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John A. Nicola, of Riverdale, NJ, passed away on February 23, 2024 at his home.  John was born on August 28, 1928 in Paterson, NJ, the eighth of eight children born to John Nicolo and Josephine Petriccione, who emigrated to the United States from the Naples area of Italy in the early 1900's.  He had been a resident of Riverdale since 2004, after living and raising a family in Wayne, NJ since 1962.

John joined the United States Navy in early August 1945 at the age of 17. After serving two years, he trained as a machinist, and worked for several companies in northern New Jersey in positions of increasing responsibility, finally retiring from Litton Industries in 1991 as a plant engineer.

John married Esther Caradonna of Waldwick, NJ in September 1951, enjoying a 63 year marriage until her passing in March 2014.  They were blessed with four children who all attended school in Wayne.

Golf was one of John's favorite leisure activities, and he had some wonderful golfing buddies over the years.  He played for years in groups at Passaic County golf course with several of his boyhood friends, and eventually with another group, the Cranford Golf Club, which toured to and played many New Jersey courses.  John was also a man of skill and determination when it came to making things with his hands; he devoted years to making stained glass lamps and other decorative items, some with thousands of small pieces of colored glass which he carefully assembled and soldered together.

John and Esther were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church Catholic Church in Wayne from 1963, attending with his family in the auditorium of Schuyler-Colfax Junior High School before the completion of the new Church in 1967.

John is remembered for his care and love of his children, including Josepha (Jody) Nicola of Butler, NJ, John and Marie Nicola of Palm Beach Gardens, FL, Mary Halka of Wanaque, NJ, and Patricia and Bruce Vendola of Clifton, NJ. He was a loving grandfather to four, including Michael, Elizabeth, Evelyn, and Stanley, and eight great grandchildren.

The family asks that, in lieu of flowers or other remembrances, donations in memory of John A. Nicola be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.

To sign his guest register or to leave online condolences please visit vandermay.com and click on his picture.

John A. Nicola

Riverdale
February 23, 2024

Rosemarie Theresa Rose, age 60, of Wayne passed peacefully on Wednesday, February 21, 2024 in the comfort of her own home. 

She is survived by her husband Steven and their daughters Megan and Sydney, as well as her mother, five siblings, and many nieces, nephews, and friends.

Rosemarie was born to Joseph and Rosemarie Kramer and graduated from Union Catholic High School in 1982. She was loving, caring, hilarious, and devoted to her family. Never failing to put a smile on everyone’s faces, she lit up every room she walked into. An avid reader, when she wasn’t around her family and friends, you could find her strolling the aisles of Barnes and Noble.

In 1989, Rosemarie met the love of her life, Steven in the communications industry. They married on June 25, 1995 and honeymooned in Hawaii. Soon after, they settled in Wayne to start their family. Rosemarie and Steven lived happily in their home with two beautiful daughters.

Those considering memorial donations are encouraged to consider a donation in Rosemarie's name to the Arnold and Winnie Palmer foundation.

Rosemarie Theresa Rose

Wayne
February 21, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Harry E. Litsis, age 63 of North Caldwell, NJ.

Harry passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, February 20, 2024.  Harry was born and raised in Teaneck, NJ until he was thirteen when his family moved to Wayne Township.  He was the younger of two children to Emanuel and Mae Litsis.  After moving to Wayne, Harry attended Wayne Valley High School where he was well liked and made life-long friends.  After graduating with the class of 1979, Harry attended William Paterson University where he studied Business Administration and earned his Bachelor Degree.  

Harry, a driven and ambitious entrepreneur, embarked on his journey at the early age of twenty-five by founding an office supply business named Litsis Office Equipment in Totowa. Harry's unwavering dedication and relentless pursuit of excellence propelled his business to success, earning him a reputation as a trusted provider of office essentials in his community.  Harry eventually sold his business and went on to have a successful thirty-year sales career. 

 Harry’s entrepreneurial spirit and love of sports later led him to launch Jersey Sports Now as well as Our Town Totowa. 

In the summer of 1986, Harry met the love of his life, Patty Martin. The two hit it off immediately and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on July 9, 1989, Patty and Harry exchanged wedding vows at St George’s Greek Orthodox Church in Clifton and became husband and wife.  

The newlyweds settled in Hawthorne, NJ where they lived for sixteen years.  While residing there, they welcomed the births of both their children, Nicholas and Alexandra.  As their children became teenagers, in 2005, they moved to the town of Wayne. They lived there for seventeen years until they moved to North Caldwell, NJ in 2022. 

Harry had a heart that beat to the rhythm of the NY Knicks. His enthusiasm was contagious to all who knew him. Yet, beyond the confines of the basketball court, Harry found solace in the outdoors and was an avid golfer. He enjoyed long rides to Bear Mountain and the Jersey Shore along with vacations to Naragansett, Rhode Island with his family.

He cherished and celebrated his Greek culture all his life and rejoiced in Greek Easter every year. 

Harry was a larger-than-life type of guy with a wonderful sense of humor and an infectious laugh that could light up any room. Harry, always the jokester, had a nickname for just about everyone he met.

Harry’s greatest passion in life was for his friends and family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Harry than providing for and spending time with his wife and children.  He was a friend to the friendless and always made certain that those around him felt comfortable. 

Harry was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him and will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, brother and friend.  He will truly be missed by everyone that knew him. 

Harry is survived by his wife Patty of 35 years (nee Martin), his son Nicholas, his daughter Alexandra, his sister Connie Litsis and his beloved dog Charlie.  He leaves behind many heartbroken family members and loved ones. Harry was predeceased by his parents Emanuel and Mae Litsis.

Those wishing to make a donation in Harry’s name are asked to consider any local animal shelter near them. 

Harry E. Litsis

North Caldwell
February 20, 2024

Tracie “Toots” A. Garman

September 10, 1923 – February 20, 2024

Tracie “Toots” A. Garman, 100, of Wayne, NJ, formerly of Bellefonte, PA, passed away on Tuesday, February 20, 2024, in Wayne, NJ. Born on September 10, 1923, in Bellefonte, she was the daughter of the late Gilbert Salter and Ida (Gingher) Aikey. On June 16, 1941, she married her beloved husband, William “Tom” Garman, who preceded her in death on March 25, 2018, after sharing over 76 years of marriage together.

Tracie was a 1941 graduate of Bellefonte High School. She went on to graduate from Montclair State University in 1986, with her Bachelor of Science, majoring in business. She began working as a bookkeeper for Vapon, Inc., and advanced to the position of Vice President. She retired after 40+ years of service. She also worked as Vice President for the Jersey Telephone Company for several years.

She is survived by her three children, Gloria Gamble (Frank) of Clemmons, NC, Thomas Garman (Mary) of Ft. Wayne, IN, and Tracie Coletto (Peter) of Wayne, NJ; six grandchildren: Heather Comstock, Stephen and Bejamin Garman, Kristen, Peter and Todd Coletto; and 11 great grandchildren.

In addition to her husband, Tom, and parents, Gilbert and Ida, she was predeceased by two grandchildren, Tiffany Gamble Santiago, and James Garman, and three sisters, Marjorie Rackoski, Mary Aikey, and Margaret Sarah Eminhizer.

Tracie was a member of the Church of Christ in Parsippany, NJ. She was an avid reader and was especially intrigued by mystery novels. She enjoyed gardening, doing crossword puzzles and spending time at the shore. She and Tom had a beach house on Long Beach Island, NJ, and spent much of their time there over the years.

Tracie “Toots” Garman

Bellefonte
February 20, 2024

George R. Martens, age 82, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, February 19, 2024.

George was born in Hackensack, NJ on May 31, 1941 to George and Marjorie Martens. He was raised in Elmwood Park, NJ. He graduated from Bergen Technical High School with the Class of 1959. George furthered his education at Fairleigh Dickinson University where he received his Bachelor of Science Degree in 1970 and his Master’s Degree with the Class of 1975. 

George patriotically served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War and was Honorably discharged in March of 1966. 

As a child, George proudly worked alongside his father delivering milk in the early morning before the start of his school day. After graduating high school, he began his career with Western Electric. After receiving his college degree, George's work experience and education led him to AT&T. His career spanned more than 35 years positioned in Network Services, Human Resources, Compensation and Benefits. George was well respected by his peers and was dedicated to his profession.

George prided himself in his meticulously manicured lawn, spending weekends tending to and ensuring its pristine condition. When he wasn’t enjoying the outdoors, he could often be found carving intricate decoy ducks and honing his trap shooting skills. An avid reader, particularly on the subject of U.S. history, he would regale his friends and family with entertaining historical stories. George enjoyed various hobbies over the years such as model trains and airplanes, maritime battleships and the like. His passion for learning in retirement was shared with the many friends he made at the Wayne Library, and his afternoons often spent viewing CNBC, Bloomberg and other finance resources. In his downtime, George enjoyed classic Westerns and auto racing, finding joy in the thrill of the races and the nostalgia of classic Western films. His true joy was watching his beloved grandsons playing basketball and excelling academically.

George met his beloved wife Rena on a blind double-date and after several months of dating George proposed to Rena. They were married on September 21, 1963 at the Third Christian Reformed Church in Paterson. Their marriage was blessed with three beloved children George, Laura, and David. 

George was the devoted, loyal and loving husband for over sixty years to the love of his life Rena; the proud and dedicated father of George Martens, Laura Martens and Scott DiPatria of Kinnelon, and David Martens and his wife Andrea of Wayne. The proud grandfather of Reid and Devin Martens and uncle and great-uncle to many nieces and nephews. George was predeceased by his parents George and Marjorie Martens and his brother Robert Martens (d. 2019).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated. 

George Martens

Wayne
February 19, 2024

Jack Sherger, age 76, of Indian Harbour Beach, Florida, passed away on Sunday, February 18, 2024 with his loving companion by his side.

Jack was born in New York City in 1947. The oldest of John and Wilhelmina (Daube) Sherger’s two sons, his family moved to 42 Maple Lane in the Riverview Community in Wayne in 1953. Jack attended Wayne High School (known today as Wayne Valley High School), and graduated with the class of 1965.

Jack was popular in school and a skilled athlete. He excelled in football as an offensive and defensive end, and in baseball as a first baseman. After graduation, Jack headed north to Colby College in Waterville Maine, where he majored in business and, as his brother Bob would say, poker! Sports continued to be a big part of Jack’s life. He played football and golf at Colby, winning a collegiate golf tournament in Maine while he was there.  

After college graduation in 1970, Jack pursued a career in sales in the emerging field of business machines and computers. He started with Monroe Business Calculator and then moved on to a company called Basic Four where he sold computers. He was the number one salesman year after year, but Jack decided he’d rather go fishing a few days a week than attend sales meetings every Monday. Jack moved on to his next pursuit, which, as destiny would have it, would be car rentals.

While working as a salesman, Jack frequently had to rent cars and he always found it to be a highly frustrating experience. Prompted by this ironic disdain for car rental agencies, Jack decided to start a company that made the process easier for customers. The doors to Courier Car Rental opened at Essex County Airport in 1982 with six used cars in the fleet. At one point in those early days, a customer called for a rental car but all the vehicles were already out on rent, and, rather than turn a customer away, Jack rented out his mother Willie’s car while she was away on a week’s vacation. When the customer kept the car for a month, Willie was not pleased, but it became one of her favorite stories to share.

With his focus on customer service, it is no wonder that Jack’s business grew. When Jack started advertising and renting in New York City, the business took off. C.C. Rental quickly became one of the main suppliers of cars, vans, and trucks to the New York production industry. At various times, C.C has had three locations in New Jersey, three in New York City, one in Atlanta, wintertime operations in Florida, and a fleet surpassing 700 vehicles.

With the success of his business and with no boss to answer to, Jack finally had time for his true loves – fishing and golfing. These passions became his primary pursuits and he showed up at the office just a few days per week in between, but he always helped manage the business from a cell phone in the middle of a lake or on a river.

While Jack was perfectly happy in a C.C cargo van with a kayak and a fishing pole in the back, he had an affinity for sports cars and he liked to drive fast, especially in his younger years. This hobby led to plenty of speeding tickets over the years. One of the many times he was pulled over, he handed the police officer his brother’s Bob’s license.

In his 40’s, Jack met the woman who would become the love of his life, Jocelia Cintra. Despite being picked up for their first date in a cargo van, Celia had a great time with Jack and they went on to share many wonderful years together. They enjoyed countless Broadway shows and concerts; trips to Germany, Spain, Portugal, Austria, Chile, Argentina, Brazil, Uruguay, and beyond; and of course, lots and lots of golfing and fishing. With Jack as a guide, Celia became an excellent golfer and fisherwoman. On one memorable excursion, Jack looked on proudly as Celia caught a giant tarpon bigger than she was!

Jack and Celia lived in Hamburg, New Jersey in the summers and would spend their winters as snowbirds at their beloved Indian Harbour Beach condo. In Florida, Jack played golf every morning and fished for bass every afternoon.  Summer weekends were spent at their lake house in Lakewood, Pennsylvania.  Jack fished all over the world for all kinds of fish: largemouth bass from his boat in the lakes of Florida, stripers in Montauk, bonefish in Belize and the Bahamas, salmon in Chile and Argentina, and his favorite fish: rainbow trout in the rivers and creeks of New York and Pennsylvania. Jack loved to teach others how to fish and would cheer people on gleefully as he caught ten fish to their one.

Jack was also a food lover. As a young man, he spent time at his grandfather’s famous restaurant, Paul Daube’s Steakhouse, also known as The Dutchman’s, which was frequented by famous ball players and celebrities. But Jack was just as enthused about getting fried gizzards at the gas station on the way to the lake as he was about dining in high-end restaurants in Manhattan. His favorite restaurants included Dixie Crossroads and Marsh Landing in Florida, and Peter Luger Steak House and Uncle Jack’s Steakhouse in New York. He was also known to whip up some Sherger family favorites, including his mother’s famous peach kuchen.

Jack was beloved by family, friends, and employees. He had a happy heart and a free spirit. He embraced and enjoyed life and always had a funny story to tell about a place he had been or a meal he had enjoyed. Jack was also an extremely generous man. Whether it was looking out for his employees or taking the time to teach anyone interested how to golf or fish, Jack was glad to share his wealth and knowledge.      

Jack was the cherished companion of Jocelia Cintra; dear brother of Robert Sherger and his late wife Kathleen (Reed) Sherger (2021) of Riverdale; loving uncle of Erika Sherger of Boonton Township, Sara Varney and husband Jason of Conshohocken, PA, and Reed Sherger of Lake Parsippany; and adored great-uncle of Wynn and River Varney. He is also survived by several cousins.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jack’s name are asked to consider The National Fish & Wildlife Foundation or Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

Jack Sherger

Indian Harbour Beach
February 18, 2024

Gordon G. Spanek, age 84, of Magnolia Delaware and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 17, 2024.

Born in New York City, Gordon was the son of George and Margaret (Wilson) Spanek. At a very young age, he and his family moved to Leonia, NJ where Gordon grew up and graduated from Leonia High School with the Class of 1957.

After high school, Gordon attended Fairleigh Dickinson University where he earned a bachelor’s degree in accounting. He went on to experience a rewarding career spanning over 40 years with the U.S. Department of Defense in the Defense Contract Audit Agency. 

A life-long body building enthusiast, Gordon met his wife Rita Collins through a weightlifting friend. They married in 1982 and lived the majority of their married life together at the home located at 31 Amherst Court in Wayne, NJ. They were blessed with the birth of their son Craig and enjoyed a love-filled marriage until Rita’s passing in 2005. 

Gordon’s leisure time pursuits mostly included weightlifting, cars, baseball cards, traveling, and intensively following the New York Yankees. A lifelong weightlifter, Gordon understood the importance of taking good care of himself and it truly paid off in his later years when he reached his eighties but felt like he was in his early sixties. A guy who always got excited about cool cars, some of his favorites were his 2014 black Corvette, a 1956 black Oldsmobile Starfire, and several classic Pontiac Firebirds. As a kid, Gordon loved to collect baseball cards. Of course, he outgrew the passion but it rekindled years later when it became a hobby he pursued and shared with is son Craig. 

In 2008, Gordon relocated to South Carolina. He bought a home at 105 Anhinga Court in the town of Summerville and remained there until moving to Magnolia Delaware in 2019. Along the way, he found true love and companionship again with a dear woman named Elizabeth “Liz” Toth.  Gordon and Liz felt truly blessed to have found each other. They especially loved to travel, enjoying vacations in St. Marteen and to Las Vegas where Gordon would spend hours at the craps table. 

Gordon was the loving husband of Rita (Collins) Spanek, blessed in marriage for 23 years until her passing in 2005. He was the loving father of Craig and his wife Jennifer Spanek of West Collingswood Heights, NJ, and loving stepfather of Keith McDermott of Red Bank, NJ; adoring grandfather of: Brendan, Colin, Michael, and Monae; and dear companion of Elizabeth “Liz” Toth of Magnolia, Delaware. He also is survived by numerous cousins. 

In lieu of flowers, because of a soft spot in his heart for stray animals, those planning an expression of sympathy in Gordon’s name are asked to consider a donation to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals. Gifts can be made online by clicking on the link below or by mailing a check to:

ASPCA Gift Processing Center

P.O. Box 96929

Washington, DC 20090-6929.

Please make your money order or check payable to the ASPCA and remember to indicate that your gift is in memory of Gordon Spanek.

Gordon G. Spanek

Magnolia
February 17, 2024

Kathryn West, 76 years old, of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully in her sleep on February 9th, 2024. Kathryn was the daughter of the late Joseph and Helga Spirko. She attended Wayne Valley High School, and graduated in the class of 1966. For many years she worked at Grand Union corporate headquarters. She also worked for Buxton's restaurant in Wayne. Kathryn went on to work with developmentally challenged adults in a group home setting for many years. For the past 10 years she has worked as a teachers aide at Lenox school in Pompton Lakes. She was hard working, and loved to have fun. She always enjoyed going to the beach. She loved the outdoors, and spending time in the sun.

Kathryn is survived by her son Jason and his wife Leyla West, her brother Joseph (Melissa) Spirko, brother Michael (Jackie) Spirko, and sister Kristy (Kyle) Smith, her nephew Ian, niece Tracy, brother-in-lawOwen McGarry, step-mother Ruth Spirko, and other loving relatives. She was predeceased by her sister Susanne McGarry.

Kathryn West

Pompton Lakes
February 9, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Edwin C. Olen, age 93, of Wayne, NJ. 

Edwin passed away peacefully on Friday, February 9, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  Edwin was born in Jersey City, NJ and was the older of two children born to John and Geraldine Olen. He spent his formative years in Montclair, NJ and graduated high school in 1947.  Having great respect for the military, Edwin then enlisted in the United States Army.  While serving, he was a paratrooper for the 82nd Airborne Division in Fort Bragg, NC and received the Parachute Badge. 

After being honorably discharged from the army in 1950, Edwin worked for the next 42 years as a master carpenter with Damon G. Douglas Construction in Cranford, NJ, retiring in 1992. In the mid 1950’s, Edwin met his wife of 51 years, Dolores Mendez, and they married May 25, 1958. They settled in Wayne, in a home Edwin built himself with the help of a few handy friends, and lived there ever since.  There they raised their four children Joey, Randy, Nancy and Kara.

Randy fondly remembers the wiffle ball games played in the backyard with his brother Joey, and how the ball always went into the neighbor’s yard following a strike.  Edwin solved that problem by constructing a full-sized backstop in the yard for them.

Nancy fondly remembers asking her dad for a playhouse.  While she would have been thrilled to get a big cardboard box with a door cut into it, Edwin instead constructed a miniature house in the backyard…framed, sided and shingled to match the main house, and complete with electricity, a concrete front stoop, and shrubbery.

Kara fondly remembers going with Edwin every Sunday morning to the Packanack Lake shopping center: first stop was the hardware store for supplies for his basement workshop, and second stop was the drugstore for the Sunday newspapers.  The newspaper pickup always included Edwin buying a small toy for Kara, which 50 years later is still referred to as “The Weekly Toy.”

Edwin loved his home and kept it in top shape.  If he wasn’t working on home maintenance projects, he was mowing and edging the lawn (with a push mower and hand edger) with a precision that would rival that of the groundskeepers at Yankee Stadium.

After retiring from his career as a carpenter, Edwin most loved spending time with his young grandchildren. The grand kids always wanted to “play school” and Edwin and Dolores spent hours each week attending class, doing their homework, and bringing it back to class the next day organized in folders.  They were rewarded regularly with stars and stickers, and always advanced to the next grade at the end of the school year!

Edwin also picked up golfing after retirement. He loved playing at Passaic County golf course, making friends with the other retirees, and keeping meticulous records of his number of rounds played and scores. His record was 236 rounds of golf in one season, and scoring in the low 80’s at his best.  On September 8, 2015, he even shot a hole-in-one at Berkshire Valley golf course in Oak Ridge, NJ.

During his midlife crisis at 50, he purchased a Honda motorcycle and enjoyed riding it all around town, much to the dismay of Dolores.  Thankfully, he came to his senses about a decade later and his rides ended without incident.

Edwin and family enjoyed many years of summer vacations in Wildwood Crest. Favorite activities included eating out, golfing, renting bikes, and walking on the beach and boardwalk.  He also enjoyed other travels with his family over the years to Bermuda, Hawaii, Bahamas, and London.  Many road trips were also taken along the eastern seaboard from DC to Disney.  Edwin carefully planned each route using AAA TripTik maps to include frequent stops at Shoney’s, a favorite restaurant of his.

Edwin always loved his food. He took his family to lovely birthday dinners for too many years to count.  As his age progressed, his children turned the tables and treated him to nice dinners out more frequently so everyone could spend time together.  Favorite locations included Rails, Rare, Villa Verde, and Tavern 5.  At home, his favorite snacks were Ritz crackers piled high with peanut butter, butter and salt; and half a can of Reddi Wip atop a serving of butter pecan ice cream so large it was still in the shape of the Breyer’s box.  Whichever snack he chose, he would dutifully enter “Snack: 100 calories” in his nutrition notebook.

Edwin attended his AA meetings regularly and he received his 41-year pin in 2023. He enjoyed the company of friends he met there, as well as those he met as a long-time parishioner of Jacksonville Chapel in Lincoln Park, NJ, where he particularly enjoyed their holiday musical performances and annual Easter Egg Hunt. 

Edwin and his wife Dolores cherished more than fifty years of marriage together until Dolores’ passing in 2009.  Edwin will forever be remembered as a quiet reserved man with a great low-key sense of humor.  He was loved by many and everyone would certainly agree: he had a good run.

Edwin is survived by his two daughters; Kara Campbell and her husband Charles of Teaneck, NJ, and Nancy Fitzgerald and her husband Michael of Hillsborough, NJ, one son, Randy Olen of Johnston, RI, five grandchildren; Kerri Fitzgerald and her husband John Garnier of Hillsborough, NJ, Kevin Fitzgerald of Charlotte, NC, Joseph Campbell of Teaneck, NJ, Olivia Campbell of Teaneck, NJ, and Marie O’Kleasky of Midlothian, VA, and one sister-in-law, Donna Edson of Wayne, NJ.  Edwin was predeceased by his wife Dolores Olen (2009), his son Joseph Bossard (1971), and his sister Virginia Arvidson (1957).

Those who wish to donate in Edwin’s name are asked to consider the Wounded Warrior Project

Edwin C. Olen

Wayne
February 9, 2024

Teresa Salafia, age 85 of Paterson, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Friday, Feb. 9, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

Teresa was born on June 18, 1938 to Rosa & Giuseppe Calafiore in Solarino, Sicily. Growing up, alongside all her sisters and brothers, they worked to cultivate the land. She was also very instrumental in helping to raise her nieces and nephews at a young age. She came to America in 1958 and started working as a seamstress and lived with her uncle. Two years later, she traveled back to Sicily, where she met her husband Benito and they were married on July 13, 1961. They came to America in 1962 and settled in Paterson where they raised their four children.

Teresa became a homemaker and welcomed her parents and many nieces and nephews to stay with her before they settled into their own homes. She had a passion for cooking delicious meals and celebrating many holidays year after year at her home with a minimum of thirty people at all times.

Teresa had an eye for fashion and always looking her best at all times, head to toe. She enjoyed traveling with her husband and many friends and family going on cruises and trips to Aruba, Sandy Hook beach, and countless day trips to Atlantic City.

She looked forward to the gatherings at the Solarino American Society Club in Paterson, where there was something to celebrate every month, reminiscing with all her relatives and friends.

Her beautiful smile, caring personality, always wanting things to be “just right” and her presence, brought happiness to all who knew her, always giving a hug and kiss, will be missed dearly.

Her legacy is one to be remembered and will continue to be cherished for generations to come.

She was also a parishioner of Blessed Sacrament RC Church in Paterson, and a member of Solarino American Society Club.

Devoted mother to Ida and her husband Tito Hernandez, Sal Salafia and his wife Amy, Joe Salafia and his wife Mary, and Rosanna Salafia and Joe Romano. Cherished Granmother to Jacqueline, Jessica, Gianni, Joseph, Charlotte, Bella, Selina, Sal Jr., Gino, and Joey. Beloved great-grandmother to Holland. She is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, extended relatives, and friends. Teresa was predeceased by her husband, Benito, by her parents; Rosa and Giuseppe, by her sisters; Concetta, Josephine, Paola, and Angelina, and by her brothers; Carmelo and Salvatore.

Teresa Salafia

Paterson
February 9, 2024

Emmanuel L. Ferrito, “Manny,” age 103 of Wayne, died peacefully on February 8, 2024.

Manny grew up in Paterson, where he had lived most of his life before moving to Wayne. He graduated from Rutgers University, Phi Beta Kappa, with a Bachelor’s Degree in Languages and Literature. This education came in handy when he was drafted into the U.S. Army during World War II. Manny was assigned as an interpreter to the 2675th Army Regiment, Allied Military Government, serving in Italy. He was awarded the Good Conduct Medal, the EAME Medal with two Bronze Stars, the Presidential Meritorious Unit Award, and the Victory Medal. Upon returning to civilian life, Manny considered becoming a schoolteacher, but he learned that a job with the Veterans Administration would earn him more. Thus began his career with the Federal Government that lasted for more than forty years. He had worked for the VA, the Social Security Administration in the NJ-NY Regional Service Area rising to Manager of the Hohokus office, the General Services Administration in NJ as a Contract Officer, and as a Hearing Office for Medicare in New Jersey.

Manny remained passionate about education, despite not choosing a career as a teacher. He volunteered as a tutor for the Literacy Volunteers of America and the Paterson Library Literacy program for many years. He was also active in his Catholic faith as a parishioner of St. Michael’s Church, Paterson, as President of the Parish Council, of the Holy Name Society, and of the Honor Guard (ushers). He was the Organizational Representative for the St. Michael’s Boy Scout Troop 23, as well as the co-chairman of the founding committee for the building of St. Gerard Majella RC Church in Paterson. After moving to Wayne, he became an active parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, Wayne, where he taught Christian Doctrine classes and served as a Eucharistic Minister. He was also a member of the Pastoral Care Program at the Preakness Health Care Center, Wayne. His Christian faith was foundational to his character, he lived it every day, and he cared selflessly for the well being of his fellow man. He will be missed by many who experienced his kindness and loved him.

Manny is survived by two children: Michael and his wife Suzanne, and Oresta; three grandchildren: Brian, Mark & Summer, and Tricia & her husband Jason; five great-grandchildren: Dylan, Aubrey, Sam, Andrew, and Madelaine; a brother: George and his wife Theresa, and many nieces and nephews. Manny was predeceased by his wife Florence in 2015; by his three sisters: Gaetana (Ida), Carmela (Milly), and Josephine; by his brother: Msgr. Joseph L. Ferrito; and by his parents: John and Maria.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Salesian Sisters, 659 Belmont Avenue, N. Haledon, NJ 07505 would be appreciated.

Emmanuel L. “Manny” Ferrito

Wayne
February 8, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Frank Pollaro, age 76 of Wayne, NJ.  

Frank passed away peacefully on Wednesday, February 7, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.  Frank was born and raised in Passaic, NJ and was the younger of two children to Frank and Rose Pollaro.  While growing up in Passaic, Frank attended Passaic High School where he excelled in Baseball and was a member of the Passaic High School Varsity Baseball Team.  His junior and senior years of high school were spent in Clifton High School.

Following Frank’s graduation from Clifton High School with the class of 1965, he enrolled at Wagner College in Staten Island, New York.  There, he earned his Bachelor Degree in Education graduating in 1969.  After receiving his teacher’s certification, Frank found employment quickly, accepting a position in Special Education with the Willow Brook Institute in Staten Island.  He was employed at Willow Brook Institute for approximately ten years then transferred to the Bronx Developmental Center in New York City.  After working in New York City for two years, he accepted a position in his hometown at Passaic High School.  Frank’s career in Special Education at Passaic High School spanned over a period of forty years until his retirement in 2014.  During his employment at Passaic High School, he was truly well loved and respected by his students, his colleagues, and his peers.  Also during his tenure, he was in charge of organizing retirement and holiday parties at the school.  Frank earned widespread acclaim for their exceptional success in orchestrating truly memorable and enjoyable events for his colleagues.

Concurrent to his employment as a Special Education Teacher, and at a time before online classes and degrees, Frank attended night classes at Montclair Teacher’s College, now known as Montclair University earning his Master’s Degree in Education.  

Frank was a dedicated school teacher by profession, but found solace and fulfillment during the summer months through the pursuit of installing windows and doors for a company called Essex Door-Windows. Despite the contrast from his educational role, Frank thrived in this endeavor.  His love for craftsmanship was evident in his excitement and joy during shopping excursions to Home Depot, where he eagerly perused aisles stocked with tools and materials. This seasonal employment not only provided him with supplemental income but also served as a source of personal satisfaction and growth.

In 1972, Frank was a groomsman for his friend Joe Cordella.  While at the wedding, he met an attractive young lady named Carmela Parisi.  The two hit it off great and went out to dinner and a play in New York City.  Frank and Carmela dated for about two years.  Although they both lived in New Jersey, they cherished their tradition of frequenting New York City for most of their dates, exploring its vibrant and diverse offerings.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 7, 1974 they exchanged vows and became husband and wife at St Anthony’s Church in Passaic.  The newlyweds settled in East Rutherford for about a year then moved to their hometown of Passaic, NJ.  While residing in Passaic, the couple welcomed the birth of their first child, Frank.  After living in Passaic for about eight years they moved to Clifton where their daughter Maria was born.  In 1984, the family moved to Wayne where their twins Marc and Jacki were born, and the family has been there ever since.  

He enjoyed listening to music such as Bruce Springsteen, Meatloff, and a local band based in Clifton, NJ called the Beach Combers.  He was also a devoted New York Yankees fan.  Those who knew Frank best knew that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Frank than providing for and spending time with his children.  He was a truly dedicated husband, father, and grandfather.  He and his wife Carmela cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Frank and his family will always treasure their summers at their home in Seaside Heights at the Jersey Shore, where Frank was member of the Surf Club and loved spending time on the boardwalk with his children.  Frank also treasured traveling with his family to destinations such as Italy, Puerto Rico, California, Hawaii, Texas, and Aruba.  Being that his children were extremely gifted athletes, he was able to travel extensively throughout the Eastern United States with their sports teams.  

Frank was not only devoted to his family but also to his Catholic Faith, he and his family were parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church for many years.  

Frank was always the jokester and often the life of the party.  He was able to captivate an audience of any age with his ability to tell a story or a joke.  He could light up any room he walked into with his wonderful sense of humor and infectious personality.  Frank was famous by family and friends for hosting his fun-filled New Year’s Eve parties where he always had a variety of his favorite drinks including Tequila, Patron, and Southern Comfort.

Frank will be forever remembered as a truly devoted father and husband who often denied himself material belongings so that his family could have they things they wanted.  He was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Frank is survived by his wife Carmela (nee Parisi) of Wayne, NJ, his son Frank Pollaro and his wife Jaime of Alamo, CA, his daughter Maria Pepe and her husband Frank of Kinnelon, NJ, his son Marc Pollaro and his wife Megan of Carlstadt, NJ, and his daughter Jacki Salvatore and her husband Dominic of Wayne, NJ, one sister Mary Del Grosso of Newburn, NC, and seven grandchildren: Jake, Gianna, Carly, Nathan, Austin, Celeste, and Reagan.

Frank J. Pollaro

Wayne
February 7, 2024

Please note: services are being handled by the William J. Leber Funeral Home, Chester, NJ.

Wayne Police Detective First Class Jason Clemente, 52, of Mount Olive, NJ passed away on February 7, 2024 after a courageous battle with cancer. Jason was born on October 16, 1971 in Livingston, NJ and grew up in Bloomfield, NJ. Jason graduated from Immaculate Conception High School in Montclair, NJ, received his BA from Fairleigh Dickinson University and his Masters from Seton Hall University. He has lived in Mount Olive for the past 20 years. Jason was a police officer with the West Caldwell Police Department for 8 years and transferred to the Township of Wayne where he served for the last 21 years. He ended his career at the rank of first class detective.

Jason had a love for sports, especially basketball, football, baseball, golf and tennis. He played collegiate tennis at FDU and enjoyed everything sports. Jason was heavily involved in the Mount Olive community and coached several youth sports. He also enjoyed volunteering at the Wayne animal shelter.

Jason was a foodie and thoroughly enjoyed a great meal. He never let a meal go to waste. He was an enthusiast of fine luxury vehicles and sneakers. He also loved giving referrals to anyone who asked and always answered with his catch phrase response, “ I got a guy.”

