Barbara J. Nolan, age 92, of Lincoln Park passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 18, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Paterson and raised in Hawthorne, NJ. Barbara graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1950.

Her first job was working at Kresge’s in Paterson where she was hired as a cashier during the holidays. Soon after high school Barbara entered Nursing School at the Englewood Hospital’s Nursing program. In 1953 she worked at that hospital’s newborn nursery, then at a pediatrician practice in Englewood, and later a newborn nursery at Valley Hospital in Ridgewood. Barbara went on to have three children, James, Thomas, and Nancy, and made a career choice to care for her own family. When her youngest, Nancy, was about thirteen years old Barbara got tired of watching soap operas and began working as a substitute school nurse with the Wayne Board of Education. She found school nursing very rewarding and became a part-time nurse for Wayne Valley High School. Soon she transitioned to full-time school nurse at George Washington Middle School in Wayne. After twenty years there she retired in 1996.

Barbara sang swing era music with the Roy Meyer Swingers, a modern harmony choral group based in Oakland. This was a big part of her life for about 40 years and blessed her with many friends. She also enjoyed dancing with the Best Foot Forward Dance Troupe who would tap dance for veteran groups, seniors, and at area nursing homes. Her life partner for 24 years, Charlie Nunzio, asked her to join the troupe. Already into ballroom dance, she wanted to learn tap dancing since she was a little girl. Charlie would prove to be a worthy ballroom dance partner and a much-loved companion.

Barbara was an active parishioner of Saint Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes. She volunteered at the church’s Food Pantry, knit for the Shawl Ministry, and was active with the Christian care-giving Stephen Ministry of the church. Barbara also applied her listening and nursing skills by volunteering with a hospice program. In her spare time, she took a flower arranging course at a community college and enjoyed working with and arranging plants and flowers. One of her greatest joys was food, and Barbara was a fabulous cook and even better baker. Her special touch on Kilkenny Corned Beef, raspberry bars, and all types of desserts will be greatly missed. She also ministered with her baking, bringing her kitchen creations to church functions and the hospice patients she visited.

Barbara is survived by her two sons; Thomas Nolan and his wife Stacey of Wayne, NJ, and James Nolan of Boca Raton, FL, one daughter Nancy Nolan of Pompton Lakes, NJ, three grandchildren; Ceara Nolan of Wayne, NJ, Shayla Nolan of Wayne, NJ, and Haley Nolan of Ft Lauderdale, FL, one niece Susan Gilpin, and one nephew Robert Gilpin. She was predeceased by her brother Robert Gilpin, and her parents Francis and Edith Gilpin.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to donate in Barbara’s name are asked to consider St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes

Martin Dekker, Jr., age 87, of Fairfield, NJ, died peacefully at home on Wednesday, December 18, 2024. He was in the comforting presence of his loving family at the time of his passing.

Martin was born in Paterson, NJ and grew up in Clifton, graduating from Clifton High School in 1955.

Martin was predeceased by his loving parents, Martin and Catherine (Hoogmoed) Dekker, his stepmother Nellie Hook and his two dear sisters: Mrs. Nellie Baum and Mrs. Johanna Vander Weile.

Martin served his country in the U.S. Army from 1957 to 1959. He was employed in the savings and loan business as a mortgage executive for many years. More recently he was actively engaged in the courier business until retiring in 2015.

Martin was a life-long member of the Netherlands Reformed Congregation in Clifton where he served on the consistory for 32 years, taught Bible Class for 52 years and also served as a catechism teacher.

Martin was the beloved husband of Carol (Post) Dekker, blessed by God in marriage for 63 years. He was the loving father of Edward M. Dekker and his wife Terri, and Caryn R. and husband Richard Van Sweden, and he was the cherished grandfather of Jessica Van Sweden, Kyle Van Sweden, Ryan E. Dekker, and Abigail L. Dekker.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Martins’ name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Netherlands Reformed Christian School

164 Jacksonville Road

Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

Operation Kindness, NJ

23 Quaker Church Road

Andover, NJ 07821

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Martin Dekker, Jr.

Eugene “Gene” Ingrassia, age 88 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Tuesday, December 17, 2024.

Born in Newark, NJ on October 23, 1936, to the late Anthony and Mary (nee LaVecchia) Ingrassia, Gene was raised in Irvington, NJ. He graduated from Irvington High School with the class of 1954 and attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, graduating with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Mechanical Engineering in 1958. In 1963, after attending evening classes at the Newark College of Engineering (now NJIT), he received a Masters of Science Degree in Electrical Engineering and obtained his Professional Engineering License in NJ. In 1978, after attending the weekend program at Fairleigh Dickenson University in Rutherford, he received his Masters Degree in Business Administration.

Gene started his career at Kearfott in Clifton and Little Falls, NJ, where he met the love of his life, Patricia Grale. They married on June 7, 1964, and moved to Wayne, NJ, living there for over fifty years at four different locations. Their son, Jeffrey, was born in 1966 and daughter, Christie, in 1969, both in Wayne. Gene and Pat celebrated sixty years of marriage together this past June.

Gene and Pat had made a decision early in their marriage to place family ties first. This greatly influenced his work life in that despite many opportunities, they never relocated outside of New Jersey.

Besides Kearfott, he held positions of ever-increasing responsibility at Litton Industries/Monroe/Litton Business Systems in Orange and Pine Brook, NJ; Pyrotronics, Div. of Borg-Warner in Cedar Knolls, NJ; and at Cerberus/Siemens Building Technologies in Florham Park, NJ, retiring in 2001. These companies were involved in manufacturing products in a wide variety of markets, including guidance systems for aircraft and missiles, computer accounting systems, and fire protection systems for hi-rise buildings. He was promoted from Project Engineer to Project Manager to Director of Engineering to Vice President of Product Development, all in various high technology operations, but remained in New Jersey, living in only two towns his entire life; Irvington and Wayne. Gene never lived more than thirty miles from where he was born.

Gene enjoyed regular exercise, including long walks and working out at the Wayne WMCA, where he was a member since 1980. He also served for many years as a member of the Wayne Planning Board and Wayne Environmental Committee. For over ten years, he was a Board member of his townhouse community; Manitou Homeowners Association, and six years as the President.

Besides being the loving husband to Patricia, he was a devoted father to Jeffrey Ingrassia and his wife Regina of Red Bank, NJ and Christie Vanaria and her husband Matthew of Pompton Plains, NJ.  He was a cherished grandfather to Sierra Schwartz – Benedetto and her husband James, Michelle Vanaria, John Vanaria and step grandchildren Elizabeth Barham, Robert Barham and his wife Caitlyn. He was also a loving uncle to 7 nieces and nephews. He predeceased by his brothers; Archie and Anthony Ingrassia, his sister Frances Iezzi, and his nephew Christopher Noble Ingrassia.  

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to make a donation to your favorite charity.

John R. Redinger

September 21, 1962 – December 16, 2024

John R. Redinger, a beloved husband, father, brother, uncle, and friend to many, passed away on December 16, 2024. Born on September 21, 1962, he was the son of the late Dorothy and Ruel Redinger of Avon Lake, Ohio.  He was preceded in death by his sister, Lynne Harmon, and his father-in-law, Roger Swajger.

John graduated from Avon Lake High School in 1981, where he played football. He earned his Bachelor of Science in Business from Ohio University and was a proud member of Beta Theta Pi fraternity. After graduation, John began his career with DialAmerica’s management program, which took him to Greenville, South Carolina, and Northern New Jersey, where he met his wife, Nancy (née Swajger). Together, they built a life in Ramsey, NJ, raising their two sons, Jack and Colin.

A successful businessman, John rose to the position of Chief Marketing Officer at DialAmerica and later served as Chief Revenue Officer for another company. Known for his outgoing nature, quick wit, and sharp sense of humor, John had a gift for making people feel at ease. He surrounded himself with an eclectic group of friends, each drawn to his warmth and engaging personality.

John loved connecting with people, often forming his strongest relationships on the golf course. For him, golf was less about the score and more about the conversations, stories, and camaraderie it inspired. His ability to listen, ask thoughtful questions, and tell captivating stories made him truly one of a kind.

John was incredibly generous, often going out of his way to offer guidance and support to family and friends. As a father, he was deeply devoted to his sons, Jack and Colin, instilling in them his values, endless drive, and love.

John lived life to the fullest, though it was far too short. He had a passion for good food, fine wine, golf, and rock and roll—especially the Rolling Stones. Above all, John cherished his family, who were the center of his world.

He is survived by his wife Nancy, sons Jack and Colin, mother-in-law Alice Swajger, siblings Christopher and Tammy Redinger, Nancy Geagea, Mark and Sharon Swajger, Keith and Judy Swajger, Glenn and Jennifer Swajger, and many beloved nieces and nephews, including Emeline, Elias, Mary, Anthony, Bradley, Amanda, Leanne, Kate, Julia, Erin, Ben, Matt, Alex, Gabriel, and Ryleigh.

John’s memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him. He will be deeply missed.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Suzanna Buriani-DeSantis, a beloved resident of Wayne, NJ. Suzanna was born on August 7, 1946, and left us with cherished memories and a legacy of compassion and dedication. She was the beloved daughter of Arnold and Anna Burian.

Suzanna dedicated her career to serving the community, most notably as the County Representative for the State of New Jersey Division of Pensions and Benefits. Her passion for social work and her commitment to helping others were evident in her many years of service at the Passaic County Board of Social Services, where she tirelessly worked to assist individuals in accessing social programs provided by the city and state.

A devout Catholic, Suzanna found solace and strength in attending services at Our Lady of Consolation Church. Her faith was a guiding force throughout her life.

Suzanna had a deep love for rescue dogs and always had one by her side. She cherished the companionship and unconditional love they brought to her life.

Suzanna was married to Edmond Angelo DeSantis for many years, who passed away in 2012. Their union was a source of joy and strength for her.

Outside of her professional achievements, Suzanna found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She loved spending time in the green mountains of Vermont and the warm, sandy beaches of St. Croix. Seaside Heights was another favorite destination, where she enjoyed the oceanfront and the beauty of the shore.

Even after her retirement, Suzanna remained passionate about teaching and learning. She continued to attend conferences and maintain her credentials, demonstrating her lifelong commitment to education and personal growth. Suzanna was always fiercely competitive, constantly pushing herself to do more and achieve greater heights.

Suzanna is survived by her brother, Arnold Burian, who mourns her loss and celebrates the remarkable life she led.

Her compassion, dedication, and love for others will be remembered by all who knew her. Suzanna's legacy of service and kindness will continue to inspire us.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to a local animal shelter.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gary Miller, age 67, of West Milford, NJ.  Gary passed away peacefully on Friday, December 13, 2024, while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gary was born in Paterson, NJ and grew up in West Milford.  He was one of eight children to Russell and Mary Miller.  Gary attended West Milford High School where he graduated with the class of 1975.  Following his high school graduation, Gary decided to take a different path than most of his peers. Instead of pursuing a traditional job or further education, he ventured into self-employment, starting his own cleaning business. With determination and a strong work ethic, Gary began offering cleaning services to local banks in his community.

Several years later, Gary received an opportunity to become a welder.  He worked for a few different companies including Titanium Industries located in the Northern New Jersey area.  While employed there as a skilled welder, Gary worked on a project that played a crucial role in a collaborative project with NASA, contributing his expertise to the precision manufacturing of components for space exploration.

Although Gary remained a skilled welder the rest of his life, he left his welding position behind and became a Union Mechanic working for Mid-Atlantic Forklift in Edison, NJ.  Gary’s career with Mid-Atlantic Forklift spanned a period of more than twenty years until his retirement on October 28, 2001.  Although retiring at an early age, Gary took on countless odd jobs for the rest of his life.

While living in West Milford, Gary welcomed the births of his two sons, Brian, and David.  Gary enjoyed taking his sons fishing, watching Nascar, Indy racing, and professional football.  His greatest passion, however, was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gary than spending time with his children and grandchildren.  Gary was not only devoted to his children, but also to his Catholic Faith.  He was a parishioner of St Joseph Roman Catholic Church in West Milford for many years. In 2015, tragedy struck Gary’s life when his son David passed away suddenly and unexpectedly.  

Gary was a kind-hearted man who was always able to “see the good in people.”  He was truly trusting of people, some would say almost to a fault.  Gary touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Gary is survived by his son Brian Miller and his wife Valerie of Scotch Plains, NJ, five grandchildren; Zoey Miller of Scotch Plains, NJ, Aurora Miller of Scotch Plains, NJ, Tyler Miller of West Milford, NJ, Jacob Miller of West Milford, NJ, and Adam Miller of West Milford, NJ, five brothers; Russell Miller and his wife Jackie of South Carolina, Bob Miller of South Carolina, Jim Miller of South Carolina, Mark Miller of Virginia, and Richard Miller of West Milford, NJ, two sisters; Chris Majcen and her husband Gus of Virginia, and Nancy Lowe and her husband Gene of Wayne, NJ.  He is also survived by his mother Mary Miller of Wayne, NJ.  Gary was predeceased by his son David in 2015.

Dorothy (Dot) Elsie Powley, 87, of The Villages, FL, passed away peacefully at home on December 11, 2024, surrounded by her family.  She was born on November 16, 1937, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania to Joseph and Gertrude A. (Schuster) Schultheis.  She married Dr. Kenneth A. Powley in 1959, with whom she shared an incredible 65 years and raised two sons.

Dot graduated from Temple University in 1957 with a Certificate in Dental Hygiene Education. She worked in several dental offices before helping her husband, Ken, set up his dental practice in their home at Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey.  While her focus was a stay-at-home mom, she filled in at the dental practice when needed.  

Dot was amazing at crafts, especially flower arranging.  She was a gifted painter and wreath maker as well.  She always made it look so easy!  Dot was very active in clubs at Packanack Lake, including the Welcome Wagon, Hospital Auxiliary, and the Garden Club.  After spending many winters in The Villages, Ken and Dot made The Villages their permanent home in 2016.  They thoroughly enjoyed their time in Florida by joining clubs, attending concerts, dining out, playing golf, and getting together with their many good friends.

Dot is survived by her brother, Edward W. Schultheis of Fort Walton Beach, FL; her son John Powley and wife Melanie of Frisco, TX; her daughter-in-law Ellen Powley of Wayne, NJ; and six grandchildren: Mary, Ken, Troy (and wife Courtney), Sharon, Nathan, and Jennifer.  She was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. Kenneth A. Powley, her brother Franz Schultheis, and her son Kenneth A. Powley, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Dot to Packanack Community Church, 120 Lake Drive East, Wayne, NJ 07470 or to the United Church of Christ at The Villages, P.O. Box 194, Oxford, FL 34484.

Jerry Di Santo, age 77, of Hewitt, passed Tuesday, December 10, 2024, with the comfort of family by his side.

Jerry was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. He attended Central High School and worked locally in maintenance and management services for many years, most recently maintaining plants at a local nursery. Jerry spent most of his adult life at his home in Hewitt, where he moved 35 years ago with his then wife Debbie Smith.

Jerry served in the United States Air Force as a sergeant, having toured overseas in Japan during The Vietnam War. Jerry was a true patriot and always took tremendous pride in his time serving in The Air Force.

Jerry was known for his sense of humor and quick wit, often a source of laughter for his friends and family. He lived a peaceful lifestyle, enjoying the nature surrounding him at home in his backyard and taking advantage of his proximity to Wawayanda State Park, often walking his dogs through the trails. Jerry was a devout animal lover, always attentive and kindhearted towards his numerous dogs and birds.

Jerry was predeceased by his wife Debbie, who passed in 2018, his brother-in-law Peter Geanoules and his parents Bertha Shupin and Nicholas Di Santo. Jerry was a devoted brother to Paul Di Santo and Joann Geanoules, as well as a cherished brother-in-law to Sandy Di Santo. He was a beloved Uncle to his nieces Nicole Iacolina-Alta and Angela Cleveland, and his nephews Marc and Peter Geanoules.

Donations to Ramapo Bergen Animal Refuge Inc. at rbari.org in honor of Jerry would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Bettina Migliore (nee Donati), age 86, of Wayne, NJ.

Bettina passed away on Monday, December 9, 2024 while in the loving care of her family. She was born in Mount Vernon, NY to Mario and Florence Donati, then spent most of her childhood in Paterson, NJ after the family relocated.

Immediately following her graduation from Central High School, Bettina attended Montclair Teachers' College in Montclair, NJ, now known as Montclair State University.  She earned her degree in 1959 as well as her teacher’s certification.  Bettina found employment quickly with Eastside High School in Paterson as an English Teacher.  She later left Eastside High School and accepted a position with Little Falls Board of Education.  Bettina remained with the Little Falls Board of Education employed as a fourth-grade teacher, which was her "favorite grade to teach."  She was truly well-respected and loved by her peers and her students. Bettina remained a dedicated schoolteacher until her retirement in 1998.

While a student in high school, Bettina met a handsome young man by the name of Jim Migliore.  The two attended the senior prom together and afterwards, Jim asked her to “go steady.”  As fate would have it, they fell in love, and on June 25, 1960 Jim and Bettina exchanged wedding vows at St. Michael’s Church in Paterson becoming husband and wife.

Not long after getting married, Jim and Bettina moved to Little Falls where they welcomed the birth of their only daughter, Beth on December 9, 1964.  Shortly after the birth of their daughter, Bettina decided to put her career on hold and take on the role of a full-time homemaker.  She spent the next decade caring for and raising her daughter.  After her daughter Beth had grown up, Bettina returned to the workforce as a full-time teacher again.  In 1984, the family moved to West Paterson, now known as Woodland Park. They resided there for the next fifteen years until moving to Four Seasons in Wayne in 1999, where they were one of the original owners in the development.

Being a teacher, it came to no one’s surprise that Bettina was an avid reader.  Over her lifetime, Bettina read over two thousand books, mostly fiction.  She was a woman who found solace in the pages of books, a passion she carried with her until the very end of her life.  Those who knew Bettina best knew that her true passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Bettina than spending time with her husband, daughter, and especially her granddaughter Kara.  Bettina was a warm and loving individual.  She treasured spending time with her family, helping with her granddaughter, and playing board games with her friends and neighbors.  She and her husband Jim cherished fifty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together until Jim's passing in 2015.

Bettina was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her, including the thousands of students she taught over her career.  She will be truly missed by everyone that knew her.

Bettina is survived by her daughter Beth Silvestri and her husband Al of Wayne, NJ, her brother Joseph Donati and his wife Ellen of Madison, NJ, and one granddaughter Kara Silvestri.  She was predeceased by her husband Jim Migliore in 2015.

For those who prefer a charitable contribution to flowers, please consider Pancreatic Cancer Action Network, Donation Processing Center, PO Box 5041, Boone, IA 50950-0041.

Elias Anthony Harraka, age 79, passed away on Saturday, December 7, 2024.

Elias, also known as Lou, grew up with his sister Carol in Paterson as the children of Anthony and Antoinette Harraka. After graduating high school, Lou enrolled at Rutgers University and around the same time started what would become a lifelong career at Dorfman Abrams Music. Beginning in a modest position, his loyalty, dedication and talent would eventually earn him a partnership at the firm.

Elias met his future wife, Antoinette, one fateful night and knew right away that she was the girl for him. Shortly after meeting Antoinette, his education at Rutgers was unexpectedly interrupted when he was drafted by the United States Army for the Vietnam War. Lou’s accounting knowledge proved valuable to the Army, leading to a stateside assignment at Fort Bliss, Texas, where he also served in the Military Police Division. After completing his military service, Lou went back to Rutgers University to complete his degree in accounting.

After graduating with his bachelor’s degree in accounting and earning his CPA certification, Antoinette and Elias were married in July 1968. The newlyweds celebrated their marriage with a honeymoon in Paradise Island, Bahamas, before returning home to Paterson. Their family started to grow with the birth of their first son, Louis. As their family grew, Lou and Antoinette moved to Wayne, NJ where they were soon blessed with two more children: Renee and Brian.

Elias will be remembered for his kind and loyal heart. His selfless nature extended beyond his family to strangers in need, a true testament to his generous spirit. While he loved to support his favorite sports teams (the New York Jets and Yankees), his greatest passion was supporting his family. He never missed an opportunity to attend his children’s and his grandchildren’s sporting events with his proud presence a constant on the sidelines. His love for travel was another constant in his life. He loved to share in that joy with his family which led to 40 years of family Aruba vacations. There he enjoyed the salty sea air, warm beaches and of course the restaurants and casinos the island had to offer.

Elias is survived by his wife Antoinette, his sister Carol Kalkan and her spouse Robert, his 3 children: Louis Harraka and his spouse Anju, Renee Kates and her spouse Joseph, and Brian Harraka and his spouse Allison; his 3 nieces: Donna, Dora, and Jennifer; and his 5 grandkids: Anjeli, Brandon, Matthew, Nicole, and Nicholas.

Elias is predeceased by his parents Anthony and Antoinette Harraka.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Tunnel to Tower’s Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Sadie Beck, age 90, of Galloway. NJ, formerly of Wayne, passed Friday, December 6, 2024.

She was born in Paterson to Charles and Rose Seminerio and raised in the City of Paterson.  Sadie attended High School in Paterson.  

During her young working years Sadie held several jobs: one where she helped manufacture television sets as well as working at the Marcal Paper Plant in Paterson.  Having married just after high school Sadie followed her husband Al, who had joined the United States Navy, and was stationed in Massachusetts where she found work at the Welsh’s Chocolate Factory in Boston.

Sadie and Al met at the Paterson Rec Center’s roller rink.  Al fell in love with Sadie the moment he laid eyes on her.  In his high school yearbook, he even captioned his photo by saying someday he would marry Sadie. Sadie Seminerio and Al Beck were married on April 12, 1953, at St Michael Church in Paterson, NJ. Sadie and Al had a marriage that was blessed with three children: Vincent, Regina, and Angela.  They were together for sixty-two years before Al’s passing in 2014.

Sadie was a woman who held family close to her heart, coming from a large and loving family herself.  Her passion for cooking and baking made her an exceptional homemaker, known for her delicious carrot cake, meatballs, and sauce that were unrivaled. Her signature sauce, cooked in a pot lovingly named Big Ben, was a staple at family gatherings. She always made sure that her door was open to family, friends and neighbors where she would cook for each and every one of them.

In addition to her culinary talents, Sadie was meticulous with her financial management skills as she could balance her checkbook to the penny without the need for a calculator.  Sadie found joy in crocheting, often creating beautiful blankets for family members’ newborns with care and love. She also indulged in painting and ceramics, showcasing her artistic flair.  Known for her considerate nature, Sadie always put others first, showing genuine concern for their well-being. She always wanted to make sure that everyone was safe and happy.

Sadie’s love for animals knew no bounds, particularly her fondness for dogs that had been a constant source of joy to her and her family throughout the years.  Among her cherished pets is a doubly yellow Amazon parrot, now 40 years old, whose vibrant presence added a unique charm to her home.  This wise parrot can talk and picked up amusing sayings like “what the hell” from Sadie.

Sadie’s bond with her feathered companion was a testament to her nurturing spirit and deep connection with all creatures, big and small.  The parrot’s quirky phrases and endearing antics brought laughter and warmth to Sadie’s home, creating a lively and vibrant atmosphere filled with love and companionship.

Sadie was the loving and devoted wife of the late Al Beck (d.2014); devoted mother of Vincent Beck and his wife Karen of Manalapan, Regina Beck of Galloway, and Angela Duva and her husband John of Stockholm, NJ; she was the cherished grandmother of Melissa Duva, Lisa Sweeny, and Lindsay Donnelly; she as the dearly loved great-grandmother of Brooke Hough, Gabby Sweeny, Danny Sweeny, McKenzie Sweeny, Trevor Donnelly and Julie Donnelly.  Sadie was predeceased by her siblings: Joe Seminerio, Frank Seminerio, and Ida LaGatta.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the ASPCA would be greatly appreciated.

Paul Simonetti, age 94, of Haledon, passed peacefully at home on Friday, December 6, 2024.

He was born in Paterson to Anthony and Mary Simonetti. Paul was raised in Paterson and attended Paterson Vocational and Technical High School.

Paul worked at A&P grocery stores in Paterson, in the dye house industry for a few years, and then joined the United States Air Force. For the last fifteen years of his working life, he worked for the North Jersey District Water Supply Commission at the Wanaque Reservoir as a Maintenance and Construction Foreman. He officially retired in 1992.

In 1951, Paul joined the United States Air Force and was a Drill Instructor at Sampson Air Force Base in Geneva, New York. Paul was involved with sports of all kinds, including baseball, basketball, and softball, winning many base championships. He was Honorably Discharged from the Air Force on May 14, 1955, attaining the rank of Staff Sergeant. For his service he was awarded the Good Conduct Medal and the National Defense Service Medal.

Paul exemplified honor and integrity. He embodied kindness in every action, displaying a gentle demeanor alongside a remarkable strength and resilience. Paul’s capacity for forgiveness and generosity was boundless, often giving selflessly. His unwavering bravery and courage shone through even in the face of adversity, making him a true symbol of resilience. Despite a challenging medical history, Paul never uttered a word of complaint, facing his struggles with grace and determination.

Paul’s devout Catholic faith was the cornerstone of his life. His heart resonated with the teachings and values of the Catholic Church, guiding his actions and decisions. Paul found solace and strength in his devotion to the Sacred Heart, drawing comfort from its symbolism of love and compassion. Saint Anthony held a special place in his prayers, as he sought intercession and guidance in times of need. Paul’s spiritual connection to these revered figures shaped his character and inspired him to live a life guided by faith and compassion. Furthermore, Paul was a man of unparalleled fairness, common sense, and wisdom, and he was always there to guide and assist anyone who sought his help.

Paul’s life took a beautiful turn when he met the love of his life Anna Marie Farina. Ann saw Paul while he was working at the A&P on 21st Avenue in Paterson, and she thought he was the most handsome man she had ever seen. After a first date to a Paterson Crescents basketball game at the Paterson Armory, they soon fell in love. Ann would often go to the Sandy Hill Soccer Field in Paterson and watch Paul play soccer. Ann and Paul’s relationship stood the test of his being called to serve in the Air Force, and Paul proposed marriage to Ann while he was still in the service. Ann and Paul were married at St Anthony’s Church in Paterson on November 14, 1953. Paul was a devoted husband who stood by Ann unwaveringly, always ready to protect and support her. He had a natural instinct to be her shield and to help her stay focused and calm in challenging moments. Paul enjoyed the art of cooking and baking many things from scratch, including pasta and sauces. Paul and Ann have had a loving and devoted relationship of over seventy-one years.

Paul was a man who found joy in the simplicity of life’s pleasures, particularly his love for movies and television, travel, sports, and keeping up on the latest news to keep his mind sharp and engaged. Trips to the casinos and restaurants of Atlantic City were cherished moments for Paul and Ann. His quest for the perfect pizza and discovering charming Italian restaurants brought him joy, as did the simple pleasure of going out for breakfast.

In addition to being survived by Ann, Paul was the youngest of five children and was predeceased by his beloved brothers Emil Simonetti and Rudolph Simonetti and his beloved sisters Delma Cuccinello and Lena Martinelli. He loved and was loved by his very large extended family. Indeed, Paul dearly loved his many nieces and nephews, and he had a special place in his heart for his nephew Patrick Zaretski, niece Kathy Zaretski, and his great-niece Nicole Zaretski. Paul’s impact on everyone’s lives, friends and family, was profound, leaving a lasting legacy of love and fond memories that will be eternally remembered.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated.

Donald D. Dunn, age 90, of Passaic, NJ and formerly of Clifton, passed away on Thursday, December 5, 2024.

Born in Paterson, NJ, Donald was one of James and Marie (Belsser) Dunn’s four sons.  He was a machinist for many years with Curtis-Wright Corporation.

Donald was predeceased by his first wife Katherine, his daughter Linda Pavlick, his son Donald M. Dunn, and his brother John “Jean” Dunn. He is survived by his second wife Antoinette Dunn, his son Charles Dunn and wife Dawn; six grandchildren: Michael and wife Kiersten, Christopher and husband Garry, Cynthia and husband James, Catherine, Charles, Jr. and Steven and wife Denise; seven great-grandchildren: Steven, Johnathan, Aenoxie, Michael, Sophia, Kyle, and David; his two brothers: August James Dunn and Eugene Dunn: his three step-children: John, Michael, and Isabella “Donna”; and ten step-grandchildren: Claryssa, Justin, Ashleigh, Kassidy, Anthony, Jonathan, Maddalena, Lucia, Meilo, and Antoinette.

April 24, 1932 - December 5, 2024  

Polo Mihali passed away peacefully on December 5, 2024, in Wayne, New Jersey, surrounded by his loving family. He was 92 years old.

Born on April 24, 1932, in the village of Krinë, Albania, Polo carried a deep love for his hometown throughout his life. During his childhood, he, his mother, Amalia, and sister Marina, went through difficult times together due to the Second World War, as their home was burned down by Occupation forces and the three were left with little to eat. Their grit and tight bond as a family got them through these times, instilling the values of family and hard work in Polo that he would honor and emulate for the rest of his life.  

He served as the Commissioner of Animal Husbandry for the government of Albania for 30 years, dedicating his career to the development and improvement of the nation's agricultural sector. Polo loved traveling, gardening, and writing. A man of few words, Polo expressed his devotion for his homeland, family and friends by writing poetry.

At the age of 21, he met his wife, Katerina, with whom he would spend the next 70 years. Their enduring partnership was an inspiration to all who knew them. Together, they filled their home with laughter and music, performing original duets at family gatherings and participating in fierce dominos tournaments.  

In 1992, following his father’s footsteps, Polo immigrated with his family to the United States, where he continued to work until he retired at the age of 78.

Always a man of action, Polo could rarely be found sitting still. His curious mind and handy nature led him to constantly tinker with gadgets and machinery, from rewiring the toaster when an indicator light went out, taping headsets back together, and keeping meticulous notebooks of instructions from his grandchildren on how to use the latest computer programming.

Polo's legacy lives on through his wife, Katerina, three children, Aida, Aneta, and George, eight grandchildren, Mariela, Blerta, Valbona, Stela, Gent, Apostolos, Katerina, and Efthymia, and three great-grandchildren, Stevie, Marlow, and Jack Jr., who brought him immense happiness in his later years.

A beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend, Polo will be deeply missed by all who knew him. His warmth, love, and dedication to both family and country will continue through the generations he leaves behind.

Martha Ann Plowman, aged 77, a woman of immense strength and kindness, left us on December 3, 2024 at the PAM Hospital in Sarasota, Florida with her loving family by her side after a courageous battle.

Born to Ann and Kenneth Smith of Wayne, NJ, Martha graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1965. She became a devoted nurse, specializing in geriatric care, who dedicated her life to providing compassionate care to countless patients. She was known for her warm smile and remembered for her unwavering dedication and ability to bring comfort during difficult times.

Martha married the love of her life, Craig, fifty-three years ago on November 27, 1971. Growing by three children and many different pets, our family enjoyed Life on the Lake in Pompton Lakes, NJ for thirty years, spending summers “down the shore” at our condo in Seaside Heights, NJ. Martha loved the beach and water of all kinds and found great peace when she was near it. Naturally, when it was time to retire, she and Craig would find themselves in Venice, Florida where she lived happily with her husband and pets near the waters of the Gulf; palm trees in the yard.

Martha loved animals and she was known to rescue random strays that became pets quite frequently. Animals of all kinds were drawn to her, as if they knew they would be safe around her. Her compassion extended to people as well. She always had enough room for another seat and we often had strangers at our table on Thanksgiving. She was also an avid photographer and our homes are filled with pictures she took herself. The impact she has made on our lives is immense and her presence will be missed immensely. We learned strength from her.

Martha is survived by her husband Craig Plowman of Venice, FL, two daughters: Sandra Small and her husband Stephan of Martinsburg, WV, and Gail DeSantis and her husband Peter of Rivervale, NJ, one son Eric C. Plowman and his wife Kelly of Delanco, NJ, four grandchildren; Sam, Brooke, Kinsley, and Madison, and one sister Karen Rodriguez and her husband Edward of Inverness, FL, her cousin Gail Cahill of Pompton Plains, NJ and her adoring pets, her pup Toby and her bird Maggie.

Andrew "Andy" Sisco, age 82, passed away unexpectedly yet peacefully at home on Monday, December 2, 2024.

Andy was born in Paterson to his father Andrew, a Paterson Police Officer, and his mother Regina, a nurse. Andy was the eldest child and had four younger sisters, Pat, Noreen, Clair and Joann, all of whom he loved and cherished deeply. Andy graduated from St. Mary's High School in 1959, having played on the school's baseball and basketball teams and captained their cross country team.

Andy and his wife, Roberta Reid, met as teenagers, having grown up only two blocks apart in Paterson. They were married at Saint Bonaventure's Church on October 6, 1961 and remained devoted to one another up until the time of Andy's passing. Andy and Roberta were blessed with two sons, Kevin and Kenneth.

Andy dedicated his professional career to the supermarket industry. He started working at the ACME on Union Boulevard in Paterson as a teenager before eventually working his way up to managing a number of supermarkets throughout northern New Jersey. During that time he owned and operated the Royal Economy in Bloomingdale and the Food Barn in Randolph. Andy capped off his career as the owner and operator of an Arnold Bread Route.

