Marie A. Hess, 76, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home while in the loving presence of her dear family. 

Born and raised in Paterson, Marie was the daughter of Alexander and Frances (LaPuzz) Vitale.

After graduating from Eastside High School in Paterson with the Class of 1965, Marie attended William Paterson College which today is known as William Paterson University. She earned a degree in biology and started a career in healthcare as a licensed practical nurse at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson. She later ran an electron microscope at Sloan Kettering Hospital in New York City and worked as a histologic technician at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx, NY. Marie’s professional journey eventually led her to the field of education. She earned her teacher certification at William Paterson University and taught at Mary Help of Christian Academy (MHCA) in North Haledon. Marie was an excellent educator who demonstrated enthusiastic advocation for all of her students. As the school’s director of Healthcare Connections, she was successful in securing medical internships for many students expressing career interests in healthcare. By the time she retired in 2022, her twenty-year career as an educator earned her the love, respect and admiration of students and colleagues alike.

Marie was the beloved wife of David Hess. They met when Marie came into David’s father’s optician’s practice as a patient. Their first date was to the former Paris Inn in Wayne. They soon fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises at the former Wayne Manor in Wayne. After a honeymoon in Disney World Marie and David began married life together in Pompton Lakes. They later lived in West Paterson before moving their home in Wayne where they remained to the present. They were truly blessed by the birth of their daughter Carly. 

Marie’s leisure-time interests were numerous and varied. As a young woman she traveled to Italy and Ireland and was an avid horseback rider. She loved fishing off the jetties down the Jersey Shore and taking care of her freshwater fish tanks at home. Tending to her vegetables proved to be a great time of relaxation which also brought the reward of fresh makings for cooking. 

Above all else, Marie’s greatest love and devotion was to her family. She and David and Carly took regular trips to Mohegan Sun Casino in Connecticut and Marie and David celebrated twenty-five years of marriage with a trip to Las Vegas. Marie adored her two grand-nieces Olivia and Maddison. She spent as much time as she could with them and loved spoiling them. 

Marie was a beautiful, loving and kind person who would do anything to help a friend in need. She touched the lives of many and will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her. 

Marie was the beloved wife of David Hess, blessed in marriage for 41 years. She was the precious mother of Carly Hess of Wayne; dearly loved daughter of her late father Alexander (1995) and her loving mother Frances of Wayne; dear sister of her late brother Alexander (1958) and her sister Linda Romanyschyn and husband John of Bloomingdale; dear godmother of Kristen Allemand and husband Scott; and doting great-aunt of Olivia and Maddison.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marie’s memory are asked to consider: 

Salesian Sisters of Mary Help of Christian

659 Belmont Avenue

North Haledon, NJ 07508

Please send your gifts to the attention of Sister Mary Rinaldi and indicate that it’s in memory of Marie Hess.  

Michelle DeBlasi (nee Atieh), age 71, of Pompton Plains, NJ, passed peacefully at home after a long cancer journey, Wednesday, December 20, 2023. She was surrounded with so much love and left this world with family at her side, and her hands held tight. 

Beloved wife of Frank DeBlasi; loving mother to Melissa and son-in-law Seth Hurley, and Jessica DeBlasi, all of Pompton Plains and Grammy to Tyler and Rebecca. Michele is survived by her siblings, Michael, Dennis, Denise, Charles, Evelyn, and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Born in Paterson, she moved to Wayne at the age of 10. After marriage, she lived first in Highland Lakes, then the Lionshead Lake section of Wayne, and eventually settling in Pompton Plains.

After graduating from Wayne Valley High School in 1969, she worked as a secretary for the American Cyanamid Corporation in Wayne for 25 years until starting her family. Michelle was a stay-at-home mom, selling Tupperware, being President of the Home and School Association, and working part-time for many years at Sun Tan Lake in Riverdale, running their summer day camp, company picnics and working Haunted Hayrides in the Fall.

In 1997, she started working at the American Society of Mechanical Engineers (ASME) in the Accounting Department, where she stayed until she retired in January 2019. For many years she ran the ASME annual bus trips to Atlantic City, coordinating a fun party bus with snacks, sandwiches, bloody marys and jello shots.

Michelle met Frank while she was bowling for the American Cyanamid Corporation’s Thursday Night Bowling League at Holiday Bowl in Oakland. Their first date was at the Hayden Planetarium at the Museum of Natural History in New York City. Frank proposed at Chan’s Hawaii Restaurant in Mahwah, and they were married on November 24, 1974, at Saint Ann Melkite Catholic Church in West Paterson. They honeymooned at the Fontainebleau Hotel in Miami, Florida. They loved vacationing at The Flamingo Hotel in Las Vegas, where you could always find Michelle at the slots or pool. They had a loving and devoted marriage of forty-nine years.

Being a mother was the greatest blessing for Michelle. She would go to the ends of the world for her girls if she needed to. Michelle would express her love not only with a standard, “I love you,” but would do so in other unique ways like, “it’s raining, be careful the leaves are slick,” “call me when you get home,” “because I said so,” and “I’m buying.” She mostly loved the simple times with Melissa and Jessica, like going to the movie theater on Tuesday nights, having breakfasts at the diner, lunches at Sushi Village and dinners at Hibachi, shopping at Kohl’s, playing Hollywood Rummy, and soaking in the joys of quality togetherness.

Lovingly known as Grammy, Michelle would sing different holiday versions of the traditional nursey rhyme, Christmas Is Coming, with her grandchildren, Tyler and Rebecca. Not a day went by where she didn’t see them in person or on FaceTime calls hours apart. Always the card-shark, she taught them how to play War and they taught her Trash. The kids fondly remember beach weekends bringing her buckets of water under the canopy to keep her cool, and remember each birthday of theirs would bring cards with money in denominations of their corresponding age. Michelle would say that her grandkids were the gas in her tank.

Most would define Michelle as a ray of sunshine, someone who would never speak badly of another, and one of the strongest women they know. She beat breast cancer in 1992, and was diagnosed again in 2013, later receiving the news of metastasis in 2017. She was a warrior and fighter, and despite her long battle, Michelle was the embodiment of positivity, always smiling and never complaining. Because of her bubbly personality, she was always the first one to say hello; her genuine interest in others made every encounter feel like a cherished moment. Her outgoing nature transformed strangers into friends, leaving an indelible mark on every heart she touched. Michelle loved watching Hallmark movies and singing competition shows and running an American Idol pool, doing Word Search puzzles, playing iPad casino games with her grandchildren, and being with her family. Her most favorite thing to do was spend summer weekends down the shore in Seaside Heights, eating butterfly fries and playing Pass the Trash and Left Right Center in the shorehouse kitchen with her siblings and family. Her care and love for family could be found just inside her front door, with a display of family photos lining the staircase wall, and always ensuring there was dinner on the table at 6:00pm throughout her children’s up-bringing. She enjoyed 45 years of tenting and pop-up camper trips every Memorial and Labor Day, laughing alongside her camping buddies as they played “I’m going on a picnic” around a roaring campfire. It was Michelle who started the “Thursday night dinner” ritual at her parents’ house, a long-standing tradition that continued for generations.

Michelle will be lovingly remembered for her signature dance moves, her crumb cake and her life mottos: “everything happens for a reason” and “keep the faith.”

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Janice Mary (Regan) Puntasecca, age 58, passed away on Tuesday, December 19, 2023 with the comfort of family at her side. 

Janice was born to John and Mary Regan on December 23, 1964 in Paterson, New Jersey. She was a graduate of DePaul Catholic High School in Wayne. 

Janice was an instinctive nurturer. She devoted her career to teaching, most recently working at Young Scholars Academy in Wyckoff, New Jersey. Driven to earn her college degree, she graduated from The University of Massachusetts Amherst with a bachelor’s degree in early childhood development in 2019.

Janice married her high school sweetheart, Anthony Puntasecca. They enjoyed a commited and love-filled marriage of 29 years until Anthony’s passing in 2015. 

Janice was loving, caring, and above all, devoted to her family. She is survived by her children: Linda and her husband Craig, Michael, and Christopher and his wife Monica. She is also survived by her three grandchildren, Julia, Shaelagh, and Reagan, as well as her three siblings, John, Patricia, and Michael.

Memorial donations may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center.

Augustine “Augie” Albino, age 60, of Milton, Delaware and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, December 18, 2023.  His family is deeply saddened by his sudden passing. 

Augie was born on May 7, 1963 in Brooklyn, NY to Joseph and Rosemarie (Centra) Albino. After a brief time in the US Navy, he started his first business, Exclusive Towing. Augie began his career with Local 6A Concrete Cement Workers Union and remained with the union until retirement. He was a dedicated, hard worker with a strong work ethic. He took part in the construction of many buildings that are part of  the NY skyline today and he enjoyed the camaraderie he shared with his co-workers. 

Augie was a great cook! Everyone loved his Sunday sauce and meatballs.

He was an avid football fan, loved playing  the card game Let it Ride and his all-time favorite was doing his scratch offs. Augie's jokes and smiles made everyone's life brighter.

In 2012, Augie met Lisa Jensen, his forever love, and they wed in 2013. After a short time living in the East Village in NYC, they settled down in Wayne, NJ where they resided for 9 years with their dog Bear. While living in Wayne, Augie enjoyed throwing backyard barbecues, pool parties, and hosting family holiday dinners. Every summer he took pride in taking care of his in-ground pool for everyone else to enjoy. In 2022, he and Lisa moved to Delaware and took pleasure in the calmer life enjoying the beaches, fishing, crabbing and walking  through  the state parks with their four-legged children. His Godendoodles were his loyal companions. His buddy Sonny was always by his side and Charley was his big baby. His previous dogs, Buster and Bear, have been waiting to be reunited with their caring owner. Their wait is now over.

Augie was the loving husband and will be greatly missed by his beloved wife Lisa and their dogs.   

Augie was the proud father of Anthony, Tommy, Dylan and fiancé Rachel, and Samantha. He is also survived by his father Joseph, stepmother Ginny, brother Joe, sister Tracy, brother Frank and his wife Lucy, Paul and his wife Mari, and his number one favorite sister Natalie.

Augie loved and took great pleasure in being an uncle to his many nephews and nieces: Justina and her husband Herbert, Sally Ann and her husband Cosimo, Frankie, Sophia, Candace and Raymond, Nicole and her husband Nick, Maddie, Hannah, Zachary, Brandon, Devin, Shane and Kaden. Augie also took great delight in being a great-uncle to Rocco, Olivianna ,Eva, Kamden, Vincent and Dean.

He was predeceased by his mother Rosemarie “Candy”, his father Tom, and his maternal grandfather Augustine. 

Augie had a heart of gold that touched many lives with his boundless care and compassion. We will always love and miss you until we meet again. 

If you would like to honor Augie by making a memorial contribution in his name, please consider one of the following charities:

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Alan Purcell Wayne Animal Shelter

201 Pompton Plains Crossroads (Jackson Ave Extension)

Wayne, NJ 07470

973-694-0767

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

FUNERAL LIVESTREAM: the mass on Saturday will be livestreamed for anyone who wishes to watch. You can connect to the livestream on the homepage of the church website; www.ihmwaynenj.org. Click the link at the bottom of this obituary to connect at 10 AM, Saturday, Dec. 23.

Mary Katherine Mahon passed away at the age of 88 on December 17, 2023.

Mary was born in Brooklyn, NY to William Horan and Mary Ritter Horan on October 3, 1935. 

She met her future husband, Brendan in Brooklyn as they lived in the same neighborhood as teenagers, and he fell in love with her beautiful blue eyes and her sweetness.  Mary and Brendan married on June 29, 1957.  Prior to raising their family, Mary was a secretary for the Naval Department in Brooklyn.

Mary and Brendan moved several times before moving to Packanack Lake Road in Wayne, NJ and were long time parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.

Mary was the sweetest, kindest person you could ever meet.  She would do things for others and keep it to herself because she didn’t want any praise.  She was loved by so many, and she truly loved everyone in return. She demonstrated a genuine respect for all people, as if blind to any sort of bias, judgement, or preconceived notions. She simply loved people in the most admirable of ways, perhaps as God intended us to love one another.

She was the loving wife of Brendan T. Mahon for 56 years, devoted and loving mother of Brendan Mahon and his wife Kanchan of Vestale, NY, Patricia Mortensen and her husband Chris of Wayne, Theresa Nicoletti of Toms River, Dr. James Mahon and his wife Robin of Sparta, and Francis Mahon and his wife Lauren of Katy, TX; cherished Nana to her eight grandchildren:  Ron, Leela, Asha, Alexander, Ashley, Kiara, Megan and Owen Mahon.  Devoted sister, aunt and friend to everyone. 

Mary was pre-deceased by her daughter Judith (1966) when she was 3 days old, her husband Brendan Mahon (2013), her brother Michael Horan (2014) and her sister Margaret Gallo (2016) and her son in law Frank Nicoletti (2020).

In lieu of flower please donate to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, www.stjude.org.

FUNERAL LIVESTREAM: the mass on Saturday will be livestreamed for anyone who wishes to watch. You can connect to the livestream on the homepage of the church website; www.ihmwaynenj.org. 

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of MaryAnn Gibney (née Caruso), age 86, of Wayne, NJ. MaryAnn passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, December, 16, 2023, while in the loving care of her family.

MaryAnn was born in Dunmore, Pa, to Louis and Mary Caruso. She was always an enthusiastic student who excelled in school. At the age of 14, MaryAnn’s family relocated to New Jersey where MaryAnn continued to excel academically. She graduated high school as class salutatorian and continued her education at Kean College where she earned her Bachelor’s degree in elementary education and graduated with honors. Upon graduation, she quickly found a job teaching second grade in East Orange, NJ.

While on a rare night out with girl friends, MaryAnn unexpectedly met a handsome and outgoing man by the name of George Gibney. George thought MaryAnn was a “knock out”. They started dating and married on July 8, 1961 at the Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church in Paterson, NJ.

After starting a family, George built MaryAnn a home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they happily lived for nearly twenty years. When they outgrew their home on Pine Terrace, George built them a home in the Valley section where they lived together for many years. 

MaryAnn was a resilient and devoted mother who, without complaining, took on the role of caregiver for her disabled son. She clearly saw his intelligence and academic potential and unwaveringly advocated for his educational rights. She was always his biggest supporter, and he credits her with his success.

MaryAnn was an avid reader with a passion for knowledge. She especially loved history and knew many obscure and fascinating facts. She never failed to dazzle with her knowledge of European history. Her ability to retain information was impressive. Even as adults, her children felt she knew everything about everything.

MaryAnn loved to travel. She kept notebooks with meticulous details of all the vacations she and George took. When anybody needed help planning a trip, MaryAnn was the go-to person. She would eagerly write up a detailed itinerary for anybody who asked. George and MaryAnn traveled all over the US, Europe and the Middle East. 

In addition to travel, MaryAnn was a master puzzler. She always had a jig saw puzzle on the table, and she loved to work on it with her grandchildren. She also did the Wall Street Journal crossword everyday and kept special crossword pencils. MaryAnn was also a talented seamstress and cook. She made many memorable Italian and Syrian meals for her family and friends.

Not only was MaryAnn was dedicated to her family, she was also dedicated to her Catholic faith. She never missed mass, not even when traveling. She was an active parishioner of Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church since 1961. She was the cherished wife of George for fifty-three years of a loving marriage filled with wonderful memories. Her greatest joy was becoming a grandmother. Known as Ma by her five grandchildren, she had a special bond with each of them. MaryAnn’s calm nature, strength and quiet determination was inspiring.

She will be missed by everyone who knew her.

Surviving are her devoted daughters, Susan and her husband Frank Dipre of Wayne; Georgene and her husband Anthony O’Loughlin of Wayne; her dear son Joseph of Wayne; beloved grandchildren Caroline, Alexandra and Luke Dipre and Niamh and Liam O’Loughlin; dear sister Madeline Cittadino of Lafayette; and many nieces, nephews and cousins. MaryAnn was predeceased by her loving husband George in 2014 and her cherished sister Bess Byrouty in 2009.

In lieu of flowers, donations in MaryAnn’s name may be made to Sacred Heart Armenian Catholic Church, 155 Long Hill Rd, Little Falls, NJ 07424. 

Timothy O’Neill, age 61, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, December 16, 2023. 

Tim was born in Mt. Kisco, NY to William and Patricia O’Neill. His family moved around a bit during his early childhood, but they eventually found Wayne, NJ and made it their home. Tim attended and graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1980 before continuing his education at Stockton State where he graduated with a degree in Finance. 

Tim was incredibly devoted to his professional career. He engrossed himself in his work and quickly became an employee that was irreplaceable. His early career saw him working at multiple different establishments. Tim was highly sought after and once he moved onto another job the previous would try to attract him back. He was just that good of an employee. He worked his way up the career ladder before he settled in working for WebMD for the last 10 years.

Tim will be remembered as being outgoing and loved by all. He was funny, witty, a bit of a science fiction geek, and most of all - extremely generous. He was reliable and someone who you could always turn to if you needed a helping hand. His friends and family remarked that he was notorious for always trying to take the bill after dinner to make sure he could pay for everyone. 

Beyond anything, Tim was a great and loving uncle. He will be greatly missed by his 6 nieces and nephews who all have fond memories traveling and celebrating life’s events with their Uncle Tim. 

David M. Brink age 68 of Wayne died on Friday, December 15, 2023.

He was born in Decatur, IL, and lived in New Jersey most of his life, including Toms River, Bloomfield, and Wayne for more than 30 years. David graduated high school in 1974, Bergen Community College, and Montclair State University with a B.S. in Computer Science. He was a U.S. Army veteran (cryptologic analyst) and spent most of his career in Information Technology, as an instructor and consultant. David was retired from Hewlett-Packard and Solutions3. After his retirement, he began a hobby refurbishing furniture, bikes, wheelbarrows, and other home items.

David met his dear wife Karen (predeceased in 2013) at a United States Army reception in Fair Lawn. Both had enlisted in the Army and were in a waiting period before their initial assignments. They kept in touch with letters over the years as they were stationed far apart. They were re-united when they were stationed close together in Texas. Their letter relationship turned into love and David proposed marriage at a Texas Military Base. Karen accepted and they were married on June 30, 1979 at Our Lady of Sorrows RC Church in Garfield New Jersey. They honeymooned at the Jersey Shore and enjoyed 33 years of a loving and devoted marriage.

David was dedicated member of the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne, where he was a member for more than 25 years. David was an active church participant, a church elder, and part of the Helping Hands group, who meet weekly to perform church facility functions. David was also known for his love of cars, birds, his yard, and Billie Jean (his granddog)!

He was the loving husband of Karen Brink (predeceased in 2013); devoted father of Lauren and her husband Sean Halloran of Weehawken; devoted father of Kristen and her husband Daniel Flores of MD; beloved grandfather of Owen Flores; beloved brother of Barbara Sweezy of ME and Katy Geiger of FL.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne (www.preaknessreformed.org) or International Waldenstroms Macroglobulinemia Foundation (www.iwmf.com) would be appreciated.

Maryann Zientek (nee Clarke), age 68, of Bushkill, PA, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 13, 2023.

Born in Bayonne, NJ, Maryann was one of five children to Joseph and Claire Clarke. The family spent their summers  vacationing at the beach in Lavalette, which were some of Maryann’s fondest memories. Not long after graduating from Bayonne High School she met Paul and the two married July 9, 1977.

Maryann dreamed of becoming a mother and that dream was fulfilled when her and Paul welcomed their daughter Stacy, followed by their son Christopher three years later. Her role as a mother was a vital part of her identity and she took great pride in attending cheerleading competitions, basketball games, and baseball games when her children were growing up.

Years later, Maryann and Paul built a beautiful home in Bushkill, PA where they have resided for the last  25+ years. As an empty-nester, she took comfort in the company of her dogs Samber, Snowball, and Marley and she was always eager and excited to watch her grandpups, Mocha and Coco.

Maryann was ecstatic to watch her family expand with the addition of her son-in-law Rich and her daughter-in-law Kristin, but her greatest joy was becoming a grandmother. Max, Lucas, Tyler, and Daniel were her world, her life, her everything. She spoiled them with love, attention, toys, and junk food. Whether it was Sunday Zoom calls or Disney Cruises, she made sure that she spent time with “her boys” and in turn, they adored her. She will be deeply and forever missed.

Maryann is survived by her husband Paul, her dear daughter Stacy Puchalik and her husband Rich, her beloved son Christopher Zientek and his wife Kristin, her beautiful grandchildren Max and Lucas Puchalik and Tyler and Daniel Zientek, her sister Patricia Radomski and her husband Alexander, her sister Diane Clarke, her brother Robert Clarke and his wife Britt. Maryann is preceded in death by her parents Joseph and Claire Clarke, and her brother Joseph Clarke, Jr.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arlene Louise Meringer (nee Van DeMoere), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Arlene passed away peacefully on Wednesday December 13, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  She was born in Paterson, NJ and was the only child to Louis and Claire Van DeMoere.  Arlene spent her formative years in Fair Lawn, NJ.  While she was a teenager, her family moved to Paterson where she attended Eastside High School.  While a student at Eastside High, Arlene was a Drum Majorette with the Eastside High School Marching Band.  Arlene was a vibrant and determined young girl and emerged as a standout student at Eastside HS.  Her teachers recognized her tenaciousness and her leadership skills and encouraged Arlene to embark on a journey in the world of business.  

Following her graduation from Eastside High School with the class of 1948, Arlene found employment quickly as a secretary at the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company.  She worked for Metropolitan Life before accepting another position as a secretary at Dumont Company in Oradell, NJ.  While employed at Dumont, Arlene worked alongside a handsome young man by the name of Joseph Meringer, an Electronics Technician.  Arlene and Joseph got to know each other well and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on October 14, 1951 Arlene and Joseph became husband and wife.  The couple exchanged wedding vows in St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes.  

Arlene and Joseph, having married made a home in Oakland for two years, then the couple relocated to Wayne Township in 1953 where they remained for the rest of their lives together and raised their four sons, James, William, Donald, and Mark.   

Shortly after getting married, Arlene made the heartfelt decision to transition into the role of a homemaker, embracing the joys and responsibilities of creating a warm and nurturing home for her family.  After her children had grown, Arlene decided to re-enter the workforce and took a part-time job at Meyer’s Department Store in Wayne.  

Arlene, a compassionate and devoted mother, dedicated her life to the ongoing care for her special needs son, Mark, while simultaneously serving as a member, treasurer, and long-time president of the North Haledon Association for Exceptional Children, tirelessly advocating for support of the community, and providing year-round activities for special needs children.

Those who knew Arlene best, knew that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Arlene than spending time with and providing for her family.  Arlene and Joseph cherished more than fifty years of loving and loyal marriage together until Joseph’s passing in 2002.  Through the years, Arlene treasured her yearly two-week vacations at Lake Willoughby in Northern Vermont.  She and her family also enjoyed spending time at the Jersey Shore.  Arlene, an incredibly selfless and nurturing woman, not only devoted herself to her immediate family but also shouldered the responsibilities of caring for numerous elderly extended family members, embodying love, and compassion in every aspect of her extensive caregiving role.  In 2018, Arlene’s heart was broken when her dear son Mark passed away.

Arlene was not only devoted to her family but was also truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and Joseph were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, NJ.  There, Arlene also volunteered and was extremely active.  

Arlene will be forever remembered as a truly dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched to lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Arlene is survived by her three sons; James Meringer and his wife Dona of Wayne, William Meringer and his wife Donna of Randolph, NJ, and Donald Meringer of Parkton, MD,  six grandchildren; Elizabeth Gephardt and her husband Grant of Wayne, NJ, Patricia Meringer of Wayne, NJ, Joseph Meringer of Wayne, NJ, Lisa Meringer of Bridgewater, NJ, William Meringer and his wife Jacqueline of Newton, NJ, and Cynthia Meringer of Wallingford, Ct, and ten great grandchildren; Evelyn, Anna, Riley, Peyton, Isabel, Finley, Harper, Gunnar, Corrado, and Carmine.  Arlene was predeceased by her husband Joseph Meringer in 2002, and by her son Mark Meringer in 2018.

Giovanna Leone (nee Scaramia), age 88, a resident of Wayne for over forty years, passed Monday, December 11, 2023.

She was born in Santa Croce Camerina, Sicily, Italy to Giovanni and Giuseppina Scaramia

She will be lovingly remembered for her boundless warmth and joy, found immense fulfillment in the simple pleasures of life.  Her kitchen was a sanctuary where she artfully crafted Italian specialties, infusing each dish with love and tradition.  A gifted seamstress, who worked at the Macy’s store in Wayne for many years, Giovanna transformed fabrics into exquisite creations, weaving stories and memories into every stich.  Her love for dance manifested in her home where the rhythm of life flowed seamlessly.  Hosting gatherings at her home became an art form for Giovanna, as she orchestrated evenings filled with laughter, wonderful aromas, and a sense of family and belonging. Family was at the heart of her world, and her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren and extended family, were the stars in her life’s tapestry.  Giovanna’s legacy was not just in her delicious recipes, skill with the needle and thread, or graceful dance steps but in the enduring love that radiated from the heart of her home.

Giovanna met Ovidio Leone during her youth working at the Paterson sewing mills.  She was set up on a blind date by Ecla D’aleo as her brother, Ovidio Leone, had just emigrated to the United States.  Giovanna departed on the MS Vulcania on July 8, 1955 and Ovidio arrived shortly after on August 9th, 1955 on Queen Frederica. In order for Ovidio to go on a date with Giovanna he had to request permission from her father to take her to a local Italian dance.  Her dad granted his permission and assigned Giovanna’s brother to chaperone the two as tradition at the time did not allow you to date alone. Giovanna’s father called Ovidio aside and said if he loved Giovanna, he had three months to marry her.  Her father was going to be married for the third time and wanted Giovanna to marry before he did.  Giovanna’s father’s two prior wives whom he loved very much passed away due to illness and Giovanna then became like a mother / caretaker to her siblings.  Giovanna and Ovidio married on January 25, 1958, at a Catholic church in Paterson.  They actually had a dual wedding with Ovidio’s sister who had introduced them.  Giovanna and Ovidio honeymooned in New York City and settled into life in Paterson.  They moved to Wayne in 1979 where they had a loving marriage of forty-six years that was blessed with six children.

Giovanna was the loving wife of forty-six years to the late Ovidio G. Leone (d. 2004); loving mother of Josephine Leone-Mirra of Little Falls, Diana Opirhory and her husband Douglas of Bayville, Luigi Leone of Lincoln Park, John Leone of Paterson, David Leone of Little Egg Harbor, and Lillian Leone-Loehwing and her husband Scott of Stockholm; she was the cherished grandmother of Daniela Perillo, Carmine Mirra, Davide Mirra, Jacquelynn Opirhory, Caitlin Opirhory, Ashley Opirhory, Daniel Opirhory, Christopher Opirhory; dearly loved great-grandmother of Sofia Perillo, Sara Elphick, Samantha Mirra, Giovanna Mirra and Sasha Opirhory; loved sister of the late Giuseppe Scaramia and his late wife Rosetta, Salvatore Scaramia and his wife Giovanna of Hawthorne, and Maria Guarino and her husband Gerard of Wayne; and she was the dearly loved aunt to many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Heart Association would be greatly appreciated.

Brian Reardon, age 57, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, December 10, 2023.

Brian grew up in West Paterson and graduated from Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls, NJ.

Shortly after graduating, he started a career with the Wayne Township working first in the road department and then eventually the water department. His career spanned an incredible 37 years and during his time there he made several lifelong bonds of friendship and mutual respect. His coworkers remarked that he was the only guy physically capable of lifting a manhole with a single hand!

Early in his career with Wayne Township he met Jennifer during his frequent stops at the Packanack Bakery. She was working to get his coffee and donut on his lunch breaks and they quickly became lifelong friends. They were married in December of 1996 and the pair purchased their first home together in Wanaque, eventually settling in Pequannock.  Their family grew with the birth of their twin boys: Michael and Jason. If you knew Brian you knew that he loved his two boys more than anything else in this world. He believed that his greatest accomplishments in life weren’t in personal achievements or successes, but in the remarkable individuals his sons had become. Brian spoke of them with immense pride and looked forward to watching all their football, soccer, and lacrosse games. He was incredibly proud to see them graduate college and couldn't wait to see what the future held for them. 

Brian and Jennifer shared a great chapter of life together raising their boys, but as time went on, they realized their paths were going in different directions. They amicably parted ways, maintaining a profound respect and friendship for one another. Several years later, Brian found a companion when he met Robin. Robin and Brian shared the last few years together before his untimely passing.

He loved the Mets and the Cowboys but also supported his local teams like the Giants – he just enjoyed the game. Big Bri was quiet and laidback but had a sentimental side that could catch people by surprise. Brian was a great friend to all that knew him. Perhaps his greatest quality was his loyalty. Although a man of few words, his unwavering commitment to those he loved made him someone that will be forever loved and deeply missed. 

Brian is survived by his two boys Michael and Jason, their mother, Jennifer, his brother Tom and his wife Melissa, his brother John, his companion Robin and numerous nieces, nephews, and other loving family. He is pre deceased by his parents John and Mary Reardon.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Brian's name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

 It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Evelyn Mary Corsello (nee Cacace), age 94 of Pompton Plains and formerly of Brooklyn, NY.  Evelyn was born and raised in Brooklyn and was one of four children to Aristo and Lena Canace.  She attended Girls High School in Brooklyn where she excelled in academics, particularly Mathematics, receiving numerous awards.
Evelyn’s first job was at the Meadow Gold Ice Cream Company in Brooklyn.  While there, she and her co-workers would discreetly write their names and phone numbers on the lid of the ice cream cups being sent to American GI’s.  Their aim was to attract the attention of the Servicemen and make a connection. Unfortunately, no-one called.  Eventually, they realized that their efforts were futile because the penciled numbers melted inside the cup. Later, Evelyn accepted a position as a bookkeeper at the Firemen’s Fund Insurance Company.
Evelyn met her future husband, William Corsello at a dance hall in Coney Island.
The two were married on August 28, 1949 at Sacred Heart Church in Brooklyn. Their first apartment was on Waverley Avenue, where Evelyn and William welcomed the births of their sons, Frankie and Billy.  The family relocated to East Flatbush where Barbara was born.  In 1978, they moved to Bergen Beach.  Evelyn and Bill cherished sixty-four years of marriage until William’s passing in 2013.  In 2014, Evelyn moved to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains where she enjoyed many wonderful friendships. 
Evelyn loved her role as a homemaker, devoting herself to creating a warm and nurturing home for her children and spouse.  During this time, she worked with her father, for the Evergrip Company, putting pushpins and picture hooks onto cards for extra income as well as helping his friend sell jewelry.  As her children grew, Evelyn re-entered the workforce, taking a position as a comptometer operator at Times Square Stores.   She also worked for Chase Manhattan Bank as a teller for several years before her retirement.
Evelyn liked to sew and crochet.  She loved everything that sparkled and was fancy.  She enjoyed reading and loved to travel.  She has visited most of Europe, Japan and almost anywhere with a beach. She was a fabulous cook, well known for her meatballs.  Her garlic crabs were so famous that a local restaurant had her teach their chief how to make them for their menu.  Aside from all Evelyn’s hobbies, interests, and talents, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Evelyn than spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She was a worshiping Catholic who belonged to Saint Vincent Ferrer Church in Flatbush, Saint Bernard’s Church in Bergen Beach and later worshiped at the Cedar Crest Chapel.
Evelyn had a quick wit and a fondness for sarcasm.  She could leave people both amused and appreciative of her sense of humor.  She will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  Evelyn is survived by her daughter Barbara Maloney and her husband Eugene of Wayne, NJ, her son William Corsello, Jr and his wife Robin of Rockaway Beach, NY, her daughter-in-law, MaryAnne Corsello of Salisbury Mills, NY, thirteen grandchildren; Gene Maloney and his wife Isabel of Wayne, NJ, Brian Maloney and his wife Ashley of Kinnelon, NJ, Kylie Herget and her husband Lucas of Kinnelon, NJ, William Corsello, III and his husband Benjamin Whine of New York City, Tara Corsello of Brooklyn, NY, Toni Corsello of New York City, Todd Corsello and his wife Patricia of Staten Island, NY, Traci Mahr and her husband Brian of Kinnelon, NJ, Lisa DeFelice and her husband Anthony of New Windsor, NY, Frank Corsello and his wife Danielle of Highland Mills, NY, Marissa Fernandez and her husband Nick of New Windsor, NY, Alexis Culhane and her husband Kevin of New Windsor, NY, and Christopher Corsello of West Nyack, NY, and seventeen great grandchildren; Ava, Michael, Liliana, Frank, Mia, Tessa, Daniel, Gianna, Luke, Lyla, Lia, Brooke, Ellis, Wren, Kayden, Ariella, and Jack, and many nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her husband William Corsello, Sr. in 2013, by her son Frank Corsello in 2000, her sister Lilian Maione, her brother Albert Cacace, her grandson Francis Corsello, and her granddaughter Kristen Maloney.

In lieu of flowers donations in Evelyn’s name may be made to St Jude Children's Research Hospital.