Family was everything to Jason. He took great pride in his wife and children and they were his whole world. He loved being able to raise, coach and spend time with his kids. Jason came from a close knit family who loved spending time together, and he had a tight bond with his brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews. He was an amazing friend to all and treated all of his friends like family.

Jason is survived by his devoted wife of 25 years, Darlene Cavilhas Clemente, his daughter, Madison Clemente, his son, Jake Clemente, his father, Jose Clemente, his brothers, Jeffrey Clemente, Joseph Clemente, Seth Jameson, and Gregory Heyt, his sisters, Jennifer Jameson, Christine Heyt, Cecilia Clemente, and Rowie Clemente, his nieces and nephews, Kaitlyn and Andrew Heyt, Noah and Katerina Clemente and Logan Jameson, and his beloved family pet, Harper. He was predeceased by his mother, Betty Clemente.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial donations be made to his son, Jake Clemente’s donor drive. In memory of his father, Jake is fundraising for Penn State THON which is a philanthropic event to raise money to fight childhood cancer.

 

Click here to donate: https://donate.thon.org/participant/Jake-Clemente

Wayne Police Detective Jason Clemente

Mt. Olive
February 7, 2024

Marilyn R. Kievit, age 90 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, February 7, 2024. She has resided at Siena Village in Wayne for the past twenty-six years.

Marilyn grew up in Paterson and shortly after graduating from high school she began working at the William Paterson State Teachers College. A dedicated employee, Marilyn worked her way up through the ranks to the position of Bursar.  After a career lasting more than forty years, she retired from William Paterson University in the late 1990’s.

Marilyn was physically fit participating in exercise classes weekly and walking daily to keep herself in shape. She enjoyed traveling, visiting such places as Portugal, Spain, and many other parts of Europe.  After retirement she enjoyed a month-long trip to New Zealand.  While not traveling the world, Marylin enjoyed taking day trips to Pennsylvania and NY State.

Marilyn was a devoted parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne. She attended mass regularly and was a communion minister to those who were homebound or otherwise unable to attend mass at the church.  Other activities included Bocci ball, Shuffleboard and calling out the Bingo numbers on Thursday nights! She was truly a selfless woman, a good friend to many, and a caring and compassionate soul. She will be dearly missed by all who loved her.

Marilyn is survived by her brother, Robert Kievit of Wayne, and his significant-other Elaine Farrazzano; two nieces: Kendra Cantelmo and her husband Richard of New York State, Robyn Leibfred, and her significant-other Todd DiGuglielmo of Parsippany, two nephews: Paul Kievit and his wife Darlene of Morris Plains, and Richard Kievit of Florida. Marilyn was predeceased by her brother, William Kievit, in 1984.

Friends wishing to make a donation in Marilyn’s memory are asked to consider her beloved parish; Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, 630 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ 07470.

Marilyn R. Kievit

Wayne
February 7, 2024

It is with heavy hearts that we say goodbye to a truly remarkable man, Robert “Mike” Cusick, who passed away at the age of 59. Mike’s journey through life was marked by his generosity, skilled hands, love for fishing, and deep connections with family and friends.

Born in Bayonne, NJ, to Bob and Gail Cusick, Mike’s family moved to Wayne, NJ, when he was just a baby. Wayne became not just a place on the map but the backdrop to 55 years of his vibrant and meaningful life. He attended Wayne Hills High School, where he laid the foundation for lifelong friendships and a strong sense of community. After his time at WHHS, Mike joined his father at Schindler Elevator, where he dedicated 40 years of hard work and commitment to the trade. Many of Mike’s childhood friends joined him in this endeavor, forging bonds that extended far beyond the job site. 

Mike was the kind of person who would give you the shirt off his back, a trait that reflected his generosity and compassion. His hands were not just skilled but magical, capable of turning ordinary moments into extraordinary ones. Whether it was fixing a leaky faucet or lending a helping hand to a friend in need, Mike’s hands were an extension of his heart that was always ready to assist others.

A passionate fisherman, Mike found solace and joy by the water, where the rhythmic cast of his line mirrored the steady beat of his kind heart. His love for fishing was a shared passion that created lasting memories with those closest to him. 

Above all, Mike adored his two daughters, Allie and Nikki, with a love that knew no bounds. He had them wrapped around his fingers just as surely as they had him wrapped around theirs. The bond they shared was filled with laughter, shared projects in the garage, trips to Lake Champlain, summer weekends in LBI, and countless hours spent swimming in the family pool. Mike’s love for his girls was evident in every moment they spent together.

In 1990, Mike met the love of his life when he was on his way to a friend’s wedding. He stopped in a salon to get a haircut, where he struck up a conversation with the hairstylist, Karen. In a bold move, he asked her to attend the wedding with him that day. With a laugh and a kind refusal, Karen declined, and Mike went on his way. Fate, however, had other plans. They crossed paths a few weeks later at the Lakeside, where Mike managed to slip Karen his number. This chance encounter marked the beginning of a beautiful relationship that would span 34 years and bless them with two wonderful daughters.

Family was an integral part of Mike’s life. He was predeceased by his beloved mother, Gail Cusick, for whom the sun rose and set. 

Mike is survived by his devoted wife, Karen “Peanut” Cusick, who stood by his side through thick and thin. His legacy continues through his daughters and their families: Allie Safir and her husband Rob Safir of Flanders, NJ, and Nikki Cusick and her fiance Matt Minnehan of Newton, MA. A source of profound happiness and pride for Mike was his beloved grandson, Bobby Safir. Their short time together brought insurmountable joy in the last year of Mike’s life.

He is also survived by his father, Bob Cusick of Brant Beach, NJ, who imparted wisdom and guidance throughout his life and served as his best friend and fishing buddy. Mike’s siblings and their families mourn his passing: Missy and Tom Mathisen, and Karen and Mark Raiser of Wayne, NJ, each sharing a unique connection with him that time cannot erase. Mike was a cherished uncle to Kaitlin Raiser, Robbie Raiser, and Brooke Moran, who will fondly remember the special moments they shared with their uncle.

May he rest in eternal peace, surrounded by the love that he so freely gave to others.

Those wishing to make donations in lieu of flowers are asked to consider St Jude Children's Research Hospital

Robert “Mike” Cusick

West Milford
February 6, 2024

Michael A. DiRuggiero, age 93, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday morning, February 4, 2024. He had lived in Wayne for over fifty years.

Mike was the youngest of Michael and Lucy (Mastrodomenico) DiRuggiero’s five children. He was born at home on the kitchen table at 1104 East 23rd Street in Paterson, in 1930. He loved to tell people that he had his tonsils removed on that same table five years later.

Michael grew up in Paterson and attended Eastside High School where he graduated with the Class of 1948. With no clear idea what to do next, one of his teachers encouraged him to take an entrance exam for Newark College of Engineering because he was good in math. He scored well on the exam, earning a place at NCE (now NJIT), earning both a bachelor’s degree and a master’s degree in electrical engineering in 1951 and 1961 respectively. 

After getting his bachelor’s degree, Mike worked for various corporations, including the Atomic Energy Commission’s Savannah River Project, before he was drafted during the Korean War. He proudly served his country in the U.S. Army teaching special electronic devices operation and repair from 1953 to 1955. Upon an honorable discharge, he took a job with Bendix Corporation in their Flight Control and Test Systems Divisions. Mike’s career as an electrical engineer and senior project manager with Bendix spanned thirty-eight years before he chose to retire in 1994.  During those years he worked on many fascinating projects including the first transistorized autopilot system used in the first supersonic bomber and many commercial airplanes. He was particularly proud of his work as project engineer for the three-country (USA, England, France) design and development of flight control systems for the Concorde supersonic transport. 

Mike was an enthusiastic dancer and it was at a CYO dance where he met his future wife, Gloria Kenez. He encouraged her to join the PasClif Ski Club, and they began going on ski trips together and forming strong friendships with other members of the club.

Gloria and Mike got married on May 10, 1969 at St. Cecilia Church in Englewood, NJ. They initially moved into an apartment in Hackensack where they welcomed their firstborn Catherine. Soon after they purchased their own home at 14 Sherwood Street in Wayne where little Cathy was joined by her brother Michael. Mike and Gloria raised their family there and remained in that home for almost fifty years before Gloria sadly passed away in 2018. Mike remained in the home for four more years before moving to BrightView Senior Living community in 2022.   

Mike and Gloria loved to take summer family vacations, each year to a different destination. Some of the family’s fondest memories are of packing into the blue Chevy station wagon and heading off on long road trips. 

Around the house, Mike enjoyed tinkering on fix-it projects including working on his cars. He loved watching his Yankee games and he fancied himself a pretty good stock market analyst and personal investor. His love of dancing never grew old – the family’s home was filled with the sounds of classic old jazz or big band music playing in the background. Living all those decades so close to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne, he and Gloria were faithful parishioners who found great solace and joy in their Roman Catholic faith. 

Mike was a truly down to earth, kind and gentle man. He was a great listener, with people often expressing how much they enjoyed talking to him. 

He cherished the blessings of family and his close, life-long friends who, to Mike, were like literal brothers and sisters.

Mike was the beloved husband of the late Gloria (Kenez) DiRuggiero, blessed in marriage for 48 years until her passing in 2018. He was the loving father of Catherine “Cathy” Kirk and husband Damon of Ramsey, and Michael E. DiRuggiero and wife Tara Bandman of Dobbs Ferry, NY: Adoring grandfather of: April Kirk and fiancé Alec Graf, Paige Kirk, Myles DiRuggiero, and Oliver DiRuggiero; great-grandfather of Carson Graf; and dear uncle of numerous nieces and nephews. Mike was also predeceased by his two older brothers and two older sisters: Anthony “Tony” DiRuggiero, Ann Appaluccio, Madeline Ward, and Dominic DiRuggiero.   

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Michael’s memory are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Michael DiRuggiero

Michael A. DiRuggiero

Wayne
February 4, 2024

Raymond Vladyka, aged 81, of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, February 4, 2024.

Ray grew up in Elmwood Park, NJ and was part of the first graduating class in the newly built East Paterson High School. Ray was never much of a dancer but one fateful night his friends convinced him to attend the CYO dance which turned out to be one of the best decisions he ever made. He met the love of his life, Phyllis Salerno, at that dance and the two immediately hit it off. The couple started dating and never stopped. After graduation, Ray continued his education at Montclair College where he went on to graduate with a BA in Industrial Arts. Once Ray finished college, he and Phyllis decided they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. They married after 6 years of dating on August 21, 1965. Ray and Phyllis bought their first home in Fairlawn, where they were blessed with two sons: David and Brian. Not long after, in 1973, they moved to Wayne and their family grew by one more with the birth of their daughter Susan. 

Ray was a middle school woodshop teacher in Hackensack for 37 ½ years. A lifelong learner, Ray continued his education while teaching by earning a masters plus extra credits in Industrial Arts. Besides playing high school varsity soccer, he played semi-pro for a short time for the Dover Club in Paterson, NJ. Ray then merged his passion for the sport with his passion for educating by becoming a soccer coach at Hackensack High School. He loved coaching and didn’t miss the opportunity to coach both of his sons’ soccer and baseball teams at the Wayne PAL.

Ray had a love for travel and went around the country and the world with his wife and family. Ray and Phyllis’ early travels were in a pop-up camper with their children to many places including Disney World. Their later travels included Alaska, Hawaii, Italy, Germany, England, the Canadian Rockies, Nova Scotia, and Iceland. They went on many cruises including the Panama Canal. They also did river cruises in Russia and on the Danube River.  Ray and Phyllis made annual trips to visit his sister, Kathleen and her husband Lou, in Florida to catch up and play golf. 

Ray’s career of industrial arts was also a passion of his and he would often create handmade items to gift to friends or family. A true craftsman and handyman, Ray was always there to help with any project or renovation his family or friends had. He passed on his love of fine craftsmanship ensuring that his family always looked for good quality wood and dovetails in all their furniture purchases. 

Ray loved fishing, golfing, and cars. He enjoyed taking care of his own cars, but was also an avid fan of the professional drivers of NASCAR. He watched NASCAR on tv and went on trips to watch the sport live at Dover Downs in Delaware.  Ray even got to experience the speed and thrill of driving a race car himself as a retirement gift from his family. 

Ray was the type of man that any person felt comfortable coming to for help. Whether you were family, a friend, or a neighbor, he was always willing to lend a helping hand. While he could be stubborn at times, he had a huge soft spot for his grandkids who he loved so much. Ray was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend who will be greatly missed by all those who were fortunate to know him. 

Ray is survived by his loving wife, Phyllis, his three children: David and his wife Lisa (Seattle, WA), Brian and his wife Jennifer (Phoenix, AZ), and Susan and her husband Tom (Wayne, NJ). Ray was also the loving grandfather of Hope, Justine, Hailey, and Kayla as well as a loving brother to his sister Kathleen and her husband Lou (Florida).

In lieu of flowers, please consider making memorial contributions in Raymond’s name to the Wayne PAL or the Wayne Interfaith Network food pantry 

Raymond Vladyka

Wayne
February 4, 2024

Andrew “Andy” Meyers, age 73, of Wayne, passed Saturday, February 3, 2024. 

Andy's professional journey was marked by a diverse range of roles, showcasing his versatility and dedication. Starting out as an elevator installer for Otis Elevator in the bustling city of New York, he honed his skills in a demanding environment, ensuring the smooth and safe functioning of vertical transport systems. Later, he transitioned into a role as the Superintendent for Partridge Run Apartments in Parsippany, where his managerial acumen and hands-on approach contributed to the efficient operation of the residential complex., Andy continued to serve his community by taking on the role of a custodian for the Montville Public Schools before retiring in 2013. Even in this seemingly humble position, Andy brought his strong work ethic and commitment to ensuring a clean and safe environment for students and staff. His multifaceted career is a testament to his adaptability and unwavering dedication to his various roles throughout the years.

Andy was a man of diverse passions, finding solace and joy in the simplicity of life's pleasures. His green thumb was evident in his love for gardening, where he cultivated vibrant blooms and nurtured lush greenery that transformed his outdoor space into a haven of tranquility. Additionally, Andy found solace by the water's edge, casting his line into the depths in pursuit of the perfect catch, making fishing a cherished pastime. In December of 2023, Andy achieved a significant milestone in his personal journey by earning his black belt in karate, a testament to his discipline and dedication to the martial arts. His commitment to both the serene and the active aspects of life showcased the depth of his character and the richness of his experiences.

Andy was a beacon of warmth and selflessness, making a lasting impact on those lucky enough to know him. Known for his infectious sense of fun, Andy brought joy into every room he entered. His genuine kindness manifested in his consistent prioritization of others' needs over his own, creating a network of grateful friends and family who benefited from his unwavering support. Whether it was offering a helping hand or a listening ear, Andy was always there when someone needed him. His love for life extended to his favorite pastimes, particularly enjoying cruises that allowed him to explore the world's waters and revel in new adventures. Equally enchanted by the serene beauty of the Pocono Mountains in Pennsylvania, Andy found solace in the tranquility of nature, and making cherished memories. 

Barbara and Andy's love story began amidst the humming machinery of Owen Illinois Plastics in Wayne, where fate intervened in the most playful manner. Barbara, skillfully managing a molding machine, found herself on the receiving end of Andy's lighthearted advances – he would playfully toss plastic pellets her way, injecting a sense of humor into their workdays. Their first date marked the beginning of a beautiful journey; a trip to the movies where laughter and shared interests paved the way for a deep connection. On April 28, 1973, they sealed their love in a heartfelt ceremony at the Westside Methodist Church in Paterson, surrounded by family and friends. Opting for a romantic start to their marital adventure, the couple honeymooned at the enchanting Mount Airey Lodge in the picturesque Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania, creating timeless memories in the embrace of nature's beauty. Their union, rooted in love and laughter, served as the foundation for a lifetime of shared joys and cherished moments.

Andy is survived by his wife fifty years Barbara (Zuberer) Meyers; he was the devoted father of Andrew Meyers Wauchula, FL, and Keith Meyers of Hackettstown; he was the cherished grandfather of Zoey Meyers; and loved brother of Linda Blackwell and her husband Lee of Little Egg Harbor, and Judy Puchalski and her husband Jack of Pine Island, NY.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Andrew “Andy” Meyers

Whitehouse Station
February 3, 2024

Laurie Ann Hoffman, 62, passed away on Saturday, February 3, 2024.

Laurie was born in Passaic, NJ as the second child to Frank and Florence Hoffman. She grew up in Passaic and Elmwood Park and later lived in Ramsey. She graduated from Elmwood Park High School. In her free time Laurie loved reading science fiction, learning about history, and watching Doctor Who.

Laurie served over 40 years for the Bergen County Office of Education. She was a hard worker who was honored by the county administration for her dedication to the educators and aspiring educators in Bergen County. Laurie’s knowledge of the teacher certification process was appreciated by all and her expertise will be sorely missed.

Laurie is survived by her brother, Anthony; two nieces, Lisa Hoffman of Little Ferry and Jessica Hoffman of Lincoln Park; one nephew, Michael Hoffman of Wayne; her uncle, Joseph Szewczyk of Clifton; and several loving cousins. She was predeceased by her father, Frank Hoffman, and her mother, Florence Hoffman.

Laurie’s legacy will live on thanks to the donation of her organs and corneas.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Laurie’s name to the Center for Food Action of NJ.

Laurie Ann Hoffman

Ramsey
February 3, 2024

Helen Yselonia, born May 4, 1948, passed peacefully in her home on February 3, 2024. She is fondly remembered for her radiant spirit, resilience, and the love she had for her family and friends. Helen was the epitome of strength, respect, and sincerity. She confidently spread positivity and warmth wherever she went, leaving a legacy of laughter, loyalty, and strength that will continue to inspire all who knew her.

Helen was born in Newark, NJ and lived in Lyndhurst until the age of 3 when she and her parents moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey. She later married and raised two children in the beautiful lake community where she was an avid member for most of her life. Helen’s true passion was tennis and she played it well. She was on various teams and received many trophies for her talents.

She graduated from Montclair State University with her master’s degree and immediately began teaching English. Aside from being a teacher, Helen also was a piano instructor. While waiting for her pupils to come, she would tickle the ivories producing the most angelic sounds. One of her daughter’s favorite memories is of hearing her play so effortlessly.

Helen loved to travel and see the world. She and her husband, John, traveled to many destinations including California, Hawaii, Italy, Germany, Canada, and Mexico to name some. Her favorite place to return to was Hilton Head Island, SC where she would play tennis to her heart’s content. While in college she spent her summers down the Jersey shore surfing and being in the sun and her love of the beach never faded.

Anyone who knew Helen was aware of her passion for sports, mainly baseball, football, and basketball. A staunch supporter of the NY Yankees and Jets, Helen spent her Sundays in the fall watching football and most of her nights in the spring watching baseball. She won football survivor pools and could keep up a conversation with any sports enthusiast, equipped with knowledge of stats, players, and positions. One of her favorite comforts was sharing this passion with her son. They would spend every Yankee game calling each other back and forth throughout the game to discuss the players and every play made.

Helen had a major zest for excitement. Roller coasters and fast cars were never too much for her, eventually leading her to drive a race car at Lime Rock Park in Connecticut during the 1990s. She was the only woman there - and won! She had also always wanted to sky dive but sadly never did.

Helen was an enormous animal lover, growing up with pets and continuing to have them even after she became a mother. There was always a pet in the house, sometimes three. She was deeply involved in various causes, including the ASPCA but most notably St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital. Her legacy will be a testament to her strength, her unwavering love for her family and friends, and her steadfast belief in standing up for what's right. She was a real friend, a phenomenal mom, an even better Nana and undoubtedly, the most amazingly strong person ever to grace the earth with her presence. She was a true hero to her daughter making her the best role model she could have had. She taught her and others about handling tough situations with grace and confidence while maintaining a stubbornness that people adored her for. Her grandchildren, though, were the absolute light of her life and she cherished every moment she got to spend with them. Now they will cherish every moment spent with her.

Helen is survived by her devoted husband, John Yselonia of Wayne; her loving daughter, Cara Zaranski and husband Peter, both of Wayne; her step-daughter, Jacqueline Yselonia of Forked River; her brother Peter Bellman and his wife Judy from Wayne; her three nephews, Peter Bellman of Pompton Plains; Glenn Bellman of Marlborough, Connecticut; Chris Bellman of Waretown, NJ; and three grandchildren, Dylan Fusco of Madison; and Ava and Declan Zaranski of Wayne. She was predeceased by her precious son, Michael Fusco, as well as her parents, Peter and Helen Bellman.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Hospital.

Helen Yselonia

Wayne
February 3, 2024

Lillian Fryman, age 83, of Denville, passed away peacefully on Friday, February 2, 2024.

The daughter of the late Joseph and Lillian (Ventura) Brosseau, stepdaughter to Pasquale Sanseverino, Lillian was born in Brooklyn, NY and raised in Paterson, NJ. 

After graduating from Paterson’s Eastside High School with the Class of 1958, Lillian married Joseph Natoli. They were blessed with three children, Michael, Donna, and Paul who they began to raise in Butler, NJ. After Divorce, Lillian married Otto Kahn and she ventured into a long-standing career as a real estate agent. Otto and Lillian started their own Real Estate agency, Twin Oaks Realty in Oak Ridge, NJ., where Lillian enjoyed the challenge and gratification of helping each of her many clients find their perfect dream home. 

After the unfortunate passing of Otto, many years later, Lillian met a gentlemen named T. Kenneth Fryman through a friend. They married and soon after moved to Lynchburg, Virginia where they shared vision, pursuits, and the rewards of dedicated work in their own business which they called Hill City News Agency. In due time, the days of full-time retirement arrived, rewarding Lillian and Ken with lots of opportunity for traveling adventures which included the gamut of fun times on cruises, trips throughout Europe, to beautiful islands and, as Lillian would say, they annually “snow-birded” to their winter home in Juno Beach, Florida while maintaining residence the rest of the year in Mount Arlington. 

One of Lillian’s favorite places in the whole-wide-world was right at home in her very own kitchen. She made the most delicious Italian dishes, some from recipes passed down from previous family generations, as well as some unique creations of her own. She took great pride in her home and had lots of fun designing and decorating it to be a warm and welcoming place for friends and family to gather. Like so many of us, Lillian enjoyed the simple enjoyment of a glass of wine. Fancying herself more of a consumer than a connoisseur, she enjoyed that time of day which she playfully described as “wine-thirty.” 

Sadly, Ken passed away in 2013. In 2020, Lillian moved into the Oaks at Denville Retirement Community in Denville where she completed this life’s journey.

Above all else, Lillian was devoted to and loved time spent with her family. She adored her grandchildren from the “cellar to the sky.” Lillian will be missed for her gregariousness, strength and graceful presence.  

Lillian was the beloved wife of the late T. Kenneth Fryman; loving mother of Michael Natoli, and wife Brenda of Evansville, Indiana, Donna Natoli of Montville, and Paul Natoli and wife Dawn of Mountain Lakes; adoring grandmother of: Nicole, John, Daniel, Joseph, Angela, James, Michael Jr., and Lily; cherished great-grandmother of Olivia and Ashton; dearest sister of Barbara DeLorenzis of Wayne, and Margaret “Peg” Rhodes of Prescott, AZ; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Lillian’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn:  Development Department

425 Eagle Rock Ave., Suite 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

973-586-4300

Make check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Lillian Fryman

Lillian Fryman

Denville
February 2, 2024

Jean C. Burns, born April 12, 1925, in Brooklyn NY, her family moved to Newark NJ and then she eventually migrated to the suburbs of Pompton Lakes, and then Wayne NJ.

She was a supervisor for Drake bakery in Wayne NJ, for over 50 years until she retired in 1995, she also volunteered for the Wayne First Aid Squad for a few years while still working at Drakes. Once she retired from Drake bakery at (70) years old she then moved to Venice Florida she then took a year off but then decided she wanted to go back to work she then worked another 10 years at the Publix food store in Venice FL, (in the bakery of course).  she finally got the chance to enjoy the sunshine and the beach after that retirement.

She lived in Venice, FL for over 25 years and then moved back to Wayne, NJ to live with her son where she passed away on February 1, 2024.

She is survived by her sister Jerilyn Harris from Pompton lakes, NJ and her children, Richard Falcone from Myrtle Beach, Larry Falcone of Wayne New Jersey, Cecilia Alsberg of point Pleasant Beach New Jersey, Jacqueline Valorani of Wayne New Jersey and Joanne Macalino of Wayne New Jersey. Naomi Rizzi her second born child is deceased. Also survived by (8) grandchildren, Richard Jr. Falcone, Anthony Falcone, Jessica Rizzi, Nick Rizzi, Justin Gari (deceased), Ashley Doyle, Eddie Walton, and Matthew Walton.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad.

Jean C. Burns

Wayne
February 1, 2024

Luis Enrique Ortega, age 80 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 31, 2024.

Luis was born in January of 1944 in Nicaragua to his parents Enrique and Bertha Ortega. Luis’ story is one of humble roots. He was the oldest of 11 children, so he had to work hard to help his family. He quickly developed an incredible work ethic that shaped the rest of his life. While in Nicaragua, Luis worked as a phlebotomist in a lab to help support his family. He was incredibly smart, and he eventually started a family of his own following the birth of his first three children: Jorge, Carla, and Maria. With his family growing, Luis made the difficult decision to come to the United States and try to achieve the American Dream.

Luis used his intelligence and his incredible work ethic the moment he stepped foot in America. He took on two jobs and started attending night school studying business at the same time. Luis was well motivated and knew he had to support his family back in Nicaragua. He regularly sent money back to support them in all their endeavors. 

Shortly after arriving in the United States, Luis decided to attend a house party hosted by a friend in Jersey City that would change his life forever. Normally more preoccupied by his copious amounts of work and school, Luis decided to step out of his comfort zone and attend the party that led him to meeting a beautiful girl named Elida Rivera. Elida and Luis fell in love, and the couple decided that they were going to get married in 1973. 

The two found a home that they wanted to purchase, but Luis saw another route that could change their lives for the better. He explained to Elida that a business opportunity that would allow Luis to become his own boss in the form of an autobody shop was too good to pass up. He promised her that a year from then he would buy Elida a better house if she could trust him to make this decision for them – mind you Luis had no prior experience in the autobody business. Nonetheless, Elida had faith in Luis’ determination and entrepreneurial spirit and so he went headfirst into his new venture. True to his promise, Luis found a home a year later that was even better than the first. Using the newfound success from his autobody shop he purchased the home for them.

The couple started raising a family of their own: Jannette, Luis, and Leonardo were their three beautiful children who Luis mentored and raised with his wife Elida. However, he was always mindful of his three children that were in Nicaragua as he started to bring them to the United States one-by-one starting in 1978 until all three were here. Luis wanted to give his family every opportunity in life, so he worked hard for them to eventually move to Wayne in 1989. While still owning the autobody, Luis saw another business opportunity in the form of a pharmacy. He took another great chance and seized the opportunity to purchase and run the pharmacy. He maintained both for a period, but as the pharmacy took off under his leadership, Luis sold the autobody and maintained just the pharmacy full time for the next 25 years.

Beyond his work, Luis was also a world traveler. The list of countries he didn’t go to would be smaller than his list visited: Latin America, most of Europe, Australia, New Zealand, China, and Japan – if you threw a dart at the globe and didn’t hit water it was probably a place he visited. In addition to traveling, Luis was also the baseball coach for his kids’ little leagues even sponsoring their uniforms through his business.

Luis will be remembered as a very generous man both financially but also with his time. He never hesitated to help someone in need whether it was his family or another. He donated financially to organizations and missionaries around the world never forgetting his humble beginnings. Luis was the kind of man who would lend you his time to provide advice based on his experiences and perspective and that advice was invaluable time and time again. He will be remembered as an incredible family man – a great son, a great husband, a great father, and a great friend. In the end, he was simply a great world citizen.  

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Luis Enrique Ortega, de 80 años, de Wayne, falleció pacíficamente el miércoles 31 de enero de 2024.

Luis nació en enero de 1944 en Nicaragua, hijo de Enrique Ortega y Bertha Hegg de Ortega. La historia de Luis es una historia de raíces humildes. Era el mayor de 11 hermanos, por lo que tuvo que trabajar duro para ayudar a su familia. Rápidamente desarrolló una increíble ética de trabajo que dio forma al resto de su vida. Mientras estaba en Nicaragua, Luis trabajó como flebotomista en un laboratorio para ayudar a mantener a su familia. Era increíblemente inteligente y, finalmente, formó su propia familia tras el nacimiento de sus tres primeros hijos: Jorge, Carla y María. Con su familia creciendo, Luis tomó la difícil decisión de venir a los Estados Unidos y tratar de alcanzar el sueño americano. 

Luis usó su inteligencia y su increíble ética de trabajo en el momento en que puso un pie en Estados Unidos. Aceptó dos trabajos y comenzó a asistir a la escuela nocturna estudiando negocios al mismo tiempo. Luis estaba muy motivado y sabía que tenía que mantener a su familia en Nicaragua. Regularmente enviaba dinero para apoyarlos en todos sus esfuerzos.

Poco después de llegar a los Estados Unidos, Luis decidió asistir a una fiesta en una casa organizada por un amigo en Jersey City que cambiaría su vida para siempre. Normalmente más preocupado por su gran cantidad de trabajo y la escuela, Luis decidió salir de su zona de confort y asistir a la fiesta que lo llevó a conocer a una hermosa chica llamada Elida Rivera. Elida y Luis se enamoraron y la pareja decidió que se iban a casar en 1973.

Los dos encontraron una casa que querían comprar, pero Luis vio otra ruta que podría cambiar sus vidas para mejor. Le habló a Elida de una oportunidad de negocio que le permitiría a Luis convertirse en su propio jefe en forma de taller de carrocería, era demasiado buena para dejarla pasar. Le prometió que dentro de un año le compraría a Elida una casa mejor si ella podía confiar en él para tomar esta decisión por ellos, eso sí, Luis no tenía experiencia previa en el negocio de la carrocería. Sin embargo, Elida tenía fe en la determinación y el espíritu emprendedor de Luis, por lo que se lanzó de cabeza a su nueva empresa. Fiel a su promesa, Luis encontró un año después una casa que era incluso mejor que la primera. Usando el nuevo éxito de su taller de carrocería, compró la casa para ellos.

La pareja comenzó a formar su propia familia: Jannette, Luis y Leonardo fueron sus tres hermosos hijos a quienes Luis guió y crio con su esposa Elida. Sin embargo, siempre estuvo atento a sus tres hijos que estaban en Nicaragua, ya que comenzó a traerlos a los Estados Unidos, uno por uno a partir de 1978 hasta que los tres estuvieron aquí. Luis quería darle a su familia todas las oportunidades en la vida, por lo que trabajó duro para que finalmente se mudaran a Wayne en 1989. Mientras aún era propietario del taller de carrocería, Luis vio otra oportunidad para incursionar en el negocio de una farmacia. Aprovechó otra gran oportunidad para comprar y administrar la farmacia. Mantuvo ambos negocios durante un tiempo, pero a medida que la farmacia despegó bajo su liderazgo, Luis vendió el taller y mantuvo solo la farmacia a tiempo completo durante los siguientes 25 años.

Más allá de su trabajo, Luis también fue un viajero por el mundo. La lista de países a los que no fue sería más pequeña que la lista que los que si visitó: América Latina, la mayor parte de Europa, Australia, Nueva Zelanda, China y Japón, si lanzabas un dardo al globo terráqueo y no golpeabas el agua, probablemente era un lugar que visitó. Además de viajar, Luis también era el entrenador de béisbol de las ligas menores de sus hijos, incluso patrocinaba sus uniformes a través de su negocio.

Luis será recordado como un hombre muy generoso, apoyando tanto con recursos económicos como con su tiempo. Nunca dudó en ayudar a alguien que lo necesitara, ya fuera su familia o no. Donó financieramente a organizaciones y misioneros de todo el mundo, sin olvidar nunca sus humildes comienzos. Luis era el hombre que te prestaba su tiempo para darte consejos según sus experiencias y perspectivas, y ese consejo era invaluable. Será recordado como un increíble hombre de familia: un gran hijo, un gran esposo, un gran padre, un gran abuelo y un gran amigo. Al final, era simplemente un gran ciudadano del mundo.

Luis Enrique Ortega

Wayne
January 31, 2024

John "Jack" Forsatz, age 83 of Wayne, Passed away peacefully on Monday, January 29, 2024.

Jack was born in Paterson to John and Everelda Forsatz on February 19, 1940. He was raised in Clifton, New Jersey with his two brothers, Mark and Rick, and his sister Karen. Jack attended Don Bosco Tech for three years before completing his high school education at Clifton High School. He started working in electronics directly out of high school, but he quickly decided to follow in his brother’s footsteps and join the Army in 1962. Jack served for a little more than two years before he returned home to Clifton. Not too long after returning home, Jack met the love of his life, Eileen, at Bowlero Bowling Alley, in Clifton. The couple dated for a year and were married on November 7, 1964, at St. Valentine's Church in Bloomfield with their family and friends by their sides. 

Jack was an extremely hard worker who worked alongside his father for many years in their family towing business - Johnny's Service Garage in Clifton. After Jack’s father sold the towing company, Jack returned to his former work in electronics while he began a side gig cleaning service. He started that side gig with just the basics, but his entrepreneurial spirit saw it evolve. He realized that the electronics job wasn’t for him, and he took a risk starting his own business called Superior Office Maintenance. Jack leveraged his established connections from his cleaning service and launched his company on a path that led to 31 successful years before his eventual retirement. 

