Muriel M. Bogert, age 95 of Woodland Park, passed away peacefully on Sunday, June 2, 2024.

Born and raised in Paterson, Muriel had seven siblings. She worked at Sears after high school and it was at Sears that she met Henry Bogert. They were soon married and went on to enjoy sixty-one years together before Henry passed away in 2011.

Muriel and Henry settled in West Paterson (now known at Woodland Park), where they raised their family. Muriel treasured her time with family. She was an active “Grandma” who loved spending the day with her three grandsons, especially their day trips to Point Pleasant Beach.

Muriel was the most loving mother of Debbie Sampat and husband Vijay, and RaeAnn Cheon; grandmother to: Ronnie Cheon, Christopher Cheon, and Justin Sampat; great-grandmother of Henley, Penelope, Emma, and Jason, and  dear aunt of many nieces and nephews. Muriel was predeceased by her husband Henry in 2011, and by all of her siblings: Marge, Elizabeth, Dorothy, Walter, Frank, John and Bill. 

On Sunday morning, June 2, 2024, Virginia Cahayla passed peacefully at age 79 following a long illness.  She was surrounded by her loving family in her home where she had wonderful memories.

Born in Passaic on Nov. 4, 1944 to Nicholas and Violet Saccomanno, she is survived by her loving husband of 54 years, Daniel; sons, David and Jason and his wife Kristina; 4 grandchildren Mia, Jillian, Zoe, and Amelia; and many cousins, extended family, and friends.

She attended Garfield schools, then graduated from Katherine Gibbs, and later studied at Rutgers and Arizona State.  She began work at Heyden Chemical as a secretary in the R&D dept. In 1989 she joined her father' s business, City Signs Inc, and soon became President of the company.

Virginia had a deep sense of commitment to family and community.  She was very active in St. Catherine church where she sang in the choir, was den leader in the scouts, and volunteered in the school.  She was also involved with the La Leche League, Chamber of Commerce, and Rotary Club for 25 years.  When President of the Rotary, the club hosted a Belgian exchange student for a year and helped a young boy from Russia get a needed heart operation.  She enjoyed the camaraderie of the Wanaque Golden Age Club.

Virginia met her husband, also from Garfield, in Frankfurt, Germany by chance, 4 years after high school.  In high school, their homerooms were across the hall, but in all those years they never knew each other.  What were the chances for this to occur?  Both had the travel bug and soon thereafter wedding bells rang.  Virginia spent over 400 days at sea, visited over 100 countries, and all 50 states.  She loved her husband, sons, and grandchildren dearly and she will be missed by all whose lives she touched. 

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John Warren Hauch, age 88 of Haledon, NJ.

John passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 1, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  John was born in Marquette, MI and was one of two children to Arletta Hallada.  John’s family moved to Manitowoc, WI where he attended Lincoln High School.  While a student at Lincoln High School, John excelled in academics and was a proud member of the school’s prestigious honor society. 

Following his graduation from Lincoln High School in 1953, John, a compassionate and introspective individual, embarked on a spiritual journey at Jordon Seminary School in Wisconsin . Immersed in the academic and spiritual teachings, he dove deep into the teachings of theology. However, as time passed, John realized that the path of priesthood was not his calling. Despite his profound respect for the institution, he made the difficult decision to depart from Jordon Seminary School, seeking a different direction for his life's purpose.

John enrolled at Loyola University in Chicago, IL where he was a proud member of Phi Beta Kappa.  In 1960 John earned his Bachelor’s Degree and immediately enrolled in Loyola University’s graduate studies program, eventually earning his Master’s Degree in 1964.  Later John was admitted to Northwestern University in Evanston, IL for study towards a Doctorate in Philosophy.  

John was named the Area Director of the Great Books Foundation in Chicago and held this position for over seven years.  The mission of the Great Books Foundation is to advance the critical, reflective thinking and social and civic engagement of people of all ages through Shared Inquiry and discussion of works and ideas of enduring value.  John proved his services well with the foundation and was promoted to the position of Regional Leader of the NJ Great Books Foundation.  

For the next seven years John honed his expertise as a business trainer within the banking industry, working for Thomas Blodgett Associates. With a keen eye for strategy and a knack for communication, he excelled in empowering teams to reach their full potential. Drawing upon his years of experience and a passion for mentorship, John embarked on a new chapter in his career journey. Fueled by a desire to make a broader impact in the industry, he founded Selling Points Inc. With innovative techniques and a commitment to excellence, John’s company quickly gained recognition in the training industry. John owned and operated Selling Points Inc for more than thirty-five years until his retirement in 2016.

In 1960, while a student at Loyola University in Chicago, John met his future wife, Maureen Fitzpatrick.  On November 18, 1961 John and Maureen exchanged wedding vows in St Leo’s Church in Chicago. They settled in Evanston, IL and lived there until 1966.  While residing in Evanston, the couple welcomed the births of their first three children, John, Jeannette, and Paul.  The family moved to Waldwick, NJ in 1966 where they welcomed their next two children Carl, and Yvonne.  The family stayed in Waldwick until 1993 when they moved to Haledon, where they have been ever since. 

John was involved in many activities and had many interests.  While in Waldwick, John was a board member of the Waldwick Library for a great number of years.  One of John’s early past times was waterskiing, and in 1959 he was appointed the president of the Chicagoland Water Ski Association.  The Chicagoland Water Ski Association (CWSA) was renowned for putting on elaborate water ski shows on Lake Michigan for Mayor Daly's Venetian nights.  John loved music: everything from classical to Bruce Springsteen to Bob Dylan

John enjoyed photography. He enjoyed being the unofficial family photographer at all events was able to capture wonderful candid moments that helps us never forget the happy times together.  John was also an avid fan of both the Green Bay Packers and the Chicago Cubs, proudly cheering them on when he had a chance.

John had a great love for his family.  He cherished spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He and his wife were parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne for many years.  Tragedy struck the lives of his family in 2007 when his beloved daughter Jeannette Kline passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. 

John was quiet, introspective, and generous.  He loved his family deeply.   He touched the lives of everyone he knew and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

John is survived by his wife Maureen (nee Fitzpatrick) of Haledon, NJ, his three sons John Hauch of Matawan, NJ, Paul Hauch and his wife Renee of New Hope, PA, and Carl Hauch and his wife Maria of Highlands Ranch, CO, one daughter Yvonne Hansen and her husband Erik of Randolph, NJ, eight grandchildren; Brian Hauch of Washington D.C., Isabella Hauch of Highlands Ranch, CO, Kelly Hauch of Beaufort, SC, Nicole Hauch of Birmingham, AL, Dylan Hauch of Highlands Ranch, CO, Cassandra Hauch of Highlands Ranch, CO, Jake Hansen of Randolph, NJ, and Lauren Hansen of Randolph, NJ.  John was predeceased by his daughter Jeannette Kline (2007), and by his brother Dennis Hauch.

The family asks in lieu of flowers a donation can be made to NAMA, National Alliance on Mental Illness

Charles G. Apgar, 87, of Chatham and Lavallette passed Friday May 31, 2024 surrounded by his beloved family. A man of exceptional character, he will be remembered for his extraordinary kindness, generosity, and respect for all people.

Charles was born on March 15, 1937 in Morristown, NJ to Charles G. Apgar Sr. and Grace Apgar (Farmer). He grew up in the town of Madison, and attended Madison High school where he played football and ran track. After graduating from Madison in 1955, Charles attended Bucknell University in Lewisburg, PA. Charles had a deep appreciation for his school, and was an active, involved student. During his time there, he continued to run track and play football. He was honored as the Offensive Captain of the Bucknell Football team his senior year, and set a punting record that held for a number of years. He was also an active member of Bucknell’s ROTC program, a member of the Phi Gamma Delta fraternity, and elected President of the B Club – an athletic club for students. He graduated from Bucknell in 1959 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Commerce and Finance, and always maintained his dedication to his school.

After college, and completing his active duty with the Army, he entered the New Jersey National Guard. Charles was Honorably Discharged in 1968 with the rank of Captain after 8 years. 

Charles worked for over 40 years in the oil industry, in various management positions for Shell Oil Company and later the Amerada Hess Corporation.  As a manager, Charles took his role seriously and always led by example.

Charles was a man of rare outstanding kindness. Those that knew him will remember him most for his gentle disposition and limitless compassion. As a dedicated father, he spent years coaching various sports teams for his children. He was a family man who enjoyed spending summers with his children and grandchildren at the beach, where he taught them all to bodysurf. As a person who enjoyed the quiet moments in life, he was an avid reader, gardener, and a Mr. Fix-it handyman around the house. His favorite place was the beach in Lavallette, where he spent his summers and became a local legend for his bodysurfing and sand castle building skills – interests that he continued well into his seventies.

His favorite holiday was Christmas because it allowed him to be together with his family, and each year he impressed friends and family alike with his impeccable wrapping skills. In his free time, he was known to listen to the Beach Boys and Frank Sinatra, and often sang while completing chores around the house. An avid sports spectator, Charles was a lifelong Yankees and New York Giants fan. 

Charles met his wife, Phyllis, as teenagers in Lavallette. Growing first as friends, they enjoyed spending time together on the beach. They married on October 7, 1961. One of Charles and Phyllis’s favorite activities to do together was to dance together in the privacy of their home or go out dancing with friends. Their favorite music to dance to was 50s and 60s rock-and-roll or slow dances, and they are often remembered for dancing together on Christmas Eve by the tree. Together, the two had 3 loving children, 9 grandchildren and 3 step-grandchildren. They enjoyed over 62 years of marriage. 

Charles is survived by his beloved wife, Phyllis; three children: Heather Murphy and her husband Brian, Charles W. “Chad” Apgar and his partner Kara DuRie, and Tamara Vander May and her husband Clifford;  nine grandchildren: Bryn Murphy, Owen Murphy, Charles W. “CJ” Apgar Jr., Kendra Apgar, Cory Apgar, Daria Vander May, Elise Vander May, Garrett Vander May, and Callen Vander May; and three step grandchildren: Ella DuRie, Owen DuRie, and Teddy DuRie.

Brian E. Winterberg, age 74, of Wayne passed peacefully Tuesday, May 28, 2024, surrounded by his family and loved ones.

Brian, the son of William Winterberg, was proudly raised in Paterson. He graduated in 1967 from St. Joseph’s High School where he was a well-known prankster and developed a love for writing poetry and prose.

He served during the Vietnam War in the United States Air Force at Homestead Air Force Base in Florida, where he was a fuel specialist. He attained the rank of Sergeant before being honorably discharged from service. He went on to work a variety of jobs before spending over 25 years selling advertising for newspapers in Northern New Jersey.

Brian met his beloved Petra while they were both working at The Valley Hospital in Ridgewood. They were married in 1982 at St. Peter’s Church in River Edge, NJ. Together, they set down roots in Wayne. Their son Alexander and his daughter Christine from a previous marriage were the lights of his life.

Brian was a loving husband, devoted father, and new grandfather. His granddaughter Sidney Rose was born in September 2023. In the past 8 months, she brought a smile to Brian’s face every day and gave him a new understanding of love. His time with her was also spent educating her on music, one of the many passions he enjoyed sharing.

A lover of music, he was never happier than when he was at a concert, playing the drums, singing along with his favorite artists, or listening to his abundant music collection. He also had an enthusiasm for cinema and would always have a classic film ready to watch (whether anyone else wanted to or not). This interest passed on to his son Alex, who would not only regularly compare notes on new releases but went on to choose a career path within the movie industry.

Despite claiming to not be a “people person,” Brian always went out of his way to meet new people, cracking jokes along the way just to confirm they had a “sense of humor.” Even if they didn’t, it didn’t take much for him to ingratiate himself and turn a one-off conversation into a lifelong memory. His own sense of humor will continue to live on as his daughter Christine still talks about how his slapstick comedy would entertain her for hours on end when she was a child. He was never afraid to make fun of himself, and was never offended to be the butt of a joke.

Leaving a legacy through his wife Petra, daughter Christine, son Alexander, granddaughter Sidney Rose, father William, sister Helen, son-in-law Clarke, and many nieces, nephews, grandnieces, and grandnephews, Brian’s memory will offer them comfort and his stories will forever remind them of his joie de vivre.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to The Hole In the Wall Gang Camp or The Valley Hospital Foundation, 223 N. Van Dien Ave, Ridgewood, NJ 07450 would be greatly appreciated.

Peter J. Carter, a beloved husband, father, father-in-law and grandfather, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 28, 2024, at the age of 96. Born on the 4th of July 1927, he grew up in Lyndhurst, NJ.

After graduating from Lyndhurst High School, Peter answered the call of duty and joined the U.S. Navy, serving his country during World War II. Upon his return, he married his high school sweetheart, Dolores Delmonico, at Sacred Heart Church in Lyndhurst on May 24, 1952. The newlyweds honeymooned in Bermuda and embarked on a "wonderful and compassionate" marriage that spanned seventy-two years.

In 1957, the couple moved to Wayne, NJ, where they raised their son, Chris. Peter spent his entire career with NCR in Fair Lawn, NJ where he started out fixing machines. A dedicated worker, Peter worked his way up through the ranks at NCR and retired during the 1990’s as an executive in the company’s White Plains, NY offices. His skills were renowned, and he could fix anything with ease. It’s been said that the Carter’s never needed a serviceman to visit their home!

Peter and his wife, son and family members shared many cherished summers in Long Beach Island (LBI), NJ, where they owned a beach front property.   Peter had a passion for art and painting and this is seen in his many pieces of artwork he created over the years. As an accomplished artist, he created works in oil and charcoal, winning numerous Blue Ribbon Awards. 

Peter is survived by his beloved wife, Dolores (nee Delmonico) of Wayne, their son and daughter in law, Chris and Allyson, and granddaughter Nicole of Sherman Oaks, CA., his sister-in-law Doris Sanecki of Nutley, NJ, and many friends and loved ones who will all miss him dearly.

Ohannes (John) Voskian Ph.D. of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on Monday May 27, 2024.

He was born on February 9, 1942 in Jerusalem, Israel. His family emigrated to the United States during the 1960’s, where he received his education. He received a Bachelor’s Degree from Rutgers University, his Master’s Degree from University of Bridgeport, and was awarded a full scholarship for his Ph.D. from New York University where he taught graduate courses and majored in International Relations.

He began his teaching career as Chairman of the Social Studies Department of Glen Ridge High School for many years. He also served as the advisor to the Glen Ridge High School Student Council as well as coaching the boys high school soccer team. In addition, he served in the community by heading the Glen Ridge Summer Recreation Program for many years.

During his forty plus years as a teacher, he received numerous awards such as, The Yearbook Dedication To “Doc” Voskian in 1995. He also received the Governor’s Recognition Program Award in 1987 for “Outstanding Teacher” and was honored at Princeton University by Governor Kean.

He enjoyed film history, politics, and sports. However, his greatest passion in life was to spend time with his family.

John resided in Maplewood, New Jersey for thirty-five years with his surviving wife, Joanne Beckett Voskian, of fifty- three years. He is also survived by his two sons, Justin Beckett Voskian and Jason Lee Voskian of Ridgewood, New Jersey and his wife, Jocelyn Kaye Voskian.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Alzheimer's Foundation of America would be greatly appreciated.

On behalf of the Voskian Family, we would like to extend our deepest gratitude to everyone who most graciously made a donation in his memory, and wrote such kind, thoughtful messages.  

Hendrick “Rick” Martin Van Lunen, age 68, of Long Beach Island passed Monday, May 27, 2024, beside his three sons, Matthew, Jacob, and Daniel, and his wife of 42 years, Cynthia.

Rick was born to Martha Van Der Eems Van Lunen and Martin Van Lunen at Paterson General Hospital on June 30, 1955. He Graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1973 and graduated NJIT with a degree in electrical engineering in 1977.

Rick met Cynthia “Cindy” Church in August of 1981 while their fathers shared a hospital room. They fell madly in love and were married on November 28, 1981. They welcomed their first son, Matthew into the world less than a year later on October 20, 1982. They were blessed with two more sons, Jacob, on October 2, 1985 and Daniel,  on June 11, 1989. They enjoyed 42 years of wedded bliss. They raised their children in Packanack Lake before moving to Long Beach Island once their sons had all graduated high school. Their love for each other always burned bright for the world to see. They provided for each other with every ounce of their beings and always put the other before all things. Their relationship was the truest example of love.

Rick was a father and grandfather. Not just by definition, but in all ways. He was present, kind, engaged, calm, and wise. He would carry his sons on long hikes, take them canoeing, and, most importantly, talk to them and always know them well. His three daughter-in-laws, Eri, Tara, and Susan considered him a father figure. His three granddaughters, Zoe, Stella, and Luna were his greatest joy.

Rick was a successful engineer and salesman, but his greatest and most important work was philanthropic. Rick was a man of deep faith who served both as an Elder and Deacon at Preakness Reformed Church and was a principal benefactor of the church’s renovation. Rick served on the board of directors for the chapel at Warwick, New York and was a principal benefactor of its construction. Rick spent two Summers helping to rebuild a school for girls in Chiapas, Mexico. Rick would often spend Saturdays doing electrical work for Habitat for Humanity in Paterson. As he achieved great success in his professional life he always countered with greater generosity to the world. He was mightily and joyously benevolent.

Rick loved fellowship and would often be hosting multiple families of friends in his home at the same time. Days on the beach would be followed by huge meals and adventures for ice cream late at night.

Rick saw beauty in the world. He loved nature in all its forms. He would go hiking with his family every Sunday after church. He loved boating and fishing, he could dock a boat with just inches of spare room. He managed a bait and boat rental shop on the docks in Long Beach Island in his retirement. He was a strategist who loved complicated problems. He would complete solitaire consistently in under a minute and loved solving the hardest sudoku puzzles.

More than anything, Rick was kind, honest, and just. He was a source of great wisdom to all that were lucky enough to know him well. The world is a better place because he was a part of it.

And what does The Lord require of you, but to do justice, love kindness, and walk humbly with your God - Micah 6:8

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Rick’s name are asked to consider a gift to:

River Discovery

PO Box 8336

Boise, ID 83707

To donate by phone please call (208) 303-0040

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Hendrick “Rick” Van Lunen. 

River Discovery offers adventures for cancer survivors that promote healing and strengthening of the mind, body and spirit.

On May 27th, 2024, Marina Lagana Espinosa, a loving wife, mother, sister, aunt, and grandma, passed away peacefully at St. Joseph’s University Medical Center in the City of Paterson, New Jersey after a courageous, short battle with tongue cancer.

Marina was born to Demetrio and Carmen Lagana, and graduated from High School in Janiuay, Iloilo Philippines. She continued her education at the University of San Agustin in Iloilo City  where she graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Commerce major in Accounting.

After college, she worked as an auditor at the General Auditing Office, now Commission on Audit , a government agency in the Philippines that examines, audits and settles all accounts and expenditures of the funds and properties of the Philippine government. She was assigned at  the following facilities namely, Iloilo Science and Technology, Iloilo National High School, West Visayas State University, National Police Commision, and  Land Transportation Franchising and Regulatory Board and was promoted as an Auditor III before she retired after forty-seven years of service at the age of sixty-three.

Marina was a generous, optimistic, strong and selfless soul. She loved the simple things in life with her precious family. As so many can attest, Marina was always someone who loved to help those in need. Others,  before herself.

Marina met the love of her life Romulo Jr. while she was having lunch in one of the restaurants near Iloilo National High School where she was working at that time. They were introduced by a common friend and from then on, they were inseparable. They got married on December 27, 1971 at the Jaro Cathedral in Iloilo City Philippines. They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-three years.

Marina is survived by her husband Romulo Jr, her children, Kim and his wife Elana Katia, and Nikki and her life partner, David. Her three grandchildren, Trinity, Angelo, and Liam. Her sisters and their spouses, Susana Camartin (Hipolito +),  Rosita Gascon (Bebot), Pacita Perucho (Abcede) and Lucila Ybarzabal (Eliseo +) and many nieces, nephews. She was predeceased by her father, Demetrio, her mother, Carmen and her sister Estela Cataluna.

Marina will be greatly missed by her loving family and will always be remembered in their hearts.

We are sincerely grateful to the many friends who have given us support and comfort during this time of loss.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Oral Cancer Foundation would greatly be appreciated.

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Maria Natalia Maddela, age 42, on May 25, 2024. Natalia passed peacefully with her family by her side after a courageous 16-month battle with breast cancer. 

Natalia arrived into this world as an early Christmas gift to her parents, Domingo and Irene. After spending the first 3 years of her life in the Philippines, her family moved to St. Louis before settling down in Lyndhurst, NJ. While her childhood memories consisted mostly of family dinners of Filipino spaghetti and fried chicken, joyous summers with her massive family in St. Louis and sneaking in late night reading sessions with the use of a flashlight, Natalia eventually made her way to Rutgers University where she doubled majored in Political Science and Economics. Not quite ready to stop learning, she pursued a law degree at St. John’s University where she completed her Juris Doctor. 

After passing the NJ bar, Natalia worked in corporate law and property tax law prior to settling into her final and most beloved job as General counsel at Cardella Waste Management for 13 years. This is where Natalia found her niche in her career and blossomed into the attorney that her personality and education were destined to lead her to.

As much as Natalia loved her job and career, her whole life changed when her babies came into this world. Her sole focus in life became giving her children everything that she could to enrich their lives: to teach them kindness and empathy, to show them love and how much they meant to her, and to give them everything she always wanted that she didn’t think was possible. They became her whole world and she would’ve done anything for them and she fought to stay with them for as long as she could.

“In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years”. Natalia lived a life well beyond the 42 years she graced this planet. The places she traveled, the people she met, the experiences she lived are ones that many people don’t achieve in 100 years. She made sure to make every day count and spread kindness each and every day.

Natalia is survived by her husband Jonathan, her children Emelia and Gabriel, her sister Anna and her husband Jeff, her niece Addie, her parents Domingo and Irene, her Lolo and Lola, and a multitude of aunts, uncles, cousins, and countless other family and friends who will love and remember her.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Natalia’s name to Back on My Feet NYC, a charity close to Natalia’s heart, would be greatly appreciated. 

Back on My Feet NYC

P.O. Box 71536

Philadelphia, PA 19176-1536

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Maria Natalia Montano Maddela

Back on My Feet works with people experiencing homelessness or addiction who currently reside within shelters and recovery facilities.

Barbara Jean Kane, age 85, of Wayne passed away peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, May 25, 2024.

Barbara was born to John and Jean Meyer at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson, NJ.  She attended Hawthorne High School.

Barbara’s first job was working as a telephone operator for New Jersey Bell.  After working there for several years, she left to start a family.  When she retuned to work she got a job at Western Publishing Company in Wayne.  She became a supervisor in the Shipping and Receiving Department. After retiring from Western Publishing Company she took a part-time job at Neiman Marcus, where she earned several Employee of the Month awards. 

Barbara was a military wife for 20 years. She was a loving wife and mother, devoted to her family, always looking to put them first: she got her driver’s license when she was in her thirties so she could drive her kids to baseball and softball games, cub scouts and girl scout meetings and all other activities they were involved in.  She loved having the family together.  For many years she would always have Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners at her house.  The entire family would look forward to having her famous stuffing.  Barbara was an avid bowler, belonging  to a league at T-Bowl Lanes in Wayne.  She also enjoyed crocheting. She had made hundreds of beautiful Afghans over the years.  She would give them to family and friends, also donating many of them to churches and non-profit organizations.  Barbara had a great sense of humor and really enjoyed a good laugh.

Barbara met Dave while working at New Jersey Bell in Paterson.  He was twenty-three and she was nineteen.  After dating for a couple years they were married on January 11, 1960 at St Anthony Church in Hawthorne.  They honeymooned in Niagara Falls, Canada.  Dave and Barbara’s marriage was blessed with three children: Mark, Jacqueline and David.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-four years.

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Barbara is survived by her husband David, her children, Mark and his wife Tina of West Milford, her daughter Jacqueline of Hawthorne and her son David and his wife Lisa of Kinnelon.  Her nine grandchildren, Kristen, Daubert and her husband Chris, Ashley Hickey, Joe Hickey, Jason Kane and his fiancé Alexa Lower, Tara Doan, Dylan Kane, Kyle Kane, Troy Kane, Sean Kane.  Three great-grandchildren, Julianne Daubert, Liam and Lucas Doan.  Her sister Judy Barber and her husband Al of Hawthorne and many nieces and nephews.  She was Predeceased by her brother John Meyer and her sister Marion Coleson.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Barbara's memory to St. Jude's Children Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

My name is Angela Argüello and I passed away peacefully in the comfort of my daughter’s home, all while being showered with love by my whole family, on Saturday, May 25, 2024. I was born in 1944 in San José, Costa Rica to Mariano and Isolina (Navarette) Argüello. I was one of six vivacious children. I got married and moved to the United States in 1965 and settled in Norwalk, Connecticut. Not long after arriving, I became a single mom to not one, not two or three, but eventually four precious children! 

It wasn't easy raising them entirely on my own, but I gave it my all. I worked tirelessly at many different jobs over the years – as an accountant, at a bakery, as a cosmetologist, as a house cleaner, as a self-employed nanny, and most recently, as an Uber driver. No matter how hard things got, I was determined to afford to live in a town with the finest public schools so my children would have every opportunity to succeed in their own lives.

Though I worked long hours, I ensured our home was always filled with love, music, and laughter. I loved putting on my bold red lipstick, blasting my favorite music, and dancing with my family around the house to the sounds coming from the little radio on top of our fridge or from my extensive record collection. Those little moments of fun kept me going. I was passionate about dancing! I especially loved to move to the salsa hits of Eddie Santiago or Grupo Niche at La Cascada or Los Chinos in Port Chester. It was my great escape.  

Being a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother was my greatest joy, but I also felt immense purpose in my work, especially as a nanny caring for children with special needs and the elderly. I treated every person I cared for as my own. I advocated fiercely for them and showered them with patience and unconditional love.

To my children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, sisters, brother, and all those dear friends who became like family, thank you from the bottom of my heart for being part of my incredible journey. Though I may be gone from this earth, my fierce and joyful spirit will live on in you. 

I love you my precious children Richard Alberto Gairaud, Ginette Castro and my dear son-in-law Beto, and Cristina Angelica Serra and my dear son-in law Jesse. Miss me but let me go my cherished grandchildren Michael Gairaud and your precious Betsy Rossman, Jahson Gairaud, Abraham Gairaud and your precious Mercedes Selene, Autumn Gairaud, Lee Montano and your precious Amalie Montano, Lucia Castro, Andrew Castro, Vincent DeJesus, Mateo Castro, and Lucas Castro. I adore you, my beautiful great-grandchildren Asher and Charlotte, and my precious one who is still in Mommy’s belly. Farewell to my sisters and brother, Miriam Argüello, wife of Mariano Arguello, Carlota Amador, and your handsome Armando, Javier Francisco Argüello, and your beautiful Kattia Obando Venegas. Find comfort in knowing I am reunited with those who have left this world before me. Hello again to mama, papa, and precious son Eddie Alberto Gairaud, my dear sister Aura Carcamo, and my dear brother Mariano Argüello. Take good care of my grand dogs Beats, Indica, Roxy, and Rosy. 

This spitfire of a lady has flown off on her next grand adventure! I've left a trail of red lipstick kisses wherever I've gone. Follow that trail and keep living life to the fullest just like I did. ¡Pura vida!

Instead of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Angela’s name are asked to consider: 

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CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates For Children)

415 Hamburg Turnpike, Suite D2

Wayne, NJ 07470

CASA of Passaic and Union Counties is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization that champions the best interests of child victims of abuse and/or neglect who become involved in the child welfare and court systems through no fault of their own.

Alysia Pauline Vesley, age 55, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, May 24, 2024. She was born in New York City and grew up in Wayne, NJ.

From a young age, Alysia had a love for life and everything it had to offer. At just 2 years old she was already singing the lyrics to several songs far ahead of her peers. She also learned to read at a remarkably young age and that blossomed into a passion for books that never stopped.

She didn’t stop there as she found herself getting involved in everything she could dream. Alysia was a ballet dancer, a Gold Award winner for the Girl Scouts of America, a gymnast, soccer player, skier, bowler, tennis player, saxophonist, clarinetist, and even performed in the marching band. She loved to compete and wanted that opportunity for everyone. She played PAL soccer throughout grammar school, but when she was just an 8th grade student about to matriculate to Wayne Hills High School, she discovered the absence of a girls’ soccer team. Most 8th graders would have accepted that reality but not Alysia. She decided to take the initiative and start a petition to create a girls soccer team at her school. She had the entire PAL soccer division sign along with neighbors and everyone willing to hear her out. The petition was a success and the future Wayne Hills girls’ soccer players owe their thanks to her trailblazing efforts.

After high school, Alysia attended Lycoming College in Williamsport, Pa before transferring to William Paterson University in Wayne, NJ to study Political Science. She found a calling in that field and was even inducted into the William Paterson University Political Science Honors Society. That degree resulted in an internship under United States Representative Bill Pascrell!

Those who were fortunate to get to know Alysia will remember her for her endlessly kind demeanor and her ability to light up a room with her presence. She was outgoing and patient giving her a knack for making friends everywhere she went. She loved reading (Scandinavian noir novels and Janet Evanovich’s female bounty hunter novels), music and concerts like Led Zeppelin, the New York Giants, and going to the beach. She has fond memories of travel visiting Alaska, Florida, Bermuda and Cancun, Mexico with her grandma. 

