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Thomas James Williams, Jr. age 52, of Wayne, passed quietly and unexpectedly on Friday, November 24, 2023. Tom was born in Pequannock to Tom and Corinne Williams, he was raised in Wayne and graduated from DePaul High School.

An incredibly kind-hearted, genuine and humorous gentleman, Tom met the woman who became his wife, Dana Kuehm, at Farms View in Wayne. Tom and Dana married at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson on December 6, 1998, and honeymooned in Las Vegas then Disney World and then on a cruise. Their marriage was just shy of 25 years and blessed them with two sons: Alec and Adam.

For all the characteristics and personality that Tom had, he is best known as a selfless, thoughtful, caring, devoted and fantastic father to his sons. Tom lived what he believed and gave those same traits to his children. Tom’s love of nature and the outdoors was also a way of life.  Tom was most at peace in the tranquility of hunting and fishing with his sons.  He proudly wore the title of an Eagle Scout, a testament to his dedication, leadership, and unwavering commitment to serving others. Tom coached baseball and hockey for both boys.

Tom was always humble and kind.  His selflessness was evident everyday, one of his father in laws favorite memories was when he went to visit him at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital. A normally cold place, Tom’s mother-in-law was wearing a sweat shirt, only to find out there was a malfunction with the hospital’s heat and the room was unbearably hot.  Tom took the shirt off his back so that she could wear it. Of course, he had some explaining to do when he got home from the hospital shirtless.

Tom was the loving husband of Dana Kuehm-Williams; loving father of Alec and Adam Williams; son of Tom and Corrine Williams; 2 brothers; nephews & nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Daynas Pink Wishes, daynaspinkwishes.org, would be greatly appreciated.

Thomas James Williams, Jr.

Wayne
November 24, 2023

Lilia C Andres, age 92, of Wayne NJ passed away on November 20th, 2023.

Lilia was born to Manuel P. Dopazo and Carmen Sabas in Entre Rios,  Argentina.  Her mother passed away from Pneumonia when she was just 10 months old.  Her father then married Sara Petrona Izaguirrez.  Her sister Sara Ines Dopazo was born of this marriage.

Lilia grew up in Entre Rios and went to school in Concordia. She went on to become a teacher.  She moved to Cordoba where she met Carlos Andres.  They married and had two daughters, Silvia and Maria Alejandra. In 1963 they emigrated to the United States.  In the US “Lila” worked as a teacher and graduated from St. John’s University with a Master’s Degree in Spanish Literature.   Later on, she worked with Carlos in their jewelry store “Andres Jewelers” in Paterson and then moved the store to Pompton Plains.  Silvia married Mario H Gonzalez and Alejandra married Robert Wuss. Silvia and Mario gave them 4 grandchildren: Mario, Gabriela, Gaston and Alejandro.  Maria and Robert had 3 children, Robert, Gregory and Matthew.  Maria died of cancer and Robert married Denise and had 2 daughters, Danielle and Nicole.  “Lila” had 4 great grandchildren August, Jasper, Carla and Nuno.

“Lila” enjoyed reading, gardening and dancing.  She loved playing with her grandchildren.  She was a very elegant, fashionable woman. She loved to entertain.  Her table settings had to be perfect and Mario and Robert enjoyed teasing her by removing food from her presentations before dinner was started! They also loved annoying her and even after she started losing her memory she would respond with a quick comeback. That playfulness remained well into her last days.  She was feisty but just as loving.  She will be missed by all that knew her.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Lilia Andres

Wayne
November 20, 2023

Gaetana M. Acquaviva, age 92, entered into our God’s glorious kingdom on Saturday, November 18, 2023.

Gae was born on July 27, 1931 in Paterson, NJ. She was the second child of Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio(a) of Italy.  Gae celebrated her youth in Paterson, often discussing the long walks she would take to swimming pools, hikes in the woods, visits with aunts and uncles, big band concerts, church-centered festivals, and dances at the local Polish halls. She enjoyed singing in the acapella choir as a young girl and attending and participating in local opera productions.

Gae and Vince Acquaviva were married in 1954 and were active members of the Blessed Sacrament Roman Catholic parish community in Paterson, NJ. There they volunteered whenever needed, especially during the annual Parish Festival. Great memories of rides and stands, exceptional sausage and peppers sandwiches, and fresh zeppole were made.  Gae and Vince raised their two children, Camille and Vincent in the Riverside section where lifelong friendships and a love of our Italian-American heritage were firmly established.  Strong faith and values, devotion to family, country, and community, loyalty, tolerance, service, generosity, and compassion were ingrained daily.

Gae had compassion for and believed in a life of service to those with health challenges and to those in need financially or emotionally.  Her door was always open to joyfully serve and feed anyone who entered.

Gae worked in many capacities since she was 18 years old. She entered the work force as a medical secretary for local doctors and later worked as secretary at Kearfott Corporation before her children were born.  Gae had a strong work ethic and believed in contributing to her family’s income as her mother did before her.  She later worked in the main branch of the Paterson Public Library for several years, where she truly enjoyed her service in the music department.  There she arranged regular musical events and shared her love of music, theatre, and opera with her family.  She and Vince brought her children to their first Broadway musical where they had backstage passes and met with the star of the show!  Gae was also a beloved piano teacher after work and sometimes on Saturday mornings.  She loved the music vocation and the opportunity to further contribute to her family’s income. Again seeking to further benefit her family, Gae began college in her forties, and graduated from William Paterson University as a Teacher- Librarian in 1978, on the same day as her daughter’s college graduation. Gae then began teaching and completed her teaching career in 1997.  She was a trail blazer. Gae did it all – home, family, wife, career, and lots of socializing!

Gae loved to spend time with her husband, children, grandchildren, her parents, her brother Carmine, her brothers and sisters-in-law, and she cherished her nieces and nephews.  She remained close with her aunts and uncles, cousins, and their now grown children and was loved by all.

Gae always felt blessed, no matter life’s circumstances.  She believed that you must take the good with the bad and always be thankful.

Gae was a loving wife, mother, daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin, and friend.  She was a prayerful and faithful woman throughout her life, with a special devotion to the Blessed Mother.  An active member of the Legion of Mary, regular prayers, rosary recitation, visits to the sick, and works of charity were offered as part of her devotion to Our Lady.

Known for her delightful personality always having a smile on her face, Gae brought sunshine and hope to others on a regular basis.  She nourished souls.  Gae will be deeply and forever missed by her dear daughter Camille and her husband, Michael of Hazle Township, PA; her beloved son, Vincent Joseph and his wife Patrizia of Montville, NJ; and her adored grandchildren Kevin M. Reilly and his wife, Kelsey, Danielle M. Reilly, Vincent G. Acquaviva, Gianna Pierce and her husband, Brendan.  There will be an emptiness left in the hearts of her nieces and nephews Vincent J. Sabio and Robert Chavez, Joseph and RoseMary Saccoman, Joseph and Nancy Acquaviva,  Alfred and AnnMarie Acquaviva, her grand nieces and nephews, cousins, her dear friends at Siena Village and beyond, and her personal angel/caretaker, Marcelle.  Gae will join her deceased husband, Vincent; her grandson, Vincent George; her parents, Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio; her brother, Carmine Sabio; her sisters and brothers-in law, Mary, Madeline, Victor, Alfred, and Josephine; her beloved nieces, JoAnn and Anna; her grand nephews, Matthew and John, and more family members and dear friends in God’s heavenly kingdom.

Gaetana stands as an inspiration to us all, representing faith, family, sacrifice, mercy, tenacity, personality, and the celebration of what is good.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorials Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Gaetana M. Acquaviva

Wayne
November 18, 2023

On November 17, 2023, Jill Alison Rapp (née Kempe), 69, passed away peacefully with the comfort of her family by her side. Jill is survived by her beloved husband James, of Wayne, NJ, and their three children; Alicia and Joseph of Wayne, NJ; Talia, of Queens, NY; and sister, Ginger (Kempe) Maione, of Madison, NJ.

Born in Glen Ridge, NJ, on March 19, 1954, to parents Hugh Arthur Kempe and Thelma Fox, Jill briefly lived in Nutley before the family moved to Wayne, to the house she lived in for the rest of her life. Through Sunday visits to Verps Bakery, or their yearly trips to the Cape, her tight-knit family was always there for each other. Jill attended Wayne Hills High School, and in lieu of traditional college, followed her artistic passion for performing music.

While in elementary school, Jill taught herself guitar which was the start of many years of playing, songwriting and singing. At fifteen years old, she and her sister attended Woodstock ’69, storming into the festival on the hood of a car. This love of music led to her fronting several bands—Eli Stone, The Crayons, and Burgundy Mist, to name a few—before performing solo as Jill Alison at any and every venue she could.

A lifelong lover of horses, Jill fondly recalled early riding lessons on her favorite horse, Comet, or dreams of owning her own Black Friesian Stallion to ride at a whim.

Jill’s work history was as varied as her interests. From the local video store, the assembly line at the cookie factory, and as a telemarketer, it wasn’t until later in life she found her calling in real estate. As an agent for Nico Reality, RE/MAX, and finally finding a home at Realty Executives, she exuded a no-nonsense confidence which garnered both her customers’ and co-workers’ respect.

She would often be seen at the breakfast table or at the school pick-up line reading her current literary obsession, or doing the New York Times Crossword puzzle in bright blue pen—never trifling with pencils. Every conversation someone found themselves in with her—often around the kitchen table over a vodka & Peach Snapple or martini—held a thoughtful, spirited (and often swear-filled) conversation. She made you feel smarter by association and was quick to have you laughing with her brutally-honest, yet always-empathetic point of view. In a world of people walking on eggshells, Jill stepped firmly in the direction she wanted to go.

Everyone who met Jill loved her, but none more than her husband, James. They met in 1977 on a softball field, and Jill knew a home run when she saw it. It wasn’t long before she was at his mother’s house for Sunday dinners with the rest of the family—having a bourbon with his father, Joseph, and sister, Felicia. She met Felicia’s son, Robbie when he was drooling into a can of Charles Chips and loved him ever since. She found easy conversations with Bob, and laughing fits with Margaret, James’ brother and other sister. Matriarch, Anita, took Jill under her cooking wing, even complimenting Jill’s sauce many years later—the highest praise. Everyone who saw Jim and Jill knew they were a match, especially Jill’s mother. Their families merged easily, leading the way to form their own.

Jill’s three lights of her life were her children: Alicia, Talia, and Joseph. A devoted mother, she sacrificed anything and everything to give her children every happiness and comfort. But Jill’s personal brand of motherhood didn’t stop with her own children; she looked out for all her many nieces and nephews. Always good for a sarcastic comeback, sharp joke, or sage advice, Jill would earn the mantle of ‘favorite,’ by many.

Jill A. Rapp

Wayne
November 17, 2023

Jane passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 16, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Jane was born in Utica, NY and was one of six children to Harry and Mary Saccal.  The family resided in Utica, NY until Jane was about 5 years old, they then moved to Paterson, NJ.  While growing up in Paterson, Jane attended Our Lady of Lourdes and  St Bonaventure High School and graduated with the class of 1956.

As a young girl, Jane met a boy her same age, named Thomas DePasquale.  Jane and Thomas, who were intricately connected by the bonds of proximity and time, shared a unique journey that began in the neighborhood where they both grew up. As children, they played and attended school together.  As the years passed, so did the seasons of life, and the friendship that blossomed across the street evolved into a profound love. On the memorable day of September 14, 1957, Jane and Thomas exchanged vows, uniting their lives in matrimony at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Paterson, NJ.

The newlyweds settled in Paterson and while residing there, they welcomed the births of their first two sons, Thomas, and Gary.  The family then moved to West Paterson where they welcomed their next two sons, Steven, and David.  They raised their children in West Paterson, They moved to Totowa in 1974 and after they had grown, the couple moved to Boonton, NJ in 2004, with their son David to help with child care for his two children Mia and Nicky. David and his wife Ann were respected physicians,  Jane and Thomas wanted to ensure that their grandchildren were cared for by family , and help David and Ann pursue professional careers.

Jane, a determined and skilled woman, embarked on her professional journey right after high school, joining the dynamic world of Bell Telephone in the Accounting Department. Her few years of dedicated service to the telecommunications giant allowed her to hone her communication and organizational skills. However, life took an enchanting turn when she found love and had her first child. Faced with the choice between career and family, Jane made the heartfelt decision to embrace the role of a full-time mother. Transitioning from the bustling office environment to the warmth of her home, she poured her energy into creating a nurturing and loving environment for her family.  Jane eventually went back to work after her children had grown, helping as a receptionist at the family owned “DePasquale Salon” in Morris Plains, NJ.

Jane was a vibrant and adventurous woman whose zest for life was reflected in her diverse interests. Her passion for traveling took her frequently to destinations in Europe, where she immersed herself in the rich tapestry of cultures, savoring the unique experiences each destination offered.  Jane was an avid tennis player and embraced the sport's competitive and social aspects. Complementing her active lifestyle, she found solace in the gym, and maintained a healthy balance between strength and agility. Jane also discovered a tranquil sanctuary on the Yoga mat, harmonizing her mind and body in a practice to achieve an overall well-being.

Aside from all her interests, talents, and hobbies, Jane’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  Jane was not only devoted to her family, but she was also devoted to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of St Bonaventure Church in Paterson and later St James of the Marches RC Church in Totowa.

Jane was a “larger than life” person who was outspoken and “told it like it is.” Those who knew Jane always knew where they stood with her.  Jane will be forever remembered as a truly devoted mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She was a sincerely special person who touched the lives of all those around her.  Jane will be sorely missed by her family and friends.

Jane is survived by her three sons; Thomas DePasquale and his wife Linda of Wayne, NJ, Gary DePasquale and his wife Elisa of Naples, FL, Steve DePasquale and his wife Sue of Lafayette, NJ,and her daughter inlaw Ann of Booton, two brothers Joseph Saccal, and George Saccal, one sister Shirley DeMeyere, nine grandchildren; Thomas DePasquale IV, Dawn Marie DePasquale, Michael DePasquale, Jordan Jane DePasquale, Steven James DePasquale, Robert Thomas DePasquale, Mia Evelyn DePasquale, Nicholas Daniel DePasquale, and Bianca Louise DePasquale, and seven great grandchildren; Julien David DePasquale, Wyatt Jack DePasquale, Daniel Matthew DePasquale, Michael James DePasquale, Harlie Jane DePasquale, and Levi David DePasquale.  Jane was predeceased by her son Dr David DePasquale in 2009, and by her two sisters; Rosie Sano, and Margie Previte.

In lieu of flowers , donations in Jane's name may be made to Alzheimer's Association.

Jane B. DePasquale

Boonton
November 16, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nathalie Lindsay Skorton (nee Heaphy), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Nathalie passed away peacefully on Tuesday November 14, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Nathalie was born and raised in Lyndhurst, NJ and was the older of two daughters to Bernard and Gloria Heaphy.  As a young girl, Nathalie and her sister, Evelyn, spent their summers at Lindy Lake in West Milford and attended Lyndhurst High School where she excelled in academics.  She was also a gifted athlete playing tennis and swimming while a student in high school.  After graduating with the class of 1948, Nathalie attended Rutgers University and earned her insurance broker’s license and went to work in the insurance field with Cullen, Bogart & Parker in Newark where she learned the intricacies of the industry.

Nathalie seized an opportunity to join the Steel Insurance Agency in Wayne in 1966 where she grew her business as a Broker and office manager. In 1983 she embarked on her dream to own her own business opening the Natalie Lindsay Skorton Insurance Agency in Wayne. With a passion for helping others and a keen understanding of the industry, Nathalie built her business from the ground up and became an embodiment in the spirit of the “Greatest Generation” where hard work and perseverance bring just rewards. Her dedication, integrity, and commitment to personalized service set her agency apart in a competitive industry. Her son James, who had grown up witnessing his mother's entrepreneurial spirit, joined her at the agency and stepped into the leadership role in later years.  After retiring at age eighty-nine in 2020, Nathalie's legacy lives on through James, ensuring the ongoing success of the insurance agency she had lovingly built.

Nathalie moved to the town of Wayne in 1966 where she raised her two sons, Robert and James.  After moving to Wayne, she called it her home for the rest of her life.  While on a bus trip to Lake Placid sponsored by Wayne Township, Nathalie met a charming man named Donald Skorton.  On the return trip home, there was a terrible snowstorm that brought traffic to a standstill.  The two talked for several hours and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on November 28, 1968 they became husband and wife at the First Reformed Church in Wayne. Nathalie and Donald cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Donald’s passing in 2018

Nathalie was a captivating individual with an insatiable passion for politics and an innate gift for conversation and debate. She served as Secretary of the Republican Party in Wayne in the late 1960’s. Nathalie was the consummate “news junkie” and when important national or global stories would unfold she would invariably absorb different sides of a story gaining the perspective from varied news outlets before formulating her own point of view. In her later years she became a champion for woman’s rights and the Me Too Movement. To open a discussion with her about current events it was best to have one’s facts in order because her conversations were more than exchanges of information; they were dynamic, thought-provoking dialogues that engaged and challenged those around her.

Above all Nathalie’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  She was an avid NY Mets fan and never missed a Notre Dame football game. Nothing in the world meant more to Nathalie than providing for and spending time with her children and her grandchildren.  Nathalie was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people.  She was truly loved by her family and friends as well as her colleagues and peers.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Nathalie is survived by her sons Robert Lindsay and his wife Bernadette of Denville, NJ, and James Lindsay of Wayne, NJ, four grandchildren: Ryan Lindsay and his wife Jess of Oakland, CA, Katelyn Cronin and her husband Nick of Wynnewood, PA, Jessica Lindsay of Denville. NJ, and Bobby Lindsay of Cherry Hill, NJ, four great granddaughters; Willa, RobIn, Norah, and Margot. She was predeceased by her husband Donald Skorton in 2018, and by her sister (and best friend) Evelyn Eberling.

Nathalie Lindsay Skorton

Wayne
November 14, 2023

Raymond Rapp, age 84, of Wayne passed Tuesday, November 14, 2023, with the love and comfort of family by his side.

Raymond, fondly known as Ray, was born on January 29, 1939 to Edward and Anna Rapczynski and graduated from Harrison High School in Harrison, N.J., having played on the football team with the Class of 1957.  His journey through life was marked by dedication, love, and a spirit of adventure.

Ray’s commitment to service began early when he enlisted in the Army as a cook, discovering a love for culinary arts that would become a lifelong passion.  After his honorable service, he continued his pursuit of education and personal growth, working diligently as he attended school at night at Upsala College.

In 1969, Ray embarked on a beautiful journey of 54 years of marriage with his beloved spouse, Linda. Their union was a testament to love, commitment, and the joy found in shared experiences.

Following his military service, Ray found employment as an Office Manager at Coastal Oil Company, where his dedication and work ethic quickly garnered recognition.  Over the years, he demonstrated not only his organizational skills but also his ability to adapt and learn, earning him a promotion to the position of Controller.

For the next 25 years, Ray dedicated himself to Coastal Oil Company, witnessing and contributing to its growth through a merger with BP.  His commitment to excellence and his unwavering work ethic were not just professional qualities but integral aspects of his character.  He retired in 2004, concluding his remarkable career as a Comptroller with Prolerized Shiabo Neu.

Upon his retirement in 2004, Ray embraced the next chapter of his life with the same enthusiasm that defined his earlier years.  His honesty, patience, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him.  A man of few complaints, he faced life’s challenges with a stoic grace that left a lasting impression on those around him.

Ray’s sense of humor, twinkle in his eye, and easy going nature made him a joy to be around.  He approached each day with a sense of adventure, whether it was fishing, golfing or enjoying the tranquility of the beach.  His love for the outdoors and hands-on work led him to find joy in renovating and building, leaving behind tangible reminders of his skill and dedication.

A loving father, Ray took pride in his two daughters, offering unwavering support and encouragement.  He was equally proud of his five grandchildren and cherished attending their sporting events, dance competitions, cheer showcases, theater performances and graduations.  His presence was a source of strength and inspiration for each of them.

Ray was not only a loving father but also a cherished father-in-law and uncle.  His warmth and guidance extended to his extended family, creating lasting bonds of love and support.  His role as a father-in-law and uncle was marked by the same generosity, compassion, and wisdom that defined his relationships with his immediate family.

Ray’s love for cooking extended beyond his military days, and he became known for always preparing enough to feed an army or a few hundred people.  This generous spirit reflected his desire to share not just meals but moments of joy and togetherness with others.

Ray’s inquisitive mind found joy in learning through reading the daily paper and listening to NPR.  His generosity and acceptance touched the lives of many, making him a beloved friend and confidant. Whether traveling, socializing with friends, or spending cherished moments with family, Ray’s warmth and compassion left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to share in his life.

Ray’s legacy extends beyond his professional achievements and family bonds; he was a founding parent who played an instrumental role in creating the youth soccer program that has become an integral part of his beloved Packanack community. His vision, passion and commitment to fostering community spirit through sports have left an indelible mark.  As a founding parent, Ray's dedication went beyond administrative duties. He was a mentor, coach, and advocate for the values of teamwork, discipline, and sportsmanship. The program, which started as a small initiative, flourished with his guidance, becoming a cherished institution that continues to shape the lives of countless young athletes in the community.

Ray is survived by his loving wife, Linda (nee Wanke), his two daughters:  Christine Rogan of Wayne and Holly McAllen and her husband Joseph of Wayne; five grandchildren:  Caitlyn Rogan, Liam Rogan, Connor McAllen, Kyra McAllen, Cali Rae McAllen; niece Victory Magee and her husband Henry, niece Elyssa Magee, niece Sabrina Jenkins and her husband Ramon, niece Natasha, nephew Mathew Rapczynski, nephew Kenneth Rapczynski, and sister-in-law Nina Rapczynski.  He was predeceased by his brothers, Matthew and Richard.

As we say our goodbyes, let us remember Ray for the extraordinary person he was - a man of integrity, resilience, and boundless love.  May his memory live on in our hearts as we celebrate the remarkable life he lived.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Alzheimer's Association and Atlantic Visiting Nurses.

Raymond T. Rapp

Wayne
November 14, 2023

John "JC" Cunningham, age 88 of Oakland and formerly of Towaco, died peacefully at home on Sunday, November 12, 2023 surrounded by his wife, Marge and daughters, Lori and Debbie.

Raised in Irvington, NJ, John spent his formative years in Wayne, NJ, where he graduated from Wayne High School in 1953. A man of strong work ethic, John began working as a delivery truck driver for Circle Building Supply in Wayne when he was just a teenager. After several weeks of driving the delivery truck, he asked his boss if he could have an afternoon off. When his boss asked him why, John explained that he didn’t have a driver’s license and it might be a good idea to get one. In 1958, duty called and John was drafted into the U.S. Army, serving with honor until 1960.

Upon returning from service, John drove trucks for several area companies, and he owned and operated his own dump truck as well, delivering stone, fill, and topsoil throughout the Northern New Jersey area. His love of cars found him operating Little Falls Auto Repair from 1977 to 1985.  During this time, he owned a race car, and weekends were synonymous with family trips to the Orange County, NY racetrack. Racing was part of John’s soul, and his enthusiasm for racing was infectious, creating lasting memories for his family and friends.

Later in his career, John worked as a dedicated truck driver for Dan Como and Sons in Towaco, NJ. He retired from there on July 2, 2008, the same day his beloved wife Marge retired from her job. A true perfectionist, John insisted on doing things his way, leaving a legacy of excellence in everything he touched. His cherished 1999 Chevy Silverado Pickup truck, meticulously maintained by John himself, stands as a testament to his care and pride.

In January of 1961, during a significant snowstorm, fate intervened when John came to the aid of Marge Douma, helping to free her car from a snowdrift. She was out cruising in her father’s ’51 Chevy, which she was sure could never get stuck in anything…until it did. This chance encounter led to a cup of coffee. Soon thereafter, John took her out on a first date, showing up to her house wearing a suit. Marge’s mother was very impressed, and she loved John even before Marge had a chance to get to know him! After many fun nights at the bowling alley, the beginnings of their love story unfolded. They married on October 27, 1962, followed by a honeymoon in Miami Beach. Throughout their journey together, they lived in Hawthorne and Pompton Plains before settling into their family home in Towaco, NJ, where they shared twenty-five years of love and laughter. In 2008, after retiring, John and Marge embarked on a new chapter in Mooresville, NC, where they lived near their daughter and grandchildren. More recently they moved to Oakland, NJ to be near to their other daughter, always keeping family close.

A man of diverse interests, John had a soft spot for his cats. Over the years, he welcomed five beloved cats into his home, each leaving paw prints on his heart. There was Skeeter whose disposition earned him the nickname “Lucifer,” and then there was DJ (perhaps his favorite of all), and Miss Daisy, Mister, and Gary. He adored his cats and loved them all to the fullest.

John will be fondly remembered by his friends and loved ones. He is survived by his loving wife, Marge (nee Douma), his two daughters: Lori Brolsma and her husband Larry of Mooresville, NC and Debbie Tuit and her husband Ray of Oakland, NJ; five grandchildren: Ashley Bryan (Chris), Chuck Zulovitz, Alexandra Zulovitz, Shelby Dench (Kyle), Garrett Brolsma (Karlyn); seven great-grandchildren: Clara, Bonham, Tyler, Erica, Colin, Sula, and Prescott, and one brother: Robert Cunningham (Ellie) of Columbia, SC. He was predeceased by his brother, Richard Cunningham.

John F. Cunningham, Jr.

Oakland
November 12, 2023

Robert D Avrach, age 72 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Friday, November 10, 2023 with the comfort of his family by his side.

Robert was the son of David and Joyce Avrach. He grew up in Riverdale, NY along with his two sisters Linda and Donna. He went to  DeWitt Clinton High School where he was a great athlete throughout  his school years, baseball being his favorite sport.

Robert joined the US Army in November 1970 and served in Vietnam. He ended his army service in October of 1972 and he was always so very proud of his service to his country.

Robert had many different jobs throughout his life. His first job as an adult was in the corporate offices of Toys R Us.  He retired from Fleetwash, Fairfield NJ in 2018, where he had worked for the last 10 years.

Robert met his wife Maureen on a blind date at the end of October 1974 and they were married on January 9, 1975. They have been married for 48 years and have one son, Matthew age 43 and a wonderful daughter in law Valerie.

Robert has always loved playing guitar, his favorite song being Steamer Lane Breakdown by the Doobie Brothers. He loved his cats, the most recent one being Daisy. They would spend many hours together watching TV and sleeping. During his retirement years Robert volunteered at a cat rescue and he was always feeding stray cats.

Robert enjoyed spending time with his family. One of his favorite hobbies was to act as the family weatherman. He liked to refer to himself as “Baarometer Bob”. He would keep everyone in the family who was traveling abreast of their weather conditions.

In lieu of flowers or gifts the family would love if you would donate to the Friends of Wayne Animals. It is a no kill animal shelter in Wayne. If you prefer to mail in a donation, please send to:

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

Robert Avrach

Wayne
November 10, 2023

MARY MATILDA RONAYNE, age 78 of Wanaque, New Jersey, slipped into the arms of our heavenly Father on Wednesday, November 8, 2023. She was at home with the family she dearly loved as she drew her last breath. God blessed her to bless others. Born on January 29, 1945, Mary was the eldest child of Gerald and Matilda Hulton of Nutley, New Jersey.

Mary was a graduate of Marylawn of the Oranges High School in 1962. She then went on to St. Mary's School of Nursing where she graduated in 1965. She worked at Berverly Hills Doctors Hospital in California, St. Mary's Hospital Passaic, NJ and Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ as a ICU/CICU nurse. Mary then went on to become a school nurse at Immaculate Conception School in Montclair, New Jersey.

Mary is survived by her 2 sisters, Jane Vecciarelli (John) and Patricia Petry. In 1970, Mary Hulton married Michael Ronayne at Saint Mary’s Church in Nutley, New Jersey. They raised 4 children together, Mary Beth Kopacz (Henry), Michael Ronayne (Nicole), Laura Healy (Kevin) and Sarah Molnoski (Brian). Mary was blessed with 7 grandchildren that she loved dearly, Lillian Kopacz (16), Katie Molnoski (16), Grace Healy (14), Sheila Healy (11), Brian Molnoski (10), Hudson Ronayne (9), Evelyn Ronayne (4).

The family respectfully requests that, in lieu of flowers, a tax-deductible tribute donation be made in Mary's honor to St Jude Children's Research Hospital

Mary Matilda Ronayne

Wanaque
November 8, 2023

Paul Joseph Crecca Sr. passed away on November 7, 2023, at the age of 92.

He is survived by his wife Louise of nearly 70 years and his three children, Paul Jr., Sharon, and Carrie, along with three grandchildren and four great grandchildren, and his beloved Shih Tzu, Snoopy.

Paul was an electrical engineer by trade who worked for Otis Elevator for over 50 years, where he started out of high school and with his mechanical genius rose to become the supervising elevator engineer on the construction of the World Trade Center, just one of many major accomplishments of note. Paul loved fishing and all animals. Paul was born and raised in Bloomfield NJ, moving to Wayne NJ in 1986 where he lived until his passing. Please God bless Paul, he will be greatly missed by all his family.

Paul Crecca, Sr.

Wayne
November 7, 2023

Clarence Place, 96, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Sunday, November 5, 2023, in the comfort of his family.

“Keep moving” was his motto. Born in Brooklyn, NY, “Buddy” sure did keep moving. He attended Grover Cleveland High School, took a job delivering meat, and then worked for Transogram Toy Factory in Long Island City. At 16 years old his family moved to Wayne, where he worked for Heyer Schultz as a metal polisher and then lathe operator. At 17 years old he got permission to join the Navy. He bravely served with the Seabees and was sent to Okinawa where he was stationed at Yellow Beach #3.

In June of 1946, he left the service and went back to work for Heyer Schultz. In 1947, his brother Bill took over his job and Buddy then went to work at the Parker Shell Gas Station. After that he became a Fireman on a steam engine for the Lackawanna Railroad. He also worked in a machine shop for Ernie Miles and delivered coal for Bailey & Winters.

In those days there were Fireman’s Fairs at the Parish Oval ball field in Wayne. His future father-in-law, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Community Fire Company #1 at the time. And it was there that he met his sweetheart, Roberta “Bobbie” Wenderoth, while giving her quarters to play the games. They were married in 1952. His boss, Ernie Miles, let him borrow his car for the wedding. They settled in Wayne, building a house on Market Street with the help of his in-laws, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth, who also had a home next door. Both houses were later relocated across the street when Route 80 was established. They had two wonderful children, Robert and Susan. They all enjoyed many backyard picnics and barbecues, usually serenaded by the family “band”. Buddy also purchased a boat, named it “Windy”, and had many days of fun with swimming and water skiing at Greenwood Lake, and crabbing at the Jersey Shore.

During their early married years, Buddy worked for Richtex Company doing laminating and embossing. The company became a division of Firestone, where he became a foreman and then Assistant Plant Manager. In 1974, he and his wife Bobbie purchased a house in Seaside Park, NJ, where after retiring from Firestone in 1981, he did commercial crabbing with 100 pots in the bay from 1982-1983. He later built a new home on a lagoon in Forked River, but relocated back to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just a block and a half away from their first home.

To keep “busy” he became a part-time bartender for Gabriel’s Hotel and Restaurant. He further served his community in Wayne by being on the Planning Board from 1972-1979, and Chairman in 1974. He also purchased a motorhome and took many trips.

Buddy and Bobbie eventually sold their house in Wayne and settled permanently in Seaside Park where they spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time relaxing together on their front porch. He stopped working for a short time, but, being a life-long avid golfer, he went to work for the Cedar Creek Golf Course in Berkeley Township 3-4 days a week at 80 years old. He retired from that job in December of 2018 at the age of 92.

Always known for his friendly and helpful demeanor, he had his supply inventory of fix-it’s to help anyone in need. Being an accomplished self-taught builder, carpenter, electrician, plumber, etc. he was one-of-a-kind. And the best cheek pincher ever!

Clarence is predeceased, only three weeks prior, by his loving wife of 71 years, Roberta “Bobbie” Place. He is survived by his son Robert Place, Patricia Place, granddaughter Krysti Place and her partner Jeffrey Palmer, and great-grandson Chase; his daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr., granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; sister-in-law Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and his wife Laura, and their son Eric, nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew; and sister Denny Knight and her husband Dave.

He was a remarkable man who led a remarkable life. A loving son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, friend, and neighbor. Keep moving indeed. And while he will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate his incredible life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Clarence Place

Seaside Park
November 5, 2023

Raymond Smith Eutermarks, IV, born July 30th, 1976, age 47, of Pequannock, NJ passed away Saturday, November 4th, 2023, of a sudden and unexpected heart attack.

Raymond is survived by his three children, Mikayla, Emily, and Raymond, who were the light of his life, his wife, Kelly, his parents, Raymond, and Elizabeth, three siblings, Jean, Ryan and Robyn and his partner, Gena Pilitsis. Among his immediate family there are countless aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends who would have considered him to be as close as a brother and loved just as much.

