly on Friday, May 15, 2020.

Charles was born and raised in New Jersey, and called Boonton his hometown. He was a cherished son to Doug and Lisa, a beloved little brother to Rachel (Rick), Donald (Lisa) and Wendy.

He was the world's best uncle to Leanne, Hailey, Bella, Nevin and Avonlea. He was a nephew, grandson, cousin and friend extraordinaire.He will be remembered for so many things: his blue eyes, his infectious laugh, his incredible sense of humor, his brilliant cello skills. Charles loved his family, traveling, cooking, and making people laugh. Charles was a talented musician and an aspiring comedian. He is well loved and deeply missed.

Charles P Cunningham

May 15, 2020

Thornton

Robert Francis “Bob” Muller of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on Wednesday, May 13, 2020 at the age of 86. Bob was a 50-plus year resident of Wayne and longtime President of Farrar Filter Service Co. of Paterson.

Bob is survived by his wife Eileen; his son Robert of Wayne, his daughter Kim Bell and her husband Kevin of Ramsey, and his son Keith and his wife Kristine of Wayne; and seven grandchildren: Thomas, Katherine, Brian, Jessica, Zachary, Nicholas and Dylan. He was predeceased by Carol, his first wife of close to 55 years, and his sister Carole.

Bob was born and raised in Clifton to Joseph and Marian in 1933. A graduate of Clifton High School, he served in the Combat Engineer Battalion of the U.S. Army at the conclusion of the Korean War. Stationed in the DMZ zone in Korea, he was awarded the Distinguished Service Medal. Upon returning from Korea, Bob worked for 25 years in the newspaper distribution business. In 1988 he purchased Farrar Filter and served as President until his retirement.

Bob’s interests included buying and renovating commercial properties, classic cars and his winter home in North Ft. Myers, Florida. He traveled extensively including driving across country half a dozen times. He was involved in the Wayne PAL and was an active member of the Wayne Presbyterian church.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob's name are asked to consider: Special Olympics NJ - Area 3, c/o Betty Lunn, 201 Tulsa Trail Hopatcong, NJ 07843

Robert “Bob” Muller

May 13, 2020

On the evening of May 13th, 2020 Ernest Chrisbacher of Wayne, NJ died peacefully in his home following a courageous battle with cancer. Ernie was born to John Chrisbacher and Anna Chrisbacher, nee Meinzinger, in 1933. He grew up in Hawthorne, NJ and attended Newark College of Engineering (now NJIT) where he earned his Bachelor of Science degree in Civil Engineering. After graduating, Ernie joined the Air Force and was stationed at Sculthorpe AFB in Norfolk, England. Following his service, he began a rewarding career with several engineering firms, including his own startups.

Ernie met the love of his life, Marian, dancing at their 10th high school reunion, and they settled at Packanack Lake in Wayne, NJ to raise their three sons. In his spare time, he was an avid reader, hiker and skier. After finding arrowheads in local farm fields as a child and later as an adult, he developed a passion for, and expertise in flintknapping, the art of crafting an arrowhead from raw stone. He also had a passion for discovering his ancestry, and extensively researched his family’s genealogy for over 50-years. As a result, he became an expert on the German immigrants from Veszprém county, Hungary, and wrote and published a book on the subject that has sold out over 3 printings. He also wrote a lighthearted book titled Noontime Dancing with short stories from his childhood.

When Ernie was 8, he discovered the world of butterflies and moths. With the help of a neighbor, he learned to catch, preserve, and display his insects, and later how to raise them. Ernie’s interest turned into a full-fledged hobby; he spent nearly his entire life as an amateur lepidopterist, raising and collecting butterflies and moths with his sons.

Ernie taught himself to ski as a young man. He joined, and later became President of Twin Hickory Ski Club of Nutley NJ, and taught his three sons to ski at an early age. Every winter, Ernie and family enjoyed a week of skiing in Vermont or Colorado. Ernie was still skiing with his sons and granddaughters at the age of 81.

Ernie enjoyed a nice glass of wine and loved to participate in blind wine tastings with his sons and family. In his retirement, he became a talented, self-taught winemaker and perfected his technique for top-notch, Dry Riesling.

Ernie was predeceased by his brother, John, who passed in March, 2019. He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Marian, sons and daughters-in-law, Peter & Kathy, George, and Carl & Janeene, as well as his five beautiful granddaughters, Leah, Katie, Julia, Anneliese, and Claire.

Please click here for a slideshow of Ernie throughout the years.

Ernest Chrisbacher

May 13, 2020

Anthony C Pelosi, age 91 of Wayne, passed away peacefully in his home on Wednesday May 13th, 2020 of natural causes.

Tony was born to Antonio and Lucia Pelosi and raised in his beloved Paterson,

He is survived by his best friend and love of his life of 56 years Dorine. Their marriage was a legacy to true love and support of each other and their children. They were inseparable and Dorine cared lovingly for him in his later years. He was the devoted and proud father to his daughters Luanne Nemes and her husband Mark of Duxbury, Ma and Regina Casini and her husband Ray of Temecula Ca. He was the cherished “Pop” to Shalen, Katie and Zoe. He was preceded in death by his sister Domenica Rappa. He has many inlaws, nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends. To know Tony was to love him, he was a kind and caring, handsome gentleman, loved by all that knew him.

He graduated from Central High School in Paterson. He was a skilled athlete spending much of his years playing in various Paterson football, baseball and basketball leagues. He enlisted into the United States Army, served as a corporal during the Korean War, and was honorably discharged in 1952.

He was employed by the US Post Office for 30 years in South Paterson where he served as Union Secretary of Branch 120. He had made countless friends on his route in the Lakeview section. He was honored in 1967 when he and colleagues heroically rescued 3 children and an adult from a house fire while on duty.

He was a devoted parishioner, usher and member of the parish council at St George Church, Paterson and later Saint Brendans Church, Clifton. He spent countless hours volunteering and always giving of himself. He was currently a parishioner at our Lady of the Valley Church which he joined after moving to Wayne 10 years ago.

Tony was an active member of the Passaic Valley Elks #2111 for 27 years and served proudly as Exalted Ruler during 9/11. He was the Youth Activities Chairman for many years and was past president of the North Jersey Elks Developmental Disabilities Agency of Clifton. His dedication to the Elks lodge, its charities and membership is infinite.

Tony’s early love of playing sports followed as he continued as a skilled bowler in leagues and tournaments. He was a familiar face to many working the desk at Bowl O Mat. He spent countless years at the jersey shore with his family. He loved to sing and dance, always on the dance floor with Dorine making others smile. He was a great cook, and loved making and sharing his Italian Sunday gravy, lasagna or amaretto cheesecake. He adored his children and grandchildren while either attending sporting or dance events and was alwaystheir biggest cheerleader. In his later years he was happy, welcoming, and always chatting with the many neighbors at his home with Dorine at Sienna Village.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the North Jersey Elks Developmental Disabilities Agency, 1481 Main Ave, Clifton NJ 07011 or Passaic Valley Elks 2111, 1 Fellner Place, Totowa NJ 07512.

Anthony Pelosi

May 13, 2020

Loving wife, mother, Oma and Great Oma

Sieglinde Juliana Kneis, 86, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne on May 11, 2020.

Sieglinde was born in Munich, Germany – the eldest of six siblings. It was in Munich that she met and married Josef, her devoted husband of 66 years. Together, the young couple emigrated to the U.S. in 1955, in search of the opportunity for a better life. After briefly residing in Haledon, they moved to Wayne, where they’ve lived for the past 62 years.

Sieglinde initially worked as a private housekeeper, and as a bookkeeper, while starting her family. While working full time and raising four young children, she attended evening college classes, earning a degree in accounting. She was employed as a staff accountant by GAF/ISP in Wayne, for over 18 years.

Linda was a long-time parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, where she was a member, and at one time, treasurer, of the Amity Club. She enjoyed classical music, cooking and baking amazing dishes like German potato salad, sauerbraten, rouladen, strudel and stollen - traveling and spending time with family and friends. With the arrival of her first grandchild, Sieglinde ceased to be known as “mom”, and affectionately came to be known to the entire family simply as “Oma”. While we will all miss her greatly, she will live on in the fondest memories of her family.

Sieglinde leaves behind her loving husband Josef; four children – daughters Irene Riley (Tim) and Debbie Grant, and sons Walter Kneis (Debbie) and Michael Kneis (Clare); thirteen grandchildren and four great-grandchildren (and counting). She is also survived by three sisters and a brother, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Sieglinde Kneis

May 11, 2020

Leon D. Eng, age 96 of Wayne, died Sat., May 9, 2020.

Leon was a quality inspector for Bendix Corp. in Teterboro, N.J. before he retired. Born in China he came to the U.S. at age twelve. His family settled in Paterson where he attended Central High School.

He served in the U.S. Army during World War II. He was awarded the American Campaign Medal, Good Conduct Medal, and WW II Victory Medal.

Leon is survived by his beloved wife, Sui Yen; 2 daughters, Emily and Marie; 3 sons, William, David, and Gordon; 6 grandchildren, Christopher, Bryan, Nathan, Matthew, Eric, and Jennifer; 6 great grandchildren, Brandon, Julian, Alyssa, Hudson, Daphne, and Sydney.

Leon D. Eng

May 9, 2020

Ann Marie Corsetto (nee Kinn), age 75 of Wayne, died on May 9, 2020. She had been a resident of Wayne since the 1960’s.

