Viktor Tkaczenko, 93, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Sunday, October 20 with his loving family by his side. He was born to Alexander and Julia Tkaczenko on May 7, 1931 in Tagenrog, Ukraine. Together with his older sister Clara and his parents, they resided there until World War II broke out. They were forced to work for the German Army when the front reached Ukraine in 1943.

The family was taken to work in a German field hospital and later at a munitions factory in Germany. In 1945, Viktor, then 15 years old was living with his parents and sister in a bombed-out building, scavenging for food and taking cover when the allied planes approached to drop war bombs. They then spent 4 years in a displaced persons camp before the family had the opportunity to immigrate to the United States.

Viktor and his parents arrived in America via a liberty ship in 1949, and he enlisted in the United States Army during the Korean War so he could serve his new country and earn his citizenship within 3 years. Because of his fluency in 5 languages, he was assigned to the Berlin Military Intelligence Compound. After completing his service, he was sent to Fort Dix for his honorable discharge and was sworn in as a United States Citizen in 1955.

Viktor was loving, caring and devoted to his family and always spoke his mind. He was so very blessed to have had two wonderful wives in his lifetime. He married his first wife, Elizabeth in 1955 and had two children together, Teresa who was born in 1960 and Craig who was born in 1964. They spent 28 loving years together until her passing in April of 1983.

Viktor had many hobbies, and thoroughly enjoyed snow and water skiing, scuba diving, and vacationing yearly with his family at Schroon Lake, NY with his boat. He had a love for cars, old and new, but mostly antique cars. He restored many cars over the years, and being the perfectionist he was, everything was meticulous and the end result was impeccable 

While working on the management team at Polychrome Corporation, he met his second wife, Beverly. They spent 37 loving and wonderful years together. She always said he was her “soulmate”. They were very active during their years together, traveling to many interesting places and vacation destinations. They were members of many organizations including the Cadillac LaSalle Club, and the Cadillac Club of North Jersey. He restored a 1962 Cadillac Eldorado Biarritz for Beverly with a plaque on the dashboard which reads: “Owned and restored by Viktor Tkaczenko for Beverly – 2000.” They were also active members of the Harley-Davidson Motorcycle Club, and the Army Air Corp Historical Association. 

Viktor is survived by his wife of 37 years, Beverly (nee Chasin) Tkaczenko, his daughter Terry (nee Tkaczenko) Reilly and her husband Ken Reilly, his son Craig Viktor Tkaczenko and his wife Danielle (nee Massood) Tkaczenko, his three granddaughters, Kathryn Reilly, Jacqueline & Madison Tkaczenko, and nieces and nephews. He was pre-deceased by his parents Alexander & Julia Tkaczenko, his sister Clara (nee Tkaczenko) Shore and his first wife, Elizabeth (nee Wershkoff) Tkaczenko.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Viktor Tkaczenko’s name to the Dementia Society of America at dementiasociety.org.

Antonia Manente, age 82 of Wayne, died on Sunday, October 20, 2024. She has lived in Wayne since 1989. Antonia retired in 2007 from the Union City schools where she had been a teacher’s aid for seventeen years. 

Antonia was born and raised in Gravina, Italy, near Bari. She was one of ten children in her family: eight girls and two boys. Her family was very religious and deeply involved in their Catholic church. As a teenager, she was considering the idea of becoming a nun but that all changed one day when she met Antonio Manente. Antonio was a patient at the hospital where she had been working, and they quickly fell for each other. They were married on September 4, 1960, but there was no time for a honeymoon. Her husband moved to America, and they waited two years before they could be together again. Antonia had never ventured very far from her hometown when, at just twenty years old, she boarded a plane and flew to New Jersey where she settled in Hoboken with her new husband. They lived there, and then in Union City for several years, before buying a home in Wayne in 1989. They enjoyed a loving and loyal marriage of more than sixty years before Antonio passes away in 2020, and she has missed him ever since.

Antonia was certainly the matriarch of the Manente family. She was a strong and hard-working woman who always stressed the importance of loving one another. Her children recall how devoted she was to her Catholic faith throughout all the years of her life. She joined many prayer groups and bible studies, read her bible often, and attended mass regularly. Psalm 23 was among those she read most often. She was also a devoted grandmother to her nine grandchildren, and she was blessed with three great-grandchildren. Each of them filled her with love and joy. Her cup runneth over.

Antonia is survived by her four children; Vito Manente of Union City, NJ, Filomena Manente of Jupiter, FL, Nancy Antolini (Justin) of Wyomissing, PA, and Tony “Reno” Manente (Brianna) of Franklin Lakes, NJ, nine grandchildren; Christina, Vito, Anthony, Victoria, Jacob, Roger, Antonia, Antonio James, and Reno, and three great-grandchildren; CJ, Juliana, and Eleanora. She is also survived by six of her siblings: Graciella, Franca, Josephine, Tina, Rose, and Vito. She was predeceased by her husband, Antonio, in 2020, and by three of her siblings; Francesco, Elvira, and Maria.

King Fan Hsu was born on November 25, 1936, in the bustling port city of Keelung, Taiwan, then known as Formosa. The eldest of seven siblings—five brothers and two sisters—King grew up with a strong sense of responsibility. During World War II, as Taiwan was occupied by Japan, his family fled south to escape the ravages of war. After the conflict ended, they resettled in Taipei, where King began to shape his future.

After serving a year in the Taiwanese army in 1961, King pursued his education in chemical engineering. He graduated from National Cheng Kung University in 1963 and soon began working as a food research engineer at Taiwan Pineapple Corporation in Yuanlin. It was during this time that he met Grace, after delivering fresh oranges to her family. They married on August 3, 1964, in Taipei, embarking on a life together that would span continents and decades.

With encouragement from a coworker, King immigrated to the United States in pursuit of better opportunities, although immigration laws forced him to leave Grace behind for two long years. After landing in Hawaii, King first attended Missouri University of Science and Technology, and finished his education at St. Joseph’s University in Philadelphia. There, he spent weekdays studying diligently and weekends cooking in Chinese restaurants near Valley Forge. His hard work supported his education, and he graduated in November 1967 with a master’s degree in chemical engineering.

In December 1966, King was finally reunited with Grace in Philadelphia. Their family grew with the birth of two daughters — Belle and Candice. Soon, King’s career took the family to Cleveland, Ohio, when King proudly became a naturalized U.S. citizen.

In 1977, a new job took the family to New Jersey, first to Little Falls and later to their permanent home in Wayne in 1985. In 1979, they returned to Taiwan for a family reunion — King and Grace's first trip back since immigrating. It was a special journey, as he introduced his daughters to their extended family and shared with them the beauty and richness of their Taiwanese roots. Over the next few years, the family returned to Taiwan several times, as well as welcoming more family members to the USA.

A dedicated family man, King was always committed to learning. When his daughters left for college, leaving an empty nest, King surprised them by enrolling in evening classes to learn American Sign Language to communicate better with them. He had a passion for languages, over life learning Japanese, Cantonese, Mandarin, English, and even a bit of German. His work in microelectronics earned him recognition, including roles as president and speaker for local societies in New Jersey, as well as accolades for his contributions to the Environmental Protection Agency.

Though he semi-retired in 2001, King never fully stopped working, taking on different contract projects. In his later years, he found joy in gardening, cultivating the best tomatoes, and indulging his artistic side by contributing pencil drawings of nature and people to local art shows. His interest in technology also grew, as he embraced computers and the internet as new hobbies. He loved celebrating his birthday with trips to Atlantic City to play penny poker machines, and frequent trips to the Jersey shore for seafood and sightseeing.

King Fan Hsu’s journey was one of love, resilience, and dedication. He touched the lives of many, leaving behind a legacy of hard work, kindness, and an enduring love for his family and new son-in-law Bruce, with 60 years of marriage, and his deep love of his new adopted country. He will be deeply missed but forever remembered by all who knew him.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Darryn Stewart, age 54, of Passaic, NJ.

Darryn passed away unexpectedly on Friday, October 18, 2024 at his home in Passaic, NJ. He was born at The Barnet Hospital in Paterson, NJ and raised in Passaic where he attended Passaic High School as a young man. While at Passaic HS, he was a member of the Varsity Football Team and proudly wore number 76 as an offensive and defensive lineman. After graduating in 1988 he worked in security for several years in addition to a variety of other ventures. 

Darryn had always believed in love, although he never expected to find it online. When he met Marlyse in 2008, an instant connection sparked between them. Marlyse knew the moment she met him that he would be the person she would marry. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on February 27, 2010 they exchanged vows in a beautiful ceremony surrounded by family and friends at Bridgeway Community Church in Haledon, NJ.

Shortly after they were married, the newlyweds purchased their first home in Passaic, NJ and resided there for the duration of their marriage. Darryn and Marlyse cherished 14 years of a loving and loyal marriage to each other. 

Darryn loved to fish. With Marlyse at his side, they enjoyed many afternoons fishing together at their favorite spots in North Haledon and Franklin Lakes. When they weren't fishing, they often woke up early excited to look for hidden treasures at flea markets and garage sales. Marlyse and Darryn also spent many adventures at Garret Mountain and Third Ward Park enjoying bbq's and blue claw crabs, Darryn's favorite. During the summer months they enjoyed watching fireworks and during Halloween and Christmas they would drive around and look at the decorations and lights.

Darryn and Marlyse also found joy in their shared evenings together. They often would settle in and watch various shows about the adventurous lives of people who lived in the wilderness, with some of their favorites being Alaska: The Last Frontier, Mountain Men, and Alaskan Bush People.

They also loved to watch their favorite sports teams play. When it came to baseball, they both rooted for the New York Yankees. But when it came to football, they disagreed. Darryn was a diehard Dallas Cowboys fan through and through. He would root for the New York Giants, Marlyse's favorite team, but when the teams played each other, which is twice a season, things at the house would get interesting. 

Darryn was also an avid fan of music. He loved all types of music and would have the  radio on 24/7. His favorite artist was Keith Sweat. One night Darryn called the radio station to make a song request and Keith picked up the phone. They spoke with each other for more than a few minutes. Darryn was elated and the conversation left a lasting impression on him.  

Darryn was a very kind and caring person. His kindness made him a truly special person, one that would leave a lasting impact on everyone fortunate enough to know him. Darryn also made Valentine's Day, anniversaries, and birthdays very special for Marlyse. His gestures were sentimental, and gifts were thoughtful and personalized. 

Darryn is survived by his wife Marlyse Vanderwal of Passaic, NJ, his daughter Dasia Stewart of Orange, NJ, his son Darryn Stewart stationed in Guam with the US Navy, his son Dazire Stewart (aka Nunu) of Orange, NJ, his brother Dexter Stewart of Pennsylvania, his brother Dorian Stewart of Paterson, NJ, and three granddaughters. He was predeceased by his parents Willie and Polly Stewart.

Those who wish to make donations in Darryn’s name are asked to consider Bridgeway Community Church, 381 Haledon Ave, Haledon, NJ 07508.

Wayne was born in Hackensack, New Jersey and raised in Woodridge, New Jersey.  He graduated from Woodridge High School in 1947 where he ran track and field before enlisting in the US Army in 1951.  He served active duty in Germany and later in the Reserves until his honorable discharge in 1957.

Wayne was a dedicated member of the IUOE 825 for over 65 years.  During this time, he worked with his father and brother on the third tube of the Lincoln Tunnel, helped build the original Giants Stadium, Meadowlands Racetrack, and many of the roads we drive on every day.  Wayne completed his career with HMDC/ Waste Management in 1994.  

Wayne possessed a strong work ethic instilled in him as a young child; doing chores, helping his parents, learning the basics of survival, from cooking, laundry, sewing, to maintaining the house and yard, and of course the ability to fix anything.  His mind was always working on how to make things better.  He would often say, “Good, better, best, never let it rest, ‘till your good is better, and your better is best!”  Evidence of his creativity is everywhere; he was a real-life “MacGyver”.  He was a quiet, honest man, strong and brave, never blinking in the face of danger.  He lived each day as it came.  His motto was, “You have to keep moving, to keep moving.”

He was a devoted family man who also enjoyed the company of the family pets.  No matter how busy he was, he always took time to throw a ball with his daughter Marsha.  In the 1970’s the family had their share of pets, a devoted cat named Taffy, and even a pet squirrel named Frisky, who one day decided to run inside the leg of his coveralls!  His genuine love of animals and nature ran deep, he enjoyed feeding chipmunks and birds, and as a young boy, could be found fishing, playing in the woods, and making friends with all of God’s creatures. In addition, Wayne enjoyed snow skiing, water skiing, boating, and was an avid reader.

He was a loving husband, father, grandfather and best friend.  Wayne is survived by his daughter Marsha, her loving companion, Frank Sykes, a beautiful granddaughter Jennifer, sisters-in-law, Lorraine and Maureen, cousins, and many friends.  He was predeceased by his wife of 50 years, Joan K. Sager, his parents, George and Ann (Himko) Sager, and two brothers, George and Frederick.  Collectively, all would agree, you could never know a better man.

Kathleen Marshall, age 79 of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Monday, October 14, 2024. 

Born in Kilkerrin, Ireland and raised in the town of Glenamaddy, County Galway by her loving mom Nellie, Kathy moved to New Haven, Connecticut at just 12 years old. She and her mom eventually settled in Cleveland, Ohio to be closer to her extended family. There she graduated from St. Michael’s High School. 

From a young age, Kathy had a great work ethic inspired by her mom. Nellie went above and beyond to provide for her daughter, raising her as a single parent and Kathy never took that for granted. She seized an opportunity out of high school to work for the American Greetings Card Company and worked her way up to become the Executive Secretary to the VP of Distribution!

While working for American Greetings, Kathy also had a passion for hockey that manifested in her involvement with both the National and the American Hockey League Booster Clubs. It was at one of these conventions that she first met Frank Marshall in 1984. Frank had to return to New Jersey shortly after their meeting, but their chance encounter left a lasting impression. They sent letters back and forth to each other without the convenience of cell phones to help them communicate. Frank felt connected to Kathy right away. When she sent him a letter explaining that her favorite Sunday was spent watching football on TV and eating dinner on snack trays at halftime, Frank knew she was the one. The two fell in love and just three years after that first meeting, they were married. Kathy and Frank ended up moving to Pompton Lakes, NJ and have lived there ever since. They often thought about moving back to Ohio, but the community they helped create here in New Jersey was just too great and they found themselves at home in the Garden state. 

Once in New Jersey, Kathy continued her professional career by earning a job at Castrol Motor Oil in Wayne. She worked as an accountant with the company until she retired in 2008. Soon after, she was recruited by the owners to work at Thatcher McGhee’s in Pompton Lakes, NJ as a bookkeeper. Kathy loved her Irish heritage and Thatcher’s was a piece of her heritage here in New Jersey that her friends and family all loved.

Kathy loved to give back to her community and did so with the most valuable resource anyone can give: her time. Kathy was involved in the Pompton Lakes Fire Department Ladies Auxiliary where she served for a time as their President. She was also part of the Pompton Lakes Elks where she served on the Motorcycle committee. She was a devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s Church most notably contributing to the St. Mary’s food pantry. She was part of the Ladies Ancient Order of Hibernias and the Ladies of the Knights both in North Wildwood, Cape May County. Still, she found time for the Emerald’s Society – an Irish American fraternal organization centered around police and fire members. Last, but not least, she took part in several different hockey organizations including: Past secretary for the American Hockey League Booster Club Association, member of the National Hockey League Booster Club Association, and a lifetime member of the Cleveland Hockey Booster Club Association for her 65 years of commitment to that organization. 

Those who were fortunate enough to know Kathy will remember her for her endlessly selfless nature. She always put others before herself and loved to see them enjoying her countless baked treats or home made chocolates. When you walked past Frank and Kathy’s home, you were almost guaranteed the aromas of an early morning fresh bakery. Their home was a delight to the neighborhood and Kathy will be dearly missed by the entire community. 

The family is requesting no flowers. In lieu of flowers, a donation to St. Mary’s Food Pantry, a beloved organization that Kathy was involved in for years would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gloria E. Thompson (nee Casson), age 79, of Woodland Park, NJ.

Gloria passes peacefully on Monday, October 14, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Gloria was born in the city of Paterson and attended St Mary’s Elementary School.  She was one of two children to Gloria and Edward Casson.  While still a young girl, Gloria’s father Edward Casson was tragically killed in World War II.  After several years, her mother remarried and the family moved to Wayne, NJ.  While living in Wayne, Gloria attended Holy Cross Elementary School and later De Paul High School also located in Wayne.  Gloria graduated from De Paul High School with class of 1963 and immediately enrolled in a secretarial school in Paterson.

After earning her Associates Degree, Gloria found employment quickly and accepted a position as a secretary in the library at William Paterson College, now known as William Paterson University.  Gloria spent nearly the next thirty years at William Paterson University until retiring almost twenty-five years ago.  In Gloria’s retirement, she worked part-time as a receptionist in a wedding showplace in Wayne.   Gloria thrived in her part-time role where the air was always filled with excitement.  She genuinely enjoyed meeting with couples and helping guide them through the maze of planning their perfect day.  Her warm smile and keen attention to detail made her a pleasure to work with.

As a teenager at De Paul High School, Gloria attended the yearly high school dance.  While talking with a fellow classmate at the dance, a boy named Arthur Thompson approached her with a shy smile and asked, “Cass, you wanna dance?”  Their connection was instant, and what began as a simple twirl under the stars blossomed into a whirlwind romance. The two quickly became high school sweethearts.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 27, 1970, several years after their graduation, surrounded by friends and family, they sealed their love with vows becoming husband and wife at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

The newlyweds first lived in an apartment in Whippany, NJ where they only lived for a few months.  They moved to another apartment in Haledon where they lived for about a year before purchasing their first home in that same town.  Two years later the couple moved to Woodland Park, NJ where they have called their home ever since.  

Arthur and Gloria treasured traveling together throughout the years particularly by way of cruise ships.  Gloria and Arthur visited a variety of exotic destinations throughout the Caribbean, their favorite being the island of Bermuda.  Arthur and Gloria cherished fifty-four years of loving and loyal marriage together.  

Gloria was the embodiment of positivity, known for her outgoing nature and infectious smile that brightened any room she entered. Despite facing numerous challenges in her life, she approached each day with an unwavering enthusiasm for her work, inspiring those around her.  Although she had a lot to complain about, she never did.  Gloria will be forever remembered as a loving, devoted wife and a truly wonderful and dedicated friend to those who knew her.

Gloria is survived by her husband Arthur Thompson of Woodland Park, NJ, her sister-in-law Lynn Linch and her husband Frederick of New York State, her sister-in-law Joy Thompson of Madison, NJ, and five nieces; Christine, Tracey, Jennifer, Jamie, and Jennifer Casson, and three nephews Earl, Edward, and John.  She was predeceased by her brother Edward Casson and her nephew William Thompson.

 It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Daniel Vander Kooy, age 90, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Daniel passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 16, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in Passaic and raised in Wayne.  Daniel was one of four children to Daniel and Nellie Vander Kooy.  While living in Wayne, he attended high school at Eastern Christian School in Haledon.  Following his high school graduation, Daniel found employment with Bell Telephone, now known as AT&T.  After a few years working with NJ Bell, Daniel received the call to serve his country in the United States Army.  He was stationed in Germany while serving in the Army from 1957 until being honorably discharged in 1959.

Upon returning home from his service with the Army, Daniel resumed his position at NJ Bell and over the years worked his way up the corporate ladder to a Mid-Level Executive position.   His career with Bell/AT&T spanned a period of thirty-two years until his retirement in 1987.

As newlyweds, Daniel and Wilma lived for a short time in Little Falls, then in 1961 moved to Pompton Plains.  While living in Pompton Plains, they welcomed the births of both their sons, Kenneth and Glenn.  Daniel and Wilma raised their family in Pompton Plains and called it their home for the rest of their lives together. 

Daniel was an avid fisherman to put it mildly.  He treasured freshwater fishing at a variety of locations in New Jersey, his favorite fishing hole being Round Valley Reservoir in Clinton Township.  He was a member of the Round Valley Trout Association (RVTA) for many years.

Daniel also had a passion for woodworking, in his workshop he also loved tinkering with electronics and old clocks, bringing forgotten gadgets back to life with his skillful hands. When he wasn’t immersed in his projects, Daniel could be found tending to his vibrant garden, where he nurtured an array of colorful flowers and fresh vegetables.  He always made sure that his front and back yards were meticulously manicured.

Aside from all of Daniel’s talents, hobbies, and interests. His greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Daniel than providing for and spending time with his family. He and his wife Wilma cherished sixty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  He was not only devoted to his family, but also to his Christian Faith.

Daniel will be forever remembered as a loving husband, and truly devoted father, and grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Daniel is survived by his wife Wilma Vander Kooy (nee Douma) of Pompton Plains, NJ, his two sons; Kenneth Vander Kooy of Hastings, NY, and Glenn Vander Kooy of Wayne, NJ, two grandchildren; Lauren Vander Kooy of Nutley, NJ, and Danielle Vander Kooy of Woodland Park, NJ.  He was predeceased by his brother Edo Vander Kooy, and his two sisters Ruth and Jennie.

Eleanor Mensonides, nee Bhend, aged 74, of Vernon, New Jersey, passed Thursday, October 10, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

Eleanor was born to Joseph and Ruth Bhend in Paterson and graduated from Kinnelon High School with the class of 1966. 

Eleanor’s first job was as a cashier for the A&P in the Meadtown Shopping Center in Kinnelon, followed by various waitressing jobs, working in supermarkets, and eventually for the Township of Vernon, as its first Recycling Coordinator.  She then moved to the Sussex County Municipal Utilities Authority (SCMUA) as Assistant Recycling Coordinator and Enforcement.  She later joined the Sussex County Health Department as a County Health Inspector, where she continued to serve her community.  She drafted some of the legislation governing wasteflow regulation, which has had immeasurable impact on keeping our landfills free of illegally transported or dumped material.  In keeping with her interest in protecting our lands she became involved in town and county matters, running twice for Township Committee in Vernon, sitting on the Economic Development Commission for Vernon, serving on the Sussex County Solid Waste Advisory Council (SWAC) for twenty-seven years and twenty-two years on the Sussex County Water Quality Policy Advisory Committee (PAC).

Never has the fiery redhead reputation been better earned than by Eleanor.  Anyone who knew her for more than a few minutes realized she was a force to be reckoned with, and it was so much better for your cause if you had her in your corner.  She was smart, savvy, and shrewd.  If she believed in something, she dove in with both feet, overcame any obstacles, and saw her passion projects through to the end.  Case in point, the proposed burial of yards and yards of radium tainted soil within Vernon’s farmland in 1986.  She was one of the local firebrands who went to Trenton to protest the judgement to dump the tainted soil without the town being represented in court.  She also was involved in fundraising for two township residents to help with the medical costs associated with their liver transplants. Through all this she was a person who was always ready with a smile, a contagious laugh, and a great sense of humor.  She laughed loudest at herself and laughed best with friends and family.

Eleanor met her one true love as a teenager at The Cave under the clubhouse in Fayson Lakes. She and Rudi were married on April 27, 1968, by the Reverend Bernardine Kessing at St. Anthony’s RC Church on Bartholdi Avenue in Butler after Rudi’s tour in Vietnam.  They settled in Bloomingdale’s Morris Lakes neighborhood, where they had their two daughters, Monica and Melissa.  The family soon moved to the Netherlands to be close to Rudi’s family, then to the Barry Lakes section of Vernon, followed by another move to Dordrecht, Netherlands, and finally back to Vernon, where they have lived since 1980.  Rudi and Ellie’s love lasts beyond the fifty-six years of their marriage.

Ellie is predeceased by her parents, Joseph and Ruth Bhend, and her brother Joseph.  She is survived by her beloved husband Rudi Mensonides, sister JoAnna Sheridan-Costanzo, brother Robert Bhend, daughters Monica Rolando, Melissa Mensonides, grandchildren Robert Brochhausen, Brandie Rolando, Victoria Costa, and Dion Rolando, as well as her large extended family. Her passing leaves a hole in the hearts of her family, and she will be missed beyond words.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Heart Association would be greatly appreciated.

Virginia Di Maria (nee Baldanza), age 100, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 9, 2024, with her family at her side.

She was born at home in Passaic to Liborio and Rosina Baldanza on July 5,1924. Virginia graduated from Passaic High School with the Class of 1941. Virginia met the love of her life Charles Di Maria in high school when Virginia passed a candy heart to Charles in homeroom. They enjoyed their first date at Rutt’s Hut and the rest is history! In 1943, Charles was called to serve in WWII and was stationed by the US Army in California. Virginia, accompanied by her sister Sara, followed soon after traveling cross country by train. Charles was able to get a leave from the Army just long enough to marry Virginia on September 17, 1943, at St. Patrick's Church in Watsonville, California. While in California, Virginia worked at a bus depot where she became a skilled bookkeeper. Just before the war ended, her husband was transferred to the Hawaiian Island of Oahu and expecting her first child Virginia moved back to Passaic, NJ to live with her mom. She gave birth to her first daughter Barbara while her husband was stationed in Hawaii. Soon after the war ended, Charles returned to the States and they lived in the Army barracks in Passaic. As the family grew, they moved to Wayne in 1954, where they would live the rest of their lives and raise their family. Their marriage was blessed with three more children: Charles, Linda, and Diane. Virginia and Charles were married for nearly 75 years before his passing in April of 2018.

Virginia was the epitome of the perfect wife and mother with a reserved demeanor that exuded grace and elegance. Her family would tease her as she would sometimes refer to herself as “Ginny Perfect”!  She was known for her meticulous attention to detail in her dress, always appearing immaculately “put together”.  Her home reflected her impeccable standards, always taking pride in maintaining a pristine home. While she had a passion for fashion, she began her retail career at Wechsler’s in Passaic, followed by several area retail boutiques including Belle’s at Willowbrook Mall and Fun & Fashion, both in Wayne. Behind her gentle exterior, she possessed a strong-willed, independent, and determined spirit, always standing firm in her beliefs and values. Above all, her love for her family was unwavering, serving as the foundation of her strength and devotion.

For many years she enjoyed traveling with her husband, spending summers at Green Pond, and wintering at PGA National in West Palm Beach, FL. All while maintaining her home in Wayne as a place for her family to gather for holidays and family get-togethers. Her children fondly remember Sunday Macaroni dinners, fighting over the last meatball, and Christmas celebrations in the basement of their home. Her grandchildren and great-great grandchildren will always remember her as being the Mrs. Claus to her husband’s Santa Claus. Virginia loved to read and enjoyed visits to the Wayne library and the weekly “beauty parlor” visits! Both she and Charles were members of the Wayne Elks and the North Jersey Country Club in Wayne.

Virginia was the loving wife of the late Charles Di Maria (d. 2018); loving mother of the late Barbara Sova (d.2022) and her surviving husband Dr. Robert Sova of West Milford, Charles E. Di Maria and his wife Geraldine of Barnegat, Linda Finke and her husband Frank of Wood-Ridge, and Diane Di Maria of Voorhees. She was the proud grandmother of Laurie Dittmeier (Paul), Robert Sova, Jr. (Gissela), Charles Di Maria (Cara), Joseph Di Maria (Holly), Stephen Di Maria, Kevin Finke, Melissa Crews (Raymond), and Stephanie Finke (Karin). She was also the cherished “Mema” of Kylee and Ryan Dittmeier, Louis and Ashlynn Di Maria, Gianna and Vincent Di Maria, Anthony Finke, Emilie Christensen, and Kameron, Makayla, Lexi, and Ryleigh Crews. Affectionately known as Aunt Ginny to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Gloria Y. McCormick, age 96, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 8, 2024 surrounded by family in her home. Gloria had lived in Wayne since 1954 before moving to Cedar Crest Village, Pompton Plains, in 2004.

Gloria was born to LeRoy and Marie Yereance on Dec. 23, 1927 and grew up in Wood-Ridge, NJ. Gloria lived a life full of love, dedication, and service. She graduated from Wood-Ridge High School in 1945 where she met her husband Harold A. McCormick. They were married on June 24, 1951 at the Presbyterian Church of Wood-Ridge. In 1954, they moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne and began to raise a family. They were blessed with three children; Nancy, Mark, and Gail. Gloria and Harold enjoyed fifty-one years together before Harold passed away in 2002.

She pursued higher education with passion, earning a BA in Special Education in 1974, a Master’s in Special Education in 1977, and a Master’s in Guidance and Counseling in 1986 from William Paterson University.

Her career in education spanned many years, including 15 years teaching Special Education in Wayne and 10 years as an Education Supervisor at Montclair State University and William Paterson University. Gloria’s dedication to teaching was recognized with the Governor’s “Excellence in Teaching” Award.

Gloria was an active member of numerous organizations, including the Women Education Association (WEA), Passaic County Education Association (PCEA), New Jersey Education Association (NJEA), Delta Kappa Gamma (DKG) Theta Chapter, and Alpha Zeta State. She was a member of Packanack Community Church for 40 years and served as a member and secretary of the board of directors for the Willing Hands workshop.

Her commitment to helping others extended to her role as a host parent and fundraiser for Healing the Children for 15 years, and as a member and secretary of the board of directors for Medical Missions for Children. Gloria also volunteered as a counselor and trainer for CONTACT and was involved in the Social Action Committee of the American Association of University Women (AAUW) Greater Wayne Area Branch.

In her later years, Gloria was an active member of the Cedar Crest Chorale, Diversity Team, Resident Life Committee, Getting to Know You Committee, SOS Christmas Committee, and the Protestant Community Congregation.

Gloria was an exceptionally loving and kind-hearted individual. Her optimism was unwavering, and she always went out of her way to help everyone around her. She had an adventurous spirit and cherished traveling with her beloved husband, Harold (2002). It’s impossible to describe the light she brought to the lives of all who knew her. 

She is survived by her daughter Gail and son-in-law Rob, son Mark and daughter-in-law Lisa; her grandchildren Rachael, Anna and Dan, Ryan and Grace, and Jason; and her great grandchildren Emma, Quinn, Jack, and Alexandra. Gloria was preceded in death by her husband Harold (2002), by their daughter Nancy (2001), by her brother LeRoy (Lee), and son-in-law Craig.

Gloria’s legacy of love, kindness, and dedication to education and service will be remembered by all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

In lieu of flowers please send donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Patrick Joseph Kaplan, age 70, of Totowa NJ.

Patrick passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 8, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born in Jersey City, NJ and was raised in North Bergen.  As a young man he attended North Bergen High School.  Immediately after graduating high school with the class of 1972, Patrick felt it in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Navy.  While serving in the US Navy, Patrick was stationed in the Mediterranean Sea aboard the fast combat battle support ship, USS Seattle AOE-3.  While aboard the USS Seattle, Patrick was assigned to refueling and resupplying other US Naval military vessels.  Patrick served honorably and proudly in the US Navy from 1972 until being discharged honorably in 1975.

Upon returning home from his service with the US Navy, Patrick went to work at Highway Body Works in North Bergen where he built and painted trucks of various sizes.  Patrick left Highway Body Works after several years and accepted a position at Hudson County Motors where he enjoyed a successful career selling truck parts.  Patrick worked for Hudson County Motors for thirty-five years until his retirement two years ago.  While at Hudson County Motors, Patrick was truly well loved and respected by his colleagues and clients.

As as young man in high school, Patrick met an attractive young lady by the name of Barbara Warner. One night in June of 1971 Patrick and Barbara triple dated with Barbara’s sisters and their boyfriends. Patrick and Barbara hit it off wonderfully and continued dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 1, 1975, the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife at Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen, NJ.  

The newlyweds settled in their hometown of North Bergen and remained there until 2008.  While residing there, the couple welcomed their three sons: Matthew, Patrick, and Nathaniel.  They called North Bergen their home for twenty-eight years and raised their family.  In 2008, Barbara and Patrick moved to Totowa, NJ where they have been ever since.  

In his spare time, Patrick could always be found in his workshop.  There he would hone his skills in woodworking and carpentry.  He enjoyed tinkering with all types of gadgets and relished in refinishing furniture.  He was also an avid golfer and had an extensive collection of logo golf balls.  

Aside from all his talents, hobbies, and interest, Patrick’s real passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Patrick than spending time with his children and especially his grandchildren.  He and his wife Barbara cherished forty-nine years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Patrick was a truly dedicated family man whose unwavering commitment to his loved ones shaped every aspect of his life. With a tireless work ethic, he wanted to ensure his children could pursue their dreams and attend college without financial burden.  He worked tirelessly six days a week throughout his life. 

Patrick was not only dedicated to his family, but also to his Lutheran Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen for many years, St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, NJ and most recently St. Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne, NJ.  While a parishioner of St. Timothy in Wayne, he volunteered as an usher and was on the church’s vestry.  He was also closely and intricately involved in the Heart ‘n Hands Mission sponsored by the church. 

Patrick was a true gentleman, he was a quiet and reserved man, often blending into the background in social settings, yet those who knew him well appreciated his sharp wit and unique sense of humor. He had a knack for delivering perfectly timed dad jokes that would catch friends and family off guard.  He was quick to drop whatever it was he was doing to help others around him.  He was truly loved by his friends and neighbors.

Patrick will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, and cherished grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Patrick is survived by his wife Barbara of Totowa, NJ, his three sons; Matthew and his wife Erica of Stirling, NJ, Patrick, Jr. and his wife Allison of Fairfield, NJ and Nathaniel of Totowa, NJ, and four grandchildren; Kaitlyn, Emma, Matthew, and Michael.

Those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donations in Patrick’s name to Hearts 'n Hands Mission, St Timothy Lutheran Church 395 Valley Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Ann C. Berger (“Sherry”), age 84, of Kinnelon, passed away on Sunday, October 6, 2024, unexpectedly after the sudden onset of pneumonia.

Sherry was born on June 3, 1940, in the Bronx to the parents of Walter and Anna Lee. She grew up in East Paterson alongside her older sister, Patty, and younger brother, Walter; both siblings predeceased Sherry.

Sherry was a graduate of the 1958 East Rutherford High School. When Sherry was just 15, she met her love and life partner, Richard “Dick” Berger and the couple married on February 20, 1960. After marriage, the new couple lived in both Haskell and then East Rutherford for a period of time, before being blessed with three daughters and establishing their first home in Wayne, NJ. In 1984, the couple moved to Georgia Drive in Wayne where they spent 12 happy years before relocating to Kinnelon in 1997 to be closer to their daughters.

Sherry had a fulfilling career as a secretary at Repeat-O-Type, Marketing Action, and rounded out her career as an Executive Secretary for Teva Corporation, retiring 1997. 

Sherry was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, never happier than watching little ones at play. In addition to family, Sherry’s passions in life revolved around her love of animals. Throughout her life, Sherry owned and nurtured 7 dogs and became passionate about Bernese Mountain Dogs later in life. She rescued three of the breed and is sadly missed by her current Bernese, Willow. Sherry loved a good jigsaw puzzle, a wonderful meal, and was a voracious reader. However, she will most be remembered as a compassionate soul, as mother and friend, who listened without judgment and gave advice only when asked. Her reasoned, thoughtful input, with a side of an occasional dry wit to remind all not to take life too seriously, will be sorely missed.

Sherry was the beloved wife of Dick, who predeceased her in 2021, blessed in marriage for 60 years. She was the loving, devoted mother of: Lisa and husband Michael of Kinnelon, Lori and husband Peter of Kinnelon, and Linda and husband Ron of Lower Saucon, PA; cherished grandmother of: Marissa and husband Tom Mongelli of Pompton Plains, Nick Locarno of Hope, Jennifer Locarno of Wolcott, Colorado, Maranda Micciche of Florham Park, Aquinnah Silverman of Ann Arbor, MI and Bela Silverman of Medford, MA; much loved Great-Grandmother of Mia and Maeve Mongelli of Pompton Plains, NJ. Sherry also held much love in her heart for her nieces: Polly Pavlak of Seminole, FL, Cherie Mainenti of Seminole, FL, and Sandy Lee of Simpsonville, SC, and nephew Frank Mainenti Jr. of St. Petersburg, FL.