Raymond grew up in Pequannock, the beloved first born of Raymond and Elizabeth. Their childhood home was a center for countless memories from birthday parties and holiday celebrations to the numerous gatherings that brought forth hours of jokes and love of just being together.

Raymond’s greatest accomplishment was the birth of his children. It is from them that his greatest joy came. He was so immensely proud of them and all their accomplishments. He loved to share with them his interests and hobbies. Some of his favorite memories came from their trips down the shore. The children were so proud of his new apartment and were looking forward to creating many memories there.

Raymond had first started to work alongside his Father at Butler Printing and Laminating, where they worked together for over 20 years. He later obtained his Black Seal low pressure boiler operator license and continued to work in various maintenance positions over the past years including his latest at Arrow Shed Industries.

Raymond’s personality can best be explained through his passion. He never did anything small. There were no half measures or easing into anything; it was always full bore, 120%, all or nothing, top of the line only. He took the bull by the horns and would enjoy anything life had to offer to its fullest extent.

He had a contagious laugh, recognizable from miles away. It was as boisterous as it was charming. Raymond had a love for people. He was one of the most charismatic people anyone could meet. Ray could connect with and befriend just about any person in the world, no matter what walk of life they may have been from.

His hobbies were immense, fish tanks, video games, drones, collectible cards, etc. But whatever it was, you knew he was going to jump into it with everything he had. His fish tanks were going to be the best, filled with the most colorful fish and rarest coral. He also had a love for music. 90’s Rap, most notably Wu Tang Clan, was among his favorites.

Raymond’s enthusiasm did not just exist for all that life had to offer, but more importantly for his family. It was his love of his family that was most important to him. The love of his children, parents, sisters, and brother is what drove him the most every day. Being surrounded by them is what he loved most.

Raymond will be missed and loved more than can be written. His Family will forever have his memory and love reside within each of them. His passion and legacy will live on within his children for whom he loved more than could ever be explained.

Raymond Eutermarks, IV

Pequannock
November 4, 2023

Biagio “Gino” Varone, Jr., age 37 of Wayne, died Saturday, November 4, 2023.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden and untimely passing of Gino Varone, a beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. Gino leaves behind a legacy of kindness, strength, and love. Gino’s personality was very much like his own father’s; making friends everywhere he went. He demonstrated an exceptional willingness to help others in need, showcasing a unique blend of strength and toughness combined with compassion and protectiveness.

Gino was passionate about exercising and maintaining a healthy lifestyle through fitness, throughout high school and adulthood he remained fiercely dedicated to sustaining excellent physical condition by frequenting the gym and eating well. Gino always felt compelled to be prepared for life’s challenges, especially for the unexpected. If anyone was ready for the Apocalypse, it was Gino! His preparedness and resourcefulness were just a few of his endearing qualities.

In his early professional life, Gino worked in private security, having worked with renowned artists such as Brett Michaels and various EDM artists across marque New Jersey venues. Since 2018, he’s dedicated his time and energy to Passaic County Technical Institute (PCTI), where he worked in maintenance. As Gino did best, he made friends with everyone there and left a lasting impact on the PCTI community.

Gino’s love extended beyond humans; he deeply cherished his three dogs, Spock, Thor and Ace and his cat, Sylvester. His love for his animals knew no bounds, and his furry companions brought him immense joy and comfort.

In celebrating Gino’s life, let us remember the lessons he imparted - the importance of kindness, the power of resilience, and the beauty of his special love. His memory will forever live on in the hearts of those he touched, reminding us all to be compassionate, strong, and willing to help others in need.

Gino is survived by his beloved mother; Bernadette Varone of Wayne, his two brothers; Michael Varone and his wife Jessica of Pompton Lakes, and Matthew Varone of Wayne, his three nephews; Mason, Micheal, and Joseph; his uncles Elias Massood and his wife Patricia of North Wildwood, NJ; Michael Massood and his wife Vivian of Franklin Lakes, NJ; and Edward Massood and his fiancé Robin of Greensboro, NC; his aunt Mary Massood of Woodland Park, NJ; his cousins, and dear friends. Gino was predeceased by his father, Gino Sr., in 2007; by his grandfather, Michael Massood Sr., in 2020 and his grandmother, Helen Massood, in 1997.

Biagio “Gino” Varone

Wayne
November 4, 2023

Robert A. Hughes of Wayne passed away peacefully on November 3, 2023 surrounded by his family.  He was 85.

Bob was a Certified Public Accountant with ‘Paul Newman eyes’, and resided in Wayne for 54 years where he and his wife, Barbara, raised their two children.  He will be fondly remembered for his masterful storytelling, his love of sports, and his ever present sense of humor.  

Bob will be dearly missed by his loving wife Barbara, his children, Kathleen and her partner Mark, and Thomas and wife Maori, and his beloved grandchildren Teddy and Maya.

Robert A. Hughes

Wayne
November 3, 2023

Gayle W. Babitz, age 82, of Wayne passed peacefully holding the hand of her husband John, on Thursday, November 2, 2023.

She was born in Paterson and raised at 23 Squaw Brook Road in North Haledon. She graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1959.  After high school she continued her education at a Paterson secretarial school.  

Gayle’s first job was for one dollar an hour at the Haband store on North 8th Street in Paterson, the Sears Roebuck Company in Paterson and the New Jersey Bell Telephone Company in Paterson as a keypunch operator until 1964 when she was pregnant with her first child.   In 1982, when her children were old enough, she worked for the Sicoma Chiropractic Company in Prospect Park and finally the Dale Family Chiropractic Company in Midland Park where she worked for twenty years before retiring in 2001.

Gayle was a lady of remarkable strength and talent, who has a profound love for crafting.  Her passion for knitting, quilting, sewing, and especially crocheting, has always been a vibrant part of her life.  In 2001, Gayle faced a significant health challenge when she had to get a mechanical valve in her aorta.  Her spirit remained undeterred, and this didn’t slow her down in the least.  During the challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic, she found a unique way to make a difference.  Gayle crocheted 400 vibrantly colored pillows, a testament to her skill and dedication to others. These were donated to the Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, bringing comfort and a touch of home to others.  Her story is a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and kindness. Gayle’s dedication to others is also exemplified by her joining the Ladies Auxiliary of Preakness Volunteer Fire Company 4 in Wayne where she has served from 1967 and was still a member in 2023. Those who know Gayle will remember her never being able to sit for too long and suddenly stating “C’mon Let’s Go!”

John and Gayle's serendipitous encounter began with a blind date that would change their lives forever. On a warm summer evening, they found themselves at a nostalgic drive-in theater, where they were about to watch "The Misfits," starring Clark Gable and Marilyn Monroe. As the screen flickered to life, John's heart raced with anticipation. Sitting beside him was Gayle, a woman of grace and charm, who shared his excitement. What made this rendezvous even more special was the company of John's supportive brother and sister-in-law, who had orchestrated the blind date. Little did John and Gayle know that the silver screen would be the backdrop to their first kiss, budding romance, one that would flourish into a lifelong love story, full of adventure, laughter, and cherished memories. John asked Gayle’s mom if he could marry her, and she emphatically said “NO.” John’s mom felt the same way and insisted they wait until they were twenty-one years old. John and Gayle would outlast his and her mother’s and marry on November 3, 1962, when they were both twenty-one, at Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson.  It is said they honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  John and Gayle have enjoyed sixty-one years of a loving, laughter-filled, and devoted, marriage of “best friends.”

Gayle is survived by her husband John J. Babitz, Jr., she was the loving mother of Bryan Babitz and his wife Ruth of Zephyrhills, FL, Cheryl Barnes and her husband Kevin of Totowa, John Babitz and his wife Lisa of Maiden, NC, and her extended family Diane Simon of Euless, TX and Paul Simon of Grand Prairie, TX; and she was the devoted grandmother of Liz Babitz, Johnny Babitz, Lexi Babitz, Kevin Barnes, Jake Barnes, and Christopher Fuentes.

Instead of flowers the family would greatly appreciate memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s New Jersey, or the St Jude Children’s Research Hospital to honor Gayle’s memory.

Gayle Babitz

Wayne
November 2, 2023

Antoinette Cafone, 100, of Wayne, lovingly known as Toni, passed away peacefully with her cherished family around her.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to immigrant parents Aniello and Rose, Toni was also known for her modeling and love of baseball, theater, and world travel.

She was known for her proficiency as a local beautician for over 50 years and so graciously donated her time as a stylist to Little Sisters of the Poor Nursing Home as well as visits to her homebound clients.

Toni was predeceased by her husband Julio, survived by her sister Phyllis Solino, and predeceased by her dear brothers Rev. Arthur DeMaio, and Frank DeMaio, and sisters Anna Scirone, Lucy Picarello, and Vera Vingelli.  She is survived by her daughters: Fredlyn and her husband Peter, Ginny and her husband Jack, Julianne and her husband Craig, Sue Ellen and her husband Brendan, Nicole and her husband Jack.  She is also survived by her grandchildren: Tara (Jeff) Barnard, Dawn (Greg) Ross, Adrianna (Rob) Parsons, Jesse Cuff, Kelly (Chris) Vieira, Erin Kearney, Kristen Meyer, Bobby (Amanda) Taylor, and Jack Meyer.  Toni was blessed to have 13 loving great-grandchildren: Matthew, Caleb, Angelina, Christopher, Braden, Bella, Julia, Julian, Antonia, Scarlett, Johnny, Savannah, and Theo. Toni is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews.

Holiday traditions were an important part of her legacy, as family was her first priority and her greatest gift of all. Toni had a unique relationship with each of her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, making each feel special and loved.  She will be deeply missed by all.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Antoinette's name are asked to consider Suncrest Hospice, 35 Waterview Blvd #100, Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ 07054 or Annunication of the Blessed Virgin Mary RC 45 Urban Club Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Antoinette H. Cafone

Wayne
November 2, 2023

Leslie Ronald Spencer, age 83 of Paterson, died on October 31, 2023. Leslie, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and uncle, was born in Georgetown, Guyana in 1940. Leslie was the beloved son of a tightly knit family with three brothers and a sister. His early fascination with boat and motor repair in his native land revealed his inherent mechanical aptitude, a talent that would shape his life and leave a lasting impression on those who knew him.

In 1968, Leslie and his beloved wife, Leonora, began a new journey by immigrating to the United States. Together, they navigated life’s ups and downs with steadfast love and commitment. Leslie’s dedication wasn’t confined to his family; he served as a Union Shop Steward for Kaysam Corporation, representing his co-workers in the Amalgamated Transit Union Local 1056 in New York with pride. His dedication and hard work led to his Black Seal Boiler License. Even after Kaysam Corp. shut down, Leslie continued to work for Harman Cove Towers until his well-earned retirement in 2003. His knack for fixing anything was not just a skill but a testament to his generosity and readiness to assist others. Leslie’s hands were always busy; he devoted his time to helping relatives with various home repairs and enhancements, leaving a legacy of skill and care in many homes.

A fervent sports fan, Leslie took pleasure in baseball and was a devoted New York Mets supporter. Despite his family’s disappointment, he was also a NY Giants fan. He derived joy from the victories of his favorite teams. However, the most significant source of joy for him was spending cherished moments with his family, children, and grandchildren. He maintained a unique bond with his brothers through weekly Saturday phone calls that kept them connected despite the distance.

Leslie’s romance with Leonora was akin to a fairy tale. They met serendipitously on a cruise and fell profoundly in love. In no time at all, Leslie asked Leonora’s parents for her hand in marriage—a proposal initially rejected by Leonora’s father! Undeterred, Leslie eventually won him over, and they were married on June 1, 1963. Their enduring union was filled with love and blessed with family and cherished memories. For over sixty years, they shared their lives and dreams—an embodiment of love’s power, resilience, and commitment.

Leslie leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and kindness. His memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those lucky enough to have known him. As we honor his life, let’s remember the lessons he imparted—the significance of family, the worth of hard work, and the infinite potential of love. As we grieve his departure, let’s also commemorate the extraordinary journey of a dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and uncle who touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Leslie is survived by his wife Leonora of Paterson; their four children: Ronald (and wife Rosalie) of Brooklyn, Roger of New Jersey, Marcelle Cheron (and husband Harry) of Paterson, and Arthur of Paterson; eleven grandchildren: Shanisse, Spencer, Quintin, Danielle, Samantha, Sydney, Abigail, Nazreen, Shaun, Janae, and Nevaeh; five great-grandchildren: Mason, Jaxon, Jaylen, Quinell, and Ezra; and one sister: Jennifer David of Paterson. He was predeceased by his three brothers: Allan Spencer of Guyana, James Spencer of Guyana and Frank Spencer of Canada.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Leslie’s memory would be greatly appreciated to Royal Family Ministries Inc. Please click on this link to donate online: Royal Family Ministries.

Leslie Ronald Spencer

Paterson
October 31, 2023

John A. Demetrius, a man of great energy and boundless love passed away on Monday, October 30, 2023. He was 92.

Born and raised in the borough of Brooklyn, NY, John was the child of James and Anna Demetrius. He departed this world leaving behind a legacy of resilience, generosity, and an indomitable work ethic.

John began his journey as a young adult by graduating with the Class of 1949 from Midwood High School in Brooklyn. His thirst for knowledge and academic excellence led him to pursue a bachelor's degree from New York University and a master's degree in accounting from Pace University. Remarkably, John put himself through both college and graduate school, achieving honors at both institutions.

During his time at NYU, John patriotism inspired him to enlist in the U.S. Navy, serving abroad from 1952 to 1955 during the Korean War. Upon his honorable discharge, his service was recognized with the bestowment of  the National Defense Service Medal, Navy Occupation (Europe) Service Medal, and the China Service Medal. Throughout his life, John was a true patriot who loved his country.

John's professional endeavor in his chosen field of accountancy began at Haskin and Sells in New York City, where his mastery of the material saw him successfully pass the CPA exam. Upon passing, he was generously gifted $100 from his employer. Being a generous man himself, he donated one half of that $100 gift to help support Danny Thomas’ efforts to establish St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, This was a testament to his philanthropic spirit but it was just the start as John continued to support this worthy cause for the rest of his life.

John’s career flourished as he later transitioned to Brout and Company in New York City until 1984 when he decided to establish his own accountancy firm, Demetrius and Company LLC. He loved his work and remained dedicated to his profession and clients until the remarkable age of ninety when he finally retired.

Family was central to John's life. His loving marriage to Millena Rapuano began during a professional encounter, where John, conducting an audit at the company where Millena worked, Taking a liking to her, he discovered it was Millena’s birthday. Hearing about her wish for a camera, he saw an opportunity to ask her out for a drink and dinner with the offer to also assist her in shopping for a good camera. This small gesture eventually led to a beautiful marriage at the Basilica of Regina Pacis in Brooklyn on June 11, 1961.

The couple celebrated their union with a reception at Grace Chateau in Brooklyn, followed by a memorable honeymoon in Puerto Rico. Their honeymoon concluded with a heartwarming gesture of bringing a stray puppy back from Puerto Rico to comfort Millena's mother who had recently experienced the passing of her dear dog.

John and Millena’s first home in an apartment on Bay 17th Street in Brooklyn welcomed the birth of their son Gerard. Shortly after, they moved to a brand-new home at 39 Weinmanns Boulevard in Wayne, NJ. The move marked a significant change, offering a quieter, more country-like lifestyle compared to their life in Brooklyn. It also marked the further growth of their family as they welcomed their daughter Gineen and their son Gregory.

In times of leisure, John cultivated various hobbies, including coin and stamp collecting, as well as being an active member of the Radio Club of America. He found solace and joy in the tranquility of his beautiful flower gardens, often accompanied by his beloved dogs throughout the years, including Max, Wally, Gizmo, Bailey, Jeffrey, and presently Spencer, as well as his cherished cats, Spencer, Princess, and Bandit.

Above all else, John’s truest passion lay in his devotion to his faith in God and his family.

As a charter Parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne, NJ, John dedicated himself to serving the church community for decades. His commitment was evident through his role as an usher from 1968 until just two months ago, where he continued to assist Sunday mass attendees, despite relying on a cane to usher them to their seats. He was also a devoted member of the Our Lady of the Valley Church’s Holy Name Society, participating in philanthropic activities such as feeding the homeless at Eva’s Village in Paterson. John's service even went beyond the church doors serving as a Grand Knight with the Knights of Columbus in Little Falls and as a member of the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). His selflessness was also acknowledged by the American Cancer Society, for his volunteering efforts.

In addition to his love and devotion for his wife Millena, John was a loving father to his children, Gerard, Gineen, and Gregory. His legacy lives on through his three children, who at one point, all worked alongside him in his accounting business. He supported his son Gregory as a coach in his youth sports leagues and as an active fund raiser for his high school booster club. His grandchildren—Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack—held a special place in his heart, affectionately calling him “Papa-Moo” and having great times together, going on rides and creating great memories. Alongside his wife Millena, John played a vital role in raising his grandchildren, always offering unwavering support and love and being there for all their significant milestones and events. His dedication shone through in every aspect of his life, even extending to supporting his grandson's sports teams through his accounting firm's sponsorship.

John’s legacy is marked by his generosity, loyalty, hard work, and an unyielding love for his family and friends. His presence will be sorely missed, but the impact of his kindness and the memories he created will forever be treasured by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

John was the beloved husband of Millena, blessed in marriage for 62 years. He was the loving father of: Gerard Demetrius and wife Christine of Ledgewood, NJ, Gineen Serafin and husband Bill of Wayne, NJ, and Gregory Demetrius and wife Johanna of Wayne; and cherished grandfather of: Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in John’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Shriners Hospitals for Children

Attn: Office of Development

2900 Rocky Point Dr.

Tampa, FL 33607

John A. Demetrius

Wayne
October 30, 2023

Joseph Peter Cabrelli, age 93 of Monroe Township and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Here is a short story of a very kind man who was a gentle giant, with a good nature and a welcome sense of humor.

Joe was born in Philadelphia and lived for a short time in California. He moved to Wayne in 1976.

Joe received his formal education at Saint Thomas More High School in Philadelphia, graduating with the Class of 1948. He then went on to the University of Pennsylvania, at the evening division of The  Wharton School of Business where he received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration with the Class of 1952.

Joe joined the U.S. Army and, after basic training, he was offered many options including Officer Candidate School, paratrooper, or a special language school that the Army had in Monterey, California. Because of his intellect and innate talents as an individual, he was encouraged to go to the Army Language School in Monterey. His language of choice was Polish and he spoke it fluently. He had a very enlightening and enjoyable military experience and was honorably discharged in 1955.

After his Army service, he was employed at Gimbel Brothers Department Store where his abilities were recognized and he rose to be Senior Vice President of Gimbel’s flagship store in Philadelphia. Later, Joe took a job at a department store in California only to return to Philadelphia after three years and resume his position at Gimbel’s in Philadelphia. He later became Senior Vice President of Orbach’s Department Store in New York City. Joe was also President of the Metropolitan New York Credit Association.

He met Loretta Helmuth who was a secretary at Gimbel’s Department Store and they married on August 30, 1974. They have had 49 years of warm, caring, and loving marriage together. Joe and Loretta loved to travel and they made many trips to Europe to experience the beautiful cultures that exist there.

His family history is interesting as he was the first generation of his family born in America.  His father and mother were born in Tuscany, Italy. The economic climate for living and advancing to a better life was not in place. His father had a sister who immigrated to Scotland and spoke of good opportunities there. At that time in history, people living in Italy were immigrating either to Argentina or America and, at age fifteen his father chose America. San Francisco was advertised as the best place to go but his father had difficulties finding work. Joe’s father then moved to Philadelphia and became a talented chef. His work days were twelve and fourteen hour days, seven days a week, never missing a day of work. This work ethic rubbed off on his sons who, in their personal lives pursued the same kind of ambitious life style which made them successful in life.

Joe had a special bearing about him of the kind of person who could get things done at whatever he endeavored to do. His father’s work ethic rubbed off on Joe and even as a youngster his paper route was huge! Most boys were minimalists as to the size of their route. Joe excelled as a paper boy and he had over one hundred thirty customers. He even had a strategy that helped him to throw the papers on the porch of his customers with aplomb. His work ethic did not let him take days off and efficiency was always built into his mode of operation.

Joe was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne and he was an active member of the community. He was a member of a volunteer teaching group at the Wayne Library, teaching people English as a second language, and provided weekly lectures on a variety of topics to the Four Seasons community in Wayne. Joe also was a leading member of the Wayne Mayor's Senior Advisory Council.

Surviving are Joe’s loving wife Loretta, two daughters: Denise and husband Nicholas Lepore of Monroe, and Jacqueline and husband Victor Ricci of Freehold; five adoring grandchildren: Marisa and husband Frank DeBiase, Dr. Nicholas Lepore, Tyler Lepore, Gabrielle and husband Joseph Siragusa , and Dominick Ricci; four cherished great-grandchildren: Juliana and Emilia DeBiase, and Joseph and Gianna Siragusa; and two sister-in-laws: Marie Cabrelli of Drexel Hill, PA, Rita and her husband Joe Barnitz of Fort Myers, FL,

Joe was predeceased by five brothers: Joseph who passed away at age four, before Joe was born, Andrew, Frank, James, and Peter Cabrelli; and one sister: Vonda Lallo.

Joe always said, "My life was ahead of my dreams." He will be very missed.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider:

Covenant House

460 West 41st Street

New York, NY 10036-6801

ny.covenanthouse.org.

Covenant House’s mission is to inspire homeless and at-risk young people to move to safe, stable, and loving places where they can continue to live out their life dreams. In short, they strive to help each young person find “safe places” in their lives.

Joseph Cabrelli

Monroe Township
October 27, 2023

Brian G. David, age 51 of Wayne, NJ passed on Friday, October 27,2023. Brian departed this life too early and will be missed by his many family and friends.

Brian graduated from California University Long Beach with a BS in Finance but lived the majority of his life in his hometown of Wayne. He was a graduate of Wayne Valley high school and his hometown was a special place for Brian as he loved being a part of the Wayne community.

Brian’s passion was cooking and he was most happy creating meals for his friends and loved ones. He took that passion to the next level when he opened “Brian’s Kitchen” in Wayne last year. He got immense joy seeing people enjoy the food he created. He was a devoted father who loved spending time with his children. Since Brian was so handy, he loved building and creating and he used those skills to fashion outdoor swings and toys for his kids. Most of all he was someone who appreciated the little things in life; making his children laugh, fishing, carvel with extra sprinkles and a good reuben.

Brian is survived by his wife, Althea David (nee Lazzara) and his four beautiful children, Sydney, Skylar, Sylvie and Ben. His parents Bernardine David and Gerald David. His sister Nicole Adams and her husband Michael and her children, Lily, Luke and Sadie. His in-laws, Ruth and Ed Lazzara. His sister in law Alicia Heller and her husband Jon and their children Noah, Olivia and Myla. His sister in law Alexis and her husband Michael and their children Ava, Jack and Alek. As well as his brother in law Scott Spages.

Brian David

Wayne
October 27, 2023

Dora Charlotte Peschel (nee Bernstengel), age 103, of Wayne, passed away peacefully while in the comfort of her home, on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Dora was born on January 1, 1920 in the family home in Grundstasse-Dresden Germany, as the youngest of 11 children. When she was three years old, the family immigrated to the United States on a ship called the George Washington. Dora’s father Willy was already in the United States working as a carpenter. Her mother traveled for ten days on that ship with six children, including Dora in tow, where they entered America through Ellis Island.  

Dora was raised in North Bergen and graduated from Emerson High School in Union City with the Class of 1937. After high school she went to business school and soon found work as a clerk/bookkeeper with the American Fly Paper Company in New York City. Her salary was $14.00  per week. In 1940, Dora met a man named Fred Peschel on a blind date arranged by Dora’s brother Eric. Fred took Dora to her Senior Prom and proposed to her on New Year’s Eve in 1941. They married in December 1941 in North Bergen but there was no time for a honeymoon as Fred had to return to his military service. They lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne in 1949. Dora and Fred enjoyed fifty-three years in a loving marriage before Fred’s passing in 1995.

In addition to raising 5 children, Dora worked at Two Guys in Totowa and as a cook in the Wayne Schools cafeterias.  She was active in many roles at the Wayne United Methodist church in the choir, women’s circles, bible studies, book groups, cookie sales, vacation bible school, as a Den Mother of the Cub Scout Pac 101 at its founding, and volunteering at CUMAC.  Dora enjoyed gardening in her yard and especially loved to grow dahlias, her favorite flower.  She was an excellent seamstress having made clothes for her daughter, drapes for the house, and just about any other conceivable item one might sew. A voracious reader, she was always keeping herself up to date with a daily newspaper and loved a good book. She enjoyed crossword puzzles (in ink!), and excelled when playing Rummikub and Scrabble.  Dora was also active in the Wayne Golden Agers, Senior Follies, the Red Hat Club, and a bowling league. She drove until age 95 and often attended the many activities of her grandchildren. Family gatherings for Dora’s birthday on New Year’s Day were always a highlight for singing, playing games, and celebrating.

Dora was the loving wife of the late Fred Peschel (1995); adored mother of Rudy K. Peschel of Wayne, Robert F. Peschel and his wife Susan of Shorewood, WI,  Anita M. Dispenziere and her husband Ben of Wayne, David W. Peschel and his wife Wendy of Ringwood, Timothy R. Peschel and his wife Margaret of Wayne, and Carol Peschel of Longboat Key, FL; cherished by thirteen grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. She was loved and respected by her church family.  Dora’s family is grateful for the devoted care she received from Sophia, Renata, Monika, and Donna.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to:  

The United Methodist Church of Wayne

99 Parish Drive

Wayne, NJ 07470

Dora Peschel

Wayne
October 27, 2023

John (Jack) Belanger of Pompton Lakes, formerly of Kinnelon passed away on October 26, 2023 at home.  Jack was born on January 26, 1968, and was the son of Pat and Jack Belanger of Clifton.  Jack grew up in Clifton with his two sisters, Kathy and Dee. He began his love of sports at a young age, playing football and lacrosse all through high school and college. To earn a little money during this time, he started flippin’ burgers at The Red Chimney in Clifton. After he got tired of asking “Ya want fries with that”, he went to work for his brother-in-law in construction. There he learned how to swing a hammer and carry sheetrock and shingles in 105 degree weather. He loved it!  Jack graduated from Montclair State University with a Bachelor of Science degree, and where he played middie for the lacrosse team. After college graduation he began his lifelong career in law enforcement. Jack graduated from the Morris County Police Academy and worked for the Morris County Park Police, Morris County Prosecutor’s Office, and Wayne Police Department until his retirement. He learned the art of fishing from his dad, was an avid hunter, and was able to pass down these traits to his children.

John met his future wife Fran (DeVito) while at Montclair, and they married in 1993, after dating for  five years.  As time went by, they were blessed with three beautiful children. Nicole, who resides in CT, John in Toms River and Kyle in Point Pleasant. Jack passed on his love of sports to all three of them, and he had many fun years coaching lacrosse for the Kinnelon Recreation Department. Jack was so very proud of his children and seeing their kind demeanor, strong work ethic and their caring attitudes towards others.

Jack was “little brother” to Kathaleen Brolsma, of Butler, NJ and Diane Mongelli, of Kinnelon, NJ. He was brother-in-law to Tom Mongelli, also from Kinnelon, but was more of a brother, than an in-law. Jack was the fun-time uncle to six nieces and nephews, and great-uncle to eight more.

Hundreds of memories will be kept in our hearts by his forever love Fran, his children, his family, his friends, and many others who will remember Jack and think of him with huge smiles on their faces. May he find peace.

John “Jack” Belanger

Pompton Lakes
October 26, 2023

Daniel (Dan) J. Schreck, age 67, of Wayne and North Beach, NJ passed away unexpectedly Monday, October 23, 2023.

Dan was born in Jersey City, NJ to Joseph and Barbara (Reilly) Schreck on September 11, 1956. Dan grew up in Ridgefield Park, NJ with his two sisters: Maureen and Elizabeth. Dan played football for Ridgefield Park High School, where he graduated in 1974. Growing up, Dan spent his summers with his family in the Highlands where he began his lifelong love affair with the Jersey Shore. After high school, Dan went on to play football at Glassboro State College (now Rowan University), where he and his teammates won the Division 3 NCAA Conference Championship all four years that he played. Dan graduated with a degree in accounting in 1978. While in college, Dan spent his summers in Belmar and Sea Bright where he was an ocean lifeguard, beer delivery guy, bouncer, and full-time beach bum.

Dan received his CPA license and started his career in accounting in 1978. He then joined Rayfield and Co. in where he became a partner in 1986. Always ambitious, Dan left Rayfield to start his own practice in 1991, when he and his partner formed Schreck, Bavaro and Co.

Dan spent the next three decades building a highly successful firm with offices in Morristown and Princeton. During this time, Dan served on numerous corporate and not-for-profit boards, including D.A.R.E. NJ. A respected member of the NJ business community, Dan took immense pleasure in helping nurture and grow countless businesses in the tri-state area.

Dan was a giant of a man, in both stature and personality. His love of his friends, family, work, and desire to succeed drove him to constantly push himself. Long after many would have hung up their spurs, Dan continued to hit the gym, the links, and the waves, nurturing those hobbies and relationships that would sustain him throughout his life. His special love for the Jersey Shore continually pulled to LBI, where Dan would spend as much time as he could cycling the boulevard, catching the morning sun on the beach, or floating in pool in the afternoon sun.

Dan met his biggest supporter and lifelong cheerleader, Patricia (Trish) Resco while working together at Rayfield and Co. in 1982. Trish and Dan married on July 11th, 1987, in Wayne, NJ surrounded by their friends and family. They had their first and only child, Kristen—the light of his life, on March 6, 1989, in Morris County, before moving to Wayne, where they built their lives together. Dan was an enthusiastic (if not exactly expert) coach of Kristen’s soccer team while she was growing up and gifted her his competitive nature during countless afternoon tennis matches and mini-golf tournaments. He also nurtured in her his love of the beach, teaching her to bodysurf on warm summer days at the shore.

As a family, they enjoyed going to sporting events, traveling to the Caribbean, lazy days in LBI, live music, and long dinners where Dan was sure to quiz everyone at the table about batting averages for former Yankee sluggers, fun-facts about the Garden State, and obscure points in US history.

Dan is loved and missed immensely by his wife, Trish; his daughter, Kristen; his son-in-law, Grant; his step-granddaughters Margot and Ella; his sister Maureen and her husband, David Campbell of Paramus, NJ; his in-laws: Lydia and her husband John Hirsch of Wayne, NJ; Bob Resco and his wife Linda of Crozet, VA; his nieces Kim, Colleen, Katie, Carolyn, and Kayla; his nephews, Chris, Andy, and Kyle; as well as his innumerable friends, family, and associates. Dan was predeceased by his sister Liz Converse, brother-in-law Frank Converse, and his parents Joe and Barbara Schreck.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Barnegat Light First Aid Squad, 15 W 10th Street, Barnegat Light, NJ 08006 or the Surf City Volunteer Fire & EMS, 713 Long Beach Bld., Surf City, NJ 08008 would be greatly appreciated.

Daniel John Schreck

Wayne
October 23, 2023

Eleanor Bradford, age 93, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 23, 2023.

Eleanor was born in Newark, NJ, the seventh of her parents Luigi and Angelina (Russo) Arainte’s nine children. She was raised in Newark where she was a graduate of Westside High School. Upon graduating, Eleanor worked for many years as a secretary for Prudential Insurance Company in Newark.

Once while down the Jersey Shore in Seaside Heights with her girlfriends, Eleanor met a handsome young lifeguard on the beach named George Bradford. They fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on February 14, 1953. They were blessed with a long and loving and devoted marriage until George’s passing in 1995.

Soon Eleanor and George welcomed the birth of their son Brian. Eleanor cherished being a devoted and caring mom and she considered her role to be of paramount importance. She was also the adoring grandmother of her granddaughter Emily who was Eleanor’s pride and joy. The two of them had plenty of quality times which are now cherished memories for Emily. Emily spent many days being cared for by Grandma who was always ready to color or to play a game – UNO being a favorite – with her. This, of course, was traditionally followed by making and eating some delicious homemade pizza together.  

In her spare time, Eleanor could be found in the kitchen happily cooking and baking. This was a very fortunate thing for her family because they were the primary benefactors of her delicious culinary creations. Her homemade Manicotti, and beef stew, and her cookies and amazing sour cream coffee cake were favorites of her family. In the spring and summer Eleanor loved being out in her yard tending to her flowers, especially her impatients which were her favorites. She cut her own grass with an old push mower and her lawn always looked meticulous! In the fall and winter, it was football season and Eleanor always rooted for the New York Giants. She was a passionate fan and, if the Giants lost, Eleanor could often be found standing in front of her television yelling at her team.

Above all else, Eleanor’s greatest love was for her family and friends. She loved gathering together and she loved to laugh. Her outlook on life was always positive and, in her own quiet and loving way, she truly cared more about others than herself.    