Andy was a man of simple pleasures and love for his family. He was a great dad and even better grandfather. Nothing gave him greater joy than spending time with his grandchildren, Maclaine, Brindley, Holly, Drew and Jack. Earlier this year, Andy was blessed with a great-grandson, Kieran, who he would Facetime with on a daily basis.

Simply put, anyone who ever had the pleasure of meeting Andy would all tell you the same thing, he was the best. And they were correct.

Please omit flowers.

Zdenka Genc Pavlovich, age 93, passed peacefully on Sunday, December 1, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She is survived by her two sons, Robert and Davor Pavlovich, nine grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren.

Zdenka was born in Zagreb, Yugoslavia (now Croatia) on March 12, 1931 to Mihael and Dragica Genc. She was the second oldest of six children and is survived by her older sister Mira Martinovich.

Zdenka was born in Zagreb to a poor family from the surrounding mountains. During World War II food and work were not available in the cities. The family suffered greatly, but they all survived. Baka often said that they would split up the little that they had without complaint, and they remained a very close family throughout their lives. According to Mira, Zdenka was a quiet and well-behaved child. She had some ambition to become a nun, but that was discouraged when the communists won the war. She completed school through the eighth grade and then apprenticed as a knitting machine operator. She went to work at the Tresnjaka factory in Zagreb, where she met her best friend, Maria Zidarevic, who was later her maid-of-honor and Davor's godmother.

Zdenka met her husband, Ivan (Ivo) Pavlovich, at dancing school. She had had several proposals for marriage that she rejected. She accepted Ivo's proposal, because they were in love, and because she saw Ivo’s work ethic and ambition. She was already twenty-five, which was considered old for marriage. After they married they lived with her family, but Zdenka dreamed of one day having a home of her own. Their first son, Robert, was born two years later, in September, 1959.

Zdenka and Ivo worked hard in the early years of their marriage. Due to the poor economic situation in Yugoslavia, Ivo went to find work in West Germany as a plumber/sheet metal worker. Zdenka followed soon afterwards, entrusting Robert to his grandparents and aunts in Zagreb. Their goal was to work hard, save money, and build a house in Zagreb. Around 1965 they purchased land in Zagreb and started building a house while still working in West Germany. The couple visited Robert and the rest of the family on holidays. Zdenka moved back to Yugoslavia in 1966 when she was expecting her second son, Davor, who was born in January, 1967. After a few months she returned to West Germany to work and left Davor with caretakers. At the time her sister Mira lived in the U.S. and offered to sponsor the family's immigration. Mira wanted to be close to her sister and for the family to be together. Zdenka was reluctant to leave the country she had always known, especially now that the house in Zagreb was completed, but she was persuaded by her husband and by Mira. Mira continues to remind Baka's daughters-in-law, Laura and Kim, that they should be grateful, because she brought them husbands from Europe.

Zdenka's life in America began when they arrived in New York by steamship on December 5, 1969. The family of four lived with Aunt Mira and Uncle Rudy for several months, along with Rudy's niece, Dragica Francetic, before finding an apartment in Astoria, Queens. Zdenka got a job at a German Lutheran Church in Manhattan, where she cleaned and opened/closed the church for services. She kept that job for twenty years. She was a diligent and dedicated employee, and the Pastor came to rely upon her. The Pastor appreciated that Zdenka spoke German, as well as Croatian and now English. Just four years after immigrating, Zdenka and Ivo had saved enough to purchase a house in Ridgewood, Queens, largely due to Zdenka's economic prudence. Zdenka and Ivo’s sons were raised in this house that they kept through their lives.

Ivo and Zdenka embodied a Horatio Alger story. Ivo used his training in Germany to get a job in the sheet metal industry in New York, and then he bought out his boss and started AWL Industries in 1979, just a decade after arriving in this U.S. The family went months without a paycheck in the early stage to assure that the business would survive. Although Zdenka was not a risk taker, she supported her husband in his plans. Her support behind the scenes was key to Ivo's success. Robert and Davor both went into the family business, and the business is still in the family.

Zdenka valued education and social propriety. She always encouraged her boys to work hard, be respectful, kind, and polite, and to take care of their appearance and reputation. A woman of few words, her care and generosity showed her love. Zdenka became a grandmother ("Baka" in Croatian) in 1985, and from then on she was known by everyone as Baka, a loving grandmother. As her granddaughter Liz wrote, "Baka's love was fierce and unwavering, with lipstick marks all over your cheeks. She paced her days slowly and rhythmically while caring for me when I was a young child. When she hugged, she squeezed too hard, and when she laughed, she scrunched her eyes and looked like she would cry from amusement. As I reached adulthood and faced life’s struggles, she made it known that she only ever wanted was for me and others to be treated well. I felt unconditionally loved in her presence — a precious and comforting connection that one can easily take for granted." Baka and Deda loved all their grandchildren and were the happiest when they were all together.

When Ivo ("Deda" in Croatian) semi-retired, Baka and Deda spent more time in Croatia. Each summer they would invite and sponsor their family for a vacation on one of the Croatian islands. Robert and Davor took advantage of this to reconnect with them. Baka never liked the sun, and she would sit under the trees and play with the grandchildren while Deda would be lying in the blazing sun reading the political newspaper, sleeping or tossing the ball with the kids. In the evening, the three generations would all wash up, have dinner, and listen to a local band. At times Deda would show off his dancing skills by getting his wife out on the dance floor. It was beautiful to watch them together in their element.

Baka was a wonderful cook. She knew many Croatian recipes, but her cooking was also influenced by the years in Germany when she was first married. When granddaughter Liz was little she told her that she should open a restaurant, but Baka was strictly a family cook — every day and especially on the holidays. In her modest kitchen in the house in Queens she turned out amazing three course holiday feasts featuring lasagna, spaetzle, Wiener schnitzel (now Davor's specialty), fried shrimp and calamari, and stuffed cabbage ("sarma," now Hannah's specialty). For dessert there might be almond moon cookies ("kifli," now Kim's specialty) or strudel. She made the yeasty Croatian strudel dough from scratch. She would roll the dough out to cover the whole kitchen table, fill it with walnuts, apples, or poppyseeds, then roll it up and bake it. She made enough strudel in one day to be able to give it away generously. Christmas will never be the same without Baka's strudel.

As much as Baka was an old-school cook — she cracked whole walnuts to make her walnut strudel — she also embraced American convenience foods. She served corn flakes in the morning and rice-a-roni with dinner. When she babysat the grandkids, she gave them packaged ramen noodle soup for lunch so often that the kids started calling it Baka Soup.

After Ivo/Deda passed in December, 2012, Baka became more independent. She took care of the house in Zagreb, spent time with friends, and planned for the future. She continued to be involved with her sons and grandchildren, splitting her time between New York and Zagreb. She moved in with Robert's family for a few months during the Covid shutdowns and isolation. Then she went back to Zagreb under the care of her good friend Mira Falica and granddaughter Hannah. When Mira Falica became too ill herself, it was decided that Baka should return to the U.S. and have more help. Davor and his family offered to take her in, and she had been living with them since January, 2022. She was happy with all the activity at Davor's house and to be part of his family. Kim found caregivers, Yelena and Stephanie, to take care of Baka's daily needs so that her sons could just be sons. Six months ago, Baka broke a hip and then had a stroke. Davor and his family provided comfortable and loving care right to the end when she died at home surrounded by family.

Robert “Bob” Anthony Szal, age 81, of Wayne, passed Sunday, December 1, 2024.

He was the son of Anthony and Jane Szal, of Passaic, and raised in Garfield before the family moved to Elmwood Park.  Bob attended St. Leo’s Elementary School in Elmwood Park before graduating from St. Joseph’s High School in Paterson, with the Class of 1961. He continued his education at Fordham University’s School of Pharmacy in the Bronx, NY, with the Class of 1966.

Bob initially worked for his uncle Anthony, who owned the Steigner Pharmacy on Main Street, in Paterson. He was drafted into the US Army in 1969 and served during the Vietnam War.  While in the Army, a pharmacist assignment was not available, so he volunteered for Graves Registration Duty, where he was tasked with helping to identify human remains.  After he was Honorably discharged from the Army in 1971, he worked as a pharmacist in Englewood, NJ, and then at Plains Pharmacy in Pompton Plains, and at CVS Pharmacy in Wayne, before retiring in 2010.

He was a dedicated man who served as an assistant scoutmaster for Troop 108 at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.  His passion for learning is evident, as he would frequent the Wayne Public Library on almost a daily basis.   Apart from his commitment to scouting and reading, Bob was an avid angler who enjoyed fishing in lakes, ponds, and even some deep-sea fishing at the Jersey shore in Pt. Pleasant and Lavallette.  Bob passed on his love of fishing to his beloved son Bryan, creating a special bond between them through their shared passion for the sport and fishing gear.  Despite his busy schedule, Bob managed to prioritize his family, especially his two granddaughters Juliana and Elena, whom he has lovingly cared for since the day they were born.

Bob was very proud of his Polish heritage, and kept it alive by maintaining his family's many holiday traditions.

Bob, a man of remarkable intelligence and creativity, had a deep passion for gardening that extended to vegetables, flowers, and even trees.  His love for nature was evident in the way he tended to those trees and plants, finding solace in the soil as he nurtured his garden and shared his tomato harvest with many. There was nothing like the taste of tomatoes from the abundance of the Szal Farm crop that Bob lovingly shared with great joy.  Bob’s commitment to sustainability was reflected in his daily composting routine, a practice he diligently followed.  Beyond his green thumb, Bob possessed exceptional crafting skills, especially with his granddaughters, and was known as a proficient fixer of all things broken. He was always ready to lend a hand and help solve any problem that came his way.  His legacy lives on through the beauty he cultivated and the skills he shared with those around him. He was also a devoted dog lover, and recently experienced the heartbreaking loss of his beloved yellow lab, Lacie. Their bond was one of unconditional love and companionship, as Lacie was not just a pet but a cherished member of the family. Despite the grief of losing Lacie, Bob found solace in the joy and love they shared, forever grateful for the special bond they had. Those who knew Bob also knew he had a passion for collecting flashlights, pocketknives, tools, and was one of the biggest lovers of anything LL Bean.

Bob and Marian initially met as children, when Marian was a pianist and soloist at concerts, and he was working as a coat check.  While Bob was in the Army stationed in Virginia, he was re-introduced to Marian by his dear cousin Eleanor Brangan on one of his trips home.  From this point on, Bob would return to New Jersey on weekends to spend time with Marian, gaining many speeding tickets while driving his bright yellow Corvette. There's nothing like speeding home to see the love of his life of 52 years.  Marian and Bob maintained their relationship even after he was sent to Vietnam.  Marian would send him letters and he would correspond back.  Upon his discharge from the military their relationship flourished, and they fell in love.  Bob and Marian married on July 15, 1972, at Saint Joseph’s Church in Passaic, and they honeymooned in Barbados.  After they were married, they lived in Garfield for one year before moving to Wayne over fifty years ago.

Bob was the loving husband of Marian (Halka) Szal; devoted father of Janine (Szal) Paavola and her husband Tommi of Oakland, and Bryan Szal of Ventura, CA; he was the cherished grandfather of Juliana and Elena Paavola.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Our Lady of the Valley Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated (we will have donations cards at the funeral home).

Maria T. Herbst (nee Melz), age 90 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, Nov. 30, 2024.

Maria grew up in Gottschee, a region of Austria. Her formative years were generally pleasant, living on the family farm with her parents, Louis and Theresa, and older brothers Louis Jr. and Joseph. However, the events of World War II changed things, to say the least. They lost their home and became displaced persons, and in the late 1940s, her family made the bold move from Austria to Queens, New York, where other family members had already settled. Her new neighborhood in the Ridgewood section of Queens was largely made up of Austrian immigrants from the Gottschee region. It was here, in Queens, that Maria met Walter Herbst, also from Gottschee. After a brief courtship, they were married in 1956 and began to raise a family together. Walter’s career soon required a move, and they settled in Wayne, New Jersey, in 1965. Maria and Walter were able to travel throughout their 67 years of marriage and returned to visit Austria on several occasions.

Maria was an extremely devoted wife and mother. She cooked fantastic meals every day, drove her sons to all their sporting events and activities, and enjoyed bowling and playing volleyball. She was a lunch-mother at DePaul High School for more than a decade. Maria also had a natural aura that kids gravitated to. Many of her children’s friends adored her and loved spending time at the Herbst house where she made everyone feel like part of the family.  Maria was an extremely selfless person as she always put the needs of her sons and family ahead of her own.

Maria was an exceptional cook and especially enjoyed holiday and weekend family gatherings.    It brought her great pleasure to have her family and friends gather at her home.  She was very close with her brothers and their families as well as her husband’s brother’s family.  

Maria’s grandchildren and great grandchildren brought her to a new level of joy, and she would do anything for each of them. They will never forget the special bond they shared with her, and they will carry those memories throughout their lifetime.

Maria was the glue that lovingly pulled her family together and kept everyone close. She will be dearly missed by all of them.

Maria is survived by her three sons; Walter Herbst and his wife Margaret, James Herbst and his wife Debra, and Robert Herbst; six grandchildren, Michael, Diana, Andrew, Eric, Jackson, Tessa, and eight great-grandchildren, Julia, Emily, Ryan, Norah, Colin, Jonah, Eva, and Noah.  She was predeceased by her husband Walter in 2023, and by both of her brothers.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the CTC Academy, 125 Bauer Drive, Oakland, NJ, 07436, would be appreciated.

Luz Marina, age 61 of Wayne, NJ passed away Saturday, November 30th after a long battle with cancer.

Luz Marina met her life partner, Ruben Dario at the age of 15. She had her first-born son, Juan at the age of 22.

She migrated from Medellin, Colombia with her son in 1987. Her dream was to build a future here for her family. Shortly after, her life partner also migrated and they settled in Union City, NJ where they lived for many years.

In 1989 Luz Marina gave birth to her daughter Catherine. Together, the family worked tirelessly to have a better future.  The family later moved to Wayne, NJ where they finally felt at home.

Luz Marina loved her grandchildren and lived for her children. They meant the world to her. They brought her so much joy in her hardest moments. No matter how she was feeling, when they came to visit her, she had life in her eyes again. She was the strongest person we have ever known. She loved her family and was the glue that kept them all together.

She was a kind soul, a silent giver, and a devoted sister. Her faith was unwavering until the very end. She loved God and turned to prayer to help her through her hardest moments.

She was blessed to be comforted and accompanied by all the people she loved before her soul departed.

We will remember her as she always was: a fierce woman, a loving mother and grandmother, and a loyal partner.

We would like to thank all of our friends and family for your prayers and support during this difficult time.

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Luz Marina, de 61 años, de Wayne, Nueva Jersey, falleció el Sábado 30 de Noviembre después de una larga batalla contra el cáncer.

Luz Marina conoció a su compañero de vida, Rubén Darío, a la edad de 15 años. Tuvo a su primer hijo, Juan Esteban, a la edad de 22 años.

Emigró de Medellín, Colombia con su hijo en 1987. Su sueño era construir un futuro aquí para su familia. Poco después, su compañero de vida también emigró y se establecieron en Union City, Nueva Jersey, donde vivieron durante muchos años.

En 1989 Luz Marina dio a luz a su hija Catherine. Juntos, la familia trabajó incansablemente para tener un futuro mejor. Más tarde, la familia se mudó a Wayne, Nueva Jersey, donde finalmente se sintieron como en casa.

Luz Marina amaba a sus nietos y vivía para sus hijos. Significaban el mundo para ella. Le trajeron mucha alegría en sus momentos más difíciles. No importaba cómo se sintiera, cuando venian a visitarla, volvia a tener vida en sus ojos. Era la persona más fuerte que hemos conocido. Amaba a su familia y siempre la mantuvo unida.

Era un alma bondadosa, una persona que siempre daba en silencio, y una hermana devota. Su fe fue inquebrantable hasta el final. Amaba a Dios y recurrió a la oración para ayudarla en sus momentos más difíciles.

Fue bendecida al ser consolada y acompañada por todas las personas que amaba antes de que su alma partiera.

La recordaremos como siempre fue: una mujer feroz, una madre y abuela amorosa y una compañera leal.

Gracias a todos sus amigos y familiares por el apoyo y oraciones que le brindaron durante todos estos anos.

Joseph “Joe” Colavita, age 85, a fifty-eight-year resident of Wayne, passed Tuesday, November 26, 2024.

He was born to Benjamin and Anna Colavita (nee Mikucka) in the Sandy Hill section of Paterson where the family eventually settled in the Riverside section of the city.  Joe attended Eastside High School showing an interest in art and music.  After high school Joseph briefly served in the US Army Reserves before being discharged on February 28, 1965.  Joe loved to dance and even appeared on the television show American Bandstand a couple of times.

Joe worked as a photo engraver in Paterson. Through the years he has worked at the Nabisco Factory in Fair Lawn, as a truck driver for Interstate Systems and Maislan Trucking both in Carlstadt and was a member of the Teamsters Union Local 560 before retiring in 2000.  Joe and his truck even made a cameo in the 1978 film, An Unmarried Woman.  

Joe met the love of his life Angela DeVito when both were at the wedding of mutual friends in 1961.  They fell in love and married on October 1, 1966 at Saint Andrew’s Church in Clifton.  Joe and Angela honeymooned at Montego Bay, Jamaica and in San Juan, Puerto Rico.  They had a loving and caring marriage that was blessed with three children, five grandchildren and nine cats.

Joe is a man with a heart as big as his love for his family.  Generous and family-oriented, he cherished every moment spent with his loved ones, especially the kids who brought endless joy to his life.  Joe’s sociable nature mirrors the vibrant spirit of the New York Giants, and he could engage effortlessly with others spreading positivity wherever he went.  In his downtime, Joe found solace in nature, and often would watch the National Geographic channel on television.  He loved cars and also enjoyed being an animal shelter volunteer as he always had a deep love for animals. His humorous personality lit up any room, and he was always ready to bring a smile to people’s faces and brighten their day with his laughter.  Joe’s commitment to making others happy is a testament to his kind and compassionate soul.  

Joe was the loving husband of fifty-eight years to Angela (DeVito) Colavita; he was the devoted father of Michael (Stephanie) Colavita of Caldwell, NJ, Christine Hawn (Thomas) of Falls Church, VA, and Melissa (Michael) Escudero of Tega Cay, SC; he was the cherished grandfather of Ethan Hawn, Peter Escudero, Sophia Escudero, Marie Colavita and Caitlyn Colavita. He was the brother of Barbara Donohue of Doylestown, PA, and Marlene DeGennaro of AZ and was an uncle to a host of nieces and nephews.  Joe was predeceased by his parents Benjamin and Anna and brothers-in-laws Henry DeVito, Jr. and Thomas Donohue.

In lieu of flowers please honor Joe’s dedication to animals at https://njshelter.org/donate-form-new/ Mt Pleasant Animal Shelter, 194 NJ-10, East Hanover, NJ 07937. When donating please look for the “Additional Information - Acknowledgment Details” and put “In Memory of Joe Colavita” in the Acknowledgement Details box so the family can be properly notified of your gift.

Barbara Price Rudiger was born on January 12, 1933 to William and Mildred Campbell in Passaic, New Jersey. At the age of 91, Barbara passed from this life and entered to be in the presence of Our Lord on Tuesday, November 26, 2024 while in the loving care of her family.

Barbara is formerly of Wayne, New Jersey and has resided in Englewood, New Jersey for the past two years.

Following graduation from Nutley High School, Barbara attended Katherine Gibbs secretarial school. On February 16, 1951, Barbara and Harry were married. She then moved to Great Lakes, Illinois while Harry served his country in the US Navy. In 1954 the couple returned to Nutley with their first born, Lorraine. A year later Karl was born. The young family moved to East Rutherford, New Jersey and welcomed the births of their next three children, Carol, Karen, and Mark. As the family grew, they moved to Wayne in 1960 where their sixth child, David, was born. The family remained in Wayne for more than twenty years after.

While raising the family in Wayne, Barbara was a Den Mother while her sons were in the Cub Scouts. She also spent several years as a school crossing guard. She enjoyed attending any event her children were participating in.  Barbara also worked at Fette Ford in Sales; she was ranked #1 in sales for the Tri-State area in the late 1970’s paving the path for other women to break through in sales.  In later years, Barbara was the finance manager at the dealership. Yearly family camping trips across the country, visiting forty-two states and many of the country’s national parks were enjoyed over the years.

Following retirement, Harry and Barbara moved to Myrtle Beach where they enjoyed the next twenty years together. The couple eventually moved back to New Jersey to be closer to family. They are members of the Englewood Baptist Church.

Barbara’s greatest passions in life were for her family and for serving the Lord. Barbara was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. They enjoyed 73 years of marriage.

She is preceded in death by her parents, William and Mildred, her loving husband, Harry Rudiger and her brother, Larry G.Hills, Jr.

Barbara is survived by her three daughters; Lorraine Marquez and her husband Mario of Ronda, North Carolina, Carol Rudiger of Montville, New Jersey, and Karen Rudiger of Fort Lee, New Jersey, three sons; Karl Rudiger and his wife Susanne of Charleston, South Carolina, Mark Rudiger and his wife Jamileth of Hackettstown, New Jersey, and David Rudiger and his wife Debby of Clemmons, North Carolina, nine grandchildren; Cynthia Rudiger, Bill Rudiger, Delia Caruso, Julia Hirt, Joseph Caruso, Kristen Rudiger, Kaitlin Rudiger, Nicole Rudiger, and David Rudiger, Jr., and ten great grandchildren; McKenna, Kalleb, Jaxon, Alice, Ashton, Jordon, Madeline, Emily, Brooklyn, and Mason.

The family would like to thank the staff at The Bristal of Englewood where Barbara has resided for the last two years. We also want to thank Englewood Baptist Church for their ministry and extra support to Barbara, especially over the last six months since Harry had passed away.

Janice L. Avolio (nee Decker), age 81 of North Haledon died on Tuesday, November 26, 2024. Born and raised in Wayne, Janice had lived in North Haledon for over forty-five years. She was a beloved wife, mom, grandma, sister, aunt and friend.

Janice had been an elementary school teacher throughout her career, beginning in the public school system before moving on to teach at St. Paul’s Catholic School in Haledon and later at St. George’s Catholic School in Paterson.

Janice was the loving wife of Anthony, loving mother to Michele Pellegrino and her husband Carmen of Wayne, and Anthony and his wife Linda of N. Haledon, and proud grandmother to Angela, Christopher, and Anthony. Janice was predeceased by her sister, Carol Vreeland, in 2020.

Helen Bogucz

March 12, 1928-November 24, 2024

Helen Bogucz, age 96, formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, passed peacefully in her sleep early in the morning of Sunday, November 24, 2024.

Helen was born on March 12, 1928 in Paterson, New Jersey, the sixth of eight children of parents Robert and Mary Baisch. Helen grew up on McBride Avenue and enjoyed playing in Pennington Park along the Passaic River. At age 14, Helen started playing the organ at Westside Methodist Church, starting a career that continued for more than 70 years, including serving as the organist (and often the choir director too) at Westside Methodist (Paterson), Mountain View Methodist (Wayne), First Baptist (Paterson), and Preakness Baptist (Wayne), and substitute organist at St. Peter’s At the Light (Barnegat Light) and Holy Trinity (Brant Beach).

Helen graduated from Central High School (Paterson). After graduation, Helen worked as the office manager for her brother Albert’s print shop. In September 1951, Helen’s brother-in-law introduced her to one of his first employees of his new company, saying he “is the man you will marry.” He was right: Helen married Edward Bogucz in November 1953. Helen and Ed started their lives together in Paterson in an apartment on Glover Ave. Helen served as the organist at Westside Methodist Church, and Helen and Ed were active in the Couples’ Club. And they started their life-long passion for playing a game they bought on their honeymoon, Scrabble.

In June 1956, Helen and Ed had their first child. Three months later, they moved into a new home on Heights Road, in Wayne, NJ. Helen and Ed had four children. At home, Helen and Ed enjoyed playing games of all kinds, and they passed their competitive spirits along to their children. In the mid-1960s, the Bogucz family enjoyed spending two summers at their log cabin at Lake Tamarack in Hardyston, New Jersey. Later, the family enjoyed camping throughout the Northeast, and especially at Tobyhanna State Park in the Poconos.  

Helen loved to read and learn. Over the years, she took college courses part-time. She earned her undergraduate degree from William Paterson College in 1986. Her favorite book was “A Gift from the Sea,” by Anne Morrow Lindbergh, which she read every year.

In the 1980s, Helen became office manager for a doctor in Medical Park on Ratzer Road in Wayne. Subsequently, she became the manager for the whole park. Thanks to Helen’s earnings from her positions at Medical Park, Helen and Ed were able to buy a seasonal cottage at Lake Gerard, in Hardyston, New Jersey, in 1987. Helen and Ed and their children and grandchildren enjoyed many years at Lake Gerard.

Following her husband’s passing, Helen moved to Manahawkin, New Jersey in September 2003. She loved hosting her children and grandchildren at her home and taking day trips to Long Beach Island to the beach at 29th Street in Barnegat Light and to see Ol’ Barney (the lighthouse at the northern tip of the island). In Manahawkin, Helen enjoyed going to the Senior Center once a week to play poker, and taking a bus trip with friends once a month to Atlantic City. Also, Helen loved playing Words With Friends (Scrabble) online with all four of children and many others across the country at least twice a day for many years.

In June 2023, Helen moved to Victoria Mews in Boonton, New Jersey “to be close to Dad.” Mom enjoyed making many new friends at Victoria Mews.

Helen is survived by her four children and their spouses, Edward (Susan) Bogucz of Fayetteville, NY, John (Nancy) Bogucz of Boonton, NJ, Helen (John) Materazzi of Manahawkin, NJ, and Karen (Eric) Spina of Dayton, Ohio; her grandchildren Ryan Bogucz, Kelly (Michael DuBose) Bogucz, Lyca Bogucz, Will Bogucz, Kaitlyn Spina, Emery Spina, and Danny Materazzi; and many nieces and nephews.

Charles W. “Chuck” Vreeland, Jr., age 91, of Kinnelon, NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 23, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. Chuck had been a proud resident of Kinnelon since the 1960s, a community he genuinely enjoyed.

Born at home in Pompton Lakes, NJ, Chuck was the first of two children of Charles and Christina (Noonburg) Vreeland. His arrival was uniquely special, as he was delivered by his Grandpa Vreeland, a skilled physician. Chuck spent his childhood in Pompton Lakes, enjoying life in the community and excelling academically, graduating from Pompton Lakes High School in 1950.

Chuck pursued a degree in engineering at Davis and Elkins College in West Virginia. After graduating, he worked briefly as a surveyor before being drafted into the U.S. Army, where he served stateside from 1956 to 1958, primarily stationed at Fort Knox, Kentucky.

Returning home, Chuck began a career in engineering that spanned decades. He first built airplane engines at Curtiss-Wright Aviation Company before joining Picatinny Arsenal, where he made significant contributions as an engineer until his retirement in 1997.

Shortly after his Army service, Chuck met Carol Mae, the love of his life, through mutual friends. Their connection was instant, and they were married on March 3, 1962, at Christ Episcopal Church in Pompton Lakes. After honeymooning in Lake Placid, NY, they settled in Pompton Lakes before building their family home in Kinnelon, where they raised their daughters, Christine and Carin.

When Chuck was just five years old, his father introduced him to chess. When he was nine, young Chuck found a worthy opponent in his Grandmother Vreeland, a skilled chess player herself. She even began calling the house regularly to invite Chuck over for games. It was clear to his parents that Chuck was becoming a remarkably talented player. Eventually, he started winning every game against his grandmother, too. Unsure exactly why he was so successful, Chuck later explained, “I bought a book and learned why.” At summer camp, Chuck’s abilities were undeniable as he defeated everyone he played, from campers to counselors—even men with college-level championship experience. His chess prowess reached new heights at the age of 15 when he beat an international champion named I.A. Horowitz. Chuck was the only one among 31 competitors to defeat Horowitz during the event. The match began at 10:15 a.m., and Chuck didn’t leave the YMCA in Paterson until 1:15 a.m. the next day. When he finally returned home, his parents, upset by his lateness, were skeptical of his explanation. However, their doubts disappeared the next day when a newspaper article featured Chuck’s incredible victory, validating his remarkable achievement.

Chuck’s love for chess was matched by his passion for outdoors. He enjoyed fly fishing in Flat Brook, NY, and spending summer days at the Jersey Shore fishing for bluefish with his father in a boat they co-owned. Tennis was another favorite pastime, with Chuck playing in Saturday morning singles tournaments at Lake Rickabear and often partnering with Carol for doubles matches.

A natural handyman, Chuck built a backyard shed, a swing set for his grandchildren, and countless other projects around the house. He took pride in tending his lawn, cultivating beautiful gardens, and growing fresh vegetables in his home garden. He found great peace and joy in these simple, fulfilling tasks.

In their early years of retirement, Chuck and Carol took to the open road in their RV, exploring America’s beauty. They visited the Grand Canyon, Mt. Rushmore, the Badlands, Las Vegas and the Hoover Dam, Acadia National Park in Maine, Cape Cod in Massachusetts, and Assateague Island in Maryland and Virgina where wild horses roam freely, creating lasting memories for the couple.

After nearly 60 years of love, laughter, and partnership, Carol passed away in 2020, leaving a void in Chuck’s life that he filled with the love of his family, particularly his grandchildren. To them, he was the ultimate “Grandpa,” known for his hilarious humor, wit, and wisdom, and boundless patience. He helped with math homework, taught chess, played card games, and taught them how to fish. Whether attending birthdays, school events, or graduations, Chuck and Carol never missed a moment to support and celebrate his grandchildren.

Chuck was a man of contrasts: he could light up a room with his humor and charm but was equally content in quiet solitude, reflecting on his latest pursuit. His absence leaves a profound void, but his family and friends will treasure the countless memories and lessons he left behind.

Charles was predeceased by his beloved wife Carol (nee Decker) in 2020. He is survived by his two loving daughters: Carin Vreeland of Waldwick, NJ and Christine Schneider and her husband Mike of Westbrook, CT; four grandchildren; Michael and Charlie Schneider of Westbrook, CT, Anna Schneider of Boston, Massachusetts, and Nicole Sulikowski of Waldwick, NJ; his dear sister Mary Jane Vreeland-Owens and her late husband Ronald of Wayne; and numerous nieces and nephews.

In honor of Charles and Carol’s love of nature, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Charles’ name are asked to consider:

The Land Conservancy of New Jersey

19 Boonton Avenue

Boonton, NJ 07005

If you prefer to donate by phone, please call 973-541-1010.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Charles Vreeland.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gloria V. Schmidt (nee VanVolkom), age 86, of Riverdale, NJ.  Gloria passed away peacefully in her home on November 20, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Gloria was born in Newark NJ, and lived briefly in Kearny before her family moved to Lyndhurst NJ.  She was the youngest of three children to Francis and Helen VanVolkom. Gloria attended Washington Elementary School in Lyndhurst, NJ and graduated from Lyndhurst High School. Gloria was predeceased by her parents Francis and Helen VanVolkom, her sister Phyllis Rieves, and her brother Frank VanVolkom.  

Gloria’s first job after high school was with Bell Telephone, which was a great job for her because she loved talking on the phone.  Gloria left the workforce to become a superstar mother and homemaker to her five children.  Once Gloria’s children were in school she returned to the workforce, first as a cafeteria worker at West Essex High School in North Caldwell, NJ, where a smile, a friendly greeting or manners would always get you an extra helping of the daily special.  Gloria left West Essex High School and went to Adlai E. Stevenson Elementary School in Fairfield, NJ  as a Kindergarten assistant where she spent many fulfilling years and touched the lives of hundreds of children fortunate enough to be in class with her.  Gloria enjoyed creating memorable crafts with the students often completing the crafts at home adding her beautiful penmanship to the craft.  After retiring, Gloria spent a few more years as a substitute assistant at Stevenson Elementary School, continuing to provide the love and support the children flourished from.

Gloria’s heart was as pure and loving as the Hallmark Movies that she loved to watch on a daily basis, and she always had a kind word for everyone she met.  In her younger years, Gloria was an avid bowler and spent many years in bowling leagues with her girlfriends.  Gloria loved the many summers that she, Don and their children spent in Fort Myers, FL with her parents, sister, nieces and nephews.  The beach and waters of the Gulf of Mexico were home to her.  In their later years, Don and Gloria vacationed in Myrtle Beach SC, in a Villa they shared with Kathy and Rich.  Gloria loved spending hours sitting at the water's edge talking or reading the many books that she was always known to have in her purse.  Sundays at noon were always reserved for her phone calls with her mother in Florida, with Gloria sitting at the kitchen table with her ear to the rotary phone and the long cord attached.  Gloria and Don have been blessed with amazing lifelong friends who they vacationed in the Poconos with, played cards with, went out to dinner with, and partied with, that filled their lives with priceless memories.  Gloria embraced the times when her children and their families got together for holidays, special celebrations and vacations.  

