It is with great sadness that we share that Dorothy "Dee" Lender (nee Haas) passed away peacefully, surrounded by her loving family on February 25, 2023 at the age of 94 years.

Dorothy was born to George and Anna Haas in Newark in 1928. She graduated from Southside High School. Upon high school graduation, she was employed by PSE&G in Newark.

While working at PSE&G as a bill comparer, Dorothy met the love of her life, Raymond Lender, who worked part time delivering the books that she tabulated. They married on March 26, 1949. After they married they had two children, Monica and Raymond, Jr. The family moved to Edison, NJ and Des Plaines, IL before finally settling in Packanack Lake in 1965.

While living in Packanack, Dorothy loved being a mother and a homemaker. She was active in the Packanack Golf Club and bowling league for many years. She was known for her daily morning walks around the lake with her sister. Dorothy could be found on the Packanack Lake or Bethany Beach, DE beach each summer with a book in her hands and sand between her toes.

Dorothy was known for her giving and supportive nature. She volunteered more than 30,000 hours as a "pink lady" at Chilton Hospital over many years. Dorothy also spent many years helping at the Wayne PTO Browse 'n Shop. Additionally, she was known for her dedication to the altar guild at St. Timothy Lutheran Church. After dedicating years as a supportive mother to her own children, Dorothy remained involved in her grandchildren's lives as well. From band grandparent to the sports cheering section, she was always there. She loved baking, from oatmeal cookies, to pies and Irish soda bread, and added love to all that she baked. Dorothy was known to call up after each small or big life event, checking up on how the day went and sharing how proud she was. She also was an avid letter-writer, letting everyone in her life, whether close or far away, know how much she thought of them.

Dorothy is survived by her husband of 73 years, Raymond Lender. She was predeceased by her parents and sister Wilma Sonnenschein. She is survived by her children, Monica and William Mains and Raymond and Lisa Lender. She will also be fondly remembered by her grandchildren, Elissa and Frank Scillieri, Eric and Christina Mains, Kelly Lender and Ryan LaCanna, and Jeffrey Lender. Dorothy (GiGi) was also blessed with 6 great grandchildren who will miss her dearly: Samantha, Thomas, Jackson, Joseph, Zachary, and Julia.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to…

Parkinson’s Foundation, 200 SE 1st Street, Suite 800, Miami, FL 33131

St. Timothy Lutheran Church, Memorial Fund, 395 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ  07470

Marilyn J Sczepanski of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully Saturday February 25, 2023 with the comfort of her family.

Marilyn was born in Brooklyn, NY, and grew up with her siblings, Francine, twin sister-Maureen, Alan, and Philip in the Bensonhurst section of Brooklyn. She attended PS176, William McKinley JHS and Lafayette HS. As a teen, her summers were spent enjoying music, attending concerts, the cinema, and days at the beach. She is remembered as being a determined, strong willed, carefree spirit who did exactly what she wanted to do. She liked to have fun and enjoyed playing an occasional prank or two. She was also incredibly competitive and loved sports in particular, playing softball, bowling, and tennis.

Marilyn landed her first job as a Purchasing Manager working for an export shipping company in the World Trade Center in NYC. She had many stories about boarding ships in the New York harbor. After moving to New Jersey in the 80s, she worked for Bel-Art Products in Pequannock.

Marilyn met John in her early twenties, and shortly afterwards they were married on July 15, 1978 at St. Margaret’s Church in Middle Village, Queens NY.  To celebrate, a memorable, beautiful honeymoon trip to Bermuda followed. A few years after Marilyn had their first child, Christine, she decided to dedicate her life to being a loving, wonderful stay at home wife and mother. Marilyn excelled at motherhood and was the foundation of her family, through and through. Whether it was supporting Christine through obtaining her Master’s Degree in teaching, or reading books with her granddaughter Sofia, she lived for her family.

Marilyn also cherished the many family dogs she owned over her lifetime. She had a special bond with both Daisy, her Silky Terrier, & Henry, her Maltese. As an avid fan of the New York Mets and Giants, she attended many games over the years. She also enjoyed gardening, cooking, and going to estate sales where she had an eye for many rare collectables.  She loved to go to Bingo on Saturday evenings at the Wayne PAL with family & friends and was always up for the occasional trip to Atlantic City.

Marilyn was a loving and caring wife, mother, and grandmother. No amount of time with Marilyn would have been enough for her family and friends, though she gave us enough laughter, wisdom, and memories to last several lifetimes.

Mary A. Gelb, age 84 of Wayne, died peacefully on Friday, February 24, 2023. She's lived in Packanack Lake since 1974.

Mary grew up in St. Louis, Missouri and moved to the “fast-paced” northeast when she married Ed in 1962. After a career as an administrative assistant, she chose to focus her attention on raising her three daughters and creating a loving home where her children could thrive. Later in life, she traveled the world with her husband Edward and enjoyed her grandchildren. Mary was a devout Catholic, a humble person who loved to read and always enjoyed a good chat. She had a big, infectious smile, and was always eager to share it. She loved holidays and took joy in decorating for each and every one. Never missing a birthday, she always had a little something extra to give you, even when she hadn’t picked your name in the “Secret Santa” gift exchange. Mary will be missed by all. May she rest in peace with the Lord.

Mary is survived by her devoted husband of sixty-one years; Edward, and by their three daughters and grandchildren; Elizabeth Gelb-O'Connor and her husband Leo of Bernardsville, Mary Miceli and her husband Fred of Hillsborough and their children Christopher and Lilliana, and Carol Munir and husband Karim of Basking Ridge and their children Taylor and Kayla.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Angelo Locantore, age 81, of Wayne, NJ. 

Angelo passed away peacefully on Friday February 24, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Angelo was born and raised in Montescaglioso, Italy and was one of three children to Domenico and Vincenza Locantore.  Like many families in Europe, raising a family and growing up in the aftermath of World War II was a struggle.  As a young boy, and as many other children did, Angelo put his education on hold and went to work to help his family.  He worked in Montescaglioso as a carpenter in the construction industry.  He later moved to Germany and found employment in construction and contributed to “The Reconstruction of Europe.”  He also worked in the automotive industry while residing in Germany for several years. 

In 1970, Angelo moved to the United States of America in search of a better life and the American Dream.  Upon arriving in the US, he settled in Paterson, NJ.  Because of Angelo’s outstanding work ethic, it was no surprise that he found employment quickly with a local construction company.  He later accepted a position with his cousin at Locantore Building, located in Wayne, NJ.  Angelo worked along side his cousin for many years until his retirement about five years ago.  However, retirement was not something that was in the cards for Angelo.  Angelo took on many side jobs of carpentry and other construction projects following his retirement right up until his passing. 

Shortly after arriving in the United States, Angelo was introduced to a lovely attractive lady named Livia.  Angelo and Livia’s families were friends and were cordially introduced.  Angelo and Livia hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have, they fell in love and were married in 1971.  After getting married, the couple settled in Paterson, NJ for a short time then moved to Wayne where they cherished the next thirty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Angelo was a truly devoted husband and cared for his wife Livia until her passing in 2009. 

Angelo was member of the Italian American Club in Totowa, NJ for many years.  He was also a member of the Padre Pio Foundation of America. He was truly devoted to his Faith and gave regularly to charities such as Make A Wish Foundation, and Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital. 

Angelo brought some of his favorite past times from the “Old Country” here to the United States.  Gardening and making his own wine were what filled most of his spare time.  He took great pride and pleasure growing vegetables, every year and caring and nurturing his lemon tree and Fig Tree.  He also loved to watch all types of sports, whether it was football, soccer, basketball, etc., he was always captivated by professional sports.
Angelo and Livia treasured traveling as well, they enjoyed taking cruises and frequenting the islands in the Caribbean.  They also enjoyed traveling back to their homeland of Italy to spend time with family.  Everyone that knew Angelo knew that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to him that spending time with those he loved.

Angelo was a private man, and although being private he was delightfully talkative and enjoyed socializing with others.  He had a wonderful, and some say odd, sense of humor and could bring smiles to everyone around him.  He was always said to do things not his way or anyone else’s way, but “the right way.”  He was also truly and deeply proud of his Italian heritage.

Angelo was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around him.  He will be forever remembered as a dedicated husband and having and outstanding work ethic.  Angelo will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.    

He was predeceased by his wife Livia Locantore in 2009.  Angelo is survived by his two sisters; Filomena Gallipoli of Montescaglioso, Italy, and Elisabetta Minelli and her husband Matteo of Torino, Italy, three cousins; Angelo Locantore of Wayne, NJ, Leonard Locantore of Wayne, NJ, and Elisa Sassone of Kinnelon, NJ, and several loved nieces and nephews.  

Jean Kelly O'Brien

7/2/1932 ~ 2/23/2023

With profound sadness we announce the passing of the amazing Jean (Kelly) O’Brien, devoted wife, loving mother, grandmother, and friend to all. She left us to join her family in heaven, predeceased by her devoted husband, Jack O’Brien (2007), her daughters Karen O’Brien-Brady (1997) and Erin O’Brien-DiDia (2015).

An only child, born in Jersey City, New Jersey she was brought into this world by her parents Margaret (Canny) Kelly and  Gene Kelly.  Her father instilled in her a love of horseback riding and a keen sense of Irish skepticism. She proudly attended Saint Aloysius Academy in Jersey City, where she earned her Varsity letter in Equestrian and later in life attended Rutgers University.

Jean married the love of her life Jack O’Brien. Jean lived a full life as a wonderful mother, devoted wife, and homemaker.  Jean started her family in Clifton New Jersey and as they quickly outgrew the tiny cape moved on up to Wayne, New Jersey where she raised her 6 children with gusto. Kimberly place was the perfect place to raise her children along with all the many wonderful families on the block. The kids from the block are still close today and Jean would consider the kids her own. Wayne is where she and her husband worked in “townhall” for many years, meeting the most fantastic group of people while championing the town as the best place to raise a family!

Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne was her earliest social circle and place of worship. One of the first families involved in the beginning of OLV, she was a cheerleading coach, Girl Scout Leader, Carnival volunteer and involved in every aspect of the school which her children attended.

Jean was an avid skier, chaperoning the ski trips in town for many years. Never one to let grass grow under her feet, she took many recreation classes with Belly dancing being her finest! As an avid Jazzercise devotee, she kept in great shape. Jean shuttled her gorgeous children to NYC in the 60’s and 70’s introducing them to a life in the arts as child actors while also traveling as far as her car would let her, never afraid of the road in front of her. In fact, she drove from California to New Jersey with her daughter Lynn, stopping at many monumental sites along the way.  Jean was a pioneer in being an independent woman instilling wanderlust and an indomitable, undefeatable spirit in her children.

Proud of her Irish heritage, she was an active member of the Women of Irish Heritage, Inc. that championed charities and visits to the mother land of Ireland which Jean traveled and even marched in the St. Patrick’s Day parade in Navan a beautiful town in the Northwest of Dublin.

She also loved her winter trips to California which allowed her and Jack to spend precious time with her West Coast children, Mary, Erin and J.R. and grandchildren Nicolette and Dominique. California is where she spent the final years of her life. She survived raising 5 daughters and 1 son, losing two daughters and a husband.

Loving mother to Gail McGeady (Brian Buckley) Wayne, NJ, MaryBeth O’Brien, Encinitas, CA, Lynn Quinn (Terry Quinn) Bloomfield, N.J., and J.R. O’Brien (Tiffany Crain-Weis) Encinitas, CA. Proud grandmother of Mark Robinson (Amanda Nelson-Robinson) Jessica, Jennifer and Charles Brady, Nicolette and Dominique DiDia, Michael and Preston Quinn, and newest arrival great-grandson Jack Robinson.

She will be dearly missed and forever loved by her family that attributes their Irish stubbornness to their beloved matriarch.

Helen May (Tanis) Croucher of Wayne, NJ passed Thursday February 23^rd, 2023, just about one week past her 95^th birthday.

Helen was born in Paterson, NJ on February 14^th, 1928 to Lena Dyk and Andrew Tanis. She started her studies in the Prospect Park school system, and later graduated from Hawthorne High School, class of 1946. After graduation, she attended secretarial school and initially served as the administrative assistant to the music director of the NBC orchestra at Rockefeller Center in New York City.  Later she became the head administrative assistant to the principal of Lincoln School, and then Westmorland Elementary School in the Fairlawn public school system. She worked for Fair Lawn Public Schools for almost 40 years.  Her attention to detail was second to none, which extended into all aspects of her life.

Music was always important to Helen.  She was an accomplished pianist, learning to play at an early age.  She performed at multiple venues throughout her life, which included a recital at Carnegie Hall in New York City when she was in her teens.  She passed on her expertise by giving piano lessons to many youth in the area.  Later she learned to play the organ.  She served as the organist for Columbia Heights Community Church in Fair Lawn for a number of years until she and her family moved to Wayne, NJ in 1963.  Helen was also an accomplished singer.  She was a member of the “Melodiers” a pop vocal ensemble for many years.  In the 1970s, she joined the Stewart Smith Singers, a regional choral group.  Later she became a member of the Ridgewood Choral women’s ensemble.  She and her husband, Warren, were known to have classical music as the soundtrack to their life.

Helen met her husband, Warren March Croucher, at the age of 14 through friends. They married on October 2^nd, 1948 at First Baptist Church in Paterson. They enjoyed over 60 years of loving marriage until Warren’s passing in 2011. Together they raised two sons, Warren Douglas (Doug) Croucher and Drew Eugene Croucher, and later welcomed their daughter-in-laws, Kerrie Croucher and Karen Croucher, respectively, into their family. They adored their three grandchildren, Jeffrey, Jennifer, and Jamie.  Helen was fortunate to welcome five great-grandchildren into the world, Needham, Camille, Isla, Kiera, and most recently, Mia. She is also survived by her cousin, Sadie Meyer, with whom she maintained a close relationship throughout her life.

Innocenza Pugliano was a gift to all who knew her.  She left us on February 22, 2023 at the age of 89, surrounded by her loving family.  

Born on September 5, 1933 in Calabria Italy to her parents Carmela and Vincenzo Buffone, she lived a long, beautiful life rich with family, tradition, love, and joy. She was the oldest of four children, her sisters Maria Zaffina and Grace Matarazzo and her brother Pietro Buffone whom she loved and adored.  In fact Innocenza and her sister Maria were inseparable through her final days, as they lived just 3 doors away from each other and are widely known as “The Sopresata Sisters.”