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In lieu of flowers, donations will be appreciated to one of the following charitable organizations:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Eleventh Hour Rescue

P.O. Box 218

Rockaway, NJ 07866

Send cash or check donations to the above address with the note “General”

For both charities, please indicate that your gift is in memory of Sherry Berger.

Richard A. Greenwood Sr., age 63 of Lincoln Park, died on Wednesday, October 2, 2024. 

Richard was the son of Dorothy Greenwood and graduated from Passaic County Technical Institute having played on the football and track teams. 

Richard was a true patriot and a man of strong character. He had a quiet strength, keeping his circle of friends close, but to those lucky enough to know him, he was kind, generous, and full of heart. With a sharp wit and a knack for sarcastic humor, he never failed to bring laughter to those around him. A man of many passions, Richard was dedicated to bodybuilding, competing in shows, and loved the thrill of motorcycle riding and the adventure of camping. He enjoyed life to the fullest, whether it was spending time with friends, going on vacations, or just making others laugh. Independent and bold, he was a real man's man who didn’t take a backseat to anyone, but his generosity and warmth always shone through. Richard will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Richard was a devoted father whose greatest joy in life was the close bond he shared with his son, Richard A. Greenwood Jr. From the time Richard Jr. was little, the two were inseparable, working on projects together and creating memories that will last a lifetime. Whether it was working on his son's first truck in the Wayne Valley High School automotive shop or tackling countless other endeavors side by side, Richard Sr.'s love, guidance, and unwavering support were constants in their relationship. His pride in his son was evident to all who knew him, and the deep connection they shared was a testament to the kind of father, mentor, and friend Richard was.

Donations in Rich’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, and sent to: Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959. You may also donate at their website; www.stjude.org

Anna Annastaza Misajet (nee Staskowski), age 90, of Wayne left us on September 29, 2024.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to Stella and Leo Staskowski, she was one of eight children. Anna was a city girl who loved baseball and her beloved Brooklyn Dodgers. She often told stories of going to Ebbets Field with her friends. She eventually became a fan of the N.Y. Yankees, watching every game even until her death. She worked at the Equitable as a secretary and in 1957 married Raymond Misajet.

Anna and Raymond lived in Paterson and eventually built a home in Wayne where she still resided. They had five children who married and eventually sixteen grandchildren and four great grandchildren. They loved to dance and spent many wonderful years together dancing the Cha-Cha and never passing an opportunity to hit the dance floor for a good Polka. Anna was affectionately known as Babcia and enjoyed being with her grandchildren, celebrating their lives and accomplishments.

She is a member of Holy Spirit parish in Pequannock. She and Ray were strong in their Catholic faith instilling in all of their children the importance of God and family.

She was a member of the Columbiettes, Regina Mundi Council 3969, enjoying the friendships and company of her fellow Columbiettes for more than fifty years. She held many offices in the organization including President (several times) eventually acquiring the distinguished title of Past President. Anna also went on in the organization to become a President and Past President of the New Jersey State Council of Columbiettes. She remained an active member of the Columbiettes until her death. She enjoyed the friendships of the women who shared her religious values and commitment to the church and God. 

Our mom will always be remembered for her love of dancing, her love of baseball and especially traveling with her children and grandchildren. Those memories and moments are etched in our hearts. She loved life and lived every day until her last. She is survived by her brother, Raymond and sister, Francis. Her children, Arlene Hitscherich and her husband Bob, Kenneth and his wife Jennifer, Joanne Tormey and her husband Kevin, Janet Lewis and her husband Bill and Denise. Babcia will be missed by Matthew, Kyle and his wife Ann, Stefanie and her fiancé Mario, Selam, Kenneth, Heather and her husband Oliver, Craig and his wife Kaylee, Nicole and her husband Lyndon, Erin, Michael, Megan and her husband Dany, Lauren, Nicholas, Cameron and Colin. She is survived her four great grandchildren, Aleena, Evelyn, Isla, and Roisin. 

Cosmo “Gus” Mongiello, age 76, of Pompton Plains, went home to his heavenly rest to be embraced by his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Thursday, September 26, 2024.

The son of Anthony and Rita (Maresca) Mongiello, Gus was born and raised in Jersey City. He was a 1966 graduate of Saint Peters Preparatory School. Pursuing higher education, Gus attended Saint Peters College where he graduated in 1970 with his bachelor’s degree in accounting. During college Gus served in the Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC) and for several years after in the United States Army National Guard.

Gus’ hard work in these early years of life earned him a stellar reputation. Consequently, he was well sought after, and able to secure his first career position with the prestigious Peat, Marwick, Michell and Company accounting firm. In the ensuing years, he gained valuable knowledge and experience which landed him Chief Financial Officer (CFO) of Hackensack Hospital – later to become known as Hackensack University Medical Center (HUMC). His career with HUMC spanned over twenty-five years, including a return to school to earn his masters degree in finance from Fairleigh Dickinson University.

Gus, exhibiting professionalism rare to come by, earned the respect of many who still talk about his leadership and professionalism as CFO to this day. 

After serving HUMC for 27 years, Gus opted for retirement but came out of it two years later when he joined the staff of Chilton Medical Center in Pompton Plains in the finance department. After about a decade, Gus completely retired from hospital finance.

Gus and his beloved wife Carol met when they were just fifteen years old. She went to an all-girls school in Jersey City, and he went to an all-boys school in Jersey City. They lived on the same long street, but at different ends, their paths’ never crossing until Carol’s girlfriend (Gus’s neighbor) introduced them.

They became inseparable right away, then on April 1, 1964, April Fools Day of all days, they officially started going steady. Their courtship spanned seven years – throughout Gus’ college and National Guard duty – ultimately leading to Gus’ proposal of marriage to Carol on Christmas Eve 1969. Carol found the engagement ring hidden is the Christmas tree, and gleefully said yes.

On Sunday, June 4, 1971, Gus and Carol exchanged their wedding promises before God, family, and friends at Our Lady of Victories Church in Jersey City. Five years after the wedding and honeymoon, Mr. and Mrs. Mongiello moved from Jersey City to Pompton Plains with their first child, where they have remained to the present. They were blessed with four more children after their move, seeing each of the five children a beautiful gift from God!

Gus was a family man, and a diligent caretaker of the home. While many guys would camp in front of the television on a Saturday afternoon watching sports, or sleep in, Gus was busy being a fruit-bearing provider. Some of his favorite activities were getting outdoors in God’s creation, enjoying fresh air and, with sleeves rolled up, tending to his garden, caring for the yard, and fixing things too useful to throw away.

Gus cared for his garden, his yard, his home in a way most busy professionals wouldn’t have time to execute. He shared his garden, his logical mind, and his practical home up-keep skills with all willing to partake. He found a way, in between his busy work life, to be a “Mr. Fix It” at home, and had enough tools to fill two hardware stores. His love of learning and hard-work paired with his sense of financial responsibility fueled his desire to tackle many home projects the average, white-collared guy would leave to the pros.

By far the greatest passions of Gus’ life were his love of God and the greatest affection for his family. Eager to learn already as a young man, he had read the holy Bible from cover to cover. As life went on, his faith only grew. Nourished by the reading of his bible and active involvement with his family of fellow believers at Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church in his hometown of Pompton Plains, Gus served several times as a deacon in his church. He had recently started a challenge to memorize twelve Psalms per year and he genuinely enjoyed a trip with Carol and church friends to the Holy Land a few years back.

Gus’ love for his family was apparent in lots of ways. He was happiest when they could all be together at the table, like on the holidays, but he also always made time to talk one-on-one with his wife, children, grandchildren, friends, and strangers. He was the unanimous go-to person for any type of problem. Mixing a vast amount of wisdom, patience, listening skills, good questions, and care, Gus was always honored to walk a family member, friend, or stranger through any challenge. You knew you could always approach him with confidence to bounce an idea off him because you knew he would be genuinely happy to help you talk it through.

Gus was the beloved husband of Carol (Citarella), blessed in cherished and devoted marriage for 53 years. He was the most loving father of: Gina Mongiello of Pompton Plains, Marissa Mongiello and husband David Carpentier of Copake, New York, Kristen Hayzler and husband Rich of Pompton Plains, Matthew Mongiello and wife Kimberly of Pequannock, and Kevin Mongiello of Henderson, Nevada; adoring grandfather of Ryan, Brooke, and Elias; dear brother of Robert Mongiello of Chattanooga, Tennessee, and Judy Quirk and husband Dennis of Brick, NJ. And dear uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Gus was loved by many.

For a quiet man, who just showed up daily to faithfully execute what he saw as his duty, he sure made his rounds in this world, capturing the hearts of people everywhere he went.

He will be missed more than words could ever allude.

And he will always be remembered as our go-to-guy.

No problem was too big or small to bring to Gus. He was the man you wanted around, whether you were fixing a clogged drain, buying a car, or making a tough life decision.

He was your friend until the end.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to support Israel Quaresma's education for ministry. Checks can be made to Israel Quaresma and sent c/o Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church to 415 Boulevard, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Don Argott, 73 years old, of Pequannock, NJ, passed away peacefully, surrounded by family on September 25th. Don was born to Rose and William Argott and graduated from Passaic County Technical Institute, where he began his career as a master carpenter. In addition to his contracting company, Don was a decades-long employee of the Passaic Valley Water Commission.

Don’s booming voice and colorful personality were only overshadowed by his big and generous heart. Giving to a fault, Don was famous for helping others and constantly involved in projects for friends, relatives, and neighbors. His talents were used all over town, from raising homes in flooded areas to building additions and decks, and one can’t drive through Passaic County without seeing his fingerprints everywhere. Always inclined to lend a hand, Don often had to be persuaded to accept payment for his work and was loved and admired by people from all walks of life.

Larger than his fondness for food (especially dessert) was his love for his family. Don was married to the love of his life, Pat, for 53 years. Together, they had two children, Don and Jennifer, and his pride in them came through in every conversation he had (though he wouldn’t necessarily tell them). He had a special relationship with his son-in-law, Price, and daughter-in-law, Sheena. His hard exterior was cracked wide open with the birth of his granddaughters, Elena and Maeve. Best friends, Don saw Elena every day, and their bond will never be matched. Maeve could always make him laugh, and he loved listening to her animated and funny stories.

One of Don’s favorite places was Seaside Heights, and the family made years’ worth of memories there in the sand and on the boardwalk.  Summers will never be the same. Don collected zippo lighters and friends, and when he wasn’t working, he was with his family. He was especially close to his nieces Stephanie, Karen, and Christine and was often found at his sister Joann’s house, right down the street.  They do not know how they will withstand this immeasurable loss but are comforted by the love and support of everyone reaching out with kind words and special memories.

Don was also predeceased by his brother Paul and loved his nephews, Paul and Jason, along with scores of cousins. 

In lieu of flowers, the family is asking that memorial donations be made to Don’s doctor, Raja Flores, for his lung cancer research fund.  Please send donations to the below address, and indicate “Research Fund” in the memo line.

Dr. Raja Flores

Mount Sinai Hospital

1190 5th Avenue

New York, NY 10029

Dr. Kenneth Allen Powley, 91, of The Villages, Florida, passed away at home on September 24, 2024, surrounded by his family.  He was born November 4, 1932, in Midland Park, New Jersey to John J. and Marie C. (Vance) Powley.  In 1959, Ken married the love of his life, Dorothy (Dot) E. Powley, with whom he shared 65 wonderful years and raised two sons.

Ken pursued his education at Hope College and went on to earn his Doctorate of Dental Surgery (DDS) from Temple University in 1957. Shortly after, he served two years as a Captain in the United States Air Force, spending most of his service stationed in Morocco. A proud veteran, Ken was a member of the American Legion Post 347.

After his military service, he set up his dental practice in his home at Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey, where he happily told bad jokes to many patients for over 40 years.

Ken could fix anything and was an avid golfer, having made 4 hole-in-one’s!  His last hole-in-one came when he was 90-years-old.  After enjoying multiple years as snowbirds, Ken and Dot made The Villages, Florida, their permanent home in 2016.  They made the most of their time at The Villages, joining clubs, attending concerts, eating out, playing golf, and getting together with their many good friends.

Ken is survived by his wife Dot, his son John Powley and wife Melanie of Frisco, TX; his daughter-in-law Ellen Powley of Wayne, NJ; and six grandchildren: Mary, Ken, Troy (and wife Courtney), Sharon, Nathan, and Jennifer. He was preceded in death by his sister, Dorothy M. Branford, and his son, Kenneth A. Powley, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in memory of Ken to the United Church of Christ at The Villages, P.O. Box 194, Oxford, FL 34484.

Amelia "Millie" Murino, age 84, of Wayne passed Monday, September 16, 2024

Millie was born in Bronx, New York to the late Charles Carlo and Tessie Lima.  She lived in Harlem, New York before moving to Wayne when she married Louis where she spent the past 65 years.

Millie met Lou when she walked into his family grocery store, Wayne Food Market at 20 Newark Pompton Turnpike.  Millie, whose parents had a summer bungalow down the street from the store, came into the store with three of her girlfriends.  Lou started talking to them, but in his eyes, Millie stood out.  She agreed to go out on a date with him.  Millie didn't have much interest in continuing to see Lou, but after his persistence, she agreed to go out with him again.  Soon the two fell in love.  They married on June 6, 1959 at Our Lady Queen of Angels on 113th Street in Harlem.  Lou described the wedding reception in the church basement as a "football wedding reception" where premade sandwiches were thrown to the guests.  They spent their first night as man and wife at Aunt Vi & Uncle Joe's apartment in Harlem, where he slept on the floor and Millie on the couch.  The next day they left for Atlantic City.   Fourteen months later they welcomed the arrival of their first child together, Theresa, and were blessed with three more children after that, Vincent, Charles and Joe.

When it came to her family, Millie loved her children unconditionally and was always the proud mama.  She was a homemaker and was very involved with her children's activities.  There were times when she didn't have enough extra money to purchase a candy bar for her children, but she always made sure they had fun and felt they were loved.  Christmas was her favorite holiday and although she and Lou would struggle with finances in those early days, she made sure Christmas was a time her family would always remember.  Every Christmas since, her family would gather together on Christmas morning at their residence...children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and in-laws, to receive the over abundance of gifts she would hand out to all.  

In past years she was a member of the Ladies Auxiliary of Community Firehouse #1 in Wayne and the Wayne PAL.  She enjoyed being involved and would often run fundraising events like pancake breakfasts and spaghetti dinners.  

She  was a remarkable woman known for her strength, determination and vibrant personality.  She had a unique ability to light up a room with her personality and her sense of fashion.  She was always impeccably coordinated from head to toe, with matching purses and jewelry to accent her outfit.  She also had a passion for playing cards and games. Millie and Lou moved to The Four Seasons in Wayne in the early 2000's. They loved their new community and made many wonderful friends.  Millie knew this is where she belonged.  You could always find Millie at her community clubhouse in the throws of a game of poker, canasta or bridge.  She loved MahJong, but had to eventually give that up because of her advanced stage of Macular Degeneration.  What people couldn't understand was that although her vision was not good, when you put a deck of cards in her hand, she could miraculously see those cards and the cards on the table and she was not going to be beat.  For many years she looked forward to her Wednesday bowling league at T-Bowl, she would race home to play afternoon cards, head home for a quick dinner and go back to her clubhouse to play cards until late at night.  She loved the game and she loved the friends she met along the way.  

She was the loving wife of Louis Murino; devoted mother of Theresa Skerlick and her husband Stephen of Leland, NC, Vincent Murino and his wife Kathryn of Sparta, Charles Murino of Ledgewood, and Joe Murino and his wife Karen of Franklin Lakes; she was the cherished grandmother of nine grandchildren: Stephen Skerlick III and his wife Mandy, Dana Leggieri and her husband Albert, Nicholas Skerlick, Marissa Murino and her fiancé Kevin Schott, Matthew Murino, Rachel Murino, Meghan Murino, Myla Murino, and Melina Murino; she was the dearly loved great-grandmother of Dean Skerlick, Luca Leggieri, Matteo Leggieri, and Amelia Skerlick; she was the loved sister of Jack Lima and his wife Wendy of Lincoln Park, Salvatore Lima and his wife Joyce of Lincoln Park, Vivian Spae of Wayne, and the late Mary Mollica (d. 2020).  Amelia will be dearly missed by numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad or Community Volunteer Fire Company #1, 97 Parish Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.

Emily (nee Budz) Stanchak, age 95, of Wayne for over fifty years, passed peacefully on Tuesday, September 24, 2024.

Emily was originally from Chicago, Illinois. She lost both of her parents to tuberculosis by the time she was six years old, and soon after that she lost her aunt, who had been caring for her. Emily lived as an orphan through the next seven years, residing in the children’s wing of the local hospital where her parents had died. Eventually, distant relatives were located in Clifton, New Jersey, and they took Emily in as a foster child. Her new home was located right across the street from a handsome young man named Walter Stanchak. When Walter got out of the Navy, they began dating and it didn’t take long for Walter to know she was a very special girl. They were married on June 4, 1950, and moved into an unfinished attic room over Walter’s parent’s apartment. They didn’t have two nickels to rub together, literally, but they had each other. Emily worked while Walt went to school to become a funeral director, and she supported him while he began his career. Walter often felt guilty that his new bride had to work so hard to support them both, but he was focused on his career and knew brighter days were ahead of them. In 1953, their vision took shape and together they opened the Stanchak Funeral Home on Van Houten Avenue in Clifton. There were a lot of funeral homes in Clifton, so in 1963, Walt and Emily decided to move to Wayne where they opened the Park View Funeral Home.  They purchased the old Methodist Church in the Mountain View section of town and served the Wayne and Lincoln Park communities for more than twenty years.  Emily was by his side through it all, working at the funeral home and raising their family at the same time. They enjoyed nearly sixty-four years of marriage, side by side through it all, before Walter’s passing ten years ago. Emily has missed him terribly ever since, and their heavenly reunion is sure to be a joyous one for both of them.

Emily was a steadfast New York Mets fan and for many years the neighbors could gauge how the Mets were doing from Emily and Walter’s yelling at the television during the game. Emily was a devoted homemaker and a great cook. A few years back, a friend said to her “you must really love to cook,” to which she replied “not really. I only cooked because my husband loves to eat.” Her children and grandchildren all rave about her cooking and will surely miss all of those fantastic family meals at her home. Emily was especially sweet and kind, gracious to a fault, caring, and always grateful. Even in recent years, as she suffered with dementia, she would repeatedly say ‘thank you’ to her caregivers, and lovingly express her gratitude over and over to the nurses and aids who helped her. Sometimes she couldn’t thank them enough.

Emily was the devoted mother of three children; Linda Adamo and her husband Joe Barrow of Brick, John Stanchak and his wife Nancy of Wayne, and Jo Ann Cavallo and her husband Joe of Brick, six grandchildren; Michael Adamo (fiance' Molly Nash), Daniel Adamo (Christina), Jessica Stanchak Bonner (Paul), John Stanchak, Samantha Cavallo, and Joseph Cavallo and two great grandchildren; Cameron John and Joseph Douglas

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to would be appreciated to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, Kansas, www.woundedwarriorproject.org

Diego Andres Valle-Kaleiwahea, age 42, of Little Falls, passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday morning, September 24, 2024, with his husband by his side.

He was born in Montevideo, Uruguay, to his beloved mother, Lourdes Teresa Valle-Gomez, who recently passed away just six months ago. He was devastated by Teresa’s passing, but it brought him even closer to his adored siblings, Nicolás, Gimena, Sofia and Facundo, and his nieces, Mia, Pía and Paz, all of whom live in Uruguay.

He spent his childhood in Montevideo, as well as in Buenos Aires, Argentina. He absolutely adored his abuela, Maria, who taught him each and every day how to cook amazing food. His incredible love for cooking stayed with him all of his life, because he cherished all of those times he spent with his abuela. She taught him the importance of bringing together their entire family to share a delicious meal.

At the age of 20, he followed his dreams and moved to the United States to the state of New Jersey. He always said it was one of the most bittersweet moments of his life, having to say goodbye to all of his family, especially his Mami and Abuela.

When Diego first arrived in New Jersey, he moved to West New York, a town that overlooks the Hudson River across from New York City. That very first night he moved here, he walked over to Boulevard East to get his very first panoramic view of the Manhattan skyline, which he said literally took his breath away and brought him to tears. He said he couldn’t believe he was finally here. Soon thereafter, Diego’s cousin Sebastian moved from Uruguay, too, and they moved in together in North Bergen. They’ve been inseparable ever since, just like brothers.

Over the years, Diego worked in various jobs. He started out working in restaurants, as well as a personal trainer and assistant manager at Bally’s in Manhattan. He spent many, many years working at Elmo Restaurant and Barracuda in Chelsea, where he met so many wonderful, lifelong friends. He even did some modeling and appeared in ads for Levi’s. After the pandemic, Diego decided to pursue his other passion for creating and building things with his hands. He began working in the home remodeling industry for a small company, where he learned so much from his coworkers. Then last year, he decided to take a huge step by opening his own home renovation business. He was so proud of his new company, and success quickly followed because of the amazing work he did, and the wonderful person he was to his clients. His business grew by leaps and bounds, all by word-of-mouth and referrals by his clients. He was the absolute hardest working and creative person you could ever meet, and he loved to share his progress and final creations with his husband, family and friends. 

Diego met the love of his life and future husband, Andy Kaleiwahea, in 2013. They met at a mutual friend’s house, who was hosting a political fundraiser for the future mayor of Jersey City. A year later in May of 2014, they happened to meet again, this time while Diego was working as a waiter at Elmo. Andy said he had a million butterflies in his stomach when he saw Diego; Diego said as soon as he saw Andy, he hid behind the bar for a minute because he was so nervous. That was the beginning of their beautiful life together. They got engaged in November 2016, and a few months later they got married in February 2017. They recently celebrated their 10th year together. Over the years, they had two other loves in their lives, their dog Penny and their new puppy, Mila. These two Boston Terrier sweethearts had Diego and Andy wrapped around their paws.

Diego’s mother Teresa was his unwavering support in both difficult and happy moments. Together, they celebrated his marriage and his new life in the U.S., always each other’s confidants and supporting each other at every stage of their lives. Their bond was strong and filled with love, always there for one another. You could always find him cooking dinner at home on the weekends while on FaceTime with his mom. They were separated for 13 years due to distance and circumstances, making their reunion in 2014 one of the most significant experiences of his adult life.

Diego’s love and dedication to his family was infinite, and it enveloped every brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, niece and nephew.  A very important role in his life was being the older brother. During his childhood, he took care of his siblings with dedication while his mother worked, spending time with them, preparing meals, and helping with their homework. In his daily life, he always kept them in mind, despite the distance.

Recently, due to their mother's illness, he traveled back to Uruguay. This was very meaningful for his family as it represented an opportunity to reunite, to live together again, to spend time laughing, crying, sharing joys and sorrows, and, above all, to come together to care for and support their mother. At the end of the trip, the siblings decided to get a tattoo as a symbol of their unity; through a design that represents each of them, they formed a circle, accompanied by the phrase "siempre juntos"

Diego’s relationship with his cousin Sebastian “Seba” was always more like a brother. Since they were kids, they spent so much time together. Moving to the U.S. made their bond unbreakable. Seba once said that Diego always protected him since he got here, always made sure he did things the right way and didn’t let him down, watched him grow and make a beautiful family with Luisa and their two wonderful sons, Sebita (his godson) and Joaquin. Luisa’s sister Jessica was also an important part of Diego’s life, as well as her two loving boys Lucas and “Dieguito”, who was named after Diego and was also his godson.

Diego was such a selfless, kind, funny, generous, thoughtful, beautiful person with the soul of an angel.  He brought so much love, positivity, laughter and genuine friendship with him wherever he went, so our memories of him will remain in this world forever.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Diego’s memory would be greatly appreciated to “New Alternatives.” Their mission to increase the self-sufficiency of LGBTQ+ homeless youth and young adults by enabling them to transition out of the shelter system to stable adult lives was near and dear to Diego’s heart, and your generosity would be profoundly meaningful. Donations can be made through their website at www.newalternativesnyc.org. Please scroll down to find an active weblink at the bottom the Spanish version of the obituary.

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Diego Andrés Valle-Kaleiwahea, de Little Falls, falleció inesperadamente a los 42 años, el martes por la mañana, 24 de septiembre de 2024, acompañado de su esposo.

Nació en Montevideo, Uruguay de su amada madre, Lourdes Teresa Valle-Gómez, quien falleció recientemente (hace solo seis meses). Quedó devastado por la muerte de su mamá, sin embargo este suceso lo acercó aún más a sus queridos hermanos, Nicolás, Gimena, Sofía y Facundo, y a sus sobrinas, Mia, Pía y Paz, quienes viven en Uruguay. 

Pasó su infancia en Montevideo, Uruguay, así como en Buenos Aires, Argentina.

Adoraba a su abuela María, quien le enseñaba a cocinar comida increíble todos los días. Su gran amor por la cocina permaneció con él toda su vida, porque apreciaba todos los momentos que había pasado con su abuela. Ella le enseñó la importancia de reunir a toda la familia para compartir una comida deliciosa.

 A los 20 años, siguió sus sueños y se mudó a los Estados Unidos, al estado de Nueva Jersey. Siempre dijo que fue uno de los momentos más agridulces de su vida, tener que despedirse de toda su familia, especialmente de su Mami y su Abuela. 

Cuando Diego llegó por primera vez a Nueva Jersey, se mudó a West New York, una ciudad con vista al río Hudson frente a la ciudad de Nueva York. Esa primera noche, caminó hasta Boulevard East para obtener su primera vista panorámica del horizonte de Manhattan, que, según dijo, literalmente lo dejó sin aliento y lo hizo llorar, no podía creer que finalmente estuviera aquí. Poco después, Sebastián, primo de Diego, también se vino desde Uruguay y se mudaron juntos a North Bergen y desde entonces han sido inseparables, como hermanos.

A lo largo de los años, Diego trabajó en varios trabajos. Comenzó trabajando en restaurantes, así como entrenador personal y asistente de gerente en Bally's en Manhattan. Pasó muchos, muchos años trabajando en Elmo Restaurant y Barracuda, en Chelsea, donde conoció a muchos amigos maravillosos para toda la vida. Incluso hizo un poco de modelaje y apareció en anuncios de Levi's. Después de la pandemia, Diego decidió dedicarse a su otra pasión, crear y construir cosas con sus manos. Comenzó a trabajar en la industria de la remodelación de viviendas para una pequeña empresa, donde aprendió mucho de sus compañeros de trabajo. Luego, el año pasado, decidió dar un gran paso al abrir su propio negocio de remodelación de viviendas. Estaba muy orgulloso de su nueva empresa y el éxito llegó rápidamente debido al increíble trabajo que hacía y la maravillosa persona que era con sus clientes. Su negocio creció a pasos agigantados, todo gracias a la difusión de boca en boca y las recomendaciones de sus clientes. Era la persona más trabajadora y creativa que jamás haya conocido, y le encantaba compartir su progreso y sus creaciones finales con su esposo, su familia y sus amigos.

Diego conoció al amor de su vida, a su esposo Andy Kaleiwahea, en 2013. Se conocieron en la casa de un amigo en común, que estaba organizando una recaudación de fondos políticos para el futuro alcalde de Jersey City. Un año después, en mayo de 2014, volvieron a encontrarse, esta vez mientras Diego trabajaba como camarero en Elmo. Andy dijo que sintió un millón de mariposas en el estómago cuando vio a Diego; Diego dijo que tan pronto como vio a Andy, se escondió detrás de la barra por un minuto porque estaba muy nervioso. Ese fue el comienzo de su hermosa vida juntos. Se comprometieron en noviembre de 2016 y unos meses después se casaron en febrero de 2017. Recientemente celebraron su décimo aniversario de estar juntos. A lo largo de los años, tuvieron otros dos amores en sus vidas, su perra Penny y su nueva cachorrita, Mila. Estos dos Boston Terrier los tenían enamorados a Diego y Andy envueltos alrededor de sus patas.

La madre de Diego, Teresa, fue su apoyo inquebrantable tanto en los momentos difíciles como en los felices. Juntos celebraron su matrimonio y su nueva vida en Estados Unidos, siempre confidentes el uno del otro y apoyándose mutuamente en cada etapa de sus vidas. Su vínculo era fuerte y lleno de amor, siempre cerca el uno del otro. Siempre lo podías encontrar cocinando la cena en casa los fines de semana mientras hablaba por FaceTime con su mamá.

Estuvo separado de su mamá durante 13 años debido a la distancia y las circunstancias, por lo que su reencuentro en 2014 fue una de las experiencias más significativas de su vida adulta.

El amor y la dedicación de Diego hacia su familia eran infinitos, y rodeaba a cada hermano, hermana, tía, tío, primo, sobrina y sobrino con su cariño. Un papel muy importante en su vida fue el de ser el hermano mayor. Durante su infancia, cuidaba a sus hermanos con dedicación mientras su madre trabajaba, pasaba tiempo con ellos, preparaba comidas y ayudaba con sus tareas. En su vida diaria, siempre los tenía presentes, a pesar de la distancia.

Recientemente, debido a la enfermedad de su madre, viajó de regreso a Uruguay. Esto fue muy significativo para su familia ya que representó una oportunidad de reencontrarse, de volver a vivir juntos, de pasar tiempo riendo, llorando, compartiendo alegrías y tristezas y, sobre todo, de unirse para cuidar y apoyar a su madre. Al finalizar el viaje, los hermanos decidieron hacerse un tatuaje como símbolo de su unidad; a través de un diseño que representa a cada uno de ellos, formaron un círculo, acompañado de la frase “siempre juntos”

La relación de Diego con su primo Sebastián “Seba” siempre fue más como la de un hermano. Desde niños, pasaron mucho tiempo juntos. Mudarse a los Estados Unidos hizo que su vínculo fuera inquebrantable. Seba dijo una vez que Diego siempre lo protegió desde que llegó aquí, siempre se aseguró de que hiciera las cosas de la manera correcta y no lo decepcionó, lo vio crecer y formar una hermosa familia con Luisa y sus dos maravillosos hijos, Sebita (su ahijado) y Joaquín. La hermana de Luisa, Jessica, también ha sido una parte importante de la vida de Diego, así como sus dos queridos hijos Lucas y “Dieguito”, que se llamaba como Diego que era su padrino.

Diego era una persona desinteresada, amable, divertida, generosa, considerada, hermosa y con el alma de un ángel. Traía mucho amor, positividad, risas y amistad genuina a donde quiera que fuera, por lo que nuestros recuerdos de él permanecerán en este mundo durante muchísimo tiempo.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Diego’s memory would be greatly appreciated to “New Alternatives.” Their mission to increase the self-sufficiency of LGBTQ+ homeless youth and young adults by enabling them to transition out of the shelter system to stable adult lives was near and dear to Diego’s heart, and your generosity would be profoundly meaningful. Donations can be made through their website at www.newalternativesnyc.org.

Barbara Stoll, age 74, of Pines Lake in Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home, with her loving family by her side, on Monday, September 23, 2024.

The first of Klaus and Rosemarie (Baum) Stoll’s three children, Barbara was born in Dudweiler, Germany. When she was just three years old, Barbara’s father emigrated to Montreal, Canada with aspirations of establishing a better life experience for little Barbara and his wife. After two years, having secured steady employment and an adequate home, Barbara and her mother joined Klaus. They lived in Canada for six years, then relocated once again, this time to the United States, settling initially in Paterson before moving to Wyckoff, NJ when Barbara was a young teenager. 

Barbara graduated from Ramapo High School with the Class of 1967. The next few years were a time of profound change. After high school, she attended beauty school and started a career as a professional hairdresser. She met and married Daniel Martin on May 3, 1970, when Barbara was a mere twenty years of age, and moved to Wayne in 1972. The ensuing years brought the blessing of her three children – Laura, Geoffrey, and Andrew. Barbara settled into a life-rhythm of working her hairdressing job on the side while managing her home and raising her children. She invested lovingly in their lives by volunteering as a Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts and Cub Scout leader and serving as a swim team leader and helping during all their summer activities at Pines Lake. 

In the mid-eighties, with her children reaching an age of relative independence, Barbara set her sights on a personal goal by pursuing higher education at William Paterson University. Squeezing in classes and studying between daily responsibilities, Barbara kept at it and graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in 1993. She remained at WPU for one more year to earn her master’s degree. Barbara initially worked as a reporter for local publications including the Pines Lake Reporter and the Wayne Today newspaper and she wrote press releases and articles for the William Paterson University alumni magazine. Soon after she settled into a rich experience of being a public relations writer and editor for her alma mater, covering countless university events and coordinating with all parties involved while seeing each project from its genesis to completion. She was an incredible writer who, for twenty years prior to full retirement in 2024, immensely enjoyed her work. She was well respected in her professional roles for her thoroughness, organization, punctuality, perfectionism, ability to see each project to its completion and, of course, her perfect penmanship.

Despite all of Barbara’s professional accomplishments, nothing gave her greater joy than times spent with her family. Sharing her love of the arts with her mother Rosemarie and her daughter Laura, she really enjoyed joining them for an evening together, taking in a good movie, Broadway show, or visit to the opera. She loved to share the accomplishments of her sewing, and her accomplished baking skills ensured that her house always smelled inviting and delicious. Homemade breads of all kinds, including her German Stollen bread, and cookies of all varieties were special treats that were always welcome by all. A good cook also, nothing made Barbara happier than family gathered in her home on Christmas and Thanksgiving enjoying her home cooked dinners. Barbara had a terrific way of making you feel special on your birthday, and she always seized the opportunity to celebrate all of life’s accomplishments experienced by the ones she loved. She adored being a mom and completely devoted herself to the role. Always concerned about her children’s well-being, she was a constant source of support and love. Her devotion to her grandchildren was just as strong and she always looked forward to their weekend visits.

Barbara leaves behind a legacy of love and friendship. Always sensitive to the needs and feelings of others, she was selfless – a quality demonstrated by her desire to be involved in acts of service during her years attending St. Mary’s Parish in Pompton Lakes. Having endured recent years of challenge brought on by her battle with Parkinson’s, her family is grateful for her role in their lives but equally grateful that she is finally at peace.

Barbara was the loving and devoted mother of: Laura Martin of Astoria, NY, Geoffrey Martin of Wayne, and Andrew Martin and his companion Christina Whelan of Wayne. She was the cherished daughter of Rosemarie Stoll of Fort Meyers, FL; adoring grandmother of Klaus, Elke, Olivia, and Taylor; dear sister of Thomas Stoll and wife Tracy of Fort Meyers, Florida, and Jim Stoll and wife Tracey of Westwood Massachusetts; and dear aunt of Kelley Hauser and husband Josh, Nick Stoll, Jon Stoll, and Michael Stoll. She also leaves behind numerous dear extended family members in Germany. Barbara was predeceased by her cherished father Klaus Stoll in 2005. 

Kevin Jude Blewitt, age 70, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home while in the loving company of his dear family, on Thursday, September 19, 2024.

The oldest son and third child of Eugene and Jean (O’Connell) Blewitt’s eleven children, Kevin was born in Denville, NJ and raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne. It was a place where he spent his childhood and it was a place he loved.