Jack and Eileen lived briefly in Lyndhurst and then Bloomfield before finally settling and building a home in Wayne. The couple raised their three children: Christine, Laura, and John in their new home in Wayne. In 1992, they decided to build a summer home on Long Beach Island which proved to be one of the greatest decisions they could’ve made. Their family enjoyed many incredible summers spent taking in everything the shore had to offer. Jack wasn't just an amazing father to his children; he was also a genuine friend to them. In fact, Jack could make friends just about anywhere. There was something about him which pulled people to him and made them feel very comfortable. Jack always brought the party with him; he was a charismatic, funny, blunt, and witty man who could make just about anyone smile. 

Jack loved his free time spent tending to his huge 90-gallon saltwater fish tank whether it was cleaning, fixing, or just enjoying watching his fish. It wasn’t uncommon to find Jack fixing other aspects of the house as well. He loved to keep busy with little projects around his house and his children’s houses like painting walls or other handy work that he could help with. Jack will also be remembered as a huge New York Giants fan. He was a faithful season ticket holder since 1972! He was notably featured in the newspaper shot of Giants stadium on opening day in 1976 where he proudly supported his team with friends and family. 

Jack treasured his family more than anything and he loved to dote on his grandchildren and grand dogs. Jack had such a huge heart and will be greatly missed by all those he was able to befriend and love. 

Jack is survived by his loving wife Eileen Forsatz; his siblings: Karen Conte and Rick Forsatz; his children: Christine Costello and her husband Greg, Laura Mitchell and her husband Todd, and John Forsatz and his wife Cheryll; and his six grandchildren: Ryan, Blake, Luke, Matthew, John, and Elizabeth. Jack is predeceased by his brother Mark Forsatz. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jack’s memory would be appreciated to the American Cancer Society.

For those who are unable to attend the funeral Mass at Our Lady of the Valley Church on Wednesday, February 7, 2024, the event will be livestreamed at the following link: https://venue.streamspot.com/event/NDQ2MTI4MQ==

John “Jack” Forsatz

Wayne
January 29, 2024

Samuel G Jarkesy, 93, passed away on January 29, 2024.  His wife of twenty years, Marie (Tiernan) and his daughter, Susan Leah, passed away in 1981. Sam and Marie met while both were teachers at Passaic High School, and they were married in 1961. Sam and Marie were devoted to each other and to their children. 

His father, also Samuel, passed away four months before Sam was born. Sam was born on December 26, 1930, and raised in Paterson by his mother, Leah (Asfor), with the help of his grandmother, Eva, her husband, Albert, many loving aunts and uncles, and beloved step-father Chris Affsa. Sam lived in Paterson, Totowa Boro, Miami, and Passaic. Sam’s family moved to Wayne in 1968. 

Sam graduated from Central High School in Paterson in 1948, Paterson State Teachers College (BS) in 1952, and Montclair State Teachers College (MA) in 1956.

He was in the US Army during the Korean War, working as an auditor in the Army Audit Agency.  His professional career was spent in Passaic, NJ, where he served at Passaic High School as a teacher, department head, vice principal, and principal.  The last nine years of his career were spent as the school business administrator and secretary to the Passaic Board of Education.  He retired in 1990.

Sam was a parishioner and usher at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne.  He served on the Congressional Service Academy Review Board for over 25 years.  He also served on the Board of Directors of the Passaic Boys and Girls Club and the Board of Directors of the Sisco Village Senior Citizens Center in Wayne. 

He is survived by three daughters and sons-in-law along with thirteen grandchildren - daughter Ann Brooks (Roger) of Durham, NC, and grandchildren, Marie Colarusso (Chris), Phil, (Paula), great grandchildren, Maria and Elizabeth,  Henry (Charis), Annie, and Roger Brooks, Jr.; daughter Maureen Machado (Anthony) of Wayne, and grandchildren, Maggie, Susan, Rebecca, and Elena Machado; and daughter, Linda Harris (Stephen) of Brooklyn,  NY, and grandchildren Gavin, Elizabeth, Lucy, and Jane Harris.  Sam is also survived in a loving relationship by his beloved companion, Anne Donohue, who was at his side since 1987.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Susan Jarkesy Scholarship Fund would be appreciated. In 1981, Sam tragically lost his wife and their daughter Susan, who was just seventeen years old, in a car accident. This scholarship has been established in Susan’s memory to assist high school students toward achieving their dreams, and your donations would be greatly appreciated. Donations should be made payable to “Susan Jarkesy Scholarship Fund” and mailed using the following address:

 

Susan Jarkesy Scholarship Fund

c/o Kenneth Palczewski

Wayne Valley High School

551 Valley Road

Wayne NJ 07470 

Samuel G. Jarkesy

Wayne
January 29, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Sarah Fasani (nee Pizza), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Sarah passed away peacefully on Friday, January 26, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born and raised in Hackensack, NJ and was one of three children and the only daughter to Charles and Margaret Pizza.

As a young girl growing up in Hackensack, Sarah attended Hackensack High School where she excelled in academics.  She graduated from Hackensack High School with the class of 1949 and immediately enrolled in a local business school.  Sarah earned her Associates degree through the business school and found employment quickly working, and meeting Betty Huber who eventually became her sister in law, marrying her older brother Frank Pizza.

One electrifying night at a local music venue, Sarah found herself immersed in the soul-stirring melodies that filled the air. The atmosphere pulsated with the rhythm of the music, creating a magical ambiance. As she reveled in the enchanting tunes, Sarah caught the eye of none other than the legendary crooner himself, Tony Bennett. At the time Tony had not been discovered yet.  Mr. Bennett approached her during a break in his performance and extended a charming invitation to join him for a post-concert dinner.  Sarah’s father Charles, adamant in his traditional values, sternly forbade his daughter from getting involved with a musician, convinced that the unpredictable lifestyle and perceived lack of stability in the music world would compromise her future.  He told Sarah that she needed to marry a hardworking, honest, Italian young man that will take good care of her.

Sarah’s parents and the parents of a young handsome Italian man named Peter Fasani ,raised in Roccasicura Italy, were both eager to ensure a prosperous future for their children. They orchestrated a hopeful meeting, anticipating that the carefully arranged encounter would pave the way for a relationship culminating in marriage.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on October 7, 1956, the couple exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife at St Frances Church in Hackensack.

The newlyweds settled in Paterson, NJ just across the street from Peter’s parents.  While only residing there for about a year, the couple welcomed their first child, their daughter Donna in 1957.  The family moved to Little Falls shortly after Donna’s birth, where over the next few years they welcomed their two sons Frank, and Michael.  Little Falls was where Sarah and Peter raised their children and remained until 1985, when they moved to Wayne.  Immediately after getting married, Sarah decided that she would become a full-time homemaker.  This was Sarah’s true calling and where she genuinely flourished.  Sarah completely devoted her time an effort to nurturing and caring for her husband and children.  She was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic Faith.  While living in Little Falls, the family were parishioners of Holy Angels Church and later Our Lady of the Valley RC Church when moving to Wayne. Her children all attended Holy Angels elementary school as we.  Sarah enjoyed singing in the choirs at both parishes and was a member of the Rosary Society .  She was a member of the Italian American Club in Little Falls as well as a Past President and member of the Woman’s Organization at Our Lady of the Valley.

After dedicating her early years to raising her children, Sarah found herself with a newfound passion for nutrition. At a time before many people took an interest in nutrition, Sarah was intrigued by the profound impact of a healthy lifestyle.  She decided to turn her interest into action. Once her children had grown and become more independent, Sarah sought an opportunity to delve into the world of nutrition and healthy living. She secured a part-time job at GNC, a renowned health and wellness store, where she could share her knowledge and enthusiasm for nutrition with others.  She became one of the stores top salespersons.  Sarah was an avid reader and loved to learn about not only nutrition, but also religion and cooking.  Sarah’s faith in God truly defined her as a person.  She was selfless to a fault, always thinking and praying for others around her.  One of her favorite captions was, “Your Faith shines brightest through the dark.”

Those who knew Sarah best, knew that her greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Sarah that providing for and spending time with her family.  She was a devoted mother and grandmother, and treasured hosting holidays and Sunday dinners.  She was an accomplished cook and could prepare anything food dish requested.   She and Peter cherished fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Peter’s passing in 2006.  During their marriage, they traveled to their homeland of Italy several times to visit relatives from both sides of their family.   In 2013, tragedy struck Sarah’s life when her son Frank passed away, but Sarah found strength in her Faith to move forward.

Sarah will forever be remembered as a loving and dedicated wife, and grandmother.  She was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Sarah is survived by her daughter Donna Gaskin and her husband Scott Huff of Sebastian, FL, her son Michael Fasani of Wayne, NJ, her grandson Samuel Peter Gaskin of Sebastian FL, three nieces: Kathleen Pizza, Jamie Pizza, and Robin Pizza, one nephew Charles Pizza, one sister-in-law Linda Pizza, one step niece Deborah Wussler, and two step nephews: Steven Smith, and Brian Smith.  She was predeceased by her husband Peter Fasani (2006), her son Frank Fasani (2013), as well as her two brothers Frank Pizza (2002) and Joe Pizza (2019).

Those wishing to make a donation in Sarah’s name are asked to consider the American Heart Association

Sarah Fasani

Wayne
January 26, 2024

Alan A. Mendillo, age 93 of Wayne entered into eternal life on Friday, January 26. He was born in Paterson, NJ and served his country in the U.S. Army during the Korean Conflict. He was stationed at Presidio in San Francisco, CA.

Al was a printer by trade and worked for Berles Carton Co. in Paterson for 35 years & worked 12 years for Accurate Box Co. He owned a Karate School in West Milford, N.J. since 1970 & was a seventh-degree black belt. Al touched many students lives while teaching karate and women’s self-defense courses. Al also taught Karate at the Adult Community School in West Milford from 1972 to 2007 & hosted many demonstrations in the West Milford & Wayne areas. He was the first Karate Instructor at the YM-YWHA in Wayne. In 2017, after 50 years of practicing and teaching karate, he retired. Al was also the Exalted Ruler of Wayne Elk’s Lodge # 2181 from 1992 to 1993 and was very active as a parishioner at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

Al’s greatest passion was ballroom dancing with his wife, Angel (nee Cannata) who passed away a few weeks shy of their 70th wedding anniversary.  Al and Angel won many jitterbug contests and made lifelong friends on the dance floor.  Al was quick to tell a joke, loved playing cards – especially Uno and enjoyed bowling in leagues during his younger years.  He was an amazing husband, father, son, brother, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, Sensei, mentor, friend and much much more.  Al always had a smile on his face and was a great storyteller as well.

Al is survived by his six children: Mrs. Angel Cassera & Tony, Mr. Joseph Mendillo & Sandy, Mr. Alan J. Mendillo & Kim, Mr. James Mendillo & Toni, Mrs. Donna Fauerbach & Kurt, & Mrs. Michelle Catalioto & Tony, plus seventeen grandchildren & 8 great grandchildren and loving caregiver Pat Allen. He was predeceased by his wife Angel, in 2021.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105

Alan Mendillo

Wayne
January 26, 2024

Sandra J Fristensky of North Myrtle Beach South Carolina passed away on Friday January 26th at the age of 79.

Daughter of the late Frederick Trabulsi and Adelle Trabulsi and sister to the late James Trabulsi of Cliffside Park NJ. Sandra was born in Englewood Hospital in Englewood NJ in 1945. 

Sandra grew up in Cliffside Park NJ, frequenting Palisades Amusement Park with her brother James along with other family members and friends, enjoying the Jersey Shore and going to work at AT&T where she would meet her future husband Peter Fristensky. Eventually they would move to Lebanon NJ and in 1980 they welcomed their son Jason into the world. Also living with them was her mother-in-law Henrietta Fristensky. In 2004 they would move to their current home in North Myrtle Beach SC where she would spend time enjoying Coastal living and retirement. 

Sandra enjoyed spending time with her family, traveling back to NJ and to the family timeshare in Hilton Head SC, playing with her dachshund, playing any games that dealt with words and dining out in one of the 2,000 restaurants the area has to offer.

According to The Greek language Sandra means “Protector of Humanity” or “Helper of Mankind” both of which she lived up to every single day of her life. Family and Friends were always put first as they meant everything to her and she did all she could to help them.  There wasn’t a single person that Sandy met that didn’t love her dearly.

She is preceded in death by her mother Adelle Trabulsi, her father Frederick Trabulsi and her brother James Trabulsi. 

She leaves behind her husband Peter Fristensky and her son Jason Fristensky, her nieces Tara Kuipers and husband Phil, and Laura Derwin and husband Michael, and her sister-in-law Jan Trabulsi. 

In lieu of flowers the family has asked that donations in Sandra’s memory be made to:

METAvivor Research and Support

1783 Forest Drive #184

Annapolis, MD 21401 US

If you choose to mail in your gift, please specify that it’s in memory of Sandra Fristensky.

Sandra Fristensky

N. Myrtle Beach
January 26, 2024

With great sadness, we announce the passing of Eleanore L. Scuralli (nee Rangelli), age 95, of Wayne, NJ.

Eleanore was born in Passaic, NJ, and raised in the Botany Village section of Clifton, NJ.  She was the youngest of four children to Rocco and Anna (nee Stanko) Rangelli.  Eleanore attended Clifton High School and graduated with the class of 1945.  While attending high school, Eleanore worked part-time at Planter’s Peanuts, where she worked in retail for a few years. 

Following her high school graduation, Eleanore enrolled at the Sawyer School of Business, where she earned her certification in Secretarial skills.  She found employment quickly in the shipping department of the Botany Mills, a textile manufacturer in Passaic, NJ, where she worked for several years. 

In the mid-1940s, after the end of the Second World War, a young American GI named Joseph P. Scuralli returned home from service in Europe.  He and his family resided directly behind Eleanore’s house.  One day, while Joseph was walking by her house, Eleanore’s mother insisted she go out on the porch and thank him for his service to the country.  It took some convincing. However, Eleanore appeased her mom.  Eleanore and Joseph hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love, and on June 19, 1949, the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  Eleanore and Joseph, excited to celebrate their love, invited two hundred guests to their wedding at Domyon’s, around the corner from their houses. However, it was raining that day, so many people in the area canceled their picnic and day trip plans. The bride and groom were shocked and slightly overwhelmed when an additional two hundred uninvited well-wishers unexpectedly joined the festivities. It made the newspaper!

Also, that year, they purchased five acres of farmland and built a house on Ratzer Road in Wayne Township. They lived with Eleanore’s parents briefly while the house was being completed. After moving to the new house, they started their produce farm and later welcomed the births of all three of their children, Janice, Carol, and Joseph.  The couple raised their children while living in Wayne and have been there ever since.

Eleanore and Joseph worked at Botany Mills in Passaic for several years.  They shared a passion for hard work and determination. Later, in 1958, fueled by their shared dreams and entrepreneurial spirit, Eleanore and Joseph decided to venture into the business world together.  Harnessing their collective skills, they founded their own metalworking and machinery manufacturing business, Wayne Machine & Die Company. The business grew to become one of the leading firms worldwide in the plastic extrusion equipment field. The family owned and operated their business for nearly fifty years.

Over the years, Eleanore and Joseph were long-time North Jersey Country Club members.  While her daughters were growing up, she was a leader for the Brownies and volunteered for Wayne General Hospital.  

Eleanore and Joseph both loved to dance.  For more than twenty-five years, Eleanore treasured taking ballroom dancing lessons. The couple’s business brought them to every corner of the country and internationally for trade shows and exhibitions. Later in life, she enjoyed traveling with friends to various destinations, including England and Russia. In 2004, Eleanore took a memorable trip to tour the national parks of the United States. She convinced her friends to join her on a Hot Air Balloon Ride during her trip, to which they reluctantly agreed. 

Aside from all Eleanore’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing meant more to Eleanore than providing and spending time with her family.  Eleanore and Joseph cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Joseph’s passing in 1999.  She was an excellent cook and treasured hosting family and friends for the holidays and Sunday Dinners.  August was a special month devoted to making “Tomato Sauce.”  Eleanore’s family dedicated time to hand-picking the best tomatoes from the garden and local markets to produce the finest tomato sauce weekly.  She and her family enjoyed their year-round beach house in North Lavallette at the Jersey Shore. 

Eleanore was genuinely devoted to her Catholic Faith and often prayed to St. Jude and St. Joseph for their intercession. She and her husband, Joseph, were founding members of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne. While a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church, she was a member of the Rosary Society and volunteered in many capacities.  Eleanore attended the 6:30 am mass daily and the 5:00 pm mass every Saturday.  

Eleanore had a great sense of humor. She was also opinionated and was never afraid to speak her mind and let people know what she thought.  She was an outstanding and exceedingly effective campaign volunteer for her son Joseph, starting when he first ran for Councilman in the late 1990s. Grateful and appreciative, Eleanore always credited her family for providing unwavering love and care and acknowledging their pivotal role in her well-being.  Eleanore’s family is also exceptionally grateful to her devoted caregivers, Yvette and Lori.          

Eleanore will forever be remembered as a devoted mother, wife, grandmother, and great-grandmother.  She was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sorely missed by her family and friends.

Eleanore is survived by her two daughters, Janice Lischak and her husband Gary of Wayne, NJ, and Carol Perrelli and her husband Anthony of Ocean Port, NJ; one son, Joseph Scuralli and his wife Annette of Wayne, NJ; five grandchildren, Timothy Lischak of Wayne, NJ, Daniel Lischak and his wife Megan of Point Pleasant, NJ, Gina Perrelli of New York City, Samuel Perrelli of Asbury Park, NJ, and Joseph Scuralli III, of Wayne, NJ; two great-grandchildren Eleanor and Theodore Lischak both of Point Pleasant, NJ and several nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her husband, Joseph P. Scuralli (1999), her brother, John Rangelli, and two sisters, Anna Rangelli and Marion Guglielmo.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Eleanore’s name may be made to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, 630 Valley Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Eleanore L. Scuralli

Wayne
January 25, 2024

Nunzio Di Taranto, age 85 of Wayne, died on Thursday, January 25, 2024. He was born in Montescaglioso, Italy, and had served in the Italian Army as a young man.

Nunzio was a mason by trade and had worked for many years in a Paterson Dye house. He was a very hard working man who always too good care of his family.

Family was his priority. They ate dinner together every night, watched TV together, played cards and bingo as a family. Nunzio would often take his kids to the park, treat them to ice cream, and anything else that would make them happy. He was especially fond of his grandchildren, Jovanni and Mia. They loved teasing him, and he loved spoiling them! Nunzio was a big Juventus fan and always talked about soccer with Jovanni and he was proud to have taught Mia how to spell her last name. They each have special memories of their grandfather that they will cherish throughout their lifetimes.

Nunzio was certainly set in his ways, and he could be stubborn at times, but he was meticulous and always wanted to see things done just so. This was particularly evident in his work as a mason, which was flawless every time. He also enjoyed gardening, making homemade wine, going for walks, and doing crossword puzzles. He went to the Italian club every Sunday, he loved to play cards, read the Italian newspaper each week, and he would putter around in the garage. He loved building homemade contraptions that were useful to him, but appeared a bit senseless to anyone else. Nevertheless, he kept himself busy and his family entertained at the same time. They will cherish the memories of their time together and the love they shared.

Nunzio is survived by his son John DiTaranto of Wayne, his three daughters: Angela DiTaranto and her partner Biagio Caravella of Wayne, Carmela DiTaranto of Nutley, and Nancy DiTaranto and her partner Dino Natale of Totowa, NJ, and two grandchildren; Jovanni and Mia, his four brothers; Pasquale, Rocco, Giulio, and Anthony, as well as one sister; Sister Angela DiTaranto. He was predeceased by his wife, Antonia, in 2023.

Nunzio Di Taranto

Wayne
January 25, 2024

Lorraine Noll, age 88, of Ringwood, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on the morning of Thursday, January 25, 2024. She will be lovingly remembered by her daughters; Loren Noll, Kathy Drago and her husband Mike Drago, and Sharon Weiss, her grandchildren; Danielle Drago, Justin Weiss, Kristen Weiss, and Michael Drago, and her nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her husband Andrew Noll, her brother Bob Keeble, and her son-in-law Scott Weiss.

Lorraine was born to Henry and Stephanie Keeble in Teaneck, New Jersey on May 12, 1935. She was raised in Little Ferry, New Jersey with her brother, Bob, until they moved to Westwood, New Jersey.

After graduating from Westwood Regional High School, Lorraine started working at People’s Trust Bank. While working at People’s Trust, she met the love of her life, Andrew Noll. The two married in the autumn of 1957 and were blessed with three lovely daughters: Loren, Kathy, and Sharon. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 66 years before Andrew passed away in November of 2023.

Lorraine was known for her love of traveling. Along with her husband, she traveled all around the United States visiting National Parks. She also took yearly trips with her daughters and grandchildren all over the states, North America, and Central America. Her favorite was always out west in states like Arizona and Colorado. She was also a creative person. She loved making crafts, especially if they related to Christmas. She was never happier than during the Christmas season and would often start Christmas planning in the summer months.

Lorraine C. Noll

Ringwood
January 25, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Casimira H Nawojczyk, age 86, of Wayne, NJ.

Casimira passed away peacefully on Tuesday, January 23, 2024 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Those who came to know Casimira affectionately referred to her as “Cathy.” Casimira, daughter to Anthony and Jadzia Nawojczik, was born and raised in Brooklyn. NY and was the youngest of six children. Cathy attended Bishop McDonnell High School in Brooklyn and graduated in  class of 1955.  She quickly found employment as Secretary in the New York City area and after working for a time in New York City, she ultimately relocated to Garfield, NJ.  In Garfield she was employed as Office Manager for a textile company until she retired.   In approximately 2011, Cathy purchased her first and only home in Wayne, NJ reluctantly but excitedly leaving her beloved Garfield apartment and friends.  

As a young lady, Cathy devoted much of her time to caring for her mother who suffered from Parkinson’s Disease.  Cathy, a remarkable woman with a heart full of warmth and compassion and chose to devote her life to family, friends, others and Christ. Choosing not to have a family of her own, Cathy became a pillar of support for her friends and their families. Devoting herself to others, her selflessness and nurturing nature knew no bounds.  She invested her time, love, and wisdom in the lives of her siblings' children as well as the children of friends, treating them as if they were her own; she even played “Santa Claus” for those children throughout the years. For many years  she has been a supporting Donor to many Charitable Organizations including “Christian Foundation for Children and Aging” and “Unbound” through which she provides monetary and spiritual support to two girls one in Philippines and one in Guatemala.  Through her genuine care and unwavering presence,It was clear to all who knew Cathy, her greatest passion in life was for her family and friends.  Cathy,  family was not solely defined by blood but by bonds of love and chosen connections believing them  to be just as profound and enduring.  She also spent a great time volunteering to various organizations including a great length of time as a Hospice Worker for Visiting Nurses of NJ;  her “personal ministry” was devoted to delivering food to the nuns in the Paterson area of New Jersey.  Nothing in the world meant more to Cathy than  spending time with and caring for her family, friends, and extended family.

Cathy also truly devoted herself  to her Christian morals and values, and  her Catholic Faith throughout her life.   As a young woman she became GodMother to her niece Mari and later also became her Confirmation and Miraculous Medal Sponsor.  Cathy  fastidiously exemplified the meaning and responsibility of those roles as well as instilled, encouraged and modeled  the importance and values of Christianity to everyone.  In May of 2017 she was professed as “ Third Order Carmalite” by Fr. Ashley at Our Lady of Magnificat RC Church in Kinnelon  Cathy was parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne for many years; however, she was known to clergy and parishioners at most of the Catholic Churches and several non-denominational Churches visiting and attending multiple Masses daily and weekends; Cathy and her circle of friends were known as the “Roaming Catholics” by one of the local priests.  When Cathy was not attending mass, she devoted many hours praying for others in the adoration chapel and as a member of her weekly Prayer Group.  She was an avid reader and researcher focused on increasing and personifying her beliefs through books on Christianity, Religion and Healing through spiritual means.   She was a member of the “Oatmeal Club”, a circle of close friends who attended Mass together every Friday and treasured sharing breakfast afterward at Panera’s.

Travel and adventure were Cathy’s favorite pastimes; exotic beachy destinations including Jamaica, St Thomas, Puerto Rico spots although Aruba was most memorable of all.  

Cathy was a talkative charming lady with a boisterous laugh; who enjoyed telling and listening to jokes and could light up any room she walked into with her infectious personality and wonderful sense of humor.  She was a true friend to all those around her and could always be counted on to listen when someone had something to say.  She also treasured eating Polish food and dancing the Polka.  Cathy will forever be remembered as a truly devoted member of her family and a wonderfully dedicated friend.  She was a genuinely special person who was not materialistic, but very spiritual, touching the lives of everyone around her.  She was a very spiritual person, both  spiritual guide and source of spiritual inspiration to many; her spirituality included medical, emotional and Holistic healing.  Cathy will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Cathy is survived by sixteen nieces and nephews; Karen Buckley of Boca Raton, FL, Mari Csiszer of Springfield, VT, Monica Jones of West Islip, NY, Charlie Zdebski of Alexandria, VA, Tom Devine of Oradell, NJ, Chris Devine of Oradell, NJ, Jimmy Devine of Fort Worth, TX, Glenn Nowachek, Linda Nowachek of Fire Island, NY, Greg Sciora of Matawan, NJ, Ricky Sciora of New Jersey, Chris Sciora of Texas, Ron Nawojczyk of North Carolina, Diana Nawojczyk of Missouri, Carolyn Dipsey of New Jersey, and Jimmy Nawojczyk of New Jersey.  She is also survived by her extended family and friends: Blanca Pinos, Nellie Pinos, Grace DeMarco, Victor DeMarco, Martha Higuera, Alfred Higuera, Mark Higuera, Erica Higuera Stephen Higuera, Jill Higeura, Andrew DeMarco, Emilia DeMarco, Derek DeMarco, Jordan DeMarco, and Mia DeMarco.  Cathy was predeceased by her siblings Anthony Nowachek, Lorraine Sciora, Gabe Nawojczyk, Sophie Zdebski and Genevive Devine and nephews Chris and Lawrence Devine.

For a livestream of the funeral mass please visit www.olmchurch.org

Those wishing to make a donation in Cathy’s name are asked to consider Several Sources Shelter, Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, Catholic Charities, or Carmalite Communities

Casimira H. Nawojczyk

Wayne
January 23, 2024

Bernard L. Spardel, age 90 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, January 21, 2024. 

Bernard was born in Brooklyn, New York to Louis and Mary Spardel. He lived in Flushing Queens, New York, Plainfield, New Jersey, and Piscataway, New Jersey before moving to Wayne in 1973. 

Bernie received his formal education at City College of New York where he received a Bachelor of Chemical Engineering Degree with the Class of 1956. Shortly thereafter, he met the love of his life, Patricia Little, after a mutual friend set them up on a blind date. The two instantly hit it off and became engaged in two months and married in six months! They were married on April 1, 1961, in Calvert City, Kentucky before departing on their honeymoon to Gatlinburg, Tennessee and the Smokey Mountains. The couple enjoyed fifty-seven incredible years together until Pat’s passing in 2018.

Bernard was a chemical engineer for International Specialty Products Company in Wayne for 52 years before his retirement in 2008. His career saw him relocated several times – first from Kentucky to Plainfield, NJ where he and Pat were blessed with their first child, Steven. Then again to Piscataway, NJ where their family grew by three more with the birth of Karen, Michael, and Kurt. Finally, work transferred Bernard to Wayne where he and Pat settled in Packanack Lake. They purchased a house and made it their home for the next forty-nine years (apart from an 18-month assignment to Germany where Bernard was a Project Engineer for a chemical plant). 

Bernie and Pat loved to travel the world. Their time living in Germany gave their family the opportunity to explore Europe and visit the many different countries and cultures that it has to offer. They shared many fond memories during their travels and continued those trips long after returning to Packanack Lake in Wayne.  They traveled the United States as well, including Alaska, Hawaii, and much of the East Coast each fall.

St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne was also a huge part of Bernie’s life. He was very involved in the St. Timothy’s Property Crew (better known as the Monday Morning Crew) as well as the Planning Committee for Church Expansion back in 2004. 

Bernie will be remembered for his great sense of humor and his determination to solve problems – especially those related to his lawn. Any lawn invaders were no match to his chemical skills!  He was a lifelong Mets fan, loved his flower gardens, and appreciated keeping the nature around him as God made it.  He also had a deep appreciation for Opera and Classical music as well as the crooners of the 50’s and 60’s.

Bernard is survived by his four children: Steven Spardel of Verona (Lisa), Karen Sajban of West Milford (Thomas), Michael Spardel of Butler, and Kurt Spardel of Little Egg Harbor; seven grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren.  He is predeceased by his wife Patricia, brother Richard, and nephew Christopher.

In lieu of flowers, donations to The American Kidney Fund or the St. Timothy Laubscher Property Memorial Fund are welcome.

Bernard L. Spardel

Wayne
January 21, 2024

Julie Scialla, age 54 of Pompton Lakes NJ passed away Saturday January 20, 2024 at her home with the comfort of her family by her side.

Julie was born to John Michael O’Keefe & Claire O’Keefe in Portsmouth Virginia at the Naval Hospital on 10/31/1969. She grew up in Braintree MA and graduated from Braintree HS in 1987. She then attended Massachusetts College of Pharmacy and filled her dream of becoming a Pharmacist like her Uncle Ray that she had since she was 7 years old.

In 1994 on a trip to Africa to visit a friend in the Peace Corps Julie meet the love of her life Arthur Scialla and soon moved to Hawthorne NJ to be closer to him. They enjoyed fishing trips, Rock climbing, snowmobiling, attending Nascar races, and Hiking. In 1998 Julie and Art were married in Ringwood NJ and the future blessed them with 3 amazing children. Anthony, Will, and Jack.

Julie worked at Geriscript Pharmacy in Pompton Plains NJ. She enjoyed photography, trivia, snowmobiling, fishing, cooking, and being in nature.

Julie volunteered as an EMT at the Montville first aid squad where she worked her way up to lieutenant and eventually captain. Julie also worked on the Montville drug awareness council where she volunteered her time in an effort to prevent substance abuse.

Her greatest enjoyment in life was her three boys. Julie loved being a mother and spending as much time with her boys as she could.

Julie was a loving wife, amazing Mother, a wonderful sister, and a fantastic friend.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Susan G. Komen Foundation would be greatly appreciated. 

Julie Scialla

Pompton Lakes
January 20, 2024

Elena Otto, age 84, of Lake Worth Florida and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Friday, January 19, 2024 while receiving the love of her family.

Elena was the second-born child of Dominick and Fannie (Ognibane) Attanasio. She was raised in Brooklyn, NY and later moved to Queens, NY. 

After graduating from high school in 1956, Elena attended college and later became a bank teller. It was while working at the bank that she met her husband Edward. Because of his persistent pursuit, they began dating. They fell in love and ultimately married on April 23, 1958. After a honeymoon in the Bahamas, they began life in an apartment in Flushing Queens. While living there, they were blessed with their firstborn, a son who they named Edward. They later purchased a home located at 24 Dupont Terrace in Wayne where the stork delivered them another baby, this time a girl which they named Linda. Elena moved once again, this time to a condominium on Schindler Lane in Wayne. She remained their until moving to Lake Worth, Florida in March of 2023 to be near her daughter Linda. 

For over twenty years, Elena served as the court administrator and worked in the violations department for the Township of Wayne. She was so much loved and respected for her great work that she attempted to retire multiple times before making it permanent. Every time she tried, the town would beg her to come back. She enjoyed her work and the camaraderie of her work mates but she also enjoyed the frequent opportunities for traveling adventures that retirement allowed. Her trips included cruises and numerous bus trips with the seniors. 

Elena was an active soul who enjoyed frequent walks to get fresh air and stay fit as a fiddle. She was an avid reader who especially gravitated towards mystery novels. Her need to serve others was channeled through her volunteer service with the Ladies Auxiliary of Wayne Fire Department.

Elena’s faith was dear to her and for many years before moving to Florida, she regularly attended Mass at Holy Cross Church and later at Our Lady of Consolation Church, both of Wayne. 

Elena had a heart of gold and a quick wit that caused family friends and strangers to gravitate toward the warmth of her heart, big smile and personality. She laughed a lot and lived life with a cheerful heart, always finding the best in all whose life path crossed hers. 

Elena was the loving mother of Edward Otto of Castle Rock, Colorado and Linda Otto of Lake Worth, Florida; dear sister of the late Dominick Attanasio, and the late Joseph Attanasio; dear sister-in-law of Mary Madlyn Attanasio and the late Amelia Attanasio. She is also survived by her nieces and nephews: Debbie, Mark, Peggy, Cindy, Dominick, Travis and Katelyn.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Elena’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

 

Property Owners League Fire Co. No. 2, Inc.

P.O. Box 1

Wayne, NJ 07470

Elena Rosemarie Otto

Lake Worth
January 19, 2024

George James Tahan, age 96, passed peacefully on Friday, January 19, 2024.

George was born in Paterson, New Jersey, to Habib and Zakia Tahan.  During his third year of high school, George was drafted into the U.S. Army and served in Germany at the end of WWII.  He was awarded the Army of Occupation Medal and the World War II Victory Medal before being Honorably Discharged in November of 1946. 