Innocenza married the handsome and charismatic Giuseppe Pugliano in 1950, and they had their oldest daughter, Carmela (Gaeta), before moving to Thunder Bay, Ontario, Canada in 1954.  It was in Thunder Bay they completed their family with their daughter Nancy (Corrado), and their son Anthony.  The Pugliano family moved to Paterson, NJ in 1961 where they planted strong roots with family and friends who joined them.  

Once Giuseppe and Innocenza left Paterson, they moved to Little Falls where they would live the duration of their lives on the same street as so many of their family members.  This unique living situation set the foundation for countless memories over the course of decades. For quite some time, 4 generations of women of this special family lived together on that one street.

Innocenza raised her family with strong core values and always emphasized the importance of togetherness.  She made sure that all her family friends knew just how much she loved and cared for them.  Innocenza did this through hosting gatherings, cooking her delicious food, creating knitted and crocheted masterpieces, sharing genuine words, and giving the best hugs and kisses.  If you received a homemade sopresata or a jar of her cured olives or tomato sauce, you knew that you were among the most special to her.  This is how she expressed her love–by giving a piece of her heart and soul through her food.  Innocenza knew that it brought people joy, and she lived to spread joy. 

Among the luckiest recipients of her love and meals are her sons-in-law, Gerardo Gaeta and Gerald Corrado, Sr. and her daughter-in-law, Dana Pugliano (nee DeMuth).  She loved each of them as her own.

Innocenza leaves the most permanent mark on her grandchildren.  She had a huge hand in raising all of them, making each one feel as though they were her most favorite.  The truth is, however, she loved them all with no bounds.  She was and will forever remain their “Honeydew.”

Her (soon-to-be) 16 great-grandchildren are her greatest legacy.  What a blessing it has been to make such cherished memories with their Nonna.  

Innocenza also adored her nieces, nephews, grandnieces, grandnephews, and great-grandnieces.  Her love, generosity, and genuine care pervaded her entire large family, both near and far.  It wasn’t unusual for Innocenza to be on the phone with relatives from Italy, Australia, Canada, and more. 

Innocenza will be profoundly missed by the countless people who knew and loved her.  She is someone who wished well for all.  She was always happy to see you.  She made everyone feel special because everyone was special to her.  Everyone loved her because she selflessly gave love in all that she said, did, and cooked.  Her kisses were endless; her smile was like sunshine; her laughter was like music.  The closeness of her family was her top priority, and the legacy she leaves behind will be dedicated to keeping Innocenza’s memory alive through love, laughter, cooking, and togetherness. 
Innocenza is survived by:

Her sister, Maria Zaffina of Little Falls, NJ. 

Her three children:  Carmela Gaeta and her husband Gerardo of Little Falls, NJ; Nancy Corrado and her husband Gerald, Sr. of Franklin Lakes, NJ; Anthony Pugliano and his wife Dana of Oak Ridge, NJ.

Her nine grandchildren: Jenna Lynch (nee Gaeta) and her husband Peter, Sr. of Wayne, NJ; Gerald Corrado, Jr. and his wife Janel of Franklin Lakes, NJ; Elisa Gatto (nee Gaeta) and her husband Richard of Franklin Lakes, NJ; Paul Corrado, Sr.  and his wife Renee of Franklin Lakes, NJ; Anthony Corrado and his wife Christina of Franklin Lakes, NJ; Cristina Schneider (nee Gaeta) and her husband Andrew, Sr. of Wyckoff, NJ; Joseph Pugliano, Daniel Pugliano, and Madeline Pugliano of Oak Ridge, NJ. 

Her soon-to-be 16 great-grandchildren: Peter, Jr. & Andrew Lynch; Delphine & Richard Gatto; Drew, Jr. & Nicholas Schneider; Caroline, Elizabeth, Gerald III, & Thomas Corrado; Paul, Jr., Catherine, AnnaLynne, & James Corrado; Evelyn & Grace Corrado.

Innocenza is predeceased by: her husband, Giuseppe Pugliano (1998); her sister Grace Matarazzo (2000); her brother, Pietro Buffone (1962).

For those wishing to make a donation in Innocenza's memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Theodora “Teddy” Flannery died on February 21, 2023. She was born in Brooklyn, New York, and graduated from St. Brendan’s High School. She received her bachelor of arts degree in sociology from William Paterson University in Wayne.

Teddy worked for the Wayne Board of Education for twenty-seven years and, after retirement, for St. Mary’s Pathways Counseling Center for ten years.

She was predeceased by her husband, John Flannery, in 1994 and leaves four children, John Jay Flannery, Robert (Veronica) Flannery, Carol (John) Cerullo, and Thomas (Ingrid) Flannery; eight grandchildren, Clare Cerullo, David (Michelle) Cerullo, Matthew (Hitomi) Cerullo, Daniel (Elizabeth) Cerullo, Megan (Thor) Stensrud, Thomas Flannery, Christopher Flannery, and Karin Flannery; and two great-grandchildren, Alexander Cerullo and Jacob Cerullo.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Antonia DiTaranto (nee Avena), age 74 of Wayne, NJ.

Antonia passed away peacefully in her home on Tuesday February 21, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Antonia was born and raised in Montescaglioso, Italy and was one of three children to John and Carmela Avena.  She married the love of her life Nunzio DiTaranto, and cherished fifty-three years of loving and loyal marriage.  She was employed as a seamstress and a cook for the Paterson Board of Education for many years until her retirement.  She was a truly devoted wife, mother, and grandmother.  She was not only devoted to her family but also to her Catholic Faith. 

It was clear to everyone that knew Antonia, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Antonia than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren.  Antonia was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her. 

Antonia had a charming personality and could light up any room she walked into.  She had a wonderful way about her and was able to bring smiles to the faces of those she was with.  Antonia will be forever remembered as a loving wife, mother, and grandmother. 

Antonia is survived by her husband Nunzio DiTaranto of Wayne, her son John DiTaranto of Wayne, her three daughters: Angela DiTaranto and her partner Biagio Caravella of Wayne, Carmela DiTaranto of Nutley, and Nancy DiTaranto and her partner Dino Natale of Totowa, NJ, one sister Maria Avena, and two grandchildren; Jovanni and Mia.  She was predeceased by her brother Giuseppe Avena.

Frank Michael Busuttil, 67, of Wayne, passed away Tuesday, February 21, 2023, at home in the loving comfort of his family.

Frank was born to Paul Busuttil and Lina Kedrie (nee Meli) in Dearborn, Michigan. He moved to Queens, New York in 1966 and then to West New York, New Jersey in 1970. Frank graduated from Memorial High School and then attended Wildfred Academy Beauty School in West New York, earning his beautician license in 1975. Frank loved being a hairdresser; he never stopped attending classes to keep up with the latest trends in color and cutting. Frank had a loving and loyal clientele, many who followed his career from salon to salon and city to city. He had many clients, many for decades and then their children and often their grandchildren would become his clients. Frank often joked when a client would call him after hours with a “911 hair emergency”. He would never say no to a “hair house call”. Frank owned his own salon from 1999-2011 in Rutherford. He continued working at salons in Rutherford, most recently at Salon Valerie, until December 2022 when his illness made it impossible to continue working.

Frank’s other passion was deep-sea fishing. From his earliest days, Frank yearned to fish. His mother told stories of him as a toddler, barely old enough to speak, playing in the backyard with a stick and a string, pretending it was a fishing rod. Frank never tired of fishing. He would return from a 2-day fishing trip and immediately began planning the next. Montauk was Frank’s fishing paradise. When asked if he could live anywhere in the world, Frank would say “Montauk”. He began fishing in Montauk in the ‘70s, and it remained a fishing haven for him for the rest of his life. In the early 1990’s, Frank began giant tuna fishing. It was hard-core fishing that took him to Massachusetts, New Hampshire and Maine. He would leave the hair salon for months at a time to tuna fish for the entire summer. It was grueling, strenuous work and he loved every moment. Frank would earn his Captain’s license in the ‘90s and was registered with the Coast Guard. Frank was happiest when he was fishing. In the dead of winter in the Northeast, Frank would book trips on party boats to catch his “Christmas cod”, coming home with his fishing poles covered with ice. He never had enough. Along the way, Frank gathered a close group of friends who were bonded by their mutual passion for fishing. The guys would spend each summer weekend together, headed out to Montauk in the pre-dawn hours to beat the traffic, armed with their elaborate array of specialty sandwiches and treats. Each man brought their special meal, a band of brothers who relished every moment together.

Frank met his wife, Grace, while working at Palumbo’s Hair Salon in North Arlington. A client for several years, the couple began dating in 1995 when Frank called with a dinner invitation. Frank and Grace married in 1998 and bought their first home in Wayne in 2000. After many years of failed attempts, the couple was overjoyed when they were blessed with twins (Frankie Jr. and Anna Grace) in 2011. Becoming a father later in life was a joy for Frank. His one role was driving the children to and from school and it was a thrill ride. The kids squealed when Frank rolled down the windows and turned up the rock and roll. He was funny, silly and over the top generous. His biggest parenting challenge was saying “no” to the children. They were the light of his life; everything they did made him proud. Clients would love to hear Frank’s stories about little Frankie’s soccer games and Anna’s spelling bee competitions. He was the family hair stylist and personal chef, who would never refuse a request for a special meal or treat. Frank was never hurried and would sit and for hours listen as the children talked about their favorite activity in school or their new toy wish list. His children knew him as patient and kind and nothing but pure fun. His jokes were old and not terribly funny, but Frankie and Anna knew they had the greatest Dad.

Frank loved to watch sports of all kinds. He enjoyed cooking shows, jotting down new recipes and techniques to keep the meals interesting. Frank loved to dance! Weddings were a thrill, and you could find Frank in the middle of the dance floor (often by himself), dancing freestyle for hours. Frank loved life and being with people. He was kind and patient and when he forgave, he forgot. Frank was a man of faith who clung to his Savior most tightly as his health deteriorated. He accepted trials with childlike faith, always professing his life was in God’s Hands. A member of Montclair Community Church for many years, Frank has a loving, extended Church family. Frank will be remembered as the kindest, gentlest and humble soul who always placed others' needs before his own. He touched many lives and will be deeply missed.

Frank is survived by his sister, JoAnne Busuttil Martocci and her husband Jim, his brother John Busuttil, his brother James Kedrie and his wife Jennifer. Frank is also survived by half-siblings Ernest Busuttil and his wife Marra, Paul Busuttil and his wife Claudia, Joe Busuttil and his wife Lisa and his sister Cathy Taylor, as well as many nieces, nephews and grandnieces.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Frank’s name to Trinity Christian School, 160 Changebridge Road, Montville, NJ 07045 at www.tcsnj.org

Brenda Cordwell Walker, 72, of West Milford New Jersey passed away on February 20th from complications due to COPD.

Born in Paterson to Clifford and Elizabeth Cordwell, with brother Doug and sister Gail, she was a Paterson girl of her times, happy, carefree, and loving her life.  

She attended schools 19 and 27, graduated from Kennedy High School in 1968 (voted Typical Teenager) and William Paterson College in 1972 where she studied to become an elementary school teacher. 

Brenda started her teaching career at School 5 in Paterson where she met (and did not like at all) Chud Walker, who persisted and became her husband of 46 years and father of her children Justin, Sean, and daughter Rory, the best things that ever happened to them both. She spent 38 and 1/2 years working tirelessly to help the kids in Paterson, teaching 4th and 5th grades and becoming a Basic Skills instructor. She was, by popular acclaim, one of the best teachers the school ever had. Have a problem or question, see Brenda. 

She could dance up a storm (the Lincoln Club, the Osprey) make or break a boy’s heart, smile to make you melt, drive that blue Valiant like a demon, and light up any space or place she was in. She had a great sense of humor and was a true and loyal friend to those she loved. She will be fondly remembered and sorely missed.

Please, no donations. Instead, commit random acts of mercy and kindness. And call your mother.

Maryann Ramsden, age 79, of Blairstown and formerly Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, February 19, 2023.

Maryann was born in Paterson to Eugene (d. 1969) and Mary Chiocchi (d. 1966). She graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1961 before working in administrative and data-entry roles with A&P, Stern’s, Aircraft Radio, and Interpace. In 1967, Maryann met Philip Ramsden and they were married in May 1969. They lived briefly in Parsippany before moving to Flanders in 1970 to start their family. They, along with young sons Sean and Michael, moved to Wayne in 1976, where they lived until 1999.

Maryann embraced motherhood with gusto. Whether volunteering as a class mother or a den mother for Cub Scout Pack 137, she sought opportunities to be involved in her sons’ activities. The ends of summer nights in her Packanack Manor neighborhood were frequently heralded by the sound of her calling the boys in from her front stoop with a voice that always traveled far enough to be heard by its intended targets. There was no use pretending you didn’t – or couldn’t – hear her.

Once the boys were old enough, Maryann returned to work, this time as a media aide in the Wayne Valley High School library, where she met a group of women who became good friends for the rest of her life. Their dinners together continued for the next forty years.

Maryann and Philip built a new home in rural Blairstown, moving there in 2000 to begin the next stage of their life together. Their expansive home became a lively retreat for their children and three grandchildren, who will carry fond memories of summers in the swimming pool, frenzied flurries of wrapping paper beside the tree on Christmas morning, and Grandma’s candid appraisals of all things under the sun, from landscape-munching deer to fame-thirsty celebrities.

For more than fifty years, the holiday feasts Maryann presided over were legendary. The family recalls Thanksgivings in the early years that left guests gasping for breath after consuming platefuls of impeccably prepared holiday goodness for hours on end. In the latter years, the epic scale of dining was more restrained, but Maryann’s Christmas lasagna was as eagerly anticipated as Santa himself. The holidays will never be the same.

Maryann is survived by her husband of fifty-three years, Philip Ramsden of Blairstown; sons Sean Ramsden and his wife Monica Buonincontri of Yardley, Pa., and Michael Ramsden and his wife, Amy Ramsden of Branchburg, N.J.; grandchildren Brendan, Delaney, and Finley Ramsden; a brother, Gene Chiocchi and his wife, Mary Chiocchi, of Punta Gorda, Fla.; and nieces Karen Chiocchi of Port Charlotte, Fla., and Lynne Chiocchi of Punta Gorda.

Following the Mass, Maryann will be laid to rest at Christ the King Cemetery, Franklin Lakes. 

Anthony DiPasqua, age 74, of Brooklyn, NY died on Saturday, February 18, 2023.

Born in New York City, he was one of Anthony and Anne (Macioci) DiPasqua’s three children. He grew up at 51 Catherine Street on the lower east side.