Kevin attended Immaculate Heart of Mary School and Wayne Valley High School where he ran cross country and graduated with the Class of 1972. With formal education behind him, Kevin embarked upon the journey of life experience as he entered the world of full time work. He started by driving tanker trucks and delivering oil for Van Varick & Sons of Wayne. He eventually shifted gears (not in his oil truck) when he pursued a new venture working for Graphic Media of Fairfield where he delivered equipment and set up media for trade shows. For the final 32 years of full-time work, until his retirement in 2018, Kevin worked for the Wayne Township Department of Public Works, most notably as a Water Treatment Facility Operator. 

One night, at a volleyball game at one of the schools in Wayne, Kevin met a beautiful girl named Patricia “Patty” Scott. Kevin had accompanied a different girl to the night’s activities, but he left with Patty. The two of them felt an initial connection. As that connection grew stronger they soon fell in love and eventually were married by the justice of the peace at the town hall in Wayne on March 15, 1980. After a wedding reception at the American Legion Hall in the Mountainview section of Wayne, they hopped in their car and headed for their honeymoon at the Mount Airy Lodge in the Poconos of Pennsylvania. 

Shortly after the wedding, Kevin and Patty moved from Skyline Lakes, NJ to Wayne where they resided for the rest of their lives. They were blessed with two wonderful boys – Patrick and Nicholas – who they both adored. Kevin passed on his love of fishing to his sons. It was a sport that they could enjoy together right in their own backyard or by getting in Kevin’s boat to go fishing in the river behind their house. When the boys were grown, Kevin and Pat liked to go to Martha’s Vinyard. There they enjoyed tent camping and on occasion, bears would visit while they were in their tents. Since Pat was of Native American descent, she and Kevin loved visiting the Seneca Nation Reservation in upstate New York. 

Kevin enjoyed life and the many opportunities that it offered. He loved Boston Cream donuts and crumb cake from his favorite Packanack Lake Bakery. As a young man, he had a lot of fun playing softball for his team called Bojangles, named after a bar in the Mud Valley section of Wayne. At about the age of 20, he rode his first motorcycle and it became a favorite pastime for many years to come. His pride and joy was his Harley Davidson Dyna Wide Glide – a real cruiser of a bike which he loved getting out on. He’d take many a ride in upstate New York and closer to home on the open roads in West Milford. Though not a veteran of the armed services himself, Kevin frequently rode with the American Legion Post 174 Riders. Those rides would be all day excursions and often including picnics or dinner, and oftentimes, the rides were billed as fund raisers to support charitable endeavors. Kevin’s always wanted to attend the annual famous Sturgis motorcycle rally in Sturgis South Dakota, but he just never made it. Besides a love for motorcycles, Kevin liked to go fishing in the river behind his house or anywhere else. He was also quite the football aficionado. While primarily a Dallas Cowboys fan, Kevin loved college football and even local Wayne football games. In fact, he was highly knowledgeable about Wayne Valley’s teams. 

Kevin and Pat loved going for rides in “THE CUSTOM VAN”. They took frequent trips together to the outlets at Woodbury Commons or simple rides to nowhere. One of Kevin’s favorite rides was in his old stomping grounds in Packanack Lake. They would often end up there, combing the streets in a spirit of reminiscence about “the good old days” of Kevin and Patty’s childhood. Kevin would frequently slow down to stare at the house he grew up in or at other houses where other family members or friends had once lived. On one occasion, Kevin and Pat were out in his van on one of their Packanack Lake history tours. They did not know it, but it was a time when a rash of robberies were taking place in Packanack Lake. Noticing Kevin’s van driving slowly, a homeowner suspected Kevin and Pat were robbers, casing the neighborhood. That neighbor called the Wayne Police who ultimately surrounded Kevin and Patty’s van on Route 23 and eventually pulled them over. It was a scary afternoon until the police concluded that Kevin and Patty were just joy riding.     

Above all else, Kevin’s greatest love and admiration were for his wife Patricia, his two sons, Patrick and Nicholas, his brothers and sisters and entire family, including his God Son Dominic. He also loved all of his dogs - all German Shepherds, all puppies raised at home, all female, all honorary Blewitt’s, and all sadly no longer with us. Mona, Samantha, Coyote, Katie, Abbey, and Hannah were their names, and they gave the family so much joy and protection. 

Kevin was lots of fun to be around. He never missed family parties and was sure to stay long, often needing to be dragged out by his sons and wife to take care of the dog. If he could get another ride home, he’d gladly stay at the party. He had a great sense of humor and was always full of great advice if you needed it. Kevin was also known for writing “KB the Pro” everywhere! If you went into the schools he attended, you’d probably find it carved into the wood somewhere. Kevin touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him. He will be greatly missed but his family is grateful for his life and they take comfort in the fact that he’s reunited with his beloved wife Patricia.    

Kevin was the beloved husband of Patricia (nee Scott), blessed in marriage for 43 years until Pat’s passing in 2023. He was the loving father of Patrick of Steamburg, NY, and Nicholas of Wayne; dearest brother of Katie and husband Blase of Wayne, Joseph and wife Racie of Siesta Key, FL, Maureen and husband Rick of Caldwell, Michael and wife Christina of East Patchogue, NY, Laura and husband Tom of Syracuse, NY, Daniel and wife Ofie of Lincoln Park, Ellen and husband Jim of Maryland, Virginia and husband Ed of St. Louis, MO, Mary Anne and husband Chuck of Pompton Plains, and his late sister Christine (2007) and her husband Tony of Wayne; and awesome uncle of over thirty nieces and nephews. 

Merilyn E Martin went to sleep and then to heaven on September 19, 2024 after battling multiple medical issues. She was born March 11, 1938 in Newark, New Jersey and was one of five daughters born to William and Estelle Gailey. She went to school, lived and worked in New Jersey but most importantly met her husband Hank and shared an amazing life adventure together for 54 years. They enjoyed snowmobiling, fishing and raising bird dogs. Merilyn loved spending time and cooking with all her family but most of all she loved shopping.

Hank retired in 1990, and they decided to move to Florida and began a new life adventure together. Merilyn loved the Florida weather and enjoyed year-round gardening, softball and baseball, the beach and boating. The were active members of the Halifax Cruise Club and enjoyed boating all across Florida and the Abaco’s. Everywhere the club went Merilyn always found a way to cook and a place to shop.

When Hank passed away in 2013 Merilyn moved to Marina Grande on the Halifax where her life adventure changed. She became a new member of a family of friends that kept her busy and enjoying life. They played cards, darts, garage sales, cruised, celebrated, and again her favorite thing shopping! She lived there for nine years with her favorite four-legged friend Chloe but her deteriorating health had one more move for her. The last two years she has resided at Heritage Waterside where once again she found a new family of friends who loved her and helped care for her. She enjoyed bingo, happy hour and more shopping. Merilyn made friends wherever she was, and her friends lasted a lifetime.

She is predeceased by her parents, her loving husband Hank, and her sister Joyce Fedell. She leaves behind three sisters Carol Beatty, Gloria Hinderlong and Bonnie Longo, several nieces and nephews, extended family and countless friends.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to Volusia County Humane Society or a charity of your choice.

Reverend Monsignor William “Willy” Michael Naughton, PhD., Retired Lieutenant Colonel of the United States Airforce passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 18, 2024, while receiving the loving care of his family.

He was born in Boston, Massachusetts to the late Bernard and Helen (nee Fleming) Naughton who were recent Irish immigrants to the United States. An interesting back-story to Fr. Bill’s dad is that while he was in Ireland he belonged to the original IRA.  While there the “black and tans” (Irish Constables) came looking for him, he recalls family stories about his father being hidden by the clergy-underground. Surely these events inspired the family move to the United States. It is interesting to know the home in the town of Ballinasloe, County Galway is still owned by the Naughton family. 

In his early youth Fr. Bill’s family moved to 521 West 186th Street in the Washington Heights section of Manhattan, NY. He attended Saint Elizabeths Elementary School in Washington Heights when, at the age of 7, his father passed away. At the time of his passing his father was a member of the Irish Bartenders Association, that’s code for being an associate of the Irish Mob, and the proprietor of Naughton’s Bar & Grill on 125th Street in Manhattan.  The family had to sell the business to pay for his dad’s medical bills.  

Fr. Bill graduated from Bishop DuBois High School in the Harlem section of Manhattan with the Class of 1963. He continued his education at Cathedral College in the Little Neck section of Queens, NY and went on to Saint Josephs “Dunwoodie” Seminary in Yonkers, NY where he received his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Philosophy. 

During Fr. Bill’s four years of Seminary, he took a year off and worked for the Holy Name Center for Homeless Men at 18 Bleeker Street in NYC. Fr. Bill was put in charge of the facility for a year and oversaw the opening at 3AM where the homeless would shower and shave. Fr. Bill transferred from New York to the Diocese of Paterson, New Jersey and finished his Masters of Divinity at Saint Mary’s Seminary in Baltimore, Maryland, He was ordained on April 8, 1972 at Saint Virgil’s Church in Morris Plains. Fr. Bill was awarded the honor of becoming a Monsignor in June of 1998.

After his ordination, Fr. Bill served as 1st Associate Team Minister at Saint Brendan’s Church in Clifton for eighteen years. During his tenure at St. Brendan’s, he continued his studies at New York Theological Seminary in NYC and received his Master’s Degree in Sacred Theology and received a second Doctorate Degree in Ministry.  He also received his MBA and PhD in Theological Studies from Notre Dame’s Theological Consortium. Fr. Bill, being devoted to his country, graduated from the United States Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, CO and served in the Invasion of Iraq and the Persian Gulf War having attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel and was awarded the Meritorious Service Medal before being Honorably Discharged on April 22, 2004.

In 2004, Fr. Bill arrived at Straight & Narrow, a recovery center, overseen by Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Paterson.  He was part of the Pastoral Care Team where he continued to minister to the many clients there.  Fr. Bill, affectionately called Fr. Willie by many, worked tirelessly and faithfully helping others in their recovery.  He coordinated the visits of the Gospel Choir to various parishes, made sure the clients and their families were remembered at Christmas time and devotedly made sure mass was celebrated weekly, even after a devastating fire destroyed some of the facility.  Fr. Bill rallied to gather support for those who lost belongings in the fire, making sure they had clothes and food to eat.  There wasn’t anything Fr. Bill did not embrace when he saw a need. He put smiles on the many faces of the people of Straight & Narrow, both the clients and the friends he made there. His humbleness will never be forgotten by the lives he touched at Straight & Narrow.

He was the loving brother of the late Patrick Naughton and the late Maureen Hannigan; Beloved uncle of Mary & Michael Del Balso of Wayne, Terry and Rob Tighe of Wayne, Kelly Hannigan of Wayne, Colleen & Billy Loschiavo of Maywood, Patrick Naughton of Middletown, NY, the late Michael Naughton and his wife Donna of Summerville, SC, Tara Naughton of Hollywood FL. He was also the devoted uncle of many great-nieces and nephews and was dearly loved by his extended family and many friends. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Monsignor William Naughton's name may be made to , Catholic Charities, Diocese of Paterson, Straight and Narrow 775 Valley Rd, Clifton, NJ 07013.

Gertrude (Please! Call me Trudy!) Jean Keay was born in Paterson May15th 1932 to Walter Benjamin Harrison and Willemina Van Harken and lived in Paterson, Mexico City, Clifton, Wayne and Sarasota before passing away at age 92 on September 16, 2024 in Sarasota Florida.

After graduating from Clifton High School in 1950, she met and married Alfred Morgan Keay from Wilkes-Barre Pennsylvania, to whom she was married 60 years, raising their four children Laura, David, Daniel and James in Packanack Lake.  Trudy Keay really loved Packanack Lake!

What a great time to be young and what a great place to be young in:  Packanack Lake 1955-2012.  No better place to raise a family and be with a large and fun-loving group of other couples living La Bella Vita. Okay maybe it's all through rose-colored glasses, but Trudy REALLY loved Packanack Lake and the great group of friends she had there - Loved the community; the activities; the friendships.  You couldn't miss her trademark' smile, whether it was returning a serve from Joyce on the tennis courts, setting up Alice for a big spike on the volleyball court, or working with Jeff and the other Players putting on a show at the Clubhouse.

Besides keeping physically fit with all those sports and activities, Trudy was also exercising her mind as a bookkeeper, credit manager, records manager and sales manager for various local companies, along with keeping active in her bridge club. She did not neglect her spiritual health being a woman of enduring faith, which certainly was guided to a significant degree by her beloved aunt Marion Van Harken who may still be remembered by those in the New Jersey religious community as a woman of great piety.

She is survived by the aforementioned four children, her daughters-in-law (Lisa and Norma), her son-in-law (Ralph Sonntag), five grandchildren (Britney, Steven, Thomas, Harrison, Vanessa), one great-grandchild (Rafael) and her sister Barbara Harrison, who miss her dearly.

Requiescat in pace Trudy Keay

Margaret “Peggy” La Forgia née Glynn, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her loving family on Sunday, September 15, 2024. It brings her family comfort during this difficult time knowing that she is now reunited with her beloved husband Gus (d. 2016).

Peggy’s life began as the cherished youngest of eight children born to Peter and Mary Glynn in New York City.

As a young adult, Peggy started working at Allied Stores in New York when she met her future husband, a young man named Gus. He was walking past her desk when he caught sight of “the most beautiful blonde in the world!” The couple started dating and fell in love. They married on October 24, 1964, and celebrated that marriage with a honeymoon in Bermuda.  

Not long after, they were blessed with 3 beautiful children: Denise, Deborah, and Peter. After Denise and Deborah were born the family moved from New York to Wayne, NJ and eventually to Pompton Lakes, NJ.  She had so much love for her children, and she discovered how boundless that love really was when she was blessed with her grandchildren. They were the light and love of her life, and she cherished every moment she shared with them.

Throughout her life, Peggy’s gentle spirit, loving nature, and warm affection touched the lives of all who were lucky enough to know her. Her legacy of love and unwavering devotion to her family will continue to comfort those she held dear, ensuring her memory lives on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her.

Peggy is survived by her three children: Denise Brush, Deborah La Forgia-Murino, and Peter La Forgia and his wife Dana, her 6 grandchildren: Marissa, Matthew, Bryan, Megan, Olivia, and Peter Jr.

George Charles Mammola, a lifelong resident of Wayne, passed September 10, 2024. George was born December 20,1940 in Garfield, NJ. 

George graduated Garfield High school in 1958. From there, he attended the University of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana where he graduated with a bachelor's degree in finance in 1962. Throughout his career he led several businesses and companies and was the President and CEO of Research Cottrell. In the final years of his professional life, he served on a number of company boards and had an independent consulting business. He was most proud of his role as board member and treasurer of Garden Academy whose mission is to provide a high-quality education for children with autism. In that role he helped raise over $1 million to support their cause! George was an avid Notre Dame sports fan and lover of the game of golf. He attended many chilly home games in South Bend to cheer on the Fighting Irish! On the golf front, he embraced the game with passion and served as the President of North Jersey Country Club for 5 years.

George was predeceased by his parents Anna Mammola and Charles Mammola, his brother Ross Mamola and sister Joan Vagell. He is survived by his wife Virginia Mammola, sister-in-law Veronica Cappucci, brother-in-law Pat Cappucci and sister-in-law Gayle Pasquariello, and many nieces and nephews. Although George had no children of his own, he was Godfather to Cynthia Angelica.

George’s true passion in life was to help others. He was known to his friends and family as the eternal optimist. Always cheery, kind, generous and happy. He was also known by a number of his often-repeated quotes – “Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see”, and “unless you are the lead dog, the view is always the same…”

George requested friends and family wear bright colors to celebrate him.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Garden Academy

James P. Fitzpatrick passed away peacefully on Monday, September 2nd.  

Jim was born on April 25th, 1934, in the Bronx, New York, to Patrick and Mary Ann (McHugh) Fitzpatrick, both immigrants from County Cavan, Republic of Ireland.

Jim was a 1955 graduate of Iona College, New Rochelle, New York.  He spent two years in the United States Army Meat and Dairy Hygiene Corps, mostly in LaRochelle, France.  After his military service, Jim worked for Union Carbide Corporation (now Dow Chemical) in the chemicals and plastics division in different sales, logistics, and management positions in New York, Cincinnati, Boston, and New Jersey.  He retired in 1995 after 36 years of service. 

Jim was an active member of the Knights of Columbus, attaining Fourth Degree status as well as having been a Grand Knight.  He served as President of the St. Brendan the Navigator Council of the Ancient Order of Hibernians.  He participated in Eucharistic Adoration in Wayne, New Jersey and St. Augustine, Florida, for over 40 years.  He coordinated the annual Knights of Columbus Tootsie Roll Drive for many years, and also worked in the St. John's County (FL) Food Pantry. 

Jim was an avid sports enthusiast, particularly related to the Detroit Tigers, Notre Dame Fighting Irish, and New York Football Giants.  He was a season-ticket holder for both the New York Giants and New England Patriots for many years.

Jim was preceded in death by his beloved wife of 49 years, Eileen (Moran).  He is survived by his sons Daniel (Kristen) of Boston, Timothy (Adriana) of Florida, and Brian (Melissa) of West Milford, New Jersey.  He was the loving grandfather of the late Ryan Wainwright, Aidan, and Grace Fitzpatrick, all of Boston, as well as uncle and great uncle to many nieces and nephews.  He was also a beloved cousin of many.  He was predeceased by his brother Hugh, sister, Kathleen (Riley), brothers-in-law John (Jack) Moran and William (Bill) Moran, and sister-in law Judith (Clifford) Fitzpatrick.  He is also survived by sisters-in-law Kathleen Wolthoff (Moran) (George), Janice Moran (Friesema) of New Jersey, sister-in-law Mary Ellen Moran (Suralik) and brother-in-law Thomas Riley of Florida.

Robert Edward Cattuna, age 90, of Wayne and formerly a long-time resident of Secaucus, passed away peacefully at home while in the loving presence of his dear family. 

Corey James Curasco, age 37, of Wayne, NJ passed away August 24, 2024.

Corey was born to Fran and Mark Curasco on June 16, 1987. Corey joined a loving family with his older siblings, Cari and Chris. He was very active growing up. Corey not only had to deal with two older siblings and their friends, but a mother who taught at Wayne Valley High School and had her colleagues watch out for him. He loved playing football, playing video games, and hanging out with his lifelong friends. Corey went to Wayne Hills High School and played football throughout his time there. He graduated from William Paterson University in 2010 with a degree in Design and Visual Communications, and won various editing awards.

He worked different jobs over the years, starting as a teenager at Seela’s Paint, GameStop, and Best Buy to adulthood at Toys”R”Us corporate headquarters, Shiseido, and ultimately as a Senior Planner at Orveon Global LLC. His most recent role at Orveon allowed him to travel inside and outside of the country. Corey was passionate about his job and really enjoyed working with his coworkers.

Corey had so many passions. He was a lover of all things related to music, including attending concerts, listening to vinyl, and playing guitar. He loved playing video games on all different platforms, including PlayStation, Xbox, Nintendo, and his custom-built PC. He also loved watching his Green Bay Packers. Sundays were a day of food and friends.

His greatest passion was film and TV in all different genres from throughout history. Some of his favorites, which he’d be sure to recommend, include Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, Back to the Future, Twin Peaks, and It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia. As an AMC A-Lister, he saw several movies per week. Corey and his best friends enjoyed recording their podcast, Live Breathe Film, where they would discuss the latest movies and shows. There are 110 podcast episodes that can be streamed on YouTube.  

Corey met Kate in 2020 at the beginning of the COVID-19 pandemic. It was a very difficult time to meet people and start a relationship, yet it was instant love. There were not two people that matched each other better. She understood him and he adored her totally and completely. Corey proposed on Christmas Eve 2023 and the two had planned to marry in October. Corey was lucky enough to become a cat father (girl dad) to King Abigail Jean Calvo, Princess Charlotte Abigail Curasco, and the hermit crabs Loki, Sylvia, Ariadne, and Ataraxia.

Corey had a warm love of family finding joy and laughter spending time with his brother, sister, and nephews, Jake and Nick. Corey loved watching his nephews play sports and attending their games. He especially loved his time laughing with his cousins Josh, Daryn, Scott, Sherri, Brian, Matthew, Robbie, Steven, Heather, and Nicole.  Corey’s love for animals kept him close to his dogs Willy, Bayley, Casey and now, Max. There is no doubt that the hugs Corey is providing to his furry loved ones in Heaven are overwhelming.

He is survived by his loving fianceé Kate Calvo and his cat daughter, Charlotte Abigail Curasco, his loving parents Fran and Mark, siblings Cari and Chris, sister-in-law Lauren, nephews Jake and Nick, Aunt Jan, Uncle Charlie, Aunt April, Uncle Bob, Uncle Perry, and Uncle Deke, along with his chosen brothers, John Murphy, Doug Lomonico, Ryan Kennedy, Jon Rizzi, Derek Szewczyk, Steve Pellechia, and John Fata. These are his lifelong friends. He was predeceased by Uncle Jeff, Aunt Jill, Aunt Pam, and Aunt Beth.  

Charles “Chud” Edwin Walker III, 77, of West Milford, passed away on August 22^nd from complications due to COPD.

Born in Paterson to Charles and Ruth Walker, with sisters Cathy, Tracy, and Alison, he continued the family tradition of proudly serving the city they loved. The family eventually left their home near Eastside Park, and settled in the town of Franklin Lakes, where he graduated from Ramapo High School in 1966. He attended both Wagner College and Paterson State College, graduating after burning his draft card and becoming heavily involved in leading student protests of the Vietnam War.

Chud started his teaching career at School 5 in Paterson, where he met his future wife, brother-in-law, sister-in-law, and many dear friends. He took great satisfaction in teaming up with Brenda to give back to the city of their birth, and was known by students for challenging them, and occasionally throwing chalk. He was well-liked by his students, and well-known to administrators. He was so effective teaching the 8^th grade work-study program, that he spent the end of his career as a journeyman computer instructor, much to his chagrin.

The greatest source of joy and pride was certainly the family he grew with the love of his life.  Justin, Sean, and Rory were best things that ever happened to them both.  Especially Rory, who remained the apple of Chud’s eye, that is; until grandchildren Sterling and Reilly arrived.

He could name any rock ‘n roll song from Chuck Berry to Steely Dan, loved the Beatles, liked the Beach Boys, and was always welcoming and giving.  Every summer, he became the honorary Mayor of Buxton Beach in the Outer Banks of North Carolina.  He was a surrogate dad to many of his children’s friends and was known for looking out for students in need of help. He was the family cook, the taxi driver, the DJ, the historian, the musicologist, and the nurse.  In his truest form, Chud could be found at his kitchen table, shirt off, radio on, with a beer and some smokes, clapping and hollering along to John, Paul, George, and Ringo. The world and his family are better for being blessed by his presence. 

Please, no donations. Instead, put on a Beatles tune and try to sing John’s parts.

Janet (Walendzinski) Webster, loving wife of the late Donald S. Webster, passed peacefully away into God’s loving embrace on Thursday, August 22, 2024. 

Janet, a long-time resident of Wayne, NJ, was born April 29, 1956 and was raised in Harrison, NJ by her late parents, Chester and Elizabeth Walendzinski.  

For the last several years, Janet was employed by Richelieu in Lincoln Park NJ and was the loving caregiver of her beloved Aunt Katherine Torsiello.  

Besides her husband and parents, Janet was predeceased by her brother Joseph Walendzinski and brother-in-law Roger Webster.  In addition to her aunt, Janet leaves to mourn her loss, her uncle, Anthony Torsiello of Newington, CT., several cousins as well as her sister-in-law Carol Webster, nephew Scott (Lauren) Webster and niece Heather (Sam) Clark.  

Memorial donations in Janet’s memory may be made to the Humane Society of Bergen County, 221-223 Stuyvesant Ave. Lyndhurst, NJ 07071 

John M. Fellema, age 91 of Wayne, NJ, went to be with the Lord early Monday, August 19, 2024. His family and friends were able to visit him before he passed and assure him of how much he was loved and appreciated.

John was born to Milton and Sadie Fellema of North Haledon, NJ on May 31, 1933, and when his mother passed at an early age, his stepmother Anne helped to raise him. He was the oldest of two brothers; Peter and Robert Fellema, previously deceased. John graduated from Eastern Academy with the Class of 1951. He served with the US Army from 1954 to 1956 and was stationed in Panama. 

John met the love of his life, Janet Van Loon at a wedding of mutual friends. They married on June 20, 1959 and settled in Wayne, NJ where they have resided for 64 years. John and Janet were blessed with four children: David Fellema of Wantage, Laurie Sokalski of Hackettstown, Debbie Jones of Apex, NC, and Steven Fellema of Clifton. They celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary on June 20th of this year, and are known for their devotion to each other and a love that many never find – their children never remember them even having an argument! John & Janet became loving grandparents to Michael Fellema, Steven Sokalski, and Tara Paterson and great-grandparents to Amelia Fellema and Ryle, Jane, and Abel Paterson.

John worked as a milkman with Becker Dairy and Stokes Dairy for many years and then as a house painter with Dykman & Dykman. John was a hard worker to a fault and valued for his dedication to every job that he held over the years. In his spare time, John was an avid gardener and loved to work in the yard tending to his flowers. He also loved to read and could always be found in his chair dozing over a good book or his bible. 

John was a faithful member of Preakness Valley United Reformed Church for 60 years, serving as deacon and on many committees. He treasured the Christian community and friendships in the church and loved to attend all of their functions with Janet at his side. 

John also leaves behind cherished family members: Esther Van Loon, Margaret and Ray Bangma, Amy Fellema, Claire Fellema, and his many nieces and nephews. His family and friends will always remember him as a quiet, kind man who loved God. 

Any donations in lieu of flowers may be made to Preakness Valley United Reformed Church, 480 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Frank Naklicki, age 93, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully at home on Monday, August 19, 2024, surrounded by the love of his wife, Theresa, and his children. He fought a courageous battle with cancer.

Born on December 6, 1930, in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, Frank was the beloved son of Frank and Wanda (Sableski) Naklicki. Alongside his younger brother Joseph (Las Vegas, NV),  he grew up in  a close-knit, predominantly Polish community, spending his childhood playing stickball and CYO basketball for St. Alphonsus church. Frank attended Brooklyn Technical High School before graduating from Long Island City High School.

On his 22nd birthday, Frank found himself stepping onto the shores of South Korea as a proud Marine. His two years of loyal service to his country were marked by honor and sacrifice, as he embodied the Semper Fi spirit. After returning home, Frank began college, earning an associate’s degree and later studying at NYU under the GI Bill. Around this time, he also became a dedicated member of the St. Elias Catholic War Veterans Post in Greenpoint.

In 1957, Frank met the love of his life, Terry, on a blind date. He was instantly captivated, and, when she presented him with a birthday cake, his heart was forever won. The couple wed on June 6, 1959, at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. This year, they celebrated 65 years of marriage.

Frank’s professional journey began at Arthur Schroeder Paper Company in New York City, where he where he excelled in sales. His career flourished and he later joined Lowe Paper Company in Ridgefield, New Jersey. In 1984, Frank began his dream job, working with Georgia Pacific, a renowned pulp and paper company based in Atlanta. After a successful career spanning 45 years in an industry he loved, Frank retired in 1996.

In 1964, Frank and Terry moved to Wayne, where they raised their growing family. Their two daughters, Linda and Carolyn, were soon joined by three sons, Paul, Kevin, and James. Frank’s deep faith and commitment to community were evident in his involvement at Our Lady of the Valley  Church. As a dedicated member of the Holy Name Society, he served meals with joy at Eva’s Kitchen and contributed to many charitable efforts. Frank also served as a Eucharistic minister at St. Joseph’s Hospital and was a regular attendee of mass and discussions at the Xaverian Missionary House in Wayne.

A man of many passions, Frank was a member of the Wayne Elks Lodge 2181 for over 50 years. He was an avid bowler on the OLV Friday night league at T-Bowl. Athletic since his early years, Frank found joy in staying active into his 90s, whether running and weightlifting at the gym or playing golf at the Passaic County course. Known for his warmth, humor, and gregarious spirit, Frank formed lasting friendships wherever life took him.

Frank leaves behind his devoted wife Terry, his cherished children: Linda and her husband Seth, Carolyn and her husband Allan, sons Paul and James and his wife Jennifer. He was the proud grandfather of Olivia, McKenna, Tristan, Dylan, Kate, Leo and Emily, as well as the loving great-grandfather of Ruby. His son Kevin predeceased him in 2005, a loss Frank bore with quiet strength.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Xaverian Missionaries, 12 Helene Court, Wayne, New Jersey, 07470 or to the charity of your choice.

Frederick C. Chambers, age 90, passed away peacefully on Saturday, August 17, 2024.

Born in Newark, NJ, Fred graduated from East Side High School in 1951. He was a longtime resident of West Caldwell having moved there in 1981. 

He was a service technician with NJ Bell. In his spare time, he loved life down the Jersey Shore. For many years he had a home in Spring Lake and another that was on a quiet lagoon in Bayville which remained in his family since 1959. Fred loved the outdoors and working around his homes, manicuring his lawn for glorious curb appeal. He loved his nieces and nephews and hosting them for parties and get-togethers at his summer homes. 

Fred was predeceased by his parents, Gavin and Jane (McCarthy) Chambers, his older brother James Chambers and his sister Ann Chambers D’Alessio. He was the loving uncle of Ann Mooney and husband Kevin of Wayne, Ida Martin of Basking Ridge, Catherine D’Alessio of Whiting, and Jane D’Alessio of Scotch Plains. He also leaves behind numerous great-nieces, great nephews, and great-great nieces and great-great nephews. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Fred’s name are asked to consider a gift to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Carol Diane (née Watson), 83 of Hillsboro Beach, FL(previously of Wayne) passed away on Wednesday August 14, 2024.

Carol was born and raised in Paterson, NJ by her parents Charles and Genevieve Watson. As a young girl she loved attending AMA Motorcycle Races with her father “ THE REF” traveling the United States. Carol graduated from Central High School in Paterson.

In 1959 she married the love of her life Joe Alvino on April 18th. They raised their family in Paterson before moving to Wayne in 1980 when they built their first home. Carol and Joe enjoyed entertaining their family and friends there for many years. They spent their winters in sunny Florida and ultimately made it home too. All while running their business Alvino Paving Inc.

Carol was a homemaker who loved cooking, traveling, shopping, bingo, the casino, summers at the Jersey shore, her children and grandchildren and most of all her husband Joe -her rock. We will miss her Sunday pasta and gravy, her kind touches, and loving heart. Carol is survived by her four children Debra Firstbrook, Joseph Alvino, Gregg Alvino & Chris Alvino. Her six grandchildren Ashley, Kaitlin, Alexis, Alivia, Alyssa, Anthony Joseph and her Great Grandson Ace Jack. She was predeceased by her husband Joe Alvino, her parents Charles and Genevieve Watson, brother Scott Watson, and sister Marion Branthwaite.

Brian Skillen, age 52, of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, August 14, 2024.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Brian’s name are asked to consider to:

John Theurer Cancer Center

92 2nd Street

Hackensack, NJ 07601

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anna Marie Bancale (nee Longaker), age 64 of Sussex, NJ.

Anna passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, August 13, 2024.  Anna was born in Paterson, raised in Wayne, and was one of four children to George and Anna Longaker.  She attended Wayne Hills High School where she excelled in Mathematics.  While a student at Wayne Hills, Anna was a Statistician for the Wayne Hills High School Wrestling Team, compiling player and team statistics throughout the wrestling season.  Following her graduation from Wayne Hills with the class of 1978, she attended Stevens Institute of Technology where she earned her Bachelor’ of Science Degree in 1982.  After earning her bachelor's degree with exceptional grades, she wasted no time diving deeper into her field of interest. She enrolled in the master's program in Programming and Electrical Engineering at Stevens Institute of Technology, eager to expand her expertise and tackle more complex challenges. 

Anna found employment quickly and accepted a position as a computer engineer at Singer-Kearfott Guidance and Navigation in Wayne NJ.  After several years, Anna left Singer- Kearfott and took a position as a Computer Engineer for ITT in Clifton where she worked for many years. Later she was a Program Manager and Project Technical Lead Engineer and Software Engineer.  She was also a Systems / Software Engineer for DHPC Technologies for three years and later a Systems / Software Engineer for Peraton Labs in Morris County, New Jersey. 

Anna's career as a software engineer stands as a testament to her remarkable skills and unwavering dedication. While working with the previously mentioned companies, each of which secured crucial defense contracts, she played a pivotal role in developing advanced technologies that significantly enhanced battlefield safety. Her expertise in software engineering contributed to innovations that not only advanced military capabilities but also directly saved the lives of US soldiers.  Anna’s career spanned more than forty years and was truly loved and respected by her clients and colleagues.  Her unique entrepreneurial spirit motivated her to create her own company Logic Applied Computer Engineering.

In 1975, Anna’s cousin Ernie introduced her to his best friend, a man by the name of Brian Bancale.  Anna and Brian hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 14, 1982 Anna and Brian exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Sussex, NJ and have been there ever since. 

One of Anna’s favorite pastimes was Bobbin Lace.  Anna found a unique and calming joy in the intricate art. In her free time, she would often set up her lace-making tools and immerse herself in the delicate process of weaving threads into elaborate patterns.  Anna was also dedicated to her Christian Faith, volunteering as a Youth Leader at the Assembly of God Church.  She cherished boating during the summer with her husband Brian in Belmar at the Jersey Shore every weekend for the last thirteen years.  Anna always made sure she was out in the sun whether she was on the boat or on the beach. 

Anna had a keen sense of style and an understanding of the impact of first impressions.  Before stepping out of the house, she meticulously handpicked her outfit and ensured her appearance was polished and put-together whether it was a professional meeting or a casual outing.  

Aside from all her talents, interests and hobbies, nothing in the world meant more to Anna than spending time with her family and friends and her precious Chinese Crested Powder Puff, “Lacey”.  Anna will be forever remembered as a devoted wife who cherished forty- one years of loving and loyal marriage to her husband Brian, and as a truly loving daughter, and sister, aunt, great aunt and cousin. 

Anna is survived by her husband Brian Bancale of Sussex, NJ, her mother Anna Longaker of Wayne, NJ, two brothers; George Woodrow Longaker, Jr. and his wife Beth of York Haven, PA, and John Lincoln Frank Longaker and his wife Gretchen of Newfoundland, NJ, one sister Lillian Nancy Jennings and her husband Frank of Sparrowbush, NY. She was predeceased by her father George Woodrow Longaker, Sr.

In lieu of flowers, it is requested that you honor Anna Marie by making a donation to the Society of Women Engineers. She exemplified the impact of women pursuing engineering careers in the STEM field.

Barbara Hazelwood, age 87 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, Aug. 13, 2024 after a brief illness. She was born in Paterson and had lived in Clifton and Oakland before moving to Wayne in 1957.

Barbara was the Office Administrator for Pediatric Professional Associates in Wayne for twenty-nine years before her retirement in 1998. She was also a member of Christ Episcopal Church in Pompton Lakes, a volunteer with Passaic Valley Hospice, and an active participant with the “Women’s Health Initiative” at the University of Medicine and Dentistry in Newark.

Barbara is survived by her two children: Dr. Vikki Hazelwood of Wayne, and Alfred Hazelwood, III of Naples, Florida. She was predeceased by her husband and former Chief of the Wayne Police; Alfred J. Hazelwood in 2015, and by her brother, Roy Albinson of California.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara’s memory would be appreciated to the “Christ Church Altar Guild,” and mailed to Christ Episcopal Church, 400 Ramapo Ave., Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Benjamin Santana, age 69, of Wayne, and formerly of Clifton and Paterson, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, September 12, 2024.