Carol M. Buyck, age 86 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on December 6, 2023.

Carol was born in Passaic, New Jersey to Frank and Anna Klaus.  She and her older brother, Cliff, lived in Paramus, Rochelle Park, and eventually Oradell. She attended Dwight Morrow High School in Englewood, New Jersey.

After graduation, Carol continued her education at Paterson State College. Carol’s further education was briefly halted when she took up a position at Collard’s Furniture Store as a decorator. During this time, she was set up on a blind date with Robert Buyck.  The two married in April of 1959 before moving to their new home in Bloomingdale and then finally settling down in Paramus in 1970, where they raised their two children, Suzanne and Jon. 

Carol returned to night school at William Paterson College with her neighbor and dear friend, Linda Shortman.  Carol was a lifelong learner and educator who went on to earn her master’s degree in early childhood education. While she initially dreamed of opening a nursery school, she found her passion teaching 6th, 7th, and 8th grade students in the Wanaque school district for the next 30 years.

Carol’s inquisitive nature led her to become a world traveler with her good friend Christine Lynch.  They visited most of Europe, South America, Cuba, China, Russia and explored other countries and cultures. Carol shared her passion with her grandchildren by accompanying them on trips to various countries. 

Carol loved dogs, being outdoors, entertaining, and good times with her many friends. She was an expert gardener and loved to “play in the dirt”.  Carol’s other interests included opera, movies, Broadway shows, and dinners in New York City with her grandchildren. Carol loved the slot machines in Atlantic City, playing Bunco with her friends, and a nice Cabernet.

Carol’s endless energy and zest for life were evident to everyone around her.  She touched many lives over the years and was blessed to have many dear friends. Her kindness, generosity, and loving personality will be greatly missed and always remembered. 

Above all else, family was the most important aspect of Carol’s life. She adored her family and loved sharing her life with them. She was the best mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother anyone could ever want. Her strong, independent, and often stubborn mindset gave her the drive to live an incredible life. 

Carol was the cherished mother of: Suzanne Russo and husband Michael of Glen Rock, Jon Buyck and wife Arlene of Rochelle Park; beloved grandmother of: Matthew Russo and wife Tierney, Katherine Harper and husband Seth, Christina Russo, Jonathan Buyck, and Nicholas Buyck; great-grandmother of: Theodore Harper and Caroline Russo. Also survived by brother Frank Klaus and wife Kathy, nephew Christopher, and niece Cortney. 

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are asked to consider:

The Humane Society of the United States

Or

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Michael John Rosania, age 74, of Packanack Lake in Wayne, passed peacefully on Wednesday, December 6, 2023.

Michael was born in Newark, NJ, the son of Michael Rosania and Sophie Kaniecki. He grew up for a short time in Newark before moving with his parents and brother Nick to North Arlington.

After graduating from Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington with the Class of 1966, Michael attended Fairleigh Dickinson University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in electrical engineering and two master’s degrees – one in electrical engineering and one in computer science. Utilizing his education, Michael began a fulfilling and prosperous career in aerospace manufacturing until he retired in 2012 from BAE Systems.

Michael first met his beloved wife Nancy when they were both members of Spa 23 in Wayne. They fell in love and married on Saturday, September 15, 1984 at Packanack Community Church in Wayne. After a honeymoon in Hawaii, they started married life in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne and have remained residents there throughout their entire married life. Their marriage could best be described as precious, loving, and devoted having celebrated 39 years as husband and wife this past September.

Michael’s leisure time pursuits were numerous. He and Nancy were avid skiers regularly carving the moguls at Hidden Valley. He loved playing tennis and he was a member of the Packanack Lake Tennis Club. Golf also was a passion of Michaels and one which he was able to enjoy even more in retirement. In addition to skiing, tennis and golf, Michael was an expert archer and marksman, fisherman and photographer. His willingness to share his knowledge and teach archery at the NASP Clinics and Kids Archery Leagues was second to none and will never be forgotten. He and Nancy had the privilege of taking trips to Paris, France and Glasgow, Scotland. The whole family vacationed every summer down the Jersey Shore in LBI. 

Above all of the passions of Michael’s life nothing came close to the love and adoration he had for his wife Nancy, children Michael and Heather, his brother Nick, and his four grandchildren. Michael considered being a grandpa one of the greatest blessings of life. He was amazingly involved in his grandchildren’s lives, babysitting regularly when they were little and teaching them all the skills of archery and fishing when they got a little older. They learned so much from him but will also cherish warm and happy memories of the times when he would make them laugh by being goofy.         

Michael was the beloved husband of Nancy Rosania, blessed in marriage for 39 years. He was the loving father of Michael John Vincent Rosania and wife Melissa of Wayne, loving stepfather of Heather MacDougall of Sugarland, TX, dear brother of Nicholas “Nick” Rosania of North Arlington, adored grandfather of: Mia Rosania, Presley Rosania, Benjamin Sievers, and Amanda Sievers.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Michael’s name consider donating to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.

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James “Scruffty” “Big Jim” “Jim” Tuit, Sr., age 82 passed away peacefully Tuesday morning, December 5, 2023.

He was born in Paterson and raised in Prospect Park.  Jim attended Passaic County Technical High School with the Class of 1959. He loved to go to Hinchcliffe Stadium in Paterson, which was very close to his home in Prospect Park and watch the car races.  When he got in trouble at home, like the time when he forgot to take out the garbage, his mom made him sit in the backyard and listen to the races which was torturous to him. 

Those early days of attending Hinchliffe Stadium would be the catalyst for Jim to get behind the wheel of a race car in the early 1970’s Jim would fabricate, weld, set-up, and drive stock cars.  Through the years he was a regular at the Orange County Fair Speedway in Middletown, NY where he drove the 673 owned by John Baum, 342 owned by John “JC” Cunningham and the 318 that he co-owned with his son-in-law Bobby Pass (and that’s just to name a few) One of his fondest racing memories happened in the 80’s when his son Jimmy, Jr. finished 1st and he finished 2nd at the Orange County Fair Speedway. Jim loved and cherished the family time together, friends, and competition that racing brought to him. 

In his youth Jim painted houses for his grandfather’s company, and pumped gas at an Oakland gas station.

He spent most all of his working life in the local crushed stone, asphalt, and quarry industry. For many years he worked at Passaic Crushed Stone in Riverdale and retired in 2002 as a supervisor.

In 2002 when Jim retired, he and Judy moved to North Wilkesboro, North Carolina also known as NASCAR Country. One of their favorite things to do was attend multiple NASCAR races with their friends from Martinsville, Richmond, and Darlington just to name a few.  They spent a decade together enjoying life until Judy suddenly passed away. Encouraged by his children, he moved back to NJ so he would be around family. 

Jim was a remarkable individual whose life was defined by his genuine love of racing and connecting with people. Known for his affable nature, he possessed an innate ability to strike up conversations with anyone he encountered. Jim's warmth and approachability made him a cherished figure in the racing community where he fostered deep and meaningful relationships. He was a fierce competitor on the track, and once he hung up racing gloves he became a staple in the pits and a popular guy in the grandstands. Every year Jim would head up to Orange County Fair Speedway for the annual Nostalgia Night signing autographs, meeting new fans of racing and reminiscing about the good ole days with his fellow racers young and old. 

A dedicated and industrious worker throughout his life, Jim's work ethic was as impressive as his social skills. Whether he was engaged in his profession or lending a helping hand to friends and neighbors, Jim's commitment to hard work was unwavering. His enduring legacy is not just one of diligence and industriousness but also a testament to the profound impact one can have through kindness and authentic connections with others.

Jim was the beloved husband of the late Judy (nee Ricker) Tuit (d.2013); loving father of Kathy Pass and her husband Bob of Wayne, Ray Tuit and his wife Debbie of Oakland, and the late Jimmy Tuit, Jr. (d. 2017); he was a bonus Dad to Crystal Baum of Wayne; much loved companion to Dianne Caputo of Wayne; predeceased by his loving brother John Tuit, Jr., and his beloved cat Hoosier (d.2022).

In lieu of flowers donations in Jim’s memory to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Dianne M. Benson, age 63, of Wayne passed without suffering on Friday, December 1, 2023.

Dianne was raised by Ed and Selma Will and graduated from DePaul High School in Wayne.  She continued her education at Trenton State College, leaving to pursue further education as an RN at Passaic Community College where she graduated with an Associate of Applied Science in Nursing.

Dianne followed her calling and pursued an education that enabled her to become a registered nurse.  Caring for others was what she did best and the nursing profession was one in which she knew would bring her happiness.  She started her nursing career at St. Joseph’s Wayne Hospital as a medical surgical floor nurse.  Shortly thereafter, she transferred to the operating room where she stayed for the remainder of her 25-year career.  In the operating room, Dianne assisted surgeons in a wide array of surgeries, both minor and major.  Additionally, on rare occasions, she assisted surgical teams from the Sharing Network, in harvesting organs for donation.

Dianne met her husband, Jon, at St. Joseph Wayne Hospital.  Within 2 months of dating, they both realized that there was a chance that this might turn into a lifetime commitment.  Within a year’s time, Jon romantically proposed at the White Mountain Resort in New Hampshire.  The following year they wed on August 19, 2001 at the Ramsey Golf and Country Club and subsequently honeymooned in their favorite vacation spot, Hilton Head Island, South Carolina.  Dianne and Jon enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of twenty-two years

Dianne always valued her family above everything else.  A loving mother to her son, Patrick, she delighted in seeing him grow through his grammar school years.  While in high school, she was always thrilled to see him perform in athletic competitions.  Later on in life, she took great pride in the man who Patrick became.  She was overjoyed to see him marry the love of his life, Aubrielle.  She was an exceptionally caring daughter to her parents, Ed and Selma.  She helped both greatly in the later years of their lives.  She is survived by her sister, Kathleen Savacool and by a niece and two nephews.

Dianne had a true love for music and was graced with a wonderful singing voice.  She often performed in choirs and sang at church weddings.  Dianne loved the beach and enjoyed spending many, many vacations on Hilton Head Island. Her favorite part of the day was her early morning walks on the beach with Patrick. Most recently, she and Jon, visited Cape May, NJ where they shared what they thought was the best vacation they had ever experienced.  Dianne had a special kinship with the elderly and often spent time keeping company with many residents of Bristal  Assisted Living Facility in Wayne, NJ.

Dianne had a soft spot in her heart for Max, the dog that she and Jon bought for Patrick. She was an avid reader and was one of those people who always got hardcovers, preferring the feeling of an actual book to a virtual one.  She enjoyed reading a wide range of genres but her favorite book was “Where the Crawdads Sing”.  Cooking was more than a chore to Dianne and she particularly loved researching and trying new recipes.  Cacio e pepe was a dish that was her specialty.  

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to NJ Sharing Network and their Foundation online at www.SharingNetworkFoundation.org/Contribute or via mail to NJ Sharing Network, Attn: Foundation, 691 Central Ave. New Providence, NJ 07974

Ida Calligaro (nee Battistus), age 99 of Wayne, died on Friday, December 1, 2023.

She was born in the family home in Clifton, where she lived until she was married. Ida graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1942 and has lived in Wayne for over fifty years.

She met the love of her life Mario Calligaro at a dance in the Co-Operative Hall in Clifton. They married ten months later at St. Claire’s Church in Clifton on September 29, 1946. They enjoyed fifty years of loving and devoted marriage before Mario’s passing on November 24, 1996.

Ida graduated from Drake Business College in Newark and attended New York School of Interior Design. She worked at the Waldrich Company in Clifton and at Hoffman La-Roche in Nutley as a secretary. In 1966, Ida went back to school at William Paterson College where she earned a degree in Elementary Teaching. She worked for the Wanaque Board of Education, teaching 3rd, 4th, and 5th grade, for twenty-five years before retiring in 1994. During her years with the Wanaque Board of Education she continued her education at William Paterson College earning her Master’s Degree.

Ida’s loves were her family, interior decorating, collecting antiques, education, and teaching children.

She was the loving wife of the late Dr. Mario V. Calligaro (1996); devoted mother of Dr. Bruce Calligaro and his wife Diana of Ringwood, Dr. Keith Calligaro and his wife Dr. Ina of Narberth, PA; the late Dr. Greg Calligaro(2008) and his wife Tammy of Maryland; cherished grandmother of Jason, Dr. Lindsey, Breanne Calligaro Decker, Blake, Anthony, and Ashley Calligaro; proud great grandmother of two; loved sister of the late Richard Battistus (1975) and the late Mafalda Pavan (2011).

 Those planning an expression of sympathy in Ida’s memory are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org

Anthony Bianco, age 70 of Paterson and formerly of Dumont and Vernon, died on December 1, 2023 after a brief illness. He had been an accountant throughout his career, retiring from Sabrett (Marathon Enterprises) of Englewood in 2018.

Anthony grew up in Paterson and graduated from Kennedy High School. He had been an active member of several youth groups as a young man and later became a member of the Elks Lodge in Tenafly, where he honorably served for many years, including as the Exalted Ruler. After retiring, he moved to Vernon and joined the Sparta UNICO where he served as treasurer of the chapter.

Anthony was an animal lover by any definition. He always kept a housecat, and sometimes as many as four at a time! While living in Vernon, he was thrilled to watch the wildlife that visited his property. He loved that there was always something to be observed out his window, and he especially loved watching the bears. He was also a fan of antique and classic cars. He also enjoyed attending the NASCAR races throughout the years. He would frequently attend the car shows that you see in shopping center parking lots around the area, and he would spend hours looking at each and every one of them.

Anthony is survived by his beloved cat, Max, and by his three cousins; Richard Natole, Christina Avigliano, and Robert Leo. He was predeceased by his parents, Anthony and Catherine (nee Murray) many years ago.

In lieu of flowers please make a donation in Anthony’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

It is with bright sadness, in the hope of the resurrection, that Walter Nemitz died on November 30, 2023, after a brief illness.  Walter brought much joy to many during his 96 years of living, spending more than 50 years in Wayne, New Jersey, affectionately being known by many family members as the “Mayor”.

Walter was born in Jermyn, Pennsylvania on July 19, 1927, the 11th child of George and Catherine Nemitz (Pelacek).  After graduating from Jermyn High School, he served his country in Korea from 1945-1947 as a World War II veteran in the Army Air Force as an air mechanic and crew member on B-17s and PBY search and rescue planes. Walter returned home to begin a career spanning more than 50 years as a widely respected bartender in Midtown Manhattan, while raising his family in Cambria Heights, Queens, NY. He worked in restaurants and hotels including the Faison D’or Restaurant, Rose Restaurant on 52nd Street, St. Regis Hotel on 5th Avenue, ending his career at the landmark hotel, The Warwick Hotel on 54th and 6th Avenue. As an iconic New York City bartender, Walter served everyone with the same level of exceptional service regardless of their station in life, always ready with a smile and compassionate ear.  Along the way, he served many of the Yankee greats at Rose Restaurant, including Whitey Ford, Mickey Mantle, Roger Maris, Yogi Berra and Billy Martin. Other celebrities included Ted Williams, Joe DiMaggio, Truman Capote, Liberace, Mayor John Lindsey, Governor Cuomo, and many other notable sports, entertainment, and political figures.  Highlights of his career as one of the best bartenders in NYC during the “Mad Men” era, included being the personal bartender for Yankee Manager Ralph Houk during the 1964 World Series, head bartender at the newly renovated Randolph Bar at The Warwick, Hearst’s landmark hotel, where he also served Patty Hearst, Randolph’s granddaughter.  It was at The Warwick where Walter ended his career; the hotel provided him with a memorable retirement party attended by his many patrons from over the years.

Walter and Ina Barna married on October 6, 1951, at St. John’s Russian Orthodox Church in Mayfield, Pennsylvania.  They had a 72-year marriage that was as good and loving as any, they were a true team to the very end.  Together they created a loving and caring home where they raised their three children, James, George, and Lorraine.   They taught their children the values of hard work, responsibility, accountability, resilience, faith, and love.  Walter spent his retirement in Wayne, New Jersey.  He enjoyed an abundant life with his family, friends and was always looking for good values at the grocery store! Walter especially looked forward to a mealtime with a good drink and food, finding pleasure in hosting whoever had the good fortune of sharing that time with him and his beloved, Ina. They were exceptional hosts.  Everyone who entered their home was welcomed as royalty.  There was no limit to their gracious hospitality, with Walter preparing wonderful cocktails to enjoy and Ina cooking an abundance of food that would rival any kitchen.  Their home was always welcoming to those who entered, often being the focal point for both immediate and extended family celebrations, most memorable being the many years of bringing in the New Year!  Walter really enjoyed life and truly enjoyed having fun.  Walter’s passions included enjoying good food and drink, travel, airplanes and flying, car racing (especially Indy and NASCAR), New York Giants football, reading newspapers, enjoying country western and polka music and being a lifetime member of the Golden Age Club in Wayne, NJ.   He embraced and loved living his life fully to the very end.

In many ways the word “dedication” captures one of Walter’s basic characteristics as a person.  He was an incredibly dedicated person to his wife, his children, his family, his home, his work, and his church.  Walter always held himself to a high standard whether he was building his own garage or making a cocktail for a good friend.  He was dependable. He did not let people down; he was a true servant to others and always carried himself with the utmost dignity.  Walter was especially dedicated to his Eastern Orthodox faith, serving faithfully for decades in various capacities, including as a parish council member, at Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in Wayne, New Jersey.

Walter is survived by his loving wife, Ina (Barna); his son James and his wife, Nancy; his son George and his wife, Janine; his daughter Lorraine Ciarfella (Nemitz), and her husband Robert; his four grandchildren, Julianna Quick (Nemitz) and her husband Chris; Melissa Nemitz, Christopher Nemitz, and Alexia Ciarfella; and a great granddaughter, Nora Quick.

In lieu of flowers, please make your donation to Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne NJ.

May His Memory Be Eternal!

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Amy E. Niosi (nee Parisi), age 41, of Wayne.  Amy passed away peacefully on Thursday November 30, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born in Ridgewood, NJ and was the oldest of three children to James and Susan Parisi.  At the age of four, Amy’s family moved to Howell, NJ where they resided for several years.  When Amy was in sixth grade, her family moved to Maywood.  While living in Maywood, she attended Hackensack High School where she excelled in Academics and was on the high school tennis team.

After graduating from Hackensack High School with the class of 2000, Amy attended Caldwell University where she studied English Literature. Amy graduated from Caldwell University in 2004 earning her Bachelor Degree and certification as a public school teacher.  She found employment quickly at Paterson Catholic High School where she taught English Literature.  Amy remained at Paterson Catholic for about seven years until accepting a position at Passaic Valley High School.  

It was clear to everyone that knew Amy, that she had found her true calling in the vibrant world of high school English literature. With a genuine love for the written word, she embarked on a fulfilling journey as an English literature teacher. Amy's classroom was not just a space for learning; it was a judgement-free haven, an open door, and a safe place for all to vent and receive welcomed life advice.   Amy reveled in the joy of introducing her students to the timeless classics, and the discussions that transcended the pages of textbooks. Amy's legacy as an inspiring educator will echo through the corridors of the high school and shaped the literary journeys of those fortunate enough to be her students.  She was sincerely loved and respected by her students and colleagues.  Throughout the years Amy's former students made a conscience effort to keep in touch with her.  And in turn Amy did the same.

In 2008, while at a fund raiser in Hackensack, Amy met a handsome young man at the event named James Niosi.  The two hit it off great and started to date for the next several years.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on July 8, 2012, Amy and Jim became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Ridgefield Park, NJ and resided there for about five years.  While living there, they welcomed the birth of their first child, their daughter Ariel.  The family moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 2016 where they welcomed their second child, their son John.  The family has called Wayne their home ever since.

While living in Wayne, Amy was a member of the Packanack Mother’s Club.  Amy also loved to read. You could often find her lost in the pages of old, wonderful stories, and classic novels.  She was a joyful woman who simply adored animals and treasured keeping up with popular culture.  But aside from all of Amy’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Amy than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  Amy and Jim cherished eleven years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Amy was not only devoted to her family but was also truly dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  

Amy was a remarkable woman, known for her warm and loving nature that embraced everyone surrounding her.  Her caring and sweet demeanor made her a cherished presence in the lives of those fortunate enough to have known her.  Amy had a unique ability to be upfront and honest, yet always maintained a deep respect for others.  Her sincerity and straightforwardness were never harsh; instead, they were delivered with a gentle touch that left people appreciating her authenticity.  What set Amy apart was her innate talent for connecting with others on a profound level.  Whether through a shared laugh, a comforting gesture, or an empathetic conversation, she had a way of creating bonds that felt like a warm embrace, making her a beloved friend to everyone.

Amy will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, daughter and truly respected and loved educational figure.  She will be sincerely missed by her family, friends, and colleagues.

Amy is survived by her husband Jimmy Niosi and her two children; Ariel and John, all of Wayne, NJ, her mother Susan Parisi of Wayne, two sisters; Amanda Tasca and her husband Steve of Vernon, NJ, and Alyssa Parisi of Wayne, three nieces; Eliana, Serafina, and Marabella, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family.  Amy was predeceased by her father James Parisi in 2018.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Amy’s name may be made to the National Blue Army Shrine of our Lady of Fatima

Harry M. Barany, age 69, of Pequannock passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 30, 2023 at home surrounded by his wife and kids. Harry was born in Paterson, NJ, to Harry and Martha Barany, was one of seven children and was raised in Wayne, NJ. He attended Catholic grammar school and graduated from Wayne Valley High School class of 1973. 

For work Harry was a jack of all trades. Some of the places he worked included Politi Auto, OK Battery, Bertolini Engineering Co., Foremost Machine Builders, Arrow Sheds, and Palisades Insurance. He later owned Sunset Valley Inspections where he worked as an insurance inspector. He also enjoyed working as a fire inspector for Pequannock, Kinnelon, and Butler Townships. 

Harry was dedicated to being a volunteer fire fighter for over 40 years in both Wayne Company 1 and Pequannock Company 2. As a fireman he held the positions of company president, engineer, participated in fire prevention, taught the junior firefighter program, and he was a secretary of exempt and local relief for many years. As a fireman Harry was certified in Arson investigation and as a Fire instructor at the Morris County NJ Fire Academy.

Harry was extremely hard working, thoughtful, romantic, devoted to his family, an avid dating tip giver to his son, he was generous and would lend a helping hand to anyone that asked. He had a great sense of humor, a goofy personality and was always successful at making his family laugh. Harry was very outgoing and friendly, the life of the party. He loved to cook and grill and was famous for his crumb cake, sourdough bread, garlic bread, Thanksgiving day pies, and he made the BEST coffee. Some of the things he enjoyed were walks on the beach collecting shells, fishing, golfing, bowling, dancing with Diane, coaching little league baseball, and flying kites. He enjoyed softball both playing in the Pequannock Reformed Church and Pequannock Men’s Softball Leagues. He loved to travel and two of his favorite destinations were Maine and Hilton Head, SC. 

Harry was a member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne for over 30 years and a recent member of Emergence Church in Totowa. At Pequannock Reformed Church he served as an elder, deacon, Classis Representative, Sunday school teacher, and sang in the church choir. Harry’s faith and love for Jesus led him to be a good and faithful servant. 

Harry met his wife, Diane, of 42 years, on a blind date at a mutual friend's house. He was late for their first introduction because he was busy washing dishes, but he made up for that by proposing on the second date, and she said yes! They married on June 21, 1981 at Pequannock Reformed church in Wayne and had the reception at Perona Farms in Andover. Harry and Diane were blessed with 3 children, Dana, Emily and Harrison. Their family continues to grow with the addition of son-in-law Brian, daughter-in-law Juliana and two precious granddaughters Serena and Fiona. 

In memory of Harry, donations can be made to Pequannock Engine Company 2 or the NJ State Fireman’s Association. 

Jennifer A. Bonsanto, aged 56, of Wayne, passed away on November 28, 2023, leaving behind a legacy of love, warmth, and a life well-lived. Jennifer was a proud graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Fairleigh Dickinson University. Her journey through life was marked by a remarkable career, and a deep commitment to her family. One of Jennifer’s most endearing qualities was her quick-witted remarks and clever observations bringing humor to all who were fortunate enough to share in her company.

Jennifer commenced her professional journey as a skilled beautician, bringing joy and confidence to those who entrusted her with their care. Later, she transitioned into the steamship industry, showcasing her versatility and determination in pursuing her passions.

A devoted wife to Michael Bonsanto, the love of her life for the past 32 years. Jennifer's love extended to her cherished children, Nicholas, 23 and Julianna, 18. Her role as a mother was central to her identity, and the love she bestowed upon her family was immeasurable.

Jennifer is survived by her sisters Suzanne Ricciardelli and Mabel Van Daalen, along with their respective spouses Vincent Ricciardelli and Bill De Mio. She will be dearly missed by her nephew Vincent Ricciardelli and his girlfriend Margot Kolator, niece Jacalyn Van Daalen, and “newest sister” Jo Ann Richardelli. Jennifer's presence and love created a tapestry of family bonds that will endure through the generations.

Apart from her family, Jennifer had a special affection for Ortley Beach, NJ, where she found solace and joy. Her love for this seaside haven was a reflection of her appreciation for life's simple pleasures.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Friends of Wayne Animals, American Diabetes Association, or the American Liver Foundation, organizations that held personal significance for Jennifer.

Her memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing and loving her. May she rest in peace, surrounded by the love she so freely gave during her time on this earth.

Raffaele Monte, age 88 of Wayne, NJ,  passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 surrounded by family and friends.

Raffaele was born to Francesco and Nicolina Monte in Serino, Italy and grew up alongside his siblings, Anita Monte Romeo (deceased), Teresa Monte Romeo, and Donato Monte (deceased).

While living in Italy, Raffaele served as a Lieutenant in the Italian Army, until he followed his brother and father to the United States in 1963. After his transition to America, Raffaele worked in a variety of occupations. Until retirement, Raffaele worked in Kearfott Corporation/BAE Systems for over 35 years as a Quality Control Manager. Prior to that, he worked in the textile industry, sold insurance, owned a deli, and taught Italian in Ridgewood.

Raffaele met the love of his life, Pina, in 1963, just one week after his coming to America. They got married on July 16, 1966 and moved into their first home on Maple Avenue in Woodland Park. In 1986, they moved to Wayne, where Raffaele lived until his final days. They were happily married for 57 years and they are blessed with three children and six grandchildren.

Raffaele was a selfless, dedicated, and kind family man who cherished spending time with family and friends. In retirement years, he spent a lot of time growing his vegetable garden, and spreading his love for his Italian culture through his homemade tomato sauce and wine. In addition to family, the greatest love in his life was Inter soccer. Raffaele served as one of the founders of the Inter Club Facchetti. Additionally, he was a member of the Roma Sports Club for over 60 years, to which he served as Vice President for many of them. The Roma Sports Club brought together the Italian-American community who all shared the love of sports.

Raffaele is survived by his wife, Pina (nee DiGangi) of Wayne, their three children; Marcello Monte and his wife Jerolyn of Wayne, NJ, Nicholas Monte and his wife Alison of Brick, NJ, and Danielle Bressner and her husband Kevin of Perry Hall, MD, and six grandchildren, Sophia, William, Joseph, Oliver, Cole, and Jack.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Raffaele’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Florence R. Mischuk (nee Zbytniewski), age 88, of Wayne NJ and formerly of Flushing, NY.

Florence passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 28, 2023, while receiving the loving care of her family. She was born and raised in Maspeth, NY, and was one of four children to Joseph and Helen Zbytniewski.

In her youth, Florence attended Bishop McDonnell High School in Brooklyn and graduated with the class of 1953. Following graduation, she was employed by American Airlines in the company’s Lost and Found Department and was often amused by the variety of lost items they collected. As an employee of the airline, Florence received the benefit of free airfare, which helped spur her love of travel and adventure.

In 1954, she caught the eye of a handsome American Navy Veteran named Myron Mischuk, while attending a Catholic Youth Organization dance. Florence’s beauty and elegant sense of style, in addition to their shared faith and Polish heritage, encouraged Myron to ask her out on a date to White Castle, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and soon married. On August 6, 1955, they became husband and wife at St. Stanislaus Church in New York City, where her father was the organist. A reception at the Governor Clinton Hotel in Manhattan followed the ceremony.

The newlyweds settled in the Auburndale section of Flushing, NY, where they purchased a two-family home along with Florence’s sister Theresa and brother-in-law George. While living there, they welcomed their only child, their daughter Maria (who they nicknamed Mia), and Florence left her job to become a full-time homemaker. This was truly Florence’s calling and where she genuinely flourished. Florence poured her time, energy, and nurturing spirit into creating a supportive and loving environment for her daughter’s childhood. Once Mia set off to college, Florence, with pride and fulfillment, decided to reenter the workforce. She accepted a job with the Registrar department of St. John’s University in Queens, NY, and held this position until her retirement.  

Florence was very creative and often enjoyed crafting and learning new skills such as piano and crocheting. As part of a family of accomplished musicians, artists, and performers, she developed a deep appreciation for music and art. She spent much of her life enjoying diverse genres of music, from classical to jazz to pop and beyond, each resonating in the walls of her home. Florence loved to dance, and she and Myron continued perfecting their Lindy Hop dance moves at such events as the Kosciusko Foundation Balls and the Cresthaven Yacht Club socials. She was a devotee of Big Band music and Broadway Musicals and enjoyed creating elaborate décor for theme parties she and her family hosted in the rumpus room of their home. She became known for entertaining with style and for her perfect Manhattan cocktails.

Florence and Myron also found great joy in traveling the world. Some of their destinations included Hawaii, Poland, Germany, Bermuda, England, and France, as well as many US tourist locations.

Above all, Florence’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to her than providing for and spending time with her friends and family. She was a truly devoted wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and godmother. Florence and Myron cherished thirty-four years of loving and loyal marriage until Myron’s passing in 1989, after which she took on the role of caregiver for her mother in her advanced age and for her sister when she became ill.  

Florence was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Catholic faith. While residing in Queens, she and her family were parishioners of St. Kevin’s RC Church. In addition, she had been a hostess at the 1964 World’s Fair Vatican Pavilion exhibit, where she was among those who gave tours to bishops, actors, politicians, and the public. After the passing of her sister, she moved to Wayne, NJ, to be near her daughter and son-in-law and help raise her granddaughter, Stephanie. There, Florence became a parishioner of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, where she relished the liturgical music of Warren Helms so much, she became a contributor to the funding of the church’s new organ and her name appears on the plaque of donors.  

Florence will be forever remembered as a woman truly dedicated to her family and faith, and as one who always had a smile on her face. She will be sincerely missed by all who knew her, especially her daughter who confirms that she was the most sincere listener and shoulder to lean on.

Florence is survived by her daughter Maria “Mia” Mischuk-O’Brien and her husband William of Wayne, NJ, her brother John Zbytniewski and his wife Natalie of Southold, NY, one granddaughter Stephanie O’Brien, several godchildren, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family. Florence was predeceased by her husband Myron Mischuk, her grandson Brendan O’Brien, her sister Theresa Cognard, and her brother Joseph Zbytniewski.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Florence’s name may be made to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church  or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Andrew F. Noll’s Life Story

Andrew F. Noll III, age 92, of Ringwood, New Jersey, passed away peacefully in the early morning of Monday, November 27, 2023. He will be lovingly remembered by his wife, Lorraine Noll, his sister Gail Silva, his daughters; Loren Noll, Kathy Drago and her husband Mike Drago, and Sharon Weiss, his grandchildren; Danielle Drago, Justin Weiss, Kristen Weiss, and Michael Drago, and his nieces and nephew. He was predeceased by his sister Patricia DeMasso and his son-in-law Scott Weiss.

Andrew was born to Andrew and Margaret Noll in Mt. Vernon, New York on December 25, 1930. He was raised in Dumont, New Jersey with his two sisters, Patricia and Gail. After graduating from Dumont High School, he studied architecture in New York City.

After studying architecture, he transitioned into a successful career in banking. Before retiring, Andrew worked as the Senior Vice President at United Jersey Bank, where he worked for over 30 years. Andrew also served in the United States Army during the European Occupation as a Sergeant in the 1st Infantry Division. During his retirement, he spent his free time volunteering as the Treasurer for the Skyland Association with the New Jersey Botanical Gardens.

Andrew was a man of few words but was never afraid to speak his mind. There was nowhere he loved more than his property in Gilboa, New York. Sitting on over 20 acres of land, the house on the property was built by Andrew with the help of his family and friends. He would take trips hunting, taking care of the property, and just enjoying the land. Over the years, the property became a shared place for his children, and eventually their own families, to enjoy as well. It became an inside joke within his family that whenever Andrew got the call that someone was taking a trip to Gilboa, he would be ready and waiting to leave within five minutes. Andrew was a skilled woodworker and was known for carving intricate statues and decoys. For over 30 years, he would gift Santa figurines to his daughters that he carved and painted by hand. He also loved making furniture for his family, and many of the pieces he’s created are used daily by his loved ones.

Andrew met the love of his life, Lorraine Keeble, while working at People’s Trust Bank in Westwood, New Jersey. They married in the autumn of 1957.  Andrew and Lorraine were blessed with three lovely daughters: Loren, Kathy, and Sharon. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of 66 years.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the New Jersey Botanical Gardens would be greatly appreciated.