After graduating high school, Anthony took the New York City Police Department test. He faired well on the test but he was one of many who wanted a job in law enforcement. Consequently, it was going to be a very long time before they called his number. Undaunted by this reality, Anthony shifted gears and joined the United States Navy. Stationed in Lakehurst, NJ, he proudly served for four years. Upon his return to civilian life, his number came up with the police department and he served as a corrections officer with the NYPD for 25 years until retirement.

Outside of his work as a corrections officer, Anthony’s most greatly-enjoyed pastime was health and fitness. It truly was a lifelong passion. He believed in living and eating in a healthy manner and being strong. He even worked out with Lou Ferrigno – the Incredible Hulk!

Anthony was predeceased by his parents Anthony and Anne (Macioci) DiPasqua and his sister Lucy DiPasqua. He is survived by his brother Frank and wife Maryann DiPasqua of Wayne, NJ, his two nieces: Lisa DiPasqua and Allison DiPasqua-Shiffner and husband Eric, and his great-nephew Ryan and great-niece Taylor.  

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Anthony’s name are asked to consider:

St Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Attn:  Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Catherine A. (nee Piretra) Okulski, age 65, of Barnegat and formerly of Wayne, NJ passed away on Saturday, February 18, 2023.

Cathy was the first born child of the late Laurence and Rita (nee Rafalko) Piretra. She was born in Rolla, Missouri while her father was stationed there as a member of the U.S. armed forces. She grew up in Fort Lee, New Jersey where she graduated from Fort Lee High School, later graduating from Taylor Business Institute in Paramus, NJ.

Cathy originally met her husband Lester Okulski while working together at Coastal Chemical Company. They fell in love and married on Sunday, August 4, 1996 in Cliffside Park, NJ. After honeymooning in the Bahamas, Cathy and Lester moved to Paterson before settling in Wayne in 2000. Only a few months ago, they moved to Barnegat, NJ where they hoped to soon retire.

Cathy’s love of the ocean and all things related to New Jersey’s Long Beach Island influenced her love of boating, fishing, and photography. She loved spending time with her family, laughing about old times and sharing jokes. She also took great delight in relaxing at home with Lester and their two dear cats, Sampson and Lucas, and formerly with their cat Tuxedo.  

Cathy was the beloved wife of Lester, blessed in marriage for 26 years. She was the loving sister of Laurence Piretra, Jr. and wife Judith, Eileen Piretra, Michael Piretra and wife Liana, dear aunt of Joseph and wife Samantha, Jackie and husband James, Laurence Piretra, III and wife Maggie, and Loren Piretra.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Catherine’s name are asked to consider:

American Cancer Society

P.O. Box 6704

Hagerstown, MD 21741

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Dante Alexander “Alex” Lellos, 54, of Pipersville, PA, passed away unexpectedly February 15th.

Alex was raised in Wayne, NJ by his parents Phocion and Jean (Capolon) Lellos and attended Wayne Hills High School. He was most recently employed by Bank of America as a systems architect.

Alex was an avid outdoorsman and enjoyed gardening and cooking.

He is survived by his ex-wife Marni Rubin of Naples, FL; his brothers Phocion Lellos and partner Jennifer Smith of Killington, VT; Jason Lellos and spouse Stacy of Wayne, NJ; Brian Lellos of Montgomery, OH; his nephew Nikolas Lellos, and his nieces Sophia Lellos, Cassandra Lellos, and Evangeline Lellos.

Leonard R. Wegman, age 91, of Avalon and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, February 13, 2023.

Born and raised in Passaic, NJ, Len was the middle child of Frank and Emily (Boeglen) Wegman. After graduating from Passaic High School, Len attended the Newark School of Fine and Industrial Arts where he studied commercial art. Already as a young boy, his family knew he was artistic as he was often sent to the principal’s office for drawing and doodling in class. After graduating he enlisted in the United States Army during the Korean War. The Army quickly learned of Len’s commercial and industrial arts background and they leveraged that knowledge by having Len serve at the Fort Monmouth, NJ Army Base as an instructor of reconnaissance photography. He would have preferred to be in Korea actually engaging in reconnaissance operations, but was considered to be of greater value staying stateside as an instructor. Len proudly served his country rising to the rank of Corporal from 1952 to 1954. He served an additional six years in the reserves. He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal.

Before enlisting in the Army, Len met a lovely young lady named Lorraine Sautner. Lorraine was in the drama club at Holy Trinity R.C. Church in Passaic, and because of his artistic skills, the drama club recruited Len to paint the scenery for a production. A friendship between Len and Lorraine began and grew. Once Lorraine graduated from high school, with her parents blessing, Len asked Lorraine if she would marry him. More than happy to oblige, they set their wedding date for June 14, 1953 at the church where they met. At that time, Len was still serving in the Army, but he was able to secure leave for the wedding and even a honeymoon to Niagara Falls.

After the wedding, Mr. and Mrs. Wegman made their first home in an apartment on Hope Ave. in Passaic which was owned by Lorraine’s parents. They were soon blessed with the birth of their first two children, Laura and Christopher. One autumn day, Len took his children for a ride to go pick pumpkins on a farm in an up-and-coming town called Wayne. Nearby he saw a sign for a new development with houses advertised for $20,000. His curiosity led him to take a look at the model. As the saying goes, the rest is history! Soon they welcomed their third child, James and the family moved into their new house located at 114 Andover Drive in Wayne. For the next 35 years, that was the Wegman home until retirement in 1996 inspired a year-round move into their summer home in Avalon, near the Jersey Shore.

Len’s first full-time job was with Marcheese Art Service in Clifton as a layout man for print publishing. He remained there until his request for a $5 a week raise was turned down. Undiscouraged, he started his own business in Passaic in the house on Hope Ave that he and Lorraine first lived in together. His first office was in the basement in a room that formerly served as a coal bin. During the years that Len ran Wegman Art Studio, Inc. he moved the business many times including to Clifton, Fairfield, and to Wayne, before winding up back in Fairfield where the business is still run to this day.  

Len was known for his love of golf and he frequently played with his buddies at the Wildwood Golf Club. He and Lorraine and their friends enjoyed a longtime tradition of golf weekends at the Mountain Manor Golf Club in the Poconos every Columbus Day and Memorial Day weekend. He loved daily walks on the beach where he was fascinated with the interesting bits of nature that he picked up along the way. During the holidays, everyone looked forward to the Christmas card from the Wegmans because it always featured a beautiful beach scene that Len had hand drawn. He loved to paint beach scenes and also birds that were native to the shore area near his home.

Len’s faith in God was of great importance and, in many respects, made him the man that he was. He and his wife Lorraine were original parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church, near their home in Wayne. While there, Len was always involved in some capacity of service. He was instrumental in the establishment of the church’s Catholic Youth Organization (CYO) and helped with the set up of the church’s K-8 school. He served as treasurer of Boy Scout Troop 108 and always enjoyed helping with the Christmas tree sales. When Len and Lorraine moved to Avalon, they joined the parish community at Maris Stella R.C. Church which was within walking distance of their home. For many years Len faithfully and happily served as the church’s head usher.

Len always had a heart for those faced with difficult challenges. As a member of the Wayne Elks, he helped organize and participated in a golf fundraiser to help crippled children. For years, through his business, he also sponsored a trip for the children and the nuns from the orphanage in Totowa to see the New York Mets at the former Shea Stadium. He bought all the tickets, usually picking a game that included a free giveaway like “Bat Day” or “Helmet Day.” He loved to see the reaction from the roving stadium vendor when he said, “I’ll take 40 hot dogs.” Then he’d tell the guy to send the soda vendor, and the pretzel vendor too. Down in Avalon, he Continued his charitable efforts supporting the Helen Diller Vacation Home for Blind Children.

Len was a super “Grandpa” and “Great Pa Pa” to his grandchildren and great grandchildren. At their home in Wayne, he and Lorraine had a big room in the house dedicated exclusively to ensuring that the kids had a great time when they visited. It featured all the latest and greatest toys that any kid could imagine. For he and Lorraine’s 45th wedding anniversary, Len took all three of his kids and their families to Disney World, and when they’d come visit down the shore, Len and Lorraine would take the grandchildren for the night so that his kids could take their spouses out for a kid free evening. Len and Lorraine made memories by taking them to a place called Sundays Best for “Beach ice cream.”   

Len was a very caring man who ironically didn’t much care about what people thought about him. Frequently when his kids were younger, he’d do things that embarrassed them, like the time he went into the former Rickel Home Center in Wayne and put a piece of safety orange colored string on his finger and proceeded to walk through the store with that hand in the air so his kids would always be able to easily find him. Or the many times he’d drive the kids to school and yell embarrassing things out the window.

Len was filled with a great sense of wonder about all that this world had to offer. He loved to learn about new stuff, like the natural things he’d pick up on those walks on the beach. He’d go out and buy books to learn more about them.

He loved traditions like 3 PM Happy Hour when he’d make a vodka on the rocks for himself and a Manhattan for Lorraine. Sundays were special so instead of vodka, he’d make himself a gin on the rocks with a wedge of orange. When he developed a bit of a heart issue, he asked his doctor if he could still drink. The doctor replied, “yes, two drinks per day” to which Len replied, “is that a prescription?” The doctor said “Yes” and, ever since, when 3 PM came Len would be known to announce, “Time for my medicine!” In his younger years, Len also liked to smoke a pipe. The smell of that pipe will always serve as a pleasing fragrance of remembrance for all who remember it. Rest in the peace and presence of God Len.

Len was the beloved husband of Lorraine, blessed in marriage for 65 years until her passing in 2019. He was the loving father of: Laura Bonadonna and husband Michael of Inverness, FL, Christopher Wegman and wife Maurietta of Caldwell, and James Wegman and wife Carol of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Lisa and husband Jason, Carolyn and husband Kevin, Nicholas and wife Nicole, Amy, Kelly and husband Jon, Brian and wife Kloudya, and Daniel; adored great-grandfather of: Abigail, Teddy, Charlie, Leo, Mia, Emily, Katie, and Tyler; dear brother of: Raymond Wegman and his late wife Rose of The Villages, FL, and Howard Wegman and wife Dorothy of Oakland; and dear uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Len’s name are asked to consider:

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

David “Dave” Maresca, age 66, of Wayne, passed Saturday, February 11, 2023.

He was born in Jersey City to the late Frank (d. 2018) and Constance (d. 2015) Maresca and eventually moved to Wayne.

Dave graduated from Queen of Peace High School with the Class of 1975. Straight out of high school he worked with his dad at the Fairmont Lumber Company in Jersey City.  He would spend the rest of his life in the lumber industry having worked as a sales associate for many years at the family business Maresca Lumber and Building Supply in Pequannock.

Dave was generally quiet and the kind of person who would do anything for anyone. He was conscientious, caring, easygoing, and was always positive.  He never had a bad word to say about others and was always family oriented. Dave enjoyed car rides out into the country and always enjoyed finding and driving by the homes of local celebrities. In his youth he enjoyed playing the drums and just about a year ago had taken it up again. Dave also loved his nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews like they were his own children. At family functions he would often make funny faces at them and always enjoyed playing with them.

David was the loving son of the late Frank and Constance Maresca; loving brother of Frank Maresca and his wife Lorraine of Kinnelon and Thomas Maresca and his wife Rose of Kinnelon; he was the much loved uncle of Frank and his wife Laura Maresca, Danielle and her husband Andrew Conforti, Jenine and her husband Gary Ritacco, Thomas Maresca, and Christine and her wife Lauren Maresca; he was the cherished great-uncle of Vincent, Layla, AJ, Rae, Arley and Cameron.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Margaret T. Ferrarie. Margaret Theresa Ferrarie (nee Ahearn), age 85, formerly of Park Ridge passed away peacefully on Monday, February 6, 2023 while receiving the loving of her family.  Margaret was born and raised in New York City. As a young girl, she attended parochial catholic school. Following her High School graduation in 1955 she received a degree in 1959.  Margaret found employment quickly with a well-known interior decorating firm in New York City. During that time she was introduced at church to a handsome young man by the name of Robert Ferrarie. The two hit it off and began dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on February 18, 1961 they became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in New York City and while living there welcomed the births of their first two children, sons Robert and Richard.  Later in 1963, the family moved to Park Ridge, NJ where they welcomed their next three children daughters Charlotte and Eileen, and their son Dante.  The couple remained in Park Ridge where they raised their family.  Working at the family business and caring for her children did not leave much spare time for Margaret.  That was perfectly fine as far as Margaret was concerned because her greatest passion in life was for her family.  It was clear to everyone that knew Margaret, nothing meant more to her than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren.  She treasured taking her children on memorable trips to the theater, beaches and amusement parks. Margaret and Robert cherished more than forty-eight years of marriage until Robert’s passing in 2009.  Margaret was not only devoted to her family, but she was also dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of Our Lady of Mercy RC Church in Park Ridge for many years.  She also donated regularly to the Catholic Charity known as Boys Town, as well as American Indigenous charitable foundations.  Margaret was a private person and was known as a refined lady.  She had a wonderful way about her and was able to see the positives in life.  She was truly a special person who touched the lives of many and will be sorely missed by her friends and family alike.   

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Erna M Schneider.

Erna M. Schneider, (nee Wedemeyer), age 82, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday February 6, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Erna was born in Jersey City and was raised in Teaneck, NJ.  She was one of two children to Henry and Meta Wedemeyer.  After graduating high school with the class of 1958, Erna went on to Marietta College for about a year.  She found employment quickly with Dunlap Tire where she worked as a secretary for about two years.  While at the Trinity Lutheran Church Youth Group in Bogota, NJ, Erna met a handsome young man by the name of Howard Schneider.  The two hit if off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on July 14, 1962 at the Trinity Lutheran Church.

The newlyweds first lived with Erna’s parents in Teaneck while Howard was serving in the United States Military.  While residing there, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter Monica.  The family then moved to Oak Ridge, NJ and remained there for about five years.  During their time in Oak Ridge, their second daughter, Nancy was born.  In 1968, the family had their home built in Wayne and have been there ever since. 

Shortly after getting married, Erna decided that she would become a full-time homemaker.  This was truly Erna’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.  Later, when her children had grown, Erna took a job as a crossing guard with the Wayne Board of Education.  She worked as a crossing guard for many years until her retirement about eleven years ago. 