Ann had worked for the Young and Rubicam firm in Manhattan in the 1960’s before becoming a full-time mom. In 1983, she went back to work as Assistant to the Bursar at William Paterson University. She retired from there in 2005 and has maintained a close relationship with many of her co-workers years after retiring.

Ann was born October 21, 1944 in Paterson, NJ. Her parents; Richard and Marie Kinn, adored their little curly-headed daughter. Ann had the most beautiful dark curly hair, which she spent the better part of her younger years trying to straighten before she eventually embraced them. She went on to graduate St. Joseph’s High School in Paterson, where she excelled all around, was cheerleading captain, and the Homecoming Queen! She was very well liked and always enjoyed a large group of friends. She remained close to many of those friends throughout her lifetime.

Tragedy struck when Ann was a young girl and her older brother, Richard, was killed in a car accident. This proved to be a defining moment in her life, shaping her quiet strength and character, bolstered by her Catholic faith. Her faith would grow throughout her lifetime and she raised her children in the church as well, providing them with a solid Catholic foundation.

In 1959, Ann met Bob Corsetto at a CYO dance in Paterson. Bob saw her from across the gymnasium before working up the courage to ask her to dance. They hit if off that night, never separating after that. They married in 1965 at St. Anthony’s RC Church in Hawthorne and settled in Pompton Lakes. Ann’s boss at Young and Rubicam liked her so much, he gifted them a honeymoon at a resort in the Pocono’s. Ann and Bob were immensely grateful…until they arrived and found the place to be an utter dump. Disappointed as they were, they stayed for the duration, only to find out afterwards that they had checked into the wrong resort! They laughed about that for years.

Bob truly adored Ann and always put her on a pedestal. She has been the light of his life since that day, and they are truly soulmates. For a time, they drove matching convertible Mustangs; one red and one white. They did everything together, especially laugh. Raising their family together was also a joy, first in Pompton Lakes before moving to Packanack Lake in the 1960’s. Ann was a devoted mother, always putting the kid’s needs first. She loved watching her son’s baseball games, CYO basketball games, and taking the kids to visit their grandmother in Hawthorne. Time with her daughter Katie was always special, whether going to lunch, shopping at the Five-and-Ten, or simply running errands, they had a great family life together. Ann also loved New York City, having worked there for years, and would take her kids there for shows and to expose them to all that NYC had to offer.

Ann loved hosting family for the holidays, and Thanksgiving dinner was her favorite holiday. Even as the family grew and the preparation became harder, Ann would make it happen. She would have it no other way. Christmas breakfast was another favorite family tradition that Ann created. After the kids opened their gifts, Ann would make a big breakfast and they would all gather around the table for eat together. All these traditions have given her family countless memories to cherish throughout their lifetimes.

In her retirement, Ann looked forward to spending more time with her beloved Bob. They were rarely ever apart. They vacationed with family in Ocean City, NJ and in the Carolinas. Ann cherished time with her granddaughters; Kelley and Catherine, and would make frequent visits there to be with them. They enjoyed baking Christmas cookies, talking (grandma was the best talking buddy!), and just cuddling on the couch together. Those memories will bring them all smiles for years to come.

Ann’s legacy is marked primarily by two things; her strong faith and her love of family. Nothing was more important and she made sure her family knew it. Her faith reassures them all that although she is gone from their sight, she is always with them. Her love will always be with them and they know that someday they will be together again.

Ann is survived by her beloved husband Robert of Wayne, three children; Richard and his wife Robyn of Wayne, Robert and his wife Heather of Wayne, and Kathleen Knox and her husband Thomas of Davidson, NC, two grandchildren; Kelley and Catherine Knox, a brother-in-law; Richard Corsetto and his wife Doreen of Wayne, a niece; Pamela Burns and her family of Lavallette, NJ, as well as her cousins and many beloved friends who will all miss her dearly.

Ann Marie Corsetto

May 9, 2020

Samuel J. Zuidema, 74, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 7, 2020, after a life well lived and full of love.

Sam grew up in North Haledon, NJ, and attended Calvin College in Michigan before becoming an elementary school teacher in Paterson, NJ. He spent his entire career at School Number 6 where he gained many valuable friends and strived to make a difference in the lives of his pupils. In the 1970s he and others created a small camp group for students called The Ravens, which exposed city students to the great outdoors and activities such as canoeing, hiking, and camping. He was also a member of the Do Good House, a nonprofit local charity that raises scholarship funds for area high school seniors.

He was a true outdoorsman and lover of nature, who also became a part owner of Greenwood Lake Sports in the 1980s, a sporting good store in West Milford that sold fishing and hunting equipment. He loved to fish, especially on Green Pond Lake, which he regarded as one of the nicest lakes in New Jersey. Golf was another activity he enjoyed, which enabled him to be outside in the fresh air and closer to nature and the random deer, rabbit, or other animal that might pass through the fairway.

He was married twice, the first of which resulted in his two sons, Samuel “Dean” Zuidema and Russell Craig Zuidema. Dean and his wife Christine live in Green Pond, NJ with their children, and Russell lives in upstate NY. Russell shares the same love of the outdoors as Sam did.

With his second marriage he gained a step-son, Nicholas Manzi, whom he never treated like a “step-son” and always like a son. That marriage also resulted in his only daughter, Samantha Jean Zuidema, whom he affectionately called “Murph” from time to time. Nick and his wife Annette live in Hawthorne, NJ with their children, and Samantha lives in Florida and Manhattan – traveling back and forth to work in the Radio City Music Hall Christmas Spectacular. He loved and was proud of all his children, but as the only girl and the youngest, Samantha had a special place in his heart.

He cherished his five grandchildren Tyler, Hunter, Bailey, Nicholas, and Carly. He was proud of them and loved them dearly, and always supported and attended their activities with fondness and devotion.

After his second marriage Sam had a longtime companion, Lorraine Cece, who was the love of his life. Their relationship opened him up to more good times, friends, family and experiences. He and Lorraine supported each other through good and difficult times. His best years were when he had her in his life – and his children are grateful that Lorraine and he shared so much time together.

Sam was one of six children, and is survived by his sister and her husband, Lois and Harry Prins, his brother Norman Zuidema and his wife Kathy, and his brother Roger Zuidema. He was pre-deceased by his brother William Zuidema and sister Wilhelmina Dyksen. He had a particularly close relationship with Roger, with whom he painted houses, fished, camped, golfed, and had a lot of great times through the years.

He also had numerous nephews and nieces, two of whom he regarded as part of his immediate family; Roger Christian Zuidema and Dr. Arthur J. DeMarsico. They were a constant presence in his life, and were part of the “Cuz Connection” which enjoyed so many fun times with him.

Sam faced some difficult medical issues in the latter part of his life, which he fought through and overcame again and again like a cat with nine lives. He was always optimistic and positive, and never wanted to complain or be a burden to those that loved him. He was proud, honest, funny, and always grateful for what God provided him. His was a life well lived and well loved – which is comforting to his friends and family during this time of loss.

Sam Zuidema

May 7, 2020

Lincoln Park

Dolores Ramirez, age 90 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 7, 2020 with 3 generations of family by her side.

Dolores was born on September 9, 1929 in Guayaquil, Ecuador, one of eleven children to Fidel and Dolores Mejia. Dolores often shared fond memories of her childhood, living above the department store her father owned. She would reminisce about her parents generosity and caring nature. Her father would often give less fortunate people items from his store, while her mother would feed the neighborhood children. It’s these values and many more that she passed down through future generations. She took the utmost pride in her heritage, home, and faith.

After graduating high school and attending secretarial school, Dolores met and married Raul Ramirez in 1953. After 6 years of marriage and the birth of their first two children, Dolores and Raul decided to pursue the American dream. Raul immigrated to NJ in 1959, with plans to procure a job and residence. Dolores and their 2 children followed on July 1, 1960. They lived in Ridgefield Park, NJ for their first two years in the US. Soon after Dolores was pregnant with their 3rd child and the family decided to plant their roots in Passaic, NJ where she happily lived for the next 60 years.

Dolores was a loving, devoted matriarch who cherished and cared for her family above all else. As a devout Catholic, she would attend Sunday services every week, and bestowed blessings upon her children before they left the house. Every day she found time to read her Bible & pray her rosary. On Thursdays, she would spend her morning at the beauty parlor to ensure her hair always looked its best. Some of her other activities included polishing her nails, walking around the mall, and the occasional trip to Atlantic City. Her chicken & rice, pistachio cake, and Jell-O were staples at all family gatherings. After every visit, we could always count on her standing at her 3rd floor window, waving goodbye until our cars drove out of sight.

Dolores was predeceased by her husband Raul Ramirez, all 10 of her siblings, and her sons-in-law Anthony Mercaldi & Ricardo Pabon. She is survived by her children: Ignacio Ramirez and wife Susan, Maria Mercaldi, and Janet Pabon; four grandchildren: Anthony, Nicole, Michael and wife Amanda, and Daniel; two great grandsons: Anthony and Liam; and numerous nieces, nephews, and friends.

Dolores Maria Ramirez

May 7, 2020

Elaine Lavorgna, age 77 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, May 3, 2020.

Elaine was born on June 7, 1943 in Paterson, NJ, the younger of two children to Frank and Adeline Lavorgna. She graduated in 1962 from Manchester High School and worked at Gingert Lace, Inc., and then at J.C. Penny until retirement in 2001.

Elaine was a loving and devoted daughter, sister, niece and aunt who cherished and cared for her family above all else. She enjoyed art projects, shopping, cooking and traveling to places like Florida, Colorado, Washington, D.C., and the Jersey Shore.