Aurora Smith, age 99, of Wayne passed Sunday, November 26, 2023, surrounded and comforted by family.

She is survived by her children: son, Cliff Smith of Escondido, CA; daughter, Louise (nee Smith) and her husband Mark Aceino of Butler, NJ and Louise’s three daughters Lindsay, Jackie, & Melanie and their husbands Yaron, Mike, and Kevin respectively, and great-grandchildren Aiden & Becca (Lindsay & Yaron), and Phoebe (Mel & Kev); son, Steve and his wife Irene of Sackets Harbor, NY and their children Steve & Kelly; and son David and his wife Emily of Orlando, FL, and their two children, Justin & Dani and Justin’s wife Emely and two more great-grandchildren, Keanu & Harold (Justin & Emely).

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Children of Fallen Patriots.  Children of Fallen Patriots provides college scholarships and educational counseling to military children who have lost a parent in the line of duty.  Donations can be made online at Donate to CFP Donation Page (fallenpatriots.org) or by mail, with a note indicating the donation is “in honor of Aurora Smith” and addressed to:

Children of Fallen Patriots

1818 Library Street

Suite 500

Reston, VA 20190

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Mom’s “Dash”

Summing up 99 years of such a wonderful life is difficult, but if you’ve got some time and want to get to know our Mom a little better, grab a drink, perhaps some tissues and settle in.

Mom’s world began and ended with Family.  Her parents, Orazio and Louise Zanin (nee Razzolini) – whom she loved dearly, were immigrants to the US from Northern Italy.  Following his Service as an artilleryman in the Italian Army during WWI, the already engaged Orazio, met Louise.  They fell in love, got married and shortly thereafter, immigrated to the US thru Canada, settling in Buffalo, New York.  (We suspect there were multiple reasons for their immigration and assume escaping the wrath of Grandpa’s spurned fiancé was among them… but that remains uncorroborated).  Grandpa came from a large Family, many of whom had already immigrated and settled between Hamilton in Canada and across the border in Buffalo, NY.

In Buffalo, they shared a home with Grandma’s sister and her Family, where they raised four children of their own: twins Armando and Adriana; our Mom, Aurora; and their younger brother, Amerigo whom we affectionately called “Uncle Butch”.

She would fondly share stories of her childhood and life growing up in Buffalo, surrounded by extended Family and close friends.  For us it was always a bit confusing as she often referred to multiple people as “Zia & Zio”.  As kids, we assumed they were their given names and that it odd she knew so many people with the same names.  Only later did we learn “Zia & Zio” were just Italian for Aunt & Uncle. (We were kids, so stop your judging!)

Mom adored her parents (that’s a call back to the first paragraph).  Whenever she spoke of them, she beamed.  To her, Grandpa, was a “renaissance man,” willing and able to do or try anything and Grandma the epitome of what a wife and Mom should be – caring, nurturing and always there for her family (this is called foreshadowing).

As a young girl, growing up during prohibition and the depression, she and her family did whatever was necessary to get by.  Grandpa held multiple jobs, doing anything and everything to support them.  At one point he distilled his own liquor and used their family car to transport and deliver it to local speakeasies. On one such journey, my Mom rode along with the barrels hidden under a blanket on which she was seated.  Like many we suppose, he ultimately got caught and had to spend a little time “in college” … or at least that was the euphemism Mom used when she told us the story.    

Like her Dad, Mom saw herself as “fearless,” willing to try anything.  She loved to play sports and, despite her 5’ 4” frame, basketball was her favorite.  Nevertheless, she grew up in a time where there were things that ladies just didn’t do.  While she desperately wanted to get and learn how to ride a bike, Grandpa thought it neither appropriate, nor “ladylike” and chose not to allow it.  Despite her disappointment, Mom abided.

A recurring theme in Mom’s childhood stories was that she “never got in trouble”.  Yet, recognizing the difficulty the four of us had (have?) avoiding it, we often wondered whether she was being truthful or just thought that if she said it enough, maybe it would take root in us…it did not.  As her siblings adored her, we’ve never managed to gather any substantive proof to the contrary.

Though she never really spoke much about her scholastic abilities, it was evident she was more than just a pretty face.  She was a voracious reader and could carry on conversations about most topics.  While she wanted to go to college, the attack on Pearl Harbor changed her plans as she instead entered the workforce.  She took a job with National Gypsum in Buffalo, which manufactured building supplies and other materials to support the war effort.  She very much enjoyed the opportunity to “spread her wings,” earning a paycheck to help at home, and connecting with co-workers and others outside home and school.

As a young, working woman, she continued living at home.  Although she met and dated several eligible men, a few of whom proposed to her, none quite caught her fancy enough for her to commit.  In 1957, while on a vacation in the Poconos at the Chestnut Lodge, she met our Dad who had recently left the Army following his service in the war.  Describing how they met, Dad made it clear that he was immediately smitten, proposing to her on their first date!  While she initially deferred, Dad persisted and subsequently won her over.  They were married on November 8th, 1958, in Buffalo, New York and moved to Hoboken, NJ to start their life together.

For the next 6 years, they were quite “busy”.  Mom gave birth to Cliff in August, 1959; Louise in January, 1961, Steve in March, 1962; and Dave in April, 1964.  After Cliff was born, Mom & Dad moved to the North Jersey town of Saddle Brook, buying a small “Cape Cod” home within walking distance of our grammar school.  That was where we shared our formative years under our parent’s oversight and, at least for us, remains “home”.  There, they provided us with all we needed, each working hard to give us a wonderful childhood.

When we were very young, Mom stayed at home, busy raising the four of us and taking exceptional care of our home.  While we were in no way a family “of means,” it never felt that way.  Mom stretched every dollar Dad earned to assure we were always fed, clothed, and cared for!  She used her cooking skills to make great food (unless it was lentil soup or Liver & onions which our Dad loved… and we did not!), sewing skills to make & repair clothes, curtains, slip covers and just about anything else made of fabric, and about a bazillion bottles of mercurochrome and St Joseph’s aspirin to fix us!

When Dad got laid off in the early 70’s, Mom went back to work, getting a secretarial job at Grand Union, a grocery chain with its headquarters in Elmwood Park, NJ.  She worked full time, Monday thru Friday while Dad worked odd jobs, refusing to take unemployment.  Between them, they assured we had no wants, parenting us through the 70’s and early 80’s (think crazy long hair… yes, that’s what we said) before we fledged ourselves.

When not working, Mom was a member of the Saddle Brook Women’s Club & a local theater group.  She thoroughly enjoyed socializing and entertaining, always conscious to carry and represent herself and our Family well outside the house.  She and the other neighborhood Moms would take turns hosting “Coffee Klatches,” sharing the latest about their Families and all that was going on in their lives.  She would often invite “company” to our house – whether relatives, neighbors, or friends… again.  Every visit was punctuated with good conversation, laughter, and some sort of Entenmann’s cake.    

She loved to shop though, given our limited income, “shopping ≠ buying”.  And while shopping, particularly when we were young, she’d always bring (drag?) the four of us with her.  While Louise quickly learned to love it, the three boys quickly learned to dread these “outings”.  (Editorial comment: it always seemed as though we just wandered around aimlessly for hours, in and out of every store, looking at everything and coming away with nothing… still a mystery to at least three of us!)

While Dad was clearly more imposing, Mom was no shrinking violet when it came to meting out punishment.  Again, Louise was rarely in her crosshairs, the boys seemed to attract it.  Her “go to” implement was the “wooden spoon,” (yes, that really was a thing).  While she had a very long fuse, as she had much more patience than most – there was indeed a limit.  She broke many a spoon raising us and, despite how it may sound – it was necessary and helped shape us into who we are today.  That said, there were indeed times when even the spoon wasn’t enough, and she would throw her trump card, “what until your father gets home!”  Those days / nights never ended well.  (Again, at least for the boys).

While she was the most caring and adoring parent, grandparent, and great grandparent in the world, she was oddly never an “animal person” nor a fan of “the great outdoors” – the exact opposite of Dad and the four of us (at least with the animals… Louise tended to side with Mom on the outdoors stuff).  Yet, she chose to “take one for the team,” letting us have pets and occasionally even agreeing to go camping – though she was clearly a fish out of water on those occasions!

While she drove (and was proud of it), she hated driving on highways, more often than not, choosing “to take the back roads”.  Doing so would invariably turn a :20-minute drive into an hour.  Now, she was not keen on directions which, upon reflection, is quite at odds with “taking the back way”.  So, what should have taken an hour, was now a solid hour and a half.  (But hey, at least we had AM Radio!)

She was incredibly proud of her Italian heritage, and, to our benefit, it reflected in her cooking.  Her lasagna was and remains the best we’ve ever had – and we’ll fight you if you think differently.  She would make sauce every few weeks, cooking it all day in a huge pot on the stove.  The smell of her sauce wafting through the house would invariably draw us to the kitchen where we’d wait anxiously for it to finish.  We’d be standing by with Italian bread, occasionally dipping bread into the pot when she wasn’t looking.  Then, after she poured it into containers to freeze, we’d attack the pot like hungry vultures!

Perry Como was far and away her favorite singer – she loved dancing with my Dad to his music.  It’s that last bit, that is perhaps what we will remember most.  The enduring love affair between them to which we were treated with front row seats.  While, like every couple, they had their moments – the time they spent together dancing (and it was much more often than you may think), was pure romance.  The way they looked at each other, held each other, and danced made it clear – there was nowhere else in the world they would rather be in those moments.  And that is how we will remember them.  Together, dancing in heaven, forever.

Bonus material - a few more personal stories:

Cliff: My memories of mom are many with some more prominent than others. I too was attracted to the kitchen and learned MANY different recipes from Mom and her family, particularly the Italian ones that to this day have stayed with me. While keeping true to the original, I blended them with my own style, all firmly based upon mom’s original family taught, tried and true go-to Italian dishes.  The many memories of what was for dinner or even more so, what’s in the pot, were paramount as growing children and young adults. Mom’s work with Grand Union provided our growing family with the added benefit and unforeseen bounty of various large roasts and meats provided to her because of her job as the assistant to the National Meat Buyer at Grand Union. Growing up we were fortunate to have so much protein, great for boys in sports, that we would literally take bags of meats and deliver them to our neighbors who also had young growing families…take this bag to Mrs. Linkletter, take this bag to Mrs. Puzio, and take this bag to Mrs. Evans, all of whom loved her special perk.  Both within our family and our neighbors’, everyone’s kids participated in many different sports, which required a great deal of calories to support. Her generosity towards them helped forge healthy kids and strong bodies all around our immediate neighborhood, none of which was fully recognized until years later.

Mom also had a particular fondness for our childhood pet cats and music. Cats, known for kindness and softness, provided mom with moments of sheer terror as they would intertwine between her legs while she cooked over the stove or peeled vegetables in the sink. As we watched late afternoon episodes of Batman, hoping for a CAT-woman villain, along with other shows of that era, Mom would suddenly let out a blood curdling scream from the kitchen as if she burned or cut herself badly. Alas, it was just the cat merely showing love to be quickly followed by, “get this “darn” cat out of here…I hate it!”

Musically, both mom and dad were from a different era where melody and crooners were the music of their day. I on the other hand was into anything but. From the soul pounding blues stylings of Led Zepplin to the Rolling Stones, to the R&B Funk bands of the day, the only music she could stand was Steely Dan, a staple of my listening library. All of these were played fiercely loud by a Soundsystem that literally dimmed the house lights due to the power they consumed and the volumes at which they were played. Ahh large stereo systems…nothing like it!  A particular song that became one of moms’ favorites was Eric Clapton’s, Lay Down Sally, that mom just adored. Oh, this is a nice song she would say, and come time for the chorus, “Lay Down Sally” became “Way Down South”, to which we would look at her proudly singing along while literally changing the lyrics completely unaware of the true words. Hey, Mom was singing, so why ruin things…sing on Mom!

Losing her, as one could imagine, is not easy, nor should it be. We were a loving family who cared greatly for each other and Mom’s support in whatever we were doing was always proud, loud, and evident.  Rest easy Mom, you were one of the best to ever own the title and wear the crown.  

Wease:  As Mom's only daughter I was blessed to have such an extraordinary woman as my Mom and roll model.  Mom was strong, kind, fun, creative and loving.  Her love and pride in her family was ever at the forefront.  She delighted in her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  No matter what kind of day she might be having her eyes would shine brightly when she was around them.  My girls especially had the privilege to spend a lot of time with her and benefit from her life lessons of what family means and so much more.   Mom was a lady to her core.  She always made an effort to primp and present herself as a lady should.  Some might think that old-fashioned but for Mom it was simply who she was, and she was admired by all for that quality.   Mom was very creative and would tell us that her childhood dream was to become an actress.  Although that particular dream wasn't fulfilled, she joined a local drama club in Saddle Brook and enjoyed it immensely.  Mom was also an incredible self-taught seamstress.   She made me the most beautiful dresses growing up and even sewed her own wedding dress.  She would tell us the story of how her Dad helped her cut out the pattern on their huge dining room table.  Of course, it was stunning, and Mom looked incredible.  How lucky and blessed I was to have such a special lady as my role model.   I will love you forever Mom.

Steve: Once, when I was 5, my Mom took an overnight trip with her brothers to visit my Aunt Adriana.  This was quite out of the ordinary for my Mom, as I don’t ever recall a time before or since that she traveled anywhere without my Dad or us, overnight.  Nevertheless, she’d arranged for a neighborhood girl to babysit the four of us while my Dad was at work.  That first day, Cliff was teaching me to ride my bike without training wheels in the backyard.  Together we decided I was ready for a road test, so we moved to the front yard, and he helped launch me down the driveway and into the street in front of the house.  It was awesome and I headed down the street on my own.  After briefly stopping to see if my friend was home (he wasn’t), I doubled back towards my house without first checking my 6.  Lying on the road, under the front end of a car, I realized I may have gotten ahead of myself.  While I don’t know the exact chain of events surrounding the notification of my Mom – I just know she got back home as quickly as she could and made my Dad take her to the hospital.  Seeing her in my room after the day’s event was perhaps the most welcome and reassuring sight of my life.  From that point on, within what the hospital would permit and afterwards through my recovery -- my Mom (and Dad) was there to care for me, fight for me and nurse me through about a 6 month recovery.   She’s always been there for my siblings and I – and I know somehow, she will be with us always.  Love you forever, Mom.  Get the sauce started, we’ll bring the Italian bread.

Dave:  Fighting back the tears as I write this and thinking about all the memories I have of my Mom is not easy.  Everything my brothers and sisters have shared about Mom sums up how much we loved her.  I wish I had called more or visited more but it's too late.  I'm so sorry mom, I will always remember you and love you and think of you forever.  Now go dance with Dad, ya hear?!!

Ion Petrescu, age 91 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 25, 2023, exactly sixteen years to the very day that his beloved wife Stefana left this world. Now they are reunited.

Ion was born and raised in Curtea de Arges, Romania.

After high school Ion pursued his dream of serving in the Romanian Army. He attended the Romanian Military Academy with the goal of qualifying to serve in the tank division. Technically, at six feet two inches tall, Ion was too big to fit properly, according to Army standards, in a tank, but he insisted that this was how he wanted to serve. The Army ultimately accommodated his wishes and Ion went on to attain the rank of Colonel and serve a thirty-plus year career as a tank commander and, for the last five years before retirement in 1986, as a professor in the Technical Military Academy of Bucharest teaching young soldiers tank combat maneuvers in even smaller tanks.

Ion met the love of his life, his beautiful wife Stefana, in his hometown of Curtea de Arges. They married on March 8, 1956 in the Curtea de Arges Monastery (Mănăstirea Curtea de Argeș). They were blessed with a storybook marriage including the blessing of their daughter Delia.

After Delia moved to the United States in 1986, Ion and Stefana began wintering with her and her husband Liviu in 1992. In 2007, they permanently relocated to the USA.

The greatest benefit of coming to America was the precious time that Ion was able to spend time with his daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren. He loved playing with his grandchildren and they always enjoyed hearing his interesting stories. But alas, kids eventually grow up and move out. When that time came, he turned his attention to the care of the family pooches, Fabio and Chance. He even tried to teach those dogs military time so that they knew exactly when to eat – 1800 hours. In between, Ion worked on writing his memoirs. He never finished but he left his family with lots of clearly written notes to share the tales of his rich life.

Ion was a quiet, soft-spoken man who lived life by the book and on a military schedule. His family was his greatest love and finest treasure.

Ion is survived by his loving daughter Dr. Delia Rappaport and husband Liviu, his two grandchildren: Sarah Rappaport and Jacob Rappaport and wife Kristen; his precious two-month old great-grandson Austin; and his sister Milita in Romania. He was predeceased by his older sister.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ion’s name are asked to consider:  

The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society

P.O. Box 22324

New York, NY 10087

To donate by phone: 888-557-7177

Please indicate that your gift is in loving memory of Ion Petrescu

Thomas James Williams, Jr. age 52, of Wayne, passed quietly and unexpectedly on Friday, November 24, 2023. Tom was born in Pequannock to Tom and Corinne Williams, he was raised in Wayne and graduated from DePaul High School.

An incredibly kind-hearted, genuine and humorous gentleman, Tom met the woman who became his wife, Dana Kuehm, at Farms View in Wayne. Tom and Dana married at the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist in Paterson on December 6, 1998, and honeymooned in Las Vegas then Disney World and then on a cruise. Their marriage was just shy of 25 years and blessed them with two sons: Alec and Adam.

For all the characteristics and personality that Tom had, he is best known as a selfless, thoughtful, caring, devoted and fantastic father to his sons. Tom lived what he believed and gave those same traits to his children. Tom’s love of nature and the outdoors was also a way of life.  Tom was most at peace in the tranquility of hunting and fishing with his sons.  He proudly wore the title of an Eagle Scout, a testament to his dedication, leadership, and unwavering commitment to serving others. Tom coached baseball and hockey for both boys.

Tom was always humble and kind.  His selflessness was evident everyday, one of his father in laws favorite memories was when he went to visit him at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital. A normally cold place, Tom’s mother-in-law was wearing a sweat shirt, only to find out there was a malfunction with the hospital’s heat and the room was unbearably hot.  Tom took the shirt off his back so that she could wear it. Of course, he had some explaining to do when he got home from the hospital shirtless.

Tom was the loving husband of Dana Kuehm-Williams; loving father of Alec and Adam Williams; son of Tom and Corrine Williams; 2 brothers; nephews & nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Daynas Pink Wishes, daynaspinkwishes.org, would be greatly appreciated.

Lilia C Andres, age 92, of Wayne NJ passed away on November 20th, 2023.

Lilia was born to Manuel P. Dopazo and Carmen Sabas in Entre Rios,  Argentina.  Her mother passed away from Pneumonia when she was just 10 months old.  Her father then married Sara Petrona Izaguirrez.  Her sister Sara Ines Dopazo was born of this marriage.

Lilia grew up in Entre Rios and went to school in Concordia. She went on to become a teacher.  She moved to Cordoba where she met Carlos Andres.  They married and had two daughters, Silvia and Maria Alejandra. In 1963 they emigrated to the United States.  In the US “Lila” worked as a teacher and graduated from St. John’s University with a Master’s Degree in Spanish Literature.   Later on, she worked with Carlos in their jewelry store “Andres Jewelers” in Paterson and then moved the store to Pompton Plains.  Silvia married Mario H Gonzalez and Alejandra married Robert Wuss. Silvia and Mario gave them 4 grandchildren: Mario, Gabriela, Gaston and Alejandro.  Maria and Robert had 3 children, Robert, Gregory and Matthew.  Maria died of cancer and Robert married Denise and had 2 daughters, Danielle and Nicole.  “Lila” had 4 great grandchildren August, Jasper, Carla and Nuno.

“Lila” enjoyed reading, gardening and dancing.  She loved playing with her grandchildren.  She was a very elegant, fashionable woman. She loved to entertain.  Her table settings had to be perfect and Mario and Robert enjoyed teasing her by removing food from her presentations before dinner was started! They also loved annoying her and even after she started losing her memory she would respond with a quick comeback. That playfulness remained well into her last days.  She was feisty but just as loving.  She will be missed by all that knew her.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Gaetana M. Acquaviva, age 92, entered into our God’s glorious kingdom on Saturday, November 18, 2023.

Gae was born on July 27, 1931 in Paterson, NJ. She was the second child of Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio(a) of Italy.  Gae celebrated her youth in Paterson, often discussing the long walks she would take to swimming pools, hikes in the woods, visits with aunts and uncles, big band concerts, church-centered festivals, and dances at the local Polish halls. She enjoyed singing in the acapella choir as a young girl and attending and participating in local opera productions.

Gae and Vince Acquaviva were married in 1954 and were active members of the Blessed Sacrament Roman Catholic parish community in Paterson, NJ. There they volunteered whenever needed, especially during the annual Parish Festival. Great memories of rides and stands, exceptional sausage and peppers sandwiches, and fresh zeppole were made.  Gae and Vince raised their two children, Camille and Vincent in the Riverside section where lifelong friendships and a love of our Italian-American heritage were firmly established.  Strong faith and values, devotion to family, country, and community, loyalty, tolerance, service, generosity, and compassion were ingrained daily.

Gae had compassion for and believed in a life of service to those with health challenges and to those in need financially or emotionally.  Her door was always open to joyfully serve and feed anyone who entered.

Gae worked in many capacities since she was 18 years old. She entered the work force as a medical secretary for local doctors and later worked as secretary at Kearfott Corporation before her children were born.  Gae had a strong work ethic and believed in contributing to her family’s income as her mother did before her.  She later worked in the main branch of the Paterson Public Library for several years, where she truly enjoyed her service in the music department.  There she arranged regular musical events and shared her love of music, theatre, and opera with her family.  She and Vince brought her children to their first Broadway musical where they had backstage passes and met with the star of the show!  Gae was also a beloved piano teacher after work and sometimes on Saturday mornings.  She loved the music vocation and the opportunity to further contribute to her family’s income. Again seeking to further benefit her family, Gae began college in her forties, and graduated from William Paterson University as a Teacher- Librarian in 1978, on the same day as her daughter’s college graduation. Gae then began teaching and completed her teaching career in 1997.  She was a trail blazer. Gae did it all – home, family, wife, career, and lots of socializing!

Gae loved to spend time with her husband, children, grandchildren, her parents, her brother Carmine, her brothers and sisters-in-law, and she cherished her nieces and nephews.  She remained close with her aunts and uncles, cousins, and their now grown children and was loved by all.

Gae always felt blessed, no matter life’s circumstances.  She believed that you must take the good with the bad and always be thankful.

Gae was a loving wife, mother, daughter, daughter-in-law, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, cousin, and friend.  She was a prayerful and faithful woman throughout her life, with a special devotion to the Blessed Mother.  An active member of the Legion of Mary, regular prayers, rosary recitation, visits to the sick, and works of charity were offered as part of her devotion to Our Lady.

Known for her delightful personality always having a smile on her face, Gae brought sunshine and hope to others on a regular basis.  She nourished souls.  Gae will be deeply and forever missed by her dear daughter Camille and her husband, Michael of Hazle Township, PA; her beloved son, Vincent Joseph and his wife Patrizia of Montville, NJ; and her adored grandchildren Kevin M. Reilly and his wife, Kelsey, Danielle M. Reilly, Vincent G. Acquaviva, Gianna Pierce and her husband, Brendan.  There will be an emptiness left in the hearts of her nieces and nephews Vincent J. Sabio and Robert Chavez, Joseph and RoseMary Saccoman, Joseph and Nancy Acquaviva,  Alfred and AnnMarie Acquaviva, her grand nieces and nephews, cousins, her dear friends at Siena Village and beyond, and her personal angel/caretaker, Marcelle.  Gae will join her deceased husband, Vincent; her grandson, Vincent George; her parents, Carmela and Vincenzo Sabio; her brother, Carmine Sabio; her sisters and brothers-in law, Mary, Madeline, Victor, Alfred, and Josephine; her beloved nieces, JoAnn and Anna; her grand nephews, Matthew and John, and more family members and dear friends in God’s heavenly kingdom.

Gaetana stands as an inspiration to us all, representing faith, family, sacrifice, mercy, tenacity, personality, and the celebration of what is good.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorials Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959

On November 17, 2023, Jill Alison Rapp (née Kempe), 69, passed away peacefully with the comfort of her family by her side. Jill is survived by her beloved husband James, of Wayne, NJ, and their three children; Alicia and Joseph of Wayne, NJ; Talia, of Queens, NY; and sister, Ginger (Kempe) Maione, of Madison, NJ.

Born in Glen Ridge, NJ, on March 19, 1954, to parents Hugh Arthur Kempe and Thelma Fox, Jill briefly lived in Nutley before the family moved to Wayne, to the house she lived in for the rest of her life. Through Sunday visits to Verps Bakery, or their yearly trips to the Cape, her tight-knit family was always there for each other. Jill attended Wayne Hills High School, and in lieu of traditional college, followed her artistic passion for performing music.

While in elementary school, Jill taught herself guitar which was the start of many years of playing, songwriting and singing. At fifteen years old, she and her sister attended Woodstock ’69, storming into the festival on the hood of a car. This love of music led to her fronting several bands—Eli Stone, The Crayons, and Burgundy Mist, to name a few—before performing solo as Jill Alison at any and every venue she could.

A lifelong lover of horses, Jill fondly recalled early riding lessons on her favorite horse, Comet, or dreams of owning her own Black Friesian Stallion to ride at a whim.

Jill’s work history was as varied as her interests. From the local video store, the assembly line at the cookie factory, and as a telemarketer, it wasn’t until later in life she found her calling in real estate. As an agent for Nico Reality, RE/MAX, and finally finding a home at Realty Executives, she exuded a no-nonsense confidence which garnered both her customers’ and co-workers’ respect.

She would often be seen at the breakfast table or at the school pick-up line reading her current literary obsession, or doing the New York Times Crossword puzzle in bright blue pen—never trifling with pencils. Every conversation someone found themselves in with her—often around the kitchen table over a vodka & Peach Snapple or martini—held a thoughtful, spirited (and often swear-filled) conversation. She made you feel smarter by association and was quick to have you laughing with her brutally-honest, yet always-empathetic point of view. In a world of people walking on eggshells, Jill stepped firmly in the direction she wanted to go.

Everyone who met Jill loved her, but none more than her husband, James. They met in 1977 on a softball field, and Jill knew a home run when she saw it. It wasn’t long before she was at his mother’s house for Sunday dinners with the rest of the family—having a bourbon with his father, Joseph, and sister, Felicia. She met Felicia’s son, Robbie when he was drooling into a can of Charles Chips and loved him ever since. She found easy conversations with Bob, and laughing fits with Margaret, James’ brother and other sister. Matriarch, Anita, took Jill under her cooking wing, even complimenting Jill’s sauce many years later—the highest praise. Everyone who saw Jim and Jill knew they were a match, especially Jill’s mother. Their families merged easily, leading the way to form their own.

Jill’s three lights of her life were her children: Alicia, Talia, and Joseph. A devoted mother, she sacrificed anything and everything to give her children every happiness and comfort. But Jill’s personal brand of motherhood didn’t stop with her own children; she looked out for all her many nieces and nephews. Always good for a sarcastic comeback, sharp joke, or sage advice, Jill would earn the mantle of ‘favorite,’ by many.

Jane passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 16, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Jane was born in Utica, NY and was one of six children to Harry and Mary Saccal.  The family resided in Utica, NY until Jane was about 5 years old, they then moved to Paterson, NJ.  While growing up in Paterson, Jane attended Our Lady of Lourdes and  St Bonaventure High School and graduated with the class of 1956.

As a young girl, Jane met a boy her same age, named Thomas DePasquale.  Jane and Thomas, who were intricately connected by the bonds of proximity and time, shared a unique journey that began in the neighborhood where they both grew up. As children, they played and attended school together.  As the years passed, so did the seasons of life, and the friendship that blossomed across the street evolved into a profound love. On the memorable day of September 14, 1957, Jane and Thomas exchanged vows, uniting their lives in matrimony at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Paterson, NJ.

The newlyweds settled in Paterson and while residing there, they welcomed the births of their first two sons, Thomas, and Gary.  The family then moved to West Paterson where they welcomed their next two sons, Steven, and David.  They raised their children in West Paterson, They moved to Totowa in 1974 and after they had grown, the couple moved to Boonton, NJ in 2004, with their son David to help with child care for his two children Mia and Nicky. David and his wife Ann were respected physicians,  Jane and Thomas wanted to ensure that their grandchildren were cared for by family , and help David and Ann pursue professional careers.

Jane, a determined and skilled woman, embarked on her professional journey right after high school, joining the dynamic world of Bell Telephone in the Accounting Department. Her few years of dedicated service to the telecommunications giant allowed her to hone her communication and organizational skills. However, life took an enchanting turn when she found love and had her first child. Faced with the choice between career and family, Jane made the heartfelt decision to embrace the role of a full-time mother. Transitioning from the bustling office environment to the warmth of her home, she poured her energy into creating a nurturing and loving environment for her family.  Jane eventually went back to work after her children had grown, helping as a receptionist at the family owned “DePasquale Salon” in Morris Plains, NJ.

Jane was a vibrant and adventurous woman whose zest for life was reflected in her diverse interests. Her passion for traveling took her frequently to destinations in Europe, where she immersed herself in the rich tapestry of cultures, savoring the unique experiences each destination offered.  Jane was an avid tennis player and embraced the sport's competitive and social aspects. Complementing her active lifestyle, she found solace in the gym, and maintained a healthy balance between strength and agility. Jane also discovered a tranquil sanctuary on the Yoga mat, harmonizing her mind and body in a practice to achieve an overall well-being.

Aside from all her interests, talents, and hobbies, Jane’s greatest passion in life was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.  She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  Jane was not only devoted to her family, but she was also devoted to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of St Bonaventure Church in Paterson and later St James of the Marches RC Church in Totowa.

Jane was a “larger than life” person who was outspoken and “told it like it is.” Those who knew Jane always knew where they stood with her.  Jane will be forever remembered as a truly devoted mother, grandmother, and great grandmother.  She was a sincerely special person who touched the lives of all those around her.  Jane will be sorely missed by her family and friends.

Jane is survived by her three sons; Thomas DePasquale and his wife Linda of Wayne, NJ, Gary DePasquale and his wife Elisa of Naples, FL, Steve DePasquale and his wife Sue of Lafayette, NJ,and her daughter inlaw Ann of Booton, two brothers Joseph Saccal, and George Saccal, one sister Shirley DeMeyere, nine grandchildren; Thomas DePasquale IV, Dawn Marie DePasquale, Michael DePasquale, Jordan Jane DePasquale, Steven James DePasquale, Robert Thomas DePasquale, Mia Evelyn DePasquale, Nicholas Daniel DePasquale, and Bianca Louise DePasquale, and seven great grandchildren; Julien David DePasquale, Wyatt Jack DePasquale, Daniel Matthew DePasquale, Michael James DePasquale, Harlie Jane DePasquale, and Levi David DePasquale.  Jane was predeceased by her son Dr David DePasquale in 2009, and by her two sisters; Rosie Sano, and Margie Previte.

In lieu of flowers , donations in Jane's name may be made to Alzheimer's Association.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nathalie Lindsay Skorton (nee Heaphy), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.

Nathalie passed away peacefully on Tuesday November 14, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Nathalie was born and raised in Lyndhurst, NJ and was the older of two daughters to Bernard and Gloria Heaphy.  As a young girl, Nathalie and her sister, Evelyn, spent their summers at Lindy Lake in West Milford and attended Lyndhurst High School where she excelled in academics.  She was also a gifted athlete playing tennis and swimming while a student in high school.  After graduating with the class of 1948, Nathalie attended Rutgers University and earned her insurance broker’s license and went to work in the insurance field with Cullen, Bogart & Parker in Newark where she learned the intricacies of the industry.

Nathalie seized an opportunity to join the Steel Insurance Agency in Wayne in 1966 where she grew her business as a Broker and office manager. In 1983 she embarked on her dream to own her own business opening the Natalie Lindsay Skorton Insurance Agency in Wayne. With a passion for helping others and a keen understanding of the industry, Nathalie built her business from the ground up and became an embodiment in the spirit of the “Greatest Generation” where hard work and perseverance bring just rewards. Her dedication, integrity, and commitment to personalized service set her agency apart in a competitive industry. Her son James, who had grown up witnessing his mother's entrepreneurial spirit, joined her at the agency and stepped into the leadership role in later years.  After retiring at age eighty-nine in 2020, Nathalie's legacy lives on through James, ensuring the ongoing success of the insurance agency she had lovingly built.