Alysia is survived by her parents Hilda MacLean and Brian Vesley; her stepmom Catherine Scott; her siblings Amy Vesley and Keith Vesley; her stepsister Cat McManus; her niece Julia Vesley; and her loving partner Rob Noss. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Alysia’s memory to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated. 

Nancy Giresi Wood, age 69, of Little Falls, New Jersey passed into the arms of her Savior on Friday, May 24, 2024, with the comfort of beloved family by her side. 

Nancy was born on April 4, 1955 to Louis E. and Mary Giresi and graduated from Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls in 1973. She continued her education at Syracuse University and graduated with an Early Education degree. During her college years, she was a member of Alpha Epsilon Phi and served as vice president of her sorority. After college, she was a preschool teacher in the Syracuse School District. After having children, she transitioned to a stay-at-home mom and would substitute teach in the LaFayette, New York school district. 

Nancy had a very strong faith in her Lord Jesus and dedicated her life to serving the Lord throughout her Multiple Sclerosis diagnosis. She loved spending time with her children and grandchildren. She had a beautiful smile, great sense of humor, and loved to make people laugh. 

Nancy is survived by her loving sister Debbie Passenti, daughter Tina (Jeremy) Culver, son Matthew (Tanya) Wood, daughter Abigail (Joseph) DeVore, grandchildren Chloe, Payton and Reed Culver, Madison and Harper Wood, Levi, Nolan and Carter DeVore.  

Vivian Ann Bregman (nee Meltz), age 87 of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, May 23, 2024. She was raised in Brooklyn, NY, and lived in Wayne since 1961.

Vivian had been a competitive dog trainer for many years, operating the Kelev Canine College from her home. Vivian specialized in obedience training of German Shepherds and Border Collies. She earned numerous “Top Dog” awards all around the country. She was also a big fan of the television show “Star Trek” and had met many cast members throughout the years. She even operated a Star Trek themed store in the former Westbelt Mall in Wayne, offering Star Trek merchandise and memorabilia. Vivian was a proud member of Mensa, a benevolent member of The Jewish Federation, a season ticket holder at the Papermill Playhouse, and a world traveler. On numerous occasions, Vivian and her husband, Myron, attended the equestrian events during the Summer Olympics. They also traveled to unique destinations such as Africa, Israel, and countless others. She led a joyous and full life.

Vivian is survived by her two children; Sharon Morello of Lanoka Harbor, NJ, and Jonathan Bregman of Wayne, NJ, and two grandchildren; Joshua and Nicholas Morello. She was predeceased by her husband, Myron, in 2022, and by her brother David Meltz.

Dolores D’Ambrosio, age 90, of Toms River, NJ and a former long-time resident of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Wednesday, May 22, 2024.

Dolores was the beloved wife of Nicholas D’Ambrosio, blessed in marriage for 57 years until Nick’s passing in 2014. She was the loving mother of Nicholas D’Ambrosio and wife Debbie of Houston, TX; Donna Barden and husband Lee of Morganville, NJ and cherished grandmother of Kate D’Ambrosio, Zachary Barden and wife Caitlyn, Matthew D’Ambrosio, Michael Barden and wife Jennifer, and Kevin Barden and wife Belle; adoring great-grandmother of Harper and Olivia Barden; dearest sister of the late Josephine DiIorio and her late husband Nicholas; and dear aunt to her nine nieces and nephews.

Dolores enjoyed a long career in Human Resources working in retail. She started in Meyer’s Brothers (she was the original “Miss D”), later to Bamberger’s and finally Macy’s. Dolores even marched in Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade acting as a balloon handler.

After retiring she moved with her husband to the Lake Ridge community in Tom’s River. She was very active in clubs such as bowling, knitting, the Rosary Society, and the Italian Club. She also enjoyed the community’s many social events and clubhouse activities.

Dolores and Nicky were also avid travelers taking many excursions to exotic locations. Their adventures ultimately took them to every continent but Antarctica.

Dolores was also devout in her Catholic religion. She and her husband were active parishioners in Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary R. C. Church in Wayne where they started and taught in the CCD program. She was a faithful attendee at St Lukes Church in Tom’s River.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Dolores’ memory are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Graciela Maura Moreno of North Bergen, NJ.

Graciela was born and raised in Lima, Peru and was one of four children to Raymond and Esther Moreno.  Graciela's journey is one of relentless dedication and passion for healthcare. After earning her bachelor's and master's degrees at the prestigious Universidad of St. Marcos in Peru, she embarked on a career path that would shape lives and communities. As a registered nurse, Graciela not only provided compassionate care but also took on the responsibility of educating the next generation of nurses. Her expertise became invaluable as she taught and trained aspiring nurses at various local hospitals, instilling in them the same unwavering commitment to excellence and patient well-being that defined her own career.  While assigned as a teacher in Peru, one of Graciela’s former teachers recommended her to the Kellogg Scholarship foundation in the United States.  This would be Graciela’s first visit the US. 

Graciela later visited the United States while her sister Ana Maria was pregnant with her second child.  Upon her return to Peru, Graciela's life took a significant turn when her beloved mother passed away, leaving her feeling somewhat adrift. However, in the late 1980’s, amidst her grief, hope emerged in the form of her sister Ana Maria's petition to bring her to the United States. With a heavy heart, Graciela embarked on a new chapter, leaving behind her homeland for the promise of a fresh start. Her family’s support and the prospect of new opportunities in the US provided solace and strength to Graciela during this time in her life.

Upon arriving in the United States, Graciela settled in Wayne with her sister Ana Maria.  She later moved to North Bergen, NJ where she has been ever since.  Graciela immediately signed up to take the National Council Licensure Examination (NCLEX-RN) to practice as a registered nurse in the United States.  After passing the exam, Graciela found employment quickly as a registered nurse with Bellevue Hospital in New York City.  After working there for several years, Graciela left Bellevue Hospital and accepted a position at Lincoln Hospital in Bronx, NY.  Graciela worked with Lincoln Hospital for the next fifteen years until her retirement in 2013.  

Graciela enjoyed keeping herself healthy and in shape through exercise and yoga.  She was truly dedicated to her family and to her Catholic Faith.  Graciela was a parishioner of St Augustine Church in Union City, NJ.  She treasured traveling to Canada and destinations in the US such as Florida and Washington DC.  She also traveled extensively throughout South America including the countries of Peru, Argentina, Colombia, and Brazil.  

Graciela was smart and inquisitive.  She was an avid reader and cherished educating herself with information pertaining to her profession and healthcare practice in general.  Graciela's apartment was more than just a living space, it was a canvas for her green thumb and a sanctuary of flowering beauty. On her balcony and porch, Graciela's creativity bloomed as she carefully arranged an array of colorful flowers. Gardening became her daily ritual, a source of joy and tranquility. 

Graciela was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Graciela is survived by her sister Ana Maria Koppel and her husband Robert of Wayne, her two brothers; Raymond Moreno and his wife Klelia of West New York, NJ, and Francisco Sanchez and his wife Rosa of Paterson, NJ, eight nephews; Kevin Koppel, Andrew Koppel, Italo Moreno, Diego Moreno, Randy Moreno, Carlos Sanchez, Ivan Sanchez, and Luis Sanchez, and two nieces; Teresa Moreno, and Rosa Sanchez. 

Marguerite E. Kabula (III), nee Smith, of Wayne, took her final breath on May 23, 2024. She passed peacefully with family and friends at her bedside. 

Marguerite was Born in Charleston S.C. to Marguerite (II) and Craig Smith, and brother William. Her family enjoyed making lasting memories down south until she was 5 years old. Her Mom (then a teacher) recalled precious memories of her sitting at her desk as she taught her students. Everyone couldn't get enough of the blond haired, blue eyed little girl. Soon Craig completed his duties with the U.S. Navy and the family moved to Wayne. It was there they took over Marguerites’ (II) family business, Integrity Enterprises in Fairfield NJ.

Marguerite (III) would attend Packanack and George Washington Schools and was an active Girl Scout and Cadette member throughout those formative years earning every badge she was challenged to achieve. She went on to graduate from Wayne Valley High School in 1986. There she enjoyed weightlifting and even set a school record as a mere freshman. Marguerite also enjoyed sailing, skiing and traveling.  She would travel with her family all over the world. She was very popular in school as her smile would just draw you to her. Her humor and love for life was too infectious to ignore. If you were lucky to be her friend, then you were truly blessed.

Marguerite (III) had many occupations over the years. She started working for her parents at Integrity during her summer months in school into adulthood. Soon the Packanack Lake Golf Club would never be the same, as she started running the food service. Many fond memories with family and friends were made there. Even though she took on the huge responsibilities at the Club, she still maintained her main job working in the family business.

In 1996 she met her future husband Curt Kabula at HER birthday party on HIS birthday! The sparks were immediate and soon a true and beautiful love began. They married in 1999 at a wonderful celebration at Tavern on the Green in NYC and honeymooned in Greece. In 2000 they were blessed with the birth of their son Trent. 4 years later, they were blessed once again with the arrival of Maggie, (Marguerite IV).

She thoroughly enjoyed bowling, horseback riding, watching the Giants and Rangers, as well as amusement parks! She also loved just spending leisurely time with friends and family soaking in a pool and listening to music. We all know how much she loved music, her “Happy Place”.
She especially loved her children and family. She was so thankful to watch them grow from little babies to outstanding young adults. She was the “cool” Mom, and she was proud of that. 

Marguerite had a special bond with many of her friends. Whether you met her as a child, teen, or an adult, her friendship was always true and unfaltering. When you met her, she simply added you to her collection, allowing us to enjoy the ride with her. She will be missed and will forever be in our hearts.

She is survived by her loving mother Marguerite Smith. Her husband Curt Kabula and children, Trent and Maggie Kabula. Her brother William Smith and his sons Brett and Brandon Smith. 

She was proceeded by her father Craig Smith on May 21, 2021.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Englewood Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gregory Paul Czaplinski, age 72 of Wayne, NJ.

Gregory was born in Glen Ridge, NJ and lived with his family for several years in Bloomfield.  He was the youngest of three children to Zigmunt and Beatrice Czaplinski.  In the early 1960’s, Greg and his family moved to Wayne, NJ where he attended Wayne Valley High School.  While a student at Wayne Valley High School, Greg was a member of the Boys’ Varsity Track and Field Team. 

After graduating from Wayne Valley High School with the class of 1969, Greg attended William Paterson College for about two years.  He accepted the position as the head greenskeeper of two prestigious golf courses nestled in the suburb landscapes of Wayne, NJ.  Greg honed his craft with unwavering commitment. His interests led him to pursue further education in turf management at Rutgers University, where he studied intricacies of maintaining lush greenery. Armed with newfound expertise, Greg embraced a new chapter in his career, accepting the esteemed position of manager within the parks department of Ridgewood, NJ.  Greg held this position for more than twenty-four years until retiring in 2013.  While working for the parks department in Ridgewood, Greg also freelanced with a friend of his named Ted who owned a tree service company. 

Given Greg’s career choice, it came as no surprise that he cherished gardening.  Greg always had his front and back yards of his home meticulously landscaped and pristine in appearance. Greg was an avid fisherman to say the least.  Whether it was the tranquility of casting his line in the serene lakes or the thrill of braving the icy depths during winter, Greg found solace and joy in every fishing expedition. It was evident in his decision to purchase a home nestled along the shores of Lake Ontario in New York, a sanctuary where he could immerse himself fully in the unparalleled fishing experiences that the lake offered.  Whether on his spring, summer, or winter fishing trips, Greg could always be found partaking in his favorite past time with a Coors Lite Beer in his hand.  Greg was also an avid New York Giants fan and New York Rangers fan.  He was devoted son and treasured watching the Rangers on television with his mom.  Greg also cherished every moment spent with his beloved Great Dane, Zeus who passed away several years ago.

Greg was a larger-than-life person with an infectious sense of humor and personality.  He loved spending time with his family and friends.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Greg is survived by his cousins; Richard Czaplinski and his wife Agnes of Totowa, NJ, Donna Marrone, Carol Elio, Joseph Skurski of Clifton, NJ, and Elaine Skurski of Clifton, NJ, extended family members; Rita Shuey of Prescott, MI, Darleen Peluso of Woodland Park, NJ, Chad Skurski of Clifton, and his life-long friend Michael Kahman of Wayne, NJ.  He was predeceased by his brother Zigmunt Czaplinski and by his parents Zigmunt and Beatrice Czaplinski.

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Barbara Marion, beloved mother, sister, and friend, on May 18th, 2024, in Pequannock, NJ. She was surrounded by family and friends and passed peacefully after a courageous battle with cancer.

Barbara was born on September 5, 1956, in Staten Island, NY to John and Anna Caviano.

Barbara married Dennis on November 7, 1981, and they spent forty-three wonderful years together. They were blessed with two children: James and Dennis, who loved her more than she could know.

To know Barbara was to love her. Words that come to mind when describing her include selfless, thoughtful, hilarious, vibrant, and hopeful. She fought so hard because she did not want anyone to be sad.

In her free time, Barbara was a crafter extraordinaire. She never met a project she could not excel at (save one unfortunate bathroom redesign using dozens of various paint samples). You would quickly learn to never compliment anything she owned because it would then appear on your doorstop the next day like magic. Her family and loved ones will not be able to look around their homes without thinking of her and the many things she crafted and gifted out of love.

You were never leaving Barbara’s house hungry. “Small meals” were banquets of legend. And any guest would go home with enough leftovers to feed a small army. It was an absolute blessing that she was an incredible cook.

Barbara is survived by husband Dennis, children James and Dennis, sisters Joann and Debbie, brother John, and chosen sister, Paula. She also leaves behind countless individuals who loved and will remember her. It only took one meeting, you could never forget Barb.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in her memory to a charity of your choice.

Barbara did not want a wake; she wanted a party. She does not want us to be sad so please come and share the memories of what made her such an incredible woman. We know she is looking down on us and playing her favorite Vibrant 7 slot machine, of which she was an absolute pro.

Rest in peace, Barbara – wife, mother, friend. You will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Wills, Dorothy Julia, age 90, passed away at The Holland Christian Home in North Haledon on Saturday, May 18, 2024.

Dorothy Julia Wills, daughter of Dorothy Durner and her husband William Durner of Clifton, New Jersey.  Beloved sister of Janet Sullivan (formerly Durner) of New Windsor, NY.   Beloved wife of the late Edwin George Wills and mother of Glenn and his wife, Donna of Wanaque, NJ, Edwin and his wife, Linda of Wayne, NJ, Marilynn and her husband, Mark of  Lake Hiawatha, NJ, Janice and her husband, Santos of East Stroudsburg, PA, and David and his wife Kathy of Vasselboro, ME. Beloved grandmother of 10: Christina, Teresa(deceased), Brianna, Erica, Alyssa, Scott, Vanessa, Michael, Justin, AJ, and five great grandchildren: Jake, Rylee, Zachary, Lilly, and Lincoln.

Dorothy worked at the Okonite Cable Company where she met her late husband, Edwin George Wills and later married on October 20, 1956. She worked as a church secretary for Trinity Church in Montclair, NJ, and also worked at Essex Chemical Corporation as an HR Coordinator for several years. She was an active member at Northside Reformed Church in Clifton and at The Preakness United Reformed Church in Wayne. She was a Sunday School teacher, Daily Vacation Bible School teacher and served on the Mission Committee most of her married life.

She enjoyed bowling, ice skating, table tennis, gardening, softball, and she also enjoyed watching all of the various sports of her children and her grandchildren. She had a loving heart and compassion for so many people and was known for writing encouraging notes and letters to uplift people.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be gratefully accepted to Alzheimer’s of New Jersey at www.alznj.org or in memory of Teresa Wills on behalf of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Elizabeth Coral, age 66, of Wayne, NJ.

Elizabeth passed away peacefully on Friday, May 17, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born and raised in Lima, Peru and was one of several children to Santiago and Arminda Vasquez.  As a young girl growing up in Peru, Elizabeth’s brother Alfredo introduced her to his friend, a handsome young man named Carlos Coral.  The two hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on March 22, 1976 Elizabeth and Carlos exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in their hometown of Lima.  While residing there, they welcomed the births of both their sons, Carlos and Dennys.  Elizabeth became a homemaker shortly after getting married and having children.

In 1989, in search of a better life and the “American Dream”, Elizabeth immigrated to the United States ahead of her family.  Her son Dennys followed her to the US in 1990, then her son Carlos and husband Carlos immigrated in 1991.  The family settled in Paterson, NJ for about four years then moved to Wayne in March of 1995 where they have been ever since.

Elizabeth's journey to the United States was one marked by courage and determination. Leaving behind her homeland, she and her family embarked on a new chapter of their lives.  Driven by dreams of opportunity and success, when she arrived, she researched the avenue of the construction industry, navigating its challenges with resilience and a strong work ethic.   Fueled by a vision, she took a leap of faith and founded her own contracting business, Roberts LLC Services, becoming a respected figure in the industry.  Elizabeth owned and operated her business for the next seventeen years until her passing.

Despite the demands of her business, Elizabeth pursued a bachelor's degree in theology at Calvary Temple in Wayne where she dove into the complexities of faith and spirituality. Through her diverse journey, Elizabeth epitomized the essence of the American dream.

One of Elizabeth’s most cherished past-times was travel.  She and her family treasured vacationing to exotic and historical destinations such as Peru, Colombia, Mexico, Israel, Panama, Honduras, and Canada.

Those who knew Elizabeth best knew that apart from all her hobbies, interests, and talents, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Elizabeth than providing for and spending time with her friends and family.  She was a truly dedicated mother, and grandmother.  She and her husband Carlos cherished nearly fifty years of love and loyalty together.  Elizabeth was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Christian Faith.  She was a dedicated member of Calvary Temple in Wayne.

Elizabeth was an extremely strong woman who loved her family deeply.  She was always outspoken and enjoyed being the life of the party.  Elizabeth was known for her nurturing and compassionate nature, always ready with a comforting word or a helping hand for those in need. Her warmth and love enveloped everyone she encountered, creating a sense of belonging and security. However, beneath her gentle exterior lay a firm sense of discipline.  Whether guiding her sons with a gentle touch or enforcing rules with a firm hand, she balanced love and discipline with grace. Those who knew Elizabeth found a perfect blend of tenderness and toughness, a testament to the depth and complexity of her character.

Elizabeth was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her. She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Elizabeth is survived by her two sons; Carlos Coral and his wife Michelle of Mine Hill, NJ, and Dennys Coral of Wayne, NJ, one grandson Sebastian Coral of Mine Hill, NJ, one brother Alfredo Vasquez and his wife Maria of Pembroke Pines, FL, one sister Irene Vasquez of Lima, Peru and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family.

Nancy E. Jones, age 86, of Little Egg Harbor, NJ passed Thursday, May 17, 2024, with the comfort of family by her side.

Nancy was born to Wilfred and Bonnie Parker and graduated from Ritenour Senior High School in Overland, MO with the Class of 1955. She was proud of her many activities including the International Order of the Rainbow for Girls, being a school newspaper column writer, and a cheerleader.

Nancy’s first job was working for her father in the factory. Also, she worked in downtown St. Louis as an Administrative Assistant. In Cleveland, Oh. as an Accounts Payable Clerk and later a receptionist in New Jersey.

Nancy was a devoted mother who dearly loved and cared for her family. She loved to get together with family and friends, especially to tell stories. She traveled to visit her family for as long as she was physically capable. She was known for making the most of every moment of life. She was a faithful patriot who loved the United States of America. Her faith in Jesus Christ and God was a foundation for her life.

Nancy loved her husband, David Jones, whom she lost too soon in 2000. Although she had some relationships, she always considered him her husband for the rest of her life. Their marriage was blessed with three children: Mona, Darrick, and Nicole, ten grandchildren: Darrick, Garvin, Maranda, Alicia, Sawyer, Luke, Cole, Sydney, Carl, and Daniel, five great-grandchildren: Milo, Declan, Riley, Peyton, and Emery.

In place of flowers memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s Association would be greatly appreciated.

Elizabeth Ann “Lizzie” Valverde VanGinneken (nee Delgado), also known as the poet and author Elizabeth Estella, of Paterson, NJ, passed on Thursday, May 16, 2024 at the age of 44. Lizzie died peacefully in her  home in Paterson, surrounded by loving family.

Lizzie’s life began in Miami, Florida and Pearl River, NY before moving to Hillsdale, NJ.  In 2017, she settled into her dream home in Paterson, where she became a beloved fixture of the community. Included among Lizzie’s many accomplishments are her graduating with honors from Columbia University in 2015, receiving a master’s degree in creative writing from New York University in 2018, the publication of her writing in numerous  journals, her roles as a professor and teacher of writing at NYU, Passaic County Community College, as well  as in hospitals and prisons. In 2021 she was named Poet Laureate of Paterson, NJ. Regardless of the many  accolades, what Lizzie was most proud of in her life was her daughter Stella, who was born in 2008. 

Lizzie is survived by her adoring husband Damen VanGinneken; beloved daughter Estella Joelie and her father Joel Valverde; mother Ellen Delgado; sister Amanda Delgado, her husband James Gerbig and their son Logan; and her devoted Scottish fold, Marcel. She is also survived by her mother in law, Debra VanGinneken;

sister in law, Dana Tinajero and her husband, Omar; her half sister Katy Olson; and many beloved family members and friends. She was preceded in death by her father, Edward Delgado and also her birth mother  Leslie Parker.

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Our family has received an overwhelming outpouring of love, which says everything you need to know about Lizzie. We are grieving at the moment and do not have a specific charity or In-lieu-of to spread resources to. If you cannot hold that love in before Thursday’s services, we kindly ask that you designate something you love as your Lizzie item. A rock, a plant, a ball of lint, just make it your Lizzie item and carry it in your heart… 

“The weight of the world is love.” -

Allen Ginsberg

“The Post said she ran with the heart of a locomotive on champagne glass ankles and I’d like

to be remembered that way” - Elizabeth Estella, from her poem Eight Belles

Chang Woon (Jane) Huh Choo (formerly of Rye Brook, NY and recently Franklin Lakes, NJ) passed peacefully on May 15, 2024, surrounded by family, after 94 years of a full and blessed life.

Chang Woon was born in Korea on May 19, 1929, to father Bong Nak Huh and mother Beng Nin Cho, the second of six children. After graduating from Ewha Womans University college and Medical School in Seoul, she, and her husband Young Bin Choo, immigrated to the US where they completed their internship and residency training programs before beginning their careers in medicine.

Chang Woon worked for more than 30 years at the Phelps Memorial Hospital as a clinical pathologist in Tarrytown, NY as well as serving part time on staff at the VA Hospital in Montrose. She managed a rigorous professional career while raising 3 children with her husband in Rye Brook, NY.

Chang Woon was a formidable, tireless, loving, and dedicated mother, friend and physician who gave her best in all endeavors, be it work, school, family life, or hobbies. She excelled in sports, enjoying golf and tennis and was even a junior Olympic speed skating champion in Korea. She was known to be an excellent cook, hosting countless social and church gatherings, often serving Thanksgiving dinner for up to 100 people. She traveled the world and enjoyed caring for her grandchildren in her later years. She was one of the first graduates of the Ewha Womans University Medical school. Remarkably, after completing her first residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology and practicing for a few years, she completed a second residency in Pathology, so that she could maintain a more manageable work/lifestyle that would allow her to raise her children.

Chang Woon’s life was also dedicated to her husband Young Bin, who predeceased her in 2017. They had been married for over 60 years and felt blessed by their long union of mutual respect, devotion, and love. When they firsr arrived in NYC from Korea in the early 1950s, the first place they asked their cab driver to take them was to a Korean Church. The first people they met in the U.S. and their lifelong friends and real home became the Korean Methodist Church and Institute on the Upper Westside in Manhattan. Chang Woon was able to attend Easter Service there this year, shortly before her passing. Our parents’ steadfast devotion to the KMCI was lifelong and contributed to the Church’s decades long achievement of finally building and renovating a permanent church building for the congregation. 

Chang Woon’s personal relationship with Christ was a daily and intimate relation that unfailingly began each day with Bible study and prayer. Her unceasing faithfulness, gratefulness, and reliance on Him sustained her throughout her life. With complete faith, all of her family and friends know that she will be lovingly welcomed Home with, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” 

Chang Woon is survived by her children Lisa (Kelly), Daniel (Kimberly) and Nancy (Edward). She is also survived by her grandchildren David (Perri), Alayna, Natalie, Elizabeth, Amanda, and Andrew and by her siblings Jeanne Lim, Stewart Huh and Sung Pil Huh. She was predeceased by her husband Young Bin Choo and siblings Cathy Han and Sung Yun Huh. 

In Lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the Korean Methodist Church and Institute, 633 W. 115th Street, New York, NY 10025. info.kmci@gmail.com

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Frank M Bsales, age 73, of Highland Lakes, NJ.

Frank passed away on Tuesday, May 14, 2024.  He was born in Paterson and was one of five children and the only son to Michael and Gloria Bsales.  At about the age of thirteen, Frank and his family moved to Wayne, NJ, where they grew their roots. While residing in Wayne, Frank attended Wayne Valley High School.

Immediately following his high school years, Frank enlisted in the United States Marine Corps.  During his military service, Frank was assigned as a Recoilless Rifleman and sent to fight in the Vietnam War.  While in Vietnam, Frank fought in the Battle Khe Sanh and was wounded.  As a result of his service, Frank received the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnamese Service Medal, the Combat Action Ribbon, as well as the Good Conduct Medal.  Additionally, Frank was a supervisor for H & M Fleisher Food Corporation for many years.  He also owned and operated his own business called Corral Food Service for more than five years.

Frank was honorably discharged from the United States Marine Corps in 1970.  Shortly after being discharged from the military, Frank met a lovely girl by the name of Donna Turi.  The two dated for about two years and on June 2, 1974, exchanged wedding vows, and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Clifton.  While living in Clifton, NJ they welcomed the births of both their sons, Michael and Anthony, who became the center of their world.  Frank and Donna's union spanned nearly two decades, a testament to their commitment and shared journey through life.  Ultimately, the two ended up going their separate ways. 

Frank then moved to the beautiful state of Hawaii on the island of Maui.  Frank truly treasured his time spent there, and always said, “When God made Maui, he was showing off.” While residing in Hawaii for the next seven years, Frank found love again meeting his second wife Lisa Stewart.   Lisa had a son,  Zach Mowen, whom Frank took on as his own.  After Frank and Lisa were married, he moved back to the continental US.  They settled in Shippensburg, PA and cherished their time together until 2015 when unfortunately, the couple separated but continued to have a loving, close relationship.

Frank then moved to Highland Lakes, NJ to be close to his sons and grandchildren.

Frank was a man of diverse passions.  He was an avid fisherman and would spend serene mornings by the lake, casting his line with patience.  His love for fishing ran deep and provided him with great solace. But Frank's interests didn't end at the water's edge; his home was a lush oasis of greenery, where he nurtured an array of houseplants, finding joy in their growth and vitality.

Frank had an infectious sense of humor and could light up any room he walked into with his broad smile and his boisterous laugh.  He loved being the life of the party and took great pleasure in teasing and poking fun at those close to him.  But aside from all of Frank’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his friends and family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Frank than spending time with his sons and his grandchildren.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Frank is survived by his two sons: Michael Bsales and his wife Kristin of Kinnelon, NJ, and Anthony Bsales and his wife Lauren of Woodcliff Lake, NJ and step-son Zach Mowen of Shippensburg, PA, three sisters; Robin Puchalski and her husband Ronald of Chandler, AZ, Merry Bsales of Wayne, NJ, and Lisa Loffredo and her husband Gary of Wayne, NJ, six grandchildren  Madison Bsales of Kinnelon, NJ, Olivia Bsales of Kinnelon, NJ, Anthony Bsales of Woodcliff Lake, NJ, Abigail Bsales of Woodcliff Lake, NJ, Lucas Bsales of Woodcliff Lake, NJ, and Julia Mowen of Shippensburg, PA.  He was predeceased by his sister Michele Rowek, by his parents; Michael and Gloria Bsales, and by his four-legged friend best friend, Java..

In lieu of flowers, donations in Frank’s name may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, www.mskcc.org  or the Gary Sinise Foundation

Joseph Ganguzza, born to Giuseppe Ganguzza and Rosa Patire on May 27, 1932, alongside his beloved twin sister Grace, passed peacefully in his sleep on May 14, 2024, just two weeks shy of his 92nd birthday.  

While we are so grateful to have had him sharp as a tack and making us laugh for so many years, it’s never enough time with someone like Joe. He was quite simply the best. His pure heart shined through his beautiful smile. He was everyone’s “favorite guy,” always available for advice, compassion, a heartfelt letter, poem, song, or a (often inappropriate) joke.

While he was so proud of his Sicilian roots, Joe was a true patriot and proud Italian- American. Growing up as one of 6 siblings, he took great pride in his hardworking immigrant family building an American dream through sheer blood, sweat, and tears, in founding Valley Fair discount department stores. His years in military service helped build his strong and disciplined character. His credo truly was Family, Faith, and Country and he lived his life serving all of them with great pride and dignity.  

Nothing brought him more joy than his family, his wife Frances of 65 years, his cherished children Joe, Donna, and Theresa, his sons in law, Rob and Josh, his eight grandchildren, three great-grandchildren, and his extended family of nieces and nephews.  

In recent years, Joe so enjoyed his extensive network of friends and leadership positions in his community who will miss him like family.  

While he will be missed tremendously, as a man of faith he always reminded us how much he looked forward to being reunited with the rest of us family at the end of his life, and we take comfort in knowing that he surely has been. We will think of him everyday and will proudly pass his beautiful legacy on to the next generation. He always was and always will be loved and cherished beyond measure.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Wounded Warrior Project woundedwarriorproject.org in Joe’s honor.