Eleanor was the beloved wife of George Bradford, blessed in marriage for many years until George’s passing in 1995. She was the most loving mother of Brian Bradford of Oak Ridge and adoring grandmother of Emily Bradford. Eleanor is also survived by her sisters: Susie Fernicola, Louise Palmisano, and Evelyn Forester and numerous nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by one brother and four sisters.

Eleanor Bradord

Wayne
October 23, 2023

Ernestine Aviles, age 93 of Wayne, died peacefully on Sunday, October 22, 2023, just six days after her husband, Moises, passed away.

Born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, she moved to New York City when she was just sixteen years old. Shortly after arriving in New York, she met Moises Aviles and their romance blossomed. They were married just two years later, on December 7, 1948. They lived in Manhattan briefly before settling into their home in the Bronx. They resided in the Bronx for nearly forty years, raising their two children; Edward and Rosemary. Ernestine and Moises often found themselves traveling out to Wayne, NJ, to visit with their family. They liked the Wayne area so much that in 1991 they decided to move there. Having lived in New York City for so long, Ernestine had never learned to drive a car – there was just no reason to. She didn’t allow that to slow her down, though, and she quickly learned the bus routes so she could go to the movies, and she made regular trips into New York. She would ride the bus back to the Bronx every few weeks, just to get her hair done! Ernestine never left the house without having her hair and nails done just right, and she always took pride in her appearance.

Although they enjoyed many happy years together, sadness also visited Ernestine and Moises during those years. In 1995, they lost their son Edward and in 2017 they lost their daughter Rosemary. Despite these trials, and the strains put on their marriage, they persevered. As they aged together, they faced many challenges, but love prevailed and they stood by each other’s side through it all. When Ernestine began showing signs of dementia, Moises did his best to care for her. Sadly, Moises passed away just a few days ago, and only weeks shy of their seventy-fifth wedding anniversary.

Ernestine and Moises cherished their three grandsons and six great-grandchildren, and would spend time with them whenever possible. They will each cherish the memories and miss them very much.

Ernestine is survived by her grandchildren; Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; six great-grandchildren: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; and a niece and God daughter; Rebecca Colon of Englewood. Ernestine was predeceased by her husband Moises, and their two children: Rosemary Bartolomey (2017) and Edward Aviles (1995).

Ernestine Aviles

Wayne
October 22, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Jay Thomas Simmons, age 72, of Kinnelon, NJ.

Jay passed away on Friday, October 20, 2023, surrounded by his loving family.

Jay was born in San Juan Puerto Rico and was the younger of two sons to John and Olga Simmons. Being that Jay’s father was on active duty with the United States Navy, Jay spent his formative years living in Japan. While growing up in Japan, Jay developed many of his wonderful and powerful personality traits, such as his generosity, kindness, humility, and graciousness. At the age of thirteen, his family moved back to the Unites States and settled in Palisades Park, NJ. As a young man, Jay attended Palisades Park High School, where he was a member of the Boys Varsity Wrestling team.  

Following his high school graduation in 1968, Jay attended Pennsylvania Military College. He graduated from PMC in 1972, earning his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Behavioral Psychology and Organizational Dynamics. Shortly after Jay’s graduation in 1972, Pennsylvania Military College became Widener University.

Subsequent to earning his college degree, Jay quickly found work in the banking industry. During his long, successful career, he accepted positions at JP Morgan, Bank of America, and Citibank. Throughout the years, he was also an entrepreneur for various companies all relating to finance. Jay’s latest position was with Valley National Bank in Wayne, NJ, as Senior Vice President. For Jay, his role at Valley, and the people he worked with, was one of the most rewarding of his career. He held this position until his passing. Jay’s career in finance and banking spanned a period of more than fifty years. He was a wonderful boss, colleague, and peer, truly loved and well respected.

On many occasions, Jay was asked to give formal talks at various speaking engagements. On one such occasion, Jay was chosen to speak at a Chemical Bank seminar, and it was there that he met a young attractive girl by the name of Anne Friedman. Anne found Jay to be a wonderful speaker, charismatic and kind. She also thought he was quite the intellectual. Anne introduced herself to Jay afterwards, and the two became good friends. In the following years, their friendship blossomed into a wonderful and romantic courtship, and, as fate would have it, they fell in love. On September 27, 1998, Jay and Anne became husband and wife, with a small, intimate wedding in Napa Valley, California.  

The newlyweds settled in the upper East side of Manhattan. In 2001, while residing in New York City, the couple welcomed the birth of their twins, Kendal and Stephen. When their children were about six years old, the family moved to the Smoke Rise community in Kinnelon, NJ, where they still reside. Jay loved his community and the life he was able to build. As an active member of his community, he served as treasurer of the Smoke Rise Board of Directors for more than ten years, and he was also part of the historical restoration of the Smoke Rise Chapel.

Jay also had an adventurous side: he was an avid golfer, occasional skier alongside his wife, snorkeler, race driver, and world traveler. Whether for business or vacation, Jay treasured traveling to destinations such as Chile, Argentina, Columbia, France, Italy, England, Ireland, Malta, and Spain, as well as many places across the US. He loved music, sometimes just listening and, other times, singing along. He was also quite handy and loved to work with his hands, whether that meant sitting down to build Legos with his kids or fixing up things around the house. He loved his sports and always enjoyed cheering on his favorite teams, the New York Yankees and the Dallas Cowboys, with his son, Stephen. He loved sharing snacks with his daughter, Kendal, and savoring the delicious treats that his wife and daughter often baked. One of his most treasured pastimes was going out to the movies with his wife, Anne, just about every weekend. He also adored each and every one of his pets; they brought the biggest smiles to his face.

Aside from all of Jay’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jay than providing for and spending time with his wife and children. He was a truly devoted father, supporting his children through everything, in every way that he could. He was involved in every aspect of their lives, from first steps to college graduation. He adored them, and he could not have been more proud of who they have become. Jay and Anne were more than partners, they were best friends, soulmates, cherishing more than twenty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together.  

Jay was a kind and thoughtful man, a true gentleman. His selflessness and generosity were his greatest assets. He was charming and had a wonderful charisma about him. Jay was a proficient public speaker, so it was no surprise that he had the ability to captivate an audience of any age with his skill to tell a story. He was a pillar in his community and was sincerely loved by everyone that knew him.  

Jay will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father and a well-respected, well-loved member of his community and profession. Jay touched the lives of many people and will be truly missed by his family, friends, and his colleagues.      

Jay is survived by his wife Anne (nee Friedman) of Kinnelon, NJ, his daughter Kendal Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his son Stephen Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his brother David Simmons and his wife Donna of Little River, SC, two nieces: Kiera Prior and Karen Bond, one nephew Kevin Simmons, and his sister-in-law Stephanie Friedman. He was predeceased by his parents, John and Olga Simmons.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jay’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Jay Thomas Simmons

Kinnelon
October 20, 2023

Dennis John Paduch, age 75, of Wayne passed on Wednesday October 18, 2023. He’s lived in Wayne since 1978.

Dennis was born to Walter and Marie Paduch (Oliva) of Passaic where he attended Passaic high school. After high school, Dennis joined the United States Navy and served for six years during the Vietnam War. After being honorably discharged in 1973, he began a career with Verizon Telephone. He worked for Verizon as a special operations technician for 33 years.

Dennis was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He was an avid hunter and fisherman since the age of 13. As a young boy, he enjoyed hunting and fishing with his three neighbors: Maxey, Donald and Tutti.  As an adult, you could find him hunting and fishing on his property in upstate New York, or taking his Bassboat out on Lake Hopatcong, Greenwood Lake, or York Lake in Sullivan County. When he was not hunting or fishing, you could find him watching the Giants game, or partaking in carpentry, as he was a master carpenter, having built many beautiful structures both in his home in Wayne and on his property in upstate NY.

Dennis met his wife Joanne while they were both working for Lummos Engineering. Joanne was an engineer assistant and Dennis, working for Verizon, was contracted to install new phone systems in the building. Joanne was carrying a coffee to her boss when Dennis backed out of the closet, causing her to spill the coffee and burn her hand! Despite the resulting mess and Joanne’s injury, Dennis was smitten. He asked his friend Paulie if he should ask Joanne for a date, but he was concerned because she looked very young. Paulie was bold and simply asked Joanne to see her driver’s license to confirm, and Dennis asked her out! They went on their first date at a local bar and the rest was history, dating for a short while before marrying on January 28, 1978.  Dennis and Joanne’s marriage was blessed with one daughter, Danielle. They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage for 45 years.

Dennis is survived by his wife Joanne Paduch (nee Trabucco), their daughter Danielle Paduch and son in law Sean Roe of Wayne, granddaughter; Skyla Roe of Wayne, sister Darlene Tursi and husband Robert Tursi of Keansburg, NJ and sister Gail Trent of Evington, VA, along with many nieces and nephews.

Dennis J. Paduch

Wayne
October 18, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Cecilia M Kelnhofer-Feeley, age 54 of Wayne, NJ.

Cecilia passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 18, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Cecilia M. Kelnhofer-Feeley

Wayne
October 18, 2023

Susan Walker Weiss, age 86 of Wayne, NJ and East Longmeadow, MA died Tuesday, October 17, 2023 after a long illness.

Sue grew up in Clifton, New Jersey, graduating high school from Benedictine Academy in Paterson. She received a Bachelor of Arts Degree from Barnard College and later earned a Masters Degree in Religious Studies from Union Theological Seminary in New York.

After graduating from Barnard, Sue married Fred Weiss and they enjoyed over 50 years of marriage. Along the way, Sue had four children, Kate, Ted, Peter and Al.

Sue and Fred moved to the Packanack section of Wayne after living for a short time on East 88th Street in New York City.  Sue attended Union Theological Seminary while raising her four children, graduating while she had two children in college, one in high school and one in middle school.

Sue was a devoted member of the Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church in Wayne, where she served as

Director of Religious Education, CCD teacher, RCIA Director, Eucharistic Minister and Lector.

Sue was the loving wife of the late Edward (Fred) Weiss; loving mother of Katherine “Kate” DiSabito and her husband David of East Longmeadow, MA, Edward “Ted” Weiss and his wife Katharine of San Francisco, CA, Peter Weiss and his wife Susan of Wayne, NJ, and Alfred Weiss and his wife Sarah of Forest Grove, OR.  Fourteen grandchildren, David DiSabito and his wife Liz, Anna Rosenthal and her husband Jason, Anthony DiSabito and his wife Katie, Joseph DiSabito, John DiSabito, Heather Weiss, Brian Weiss, Hunter Ryan and his wife Crystal, Colin Ryan, Thomas Weiss, Rose Weiss, Sophia Barbour-Weiss, Helena Barbour-Weiss and Irene Barbour-Weiss as well as three great grandchildren, Isabella, Tyler and David. She is also survived by her brothers, Alfred Walker and his wife Heather, Douglas Walker and his wife Nancy, her sister-in-law Joy Walker, wife of her late brother, Richard Walker, Willis "Bill" Walker and his wife Beth, and her brother-in law, Robert Weiss and his wife Anita. Also surviving Sue are numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider a donation to Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation in Sue’s name.

Susan Walker Weiss

Wayne
October 17, 2023

Roberta Place, 90, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Monday, October 16, 2023 in the comfort of her family.

Born at Paterson General Hospital, December 18, 1932, she was the loving, caring light of her family.

She graduated from Pompton Lakes High School where she was an enthusiastic cheerleader, and then went on to work for NJ Bell in Paterson. Her father, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Wayne Fire Company #1 at the time, and “Bobbie” volunteered at the fire company’s Parish Oval fairs. It was there she met her sweetheart and future husband, Clarence “Buddy” Place, who became her “Junie” and the love of her life. He gave her quarters to play the games, and so their life together began.

They were married January 19, 1952, having their reception at the Old Peacock House. They moved into their first little apartment on Fairfield Road in Wayne, until one day her father saw a stove pipe going across the ceiling and said “you are not staying here”. Then commenced the building of their first home, right next to her beloved parents, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth. Later when Route 80 was established, both homes had to be moved across the street to a relative’s property. This became the beginning of many memorable backyard picnics, celebrations with family and friends, and the never forgotten “backyard family band”. Good times were had by all.

Roberta went on to work for Wayne Township in 1971 for the Records and Information (R&I) bureau, eventually becoming Secretary to several Police Chiefs. She also became a Special Police Officer and retired from the Wayne Police Department in 1990.

She worked part-time at the Hi-Ho Club, owned by close family friends, which was next to the old MacMoulding building where her father worked, and he would occasionally come by for lunch.

During their married life, Bobbie and her “Junie” enjoyed many happy times, and took many trips that included going to several islands and taking a cruise to Alaska. In 1974 they bought “the little house” in Seaside Park, NJ where they enjoyed many summers with family and friends. When they retired in 1990, they moved to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just around the corner. They spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time just relaxing together sitting on their front porch.

Bobbie was a lifelong Parishioner of Holy Cross Church in Wayne, and then of St. Catherine’s Church in Seaside Park.

Bobbie’s joy and shining light was her family. She was the family “glue”, selflessly never failing to call and make sure everyone was ok. Always a smile, a hug, and a good meal. “Nothing fancy!” she would say. “You get what you get!” And it was always delicious!

Bobbie and Buddy had two children, Robert and Susan, who they love and adore, and always helped when they could.

She is survived by her husband of 71 wonderful years, Clarence “Buddy” Place; her son Robert Place, daughter-in-law Patricia, granddaughter Krysti, and great-grandson Chase; her daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr.; granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; her sister Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and wife Laura, and their son Eric; nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew.

She has left a place in our hearts that no one else can fill, and we are so lucky to have had her as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, and friend. She had so much love for all of us and while she will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate her beautiful life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Roberta Place

Seaside Park
October 16, 2023

Moises Aviles, age 97, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 16, 2023.

Moises was born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, one of Juan and Dionisa (Camacho) Aviles’ ten children. He grew up in Puerto Rico until the age of 16 when he joined his older brother Pedro who had already moved to the Bronx, New York. Soon after, in 1945, Moises became a Merchant Marine serving as a seaman on the United States merchant ships. As a Mariner, Moises traveled extensively throughout the world.

Upon his retirement as a Merchant Marine, Moises returned to New York. Shortly thereafter, he met a beautiful young lady named Ernestine Alvarez. She also had come from Puerto Rico to New York and the two fell in love and soon married. For many years they lived in the Bronx where they raised their two children, Edward and Rosemary. Moises enjoyed a career with the New York City Transit Authority that spanned twenty-five years until his retirement in 1991. The funny sidenote to his retirement occurred a whole year later when he got a call from the Transit Authority informing him that they found a glitch in his employment records and that, in order to keep his pension, Moises had to come to work for one more day. Obliging the technicality, Moises reported for work and promptly announced “If anyone needs me, I’ll be across the street at the bar.”  With full-time work behind him, he and Ernestine moved to Wayne, NJ where they remained to the present.

One of Moises’ favorite places to be, was in the kitchen where he could fully hone his culinary skills. He was known for the delicious sauces that he made. They tasted so good with some nice pasta and a glass of fine wine. Moises whole family benefited from his love of cooking and one of their favorite recipes was his sweet potato pie. Moises also enjoyed working in his yard. He kept his lawn in meticulous condition and, when his grandsons came over to cut his grass, he expected nothing but the straightest of lines. He believed that no wild animals should be allowed in his yard because, as he liked to say, “They didn’t pay any rent.” Consequently, those humane HavaHart traps were employed to safely remove them from his yard. In spite of his disdain for the squirrels, chipmunks and bunnies, Moises had a soft spot for the ducks which he fed on a daily basis. One particular duck took a real liking to Moises so, when he would go on his daily walks through the neighborhood to catch up on the gossip, that duck always walked behind him.  

While traveling wasn’t frequent in later years, Moises and Ernestine did enjoy occasional trips to Florida and Puerto Rico to visit family. Older age led to an increasingly mellower demeaner for Moises and along with that came an increasing love and admiration for his three grandsons and six great-grandchildren. He loved spending time with them and he always had some cash in his pocket to spoil them.

Practical to a fault, blunt and to the point, Moises had a knack for sarcasm, but it was his sarcasm that made him so endearing and frankly, it’s one of the reasons he will be so missed by his family and friends. He will also be missed for his great stories about his experiences as a Merchant Mariner and with his job with the Transit Authority. Most of all, he’ll be missed for his mere presence.

Moises was the beloved husband of Ernestine and much-loved father of his late son Edward (1995) and late daughter Rosemary Aviles-Cruz (2017); cherished grandfather of: Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; adoring great-grandfather of: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; precious great-uncle of Rebecca Colon of Englewood; and dear godfather of Christopher Nelles. Moises was also predeceased by his nine siblings.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Moises’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To make a donation by mail, please click here to print out mailable donation form

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Moises Aviles.

Moises Aviles

Wayne
October 16, 2023

Patricia Ann Blewitt (nee Scott) of Wayne, NJ, age 76, passed away on Saturday, October 14th, 2023.

Patty was born in Rochester, NY to Marjorie Jackson and Kelly John.  Weeks later she was adopted by Edith and Bill Scott who soon moved to Long Island, NY.  After living there briefly the family moved to Glen Olden, PA, for two years before finally settling in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne Township, NJ.  Except for two years spent living in Skyline Lakes, NJ, with Kevin, Patty resided in Wayne for the rest of her life.

After graduating from Wayne HS (class of ‘65) Patty decided to pursue her dream of becoming a beautician.  She went to school, got her license, and found her dream job at Joe Paternos Beauty Shop in Kinnelon, NJ.  After working there for ten years Patty grew discouraged, was tired of being on her feet all day and decided to make a change.

Several of her friends were school bus drivers and they persuaded her to give it a try.  Patty liked the challenge and said, “Could I really drive that big bus around without hitting anything?”  Well, it turns out she could and for the next 32 years she could be seen driving her bus around Wayne and the surrounding towns, driving to the schools, sporting events, and school trips.  She especially loved signing up for trips to the circus at the Meadowlands where the teachers always made sure the drivers got into see the show.  She loved the clowns!  Patty retired from the Wayne Board of Education in 2009.

Patty enjoyed many things in her life, most sports, gardening, music, especially mo-town, she loved anything by The Temptations, playing her piano(she was an expert), reading music, and also loved the oboe.  She especially loved swimming, loved the ocean, and many days spent on the beach at “The Hook”(aka Sandy Hook State Park) where the life guards always had to wave her in because she had swam too far out.

Patty loved all animals especially her dogs. Between herself, Kevin and their two boys they raised six all together, all German Shepherds, all female, and all brought home between 8 – 10 weeks old.  All predeceased her, Mona, Samantha, Coyote, Katie, Abbey and Hannah.  They gave her so much joy.

Since a young age Patty knew she was Native American but had no idea of her family history.  Although adoption records were sealed Patty was determined to find out about her past.  After extensive research and a little luck Patty found that her biological parents were both enrolled members of the Seneca Nation of Indians.  When this was verified Patty was invited to become an enrolled member.  She applied and was accepted, and along with her two sons became enrolled members, thus enabling them all to enjoy the many benefits the Nation has to offer for the rest of their lives.  Patty was now complete, her search was finally over and she could now relax and enjoy her heritage in which nothing else gave her more joy.

Survived by her loving husband of 43 years, Kevin, of Wayne NJ, her son Patrick of Steamburg NY, and her son Nicholas of Wayne NJ.

Also survived by a sister Sal,(Bob)Nelsen of Westbrook, MN.

Also survived by sister in-law Katie,(Blase) of Wayne, NJ.  Brother in-law Joseph,(Racie) of Siesta Key, FL.  Sister in-law Maureen,(Rick) of Caldwell, NJ.  Brother in-law Michael,(Christina) of E. Patchogue, NY.  Sister in-law Laura,(Tom) of Syracuse, NY.  Brother in-law Daniel,(Ofie) of Lincoln Park, NJ.    Sister in-law Ellen,(Jim) of Myrtle Beach, SC.   Sister in-law Ginny,(Ed) of St. Louis, MO. Sister in-law Mary Anne,(Chuck) of Pompton Plains, NJ, and brother in-law Tony Dapolito of Wayne, NJ.

She is also survived by 32 nieces and nephews whom she all loved dearly.

Patty was predeceased by both of her biological parents Marjorie and Kelly, her adoptive parents Edith and Bill Scott, her brothers Bill and Ralph, sister in-law Sharen Scott of Australia, sister in-law Christine Dapolito of Morristown, NJ, and niece Andrea Morelli of Syracuse, NY.

The family would like to thank the ICU staff at St. Joes Hospital in Paterson, NJ for the kindness and care of Patty in her final weeks.Also the staff at Morristown Medical Center for all the care and support they gave Patty these past few months.

And the family can not forget the kindness and extreme support that was given to Patty at her favorite place to stay, “The Chilton Hilton” as she liked to call it.  Over the past several years Dr. Rappaport and his staff have shown such great understanding and excellent care for all of her stays there.  Words can not express our gratitude.  Thank you Dr. Rappaport.

And finally to Patty's private nurse, Maria, who was provided to her by the Woodland Park Dialysis Center where Patty began her dialysis treatments.  Maria, you are a true guardian angel.  With your help, understanding, and extreme kindness, Patty was able to manage her weekly treatments and then with your training was able to do the treatments at home.  It made it so much easier on her these past several years.  Without your care Maria, none of that would have been possible.  Thank you so much.

Patricia Blewitt

Wayne
October 14, 2023

Rosemarie J. Manza, age 85 years, passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 14, 2023, surrounded by her loving family at her home in Wayne, NJ.  Born on May 10, 1938, in Clifton, NJ. She was oldest daughter of the late Daniel and Josephine LaBrie.

Mimi, as she was affectionately named by her brother, Joseph who could not say Rosemarie when he was younger, grew up in Queens, NY, she attended Saint Mary’s Winfield school and later graduated from All Saints High School.

Mimi’s first job was working at Kraft Foods.  It was here that Mimi made several dear friends that to this day remain cherished.  Once Mimi married, she became a homemaker and made her husband and her children, her everything.

Mimi was devoted to her husband, her family, and her faith.  She was a great cook, reminding her family every chance she got that she learned to cook from her “Irish” Mother-in-Law.  She loved preparing Sunday dinners at her house for her family and all who gathered at the holidays to enjoy her hospitality and Italian traditions.  She loved celebrating holidays, birthdays, and special events at home.  She was the best party planner and the most gracious hostess.  Mimi enjoyed decorating her home and making it comfortable for all who entered.  Mimi enjoyed traveling having been to Bermuda, Saint Croix, St. Maartin, and Italy but the greatest of her travels was to the Catskills Mountains with her family.  Mimi and her family vacationed there for many years and after the kids were on their own, her and Michael continued to enjoy the mountains vacationing in Wyndam, NY.  Her laugh was infectious and made you laugh just hearing it.  Mimi was one of the founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church.  Her Catholic faith was especially important to her.

Mimi met the love of her life, Michael, while both of their families vacationed in the Catskill Mountains.  Michael’s family came from Brooklyn and Mimi’s from Queens, and they became fast friend.  Michael was 13 years old, and Mimi was 10 years old.  Their relationship grew over the years, and they married April 25, 1959, at Saint Bernardo Church in Queens, NY and honeymooned in Lake Placid, NY.  They made their home in Brooklyn, NY and in December of 1964, they bought their first home in Wayne, NJ.  Mimi and Michael’s marriage was blessed with three children: Michael, Helen, and Kim.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-four years.

Mimi is survived by her husband, Michael, her children Michael Manza, and his wife Kathryn (Lincoln Park), Helen Kueck and her husband Rudy (Wayne) and Kimberly Ann (Wayne); along with two grandchildren Nicole and Zachery.  Mimi is also survived by her brother Joseph and his wife Marie, and several nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Rosemarie Manza

Wayne
October 14, 2023

Jennie Christina Hosier, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home and with her loving family by her side, on Saturday, October 14, 2023.

Jennie was born and raised in Paterson, the second of James and Josephine (Stanzio) Jarvis’ three children. She attended Paterson’s Central High School and worked at Yardley of London, maker of personal care and beauty products, in Totowa. She was employed there for ten years after high school and then Jennie went to work as a factory line worker at Hoffman LaRoche in Nutley for another twenty years before retiring in 1994. During all the years she worked fulltime, Jennie also managed to raise five children, albeit with a little help from some friends as well as her older children helping to care for the younger ones.  

Jennie was the devoted and truly loved wife of Norman Hosier. They met for the first time when Norman came home from U.S. Navy service, only to discover that Jennie, this beautiful seventeen-year-old, had moved in next door to Norm’s parents at 147 Garfield Ave. in Paterson. Wasting no precious time, Norm asked Jennie to go out with him and the chemistry was just right. They fell in love and married just three weeks before Jennie’s eighteenth birthday on Saturday, September 16, 1950 at Pascack Reformed Church in Park Ridge. After a reception in the family’s home, Jennie and Norman jumped into his light green Nash and headed for Sarasota Springs, NY for a heavenly honeymoon.

Married life began on the first floor of the home at 147 Garfield Avenue that Norm grew up in. Jennie and Norm shared the apartment with his parents. It was there that they were blessed with the first of their five children, a baby girl which they named Deborah. They eventually moved next door into Jennie’s parent’s home in which they had an apartment upstairs, all to themselves. There, they were blessed with two more baby girls, first Janice and then Norma Jean. From there they moved to Genessee Ave. in Paterson where baby boys Norman, Jr. and James were born. In 1962, they moved to their present home in Wayne.  

One of Jennie’s favorite pastimes was bowling. She bowled for many years in various houses in the area. In the 1970’s she bowled at Little Falls Lanes where she sported a 156 average and at the Garden Place Lanes in Clifton where her average was 151. She also bowled at Astro Bowl and at the Brunswick Lanes in Bellville where she bowled in the Hoffmann LaRoche League. Jennie instilled a great love of bowling in her children by taking them to Leisure Lanes in Fairfield. Her son James especially took a love to the game and eventually went pro.  

Jennie’s greatest love was for her family. She and her husband Norm made sure to supply their children with a great upbringing filled with fun and special memories. They enjoyed annual tent camping trips and vacations every summer for a week down the Jersey Shore where Jennie especially loved to go crabbing. Jennie was a longtime member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne, and she saw to it that her children dressed in their Sunday best for church each week and that they all attended Sunday school. She herself enjoyed her weeknight bible studies at the church. She loved an impeccably clean home and she left the cooking to husband Norm. Instead, she found great satisfaction in knitting and crocheting scarves, mittens, hats, and afghans for her children and much-adored five grandsons. She loved those boys, felt very close to them and enjoyed favoring them with little acts of love to spoil them. The only thing she never did was babysit them. Her philosophy was always, “I raised mine, now you raise yours.”

In between work and family, Jennie enjoyed working outside in her gardens and enjoying the company of her two favorite pooches – miniature poodles named Misty and Minka.

Jennie could best be described as feisty and outspoken. She was also very loving and, if she liked you, she’d give you the shirt off of her back if you needed it. Her mere presence will be dearly missed by her family and friends. Rest in peace Jennie!      

Jennie was the beloved wife of Norman, blessed in marriage for 73 years. She was the proud and loving mother of five children: Deborah LaSala and husband William of Wantage, Janice Nolan and husband Thomas of Pompton Plains, Norma Jean Johnson and husband Scott of Newton, Norman Hosier, Jr. and wife Maryrose of Newton, and James Hosier of Wayne; adoring grandmother of five grandsons: Jason Grieves, Billy LaSala, the late Christopher Grieves (2007), Michael Hosier and Matthew Hosier; dear aunt of several nieces and nephews and four great grandchildren. Jennie was also predeceased by her sister Rose McAteer and her brother Sonny Jarvis.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jennie’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attention Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Jennie Hosier

Wayne
October 14, 2023

Martin E. Laschet, “Marty”, of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on Friday, October 13th, 2023, at the age of 93.

Marty was born and raised in New York City, where he was married to his wife, Ann, and had four beautiful children. In 1964 the family moved to the Pines Lake community in Wayne, New Jersey.

He was a U.S. Army veteran serving before the outbreak of the Korean War. He worked and retired from Bendix Aviation as an electronics technician until 1996. His accomplishments include working on the electronics systems on the STS-1 for the Space Shuttle, for which he received commendation.

Martin was always quick with a joke and had an interesting sense of humor to all that knew him. He would always listen to what you had to say, give advice, and his honest opinion (whether you wanted it or not).

He was a proud member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fairfield Golden Agers. He loved to travel with his family as well as with the Golden Agers. He would often tell stories of his travels to anyone who would listen.

Marty was predeceased by his loving wife, Ann, in 1999 and is survived by four children: Carol Porcelli of Whiting, NJ, Martin and his wife Kim of Middletown, NY, Joan and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and Donna and her husband Chuck of Surprise, AZ, six grandchildren: Liam and his wife Jennifer, Terrence and his wife Janine, Laura, Daniel, Bobby, and Justin, and five great-grandchildren: Aiden, Jackson, Lina, Gavin, and Riley, a sister Margaret, and a brother Raymond. Marty was also predeceased by his grandson, Seamus, and by his brother Edward.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Marty’s memory would be appreciated to Valley Hospice, 15 Essex Rd, Paramus, NJ 07652.

Martin E. Laschet

Wayne
October 13, 2023

Brooks Scholz, age 95, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 11, 2023, surrounded by her family.

Brooks was born and raised in Shelby , NC by her parents Edna Lequeux Dennis and Carol Dennis.  She attended Furman University for 1 year.

Then she married Fred Whitener and  moved to Durham NC  in 1951,for his job at Duke University, where they raised 3 daughters.  This is where she became such an avid fan of Duke football and basketball teams.  She often got to travel with the team and was their loudest cheerleader.

Brooks worked as a secretary at Duke in the Psychiatric Department for a period of time.

In 1964 they moved to Franklin Lakes, NJ.

In New Jersey she later worked at Valley Hospital in the admitting Department for many years and later as Head of admitting at Fair Lawn Memorial Hospital.

Brooks owned a hair salon in Franklin Lakes called Shear Expressions and had many friends from there.

She met and fell in love with Bob Scholz in 1973 and they were never apart after that first dance. They loved to dance and even won dance contests, sometimes with their grandchildren cheering them on.

She had a charming Southern accent and loved to entertain especially at Christmas when she hosted a large family gathering. She always dressed as a witch on Halloween, and all the neighborhood kids loved it.

She remained an avid Duke basketball and football fan from her years in Durham, and would call her daughters to tell them when there was a Duke game on TV to make sure they were watching it. She still yelled the loudest.

She loved her many (many, many!!) cats. 

She is survived by her daughters, Lynn Brescia of Wayne, Mary Brooks Holmgren of Wayne, Claire Shaw and Ike, of Florissant Co., and stepson Carter Scholz of California. Her grandchildren Noelle Brescia of Wayne, Rachel Brooks Lauretta and Danny of Wayne, Bjorn Holmgren and Sunshine of Wantage, and Crystal Shaw and Joseph of Colorado Springs. Her great-grandchildren, Isabella Brooks Lauretta, Emily Lauretta, Chase Lauretta of Wayne, and Shylynn Sinio of Colorado Springs.

Predeceased by her husband Robert Scholz, her son in law Bob Ricker Jr, her brother Carol Dennis and her beloved grandson, Joshua Holmgren.

She has many nieces and nephews in North Carolina. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to PATCH ( Pet Adoption Through Caring Hands) in Pompton Lakes, N.J.

Brooks Scholz

Wayne
October 11, 2023

Charles W. Kelly, age 90, of Cedar Crest, NJ passed away Wednesday, October 11, 2023, peacefully in his sleep, just weeks after celebrating his 90th birthday.

Charlie was born to Maude and William Kelly of Orange, NJ. After he graduated from Montclair State College, he continued his higher education at Brooklyn College, New York University, and Columbia with Graduate Studies in recreation.

Mr. Kelly will be remembered locally as the beloved Director of Parks and Recreation of Wayne, NJ, where he was instrumental in starting many community programs, and developed a sense of family within the department. These programs continue today, helping Wayne to become recognized as one of New Jersey’s best places to live.

Charlie proudly served in the US Marines from 1951-54 as a Staff Sargent and a Flight Crew Chief. He was a decorated Korean War Veteran receiving a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart for his heroic and distinguished service. He was the sole survivor of an airplane crash, and walked across enemy lines, at night, for almost two weeks before being rescued by Turkish forces.

Charlie was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He always had a great sense of humor, and never missed a chance to good-naturedly poke fun at friends and family. He enjoyed golf, tennis, boating, and spending time in Lake Bomoseen, Vermont. He loved playing bocce with his team, “The Mighty Geezers”, with his wife, and friends. He held court wherever he was at Cedar Crest, and knew almost everyone, staff included, by first name.

He is predeceased by his parents, William and Maude, and his brother, William. He is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Joan Kelly, his daughters, Joyce Kardux and Jo Ann Bigsby, his son Rick Kelly, their spouses, his stepsons John and Jim Wickes, stepdaughter, Jennifer Ullman, and their spouses, thirteen grandchildren, and his former wife.