Elaine is survived by her brother Steven Lavorgna of Wayne, her nieces, Sharon West and husband Darren of Wayne; Tricia Jochaniewicz and husband James of Longwood, FL, and grand-nephews, Dean West of Wayne and James Jochaniewicz, Jr. of Longwood, FL. She was predeceased by her mother Adeline, and her father Frank.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Elaine’s name may be made to the Mental Health Association of Passaic County, 404 Clifton Avenue, Clifton, NJ 07011.

Elaine Lavorgna

May 3, 2020

Dorothy (Dusty) Peters, 93, died peacefully on May 3 in Wayne, New Jersey, just a few weeks shy of her 94th birthday. Dusty and her husband, Louis (Lou) Peters made their annual trip to Florida this winter. While in Florida, Dusty fell in early February. Even though her health steadily declined since her fall, she and Lou were able to share their 38th wedding anniversary together in February. They both relished their time together in what would be her final trip to her beloved Siesta Key.

Dusty was born May 30, 1926 in Hackensack, NJ to Fred and Ruth (Porter) Coyle, and was raised in Hasbrouck Heights. Her father died during the Depression when she was ten, but her mother Ruth raised and put her children through college by returning to teaching. Ruth was made of tough stock and taught her children self-reliance, a lesson her daughter would value later in life.

While in high school, Dusty shed her childhood nickname of Dotsy, and the new name Dusty was born. Dusty attended Douglas College, the former women’s college of Rutgers University, and graduated in 1948 with a degree in English. She met her first husband, Howard (Howie) Warner, through a college friend, and by 1949, they were married in the First United Methodist Church in Hasbrouck Heights.

Dusty and Howie started a family right away. Her son, Steve (Rita) Warner, and daughter, Jeanne (Michael) DiMonte were already born when they bought their first home at Packanack Lake in Wayne, NJ in 1953. Another daughter Lauri (Hoyt) Masur, and son Bill Warner (Chet Gibas) followed, as did two other Packanack homes to fit the growing family.

Howie died suddenly in 1973. Dusty faced the challenge her mother Ruth had faced with the same grace and determination. Like her mother, Dusty returned to work at a time when most moms did not work outside the home. She began working for New Jersey Bell (now Verizon) in 1974 and stayed there until she retired in 1986. And like her mother, Dusty kept her family together and strong.

In 1981, Dusty met Lou, a fellow Packanack Laker and recent widower, through their mutual involvement with the Packanack Community Church. Dusty and Lou married in 1982 at the same church which meant so much to both of them. Her family grew to include three stepdaughters: Cindy Stucchi; Lynn Dolan; and Missy (Bruce) Thoet; as well as a growing cadre of grandchildren and eventually, great grandchildren.

Dusty and Lou balanced their lives as empty nesters with their role as the head of a large and loving family. They travelled the world to exotic locales, including far-flung adventures to Russia and Australia. But they also made time to meld old traditions with new traditions for the Peters-Warner clan. One example was the annual Easter Egg hunt, which became a cherished memory not just for the grandchildren, but for the kids in the community who were welcomed to join. Many of those kids returned to Packanack Lake as adults to raise their own children, in part for the strong sense of community Dusty and Lou helped to create.

There are many ways to remember Dusty – a deeply intelligent, wry woman who also cared deeply about others; a skilled card player who relished the social interaction of a good game more than the win; an eternally optimistic golfer; a resilient cancer survivor; a pie-maker extraordinaire. But in her final months, Dusty made two comments which stand out. She said that some people went through life without finding their great love, but somehow, she was blessed with two. And she said the one job she loved most was being a mom.

Her greatest legacy is her family that she loved so deeply, and her greatest gifts are the values, courage, and grit she endowed on her descendants, as her mom had endowed to her.

In addition to her husband Lou and their children, Dusty is survived by thirteen grandchildren and seven great grandchildren: Nicole (nee DiMonte) and Jeremy Diroff, and their son Elliott; Leslie (nee Warner) and Frank Aguilar; Jonathan and Kristine DiMonte, and their daughters Grace, Julia, and Adelyn; Erica (nee Stucchi) and Scott Ferkler, and their son, Jackson; Peter Dolan; Timothy and Allison Dolan, and their daughters Cara and Cali; Elise (nee Stucchi) and David Holmes; Emma Masur and Ben Allen; Megan Masur; Ashley Thoet; Amanda Thoet; Annaliese Thoet and her fiancé, John Woltornist; and Austin Thoet. She is predeceased by her first husband Howard; her parents; her brother and sister in law, Don and Kay Coyle; her son-in-law, Tim Dolan; and her grandson, Jesse Warner.

Dorothy “Dusty” Peters

May 3, 2020

Anthony P. Zaledzieski, age 77, of Paterson passed away peacefully on Sunday May 3, 2020.

Anthony was a lifelong resident of Paterson. Where he owned and operated his business, Zinc Service, for nearly 50 years.

Anthony was an avid hunter and fisherman. But his true passion was fishing. As young children we remember our father making his own custom fishing poles and tying flies. For the last 30+ years he has spent every weekend by his sister in Locust Lake Village in Pennsylvania where he was a member of the community fishing club.

Where he’s known as “The Legend”

Anthony enjoyed sharing his vast knowledge of the sport with other fishermen as well as mentoring children in the community.

Anthony had a big heart and loved to help people. He always donated his time as well as fishing poles and accessories to the community for fishing events.

Anthony is survived by his daughters Roxann Unis and her husband Raymond of Haskell NJ, Toni Marie DeNoble and her husband John of Haskell,NJ. Sister and brothers ; Connie Infusino, Nancy Lill, Andrew Zaledzieski, Christine Donohue, William Zaledzieski and his wife Pam, Hugo Zaledzieski and his wife Karen, Grace Mathews and her husband Joseph, Wanda Zaledzieski-Schoch and her husband Charles, Matthew Zaledzieski, Joseph Zaledzieski, many nieces and nephews, and his dear friend Monsignor Mark Giordani. Predeceased by his parents Edwin and Nancy Zaledzieski. His brothers Michael Zaledzieski, Edwin Zaledzieski. And sister Frances Joyce Culotta.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Anthony's name may be made to St. Gerard's RC Church, 501 West Broadway, Paterson, NJ 07522. https://www.stgerardmajella.org/

Anthony P. Zaledzieski

May 3, 2020

Paterson

Marilyn F. Klepacki, age 89, of Wayne died on Saturday, May 2, 2020. Her two children were lovingly gathered by her side at the time of her peaceful passing.

Marilyn was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. She was the only child of Thomas and Mary Meneely. She graduated from St. John Cathedral High School in 1948.

Marilyn met and married the love of her life, Walter Klepacki and went on to have two children Thomas and Mary.

Marilyn dedicated her life to being a wonderful wife, mother, and grandmother. Her husband, children, and grandchildren were the center of Marilyn’s world. Marilyn’s happiest days were those surrounded by her family and friends.

Marilyn spent her entire adult life loving and supporting her loved ones. Marilyn was the type of mother and grandmother that loved to spoil you on every sort of occasion. Her grandchild can tell you best how truly spoiled they were by her. Marilyn loved her five grandchildren that she called her “angels” more than words can do justice to. She filled us all with her warmth and kindness.

Marilyn was predeceased by her husband, Walter Klepacki in 1977. Marilyn is survived by her two children: Thomas Klepacki and his wife Marcella of Pequannock, NJ, and Mary Moran and her husband Dan of Wayne, NJ; five grandchildren: Emily Klepacki, Gregory Klepacki, Daniel Moran, Thomas Moran, and Katherine Moran, along with many loving cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Our family wishes to express our warmest gratitude for all the kind thoughts and prayers extended to us during this time. Marilyn’s presences will be missed dearly. We take comfort in knowing that she was so loved by so many.

In lieu of flowers, please just share with us some of your favorite memories of Marilyn, because we know how much she loved to tell stories and share some of her favorite memories with us.

Marilyn Klepacki

May 2, 2020

Dorothy Jean Castro (nee Steen) of Wayne N.J. passed away on Saturday May 2, 2020. Born in Chillicothe, Missouri on February 27, 1928, wife of Ralph Castro Sr. (predeceased in 2004) and daughter of Allen and Inez Steen.

Dorothy met Ralph during WW II when he was in the Army and stationed in Kansas City, Mo. They subsequently were married for 59 loving years and lived in Ridgefield NJ where they were the proprietors of the Bergen Blvd. Soda Shoppe for 30 years.

During Dorothy's life she worked for Walmart and the Rag Shop in the sewing departments and was recognized as a valuable employee. Dorothy was a talented seamstress and gardener. She was a parishioner of St. Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne where she would volunteer her sewing and gardening skills. Her grandchildren still cherish their dolls, Halloween costumes and baby blankets that were made with her love.

Dorothy was a woman of the finest character and never harbored ill will toward anyone. She was a loving and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, and is survived by her sister Ruth Colleen White of Blue Springs Mo. and her loving daughter Marilyn Marano and husband Anthony of Wayne, NJ, son Ralph Castro Jr and his wife Jean of Glen Mills, Pa. She had six grandchildren; Alison White and husband Adam of Ho- Ho- Kus NJ, Christine Odell and husband Robert of Wayne, NJ, Jillian Capalbo and husband Mark of Wayne NJ, Jacqueline Murray and husband Sean of Garnet Valley, Pa, and Michael Castro and wife Clare of Pocopson, Pa., and Mark Castro (deceased). She also had ten great grandchildren. Everyone who knew Dorothy enjoyed her love for life, her vitality and quick wit. She will be missed by her many friends and family.