Erna loved to play Bingo and enjoyed the art of Crochet.  She was also an avid reader of romance novels and books about the Amish way of life.  She was genuinely outgoing and social.  She had a wonderful sense of humor that would bring smiles to the people around her.  Although she was very social, she loved spending time at home.  She and her family treasured their frequent day trips to Pennsylvania to visit Amish country.  Erna was always open and honest with people and not one to beat around the bush, she was always upfront and candid with those around her. 

Aside from all of Erna’s hobbies, talents, and interests, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Erna than spending time and providing for her family.  She and Howard cherished thirty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage until Howard’s passing in 2001.  Erna was not only devoted to her family, but she was also dedicated to her Lutheran Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of Trinity Lutheran Church in Bogota, NJ for many years and later St Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne. 

Erna was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.  Erna will forever be remembered as a devoted wife and mother.

Erna is survived by her two daughters; Monica Schneider of Wayne, NJ, and Nancy Van Horn and her husband Steven of Crossville, TN, her brother Richard Wedemeyer and his wife Marylou of Wayne, NJ, her nephew Richard Wedemeyer, Jr and his wife Lisa of Cedar Knolls, NJ and their children Kaitlin and John Henry, and her niece Laura and Kenneth Snyder and their children Bridget and Shawn of Fort Worth Texas.  She was predeceased by her husband Howard Schneider in 2001. 

Those wishing to make a donation in Erna’s name are asked to consider Friends of Wayne Animal Shelter, PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Claire Macaluso, age 91, of Wayne, passed Sunday, February 5, 2023.

She was born to Dominick and Rose Crudele at the family home on Van Riper Avenue in Clifton where she was also raised. Claire graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1949.  She has lived in Wayne for the past sixty years.

Claire met her future husband Pasquale Macaluso when they were just children.  They eventually fell in love and married on June 20, 1954.  When Claire and Pasquale first married they lived in a two family home on Sheridan Avenue in Clifton where her parents lived downstairs and they lived upstairs. They moved to Wayne in 1963 and have lived there ever since. 

Claire was dedicated to her Catholic faith and was a founding parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.

For many years Claire was the School Nurse at the Ryerson Elementary School in Wayne. When she retired from nursing she continued to volunteer at the school for several more years.

Claire was very social and enjoyed lunch trips out with friends, reading novels, watching movies on the Lifetime Channel, and was always watching the news. For many years she enjoyed traveling and has been to destinations at the Jersey Shore, the Carolinas, Italy, and Puerto Rico to name a few.

She was the loving wife of the late Pasquale Macaluso (d. 2001); devoted mother of Robert Macaluso of Wayne, and the late Diane D’Angelo (d. 2008) and her surviving husband Gregory of Branchburg.  She was predeceased by her siblings Emily, Josephine, Violet, and Louis.

Patricia Coleman, age 82, of Wayne passed on Sunday, February 5, 2023.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Alzheimer's Association would be greatly appreciated.

Audrey Jean Freije, age 89 of Wayne, NJ passed on February 5, 2023.

Audrey Jean was born in Danville, VA to George and Bertha Crowder. She and her dear sister Barbara were raised in East Orange, NJ by their mother and their beloved grandmother Grace Davis Price which she called mommy.

Audrey Jean graduated from East Orange High school in 1952. She was the captain of the girls’ basketball team for 4 years. She was also a member of Kappa Phi Sorority of East Orange High School all 4 years.

Audrey married Kenneth R. Geffinger Sr. in August 1953. She worked for American Airlines in Newark, NJ. Ken was in the US Army and they traveled a bit early in their marriage. They were blessed with a baby boy Kenneth Robert Geffinger, Jr. in 1962.  Son Keith Andrew was born in 1965 and Daughter Nancy Barbara was born in 1967.  Audrey raised her children in Wayne, NJ. She was a talented seamstress.  She hand made all the curtains and bedding for the home. She would sew clothing for her children as well as herself. She made the best Halloween costumes, and her children would win contests for having the most unique costume.  Audrey worked as an Aide at Mt. View Elementary school and all the children loved her. Audrey and Kenneth divorced in 1975.

Audrey then took a job at Norton Chemplast in Wayne as a type setter/graphic artist. She met her long-time companion Angelo Saporito. She and Angelo had a lot in common.  They would antique shop together and refinish furniture.  Her seamstress skills would come together when they would re-upholster the livingroom furniture by hand. They often went camping in the Poconos and later resided there. Angelo passed away in 2010.

Audrey worked for Hewlett Packard in Rockaway, NJ where she and 10 colleagues won a lottery.  Just what she needed at retirement age!

While living in Gouldsboro, PA, she became a member of the Red Hat Society with Her dear sister Barbara and the GAF Gouldsboro Area Foundation where she was instrumental of the restoration of the train station. She also was a member of the Gouldsboro Historical Society, and the Healthy Eaters Club where she made many lasting friendships. She even went zip lining through the rain forest in Hawaii in her 70’s.

Audrey met Nicholas W. Frejie II on Match.com and they fell deeply in love. They married in 2014 and lived a wonderful life together for the 9 years they knew each other. She and Nick traveled the world and she was so fond of the trip to Egypt they took, they got to ride a camel!  They settled in Homosassa Florida until 2018 when Nick passed away. She then moved back to Wayne, NJ to live with her family.  Audrey joined the Golden Age Group of Wayne and reunited with many old friends.

Audrey was the loving mother of Kenneth R. Geffinger Jr. and his wife Duvi of Sydney Australia, Nancy Limite and husband Bob of Wayne, preceded in death by son Keith Geffinger 2016 and brother George Crowder of Danville, VA. She was the cherished grandmother of Kennedee Geffinger, Bobby Limite, Eliza Jean Limite,  Destiny Iosso and her fiancée Mark DeAmelia, Skylar Geffinger, Lauren Jean Geffinger and Inari Geffinger. She was the step mother to Nick’s four children- Mark Frejie and wife Tassi, Gary Freije and wife Diana, Cheryl Barr and husband Rob and Nicholas Freije III and wife Lisa. She will be dearly missed by her sister and best friend Barbara Greder and her Niece Melinda Jean.

Denis Healy, age 90, of Wanaque passed Sunday, February 5, 2023 with the comfort of his family by his side.

Denis was born in Kilgarvan, County Kerry, Ireland to Mary and Daniel Healy. His life there was filled with adventure, fun and love for his family. In 1961, he began a new chapter of his life when he immigrated to the United States. Denis’ first job in the US was with the World’s Fair in Queens, New York. Shortly after, Denis began a career with the Manhattan and Bronx Surface Transit Operating Authority (MABSTOA) as a bus driver and then later a mechanic. He worked for MABSTOA for 25 years.

Denis spent his first 10 years in the United States living in Queens, New York. It was during this time that he met the love of his life, Betty. Denis and Betty married in 1965 started their family, and moved to Wayne, New Jersey in 1971. After retiring from MABSTOA, Denis continued to work as a school custodian for the Wayne Board of Education.

Denis was a hard worker who could fix anything given the right amount of duct tape. His kindness and dedication to his family was unmatched. He was always first to offer his assistance, guidance or advice to anyone in need. He loved making people laugh and was always the life of the party. Most of all, he simply loved his family.

Denis was predeceased by his wife Betty and 3 brothers Jackie, Mick and Dan. He is survived by his devoted children Liz Myers and her husband, Bill, Dennis Healy and his wife Paula, Marianne McGuire and her husband Pete, and Julianne Healy, his treasured grandchildren Meaghan, Brendan, Sean, Shane, Shannon and Jack, his loving sisters Cathy O’Regan and Hannah Healy and many adored nieces and nephews.

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The mass will be livestreamed at 10 AM on Saturday, February 12, 2023. Please follow this link to watch.

The Funeral of Denis Healy Live stream

Ruth D’Angelo (nee Hershenberg), age 101, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, February 4, 2023.

Born and raised in Paterson, Ruth grew up in a house on East 18th Street and graduated from Eastside High School. Given Ruth’s absolute passion for dancing, it’s no surprise that she met the man she would ultimately marry at a dance. His name was Joseph D’Angelo and he was from the westside of Paterson. They got married in 1949 by the justice of the peace and enjoyed a 58-year marriage that was truly blessed by God until Joe’s passing in 2007. After the wedding, the newlyweds began married life upstairs from Joe’s sister and mother in a two-family house in Paterson located at 33 Rockland Street. After fifteen years living there, Joe, who was an engineer, was working on designing a house he was planning to build for his family. At that time, Ruth, who had a job with Meyer Brothers Department Store in Paterson going door-to-door soliciting potential new customers to sign up for the Meyer Brothers charge card, was knocking on doors in the up-and-coming town of Wayne. She was really impressed with the town and so she told her husband that they should consider Wayne as the place to build their new home. In the end they ended up finding an already built home located at 11 Ryder Road that looked almost identical to what Joe had been designing. To keep a long story from getting any longer, they ended up purchasing that home and they moved in with their two sons on Columbus Day 1964. From that day and for the rest of her life, Ruth remained a resident of Wayne.

During the early years of marriage, Ruth embraced the role of loving and nurturing mother and homemaker. When her sons reached an age of relative independence, she sought employment outside of her home. She got her first job with Associated Testing Labs in Wayne. At the time she was one of only two women who had ever landed a job with this company. She later worked for C.E. Conover, a distributor of O-rings located in Fairfield.

Ruth loved going to Atlantic City with her sisters. She apparently liked to get there fast as her son Joe later found quite a few speeding tickets stuffed in the glove compartment of her car. She kept up with what was going on in the world via a daily, cover-to-cover reading of the New York Post. Her most favorite pastime was dancing. She was passionate about it and it almost seemed like she went into a dream-like trance when she started dancing. As a young lady, she could often be seen at the former Fabian Theater in Paterson – a favorite go-to dancing venue. She shared this love with her husband Joe and, their son Michael followed in Ruth’s footsteps and even danced competitively. She was so good that at wedding receptions, everyone would stop to watch Ruth dance. Watching Ruth dance was like going to see an amazing, artistic performance!

Once when she was vacationing in Italy, Ruth started dancing on a little bridge over a canal in Venice. The tourists on the boat in the canal thought she was a paid performer and they clapped and cheered as they went by.

No doubt, even with all the advances in medicine and healthy living that we know about today, living to be over one hundred years old is still quite a rare accomplishment.  Ruth would agree that she was truly blessed. Still driving in her 90’s she’d go visit her son Michael but, being so advanced in years, Ruth’s doctor wanted her to take the written and drivers test again. Wouldn’t you know it? She passed both with flying colors! She was also an unusually flexible gal for her age, so flexible that her family nicknamed her “Little Gumby” based on the loveable Gumby, a claymation character and star of the 1950’s and 60’s television broadcast of “The Gumby Show”. Gumby was known for his ability to bend and contort his body into all kinds of positions and Ruth was still able to bend and contort well into her nineties.

Ruth was a very friendly person who loved to have nice conversations. She could talk to anybody! Never one to utter a bad word about anyone, she always had a smile on her face and a glass-half-full view of life. She was truly a very beautiful woman in every sense of the word, both inside and out.

Ruth was the beloved wife of Joseph B. D’Angelo, blessed in marriage for 58 years until Joe’s passing in 2007. She was the most loving mother of Joseph H. D’Angelo and wife Camille of Wayne, and the late Michael D’Angelo (2020); cherished grandmother of Derek and his wife Andrea, and Evan and his wife Bergelink; adored great-grandmother of Jack, Cooper, Trevor, Chase and Sienna; youngest dear sister of: Belle, Rose, Lilly, Louie, and Abraham (aka “Lefty”) – all predeceased; and dear aunt of several nieces and nephews.

Barbara F. Wiederecht (nee Fisher), age 82 of Pompton Plains, and formerly of Pines Lake in Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, February 4, 2023.

Barbara grew up in Pompton Lakes and was among one of the earliest classes to graduate the fifth grade from St. Mary’s School. She went on to graduate from Pompton Lakes High School with the class of 1959. She began her early career with AMF in New York City, but being the benevolent soul that she was, volunteering brought her the greatest joy. She gave selflessly through the Volunteer Center of Bergen County for many years, and her generosity brought comfort to many.

To know Barbara was a blessing in and of itself. Her essence seemed to exude kindness, love, caring, and generosity with a high level of enthusiasm. Her middle name might as well have been “Charity,” as she simply loved to help others. There are countless organizations and worthy causes that she devoted herself to through the years, and no one is really sure how she found the time to do it all, but she did. While living at Cedar Crest Village in recent years, she ran their bereavement group despite being a recent widow herself. Her children especially recall how their mom was sort of like the ‘community mom,’ nurturing countless kids from the neighborhood. Their home always had an ‘open door’ policy where everyone was welcomed with open and loving arms.

Barbara met her husband, George, several years before they became romantically involved. They commuted to New York City on the same bus and often shared the morning newspaper. They had lost touch when Barbara began working locally at a bank, until one fateful day that George entered the bank. They immediately recognized one another, and conversation ensued. Barbara learned that George had recently lost his wife to illness, and he was raising four children on his own. In short time, their romance blossomed, and they were married on April 5, 1975 at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes. After a memorable honeymoon to Hilton Head, South Carolina, they settled into their home in the Pines Lake section of Wayne. Together, they welcomed two more children to their family. Raising six children could easily bring most people to the brink of exhaustion, but Barbara seemed to make it look easy. She was always well put together, with her hair and makeup done just right, looking beautiful each and every day. She welcomed each day with purpose and found enjoyment in everything she did. Her children recall how magical the holiday parties were at their home, when family would all come and gather. Barbara simply had a wonderful way of making everything, and everyone, feel special. She was, herself, very special and the world will miss her.

Barbara is survived by her six children: David and his wife Barbara of Westport, CT, Jonathan and his wife Nur of Naples, FL, George, Jr. and his wife Cathey of Plano, TX, Sally Wiederecht of Westport, CT, Aimee LaSala and her husband Andrew of Butler, and Holly Levantino and her husband Joseph of Old Brookville, NY, eight grandchildren and one great-grandchild, and her four siblings: Richard “Dick” Fisher and his wife Jane, Jack Fisher and his wife Anna, Liz Fisher and her husband Malcolm Walters, and Cathy Rambusch and her husband Bob. Barbara was predeceased by her husband George in 2019.

Donations in Barbara’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Or to the Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758516, Topeka, KS  66675, www.WoundedWarriorProject.org

Armand Longo, age 91, of Wayne, passed on Friday, February 3, 2023 at home.