Gloria met the love of her life, Don when she was only 10 years old and he was 12, and they’ve been together for the last 76 years.  Gloria and Don were married on September 20, 1958, at Sacred Heart Parish in Lyndhurst and Honeymooned in the Poconos.  The newlyweds settled in Lyndhurst, NJ for several years and started a family, before moving to Fairfied, NJ as their family grew. Gloria and Don were blessed with five children, Karen Meador and her husband Glen, Kathy Poshkus and her husband Rich, Karolyn Adams and her husband Warren (Nippy), Kristine Muller and her husband Keith, and Donald Charles Jr. (DJ).  Gloria and Don continued to be blessed with twelve grandchildren, Michael Meador, Paul Meador, Shawn Meador and his fiance Mariah Sayger, Jeffrey Poshkus, Jaclyn Poshkus and her partner Corey Bailey, Kyle Adams and his wife Kaitlin, Jennilyn Adams, Tyler Adams and his fiance Zoiee Baumgartel, Eric McMullen, Thomas Muller and his wife Nicole, Brian Muller and his fiance Jessica Cronin, and Zachary Muller.  Gloria and Don were overjoyed to welcome their first great grandchild, Mason Adams.  Gloria is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends who were more like family to her.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Gloria’s name are asked to consider a donation to The Alzheimer's Association or The Atlantic Visiting Nurse Hospice Organization

Cynthia “Cindy” Lou Worell, age 52 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, November 17, 2024.

Born and raised in Ogallala, Nebraska as the only child of Gerald and Mary Jo Rolenc, Cindy pursued her passion at cosmetology school, which first brought her to Destin, Florida. She spent a decade there cutting hair and bartending before landing a position in NYC with Redken, a professional hair care and styling company in 2001. When the world changed that year, she instead established herself at a central New Jersey Salon. Cindy’s clients all considered her a friend and her success working at that salon inspired her to open her own salon, The Artistry 2020 out of Woodbridge, NJ with Michelle and she continued to be her own boss for several years.

Cindy also had a passion for tattoos and in 2015 her artist suggested she go on a blind date with another one of his clients, Brian Worell. They were both getting a similar Japanese style tattoo and Cindy’s artist saw a connection just waiting to be made. He could not have been more right because Cindy and Brian instantly hit it off and started dating before officially tying the knot on December 11, 2022. The two were in love and they complemented one another perfectly. The couple loved to travel making frequent trips out to Cabo San Lucas including one last trip to visit their close friends just a few weeks before Cindy’s passing.

Cindy always had a smile on her face no matter what life threw at her. She loved punk rock / hard rock concerts and colorful outfits. She enjoyed long walks in the woods with Brian, her yellow lab Daisy and her black cat Gary, but also fast rides on the back of Brian’s motorcycle for brunch and beers in the country. She was filled with life and everyone who was blessed to get to meet her instantly considered her a friend. She was the group organizer who threw fun themed parties like her famed Tiki parties with their accompanying themed drinks – her favorite of course being her famous Mai Tai.

Cindy was and will always be an inspiration to all who knew her. When she was first diagnosed with breast cancer, she never let her diagnosis bring her down. She never complained and never missed a day of work even while undergoing chemo. Her attitude through cancer was so remarkable that her oncologist asked her to be a public speaker to inspire other woman battling breast cancer. She was empowering, inspirational, and a comfort beyond words to her “breast friends” as she liked to refer to them.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial donation to Guardians of the Ribbon in Cindy’s honor.

Kathryn Elizabeth Newell, age 95, of Green Pond, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 20th, 2024, in the comfort of her home, after getting to spend one last night with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Kathryn was born to John and Margaret Green in Closter, NJ, and she had a younger brother, Bob. Kathryn was raised in Closter, but her family spent their summer vacations in Green Pond, where she would ultimately end up living full time. Kathryn attended Closter High School, and after graduating she became a medical assistant with the Closter Medical Group until 1957. Kathryn left her job at the Closter Medical Center to start a family, but her passion for helping others did not end there. She joined the Green Pond First Aid Squad and she was an active member for 40 plus years. Kathryn was also one of the founders of Green Pond Security, where she was a force to be reckoned with until she retired at the age of 86.

Kathryn enjoyed crocheting, knitting, and playing bridge and mahjong. She was a fixture of Green Pond, as she was kind, sociable, and always up to date on the local gossip. Kathryn would often be found sitting on the front lawn, talking with anybody that walked by. But above all else, Kathryn was devoted to her family. She took great pride and joy in hosting family dinners every Sunday without fail, with attendance often nearing 30 people. She also loved attending her children’s sporting events, concerts, and plays, and she later continued doing the same for her grandchildren.

Kathryn rode the Red & Tan bus line to school, and she became friendly with the bus driver, Harry Newell. One fateful day, Harry set Kathryn up on a blind date with his brother, Clayton. Kathryn, being the cautious type, wouldn’t go anywhere with him, so they simply went back to her house in Closter and talked. They started dating shortly after, and Clayton rented an apartment in Fair Lawn, as it was much easier to visit Kathryn in Closter. The two married on June 23, 1956, and they built a home in Paramus, where they lived from 1956 through 1981. They spent their summers in Green Pond, staying at Kathryn’s parents’ house on Shadyside Lane. Then in 1972 they received a surprise gift from Kathryn’s father: her own summer home in Green Pond with Clayton. It was nothing glamorous, but they enjoyed every minute they spent there together. When describing the house, Kathryn would say “well you could see the outside from inside, and I’m not talking about looking out the windows.” The two eventually built a new house in its stead, and they called it home for the rest of their lives. Kathryn and Clayton had a real-life fairytale love story, the kind we should all emulate. They were inseparable until Clayton’s passing in 2015.

Kathryn is predeceased by her parents, John and Margaret Green, her brother, Bob Green, and her loving husband, Clayton Newell. Kathryn is survived by her three children, Scott Newell, Donna MacQuesten, and Deborah Knorr, her 9 grandchildren, her 7 great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers please send donations to

Green Pond First Aid Squad

PO Box 251

Green Pond NJ 07535

Donna Dowling, age 62 of Pompton Lakes, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 19, 2024 alongside her loving family.

Donna was born in Passaic, NJ in 1962 to John and Rosemary Maddocks, and she was raised in Oakland, NJ where she attended Indian Hills High School. She continued her education at West Virginia University and graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in Family Resources, cum laude.

Following college, Donna worked for PSE&G in their energy conservation division and married Rory Dowling. They moved to Pompton Lakes in 1994 and were blessed with their first set of twins, Christopher and Patrick. While raising her first set of twins, Donna continued working at PSE&G and held several different positions in sales and marketing until 2000, when she and Rory were blessed with their second set of twins, Sara and Sean.

Her focus and passion was raising her four children. She worked at St Mary’s school, where her children attended, in the lunchroom, playground, and aftercare. She volunteered at snack stands for sporting events, brought the kids to sports practices and games, and taught them at home outside of school. She also helped family and friends file taxes and took care of family members in need.

Donna cherished spending time with family and friends. She found joy in cooking meals for them especially during different seasons. Whether it was shish kebabs, pot roast, chili, garlic bread with steak, chicken cacciatore, taco salad, or something plainer like fried chicken cutlets or pasta, she always ensured her company were well-fed and happy. She enjoyed watching movies and tv shows with her family, often over a bowl of Häagen-Dazs coffee ice cream.

Donna loved taking her family on vacations. They routinely traveled to Disney World, and Donna specifically liked the Hollywood Studios park which had her favorite ride, the Rock ‘n’ Roller Coaster, which represented her love of music. Some of her favorite trips included an Alaskan Cruise in 2007 where she got to see the northern lights, a road trip out west with family and friends in 2013, attending the Twinsburg Ohio Twins Day Festival in 2006, and of course regular trips down to the Jersey Shore.

Donna had a strong connection with nature. She often found peace in her backyard while looking at the sky and stars or relaxing in a steaming hot tub outside listening to nature. She gardened, landscaped, and pointed out aspects of the environment that she found beautiful. She liked being around a fire pit and family and friends with a perfectly toasted s’mores sandwich and hot chocolate in her hand.

Donna was a quiet, thoughtful person who valued her close relationships. She enjoyed attending local events such as tricky trays and concerts. She was often lucky, winning prizes at tricky trays and hitting the jackpot on slot machines.

Donna was an incredibly caring person who always helped those in need. She had a brilliant mind that could solve things effectively. She would offer anyone help with anything even if she had to figure it out on her own.

Donna touched the souls of everyone who encountered her and will be remembered for her caring, gentle, kind, and loving demeanor. She always maintained a calm temperament and patience that were second to none. Her care for her pets, including Rusty, Angel, Tommy, Oreo, and many others, revealed her loving, motherly character. Donna’s smart, hardworking, and patient temperament will be deeply missed by those who were lucky enough to know her.

Donna is survived by her husband Rory Dowling, four children, Christopher, Patrick, Sara, and Sean, her mother Rosemary Maddocks, her siblings John Maddocks and Beth Helmke, and many other family members who remember her with much heartfelt admiration. She was predeceased by her father John Maddocks.

If you are interested in making a donation, the LUNGevity Foundation provides various services for patients with lung cancer. You can find donation information on their website: Lungevity Foundation

Audrey A. Hampson (nee McPeek), age 90, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 17, 2024 with the comfort of her family by her side.

Audrey was born and raised in Paterson, NJ and was the cherished daughter of Leonard and Ann McPeek.  She graduated from Eastside High School in Paterson having performed in many dance recitals and shows with the class of 1952.

Audrey’s first job was as a cosmetician in the Meyers Brothers Department store in Paterson, NJ for several years until she had children.  Once the children were older, Audrey began working at Preakness Pharmacy and then Meyer Brothers Department store, in Wayne, where she resumed her cosmetology career.  She had this role for 15 years until they closed.  She then worked as a cosmetician as an Estee Lauder representative in the Macy’s Preakness branch for 5 years until retirement.

Audrey was loving and caring, devoted to her family and always would speak her mind.  She was an excellent cook and planned many meals during her lunch breaks from work to ensure her family always had a sit-down family meal.  Audrey loved having the holidays at her home in Wayne for family and friends.  The St. Patrick’s Day celebration was spent with many pounds of corned beef, cabbage and potatoes.  There were always friends stopping by for her famous apple and pumpkin pies on Thanksgiving and they were always welcome.  She always made special meals for her boys and daughter-in-law’s birthdays too.  While still working, she would spend her one weekday off from work taking her grandchildren to the Environmental Center or Abma’s Farm in Wyckoff and/or many playground parks like Barber Pond in Wayne. At one time, Audrey was an antique collector, and her favorites were character spoons.

Audrey was an active member of Wayne Little League working the snack stand and with her family witnessed their World Series winning game in 1970.  She was also a volunteer at Preakness School library and was frequently the class mother for her two boys classes at Preakness School.  Audrey was also an active member of the Calvary Gospel Church in Wayne for over 70 years.  Her faith was a big part of her life and she and her husband William raised their boys in an active Christian home.

After retirement, Audrey shopped for many homebound people in Wayne and the neighboring communities.  She was very involved with the Golden Age Club of Wayne and was the VP for several years arranging the many exciting trips for that group.

Audrey was the beloved wife of William Hampson Sr.  She met the love of her life, William, at a sweet sixteen party in Fairlawn, NJ.  They were married in 1953 and were married over 71 wonderful years; married on March 11, 1953, in St. Paul’s Church in Paterson and they had their reception at the Brownstone in Paterson.  The couple honeymooned in Virginia Beach, Virginia.  Audrey and William were blessed with two boys.  Audrey was the cherished mother of William Hampson Jr. and his wife Dana, and Richard and his wife Erica.  Audrey was also the loving grandmother of six grandchildren: Elizabeth, Alexandra, Richard Jr (R.J.), Danielle, Benjamin and Jacquelyn.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Calvary Gospel Church, 1559 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.  https://www.calvarygospelwayne.com

Antonio “Tony” DeCandia, age 90, of Secaucus, passed peacefully on Saturday, November 16, 2024.

Antonio was born in Molfetta, Italy to Giovanni and Nicoletta DeCandia. From the age of 19 to 24 he lived and worked in Venezuela before emigrating to the United States in 1966 with his wife Maria and two sons John and Sergio on the SS Raffaello.

Antonio met his wife Maria (nee Ciccolella) when he returned to Italy from Venezuela. They married on January 24, 1959 at the San Guiseppe church in Molfetta and honeymooned in Napoli. They have had a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-five years that was blessed with four children and seven grandchildren.

The family lived in Hoboken, NJ for twelve years until they moved to Secaucus in 1978 where he lived for the past forty-six years.

Antonio worked as a cabinetmaker for the Cocheo Brothers, Inc. in Weehawken, NJ for almost thirty years before retiring in 1996. While there he made custom furniture, cabinets, and all types of woodworking for everything from high-end homes to casinos.  Once retired he enjoyed making homemade mozzarella and torrone as well as roasting chestnuts. He enjoyed playing the Italian card game Scopa, watching boxing, soccer and bus trips to Atlantic City with Maria and their friends.  He also enjoyed going to the beach at Sandy Hook, NJ, and numerous trips to his home in Molfetta, Italy. The family would often spend summers at their home in Molfetta and at the Lido Algamarina resort.  

Antonio was the beloved husband to Maria DeCandia; devoted father of the late John DeCandia (d.2020), Sergio DeCandia and his wife Mary (nee Travers) of Verona, NJ, Nicoletta Minervini and her husband Julius of Wayne, NJ, and Enza Crespo and her husband Daniel of East Rutherford, NJ; he was the cherished Nonno (grandfather) of Anthony, Dylan, and Sean DeCandia, Giovanna and Olivia Minervini, Daniel and Matthew Crespo.  Antonio was predeceased by his siblings Mauro DeCandia, Susetta Calo, Pasquale DeCandia, and Giuseppe DeCandia.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Cancer Society.

Clifford John Garrigan, 83, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on November 17, 2024.

Cliff, known as “Jim” by family and friends, was born on April 5, 1941, in New Jersey at Paterson General Hospital. He grew up in Wayne and graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1959. Cliff served in the US National Guard from 1963 through 1969 and then pursued a career in commercial and industrial real estate. He started his own company, CJ Garrigan Real Estate Agency and later partnered with Alice Sheckfee to create Garrigan and Sheckfee Real Estate Agency. Cliff was a member of the National Association of Realtors and the Industrial Real Estate Brokers Association of the NY Metro Area. He served as the President of the Passaic County Board of Realtors in 1982. In the 1970’s, he was Secretary of the Wayne Jaycees and shared his time among the active leadership for the Boy Scouts of America, Troop 131.

Cliff enjoyed years of memorable outdoor activities: down the shore to Island Beach State Park, Sunday trips to New York City, ski trips to Pennsylvania, skating on Packanack Lake and visiting local parks with his family. In his later years, he enjoyed walks with his wife near Packanack Lake.

Cliff is survived by his wife of 58 years, Carol, and his four children, James, Kathy, Steven, and David, three grandchildren and his sister, Janet Grimal.

The Garrigan family requests that donations in Cliff’s name be directed to Valley Hospice c/o The Valley Hospital Foundation, 4, Valley Health Plaza Paramus NJ 07652, and/or Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 291 Wayne, NJ, 07474.

Keith Steven Krehel, 21, of Wayne, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, November 16, 2024.

Keith Steven was born to Karen (Kretowski) and Keith Krehel of Wayne, formerly of Dumont, Maywood, and Clifton. He joined a loving family with his sisters, Lauren and Katie.

He graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 2021. He continued his education at Passaic County Community College, where he was currently studying Business Administration. He also worked part-time with his father at Krehel Automotive Repair in Clifton.

Keith Steven was a loving and devoted brother to Lauren Kirt and her husband Mac, of Wayne, and Kathryn Shaikh and her husband Sohail, of Boca Raton, Florida. He was an incredible uncle to Madeline, Abigail, Nora, Ayaan, and Zayn, nephew to Stephanie McLaughlin and her husband Bob, Walter Krehel, and Donna Tropiano, and cousin to Bobby, Patrick, Maria, and Lisa. He is also survived by countless other cousins and friends he considered family, including Grandma, Maria, and Lenny Gioia.

Keith Steven was a friend to everyone. He was kind, compassionate, generous, funny, smart, and polite. Keith loved everyone, and everyone loved Keith. His favorite activities included being on his boat (or any boat), clamming, and anything by the water. He enjoyed racing go-karts and going to the boardwalk, especially the arcade. He looked forward to family game night, and recently added poker to his repertoire. He was passionate and knowledgeable about technology, motors, stocks, and politics, and could talk your ear off for hours about any. His pastimes included fixing anything with a motor that was broken, and reviving seemingly irreparable technology.

For Keith Steven, as he was called by most, his life was his family, including his dog, Charlie. He was always willing to lend a helping hand, whether to help out Uncle Walt with his boat, help a friend fix their computer, help family members rake leaves, or help shovel snow. He was also a wonderful and energetic stand-in flower boy/ring bearer at Lauren and Mac’s wedding. He was always up for anything, and always with a smile on his face.

Despite facing many medical adversities in his short life, he never complained and accepted these challenges with a positive attitude that was contagious. He deserved better. He was truly the most wonderful son, brother, nephew, uncle, and friend. He will be missed and loved forever.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to the Epilepsy Foundation

It is with tender hearts that the family of Irene Helen DelBalso (nee Stecina), age 91 of Wayne, NJ announced her crossing into heaven on Thursday, November 14, 2024, while receiving the loving care of her family. The family is comforted in knowing that Irene left this life to be reunited with her beloved husband Ron who passed four months prior.

Irene was born in McAdoo, Pennsylvania to George and Suzanne Stecina. She graduated from McAdoo High School with the Class of 1951.  

During her high school years Irene worked at the local 5 and 10 store for 25 cents an hour. She later worked for the Department of Defense in Harrisburg, PA as a secretary for a US Army Colonel.  During her time at the Department of Defense she was part of the Civil Defense having to identify and document planes as they flew overhead.  Over the years she worked as a secretary for Dell Publishing, Hoffman La-Roche Corporation, and the Prudential Corporation. She was employed as the clerk for the Board of Elections with Passaic County. For several years she worked at the family business, Dell Disposal and one of the trucks was named Irene in her honor. Irene and Ron later started and co-owned another family business, Wayne Dinettes which was established for close to 50 years.

Irene met the love of her life, Ron DelBalso, in the 10th grade at the McAdoo High School in McAdoo, PA.  They officially began dating when Ron spied Irene at a party. Irene had been taken to the party as another man’s date, but Ron stepped in and told the gentleman: “I’m taking her home.” Ron’s proposal consisted of him saying they were going to marry.  Irene agreed and Ron then approached her father asking for his daughter’s hand in marriage.  Her father agreed and they married on July 21, 1951, at St. Mary’s Ukrainian Catholic Church in McAdoo, PA.  Their honeymoon got off to a rocky start as they tried to book a room at a hotel in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania but were not allowed to book the room as they didn’t have their Wedding License to validate that they were a couple.  Ron’s brother Joe “Dody” came to the rescue and drove the Marriage License out to the Pocono’s for them.  After one night in Pennsylvania, they went on their honeymoon to Cape Cod, Massachusetts. Their 73 years of marriage was blessed with eight children and the continuous loving tradition of holding each-other’s hands.

Aside from working and raising eight children she was involved as a Class Mother at Our Lady of the Valley Church’s School in Wayne, was a Den Mother for the Cub Scouts, Pack 108 in Wayne.  She was also very involved with the Ladies Auxiliary of the Wayne Elks Lodge 2181. Irene was unwavering in her support for Ron doing whatever she could to ensure his success in his many community endeavors:  building Elk floats, decorating for dances, sewing costumes, and critiquing his speeches.

Irene was a last minute class cupcake maker, an up all night homework typer for reports due the next day, a costume and cheerleading uniform sewer, a snow igloo builder, a skier, a class instructor for Slovakian dance, a sleigh rider, a project maker, a spoiler of her grandchildren & great grandchildren, and the best Mom in the world. Irene loved to host company in her home: friends, neighbors, relatives and especially her children’s friends were always welcome. She could whip up a feast at the last moment and never let anyone leave hungry. Irene was the architect of countless beloved traditions that will continue to serve as cherished memories and the foundation of our family’s identity.

Irene was a woman of incredibly strong Catholic faith, and a longstanding member of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.  She had a deep devotion to the Blessed Mother and was head of the Rosary Society. For many years she helped organize Bingo, the New Year’s Eve, and costume dances at the church.  She and her husband Ron helped organize the first several church Bazar’s which eventually became the church carnival.

Irene enjoyed going to the casinos, she was the queen of the slot machines. She was a card shark who loved to play cards everyday with whomever stopped by. Irene loved to do all sorts of word games and puzzles. She often had a puzzle started on the dining room table where everyone who passed by could put in a piece or two.

Irene had a nurturing spirit. With her amazing green thumb, she would often take anyone’s dying plants and revive them. She would tenderly care for injured and sick animals. Of the countless pets and grand-pets in her life, each of her furry companions held a special place in her heart, and she treated them as family, spoiling them with affection and care.

Throughout her life Irene showed us through her words and actions that “Family always comes first.” There aren't words to describe the gratitude we have for all she was in our lives. Irene will be remembered for her compassion, warmth, generosity, kindness, and her unwavering love for her family. She created a sense of peace wherever she went. Irene’s spirit will live on in the heart of all that were fortunate enough to know her. Irene’s legacy is love, generosity, strength and joy.

Irene was predeceased by her husband Ron DelBalso. They were blessed with 8 children: Ronald Del Balso Jr. & wife Jill, Beverly Jerger & husband Richie, Lois Van Lenten & husband Jack, Michael Del Balso & wife Mary, George Del Balso, Danny Del Balso & wife Nancy, Jan Lewinsohn & husband Larry, Alison Del Balso.

Irene was the cherished grandmother of: David Van Lenten & wife Kathryn, Michael Van Lenten & wife Gabriela, Matthew Lewinsohn & Kaitlyn, Shawn Van Lenten, Michelle Lewinsohn, Devyn Del Balso & Erich, Connor Del Balso & Brianna, Kyle Del Balso, Tyler Andreas, Ryan Tighe, Jake Andreas, Robbie Tighe, Shannon Tighe, Arthur Newcombe & wife Carla, Joey Newcombe, Dustin Newcombe & wife Naizsha, Rick Jerger (deceased) & wife Terri, Tammy Fabela & husband Jammie, Eddie Horn & wife Heather, Arron Poole, Athan Santa Cruz, Andreas Santa Cruz.

She was the devoted great grandmother to: Madison Van Lenten, Mae Van Lenten, Kristian Van Lenten, Lily Van Lenten, Declan Van Lenten, Penelope Newcombe, Lucianna Newcombe, August Newcombe, Rick Jerger & Gabby, Scottie Bosma & wife Jackie, Shane Bosma & wife Caitlyn, Trever Fabela, Jammie Fabela & wife Brianne, Noah Olm, Ethan Horn, Alexander Cengi.

And the adored Great Great Grandmother of: Holten Bosma, Trent Bosma, Dayton Reilly, Paisley Fabela, Zayne Fabela.

Predeceased by her siblings Mary Wasko, John Stecina, Susan Prokopovich, Anne Zachok, and Margaret Mattie.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Marlene Hoogerhyde, 93, of North Haledon, was called home to heaven on Wednesday, November 13, 2024, to be with her Lord and Savior.

Born in Paterson, Marlene was the cherished daughter of Charles and Mary (Scott) Kara. She grew up in Hawthorne and graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1948.

After school, she began her career as a legal secretary with Freeman, Buttermore, and Freeman of Paterson.

Marlene was the devoted wife of Garret “Garry” Hoogerhyde, Sr. Their love story began with a blind date arranged by one of Garry’s friends while he was on leave as a U.S. Army lieutenant range officer. Determined to make a good impression, Garry arrived at Marlene’s house in his full Army uniform. Though neither could recall the details of that first date, it clearly left an impression. The two were married on May 8, 1954, at the Hawthorne United Methodist Church. The reception followed downstairs in the church fellowship hall, and the couple honeymooned through New England, culminating in a visit to Niagara Falls.

After their honeymoon, the newlyweds settled into an apartment on Virginia Avenue in Paterson, conveniently located above Garry’s office—leaving him no excuse to be late! They moved several times over the years, prompted once by the planned construction of Route 80, which would have inconveniently passed straight through their living room. Ultimately, they made their home in North Haledon, most recently at the Windmere, formerly the Holland Christian Home.

Marlene embraced her calling as a homemaker and mother to eight children, a role she carried out with grace, humor, and military-like precision. With Garry’s Army background perhaps rubbing off on her, she ensured that her household ran like a well-oiled machine. The house was always immaculate, and everyone had a job. Dinnertime was a coordinated effort, with

tasks like setting the table, clearing dishes, washing, drying, and putting everything away shared among the kids. Marlene’s culinary skills were legendary within the family—she was a master cook and preferred savory meals over baking, much to everyone’s delight.

For a brief period, Marlene decided to step outside her home and took a job as a waitress at the Brick House Restaurant in Wyckoff. It only took three weeks for her to realize that her role at home was far more fulfilling, and she quickly retired from the restaurant business.

Marlene had an interesting sense of humor and a practical outlook on life. She loved sewing clothes for her family, doing needlework, and solving word search puzzles. A loyal fan of Jeopardy! and Wheel of Fortune, she declined to join family game nights but could always be heard shouting out answers from across the room.

Her home was always open to others. Whether hosting friends, family, or church guests, she famously said, “I’m already cooking for ten—what’s two more?” Marlene had a heart for service, writing cards or notes of encouragement, making phone calls, and offering prayers. Her mile-long prayer list was a testament to her faith and love for those in her life.

Marlene’s faith was the foundation of her life. She and Garry raised their children in a Christian home, attending churches such as Fair Lawn Orthodox Presbyterian Church, Living Hope Church in Nutley, and most recently, Church of the Covenant in Hackettstown, NJ. Marlene was also Garry’s most trusted assistant during his many years of service on the OPC hospitalization committee, embodying the spirit of partnership and devotion.

Her love extended beyond her children to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, who could always count on a birthday card from Grammy. Marlene and Garry made it a tradition to take annual trips to visit their family, no matter how far away they lived.

Marlene was known for her strong convictions, which were grounded in her daily readings of the Bible, and for her unwavering love for her family. While she was opinionated and tough when needed, her warmth, humor, and faith left an indelible mark on everyone she met.

Marlene was the beloved wife of Garret, Sr., blessed by God in marriage for 70 years. She was the loving mother of eight children: Stephen Hoogerhyde of Hackensack, Susan and husband George Lindemulder of Wanaque, Roy and wife Juanita of Nazareth, PA, Kathleen and husband Timothy Kline of Fair Lawn, Glenn and wife Jill Hoogerhyde of Lynnwood, Washington, Stuart and wife Karen Hoogerhyde of Lynden, Washington, Garret, Jr. and wife Anita of Bothell, Washington, and Douglas and wife Leah Hoogerhyde of Franklin Lakes; cherished grandmother of 20 grandchildren, adored great-grandmother of 21 great grandchildren, and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews. Marlene was also predeceased by her brother Charles Kara, Jr. and her sister Elaine Catello.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations in Marlene’s memory to one of the following charities that were close to her heart:

The Orthodox Presbyterian Church

Worldwide Outreach

607 North Easton Road, Bldg. E

Willow Grove, PA 19090-2539

Mid-America Reformed Seminary

229 Seminary Dr.

Dyer, IN 46311

Elizabeth Rost Gaston, beloved mother, grandmother, aunt and friend passed peacefully on November 12th, 2024 at the age of 90.  Her last moments were in the company of her loving daughter, son in law, and long term nursing assistants. A woman of faith, she received the final sacraments of the Roman Catholic Church.

Elizabeth was born on her father’s birthday, February 7, 1934. She was a gift, not only to her father, Alan Rost, but to all who her knew her throughout her long life. Her early years were spent in Minnesota. In high school, she moved with her family to Memphis, then on to Little Rock, Arkansas where she attended Mount St. Mary’s Academy. She later graduated from Webster College in St. Louis with a degree in Education and became a teacher.

She married Michael Linton Smith in June of 1958 and started her family in Georgia, giving birth to Matthew Linton, Catherine Louise and Patrick Battle. After her divorce, she moved her young family to Little Rock, Arkansas in a VW Beetle. There, her challenges continued when, after fourteen months, her youngest son died of the measles. Fortunately, she had support from her parents, but for a single mother raising children in the 60s there were plenty of life's challenges.

Even for women with a college degree, the work world in the sixties provided few sustainable job opportunities. Elizabeth worked in the offices of several organizations, including the March of Dimes and Blue Cross Blue Shield. In the late 60s she was hired at Philander Smith College as the Assistant Director of the Upward Bound program. In that position she had administrative duties that were more suited to her education, creativity and temperament. She gave that position her all. Beyond routine administrative duties, she advocated for her her students fearlessly. She stood down the Little Rock police who wanted to search the boys dormitories without a warrant. She faced off with the owner of a swimming hole who didn’t want any Philander Smith students swimming in his water.

Her next job allowed her to more fully realize her professional and social justice goals. She was hired by the Arkansas Department of Education to supervise Follow Through, a Federal Title 1 program - a position that required a Masters Degree, which she avidly pursued and achieved.

Her supervisor at the Arkansas D.O.E was Sara Alderman Murphy, who founded the Arkansas chapter of The Panel of American Woman in 1963. Elizabeth became an active member shortly afterwards. It provided, for her, an opportunity to learn more about women’s experiences and to share her own as a professional, single mother in the South.

Elizabeth remained at the Arkansas D.O.E. until her retirement. Later in life, she married Alton Gaston and remained with him until his death in 2011. Not long afterwards she moved to Montclair, NJ to live closer to her daughter. As she became older and her health declined, Catherine worked selflessly to manage her needs until her eventual passing.

If a sign of character is the list of friends a person brings with them through the years, Elizabeth’s list was long. Throughout her life she was a a bold voice for those who, through no fault of their own, had been treated unfairly. This quality earned her the love and respect of all who knew her.

Throughout her life, Elizabeth’s commitment to her family was unshakable. She prioritized her children’s needs. She took them on vacations, funded school trips, sent them to college and committed a thousand other selfless acts. She demonstrated the same fidelity to her children and the grandchildren. She is survived by: Matthew Smith, Catherine Smith Halbert (Douglas),  her grandchildren Dylan Edeal-Smith (Chloe), Juliet Smith, Declan Halbert and Louise Halbert. Stepchildren David Gaston, Andy Gaston, Richard Gaston and their families. She also leaves behind countless nieces and nephews who will forever cherish the memories of their wonderful “Aunt Liz”; A woman whose smile lit up every room she entered.

Elizabeth Rost Gaston, beloved mother, grandmother, aunt and friend passed peacefully on November 12th, 2024 at the age of 90.  Her last moments were in the company of her loving daughter, son in law, and long term nursing assistants. A woman of faith, she received the final sacraments of the Roman Catholic Church.

Elizabeth was born on her father’s birthday, February 7, 1934. She was a gift, not only to her father, Alan Rost, but to all who her knew her throughout her long life. Her early years were spent in Minnesota. In high school, she moved with her family to Memphis, then on to Little Rock, Arkansas where she attended Mount St. Mary’s Academy. She later graduated from Webster College in St. Louis with a degree in Education and became a teacher.

She married Michael Linton Smith in June of 1958 and started her family in Georgia, giving birth to Matthew Linton, Catherine Louise and Patrick Battle. After her divorce, she moved her young family to Little Rock, Arkansas in a VW Beetle. There, her challenges continued when, after fourteen months, her youngest son died of the measles. Fortunately, she had support from her parents, but for a single mother raising children in the 60s there were plenty of life's challenges.

Even for women with a college degree, the work world in the sixties provided few sustainable job opportunities. Elizabeth worked in the offices of several organizations, including the March of Dimes and Blue Cross Blue Shield. In the late 60s she was hired at Philander Smith College as the Assistant Director of the Upward Bound program. In that position she had administrative duties that were more suited to her education, creativity and temperament. She gave that position her all. Beyond routine administrative duties, she advocated for her her students fearlessly. She stood down the Little Rock police who wanted to search the boys dormitories without a warrant. She faced off with the owner of a swimming hole who didn’t want any Philander Smith students swimming in his water.

Her next job allowed her to more fully realize her professional and social justice goals. She was hired by the Arkansas Department of Education to supervise Follow Through, a Federal Title 1 program - a position that required a Masters Degree, which she avidly pursued and achieved.

Her supervisor at the Arkansas D.O.E was Sara Alderman Murphy, who founded the Arkansas chapter of The Panel of American Woman in 1963. Elizabeth became an active member shortly afterwards. It provided, for her, an opportunity to learn more about women’s experiences and to share her own as a professional, single mother in the South.

Elizabeth remained at the Arkansas D.O.E. until her retirement. Later in life, she married Alton Gaston and remained with him until his death in 2011. Not long afterwards she moved to Montclair, NJ to live closer to her daughter. As she became older and her health declined, Catherine worked selflessly to manage her needs until her eventual passing.

If a sign of character is the list of friends a person brings with them through the years, Elizabeth’s list was long. Throughout her life she was a a bold voice for those who, through no fault of their own, had been treated unfairly. This quality earned her the love and respect of all who knew her.

Throughout her life, Elizabeth’s commitment to her family was unshakable. She prioritized her children’s needs. She took them on vacations, funded school trips, sent them to college and committed a thousand other selfless acts. She demonstrated the same fidelity to her children and the grandchildren. She is survived by: Matthew Smith, Catherine Smith Halbert (Douglas),  her grandchildren Dylan Edeal-Smith (Chloe), Juliet Smith, Declan Halbert and Louise Halbert. Stepchildren David Gaston, Andy Gaston, Richard Gaston and their families. She also leaves behind countless nieces and nephews who will forever cherish the memories of their wonderful “Aunt Liz”; A woman whose smile lit up every room she entered.