Upon his return from the military, George operated a gas station and then a dry cleaner before ultimately pursuing a career in the insurance and real estate industry.  After working at local insurance and real estate agencies for several years, George started his own real estate and insurance agency in the late 1970s called, “The George Tahan Agency,” which he owned and operated for approximately 20 years primarily in Paterson and Clifton.

George met Carolyn (“Karen”) in his late 30s, and after about four years of dating, they married and raised their three children in Wayne, New Jersey.  George and Karen had a loving and devoted fifty-four-year marriage that she characterized as “I had the best person in the world for me.” George was a remarkable man whose gentle demeanor and optimistic outlook on life left a lasting impression on everyone he encountered. Known for his unwavering positivity, George never dwelled on the past, choosing instead to focus on the present and future with a smile. His great sense of humor brought joy to those around him, as he loved to share laughter and create a lighthearted atmosphere. George's generosity knew no bounds. His persistent nature and strong work ethic were evident in every endeavor he undertook, and his patience and self-confidence were the cornerstones of his success. George was not only generous with material things but also with his time, always eager to lend a helping hand. His ability to make others laugh, coupled with his enduring spirit, made George a cherished presence in the lives of those fortunate enough to know him. A few things would get George going…despite his otherwise meticulously cleanly nature, don’t touch the mess that he called a desk, there is no such word as “can’t,” and “if you start something you finish it.”

George was the devoted husband of fifty-four years to Karen Tahan; devoted father of David Tahan and his wife Jennifer of Palm Beach Gardens, FL, Nicole Dockray and her husband Eric of Toms River, and Jason Tahan and his wife Lillian of Wayne; George was the cherished grandfather of Cole, Aidan, Colin, Shea, Darrin, Jason, Brayden, Matthew and Ethan; George was predeceased by his parents, Habib and Zakia, and his siblings, Basil, Alberta, Mary, and Joseph.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to any of the following three organizations would be greatly appreciated:

National MultipleSclerosis Society or St. Ann's CharitableSociety or Wounded Warrior Project    

George Tahan

Wayne
January 19, 2024

Salvatore J. Bonanno., age 75 of Wayne, passed on to his home in eternal glory on Friday, January 19, 2024.

The son of John and Marie (Casela) Bonanno, Sal was born and raised in Brooklyn.

After graduating high school, he attended New York Institute of Technology in Long Island, NY where he earned his bachelor’s degree in Biomedical Engineering. Sal used his excellent skills with numbers and his love for his fellow man by helping them prepare their dreaded taxes each year. He was a tax preparer at H&R Block in Paterson for twenty-six years and, despite more than one attempt to retire, he was still working to help folks render unto Cesar what was Cesar’s and unto God what was God’s to the present day. None of his clients wanted him to retire and so, despite being past the years of full-time work, Sal showed up each day to the office in Paterson where he was assisted by a homeless man who helped him open the overhead door to his office building. A generous and hospitable guy, Sal always rewarded the man for his kind assistance. 

Sal met the love of his life, Belinda Bueno, a dear gentle woman through a pen pal letter writing exchange. They first met in person when Sal came to meet Belinda who was staying with relatives in Paramus. Belinda’s relatives were impressed by Sal’s gentle and kind demeanor and, before Sal and Belinda headed off for lunch, they commented to Belinda, “He seems really nice!” The two of them ultimately fell in love and married on July 24, 1989 before the justice of the peace and soon after they exchanged wedding promises again before God, family and friends at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. Their first home as husband and wife was in Pomona, NY. In 1993, they purchased a home in Wayne and have lived there ever since. 

When he wasn’t helping his clients do their tax returns, Sal spent leisure time working on his stamp and coin collections. He also worked on his model trains and visited various train shows in the tri-state area and beyond. Sal and Belinda also enjoyed traveling adventures to Aruba, Curacao, and Spain. 

Sal was devout in his Catholic faith. He and Belinda were regular attenders at the 9:00 AM mass at Our Lady of Consolation Church where Sal always liked to sit up front near the altar. After mass he’d always ask Belinda if she’d like to go for brunch at the Wayne Hill’s Diner, just up the street from the church. After going there for what seemed like the one-thousandth time, Belinda secretly wished to try a different eating venue but she always obliged Sal because the simple act of enjoying his company was more important than where she enjoyed his company.

Sal was a kind, gentle and generous soul. He was truly loved by his tax clients and coworkers at H&R Block. And he was loved by his dear wife Belinda to whom he was blessed with 34 years in a loving and devoted marriage.    

Sal was the beloved husband of Belinda (Bueno) Bonanno. He is also survived by his dear brother Robert of Franklin Lakes and numerous dear brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law and nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in honor of Sal’s life can be made to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Salvatore Bonanno

Wayne
January 19, 2024

Julius B. “Jules” Sylvester, age 82, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, January 18, 2024.

The third of Gaetano and Stella (Dezenzo) Sylvester’s three children, Jules was born in Paterson and raised in the Riverside section at 273 East 23rd Street and later at 159 East 24th Street. He was a graduate of Eastside High School, Class of 1958, where he played saxophone in the orchestra and clarinet in the marching band. 

While most teenagers in the early 1950s were tuning in to the new rock ‘n’ roll craze, Jules’ interest in music was big band and jazz. Jules saved up his birthday money to buy a new saxophone for $300 at age 11!  He also saved his money to buy record albums at the Eclipse record store on Washington Street in Downtown Paterson.  His most treasured purchase was a Stan Kenton box set.  Kenton was a distinguished orchestra leader and a master on the piano.

Jules’ love of music flourished to the point of forming his own group—Julius Sylvester and his Crown Four. Jules led the group on saxophone. The pinnacle of their musical fame came when they landed a New Year’s Eve gig headlining at the Terrace Room on 5th Avenue in Paterson. It was a paid engagement with each band member receiving twelve dollars to play for the night! 

After graduating from high school, Jules ventured into the working world with jobs at Curtiss-Wright Corporation in Wood-Ridge, Trio Dyeing and Finishing in Paterson, and Thermo Electric in Saddle Brook. He eventually settled into a forty-year career in the parts department at Brogan Cadillac-Oldsmobile in Paterson and later in Totowa.  He participated on Brogan’s softball team and in their bowling league.  Eventually, he rose to the position of Assistant Parts Manager. 

Jules met his beloved wife Marie (LePera) Sylvester at Bernie’s Candy Store on the corner of 8th Avenue and East 22nd Street in Paterson. Jules frequented the place where he played a pretty slick game on the store’s pinball machine. Attracted by his good looks, pinball skills, and his cute 1954 black Ford Sunliner convertible, Marie subtly put out the word that she was interested in Jules. Both being car lovers, their first date was at the historic Hinchliffe Stadium in Paterson where they saw Jack Kochman’s Hell Drivers. At a dollar per person admission price, it was a pretty cheap date by today’s standards. That date led to numerous others and, ultimately, marriage. Of course, Jules did the honorable thing and asked Marie’s father for permission to marry his daughter. With her parents’ blessing, they married on Sunday, May 9, 1965, at Blessed Sacrament Church on 6th Avenue in Paterson. After a reception at Nestor’s in Singac, the newlyweds honeymooned in Puerto Rico and St. Thomas, V.I. Jules and Marie then moved into a second-floor rental at 153 East 17th Street in Paterson. In 1970, they purchased their first home at 124 Willard Avenue in Totowa. In 1996, they moved one more time, to their present home in Wayne. 

Jules enlisted in the Army National Guard in 1963. He proudly served for six years and was present to help restore peace during the 1967 riots in Newark. Upon his honorable discharge in 1969, he was a Staff Sergeant with decorations and citations as a tank weapons expert, tank sub-cal sharpshooter, pistol marksman, and a rifle expert.

Having worked for Brogan all those years, it goes without saying that Jules appreciated Cadillacs. His first was a 1978 Coupe DeVille and the second was a 1987 Coupe DeVille with wire wheels and a rag top that his wife claims cost more than their first home! Jules’ favorite, though, was the 1966 white Buick Riviera that he and Marie still own to this day.   

Jules truly had a green thumb and was a consummate tinkerer. He had a beautiful vegetable garden which produced the makings for delicious meals (especially those Jersey tomatoes), and he was also a house plant aficionado. His Christmas cactus bloomed beautifully this year, right on time, and his angel trumpets were glorious. Jules was known for his plant propagation and ability to start many plants from just a shoot or a leaf—his family, friends, and even his doctor have plants grown from Jules’ plant cuttings. Jules was also very handy and could always find something in the house to fix. Always willing to help others, he gladly fixed things in his neighbors’ houses and on their cars, too. 

Jules and Marie enjoyed a precious marriage that spanned nearly 59 years. During those years they traveled quite a bit. In addition to their honeymoon trip, they had the privilege of taking vacations to Florida, including Disney World, California, Hawaii, Las Vegas, and abroad to Italy and France, where they had dinner in the Eiffel Tower and visited Normandy where Marie’s uncle was among the first troops to land on Omaha Beach. Closer to home, they spent many vacations at the Jersey Shore, eventually buying a shore house in Toms River that they’ve owned since 1992. Jules loved to go boating on his thirty-three-foot Wellcraft and found as much enjoyment cleaning it as he did using it.

Above all else, Jules’ greatest love was for his family. He was so proud of his sons, and enjoyed every moment of cheering for his grandsons at all of their baseball, basketball, soccer, and bowling events. 

Jules was a warm and charming man. He was good to his family, friends, and anyone he met. He was hard-working and persistent when faced with a challenging situation. He was a good husband, a fine father, and a loving and supportive grandfather. He will be missed by all who knew him, both young and old alike. 

Jules was the beloved husband of Marie; loving father of Tom Sylvester of Parsippany (former wife Susan Sylvester of Towaco) and Kevin Sylvester (husband Jim McDonnell) of Washington, D.C.; cherished grandfather of Stephen, Zachary, and Ryan Sylvester; dear brother of the late Mario Sylvester (2023) and the late Rudolph Sylvester (2020); and dear uncle of nine nieces and nephews.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions in Jules’ memory can be made to: Tunnel to Towers Foundation (www.T2T.org), or another charity of your choosing.

Julius Sylvester

Wayne
January 18, 2024

Shirley Adell Rink (nee Skaling), age 83 of Newton, NJ, died peacefully in her sleep on Thursday, January 18, 2024.  We are comforted by knowing that she is now with her dear Lord and Savior in Heaven.   Shirley lived in Wayne, NJ for over 60 years before recently relocating to Newton, NJ.  She enjoyed fellowshipping at the Paterson and then Wayne Christian Assembly for well over 60 years, where everyone knew her as “Aunt Shirley”.  She could always be found helping with the children, singing or encouraging others.  Before retiring from work, Shirley had been a Special Education teacher in the Wayne Public schools for 25 years. 

Shirley was born in Vancouver, BC, Canada, and was the oldest of Russell and Adell Skalings four children.   When Shirley was a young girl, her family moved from Canada down to California, so her father could continue his studies.  The family enjoyed many wonderful years in California, and Shirley went on to graduate from San Gabriel High School.  Shortly thereafter the Skaling family moved to New Jersey where Shirley’s dad continued doing the Lord’s work.  Soon Shirley began pursuing her teaching degree at William Paterson Teacher’s College and then Kean College.   Three days after graduation, she married Edmund Rink, thus beginning the love story that would last for more than sixty years. 

Shirley and Edmund married on June 9, 1962 at the Colonia Chapel in Clark, NJ.  Following their wedding they journeyed in Eddie’s snazzy white convertible to Cape Cod for their honeymoon. They have enjoyed a very special love throughout their many years together, always holding hands along the way. They have lived a very blessed life centered on God and family, for which they are truly grateful.   Over the years, the Lord blessed Shirley and Eddie with two children, Lenny and Lisa.  Shirley was a wonderful mother with a huge heart.   She always encouraged and supported her family and those around her, including her students in school.  Following in her footsteps, both her children went on to become teachers as well.    Sadly, Shirley’s son, Lenny, predeceased her in 2015.   

Shirley has had many hobbies and loved to be busy.   She was an avid sewer and often made matching outfits for the family.  Music was also a huge part of her life.  There was always a song in her heart which bubbled out of her in the form of singing and whistling.    She also taught herself to play the piano and accordion.  Her poetry was loved by all as well!  Traveling was another highlight in her life.  When the children were young, the family would pack up the camper van and head off on adventures, often to attend various Christian camps and conferences.  They also drove across the country and visited most of the 50 states.   Having family in Charlotte, NC also meant many trips south and many cherished memories with several generations of the family gathered round the dinner table.  Shirley and Eddie also enjoyed many bus tours with Christian groups, an Alaskan cruise, and many beach visits to the Jersey Shore and Myrtle Beach. She led a blessed life, indeed. 

Shirley is survived by her beloved husband of sixty-one years; Edmund of Newton, NJ, their daughter, Lisa MacMoyle and her husband Glenn of Blairstown, NJ.  Shirley also is survived by her sister, Sandi Weimer and her husband Harry, her sister-in-law, Helen Skaling (widow of Dennis), and many nieces and nephews.  Shirley was predeceased by her son, Lenard Rink, her brother Dennis and her brother Robert.   

Shirley Rink

Columbia
January 18, 2024

Our dear Rolande Liautaud sadly passed away on Wednesday, January 17, 2024, at the age of 98. Rolande was born in Croix des Bouquets Haiti on June 17,1925, to the late Charles Liautaud and Olivia Decopin. She migrated to the US in 1983. 

Rolande was loving, caring, devoted to her family, and always willing to speak her mind. She was very caring and empathetic, but also assertive when something was not right. She enjoyed cooking and was always ready to nourish you with a meal. She was a wonderful mother who was always there when her family needed her. She was more than happy to be the central figure in the lives of her children and grandchildren. 

Rolande was a beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, and she will be deeply missed by her family and friends. 

She is survived by her daughters Yolette Muse Salvi and husband Sugandh Salvi, Margarett Muse Pierre and husband Wesner Pierre, her son Djeams Muse and wife Ilegna Almonte Muse, and six grandchildren: Shirley Salvi, Samuel Salvi and wife Chloe Crider Salvi, Jennifer Pierre and husband Michael Schramm, Stephanie Pierre and husband Jomari Picazo, Alex Michael Muse and Jehyleni Monegro Muse. She was predeceased by her husband Raoul Muse and son Raoul Junior Muse. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Catherine of Bologna Church of Ringwood NJ would be greatly appreciated.

Rolande Liautaud

Oakland
January 17, 2024

Dr. Fabian D. Cordova, D.D.S., age 92 originally from Quito Ecuador, but living in NJ since 1964, passed peacefully after an unexpected sudden illness and complications, on Tuesday 1/16/24. He was surrounded by his family and closest friends, in the ICU. Other than these last critical days, Fabian lived fully, actively, even driving to get his haircut 2 weeks ago. He stayed out on New Year’s Eve past midnight to celebrate with friends.

Dr. Cordova and family settled in Wayne in 1970, and loved his homes, after first arriving in Paterson. He was not only a family man and gentleman, but a highly-respected professional. He owned a private dental practice and home in Queens, NY and worked well past the age of retirement. He was very active in the Spanish-American Medical-Dental Association, as well as other Ecuadorian cultural and educational organizations. 

Fabian Demetrio was born to Marco & Judith in Quito in 1931. He was a proud alumni of the Mejia School, and later the Central University of Dentistry in Ecuador, He enrolled in the Ecuadorian army as a ranking Lieutenant officer, serving as a dentist. He had many stories about his time serving, and the remote places he would be sent. He also co-owned a dental practice in Quito. Eventually he would sell his share in order to start over in the United States. He would lead a fight to reform acceptance of credentials from overseas universities, but first had to study all over again at SUNY, the State University of New York. He participated in fraternal societies there. He eventually bought an investment home & office in Queens, where he would commute 6 days a week from Wayne.

Fabian came from a large Catholic family with many traditions. His parents had 12 children who lived into adulthood. All siblings in order from oldest to youngest: Martha (+), Hugo (+), Maria (+), Beatriz (+), Marco, Fabian (+), Fabiola (+), Fausto (+), Regina (+), Anita, Guillermina, Elba, Yolanda, and Jose (+). Plus his sisters and brothers-in-law, and many nieces and nephews on the Cordova side. 

He married Leny Susana Delgado in Quito, after having admired her from afar for many years. He was immediately embraced by her family and close to everyone. His in-laws Laura & Pedro, and Leny’s siblings: Coca, Peter, Fernando, Lupe, their spouses and many nieces and nephews.

After retirement, as a couple, Fabian & Leny have remained socially & culturally active, as well as always in touch with family and friends, both here and abroad.

Fabian was a very talented painter and attended weekly classes when possible, as well as having received awards of recognition for his art.
They also took care of themselves by taking walks, stretching, and doing some home exercises. He enjoyed music, dancing, reading, chess, drinks & sweets! He loved company and remembering the past,
He was always meticulous in his appearance and presentation. Generous and kind; a true gentleman.

The home he loved the most on Tall Oaks Drive, allowed him time in the garden & yard. Observing and feeding the birds. Looking at the deer and other creatures, as well as his backyard full of trees. He was proud of his home and entertaining guests. 

He sensed the achievement of the family he built with his wife Leny, son Peter, daughter Eleana, and later grandson Damon and daughter-in-law Barbara. As well as close friends who were like family. He always kept his family in Ecuador close to his heart and looked forward to future encounters. 

Fabian & Leny spent the last year in a smaller apartment, to simplify life and be close neighbors to their daughter. They were together every day. During the last 2 years of health crises with his wife, he was very affected by any time of separation. Their love is eternal.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Operation Smile would be greatly appreciated.  When making a donation please acknowledge that the donation is in memory of Fabian Cordova.

Fabian Cordova

Wayne
January 16, 2024

Elinor Russo, age 98, of Wayne, passed into eternal life, with the comfort of family by her side, on Tuesday, January 16, 2024, after a brief illness.

Elinor was born in Paterson, NJ to Maria (D’Angelo) & Vincenzo Mastrobuoni, the third of six children, on October 30, 1925.

After graduating from Central High School, Elinor went to work at Meyer Brothers department store in Paterson.  A few years later she met her husband, Carmine. They dated for a few years and were married in 1955.

Elinor enjoyed being home raising her children, had a passion for cooking, and loved taking care of her cats. She was a loving wife for 46 years before Carmine passed in 2001. In her later years, up until she was in her mid-eighties, she enjoyed taking long walks.

Elinor is survived by two sisters, Norma & Gloria, two sons, Chris, and his wife Marianne, Tom, and his wife Robin, 4 grandchildren, and 2 great grandchildren.

Elinor Russo

Wayne
January 16, 2024

Katharine Eich, age 84 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 15, 2024. 

Born to Edward and Helen Kern, Katharine was brought up in Brooklyn, NY where she attended Bushwick High School. Being the beautiful girl that Katharine was, she began getting into fashion and modeling where she would often participate in different modeling contests and gigs. Once she graduated from high school, Katharine attended Barbizon Modeling and Acting School in Manhattan, NY while continuing to pursue a modeling career. After graduating from Barbizon, Katharine received a job as a receptionist for the banquet department at the Sheraton-Astor Hotel on Broadway. Katharine’s desk was in the lobby of the hotel and her beautiful face was often one of the very first things you would see upon entering the building. Katharine maintained working at the hotel and modeling on the side for around two years, before marrying her husband John. 

While planning for her and John’s wedding, Katharine’s father, Edward, unexpectedly passed away leading to a change in their plans for marriage. Katharine and John decided to forgo the planning and wed as soon as possible. Katharine and John traveled to Elkton, MD to be wed as the town was famously known as the Marriage Capital of the East Coast back in the day, due to their short waiting period for a marriage license. The couple were first wed in a civil ceremony in August of 1957 and around a year later, celebrated their nuptials again in a larger ceremony in Queens, NY with friends and family. 

Katharine was an amazing homemaker and loving mother to her three boys, Edward, John III, and James. The boys were raised in Katharine and John’s first home together on Long Island, in Levittown, NY. Katharine was extremely active with her boys, whether it was taking them to the local pool to swim and race, to working in their schools cafeterias, to volunteering at various school functions; she was very hands on. Katharine was filled with compassion for those around her, extremely trustworthy, and loyal. Her boys knew they could go to their mother for anything, problems, aspirations, or just guidance and she would provide it to the best of her ability. Katharine was also a very good friend, in fact she maintained contact with her high school friends and would continually write letters to them over the years. 

After moving to New Jersey in the ‘70s, Katharine and John became involved in their townhouses homeowner association for many years. Katharine specifically worked on what they called the Beautification Committee where she oversaw the landscaping and would make recommendations for improving the visual appeal of the townhouses. Katharine was also very involved with St. Mary’s Church where she sang in the choir for almost 40 years and absolutely loved it. Monday night choir rehearsals and the conclusion of mass usually resulted in the choir group and friends reconvening at the diner over coffee. Katharine had a true love and appreciation for the friends she made while in the choir as they were a very tight-knit group. Katharine and John would even host the annual choir Christmas party at their house. St. Mary’s Church holds a special place in Katharine's heart, not only did she meet a wonderful group of friends there, her two sons, Edward and James, were married there, Katharine and John renewed their vows there on their 20th, 30th, 50th, and 60th wedding anniversary, and their grandson, Sean, was christened at St. Mary’s.

Katharine and John also enjoyed traveling around the world and would often take trips to Europe. From the five different times they visited Europe, they were able to see over sixteen countries during their travels. Katharine and John made promises to their children to take them to Europe once they had been married for one year, and so on two of their visits to Europe they were able to enjoy the trip with their sons and daughter-in-laws. Katharine and John also got to experience living in Hong Kong for a little under half a year and both enjoyed their experiences there immensely. Katharine loved visiting unique places on their travels and one of the locations she loved to frequent was the Olympic Hotel for afternoon tea in Macau, China. Katharine and John were able to explore around China and Singapore while living over there, and they made sure to stop and visit Hawaii on the way back home to New Jersey.

Katharine is survived by her beloved husband John, her three sons Edward, John III, and James, her grandson, Sean, and her great granddaughter, Hunter-Laine. She was predeceased by her parents Edwards and Helen Kern. 

Katharine A. Eich

Wayne
January 15, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Mary Siniscalchi (nee Hall), age 52, of Wayne, NJ.

Mary passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Monday, January 15, 2024 at her home in Wayne, NJ.  She was the only daughter and youngest of four children to Harold and Marie Hall and was a life-long resident of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne.  While growing up in Wayne, Mary participated in a variety of sports, her favorite being soccer.  She attended Wayne Valley high School and graduated with the class of 1989.  Following her high school graduation, Mary found employment quickly with Jan Fence in Wayne.  She began working at Jan Fence answering the phones.  Later she was transferred to the accounting department, then eventually became office manager.  After twenty years or so, Mary left Jan Fence and accepted a position as a bookkeeper with Malanga’s Automotive in Riverdale, NJ.  Mary worked there for about two years until her passing.  

After dedicating many years to her professional career, Mary decided to embark on a new chapter by enrolling in college later in life. Her decision to pursue higher education demonstrated a profound commitment to personal growth.  Despite the challenges that often accompany returning to academia as a mature student, Mary's determination and resilience was greatly inspiring. 

In 1991, Mary’s brother introduced her to a handsome young man by the name of Mark Siniscalchi.  The two hit it off great and started dating.  The couple dated for several years and as fate would have it, they exchanged wedding vows on September 3,1999 at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne and became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in their hometown of Wayne and have been there ever since.  While residing in Wayne they welcomed the birth of their two children Nicholas and Madison “Madi”.  

Mary was a compassionate soul with an unwavering love for animals, specifically the Boxer breed of dogs. Her deep connection with these four-legged companions led her to dedicate her time and energy to a meaningful cause. Mary became a devoted volunteer at a Jacquet Boxer in Oakland, New Jersey where she could actively contribute to the well-being and care of these lovable canines.  She worked there alongside her mother and her husband as well.  

Aside from all of Mary’s hobbies, talents, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Mary than providing for and spending time with her friends and family.  Mary and Mark cherished nearly twenty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Mary was a wonderfully funny and social person who loved entertaining friends and family especially for the holidays of Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve.  She was often selfless to a fault, constantly thinking of the needs of others before her own.  She was also an extraordinary cook, able to prepare any dish or recipe given to her.

Mary will be forever remembered as a devoted wife and mother. She touched the lives of many people and will be truly missed by everyone that knew her.  

Mary is survived by her husband Mark Siniscalchi of Wayne, her son Nicholas Siniscalchi of Wayne, her daughter Madison Siniscalchi of Wayne, her mother Marie Hall of Wayne, three brothers: Kevin Hall and his wife Denise of Albuquerque, NM, Jim Hall and his wife Debra of Boca Raton, FL, and John Hall and his wife Danielle of Morristown, NJ, seven nieces; Marisol, Miranda, Bella, Samara, Jordan, Victoria, and Melissa, two nephews; Dillon, and Devon, three great nephews Gage, Christopher, and Cole, and one great niece Scarlett .  She was predeceased by her father Harold Hall.  

Those who wish to make a donation in Mary’s name are asked to consider Friends of Wayne Animals, PO Box 3701, Wayne NJ 07470.

Mary E. Siniscalchi

Wayne
January 15, 2024

Ernest Peter Boniface, age 98, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday, January 14, 2024 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Ernie was born in 1925 to Ida Bonifacio (nee Ossi) and Peter Bonifacio.  In 1962, like many immigrants to America from Italy and other lands, they made a small change in their name to assimilate to their adopted land.

Ernie did not like formal schooling and received permission from his parents to quit school in his freshman year of high school.  He soon saw an opportunity to volunteer in the Navy, and with his parents’ blessing, he did so.  He celebrated his 18th birthday in the North Atlantic seasick.  He was assigned to the USS Core, a baby flat top aircraft carrier, which rattled and creaked making you think you were not on a solid ship.  His ship was part of a greater fleet of ships including destroyers escorting convoys of cargo ships laden with supplies for the war effort crossing the Atlantic to Europe.  His early assignment was to scan the water’s surface to spot German submarines.  The German’s succeeded in sinking 650,000 tons of these supplies along with seamen.  Ernie’s convoy successfully got through at least two times.  He also worked in the ship’s sheet metal shop and the electrical department honing his skills that proved beneficial in the future. 

In his youth, Ernie developed a very industrious nature and had many jobs wherever he could make a dollar.  Among his many jobs was sheet metal forming, newspaper delivery, auto sales and as a caddie where he developed his love of golf. 

A most wonderful thing enriched his life when he met his future wife, Margie Menk, at a community dance.  He and Margie planned and built their first home on Grieves Terrace in Wayne.  While working full time, he managed to finish that home in one year.  Their marriage produced six children, 16 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren.  In April, they would have been married 75 years.

His first serious career move was with the sheet metal workers union where he was elected Business Manager.  Partnering with Art Udland they established Bonland Sheet Metal Company eventually building a facility in Wayne.  Ernie was a visionary not afraid to innovate and bring refinements and technology to sheet metal work.  He was the first to describe sheet metal using numbers instead of pictures enabling the use of computers to advance their product manufacturing.  An interesting aside to this story is that Ernie would sit at his kitchen table with Margie using his new system folding paper simulating sheet metal to make sure his idea worked back at the shop.  As time went on, Ernie bought out Art and took over all management until his retirement when his sons took over management.

Ernie joined the Wayne Rotary Club.  During his membership he headed the Polio Plus Fund Drive exceeding the success of other Rotary Clubs in North Jersey.  Because of these efforts, polio was eradicated in much of the world.

Among his many adventures in life, Ernie took an interest in aviation after taking a introductory flight in 1959.  As time went on, he earned his pilot’s license eventually earning his instrument rating.  Margie was often a passenger … Ernie often said a very brave one!  As a couple, they had several scary incidents but also a multitude of wonderful flying experiences.  Later in life, they would winter in Vero Beach, Florida flying their own Mooney airplane.

Surviving are:  His wife, Margaret, his daughter Cathy Hecht (Bill predeceased), his son Bill (Debbie), his son Andy (Cyndi), his son Joe (Darlene), his daughter Jackie McKennon (John), 16 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren.  Also surviving are his sister, Louise and his brothers Peter (Dolores) and Tom (Sigrid) and many nieces and nephews.  Ernie was predeceased by his son Paul (Marisa), his sister Theresa, his brothers Rudy and Lenny, grandson, Larry, and his great grandson Callen.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital or VNA & Hospice Foundation, 920 37th Place #101, Vero Beach, FL 32960 and would be greatly appreciated by the family.

If you are unable to join us for the Funeral Mass, on Saturday, you are invited to join virtually on this livestream link before the Mass.this livestream link before the Mass.

Ernest Peter Boniface

Wayne
January 14, 2024

David La Manna Jr, age 76, of Wayne passed Sunday, January 14, 2024, after a long illness.

David was born to David Sr and Marie La Manna (Sander) and graduated from Clifton High School in 1965 David played on the football team and was also in the marching band.

David served in the United Sates Navy during the Vietnam Conflict from 1965-1967 on various ships in the Atlantic Fleet. Upon his return he moved to Wayne where he resided until his death. David enjoyed sports especially the Giants and Yankees. He always loved HS football and continued to follow the Clifton Mustangs. David worked as a salesman for various companies retiring from Verizon in the late 90’s.

David is survived by his Son Anthony and His wife Tesla from Hewitt. Ex Wife Susan from Wayne, Sister Laura Alejandro and her husband Peter from West Milford along with his beloved grandchildren Sara, Andreas, Alexis and Gianni La Manna. David was predeceased by his parents David and Marie La Manna and his grandson Anthony Jr.

Donations can be made in memory to the Upper Greenwood Lake Volunteer Fire Company Hewitt, NJ.

David LaManna

Wayne
January 14, 2024

Margaret (Margie) Werns passed away peacefully at the age of 95 on January 13, 2024 in Pompton Plains NJ, where she resided for the last 17 years. Born in Brooklyn, NY she grew up there with her mother and two sisters. While attending Bishop McDonnell High School she expressed her love of music by playing the saxophone for their marching band. 

For 52 years she was a loving wife to William Werns until he passed in 2006. Together on Staten Island they raised their 8 children. Peggy, Joseph, Mary, Theresa, Kathleen, Liz, Will and Elayne. She is also survived by her 17 grandchildren Nick, Laura, Parker, Joshua, Christina, Thomas, Brian, Sean, Meghan, Veronica, Rebecca, James, Jessica, Krista, Dexter, Scarlett and Dylan and 2 great grandchildren Liam and Eloise. 

She passed on to her children an extensive and diverse amount of knowledge; from how to read music, to the importance of reading museum information cards as well as how to make rubber bands from old rubber gloves. As a life-long learner she passed on the value of an education, the love of travel, staying curious and the importance of family. 

She leaves a legacy of how to live a Christian life, of standing up for your values and how to follow your moral compass. 

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Margie Werns' name are asked to consider Catholic Relief or the Fresh Air Fund 

Margaret C. Werns

Pompton Plains
January 13, 2024

Alice Marie DeYoung, 102 years old, passed away peacefully on Friday, January 12, 2024 at the Christian Healthcare Center in Wyckoff, NJ. She had lived in Wayne for many years prior to 2020.

Alice grew up in Clifton, NJ as the eldest girl among the seven children in her family. As a young woman during war time, Alice took on the responsibility of raising her younger siblings. This forged a very loving and life-long bond between Alice and her siblings, especially her sisters; Pearl (Densel) and Marie (Hooper). In her professional life, Alice was a nurse for an obstetrician’s office, and then later for an Internist. She loved her job as a nurse and worked into her early 80’s, reluctant to ever really retire.

Throughout the years, Alice enjoyed summer vacations at the Jersey Shore, and as a child she fondly recalled spending summers in New Hampshire with her family. She was an active volunteer in her church’s Ladies Lois Circle. In her elder years, Alice remained physically active, walking daily around her neighborhood, and walking the local mall during inclement weather. Once she moved to Christian Health, whether with a walker or eventually in a wheelchair, Alice ‘walked’ the halls daily chatting with all the staff.

Alice was devoted to her family and was very involved in the lives of her cherished nieces and nephews. For Alice, life was always about caring for others - she was truly a selfless person. Her family is grateful for the love and kindness she shared with them throughout so many years together. They will all miss her dearly.

Alice was a lifelong parishioner of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes. She is survived by her two sisters; Pearl Densel of North Haledon, and Marie Hooper of Dover, and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and countless loving friends. She was predeceased by her four brothers; S. Peter DeYoung, Marinus (“Bud”) DeYoung, Cornelius DeYoung, and John VanDer Sluys.

In lieu of flowers, Alice’s family asks that donations be made in her memory to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Rd., Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Alice Marie DeYoung

Wycoff
January 12, 2024

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Alfred J. Nevoso, age 44 of Bloomfield, NJ.

Alfred passed away suddenly and unexpectedly at his home on Wednesday, January 10, 2024.

Alfred was born in Paterson, NJ and was raised in Wayne.  He was the older of two sons to Carl and Susan Nevoso.  Those who came to know Alfred best affectionately referred to him as “Al.”  While growing up in Wayne, Al attended DePaul High School where he was a member of the Varsity Track and Field team, as well as the Varsity Cross Country Team.  Following his graduation from high school in 1997, Al furthered his education at Monmouth University.  After three years at Monmouth University he transferred to William Paterson University where he received his Bachelor Degree in Finance in 2001. Those closest to him would argue that his degree was in ‘ crushing ass’. 