He was born to John and Rose Longo at the family home in Jersey City. He was raised in Jersey City and was a gymnast at Snyder High School where he graduated with the Class of 1949. He continued his education at Jersey City Junior College and later the Newark College of Engineering where he took night classes until receiving his Associates Degree in Mathematics.

He was always a worker, starting as a 14-year old at the Ocean Avenue Nut Shop in Jersey City.  His first ‘real job’ was at the Lightolier Company in Jersey City engineering lamps and lighting fixtures, where he met Dolores, his bride to be.  He even had a side hustle hawking ball point pens to local shops - as they were new and all the rage back then.  For a time as a young working man, he would hand half his earnings to his mom, only ever asking “Ma, is that enough”.  A true testament to his character and commitment to family.  For thirty-nine years he worked as a draftsman in the aerospace division of the Bendix Corporation in Teteboro having retired in 1993.  Throughout his career, he could have often been found moonlighting at his drafting table in the basement. 

His life was a work of caring and providing for others - always ‘there for you’, even if to offer a “Just go to work, you’ll be fine.”.  He faced life with love, commitment, humor, pragmatism and even a stern tilt of the head and words to match, as he was often prompted by the impish follies of four boys!

In his retirement he and Dolores enjoyed being “snowbirds” living between Wayne and West Palm Beach, Florida, traveling throughout the United States and Canada, and because she never liked driving -  being Dolores’ chauffeur ( Driving Miss Dee).  Both he and Dolores did everything together, whether it was visiting the grandchildren, attending their sporting events, or volunteering at the Red Cross in Fairfield.  They were always together. Armand was a proud AARP member and always asking for his “senior discount.” He was also a regular fixture that the Packanack and Jackson Avenue Dunkin Donuts, as well as the Pompton Queen Diner. Through the years he was also a member of Toastmasters and an avid bowler.

Armand was the loving husband to Dolores Longo for 70 years; devoted father of James Longo and his wife Marge of Middletown, Eugene Longo and his wife Terry of Chapel Hill, NC, John Longo and his wife Vicki of Nutley, and the late Armand Longo (d. 2021) and the late Maryann Montano (d. 2009) and her surviving husband Nick of Landing; he was the cherished grandfather of eight grandchildren and ten great grandchildren.  He was predeceased by his siblings Ralph, Rocco, Louise, and Angie.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation or the Warriors Heart Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Doctor William E. Matthews, age 84, of Wayne, passed away on Friday, February 3, 2023.

Bil, as he preferred to spell his name, was born in London, England and raised in Knaresborough, a town and parish in the Borough of Harrogate, and Harrogate in North Yorkshire, England. He was the son of the late William and Edith (Mann) Matthews.

After receiving his Doctorate in organic chemistry from Kings College in London, England, Dr. Matthews relocated to Australia where he served as a chemist with the Monsanto Company, an American agrochemical and agricultural biotechnology corporation. In 1966 he relocated to St. Louis, Missouri where he continued to be employed by Monsanto. In 1968 he earned his master’s in business administration and, in 1972, a doctorate in business administration. From there, Dr. Matthews was off to Germany where he took a management position with ITEK Corporation. In 1975, he moved to Denver, Colorado and then to Iceland where he taught business management at the University of Iceland. He eventually returned to the United States where he ran a consulting firm in Colorado.

In 1984, while on a trip to San Francisco, Bil met a dear woman named Patricia Belen. They fell in love and married on August 31, 1984 in San Francisco. In 1989, he and his family moved to New Jersey where he took a professorship in marketing and management at William Paterson College. Dr. Matthews served in that position until retirement in 2018.  

With out a doubt, one of Bil’s favorite pastimes was following and rooting for an English professional football club based in Fulham, West London, England called the Chelsea Football Club,. He tried his best to never miss a game, even if it meant watching them play at eight-o-clock in the morning due to the international time difference. He was also an avid reader whose favorite genre was American History and, throughout his working days, Dr. Matthews was able to visit quite a few destinations throughout the world but in his leisure time he also loved to travel. He literally traveled around the world to places including Italy, France, Iceland, Germany, Hungary, Holland, South Africa, Alaska, the Philippines, and to one of his favorites – the Galapagos Islands. There was also an Alaskan cruise with his whole family that he especially cherished. His travels were the perfect excuse to engage in another favorite hobby - photography. 

Bil had a unique sense of humor. When William Paterson College (WPU) changed the schools name to William Paterson University (WPU) he claimed that, ever since, he was on an endless search for good smells. He suggested to his daughter at her community’s DARE program that she should dare to not put her nose in a light socket and, before there were DVRs to record live television, if someone blocked the view of the program he was watching, he’d tell them that they made a better door than a window. Probably one of his funniest bits was being born in England and kiddingly boasting that he spoke pretty good English for a foreigner. He loved anything that was sweet tasting and always claimed that the best part of any meal was dessert, especially if it contained British chocolate in it.

Bil was a kind man who could light up a room and who truly enjoyed a good conversation about anything with anyone, as long as it had nothing to do with politics. He was a fun “Grandpa” and “Papa Bil” to his grandchildren and was loved and appreciated by his entire family. When asked was they would miss the most about him no longer being here, they simply replied “his mere presence.”

Bil was the beloved husband of Patricia, loving father of Darcey Matthews of Houston, Texas, Garrett Matthews and wife Sandra Matthews of Marshfield, Massachusetts, Kendra Glatstian and husband Scott of Wayne, and Karlena Matthews of Wayne, cherished grandfather of Alexa Matthews, Caitlin Matthews, and Nathan Glatstian. He is also survived by his former wife Nan Matthews.

A time of sharing will immediately follow visitation and begin in the funeral home at 5:00 PM. 

Because of Bil’s compassion for those in need, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in his name are asked to consider:

Community Foodbank of New Jersey (CFBNJ)

31 Evans Terminal

Hillside, NJ 07205

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You also donate by calling 908-355-3663.

Karin Visicaro, age 80, of Wayne and a former longtime resident of Bayville, NJ, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, February 3, 2023.

Karin was born in Breslau, Germany in 1942. The youngest of Dr. Kurt & Frieda Augustin’s three children, when she was sixteen years old, Karin emigrated to the United States of America with her mother and brother Dieter to join her sister Ingeborg who was already in the states. The family lived first in Wallington, then Clifton before settling in East Rutherford.  

Karin was extremely bright and was able to start high school in the U.S. two grades ahead of when she should have started. After graduating, she began a career with Hoffmann-La Roche, a pharmaceutical company in Nutley. While there, she completed company  training in computer programming and also attended Monmouth College where she earned a bachelor’s degree in computer science. Her years with Roche as a computer programmer were wonderful and prosperous spanning a total of 35 years. She stayed on a couple more years after that as a consultant in their Branchburg location.

Karin was the beloved wife of Ignazio “Iggy” Visicaro. They met at Hoffmann-La-Roche playing for the company bowling team. They married in 1974 and lived in Nutley and Long Valley where she enjoyed tending to and riding her horses, before settling down the Jersey shore in Bayville. They enjoyed a storied marriage of 43 years full of love and devotion until Iggy’s passing in 2017. Karin remained in Bayville until this past November when ill health necessitated moving in with her loved sister Inge.

Despite a rough start at life, the close-knit love of her parents, brother and sister made for many happy memories. In childhood, Karin learned to play the accordion. Learning a musical instrument was important to Karin’s parents and Dieter learned the trumpet and Inge the accordion too. They enjoyed playing music together and Karin’s mom, with her beautiful voice, loved to sing along. One of Karin’s other great loves was spending time outdoors in her yard in Bayville tending to her beautiful gardens and yard. Her yard was park-like with beautiful trees that she planted herself and lots of decorative potted flowers all around. She and Iggy enjoyed trips to Atlantic City and visiting her stepchildren, step-grandchildren, and step-great-grandchildren. Karin was always on the go! Up every morning at 5 AM, her head seldom hit the pillow before late at night. During the day, she loved taking walks or a jog to the park near her home in Bayville where she enjoyed seeing all the boats. Oftentimes, she was accompanied by one of the dogs that were close friends throughout the years. The last one was her dear pooch Sabrina and Karin was devastated when she passed away.

Karin was very ambitious, active and health conscious. She was the most giving and caring person – very loving and gracious. She remembered everyone’s birthday and gave the most thoughtful gifts. She had a great knack for helping all to feel special.

Karin was the beloved wife of the late Ignazio “Iggy” Visicaro, very loving sister of Dieter Augustin and wife Mary Ann of Palm Coast, Florida, and Ingeborg Shanahan and her late husband Robert of Wayne; and the dear stepmother of Karen Campagna and husband Anthony of Montville and Robert “Bobby” Visicaro and wife Samantha of Upstate, NY. She also leaves behind her step-grandchildren and step-great grandchildren and her niece Christine Micke and husband Thomas.

Because of her love for animals, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Karin’s name are asked to consider FOWA Animal Rescue

Send your Mail-In Donations to:

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

For a Mail-In Form, click here

Rosemarie Kauer, age 88, of Wayne, passed Friday, February 3, 2023.

She was born to Rocco and Rose Gisonno in the family home in Sloatsburg, New York.  She was raised in Sloatsburg and graduated from  Suffern High School.

Rosemarie worked at the Avon Cosmetics Company  in Rye, New York, in the manufacturing department.  She worked there until she married.

Rosemarie met the love of her life, Robert “Jim” Kauer when she went for a ride on his boat at Greenwood Lake.  Their first official date was to the Mountain Lakes Tavern at Greenwood Lake. Jim proposed marriage in a 1956  two-tone Blue and White Cadillac, and they were married at St Joan of Arc Church on August 19, 1961.  They honeymooned in Quebec, Canada.  They built a home in Wayne, New Jersey and that is where they would raise their family.

Rosemarie will be lovingly remembered for her generous, kind, and huge heart.  When it came to her family,  there was nothing more important to her. She loved being a mother and spoiling her grandchildren and grand pups. She enjoyed playing poker with family and friends, painting ceramics, reading romance novels and mysteries, and doing jigsaw puzzles with her grandchildren.

Rosemarie was dedicated to her Catholic Faith and she and Jim were founding parishioners of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne. 

Rosemarie was the loving wife of Robert “Jim” Kauer; devoted mother of MaryAnn Fallon of Bloomingdale, Lisa Cullen of Plymouth, MA, and Karen Kauer-Kiraly and her husband Jeff of Haledon; she was the cherished grandmother of Carolyn Cullen, Erin Cullen, Amanda Fallon, Nicholas Kiraly, and Joseph Kiraly; she was also the loved sister of Mary Louise Gisonno of Sloatsburg, NY and was predeceased by her other three siblings James Gisonno, Carmen Gisonno, and Raffaela Menzie.  She will also be dearly missed by her grand pups Milo, Chloe, and Maverick.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad https://www.waynefirstaid.com/donate.php would be greatly appreciated.

Christopher Vincent Herold

Nov 13, 1955 – Feb 3, 2023

Christopher Vincent Herold passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family after a brief illness on February 3, 2023 in Morristown Memorial Hospital, NJ.

Chris was born Nov 13, 1955 in Paterson, NJ, the son of the late Vincent R. Herold and Mary Patricia (Hanlon) Herold. Chris was raised in Little Falls, NJ before the family moved to Pines Lake, Wayne Township, NJ at a young age. Chris graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1974 where he played basketball and then went on to receive his BS Degree in Biological Sciences from Kutztown University in Pennsylvania.

Chris started his career as a Chemist for the Matheson Gas Company in New Jersey and then for the City of Jersey City Water Utility. Chris then changed career paths to become an Information Technology expert in the water utility industry where he was most recently an Enterprise Infrastructure Architect for Veolia North America.

Chris was an avid outdoorsman who loved boating, fishing, snowboarding and biking. He was also a member of the Lacey Township Elks Lodge #2518. He and his wife Ann built their dream house on the Forked River Inlet where they could take their boat into Barnegat Bay and out into the ocean for deep sea fishing.

Chris is survived by his adoring wife Ann (Haughey) Herold, his beloved children Matthew and Kasey and  her fiancé Sean, his loving siblings Jan Marie Neilan and husband Tom, Marcella Carney and husband Rick, and Lee Ann Santaromita. Also surviving are many nieces, nephews, and friends.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the World Kitchen Ukraine or St Jude Childrens Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Donald W. Thompson

1934-2023

Donald (Don) William Thompson was born on September 24, 1934 in Passaic, New Jersey to John and Sarah Thompson. He went home to be with the Lord on February 3 at age 88 surrounded by loved ones. 

Don loved being behind the camera and his favorite subjects were his family. He married his high school sweetheart and love of his life, Marilyn Stellingwerf, at age 20 and in October they celebrated their 68th wedding anniversary. Together they had three sons, Donald, James, and John, who were his greatest joys in life. Don was a proud and loving grandfather to Jim, Jeff, and Katie and great-grandfather to James. Don and Marilyn raised their family in Wayne and spent their retirement years in Belvidere.

Don and Marilyn traveled the world together, visiting Italy, Switzerland, Alaska, Hawaii, and many other places, often accompanied by dear friends and family. Closer to home, Don loved being outside, going for walks, and being in the sun and near the ocean. When their boys were young, Don loved taking his family camping. Don and Marilyn had a home in Vero Beach, Florida, where they spent many wonderful winters and hosted friends and family from around the country. They also spent countless summers at the Jersey Shore with family in Bradley Beach, which are among some of their favorite memories. 

Don spent his career as an engineer at Public Service Electric & Gas in Newark. He was always willing to lend a hand to friends, family, and neighbors for projects around the house. He graduated from Lodi High School and Rutgers University. He was a member of Mountain View Masonic Lodge #154. 

A man of faith, he and Marilyn attended Wayne Presbyterian Church, Preakness Baptist Church, and United Presbyterian Church of Belvidere. Don had a quick wit, an ever-present sense of humor, a gentle demeanor, and above all a deep love for his family. 

Don is survived by his loving and devoted wife, Marilyn, his sons Donald (Sue), James (Joyce), and John (Sean); his grandchildren Jim (Kate and James), Jeff, and Katie. He was preceded in death by his father John William Overend and mother Sarah Jane, his brother John (Nancy) and his brother Doug (Linda). 

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Grace Healthcare Services. 

Thomas Bellusci, age 68 of Wayne, died on Wednesday, February 1, 2023. His family was lovingly by his side at the time of his passing. 

The firstborn of Nathan and Ellen (Luzzi) Bellusci’s three children, Tom was born in Jersey City. He grew up there until age seven when his parents moved the family to Wayne and Tom has remained in that home to the present. 