Dorothy Castro

May 2, 2020

What can you say about a brother, an uncle, a friend like Joey. Joey was the ultimate of these; a one-of-a-kind, special and big-hearted guy with an old soul.

Joey had a knack for refusing to leave us; as a very young child he was in a near-fatal car accident and, as many know, fairly recently beat cancer. We all felt he was just a bit more invincible than most. But the absurd and unbelievable virus plaguing us all took this wonderful man from us cruelly and too soon on April 28, 2020 at Saint Joseph’s hospital in Wayne, NJ.

Joey grew up in Hasbrouck Heights; and was an interesting kid - he loved carrots, fishing and working with his hands. The first of these would find him looking like a pumpkin when his skin turned orange and his face blew up from eating too many; the second could find him and a childhood friend bike pedaling from Hasbrouck Heights to the Ramapo River, a good 20+ miles to cast a line on a lazy summer day; and the third led him to his life’s work and passion, to be a carpenter like his namesake Saint Joseph. He attended Bergen Tech in Hackensack to pursue that goal.

As an adult, Joey loved baseball and played softball as a shortstop with a good bat. He enjoyed music but mostly oldies, doo-wops and the classic crooners, and often followed local bands to hear them. It was in these places he made and enjoyed many long-time friends, always greeting them with a big smile, hearty handshake and a warm, heartfelt greeting. He loved to invite friends and family to backyard BBQs where he manned a busy grill to keep his guests well-fed. Never without a funny or interesting story, he’d regale any and everyone. He loved food and knew where to find the best happy hour bargains, best burgers or chicken parm. He had uncanny recollection; often opening a conversation thread with something like “I remember it was back in 1977, on a sunny Saturday in August….” it was remarkable the things he could remember with total recall. He was a natty dresser that followed his own sense of style, complete with a sports coat, dark colored shirt and a pinky ring. And when very informal and relaxed, jeans that often slide down just a bit too low in the back...

Joey was quick to lend a helping hand; many of you reading this will have had something built, repaired or installed by him. He would do it with a smile, and sometimes for a ‘small charge’! But he never said no and would go out of his way to do a friend a favor.

Joey had a unique and unapologizing personality - in addition to all the above, those who know him best would also agree he could be a little impatient, a tad stubborn, a bit argumentative and somewhat ‘frugal’. But Joey should and will be remembered as the kindest, sincerest, loving brother, uncle and friend anyone could have in this life. There is a hole in our world without him in it. Rest In Peace, dear Joey.

Joey was predeceased by his parents Patrick and Eleanor, his brother-in-law Larry Duca and leaves behind his siblings Pattie Duca, Donna Scarpone, Maria Porzio and Rich Porzio, brothers-in-law Doug Carhart and Tom Scarpone, his nephew Anthony Scarpone and his wife Tara and daughter Alexa, his nephew TJ Scarpone and his wife Liza and their son Thomas, his niece Mindy Brady and her sons Benjamin and Justin, his nephew Dan Duca and his partner Stephanie Parks, and his nephew Mark Duca and his wife Sara.

Joseph Porzio

April 28, 2020

Irene “Betty” Fiorino, April 26, 2020. Betty was born on December 25, 1927 in Barnsley, England (UK) to Eric and Dorothy Heath. Growing up in England, Betty’s parents took her on many adventurous holidays around the world including Trinidad & Tobago, Barbados, Switzerland, Canada and her favorite Guyana where her father was employed for a time. She made a career in the hospitality business in London and was employed by DH Evans and Dickens and Jones before moving to the United States in 1960. She settled in Paterson, NJ from where she bused to New York City to continue her career with the NYC School Meal Service and as caterer for Horn & Hardart. Betty met her husband William “Bill” Fiorino 10 years later. They were married and set up residence in Belleville, NJ, before moving to Wayne, NJ in 1977.

Betty was a wonderful cook and baker and very talented with a knitting needle creating an array of useful and decorative treasures enjoyed by many of her family members and friends. She and Bill would always kick off the summer with the family's annual Memorial Day picnic filled with good food and games. She was an avid puzzler and could be frequently found at her dining room table assembling one. Betty was an animal lover and enjoyed gardening and being outdoors.

Betty will be dearly missed by her family and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents and husband Bill. She is survived by her nieces Dianne Salvatore and her husband Jeffrey Petrucelli of Lakewood Ranch, FL, and their children; Lisa Salvatore Dunn of Riverview, FL, and her children; Anita Durst and her husband Ernie of Jeanette, PA, and their family; and her nephew Larry Salvatore and his wife Nancy of Toms River, NJ and their children. She also leaves behind many other nieces, nephews and dear friends.

Memorial contributions may be made to the National Audubon Society, 225 Varick Street, New York, NY 10014 or at www.audubon.org

Irene Fiorino

April 26, 2020

Ruth Pasquariello 95 (nee Wright) of Lincoln Park. Formerly of Wayne & Totowa passed away peacefully on April 25, 2020.

Remembered and loved by so many as a happy, smiling, upbeat friend to all. Ruth went by many names throughout her life: daughter, sister, wife, mother, grand-mother and to her great delight great grand-mother, as well as Ruthie, Aunt Ruthie & Uff.

Born in Paterson to Harry & Mary Wright September 9, 1924, she raised her family with her husband Frank in Totowa making great lifelong friends among the Highview Ave. girls club. After Frank’s passing in 1981, she retired in Manahawkin NJ and Florida with her dear friend Pat Amorelli making a new group of friends. In 2003 she moved to Siena Village in Wayne and continued a happy retirement making more good friends. Two years ago she moved to Renaissance at Lincoln Park and made even more friends there.

Ruth had a great love for her family near and far and loved spending time and keeping in touch with them. She lived her life with gratitude and faith and set an example for us all to follow.

She is predeceased by her brother Arthur K. Wright and James B. Wright. She is survived by her sister Regina Thomson of Beaufort SC, daughter Joyce Ermilio and her husband Bob of Teaneck, son Gary and his wife Ruth of Riverdale, grandchildren Bobby Ermilio of NYC, Gina Metsker & her husband Mike of Hoboken, Michael Pasquariello of Denville, Jessica Stevens & her husband Chris of Philadelphia, great grand-children Sean & Kyle Metsker.

Ruth Pasquariello

April 25, 2020

Joyce G. McAnelly, age 90 of North Haledon, died peacefully on April 25, 2020 at the Holland Christian Home. Throughout the years, Joyce lived in Des Moines, Iowa, Raleigh, North Carolina, Madison, Wisconsin, Park Forest, Illinois, Wayne, New Jersey, and most recently in North Haledon.

Joyce was born in La Mars, Iowa and raised in nearby Des Moines. As a teenager, she loved working in the corn fields pollinating the corn. In 1947, she graduated from Roosevelt High School in Des Moines and went on to earn a Bachelor’s Degree from Iowa State University in Ames. While her husband was in school for his Master’s Degree, they lived in Raleigh, NC where Joyce worked for the Durham Life Insurance Co. She was a talented artist and drew ads for the telephone book yellow pages. When they moved to Wisconsin, she worked in the Home Economics Department of the University of Wisconsin to support John’s doctoral pursuit. In 1961, she embarked on her most rewarding career as a full-time mother to her children.

Joyce met her husband, John McAnelly, at the Grace Methodist Church in Des Moines. John was speaking on the microphone when Joyce first heard his voice, and she thought he sounded “very nice”. Two years later, the two bumped into each other at a dance at Iowa State. They dated for a few years before John proposed while they were sitting on the living room couch. After John slipped the diamond ring onto Joyce’s finger, she walked to the living room mirror and ‘tested’ the diamond on the glass, just to be certain it was real! They married at the Grace Methodist Church on December 27, 1953, the same church where they had first met. They enjoyed a brief honeymoon at the Sir Walter Raleigh Hotel before the two moved to North Carolina so John could begin graduate school.

Joyce and John’s travels continued outside the US with trips to Paris, London, Russia, Hungry, Denmark, Finland, Germany, England, Scotland, Ireland, Mexico, and the Caribbean. Joyce’s artistic talents were seen in the photo albums filled with pictures of their travels.

Joyce always promoted women’s education and Christian studies. She was a 72-year member of P.E.O (Philanthropic Educational Organization), where she served as a Treasurer, Vice President, and President in three local chapters. In Wayne, Joyce taught reading to individuals whose first language was not English. She was a Sunday school teacher at Grace United Protestant, Park Forest, Il and Wayne Presbyterian Church (WPC), a Deacon and Elder at WPC, and was always active in women’s Christian organizations.

Joyce is survived by her two children; Anne Henson and Stephen McAnelly. She was predeceased by her parents, Grace and Everett Graber, her sister Helen Kinseth, and her husband John. Her legacy continues with Grandchildren; Nicholas and Lauren.

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Donations can be made in her memory to Chapter BY - PEO Scholarship fund. Mail checks to Cathy Mackey, PEO, 5826 Dawley Dr., Fitchburg WI 53711.

Joyce McAnelly

April 25, 2020

Robert Howard Pringle, a resident of Wayne for over 60 years, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 24, 2020.