In lieu of flowers the family requests any memorials be made to Saint Jude’s Children's Hospital.

Philomena Ann Giannini, age 92 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 10, 2024.

Ann was born and raised in Newark, New Jersey to Lillian and Joseph Cifelli, growing up as one of four children. After graduating from West Side High School, Newark, she attended the Washington School for Secretaries, which led to her first job in a doctors’ office in Essex County.

Later, she caught the eye of Anthony Giannini, a returning army soldier from military service in Korea, who happened to live across the street from her, while waiting at a bus stop. Anthony asked Ann on a first date to see Johnny Ray at the Paramount Theater in New York City. Persistence paid off and Ann and Anthony fell in love . They got married on November 14, 1954 at St. Rocco’s RC Church in Newark and honeymooned in Miami Beach, Florida.

Upon marriage Ann and Anthony lived in the Ivy Hill Section of Newark. They later purchased and moved into their three family house in Irvington where they started a family and were blessed with three boys. As the family grew they were looking to move to a larger home outside of the area. Anthony was looking for homes in Wayne however, Ann wasn’t ready to leave their tight-knit community in Irvington for what was then considered “the country”. In 1966, she finally agreed to the move and never looked back. They became parishioners at Holy Cross Church where they were involved in the church community and formed many long standing friendships. They were members of the Wayne Elks and the Golden Age Circle. They made Wayne their home and lived there for 58 years. During that time they saw Wayne grow from the “country” to the town it is today. Once her boys were in school, Ann began working at the Wayne Public Library in 1975 where she remained for 23 years before retiring in January 1999.

Ann and her family spent many summers enjoying the salty sea air of the Jersey shore together. She and Anthony shared a love of travel, venturing to Hawaii for their twenty-fifth anniversary and traveling to Italy with family and friends. They also enjoyed regular trips to California to visit Ann’s sister Louise. Despite the thousands of miles between them, the two sisters stayed as close as the day they moved apart, talking nearly every day with one another.

Ann leaves behind a legacy of boundless love and devotion to her family and friends. A natural hostess, she loved to entertain friends and family at their home in Wayne, preparing countless meals for celebrations and holidays all while maintaining a full-time job. She was always well dressed and glamorous, and her grandkids affectionately referred to her as “Glam-ma”. Her friends and family will miss her incredible cooking, baking, and most of all her loving presence in each of their lives.

Ann is survived by her sister Louise Wolfe: her children Michael and wife Virginia (Federico) of Wayne, NJ, Anthony and wife Sharon (Leins) of Blandon, Pa and Daughter-in-Law Jane (Kunis) of Bethlehem, Pa; and cherished grandmother of six grandchildren: Anthony, Deanna, Michael, Christina, Stephanie and Ava and her two great grandchildren: Kinsey and Liam. She is predeceased by her husband Anthony (2017), her son Robert (2004), her parents: Joseph and Lillian Cifelli; and her siblings Anthony Cifelli and Joseph Cifelli.

Petronila 'Pet' Darang Paulino, age 75, of Passaic, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 7, 2024, at 9:19 p.m., with the comfort of family by her side.

Petronila was born to Jose and Pelagia Darang and graduated from Jones Rural School in Jones, Isabela, Philippines, where she was a member of the cheerleading team. She continued her education at Arellano University in Manila, Philippines, earning a Bachelor of Science in Home Economics.

A retired healthcare professional, Petronila worked alongside her husband to care for others with warmth and kindness. She touched the lives of her patients and coworkers with her gentle spirit and ready smile. Petronila’s compassion will be deeply missed, but her memory lives on in all who knew her.

She was warmhearted, caring, and devoted to her family, always willing to be of service. An amazing cook and master of fried lemon chicken, Petronila loved spending time with her grandchildren. Known for her sense of humor, she was the heart and soul of every family gathering. She visited her children and grandchildren every week, always ready to help in any way she could.

Petronila is survived by her beloved husband, Freshly; her four children—Donna, Freshly Jr., Fritzie, and Glenda; her ten grandchildren: Ivana, Kurt, Joshua, Brianna, Trixie, Iana, Jordan, Jared, Aubrey, and Xia; and her adopted daughter and grandson: Madeline and Mitchell.

Kathleen Burklow, age 95 of Pompton Plains, went to be with her Lord and Savior on Thursday, November 7, 2024. At the time of her passing, she was surrounded by her incredibly loving family. Kathleen was a faithful and trusting servant of Jesus Christ, always placing the needs of others above her own, benevolently sharing the Gospel.

Kathleen was one of four children born in Coeur d'Alene, Idaho, to Homer and Elizabeth (Schnell) Smith, spending her early years surrounded by the beauty of Idaho's lakes and forests. Her father's work in the lumber industry initially kept the family rooted in Idaho, but the challenges of the Great Depression brought changes. When Kathleen was in middle school, her family relocated to Nutley, New Jersey, after her father secured employment at Port Newark through the support of his lumber industry connections. Kathleen's journey across the country reflected the resilience and adaptability that would become hallmarks of her life.

She graduated from Nutley High School in 1947 and worked for Hoffmann La Roche as well as Mutual Benefit Insurance Company. Prior to marriage, she moved with her family to Oxford, NJ where her father was able to secure work in the coal industry.

Kathleen and her husband Miles “Tom” Burklow, were high school sweethearts, having met in the 10th grade. She was a drum majorette, and Tom was star of the football team. They both attended the Brookdale Baptist Church in Bloomfield and were married there on October 7, 1950. They enjoyed a ‘road trip’ style honeymoon, traveling through New England and all the way up to Canada before returning home to live in Clifton. In 1959, they settled in Pompton Plains to raise their family. Throughout the years, they’ve enjoyed family vacations to Long Beach Island, the Caribbean, and untold visits to various historic sites. Tom and Kathleen’s marriage and family life was rooted in Christ’s love - a firm foundation, which enabled them to spend seventy loving and blessed years together until God called Tom home in March of 2021. They had been active members of The Chapel in Lincoln Park since 1971, and Kathleen lived out her faith each and every day.

Kathleen’s life was marked by countless selfless endeavors. She volunteered as a Pink Lady at Chilton Hospital in Pompton Plains. Through the years, when various friends of their own sons struggled with painful or difficult life circumstances, they could always find Kathleen and Tom offering an open door to their home. There they were able to experience Kathleen and Tom’s living example of love, warmth and support, prompting many to embrace them as second parents. Many of their son’s friends will recall Mrs. Burklow showing up at school in her blue, two-door Morris Mini Minor (the predecessor of today’s Mini Cooper). It was the tiniest of cars but, never refusing a kid a ride, she’d gladly pack scads of youngsters into that car. Kathleen and Tom were loyal fans of Pequannock Township High School football and wrestling, where they practically wore out their seats in the bleachers at Panther Stadium and the Pequannock Gymnasium. They had been enthusiastically cheering on generations of aspiring athletes in town, and their presence in the stands will be dearly missed.

When Kathleen and Tom moved to Pompton Plains in 1959, they embraced their new community and they created the "Burklow's Gym" - building a literal addition onto their house, creating an over-sized garage to accommodate a Universal, two Olympic free-weight sets, a wrestling mat, and other exercise equipment.  The "gym" was open to anyone who was willing to keep the rules (no cursing; no drugs, cigarettes or alcohol brought on the property; leave the gym as clean, or cleaner, than you found it). The "gym" was self-policed by those who trained out of their respect for Mr. and Mrs. Burklow. It drew young athletes and weight trainers from multiple municipalities. Plus, you could walk into the "gym" on a summer day and find an Olympic athlete, an NFL player, and a young student getting ready for his freshman year in high school sharing gym space. Being a pro at cooking for the masses, it was perfectly common practice for Kathleen to invite anyone working out in the gym around dinnertime, to grab a plate and join the family for a home-cooked meal. In the summertime, Kathleen was happiest when her boys, her grandchildren, and anyone’s friends….even the whole neighborhood were enjoying themselves in her and Tom’s pool. It was acts of generosity like that which inspired some to name their home and property “Burklow Land” and others to name their children after them.

Kathleen was the loving and devoted wife of Miles “Tom” Burklow, blessed in marriage for 70 years until Tom’s passing in 2021. She was the most loving mother of Tom (Miles, Jr.) Burklow and his wife Debbie, Todd Burklow, and Tim Burklow and his wife Linda, all of Pompton Plains; adored grandmother of seven grandchildren; Benjamin and his wife Diana, Morgan and his wife Jacqueline, both of Boonton Township, Timmy and his wife Sara, Lauren, Jason, Merrissa and her husband John Pires, all of Pompton Plains, and Kaila and Donnie Roberson of Middletown, Delaware; (Kathleen had a pillow with the words “My favorite people call me Nanna” on it.); cherished great-grandmother of eleven great-grandchildren; and dear sister of: Rich Smith and his wife Christine of San Clemente, California, the late Carol Montagno, and the late Morgan Smith.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Kathleen’s memory would be appreciated to The Chapel, 264 Jacksonville Rd., Lincoln Park, NJ 07035. You can also donate online at TheChapel.org

Frances Marie Vitale, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister and friend, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 6, 2024, at the age of 101, with her devoted family by her side.

Born in 1923, in Paterson, NJ, Frances was the cherished youngest of James and Pauline LaPuzz’s eight children – four girls and four boys. She grew up spending countless good times with her cousins, who were instrumental in her encounter with a handsome young man, Alexander “Alex” Vitale. After Alex’s service overseas in the U.S. Army during World War II, the two married and made their first home together at 402 East 25th Street in Paterson.

Frances supported her husband, Alex, in their family business, "Al and Marie's Dry Cleaning," in Paterson, where she worked occasionally while primarily dedicating herself to her role of loving mother and homemaker. In 1968, Frances and Alex moved to 7 North Road in Wayne, NJ, where they continued to build a life filled with love, laughter, and hospitality. They made this house their home and Frances even remained there after Alex’s passing in 1995. In total, she lived there for more than five decades until she moved to Sunrise Assisted Living in Wayne just six months ago. Frances embraced her time at Sunrise, where she relished the company of fellow residents and participating in numerous enjoyable activities.

Frances’s life was marked by a legacy of caring for others, beginning at an early age when her parents passed away. She lovingly looked after her older brothers and sisters, later becoming the heart of her own family. Frances also endured the profound loss of her young son, Alex, who passed away at just seven years old—a sorrow she carried with quiet strength and resilience.

The quintessential homemaker, Frances created a welcoming home filled with laughter, the smell of good food, and an ever-brewing coffee pot. Her door was always open to family, friends, and neighbors alike. Known for her delicious Italian cooking, Frances had a knack for sharing her treasured recipes—though she’d always leave out a secret ingredient or two, ensuring hers was always the best! Her Christmas Italian “Stuffolis” cookies were a family favorite, and she delighted in seeing her loved ones enjoy the treats she made with love.

Frances hosted unforgettable gatherings. Every New Year's Eve, her basement would transform into a lively celebration, complete with gag gifts and a midnight game of charades that would signal to guests it was time to head home. Her backyard barbeques were legendary, bringing together family, friends, and neighbors who were all touched by her kindness and infectious spirit.

Known for her natural approach to life, Frances seldom wore makeup and had a wealth of home remedies to keep everyone well. She relied on “hot toddies” with whiskey, Tylenol, and rest instead of prescriptions and credited her long life to daily shots of apple cider vinegar, garlic, and onions. She loved a good Rolling Rock beer mixed with birch beer, adding her own twist to every tradition. With her skilled hands, she could sew anything—from clothes to household essentials made from old sheets and towels.

Frances loved simple pleasures: a walk with friends, reminiscing about “the good old days,” and quiet moments of prayer each day. She was the family’s Florence Nightingale, caring for others with an unwavering heart, ever faithful and devoted.

A remarkable woman, Frances remained active and sharp up until her last moments, leaving behind a legacy of warmth, resilience, and love.

Frances was the beloved wife of Alex Vitale, blessed in a loving and tender marriage until Alex’ passing in 1995. She was the loving mother of Marie Hess who predeceased her in 2023, Alexander Vitale who predeceased her in 1958, and Linda Romanyschyn and husband John of Bloomingdale, cherished grandmother of Carly Hess and Kristen Allemand and husband Scott; adored great-grandmother of Olivia and Maddison Allemand, dear sister of four brothers and four sisters who all predeceased her, and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Steven Spence Travers, age 73, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Steven passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 6, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in the Bronx, NY and was raised in Fort Lee, NJ.  Steven was the younger of two children to Joseph and Helen Travers.  As a young man he attended Fort Lee High School where he played basketball.  Following his graduation from Fort Lee High School with the class of 1969, Steven worked in motorcycle sales and management.  

In 1975, Steven accepted a sales position at Camrod Motorsports.  Steven spent an impressive thirty-seven years at Camrod MotorSports, one of New York City's most prestigious and largest motorcycle dealerships.  His dedication and sales expertise led him from an entry-level position to the role of general manager. Steven was always quick to qualify a sale and approached every customer with his unique style that combined his expertise with his quick wit. He made the process of purchasing a motorcycle fun, humorous, and exciting for his customers, as well as his co-workers.

Steven was an exceptional salesman, earning numerous national sales awards throughout his career for his ability to read customers and close them.  He was truly well respected and deeply loved by everyone who worked with him. Steven's reputation was built on a foundation of humor, fun, love, and his work ethic.  Steven’s forty-five career ended in 2020 when he retired.

In 1974, Steven’s mother introduced him to a young attractive lady named Pamela Michaels.  Steven’s mother was a buyer at the jewelry distributor, Cartier, Pamela worked for.  The two hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on September 12, 1976 Steven and Pam became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Fort Lee for a short time and while residing there, they welcomed the births of their two sons, Michael and Justin.  As their family grew, Pam and Steven decided to move to Fair Lawn where they bought their first home.  They called Fair Lawn their home for the next thirty-four years, raising their family there until 2021 when they moved to Pompton Plains.

Steven was a true New Yorker at heart, with an unwavering passion for his hometown teams: the New York Yankees, the NY Giants, and the NY Knicks. He could often be found cheering them on, whether at the stadiums or in front of the TV.  Outside of sports, Steven had a love for movies, particularly the classics, which he’d watch time and time again. His musical taste was as varied as his interests; he was a lifelong fan of The Beatles, The Beach Boys, and Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons. He also treasured his weekly wagers with the New York and New Jersey Lottery.

Those who knew Steven best knew that his greatest passion in life was his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Steven than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He treasured the countless vacations he spent with his family to various destinations such as Disney, Bermuda, and other exotic places throughout the Caribbean.  His greatest passion was watching his children participate in activities like sports & theatre. Steven was also quite the animal lover, often showing his softer side to his cats, which he loved dearly. Steven and his wife Pamela have cherished over forty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Steven was a generous, thoughtful man who had a way of finding the funny side of any situation.  He enjoyed teasing those close to him and often found great joy in surprising his friends and family with unexpected gifts.  

Steven was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone he knew.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Steven is survived by his wife Pamela Travers (nee Michaels), two sons; Michael Travers and his wife Samantha of Wayne, NJ, and Justin Travers and his wife Daniela of Rutherford, NJ, four grandchildren; Colton Travers, Navy Travers, Daniel Travers, and Quinn Travers, and one niece Coleen Garabedian.  He was predeceased by his brother Floyd Travers.

Charles Downing Ferry II, age 91, passed away on Tuesday, November 5, 2024.

He was born in Orange, NJ and grew up on Walker Road, West Orange where he spent his youth. After a long stint in the Air Force and living in many places in the United States, he returned to Glen Ridge before moving to Pompton Plains in 2007.

Charles received his formal education at West Orange High School, graduating with the Class of 1951. He then went to Upsala University in East Orange where he was enrolled in the Air Force Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC) program, graduating with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration. Upon graduation, he married Belinda (nee Beach) Ferry in June of 1955 and then began his military career.

He joined the United States Air Force in 1956 and graduated from pilot training in May of 1957. Charles acted as both an instructor and a command pilot, flying C130 cargo aircraft in tactical and evac missions in and out of Vietnam, and KC-135 refueling tanker aircrafts where he flew as aircraft commander in SAC (Strategic Air Command). This was at a time when that plane was brand new and played an important role in the early years of the Cold War. Upon returning to the States, Charles continued flying the KC-135 and was promoted to Major while flying his final leg as an Air Force Pilot in the EC-135. That aircraft was a highly specialized version equipped to handle the tracking and telemetry between the Apollo-Soyuz spacecraft and mission control; a highlight in his 20-year military flying career since it was part of the historic joint US-Russia space missions which led to the launch of the International Space Station!

After retirement, Charles settled down in Glen Ridge, NJ where he found a new calling in public service. He was part of the volunteer fire department for Glen Ridge and the Volunteer Ambulance Unit. He eventually became the first paid member of the Montclair Ambulance Unit and helped pave the way for future paramedics out of Mountainside Hospital.

After the untimely passing of Charles’ son-in-law John Acampora in 2003, Charles stepped in to be a father figure for his grandkids when they needed him most. It was not uncommon to see paramedic trucks parked outside his home and he would explain every component of that truck for his grandkids to learn. They truly loved him and valued the incredible insight he could teach from his first-hand experience. The mark he left behind on their lives can’t be overstated and they will miss him dearly.

Beyond his time spent in the skies and helping those in need, Charles enjoyed his hobby of gardening and growing delicious vegetables at his home. He also loved snow skiing, making many excursions to Vermont and Pennsylvania slopes during the cold winter months.

Charles was a member of the Air Force Association, Veterans of Foreign Wars, American Legion and the Disabled American Veterans.

Surviving Charles are his two daughters: Lisa Acampora and her husband Robert Barbara of Wayne and Alison Psota and her husband Michael Psota of Wanaque; his two sons: Robert Ferry and his wife Tara Ferry of Riverview, Florida and Charles Ferry and his wife Margaret Ferry of Deerfield, Michigan; his sister Nancy Grove of Michigan; his six grandchildren Michael Acampora and his wife Rihana, Christopher Acampora and his wife Karley Acampora, Maxwell Ferry, Ava Ferry, Hannah Balla and her husband Abdul Balla, and Charles Ferry and his wife Taylor Ferry; and his three great-grandchildren: Levi Balla, Mariah Balla, and Madison Acampora. Charles was predeceased by his wife of 53 years Belinda (nee Beach) Ferry (D. 2008).

If you’re looking to send flowers, the family requests that you instead make memorial donations to your local volunteer ambulance or VFW in Charles' memory.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Jane F. Boyle (nee Cooper), age 98, of Lincoln Park, NJ.  Jane passed away peacefully in her home on Tuesday, November 5, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Jane was born and raised in the city of Paterson, NJ and was the oldest of three children to Cornelius and Loretta Cooper.  As a young girl, Jane excelled in academics and was able to skip a grade level during her elementary education.  She attended Eastside High School while living in Paterson and graduated with the class of 1943 a year early.

Jane found employment quickly after her high school graduation as a secretary with the Erie Lackawana Railroad in Paterson NJ.  She worked there for several years.  As a young girl just out of high school, Jane went roller skating with a few friends at a local roller skating rink.  She caught the eye of a handsome young man by the name of Joseph Boyle that skated past her as she was sitting on a bench putting on her roller skates.  Joe struck up a conversation and the two hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  Shortly after they started dating, the Second World War broke out.  Joseph enlisted in the United States Merchant Marines and was sent overseas to Europe.

As fate would have it, Joseph returned safely to the United States and the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  Shortly after getting married, the newlyweds settled in a small apartment in Paterson.  While residing there, they welcomed the birth of their first child, James.  Joseph and Jane moved to Hawthorne shortly following the birth of their first child.  While in Hawthorne, they welcomed the births of their next four children, Thomas, Susan, Joseph and Kathy.  Jane and Joe cherished forty-three years of loving and loyal marriage until Joseph’s passing in 1991.  Jane moved to Lincoln Park after Joseph’s passing and has been there ever since.

Jane made the decision to become a homemaker after getting married, devoting her life to caring for and nurturing her family.  This was truly Jane’s calling and where she flourished.  She enjoyed playing golf with her husband, her sister, and her brother-in-law.  Throughout the years she also treasured boating with her family in up-state New York and vacationing in Florida to visit with family.

It was clear to everyone that knew Jane, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than spending time with her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

She was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic Faith.  Jane was a parishioner of St Joseph’s RC Church in Lincoln Park for many years.  Jane also did Catholic Scouting for other Roman Catholic Churches over the years and was awarded the St George Award for her efforts and dedication.

Jane was the epitome of kindness and humility. She lived her life with a quiet grace, always putting others before herself. Her sweetness was easily recognized through her gentle nature whether she was offering a comforting word to a friend or lending a helping hand to a neighbor. Despite her modest means, Jane found joy in giving, regularly donating to a variety of charities close to her heart.

Jane was a truly devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Jane is survived by her four children; James Boyle of Fort Worth, TX, Thomas Boyle and his wife Ruth of Valrico, FL, Susan Van Riper of Richfield Spring, NY, and Kathy Curtin and her husband Tim of Wayne, NJ, one sister Laurette Sierens and her husband Robert of Wayne, NJ, nine grandchildren, Richard Boyle, Chris Boyle, Kelly DeLallo, Jacquelyn Boyle, Lucas Van Riper, Derek Van Riper, Joseph Boyle, Jenna McNicholas, and Travis Curtin, nine great grandchildren and sister-in-law, Bernadette Boyle.  Jane was predeceased by her husband Joseph Boyle in 1991, by her son Joseph Boyle, her sister Norma Kaune, son-in-law, James Van Riper and daughter-in-law, Brenda Boyle.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Jane’s name are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Marty M. Monsees “Marty”, age 68, of Bloomingdale, NJ.  Marty passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 5, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Pequannock, NJ, raised in Wayne and was the youngest of three children to William and Lucille Monsees.  As a young girl, Marty attended Wayne Valley High School where she was a member of the Theatre Group and the Senior Chorus.  After graduating from Wayne Valley High School with the class of 1974, Marty enrolled at The Somerset Massage Therapy School.  She earned her certification in Massage Therapy after three years.  Marty owned and operated her own massage therapy office in Pompton Lakes called the Trinity Center for over 25 years.  Concurrent with operating her office in the evenings, she worked as a bookkeeper for Becton Dickenson in Franklin Lakes for more that fifteen years as well as for American Sons Locksmith in Riverdale, NJ for ten years.

For most of her adult life, Marty resided in Little Falls. NJ.  She enjoyed vacationing at Lake George, and the Jersey Shore where her father would often take her out on his fishing boat.  Clearly the most important aspect of Marty’s life was spending time with family and friends.  She had a vast network of close friends that she always made time for.  She was also a truly devoted aunt and cherished visiting and spoiling her nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews.

Marty was a bubbly, good natured woman who treasured spending time with family and friends.  She often took the time to wholeheartedly listen to those who needed someone to talk to.  She loved listening to country music and adored her cats that she had as companions throughout her life.  Marty was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be truly missed by her family and friends.

Marty had a wonderful team of special friends, which we called the "A Team". Jane Boudjouck, Janice Amodio and Lorna Alberti. They each visited daily and made sure her every need was taking care of, whether it be with her medical care, spiritual care, special foods she loved and even her laundry. They attended to her every need and deserve our special thanks.

A special shout-out to The Health Center at Bloomingdale, The ALS Foundation and Valley Hospice. Those nurses and aides grew to love Marty and became her "family".

Marty is survived by her sister Sue Lacomis “Suzie” and her husband Bill of West Wyoming, PA, three nephews; Billy Vigorito and his wife Jenny of Pennsylvania, Rocky Vigorito and his wife Nicole of Pennsylvania, and Travis Petrowski and his wife Julie of Toms River, NJ, six grandnieces and grandnephews; Mia Vigorito, Domenic Vigorito, Jake Vigorito, Caiti Vigorito, Travis Petrowski, Jr., and Victoria Brennan and her husband Billy.  Marty was predeceased by her sister Catherine Strauss and her nephew Richard Petrowski.

Those planning to make a donation in Martha’s name are asked to consider, ALS Greater New York or Valley Hospice

William "Bill" P. Fox, Sr., age 92, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, November 4, 2024.

Born in Paterson, NJ as the third of eight children to Christopher and Anna Fox, Bill's journey began in Hawthorne, NJ, where he became the first in his family to attend and graduate college. His life was marked by significant milestones, deep love, and an unwavering dedication to his family and passions.

When Bill was 18, he met the love of his life, Pat, after friends persuaded him to take her on a date. Before he would go out on that date, he decided to see her for himself so he walked over to her house. After one glance of Pat mowing the lawn in red shorts and a white top he was smitten. Not long after that date he was called to serve in the army. Before leaving, he asked Pat to wait for him. She said she wouldn’t, but true to her heart, she did and they reunited as soon as Bill returned home.

In 1952, Bill proposed to Pat in his 1952 Kaiser-Frazer Henry J parked outside her home in East Paterson. They were married on May 26, 1956, at Saint Leo’s Church in East Paterson and honeymooned in Bermuda. Together, they were blessed with six beautiful children who became the center of their world. Bill worked tirelessly to support his growing family while also continuing his education, ultimately earning a master's degree in Finance from Seton Hall University. In the early 1970s Bill was given an opportunity to work at the legendary Fender-Rogers company in Fullerton California and so he and Pat packed up the kids and moved across country where the family would live for the next 5 years.

As Bill's career advanced, he was offered the opportunity to work at Fender’s parent company, CBS, in New York City and so in 1975 the family moved back to the east coast, settling in Wayne, New Jersey where he would live for the rest of his life. His work at CBS Records, and eventually Polygram Records, brought incredible opportunities for his family, including trips for he and Pat to the Grammy Awards and access to exclusive music and Broadway events for his family.

Bill retired at 58 but found he couldn’t stay idle. When Pat needed help at the DePaul High School kitchen, he was more than willing to lend a hand, eventually making it a regular part of his life. Their shared time in the kitchen brought them closer, combining love and teamwork.

Family was everything to Bill and Pat. They hosted large family picnics in the summer and large holiday gatherings at Thanksgiving and Christmas where Bill's humble nature, good sense of humor and straightforward honesty were always on full display.

Bill also had a great love for music, especially Barbershop. He had a great singing voice and was a decades long member of the Dapper Dans of Harmony Chorus and always loved to perform. For a number of years he also sang with Big Apple Barbershop Chorus at Christmas-time under the Christmas tree at South Street Sea Port. He especially loved singing with his grandchildren.

Bill also had a quirky Mr. Fix-it side which led to some very unconventional DIY solutions. like the screwdriver that hung from an AC vent in the ceiling in the Wayne house for over 40 years. Bill cherished the New York Mets, the Oakland Raiders, and a good VO and soda with a twist and his church. His culinary preferences included pea soup, deviled eggs, fried hamburgers, and, notably, veal parmesan—a dish he believed could judge a restaurant's quality.

Bill's legacy is one of love, dedication, and a life well-lived. He will be remembered for his stoicism, humility, and the deep love he had for his family. His unique fixes, love for music, and veal parmesan orders at restaurants will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

Bill is predeceased by his parents Christopher and Anna Fox; his siblings: Christopher, Ed, and Ann; his wife Patricia; and his son-in-law Michael and grandson Derek.

Bill is survived by his siblings: Peter and his wife Linda of Hawthorne, Rita of Ohio, Marie and her husband Fred of Michigan, and Claire of Florida; his children: Bill and Sandra of Pickens, South Carolina, Andrew and Candice of Fort Meyers, Florida, Tom and Lynn of Monmouth Junction, Nancy and Bob of Oakland, Mary of Kinnelon, and Tim and Elizabeth of Coplay, Pennsylvania; and his grandchildren: Matthew and his wife Elise of Massapequa, Long Island and their son Tyler, Michelle of Jersey City, Dana of Garfield, Drew of Kinnelon, Michael of Kinnelon, John and his fiancé Rikki of North Brunswick, Danny of Oakland, and Christoffer of Rohrerstown, Pennsylvania.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Barbershop Harmony Association, https://www.harmonyfoundation.org/memorial-giving, would be appreciated.

Nancy M. Rogers, age 89, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Sunday, November 3, 2024.

Born in Hawthorne, NJ, she lived briefly in a house formerly located at 608 Lafayette Ave before her family settled in Wayne, where she spent most of her life. A student of the historic Preakness Elementary School, she later graduated from Pompton Lakes High School.

Shortly after graduation, Nancy found the love of her life at a roller skating rink in Paramus. It was there she met the strikingly handsome Navy sailor, Gerald “Jerry” Rogers. Not long after, Jerry proposed, but Nancy agreed to marry him only if he left the Navy. She didn’t want to wait or be a lonely military wife. Jerry made the right decision! They married on Saturday, August 21, 1954, at St. Clement’s Episcopal Church in Hawthorne. A reception followed at her family’s Wayne home, and for their honeymoon, the two headed to the Adirondacks—an adventure that foreshadowed a lifetime of shared road trips and camping.

The daughter of Walter Derbyshire, who, along with Nancy’s brother, opened the still-in-business Derbyshire’s Solid Wood Furniture Store in Wayne in 1949, Nancy grew up working at the store, learning the finer points of furniture. She and Jerry later managed the store for many years until retiring in their fifties, kicking off their golden years with cross-country travel in their beloved Airstream trailer. Montana and New York’s Adirondacks remained favorite destinations. Never short on adventure, they even embarked on international adventures, touring Europe by RV caravan with groups of fellow travelers. When they managed to sit still, they enjoyed snowbirding between Florida’s Travelers Rest Airstream Park in Dade City and summer months at their home in NJ.

An avid artist from the age of 12, Nancy painted throughout her life. Specializing in Plein-Air paintings, she regularly carried her painting supplies while hiking or paused a road trip to set up her easel roadside to capture a beautiful scene on the spot. She produced hundreds of paintings in oil, acrylic, and pastel, many of which she generously gifted to friends and family. One of her favorite local places was Laurelwood Arboretum in Wayne, where she could be found walking the trails and painting scenes in the gardens she loved so much. For many years, Nancy taught painting in Florida, where she was a member of the Zephyrhills Art Association, and in New Jersey, where she was a member of the Ringwood Art Association. Nancy also loved exhibiting her work at public and private shows and competitions, where she earned numerous ribbons and awards.

In addition to her art, Nancy had a deep love for the outdoors—from hiking to canoeing—and she thought nothing of taking her three young sons camping solo for weeks on end. She led her boys on adventures in the woods of High Point State Park, teaching them how to catch bullfrogs and salamanders and sparking a love for nature that they will carry forever. She even crossed the country with her husband, three small children, and mother-in-law in a VW bus, fearless and full of life.

Nancy loved music almost as much as she loved her family and art. She enjoyed everything from classical to Christian hymns to rock. A vibrant, fun-loving spirit, you could often find her dancing to the Grateful Dead in her favorite tie-dye shirt! Her homes were always filled with music.

Nancy was the beloved wife of the late Jerry Rogers, blessed in marriage for 49 wonderful years until his passing in 2004. She was a devoted mother to Robert Rogers and his wife, Mary, of Wayne; Richard Rogers and his wife, Nancy, of Hopatcong; and Brian Rogers of Federal Heights, Colorado. She was a proud grandmother to Kelsey, Maggie, Martina, Kelly, and Max, and was predeceased by her cherished great-grandson Milo.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Nancy’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Friends of Laurelwood Arboretum

PO Box 2433

Wayne, NJ 07474-2433

To download a mailable form to donate via mail, CLICK HERE

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American Cancer Society

PO Box 6704

Hagerstown, MD 21741

To download a mailable form to donate via mail, CLICK HERE

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Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Nancy Rogers

Ruth Ann Landis (nee Voorhis), age 82 of Boynton Beach, Florida, died peacefully on Sunday, November 3, 2024. Raised in Clifton, NJ, Ruth had lived in Wayne, Short Hills, and Green Pond, NJ, before retiring to Boynton Beach nearly thirty years ago.

Ruth was born on Valentine’s Day, 1942, to J. Chester Voorhis and Violet (nee Stewart), and her ancestry traces back to Mary, Queen of Scots. In 1961, Ruth married Ralph Vander May, with whom she had three children: Pam, Cliff, and Ken. After their divorce in 1969, Ruth married John J. Baum, with whom she had a daughter, Brenda. After John Baum died in 1979, she married Robert Landis in 1981. Ruth and Bob enjoyed a very loving marriage of forty years that included world travel, and countless benevolent hours serving with the Shriners of Salaam Temple in Livingston, NJ. During the 1990’s and 2000’s, Ruth and Bob summered at their beloved Green Pond, NJ, where they socialized at the Green Pond Yacht Club, played lots of tennis, cards, Mahjong, and hosted more than a few cocktail parties with their many friends. Their years at Green Pond were ranked highly among their most memorable and favorite. More recently, they retired to southern Florida, living in Boynton Beach. There, they continued to play tennis, golf, cards and Mahjong, and they socialized daily with their many friends in the Snug Harbor community. Sadly, Bob passed away in 2022, and Ruth has missed him dearly ever since.