Tom was a typical young boy. He teased and tortured his two younger sisters Rosemary and Ellen but, as a young man, he came to appreciate and love them dearly. He played baseball at Wayne Hills High School and graduated with the Class of 1972. Then he was off to Fairleigh Dickinson University in Teaneck. Tom was a bright young man and a diligent worker who earned scholarships to help pay for that education. He earned a bachelor’s degree in accounting and set off to conquer the world. His first full time job in accountancy was with Christ Hospital in Jersey City and Barnet Hospital in Paterson. Then, with a little experience to his name, he went to work for Imperial Bolt in South Plainfield. He ultimately moved on to State Fair Group in Little Falls. A conglomerate of different enterprises, he rose through the ranks at State Fair Group to the level of Chief Financial Officer. Tom was a natural with numbers and a veritable human calculator. He had an excellent business acumen and was never afraid to take a well-measured risk. 

Tom met his wife Sharon Chanda while working at the T-Bowl Pharmacy in Wayne. He worked there during his college years and he invited Sharon to go to church with him. That was their first date, and many more followed. He eventually proposed in Sharon’s kitchen, presenting her with a rose that had a ring tied to it. They married on May 6, 1979. They were marriage for forty years, until Sharon’s passing in 2019. There is no doubt when Sharon passed, a part of Tom passed with her too. 

Tom was a man of endless pursuits and talents. When he was a teenager, he bought his first motorcycle, and riding motocross remained a lifelong hobby. In addition he enjoyed gardening, cooking, and painting. Tom was his own handyman. There was no project too great for him to tackle. 

His quality time was spent with his family on summer vacations at Ocean Beach at the NJ shore. His favorite activities were taking them crabbing and to the arcade. Once the children were grown, Tom and Sharon began vacationing to the islands.

Above all else, Tom’s greatest enjoyment was spending time with his family. Tom and Sharon not only loved each other, they ‘liked’ each other, and were the best of friends. Everything Tom did was to make sure that he could provide the best life for his children. Thus, Tom’s children have happy memories of a father who lovingly invested himself into their lives. His children blessed him with three beautiful granddaughters, and he instantly stepped in as a hands-on Grandpa. Even Tom’s dogs Bensie “Boy” and Mailey were dearly loved. 

Tom was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend. No one could fill a room with situational wit and charm like he could. He was an amazing man with a good and generous heart who was always ready to help when he saw a need.  

Tom was predeceased by his beloved wife Sharon (nee Chanda) in 2019. He is survived by his son Thomas of Wayne, and Shannon Parella and her husband Brian of Wayne, his three granddaughters: Aria and Averie Bellusci, and Aubrey Parella; his two sisters: Rosemary Cramer and husband James of Pompton Plains, and Ellen Dorso and husband Al of Pompton Plains, and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends. Tom was also predeceased by his daughter in-law Amanda Bellusci in 2022.

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Tom’s name are asked to consider:

Good Grief

38 Elm Street

Morristown, NJ 07960

To donate online please visit  https://good-grief.org/donate/

You can also donate by phone by calling 908-522-1999, extension 8010

Doris Ann Pellegrino, age 62 of Wayne, passed Tuesday, January 31, 2023 with the comfort of her family and friends by her side.

Doris was born to George and Ann Gaffney in Brooklyn, New York.  She was their only child and as her name suggested, their gift from God.  She was a happy child with many friends who spent all of her time playing outside  - she would say she had all she ever needed right on 64th street.  When she moved to New Jersey, she would still visit Brooklyn where she truly felt at home with her friends and her grandparents.  Doris always said rainy days reminded her of being at her grandmother’s home in Brooklyn and she could smell the sauce being made on a Sunday.

Doris moved to New Jersey as a child and graduated from Hopatcong High School.  She attended Montclair University and earned professional degrees from Chubb and Steven’s Institute that would lead her into a career at Benjamin Moore & Co. where she would spend over two decades amongst her colleagues and friends.

One of Doris’ first jobs was working as a waitress at the Dakota Diner, where she met one of her dearest friends. It was there that she saved money for their first trip to Italy that remained in their memories.  

Through the years, Doris found her role as project manager - she would say, “This is me, I love what I do - years ago, they just didn’t have a name for it.”  She was right - it was who she was even outside of work.  Everything Doris worked on, she approached as a project.  When her children were preparing to attend college, when she had to move her mother, when they were doing home construction and even during her last chapter.  Doris would say to her family and her doctor, “We are going to treat this as a project.  Let’s figure out what we have to do, and we will do it.”   

Doris was a mother, a wife, a daughter, a niece, an aunt, a sister and a friend to so many.  Words people use to describe her are, “a light”, “the rock”, “my best friend”, “my fuel”, “sisters in another lifetime”, “daughter I never had”, and  “always smiling and wanting to live”. Everyone relied on her during their hardest moments to be comforted by her advice and her deep hugs. She could make anyone smile.  She had a true understanding of what really matters in life and loved her friends and family deeply.  For her family, she represented stability in always providing a loving home, wisdom at life’s crossroads, and strong sense of tradition. Doris valued being around people who made her laugh and who loved to live as much as she did.  Travel was such a tremendous part of her life -  she’d refer to herself as being “a gypsy” who would pack her bag and just go with no expectations.  At the core of her love of travel, was her love of people.  She wanted to be with them, in their world, to enjoy being with them and the beauty of it.  

Doris met Tony, her loving husband, while in college at an Italian dance.  It was a moment of coincidence for them both that led to an eternal lifetime together.   The words “do you have a match?” lit a light that will never dim.  In their marriage, Doris gained the love of sisters, brothers, cousins and in-laws.  Tony and Doris had two children, Gianna and Joseph, who married Charles and Michelle.  Being an only child herself, Doris taught her children to love each other and she demonstrated her love to them in so many ways. Doris will also leave behind three grandchildren who will be forever loved and watched upon by their Nana in heaven.

As this chapter of Doris’ life came to an end, she confidently and joyfully said that she had everything she’d ever wanted.  She rested in faith that God had given her a wonderful life.

On behalf of Doris and her family, we would like to thank each of you for having been a part of her life and bringing her so much love and joy. We ask that you continue to remember Doris in the happiest of memories you shared with her.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, or Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center, Development Dept., 95 Old Short Hills Rd, W. Orange, NJ 07052, would be greatly appreciated.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of George Joseph Buckman, age 85, of Pompton Lakes, NJ.  George passed away peacefully on Sunday January 29, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

George was born in Jersey City, NJ and raised in West New York, NJ.  He was one of four children to John and Mary Buckman.  After graduating from high school in 1955, he attended college for a few years.  In 1959, George felt in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army.  George served proudly and honorably in the US Army from 1959 until 1961.  Following his honorable discharge from the US Army, George went to work for Harper & Row Publishing Company in New York City.  Harper & Row were eventually acquired by HarperCollins, however, George continued to work there for nearly thirty years.  He then accepted a position at Simon & Schuster publishing where he worked for the next ten years until his retirement in 2000.  In his retirement, George became a crossing guard for Pompton Lakes Police Department for the next eighteen years.  This was work that George truly enjoyed.

George was out one night at a bowling alley. A young attractive lady by the name of Barbara was bowling in a league with her friends a few lanes over.  George couldn’t help but notice Barbara in her ice blue blouse, black skirt, and pendant necklace. George mustered up the courage to ask Barbara out for a date when he met her again the following week on league night. They went out to the movies on a date and hit if off wonderfully. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 18, 1964 at the Bethany Lutheran Church in North Bergen they became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in North Bergen then in 1968 moved to Lincoln Park.  While residing in Lincoln Park, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter Kim.  In 1972 the family moved to Pompton Lakes where they welcomed their second daughter Michele.  The family remained in Pompton Lakes, raised their children, and called it their home until 2012 when they moved to Riverdale.

George loved to watch and keep up with sports.  His favorite teams included the New York Giants, the New York Yankees, and most of all Rutgers University’s Scarlet Knights.  Travel was something that George treasured experiencing with his wife Barbara.  They cruised all over the Caribbean and Europe, and took a wonderfully memorable trip to Israel and Jerusalem. 

It was clear to everyone that knew George, his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to George than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He treasured his summer family vacations in Lavallette at the Jersey Shore and Washington DC where he would visit with relatives.  George and his wife Barbara cherished fifty-five years of a loving and loyal marriage until Barbara’s passing in 2018. 

George was a fun loving and easygoing person.  He enjoyed using sarcasm in all facets of his communication, especially his humor.  He had an undeniable ability to tell a story and captivate an audience of any age.  He was a kind, generous, and thoughtful man who loved his family deeply. 

George was not only devoted to his family, but he was also devoted to his Christian Faith. He and his family were members of Pompton Reformed Church in Pompton Lakes for many years, where George was also a deacon and served on several church committees.

George was truly a special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.  He will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, a loving father, and cherished grandfather. 

George is survived by his two daughters Michele Almeida and her husband Jose of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Kim Hollar and her husband Harry of Hackettstown, NJ, four grandchildren; Gregory Buckman and his wife Renee of Clifton, NJ, Kaitlyn Hollar of Hackettstown, NJ, Ryan Almeida of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Jared Hollar of Hackettstown, NJ, he is also survived by one nephew and many nieces. He was predeceased by his wife Barbara Buckman, and by his three brothers: Buddy Buckman, Thomas Buckman, and Joseph Buckman.

Those planning a donation in George’s name are asked to consider Wounded Warrior Project 370 7^th Ave, Suite 1802, New York, NY 10001  www.woundedwarriorproject.org

Joan Carroccio, age 89, of Wayne passed away on January 29th, 2023 with the comfort of her loving family by her side.

Joan was born in Passaic, NJ to Michael Vodzik and Pauline Glowa of Austria-Hungary. She was  the 11th child  of a 12 sibling family. There she learned the meaning of hard work and family values. Growing up with such a large family in humble surroundings, she learned the value of caring for your belongings and creating a neat and organized home. This was a trait that she carried with her into adulthood. Joan was a true perfectionist in every aspect of her life.

Joan graduated from Passaic High School in Passaic New Jersey, where she met her future husband Russell Carroccio. The two were married on January 12, 1957 and enjoyed a honeymoon in Miami, Florida. They celebrated 37 years of marriage before Russell's passing in 1994. Joan was an executive assistant with government clearance, working for Curtiss- Wright Aerospace. After many years of being a loving mother and top notch homemaker, Joan went back into the workforce serving the City of Passaic while working under the direction of the Mayor and the Engineering Office.

Russ and Joan raised their family in Wayne, New Jersey where they settled in 1967.

Joan leaves behind three daughters, Gail Carroccio, Andrea Fleshman and Leslie Mazzo, son in laws Robert Fleshman and John Mazzo. Joan is a grandmother to Keith Mulligan, Dylan Zuccone, Timothy Mulligan, Nicolas Mazzo (wife Michele), Russell Zuccone and Georgia Mazzo. Joan is a proud great grandmother to Liam and Colin Mulligan.

Joan left her family with a lifetime of happy memories and funny stories that will carry them through a bad day when they need a good laugh. She will forever be missed and remembered for her love of family, caring nature and her unique sense of humor. 

In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Joan's name to St Jude Childrens Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated. 

Anita Louise Garbarino (maiden name Murphy) born December 11, 1932, returned peacefully to the Lord on January 28, 2023. Born in the Bronx, New York, she thrived as she grew up in a large extended family all living within a few blocks of each other. These early years set the stage for her welcoming personality and the great charm with which she embraced all people. In 1955, she married Joseph Garbarino and was not only a devoted wife but an excellent professional business asset because of her warmth and humor which forged lasting relationships vital to a corporate executive’s work. Her children Joseph, John, Maryann and Joan were gifted with a mother who gave of herself completely in every possible way and taught them by example what it means to love.

Widowed in her 40s, Anita continued to put her heart and spirit into the care of family and joyfully welcomed the next generation as a hands-on caregiver while celebrating proudly her role as a very beloved Nonna.

Anita was a peacemaker who used her intelligence and insight to bring harmony to any situation. As a woman of great faith she recognized God’s gifts in her life and expressed her gratitude by worshiping at daily Mass, recitation of the Rosary, and by leading a women’s Prayer Group at Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish for decades.

Anita was a truly lovely woman both inside and out with a refined sense of style and a heart full of grace.

Among those looking forward to reuniting with Anita in God’s Kingdom are her sons Rev. Joseph Garbarino, John Garbarino and his wife Mary and their children MaryBeth and husband Johnny, daughter Emma, Kathleen Garbarino and her husband Mark Mion, daughter Gabriella, Megan and her husband Brian Smart; Daughter Maryann Major and her husband John Seitz and their children Katie and her husband Vincent Rubin, grandchildren Zoey, Vincent and Jack, Briana and her husband John Parkinson and Matthew Seitz; Daughter Joan Orapello and her husband Jim along with their sons James and Patrick.

We celebrate Anita’s new life in Christ with her favorite Scripture passage. “Rejoice in the Lord always.” (Philippians 4)

For those wishing to make a donation in Anita’s memory, please consider St. Ann RC Church, 781 Smith Rd., Parsippany-Troy Hills, NJ 07054

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Sonja Zagar, age 83. Sonja died peacefully at Arbor Terrace in Morris Plains on Wednesday, January 25, 2023.

Sonja was born in 1939 and raised in the small farming village of Lukoran, Croatia on the island of Uglijan along the Adriatic Sea. She was the oldest daughter of five children. It was war-time with her father, (late) Kuzman Roncevic, stationed at sea serving as a cook, while big brother (late) Sergio went to work each day as a carpenter apprentice for no pay. Her mother, (late) Josica Baric Roncevic remained at home working tirelessly, caring for the farm, Grandmother, and all of the other elders either living in the home or on nearby properties.

By age 10, Sonja became like a mother to her two younger sisters, Senka and Kathy “Biskera”, and her baby brother (late) Zeljko. When not in school, Sonja helped run the household, cleaning and cooking, while raising her siblings. At that time, no residence had running water resulting in continuous trips to the well. No electricity either but rather a huge, wooden fireplace in the kitchen to cook over and provide heat. 

Biserka recalls how as a child, she would pretend to fall asleep in front of that fire, only so her big sister had to carry her up the flights of stairs and gently tuck her into bed, all the while silently giggling. Or when Sonja would let them play outside climbing the many olive, fig and fruit trees, without a care in the world. The goats, sheep, pigs and chickens were their pets, except for the cows. It was an island, there were no cows! The Roncevic’s farmed many types of vegetables and made their own wine. Senka recalls climbing into the empty barrels for Sonja to playfully roll them around, hearing the laughter, until they were dizzy and sick to their stomaches. 