Nathalie moved to the town of Wayne in 1966 where she raised her two sons, Robert and James.  After moving to Wayne, she called it her home for the rest of her life.  While on a bus trip to Lake Placid sponsored by Wayne Township, Nathalie met a charming man named Donald Skorton.  On the return trip home, there was a terrible snowstorm that brought traffic to a standstill.  The two talked for several hours and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on November 28, 1968 they became husband and wife at the First Reformed Church in Wayne. Nathalie and Donald cherished nearly fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Donald’s passing in 2018

Nathalie was a captivating individual with an insatiable passion for politics and an innate gift for conversation and debate. She served as Secretary of the Republican Party in Wayne in the late 1960’s. Nathalie was the consummate “news junkie” and when important national or global stories would unfold she would invariably absorb different sides of a story gaining the perspective from varied news outlets before formulating her own point of view. In her later years she became a champion for woman’s rights and the Me Too Movement. To open a discussion with her about current events it was best to have one’s facts in order because her conversations were more than exchanges of information; they were dynamic, thought-provoking dialogues that engaged and challenged those around her.

Above all Nathalie’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  She was an avid NY Mets fan and never missed a Notre Dame football game. Nothing in the world meant more to Nathalie than providing for and spending time with her children and her grandchildren.  Nathalie was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people.  She was truly loved by her family and friends as well as her colleagues and peers.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Nathalie is survived by her sons Robert Lindsay and his wife Bernadette of Denville, NJ, and James Lindsay of Wayne, NJ, four grandchildren: Ryan Lindsay and his wife Jess of Oakland, CA, Katelyn Cronin and her husband Nick of Wynnewood, PA, Jessica Lindsay of Denville. NJ, and Bobby Lindsay of Cherry Hill, NJ, four great granddaughters; Willa, RobIn, Norah, and Margot. She was predeceased by her husband Donald Skorton in 2018, and by her sister (and best friend) Evelyn Eberling.

Raymond Rapp, age 84, of Wayne passed Tuesday, November 14, 2023, with the love and comfort of family by his side.

Raymond, fondly known as Ray, was born on January 29, 1939 to Edward and Anna Rapczynski and graduated from Harrison High School in Harrison, N.J., having played on the football team with the Class of 1957.  His journey through life was marked by dedication, love, and a spirit of adventure.

Ray’s commitment to service began early when he enlisted in the Army as a cook, discovering a love for culinary arts that would become a lifelong passion.  After his honorable service, he continued his pursuit of education and personal growth, working diligently as he attended school at night at Upsala College.

In 1969, Ray embarked on a beautiful journey of 54 years of marriage with his beloved spouse, Linda. Their union was a testament to love, commitment, and the joy found in shared experiences.

Following his military service, Ray found employment as an Office Manager at Coastal Oil Company, where his dedication and work ethic quickly garnered recognition.  Over the years, he demonstrated not only his organizational skills but also his ability to adapt and learn, earning him a promotion to the position of Controller.

For the next 25 years, Ray dedicated himself to Coastal Oil Company, witnessing and contributing to its growth through a merger with BP.  His commitment to excellence and his unwavering work ethic were not just professional qualities but integral aspects of his character.  He retired in 2004, concluding his remarkable career as a Comptroller with Prolerized Shiabo Neu.

Upon his retirement in 2004, Ray embraced the next chapter of his life with the same enthusiasm that defined his earlier years.  His honesty, patience, and genuine kindness endeared him to all who had the privilege of knowing him.  A man of few complaints, he faced life’s challenges with a stoic grace that left a lasting impression on those around him.

Ray’s sense of humor, twinkle in his eye, and easy going nature made him a joy to be around.  He approached each day with a sense of adventure, whether it was fishing, golfing or enjoying the tranquility of the beach.  His love for the outdoors and hands-on work led him to find joy in renovating and building, leaving behind tangible reminders of his skill and dedication.

A loving father, Ray took pride in his two daughters, offering unwavering support and encouragement.  He was equally proud of his five grandchildren and cherished attending their sporting events, dance competitions, cheer showcases, theater performances and graduations.  His presence was a source of strength and inspiration for each of them.

Ray was not only a loving father but also a cherished father-in-law and uncle.  His warmth and guidance extended to his extended family, creating lasting bonds of love and support.  His role as a father-in-law and uncle was marked by the same generosity, compassion, and wisdom that defined his relationships with his immediate family.

Ray’s love for cooking extended beyond his military days, and he became known for always preparing enough to feed an army or a few hundred people.  This generous spirit reflected his desire to share not just meals but moments of joy and togetherness with others.

Ray’s inquisitive mind found joy in learning through reading the daily paper and listening to NPR.  His generosity and acceptance touched the lives of many, making him a beloved friend and confidant. Whether traveling, socializing with friends, or spending cherished moments with family, Ray’s warmth and compassion left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to share in his life.

Ray’s legacy extends beyond his professional achievements and family bonds; he was a founding parent who played an instrumental role in creating the youth soccer program that has become an integral part of his beloved Packanack community. His vision, passion and commitment to fostering community spirit through sports have left an indelible mark.  As a founding parent, Ray's dedication went beyond administrative duties. He was a mentor, coach, and advocate for the values of teamwork, discipline, and sportsmanship. The program, which started as a small initiative, flourished with his guidance, becoming a cherished institution that continues to shape the lives of countless young athletes in the community.

Ray is survived by his loving wife, Linda (nee Wanke), his two daughters:  Christine Rogan of Wayne and Holly McAllen and her husband Joseph of Wayne; five grandchildren:  Caitlyn Rogan, Liam Rogan, Connor McAllen, Kyra McAllen, Cali Rae McAllen; niece Victory Magee and her husband Henry, niece Elyssa Magee, niece Sabrina Jenkins and her husband Ramon, niece Natasha, nephew Mathew Rapczynski, nephew Kenneth Rapczynski, and sister-in-law Nina Rapczynski.  He was predeceased by his brothers, Matthew and Richard.

As we say our goodbyes, let us remember Ray for the extraordinary person he was - a man of integrity, resilience, and boundless love.  May his memory live on in our hearts as we celebrate the remarkable life he lived.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made to Alzheimer's Association and Atlantic Visiting Nurses.

John "JC" Cunningham, age 88 of Oakland and formerly of Towaco, died peacefully at home on Sunday, November 12, 2023 surrounded by his wife, Marge and daughters, Lori and Debbie.

Raised in Irvington, NJ, John spent his formative years in Wayne, NJ, where he graduated from Wayne High School in 1953. A man of strong work ethic, John began working as a delivery truck driver for Circle Building Supply in Wayne when he was just a teenager. After several weeks of driving the delivery truck, he asked his boss if he could have an afternoon off. When his boss asked him why, John explained that he didn’t have a driver’s license and it might be a good idea to get one. In 1958, duty called and John was drafted into the U.S. Army, serving with honor until 1960.

Upon returning from service, John drove trucks for several area companies, and he owned and operated his own dump truck as well, delivering stone, fill, and topsoil throughout the Northern New Jersey area. His love of cars found him operating Little Falls Auto Repair from 1977 to 1985.  During this time, he owned a race car, and weekends were synonymous with family trips to the Orange County, NY racetrack. Racing was part of John’s soul, and his enthusiasm for racing was infectious, creating lasting memories for his family and friends.

Later in his career, John worked as a dedicated truck driver for Dan Como and Sons in Towaco, NJ. He retired from there on July 2, 2008, the same day his beloved wife Marge retired from her job. A true perfectionist, John insisted on doing things his way, leaving a legacy of excellence in everything he touched. His cherished 1999 Chevy Silverado Pickup truck, meticulously maintained by John himself, stands as a testament to his care and pride.

In January of 1961, during a significant snowstorm, fate intervened when John came to the aid of Marge Douma, helping to free her car from a snowdrift. She was out cruising in her father’s ’51 Chevy, which she was sure could never get stuck in anything…until it did. This chance encounter led to a cup of coffee. Soon thereafter, John took her out on a first date, showing up to her house wearing a suit. Marge’s mother was very impressed, and she loved John even before Marge had a chance to get to know him! After many fun nights at the bowling alley, the beginnings of their love story unfolded. They married on October 27, 1962, followed by a honeymoon in Miami Beach. Throughout their journey together, they lived in Hawthorne and Pompton Plains before settling into their family home in Towaco, NJ, where they shared twenty-five years of love and laughter. In 2008, after retiring, John and Marge embarked on a new chapter in Mooresville, NC, where they lived near their daughter and grandchildren. More recently they moved to Oakland, NJ to be near to their other daughter, always keeping family close.

A man of diverse interests, John had a soft spot for his cats. Over the years, he welcomed five beloved cats into his home, each leaving paw prints on his heart. There was Skeeter whose disposition earned him the nickname “Lucifer,” and then there was DJ (perhaps his favorite of all), and Miss Daisy, Mister, and Gary. He adored his cats and loved them all to the fullest.

John will be fondly remembered by his friends and loved ones. He is survived by his loving wife, Marge (nee Douma), his two daughters: Lori Brolsma and her husband Larry of Mooresville, NC and Debbie Tuit and her husband Ray of Oakland, NJ; five grandchildren: Ashley Bryan (Chris), Chuck Zulovitz, Alexandra Zulovitz, Shelby Dench (Kyle), Garrett Brolsma (Karlyn); seven great-grandchildren: Clara, Bonham, Tyler, Erica, Colin, Sula, and Prescott, and one brother: Robert Cunningham (Ellie) of Columbia, SC. He was predeceased by his brother, Richard Cunningham.

Robert D Avrach, age 72 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Friday, November 10, 2023 with the comfort of his family by his side.

Robert was the son of David and Joyce Avrach. He grew up in Riverdale, NY along with his two sisters Linda and Donna. He went to  DeWitt Clinton High School where he was a great athlete throughout  his school years, baseball being his favorite sport.

Robert joined the US Army in November 1970 and served in Vietnam. He ended his army service in October of 1972 and he was always so very proud of his service to his country.

Robert had many different jobs throughout his life. His first job as an adult was in the corporate offices of Toys R Us.  He retired from Fleetwash, Fairfield NJ in 2018, where he had worked for the last 10 years.

Robert met his wife Maureen on a blind date at the end of October 1974 and they were married on January 9, 1975. They have been married for 48 years and have one son, Matthew age 43 and a wonderful daughter in law Valerie.

Robert has always loved playing guitar, his favorite song being Steamer Lane Breakdown by the Doobie Brothers. He loved his cats, the most recent one being Daisy. They would spend many hours together watching TV and sleeping. During his retirement years Robert volunteered at a cat rescue and he was always feeding stray cats.

Robert enjoyed spending time with his family. One of his favorite hobbies was to act as the family weatherman. He liked to refer to himself as “Baarometer Bob”. He would keep everyone in the family who was traveling abreast of their weather conditions.

In lieu of flowers or gifts the family would love if you would donate to the Friends of Wayne Animals. It is a no kill animal shelter in Wayne. If you prefer to mail in a donation, please send to:

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

MARY MATILDA RONAYNE, age 78 of Wanaque, New Jersey, slipped into the arms of our heavenly Father on Wednesday, November 8, 2023. She was at home with the family she dearly loved as she drew her last breath. God blessed her to bless others. Born on January 29, 1945, Mary was the eldest child of Gerald and Matilda Hulton of Nutley, New Jersey.

Mary was a graduate of Marylawn of the Oranges High School in 1962. She then went on to St. Mary's School of Nursing where she graduated in 1965. She worked at Berverly Hills Doctors Hospital in California, St. Mary's Hospital Passaic, NJ and Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ as a ICU/CICU nurse. Mary then went on to become a school nurse at Immaculate Conception School in Montclair, New Jersey.

Mary is survived by her 2 sisters, Jane Vecciarelli (John) and Patricia Petry. In 1970, Mary Hulton married Michael Ronayne at Saint Mary’s Church in Nutley, New Jersey. They raised 4 children together, Mary Beth Kopacz (Henry), Michael Ronayne (Nicole), Laura Healy (Kevin) and Sarah Molnoski (Brian). Mary was blessed with 7 grandchildren that she loved dearly, Lillian Kopacz (16), Katie Molnoski (16), Grace Healy (14), Sheila Healy (11), Brian Molnoski (10), Hudson Ronayne (9), Evelyn Ronayne (4).

The family respectfully requests that, in lieu of flowers, a tax-deductible tribute donation be made in Mary's honor to St Jude Children's Research Hospital

Paul Joseph Crecca Sr. passed away on November 7, 2023, at the age of 92.

He is survived by his wife Louise of nearly 70 years and his three children, Paul Jr., Sharon, and Carrie, along with three grandchildren and four great grandchildren, and his beloved Shih Tzu, Snoopy.

Paul was an electrical engineer by trade who worked for Otis Elevator for over 50 years, where he started out of high school and with his mechanical genius rose to become the supervising elevator engineer on the construction of the World Trade Center, just one of many major accomplishments of note. Paul loved fishing and all animals. Paul was born and raised in Bloomfield NJ, moving to Wayne NJ in 1986 where he lived until his passing. Please God bless Paul, he will be greatly missed by all his family.

Clarence Place, 96, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Sunday, November 5, 2023, in the comfort of his family.

“Keep moving” was his motto. Born in Brooklyn, NY, “Buddy” sure did keep moving. He attended Grover Cleveland High School, took a job delivering meat, and then worked for Transogram Toy Factory in Long Island City. At 16 years old his family moved to Wayne, where he worked for Heyer Schultz as a metal polisher and then lathe operator. At 17 years old he got permission to join the Navy. He bravely served with the Seabees and was sent to Okinawa where he was stationed at Yellow Beach #3.

In June of 1946, he left the service and went back to work for Heyer Schultz. In 1947, his brother Bill took over his job and Buddy then went to work at the Parker Shell Gas Station. After that he became a Fireman on a steam engine for the Lackawanna Railroad. He also worked in a machine shop for Ernie Miles and delivered coal for Bailey & Winters.

In those days there were Fireman’s Fairs at the Parish Oval ball field in Wayne. His future father-in-law, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Community Fire Company #1 at the time. And it was there that he met his sweetheart, Roberta “Bobbie” Wenderoth, while giving her quarters to play the games. They were married in 1952. His boss, Ernie Miles, let him borrow his car for the wedding. They settled in Wayne, building a house on Market Street with the help of his in-laws, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth, who also had a home next door. Both houses were later relocated across the street when Route 80 was established. They had two wonderful children, Robert and Susan. They all enjoyed many backyard picnics and barbecues, usually serenaded by the family “band”. Buddy also purchased a boat, named it “Windy”, and had many days of fun with swimming and water skiing at Greenwood Lake, and crabbing at the Jersey Shore.

During their early married years, Buddy worked for Richtex Company doing laminating and embossing. The company became a division of Firestone, where he became a foreman and then Assistant Plant Manager. In 1974, he and his wife Bobbie purchased a house in Seaside Park, NJ, where after retiring from Firestone in 1981, he did commercial crabbing with 100 pots in the bay from 1982-1983. He later built a new home on a lagoon in Forked River, but relocated back to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just a block and a half away from their first home.

To keep “busy” he became a part-time bartender for Gabriel’s Hotel and Restaurant. He further served his community in Wayne by being on the Planning Board from 1972-1979, and Chairman in 1974. He also purchased a motorhome and took many trips.

Buddy and Bobbie eventually sold their house in Wayne and settled permanently in Seaside Park where they spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time relaxing together on their front porch. He stopped working for a short time, but, being a life-long avid golfer, he went to work for the Cedar Creek Golf Course in Berkeley Township 3-4 days a week at 80 years old. He retired from that job in December of 2018 at the age of 92.

Always known for his friendly and helpful demeanor, he had his supply inventory of fix-it’s to help anyone in need. Being an accomplished self-taught builder, carpenter, electrician, plumber, etc. he was one-of-a-kind. And the best cheek pincher ever!

Clarence is predeceased, only three weeks prior, by his loving wife of 71 years, Roberta “Bobbie” Place. He is survived by his son Robert Place, Patricia Place, granddaughter Krysti Place and her partner Jeffrey Palmer, and great-grandson Chase; his daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr., granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; sister-in-law Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and his wife Laura, and their son Eric, nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew; and sister Denny Knight and her husband Dave.

He was a remarkable man who led a remarkable life. A loving son, brother, husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, uncle, friend, and neighbor. Keep moving indeed. And while he will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate his incredible life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Raymond Smith Eutermarks, IV, born July 30th, 1976, age 47, of Pequannock, NJ passed away Saturday, November 4th, 2023, of a sudden and unexpected heart attack.

Raymond is survived by his three children, Mikayla, Emily, and Raymond, who were the light of his life, his wife, Kelly, his parents, Raymond, and Elizabeth, three siblings, Jean, Ryan and Robyn and his partner, Gena Pilitsis. Among his immediate family there are countless aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and friends who would have considered him to be as close as a brother and loved just as much.

Raymond grew up in Pequannock, the beloved first born of Raymond and Elizabeth. Their childhood home was a center for countless memories from birthday parties and holiday celebrations to the numerous gatherings that brought forth hours of jokes and love of just being together.

Raymond’s greatest accomplishment was the birth of his children. It is from them that his greatest joy came. He was so immensely proud of them and all their accomplishments. He loved to share with them his interests and hobbies. Some of his favorite memories came from their trips down the shore. The children were so proud of his new apartment and were looking forward to creating many memories there.

Raymond had first started to work alongside his Father at Butler Printing and Laminating, where they worked together for over 20 years. He later obtained his Black Seal low pressure boiler operator license and continued to work in various maintenance positions over the past years including his latest at Arrow Shed Industries.

Raymond’s personality can best be explained through his passion. He never did anything small. There were no half measures or easing into anything; it was always full bore, 120%, all or nothing, top of the line only. He took the bull by the horns and would enjoy anything life had to offer to its fullest extent.

He had a contagious laugh, recognizable from miles away. It was as boisterous as it was charming. Raymond had a love for people. He was one of the most charismatic people anyone could meet. Ray could connect with and befriend just about any person in the world, no matter what walk of life they may have been from.

His hobbies were immense, fish tanks, video games, drones, collectible cards, etc. But whatever it was, you knew he was going to jump into it with everything he had. His fish tanks were going to be the best, filled with the most colorful fish and rarest coral. He also had a love for music. 90’s Rap, most notably Wu Tang Clan, was among his favorites.

Raymond’s enthusiasm did not just exist for all that life had to offer, but more importantly for his family. It was his love of his family that was most important to him. The love of his children, parents, sisters, and brother is what drove him the most every day. Being surrounded by them is what he loved most.

Raymond will be missed and loved more than can be written. His Family will forever have his memory and love reside within each of them. His passion and legacy will live on within his children for whom he loved more than could ever be explained.

Biagio “Gino” Varone, Jr., age 37 of Wayne, died Saturday, November 4, 2023.

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the sudden and untimely passing of Gino Varone, a beloved son, brother, nephew, cousin, and friend. Gino leaves behind a legacy of kindness, strength, and love. Gino’s personality was very much like his own father’s; making friends everywhere he went. He demonstrated an exceptional willingness to help others in need, showcasing a unique blend of strength and toughness combined with compassion and protectiveness.

Gino was passionate about exercising and maintaining a healthy lifestyle through fitness, throughout high school and adulthood he remained fiercely dedicated to sustaining excellent physical condition by frequenting the gym and eating well. Gino always felt compelled to be prepared for life’s challenges, especially for the unexpected. If anyone was ready for the Apocalypse, it was Gino! His preparedness and resourcefulness were just a few of his endearing qualities.

In his early professional life, Gino worked in private security, having worked with renowned artists such as Brett Michaels and various EDM artists across marque New Jersey venues. Since 2018, he’s dedicated his time and energy to Passaic County Technical Institute (PCTI), where he worked in maintenance. As Gino did best, he made friends with everyone there and left a lasting impact on the PCTI community.

Gino’s love extended beyond humans; he deeply cherished his three dogs, Spock, Thor and Ace and his cat, Sylvester. His love for his animals knew no bounds, and his furry companions brought him immense joy and comfort.

In celebrating Gino’s life, let us remember the lessons he imparted - the importance of kindness, the power of resilience, and the beauty of his special love. His memory will forever live on in the hearts of those he touched, reminding us all to be compassionate, strong, and willing to help others in need.

Gino is survived by his beloved mother; Bernadette Varone of Wayne, his two brothers; Michael Varone and his wife Jessica of Pompton Lakes, and Matthew Varone of Wayne, his three nephews; Mason, Micheal, and Joseph; his uncles Elias Massood and his wife Patricia of North Wildwood, NJ; Michael Massood and his wife Vivian of Franklin Lakes, NJ; and Edward Massood and his fiancé Robin of Greensboro, NC; his aunt Mary Massood of Woodland Park, NJ; his cousins, and dear friends. Gino was predeceased by his father, Gino Sr., in 2007; by his grandfather, Michael Massood Sr., in 2020 and his grandmother, Helen Massood, in 1997.

Robert A. Hughes of Wayne passed away peacefully on November 3, 2023 surrounded by his family.  He was 85.

Bob was a Certified Public Accountant with ‘Paul Newman eyes’, and resided in Wayne for 54 years where he and his wife, Barbara, raised their two children.  He will be fondly remembered for his masterful storytelling, his love of sports, and his ever present sense of humor.  

Bob will be dearly missed by his loving wife Barbara, his children, Kathleen and her partner Mark, and Thomas and wife Maori, and his beloved grandchildren Teddy and Maya.

Gayle W. Babitz, age 82, of Wayne passed peacefully holding the hand of her husband John, on Thursday, November 2, 2023.

She was born in Paterson and raised at 23 Squaw Brook Road in North Haledon. She graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1959.  After high school she continued her education at a Paterson secretarial school.  

Gayle’s first job was for one dollar an hour at the Haband store on North 8th Street in Paterson, the Sears Roebuck Company in Paterson and the New Jersey Bell Telephone Company in Paterson as a keypunch operator until 1964 when she was pregnant with her first child.   In 1982, when her children were old enough, she worked for the Sicoma Chiropractic Company in Prospect Park and finally the Dale Family Chiropractic Company in Midland Park where she worked for twenty years before retiring in 2001.

Gayle was a lady of remarkable strength and talent, who has a profound love for crafting.  Her passion for knitting, quilting, sewing, and especially crocheting, has always been a vibrant part of her life.  In 2001, Gayle faced a significant health challenge when she had to get a mechanical valve in her aorta.  Her spirit remained undeterred, and this didn’t slow her down in the least.  During the challenging times of the COVID-19 pandemic, she found a unique way to make a difference.  Gayle crocheted 400 vibrantly colored pillows, a testament to her skill and dedication to others. These were donated to the Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, bringing comfort and a touch of home to others.  Her story is a testament to the power of resilience, creativity, and kindness. Gayle’s dedication to others is also exemplified by her joining the Ladies Auxiliary of Preakness Volunteer Fire Company 4 in Wayne where she has served from 1967 and was still a member in 2023. Those who know Gayle will remember her never being able to sit for too long and suddenly stating “C’mon Let’s Go!”

John and Gayle's serendipitous encounter began with a blind date that would change their lives forever. On a warm summer evening, they found themselves at a nostalgic drive-in theater, where they were about to watch "The Misfits," starring Clark Gable and Marilyn Monroe. As the screen flickered to life, John's heart raced with anticipation. Sitting beside him was Gayle, a woman of grace and charm, who shared his excitement. What made this rendezvous even more special was the company of John's supportive brother and sister-in-law, who had orchestrated the blind date. Little did John and Gayle know that the silver screen would be the backdrop to their first kiss, budding romance, one that would flourish into a lifelong love story, full of adventure, laughter, and cherished memories. John asked Gayle’s mom if he could marry her, and she emphatically said “NO.” John’s mom felt the same way and insisted they wait until they were twenty-one years old. John and Gayle would outlast his and her mother’s and marry on November 3, 1962, when they were both twenty-one, at Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson.  It is said they honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  John and Gayle have enjoyed sixty-one years of a loving, laughter-filled, and devoted, marriage of “best friends.”

Gayle is survived by her husband John J. Babitz, Jr., she was the loving mother of Bryan Babitz and his wife Ruth of Zephyrhills, FL, Cheryl Barnes and her husband Kevin of Totowa, John Babitz and his wife Lisa of Maiden, NC, and her extended family Diane Simon of Euless, TX and Paul Simon of Grand Prairie, TX; and she was the devoted grandmother of Liz Babitz, Johnny Babitz, Lexi Babitz, Kevin Barnes, Jake Barnes, and Christopher Fuentes.

Instead of flowers the family would greatly appreciate memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s New Jersey, or the St Jude Children’s Research Hospital to honor Gayle’s memory.

Antoinette Cafone, 100, of Wayne, lovingly known as Toni, passed away peacefully with her cherished family around her.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, to immigrant parents Aniello and Rose, Toni was also known for her modeling and love of baseball, theater, and world travel.

She was known for her proficiency as a local beautician for over 50 years and so graciously donated her time as a stylist to Little Sisters of the Poor Nursing Home as well as visits to her homebound clients.

Toni was predeceased by her husband Julio, survived by her sister Phyllis Solino, and predeceased by her dear brothers Rev. Arthur DeMaio, and Frank DeMaio, and sisters Anna Scirone, Lucy Picarello, and Vera Vingelli.  She is survived by her daughters: Fredlyn and her husband Peter, Ginny and her husband Jack, Julianne and her husband Craig, Sue Ellen and her husband Brendan, Nicole and her husband Jack.  She is also survived by her grandchildren: Tara (Jeff) Barnard, Dawn (Greg) Ross, Adrianna (Rob) Parsons, Jesse Cuff, Kelly (Chris) Vieira, Erin Kearney, Kristen Meyer, Bobby (Amanda) Taylor, and Jack Meyer.  Toni was blessed to have 13 loving great-grandchildren: Matthew, Caleb, Angelina, Christopher, Braden, Bella, Julia, Julian, Antonia, Scarlett, Johnny, Savannah, and Theo. Toni is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews.

Holiday traditions were an important part of her legacy, as family was her first priority and her greatest gift of all. Toni had a unique relationship with each of her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, making each feel special and loved.  She will be deeply missed by all.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in Antoinette's name are asked to consider Suncrest Hospice, 35 Waterview Blvd #100, Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ 07054 or Annunication of the Blessed Virgin Mary RC 45 Urban Club Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Leslie Ronald Spencer, age 83 of Paterson, died on October 31, 2023. Leslie, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and uncle, was born in Georgetown, Guyana in 1940. Leslie was the beloved son of a tightly knit family with three brothers and a sister. His early fascination with boat and motor repair in his native land revealed his inherent mechanical aptitude, a talent that would shape his life and leave a lasting impression on those who knew him.

In 1968, Leslie and his beloved wife, Leonora, began a new journey by immigrating to the United States. Together, they navigated life’s ups and downs with steadfast love and commitment. Leslie’s dedication wasn’t confined to his family; he served as a Union Shop Steward for Kaysam Corporation, representing his co-workers in the Amalgamated Transit Union Local 1056 in New York with pride. His dedication and hard work led to his Black Seal Boiler License. Even after Kaysam Corp. shut down, Leslie continued to work for Harman Cove Towers until his well-earned retirement in 2003. His knack for fixing anything was not just a skill but a testament to his generosity and readiness to assist others. Leslie’s hands were always busy; he devoted his time to helping relatives with various home repairs and enhancements, leaving a legacy of skill and care in many homes.

A fervent sports fan, Leslie took pleasure in baseball and was a devoted New York Mets supporter. Despite his family’s disappointment, he was also a NY Giants fan. He derived joy from the victories of his favorite teams. However, the most significant source of joy for him was spending cherished moments with his family, children, and grandchildren. He maintained a unique bond with his brothers through weekly Saturday phone calls that kept them connected despite the distance.

Leslie’s romance with Leonora was akin to a fairy tale. They met serendipitously on a cruise and fell profoundly in love. In no time at all, Leslie asked Leonora’s parents for her hand in marriage—a proposal initially rejected by Leonora’s father! Undeterred, Leslie eventually won him over, and they were married on June 1, 1963. Their enduring union was filled with love and blessed with family and cherished memories. For over sixty years, they shared their lives and dreams—an embodiment of love’s power, resilience, and commitment.

Leslie leaves behind a legacy of love, strength, and kindness. His memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those lucky enough to have known him. As we honor his life, let’s remember the lessons he imparted—the significance of family, the worth of hard work, and the infinite potential of love. As we grieve his departure, let’s also commemorate the extraordinary journey of a dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and uncle who touched the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Leslie is survived by his wife Leonora of Paterson; their four children: Ronald (and wife Rosalie) of Brooklyn, Roger of New Jersey, Marcelle Cheron (and husband Harry) of Paterson, and Arthur of Paterson; eleven grandchildren: Shanisse, Spencer, Quintin, Danielle, Samantha, Sydney, Abigail, Nazreen, Shaun, Janae, and Nevaeh; five great-grandchildren: Mason, Jaxon, Jaylen, Quinell, and Ezra; and one sister: Jennifer David of Paterson. He was predeceased by his three brothers: Allan Spencer of Guyana, James Spencer of Guyana and Frank Spencer of Canada.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Leslie’s memory would be greatly appreciated to Royal Family Ministries Inc. Please click on this link to donate online: Royal Family Ministries.

John A. Demetrius, a man of great energy and boundless love passed away on Monday, October 30, 2023. He was 92.

Born and raised in the borough of Brooklyn, NY, John was the child of James and Anna Demetrius. He departed this world leaving behind a legacy of resilience, generosity, and an indomitable work ethic.

John began his journey as a young adult by graduating with the Class of 1949 from Midwood High School in Brooklyn. His thirst for knowledge and academic excellence led him to pursue a bachelor's degree from New York University and a master's degree in accounting from Pace University. Remarkably, John put himself through both college and graduate school, achieving honors at both institutions.

During his time at NYU, John patriotism inspired him to enlist in the U.S. Navy, serving abroad from 1952 to 1955 during the Korean War. Upon his honorable discharge, his service was recognized with the bestowment of  the National Defense Service Medal, Navy Occupation (Europe) Service Medal, and the China Service Medal. Throughout his life, John was a true patriot who loved his country.

John's professional endeavor in his chosen field of accountancy began at Haskin and Sells in New York City, where his mastery of the material saw him successfully pass the CPA exam. Upon passing, he was generously gifted $100 from his employer. Being a generous man himself, he donated one half of that $100 gift to help support Danny Thomas’ efforts to establish St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, This was a testament to his philanthropic spirit but it was just the start as John continued to support this worthy cause for the rest of his life.

John’s career flourished as he later transitioned to Brout and Company in New York City until 1984 when he decided to establish his own accountancy firm, Demetrius and Company LLC. He loved his work and remained dedicated to his profession and clients until the remarkable age of ninety when he finally retired.

Family was central to John's life. His loving marriage to Millena Rapuano began during a professional encounter, where John, conducting an audit at the company where Millena worked, Taking a liking to her, he discovered it was Millena’s birthday. Hearing about her wish for a camera, he saw an opportunity to ask her out for a drink and dinner with the offer to also assist her in shopping for a good camera. This small gesture eventually led to a beautiful marriage at the Basilica of Regina Pacis in Brooklyn on June 11, 1961.

The couple celebrated their union with a reception at Grace Chateau in Brooklyn, followed by a memorable honeymoon in Puerto Rico. Their honeymoon concluded with a heartwarming gesture of bringing a stray puppy back from Puerto Rico to comfort Millena's mother who had recently experienced the passing of her dear dog.

John and Millena’s first home in an apartment on Bay 17th Street in Brooklyn welcomed the birth of their son Gerard. Shortly after, they moved to a brand-new home at 39 Weinmanns Boulevard in Wayne, NJ. The move marked a significant change, offering a quieter, more country-like lifestyle compared to their life in Brooklyn. It also marked the further growth of their family as they welcomed their daughter Gineen and their son Gregory.

In times of leisure, John cultivated various hobbies, including coin and stamp collecting, as well as being an active member of the Radio Club of America. He found solace and joy in the tranquility of his beautiful flower gardens, often accompanied by his beloved dogs throughout the years, including Max, Wally, Gizmo, Bailey, Jeffrey, and presently Spencer, as well as his cherished cats, Spencer, Princess, and Bandit.

Above all else, John’s truest passion lay in his devotion to his faith in God and his family.

As a charter Parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne, NJ, John dedicated himself to serving the church community for decades. His commitment was evident through his role as an usher from 1968 until just two months ago, where he continued to assist Sunday mass attendees, despite relying on a cane to usher them to their seats. He was also a devoted member of the Our Lady of the Valley Church’s Holy Name Society, participating in philanthropic activities such as feeding the homeless at Eva’s Village in Paterson. John's service even went beyond the church doors serving as a Grand Knight with the Knights of Columbus in Little Falls and as a member of the Passaic County Sheriff’s Department Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). His selflessness was also acknowledged by the American Cancer Society, for his volunteering efforts.

In addition to his love and devotion for his wife Millena, John was a loving father to his children, Gerard, Gineen, and Gregory. His legacy lives on through his three children, who at one point, all worked alongside him in his accounting business. He supported his son Gregory as a coach in his youth sports leagues and as an active fund raiser for his high school booster club. His grandchildren—Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack—held a special place in his heart, affectionately calling him “Papa-Moo” and having great times together, going on rides and creating great memories. Alongside his wife Millena, John played a vital role in raising his grandchildren, always offering unwavering support and love and being there for all their significant milestones and events. His dedication shone through in every aspect of his life, even extending to supporting his grandson's sports teams through his accounting firm's sponsorship.