Allen P. Higgins, Jr., age 88 of Estero, Florida, originally of Wayne, New Jersey,  passed away Tuesday , May 14, 2024, with the comfort of his family by his side.

Allen was born to Allen and Nellie Higgins in Jersey City, New Jersey, June 24, 1935. He spent most of his childhood years living in Lodi, New Jersey.

At a very young age, Allen began taking voice lessons as well as Piano and Accordion lessons.  Music became Allen's lifelong passion and he became an active member of the music ministries at the Trinity Assembly of God Church in Passaic, NJ, and later in life at Calvary Temple Assembly of God Church in Wayne, NJ.

In his late teens, Allen met his future wife, Evelyn Renn, of Carlstadt, NJ.  By chance one Sunday morning while on a bus in search of a little church he heard about in Passaic, he met 2 women who were heading to that same church.  Later that day, they introduced him to the small group of attendees, including the pianist, Evelyn.  Evelyn immediately recognized his name, and coincidentally worked with Allen's dad, Allen Higgins Sr.  Allen, at age 19 and Evelyn, at age 23 were married shortly thereafter.  The couple were married for 66 years, until Evelyn passed in 2020.

After starting their family and eventually moving to the Pines Lake section of Wayne, NJ, Allen and Evelyn joined a few other couples seeking to start a new church in the area. With some planning, collaboration, and by the grace of God, Calvary Temple was established in Wayne.  At Calvary Temple, along with Evelyn, Allen was a great asset to the music ministry, as Soloist, Pianist, and playing the Accordion.  Allen was a member and regular attendee of Calvary until he relocated to Florida in June of 2020.

Allen began his career in the retail industry in New York City.  Shortly after, he transitioned to a position with Rutherford Machinery and later established a long career with Deluxe Check Printers in West Caldwell. Post an early retirement, Allen returned to the retail industry, working at Fortunoff of Wayne, NJ.

Allen was known for his sense of humor, positive attitude, and his contagious smile. 

Allen's family was his priority and greatest joy. 

He is survived by three children: Cheryl Zarillo and husband Mike O'Connor, Bryan Higgins and wife Awilda Gonzalez, and Dawn Higgins. He was the beloved "Pop-Pop" to nine grandchildren: Allen Higgins IV, Michael Zarillo, Matthew Zarillo, Bryan Higgins Jr., Kaitlin Carroll, Tanner Melendez, Troy Melendez, Trevor Melendez, Ashley Lance, and 6 great-grandchildren. Allen was predeceased by he beloved wife Evelyn in 2020, and by his son, Allen Higgins III, in 2014. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to The American Liver Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Dominick DeAngelis, age 97, of Wayne, NJ, passed away Saturday, May 11, 2024.  

Dominick was born to Gino and Lucrezia “Lena” DeAngelis in the Bronx, NY, where he lived most of his life. He spent his later years in Mt Vernon, NY, eventually moving to Wayne to be near family. Dominick graduated from Christopher Columbus High School in the Bronx, NY. After high school, Dominick served in the United States Army.

He spent his working years as a carpenter and helped with the family business building houses in Westchester County, City Island and the Bronx.  He also spent much of his time working on and repairing cars, his favorite being the Volvo.  He enjoyed making wine with his family, boating, and reading. Dominick was an avid skier and spent many weekends, up until the age of 85, on the slopes of Mt. Snow, Vermont. 

Dominick was predeceased by his parents, Gino and Lena DeAngelis, and his brother, Mario. He leaves behind his sister, Anna Solimine and several nieces and nephews. He was affectionately known to most family and friends as “Uncle Dom”. 

Mary M. Apgar formerly of Wayne, Sparta and Waldwick died peacefully on May 10, 2024. 

Born in 1938 and raised in Passaic, Mary was the only child of Angelina (nee Ambrosio) a piano teacher, choir director and church organist and John McArdle a Passaic Police Officer and World War 1 veteran.  

Mary attended Holy Trinity and Pope Pius catholic schools where she was an outstanding student and active in the school newspaper and drama and latin clubs. Mary also learned to sing and play the piano, both of which she enjoyed  throughout most her life. Following high school Mary studied at the St. Joseph’s school of nursing graduating as a registered nurse and starting what would eventually become a more than 45 year career working predominantly in labor and delivery and with OB GYN patients at the Valley Hospital in Ridgwood, Wayne General Hospital in Wayne and doctors offices in Hawthorne, Ridgewood and Ramsey, NJ. 

Mary loved her job as it gave her much joy to provide care and guidance to other women, especially expecting mothers and of course helping to bring babies into the world. 

Mary gave birth to two boys of her own who she loved unconditionally. When her marriage ended in divorce she worked tirelessly, taking as much overtime as the  hospital would allow just to ensure her boys had everything that families with two working parents had. And her hard work paid off. She was able to buy a 4 bedroom home in Wayne and provide her sons with a comfortable living. This included a family vacation every year to fun but always educational destinations like Seaworld and DisneyWorld/Epcot Center in Florida, Niagra Falls and Montreal Quebec, Washington DC, Mystic Harbor CT and Colonial Williamsburg VA. She also passed her love of music on to her sons. Soon piano and drum lessons followed. Mary always encouraged her boys to play as often as they liked and to never stop learning. 

Mary also loved and adored her grandchildren. She spent as much time as possible with them doing everything from sleepovers at Grandma’s house to taking trips to the lake and beach. She always seemed to find something fun for them to do together. She also attended literally every sports game or meet they participated in which was no small undertaking as both were outstanding athletes who competed at the state level in high school. And when it came time for them to go to college, Mary selflessly took care of their tuition. She wanted to do everything she could to ensure they had the best start in life. 

Her sons and grandchildren will never forget the many sacrifices Mary made so they could have a better life. She never once hesitated at doing or giving anything she possibly could if she felt it would help her children or grandchildren succeed. 

She will be cherished and remembered always for her love and devotion to her family by her sons Richard Apgar and his wife Lisa, John Apgar and his partner Kate, and her Grandchildren Amelia Apgar and John Apgar. 

Gary Johnson, age 70 of Haskell, passed away on Thursday, May 9, 2024.

Gary was born to Earl and Joan Johnson in Paterson, NJ where he graduated from Kennedy High School.  He also had a sister Joan Hoppe who passed away in 2021. 

Gary was very involved in sports, he loved cheering on his favorite teams, the Boston Celtics and the Los Angeles Dodgers.  He enjoyed basketball most of all, but he would watch just about anything. This would lead him to his life’s calling of becoming a coach for the future generations of players over at the Wayne Boys and Girls Club.  There he led countless basketball teams teaching them the fundamentals of the game he was most passionate about.   

In addition to his devotion to helping kids as a local coach, Gary also worked as a crossing guard in Wayne ensuring their safety.  He loved his job and was well known for his friendly and social demeanor while helping the community stay safe.  Even at 70, Gary still worked various other part time jobs which included Stop & Shop, Lifetouch and United Pool Services.  

Grace and Gary met one fateful day at a previous job, where Gary decided to take a chance and ask her to the movies.  They saw his favorite movie at the time, Ghost.  The two instantly hit it off, finding comfort in one another.  Soon after, they were married in the Poconos and have been together for over 30 years.  They initially raised their children in Midland Park.  Later moving to Passaic County where they bought a home and added family pets which Gary enjoyed. 

Beyond sports, Gary also loved watching game shows.  The Price is Right (only with Bob Barker as the host) was his favorite along with Jeopardy. He also enjoyed movies that revolved around space like Apollo 13, Lost in Space, and Star Trek.  His not so guilty pleasure was watching General Hospital (a soap opera) with his wife.  Gary also enjoyed photography, bowling, and playing pool with his best friend John of 58 years.

Gary is survived by his wife Grace Johnson, his son Keith Johnson and granddaughter Savannah, his stepchildren Joe Ravese and Jessica Tuvé along with her husband Jeremy, and his granddaughter Avarie.

In lieu of flowers, if you would like to make a memorial contribution in Gary’s name, please consider donating to the Wayne Boys and Girls Club.

Dearly Loved Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother Carol Ann Horn Kalafsky McGrath, 86, of Wood-Ridge, NJ, peacefully passed on 5/8/2024 at her home in Boonton, NJ, enveloped by the love and comfort of her family.

The daughter of Martha and Frank Horn, a Jersey City born Carol Ann graduated from St. Michael’s High School, Class of 1955 where classmates voted her Most Likely to Succeed. Whilst a full-time working professional caring for her six children, Carol Ann attended college in Bergen County.

Her professional career began in Hospitality at Ryerson Steele in 1956. With six kids in nine years, Carol Ann was enterprising and steadfast. When her youngest child went to kindergarten, Carol Ann embarked on reinventing herself working night shifts in Maywood at National Community Bank.  Confident and committed, Carol Ann possessed a work ethic always lauded by her colleagues and executive team at Lancor International and later Airwick Industries. Carol Ann’s penchant for financials as well as collaborating with coworkers and mentoring young women garnered her success and tremendous respect as female in the 70s and 80s workplace. Carol Ann championed for equality in the workplace while being a role model for work-life balance.

Carol Ann was unswerving in her seat as the wife of Raymond Paul Kalafsky; they drove together on the marriage mobile for 33 years. As high school sweethearts, the duo celebrated their wedding on January 11, 1958 with sister, Joan Dunn, as her maid of honor. Together, they raised a busy family, competed at biweekly bowling leagues, danced at The Knights of Columbus events, purchased a waterfront vacation home, and traveled with dear friends until Ray’s untimely passing in 1991.

Passionate about serving others, volunteer Carol Ann immersed herself in Southern Ocean County Hospital’s Interfaith as the travel coordinator. Carol Ann always dedicated time for gardening. Blooms, buds and bulbs grew in her Forked River garden and her heart. The arts fascinated Carol Ann; sketching and painting provided a forum for her to bestow handmade gifts to her friends and grandchildren. She never showed up for a gathering without freshly cut sprigs of her favorite perennial, a painted Christmas ornament, or crafted vase with dragonflies.

As a lifelong New York Yankees fan and with her passion for crime drama, Carol Ann prioritized friendships. Whether it was bases loaded in the bottom of the ninth or a mystery about to be solved, she would always make time to pick up the phone and lend an empathetic ear.

Above all, Carol Ann was immeasurably proud of her six children, 13 grandkids and five great-grandchildren. Fittingly, her family’s adoration was abundant; they meant the world to Carol Ann. Despite her health challenges, Carol Ann embodied grace and resilience amongst her cherished moments with family. Daughters Judith and Ann offered her endless support, encouragement, acting as her most ardent advocates. Carol Ann’s radiant smile and kindness will be missed by her many friends, including Ermine and Bill Haggerty, Marie Wilczynski, Peggy Moss, and Valerija Jovanovic’, her devoted caregiver.

Carol Ann was predeceased by her parents, brother William Horn, beloved brother-in-law, William F. Dunn, and her husband, Raymond. Carol Ann is survived by her two sisters, Joan Dunn of Riverdale, NJ; Arlene Coyle and her husband Bill of Summit, NJ; and her brother, Jim Horn of Florida. She is survived by her loving kids: son Mark John Kalafsky of Riverdale, NJ and his daughter, Kristina, her daughter Judith Licina of Barrington, NJ and her husband Brani Licina and children Aleksandar, Angelika, and Petar Licina; her son Raymond Kalafsky and wife Alexandra of Wood-Ridge and his children Jenna, Kimberly, Gavin and Brooke; her son Gregg Kalafsky of Oakland and his daughters Alyssa Kalafsky and Alana Cinelli, her daughter, Ann Kalafsky of Montclair, NJ; her daughter Carol Braun and husband Michael Braun of Randolph, NJ and their children Isabel, Christian and Ethan. Carol Ann was blessed with great grandchildren, Sophie, Charlie Cinelli, Silas, Ben, and James.

To continue Carol Ann's support and of St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, please consider donating to St. Jude in her memory. Click HERE to donate.  

The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the doctors, nurses and staff at Penn Medical Center and Dr. Michael Mainero who selflessly made house calls and dispensed outstanding medical support for many years.

Bernice Virginia Adami, who chose to go by her middle of Virginia or “Ginny” when she was younger, of Oakland, NJ, passed away on May 08, 2024 at the age of 89 after receiving the loving care of her children, especially her son Robert who was her primary care giver for a number of years.

Virginia was born in New York City on October 16, 1934. Her parents were Edith Edna Parsons Watkins and John Watkins. She had a sister Ruth Renshaw and a brother Jack Watkins. She graduated from Englewood Cliffs High School in NJ and attended secretarial school. Her first job was at Prentice Hall in New York City. And her last job was working as a bookkeeper at Citizen’s First National Bank in Fair Lawn. Virginia was extremely proud of her time working at Citizen’s and couldn’t believe it when she heard that it took three people to do her job after she retired.

Virginia married the love of her life, Frank Adami, in 1961. They loved doing everything together and both used to say that they were each other’s best friend. They renewed their wedding vows for their 50th anniversary in 2011. This year would have been their 63rd anniversary. She has dearly missed him since the day he passed away in 2019 and has been so looking forward to the day they would be reunited once again for all eternity. Oh, what a glorious reunion that must have been, especially with their daughter Linda who passed away in 1992 at the age of 30 to also welcome her to her new Heavenly home with her mother, aunt and many others, we’re sure. “Resurgam”, or I will rise again.

Virginia was a loving, caring and devoted wife, mother, grandmother and aunt. She and Frank loved to travel, taking their children on many vacations through the years. They really enjoyed expanding their horizons after retiring by traveling to many foreign countries or destinations like Bermuda, Alaska, The Panama Canal, and Italy where Frank’s parents emigrated from in 1926.

Other trips that were the most memorable and special to them were when they spent their winters as “snowbirds” visiting Virginia’s niece Patty Divens and her family in Destin, Florida for a few months each winter for about 12 years. Also extremely special to them was when they visited Virginia’s cousin Brenda Hughes and her family in Devon, England. Devon is where her mother and Aunt Betty Parsons emigrated from in 1913. Her Aunt Betty raised her since she was six years old when her  mother passed. Also extremely special to them was when  Brenda, her husband Roy Hughes and daughter Linda Scarborough then came from the UK to visit our family many years ago.  And just this past summer, Brenda’s daughter Linda and granddaughter Eve Scarbough came to visit her and her family again. Patty and her daughter Jessie Builta Paradise from Vermont also came to visit us too. We took them to Frank and Virginia’s favorite diner, The Oakland Diner!

Virginia was a member of Oakland’s Women’s Auxiliary for many years while Frank was a volunteer fireman in the Oakland Volunteer Fire Department for 35+ years. They both also volunteered at The Valley Hospital for over 15 years when it was located in Ridgewood. Virginia volunteered in their Same-Day Surgery Unit, checking patients in for their procedures and Frank volunteered in their Transport Department. She was extremely excited and proud to be one of 203 patents to be transported to the hospital’s beautiful, new location in Paramus last month, especially after being one of their “Pink Ladies” (female volunteers) for so many years.

Although Virginia wasn’t an avid cook, she had a few things that she loved to make for her family. One thing was her “English Spaghetti”, as her husband Frank and children used to referred to it as and loved her to make for them, another thing we all loved was her Lasagna, and something kind of unique that she was infamous for doing is that she used to baste her Thanksgiving turkeys with Jones sausages each year. This is something that everyone really, really enjoyed!

Virginia was the loving wife of Frank Adami. They were blessed with an amazing and loving marriage and four children until his passing in 2019. She was also predeceased by their first daughter Linda Adami who passed away in 1992 at the age of 30. She leaves behind her daughter Diane Weinpel and her husband Philip Weinpel of Succasunna, NJ, her two sons Robert Adami of Oakland, NJ and David Adami and wife Chantheng Sun-Adami of Monroe, NY. She also leaves behind two grandsons, Jason Weinpel of Morristown, NJ and Kevin Weinpel of Plano, TX and nieces Patty Divens, Linda Scarbough, Janet Hughes, Carla Costantino, Audrey Adami, and nephews Eugene “Gene” Prospero and Patrick Adami and their families.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Virginia’s name may be made to The Oakland Fire Department or your local chapter of The Compassionate Friends, which is a non-profit organization for family members after the loss of a child.

PHOTO SLIDESHOW: The family has also prepared a slideshow of memories throughout Virginia's life. The link to access that slideshow can be found here.

Resurgam

“I shall rise again!”

Alfredo Von Melon, age 62, passed away in the comfort of his home, surrounded by loved ones on Sunday, May 5, 2024.

Al, as he was known to family and friends, was born in Naples, Italy to Giuseppe and Giuseppina Von Melon before the family’s final emigration to New Jersey USA. 

Tragedy struck the Von Melon household early with the passing of Al’s father in 1966 when he was just 5 years old, and his sister was 9 years old. His mother chose to remain in the states, specifically in Upper Montclair, New Jersey and honor her husband's newly acquired citizenship as well as to embrace it for the entire family.  Alfredo and his sister would continue to be raised there until adulthood.

During his teenage years, Al went to Montclair High School where he developed an interest and passion for computing which would later influence his career of choice – computer programming and networking. He also had a great love of music, particularly classic rock, which took him to many concerts and even employed him as a bouncer on several occasions.

A chance encounter at age 28 during a party was his defining moment where he met the love of his life and the woman he would later marry, Filomena Ferraiolo. They would wed in 1995 and shortly be blessed with two boys. The eldest, Giuseppe, was given his grandfather’s namesake, and a year and a half later, Alessandro would be born.  With a growing family, they soon purchased a home in Wayne where the family continues to reside.

Unfortunately, a second tragedy would befall the family as they were raising their babies. Al was diagnosed with Leukemia and an arduous struggle would begin.  It started with a Bone Marrow transplant and a five percent chance of survival which miraculously resulted in a true manifestation of a miracle and the only survivor of the group of transplant patients in his ward. The next hurdle was just as difficult and resulted in a terrible side effect of all the radiation he endured for his Leukemia.  This time, his heart was failing, and a heart transplant was the only option – and the clock was ticking so fast.  A phone call late at night from the hospital brought such great hope that Al and Fil rushed to the hospital so he could be prepped for surgery, only to find out on their arrival that the new heart didn’t survive the trip. The news was devastating.  Yet, in God’s plan, a tragic motorcycle accident would bring life to death not too long after. 

The surgery seemed to go as planned but the usual wake up in recovery didn’t. No one wanted to say the words, but Al was in a coma, and he remained that way for over a month. No one will really ever know what happened. 

Life moved along for a while, but one of Al’s kidneys started shutting down and another transplant was needed.  It was another trying period of waiting but thanks to a kidney exchange program, Filomena was able to offer her kidney to someone she matched in exchange for a kidney that matched her husband.

Twenty years later, the miracle of Alfredo Von Melon had surpassed so many medical science expectations that we somehow believed it would continue.  But Sarcoma is a cruel cancer and despite numerous attempts to halt its spreading, it was not to be. This remarkable man with courage, sheer will, and a love of God, family and life fought long and hard with a smile on his face, and laughter on his lips. 

His sense of humor, his willingness to be the guy you turned to whenever you needed help with something in spite of his trials and tribulations, will continue to endear him to those that loved him and will serve as a role model for his kids who saw firsthand what a hero looks like.

Alfredo is survived by his mother Giuseppina Melon; his loving wife Filomena Von Melon and their two boys: Giuseppe and Alessandro Von Melon; his sister Mariolina Von Melon; his brothers and sister-in-law Mario Ferraiolo, Pasquale Ferraiolo, Gianna Raimato, and Vincenzo Ferraiolo; and his many loving nieces, nephews, and grand-nieces and nephews.

Kenneth J. Snell, age 72, of Barnegat and formerly of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully, in the comfort of his home with loving family by his side, on Sunday, May 5, 2024. 

The fourth of William and Dorothy (Barker) Snell’s five children Ken was born and raised in Paterson where he attended and graduated from Kennedy High School with the Class of 1969. After high school, Ken furthered his studies at Paterson State College (known today as William Paterson University) where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in accounting.

Ken’s first job out of college was working as a comptroller for Mosler Alarm Company in Wayne. In the late 1980’s, he ventured into his own business, Kenneth J. Snell Financial Services with his office based in Pompton Lakes. He loved his work and the clients that he had the privilege of serving and advising. As a local professional in the community, Ken was a Rotarian in Pompton Lakes where he took part in the philanthropic endeavors that his rotary club undertook.  

Ken enjoyed a wonderful marriage with Maria (Conklin) Snell, his beloved wife of 51 years. That actually met when they were just five years old. They grew up together in Paterson and started dating in high school. Friendship grew to love and they ultimately exchanged their wedding promises on Saturday, August 19, 1972 at the United Methodist Church in Haledon. After a honeymoon in Bermuda, they started their life as husband and wife on the second floor of a two-family house which they shared with Ken’s brother William on Belmont Avenue in Haledon. They eventually purchased their own home at 127 Olive Ave. in Pompton Lakes where, with the arrival of Kristina, their baby girl, they ventured into the world of parenting. Eventually, Ken and Maria gave Kristina her little brother Kenneth J. Snell, II. In 1992, the family moved across town to 26 James Terrace in Pompton Lakes. 

Truth be told, probably Ken’s greatest hobby was his work as a financial planner. He never really considered his work to be work and likely would have never retired if health challenges didn’t force him to. A close second was his love for trips to Atlantic City where Borgata and Hard Rock Casino were his favorite places to play the slots. Ken liked to tell people that going to the casino was good because “they give you free stuff.” He was a huge Yankees and Giants fan and loved to listen to music by Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons, Dean Martin, Andre Bocelli, and Michael Bublé fan. 

Above all else, Ken’s greatest love and devotion was to his family. He cherished times spent with his adored grandchildren, Ryan and Ava. Never letting the miles come between them, he leveraged technology by facetiming them regularly. He enjoyed summer days with his family at his and Maria’s summer house in Toms River. Eventually, they moved into that house full-time and remained there until recently moving to the adult living community at Venue at Lighthouse Station in Barnegat.

Ken was the devoted husband of Maria (Conklin) Snell, blessed in marriage for 51 years. He was the loving father of Kristina Gallaway and her husband David of Wayne, and Kenneth J. Snell, II of Pompton Lakes; adoring grandfather of Ryan and Ava Gallaway; dearest brother of: William Snell and wife Arlene of Totowa, the late Dorothy Gonzalez and her late husband Tony, Brent Snell of West Milford, and the late Russell Snell and his wife Luann of West Milford. He is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. 

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ken’s name are asked to consider a donation to the American Cancer Society

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Harry Frederick Rudiger, was born on October 4, 1930, in Passaic, New Jersey. At the age of 93, Harry passed from this life and entered eternity to be in the presence of Our Lord on Friday, May 3, 2024 while in the care of his loving family. Harry was raised in Nutley, New Jersey and was one of two children born to Frederick and Julia Rudiger. Harry and his beloved wife Barbara, formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, have resided in Englewood, New Jersey for the past one and a half years. 

As a young boy, Harry took up the trumpet. He fell in love with the instrument from the moment he started playing. Harry was deeply involved with the music program while attending Nutley High School and later as an adult playing in big band jazz ensembles in northern New Jersey. 

Following his graduation from Nutley High School in 1948, Harry received the call to serve his country during the Korean War and joined the United States Navy. On February 16, 1951 Harry married the love of his life, Barbara Price Campbell. While serving in the United States Navy, Harry continued his musical studies at the US Naval School of Music in Annapolis, Maryland. During his service in the US Navy, Harry received the Good Conduct Medal, the European Clasp Navy Occupation Service Medal, as well as the National Defense Service Medal. Harry served proudly and honorably in the Navy from 1950 to 1954.

Harry was honorably discharged from the Navy in 1954.  Prior to his discharge from military service, Harry was stationed at the Naval Station Great Lakes, Illinois and there, Harry and  Barbara welcomed their first child, Lorraine. Following his discharge from the US Navy they returned home to Nutley and a year later Karl was born. The young family moved to East Rutherford, New Jersey and welcomed the births of their next three children, Carol, Karen, and Mark. As the family grew, they moved to Wayne in 1960 where their sixth child, David, was born. The family remained in Wayne for more than twenty years after. 

Following military service, Harry found work quickly as a Toxicology Coordinator with Hoffmann LaRoche in Nutley. Harry earned his Associates Degree in his field through his company. Harry’s career as a Toxicology Coordinator with Hoffmann LaRoche spanned a period of nearly forty years until his retirement in 1993. During his career, Harry was truly loved and respected by his colleagues and peers. In retirement, Harry and Barbara moved to Myrtle Beach where they enjoyed the next twenty years together. The couple eventually moved back to New Jersey to be closer to family. 

While residing in Wayne, Harry was elected to the office of Councilman-at-Large from 1970 to 1978. During that time, he also served on various municipal and county committees. Throughout his political career, Harry was known by everyone to be a truly honest and upstanding public servant. Harry never gave up his love for music and later took up golf, a sport he truly enjoyed. 

Those who knew Harry best, knew that his greatest passion in life was for his family and for serving the Lord. Nothing in the world meant more to Harry than spending time with and providing for his family. He was a truly devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. Harry and Barbara cherished an amazing seventy-three years of loving and loyal marriage together. Harry was not only dedicated his family, but also to his Christian Faith. He and his wife Barbara were most recently members of Englewood Baptist Church. The family is so grateful for Englewood Baptist Church and for their continued ministry to Harry and Barbara after they could no longer attend. Many from their church family would visit them regularly. In recent weeks the visits increased as Harry’s health declined. Prior to moving back to New Jersey, Harry served as deacon with Anchor Baptist Church in Little River, South Carolina and later at Calvary Baptist Church in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Harry loved to sing and would lift up his voice during congregational Hymns or while in the choir.  Harry and his family treasured their yearly family summer vacations all throughout the United States, visiting forty-two states and nearly all the country’s national parks. 

Harry was a quiet, reserved, and private man who was also honest and often humble. He had a deep love for his family as well as his community and will forever be remembered as a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him. Harry will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Harry is survived by his wife, Barbara Price Campbell Rudiger, at home; three daughters; Lorraine Marquez and her husband Mario of Ronda, North Carolina, Carol Rudiger of Montville, New Jersey, and Karen Rudiger of Fort Lee, New Jersey, three sons; Karl Rudiger and his wife Susanne of Charleston, South Carolina, Mark Rudiger and his wife Jamileth of Hackettstown, New Jersey, and David Rudiger and his wife Debby of Clemmons, North Carolina, nine grandchildren; Cynthia Andrews, Bill Rudiger, Delia Caruso, Julia Hirt, Joseph Caruso, Kristen Rudiger, Kaitlin Rudiger, Nicole Rudiger, and David Rudiger, Jr., and ten great grandchildren; McKenna, Kaleb, Jaxon, Alice, Ashton, Jordan, Madeline, Emily, Brooklyn, and Mason. Harry is predeceased by his parents, Frederick and Julia Rudiger and his brother, Richard Rudiger.

The family would like to thank the staff at The Bristal of Englewood where Harry and Barbara have resided for the last year and a half. Your care for Harry in his last few days and support for Barbara is greatly appreciated.

 In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to support missionaries in Harry’s name may be made to Englewood Baptist Church in Englewood New Jersey or to The Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated.

Roselyn Abbate, age 88 of Pompton Plains and formerly of West Caldwell, died peacefully with her family by her side on Friday, May 3, 2024.

Born in Newark to Michael and Minnie Amatelli, Roselyn moved to Bellville in 1957, where she lived with her sisters; Carol and Ellen. She began her professional career with Bell Telephone and later became a medical secretary, retiring from Pompton Chiropractic in Verona many years ago.

On September 9, 1961, Roselyn married the love of her life; Andrew “Red” Abbate. They enjoyed fifty-seven years together in a loving and devoted marriage. Roselyn happily cooked for Red everyday, and he ate like a king. And in the days before cars had remote starters, Red would always warm up the car for Roselyn so she never had to get into a cold car. These are just small examples of their devotion to one another. Sadly, Red passed away in 2018 and Roselyn has missed him each day since.

Roselyn, a woman of strong Catholic faith, was a former president of the rosary society at Saint Aloysius parish West Caldwell, and she prayed constantly for her family. Among her happiest memories would be the births of her four grandsons. She loved and cherished her grandsons who she and Red lovingly referred to as their boys. She loved to cook and bake for her boys and some of the favorite meals they enjoyed when they were young, included dinosaur pancakes. She taught them prayers and how to bake cookies and make pasta from scratch. She was a self-taught hair stylist who even cut their hair! Roselyn and Red enjoyed attending endless sporting events their grandchildren were involved in, even in the freezing cold winter, or the scorching summer heat. Her son-in-law Galen, also held a special place in her heart, although at times she may have rolled her eyes and told him he was a real pip, but she adored him. 

Roselyn’s love for Red knew no bounds. Roselyn was a very proud Italian, a strong woman, and a straight shooter. Later in life, her own father referred to her as “the general.” Roselyn loved and enjoyed her extended family as well. She often talked about her many uncles, aunts and cousins, the fun times they shared that were all so special. Summers at her uncle's house at the shore and New Years Eve, which always included pickled pigs feet and Whisky Sours, were among her favorite recollections. Roselyn was a fabulous cook and every meal was like eating in a five-star restaurant. Everyone would have to lie down after eating one of her amazing meals to recover before dessert. Christmas Eve and the feast of seven fishes was no exception; just when you thought the dinner was over, another course would come out!  One Christmas even included a whole eel with a radish in it’s mouth, which she made especially for her dad! Her cousin, Paul Marinaccio, described her as the “family matriarch” and she leaves them all with wonderful memories to cherish throughout their own lifetimes.