Donations can be made to the United States Marine Corps Wounded Warriors.

Charles W. Kelly

Pompton Plains
October 11, 2023

Stasia Elizabeth Skula, age 105 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, October 8, 2023 at home surrounded by loving family members and friends.

Stasia was born in Passaic to parents Joseph and Catherine Siwiec before moving to Wallington, NJ. She was the second of six  children. With both of her parents being immigrants from Poland to the United States, they had to work hard to feed so many mouths. This meant that Stasia and her siblings each had responsibilities with house-hold chores that they diligently kept up with. As a result, she and her siblings all became so close with one another that they created lasting relationships for the rest of their lives.

Stasia met her husband Emil after her sister Albina introduced the two. They found themselves falling in love and were married on December 29, 1940. Stasia and Emil found an apartment together, but in 1944 Emil was drafted into the United States Navy during World War II. Not knowing how long Emil would be gone and faced with the stark contrast of an empty home compared with her household of eight growing up, Stasia quickly made the decision to temporarily move back in with her siblings. Fortunately, Emil was able to return from the war a year and a half later and the two decided it was time to start a family together.

Stasia and Emil were blessed with three children: Emil Richard in 1946, Robert in 1948, and Debra Catherine in 1959. Stasia wanted her children to have a good education and a close relationship with God so Emil Richard and Robert were enrolled in St. Mary’s Grammar School for their education. Stasia belonged to St. Mary’s Church while they lived in Rutherford, and she even volunteered in the lunchroom there. Although her volunteer work was ultimately for altruistic reasons, Stasia did make use of her position by making sure her kids all ate their veggies and avoided the all-too-tempting sweets.  

In 1959, God blessed Stasia with a daughter, Debbie. Debbie was diagnosed with Down syndrome and therefore required special attention. Stasia did all of that and more for her and the two quickly became inseparable. It was a major responsibility taking care of Debbie, but it was a labor of love for Stasia, and Debbie was a great helper and companion and brought her much joy. In 1960, Stasia and Emil realized that their expanded family needed a home to match them. They decided to build their dream home together in Packanack Lake, customizing everything from the layout and architecture all the way to the landscaping and everything in between. They made Wayne their home and became parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.

In 1982, Stasia lost the love of her life when Emil passed. Her close relationship with her family helped guide her through that challenging time. Her sisters also lost their respective loved ones, and it was  their relationship with God and one another that helped them get through those tough times. They went on to travel the world: Aruba, Florida, Poland, Las Vegas, and California were just a few of the places they explored and enjoyed.

Stasia will be remembered for her patient, independent, and strong character (she drove her car until she was 100 years old!). She loved to host parties and cook everything from standard American food to stuffed cabbages and pierogies. And, she was an avid gardener.  She was loving and held her family, her relationship with God, and her responsibilities as a homemaker and caregiver above all else. She took care of Debbie her whole life and made it one that Debbie loved. They had a mutual respect and understanding for one another that could only come from a lifelong bond. The two loved to shop, go to Atlantic City and play the slot machines, and vacation at the Jersey Shore over in Chadwick Beach. They were best friends until Debbie’s untimely passing in 2021.

Stasia is survived by her two children: Emil Richard Skula, Esq.,  and Robert Skula; and her four grandchildren: Joseph E. Skula, Steven R. Skula M.D., Robert E. Skula, and Thomas Skula.

She is predeceased by her husband Emil Skula; her daughter Debbie Skula; her parents: Joseph Siwiec, and Catherine Siwiec; and her siblings: Sophia Kerr, Albina Bulanda, Josephine Kocsis, Jean Popek, and Louis Siwiec.  

If you are unable to attend the funeral mass at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, a livestream will be available at the following link: Immaculate Heart of Mary Church

Stasia Elizabeth Skula

Wayne
October 8, 2023

Joan P. Stappenbeck, age 79 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, October 6, 2023, surrounded by her loved ones. She fought a very brief but courageous battle with cancer.

“Joanie,” as she was affectionately known by everyone, grew up in Teaneck and graduated from St. Francis High School in Ridgefield Park. She was born a twin with her brother, Tommy, and she was one of ten children born to Haywood and Katherine Morrow. As a young woman, Joanie did some modeling in New York City, something she remained very proud of throughout the years.

In the late 1990’s, Joanie met Robert Stappenbeck. They enjoyed a first date at The Crows Nest in Hackensack, and romance blossomed. After courting for a few years, they were married on November 11, 2005 and settled in Wayne. They had a lot of fun together and particularly enjoyed live music. They’ve seen Johnny Mathis, Bobby Rydell, Paul Anka, Engelbert Humperdinck, Frankie Avalon, the Beach Boys, and many more. They visited Atlantic City often and Joanie always seemed to get lucky playing the slots! Whether it was going out to a show, sharing good times with their friends, or dining at Gianna’s Restaurant in Carlstadt, they have had over twenty years of fun and Bob will miss her dearly.

Joanie was also a great baker and would bake her signature crumb cake for everyone. Her father, a loyal RED SOX fan, forbid his children from being YANKEES fans, so Joanie was a NY METS fan her whole life. Of course, there was nothing that brought Joanie more joy than her granddaughter, Caitlin. She would FaceTime with Caitlin every day and the two of them are very close. Caitlin is the light of her life and they will miss each other very much.

Joanie is survived by her devoted husband Robert of Wayne, her two children; Cheryl Giroux of Massachusetts, and Andrea Hayes and her husband Alex of Maryland, her beloved granddaughter; Caitlin McKenzie Hayes of Maryland, two stepchildren; Linda DeFelice and her husband Larry of Lyndhurst, and Scott Stappenbeck of West New York, six siblings: Eileen Ippoloti (John) of W. Milford, Richard Morrow of Hackettstown, Kevin Morrow (Patricia) of Waldwick, Daniel Morrow (Margaret) of California, Michael Morrow (Debra) of Monroe, NY, and Kenneth Morrow (Cindy) of Virginia, as well as many loving nieces and nephews. Joanie was predeceased by her infant son, Brian, by her brother John Morrow (1979), by her twin brother Tommy Morrow (2022), and by her sister Anne Scheidecker.

Recently, Joanie received the most compassionate care imaginable from the nurses working with Valley Hospice. Therefore, in her memory, donations would be greatly appreciated to Valley Hospice by way of The Valley Hospital Foundation, 223 N. Van Dien Avenue, Ridgewood, NJ 07450.

Joan P. Stappenbeck

Wayne
October 6, 2023

Lucy Alfreda Piontkowski DAUM, age 95 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 after a long illness. She was married to Richard Daum for sixty-five years. They were parents to Jeffrey, Susan and Timothy, and her faithful friend Molly. She was predeceased by her parents Frank and Mary Piontkowski, her brother Stanley and her sisters Helen Anderson, Jennie Dzuiba, and Gene Kapchonick. She leaves behind several nephews and a niece.

Lucy graduated from Passaic Valley High School and Jersey City State Teachers College where she received her bachelor’s degree in education and also received her R.N. after graduating from Jersey City Medical Center. She was employed as an operating room nurse in Jersey City for several years. Following this, she was a school nurse in Little Falls. In the summer, she was a camp nurse at Camp Mitigwa in Rangely, Maine. It is here that she met Richard and they were married. She was also a camp nurse at Camp Wyoda in Vermont and at the Boy Scout camp; Camp Turrell, in New York. The remainder of her career was spent as a school nurse at Peter Cooper School in Ringwood.

Memorial contributions in Lucy’s name may be sent to Holy Cross Church, 220 Browertown Rd., Woodland Park, NJ 07424, or to the Fr. English Food Pantry, Paterson.

Lucy P. Daum

Wayne
October 4, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gerald Matthew Martin, age 70, of West Caldwell, NJ.  Gerald passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gerald was born in Queens, NY and was one of four children to Francis and Margaret Martin.  Those who knew Gerald best, came to know him affectionately as “Jerry.”  Jerry was living in Queens with his family until about the age of six years old when his family moved to the Lion’s Head section of Wayne.  It was in Wayne where Jerry would spend his formative years, attending Wayne Hills High School.

Following Jerry's graduation from high school with the class of 1971, he found work quickly in the drafting department at American Cyanamid in Wayne.  After working there for a couple of years, Jerry joined the team at New Jersey Bell employed as a Lineman.  New Jersey Bell eventually became Atlantic Bell and later Verizon.  Although Jerry worked in the company’s office for a short time, the bulk of his career was spent as a Lineman installing fiber optic cable.  He spent many an afternoon enjoying his lunch hours at the Haledon Pork Store.  One of his most memorable days at work was his “Bring Your Daughter to Work Day,” where Jerry got stuck in the bucket of his boom truck while his daughter Alyson patiently waited for her family to rescue her.  Jerry’s career as a Lineman spanned over a period of forty years.  During that time, he was truly well respected and loved by his colleagues and peers.  Jerry eventually retired in 2013.  He remained active in retirement occasionally consulting and helping his son Nicholas’ contracting business.  He was also an accomplished carpenter and worked on various projects while employed as a Lineman.  

He married his first wife Joyce Johnson in 1979.  The couple settled in Hawthorne and while residing there they welcomed the births of both their children, Alyson and Nicholas.  While his children were growing up, he also coached their soccer teams. Unfortunately, the couple split up.  Then in 2002 Jerry met the love of his life, Deborah Reynolds.  As fate would have it, they fell in love, got engaged in 2004 in Cozumel, then August 26, 2006, they became husband and wife. Jerry and Deborah, settled in West Caldwell and have been there ever since.  

Jerry and Deborah are both true animal lovers. They have had a total of 5 dachshunds at different times in their twenty-one and a half year relationship; the most they have had is three at the same time when they first met in 2002.  Presently, they share their home with "Remy", age 71/2.  Since Martin is Jerry's family name, it was a no-brainer adopting "Remy Martin"!

Jerry was a member of the Verizon Pioneers.  He also performed beach clean-ups at the Jersey Shore throughout the years with Bell Atlantic.  Jerry and Deborah treasured traveling to a number of exotic destinations.  Most all the destinations they travelled to included a beach.  They cherished cruising to places throughout the Caribbean and to Mexico including Riviera Mya.  They also loved tailgating together, never missing an NY Giants home game at the Meadowlands as they were season ticket holders.

Jerry was an “Old School” type of individual, having a close friendship with his barber in town.  For many years he stood as a pillar of strength in his neighborhood.  He was extremely proud of his Irish Heritage and devoutly celebrated St Patrick’s Day, and cherished listening to the bagpipes.  Jerry could always be found helping his neighbors, cutting their lawns, shoveling their snow, or lending a hand whenever needed.  He was extremely talented with his hands and could fix just about anything at all.  He loved listening to music and attending live concerts such as:  Bruce Springsteen, Billy Joel, Elton John, Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac and Credence Clearwater Revival, to name a few.

As a toddler, Jerry was an “Ivory Soap Baby”, frequently appearing in television   commercials and magazine ads.  When not helping his neighbors, Jerry could often be found washing and maintaining his cars.  One of his first and favorite cars was his brown Datsun 280Z.  Not only did Jerry enjoy maintaining his cars, but also his personal home/deck and his portable grill used while tailgating.  He was known to family and friends as the “Grill-master.”  In addition to being an expert griller, Jerry was also famous for his talent to cook an outstanding breakfast, particularly Pancakes and French Toast.  Although Gerry worked a lot with his hands, you would never know it because his hands and nails were always clean and incredibly soft.

Aside from all of Jerry's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jerry than providing for and spending time with friends and family.  Jerry and Deborah cherished seventeen years of loving and loyal marriage.

Jerry was a kind, gentle, and quiet man who truly loved his family.  He was loved throughout his community and his profession.  He had an understated humble personality and a wonderfully dry sense of humor that could bring a smile to anyone’s face. Jerry was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Jerry is survived by his wife Deborah  (nee Reynolds) of West Caldwell, NJ, his son Nicholas Martin of Sparta, NJ, his daughter Alyson Payerl and her husband Christopher of Sparta, NJ, two brothers; Bill Martin and his wife Janet of Franklin Lakes, NJ, and Jack Martin and his wife Debbie of Wayne, NJ, one sister Eileen Joyce and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and many nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents Francis and Margaret Martin.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Gerry’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing, Memphis TN 38105.

Gerald Matthew Martin

West Caldwell
October 4, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nina Leslie Gray, age 76, of Riverdale, NJ.

Nina passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 3, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Nina was born in the Bronx, NY on February 19, 1947 and was one of two children to Albert and Miriam Golubock.  She attended Queens College and pursued a successful career in marketing.  She settled in New Jersey and worked full-time along with raising her only child, Deena.  After retiring, Nina kept busy by doing what she truly enjoyed.

She treasured traveling to the casino to play her favorite game, Keno.  She also treasured shopping and spoiling her two grandchildren, Francesco and Antonia.  She frequented exotic destinations with her family, mostly by way of cruises, such as Bermuda, the Caribbean, and journeys to the Mediterranean.

Nina was quite a spitfire of a woman.  She was strong, independent, and not afraid to speak her mind.  She was a no-nonsense lady, and you always knew where you stood with her.  She was a sincerely classy lady who made sure she always looked her best before leaving the house, and this always included her cherished pieces of jewelry.  Those who knew Nina best, quickly realized that her greatest passion in her life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Nina than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.

Nina will be forever remembered as a loving mother and cherished grandmother.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Nina is survived by her daughter Deena Vincenti and her husband Frank of Woodland Park, two loving grandchildren Francesco Vincenti, Jr., and Antonia Vincenti both of Woodland Park, NJ, one sister-in-law Barbara Golubock of Suffern, NY, and two nieces; Rhona and Janis.  She was predeceased by her brother Harvey Golubock, and her parents Albert and Miriam Golubock.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Nina’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing,  Memphis, TN 38105.

Nina Leslie Gray

Riverdale
October 3, 2023

Dino Christopher Vergano, age 97, of Wayne passed Monday, October 2, 2023.

He was born to Peter Dino and Mary (Savio) Vergano at the family home in West New York, NJ. He graduated from Memorial High School in West New York with the Class of 1944.

Dino worked from the age of seven on.  His first job was setting bowling pins at the local bowling alley and he delivered groceries for a small grocery store.  He enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps on April 13, 1944 and passed the tests to be a pilot, bombardier, and navigator for aircraft.  He did have one bad eye but memorized the eye chart so he could pass the vision test. He graduated Gunnery School and was honorably discharged on May 11, 1946.

Dino and Dolores had only one date together before he went off to serve in the US Army’s Air Corps. They corresponded by mail and when he came home from the war they fell in love. Dolores and Dino were married on June 4, 1950, at St Joseph of the Palisades Church in West New York and honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  They have had seventy-two years of a loving and devoted marriage before Dolores’ passing on November 11, 2022.

Under the GI Bill, Dino went to Brooklyn Polytechnical Institute and then to the Newark College of Engineering (now known as NJIT).  He attended school at night for twelve years having graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in May of 1959. Dino had a successful career specializing in the industrial Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning field. Through the years he has owned several companies in the HVAC industry and represented as many as twelve lines of equipment.  His family remembers him always being on the phone (not a cellphone but a wired land line) even when they were on vacation.  Along with the constant telephone calls he was forever in his car. He formally retired in 2013 at the age of eighty-eight.

Dino and his late wife Dolores were dedicated to their Catholic faith, and both were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. A small group founding the church would meet to worship on Sundays at the Schuyler Colfax School in Wayne prior to the completion of the church.  For many years Dino served as an Usher and Eucharistic Minister.

Some will remember Dino volunteering as a Little League baseball coach in Wayne.  He did this for several years during his son Chris’ youth.

Dino will be lovingly remembered as a truly remarkable individual exuding a quiet and personable nature that effortlessly drew people towards him.  With an innate charm and warmth, he possessed an extraordinary ability to make everyone he encountered feel valued and appreciated. Whether engaging in light-hearted banter or lending a listening ear, Dino had an uncanny knack for establishing genuine connections. His selflessness and genuine interest in others made him an all-around nice person, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to cross his path.

Dino was the loving husband of seventy-two years to the late Dolores (Ferris) Vergano (d. November 11, 2022); devoted father of Christopher Vergano and his wife Deneen of Wayne and Cynthia Vergano Brozuski of Oak Ridge and her late husband Chris (d. January 6, 2023); loved brother of the late Ernani Vergano (d. July 19,2021) and his wife Egidia of Attleboro, MA; he was the cherished grandfather of Kyle Vergano and his wife Jenna, Allison Vergano, and Gregory Brozuski and his fiancé Keira Logue.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Dino Vergano

Wayne
October 2, 2023

Veronica Obringer (nee Bruder), age 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 1, 2023.

Veronica was born in Union City and lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne. After calling Wayne her home for many years, she moved to Cedar Crest Village in 2011 where she had been an active resident ever since.

After Veronica graduated from high school, she went to work in New York City where she got a job as a bathing suit wholesaler for Jantzen Swimsuits. She worked in the Empire State Building for seven years. She also worked as an aid in the Wayne School System helping handicapped children. Finally, she worked as a legal secretary for GAF Corp in Wayne.

Dancing was something that Veronica loved. She met a gentleman named Robert at a ballroom dance academy. They danced very well and very naturally together and, they subsequently fell in love and were married a short time later on April 7, 1951. After honeymooning in the Bahamas, they first settled in North Bergen where they were blessed with their two sons, Steven and Robert. They later moved to Wayne where they were blessed with their daughter Lynn. The area around Veronica’s home was a virtual playground. All of the neighborhood children would gather there to play. Veronica’s travels spanned the globe! She traveled throughout North America, took cruises to almost all the Caribbean islands, traveled abroad to all of Europe, China, Russia, Africa, and Patagonia. Closer to home when her kids were young, she was known for her spontaneity when traveling, whether it be when camping or even a trip to Disney World for a long weekend. Veronica was a devoted mother to her children and an adoring grandmother to her grandchildren. She was a parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes for many years.

Veronica is survived by her daughter Lynn Obringer and husband Joseph Petrick of Key West, Florida, two sons: Steven Obringer and wife Linda of Kinnelon, and Robert Obringer and wife Marlee of Pompton Plains; her cherished grandchildren: Katy and husband Andy, Steven and wife Crystal, Mary and husband Nate, Bobby and wife Jill, Heather and husband Rob; and her precious great-grandchildren: Emily, Ashley, Emma, Charlotte, Matthew, Ben, Hunter, Nolan, Vaughn, and Christie. She was predeceased by her husband Robert in 2005, her brother Bernard in 1973, and her sister Florence Waldy in 2017.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Veronica’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To mail a donation, click here  

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place,

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Veronica Obringer

Pompton Plains
October 1, 2023

UPDATE: Janet will be laid to rest with her husband at the Arlington National Cemetery on August 4, 2025.

Janet McLean Thompson (nee Steenstra), age 86 of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, September 27, 2023. She was a Wayne resident for more than fifty years.

 

Janet was born and raised in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1954. She was a Band Majorette and member of the Color Guard spending Saturday afternoons in the fall cheering on the Colts at Hinchliffe Stadium.

 

Janet met Jimmy Thompson as a teenager while they were both attending the First Presbyterian Church in Paterson and Jim played on Central’s football team.

 

After graduation, she began her career working for the telephone company. During this time, Jim had joined the military and was serving with the Army in Germany when he proposed to 19 year old Janet! With her father’s blessing, Janet traveled overseas (alone) and married Jim in Munich on August 4, 1956. They enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon there as well. Once Jim returned home, they married again for the benefit of their family and friends.

 

They bought their first home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they lived for 20 years before building a new home across town.

 

Eventually, Janet and her sister Clariss joined her father’s company, Steenstra Paper Products in Paterson. After her father’s untimely passing, Jim needed to step in and run the day to day business operations. Janet was at his side the whole time for over 25 years. They were a loving couple and Janet was utterly devoted to her beloved Jim. They always considered themselves lucky to work together at Steenstra Paper Products, and they loved being together each and every day. After Jim’s unexpected passing, Janet led the business for another 5 years until her retirement.

 

Together, they raised their two boys, James and Edward. Janet was a very involved and attentive mother. She was always supportive of her boys, attending their sporting events, scouting activities, band concerts, and school events. She and Jim were proud to attend Wayne Valley Marching Band competitions as well as football games at Muhlenberg College. She was an excellent cook and spoiled her loved ones with her baking.

 

During the 1970’s, at the urging of her high school friends Charlene Delvecchio and Maggie McMahon, Janet and Jim purchased several acres in the town of Cobleskill, NY. Jim worked alongside his close friend Jerry Delvecchio to design and build a country “cottage” on the property. Affectionately known as “The Farm”, Janet and her loved ones enjoyed countless trips to her second home over the past 50 years. This despite the home having neither electricity nor running water! These trips eventually included her grandsons where she would enjoy teaching them to play games such as Pokeno and Uno as well as dying easter eggs.

 

She was perhaps an even better YaYa, babysitting at every opportunity and spoiling her grandsons with love and hugs and lots of cookies. They will all miss her dearly.

In 2003, Janet moved to Oak Ridge where she lived on the fourth hole of Bowling Green Country Club. With the help of several close friends and neighbors, she quickly picked up the sport of golf and treasured her time on the greens.

 

Janet was fortunate to always have a large group of friends and she was very social. She played cards with her girlfriends often and loved playing tennis and golf over the years. Somehow, she also found time to tend to her garden or do needlework. She was very fond of her Dalmatians: Chequers, Chief and Mikey and considered them her other sons. Janet was blessed in many ways and her family will miss her presence.

 

Janet was predeceased by her loving husband, James(1994)and her parents, Edward Steenstra(1965) and Minnie(nee McLean) Steenstra(2006). She is survived by her loving sons: James and his wife Peggy of Seattle, Washington, and Edward and his wife Kathleen of Wayne, four adoring grandsons: McLean, James, Danny, and Matthew, one sister, Clariss Rock of W. Caldwell, and three loving nieces; Jocelyn Anderson, Cynthia Mizzone and Joanna Clarke.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Packanack Lake Fire Co. #5, 5 Lake Drive West, Wayne, NJ or the Alzheimer's Association.

Janet M. Thompson

Wayne
September 27, 2023

In Loving Memory of Robert "Bob" Trent

Robert "Bob" Trent of West Milford, NJ passed away on Tuesday, September 26, 2023, at the age of 64. Born on July 4th, 1959, to Raymond and Eileen Trent, he grew up in Wayne, NJ alongside his sister Kathie. He brought warmth and laughter to the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Bob's life was a testament to his passion for mechanics which began in his high school automotive class working on his '67 Mustang fastback alongside his partner in crime, Ranger.  Not only did the Mustang get him into some trouble, it also helped capture the attention of Sharon, whom he later married. He dedicated his entire career to the world of engines and grease, working as a mechanic, where his expertise was unmatched. Not only did he cherish his fastback, but also his '67 Mustang convertible, '62 Falcon ranchero, and "Moe", his trusted backhoe.

Beyond his love for all things mechanical, Bob was a hardworking man who took pride in providing for his family. Bob and his wife Sharon raised two wonderful children, who were the pride and joy of his life. Bob is survived by his wife, Sharon; sister, Kathie and her husband Peter; son, Eric and daughter-in-law Ashley, and daughter, Amy and son-in-law Scott. His legacy extends to his role as a loving grandfather to Leah and Calvin.

As we mourn the loss of Bob, we also celebrate the beautiful life he lived and the love he shared. His memory will continue to live on in the hearts of his family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob's name are asked to consider donations to NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), 4301 Wilson Blvd, Suite 300, Arlington, VA 22203, be made in his memory.

Robert Trent

West Milford
September 26, 2023

Carol Cook, age 85 of Wayne, passed away on Monday, September 25, 2023.

Carol was born in Secaucus to Albert and Meta Wolf. She spent her childhood there and  attended Weehawken High School where she played basketball and graduated with the class of ’54. Carol loved being outdoors and spent her summers at Hockenberry’s Farm in Flemington, NJ. Carol loved it so much she returned with Paul and their children. They all share fond memories of making blackberry ice cream with fresh picked blackberries from around the farm grounds.

Shortly after Carol’s graduation from high school, she was introduced to Paul Cook on a blind date set up by her family. The two were set up to build her cousin’s garage together and Carol quickly became attracted to his patience and kindness. Not long after, the pair fell in love. They went for a drive down route 202 in Montville and Paul asked her to pick out a style of house that she liked so that he could build it for her. After purchasing property in Wayne, they built their home with the help of family and friends. The two were married on August 17, 1957, at St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, NJ. They went on a honeymoon canoe trip to the Adirondacks. The trip was so enjoyable, they decided to make it a tradition to go back every 5 years. Paul and Carol maintained this tradition until Paul’s untimely passing in 2002.

Carol and Paul’s loving marriage led them to start a family together. They had 3 children: Paul, Lorraine and Stacey.

Carol was a loving wife and mother who made fresh baked cookies for dessert. Her children have fond memories of coming in from playing outside to the smell of those fresh baked cookies. She worked hard for her family and returned to work after her youngest daughter Stacey started high school.

Hard worker she was, Carol brushed up on her stenography skills by transcribing sermons while in church. She was hired as an executive secretary at Lincoln Park Nursing Home where she worked for over twenty-five years.  Her kids joked that she had hieroglyphic notes strewn about because only she could understand them (they suspect that at least some of those notes included some jibes & barbs about them).

Carol loved gardening and is aptly referred to as the “weeding fairy” by her family because she would painstakingly remove every weed including its root system wherever she went.  She loved reading, knitting, and tending to her flowers.

Carol will be remembered as loving, caring, and kind. She was very strict but in a loving way that helped instill a strong work ethic and an attitude that you could accomplish anything if you set your mind to it. She led by example and found much of her strength of will from her relationship with God. Carol attended St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne every Sunday with her family and volunteered there in many ways: she taught Sunday school, worked in the nursery, helped with Heart & Hands Mission, knitting scarves for Seafarers, preparing quilts for those in need,  a member of WELCA, Adult Forum, church book club, bible study, and volunteered for Wayne Interfaith Network Food Pantry of which she became the President.

One of Carol’s proudest moments occurred just this past year on Mother’s Day. Paul, Lorraine, Stacey, Don and granddaughter Hannah all decided to come together from near and far to surprise her in church as one big family. It was a moment that Carol would bring up with pride to everyone, as a special moment together in the place that she loved and devoted her life to.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are encouraged to consider a donation to St Timothy’s Lutheran Church Pastor’s Discretionary Fund.

Carol Cook

Wayne
September 25, 2023

Donald B. Van Grouw, age 87, of North Haledon, died Sunday, September 24, 2023, at St Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson, following a hemorrhagic stroke on Thursday.  He passed into glory and exchanged the corruptible for the incorruptible and eternal life with his Savior Jesus Christ. (1Cor. 15:53-55)

He was born in the family home on 8th Street in Prospect Park to Bastian and Jeanette Van Grouw and raised at 258 Fairview Street in Prospect Park.  He graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1955. He attended The Cooper Union School of Art in New York City before marrying Gerda Aria den Hollander, his beloved wife of 62 years. Shortly thereafter he suffered the shock of his father’s unexpected death. The scripture, 1 Peter 5:7 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you” was a special comfort to him at this time.  

Donald worked as an apprentice at International Design in Paterson, soon moving to Burlington Industries where he became Managing Director of their Jacquard Art Studios in New York City until his retirement in 1998. He also served in the New Jersey National Guard for six years at the Teaneck Armory.

Donald was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Congregation in Franklin Lakes.  He served the church for forty-eight years as a deacon, Sunday School teacher, and an elder.  Donald was a longtime resident of Prospect Park before moving to Pequannock in 2001 and subsequently to the Holland Christian Home of North Haledon in 2022.  His lifelong passion was gardening and floral design, in which he saw many spiritual parallels.  Isaiah 40:8 “The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand forever.” He tended the gardens in Hofstra Park in Prospect Park for many years, receiving public awards and recognition for his volunteer community service. Among his flower beds he highlighted Bible verses so others could see not only natural beauty, but also consider the goodness and beauty of our Creator. He is remembered by family and friends as a generous, selfless and loving man who pointed us to Christ and led by his godly and devoted example.  

He is survived by his loving wife Gerda (DenHollander) Van Grouw; he was the devoted father of Bastian (Bob) Van Grouw (Amanda, Jason)  and his wife Irene of Vernon, Ellen Greendyk and her husband Paul of Pompton Plains (Philip, Eric, Julia, Aria), Kathleen Van Grouw of Riverdale, Donald Van Grouw and his wife Ellen of Wayne (Matthew), and Scott Van Grouw and his wife Lenora (Lora) of Pompton Plains (Katrina, Taylor, Jeremy, Annika, Eliza); Loved brother of Barbara Tanis and her husband William of Wayne; he was the great grandfather of ten great-grandchildren and many nephews and great nephews and nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

Donald Van Grouw

North Haledon
September 24, 2023

Josef Kneis - loving husband, father, Opa and Great Opa, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne on September 23rd, 2023, at age 94.

Joe was a simple and humble man in many ways, but he, along with his beloved wife, Sieglinde, who passed in 2020, made a remarkable impact on many lives - particularly those of his family, which includes 13 grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren (with more on the way).  

Born in Bakonyjako, Hungary, Joe was the youngest of 9 surviving children. After losing 4 brothers in WWII, Joe was left at a young age to tend the family farm with his sisters. Forced to leave Hungary following the Russian occupation of the country, he was sent to East Germany, thereafter escaping to the west, and settling in Munich, West Germany, where he met the love of his life, Sieglinde. They married and emigrated to the U.S. in 1955, in search of opportunity. After briefly residing in Haledon, they settled in Wayne, where they lived together for 62 years and raised a family, prior to Sieglinde’s passing in 2020.

Initially working as a mason, Josef, in need of year-round work, took a job at the Ford automotive plant in Mahwah, where he worked in the Trim Department for 24 years, until the plant’s closing. He then took a maintenance position with Estee Lauder/Aramis in Oakland, NJ, where he worked until his retirement.

If Joe had a hobby, it was landscaping. Passersby often commented on how meticulously well-maintained his yard always was. If Joe had any enemies, they were certainly chipmunks or squirrels (see prior sentence).

Josef leaves behind four children – daughters Irene Riley (Tim – recently deceased) and Debbie Grant, and sons Walter Kneis (Debbie) and Michael Kneis (Clare), along with the aforementioned legacy of grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Josef Kneis

Wayne
September 23, 2023

Cornelius “Neil” Southway, age 94 of Warwick, NY died on Saturday, September 23, 2023.

Neil was born at home on Brown Avenue in Prospect Park, NJ just a few months before the Stock Market crash of 1929. He was the oldest of five sons born into his family, with one of them passing away as an infant. As a teenager, Neil began working as a painter with his uncle before finishing high school. Times were tough and he did what was necessary to help support his family. Soon he found himself drafted into the U.S. Army, serving during the Korean War. Upon returning to civilian life, Neil carried with him a heavy PTSD burden that remained with him throughout his lifetime. As a result, he resolved never to marry. He focused on his life’s work and became a skilled craftsman and a master of many trades, including masonry, carpentry, and cabinet making. He could build anything, fix anything, and was the handiest guy you could ever hope to have around. Family and friends alike would frequently call on Neil for help, and he was always glad to be of service. He was well loved by all who knew him, a reliable friend, and generous almost to a fault.

In 2001, Neil was working on a project for a local green house when he met Jean Mol, a bookkeeper there. Neil was seventy-two years old when he mustered the courage to ask her out to dinner, and she accepted. Within a year, at the young age of seventy-three, Neil married for the first time. He and Jean enjoyed a honeymoon to Maine and then settled into a loving and supportive marriage of twenty-one years. He was simply a great guy who adored his wife, and Jean will miss him dearly.

Neil is survived by his wife, Jean (Mol) of Warwick, NY, his three stepchildren: Cindy Verblaauw and her husband Ed of Warwick, NY, Mark Prol and his wife Nina of Alpharetta, Georgia, and Andy Prol and his wife Lori of Medford, NJ, a brother; Howard Southway and his wife Eleanor of Rockaway, NJ, sister-in-law; Lena Southway of Pompton Plains, eight grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews that loved and respected him. Neil was predeceased by his brother Robert Southway and his wife Beatrice, and by his brother Peter Southway.

Cornelius “Neil” Southway

Warwick
September 23, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gail Kramer, age 84, of Wayne.

Gail passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 20, 2023 while in the presence of her family and Pastor.  She was born in Elizabeth, NJ, the older of two children to Emil and Dora Kuzsma.  While growing up, Gail attended St John's School in Mountain Lakes, NJ, and Westfield High in Westfield, NJ, where she graduated in 1956.  Following her graduation from Westfield High, she enrolled at Montclair State College where she earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in 1961.  After obtaining her degree, Gail taught at Dover High School.