The second of Matildo and Anna (Agnes) Santana’s five children, Benjamin was born in Paterson and raised in the family’s home located at 115 Genesee Ave.

Because of his passion for cars, Ben enrolled and graduated from Lincoln Technical Institute where he learned auto mechanics. You see, he had a lifelong passion for cars, so acquiring the knowledge to work on them was indispensable. Ben’s first car was a bright red 1955 Chevy Belair Coupe that his father purchased for him for $300. At some point Ben dropped a 454 under the hood which made it the loudest car you could imagine. Everyone could hear Ben coming from a mile away! Another car that was a Benny favorite was his turquoise 1962 Chevy Impala two door with a small block 327 and four on the floor. He competed at many car shows and grew accustomed to taking home the trophy thanks to his victories in many categories. He also loved going to the car shows to see many friends and talking about cars. 

Feeling that working on cars for a living would have spoiled his love for them, Ben took a different approach to work. He started out at United Wire Hanger in Hasbrouck Heights. His father had worked there for many years and was able to get Ben a job. From there he moved on to Automatic Doorman in Paterson where he worked for twenty years as a parts runner, getting equipment to the jobsites. Most recently he was employed as a Shipping and Receiving Supervisor for ISI Corporation in Fairfield. He retired in 2018. 

Ben met the love of his life, Patricia Lazzaro, at the Dealer’s Inn on Main Avenue in Paterson. Apparently, Ben’s language was a little salty and Patricia called him out for it. That was their first encounter. It was soon followed up by a formal date for dinner at the Jade Fountain in Clifton. They fell in love and decided to spend the rest of their lives together. Benny and Patricia exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, September 8, 1979 at St. John Kanty R.C. Church on Speer Avenue in Clifton. Pat was just out of high school. Everyone celebrated the marriage at a reception at the Athenia Veteran’s Post at 147 Huron Ave. in Clifton. Afterwards, the newlyweds set off for their honeymoon to Virginia Beach, Virginia. After the honeymoon, the first place they called home was a first-floor apartment at 193 Ludington Ave in Clifton. From there they moved into a first-floor apartment in a four-family home at 227 Speer Ave in Clifton that was owned by Pat’s mother. In 2010 Ben and Pat moved to their present home in Wayne. 

Besides playing with his cars, Ben cherished simple happy moments spent with his family and friends. He enjoyed a long-standing tradition of getting together with his brothers and sisters for Saturday night card playing and dinner together at one of his sister’s houses. He loved breakfast and could often be found enjoying it at the Tick Tock Diner in Clifton with his buddies. 

Ben was one of the kindest people you could ever have the pleasure of knowing. He had a great sense of humor and he dedicated himself to looking out for his family, including his cats: Anthony, Vinnie, Jordan and Nika. They had Anthony and Vinnie first and they have since passed away. Then came Jordan and Nika. They were only going to adopt Jordan but they ended up going back to adopt Nika too because Ben said that Nika won his heart when she winked at him. He also had the most generous heart and always got excited at Christmas time participating in the car-show-sponsored donation of gifts for children to the Toys for Tots ministry. 

Ben will simply be missed for the most important thing in the world…..his love. Rest in Peace Benny!  

Ben was the beloved husband of Patricia (Lazzaro), blest in marriage for 45 years. He was the loving brother of Juana Santana of Clifton, the late Patrick Santana (2005), Monte Santana, Jr. and wife Barbara of Clifton, and Maria and Hector Lopez of Clifton; and two dear nephews: Monte Santana, III and wife Ashely, and Vincent Santana and companion Nina Ibarria. He was also predeceased by his cherished parents: Matildo Santana (2014) and Anna (Agnes) Santana (1999).

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ben’s name are asked to consider donating a toy for a child in need to Toys for Tots at Christmas time. You can also donate to Toys for Tots by clicking HERE. Thank you!

Ella Elsie (Weber) Proper passed away on August 11, 2024, at the age of 101.

She was born on February 6, 1923, in Manhattan, New York, to Katherine and Michael Weber.  She had two siblings, Katherine and John, however, John passed away at the age of 21. Ella lived on 24th street until she was six years old, and then moved to their apartment at 415 E. 75th street, which was a four-room apartment with no private bath as the tub was in the kitchen under the counter. Her parents were the Supers of the building, and her dad was also a baker. She would always look forward to his coming home as he would bring goodies left-over from the bakery!

Ella attended Julia Richmond High on 68th and 2nd Avenue, and after graduation, she went to secretarial school and got a job at Chiswick Rare Book Store. She then worked at Revlon, the Singer Sewing Machine Co., and then as a secretary at the Barrett Division for a mechanical engineer. This is where she met William E. Proper, who she later married on June 16, 1951.

Ella (later changed to Ellen) and Bill had two children, John and Lynn, and lived first in West Orange but then moved to their home of 50 years at 14 Ann Street, Verona, NJ. They enjoyed traveling together, as well as times at their summer home in Lake Hopatcong, NJ. Ellen volunteered at the local hospital and was always active in their church. She had a strong faith, which was apparent in her everyday life. Ellen started working part time at Macy’s and enjoyed working there till she was 86 years old, about 40 years of employment!   After Bill’s death, Ellen moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ, where she enjoyed singing and spending time with her new friends.

Ellen loved her childhood in New York City and said, “I wouldn’t trade it for the world!”  One of her fondest memories was standing out on the front “stoop” singing songs from a newly purchased song sheet. She would make her own clothes in her dad’s basement work shop, and always had to have everything match…from gloves to hats! Frank Sinatra was her love, and she could see him perform in the early years in a theater in her backyard. She was truly part of the Greatest Generation!

We will always remember Ellen’s love of life and most importantly her love of her family.  Her determination, strong will, and generous and caring heart will be remembered by her family forever. She was a devoted and loving mother to her son, John, and daughter, Lynn.  She was a proud grandmother to Michael Lepore and Ashley Lepore Mckenna, as well as being “GG” to Nash and Lyndee Lepore, and Layna McKenna.  Her song, “I love you a bushel and a peck,” will forever be in our hearts as well as all the memories of time spent together.

Ellen Proper was a remarkable woman with a sharp wit, style and grace. She will be profoundly missed by her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, family and friends. She is survived by her son, John Proper, her daughter and son-in-law, Lynn and Tom Lepore; her grandson and his wife, Michael and Kaitlin Lepore, and their children, Nash and Lyndee; her grand-daughter and her husband, Ashley and Tyler McKenna, and their daughter, Layna. Also surviving her are her sister, Katherine; and nieces and nephews, Susan Baxter-Young, Randy Ferron, Steven Mannina and Christine Metcalf.

Preceded her in death are her husband, Bill; her parents, Katherine and Michael Weber; and her brother, John Weber.

At her funeral, she always said to sing the song, “I’ll be seeing you in all the familiar places….” so, may she keep singing and rest in peace knowing how much she was loved and will be missed!

In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Glaucoma Foundation or Best Friends Animal Sanctuary.

Robert Andrew Hengeveld, age 78, formerly of Wayne passed away suddenly on August 9, 2024.

Robert was born in Paterson, NJ on June 24, 1946 to William A. Hengeveld and Irma Mae Hargreaves. Bob, to his friends, spent his childhood in Little Falls and graduated from Passaic Valley High School. He went on to study at Gettysburg College where he was a member of the Theta Chi fraternity. His time at Gettysburg instilled in Bob a love of civil war history and he was proud of his great-father’s service to the Union Army. Bob went on to attend Farleigh Dickinson University for his doctorate in dental medicine. 

After graduation, Robert started a family dental practice on Ratzer Road where he became affectionately know as Dr. Bob. Between his home office and a second location on Hamburg Turnpike, he served the Wayne community from 1972 until 2008. Dr. Bob hated to see anyone in pain and opened his office for emergencies whenever needed. At the end of every year, Dr. Bob chose a family to forgive their balance to ensure all patients could receive care regardless of their financial status.

In addition to his love of dentistry, Bob loved Green Pond, NJ. His parents had a summer home on Old Lane that they eventually retired to. After their deaths, Bob moved into the home and continued his lifelong love of the lake and his boat. Spending time with his family skiing, tubing, and fishing or just cruising to the cove were his favorite activities.

A proud father of 4 children with his first wife, Carolyn Greydanus, Robert is survived by Kevin, Judith, Stewart, and Janelle. He was an active dad from the beginning changing diapers and tucking them in to bed.  Having a home office allowed Bob to adjust his schedule to attend school events, basketball games, track meets and musical performances. He spent years visiting their grade schools to teach children about dental hygiene. Bob loved to travel with his kids from state parks to the Jersey Shore and even an epic RV trip through the American southwest. He loved bringing them to Devils games and Springsteen concerts and watching movies. One of Bob’s favorite movies, The Bird Cage, he would frequently quote, “Well, one does want a hint of color” when questioned about his clothing choices.

Bob was known as Pake or Grandpa to his grandkids. He loved to give them giant hugs and constantly would say how proud he was of them. He made sure there was always appropriate-sized life vests for them for rides in the boat. “Pake Bob” played games with them, from the Wii to board games - even Pretty, Pretty Princess where he would gleefully don earrings and a crown. Pake would ask them about their interests and listen as they relayed endless information about Star Wars, Pokemon, American Girl dolls or dance. His legacy lives on through Isabella, Ella, Evan, Madeleine, Christopher, Emma, Olivia, and Vivian.

Being an uncle, was very special to Bob. Whether it was traveling to Ohio or hosting family in Wayne or at Green Pond, he cherished the time spent with his sister, Nancy, her 4 children and grandchildren. After Nancy passed away in 1993, he continued to offer support and encouragement to his nieces and nephews. He was proud of all they accomplished and looked forward to their visits and hearing them affectionately call him, Uncle Bob.

Bob met his beloved wife, Gaby, later in life. They married in 2008 and blended their families with barbecues at the lake. He was proud to add Liz and Richard as step-children and Zachary, Austin, and Amanda as grandchildren. Bob and Gaby loved to support their grandchildren together by attending baseball games, dance competitions, marching band events, and Taylor Swift concerts. Even though he grew up a Yankee fan, Gaby’s love of the Mets had Bob traveling to Queens for games at Citi Field and wearing more blue and orange than pinstripes. Sports were frequently on in their home as they both loved the NY Giants and the NJ Devils. Bob and Gaby also loved spending time in Ocean City, NJ where they enjoyed reading on the beach and walking on the boardwalk. Mostly they loved being in OC and creating memories with their children and grandchildren. They took turns caring for each other through medical issues until Gaby’s untimely death from ALS in 2023.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Foundation for Morristown Medical Center, 310 South Street, 4th Floor, Morristown, NJ 07960, in memory of Robert A. Hengeveld.

James Hatcher, age 60 of Pompton Lakes, passed away on Sunday, August 4, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.

James was one of four children born to Eleanor and Harold Hatcher. They spent their childhood in Philadelphia before moving to Toms River, NJ during James’ Junior year of high school. He then attended Toms River High School East where he became lifelong friends with Joe Murdico through their mutual love for the performing arts. James’ passion for theater led to his involvement in the Bucks County Playhouse Summer Theater as well as other community theater and high school theater during the school year. After graduation, James began working in the banking industry with his mother.  That was the beginning of a lifelong career in banking. But there was still his love of theater which developed into a unique opportunity when his best friend Joe invited him to travel to California and join the Spirit of Los Angeles Cruise ship as a Cruise Director.

The Spirit of Los Angeles Cruise ship introduced James to a fellow performer by the name of Laurrinda Robinson. James was blown away by Laurrinda and immediately told Joe that he needed to know more about her. Fortunately for James, Joe was already friends with Laurrinda so the two were introduced and the three of them became great friends over the next five years. One day James mustered the courage to ask Laurrinda to go on a date with him. They had been such close friends already that Laurrinda didn’t realize it was a date until James picked her up alone! It took her a bit of time to see James in a romantic way after being such close friends for so long, but the two fell in love. They were married in 1994 and moved together to New York in 1998. The couple shared almost 30 years of a loving and happy marriage together.

While living in New York, James commuted to Wayne, NJ for his job at Valley Bank as a Training Specialist. He had an uncanny ability to make his training enjoyable by all. Whether through his wittiness, his humor, or his acting abilities from years of theater, his coworkers truly enjoyed his training and absorbed the knowledge he provided with ease. He worked in banking for over 35 years.

In October of 2006, Laurrinda and James were blessed with their son Cooper Hatcher. About three years later they learned of Cooper’s special needs and decided that they could give him the best opportunities to succeed in life by moving out to the suburbs over in Pompton Lakes, NJ. James loved Cooper beyond measure, and he was an incredible dad.

James’s life changed forever when his unbearable back pain, caused by an undetected tumor, led to a break in his back vertebrae which paralyzed him from the waist down. That terrible outcome would be enough to lead anyone to give up but not James. He was a fighter who continued to battle cancer and multiple related health issues with a fervor that impressed his doctors, family, and friends.

James will be remembered for his strength of will and his witty, sharp humor that took even a clever mind time to unravel. He had an uncanny ability to weave knowledge into his humor that made everyone around him smarter for it. He was an amazing husband, father, and friend that will be dearly missed by all.

James is survived by his wife Laurrinda Hatcher; his son Cooper Hatcher; his brothers: Mark Wade and his wife Gail Wade, and Edward Hatcher; his nephews: Mark Hatcher, Weston Wade, Lukus Wade, and Edward McGill; his nieces: Laura Friedland and Gianna Wade; his brother-in-law Cary Robinson and his wife Melissa Robinson; his father-in-law and mother-in-law: Clifford Robinson and Lorie Hsu; his best friend Joe Murdico; long time family friends Chris, Kim, Erik, Abby, Kate, and Lily Sanders; and close friend Pat Pontus Martin.

James is predeceased by his parents: Eleanor and Harold Hatcher; and his sister Barbara Eagan.

It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that we share the passing of our treasured wife, mother, and grandmother, Marilyn C. Parr, who left us peacefully on August 3, 2024, while in the arms of her loving husband. She was an inspiration of love, kindness, and spirituality to all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

Born on September 27, 1942, in Paterson, NJ, Marilyn was a cherished daughter of William and Helen Phillips. She shared a delightful childhood with her sister, Margaret McCall of Teaneck, NJ and her brother, William Phillips II, predeceased of Lincoln Park, NJ, where they grew up on Spring St. in Paterson NJ., before moving to Wayne. 

She married John Parr Sr. on September 26, 1964, and together they built a life filled with joy, laughter, and unending devotion for 60 years. 

As a mother to Robin Quiles of Highland Mills, NY, John Parr of Wayne, NJ, and Danay Murphy of Friendswood TX, Marilyn poured her love and wisdom into raising a family grounded in compassion and respect.  Her home was a place of comfort where her children and their friends learned the values of kindness, the importance of family bonds, the joy of laughter, and the practice of empathy.  Her nurturing spirit extended to her role as a highly involved grandmother to her favorite eight: J.P., Ricky, Shane, Liam, Elias, Macie, Bridget and Gracin with whom she shared countless moments of joy, laughter, and creating traditions.  She shared a special, unique relationship with each of her grandchildren and nothing gave her more happiness than time spent with them. 

Marilyn was an Executive Assistant and worked for American Cyanamid, American Home Products, Wyeth, and Pfizer for many years. She served in the Agricultural Division and traveled throughout the west and midwest for her position. She also enjoyed leisure travel and explored different parts of Italy with John and lifetime friends.  Her favorite spot was, however, the Jersey shore where she had many great childhood memories. 

Marilyn was known for her creativity, generosity, and community service. She crocheted a myriad of quilts and hats for veterans, her loved ones, and those in need. She was highly involved in Our Lady of Consolation Church and once active in Prayer Shawl, Cornerstone, Rainbows, and Amity.  She was a sewer as well, making curtains, clothing, and memory quilts and pillows.  There was no end to her creativity.  

Marilyn leaves behind her beloved spouse John Parr Sr., her three children and their spouses, eight grandchildren, and a host of family and friends who will forever treasure the memories shared with her. She has become a part of their tapestry for a lifetime. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to either Tunnel to Towers Foundation t2t.org, or fundamaya.org, two organizations that Marilyn felt strongly about.

It is with profound sadness that the family of Donald Jay Kazazian announce his sudden passing on Thursday, August 1, 2024 at the age of 81. Donald will be lovingly remembered by his beloved wife of 33 years, Marie, and his cherished children, Jamian and Alexa. He is survived by numerous caring family members and many devoted friends.

He was predeceased by his parents (Gladys and John Kazazian) and grandparents (Gladys and Albert Horn), his aunt and uncle (Elsie and Bill Bull), cousins (Joyce and Norman Slinger), and his first wife (Mary Ellen Newman, mother of Jamian).

Donald was born on June 17, 1943 in Passaic, NJ to John and Gladys Kazazian. An only child, he grew up in a loving home raised by his adored parents, his revered grandparents, his devoted aunt and uncle, and an older cousin. Donald attended Clifton High School where he excelled at baseball and other sports. Following high school, Don joined the National Guard where he served for 5 years. He then went to work with another uncle who had a successful interior decorating business.  After a brief time working for his uncle, Donald joined the United States Postal Service in 1966. He was an exemplary employee being awarded many accolades numerous times over the years. For the next 33 years until his retirement 1998, Don joyfully served the residents of Fair Lawn, NJ. He considered them family and one day one of them would become his wife (Marie).  Don retired from the Postal Service in 1998 and for the next 20 years he worked for the County of Passaic, Department of Parks and Recreation.  This afforded him the opportunity to work at the Passaic County Golf Course, a retirement dream job he had much coveted.  

Donald met his wife, Marie Heckel, when she was in the fifth grade while on one of his mail routes.  He became a friend to many families on his routes and Marie’s was one of them. Many years later she would become the love of his life and he often told her that.  He married her in December of 1990 and their daughter Alexa was born in 1993. Having found himself being a parent of a special needs child, and having had a child previously, certainly brought out Don’s nurturing instincts.  As he had done with Jamian years prior he did now with Alexa.  He was very involved with his special needs daughter. He doted on her and he worked closely to make sure she had all the love and care she needed. He was closely involved with her education, therapy, and development.  He attended every parent teacher meeting, school event and together with Marie hosted all of his daughter’s birthday parties. He shared a wicked sense of humor with his daughter and creatively entwined them into behavioral techniques.  He had good insights and a calm disposition, two important traits required in raising a child with special needs.

Don had a strong, steady sensibility and always exuded positive charismatic energy.  He was a great conversationalist, storyteller, and a joy to have around.  Don had a heart of gold and was known everywhere he went it seemed.  Whether it be a store, restaurant, doctor's office or even while vacationing on a trip to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina he would be recognized by someone.  Over 150 people attended the surprise retirement party that Marie threw for him in 1998.  Don was an extremely affable person. As a send-off to an avid golfer, he received 33 golf shirts - one for each year he worked.  He wore every one of them until he needed 33 more! He loved to teach golf as well and had the patience of a saint.

Don was multitalented and excelled at just about everything he did. In his younger years he took great pride in his clothes - not surprising coming from a family of dry-cleaning business owners.  He was a pool player who beat whomever he was playing.  He loved toy trains and old movies. He loved traveling.  His honeymoon with Marie was spent in CA and he would have gone back except life got in the way. He was a Jersey Shore guy.  He spent his entire summer in Wildwood Crest every year of his childhood, adolescence and teenage years.  He had an amazing long-term memory and forgot nothing about those years - especially during his teen years when Wildwood was considered the “Rock and Roll Capital of the World”.  He loved to watch documentaries of anything Wildwood and would choke up emotionally recounting those glory days.  Also during those days, Don became a close friend and devoted fan of the emerging rock group, The Rascals.  He would attend their performances every night in Garfield, NJ at the much revered Choo Choo Club, as well as many venues in NYC.  

Don loved spending time in the kitchen creating delicious meals for his family. He was a talented cook, master of the backyard BBQ, and loved seeing others enjoy his cooking. He loved watching cooking shows and experimenting with new recipes.  He always said the best cooks know how to cook well because they love to eat.  In his younger days he knew every restaurant in New Jersey!  Needless to say he was a superb cook, our family’s own personal gourmet chef.  

His zeal for food and cooking was rivaled only by his passion for golf.  When he was not watching cooking shows Don could be found on the golf course.  Don also had a love of  photography and we now have the gift of thousands of cherished photos, slides documenting his life and honoring the special people in it. Donald was a music lover who loved to dance. He was a frequent club-goer during the disco days. In an earlier era, Don became a dedicated fan of his favorite group, The Rascals.  Six weeks before Don’s passing we celebrated his 81st birthday with a special gift and personal video message from Felix Cavaliere (the group’s founder) and the band wishing him well.  A video was sent back to the band featuring Don sending messages of gratitude.  Marie organized this through the Twilight Foundation.  Don said it was the best birthday gift he ever got.  No one knew it would be his last.

The last decade of his life found him suffering with numerous medical issues. His long-standing battle with these serious, chronic conditions mirrored his courage in facing life’s challenges with a smile.  Blessed with a strong will to live, Donald surpassed all expectations and through his pain and limitations, continued to care for his family.  He was an inspiration to many.  

In remembrance of the life of Donald Jay Kazazian, the family asks that any charitable donations be made to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation.

Beatrice Mary ( Fattell ) Accad gently passed into eternal life on August 1, 2024, at the golden age of 94.

Born in Paterson, New Jersey to Louis and Bessie Fattell, Beatrice was the first-born of their five children.

After graduating St Agnes Grammar School, she attended Benedictine Academy in Paterson, where she later acted as president of the Alumnae Association.  

She went on to attend Edgewood Park Finishing School, Briarcliff Manor, New York. She often spoke of her years there with great fondness.

During these youthful years, Beatrice developed her skill at hosting many parties at her parent's home and her vivacious personality won her many friends and admirers.

Fluent in the Arabic language, she was able to enjoy the company of many Syrian newcomers to Paterson during its Silk City heyday.

These skills served her well in later life where, with her loving husband Edgar, she entertained clergy and politicians alike with a natural, gracious ease.

Her father, Louis, a well-known Paterson silk magnate, often enlisted his devoted daughter and son-in-law to entertain his business associates at their Clifton home, which they did with their warm hospitality.

Married on June 6,1954, they began a six-week honeymoon touring Europe, Egypt and the Middle East. Upon returning, the couple set roots in Clifton, which would serve as their life-long home base.

Their first daughter, Valerie, was born while Beatrice’s husband served overseas in the United States Military. Two years later, identical twin daughters arrived, a surprise to all! Denise and Danielle have the distinction of being born right on Beatrice’s own birthday! This led to their personalized song “Happy Birthday to you and you and you!”

The Accad’s love for travel continued with a 1972 visit to Russia and several trips with their children on cruises and island hopping.

Beatrice and Edgar were progressive in their thinking, enjoying homes in Clifton, the Jersey shore, and Florida. They opened their doors to family and friends alike. There was always room at Beatrice’s table, and she often offered her authentic Aleppian Arabic dishes.

While raising three energetic daughters, Beatrice applied her personal skills as a fundraiser to the mission of St. Jude Children’s hospital, becoming an associate of Danny Thomas himself when the hospital was simply a blueprint, a prayer, and a dream.  

The fundraising began as The Teenagers March to Fight Childhood Leukemia with Beatrice serving as New Jersey’s state co-chair. This activity culminated in an evening at the Peppermint Lounge in Manhattan where the hardest working teens danced the Peppermint Twist which was performed in person by Chubby Checker himself. Bobby Rydell, a teen singing idol of the era, also appeared to congratulate the teenagers. What an exciting and unforgettable night and the beginning innumerable fundraisers to come.

She always felt it to be an honor to have done her part in helping the hospital that” Turns No Child Away “and now claims a success rate of cancer survival in children, moving it from 20% to 80%!  

A life-long parishioner of St. Ann’s Melkite Catholic church, Beatrice lent her charitable talents to a variety of church led organizations such as The Gregorians, The Aleppian Charity, and ALSAC.

Known as a forward thinker, Beatrice and her husband invested in real estate. Buying and selling fascinated her and she enjoyed discussing the fine points of the real estate market. She and Edgar purchased the Port Murray Dairy building on Broad St in Clifton which served as the basis of their parent company BEA EQUITIES. From here, they continued to run their successful business Fashion Quilting Inc. Upon Edgar’s retirement, BEA EQUITIES went on to accommodate many thriving enterprises.

Beatrice was the definition of elegance. After a brief stint in her father’s office, she went on to Saks Fifth Avenue’s flagship store in Manhattan as a personal gift shopper. Here, she further developed her unique sense of style.

An entrepreneur at heart, she and her life-long friend Mrs. Joan Finn opened a one-of-a-kind shop for all things of beauty. Called the Boutique Elegante, it was located on Rt 46 in Clifton, and later at the Westmount Country Club, Woodland Park.

A well-noted quality of Beatrice’s was her ability to light up the room wherever she went. She truly lived up to her affectionate nickname, “Queen Bea.” Always an engaging and curious conversationalist, she could intelligently discuss a wide range of topics. Her charm was her capacity to make people of all ages feel included and comfortable. After spending even a brief time with Beatrice, folks would declare their love for her! She was fun-loving and laughed easily, especially at bawdy jokes! Beatrice leaves her memory to be cherished by all who knew her.

Surviving her are Valerie and Gary Gerardi of Towaco, Denise and Chris Wilson of Clifton, Danielle and Corey Shaker of Woodbury CT. Her beloved grandchildren, Kristen and Edward Shaker, Vincent Gerardi, and step- grandchildren, Lindsey Shaker, Steven Gerardi, and Kara Petrocelli.  Also surviving are her dear siblings, Bernadette Pastore, George Fattell, Victoria Fattell, sister-in-law Terri Accad, her wonderful nieces, nephews, cousins, and her many friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Ada Mae Breeman, 92 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, July 31, 2024. She had lived in Prospect Park before moving to Wayne more than thirty years ago.

“Mae,” as she was known to most, had been a bookkeeper throughout the years, working for her husband's accounting business.  After his death, she worked at the N. Haledon Board of Education, Thermatics Corporation in Lincoln Park, and Towne Lawn Irrigation in Wayne.  After retiring, she volunteered at the Chilton Hospital offices. She served as the treasurer for many years at the Brittany Chase Condo Association in Wayne. She was very organized, loved accounting, and at her age she adapted quickly to using computers, did all of her banking online, and all of her grandchildren knew that using email was the quickest way to get in touch with their grandmother. Visits and time spent with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren were a treasure to her!

Mae’s hobbies included knitting and crocheting. She had crocheted countless blankets and other items, almost all of which were donated to Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center and the Veterans. She also enjoyed doing crossword puzzles and word finds to keep her mind sharp!

She was a faithful member of the Free Reformed Church of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Mae is survived by her three children: Kenneth Breeman and his wife Barbara of Towaco, Doris Prol of Boonton Township, and Donald Breeman and his wife Barbara of Wayne, eight grandchildren and sixteen great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband, Edwin, in 1991 and by her sister Wilma Mol in 2013.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Mae’s memory to Come Over and Help, www.coah.org, or Word and Deed Ministries, www.wordanddeed.org.

Joseph Louis Suarez   September 19, 1927 – July 31, 2024

Joe was a Brooklyn boy who grew up in a large extended family—so many aunts, uncles, and cousins that it was difficult to keep them straight.  He was the eldest of three children of Frank and Rosaria (nee Schepis) Suarez and lived most of his life in New Jersey, with the exception of his time in the Navy Air Corps, when he was stationed in Oklahoma. He graduated from Dwight Morrow High School in 1945 where he earned letters and medals in track.  He later attended Pratt Institute earning a certificate in Tanning Technology in 1949.

He married Julia Krause in 1950, and together they raised three children and a variety of dogs, rabbits, and other pets over the years and traveled widely, from Alaska to Antarctica, Europe, and the American West.

Despite his urban childhood, he was an adventurous spirit, and in 1957 the family moved to the then more rural township of Wayne. He fought the daily traffic of the commute to Newark, where he worked over the years for Radel Leather, Seton Leather, and Ocean Leather.  Joe was a tanner, or in more modern parlance, a leather chemist, the same profession his father and several uncles followed--the oldest profession in the world, not the scarlet one most people think of.  Leather was a part of life in the Suarez household.  Joe made leather book covers and belts and purses and coasters from the scrap leather he brought home. A small piece of leather was often his fix for a squeak or hinge.

Joe could fix just about anything, even if the solution was somewhat Rube Goldberg-esque.  and he enjoyed tinkering at his workbench in the cellar, while the Met Opera played in the background. He was very frugal, saving all sorts of nuts and bolts, scrap lumber, wire, just in case . . .

Having grown up in the Big Band era, Joe admired the crooners of that time, especially Bing Crosby and Dick Haymes, and the bands popular in that day.

Joe was even-tempered and good-natured and family was his priority.  He and Julie were devoted parents who took an active part in their daughters’ lives and were always willing to help them with household repairs.  The quintessential good steward, he devoted countless hours to maintaining church property, serving many years on the Building and Grounds Committee and church council at St Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne where he was a faithful member.

Joe was predeceased by Julia, his wife of sixty-four years; sister Catherine Szap, and his parents.  He is survived by brother Richard of British Columbia, daughters Julia (David); Lisa (John); Elizabeth (John); grandchildren Christopher, Elizabeth, Alexander, Penelope, and August, and six great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to St. Timothy Lutheran Church, 395 Valley Road, Wayne, New Jersey 07470.

Dennis Leogrande, age 77, passed unexpectedly on Tuesday, July 30, 2024.  

Born in Paterson, NJ, in 1947, Dennis moved to North Haledon, NJ, at the age of twelve. He graduated from Manchester Regional High School, where he met Leslie, who would become his loving wife of fifty-five years. After receiving a BA in Music Education from William Paterson University, he went on to earn both an MA in Music Education from NYU and a Supervisor’s Certificate from Montclair University.

Throughout his college and early married years, Dennis played professional accordion for banquets, parties, and weddings. During his 28 year career in education, Dennis specialized in string instrument instruction and orchestra conducting. He began his career in the Pascack Valley district. His next job was in the Ramapo/Indian Hills system. Following that he moved professionally to Randolph, where he remained for 25 years, teaching lessons, establishing ensembles, and creating a string orchestra of considerable reputation. His final career move was to Millburn, where he assumed the responsibilities of District Music Supervisor. During these years in public education, he published several music books for the educational market.

Dennis met Leslie Pickering while in high school.  She was his prom date and after five years of dating they fell in love and married.  Dennis and Leslie married at the Cedar Cliff Methodist Church in Haledon on August 9, 1969 and honeymooned at Cove Haven in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania. They have enjoyed a loving, devoted and supportive marriage of fifty-five years.

Dennis took early retirement to pursue his passion and begin a second career. He opened his own digital recording studio where he served as recording engineer and Leslie served as director of hospitality. They both loved working with the artists who came to the studio to record projects that would further either their careers or their educations. When not teaching privately or working with clients in the studio, Dennis created original piano jazz compositions, which resulted in four commercial collections. He wrote all the music and performed several tracks on each compilation. Of special pleasure to him was collaboration on the musical endeavors of special friends.

One of Dennis’s joys was travel, which he enjoyed more frequently post-retirement. From Maine to Italy, it didn’t much matter as long as it was a vacation, and he was able to enjoy it with Leslie and often with family and friends. In 2022, he and Leslie purchased a modest lake cottage in New York State. He spent many happy hours kayaking, fishing, and relaxing in front of his wood burning stove. Surprisingly, he took quite easily to country life.

Dennis lived a life rich in love, music, and humor. It was a good life.

Dennis was the loving husband of fifty-five years to Leslie (Pickering) Leogrande; devoted brother to Lorraine and her husband Michael Pistorio, and Sandra and her husband Brian Toner; he will be dearly missed by his nieces, nephews, their families, and many friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Clemson University Dr. Anthony Bernarducci Annual Choral Fund (click here to be brought to the donation page).  If you prefer to mail your donation: Clemson University Foundation, PO Box 1889, Clemson, SC 19633-1889 (in your memo write “Dr Anthony Bernarducci Annual Choral Fund in memory of Dennis Leogrande).

George Swanson, age 84, of Wayne, originally of Kearny, New Jersey, and a longtime former resident of Budd Lake and Johnsonburg, New Jersey, passed away on Sunday, July 28, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.  Born in Newark, New Jersey, George was raised in Kearny where he attended St. Cecelia’s grammar school and High School graduating in 1958 from Kearny High. George loved sports and played basketball and soccer for St. Cecelia’s and Kearny High and won many awards and accolades. He spent his childhood summers at the Jersey shore vacationing in Lavallette, and later on working at his uncle’s hotel in Ocean Grove, the Ardmore-Summerfield. He pursued higher education, first at Davis and Elkins in West Virginia, before transferring to what was then Jersey City State College where he graduated in 1963 with a degree in Social Studies and English. He began his teaching career in the Keyport school system before returning to Kearny and teaching in Palisades Park, Newark and Denville. He also worked for the Essex County Special Services Commission. Simultaneously, he worked part time from his college years at Boystown in Kearny where he attained the position of Superintendent until he and three of his college friends opened Lakeview Learning Center in 1981, a private school for the disabled, which still exists today in Wayne, New Jersey.

George never retired! He was a natural born leader and public servant. He served as president of his college fraternity, and President of the Mt. Olive Town Council in Budd Lake. He was a HUGE Rutger’s fan (where his two daughter's graduated), and had season football tickets since 1991. He loved dining out and travelling. He travelled with his wife, Beth, and many times his entire family, and friends, to many destinations in Europe and Scandinavia, as well as Aruba and the Caribbean and beyond. He also had a boat that he and his family sailed on Lake Hopatcong, and then in the early 2000’s bought a condo at the Ocean Club in Mantoloking that overlooked the Atlantic Ocean. He and his family spent many beautiful summers at the Jersey Shore and made many wonderful friends.

George married his sweetheart Elizabeth (Beth) Rooney in 1966 and is survived by her, and their three beautiful children: Jacqueline and her son Jacob, Karen Diaz and her husband, Ralph, and their children Kyle and Lauren, and his son George. As well as his sister, Joan Belfiore and her children Alice Sabella and her husband Dannie, Tammy Buschgans and her husband Rick, her son Vincent, and his sister Joyce Hackett and her daughter Alyssa Cook and her husband Mike.

He is also survived by his deceased sister Lois Elliott’s six children Jimmy and his wife Mary, Kenny and his wife Erica, Sean and his wife Tina, Wayne and his wife Donna, Brian and his wife Kelly, and Shannon McGee and her husband Tim as well as numerous grand nephews and nieces. He was predeceased by his parents, Alice and George, and Joan’s husband Robert Belfiore and Joyce Hackett’s husband Wayne.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of James Edward Moran, Jr., age 81 of Pequannock, NJ.

James passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 27, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  Those who knew James best affectionately referred to him as Jim.  

Jim was the younger of two children to James and Mary Moran.  He was born in Paterson, NJ and spent his formative years in Clifton before his family moved to Wayne where he attended Wayne High School.  Following Jim’s graduation from Wayne High School with the class of 1961 he held a couple of odd jobs before enlisting in the United States Army.  Jim spent six years in the Army Reserves before being honorably discharged in 1969.

In 1966, Jim accepted a position as an equipment operator in his family owned business, FP Duffy Inc. located in Lincoln Park.  Jim worked alongside his brother Fred for many years until his retirement in 2002.  

Jim lived in Wayne for many years while he was married and welcomed the births of both his children, Michele and James. In 1972 he moved to Pequannock where he has been ever since.   He was a long-time member of the American Legion Post 450 in Pequannock.  