Born in Newark, Bob’s family moved to Wayne in 1950. Bob was blessed to fulfill so many of his dreams. After graduation from Seton Hall University, Bob’s first love was radio. He fulfilled his dream directly after graduation by working for the American Broadcasting Company (ABC) in New York City as a broadcaster broadcasting some of the biggest acts of the late Big Band era. Unfortunately, for Bob, television was in its ascendency in the 50’s causing him to seek a career change. Bob was always interested in law enforcement and was hired by the Wayne Police Department in the mid 1950’s. Bob progressed through the ranks, ultimately ending a 30 year career as Chief of Police in 1986. Bob’s love for his town led to his volunteering with the Wayne Fire Department, Community Fire Company of Mountain View and Pompton Falls Company #3, volunteering for 15 years. Upon retirement from the police department, Bob took over as full time director of security for the then Wayne General Hospital where he worked for another 10 years before retiring in 1996. Those who knew Bob were well aware of his intense devotion to Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne. Bob was a member of the second Deacanate class becoming a Permanent Deacon in 1976 and serving the parish of Our Lady of Consolation faithfully for over 30 years. In his capacity as deacon, Bob performed hundreds of baptisms and presided at scores of weddings including the marriage ceremony of his son Robert, and baptism of two of his grandchildren, Robbie and Marie.

While a member of the volunteer fire department, he was at a Civil Defense Committee meeting where he met his future bride, Evelyn (nee Karross). As the story goes, it was at the end of the meeting which Bob attended and he kept an eye on the “nice looking” young secretary who was taking the meeting minute notes. Bob knew he had to find some excuse to speak to Evelyn. Little did either of them realize at that moment that one day her name would be his name. That day came on September 22, 1957, when Evelyn and Bob exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends at the St. Mary’s in Pompton Lakes.

After the wedding, they moved into the home in which they would raise a family and reside in for almost 60 years on Garvey Road in Wayne. Bob worked as many hours as he could and was able to purchase a home in Barnegat Township, enjoying summer weekends at the shore. Later, the house in Barnegat was traded for a condo in Bonita Springs, Florida were they were able to give winter a miss for over a dozen years. Nothing made them happier than when their sons and grandchildren would come visit. Bob simply adored his grandchildren always fondly recalling that, when they were little, they’d be so excited about coming over Grandmother and Grandad’s house for a “sleep-oh-va.”

Bob’s beloved wife Evelyn predeceased him in June of 2018. Beloved father of Robert C. and wife Elizabeth Pringle, and beloved grandfather of their children Robbie and Marie; and father to Scott and wife Robin Pringle and grandfather to their children Aaron, Heather, and Evan; dear brother-in-law of the late Charles Karross; dear uncle of Jack and wife Mary Ellen Joynson of Spotsylvania, VA, and Diane and husband Richard Thompson of Lake Ariel, PA.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob’s name are asked to consider Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne or The New Jersey Fireman’s Home in Boonton, NJ.

Robert Pringle

April 24, 2020

Elizabeth A. McBride (nee Hummel), aged 81, of Wayne, died after a brief illness from complications of Coronavirus on Friday, April 24, 2020.

Born in Englewood, New Jersey and raised in Teaneck, Elizabeth, or “Betty Ann” as she was affectionately called, was the oldest of six children of the late George James Hummel and the late Catherine Margaret Hummel (nee Thompson). She dearly loved all her siblings; Cathy, Karen, George, Mary, and Patty, and they formed a special bond after they lost their mother to cancer when Betty Ann was just thirteen years old. This close relationship with her siblings continued throughout her life. Betty Ann graduated from Holy Family High School in Union City in 1956.

While working as an executive secretary at the Chrysler Building in NYC, she met her first husband, Robert Snyder. Betty Ann and Bob married in 1957, lived in multiple places in New Jersey and upstate New York, had five children together, and eventually settled in Wayne Township in 1967.

Betty Ann met her second husband, Robert McBride, through a personal friend. They hit it off immediately, married in 1986 and went on to have a happy life together until Bob’s death in 2003. Bob and Betty Ann had their dream home built in Crystal Springs in Hamburg, NJ, right near the 8th hole of the golf course and loved to entertain friends and family there. Many great parties were held at that location. They both loved the game of golf and continued to play regularly until Bob’s illness. They even golfed in various vacation destinations, including Ireland and Hawaii. Traveling, dining out and watching Broadway shows were a big part of their life, and they often included family members and friends, while generously paying for everything. It was very typical for their children and spouses to receive Broadway tickets to a show as a Christmas gift. One highlight that stands out is when Bob and Betty Ann took their children and grandchildren to Radio City Musical Hall in NYC to see the Radio City Christmas Spectacular. It gave them great joy when all of their kids, spouses, and grandkids attended the show together and shared dinner afterwards.

Betty Ann’s Christmas Eve Party was an annual tradition until the last ten years of her life and was held in Wayne, and later in Hamburg after she relocated there. These parties had quite a turnout, and in the earlier years included her siblings as well as her children. Friends and neighbors would also show up at this party and people looked forward to it every year. In the later years, when her brother and sisters had their own families, the number of people became smaller, but then surged again when her children started having their children.

Betty Ann moved into an assisted living facility during the last two years, living out her last days at The Bristal Assisted Living at Wayne, having come full circle back to the town her children called home. She was a truly kind and loving person and could strike up a conversation with the most introverted stranger and turn them into a friend. Betty Ann had a beautiful smile that would light up a room and she had a very distinct, infectious laugh. She was immensely proud of her children and would typically tell the waiter or waitress at a restaurant who they were and where they lived, especially when dining with children that were not local to New Jersey. She seemed to call everyone she met “Honey” and was very sincere.

Betty Ann will be sadly missed by all her family and will never be forgotten. She lived a very full and happy life despite setbacks she suffered earlier in her life. Betty Ann is survived by her children, Robert Snyder and his wife Jodi of East Kingston, New Hampshire, Ellen Fattal and her husband George of Wayne, NJ, Amy Kazanjian and her husband Robert of Howell, NJ, Keith Snyder and his wife Laura of Totowa, NJ, Brian Snyder and his wife Beth of Braintree, Massachusetts, her stepsons Robert McBride and his wife Cindy of Negley, Ohio and Mike McBride of Linden, New Jersey, her grandchildren Jeremy Snyder, Erynne Fuller, Sean Snyder, Amanda Morgan, Alicia Velasquez, Nicole Swinton, Dan Kazanjian, Keith Snyder, Jr., Amy Snyder, Alyssa Snyder, Grace Snyder, Stephanie Snyder, Caroline Snyder, Conner McBride, Keri Anne McBride and 15 great-grandchildren.

Also her beloved sisters Cathy Hogel of Totowa, Karen Rieger (Tom) of Buffalo Grove, Illinois, Mary Smit of Tampa, Florida, Patty Branigan of Lake Hopatcong, NJ, her sisters-in-law Rose Anne Iannucci (Lou) of Rivervale, NJ and Rita McBride of Tulsa, Oklahoma and many friends will miss her dearly. She was predeceased by her brother, George Hummel, in 1987 and her first husband, Robert Snyder in 1996.

Elizabeth McBride

April 24, 2020

Andreana Scillieri (nee Raniolo), age 87 of Wayne, died peacefully on Friday, April 24, 2020. She had been a resident of Wayne for fifty years.

Andreana was born and raised in Santa Croce, Sicily. During her teen years, she spent time in Paterson, NJ where she attended Central High School and worked in a coat factory in the Paterson garment district. In 1956, she moved back to Sicily and began dating Pippo Scillieri. They were engaged in January 1957 and were then married on April 27, 1957.

Pippo and Andreana moved to the US and initially settled in Paterson before moving to Wayne in 1970. Throughout the years, they would travel to Sicily to spend time with their families as well as enjoying many cruises. They also enjoyed socializing with their paesonos at the St. Joseph’s Club in Paterson.

Andreana was a truly dedicated wife and cared for her husband Pippo tirelessly. She loved spending time with her children and grandchildren and was an excellent cook. Eating at Nonna’s house was a frequent event and the food always tasted better there. She must have added that special ingredient of love that only a mother can do.

Andreana is survived by her two children; Joanne Zisa and her husband Bill of Wayne, and Tony Scillieri and his wife Camella of Pequannock, five grandchildren; Jessica Tower and her husband Ryan, Alyssa LeDonne and her husband Mike, Billy Zisa and his wife Jaclyn, and Anthony and Dana Scillieri; two great-grandchildren; Adriana and A.J. Tower; one brother; Gino Raniolo and his wife Lina of Ragusa, Sicily; and many loving nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Pippo; her parents Francesco and Giuseppina Raniolo, a brother Emmanuel, and a sister Josephine (Pina).

Andreana Scillieri

April 24, 2020

Rita Marie (Borowski) Arnold, 75, of Packanack Lake, Wayne, NJ passed away Thursday April 23, 2020. She was born August 17, 1944 in Natrona, PA. Wife of the Late Captain E.R. Arnold (Bud) and Daughter of Late Edward & Irene Borowski. Rita left Natrona to become a flight attendant at Pan Am Airways. She traveled around the world and met many amazing people along the way including The Beatles, Hubert Humphrey & Cardinal Spelllman to name a few. She made many great friends and then met Bud, the love of her life. Rita & Bud moved out of Queens to raise their family in Packanack Lake. They were very involved in the community in which they spent their lives. They were members of the Yacht Club, the Garden Club and enjoyed the beach. Rita was a very proud mother and grandmother.

Rita is survived by her daughter, Stacy Horner and husband Mark; son Eric (Rick) Arnold and wife Allison; daughter Susan (Susie) Arnold; grandchildren Allison, Matthew & Kaitlin Horner and Maggie Beams-Arnold.