Ruth is survived by her four children; Pamela Savage (nee Vander May) and her husband Donald of Denver, North Carolina, Brenda Paddock (nee Baum) of Massachusetts, Cliff Vander May and his wife Tammy of Wayne, NJ, and Ken Vander May and his wife Natalie Lacatena of Wayne, NJ, ten grandchildren, and a large, extended family of loved ones and countless dear friends. She was predeceased by her husband, Robert Landis (2022), by her second husband, John J. Baum (1979), and by her brother, J. Stuart Voorhis (1972).

Elaine Mary Corcoran (nee Rubiski), age 83 of Pompton Lakes, NJ died on Friday, November 1, 2024 after a brief illness. She has lived in Pompton Lakes for fifty-six years.

Elaine grew up in Clifton, graduating from Clifton High School in 1958. It was here that she met William Corcoran and they were married in October of 1960. They first lived in Paterson before moving to Pompton Lakes in 1968. Together they enjoyed visiting the Jersey Shore, and playing the slots in Atlantic City. Bill was an easy-going, calm and mellow type of guy, who put up with Elaine’s shenanigans rather well for the thirty-seven years they were together. Sadly, he passed away in 1998 and Elaine has missed him ever since.

Elaine was always very proud to take care of her yard and landscaping. She loved tending to her flower garden, bushes, and lawn, keeping them all immaculate. She was also an excellent cook and loved to prepare big meals like Thanksgiving. Christmas was her favorite holiday, and she was notorious for spoiling everyone with an abundance of thoughtful gifts. Her grandchildren were often overwhelmed by the gifts they received on Christmas. Elaine was a doting grandmother and simply loved to spoil each of them as often as possible. Although she could be a bit stern and strict at times, they will fondly remember her as the Grandma who played video games into her eighties and had a never-ending supply of peanut M&M’s and potato chips.  A few of them would tease her by calling her “Ellen” (which made her blood boil!), or simply “G-ma.”

Elaine had a huge heart, and she was particularly grateful to her stepfather, Barney Birch, for the care and love he brought into her life at a very critical time. Elaine had sadly lost her own father when she was just two years old, and Barney, who was her father’s best friend, married her mother. He was a wonderful father to her and Elaine often spoke about how grateful she was for him. Later in her adult life, Elaine was presented with an opportunity to do much the same for someone else. When her nephew, Michael Ward, lost his parents at twelve years old, and was living in foster care, Elaine and Bill chose to welcome him into their family. They raised him with love and care through some of the most challenging circumstances that a teenage boy could have faced. Michael didn’t make it easy for Elaine and Bill. He knows now that he would not be the man he is today without the compassion and grace that the Corcoran family showed him, and he is ever so grateful to Elaine for the sacrifices she made for his benefit.

Elaine is survived by her children, Donna Corcoran and her husband Rich DeBonte, their children, Matthew and Alexandra DeBonte; Kathleen Beatty and her husband Mark and their daughter Allison Beatty; William Corcoran and his wife Katie, and their children Kelly and Sarah Corcoran; and Michael Ward and his wife Loretta Houlis Ward, and their children, Michael Ward and his wife Lesley, Amanda Houlis, AnaMarie Houlis, Victoria Houlis and Theodore Houlis.  Elaine had one great-grandson; Michael. She was predeceased by her husband William in 1998.

George Conklin, beloved father, grandfather, and uncle, passed away on October 30, 2024 at the age of 80. He was born on June 24, 1944 in Paterson, NJ.

George dedicated his life to his wife, children, and grandchildren. He would attend any game, sporting event, no matter the distance or time. He had a profound impact on the lives of those around him, always offering support and love to his family and friends. He was beloved by all that knew him. He was a kind gentleman.

George and his three brothers were raised in Paterson by their single mother, Marie. He was a devoted son that met his working mom at the bus stop to carry her groceries home, ensuring her safety daily.

George made a career change midlife to pursue his real estate passion. While working on finding people their dream homes, he made many friends that respected and enjoyed his knowledge of properties. He referred to himself as George “Service” Conklin as he catered to his clients.

From the Jersey shore to the KOA campsites, George was the fun uncle that could be counted on by his many nieces and nephews. He was a pyrotechnic lover, a thrill chaser, and a vivid story teller especially about Jesse James and their adventures. George was known as a jokester and enjoyed making people laugh with his quick wit and humor.

He is survived by his three children, his son, Russell Bleeker and his wife, Lilla; his daughters, Dawn Di Brino and fiance Daniel Perry; and Heather Rotolo, his seven grandchildren, Kevin, Matthew, Ellie, Rachel, Carly, Michael, and Lauren. He will be deeply missed by all who knew him.  He is predeceased by the love of his life, his wife, Carolee Conklin, (nee Carafella), his mother and 3 brothers (Thomas, Robert, and Scott).

Rest in peace, Dad. Your love, kindness and legacy will live on in our hearts.

Basil J. Savron, 82, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on October 28, 2024.  Born on January 14, 1942, to Sophie and Charles Savron in Bayonne, New Jersey, Basil was a loving and devoted husband, son, brother and uncle.

Basil was the older of two sons born to Charles and Sophie.  While growing up in Bayonne, Basil attended Bayonne High School where he was a member of the varsity Basketball Team.  Following his 1959 graduation from Bayonne High School, he began his career as a clerk on the New York Stock Exchange.  He eventually became a stockbroker and purchased his own seat on the American Stock Exchange.  Over the next nine years, he attended Fairleigh Dickinson University at night earning his Bachelor of Arts degree in Business Administration.

In 1964, Basil enlisted in the United States Army alongside his brother Eugene Savron.  While serving in the US Army, Basil was stationed at Fort Dix and later Fort Knox in Kentucky.  He was assigned to LT Vehicle convoy as well as LT Truck assignments.  Basil served honorably and proudly in the US Army from 1964 to 1969 during the Vietnam era.

Basil worked on Wall Street as a broker until 1980 when he decided to change the trajectory of his career and enter the real estate business.  He earned his Real Estate License and as a member of Schlott Realty, he sold commercial and residential real estate. In 1985, Basil became a Real Estate Appraiser.  His eye for detail helped him hone his skills and navigate the complexities of property valuation; doing so well that, in 1990, he launched his own company:

ABS Real Estate Appraisal Services, in Wayne, N.J.  With a commitment to excellence and personalized service, Basil built a successful reputation, earning the trust of both his clients and real estate professionals. He was known for his insightful assessments and dedication to helping clients make informed decisions.  The Vice President of Fannie Mae called him the best appraiser in the Northeast.  

During this time, early in his appraisal career, Basil met his wife, Marianne Tabeek who was working at Metrobank together in Palisades Park.  Basil, with his warm smile and thoughtful nature, often brightened Marianne's day by sharing conversation and bringing a snack to her desk. After months of friendship, Basil and Marianne began dating. Marrying on October 28, 1995, they would be inseparable for the rest of their lives. Together, they successfully owned and operated his appraisal business until 2009 when he retired.

Basil was a truly devoted husband, spending every moment with his wife Marianne.  The couple cherished nearly thirty years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Basil and Marianne did everything together; traveling to various destinations to ski and visiting amusement parks which was one of Basil's favorite pastimes.  They frequented locations such as New Orleans, Disney, Atlantic City, and a variety of islands in the Caribbean including Bermuda.

Basil's hobbies included a passion for model trains.  Alongside his wife Marianne, he attended model train shows where they connected with fellow collectors. Basil designed a dedicated 25-foot by 25-foot room in their house, meticulously crafted to showcase his collection. Basil also enjoyed boating and fishing as a young man at Mountain Spring Lake with his mother, brother, sister-in-law and nieces, as well as taking countless day trips to Point Pleasant, NJ and Palisades Amusement Park.  He was a film buff and enjoyed watching various genres of classic movies.  He also treasured reading magazines that spoke to his interests and listening to the music of Elvis, Dion and the Belmonts, 1950s music and both opera and ballet.

Basil was not only truly devoted to his wife, he was also devoted to his Catholic faith.  As a young man, he was a parishioner of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary Ukrainian Catholic Church Byzantine Rite; the church that his father Charles helped to build. There, with his brother, Eugene, he served as an altar boy and volunteered at many church events. He was also president of the Holy Name Society and played for the Ukrainian Catholic Boys Basketball team (the Ukes) and, as a senior in high school, became the team's manager.

Basil's kindness and gentle spirit touched everyone he met. With a deep-rooted spirituality, he approached life with a peaceful demeanor and was always ready to lend a helping hand to those in need.  His selflessness was evident in the thoughtful gestures and words of encouragement he displayed. A true gentleman, Basil treated everyone with respect and compassion, touching the lives of everyone around him. He was not only a dedicated husband but also a devoted and loving uncle.  Basil was a truly special person who will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew him.

Basil is survived by his wife, Marianne Tabeek of Wayne, NJ; two nieces, Lana Savron-Abbott and her husband Bill of Piscataway, NJ, and Lori Savron-Glynn and her husband Chris of Griggstown, NJ; four grandnieces and grandnephews: Emily Abbott, Grace Glynn, Ryan Abbott and Jack Glynn and his sister-in-law, Jean Savron of Piscataway, NJ.  He was predeceased by his brother, Eugene Savron and his parents, Charles and Sophie Savron.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks that donations be made in Basil's memory to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

John J. Pajenski, Sr., of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 26, 2014, at the remarkable age of 101. Born in Passaic to Joseph and Mary (Furtak) Pajenski, John was the second-born child in his family, growing up with a strong sense of responsibility and resilience.

John graduated from Passaic High School and embarked on a lifelong career as an auto mechanic, working first at Vernards Esso on Broadway in Passaic. He later took his skills to York Trailers in Butler, NJ, where he continued to demonstrate his dedication and expertise. Even in his later years, John's spirit remained as vibrant as ever. Evan at the age of 101, he was known for driving daily to CVS in his 2008 Chevy Impala to pick up The Herald News—his favorite newspaper, which he read from cover to cover. And nothing would keep John from fetching his newspaper. His tenacity was legendary. Even at the age of 100, if necessary, he would get out early in the morning to shovel snow off his car so he could go for his morning paper run. His love for cars extended to his family life—he had lots of fun taking his son, John, Jr., to Raceway Park dragstrip to watch him race a 1968 Chevy Chevelle Super Sport.

A lover of life's simple pleasures, John cherished the companionship of his loyal dogs, Sandy and Tippy. His zest for life shone through even at the age of 99 when he was still mowing his lawn. Known for his kind heart and generosity - though admittedly a bit cranky at times - John would gladly give the shirt off his back to anyone in need.

John is survived by his three children: John Pajenski, Jr., and his companion Tina of Wayne; Linda Estremera and her husband Felix of Colonia; and Raymond Pajenski of Brick. He was also the grandfather of five grandchildren: Brian and his wife Jennifer, Daniel, Steven, Raymond and his wife Jada, and Randi and her husband Kyle. His legacy lives on in five great-grandchildren: Jayden, Maverick, Isabella, Lucas, and Grayson. John is also survived by his sister, Sophie Sikora, and her husband Frederick of Forked River, as well as his dear companion Loretta Clarkson, along with Loretta’s children, Jimmy and Kathy, and their families.

John was predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Mary Pajenski, his brother Stanley Pajenski, his sister Stella Novobilski and his beloved dogs Sandy and Tippy.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in John’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

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It is with great sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of Frederick “Fred” De Martino on Thursday, October 24, 2024. Born and raised in Yonkers, NY, Fred graduated from Roosevelt High School in Yonkers with the Class of 1962. He was a man who was truly devoted to his country, wife, family, and friends.

Fred served honorably in the U.S. Army as a combat infantryman and rifle marksman during the Vietnam War from 1966 to 1968. In recognition of his service, he was awarded the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal with one Bronze Service Star, the Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal, and the Combat Infantryman Badge. 

After his military service, Fred pursued higher education, earning an associate’s degree in drafting. For over 30 years, he worked as a draftsman in physics research at Columbia University's Nevis Laboratories in Irvington, NY, where his precision and dedication were greatly valued until retiring in 2009.

In the winter of 1975, Fred’s life changed forever when he met the woman who would become the love of his life, Madeleine Szemansco, on a snow skiing trip at Vernon Valley in New Jersey. Enchanted by her beauty and spirit he was drawn to initiate an encounter which was the beginning of a beautiful relationship. Their love for each other grew, leading to a mutual desire for marriage. Fred cleverly proposed by concealing an engagement ring in a popcorn bowl at a local club - a reflection of his playful sense of humor. They were married on Sunday, July 18, 1976, at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, NJ, followed by a honeymoon on the sunlit shores of St. Martin Island in the Caribbean. Their early years of marriage were spent in Wallington and Elmwood Park, NJ, before settling in Oakland, NJ, where Fred and Madeleine built a life together for over the past 48 years.

Fred had a lifelong passion for skiing and continued hitting the slopes, in Vermont and New Jersey, well into his 70s. His most cherished ski adventure, aside from the one where he met Madeleine, was a trip to Alta Ski Area in Utah with his brother-in-law Michael. Even in retirement, Fred remained active and found joy in traveling with Madeleine, exploring almost all the states along the U.S. eastern coast as well as Bermuda. For over 40 years, the couple also shared a love of antiquing, often embarking on weekend treasure hunts for their side business.

Fred had a lot of pride for his property which he cared for meticulously and maintained to perfection. A devoted family man, Fred was never far from those he loved and was actively assisting Madeleine in caring for her remarkable 106-year-old mother at the time of his passing.

Fred will be remembered for his unwavering work ethic, his humor that brightened your day, and his kind and personable nature. He was always ready to lend a hand, greet others with warmth, or share a laugh.

Fred leaves behind his beloved wife Madeleine to whom he was blessed in marriage for 48 years; his many adored nieces and nephews including: Ethan, Jack, Fallon, Chris, Braden, Savanah, Jonathan and wife Sherri, and Kristin and husband Mark; his three fantastic great-nieces: Hadley, Reagan, and Petra, and many friends and neighbors who were touched by his kindness and generosity. He was predeceased by his loving parents, Michael and Lucy (De Rosa) De Martino and his dear brother Michael De Martino.

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In lieu of flowers and plants, the family kindly asks that donations be made in Fred’s memory to one of the following charitable organizations:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas TX 75284-0692

Click here for Printable Tribute Donation Form

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, Suite 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

American Diabetes Association

P.O. Box 7023 

Merrifield, VA 22116-7023

Our Lady of Consolation RC  Church

1799 Hamburg Turnpike

Wayne, NJ 07470

William J. Vivino, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 23, 2024.

William was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. He was one of 6 children to Frank and Mary Vivino. While living in Paterson, he attended Eastside High School where he served as his class treasurer and first developed his affinity for science from the influence of one of his physics teachers. He went on to graduate from Eastside High School with the class of 1950 before continuing his education as a TV broadcast technician at the RCA Institutes in New York City.  Upon completing his training in RCA institutes, he was then employed by General Electric in Utica NY as an electronics technician.   William then joined the US Army at the end of the Korean War, serving his country honorably from 1953-1957.

After the army, William continued work as an electronics technician with Air Associates before advancing to Bendix Aviation out of Teterboro, NJ. While working for Bendix Aviation, he visited a local cleaner and stumbled across a beautiful woman named Marie Galletta. Suddenly his clothes started to get dirty more often and he found himself visiting the cleaners more frequently as an excuse to visit Marie. His persistence paid off and the couple started dating. He and Marie were married on June 6, 1959, at his dad Frank’s Plaza Ball Room in Paterson.  The following year, they were blessed with their son Bill.

Bill’s career took another turn when he landed a job at Bell Labs – a research and development subsidiary for AT&T, where he worked on the first Electronic Switching System for phones across the country.  While working at Bell Labs in NJ, he continued his education in engineering at Fairleigh Dickenson University.   During this time, as the ESS project continued to grow, the base of operations shifted to Naperville, Illinois. The decision to move to Illinois or stay in New Jersey with Marie came naturally and he decided to leave his position at Bell Labs in 1967. William decided at this point to shift professions entirely and pursue his passion for teaching the sciences, by completing his bachelor’s degree in Fairleigh.

William began his teaching career as a science teacher at Elmwood Park Memorial High School, primarily teaching physics before expanding his expertise to other sciences, mathematics, and electronics. While teaching, he completed his Master’s degree at Montclair State University.  His exceptional dedication to education earned him the prestigious NJ Science Teacher of the Year award, presented to him by the NASA astronauts Sally Ride and Terry Hart. Though he retired from full-time teaching in 2003, William’s commitment to education continued well into his 80’s as he served as a substitute teacher in the Wayne School System.

William will be remembered as a man who always put his family first. He truly loved every moment spent with them and he was well known for going to all his grandkid’s games, events, and dances. He and Marie even purchased a vacation home down in Sea Isle, NJ to have a place for his family to gather and spend time together at the beach.

Parallel to his devotion to his family was his close relationship to God. He was an active parishioner at Our Lady of the Valley Church where he participated in the church choir. He was also a member of the Knights of Colombus, a fraternal organization centered around the Catholic faith.

Another passion William will be remembered for was his lifelong love for music that started from the age of just 9 years old when he first learned to play the piano. He practiced and improved his skills as a pianist for the rest of his life, and his piano performances will be dearly missed by his family and the community.

William is survived by his wife Marie; his son Bill and his wife Karen; his grandkids: Bill, Christina and her husband Joe, Steven and his wife, Allie, Joey and his wife, Kate, and Danielle and Jon; and his great-grandkids: Brielle, Joey, Daniella, Dominic, Valentina, Jacob, Peyton, and Jace. He is also survived by his siblings Jack and Raymond and their wives, Carmen and Angie.

William is predeceased by his parents Frank and Mary Vivino and his siblings: Ida, Connie, and Frank.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Salvation Army would be greatly appreciated.

Carmen “Nooch” DeLuccia, age 80, of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Wednesday, October 23, 2024.

Born and raised in Paterson, he graduated from Central High School in the Class of 1962 and attended Passaic County Technical Trade School for drafting, graduating in 1965.

Soon after, Carmen was drafted into the United States Army, serving with Company C, 1st Battalion (M) of the 58th Infantry, and later with the 197th Infantry Brigade 3D. During his service, Carmen earned numerous honors, including the National Defense Service Medal, Vietnam Service Medal with 1 Bronze Service Star, Republic of Vietnam Campaign Medal with Device 1960, Combat Infantryman Badge (1st Award), Purple Heart, 1 O/S Bar, and Sharpshooter (Rifle M-14). He was honorably discharged from the Army Reserves on November 18, 1971.

Carmen met Beverly through her sister Diane and they went to the movies on their first date. He proposed at the Fountain Blue Restaurant on Route 46, hiding the engagement ring in a glass of champagne. Shortly after, Carmen was drafted into the Army. He and Beverly stayed in touch during his service and continued their relationship after his discharge. They married on September 24, 1967, at St. Mary’s Church in Paterson, sharing 57 years of devoted marriage, blessed with a son, Dean, and a daughter, Nicole (Nikki).

Carmen was a man of unwavering loyalty, deeply devoted to his family. His love for his wife, children, grandchildren, and even his grand-dogs was evident in every aspect of his life. 

He found joy in simple pleasures, like cheering for his favorite teams, the New York Giants and New York Yankees. He loved fishing, especially while out on his boat in Beach Haven and taking photos on film, starting in Vietnam, and following the hobby throughout his life.

Family was central to Carmen’s life, and he made it a point to attend his grandchildren Jake and Brianna’s sporting events, whether it was football or soccer, always showing his support.

Carmen was also active in his community, dedicating many years to the Wayne Hills Patriots Booster Club, where he served as President, and was a proud member of the Pompton Lakes Elks Lodge. His musical talents shone in the Paterson drum corps, where he played the snare drum.

In his free time, Carmen tended to his beloved fig trees and visited local car shows. He was an accomplished carpenter, crafting everything from birdhouses, to custom gardens, to full-scale home additions. He was known for his ability to fix anything.

Carmen is survived by his beloved wife, Beverly (Montanya) DeLuccia; his son, Dean, and wife Tracy of Wayne; his daughter, Nicole “Nikki” DeLuccia of Wayne; cherished grandchildren Brianna and Jake DeLuccia; and his brother, John DeLuccia of Parsippany. He was predeceased by his siblings Neabla, Anthony, Ernesto, Alfonso, and his sister-in-laws Alice and Jean. He was also the much-loved grandfather of his granddog, Harley.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Lois Bender, age 76, of Wayne, NJ.  Lois passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 22, 2024. 

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William Allan Monsees, age 97, of Pompton Plains and a former longtime resident of Totowa, passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, October 21, 2024. His loving family was present at the time of his passing. 

The son of William Charles and Christine (Baumann) Monsees, Bill was born in Hoboken and raised in Union City, NJ where he was a 1944 graduate of Union Hill High School. 

After high school, Bill enlisted into the United States Navy at 17 where he proudly served his country during World War II aboard the destroyer, USS Gyatt. After his Navy service, Bill returned to his hometown of Union City and enrolled in the Newark College of Engineering where he earned his bachelor’s degree. He later earned his master’s degree in electrical engineering, taking evening classes at Stevens Institute of Technology. 

Bill launched his engineering career with Sperry Gyroscope in Long Island. He then enjoyed a fulfilling thirty-eight-year career as an Electronic Systems Engineer with ITT Avionics in Nutley until retiring in 1989. His work included design of complex defensive electronics for submarines and military helicopters.

Bill enjoyed a loving and tender marriage of 74 years with his beloved wife Dolores (Smith) Monsees. Having attended high school and St. John’s Lutheran Church in Union City together, Bill and Dolores met and started dating in their mid-teens. They married on July 16, 1950, at St. John’s Lutheran Church and, following their honeymoon, they settled into their first home on Stewart Terrace in Totowa. They raised their two sons and one daughter there and remained in that house for nearly 70 years before moving to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in 2019.

Following retirement, Bill and Dolores enjoyed extensive travel time together and with friends. In addition to adventures throughout most of the USA, including Alaska and Hawaii, and numerous cruises, they enjoyed trips to Israel, Germany, Jamaica, and England and a two-week vacation in 2007 with all their children and their families to Ireland, England and Scotland. During football season, Bill was all in on his beloved Giants. A season ticket holder since the team started playing home games in NJ in 1976, Bill and Dolores attended the first Giants Super Bowl win with friends in the Rose Bowl in 1987.  Staying true in later years, whether with exciting wins or crushing losses, through good times and tough times, Big Blue could always count on Bill’s loyal following which he shared with his children and grandchildren. The season tickets are still in the family.

Since 1966, Bill and Dolores have been members of St. Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne. Bill served as head usher for many years and he and Dolores were active volunteers in many aspects of life at St. Timothy.

Bill was the beloved husband of Dolores; loving father of William D. Monsees and wife Kelli of Ft. Myers, Florida, Paul R. Monsees and wife Cathy of Chevy Chase, Maryland, and Catherine D. Davidson and husband Robert of Towaco; cherished grandfather of Christopher who predeceased him in 2002, Lori, Kassie and husband James, Dana, Clayton, Kyle and wife Avery, and Devan and husband Gavin; and great-grandfather of Daniel and Emery.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in William’s name are asked to consider St. Timothy Lutheran Church.

Viktor Tkaczenko, 93, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Sunday, October 20 with his loving family by his side. He was born to Alexander and Julia Tkaczenko on May 7, 1931 in Tagenrog, Ukraine. Together with his older sister Clara and his parents, they resided there until World War II broke out. They were forced to work for the German Army when the front reached Ukraine in 1943.

The family was taken to work in a German field hospital and later at a munitions factory in Germany. In 1945, Viktor, then 15 years old was living with his parents and sister in a bombed-out building, scavenging for food and taking cover when the allied planes approached to drop war bombs. They then spent 4 years in a displaced persons camp before the family had the opportunity to immigrate to the United States.

Viktor and his parents arrived in America via a liberty ship in 1949, and he enlisted in the United States Army during the Korean War so he could serve his new country and earn his citizenship within 3 years. Because of his fluency in 5 languages, he was assigned to the Berlin Military Intelligence Compound. After completing his service, he was sent to Fort Dix for his honorable discharge and was sworn in as a United States Citizen in 1955.

Viktor was loving, caring and devoted to his family and always spoke his mind. He was so very blessed to have had two wonderful wives in his lifetime. He married his first wife, Elizabeth in 1955 and had two children together, Teresa who was born in 1960 and Craig who was born in 1964. They spent 28 loving years together until her passing in April of 1983.

Viktor had many hobbies, and thoroughly enjoyed snow and water skiing, scuba diving, and vacationing yearly with his family at Schroon Lake, NY with his boat. He had a love for cars, old and new, but mostly antique cars. He restored many cars over the years, and being the perfectionist he was, everything was meticulous and the end result was impeccable 

While working on the management team at Polychrome Corporation, he met his second wife, Beverly. They spent 37 loving and wonderful years together. She always said he was her “soulmate”. They were very active during their years together, traveling to many interesting places and vacation destinations. They were members of many organizations including the Cadillac LaSalle Club, and the Cadillac Club of North Jersey. He restored a 1962 Cadillac Eldorado Biarritz for Beverly with a plaque on the dashboard which reads: “Owned and restored by Viktor Tkaczenko for Beverly – 2000.” They were also active members of the Harley-Davidson Motorcycle Club, and the Army Air Corp Historical Association. 

Viktor is survived by his wife of 37 years, Beverly (nee Chasin) Tkaczenko, his daughter Terry (nee Tkaczenko) Reilly and her husband Ken Reilly, his son Craig Viktor Tkaczenko and his wife Danielle (nee Massood) Tkaczenko, his three granddaughters, Kathryn Reilly, Jacqueline & Madison Tkaczenko, and nieces and nephews. He was pre-deceased by his parents Alexander & Julia Tkaczenko, his sister Clara (nee Tkaczenko) Shore and his first wife, Elizabeth (nee Wershkoff) Tkaczenko.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Viktor Tkaczenko’s name to the Dementia Society of America at dementiasociety.org.

Antonia Manente, age 82 of Wayne, died on Sunday, October 20, 2024. She has lived in Wayne since 1989. Antonia retired in 2007 from the Union City schools where she had been a teacher’s aid for seventeen years. 

Antonia was born and raised in Gravina, Italy, near Bari. She was one of ten children in her family: eight girls and two boys. Her family was very religious and deeply involved in their Catholic church. As a teenager, she was considering the idea of becoming a nun but that all changed one day when she met Antonio Manente. Antonio was a patient at the hospital where she had been working, and they quickly fell for each other. They were married on September 4, 1960, but there was no time for a honeymoon. Her husband moved to America, and they waited two years before they could be together again. Antonia had never ventured very far from her hometown when, at just twenty years old, she boarded a plane and flew to New Jersey where she settled in Hoboken with her new husband. They lived there, and then in Union City for several years, before buying a home in Wayne in 1989. They enjoyed a loving and loyal marriage of more than sixty years before Antonio passes away in 2020, and she has missed him ever since.

Antonia was certainly the matriarch of the Manente family. She was a strong and hard-working woman who always stressed the importance of loving one another. Her children recall how devoted she was to her Catholic faith throughout all the years of her life. She joined many prayer groups and bible studies, read her bible often, and attended mass regularly. Psalm 23 was among those she read most often. She was also a devoted grandmother to her nine grandchildren, and she was blessed with three great-grandchildren. Each of them filled her with love and joy. Her cup runneth over.

Antonia is survived by her four children; Vito Manente of Union City, NJ, Filomena Manente of Jupiter, FL, Nancy Antolini (Justin) of Wyomissing, PA, and Tony “Reno” Manente (Brianna) of Franklin Lakes, NJ, nine grandchildren; Christina, Vito, Anthony, Victoria, Jacob, Roger, Antonia, Antonio James, and Reno, and three great-grandchildren; CJ, Juliana, and Eleanora. She is also survived by six of her siblings: Graciella, Franca, Josephine, Tina, Rose, and Vito. She was predeceased by her husband, Antonio, in 2020, and by three of her siblings; Francesco, Elvira, and Maria.

King Fan Hsu was born on November 25, 1936, in the bustling port city of Keelung, Taiwan, then known as Formosa. The eldest of seven siblings—five brothers and two sisters—King grew up with a strong sense of responsibility. During World War II, as Taiwan was occupied by Japan, his family fled south to escape the ravages of war. After the conflict ended, they resettled in Taipei, where King began to shape his future.

After serving a year in the Taiwanese army in 1961, King pursued his education in chemical engineering. He graduated from National Cheng Kung University in 1963 and soon began working as a food research engineer at Taiwan Pineapple Corporation in Yuanlin. It was during this time that he met Grace, after delivering fresh oranges to her family. They married on August 3, 1964, in Taipei, embarking on a life together that would span continents and decades.

With encouragement from a coworker, King immigrated to the United States in pursuit of better opportunities, although immigration laws forced him to leave Grace behind for two long years. After landing in Hawaii, King first attended Missouri University of Science and Technology, and finished his education at St. Joseph’s University in Philadelphia. There, he spent weekdays studying diligently and weekends cooking in Chinese restaurants near Valley Forge. His hard work supported his education, and he graduated in November 1967 with a master’s degree in chemical engineering.

In December 1966, King was finally reunited with Grace in Philadelphia. Their family grew with the birth of two daughters — Belle and Candice. Soon, King’s career took the family to Cleveland, Ohio, when King proudly became a naturalized U.S. citizen.

In 1977, a new job took the family to New Jersey, first to Little Falls and later to their permanent home in Wayne in 1985. In 1979, they returned to Taiwan for a family reunion — King and Grace's first trip back since immigrating. It was a special journey, as he introduced his daughters to their extended family and shared with them the beauty and richness of their Taiwanese roots. Over the next few years, the family returned to Taiwan several times, as well as welcoming more family members to the USA.

A dedicated family man, King was always committed to learning. When his daughters left for college, leaving an empty nest, King surprised them by enrolling in evening classes to learn American Sign Language to communicate better with them. He had a passion for languages, over life learning Japanese, Cantonese, Mandarin, English, and even a bit of German. His work in microelectronics earned him recognition, including roles as president and speaker for local societies in New Jersey, as well as accolades for his contributions to the Environmental Protection Agency.

Though he semi-retired in 2001, King never fully stopped working, taking on different contract projects. In his later years, he found joy in gardening, cultivating the best tomatoes, and indulging his artistic side by contributing pencil drawings of nature and people to local art shows. His interest in technology also grew, as he embraced computers and the internet as new hobbies. He loved celebrating his birthday with trips to Atlantic City to play penny poker machines, and frequent trips to the Jersey shore for seafood and sightseeing.

King Fan Hsu’s journey was one of love, resilience, and dedication. He touched the lives of many, leaving behind a legacy of hard work, kindness, and an enduring love for his family and new son-in-law Bruce, with 60 years of marriage, and his deep love of his new adopted country. He will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who knew him.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Darryn Stewart, age 54, of Passaic, NJ.

Darryn passed away unexpectedly on Friday, October 18, 2024 at his home in Passaic, NJ. He was born at The Barnet Hospital in Paterson, NJ and raised in Passaic where he attended Passaic High School as a young man. While at Passaic HS, he was a member of the Varsity Football Team and proudly wore number 76 as an offensive and defensive lineman. After graduating in 1988 he worked in security for several years in addition to a variety of other ventures. 

Darryn had always believed in love, although he never expected to find it online. When he met Marlyse in 2008, an instant connection sparked between them. Marlyse knew the moment she met him that he would be the person she would marry. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on February 27, 2010 they exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by family and friends at Bridgeway Community Church in Haledon, NJ.

Shortly after they were married, the newlyweds purchased their first home in Passaic, NJ and resided there for the duration of their marriage. Darryn and Marlyse cherished 14 years of a loving and loyal marriage to each other. 

Darryn loved to fish. With Marlyse at his side, they enjoyed many afternoons fishing together at their favorite spots in North Haledon and Franklin Lakes. When they weren't fishing, they often woke up early excited to look for hidden treasures at flea markets and garage sales. Marlyse and Darryn also spent many adventures at Garret Mountain and Third Ward Park enjoying bbq's and blue claw crabs, Darryn's favorite. During the summer months they enjoyed watching fireworks and during Halloween and Christmas they would drive around and look at the decorations and lights.

Darryn and Marlyse also found joy in their shared evenings together. They often would settle in and watch various shows about the adventurous lives of people who lived in the wilderness, with some of their favorites being Alaska: The Last Frontier, Mountain Men, and Alaskan Bush People.

They also loved to watch their favorite sports teams play. When it came to baseball, they both rooted for the New York Yankees. But when it came to football, they disagreed. Darryn was a diehard Dallas Cowboys fan through and through. He would root for the New York Giants, Marlyse's favorite team, but when the teams played each other, which is twice a season, things at the house would get interesting. 

Darryn was also an avid fan of music. He loved all types of music and would have the  radio on 24/7. His favorite artist was Keith Sweat. One night Darryn called the radio station to make a song request and Keith picked up the phone. They spoke with each other for more than a few minutes. Darryn was elated and the conversation left a lasting impression on him.  

Darryn was a very kind and caring person. His kindness made him a truly special person, one that would leave a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to know him. Darryn also made Valentine's Day, anniversaries, and birthdays very special for Marlyse. His gestures were sentimental, and gifts were thoughtful and personalized. 

Darryn is survived by his wife Marlyse Vanderwal of Passaic, NJ, his daughter Dasia Stewart of Orange, NJ, his son Darryn Stewart stationed in Guam with the US Navy, his son Dazire Stewart (aka Nunu) of Orange, NJ, his brother Dexter Stewart of Pennsylvania, his brother Dorian Stewart of Paterson, NJ, and three granddaughters. He was predeceased by his parents Willie and Polly Stewart.