Jim was a sports enthusiast and on occasion would take a day trip to the casino.

Jim’s love and compassion for animals was matched only by his infectious sense of humor, which could brighten any room he walked into.  Friends and family often admired how Jim could seamlessly weave a joke into a conversation, making everyone laugh.  Beneath his wonderful sense of humor, Jim’s good heart shined brightly.  His good nature was always evident in the countless acts of kindness he performed without ever seeking recognition. Whether he was cracking a joke or rescuing a lost pet, or injured animal, Jim’s life was a testament to the joy and love he spread.

He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Jim is survived by his daughter Michele Moran of Pequannock, NJ, his son James Edward Moran, III of Punta Gorda, FL, his brother Frederick Moran and his wife Marilyn of LBI, NJ, Naples, FL, and formerly of Wayne, NJ.  He is also survived by four nephews: Frederick Moran, Brian Moran, Daniel Moran, and Fain Moran.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s name may be made to St Jude’s Children Research Hospital www.stjude.org

Diane B Henderson, age 79, of Packanack Lake, Wayne passed on July 26 at home with the comfort of her husband, John, present. 

Diane was born to Everett and Gertrude Beach and graduated from the Charles E Ellis High School for girls in Newtown Square, Pennsylvania in 1962. She continued her education at Vermont College in Montpelier for two years and earned an Associates Degree in Medical Technology. She continued her education at the University of Toledo for one year then attended Fairleigh Dickinson University for several years.

Diane's first job was as a reporter for the Herald News newspaper in Passaic/Clifton covering the news of Passaic County. Next job was in public relations with Mountainside Hospital in Montclair, NJ. Next came her excellent job of raising two children, son Scott and daughter Robin. 

After the children were enrolled in school, Diane was employed by GAF Corp in Wayne as a corporate secretary then on to a small law firm in Butler as a legal secretary for many years.

Diane enjoyed her association with the Sports Car Club of America for twenty years. She was a volunteer Marshall at sports car races in her home track in Lime Rock, Ct. She earned her National License that allowed her to volunteer at races all around the country including Formula 1 races which is the pinnacle of automobile racing.

Diane and her husband John raised two pups for the Seeing Eye in Morristown,  NJ. in 2013 and 2014. Both graduated from the program and have been guiding their blind persons until the Spring of this year. They are now retired and resting after many years of excellent work.

Diane met her husband John at Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1965. They married in May of 1968 at Packanack Community Church in Wayne. They honeymooned on the island of St Croix. 

Diane and John's marriage of 56 years was blessed with son Scott, daughter Robin, granddaughter Emily Henderson.  Diane is also survived by her daughter-in-law Dawn Henderson of Greenwood Lake, and two nieces Amy Biasucci of Maplewood, NJ, and Michele of South Orange, NJ.

Clare M. DeVries, age 85 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, July 26, 2024.

Clare was born April 1, 1939, to Michael and Elizabeth (Cullen) Adamo.  Clare attended St Nick’s elementary school in Passaic NJ and graduated from Clifton High School class of 1957.  Clare’s remembrances of high school are Poppy’s, The Eldorados, and her many friends.

Clare was devoted to raising her three sons, which was more effort than any full-time job. When the boys were old enough to fend for themselves, she took a job with NJ Bell Telephone in Paterson. She spent most of her career there proof-reading copy for the yellow pages, and later she worked at data conversion and data entry into their computer system. She was with Ma’ Bell (and later Verizon) from about 1976 until her retirement in 2001.

Clare met her husband, Florin Gerald DeVries of Passaic, NJ, and romance led to their wedding on June 9, 1962. They settled into a one-bedroom apartment in Clifton, where the family grew to include three sons and two German shephards. In 1970, the family moved to Passaic, NJ and then in 1985 they settled in Wayne. After her husband, Florin, passed away, Clare enjoyed thirty years of loving companionship with Bob Buyck, also of Wayne. They vacationed in Florida, took trips to Atlantic City, and they both loved doing the Sunday Times crossword together. Sadly, Clare’s heart was broken when Bob passed away in 2022.

Clare, who was graced with the nickname “Bunnie,” enjoyed many roles and hobbies during her lifetime. An avid reader, she travelled the world through her beloved books, and kept an alphabetized logbook of every title she had read. The final tally is 1,819 books. Clare was also a lifelong friend of dogs and cats, and she always had pets in the house. House plants adorned her home and her African violets seemed to be in constant bloom. She also filled countless hours doing crochet, and almost all of the items she made were gifted to friends and family. Each of her creations are now treasured memories of Clare’s handiwork. She kept her mind sharp doing crossword puzzles and “Words with Friends.” The Sunday New York Times crossword puzzle was among her favorite. Clare also made a daily broadcast on her social media, wishing “Good Morning” to all her friends. This, too, will be missed by all.

Among Clare’s most cherished role of all, was being a mother to William, Florin, and Mark. They are her greatest joy, and each of them will miss her dearly.

Clare is survived by her three sons: William DeVries and his wife Tammy, Florin DeVries, and Mark DeVries and his wife Rita. She is the loving grandmother of Amanda Conklin and her husband Jon, Roxanne DeVries, and Clayton DeVries, and great-grandmother of Vienna & Rylee Conklin and Josephine Clement. She is also survived by her sister Elizabeth Leppert and her husband Ed, and niece; Erin Gaughan.

Betty Premus, age 88 of Barnegat, and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, July 25, 2024.  She had been a bookkeeper and manager for several companies, the last and most notable for 25 years, Tires of Wayne. Betty and her husband Rocky moved to Barnegat 19 years ago.

Betty was born in West New York and resided with her parents Elizabeth (Dinga) and Stephen Zilavy, and older brother Vladamir. Two doors down lived a young man Graziano “Rocky” Premus. The two began dating and were married on October 5, 1957, for fifty-seven years; enjoying a honeymoon in Niagara Falls. They began raising their family in Weehawken and North Bergen before building a home in Wayne.

September of 1967, Betty answered an employment ad for a bookkeeper, which was then Tires of Wayne, and was hired by then manager Frank Kaiser. Betty and Frank had a good working relationship. Unbeknownst to all, this is where the bond and family friendship began between Art Wichman, the Kaplans and Premuses. She may have started as a bookkeeper, but became the Manager and held the position until 1992. Betty was well respected with others in the tire business, especially being male dominant. Soon she was known as “Betty from Tires of Wayne”. Art’s Tire Service (wholesale) and satellite store, Tires of Wayne were owned by Art Wichman & Richard Kaplan. As time went on, Betty, Art and Richard worked closely together and a mutual admiration was born. Betty ran the retail sector well, and through Art, learned other business acumens.

After raising her children, Annette Kaplan wanted to enter the workforce. She and her father Art Wichman discussed possibilities and mentioned getting into tire sales. Since Arts Tire had a small retail sector, Annette thought it would be a good fit. She trained with Betty learning retail sales and while training had the opportunity to do a local radio commercial; as both locations were Michelin distributors. Their jingle was “Come see us, we are the Michelin Girls”.

Annette and Richard had a summer home on LBI, where Betty and Rocky visited. Rocky was a lover of the shore and Betty not so much. While visiting, Annette & Betty enjoyed each other’s company and other activities. Thinking about their retirement home, Betty and Rocky asked if they would take them around to see neighboring towns. Kiddingly Annette said “if you move, we’ll move”. Upon going home to Wayne, they discussed the towns they visited. On a Saturday afternoon at 5pm, Betty and Rocky called Annette & Richard stating they want to move to Barnegat. Are you both serious about moving? The Kaplan family were all present and they talked it over with their children. The answer was yes. Betty and Rocky moved down, Annette and Richard followed. Betty continued to work for awhile with Annette on family business.

Betty was a wonderful wife, loving mother, raising two children, and maintaining a household while working. Betty and Rocky were supportive of their children’s school and extracurricular activities. They were both present in their lives. Betty, along with her son Dan, loved the Dallas Cowboys. Betty would often call Dan to talk during games and after, sharing their critique of the game. She also enjoyed the family dogs, especially her beloved “Bootsie”.

Betty was an avid reader with Mary Higgins Clark being one of her favorite authors. She had her own book club (with Mary in Wayne), sharing books with neighbors and friends. Her other interests were crossword and word search puzzles. During the winter Betty and Rocky would enjoy doing large jigsaw puzzles which were mounted and displayed around the house.

Betty and Rocky were fortunate to have wonderful and caring neighbors in both Wayne and Barnegat. She enjoyed her four-legged neighbors (her puppies) as well. Betty enjoyed sitting outside and greeting the neighbors’ dogs. Of course, they enjoyed it as well; as she had treats waiting for them.

Betty is survived by her two children Susie Premus of West Milford and companion Rob Isnardi of Totowa, and Dan Premus of McKinney, Texas, as well as many nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her husband Graziano Premus, parents Elizabeth and Stephen, brother Vladamir and nephew Charlie.

Friends wishing to make a donation in Betty’s memory are asked to select a charity of your choice.

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of John Chang, age 75 of Wayne. John passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 25, 2024, after a long and courageous battle with cancer while receiving the loving care of his family.  

John was born in Woodland, California to Joe and Sally Chang and raised in Dixon, California, the oldest of four children.  As a young man he attended Dixon High School, where he excelled in academics and was Salutatorian of his graduating Class of 1967.  Following his graduation from high school, John attended the University of California San Diego located in La Jolla, California.  While at UCSD, John studied Economics and Psychology.  After earning his Bachelor’s degree, he enrolled in the Ph.D. program at Rutgers University in Psychobiology.

John had a long, successful career in computer and software sales working for Wang Laboratories in Rutherford, New Jersey and later, LogicWorks in Princeton, New Jersey.  He earned acclaim for his exceptional ability to drive sales and forge lasting client relationships. Throughout the years, John was awarded vacations to exotic destinations like Bermuda and Hawaii for being a top salesman, a testament to his talent and work ethic.  More recently, he worked alongside his parents and siblings in a family-owned business on the West Coast.

While in the doctoral program at Rutgers University in 1973, John met an attractive young lady, a fellow classmate by the name of Karen Garlinsky. John was instantly smitten.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 19, 1977, they exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Highland Park, New Jersey, where they resided for about a year.  While living there, they welcomed their first child, their son, Jonathan.  The family then moved to Somerset, New Jersey, where they welcomed their second child, their daughter, Alissa.  As John’s family grew, they made the move to Wayne, New Jersey in 1987, where they have been ever since and raised their children.  John was very proud of his children and was a great supporter of all their endeavors. He attended countless tennis matches, soccer games, dance recitals, performances, and award ceremonies.  He was known to assist (and secretly enjoy) working on his children’s school projects. John always encouraged his children to work hard in school and do their best, and he was so proud of his two Boston College Eagles. He and Karen enjoyed frequently visiting their children while they were away at school.

John found joy in the simple pleasures of life and also held a genuine spark of intuitive thinking. He delighted in flying radio-controlled airplanes, skillfully maneuvering them through the skies and building and painting RC cars and working on real ones. John would also spend countless hours tinkering with gadgets, always eager to understand how they worked and find inventive ways to enhance their functionality.  John was known to be able to fix anything and everything for his friends and family. He treasured extensively decorating his home for Christmas and Halloween, festively transforming the inside and outside for his family and neighbors to enjoy.  His 4th of July celebrations were legendary. John was a car enthusiast and also reveled in the thrill of riding his Ninja motorcycle, embracing the exhilaration and freedom it brought on the open roads. But John also found solace in gardening later in his life, planting and nurturing a variety of trees and plants on his property.  John also enjoyed cooking for his family.  His BBQ ribs, tacos, shrimp cocktail, scampi, breakfasts, and popcorn were legendary.

Although John had many interests and hobbies, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to John than spending time with his wife, children, and his precious grandchildren, whom he adored. His greatest joy in life were his grandchildren, who instantly brought a smile to John’s face - even in the toughest times.  John enjoyed caring for his grandchildren and delighted in sharing his love for his hobbies and knowledge with them.  He greatly enjoyed visiting the beach and treasured flying kites and watching the fireworks with them by his side.  John's grandchildren will remember him as the best "Papa" in the world.  John will be greatly and immeasurably missed by his family.

With the unending support of his loving wife, John bravely and successfully fought pancreatic cancer over 11 years ago. When he was re-diagnosed over two years ago, John’s incredible will, determination, and strength was again an inspiration to many. He maintained a strong “mind over matter” mindset and never gave up.

Between his bouts with cancer, John enjoyed two wonderful, long trips with his family to visit his mother in California. He showed his grandchildren his hometown growing up, visited the most delicious dim sum restaurants in San Francisco, and happily joined his grandchildren for several days in Disneyland, where he enjoyed every minute and hoped to go again. 

John and his wife Karen cherished forty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  John will forever be remembered as a truly devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him, was a true one of a kind, and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

John is survived by his wife Karen Chang (nee Garlinsky) of Wayne; his son Jonathan Chang and his wife Amy of Cape Elizabeth, ME; his daughter Alissa Bain and her husband Andrew of Wayne; his adoring four grandchildren Jonah, Amelie, Anna, and Charlotte; his siblings, Bob, Linda, and Grace; uncles, aunts, cousins, brothers and sisters-in-law, and many nieces and nephews, whom he loved dearly. John was predeceased by his parents, Joe and Sally Chang.

In lieu of flowers, donations in John’s name may be made to New York Presbyterian Hospital - Pancreatic Cancer Research and Gift Fund

Carmela ‘Millie’ Leonardo (nee Ginex), age 101, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday, July 24, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Passaic and lived in Clifton before moving to Wayne in 1961.

Millie was a television Circuit board Assembler for Dumont Television in Elmwood Park for many years before her retirement in 1987.  She was a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne for many years.  Millie married her loving husband Antonio (Tony) in 1947 after he returned from serving in the US Army during WWII.  They were married for forty-three years until his passing in 1990.  

Aunt Millie, as she was lovingly called, had so many good qualities including being affectionate, warm, caring, and served more as a second mother than an aunt to her many nieces and nephews.  She was a good cook, and her house was always spotless and open to her nieces and nephews who enjoyed her company.  Her nephew recalls how nurturing she was with her big hugs, endless loud kisses, and  her famous “I love you dearly” expressions throughout their lives.  

Millie is survived by her nieces Cay Ginex of Little Falls. NJ, Mary Florio of Succasunna, NJ, Janet Sammarco of Little Falls, NJ, Christine Marzano (Steve LoGiudice) of Wayne, NJ, Carla Lindemulder (Richard) of Pompton Plains, NJ, her nephew Joseph Ciaramella (Marie) of Lewes, DE, and many grandnieces and grandnephews.  She was predeceased by her husband Antonio Leonardo, her brother Joseph Ginex, and four sisters; Mary Ciaramella, Jean Sammarco, Stella La Fragola, and Carol Marzano.  

Lillian Louise Bartnick (nee Mayer), age 87, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, July 22, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Lillian Louise Bartnick was born June 15, 1937, in the Bronx, New York to her parents Cornelia and John Mayer. She had an older brother, Jack Mayer (deceased) and his wife, Mary Mayer, and two younger sisters, Joanne Allison and Ellen Cosentino. Her husband of 56 years, William G. Bartnick, passed away on February 8, 2019. Their children Lucille Bartnick, Jennifer Bornkamp (and husband, Thomas Bornkamp), and William Bartnick (and wife, Jaqueline Bartnick), all live in New Jersey. Louise has five grandchildren, Nicole Bornkamp, Kevin Bornkamp, Kira Bartnick, Bryan Bartnick, and Lianna Bartnick. Louise was also blessed with many nieces and nephews and their children.

Louise worked as an executive secretary for the Johns Manville corporation in New York City for seven years before she and Bill moved to Bergenfield, NJ to start a family. During the 10 years that they lived in Bergenfield, both Louise and husband Bill were active in the Parents Association Safety Committee of the Jaycees civic organization.

When they moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne New Jersey in 1973, Louise held part-time jobs that included real estate sales, working as a welcome wagon representative, and starting her own business in advertising specialties sales. Louise also acted as the manager for her three children’s activities as members of Screen Actors Guild performing in television commercials and print work in and around New York.

Louise loved living at Packanack Lake, and especially enjoyed her many dear friends at the Wayne Prime Timers Club and Newcomers Club. She was also a member of the Packanack Lake Garden Club, the Packanack Leisure Club, and Golden Age Club of Wayne.

She loved the Jersey Shore, especially Ocean Grove where family members lived, and Manasquan Beach, where she and husband, Bill, met for the first time. Lake George, NY was another favorite place they visited for many family vacations and where they celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary with their children and grandchildren.

Louise enjoyed playing tennis and golf, going to the movies and dining out, and playing card and board games. She delighted in family celebrations and always participated in the talent show at the extended family’s ABC holiday party. Louise was a vibrant, energetic, creative woman who deeply loved her family and friends – the highlights of her life.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Lillian's name may be made to the Sierra Club

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George Chanda, Jr., age 93 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, July 22, 2024.

George was born in Passaic, NJ to George, Sr. and Mary Chanda. He was the oldest of three boys: George, Nicholas, and Joseph. A student at Clifton High, he was an athlete participating in the Varsity football team and competing as the 1st baseman for the school baseball team. He also competed on the Clifton Clippers recreational baseball team, starting a love for the sport that lasted a lifetime.

George had many fond memories of his high school days, but his favorite was Junior Prom when he “kept company with” (his own words) a beautiful girl named Doris Junda. The two had a great time and fell in love over the following years. They were married on August 31, 1952 and they moved in together shortly thereafter to an apartment above Doris’ family butcher shop. After George graduated from Fordham University College of Pharmacy on June 10, 1953.  Their family started to grow with the blessing of their two children: Steve and Sharon and they decided they wanted to start to build a place of their own. The couple built their home in Wayne, NJ where they raised their family of four. Doris took night classes so she could take care of the family and graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University with a Bachelor of Arts in Education.

George had an incredible work ethic that he attributed to his early years with the Boy Scouts of America. He first started in grammar school and continued through high school. Back then, his first ambition was to become a farmer, but he developed a love for chemistry leading to his ultimate career owning and operating the T-Bowl Drugs Pharmacy in Wayne. He was dedicated to his Pharmacy working 7-days a week open to close. Regardless, he still made time for his kids and grandkids by employing everyone in the neighborhood in any capacity they were able. This afforded him time to go and see all his kids and grandkids sports games while also contributing to the community. He also was a founding member of the Lions club in Wayne. He will be remembered for his selflessness and generosity in maintaining a work environment that the community loved to be part of.

George was a caring and selfless dad, grandpa, and great grandpa whose joy came from sharing life’s simple pleasures with his family and friends. Whether he was fishing with his grandkids (untying the countless knots they tangled their poles together in without complaint), enjoying a baseball game, or cooking tasty meals with his award-winning home-grown vegetables (cabbage, lettuce, corn, and tomatoes were his favorite crops) George lived life to the fullest. He and Doris’s arrival was always eagerly anticipated by his grandkids, in part because of the good times they were bound to share, but more importantly because of the second suitcase they always packed filled entirely with toys and gifts to be shared with their grandkids! He loved his family, and they will all miss him dearly.

George is predeceased by his wife: Doris Chanda; parents: George, Sr. and Mary Chanda; his brother: Nicholas Chanda and wife, Barbara; his daughter: Sharon Bellusci and her husband Thomas Bellusci; and his niece: Amanda Bellusci.

He is survived by his son Steve Chanda; his brother: Joseph Chanda and wife Marilyn Chanda; his sister-in-law: Marge; his grandkids: Shannon and Brian, Thomas, Mathew and Dana, David and Janett; his great grandkids: Aria, Averie, Aubrey, and the most recent addition Kya; His nephews and nieces: Joseph and Hope with Cole and Wyatt, Michelle and Glenn with Mackenzie and Jack. Karen and Chris, Lynn and Chuck, Nancy and David, and their families. Along with many other loving extended family members.

In addition to flowers, memorial contributions to the Boys and Girls Club of Paterson would be greatly appreciated.

Rebecca S. Stikna, age 43, of Lincoln Park NJ passed Monday July 22 in the comfort of her home.

Becky was born to Lynn and Stanley Stikna as the baby sister of the late Christine Stikna, Eric Stikna, and Amy (Stikna) Fitzpatrick. 
Becky’s younger years were spent living life to the fullest. She spent summers going to new places and hours with great friends. She waitressed and worked at BlockBuster where she found a love for film and stories.  She graduated from Boonton High School in Boonton NJ, class of 1999, where she excelled academically and loved being a part of the school choir. In that (with a choir competition trip to Canada) she discovered her passion for travel.  She continued her education at Montclair State University where she graduated with a Master's Degree in English with the class of 2003, her family watched with pride.  

Following her graduation, she became a big part of the Bed Bath and Beyond customer service team. It was there she was able to travel to many states and impact the lives of so many people across the country.  Colleagues valued her as a leader, giving her the nickname of Beccapedia, as she never left anyone without an answer.  She is remembered as the sweetest person, never in a bad mood, and had so much joy. 

Becky leaves behind her devoted mother, Lynn (Hagen) Stikna; Dedicated Brother, Eric Stikna and his wife Aimee Stikna; Loving Sister Amy (Stikna) Fitzpatrick and her husband Damian along with her treasured nieces and Nephews; Jessica, Julia, Jeremy, and Madeline.  Becky also leaves behind a large loving family of aunts, uncles, cousins along with more friends than she knew.
Becky had a contagious smile and an unlimited amount of love for her family.  She celebrated the joys and shared in the pain as only the most selfless can.  She had huge dreams and goals but a great sense of courage to conquer what she could in such a short time. She worked so hard to battle her demons; and despite it all she stayed her beautiful, happy, loving self. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or Make a Wish Foundation in her honor would be greatly appreciated.

Santos Claudio Hernandez, born on August 13, 1963 age 60 passed on July 22, 2024 surrounded by his wife Guillermina Hernandez, his four adult children, two son in laws and six grandchildren. 

Santos C. Hernandez was born in San Pedro La Junta Puebla Mexico to Gerardo Hernandez Ruiz and Sebastiana Cirila Dominguez Cazalez. As a young child, Santos worked very hard. He was a sheep and goat shepherd in San Pedro La Junta. He graduated from the police academy in approximately 1983 and worked for Monte Sur Club Campestre at age 20yrs old to protect and serve our community. He continued in search of success and came to the United States of America to excel for his family. He arrived in the USA in approximately 1986 and Oceano’s restaurant, formerly Peter’s Whale Restaurant in Fair Lawn New Jersey, hired him first as an assistant cook. As he was a fast learner he quickly was promoted to a line cook there and he worked there for approximately a total of 18yrs. While he was passionate about his career it led him to transition to a new employer at Marriott at GlenPointe in Teaneck New Jersey in 2004 and worked there for approximately 19yrs. During his career he was appreciated by all his coworkers, his dedication, and work ethic was unnoticed. In a short period of time while hired there he was immediately recognized as employee of the month and in addition employee of the year to name a few. In October 2005 and April 2008 Marriott at Glenpointe recognized Santos C. Hernandez as Associate of the month “Heart of the House” and among other recognitions.

Santos left his hometown of San Pedro La Junta, Puebla without his mother or father and arrived in Mexico City in search of helping his family with a better life as his hometown only served education until 3rd grade.  In Mexico City, he temporarily worked in construction, Chevrolet sisa company and later he studied for his Police officer exam and was employed by Monte Sur Club Campestre at age 20yrs old to protect and serve our community along with his partner Pinete. He decided with his wife to come to the United States Of America. In 1986, he was hired by Oceano’s formerly Peter’s Whale Restaurant in Fair Lawn New Jersey as a cook and worked there for approximately 18yrs. He loved his career and the restaurant was a busy place in where he served parties of up to more than 100 people in which sometimes were back to back. He worked through all major holidays (including Valentines Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years etc.) and did what he loved led and served others. While working there he had other responsibilities including training other new employees and lead them to be successful in their careers. In approximately 2004, he was hired by Marriott at Glenpointe in Teaneck New Jersey. There he was hired as a line cook. He quickly excelled and in year 2005 he received an accommodation for best employee (heart of the house). As his work ethic was unnoticed he was given other duties as assistant Chef.  Same day daily special dishes were made by him for dinner and displayed to management to approve for taste and art decoration to provide at the restaurant for dinner.  After, approval the special dish was shown to all other line cooks by him for dinner preparation and to make sure all the dishes were completed/prepared the same. Those daily different special Chef dishes were provided to restaurant guests everyday as daily dinner specials. In addition, there were guests that asked who was the cook and requested to specifically meet him in person multiple times in his career while working there. He was humble and if requested and time permitted he would meet the restaurant guests. In addition, he trained new hires in the restaurant to follow his lead.

Santos Claudio Hernandez was a leader, determined, strong, loving, humble, kind, and always devoted to his family. He loved seeing his family together and unified. Although he worked many hours he always found the time to spend quality time with his children and grandchildren on his days off work. He enjoyed taking all his four children to the park, bike paths, road trips, vacations to Mexico, play basketball, swimming and hiking especially to the Bear Mountain and the Seven Lakes in Stony Point NY, the Meadowlands Fair and cooked for them on his days off work.  Due to his sense of humor, he made his family laugh, spread joy and bring happiness to others. He loved to dance and always listened to music in his vehicle and home as music brought joy to him. When his four children were all adults, he resumed to his hobbies with his wife and went out dancing with her to enjoy live Mexican bands and Jaripeos.

He also accomplished to study for his American Citizenship and he became a Citizen of the United States of America. He was proud of who he was, where he was born and very traditional, proud of being Mexicano. He installed to all his four children his roots and traditions in which will be passed down to his grandchildren. His roots and traditions were unnoticed in which he loved his traditional Mexican hat, belt, outfits and Mexican boots. He was proud of who he was and all he accomplished. He learned how to excel much on his own as in early 1990s there were not many hispanic language speaking people in his community of Fair Lawn New Jersey. He accomplished in learning how to drive, obtain his driver's license and put all his children though school and they all graduated. He explained to his children the importance of an education as he did not have that privilege. He also put all his children though their Catholic sacraments in the Cathedral of Saint John the Baptist and installed our Roman Catholic religion. He had many friends, who visited and loved him dearly. He loved cooking when he had company over and make people happy and laugh. He also enjoyed his family vacations to Mexico every year to see his mother before her passing. There, in San Pedro La Junta Puebla, Mexico (El Rancho), he assisted his community by reaching out to the former Tehuitzongo Puebla president, Jose Luis Lopez, to help reconstruct his hometown roads, assisted in raising funds to fix the Rancho Church and cemetery. Every year on June 28th and 29th, there are festivities for his Rancho saint, San Pedro in which he and others raised funds for it.

As he had authority experience, when he visited El Rancho in Mexico he also enjoyed spending time with his friends and enjoyed going to the gun ranges to shoot with his friends which made him happy. He also went iguana hunting, deer hunting and fishing with his rancho friends and family. He also liked to play the sport basketball with friends, family and even won championships in earlier years. He also enjoyed spending time with his family watching sports like boxing and soccer, but specifically soccer. He always enjoyed watching his favorite soccer team play Club America, along with soccer Copa America and soccer World Cups. Although, his wife and some of his friends rooted for different teams, he was always firm about his team, Club America. He was a fan of Club America.

Santos Claudio Hernandez met his wife Guillermina in Mexico City through his wife’s cousin. They were married through the Roman Catholic Church in San Pedro Tlahuac, Mexico City on June 27, 1981. Santos and Guillermina were blessed with four children: Lucia Hernandez, Claudio V. Hernandez, Veronica Hernandez and Jacqueline A. Hernandez, Six grandchildren: Francisco N. Martinez, Aidan J. Pagan, Ricardo A. Martinez, Denzel F. Pagan, Kylie Perez and Alberto Jr. Perez, and two son in laws: Alberto Perez and David Martinez. Santos Claudio Hernandez was blessed with his family, devoted his time loving and taking care of them. Survived and loved by eight sisters and six brothers. He and his wife also renewed their vows in Paterson New Jersey at the Roman Catholic Church the Cathedral of Saint John the Baptist for their 25yr Anniversary which took place on June 10, 2006. Both Santos C. Hernandez and Guillermina were blessed to be married for a total of 43yrs.

SPANISH TRANSLATION

Santos C. Hernandez, nació el 13 de Agosto de 1963, falleció a los 60 años el 22 de Julio del 2024 rodeado de su esposa, sus hijos, yernos y nietos.

Santos nació en San Pedro La Junta, Puebla, México, hijo de Gerardo Hernández Ruiz y Sebastiana Cirila Domínguez Cazalez. Cuando era niño, Santos trabajó muy duro. En San Pedro La Junta el cuido sus chivas, ovejas y sembraba con su familia. Se graduó de la academia de policía aproximadamente en el año 1983 y trabajó para Monte Sur Club Campestre a los 20 años para proteger y servir a su comunidad. Continuó en busca del éxito y vino a los Estados Unidos de América para sobresalir por su familia. Llegó a los Estados Unidos y fue contratado como cocinero en 1986 por el Restaurante Oceano's, anteriormente conocido como Peter's Whale Restaurant en Fair Lawn, Nueva Jersey. Trabajó allí durante aproximadamente 18 años. Mientras amo su carrera y en busca de avanzar, esto lo llevó a hacer la transición a un nuevo empleador, Marriott at GlenPointe en Teaneck, Nueva Jersey, en 2004 y trabajó allí durante aproximadamente 19 años. Durante su carrera, fue apreciado por todos sus compañeros de trabajo y su dedicación y ética de trabajo fueron reconocidas. En poco tiempo cuando fue contratado el fue inmediatamente reconocido como empleado del mes y en addition empleado del ano para nombrar algunos. Por ejemplo, en Octubre de 2005 y Abril de 2008, Marriott at Glenpointe reconoció a Santos C. Hernández como Asociado del mes y el “Corazón de la casa” y también recibió otros reconocimientos.

Santos dejó su Rancho de San Pedro La Junta, Puebla sin su madre y padre y llegó a la Ciudad de México en busca de ayudar a su familia y tener una vida mejor, ya que su Rancho solo ofrecía educación hasta el tercer grado. En la Ciudad de México, trabajó temporalmente en la construcción, compañía sisa de Chevrolet, y luego estudió para su examen de oficial de policía y fue empleado por Monte Sur Club Campestre a la edad de 20 años para proteger y servir a su comunidad junto con su compañero Pinete. Decidió venir con su esposa a los Estados Unidos de América. En 1986, fue contratado por Oceano's, anteriormente conocido como Peter's Whale Restaurant en Fair Lawn, Nueva Jersey, como ayudante de cocinero primero y por su empeño rápidamente fue contratado como uno de los cocineros del restaurante. Trabajó allí durante aproximadamente 18 años. Amaba su carrera y el restaurante era un lugar concurrido en el que atendía grupos de hasta más de 100 personas, en ocasiones seguidos. Trabajó durante todos los días festivos importantes (incluido el Día de San Valentín, Día de Gracias, Navidad, Año Nuevo, etc.) y hizo lo que amaba; dirigió y sirvió a los demás. Mientras trabajaba allí, tenía otras responsabilidades, incluyendo el entrenamiento de otros nuevos empleados y los guió para que tuvieran éxito en sus carreras. Aproximadamente en 2004, fue contratado por Marriott en Glenpointe en Teaneck, Nueva Jersey. Allí fue contratado como cocinero de línea. Destacó rápidamente y en el año 2005 recibió una acomodación para el mejor empleado (corazón de la casa). Como su ética de trabajo no pasó desapercibida, se le asignaron otras funciones como asistente del chef. El mismo día, el preparaba los platos especiales para la cena y los mostraba a la gerencia para que los aprobara, con gusto y decoración artística, para ofrecerlos en el restaurante para la cena. Todos los días, el chef ofrecía esos platos especiales diferentes a los huéspedes del restaurante como platos especiales del día. Luego, él mostraba el plato especial a todos los demás cocineros para que lo prepararan y se asegurara de que todos los platos estuvieran terminados de la misma manera. Además, hubo huéspedes que preguntaron quién era el cocinero y solicitaron reunirse con él en persona varias veces en su carrera. Era humilde y, si se lo pedían y el tiempo lo permitía, se reunía con los huéspedes del restaurante junto con el gerente. Además, capacitaba a los nuevos empleados del restaurante para que siguieran su ejemplo.

Santos Claudio Hernández era un líder, decidido, fuerte, cariñoso, humilde, amable y siempre dedicado a su familia. Le encantaba ver a su familia junta y unida. Aunque trabajaba muchas horas, siempre encontraba tiempo para pasar tiempo de calidad con sus hijos y nietos en sus días libres de trabajo. Disfrutaba de llevar a sus cuatro hijos al parque, andar en bicicleta, hacer viajes por carretera, vacacionar a Mexico, nadar, especialmente en Bear Mountain y Seven Lakes en Stony Point, Nueva York, asistir a la feria Meadowlands y cocinar para ellos. Gracias a su sentido del humor, hacía reír a su familia, contagiaba alegría y hacía felices a los demás. Le encantaba bailar y siempre escuchaba música en su vehículo y en su casa, ya que la música le traía alegría. Cuando sus cuatro hijos se hicieron adultos, retomó sus pasatiempos con su esposa y salía a bailar con ella para disfrutar de bandas mexicanas en vivo y jaripeos.

Logró estudiar para obtener la ciudadanía estadounidense y se convirtió en ciudadano de los Estados Unidos de América. Estaba orgulloso de quién era, de dónde había nacido y era muy tradicional, orgulloso de ser mexicano. Inculcó a sus cuatro hijos sus raíces y tradiciones, que se transmitirán a sus nietos. Sus raíces y tradiciones no pasaban desapercibidas, ya que amaba su atuendo, sombrero, cinturón, y botas mexicanas tradicionales. Estaba orgulloso de quién era y de todo lo que había logrado. Aprendió a sobresalir por sí solo, ya que a principios de los años 90 no había muchas personas de habla hispana en su comunidad de Fair Lawn, Nueva Jersey. Logró aprender a conducir, obtener su licencia de conducir y mandar a todos sus hijos a la escuela y que lograron graduarce. Enseño a sus hijos que la educación es muy importante ya que el no tubo ese privilegio. También hizo que todos sus hijos recibieran los sacramentos católicos en la Catedral de San Juan Bautista e instaló nuestra religión católica romana. Tenía muchos amigos que lo visitaban y lo querían mucho. Le encantaba cocinar cuando tenía visitas y hacer reír y alegrar a la gente. También disfrutaba de las vacaciones familiares en México todos los años para ver a su madre antes de su fallecimiento. Allí, en San Pedro La Junta Puebla, México (El Rancho), ayudó a su comunidad acercándose al ex presidente de Tehuitzongo Puebla, José Luis López, para ayudar a reconstruir las carreteras de su Rancho, ayudó a recaudar fondos para arreglar la iglesia y el cementerio de el Rancho. Todos los años, el 28 y 29 de Junio, se celebraban fiestas en honor al Santo de su Rancho, San Pedro, en las que él y otros recaudaban fondos.

Como tenía experiencia en autoridad, cuando visitaba El Rancho en México también disfrutaba de pasar tiempo con sus amigos y disfrutaba de ir a los campos de tiro para disparar con sus amigos, lo que lo hacía feliz. También iba a cazar iguanas, cazar venados y pescar con sus amigos y familiares del rancho. Otro pasatiempo que el tubo era jugar el deporte de Basketball con sus amigos y familia incluso gano campionatos. Disfrutaba pasar tiempo con su familia viendo deportes como el boxeo y el fútbol, pero específicamente el fútbol mexicano. También disfrutaba viendo la Copa América y las Copas del Mundo. Aunque algunos de sus amigos y su esposa apoyaban a diferentes equipos, él siempre se mantuvo firme con su equipo, el Club América. Era fanático del Club América.