She has now been reunited with her husband who came to bring her home after waiting 29 years. May she feel our love and be at peace.

Due to current unprecedented situations, a memorial will be held at a later date in her honor. If you like to remember Rita, her family encourages you to purchase flowers and enjoy them in her memory. Rita also donated to several charities and loved her rescue dog, Toby.

In her memory, we would be honored if you made a donation to FOWA Rescue, who is dedicated to the welfare, sheltering and placement of homeless animals.

If you would like to share a memory or condolences please sign the guest book or send us a private condolence.

Rita Arnold

April 23, 2020

Ruthann Hughes aged 78, originally from Clifton and who spent over fifty years in Wayne died peacefully on Tuesday April 21st. “Ruthie” will be remembered as an incredibly generous, sharp-witted, and strong willed woman who touched the lives of countless people. She was a warrior in both her personal life and the lives of the people she championed by taking them in when they didn’t have anywhere else to go. She had a penchant for siding with the underdog and treated everyone equally no matter what walk of life they came from. As a Senior Investigator, serving Passaic County for 27 years investigating welfare clients, she was tough and very fair to the folks she needed to check up on, even forming friendships with some. She was principled and resolute when it came to fighting for what she believed to be right. Right or wrong, through a myriad of challenges she overcame, Ruthann lived life the way she wanted to live it.

She was a commanding presence in every room she ever walked into, people were drawn to her; she had a way of getting her point across that helped her manage to get things done. Nowhere was this gift more relevant than in the home she provided for her five children. From a seat on the end of the kitchen table, the rules and regulations were ordered amid makeup and a countless number of hot rollers that she used to style her tremendous head of hair before setting out to work. Ruth was the General and each of her kids had their daily responsibilities to keep the household running smoothly... well, sort of smoothly. Her largest sense of pride was in her finding a way to provide for her children, at times working second and third jobs to give them an opportunity to grow up having everything they could ever need. She spent many years breeding small dogs in her home to help make ends meet. She didn’t mind though, she absolutely adored those animals and had “helping hands” to shoulder the responsibilities of keeping the house in order. She instilled a work ethic in her kids that would allow them to thrive into productive members of society. By no means did she raise angels, but she certainly raised some pretty good people. Her “tough love” helped shaped the lives of three Paterson Firefighters and a High School teacher. Service to others was taught to them from a very young age, she was incredibly proud of the careers they chose.

Ruthann or “The Big R” as some of her kid’s friends would nickname her softened a bit after the traumatic, untimely death of her son Kevin at the age of 26. This tragedy devastated her because, for the first time there was no way to protect one of her most important treasures; the same way she tried to protect the rest of her kids until her last day on earth. Around the same time, a new nickname was born as she became “Grandy” for the first time. Her oldest Granddaughter was born a short time before her losing Kevin and so far there have been six more who she loved as fiercely as her own kids. She was immensely proud of her Grandchildren who are also flourishing in all of their endeavors. Each of them loving her right back using words like “indestructible”, “snazzy”, “heart of gold”, “stubborn” (in the best way possible), and “F#&*ing LEGEND” to describe her. Ruthie’s heart fluttered and she came to life each and every time she got to spend any time with her Grandkids. She gave them insights and advice on their parents and usually gifted them a “few bucks”. They all got a kick out of her affinity of being late to family functions and “Tardy” became another favorite description. Her watchful eye will certainly guide each of them as they go through life.

A colorful life on earth as come to an end, but make no mistake, Ruthann’s legacy will remain in the hearts of every single person she has ever known. In life she faced more heartache than any human should ever have to. Through it all, she endured with grace and dignity; she created a better life for her children and grandchildren and, in the end, that is truly all she ever set out to do. She’ll meet the angels waiting for her; her son Kevin, mother Ruth, father David, brothers Bobby and David, husband Tommy, as well as dear friends. They’re waiting up there for their new assignments. Ruthann leaves her sons Brian Burns and his wife Carrie of Wayne, Sean Burns and wife Pam of Lavallette, Kyle Hughes of Paterson, and daughter Erin Hughes of Wayne. Her legacy continues with Grandchildren; Shannon, Delaney, Mickey, Carleigh, Cassidy, Kevin, and Tommy.

Ruthann Hughes

April 21, 2020

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Earl V. Comfort, age 89, of Montville passed away peacefully on Tuesday. April 21. 2020 while receiving the loving care of his family.

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Earl V. Comfort

April 21, 2020

Montville

Reverend Dr. Ruth Elsa Mohring, age 84 of Fairfield passed away peacefully on Monday, April 20, 2020 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Ruth was born and raised in Fair Lawn, NJ and was one of two daughters to Bernard and Elsa Mohring. Ruth was born in her parents’ home in Fair Lawn and at a young age started studying music. She played a variety of instruments in the percussion family, mainly focusing on the drums.

While attending Fair Lawn High School, she was a member of the Fair Lawn High School Marching Band. Following her high school graduation in 1952, Ruth attended Montclair Teacher’s College. Ruth was a music major while at Montclair College and earned her degree in Music Education. After graduating from college, Ruth accepted a position as a music teacher at Waldwick Elementary/Middle School. When Ruth was hired in Waldwick, the school had no music department at all. She assured and guaranteed the school that by Memorial Day, the school would have a band to march in the town’s annual Memorial Day Parade. This was a promise that Ruth made good on and delivered. During her years as a teacher in Waldwick, Ruth went back to Montclair Teacher’s College, where she earned her Master’s degree in music. Ruth treasured twenty five years employed as a music teacher with the Waldwick Board of Education until her retirement some years ago.

Several years before her retirement from the Waldwick Board of Education, Ruth decided that she would go back to college where she would work at earning her degree in Theology and Divinity. She started going to school at night at Immaculate Conception Seminary in Mahwah, which was part of Darlington Seminary. There she earned her Bachelor’s degree, then attended school in Ohio for six months where she received her Master’s in Divinity. Ruth then enrolled at Drew University's Theological School where she received her Doctor in Ministry. During her attendance at Drew University she was also employed as an adjunct professor.

Ruth was Pastor at Evangelical Lutheran Church Prince of Peace in Denville for many years. She was also the Chaplain for the Fire Department in Denville for some time. Aside from being a music teacher and pastor, Ruth was also an accomplished artist. She applied for a position at the Hallmark Company as an artist. Hallmark, at the time, did not need artist but they did have an opening for a writer. Ruth gladly took the position and wrote small booklets for the Hallmark Company for several years. Because of her work with Hallmark, Ruth’s name has been logged in the Library of Congress, which is something that she was very proud.

While as Pastor at Prince of Peace Church in Denville, Ruth met a handsome man by the name of Jim Lappagaard at the annual church picnic. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on June 8, 1986. Ruth and Jim settled in Denville where Jim was living at the time and remained there for nearly thirty years. Ruth and Jim cherished twenty-nine years of loving and loyal marriage until Jim’s passing in 2015.

Ruth was on the Board of Directors for Noah’s Arc Animal Shelter in Stanhope. She was a member of Good Shepherd Lutheran Church in Florham Park, as well as Saint David’s Episcopal Church in Kinnelon.

Ruth is survived by her sister Alice Huizinga of Lincoln Park, one niece Pamela Ruth Rios and her husband Ramon Robert Rios of Stroudsburg, PA, and one nephew James Robert Huizinga and his wife Stephanie of Vernon, NJ, one grandniece Leanne Marie Rios, and one grandnephew Ramon Robert Rios of PA.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Ruth’s memory may be made to your favorite animal shelter or rescue.

Rev. Dr. Ruth E. Mohring

Lucia Carpinteri

October 8, 1947 – April 20, 2020

It is with heavy hearts and great sadness that the family of Lucia Carpinteri, age 72, of Wayne, announces her passing on Monday, April 20, 2020, after a courageous battle with Covid-19.

Lucia was a devoted and beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister and auntie.

Lucia was born in Solarino, Sicily, and was one of five children (Salvatore, Angela, Vincenzo, Lucia & Teresa) born to Giuseppe and Carmela Rametta.

While living in Sicily, she met a handsome young man by the name of Paolo Carpinteri. As fate would have it; they fell in love and were married in Sicily on October 28, 1962, and have been happily married for 58 years.

Paolo and Lucia welcomed their first son, Antonino Carpinteri in Sicily before moving to the United States in 1967. They settled first in Paterson, NJ where they expanded their family with their sons, Giuseppe Carpinteri and Aldo Carpinteri.

The family moved to Wayne in 1973. Lucia was outgoing, loving and kind and would go on to form close bonds with her neighbors from Valley Road, and Berkley Court. Her home was always open to the neighborhood children and her kitchen full of delicious food.

Her seven grandchildren, (Paul, Kaitlyn, Gina, Anthony, Ava, Michael and Matthew) referred to her as “Nonna” which means “Grandmother” in Italian.

She was an extraordinary and very wise woman, who was loved and respected by her grandchildren. They refer to her as the “best Nonna ever” who taught them that their voices are very important and they need to use it as they pursue their dreams.

Lucia worked for the Wayne Board of Education for 25 years, first in food services, and then as a Paraprofessional. She loved the children she worked with over the years and the children and families always found comfort in knowing Lucia would treat their child with respect, dignity and caring.

Lucia was dedicated to her family above all else, and would spend all her time ensuring everyone felt that love. She was an excellent cook, her specialties being the Sicilian recipes handed down from generation to generation. She was a welcoming and gracious host who loved to have family and friends gather in her home.