John’s legacy is marked by his generosity, loyalty, hard work, and an unyielding love for his family and friends. His presence will be sorely missed, but the impact of his kindness and the memories he created will forever be treasured by all who were fortunate enough to know him.

John was the beloved husband of Millena, blessed in marriage for 62 years. He was the loving father of: Gerard Demetrius and wife Christine of Ledgewood, NJ, Gineen Serafin and husband Bill of Wayne, NJ, and Gregory Demetrius and wife Johanna of Wayne; and cherished grandfather of: Amara, Michael, Alexa, Jake, and Zack.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in John’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Shriners Hospitals for Children

Attn: Office of Development

2900 Rocky Point Dr.

Tampa, FL 33607

Joseph Peter Cabrelli, age 93 of Monroe Township and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Here is a short story of a very kind man who was a gentle giant, with a good nature and a welcome sense of humor.

Joe was born in Philadelphia and lived for a short time in California. He moved to Wayne in 1976.

Joe received his formal education at Saint Thomas More High School in Philadelphia, graduating with the Class of 1948. He then went on to the University of Pennsylvania, at the evening division of The  Wharton School of Business where he received a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration with the Class of 1952.

Joe joined the U.S. Army and, after basic training, he was offered many options including Officer Candidate School, paratrooper, or a special language school that the Army had in Monterey, California. Because of his intellect and innate talents as an individual, he was encouraged to go to the Army Language School in Monterey. His language of choice was Polish and he spoke it fluently. He had a very enlightening and enjoyable military experience and was honorably discharged in 1955.

After his Army service, he was employed at Gimbel Brothers Department Store where his abilities were recognized and he rose to be Senior Vice President of Gimbel’s flagship store in Philadelphia. Later, Joe took a job at a department store in California only to return to Philadelphia after three years and resume his position at Gimbel’s in Philadelphia. He later became Senior Vice President of Orbach’s Department Store in New York City. Joe was also President of the Metropolitan New York Credit Association.

He met Loretta Helmuth who was a secretary at Gimbel’s Department Store and they married on August 30, 1974. They have had 49 years of warm, caring, and loving marriage together. Joe and Loretta loved to travel and they made many trips to Europe to experience the beautiful cultures that exist there.

His family history is interesting as he was the first generation of his family born in America.  His father and mother were born in Tuscany, Italy. The economic climate for living and advancing to a better life was not in place. His father had a sister who immigrated to Scotland and spoke of good opportunities there. At that time in history, people living in Italy were immigrating either to Argentina or America and, at age fifteen his father chose America. San Francisco was advertised as the best place to go but his father had difficulties finding work. Joe’s father then moved to Philadelphia and became a talented chef. His work days were twelve and fourteen hour days, seven days a week, never missing a day of work. This work ethic rubbed off on his sons who, in their personal lives pursued the same kind of ambitious life style which made them successful in life.

Joe had a special bearing about him of the kind of person who could get things done at whatever he endeavored to do. His father’s work ethic rubbed off on Joe and even as a youngster his paper route was huge! Most boys were minimalists as to the size of their route. Joe excelled as a paper boy and he had over one hundred thirty customers. He even had a strategy that helped him to throw the papers on the porch of his customers with aplomb. His work ethic did not let him take days off and efficiency was always built into his mode of operation.

Joe was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne and he was an active member of the community. He was a member of a volunteer teaching group at the Wayne Library, teaching people English as a second language, and provided weekly lectures on a variety of topics to the Four Seasons community in Wayne. Joe also was a leading member of the Wayne Mayor's Senior Advisory Council.

Surviving are Joe’s loving wife Loretta, two daughters: Denise and husband Nicholas Lepore of Monroe, and Jacqueline and husband Victor Ricci of Freehold; five adoring grandchildren: Marisa and husband Frank DeBiase, Dr. Nicholas Lepore, Tyler Lepore, Gabrielle and husband Joseph Siragusa , and Dominick Ricci; four cherished great-grandchildren: Juliana and Emilia DeBiase, and Joseph and Gianna Siragusa; and two sister-in-laws: Marie Cabrelli of Drexel Hill, PA, Rita and her husband Joe Barnitz of Fort Myers, FL,

Joe was predeceased by five brothers: Joseph who passed away at age four, before Joe was born, Andrew, Frank, James, and Peter Cabrelli; and one sister: Vonda Lallo.

Joe always said, "My life was ahead of my dreams." He will be very missed.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider:

Covenant House

460 West 41st Street

New York, NY 10036-6801

ny.covenanthouse.org.

Covenant House’s mission is to inspire homeless and at-risk young people to move to safe, stable, and loving places where they can continue to live out their life dreams. In short, they strive to help each young person find “safe places” in their lives.

Brian G. David, age 51 of Wayne, NJ passed on Friday, October 27,2023. Brian departed this life too early and will be missed by his many family and friends.

Brian graduated from California University Long Beach with a BS in Finance but lived the majority of his life in his hometown of Wayne. He was a graduate of Wayne Valley high school and his hometown was a special place for Brian as he loved being a part of the Wayne community.

Brian’s passion was cooking and he was most happy creating meals for his friends and loved ones. He took that passion to the next level when he opened “Brian’s Kitchen” in Wayne last year. He got immense joy seeing people enjoy the food he created. He was a devoted father who loved spending time with his children. Since Brian was so handy, he loved building and creating and he used those skills to fashion outdoor swings and toys for his kids. Most of all he was someone who appreciated the little things in life; making his children laugh, fishing, carvel with extra sprinkles and a good reuben.

Brian is survived by his wife, Althea David (nee Lazzara) and his four beautiful children, Sydney, Skylar, Sylvie and Ben. His parents Bernardine David and Gerald David. His sister Nicole Adams and her husband Michael and her children, Lily, Luke and Sadie. His in-laws, Ruth and Ed Lazzara. His sister in law Alicia Heller and her husband Jon and their children Noah, Olivia and Myla. His sister in law Alexis and her husband Michael and their children Ava, Jack and Alek. As well as his brother in law Scott Spages.

Dora Charlotte Peschel (nee Bernstengel), age 103, of Wayne, passed away peacefully while in the comfort of her home, on Friday, October 27, 2023.

Dora was born on January 1, 1920 in the family home in Grundstasse-Dresden Germany, as the youngest of 11 children. When she was three years old, the family immigrated to the United States on a ship called the George Washington. Dora’s father Willy was already in the United States working as a carpenter. Her mother traveled for ten days on that ship with six children, including Dora in tow, where they entered America through Ellis Island.  

Dora was raised in North Bergen and graduated from Emerson High School in Union City with the Class of 1937. After high school she went to business school and soon found work as a clerk/bookkeeper with the American Fly Paper Company in New York City. Her salary was $14.00  per week. In 1940, Dora met a man named Fred Peschel on a blind date arranged by Dora’s brother Eric. Fred took Dora to her Senior Prom and proposed to her on New Year’s Eve in 1941. They married in December 1941 in North Bergen but there was no time for a honeymoon as Fred had to return to his military service. They lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne in 1949. Dora and Fred enjoyed fifty-three years in a loving marriage before Fred’s passing in 1995.

In addition to raising 5 children, Dora worked at Two Guys in Totowa and as a cook in the Wayne Schools cafeterias.  She was active in many roles at the Wayne United Methodist church in the choir, women’s circles, bible studies, book groups, cookie sales, vacation bible school, as a Den Mother of the Cub Scout Pac 101 at its founding, and volunteering at CUMAC.  Dora enjoyed gardening in her yard and especially loved to grow dahlias, her favorite flower.  She was an excellent seamstress having made clothes for her daughter, drapes for the house, and just about any other conceivable item one might sew. A voracious reader, she was always keeping herself up to date with a daily newspaper and loved a good book. She enjoyed crossword puzzles (in ink!), and excelled when playing Rummikub and Scrabble.  Dora was also active in the Wayne Golden Agers, Senior Follies, the Red Hat Club, and a bowling league. She drove until age 95 and often attended the many activities of her grandchildren. Family gatherings for Dora’s birthday on New Year’s Day were always a highlight for singing, playing games, and celebrating.

Dora was the loving wife of the late Fred Peschel (1995); adored mother of Rudy K. Peschel of Wayne, Robert F. Peschel and his wife Susan of Shorewood, WI,  Anita M. Dispenziere and her husband Ben of Wayne, David W. Peschel and his wife Wendy of Ringwood, Timothy R. Peschel and his wife Margaret of Wayne, and Carol Peschel of Longboat Key, FL; cherished by thirteen grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren. She was loved and respected by her church family.  Dora’s family is grateful for the devoted care she received from Sophia, Renata, Monika, and Donna.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to:  

The United Methodist Church of Wayne

99 Parish Drive

Wayne, NJ 07470

John (Jack) Belanger of Pompton Lakes, formerly of Kinnelon passed away on October 26, 2023 at home.  Jack was born on January 26, 1968, and was the son of Pat and Jack Belanger of Clifton.  Jack grew up in Clifton with his two sisters, Kathy and Dee. He began his love of sports at a young age, playing football and lacrosse all through high school and college. To earn a little money during this time, he started flippin’ burgers at The Red Chimney in Clifton. After he got tired of asking “Ya want fries with that”, he went to work for his brother-in-law in construction. There he learned how to swing a hammer and carry sheetrock and shingles in 105 degree weather. He loved it!  Jack graduated from Montclair State University with a Bachelor of Science degree, and where he played middie for the lacrosse team. After college graduation he began his lifelong career in law enforcement. Jack graduated from the Morris County Police Academy and worked for the Morris County Park Police, Morris County Prosecutor’s Office, and Wayne Police Department until his retirement. He learned the art of fishing from his dad, was an avid hunter, and was able to pass down these traits to his children.

John met his future wife Fran (DeVito) while at Montclair, and they married in 1993, after dating for  five years.  As time went by, they were blessed with three beautiful children. Nicole, who resides in CT, John in Toms River and Kyle in Point Pleasant. Jack passed on his love of sports to all three of them, and he had many fun years coaching lacrosse for the Kinnelon Recreation Department. Jack was so very proud of his children and seeing their kind demeanor, strong work ethic and their caring attitudes towards others.

Jack was “little brother” to Kathaleen Brolsma, of Butler, NJ and Diane Mongelli, of Kinnelon, NJ. He was brother-in-law to Tom Mongelli, also from Kinnelon, but was more of a brother, than an in-law. Jack was the fun-time uncle to six nieces and nephews, and great-uncle to eight more.

Hundreds of memories will be kept in our hearts by his forever love Fran, his children, his family, his friends, and many others who will remember Jack and think of him with huge smiles on their faces. May he find peace.

Daniel (Dan) J. Schreck, age 67, of Wayne and North Beach, NJ passed away unexpectedly Monday, October 23, 2023.

Dan was born in Jersey City, NJ to Joseph and Barbara (Reilly) Schreck on September 11, 1956. Dan grew up in Ridgefield Park, NJ with his two sisters: Maureen and Elizabeth. Dan played football for Ridgefield Park High School, where he graduated in 1974. Growing up, Dan spent his summers with his family in the Highlands where he began his lifelong love affair with the Jersey Shore. After high school, Dan went on to play football at Glassboro State College (now Rowan University), where he and his teammates won the Division 3 NCAA Conference Championship all four years that he played. Dan graduated with a degree in accounting in 1978. While in college, Dan spent his summers in Belmar and Sea Bright where he was an ocean lifeguard, beer delivery guy, bouncer, and full-time beach bum.

Dan received his CPA license and started his career in accounting in 1978. He then joined Rayfield and Co. in where he became a partner in 1986. Always ambitious, Dan left Rayfield to start his own practice in 1991, when he and his partner formed Schreck, Bavaro and Co.

Dan spent the next three decades building a highly successful firm with offices in Morristown and Princeton. During this time, Dan served on numerous corporate and not-for-profit boards, including D.A.R.E. NJ. A respected member of the NJ business community, Dan took immense pleasure in helping nurture and grow countless businesses in the tri-state area.

Dan was a giant of a man, in both stature and personality. His love of his friends, family, work, and desire to succeed drove him to constantly push himself. Long after many would have hung up their spurs, Dan continued to hit the gym, the links, and the waves, nurturing those hobbies and relationships that would sustain him throughout his life. His special love for the Jersey Shore continually pulled to LBI, where Dan would spend as much time as he could cycling the boulevard, catching the morning sun on the beach, or floating in pool in the afternoon sun.

Dan met his biggest supporter and lifelong cheerleader, Patricia (Trish) Resco while working together at Rayfield and Co. in 1982. Trish and Dan married on July 11th, 1987, in Wayne, NJ surrounded by their friends and family. They had their first and only child, Kristen—the light of his life, on March 6, 1989, in Morris County, before moving to Wayne, where they built their lives together. Dan was an enthusiastic (if not exactly expert) coach of Kristen’s soccer team while she was growing up and gifted her his competitive nature during countless afternoon tennis matches and mini-golf tournaments. He also nurtured in her his love of the beach, teaching her to bodysurf on warm summer days at the shore.

As a family, they enjoyed going to sporting events, traveling to the Caribbean, lazy days in LBI, live music, and long dinners where Dan was sure to quiz everyone at the table about batting averages for former Yankee sluggers, fun-facts about the Garden State, and obscure points in US history.

Dan is loved and missed immensely by his wife, Trish; his daughter, Kristen; his son-in-law, Grant; his step-granddaughters Margot and Ella; his sister Maureen and her husband, David Campbell of Paramus, NJ; his in-laws: Lydia and her husband John Hirsch of Wayne, NJ; Bob Resco and his wife Linda of Crozet, VA; his nieces Kim, Colleen, Katie, Carolyn, and Kayla; his nephews, Chris, Andy, and Kyle; as well as his innumerable friends, family, and associates. Dan was predeceased by his sister Liz Converse, brother-in-law Frank Converse, and his parents Joe and Barbara Schreck.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Barnegat Light First Aid Squad, 15 W 10th Street, Barnegat Light, NJ 08006 or the Surf City Volunteer Fire & EMS, 713 Long Beach Bld., Surf City, NJ 08008 would be greatly appreciated.

Eleanor Bradford, age 93, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 23, 2023.

Eleanor was born in Newark, NJ, the seventh of her parents Luigi and Angelina (Russo) Arainte’s nine children. She was raised in Newark where she was a graduate of Westside High School. Upon graduating, Eleanor worked for many years as a secretary for Prudential Insurance Company in Newark.

Once while down the Jersey Shore in Seaside Heights with her girlfriends, Eleanor met a handsome young lifeguard on the beach named George Bradford. They fell in love and ultimately exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on February 14, 1953. They were blessed with a long and loving and devoted marriage until George’s passing in 1995.

Soon Eleanor and George welcomed the birth of their son Brian. Eleanor cherished being a devoted and caring mom and she considered her role to be of paramount importance. She was also the adoring grandmother of her granddaughter Emily who was Eleanor’s pride and joy. The two of them had plenty of quality times which are now cherished memories for Emily. Emily spent many days being cared for by Grandma who was always ready to color or to play a game – UNO being a favorite – with her. This, of course, was traditionally followed by making and eating some delicious homemade pizza together.  

In her spare time, Eleanor could be found in the kitchen happily cooking and baking. This was a very fortunate thing for her family because they were the primary benefactors of her delicious culinary creations. Her homemade Manicotti, and beef stew, and her cookies and amazing sour cream coffee cake were favorites of her family. In the spring and summer Eleanor loved being out in her yard tending to her flowers, especially her impatients which were her favorites. She cut her own grass with an old push mower and her lawn always looked meticulous! In the fall and winter, it was football season and Eleanor always rooted for the New York Giants. She was a passionate fan and, if the Giants lost, Eleanor could often be found standing in front of her television yelling at her team.

Above all else, Eleanor’s greatest love was for her family and friends. She loved gathering together and she loved to laugh. Her outlook on life was always positive and, in her own quiet and loving way, she truly cared more about others than herself.    

Eleanor was the beloved wife of George Bradford, blessed in marriage for many years until George’s passing in 1995. She was the most loving mother of Brian Bradford of Oak Ridge and adoring grandmother of Emily Bradford. Eleanor is also survived by her sisters: Susie Fernicola, Louise Palmisano, and Evelyn Forester and numerous nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by one brother and four sisters.

Ernestine Aviles, age 93 of Wayne, died peacefully on Sunday, October 22, 2023, just six days after her husband, Moises, passed away.

Born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, she moved to New York City when she was just sixteen years old. Shortly after arriving in New York, she met Moises Aviles and their romance blossomed. They were married just two years later, on December 7, 1948. They lived in Manhattan briefly before settling into their home in the Bronx. They resided in the Bronx for nearly forty years, raising their two children; Edward and Rosemary. Ernestine and Moises often found themselves traveling out to Wayne, NJ, to visit with their family. They liked the Wayne area so much that in 1991 they decided to move there. Having lived in New York City for so long, Ernestine had never learned to drive a car – there was just no reason to. She didn’t allow that to slow her down, though, and she quickly learned the bus routes so she could go to the movies, and she made regular trips into New York. She would ride the bus back to the Bronx every few weeks, just to get her hair done! Ernestine never left the house without having her hair and nails done just right, and she always took pride in her appearance.

Although they enjoyed many happy years together, sadness also visited Ernestine and Moises during those years. In 1995, they lost their son Edward and in 2017 they lost their daughter Rosemary. Despite these trials, and the strains put on their marriage, they persevered. As they aged together, they faced many challenges, but love prevailed and they stood by each other’s side through it all. When Ernestine began showing signs of dementia, Moises did his best to care for her. Sadly, Moises passed away just a few days ago, and only weeks shy of their seventy-fifth wedding anniversary.

Ernestine and Moises cherished their three grandsons and six great-grandchildren, and would spend time with them whenever possible. They will each cherish the memories and miss them very much.

Ernestine is survived by her grandchildren; Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; six great-grandchildren: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; and a niece and God daughter; Rebecca Colon of Englewood. Ernestine was predeceased by her husband Moises, and their two children: Rosemary Bartolomey (2017) and Edward Aviles (1995).

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Jay Thomas Simmons, age 72, of Kinnelon, NJ.

Jay passed away on Friday, October 20, 2023, surrounded by his loving family.

Jay was born in San Juan Puerto Rico and was the younger of two sons to John and Olga Simmons. Being that Jay’s father was on active duty with the United States Navy, Jay spent his formative years living in Japan. While growing up in Japan, Jay developed many of his wonderful and powerful personality traits, such as his generosity, kindness, humility, and graciousness. At the age of thirteen, his family moved back to the Unites States and settled in Palisades Park, NJ. As a young man, Jay attended Palisades Park High School, where he was a member of the Boys Varsity Wrestling team.  

Following his high school graduation in 1968, Jay attended Pennsylvania Military College. He graduated from PMC in 1972, earning his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Behavioral Psychology and Organizational Dynamics. Shortly after Jay’s graduation in 1972, Pennsylvania Military College became Widener University.

Subsequent to earning his college degree, Jay quickly found work in the banking industry. During his long, successful career, he accepted positions at JP Morgan, Bank of America, and Citibank. Throughout the years, he was also an entrepreneur for various companies all relating to finance. Jay’s latest position was with Valley National Bank in Wayne, NJ, as Senior Vice President. For Jay, his role at Valley, and the people he worked with, was one of the most rewarding of his career. He held this position until his passing. Jay’s career in finance and banking spanned a period of more than fifty years. He was a wonderful boss, colleague, and peer, truly loved and well respected.

On many occasions, Jay was asked to give formal talks at various speaking engagements. On one such occasion, Jay was chosen to speak at a Chemical Bank seminar, and it was there that he met a young attractive girl by the name of Anne Friedman. Anne found Jay to be a wonderful speaker, charismatic and kind. She also thought he was quite the intellectual. Anne introduced herself to Jay afterwards, and the two became good friends. In the following years, their friendship blossomed into a wonderful and romantic courtship, and, as fate would have it, they fell in love. On September 27, 1998, Jay and Anne became husband and wife, with a small, intimate wedding in Napa Valley, California.  

The newlyweds settled in the upper East side of Manhattan. In 2001, while residing in New York City, the couple welcomed the birth of their twins, Kendal and Stephen. When their children were about six years old, the family moved to the Smoke Rise community in Kinnelon, NJ, where they still reside. Jay loved his community and the life he was able to build. As an active member of his community, he served as treasurer of the Smoke Rise Board of Directors for more than ten years, and he was also part of the historical restoration of the Smoke Rise Chapel.

Jay also had an adventurous side: he was an avid golfer, occasional skier alongside his wife, snorkeler, race driver, and world traveler. Whether for business or vacation, Jay treasured traveling to destinations such as Chile, Argentina, Columbia, France, Italy, England, Ireland, Malta, and Spain, as well as many places across the US. He loved music, sometimes just listening and, other times, singing along. He was also quite handy and loved to work with his hands, whether that meant sitting down to build Legos with his kids or fixing up things around the house. He loved his sports and always enjoyed cheering on his favorite teams, the New York Yankees and the Dallas Cowboys, with his son, Stephen. He loved sharing snacks with his daughter, Kendal, and savoring the delicious treats that his wife and daughter often baked. One of his most treasured pastimes was going out to the movies with his wife, Anne, just about every weekend. He also adored each and every one of his pets; they brought the biggest smiles to his face.

Aside from all of Jay’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jay than providing for and spending time with his wife and children. He was a truly devoted father, supporting his children through everything, in every way that he could. He was involved in every aspect of their lives, from first steps to college graduation. He adored them, and he could not have been more proud of who they have become. Jay and Anne were more than partners, they were best friends, soulmates, cherishing more than twenty-five years of loving and loyal marriage together.  

Jay was a kind and thoughtful man, a true gentleman. His selflessness and generosity were his greatest assets. He was charming and had a wonderful charisma about him. Jay was a proficient public speaker, so it was no surprise that he had the ability to captivate an audience of any age with his skill to tell a story. He was a pillar in his community and was sincerely loved by everyone that knew him.  

Jay will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father and a well-respected, well-loved member of his community and profession. Jay touched the lives of many people and will be truly missed by his family, friends, and his colleagues.      

Jay is survived by his wife Anne (nee Friedman) of Kinnelon, NJ, his daughter Kendal Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his son Stephen Simmons of Kinnelon, NJ, his brother David Simmons and his wife Donna of Little River, SC, two nieces: Kiera Prior and Karen Bond, one nephew Kevin Simmons, and his sister-in-law Stephanie Friedman. He was predeceased by his parents, John and Olga Simmons.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jay’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Dennis John Paduch, age 75, of Wayne passed on Wednesday October 18, 2023. He’s lived in Wayne since 1978.

Dennis was born to Walter and Marie Paduch (Oliva) of Passaic where he attended Passaic high school. After high school, Dennis joined the United States Navy and served for six years during the Vietnam War. After being honorably discharged in 1973, he began a career with Verizon Telephone. He worked for Verizon as a special operations technician for 33 years.

Dennis was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He was an avid hunter and fisherman since the age of 13. As a young boy, he enjoyed hunting and fishing with his three neighbors: Maxey, Donald and Tutti.  As an adult, you could find him hunting and fishing on his property in upstate New York, or taking his Bassboat out on Lake Hopatcong, Greenwood Lake, or York Lake in Sullivan County. When he was not hunting or fishing, you could find him watching the Giants game, or partaking in carpentry, as he was a master carpenter, having built many beautiful structures both in his home in Wayne and on his property in upstate NY.

Dennis met his wife Joanne while they were both working for Lummos Engineering. Joanne was an engineer assistant and Dennis, working for Verizon, was contracted to install new phone systems in the building. Joanne was carrying a coffee to her boss when Dennis backed out of the closet, causing her to spill the coffee and burn her hand! Despite the resulting mess and Joanne’s injury, Dennis was smitten. He asked his friend Paulie if he should ask Joanne for a date, but he was concerned because she looked very young. Paulie was bold and simply asked Joanne to see her driver’s license to confirm, and Dennis asked her out! They went on their first date at a local bar and the rest was history, dating for a short while before marrying on January 28, 1978.  Dennis and Joanne’s marriage was blessed with one daughter, Danielle. They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage for 45 years.

Dennis is survived by his wife Joanne Paduch (nee Trabucco), their daughter Danielle Paduch and son in law Sean Roe of Wayne, granddaughter; Skyla Roe of Wayne, sister Darlene Tursi and husband Robert Tursi of Keansburg, NJ and sister Gail Trent of Evington, VA, along with many nieces and nephews.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Cecilia M Kelnhofer-Feeley, age 54 of Wayne, NJ.

Cecilia passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 18, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

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Susan Walker Weiss, age 86 of Wayne, NJ and East Longmeadow, MA died Tuesday, October 17, 2023 after a long illness.

Sue grew up in Clifton, New Jersey, graduating high school from Benedictine Academy in Paterson. She received a Bachelor of Arts Degree from Barnard College and later earned a Masters Degree in Religious Studies from Union Theological Seminary in New York.

After graduating from Barnard, Sue married Fred Weiss and they enjoyed over 50 years of marriage. Along the way, Sue had four children, Kate, Ted, Peter and Al.

Sue and Fred moved to the Packanack section of Wayne after living for a short time on East 88th Street in New York City.  Sue attended Union Theological Seminary while raising her four children, graduating while she had two children in college, one in high school and one in middle school.

Sue was a devoted member of the Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church in Wayne, where she served as

Director of Religious Education, CCD teacher, RCIA Director, Eucharistic Minister and Lector.

Sue was the loving wife of the late Edward (Fred) Weiss; loving mother of Katherine “Kate” DiSabito and her husband David of East Longmeadow, MA, Edward “Ted” Weiss and his wife Katharine of San Francisco, CA, Peter Weiss and his wife Susan of Wayne, NJ, and Alfred Weiss and his wife Sarah of Forest Grove, OR.  Fourteen grandchildren, David DiSabito and his wife Liz, Anna Rosenthal and her husband Jason, Anthony DiSabito and his wife Katie, Joseph DiSabito, John DiSabito, Heather Weiss, Brian Weiss, Hunter Ryan and his wife Crystal, Colin Ryan, Thomas Weiss, Rose Weiss, Sophia Barbour-Weiss, Helena Barbour-Weiss and Irene Barbour-Weiss as well as three great grandchildren, Isabella, Tyler and David. She is also survived by her brothers, Alfred Walker and his wife Heather, Douglas Walker and his wife Nancy, her sister-in-law Joy Walker, wife of her late brother, Richard Walker, Willis "Bill" Walker and his wife Beth, and her brother-in law, Robert Weiss and his wife Anita. Also surviving Sue are numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks you to consider a donation to Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research Foundation in Sue’s name.

Roberta Place, 90, of Seaside Park, NJ, formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away Monday, October 16, 2023 in the comfort of her family.

Born at Paterson General Hospital, December 18, 1932, she was the loving, caring light of her family.

She graduated from Pompton Lakes High School where she was an enthusiastic cheerleader, and then went on to work for NJ Bell in Paterson. Her father, Yustus Wenderoth, was Chief of Wayne Fire Company #1 at the time, and “Bobbie” volunteered at the fire company’s Parish Oval fairs. It was there she met her sweetheart and future husband, Clarence “Buddy” Place, who became her “Junie” and the love of her life. He gave her quarters to play the games, and so their life together began.

They were married January 19, 1952, having their reception at the Old Peacock House. They moved into their first little apartment on Fairfield Road in Wayne, until one day her father saw a stove pipe going across the ceiling and said “you are not staying here”. Then commenced the building of their first home, right next to her beloved parents, Yustus and Ann Wenderoth. Later when Route 80 was established, both homes had to be moved across the street to a relative’s property. This became the beginning of many memorable backyard picnics, celebrations with family and friends, and the never forgotten “backyard family band”. Good times were had by all.

Roberta went on to work for Wayne Township in 1971 for the Records and Information (R&I) bureau, eventually becoming Secretary to several Police Chiefs. She also became a Special Police Officer and retired from the Wayne Police Department in 1990.

She worked part-time at the Hi-Ho Club, owned by close family friends, which was next to the old MacMoulding building where her father worked, and he would occasionally come by for lunch.

During their married life, Bobbie and her “Junie” enjoyed many happy times, and took many trips that included going to several islands and taking a cruise to Alaska. In 1974 they bought “the little house” in Seaside Park, NJ where they enjoyed many summers with family and friends. When they retired in 1990, they moved to Seaside Park, eventually building another home just around the corner. They spent many years enjoying the beach, their boat, and time just relaxing together sitting on their front porch.

Bobbie was a lifelong Parishioner of Holy Cross Church in Wayne, and then of St. Catherine’s Church in Seaside Park.

Bobbie’s joy and shining light was her family. She was the family “glue”, selflessly never failing to call and make sure everyone was ok. Always a smile, a hug, and a good meal. “Nothing fancy!” she would say. “You get what you get!” And it was always delicious!

Bobbie and Buddy had two children, Robert and Susan, who they love and adore, and always helped when they could.

She is survived by her husband of 71 wonderful years, Clarence “Buddy” Place; her son Robert Place, daughter-in-law Patricia, granddaughter Krysti, and great-grandson Chase; her daughter Susan Gabriel, son-in-law John, granddaughter Jennifer Denovchik and husband Chris, great-granddaughter Emelia, and great-grandson Chris Jr.; granddaughter Laurie Tormollan and husband Adam; her sister Dorothy Mazurkiewicz and husband Ed, nephew Michael Mazurkiewicz and wife Laura, and their son Eric; nephew Ed Mazurkiewicz and wife Kimmy, and their daughter Emily and son Matthew.

She has left a place in our hearts that no one else can fill, and we are so lucky to have had her as a daughter, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, aunt, and friend. She had so much love for all of us and while she will be truly and sorely missed, we will continue to celebrate her beautiful life well-lived.

We love you always and forever.

Safe journey home.

Moises Aviles, age 97, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, October 16, 2023.

Moises was born in Mayaguez, Puerto Rico, one of Juan and Dionisa (Camacho) Aviles’ ten children. He grew up in Puerto Rico until the age of 16 when he joined his older brother Pedro who had already moved to the Bronx, New York. Soon after, in 1945, Moises became a Merchant Marine serving as a seaman on the United States merchant ships. As a Mariner, Moises traveled extensively throughout the world.

Upon his retirement as a Merchant Marine, Moises returned to New York. Shortly thereafter, he met a beautiful young lady named Ernestine Alvarez. She also had come from Puerto Rico to New York and the two fell in love and soon married. For many years they lived in the Bronx where they raised their two children, Edward and Rosemary. Moises enjoyed a career with the New York City Transit Authority that spanned twenty-five years until his retirement in 1991. The funny sidenote to his retirement occurred a whole year later when he got a call from the Transit Authority informing him that they found a glitch in his employment records and that, in order to keep his pension, Moises had to come to work for one more day. Obliging the technicality, Moises reported for work and promptly announced “If anyone needs me, I’ll be across the street at the bar.”  With full-time work behind him, he and Ernestine moved to Wayne, NJ where they remained to the present.

One of Moises’ favorite places to be, was in the kitchen where he could fully hone his culinary skills. He was known for the delicious sauces that he made. They tasted so good with some nice pasta and a glass of fine wine. Moises whole family benefited from his love of cooking and one of their favorite recipes was his sweet potato pie. Moises also enjoyed working in his yard. He kept his lawn in meticulous condition and, when his grandsons came over to cut his grass, he expected nothing but the straightest of lines. He believed that no wild animals should be allowed in his yard because, as he liked to say, “They didn’t pay any rent.” Consequently, those humane HavaHart traps were employed to safely remove them from his yard. In spite of his disdain for the squirrels, chipmunks and bunnies, Moises had a soft spot for the ducks which he fed on a daily basis. One particular duck took a real liking to Moises so, when he would go on his daily walks through the neighborhood to catch up on the gossip, that duck always walked behind him.  

While traveling wasn’t frequent in later years, Moises and Ernestine did enjoy occasional trips to Florida and Puerto Rico to visit family. Older age led to an increasingly mellower demeaner for Moises and along with that came an increasing love and admiration for his three grandsons and six great-grandchildren. He loved spending time with them and he always had some cash in his pocket to spoil them.

Practical to a fault, blunt and to the point, Moises had a knack for sarcasm, but it was his sarcasm that made him so endearing and frankly, it’s one of the reasons he will be so missed by his family and friends. He will also be missed for his great stories about his experiences as a Merchant Mariner and with his job with the Transit Authority. Most of all, he’ll be missed for his mere presence.

Moises was the beloved husband of Ernestine and much-loved father of his late son Edward (1995) and late daughter Rosemary Aviles-Cruz (2017); cherished grandfather of: Anthony Bartolomey and wife Susan of the Bronx, NY, Raymond Bartolomey and wife Violeta of Staten Island, NY, and Daniel Bartolomey and wife Jessie of Hopelawn, NJ; adoring great-grandfather of: Matthew, Anna, Vanessa, Victoria, Valerie, and April; precious great-uncle of Rebecca Colon of Englewood; and dear godfather of Christopher Nelles. Moises was also predeceased by his nine siblings.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Moises’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To make a donation by mail, please click here to print out mailable donation form

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Moises Aviles.