Sonja took classes to learn how to be a seamstress and made clothes for the family. She was a natural and preferred dresses with cute ribbons and fake pearls, rather than boys trousers with tedious zippers. At age 3, Zeljko wanted to help. She would wrap the tape measure around his head, his ear, and belly, as he giggled with delight for winning her attention and inclusion. That was Sonja — she loved children, spoiled them, and brought fun into their life in simple, memorable ways. 

When Josica would go into town, Sonja was entrusted to ensure the chores got done. Instead she too would play until she saw from a distance mother walking home to then quickly rally her siblings, hiding piles of laundry and other to-do’s under the bed and rugs. Occasionally, visitors brought fancy, hard candies as treats. However, Sonja would secretly save her stash all year long to fill the children’s Christmas stockings, rather than have them only find almonds and dried figs from Santa. 

In 1959, at age 19, Sonja received the opportunity to visit her mother’s twin, Aunt Mary, and husband Uncle Joe in the United States. Having received postcards over the years she was so excited. Imagine her surprise when she flew into JFK Airport to embrace city life and opportunity. Aunt introduced her to Milan “Milo” Zagar, a hard-working carpenter, and they married in 1960. Her family was truly heartbroken when they received word of no returning to the homeland.

Sonja and Milo settled in West New York and while residing there, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter, Frances (after his favorite singer, Connie Francis) and she was joined in 1963 by Sandra (after the actress Sandra Dee). That same year they moved from their one-bedroom apartment to a two-family house in North Bergen. Sonja loved meeting up with her mom-friends, pushing their strollers and window shopping along the avenue. 

By 1967, the family moved again, this time to Fairfield, a hidden-gem of a new planned community in Essex County, offering customizable homes built to suit, with plenty of green space for the kids to run, bike and play. It was the American Dream! 

Sonja had many responsibilities at 64 Henning Drive. Milo would say, “you take care of the inside, and I’ll take care of the outside.” This declaration was one of the greatest successes of their marriage. 

Sonja was a full-time homemaker. She volunteered at St. Thomas More and the girls Catholic elementary school — taught aerobics in gym, and lunch and library duty, plus Girls Scouts afterwards. She made her daughters’ Halloween costumes and quizzed them for their tests. She took them skating at the pond in winter and to the Caldwell Beach Club in summer. She also worked part-time selling costume jewelry for Sarah Coventry at-home parties. She treasured getting together with her fellow housewives for “cake and coffee klatches,” tennis lessons and trips to Bamberger’s at the Willowbrook Mall. She loved seeing the latest fashions and enjoyed visiting the salon, trying out new hairstyles, cuts and color. So much so that when her third daughter came along in 1970, she was given the name Stacy (after Sonja’s hairstylist). 

In 1975, Sonja and Milo separated. By this time Josica and her siblings were living in the U.S., so she and the girls returned to be near the family in Hudson and Bergen Counties. Sonja fell on hard times again taking on three jobs to provide for her children. Being an immigrant she knew how to stretch a dollar, and there was the invention of the Crock Pot. The girls remember those creative meals using Campbell’s soup and also ordering pizza and calzones on Friday nights during Lent. But Sonja insisted on making nutritious snacks…date bread anyone?

Sonja had a strong Catholic faith and was prayerful. Sundays were a time for mass followed by lunch with extended family and friends. She had been a parishioner of St. Thomas More RC Church of Fairfield, St. Brendan’s of North Bergen, and later St Joseph’s of Lincoln Park. She was also a long-time member of the Rosary Society.

Despite always having to be so responsible, Sonja’s car of choice was her 1972 two-door, sport, Pontiac LeMans. It was flaming orange, black leather interior with bucket seats, like that on The Dukes of Hazzard TV show. On days off in the summer Sonja would pack the girls in and head to the Shore to bake in the sun and teach them to ride the waves. They spent overnights in Philly visiting more of their extended Roncevic family. She also wouldn’t miss Stacy’s baton twirling or cheerleading competitions. Sonja enjoyed dancing at the disco, fancy family weddings, and celebrating the girls birthdays, not that she had much time to put her feet up. She went from job to job to job leaving Fran and Sandra when they weren't working to care for Stacy. Or the sisters just brought her along to their after school sports and also to their job at Dunkin where she helped fill the donuts.

In 1983, after another move to Clifton, she became a sales associate for Macy’s in the Fine Jewelry, Gold and Diamonds departments. Sonja was their top sales associate for numerous years and received letters of gratitude from customers. She became a Lifelong member of the Jack LaLanne Health Club, starting out as a fan in the 1960s, following his moves on the black and white Zenith TV. Sonja had a great interest in nutrition and always loved baking. Every Christmas season she spent a long day off with the girls making dozens of cookies to give away to loved ones. This tradition held for decades with the year 2000 holding top spot as the most baked in one day - 25 different recipes of cookie!

Sonja continued to excel at her job and purchased a condo in Lincoln Park in 1987. She taught Let’s Get Physical aerobics at the township adult school and also made friends on her power walks around the community and at the nearby senior home. No matter where Sonja was or resided, she made friends. She would not just make someone’s acquaintance but created life-long friendships. She also supported both her brothers through their illnesses, helped the family care for their aging mother who had Alzheimer’s Disease, and also eventually aging Aunt Mary.

With her daughters married, she gained wonderful son-in-laws and over the years Sonja became a grandmother to six, three boys and three girls. Everyone loved visiting Grandmum’s! She could often be found running around with them at the playground and playing basketball, bringing out her own inner child. She was the best babysitter who made sleepovers extra fun—playing card games and Candyland, making pancakes with strawberries, snuggling and reciting Croatian prayers at nightly tuck-ins. They frequently traveled to Six Flags Great Adventure and other parks where Sonja went on all the rides, even the loop-de-loop coasters!

By formal definition, Mother is: a woman in relation to her children, an important female figure, the head of a community, an elderly woman. This is Sonja. She will forever be remembered as a truly devoted mother and grandmother, a strong-willed woman with an outstanding work ethic. She was tenacious in everything she did in life. She had a wonderful way about herself and could light up any room upon entering. She had an infectious personality bringing smiles to the faces of those around her. Sonja was a giving and generous lady who made friends wherever she went, and wherever she went, she always looked her best. 

She was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sorely missed by everyone that knew her. Her legacy will be carried on by her children and grandchildren, now grown men and women, whom she loved and adored with pride.

Sonja is survived by her three daughters: Frances Allen and husband Mark of Sea Girt, NJ; Sandra Ennis and husband Larry of Chester, NJ; and Stacy Maldonado and husband Luis of Sparta, NJ; her two sisters: Kathy (Biserka) Brown and husband Joseph of Somerset, NJ, Senka Petric and husband Miljenko of Jupiter, FL, two sister-in-laws: Seka Roncevic of Haworth, NJ and Gail Roncevic of Haworth, NJ; six grandchildren; Casey Ennis and wife Lana of New York City, NY, Kayla Allen of Somerville, MA, Meghan Allen of Asbury Park, NJ, Samantha Allen of Waltham, MA, Jack Maldonado of Sparta, NJ, and Riley Maldonado of Sparta, NJ, and many loving nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her brothers Sergio Roncevic and Zeljko Roncevic.

Those planning to make a donation in Sonja Zagar’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959. www.stjude.org or Michael J. Fox Foundation, 469 7th Ave, New York, NY 10018 www.michaeljfox.org

James P. Maloy, age 80, of Wayne passed away Wednesday, January 25, 2023 at Chilton Memorial Hospital in Pequannock.  

"I have fought the good fight,

I have finished the race, 

I have kept the faith.

Henceforth there is laid up for me

the crown of righteousness."  2 Timothy 4:7-8

Jim was born to Joseph and Pauline (Burke) Maloy in Johnstown, PA. He relocated as a young man to New Jersey and held various positions in the credit industry.  His last position was as Credit Manager at Durfeco Steel Trading Company in Laurence Harbor, NJ.  He spent his early retirement as a crossing guard at Theunis Dey Elementary School in Wayne.  

Jim was a devoted parishioner of Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Roman Catholic Church and held his faith close to his heart.  As a voracious reader of the newspaper every day, he especially enjoyed discussing current events.  True to his western Pennsylvania upbringing, Jim was a die hard Steelers fan and aficionado of all Pittsburgh sports. He was never one to turn down a bourbon Manhattan, shared with his wife and friends over a good meal and conversation. His favorite pastime was hanging at the pool with his senior buddies.

Jim is survived by the love of his life, his devoted wife Janet and his children, Patrick and Karen, and his stepdaughters Jill Brady-Kerzner (Adam) and Jacquelyn Muniz.  He was a loving grandfather to Maggie, Clarissa (Eric Walsh), Natalie, Mason and Henry and great-granddaughter Sophie. He is also survived by his sisters Paulette and Margaret (Tom Buch) and sister-in-laws Angela Maloy and Elaine Almeida.  Jim had great fondness for his many nieces, nephews and friends who admired his strong faith, loving nature and quiet kindness. He was preceded in death by his parents, his sister Mary Jo, his brother Tom and brother-in-law John Almeida. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Annunciation Parish, 45 Urban Club Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 or the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07470  www.waynefirstaid.com/donate/php would be greatly appreciated. 

Elliott J. DeBonta, age 81 of Pompton Lakes, died peacefully on Wednesday, January 25, 2023. He was surrounded by his loving family who had all gathered at his bedside.

Elliott began his career with Federal Boiler where he earned his Black Seal certification. He went on to be a diesel mechanic and driver for APA Trucking. CB radios were popular during this era and Elliott’s handle was “Papa Smurf.” He would call out from his truck to the CB radio he kept at home to chat with his wife and kids when he was on the road. He concluded his career with the Montville school district, retiring as a custodian in 2011. He even mowed lawns around the neighborhood to earn what he referred to as “golf money” to feed his insatiable golf habit. He was among one of the hardest workers you would have ever met.

Elliott was a life-long resident of Pompton Lakes, growing up in the Dupont development area. He went on to graduate from Pompton Lakes High School and he was always proud to be a Cardinal. He met his wife, Maureen (nee McKenna) at “The Cardinal” luncheonette, which used to be across the street from the high school. They started dating and very quickly Maureen came to realize what a wonderful man he was. They were married on June 27, 1964, at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes, followed by a honeymoon to the Pocono’s. They went on to enjoy fifty-eight years of very loving and caring marriage. They visited the Catskills every Memorial Day Weekend for many years, and they also enjoyed several cruises. Elliott’s favorite vacation was a cruise to Bermuda. Maureen knows how fortunate she is to have had such a devoted husband who was truly wonderful to her. She will miss him dearly.

Elliott was a true golfer at heart and played as often as he could. His favorite course was “The Gap” in Pennsylvania. He also enjoyed hunting when he was a young man and Maureen recalls the first time he came home with a rabbit he had successfully hunted. That was also the last time he came home with a dead rabbit. He also took great pride in maintaining the lawn around his home. He was meticulous and perhaps even a little over-the-top about keeping his lawn looking perfect. “Get off the lawn!!!” was something you were sure to hear if he caught you walking on the grass. There was really nothing that made Elliott more happy, though, than to spend time with his family. He was supportive, funny, sensitive, loving, and even a little crazy at times. He liked to bust-chops, but always in an endearing way. He was “Poppy” to his eight grandchildren, a moniker that always made him smile. He adored his grandchildren so much and they will all miss his unconditional love.

Elliott is survived by his darling wife, Maureen, of Pompton Lakes, their three children; Kevin DeBonta and his wife Dana of Pompton Lakes, Patrick “Rick” DeBonta and his wife Heather of Highland Lakes, Meghan Garrett and her husband Dennis of Hewitt, and eight grandchildren: Zachary, Joseph, Haley, Noel, Chloe, Finnegan, Kennedy, and Collin.

Those wishing to make a donation in Elliott’s memory are asked to please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Susan Zygmunt (nee Kilgour), age 63 of Wayne, NJ.  Susan passed away peacefully on Tuesday January, 24, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a long and courageous battle with cancer.

Susan was born and raised in Paterson and was one of five children to George and Alice Kilgour.  As a young girl growing up, she took a great interest in sports and played basketball.  She attended Passaic Valley High School graduating with the class of 1977. 

In 1988, while attending the wedding of a close friend, Susan met a young man by the name of Richard Zygmunt.  Susan and Richard hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on October 6, 1990 Susan and Richard became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Clifton and resided there for about six years.  While living in Clifton, they welcomed the birth of their one and only child, their daughter Stephanie.  In 1996, the family moved to Wayne and have been there ever since.   

It was very clear to everyone who knew Susan, that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Susan than providing for and spending time with her family and friends. 

She was a wonderfully dedicated mother and wife, a fantastic cook, and cherished summering with her family in Diamond Beach near Cape May, NJ.  She also treasured spending time with friends and dining out with her siblings.  

Susan and her husband Richard cherished thirty-two years of a loving and loyal marriage.  Susan was not only dedicated to her family but also to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne for many years.  

Susan was a genuinely kind, warm hearted lady who was extremely outgoing and loved socializing.  She had a lovely bubbly personality that lit up any room she entered.  She had an infectious sense of humor and way about her that brought smiles to everyone around her. 

Susan was a truly special lady who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by her friends and family.  She will be forever remembered as a truly devoted wife, mother, and sister.

Susan is survived by her husband Richard Zygmunt of Wayne, NJ, her daughter Stephanie Zygmunt of Wayne, NJ, three sisters; Cathy Conerly and her husband Pete of Wayne, NJ,  Mary Lou Marcell of Wayne, NJ, and Beth Griffin and her husband Jack of Wyckoff, NJ, one brother Jim Kilgour of Totowa, NJ, one niece Christine Hietenan of Wayne, and eight nephews David Zygmunt of Kinnelon, NJ, Kevin Zygmunt of Boston, MA, Brian Zygmunt of Toms River, NJ, Mark Zygmunt of Toms River, NJ, Patrick Conerly of Marlton, NJ, Ryan Conerly of Wayne, NJ, Conor Griffin of Wyckoff, NJ, and Jack Griffin of Wyckoff, NJ.  She was predeceased by her parents George and Alice Kilgour.

Those planning to make a donation in Susan’s name are asked to consider John Theurer Cancer Center, 921 2^nd St, Hackensack, NJ 07601 www.hackensackmeridianhealth.org

Kevin Schmitt, age 68 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, January 24, 2023 after a brief and valiant battle with cancer.