While attending Montclair State Gail was introduced to a student at Stevens Institute by the name of Melvin Kramer.  The two went out on a blind date and hit it off, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on June 30, 1962.  Mel enlisted in the Army in December of 1961, and both she and Mel moved as the government saw fit, first spending time at Fort Dix New Jersey for basic training, then Lockport NY, at a military installation, and finally at Fort Belvoir, VA.  It was at Fort Belvoir where they welcomed the birth of their first son Brian.  After leaving the military they lived in Rutherford, NJ, for a bit before settling in West Paterson, NJ, where they purchased their first home.  While living in West Paterson, Gail and Mel welcomed their next three children into their lives, their sons Mark, James and Eric.  As their family grew, they moved again, this time to Wayne in 1977 where they have been ever since.

In her spare time, Gail was an avid reader.  However, her greatest passion in life was for her family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gail than spending time with and providing for her children.  While her children were school aged, Gail became a full-time homemaker and dedicated her life to caring for her husband and children.  She always cared about and enjoyed other people, working as a teacher early in her marriage, and as a practical nurse later on.  Gail and Mel cherished forty years of loving and loyal marriage until Melvin’s passing in 2016.

Gail was not only dedicated to her family and friends, but also to her Christian Faith.  She was a member of Wayne Presbyterian Church for many years, where among other things she was a co-leader in the church fundraising garage sale.  Some of her closest friends were from the church community.

Gail was a warm-hearted lady who was loved by everyone she met.  She will be forever remembered as a loving, kind, and compassionate person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She is survived by her son Brian Kramer and his wife Denise of New York City, her son Eric Kramer and his wife Julie of Honolulu, HI, her son Mark of West Milford, NJ, one sister Lynne Wagner of Rahway, NJ, two grandchildren Lili Kramer of Honolulu, HI, and Benjamin Kramer of New York City, three nephews; Brett, Shane, and Larry, and two nieces; Rita, and Hillary.  She was predeceased by her husband Melvin in 2016, and her son James in 2022.

Gail L. Kramer

Wayne
September 20, 2023

Evelyn M. Boissonneault, age 91, of Butler, passed on Tuesday, September 19, 2023.

She was born to the late Rose and Victor Thibault in Acushnet, MA and raised in Island Park, Rhode Island.

Evelyn met Ray as he wanted to go fishing with his brother Leo and they spied a boat in Evelyn’s yard. They knocked on the door asking if they could borrow the boat and Evelyn immediately realized these two guys needed help with fishing as they were in dress clothes. Ray and Evelyn had a first date at a drive-in movie and instead of the normal popcorn they had a container of crab legs they ate in the car during the film.  They soon fell in love and married, when she was just eighteen years old at St. Anthony’s Church in Portsmouth, RI on August 26, 1950. After they married, they lived in Fall River, MA, Paterson, NJ, Lodi, NJ, before moving to Butler, NJ in 1964.

Through the years Evelyn has worked at St. George’s School in Paterson, NJ, and St. Joseph’s School in Lodi as a cafeteria worker. Evelyn worked the second shift in Paterson, the kids would be tended to by a babysitter as they waited for their dad to come home from work. She also worked at Maloney’s Machine Shop in Bloomingdale, Edo-Aire in Fairfield, and the Generant Company in West Milford before retiring in 1994.

Evelyn was dedicated to her Catholic faith and for many years attended St Anthony’s Church in Butler. Evelyn was an avid reader, she enjoyed reading novels of suspense and romance. Some of her favorite authors were Phyllis A. Whitney, Jean Anne Bartlett, and Mary Stewert among several others.   Evelyn also loved watching and listening to birds and reading books about them. Family was everything to Evelyn, she enjoyed having everyone around.  She had a spit-fire personality and did not possess the ability to sugar-coat anything.  She just said it as she saw it. She would go above and beyond to help anyone.  Evelyn will always be remembered as fun-loving, funny, accommodating to a fault, and will be most remembered for her kind, beautiful soul.

She was the loving wife of fifty-two years to the late Raymond Boissonneault (d. 2002); she was the devoted mother of Colleen Basile and her husband Mike of Lewes, DE, the late June Bardi (d. 2020) and her late husband Gary (d. 2006), Linda Miller and her husband Andy of Milton, DE, and Cheryl Roscoe of Butler; cherished grandmother of Michele Aldridge and her husband Chris of Salisbury, NC, Michael Basile and his wife Barbara of Bethel, CT, the late Jennifer Dey (d. 2006) , the late Jason Bardi (d. 2022), Heather Muckelston and Keith Hestermann of Forked River, NJ, Bryan Miller and his wife Bonnielee of Anchorage, AK, Christopher Miller and his wife Nicole of Chester, NJ, Danielle Roscoe of Butler, NJ, Nicole Beek and her late husband Robert (d. 2022) of Bloomingdale, NJ,  Tiffany Troup and her husband Mike of Bloomingdale, NJ, her sister the late Loretta Legre Goguen (d. 1993) and her brother the late Henry Thibault (d. 2005). She was dearly loved by twenty-one great grandchildren: Amber, Krista, Cameron, Thomas, Ana, Liam, Gabrielle, Benjamin, Teagan, Briar, Logan, Hayden, Hudson, Paisley, Hunter, Skyler, Ryleigh, Willow, Cedar, Charlotte, and Koda. One great-great-grandson: Luke.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be greatly appreciated. Evelyn truly enjoyed the time she spent, and the friends she made, at Shepherd's Haven Social Adult Day Center in Pompton Lakes, and your memorial donations would be very meaningful here. You can visit their website at www.shepherdshavennj.org, or mail your donation to: Shepherd's Haven, 420 Ramapo Avenue, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

Evelyn Boissonneault

Butler
September 19, 2023

It is with profound sadness we announce the passing of Mark Wieseltier, age 74, of Wayne, New Jersey.

Mark passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19th 2023 surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Mark was one of four children, born in New York City to Milton and Yetta Wieseltier. He entered this world with his twin brother, Harvey Wieseltier. At the age of three Mark’s family moved to Clifton, New Jersey where he enjoyed the next ten years of his childhood. At thirteen Mark’s family settled in Passaic, New Jersey. There Mark made life-long friends while attending Passaic High School. He graduated from Passaic High School in 1967.    

The only thing Mark enjoyed more than spending time with his family was baseball. Mark’s passion for baseball began as a child. As a young boy he excelled at baseball. He began playing baseball on the Babe Ruth Little League team and continued playing baseball throughout high school.

After graduating from Passaic High School Mark enrolled at Rutgers University.  

While at Rutgers, Mark heard the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army. He served proudly and honorably.  

After being honorably discharged from the military, Mark returned to Rutgers University to complete his education. Mark graduated from Rutgers University in 1972 with a bachelor’s degree in biological science. Following his graduation from Rutgers, Mark quickly found employment as a pharmaceutical sales representative with Curtin Matheson Scientific.

One evening in the spring of 1984 at TGI Fridays, Mark met an attractive, kind, young lady by the name of Mary Ann Santora. The two instantly hit it off and began dating. Mark was a planner, later in life he would unabashedly confess he planned to spend a lifetime with Mary Ann from the very first evening they met. His persistence was evident, as he always made plans for their next date the minute he picked her up. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 2nd 1986 the couple joined together as husband and wife at an unforgettable reception at the Town and Campus in West Orange, New Jersey.

The newlyweds settled in Pines Lake, a close-knit lake community nestled in Wayne, which they called home ever since. While residing in Pines Lake, Mark and Mary Ann welcomed their one and only daughter, Ashley. Mark truly cherished watching his daughter grow up in Wayne and was involved in every aspect of her life. His pride was unsurpassed as he warmly shared her accomplishments with any and all who would listen. Mark often gushed ‘he hit the lottery’ when he and Mary Ann were blessed with Ashley. Mark was the loudest cheerleader in the stands of Ashley’s life and his voice will be deeply missed. Mark loved watching the relationship flourish between his daughter and son-in-law Adam. Mark loved Adam like a son and was over-joyed when Adam asked Mark for Ashley’s hand in marriage. Mark loved spending time at his daughter and son-in-law’s house, watching Yankees’ games outside, while listening to the Beatles as boats passed on the lake. He loved visiting and playing tug with his grand-puppy Hudson. Mark was a pillar in his community bringing friends and family together throughout his years in the Pines Lake community, attending many parties and watching several generations go through the summer program at the beach. He could be seen daily strolling the neighborhood with his beloved dog Bailey.

For the last twenty years, Mark was a real estate agent for Weichert Real Estate in Wayne, New Jersey. Mark and his wife, Mary Ann, lovingly known as the M&Ms, worked as a close team until his retirement earlier this year. Mark enjoyed serving clients and helping his clients find their forever homes or new investment properties.

Mark served as a member of the Wayne Rotary Club. While serving as President of the Wayne Rotary Club Mark dressed-up as Santa Claus to provide the seniors with Christmas in July, he lavished the seniors with gifts, joy and festivities during the hot summer month. Mark enjoyed playing golf every day he could, oftentimes playing and walking thirty-six holes in one day in his early years. His love of baseball remained throughout his life.  Mark was a truly devoted NY Yankees fan, Mickey Mantle being his favorite player. Mark fondly reflected attending games during his childhood with his father and brothers and recalled the first time he attended a game seeing the stadium in living color. He made it a ritual to attend a number of games each season.  Two of his most memorable games attended were Derek Jeter's final game and a 2022 playoff game.

Aside from all of Mark's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Mark than spending time with, and providing for his family. He and his wife Mary Ann cherished thirty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage together, including twenty years as partners at Weichert Realtors. He enjoyed time spent with family for holidays and Sunday dinner, mostly looking forward to the poker game that would ensue when he would enjoy the banter with the guys.

He treasured his yearly family vacations, periodically enjoying trips and cruises to various destinations such as Aruba, St Martin, Bermuda, Hawaii, Italy, Greece, and other Caribbean and European locations.  He enjoyed numerous trips to the Jersey Shore. He loved to walk on the boardwalk and join his daughter, nieces and nephews on the rides.

Everyone who met Mark genuinely and truly enjoyed his company.  He had a wonderfully explosive sense of humor and had a talent to captivate an audience of any age with his stories and jokes. In his later years he ventured into standup comedy at a local cafe, but his most loyal fan base remained his family, who looked forward to his jokes every time they saw him.  

He was a dependable, supportive, patient man, who never missed a family gathering or milestone. Mark was the first on the dance floor at family events and was the loudest voice in the room each time ‘Shout’ hit the speakers. He was always there to lend a hand or accomplish whatever Santora feat or logistical undertaking arose. He enjoyed his time with the “Golden Girls”, creating many fond memories with his sister-in-law and mother-in-law over the years. Without question, he would drive the trio to Foxwoods in Connecticut.

Mark was blessed to spend the last few months taking care of his grandson, Avery two days a week. Avery quickly developed a deep love for his Pops, always having a smile on his face when Pops was in the room. Pops enjoyed watching his first swim lessons and outings at The Little Gym. Avery loved chasing Pops around in the car he bought him. Mark’s ability to light up a room lives on in Avery.

Mark will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, father, and especially loving grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew him.

Mark is survived by his wife Mary Ann (nee Santora) of Pines Lake in Wayne, his daughter Ashley Wieseltier and her husband Adam Tett also of Pines Lake, one grandson Avery Mark Tett of Pines Lake, one brother Harvey Wieseltier and his wife Margarita of Guadalajara, Mexico, his sister-in-law Helen Lavelle of Pines Lake, his brother-in-law Salvatore Santora of Bloomfield, NJ, his mother-in-law Angela Santora of Lodi, NJ, and many nieces and nephews who adored him.  He was predeceased by his brother Ross Weiss, his sister Beverly Friedentag, his parents Milton and Yetta Wieseltier, and his father-in-law Joseph Santora.

Mark was given precious years of borrowed time due to the generous gift of blood donors, therefore those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donating blood to their local blood drives, or making a donation to the MDS Foundation, 4573 South Broad St, Suite 150, Yardville, NJ 08620  

To schedule a blood donation please visit redcrossblood.org.

Mark Wieseltier

Wayne
September 19, 2023

Olivia “Liv” Lepine, age 33, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on Monday, September 18, 2023.

She was born in Pequannock and raised in Wayne where she graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 2008.  She has lived in Augusta, ME, and Albany, NY, before returning to Wayne in 2020.

Liv’s work history includes working at Corrado’s in Wayne Job Corp in Maine and more recently Opulence Funding in Mahwah.  She also attended Roman Academy in Hawthorne and received her Hairstyling License from the New Jersey State Board of Cosmetology and Hairstyling.

Liv will be remembered as a strong-willed person who had a great sense of humor and was very good at making crafty type things.  She liked to cook, made delicious foods, and left a huge mess in the kitchen doing it. She was also deeply spiritual, finding solace and peace through regular meditation and exploring the healing energy of crystals.  Most of all Liv will be remembered for her devotion and love of her daughter Abigal and son Dallas.

Olivia was the devoted mother of Abigal Lepine and Dallas Adderley; she was the cherished daughter of Mary and Steven Lepine of Wayne; she was the devoted sister of SSG Steven Lepine currently stationed at Ft. Stewart, GA; and she was the dearly loved granddaughter of Viviane Scherer of Crossville, TN.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Hospice of NJ, 400 Broadacres Drive #1, Bloomfield, NJ 07003 or the Collins Pavilion, 97 West Parkway, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

Olivia “Liv” Lepine

Wayne
September 19, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Keith Cavill, age 42, of Wayne, NJ.

Keith passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19, 2023 after a courageous battle with cancer and while receiving the loving care of his family.

Keith was born in Pequannock and grew up in Wayne Township.  He was one of three children to George and Joann Cavill.  Keith had a wonderfully fulfilling childhood surrounded by a loving family and many friends.  While growing up in Wayne, Keith was an avid rider and racer of dirt bikes.  He attended Wayne Hills High School graduating with the class of 1999.  During his time as a student in high school, he played soccer and was a member of the high school’s very first Varsity Ice Hockey Team.  Keith was also active playing soccer, basketball, and football with the Wayne PAL, where his father was director for many years.   

After graduating from Wayne Hills High School, Keith attended Morris County Community College.  Keith left school to pursue an opportunity to start his own landscaping business.  In 2000, Keith raised the curtain on Cavill Landscaping, later to be called Stellar Property Management.  He owned and operated Cavill Landscaping for several years. 

In 2003, Keith suffered a spinal injury in a motocross accident which left him a quadriplegic. His injury did not daunt him in the least.  Keith went on to become a motivational speaker, traveling to colleges and other institutions around the United States.  He remained active in sports and was a member of the quadriplegic rugby team, the New York United Spinal Jets.  In 2005, an American documentary film called “Murderball” was made about the athletes on the United States quad rugby team and their journey to the Paralympic Games in Athens, Greece. The film was highly acclaimed and won multiple awards at the Sundance Film Festival in 2005.

Keith, later in 2012, restarted his landscaping business naming it Stellar Property Management.  Keith owned and operated his business until 2018.

Keith Was known by his family and friends as an individual who could defy and overcome any obstacle and seemingly impossible odds.  

In his spare time, Keith enjoyed flying drones and was an avid New York Jets fan.  But aside from all his talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his family and friends.  Nothing meant more to Keith than spending time with those he loved.  He had a wonderfully infectious sense of humor and could light up any room he walked into with his beautiful smile.

Keith will be forever remembered as an inspiring, tenacious human being that touched the lives of countless people with his positive attitude and his perseverance.

Keith is survived by his mother Joann Cavill of Wayne, NJ, his sister Theresa Gabriele and her husband Greg of Wayne, NJ, his brother Robert Cavill of Lincoln Park, three aunts; Joyce Porr of Wayne, NJ, Robin Lapinski of Wayne, NJ, and Donna Polizzi of North Haledon, NJ, his cousins; Joseph Porr and his wife Linda, Justin Porr, Angie Shaw, Danielle Denman and her husband Brandon, Larry Lapinski, Jaime Penza, and others. He was predeceased by his father George C Cavill, Jr., and his four uncles; Larry Lapinski, Joseph Porr, Michael Polizzi, and Anthony Polizzi.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Keith’s name may be made to United Spinal Association, 120-34 Queens Blvd #330, Kew Gardens, NY 11415.

Keith Cavill

Wayne
September 19, 2023

Robert M. Capozzi, age 75, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully, with his loving family by his side, on Sunday, September 17, 2023.

Robert was known as Rob or Bob and was affectionately called Grumps by his six grandchildren. Bob was born in the Bronx, NY, to Frank and Lucy Capozzi. He spent most of his childhood in Meriden, CT, where he loved to play in the woods, catch frogs, and competed on his school’s wrestling team. He moved to NJ during his senior year of high school and graduated from South Plainfield High School with the Class of 1966. Bob then graduated from Rider College with a Business degree. He had a successful career as an Operations Manager in Retail and Distribution Management positions and worked for companies such as BASF, Ben Rickert, Lillian Vernon, Liz Claiborn, and Alfred Dunner.

It was at BASF, that Bob met the love of his life, Marie. Their first date was to Nanina’s in the Park in Bellville. They married at Gethsemane Lutheran Church in Plainfield in 1980 and lived in Wayne for the past forty years.

Bob was known for his dry, sarcastic sense of humor, funny stories, and his helpful, matter-of- fact advice. He inherited his creative passion for building from his grandfather, and his love of cars, pets, listening to music, and for the NY Giants from his father. Cooking was a hobby that both Bob and Marie shared, and Bob held the honorary title of “Grill Master” and “Chief Panini Maker.” Their culinary skills and hospitality at gatherings were genuinely appreciated by their friends and family. Bob possessed a businesslike mindset and loved to be the “project manager” of many home remodeling and building projects in their two homes. He was often teased that even though he could not swim, they owned homes by the lake and the ocean. He loved to refinish furniture and do woodwork and showered his family with unique handmade gifts that he either repurposed or built from scratch. There will always be cherished memories of family dinners, attending car shows, Cruise Night in Asbury Park with his wife Marie and his brother Martin.

Bob was given a second chance at life when he received a heart transplant 10 years ago at Newark Beth Israel Hospital which was something for which he was truly grateful. Bob liked to quote “Everything will be alright in the end, so if it’s not alright, it’s not the end.”

Bob is survived by his loving wife of 43 years, Marie Capozzi; his two daughters from a previous marriage, Elizabeth Morris and her husband, Pete, from PA and Alison Halko and her husband, Roman, from CA; his six grandchildren: Abigail Morris, Melanie Halko, Kristen Halko, Jacob Morris, Jayden Halko, and Jacob Halko; his brother, Martin Capozzi, from NJ and his loyal dog, Lulu.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Newark Beth Israel Medical Center

201 Lyons Avenue

Newark, NJ 07112

If you prefer to send a gift via U.S. Mail, please click here to download a mailable form.

Please designate that your gift go toward “Heart Transplant” and that it is in honor of Robert Capozzi

Robert M. Capozzi

Wayne
September 17, 2023

Bridget Patricia McGonigle, known affectionately as "Pat," passed away peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, September 16, 2023.  She was 93 years old, although she would much prefer to be described as 93 years -- or even 39 years! -- young.  

Pat's rich and vibrant life straddled two continents.  She was both a Derry girl and a Jersey girl, with a touch of Manhattan thrown in the mix.  

Pat was born in Ballerin, County Derry, Northern Ireland, on March 31st, 1930.   She was raised on a dairy farm in nearby Garvagh.  The daughter of Ellen and John McGonigle, Pat was the second youngest of eight children.  She is survived by her sister, Sally, and pre-deceased by her brothers and sisters Rose, Mary, Paddy, Annie, Jimmy and John.  

Pat's extended family made lives in Ireland, England and America, but the heart-home was always Derry where Pat returned several times over the course of her days.  

She started her working life in Stormont, Northern Ireland, one of the few young Catholic women allowed to work in the government buildings.  She enjoyed her years in the North immensely, but was drawn by the siren song of America.  She emigrated in her 20's to join her sisters Rose and Mary who had already established lives Stateside.  She worked in the ArchDiocese of New York for many years before she went to work for the prestigious architectural firm Swanke, Hayden and Connell.  She lived in New York City very happily until her retirement.  

Pat was always beautifully turned out with impeccable make-up and an incredible fashion sense right up until her last days.  She loved life and had many friends who stood by her, especially the extended McNicholl/Ralph family in New Jersey and New York.  Mary Ralph (nee McNicholl) in particular became a lifetime friend.  They travelled together and shared memories of growing up in Derry.  Pat was also very close with Mary's children, Deirdre, Colleen and Colm, and their families too.  

Pat was a vibrant soul in the environs of Sienna Village in Wayne, always good for a long and animated conversation.  She had several good friends who will miss her presence.  Hers was a beautiful laugh that lit up many corners of the world.    

She had no children but had a very active social life.  She was always at the center of the party.  In the words of her niece, Siobhan McCann:  "Pat had a great affinity for the male of the species, but never married."

All of her nephews and nieces and their extended families had a fond and loving relationship with her, with many of them from Ireland and England flying out to see her when they could. She was also very proud of her relationship with her great-niece Cheryl Downing and her husband Dan, and their family.  Cheryl and Dan spent many hours with her during her recent illness.  Pat cherished her time with them and shared many fine memories with them.

She also liked to be regaled with songs and stories, and her nephew Colum spent some time in her last years teaching her the words of old songs, not least her favourite "Mountains of Mourne," as sung by Don McLean.  

Pat was a  lady who would never advertise her age.  She looked as if she had prepped herself in the fountain of youth.  She had always wanted to be thought of as the youngest family member even though she had a brother John who was two years behind her.  Pat believed that she deserved to be spoiled in the best possible way.  She loved to dine out and have a little gin and tonic which only added to her vibrant personality.

She will be sorely missed.  An old Irish phrase still rings around her memory:  "I líonta Dé go gcastar sinn," meaning that in the nets of Our Lord we are entangled together.  

May she rest in peace.  And may her influence enter the air.  

In lieu of flowers, the family asks donations be made in Bridget's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

Bridget Patricia McGonigle

Wayne
September 16, 2023

Eileen Patricia Albanese, age 64 of Wayne, passed away on Saturday, September 16, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. 

She was born in The Bronx, NY to Neil and Mary O’Sullivan before moving to Ridgefield, New Jersey at a young age. Eileen would go on to graduate from Ridgefield Memorial High School where she competed on the softball team and was a statistician for the high school basketball team. After her graduation, Eileen continued her education at Fairleigh Dickinson University where she received a bachelor’s degree in accounting, graduating with the class of 1983. 

Eileen met the love of her life, Joseph Albanese, Jr. during her time at Ridgefield Memorial High School. Being two years apart, the two didn’t decide to date until one of their mutual teachers, Mr. Bastick, recognized their compatibility and suggested the two go on a date together. Both athletes, Eileen and Joseph decided to go to the Ridgefield vs. Harrison basketball game together. Although they went to the game with one another, they did not leave together. Unfortunately, a benches clearing brawl erupted that led to all the attendees being escorted out of the building. Eileen’s job as the statistician delayed her exit, but when she got out, she found that Joseph was nowhere to be found! Fortunately, Eileen’s dad Neil was there to take her home, but she made sure to never let Joe live that down over the years! Eileen and Joseph fell in love and Joseph asked her father for his permission to marry her. He proposed on Christmas Eve Mass at Saint Matthews Church in Ridgefield, the same place they eventually married at on June 9, 1979. Eileen and Joseph decided to honeymoon in Jamaica only to return after a single day. Eileen ended up suffering such a bad sunburn that the local doctors recommended she return home. While being rolled off the plane in a wheelchair, a young nephew there to greet the couple asked Joe, “What did you do to her?!” The two shared a loving, best friends’ marriage for 39 years before Joe’s untimely passing in 2018.

Eileen will be remembered as a hardworking, loving, funny, and especially witty individual who balanced out Joe’s laid-back persona perfectly. She loved spending her time reading, baking goods – especially scones, hosting family holidays, and of course cheering on the Mets. Her friends will remember her for her brilliance and her uncanny ability to help take care of everyone around her. She was a selfless woman who was deeply involved in her community. 

Eileen’s professional career started at Mercedes Benz where she worked as an accountant for many years. After the birth of her first child, Eileen spent her time taking care of her family and becoming involved in every activity they took part in. This meant becoming involved in organizations throughout Wayne such as the President of the Pines Lake PTO, working at the school store, the baseball booster club, and one of her most proud accomplishments - her tenure as the President of the Board of Education of the Wayne School System for 9 years. Eileen had a passion for fairness, equality, and education that lasted long after her three children graduated from the Wayne school system. She saw the value in a quality education and wanted to constantly give back to her community. In addition to being involved with her children’s education, Eileen made sure her family had a close relationship with God. Eileen was a parishioner of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary for many years attending weekly Mass with her family. She was involved in CCD and acted as a Confirmation instructor for many families in addition to her own. After Joe’s passing, Eileen decided to go back to work as an office administrator for Prestige Wealth out of Franklin Lakes. She fit more life into only 64 years than most could in 100. 

Eileen is survived by her three children: Daniel and his wife Rebecca Albanese, Steven Albanese of Little Falls, and Caitlin Albanese of Philadelphia; her two sisters: Colleen O’Sullivan and Maureen O’Sullivan and her fiancé Robert Casella. She is predeceased by her loving husband of 39 years Joseph Albanese; her parents Neil O’Sullivan and Mary O’Sullivan; and their family Shih Tzu Sophie. 

The family has decided to establish a scholarship to reward academic excellence and community service in Eileen's name, to continue giving back to the students and community Eileen gave so much to in life. In lieu of flowers, donations by check to the Wayne Board of Education (50 Nellis Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470), indicating the Eileen P. Albanese Educational Excellence and Service Award in the memo, would be appreciated.

Eileen Patricia Albanese

Wayne
September 16, 2023

Adam John Shakoor passed away at the far too young age of 40, in his family home in Totowa on Monday, September 11, surrounded by the love of his family, cherished friends, and his devoted girlfriend.

Adam was born and raised by his loving parents, Mary Ellen and Jack Shakoor in Wayne, New Jersey. He was a graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Lynn University, where he received a Bachelor of Science degree in Communications.

His passion and ability to give nothing short of one hundred and ten percent in everything he did was evident through his work at Jack’s Super Foodtown in Caldwell, of which he had been an essential part since 2006, eventually rising to the role of the store's general manager. He was beloved by customers and coworkers alike who held him in high regard for his warm greetings, helpful nature, and his handsome, infectious smile that brightened everyone's day.

Nothing was more important to Adam than family. He was an exceptional son, brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, brother-in-law, and grandson. With his sisters, Jill and Holly, he shared countless joyful moments, and they created a beloved tradition known as "Siblings Unite,” where they would sip wine from a can while listening to music from an iphone, talk smack and watch Arrested Development in locations spanning the globe - from New Jersey to Los Angeles to Cabo del Sur.

Friendship was of paramount importance to Adam, and he and his beloved girlfriend, Rosemarie, could often be found raising an Orange Jameson to a good time at a local bar, concert or the track. From his long-time childhood friends to college buddies, coworkers, and the various companions he made throughout his journey, Adam's dedication to his friends was unwavering. Adam was known for always being down for a good time, and was someone you could undeniably count on, there for you whenever needed.

An avid fan of the NY Knicks and a WWE wrestlemaniac, Adam was also a lover of all things Marvel and DC, and an OG Nintendo gamer - he put the FAN in “FANdom.” Adam always made sure to show up for the things he loved. If he wasn’t training at the gym, running marathons or hanging out at a Yappy Hour with his beloved shelties, Zelda and Carmelo, Adam could be found on most weekends attending a concert, embracing his love for live music and supporting his favorite bands.

In this difficult time, Adam is survived by his mother, Mary Ellen Shakoor, father, Jack  Shakoor, two loving sisters, Holly and Jill, brothers-in-law, Ruben and Stephen, his nieces Goldie and Jack, cousins Jeffrey and Aimee, his beloved girlfriend, Rosemarie, her two precious daughters, Haley and Bella, and lastly, his ride or die Sheltie, Zelda.

In Adam's honor, let us remember to embrace life with the same passion, dedication, and love that he so brilliantly exemplified. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Adam John Shakoor

Totowa
September 11, 2023

Kevin Joseph Naudts, age 73, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, September 11, 2023 surrounded by his loving family. Kevin was born in Paterson, New Jersey to Alfred and Elizabeth (nee McCabe) Naudts.

He attended Saint Mary’s High School in Paterson, New Jersey and graduated in 1967. He continued his education at Ramapo College of New Jersey in Mahwah and graduated in 1987 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business. 

Kevin started his career in the retail industry. Upon the completion of his B.S. Degree, his chosen profession was Internet Technology, where he remained for 27 years. The majority of his time was with Bank of America Securities in New York City. After retirement in 2014, he enjoyed working as a School Crossing Guard and for Security at Pines Lake, where he was a resident for over 35 years. 

Kevin was an avid fisherman and enjoyed spending his days in his kayak. He was happy to share his passions and did so by frequently writing articles for “On the Water” and “The Fisherman” magazines. He loved the outdoors and being surrounded by nature. He had an easy-going personality and was a friend to everyone he met. His greatest accomplishment was being “Papa” to his three grandchildren, Jonathan, McKayla, and Cassidy. 

Kevin met the love of his life, Carolyn, in 1972 through mutual friends.  They were married at Saint Anne’s Church in Fair Lawn, New Jersey on April 16, 1977. They shared a beautiful life together for 51 years and were blessed with two beautiful daughters. 

Kevin is survived by his wife Carolyn (nee Rudolph) Naudts; his brother John Naudts and wife Joan; his daughter Kaitlin (nee Naudts) Dobiesz and husband Michael; his daughter Megan (nee Naudts) Bruno and husband Joseph; grandchildren Jonathan, McKayla, and Cassidy Dobiesz, as well as many other cherished family members and friends who will greatly miss him. Kevin was predeceased by his parents Alfred and Elizabeth Naudts, his sister Colleen Pina, and his brother Sonny Naudts.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made to the Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research.

Kevin Joseph Naudts

Wayne
September 11, 2023

William R. Mirko, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Sunday, September 10, 2023 at the age of 79.

William fondly known as “Bill” or “Gapa” was born on April 9, 1944 in Newark, NJ son of the late William and Helen Mirkowski. Bill attended High School in Queens NY. At the age of 18, he followed in his father’s footsteps and enlisted in the U.S. Army, where he served as a Security Agent.

Bill married the love of his life, Mary Ann Sudovar in 1980. They lived in Packanack Lake for over 40 years where they raised their 5 children. They were active parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church for many years where they spent numerous hours volunteering. They also were a big part of the Immaculate Heart of Mary School community, where all of their children attended. 

After his time in the military, he spent most of his career working as a Tele Communications Executive at the Singer/Kearfott Company. Following a short period of retirement, he took a part-time job at the Oak Ridge U.S. Post Office where he was able to relax and enjoy a slower pace of life. Bill was extremely kind, friendly, and social; there wasn't anyone in town that didn't know him and love him.

Bill was a loving husband, father, uncle, grandfather and friend to all he met. He was happiest when he was with his family. He loved nothing more than spending time with his 12 grandchildren who were his pride and joy. He also had a deep love for all things Myrtle Beach, SC.  He took great pleasure in the annual tradition of vacationing there with the entire family every summer. The family tradition continues to this day, 40 years later.  

He is survived by his loving wife Mary Ann, and children Marianne and husband Charlie Lazzio of Wayne, NJ; Roy Mirko and wife Dawn of Wayne NJ;  Kathleen and husband Bryan Fox of Stamford, CT; and Ed Mirko and wife Carolina of Oakland, NJ; 12 grandchildren; Brianna, Mateo, William, Kaitlyn, Ashley, Mattingly, Carlee, Michael, Peyton, Miles, Emma and Manning. As well as many other cherished family members and friends who will greatly miss him. He was predeceased by his son Michael who passed away in 1996. 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the Alzheimer's New Jersey would be greatly appreciated. 

William Mirko

Wayne
September 10, 2023

Clementine “Tina” Walsh peacefully left us in the morning on 10 September, 2023.  Tina was born to Joseph Kuss and Jennie Kuss (nee Szczech) of Passaic, New Jersey and has been a resident of Wayne since 1976.  Her parents chose her name after seeing the movie My Darling Clementine.  Growing up in Clifton, she often spent time with family at her grandparents’ dairy farm in Belle Mead.  After high school, she attended Seton Hall University; where she graduated with a degree in history.

After graduating, she became an English teacher and thrived with being able to help others master the language.  When her time teaching came to an end, she began a career in the customer service field; working for Duro-Test Lighting (Fairfield, NJ) and GAF in Wayne.  If anyone had a question on lighting or roofing… she knew the answer.  After retiring in 2011, she experienced a quiet life; where she enjoyed the animals that would come to the house and feeding the deer that would wait by the door.

Surviving Tina are her husband of forty-nine years (Ed Walsh), her sons (Edward Kuss-Walsh and Ian Walsh), grandchildren (Liam, Keira, and Victoria), her God children (Melissa Purdie and John Wilczek), her niece (Eileen Kosch) and nephew (Richard Swift), and many beloved cousins… She will be greatly missed by family, friends, and neighbors who will all remember her for her caring and kindness. 