Roselyn was a very classy woman who always dressed to the nines and never left the house looking anything less than her best. She loved dancing and music, especially Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Tony Bennett & Judy Garland. Her late cousin, Leonard Marinaccio of Florida, took her to see Jersey Boys on Broadway once, which created an especially wonderful memory for her. After the intermission, the theatre lights dimmed before she had time to make it back to her seat, so a kind young man took her by the arm and escorted her through the dark. That kind young gentleman turned out to be none other than Kevin Costner. Her other cousin, Lenny Marinaccio of Caldwell, said the memories he has of Roselyn are as one of the younger cousins are forever etched in my being. The memories of her as an adult will always include me driving over to her house on any random night for a cup of coffee and something always fresh baked on the kitchen table with her and Red. These memories, and many more fond ones like these, will be shared for years to come.

Roselyn leaves behind her much-loved family; Son Andrew, daughter Dorene Edie, son-in-law Galen Edie, her cherished grandsons Galen, Nicholas, Christopher and Sean Edie, her baby sister Ellen Warning, Ellen’s husband and much-loved brother-in-law, Tom (deceased), sister-in-law, MaryAnn Van Dusen, Brother-in-law John Juliano, and sister; Carol Juliano (deceased), her nieces and nephews: John Juliano Jr. (deceased) and wife Sandy, her nephew Glen Juliano and wife Mindy, her niece Laura Riley and husband Keith, her nephew Michael VanDusen (Sonny-boy), her niece Dana Warning, and her God Child & niece Jill Warning, as well as grand-nephews Michael, Stephen, Alexander and Jonathan Juliano and grand-niece Kate Reilly.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made to The Child Life Program at Saint Josephs Children's Hospital.  Please click on this link https://givetostjosephs.org/donations/ and click on the Child Life Program in the DESIGNATION area and click on the TRIBUTE section and be sure to include In Memory of Roselyn Abbate.  We will also have cards for donating to the Child Life Program at the funeral home. 

In Loving Memory of Derling Waltz

Derling, a beloved veteran, devoted family man, and avid outdoorsman, passed away peacefully on May 2nd, at the age of 82 years old, surrounded by the love of his family.

Born on August 1st in Paterson NJ. He later moved to Haskell NJ where he spent his childhood with good friends fishing and hunting. He attended Butler High School for the first 3 years and spent his senior year at the new Lakeland High School where he played football, designed his class ring and was a part of the first graduating class. He was creative, artistic and a great student. After high school, Derling enrolled in the Marines where he spent the next 4 years serving in Hawaii. Once he left the Marines he moved on to a communications school. He later became a union electrician with IBEW Local 102.

Between communications school and becoming an electrician, he met the love of his life, Marilyn at his cousin’s holiday party. He won her over with his piercing blue eyes, big smile, tough-guy persona, motorcycle, and overall charm. They got married, had two beautiful daughters, and spent 57 loving years by each others’ sides. They embodied true love, and made that abundantly clear until the very end.

Derling led a life filled with adventure, laughter, and love. A proud veteran, he served his country with honor and courage, embodying the principles of service and duty. His acts of service trickled into all other aspects of his life, taking care of people in need, and doing what was right even when nobody was watching. 

In addition to his dedication to his country, Derling had a passion for the great outdoors. He found solace and joy in the tranquility of nature, often spending his days fishing in serene lakes or hunting amidst the beauty of the wilderness. He spent much of his time at Beaver Brook Rod and Gun Club. His love for fishing and hunting was matched only by his enthusiasm for sharing his skills and knowledge with his family and friends.

Beyond his outdoor pursuits, Derling had a sharp mind and a mischievous sense of humor. He delighted in solving Sudoku puzzles, relishing the challenge they presented, enjoyed playing poker, and he had a knack for sharing a dirty joke that could lighten even the darkest of days.

Derling is survived by his loving wife, Marilyn Waltz, his two daughters, Heather Waltz and Kirsten (Michael) Pressler, two grandchildren Mark and Carlie Pressler, and a host of friends who will continue to honor his memory by living out the values he held dear.

Though he may no longer cast his line into the waters or share a dirty joke with a twinkle in his eye, Derling's spirit will forever live on in the hearts of those who loved him. May he rest in peace, surrounded by the beauty of nature he so dearly cherished and the laughter of the loved ones who hold him dear. 

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to the VA New Jersey Health Care System (VANJHCS), Lyons Campus, Attn: Voluntary Svc (135LY), 151 Knollcroft Rd, Lyons, NJ 07939

Donna Donnelly, born Tramontana, age 83, of Wayne, is finally at peace after a long battle with Parkinson’s disease and PPA.

Donna was born in Brooklyn, New York to Carl and Marjorie Tramontana. She grew up there with her two sisters, Fran and Vicki. Spending time with her Sicilian grandmother Frances and Aunt Josie, she learned the art of Italian cooking and how to sew. She was an avid Brooklyn Dodger fan with Gil Hodges, capturing her heart.

After her graduation from Fontbonne Hall in Bay Ridge, this tough Brooklyn gal headed to Manhattan to become a working girl where her employment with Aeromexico TWA and Hertz as an administrative assistant sparked her love of travel.

A weekend at a dude Ranch in New York State was the setting where she met her husband, the late Joseph Donnelly. The two fell in love and headed to suburbia where Donna finally got her “green Lawn“ that she always wanted. The pair had four children and made their home in Ringwood New Jersey. Donna was a dedicated and devoted full-time super mom, taxi driver, chef, seamstress, carpenter, volunteer, travel agent, hairstylist, art teacher, neighborhood mom, class mom extraordinaire, summer camp director, psychologist, homework helper, and personal cheerleader, never missing a game! Time went on and life had its ups and downs, but Donna, now living in Wayne, redefined herself. She began sewing and painting and she created her own D Squared Designs Company and began working with an interior decorator. She happily acted as treasurer for the Sunnyridge Association at Pines Lake and alcoholics anonymous. She traveled with her friends all over the world hitting up every single museum. She never missed a Mets game and did all of this while acting as the most incredible Nonna/Fin/Nono to her grandkids, taking them to Broadway shows, going to their games and equestrian events, making them watch crime shows with her, and giving them the best no BS advice.

Donna will always be remembered as a beautiful, intelligent, creative, artistic soul with a mischievous twinkle in her eye and a sprinkle of, as she would say, “Brooklyn tough”.

Her strong spirit, bravery and laughter in the face of her horrible illness will always serve as a reminder to us to never give up and that laughter is the best medicine and to live one day at a time.

Donna is survived by her children: Carla, Daniel and Susanna Donnelly, Michael and Lori Donnelly, Patrick and Diana Donnelly, Darrin Wittson and Suzanne, and son-in-law Dean Huntzinger; her grandchildren: Kyle, Kacy, Loren, Daniel, Sarah, Ryan, Sofia, Devon, Liam and Liliana; her sisters: Fran and Ron, Wittson, Vicki Tramontana and Paul, sister-in-law Kathleen Donnelly Secker, many nieces and nephews and friends, especially Lucy and Zofia.

In lieu of flowers,  Donna’s family request that a donation be made to the Market Mission at marketstreet.org or by calling Susan at 973-538-4819.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Donna Donnelly.

Joseph Scrozzo, age 74, of East Hanover, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday April 28, 2024, while in the presence of his loving family.

Joseph was the first-born son of Frank and Maddalena (Giaimo) Scrozzo. He was born in Palermo, Sicily. When he was just six years old, Joe immigrated with his family to the United States in their search for greater opportunities in America. Joe and his family found a home in South Paterson on Michigan Ave. Joe attended Eastside High School in Paterson, where he played catcher for the school’s baseball team. After graduating with the Class of 1968, he pursued higher education and earned an associate's degree in business administration.

Joe’s entire career was dedicated to working in the hospitality industry. For the past 18 years, he had been working at Ravello in East Hanover. Hospitality flowed from Joe’s heart which he demonstrated by tipping everyone. Affectionately known by many as “Papa Joe,” he consistently showed kindness and generosity to everyone he met.

Joe was a man with a huge heart and knew the definition of good living. To Joe, life didn’t get much better than enjoying Italian delicacies, a snifter of Rémy Martin, and a fine cigar enjoyed with good friends.

Joe loved sports cars, too. Having had about a dozen of them over the years, he knew a thing or two about Chevy Corvettes, his most recent being a silver 1998 model. Wherever he went, he could be heard listening to music by some of his favorite artists, including The Temptations, Four Seasons, and Engelbert Humperdinck. He got such a kick out of saying, “Hey Google! Play.....”

Joe’s heart was filled with love and pride for his Sicilian culture. Consequently, he never valued anything in life more than his family. He truly believed in family first. Joe was a loving and doting father; He was so proud of his daughters, Christina and Gabriella. Seeing Christina earning a Master’s Degree in Criminal Justice at Montclair State University and becoming an SVU Detective. and Gabriella earning a Master’s Degree at Northwestern University and becoming a Licensed Therapist. This left Joe feeling so proud of his “little girls.”

Joe's health challenges over the past two years became quite a cross to bear. Yet through it all, he always did his best to maintain a sense of humor and find joy. He enjoyed watching the Price is Right and Guy Fieri’s cooking shows. He loved Guy Fieri and even said he would write him a letter to thank him for helping Joe regain his appetite.

Joseph is survived by his two loving daughters, Christina Medrano of Wayne and Gabriella Scrozzo of East Hanover, their mother Janette Dubenezic, and two precious granddaughters, Mia and Ava. His younger brother Salvatore Scrozzo and wife Kathy of Wimauma, Florida, dear cousins: Joey Brigati, Sal Brigati and wife Kelly and Robert Brigati, wife Lori, his Uncle Domenico, niece Danielle Oliva, husband Jason, nephew Salvatore Scrozzo, wife Tiffany, and three great-nephews. He was predeceased by his loving parents Frank and Maddalena (Giaimo) Scrozzo and his Aunt Marianna Brigati.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph's name are asked to consider making a memorial gift to The American Cancer Society for Bone Metastases.

George De Angelo, 89, of Wayne, NJ passed away on Saturday, April 27th, 2024 at Morristown Memorial Hospital. He was the oldest of 6 children, survived by brothers Richard and Leonard De Angelo and sister Gloria DiLeone of Florida. He was preceded in death by his wife Miki De Angelo (Bennington) in 2010 and survived by his daughter Robyn De Angelo Maka, grandson Jordan Maka and granddaughter Alandra Maka. 

George was born in Passaic, moved to Nutley, but spent most of his childhood in Elmwood Park. He attended St. Leo’s Grammar School, Lodi High School, and spent some years at Rutgers Newark. In the early 1960’s, George settled down with his family in Wayne, NJ and lived there most of his life.

George was a charismatic go-getter and a self-made success. He fostered his passion for sales by building a career in the plastics industry and ultimately started his own company, Robyn Packaging, named after his only daughter. From 1983 to 2000, he channeled his love of country music into his very own restaurant Giorgio’s in Elmwood Park, even once visited by actor Harrison Ford. 

George had a presence that will forever be missed. He was the source of joy and laughter at his family dinner table and will always be the center of most family memories. He was sharp, witty and generous with his family and friends. He loved being near the water, country music, but most of all, spending time with his family. His bucket list had included a cross-country RV trip from Tennessee to Wyoming. His favorite singer was Garth Brooks and favorite song was “My Way” by Frank Sinatra – a song that incapsulates his life. 

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation.

George M Brew, Jr, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 25, 2024.

George was born in New York City to George and Mary Brew, who were originally from Ireland and England, respectively.  George lived for many years in the Bronx, NY.  As a young man, George enjoyed physical fitness.  In his teen years he won Gold and Silver medals boxing in New York City.

In 1951, George joined the United States Air Force.  He became a Technical Specialist, trained in radio and other technology.  George was awarded numerous medals, including the Good Conduct Medal, Korean Service Medal, National Defense Service Medal and United Nations Service Medal.  He was honorably discharged July 24, 1955, having attained the rank of Airman First Class.

After his military service, George worked as a Foreman for the New York City Department of Sanitation, from which he retired.  He then worked for the United States Postal Service, from which he also retired.

Later in life, George married the love of his life, Susan Handley.  George, Susan and Susan’s son, John McKeague, lived a happy family life in Red Bank, NJ, for many years.  George’s other little buddy was their dog, Oscar.  George was kind and generous.  He always had a unique sense of humor and many stories to tell.

George was one of eleven children and is survived by his two sisters, Ann McKiernan of Wayne and Elizabeth Schott of Wind Gap, PA, his stepson, John McKeague, his step-grandchildren, many nieces, nephews and their children.

Jill Carlile (nee Templeton), age 68, of Blairstown, NJ passed away peacefully on Monday, April 22, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Jill was born to David and Margaret Templeton and had two sisters Kathy and Patti.  She graduated from Hawthorne High School and went on to William Paterson University where she earned her bachelor's degree in teaching special education.  Jill started her lifelong career in 1978 at Blairstown Elementary School in Vail Preschool.  She worked for 40 years teaching special education and loved her job, colleagues, and students.

She married her husband John Carlile in 1978 and they built their home in Hope Township NJ.  They were blessed with two children, Jennifer and Kelly and two grandchildren Jonathan and Melody that were her world.   

Jill was the sweetest, most giving person.  She loved nothing more than spending time with her grandkids, daughters, family, and friends.  She loved making crafts with her granddaughter and keeping up on the sports her grandson loved.  Nothing made her happier than being together as a family.  She enjoyed her summers at the Lake House in Upper Greenwood Lake, NJ, stopping at farm stands to get her weekly vegetables, Broadway musicals, and going out with friends and family.

Jill is survived by her husband John Carlile; her two daughters: Jennifer Carlile of White Township, NJ and Kelly May and her husband Jason of Hope Township, NJ; her grandchildren: Jonathan Carlile and Melody May; her two sisters Kathy Templeton of Hawthorne, NJ and Patti Vance and her husband Mike of Conway, NH; as well as many loving nieces, nephews, and cousins.

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in mom's honor to her nephew’s go fund me page: Hope for Liam: Fighting Leukemia Together

John Edward Quinn, age 94, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Monday, April 22, 2024.

Lillian R. Freese, age 89, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away peacefully the morning of Sunday, April 21st, 2024.

Lillian was born in Passaic, the first – born of Joseph and Erma’s two children. Lillian and her younger brother Charlie were raised in Passaic where she attended Passaic High School. During her junior year of high school in History class she meets a young man, Kenneth Freese. Lillian and Ken immediately hit it off and used every excuse there was to spend time together. Eventually Ken asked Lillian out on their first date to the movies at the Capital Theater on Main Ave. No one can recall what movie they saw but from that day on their love for one another continued to grow and grow.

Following High School graduation Lillian and Ken continued to date. Eventually Ken enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps in 1954, he took just enough time to come home on leave so that he and Lillian could get married! They exchanged their vows on Sunday, November 14th, 1954, at Our Lady of Mount Carmel R.C. Church in Passaic with Father Savatini Vitalis officiating. After their one-night honeymoon in New York City, the newlyweds packed their cars and headed south to Cherry Point North Carolina where Ken was stationed.

In 1956 Lillian and Ken become the proud parents of a baby girl that they named Linda. Lillian, Ken, and Linda eventually moved back to New Jersey where they briefly lived in Passaic before moving to Wayne in 1959. In 1960, Lillian became a mother again to a baby boy naming him after her husband (Kenneth C). In 1965 they welcomed their third child – another baby boy they named Richard. Lillian and Ken raised all their children in that home in Wayne.

Lillian started her career working in banking in Pompton Lakes, New Jersey. Which led to a career as a tax collector. Starting in Wayne, and finishing her career in Oakland, New Jersey.

Lillian and Ken also enjoyed traveling all over the world (hitting all 50 states) with family and friends. She loved sharing all of the memories of her trips as well as making collage books marking every adventure they took.

Lillian and Ken eventually became snowbirds once they retired in 1995. They would spend September - November (always coming home for Holidays ) and January - May in Jupiter, Florida where they purchased a home. Lillian absolutely loved the friends she made there and spending time relaxing by the beach and pool!

Lillian will be remembered as spunky, a sharpshooter and always full of life. She loved every adventure life threw at her as well as the simple things (playing in her garden or relaxing on the beach) She loved her husband, children and grandchildren so very much! They brought her absolute joy. She loved her husband, children, grandchildren, family and friends.

Surviving are her daughter and two sons: Linda and husband Joseph Corrao of Wayne, Kenneth C. and wife Denise Freese of Secaucus, and Richard and his wife Elisa of Wayne; two adored grandchildren Lauren her husband Antonio Gadaleta and Joseph; and her beloved brother Charlie Riotto of Franklin Lakes, NJ and nieces and nephews.

Lieutenant Thomas Colella (Ret.) New Jersey State Trooper, age 57, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on April 20, 2024. 

Thomas was born to Joseph Colella and Giovanna (née De Franceso), as the youngest of three children; he is survived by older brothers Joseph Colella and Vincent Colella. Thomas grew up in Paterson, where he attended John F Kennedy High School, graduating in the senior class of 1984. Thomas went on to the New Jersey State Police Academy, and after graduating in the 104th class, he became a New Jersey State Trooper. 

In times of greatest need, Tom was recognized for his tireless effort, dedication, and service. As a member of the New Jersey State Police Metro North Unit, Tom played a crucial role in strategic crime prevention. His teamwork and dedication helped protect people's lives and ensure the safety of the community he served.

Tom dedicated 27 years of his life to his career in the New Jersey State Police. In the line of duty, Tom served with distinction, upholding the values of duty, honor, and service. Tom's commitment to excellence and unwavering dedication to his job will be remembered fondly by all those who had the privilege of knowing him.

Tom is survived by his wife Marilyn (née Lobosco) and their three children: Gianna Elsaesser and her husband Connor, Daniela Colella, and Thomas Colella. One of his greatest joys was his family. He never wavered in his commitment to providing for and supporting them. His sacrifices and efforts were a testament to his boundless love and strength of character. Tom cherished his family dearly and enjoyed spending time with them and his friends, whether it was in his backyard, fishing, or camping. He was known for his humor, storytelling, love of card games, and sharing cigars with his friends. Tom also had a passion for making homemade wine for loved ones. Through his strength and love, Tom etched unforgettable memories into our lives, reminding us of the preciousness of life. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

In lieu of flowers, please make a memorial donation to a charity of your choice in Tommy's memory.

With heavy hearts but profound gratitude for a beautiful soul, we celebrate the memory of our dearly beloved Eileen Anne Porcelli, age 64, who transitioned to a new chapter on Thursday, April 18th 2024, surrounded by her family at home in Wayne, New Jersey. Eileen Porcelli was a beacon of love and joy, touching the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know her. She departed this world, leaving behind an indelible mark of kindness, compassion, and warmth.

Born on October 10th, 1959, Eileen was the cherished daughter of Richard and Anne Kelly, as well as the younger sister of James Kelly and Peter Kelly. Raised in Livingston, New Jersey, she graduated from Hartford University with a Bachelor of English degree with the class of 1980.

During her 23-year career in Human Resources at Dial America, Eileen was known for her exceptional ability to connect with others. Her unwavering compassion and genuine concern for people made her a standout collaborator and friend. In every interaction, she demonstrated a remarkable sense of fairness, always striving to ensure that everyone's voice was heard and respected. Eileen possessed a rare balance of empathy and level-headedness. Whether faced with challenges or successes, she approached situations with a calm demeanor, providing a stabilizing force of grace to her workplace community.

Eileen was an incredibly talented artist, shining in all creative projects from decorating her home to floral arrangements, illustrations, and incredible cooking. She cared for many pets over the years, specifically her loyal companion, Scout, who never left her side. Always open-minded to learning new hobbies, she also took up golfing and fly-fishing with the 'Casting for Recovery' organization, which provides healing outdoor retreats for breast cancer survivors.

Eileen embraced life with an open heart, forging deep connections with her devoted husband Vito Porcelli, only daughter Dana Novello, and a vast circle of friends. Her genuine kindness and generosity touched the lives of many, making her beloved within all of her communities.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests contributions to Valley Hospice, reflecting Eileen's spirit of giving and compassion.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Linda Lima-DeVries, age 71, of Wayne NJ.  

Linda passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 17, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born in Paterson and was one of five children to Hendrick and Margaret DeVries.  Linda grew up in Lincoln Park and as a young girl attended Boonton High School where she graduated with the class of 1970. 

Following her high school graduation, Linda found employment quickly with the multinational retail company Woolworths, located at the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne, NJ.  Linda worked in an administrative position with Woolworths for more than ten years.

In the late 1970’s Linda and her sister Joyce met two young men who were brothers, Salvatore and Jack Lima.  As fate would have it, the two brothers married the two sisters, Joyce married Salvatore and Linda Married Jack Lima on November 16, 1980 at St Joseph’s church in Lincoln Park.  The newlyweds settled in Wayne where they resided for about nine years.  During their time living in Wayne, they welcomed the births of two of their children, their daughters Tammy and Jacqueline. As the years went by and the family grew, they moved to Little Falls, NJ where they welcomed the birth of their third daughter, Krystal.    

Linda and Jack embarked on a journey that initially seemed destined for eternity, their marriage blessed with the arrival of three beautiful daughters.  However, with heavy hearts, Linda and Jack made the painful decision to part ways.  Following their separation, Linda moved to Totowa where she lived for several years until moving to Sisco Village in Wayne, NJ five years ago.  While living in Sisco Village, Linda made wonderful friends and treasured playing poker with her circle of friends every Tuesday evening.  She was also a great fan of the slots and frequented the casinos in Atlantic City and Pennsylvania.

Linda enjoyed traveling throughout the years, her adventures taking her to destinations such as Hawaii, Disney, Colorado, Vermont, and exotic locations throughout the Caribbean by way of cruise ships. 

It was clear to those who knew Linda best, that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Aside from all her hobbies, interests, and talents, spending time with and providing for her children and grandchildren were the most important things in Linda’s life.   

Linda was a force to be reckoned with, a woman whose vibrant spirit illuminated every room she entered. With her sassy wit and magnetic charm, she effortlessly drew people into her inner circle.   Yet, beneath her confident exterior, there was a stubborn determination that fueled her ambitions and propelled her through life's challenges.  Linda's caring nature was admired by many in her selfless acts of generosity, always ready to lend a helping hand or offer a listening ear to those in need.

Linda was a lover of animals, particularly peacocks, and dolphins.  She also enjoyed earning a little extra income dog-sitting for friends and neighbors.  She was a wonderful cook and an even more accomplished baker.  She was famous throughout family and friends for her crumb cake, coffee cup cakes, and cream pies.

Linda was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Linda is survived her three daughters; Tammy Panzino and her husband Dave of Lincoln Park, NJ, Jacqueline Karydes and her husband Nick of Fairfield, NJ, and Krystal Whitmore and her husband Nick of Wayne, NJ, two sisters; Shirley Block of Totowa, NJ, Joyce Lima and her husband Salvatore of Lincoln Park, NJ, two brothers; Henry DeVries of Flagler Beach, FL, and Phillip DeVries of Oak Ridge, NJ, five grandchildren; Angelo Panzino, Damian Panzino, Mason Whitmore, Tyler Whitmore, and Nicholas Karydes, and another grandson on the way.  She also cherished her many nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents Hendrick and Margaret DeVries.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Linda's name may be made to  The American Heart Association

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph Catania, age 90, of Wayne and formerly of Fort Lee, NJ.

Joseph passed away peacefully on Monday April 15, 2024, while receiving the loving care of his family. Joseph was born in Englewood, NJ and was raised in Fort Lee. He was the oldest of three sons to Salvatore and Josephine Catania. As a young man he attended Fort Lee High School where he excelled in academics, particularly science and mathematics. Following his graduation from Fort Lee High School with the class of 1952, Joseph attended Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, NJ. 

After earning his Bachelor of Science degree in Chemistry in 1956, Joseph quickly found employment with the multinational chemical company DuPont in the state of Delaware. Joseph worked for DuPont for approximately three years, then accepted a position as a Chemist with American Cyanamid in Pearl River, NY. Joseph’s career with American Cyanamid spanned a period of over forty-one years until his retirement in 2001. During his career, Joseph was truly respected and loved by his colleagues and peers. 

Joseph, a young man with a fondness for adventure, accompanied his friend to a church dance one evening. Amidst the lively atmosphere, Joseph was captivated by a girl named Barbara Steiner. The two hit it off from the start. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 25, 1962, Joseph and Barbara exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife. The newlyweds honeymooned in the Poconos and settled in Fort Lee, NJ. The couple called Fort Lee their home for the next sixty years until moving to Wayne in 2021. While residing in Fort Lee, they welcomed the births of both their children, Paul and Rosemarie. 

Joseph always had an appetite for knowledge and found solace and inspiration in the pages of books that bridged the realms of science and spirituality. He was also an avid gardener, growing a variety of vegetables including tomatoes and zucchini. Joseph also treasured the challenging game of golf and was an extremely talented handyman, rewiring his entire home. In retirement, Joseph and Barbara enjoyed traveling. Their time traveling lead them to destinations throughout Europe, including a trip to his family’s homeland of Sicily. They also traveled to Bermuda, and the Mid-West United States visiting many National Parks.

Those who knew Joseph best, knew that aside from all his hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Joseph than providing for and spending time with his wife, children, and grandchildren. Joseph and Barbara cherished sixty-one years of loving and loyal marriage together. He was not only dedicated to his family, but also to his Christian faith. Joseph and his wife were members of the Wyckoff Assembly of God Church for many years. While members of the church, Joseph was an Elder and Treasurer, and was also a member of the Full Gospel Businessmen. 

Joseph, once a reserved and introspective individual in his youth, blossomed into a vibrant and outgoing personality as he matured through the years. Joseph took delight in teasing those he held dear, intertwining playful jokes and comments into the fabric of his relationships.

Joseph will be forever remembered as a loving husband, and a truly devoted father and grandfather. He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends. 

Joseph is survived by his wife Barbara Catania (nee Steiner) of Wayne, one son Paul Catania and his wife Carmel of Glen Rock, NJ, one daughter Rosemarie Kneis and her husband Ken of Wayne, NJ, one brother Salvatore Catania and his wife Marie of Fort Lee, NJ, four grandchildren; Ryan Catania of Glen Rock, NJ, Grace Catania of Glen Rock, NJ, Matthew Kneis of Wayne, NJ, and Amanda Kneis of Wayne, NJ, and three nieces; Jennifer Catania, Christine Catania, and Paulette Ulisse.  He was predeceased by his brother Emanuel Catania.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Joseph’s name can be made to Alzheimer's New Jersey, 425 Eagle Rock Ave, Suite 203, Roseland , NJ 07068 or American Cancer Society, PO Box 42040, Oklahoma City, OK 73123.

Antonietta Di Scola, age 93, of Fair Lawn, passed Monday, April 15, 2024. 

She was born in Montecorice, Italy to Emilio and Modestina Barca. In 1971 when she was forty-one years old the entire family moved from Italy to the United States settling first in Fair Lawn and living with family; then finding an apartment in Paterson. Their first home was at 161 Heights Avenue in Fair Lawn and Antonietta lived in Fair Lawn for the rest of her life.  For many years she was a seamstress at her brothers Ralph and Ugo’s coat factory called E&E Coat Factory in Paterson. 

Antonietta was an extraordinary woman, selfless and kind, with a great sense of humor and a nonjudgmental nature.  She had a way of making people happy and touched everyone she met in a special way that made them love her and adopt her as their own Nonna. Antonietta had a wonderful social life, she loved playing Scopa - the Italian card game, gardening, and cooking for her family every day. Her specialties were Nonna cookies, her special eggplant, lasagna, meatballs, homemade sausage, homemade pasta, homemade bread, and homemade tomato sauce.  You only had to stop by, and you would be greeted with a wonderful spread of homemade meals. Most days you would find her outside in her enormous garden, nurturing her plants she had grown from seeds.  One of her greatest joys was showing people her garden and sharing what she grew.  To say she was generous is a gross understatement, whether it was food, vegetables, or love, she never held back. Despite her busy schedule, Antonietta never complained and was tough beyond words.  Her presence brought joy to everyone around her, and she will be deeply missed.

Antonietta met her husband Antonio through family and friends.  They married in Italy in 1949 and had a marriage blessed with five children: Clorinda, the late Enrichetta (her baby that passed at six months old), Angelo, Modestina, and Emilio. 

Antonietta was the loving wife of 54 years to the late Antonio Di Scola (2003); devoted mother of Clorinda D’Alessandro and her husband Ray of North Haledon, the late Enrichetta Di Scola, Angelo Di Scola and his wife Anna of Toms River, Modestina “Tina” Anderson of Fair Lawn, Emilio Di Scola and his wife Alison of Montclair; she was the cherished grandmother of Gina, Angela (Bob), Jennifer (Mark), Anthony (Lumar), Megan, Katie, Nicholas (Lexi), Jack, and Matthew; she was the dearly loved great grandmother of Daniel, Jacob, and Anastasia; loved sister of Louis Barca and his wife Jane of North Carolina and the late Ralph Barca, the late Ugo Barca, the late Flora Chiariello, and the late Filomena LaCortiglia.  Antonietta will be dearly missed by many nieces, nephews, cousins, and the many who adopted her at their Nonna.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Childrens Research Hospital or National MS Society would be greatly appreciated.