Patricia Ann Blewitt (nee Scott) of Wayne, NJ, age 76, passed away on Saturday, October 14th, 2023.

Patty was born in Rochester, NY to Marjorie Jackson and Kelly John.  Weeks later she was adopted by Edith and Bill Scott who soon moved to Long Island, NY.  After living there briefly the family moved to Glen Olden, PA, for two years before finally settling in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne Township, NJ.  Except for two years spent living in Skyline Lakes, NJ, with Kevin, Patty resided in Wayne for the rest of her life.

After graduating from Wayne HS (class of ‘65) Patty decided to pursue her dream of becoming a beautician.  She went to school, got her license, and found her dream job at Joe Paternos Beauty Shop in Kinnelon, NJ.  After working there for ten years Patty grew discouraged, was tired of being on her feet all day and decided to make a change.

Several of her friends were school bus drivers and they persuaded her to give it a try.  Patty liked the challenge and said, “Could I really drive that big bus around without hitting anything?”  Well, it turns out she could and for the next 32 years she could be seen driving her bus around Wayne and the surrounding towns, driving to the schools, sporting events, and school trips.  She especially loved signing up for trips to the circus at the Meadowlands where the teachers always made sure the drivers got into see the show.  She loved the clowns!  Patty retired from the Wayne Board of Education in 2009.

Patty enjoyed many things in her life, most sports, gardening, music, especially mo-town, she loved anything by The Temptations, playing her piano(she was an expert), reading music, and also loved the oboe.  She especially loved swimming, loved the ocean, and many days spent on the beach at “The Hook”(aka Sandy Hook State Park) where the life guards always had to wave her in because she had swam too far out.

Patty loved all animals especially her dogs. Between herself, Kevin and their two boys they raised six all together, all German Shepherds, all female, and all brought home between 8 – 10 weeks old.  All predeceased her, Mona, Samantha, Coyote, Katie, Abbey and Hannah.  They gave her so much joy.

Since a young age Patty knew she was Native American but had no idea of her family history.  Although adoption records were sealed Patty was determined to find out about her past.  After extensive research and a little luck Patty found that her biological parents were both enrolled members of the Seneca Nation of Indians.  When this was verified Patty was invited to become an enrolled member.  She applied and was accepted, and along with her two sons became enrolled members, thus enabling them all to enjoy the many benefits the Nation has to offer for the rest of their lives.  Patty was now complete, her search was finally over and she could now relax and enjoy her heritage in which nothing else gave her more joy.

Survived by her loving husband of 43 years, Kevin, of Wayne NJ, her son Patrick of Steamburg NY, and her son Nicholas of Wayne NJ.

Also survived by a sister Sal,(Bob)Nelsen of Westbrook, MN.

Also survived by sister in-law Katie,(Blase) of Wayne, NJ.  Brother in-law Joseph,(Racie) of Siesta Key, FL.  Sister in-law Maureen,(Rick) of Caldwell, NJ.  Brother in-law Michael,(Christina) of E. Patchogue, NY.  Sister in-law Laura,(Tom) of Syracuse, NY.  Brother in-law Daniel,(Ofie) of Lincoln Park, NJ.    Sister in-law Ellen,(Jim) of Myrtle Beach, SC.   Sister in-law Ginny,(Ed) of St. Louis, MO. Sister in-law Mary Anne,(Chuck) of Pompton Plains, NJ, and brother in-law Tony Dapolito of Wayne, NJ.

She is also survived by 32 nieces and nephews whom she all loved dearly.

Patty was predeceased by both of her biological parents Marjorie and Kelly, her adoptive parents Edith and Bill Scott, her brothers Bill and Ralph, sister in-law Sharen Scott of Australia, sister in-law Christine Dapolito of Morristown, NJ, and niece Andrea Morelli of Syracuse, NY.

The family would like to thank the ICU staff at St. Joes Hospital in Paterson, NJ for the kindness and care of Patty in her final weeks.Also the staff at Morristown Medical Center for all the care and support they gave Patty these past few months.

And the family can not forget the kindness and extreme support that was given to Patty at her favorite place to stay, “The Chilton Hilton” as she liked to call it.  Over the past several years Dr. Rappaport and his staff have shown such great understanding and excellent care for all of her stays there.  Words can not express our gratitude.  Thank you Dr. Rappaport.

And finally to Patty's private nurse, Maria, who was provided to her by the Woodland Park Dialysis Center where Patty began her dialysis treatments.  Maria, you are a true guardian angel.  With your help, understanding, and extreme kindness, Patty was able to manage her weekly treatments and then with your training was able to do the treatments at home.  It made it so much easier on her these past several years.  Without your care Maria, none of that would have been possible.  Thank you so much.

Rosemarie J. Manza, age 85 years, passed away peacefully on Saturday, October 14, 2023, surrounded by her loving family at her home in Wayne, NJ.  Born on May 10, 1938, in Clifton, NJ. She was oldest daughter of the late Daniel and Josephine LaBrie.

Mimi, as she was affectionately named by her brother, Joseph who could not say Rosemarie when he was younger, grew up in Queens, NY, she attended Saint Mary’s Winfield school and later graduated from All Saints High School.

Mimi’s first job was working at Kraft Foods.  It was here that Mimi made several dear friends that to this day remain cherished.  Once Mimi married, she became a homemaker and made her husband and her children, her everything.

Mimi was devoted to her husband, her family, and her faith.  She was a great cook, reminding her family every chance she got that she learned to cook from her “Irish” Mother-in-Law.  She loved preparing Sunday dinners at her house for her family and all who gathered at the holidays to enjoy her hospitality and Italian traditions.  She loved celebrating holidays, birthdays, and special events at home.  She was the best party planner and the most gracious hostess.  Mimi enjoyed decorating her home and making it comfortable for all who entered.  Mimi enjoyed traveling having been to Bermuda, Saint Croix, St. Maartin, and Italy but the greatest of her travels was to the Catskills Mountains with her family.  Mimi and her family vacationed there for many years and after the kids were on their own, her and Michael continued to enjoy the mountains vacationing in Wyndam, NY.  Her laugh was infectious and made you laugh just hearing it.  Mimi was one of the founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church.  Her Catholic faith was especially important to her.

Mimi met the love of her life, Michael, while both of their families vacationed in the Catskill Mountains.  Michael’s family came from Brooklyn and Mimi’s from Queens, and they became fast friend.  Michael was 13 years old, and Mimi was 10 years old.  Their relationship grew over the years, and they married April 25, 1959, at Saint Bernardo Church in Queens, NY and honeymooned in Lake Placid, NY.  They made their home in Brooklyn, NY and in December of 1964, they bought their first home in Wayne, NJ.  Mimi and Michael’s marriage was blessed with three children: Michael, Helen, and Kim.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-four years.

Mimi is survived by her husband, Michael, her children Michael Manza, and his wife Kathryn (Lincoln Park), Helen Kueck and her husband Rudy (Wayne) and Kimberly Ann (Wayne); along with two grandchildren Nicole and Zachery.  Mimi is also survived by her brother Joseph and his wife Marie, and several nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Jennie Christina Hosier, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home and with her loving family by her side, on Saturday, October 14, 2023.

Jennie was born and raised in Paterson, the second of James and Josephine (Stanzio) Jarvis’ three children. She attended Paterson’s Central High School and worked at Yardley of London, maker of personal care and beauty products, in Totowa. She was employed there for ten years after high school and then Jennie went to work as a factory line worker at Hoffman LaRoche in Nutley for another twenty years before retiring in 1994. During all the years she worked fulltime, Jennie also managed to raise five children, albeit with a little help from some friends as well as her older children helping to care for the younger ones.  

Jennie was the devoted and truly loved wife of Norman Hosier. They met for the first time when Norman came home from U.S. Navy service, only to discover that Jennie, this beautiful seventeen-year-old, had moved in next door to Norm’s parents at 147 Garfield Ave. in Paterson. Wasting no precious time, Norm asked Jennie to go out with him and the chemistry was just right. They fell in love and married just three weeks before Jennie’s eighteenth birthday on Saturday, September 16, 1950 at Pascack Reformed Church in Park Ridge. After a reception in the family’s home, Jennie and Norman jumped into his light green Nash and headed for Sarasota Springs, NY for a heavenly honeymoon.

Married life began on the first floor of the home at 147 Garfield Avenue that Norm grew up in. Jennie and Norm shared the apartment with his parents. It was there that they were blessed with the first of their five children, a baby girl which they named Deborah. They eventually moved next door into Jennie’s parent’s home in which they had an apartment upstairs, all to themselves. There, they were blessed with two more baby girls, first Janice and then Norma Jean. From there they moved to Genessee Ave. in Paterson where baby boys Norman, Jr. and James were born. In 1962, they moved to their present home in Wayne.  

One of Jennie’s favorite pastimes was bowling. She bowled for many years in various houses in the area. In the 1970’s she bowled at Little Falls Lanes where she sported a 156 average and at the Garden Place Lanes in Clifton where her average was 151. She also bowled at Astro Bowl and at the Brunswick Lanes in Bellville where she bowled in the Hoffmann LaRoche League. Jennie instilled a great love of bowling in her children by taking them to Leisure Lanes in Fairfield. Her son James especially took a love to the game and eventually went pro.  

Jennie’s greatest love was for her family. She and her husband Norm made sure to supply their children with a great upbringing filled with fun and special memories. They enjoyed annual tent camping trips and vacations every summer for a week down the Jersey Shore where Jennie especially loved to go crabbing. Jennie was a longtime member of Pequannock Reformed Church in Wayne, and she saw to it that her children dressed in their Sunday best for church each week and that they all attended Sunday school. She herself enjoyed her weeknight bible studies at the church. She loved an impeccably clean home and she left the cooking to husband Norm. Instead, she found great satisfaction in knitting and crocheting scarves, mittens, hats, and afghans for her children and much-adored five grandsons. She loved those boys, felt very close to them and enjoyed favoring them with little acts of love to spoil them. The only thing she never did was babysit them. Her philosophy was always, “I raised mine, now you raise yours.”

In between work and family, Jennie enjoyed working outside in her gardens and enjoying the company of her two favorite pooches – miniature poodles named Misty and Minka.

Jennie could best be described as feisty and outspoken. She was also very loving and, if she liked you, she’d give you the shirt off of her back if you needed it. Her mere presence will be dearly missed by her family and friends. Rest in peace Jennie!      

Jennie was the beloved wife of Norman, blessed in marriage for 73 years. She was the proud and loving mother of five children: Deborah LaSala and husband William of Wantage, Janice Nolan and husband Thomas of Pompton Plains, Norma Jean Johnson and husband Scott of Newton, Norman Hosier, Jr. and wife Maryrose of Newton, and James Hosier of Wayne; adoring grandmother of five grandsons: Jason Grieves, Billy LaSala, the late Christopher Grieves (2007), Michael Hosier and Matthew Hosier; dear aunt of several nieces and nephews and four great grandchildren. Jennie was also predeceased by her sister Rose McAteer and her brother Sonny Jarvis.  

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jennie’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attention Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Martin E. Laschet, “Marty”, of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on Friday, October 13th, 2023, at the age of 93.

Marty was born and raised in New York City, where he was married to his wife, Ann, and had four beautiful children. In 1964 the family moved to the Pines Lake community in Wayne, New Jersey.

He was a U.S. Army veteran serving before the outbreak of the Korean War. He worked and retired from Bendix Aviation as an electronics technician until 1996. His accomplishments include working on the electronics systems on the STS-1 for the Space Shuttle, for which he received commendation.

Martin was always quick with a joke and had an interesting sense of humor to all that knew him. He would always listen to what you had to say, give advice, and his honest opinion (whether you wanted it or not).

He was a proud member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fairfield Golden Agers. He loved to travel with his family as well as with the Golden Agers. He would often tell stories of his travels to anyone who would listen.

Marty was predeceased by his loving wife, Ann, in 1999 and is survived by four children: Carol Porcelli of Whiting, NJ, Martin and his wife Kim of Middletown, NY, Joan and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and Donna and her husband Chuck of Surprise, AZ, six grandchildren: Liam and his wife Jennifer, Terrence and his wife Janine, Laura, Daniel, Bobby, and Justin, and five great-grandchildren: Aiden, Jackson, Lina, Gavin, and Riley, a sister Margaret, and a brother Raymond. Marty was also predeceased by his grandson, Seamus, and by his brother Edward.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Marty’s memory would be appreciated to Valley Hospice, 15 Essex Rd, Paramus, NJ 07652.

Brooks Scholz, age 95, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 11, 2023, surrounded by her family.

Brooks was born and raised in Shelby , NC by her parents Edna Lequeux Dennis and Carol Dennis.  She attended Furman University for 1 year.

Then she married Fred Whitener and  moved to Durham NC  in 1951,for his job at Duke University, where they raised 3 daughters.  This is where she became such an avid fan of Duke football and basketball teams.  She often got to travel with the team and was their loudest cheerleader.

Brooks worked as a secretary at Duke in the Psychiatric Department for a period of time.

In 1964 they moved to Franklin Lakes, NJ.

In New Jersey she later worked at Valley Hospital in the admitting Department for many years and later as Head of admitting at Fair Lawn Memorial Hospital.

Brooks owned a hair salon in Franklin Lakes called Shear Expressions and had many friends from there.

She met and fell in love with Bob Scholz in 1973 and they were never apart after that first dance. They loved to dance and even won dance contests, sometimes with their grandchildren cheering them on.

She had a charming Southern accent and loved to entertain especially at Christmas when she hosted a large family gathering. She always dressed as a witch on Halloween, and all the neighborhood kids loved it.

She remained an avid Duke basketball and football fan from her years in Durham, and would call her daughters to tell them when there was a Duke game on TV to make sure they were watching it. She still yelled the loudest.

She loved her many (many, many!!) cats. 

She is survived by her daughters, Lynn Brescia of Wayne, Mary Brooks Holmgren of Wayne, Claire Shaw and Ike, of Florissant Co., and stepson Carter Scholz of California. Her grandchildren Noelle Brescia of Wayne, Rachel Brooks Lauretta and Danny of Wayne, Bjorn Holmgren and Sunshine of Wantage, and Crystal Shaw and Joseph of Colorado Springs. Her great-grandchildren, Isabella Brooks Lauretta, Emily Lauretta, Chase Lauretta of Wayne, and Shylynn Sinio of Colorado Springs.

Predeceased by her husband Robert Scholz, her son in law Bob Ricker Jr, her brother Carol Dennis and her beloved grandson, Joshua Holmgren.

She has many nieces and nephews in North Carolina. 

In lieu of flowers, donations can be sent to PATCH ( Pet Adoption Through Caring Hands) in Pompton Lakes, N.J.

Charles W. Kelly, age 90, of Cedar Crest, NJ passed away Wednesday, October 11, 2023, peacefully in his sleep, just weeks after celebrating his 90th birthday.

Charlie was born to Maude and William Kelly of Orange, NJ. After he graduated from Montclair State College, he continued his higher education at Brooklyn College, New York University, and Columbia with Graduate Studies in recreation.

Mr. Kelly will be remembered locally as the beloved Director of Parks and Recreation of Wayne, NJ, where he was instrumental in starting many community programs, and developed a sense of family within the department. These programs continue today, helping Wayne to become recognized as one of New Jersey’s best places to live.

Charlie proudly served in the US Marines from 1951-54 as a Staff Sargent and a Flight Crew Chief. He was a decorated Korean War Veteran receiving a Bronze Star and a Purple Heart for his heroic and distinguished service. He was the sole survivor of an airplane crash, and walked across enemy lines, at night, for almost two weeks before being rescued by Turkish forces.

Charlie was loving, caring, and devoted to his family. He always had a great sense of humor, and never missed a chance to good-naturedly poke fun at friends and family. He enjoyed golf, tennis, boating, and spending time in Lake Bomoseen, Vermont. He loved playing bocce with his team, “The Mighty Geezers”, with his wife, and friends. He held court wherever he was at Cedar Crest, and knew almost everyone, staff included, by first name.

He is predeceased by his parents, William and Maude, and his brother, William. He is survived by his loving wife of 33 years, Joan Kelly, his daughters, Joyce Kardux and Jo Ann Bigsby, his son Rick Kelly, their spouses, his stepsons John and Jim Wickes, stepdaughter, Jennifer Ullman, and their spouses, thirteen grandchildren, and his former wife.

Donations can be made to the United States Marine Corps Wounded Warriors.

Stasia Elizabeth Skula, age 105 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, October 8, 2023 at home surrounded by loving family members and friends.

Stasia was born in Passaic to parents Joseph and Catherine Siwiec before moving to Wallington, NJ. She was the second of six  children. With both of her parents being immigrants from Poland to the United States, they had to work hard to feed so many mouths. This meant that Stasia and her siblings each had responsibilities with house-hold chores that they diligently kept up with. As a result, she and her siblings all became so close with one another that they created lasting relationships for the rest of their lives.

Stasia met her husband Emil after her sister Albina introduced the two. They found themselves falling in love and were married on December 29, 1940. Stasia and Emil found an apartment together, but in 1944 Emil was drafted into the United States Navy during World War II. Not knowing how long Emil would be gone and faced with the stark contrast of an empty home compared with her household of eight growing up, Stasia quickly made the decision to temporarily move back in with her siblings. Fortunately, Emil was able to return from the war a year and a half later and the two decided it was time to start a family together.

Stasia and Emil were blessed with three children: Emil Richard in 1946, Robert in 1948, and Debra Catherine in 1959. Stasia wanted her children to have a good education and a close relationship with God so Emil Richard and Robert were enrolled in St. Mary’s Grammar School for their education. Stasia belonged to St. Mary’s Church while they lived in Rutherford, and she even volunteered in the lunchroom there. Although her volunteer work was ultimately for altruistic reasons, Stasia did make use of her position by making sure her kids all ate their veggies and avoided the all-too-tempting sweets.  

In 1959, God blessed Stasia with a daughter, Debbie. Debbie was diagnosed with Down syndrome and therefore required special attention. Stasia did all of that and more for her and the two quickly became inseparable. It was a major responsibility taking care of Debbie, but it was a labor of love for Stasia, and Debbie was a great helper and companion and brought her much joy. In 1960, Stasia and Emil realized that their expanded family needed a home to match them. They decided to build their dream home together in Packanack Lake, customizing everything from the layout and architecture all the way to the landscaping and everything in between. They made Wayne their home and became parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church.

In 1982, Stasia lost the love of her life when Emil passed. Her close relationship with her family helped guide her through that challenging time. Her sisters also lost their respective loved ones, and it was  their relationship with God and one another that helped them get through those tough times. They went on to travel the world: Aruba, Florida, Poland, Las Vegas, and California were just a few of the places they explored and enjoyed.

Stasia will be remembered for her patient, independent, and strong character (she drove her car until she was 100 years old!). She loved to host parties and cook everything from standard American food to stuffed cabbages and pierogies. And, she was an avid gardener.  She was loving and held her family, her relationship with God, and her responsibilities as a homemaker and caregiver above all else. She took care of Debbie her whole life and made it one that Debbie loved. They had a mutual respect and understanding for one another that could only come from a lifelong bond. The two loved to shop, go to Atlantic City and play the slot machines, and vacation at the Jersey Shore over in Chadwick Beach. They were best friends until Debbie’s untimely passing in 2021.

Stasia is survived by her two children: Emil Richard Skula, Esq.,  and Robert Skula; and her four grandchildren: Joseph E. Skula, Steven R. Skula M.D., Robert E. Skula, and Thomas Skula.

She is predeceased by her husband Emil Skula; her daughter Debbie Skula; her parents: Joseph Siwiec, and Catherine Siwiec; and her siblings: Sophia Kerr, Albina Bulanda, Josephine Kocsis, Jean Popek, and Louis Siwiec.  

If you are unable to attend the funeral mass at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, a livestream will be available at the following link: Immaculate Heart of Mary Church

Joan P. Stappenbeck, age 79 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, October 6, 2023, surrounded by her loved ones. She fought a very brief but courageous battle with cancer.

“Joanie,” as she was affectionately known by everyone, grew up in Teaneck and graduated from St. Francis High School in Ridgefield Park. She was born a twin with her brother, Tommy, and she was one of ten children born to Haywood and Katherine Morrow. As a young woman, Joanie did some modeling in New York City, something she remained very proud of throughout the years.

In the late 1990’s, Joanie met Robert Stappenbeck. They enjoyed a first date at The Crows Nest in Hackensack, and romance blossomed. After courting for a few years, they were married on November 11, 2005 and settled in Wayne. They had a lot of fun together and particularly enjoyed live music. They’ve seen Johnny Mathis, Bobby Rydell, Paul Anka, Engelbert Humperdinck, Frankie Avalon, the Beach Boys, and many more. They visited Atlantic City often and Joanie always seemed to get lucky playing the slots! Whether it was going out to a show, sharing good times with their friends, or dining at Gianna’s Restaurant in Carlstadt, they have had over twenty years of fun and Bob will miss her dearly.

Joanie was also a great baker and would bake her signature crumb cake for everyone. Her father, a loyal RED SOX fan, forbid his children from being YANKEES fans, so Joanie was a NY METS fan her whole life. Of course, there was nothing that brought Joanie more joy than her granddaughter, Caitlin. She would FaceTime with Caitlin every day and the two of them are very close. Caitlin is the light of her life and they will miss each other very much.

Joanie is survived by her devoted husband Robert of Wayne, her two children; Cheryl Giroux of Massachusetts, and Andrea Hayes and her husband Alex of Maryland, her beloved granddaughter; Caitlin McKenzie Hayes of Maryland, two stepchildren; Linda DeFelice and her husband Larry of Lyndhurst, and Scott Stappenbeck of West New York, six siblings: Eileen Ippoloti (John) of W. Milford, Richard Morrow of Hackettstown, Kevin Morrow (Patricia) of Waldwick, Daniel Morrow (Margaret) of California, Michael Morrow (Debra) of Monroe, NY, and Kenneth Morrow (Cindy) of Virginia, as well as many loving nieces and nephews. Joanie was predeceased by her infant son, Brian, by her brother John Morrow (1979), by her twin brother Tommy Morrow (2022), and by her sister Anne Scheidecker.

Recently, Joanie received the most compassionate care imaginable from the nurses working with Valley Hospice. Therefore, in her memory, donations would be greatly appreciated to Valley Hospice by way of The Valley Hospital Foundation, 223 N. Van Dien Avenue, Ridgewood, NJ 07450.

Lucy Alfreda Piontkowski DAUM, age 95 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 after a long illness. She was married to Richard Daum for sixty-five years. They were parents to Jeffrey, Susan and Timothy, and her faithful friend Molly. She was predeceased by her parents Frank and Mary Piontkowski, her brother Stanley and her sisters Helen Anderson, Jennie Dzuiba, and Gene Kapchonick. She leaves behind several nephews and a niece.

Lucy graduated from Passaic Valley High School and Jersey City State Teachers College where she received her bachelor’s degree in education and also received her R.N. after graduating from Jersey City Medical Center. She was employed as an operating room nurse in Jersey City for several years. Following this, she was a school nurse in Little Falls. In the summer, she was a camp nurse at Camp Mitigwa in Rangely, Maine. It is here that she met Richard and they were married. She was also a camp nurse at Camp Wyoda in Vermont and at the Boy Scout camp; Camp Turrell, in New York. The remainder of her career was spent as a school nurse at Peter Cooper School in Ringwood.

Memorial contributions in Lucy’s name may be sent to Holy Cross Church, 220 Browertown Rd., Woodland Park, NJ 07424, or to the Fr. English Food Pantry, Paterson.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gerald Matthew Martin, age 70, of West Caldwell, NJ.  Gerald passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 4, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Gerald was born in Queens, NY and was one of four children to Francis and Margaret Martin.  Those who knew Gerald best, came to know him affectionately as “Jerry.”  Jerry was living in Queens with his family until about the age of six years old when his family moved to the Lion’s Head section of Wayne.  It was in Wayne where Jerry would spend his formative years, attending Wayne Hills High School.

Following Jerry's graduation from high school with the class of 1971, he found work quickly in the drafting department at American Cyanamid in Wayne.  After working there for a couple of years, Jerry joined the team at New Jersey Bell employed as a Lineman.  New Jersey Bell eventually became Atlantic Bell and later Verizon.  Although Jerry worked in the company’s office for a short time, the bulk of his career was spent as a Lineman installing fiber optic cable.  He spent many an afternoon enjoying his lunch hours at the Haledon Pork Store.  One of his most memorable days at work was his “Bring Your Daughter to Work Day,” where Jerry got stuck in the bucket of his boom truck while his daughter Alyson patiently waited for her family to rescue her.  Jerry’s career as a Lineman spanned over a period of forty years.  During that time, he was truly well respected and loved by his colleagues and peers.  Jerry eventually retired in 2013.  He remained active in retirement occasionally consulting and helping his son Nicholas’ contracting business.  He was also an accomplished carpenter and worked on various projects while employed as a Lineman.  

He married his first wife Joyce Johnson in 1979.  The couple settled in Hawthorne and while residing there they welcomed the births of both their children, Alyson and Nicholas.  While his children were growing up, he also coached their soccer teams. Unfortunately, the couple split up.  Then in 2002 Jerry met the love of his life, Deborah Reynolds.  As fate would have it, they fell in love, got engaged in 2004 in Cozumel, then August 26, 2006, they became husband and wife. Jerry and Deborah, settled in West Caldwell and have been there ever since.  

Jerry and Deborah are both true animal lovers. They have had a total of 5 dachshunds at different times in their twenty-one and a half year relationship; the most they have had is three at the same time when they first met in 2002.  Presently, they share their home with "Remy", age 71/2.  Since Martin is Jerry's family name, it was a no-brainer adopting "Remy Martin"!

Jerry was a member of the Verizon Pioneers.  He also performed beach clean-ups at the Jersey Shore throughout the years with Bell Atlantic.  Jerry and Deborah treasured traveling to a number of exotic destinations.  Most all the destinations they travelled to included a beach.  They cherished cruising to places throughout the Caribbean and to Mexico including Riviera Mya.  They also loved tailgating together, never missing an NY Giants home game at the Meadowlands as they were season ticket holders.

Jerry was an “Old School” type of individual, having a close friendship with his barber in town.  For many years he stood as a pillar of strength in his neighborhood.  He was extremely proud of his Irish Heritage and devoutly celebrated St Patrick’s Day, and cherished listening to the bagpipes.  Jerry could always be found helping his neighbors, cutting their lawns, shoveling their snow, or lending a hand whenever needed.  He was extremely talented with his hands and could fix just about anything at all.  He loved listening to music and attending live concerts such as:  Bruce Springsteen, Billy Joel, Elton John, Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac and Credence Clearwater Revival, to name a few.

As a toddler, Jerry was an “Ivory Soap Baby”, frequently appearing in television   commercials and magazine ads.  When not helping his neighbors, Jerry could often be found washing and maintaining his cars.  One of his first and favorite cars was his brown Datsun 280Z.  Not only did Jerry enjoy maintaining his cars, but also his personal home/deck and his portable grill used while tailgating.  He was known to family and friends as the “Grill-master.”  In addition to being an expert griller, Jerry was also famous for his talent to cook an outstanding breakfast, particularly Pancakes and French Toast.  Although Gerry worked a lot with his hands, you would never know it because his hands and nails were always clean and incredibly soft.

Aside from all of Jerry's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Jerry than providing for and spending time with friends and family.  Jerry and Deborah cherished seventeen years of loving and loyal marriage.

Jerry was a kind, gentle, and quiet man who truly loved his family.  He was loved throughout his community and his profession.  He had an understated humble personality and a wonderfully dry sense of humor that could bring a smile to anyone’s face. Jerry was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

Jerry is survived by his wife Deborah  (nee Reynolds) of West Caldwell, NJ, his son Nicholas Martin of Sparta, NJ, his daughter Alyson Payerl and her husband Christopher of Sparta, NJ, two brothers; Bill Martin and his wife Janet of Franklin Lakes, NJ, and Jack Martin and his wife Debbie of Wayne, NJ, one sister Eileen Joyce and her husband Bob of Wayne, NJ, and many nieces, nephews, grand nieces and grand nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents Francis and Margaret Martin.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Gerry’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing, Memphis TN 38105.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nina Leslie Gray, age 76, of Riverdale, NJ.

Nina passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 3, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Nina was born in the Bronx, NY on February 19, 1947 and was one of two children to Albert and Miriam Golubock.  She attended Queens College and pursued a successful career in marketing.  She settled in New Jersey and worked full-time along with raising her only child, Deena.  After retiring, Nina kept busy by doing what she truly enjoyed.

She treasured traveling to the casino to play her favorite game, Keno.  She also treasured shopping and spoiling her two grandchildren, Francesco and Antonia.  She frequented exotic destinations with her family, mostly by way of cruises, such as Bermuda, the Caribbean, and journeys to the Mediterranean.

Nina was quite a spitfire of a woman.  She was strong, independent, and not afraid to speak her mind.  She was a no-nonsense lady, and you always knew where you stood with her.  She was a sincerely classy lady who made sure she always looked her best before leaving the house, and this always included her cherished pieces of jewelry.  Those who knew Nina best, quickly realized that her greatest passion in her life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Nina than providing for and spending time with her family and friends.

Nina will be forever remembered as a loving mother and cherished grandmother.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Nina is survived by her daughter Deena Vincenti and her husband Frank of Woodland Park, two loving grandchildren Francesco Vincenti, Jr., and Antonia Vincenti both of Woodland Park, NJ, one sister-in-law Barbara Golubock of Suffern, NY, and two nieces; Rhona and Janis.  She was predeceased by her brother Harvey Golubock, and her parents Albert and Miriam Golubock.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Nina’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memorial Processing,  Memphis, TN 38105.

Dino Christopher Vergano, age 97, of Wayne passed Monday, October 2, 2023.

He was born to Peter Dino and Mary (Savio) Vergano at the family home in West New York, NJ. He graduated from Memorial High School in West New York with the Class of 1944.

Dino worked from the age of seven on.  His first job was setting bowling pins at the local bowling alley and he delivered groceries for a small grocery store.  He enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps on April 13, 1944 and passed the tests to be a pilot, bombardier, and navigator for aircraft.  He did have one bad eye but memorized the eye chart so he could pass the vision test. He graduated Gunnery School and was honorably discharged on May 11, 1946.

Dino and Dolores had only one date together before he went off to serve in the US Army’s Air Corps. They corresponded by mail and when he came home from the war they fell in love. Dolores and Dino were married on June 4, 1950, at St Joseph of the Palisades Church in West New York and honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  They have had seventy-two years of a loving and devoted marriage before Dolores’ passing on November 11, 2022.

Under the GI Bill, Dino went to Brooklyn Polytechnical Institute and then to the Newark College of Engineering (now known as NJIT).  He attended school at night for twelve years having graduated with a degree in Mechanical Engineering in May of 1959. Dino had a successful career specializing in the industrial Heating Ventilation and Air Conditioning field. Through the years he has owned several companies in the HVAC industry and represented as many as twelve lines of equipment.  His family remembers him always being on the phone (not a cellphone but a wired land line) even when they were on vacation.  Along with the constant telephone calls he was forever in his car. He formally retired in 2013 at the age of eighty-eight.

Dino and his late wife Dolores were dedicated to their Catholic faith, and both were founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. A small group founding the church would meet to worship on Sundays at the Schuyler Colfax School in Wayne prior to the completion of the church.  For many years Dino served as an Usher and Eucharistic Minister.

Some will remember Dino volunteering as a Little League baseball coach in Wayne.  He did this for several years during his son Chris’ youth.

Dino will be lovingly remembered as a truly remarkable individual exuding a quiet and personable nature that effortlessly drew people towards him.  With an innate charm and warmth, he possessed an extraordinary ability to make everyone he encountered feel valued and appreciated. Whether engaging in light-hearted banter or lending a listening ear, Dino had an uncanny knack for establishing genuine connections. His selflessness and genuine interest in others made him an all-around nice person, leaving a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to cross his path.

Dino was the loving husband of seventy-two years to the late Dolores (Ferris) Vergano (d. November 11, 2022); devoted father of Christopher Vergano and his wife Deneen of Wayne and Cynthia Vergano Brozuski of Oak Ridge and her late husband Chris (d. January 6, 2023); loved brother of the late Ernani Vergano (d. July 19,2021) and his wife Egidia of Attleboro, MA; he was the cherished grandfather of Kyle Vergano and his wife Jenna, Allison Vergano, and Gregory Brozuski and his fiancé Keira Logue.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Veronica Obringer (nee Bruder), age 94, passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 1, 2023.

Veronica was born in Union City and lived in North Bergen before moving to Wayne. After calling Wayne her home for many years, she moved to Cedar Crest Village in 2011 where she had been an active resident ever since.

After Veronica graduated from high school, she went to work in New York City where she got a job as a bathing suit wholesaler for Jantzen Swimsuits. She worked in the Empire State Building for seven years. She also worked as an aid in the Wayne School System helping handicapped children. Finally, she worked as a legal secretary for GAF Corp in Wayne.