Upon earning his Bachelor Degree, Al found employment quickly at Hennion and Walsh Investments located in Parsippany, NJ.  Al worked there for over twenty years until accepting a position in finance at Equitable Advisors.  After approximately one year, Al accepted another position as a registered representative  with New York Life Insurance in Edison, NJ.  Al held his position at NY Life until his passing. During his career in finance, Al was truly well respected and well loved by his colleagues and peers. 

Al settled in Pompton Lakes for a time, and while residing there, he welcomed the birth of his only daughter, Isabella.  Shortly after the birth of Al’s daughter, the family moved to Bloomfield where he would reside until his passing.  

Al, a dedicated individual with a passion for fitness, embarked on a journey to maintain his physical well-being. With an unwavering commitment to a healthy lifestyle, he incorporated various exercise techniques into his routine. From cardiovascular activities like running and cycling to strength training exercises such as weightlifting and calisthenics, Al embraced versatility in his workouts. Al reveled in the diversity of his exercise routine, sculpting not just his physique but also fostering a balanced and resilient approach to overall health.

It was clear that Al’s greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Al than providing for and spending time with his daughter Isabella.  Throughout the years, Al was a pillar of strength for his daughter, devoting his life to her.  Al and Isabella cherished their yearly vacations to Disney World in Florida.  Al was not only dedicated to his daughter, but also to his Catholic Faith.  he was a parishioner of St Thomas the Apostle Church in Bloomfield for many years.  

Al often kept his personal life very private, however he loved being the life of the party as well.  His infectious personality would light up any room he walked into.  Al will forever be remembered as a devoted father, son, and brother.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him. 

Al is survived by his daughter Isabella Nevoso of Lincoln Park, NJ, his mother Susan Nevoso of Pompton Lakes, NJ, his brother Christopher (Topher) Nevoso and his wife Lina of Avon, OH, his nephew Oliver Nevoso of Avon, OH, and his niece Clara Nevoso of Avon, OH, and many extended loving family members.  He was predeceased by his father Carl Nevoso in 2013.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Alfred’s name may be made to the American Diabetes Association, PO Box 15829, Arlington, VA 22215 

Alfred Nevoso

Bloomfield
January 10, 2024

Edward DiPatria, age 95, a resident of Wayne for sixty-four years, passed Sunday, January 7, 2024.

He was born in Paterson to Arturo and Emma DiPatria and moved to the Lionshead Lake section of Wayne in 1960.

He attended the Central High School in Paterson before enlisting in the United States Army on March 12, 1946 at the age of seventeen.  For his service in the Army, Ed was awarded the World War II Victory medal and the Army of Occupation Medal-Japan. He was stationed in Okinawa, Japan before departing to participate in the reconstruction of Pearl Harbor. He was honorably discharged from the Army as they were “demobilizing.”  He returned home and received his G.E.D.  He soon re-enlisted and served during the Korean War.  During his service in Korea he was assigned to a POW camp. 

Ed’s working years started as a letter carrier at the United States Post Office in Paterson. After injuring his knee, he transitioned from a letter carrier to Territory Supervisor for Garden State Farms throughout Bergen and Passaic Counties. After the company dissolved,  his career led him to Urban National Bank in Franklin Lakes. Ed stayed with the bank as it was acquired and changed names through the years before retiring in 1992.

Ed will be lovingly remembered as a dedicated family man who, much to everyone’s frustration, refused to get hearing aids. He was also famous for saying “Do First What You'll Have To Do Last.”  He was fastidious about his home, painting rooms inside innumerable times, cleaning gutters, trimming bushes, and cutting the meticulous lawn.  He was always active! Ed was also dedicated to his Wayne community and for over thirty years he volunteered at the Wayne P.A.L. where he served  wherever needed.  He eventually served as a Trustee for several of those years.  Through his years at the Wayne PAL, he always looked forward to monthly breakfasts with his PAL associates.  He also looked forward to meeting with friends for breakfast at the McDonald’s restaurant in Wayne. Ed was also politically active and volunteered on numerous campaigns, from school elections to the State Senate. In retirement, he became a Poll Worker, which he thoroughly enjoyed. 

Ed’s years of volunteering at the Wayne PAL also helped him find love a second time in life.  His first wife Irene passed away in 1983 and he dedicated his time to volunteering.  It was at a Wayne PAL Bingo game that he met who was to be his second wife, Dottie.  After a dinner date and several more, Ed asked Dottie  to marry him.  On one occasion he had purchased a beautiful ring and said “I’m going to ask you one more time – will you marry me?” Dottie said “yes”, and they were married on May 21, 1988.  They have had a wonderful marriage of thirty-five years.

Ed was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him. He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Ed is survived by his devoted wife Dottie, two sons, Scott (Laura) DiPatria and Herman (Lynn) Imperatore. One daughter, Darnell Chuck. Five grandchildren, Heather Imperatore, Zachary DiPatria, Richard Chuck, Michael Chuck and Dylan Chuck. His beloved nephew and niece,  Michael DiPatria and Pam Pugh.

He was predeceased by his first wife, Irene. Sons Edward J DiPatria, George Imperatore and son-in-law Edward Chuck. 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne P.A.L., 1 PAL Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated. 

Edward DiPatria

Wayne
January 7, 2024

Vilma Fabbro of Pompton Plains, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away on January 6, 2024. She was 93 years old. 

Vilma was the daughter of Sante and Marguerite Marcolina and was born and raised in the Chestnut Hill section of Philadelphia. She graduated from Germantown High School in 1947 and went on to attend Pierce Business School. Vilma worked for several years as an executive secretary. In 1964 Vilma began taking classes at William Paterson University where she earned her teaching degree and graduated cum laude in 1972. She taught for several years at Our Lady of Consolation School. Eventually she returned to secretarial work at GAF Corporation in Wayne where she worked until her retirement. 

Vilma married her husband Aldo in 1953 and they share an enduring marriage of 63 years until Aldo’s death in 2016. They built a home and a life in Wayne where they raised their three children. Vilma was an excellent cook and baker and hosted many holiday meals and dinner parties for family and friends. She valued her Northern Italian roots and her family above all. Each of her grandchildren has treasured the memory of learning to make traditional gnocchi and ravioli alongside their Nonni Vilma also loved to read and kept her mind sharp with daily crossword puzzles and other word games. She enjoyed weekly Canasta games with her friends at Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ where she lived the past seven years. 

Vilma leaves behind her three children, Richard Fabbro of White Plains, NY, Janet Pescinski (Bob) of Hillsborough, NJ and Suzanne Knezick (Don) of Columbus, NJ. She also leaves behind her seven beloved grandchildren: Adriana, Rebecca, Tom, Janina, Steve, Krystian, and Marcus as well as two great-grandchildren Graham and Emilia. 

Memorial contribution in Vilma's name to the Glioblastoma Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Vilma Fabbro

Pompton Plains
January 6, 2024

Teresita Ordaniel, age 87 of Wayne, passed away on Friday, January 5, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Iloilo, Philippines to Cesar and Consejo Penafort, Teresita’s journey was a difficult one that would shape her into the strong willed, faithful woman she became. At just 3 years old, Teresita became an orphan after the untimely passing of her mother. She moved around to several different relative’s homes in the Philippines. At 18 years old she was married to Eduardo Ordaniel and became a mother and homemaker.

Teresita was blessed with 6 children: 3 boys and 3 girls. Although raising 6 children was a full-time job, Teresita found the will to work hard for her family adding income with her efforts as a seamstress. They were raised in the Philippines but in February of 1992, Teresita’s daughter moved to the United States and petitioned for her to join her.

She worked in Portland, Oregon as a babysitter until she earned a job at the Shilo Inn as a room service cleaner to make her American Dream come true. Teresita worked so hard for her family so they could all come to the United States as well. She was the kind of person who would do anything to help them. Her family remarked that she was instrumental in making sure they all had great aspirations and she was known for pushing all of them to pursue higher education to earn degrees.

Family and faith were the cornerstones of Teresita’s life. She was devoted to her church and even in her elder years when she had chronic health issues, she found a way to attend weekly mass through EWTN on TV.

Teresita loved to travel with her family. Some of the destinations she went to include Niagara Falls, Portland Maine, Washington DC, Orlando, Lake George, Boston, and Vancouver. She enjoyed these trips most with her family at her side. Teresita will be remembered as a strict but loving and caring woman who always pushed you to be your best version of yourself. She was feisty, strong-willed, traditional, and conservative. She always had an opinion and wasn’t afraid to speak her mind. Her love for her family and her strong relationship with God gave her the strength to lead an incredible life that’s led to the prosperity of her kids and now her grandkids as well.

Teresita P. Ordaniel

Wayne
January 5, 2024

Mildred “Milly” Florek, 91, of Wayne passed away peacefully on January 4, 2024. 

She is the daughter of the late Caroline and Anton Wolos of Clifton.  After graduation from Clifton High School, Milly worked as a secretary at Curtiss Wright Corporation.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 68 years, Joe (2021).  She leaves behind her daughter Dawn and husband Kevin Healey of Wayne; grandchildren, Christopher and wife Rebecca (Ainscow) Healey of North Andover, MA and Jonathan and his wife Melissa (Baroni) Healey of Medford, MA.  She also leaves four great-grandchildren and her rescue dog, Suzy.

 She will always be in our hearts.

Mildred Florek

Wayne
January 4, 2024

In Memoriam: Remembering Carmen Elisa Del Rio (October 3, 1922 – January 2, 2024)

With heavy hearts, we bid farewell to a beloved matriarch, Carmen Del Rio, who peacefully passed away on January 2, 2024, at the age of 101, while receiving the loving care of her family. 

Carmen left an indelible mark on the world with her fiery spirit, infectious sense of humor, unyielding strength, and resilience. She was born and raised in Bogota, Colombia, and was the only child of Guillermo and Anna Maria Rodriguez. Carmen graduated from a local high school and worked for several years locally as a young woman.

Carmen’s early years in Bogotá were the foundation for a life filled with adventure and purpose. In pursuit of her dreams and recognizing the vast potential for women, she secured a position with the Spanish embassy in Spain as a nanny in 1961. Her work there revealed her innate kindness and nurturing personality toward children, igniting a passion for exploration and cultural exchange.

In 1964, Carmen made a bold and life-altering decision to immigrate to the United States. Fueled by a vision of better opportunities for women and a desire to contribute her talents to a new land, she embarked on a journey that would shape the destiny of her daughter, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Her arrival in the U.S. began a chapter of resilience, adaptability, and an unyielding desire to succeed.

Upon arrival, Carmen settled in the Bronx and found employment quickly as a needlewoman in the garment section of New York City. She would work as a seamstress for the next twenty-five years and become a member of the Handbag Novelty Workers Union. She retired thirty-six years ago in 1987.

Carmen’s determination knew no bounds. After establishing herself in her new home, she petitioned for her daughter and grandchildren to join her in the United States. Her unwavering commitment to family reunification was a testament to her selflessness and the profound love that fueled her every action. The day her daughter and grandchildren arrived marked a joyous reunion, and Carmen’s home became a sanctuary of love, warmth, and the shared dreams of a united family. Her sacrifices and tenacity laid the foundation for a new chapter in their lives, filled with the promise of opportunities and embracement of a supportive community. From that day on she was affectionately called “Abuelita” by everyone.

Carmen’s greatest joy was found in the warmth of her family. She cooked wonderful meals with affection and care. Carmen’s love and devotion to her family, particularly her role as a beloved grandmother, were the cornerstones of her life. Her home was a haven of warmth, laughter, and cherished memories as she poured boundless care upon her grandchildren. There are fond memories of her taking her grandchildren to Woolworths and treating them to hamburger platters and milkshakes.

Carmen’s ability to bridge the gap between cultures and generations created a legacy of unity and strength. Her wisdom, compassion, and nurturing spirit became the foundation upon which her family thrived. Through her selfless acts of love, Carmen ensured her family’s success and became a guiding light for others in their pursuit of happiness. Carmen lived with her family in Queens, New York, and in 1975, she moved to Paramus, NJ, with her grandchildren and commuted to New York City every day. Later she also lived in Davie, Florida, for over twenty years.

Carmen was a zoophilist, and her affection for animals was a defining aspect of her character. Her love extended beyond her human companions as she found joy and solace in the company of feathered and furry friends. Carmen’s daily routine included a special ritual that endeared her to the pigeons who frequented her path.

After a day’s work in New York City, Carmen would disembark from the bus, and like clockwork, a flock of pigeons would eagerly await her arrival. With a heart full of kindness and affection, Carmen would share her afternoon with her feathered companions, feeding them with a tenderness that reflected her innate compassion. The bond she formed with the animals was a testament to her gentle spirit and the universal language of love that transcends species.

Carmen’s connection with the pigeons symbolizes the kindness and love she radiated to everyone she encountered. Her daily interactions with the birds reflected her ability to find joy in simple moments and foster connections with the world around her. The pigeons, in turn, became her loyal companions, following her in a harmonious dance that spoke volumes about the love she shared.

Carmen is survived by her daughter Blanca Pacini of Wayne, three grandchildren; Lucy Pacini of Wayne, Nestor Tatis and his wife Suzanne of Rivervale, NJ, and Luis Pacini of Sincelejo, Colombia; eight great-grandchildren; Joseph D’Alleman, Adriana D’Alleman, Isabella D’Alleman, Viviana D’Alleman, Jessica Tatis, and Jordan Tatis, Natassia Pacini Rojas, Talissa Pacini, and one great-great-grandchild Alana Rojas.

Farewell to our beloved and beautiful Abuelita. We miss you.

Donations in Carmen’s name may be made to the ASPCA, www.aspca.org

Carmen Del Rio

Wayne
January 2, 2024

Anne Zaher, age 87, of Pequannock and formerly of Lincoln Park, NJ, passed unexpectedly on Monday, January 1, 2024.

Anne was born in 1936 and was raised in Philadelphia, PA. She was the daughter of Robert and Marie (Chancler) Evans. She attended the Little Flower Catholic School in Philadelphia, PA and later worked at the U.S. Navy Shipyard.

While on vacation in Florida, Anne met a fine young gentleman named Ronald Zaher.  They hit it off and, as fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on October 8, 1960.  Anne and Ronald relocated to Lincoln Park, New Jersey where they raised their four sons.

Every Saturday, Anne loved going to breakfast with her friends at the diner in Lincoln Park.

Anne is survived by her four sons: Robert (Sue), Michael, Mark and Thomas (Mary) Zaher; and two grandchildren: Christine (Anthony) and Tommy Zaher. She was predeceased by her husband Ronald Zaher and her brothers Robert, Larry and Gerald Evans.  

Anne Zaher

Pequannock
January 1, 2024

Rose Allessio (née Corrado), the centenarian matriarch of the Allessio family, born June 19, 1922 at 20 Ellison Street, Paterson, NJ, died peacefully in the early evening, surrounded by family at her bedside, December 29, 2023, in North Haledon, NJ. She was 101.

Beloved daughter, sister, aunt, wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother, Rose shepherded multiple generations over the course of a century through her example of sacrifice, beneficence, and piety. Rose was the eldest born to parents Pietro Corrado and Domenica Corrado (née D’Amelio). Rose was the first in her family born in the United States of America after her parents had recently emigrated from Sala Consilina in the province of Salerno, Italy. Her sister Jennie Belluardo (née Corrado), brothers James Corrado and Anthony Corrado, followed.

Raised in Hawthorne, NJ, Rose’s outlet from a young age was the library, fostering her lifelong passion for reading. She also possessed a particular proclivity for calculating numbers. Recognizing her own talent, she enrolled as a young woman in a night school course for bookkeeping. The initiative resulted in early opportunities in accounting departments, and later, allowed her to play a pivotal role in family businesses.

She married her husband, Joseph Allessio, on June 15, 1946. Their first date was at the movie theater. They eventually settled on 32nd Street in Fair Lawn, NJ where they raised three children. Rose relocated to Elmwood Park, NJ before becoming a longtime resident of Wayne, NJ, and, finally, North Haledon, NJ.

Rose’s pastimes ranged over the years from photography and developing her own pictures, to traveling throughout the United States upon retirement. She maintained her head for numbers, kept sharp, in part, by her routine of friendly card games. Family was without question her focus. She was a fixture at every gathering, from birthdays, where her ceremonial role was cutting the cake for the children, to every Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year’s Day, and Easter. Each morning began with the Rosary, a prayer recited for each of her grandchildren and great grandchildren.  

Rose is survived by her sons John Allessio (Renée), Robert Allessio (Carol), and her daughter Joanne Lamartino (Salvatore); seven grandchildren: Justin Allessio, Jessica Allessio, Christopher Allessio (Tara), Jenna Daneker (Nicholas), Joseph Allessio (Jennifer), Amanda McClelland (Michael), and Joseph Lamartino (Angelica); and seven great grandchildren: Bruno Allessio, Giada Allessio, Landon McClelland, Lola Allessio, Marco Allessio, Milo Allessio, and Emery McClelland.

Rose Allessio

North Haldon
December 29, 2023

Anthony Joseph Florio

Anthony J. Florio, best known as “Tony”, age 73, of Wayne, NJ passed away on Friday, December 29, 2023.

Tony was born on January 11, 1950, in The Bronx, NY to Joseph and Barbara (Roberts) Florio and raised in Hackensack, NJ.  Growing up, Tony was a very talented roller skater.  Alongside his sister, Theresa, they skated in the American Roller Skating Association and won many medals and awards throughout the years.

Tony was a hardworking man, and would say, “you can’t sit around and wait for things to come to you.  You have to go out there and work for them,” to which he always did.  Tony worked most of his life as a Car Salesman throughout Sussex County.  After retirement he enjoyed keeping busy and hosted for local Italian Restaurants and was a cashier for Target.

While Tony loved many things, he was best known for his love of music, most notably Pink Floyd, a love that he would also pass on to his children.  Tony was a man of many words.  He enjoyed creative writing where his words flowed eloquently and effortlessly.  In one of his last writings, he leaves behind these words, “Try not to be so hard on yourself.  It’s only life after all.  Life is a series of moments linked together offering a road map to your true purpose here… the answer to why.”

Also known as the family comedian, Tony was anything but traditional.  The formality of an obituary would have been incredibly boring and uncreative.  If he could have written this himself, he would have absolutely inserted a joke or two.  He would have said, “Survived by… I’m lucky I made it as long as I did with you people around me.”  He always enjoyed a quick-witted joke like that.

Tony is survived by his three children, Tonimarie and Elizabeth, both of New Jersey, as well as Joseph and his wife Casey of Massachusetts.  He will also be missed by his siblings, Theresa and Ralph, his former wife, Mary, and his three grandchildren: Patrick, JJ, and Arlo.  In addition to his parents, Tony is predeceased by the mother of his children, Patricia in 2012 and grandchild, Anthony in 2011.

And as Tony would say, “Hey, don’t forget to keep a smile.”

Anthony Florio

Wayne
December 29, 2023

November 1, 1930 – December 29, 2023

Ethel Dorothea Holtje Matasker, 93, of Pompton Plains, New Jersey, devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away peacefully on Friday, December 29, 2023.

Ethel was born to the late William Holtje and Regina Maas Holtje in Weehawken, New Jersey. A graduate of Memorial High School in West New York, NJ, Ethel married John Gustav Matasker in 1951. When John returned from service in the Korean War, Ethel and John bought a home in Paramus, NJ, and together, they raised four children.

Ethel worked in the Woodcliff Lake School System for 25 years, first as a secretary in Dorchester School and then as the secretary to the Superintendent of Schools. In 1986, Ethel and John bought a vacation home in Jupiter, Florida, where several of their friends planned to retire. Sadly, Ethel was widowed in 1989. Upon her retirement, Ethel spent winters in Jupiter, along with a group of dear friends from New Jersey who also were snowbirds.

A devout Christian, Ethel was an active member of Paramus Bible Church. Ethel traveled the world with her dear friends, visiting Canada, France, Italy, Morocco, Spain, and the United Kingdom, as well as much of the United States. A gifted seamstress, Ethel was renowned among her family and friends for the beautiful clothing, quilts and crafts she created for others to mark joyous occasions such as weddings, births, and new homes.

Ethel was loved for her buoyant spirit, her sense of humor, and her devotion to God, family and friends. She enjoyed reading, singing and playing guitar. She always said, “If the song fits, sing it!” Ethel also played golf, tennis and bridge, all skills she learned later in life.

Ethel is survived by her daughters Jill (Michael) Vitiello and Carol (Andy) Feinberg and her sons Charles (Cathy) Matasker and William (Debra) Matasker; her grandchildren Melissa (Joseph) Silva, Jessica (Anderson) Taveras, John Feinberg, Dr. Vanessa (Richard) Williams, Daniel (Jessica) Feinberg, Lauren Matasker, Rebecca (Matthew) Dare, Michael Matasker, Alexandra Matasker, Jack Matasker, and Diana Matasker; her great-grandchildren Savannah and Joseph Silva, Dylan Taveras, and Summer Feinberg; and nephews Howard (Marie) Holtje and Thomas Holtje. She is predeceased by her husband, John Matasker; her niece, Holly Holtje Mann; her brother, Howard Holtje, and her mother, Regina Maas Holtje, and her father William Reginald Holtje.

Ethel was respected, admired, and often sought out for her godly wisdom. She was loved by many and will be deeply missed.

Ethel Dorothea Holtje Matasker

Pompton Plains
December 29, 2023

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Charles T. Rainey, age 72 of Wayne, died on Friday, December 29, 2023.

In addition to his wife, Valda, Charlie is survived by his two daughters; Pamela Rogers and her husband Chris of Shrewsbury, NJ, and Adrienne Bertelli and her husband Dan of Hillsdale, NJ, four grandchildren, a stepson; Guntis Embriks of Clifton, and five of his siblings; Eileen Atterbury (John) of Pompton Lakes, John Rainey (Eileen) of Pompton Plains, Margaret Zvalaren (Michael) of Indiana, Kathleen Staub of Florida, and Elizabeth Ann Ettinger (Robert) of Blairstown, NJ. Charlie was predeceased by two of his siblings; Patricia Salvatoriello and Thomas Rainey.

Charles T. Rainey

Wayne
December 28, 2023

John Martin, 59, of Wayne, passed away on Thursday, December 28, 2023 at Morristown Medical Center.

John was born in Paterson on July 2, 1964 and moved to Wayne with his family in 1972.

He attended DePaul Catholic High School (Class of 1982) and graduated from Rutgers College of Engineering in 1986 with a degree in Electrical Engineering. John was heavily involved with the Boys Scouts in his youth and early adulthood.  He was an Eagle Scout and worked at Camp Turrell in New York as the Program Director in the 1980s.

John began his career at All Service Computer Rental where he was Vice President of Operations.  He moved on to various roles in the computer rental/event technology industry and worked for multiple companies including Bergen Audio Visual, Rent Fusion, National Micro Rentals, and Ganton.  He finished his career as a Sales Manager at Access Computer and AV Rentals.

John enjoyed the fast-paced atmosphere of New York City and for a time maintained an office there.  His work events brought him to many restaurants in the tri-state area where he would enthusiastically share detailed food reviews with everyone.  John’s real joy was the flea market business he had for many years with his late parents.  He became a fixture in the flea market community where he befriended many vendors and customers and became the go to expert on local markets.  

John is survived by his brother Don Martin and his wife Mary Sue of Mendham, his sister Ellen Martin and her husband Pete Apruzzese, his sister Barbara Donnelly and her husband Steve, all of Mountain Lakes, and his nieces and nephews, PJ Apruzzese, Patrick and Kelly Martin, and Meaghan and Erin Donnelly.  John was predeceased by his parents Donald Frank Martin (2016) and Doris Grace McKeown Martin (2018).  

John R. Martin

Wayne
December 28, 2023

Rolf Heinrich Henel of Wayne, New Jersey passed away at the age of 86 on December 28, 2023.

Rolf was born on September 2, 1937, in Kingston, Ontario, Canada to Heinrich Edmund Karl Henel and Ingeborg Charlotte Beithan.  Of German descent, the family, including his elder sister Bettina, moved to the United States and Rolf became a U.S. citizen in 1953.

His education included high school and his first two years of college in Madison, Wisconsin, a year of study in Germany beginning in 1954 and completion of his Bachelor of Arts at Yale in 1959 graduating Magna Cum Laude with an Honors Major in Russian Area Studies and a Minor in History.  Rolf received his M.B.A. in Banking and Finance with a Minor in Economics from New York University in 1962.

Rolf had a passion for learning language from living and working around the world.  He enjoyed communicating in many tongues including English, French, German, Italian, Russian and Spanish.

In his professional career he started working in New York in the banking and oil sectors before landing in the pharmaceutical industry in 1966 where he dedicated himself to the balance of his work life.  Beginning as Assistant Treasurer he then rose through the ranks at Pfizer International becoming Treasurer in Brussels, Belgium; General Manager in Teheran, Iran; General Manager in Madrid, Spain and in Rome, Italy.  He then moved to Cyanamid as Managing Director in the United Kingdom and Scandinavia before moving back to the U.S. in 1978 to become Vice President of Medical and then President of the Lederle division at Cyanamid International until his retirement in 1993 at the age of 55.  

Post retirement, Rolf continued to focus his time to healthcare as consultant, board member or volunteer to many organizations including SciClone Pharmaceuticals (Director), Penwest Pharmaceuticals (Director), Naimark & Associates (Partner), Bergen Community Regional Blood Center (Director) and Bergen Volunteer Medical Initiative (Board Chair).  In addition, he was interested in investing and helping with industry associations.  He was the Chairman of the International Section of the Pharmaceutical Manufacturers Association including Far East and European Committees; on the Global Economic Council Executive Committee at the National Planning Association; and the President of the Northern New Jersey Chapter of the American Association of Individual Investors.

Outside of his superiority with business and numbers Rolf had a talent and creative drive most exemplified in his woodworking.  This possibly stemmed from his maternal grandfather, Emil Beithan, who was an accomplished painter in Germany.  He enjoyed this hobby and was very precise and detailed in the pieces he created mainly as gifts for others including furniture, a cross for the church and his famous cork and wood trivets.

Rolf was generous and giving to many.  As a high performer he could also be impatient and self-focused and have high expectations of others.  From living abroad for many years, travelling to all areas of the world also became a passion although a car rental or driver mishap would drive him to drink, which he did enjoy along with an abundance of good food.  He spared no expense throwing decadent parties for himself at milestones in life.  He enjoyed the attention and looked for a laugh from his corny jokes.  Spending time staring at the ocean from his deck at the Jersey shore was also a pleasure.

Rolf overcame multiple health issues over the years and struggled in the last few from onset of dementia and debility of his body.

Rolf is survived by his caring and dedicated wife of 30 years, Emilia (Emily) Henel.  His extended family includes four children from his previous marriage all living in California; Julia Lockwood and husband Tim, Sylvia Henel, Stephen Henel, Carolyn Henel and husband Edward; step-son Ramon Villa and husband Dean of New York; sister Bettina Elliott of Massachusetts; and nine grandchildren Christopher, Malcolm, Catherine, Peter, Joseph, Andrew and August, Alex and Dora Marie.

Rolf H. Henel

Wayne
December 28, 2023

Barbara Irene DiFerdinando, age 84, of Paterson passed peacefully on Thursday, December 28, 2023.

Barbara, a native of Paterson, New Jersey, was born to Layton and Ruth Singer. She is an alumnus of Eastside High School, also located in Paterson.  In 1979, she married Albert DiFerdinando, a valiant WWII veteran. Barbara and Albert, along with Barbara’s parents, shared a warm and welcoming home in Hawthorne, NJ. Their loving home, steeped in their lifelong passion for cooking, served as the epicenter for countless memorable family gatherings.  After the passing of Albert, Barbara found another loving home with her niece, Deborah, and Deborah's children.

Barbara was predeceased not only by her parents, Layton and Ruth Singer, and her husband, Albert, but also by her niece, Deborah.  Her surviving close loving relatives include her nephews James, George, Bob, and their children and grandchildren, her niece Deborah’s children Michael, Katharine and her children, her stepchildren Patricia, Lucille, Anthony, and Albert, her five step-grandchildren, her nine step-great-grandchildren, and her 2 beloved step-great-great-grandchildren, Azraela and Luna.

Barbara began her career at Bamburgers, now known as Macy’s, where she utilized her exceptional interpersonal skills as a salesperson. She then transitioned to Berles Carton Company in Paterson, NJ, broadening her professional experience. Her primary work life was spent at Western Electric Company, a subsidiary of AT&T, located in Kearny, NJ. Barbara was frequently the top performer in her department and a beloved team member.

Barbara, known lovingly as "Aunt Barbara" to so many, was known for her immense love, care, and unwavering devotion to her closest family members throughout her lifetime. Despite not holding a formal nursing degree, she served as a devoted caregiver for many years to her father, her mother, and later her husband, Albert. Barbara held a special place in her heart for her brother-in-law George's family, providing guidance and support to all of them, as well as their children and grandchildren.

Barbara was a woman of strong faith, evidenced by her dedicated attendance at Jacksonville Chapel in Lincoln Park, New Jersey, for over two decades. Beyond attending services, she was a faithful participant in their Bible study, which was held every Sunday morning following the first service. She also supported The Chapel's ministry through consistent and faithful tithing.

Barbara was a truly dedicated member of her community, with involvement in many groups and organizations.  She was a longtime member of the Riverside Veterans organization and served as past president of the ladies auxiliary.  She was an active member of the Wayne Elks ladies auxiliary, and when that organization disbanded she became an active member of the Wayne Elks.  She was a member of the Blessed Sacrament Seniors Group, and Barbara also served as the president of the Golden Circle Seniors Group of Hawthorne up until the time of her death. Barbara’s life of service is a testament to her dedication to her community, and her commitment to improving the lives of others.

Barbara I. DiFerdinando

Paterson
December 28, 2023

Anna Kuntzevich (or “Grannie Annie” as she was affectionately known to many) of Wayne NJ, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 28, 2023. She was 105.

In 1918, the year of the influenza epidemic and shortly after her parents, Gregory and Agatha Kulak, immigrated from Russia to New York City, Anna was born in Bridgeport, Connecticut. She was the first of their five children to be born in America; Anna was followed by her four siblings, brother Al, sisters Helen and Olga, and brother Richard. When she was one year old the family moved to the Lower East side of Manhattan.

Anna’s stories recalling early childhood speak fondly of simple, yet often difficult times. Back then it was oil lamps, ice boxes and overcrowded apartments where baths were taken in a metal tub in the kitchen. There was also the Great Depression to contend with. When she was about twelve, the family moved to 340 Powell Street in Brooklyn, NY where she lived and graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School with the Class of 1936. During her high school years, Anna found work watching her teacher’s two children at their lake house during the summer. After high school she learned to be a bookkeeper while working for Steinberg Brothers Stone Cutters in Brooklyn, a skill that would serve her well throughout her life.

As a youngster, Anna was spry and athletically inclined - she played basketball - loved animals and also began to get in touch with her spirituality. Inspired by an older neighbor, she joined her local Russian Orthodox Church and eventually, as she got older, became a contributing member of that community.

Anna met a handsome young man named John Kuntzevich one day while hanging out in Brooklyn. He came by wearing a white sweater with a big “J” on it, asking if anyone had a cigarette. Anna offered one of hers and when she did, both a cigarette and a romance were lit that day. Their first date was to Melnick’s Place, a bar and grill in Brooklyn. They soon fell in love while the United States was being drawn into World War II.

Eventually John proposed to Anna saying, “I’m going to enlist in the Navy and I’d like to be married before I go.” Anna was simultaneously delighted and scared when she replied “I Do” on May 31, 1942. They married on a Sunday, Memorial Day, at Holy Trinity Orthodox Church on Pennsylvania Avenue in Brooklyn and honeymooned at Rova Farms in Jackson, New Jersey. Anna followed John to Virginia after he enlisted but he was soon sent overseas and so she returned to live with her parents in Brooklyn.

After serving in the Navy with The Seabees John was honorably discharged on November 20, 1945 and returned to live with Anna and her family until they found an apartment. They lived in city housing in Brooklyn, New York and Bridgeport, Connecticut before settling into a co-op in the Howard Beach section of Queens. John became a NYC Police Officer. “He was a sharpshooter” Anna always likes to remind us in her Brooklyn accent.

Together John and Anna had two daughters, Barbara and Dianna, who they raised in Brooklyn. Barbara and Dianna brought four grandchildren into Anna's life, Timothy, Christin, Kelly, and Erin. Her beloved grandchildren collectively gifted Anna with three great grandchildren, Katelynn, Fletcher and Griffin.

As the matriarch of the family, Anna’s mother-bear instincts and generous nature always had her looking out for and taking care of family. Her tireless work-ethic, love for numbers and lively sense of humor often found her employed in a number of creative environments. An “office manager” of sorts, on any given day, her responsibilities could range from bookkeeping to styling props for photo-shoots. One of her most memorable experiences was spending a day taking care of a chimpanzee named Zippy. Anna's fondness for people and conversation, combined with her willingness to contribute, made her an integral and adored member of her work and church communities. She credits her lifelong daily regimen of black coffee, dark chocolate and a heaping bowl of ice cream for keeping her going all these years.

Anna and John were happily married for 66 years until John passed in 2008 at the age of 89. She always held tight to the words John uttered years earlier “I will give you all the love and happiness you could hold.”