Lucia was a beautiful, vibrant and strong woman who loved to decorate and care for her home and garden. She loved fashion, flowers, Elvis, Kenny Rogers, Lionel Richie music as well as the Italian classics.

Lucia was the loving wife of Paolo Carpinteri; loving mother of Antonino Carpinteri and his wife Jackie of Wayne, NJ, Giuseppe Carpinteri and his wife Jennifer of Wayne, NJ, Aldo Carpinteri and his wife Lisa of Powder Springs, GA; dear sister of Vincenzo and his wife Giannina Rametta of Elmwood Park, NJ, Angela and late husband Joe Saladino of Montville, NJ, Teresa Messano of Pompton Lakes and Salvatore and his wife Lina Rametta of Solarino, Sicily; beloved grandmother to Paul, Kaitlyn, Gina, Anthony, Ava, Michael and Matthew and loved Auntie to her many nieces and nephews.

Lucia Carpinteri

Katherine Steiner age 104 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, April 20, 2020.

Katherine was born in Paterson to Frank and Mari Steiner. Her parents and two brothers moved to Prospect Park where Katherine would spend her formative years. Like most people of her generation, she grew up during the deprivation of the Great Depression and later as a young adult bore witness to the Second World War. It was indeed hard to find work after Katherine graduated from high school, but eventually she found a job at a shirt factory called Liondale Shirt Company in Paterson where she worked as a seamstress for approximately five years. Katherine then left that position and earned another job as a seamstress with Brooks Brothers in Paterson where she was ultimately promoted to a supervisory position. Katherine remained with Brooks Brothers until her retirement in 1981.

Over the years Katherine enjoyed line dancing – both performing and teaching it in various nursing homes and other organizations. She also enjoyed traveling around the world to places such as Italy, Spain, Russia, Poland, and Scandinavia. Katherine was a member of the Chapter of AARP and a member of the Golden Agers of Wayne. She was also a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne.

Katherine is survived by her niece Marie Steiner of Clifton and was predeceased by her brothers Frank Steiner in 2006 and Lenhart Steiner in 1998.

Katherine Steiner

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph Natale Laurita, of Wayne, New Jersey, on April 20, 2020, at the age of 85.

The son of Dominic and Angelina Laurita, Joseph was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY where he met and married his lifetime sweetheart, Annette "Nettie" Maiano Laurita, when they were just eighteen and fifteen years old.

Joseph and Annette, who shared a birthday, were married for 67 years. They were the proud parents of eleven children,( six sons, five daughters)their spouses and partners, nineteen grandchildren and their spouses, and nine great-grandchildren.

A Korean War veteran with a brilliant mind for engineering and design, Joseph took great pride in his work. One of his greatest professional accomplishments was the invention of the first injection-molded “milk case” which remains in production, it’s perfect design unchanged, to this day.

Those who knew Joseph knew him to be a strong, fearless, driven, and hard-working man who never met an obstacle he couldn’t break through.

Joseph lovingly referred to his wife Annette as “his sweetheart” and would often tell his daughters that they “were all beautiful, but none as beautiful as their mother”.

Joseph, a fierce protector of his family, was known to say that his sons, who called him “the old man” were his pride, and his daughters, who called him Daddy, were his joy.

He loved and accepted the spouses and partners of his children as his own, and took great pride in his grandchildren, who called him Gramps.

His closest loved ones and those who knew him best will miss his bright blue eyes, ( passed down to all eleven children) his big, beautiful smile, the way he laughed at his own jokes, his special Christmas olive sauce, the sound of his Italian music playing on Sunday mornings, and the strongest man they have ever known.

His signature goodbye was “ Daddy loves you..be good”.

Joseph lived his life on his own terms. In the words of Frank Sinatra, in his favorite song, “My Way”...

“Yes there were times, I’m sure you knew, when I bit off more than I could chew...But through it all, when there was doubt, I ate it up, and spit it out. I faced it all, and I stood tall...And did it my way”....and that he did.

Forever in our hearts.

To celebrate Joseph’s life, memorial donations in his honor are welcomed to Halfway Home Animal Rescue Team PO Box 312

Oakland NJ 07436. http://www.hharteam.org

Joseph N Laurita

Janny Nitschelm age 95 of Pompton Lakes, passed Monday, April 20, 2020.

She was born to Jan Hamkes and Jacoba Bezembinder in Steenwijk, Holland. Janny met her husband Camile Nitschelm while she was working for the government in the Netherlands. They married on January 14, 1950 and shortly thereafter they immigrated to the United States. They were sponsored to the United States by Camile’s cousin who lived in Iowa. They initially moved to Iowa but Janny wanted no part of living there. She and Camile moved back to live in Ridgewood, New Jersey and settled in Pompton Lakes where they lived for fifty-two years before Camile’s passing in 2002.

Janny was the loving mother of the late Elizabeth “Lindy” McKenna (2008) and her surviving husband Bob of Lake Hopatcong, and Yvonne Micholas of Pompton Lakes; she was the cherished grandmother of Bobby Bateson, Kimberly, Bateson, the late Lisa Bateson, Michael Micholas and Michele Micholas; she was also dearly loved by her great-grandchildren Alyssa Bateson, Mikey Micholas, Brendan Bramley, and Jayce Bramley.

Janny Nitschelm

Pompton Lakes

Alta Lorraine Rodgers of Bloomingdale passed away peacefully on Monday, April 20, 2020. Alta would have turned 91 on May 18.

Born in Pompton Lakes, Alta moved to Bloomingdale shortly after being married to her beloved husband Clarence. They were happily married for 42 years until his passing in 2004. Alta moved to an assisted living facility in 2014 after living at their house on Glen Wild Lake for 50 years.

Alta and Clary also had a vacation home on Lake Wallenpaupack in Pennsylvania, where they would enjoy boating and waterskiing on the weekends. They also enjoyed making and selling crafts and woodworking items at flea markets and craft shows.

Alta worked in the finance department of the DuPont corporation in Pompton Lakes for many years until taking early retirement. She was very kind and nurturing, loved animals, and would spend time caring for her dogs, cats, and any wildlife or stray animals that came into her yard.

Alta and Clary had no children, but have many nieces and nephews. She will be greatly missed by them as well as her many dear friends at Glen Wild Lake.

Alta Rodgers

Bloomingdale

Shirley Boardman of Pompton Plains, a deeply-loved mother, sister, grandmother and incredible friend, passed away on Sunday, April 19th— a beautiful spring day.

Shirley was born on December 12th in the small town of Summerhill, Pennsylvania. We’re leaving her age a mystery- she made her family promise! We don’t want anyone to fret, though- Shirley lived an incredible, trail-blazingly long life that cannot be captured in a few paragraphs, or summed up by a number. Although she spent her first 20 years in rural Pennsylvania, Shirley had aspirations that lead her to The Big Apple. After graduating from college at Indiana University of Pennsylvania as a young woman in her 20s, she briefly taught elementary school before leaving her life in PA and hopping on a bus to New York City. As an avid writer with sharp intellect, she was hired at Time Life Magazine, where she quickly made friends and moved into an apartment just off 5th Avenue. For those who know Shirley best, her first address in Manhattan is quite apropos considering her deep love for Broadway. It was the swanky part of Midtown (close to Tiffany’s, she would interject!) where her adult life began.

As readers will note, Shirley had an incredible professional work life unmatched by most women of her time. After working at Time Life, Shirley went on to enjoy a 60+ year career as an editor, medical researcher and copywriter in the pharmaceutical advertising industry. No one knew more about grammar, words, and editorial work than Shirley. She’s been published in the New York Times and New York Magazine more times than her family can count, and was more well-read than most (home delivery of the Times, of course.) We’re hoping she approves of our homage to her through written word, but her family wishes she was present to proofread our work! We’re sure she’d make more than a few edits! Shirley worked full-time while raising her two daughters, and did not stop until two days before her passing. A feminist at heart, Shirley believed women were the future. The women (and men) in her family were taught by Shirley to fight for what they believe in, no matter what other people think. We hope it’s clear that Shirley led by example.

Shirley loved life and enjoyed a myriad of pastimes. A devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s parish in Pompton Lakes, her faith was with her every step she took. Shirley was a member of Socrates Café and St. Mary’s Social Justice Committee, where she wrote and advocated for equal rights and climate justice. Shirley was always up for a good debate, but never one to tell you you were wrong… unless, of course, you were wrong— that was the educator in her. She loved to advocate for those without voices… this includes the birds and deer in her backyard in Pompton Plains. She religiously fed all animals that showed up at her back porch, even if they ate her flowers!

Shirley found joy in almost everything and everyone in her life: blueberry bran muffins, matzah ball soup at diners, spider plants, peachy lipstick, idioms, and New York City to name a few. Shirley loved seeing musicals with her friends and having her family over for dinner. Shirley had an abundance of love to give, and loved each member of her family the way they needed to be loved. She was always there to call her grandchildren “Darlin’” and host them for sleepovers— as long as they’d play piano with ‘Mimi’ and eat her pancakes in the morning. Trust us, it was our pleasure. She also had an incredible sense of humor, and wasn’t afraid to use a few swear words when it came to her frustrations with technology. In all seriousness, her children, grandchildren and friends already miss her Tony Bennet-singing, intellectual-bantering self. Most of all, they will miss Mimi’s hugs and seeing her wave goodbye from her driveway after a Sunday family dinner. Mimi never missed a ‘wave goodbye’.