Santos Claudio Hernández conoció a su esposa Guillermina en la Ciudad de México a través de la prima de su esposa. Se casaron a través de la Iglesia Católica en San Pedro Thláhuac, Ciudad de México, el 27 de Junio de 1981. Santos y Guillermina fueron bendecidos con cuatro hijos: Lucía Hernández, Claudio V. Hernández, Verónica Hernández y Jacqueline A. Hernández, seis nietos: Francisco N. Martínez, Aidan J. Pagan, Ricardo A. Martínez, Denzel F. Pagan, Kylie Pérez y Alberto Jr. Pérez, y dos yernos: Alberto Pérez y David Martínez. Santos Claudio Hernández fue bendecido con su familia, dedicó su tiempo a amarlos y cuidarlos. También fue amado por sus ocho hermanas y seis hermanos que siguen vivos. Él y su esposa también renovaron sus 25 anos de casados en Paterson, Nueva Jersey, en la Iglesia Católica Romana, la Catedral de San Juan Bautista, para celebrar su 25 Aniversario en el 10 de Junio de 2006. Santos C. Hernández y Guillermina tuvieron la bendición de estar casados por un total de 43 años.

Tracie Ann Brennan passed away peacefully Saturday morning, July 20th following a years-long battle with ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis).

Tracie was born May 30th 1960 to Dr. Charles Brennan and Mrs. Barbara Brennan in Camden, New Jersey. Growing up, Tracie and her brother Charles (Chip) were constantly surrounded by family - their father and grandfather practiced medicine right next door to their home. Tracie and her family spent every summer in Ocean City NJ, from the day school ended for the year to the day before it started up again. They had a robust community of family and friends down the shore. Tracie attended Gloucester City High School before finishing her Junior and Senior years at The Peddie School in Hightstown New Jersey. She then earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Communications at Rowan University (formerly Glassboro State) where she also made lifelong friends.

After completing college, Tracie began her television career in New York City. Tracie's work spanned many different studios and post-production facilities. This includes Lifetime Television, NVI, Fuse, and Atlantic Video before taking over as VP of Production and Operations at Al Roker Entertainment in 2005. There, Tracie worked nearly 20 years, eventually finishing her tenure as Executive Vice President. At ARE, Tracie had a heavy hand in a number of projects, including the Coast Guard: Alaska reality series, passion-project Last Chance Highway, NY-Emmy-nominated Side-By-Side for Northwell Health, the sportsmanship Musial Awards, and soon-to-be PBS Kid's program Weather Hunters.

Tracie's life was centered around her family and her friends. Her favorite place on Earth were the beaches of Ocean City, and she made sure to visit every year with her loved ones. Outside of Ocean City, Tracie loved to travel, for vacationing and for exploring. Some of her favorite destinations included Sedona AZ, Martha's Vineyard, Puerto Rico as well as an annual vacation to Lake Champlain with her beloved best friend, Shauna, and all their family.

Tracie also had a deep love for animals, rescuing dogs all her life and fostering puppies for Furever Home Dog Rescue. She leaves behind her "foster-fail" Brady, who was a loyal and caring companion since he was adopted just prior to the COVID-19 outbreak in 2020.

Just like her parents, Tracie was a huge Phillies and Eagles fan. While battling ALS, her favorite pastime was watching the games with her family.

Tracie was married for 35 years to the love of her life, Jim Segarra. After working together for a few years at Teletronics, Tracie had left her job before the pair reconnected. Within a year of dating, Jim and Tracie were married on November 5th 1988 in Tracie's hometown of Gloucester City NJ. Tracie and Jimmy moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne NJ to settle down and start a family. While their first family was mostly furry children (two parakeets and a dog named Mikki), their eldest Brennan James was eventually born in 1995, followed by their youngest Sophia Rose in 1999.

Despite growing older, Tracie’s ambition for adventure never ceased. Before her tragic ALS diagnosis in 2022, Tracie had been working with a team to open a restaurant in her family’s former doctor’s office in Gloucester City. Tracie was extremely proud of her hometown and was driven to support the community.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to ALS United would be greatly appreciated.

Robert F. Rossi, age 61, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, July 19, 2024.

He was born in Paterson to Alfred and Joan Rossi.  He was raised in Wyckoff and graduated from Ramapo High School with the Class of 1981.  During his high school years he pole vaulted for the track team. He continued his education at Lycoming College in Pennsylvania where he graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in accounting.  He went on to receive his Certified Public Accounting certification.

Robert worked as a CPA for several area companies and has worked as a CPA for St. Josephs Hospital in Paterson for the past twenty-three years.  As a young man he worked for McDonalds in Wyckoff and as a roofer during his college years.

Robert or as wife Elaine called him Bert, met his wife while at Happy Hour at Houlihan’s Restaurant in Secaucus. Their first date was a ride on his motorcycle, and they soon fell in love.  Bert and Elaine married on September 11, 1993, at Saint Josephs Church in Lincoln Park and they honeymooned on a cruise around Europe.  They were late getting back to the ship in Barcelona and had to sneak in through the kitchen.  They have had a marriage of thirty-one years that was blessed with two children, Isabella and Lily.

Robert was the epitome of an all-around great guy.  With a charming wit, and a knack for humor, he never failed to bring a smile to everyone’s face.  His diverse interests range from playing guitar, piano, drums, harmonica, drawing, golf, magic, learning new languages, and woodworking to name a few. He was a devoted and frustrated NY Jets fan. Above all Robert was a proud girl dad.

Robert was the loving husband of Elaine (Klizos) Rossi; devoted father of Isabella and Lily Rossi both of Wayne; cherished son of Joan Rossi of Thomaston, CT and the late Alfred Rossi (d. 2020)loved brother of Lou and his wife Corene Rossi of Chester Springs, PA, Jean and her husband John of Easton, CT, and Matt and his wife Kristen of Charlotte, NC. Robert will be dearly missed by his nieces, nephews, cousins, future son-in-law Alex Hedgren, and friends.

Jim Priestner, age 87 of Riverdale, died peacefully on July 18, 2024. He was the owner of Jim Priestner Construction for many years before retiring.

Jim is survived by his devoted wife, Deborah of Riverdale, his four children: Carly Johnson (Chris) of Riverdale, Matthew Priestner (Lisa) of Wayne, Jacqueline Canova (Brian) of West Milford, and Lynn VanderWeert (Richie) of Oakland, ten grandchildren, his great-grandchildren, and nine of his siblings. Jim was predeceased by his parents, and by five of his siblings.

Roberta Joy Jankiewicz, of Wayne New Jersey passed peacefully surrounded by family on July 17, 2024 at the age of 89.  Roberta was born in Jersey City on December 22, 1934 to Robert Millar and Ella Sonnenberg of North Arlington, New Jersey.

Roberta is survived by her beloved husband of 66 years Robert Jankiewicz, her three children Karin (Warnock), Diane (Cunniff) and James, as well as 6 grandchildren: Jeffrey, Ryan and Kyle (Warnock) as well as Alecia, Christopher and Lauren (Cunniff)

Roberta grew up in North Arlington and worked for many years at the Anheuser-Busch brewery in Newark NJ where she would cultivate lifelong friends known as the "Budweiser Crew." Roberta eventually moved to Wayne after having a family where she worked as an administrative assistant in the Wayne Health Department.

She was a committed wife, mother, sister and a devout Lutheran who loved her family, the ocean and lighthouses.

Roberta was a gentle loving soul who will be remembered fondly by all who met her will and will be greatly missed.

It is with great sorrow and a heavy heart that we are announcing the passing of our beloved husband and father Harry Meyer, Jr., age 82, of Wayne. He passed on Monday, July 15, 2024, with his loving family by his side.

He was born in Paterson to Harry and Wilhelmina Meyer.  Harry was raised and has been a lifelong resident of Wayne. In 1960, he graduated from Wayne High School where he was basketball team captain. Harry enjoyed working on the family farm on French Hill Road for many years. That experience inspired him and his brother, John, to establish a landscaping business known as H. Meyer & Sons Landscaping in Wayne. After high school, he enlisted in the U.S. Army Reserves, serving four years. Upon completion, Harry returned to his roots and passion for horticulture and landscape design.

A favorite pastime of Harry’s was driving his Stingray Corvette. One of his drives led him straight to the love of his life Patricia Weiss. Their eyes met across a bar near Greenwood Lake. Harry instantly fell in love with Patricia as the song “Pretty Woman” played. His persistence led to the couple marrying at St James Church in Totowa on July 4, 1969. Harry built his wife the house of her dreams, where they created “four beautiful daughters.” Just two short weeks ago, they were lucky enough to celebrate their fifty-five years of marriage surrounded by their loved ones.  

After nearly fifty years of hard work and dedication, Harry retired. After retiring, Harry and Pat enjoyed every minute they could outside working on their yard together. Harry landscaped all of his daughter’s homes. During his final moments, his final project was designing the landscaping at his grandson Christopher’s house in Wayne.

Harry will be remembered as a funny, loving, and hardworking man who enjoys various sports and hobbies. His motto was “work hard, play hard.” His sense of humor and smile brightened all of our lives. The jokes were unforgettable. He was an avid sports fan, his favorite professional teams were the New York Giants, Knicks, and Yankees. Most of all, Harry will be remembered for being a devoted husband, an amazing dad, and a loving grandfather.

Harry’s character and integrity were a beautiful example for his children and grandchildren to aspire to. He always offered guidance and encouragement to move his family forward and lift them up. His absence leaves a void that can never be filled, but his legacy of love, hard work, and resilience will live on in all of us who knew and loved him.

Harry was the loving husband of Patricia (nee Weiss) Meyer; devoted father of Mindy Slaska and her husband Edward of Wayne, Michele Senyk and her husband Chris of Riverdale, Marcie Chetirkin and her husband Rob of Wayne, and Katie Meyer and her fiancé John Lancellotti;

He was the cherished grandfather of Sebastian, Sophia, and Sabrina Slaska, Christopher Jr. and Zachary Senyk, Robert and Matthew Chetirkin, Juliana and her fiancé Andrew Heydt, Alivia and Payton Beatty.  He was predeceased by his granddaughter Alexa Senyk (d.2002).  He was a loving brother to Hilda Tanis, Joe Meyer, Janie Koldyk, and Gary Meyer. Harry was predeceased by his brothers John and Jake Meyer.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arthur Richard Hopper, age 90, of Wayne, NJ.

Arthur passed away peacefully on Monday, July 15, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ and was the youngest of three children to Julian and Marion Hopper.  Arthur, at an early age, left school to help support his family and later through determination and sheer hard work was able to earn a good living and raise a family.

Arthur found work quickly after leaving school with a construction road crew paving roads.  He then, after a short time, accepted a position in a motor shop in Paterson named Reliable Electric where he rebuilt motors.  Later, Arthur took a position at Di Clemente Contractor Inc. where he was employed as a truck driver and heavy equipment operator.  While working for Di Clemente Contractor, Arthur was a long time member of the Teamsters Union.  Arthur held his position at Di Clemente until his retirement in 1999.

In the mid 1950’s, Arthur received the call to serve his country and entered the United States Army.  Arthur served proudly in the US Army for several years until being honorably discharged.

Arthur lived in an apartment building where he often crossed paths with his neighbor, Barbara Ann Decker. Initially, she would playfully flirt with him, leaning on his car while wearing jeans, which unintentionally scratched the paint. Despite the initial annoyance, Arthur found himself attracted to Barbara Ann's friendly demeanor and good looks.  The couple hit it off wonderfully after a time and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and in 1955 the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Union City after getting married then moved to Wayne, NJ in 1961 where Arthur built his own home on Whitmore Ave with the help of other family members.  Arthur and Barbara have been ever since.  While living in Wayne, the couple welcomed the births of all four of their children, Richard, William, Alan, and Faith.  

Upon retirement from his work, Arthur kept busy performing odd jobs for friends and neighbors, mostly in the realm of auto and appliance repair.  He also enjoyed saltwater fishing, boating, and crabbing at the Barnegat Bay.  He cherished watching World Wrestling Entertainment on television and frequenting the Jersey Shore and the casinos at Atlantic City.

Arthur was a devoted father, grandfather and great grandfather.  He treasured forty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage to his wife Barbara Ann until her passing in 2003.  Following Barbara’s Ann’s passing, to keep busy, Arthur took great pleasure in shopping at flea markets, garage sales, goodwill stores, and even sifting through domestic refuse to uncover hidden treasures and find valuable items.  Many of his unique discoveries were items of stained glass and mirrors.

Arthur, though possessing strong convictions and a determined character, often showed traits of arrogance, stubbornness, and a tendency towards negativity, yet those who knew Arthur appreciated his commitment to his opinions.

Arthur will be forever remembered as a loving father, grandfather, and great grandfather.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Arthur is survived by his son Richard Hopper and his wife Linda of Waxhaw, NC, his son William Hopper and his wife Clelia of Sparta, NJ, his daughter Faith Hopper and her wife Cindy of Watertown, NY, five grandchildren; Larry Hopper and his wife Ginger of Monroe, NC, Justine Hopper and her fiancé Chris of Bloomingdale, NJ, Timothy Hopper and his wife Rachel of Shelton, WA, Lindsay Hopper of Sparta, NJ, and Conner Shuler-Hopper of Watertown, NY, and two great grandchildren; Aelita, and Emily.  Arthur was predeceased by his son Allan Hopper, his brother Henry Hopper, and his sister Dorothy Strawder, and his dog Rosie.

Mel List, age 87, passed on July 14th, 2024.  Mel was the youngest of Morris and Anna List’s four children. He grew up in Brooklyn and graduated from New York University.  He had ambitions to be an English teacher but spent most of his professional career as a Technical Draftsman where he manually drew building plans.  He spent time in the Army reserves as a cook and credited his time there with his ability to cook for his family. 

He was dedicated to his family and took great pride in being a husband and father.  He married the love of his life, Carol, in 1966.  His wife and his two children, Marah and Darren, were the most important things in his life.  He also adored his daughter-in-law, Maggie and his step grandchildren, Alec and Zhana. He was a New York Jets fan for many decades and liked to brag about how he won money betting on the Jets in the 1969 Superbowl.  Mel was fortunate enough to have dementia when Aaron Rodgers became quarterback of the Jets so he didn’t have to suffer through his Achilles injury 30 seconds into his Jet career. A long time supporter of the City Opera, Mel was a lifelong fan of classical music, a photographer and art lover.  Mel will be dearly missed by his family and friends. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to https://colelchabad.org/ would be greatly appreciated.

Elaine McDonald, 69, passed away peacefully on July 12, 2024, at her home in Wayne, NJ. Born on March 14, 1955, to Edward McDonald and Genevieve DeSantis, Elaine's life was filled with love, laughter, and dedication to her family and friends.

Elaine graduated from Madison Township High School in Old Bridge Township, NJ, in 1973. She then pursued a Bachelor of Science in Education at Misericordia University. For over 30 years, Elaine was a cherished employee at Ashland, formerly International Specialty Products (ISP). She held various titles, including Financial Assistant, Sales & Market Analyst, and, for the past 25 years, Sales Account Manager (in pharmaceuticals). Elaine's passion for working made her a trusted expert in household product ingredients (like sunscreen and lotions), often ensuring the safety of the products her loved ones used.

Elaine's motherly commitment to keeping others safe was one of her most enduring and loving qualities. She cherished her friends and family above all else and found immense joy in spending time with them. If you know Elaine, you knew her happy place was the beach, where she loved to relax, collect sea glass, and enjoy life. She spent many summers on the shores of Spring Lake and more recently in Lavallette, NJ. Elaine's home was adorned with her beautiful sea glass collections, a testament to her love for the ocean.

Elaine is predeceased by her parents, Edward, who passed away when she was just 18 years old, and Genevieve, who passed in 1993. She is survived by her sisters, Virginia Kerr and Judy Prodromo, her brother, Brian McDonald, and the light of her life, her son, Patrick Mitchell.

Elaine's warm heart, unwavering love, and dedication to those she cherished will be remembered forever. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness, love, and cherished memories that will live on in all who knew her.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the American Cancer Society would be greatly appreciated.

Lee Nystrom, of Boonton Township and a former long-time resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, July 12, 2024. She was 101.

Lee Nystrom was born on January 10th, 1923, the proud daughter of Italian immigrants, raised in Kearney, NJ and was the youngest of six children (four boys and two girls.). Her parents were born in Italy and came to the United States in the early 1900’s.

She attended St. Stephens elementary school having later attended Kearny High School graduating with the Class of 1942.

Lee met the love of her life, Charles “Buddy” Nystrom, in Kearny through mutual friends. They could often be found walking on Chestnut Street hand in hand, where he proposed to her, and were later married at St. Stephens RC Church, Kearny on July 18, 1942. Buddy, inspired by patriotism after the bombing of Pearl Harbor, enlisted in the US Navy just a short time after they married. Upon returning from his US Navy service on destroyer escorts in the Pacific, they continued to live in Kearny before moving to Lincoln Park in 1950. They remained there until 1962, when they relocated to their dream house in Wayne.

After Buddy died in 1970, Lee worked tirelessly to support her six children at various jobs until she settled in as a Customer Service Representative and funds management associate for Sears Department Store in Wayne, a superb career that spanned nearly twenty years until her well-deserved retirement in 1988. As an avid traveler, she enjoyed several adventurous overseas trips to Europe visiting England, France and of course her beloved Italy with her sons.

A woman of great faith dedicated to her Catholic religion, Lee Nystrom gave generously of her time and energies as a Eucharistic Minister at Holy Cross Roman Catholic Church, one who derived great satisfaction from delivering communion to her homebound and hospitalized neighbors. In her spare time, Lee enjoyed visiting friends and extended family, painting and reading novels.

Lee Nystrom was upheld in her life by a host of family and friends, especially her late husband Charles “Buddy” Nystrom of twenty-eight years. She took tremendous pride in her six children, Donald C. Nystrom and his wife Carol of Vernon, Wayne Nystrom of Haskell, Dwight Nystrom and his wife Teresa of Pompton Lakes, Claud Nystrom and his wife Ann Marie of Chardon, Ohio, Gail Cicen of Nutley, and Keith Nystrom and his wife Lisa of Magnolia, Texas. She was the cherished grandmother of fifteen grandchildren (Craig Nystrom and his wife Spring of Dingmans Ferry, PA, Ellen Nystrom, Amy Nystrom, Sarah Wood and her husband Vincent of Hackettstown, Andrew Nystrom and his wife Nichol of Chardon, OH, Hannah Sroka and her husband Brett of Chardon, OH, Lisa Walker and her husband Chris of Mount Holly, NC, Michael Owns and his wife Johanna of Chardon, OH, Adam Cicen and his partner Jess DeMaro of Allentown, PA, Leyla Cicen and her partner Vince Marinucci of Wharton, NJ, Aylin Cicen of Nutley, Ayla Gruca and her husband Mariusz of Wayne, Zachary Nystrom, Mark Nystrom of Houston, TX and Bret Nystrom of Texas); seven great grandchildren (Ella and Zoey Gruca of Wayne, Grace Owens of Painesville, OH, Faith Miller and her husband Matt of Lansing, MI, Alyssa and Maggie Walker of Mount Holly, NC and Jolie Nystrom of Chardon, OH) and two great-great grandchildren (Leo and Lilly Miller from Lansing, MI); she was predeceased by siblings Jerry, Tom, Frank, Nichalos Cocola and one sister Teresa Livolsi.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial donation to:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

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Felicito Arcilla, age 87, of Jersey City, NJ passed away peacefully Friday, July 12, 2024, with the comfort of family and God. Felicito was born in the Philippines and was the youngest of his siblings. He spent his early years studying diligently and helping to tend the family farm.

In the mid-1970s, Felicito and 2-year-old son Adrian, migrated to the United States joining his wife, Remedios Arcilla. Soon thereafter, the Arcilla family moved to Jersey City, NJ where Felicito worked for over 20+ years as a mechanical operator for Apollo Plastics. Felicito retired in the mid-1990s and became a lifelong partner and husband for his wife Remy.

Felicito was a kind, gentle, generous, patient and loving person. He loved to embark on cruises, go to Atlantic City and above all was an avid WWF/WWE wrestling fan. He had a unique sense of humor and did his best to make everyone feel comfortable and welcomed in his home. His proudest life moments were the birth of his grandchildren Braylon and Sophia Arcilla who he loved beyond measure.

Felicito is preceded in death by his wife, Remedios and is survived by his son Adrian Arcilla, his daughter in law Yvonne Arcilla and his two grandchildren Braylon and Sophia Arcilla.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the National Kidney Foundation (support.kidney.org) would be appreciated.

Magda Matovska, age 75, of Garfield, NJ, passed away on Thursday, July 11th, 2024, surrounded by the comfort of her family. Born in Bitola, Macedonia, to Kole and Silvia Kolevski, Magda was the eldest of three children and is survived by her brother Mendo and her sister Kala. Her childhood was filled with the joy of growing up on her family's farmland, where she experienced a peaceful and prosperous life.

At the tender age of 18, Magda met her beloved husband, Matej. Together, they embarked on a journey that first took them to Italy and then to the United States. Despite most of her family migrating to Australia, Magda and Matej yearned for the American Dream. In 1971, they courageously moved to Garfield, NJ, without speaking the language and with limited savings but abundant pride and a tireless work ethic.

Shortly after arriving in the United States, Magda and Matej worked multiple jobs, saving diligently to buy a home. Their dream was realized in 1981 when they proudly became homeowners. During this period, Magda gave birth to their son, Alexander, and together they embraced the American dream. Matej advanced to become the Plant Manager at Primex Plastics, while Magda worked as a baker at Nabisco. They created a fulfilling life and were proud Americans through and through.

Tragically, Matej's untimely death in 1988 left Magda to be a single mother. From that day forward, Magda dedicated her life to her son, Alexander. Their bond was unbreakable, filled with love, support, and unwavering devotion until her very last day.

Magda was a devoted Christian who lived the words of the Bible every day. She loved God and spent her days helping others through Bible study or simply lending a helping hand. Known for her sociable nature, Magda was a true social butterfly, always engaging in conversations with her girlfriends and warmly welcoming visitors into her home. Guests could always expect to be greeted with a variety of appetizers, a hearty meal, and a bag of goodies. Her generous heart and vibrant personality lit up every room she entered.

Magda's loving and devoted relationship with her son, Alexander, was the cornerstone of her life. She poured her heart into nurturing and supporting him, ensuring he had every opportunity to succeed and thrive.

Magda Matovska will be deeply missed by all who knew her. Her legacy of love, faith, and resilience will forever remain in the hearts of her family and friends.

Nannette Clair Begley, of Wayne, NJ, our beloved mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away on July 11, 2024, at the age of 88. Known as “Nan,” she was born on September 28, 1935, to George and Marie (nee Dehm) Burgmeyer.

Nannette was born in Newark and spent her childhood in Union before losing her father in 1946, when she was just 10 years old. After his death, she and her mother, Marie, moved to Clifton, where Nannette spent her childhood alongside her cousin, Betty, who was like a sister to her. After graduating from high school, she attended the St. Mary’s School of Nursing in Orange, NJ, and graduated in 1955. After graduating, she began her career as an Operating Room Nurse at Montclair Community Hospital. From 1972 until the school's closure in 1990, she served as the school nurse at Neumann Prep High School in Wayne, a period she cherished and remembered with the fondest memories.

While working as a nurse, Nannette met Eugene Michael Kimidy on a blind date, and on August 31, 1957, they wed and made their home in Wayne, NJ, where they raised their 4 daughters: Kathleen, Carole, Michele, and Patricia.

In 1974, the family lost Gene to lung cancer, just a day shy of his 44th birthday, and Nannette continued to raise her daughters with help from her mother, Marie. A few years after Gene’s passing, Nannette met Martin Begley on another blind date. Many times she said, “I went on two blind dates in my life, and I married both of them.” She and Marty traveled the world together, visiting many European countries as well as Australia and New Zealand. They split their time between Lakewood, NJ, and Naples, FL, and merged their families into one, enjoying each of their combined 14 grandchildren. After losing Marty in 2004, Nannette eventually made Naples, FL her year-round home until 2023 when she returned to her hometown of Wayne to be closer to family. 

Nannette was loved by all those who knew her. She was remarkably skilled in many ways, from learning how to use a computer to playing the piano. She enjoyed playing card games, video games, mahjong, bingo, and more. She was incredibly talented at crocheting and made many precious items for her family, including Christmas stockings, blankets, stuffed animals, and more. She was a wonderful cook who enjoyed a nice glass of Scotch while enjoying the company of those she loved most. She was also a devout Catholic who enjoyed teaching CCD and was a founding member of the Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, where she made many decades-long friendships. In recent years, she also began the tradition of giving each of her grandchildren Christmas ornaments, which they will always remember.

In addition to being predeceased by her husbands, Nannette was also predeceased by her parents, George (1946), and Marie (1983); her husband’s siblings, James Kimidy (2016), Patricia O’Shea (2022), and Veronica Grabowski (2008); her brothers-in-law, Joseph O’Shea (1991) and John Grabowski (2022); and her first cousin, Betty Wrath (2024).

Nannette is survived by her loving family, including her children: Kathleen Arts and her husband, Christian; Carole Metcalfe and her husband, Jude; Michele Resavage and her husband, Robert; and Patricia Kimidy. Also survived by Michael Begley and Linda Bosland. Nannette was also a very proud grandmother and great-grandmother, survived by 14 grandchildren and 20 great-grandchildren: Kathy’s daughters, Meghan Scozzari, her husband, Michael, and their children Brendan and Elizabeth; and Kaitlin Kroptavich, and her children, Lily and James; Carole’s children, Christopher, Sean, and Erin Metcalfe; Michele’s daughters, Stephanie Balben, her husband, James, and their children, Cecelia, Weston, and Maeve; and Courtney Resavage; and Michael’s children, Christine Begley, her husband Thomas Schaumann, and their children, Emma, Alice, and Owen; Michael Begley, his wife Amy, and their children Eden and Ella; Maureen Sheehan, her husband, Michael, and their children Catherine and Michael; Kyle Begley and his wife, Julie Wallace-Begley; and Derek Begley, his wife, Mary, and their daughter, Ruth. Also survived by grandchildren Kristen Nyman, her husband, John, and their children, Jackson, Grace, and Conner; and Robert Bosland and his sons, Sean and Liam; as well as her sister-in-law, Nancy Kimidy; daughters-in-law Colleen Graham and Peggy Quinn Begley; and her life-long friend, Phyllis Russo.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Special Olympics New Jersey, Holy bones at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes or Compassion Cafe at the Sea Shell Resort in Beach Haven, NJ. 

Nannette's funeral mass will be livestreamed from St. Mary's RC Church's Facebook page:

https://www.facebook.com/StMarysPomptonLakesFunerals

Once the funeral mass is livestreamed, it will remain on Youtube for future viewings at the link below:

https://www.youtube.com/c/StMarysPomptonLakes

Laura “Lu Lu” Cavadini, age 64 of Pompton Plains, NJ passed Wednesday, July 10,2024 with the comfort of her family by her side. A true hero, loved by everyone who knew her, Laura proved to be the “strongest person you’ll ever know” during her last days and weeks as she fought the battle of her life. In His mercy, Jesus carried Laura home to heaven so she could be at peace once again.

Laura was born to Anthony and Misako Coppla, the third of five children. She was born in Newark NJ and lived in Kearney until she was 9 years old. She and her family then moved to Lyndhurst, where she attended Jefferson Elementary School and Lyndhurst High School. Laura always enjoyed growing up in a big family and took pride in both her Italian/American and Japanese cultures.  Her family was tight knit and she often spoke about how much she enjoyed going on many family day trips and sharing a room with her sisters growing up.

After high school, Laura went on to work for the federal government in lower Manhattan, traveling into the city everyday with her dad and walking “miles” in her high heeled shoes. She then took a job with the Cavadini Insurance Agency, where she met and fell in love with Chuck Cavadini. On her second day of employment there and to Laura’s surprise, Chuck asked her out for a dinner “date” at Angelo’s and the rest is history. They were to be married 2 years later, on March 6,1982. By April of 1983, Laura started her favorite and most life-fulfilling job: being a full-time mom. Laura was born a natural caretaker, which she would continue to do for the next 42 years, first as a mother to her daughters and eventually as a grandmother and full-time babysitter to each of her 4 grandchildren. The relationships and bonds she built which each of her grandchildren were truly special in every day. However, we’re getting a little ahead of ourselves….

Laura and Chuck were married for 42 blissful years, first living in Lyndhurst and eventually moving to Pompton Plains, NJ. Their marriage was blessed with two beautiful daughters, Nicole and Natalie or simply “Natalie Nicole” as they became known as.  Laura and Chuck enjoyed being “young” parents, and as a happy family of four, they were always traveling to Myrtle Beach, the Jersey Shore and to wherever Chuck’s insurance convention was that year. Every day in the summertime, you could find Laura, Nicole and Natalie (and in the evenings, Chuck with a bucket of fried chicken or a pizza) sunbathing or at PV Park in Pequannock, NJ where she loved to sit ALL DAY LONG and talk with her many beach friends.  Most recently you could find the family anywhere in or near the water in Manahawkin/LBI, NJ. In 2013, Laura experienced her second (or third) happiest day of her life: she became a grandmother! She was blessed with four more grandchildren, all of whom she loved more than anything else in the world (even ice cream)!

Laura was the most caring, kind, generous, and loving wife, sister, aunt, mother, grandmother, and friend to everyone who was blessed to have known her.  She was always there to help a friend/family member in need, whether that was by cooking or baking a special treat for them, babysitting her nieces/nephews/neighbor’s children, or just by listening and talking for hours! Laura loved and was an excellent cook and an even better baker, who was known for her famous Christmas Cookies. Every December, she would bake and then assemble trays and trays of her delicious cookies and Chuck would have the job of distributing these platters to neighbors, friends and family.  Laura also loved shopping, painting, talking (usually on the phone, though in person was even better), beaching, watching television (Blue Bloods and the morning news shows), playing the slots at the Borgata and eating ice cream (yes, eating ice cream was one of her hobbies)! With her friendly demeanor and beautiful smile, Laura made friends with every person she met, whether that was the cashier at the local A&P or the person who sat next to her at her favorite/lucky slot machine. More than anything, Laura loved spending quality time with her family and friends including her many nieces and nephews and especially her grandchildren. She never missed a sporting event, piano or dance recital, school play, band competition, or even a chance to travel with the band to Disney World.  

Laura’s final act of kindness was being a kidney organ donor at the moments of her life. Laura’s legacy will live on forever. She will be missed so. very. much.

Laura is survived by her mother, Misako Coppla; her husband Chuck Cavadini; her daughter Nicole Nguyen (John and their children Grace, Evelyn and Thomas); her daughter Natalie Porcella (Gerard and  their daughter Juliet); her sister Joann Rittersbach (Stephen); her brother Anthony Coppla (Theresa) and many nieces and nephews. She is predeceased by her father Anthony Coppla; sister Martha Defalco, sister Linda Bucossi and grandson Benjamin Porcella.

By family request, in lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be appreciated to:

•       Vasculitis Foundation at www.vasculitisfoundation.org/make-a-donation

•       St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Note: Please remember to dedicate your gift to Laura (ccavad4@optonline.net)

Edward Paul Cooke, age 81 of Wayne, died on Monday, July 8, 2024. He lived in Wayne since 1966.

Paul grew up in Haledon NJ at 339 Southside Avenue. He was the son of loving parents Lee and Helen Cooke and younger brother of Lee Cooke. Lee and Paul enjoyed an active childhood playing with friends in the neighborhood, including stickball games, complete with the occasional broken window and accompanying apology. The Cookes treasured family celebrations and summer trips down the shore with cousins.  In 1961 he graduated from DePaul Diocesan High School in Wayne where he was captain of the football team. He completed his undergraduate studies at Seton Hall University with a Bachelor of Science in Mathematics. He then earned a Master of Science in Operations Research and Management Science from Stevens Institute of Technology in Hoboken. Paul was excited to embark on his professional career with IBM in Software Systems Development and advanced to Regional Manager leading the business development and growth of IBM’s hardware, software and services business in the NY, NJ and CT area.

He left IBM in 1986 to serve as Executive Vice President and Chief Operating Officer of Real Decisions Corporation, an IT consulting and software development company in Stamford CT.  In 1994 Paul became President and Director of UMS Group Inc., an international consulting firm in Parsippany NJ.  In 1999 he accepted the position of President and Director of Ceridian Consulting in Norwalk CT, a subsidiary of Ceridian Corporation, providing IT consulting services to Fortune 1000 clients.  In 2003 Paul joined InComm Solutions Inc, a technology-based multi-media teleconferencing company in Glen Rock, NJ where he then served as Co-President until he retired in 2013.

At DePaul, Paul met Janet Scelba who was one year below him.  They enjoyed frequent ice cream dates at the Old Barn Milk Bar and attended each other’s Senior Proms.  After Paul finished college, he proposed to Janet and they were married on August 6, 1966 at Holy Cross RC Church in Wayne. They honeymooned in Bermuda before settling in Wayne. Paul and Janet were strongly unified as parents and built a family based on their faith. Paul was an active dad who never missed an opportunity to be at his children’s sports events and spent years coaching baseball and basketball. He even coached their soccer teams, despite having little knowledge of the game!  It was a priority that he be there for them, and he always was. His children recall many great family times and wonderful memories throughout the years, including annual family ski trips to Split Rock PA and Stratton VT, vacations to Disney World, and of course summers at the family house on Long Beach Island. Paul and Janet made LBI a second home and every summer made many drives to and from Wayne and any baseball field their grandson was playing on.  He also enjoyed cheering on the Yankees and Giants with family.  

Paul was also a dedicated and loving Poppy to his six grandchildren. Although a well-established disciplinarian when raising his own children, he quickly took on a different role when he became a grandfather.  One of his favorite sayings was “Poppys don’t say no!” and he delivered on that proclamation time and again. Poppy and Grammy were a well-recognized enthusiastic presence at many auditoriums and sidelines, from dance and piano recitals and school concerts to baseball, field hockey and soccer fields. Paul quickly familiarized himself with the nuances of any activity his grandchildren were involved in, offering helpful suggestions when needed. At any stage of their lives, his grandchildren could count on Poppy to be an interested listener with always heartfelt advice and unwavering support.

Paul was raised with a strong Catholic foundation and he continued to nurture his faith with Janet over the years. He was devoted to Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne where he served as usher for many years and was a member of the Holy Name Society.  During their summers on LBI, Paul and Janet attended St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Beach Haven where he also served as an usher. Sharing God’s grace with others was important to Paul, and he valued spending time volunteering at Eva’s Village in Paterson through the years.  Now, in justice, God has given Paul Eternal Rest.  We are all better people for having known him.

Paul is survived by his beloved wife of fifty-eight years Janet; their three children: Paul Cooke and his wife Jennifer of Cranbury, Linda Wright and her husband David of North Haledon, and Lauren Cooke of Belleville; six grandchildren: Paul, Grace, Erin, Jack, Finley, and Owen, his brother Lee Cooke and his wife Patricia of Spring Lake Heights, their children Brian and Meredith, as well as extended family.

For those wishing to make a donation in Paul’s memory, please consider Eva’s Village in Paterson. www.evasvillage.org.

Ronald D. Del Balso age 93, entered heaven on July 8th, 2024, at home in Wayne, NJ surrounded by his loving family. Ron was born in McAdoo, PA to Michael and Estella Del Balso. He graduated from McAdoo High School Class of 1949. Through the years Ron and his wife Irene have lived with his wife’s brother Johnny in the apartments on Valley Road in Wayne, then in their own apartment in Hawthorne. They later purchased a house in Ramsey where they lived from 1959-1965 before settling in Wayne at their current home.