Those who wish to make donations in Darryn’s name are asked to consider Bridgeway Community Church, 381 Haledon Ave, Haledon, NJ 07508.

Wayne was born in Hackensack, New Jersey and raised in Woodridge, New Jersey.  He graduated from Woodridge High School in 1947 where he ran track and field before enlisting in the US Army in 1951.  He served active duty in Germany and later in the Reserves until his honorable discharge in 1957.

Wayne was a dedicated member of the IUOE 825 for over 65 years.  During this time, he worked with his father and brother on the third tube of the Lincoln Tunnel, helped build the original Giants Stadium, Meadowlands Racetrack, and many of the roads we drive on every day.  Wayne completed his career with HMDC/ Waste Management in 1994.  

Wayne possessed a strong work ethic instilled in him as a young child; doing chores, helping his parents, learning the basics of survival, from cooking, laundry, sewing, to maintaining the house and yard, and of course the ability to fix anything.  His mind was always working on how to make things better.  He would often say, “Good, better, best, never let it rest, ‘till your good is better, and your better is best!”  Evidence of his creativity is everywhere; he was a real-life “MacGyver”.  He was a quiet, honest man, strong and brave, never blinking in the face of danger.  He lived each day as it came.  His motto was, “You have to keep moving, to keep moving.”

He was a devoted family man who also enjoyed the company of the family pets.  No matter how busy he was, he always took time to throw a ball with his daughter Marsha.  In the 1970’s the family had their share of pets, a devoted cat named Taffy, and even a pet squirrel named Frisky, who one day decided to run inside the leg of his coveralls!  His genuine love of animals and nature ran deep, he enjoyed feeding chipmunks and birds, and as a young boy, could be found fishing, playing in the woods, and making friends with all of God’s creatures. In addition, Wayne enjoyed snow skiing, water skiing, boating, and was an avid reader.

He was a loving husband, father, grandfather and best friend.  Wayne is survived by his daughter Marsha, her loving companion, Frank Sykes, a beautiful granddaughter Jennifer, sisters-in-law, Lorraine and Maureen, cousins, and many friends.  He was predeceased by his wife of 50 years, Joan K. Sager, his parents, George and Ann (Himko) Sager, and two brothers, George and Frederick.  Collectively, all would agree, you could never know a better man.

Kathleen Marshall, age 79 of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Monday, October 14, 2024. 

Born in Kilkerrin, Ireland and raised in the town of Glenamaddy, County Galway by her loving mom Nellie, Kathy moved to New Haven, Connecticut at just 12 years old. She and her mom eventually settled in Cleveland, Ohio to be closer to her extended family. There she graduated from St. Michael’s High School. 

From a young age, Kathy had a great work ethic inspired by her mom. Nellie went above and beyond to provide for her daughter, raising her as a single parent and Kathy never took that for granted. She seized an opportunity out of high school to work for the American Greetings Card Company and worked her way up to become the Executive Secretary to the VP of Distribution!

While working for American Greetings, Kathy also had a passion for hockey that manifested in her involvement with both the National and the American Hockey League Booster Clubs. It was at one of these conventions that she first met Frank Marshall in 1984. Frank had to return to New Jersey shortly after their meeting, but their chance encounter left a lasting impression. They sent letters back and forth to each other without the convenience of cell phones to help them communicate. Frank felt connected to Kathy right away. When she sent him a letter explaining that her favorite Sunday was spent watching football on TV and eating dinner on snack trays at halftime, Frank knew she was the one. The two fell in love and just three years after that first meeting, they were married. Kathy and Frank ended up moving to Pompton Lakes, NJ and have lived there ever since. They often thought about moving back to Ohio, but the community they helped create here in New Jersey was just too great and they found themselves at home in the Garden state. 

Once in New Jersey, Kathy continued her professional career by earning a job at Castrol Motor Oil in Wayne. She worked as an accountant with the company until she retired in 2008. Soon after, she was recruited by the owners to work at Thatcher McGhee’s in Pompton Lakes, NJ as a bookkeeper. Kathy loved her Irish heritage and Thatcher’s was a piece of her heritage here in New Jersey that her friends and family all loved.

Kathy loved to give back to her community and did so with the most valuable resource anyone can give: her time. Kathy was involved in the Pompton Lakes Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary where she served for a time as their President. She was also part of the Pompton Lakes Elks where she served on the Motorcycle committee. She was a devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s Church most notably contributing to the St. Mary’s food pantry. She was part of the Ladies Ancient Order of Hibernias and the Ladies of the Knights both in North Wildwood, Cape May County. Still, she found time for the Emerald’s Society – an Irish American fraternal organization centered around police and fire members. Last, but not least, she took part in several different hockey organizations including: Past secretary for the American Hockey League Booster Club Association, member of the National Hockey League Booster Club Association, and a lifetime member of the Cleveland Hockey Booster Club Association for her 65 years of commitment to that organization. 

Those who were fortunate enough to know Kathy will remember her for her endlessly selfless nature. She always put others before herself and loved to see them enjoying her countless baked treats or home made chocolates. When you walked past Frank and Kathy’s home, you were almost guaranteed the aromas of an early morning fresh bakery. Their home was a delight to the neighborhood and Kathy will be dearly missed by the entire community. 

The family is requesting no flowers. In lieu of flowers, a donation to St. Mary’s Food Pantry, a beloved organization that Kathy was involved in for years would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gloria E. Thompson (nee Casson), age 79, of Woodland Park, NJ.

Gloria passes peacefully on Monday, October 14, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Gloria was born in the city of Paterson and attended St Mary’s Elementary School.  She was one of two children to Gloria and Edward Casson.  While still a young girl, Gloria’s father Edward Casson was tragically killed in World War II.  After several years, her mother remarried and the family moved to Wayne, NJ.  While living in Wayne, Gloria attended Holy Cross Elementary School and later De Paul High School also located in Wayne.  Gloria graduated from De Paul High School with class of 1963 and immediately enrolled in a secretarial school in Paterson.

After earning her Associates Degree, Gloria found employment quickly and accepted a position as a secretary in the library at William Paterson College, now known as William Paterson University.  Gloria spent nearly the next thirty years at William Paterson University until retiring almost twenty-five years ago.  In Gloria’s retirement, she worked part-time as a receptionist in a wedding showplace in Wayne.   Gloria thrived in her part-time role where the air was always filled with excitement.  She genuinely enjoyed meeting with couples and helping guide them through the maze of planning their perfect day.  Her warm smile and keen attention to detail made her a pleasure to work with.

As a teenager at De Paul High School, Gloria attended the yearly high school dance.  While talking with a fellow classmate at the dance, a boy named Arthur Thompson approached her with a shy smile and asked, “Cass, you wanna dance?”  Their connection was instant, and what began as a simple twirl under the stars blossomed into a whirlwind romance. The two quickly became high school sweethearts.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 27, 1970, several years after their graduation, surrounded by friends and family, they sealed their love with vows becoming husband and wife at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

The newlyweds first lived in an apartment in Whippany, NJ where they only lived for a few months.  They moved to another apartment in Haledon where they lived for about a year before purchasing their first home in that same town.  Two years later the couple moved to Woodland Park, NJ where they have called their home ever since.  

Arthur and Gloria treasured traveling together throughout the years particularly by way of cruise ships.  Gloria and Arthur visited a variety of exotic destinations throughout the Caribbean, their favorite being the island of Bermuda.  Arthur and Gloria cherished fifty-four years of loving and loyal marriage together.  

Gloria was the embodiment of positivity, known for her outgoing nature and infectious smile that brightened any room she entered. Despite facing numerous challenges in her life, she approached each day with an unwavering enthusiasm for her work, inspiring those around her.  Although she had a lot to complain about, she never did.  Gloria will be forever remembered as a loving, devoted wife and a truly wonderful and dedicated friend to those who knew her.

Gloria is survived by her husband Arthur Thompson of Woodland Park, NJ, her sister-in-law Lynn Linch and her husband Frederick of New York State, her sister-in-law Joy Thompson of Madison, NJ, and five nieces; Christine, Tracey, Jennifer, Jamie, and Jennifer Casson, and three nephews Earl, Edward, and John.  She was predeceased by her brother Edward Casson and her nephew William Thompson.

 It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Daniel Vander Kooy, age 90, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Daniel passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 16, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in Passaic and raised in Wayne.  Daniel was one of four children to Daniel and Nellie Vander Kooy.  While living in Wayne, he attended high school at Eastern Christian School in Haledon.  Following his high school graduation, Daniel found employment with Bell Telephone, now known as AT&T.  After a few years working with NJ Bell, Daniel received the call to serve his country in the United States Army.  He was stationed in Germany while serving in the Army from 1957 until being honorably discharged in 1959.

Upon returning home from his service with the Army, Daniel resumed his position at NJ Bell and over the years worked his way up the corporate ladder to a Mid-Level Executive position.   His career with Bell/AT&T spanned a period of thirty-two years until his retirement in 1987.

As newlyweds, Daniel and Wilma lived for a short time in Little Falls, then in 1961 moved to Pompton Plains.  While living in Pompton Plains, they welcomed the births of both their sons, Kenneth and Glenn.  Daniel and Wilma raised their family in Pompton Plains and called it their home for the rest of their lives together. 

Daniel was an avid fisherman to put it mildly.  He treasured freshwater fishing at a variety of locations in New Jersey, his favorite fishing hole being Round Valley Reservoir in Clinton Township.  He was a member of the Round Valley Trout Association (RVTA) for many years.

Daniel also had a passion for woodworking, in his workshop he also loved tinkering with electronics and old clocks, bringing forgotten gadgets back to life with his skillful hands. When he wasn’t immersed in his projects, Daniel could be found tending to his vibrant garden, where he nurtured an array of colorful flowers and fresh vegetables.  He always made sure that his front and back yards were meticulously manicured.

Aside from all of Daniel’s talents, hobbies, and interests. His greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Daniel than providing for and spending time with his family. He and his wife Wilma cherished sixty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  He was not only devoted to his family, but also to his Christian Faith.

Daniel will be forever remembered as a loving husband, and truly devoted father, and grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Daniel is survived by his wife Wilma Vander Kooy (nee Douma) of Pompton Plains, NJ, his two sons; Kenneth Vander Kooy of Hastings, NY, and Glenn Vander Kooy of Wayne, NJ, two grandchildren; Lauren Vander Kooy of Nutley, NJ, and Danielle Vander Kooy of Woodland Park, NJ.  He was predeceased by his brother Edo Vander Kooy, and his two sisters Ruth and Jennie.

Eleanor Mensonides, nee Bhend, aged 74, of Vernon, New Jersey, passed Thursday, October 10, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

Eleanor was born to Joseph and Ruth Bhend in Paterson and graduated from Kinnelon High School with the class of 1966. 

Eleanor’s first job was as a cashier for the A&P in the Meadtown Shopping Center in Kinnelon, followed by various waitressing jobs, working in supermarkets, and eventually for the Township of Vernon, as its first Recycling Coordinator.  She then moved to the Sussex County Municipal Utilities Authority (SCMUA) as Assistant Recycling Coordinator and Enforcement.  She later joined the Sussex County Health Department as a County Health Inspector, where she continued to serve her community.  She drafted some of the legislation governing wasteflow regulation, which has had immeasurable impact on keeping our landfills free of illegally transported or dumped material.  In keeping with her interest in protecting our lands she became involved in town and county matters, running twice for Township Committee in Vernon, sitting on the Economic Development Commission for Vernon, serving on the Sussex County Solid Waste Advisory Council (SWAC) for twenty-seven years and twenty-two years on the Sussex County Water Quality Policy Advisory Committee (PAC).

Never has the fiery redhead reputation been better earned than by Eleanor.  Anyone who knew her for more than a few minutes realized she was a force to be reckoned with, and it was so much better for your cause if you had her in your corner.  She was smart, savvy, and shrewd.  If she believed in something, she dove in with both feet, overcame any obstacles, and saw her passion projects through to the end.  Case in point, the proposed burial of yards and yards of radium tainted soil within Vernon’s farmland in 1986.  She was one of the local firebrands who went to Trenton to protest the judgement to dump the tainted soil without the town being represented in court.  She also was involved in fundraising for two township residents to help with the medical costs associated with their liver transplants. Through all this she was a person who was always ready with a smile, a contagious laugh, and a great sense of humor.  She laughed loudest at herself and laughed best with friends and family.

Eleanor met her one true love as a teenager at The Cave under the clubhouse in Fayson Lakes. She and Rudi were married on April 27, 1968, by the Reverend Bernardine Kessing at St. Anthony’s RC Church on Bartholdi Avenue in Butler after Rudi’s tour in Vietnam.  They settled in Bloomingdale’s Morris Lakes neighborhood, where they had their two daughters, Monica and Melissa.  The family soon moved to the Netherlands to be close to Rudi’s family, then to the Barry Lakes section of Vernon, followed by another move to Dordrecht, Netherlands, and finally back to Vernon, where they have lived since 1980.  Rudi and Ellie’s love lasts beyond the fifty-six years of their marriage.

Ellie is predeceased by her parents, Joseph and Ruth Bhend, and her brother Joseph.  She is survived by her beloved husband Rudi Mensonides, sister JoAnna Sheridan-Costanzo, brother Robert Bhend, daughters Monica Rolando, Melissa Mensonides, grandchildren Robert Brochhausen, Brandie Rolando, Victoria Costa, and Dion Rolando, as well as her large extended family. Her passing leaves a hole in the hearts of her family, and she will be missed beyond words.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Heart Association would be greatly appreciated.

Virginia Di Maria (nee Baldanza), age 100, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 9, 2024, with her family at her side.

She was born at home in Passaic to Liborio and Rosina Baldanza on July 5,1924. Virginia graduated from Passaic High School with the Class of 1941. Virginia met the love of her life Charles Di Maria in high school when Virginia passed a candy heart to Charles in homeroom. They enjoyed their first date at Rutt’s Hut and the rest is history! In 1943, Charles was called to serve in WWII and was stationed by the US Army in California. Virginia, accompanied by her sister Sara, followed soon after traveling cross country by train. Charles was able to get a leave from the Army just long enough to marry Virginia on September 17, 1943, at St. Patrick's Church in Watsonville, California. While in California, Virginia worked at a bus depot where she became a skilled bookkeeper. Just before the war ended, her husband was transferred to the Hawaiian Island of Oahu and expecting her first child Virginia moved back to Passaic, NJ to live with her mom. She gave birth to her first daughter Barbara while her husband was stationed in Hawaii. Soon after the war ended, Charles returned to the States and they lived in the Army barracks in Passaic. As the family grew, they moved to Wayne in 1954, where they would live the rest of their lives and raise their family. Their marriage was blessed with three more children: Charles, Linda, and Diane. Virginia and Charles were married for nearly 75 years before his passing in April of 2018.

Virginia was the epitome of the perfect wife and mother with a reserved demeanor that exuded grace and elegance. Her family would tease her as she would sometimes refer to herself as “Ginny Perfect”!  She was known for her meticulous attention to detail in her dress, always appearing immaculately “put together”.  Her home reflected her impeccable standards, always taking pride in maintaining a pristine home. While she had a passion for fashion, she began her retail career at Wechsler’s in Passaic, followed by several area retail boutiques including Belle’s at Willowbrook Mall and Fun & Fashion, both in Wayne. Behind her gentle exterior, she possessed a strong-willed, independent, and determined spirit, always standing firm in her beliefs and values. Above all, her love for her family was unwavering, serving as the foundation of her strength and devotion.

For many years she enjoyed traveling with her husband, spending summers at Green Pond, and wintering at PGA National in West Palm Beach, FL. All while maintaining her home in Wayne as a place for her family to gather for holidays and family get-togethers. Her children fondly remember Sunday Macaroni dinners, fighting over the last meatball, and Christmas celebrations in the basement of their home. Her grandchildren and great-great grandchildren will always remember her as being the Mrs. Claus to her husband’s Santa Claus. Virginia loved to read and enjoyed visits to the Wayne library and the weekly “beauty parlor” visits! Both she and Charles were members of the Wayne Elks and the North Jersey Country Club in Wayne.

Virginia was the loving wife of the late Charles Di Maria (d. 2018); loving mother of the late Barbara Sova (d.2022) and her surviving husband Dr. Robert Sova of West Milford, Charles E. Di Maria and his wife Geraldine of Barnegat, Linda Finke and her husband Frank of Wood-Ridge, and Diane Di Maria of Voorhees. She was the proud grandmother of Laurie Dittmeier (Paul), Robert Sova, Jr. (Gissela), Charles Di Maria (Cara), Joseph Di Maria (Holly), Stephen Di Maria, Kevin Finke, Melissa Crews (Raymond), and Stephanie Finke (Karin). She was also the cherished “Mema” of Kylee and Ryan Dittmeier, Louis and Ashlynn Di Maria, Gianna and Vincent Di Maria, Anthony Finke, Emilie Christensen, and Kameron, Makayla, Lexi, and Ryleigh Crews. Affectionately known as Aunt Ginny to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Gloria Y. McCormick, age 96, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 8, 2024 surrounded by family in her home. Gloria had lived in Wayne since 1954 before moving to Cedar Crest Village, Pompton Plains, in 2004.

Gloria was born to LeRoy and Marie Yereance on Dec. 23, 1927 and grew up in Wood-Ridge, NJ. Gloria lived a life full of love, dedication, and service. She graduated from Wood-Ridge High School in 1945 where she met her husband Harold A. McCormick. They were married on June 24, 1951 at the Presbyterian Church of Wood-Ridge. In 1954, they moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne and began to raise a family. They were blessed with three children; Nancy, Mark, and Gail. Gloria and Harold enjoyed fifty-one years together before Harold passed away in 2002.

She pursued higher education with passion, earning a BA in Special Education in 1974, a Master’s in Special Education in 1977, and a Master’s in Guidance and Counseling in 1986 from William Paterson University.

Her career in education spanned many years, including 15 years teaching Special Education in Wayne and 10 years as an Education Supervisor at Montclair State University and William Paterson University. Gloria’s dedication to teaching was recognized with the Governor’s “Excellence in Teaching” Award.

Gloria was an active member of numerous organizations, including the Women Education Association (WEA), Passaic County Education Association (PCEA), New Jersey Education Association (NJEA), Delta Kappa Gamma (DKG) Theta Chapter, and Alpha Zeta State. She was a member of Packanack Community Church for 40 years and served as a member and secretary of the board of directors for the Willing Hands workshop.

Her commitment to helping others extended to her role as a host parent and fundraiser for Healing the Children for 15 years, and as a member and secretary of the board of directors for Medical Missions for Children. Gloria also volunteered as a counselor and trainer for CONTACT and was involved in the Social Action Committee of the American Association of University Women (AAUW) Greater Wayne Area Branch.

In her later years, Gloria was an active member of the Cedar Crest Chorale, Diversity Team, Resident Life Committee, Getting to Know You Committee, SOS Christmas Committee, and the Protestant Community Congregation.

Gloria was an exceptionally loving and kind-hearted individual. Her optimism was unwavering, and she always went out of her way to help everyone around her. She had an adventurous spirit and cherished traveling with her beloved husband, Harold (2002). It’s impossible to describe the light she brought to the lives of all who knew her. 

She is survived by her daughter Gail and son-in-law Rob, son Mark and daughter-in-law Lisa; her grandchildren Rachael, Anna and Dan, Ryan and Grace, and Jason; and her great grandchildren Emma, Quinn, Jack, and Alexandra. Gloria was preceded in death by her husband Harold (2002), by their daughter Nancy (2001), by her brother LeRoy (Lee), and son-in-law Craig.

Gloria’s legacy of love, kindness, and dedication to education and service will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

In lieu of flowers please send donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Patrick Joseph Kaplan, age 70, of Totowa NJ.

Patrick passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 8, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in Jersey City, NJ and was raised in North Bergen.  As a young man he attended North Bergen High School.  Immediately after graduating high school with the class of 1972, Patrick felt it in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Navy.  While serving in the US Navy, Patrick was stationed in the Mediterranean Sea aboard the fast combat battle support ship, USS Seattle AOE-3.  While aboard the USS Seattle, Patrick was assigned to refueling and resupplying other US Naval military vessels.  Patrick served honorably and proudly in the US Navy from 1972 until being discharged honorably in 1975.

Upon returning home from his service with the US Navy, Patrick went to work at Highway Body Works in North Bergen where he built and painted trucks of various sizes.  Patrick left Highway Body Works after several years and accepted a position at Hudson County Motors where he enjoyed a successful career selling truck parts.  Patrick worked for Hudson County Motors for thirty-five years until his retirement two years ago.  While at Hudson County Motors, Patrick was truly well loved and respected by his colleagues and clients.

As as young man in high school, Patrick met an attractive young lady by the name of Barbara Warner. One night in June of 1971 Patrick and Barbara triple dated with Barbara’s sisters and their boyfriends. Patrick and Barbara hit it off wonderfully and continued dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 1, 1975, the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife at Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen, NJ.  

The newlyweds settled in their hometown of North Bergen and remained there until 2008.  While residing there, the couple welcomed their three sons: Matthew, Patrick, and Nathaniel.  They called North Bergen their home for twenty-eight years and raised their family.  In 2008, Barbara and Patrick moved to Totowa, NJ where they have been ever since.  

In his spare time, Patrick could always be found in his workshop.  There he would hone his skills in woodworking and carpentry.  He enjoyed tinkering with all types of gadgets and relished in refinishing furniture.  He was also an avid golfer and had an extensive collection of logo golf balls.  

Aside from all his talents, hobbies, and interest, Patrick’s real passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Patrick than spending time with his children and especially his grandchildren.  He and his wife Barbara cherished forty-nine years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Patrick was a truly dedicated family man whose unwavering commitment to his loved ones shaped every aspect of his life. With a tireless work ethic, he wanted to ensure his children could pursue their dreams and attend college without financial burden.  He worked tirelessly six days a week throughout his life. 

Patrick was not only dedicated to his family, but also to his Lutheran Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen for many years, St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, NJ and most recently St. Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne, NJ.  While a parishioner of St. Timothy in Wayne, he volunteered as an usher and was on the church’s vestry.  He was also closely and intricately involved in the Heart ‘n Hands Mission sponsored by the church. 

Patrick was a true gentleman, he was a quiet and reserved man, often blending into the background in social settings, yet those who knew him well appreciated his sharp wit and unique sense of humor. He had a knack for delivering perfectly timed dad jokes that would catch friends and family off guard.  He was quick to drop whatever it was he was doing to help others around him.  He was truly loved by his friends and neighbors.

Patrick will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, and cherished grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Patrick is survived by his wife Barbara of Totowa, NJ, his three sons; Matthew and his wife Erica of Stirling, NJ, Patrick, Jr. and his wife Allison of Fairfield, NJ and Nathaniel of Totowa, NJ, and four grandchildren; Kaitlyn, Emma, Matthew, and Michael.

Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donations in Patrick’s name to Hearts 'n Hands Mission, St Timothy Lutheran Church 395 Valley Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Ann C. Berger (“Sherry”), age 84, of Kinnelon, passed away on Sunday, October 6, 2024, unexpectedly after the sudden onset of pneumonia.

Sherry was born on June 3, 1940, in the Bronx to the parents of Walter and Anna Lee. She grew up in East Paterson alongside her older sister, Patty, and younger brother, Walter; both siblings predeceased Sherry.

Sherry was a graduate of the 1958 East Rutherford High School. When Sherry was just 15, she met her love and life partner, Richard “Dick” Berger and the couple married on February 20, 1960. After marriage, the new couple lived in both Haskell and then East Rutherford for a period of time, before being blessed with three daughters and establishing their first home in Wayne, NJ. In 1984, the couple moved to Georgia Drive in Wayne where they spent 12 happy years before relocating to Kinnelon in 1997 to be closer to their daughters.

Sherry had a fulfilling career as a secretary at Repeat-O-Type, Marketing Action, and rounded out her career as an Executive Secretary for Teva Corporation, retiring 1997. 

Sherry was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, never happier than watching little ones at play. In addition to family, Sherry’s passions in life revolved around her love of animals. Throughout her life, Sherry owned and nurtured 7 dogs and became passionate about Bernese Mountain Dogs later in life. She rescued three of the breed and is sadly missed by her current Bernese, Willow. Sherry loved a good jigsaw puzzle, a wonderful meal, and was a voracious reader. However, she will most be remembered as a compassionate soul, as mother and friend, who listened without judgment and gave advice only when asked. Her reasoned, thoughtful input, with a side of an occasional dry wit to remind all not to take life too seriously, will be sorely missed.

Sherry was the beloved wife of Dick, who predeceased her in 2021, blessed in marriage for 60 years. She was the loving, devoted mother of: Lisa and husband Michael of Kinnelon, Lori and husband Peter of Kinnelon, and Linda and husband Ron of Lower Saucon, PA; cherished grandmother of: Marissa and husband Tom Mongelli of Pompton Plains, Nick Locarno of Hope, Jennifer Locarno of Wolcott, Colorado, Maranda Micciche of Florham Park, Aquinnah Silverman of Ann Arbor, MI and Bela Silverman of Medford, MA; much loved Great-Grandmother of Mia and Maeve Mongelli of Pompton Plains, NJ. Sherry also held much love in her heart for her nieces: Polly Pavlak of Seminole, FL, Cherie Mainenti of Seminole, FL, and Sandy Lee of Simpsonville, SC, and nephew Frank Mainenti Jr. of St. Petersburg, FL.

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In lieu of flowers, donations will be appreciated to one of the following charitable organizations:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Eleventh Hour Rescue

P.O. Box 218

Rockaway, NJ 07866

Send cash or check donations to the above address with the note “General”

For both charities, please indicate that your gift is in memory of Sherry Berger.

Richard A. Greenwood Sr., age 63 of Lincoln Park, died on Wednesday, October 2, 2024. 

Richard was the son of Dorothy Greenwood and graduated from Passaic County Technical Institute having played on the football and track teams. 

Richard was a true patriot and a man of strong character. He had a quiet strength, keeping his circle of friends close, but to those lucky enough to know him, he was kind, generous, and full of heart. With a sharp wit and a knack for sarcastic humor, he never failed to bring laughter to those around him. A man of many passions, Richard was dedicated to bodybuilding, competing in shows, and loved the thrill of motorcycle riding and the adventure of camping. He enjoyed life to the fullest, whether it was spending time with friends, going on vacations, or just making others laugh. Independent and bold, he was a real man's man who didn’t take a backseat to anyone, but his generosity and warmth always shone through. Richard will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Richard was a devoted father whose greatest joy in life was the close bond he shared with his son, Richard A. Greenwood Jr. From the time Richard Jr. was little, the two were inseparable, working on projects together and creating memories that will last a lifetime. Whether it was working on his son's first truck in the Wayne Valley High School automotive shop or tackling countless other endeavors side by side, Richard Sr.'s love, guidance, and unwavering support were constants in their relationship. His pride in his son was evident to all who knew him, and the deep connection they shared was a testament to the kind of father, mentor, and friend Richard was.

Donations in Rich’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, and sent to: Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959. You may also donate at their website; www.stjude.org

Anna Annastaza Misajet (nee Staskowski), age 90, of Wayne left us on September 29, 2024.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to Stella and Leo Staskowski, she was one of eight children. Anna was a city girl who loved baseball and her beloved Brooklyn Dodgers. She often told stories of going to Ebbets Field with her friends. She eventually became a fan of the N.Y. Yankees, watching every game even until her death. She worked at the Equitable as a secretary and in 1957 married Raymond Misajet.

Anna and Raymond lived in Paterson and eventually built a home in Wayne where she still resided. They had five children who married and eventually sixteen grandchildren and four great grandchildren. They loved to dance and spent many wonderful years together dancing the Cha-Cha and never passing an opportunity to hit the dance floor for a good Polka. Anna was affectionately known as Babcia and enjoyed being with her grandchildren, celebrating their lives and accomplishments.

She is a member of Holy Spirit parish in Pequannock. She and Ray were strong in their Catholic faith instilling in all of their children the importance of God and family.

She was a member of the Columbiettes, Regina Mundi Council 3969, enjoying the friendships and company of her fellow Columbiettes for more than fifty years. She held many offices in the organization including President (several times) eventually acquiring the distinguished title of Past President. Anna also went on in the organization to become a President and Past President of the New Jersey State Council of Columbiettes. She remained an active member of the Columbiettes until her death. She enjoyed the friendships of the women who shared her religious values and commitment to the church and God. 

Our mom will always be remembered for her love of dancing, her love of baseball and especially traveling with her children and grandchildren. Those memories and moments are etched in our hearts. She loved life and lived every day until her last. She is survived by her brother, Raymond and sister, Francis. Her children, Arlene Hitscherich and her husband Bob, Kenneth and his wife Jennifer, Joanne Tormey and her husband Kevin, Janet Lewis and her husband Bill and Denise. Babcia will be missed by Matthew, Kyle and his wife Ann, Stefanie and her fiancé Mario, Selam, Kenneth, Heather and her husband Oliver, Craig and his wife Kaylee, Nicole and her husband Lyndon, Erin, Michael, Megan and her husband Dany, Lauren, Nicholas, Cameron and Colin. She is survived her four great grandchildren, Aleena, Evelyn, Isla, and Roisin. 

Cosmo “Gus” Mongiello, age 76, of Pompton Plains, went home to his heavenly rest to be embraced by his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Thursday, September 26, 2024.

The son of Anthony and Rita (Maresca) Mongiello, Gus was born and raised in Jersey City. He was a 1966 graduate of Saint Peters Preparatory School. Pursuing higher education, Gus attended Saint Peters College where he graduated in 1970 with his bachelor’s degree in accounting. During college Gus served in the Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC) and for several years after in the United States Army National Guard.

Gus’ hard work in these early years of life earned him a stellar reputation. Consequently, he was well sought after, and able to secure his first career position with the prestigious Peat, Marwick, Michell and Company accounting firm. In the ensuing years, he gained valuable knowledge and experience which landed him Chief Financial Officer (CFO) of Hackensack Hospital – later to become known as Hackensack University Medical Center (HUMC). His career with HUMC spanned over twenty-five years, including a return to school to earn his masters degree in finance from Fairleigh Dickinson University.

Gus, exhibiting professionalism rare to come by, earned the respect of many who still talk about his leadership and professionalism as CFO to this day. 

After serving HUMC for 27 years, Gus opted for retirement but came out of it two years later when he joined the staff of Chilton Medical Center in Pompton Plains in the finance department. After about a decade, Gus completely retired from hospital finance.

Gus and his beloved wife Carol met when they were just fifteen years old. She went to an all-girls school in Jersey City, and he went to an all-boys school in Jersey City. They lived on the same long street, but at different ends, their paths’ never crossing until Carol’s girlfriend (Gus’s neighbor) introduced them.

They became inseparable right away, then on April 1, 1964, April Fools Day of all days, they officially started going steady. Their courtship spanned seven years – throughout Gus’ college and National Guard duty – ultimately leading to Gus’ proposal of marriage to Carol on Christmas Eve 1969. Carol found the engagement ring hidden is the Christmas tree, and gleefully said yes.

On Sunday, June 4, 1971, Gus and Carol exchanged their wedding promises before God, family, and friends at Our Lady of Victories Church in Jersey City. Five years after the wedding and honeymoon, Mr. and Mrs. Mongiello moved from Jersey City to Pompton Plains with their first child, where they have remained to the present. They were blessed with four more children after their move, seeing each of the five children a beautiful gift from God!

Gus was a family man, and a diligent caretaker of the home. While many guys would camp in front of the television on a Saturday afternoon watching sports, or sleep in, Gus was busy being a fruit-bearing provider. Some of his favorite activities were getting outdoors in God’s creation, enjoying fresh air and, with sleeves rolled up, tending to his garden, caring for the yard, and fixing things too useful to throw away.

Gus cared for his garden, his yard, his home in a way most busy professionals wouldn’t have time to execute. He shared his garden, his logical mind, and his practical home up-keep skills with all willing to partake. He found a way, in between his busy work life, to be a “Mr. Fix It” at home, and had enough tools to fill two hardware stores. His love of learning and hard-work paired with his sense of financial responsibility fueled his desire to tackle many home projects the average, white-collared guy would leave to the pros.

By far the greatest passions of Gus’ life were his love of God and the greatest affection for his family. Eager to learn already as a young man, he had read the holy Bible from cover to cover. As life went on, his faith only grew. Nourished by the reading of his bible and active involvement with his family of fellow believers at Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church in his hometown of Pompton Plains, Gus served several times as a deacon in his church. He had recently started a challenge to memorize twelve Psalms per year and he genuinely enjoyed a trip with Carol and church friends to the Holy Land a few years back.

Gus’ love for his family was apparent in lots of ways. He was happiest when they could all be together at the table, like on the holidays, but he also always made time to talk one-on-one with his wife, children, grandchildren, friends, and strangers. He was the unanimous go-to person for any type of problem. Mixing a vast amount of wisdom, patience, listening skills, good questions, and care, Gus was always honored to walk a family member, friend, or stranger through any challenge. You knew you could always approach him with confidence to bounce an idea off him because you knew he would be genuinely happy to help you talk it through.