Anna was the loving wife of the late John Kuntzevich (2008); devoted mother of the late Barbara Kucynda (2018) and her husband Father Paul Kucynda of Jackson NJ, and Diana Hurley of Bloomingdale; cherished grandmother of Tim Kucynda, Christin Messina, Kelly Chabebe, Erin Schissel; much loved great-grandmother of Kaitlyn, Fletcher, and Griffin.  She was predeceased by two brothers Alexander and Richard Kulak and two sisters Helen Sharko and Olga Hudyma.

Anna “Grannie Annie” Kuntzevich

Wayne
December 28, 2023

Barbara Ranley Austin, age 73, of Hamburg, New Jersey passed away Wednesday, December 27, 2023.

Barbara was the daughter of Louis G. Ranley and Barbara Ranley of Clifton, New Jersey.  She was the sister of Doctor Robert Ranley, Maree Casatelli and the late Louis Ranley and she was formerly married to Edward J. Smith and then Jay V. Surgent, Esq.

Barbara was a loving and caring person.  She adored her three boys, E.J. Smith, Jason Smith and Ranley Surgent and loved them with all her heart.  They were the joys of her life and then her grandchildren came along – Trevor Smith, Peyton and Braeden Smith and Londyn Surgent, and Barbara’s love only grew more as a proud and loving grandmother. Her eyes would light-up whenever she spoke of her grandchildren.

Some of Barbara’s favorite days were during her childhood, spending summers with her family in Walpack, New Jersey.  As a young adult, she enjoyed being with friends and family at the Cedar Lake Beach Club in Blairstown, New Jersey.  She especially loved the holidays and numerous family gatherings at Maree’s and Robert’s homes over the years.  Later in life she enjoyed every opportunity that she had to spend with her children and grandchildren.

Barbara R. Austin

Hamburg
December 27, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arie Jan Van Wingerden, age 89, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Arie passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 26, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Arie was born in Ridderkirk, Netherlands and was one of eleven children to Leendert and Aplonia Van Wingerden.  He and his family immigrated to the United States in 1948 by boat and were at sea for over two weeks. Arie would later tell stories of how he and his siblings would peel potatoes for the ship kitchen.  Upon arriving in the United States, the family settled in Wayne, NJ. At first Arie, his siblings and parents grew vegetables on a rented farm in Wayne Township and sold them at a roadside stand.  Arie also drove a coal truck for Bailey and Winters. After approximately ten years, in 1958, Arie started his own business located in Pequannock called Orie Van Wingerden Greenhouse Inc.  Arie owned and operated his business for nearly sixty-five years.  He never actually retired, but for many years Arie treasured working alongside his son Alan in the family business.

Arie was introduced to the love of his life, Kathleen Vriezema by a mutual friend. On November 4, 1955 the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.  Arie and Kathleen settled in Wayne after getting married.  As their family grew, they moved to Pompton Plains, NJ.  They remained in Pompton Plains for the next sixty-one years where they raised their five sons, John, Alan, Ronald, Paul, and Glenn.

Arie had an outstanding work ethic that was instilled in him by his parents.  This was something that he also passed down to his children and grandchildren.  Aside from being dedicated to his career, Arie took great pleasure in translating church sermons from Dutch to English and sharing them with family, friends, and fellow church members.  He was often seen riding his bike around the greenhouse, down the lane by himself to get the mail, visit his sisters and brothers or taking his grandchildren for a ride.

It was clear that Arie’s greatest passion in life was his family.  Nothing meant more to Arie than providing for and spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Arie and Kathleen cherished sixty-one years of marriage until Kathleen’s passing in 2019.   Arie was not only devoted to his family but also to his Christian Faith.  He and his family were devout members for many years of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes, NJ.

Arie was always friendly and outgoing. His wonderful sense of humor and his quick wit made him a pleasure to be with.  Arie was also known to donate platelets. One year in the height of busy season he was asked to donate to a very sick young man. The next morning Arie left his busy business to help someone in need.  He will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather.  He was truly a special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Arie is survived by his five sons; John Van Wingerden and his wife Janey of Sunnyside, WA, Alan Van Wingerden and his wife Anita of Pompton Plains, NJ, Ron Van Wingerden and his wife Joyce of Priest River, ID, Paul Van Wingerden and his wife Stacey of Priest River, ID, and Glenn Van Wingerden and his wife Nicole of Priest River, ID, two sisters; Jenny Van Vugt of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Christina De Groot of Pompton Plains, NJ, four brothers; Kees Van Wingerden and his wife Rita of Augusta, NJ, Willem Van Wingerden and his wife Joanne of Pompton Plains, NJ, Jan Van Wingerden and his wife Barbara of Lynden, WA, and Abraham Van Wingerden and his wife Ruth of Pompton Plains, NJ, twenty three grandchildren; Michael, Matthew, Rachel, Heather, Kristen, Amanda, Arielle, Zachary, Alanna, Jack, Caitlyn, Andrew, Dylan, Lauryn, Arie, Brian, Edward, Kathleen, Josh, Amanda, Casandra, Logan, and Emma.

Twenty-seven great-grandchildren; Aedyn, Tate, Landon, Matilda, Vaughn, Teague, Piper, Waylon, Vera, Grant, Gisele, Brielle, Levi, Julia, Marie, Cora, Luke, Magnolia, Sabrina, Brooke, Hannah, Reagan, Addisson, Harper, Hadley, Reid and Aspen.

Arie Van Wingerden

Pompton Plains
December 26, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Sigfrido Humberto Duarte, age 69, of Wayne, NJ.

Sigfrido passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 26, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born and raised in San  Francisco de Macoris, Dominican Republic and was one of six children to Samuel and Maria Japonesa Duarte. 

Sigfrido attended a local high school in San Francisco and graduated with the class of 1972. Following his graduation from high school, he attended Universidad Autonoma de Santo Domingo where he earned his Degree in Veterinary Medicine.  Sigfrido worked as a Veterinarian in both the public and private sector. After seven years of private practice as a veterinarian, Sigfrido furthered his education, earning a Master’s Degree in Bilingual Education.

In 1991, Sigfrido immigrated to the United States, settling in New York City. He held a series of odd jobs, including selling "Piragua" drinks during the summers in Washington Heights, before accepting a position with the New York State Board of Education as a science teacher.  After many years of working with the New York Board of Education, Sigfrido moved back to the Dominican Republic.  Sigfrido remained in the Dominican Republic for about seven years then moved to Spain in 2009.  In 2011, Sigfrido and his family relocated again, moving back to the United States, this time settling in NJ. Sigfrido and his family would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives.  Sigfrido eventually retired in 2017.

Every morning when heading for University in the Dominican Republic, Sigfrido found himself waiting at a bus stop nestled in front of a charming house. His attention was captivated by the graceful presence of a young attractive woman named Rosario Molina.  Sigfrido, struck by her beauty, mustered the courage to strike up a conversation. The bus stop became a stage for a delightful encounter as they exchanged stories and laughter.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 24, 1982 the two exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic.  While residing there, the couple welcomed the birth of their “one and only”, their daughter Charina.  As Sigfrido relocated throughout his life, Rosario was always by his side. 

Sigfrido, a self-taught artist with an unwavering passion for creativity, embarked on a remarkable journey as he showcased his unique artistic vision in exhibitions across the United States and various foreign countries. He had a natural talent and an insatiable desire to express himself through his craft in abstract art as well as landscape style paintings.  Sigfrido's artwork resonated with audiences worldwide.  He was a member of local and international art groups and was also a long-time member of the College of Veterinarian Medicine in the Dominican Republic.

Those who knew Sigfrido best knew that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Sigfrido than spending time with and providing for his family.  He and his wife Rosario cherished forty-one years of loyal and loving marriage together.  He was not only devoted to his family but also to his Catholic Faith.  Sigfrido and his family were parishioners of St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes for many years. 

There was not a topic or situation that Sigfrido would not make a joke about.  His quick wit and infectious sense of humor made him truly loved by everyone around him and a pleasure to be around.  Sigfrido also had the gift of being able to captivate an audience of any age with his talent to tell a story. 

Sigfrido will forever be remembered as a loving husband, father, and grandfather.  He was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

Sigfrido is survived by his wife Rosario E Molina of Wayne, his daughter Charina Duarte and her husband Miguel Rosado of Wayne, his mother Maria J Hernandez of Hartford, CT, three sisters; Vanessa Duarte of Hartford, CT, Quisaira Duarte of Hartford, CT, and Julia Duarte of Hartford, CT, two brothers; Martin Duarte and his wife Altagracia of the Dominican Republic, and Samuel Duarte of Hartford, CT, and three grandchildren; Leah Rosado, Ian Rosado, and Amy Rosado.   

Sigfrido Humberto Duarte

Wayne
December 26, 2023

Raymond Scognamiglio, age 83, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 24, 2023.

Born and raised in Paterson, he was the son of Raymond and Mary (Pasqual) Scognamiglio.

After graduating from Eastside High School in Paterson, Ray proudly served in the National Guard. Having a keen, analytical mind and being skilled at working with his hands, Ray was a machinist during his whole professional life. Prior to retirement Ray was employed with Lembo Machine Works in Paterson.

Ray was the beloved husband of Joyce Scognamiglio who predeceased him in 1998. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his brothers and sisters: Joseph, Addi, Rose, Lillian, Marie, and Ray.    

Raymond Scognamiglio

Wayne
December 24, 2023

Martina “Tina” Simpson, age 76, of Wayne, NJ, formerly of Nutley, passed away on Friday, December 22, 2023, after a long stay at Preakness Healthcare Center.

Tina was born to Edwin and Rita Krobatsch and lived on Fourth St. in Secaucus, NJ until young adulthood. She graduated from Weehawken High School in 1965. She also attended Montclair State University at night for several years and received a bachelor’s degree in Sociology with Honors in 1998. 

Tina worked as an Accounts Receivable Supervisor for 38 years at APA Transport in North Bergen, NJ until it went out of business. Subsequently, she found great satisfaction working with pre-school and kindergarten children in the Glen Ridge school system as an Aide until she retired.

“Chief”, as her husband Howard always called her, loved her family and enjoyed several hobbies such as ceramics, acrylic painting, gardening, and photography. Travel was also important with numerous trips to all the New England states, several Canada locations, and various Caribbean islands. In all, she visited over 20 states.

Howard and Tina were married in 1976 the bicentennial year. They honeymooned at Martha’s Vineyard and Rockport, Ma. They returned from their honeymoon to their cliffside apartment overlooking the Hudson River where the Tall Ships Flotilla had been. They were blessed with their son Scott during their marriage of more than 47 years. Scott and his wife Carmen provided Tina and Howard with two wonderful granddaughters, Alice and Natalie, who are the joys of their lives. 

Martina “Tina” Simpson

Wayne
December 22, 2023

Jeanette Kros, 95, passed away peacefully on December 21, 2023 with her loved ones beside her.

Jeanette was born September 23, 1928 to Cornelius and Trina Hokke Densel. She was a lifelong resident of Clifton until her move to the Holland Christian Home four years ago. Jeanette was also a longtime member of the Free Reformed Church of Pompton Plains, NJ. 

Jeanette was predeceased by her beloved husband of almost 70 years, Orie, and her three brothers; Neil, John, and Richard, all of whom she missed dearly. Her beloved granddaughter, Rebecca Becicka, passed away in 2022.

Left to mourn her loss are her son John (Patricia Murphy) and daughters; Corinne (Roy Hook), Marcia (David Sinke), and Ellen (Richard DeBel). Jeanette was a loving grandmother to Rachel, Sara, Elisabeth (Joel Tanis), Thomas (Lauren Van Vugt), James, and Joanna Hook, Arie, Ian (Crystal Law), Matthew, Grace, William (Carrie Vandenberg), Gareth, Lowell, and Ruth Sinke, and Emily, Abigail, Lydia (Jonathan Lewis), Caroline, Annelise, and Benjamin DeBel. She was also the loving great-grandmother of Noah, Charlotte, Eleanor, and Henry Tanis, Gwen Hook, and Elliot Lewis.

The family wishes to express their gratitude for the compassionate care their mother received at the Holland Christian Home, especially during her final illness.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Holland Christian Home in North Haledon.

Jeanette Kros

N. Haledon
December 21, 2023

With great sadness we announce the passing of Jess Eddeh, age 77, of Pequannock.  Jess died peacefully with his wife Lois by his side.

Jess was born on July 8, 1946 to Michel and Mary (Massoud) in Jerusalem, Jordan.  He was the youngest of eight children.  Sadly, siblings John and Jeanette passed away at two weeks of age. 

For several years he lived within the walls of the “Old City” of Jerusalem.  The Holy Sepulchre and the Via Dolorosa and many other holy sights were right outside his door. He never realized he lived in a land of such sacred significance, to him it was home.

Jess graduated secondary school from De La Salle Frere’s College in Jerusalem in 1965.  While attending school, he had a dream to go to America, get a college education, a good job, and marry an American girl.

He immigrated to America along with his mother and brother Joseph in 1969.  Upon arriving he found employment at MGM Transport in Totowa, NJ where he would also find his “American Girl,” Lois.  It was love at first sight.  He often wondered how two people from opposite sides of the world could find each other.

They married on February 20, 1972 and moved to Alexandria, VA.  Jess was hired to be a radio announcer at the Voice of America in Washington DC to broadcast the news in Arabic to the Middle East.  It was an exciting opportunity, however, New Jersey called them back home. 

Jess graduated from Rutgers University with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Management and an Advanced Master’s Degree in Transportation and Logistics Management from the New School University in New York City.  It took many years to earn his degrees since he worked days and attended classes at night.

He became an International Logistics Manager and Specialist in contract rate negotiations for over thirty years.  Jess was employed with such companies as Estee Lauder in Melville, NY, Cosmair (Lancome Loreal) in Piscataway, NJ, and Loral Electronics in Yonkers, NY.  He also owned Paul’s Restaurant and Pizzeria in Totowa as well as Videography Etc., videotaping weddings on the weekends.

One of Jess’ favorite sayings was, “to seize the opportunity” which he certainly did.  He loved America and was truly grateful for everything it had to offer.

Things took a turn for the worse in 2001 when it was discovered that he had heart failure and needed a heart transplant.  His condition was so serious, it was necessary to implant a mechanical heart pump (LVAD) to keep him alive while waiting for a donor heart.  After five months, a miracle occurred.  Due to the generous decision of a grieving family, a heart became available.  He received his gift of life on September 16, 2001, twenty- two years ago!

Jess enjoyed life to the fullest traveling to many places including Hawaii nine times, Tahiti, Bora Bora, Alaska, Dubai, and several memorable cruises.  His favorite trip was taking his wife Lois to the Middle East to show her where he was born and raised.  He also traveled to Lebanon with his brother to discover their father’s roots.  This was truly a very emotional journey.

Sadly, in the last five years, he developed kidney and eventually liver failure, relying on dialysis to live.  He endured many medical problems, hospitalizations, and pain.  Always giving him hope were his three grandchildren.  No words could ever express how overjoyed he was to see them grow.  They brought much love and happiness to his life.

Jess is survived by his devoted wife Lois (Barbera) of Pequannock, NJ, his son Michael Eddeh, three grandchildren; Mitchell, Andie, and Russell of Pompton Plains, NJ, one brother Joseph Eddeh of Clifton, NJ, two sisters; Josephine Nimry of Amman, Jordan, and Yvonne Rai of Chicago, IL.  Also surviving and missing their KHALO (uncle) are many nieces and nephews.  He is predeceased by two sisters Clair Nammour and Renee Sahar, his son Daniel Eddeh (2015) and his beautiful daughter-in-law Kathleen Eddeh (2023) who’s untimely passing’s are still being mourned. 

Jess will be remembered for his kindness and generosity and devotion to his family.   He was a “Humble Hero” and a life long blessing.  He will be greatly missed. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jess’ name may be made to The NJ Sharing Network.

Jess M. Eddeh

Pequannock
December 21, 2023

Marie A. Hess, 76, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home while in the loving presence of her dear family. 

Born and raised in Paterson, Marie was the daughter of Alexander and Frances (LaPuzz) Vitale.

After graduating from Eastside High School in Paterson with the Class of 1965, Marie attended William Paterson College which today is known as William Paterson University. She earned a degree in biology and started a career in healthcare as a licensed practical nurse at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson. She later ran an electron microscope at Sloan Kettering Hospital in New York City and worked as a histologic technician at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx, NY. Marie’s professional journey eventually led her to the field of education. She earned her teacher certification at William Paterson University and taught at Mary Help of Christian Academy (MHCA) in North Haledon. Marie was an excellent educator who demonstrated enthusiastic advocation for all of her students. As the school’s director of Healthcare Connections, she was successful in securing medical internships for many students expressing career interests in healthcare. By the time she retired in 2022, her twenty-year career as an educator earned her the love, respect and admiration of students and colleagues alike.

Marie was the beloved wife of David Hess. They met when Marie came into David’s father’s optician’s practice as a patient. Their first date was to the former Paris Inn in Wayne. They soon fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises at the former Wayne Manor in Wayne. After a honeymoon in Disney World Marie and David began married life together in Pompton Lakes. They later lived in West Paterson before moving their home in Wayne where they remained to the present. They were truly blessed by the birth of their daughter Carly. 

Marie’s leisure-time interests were numerous and varied. As a young woman she traveled to Italy and Ireland and was an avid horseback rider. She loved fishing off the jetties down the Jersey Shore and taking care of her freshwater fish tanks at home. Tending to her vegetables proved to be a great time of relaxation which also brought the reward of fresh makings for cooking. 

Above all else, Marie’s greatest love and devotion was to her family. She and David and Carly took regular trips to Mohegan Sun Casino in Connecticut and Marie and David celebrated twenty-five years of marriage with a trip to Las Vegas. Marie adored her two grand-nieces Olivia and Maddison. She spent as much time as she could with them and loved spoiling them. 

Marie was a beautiful, loving and kind person who would do anything to help a friend in need. She touched the lives of many and will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

Marie was the beloved wife of David Hess, blessed in marriage for 41 years. She was the precious mother of Carly Hess of Wayne; dearly loved daughter of her late father Alexander (1995) and her loving mother Frances of Wayne; dear sister of her late brother Alexander (1958) and her sister Linda Romanyschyn and husband John of Bloomingdale; dear godmother of Kristen Allemand and husband Scott; and doting great-aunt of Olivia and Maddison.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marie’s memory are asked to consider: 

Salesian Sisters of Mary Help of Christian

659 Belmont Avenue

North Haledon, NJ 07508

Please send your gifts to the attention of Sister Mary Rinaldi and indicate that it’s in memory of Marie Hess.  

Marie Hess

Wayne
December 20, 2023

Michelle DeBlasi (nee Atieh), age 71, of Pompton Plains, NJ, passed peacefully at home after a long cancer journey, Wednesday, December 20, 2023. She was surrounded with so much love and left this world with family at her side, and her hands held tight. 

Beloved wife of Frank DeBlasi; loving mother to Melissa and son-in-law Seth Hurley, and Jessica DeBlasi, all of Pompton Plains and Grammy to Tyler and Rebecca. Michele is survived by her siblings, Michael, Dennis, Denise, Charles, Evelyn, and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Born in Paterson, she moved to Wayne at the age of 10. After marriage, she lived first in Highland Lakes, then the Lionshead Lake section of Wayne, and eventually settling in Pompton Plains.

After graduating from Wayne Valley High School in 1969, she worked as a secretary for the American Cyanamid Corporation in Wayne for 25 years until starting her family. Michelle was a stay-at-home mom, selling Tupperware, being President of the Home and School Association, and working part-time for many years at Sun Tan Lake in Riverdale, running their summer day camp, company picnics and working Haunted Hayrides in the Fall.

In 1997, she started working at the American Society of Mechanical Engineers (ASME) in the Accounting Department, where she stayed until she retired in January 2019. For many years she ran the ASME annual bus trips to Atlantic City, coordinating a fun party bus with snacks, sandwiches, bloody marys and jello shots.

Michelle met Frank while she was bowling for the American Cyanamid Corporation’s Thursday Night Bowling League at Holiday Bowl in Oakland. Their first date was at the Hayden Planetarium at the Museum of Natural History in New York City. Frank proposed at Chan’s Hawaii Restaurant in Mahwah, and they were married on November 24, 1974, at Saint Ann Melkite Catholic Church in West Paterson. They honeymooned at the Fontainebleau Hotel in Miami, Florida. They loved vacationing at The Flamingo Hotel in Las Vegas, where you could always find Michelle at the slots or pool. They had a loving and devoted marriage of forty-nine years.

Being a mother was the greatest blessing for Michelle. She would go to the ends of the world for her girls if she needed to. Michelle would express her love not only with a standard, “I love you,” but would do so in other unique ways like, “it’s raining, be careful the leaves are slick,” “call me when you get home,” “because I said so,” and “I’m buying.” She mostly loved the simple times with Melissa and Jessica, like going to the movie theater on Tuesday nights, having breakfasts at the diner, lunches at Sushi Village and dinners at Hibachi, shopping at Kohl’s, playing Hollywood Rummy, and soaking in the joys of quality togetherness.

Lovingly known as Grammy, Michelle would sing different holiday versions of the traditional nursey rhyme, Christmas Is Coming, with her grandchildren, Tyler and Rebecca. Not a day went by where she didn’t see them in person or on FaceTime calls hours apart. Always the card-shark, she taught them how to play War and they taught her Trash. The kids fondly remember beach weekends bringing her buckets of water under the canopy to keep her cool, and remember each birthday of theirs would bring cards with money in denominations of their corresponding age. Michelle would say that her grandkids were the gas in her tank.

Most would define Michelle as a ray of sunshine, someone who would never speak badly of another, and one of the strongest women they know. She beat breast cancer in 1992, and was diagnosed again in 2013, later receiving the news of metastasis in 2017. She was a warrior and fighter, and despite her long battle, Michelle was the embodiment of positivity, always smiling and never complaining. Because of her bubbly personality, she was always the first one to say hello; her genuine interest in others made every encounter feel like a cherished moment. Her outgoing nature transformed strangers into friends, leaving an indelible mark on every heart she touched. Michelle loved watching Hallmark movies and singing competition shows and running an American Idol pool, doing Word Search puzzles, playing iPad casino games with her grandchildren, and being with her family. Her most favorite thing to do was spend summer weekends down the shore in Seaside Heights, eating butterfly fries and playing Pass the Trash and Left Right Center in the shorehouse kitchen with her siblings and family. Her care and love for family could be found just inside her front door, with a display of family photos lining the staircase wall, and always ensuring there was dinner on the table at 6:00pm throughout her children’s up-bringing. She enjoyed 45 years of tenting and pop-up camper trips every Memorial and Labor Day, laughing alongside her camping buddies as they played “I’m going on a picnic” around a roaring campfire. It was Michelle who started the “Thursday night dinner” ritual at her parents’ house, a long-standing tradition that continued for generations.

Michelle will be lovingly remembered for her signature dance moves, her crumb cake and her life mottos: “everything happens for a reason” and “keep the faith.”

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Michelle DeBlasi

Pompton Plains
December 20, 2023

Janice Mary (Regan) Puntasecca, age 58, passed away on Tuesday, December 19, 2023 with the comfort of family at her side. 

Janice was born to John and Mary Regan on December 23, 1964 in Paterson, New Jersey. She was a graduate of DePaul Catholic High School in Wayne. 

Janice was an instinctive nurturer. She devoted her career to teaching, most recently working at Young Scholars Academy in Wyckoff, New Jersey. Driven to earn her college degree, she graduated from The University of Massachusetts Amherst with a bachelor’s degree in early childhood development in 2019.

Janice married her high school sweetheart, Anthony Puntasecca. They enjoyed a commited and love-filled marriage of 29 years until Anthony’s passing in 2015. 

Janice was loving, caring, and above all, devoted to her family. She is survived by her children: Linda and her husband Craig, Michael, and Christopher and his wife Monica. She is also survived by her three grandchildren, Julia, Shaelagh, and Reagan, as well as her three siblings, John, Patricia, and Michael.

Memorial donations may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

Janice M. Puntasecca

Wayne
December 19, 2023

Augustine “Augie” Albino, age 60, of Milton, Delaware and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, December 18, 2023.  His family is deeply saddened by his sudden passing. 

Augie was born on May 7, 1963 in Brooklyn, NY to Joseph and Rosemarie (Centra) Albino. After a brief time in the US Navy, he started his first business, Exclusive Towing. Augie began his career with Local 6A Concrete Cement Workers Union and remained with the union until retirement. He was a dedicated, hard worker with a strong work ethic. He took part in the construction of many buildings that are part of  the NY skyline today and he enjoyed the camaraderie he shared with his co-workers. 

Augie was a great cook! Everyone loved his Sunday sauce and meatballs.

He was an avid football fan, loved playing  the card game Let it Ride and his all-time favorite was doing his scratch offs. Augie's jokes and smiles made everyone's life brighter.

In 2012, Augie met Lisa Jensen, his forever love, and they wed in 2013. After a short time living in the East Village in NYC, they settled down in Wayne, NJ where they resided for 9 years with their dog Bear. While living in Wayne, Augie enjoyed throwing backyard barbecues, pool parties, and hosting family holiday dinners. Every summer he took pride in taking care of his in-ground pool for everyone else to enjoy. In 2022, he and Lisa moved to Delaware and took pleasure in the calmer life enjoying the beaches, fishing, crabbing and walking  through  the state parks with their four-legged children. His Godendoodles were his loyal companions. His buddy Sonny was always by his side and Charley was his big baby. His previous dogs, Buster and Bear, have been waiting to be reunited with their caring owner. Their wait is now over.

Augie was the loving husband and will be greatly missed by his beloved wife Lisa and their dogs.   

Augie was the proud father of Anthony, Tommy, Dylan and fiancé Rachel, and Samantha. He is also survived by his father Joseph, stepmother Ginny, brother Joe, sister Tracy, brother Frank and his wife Lucy, Paul and his wife Mari, and his number one favorite sister Natalie.

Augie loved and took great pleasure in being an uncle to his many nephews and nieces: Justina and her husband Herbert, Sally Ann and her husband Cosimo, Frankie, Sophia, Candace and Raymond, Nicole and her husband Nick, Maddie, Hannah, Zachary, Brandon, Devin, Shane and Kaden. Augie also took great delight in being a great-uncle to Rocco, Olivianna ,Eva, Kamden, Vincent and Dean.

He was predeceased by his mother Rosemarie “Candy”, his father Tom, and his maternal grandfather Augustine. 

Augie had a heart of gold that touched many lives with his boundless care and compassion. We will always love and miss you until we meet again. 

If you would like to honor Augie by making a memorial contribution in his name, please consider one of the following charities:

Alan Purcell Wayne Animal Shelter

201 Pompton Plains Crossroads (Jackson Ave Extension)

Wayne, NJ 07470

973-694-0767

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Augustine “Augie” Albino

Milton
December 18, 2023
FUNERAL LIVESTREAM: the mass on Saturday will be livestreamed for anyone who wishes to watch. You can connect to the livestream on the homepage of the church website; www.ihmwaynenj.org. Click the link at the bottom of this obituary to connect at 10 AM, Saturday, Dec. 23.

Mary Katherine Mahon passed away at the age of 88 on December 17, 2023.

Mary was born in Brooklyn, NY to William Horan and Mary Ritter Horan on October 3, 1935. 

She met her future husband, Brendan in Brooklyn as they lived in the same neighborhood as teenagers, and he fell in love with her beautiful blue eyes and her sweetness.  Mary and Brendan married on June 29, 1957.  Prior to raising their family, Mary was a secretary for the Naval Department in Brooklyn.

Mary and Brendan moved several times before moving to Packanack Lake Road in Wayne, NJ and were long time parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.

Mary was the sweetest, kindest person you could ever meet.  She would do things for others and keep it to herself because she didn’t want any praise.  She was loved by so many, and she truly loved everyone in return. She demonstrated a genuine respect for all people, as if blind to any sort of bias, judgement, or preconceived notions. She simply loved people in the most admirable of ways, perhaps as God intended us to love one another.

She was the loving wife of Brendan T. Mahon for 56 years, devoted and loving mother of Brendan Mahon and his wife Kanchan of Vestale, NY, Patricia Mortensen and her husband Chris of Wayne, Theresa Nicoletti of Toms River, Dr. James Mahon and his wife Robin of Sparta, and Francis Mahon and his wife Lauren of Katy, TX; cherished Nana to her eight grandchildren:  Ron, Leela, Asha, Alexander, Ashley, Kiara, Megan and Owen Mahon.  Devoted sister, aunt and friend to everyone. 

Mary was pre-deceased by her daughter Judith (1966) when she was 3 days old, her husband Brendan Mahon (2013), her brother Michael Horan (2014) and her sister Margaret Gallo (2016) and her son in law Frank Nicoletti (2020).

In lieu of flower please donate to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, www.stjude.org.

FUNERAL LIVESTREAM: the mass on Saturday will be livestreamed for anyone who wishes to watch. You can connect to the livestream on the homepage of the church website; www.ihmwaynenj.org

Mary K. Mahon

Wayne
December 17, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of MaryAnn Gibney (née Caruso), age 86, of Wayne, NJ. MaryAnn passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, December, 16, 2023, while in the loving care of her family.

MaryAnn was born in Dunmore, Pa, to Louis and Mary Caruso. She was always an enthusiastic student who excelled in school. At the age of 14, MaryAnn’s family relocated to New Jersey where MaryAnn continued to excel academically. She graduated high school as class salutatorian and continued her education at Kean College where she earned her Bachelor’s degree in elementary education and graduated with honors. Upon graduation, she quickly found a job teaching second grade in East Orange, NJ.

While on a rare night out with girl friends, MaryAnn unexpectedly met a handsome and outgoing man by the name of George Gibney. George thought MaryAnn was a “knock out”. They started dating and married on July 8, 1961 at the Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church in Paterson, NJ.

After starting a family, George built MaryAnn a home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they happily lived for nearly twenty years. When they outgrew their home on Pine Terrace, George built them a home in the Valley section where they lived together for many years. 

MaryAnn was a resilient and devoted mother who, without complaining, took on the role of caregiver for her disabled son. She clearly saw his intelligence and academic potential and unwaveringly advocated for his educational rights. She was always his biggest supporter, and he credits her with his success.

MaryAnn was an avid reader with a passion for knowledge. She especially loved history and knew many obscure and fascinating facts. She never failed to dazzle with her knowledge of European history. Her ability to retain information was impressive. Even as adults, her children felt she knew everything about everything.

MaryAnn loved to travel. She kept notebooks with meticulous details of all the vacations she and George took. When anybody needed help planning a trip, MaryAnn was the go-to person. She would eagerly write up a detailed itinerary for anybody who asked. George and MaryAnn traveled all over the US, Europe and the Middle East. 

In addition to travel, MaryAnn was a master puzzler. She always had a jig saw puzzle on the table, and she loved to work on it with her grandchildren. She also did the Wall Street Journal crossword everyday and kept special crossword pencils. MaryAnn was also a talented seamstress and cook. She made many memorable Italian and Syrian meals for her family and friends.

Not only was MaryAnn was dedicated to her family, she was also dedicated to her Catholic faith. She never missed mass, not even when traveling. She was an active parishioner of Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church since 1961. She was the cherished wife of George for fifty-three years of a loving marriage filled with wonderful memories. Her greatest joy was becoming a grandmother. Known as Ma by her five grandchildren, she had a special bond with each of them. MaryAnn’s calm nature, strength and quiet determination was inspiring.

She will be missed by everyone who knew her.

Surviving are her devoted daughters, Susan and her husband Frank Dipre of Wayne; Georgene and her husband Anthony O’Loughlin of Wayne; her dear son Joseph of Wayne; beloved grandchildren Caroline, Alexandra and Luke Dipre and Niamh and Liam O’Loughlin; dear sister Madeline Cittadino of Lafayette; and many nieces, nephews and cousins. MaryAnn was predeceased by her loving husband George in 2014 and her cherished sister Bess Byrouty in 2009.

In lieu of flowers, donations in MaryAnn’s name may be made to Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church, 155 Long Hill Rd, Little Falls, NJ 07424. 

MaryAnn Gibney

Wayne
December 16, 2023

Timothy O’Neill, age 61, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, December 16, 2023. 

Tim was born in Mt. Kisco, NY to William and Patricia O’Neill. His family moved around a bit during his early childhood, but they eventually found Wayne, NJ and made it their home. Tim attended and graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1980 before continuing his education at Stockton State where he graduated with a degree in Finance. 

Tim was incredibly devoted to his professional career. He engrossed himself in his work and quickly became an employee that was irreplaceable. His early career saw him working at multiple different establishments. Tim was highly sought after and once he moved onto another job the previous would try to attract him back. He was just that good of an employee. He worked his way up the career ladder before he settled in working for WebMD for the last 10 years.

Tim will be remembered as being outgoing and loved by all. He was funny, witty, a bit of a science fiction geek, and most of all - extremely generous. He was reliable and someone who you could always turn to if you needed a helping hand. His friends and family remarked that he was notorious for always trying to take the bill after dinner to make sure he could pay for everyone. 

Beyond anything, Tim was a great and loving uncle. He will be greatly missed by his 6 nieces and nephews who all have fond memories traveling and celebrating life’s events with their Uncle Tim. 

Timothy O’Neill

Spring Valley
December 16, 2023

David M. Brink age 68 of Wayne died on Friday, December 15, 2023.