John “Jack” Lombardi, Jr., age 91, passed away on Saturday, April 13, 2024. 

Born an only child to John and Camile Lombardi in Brooklyn, NY, Jack was raised in Jersey City where he attended Snyder Highschool. He played baseball, basketball and football before his graduation and subsequent enrollment at St. Peter’s College in Jersey City. After two years there, Jack was drafted into the US army during the time of the Korean Conflict. He was stationed overseas in Germany before returning to the United States at the completion of his service. Once home, Jack went back to college to complete his degree in Economics. He graduated with the class of 1958 just a year after his return from service cramming 2 years’ worth of class in during that busy period. 

While enrolled at St. Peter’s college, Jack made a trip to the Jersey Shore in Belmar that would change his life forever. That fateful day he met Gerry Mullins and the two instantly hit it off. They fell in love and could be recognized for their memorable Lindy Hop dance at the underground New Windsor Bar in Belmar. The couple married on April 23, 1960, before being blessed with two children: John A Lombardi III and Michael Lombardi.  

Jack’s professional career began immediately out of college. Holding various other jobs and work experience accumulated through high school and college, Jack found his calling as a salesman with the uncanny ability to market anything. He started his career with 3M doing sales work for them as the low man on the totem pole but worked his way up the corporate ladder to become the successful salesman his friends and family will remember him as today. 

Jack and Gerry’s passion for the world around them was best exemplified by their extensive list of world travels. The couple explored the world together making trips to the Galapagos Islands, Ecuador, Mexico, Russia, Jamaica, England, Ireland, Scotland, Wales, Belarus, France, Italy, Finland, Sweden, Denmark, Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Greece, Israel, Hungary, Holland, and many travels throughout the US! They also made regular trips to the Caribbean every winter to escape the cold. A famous family tradition of theirs was to collect a Christmas ornament from every country they visited so their Christmas tree is one that combines many different cultures and experiences from across the globe. 

Jack will be remembered as a fun, quick witted, and generous man who was endlessly supportive of his friends and family. He had a great sense of humor, was a man guided by his principles, and had an incredible entrepreneurial spirit that will be missed by all who knew him.

Jack is survived by his wife Gerry Lombardi and their two children: John A. Lombardi III and Michael R. Lombardi and his wife Jane Kasten

To the life of God’s Chosen Vessel, Beloved Husband & Father, Rema James Spencer, Pastor, Royal Family Ministries

In the tender embrace of cherished memories, we bid a glorious farewell to Rema, a soul of remarkable grace, who answered God’s roll call Saturday, April 13, 2024.

Rema James Spencer of Wayne, NJ was born on, September 20, 1961, in Georgetown Guyana to Lynette Spencer (nee Marshall) and the late James F. Spencer. He completed his childhood and high school education in Georgetown, Guyana. As a teen, he was employed in the Dispensary Department at Georgetown Hospital.

He went on to work as an insurance agent for several years.

Rema made a profession of his faith in Jesus Christ when he was 12 years old. As a young adult, He acknowledged and accepted his call to serve the Lord.

In 1984, he married Karen Spencer (nee Adams), his beloved wife. Shortly after, they embarked upon their first Missionary venture together in Barbados, WI. They later migrated to the USA to serve the Jesus Rescue Mission at the Market Street Mission, Morristown, NJ.

Rema furthered his education at the Biblical College of the Bible and Biblical Theological Seminary.

Rema joined Gilmore Memorial Church of God, Paterson, NJ. He ministered and served faithfully as a counselor to those in the inner- city for 11 years.

Rema joined Calvary Temple Church, Wayne NJ, where he served as an Associate Pastor and Counselor for 9 years. In this capacity, He founded the Life Guidance Center.

In 2007, Royal Family Ministries was birthed. As Pastor, Rema modeled servant leadership and unwavering devotion to RFM for the past 17 years.

After completing his Clinical Pastoral Education at Morristown Medical Center, Rema began working in the Pastoral Care Department at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital,  Paterson . As Chaplain, he provided spiritual guidance and support to all, especially the patients, families, and staff.

Rema served his community as Chaplain of the Wayne, NJ Fire Department. He was appointed this position by the Mayor’s Office,

10+ years ago.

Rema leaves behind a legacy of love and devotion, cherished by his beloved wife of 40 years Karen Spencer, his children Joshua Spencer, Jasmine Spencer, Jeremy Spencer, his mother Lynette Spencer, his siblings Wayne Spencer, Sonia Amanda Welch, Terry- Lynne Archer, Quebeson Nigel Spencer, Rachel Griffith, his mother

in-law Bridget DePeazer, his sister in-law Almaz Forsythe, and a host of loving family, friends and co-laborers in Christ.

Michele Marie Abrams Ruocco passed away on 4/13/2024 in Fairfield NJ at the age of 54 with the comfort of her family by her side. She was born on December 19, 1969 in Paterson NJ.

Michele was a Paralegal at the law offices of Barton Gilman and had pursued her higher education at Berkeley College of NJ after graduation from Passaic Valley Regional High School in 1987.

Michele was an amazing mother, daughter, and sister. She cherished spending time with all her life long friends and most of all loved being on a beach or traveling to Paris with her life partner.

Michele was always wearing a smile and went above and beyond for everyone and everything in all aspects of her life. She was a true warrior and never gave up no matter what she faced along this long journey she was unfortunately on.

She is survived by her father Richard Abrams, mother JoAnn Abrams, brother Michael Abrams, daughter Brittany Ruocco, son Brandon Ruocco, and life partner Ronan Daniel.

A fundraiser will be held in Michele’s name on that night. So please do not send any flowers or donate any money at this time.

Dean E. Laumbach, 82, of Pompton Plains, NJ, formerly of West Milford and Smyrna, Delaware, passed peacefully at home on April 11, 2024.

Dean was born in Holy Name Hospital in Teaneck to Harold Laumbach and Zella (Austin) Laumbach on November 3, 1941.  He was the youngest of 3.  The family resided in Rochelle Park.  Dean graduated Hackensack High School, received an Associates Degree from Seton Hall University, and a Bachelor of Science Degree from William Paterson College. Through the years he last lived in Elmwood Park, West Milford, Smyrna, Delaware and, Mount Arlington before moving to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains.

In 1961, while studying at Seton Hall Dean met Ann and they started dating in 1962.  They went on to marry in June 1965 at Queen of Peace church in North Arlington.  Dean and Ann had a lot of love to give.  They shared that love with 8 children, three daughters and five sons

During his lifetime, Dean devoted his life to justice.  Dean was a police officer with the Port of Authority of New York and New Jersey for 25 years and was promoted up through the ranks to the title of Captain/Commanding Officer of LaGuardia Airport and The World Trade Center before retiring in 1985.  After retiring from the Port Authority, he worked for GMSC overseeing the maintenance of the lighting and marble and metal for nine skyscrapers plus Rockefeller Center.  He helped found the GMSC in New York City and was Vice President there. Even after retirement, his passion for public safety continued.  He served as Director of Public Safety for William Paterson University in Wayne and on the Public Safety Committee for the Township of Smyrna, Delaware. He also volunteered his time with the Catholic church and was a fourth-degree member of the Knights of Columbus.

Dean was predeceased by his parents Harold and Zella, his siblings Harold and Vera Armona.  Dean is survived by wife Ann of 58 years, daughters Mary, Ann Marie Gualberto (Ralph) and Kathy Walton (Andy), sons Dean (Kerri), Dave (Sue), Keith (Lisa), John, and Joe (Emily).

He also leaves behind his 13 grandchildren Corey and Jason Perez, Laurance, Bryan, Jessica, Gianna, Andrew, Joey, and Jake Laumbach, Joey, Allie, and Tommy Walton, and Jonathan Gosnell. He is survived his sister-in law Theresa McGivney, brother-in-law Jack Armona and many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Dean’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Elizabeth (Bunny) Heberling, Age 82, a 30-year Wayne resident before moving to Dingmans Ferry, PA in 2020, died peacefully surrounded by her loving family. She and her late husband, Robert (Bob) moved to Stockholm, NJ in 1972 where they resided for 22 years raising their three girls.

Elizabeth was born on Easter Sunday, April 13, 1941. Her family nicknamed her Bunny which has remained with her throughout her life. Bunny had different jobs over the years from working as a bakery sales clerk; as a secretary and bookkeeper for her brothers’ business, J&J Pumps; and most importantly, as a homemaker, mother, and grandmother. She especially enjoyed the days when her grandchildren were young, and she drove them and other neighborhood children to and from school. She became known as the “candy lady” for handing out sweets and snacks. She was also known for her Easter Egg Hunts that she held for the neighborhood kids. A lot of work went into this event including stuffing hundreds of eggs, a life-size Easter Bunny costume, and making enough Easter baskets to ensure every child received one. The hunts were a big hit with the kids as well as their parents. Everyone had a fun time.

Bunny was very active in her church community and enjoyed volunteering for various church events at St. John Vianney’s in Stockholm and Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Wayne. Organizing church picnics, Christmas craft sales, and bingo nights kept her busy. She missed seeing her friends at ABVM after moving to Pennsylvania.

Bunny was an extremely generous and thoughtful person. She was very mindful of others’ needs even when she was going through a rough patch herself. Aside from her love for God, her love of family was beyond all measure. She may have disagreed with or criticized a family member’s actions, but you did not dare! She was like a mother bear protecting her cubs when it came to her family. She felt blessed to have each one of them as part of her life. We definitely were blessed to have had her in our lives. She truly will be missed.

Bunny is predeceased by her beloved husband of fifty-five years, Robert (Bob); her precious daughter, Mary Whitehead; her parents, James and Eileen McGrogan; Stepfather Claude Merino; her sister, Eileen (William) Massaro; her brothers, James and William (Bonnie) McGrogan; her nephew, Anthony Aguanno; her in-laws, Joseph and Sophie Heberling.

Bunny is survived by her daughter Theresa and her husband David Martin of Dingmans Ferry, PA; her daughter Denise and her husband William Kane of Whitehouse Station, NJ; five grandchildren Sean, Ryan, Michael, Kayleigh and Brianna; two sisters, Sheila Lothian of Inverness, FL and Mary (Phil) Aguanno of Vernon, NJ; her brother, John McGrogan of Oak Ridge, NJ; her sister-in-law and best friend, Anna May (James) McGrogan of Wayne, NJ; and two brothers-in-law, Donald Heberling of Eatontown, NJ and Richard Heberling of Mooresville, NC and many nieces and nephews.  She also leaves behind her cat Baby Bobbie, and four grand-pups, Charlie, Alvie, Bella, and Elvis who will miss all the treats she gave.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Bunny’s memory can be made to: Karen Ann Quinlan Memorial Foundation, 99 Sparta Avenue, Newton, NJ 07860  karenannquinlanhospice.org

Doris Clark, age 94, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 10, 2024.

Doris was born in Paterson, the youngest of William and Ella(Storms) Hart’s eight children. Following graduation from high school, Doris first worked for Public Service Electric and Gas (PSE&G) in the typing pool. She eventually settled into a job as a secretary in the accounting department for Singer Kearfott in West Paterson (known today as Woodland Park). 

Following retirement from Kearfott, Doris volunteered for over twenty years at Chilton Memorial Hospital in Pequannock in the hospital’s gift shop. 

Doris found love with a gentleman named Ralph Clark, Jr. whom she had known and worked with for many years at Singer Kearfott. After a wonderful and romantic courtship, they were married in November of 1981 in Wyckoff, NJ at Grace United Methodist Church. After honeymooning in Nassau in the Bahamas, they lived in Pequannock and cherished thirty-six years of loyal and loving marriage until Ralph’s passing in 2017. They enjoyed traveling together with one of their greatest highlights being a special and memorable trip to Europe. 

In her spare time, besides traveling with Ralph, Doris enjoyed working in her garden, going for walks with her dog Cindy, and feeding and watching the birds. She always had a pair a binoculars handy so that she could get a closer look at her feathered friends. During the Beanie Babies craze, she had lots of fun adding them to her collection and letting her granddaughters play with them when they visited. She and Ralph loved going down the shore, especially to Belmar and Spring Lake and they had the greatest fun taking their grandchildren on day trip adventures to various places of interest.  

In 2017, Doris moved to Cedar Crest Village. She enjoyed the friends she made and all the many activities that were offered. She especially liked to play cards and, when she recently moved into Cedar Crest’s Mountain View Gardens for assisted living, she was a frequent bingo champion.  

Doris was the loving wife of Ralph A. Clark, blessed in marriage until his passing in 2017. She was also predeceased by all of her siblings including Elva Non, Gladys Decker, William Hart, Ruth Hart, Dorothy Hart, Murial Motzer, and Robert Hart. She was the loving aunt of Sandy, Jackie, Kerry, Bob, Bradley, Bill, Lois, Bob, and the late Ralph and late Bev; dear great-aunt of numerous nieces and nephews; dear stepmother of Corrine Vara and husband Anthony, and the late Elaine Trama and her husband Joel; adored grandmother of: Marc, Jocelyn and wife Christine, Julie and husband Ryan, Jared, and Anthony and companion Claire; and cherished great-grandmother of Thea Margaret. 

Because of her great love for animals, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Doris’ name are asked to consider:

NJ Humane Society

6412 Dewey Ave.

West New York, New Jersey 07093

After making your donation online, the NJ Humane Society asks that you email them at njhswny@gmail.com to let them know that you made the donation in memory of Doris Clark.

Mitchell Lee Kaiser, age 90, of Ringwood, Nj, died at his home of 51 years on Wednesday, April 10, 2024.

Mitch was born to Martin and Mildred Kaiser in 1934 and spent his younger years with his grandmother, Bertha “Birdie”Lippmann. Mitch graduated from Forest Hills High School in Queens, New York, where he was a star baseball player. He continued his education at the City College of New York where he was Grand Regent of the Phi Alpha fraternity and graduated in 1957 with a Bachelor of Business Degree. His summers were spent working at the Sands beach club on Long Island.

Mitch spent a lifelong career in the furniture business, most memorably with Gimbels, Korvette's, Diamond Brothers, and retiring at Seaman’s.  His work took him all over Pennsylvania, Virginia, New York and New Jersey.   

Mitch loved sports of any kind. In his young adult life, he was in numerous leagues and won many trophies for tennis and bowling. When he retired from Seaman’s, he dedicated all his free time to golf and enjoyed spending time with friends on the northern New Jersey golf courses. In the evenings, he loved a great board game or a good hockey game on TV or on the radio, although he never passed up watching a football or baseball game. And while a lover of sports, Mitch also enjoyed music and never stopped listening to Frank Sinatra, but all music was welcome.

Mitch was dedicated to his daughter, Lori, and spent many weekends bowling, playing miniature golf and joining her on any roller coaster they could find. He is survived by his daughter, Lori Kaiser, and his niece and nephew, Tracey Randall and Marty Kaiser.

In Celebration of the Life of Joyce Steible

Joyce Steible, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on April 9, 2024. She was a woman of boundless love, known for her passion for music, dancing, and bringing people together. 

Joyce was raised in Weehawken and worked as a secretary for the Home Insurance Company on Maiden Lane in NY. She and her husband, John Steible, of 70 years moved to Lincoln Park in 1955 where they lived and raised their three children - Susan Tessier, John Steible and Janice Fisher. Joyce and John were charter members of St. Timothy Lutheran Church where Joyce taught Sunday School for many years. Joyce was a Homemaker and continued her work life as an office manager for Sears Roebuck. 

Joyce's life was dedicated to her family, church and brightening other people's days. Her joyous spirit and love for music touched all who knew her. Her unique ability to connect with others was a special gift. She will be forever cherished by her seven grandchildren - Matthew, Thomas, Ethan, Robert, Kristen, Lindsey and Emily as well as her five great grandchildren - Grayson, Jackson, Logan, Tate & Serena. 

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Charcot-Marie-Tooth Association - a disease that Joyce lived with her whole life and never let slow her down. 

Daniel F. D’Aloia, age 85, of Wayne, passed Tuesday, April 9, 2024 with the comfort of his family by his side.

Dan was born in Passaic County to Paul and Anna D’Aloia and resided in Nutley NJ growing up.  He graduated from Nutley High School in 1956 and went on to get a Bachelor of Science degree in Business at Fairleigh Dickinson University.  He landed his first job out of college at Prudential Life Insurance but spent much of his career as a General Sales Manager at Bell Atlantic in Newark NJ.  

Dan served in the United States Army Reserves from 1961 to 1967 during the Vietnam war.  He met the love of his life Gail Sylvester at the beach in Point Pleasant NJ in the summer of 1963.  They married in 1968, settling down as a married couple in Nutley NJ, and started their family a few years later when little Danny was born in 1971.  Wanting to grow their family, they purchased their first house in Wayne NJ which would end up being their forever home.  They welcomed Danielle and Darren soon after but the family grew even further when Dan and Gail took Nikki and Kristen Kalooky under their wings.  Dan’s family wasn’t complete until loving daughter-in-law Carina joined the family and brought Ava and Thomas into the world making him a proud grandpa.

Dan was a fun-loving soul with the brightest smile who brought joy and laughter to all who knew him.  Dan had a passion for fig trees, jigsaw puzzles, crossword puzzles, pepsi cola and sports of which he was often found talking to friends and family about.  But more than anything, he loved his cars, especially his Jaguar XKE.  He loved spending time on the deck at his shore house with family and friends, and loved going out for a ride on his boat where you could hear his music blasting through the lagoon.  A lover of animals, Dan always had food ready to welcome and feed a walking neighborhood dog, a stray cat or a family of deer.  He also had a talent for music and singing, celebrating joyous milestones in others' lives with a personalized song accompanied by his guitar.  Dan loved to travel and went on the trip of a lifetime to Italy where he visited the town of Bovino Italy to see where his father grew up.  But he was just as happy at home watching his favorite TV shows including Happy Days, Seinfeld, Everybody Loves Raymond, Two and A Half Men and Family Feud.

He was dedicated to maintaining and fostering relationships. He remained close with his childhood best friend as well as all the best friends he made along the way.  Dan looked forward to his annual trips to Sanibel Island, as well as attending his high school reunion every year.  Dan's love knew no bounds and welcomed everyone he met, making them feel like part of the family.  He went above and beyond to care for others in need.  Dan made sure to stay connected with phone calls and visits always ensuring that loved ones felt his presence in their lives.

He had a way of keeping memories alive through his storytelling, ensuring that the legacies of those who had passed continue to live on today.  Dan will be deeply missed by all who knew him. His kindness, love, laughter and zest for life will forever be remembered and cherished by those whose lives he touched. May he rest in peace, knowing that his legacy of love and compassion lives on in the hearts of all who knew him.

Daniel is survived by his wife Gail of Wayne, their three children; Dan and his wife Carina; Danielle; Darren and his partner Abigail Zagariello;  his two grandchildren; Ava Grace and Thomas James; his two beloved ‘bonus’ children; Nicole Stegen and her husband Brian; Kristen Kalooky and her partner Tom Walsh; his sister; Lucille Tabasso; his brother; Carmine D’Aloia and his partner Debbie Bellucci; his brother-in-law; George Sages; and a large, extended very close family of beloved sister-in-laws, brother-in-laws, nieces, nephews, and dear friends. Daniel was predeceased by his sister; Margie Sages and his brother-in-law Sal Tabasso.

 In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Judes or FOWA Rescue (Friends of Wayne Animals) would greatly be appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Timothy David Nagle, age 78, of Wayne, NJ.

Timothy passed away peacefully on Monday, April 8, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family. 

Timothy was born in Winthrop, MA and was the only child to Timothy and Mary Ruth Nagle.  Timothy’s father was a US Veteran and passed away when Tim was only nine months old.  Following the passing of his father, Tim and his mother lived in East Boston until he was seven years old, then moved to Paterson, NJ.  While residing in Paterson, Tim attended DePaul High School where he was active in sports and was a star player for the Varsity Basketball Team. 

Tim graduated from DePaul High School with the class of 1963, then enrolled at Marist College in Poughkeepsie, NY where he studied English and Literature.  A diligent and determined individual, Tim embarked on his professional journey armed with an English degree upon graduating from college. Initially, he ventured into the corporate world, spending a short stint working for an insurance company. However, his true calling was found in the world of education. Driven by a desire to inspire others, Tim transitioned into the role of an English teacher. With his natural charisma and dedication, he quickly became a beloved figure in the classroom.  He accepted a position at Pope Paul VI High School in Clifton, NJ as an English Literature teacher.  While a teacher a Pope Paul VI, he was also the assistant Basketball Coach. 

Tim eventually left Pope Paul VI and accepted a position as an English Literature teacher at Pompton Lakes High School.  Tim’s career at Pompton Lakes High School spanned a period of over twenty-five years.  During that time, Tim was head coach for the school’s Varsity Basketball Team.  As head coach, Tim led the team to a state championship in 1973.  Tim was truly loved by his students, colleagues and his peers.  He was awarded the “Governor’s Teacher Recognition Award 1990-91” by the state of New Jersey.  Also, during his career in Pompton Lakes, he was Vice Principal and head of the English Department. He was an active member of the New Jersey Principals and Supervisors Association.

Following Tim's retirement, his journey led him to William Paterson College, where he not only pursued his passion for English but also forged a meaningful connection with the institution. Working as a part-time professor, he found a platform to share his knowledge and enthusiasm for literature with eager young minds and pursue a Master's degree in English from the very institution where he taught. This dual role allowed him to seamlessly blend his academic pursuits with his professional responsibilities, enriching both his students learning experiences and his own education. Through his dedication and commitment to his craft, Tim became an integral part of the William Paterson community where he also observed, monitored, and mentored student teachers. 

In 1961 while a student at DePaul High School, Tim met the love of his life, Dolores Salvini.  The two started dating and quickly became high school sweethearts.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on September 9, 1967 they exchanged vows and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in West Paterson (now known as Woodland Park) where they welcomed the births of both their children Scott and Dawn.  The family also lived in Haskell and Bloomingdale until moving to Wayne in 1986 where they have been ever since. 

Tim was a true sports fan and was dedicated to his hometown Boston sports teams, the Boston Celtics, Red Sox, Patriots, and loved college basketball and especially March Madness.  He enjoyed gardening, particularly rose bushes, and tomato plants.  He was an avid reader and treasured watching British television programming.  Those who knew Tim best, knew that aside from all his talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Tim than providing for and spending time with his wife, children, and especially his grandchildren. Tim and Dolores cherished 57 years of loving and loyal marriage.  Tim was not only devoted to his family, but also to his Catholic Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin May RC Church in Wayne for many years. 

Tim was a man with a heart of gold and would help anyone, be it friend or family, who needed something.  He had a wonderfully sarcastic sense of humor, or what Tim would describe as “British Wit.”  Tim loved talking with anyone about anything and had the ability to tell a story and captivate an audience of any age. 

Tim will be forever remembered as a truly loved and dedicated school teacher, coach, and a devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Tim is survived by his wife Dolores (nee Salvini) of Wayne, NJ his son Scott David Nagle of Wayne, NJ, his daughter Dawn Goldberg and her husband Jason of Pompton Plains, NJ, and four grandchildren: Jake Goldberg of Pompton Plains, Aaron Goldberg of Pompton Plains, and Kyle and Lucas Nagle of Wayne and Lincoln Park, NJ.  He was predeceased by his mother Mary Ruth Nagle.

Barbara E. Biroc, age 82, of Wayne, passed Monday, April 8, 2024.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated. 

C. Walter Stelzenmueller, age 89, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday morning, April 8, 2024.

Born Carl Walter Stelzenmueller, he was known to all as Walt Stelzenmueller. Walt was the first born of German immigrants Carl H. and Paula (Wurley) Stelzenmueller.

Walt's early years were spent growing up in the Bronx, NY. During high school, his family moved to Fair Lawn, NJ and Walt graduated from Fair Lawn High School with the Class of 1951.

After high school, Walt entered the workforce starting in the library at the Paterson News newspaper publication. Eventually he took advantage of a two-fold opportunity – joining the union and becoming a driver. His duties involved dropping off bundles of daily newspapers to local stores and to a small army of boys and girls whose job was to deliver the newspapers to their customers on their paper routes. Walt’s territory included much of the lower half of Wayne spanning also into Pequannock, Towaco and Lincoln Park. In the 1980’s there was a union lockout at the Paterson News. This prompted Walt to pick up shifts on Saturdays at the New York Daily News and New York Times and eventually lead to full-time work at the New York Times in New York City where he soon was promoted to Foreman. Walt remained in this position until retirement in 1997. His entire career, which spanned 46 years was in the newspaper business.

Early in his career, while working at the Paterson News, Walt had the pleasure of meeting an editor at the newspaper named Elaine Possien. They went on a few dates, liked what they saw in each other and eventually fell in love. That love led to marriage with the wedding ceremony taking place on Saturday, April 21 at the Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne. After enjoying a honeymoon in Virginia Beach, Virginia, they started life as husband and wife in an apartment in Paterson. After a year Walt and Elaine purchased a home with Walt’s parents and sister Emilie in Wayne. There they enjoyed many happy memories raising their three children.  They remained there until 2001 when they moved one more time to the Packanack section of Wayne.

Walt was certainly never a guy who suffered from boredom. He was always on the go and up to something. In high school he embraced the thrill of victory and accepted the occasional agony of defeat participating in gymnastics. As a grown man he turned his attention to bowling. He competed with and against his coworkers in the industrial league at T-Bowl in Wayne where he one time even bowled a perfect 300. Walt also loved to go fishing. For many years he’d get together with his father and father-in-law and go freshwater fishing in any of the waters that made up the Newark Watershed. Salt- water fishing was primarily done while vacationing with his family every summer on Assateague Island in Maryland. The campground where they stayed would hold weekly fishing tournaments and one year Walt emerged as the winner when he landed a four-pound blue fish. When he proudly announced this accomplishment to one of his buddies, unimpressed, the guy just laughed at him and told him he’d take him real fishing. He took Walt out on his boat in the Long Island Sound. The first time Walt dropped his line in, he caught a fifteen-pound blue fish! Walt liked that a lot and the two of them fished weekly for many years, after a couple of years Kurt joined the ‘fishing team’ and spent many fun Mondays fishing with Dad & Sonny in the Long Island Sound. Walt inherited a wonderful gift from his father who was a master carpenter. Walt’s father made beautiful wood carvings and passed on the skill to his son. Walt loved spending time in his shop making various wood furniture pieces. One year he also made a beautiful Christmas nativity scene and, being the New York Giants and New York Mets fan that he was, he made Mr. Met figurines out of wood. In fact, they were so popular that he made several of them for family. One of Walt’s other hobbies was photography. He always kept a camera in the glovebox of his car, so it was always ready to capture a special moment. Besides photos, Walt enjoyed videotaping. Consequently, he left his kids a treasure trove of film chronicling their childhoods. 

A longtime member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne and later at First Reformed Church in Pompton Plains, Walt enjoyed the early service which started 8:30 AM at First Reformed Church. He loved the outdoor services in the summer and attending the senior teas. After the height of the covid era, it became increasingly difficult for Walt to attend services in person so he was very grateful that he could watch the services from home. His last service was as recent as this past Easter. Now he is with the Lord whose resurrection he had the privilege of just celebrating.

Walt’s greatest pride and joy was his family. Family vacations and trips with his children were frequently designed to be as educational as they were fun. Day trips with his grandchildren were great times for bonding. Walt and Elaine would have so much fun taking them to various destinations up north in High Point State Park, down south to Sandy Hook, and to all the local zoos in-between. They enjoyed many a winter picnics shivering or having a car picnic, if it was too cold. When Walt and Elaine purchased a permanent camping trailer and a pontoon boat at a campground in Delaware, the whole family would come down to spend a few days or vacation there and go for boat rides or to the beach. That boat ultimately ended up on Greenwood Lake in New York and New Jersey. With the boat closer to home, the grandchildren would come up for the day and have a blast with “Pop” on his boat. When home, Walt loved spending time in his swimming pool and loved it when the family stopped by for a dip. He loved game nights and his favorite game to play was BalderDash. Walt also coached his daughters in the Wayne P.A.L. girls’ softball league. Their team was called The Flamingos.

Walt was a real character. He had a really sharp wit and had a knack for changing the words of a well-known song to something truly funny to fit a given situation. A bit of a flirt he’d talk to anyone that would listen. He had a great voice, and his family will always have fond memories of him singing Sinatra or show tunes in the car. He also sang a couple of years in the church choir. This was especially fun because he got to do this with his wife Elaine and his two daughters Lisa and Lori.

Walt was the beloved husband of Elaine (Possien) Stelzenmueller, blessed in marriage for 64 years until Elaine’s passing in 2021. He was the loving father of Lisa Mackey and husband Darren of Wayne, Lori Osborne of Wayne, and Kurt Stelzenmueller and wife Lori of Fayson Lakes; cherished grandfather of: Ryan Mackey, Trevor Mackey and wife Nicole, David Mackey, Devon Mackey and fiancé Bianca Scheer, Emilee Osborne and fiance’ Nick Knight, Korina Stelzenmueller, and Kylee Stelzenmueller; adoring great-grandfather of Sterling Mackey; dear brother of the late Emilie Peer and her late husband Frank; and dear uncle to 3 surviving nieces and 2 nephews.

As an expression of sympathy in Walt’s name, memorial contributions to First Reformed Church, 529 Newark Pompton Turnpike, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444  would be greatly appreciated.  

David Henry Smith III, age 93 of Paterson, died on Sunday, April 7, 2024. David was a life-long Patersonian, having resided in the Hillcrest section for nearly his entire life.