Gus was the beloved husband of Carol (Citarella), blessed in cherished and devoted marriage for 53 years. He was the most loving father of: Gina Mongiello of Pompton Plains, Marissa Mongiello and husband David Carpentier of Copake, New York, Kristen Hayzler and husband Rich of Pompton Plains, Matthew Mongiello and wife Kimberly of Pequannock, and Kevin Mongiello of Henderson, Nevada; adoring grandfather of Ryan, Brooke, and Elias; dear brother of Robert Mongiello of Chattanooga, Tennessee, and Judy Quirk and husband Dennis of Brick, NJ. And dear uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Gus was loved by many.

For a quiet man, who just showed up daily to faithfully execute what he saw as his duty, he sure made his rounds in this world, capturing the hearts of people everywhere he went.

He will be missed more than words could ever allude.

And he will always be remembered as our go-to-guy.

No problem was too big or small to bring to Gus. He was the man you wanted around, whether you were fixing a clogged drain, buying a car, or making a tough life decision.

He was your friend until the end.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to support Israel Quaresma's education for ministry. Checks can be made to Israel Quaresma and sent c/o Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church to 415 Boulevard, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Don Argott, 73 years old, of Pequannock, NJ, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family on September 25th. Don was born to Rose and William Argott and graduated from Passaic County Technical Institute, where he began his career as a master carpenter. In addition to his contracting company, Don was a decades-long employee of the Passaic Valley Water Commission.

Don’s booming voice and colorful personality were only overshadowed by his big and generous heart. Giving to a fault, Don was famous for helping others and constantly involved in projects for friends, relatives, and neighbors. His talents were used all over town, from raising homes in flooded areas to building additions and decks, and one can’t drive through Passaic County without seeing his fingerprints everywhere. Always inclined to lend a hand, Don often had to be persuaded to accept payment for his work and was loved and admired by people from all walks of life.

Larger than his fondness for food (especially dessert) was his love for his family. Don was married to the love of his life, Pat, for 53 years. Together, they had two children, Don and Jennifer, and his pride in them came through in every conversation he had (though he wouldn’t necessarily tell them). He had a special relationship with his son-in-law, Price, and daughter-in-law, Sheena. His hard exterior was cracked wide open with the birth of his granddaughters, Elena and Maeve. Best friends, Don saw Elena every day, and their bond will never be matched. Maeve could always make him laugh, and he loved listening to her animated and funny stories.

One of Don’s favorite places was Seaside Heights, and the family made years’ worth of memories there in the sand and on the boardwalk.  Summers will never be the same. Don collected zippo lighters and friends, and when he wasn’t working, he was with his family. He was especially close to his nieces Stephanie, Karen, and Christine and was often found at his sister Joann’s house, right down the street.  They do not know how they will withstand this immeasurable loss but are comforted by the love and support of everyone reaching out with kind words and special memories.

Don was also predeceased by his brother Paul and loved his nephews, Paul and Jason, along with scores of cousins. 

In lieu of flowers, the family is asking that memorial donations be made to Don’s doctor, Raja Flores, for his lung cancer research fund.  Please send donations to the below address, and indicate “Research Fund” in the memo line.

Dr. Raja Flores

Mount Sinai Hospital

1190 5th Avenue

New York, NY 10029

Dr. Kenneth Allen Powley, 91, of The Villages, Florida, passed away at home on September 24, 2024, surrounded by his family.  He was born November 4, 1932, in Midland Park, New Jersey to John J. and Marie C. (Vance) Powley.  In 1959, Ken married the love of his life, Dorothy (Dot) E. Powley, with whom he shared 65 wonderful years and raised two sons.

Ken pursued his education at Hope College and went on to earn his Doctorate of Dental Surgery (DDS) from Temple University in 1957. Shortly after, he served two years as a Captain in the United States Air Force, spending most of his service stationed in Morocco. A proud veteran, Ken was a member of the American Legion Post 347.

After his military service, he set up his dental practice in his home at Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey, where he happily told bad jokes to many patients for over 40 years.

Ken could fix anything and was an avid golfer, having made 4 hole-in-one’s!  His last hole-in-one came when he was 90-years-old.  After enjoying multiple years as snowbirds, Ken and Dot made The Villages, Florida, their permanent home in 2016.  They made the most of their time at The Villages, joining clubs, attending concerts, eating out, playing golf, and getting together with their many good friends.

Ken is survived by his wife Dot, his son John Powley and wife Melanie of Frisco, TX; his daughter-in-law Ellen Powley of Wayne, NJ; and six grandchildren: Mary, Ken, Troy (and wife Courtney), Sharon, Nathan, and Jennifer. He was preceded in death by his sister, Dorothy M. Branford, and his son, Kenneth A. Powley, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Ken to the United Church of Christ at The Villages, P.O. Box 194, Oxford, FL 34484.

Amelia "Millie" Murino, age 84, of Wayne passed Monday, September 16, 2024

Millie was born in Bronx, New York to the late Charles Carlo and Tessie Lima.  She lived in Harlem, New York before moving to Wayne when she married Louis where she spent the past 65 years.

Millie met Lou when she walked into his family grocery store, Wayne Food Market at 20 Newark Pompton Turnpike.  Millie, whose parents had a summer bungalow down the street from the store, came into the store with three of her girlfriends.  Lou started talking to them, but in his eyes, Millie stood out.  She agreed to go out on a date with him.  Millie didn't have much interest in continuing to see Lou, but after his persistence, she agreed to go out with him again.  Soon the two fell in love.  They married on June 6, 1959 at Our Lady Queen of Angels on 113th Street in Harlem.  Lou described the wedding reception in the church basement as a "football wedding reception" where premade sandwiches were thrown to the guests.  They spent their first night as man and wife at Aunt Vi & Uncle Joe's apartment in Harlem, where he slept on the floor and Millie on the couch.  The next day they left for Atlantic City.   Fourteen months later they welcomed the arrival of their first child together, Theresa, and were blessed with three more children after that, Vincent, Charles and Joe.

When it came to her family, Millie loved her children unconditionally and was always the proud mama.  She was a homemaker and was very involved with her children's activities.  There were times when she didn't have enough extra money to purchase a candy bar for her children, but she always made sure they had fun and felt they were loved.  Christmas was her favorite holiday and although she and Lou would struggle with finances in those early days, she made sure Christmas was a time her family would always remember.  Every Christmas since, her family would gather together on Christmas morning at their residence...children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and in-laws, to receive the over abundance of gifts she would hand out to all.  

In past years she was a member of the Ladies Auxiliary of Community Firehouse #1 in Wayne and the Wayne PAL.  She enjoyed being involved and would often run fundraising events like pancake breakfasts and spaghetti dinners.  

She  was a remarkable woman known for her strength, determination and vibrant personality.  She had a unique ability to light up a room with her personality and her sense of fashion.  She was always impeccably coordinated from head to toe, with matching purses and jewelry to accent her outfit.  She also had a passion for playing cards and games. Millie and Lou moved to The Four Seasons in Wayne in the early 2000's. They loved their new community and made many wonderful friends.  Millie knew this is where she belonged.  You could always find Millie at her community clubhouse in the throws of a game of poker, canasta or bridge.  She loved MahJong, but had to eventually give that up because of her advanced stage of Macular Degeneration.  What people couldn't understand was that although her vision was not good, when you put a deck of cards in her hand, she could miraculously see those cards and the cards on the table and she was not going to be beat.  For many years she looked forward to her Wednesday bowling league at T-Bowl, she would race home to play afternoon cards, head home for a quick dinner and go back to her clubhouse to play cards until late at night.  She loved the game and she loved the friends she met along the way.  

She was the loving wife of Louis Murino; devoted mother of Theresa Skerlick and her husband Stephen of Leland, NC, Vincent Murino and his wife Kathryn of Sparta, Charles Murino of Ledgewood, and Joe Murino and his wife Karen of Franklin Lakes; she was the cherished grandmother of nine grandchildren: Stephen Skerlick III and his wife Mandy, Dana Leggieri and her husband Albert, Nicholas Skerlick, Marissa Murino and her fiancé Kevin Schott, Matthew Murino, Rachel Murino, Meghan Murino, Myla Murino, and Melina Murino; she was the dearly loved great-grandmother of Dean Skerlick, Luca Leggieri, Matteo Leggieri, and Amelia Skerlick; she was the loved sister of Jack Lima and his wife Wendy of Lincoln Park, Salvatore Lima and his wife Joyce of Lincoln Park, Vivian Spae of Wayne, and the late Mary Mollica (d. 2020).  Amelia will be dearly missed by numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad or Community Volunteer Fire Company #1, 97 Parish Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.

Emily (nee Budz) Stanchak, age 95, of Wayne for over fifty years, passed peacefully on Tuesday, September 24, 2024.

Emily was originally from Chicago, Illinois. She lost both of her parents to tuberculosis by the time she was six years old, and soon after that she lost her aunt, who had been caring for her. Emily lived as an orphan through the next seven years, residing in the children’s wing of the local hospital where her parents had died. Eventually, distant relatives were located in Clifton, New Jersey, and they took Emily in as a foster child. Her new home was located right across the street from a handsome young man named Walter Stanchak. When Walter got out of the Navy, they began dating and it didn’t take long for Walter to know she was a very special girl. They were married on June 4, 1950, and moved into an unfinished attic room over Walter’s parent’s apartment. They didn’t have two nickels to rub together, literally, but they had each other. Emily worked while Walt went to school to become a funeral director, and she supported him while he began his career. Walter often felt guilty that his new bride had to work so hard to support them both, but he was focused on his career and knew brighter days were ahead of them. In 1953, their vision took shape and together they opened the Stanchak Funeral Home on Van Houten Avenue in Clifton. There were a lot of funeral homes in Clifton, so in 1963, Walt and Emily decided to move to Wayne where they opened the Park View Funeral Home.  They purchased the old Methodist Church in the Mountain View section of town and served the Wayne and Lincoln Park communities for more than twenty years.  Emily was by his side through it all, working at the funeral home and raising their family at the same time. They enjoyed nearly sixty-four years of marriage, side by side through it all, before Walter’s passing ten years ago. Emily has missed him terribly ever since, and their heavenly reunion is sure to be a joyous one for both of them.

Emily was a steadfast New York Mets fan and for many years the neighbors could gauge how the Mets were doing from Emily and Walter’s yelling at the television during the game. Emily was a devoted homemaker and a great cook. A few years back, a friend said to her “you must really love to cook,” to which she replied “not really. I only cooked because my husband loves to eat.” Her children and grandchildren all rave about her cooking and will surely miss all of those fantastic family meals at her home. Emily was especially sweet and kind, gracious to a fault, caring, and always grateful. Even in recent years, as she suffered with dementia, she would repeatedly say ‘thank you’ to her caregivers, and lovingly express her gratitude over and over to the nurses and aids who helped her. Sometimes she couldn’t thank them enough.

Emily was the devoted mother of three children; Linda Adamo and her husband Joe Barrow of Brick, John Stanchak and his wife Nancy of Wayne, and Jo Ann Cavallo and her husband Joe of Brick, six grandchildren; Michael Adamo (fiance' Molly Nash), Daniel Adamo (Christina), Jessica Stanchak Bonner (Paul), John Stanchak, Samantha Cavallo, and Joseph Cavallo and two great grandchildren; Cameron John and Joseph Douglas

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to would be appreciated to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, Kansas, www.woundedwarriorproject.org

Diego Andres Valle-Kaleiwahea, age 42, of Little Falls, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday morning, September 24, 2024, with his husband by his side.

He was born in Montevideo, Uruguay, to his beloved mother, Lourdes Teresa Valle-Gomez, who recently passed away just six months ago. He was devastated by Teresa’s passing, but it brought him even closer to his adored siblings, Nicolás, Gimena, Sofia and Facundo, and his nieces, Mia, Pía and Paz, all of whom live in Uruguay.

He spent his childhood in Montevideo, as well as in Buenos Aires, Argentina. He absolutely adored his abuela, Maria, who taught him each and every day how to cook amazing food. His incredible love for cooking stayed with him all of his life, because he cherished all of those times he spent with his abuela. She taught him the importance of bringing together their entire family to share a delicious meal.

At the age of 20, he followed his dreams and moved to the United States to the state of New Jersey. He always said it was one of the most bittersweet moments of his life, having to say goodbye to all of his family, especially his Mami and Abuela.

When Diego first arrived in New Jersey, he moved to West New York, a town that overlooks the Hudson River across from New York City. That very first night he moved here, he walked over to Boulevard East to get his very first panoramic view of the Manhattan skyline, which he said literally took his breath away and brought him to tears. He said he couldn’t believe he was finally here. Soon thereafter, Diego’s cousin Sebastian moved from Uruguay, too, and they moved in together in North Bergen. They’ve been inseparable ever since, just like brothers.

Over the years, Diego worked in various jobs. He started out working in restaurants, as well as a personal trainer and assistant manager at Bally’s in Manhattan. He spent many, many years working at Elmo Restaurant and Barracuda in Chelsea, where he met so many wonderful, lifelong friends. He even did some modeling and appeared in ads for Levi’s. After the pandemic, Diego decided to pursue his other passion for creating and building things with his hands. He began working in the home remodeling industry for a small company, where he learned so much from his coworkers. Then last year, he decided to take a huge step by opening his own home renovation business. He was so proud of his new company, and success quickly followed because of the amazing work he did, and the wonderful person he was to his clients. His business grew by leaps and bounds, all by word-of-mouth and referrals by his clients. He was the absolute hardest working and creative person you could ever meet, and he loved to share his progress and final creations with his husband, family and friends. 

Diego met the love of his life and future husband, Andy Kaleiwahea, in 2013. They met at a mutual friend’s house, who was hosting a political fundraiser for the future mayor of Jersey City. A year later in May of 2014, they happened to meet again, this time while Diego was working as a waiter at Elmo. Andy said he had a million butterflies in his stomach when he saw Diego; Diego said as soon as he saw Andy, he hid behind the bar for a minute because he was so nervous. That was the beginning of their beautiful life together. They got engaged in November 2016, and a few months later they got married in February 2017. They recently celebrated their 10th year together. Over the years, they had two other loves in their lives, their dog Penny and their new puppy, Mila. These two Boston Terrier sweethearts had Diego and Andy wrapped around their paws.

Diego’s mother Teresa was his unwavering support in both difficult and happy moments. Together, they celebrated his marriage and his new life in the U.S., always each other’s confidants and supporting each other at every stage of their lives. Their bond was strong and filled with love, always there for one another. You could always find him cooking dinner at home on the weekends while on FaceTime with his mom. They were separated for 13 years due to distance and circumstances, making their reunion in 2014 one of the most significant experiences of his adult life.

Diego’s love and dedication to his family was infinite, and it enveloped every brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, niece and nephew.  A very important role in his life was being the older brother. During his childhood, he took care of his siblings with dedication while his mother worked, spending time with them, preparing meals, and helping with their homework. In his daily life, he always kept them in mind, despite the distance.

Recently, due to their mother's illness, he traveled back to Uruguay. This was very meaningful for his family as it represented an opportunity to reunite, to live together again, to spend time laughing, crying, sharing joys and sorrows, and, above all, to come together to care for and support their mother. At the end of the trip, the siblings decided to get a tattoo as a symbol of their unity; through a design that represents each of them, they formed a circle, accompanied by the phrase "siempre juntos"

Diego’s relationship with his cousin Sebastian “Seba” was always more like a brother. Since they were kids, they spent so much time together. Moving to the U.S. made their bond unbreakable. Seba once said that Diego always protected him since he got here, always made sure he did things the right way and didn’t let him down, watched him grow and make a beautiful family with Luisa and their two wonderful sons, Sebita (his godson) and Joaquin. Luisa’s sister Jessica was also an important part of Diego’s life, as well as her two loving boys Lucas and “Dieguito”, who was named after Diego and was also his godson.

Diego was such a selfless, kind, funny, generous, thoughtful, beautiful person with the soul of an angel.  He brought so much love, positivity, laughter and genuine friendship with him wherever he went, so our memories of him will remain in this world forever.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Diego’s memory would be greatly appreciated to “New Alternatives.” Their mission to increase the self-sufficiency of LGBTQ+ homeless youth and young adults by enabling them to transition out of the shelter system to stable adult lives was near and dear to Diego’s heart, and your generosity would be profoundly meaningful. Donations can be made through their website at www.newalternativesnyc.org. Please scroll down to find an active weblink at the bottom the Spanish version of the obituary.

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Diego Andrés Valle-Kaleiwahea, de Little Falls, falleció inesperadamente a los 42 años, el martes por la mañana, 24 de septiembre de 2024, acompañado de su esposo.

Nació en Montevideo, Uruguay de su amada madre, Lourdes Teresa Valle-Gómez, quien falleció recientemente (hace solo seis meses). Quedó devastado por la muerte de su mamá, sin embargo este suceso lo acercó aún más a sus queridos hermanos, Nicolás, Gimena, Sofía y Facundo, y a sus sobrinas, Mia, Pía y Paz, quienes viven en Uruguay. 

Pasó su infancia en Montevideo, Uruguay, así como en Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Adoraba a su abuela María, quien le enseñaba a cocinar comida increíble todos los días. Su gran amor por la cocina permaneció con él toda su vida, porque apreciaba todos los momentos que había pasado con su abuela. Ella le enseñó la importancia de reunir a toda la familia para compartir una comida deliciosa.

 A los 20 años, siguió sus sueños y se mudó a los Estados Unidos, al estado de Nueva Jersey. Siempre dijo que fue uno de los momentos más agridulces de su vida, tener que despedirse de toda su familia, especialmente de su Mami y su Abuela. 

Cuando Diego llegó por primera vez a Nueva Jersey, se mudó a West New York, una ciudad con vista al río Hudson frente a la ciudad de Nueva York. Esa primera noche, caminó hasta Boulevard East para obtener su primera vista panorámica del horizonte de Manhattan, que, según dijo, literalmente lo dejó sin aliento y lo hizo llorar, no podía creer que finalmente estuviera aquí. Poco después, Sebastián, primo de Diego, también se vino desde Uruguay y se mudaron juntos a North Bergen y desde entonces han sido inseparables, como hermanos.

A lo largo de los años, Diego trabajó en varios trabajos. Comenzó trabajando en restaurantes, así como entrenador personal y asistente de gerente en Bally's en Manhattan. Pasó muchos, muchos años trabajando en Elmo Restaurant y Barracuda, en Chelsea, donde conoció a muchos amigos maravillosos para toda la vida. Incluso hizo un poco de modelaje y apareció en anuncios de Levi's. Después de la pandemia, Diego decidió dedicarse a su otra pasión, crear y construir cosas con sus manos. Comenzó a trabajar en la industria de la remodelación de viviendas para una pequeña empresa, donde aprendió mucho de sus compañeros de trabajo. Luego, el año pasado, decidió dar un gran paso al abrir su propio negocio de remodelación de viviendas. Estaba muy orgulloso de su nueva empresa y el éxito llegó rápidamente debido al increíble trabajo que hacía y la maravillosa persona que era con sus clientes. Su negocio creció a pasos agigantados, todo gracias a la difusión de boca en boca y las recomendaciones de sus clientes. Era la persona más trabajadora y creativa que jamás haya conocido, y le encantaba compartir su progreso y sus creaciones finales con su esposo, su familia y sus amigos.

Diego conoció al amor de su vida, a su esposo Andy Kaleiwahea, en 2013. Se conocieron en la casa de un amigo en común, que estaba organizando una recaudación de fondos políticos para el futuro alcalde de Jersey City. Un año después, en mayo de 2014, volvieron a encontrarse, esta vez mientras Diego trabajaba como camarero en Elmo. Andy dijo que sintió un millón de mariposas en el estómago cuando vio a Diego; Diego dijo que tan pronto como vio a Andy, se escondió detrás de la barra por un minuto porque estaba muy nervioso. Ese fue el comienzo de su hermosa vida juntos. Se comprometieron en noviembre de 2016 y unos meses después se casaron en febrero de 2017. Recientemente celebraron su décimo aniversario de estar juntos. A lo largo de los años, tuvieron otros dos amores en sus vidas, su perra Penny y su nueva cachorrita, Mila. Estos dos Boston Terrier los tenían enamorados a Diego y Andy envueltos alrededor de sus patas.

La madre de Diego, Teresa, fue su apoyo inquebrantable tanto en los momentos difíciles como en los felices. Juntos celebraron su matrimonio y su nueva vida en Estados Unidos, siempre confidentes el uno del otro y apoyándose mutuamente en cada etapa de sus vidas. Su vínculo era fuerte y lleno de amor, siempre cerca el uno del otro. Siempre lo podías encontrar cocinando la cena en casa los fines de semana mientras hablaba por FaceTime con su mamá.

Estuvo separado de su mamá durante 13 años debido a la distancia y las circunstancias, por lo que su reencuentro en 2014 fue una de las experiencias más significativas de su vida adulta.

El amor y la dedicación de Diego hacia su familia eran infinitos, y rodeaba a cada hermano, hermana, tía, tío, primo, sobrina y sobrino con su cariño. Un papel muy importante en su vida fue el de ser el hermano mayor. Durante su infancia, cuidaba a sus hermanos con dedicación mientras su madre trabajaba, pasaba tiempo con ellos, preparaba comidas y ayudaba con sus tareas. En su vida diaria, siempre los tenía presentes, a pesar de la distancia.

Recientemente, debido a la enfermedad de su madre, viajó de regreso a Uruguay. Esto fue muy significativo para su familia ya que representó una oportunidad de reencontrarse, de volver a vivir juntos, de pasar tiempo riendo, llorando, compartiendo alegrías y tristezas y, sobre todo, de unirse para cuidar y apoyar a su madre. Al finalizar el viaje, los hermanos decidieron hacerse un tatuaje como símbolo de su unidad; a través de un diseño que representa a cada uno de ellos, formaron un círculo, acompañado de la frase “siempre juntos”

La relación de Diego con su primo Sebastián “Seba” siempre fue más como la de un hermano. Desde niños, pasaron mucho tiempo juntos. Mudarse a los Estados Unidos hizo que su vínculo fuera inquebrantable. Seba dijo una vez que Diego siempre lo protegió desde que llegó aquí, siempre se aseguró de que hiciera las cosas de la manera correcta y no lo decepcionó, lo vio crecer y formar una hermosa familia con Luisa y sus dos maravillosos hijos, Sebita (su ahijado) y Joaquín. La hermana de Luisa, Jessica, también ha sido una parte importante de la vida de Diego, así como sus dos queridos hijos Lucas y “Dieguito”, que se llamaba como Diego que era su padrino.

Diego era una persona desinteresada, amable, divertida, generosa, considerada, hermosa y con el alma de un ángel. Traía mucho amor, positividad, risas y amistad genuina a donde quiera que fuera, por lo que nuestros recuerdos de él permanecerán en este mundo durante muchísimo tiempo.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Diego’s memory would be greatly appreciated to “New Alternatives.” Their mission to increase the self-sufficiency of LGBTQ+ homeless youth and young adults by enabling them to transition out of the shelter system to stable adult lives was near and dear to Diego’s heart, and your generosity would be profoundly meaningful. Donations can be made through their website at www.newalternativesnyc.org.

Barbara Stoll, age 74, of Pines Lake in Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home, with her loving family by her side, on Monday, September 23, 2024.

The first of Klaus and Rosemarie (Baum) Stoll’s three children, Barbara was born in Dudweiler, Germany. When she was just three years old, Barbara’s father emigrated to Montreal, Canada with aspirations of establishing a better life experience for little Barbara and his wife. After two years, having secured steady employment and an adequate home, Barbara and her mother joined Klaus. They lived in Canada for six years, then relocated once again, this time to the United States, settling initially in Paterson before moving to Wyckoff, NJ when Barbara was a young teenager. 

Barbara graduated from Ramapo High School with the Class of 1967. The next few years were a time of profound change. After high school, she attended beauty school and started a career as a professional hairdresser. She met and married Daniel Martin on May 3, 1970, when Barbara was a mere twenty years of age, and moved to Wayne in 1972. The ensuing years brought the blessing of her three children – Laura, Geoffrey, and Andrew. Barbara settled into a life-rhythm of working her hairdressing job on the side while managing her home and raising her children. She invested lovingly in their lives by volunteering as a Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts and Cub Scout leader and serving as a swim team leader and helping during all their summer activities at Pines Lake. 

In the mid-eighties, with her children reaching an age of relative independence, Barbara set her sights on a personal goal by pursuing higher education at William Paterson University. Squeezing in classes and studying between daily responsibilities, Barbara kept at it and graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in 1993. She remained at WPU for one more year to earn her master’s degree. Barbara initially worked as a reporter for local publications including the Pines Lake Reporter and the Wayne Today newspaper and she wrote press releases and articles for the William Paterson University alumni magazine. Soon after she settled into a rich experience of being a public relations writer and editor for her alma mater, covering countless university events and coordinating with all parties involved while seeing each project from its genesis to completion. She was an incredible writer who, for twenty years prior to full retirement in 2024, immensely enjoyed her work. She was well respected in her professional roles for her thoroughness, organization, punctuality, perfectionism, ability to see each project to its completion and, of course, her perfect penmanship.

Despite all of Barbara’s professional accomplishments, nothing gave her greater joy than times spent with her family. Sharing her love of the arts with her mother Rosemarie and her daughter Laura, she really enjoyed joining them for an evening together, taking in a good movie, Broadway show, or visit to the opera. She loved to share the accomplishments of her sewing, and her accomplished baking skills ensured that her house always smelled inviting and delicious. Homemade breads of all kinds, including her German Stollen bread, and cookies of all varieties were special treats that were always welcome by all. A good cook also, nothing made Barbara happier than family gathered in her home on Christmas and Thanksgiving enjoying her home cooked dinners. Barbara had a terrific way of making you feel special on your birthday, and she always seized the opportunity to celebrate all of life’s accomplishments experienced by the ones she loved. She adored being a mom and completely devoted herself to the role. Always concerned about her children’s well-being, she was a constant source of support and love. Her devotion to her grandchildren was just as strong and she always looked forward to their weekend visits.

Barbara leaves behind a legacy of love and friendship. Always sensitive to the needs and feelings of others, she was selfless – a quality demonstrated by her desire to be involved in acts of service during her years attending St. Mary’s Parish in Pompton Lakes. Having endured recent years of challenge brought on by her battle with Parkinson’s, her family is grateful for her role in their lives but equally grateful that she is finally at peace.

Barbara was the loving and devoted mother of: Laura Martin of Astoria, NY, Geoffrey Martin of Wayne, and Andrew Martin and his companion Christina Whelan of Wayne. She was the cherished daughter of Rosemarie Stoll of Fort Meyers, FL; adoring grandmother of Klaus, Elke, Olivia, and Taylor; dear sister of Thomas Stoll and wife Tracy of Fort Meyers, Florida, and Jim Stoll and wife Tracey of Westwood Massachusetts; and dear aunt of Kelley Hauser and husband Josh, Nick Stoll, Jon Stoll, and Michael Stoll. She also leaves behind numerous dear extended family members in Germany. Barbara was predeceased by her cherished father Klaus Stoll in 2005. 

Kevin Jude Blewitt, age 70, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home while in the loving company of his dear family, on Thursday, September 19, 2024.

The oldest son and third child of Eugene and Jean (O’Connell) Blewitt’s eleven children, Kevin was born in Denville, NJ and raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne. It was a place where he spent his childhood and it was a place he loved.

Kevin attended Immaculate Heart of Mary School and Wayne Valley High School where he ran cross country and graduated with the Class of 1972. With formal education behind him, Kevin embarked upon the journey of life experience as he entered the world of full time work. He started by driving tanker trucks and delivering oil for Van Varick & Sons of Wayne. He eventually shifted gears (not in his oil truck) when he pursued a new venture working for Graphic Media of Fairfield where he delivered equipment and set up media for trade shows. For the final 32 years of full-time work, until his retirement in 2018, Kevin worked for the Wayne Township Department of Public Works, most notably as a Water Treatment Facility Operator. 

One night, at a volleyball game at one of the schools in Wayne, Kevin met a beautiful girl named Patricia “Patty” Scott. Kevin had accompanied a different girl to the night’s activities, but he left with Patty. The two of them felt an initial connection. As that connection grew stronger they soon fell in love and eventually were married by the justice of the peace at the town hall in Wayne on March 15, 1980. After a wedding reception at the American Legion Hall in the Mountainview section of Wayne, they hopped in their car and headed for their honeymoon at the Mount Airy Lodge in the Poconos of Pennsylvania. 

Shortly after the wedding, Kevin and Patty moved from Skyline Lakes, NJ to Wayne where they resided for the rest of their lives. They were blessed with two wonderful boys – Patrick and Nicholas – who they both adored. Kevin passed on his love of fishing to his sons. It was a sport that they could enjoy together right in their own backyard or by getting in Kevin’s boat to go fishing in the river behind their house. When the boys were grown, Kevin and Pat liked to go to Martha’s Vinyard. There they enjoyed tent camping and on occasion, bears would visit while they were in their tents. Since Pat was of Native American descent, she and Kevin loved visiting the Seneca Nation Reservation in upstate New York. 

Kevin enjoyed life and the many opportunities that it offered. He loved Boston Cream donuts and crumb cake from his favorite Packanack Lake Bakery. As a young man, he had a lot of fun playing softball for his team called Bojangles, named after a bar in the Mud Valley section of Wayne. At about the age of 20, he rode his first motorcycle and it became a favorite pastime for many years to come. His pride and joy was his Harley Davidson Dyna Wide Glide – a real cruiser of a bike which he loved getting out on. He’d take many a ride in upstate New York and closer to home on the open roads in West Milford. Though not a veteran of the armed services himself, Kevin frequently rode with the American Legion Post 174 Riders. Those rides would be all day excursions and often including picnics or dinner, and oftentimes, the rides were billed as fund raisers to support charitable endeavors. Kevin’s always wanted to attend the annual famous Sturgis motorcycle rally in Sturgis South Dakota, but he just never made it. Besides a love for motorcycles, Kevin liked to go fishing in the river behind his house or anywhere else. He was also quite the football aficionado. While primarily a Dallas Cowboys fan, Kevin loved college football and even local Wayne football games. In fact, he was highly knowledgeable about Wayne Valley’s teams. 

Kevin and Pat loved going for rides in “THE CUSTOM VAN”. They took frequent trips together to the outlets at Woodbury Commons or simple rides to nowhere. One of Kevin’s favorite rides was in his old stomping grounds in Packanack Lake. They would often end up there, combing the streets in a spirit of reminiscence about “the good old days” of Kevin and Patty’s childhood. Kevin would frequently slow down to stare at the house he grew up in or at other houses where other family members or friends had once lived. On one occasion, Kevin and Pat were out in his van on one of their Packanack Lake history tours. They did not know it, but it was a time when a rash of robberies were taking place in Packanack Lake. Noticing Kevin’s van driving slowly, a homeowner suspected Kevin and Pat were robbers, casing the neighborhood. That neighbor called the Wayne Police who ultimately surrounded Kevin and Patty’s van on Route 23 and eventually pulled them over. It was a scary afternoon until the police concluded that Kevin and Patty were just joy riding.     

Above all else, Kevin’s greatest love and admiration were for his wife Patricia, his two sons, Patrick and Nicholas, his brothers and sisters and entire family, including his God Son Dominic. He also loved all of his dogs - all German Shepherds, all puppies raised at home, all female, all honorary Blewitt’s, and all sadly no longer with us. Mona, Samantha, Coyote, Katie, Abbey, and Hannah were their names, and they gave the family so much joy and protection. 

Kevin was lots of fun to be around. He never missed family parties and was sure to stay long, often needing to be dragged out by his sons and wife to take care of the dog. If he could get another ride home, he’d gladly stay at the party. He had a great sense of humor and was always full of great advice if you needed it. Kevin was also known for writing “KB the Pro” everywhere! If you went into the schools he attended, you’d probably find it carved into the wood somewhere. Kevin touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He will be greatly missed but his family is grateful for his life and they take comfort in the fact that he’s reunited with his beloved wife Patricia.    

Kevin was the beloved husband of Patricia (nee Scott), blessed in marriage for 43 years until Pat’s passing in 2023. He was the loving father of Patrick of Steamburg, NY, and Nicholas of Wayne; dearest brother of Katie and husband Blase of Wayne, Joseph and wife Racie of Siesta Key, FL, Maureen and husband Rick of Caldwell, Michael and wife Christina of East Patchogue, NY, Laura and husband Tom of Syracuse, NY, Daniel and wife Ofie of Lincoln Park, Ellen and husband Jim of Maryland, Virginia and husband Ed of St. Louis, MO, Mary Anne and husband Chuck of Pompton Plains, and his late sister Christine (2007) and her husband Tony of Wayne; and awesome uncle of over thirty nieces and nephews. 

Merilyn E Martin went to sleep and then to heaven on September 19, 2024 after battling multiple medical issues. She was born March 11, 1938 in Newark, New Jersey and was one of five daughters born to William and Estelle Gailey. She went to school, lived and worked in New Jersey but most importantly met her husband Hank and shared an amazing life adventure together for 54 years. They enjoyed snowmobiling, fishing and raising bird dogs. Merilyn loved spending time and cooking with all her family but most of all she loved shopping.

Hank retired in 1990, and they decided to move to Florida and began a new life adventure together. Merilyn loved the Florida weather and enjoyed year-round gardening, softball and baseball, the beach and boating. The were active members of the Halifax Cruise Club and enjoyed boating all across Florida and the Abaco’s. Everywhere the club went Merilyn always found a way to cook and a place to shop.