He served in the Navy from 1949-1953 on two battleships: the USS Rochester and the USS Missouri.

Ron’s first job was a paperboy in McAdoo, he also picked blueberries during the summer. When picking blueberries, a pickup truck would pick him up at 5am and he would pick until 1pm. The pickers were paid between 2 cents and 14 cents per pint. He pumped gas at the local SPUR Gas Station in Tamaqua, PA when gasoline was 16 cents per gallon. His wife, and high school sweetheart Irene, got him a job working in for the State of Pennsylvania in Harrisburg making copies. Once the young couple moved to New Jersey, Ron who often worked several jobs at a time, worked at the Western Biscuit Company in Passaic night shift loading trucks, and Berles Carton on 5th Avenue in Paterson as assistant shipping manager for 5 or 6 years. He also served as an Auxiliary Police Officer, while living in Ramsey.

Ron met the love of his life Irene Stecina, in the 10th grade at the McAdoo High School. They officially began dating when Ron saw Irene at a party. Irene had been taken to the party as another man’s date, but Ron stepped in and told the gentleman: “I’m taking her home.” They dated from that night for several years. When it came time, Ron’s proposal consisted of him saying they were going to get married, Irene accepted. Ron then approached her father to ask for his daughter’s hand in marriage. They Married on July 21, 1951, at St Mary’s Ukrainian Catholic Church in McAdoo Pa. Their honeymoon got off to a rocky start as they tried to book a room at a hotel in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania. They were not allowed to book the room as they didn’t have their Wedding License. Ron’s Brother Joe “Dody” came to the rescue and drove the Marriage License out to them. After one night in Pennsylvania, they went on to honeymoon in Cape Cod, Massachusetts. Their 73 years marriage was blessed with eight children and the constant tradition of holding each other’s hands.

While working at Berles Carton Ron saw a new company, Gilton Manufacturing, opening across the street so he went in and applied for a job. When being interviewed Ron told the owner, Norman Serota, that he was a very serious person. If you told him to be there at 8am he would be there at 8… no excuses. The boss liked Ron’s attitude and gave him the job. Ron took over the assembly and woodworking departments. The Company made children’s furniture, through its closing in 1978. Then he helped liquidate all the machinery and equipment. At the same time, he worked a second job operating a machine that dyed fabric, from midnight until 7am. Somehow, while doing all of this, Ron attended night school at Farleigh Dickenson University to earn a degree in Shipping, Receiving and Transport. In 1970 he learned about an opportunity in New York where a 16-yard capacity garbage truck was for sale and decided to buy it. Mr. Serota helped finance the purchase and Ron paid it off over time. Ron came home with the truck and founded Dell & Sons Garbage Disposal Company in Paterson. The family ran the company until about 1980. From 1978 until 1980 Ron also worked for Hunter Douglas opening a new plant in Clifton and a warehouse in Totowa. After which Ron started Wayne Dinette’s on Route 23 in Wayne. Eventually moving the location to Route 46 West in Little Falls where the family continued operating the furniture store through 2023.

Through the years Ron has enjoyed all kinds of sports including bowling, softball, and golf. He shot the 1st hole- in- one in the history of the Wayne Nine-hole Golf League in 2013. For many years he was a member of the Wayne Elks Lodge #2181. Ron moved through the ranks at the Elks Lodge and served as Grand Exalted Ruler in 1982.  Some of his many accomplishments while in office were the gazebo pavilion, building the parade floats for the Wildwood Conventions, the Elk on the Roof and, dearest to his heart, helping the Children at Camp Moore. He also served as State District Deputy and worked on the Convention Committee for 24 years.

Ron was a devout Catholic and served as choir member, bingo caller, and carnival worker. Ron and Irene decorated and chaired for dances and volunteered for many other Our Lady of the Valley functions. Ron was a New York Giant’s fanatic and an avid drummer with a crazy sense of humor.

Ron had talent, charisma, and charm, but it was his quick wit that made him irresistible. Ron and Irene welcomed everyone into their home. His unwavering support and generosity will be remembered and cherished by everyone that met him.

Ronald was the loving husband of Irene (nee)Stecina. They were blessed with 8 children: Ronald Del Balso Jr. & wife Jill, Beverly Jerger & husband Richie, Lois Van Lenten & husband Jack, Michael Del Balso & wife Mary, George Del Balso, Danny Del Balso & wife Nancy, Jan Lewinsohn & husband Larry, Alison Del Balso.

Ron was the cherished grandfather of: David Van Lenten & wife Kathryn, Michael Van Lenten & wife Gabriela, Matthew Lewinsohn & Kaitlyn, Shawn Van Lenten, Michelle Lewinsohn, Devyn Del Balso & Erich, Connor Del Balso & Brianna, Kyle Del Balso, Tyler Andreas, Ryan Tighe, Jake Andreas, Robbie Tighe, Shannon Tighe, Arthur Newcombe & wife Carla, Joey Newcombe, Dustin Newcombe & wife Naizsha, Rick Jerger (deceased) & wife Terri, Tammy Fabela & husband Jammie, Eddie Horn & wife Heather, Arron Poole, Athan Santa Cruz, Andreas Santa Cruz.

He was the devoted great grandfather to: Madison Van Lenten, Mae Van Lenten, Kristian Van Lenten, Lily Van Lenten, Declan Van Lenten, Penelope Newcombe, Lucianna Newcombe, August Newcombe, Rick Jerger & Gabby, Scottie Bosma & wife Jackie, Shane Bosma & wife Caitlyn, Trever Fabela, Jammie Fabela & wife Brianne, Noah Olm, Ethan Horn, Alexander Cengi.

And the adored Great Great Grandfather of: Holten Bosma, Trent Bosma, Dayton Reilly, Paisley Fabela, Zayne Fabela. Loving brother of:  Joanne Schaefer, late husband Bob, late Donald Del Balso, late Joseph Del Balso, and wife Joan.

He taught us all that “family always comes first”. Ron’s spirit will live on in the hearts of all that were fortunate enough to know him. Ron’s legacy is one of love, strength, laughter, and joy.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Anna Gaetana Contini, age 101, of Paterson, passed away peacefully on Sunday, July 7, 2024.

The second of Giovanni (John) and Pasqua Occhipinti’s four children Carmella (Millie) Tafaro, Gaetana (Anna), Salvatore (Sam) and Edward. Anna was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. She attended School 10 and then continued to Eastside High School, where she was involved in the Italian Club. While attending high school, Anna worked a part-time job at the infamous Meyer Brother’s Department Store as a sales clerk, which is where she started developing her sense of style and fashion.

Anna developed her love for learning, family, people and her incredible work ethic from her parents who were Italian immigrants who came to this country right before World War I.

Immediately after High School graduation, Anna attended and graduated from Ridgewood Secretarial School. As World War II approached Anna obtained a job at the Local Draft Board. After the war Anna landed a new job at The Laniers and Riccino Bank (later First National Bank) in Paterson, working as the head bookkeeper. Anna’s bookkeeping and secretarial skills along with her ability to speak Italian made her an invaluable asset to the bank.

The Contini and Occhipinti families were friends and this is where Anna and Angelo first met. Even though Anna and Angelo were children at the time they had strong feelings for each other. As time passed Anna and Angelo developed an even stronger friendship as classmates in Eastside High School. The two fell in love and on October 1, 1950, they were married at St Casmir’s Church in Paterson. Their loving union lasted for 39 years until Angelo’s death in December of 1989. They were blessed with four children, Salvatore (Sam), John, Patricia (Pat) and Joseph (Joe). It should be noted each of their children is named after one of Anna and Angelo’s parents.

Anna was an incredible woman who will be missed by everyone fortunate enough to have known her. Among Anna’s many talents Anna will be remembered for being a master garment worker. Anna was a seamstress, a tailor, Anna made drapes, curtains, slip-covers, pillows and pillow cases. Anna even made the wedding gown of one of her daughter-in-law’s. She will also be remembered for her trusty needle and thread she always kept with her, ready to mend a torn sleeve or hem a dress at a moment’s notice. Along with her sewing skills, Anna was known for her incredible cooking and baking skills. Friday nights in the Contini home was pizza night and everyone enjoyed a slice. Whether you were a next door neighbor, a friend of one of her children’s or even the paperboy delivering the paper, you enjoyed a slice. Anna and Angelo hosted a New Years Eve Party every year that featured their incredible homemade sausage. Family and friends would come to Anna and Angelo’s home every New Years Eve to enjoy the singing, dancing and dine on homemade Italian  sausage. What a way to start the New Year. If you were unable to attend you were given the sausage as a gift. Anna was noted for her Italian/Sicilian delicacies like Scotcha, Basittisa and Umbanada. A holiday would not go by without one of Anna’s famous Italian cheese cake called Casada. Anna baked great cookies and in some circles, it has been said, Anna was worth her weight in cookies.

Anna had a great love and devotion for her Family. A holiday, birthday or special occasion was never missed. Anna’s decorating skills were beyond compare. Anna had the ability to make every holiday special. Every Christmas in the Contini home was a Winter Wonderland and what was even more amazing it was done every year. Anna’s love and devotion for family extended to all members of her family. Anna had 11 nieces and nephews who she loved dearly. Anna’s love extended to their children and their children’s children. Anna lived such a long life she was able to connect to many generations. Anna’s niece Angela, loved her so much that she asked Anna to serve as her Matron of Honor in her wedding party.

One of Anna’s passions was handcrafted ceramics. Anna enjoyed it so much that she purchased two kilns and greenware from a local ceramic shop when they decided to go out of business. The time and effort that she put into her crafts were best repaid with a smile and appreciation of those she cared about. She never sought payment, The art and the joy they bought to others was more than enough for Anna.

Another major aspect of Anna’s life was her relationship to God. For 20 years, Anna was the President of the Ladies Sodality of St Casmir’s Church in Paterson. She was devoted to her faith and never waivered in that commitment. When her husband Angelo suffered a stroke, she took care of him for the next 10 years until his passing and still never faltered in her commitment to her faith. Afterwards, she joined the St Paul’s Seniors Club of Haledon with her sister Millie where she held the position of Secretary for many years. She will be deeply missed by her friends, family and the entire community.

Anna is survived by her four children and their spouses, Salvatore Contini, John and his wife Terriann Contini, Pat Contini and Joseph and his wife Mary Contini, her two grandchildren Dr. Joseph and his wife Elizabeth Contini and Michelle Contini and her fiancé James Buffardi, and her four great grandchildren Oliver, Vivian, Samantha and Amelia.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Anna’s name are asked to consider donating to the Special Olympics.

Richard J. Bauer, age 80, of Wayne, passed away on Thursday, July 4, 2024.

The second of Stephen and Mary (Koszarek) Bauer’s four sons, Rick was born and raised in New Rochelle, NY. He was a graduate of New Rochelle High School’s Class of 1961. After high school, Rick furthered his education at Westchester Community College where he earned his Associates degree.

Fresh out of college, Rick launched a life-long career in the world of steel fabrication. He began working as a fabricator for Joseph Charla Iron Works in New Rochelle, New York. He later worked as a project manager for Vicon Construction in Lincoln Park. In 1983, Rick and his wife Susan began their own steel fabrication company in Ringwood, NJ which they called Susan R. Bauer, Inc. Involved in all kinds of steel construction, one of their specialties is bridge work. In fact, you have probably driven over one of the bridges that is the result of the skill and craftsmanship that Susan R. Bauer, Inc. has become known for. Rick served in the role of Chief Operating Officer. He loved his work and never really considered retirement.

Rick and his wife Sue met when he was just thirteen and she was just eleven. Their first encounter was at the New Rochelle Rowing Club (Pine Island) in 1957. Three years later, after Sue and her parents returned home from a trip to Europe, Sue had asked Rick to a dance and the rest is history. They soon fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on November 28, 1964, at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church in Mount Vernon, NY. The wedding ceremony was followed by a reception at the Eldorado Beach Club in New Rochelle, NY where the cost per plate was a mere sixteen dollars – and Sue’s father thought that was expensive. Aaah, the good old days! After a honeymoon in Pennsylvania, Rick and Sue started their journey as husband and wife in a garden apartment located at Cooper Drive in New Rochelle. From there they purchased their first home located at 120 Hillside Ave. in Mount Vernon, NY. They remained there until moving in 1976 to their present home in Wayne. This coming November, Rick and Sue would have been married for 60 years and, it was a marriage which could be best described as loving and cherished.

Rick was a man with many interests. As a young man, he loved going deer hunting with his uncle and brothers. Crew Rowing was another passion. It probably gave Rick the sculpted features that caught Susan’s eye in 1960. Rick competed in rowing, later coached crew teams, and ultimately became president of the New Rochelle Rowing Club.

One of Rick’s greatest passions was his love for trains. He was a wealth of knowledge on the subject and his two-car garage was the home of his incredible Lionel train layout. It proved to be a wonderful source of pleasure for Rick and one which he loved sharing with his sons, daughters, and grandchildren.

To say that Rick was handy would be the understatement of the twentieth and twenty-first century. In his home, he took on any project including putting an addition on his house and building his own built-in swimming pool. He loved yard work and being outside in his yard was his oasis.

Above all else, there was nothing more important to Rick than his family. He was happiest when family was gathered, swimming in the pool, running his trains, and being together on the big holidays. For the past twenty-four years, he and Sue visited Aruba twice a year and, for their fiftieth wedding anniversary, they invited the whole family to join them to witness the renewing of their wedding vows in a ceremony on the beach. They had such a wonderful time so, a year later, they all returned to Aruba. Remember the honeymoon in Pennsylvania? Well, during their honeymoon, Rick and Sue spent a night at Ricks grandparent's home in Portage. To this day, they still visit their home in Portage. It was a great place where Rick loved tooling around on his two-seater Razor quad. More importantly, it became a haven in the country where all were invited.

Rick was a man of simple pleasures, like sitting under the stars and gazing at the splendor of a full moon. He was a man of few words. For instance, when the kids would call, he’d talk briefly and then say, “here’s your mother.” When he had something to say, it was straight to the point and worth listening to. Rick was great at giving you directions to any destination. His directions included hand-drawn maps with phrases like “turn at the bushes” with actual bushes drawn on his map. He was a selfless man and generous beyond imagination. He will be missed for his demonstrations of love in action, his charming little quirks, and the countless ways he touched the lives of those he shared life with.  

Rick was the beloved husband of Susan (Hummel) Bauer, blessed in marriage for almost 60 years. Rick was the loving father of Patricia Keenan and husband James, Christine Pomante and husband Frank III, Richard J. Bauer, Jr. and wife Brianne, and Jeffrey Bauer and wife Brittany. He was the cherished grandfather to: Terrence Keenan, Allison Keenan, Andrew Keenan, Stephanie Pijanowski, and husband Daron, Heather Pomante, Daniel Bauer, Ryan Bauer, and Kyle Bauer and great-grandfather of Noah; dear brother of Stephen Bauer and wife Nina of Boynton Beach, Florida, John Bauer and wife Laurie of Greenwich, Connecticut, and Frank Bauer and wife Kathy of San Luis Obispo, California; and uncle to numerous nieces and nephews.

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Because of his love for children and trains, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Rick’s name are asked to consider:

Railroaders Memorial Museum

1200 Ninth Avenue

Altoona, PA 16602

https://www.railroadcity.org/projects    

Make sure to designate that your gift is in memory of Richard “Rick” Bauer.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Orlando Luzzi, age 89, of Wayne, NJ.

Orlando was born and raised in Acri Cosenza, Italy and was one of four children to Giuseppe and Rosaria Luzzi.  He grew up in the Southern Mainland of Italy during the Second World War, and due to limited schooling, Orlando enlisted in the Italian Army where he served as a medic for four years. 

Following his honorable discharge from the Italian Armed Forces, Orlando was introduced by a neighbor to a beautiful young lady named Teresa Forlino.   As fate would have it, they fell in love, and on September 24, 1958, the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife. 

The newlyweds settled in their hometown of Acri, Italy and while residing there, due to lack of work in Italy, Orlando would travel to and from Germany for work.  During their time living in Acri, the couple welcomed the births of all four of their beloved children; Josephine, Franca, Anthony, and Mario.  After several years, in 1971, as the family grew, they emigrated to the United States in search of the “American Dream” and a better life. 

The family settled in Newark, NJ upon their arrival in the United States.  Orlando found employment quickly with the Nessor Alloy Corporation in Fairfield, NJ.  After working with Nessor Alloy for several years, Orlando left the company, accepting a position at J. Joseph Wallpaper in Hackensack NJ.  In 1991, Orlando called upon his learned masonry skills and accepted a position as a mason at William Paterson University in Wayne.  Orlando was a member of the Union Local 195 and held this position at William Paterson University for the next twenty-five years until his retirement in 2011.

Orlando’s family lived in Newark until 1980, then moved to Nutley where they bought their first home.  Orlando and his family stayed in Nutley for fifteen years until moving to Wayne in 1995 and have been there ever since. 

Orlando was a man of varied passions, he loved to hunt, fish and crab.  Yet, it was in his kitchen and cellar where Orlando truly excelled. He delighted in the art of winemaking, creating homemade sauces, and became legendary among friends and family alike for his homemade prosciutto, salami, and capocollo.

Those who knew Orlando best, knew that the greatest passion in his life was his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to him than providing for and spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  He cherished hosting holidays and family gatherings at his home where everyone would get together, eat, listen to traditional Italian music, and play Italian card games.

Orlando was a charismatic soul who treasured connecting with others.   His home was a haven where the doors were always open, welcoming anyone he met to join in lively gatherings and meals. He possessed a gift for storytelling, captivating listeners of all ages.  Wherever Orlando went, he effortlessly made friends, his infectious laughter and genuine interest in others formed friendships that lasted years.  Orlando will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by all who knew him.

Orlando is survived by his wife Teresa (Forlino) of Wayne, NJ, two daughters; Josephine Simone and her husband Angelo of Wayne, NJ, and Franca Drelich and her husband Wesley of Manahawkin, NJ, two sons; Anthony Luzzi and his wife Jennifer of Wayne, NJ, and Mario Luzzi and his wife Elaine of Wayne, NJ, two brothers; Luigi Luzzi of Westerly, RI, and Cardiano Luzzi of Livingston, NJ, nine grandchildren; Peter Simone and his wife Danielle, Daniel Simone and his wife Lauren, Rosalinda McLaughlin and her husband Sean, Alicia Knox and her husband Christian, Alex Drelich, Nicholas Luzzi, Ryan Luzzi, Luke Luzzi, and Jack Luzzi, and eight great-grandchildren; Ava, Aria, Eliana, Dean, Cora, John, Bennet, and Miles.  He was predeceased by his sister Bomina Gencarelli.

Roy M Stine Jr, 83, of Wayne passed Saturday, June 29, 2024 at home with his family by his side.

Roy was the son of Roy (Mac) Stine and Vena (Yates) Stine.  He was born in McQuady, Kentucky.  He attended Willisburg High School and played basketball.   After completing High School, Roy joined the United States Marine Corps.  He served 4 years and was stationed in Okinawa, Japan, Borneo, The Philippines, Camp LeJeune, and Quantico, Virginia.  While stationed at Quantico, Virginia, Roy met the love of his life and fellow Marine, Judy.   Judy and Roy were married on the base in Quantico in October of 1962.  After finishing their service in the Marine Corps they moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne, NJ in 1964.  Roy and Judy have 2 children Roy III and Paige.

Roy was very active in the lake community and enjoyed the Golf Club, Angler’s Club, and many other Lake activities.  He was an avid fisherman and thoroughly loved and enjoyed his time with the guys at the golf course.  He played his patented cut shot for years.

Roy studied Business at Fairleigh Dickinson University for 11 years at night school.   He received his Bachelors of Science Degree in Business Administration.

Following his service in the United States Marine Corps, Roy worked for several companies in the lithography business.  He finished his career working with his friend, Cosmo, at C&S machinery and had many great relationships with clients nationwide.

Roy was a joker, storyteller, poker and checker player.  He was a loving husband for 62 years to Judy and enjoyed tons of travel and camping.   Amazing Dad to Paige & Darren, and  Roy and Jane.  Roy has 5 amazing grandchildren, Katie, Michelle, Heidi, Spencer and Bryce.  He loved to sit at the lake and fish and enjoyed playing golf with them as well as watching them play their sports with their friends. He was affectionately called “The Mayor”and Birdman by his friends and family.  He enjoyed walking the Lake, neighborhood and golf course and  had a friendly greeting for everyone.  He was a great observer and loved nature, wildlife, fishing and relayed stories of all his daily sightings with us all.  We will dearly miss him and treasure the love and memories he shared with us.

Joseph L. Nigito, age 78, of Kinnelon, passed away on Saturday, June 29th, 2024, with his loving family by his side.

Joseph was born into a world of rations and scarcity, just a few months after World War II. He lived with his parents Lucia and Biaggio, and his brother, George, in a one-room home in the Italian mountain village of Belliardo. He immigrated to America at the age of 14, apprehensive but filled with hope and determination. The family settled in Paterson, NJ and Joe and George were enrolled in school. Joe graduated from East Side High School in 1965 and met Maria shortly after. Maria was just 14 at the time and who would have known they would eventually be married.

Joe returned to Italy after graduation to serve in the Italian Army. Upon his return, he pursued a career in computer technology, a new and quickly developing field. He was offered a job at Burroughs Corporation where he gained extensive on-the-job training. He excelled and worked his way up to Regional Manager, earning multiple awards and recognition. He continued his career as an Operations Manager for the Northeast with Sorbus/Bell Atlantic Corporation. He ended a successful career in a leadership role at Akibia. He was steeped in real-life experience versus traditional education.

Outside of work, he was constantly building new things: Adirondack chairs, remote control cars, entire apartments for family members and friends. He would always say “the tool makes the master” and collected the best tools, housed in the most organized garage of all time. Joe set out to make himself indispensable to the people he loved. It was one way he showed affection, even if he was complaining about it the entire time. Joe loved cars, especially classic cars, and going to car shows with family members and friends. Music was a significant part of his life, perpetually listening to 50s and 60s classics. He was a lifelong learner with a particular interest in history. His broad knowledge would rival any Jeopardy champion. He stayed connected to his Italian roots, always sharing stories about his childhood, and honored his heritage through days spent at the Scoglitti Club. He was proud to go to Italy multiple times, with his family, to introduce them to his humble beginnings and to meet the extended family.

Joe and Maria would soon be celebrating 54 years of marriage; They were married on July 26th, 1970. They weathered many good and bad times, always working through life’s challenges together. More than anything, Joe was devoted to his family. Joe loved a good argument, especially with his brother, George. They would entertain the entire family at Holiday gatherings with their animated disputes. His 3 children, Melinda, Brian and Renée were his proudest legacy, each one becoming successful and independent adults. He also had a strong relationship with his children’s spouses, embracing each of them as his own. However, his true pride and joy became his grandchildren, Skylar, Jordan, Sean, Ella and Casey. He was a fixture at their sports events, theater and dance performances, and all school milestones. He would be the first to assemble toys, build shelves, mount light fixtures and do whatever else needed to be done for his children and grandchildren. He and Maria made great memories taking the 4 eldest grandchildren to the shore, playing games on the boardwalk and jumping ocean waves. And, much to his eternal joy, he was blessed late in life with his newest “little lady”, Casey. In addition to the joy he found in his family, he had a strong network of close friends with whom he enjoyed traveling during his retirement.

He was a powerful man, not just in strength, but in presence and character. His absence leaves a void that can never be filled, but his legacy of love, hard work, and resilience will live on in all of us who were fortunate to know and love him.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider a donation to The American Cancer Society.

Daniel Housman Goldstein 

June 21, 1935 – June 27, 2024

It is with deep gratitude for the moments shared that we announce the unexpected passing of Daniel Housman Goldstein (89) of Pompton Lakes, NJ. Beloved son of the late Benjamin and Gertrude Goldstein (née Housman) and brother to the late Milton (Ella) Goldstein, Dan passed away at his home on June 27, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of love and cherished memories.

Dan is survived by his niece Cindy (Ed) Getty of Roswell, GA, and their children: Ben (Rebeka, New York), Sam (Yiskah and Emanuel, Atlanta), Zach (Alyssa, San Francisco), Josh (Atlanta), and Jon (New York). He is also lovingly remembered by his nephew Alan (Michelle) Goldstein of Cincinnati and their children, Isaac and Avi, both of New York. Additionally, Dan is survived by his cousins Mitchell (Meredith) Salzman of Manchester Center, VT, and Nina Housman of Paris, France.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Dan was an avid baseball fan and spent many childhood days at Ebbets Field, cheering for his beloved Brooklyn Dodgers. He graduated from The City College of New York with a bachelor’s in business administration and a degree in accounting, then joined the Armed Forces in 1958, where he was stationed in Germany. After the Army, Dan continued to serve his country in the Army Reserves. He enjoyed a long career as an accountant at Lenfam Management Company, where the friendship of his coworkers meant the world to him. Dan’s dedication to service and kind humor earned him the respect and adoration of all who took the time to get to know him. Dan was an accomplished Grand Master in Bridge, a testament to his sharp mind and strategic thinking. His love for the game brought him many years of joy and camaraderie.

Dan’s passion for sports, bridge, history, facts, and figures was matched only by his love for his nieces, nephews, and friends. He was always quick to offer aid and never failed to send flowers for birthdays and Valentine’s Day. He was a "meat and potatoes" man who liked his steak “burnt!”

Dan's warmth, kindness, and unwavering support for his family and friends will be deeply missed. His memory will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know him.

Dorothy Marie Parkin, age 97, of Wayne, passed peacefully on Tuesday, June 25, 2024.

Born and raised in Paterson along with her older brother Edward, Dorothy was the daughter of Edward and Agnes Prince.  She attended School #5 and Central High School in Paterson. After graduating from high school, Dorothy completed a program at Sherwood Secretarial School in Paterson, NJ, graduating first in her class, and she worked as a secretary for a short time at the Chrysler Building in New York and then for Equitable Life Insurance Society in Paterson.

Dorothy met Bill, the love of her life in a bowling alley, who won her heart with his outstanding dance moves and pleasant, outgoing personality.  They eventually married on Saturday, August 23, 1947, at Dorothy’s church, Paterson Avenue Methodist Church in Paterson.  After enjoying a reception at The Morningside, known today as the Morningside Florist and Greenhouse on West Broadway in Haledon, they hopped on a Greyhound bus headed for their honeymoon in the Poconos.

After their honeymoon, the newly married Mr. and Mrs. Parkin settled in Paterson in Dorothy’s mothers’ house, right next door to their church.  During their eight years there, they became very active in the church, and that continued over the course of their life.  Dorothy was a long-time nursery worker, taught children’s Sunday School classes, a long-term delegate to the Methodist conference, worked with the church’s Girl Scout groups, the United Methodist Women’s organization, in the Food Pantry, and in many other areas – wherever there was a need.

Dorothy and Bill were blessed with three beautiful girls, Pat, Pam, and Penny, and in 1955 they built a new home in Wayne where they lived a wonderful life. 

Throughout her life, Dorothy kept active in a myriad of ways, as a seamstress (sewing most of her daughters’ clothes, coats, prom dresses, and even some wedding gowns) as a quilter, and she also knitted and crocheted.  Along with her church activities, she was active in the PTA organizations in the schools and was always involved in supporting her daughters’ activities as they grew up.

After her daughters were all in school, Dorothy began teaching pre-school at Wayne Country Day School and then at Morris Plains Country Day School and enjoyed 29 years there.  She was beloved by her students (and their parents), and many of those students remained in touch with her into adulthood. 

Dorothy was never happier than when all or part of her family was together.  She loved to be near the ocean and when the girls were young the family regularly spent summer days at Silver Beach on the Jersey shore.  As the family grew and grandchildren and great-grandchildren came along, the whole family gathered on Long Beach Island in Barnegat Light, enjoying long days on the beach and lots of card games through the night.  These were some of the most special times of her life.  As they had been with their daughters, Dorothy and Bill were very involved in the lives of their grandchildren, attending all their sporting events, their school programs and concerts, competitions, graduations (both HS and college – regardless of what state they were in), Parent Weekends at their colleges, and of course their weddings.  They were a very important part of each of their lives.  When she and Bill were not with their family, they enjoyed traveling through much of the USA and also overseas with their dear friends George and Jessie Crooks.  They have been to the U.K., Mexico, Ireland, Germany, the Canadian Rockies, Bermuda, Hawaii, and Alaska.  Numerous trips were also made to Disney World in Florida and, for their 50th wedding anniversary, they got to be the grand marshals in the Disney parade. 

Dorothy is survived by her three much-loved daughters: Patricia and husband Joseph Carr of Long Valley, Pamela and husband William Murphy of Livingston, and Penny and husband John Dimmick of Indianapolis, IN; eleven adored grandchildren: Raymond Bush, Ryan Bush, Heather Loudon, Meghan Harris, Rebecca Neidhardt, Rachel West, Billy Murphy, Amanda Rec, John Bendel-Dimmick, Sean Stanton, Joshua Dimmick, and nineteen cherished great-grandchildren: Taylor and Tanner Bush, Andrew, Will, and Tim Loudon, Jonathan and Jacob West, Kaya and Harper Bush, Logan, Tyler, Elizabeth, and Leah Harris, Molly and McKenna Neidhardt, John, Owen, and Eloise Rec, and Isaac Stanton.  She was preceded in death by her cherished husband Bill Parkin, and her brother Edward Prince.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Dorothy’s name are asked to consider the Alzheimer’s Association Greater New Jersey Chapter, 400 Morris Ave., Suite 251, Denville, NJ 07834 or to ECLC – PRIDE, 100 Passaic Ave., Chatham, NJ  07928.

Robert George Jeffrey, Jr., age 90, of Wayne passed away Sunday, June 23, 2024, with his family by his side.

Also known as Bob, he was born in the Bronx, New York, to Ethel (Rohrbeck) and Robert Jeffrey. He grew up in the Edenwald section, off Dyre  Avenue, in a modest brick house his father built by hand with Bob's help. Bob attended the prestigious Bronx High School of Science, located at the time off the Fordham Road-Grand Concourse. (Bobby Darin was one of his classmates.) Bob kept in touch with his friends from the old neighborhood for many years, attending the annual reunion of the Allerton Avenue gang each summer for decades.

During the Korean War, he served as an enlisted man in the 3rd Air Command in the Airforce's SAC (Strategic Air Command). Bob's ambition was to become an aeronautical engineer, and learn to be a pilot, but to his disappointment and shock, the Airforce discovered that Bob was color blind and those hopes were thwarted. Instead, after being honorably discharged in 1956 after attaining the rank of Lieutenant, Bob went to college on the G.I. Bill and majored in accounting at Pace University. He later got a masters degree from New York University and became a Certified Public Accountant. (He liked to brag that he found an error on the CPA exam!) His first job was with Haskins & Sells and later, Union Camp Corporation, where in 1972, at the age of 38 he became the country's youngest Comptroller of a fortune 500 company.

In 1959, Bob married his first wife, Carolyn Endres. The pair moved to Wayne, New Jersey, to raise their three daughters, Diana, Christine, and Jennifer. In 1975, Bob was elected to the Wayne Township Board of Education. He served one eventful term before leaving politics to go into the hotel business. 

In 1988, Bob married his second wife, Linda Nardone. They met by chance waiting on line at a Dunkin' Donuts. Together they raised their son, Joseph, also in Wayne. By the early 1990s, Bob had returned to accounting, and started his own firm along with John Booth, a colleague from his Union Camp days. Bob's practice thrived. He eventually branched out to serve international clients in China. Bob would travel to China several times a year on business, a practice he continued until he was in his 80s. In fact, Bob never did retire from his accounting practice, working with clients right up until the day he died.

Bob was a loyal, likeable, loving family man. He enjoyed traveling with his wife Linda; especially memorable was the trip they took to Scotland, his ancestral family's homeland. He was fond of spending time with his grandchildren; and going down the shore every summer to Long Beach Island with the family, where for over forty years, they made many happy memories. He loved gardening, swimming and baseball. He was a lifelong Yankees fan. Although he claimed to be a slow reader, Bob read a lot, especially everything written by the 18th century Scottish novelist, Sir Walter Scott. Bob could talk knowledgeably about almost any topic, but he most loved to discuss history, politics, and sports. He enjoyed biographies of sports heros like Joe Dimaggio, politicians such as Jimmy Carter and Harry Truman. and Civil War general Stonewall Jackson. His guilty pleasure was watching the WWF, and the Sopranos.

Bob is survived by his wife Linda, his daughters Diana Jeffrey, Christine (Scott) Minafri, Jennifer (Thomas) Barthmus, and son Joseph Jeffrey, as well as his grandchildren Sam, Anna Tovah, Rowen, and Max, his two sisters, Lois Sills and Helaine Spina, and his many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, by his brother Ronald Jeffrey, and his niece, Helaine Davish.

Ellen P. Pini, age 79 of Wayne, died on Sunday, June 23, 2024, after a brief illness. She’s lived in Wayne since 1979.

Ellen was born in her parent’s home, and grew up right there in Lyndhurst, NJ. She was one of six daughters to Catherine (nee Coughlin) and Basil Baracca. It was at Lyndhurst High School that she met Tom Pini when they were just teenagers. They would often stroll down to Midler’s Candy Store on Ridge Road to enjoy a treat together, and their romance began in a very traditional way during their high school years. Tom eventually proposed and they were married on June 15, 1968, at Sacred Heart Church in Lyndhurst.  They lived in Lyndhurst before moving to Wayne in 1979. Ellen embraced her role as a devoted wife, and she soon became a very busy mother as well. She and Tom were a good team together; she raised their three sons while Tom was hard at work every day at the family printing company, Kingsland.  Being a homemaker was pure joy for her, and Ellen loved every minute of it. Of course, with three sons to watch after, she was also an effective disciplinarian, and strong with a wooden spoon when necessary. Sadly, Tom passed away in 2022 after fifty-four years of marriage, and Ellen has missed him dearly ever since. 

Ellen was generous to a fault, unbelievably giving, and loved her family above just about everything else. She adored her three daughters-in-law perhaps more than she did her own sons, and her grandchildren were the recipients of her boundless love, hugs, and kisses. She spoiled each of her grandchildren at every opportunity, and nothing brought her more joy than simply being with them.  Her generosity went beyond her immediate family helping anyone in need.  Ellen was also a Disney World ‘junkie’ of sorts, and she’s taken her family on multiple trips to the Disney World parks in Florida. She acted like a kid herself there, and they all have countless wonderful memories from those trips. She and Tom also had a home on Mallard Lane in Ocean Beach, NJ, where they were able to relax and entertain family. She loved the Jersey Shore. She was also a faithful watcher of “Jeopardy”, and she loved game shows in general. She was skilled at playing Trivial Pursuit, and on Christmas evening it was a family tradition to play trivia games which sometimes lasted into the wee hours of the night. 

Ellen was a devoted Christian who attended services at The Chapel (formerly Jacksonville Chapel) for forty years. She actively participated in a women’s bible study every Wednesday evening for many years. Although she lost touch with the bible study group as a result of the pandemic, she had hoped to get back together with them again. Her faith always remained foundational to her life.