He was born in Decatur, IL, and lived in New Jersey most of his life, including Toms River, Bloomfield, and Wayne for more than 30 years. David graduated high school in 1974, Bergen Community College, and Montclair State University with a B.S. in Computer Science. He was a U.S. Army veteran (cryptologic analyst) and spent most of his career in Information Technology, as an instructor and consultant. David was retired from Hewlett-Packard and Solutions3. After his retirement, he began a hobby refurbishing furniture, bikes, wheelbarrows, and other home items.

David met his dear wife Karen (predeceased in 2013) at a United States Army reception in Fair Lawn. Both had enlisted in the Army and were in a waiting period before their initial assignments. They kept in touch with letters over the years as they were stationed far apart. They were re-united when they were stationed close together in Texas. Their letter relationship turned into love and David proposed marriage at a Texas Military Base. Karen accepted and they were married on June 30, 1979 at Our Lady of Sorrows RC Church in Garfield New Jersey. They honeymooned at the Jersey Shore and enjoyed 33 years of a loving and devoted marriage.

David was dedicated member of the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne, where he was a member for more than 25 years. David was an active church participant, a church elder, and part of the Helping Hands group, who meet weekly to perform church facility functions. David was also known for his love of cars, birds, his yard, and Billie Jean (his granddog)!

He was the loving husband of Karen Brink (predeceased in 2013); devoted father of Lauren and her husband Sean Halloran of Weehawken; devoted father of Kristen and her husband Daniel Flores of MD; beloved grandfather of Owen Flores; beloved brother of Barbara Sweezy of ME and Katy Geiger of FL.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne (www.preaknessreformed.org) or International Waldenstroms Macroglobulinemia Foundation (www.iwmf.com) would be appreciated.

David M. Brink

Wayne
December 15, 2023

Maryann Zientek (nee Clarke), age 68, of Bushkill, PA, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 13, 2023.

Born in Bayonne, NJ, Maryann was one of five children to Joseph and Claire Clarke. The family spent their summers  vacationing at the beach in Lavalette, which were some of Maryann’s fondest memories. Not long after graduating from Bayonne High School she met Paul and the two married July 9, 1977.

Maryann dreamed of becoming a mother and that dream was fulfilled when her and Paul welcomed their daughter Stacy, followed by their son Christopher three years later. Her role as a mother was a vital part of her identity and she took great pride in attending cheerleading competitions, basketball games, and baseball games when her children were growing up.

Years later, Maryann and Paul built a beautiful home in Bushkill, PA where they have resided for the last  25+ years. As an empty-nester, she took comfort in the company of her dogs Samber, Snowball, and Marley and she was always eager and excited to watch her grandpups, Mocha and Coco.

Maryann was ecstatic to watch her family expand with the addition of her son-in-law Rich and her daughter-in-law Kristin, but her greatest joy was becoming a grandmother. Max, Lucas, Tyler, and Daniel were her world, her life, her everything. She spoiled them with love, attention, toys, and junk food. Whether it was Sunday Zoom calls or Disney Cruises, she made sure that she spent time with “her boys” and in turn, they adored her. She will be deeply and forever missed.

Maryann is survived by her husband Paul, her dear daughter Stacy Puchalik and her husband Rich, her beloved son Christopher Zientek and his wife Kristin, her beautiful grandchildren Max and Lucas Puchalik and Tyler and Daniel Zientek, her sister Patricia Radomski and her husband Alexander, her sister Diane Clarke, her brother Robert Clarke and his wife Britt. Maryann is preceded in death by her parents Joseph and Claire Clarke, and her brother Joseph Clarke, Jr.

Maryann Zientek

Bushkill
December 13, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arlene Louise Meringer (nee Van DeMoere), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Arlene passed away peacefully on Wednesday December 13, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born in Paterson, NJ and was the only child to Louis and Claire Van DeMoere.  Arlene spent her formative years in Fair Lawn, NJ.  While she was a teenager, her family moved to Paterson where she attended Eastside High School.  While a student at Eastside High, Arlene was a Drum Majorette with the Eastside High School Marching Band.  Arlene was a vibrant and determined young girl and emerged as a standout student at Eastside HS.  Her teachers recognized her tenaciousness and her leadership skills and encouraged Arlene to embark on a journey in the world of business.  

Following her graduation from Eastside High School with the class of 1948, Arlene found employment quickly as a secretary at the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company.  She worked for Metropolitan Life before accepting another position as a secretary at Dumont Company in Oradell, NJ.  While employed at Dumont, Arlene worked alongside a handsome young man by the name of Joseph Meringer, an Electronics Technician.  Arlene and Joseph got to know each other well and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on October 14, 1951 Arlene and Joseph became husband and wife.  The couple exchanged wedding vows in St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes.  

Arlene and Joseph, having married made a home in Oakland for two years, then the couple relocated to Wayne Township in 1953 where they remained for the rest of their lives together and raised their four sons, James, William, Donald, and Mark.   

Shortly after getting married, Arlene made the heartfelt decision to transition into the role of a homemaker, embracing the joys and responsibilities of creating a warm and nurturing home for her family.  After her children had grown, Arlene decided to re-enter the workforce and took a part-time job at Meyer’s Department Store in Wayne.  

Arlene, a compassionate and devoted mother, dedicated her life to the ongoing care for her special needs son, Mark, while simultaneously serving as a member, treasurer, and long-time president of the North Haledon Association for Exceptional Children, tirelessly advocating for support of the community, and providing year-round activities for special needs children.

Those who knew Arlene best, knew that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Arlene than spending time with and providing for her family.  Arlene and Joseph cherished more than fifty years of loving and loyal marriage together until Joseph’s passing in 2002.  Through the years, Arlene treasured her yearly two-week vacations at Lake Willoughby in Northern Vermont.  She and her family also enjoyed spending time at the Jersey Shore.  Arlene, an incredibly selfless and nurturing woman, not only devoted herself to her immediate family but also shouldered the responsibilities of caring for numerous elderly extended family members, embodying love, and compassion in every aspect of her extensive caregiving role.  In 2018, Arlene’s heart was broken when her dear son Mark passed away.

Arlene was not only devoted to her family but was also truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and Joseph were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, NJ.  There, Arlene also volunteered and was extremely active.  

Arlene will be forever remembered as a truly dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched to lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Arlene is survived by her three sons; James Meringer and his wife Dona of Wayne, William Meringer and his wife Donna of Randolph, NJ, and Donald Meringer of Parkton, MD,  six grandchildren; Elizabeth Gephardt and her husband Grant of Wayne, NJ, Patricia Meringer of Wayne, NJ, Joseph Meringer of Wayne, NJ, Lisa Meringer of Bridgewater, NJ, William Meringer and his wife Jacqueline of Newton, NJ, and Cynthia Meringer of Wallingford, Ct, and ten great grandchildren; Evelyn, Anna, Riley, Peyton, Isabel, Finley, Harper, Gunnar, Corrado, and Carmine.  Arlene was predeceased by her husband Joseph Meringer in 2002, and by her son Mark Meringer in 2018.

Arlene Louise Meringer

Wayne
December 13, 2023

Giovanna Leone (nee Scaramia), age 88, a resident of Wayne for over forty years, passed Monday, December 11, 2023.

She was born in Santa Croce Camerina, Sicily, Italy to Giovanni and Giuseppina Scaramia

She will be lovingly remembered for her boundless warmth and joy, found immense fulfillment in the simple pleasures of life.  Her kitchen was a sanctuary where she artfully crafted Italian specialties, infusing each dish with love and tradition.  A gifted seamstress, who worked at the Macy’s store in Wayne for many years, Giovanna transformed fabrics into exquisite creations, weaving stories and memories into every stich.  Her love for dance manifested in her home where the rhythm of life flowed seamlessly.  Hosting gatherings at her home became an art form for Giovanna, as she orchestrated evenings filled with laughter, wonderful aromas, and a sense of family and belonging. Family was at the heart of her world, and her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and extended family, were the stars in her life’s tapestry.  Giovanna’s legacy was not just in her delicious recipes, skill with the needle and thread, or graceful dance steps but in the enduring love that radiated from the heart of her home.

Giovanna met Ovidio Leone during her youth working at the Paterson sewing mills.  She was set up on a blind date by Ecla D’aleo as her brother, Ovidio Leone, had just emigrated to the United States.  Giovanna departed on the MS Vulcania on July 8, 1955 and Ovidio arrived shortly after on August 9th, 1955 on Queen Frederica. In order for Ovidio to go on a date with Giovanna he had to request permission from her father to take her to a local Italian dance.  Her dad granted his permission and assigned Giovanna’s brother to chaperone the two as tradition at the time did not allow you to date alone. Giovanna’s father called Ovidio aside and said if he loved Giovanna, he had three months to marry her.  Her father was going to be married for the third time and wanted Giovanna to marry before he did.  Giovanna’s father’s two prior wives whom he loved very much passed away due to illness and Giovanna then became like a mother / caretaker to her siblings.  Giovanna and Ovidio married on January 25, 1958, at a Catholic church in Paterson.  They actually had a dual wedding with Ovidio’s sister who had introduced them.  Giovanna and Ovidio honeymooned in New York City and settled into life in Paterson.  They moved to Wayne in 1979 where they had a loving marriage of forty-six years that was blessed with six children.

Giovanna was the loving wife of forty-six years to the late Ovidio G. Leone (d. 2004); loving mother of Josephine Leone-Mirra of Little Falls, Diana Opirhory and her husband Douglas of Bayville, Luigi Leone of Lincoln Park, John Leone of Paterson, David Leone of Little Egg Harbor, and Lillian Leone-Loehwing and her husband Scott of Stockholm; she was the cherished grandmother of Daniela Perillo, Carmine Mirra, Davide Mirra, Jacquelynn Opirhory, Caitlin Opirhory, Ashley Opirhory, Daniel Opirhory, Christopher Opirhory; dearly loved great-grandmother of Sofia Perillo, Sara Elphick, Samantha Mirra, Giovanna Mirra and Sasha Opirhory; loved sister of the late Giuseppe Scaramia and his late wife Rosetta, Salvatore Scaramia and his wife Giovanna of Hawthorne, and Maria Guarino and her husband Gerard of Wayne; and she was the dearly loved aunt to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Heart Association would be greatly appreciated.

Giovanna Leone

Wayne
December 11, 2023

Brian Reardon, age 57, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, December 10, 2023.

Brian grew up in West Paterson and graduated from Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls, NJ.

Shortly after graduating, he started a career with the Wayne Township working first in the road department and then eventually the water department. His career spanned an incredible 37 years and during his time there he made several lifelong bonds of friendship and mutual respect. His coworkers remarked that he was the only guy physically capable of lifting a manhole with a single hand!

Early in his career with Wayne Township he met Jennifer during his frequent stops at the Packanack Bakery. She was working to get his coffee and donut on his lunch breaks and they quickly became lifelong friends. They were married in December of 1996 and the pair purchased their first home together in Wanaque, eventually settling in Pequannock.  Their family grew with the birth of their twin boys: Michael and Jason. If you knew Brian you knew that he loved his two boys more than anything else in this world. He believed that his greatest accomplishments in life weren’t in personal achievements or successes, but in the remarkable individuals his sons had become. Brian spoke of them with immense pride and looked forward to watching all their football, soccer, and lacrosse games. He was incredibly proud to see them graduate college and couldn't wait to see what the future held for them. 

Brian and Jennifer shared a great chapter of life together raising their boys, but as time went on, they realized their paths were going in different directions. They amicably parted ways, maintaining a profound respect and friendship for one another. Several years later, Brian found a companion when he met Robin. Robin and Brian shared the last few years together before his untimely passing.

He loved the Mets and the Cowboys but also supported his local teams like the Giants – he just enjoyed the game. Big Bri was quiet and laidback but had a sentimental side that could catch people by surprise. Brian was a great friend to all that knew him. Perhaps his greatest quality was his loyalty. Although a man of few words, his unwavering commitment to those he loved made him someone that will be forever loved and deeply missed. 

Brian is survived by his two boys Michael and Jason, their mother, Jennifer, his brother Tom and his wife Melissa, his brother John, his companion Robin and numerous nieces, nephews, and other loving family. He is pre deceased by his parents John and Mary Reardon.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Brian's name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Brian Reardon

Wayne
December 10, 2023

 It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Evelyn Mary Corsello (nee Cacace), age 94 of Pompton Plains and formerly of Brooklyn, NY.  Evelyn was born and raised in Brooklyn and was one of four children to Aristo and Lena Canace.  She attended Girls High School in Brooklyn where she excelled in academics, particularly Mathematics, receiving numerous awards.
Evelyn’s first job was at the Meadow Gold Ice Cream Company in Brooklyn.  While there, she and her co-workers would discreetly write their names and phone numbers on the lid of the ice cream cups being sent to American GI’s.  Their aim was to attract the attention of the Servicemen and make a connection. Unfortunately, no-one called.  Eventually, they realized that their efforts were futile because the penciled numbers melted inside the cup. Later, Evelyn accepted a position as a bookkeeper at the Firemen’s Fund Insurance Company.
Evelyn met her future husband, William Corsello at a dance hall in Coney Island.
The two were married on August 28, 1949 at Sacred Heart Church in Brooklyn. Their first apartment was on Waverley Avenue, where Evelyn and William welcomed the births of their sons, Frankie and Billy.  The family relocated to East Flatbush where Barbara was born.  In 1978, they moved to Bergen Beach.  Evelyn and Bill cherished sixty-four years of marriage until William’s passing in 2013.  In 2014, Evelyn moved to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains where she enjoyed many wonderful friendships. 
Evelyn loved her role as a homemaker, devoting herself to creating a warm and nurturing home for her children and spouse.  During this time, she worked with her father, for the Evergrip Company, putting pushpins and picture hooks onto cards for extra income as well as helping his friend sell jewelry.  As her children grew, Evelyn re-entered the workforce, taking a position as a comptometer operator at Times Square Stores.   She also worked for Chase Manhattan Bank as a teller for several years before her retirement.
Evelyn liked to sew and crochet.  She loved everything that sparkled and was fancy.  She enjoyed reading and loved to travel.  She has visited most of Europe, Japan and almost anywhere with a beach. She was a fabulous cook, well known for her meatballs.  Her garlic crabs were so famous that a local restaurant had her teach their chief how to make them for their menu.  Aside from all Evelyn’s hobbies, interests, and talents, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Evelyn than spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She was a worshiping Catholic who belonged to Saint Vincent Ferrer Church in Flatbush, Saint Bernard’s Church in Bergen Beach and later worshiped at the Cedar Crest Chapel.
Evelyn had a quick wit and a fondness for sarcasm.  She could leave people both amused and appreciative of her sense of humor.  She will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  Evelyn is survived by her daughter Barbara Maloney and her husband Eugene of Wayne, NJ, her son William Corsello, Jr and his wife Robin of Rockaway Beach, NY, her daughter-in-law, MaryAnne Corsello of Salisbury Mills, NY, thirteen grandchildren; Gene Maloney and his wife Isabel of Wayne, NJ, Brian Maloney and his wife Ashley of Kinnelon, NJ, Kylie Herget and her husband Lucas of Kinnelon, NJ, William Corsello, III and his husband Benjamin Whine of New York City, Tara Corsello of Brooklyn, NY, Toni Corsello of New York City, Todd Corsello and his wife Patricia of Staten Island, NY, Traci Mahr and her husband Brian of Kinnelon, NJ, Lisa DeFelice and her husband Anthony of New Windsor, NY, Frank Corsello and his wife Danielle of Highland Mills, NY, Marissa Fernandez and her husband Nick of New Windsor, NY, Alexis Culhane and her husband Kevin of New Windsor, NY, and Christopher Corsello of West Nyack, NY, and seventeen great grandchildren; Ava, Michael, Liliana, Frank, Mia, Tessa, Daniel, Gianna, Luke, Lyla, Lia, Brooke, Ellis, Wren, Kayden, Ariella, and Jack, and many nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her husband William Corsello, Sr. in 2013, by her son Frank Corsello in 2000, her sister Lilian Maione, her brother Albert Cacace, her grandson Francis Corsello, and her granddaughter Kristen Maloney.

In lieu of flowers donations in Evelyn’s name may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Evelyn Mary Corsello

Pompton Plains
December 6, 2023

Carol M. Buyck, age 86 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on December 6, 2023.

Carol was born in Passaic, New Jersey to Frank and Anna Klaus.  She and her older brother, Cliff, lived in Paramus, Rochelle Park, and eventually Oradell. She attended Dwight Morrow High School in Englewood, New Jersey.

After graduation, Carol continued her education at Paterson State College. Carol’s further education was briefly halted when she took up a position at Collard’s Furniture Store as a decorator. During this time, she was set up on a blind date with Robert Buyck.  The two married in April of 1959 before moving to their new home in Bloomingdale and then finally settling down in Paramus in 1970, where they raised their two children, Suzanne and Jon. 

Carol returned to night school at William Paterson College with her neighbor and dear friend, Linda Shortman.  Carol was a lifelong learner and educator who went on to earn her master’s degree in early childhood education. While she initially dreamed of opening a nursery school, she found her passion teaching 6th, 7th, and 8th grade students in the Wanaque school district for the next 30 years.

Carol’s inquisitive nature led her to become a world traveler with her good friend Christine Lynch.  They visited most of Europe, South America, Cuba, China, Russia and explored other countries and cultures. Carol shared her passion with her grandchildren by accompanying them on trips to various countries. 

Carol loved dogs, being outdoors, entertaining, and good times with her many friends. She was an expert gardener and loved to “play in the dirt”.  Carol’s other interests included opera, movies, Broadway shows, and dinners in New York City with her grandchildren. Carol loved the slot machines in Atlantic City, playing Bunco with her friends, and a nice Cabernet.

Carol’s endless energy and zest for life were evident to everyone around her.  She touched many lives over the years and was blessed to have many dear friends. Her kindness, generosity, and loving personality will be greatly missed and always remembered. 

Above all else, family was the most important aspect of Carol’s life. She adored her family and loved sharing her life with them. She was the best mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother anyone could ever want. Her strong, independent, and often stubborn mindset gave her the drive to live an incredible life. 

Carol was the cherished mother of: Suzanne Russo and husband Michael of Glen Rock, Jon Buyck and wife Arlene of Rochelle Park; beloved grandmother of: Matthew Russo and wife Tierney, Katherine Harper and husband Seth, Christina Russo, Jonathan Buyck, and Nicholas Buyck; great-grandmother of: Theodore Harper and Caroline Russo. Also survived by brother Frank Klaus and wife Kathy, nephew Christopher, and niece Cortney. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are asked to consider:

The Humane Society of the United States

Or

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Carol M. Buyck

Kinnelon
December 6, 2023

Michael John Rosania, age 74, of Packanack Lake in Wayne, passed peacefully on Wednesday, December 6, 2023.

Michael was born in Newark, NJ, the son of Michael Rosania and Sophie Kaniecki. He grew up for a short time in Newark before moving with his parents and brother Nick to North Arlington.

After graduating from Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington with the Class of 1966, Michael attended Fairleigh Dickinson University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in electrical engineering and two master’s degrees – one in electrical engineering and one in computer science. Utilizing his education, Michael began a fulfilling and prosperous career in aerospace manufacturing until he retired in 2012 from BAE Systems.

Michael first met his beloved wife Nancy when they were both members of Spa 23 in Wayne. They fell in love and married on Saturday, September 15, 1984 at Packanack Community Church in Wayne. After a honeymoon in Hawaii, they started married life in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne and have remained residents there throughout their entire married life. Their marriage could best be described as precious, loving, and devoted having celebrated 39 years as husband and wife this past September.

Michael’s leisure time pursuits were numerous. He and Nancy were avid skiers regularly carving the moguls at Hidden Valley. He loved playing tennis and he was a member of the Packanack Lake Tennis Club. Golf also was a passion of Michaels and one which he was able to enjoy even more in retirement. In addition to skiing, tennis and golf, Michael was an expert archer and marksman, fisherman and photographer. His willingness to share his knowledge and teach archery at the NASP Clinics and Kids Archery Leagues was second to none and will never be forgotten. He and Nancy had the privilege of taking trips to Paris, France and Glasgow, Scotland. The whole family vacationed every summer down the Jersey Shore in LBI. 

Above all of the passions of Michael’s life nothing came close to the love and adoration he had for his wife Nancy, children Michael and Heather, his brother Nick, and his four grandchildren. Michael considered being a grandpa one of the greatest blessings of life. He was amazingly involved in his grandchildren’s lives, babysitting regularly when they were little and teaching them all the skills of archery and fishing when they got a little older. They learned so much from him but will also cherish warm and happy memories of the times when he would make them laugh by being goofy.         

Michael was the beloved husband of Nancy Rosania, blessed in marriage for 39 years. He was the loving father of Michael John Vincent Rosania and wife Melissa of Wayne, loving stepfather of Heather MacDougall of Sugarland, TX, dear brother of Nicholas “Nick” Rosania of North Arlington, adored grandfather of: Mia Rosania, Presley Rosania, Benjamin Sievers, and Amanda Sievers.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Michael’s name consider donating to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

To ensure secure, timely delivery of DONATIONS for the New Jersey Region, please mail donations to the region processing center:

NJ Leukemia and Lymphoma Society

Northeast (New Jersey)

P.O. Box 22470

New York, NY  10087-2470

Michael Rosania

Wayne
December 6, 2023

James “Scruffty” “Big Jim” “Jim” Tuit, Sr., age 82 passed away peacefully Tuesday morning, December 5, 2023.

He was born in Paterson and raised in Prospect Park.  Jim attended Passaic County Technical High School with the Class of 1959. He loved to go to Hinchcliffe Stadium in Paterson, which was very close to his home in Prospect Park and watch the car races.  When he got in trouble at home, like the time when he forgot to take out the garbage, his mom made him sit in the backyard and listen to the races which was torturous to him. 

Those early days of attending Hinchliffe Stadium would be the catalyst for Jim to get behind the wheel of a race car in the early 1970’s Jim would fabricate, weld, set-up, and drive stock cars.  Through the years he was a regular at the Orange County Fair Speedway in Middletown, NY where he drove the 673 owned by John Baum, 342 owned by John “JC” Cunningham and the 318 that he co-owned with his son-in-law Bobby Pass (and that’s just to name a few) One of his fondest racing memories happened in the 80’s when his son Jimmy, Jr. finished 1st and he finished 2nd at the Orange County Fair Speedway. Jim loved and cherished the family time together, friends, and competition that racing brought to him. 

In his youth Jim painted houses for his grandfather’s company, and pumped gas at an Oakland gas station.

He spent most all of his working life in the local crushed stone, asphalt, and quarry industry. For many years he worked at Passaic Crushed Stone in Riverdale and retired in 2002 as a supervisor.

In 2002 when Jim retired, he and Judy moved to North Wilkesboro, North Carolina also known as NASCAR Country. One of their favorite things to do was attend multiple NASCAR races with their friends from Martinsville, Richmond, and Darlington just to name a few.  They spent a decade together enjoying life until Judy suddenly passed away. Encouraged by his children, he moved back to NJ so he would be around family. 

Jim was a remarkable individual whose life was defined by his genuine love of racing and connecting with people. Known for his affable nature, he possessed an innate ability to strike up conversations with anyone he encountered. Jim's warmth and approachability made him a cherished figure in the racing community where he fostered deep and meaningful relationships. He was a fierce competitor on the track, and once he hung up racing gloves he became a staple in the pits and a popular guy in the grandstands. Every year Jim would head up to Orange County Fair Speedway for the annual Nostalgia Night signing autographs, meeting new fans of racing and reminiscing about the good ole days with his fellow racers young and old. 

A dedicated and industrious worker throughout his life, Jim's work ethic was as impressive as his social skills. Whether he was engaged in his profession or lending a helping hand to friends and neighbors, Jim's commitment to hard work was unwavering. His enduring legacy is not just one of diligence and industriousness but also a testament to the profound impact one can have through kindness and authentic connections with others.

Jim was the beloved husband of the late Judy (nee Ricker) Tuit (d.2013); loving father of Kathy Pass and her husband Bob of Wayne, Ray Tuit and his wife Debbie of Oakland, and the late Jimmy Tuit, Jr. (d. 2017); he was a bonus Dad to Crystal Baum of Wayne; much loved companion to Dianne Caputo of Wayne; predeceased by his loving brother John Tuit, Jr., and his beloved cat Hoosier (d.2022).

In lieu of flowers donations in Jim’s memory to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

James Tuit

Wayne
December 5, 2023

Dianne M. Benson, age 63, of Wayne passed without suffering on Friday, December 1, 2023.

Dianne was raised by Ed and Selma Will and graduated from DePaul High School in Wayne.  She continued her education at Trenton State College, leaving to pursue further education as an RN at Passaic Community College where she graduated with an Associate of Applied Science in Nursing.

Dianne followed her calling and pursued an education that enabled her to become a registered nurse.  Caring for others was what she did best and the nursing profession was one in which she knew would bring her happiness.  She started her nursing career at St. Joseph’s Wayne Hospital as a medical surgical floor nurse.  Shortly thereafter, she transferred to the operating room where she stayed for the remainder of her 25-year career.  In the operating room, Dianne assisted surgeons in a wide array of surgeries, both minor and major.  Additionally, on rare occasions, she assisted surgical teams from the Sharing Network, in harvesting organs for donation.

Dianne met her husband, Jon, at St. Joseph Wayne Hospital.  Within 2 months of dating, they both realized that there was a chance that this might turn into a lifetime commitment.  Within a year’s time, Jon romantically proposed at the White Mountain Resort in New Hampshire.  The following year they wed on August 19, 2001 at the Ramsey Golf and Country Club and subsequently honeymooned in their favorite vacation spot, Hilton Head Island, South Carolina.  Dianne and Jon enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of twenty-two years

Dianne always valued her family above everything else.  A loving mother to her son, Patrick, she delighted in seeing him grow through his grammar school years.  While in high school, she was always thrilled to see him perform in athletic competitions.  Later on in life, she took great pride in the man who Patrick became.  She was overjoyed to see him marry the love of his life, Aubrielle.  She was an exceptionally caring daughter to her parents, Ed and Selma.  She helped both greatly in the later years of their lives.  She is survived by her sister, Kathleen Savacool and by a niece and two nephews.

Dianne had a true love for music and was graced with a wonderful singing voice.  She often performed in choirs and sang at church weddings.  Dianne loved the beach and enjoyed spending many, many vacations on Hilton Head Island. Her favorite part of the day was her early morning walks on the beach with Patrick. Most recently, she and Jon, visited Cape May, NJ where they shared what they thought was the best vacation they had ever experienced.  Dianne had a special kinship with the elderly and often spent time keeping company with many residents of Bristal  Assisted Living Facility in Wayne, NJ.

Dianne had a soft spot in her heart for Max, the dog that she and Jon bought for Patrick. She was an avid reader and was one of those people who always got hardcovers, preferring the feeling of an actual book to a virtual one.  She enjoyed reading a wide range of genres but her favorite book was “Where the Crawdads Sing”.  Cooking was more than a chore to Dianne and she particularly loved researching and trying new recipes.  Cacio e pepe was a dish that was her specialty.  

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to NJ Sharing Network and their Foundation online at www.SharingNetworkFoundation.org/Contribute or via mail to NJ Sharing Network, Attn: Foundation, 691 Central Ave. New Providence, NJ 07974

Dianne M. Benson

Wayne
December 1, 2023

Ida Calligaro (nee Battistus), age 99 of Wayne, died on Friday, December 1, 2023.

She was born in the family home in Clifton, where she lived until she was married. Ida graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1942 and has lived in Wayne for over fifty years.

She met the love of her life Mario Calligaro at a dance in the Co-Operative Hall in Clifton. They married ten months later at St. Claire’s Church in Clifton on September 29, 1946. They enjoyed fifty years of loving and devoted marriage before Mario’s passing on November 24, 1996.

Ida graduated from Drake Business College in Newark and attended New York School of Interior Design. She worked at the Waldrich Company in Clifton and at Hoffman La-Roche in Nutley as a secretary. In 1966, Ida went back to school at William Paterson College where she earned a degree in Elementary Teaching. She worked for the Wanaque Board of Education, teaching 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade, for twenty-five years before retiring in 1994. During her years with the Wanaque Board of Education she continued her education at William Paterson College earning her Master’s Degree.

Ida’s loves were her family, interior decorating, collecting antiques, education, and teaching children.

She was the loving wife of the late Dr. Mario V. Calligaro (1996); devoted mother of Dr. Bruce Calligaro and his wife Diana of Ringwood, Dr. Keith Calligaro and his wife Dr. Ina of Narberth, PA; the late Dr. Greg Calligaro(2008) and his wife Tammy of Maryland; cherished grandmother of Jason, Dr. Lindsey, Breanne Calligaro Decker, Blake, Anthony, and Ashley Calligaro; proud great grandmother of two; loved sister of the late Richard Battistus (1975) and the late Mafalda Pavan (2011).

 Those planning an expression of sympathy in Ida’s memory are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org

Ida Calligaro

Wayne
December 1, 2023

Anthony Bianco, age 70 of Paterson and formerly of Dumont and Vernon, died on December 1, 2023 after a brief illness. He had been an accountant throughout his career, retiring from Sabrett (Marathon Enterprises) of Englewood in 2018.

Anthony grew up in Paterson and graduated from Kennedy High School. He had been an active member of several youth groups as a young man and later became a member of the Elks Lodge in Tenafly, where he honorably served for many years, including as the Exalted Ruler. After retiring, he moved to Vernon and joined the Sparta UNICO where he served as treasurer of the chapter.

Anthony was an animal lover by any definition. He always kept a housecat, and sometimes as many as four at a time! While living in Vernon, he was thrilled to watch the wildlife that visited his property. He loved that there was always something to be observed out his window, and he especially loved watching the bears. He was also a fan of antique and classic cars. He also enjoyed attending the NASCAR races throughout the years. He would frequently attend the car shows that you see in shopping center parking lots around the area, and he would spend hours looking at each and every one of them.

Anthony is survived by his beloved cat, Max, and by his three cousins; Richard Natole, Christina Avigliano, and Robert Leo. He was predeceased by his parents, Anthony and Catherine (nee Murray) many years ago.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation in Anthony’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Anthony Bianco

Paterson
December 1, 2023

It is with bright sadness, in the hope of the resurrection, that Walter Nemitz died on November 30, 2023, after a brief illness.  Walter brought much joy to many during his 96 years of living, spending more than 50 years in Wayne, New Jersey, affectionately being known by many family members as the “Mayor”.

Walter was born in Jermyn, Pennsylvania on July 19, 1927, the 11th child of George and Catherine Nemitz (Pelacek).  After graduating from Jermyn High School, he served his country in Korea from 1945-1947 as a World War II veteran in the Army Air Force as an air mechanic and crew member on B-17s and PBY search and rescue planes. Walter returned home to begin a career spanning more than 50 years as a widely respected bartender in Midtown Manhattan, while raising his family in Cambria Heights, Queens, NY. He worked in restaurants and hotels including the Faison D’or Restaurant, Rose Restaurant on 52nd Street, St. Regis Hotel on 5th Avenue, ending his career at the landmark hotel, The Warwick Hotel on 54th and 6th Avenue. As an iconic New York City bartender, Walter served everyone with the same level of exceptional service regardless of their station in life, always ready with a smile and compassionate ear.  Along the way, he served many of the Yankee greats at Rose Restaurant, including Whitey Ford, Mickey Mantle, Roger Maris, Yogi Berra and Billy Martin. Other celebrities included Ted Williams, Joe DiMaggio, Truman Capote, Liberace, Mayor John Lindsey, Governor Cuomo, and many other notable sports, entertainment, and political figures.  Highlights of his career as one of the best bartenders in NYC during the “Mad Men” era, included being the personal bartender for Yankee Manager Ralph Houk during the 1964 World Series, head bartender at the newly renovated Randolph Bar at The Warwick, Hearst’s landmark hotel, where he also served Patty Hearst, Randolph’s granddaughter.  It was at The Warwick where Walter ended his career; the hotel provided him with a memorable retirement party attended by his many patrons from over the years.

Walter and Ina Barna married on October 6, 1951, at St. John’s Russian Orthodox Church in Mayfield, Pennsylvania.  They had a 72-year marriage that was as good and loving as any, they were a true team to the very end.  Together they created a loving and caring home where they raised their three children, James, George, and Lorraine.   They taught their children the values of hard work, responsibility, accountability, resilience, faith, and love.  Walter spent his retirement in Wayne, New Jersey.  He enjoyed an abundant life with his family, friends and was always looking for good values at the grocery store! Walter especially looked forward to a mealtime with a good drink and food, finding pleasure in hosting whoever had the good fortune of sharing that time with him and his beloved, Ina. They were exceptional hosts.  Everyone who entered their home was welcomed as royalty.  There was no limit to their gracious hospitality, with Walter preparing wonderful cocktails to enjoy and Ina cooking an abundance of food that would rival any kitchen.  Their home was always welcoming to those who entered, often being the focal point for both immediate and extended family celebrations, most memorable being the many years of bringing in the New Year!  Walter really enjoyed life and truly enjoyed having fun.  Walter’s passions included enjoying good food and drink, travel, airplanes and flying, car racing (especially Indy and NASCAR), New York Giants football, reading newspapers, enjoying country western and polka music and being a lifetime member of the Golden Age Club in Wayne, NJ.   He embraced and loved living his life fully to the very end.