When Hank passed away in 2013 Merilyn moved to Marina Grande on the Halifax where her life adventure changed. She became a new member of a family of friends that kept her busy and enjoying life. They played cards, darts, garage sales, cruised, celebrated, and again her favorite thing shopping! She lived there for nine years with her favorite four-legged friend Chloe but her deteriorating health had one more move for her. The last two years she has resided at Heritage Waterside where once again she found a new family of friends who loved her and helped care for her. She enjoyed bingo, happy hour and more shopping. Merilyn made friends wherever she was, and her friends lasted a lifetime.

She is predeceased by her parents, her loving husband Hank, and her sister Joyce Fedell. She leaves behind three sisters Carol Beatty, Gloria Hinderlong and Bonnie Longo, several nieces and nephews, extended family and countless friends.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Volusia County Humane Society or a charity of your choice.

Reverend Monsignor William “Willy” Michael Naughton, PhD., Retired Lieutenant Colonel of the United States Airforce passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 18, 2024, while receiving the loving care of his family.

He was born in Boston, Massachusetts to the late Bernard and Helen (nee Fleming) Naughton who were recent Irish immigrants to the United States. An interesting back-story to Fr. Bill’s dad is that while he was in Ireland he belonged to the original IRA.  While there the “black and tans” (Irish Constables) came looking for him, he recalls family stories about his father being hidden by the clergy-underground. Surely these events inspired the family move to the United States. It is interesting to know the home in the town of Ballinasloe, County Galway is still owned by the Naughton family. 

In his early youth Fr. Bill’s family moved to 521 West 186th Street in the Washington Heights section of Manhattan, NY. He attended Saint Elizabeths Elementary School in Washington Heights when, at the age of 7, his father passed away. At the time of his passing his father was a member of the Irish Bartenders Association, that’s code for being an associate of the Irish Mob, and the proprietor of Naughton’s Bar & Grill on 125th Street in Manhattan.  The family had to sell the business to pay for his dad’s medical bills.  

Fr. Bill graduated from Bishop DuBois High School in the Harlem section of Manhattan with the Class of 1963. He continued his education at Cathedral College in the Little Neck section of Queens, NY and went on to Saint Josephs “Dunwoodie” Seminary in Yonkers, NY where he received his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Philosophy. 

During Fr. Bill’s four years of Seminary, he took a year off and worked for the Holy Name Center for Homeless Men at 18 Bleeker Street in NYC. Fr. Bill was put in charge of the facility for a year and oversaw the opening at 3AM where the homeless would shower and shave. Fr. Bill transferred from New York to the Diocese of Paterson, New Jersey and finished his Masters of Divinity at Saint Mary’s Seminary in Baltimore, Maryland, He was ordained on April 8, 1972 at Saint Virgil’s Church in Morris Plains. Fr. Bill was awarded the honor of becoming a Monsignor in June of 1998.

After his ordination, Fr. Bill served as 1st Associate Team Minister at Saint Brendan’s Church in Clifton for eighteen years. During his tenure at St. Brendan’s, he continued his studies at New York Theological Seminary in NYC and received his Master’s Degree in Sacred Theology and received a second Doctorate Degree in Ministry.  He also received his MBA and PhD in Theological Studies from Notre Dame’s Theological Consortium. Fr. Bill, being devoted to his country, graduated from the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, CO and served in the Invasion of Iraq and the Persian Gulf War having attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel and was awarded the Meritorious Service Medal before being Honorably Discharged on April 22, 2004.

In 2004, Fr. Bill arrived at Straight & Narrow, a recovery center, overseen by Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Paterson.  He was part of the Pastoral Care Team where he continued to minister to the many clients there.  Fr. Bill, affectionately called Fr. Willie by many, worked tirelessly and faithfully helping others in their recovery.  He coordinated the visits of the Gospel Choir to various parishes, made sure the clients and their families were remembered at Christmas time and devotedly made sure mass was celebrated weekly, even after a devastating fire destroyed some of the facility.  Fr. Bill rallied to gather support for those who lost belongings in the fire, making sure they had clothes and food to eat.  There wasn’t anything Fr. Bill did not embrace when he saw a need. He put smiles on the many faces of the people of Straight & Narrow, both the clients and the friends he made there. His humbleness will never be forgotten by the lives he touched at Straight & Narrow.

He was the loving brother of the late Patrick Naughton and the late Maureen Hannigan; Beloved uncle of Mary & Michael Del Balso of Wayne, Terry and Rob Tighe of Wayne, Kelly Hannigan of Wayne, Colleen & Billy Loschiavo of Maywood, Patrick Naughton of Middletown, NY, the late Michael Naughton and his wife Donna of Summerville, SC, Tara Naughton of Hollywood FL. He was also the devoted uncle of many great-nieces and nephews and was dearly loved by his extended family and many friends. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Monsignor William Naughton's name may be made to , Catholic Charities, Diocese of Paterson, Straight and Narrow 775 Valley Rd, Clifton, NJ 07013.

Gertrude (Please! Call me Trudy!) Jean Keay was born in Paterson May15th 1932 to Walter Benjamin Harrison and Willemina Van Harken and lived in Paterson, Mexico City, Clifton, Wayne and Sarasota before passing away at age 92 on September 16, 2024 in Sarasota Florida.

After graduating from Clifton High School in 1950, she met and married Alfred Morgan Keay from Wilkes-Barre Pennsylvania, to whom she was married 60 years, raising their four children Laura, David, Daniel and James in Packanack Lake.  Trudy Keay really loved Packanack Lake!

What a great time to be young and what a great place to be young in:  Packanack Lake 1955-2012.  No better place to raise a family and be with a large and fun-loving group of other couples living La Bella Vita. Okay maybe it's all through rose-colored glasses, but Trudy REALLY loved Packanack Lake and the great group of friends she had there - Loved the community; the activities; the friendships.  You couldn't miss her trademark' smile, whether it was returning a serve from Joyce on the tennis courts, setting up Alice for a big spike on the volleyball court, or working with Jeff and the other Players putting on a show at the Clubhouse.

Besides keeping physically fit with all those sports and activities, Trudy was also exercising her mind as a bookkeeper, credit manager, records manager and sales manager for various local companies, along with keeping active in her bridge club. She did not neglect her spiritual health being a woman of enduring faith, which certainly was guided to a significant degree by her beloved aunt Marion Van Harken who may still be remembered by those in the New Jersey religious community as a woman of great piety.

She is survived by the aforementioned four children, her daughters-in-law (Lisa and Norma), her son-in-law (Ralph Sonntag), five grandchildren (Britney, Steven, Thomas, Harrison, Vanessa), one great-grandchild (Rafael) and her sister Barbara Harrison, who miss her dearly.

Requiescat in pace Trudy Keay

Margaret “Peggy” La Forgia née Glynn, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her loving family on Sunday, September 15, 2024. It brings her family comfort during this difficult time knowing that she is now reunited with her beloved husband Gus (d. 2016).

Peggy’s life began as the cherished youngest of eight children born to Peter and Mary Glynn in New York City.

As a young adult, Peggy started working at Allied Stores in New York when she met her future husband, a young man named Gus. He was walking past her desk when he caught sight of “the most beautiful blonde in the world!” The couple started dating and fell in love. They married on October 24, 1964, and celebrated that marriage with a honeymoon in Bermuda.  

Not long after, they were blessed with 3 beautiful children: Denise, Deborah, and Peter. After Denise and Deborah were born the family moved from New York to Wayne, NJ and eventually to Pompton Lakes, NJ.  She had so much love for her children, and she discovered how boundless that love really was when she was blessed with her grandchildren. They were the light and love of her life, and she cherished every moment she shared with them.

Throughout her life, Peggy’s gentle spirit, loving nature, and warm affection touched the lives of all who were lucky enough to know her. Her legacy of love and unwavering devotion to her family will continue to comfort those she held dear, ensuring her memory lives on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her.

Peggy is survived by her three children: Denise Brush, Deborah La Forgia-Murino, and Peter La Forgia and his wife Dana, her 6 grandchildren: Marissa, Matthew, Bryan, Megan, Olivia, and Peter Jr.

George Charles Mammola, a lifelong resident of Wayne, passed September 10, 2024. George was born December 20,1940 in Garfield, NJ. 

George graduated Garfield High school in 1958. From there, he attended the University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana where he graduated with a bachelor's degree in finance in 1962. Throughout his career he led several businesses and companies and was the President and CEO of Research Cottrell. In the final years of his professional life, he served on a number of company boards and had an independent consulting business. He was most proud of his role as board member and treasurer of Garden Academy whose mission is to provide a high-quality education for children with autism. In that role he helped raise over $1 million to support their cause! George was an avid Notre Dame sports fan and lover of the game of golf. He attended many chilly home games in South Bend to cheer on the Fighting Irish! On the golf front, he embraced the game with passion and served as the President of North Jersey Country Club for 5 years.

George was predeceased by his parents Anna Mammola and Charles Mammola, his brother Ross Mamola and sister Joan Vagell. He is survived by his wife Virginia Mammola, sister-in-law Veronica Cappucci, brother-in-law Pat Cappucci and sister-in-law Gayle Pasquariello, and many nieces and nephews. Although George had no children of his own, he was Godfather to Cynthia Angelica.

George’s true passion in life was to help others. He was known to his friends and family as the eternal optimist. Always cheery, kind, generous and happy. He was also known by a number of his often-repeated quotes – “Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see”, and “unless you are the lead dog, the view is always the same…”

George requested friends and family wear bright colors to celebrate him.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Garden Academy

James P. Fitzpatrick passed away peacefully on Monday, September 2nd.  

Jim was born on April 25th, 1934, in the Bronx, New York, to Patrick and Mary Ann (McHugh) Fitzpatrick, both immigrants from County Cavan, Republic of Ireland.

Jim was a 1955 graduate of Iona College, New Rochelle, New York.  He spent two years in the United States Army Meat and Dairy Hygiene Corps, mostly in LaRochelle, France.  After his military service, Jim worked for Union Carbide Corporation (now Dow Chemical) in the chemicals and plastics division in different sales, logistics, and management positions in New York, Cincinnati, Boston, and New Jersey.  He retired in 1995 after 36 years of service. 

Jim was an active member of the Knights of Columbus, attaining Fourth Degree status as well as having been a Grand Knight.  He served as President of the St. Brendan the Navigator Council of the Ancient Order of Hibernians.  He participated in Eucharistic Adoration in Wayne, New Jersey and St. Augustine, Florida, for over 40 years.  He coordinated the annual Knights of Columbus Tootsie Roll Drive for many years, and also worked in the St. John's County (FL) Food Pantry. 

Jim was an avid sports enthusiast, particularly related to the Detroit Tigers, Notre Dame Fighting Irish, and New York Football Giants.  He was a season-ticket holder for both the New York Giants and New England Patriots for many years.

Jim was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 49 years, Eileen (Moran).  He is survived by his sons Daniel (Kristen) of Boston, Timothy (Adriana) of Florida, and Brian (Melissa) of West Milford, New Jersey.  He was the loving grandfather of the late Ryan Wainwright, Aidan, and Grace Fitzpatrick, all of Boston, as well as uncle and great uncle to many nieces and nephews.  He was also a beloved cousin of many.  He was predeceased by his brother Hugh, sister, Kathleen (Riley), brothers-in-law John (Jack) Moran and William (Bill) Moran, and sister-in law Judith (Clifford) Fitzpatrick.  He is also survived by sisters-in-law Kathleen Wolthoff (Moran) (George), Janice Moran (Friesema) of New Jersey, sister-in-law Mary Ellen Moran (Suralik) and brother-in-law Thomas Riley of Florida.

Robert Edward Cattuna, age 90, of Wayne and formerly a long-time resident of Secaucus, passed away peacefully at home while in the loving presence of his dear family. 

Corey James Curasco, age 37, of Wayne, NJ passed away August 24, 2024.

Corey was born to Fran and Mark Curasco on June 16, 1987. Corey joined a loving family with his older siblings, Cari and Chris. He was very active growing up. Corey not only had to deal with two older siblings and their friends, but a mother who taught at Wayne Valley High School and had her colleagues watch out for him. He loved playing football, playing video games, and hanging out with his lifelong friends. Corey went to Wayne Hills High School and played football throughout his time there. He graduated from William Paterson University in 2010 with a degree in Design and Visual Communications, and won various editing awards.

He worked different jobs over the years, starting as a teenager at Seela’s Paint, GameStop, and Best Buy to adulthood at Toys”R”Us corporate headquarters, Shiseido, and ultimately as a Senior Planner at Orveon Global LLC. His most recent role at Orveon allowed him to travel inside and outside of the country. Corey was passionate about his job and really enjoyed working with his coworkers.

Corey had so many passions. He was a lover of all things related to music, including attending concerts, listening to vinyl, and playing guitar. He loved playing video games on all different platforms, including PlayStation, Xbox, Nintendo, and his custom-built PC. He also loved watching his Green Bay Packers. Sundays were a day of food and friends.

His greatest passion was film and TV in all different genres from throughout history. Some of his favorites, which he’d be sure to recommend, include Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Back to the Future, Twin Peaks, and It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia. As an AMC A-Lister, he saw several movies per week. Corey and his best friends enjoyed recording their podcast, Live Breathe Film, where they would discuss the latest movies and shows. There are 110 podcast episodes that can be streamed on YouTube.  

Corey met Kate in 2020 at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. It was a very difficult time to meet people and start a relationship, yet it was instant love. There were not two people that matched each other better. She understood him and he adored her totally and completely. Corey proposed on Christmas Eve 2023 and the two had planned to marry in October. Corey was lucky enough to become a cat father (girl dad) to King Abigail Jean Calvo, Princess Charlotte Abigail Curasco, and the hermit crabs Loki, Sylvia, Ariadne, and Ataraxia.

Corey had a warm love of family finding joy and laughter spending time with his brother, sister, and nephews, Jake and Nick. Corey loved watching his nephews play sports and attending their games. He especially loved his time laughing with his cousins Josh, Daryn, Scott, Sherri, Brian, Matthew, Robbie, Steven, Heather, and Nicole.  Corey’s love for animals kept him close to his dogs Willy, Bayley, Casey and now, Max. There is no doubt that the hugs Corey is providing to his furry loved ones in Heaven are overwhelming.

He is survived by his loving fianceé Kate Calvo and his cat daughter, Charlotte Abigail Curasco, his loving parents Fran and Mark, siblings Cari and Chris, sister-in-law Lauren, nephews Jake and Nick, Aunt Jan, Uncle Charlie, Aunt April, Uncle Bob, Uncle Perry, and Uncle Deke, along with his chosen brothers, John Murphy, Doug Lomonico, Ryan Kennedy, Jon Rizzi, Derek Szewczyk, Steve Pellechia, and John Fata. These are his lifelong friends. He was predeceased by Uncle Jeff, Aunt Jill, Aunt Pam, and Aunt Beth.  

Charles “Chud” Edwin Walker III, 77, of West Milford, passed away on August 22^nd from complications due to COPD.

Born in Paterson to Charles and Ruth Walker, with sisters Cathy, Tracy, and Alison, he continued the family tradition of proudly serving the city they loved. The family eventually left their home near Eastside Park, and settled in the town of Franklin Lakes, where he graduated from Ramapo High School in 1966. He attended both Wagner College and Paterson State College, graduating after burning his draft card and becoming heavily involved in leading student protests of the Vietnam War.

Chud started his teaching career at School 5 in Paterson, where he met his future wife, brother-in-law, sister-in-law, and many dear friends. He took great satisfaction in teaming up with Brenda to give back to the city of their birth, and was known by students for challenging them, and occasionally throwing chalk. He was well-liked by his students, and well-known to administrators. He was so effective teaching the 8^th grade work-study program, that he spent the end of his career as a journeyman computer instructor, much to his chagrin.

The greatest source of joy and pride was certainly the family he grew with the love of his life.  Justin, Sean, and Rory were best things that ever happened to them both.  Especially Rory, who remained the apple of Chud’s eye, that is; until grandchildren Sterling and Reilly arrived.

He could name any rock ‘n roll song from Chuck Berry to Steely Dan, loved the Beatles, liked the Beach Boys, and was always welcoming and giving.  Every summer, he became the honorary Mayor of Buxton Beach in the Outer Banks of North Carolina.  He was a surrogate dad to many of his children’s friends and was known for looking out for students in need of help. He was the family cook, the taxi driver, the DJ, the historian, the musicologist, and the nurse.  In his truest form, Chud could be found at his kitchen table, shirt off, radio on, with a beer and some smokes, clapping and hollering along to John, Paul, George, and Ringo. The world and his family are better for being blessed by his presence. 

Please, no donations. Instead, put on a Beatles tune and try to sing John’s parts.

Janet (Walendzinski) Webster, loving wife of the late Donald S. Webster, passed peacefully away into God’s loving embrace on Thursday, August 22, 2024. 

Janet, a long-time resident of Wayne, NJ, was born April 29, 1956 and was raised in Harrison, NJ by her late parents, Chester and Elizabeth Walendzinski.  

For the last several years, Janet was employed by Richelieu in Lincoln Park NJ and was the loving caregiver of her beloved Aunt Katherine Torsiello.  

Besides her husband and parents, Janet was predeceased by her brother Joseph Walendzinski and brother-in-law Roger Webster.  In addition to her aunt, Janet leaves to mourn her loss, her uncle, Anthony Torsiello of Newington, CT., several cousins as well as her sister-in-law Carol Webster, nephew Scott (Lauren) Webster and niece Heather (Sam) Clark.  

Memorial donations in Janet’s memory may be made to the Humane Society of Bergen County, 221-223 Stuyvesant Ave. Lyndhurst, NJ 07071 

John M. Fellema, age 91 of Wayne, NJ, went to be with the Lord early Monday, August 19, 2024. His family and friends were able to visit him before he passed and assure him of how much he was loved and appreciated.

John was born to Milton and Sadie Fellema of North Haledon, NJ on May 31, 1933, and when his mother passed at an early age, his stepmother Anne helped to raise him. He was the oldest of two brothers; Peter and Robert Fellema, previously deceased. John graduated from Eastern Academy with the Class of 1951. He served with the US Army from 1954 to 1956 and was stationed in Panama. 

John met the love of his life, Janet Van Loon at a wedding of mutual friends. They married on June 20, 1959 and settled in Wayne, NJ where they have resided for 64 years. John and Janet were blessed with four children: David Fellema of Wantage, Laurie Sokalski of Hackettstown, Debbie Jones of Apex, NC, and Steven Fellema of Clifton. They celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary on June 20th of this year, and are known for their devotion to each other and a love that many never find – their children never remember them even having an argument! John & Janet became loving grandparents to Michael Fellema, Steven Sokalski, and Tara Paterson and great-grandparents to Amelia Fellema and Ryle, Jane, and Abel Paterson.

John worked as a milkman with Becker Dairy and Stokes Dairy for many years and then as a house painter with Dykman & Dykman. John was a hard worker to a fault and valued for his dedication to every job that he held over the years. In his spare time, John was an avid gardener and loved to work in the yard tending to his flowers. He also loved to read and could always be found in his chair dozing over a good book or his bible. 

John was a faithful member of Preakness Valley United Reformed Church for 60 years, serving as deacon and on many committees. He treasured the Christian community and friendships in the church and loved to attend all of their functions with Janet at his side. 

John also leaves behind cherished family members: Esther Van Loon, Margaret and Ray Bangma, Amy Fellema, Claire Fellema, and his many nieces and nephews. His family and friends will always remember him as a quiet, kind man who loved God. 

Any donations in lieu of flowers may be made to Preakness Valley United Reformed Church, 480 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Frank Naklicki, age 93, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully at home on Monday, August 19, 2024, surrounded by the love of his wife, Theresa, and his children. He fought a courageous battle with cancer.

Born on December 6, 1930, in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, Frank was the beloved son of Frank and Wanda (Sableski) Naklicki. Alongside his younger brother Joseph (Las Vegas, NV),  he grew up in  a close-knit, predominantly Polish community, spending his childhood playing stickball and CYO basketball for St. Alphonsus church. Frank attended Brooklyn Technical High School before graduating from Long Island City High School.

On his 22nd birthday, Frank found himself stepping onto the shores of South Korea as a proud Marine. His two years of loyal service to his country were marked by honor and sacrifice, as he embodied the Semper Fi spirit. After returning home, Frank began college, earning an associate’s degree and later studying at NYU under the GI Bill. Around this time, he also became a dedicated member of the St. Elias Catholic War Veterans Post in Greenpoint.

In 1957, Frank met the love of his life, Terry, on a blind date. He was instantly captivated, and, when she presented him with a birthday cake, his heart was forever won. The couple wed on June 6, 1959, at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. This year, they celebrated 65 years of marriage.

Frank’s professional journey began at Arthur Schroeder Paper Company in New York City, where he where he excelled in sales. His career flourished and he later joined Lowe Paper Company in Ridgefield, New Jersey. In 1984, Frank began his dream job, working with Georgia Pacific, a renowned pulp and paper company based in Atlanta. After a successful career spanning 45 years in an industry he loved, Frank retired in 1996.

In 1964, Frank and Terry moved to Wayne, where they raised their growing family. Their two daughters, Linda and Carolyn, were soon joined by three sons, Paul, Kevin, and James. Frank’s deep faith and commitment to community were evident in his involvement at Our Lady of the Valley  Church. As a dedicated member of the Holy Name Society, he served meals with joy at Eva’s Kitchen and contributed to many charitable efforts. Frank also served as a Eucharistic minister at St. Joseph’s Hospital and was a regular attendee of mass and discussions at the Xaverian Missionary House in Wayne.

A man of many passions, Frank was a member of the Wayne Elks Lodge 2181 for over 50 years. He was an avid bowler on the OLV Friday night league at T-Bowl. Athletic since his early years, Frank found joy in staying active into his 90s, whether running and weightlifting at the gym or playing golf at the Passaic County course. Known for his warmth, humor, and gregarious spirit, Frank formed lasting friendships wherever life took him.

Frank leaves behind his devoted wife Terry, his cherished children: Linda and her husband Seth, Carolyn and her husband Allan, sons Paul and James and his wife Jennifer. He was the proud grandfather of Olivia, McKenna, Tristan, Dylan, Kate, Leo and Emily, as well as the loving great-grandfather of Ruby. His son Kevin predeceased him in 2005, a loss Frank bore with quiet strength.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Xaverian Missionaries, 12 Helene Court, Wayne, New Jersey, 07470 or to the charity of your choice.

Frederick C. Chambers, age 90, passed away peacefully on Saturday, August 17, 2024.

Born in Newark, NJ, Fred graduated from East Side High School in 1951. He was a longtime resident of West Caldwell having moved there in 1981. 

He was a service technician with NJ Bell. In his spare time, he loved life down the Jersey Shore. For many years he had a home in Spring Lake and another that was on a quiet lagoon in Bayville which remained in his family since 1959. Fred loved the outdoors and working around his homes, manicuring his lawn for glorious curb appeal. He loved his nieces and nephews and hosting them for parties and get-togethers at his summer homes. 

Fred was predeceased by his parents, Gavin and Jane (McCarthy) Chambers, his older brother James Chambers and his sister Ann Chambers D’Alessio. He was the loving uncle of Ann Mooney and husband Kevin of Wayne, Ida Martin of Basking Ridge, Catherine D’Alessio of Whiting, and Jane D’Alessio of Scotch Plains. He also leaves behind numerous great-nieces, great nephews, and great-great nieces and great-great nephews. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Fred’s name are asked to consider a gift to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Carol Diane (née Watson), 83 of Hillsboro Beach, FL(previously of Wayne) passed away on Wednesday August 14, 2024.

Carol was born and raised in Paterson, NJ by her parents Charles and Genevieve Watson. As a young girl she loved attending AMA Motorcycle Races with her father “ THE REF” traveling the United States. Carol graduated from Central High School in Paterson.

In 1959 she married the love of her life Joe Alvino on April 18th. They raised their family in Paterson before moving to Wayne in 1980 when they built their first home. Carol and Joe enjoyed entertaining their family and friends there for many years. They spent their winters in sunny Florida and ultimately made it home too. All while running their business Alvino Paving Inc.

Carol was a homemaker who loved cooking, traveling, shopping, bingo, the casino, summers at the Jersey shore, her children and grandchildren and most of all her husband Joe -her rock. We will miss her Sunday pasta and gravy, her kind touches, and loving heart. Carol is survived by her four children Debra Firstbrook, Joseph Alvino, Gregg Alvino & Chris Alvino. Her six grandchildren Ashley, Kaitlin, Alexis, Alivia, Alyssa, Anthony Joseph and her Great Grandson Ace Jack. She was predeceased by her husband Joe Alvino, her parents Charles and Genevieve Watson, brother Scott Watson, and sister Marion Branthwaite.

Brian Skillen, age 52, of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, August 14, 2024.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Brian’s name are asked to consider to:

John Theurer Cancer Center

92 2nd Street

Hackensack, NJ 07601

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anna Marie Bancale (nee Longaker), age 64 of Sussex, NJ.

Anna passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, August 13, 2024.  Anna was born in Paterson, raised in Wayne, and was one of four children to George and Anna Longaker.  She attended Wayne Hills High School where she excelled in Mathematics.  While a student at Wayne Hills, Anna was a Statistician for the Wayne Hills High School Wrestling Team, compiling player and team statistics throughout the wrestling season.  Following her graduation from Wayne Hills with the class of 1978, she attended Stevens Institute of Technology where she earned her Bachelor’ of Science Degree in 1982.  After earning her bachelor's degree with exceptional grades, she wasted no time diving deeper into her field of interest. She enrolled in the master's program in Programming and Electrical Engineering at Stevens Institute of Technology, eager to expand her expertise and tackle more complex challenges. 

Anna found employment quickly and accepted a position as a computer engineer at Singer-Kearfott Guidance and Navigation in Wayne NJ.  After several years, Anna left Singer- Kearfott and took a position as a Computer Engineer for ITT in Clifton where she worked for many years. Later she was a Program Manager and Project Technical Lead Engineer and Software Engineer.  She was also a Systems / Software Engineer for DHPC Technologies for three years and later a Systems / Software Engineer for Peraton Labs in Morris County, New Jersey. 

Anna's career as a software engineer stands as a testament to her remarkable skills and unwavering dedication. While working with the previously mentioned companies, each of which secured crucial defense contracts, she played a pivotal role in developing advanced technologies that significantly enhanced battlefield safety. Her expertise in software engineering contributed to innovations that not only advanced military capabilities but also directly saved the lives of US soldiers.  Anna’s career spanned more than forty years and was truly loved and respected by her clients and colleagues.  Her unique entrepreneurial spirit motivated her to create her own company Logic Applied Computer Engineering.

In 1975, Anna’s cousin Ernie introduced her to his best friend, a man by the name of Brian Bancale.  Anna and Brian hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 14, 1982 Anna and Brian exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Sussex, NJ and have been there ever since. 

One of Anna’s favorite pastimes was Bobbin Lace.  Anna found a unique and calming joy in the intricate art. In her free time, she would often set up her lace-making tools and immerse herself in the delicate process of weaving threads into elaborate patterns.  Anna was also dedicated to her Christian Faith, volunteering as a Youth Leader at the Assembly of God Church.  She cherished boating during the summer with her husband Brian in Belmar at the Jersey Shore every weekend for the last thirteen years.  Anna always made sure she was out in the sun whether she was on the boat or on the beach. 

Anna had a keen sense of style and an understanding of the impact of first impressions.  Before stepping out of the house, she meticulously handpicked her outfit and ensured her appearance was polished and put-together whether it was a professional meeting or a casual outing.  

Aside from all her talents, interests and hobbies, nothing in the world meant more to Anna than spending time with her family and friends and her precious Chinese Crested Powder Puff, “Lacey”.  Anna will be forever remembered as a devoted wife who cherished forty- one years of loving and loyal marriage to her husband Brian, and as a truly loving daughter, and sister, aunt, great aunt and cousin. 

Anna is survived by her husband Brian Bancale of Sussex, NJ, her mother Anna Longaker of Wayne, NJ, two brothers; George Woodrow Longaker, Jr. and his wife Beth of York Haven, PA, and John Lincoln Frank Longaker and his wife Gretchen of Newfoundland, NJ, one sister Lillian Nancy Jennings and her husband Frank of Sparrowbush, NY. She was predeceased by her father George Woodrow Longaker, Sr.

In lieu of flowers, it is requested that you honor Anna Marie by making a donation to the Society of Women Engineers. She exemplified the impact of women pursuing engineering careers in the STEM field.

Barbara Hazelwood, age 87 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, Aug. 13, 2024 after a brief illness. She was born in Paterson and had lived in Clifton and Oakland before moving to Wayne in 1957.

Barbara was the Office Administrator for Pediatric Professional Associates in Wayne for twenty-nine years before her retirement in 1998. She was also a member of Christ Episcopal Church in Pompton Lakes, a volunteer with Passaic Valley Hospice, and an active participant with the “Women’s Health Initiative” at the University of Medicine and Dentistry in Newark.

Barbara is survived by her two children: Dr. Vikki Hazelwood of Wayne, and Alfred Hazelwood, III of Naples, Florida. She was predeceased by her husband and former Chief of the Wayne Police; Alfred J. Hazelwood in 2015, and by her brother, Roy Albinson of California.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara’s memory would be appreciated to the “Christ Church Altar Guild,” and mailed to Christ Episcopal Church, 400 Ramapo Ave., Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Benjamin Santana, age 69, of Wayne, and formerly of Clifton and Paterson, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, September 12, 2024.

The second of Matildo and Anna (Agnes) Santana’s five children, Benjamin was born in Paterson and raised in the family’s home located at 115 Genesee Ave.

Because of his passion for cars, Ben enrolled and graduated from Lincoln Technical Institute where he learned auto mechanics. You see, he had a lifelong passion for cars, so acquiring the knowledge to work on them was indispensable. Ben’s first car was a bright red 1955 Chevy Belair Coupe that his father purchased for him for $300. At some point Ben dropped a 454 under the hood which made it the loudest car you could imagine. Everyone could hear Ben coming from a mile away! Another car that was a Benny favorite was his turquoise 1962 Chevy Impala two door with a small block 327 and four on the floor. He competed at many car shows and grew accustomed to taking home the trophy thanks to his victories in many categories. He also loved going to the car shows to see many friends and talking about cars. 

Feeling that working on cars for a living would have spoiled his love for them, Ben took a different approach to work. He started out at United Wire Hanger in Hasbrouck Heights. His father had worked there for many years and was able to get Ben a job. From there he moved on to Automatic Doorman in Paterson where he worked for twenty years as a parts runner, getting equipment to the jobsites. Most recently he was employed as a Shipping and Receiving Supervisor for ISI Corporation in Fairfield. He retired in 2018. 

Ben met the love of his life, Patricia Lazzaro, at the Dealer’s Inn on Main Avenue in Paterson. Apparently, Ben’s language was a little salty and Patricia called him out for it. That was their first encounter. It was soon followed up by a formal date for dinner at the Jade Fountain in Clifton. They fell in love and decided to spend the rest of their lives together. Benny and Patricia exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, September 8, 1979 at St. John Kanty R.C. Church on Speer Avenue in Clifton. Pat was just out of high school. Everyone celebrated the marriage at a reception at the Athenia Veteran’s Post at 147 Huron Ave. in Clifton. Afterwards, the newlyweds set off for their honeymoon to Virginia Beach, Virginia. After the honeymoon, the first place they called home was a first-floor apartment at 193 Ludington Ave in Clifton. From there they moved into a first-floor apartment in a four-family home at 227 Speer Ave in Clifton that was owned by Pat’s mother. In 2010 Ben and Pat moved to their present home in Wayne. 

Besides playing with his cars, Ben cherished simple happy moments spent with his family and friends. He enjoyed a long-standing tradition of getting together with his brothers and sisters for Saturday night card playing and dinner together at one of his sister’s houses. He loved breakfast and could often be found enjoying it at the Tick Tock Diner in Clifton with his buddies. 

Ben was one of the kindest people you could ever have the pleasure of knowing. He had a great sense of humor and he dedicated himself to looking out for his family, including his cats: Anthony, Vinnie, Jordan and Nika. They had Anthony and Vinnie first and they have since passed away. Then came Jordan and Nika. They were only going to adopt Jordan but they ended up going back to adopt Nika too because Ben said that Nika won his heart when she winked at him. He also had the most generous heart and always got excited at Christmas time participating in the car-show-sponsored donation of gifts for children to the Toys for Tots ministry. 

Ben will simply be missed for the most important thing in the world…..his love. Rest in Peace Benny!  

Ben was the beloved husband of Patricia (Lazzaro), blest in marriage for 45 years. He was the loving brother of Juana Santana of Clifton, the late Patrick Santana (2005), Monte Santana, Jr. and wife Barbara of Clifton, and Maria and Hector Lopez of Clifton; and two dear nephews: Monte Santana, III and wife Ashely, and Vincent Santana and companion Nina Ibarria. He was also predeceased by his cherished parents: Matildo Santana (2014) and Anna (Agnes) Santana (1999).

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ben’s name are asked to consider donating a toy for a child in need to Toys for Tots at Christmas time. You can also donate to Toys for Tots by clicking HERE. Thank you!