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad.

Clementine Walsh

Wayne
September 10, 2023

Robert A. Flower

September 4, 1940 – September 9, 2023

Robert (Bob) Allen Flower, 83, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Saturday, September 9, 2023.

Bob was born on September 4, 1940 in Upland, California, son of the late Clifford A. and Grace C. Flower.  Bob attended Emmaus High School in Emmaus, Pennsylvania and received his Bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University in 1963, where he played Football and Lacrosse.  Bob was a proud member of the Rutgers 1961 undefeated Football team and as a member of that team, has been inducted in to the Rutgers Football Hall of Fame.  He went on to receive his Master’s degree from East Stroudsburg University in 1971.  

Bob married Esther Elizabeth Goyne on February 19, 1966 in Conyngham, Pennsylvania.  In 1967, Bob and Esther moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey, where they have lived for 56 years and raised three sons.  Bob started teaching Physical Education and Health in the Wayne Township Public Schools in 1963.  Bob was a well-loved coach of Football, Baseball, Basketball and Track and Field at Wayne Hills.  Towards the end of his career, Bob served as the Department Chair of Physical Education, and at one point, was tapped to be the Interim Athletic Director.  After 40 years of teaching the children of Wayne, Bob retired in 2003.  

Always involved in his sons’ activities, Bob served as the President of the Wayne Valley Football Booster Club for many years.  For 30 summers, Bob served as the pool manager at the Glen Ridge Country Club.

Bob is survived by his devoted wife of 57 years, Esther Flower; three beloved sons – Michael Allen Flower and wife, Laura Flower of Wayne, New Jersey; Douglas Goyne Flower and wife, Larissa Flower of Wayne, New Jersey; James MacGregor Flower and wife, Joyce Flower of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina; seven grandchildren; Drake Flower, Caden Flower, Bryce Flower, Sophia Flower, Canyon Flower, Piper Flower and Asher Flower; his sister, Ellen Yerkes and brother in law Hal Yerkes; and two nieces and a nephew.

Bob was a loving husband, father, brother, uncle, and grandfather.  Nothing made Bob happier than being with family and attending untold numbers of school performances, plays, musical concerts and every sporting event imaginable of his children and grandchildren.   Bob loved sharing his home on Lake Wallenpaupack, PA with friends and family.  Many memories were made there – boating, fishing, and playing card games.  Bob was a friend to all and the family finds comfort in the many, many colleagues and students who share how much they loved working with Bob and having Mr. Flower as their teacher.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to be made to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, P.O. Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 or the Wayne Council of PTO’s Memorial Scholarship Fund, 50 Nellis Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Robert A. Flower

Wayne
September 9, 2023

Rita F. Carey, age 72, of Fallston, Maryland and a former longtime resident of Lions Head Lake in Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, September 7, 2023.

Rita was born in New York City, the daughter of Anthony and Bessie (Salemi) Chianese. When she was just three years old, she moved west, across the Hudson River, to Oakland New Jersey, and later to Pompton Lakes before settling in Wayne, NJ at 39 Grantwood Road. 

Rita was a graduate of Wayne Hills High School’s Class of 1969. Her graduating class held the distinction of being the first class to go through all four years in the newly constructed high school building. After graduating, Rita launched full time into a career as a bodily injury claims representative for State Farm Insurance Company. She began work there when she was still in high school and by the time she retired in 2013, Rita clocked in 45 years. With her hard work ethic and empathetic and encouraging disposition, Rita was able to effectively help her clients through very challenging situations.  

Rita met her husband-to-be, William Carey on a blind date. Bill suggested that they go bowling. Bill didn’t know that Rita was an accomplished bowler and, not wanting to embarrass him, Rita kept it a secret by letting Bill defeat her. After bowling, Rita and Bill went back to her house where Bill got to meet Rita’s parents. When her dad asked them where they’d been, Bill explained that they had gone bowling. He respectfully added a comment about defeating Rita and something to the effect of her not being a good bowler. A little surprised at first, Rita’s father quickly realized that his daughter threw the game and he proceeded to break the bad news to Bill that he had been played. Bill never did bowl with Rita again but he did eventually ask her to marry him. They exchanged wedding vows on April 9, 1972 at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. They purchased their home at 29 Brookdale Road in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne and Rita remained there for 49 years until moving to Fallston, Maryland to be closer to her daughter and grandchildren. Sadly, Bill passed away unexpectedly on January 31, 1995.

Rita loved competing in sports, especially softball and bowling. She played softball in town recreation leagues and for many years for State Farm Insurance’s team. She primarily played third base and pitched and, during softball season, it wasn’t unusual for her to have games at least three nights a week. When she wasn’t playing softball, Rita was bowling. She was a regular at T-Bowl in Wayne, Butler Bowl, and Astro Bowl in Clifton. Her 190 average earned Rita the right to compete in the tri-state Women’s All-Star Association (WASA) League and the Garden State Games.

Above all else, nothing was as important to Rita as her family. During her formative years and to the present, she lived for her daughter Robyn by pouring herself into raising, loving, and nurturing her as her mother and as a single mom from when Robyn was just thirteen years old. Rita was her greatest cheerleader at all of Robyn’s bowling, softball, and field hockey competitions. When life necessitated a move to Maryland for Robyn and her family, Rita moved also so that she could be near Robyn, husband Adam, and her two grandsons, Munson and Mason. This past December, Robyn and Adam welcome sweet Savannah to their family. Rita referred to Savannah as her little sunshine.. 

Rita simply loved people. She was a tremendously kind, gentle, empathetic, positive  and resilient person who always had a kind word for anyone she encountered. She would give you the shirt off of her back or give you whatever you stood in need of. These qualities helped her to be a loving wife, mother, grandmother, friend, employee and coworker. She affected peoples lives in ways that her family never realized.   

Rita was the beloved wife of William Carey, blessed in marriage for 23 years until his sudden passing in 1995. She was the very loving mother of Robyn Westover and husband Adam of Fallston, Maryland, and adored grandmother of Munson, Mason, and Savannah. 

In lieu of flowers, because Rita adored her grandchildren and loved to watch Munson and Mason compete in their local sports programs, those wishing to give a memorial contribution are asked to consider:

Fallston Recreation Council, Inc.

1707 Fallston Road

Fallston, MD  21047-1410

Rita F. Carey

Fallston
September 7, 2023

Dolores Yodlowsky (nee Tamburr) died peacefully on September 6, 2023 at the age of 91.

She grew up in Newark, New Jersey, and when Dolores was in the second grade, she decided she didn’t like her name, so she chose to be called Debbie. Her baby brother at the time, Al, had difficulty pronouncing “Debbie” and instead he called her “Dukie.” The name stuck and she’s been affectionately called “Dukie” for the past 80-some years.

Dukie was a very bright girl, self-educated to a large degree, athletic and artistic, often dancing and singing. She was a prolific prayer with a strong faith in God, and she was honest to a fault. She always loved to visit Manhattan and had seen just about every Broadway show that existed. She passed this appreciation of culture and the theatre on to her children as well. As a mother, she set clear parameters for her children, not the least of which included ‘enjoy a cookie, but don’t eat a second one.’

Dukie met her husband Raymond and quickly decided she was “going to marry that hunk.” They were married on May 13, 1957 and enjoyed a reception at the Fiesta in Woodridge. She declared “I’ll be OK as long as I have my little angel with me.” Their love endured for over sixty years before Raymond died in May of 2017, and she has missed him dearly every day since.

Dukie is survived by her three children; Raymond Yodlowsky of Highland Park, Denise DeZao (Mark) of Ramsey, and Dana Yodlowsky (Leslie) of Westwood, and three grandchildren; Danielle, Julian and Layla. She was predeceased by her younger brother, Al Tamburr.

Dolores “Dukie” Yodlowsky

Ramsey
September 6, 2023

Surrounded by his loving wife Ruth and family, William B. Parisen (Bill), 94, of Wayne, New Jersey passed into the open arms of our Good Lord on September 6, 2023. Bill spent his life fully dedicated to being a husband, father and friend to many.

William was born on January 29, 1929 in Paterson, NJ to John and Clara Parisen. He thrived as a young boy in Wayne chasing squirrels, playing the violin and excelling at being the mischievous and protective big brother to his sisters Jean and MaryLou. His sense of humor and jokester ways always kept everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him entertained.

William began his professional career as a young, eager Civil Engineer learning the industry and playing silly pranks on his co-workers.

Bill met the love of his life, Ruth, and married in 1953. Ruth was quite surprised when he asked her one day if she’d like to buy a restaurant on Nassau Street in lower Manhattan. For 20+ years Bill served the working class of New York City from behind the deli counter at Bill’s Place, The Hero of Nassau Street. Choosing to get back into the office, he served as a Project Engineer for Orange and Rockland Utilities for 25 years retiring as manager of the Civil Engineering Department.

As if there wasn’t enough with work and raising 7 children Bill and a few close friends turned WestBrook Park, their quaint local swim and picnic area in West Milford into WestBrook Park KOA Campground. Weekends were spent in the beautiful surroundings of the park caring for the property, campers, staff and all that made the campground special.

Bill was also proud to be the founder and owner of Parisen Associates, a home inspection company in the tri-state area. His sons, Robert and David Parisen and grandson Ian Parisen will carry on the company’s success for years to come.

William and his wife Ruth are recognized as founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church, Wayne. They have been active parishioners for over 60 years.

Bill was an avid gardener and took pride in the surroundings of his home, yard and vegetable garden in Wayne. He thoroughly enjoyed ice cream, Diet Pepsi and the Yankees.

Bill and Ruth shared their home on Long Beach Island for many years with family and friends. Bill enjoyed a relaxing swim in the ocean while waving off the "pesky" lifeguards as he was always the furthest swimmer beyond the breaking waves.

William is survived by his devoted wife Ruth having shared 71 memory filled years of marriage, his 7 children, Nancy and son-in-law Jay Jarossy, John Parisen, Loren and son-in law Pat Ascione, Robert and daughter-in-law Susan Parisen, Jill and son-in-law Robert Mertrud, David and daughter-in-law Brigitte Parisen and Kim Thomas. Bill’s 17 grandchildren will miss him dearly: Michael and Sara Jarossy, Emily, Ethan and Eric Parisen, Neil Ascione and Allison Romeo, Jessica Parisen, Jenna Pinchook and Jared Parisen, Scott, Sam and Emma Schultz, Ian and Victoria Parisen and Chris and Amanda Thomas. He leaves his 9 great grandchildren, Mason, Tenley and Sienna Romeo, Evelyn and Natalie Ascione, Lucas Parisen, Theodore, Calvin and Thomas Schultz.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Bill’s name are asked to consider:

St.Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

William B. Parisen

Wayne
September 6, 2023

Marion Veronica Monzo, age 90 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, September 4, 2023, with her loving husband by her side.

Born in Evanston, Illinois to Michael and Veronica Bredger, her family moved to New Jersey where she attended and graduated from Hasbrouck Heights High School.

Marion began her professional career at Grand Union Food Store – a big grocery store chain at the time. She worked as a secretary for them while a young man named Bill Monzo worked part-time in the mail room. Their paths crossed one day, and Bill found himself starstruck by her beauty. In an effort to catch Marion’s attention, Bill convinced Marion that he was actually quite wealthy (whether she believed a younger man working in the mail room that he was rich is another story) but she agreed to join Bill for a date. The two quickly fell in love with one another. Bill was drafted into the Korean war which kept them apart for a time, but the two never lost touch and eventually Bill proposed to Marion.

They got married in 1954 and enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage to one another that lasted for 69 years. Bill and Marion honeymooned in the beautiful Bar Harbor, Maine – a favorite destination that they revisited many times during their lives together. 

In 1955, Marion and Bill welcomed their son Christopher Monzo into the world. Marion was an understanding, compassionate, loving, and caring mother. Their family expanded with the adoption of several cats and a loving Samoyed dog with a snow-white coat that they named Frosty. 

In addition to her responsibilities as a mother, Marion also worked for Bell Telephones as a telephone operator for 32 years! She and Bill both worked hard in their respective fields to eventually purchase a second residence at a golf community in the beautiful west coast of Florida. Although Marion wasn’t into golf, she did enjoy knitting so she would use the time away from Bill to refine her craft. She donated many of her knitted garments to Our Lady of Consolation Church to help those in need. They enjoyed that home for 10 years before retiring full-time to Wayne, New Jersey. 

Marion is survived by her husband William “Bill” Monzo; her grandson Dr. Christopher Monzo and his wife Laura Monzo; and her great-grandkids Logan Monzo and Diana Monzo. She is predeceased by her son Christopher Monzo. 

Marion V. Monzo

Wayne
September 4, 2023

Wilma Kuiphof Philips age 90 of Pompton Plains died at home on September 3, 2023.

Wilma was born on August 16, 1933 in Paterson, New Jersey, the daughter of Ida Caroline Heusser and William Kuiphoff.  She spent her formative years in Paterson during the Great Depression.  While her family struggled at times during the decade, Wilma’s parents insisted that she be well educated.  Although resources were scarce, her parents enrolled her at the then Eastern Academy in Prospect Park, New Jersey for her high school education.  After graduating from Eastern Academy in 1951, she continued her education in the registered nurse program at Paterson General Hospital, receiving her RN certification in 1954.  Wilma worked as an operating room nurse throughout the remainder of the 1950’s at Paterson General Hospital in Paterson, New Jersey. While living with her parents in Haledon, New Jersey, she traveled extensively during vacation time. Her ultimate voyage took place in 1956 when along with her nurse friends she drove to California and back in a 1955 Pontiac. 

In 1958 Wilma met John Philips on a vacation to the Pocono Mountains. Despite proclaiming she would never marry, they did so on April 23, 1960 and had a wonderful marriage together for forty-nine years.

She and John lived on Orchard Place in Maywood, New Jersey from 1960 to 1965. As was the custom of that time, she gave up her career as a nurse and soon gave birth to her two children:  John William in 1961 and Judy in 1962.

In 1965, John was transferred by RCA to their facility in Bridgewater, New Jersey. This meant leaving Wilma’s home environment in Northern New Jersey and moving to then rural Somerset County. Despite a difficult transition to life in the country, she soon embraced this new lifestyle. She attended the South Branch Reformed Church where she was an active member of the Women’s Guild. Wilma also reentered the workforce in 1967 when she took a part time job as a nurse at the Carrier Clinic in Belle Meade, New Jersey. When John and Judy reached their teen years, she embarked on a new career in 1971 as a beloved school nurse at Old York School in Branchburg, New Jersey.  During this time, she completed her bachelor’s degree at the then Trenton State College (now the College of New Jersey). She worked at Old York School until she retired in 1992.

After retirement, Wilma and John moved to Ormond Beach, Florida where she as an active member of the Ormond Beach Presbyterian Church. She was also an active volunteer at the Ormond Beach Memorial Hospital, serving a term as the president of the auxiliary before she and John moved to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in December 2007. At Cedar Crest, she was an active member of the Protestant Community, specializing in tolling the bells at memorial services. While there, she was frequently visited by her children, grandchildren, and in-laws.

Wilma was predeceased by her husband John in 2010 and her parents. Surviving are her son John Philips and his wife Sarah (Cockcroft) of Branchburg, and her daughter Judy Philips and her husband Paul Scott of Brooklyn, New York; two cherished grandchildren William and Peter Philips; her brother-in-law Peter Filipczak and his significant other Delores Shanklin Kronemer of Fair Lawn; her niece Pat Colville of Middletown, New York and nephew Pete Filipczak of Campbell Hall, New York.

Wilma will be remembered as a person who stood by her values, demanded the best from those around her, and who provided her children with the best education possible.  While she frequently disagreed with her children after they received their college and graduate degrees, she steadfastly loved and respected them.  

Wilma Philips

Pompton Plains
September 3, 2023

Carmine Joseph Liguori, 83, of Haskell, NJ, formerly of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Naples, FL, passed away peacefully, in the comfort of his home, and in the presence of his loving family, on Thursday, August 31, 2023. 

Carmine was born and raised in Paterson, New Jersey. He was born in the family's home on Martin Street and grew up on 27th Street, where he lived for nearly forty years. Carmine graduated from Eastside High School, then proudly served in the National Guard. He worked for many years at a pharmacy in Paterson, before becoming a Police Officer for the City of Paterson, while at the same time earning a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice at William Paterson University. Carmine eventually transferred over to the Passaic County Sheriff’s Office in Paterson. Upon his retirement, Carmine served a combined 25 years in law enforcement. 

Carmine is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Roseanne (D’Ambrosio) Liguori of Haskell, his daughter Joanne Presta and her husband Larry of Pompton Lakes, and his son, Alfonso “Al” Liguori and his wife Jeanette of Pompton Lakes. He was “Pop-Pop” to his seven grandchildren, Marc, Lauren and Ryan Presta, and Joseph, Anna, John, and Amy Liguori. Carmine was predeceased by his parents Alfonso Liguori and Nicoletta “Lena” Liguori (nee Violante) and his brother Louis Liguori.  

Carmine loved to play golf and achieved two holes-in-one during his playing days, making him extremely skilled or extremely lucky. He also enjoyed annual fresh-water fishing trips to Canada with friends and was a New York Jets season ticket holder for over thirty years. Carmine also loved to sing and dance, especially to the smooth sounds of Frank Sinatra and other music from the 1950’s. He was always the life of the party, and he made friends with everyone he met.

Carmine’s greatest love was for his family. His grandchildren meant the world to him, and they loved their “Pop-Pop” just as much. Nothing made Carmine more proud and thankful than when the whole family was gathered. He and Roseanne and their children and grandkids had the thrill of taking trips together, including a vacation to Disney World, a cruise to the Bahamas for Carmine and Roseanne’s 50th wedding anniversary, and a vacation down the Jersey shore at Ortley Beach. 

Carmine lived his life according to the principles guided by his Christian faith. He was a faithful parishioner at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton, St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes, and Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. He served for countless years helping to make a difference in the lives of those less fortunate and disadvantaged through his active involvement as a member and former president of the Fidelians Foundation in North Haledon. 

Whether you knew him as Carmine, Joe, Sonny, Hon, Dad, Uncle Joe, or Pop-Pop, he was a kind, generous, honorable, fun and loving gentleman. With a glass of red wine or a martini in his hand, he would always offer a Salute’ to the friends and family who surrounded him. We now offer a Salute’ to him, thanking him for the love, kindness, support, and priceless memories he has given to us all. SALUTE’!!! See you on the rebound…

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carmine’s name are asked to consider: 

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital 

Memorial Processing 

501 St. Jude Place 

Memphis, TN 38105-9959 

Carmine Joseph Liguori

Haskell
August 31, 2023

Charles (Charlie) Stern, age 95, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on August 29, 2023. 

Charlie is survived by his loving wife Effie (née Van Leeuwe), two daughters Grace (Andrew) and Karen (Derek), and grandchildren Samantha and Colin.  He is predeceased by siblings Elsie, Anne, William, Lena, Helen, Rose, Joseph, and Audrey.

Charlie was born to Joseph Stern and Lena Meyers on May 19, 1928, in Paterson, NJ, and grew up in Wayne.  Wayne did not have its own high school at the time; he graduated from Pompton Lakes High School in 1946.   

He served in the U.S. Army from 1950 to 1952, as Private First Class during the Korean War.

Charlie was resourceful and had an inquisitive mind. He loved tinkering and building; an early example of this is illustrated by the story of how he acquired his first car.  As the youngest of nine, his resourcefulness led him to have a conversation with one of his uncles who was using the body of a Model A Ford as a chicken coop (the rest of the parts were stored in a shed).   He asked how much he could buy the “parts” for so he could build a car.   His uncle replied, “if you get it running, it is yours.” He drove that Model A until he parted it out, using some parts for his Roadster, and eventually, some of those parts were used in his race car.

Charlie had a love for racing. During the late 40’s to mid-50’s, he joined a local racing club for the Northeast, and raced his Sprint car at the various dirt oval tracks along the East coast.

In 1953, Charlie had a chance meeting with a young woman (Effie) who was friends with his niece, Connie.   What began as a few people going out for ice cream, progressed into a first date, and then to “going steady.” On March 6, 1955, Charlie and Effie were married.   By 1963, Effie and Charlie moved into the house that Charlie had built for them in Wayne, NJ, where they lived and raised their family.

When Effie and Charlie met, he was working as a machinist for Simonek Racing in an area of Paterson known at the time as “Gasoline Alley.” He then worked as a carpenter building houses.  In the late 60’s, with a growing family to provide for, he took the advice of a friend who recommended a different career path, and applied at the NJ Department of Motor Vehicles.  Over his 25-year career with the DMV, he spent time at several locations throughout northern NJ and retired in 1991 as Supervisor of the Ridgewood Inspection Station.  In retirement, he was not a man to sit idle.  He took a part-time job at the local NAPA delivering auto parts, joined the Handyman’s team at Preakness Reformed Church, played golf, and repaired whatever needed fixing for his family and others (i.e., lawn mowers, bikes, etc.).

Charlie and Effie cruised to Alaska and Hawaii, and traveled with family to France, Arizona, Florida’s Disney, Vermont, Texas, Hilton Head Island and Cape May, among other places. He also enjoyed his title of “Pop-Pop” and attended soccer games, and any other activities in which his grandchildren were involved; he played badminton in the back yard, swam with them in the pool, and taught them to play golf, just to name a few.

Charlie will be remembered as a loving husband, father, and grandfather.  He will be sincerely missed by every person whose life he touched.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Preakness Reformed Church Scholarship Memorial Fund (Please make checks payable to the Preakness Reformed Church and put Charles Stern in the memo line)  Mail to: Preakness Reformed Church, 131 Church Lane, Wayne, NJ 07470 or the Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated. 

Charles Stern

Wayne
August 29, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Irma Iris Rosario, age 91 of West Milford, formerly of Rahway and Jersey City, NJ.  Irma Iris Rosario passed away peacefully on Monday, August the 28th, 2023 while in the care and loving comfort of her family.

Irma Iris was born to Filomina Esquelin and Julio Prieto in Santurce, Puerto Rico. She raised five beautiful daughters: Adelaida Perez, Irma Luz Hornedo, Luz Maria Rosado, Luz Neraida Campos and Clarisa Rodriguez.  Irma left Puerto Rico with her daughters to start a new life in the states with the help of her sister Celina Smith and brother Julio Prieto Jr. who resided in New York City.  Soon after, Irma found employment in Jersey City as a seamstress making luggage bags. Irma was an amazing seamstress and loved making clothes for the family.  She especially enjoyed making Halloween costumes for her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Irma found the love of her life, Israel Rosario who fully embraced Irma and her five daughters. They married and were blessed to love each other for 60 years. Irma enjoyed cooking, sewing, and taking care of her family. Irma dedicated her life to providing and supporting her family.

Irma was a beloved and dedicated wife and mother.  She was grandmother to 12 grandchildren, a great grandmother to 26, and great-great grandmother to 5.  She lived a blessed, fulfilled, and loving life and will forever be missed!!

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Irma Iris Rosario

West Milford
August 28, 2023

Mary Wolf, age 77 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, August 26, 2023.

Mary, the most loving devoted wife, mother and grandmother, is survived by her sister Pat McElroy; sons, Edward and James; daughter, Debbie; grandsons, EJ, Garret, James, and Thomas; granddaughters, Camryn, Vanessa, Krystina, and Lori; son-in-law, Glenn Laborda; and daughters-in-law, Karen and Sonia. She was preceded in death by her husband Edward, her parents, Walter and Mary, and her sister, Deborah.

Mary graduated from Immaculate Conception High School. She worked for over 40 years for Stanley and Andy Rothstein, who she considered family, and felt blessed to have as part of your life. Mary met Edward, the man of her dreams, and the man who would stand by her side through life’s ups and downs.

Mary was a near perfect wife and mother who no matter the situation, always had the well being and success of her family guiding her every decision. She was a woman who went above and beyond to make sure that everyone in her inner circle was provided for, taken care of, and always put ahead of her own self-interest.

As a woman driven by family, Mary would never compromise those values under any circumstance. She never focused on herself, instead, her children were her greatest joy and highest priority, and she always did her best to provide them with the best life possible.

Mary was a truly great woman whose impact will be forever felt by her family and friends who all loved her dearly. She was a selfless woman whose passing leaves a gaping hole in the hearts of all of us. Her ability to sacrifice, provide, support, and love will be forever engrained in all she knew.

Mary Wolf

Wayne
August 26, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Laurena Berthina Charles-Hynes, affectionately known as "Lauren", of Wayne, NJ.

Laurena passed away peacefully on Friday, August 25, 2023 after an unusually short but courageous battle with cancer while receiving the loving care of her family.

Laurena was born and raised in Castries, St Lucia and had nine (9) sisters and one brother.  While growing up in St Lucia, Laurena excelled in academics as well as volleyball.  She attended the Seventh Day Adventist Academy (SDA) in St Lucia graduating with honors, with the class of 1974.  Following her graduation from high school, she attended St Lucia A Level College.  After this, Laurena worked at the St Lucia Cooperative Bank for over five years.  In 1983 she immigrated to the United States to complete her Bachelor of Science degree at Rutgers University, in Newark NJ. She first settled in the Bronx, then later moved to East Orange, NJ while still completing the program. In 1988 she earned her Bachelor of Science Degree.

Laurena found work quickly and accepted a position at UMDNJ as a Medical Laboratory Technician.  Later, Laurena not only worked in the Serology lab, but in other various departments.  During her time working with UMDNJ, Laurena earned her master’s degree in Biomedical Informatics.   Laurena’s career in healthcare spanned over thirty-three years until retiring in 2021.  During that time, she was truly well respected and loved by her colleagues and peers. 

In November of 1999, Laurena met a handsome young man at church by the name of George Hynes.  A few years later, the two started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on May 1, 2004 they became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in George’s hometown of North Arlington where they remained until 2006 when they moved to Wayne.  After moving to Wayne, the couple welcomed the birth of their only child, Charley.  The family has remained in Wayne ever since. 

Laurena truly treasured reading, researching, and learning.  She had a true entrepreneurial spirit and constantly kept herself busy starting her own businesses in marketing and other fields.

Aside from all of Laurena’s hobbies, talents, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Laurena than spending time with family and friends and being a mother to her son Charley. He was indeed her precious gem. She cherished her time together with her family vacationing to destinations such as Vermont, Lake George, Wildwood, and Bradley Beach for the annual fireworks displays, and also the Caribbean.  Laurena and George shared nineteen years of loyal marriage together.  Laurena was also devoted to her faith, the Creator, which she often referred to as "The Most High".  She and her family attended a variety of local churches where she was always very active and charitable.

Laurena was a quiet, private, and reserved young lady but was also bubbly, kind and compassionate.  She had a truly wonderful personality and could light up any room she walked into with her sweet, and beautiful smile.  She was often selfless, putting the needs of others before her own. She will be forever remembered as a bright, beautiful and loving person who was a devoted wife, mother, and sister.  Laurena was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone that knew her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Laurena is survived by her husband George Hynes of Wayne, her son Charley Hynes, of Wayne, her sisters Agatha Chance of Ontario, Canada; Rosemary St. Romain of Castries, St Lucia; Gloria Elizabeth Charles of Castries, St Lucia; Marina Charles-Cann of Bermuda; Leona Charles of Castries, St Lucia; Margaret-Ann Charles of New Jersey; Shirwin Charles of Castries, St. Lucia; Theodora Simon of Castries St Lucia; Valerie Leon of Castries, St Lucia; and Patrick Phillip of Detroit, Michigan.  

Also surviving are her brothers-in-law: James Simon of La Croix Mingot, St. Lucia; William Cann of Bermuda, and Anthony St Romain of Castries St. Lucia also known as “brother Bob.”  She was the beloved aunt of Kheri Bernné Charles, Verity and Osie Solomon, Joy Carey St. Romain, Elvis St. Romain, Kathy St. Romain, Kevin Simon and Jason Simon all of Castries. Also, Gisele Simon, Coleen Chance and Andrea Chance of Canada.  Also left to mourn are the staff members of the University Hospital of New Jersey, Serology laboratory; and many other relatives and friends in St. Lucia, Barbados, Bermuda, Canada, and the USA.  She was predeceased by her parents Gerald Justin Charles and Eugenia Charles.

Laurena Berthalina Charles-Hynes

Wayne
August 25, 2023

Ralph Vigorito, age 85, of Totowa, NJ, passed away on Thursday, August 24, 2023, with the comfort of his family by his side. He was affectionately known as “Irv” to many.

Ralph was born to Ben and Jean (née Volpe) Vigorito, in Paterson, NJ, on March 6, 1938. He graduated in 1956 from Central High School, where he quarterbacked the varsity football team and played shortstop for the varsity baseball team. He attended the New York Military Academy and received a scholarship to continue his football career and education at the University of South Carolina before a stint playing football professionally for the New York Titans.

In the early 1960s, Ralph settled in Reno, NV, where he worked as a pit boss at the Cal-Neva Casino. The Lake Tahoe area was among his favorite places in the world. A few years later, he moved back to New Jersey, where he worked for Allentown Caging in Allentown and Scandia Packaging in Clifton. He also enjoyed a part-time gig in the 1970s as bartender and manager of the Towpath Bar in West Paterson. He had a warm, cheerful personality and made friends everywhere he went.

Ralph loved golf and was a regular at the Passaic County Golf Course, among the many courses in the area he frequently played. He achieved his first hole-in-one at the Palm Beach Gardens Golf Club using a six iron at 166 yards on hole 15. He was honored to have an annual family and friends golf outing in his name: the “Irv Golf Tournament,” or “IGT” for short. A golf destination is chosen each year, usually in Florida, and Irv and his family and friends would all hack their way through the course, laughing and making great memories along the way. Irv proudly won the tournament several times (there’s even a small chance he didn’t cheat). He also sincerely enjoyed leisure travel, almost always to a casino destination, visiting Atlantic City, Las Vegas, and many Caribbean islands over the years, often with his cousin Vince and long-time friend Paul and their wives. Roulette was his favorite casino game.

During the 1970s, Ralph became involved in coaching Wayne PAL and DePaul Catholic High School football. He diligently coached his son, Tommy, developing him into an exceptional running back and wide receiver. Ralph was incredibly proud to see Tommy go on from DePaul to play for the University of Virginia for four years before being drafted by the Miami Dolphins in 1981. He was resolute in ensuring his attendance at every game of Tommy’s entire football career.

Ralph’s first marriage was to Dorothy (née Miller), with whom he was blessed with four wonderful children. Ralph would later marry Sandy (née Lowry), enjoying twenty-eight years of marriage before her passing in 2010. A few years after Sandy’s passing, Ralph met Terry DiGregorio of Wayne while waiting to retrieve their respective grandchildren from James Fallon Elementary School. They eventually were encouraged to go on a date, and an endearing relationship followed. They were together for eleven years; Terry will miss him dearly.

Ralph is survived by his four children: Ralph and his wife Debbie Vigorito of Lincoln Park, NJ; Tommy and his wife Natalie Vigorito of Wayne, NJ; Darcy Nash of Pembroke Pines, FL; and Patricia and her husband Matthew Babich of Wayne, NJ. He’s also survived by nine beloved grandchildren: Justin and his wife Becka Vigorito, Michael Vigorito, Brandon Vigorito and his fiancé Molly Tague, Ryan Nash, Kelly Nash, Matthew Babich, Shawn Babich, Brianna Vigorito, and Rachel Babich; and one beloved great-grandson, Dominick Vigorito. Ralph was a devoted and loving grandfather and great-grandfather to each, never missing a dance recital or sporting event. Ralph was predeceased by his daughter-in-law Dianne Vigorito in 2015.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to The Buoniconti Fund to Cure Paralysis at www.themiamiproject.org (http://www.themiamiproject.org/) or 1095 NW 14th Terrace, Lois Pope LIFE Center, Miami FL, 33136.

Ralph “Irv” Vigorito

Wayne
August 24, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gertrude Siewert (nee Schlobohm), age 91, of Wayne, NJ.

Gertrude passed away on Thursday, August 24, 2023 peacefully while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born and raised in Brooklyn and was the only child to Walter and Margaret Schlobohm.  Many who knew Gertrude affectionately referred to her as “Trudy”, but to her family she will always be Gerty.

While growing up in Brooklyn, Gerty attended high school in the Flatbush neighborhood of Brooklyn and graduated with the class of 1949.  After graduating high school, she found employment quickly as a secretary/typist in Manhattan and taught Sunday School at her local church.  Gerty worked as a secretary for a few years, during which time she enjoyed attending German-American dances in New York City.  One night while out dancing she met a young handsome US Army serviceman by the name of Siegfried  "Fred” Siewert.  If there was ever a case of “Love at First Sight”, this was it.  As fate would have it, they fell in love, and not long after they began dating, the two became husband and wife at a Lutheran church in Brooklyn and would remain happily married for the next 60 years.