Dancing was something that Veronica loved. She met a gentleman named Robert at a ballroom dance academy. They danced very well and very naturally together and, they subsequently fell in love and were married a short time later on April 7, 1951. After honeymooning in the Bahamas, they first settled in North Bergen where they were blessed with their two sons, Steven and Robert. They later moved to Wayne where they were blessed with their daughter Lynn. The area around Veronica’s home was a virtual playground. All of the neighborhood children would gather there to play. Veronica’s travels spanned the globe! She traveled throughout North America, took cruises to almost all the Caribbean islands, traveled abroad to all of Europe, China, Russia, Africa, and Patagonia. Closer to home when her kids were young, she was known for her spontaneity when traveling, whether it be when camping or even a trip to Disney World for a long weekend. Veronica was a devoted mother to her children and an adoring grandmother to her grandchildren. She was a parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes for many years.

Veronica is survived by her daughter Lynn Obringer and husband Joseph Petrick of Key West, Florida, two sons: Steven Obringer and wife Linda of Kinnelon, and Robert Obringer and wife Marlee of Pompton Plains; her cherished grandchildren: Katy and husband Andy, Steven and wife Crystal, Mary and husband Nate, Bobby and wife Jill, Heather and husband Rob; and her precious great-grandchildren: Emily, Ashley, Emma, Charlotte, Matthew, Ben, Hunter, Nolan, Vaughn, and Christie. She was predeceased by her husband Robert in 2005, her brother Bernard in 1973, and her sister Florence Waldy in 2017.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Veronica’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

To mail a donation, click here  

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place,

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

UPDATE: Janet will be laid to rest with her husband at the Arlington National Cemetery on August 4, 2025.

Janet McLean Thompson (nee Steenstra), age 86 of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, September 27, 2023. She was a Wayne resident for more than fifty years.

Janet was born and raised in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1954. She was a Band Majorette and member of the Color Guard spending Saturday afternoons in the fall cheering on the Colts at Hinchliffe Stadium.

Janet met Jimmy Thompson as a teenager while they were both attending the First Presbyterian Church in Paterson and Jim played on Central’s football team.

After graduation, she began her career working for the telephone company. During this time, Jim had joined the military and was serving with the Army in Germany when he proposed to 19 year old Janet! With her father’s blessing, Janet traveled overseas (alone) and married Jim in Munich on August 4, 1956. They enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon there as well. Once Jim returned home, they married again for the benefit of their family and friends.

They bought their first home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they lived for 20 years before building a new home across town.

Eventually, Janet and her sister Clariss joined her father’s company, Steenstra Paper Products in Paterson. After her father’s untimely passing, Jim needed to step in and run the day to day business operations. Janet was at his side the whole time for over 25 years. They were a loving couple and Janet was utterly devoted to her beloved Jim. They always considered themselves lucky to work together at Steenstra Paper Products, and they loved being together each and every day. After Jim’s unexpected passing, Janet led the business for another 5 years until her retirement.

Together, they raised their two boys, James and Edward. Janet was a very involved and attentive mother. She was always supportive of her boys, attending their sporting events, scouting activities, band concerts, and school events. She and Jim were proud to attend Wayne Valley Marching Band competitions as well as football games at Muhlenberg College. She was an excellent cook and spoiled her loved ones with her baking.

During the 1970’s, at the urging of her high school friends Charlene Delvecchio and Maggie McMahon, Janet and Jim purchased several acres in the town of Cobleskill, NY. Jim worked alongside his close friend Jerry Delvecchio to design and build a country “cottage” on the property. Affectionately known as “The Farm”, Janet and her loved ones enjoyed countless trips to her second home over the past 50 years. This despite the home having neither electricity nor running water! These trips eventually included her grandsons where she would enjoy teaching them to play games such as Pokeno and Uno as well as dying easter eggs.

She was perhaps an even better YaYa, babysitting at every opportunity and spoiling her grandsons with love and hugs and lots of cookies. They will all miss her dearly.

In 2003, Janet moved to Oak Ridge where she lived on the fourth hole of Bowling Green Country Club. With the help of several close friends and neighbors, she quickly picked up the sport of golf and treasured her time on the greens.

Janet was fortunate to always have a large group of friends and she was very social. She played cards with her girlfriends often and loved playing tennis and golf over the years. Somehow, she also found time to tend to her garden or do needlework. She was very fond of her Dalmatians: Chequers, Chief and Mikey and considered them her other sons. Janet was blessed in many ways and her family will miss her presence.

Janet was predeceased by her loving husband, James(1994)and her parents, Edward Steenstra(1965) and Minnie(nee McLean) Steenstra(2006). She is survived by her loving sons: James and his wife Peggy of Seattle, Washington, and Edward and his wife Kathleen of Wayne, four adoring grandsons: McLean, James, Danny, and Matthew, one sister, Clariss Rock of W. Caldwell, and three loving nieces; Jocelyn Anderson, Cynthia Mizzone and Joanna Clarke.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Packanack Lake Fire Co. #5, 5 Lake Drive West, Wayne, NJ or the Alzheimer's Association.

In Loving Memory of Robert "Bob" Trent

Robert "Bob" Trent of West Milford, NJ passed away on Tuesday, September 26, 2023, at the age of 64. Born on July 4th, 1959, to Raymond and Eileen Trent, he grew up in Wayne, NJ alongside his sister Kathie. He brought warmth and laughter to the lives of all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Bob's life was a testament to his passion for mechanics which began in his high school automotive class working on his '67 Mustang fastback alongside his partner in crime, Ranger.  Not only did the Mustang get him into some trouble, it also helped capture the attention of Sharon, whom he later married. He dedicated his entire career to the world of engines and grease, working as a mechanic, where his expertise was unmatched. Not only did he cherish his fastback, but also his '67 Mustang convertible, '62 Falcon ranchero, and "Moe", his trusted backhoe.

Beyond his love for all things mechanical, Bob was a hardworking man who took pride in providing for his family. Bob and his wife Sharon raised two wonderful children, who were the pride and joy of his life. Bob is survived by his wife, Sharon; sister, Kathie and her husband Peter; son, Eric and daughter-in-law Ashley, and daughter, Amy and son-in-law Scott. His legacy extends to his role as a loving grandfather to Leah and Calvin.

As we mourn the loss of Bob, we also celebrate the beautiful life he lived and the love he shared. His memory will continue to live on in the hearts of his family and friends.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob's name are asked to consider donations to NAMI (National Alliance on Mental Illness), 4301 Wilson Blvd, Suite 300, Arlington, VA 22203, be made in his memory.

Carol Cook, age 85 of Wayne, passed away on Monday, September 25, 2023.

Carol was born in Secaucus to Albert and Meta Wolf. She spent her childhood there and  attended Weehawken High School where she played basketball and graduated with the class of ’54. Carol loved being outdoors and spent her summers at Hockenberry’s Farm in Flemington, NJ. Carol loved it so much she returned with Paul and their children. They all share fond memories of making blackberry ice cream with fresh picked blackberries from around the farm grounds.

Shortly after Carol’s graduation from high school, she was introduced to Paul Cook on a blind date set up by her family. The two were set up to build her cousin’s garage together and Carol quickly became attracted to his patience and kindness. Not long after, the pair fell in love. They went for a drive down route 202 in Montville and Paul asked her to pick out a style of house that she liked so that he could build it for her. After purchasing property in Wayne, they built their home with the help of family and friends. The two were married on August 17, 1957, at St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, NJ. They went on a honeymoon canoe trip to the Adirondacks. The trip was so enjoyable, they decided to make it a tradition to go back every 5 years. Paul and Carol maintained this tradition until Paul’s untimely passing in 2002.

Carol and Paul’s loving marriage led them to start a family together. They had 3 children: Paul, Lorraine and Stacey.

Carol was a loving wife and mother who made fresh baked cookies for dessert. Her children have fond memories of coming in from playing outside to the smell of those fresh baked cookies. She worked hard for her family and returned to work after her youngest daughter Stacey started high school.

Hard worker she was, Carol brushed up on her stenography skills by transcribing sermons while in church. She was hired as an executive secretary at Lincoln Park Nursing Home where she worked for over twenty-five years.  Her kids joked that she had hieroglyphic notes strewn about because only she could understand them (they suspect that at least some of those notes included some jibes & barbs about them).

Carol loved gardening and is aptly referred to as the “weeding fairy” by her family because she would painstakingly remove every weed including its root system wherever she went.  She loved reading, knitting, and tending to her flowers.

Carol will be remembered as loving, caring, and kind. She was very strict but in a loving way that helped instill a strong work ethic and an attitude that you could accomplish anything if you set your mind to it. She led by example and found much of her strength of will from her relationship with God. Carol attended St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne every Sunday with her family and volunteered there in many ways: she taught Sunday school, worked in the nursery, helped with Heart & Hands Mission, knitting scarves for Seafarers, preparing quilts for those in need,  a member of WELCA, Adult Forum, church book club, bible study, and volunteered for Wayne Interfaith Network Food Pantry of which she became the President.

One of Carol’s proudest moments occurred just this past year on Mother’s Day. Paul, Lorraine, Stacey, Don and granddaughter Hannah all decided to come together from near and far to surprise her in church as one big family. It was a moment that Carol would bring up with pride to everyone, as a special moment together in the place that she loved and devoted her life to.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are encouraged to consider a donation to St Timothy’s Lutheran Church Pastor’s Discretionary Fund.

Donald B. Van Grouw, age 87, of North Haledon, died Sunday, September 24, 2023, at St Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson, following a hemorrhagic stroke on Thursday.  He passed into glory and exchanged the corruptible for the incorruptible and eternal life with his Savior Jesus Christ. (1Cor. 15:53-55)

He was born in the family home on 8th Street in Prospect Park to Bastian and Jeanette Van Grouw and raised at 258 Fairview Street in Prospect Park.  He graduated from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1955. He attended The Cooper Union School of Art in New York City before marrying Gerda Aria den Hollander, his beloved wife of 62 years. Shortly thereafter he suffered the shock of his father’s unexpected death. The scripture, 1 Peter 5:7 “Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you” was a special comfort to him at this time.  

Donald worked as an apprentice at International Design in Paterson, soon moving to Burlington Industries where he became Managing Director of their Jacquard Art Studios in New York City until his retirement in 1998. He also served in the New Jersey National Guard for six years at the Teaneck Armory.

Donald was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Congregation in Franklin Lakes.  He served the church for forty-eight years as a deacon, Sunday School teacher, and an elder.  Donald was a longtime resident of Prospect Park before moving to Pequannock in 2001 and subsequently to the Holland Christian Home of North Haledon in 2022.  His lifelong passion was gardening and floral design, in which he saw many spiritual parallels.  Isaiah 40:8 “The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand forever.” He tended the gardens in Hofstra Park in Prospect Park for many years, receiving public awards and recognition for his volunteer community service. Among his flower beds he highlighted Bible verses so others could see not only natural beauty, but also consider the goodness and beauty of our Creator. He is remembered by family and friends as a generous, selfless and loving man who pointed us to Christ and led by his godly and devoted example.  

He is survived by his loving wife Gerda (DenHollander) Van Grouw; he was the devoted father of Bastian (Bob) Van Grouw (Amanda, Jason)  and his wife Irene of Vernon, Ellen Greendyk and her husband Paul of Pompton Plains (Philip, Eric, Julia, Aria), Kathleen Van Grouw of Riverdale, Donald Van Grouw and his wife Ellen of Wayne (Matthew), and Scott Van Grouw and his wife Lenora (Lora) of Pompton Plains (Katrina, Taylor, Jeremy, Annika, Eliza); Loved brother of Barbara Tanis and her husband William of Wayne; he was the great grandfather of ten great-grandchildren and many nephews and great nephews and nieces.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

Josef Kneis - loving husband, father, Opa and Great Opa, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne on September 23rd, 2023, at age 94.

Joe was a simple and humble man in many ways, but he, along with his beloved wife, Sieglinde, who passed in 2020, made a remarkable impact on many lives - particularly those of his family, which includes 13 grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren (with more on the way).  

Born in Bakonyjako, Hungary, Joe was the youngest of 9 surviving children. After losing 4 brothers in WWII, Joe was left at a young age to tend the family farm with his sisters. Forced to leave Hungary following the Russian occupation of the country, he was sent to East Germany, thereafter escaping to the west, and settling in Munich, West Germany, where he met the love of his life, Sieglinde. They married and emigrated to the U.S. in 1955, in search of opportunity. After briefly residing in Haledon, they settled in Wayne, where they lived together for 62 years and raised a family, prior to Sieglinde’s passing in 2020.

Initially working as a mason, Josef, in need of year-round work, took a job at the Ford automotive plant in Mahwah, where he worked in the Trim Department for 24 years, until the plant’s closing. He then took a maintenance position with Estee Lauder/Aramis in Oakland, NJ, where he worked until his retirement.

If Joe had a hobby, it was landscaping. Passersby often commented on how meticulously well-maintained his yard always was. If Joe had any enemies, they were certainly chipmunks or squirrels (see prior sentence).

Josef leaves behind four children – daughters Irene Riley (Tim – recently deceased) and Debbie Grant, and sons Walter Kneis (Debbie) and Michael Kneis (Clare), along with the aforementioned legacy of grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Cornelius “Neil” Southway, age 94 of Warwick, NY died on Saturday, September 23, 2023.

Neil was born at home on Brown Avenue in Prospect Park, NJ just a few months before the Stock Market crash of 1929. He was the oldest of five sons born into his family, with one of them passing away as an infant. As a teenager, Neil began working as a painter with his uncle before finishing high school. Times were tough and he did what was necessary to help support his family. Soon he found himself drafted into the U.S. Army, serving during the Korean War. Upon returning to civilian life, Neil carried with him a heavy PTSD burden that remained with him throughout his lifetime. As a result, he resolved never to marry. He focused on his life’s work and became a skilled craftsman and a master of many trades, including masonry, carpentry, and cabinet making. He could build anything, fix anything, and was the handiest guy you could ever hope to have around. Family and friends alike would frequently call on Neil for help, and he was always glad to be of service. He was well loved by all who knew him, a reliable friend, and generous almost to a fault.

In 2001, Neil was working on a project for a local green house when he met Jean Mol, a bookkeeper there. Neil was seventy-two years old when he mustered the courage to ask her out to dinner, and she accepted. Within a year, at the young age of seventy-three, Neil married for the first time. He and Jean enjoyed a honeymoon to Maine and then settled into a loving and supportive marriage of twenty-one years. He was simply a great guy who adored his wife, and Jean will miss him dearly.

Neil is survived by his wife, Jean (Mol) of Warwick, NY, his three stepchildren: Cindy Verblaauw and her husband Ed of Warwick, NY, Mark Prol and his wife Nina of Alpharetta, Georgia, and Andy Prol and his wife Lori of Medford, NJ, a brother; Howard Southway and his wife Eleanor of Rockaway, NJ, sister-in-law; Lena Southway of Pompton Plains, eight grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews that loved and respected him. Neil was predeceased by his brother Robert Southway and his wife Beatrice, and by his brother Peter Southway.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Gail Kramer, age 84, of Wayne.

Gail passed away peacefully on Wednesday, September 20, 2023 while in the presence of her family and Pastor.  She was born in Elizabeth, NJ, the older of two children to Emil and Dora Kuzsma.  While growing up, Gail attended St John's School in Mountain Lakes, NJ, and Westfield High in Westfield, NJ, where she graduated in 1956.  Following her graduation from Westfield High, she enrolled at Montclair State College where she earned her Bachelor of Arts degree in 1961.  After obtaining her degree, Gail taught at Dover High School.

While attending Montclair State Gail was introduced to a student at Stevens Institute by the name of Melvin Kramer.  The two went out on a blind date and hit it off, and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on June 30, 1962.  Mel enlisted in the Army in December of 1961, and both she and Mel moved as the government saw fit, first spending time at Fort Dix New Jersey for basic training, then Lockport NY, at a military installation, and finally at Fort Belvoir, VA.  It was at Fort Belvoir where they welcomed the birth of their first son Brian.  After leaving the military they lived in Rutherford, NJ, for a bit before settling in West Paterson, NJ, where they purchased their first home.  While living in West Paterson, Gail and Mel welcomed their next three children into their lives, their sons Mark, James and Eric.  As their family grew, they moved again, this time to Wayne in 1977 where they have been ever since.

In her spare time, Gail was an avid reader.  However, her greatest passion in life was for her family and friends.  Nothing in the world meant more to Gail than spending time with and providing for her children.  While her children were school aged, Gail became a full-time homemaker and dedicated her life to caring for her husband and children.  She always cared about and enjoyed other people, working as a teacher early in her marriage, and as a practical nurse later on.  Gail and Mel cherished forty years of loving and loyal marriage until Melvin’s passing in 2016.

Gail was not only dedicated to her family and friends, but also to her Christian Faith.  She was a member of Wayne Presbyterian Church for many years, where among other things she was a co-leader in the church fundraising garage sale.  Some of her closest friends were from the church community.

Gail was a warm-hearted lady who was loved by everyone she met.  She will be forever remembered as a loving, kind, and compassionate person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She is survived by her son Brian Kramer and his wife Denise of New York City, her son Eric Kramer and his wife Julie of Honolulu, HI, her son Mark of West Milford, NJ, one sister Lynne Wagner of Rahway, NJ, two grandchildren Lili Kramer of Honolulu, HI, and Benjamin Kramer of New York City, three nephews; Brett, Shane, and Larry, and two nieces; Rita, and Hillary.  She was predeceased by her husband Melvin in 2016, and her son James in 2022.

Evelyn M. Boissonneault, age 91, of Butler, passed on Tuesday, September 19, 2023.

She was born to the late Rose and Victor Thibault in Acushnet, MA and raised in Island Park, Rhode Island.

Evelyn met Ray as he wanted to go fishing with his brother Leo and they spied a boat in Evelyn’s yard. They knocked on the door asking if they could borrow the boat and Evelyn immediately realized these two guys needed help with fishing as they were in dress clothes. Ray and Evelyn had a first date at a drive-in movie and instead of the normal popcorn they had a container of crab legs they ate in the car during the film.  They soon fell in love and married, when she was just eighteen years old at St. Anthony’s Church in Portsmouth, RI on August 26, 1950. After they married, they lived in Fall River, MA, Paterson, NJ, Lodi, NJ, before moving to Butler, NJ in 1964.

Through the years Evelyn has worked at St. George’s School in Paterson, NJ, and St. Joseph’s School in Lodi as a cafeteria worker. Evelyn worked the second shift in Paterson, the kids would be tended to by a babysitter as they waited for their dad to come home from work. She also worked at Maloney’s Machine Shop in Bloomingdale, Edo-Aire in Fairfield, and the Generant Company in West Milford before retiring in 1994.

Evelyn was dedicated to her Catholic faith and for many years attended St Anthony’s Church in Butler. Evelyn was an avid reader, she enjoyed reading novels of suspense and romance. Some of her favorite authors were Phyllis A. Whitney, Jean Anne Bartlett, and Mary Stewert among several others.   Evelyn also loved watching and listening to birds and reading books about them. Family was everything to Evelyn, she enjoyed having everyone around.  She had a spit-fire personality and did not possess the ability to sugar-coat anything.  She just said it as she saw it. She would go above and beyond to help anyone.  Evelyn will always be remembered as fun-loving, funny, accommodating to a fault, and will be most remembered for her kind, beautiful soul.

She was the loving wife of fifty-two years to the late Raymond Boissonneault (d. 2002); she was the devoted mother of Colleen Basile and her husband Mike of Lewes, DE, the late June Bardi (d. 2020) and her late husband Gary (d. 2006), Linda Miller and her husband Andy of Milton, DE, and Cheryl Roscoe of Butler; cherished grandmother of Michele Aldridge and her husband Chris of Salisbury, NC, Michael Basile and his wife Barbara of Bethel, CT, the late Jennifer Dey (d. 2006) , the late Jason Bardi (d. 2022), Heather Muckelston and Keith Hestermann of Forked River, NJ, Bryan Miller and his wife Bonnielee of Anchorage, AK, Christopher Miller and his wife Nicole of Chester, NJ, Danielle Roscoe of Butler, NJ, Nicole Beek and her late husband Robert (d. 2022) of Bloomingdale, NJ,  Tiffany Troup and her husband Mike of Bloomingdale, NJ, her sister the late Loretta Legre Goguen (d. 1993) and her brother the late Henry Thibault (d. 2005). She was dearly loved by twenty-one great grandchildren: Amber, Krista, Cameron, Thomas, Ana, Liam, Gabrielle, Benjamin, Teagan, Briar, Logan, Hayden, Hudson, Paisley, Hunter, Skyler, Ryleigh, Willow, Cedar, Charlotte, and Koda. One great-great-grandson: Luke.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations would be greatly appreciated. Evelyn truly enjoyed the time she spent, and the friends she made, at Shepherd's Haven Social Adult Day Center in Pompton Lakes, and your memorial donations would be very meaningful here. You can visit their website at www.shepherdshavennj.org, or mail your donation to: Shepherd's Haven, 420 Ramapo Avenue, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

It is with profound sadness we announce the passing of Mark Wieseltier, age 74, of Wayne, New Jersey.

Mark passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19th 2023 surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Mark was one of four children, born in New York City to Milton and Yetta Wieseltier. He entered this world with his twin brother, Harvey Wieseltier. At the age of three Mark’s family moved to Clifton, New Jersey where he enjoyed the next ten years of his childhood. At thirteen Mark’s family settled in Passaic, New Jersey. There Mark made life-long friends while attending Passaic High School. He graduated from Passaic High School in 1967.    

The only thing Mark enjoyed more than spending time with his family was baseball. Mark’s passion for baseball began as a child. As a young boy he excelled at baseball. He began playing baseball on the Babe Ruth Little League team and continued playing baseball throughout high school.

After graduating from Passaic High School Mark enrolled at Rutgers University.  

While at Rutgers, Mark heard the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army. He served proudly and honorably.  

After being honorably discharged from the military, Mark returned to Rutgers University to complete his education. Mark graduated from Rutgers University in 1972 with a bachelor’s degree in biological science. Following his graduation from Rutgers, Mark quickly found employment as a pharmaceutical sales representative with Curtin Matheson Scientific.

One evening in the spring of 1984 at TGI Fridays, Mark met an attractive, kind, young lady by the name of Mary Ann Santora. The two instantly hit it off and began dating. Mark was a planner, later in life he would unabashedly confess he planned to spend a lifetime with Mary Ann from the very first evening they met. His persistence was evident, as he always made plans for their next date the minute he picked her up. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 2nd 1986 the couple joined together as husband and wife at an unforgettable reception at the Town and Campus in West Orange, New Jersey.

The newlyweds settled in Pines Lake, a close-knit lake community nestled in Wayne, which they called home ever since. While residing in Pines Lake, Mark and Mary Ann welcomed their one and only daughter, Ashley. Mark truly cherished watching his daughter grow up in Wayne and was involved in every aspect of her life. His pride was unsurpassed as he warmly shared her accomplishments with any and all who would listen. Mark often gushed ‘he hit the lottery’ when he and Mary Ann were blessed with Ashley. Mark was the loudest cheerleader in the stands of Ashley’s life and his voice will be deeply missed. Mark loved watching the relationship flourish between his daughter and son-in-law Adam. Mark loved Adam like a son and was over-joyed when Adam asked Mark for Ashley’s hand in marriage. Mark loved spending time at his daughter and son-in-law’s house, watching Yankees’ games outside, while listening to the Beatles as boats passed on the lake. He loved visiting and playing tug with his grand-puppy Hudson. Mark was a pillar in his community bringing friends and family together throughout his years in the Pines Lake community, attending many parties and watching several generations go through the summer program at the beach. He could be seen daily strolling the neighborhood with his beloved dog Bailey.

For the last twenty years, Mark was a real estate agent for Weichert Real Estate in Wayne, New Jersey. Mark and his wife, Mary Ann, lovingly known as the M&Ms, worked as a close team until his retirement earlier this year. Mark enjoyed serving clients and helping his clients find their forever homes or new investment properties.

Mark served as a member of the Wayne Rotary Club. While serving as President of the Wayne Rotary Club Mark dressed-up as Santa Claus to provide the seniors with Christmas in July, he lavished the seniors with gifts, joy and festivities during the hot summer month. Mark enjoyed playing golf every day he could, oftentimes playing and walking thirty-six holes in one day in his early years. His love of baseball remained throughout his life.  Mark was a truly devoted NY Yankees fan, Mickey Mantle being his favorite player. Mark fondly reflected attending games during his childhood with his father and brothers and recalled the first time he attended a game seeing the stadium in living color. He made it a ritual to attend a number of games each season.  Two of his most memorable games attended were Derek Jeter's final game and a 2022 playoff game.

Aside from all of Mark's talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Mark than spending time with, and providing for his family. He and his wife Mary Ann cherished thirty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage together, including twenty years as partners at Weichert Realtors. He enjoyed time spent with family for holidays and Sunday dinner, mostly looking forward to the poker game that would ensue when he would enjoy the banter with the guys.

He treasured his yearly family vacations, periodically enjoying trips and cruises to various destinations such as Aruba, St Martin, Bermuda, Hawaii, Italy, Greece, and other Caribbean and European locations.  He enjoyed numerous trips to the Jersey Shore. He loved to walk on the boardwalk and join his daughter, nieces and nephews on the rides.

Everyone who met Mark genuinely and truly enjoyed his company.  He had a wonderfully explosive sense of humor and had a talent to captivate an audience of any age with his stories and jokes. In his later years he ventured into standup comedy at a local cafe, but his most loyal fan base remained his family, who looked forward to his jokes every time they saw him.  

He was a dependable, supportive, patient man, who never missed a family gathering or milestone. Mark was the first on the dance floor at family events and was the loudest voice in the room each time ‘Shout’ hit the speakers. He was always there to lend a hand or accomplish whatever Santora feat or logistical undertaking arose. He enjoyed his time with the “Golden Girls”, creating many fond memories with his sister-in-law and mother-in-law over the years. Without question, he would drive the trio to Foxwoods in Connecticut.

Mark was blessed to spend the last few months taking care of his grandson, Avery two days a week. Avery quickly developed a deep love for his Pops, always having a smile on his face when Pops was in the room. Pops enjoyed watching his first swim lessons and outings at The Little Gym. Avery loved chasing Pops around in the car he bought him. Mark’s ability to light up a room lives on in Avery.

Mark will forever be remembered as a devoted husband, father, and especially loving grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone who knew him.

Mark is survived by his wife Mary Ann (nee Santora) of Pines Lake in Wayne, his daughter Ashley Wieseltier and her husband Adam Tett also of Pines Lake, one grandson Avery Mark Tett of Pines Lake, one brother Harvey Wieseltier and his wife Margarita of Guadalajara, Mexico, his sister-in-law Helen Lavelle of Pines Lake, his brother-in-law Salvatore Santora of Bloomfield, NJ, his mother-in-law Angela Santora of Lodi, NJ, and many nieces and nephews who adored him.  He was predeceased by his brother Ross Weiss, his sister Beverly Friedentag, his parents Milton and Yetta Wieseltier, and his father-in-law Joseph Santora.

Mark was given precious years of borrowed time due to the generous gift of blood donors, therefore those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider donating blood to their local blood drives, or making a donation to the MDS Foundation, 4573 South Broad St, Suite 150, Yardville, NJ 08620  

To schedule a blood donation please visit redcrossblood.org.

Olivia “Liv” Lepine, age 33, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on Monday, September 18, 2023.

She was born in Pequannock and raised in Wayne where she graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 2008.  She has lived in Augusta, ME, and Albany, NY, before returning to Wayne in 2020.

Liv’s work history includes working at Corrado’s in Wayne Job Corp in Maine and more recently Opulence Funding in Mahwah.  She also attended Roman Academy in Hawthorne and received her Hairstyling License from the New Jersey State Board of Cosmetology and Hairstyling.

Liv will be remembered as a strong-willed person who had a great sense of humor and was very good at making crafty type things.  She liked to cook, made delicious foods, and left a huge mess in the kitchen doing it. She was also deeply spiritual, finding solace and peace through regular meditation and exploring the healing energy of crystals.  Most of all Liv will be remembered for her devotion and love of her daughter Abigal and son Dallas.

Olivia was the devoted mother of Abigal Lepine and Dallas Adderley; she was the cherished daughter of Mary and Steven Lepine of Wayne; she was the devoted sister of SSG Steven Lepine currently stationed at Ft. Stewart, GA; and she was the dearly loved granddaughter of Viviane Scherer of Crossville, TN.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Hospice of NJ, 400 Broadacres Drive #1, Bloomfield, NJ 07003 or the Collins Pavilion, 97 West Parkway, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Keith Cavill, age 42, of Wayne, NJ.

Keith passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 19, 2023 after a courageous battle with cancer and while receiving the loving care of his family.

Keith was born in Pequannock and grew up in Wayne Township.  He was one of three children to George and Joann Cavill.  Keith had a wonderfully fulfilling childhood surrounded by a loving family and many friends.  While growing up in Wayne, Keith was an avid rider and racer of dirt bikes.  He attended Wayne Hills High School graduating with the class of 1999.  During his time as a student in high school, he played soccer and was a member of the high school’s very first Varsity Ice Hockey Team.  Keith was also active playing soccer, basketball, and football with the Wayne PAL, where his father was director for many years.   

After graduating from Wayne Hills High School, Keith attended Morris County Community College.  Keith left school to pursue an opportunity to start his own landscaping business.  In 2000, Keith raised the curtain on Cavill Landscaping, later to be called Stellar Property Management.  He owned and operated Cavill Landscaping for several years. 

In 2003, Keith suffered a spinal injury in a motocross accident which left him a quadriplegic. His injury did not daunt him in the least.  Keith went on to become a motivational speaker, traveling to colleges and other institutions around the United States.  He remained active in sports and was a member of the quadriplegic rugby team, the New York United Spinal Jets.  In 2005, an American documentary film called “Murderball” was made about the athletes on the United States quad rugby team and their journey to the Paralympic Games in Athens, Greece. The film was highly acclaimed and won multiple awards at the Sundance Film Festival in 2005.

Keith, later in 2012, restarted his landscaping business naming it Stellar Property Management.  Keith owned and operated his business until 2018.

Keith Was known by his family and friends as an individual who could defy and overcome any obstacle and seemingly impossible odds.  

In his spare time, Keith enjoyed flying drones and was an avid New York Jets fan.  But aside from all his talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion in life was for his family and friends.  Nothing meant more to Keith than spending time with those he loved.  He had a wonderfully infectious sense of humor and could light up any room he walked into with his beautiful smile.

Keith will be forever remembered as an inspiring, tenacious human being that touched the lives of countless people with his positive attitude and his perseverance.

Keith is survived by his mother Joann Cavill of Wayne, NJ, his sister Theresa Gabriele and her husband Greg of Wayne, NJ, his brother Robert Cavill of Lincoln Park, three aunts; Joyce Porr of Wayne, NJ, Robin Lapinski of Wayne, NJ, and Donna Polizzi of North Haledon, NJ, his cousins; Joseph Porr and his wife Linda, Justin Porr, Angie Shaw, Danielle Denman and her husband Brandon, Larry Lapinski, Jaime Penza, and others. He was predeceased by his father George C Cavill, Jr., and his four uncles; Larry Lapinski, Joseph Porr, Michael Polizzi, and Anthony Polizzi.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Keith’s name may be made to United Spinal Association, 120-34 Queens Blvd #330, Kew Gardens, NY 11415.

Robert M. Capozzi, age 75, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully, with his loving family by his side, on Sunday, September 17, 2023.

Robert was known as Rob or Bob and was affectionately called Grumps by his six grandchildren. Bob was born in the Bronx, NY, to Frank and Lucy Capozzi. He spent most of his childhood in Meriden, CT, where he loved to play in the woods, catch frogs, and competed on his school’s wrestling team. He moved to NJ during his senior year of high school and graduated from South Plainfield High School with the Class of 1966. Bob then graduated from Rider College with a Business degree. He had a successful career as an Operations Manager in Retail and Distribution Management positions and worked for companies such as BASF, Ben Rickert, Lillian Vernon, Liz Claiborn, and Alfred Dunner.

It was at BASF, that Bob met the love of his life, Marie. Their first date was to Nanina’s in the Park in Bellville. They married at Gethsemane Lutheran Church in Plainfield in 1980 and lived in Wayne for the past forty years.

Bob was known for his dry, sarcastic sense of humor, funny stories, and his helpful, matter-of- fact advice. He inherited his creative passion for building from his grandfather, and his love of cars, pets, listening to music, and for the NY Giants from his father. Cooking was a hobby that both Bob and Marie shared, and Bob held the honorary title of “Grill Master” and “Chief Panini Maker.” Their culinary skills and hospitality at gatherings were genuinely appreciated by their friends and family. Bob possessed a businesslike mindset and loved to be the “project manager” of many home remodeling and building projects in their two homes. He was often teased that even though he could not swim, they owned homes by the lake and the ocean. He loved to refinish furniture and do woodwork and showered his family with unique handmade gifts that he either repurposed or built from scratch. There will always be cherished memories of family dinners, attending car shows, Cruise Night in Asbury Park with his wife Marie and his brother Martin.