He was born on December 9,1930 to David H Smith Jr. and Catherine (nee Prall) Smith in Paterson N.J.

He grew up on Redwood Ave. in a home built by his paternal Grandfather. As a boy the house was filled with extended family because of the depression. His father, always working, supported these family members through the hard times. Dave enjoyed working with horses at a local stable, but couldn’t enter the house until he changed clothes and cleaned up.

Dave attended Paterson Public Schools, graduating from Central High School. He also was a member of Union Avenue Baptist Church, where he met Ada Hausleben, who he would eventually marry and share a life for 72 years.

In 1951 Dave entered the United States Marine Corps, enduring basic training at Parris Island, S.C. After basic training, he was assigned to Cook and Bakers School, and upon completion was assigned to Camp Lejeune, spending the remainder of his time there. While serving in the Corps, he celebrated the birth of a son David P. Smith in 1952. Serving as a Marine would be a source of great pride for his life, often remarking “Once a Marine, always a Marine!!”

Upon discharge Dave went to work for the A&P Tea Co., where he would serve as a store assistant manager. After receiving a business degree from Rutgers University, Dave would be promoted to the Personnel Department. and then to the Purchasing Department in the Paterson Division. He later moved to Corporate Purchasing, where he would complete 45 years until retiring.

Dave and Ada had many great friends, and would enjoy time at the lake, traveling throughout Europe, the Middle East, and the U.S. They loved spending time with family, especially their three grandchildren and great grandchild.

Dave and Ada joined Preakness Baptist Church (PBC), where he would sing in the choir and occasionally sing solos. He was very active at PBC and loved his Church family. One of Dave’s loves was country music, often to the chagrin of his loved ones. Dave and his son attended many sporting events together, especially enjoying their time at NY Ranger games, often sitting in the “celebrity section” meeting many NY glitterati.

Dave enjoyed a full life filled with loving family and friends. He was a man of faith and is now embraced in the loving arms of Jesus Christ.

Ivy Alta, age 48, beloved mother, daughter, and loving soul, passed away on Saturday, April 6, 2024.

One of seven children born to Teodorico and Rufina Mana-ay, Ivy’s early life began in the Philippines with the tragic passing of her mother Rufina at birth. With seven children to raise on his own, much of Ivy’s strength and character came from the incredible resilience her father Teodorico showed raising his family. 

When Ivy turned 18, she and her family had the opportunity to move to the United States due to her dad’s service as a Philippine Scout during World War II. All veterans of World War II were privileged to be US citizens after their service, so Teodorico took his family in search of the American dream. Teodorico was a man of prayer who always put his children before himself. He worked hard to give them every opportunity to succeed in America and Ivy appreciated and took advantage of that. 

When she first came to America, she worked nights and studied at Passaic County Community College during the day to advance her career as a nurse. She worked at the Oakland Care Center where she eventually became a certified nursing assistant through her hard work and determination. During this time, a friend of hers introduced her to a mutual friend Wilfredo Alta and the two quickly fell in love. They started a family together and were blessed with two children: Kathlyn and Kyle. 

Ivy will be remembered for her love of gardening and her obsession with Chinese and Korean Dramas. She also loved the Korean boyband BTS and any movies or shows that featured Wang Yibo. She loved Wang Yibo so much, she used to drive her kids to a movie theater an hour away in New York as that was the closest place playing his movies! Most of all, Ivy loved spending time with her family. They regularly enjoyed big barbecue’s while listening to her favorite original pinoy music. Ivy was well-known for her beautiful singing and love of karaoke. Ivy’s family and friends will miss her selfless, caring, hardworking and fun nature. 

Ivy is survived by her children Kyle and Kathlyn Alta; and her siblings: Dennie Suresca and family, Eden Sinaon and family, Gertrude Mana-ay, Lorenzo Mana-ay and family, Gemma Mana-ay, and Arnulfo Mana-ay and family. 

William Eng, age 69, of Wayne, NJ, passed away Saturday, March 30, 2024. He was known as Bill among family and friends.

Bill was born to Leon and Sui Yen Eng on April 4th, 1954 in Paterson, NJ.  Leon and Sui Yen raised Bill, along with his two sisters and two brothers, in Paterson and Wayne.  He attended and graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1971.  He continued his education at Rutgers in Newark, where he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Accounting with the Class of 1975. Bill also received his Certified Public Accounting license.

After graduating from Rutgers, Bill began his accounting career at Price Waterhouse. He then went on to work for Hoffman La-Roche.  Bill spent the majority of his career as an accountant at Becton Dickenson, where he worked for 26 years. He retired at the age of 51 due to health issues.

Bill was a loving father, husband, and friend.  Bill met his wife Sharon when they were both guests at their friend’s wedding, she caught the bouquet and he caught the garter.  They went on to get married in 1982 and had two children, Eric and Jen.  

Many of his hobbies involved spending time with friends and family where he would often make others laugh by his sense of humor.  Bill and Sharon could often be seen cheering in the stands of their children’s sporting events as they were growing up. They would even travel from town to town and overnight for tournaments, making fun family trips.  Bowling was one of Bill’s favorite pastimes. He loved bowling with his friends - many know that he was in a weekly bowling league with the same group for 30 years. He also enjoyed big group trips. Throughout the years, Bill organized many annual ski trips to Vermont and Las Vegas with family and friends. Everyone could always count on him for a friendly game of poker whether he was hosting or joining a game at a friend's place, and continued to play different card games into his later years.

Bill is survived by his beloved wife, Sharon, his daughter, Jennifer, son, Eric, daughter in law, Meg, and grandson Bryce. He is also survived by his mother Sui Yen, 2 sisters, Emily and Marie, 2 brothers, David and Gordon, and 4 nephews, Christopher, Bryan, Nathan, and Matthew.

Kathleen M. Sheridan, aged 81, of Toms River, NJ, and formerly of Wayne, NJ, and Norwalk, CT, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 29, 2024, surrounded by her loving and devoted children.

Kathleen, known to all as "Bonni," was one of four children born to Edward and Marie Pfrang. She had a happy childhood in Jersey City, where she excelled as a student, artist, and baton twirler. While growing up on Columbia Avenue and beyond, she especially cherished her close relationships with her extended family members, including many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.

After completing her education at St. Michael's High School, Bonni married her late husband Marty on October 3, 1964, at St. Paul's Church in Princeton, NJ. They had met in high school and had a happy and fulfilling married life for fifty-eight years. After spending some years in Wallington, NJ, they moved to Wayne, NJ, where they raised their three children and established life-long friendships with their neighbors. Bonni and Marty always loved hosting and sharing their home for gatherings with extended family and their many friends. When not managing the household and children, Bonni enjoyed dancing, playing volleyball, decorating, and a part-time career hanging wallpaper with her dear friend, Kathy. She loved spending time with her grandchildren, attending school events, theater and dance performances, sewing costumes for them, and more. Bonni was also an avid conversationalist and storyteller who was always willing to share her knowledge on various topics. She enjoyed learning new things, reading, puzzles, spending time at the Jersey Shore and on the Magothy River in Maryland, garage-saling with friends, and was a formidable opponent when watching Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune together with others. She was a wise and wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend and will be missed and loved forever by all who knew her.

Bonni was predeceased by her loving husband, Marty, her brother, Edward, and her parents, Marie and Edward. She is survived by her son, Marty Sheridan, and his wife, Robin; her daughters, Sue Corb and her husband, Kevin; Kara Keene and her husband, Ben; and her grandchildren, Sam, Jake, Emma, Madeline, Shannon, and David, whom she loved all so very much. She is also survived by her dear sister and best friend, Patricia (Pfrang) Heckel, whom she loved so dearly, and brother, Louis Pfrang, whom she admired greatly for his musical talents, and sister-in-law, Sandy Tracy, and her many nieces and nephews and other extended family that she spoke of often and deeply cherished her time with tremendously.

For those willing to donate in Bonni's memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Mary Cummings, age 88, died on Thursday, March 28, 2024.  She was living at Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, and previously resided on Mayflower Avenue in the Bronx, NY for nearly 70 years.  

Mary was born on October 24, 1935 to Patrick and Margaret (nee Joyce) Cummings.  Six weeks after she was born, Mary’s mother Margaret passed away leaving Patrick a single father of two daughters under the age of 14 months.  With the help of Margaret’s sister Bea and her sister-in-law Celia, Patrick raised his daughters on West 90th Street in Manhattan.  Tragedy struck the girls again when their father died in January of 1952.  They moved from Manhattan to Mayflower Avenue in the Bronx with their Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie.  At the time she moved to the Bronx, Mary was attending Cathedral High School on Lexington and 50th in Manhattan.  Mary continued to commute via trains and buses to Manhattan for the rest of her high school years graduating in June of 1953.  

After graduating, Mary went into nursing earning her RN from Fordham Hospital.  After she earned her nursing degree, she took a job with the City of New York Health Department.  Her original intention was to stay for only two years.  Two years turned into more than 40.  Mary continued with her education and went to night school at Hunter College earning her Bachelor of Science in June of 1963.   In 1972, New York Hospital/Cornell University in conjunction with the New York City Department of Health started a Pediatric Nurse Practitioner program – the first in New York City.  Of course, Mary applied and was accepted into the initial class of 15 nurses in the program.  Mary was still not done with her learning.  She eventually enrolled in Long Island University where she earned her Masters in Community Health/Health Management.  

In Mary’s 40+ year career with the New York City Department of Health she held many different roles with increasing responsibilities.  All of them were to help the children and mothers in the Bronx.   Just the week of her passing, she was telling the nurses at the hospital that she only planned on staying in public health for two years but instead never left because she loved it.  The smile on her face was evidence to that.  Of course, that smile was always on her face.   Through all the challenges she had over the last couple of months, she faced them with the same smile.  

Traveling was something that Mary enjoyed tremendously and did frequently.   Her first trip was to Ireland in 1958.  Mary and her sister went to visit their extended family and spent six weeks visiting their parents’ family.    Whether it was a road trip to visit cousins around the country, vacationing with Buddy, Kay and their kids at Shawnee every year, multiple cruises with her good friend Marie, trips to Hawaii (although she still owes Mary and Ricky their graduation trip), the Dominican Republic, or her most recent trip in 2023 to the Outer Banks, she never stopped travelling.  And of course, there were many trips to the casino.  She loved her slot machines!  

Family was the most important thing to Mary.  While she never had children of her own, she treated her sister Kay’s children like her own.  When the kids were younger, Mary would drive out to Wayne once a week to babysit Michael, Mary Geralyn and Ricky so that Buddy and Kay could have a date night.  There were the sleepovers in the Bronx with the pizza bagel bites, the spoon straws, and of course the cream donuts from the local bakery.  Her family also included many cousins that she always kept in touch with.  Mary was the great communicator and kept everyone up to date on the other families.   She was also host to the Christmas parties in the Bronx.  Looking back, it is amazing how many family members she could get into 1270 Mayflower at one time.  And of course, it wasn’t a Christmas party until the fuse blew in the basement.  These family memories are filled with tons of laughter. 

Faith was an important part of Mary’s life.  She was baptized, received her First Communion and was Confirmed at St. Gregory the Great Church on West 90th in Manhattan where her Father was the Sexton  (rumor had it that her father had to stand in as best man for Babe Ruth at his wedding at St. Gregory’s Rector in 1928 because Babe’s chosen Best Man was not Catholic)  When she moved to the Bronx,  St. Benedicts became her Church for the next 70 years.   When she moved to Pompton Plains, she continued to practice her faith at the Chapel in Cedar Crest as well as OLV and St Mary’s.  

Mary is survived by her sister Kay Iapoce, her nephew Michael (Sue) Iapoce, niece Mary Geralyn LaBarre, and nephew Ricky (Sue) Iapoce as well as her great nieces and nephews and her newest great, great nephew!  She also has many cousins and friends who have been very special to her.  She is predeceased by her parents Patrick and Margaret Cummings, her Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie, her brother-in-law Buddy Iapoce, her nephew Ed LaBarre, her great nephew Kyle Iapoce and many beloved Aunts, Uncles and Cousins.  

In lieu of flowers, in honor of Mary’s lifetime commitment to children, please consider donating to your favorite children’s charity.  

Bernadette Shea, nearly 101 years old, died peacefully on March 28, 2024 surrounded by her daughters.  She was born on April 30, 1923, to Michael McGinnity and Kathleen (Murphy) McGinnity, and grew up in the Bronx, New York.  She lived a total of 66 years in Wayne, with nearly sixty in the areas of Pines Lake and Manitou.

Bernadette was a woman of faith, family and friends, but really just faith and family, because it didn’t matter if you were blood related or not.  If you were a friend, you were part of her family.  For a woman who told her children, “if you can count your friends on one hand, you’re lucky,” she won the lottery.

A member of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes for over 70 years, the church was her home away from home as she attended mass daily at 7:30 a.m. It was also the place where she met many of her dearest friends and “extended family members.”  All the priests and deacons meant so much to her, but Father Michael Carnevale and Father John Aherne held a special place in her heart.

One of her most cherished memories was being awarded the St. Francis Medal on her 95th birthday in 2018 in honor of her contribution to the church community.

There was no denying Bernadette was smart. She skipped 2nd grade and was immediately tapped to jump to 4th, but her parents didn’t allow it. She graduated from Cathedral High School for Girls in Manhattan and attended Hunter College, where she majored in German and Chemistry. When she was 17, she went to a New Year’s Eve party at the last minute and met Robert Shea, a senior at Manhattan College. Even though Bernadette said she would have married Bob right after high school, they had to put things on hold due to his Navy deployment and ended up marrying four years later.

They were married for 28 years before Bob’s sudden death left her a widow at 49 with six children; three of whom were still at home.  Ever the warrior, Bernadette went back to school, completed her college degree and secured a job with IBM, retiring when she was 84.  She was such an icon at the company that a limousine brought her to a surprise retirement party, where she was honored with testimonials and gifts, including her favorites, Shalimar perfume and Godiva chocolates.

Bernadette was a great conversationalist and kept up with the latest news, from politics to sports to current events.  She was an ace bridge player, had her own Facebook account, participated in Zoom calls and even taught her eldest daughter how to text.  She loved a party and loved to dance.  When she heard any song with a great beat, whether it was Glenn Miller, Earth, Wind and Fire, or Bruno Mars, she was on the dance floor.

For over a century, she embraced life and lived in gratitude.

Bernadette leaves behind her children, Bonnie (Leon Maes,) Sheila (Bill Ramsay,) Kathy (Phil Carney,) Mary Denise (Nick Verses,) Deborah, and Eileen (Peter Fitzpatrick); grandchildren, Lee Maes, Deborah Charles (Joe,) Sean Ramsay (Heidi Wuttke,) Heather Ramsay Julian (Brett Julian), Jason Verses, (Jackie), Liam Verses, Shea Fitzpatrick (Matt Elander), Murphy Fitzpatrick, and Kelly Fitzpatrick; and great-grandchildren, Ani Kathleen Charles and Thomas Charles; as well as two sisters, Therese McConville and Regina Holland, and many nieces, nephews, and great-nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her sister Maureen Smyth and brother Dennis McGinnity.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to St. Mary’s Church   There was no place on earth that was more special to her.

If you are unable to join us for the Funeral Service at the Packanack Community Church, Friday, April 4, 2024 at 11:30 a.m., you are invited to join virtually by clicking on this livestream link: packanackcommunitychurch/streams

Herbert W. Dorfman, aged 88, of Wanaque passed Thursday, March 28, 2024 with the comfort of family by his side.

Herbert was born to David and Ethel Dorfman and graduated from Eastside High School in Paterson, having captained the varsity football team in 1953. He continued his education at Upsala College in East Orange and Trenton State Teacher’s College. During his college years he continued playing football on a semi-professional team.

Herbert began his professional career as a history teacher and football / basketball coach at Ramapo High School in Franklin Lakes and later at Indian Hills High School in Oakland. Following his teaching career, Herbert worked as a sales trainer and at Lehn & Fink in Montvale. He later rose to the position of Vice-President of Sales. His tenure at Lehn & Fink included a four-year stint in southern California as the Western Sales Manager. Following his corporate career, Herbert opened a small business selling packaging goods. He also became a licensed Baptist minister.

Teacher, coach, businessperson, pastor. Each of those professions offered him the opportunity to be of service to others, and he took advantage of each of those opportunities.  By any measure, he led an extraordinary life and leaves behind a legacy of love and great purpose. He touched many lives and has left an indelible mark on the hearts of many.

Herbert met the love of his life, Marie, while in high school. They were wed in January 1957 and remained married until Marie’s passing in 2020. They had three children, David, Jayne and Douglas. They were grandparents to Michael, Molly, Lindsay and Nicholas and great grandparents to Cohen and Conley.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to The Good Shepherd Mission in Paterson would be greatly appreciated.

Dennis J. Stevens, age 82, of Wayne, NJ and Port Orange, FL, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side, on Thursday, March 28, 2024.

Born to parents Jennings Woodrow Stevens and Naomi (Daniels) Stevens in Omaha, Nebraska, Dennis had the sad misfortune of losing his mother when he was just three years old. Dennis spent his childhood in Omaha and also in Jamestown, Kansas where he graduated from Jamestown High School in 1959. His graduating class had ten students and Dennis, with a hint of humorous sincerity, liked to boast that he graduated in the top ten in his class.

After high school, Dennis enlisted in the United States Navy where he served aboard the USS Johnston (DD-821) in the early 1960s and time thereafter in the Navy Reserves. Throughout his entire life, he was always so proud of his military service to the country that he loved so dearly. He would often tell stories about his experiences in the Navy, particularly sailing around Cuba and in the Mediterranean Sea. 

While serving, Dennis’ ship was temporarily docked in Miami Beach, Florida. One night while hanging out at the Serviceman’s Center, a place where servicemen could relax and socialize, he had the good fortune of meeting his bunkmate’s girlfriend Lorraine Parker. That encounter forever changed the course of Dennis and Lorraine’s lives as they quickly took a fancy for one another. Their first date was to the all-day-for-a-dollar movie theater where they did just that……watched movies all day for one dollar. Talk about a cheap date! They soon fell in love and decided they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. Dennis and Lorraine got married on July 31, 1962 at the Miami Women’s Club nearby where Lorraine grew up. The honeymoon had to wait as Dennis was still in the Navy. Their first home was in Quincy, Massachusetts where Dennis was stationed while his ship was in drydock for repair. 

Upon Dennis’ honorable discharge from the Navy and return to civilian life, he took a position with Control Data in Riviera Beach, Florida. At his request, the company transferred him to their California location for some training. He eventually was transferred back to the east coast where he and Lorraine purchased their first home in Clifton, NJ. From there they moved into a house located at 25 Wagaraw Boulevard in Prospect Park. There they raised their three children for the bulk of their upbringing from 1969 to 1985. When it was time to move again, the Stevens family purchased a house in Wayne and called that location home until moving to a lovely house on a lake in Port Orange, Florida in 2010.

Dennis cherished every sunny moment of retirement life in Florida. He trained a bunch of ducks which he dubbed “The Fat Boys” to knock on his door every morning with their beaks. Their reward for knocking was a nice big red Solo cup full of duck feed. Every morning he’d take his dog Pebbles for a walk around the lake. Upon their return Dennis would sit out front to enjoy a cup of black coffee. As he sat there, he’d give a doggie treat to all the other dogs that walked by his house. Sometimes while sitting out there, antique airplanes would fly over his house and he’d say to anyone he was hanging out with, “there goes the Port Orange Air Force.” When it was time for another walk around the lake, he’d go with his buddies and they’d have a good old time. Dennis loved life in Florida for another good reason. Golf. He played frequently with buddies in Port Orange and Daytona Beach and once-a-year with his friend Bill in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina. Evenings usually consisted of games of Solitaire on his computer, sprinkled in with lots of time watching Fox News, or cheering on the hapless Mets, the New York Giants and his hometown Nebraska Cornhusker football team. He also enjoyed ignoring letters from the HOA regarding his styrofoam cups of plants in his driveway! 

Above all else, nothing was as important to Dennis as his family. He was the most favorite “Pop-Pop” to his six cherished grandchildren and his adored great-grandson. He could often be found engaged in a friendly game of checkers or chess with one of them. When they were just little kids he’d have fun teaching them how to spell words like Mississippi or Alligator. Visits to Pop-Pop in Florida always included walks around that lake so that he could show them off to all his friends and neighbors. Those walks usually ended with a stop into Tim’s Corner, a local dive that served the best breakfast. But even those breakfasts didn’t compare to his dinosaur-shaped and Mickey Mouse shaped pancakes that he served his kids and grandkids over the years. Back home in Jersey, he’d treat the little ones to Jersey Johnny’s in Pequannock for hot dogs. From sporting events to performances and from graduations to weddings, Dennis was there for all of his grandchildren’s milestone moments. He loved times with his own children too. He served as a Cub Scout leader for his son Ken and as a coach for his daughters Denise and Caren’s softball team in Prospect Park. That team was notoriously awful until Dennis took over the coaching duties. That first year he coached, they won the championship. There were other great family memories of weekends and summers up at Greenwood Lake where he’d go fishing with his kids and water skiing.

When one thinks about Dennis, they think about a guy who loved Budweiser and Yuengling beer, was loyal to his dogs (besides Pebbles he also had Prissy, Tinker, and Pepper), was a frugal, sarcastic, kind, comical, sweet-heart of a guy who always had a joke to share – and it was always a clean joke. Dennis: you will be forever loved and cherished by your whole family and your many friends. Rest in peace.   

Dennis was the beloved husband of Lorraine (nee Parker), blessed in marriage for sixty-one years. He was the loving father of: Ken Stevens and wife Donna of East Stroudsburg, PA, Denise Conti and husband Tony of Binghamton, NY, and Caren Scardilli and husband Scott of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Ryan Stevens and wife Amanda, Daniel Stevens, Matthew Conti, Taylor Scardilli, Christopher Conti, and Dylan Scardilli; adoring great-grandfather of his great-grandson Jackson Stevens, and dear brother of James Stevens and wife Joanne of Omaha, Nebraska.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Dennis’ name are asked to consider:

DAV - Disabled American Veterans 

P.O. Box 14301

Cincinnati, OH 45250-0301

Please make check payable to: DAV – Disabled American Veterans

To donate by phone:  877-647-VETS (8387)

John Marro, age 88, of Wayne NJ passed Tuesday March 26, 2024, with the comfort of his family by his side.

John was born to John and Rose Marro and graduated from Lodi high school having played football and graduating with the class of 1954.

John was a plumber who learned his trade from his dad at a young age working his way up to master plumber status.   He owned his own business, John Marro Plumbing and Heating, retiring in 2002.  He was a proud member of the Tri-borough Master Plumbers Association. They almost banned him from attending monthly meetings because he won the 50-50 raffles so many times.

John was a loving husband, father, uncle, grandfather and recently a great grandfather.  His grandkids enjoyed his silly songs and impromptu sing-alongs.  He was always ready for a good debate on any subject with his siblings and especially his children.   He loved good Italian food, a good cigar, ice-cold Rolling Rock and a classic cowboy western.  He was passionate about keeping up his yard and home and was always willing to help family members with their home projects.  He enjoyed trips to Atlantic City and the west coast, however the trip he spoke the most about was his dream trip to Italy.

John met the love of his life Wilma in high school, and they were married in 1957.  They settled in Wayne, NJ in 1963 and raised three children.   He was predeceased by his wife in 1996.  John leaves behind his daughter Jacqueline and her husband Wayne Potosnak, son John Marro III and his wife Beverly Gosselin and Guy Marro and his wife Annamaria, 11 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to either St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorials Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 or the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474.

Trinita (Burke) Conway passed away peacefully at home on March 25, 2024.

Trinita was born October 16, 1933, in Chicago to parents Maxine and John Burke.  The oldest of three daughters, she lived there until 1964 when she, husband Vince and their two daughters moved East and settled in the Packanack section of Wayne.  Predeceased by Vince in 2006, Trinita remained in that same home until her death at the age of 90. 

Trinita was a small-town girl from a big city. The move to New Jersey necessitated her first-ever airplane ride and living far away from all of her close-knit family. However, not one to back down from a new adventure, in Packanack Trinita quickly made friends, honed her baking and bowling skills (she once bowled a perfect 300), and discovered golf. She volunteered for carpool driving, school cafeteria duty, cheering chaperone, and as a Girl Scout leader.  She and Vince had wonderful neighbor friends and enjoyed dozens of block parties and crazy-themed progressive dinners. Trinita was such a fun mom.  She loved playing games, especially cards– a trait she shared with her own parents and sisters. She laughed a lot and had a hundred funny sayings. When her grandchildren arrived, Trinita was both young and young-at-heart, and many more good times followed.

Trinita leaves behind her daughters Debbie (Mike) MacMillan, Kathy (Mark) Alperin, and sister Pat (Phil) Partenach, three nephews, and her grandchildren: Lauren, Katie and Megan MacMillan, Mickey, Tracy and Carly Alperin. Trinita was extremely fortunate to also have the most loving and devoted friend and caregiver, Marian Denek. Trinita’s sister Lynnita Mary Smith, and brother-in-law Ray, had previously passed away.

Those wishing to make a charitable donation in Trinita’s memory are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing, 

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis TN 38105-9959 

Kevin W. Vieldhouse, age 62, of Wayne New Jersey passed on Friday, March 22, 2024, with the comfort of family and good friends by his side.

Kevin was born to James Vieldhouse and Marilyn Lehmer and attended Eastern Christian School before transferring to Wayne Valley High School to pursue wrestling and by senior year, he became the Passaic County Champion at 141 pounds. He later graduated in 1979.

After High School, Kevin started his boxing career and went on to win the New Jersey Diamond Gloves, and then turned pro under the tutelage of Lou Duva. Kevin's pro boxing career debuted on 2/15/83 and ended with a record of 10-2-3. Kevin was a local hero at the Ice World Arena in Totowa and had several big bouts in Atlantic City.

From boxing, Kevin went onto the New Jersey State Police Academy and after graduating January 15, 1993 he became a New Jersey State Trooper. From there, Kevin climbed the ranks to the elite T.E.A.M.S Unit, various Narcotics Units and the Organized Crime Bureau. He went on to become the Assistant Unit Head of the Street Gang Unit and the Group Supervisor of the High Intensity Drug Trafficking Areas under the D.E.A Newark Division, before ultimately retiring as a Detective Lieutenant for the New Jersey State Police. After retirement, Kevin continued his work with the D.E.A / H.I.D.T.A Newark Division as a Demand Reduction Specialist.

As impressive as Kevin’s professional and athletic accomplishments were, they pale in comparison to the man he was.

Kevin Vieldhouse was a man of integrity. He was determined and had an incredible work ethic. He was honest, loyal, loving and compassionate. He was a devout Christian who loved God and whose faith never wavered. His courage and strength was an inspiration to everyone. To all who knew him, he was the go-to guy; the one that everyone could always count on to be there for them. His unconditional kindness was balanced by his immense strength that he handled with grace. He walked through life with the peace and honor that only God can provide.

Kevin was a loving and protective husband and an incredible provider. He was a role model, a mentor and a friend to his children. When it came to his family, he was selfless, committed, and there was nothing he wouldn’t do for them. His family was above all else. Kevin is survived by the love of his life, his wife, Caprice (Antonelli), his beloved four children; Stephanie Shepard, Kevin Jr Vieldhouse, Korey Vieldhouse and Carli Jo Koller and her husband Stephen Koller, four grandchildren; Kaden, Jayden, Karter, Zander and baby C (due in May), two sisters; Deborah Vieldhouse and Jodi Zaccone (Michael), and his nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, if you wish to make a memorial donation please consider donating to Joan Dancy & PALS Foundation.

Gregg F. Hunziker, age 69, of Lincoln Park passed away peacefully on March 21st, 2024.

Gregg was the first child of Charles (Chuck) and Marie Hunziker born on December 2nd, 1954.  He was raised in Wayne, New Jersey, where he was a member of the 1972 graduating class at Wayne Valley High School.  What started as a love for woodshop class led Gregg to a career in construction and carpentry.

As a young adult Gregg was an adventurer. To say that Gregg liked to have a good time was an understatement. He was always surrounded by friends. He traveled extensively, often by motorcycle, his beloved ‘Red Lady’. There are photo albums full of pictures from their trips across the country, to the Florida Keys, Canada, and many more places. He loved to fish, scuba dive, play softball, camp, and party. His passion for fishing stayed with him throughout the years and he looked forward to his months long trips down the shore to the Island Beach Motor Lodge, his home away from home in room 224.

Gregg married and settled in Lincoln Park, NJ which he was proud to call his home nearly 40 years. It was here that he welcomed his children Gregg and Elyssa. For some a home is just a home but for Gregg the home became a passion, a social hub, and a never ending project. During the summers you could always find Gregg working tirelessly in his vegetable garden, the fruits of which he was eager to share with his family and friends.

Gregg had an open door policy at his house. At any time you could find a group of friends hanging out in his workshop, potting shed, or relaxing by the pool.

Like all his projects and passions Gregg took his role as a father with full vigor. He was always ready to coach a team, have a catch, or go on adventure. While only a father of 2 he was a “second father” to countless others.  He was later blessed with a title that he embraced with immense joy, “Grandfather” by his four grandchildren James, Vivienne, Indigo, and Huck. By his side to the very end was his beloved dog Jeremiah who was a constant companion and shadow in his last years.

Despite illnesses, Gregg continued to persevere for many years. He was a fighter, dubbed the title “Guido the Lion” because of his strength and ability to overcome a plethora of physical limitations. He was inspirational to many around him. His death has left a giant void in the lives of so many and he will be sorely missed. His legacy, however, will continue to live on.