Shirley was the loving mother of Rebecca Santaniello and her husband Gerard of Wayne, and Penny Tarpey and her husband Brian of Wayne. Shirley was the most incredible grandmother to Christopher and his girlfriend Andrea, and to Delaney, Tommy and Connor. Shirley is survived by her brother Tom and his wife Eileen of Tamarac, Florida, but her family is confident that she was greeted by her late sister Rita Snyder with a beer and the Sunday paper in the afterlife. She is also survived by many lifelong friends who have been changed for the better because of Shirley.

In lieu of flowers, please send memorial donations in Shirley’s memory to St. Mary’s Food Pantry.

Shirley Boardman

April 19, 2020

Pequannock

Nicholas John Cannizzaro, age 81, passed away on Sunday, April 19, 2020. He was born on February 5, 1939 in Carlstadt, New Jersey to Nicholas and Hazel. He attended Paterson schools and, at the age of 17, Nick enlisted in the United States Army. However, he was discharged five months later on an honorable hardship to help support his family. A few months later, Nick’s brother introduced him to Janet and they were married the following year. Janet was Nicholas’ true love of his life; this was evident to everyone that was lucky enough to know them. Together they had four children, Nicholas and his wife, Viviana, Dianne and her husband Salvatore Giardina, Craig and his predeceased wife Linda, and Christopher and his wife Melissa; grandchildren, Alyssa and Vincent Gareffa, Stephanie, Salvatore, Natalie, and Aiden. He was predeceased by his brothers, Peter Cannizzaro and Donald VanHouton, and survived by his brothers William Cannizzaro, Neil VanHouton, William VanHouton and John VanHouton.

Nick was a truck driver for Wallen Chemical, Brown Chemical and lastly North Jersey Tank Line. He was someone who dedicated 110% to whoever he worked for; this hardworking characteristic shone through until his very last breath. He was always so strong and inspiring.

Nick was so much more than just his hard work though. He loved to travel and explore different places; experiencing life and sharing that with his family. His hobby included his passion for old cars. Buying and restoring, and then showing off his “toys” was something that brought a huge smile to his face. He loved to watch and cheer for (sometimes scream at) the Yankees, but most of all he loved spending time with his family. He was a son and brother who made sure that everyone was taken care of; he was a dedicated father that provided the best life for his four children; Nick was a devoted grandfather, who sometimes acted like he was one of them, which always made the grandchildren laugh. However, his most treasured joy was his wife Janet, and seeing the life they have created together play out in front of him. Their love for each other will never die and will continue to live on in the family who he left behind.

Psalm 23: The Lord Is My Shepherd

The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me beside still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely, goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life, and I shall dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Nicholas Cannizaro

April 19, 2020

Riverdale

Catherine Nestico, (nee Giannetti), passed away on Sunday April 19, 2020.

“Pat”, as she was known, grew up in West Paterson, known today as Woodland Park, with the her sisters and brothers. She resided in Pompton Lakes for fifty years.

From an early age, Pat’s father, Alfred Giannetti would take her to baseball games where she developed a passion for the sport. Pat graduated from Passaic Valley High School, in 1951 and went on to work for Manhattan Shirt Company in Paterson. Later on she worked in the Passaic County Court house in Paterson for 20 years.

Pat met her husband, Patrick Nestico and they married in 1957.

Pat had a generous heart, with a no nonsense personality that was often on display. After retirement, Pat lived a full and busy life spending time on Cape Cod with her granddaughters, taking long rides into the country and, loving the lights on Broadway where she loved checking off all the plays she had the privilege of seeing.

Pat was predeceased by her husband Patrick Nestico, her daughter Kathryn Nestico, her son-in-law Eric Helm, her sister Josephine and husband John Landorio, and her brother Salvatore Gainnetti and wife Peggy. She is survived by her daughter Jean Helm, son-in-law Jeff Kolibas, two granddaughters: Rachael and Caroline; her two sisters: Sandra Turula and husband Vincent, and Millie Lixie and husband Francis; her brother Samuel Gianetti and wife Anita; numerous nieces and nephews; and her dear friend Sue Main and her loving family.

Catherine “Pat” Nestico

April 19, 2020

Bloomingdale

Stephen Sakovits of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on April 18, 2020 at the age of 90. Stephen is survived by his son Steven, daughter-in-law Barbara, his daughter Christine, son-in-law Robert, and grandchildren Matthew, Amanda and Caroline. Stephen was predeceased by his wife Theresa, his sister Rose, and his brothers John and Louis.

Stephen was born on June 30, 1929, to his parents John and Rosalia on a farm in Szentpéterfa, Hungary. As a young man Stephen rebelled against the Communist government in Hungary by smuggling individuals oppressed because of their religion or ethnicity across the border to Austria. After having spent time in a Hungarian military work camp, Stephen decided to leave his parents behind, escape from behind the Iron Curtain and he fled under gun fire across the border to Austria.

After spending a brief time in Austria, Stephen followed his brothers and immigrated to the United States, living in New York City for a period. He met his future wife Theresa a few years later and moved to New Jersey to raise a family; first living in Elmwood Park and then Wayne, New Jersey.

Stephen loved his work as a layout man for Tolan Machinery building stainless steel tanks for pharmaceutical and food processing companies across the United States and for NASA in support for the Apollo space program. Stephen was a devoted family man, he enjoyed watching a good soccer game, loved to work around the house and in his garden.

In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made to the Alzheimer's Association in the memory of Stephen Sakovits at http://act.alz.org/goto/stephen_sakovits.

Pictures of Stephen as his family can be found at https://photos.app.goo.gl/8zfaQPifZRHQz2WF8 .

Stephen Sakovits

April 18, 2020

Joyce A. Doyle passed away on April 17, 2020 of aspiration pneumonia.

Joyce was born in Kearny, New Jersey to Robert and Margaret McCombs. She was raised in Bloomfield, New Jersey with her brother Robert and sister Margaret McCombs.

In high school, Joyce met and later married Thomas Nych. The couple moved to Byram, New Jersey and started Lockwood Farms Garden Center. They ran the business together until they were divorced. While married, Joyce and Thomas had two loving children, Brenda and Steven Nych.

Joyce later met and married Walter Doyle, and moved to Wayne, New Jersey. She helped Walter build his family business which supplied the metal finishing industry. Joyce loved to travel with Walter both for business and pleasure. Their business travel took them through the Midwest, Northeast, Southeast, Texas and California. She also enjoyed spending many happy days at their family apartment in St. Marten.

Joyce is survived by her husband Walter of 31 years, daughter Brenda Brailey and her husband Ron, and Steven Nych and his wife Gabriella. She also leaves behind 3 grandchildren, Jesse and Crystal Brailey and Natalia Nych. Joyce also leaves behind a second family from her husband Walter Doyle, a stepson Brian Doyle and his fiancé Kristee Nyugen and Jennifer Doyle and her husband Christopher Wilson. She had 3 step grandchildren: Connor and Lucas Doyle and Charles Wilson.

Joyce spent considerable time in hospitals over the years. Her esophagus had to be replaced when she was 39. Although it saved her life at the time, she would later experience many bouts of pneumonia from reflux and the resulting aspiration into her lungs.

In spite of all of her medical problems, Joyce had a wonderful outlook on life. She lived it one day at a time and loved to shop. She had excellent taste in clothing and enjoyed finding designer clothes on sale. She took pride in her appearance and made sure her clothes matched and were color coordinated from head to toe, a lesson she learned well from her aunt Millie. She also enjoyed spending time decorating their home. Joyce loved animals and her two yorkie’s Spike and Sabrina will surely miss her greatly.

Joyce will be remembered most for her beautiful smile, great sense of humor and most of all her love and concern for her family. Donations can be made in her memory to the ASPCA and St. Jude’s Childrens Hospitals.

Joyce Doyle

April 17, 2020

Margaret Elizabeth Ireland (nee Yust) age 93 of Pompton Plains died on Wednesday, April 15, 2020 from Covid-19. She lived in Wyckoff, NJ for over 50 years prior to her move to Pompton Plains.

Margaret (known as Peggy) was born in Philadelphia, PA to Harry S. Yust and Margaret E. Tutwiler, but raised in Westville, NJ. She graduated from Woodbury High School where she played the drums in the Woodbury Drum and Bugle Corp. and clarinet in the Woodbury Orchestra. Upon graduation she was employed by the Philadelphia National Bank in the foreign currency department.

Peggy noticed a handsome drum major of a rival high school band and asked a friend who he was. They were introduced a few weeks later. His name was John Paul Ireland Jr. and they had their first date roller skating Friday night and on Saturday night attended the Paulsboro High School Dance. They married on September 9, 1950 at St. Paul’s Methodist Church in Paulsboro, NJ, honeymooned at Lake George, NY and Lake Winnipesauke, NH. John Paul Ireland Jr. predeceased Peggy in April, 2012 after 61 years of marriage.

Peggy enjoyed bowling, dancing and traveling the world with her husband. She was a member of the Eastern Star for over 50 years and they spent much of their time supporting the Shriners organization.

She was the loving mother of Paul Ireland and his wife Sherry of Wayne and Margaret “Betsy” Kiess and her husband Michael of Villas, NJ. Peggy was the cherished grandmother of Matthew Kiess, Caitlin Kiess and Carly Kiess Pacifici and husband Adriano and Sean Ireland and Ryan Ireland. She had one great grandson Luca Pacifici. She was also the loved sister of the late Harry T. Yust.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Shriner’s Hospitals for Children, Office of Development, 2900 Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607 would be appreciated.

Margaret E. Ireland

April 15, 2020