Bob was given a second chance at life when he received a heart transplant 10 years ago at Newark Beth Israel Hospital which was something for which he was truly grateful. Bob liked to quote “Everything will be alright in the end, so if it’s not alright, it’s not the end.”

Bob is survived by his loving wife of 43 years, Marie Capozzi; his two daughters from a previous marriage, Elizabeth Morris and her husband, Pete, from PA and Alison Halko and her husband, Roman, from CA; his six grandchildren: Abigail Morris, Melanie Halko, Kristen Halko, Jacob Morris, Jayden Halko, and Jacob Halko; his brother, Martin Capozzi, from NJ and his loyal dog, Lulu.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bob’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Newark Beth Israel Medical Center

201 Lyons Avenue

Newark, NJ 07112

If you prefer to send a gift via U.S. Mail, please click here to download a mailable form.

Please designate that your gift go toward “Heart Transplant” and that it is in honor of Robert Capozzi

Bridget Patricia McGonigle, known affectionately as "Pat," passed away peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, September 16, 2023.  She was 93 years old, although she would much prefer to be described as 93 years -- or even 39 years! -- young.  

Pat's rich and vibrant life straddled two continents.  She was both a Derry girl and a Jersey girl, with a touch of Manhattan thrown in the mix.  

Pat was born in Ballerin, County Derry, Northern Ireland, on March 31st, 1930.   She was raised on a dairy farm in nearby Garvagh.  The daughter of Ellen and John McGonigle, Pat was the second youngest of eight children.  She is survived by her sister, Sally, and pre-deceased by her brothers and sisters Rose, Mary, Paddy, Annie, Jimmy and John.  

Pat's extended family made lives in Ireland, England and America, but the heart-home was always Derry where Pat returned several times over the course of her days.  

She started her working life in Stormont, Northern Ireland, one of the few young Catholic women allowed to work in the government buildings.  She enjoyed her years in the North immensely, but was drawn by the siren song of America.  She emigrated in her 20's to join her sisters Rose and Mary who had already established lives Stateside.  She worked in the ArchDiocese of New York for many years before she went to work for the prestigious architectural firm Swanke, Hayden and Connell.  She lived in New York City very happily until her retirement.  

Pat was always beautifully turned out with impeccable make-up and an incredible fashion sense right up until her last days.  She loved life and had many friends who stood by her, especially the extended McNicholl/Ralph family in New Jersey and New York.  Mary Ralph (nee McNicholl) in particular became a lifetime friend.  They travelled together and shared memories of growing up in Derry.  Pat was also very close with Mary's children, Deirdre, Colleen and Colm, and their families too.  

Pat was a vibrant soul in the environs of Sienna Village in Wayne, always good for a long and animated conversation.  She had several good friends who will miss her presence.  Hers was a beautiful laugh that lit up many corners of the world.    

She had no children but had a very active social life.  She was always at the center of the party.  In the words of her niece, Siobhan McCann:  "Pat had a great affinity for the male of the species, but never married."

All of her nephews and nieces and their extended families had a fond and loving relationship with her, with many of them from Ireland and England flying out to see her when they could. She was also very proud of her relationship with her great-niece Cheryl Downing and her husband Dan, and their family.  Cheryl and Dan spent many hours with her during her recent illness.  Pat cherished her time with them and shared many fine memories with them.

She also liked to be regaled with songs and stories, and her nephew Colum spent some time in her last years teaching her the words of old songs, not least her favourite "Mountains of Mourne," as sung by Don McLean.  

Pat was a  lady who would never advertise her age.  She looked as if she had prepped herself in the fountain of youth.  She had always wanted to be thought of as the youngest family member even though she had a brother John who was two years behind her.  Pat believed that she deserved to be spoiled in the best possible way.  She loved to dine out and have a little gin and tonic which only added to her vibrant personality.

She will be sorely missed.  An old Irish phrase still rings around her memory:  "I líonta Dé go gcastar sinn," meaning that in the nets of Our Lord we are entangled together.  

May she rest in peace.  And may her influence enter the air.  

In lieu of flowers, the family asks donations be made in Bridget's name to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

Eileen Patricia Albanese, age 64 of Wayne, passed away on Saturday, September 16, 2023, surrounded by her loving family. 

She was born in The Bronx, NY to Neil and Mary O’Sullivan before moving to Ridgefield, New Jersey at a young age. Eileen would go on to graduate from Ridgefield Memorial High School where she competed on the softball team and was a statistician for the high school basketball team. After her graduation, Eileen continued her education at Fairleigh Dickinson University where she received a bachelor’s degree in accounting, graduating with the class of 1983. 

Eileen met the love of her life, Joseph Albanese, Jr. during her time at Ridgefield Memorial High School. Being two years apart, the two didn’t decide to date until one of their mutual teachers, Mr. Bastick, recognized their compatibility and suggested the two go on a date together. Both athletes, Eileen and Joseph decided to go to the Ridgefield vs. Harrison basketball game together. Although they went to the game with one another, they did not leave together. Unfortunately, a benches clearing brawl erupted that led to all the attendees being escorted out of the building. Eileen’s job as the statistician delayed her exit, but when she got out, she found that Joseph was nowhere to be found! Fortunately, Eileen’s dad Neil was there to take her home, but she made sure to never let Joe live that down over the years! Eileen and Joseph fell in love and Joseph asked her father for his permission to marry her. He proposed on Christmas Eve Mass at Saint Matthews Church in Ridgefield, the same place they eventually married at on June 9, 1979. Eileen and Joseph decided to honeymoon in Jamaica only to return after a single day. Eileen ended up suffering such a bad sunburn that the local doctors recommended she return home. While being rolled off the plane in a wheelchair, a young nephew there to greet the couple asked Joe, “What did you do to her?!” The two shared a loving, best friends’ marriage for 39 years before Joe’s untimely passing in 2018.

Eileen will be remembered as a hardworking, loving, funny, and especially witty individual who balanced out Joe’s laid-back persona perfectly. She loved spending her time reading, baking goods – especially scones, hosting family holidays, and of course cheering on the Mets. Her friends will remember her for her brilliance and her uncanny ability to help take care of everyone around her. She was a selfless woman who was deeply involved in her community. 

Eileen’s professional career started at Mercedes Benz where she worked as an accountant for many years. After the birth of her first child, Eileen spent her time taking care of her family and becoming involved in every activity they took part in. This meant becoming involved in organizations throughout Wayne such as the President of the Pines Lake PTO, working at the school store, the baseball booster club, and one of her most proud accomplishments - her tenure as the President of the Board of Education of the Wayne School System for 9 years. Eileen had a passion for fairness, equality, and education that lasted long after her three children graduated from the Wayne school system. She saw the value in a quality education and wanted to constantly give back to her community. In addition to being involved with her children’s education, Eileen made sure her family had a close relationship with God. Eileen was a parishioner of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary for many years attending weekly Mass with her family. She was involved in CCD and acted as a Confirmation instructor for many families in addition to her own. After Joe’s passing, Eileen decided to go back to work as an office administrator for Prestige Wealth out of Franklin Lakes. She fit more life into only 64 years than most could in 100. 

Eileen is survived by her three children: Daniel and his wife Rebecca Albanese, Steven Albanese of Little Falls, and Caitlin Albanese of Philadelphia; her two sisters: Colleen O’Sullivan and Maureen O’Sullivan and her fiancé Robert Casella. She is predeceased by her loving husband of 39 years Joseph Albanese; her parents Neil O’Sullivan and Mary O’Sullivan; and their family Shih Tzu Sophie. 

The family has decided to establish a scholarship to reward academic excellence and community service in Eileen's name, to continue giving back to the students and community Eileen gave so much to in life. In lieu of flowers, donations by check to the Wayne Board of Education (50 Nellis Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470), indicating the Eileen P. Albanese Educational Excellence and Service Award in the memo, would be appreciated.

Adam John Shakoor passed away at the far too young age of 40, in his family home in Totowa on Monday, September 11, surrounded by the love of his family, cherished friends, and his devoted girlfriend.

Adam was born and raised by his loving parents, Mary Ellen and Jack Shakoor in Wayne, New Jersey. He was a graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Lynn University, where he received a Bachelor of Science degree in Communications.

His passion and ability to give nothing short of one hundred and ten percent in everything he did was evident through his work at Jack’s Super Foodtown in Caldwell, of which he had been an essential part since 2006, eventually rising to the role of the store's general manager. He was beloved by customers and coworkers alike who held him in high regard for his warm greetings, helpful nature, and his handsome, infectious smile that brightened everyone's day.

Nothing was more important to Adam than family. He was an exceptional son, brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, brother-in-law, and grandson. With his sisters, Jill and Holly, he shared countless joyful moments, and they created a beloved tradition known as "Siblings Unite,” where they would sip wine from a can while listening to music from an iphone, talk smack and watch Arrested Development in locations spanning the globe - from New Jersey to Los Angeles to Cabo del Sur.

Friendship was of paramount importance to Adam, and he and his beloved girlfriend, Rosemarie, could often be found raising an Orange Jameson to a good time at a local bar, concert or the track. From his long-time childhood friends to college buddies, coworkers, and the various companions he made throughout his journey, Adam's dedication to his friends was unwavering. Adam was known for always being down for a good time, and was someone you could undeniably count on, there for you whenever needed.

An avid fan of the NY Knicks and a WWE wrestlemaniac, Adam was also a lover of all things Marvel and DC, and an OG Nintendo gamer - he put the FAN in “FANdom.” Adam always made sure to show up for the things he loved. If he wasn’t training at the gym, running marathons or hanging out at a Yappy Hour with his beloved shelties, Zelda and Carmelo, Adam could be found on most weekends attending a concert, embracing his love for live music and supporting his favorite bands.

In this difficult time, Adam is survived by his mother, Mary Ellen Shakoor, father, Jack  Shakoor, two loving sisters, Holly and Jill, brothers-in-law, Ruben and Stephen, his nieces Goldie and Jack, cousins Jeffrey and Aimee, his beloved girlfriend, Rosemarie, her two precious daughters, Haley and Bella, and lastly, his ride or die Sheltie, Zelda.

In Adam's honor, let us remember to embrace life with the same passion, dedication, and love that he so brilliantly exemplified. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered.

Kevin Joseph Naudts, age 73, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, September 11, 2023 surrounded by his loving family. Kevin was born in Paterson, New Jersey to Alfred and Elizabeth (nee McCabe) Naudts.

He attended Saint Mary’s High School in Paterson, New Jersey and graduated in 1967. He continued his education at Ramapo College of New Jersey in Mahwah and graduated in 1987 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business. 

Kevin started his career in the retail industry. Upon the completion of his B.S. Degree, his chosen profession was Internet Technology, where he remained for 27 years. The majority of his time was with Bank of America Securities in New York City. After retirement in 2014, he enjoyed working as a School Crossing Guard and for Security at Pines Lake, where he was a resident for over 35 years. 

Kevin was an avid fisherman and enjoyed spending his days in his kayak. He was happy to share his passions and did so by frequently writing articles for “On the Water” and “The Fisherman” magazines. He loved the outdoors and being surrounded by nature. He had an easy-going personality and was a friend to everyone he met. His greatest accomplishment was being “Papa” to his three grandchildren, Jonathan, McKayla, and Cassidy. 

Kevin met the love of his life, Carolyn, in 1972 through mutual friends.  They were married at Saint Anne’s Church in Fair Lawn, New Jersey on April 16, 1977. They shared a beautiful life together for 51 years and were blessed with two beautiful daughters. 

Kevin is survived by his wife Carolyn (nee Rudolph) Naudts; his brother John Naudts and wife Joan; his daughter Kaitlin (nee Naudts) Dobiesz and husband Michael; his daughter Megan (nee Naudts) Bruno and husband Joseph; grandchildren Jonathan, McKayla, and Cassidy Dobiesz, as well as many other cherished family members and friends who will greatly miss him. Kevin was predeceased by his parents Alfred and Elizabeth Naudts, his sister Colleen Pina, and his brother Sonny Naudts.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be made to the Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research.

William R. Mirko, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Sunday, September 10, 2023 at the age of 79.

William fondly known as “Bill” or “Gapa” was born on April 9, 1944 in Newark, NJ son of the late William and Helen Mirkowski. Bill attended High School in Queens NY. At the age of 18, he followed in his father’s footsteps and enlisted in the U.S. Army, where he served as a Security Agent.

Bill married the love of his life, Mary Ann Sudovar in 1980. They lived in Packanack Lake for over 40 years where they raised their 5 children. They were active parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church for many years where they spent numerous hours volunteering. They also were a big part of the Immaculate Heart of Mary School community, where all of their children attended. 

After his time in the military, he spent most of his career working as a Tele Communications Executive at the Singer/Kearfott Company. Following a short period of retirement, he took a part-time job at the Oak Ridge U.S. Post Office where he was able to relax and enjoy a slower pace of life. Bill was extremely kind, friendly, and social; there wasn't anyone in town that didn't know him and love him.

Bill was a loving husband, father, uncle, grandfather and friend to all he met. He was happiest when he was with his family. He loved nothing more than spending time with his 12 grandchildren who were his pride and joy. He also had a deep love for all things Myrtle Beach, SC.  He took great pleasure in the annual tradition of vacationing there with the entire family every summer. The family tradition continues to this day, 40 years later.  

He is survived by his loving wife Mary Ann, and children Marianne and husband Charlie Lazzio of Wayne, NJ; Roy Mirko and wife Dawn of Wayne NJ;  Kathleen and husband Bryan Fox of Stamford, CT; and Ed Mirko and wife Carolina of Oakland, NJ; 12 grandchildren; Brianna, Mateo, William, Kaitlyn, Ashley, Mattingly, Carlee, Michael, Peyton, Miles, Emma and Manning. As well as many other cherished family members and friends who will greatly miss him. He was predeceased by his son Michael who passed away in 1996. 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the Alzheimer's New Jersey would be greatly appreciated. 

Clementine “Tina” Walsh peacefully left us in the morning on 10 September, 2023.  Tina was born to Joseph Kuss and Jennie Kuss (nee Szczech) of Passaic, New Jersey and has been a resident of Wayne since 1976.  Her parents chose her name after seeing the movie My Darling Clementine.  Growing up in Clifton, she often spent time with family at her grandparents’ dairy farm in Belle Mead.  After high school, she attended Seton Hall University; where she graduated with a degree in history.

After graduating, she became an English teacher and thrived with being able to help others master the language.  When her time teaching came to an end, she began a career in the customer service field; working for Duro-Test Lighting (Fairfield, NJ) and GAF in Wayne.  If anyone had a question on lighting or roofing… she knew the answer.  After retiring in 2011, she experienced a quiet life; where she enjoyed the animals that would come to the house and feeding the deer that would wait by the door.

Surviving Tina are her husband of forty-nine years (Ed Walsh), her sons (Edward Kuss-Walsh and Ian Walsh), grandchildren (Liam, Keira, and Victoria), her God children (Melissa Purdie and John Wilczek), her niece (Eileen Kosch) and nephew (Richard Swift), and many beloved cousins… She will be greatly missed by family, friends, and neighbors who will all remember her for her caring and kindness. 

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad.

Robert A. Flower

September 4, 1940 – September 9, 2023

Robert (Bob) Allen Flower, 83, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Saturday, September 9, 2023.

Bob was born on September 4, 1940 in Upland, California, son of the late Clifford A. and Grace C. Flower.  Bob attended Emmaus High School in Emmaus, Pennsylvania and received his Bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University in 1963, where he played Football and Lacrosse.  Bob was a proud member of the Rutgers 1961 undefeated Football team and as a member of that team, has been inducted in to the Rutgers Football Hall of Fame.  He went on to receive his Master’s degree from East Stroudsburg University in 1971.  

Bob married Esther Elizabeth Goyne on February 19, 1966 in Conyngham, Pennsylvania.  In 1967, Bob and Esther moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey, where they have lived for 56 years and raised three sons.  Bob started teaching Physical Education and Health in the Wayne Township Public Schools in 1963.  Bob was a well-loved coach of Football, Baseball, Basketball and Track and Field at Wayne Hills.  Towards the end of his career, Bob served as the Department Chair of Physical Education, and at one point, was tapped to be the Interim Athletic Director.  After 40 years of teaching the children of Wayne, Bob retired in 2003.  

Always involved in his sons’ activities, Bob served as the President of the Wayne Valley Football Booster Club for many years.  For 30 summers, Bob served as the pool manager at the Glen Ridge Country Club.

Bob is survived by his devoted wife of 57 years, Esther Flower; three beloved sons – Michael Allen Flower and wife, Laura Flower of Wayne, New Jersey; Douglas Goyne Flower and wife, Larissa Flower of Wayne, New Jersey; James MacGregor Flower and wife, Joyce Flower of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina; seven grandchildren; Drake Flower, Caden Flower, Bryce Flower, Sophia Flower, Canyon Flower, Piper Flower and Asher Flower; his sister, Ellen Yerkes and brother in law Hal Yerkes; and two nieces and a nephew.

Bob was a loving husband, father, brother, uncle, and grandfather.  Nothing made Bob happier than being with family and attending untold numbers of school performances, plays, musical concerts and every sporting event imaginable of his children and grandchildren.   Bob loved sharing his home on Lake Wallenpaupack, PA with friends and family.  Many memories were made there – boating, fishing, and playing card games.  Bob was a friend to all and the family finds comfort in the many, many colleagues and students who share how much they loved working with Bob and having Mr. Flower as their teacher.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to be made to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, P.O. Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 or the Wayne Council of PTO’s Memorial Scholarship Fund, 50 Nellis Drive, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Rita F. Carey, age 72, of Fallston, Maryland and a former longtime resident of Lions Head Lake in Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, September 7, 2023.

Rita was born in New York City, the daughter of Anthony and Bessie (Salemi) Chianese. When she was just three years old, she moved west, across the Hudson River, to Oakland New Jersey, and later to Pompton Lakes before settling in Wayne, NJ at 39 Grantwood Road. 

Rita was a graduate of Wayne Hills High School’s Class of 1969. Her graduating class held the distinction of being the first class to go through all four years in the newly constructed high school building. After graduating, Rita launched full time into a career as a bodily injury claims representative for State Farm Insurance Company. She began work there when she was still in high school and by the time she retired in 2013, Rita clocked in 45 years. With her hard work ethic and empathetic and encouraging disposition, Rita was able to effectively help her clients through very challenging situations.  

Rita met her husband-to-be, William Carey on a blind date. Bill suggested that they go bowling. Bill didn’t know that Rita was an accomplished bowler and, not wanting to embarrass him, Rita kept it a secret by letting Bill defeat her. After bowling, Rita and Bill went back to her house where Bill got to meet Rita’s parents. When her dad asked them where they’d been, Bill explained that they had gone bowling. He respectfully added a comment about defeating Rita and something to the effect of her not being a good bowler. A little surprised at first, Rita’s father quickly realized that his daughter threw the game and he proceeded to break the bad news to Bill that he had been played. Bill never did bowl with Rita again but he did eventually ask her to marry him. They exchanged wedding vows on April 9, 1972 at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. They purchased their home at 29 Brookdale Road in the Lions Head Lake section of Wayne and Rita remained there for 49 years until moving to Fallston, Maryland to be closer to her daughter and grandchildren. Sadly, Bill passed away unexpectedly on January 31, 1995.

Rita loved competing in sports, especially softball and bowling. She played softball in town recreation leagues and for many years for State Farm Insurance’s team. She primarily played third base and pitched and, during softball season, it wasn’t unusual for her to have games at least three nights a week. When she wasn’t playing softball, Rita was bowling. She was a regular at T-Bowl in Wayne, Butler Bowl, and Astro Bowl in Clifton. Her 190 average earned Rita the right to compete in the tri-state Women’s All-Star Association (WASA) League and the Garden State Games.

Above all else, nothing was as important to Rita as her family. During her formative years and to the present, she lived for her daughter Robyn by pouring herself into raising, loving, and nurturing her as her mother and as a single mom from when Robyn was just thirteen years old. Rita was her greatest cheerleader at all of Robyn’s bowling, softball, and field hockey competitions. When life necessitated a move to Maryland for Robyn and her family, Rita moved also so that she could be near Robyn, husband Adam, and her two grandsons, Munson and Mason. This past December, Robyn and Adam welcome sweet Savannah to their family. Rita referred to Savannah as her little sunshine.. 

Rita simply loved people. She was a tremendously kind, gentle, empathetic, positive  and resilient person who always had a kind word for anyone she encountered. She would give you the shirt off of her back or give you whatever you stood in need of. These qualities helped her to be a loving wife, mother, grandmother, friend, employee and coworker. She affected peoples lives in ways that her family never realized.   

Rita was the beloved wife of William Carey, blessed in marriage for 23 years until his sudden passing in 1995. She was the very loving mother of Robyn Westover and husband Adam of Fallston, Maryland, and adored grandmother of Munson, Mason, and Savannah. 

In lieu of flowers, because Rita adored her grandchildren and loved to watch Munson and Mason compete in their local sports programs, those wishing to give a memorial contribution are asked to consider:

Fallston Recreation Council, Inc.

1707 Fallston Road

Fallston, MD  21047-1410

Dolores Yodlowsky (nee Tamburr) died peacefully on September 6, 2023 at the age of 91.

She grew up in Newark, New Jersey, and when Dolores was in the second grade, she decided she didn’t like her name, so she chose to be called Debbie. Her baby brother at the time, Al, had difficulty pronouncing “Debbie” and instead he called her “Dukie.” The name stuck and she’s been affectionately called “Dukie” for the past 80-some years.

Dukie was a very bright girl, self-educated to a large degree, athletic and artistic, often dancing and singing. She was a prolific prayer with a strong faith in God, and she was honest to a fault. She always loved to visit Manhattan and had seen just about every Broadway show that existed. She passed this appreciation of culture and the theatre on to her children as well. As a mother, she set clear parameters for her children, not the least of which included ‘enjoy a cookie, but don’t eat a second one.’

Dukie met her husband Raymond and quickly decided she was “going to marry that hunk.” They were married on May 13, 1957 and enjoyed a reception at the Fiesta in Woodridge. She declared “I’ll be OK as long as I have my little angel with me.” Their love endured for over sixty years before Raymond died in May of 2017, and she has missed him dearly every day since.

Dukie is survived by her three children; Raymond Yodlowsky of Highland Park, Denise DeZao (Mark) of Ramsey, and Dana Yodlowsky (Leslie) of Westwood, and three grandchildren; Danielle, Julian and Layla. She was predeceased by her younger brother, Al Tamburr.

Surrounded by his loving wife Ruth and family, William B. Parisen (Bill), 94, of Wayne, New Jersey passed into the open arms of our Good Lord on September 6, 2023. Bill spent his life fully dedicated to being a husband, father and friend to many.

William was born on January 29, 1929 in Paterson, NJ to John and Clara Parisen. He thrived as a young boy in Wayne chasing squirrels, playing the violin and excelling at being the mischievous and protective big brother to his sisters Jean and MaryLou. His sense of humor and jokester ways always kept everyone that had the pleasure of knowing him entertained.

William began his professional career as a young, eager Civil Engineer learning the industry and playing silly pranks on his co-workers.

Bill met the love of his life, Ruth, and married in 1953. Ruth was quite surprised when he asked her one day if she’d like to buy a restaurant on Nassau Street in lower Manhattan. For 20+ years Bill served the working class of New York City from behind the deli counter at Bill’s Place, The Hero of Nassau Street. Choosing to get back into the office, he served as a Project Engineer for Orange and Rockland Utilities for 25 years retiring as manager of the Civil Engineering Department.

As if there wasn’t enough with work and raising 7 children Bill and a few close friends turned WestBrook Park, their quaint local swim and picnic area in West Milford into WestBrook Park KOA Campground. Weekends were spent in the beautiful surroundings of the park caring for the property, campers, staff and all that made the campground special.

Bill was also proud to be the founder and owner of Parisen Associates, a home inspection company in the tri-state area. His sons, Robert and David Parisen and grandson Ian Parisen will carry on the company’s success for years to come.

William and his wife Ruth are recognized as founding members of Our Lady of Consolation Church, Wayne. They have been active parishioners for over 60 years.

Bill was an avid gardener and took pride in the surroundings of his home, yard and vegetable garden in Wayne. He thoroughly enjoyed ice cream, Diet Pepsi and the Yankees.

Bill and Ruth shared their home on Long Beach Island for many years with family and friends. Bill enjoyed a relaxing swim in the ocean while waving off the "pesky" lifeguards as he was always the furthest swimmer beyond the breaking waves.

William is survived by his devoted wife Ruth having shared 71 memory filled years of marriage, his 7 children, Nancy and son-in-law Jay Jarossy, John Parisen, Loren and son-in law Pat Ascione, Robert and daughter-in-law Susan Parisen, Jill and son-in-law Robert Mertrud, David and daughter-in-law Brigitte Parisen and Kim Thomas. Bill’s 17 grandchildren will miss him dearly: Michael and Sara Jarossy, Emily, Ethan and Eric Parisen, Neil Ascione and Allison Romeo, Jessica Parisen, Jenna Pinchook and Jared Parisen, Scott, Sam and Emma Schultz, Ian and Victoria Parisen and Chris and Amanda Thomas. He leaves his 9 great grandchildren, Mason, Tenley and Sienna Romeo, Evelyn and Natalie Ascione, Lucas Parisen, Theodore, Calvin and Thomas Schultz.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Bill’s name are asked to consider:

St.Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Marion Veronica Monzo, age 90 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, September 4, 2023, with her loving husband by her side.

Born in Evanston, Illinois to Michael and Veronica Bredger, her family moved to New Jersey where she attended and graduated from Hasbrouck Heights High School.

Marion began her professional career at Grand Union Food Store – a big grocery store chain at the time. She worked as a secretary for them while a young man named Bill Monzo worked part-time in the mail room. Their paths crossed one day, and Bill found himself starstruck by her beauty. In an effort to catch Marion’s attention, Bill convinced Marion that he was actually quite wealthy (whether she believed a younger man working in the mail room that he was rich is another story) but she agreed to join Bill for a date. The two quickly fell in love with one another. Bill was drafted into the Korean war which kept them apart for a time, but the two never lost touch and eventually Bill proposed to Marion.

They got married in 1954 and enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage to one another that lasted for 69 years. Bill and Marion honeymooned in the beautiful Bar Harbor, Maine – a favorite destination that they revisited many times during their lives together. 

In 1955, Marion and Bill welcomed their son Christopher Monzo into the world. Marion was an understanding, compassionate, loving, and caring mother. Their family expanded with the adoption of several cats and a loving Samoyed dog with a snow-white coat that they named Frosty. 

In addition to her responsibilities as a mother, Marion also worked for Bell Telephones as a telephone operator for 32 years! She and Bill both worked hard in their respective fields to eventually purchase a second residence at a golf community in the beautiful west coast of Florida. Although Marion wasn’t into golf, she did enjoy knitting so she would use the time away from Bill to refine her craft. She donated many of her knitted garments to Our Lady of Consolation Church to help those in need. They enjoyed that home for 10 years before retiring full-time to Wayne, New Jersey. 

Marion is survived by her husband William “Bill” Monzo; her grandson Dr. Christopher Monzo and his wife Laura Monzo; and her great-grandkids Logan Monzo and Diana Monzo. She is predeceased by her son Christopher Monzo. 

Wilma Kuiphof Philips age 90 of Pompton Plains died at home on September 3, 2023.

Wilma was born on August 16, 1933 in Paterson, New Jersey, the daughter of Ida Caroline Heusser and William Kuiphoff.  She spent her formative years in Paterson during the Great Depression.  While her family struggled at times during the decade, Wilma’s parents insisted that she be well educated.  Although resources were scarce, her parents enrolled her at the then Eastern Academy in Prospect Park, New Jersey for her high school education.  After graduating from Eastern Academy in 1951, she continued her education in the registered nurse program at Paterson General Hospital, receiving her RN certification in 1954.  Wilma worked as an operating room nurse throughout the remainder of the 1950’s at Paterson General Hospital in Paterson, New Jersey. While living with her parents in Haledon, New Jersey, she traveled extensively during vacation time. Her ultimate voyage took place in 1956 when along with her nurse friends she drove to California and back in a 1955 Pontiac. 

In 1958 Wilma met John Philips on a vacation to the Pocono Mountains. Despite proclaiming she would never marry, they did so on April 23, 1960 and had a wonderful marriage together for forty-nine years.

She and John lived on Orchard Place in Maywood, New Jersey from 1960 to 1965. As was the custom of that time, she gave up her career as a nurse and soon gave birth to her two children:  John William in 1961 and Judy in 1962.

In 1965, John was transferred by RCA to their facility in Bridgewater, New Jersey. This meant leaving Wilma’s home environment in Northern New Jersey and moving to then rural Somerset County. Despite a difficult transition to life in the country, she soon embraced this new lifestyle. She attended the South Branch Reformed Church where she was an active member of the Women’s Guild. Wilma also reentered the workforce in 1967 when she took a part time job as a nurse at the Carrier Clinic in Belle Meade, New Jersey. When John and Judy reached their teen years, she embarked on a new career in 1971 as a beloved school nurse at Old York School in Branchburg, New Jersey.  During this time, she completed her bachelor’s degree at the then Trenton State College (now the College of New Jersey). She worked at Old York School until she retired in 1992.

After retirement, Wilma and John moved to Ormond Beach, Florida where she as an active member of the Ormond Beach Presbyterian Church. She was also an active volunteer at the Ormond Beach Memorial Hospital, serving a term as the president of the auxiliary before she and John moved to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in December 2007. At Cedar Crest, she was an active member of the Protestant Community, specializing in tolling the bells at memorial services. While there, she was frequently visited by her children, grandchildren, and in-laws.

Wilma was predeceased by her husband John in 2010 and her parents. Surviving are her son John Philips and his wife Sarah (Cockcroft) of Branchburg, and her daughter Judy Philips and her husband Paul Scott of Brooklyn, New York; two cherished grandchildren William and Peter Philips; her brother-in-law Peter Filipczak and his significant other Delores Shanklin Kronemer of Fair Lawn; her niece Pat Colville of Middletown, New York and nephew Pete Filipczak of Campbell Hall, New York.

Wilma will be remembered as a person who stood by her values, demanded the best from those around her, and who provided her children with the best education possible.  While she frequently disagreed with her children after they received their college and graduate degrees, she steadfastly loved and respected them.  

Carmine Joseph Liguori, 83, of Haskell, NJ, formerly of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Naples, FL, passed away peacefully, in the comfort of his home, and in the presence of his loving family, on Thursday, August 31, 2023. 

Carmine was born and raised in Paterson, New Jersey. He was born in the family's home on Martin Street and grew up on 27th Street, where he lived for nearly forty years. Carmine graduated from Eastside High School, then proudly served in the National Guard. He worked for many years at a pharmacy in Paterson, before becoming a Police Officer for the City of Paterson, while at the same time earning a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice at William Paterson University. Carmine eventually transferred over to the Passaic County Sheriff’s Office in Paterson. Upon his retirement, Carmine served a combined 25 years in law enforcement. 

Carmine is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Roseanne (D’Ambrosio) Liguori of Haskell, his daughter Joanne Presta and her husband Larry of Pompton Lakes, and his son, Alfonso “Al” Liguori and his wife Jeanette of Pompton Lakes. He was “Pop-Pop” to his seven grandchildren, Marc, Lauren and Ryan Presta, and Joseph, Anna, John, and Amy Liguori. Carmine was predeceased by his parents Alfonso Liguori and Nicoletta “Lena” Liguori (nee Violante) and his brother Louis Liguori.  

Carmine loved to play golf and achieved two holes-in-one during his playing days, making him extremely skilled or extremely lucky. He also enjoyed annual fresh-water fishing trips to Canada with friends and was a New York Jets season ticket holder for over thirty years. Carmine also loved to sing and dance, especially to the smooth sounds of Frank Sinatra and other music from the 1950’s. He was always the life of the party, and he made friends with everyone he met.

Carmine’s greatest love was for his family. His grandchildren meant the world to him, and they loved their “Pop-Pop” just as much. Nothing made Carmine more proud and thankful than when the whole family was gathered. He and Roseanne and their children and grandkids had the thrill of taking trips together, including a vacation to Disney World, a cruise to the Bahamas for Carmine and Roseanne’s 50th wedding anniversary, and a vacation down the Jersey shore at Ortley Beach. 

Carmine lived his life according to the principles guided by his Christian faith. He was a faithful parishioner at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton, St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes, and Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. He served for countless years helping to make a difference in the lives of those less fortunate and disadvantaged through his active involvement as a member and former president of the Fidelians Foundation in North Haledon. 

Whether you knew him as Carmine, Joe, Sonny, Hon, Dad, Uncle Joe, or Pop-Pop, he was a kind, generous, honorable, fun and loving gentleman. With a glass of red wine or a martini in his hand, he would always offer a Salute’ to the friends and family who surrounded him. We now offer a Salute’ to him, thanking him for the love, kindness, support, and priceless memories he has given to us all. SALUTE’!!! See you on the rebound…

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carmine’s name are asked to consider: 

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital 

Memorial Processing 

501 St. Jude Place 

Memphis, TN 38105-9959