In lieu of flowers, take someone close to you out for dinner and a drink. There is nothing Gregg loved more than being with his family and friends.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anthony M. Litterini, age 31, of Lake Hopatcong, NJ.

Anthony passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Thursday, March 21, 2024.  He was born in Hackensack, NJ and was raised in Fort Lee until his family moved to New City, NY when he was approximately eight years old.  He was one of two children to John and Rose Litterini.

Growing up, Anthony was a spirited young boy whose heart beat to the strum of a guitar and the crack of a baseball bat.  Anthony took guitar lessons at an early age with the legendary multi-instrumental musician Rob Stoner, whose work can be heard on recordings of artists such as Don McLean and Bob Dylan.  While playing baseball for the Clarkstown Little League, he captured a Little League Championship.  Anthony continued with his love and pursuance of sports and music while attending Clarkstown North High School.  As a high school student, he was on the High School Varsity Wrestling Team, and played guitar in several garage bands in his area.  

Following his graduation from Clarkstown North High School with the class of 2011, Anthony enrolled at the Fortis Institute in Wayne, NJ where he earned his Associates Degree and his certification in Security Alarm Systems.  Anthony found employment quickly after gradation with a company called Morris Security Systems in Lake Hopatcong.  As an Alarm System Specialist to Morris Security Systems for a commendable span of eight years, his tenure was marked by an unwavering commitment to ensuring the safety of homes and businesses entrusted to their care.  Anthony meticulously installed and maintained alarm systems, instilling peace of mind in countless clients.  

Music was Anthony’s sanctuary; it was a realm where his imagination soared freely and his heart found peace.  Whether it was morning or night, Anthony dedicated himself to crafting music that reflected his innermost feelings. With his guitar, he created melodies and wrote songs that painted vivid pictures, drawing listeners into his imagination. For Anthony, music wasn't just a hobby, it was an essential part of who he was.  His style of playing guitar was both a blend of rock and blues.  He was a true fan of Classic Rock and Blues, one of his favorite artists being Stevie Ray Vaughan.  

Anthony moved to Lake Hopatcong about five years ago and truly loved its atmosphere and surroundings.  Lake Hopatcong wasn't just a place to reside for Anthony, it was a sanctuary where he could immerse himself in the beauty of the outdoors and find peace.  While residing there, he treasured hiking, fishing, and boating with his close friends.

Throughout the years Anthony also cherished attending a variety of music festivals in Greenwood Lake and the surrounding tristate area.  He was also a yearly active participant in SantaCon.  Aside from all of Anthony’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Anthony than spending time with those he loved.  He was a very laid back and calm individual who took life as it came to him.  Anthony was a portrait of serenity, embodying a calm, cool, and collected demeanor that remained no matter what life's twists and turns had in store for him.  His ability to maintain perspective and keep a level head in any situation earned him admiration from those around him.  

Anthony will forever be remembered as a loving son, a devoted brother, and cherished grandson.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by all who knew him.

Anthony is survived by his mother Rose Curry and her husband Jeff of Bethel, OH, his father John Litterini and his wife Lisa of Vernon, NJ, his sister Angela Litterini of Columbus, OH, his grandmother Anna Caiazzo of Lakewood, NJ, his step-sister Lizzie Sullivan (Keith & Layla), step-brother Michael LaRosa, two aunts and uncles; Sal and Tess Caiazzo of Wayne, NJ, and Diane and Pete Grieci of Point Pleasant, NJ, his cherished girlfriend Brielle Welch and her children Somi and Joon of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and many cousins and extended family.

In lieu of flowers, those who wish to make a donation in Anthony’s name are asked to consider The Brain Injury Alliance of NJ

Chad Sente, age 51 of Wayne, died tragically on Thursday, March 21, 2024. Chad moved to Wayne with his family fourteen years ago, where he embraced his community and quickly built strong, lasting friendships.

Chad grew up in Lodi, NJ and was born with intense enthusiasm to succeed, and a true zest for life. As a young man, that energy got him in trouble on more than a few occasions, but it didn’t take him long to focus on building a successful career for himself. He began working in the commercial real estate business for Roseland Property Company where he learned every aspect of the business and grew his career for more than twenty years. Just recently he joined KRE Real Estate Group in Jersey City, where he had planned to do even more. He was incredibly motivated and worked hard for everything he achieved.

At 6’-3” tall, Chad was a beast of a guy, but he was all heart and full of love. He was like a big teddy bear who gave the best bear hugs. He was always looking out for everyone else, trying to give people opportunities to succeed, and never missed an opportunity to help a friend or stranger in need. He was one of those people who would say “I got a guy” for just about everything. Chad kept many circles of friends and he was close with all of them. He had his “work” friends, his “Harley-Davidson” friends, his “Wayne Dads” group, and many more. He made friends everywhere he went, and he brought energy that made it all memorable. He especially loved to ride his Harley-Davidson with his motorcycle buddies.

His “why?” included his wife and two sons; he did everything to bring them the best life he could provide, and he never wanted them to struggle for anything. He met his wife Karina when they were just kids growing up in Lodi, but Chad was too much to handle back then! They came together a few years later and married on March 30, 2007, tying the knot on the beach in Cancun, Mexico! After welcoming two sons, Chad embraced being a father and taught his sons about always being respectful of others, well-mannered, and hard working. He was extremely proud of the two boys he was raising with Karina. Together, they enjoyed summer vacations to Lavallette each year, many tropical vacations throughout the Caribbean, boating, and deep-sea fishing. Their hearts are broken today, and they will miss him dearly. Chad extended his love and support throughout his larger family and friends as well. His huge heart and amazing hugs will be missed by so many.

Chad is survived by his beloved wife, Karina (nee Cevallos), their two sons; Chad Michael and Marconi, his brother; Stephen Sente, his loving nieces and nephews, and countless dear friends.

Jannine L. Uhl, born April 9, 1931, passed peacefully in her sleep on Tuesday, March 19, 2024. She will be fondly remembered as a lovely person — generous, and considerate, always putting the needs of others above her own.

Jannine was born to Robert and Harriet Laurence in Teaneck, New Jersey. She spent her summers in Lavallette at the Jersey Shore. A graduate of Teaneck High School, Jannine was a member of the National Honor Society and participated in many clubs and organizations, including French Club (vice president) and student council. She was a great athlete and played softball, basketball, volleyball, and field hockey every year.

Jannine attended Simmons College in Boston and was enrolled in a combined program of business and science, graduating in 1953 with a Bachelor of Science degree. It was there that she met the love of her life, an MIT student named Robert “Bob” Uhl, on a blind date. They married shortly after her graduation, on July 11, 1953. Bob joined the United States Air Force, and they moved to Eglin Air Force Base in Florida where she worked as assistant to the administrative manager of Vitro Corporation, an engineering contractor. They then moved to Waltham, MA, where she was executive secretary to the sales manager of Vectron Corporation.

In 1959, Jannine and Bob made their final move as a married couple to Packanack Lake where they raised their three children. Jannine was active in her children’s lives, serving as a Cub Scout den mother and a Brownie and Girl Scout troop leader, and she was also a “go-to” volunteer on various school committees. She served as a recording secretary for the Mayor’s Advisory Council on Drug Abuse for Wayne Township. Many people remember her as a sales associate at Meyer Brothers department store in Wayne because she was so competent, helpful, and friendly.

Anyone who ever worked with Jannine, whether at a job, a committee, or a personal project, could not help but recognize that if you needed a job done right, she was the one to go to. She put her golden touch on everything she did. There are probably few people in her life who do not remember getting the most beautiful cards from her. But her family, and especially her grandchildren (to whom she was Mema), loved her mostly for her fun and silly side. Always the good sport, she brought joy and laughter to every occasion.

Jannine loved to travel and did manage to visit most of the sights on her “must see” list. Her favorite places in all the world, though, remained her Packanack community, the Jersey Shore, the Metropolitan Museum of Art, and Yankee Stadium. She was passionate about her Yankees (DiMaggio was her favorite), was a crossword puzzle enthusiast, and had a deep, deep affection for animals. Along with Bob, Jannine was a volunteer with Homeless Tails, which was Packanack’s non-profit animal welfare organization. She and Bob fostered many animals in their home until they could be placed with their permanent families. However, a few lucky kitties got to stay with her to receive her loving care for life. Her mother often said, “When I die, I hope to come back as a cat in your home!”

Jannine and Bob were married for 57 years until he passed in 2010, and Jannine lived in Packanack Lake for nearly 60 years. She moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains in 2017 and recently moved into Mountainview Gardens, where she received skilled and compassionate care.

Of all of Jannine’s life accomplishments, she was most proud of her family. Surviving her are her son, Richard Uhl, his wife Rhea, and sons Christopher and Alexander; her daughter, Christa Ayers, her husband Donald, and children Timothy, Brian, Daniel, and Lauren; her daughter, Erica Garbarini, her husband John, and children John and Laura and her husband Fabian D’Alleman; and her beloved cat Jackie. Also surviving are her brother, Robert Laurence, and his wife Patricia.

Jannine (Mema) will be missed tremendously by all of us and so many others whose lives she touched with her warmth, sincerity, honesty, and humor. Her deepest love was for her family and friends. She often said, “I’ve been blessed with the very best.” The feeling is mutual.  

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In lieu of flowers, if you wish to make a memorial donation, please consider one of the following charities:

Lancaster SPCA (an all volunteer animal welfare organization similar to her favorite charity, Homeless Tails) LANCASTER SPCA, PO BOX 3042, LANCASTER, SC 29721

Tunnels to Towers Foundation

Alzheimer's Association

Sharon LaScola, age 77, of Wayne passed suddenly and unexpectedly at home on Monday, March 18, 2024.

She was born in Cleveland, Ohio to Albert and Thelma Nowak.  Her life took a turn when she lost her father when she was just six months old.  Her family moved to Wayne when she was six years old.  Sharon’s mother married Albert Fernicola who served as a father figure to Sharon and raised her as his own. Sharon attended the Preakness School #2 on Hamburg Turnpike in Wayne and went on to graduate from the Wayne High School with the Class of 1964.  Furthering her education, she attended classes at William Paterson College in Wayne.

Sharon worked for the State Farm Insurance Company in Wayne for her entire career and retired as a Superintendent.  During her tenure at State Farm Insurance, she married Mel LaScola and moved to Houston, Texas for a few years.  They returned to Wayne after a few years and Sharon negotiated her job back with State Farm Insurance, including all her years previously served,

Sharon was a devoted member of Our Lady of the Valley Church, where her Catholic faith played a central role in her life. She was also committed to helping others in their faith journey and volunteered with the CCD program at Our Lady of the Valley Church.  For many years Sharon also donated her time and talents to the Our Lady of the Valley Church Festival. Her unwavering faith and dedication to serving her community made her a beloved and respected member of the church and the wider community.  For many years Sharon volunteered at the Wayne Animal Shelter. Her compassionate nature and commitment to her beliefs left a lasting impact on those around her.

Sharon was known for her reliability, dependability, and love of scrapbooking.  Her generous and patient nature made her a belove confidante, always willing to lend a listening ear or a helping hand.  When it came to her four brothers, she wielded hairbrush discipline with love and care, earning the respect and admiration of her siblings.  Sharon’s combination of strength and compassion made her a pillar of support for her family and friends, and her ability to balance discipline with kindness made her an exceptional role model for those around her. Sharon was a member of the Daughters of the American Revolution and her family roots can be traced to the English settlement of the east coast of North America known as the Massachusetts Bay Colony (1628-1691).

Sharon was the loving sister of Albert Fernicola of Wayne, Alan Fernicola of Wharton, Robert Fernicola of Haskell, and the late Anthony Fernicola. She was the loving aunt of six nieces and two nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Father English Community Center, 435 Main Street, Paterson, NJ 07501 or the Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated (donation cards for each organization will be available at the funeral home.

Marie Rymer, age 96, beloved mother, grandmother, and gentle soul, passed away peacefully on Monday, March 11, 2024.

One of two children born to Frank and Anna Carnevale, Marie grew up in Paterson, NJ where she went to Central High School. Immediately after High School, Marie got to work in an office setting – a move that would unpredictably lead her to meeting the love of her life.

Marie and Joseph’s love story began unexpectedly through the matchmaking efforts of the office mailman. Realizing his friend Joseph might take an interest in Marie, the mailman facilitated an introduction by having Joe make the daily mail drop-off at Marie’s office one fateful day. The pair instantly hit it off and the love letters began. On Christmas Eve, with the streets filled with celebrants departing from Mass, Joseph seized the perfect romantic moment to propose to Marie right in front of her home’s picture window. She said yes and the couple tied the knot on April 23rd, 1949, at St. Mary’s Church in their hometown. Over the years, Marie and Joseph were blessed with four children: Patty, Joe, Elaine, and Janet. She was the heart of the home while being very involved in her children’s schooling as a class mom and Girl Scout leader.

Marie and Joe had a love for adventure. Surprise road trips to the World’s Fair (8 times!), Palisades Park, and the Jersey Shore, to name a few, were special times they shared with their children. These “mystery rides” they planned were so enjoyed by the kids, along with backyard pool parties during the summer time. The family began their Jersey shore vacations in Ortley Beach, Atlantic City, and Long Beach Island, which ultimately inspired them to purchase a Beach Haven home in 1981.

As their children grew older, their love for travel expanded internationally. Encouraged by their son Joe, they traveled annually to many destinations including England, Scotland, Italy, Morocco, Bermuda, and Hawaii.

Marie and Joe enjoyed a loving partnership of nearly four decades together. Unfortunately, Joe passed away in October of 1987, but their love and devotion never dwindled. Marie, being the strong woman she was, worked hard navigating the ups and downs of life. Her family provided much support and she was forever grateful for the help of Elaine’s husband Richie (d. 2020), as he tackled projects too great for her alone.

A devout parishioner at St. Mary’s Church in her lifelong hometown of Paterson, Marie found one of her greatest passions in life through her involvement in the parish’s Rosary Altar Society. This group of women became like a second family to Marie, bonded by their shared faith and love of travel. She took great pride in helping to organize the Society’s bus trips that took them to destinations on the East Coast and other church fundraising activities. Whether coordinating the logistics or simply enjoying the camaraderie, these excursions allowed Marie’s generous spirit to flourish as she fostered fellowship and forged cherished friendships. Her decades-long dedication to the group was a testament to her values.

Marie was close with all her children. With Patty, they had a unique relationship. They enjoyed watching soap operas, going Christmas shopping, seeing Frank Sinatra in concert, enjoying a cup of tea and good conversation. Elaine and Janet loved spending time with their mother. Whether it be simple daily tasks, special occasions or memorable vacations, Marie always cherished being a part of their growing families. Adventures only continued, as great grandchildren added more blessings to her life.

Marie was the sweetest and kindest person you could meet. She had a heart of gold and it was obvious to everyone she came in contact with. She never displayed anger and more notably, she never complained. She was tough and persevered through all of the challenges life presented her with. She never had a harsh word to say about anyone and she will be dearly missed by all that were blessed enough to have known her.

Marie is survived by her 4 children: Patricia Rymer of Wayne, Joseph Rymer and his wife Jan of Cape May, Elaine Navarro of West Milford, and Janet Fabiano and her husband Bob of Wayne; her 4 grandchildren: Erin Samples and her husband Brian, Lauren Rendine and her husband Luke, Christina Fabiano and her fiancé Chase, and Frankie Fabiano; and her 5 great-grandchildren: Matthew, Adam, Brooke, Hannah, and Ricky.

Marie is predeceased by her parents, Frank and Anna Carnevale, her brother Frank Carnevale and his wife Fran, her brother-in-law Al Rymer and his wife Helen, her nephew Dan Carnevale, her beloved husband Joseph and her cherished son-in-law Richard Navarro (Richie).

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph M. Schweighart, age 93 of Wayne NJ.

Joseph passed away peacefully on Monday, March 11, 2024.  He was born and raised in Passaic, NJ and was the older of two children.  Those who knew Joseph best came to know him simply as “Joe”.  Joe grew up in Northern New Jersey and graduated high school in 1948.  Not long after his high school graduation, Joe enlisted in the United States Marine Corps.  Serving in the United States military was something that Joe would often speak of and was extremely proud.  Following his honorable discharge from the US Marine Corps, Joe became a specialized police officer working closely with both the Paterson and Wayne Police Department.  His career as a specialized police officer spanned a period of over 25 years.  

Concurrent with his career as a police officer, Joe was also employed as an engineer for a number of various local industrial companies.  Despite lacking a formal degree beyond high school, Joe possessed a remarkable knack for all things mechanical. He seemed to have an intuitive understanding of gears and circuits, a talent that quickly caught the eye of local companies in need of engineering expertise.  Joe proved himself time and again, earning a reputation as the go-to engineer for troubleshooting and repairing machinery. His unconventional path to becoming an engineer only added to his colleague’s respect in his ability to solve complex problems with a simple, hands-on approach. Joe's story served as a reminder that true expertise isn't always measured by diplomas, but by the ingenuity and dedication one brings to the task at hand.

Joe married as a young man and had three children.  Unfortunately, Joe’s first marriage ended in divorce.  Eventually Joe found solace and renewed love in the embrace of a second chance at happiness through remarriage.  In the late 1970’s Joe was introduced to an attractive woman named Pamela Sturgis.  Pamela’s mom was widowed and occasionally needed help with home maintenance and repairs. Joe was her mom’s handyman and sometimes he was there when Pam came to visit. As a result, Pam and Joe got to know each other.  They hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on Friday May 2, 1980 they became husband and wife by the Mayor of Wayne.  Pam and Joe settled on Dubel Road in Wayne where they enjoyed each other’s love and friendship for almost thirty-six years of marriage until Pam’s passing in February of 2016.

Joe was an avid pistol marksman and was a member of the Riverdale Pistol Club in Riverdale for many years.  In his later years he enjoyed building birdhouses of all types and all sizes.  He was an avid birdwatcher and raising honeybees.  He immersed himself in the art of woodworking.  But Joe's talents extended far beyond the realm of woodworking; he was a virtuoso of repair, able to diagnose and mend any broken machinery or household item that crossed his path.  He would often be found helping his neighbors with their repairs and maintenance.  

Joe had an unconventional way of showing his affection; rather than offering compliments or kind gestures, he teased and poked fun at those he held in high regard. His playful jabs and witty banter were his way of breaking down barriers and forging connections with others. While some may have misunderstood his approach as abrasive or unkind, those who knew him best recognized it as a sign of his genuine fondness and respect. 

Shortly after his wife Pam’s passing, Joe began attending bereavement support groups.  There he met a truly special friend, Colleen Woods, who had recently lost her son.  When he first met Colleen, Joe told her that she would never come back.  Colleen in fact did come back the next week and when she arrived, she brought a small stone with some affectionate writing on it.  This prompted a special friendship and tradition of exchanging small stones.  One week, Joe as a tease, brought a five-pound bag of river stones to Colleen!  

Joe will forever be remembered as a kind and generous man who loved spending time with those he loved.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed.

Joe is survived by his three children, His brother Donald Schweighart, his dear friend Colleen Woods and her husband David Hornlein of New Milford, NJ, and his confidant Cynthia Murphy of West Milford, NJ.  He was predeceased by his wife of thirty six years Pamela Schweighart in 2016.      

I love you,

Colleen

Stephen “Steve” Silk, age 88 took his final voyage peacefully with his family by his side. Steve was deeply religious and ready to meet the Lord. Jokingly he would say, ‘while he believed in Heaven, he was in no hurry to get there and meet his maker but hoped the good Lord had taken a liking to him’.

Steve’s 63-year romance with his wife Cathy started at the wedding of her brother, Mike. Cathy was a bridesmaid and Steve the best man.  It wasn’t long before Steve proposed, and they married in 1960. They honeymooned in Bermuda and soon after started their family.  Steve grew up on New York’s lower east side and moved to Packanack Lake in 1970.  He remained an avid skier and golfer throughout his life.  In his early years in NYC, he was an exceptional billiard player and bowler and on rare occasions would show off his skills to his grandson.  Steve was a member of Packanack Golf Club for 28 years.  During that time, he served on the golf club board of directors and as president on several occasions.  He has also been a member of the American Legion Post 450 for over 40 years.

Steve served in the Navy aboard the USS Perry from 1955 to 1957.   He especially loved the Navy because the Navy provided an extended family of brothers he never had while growing up. In 1998 he created his ship’s website that launched a wonderful cruise down memory lane.  Within weeks, shipmates found the website and friendships were rekindled. The heart-warming stories of so many of these shipmates truly made founding the Perry Association a truly worthwhile endeavor. Unlikely as it may seem, it even brought together shipmates who served aboard an earlier Perry namesake ship that saw action during the Pearl Harbor attack in 1941.  Although Steve is no longer at the Ships Helm, the Perry Association remains active and is planning its 21st reunion.

Steve’s IT career started in 1960. During his employment with a national NYC based firm.  He was selected to attend IBM’s training school and help the company’s conversion effort to computer-based systems. In 1965, Steve resigned from the firm and with Cathy’s blessing, formed a Computer System’s company that provided services to firms planning to automate or needing supplemental support. 

His work career was a never-ending curve of continuing technology changes and his ability to incorporate these changes across many different industries. Some of his projects included services to the Construction, Publishing and Medical industries as well as the Stock Exchange and several Universities. Steve had a unique ability to quickly understand business problems and provide a solution.  He always considered work fun and described it as a challenging game.  Steve retired in 1996.  Had his personal heart-breaking challenging responsibilities not intervened, Steve would have remained active in his business.

Steve is best described as someone who is always there for anyone in need. His philosophy has always been, ‘happiness is not the absence of problems but our ability to deal with them’. Steve retained a lifetime of friendships with men he bonded with at work, schoolmates, and shipmates with whom he served until these friends were also called to the Lord.

Of all Steve's life's accomplishments, he was most proud of his family. Steve is survived by his loving wife; Catherine, his two daughters Helene Lindstrom & Darlene Donegan (and her husband Joseph), his amazing grandchildren Lane, Lindsay Franco (and her husband Christopher), and Joseph "Joey" Donegan, and great-grandson Carmine.  Steve was predeceased by his son Christopher, granddaughter Brittany, baby brother Joseph and his parents Helen and Stephen.

 In lieu of flowers, those planning on an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donations to

Valley Hospice

15 Essex Road, Suite 301

Paramus, New Jersey 07652

(201) 291-6300

St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center

575 Woodland Avenue

Madison, New Jersey 07940

Some personal websites providing additional insight about Steve:

www.chrissilk.org  www.brittanyjoy.org

www.downhillracers.net  www.mhrschool.org

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Mario C. Morandi age 93 of Lakewood passed away peacefully on Friday, March 8, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Mario was born in the Bronx, New York the first son of Italian immigrant parents Ernesto and Thersina Morandi who originated in Bergamo, Italy.  Mario graduated from Samuel Gumpers High School.  He enlisted in the US Army and was stationed in Korea.  After the army, Mario went to work for Prudential Insurance Company as a sales agent for 34 years before retiring.  Mario moved to Wayne where he lived until moving to Lakewood.  

Mario met Reba Humphrey and married on September 20, 1981.  They have enjoyed 43 years of “Fantastic Loving Marriage” together. For their honeymoon they traveled for a month in Italy and throughout their marriage, traveled the world.  Mario and Reba ran the local food pantry for Christ United Methodist Church for 11 years.  He was a truly spiritual man and gave anyone who was Christian a cross.  Mario was blessed with a warm and genuine extraverted personality that caused him to make friends easily and they in turn wanted to call him friend.

Mario was the loving husband of Reba (nee Humphrey) Morandi; loving father of: Teresa and husband Aaron Tollin of West Milford, Christina Morandi of Ramsey, Cynthia and husband John Losardo of Boonton, grandfather of: Marc and wife Brittany Tollin, Nicole and husband Chris Donovan, Kristie Dischino and husband Kevin, Michelle Scrofani, John and wife Krista Losardo, Megan and wife Nicole Losardo, Samantha Losardo, and 11 great grandchildren.  He was predeceased by his brother Remo Morandi, and his son David Hepworth.

For more information about Mario please visit Jersey's Best

George Fattal, age 77 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 7, 2024 with his loving wife at his side.

George was born in Syria and emigrated to America when he was just sixteen years old with a heart full of courage and enthusiasm, and little else in his pockets. He settled in Paterson, NJ and took odd jobs and worked hard to help the rest of his family emigrate to America. 

George had always loved cars and eventually he settled into the automotive industry.  He was a naturally skilled mechanic, the kind of guy who could fix anything. He was like Mr. Gadget who could engineer a solution to just about any mechanical problem. Before his retirement, he owned GCM Auto Group where he successfully bought, sold, and repaired cars and trucks.

In 2003, George’s brother, Edmond, sent Ellen to his lot to buy a vans for her business.  Ellen and George hit it off and were married in January of 2006. George liked to joke that while Ellen didn’t buy a van, she got the whole lot in the form of his heart. George and Ellen had a wonderful loving and supportive relationship. They held hands through his very last breath.

George contracted covid in November of 2020 while in Florida. Thankfully, he was able to receive experimental plasma treatment to help save his life. While it was a long road, George made it his mission to survive and come back to his family. The next three years, George battled health issues due to damage to his lungs from long covid. He fought tirelessly with his wife by his side every step of the way. Even in the final weeks, he elected to go on home hospice care to ensure he could have happy memories of his family and grandkids.

George is survived by his beloved wife Ellen (nee Snyder) of Wayne, four children: Michael Fattal (Patricia), Christina Fattal, Amanda Morgan (Jason), and Alicia Velasquez (John), five grandchildren, a brother; Edmond Fattal (Maribeth), and two sisters: Amal Khawam (Norman), and Edma Chidiak (Pierre). George was predeceased by his brother; Albert Fattal, his father; Michael, and by his mother; Odette Fattal (nee Kerbaji).

Robert James Contrada, age 44 of Hamburg, NJ, passed away peacefully with family by his side on Wednesday, March 6, 2024.

Rob was employed with Bimbo Bakery since 2020 and he especially enjoyed working part-time on Sundays at Rentals Unlimited in Pequannock.

Rob grew up in Wayne and graduated from Wayne Hills with the class of 1997. After high school, he caddied at the Preakness Country Club which fed right into his love of golf. Rob was also a huge fan of the Minnesota Vikings, the NY METS and the NJ DEVILS.

Rob’s greatest love, beyond any doubt, were his two daughters; Krista and Kaylin. He was a loving and devoted father who did everything he could for his girls.  He was a great cook! The girls especially loved his pepperoni rolls (which he told them were lobster rolls!). He took them to Hershey Park each year, drove them wherever they needed to go, and he shared his love of hockey watching Devil’s games with them on TV as well as bringing them to games. He affectionately referred to them at Krista-bear and Kaylin-bear, and they were the light of his life. Rob lit up every room he walked into with his charismatic personality. He was fun loving, goofy and had made an impact on every life that crossed his path.

Rob is survived by his two daughters: Krista and Kaylin, his parents: Robert and Nancy Contrada of Wayne, two sisters: Danielle Contrada and Jeannine Machanska (Joe), his former wife; Jennifer Glinbizzi, a niece; Brianna and nephew; Joey, as well as many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be appreciated to the American Heart Association, www.heart.org.

John J. McNamara, age 84, a longtime resident of Clifton, and formerly of Passaic, passed away peacefully with loving family by his side, on Wednesday, March 6, 2024.

The youngest of Joseph and Julia (Conally) McNamara’s four sons, Jack, as he was commonly known, was born and raised in Passaic, NJ.

It was in Passaic that Jack attended and graduated from Pope Pius High School with the Class of 1957. After high school, he began a career in banking and finance where he would remain throughout his entire career. Most recently and most notably, he ascended to the office of Assistant Vice President with Valley National Bank and later Vice President and Marketing Director with Lakeland Bank.

A man whose life was marked by demonstrated service to numerous professional and philanthropic organizations, Jack volunteered his time and offered his expertise in the Passaic County Bankers Association, as a member of the New Jersey Bankers Association Public Relations Committee, as President and Member of the Board of Governors of the American Institute of Banking (A.I.B), as Chairman of the Finance Committee of St. Nicholas R.C. Church, President of the Passaic Jaycees, Director and Chairman of the United Way of Passaic Valley Northern Communities Division, member of the Bloomingdale Chamber of Commerce, Vice Chairman of the Inter-Service Club Council of Passaic, member of the Advisory Board and Treasurer of the Salvation Army,

member of the Knights of Columbus and Boy Scouts of America Sustaining Membership Drives Committee, and member of the Little Falls and Butler Rotary Clubs.

In addition to volunteering in all of these endeavors, Jack also served his country in the United States Army.

In his spare time, Jack enjoyed playing golf in his younger years, meticulously tending to his lawn and flower gardens, keeping up with the latest news by reading the newspaper from cover to cover every day, and cheering on any team that was playing the New York Yankees. As a longtime parishioner of St. Nicholas R.C. Church in Passaic and in more recent years at St. Philip R.C. Church in his hometown of Clifton, Jack’s faith was a foundational part of his life, guiding him to be the fine man that he was. 

Jack’s generosity knew no bounds. Just ask his nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews what it was like when Uncle Jack showed up for Christmas with literally piles of presents for each of them. He was also known to leave snacks for the mail carrier and the garbage man, and to help his neighbors with anything they’d ask for. And when it came to giving to charity, Jack had a whole host of charitable organizations that were regular recipients of his caring generosity.