The newlyweds honeymooned in Germany for six months, staying with Fred's family and traveling in Europe.  Gerty and Fred came back to the United States and settled in Long Island, NY.  While residing in Long Island, the couple welcomed the births of both their daughters, Linda and Nancy.  In 1968 the family moved to Germany, and spent the next two years there.  When Gerty and her family returned to the United States in 1970, they settled in Passaic Park, NJ.

Once back in the United States, Gerty decided to get back into the workforce and worked as a secretary at Oneida Paper Company and customer service representative for Galvanic Printing until her retirement in 1992.  She and Fred retired at basically the same time and then moved to Englewood, FL.  The couple lived in Florida for the next eighteen years truly treasuring their retirement.  Gerty then moved back to New Jersey to live with her daughter Linda after her husband Fred’s passing in June of 2013. 

While living in NJ, Gerty and Fred were members of their local German-American Club where they met many wonderful people that would become lifelong friends. In Florida they also belonged to a German-American Club and were members of the Elks Lodge.   

In their spare time, they enjoyed  attending dances and other club activities, traveling and gardening.   One of Gerty's favorite places to be was at the beach.  She and her family traveled to a variety of destinations throughout the years including Bermuda, Bahamas, Italy, Hawaii, and St Maarteen.  She also treasured her family time spent at the Jersey Shore in Lavallette.  Gerty lived a good long life and was fortunate enough to know and love all eight great granddaughters.  

Gerty is survived by her two daughters: Linda Moakley and her husband William of Wayne, and Nancy Gannon of Clifton, four grandchildren, Nicki Stier and her husband Ken of Clifton, Tara Hecht and her husband William of Wayne, Dana Masino and her husband Matthew of Wayne, and William Moakley and his wife Alexis of Wayne, and eight great grandchildren: Jordyn, Hailey, Harper, Samantha, Callie, Hayden, Ava, and Aria.  She was predeceased by her husband Siegfried Siewert in 2013.  Gerty was very much loved and will be missed by many.

Gertrude Siewert

Wayne
August 24, 2023

Michael J. Tarantino left this life on August 24, 2023.

He was born in Paterson NJ on July 21,1961 and grew up in Totowa. Then, he moved to Wayne in June 1990.

He was employed by the Township of Wayne until his retirement in 2019.

Michael is survived by his parents John and Alice Tarantino, his wife Cyndi and children Tamara (Bob Ventimiglia) and Michael (Samantha Fleming). He is also survived by his sister Joanne Keeler (Keith), his in-laws, and a number of nieces and nephews.  Michael was predeceased by his grandparents, his sister in law, and his dog Hercules, whom he missed every day.

Michael was a lifelong, die-hard Giants fan, and a huge Queen fan. He loved to cook and shared his passion for cooking with his kids. He was the keeper of all useless information, and also could quote various movies. He could remember small, random facts about a vast number of subjects to his own delight. He also loved his favorite place, Lake Placid, NY and found his safe haven there. 

He will be taken to his favorite place to be scattered in the wind, the way he wanted, at a later date.

May Michael finally find the peace in Heaven that he couldn’t find on earth.  Sleep well with Jesus and the angels, Michael.

In lieu of flowers, donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.  

Michael Tarantino

Wayne
August 24, 2023

Jane Brozowski, age 92, of Wayne passed Tuesday, August 22, 2023.

She was born and raised in Paterson having graduated from Central High School with the Class of 1949.  After high school she found work as a secretary in the Engineering Department of P. Ballantine & Sons Brewery in Newark for many years. Following her marriage in 1957 Jane settled in Wayne NJ to start her family.  Several years later she decided to put her career on hold and prioritize raising her family. Her commitment and love for her children were unparalleled, and she devoted herself entirely to their upbringing. In the late 1970’s she found herself as a single mother and faced many challenges all of which she overcame. After her sons entered school full-time, she seized the opportunity to reenter the workforce first by joining New Jersey Bank which transitioned into Midlantic Bank which again transitioned into PNC Bank all located in West Paterson. With her return to the professional world, she continued to excel, proving that her dedication and determination were not diminished by her time away. She officially retired in 1998.

Jane was an extraordinary lady who possessed a unique blend of reservedness and love that captivated those around her.  While she may have appeared quiet and introspective, those who knew her well understood the depths of her affection and compassion.  Though she may not have then the loudest voice in the room, her words carried weight and her actions spoke volumes.  Many would consider her to have a strong personality, as she possessed an unwavering determination.  In her quiet strength, she faced challenges head-on and fearlessly pursued her goals.  Her presence was a testament to the power of inner strength and the impact one can have without raising their voice. For many years she was an active member of the Ladies Auxiliary of the Wayne Elks Lodge 2181. 

Jane was dedicated to her Catholic faith and played a pivotal role as a founding member of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.  Her dedication, unwavering faith, and tireless efforts have left an indelible mark on our community. As one of the pioneers who helped shape the foundation of the church, she has been instrumental in fostering a sense of belonging and spiritual growth for all who enter its doors.

She was the beloved mother of John Brozowski and his wife Darlene of Warwick, NY and Gary Brozowski and his wife Lisa of Wayne; she was the cherished grandmother of Julia and Hannah Brozowski, Casey and Kelly Brozowski, Dylan and Emma Diplas.  Jane was predeceased by her three brothers Steven, Walter and George Podgorski.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Our Lady of the Valley Church, 630 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated. 

Jane Brozowski

Wayne
August 22, 2023

James E. Herman, age 88, of Wayne, passed into eternal life on Monday, August 21, 2023.

James was the older of George and Alice (Lynch) Herman’s two children. He was born in Wayne in his Aunt Helen and Uncle Leonard’s house that was purchased in 1932 from the Sears Roebuck catalog. Jim grew up on Thomas Terrace in Wayne. He attended Passaic County Vocational High School when it was still in Paterson and he graduated with the class of 1952.

Jim met Virginia “Jinny” Clark on a blind date that was set up by his mother and Jinny’s sister who worked together at a dry cleaner. When Jim got home from that first date, he announced to his mom that he knew he was going to marry Jinny. Well, it turned out to be a true statement. They did indeed exchange their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, August 20, 1955 at the Mountain View Gospel Church (presently called Crossroads Church) on Parish Drive in Wayne. A reception took place at the Wayne Fire Department House #1. It was an extremely hot and humid day and there was also a flood. Jim and Jinny honeymooned in Niagara Falls and in unique fashion, Jinny’s brother and his wife went with them. Upon their return home, they started married life in a cabin on Packanack Lake.  From there they moved into an apartment that overlooked Roue 23 before ultimately putting down roots in their house at 3 Giannone Road in Wayne.  

Career wise, Jim started out as a machine shop manager for Jual Gear Company in Hawthorne. In 1968, with three new mouths to feed, Jim started his own floor sales, supply and installation company which he called New Life Floor Covering. At first he worked out of a truck, visiting customers in their homes where he would show his samples and close the orders, then install. On weekends he did his best to drum up business by selling flooring at a flea market in Elmwood Park. Eventually, he got his first store-front location in the old American Way Outlet Mall in Fairfield.  It was a family business with his wife and children. Jim later moved the business to a storefront on Route 23 in Butler and, in 1996, he opened a second store in the Berdan Shopping Center on Hamburg Turnpike in Wayne.   His son Ron ran the Butler store while Jim ran the Wayne store.

As a young man, Jimmy was a pretty good tap dancer and he also liked to play drums. His early interest in carpentry inspired him to build cabinets before he even had his driver’s license. He built beautiful cabinets but his father had to help him deliver them. In later years, he and Jinny enjoyed some wonderful travel adventures. As a floorman, Jimmy would sometimes win trips from flooring manufacturers for highest sales of their product. That earned them a couple of cruises. His wife Jinny worked for a Swedish company where she was secretary to the president. This earned them a trip to Sweden where they got to have dinner with the king and the queen of Sweden because of the company’s important standing in Sweden. Other trips, like the one they took to Finland were made possible by Jinny’s talent for being a great bargain hunter. Sadly, Jinny passed away in 2000 when she was only 66 years old. Jim always expressed how grateful he was that they didn’t wait to travel till they were older.

Eventually, Jim moved to Cedar Crest Village with his mother Alice and twenty years ago, he moved in with his daughter Susan where he remained to the present.

Jim was a true child of God. Consequently, it was always on his heart to be a good witness for the Lord and to be involved in ministry for his Father in heaven. Originally a member of Mountain View Gospel Church (now Crossroads Church) on Parish Drive, he did chalk ministry as a young man, and he and his wife Jinny worked with the church’s youth group even taking regular trips with them to New York State. He served in his church as deacon and elder and after retiring from his floor business, he got ordained as a minister through Crossroads Church so that he could be even more effective for the Lord. Jim served as an interim pastor at several churches, most recently at Bible Christian Fellowship in Pompton Plains. He loved preaching there along with Pastor Paul and he continued to serve there until three or four years ago when his health prevented him from continuing.    

To those that knew Jim, he was a good friend. He was a hard worker. For example, in his flooring business he worked seven days a week including the flea markets on the weekends. In the Holy Bible in Colossians 3: 23-24, the bible says “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”  That’s what Jim did. That’s why he was always honest in his business dealings and always wanted the job, no matter what it was, to be done right and to the highest standards. Jim truly cared about those who God put in his path. He cared about people and always wanted to help them. As a result, he was loved by many.  

Jim was the beloved husband of Virginia “Jinny” Herman (nee Clark) blessed in marriage for 45 years until her passing in 2000. He was the loving father of: Susan Rivenes and husband Robert, Jr. of Wayne, James “Ron” Herman and wife Sally of Pompton Plains, and the late Diane Tomaiko and her husband Gerry; cherished grandfather of: James “Jimmy” Rivenes, Amanda Herman, Ashley and husband John De Ritter, Steven Herman, Billy Herman, Joshua Herman, and the late Matthew Herman who passed away just this past July, 2023; adored great-grandfather of Madeline and Brooke; dearest brother of the late Ronald Herman and his wife Eileen of Toms River; and dear uncle of: Tom, Ron, David, and Wendy.

James Herman

Wayne
August 21, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of John Cooper, Jr, age 91 of Pompton Plains, NJ.

John passed away peacefully on Monday, August 21, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.  John was born in his family home in Wyckoff, NJ and was one of four children to John and Hilda Cooper.  While growing up in Wyckoff, John excelled in the sport of baseball.  Since the town of Wyckoff did not have its own high school, John attended Ramsey High School.

In 1952, John got the call to serve his country in the Korean War and began his service with the United States Navy.  While serving in the US Navy, John was the Ship’s Chemist with his own laboratory on the USS Rehoboth.  The Rehoboth was commissioned as an oceanographic survey ship.  One of the highlights of John’s time aboard the Rehoboth was the rescue of the raft that was part of the Kon-Tiki expedition.  John was awarded the National Defense Medal, as well as the European Occupation Medal and the Good Conduct Medal.   

Subsequent to his honorable discharge from the US Navy in 1956, John set out to become a Police Officer.  He joined the Oakland Police Department  where he earned the rank of Sergeant and eventually retired in 1990.

John was also a freelanced licensed plumber for over sixty years alongside his law enforcement career.  After retiring, he often helped his fellow church members and neighbors with their plumbing work.     

John later met and married Arlene Rogers on August 28, 1983. They adopted their first three children, Matthew, Elizabeth, and Brian.  Later the family moved to Pompton Plains where they adopted two more children, Sean and Abigail.  The family has called Pompton Plains their home ever since.   

He was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  John and Arlene cherished forty years of a loving and loyal marriage together.  In 2010 tragedy struck John’s family when his son Matthew passed away.  John was not only devoted to his family, but also to his Christian Faith. He gave continuous thanks to God for the many years he was blessed with.   He and his family for the past three years regularly attended the Trinity Baptist Church in Montville.

John was an easygoing, unstressed, and calm man.  He had a mellow disposition to him with a great sense of humor.  He had a heart of gold and would stop whatever he was doing to help someone out. 

John will be forever remembered as a loving husband, devoted father, and a man truly dedicated to his family.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

John is survived by his wife Arlene ( Rogers) of Pompton Plains, his daughter Elizabeth Cooper, his son Brian Cooper, his son Sean Cooper, and his daughter Abigail Cooper all of Pompton Plains.  He is also survived by his daughters Sharon and Lisa, four grandchildren, and his brother Ronald Cooper of Wyckoff NJ.  He was predeceased by his son Matthew Cooper (2010), and by his two sisters Radie, and Jess. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in John’s name may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

John Cooper, Jr.

Pompton Plains
August 21, 2023

Joanne L. Carr (nee Shea) age 85, of Tinton Falls, NJ and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Saturday, August 19, 2023. 

Joanne was the cherished wife of the late John P. Carr (2008). She was the beloved mother of Timothy (Kristin), Christopher, Brian (Denise); adored grandmother of Megan, Bridget, Joshua, Emma, and Aaron; loving great grandmother of Lily, Molly, and Jake; dearest sister of the late Robert Bootes, the late John Shea, Phyllis Tucciarone, and Patricia Van Decker; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews.

The third of Edmund and Helen (Heath) Shea’s five children, Joanne was born in Glen Ridge and grew up in the family home at 712 Broad Street in Bloomfield. After graduating from Bloomfield High School with the Class of 1956, she worked for Prudential Insurance Company in Newark. Joanne recalled that the highlight of that job came one summer when she had to spend several months down the shore to conduct training for fellow employees.

In 1961, Joanne met John Carr in North Arlington. They fell in love and married shortly thereafter. They moved into the home located at 24 James Street in Wayne where Joanne took on the role of mother and homemaker. She would go on to live in that home for over fifty years. As a young mom, while her three sons attended Ryerson School, Joanne was active in the PTO. Later she worked as a poll worker at the Ryerson School polls.

Joanne eventually returned to work outside of the home. She took a job at the Children’s Place, a retail children’s clothing chain. She started out part time in the distribution center and, over the course of twenty-plus years before retiring in the early 1990’s, she moved into the company’s human resource and payroll departments. She loved that job and her grandchildren were the happy recipients of lots of great children’s clothing. 

When Joanne’s kids were growing up, the family would frequently go camping. It was affordable and, while it really wasn’t her cup of tea, it’s what three growing boys loved to do. Favorite camping spots included Cape May, Wildwood Crest, and Fort Wilderness near Disney World. One summer the whole family even camped their way up the east coast from Cape May to Nova Scotia! Joanne and John got to go to Ireland with their son Chris and to Mexico with their son Tim and his family. She and John loved to go to Atlantic City to try their luck at the casinos and they always took advantage of the free buffets. They also enjoyed several cruises and trips together to Hawaii, New Orleans and lots of national parks.

When Joanne was a young lady working for Prudential, she started bowling. It would become an activity that she participated in for many years. With a 156 average, she enjoyed bowling with friends in various leagues at Leisure Lanes in Fairfield and T-Bowl in Wayne. Joanne also loved going to Broadway shows, working in the yard, tending to her beautiful flowers and doing her crossword puzzles.

Above all else, Joanne’s greatest passion was for her family. She and husband John were such a blessing to their sons. For many years they took care of their grandchildren a couple of times a week. Joanne was never known to be shy and taking care of her grandchildren allowed her to be well-known at their nursery school and Ryerson School. She adored her grandchildren and never missed any of their shows, competitions, birthdays, graduations, or any milestone events in their lives. She loved dancing the jitter bug with them and swimming with them in their pool or in the ocean. 

Joanne was truly a caring and compassionate person. When her own mother was suffering from Alzheimer’s disease, it was Joanne who took care of her every need. In June, 2018, Joanne left her home in Wayne to go live at Cedar Crest Village in Pequannock. While living there, she was a regular volunteer in Cedar Crest’s memory care unit. Extremely kind hearted, she simply had a natural attraction to the down-trodden and when she saw a need, she rolled up her sleeves and helped. Sadly, Joanne herself would ultimately succumb to Alzheimer’s. With much of her family ending up living in South Jersey, she eventually moved down there to be closer to them. For the past year-and-a-half, she was a resident at Seabrook Village in Tinton Falls. 

When asked what her family would miss most about Joanne, they said they would miss her great sense of humor, her warm friendship, and just her mere presence. She always got so excited to be together for Christmas and other holidays and events. She lived for her family and not having her present going forward will be hard.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joanne’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s NJ

Attention Develpment Department

425 Eagle Rock Ave. Suite 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

Joanne Carr

Tinton Falls
August 19, 2023

Liam Sebastian Marquez, of Haskell,  just 3 years young, joined the angels in heaven on Thursday, August 17, 2023. His dearly loved Mommy, Daddy, Nanny, and Auntie were right by his side as he went into eternal glory.

Liam was born into this world in April, 2020, during some of the most difficult days of the Covid pandemic. In the context of those dark days, his arrival was a beautiful, glorious ray of sunshine, full of hope and happiness to his excited parents, Sebastian and Kimberly Marquez. Sadly, their immense happiness turned to great concern when, at just 8 weeks old, Liam was diagnosed with Rhabdomyosarcoma, a very rare and aggressive form of cancer. For the rest of his short earthly life, Liam endured surgeries, countless chemotherapy and radiation treatments, and numerous visits to doctors and hospitals. Through it all, and right until he passed, God kept him going, kept him learning, and kept him doing all the things little boys love to do. 

Liam loved going to the park. It was one of his favorites things to do, as long as Liam was running and laughing. He would get so excited and with an exuberant voice he’d say “Mommy, let’s go to a new park! He also loved an indoor play place called Catch Air that had everything a little kid could want to do. Every day Liam wanted to go and bring his buddies. Also, his love for animals was amazing. He was incredibly smart and could spout off all kinds of information about all kinds of animals. He knew their habitats and what they liked to eat. Liam especially loved dinosaurs and even though he was only three, you could show him a picture of one and he could tell you exactly what dinosaur it was – Triceratops, Tyrannosaurus, Stegosaurus, Brontosaurus – you name it! He pretty much knew them all and, if you had a question he couldn’t answer, Liam would always say “Look it up” or “Google it”. 

Liam had so much love for his Auntie and Unka or as Liam would say, my bestie Auntie who he spent so much time with. Through Liam’s Auntie, Jessica and Unka Corey who live in Little Falls, he became beloved by so many from Little Falls and their Police Department and Fire department. Liam would always say, “When I grow up, I want to be Police Officer to arrest the bad guys.” The Little Falls Police made an official proclamation and made him an official police officer complete with the bestowment of his own genuine police badge. Likewise, Totowa and Woodland Park Fire Departments made Liam an honorary fire chief. What kid wouldn’t be excited? 

A recent great highlight for Liam (and his parents) was going to Yankee Stadium where he got to play on the field and meet the players. Yankees first baseman Anthony Rizzo had cancer as a very young man himself. He survived and so he started the Anthony Rizzo Family Foundation to raise money and awareness for cancer research and to support families who are battling cancer. Liam actually met Anthony Rizzo and also Aaron Judge and Kyle Higashioka to name a few.

Liam was the kind of kid that you couldn’t help but be drawn to. He was the big brother of his eight-month-old sister Isabella Leigh or “Bella” as he loved to call her. He was also like a little brother to his older cousins Madison and Dante. They shared an amazing bond. Liam loved giving them wake up calls by storming into their bedrooms at 8:30 in the morning to beat them up. His love for them and his Nanny was like no other.  

Liam always wanted to run, always! As recently as three days before he passed, he was running in the house with his Mommy and Nanny. As he ran he yelled, “Run faster Mommy! You’re not doing it right! Go faster! Turn on the jets!“ Three days later, he’s flying with jets even Liam could never have dreamed about. Oh Liam, you will truly be missed! Thank you for such great memories. See you again our sweet angel!

Matthew 19:14

Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.”   

Liam was the precious son of Sebastian and Kimberly (Myers) Marquez. He was the greatest big brother of Isabella “Bella” Marquez; adored grandson of maternal grandmother Irene Myers of Lady Lake, FL, maternal grandfather Weldon Myers of Wildwood, FL, paternal grandmother Blanca Marquez of Puerto Rico and paternal grandfather Eduardo Marquez who predeceased him ; cherished cousin of Madison Myers, Dante Ferreira, Camila and Nick Lucarelli, Eva, Mariella, and Gigi Marquez; dearest nephew of his Auntie Jessica Myers and Unka Corey Eopechino, Tia Edith Marquez and Uncle Martin Lucarelli, Tio Eduardo Marquez, Jr. and Aunt Nicole Marquez, Uncle Steve Marquez, and Uncle Simon Marquez.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Liam’s name are asked to consider a donation to: Liam’s Warriors Foundation. A non-profit foundation to help raise money and awareness for cancer research and to support families who are battling cancer.

Send to: 

Liam’s Warriors

PO Box 227

Totowa, NJ 07511

Liam Marquez

Haskell
August 17, 2023

Geraldine Delli Santi, age 93, of Paramus and formerly of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 17, 2023.

Geraldine, or “Geri” as she was commonly known, was born and raised in the Iron-Bound section of Newark, NJ. She was the daughter of her late parents, Joseph and Mary (Vitilo) Nobile. 

After attending Eastside High School in Newark, Geri worked at an umbrella factory where she met the love of her life John Delli Santi. Geri and John made their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, April 8, 1950 at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Roman Catholic Church in her hometown of Newark. After the wedding, the newlyweds honeymooned in thee most popular destination of the day – Niagara Falls. Upon returning home, they started their lives as husband and wife in a home located at 296 Walnut Street in Newark. The ensuing years of marriage included the blessed arrival of three children, Louis, Joseph and Laura, and several moves to new homes including, 181 Lincoln Ave, Newark, and 368 North 11th Street, in Newark. During the child-rearing years, Geri lovingly embraced her role as mother and homemaker. Then, when the kids reached that age of relative independence, she began to work outside the home as a sales associate for McCrory’s Department Store in Newark, and later at Mandee Clothing Stored in Newark and Bloomfield. Those were bygone days when you could actually go into a clothing store and be personally waited on. Geri was one of those kind persons that waited on you with a cheerful smile and a service-minded spirit. 

Sadly, in December of 1992, Geri’s beloved John passed away. Soon after she moved out of Newark for the first time in her life into her new home located at 29 Maple Street in Bloomfield. She later downsized to an apartment at Siena Village in Wayne and had most recently been living at the Veterans Home in Paramus.

Geri enjoyed various leisure time activities. She loved to read, especially Danielle Steel romance novels. She also enjoyed coloring, going to see shows in Atlantic City with her daughter Laura, playing bingo, and singing with the bands at the Veterans Home. Geri especially loved being with her children, granddaughter and brother and sisters. She was so proud of her granddaughter Julianne and never missed any of her birthdays, dance recitals, or graduations. Geri was also a great cook and an even better baker. Everyone loved it when she baked German nut loaf, Italian Struffoli (Italian honey balls), and her all time specialty – Italian Knots. 

Along with her love for her family and friends, Geri had a sincere love of God. She was a faithful catholic who always felt a blessing from going to mass. During her days living in Newark, she was a parishioner of Our Lady of Good Council Church and St. Francis Xavier Roman Catholic Church. For the past ten years, she was a parishioner of St. Mary’s Roman Catholic Church in Pompton Lakes. 

Among her many virtues, Geri was known for her charitable acts of kindness to those in need which was surely informed by her faith and the church’s teachings on caring for the poor, sick,  and elderly amongst us. 

Gerri was the beloved wife of John Delli Santi, blessed in a loving marriage for 42 years until John’s passing in 1992. She was the loving mother of Louis Delli Santi and wife Jo-Ann of Lake Ariel, Pennsylvania, Joseph Delli Santi and wife Elaine of Wayne, and Laura Delli Santi of Cedar Grove; and cherished grandmother of Julainne McCarthy and husband Scott. She was predeceased by her three sisters and one brother: Lucy Alicia, Jack Nobile, Theresa Sorrentino, and Anna Nobile.  

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Geraldine “Geri” Delli Santi

Wayne
August 17, 2023

Angelina "Aunt Jean" J. Del Forno, age 89, of Wayne.  passed Tuesday. August 15, 2023.

Jean was born in Jersey City and raised in Union City where she attended Emerson High School. She lived in Ridgefield at 554 Oak Street and in 1986 moved to Wayne.   For many years she snow-birded in Delray Beach, FL.

Just out of high school Jean worked at the DuroTest Light Bulb Company on Kennedy Boulevard in Union City and for several years worked as a Nursery School Teacher at Saint James Church in Ridgefield. She always looked back fondly of her years working with the children at the nursery school.

Jean will be remembered for being generous to a fault, an avid shopper (her absolute favorite thing to do) and was simply a kind, loving soul.  She loved to cook and even taught a class on Italian Cooking called Pasta Pasta & More" in Palisades Park.  She was lovingly known as “Aunt Jean" to many as she just had a loving, kind and caring way about her. She loved to travel with her three cousins: Millie, Ada and Vicky and nicknamed themselves... “The Golden Girls."

Jean met her future husband Joe as he worked across the street from her parents Deli/Luncheonette in Union City. He would often get his lunch there and they fell in love.  Jean and Joe married on June 13, 1953, at St Anthony's of Padua Church in Union City and honeymooned in Miami. Florida.  Jean and Joe had a loving and devoted marriage that was blessed with four children:  Joseph, Ella, Louis, and Michael.  They experienced a tragedy when their son Joseph was killed in a traffic accident in 1975. Jean and Joe were married for thirty-one years and considered their relationship a partnership with Joe making Jean feel loved and important all the time before his passing in 1984.

Jean was the loving wife of the late Joseph A. Del Forno (d.1984); loving mother of Ella Del Forno of Chester,  Louis Del Forno and his wife Gina of Wayne,  and Michael Del Forno and his wife Hijong of Charlestown, RI, and the late Joseph V.  Del Forno (d.1975); she was the loved sister of Raymond Reo and his wife Rosalie of North Bergen and Gloria Pino and her husband of Lake Worth,  FL. and the late Arlene Fasani and her late husband Leon; she was the cherished grandmother of six grandchildren: Valentina, Joseph, Ava, Louis, Enzo, and Gianni.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Angelina Del Forno

Wayne
August 15, 2023

Mona Lisa Adamo

Mona Lisa Adamo, age 62, a life-long resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 15, 2023, after a long and hard-fought battle with cancer, surrounded by the comfort and care of her mom and close friends.

A loving daughter, caring friend and accomplished nurse, Mona Lisa Adamo was born and raised in Wayne, NJ. She is survived by her mom, Michele Charlard Adamo and her brother, Shawn Adamo and predeceased by her father Angelo Adamo, and her brother Carl. Mona graduated Wayne Valley High School in 1979 and went onto Fairleigh Dickinson University where she received her Nursing Degree in 1983 and her MPA, master’s in public administration, Nursing in 1992. She also held a Certificate of Non-profit Management from William Paterson University. Mona Lisa was an active member of Our Lady of the Valley (OLV) RC Church, Wayne. She served as an usher for many years, a member of the OLV Parish Festival Committee, a CCD (Confraternity of Christian Doctrine) instructor, and a cherished member of the Cornerstone team.

Mona brought warmth and humor wherever she went. She established her nursing career in the NICU as an RN in St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital in Paterson in 1983 and went on to become an Administrator of the Early Intervention Program in 1995. A position she held until 2014. She then began her work as a Surgical Coordinator at NJ Orthopaedic Institute (NJOI), and later a Director/Program Supervisor for The Nurse-Family Partnership in Passaic & Bergen until she retired in July 2022. She was the President, Board of Trustees of Healthy Mothers /Health Babies Paterson/Passaic (2007 – 2010), North Jersey (2010 – 2012).

She will be remembered for her dedication to her mom, her love of children and infants, and her exuberant personality. She was the sparkling light in her large circle of friends. Mona was always up for adventure (kayaking, yoga, swimming and traveling), and was the first to initiate a new event. She also had a great love for traveling and shopping with her Mom. Her humor was infectious as was her smile. She will be missed greatly by her mother, brother, nephews, Angelo and Jason, pup, Coco, family in Canada, and her many friends.

For those unable to attend the service in person, you are invited to click on the link below at 10:30 AM to watch the service via livestream.

https://venue.streamspot.com/event/NDA1ODIwOA==

Mona Lisa Adamo

Wayne
August 15, 2023

Edwin B. Minchin, Jr., age 74 of Iselin, passed away on Sunday, August 13, 2023 after a brief illness.

The second of Edwin B. Minchin Sr. and Irene (Ashfield) Minchin’s two children, Ed was born in Paterson and raised in the family home at 151 Albion Ave. in Paterson. When he was just fourteen years old, his mother passed away. Needless to say, this had a profound effect upon Ed and the whole family. Ed’s older sister Eileen did her best to fill in and, she and Ed grew very close in their sibling care and lifelong love for one another. When Ed graduated from Don Bosco Tech High School, he enlisted in the United States Marine Corps where he rose to the rank of Sergeant and proudly served his country from 1966 to 1970 including two-and-a-half tours in Vietnam during the war. His last tour was cut short by President Nixon calling the troops home. For his bravery and valor, Ed was the recipient of the National Defense Service Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal with one Star, the Vietnam Campaign Medal with Device, the Combat Action Ribbon, the Rifle Marksmanship Badge, and two Good Conduct Medals. Throughout the years he remained a member of the American Legion.  

After leaving the military, he went on to meet his first wife with whom he shared three children. He made so many wonderful memories with his children including family vacations to Florida and Hilton Head. They went on many day trips while always blasting his doo-wop cassette tapes the whole car ride. He loved coaching his children's soccer and softball leagues for many years. Enjoyed family game night and trips to Carvel. He was also a loving grandfather to his grandchildren and was proud to have all of their names tattooed on his arm.  He always sang his infamous song ¨Hot dog summer in the city” where the grandkids still sing it to this day. 

Upon return to civilian life, Ed started his own auto body shop on Albion Ave in Paterson. During his working years he also was a fleet manager with Air Brook Limousine, worked for AT&T in Long Island, owned his own construction business – Minchin Construction, where he primarily built homes and additions, was an operations manager for Mobile Storage in South Plainfield, and, before retiring at age 62, served as an operations manager for Partsfleet Inc. – a logistics company headquartered in Orlando, Florida.

In his spare time, Ed was a man of various pastime pursuits. His favorite was undoubtedly working on and showcasing his classic 1937 black Oldsmobile. It was a real looker and Ed loved to take it to car shows and enter it in competitions. He trophied so many times that he honestly lost count. Just this year alone he won three trophies. People loved it when he displayed the automobile as a gangster getaway car complete with life size skeletons dressed as bank robbers with machine guns and flapper girls. Another hobby of Ed’s was working on his house. He spent every winter planning the annual big spring project. As soon as the weather was warm enough, itching to go, Ed got to work. One year he resided the front of the house with stone. The next it was installing a beautiful bay window. Other projects included an addition to his deck, the construction of a tiki bar on that deck, the addition of a windmill, and keeping his grass fed, watered, trimmed and looking pristine. He even did quite a bit of stone scaping in his back yard. His home, both inside and out, was a source of great pride for Ed. Despite some physical challenges, which Ed never let slow him down, he went to the gym every day of the week except Sunday to work out. It was an activity which he enjoyed participating in with his buddies and, while it was primarily about staying in shape, it was also about the camaraderie that they all shared. 

Ed met his second wife Erika while working together at Mobile Storage in South Plainfield. It was she who asked him out. Their first date was on the Saturday after Valentine’s Day in 2006 and they married a little over a year later on May 18, 2007. Ed and Erika really had a marriage made in heaven. They seldom had a disagreement and, in those rare times that they did, they always worked it out before going to sleep. Every night included a mutual kiss and “I love you!” Together they enjoyed a trip, just this past May to Bermuda. They also maintained a longtime tradition of heading down to Atlantic City every other month to stay at the Tropicana Casino. They both played the slots and the day always ended with a delicious dinner at their favorite casino restaurant – Broadway Burger. Sometimes while down the shore, they’d grab a rickshaw and get a ride down the boardwalk. Then they would walk all the way back, shopping as they went. It was great fun and always included a stop in their favorite candy store for fresh fudge. Other highlight trips included Hershey Park and to Fort Lauderdale, FL for nephew Robert’s wedding and Disney World. 

The trips and destinations were lots of fun but Ed was just as happy being home. On Saturday nights, he and Erika could often be found relaxing on the deck, listening to doo-whop and other music from the fifties and sixties, sometimes dancing in the glow of the tiki torches. Ed loved having his kids and grandkids come over for barbeques and holidays – having everyone gathered together and swimming in the pool.

Ed was a happy, easy-going, fun-loving guy who was always friendly and outgoing. He simply loved life. 

Ed is survived by his beloved wife Erika (Matousek);  loving son Edwin Minchin, III and wife Gladys, loving daughters Tina Hadjissa and husband Tambe, and Heather Minchin and companion Rob Torres; his loving stepson Justin Polhamus, loving stepdaughter Rachel, eight cherished grandchildren: Tyler, Ava, Chase, Hailie, Robert, Kaitlynn, Gianna, and Adam; and his dearly loved sister Eileen Fernand and husband Robert.    

Edwin B. Minchin, Jr.

Iselin
August 13, 2023

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Albert D Schielke, age 79, of Wayne, NJ.