Ellen is survived by her three sons; Thomas Pini and his wife Paula of Butler, Chris and his wife Allison of W. Caldwell, and Brian Pini and his wife Janet of Montville, her five grandchildren; Nicole, Ryan, Landon, Elliott, and Evalee, and one sister; Kate Scalera. There is a large extended family that she loved dearly. Ellen was predeceased by her husband, Thomas, in 2022, and by four of her sisters.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Ellen’s memory would be greatly appreciated to the The Chapel, 264 Jacksonville Road, Lincoln Park, NJ 07035

Angelo Intoppa age 92, of Wayne, passed away on Friday June 21, 2024, peacefully surrounded by family.

Born and raised in Paterson, Angelo was the son of the late Armando and Patricia (Cento) Intoppa. He was the third of five children in a close, loving Italian family. He was a proud American who served overseas in the US Army from 1952-1954 in the Korean War. Angelo married the love of his life Jean (Melillo) April 28, 1957. They were blessed to be married for 64 years.

He was a career accountant who attended Fairleigh Dickinson University. Most recently he was the comptroller at Glatt Air Techniques until his retirement in 1999. He and Jean moved to Whiting and enjoyed traveling, walking along the boardwalk, taking their grandchildren to the beach and watching them play hockey. Angelo enjoyed golf and was an avid bowler, even once bowling a perfect game. Later they would enjoy summers up at the lake in Canada fishing.

Angelo was predeceased by his beloved wife Jean (Melillo) Intoppa, sister Andrienna, brother Londo, sister Mary and brother Frank. He was the loving father of Angela Maffei and her late husband Michael (2023) of Wayne, and David and his wife Kelly Intoppa of Jupiter, Florida.

Angelo was the biggest fan and loving grandfather of Michael and wife Brittany Maffei, Gina and husband Ferid Shabani, Alexandra and husband Denis Lyubeznik, Nicholas and wife Emma Maffei, Kyle and wife Kelsey Intoppa, Samantha Intoppa and Sara and husband Charlie MacDonald. He was also the proud great-grandfather of Nate, Maverick, Callan and Ellie.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in memory of Angelo are asked to consider Wounded Warrior Project. 

Lynne Helene Raven, age 75, of Brooklyn, NY, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, June 19, 2024.

The second born of Louis and Esther (Goldstein) Marder’s two children, Lynne was born and raised in Brooklyn, where she resided her entire life.

Lynne was a graduate of Brooklyn College where she earned her bachelor’s degree in sociology. She spent her career as personnel investigator for the New York City Department of Personnel. Lynne retired in 2007 after thirty-five years on the job.

Lynne met Norman Raven at a night club called Thursdays in Manhattan. Picture a gorgeous woman with signature red hair, a red pants suit to match, and adorned with a striking gold necklace. That’s what Norm saw from across the room. He bravely approached her, they danced the night away, and a loving relationship was born. After many more dates, they married on April 9, 1972, at Temple Tree of Life in Brooklyn. Lynne looked stunning in her beautiful wedding gown while Norm went for the crushed blue velvet tux. After the wedding, they honeymooned in Mexico visiting Mexico City, Taxco, and Acapulco. With Lynne and Norman, the old saying that opposites attract could never have been truer. Yet, despite their differences, they enjoyed a loving marriage of 52 years.

In her spare time, Lynne loved taking trips to Atlantic City where, if she wasn’t at the blackjack table, you could definitely find her parked in front of a slot machine. Lynne enjoyed many laughs with her good friend Lauretta on their trips to the beach. Lynne loved all kinds of game shows, especially “Wheel of Fortune” but also “Jeopardy,” “Price is Right,” “Family Feud,” and others. Always with a song in her heart, she loved music and going to concerts in Marine Park and Coney Island. She loved the girl groups of the 1950’s including The Shirelles, The Marvelettes, Martha Reeves and the Vandellas. She also liked listening to Diana Ross and the Supremes, Neal Diamond, Carol King, Neil Sedaka, and Huey Lewis and the News.

Above all else Lynne was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother. Sharing a love for the theater with her daughters Erica and Allison, the three of them made great memories by venturing into the city to see a Broadway show together. Her granddaughter Violet was the apple of her eye and she always looked forward to seeing her and taking care of her as a baby when her parents had to work. In the summers, Lynne enjoyed the easiness of a barbeque with her family gathered around. In the winters, she was more like a bear in hibernation. And of course, it would be remiss not to mention how happy her grand-puppy Zoe, a long-haired miniature dachshund, made her.

Lynne was the beloved wife of Norman Raven; loving mother of: Erica Raven-Scorza and husband Christopher Scorza of Wayne, NJ and Allison Raven of Greenville, SC; adoring grandmother of Violet Scorza; dear brother of Harris Marder and wife Cheryl of Englishtown, NJ, dear aunt of Scott Marder and wife Alicia; and dear cousin of Bruce.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Lynne’s name are asked to consider:

St. Francis Hospital & Heart Center

100 Point Washington Boulevard

Roslyn NY 11576

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In the comments sections, please indicate that your gift is in memory of Lynne Raven and designate the gift for their cardiology department.

William “Bill” Paul Haas, age 89, of Oakland, passed on Monday, June 17, 2024, at the Christian Health Care Center, Wyckoff

He was born to William and Ada Haas in Brooklyn New York. He was raised in the New York City area having lived in East Northport Long Island before moving in 1964 to 10 Bannehr Street in Oakland  where he has lived for the past fifty-five years.

As a young man he sold shoes and later worked at the Sears Department Store in Roosevelt Field Long Island. He graduated from Hofstra University with a Bachelor’s Degree in Business.   His career would bring him into the moving and storage industry where he worked for Bekins Moving and Storage first in Carlstadt New Jersey and then they moved him to work at the Chrysler Building in New York City. He later took a position with McCollister Van Lines that was based in Burlington New Jersey but he was able to work from home in Oakland before retiring in 1999.

He met Arlene Miller on a blind date and one year later they were married.  Through the years their marriage was blessed with a daughter Darlene and a son William and a granddaughter Lauren.  Bill and Arlene lived through the difficulty of Arlene being one of the first patients of the heart valve pioneer, Dr Denton Cooley, where in Houston, TX she had a metal “Cooley Cutter Valve” implanted in her heart in 1978. They enjoyed 55 years of marriage and celebrated their 50th anniversary on a cruise to Alaska along with the family.

William was the loving husband of fifty-five years to the late Arlene Hass who was buried in 2009 with her beloved parakeet named Panzie; he was the devoted father of Darlene Kohan and her husband Bruce of West Milford and William P. Hass, Jr. and his wife Jana of Lovettsville, VA; he was the cherished grandfather of Lauren Kohan Loehmann and her husband Michael of White Plains, NY, and loving great-grandfather to Chase Michael Loehmann.  He was predeceased by his son William P Hass, Jr (2021).

Frank Chiavetta, age 58, of Wayne, formerly of Clifton, passed at home with the comfort of family by his side.

Frank was born in Passaic and raised in the Allwood section of Clifton.  He graduated from Sacred Heart School in Passaic, and later graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1983.

Frank worked part-time for the UPS Corporation loading trucks.  He was eventually hired full-time and worked for them for forty years, a proud member of Union Local 177 he retired as a Customer Counter Representative in Saddle Brook in 2023. 

Frank was a guy who had a deep passion for rock music and a love for riding his Harley Davidson Street Glide motorcycle.  He was known as a great guy, always ready to lend a helping hand and was particularly hands-on around the house, taking care of his pool, yard, and house with meticulous attention.  Frank had a simple and humble demeanor, radiating a calm and welcoming presence to everyone he met.  He enjoyed entertaining guests at his home, often hosting barbecues where he would showcase his grilling skills. Frank was also known for playing his guitar. For many years he was a Season Ticket holding NY Jets fan who loved to tailgate as much as going to the game. Most of all Frank will be remembered for being a family man who was an awesome father to his son Frank Anthony, his daughter Danielle Rose and the best grandfather in the world to Cameron Thomas.

Frank and Anna Marie met in Ortley Beach, NJ as they were introduced to each other by family.   Their first official date was to an Applebee’s Restaurant and Frank brought Anna Marie flowers. Frank proposed marriage at his parents home when they were in Florida. As he was an organized person who had to have things set-up, Frank had purchased a home prior to asking Anna Marie to marry him.  They married on October 3, 1993 at St Pauls Church in Clifton and honeymooned in Hawaii.  

Frank was the loving husband of thirty-one  years to Anna Marie (Scancarello) Chiavetta; devoted father of Frank Anthony Chiavetta and his wife Christine of Bloomingdale and Danielle Rose Gonzalez and her husband Matthew of East Windsor; dearly loved grandfather of Cameron Thomas;  he was the loving and devoted son of Adele (Fusaro) Chiavetta of Clifton and the late Vincent Chiavetta (d.2011); he was the loved brother of Gino Chiavetta and his wife Lori of Clifton.  He will also be dearly missed by his extended family and many friends.

Frank Sokoli, age 85 of Wayne, died peacefully on Sunday, June 16, 2024 with his loving family gathered at his bedside. Frank worked at Paterson and Passaic Rubber Company for over forty years as a Maintenance Engineer, earning a Black Seal specializing in maintaining boilers in large industrial settings.

Frank was a proud veteran who served as a U.S. Army Military Police officer in Germany from 1956 – 1959. Frank was especially proud of his son, Todd, who followed in his footsteps and served in the United States Marine Corps from 1991 to 1997.

Frank was an “old soul” of sorts. He was an avid sportsman with a passion for fishing and hunting. He also took great pride in cultivating what he thought was one of the largest gardens in Wayne, right in his own backyard. He often pickled his own cucumbers and zucchini, and gladly shared his harvest with friends and family every summer. Frank was also known for his great sense of humor, bringing joy everywhere he went with his jokes and famous catchphrases, such as “what goes here?” and “fight nice!” He was a devoted grandfather who cherished every moment spent with his grandchildren, especially when creating his famous “concoction” meals! His grandkids never knew what the meal of the day would be, but they always loved it. Frank also devoted time to picking up his granddaughters from school and taking them to and from sports practices. One of his greatest joys was accompanying his granddaughter, Livia, to every practice and game, cheering on his favorite goalie! He also loved listening to the Heavy Metal music his son Todd produces for his band B.U.M. as he plays throughout Europe. Frank was also beyond handy and had a knack for fixing anything. He enjoyed working on his own car repairs and frequently undertook odd jobs for others, purely out of enjoyment. He could tackle any tasks ranging from plumbing and electrical, to every other type of home improvement. He could do it all!

Frank was especially devoted to his beloved wife, Marilyn. They had known each other since they were younger than ten years old. A few years later, Frank’s fondness for Marilyn grew and he would often hang around her block, hoping to catch a glimpse of her coming and going. Eventually, they began dating and Frank enjoyed taking her cruising in his ’64 Buick Electra convertible. They were married on April 25, 1964 and have enjoyed the most loving marriage for more than sixty years. Marilyn will miss him dearly.

Frank is survived by his wife Marilyn, his three Sons: Scott Sokoli (wife Cindy Sokoli and grandsons Jimmy and Evan of Wayne), Glenn Sokoli (wife Desireé and daughters Arden & Livia of Wayne, now residing in Brick, NJ), Todd Sokoli (wife Juani who resides in La Linea Spain and his children Cristina and Alejandro, residing in London, England), and his sister; Lorraine Kirk.  Frank was predeceased by his infant son; Gregg Sokoli (1968), his parents; Frank Sokoli Sr. and Catherine (nee Frick), and his brother; Bob Sokoli.

Edward “Ed” Luyster, 65, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on June 15, 2024, after a yearlong battle with lung cancer, with his wife Monica and one of his best friends Jeff, by his side.

Ed was born on January 1,1959 to Thomas and Helen Luyster, Jr.  in Paterson, NJ.  He went to Saddle Brook High School and his passions in sports were bowling and Golf. His father instilled a love of golf in Ed at an early age. He worked at Paramus Country Club as a teenager where his Uncle Bill was the Superintendent.   Ed attended Fairleigh Dickinson University and continued to play Collegiate Golf and graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Accounting.

While in High School and College Ed had many part time jobs from working at Kentucky Fried Chicken, working the snack cart on Paramus Country Club, to working as a surveyor in a shopping mall.  After finishing college Ed started working in the electronics industry.  In early 1982 he started working at Arrow Electronics.  He moved on to Kearfott then MGI in 1993-1994 and lastly to Azego Technology, USA where he later became a part owner.  His business relationships developed so many lifelong friendships that lasted over 42 years.  Working in the electronics industry sent him to Munich Germany for Electronica trade fairs and Denmark often and enjoyed his travels and always made friends along the way. 

Ed met Monica on a trip to Jamacia in July 1983.  They were married on May 4, 1985, and enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 39 years.  Monica was Ed’s rock, and her personality perfectly complemented his.  They lived in Oakland for 7 years and then moved to Wayne in 1992 where they lived for over 32 years and raised their family.  He cherished his two children Natalie and Brian.

Ed’s was loving, caring and devoted to his family.  He loved going on summer vacations to Cape Cod with his wife, daughter, son, niece and nephew.  The family took many trips to Florida, the Outer Banks, NC and camping trips with close friends. Family time was important to Ed, and he cherished every minute.

His passion for Golf was endless.  He taught Monica how to play 39 years ago and was a great teacher with much patience.  They tried to play every weekend during the golf season and took many golf excursions.  He also started teaching his son Brian at an early age and the 3 of them went on many golf vacations together and always played local courses.  He started playing golf with a group of guys, now called the RAB, which has lasted for 42 years.  They have travelled to many places and played many fantastic courses.  Lifelong friendships were formed, and many cherished memories were created.  Ed never stopped talking about those annual golf trips and he was known as the “Commissioner”.  He got to play golf at two of his most admired courses, Pebble Beach and Augusta National Golf Club.  Playing Augusta National and attending the Masters Tournament was a dream for him and he never stopped talking about them both. 

Ed loved his time coaching boys Soccer for Sportfriends Soccer Club and was a long-time volunteer, member and Executive Board Member.  He enjoyed his Friday night Texas Holdem card games at the club.  He also organized the fundraiser Sportfriends Golf Outing for 18 years.

Ed loved to cook and backyard BBQ.  At the Luyster house there were many gatherings every holiday, numerous parties, pool volleyball games in the summer, during Ed and Monica’s 39 years of marriage.  His daughter, Natalie, enjoyed being his sous chef.  

Ed will be greatly missed by his wife Monica, his daughter Natalie and her husband Corey, his son Brian and his wife Kiara, grandson Cooper, niece Rachel and husband Warren their son Wes, nephew Stephen and his wife Alexandra and their son Sonny, his in-laws Bernhard and Regina, brother-in-law Michael and his partner Annette, his niece Lindsay and her husband Jeff and their son Holden, his nephew Michael and finance Stephanie and their son Weston, and niece Elizabeth.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Lung Cancer Research Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

It is with a sense of profound sadness that we announce the passing of Karen Lynn Garofano (nee Cornish), age 65, of Pequannock, NJ.

Karen passed away peacefully on Wednesday, June 12, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Karen was born in Paterson and was one of six children to Fred and Helen Cornish.  Karen and her family lived in Paterson until she was about eleven years old when they moved to Wayne, NJ.  While living in Wayne, Karen attended Wayne Hills High School and graduated with the class of 1976.

Following her graduation from Wayne Hills, Karen found employment quickly with her aunt Carol at Howard Group Paper Company in Paterson.  Karen was a diligent and meticulous bookkeeper and dedicated over thirty years of her career as the company underwent multiple name changes and transitions to Five Star Paper, and Marcal Paper Products.  Throughout the shifting corporate landscape, Karen maintained a strong presence, managing the company’s financial record with expertise.  After retiring from Marcal Paper, she found herself drawn back into the world of paper products, accepting a position at Cellmark Paper in Ramsey, NJ.  Karen worked for Cellmark Paper until her passing.  During her busy life raising her daughter and her career as a bookkeeper, Karen also enjoyed working part time at Bosland’s Flower Shop in Wayne. NJ. 

Karen’s adoration for animals was evident in her love for volunteering at the Sullivan County SPCA in her spare time. She dedicated her free time and energy to caring for the shelter's animals, ensuring they received the love and attention they needed and deserved. As a pet parent, Karen also poured her love and devotion into her own animals, raising her beloved German Shepherds.  

One day In 1984, Karen's ordinary day of shopping in Haledon took an unexpected turn when a minor fender-bender brought her face-to-face with a man named Dennis Garofano. Despite the initial inconvenience, there was an undeniable spark between the two of them. What started as exchanging insurance information quickly evolved into exchanging smiles and laughter. As they navigated the aftermath of the accident together, Karen and Dennis found themselves drawn to each other. Their chance encounter blossomed into a wonderful romance.  Before long, they realized that the collision that brought them together was merely the beginning of their journey. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 10, 2008, the two exchanged vows, becoming husband and wife.  While residing in Wayne, NJ the couple welcomed the birth of their one and only daughter, Kayla.  Karen and her family remained in Wayne until 2017 when they moved to the town of Pequannock where they have been ever since.  

One of Karen’s favorite pastimes was gardening and watching wildlife. Karen's passion for gardening was truly vibrant. Karen spent endless hours tending to her garden oasis filled with delicate flowers, bountiful vegetables, and fragrant herbs. Among the variety of flowers, her favorites were the ones that attracted her beloved hummingbirds and butterflies. Their flight and movement were a source of endless fascination. Karen delighted in creating a haven for these birds, planting flowers that attracted them to her garden sanctuary. Karen also enjoyed fishing and boating with her husband and daughter, and hiking in the mountains of upstate New York. She treasured dancing and listening to music, particularly Elvis, Cher, and Janis Joplin.  

Those who knew Karen best knew that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Karen than spending time with and providing for her family.  She was a truly devoted wife and mother and cherished forty years of togetherness including sixteen years of loving and loyal marriage to her husband Dennis.    

Karen had a quick wit and a knack for sarcasm, she had a way of turning even the most mundane moments into a funny and pleasant atmosphere. Whether cracking jokes with friends or playfully teasing loved ones, Karen's lighthearted joking was infectious, bringing smiles to all who knew her. Yet beneath her playful exterior, Karen was sincerely spiritual and held a firm belief in karma, the notion that what goes around comes around. She truly believed that life had a way of balancing the scales, and she lived by the principle of treating others with kindness and respect.  

Karen will forever be remembered as a truly devoted mother and wife.  She was a genuinely selfless person, always thinking, taking care of, and putting the needs of friends and family before her own.  Karen was an inspiration of open-mindedness and acceptance. Regardless of anyone’s circumstances, she greeted everyone with warmth and understanding. Her lack of judgment created an atmosphere where you could express yourself without fear of rejection. In Karen's presence, you always knew that no matter what, she would completely embrace you for exactly who you are.  Karen was a very special person who will be sorely missed by everyone that knew her.  

Karen is survived by her husband Dennis Garofano of Pequannock, NJ, her daughter Kayla Garofano of Pequannock, NJ, her mother Helen Cornish of Pequannock. NJ, one sister Sandy Walder of Pequannock, NJ, two brothers Fred Cornish of Newport Richie, FL, and Bill Cornish of Newport Richie, FL, two nieces; Tara, and Tonya, three nephews; Dan, Matt, and Kyle, and two great nieces; Willow, and Zayna.  She is also survived by her pets; her dogs; Lola, Oreo, and her cat Trouble.  She was predeceased by her father Fred Cornish, her brother Edward Cornish, and her sister Linda Cornish.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Karen’s name may be made to Sullivan County SPCA, 104 Rock Hill Dr, Rock Hill, NY 12775.

Barbara H. Vojvodich (nee Zecca), age 83 of Pompton Plains, died peacefully on Wednesday, June 12, 2024. She lived in Parsippany for nearly fifty years before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2018.

Barbara was born and grew up in Newark, NJ, where her father was a Newark Police Officer and her mother worked as an executive secretary. They lived in several two-family homes in Newark and during her formative years her grandparents lived upstairs, creating strong family relationships between them all. Barbara adored her parents and her younger brother, Barry, often reflecting on many wonderful childhood memories. To escape the summer heat in Newark, they would take day trips to Lake Hopatcong during the 1940’s and 1950’s, and they enjoyed summer vacations to the Catskills. After she graduated from Our Lady of the Valley High School in 1958, Barbara attended Berkeley Secretarial School where she learned shorthand and stenography.  In 1959, she took her first job with PSE&G where she worked for fourteen years before leaving in 1973.

Barbara met Mario Vojvodich after being introduced by a mutual friend. They hit it off and after a brief courtship, they were married on October 21, 1972 at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Maplewood, NJ. They lived briefly in an apartment in Little Falls and after their daughter Laura was born, they bought a home in Parsippany, where they lived for over four decades. They developed close friendships with neighbors there and many became lifelong friends. Barbara’s priority was always her family, and she took to being a homemaker like none other. She was always there for her daughter, took pride in making a good home for the family, and cooked dinner every day. Her daughter, Laura, recalls her mother’s spaghetti and meatballs among her favorites, and her mom’s apple pie was exceptional. Barbara also remembered the favorite foods of her family members, and she would prepare those items (even if she didn’t like them herself!) whenever she and Mario hosted family gatherings. After her daughter graduated high school, Barbara embarked on a second career with the Rockaway Township Board of Education, working with the Child Study Team. She was driven and motivated by the work. She made many great friends there and loved working in Rockaway. She retired from that position in 2006.

Barbara was a great friend to many and was always exceptionally caring and considerate of others. She loved helping people and was always there for a family member, friend or neighbor in need. Among her hobbies was corresponding with her loved ones. She never missed sending a birthday or anniversary card and each contained a heartfelt note. She wrote many letters through the years and was especially dedicated to sending them to a long list of people every year at Christmastime, commandeering the dining room table for over a month to spread out her things and get the job done. She was a truly kind and good person, who genuinely loved her family and friends, and she was grateful for all the love she received from each of them.

Barbara’s Catholic faith was strong, and integral to her life. She was active for many years with St. Christopher’s Church in Parsippany, where she was a devoted volunteer. After she retired, because she had more free time, she even volunteered to launder and iron the curtain and linens used at the church. Later, after she and her husband moved to Cedar Crest Village, she became involved with the Catholic ministry there as well. Her faith was evident through the love she shared each and every day.

Barbara is survived by her daughter, Laura Eisen and her husband Dave of Weston, MA, two grandchildren, Ben and Olivia Eisen; her brother, Barry Zecca of Bridgewater, NJ, and nephews David Zecca and Michael Zecca (Keeley), grandnephew Jackson and grandniece Brooke; nephews Joseph Ihne and John Ihne (Bernadette) of Wayne, NJ, grandnephew John Ihne, Jr. (Katelyn) and grandniece Gina Fernicola (Joe) and great-grandnephews and niece; Jack, Nicholas, Joey and Madison. Barbara was predeceased by her dear husband Mario in 2022 and her wonderful sisters in law Mary Ihne and Maryann Zecca in 2020. 

Donations in Barbara’s memory would be appreciated to Alzheimer’s New Jersey. Donate online at www.alznj.org.

Helen Bilanin of Little Egg Harbor, New Jersey, formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Tuesday, June 11, 2024, at the age of 103.

Helen (nee Holovach) was born on March 16, 1921, and was predeceased by her beloved husband, Peter. She was the loving mother of Barbara Kolvek and her husband Barry, and Susan Augulis and her husband Peter. Beloved grandmother of Susan Melnik and her husband Vladimir, Tamara Kolvek, Kristin Lynch and her husband Peter, and Lara Cornelius and her husband Mark. Beloved great-grandmother of Juliana and John Melnik, Stephanie Lynch, and Angela and Natalie Cornelius.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, Wayne, New Jersey, the Orthodox Church of the Holy Cross, Medford, New Jersey, or the National Down Syndrome Society. Please indicate that your donation is in memory of Helen Bilanin. 

Kenneth D. Watkins, Jr., age 80, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, June 6, 2024.

The oldest of Kenneth and Katherine Watkin’s two children, Ken was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ. He was a graduate of St. Michael’s High School in Union City.

After high school, Ken attended William Paterson College where he earned a bachelor’s degree in communications. His first full-time job out of college as an insurance sales representative was with Peacock Insurance Agency in Jersey City. He ultimately pursued the medical publishing profession, first with Cliggott Publishing in Greenwich, Connecticut where he was Vice President of Sales, then with Clinicians Group in Clifton, NJ where he was Partner and Senior Vice President. In 2000 he established his own business, Watkins Representation Group. He considered himself a blessed man to be able to do work that he loved with the countless great people that he met and collaborated with during his career. Ken enjoyed his work so much! Consequently, he never retired.

Ken was the beloved husband of Phyllis (Sodano) Watkins. They started dating way back in their high school days. He was a junior and she was a sophomore. Their first date was to the movies and their love and devotion to one another grew from there to the level that, if there was an Oscar award for a great marriage, they would have easily won. They married on Saturday, May 22, 1965, exchanging their wedding promises before family and friends at St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church in Union City. After a honeymoon in Miami Beach, Florida where they stayed at the Fountain Blue Hotel, they started married life in a house next door to Phyllis’ mom in Union City. From there they moved to an apartment in Jersey City before purchasing their first home in Wayne where they were blessed to raise their daughter and two sons. Together, Ken and Phyllis had spent the past 53 years together in that home.

Though Ken’s work never felt like work to him, he certainly did have other interests and pursuits. He was a fan of all the major spectator sports and especially enjoyed rooting for the NJ Giants, NY Rangers, NY Yankees, and the Boston Celtics. When his children were growing up, Ken also enjoyed coaching them in baseball and football and volunteering in any other capacity with the Wayne PAL, including driving the PAL’s bus. Ken also enjoyed seeing the world and, while his work allowed him to travel to many interesting destinations, none were as fun as the travels he was able to share with his wife Phyllis. They especially enjoyed trips together to England, Italy, and France.

Ken’s faith in God was evident to anyone that knew him. His Roman Catholic faith was a constant guide and inspiration throughout his entire life. He was a faithful parishioner for fifty years at Holy Cross R.C. Church in Wayne where he served in helping to produce the weekly bulletin, and not only taught gym class at Holy Cross School but also spearheaded and orchestrated a fundraising drive to have all of the school’s gym equipment donated.

He was a compassionate man who enthusiastically helped to raise money for motorized wheelchairs for wounded veterans through the Wounded Warrior Project.

Next to Ken’s love for God, nothing came closer than his love, devotion and joy that he held for his family. His character and integrity were a beautiful example for his children and grandchildren to aspire to and he was always happy to offer encouragement and guidance to move his family forward and lift them up. He’d often say, “Plan your work and work your plan” and, “You can do it!” Of all of his accomplishments, nothing made him beam with pride more than his family and his home. Ken’s grandchildren put a sparkle in his eyes and times spent with Phyllis, his children and grandchildren at their shore house in LBI were precious times that he truly cherished.

Ken was truly larger than life. He was a born leader who’s mere presence lit up a room. He was equally comfortable in a crowd or with a person one-on-one. To Ken, the lowliest were just as important as the greatest and everyone he met was treated with respect.

Ken was the beloved husband of Phyllis (Sodano), blessed in a warm and loving marriage for 59 years. He was the most loving father of Kim Magliocchetti and husband John of Wayne, Kenneth Watkins, III and wife Lori of Woodland Park, and Geoffrey Watkins of Riverdale; cherished grandfather of Geoff and Lea Magliocchetti and Sophia and Kenny Watkins, IV; dearest brother of the late Kathy McMahon; dear brother-in-law of Bill McMahon, Frank Sodano and his late wife Grace, and Gerry Davis; and dear uncle of Eileen, Kathy, Frank, Jason, Amy, Kathy, and Billy.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Kenneth’s name are asked to consider:

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

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Mario Ignazio Ferraro, age 84, of Woodland Park, passed peacefully at home on Thursday, June 6, 2024, with the comfort of family by his side.

He was born in Santa Croce Camerina, Sicily, Italy and came to the United States by ship in February of 1955. He settled in Paterson as there was a large group of immigrants from the Santa Croce Camerina area of Italy. 

As a young man Mario was a golf caddy at the Orchard Hill Country Club in Paramus.  He had a loving personality and was loved by those he caddied for, even loved by one player who hit his ball into a sand trap and Mario handed him a putter instead of a sand wedge.  Mario grew to love the game of golf and encouraged his son Mario to play the game.  Mario went to Farleigh Dickinson University on a soccer scholarship.  During his college years and working towards his Masters Degree Mario worked as a driver for his uncle Angelo Ferraro’s liquor store in Paterson and after his schooling he worked as a Math Teacher for a few years.  After teaching he found work in Lyndhurst as a manager first for the Leslie Valves Company and later for the International Dynamics Corporation.  In 1971 Mario’s brother-in-law Sal DiNello convinced him he should start his own business.  After looking at several different businesses he decided on buying a precast concrete company named the Farrell Company in Totowa. They purchased Farrell on April 1, 1971, then integrated Totowa Concrete and the Crews Corporation in 1981.  As the company grew, they added the Mead-Wilbert Company in 1986 and in 1999 they bought in Shore Wilbert.  

Mario met the love of his life at Eastside High School in October of 1959. Mario’s was eating lunch with a friend and the boy wasn’t eating. Mario asked him what was the matter and the boy said he liked this girl Anna so much and she wouldn’t give him the time of day.  Anna happened to walk by the table and it was love at first sight for Mario.  The rest is history as they married on on June 27, 1965 at St Anthony’s Church in Paterson and honeymooned in Wildwood for five days. They met another couple and played volleyball on the beach.  Well Anna got so sunburned that she got sick and had blisters and welts.  So much for the honeymoon.  Their marriage was blessed with three children: Nadine in 1969 who passed away after just 47 days, Mario in 1972 and Richard “Richie” in 1974 who passed away on December 18, 1995…just a week before Christmas. Mario and Anna have had a loving and devoted marriage of 59 years. Her nicknames for Mario were Honey, POOH, and Tesoro. 

Mario was a determined, hard worker who had a work ethic like no other.  His workday consisted of going to work early, going home for dinner, took a nap, and then returned to work. He was generous to a fault and had a huge heart.  He was also protective of his beloved Anna and would have to accompany her on any shopping trip.  His heart was bigger than life and pounding with love. For over twenty years he served as President of the Santa Croce Camerina Club in Paterson.  Mario was also the Coach for the West Paterson Santa Croce Soccer Team. He was an amazing soccer player and coach to many but most of all an amazing husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. 

Mario was the devoted husband of fifty-nine years to Anna Ferraro; devoted father, Daddy, Pops, Papa Bear, and Chico Bear of Mario Ferraro, Jr. and his wife Erica of Wayne, the late Nadine Ferraro (d. 1969) and the late Richard “Richie” Ferraro (d. 1995); he was the cherished grandfather also known as Nonno and Nonni of Gia and Valentina Ferraro; loved brother of Joan DiNello and her husband Sal of Woodland Park, Tina LaCava of Totowa, and the late Emma Conte (d. 2023) and her late husband Francesco Conte (d.2019). 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Jim passed away on Monday, June 3, 2024 at 89 years old. He was born in Paterson, NJ on February 14, 1935 and attended St John’s Cathedral grammar and High School. Jim later graduated from St Peters University in 1956 with a Bachelor of Science degree in Accounting. He was a member of ROTC, this led him to serving as Active Duty in the US Army Artillery. Starting out as a Second Lieutenant, he later rose to the rank of Captain In the US Army Reserve.

After the Service , he joined the accounting firm of Haskins and Sells and became a Certified Public Accountant. Later he took a position at Union Camp Corporation,headquartered in Wayne NJ. During his Corporate career there, he often said he felt honored to work for such a respected company with so many people of outstanding character.

Jim and his wife Carole were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation parish in Wayne. Jim was active there for more than 40 years serving as part of the Pastoral Council, as well as being a lector and Eucharistic Minister. In its early years as a parish, Jim served as its Financial Advisor.

As part of his belief in Community Service, he became a teacher of “English as a Second Language” at the Wayne Public Library. He was awarded the Teacher of the year in 2009.

One of Jim’s hobbies was golf. He was Super Senior Golf Champion at the Packanack Golf Club in Wayne in 2001 and 2008 and was twice Champion of the Packanack Classic Tournament. Other highlights of his love for the game of golf include 4 holes in one and shooting his age when in his eighties.

He and his wife Carole also belonged to the Heritage Palms Golf and Country Club in Fort Myers, Fl., where they spent their winters over the last many years.

He is survived by his devoted wife Carole of 65 years. Also surviving are daughters Regina Fair of Fort Myers, Fl, Nancy Leonard of Hillsboro, NJ., sons James of Tampa, Florida and Michael of Wayne NJ, and their spouses Joseph, Ken, Joan and Nicole, respectively.

Also nine Grandchildren, Sarah Nuccetelli of Pittsburgh, Pa, Peter Fair of Fort Myers, Fl, Edward Fair of Corpus Christi, Texas, Audrey Leonard of Hillsboro, NJ, Jon Fichter of Pittsburgh, Pa, James lll and Sophia Scazzaro of Tampa, Fl, and Lia and Dean Scazzaro of Wayne, NJ. Additionally, Great Grandchildren, Amelia and Paul Nuccetelli of Pittsburgh,Pa and Callie James Fair of Corpus Christi, Texas.

In lieu of flowers, please make contributions to Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470

Austin Behrens, age 28, of Wayne, passed suddenly and unexpectedly on Sunday, June 2, 2024.

He was born in Pequannock and was a lifelong resident of Wayne. Austin graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 2014.  During his high school years, he wrestled in the Heavy-Weight Class.

After high school Austin went to the Fortis Institute in Wayne where he learned the Electrician Trade.  Right out of school Austin worked for K2 Electric in West Milford.

Austin was passionate and dedicated to motocross.  He built his own motocross and training business called “A7 Training Motocross Enhancement” in Wayne. He spent many years training and coaching motocross across the East Coast. Austin started training at Jimmy Weinert Motocross Training Facility in Jones County, North Carolina as well as Holiday Mountain in Monticello, NY and many more. Most recently he was training at Back 9 Motocross Facility in East Stroudsburg, PA.  His commitment to helping young riders improve their skills and achieve their goals has made him a respected figure in the motocross community. 

Austin was a man of unwavering dedication, with a deep love for his family, faith, and his loyal dog Ace who was his best friend. He was not only a devoted son and brother, but also a mentor and a true friend to those around him.  Austin was a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne where his love for his Catholic faith, guided him in all aspects of his life, and he lived by the values of compassion, integrity, and kindness.  Austin’s love for his dog was evident in the way he cared for and cherish his companion, who was always by his side.  Austin, who was a “mama’s boy” and loved the band Lynard Skynrd, had a presence and was a source of comfort and support for those who knew him, his impact on the lives of others was immeasurable.  Austin’s legacy of love, loyalty, and friendship will forever be remembered by those who were fortunate enough to have known him.

Austin was the cherished son of Bernadette Finn of Wayne and Scott Behrens of Florida, New York; he was the dearly loved brother of Katie Behrens of Tuxtla Guttierez, Chiapas, Mexico, Baileigh Behrens of Wayne, Brooke Behrens of Wayne, Finn Behrens of Wayne, and Christian Greatorex of Wayne; much loved grandson of Billie McBride of Denver, CO, and Walter and Lucia Behrens of Oak Ridge; he was the loved nephew of Jason and Mary Behrens of Bloomingdale, Carmine and Jeanette Gallo of Wayne, Scott and Robin Behrens of Punta Gorda, FL, Dale McBride and Mary Philips of Champaign,  IL, and the Greatorex Family. He was loved by many nieces, nephews, cousins, bonus aunts Kim and Marko and many other family and friends who Austin loved as his family.

Austin was predeceased by his devoted grandparents Tom and Eve Finn; great-grandparents John and Leontyna Markowski and Warren and Helen Behrens. He was also predeceased by his great-uncle Jim Gilleran and great-aunt Mary Gilleran.