Jack had a great sense of humor too. Whenever you saw him, he was always ready to share the latest joke he had recently heard. Jack was a kind man whose life was a blessing to all who had the privilege of having known him.  

Jack was the loving son of his late parents, Joseph and Julia McNamara; dearest brother of the late Joseph McNamara, Eugene and his wife Margaret McNamara of Wayne, and the late Henry McNamara and his wife Joan of Wyckoff; and dear uncle and great uncle of numerous nieces and nephews and great-nieces and great nephews. 

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jack’s name are asked to consider:

St. JudeChildren’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959 

Henry D’Alberto, 88, of Easton, Pennsylvania, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 5, 2024, at St. Joseph’s University Medical Center in Paterson, New Jersey.

Born May 15, 1935, in Easton, he was the son of the late Leondino and Anna (Terenzi) D’Alberto. The son of Italian immigrants, Henry grew up in an Italian neighborhood speaking Italian at home. He loved sports and played baseball and basketball.

Always the student, Henry graduated from Easton High School at the top of his class and was awarded a full academic scholarship to Lafayette College, the first in his family to attend college. Henry graduated from Lafayette in 1957 with a Bachelor of Science in metallurgical engineering. He turned down a full academic scholarship for a masters degree from Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT), and instead went right into the workforce starting his career at Bethlehem Steel.

He joined the United States Army in 1958, where he served as a First Lieutenant. He transitioned to the Army Reserves in 1965 and was promoted to Captain.

An entrepreneur and businessman, Henry entered the investment business in 1960, and went on to found two brokerage firms, Pilgrim Planning Associates, Inc. in 1979 and American Financial Associates, Inc. in 1991. He also owned and operated the historic Hotel Easton from 1983 until the early 1990s.  Henry loved his work, and continued to go into the office until the last years of his life.

Henry met the love of his life Constance Musumeci when he was just 16 years old, they were next door neighbors.  Henry and Connie were married in 1963, and lived in Northern New Jersey, until they moved back to Pennsylvania in 1977.  Henry and his beloved wife Connie were married for 30 beautiful years, and had three children, Jennifer, Henry and Emily. They loved their family vacations to Hilton Head and Daufuskie Island, as well as Easters in Disney World.  Connie passed away in 1993 at 52 years old.

Henry later married Anne Portlock in 2002. They enjoyed traveling together, including their winters in Florida, volunteering at the PGA Tour Honda Classic and spending time with family and friends.

Henry was a devoted father, husband and grandfather. He loved food, politics, movies, reading, traveling and sports – especially watching the Philadelphia Eagles with his grandsons. An avid golfer, nothing gave him more joy than playing golf with his son, Henry. In the last years of his life he could often be found binge watching the latest series on Netflix.

Henry was an active member of the community, he was a member of the Lions Club of Easton, he supported Meals On Wheels, Wounded Warriors, American Cancer Society, among others.

Henry is survived by his children, Jennifer Kavensky, Henry D’Alberto, Emily Batelli and her husband Mario. He is survived by his grandchildren and great grandchild, Constance Kavensky, Emily Morgan and her husband Nathan and their daughter Gia Grace, Sophia Kavensky, Michael Batelli and Marco Batelli. In addition to his wife Anne, Henry is survived by his stepchildren Scott Portlock and his wife Jessica, Marc Portlock and his wife Courtney, and Laura Portlock, and his step grandchildren, Marc Portlock, Taylor Portlock and Lydia Portlock.

Mercedes M. Perez, age 92, of West New York, NJ, passed with the comfort of family around her on Sunday, March 3, 2024.

Mercedes was born in Havana, Cuba to Tomas and Andrea Hernandez. She was the first of 5 children. Mercedes met the love of her life Adalberto Perez in Havana, Cuba, where they got married and had their beautiful daughter Ada Perez. Adalberto wanted a better life for his family, so they made their way to America and started a new chapter in their life in West New York, NJ.

Mercedes led a life filled with joy, love, devotion to her family and a passion for many things. She was a phenomenal cook, always having a plate ready for any guest that came through the door. She was known for her exceptional talent in the kitchen, as her skills were incomparable, even at the age of 92. Her delicious recipes and traditional Cuban dishes brought people together and created lasting memories. To her, cooking was more than just nourishment; it was a way of expressing her love and care for her family and friends. Her sense of humor was the source of laughter of every family gathering. Not only was she skilled in the kitchen, but she also had a remarkable talent for sewing, and took great pride in her sewing machine.  Music and dancing were two passions that truly fueled Mercedes soul. She had an infectious rhythm that could light up any room with joy.

Family was of utmost importance to Mercedes, and spending time with her loved ones brought her immense happiness. Whether it was gathering for holiday celebrations, family dinners, or simply enjoying each other's company, she deeply cherished these moments. She created a loving and nurturing environment where memories were created and bonds were strengthened.

Mercedes Perez’ warm smile, kind heart, and remarkable talents will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to have known her. She leaves behind a legacy of love, family values, and determination.

She is survived by her loving family, including her daughter, Ada Perez, Grandchildren, Adaliz Gomez, Idilio Gomez, Julian Gomez and granddaughter in law, Stefanie Vasiljevic.

Mercedes Perez may have left this earthly realm, but her spirit will forever remain in our hearts. May her soul find eternal peace.

Alice Salvaggio age 85 of Wayne, passed away peacefully in her home Sunday March 3, 2024.

Alice was born in Lodi May 31, 1938 to Olimpio and Laurinda Soares. Alice graduated from Lodi High School where she was Lead Majorette and also a member of the concert choir, drama club, Spanish and vocational clubs. While participating in the drama club she performed in many plays. While a high school senior She won the Miss Greater Lodi Contest. She later went on to place 3rd in the Miss New Jersey Contest.

After graduation Alice went on to become a very accomplished singer and dancer. Her passion led her to perform in Canada, Vegas, Miami, Atlantic City, and many cruise ships. She was also an actress in multiple off-Broadway plays.

Alice was a saleswoman for Yellow Pages for many years. Later in life she worked for the Wayne school system, serving school lunches to the students, and caring for the children in aftercare.

Alice was a selfless, kind, loving, compassionate woman. She will always be remembered for her amazing sense of humor and off-the-cuff comments. She loved cooking, baking, thrifting, crafting, and shopping for gifts. She also loved going to the beach, laying by the pool, and visiting Atlantic City from time to time. More than anything she loved her family and friends. They were the joy of her life. She was so giving that even during the stress of the holidays she would bake cookies to bring to her doctors and even her mechanic.

Alice met the love of her life Steve while performing with the band Mario and the Flips, where Steve was the bass player. They quickly fell in love and were married October 12, 1958, at St. Joseph’s R.C. in Lodi. They moved to a home in Passaic where their family grew by two with the birth of their two daughters Lauraine and Lisa.  Years later they decided to buy a house in Paterson that they could call home for the rest of their lives together.

Alice’s love for her family outweighed everything else in her life. She was proud of her family, and it brought so much joy to her to see her great-granddaughter Meadow.

She is survived by her daughters Lauraine Esposito and husband Joseph and Lisa Prince and husband Stephen; her grandchildren Ashley Esposito, Natalie Santonello and husband Brian, Melanie Funabashi and husband Matthew, Jessica Prince, Stephen Prince, and Joseph Esposito, and her great-granddaughter Meadow Rae Funabashi.

Juliet Wusthoff, age 79, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Sunday, March 3, 2024.

We are sad to announce the passing of John Ciffo, age 78, of West Milford, NJ. He left us on March 1, 2024.

John was born to Michael and Fannie Ciffo at St. Mary's General Hospital in Passaic and was raised in Garfield. He graduated from Garfield High School where he played baseball and was the 3rd basemen during his high school years with the class of 1963. John continued his education at The State University of New York at Courtland and then transferred to Parsons College in Fairfield, Iowa where he received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Elementary Education with the Class of 1967. Alongside him was his best friend to this day, Ed Gola, who also attended both institutions where they partook in many adventures together!  John would then go on to receive his Masters Degree in Educational Administration from William Paterson University in Wayne.

John began his career as a teacher at the Memorial Elementary School in Maywood.  As he continued to inspire and educate his students, he was eventually promoted to the Maywood Avenue School where he taught middle school math for most of his teaching career.  John was extremely dedicated to helping his students understand and excel in math and his passion for teaching was evident in his work. His commitment to his students and his leadership skills did not go unnoticed, and he was ultimately appointed as the Assistant Principal for the Maywood Avenue School. Through his career, John’s impact on the education system and his students was profound, and his dedication to his students and the school community was unwavering through his retirement in 2007. Many of his former students will remember him teaching a mathematics game called “Krypto” to help inspire their math skills. In fact, many of his former students over the years have reached out and shared with him how they use the game in their own way to inspire their own students.  John knew how to make Math fun and engaging and was remembered by many as an educator and mentor who made a real difference in more ways than one.

John will be remembered as a remarkable individual, known for his fun, social nature and boundless energy.  He loved sports and was a devoted baseball fan cheering on the Yankees, was a devoted Clemson Tigers football fan, and supported his grandchildren at their various sports activities. John played golf every week up until he was limited to do so. Always on the move, he never shied away from new experiences and adventures...he had a genuine love of life.  Despite his active lifestyle, John possessed a remarkable patience and laid-back demeanor, always remaining calm and composed.  His dedication to his family was unwavering, and he was known for being reliable, supportive and was the most devoted father, grandfather and husband that one could ever ask for.  John was the kind of person who would drop everything to be there for you in times of need, reflecting his compassionated nature.  His presence would bring comfort and reassurance, and his willingness to go above and beyond for those he cared about made him a cherished and invaluable friend.

John met his wife, Gale Puzio, at a cocktail lounge on River Road in Garfield.  Although they both graduated from Garfield High, they barely knew each other during their high school years.  Their first date was to a beautiful dinner at The Bethwood in Totowa.  They fell in love and married on October 3, 1970, at the Mount Virgin Church in Garfield.  John and Gale have had a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-four wonderful years together.  John is survived by his wife, Gale; his daughter Carey; his son Brian and daughter-in-law, Michelle; and his three grandchildren Hannah, Bryce and Emily. John was predeceased by his parents, Michael and Fannie and his brother, Tommy. John will be greatly missed by many.

Rosemarie Williams nee Wills, age 95, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, March 1, 2024.

Rosemarie was born in Scranton, PA to Richard & Mary Wills.  She was the 5th of 9 children so there was never a dull moment in her childhood.  She eventually got a job at First National Bank, in Paterson, as a teller and subsequently moved to New Jersey, living with her sister, Millie and brother-in-law.  Either by chance or fate, Rosemarie met a gentleman living right next door named Robert Williams.  Bob, as he was better known, was only on leave from the United States Navy for a short time.  The two quickly fell in love and before Bob returned to base, he & Rosemarie were married at the Church of Our Lady of Lourdes in Paterson, NJ on January 5, 1951.  Their marriage lasted a remarkable 73 years before Rosemarie’s passing.

Once Bob was discharged from the Navy, he and Rosemarie moved into an apartment in Paterson where their family grew by one with the birth of their daughter, Barbara.  With their family expanding, the couple decided to buy a house in Wayne that they would call home for the rest of their lives together.  Shortly thereafter, they were blessed with another child, Robert.

Rosemarie will be remembered for her patience, kind heart, loving personality and her good sense of humor.

Before starting her family, Rosemarie worked as a bank teller for many years in Paterson and Wayne.  While her children were still in school, Rosemarie worked at Anthony Wayne Jr. High serving school lunches to the students.  Rosemarie  then went on to work for the Foundation for the Handicapped in Wayne as a Floor Supervisor.  Her stay there spanned 15 years.

She was an animal lover raising two dogs: Taffy 1 & Taffy 2, before owning two cats: Trevor & Boots.  Rosemarie was also blessed with “The Wills’ Family Sweet Tooth”, that manifested itself in a love for cake, cookies, pastries and candy.

Rosemarie loved to travel with Bob and their friends and also their granddaughter, Cristy making frequent trips out to the peaceful rolling hills of Lancaster, PA (with fresh ice cream and candy at the Amish farms along the way).

Rosemarie’s love for her family outweighed everything else in her life.  She was proud of her family and it brought so much joy to her heart to see her great-granddaughter, Ava.  Rosemarie had a passion for the piano that she was passing down to Ava so that one day she would play as well.

Rosemarie is survived by her husband, Bob, her children: Barbara Hamilton (Brian) and son Robert Jay (Debbie), her granddaughter, Cristy Lynn Testino (Peter) and her great-granddaughter Ava Rosemarie.  She is predeceased by her parents, Richard and Mary Wills, her six brothers,: Richard Verdun, Frederick (Bubs), James, John (Chick), Harold and Gerald (Pete), and two sisters: Mildred (Millie) Scialpi and Helene Balon.

In lieu of flowers, the Williams family asks for memorial contributions in Rosemarie’s name to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.\

Thomas James Mulraney, 82, of Wayne passed away on Thursday, February 29, 2024 following an unexpected accident on Monday, February 26th. He was surrounded by his family.

Thomas was born on October 27, 1941 in Rhyl/Prestatyn, Wales, United Kingdom to Thomas and Ethel Mulraney (née Warburton). His mother and sisters had evacuated from Liverpool, England to Wales during the Blitz of WWII. He was the fifth of seven children and

the only son. Thomas grew up in Liverpool (Speake), England and attended Riversdale Technical College, where he studied Electrical Engineering. Throughout his youth he played rugby, soccer (football), and enjoyed fishing trips to Ireland.

Thomas spent time in Africa and worked throughout the world before coming to the United States in 1968 for a “short visit” to see his sister.  Soon after arriving, he met Janette McMullan of Yonkers, New York, through mutual friends and those plans were forever changed. They enjoyed spending time at Sherwood Island State Park and were married on November 1, 1970 at Trinity Lutheran Church in Scarsdale, New York. Thomas’s career as an engineer led him to start his own successful pneumatic tube system business. Thomas and Janette had four children: Elizabeth, Patricia, Thomas, and Meghan. They also had four grandchildren: Emily, Jack, Dallas, and Caden. Thomas and Janette were married for 53 years and were inseparable.

Thomas is survived his wife, Janette, daughter, Patricia Kaminski (Marc), son, Thomas Mulraney II, daughter, Meghan Mulraney, and grandsons he absolutely adores, Jack, Dallas, and Caden Kaminski. He loved the outdoors, music, art, his garden, and his birds. He was active, energetic, loved life, and could fix anything. Thomas attended St. Paul’s Evangelical Lutheran Church of the Incarnation in Pompton Lakes. He was a doting and loving husband, beloved father, and proud grandfather. He was adored by his family and those who knew him, and will forever be missed.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Spiro Stilianessis, age 93, of Wayne, NJ.

Spiro passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 27, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his wife and beloved Pomeranian. He was born and raised on the island of Kefalonia, Greece and was one of nine children to Panayotis and Amalia Stilianessis. Spiro's journey through life took an unusual path from the very start. At the age of six he began working for his family on their lands and tending to the herds. As the years unfolded, his ambition to build a better life for himself and his family led him to working as a server in the port of Piraeus, and later as a chef on merchant marine vessels. He spent ten years on the ships, traveling the globe extensively and exposing himself to many different cultures.

Despite leaving school at age six, Spiro displayed an extraordinary desire to progress despite his lack of formal education, teaching himself to read and write fluently in Greek. In 1959, Spiro, in search of a better life and the “American Dream,” jumped ship, immigrating to the United States. Upon arriving in America, he settled in New York City. After a short time, Spiro moved across the Hudson River to the town of Bayonne where he realized his entrepreneurial dreams by founding Spiro’s Lunch Truck which he owned and operated for many years. In 1978, Spiro expanded his entrepreneurial vision, by establishing with his brother Jerry, and sister Lily, the King George Diner in Wayne, NJ. Spiro and his brother Jerry devoted their lives to operating the diner, creating a landmark in the community, and producing a welcoming atmosphere cherished by their customers. Spiro and his brother treasured and nurtured their business for more than three decades until selling the diner in 2010.

In April of 1973, Spiro traveled to Athens, Greece with his two children Fran and Peter from a previous marriage and was introduced, by family and friends, to Yiota Miaritis, a lovely woman raised in the mountains of central Greece. As fate would have it, the two instantly connected, however, only three days after being introduced, Spiro and his children had to return to the United States leaving his newfound love behind. Over the next several months, Spiro wrote nearly one hundred letters to Yiota. In 1974, Yiota followed Spiro to the US and on October 13, 1974, the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife at Evangelismos Greek Orthodox church in Jersey City, NJ.      

After getting married, the newlyweds lived in Bayonne for several years. While residing there, the couple welcomed the birth of their son, George, and their 2nd son Jerry was born soon after they moved to Wayne Township, where they raised the boys and have lived ever since. Spiro’s joy and purpose were his work. From a young age, Spiro exemplified an exceptional work ethic. He demonstrated unwavering diligence and dedication in everything he did, which was admired by many that knew him.  

When Spiro did have spare time, he enjoyed reading, watching Greek television shows, and movies, particularly Westerns. He also took great pleasure in gardening and landscaping his property. Aside from all of Spiro’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Spiro than providing for and spending time with his wife, his children, and his precious Pomeranians, Puffy and Jack, who truly were his best friends. Spiro and Yiota cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage together. Spiro was not only devoted to his family, but also to his Greek Orthodox Faith. He and his family were members of St. George Greek Orthodox Church in Clifton, NJ for decades.

In 1997, after working 7 days a week for nearly his entire professional life, Spiro experienced an acute health challenge resulting in a triple bypass heart surgery. This led to the realization that his personal health and well-being needed attention, so he began summering in Greece for a few months a year. Following his retirement, he and his wife would spend even more time at their home in Lagonissi, Greece where they created many beautiful memories with friends and family.

Spiro was a devoted husband and father that loved his family deeply. He had an infectious personality and could get everyone around him laughing with his often off-color humor. He was a special person who touched the lives of so many around him. He will be sincerely missed by his friends, family, and his community.

Spiro is survived by his wife Yiota Stilianessis of Wayne, NJ, his son George Stilianessis and his wife Michelle of Los Angeles, CA and his son Jerry Stilianessis and his wife Sophie of Topanga, CA, one daughter Fran Stilianessis of Alberta, Canada, one brother Jerry Stilianessis and his wife Mary-Ellen of North Haledon, NJ, two sisters; Nikki Cogdell of Deerfield Beach, FL, and Cornelia Pefani of Athens, Greece, four grandchildren; Lucas Roland, Nick Roland, Spyridon Stilianessis, and Gia Marie Stilianessis. He is also survived by his wife’s family whom he truly loved and called his own, and by his precious Pomeranian Jack. He was predeceased by his son Peter Stilianessis (2008), his siblings; Phillipo Stilianessis, Voula Tarazi, Maria Oster, Dimitri Stilianessis, and Lily Markham; and his Pomeranian Puffy.

Arthur William Van Decker, age 79, of Wayne, passed peacefully at home.

He was born in Sea Isle City, NJ to Arthur and Yolanda Van Decker and raised in Clifton. He graduated from Clifton High School, where he was President of the Honor Society, with the Class of 1962. He continued his education at the New Jersey Institute of Technology, Newark where he was on the Dean’s List and received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Engineering with the Class of 1966.

Art’s work history began when he was just fourteen years old as a golf caddy at the Upper Montclair Country Club in Clifton.  After college he worked at the Arrow Group in Wanaque as an Engineer where he worked his way through the corporate ladder to Vice President.  He went on to found Bolton Enterprises in Wayne in 1990, a distribution and sales company that he operated up until his passing.

Arthur met Patricia Shea through friends at Greenwood Lake.  After a first date to Rutt’s Hut in Clifton and a three year courtship Art proposed marriage while at Pat’s mother’s home in Bloomfield. 

Arthur was a man who embodied love, kindness, and a good heart.  He is known as a pop pop to his grandchildren, and they adore him for his loving, amazing strength and caring nature.  He was a strong-willed caretaker, always looking out for the well-being of others and making sure they were taken care of.  He was a hard-working individual who always went above and beyond in everything he did.  Most of all Arthur was the boss and left little doubt about it.  Leading with compassion and understanding, making sure everyone felt loved and supported.  He was a truly remarkable man who is going to be missed by all who knew him. 

He was the loving husband of fifty-eight years to Patricia (nee Shea) Van Decker; loving father of Diana Byrne and her husband Kevin of Montclair, Debbie Nouri and her husband John of Franklin Lakes, and Michelle Gettings and her fiancé Greg Woods of Essex Fells; he was the cherished grandfather of Kevin John Byrne, Ryan Arthur Byrne, Patricia Byrne, Gwenyth Gettings, John Nouri, and Dylan Nouri; he was the loved brother of Connie Van Decker of Little Falls, Judy Gumkowski and her husband Cliff of Montclair, John Van Decker and his wife Patti of Mantoloking, and the late Yolanda Nick (d. 1997). 

Those wishing to make a donate in Art's name are asked to consider the The American Heart Association &American Stroke Association, PO Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692.

Jacqueline Limite, 75, of Wayne passed peacefully on February 25, 2024. She was born in Jersey City, raised in Hoboken and Bloomfield NJ to Frank and Teresa Visceglie. Jacki graduated with a cosmetology license and soon after proudly opened up her own hair salon Ultima East. After many years, she opted to close the shop but continued doing hair out of her home for close family and friends. Jacki worked at Astro Bowl for many years doing what she loved until the bowling alley closed down. She finished her career working in the legal field up until September 2023 when she retired.

Jacki met the love of her life Robert and married in November 1969. They started their lives in Clifton, NJ, until they moved to Wayne where they raised 3 children, Robert, Cheryl and Michelle.

Jacki was predeceased by her loving husband Robert in 1984, her parents Frank and Teresa, her niece Nicole Burbidge, her grandson Vincent LaMorges and brother in law Jerry Wyman. She is survived by her 3 children. Robert & Nancy Limite, Cheryl & Dan LaMorges and Michelle Limite. She was the loving sister of Camille (Bob) Burbidge and Terry Wyman. She was a devoted grandmother to her 6 grandchildren. Robert and Eliza Limite, Tyler Walther & Gianna LaMorges, and Kyle & Collin Poirier. Also surviving are her nieces and nephew, Joseph, Tara and Danielle along with 7 great nieces and nephews.

Jacki’s joy was hosting holidays and many family get-togethers in her home. Alongside her mother for many years, they had enjoyed cooking and baking. You would always find family favorites of homemade pizza and onion pie on the table. Jacki would host the 7 fish Christmas Eve dinner every year where you never knew when the last course was coming. She enjoyed making pignoli, sfogliatelle and rainbow cookies for her family.

Jacki always made sure she attended every birthday, school event, graduation and sporting event for all her grandchildren. They were her pride and joy.

Jacki was a Dallas Cowboy fan and never missed watching the games on TV. She was also an avid bowler her whole life, competing on many teams and traveling to many places including Las Vegas and Atlantic City. She also liked taking trips to Atlantic City with her cousin and friends gambling and enjoying many shows.

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Andrea Jane (Gray) Morante, age 48, died suddenly in her home in Wayne, NJ on February 25, 2024.

Following her family's emigration from Belfast, Northern Ireland, Andrea was born in Coventry, England on August 11, 1975.  In 1979, Andrea and her family immigrated from Coventry to Parsippany, NJ where they started their life in the U.S. at Park Lake Village amongst loving family and an extensive cast of characters.  She was the cherished daughter of Andrew and Rose Gray, devoted wife to Tom Morante and loving mother to their children Eva Morante and Rachel Morante, loyal sister to Mark Gray and his wife Lorie K. Smith, and beloved aunt to Mark and Lorie’s son Liam Gray.  Andrea was also adored by her father in law and mother in law Peter and Jane Morante, brother in law Chris Morante along with his wife Robin Morante and their son Michael Morante.  Andrea was very much loved by her extended family and numerous friends, especially her aunts, uncles and cousins.  

Andrea attended Parsippany, NJ public schools and graduated from Parsippany High School in 1993.  A highly accomplished and well-rounded student, Andrea was a member of the National Honors Society and played on the field hockey, basketball, track & field, and softball teams for the high school.  She continued her education at Bentley College in Waltham, MA where she continued to thrive including a semester studying abroad at Cambridge in England followed by a backpacking trek around Western Europe.  During her time in college, Andrea made life-long friends, was a passionate member of Bentley’s Women's Rugby Team and was inducted into numerous honors societies.  She graduated Magna Cum Laude with a B.S. in Accounting from Bentley in 1997.

After graduating college, Andrea joined then-prestigious public accounting firm Arthur Andersen in Boston, MA, earned her certified public accountant license in Massachusetts and later transferred to the company's office in Stamford, CT.  During her time in public accounting, Andrea formed great friendships with her teammates while primarily covering clients in the high tech and medical industries.  Following the unprecedented (and unwarranted?) demise of Arthur Andersen after the Enron scandal, she joined Diageo in Norwalk, CT as a director of financial planning & analysis until the time of her oldest daughter's (Eva) birth in 2005.  She later worked part-time at Ready, Set, Grow Preschool in Wayne, NJ where she was an adored and invaluable preschool instructor before departing in 2020.  Andrea was proud to have earned her U.S. citizenship during her adult life.

It is impossible to overstate the love, care and effort Andrea put into anything and everything involving her family and friends.  She was the most reliable and dependable person known to her family and friends and willingly took on tasks and responsibilities for the benefit of the group, always with a smile on her face and hugs for everyone.  Andrea loved gatherings with family and friends, large or small.  By the end of each get-together she always seemed to make new friends while strengthening the relationships with everyone she knew. 

Andrea was a beloved member of her neighborhood, local schools and community.  She was an active member of the Wayne PTOs at Theunis Dey Elementary School and Schuyler Colfax Middle School along with the Moms Club of Wayne and, more recently, a volunteer at Interscholastic Equestrian Association (IEA) competitions at Saddle Ridge Riding Center in Franklin Lakes, NJ where her daughter Rachel rides and is a member of the IEA team.  A self-taught cook (with tips early on from cooking shows), Andrea took joy in bringing delicious goodies to every gathering she attended, which were always well received.  An avid and loyal sports fan, she cheered for her local teams especially the legendary NY Yankees and NY Jets (who rarely gave her anything to cheer about) and good-heartedly loathed her teams' rivals (especially a certain despised baseball team in Boston).  Andrea proudly attended and thoroughly enjoyed her children's activities including lots of dance classes and competitions with Eva and horse riding lessons and competitions with Rachel.  In her downtime, she enjoyed unwinding by watching The Golden Girls and Everybody Loves Raymond or catching the end of one of her favorite movies on TV.  

Andrea met her husband and love Tom during their time at Bentley College, though neither knew it until they began dating shortly after graduation.  Andrea and Tom were engaged during their semi-long distance relationship and married on May 5, 2001 at Saint Peter the Apostle Church in Parsippany, NJ before going on their honeymoon in Hawaii followed by many other trips, vacations and adventures as partners and soulmates.  They originally lived in Norwalk, CT before settling in Wayne, NJ in 2007 to be closer to family, especially Andrea's parents Andy and Rose Gray.  

Vacations were precious to Andrea, especially when they included traveling or visiting with family and friends.  Watching the kids grow during annual trips to the New England shores of Weekapaug, RI and York Beach, ME created wonderful memories and special bonds.  The epic family vacation to Ballycastle, Northern Ireland, planned by Andrea (of course), was a rare and magical experience the provided for quality time with Andy and Rose’s family overseas (as well as the local pubs).  Group vacations to Wildwood, NJ solidified familial relationships with special local friends.      

In lieu of flowers, please consider making donations to the Wayne Interfaith Network Food Pantry, a 501 (c)(3) non profit organization based in Wayne, NJ that provides food to community members in need.

Joseph Schmidt, age 88, a 55-year resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, February 25, 2024, with the comfort of family by his side.

Joseph was born in Bakonyjako (Jaka), Hungary. He left Hungary in 1956 and immigrated to the United States in 1957 in search of a better life. Here he reconnected with his brother, Johann and his wife Therea, his father Ignatz and many other relatives and friends from his hometown who all journeyed on similar paths for a better life. In 1957 he reconnected with a woman that went to grade school with him—Anna Huber. 

Joseph met the love of his life at a picnic in Paterson and in 1958 Joseph and Anna (nee Huber) settled in Paterson before moving to Wayne a few years later. They enjoyed a 58-year marriage until her death in 2016. 

Joseph had a strong work ethic and always provided for his wife and family. He was a mold maker by trade, and worked many years with Carlson Tool Company, Inc.  In 1979 his life-long dream became a realization when he started his own business, Schmidt Mold & Die Co. A few years later he was proud to have his son, Joe, join him as a partner in the business. Joseph remained with the company until his retirement.

Joseph was predeceased by his wife, parents, and his siblings. He leaves behind his son Joseph M. Schmidt and his wife Jem of Swindon, UK, daughter Maryann Cecere and her husband Matthew of Wayne; his grandchildren:  Jessica Schmidt, Gregory Schmidt, and his wife Sara, Jason Cecere and Nicole Cecere. 

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Lois O"Hara, age 85, of Pompton Plains, NJ.  

Lois passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 24, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  

Lois Loved flowers and gardening.  She worked for a local florist for a few years before starting her own business, Flowers by Lois, in Wayne.  Her creativity in designing arrangements made her business successful and brought joy to many brides and recipients of her beautiful work.

When she retired, she loved working in the gardens at her home in Pompton Plains.  She made many friends who shared her love of gardening.

Lois also loved animals, especially dogs, birds, and chipmunks.  If you choose to donate to an organization that strives to improve the lives of animals, it would make her truly happy.