Albert passed away peacefully on Saturday August 12, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family and after a long courageous battle with lung cancer.  He was born and raised in Paterson, NJ and was one of two sons to Alfred Crew and Florence Schielke.  While growing up in Paterson, Albert attended Central High School where he was member of the Rifle Team.  Because of his academic excellence, Albert was able to skip a full grade of high school and graduate a year early with the class of 1959.  

Following his graduation from Central High School, Albert attended Rutgers University in New Brunswick.  He was only there for a year then transferred to Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck, NJ.  Albert graduated earning his bachelor’s degree in Electrical Engineering.  He accepted a position offered to him at Fairleigh Dickinson as a professor.  While working as a professor at the university, Albert went on to earn his Master’s Degree in Physics and later his PhD in Astronomy.   Albert remained at Fairleigh Dickinson University for more than forty five years.  During his career, he was appointed Assistant Dean of the Junior College at Fairleigh Dickinson and later College Dean of Fairleigh Dickinson University.  He was also Vice President of Academic Affairs and oversaw the International Student Program where he worked closely with Wroxton College in England, as well as the University of Tel Aviv, three other universities in Turkey, and a college in Barcelona, Spain.  Albert retired as College Dean of Fairleigh Dickinson University in 2013.  

Albert always had a love of horses and raised Arabian Horses throughout his life.  In 1968, while at a Dude Ranch in Milford, PA Albert met an attractive young lady by the name of Susan Locker.  Susan was a dancer and a working member of the New York City Rockettes.  Albert and Susan started dating and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 28, 1974, they became husband and wife at the Westmount Country Club in West Paterson, NJ.  The newlyweds honeymooned in Hawaii then settled in the town of Wayne where they have been ever since.  During their time residing in Wayne, they welcomed the birth of their “one and only” daughter Lara.  

His wife Susan’s family owned a dance school in the city of Passaic and later in 1987, Susan and Albert built their school in Garfield called Locker School of Dance.  Albert was a carpenter in his spare time and had a complete woodworking shop in his garage.  For many years Albert worked alongside his wife Susan at the dance school as a stage manager/prop designer, music taper and scenery builder. Susan even got him in the show every year dancing along side her and their daughter. 

Travel was one of the family’s favorite pastimes.  Albert, Susan, and Lara traveled the world together visiting a wide variety of exotic destinations.  After their daughter married, they welcomed their son-in-law with open arms as their own son and vacationed together constantly.  Deep sea fishing and playing Blackjack were another of Albert’s favorite pursuits.  Often times while vacationing or cruising, Albert would book shore excursions to go deep sea fishing and horseback riding. He also treasured his Beefeater Gin Martinis “straight-up with a twist” and “shaken, not stirred.” 

Aside from all of Albert’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Albert than providing for, and spending time with his wife Susan, his daughter Lara and her husband Greg, his grandchildren Mackenzie, and Chelsea, and his precious dachshund “Martini.”  

Albert was a soft-spoken man with a wonderfully dry sense of humor.  He was the kind of man who could handle any situation and be able to talk you through it.  Being a well-educated and brilliant man, he had the ability to captivate an audience of any age with a story or lecture.  Albert will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father, and cherished grandfather.  He touched the lives of countless people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Albert is survived by his wife Susan (nee Locker) of Wayne, his daughter Lara Coyle and her husband Greg of Wayne, two granddaughters Mackenzie Coyle and Chelsea Coyle of Wayne, he was predeceased by his brother Alfred Crew Schielke, Jr.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Albert's name may be made to American Lung Association

Albert D. Schielke

Wayne
August 12, 2023

Patricia A. Scialla (nee DeStefano), age 78 of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, August 10, 2023. She has lived in Wayne since 1970.

Pat grew up in Paterson, NJ and was on the Color Guard at Eastside High School before graduating in 1963. She went on to earn her degree from William Paterson College and became a second-grade teacher in the Paterson school system and she also taught briefly at the Mountain View School in Wayne. After taking a few years off to raise her children, she rejoined the workforce as a Pharmaceutical Sales Representative for Mc Neil Pharmaceutical of Fort Washington, PA from 1976-1981 .  From 1981 - 2001 she was employed as a District Sales Manager for Whitehall-Robbins Laboratories in Madison, NJ where after 20 years of service to the company she retired. 

Pat met her husband, Arthur, in the 1990’s on a blind date. Their conversation was easy that night, and minutes turned into hours. Before they knew it, the restaurant was closing, and they agreed to meet again. Pat claimed to have some travel obligations and she was unable to meet Arthur again until the following month. He thought for sure he was getting the ‘brush-off,’ but that wasn’t the case at all. After a few more dates, they fell for each other quickly and true love was revealed. They married on July 15, 2000, at the Paramus Reformed Church and honeymooned at Frontenac, Quebec, Canada. They’ve enjoyed an incredible life together and Arthur’s heart is broken.

Pat is survived by her loving husband, Arthur, of Wayne, their blended family of children; Douglas Bryan and his wife Joan of Avon, Indiana, Thomas Bryan and his wife Linda of Ridgewood, NJ, Arthur Scialla and his wife Julie of Pompton Lakes, Claire Timbas and her husband Greg of Dunbarton, New Hampshire, and Lisa Griggs of Newton, Massachusetts, eleven grandchildren; Jessica, Thomas, William, Grant, Garrett, Dagny, Marshall, Axel, Anthony, William, and Jackson, her brother: Joseph DeStefano and his wife Colleen of Oak Ridge, NJ, and one nephew; John DeStefano. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Patricia's name may be made to St Mary's RC Church

Patricia A. Scialla

Wayne
August 10, 2023

Friends may visit with the family at Calvary Temple, 1111 Preakness Ave., Wayne, on Tuesday, August 15, 2023 from 3-5 PM.  A funeral service will be held at 5 PM, immediately following the visitation.  For those who were unable to attend the service in person, you are invited to click here to watch a recording of the service. A final resting place for Mrs. Pringle, post cremation, will be her birth country in the Federation of St. Kitts and Nevis at a date in the future.

Humie Carletto Pringle (nee Sebastian) was born on November 8, 1928 to Clarice Browne and Joseph Matthew Sebastian, in the Federation of St. Christopher and Nevis, aka, St. Kitts and Nevis. where she spent almost half of her life until she retired, then left for the United States in the 1970’s.  Humie had 13 siblings and grew up in the same household with two of them namely her late sister Violet Sebastian and her late brother Stanley Sebastian.  She was the widow of Samuel Leopold Pringle (of St. Kitts) and was blessed with two children, Vincent Lloyd Pringle (deceased) and Carmen Patricia Wharwood (nee Pringle), with one grandchild Tara-Ann Wharwood.  She has two remaining sisters; Bernice Sebastian of Philadelphia who turns 110 next month and who she would sing with on the phone, and Althea Rogers of Titusville, PA who regularly had long, long sisterly conversations on the phone as recent as a week ago.  Humie was blessed to have many, many nieces and nephews and cousins, are all well loved by her, and simply too many to list.  

To friends and family alike, she was their dear, dear sweet Auntie Humie.  Humie was predeceased by eleven of her siblings. Some who passed within the last 5 to 10 years were the late Sir Cuthbert Sebastian retired Governor of St. Kitts and Nevis and whose dear friend Mildred Jacobs mourns her loss, Elise Marthol married to the late Dr. Francois Marthol of Haiti, Dorette McColman married to Roy McColman of Trinidad and Tobago who also mourns her loss and, Eudora Shaw married to the late Vernon Shaw the 5th President of the island of Dominica.  

Humie just loved to sing to everyone around her and even when no one is around, she can be heard singing away in her room, kitchen, watering the plants and everywhere and anywhere.  She enjoyed humming hymns if she didn’t have her hymnal handy or if she didn’t remember all of the words.  She sang or hummed all the time!  She was grateful to Jesus for being brought up in the Christian faith and for the many gifts and blessings of having a large and caring family.  Her loving greeting or goodbye to all with whom she came into contact was always ‘my darling.

Her personal ministry was to share God’s grace with anyone with whom she came into contact, and she was always praying for those listed on her ever-growing prayer list!  She would leave voice messages with individual prayers tailored for the person for whom she prayed and also sang for countless souls including many Pastors every day.  She learned that some of the pastors would use her prayers and singing of hymns as their devotional for the day.  In the early days of her ministry she would sing her favorite hymns while she played the piano.  She was just a warm tender-hearted classy lady.

Her earliest church experiences were at the Zion Moravian Church in her home country in Basseterre St. Kitts in the Caribbean, where she first learned about God’s grace.  Her passion and love for Christ was fueled by her Mother who ran a Sunday school for the Moravian Church. Humie inherited her mother’s sweet soul and who was a devoted Christian, well loved and respected in her little village of Newtown in Basseterre, St. Kitts. This love for Christ and people in general was made manifest in Humie who touched the soul of anyone with whom she came in contact . She continued to be a faithful follower of Jesus Christ at Calvary Temple in Wayne for many, many years, where she considers everyone there to be among her beloved family.  She would sit in the last few pews on Sundays and many we call her fans would head over to hug her and to see which hat she was wearing with a matching outfit, matching accessories shoes and hand bag.  This classy lady will be dearly missed by the many whose lives she touched.

Humie adopted a nocturnal clock upon retiring from being picked up by car for work at 4 AM to be driven to the airport to her work.  Her meals became breakfast at 4 and dinner later in the evening.  Food played a big part of her life and her refrigerator was known as the annex to the local supermarket with its freezer shelves packed with her favorite meats.  One of my cousins cherished being awakened at 1-2 am to the delicious aroma of well seasoned food cooking for her next day’s dinner.  That time of the night often became the story telling time by sweet Auntie Humie to the influx of visiting guests and family in her home.  Many of her nieces and nephew would find their way down to her kitchen to have dinner late at night and listen to their aunt tell life stories and the history of her family.  The nuggets of information were indeed gold and music to the young ears of her nieces and nephews.  Her legacy is rich with information on family history.  She will be missed dearly.   

She has been the widow of; Samuel Leopold Pringle of St. Kitts for many years, and she lost her son, Vincent Lloyd Pringle who passed in his thirties.  Humie is predeceased by eleven of her siblings. Some who passed within the last 5 to 10 years were the late Sir Cuthbert Sebastian retired Governor of St. Kitts and Nevis and whose dear friend Mildred Jacobs mourns her loss, Elise Marthol married to the late Dr. Francois Marthol of Haiti, Dorette McColman married to Roy McColman of Trinidad and Tobago who also mourns her loss and, Eudora Shaw married to the late Vernon Shaw the 5th President of the island of Dominica. 

Humie is survived by her devoted daughter; Pat Wharwood of Pompton Lakes, one granddaughter; Tara-Ann Wharwood of Daytona Beach, FL and Tara’s close friend Chris Storm, two sisters; Bernice Sebastian of Philadelphia who turns 110 next month and who she would sing with on the phone, and Althea Rogers of Titusville, PA who regularly had long, long sisterly conversations on the phone as recent as a week ago.  To her nieces she was their dear, dear sweet Auntie Humie and a balm when they were hurting.  

In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to the Caribbean Medical Services Association (CMS). This is a 501(c)(3) humanitarian organization whose mission is to provide medical equipment, services and supplies to developing countries in the Caribbean, with priorities extended to St. Kitts in Honor of Humie Pringle’s brother, the late Sir Cuthbert M. Sebastian, along with other dignitaries of the island. We thank you for your thoughtfulness and generosity. Donations can be made online by following this link; CMS Donation Link

or via conventionally to:

Caribbean Medical Services Association

75 Adalia Ave, Tampa FL 33606

Tel: 813-251-8500

TD Bank

Routing # 0670-14822

Account # 42793011

Humie Pringle

Pompton Lakes
August 10, 2023

Donald (Donnie, Don) Ricca, 88 years old, a longtime resident of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully surrounded by his wife, daughter and care giver on Monday, August 7, after a long illness. 

Don was born on July 25, 1935 in Paterson, NJ to Gladys and Guido Ricca (immigrants from Italy). Raised in Haledon, he lived in Wayne for over 65 years. He graduated from Central High School in 1953 and was a member of the Rutgers University Class of 1957 and active member of Delta Upsilon Fraternity. 

Don started his long career in Textiles as a lab technician at Jersey State Chemical Company in Haledon. Through the years, the company changed names and was sold, however, the one constant was Don. He grew with the company and went from lab technician to Salesman where he met his passion and niche. He had the rapport with his customers like no other Salesman. He was sincere, honest, meticulous and compassionate about his work which rewarded him for many years being named their top Salesman. Even after he retired (which he actually never did retire), he continued to maintain his customer base, as Don was the only one they trusted with their orders. He was truly one in a million.

In Don’s spare time, he was an avid reader of suspense novels and had a passion for finances. He would spend hours researching “conservative” investments and discussing them with his hand-picked financial advisors. He enjoyed these activities both in NJ and at his family’s get-away in Cape Cod. For many years Don enjoyed the beautiful scenes, smells, food, and fun on the shores of Cape Cod. He so enjoyed spending time there with his family and through the years with countless visitors. It was truly a paradise for him and for those that shared it with him. Wherever Don was (NJ, NY, MA, RI, or anywhere else), he would always find the “best” restaurants. If Don invited you out to eat, you knew it was going to be an awesome time with lots of good food and lots of smiles.   

Don met the love of his life Marie by chance – through a friend. Neither knew at the time that they would become each other’s best friends, confidants, partners in crime, ying/yang – soul mates for life – but they did. They were married on June 8, 1957 and have not left each other’s side ever since. Known by many as “Donnie & Marie”, they were truly a perfect pair, living their dream life together – through thick and thin. 

Don was a devout Catholic. He was one of the founding parishioners at Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne for 63 years. He and his wife spent many hours volunteering and supporting the OLV parish and the OLV grammar school. 

Putting work, books, finances and food aside (well maybe not food), the most important thing to Don was his family, especially his wife, daughters and grandchildren. Everything he did in life was for them. He made it his mission to never miss an event for his children or grandchildren – from school plays or events to sports (swimming, basketball, softball, football, field hockey, soccer) to dance recitals to graduations to family gatherings (which always included food). He was at them all – always with a smile, an appetite and a camera and positive words of encouragement. 

Don was predeceased by his parents, Gladys and Guido Ricca and his aunt and uncle, Elsie and Joe Giannetti. He is survived by his soul mate and best friend, wife of 66 years, Marie, his two daughters, Deb Ricca, Donna Siconolfi and her husband, Philip Siconolfi; his three grandchildren, Dominic Siconolfi, Marissa Siconolfi, Angelo Siconolfi; and his cousin (more like a brother), Joe Giannetti and his wife Carol and their children and grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and his Goddaughters, Christine Wimberly and Darlene Vazquez and their families; and his nieces and nephews and their families, as well as cousins and other family members; and the hospice nurse, Melanie and the many compassionate caregivers: Claresa, Clajia, Adriana and too many more to mention. Don was truly BLESSED! 

In Lieu of flowers the family requests memorial donations be made in Don’s name to any of these organizations that Don had a passion for and hopefully provide others with hope and cures. St Jude's Children Research Hospital, The Michael J. Fox Foundation, or Tunnel to Towers Foundation

Donald Ricca

Wayne
August 7, 2023

Catherine Lacatena, age 86, of Wayne for fifty-eight years, passed Thursday, August 3, 2023.

Catherine was born to Walter and Lillian Murphy in Paterson. While growing up, she was a Girl Scout and later graduated from St. John’s Cathedral High School where she was a cheerleader for the basketball team. After high school, she worked as a Bell Telephone operator and for the Kearfott Corporation in Totowa. 

Catherine met her husband Tony when they were teenagers in Paterson.  Tony’s car had broken down, and Catherine was passing by with her best friend Betty.  Catherine recalls delightfully that Tony looked like Marlon Brando, and he was strikingly handsome.  She and her girlfriend circled the block a few times to catch a glimpse of him, and she was successful at getting a date.  They went to the movies and then went out for a hotdog.  Their wedding followed on November 15, 1958, at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton. They settled in Paterson before moving to Wayne in 1965.  Together, they raised their nine children and have been blessed with fourteen grandchildren and four great-grandchildren.  Catherine and Tony enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-eight years before Tony’s passing on October 1, 2015.

Catherine was a dedicated Catholic and a parishioner of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne for many years. 

Catherine will be lovingly remembered as a delightful soul with a Winnie the Pooh-like simplicity and sweetness that radiated with every step she took.  She was a devout Catholic who was forgiving, happy, and humble.  She loved all the holidays. As a mother of nine, she had a strong love of family, always had a listening ear, and was the caretaker of all around her. She could be strong in her convictions but did not like conflict.  She appreciated the simplest of kind gestures.  All respected her selflessness and easygoing nature. Her compassion was cherished by all who knew her, and she made the arduous task of raising nine children look easy.  One of her favorite sayings, when you asked her how she was doing, would be “Good, Better, Best, Never Let it Rest Until Your Good is Better and Your Better is Best.” 

Catherine was a great cook whose culinary skills were nothing short of extraordinary. She was known for her expertise in Italian cuisine.  Her ability to cook joy into her lasagna, eggplant and turkey stuffing will be dearly missed. Catherine loved trips to Atlantic City to play slot machines. She also enjoyed travel, cruises, and just going out to dinner. In the autumn of her years, she enjoyed watching game shows and football games on television and chatting the day away on the phone with her sisters. Her love for her Irish heritage was endearing.  Many claim there was a leprechaun behind the twinkle in her eye and her adorable smile.  Her cute demeanor and non-confrontational way added an extra layer of charm, and her presence always brought warmth and joy to the table.

Catherine was the loving wife of the late Anthony Lacatena (d. 2015); loving mother of Mary Contini and her husband Joseph, Catherine Faulkner and her husband Richard, Michael Lacatena, Anthony Lacatena, Nancy Sorrentino and her husband Alfred, Christine Massood and her husband Louis, Lori Phelan and her husband Jim, Theresa Lacatena, and Elizabeth Dowd and her husband Brendan. She was the dearly loved grandmother of fourteen grandchildren; Joseph and his wife Beth Contini, Michelle Contini, Ryan  Faulkner, Alfred and Anthony Sorrentino,  Jordyn, George, and Kimberly Massood, Sean, James, Lauren, and Phoebe Phelan, Lilyana and Ashley Dowd, cherished great-grandmother of four great-grandchildren Oliver, Vivian, Samantha Jo and Amelia Contini; she was dearly loved by her sister Patricia Petrone of Clifton, and her siblings who have already passed Mary Schultz and Daniel Murphy. 

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church, 45 Urban Club Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 or the Bethlehem Hermitage, 82 Pleasant Hill Road, Chester, NJ 07930. 

Catherine Lacatena

Wayne
August 3, 2023

Marion Costanzo age 89, of Montville passed away on Thursday, August 3, 2023.

Marion was born to Evelyn and Anthony Heller. She was a teacher’s aide in the Montville School System where she truly loved being in the classroom with the students. Marion was also an active member of the Montville Senior Citizens community and frequently volunteered there in her spare time. When relaxing Marion especially enjoyed the challenge of a good crossword puzzle or word search.

Marion is survived by and will be sincerely missed by her dear son August and his wife Monica, her cherished grandchildren August, Jr., Tiffany, Nicole and Brian, all of Wayne, and her sister Muriel Wiesgarda of Florida. She was predeceased by her other siblings.

Donations in Marion’s honor to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105, would be appreciated.

Marion Costanzo

Montville
August 3, 2023

Patricia (Pat) Gerne, 90 years old, passed away surrounded by her family on August 2nd.  

Pat was born to William and Mildred Griffin in Queens, NY. After graduating early from High School, she attended St. Vincent's School of Nursing in NYC where she earned her RN and then worked in their Emergency Department. 

Pat met the love of her life, Tim, on a blind date. He knew immediately that SHE was the one. After marrying her beloved husband, she became a full-time super mom having 9 children in 10 years. Pat and Tim celebrated the arrival of number 10 several years later. Her calm demeanor and the skills she learned in the ER came in handy while raising her children. 

After 17 years of being a full-time mom, she went back to work part time as a nurse at Straight & Narrow/Mount Carmel Guild, Paterson NJ. Pat spent her time there helping people with substance abuse disorders.  To better serve her clients, Pat went on to further her education and became a Certified Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor (CADC). She had an extensive background in the field of addiction treatment and prevention. Pat continued her work as a counselor at the ARTS and Center for Family Resources working with families in Head Start. 

Pat and Tim were a loving and devoted team for 46 years allowing them to accomplish remarkable things. The two co-authored two books, Substance Abuse Prevention Activities for Elementary Children and Substance Abuse Prevention Activities for Secondary Students Grades 7-12. They presented many in-service workshops on prevention and resilience nationally. They also spearheaded the Peer Leadership camp at William Paterson College.

Pat was an active volunteer.  She worked at the Governor’s Council with Christy Todd Whitman, Year of the Resilient Child and volunteered for organizations including BirthRight, Pre-cana, Fresh Air Fund, and she was a board member for Wayne Counseling and Homecare Options. 

Pat was a curious, intelligent, and very creative person. She was an optimist who loved life and lived a life of gratitude. Pat was a lifelong learner and had a wonderful sense of humor. She was a strong woman who was ahead of her time.  She practiced Transcendental Meditation for 50 years and enrolled her entire family in meditation classes too.  She was a great listener who stopped everything to give her full attention to whoever needed it.  Pat made motherhood look easy.   She was a calming influence and would always give sound advice.  She was the go-to person for guidance in almost any situation. She was a gifted writer and editor. Pat edited more essays and academic papers than most professors.  

Pat was a deeply Spiritual and compassionate woman. Her Spirituality was ever present throughout her home.  There were always quotes of inspiration around the house from Mother Theresa to Erma Bombeck.  She and Tim were members of Our Lady of the Valley and Immaculate Heart of Mary attending daily mass. In addition to daily mass, the two were members of IHM’s “Oatmeal Club”. She most recently attended remote Mass at Our Lady of Consolation. 

Her home was always filled with love, joy, and lots of activity. Gathering around the table was a special time to unwind and discuss the day with family (and friends).  Hospitality was paramount, there was always room for one more, including a stray animal or two. Pat had a nurturing spirit. She loved and was like a surrogate mother to many of her children’s friends. Every holiday and birthday was cause for celebration. Her heart was BIG. She taught her children to love God and each other, to embrace others who are different, to be tolerant, understanding, forgiving and to lean in with love.  

The best gift she gave her children was EACH OTHER and she left an awesome legacy of a successful loving marriage.

She will be missed greatly, but her spirit and ‘pearls of wisdom’ will live on through her children, grandchildren, and those who loved her. 

Predeceased by her beloved husband, Timothy A. Gerne, Pat and Tim were blessed with 10 children Mary (Dennis) Rosati, Tim (Brandy) Gerne, Jean Gerne (Scott Collins), Eileen (Paul) Ciavarella, Kathy (Bruce) Fieggen, Margaret (Tim) Peschel, Donna (Jeff) Huber, Dan (Cheryl) Gerne, Rosemary (Billy) Acampora, and Michael (Lisa) Gerne, 34 grandchildren, 19 great grandchildren  and her loving caregiver Anjing Stratton.

For those who like to view the livestream of the memorial mass, please click the link below: 

https://youtube.com/live/5ujMi8BMbLQ?feature=share

Pat Gerne

Wayne
August 2, 2023

Paul N. Rosa, age 76, of Hackettstown, NJ, passed away on July 31, 2023, after a lengthy battle with cancer.

Paul was born on November 13, 1946, to Lawrence and Theresa Rosa in Passaic, NJ. Paul graduated from Passaic High School in 1965, he went on to study at William Penn College where he graduated in 1969 with a BA Degree in Sociology. After graduating college, Paul served in the US Army as a Specialist 5 Sargent from 1970 to 1971 and Honorably Discharged in 1971. After serving his country, Paul received his master’s degree in 1980 from William Paterson College with a degree in Urban Education/Community Affairs.

Paul started his working career in 1972 with the Superior Court Of New Jersey. Paul worked in several divisions in his 30-year career assisting attorneys and judges with pre-trial services. The New Jersey Supreme Court appointed Paul to direct and coordinate pre-trial intervention services for the Supreme Court Criminal Division. He was well respected by attorneys, judges, and his peers. Paul retired in 2002. 

Paul is survived by his wife Gail (Nolan) Rosa. Paul and Gail met in 1983 and married in 1988. Paul and Gail’s marriage was blessed with three children, Christopher Rosa, his wife Paula of Hackettstown, NJ. William Taylor, his wife Kelly of Bradenton, FL. Michael Taylor and his wife Amanda of Wake Forest, NC. Paul was also blessed with nine grandchildren, Grant, and Gavin Rosa. Gracie, Mia, Brayden, and Casey Taylor. Michael, Aiden, and Avery Taylor.

Paul was predeceased by his father, Lawrence Rosa and survived by his mother Theresa (DiDonna) Rosa. 

Paul enjoyed spending time with his family, friends, relatives, and especially his cousins. He also cherished his time with his grandchildren. Paul enjoyed many trips with Gail to the Florida Keys, fishing trips to the Jersey Shore, attending Yankees and Giants games with his sons, old time movies and The Honeymooners. Paul was loyal to his wife, family, and friends. His sense of humor was enjoyed by everyone who met him.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made at The American Cancer Society, PO Box 42040 Oklahoma City, OK 73123 www.cancer.org or St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 www.stjude.org 

Paul Nicholas Rosa

Hackettstown
July 31, 2023

Annette Avolio, age 72, of Wayne, passed Monday, July 31, 2023.

She was born to Americo and Filomena Malanga and raised at 174 Pine Street in Montclair. When Annette was in the sixth grade her family moved to 48 Kossuth Place in Wayne. Annette raised her family just around the corner at 7 Falcon Place in Wayne and has lived in Wayne for over sixty years.

She will be lovingly remembered as a selfless person who would do anything for anyone. She just couldn’t bring herself to say “no” and would do her best to accommodate even if it meant being in two places at once. She was the kind of person who would fuss over you but did not want any fussing or attention on her behalf.

Annette was a dedicated and devoted daughter, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend. She took care of her parents through their autumn years and until both of their passing away in 2019. Her favorite place in the world to be was at home. Whether it was caring for her children, parents, or grandchildren, she was most content to be at home in Wayne.

Annette had a love and passion for teaching. She worked for the Immaculate Heart of Mary School in Wayne as a librarian, a Para-Professional, and then a Language Arts teacher at George Washington Middle School in Wayne, and Anthony Wayne Middle School in Wayne having retried in June of 2022. For years she ran the Student Council at Anthony Wayne Middle School and was often a chaperone when needed. Annette was an old-school teacher who loved the chalkboard and textbooks but struggled with new technology. When it came to computers and cell phones she relied on her grandchildren’s help.

Family was everything to Annette and her grandchildren meant everything to her. She was always available to pick them up, drop them off, attended all their sporting events and any extra-curricular activity they were involved with. She was also dedicated to her brother Richard and in his youth she has drove him and his friends wherever they had to go, and more recently has helped him with his books at Malanga Automotive in Riverdale.

Annette was an awesome cook whose specialties include: Sunday gravy (not sauce), blueberry ice box cake, cream puffs, knot cookies, spice cookies, chicken cutlets, lasagna, and cheesecake made from her mother’s recipe. For many years the family had a tradition of having Sunday dinners with the entire family.

 

Another important part of her life was her Catholic faith.  Annette was a regular at 8:00 AM Sunday Mass.  She always sat in the last row closer to the isle so that she could exit the church once communion was served.

Annette was the loving mother of Louis Avolio and his wife Marisa of Wayne and Phylissa Gallotta and her husband Rocco of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Joseph Avolio, Louis Avolio, Michael Avolio, Rocco Gallotta, and Liana Gallotta; loved sister of Richard Malanga of Riverdale; dearly loved aunt of Nicholas Malanga.

Annette Avolio

Wayne
July 31, 2023

Carmen N. Miele, age 78 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, July 30, 2023.

Carmen was born and raised in Paterson where he was a graduate of Eastside High School with the Class of 1962. 

From quite a young age, Carmen worked for his father Nicholas’ trucking company Miele’s Express which originated in Paterson. The love of trucks and trucking quickly got into Carmen’s blood and after he finished high school,  he made trucking his life’s ambition working full-time in the family business. When it was time for his father to retire, Carmen took over and throughout the ensuing years, moved the business first to Railroad Ave in Wayne, and later to Little Falls. Miele’s Express was primarily contracted to deliver appliances and their motto, which was painted on all their trucks was “Fast, Dependable Service.” When Carmen turned 65, he retired but soon after took a job hauling asphalt for a local paving company. He always expressed how much he loved the smell of asphalt!

Carmen’s greatest loves included evenings watching The Sopranos, Sundays watching NASCAR and cheering on his two favorite drivers, Dale Earnhardt, Jr. and Martin Truex, Jr., and going with his beloved wife Arleen to Atlantic City to test his luck, mostly on the slot machines, at Trump Casino and Resorts and Showboat Casinos. When the truck show in Englishtown came along every year, Carmen would take one of his own trucks, detail and shine it up, and head to the show where he’d enter his truck into the competitions. He loved that truck show and enjoyed the camaraderie of all his fellow truckers. Full retirement came after COVID. With time to burn, he frequently enjoyed  going with his buddy J.B. to one of the local diners for breakfast. 

Above all else, Carmen’s greatest joy was being with his family. Carmen met his wife Arleen while delivering to an appliance store where Arleen worked in the office. He took a liking to her  and was the first to volunteer to deliver to her store just so he’d have an excuse to see her again. Carmen eventually mustered up the courage and asked Arleen out. Their first date was to a restaurant on a mountain called the Red Apple Rest in Mahwah. That date was followed by numerous others and eventually to marriage on Saturday, November 21, 1964 followed by a honeymoon in Miami Beach, Florida. For many years it was family tradition to get together at Carmen’s parent’s house or Arleen’s parent’s house for Sunday dinner. When his three children were young, the family enjoyed annual trips to Lake George. They also vacationed all over Pennsylvania, in Mystic, Connecticut, in Virginia, and they took several trips to Disney World. He and Arleen one time visited Las Vegas and they also enjoyed a trip together to the Bahamas and, for the last eight years to Orlando or Bradenton, Florida. When blessed with his grandson Nicholas, Carmen and Arleen enjoyed taking him to Turtleback Zoo and to the park. He also enjoyed seeing his “grand-dogs” and one of them in particular – George – would often hang out with him at the warehouse and go on the trucks with him. Carmen also loved to go out for dinner with his family. Favorite foods were lasagna, baked ziti, meatball parmigiana and eggplant parmigiana and favorite restaurants were John’s in Butler, Michelle’s in Garfield, and Libby’s Lunch in Paterson.

Carmen was an easy going, easy-to-like man. He loved talking with people and had no problem making friends wherever he went. For the past few years, health concerns including a battle with cancer made life a challenge but, through it all, Carmen remained optimistic and friendly. Now he is at rest and, while he will surely be missed, his family and friends are grateful that his suffering is over and thankful for the years they were blessed to share many happy memories.   

Carmen was the beloved husband of Arleen (Kanischak), blessed in marriage for 58 years. He was the loving father of: Christina Conklin and her husband Dennis of Butler, Laura Miele and her husband Michael Squeeze of Butler, and the late David Miele who passed away in 2022; cherished grandfather of Nicholas; and dear brother of Marion Skaf and late husband Rich of Bloomingdale.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carmen’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

American Cancer Society

To donate by mail, simply click here to complete the form, print it, and mail your completed donor form with your check to this address:

P.O. Box 6704

Hagerstown, MD 21741

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Carmen Miele

Wayne Animal Shelter

201 Pompton Plains Crossroad

Wayne, NJ 07470

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Carmen Miele

Carmen Miele

Wayne
July 30, 2023

Nigel Greene, Jr.,  age 33, of Newark, passed Sunday, July 30, 2023.

He was born to Nigel and Norleen Greene in New Amsterdam, Guyana.  

Nigel Greene

Wayne
July 30, 2023

Scott Michael Weiss died suddenly at his home in Wayne, New Jersey on July 29th, 2023.  

Scott was born on October 28th, 1967, in Livingston, New Jersey. He was the beloved son of Ronald and Deborah Weiss, devoted husband to Sharon Noll and loving father to Justin and Kristen Weiss, cherished brother of Mark Weiss, and adored uncle of Danielle and Michael Drago and Rachel and Jared Weiss.

Scott's untimely passing will leave a huge void for all those who knew and loved him.  An accomplished technical engineer, Scott was most recently working at Calix as a Senior Sales Engineer. He graduated from Widener University in 1990 with a degree in Computer Science where he met his partner in life, his wife Sharon. In addition to his primary job, Scott also loved being a small business owner and was happiest when he was interacting with his customers.

Scott had a zest for life and loved to laugh. He was a technology buff and could build and fix anything. He was loving and kind; he loved animals, and nothing was more important to him than his family. His smile, laugh and sense of humor will be deeply missed.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making memorial contributions in Scott’s name to St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center.

Scott Weiss

Wayne
July 29, 2023

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