In many ways the word “dedication” captures one of Walter’s basic characteristics as a person.  He was an incredibly dedicated person to his wife, his children, his family, his home, his work, and his church.  Walter always held himself to a high standard whether he was building his own garage or making a cocktail for a good friend.  He was dependable. He did not let people down; he was a true servant to others and always carried himself with the utmost dignity.  Walter was especially dedicated to his Eastern Orthodox faith, serving faithfully for decades in various capacities, including as a parish council member, at Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne, New Jersey.

Walter is survived by his loving wife, Ina (Barna); his son James and his wife, Nancy; his son George and his wife, Janine; his daughter Lorraine Ciarfella (Nemitz), and her husband Robert; his four grandchildren, Julianna Quick (Nemitz) and her husband Chris; Melissa Nemitz, Christopher Nemitz, and Alexia Ciarfella; and a great granddaughter, Nora Quick.

In lieu of flowers, please make your donation to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne NJ.

May His Memory Be Eternal!

Walter Nemitz

Wayne
November 30, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Amy E. Niosi (nee Parisi), age 41, of Wayne.  Amy passed away peacefully on Thursday November 30, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Ridgewood, NJ and was the oldest of three children to James and Susan Parisi.  At the age of four, Amy’s family moved to Howell, NJ where they resided for several years.  When Amy was in sixth grade, her family moved to Maywood.  While living in Maywood, she attended Hackensack High School where she excelled in Academics and was on the high school tennis team.

After graduating from Hackensack High School with the class of 2000, Amy attended Caldwell University where she studied English Literature. Amy graduated from Caldwell University in 2004 earning her Bachelor Degree and certification as a public school teacher.  She found employment quickly at Paterson Catholic High School where she taught English Literature.  Amy remained at Paterson Catholic for about seven years until accepting a position at Passaic Valley High School.  

It was clear to everyone that knew Amy, that she had found her true calling in the vibrant world of high school English literature. With a genuine love for the written word, she embarked on a fulfilling journey as an English literature teacher. Amy's classroom was not just a space for learning; it was a judgement-free haven, an open door, and a safe place for all to vent and receive welcomed life advice.   Amy reveled in the joy of introducing her students to the timeless classics, and the discussions that transcended the pages of textbooks. Amy's legacy as an inspiring educator will echo through the corridors of the high school and shaped the literary journeys of those fortunate enough to be her students.  She was sincerely loved and respected by her students and colleagues.  Throughout the years Amy's former students made a conscience effort to keep in touch with her.  And in turn Amy did the same.

In 2008, while at a fund raiser in Hackensack, Amy met a handsome young man at the event named James Niosi.  The two hit it off great and started to date for the next several years.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on July 8, 2012, Amy and Jim became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Ridgefield Park, NJ and resided there for about five years.  While living there, they welcomed the birth of their first child, their daughter Ariel.  The family moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 2016 where they welcomed their second child, their son John.  The family has called Wayne their home ever since.

While living in Wayne, Amy was a member of the Packanack Mother’s Club.  Amy also loved to read. You could often find her lost in the pages of old, wonderful stories, and classic novels.  She was a joyful woman who simply adored animals and treasured keeping up with popular culture.  But aside from all of Amy’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Amy than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  Amy and Jim cherished eleven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Amy was not only devoted to her family but was also truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  

Amy was a remarkable woman, known for her warm and loving nature that embraced everyone surrounding her.  Her caring and sweet demeanor made her a cherished presence in the lives of those fortunate enough to have known her.  Amy had a unique ability to be upfront and honest, yet always maintained a deep respect for others.  Her sincerity and straightforwardness were never harsh; instead, they were delivered with a gentle touch that left people appreciating her authenticity.  What set Amy apart was her innate talent for connecting with others on a profound level.  Whether through a shared laugh, a comforting gesture, or an empathetic conversation, she had a way of creating bonds that felt like a warm embrace, making her a beloved friend to everyone.

Amy will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, daughter and truly respected and loved educational figure.  She will be sincerely missed by her family, friends, and colleagues.

Amy is survived by her husband Jimmy Niosi and her two children; Ariel and John, all of Wayne, NJ, her mother Susan Parisi of Wayne, two sisters; Amanda Tasca and her husband Steve of Vernon, NJ, and Alyssa Parisi of Wayne, three nieces; Eliana, Serafina, and Marabella, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family.  Amy was predeceased by her father James Parisi in 2018.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Amy’s name may be made to the National Blue Army Shrine of our Lady of Fatima

Amy E. Niosi

Wayne
November 30, 2023

Harry M. Barany, age 69, of Pequannock passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 30, 2023 at home surrounded by his wife and kids. Harry was born in Paterson, NJ, to Harry and Martha Barany, was one of seven children and was raised in Wayne, NJ. He attended Catholic grammar school and graduated from Wayne Valley High School class of 1973. 

For work Harry was a jack of all trades. Some of the places he worked included Politi Auto, OK Battery, Bertolini Engineering Co., Foremost Machine Builders, Arrow Sheds, and Palisades Insurance. He later owned Sunset Valley Inspections where he worked as an insurance inspector. He also enjoyed working as a fire inspector for Pequannock, Kinnelon, and Butler Townships. 

Harry was dedicated to being a volunteer fire fighter for over 40 years in both Wayne Company 1 and Pequannock Company 2. As a fireman he held the positions of company president, engineer, participated in fire prevention, taught the junior firefighter program, and he was a secretary of exempt and local relief for many years. As a fireman Harry was certified in Arson investigation and as a Fire instructor at the Morris County NJ Fire Academy.

Harry was extremely hard working, thoughtful, romantic, devoted to his family, an avid dating tip giver to his son, he was generous and would lend a helping hand to anyone that asked. He had a great sense of humor, a goofy personality and was always successful at making his family laugh. Harry was very outgoing and friendly, the life of the party. He loved to cook and grill and was famous for his crumb cake, sourdough bread, garlic bread, Thanksgiving day pies, and he made the BEST coffee. Some of the things he enjoyed were walks on the beach collecting shells, fishing, golfing, bowling, dancing with Diane, coaching little league baseball, and flying kites. He enjoyed softball both playing in the Pequannock Reformed Church and Pequannock Men’s Softball Leagues. He loved to travel and two of his favorite destinations were Maine and Hilton Head, SC. 

Harry was a member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne for over 30 years and a recent member of Emergence Church in Totowa. At Pequannock Reformed Church he served as an elder, deacon, Classis Representative, Sunday school teacher, and sang in the church choir. Harry’s faith and love for Jesus led him to be a good and faithful servant. 

Harry met his wife, Diane, of 42 years, on a blind date at a mutual friend's house. He was late for their first introduction because he was busy washing dishes, but he made up for that by proposing on the second date, and she said yes! They married on June 21, 1981 at Pequannock Reformed church in Wayne and had the reception at Perona Farms in Andover. Harry and Diane were blessed with 3 children, Dana, Emily and Harrison. Their family continues to grow with the addition of son-in-law Brian, daughter-in-law Juliana and two precious granddaughters Serena and Fiona. 

In memory of Harry, donations can be made to Pequannock Engine Company 2 or the NJ State Fireman’s Association. 

Harry M. Barany

Pequannock
November 30, 2023

Jennifer A. Bonsanto, aged 56, of Wayne, passed away on November 28, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of love, warmth, and a life well-lived. Jennifer was a proud graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Fairleigh Dickinson University. Her journey through life was marked by a remarkable career, and a deep commitment to her family. One of Jennifer’s most endearing qualities was her quick-witted remarks and clever observations bringing humor to all who were fortunate enough to share in her company.

Jennifer commenced her professional journey as a skilled beautician, bringing joy and confidence to those who entrusted her with their care. Later, she transitioned into the steamship industry, showcasing her versatility and determination in pursuing her passions.

A devoted wife to Michael Bonsanto, the love of her life for the past 32 years. Jennifer's love extended to her cherished children, Nicholas, 23 and Julianna, 18. Her role as a mother was central to her identity, and the love she bestowed upon her family was immeasurable.

Jennifer is survived by her sisters Suzanne Ricciardelli and Mabel Van Daalen, along with their respective spouses Vincent Ricciardelli and Bill De Mio. She will be dearly missed by her nephew Vincent Ricciardelli and his girlfriend Margot Kolator, niece Jacalyn Van Daalen, and “newest sister” Jo Ann Richardelli. Jennifer's presence and love created a tapestry of family bonds that will endure through the generations.

Apart from her family, Jennifer had a special affection for Ortley Beach, NJ, where she found solace and joy. Her love for this seaside haven was a reflection of her appreciation for life's simple pleasures.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Friends of Wayne Animals, American Diabetes Association, or the American Liver Foundation, organizations that held personal significance for Jennifer.

Her memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing and loving her. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the love she so freely gave during her time on this earth.

Jennifer Bonsanto

Wayne
November 28, 2023

Raffaele Monte, age 88 of Wayne, NJ,  passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 surrounded by family and friends.

Raffaele was born to Francesco and Nicolina Monte in Serino, Italy and grew up alongside his siblings, Anita Monte Romeo (deceased), Teresa Monte Romeo, and Donato Monte (deceased).

While living in Italy, Raffaele served as a Lieutenant in the Italian Army, until he followed his brother and father to the United States in 1963. After his transition to America, Raffaele worked in a variety of occupations. Until retirement, Raffaele worked in Kearfott Corporation/BAE Systems for over 35 years as a Quality Control Manager. Prior to that, he worked in the textile industry, sold insurance, owned a deli, and taught Italian in Ridgewood.

Raffaele met the love of his life, Pina, in 1963, just one week after his coming to America. They got married on July 16, 1966 and moved into their first home on Maple Avenue in Woodland Park. In 1986, they moved to Wayne, where Raffaele lived until his final days. They were happily married for 57 years and they are blessed with three children and six grandchildren.

Raffaele was a selfless, dedicated, and kind family man who cherished spending time with family and friends. In retirement years, he spent a lot of time growing his vegetable garden, and spreading his love for his Italian culture through his homemade tomato sauce and wine. In addition to family, the greatest love in his life was Inter soccer. Raffaele served as one of the founders of the Inter Club Facchetti. Additionally, he was a member of the Roma Sports Club for over 60 years, to which he served as Vice President for many of them. The Roma Sports Club brought together the Italian-American community who all shared the love of sports.

Raffaele is survived by his wife, Pina (nee DiGangi) of Wayne, their three children; Marcello Monte and his wife Jerolyn of Wayne, NJ, Nicholas Monte and his wife Alison of Brick, NJ, and Danielle Bressner and her husband Kevin of Perry Hall, MD, and six grandchildren, Sophia, William, Joseph, Oliver, Cole, and Jack.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Raffaele’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org.

Raffaele Monte

Wayne
November 28, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Florence R. Mischuk (nee Zbytniewski), age 88, of Wayne NJ and formerly of Flushing, NY.

Florence passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 28, 2023, while receiving the loving care of her family. She was born and raised in Maspeth, NY, and was one of four children to Joseph and Helen Zbytniewski.

In her youth, Florence attended Bishop McDonnell High School in Brooklyn and graduated with the class of 1953. Following graduation, she was employed by American Airlines in the company’s Lost and Found Department and was often amused by the variety of lost items they collected. As an employee of the airline, Florence received the benefit of free airfare, which helped spur her love of travel and adventure.

In 1954, she caught the eye of a handsome American Navy Veteran named Myron Mischuk, while attending a Catholic Youth Organization dance. Florence’s beauty and elegant sense of style, in addition to their shared faith and Polish heritage, encouraged Myron to ask her out on a date to White Castle, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and soon married. On August 6, 1955, they became husband and wife at St. Stanislaus Church in New York City, where her father was the organist. A reception at the Governor Clinton Hotel in Manhattan followed the ceremony.

The newlyweds settled in the Auburndale section of Flushing, NY, where they purchased a two-family home along with Florence’s sister Theresa and brother-in-law George. While living there, they welcomed their only child, their daughter Maria (who they nicknamed Mia), and Florence left her job to become a full-time homemaker. This was truly Florence’s calling and where she genuinely flourished. Florence poured her time, energy, and nurturing spirit into creating a supportive and loving environment for her daughter’s childhood. Once Mia set off to college, Florence, with pride and fulfillment, decided to reenter the workforce. She accepted a job with the Registrar department of St. John’s University in Queens, NY, and held this position until her retirement.  

Florence was very creative and often enjoyed crafting and learning new skills such as piano and crocheting. As part of a family of accomplished musicians, artists, and performers, she developed a deep appreciation for music and art. She spent much of her life enjoying diverse genres of music, from classical to jazz to pop and beyond, each resonating in the walls of her home. Florence loved to dance, and she and Myron continued perfecting their Lindy Hop dance moves at such events as the Kosciusko Foundation Balls and the Cresthaven Yacht Club socials. She was a devotee of Big Band music and Broadway Musicals and enjoyed creating elaborate décor for theme parties she and her family hosted in the rumpus room of their home. She became known for entertaining with style and for her perfect Manhattan cocktails.

Florence and Myron also found great joy in traveling the world. Some of their destinations included Hawaii, Poland, Germany, Bermuda, England, and France, as well as many US tourist locations.

Above all, Florence’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to her than providing for and spending time with her friends and family. She was a truly devoted wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and godmother. Florence and Myron cherished thirty-four years of loving and loyal marriage until Myron’s passing in 1989, after which she took on the role of caregiver for her mother in her advanced age and for her sister when she became ill.  

Florence was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic faith. While residing in Queens, she and her family were parishioners of St. Kevin’s RC Church. In addition, she had been a hostess at the 1964 World’s Fair Vatican Pavilion exhibit, where she was among those who gave tours to bishops, actors, politicians, and the public. After the passing of her sister, she moved to Wayne, NJ, to be near her daughter and son-in-law and help raise her granddaughter, Stephanie. There, Florence became a parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, where she relished the liturgical music of Warren Helms so much, she became a contributor to the funding of the church’s new organ and her name appears on the plaque of donors.  

Florence will be forever remembered as a woman truly dedicated to her family and faith, and as one who always had a smile on her face. She will be sincerely missed by all who knew her, especially her daughter who confirms that she was the most sincere listener and shoulder to lean on.

Florence is survived by her daughter Maria “Mia” Mischuk-O’Brien and her husband William of Wayne, NJ, her brother John Zbytniewski and his wife Natalie of Southold, NY, one granddaughter Stephanie O’Brien, several godchildren, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. Florence was predeceased by her husband Myron Mischuk, her grandson Brendan O’Brien, her sister Theresa Cognard, and her brother Joseph Zbytniewski.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Florence’s name may be made to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church  or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Florence R. Mischuk

Wayne
November 28, 2023

Andrew F. Noll’s Life Story

Andrew F. Noll III, age 92, of Ringwood, New Jersey, passed away peacefully in the early morning of Monday, November 27, 2023. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Lorraine Noll, his sister Gail Silva, his daughters; Loren Noll, Kathy Drago and her husband Mike Drago, and Sharon Weiss, his grandchildren; Danielle Drago, Justin Weiss, Kristen Weiss, and Michael Drago, and his nieces and nephew. He was predeceased by his sister Patricia DeMasso and his son-in-law Scott Weiss.

Andrew was born to Andrew and Margaret Noll in Mt. Vernon, New York on December 25, 1930. He was raised in Dumont, New Jersey with his two sisters, Patricia and Gail. After graduating from Dumont High School, he studied architecture in New York City.

After studying architecture, he transitioned into a successful career in banking. Before retiring, Andrew worked as the Senior Vice President at United Jersey Bank, where he worked for over 30 years. Andrew also served in the United States Army during the European Occupation as a Sergeant in the 1st Infantry Division. During his retirement, he spent his free time volunteering as the Treasurer for the Skyland Association with the New Jersey Botanical Gardens.

Andrew was a man of few words but was never afraid to speak his mind. There was nowhere he loved more than his property in Gilboa, New York. Sitting on over 20 acres of land, the house on the property was built by Andrew with the help of his family and friends. He would take trips hunting, taking care of the property, and just enjoying the land. Over the years, the property became a shared place for his children, and eventually their own families, to enjoy as well. It became an inside joke within his family that whenever Andrew got the call that someone was taking a trip to Gilboa, he would be ready and waiting to leave within five minutes. Andrew was a skilled woodworker and was known for carving intricate statues and decoys. For over 30 years, he would gift Santa figurines to his daughters that he carved and painted by hand. He also loved making furniture for his family, and many of the pieces he’s created are used daily by his loved ones.

Andrew met the love of his life, Lorraine Keeble, while working at People’s Trust Bank in Westwood, New Jersey. They married in the autumn of 1957.  Andrew and Lorraine were blessed with three lovely daughters: Loren, Kathy, and Sharon. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 66 years.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the New Jersey Botanical Gardens would be greatly appreciated.

Andrew F. Noll, III

Ringwood
November 27, 2023

Aurora Smith, age 99, of Wayne passed Sunday, November 26, 2023, surrounded and comforted by family.

She is survived by her children: son, Cliff Smith of Escondido, CA; daughter, Louise (nee Smith) and her husband Mark Aceino of Butler, NJ and Louise’s three daughters Lindsay, Jackie, & Melanie and their husbands Yaron, Mike, and Kevin respectively, and great-grandchildren Aiden & Becca (Lindsay & Yaron), and Phoebe (Mel & Kev); son, Steve and his wife Irene of Sackets Harbor, NY and their children Steve & Kelly; and son David and his wife Emily of Orlando, FL, and their two children, Justin & Dani and Justin’s wife Emely and two more great-grandchildren, Keanu & Harold (Justin & Emely).

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Children of Fallen Patriots.  Children of Fallen Patriots provides college scholarships and educational counseling to military children who have lost a parent in the line of duty.  Donations can be made online at Donate to CFP Donation Page (fallenpatriots.org) or by mail, with a note indicating the donation is “in honor of Aurora Smith” and addressed to:

Children of Fallen Patriots

1818 Library Street

Suite 500

Reston, VA 20190

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Mom’s “Dash”

Summing up 99 years of such a wonderful life is difficult, but if you’ve got some time and want to get to know our Mom a little better, grab a drink, perhaps some tissues and settle in.

Mom’s world began and ended with Family.  Her parents, Orazio and Louise Zanin (nee Razzolini) – whom she loved dearly, were immigrants to the US from Northern Italy.  Following his Service as an artilleryman in the Italian Army during WWI, the already engaged Orazio, met Louise.  They fell in love, got married and shortly thereafter, immigrated to the US thru Canada, settling in Buffalo, New York.  (We suspect there were multiple reasons for their immigration and assume escaping the wrath of Grandpa’s spurned fiancé was among them… but that remains uncorroborated).  Grandpa came from a large Family, many of whom had already immigrated and settled between Hamilton in Canada and across the border in Buffalo, NY.

In Buffalo, they shared a home with Grandma’s sister and her Family, where they raised four children of their own: twins Armando and Adriana; our Mom, Aurora; and their younger brother, Amerigo whom we affectionately called “Uncle Butch”.

She would fondly share stories of her childhood and life growing up in Buffalo, surrounded by extended Family and close friends.  For us it was always a bit confusing as she often referred to multiple people as “Zia & Zio”.  As kids, we assumed they were their given names and that it odd she knew so many people with the same names.  Only later did we learn “Zia & Zio” were just Italian for Aunt & Uncle. (We were kids, so stop your judging!)

Mom adored her parents (that’s a call back to the first paragraph).  Whenever she spoke of them, she beamed.  To her, Grandpa, was a “renaissance man,” willing and able to do or try anything and Grandma the epitome of what a wife and Mom should be – caring, nurturing and always there for her family (this is called foreshadowing).

As a young girl, growing up during prohibition and the depression, she and her family did whatever was necessary to get by.  Grandpa held multiple jobs, doing anything and everything to support them.  At one point he distilled his own liquor and used their family car to transport and deliver it to local speakeasies. On one such journey, my Mom rode along with the barrels hidden under a blanket on which she was seated.  Like many we suppose, he ultimately got caught and had to spend a little time “in college” … or at least that was the euphemism Mom used when she told us the story.    

Like her Dad, Mom saw herself as “fearless,” willing to try anything.  She loved to play sports and, despite her 5’ 4” frame, basketball was her favorite.  Nevertheless, she grew up in a time where there were things that ladies just didn’t do.  While she desperately wanted to get and learn how to ride a bike, Grandpa thought it neither appropriate, nor “ladylike” and chose not to allow it.  Despite her disappointment, Mom abided.

A recurring theme in Mom’s childhood stories was that she “never got in trouble”.  Yet, recognizing the difficulty the four of us had (have?) avoiding it, we often wondered whether she was being truthful or just thought that if she said it enough, maybe it would take root in us…it did not.  As her siblings adored her, we’ve never managed to gather any substantive proof to the contrary.

Though she never really spoke much about her scholastic abilities, it was evident she was more than just a pretty face.  She was a voracious reader and could carry on conversations about most topics.  While she wanted to go to college, the attack on Pearl Harbor changed her plans as she instead entered the workforce.  She took a job with National Gypsum in Buffalo, which manufactured building supplies and other materials to support the war effort.  She very much enjoyed the opportunity to “spread her wings,” earning a paycheck to help at home, and connecting with co-workers and others outside home and school.

As a young, working woman, she continued living at home.  Although she met and dated several eligible men, a few of whom proposed to her, none quite caught her fancy enough for her to commit.  In 1957, while on a vacation in the Poconos at the Chestnut Lodge, she met our Dad who had recently left the Army following his service in the war.  Describing how they met, Dad made it clear that he was immediately smitten, proposing to her on their first date!  While she initially deferred, Dad persisted and subsequently won her over.  They were married on November 8th, 1958, in Buffalo, New York and moved to Hoboken, NJ to start their life together.

For the next 6 years, they were quite “busy”.  Mom gave birth to Cliff in August, 1959; Louise in January, 1961, Steve in March, 1962; and Dave in April, 1964.  After Cliff was born, Mom & Dad moved to the North Jersey town of Saddle Brook, buying a small “Cape Cod” home within walking distance of our grammar school.  That was where we shared our formative years under our parent’s oversight and, at least for us, remains “home”.  There, they provided us with all we needed, each working hard to give us a wonderful childhood.

When we were very young, Mom stayed at home, busy raising the four of us and taking exceptional care of our home.  While we were in no way a family “of means,” it never felt that way.  Mom stretched every dollar Dad earned to assure we were always fed, clothed, and cared for!  She used her cooking skills to make great food (unless it was lentil soup or Liver & onions which our Dad loved… and we did not!), sewing skills to make & repair clothes, curtains, slip covers and just about anything else made of fabric, and about a bazillion bottles of mercurochrome and St Joseph’s aspirin to fix us!

When Dad got laid off in the early 70’s, Mom went back to work, getting a secretarial job at Grand Union, a grocery chain with its headquarters in Elmwood Park, NJ.  She worked full time, Monday thru Friday while Dad worked odd jobs, refusing to take unemployment.  Between them, they assured we had no wants, parenting us through the 70’s and early 80’s (think crazy long hair… yes, that’s what we said) before we fledged ourselves.

When not working, Mom was a member of the Saddle Brook Women’s Club & a local theater group.  She thoroughly enjoyed socializing and entertaining, always conscious to carry and represent herself and our Family well outside the house.  She and the other neighborhood Moms would take turns hosting “Coffee Klatches,” sharing the latest about their Families and all that was going on in their lives.  She would often invite “company” to our house – whether relatives, neighbors, or friends… again.  Every visit was punctuated with good conversation, laughter, and some sort of Entenmann’s cake.    

She loved to shop though, given our limited income, “shopping ≠ buying”.  And while shopping, particularly when we were young, she’d always bring (drag?) the four of us with her.  While Louise quickly learned to love it, the three boys quickly learned to dread these “outings”.  (Editorial comment: it always seemed as though we just wandered around aimlessly for hours, in and out of every store, looking at everything and coming away with nothing… still a mystery to at least three of us!)

While Dad was clearly more imposing, Mom was no shrinking violet when it came to meting out punishment.  Again, Louise was rarely in her crosshairs, the boys seemed to attract it.  Her “go to” implement was the “wooden spoon,” (yes, that really was a thing).  While she had a very long fuse, as she had much more patience than most – there was indeed a limit.  She broke many a spoon raising us and, despite how it may sound – it was necessary and helped shape us into who we are today.  That said, there were indeed times when even the spoon wasn’t enough, and she would throw her trump card, “what until your father gets home!”  Those days / nights never ended well.  (Again, at least for the boys).

While she was the most caring and adoring parent, grandparent, and great grandparent in the world, she was oddly never an “animal person” nor a fan of “the great outdoors” – the exact opposite of Dad and the four of us (at least with the animals… Louise tended to side with Mom on the outdoors stuff).  Yet, she chose to “take one for the team,” letting us have pets and occasionally even agreeing to go camping – though she was clearly a fish out of water on those occasions!

While she drove (and was proud of it), she hated driving on highways, more often than not, choosing “to take the back roads”.  Doing so would invariably turn a :20-minute drive into an hour.  Now, she was not keen on directions which, upon reflection, is quite at odds with “taking the back way”.  So, what should have taken an hour, was now a solid hour and a half.  (But hey, at least we had AM Radio!)

She was incredibly proud of her Italian heritage, and, to our benefit, it reflected in her cooking.  Her lasagna was and remains the best we’ve ever had – and we’ll fight you if you think differently.  She would make sauce every few weeks, cooking it all day in a huge pot on the stove.  The smell of her sauce wafting through the house would invariably draw us to the kitchen where we’d wait anxiously for it to finish.  We’d be standing by with Italian bread, occasionally dipping bread into the pot when she wasn’t looking.  Then, after she poured it into containers to freeze, we’d attack the pot like hungry vultures!

Perry Como was far and away her favorite singer – she loved dancing with my Dad to his music.  It’s that last bit, that is perhaps what we will remember most.  The enduring love affair between them to which we were treated with front row seats.  While, like every couple, they had their moments – the time they spent together dancing (and it was much more often than you may think), was pure romance.  The way they looked at each other, held each other, and danced made it clear – there was nowhere else in the world they would rather be in those moments.  And that is how we will remember them.  Together, dancing in heaven, forever.

Bonus material - a few more personal stories:

Cliff: My memories of mom are many with some more prominent than others. I too was attracted to the kitchen and learned MANY different recipes from Mom and her family, particularly the Italian ones that to this day have stayed with me. While keeping true to the original, I blended them with my own style, all firmly based upon mom’s original family taught, tried and true go-to Italian dishes.  The many memories of what was for dinner or even more so, what’s in the pot, were paramount as growing children and young adults. Mom’s work with Grand Union provided our growing family with the added benefit and unforeseen bounty of various large roasts and meats provided to her because of her job as the assistant to the National Meat Buyer at Grand Union. Growing up we were fortunate to have so much protein, great for boys in sports, that we would literally take bags of meats and deliver them to our neighbors who also had young growing families…take this bag to Mrs. Linkletter, take this bag to Mrs. Puzio, and take this bag to Mrs. Evans, all of whom loved her special perk.  Both within our family and our neighbors’, everyone’s kids participated in many different sports, which required a great deal of calories to support. Her generosity towards them helped forge healthy kids and strong bodies all around our immediate neighborhood, none of which was fully recognized until years later.

Mom also had a particular fondness for our childhood pet cats and music. Cats, known for kindness and softness, provided mom with moments of sheer terror as they would intertwine between her legs while she cooked over the stove or peeled vegetables in the sink. As we watched late afternoon episodes of Batman, hoping for a CAT-woman villain, along with other shows of that era, Mom would suddenly let out a blood curdling scream from the kitchen as if she burned or cut herself badly. Alas, it was just the cat merely showing love to be quickly followed by, “get this “darn” cat out of here…I hate it!”

Musically, both mom and dad were from a different era where melody and crooners were the music of their day. I on the other hand was into anything but. From the soul pounding blues stylings of Led Zepplin to the Rolling Stones, to the R&B Funk bands of the day, the only music she could stand was Steely Dan, a staple of my listening library. All of these were played fiercely loud by a Soundsystem that literally dimmed the house lights due to the power they consumed and the volumes at which they were played. Ahh large stereo systems…nothing like it!  A particular song that became one of moms’ favorites was Eric Clapton’s, Lay Down Sally, that mom just adored. Oh, this is a nice song she would say, and come time for the chorus, “Lay Down Sally” became “Way Down South”, to which we would look at her proudly singing along while literally changing the lyrics completely unaware of the true words. Hey, Mom was singing, so why ruin things…sing on Mom!

Losing her, as one could imagine, is not easy, nor should it be. We were a loving family who cared greatly for each other and Mom’s support in whatever we were doing was always proud, loud, and evident.  Rest easy Mom, you were one of the best to ever own the title and wear the crown.  

Wease:  As Mom's only daughter I was blessed to have such an extraordinary woman as my Mom and roll model.  Mom was strong, kind, fun, creative and loving.  Her love and pride in her family was ever at the forefront.  She delighted in her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  No matter what kind of day she might be having her eyes would shine brightly when she was around them.  My girls especially had the privilege to spend a lot of time with her and benefit from her life lessons of what family means and so much more.   Mom was a lady to her core.  She always made an effort to primp and present herself as a lady should.  Some might think that old-fashioned but for Mom it was simply who she was, and she was admired by all for that quality.   Mom was very creative and would tell us that her childhood dream was to become an actress.  Although that particular dream wasn't fulfilled, she joined a local drama club in Saddle Brook and enjoyed it immensely.  Mom was also an incredible self-taught seamstress.   She made me the most beautiful dresses growing up and even sewed her own wedding dress.  She would tell us the story of how her Dad helped her cut out the pattern on their huge dining room table.  Of course, it was stunning, and Mom looked incredible.  How lucky and blessed I was to have such a special lady as my role model.   I will love you forever Mom.

Steve: Once, when I was 5, my Mom took an overnight trip with her brothers to visit my Aunt Adriana.  This was quite out of the ordinary for my Mom, as I don’t ever recall a time before or since that she traveled anywhere without my Dad or us, overnight.  Nevertheless, she’d arranged for a neighborhood girl to babysit the four of us while my Dad was at work.  That first day, Cliff was teaching me to ride my bike without training wheels in the backyard.  Together we decided I was ready for a road test, so we moved to the front yard, and he helped launch me down the driveway and into the street in front of the house.  It was awesome and I headed down the street on my own.  After briefly stopping to see if my friend was home (he wasn’t), I doubled back towards my house without first checking my 6.  Lying on the road, under the front end of a car, I realized I may have gotten ahead of myself.  While I don’t know the exact chain of events surrounding the notification of my Mom – I just know she got back home as quickly as she could and made my Dad take her to the hospital.  Seeing her in my room after the day’s event was perhaps the most welcome and reassuring sight of my life.  From that point on, within what the hospital would permit and afterwards through my recovery -- my Mom (and Dad) was there to care for me, fight for me and nurse me through about a 6 month recovery.   She’s always been there for my siblings and I – and I know somehow, she will be with us always.  Love you forever, Mom.  Get the sauce started, we’ll bring the Italian bread.

Dave:  Fighting back the tears as I write this and thinking about all the memories I have of my Mom is not easy.  Everything my brothers and sisters have shared about Mom sums up how much we loved her.  I wish I had called more or visited more but it's too late.  I'm so sorry mom, I will always remember you and love you and think of you forever.  Now go dance with Dad, ya hear?!!

Aurora Smith

Butler
November 26, 2023

Ion Petrescu, age 91 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 25, 2023, exactly sixteen years to the very day that his beloved wife Stefana left this world. Now they are reunited.

Ion was born and raised in Curtea de Arges, Romania.

After high school Ion pursued his dream of serving in the Romanian Army. He attended the Romanian Military Academy with the goal of qualifying to serve in the tank division. Technically, at six feet two inches tall, Ion was too big to fit properly, according to Army standards, in a tank, but he insisted that this was how he wanted to serve. The Army ultimately accommodated his wishes and Ion went on to attain the rank of Colonel and serve a thirty-plus year career as a tank commander and, for the last five years before retirement in 1986, as a professor in the Technical Military Academy of Bucharest teaching young soldiers tank combat maneuvers in even smaller tanks.

Ion met the love of his life, his beautiful wife Stefana, in his hometown of Curtea de Arges. They married on March 8, 1956 in the Curtea de Arges Monastery (Mănăstirea Curtea de Argeș). They were blessed with a storybook marriage including the blessing of their daughter Delia.

After Delia moved to the United States in 1986, Ion and Stefana began wintering with her and her husband Liviu in 1992. In 2007, they permanently relocated to the USA.

The greatest benefit of coming to America was the precious time that Ion was able to spend time with his daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren. He loved playing with his grandchildren and they always enjoyed hearing his interesting stories. But alas, kids eventually grow up and move out. When that time came, he turned his attention to the care of the family pooches, Fabio and Chance. He even tried to teach those dogs military time so that they knew exactly when to eat – 1800 hours. In between, Ion worked on writing his memoirs. He never finished but he left his family with lots of clearly written notes to share the tales of his rich life.

Ion was a quiet, soft-spoken man who lived life by the book and on a military schedule. His family was his greatest love and finest treasure.

Ion is survived by his loving daughter Dr. Delia Rappaport and husband Liviu, his two grandchildren: Sarah Rappaport and Jacob Rappaport and wife Kristen; his precious two-month old great-grandson Austin; and his sister Milita in Romania. He was predeceased by his older sister.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ion’s name are asked to consider:  

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society

P.O. Box 22324

New York, NY 10087

To donate by phone: 888-557-7177

Please indicate that your gift is in loving memory of Ion Petrescu

Ion Petrescu

Kinnelon
November 25, 2023

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