Kevin grew up in Paramus, NJ and graduated from Paramus High School with the class of 1973. He went on to earn his Bachelor’s degree in Accounting from William Paterson College. He began his professional career in the accounting department at St. Mary Hospital in Hoboken, and had worked at several area companies including Progresso Foods and Dantech. He retired in 2019 as the CFO of Zeiser, Inc. in W. Caldwell.

Kevin had been a loyal YANKEES and GIANTS fan since early childhood and watched countless games on TV with his dad throughout the years. He was an avid golfer and was considering moving to South Carolina in his retirement so he could golf year-round. He also enjoyed going hiking and taking long walks around his neighborhood in Wayne, and he took great care to eat a healthy diet. When he baked his zucchini bread, or banana bread, or other tasty treats, he used only the most wholesome ingredients. He seemingly made all the right choices at leading a healthy life.

He was a kind soul and will be greatly missed by those who knew him.

Kevin is survived by his sister, Donna Schmitt of Wayne, and several cousins. He was predeceased by both of his parents; Shirley and Frank Schmitt.

Those wishing to make a donation in Kevin’s memory are asked to please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Barbara Akel, age 80, of Lincoln Park and a former long-time resident of Wayne unexpectedly passed Sunday, January 22, 2023.

She was born in Brooklyn, NY to Joseph and Esperance Skaff and lived at 209 Clinton Street.  Barbara graduated from Bishop McDonnell High School with the Class of 1960.

In her youth she worked as a manager in the hardware department at McCrory’s on Fulton Street in Brooklyn and later as a typist at the Western Electric Corporation in Downtown Manhattan in New York City.

Barbara Skaff lived across the street from Fred Akel, and as was customary at that time, many of the local families were invited to Barbara’s Sweet Sixteen party.  It was during this party that Fred asked Barbara to go out with him. Their first date was to the movie The Ten Commandments.  They dated for five years, two of which Fred was serving in the US Army.  He served in Germany from November 1960 until October 1962.  When he returned from military service in the fall of 1962, they planned their wedding and exchanged their vows on Saturday, February 23, 1963 at the Church of the Virgin Mary in Brooklyn with Barbara’s uncle Monsignor Elias Skaff presiding.  After a reception at the Bossert Hotel – a place where the Brooklyn Dodgers would often stay - Fred and Barbara honeymooned at the Honeymoon Haven in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania.  The honeymoon lasted only four days because Fred had to get back to his new job at the John Hancock Insurance Company. 

During their married years they lived at homes on Colonial Road and McKay Place in Brooklyn, NY.  Work brought them to live in the Midwest for several years. During Barbara’s time in Buffalo Grove, Illinois she was very active volunteering within her community. She was most proud of the fact that she was one of the founders of the local blood bank. In 1976, they moved to Wayne, NJ where they would live for the next forty years. When her children attended school, Barbara worked in Data Entry at a mail service company called Model Expo in Fairfield. She later worked for the IBM Corporation in Franklin Lakes for twenty years retiring in 2007.  While working at IBM she simultaneously worked for Weight Watchers Company in Wayne before fully retiring in 2020.

Barbara will be lovingly remembered for her wit, sensible pragmatic approach, seeing the good in others, incredible patience, and kind way about her. She was selfless, hosted countless family celebrations and had the door is always open policy to anyone and everyone. She was an inspiring role-model and considered by others to be their second parent. She made it look effortless as she made a house feel like a home. The ingredient of love she cooked into her Arabic dishes like grape leaves, spinach and meat pies, and kibbeh will be dearly missed. Her grandchildren liked these dishes so much they would count down the days until ThaTha made them rather than how many days until Christmas. She was also famous for her meatballs, pumpkin bread, tarts, buckeyes, and broccoli casserole. 

Barbara was a Brooklyn Dodger fan that was forced into moving her love and loyalty to the New York Yankees.  She even referred to Derek Jeter as her “sweetie.” Many were surprised by her thorough knowledge of baseball and could talk about it with just about anyone. For many years she enjoyed all kinds of word games like Scrabble, Wordle, and Crossword Puzzles to keep her mind active. She was dedicated to her Catholic faith and always volunteered her time helping Our Lady of the Valley/Holy Cross; she was a Lector for the past few  years and decorated the church for religious holidays.

Barbara was the devoted wife of fifty-five years to the late Fred Akel (d. 2018); loving mother of Christine Akel of Boynton Beach, FL, Joanne and husband Michael D’Aloia of Wayne, Michelle Antonucci of Elmwood Park, and Renee and husband Andrew Centineo of Fairfax, VA; adored grandmother of Allison, Tyler, Christopher, Alexis, Victoria, Trevor, Caitlin, Jake, and Jenna. Loving sister of Adele Bache and husband Ronald, the late Joseph Skaff (d.2022) and wife Rosemary, Mary Vasile and husband Vincent and Victoria Hansen and husband Martin. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Barbara’s name, are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 or at www.stjude.org.

James Stanley Doland, age 93, of Wayne passed away peacefully in his home surrounded by family on Sunday, January 22, 2023.

Jim, and his twin brother Bill, were born in Walkerton, ON to Stan and Iva Doland. While growing up in Smiths Falls, James attended Smiths Falls District Collegiate Institute and the First Baptist Church. Following his graduation, Jim received a degree in Electronics from Ryerson Institute of Technology and returned to Ottawa to work for the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation as a technical producer. He worked there two years before being recruited by the ITT Corporation at which time he was sent to the Arctic to set up the Distant Early Warning Line (DEW line), during the Cold War. He was stationed at the northern most line some 500 miles north of the Arctic Circle just south of Banks Island for approximately four years. He endured temperatures of -60 degrees as well as 24 hours of darkness followed by 24 hours of light. This was a very exciting time in his life.

Near the end of his work in the Arctic, he was required to be in Rockford, Illinois for a period of time. He was able to find housing at the local YMCA where he met his future bride, Dorothy Strote. Jim and Dorothy fell in love, were engaged in three months and married six months later, on October 2^nd, 1960. In 1962, Jim and Dorothy relocated to Wayne, New Jersey where they bought a log cabin in Pines Lake and began attending Pompton Reformed Church. They welcomed the births of both of their daughters, Donna and Debra, and remained in Pines Lake for the rest of their lives together.

Jim was transferred to ITT’s Nutley, New Jersey, division where he worked as a Senior Quality Control Engineer. This phase of his career was focused on developing the first GPS satellite to be used by the US Navy’s submarine missile launch systems. His work required him to travel extensively and when able, he would bring the family along. He was an excellent provider, husband, and father.

Jim and Dorothy spent nearly every summer in Canada, at the family cottage, and hosted many guests over the years. Jim’s love of the Rideau Lake resulted in his acquiring countless boats over the years; affectionately known as his fleet. He loved the fact that he was the first person to own a fiberglass boat on the lake and he used his Glastron to teach many family members and friends to water ski, tube, and wakeboard. He also loved to sail and bought an 18 foot Sandpiper 565 which he treasured. However, the boat that got the most use was the pontoon which carried everyone that visited on tours up the lake for picnics or just a sunset cruise.

When he wasn’t out on the lake, Jim was inventing, building, puttering, or reading. He invented numerous board games over the course of his life. He built docks and sheds and was always looking for ways to improve things. He subscribed to a variety of magazines and read them all cover to cover. He even dabbled with writing. He wrote odes to loved ones and kept meticulous records of events that happened each day in his journals.

Jim was an exceptionally devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He and Dorothy cherished sixty-two years of a loving, Christ-centered marriage. Jim shared his faith in Christ by example. He was a servant who put the needs of others ahead of his own. He led his family with wisdom and patience.  He dearly loved his grandchildren and never missed an opportunity to encourage them to be the best they could be. He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Jim is survived by his two daughters, Donna De Block and her husband Michael of Wayne, NJ, and Debra Jones and her husband Ryan of Lombardy, ON, Canada. He is also survived by his six grandchildren;  Matthew De Block and his wife Taylor of North Haledon, NJ, Bethany De Block of Hoboken, NJ and her boyfriend Luke Boonstra, Natalie Kravacek and her husband Michael of Otty Lake, ON, Canada, and Madison, Rory, and Briar Jones of Smiths Falls, ON, Canada. Jim was predeceased by his wife Dorothy Doland, his twin brother William Doland, and his grandson Isaiah Doland.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s name may be made to the Pompton Reformed Church, 59 Hamburg Turnpike, Pompton Lakes, NJ, 07442.

Gladys E. Hess, of West Milford and a former longtime resident of Lake Hiawatha, passed away on Friday, January 20, 2023. She was 103 years young.

Born and raised in Hudson County, Gladys was one of Anthony and Margaret (Merkel) Bandel’s five dear children. She graduated from secretarial school and began her career at First Liberty Finance in Jersey City. One of the company’s clients just happened to be Frank Sinatra and Gladys enjoyed having lunch a couple of times with him. With her skills, including being proficient in two types of shorthand, she eventually took a job in New York City.

While her seven children were growing up, Gladys worked various jobs in retail before returning to the field of finance when she landed a job with Liberal Finance in Paterson and continued with them when they moved to Parsippany. She enjoyed working at Liberal Finance, her bosses and coworkers became and are her second family. A cherished part of this company for the next sixty years, she finally retired at 97! During the early years a man came brandishing a gun to commit a robbery. Everyone was ordered to get on the ground but she did not and began to argue with him. After he fired his gun, she realized this was real and got on the ground. She was very lucky that day.

Ask Gladys the secret to her longevity and she’d tell you “good coffee and fine wine” and, while that may be true, a lot had to do with her great attitude and active living. Gladys went through her whole life without a driver’s license, choosing instead to walk everywhere she needed or wanted to go, including walking 45 minutes to church. In fact, Gladys walked at least a mile every day until she was 98 years old.

Gladys’ thirst for adventure was seemingly unquenchable. In her seventies, she took a ride on the back of her grandson’s Harley motorcycle all the way from New Jersey through the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel enroute to Virginia. She was also known to ride on the handlebars of her son’s bicycle. She went hang gliding, parasailing, and she even rode a zip line when she was 95! Not too many people could say that they swam with the dolphins, floated in a hot air balloon, flew in a World War II biplane or in a helicopter (at the age of 101), but Gladys could. One time she had every intention of jumping from an airplane and parachuting to the ground. She was ready to go but the plane had engine trouble and that adventure had to be squashed. By now it should be clear that Gladys had a love of life.

Camping up in High Point State Park was a long-standing tradition that Gladys and some family members enjoyed for countless years. In fact, she camped until she was 102, and she loved this time away with family. It was a highlight of her summer she looked forward to every year.  One time, while camping, her fearless nature was tested again when, while sitting at a picnic table after lunch reading the paper, a bear approached her. Most people would run but not Gladys. She calmly sat there as that bear came right up to her face, and went back to reading hoping he would leave.  He then walked back down the path he had come from. Her love of travel took her from Cuba to Alaska, also traveling to other countries including Cananda, Italy, Germany, Australia and New Zealand.

Gladys loved a good book, enjoyed watching mysteries on television, dancing in conga lines and Tapamania with her sister at Macy’s and eating ice-cream. Simple pleasures like sitting on the boardwalk, admiring waves, smelling sea air, and watching people was something that she appreciated. The sounds and smells made her feel content no matter what the weather nor the temperature. Gladys was always up for a ride in the car down the shore or up to the mountains, enjoying nature.

Gladys had a great sense of humor. She laughed right along with her kids and grandchildren whenever they lovingly referred to her as “Mrs. Been There, Done That”. Her daughter recently took a picture of her standing under a sign with a dinosaur on it.

She was very proud of her children and so grateful that she was able to raise all seven of them on her own. She had the beautiful ability to have everyone in her family feeling and knowing they were the most important and most loved person in the world.

Gladys was a woman of great moral character. Once while on a trip by Amtrack train, the train crashed. Her only complaints were that she was late for her destination and no one offered her a drink.

Her moral and upright character were a testimony to her unshakeable faith in God. Gladys trusted God throughout her whole life, in the good times but also in the challenging times. Gladys always felt that her children and family were her greatest gifts from God, we know she was ours. Church was where she found comfort. Even as she aged she was able to go in person. When the weather did not permit, she watched Mass on television.  She always said the rosary and morning prayer prior to starting her day. Now, she is home in heaven, beginning her new life. Well done Gladys!    

Gladys was the cherished mother of: Alfred Hess of Elon, SC, Steven Hess of Lake Hiawatha, Gladys Tacinelli and her husband Tom of West Milford, Walter Hess and wife Diane of Laurens, SC, Eileen Strignile of Totowa, Thomas Hess and wife Tammy of West Milford, and Joseph Hess of Cherry Hill; awesome grandmother of: Robin and husband Bob, Virginia and husband Tom, Christina, Jennifer, Amy, Kelly, Thomas and wife Sonia, Trish, Suzane and husband Damian, Eric and wife Luba, Amanda, Mary and husband Frank, Anthony and wife Kim, Melissa and husband Robert, Angela, Christopher and wife Stephanie,  T.J. and wife Amber, Destiny and husband Mark, and Michael; much loved great-grandmother and great-great-grandmother; sister of Doris “Doll” and late husband Arnold “Woody” of Paramus; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her two brothers and other sister: Arthur, Walter and Margaret “Sis”.

THANK YOU FOR BEING OUR MOM, NANA, BIDDY, GREAT GRANDMA!

WE LOVE YOU NOW AND ALWAYS.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Gladys’ name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
Memorial Processing501 St. Jude PlaceMemphis, TN 38105-9959

Elaine LoTurco, age 80, of Wayne passed Thursday, January 19, 2023, with the comfort of her daughter and son-in law by her side.

Elaine was born to Andrew and Mary Matarazzo in Hawthorne,NJ. Her childhood was filled with love, caring and support  from her adoring parents and her only sister, Judith Langenbach. Elaine and Judith were extremely close and held a special sister bond.

Elaine  graduated from Hawthorne High School in Hawthorne, NJ in 1959. She loved her high school experience, which included being a Majorette, Choral and a choreographer for the variety show.  She also participated in clubs such as Photography, Art, French and Drama . 

After High School, Elaine danced on the Steel Pier in Atlantic City and Off- Broadway before opening her first dance studio, with her sister in Hawthorne NJ called the Tara Sisters Dance Studio. Elaine subsequently took over the business which was known as the Tara Dance Studio. She had a very successful career and continued teaching dance impacting and touching her students’ lives for over 25 years.

Elaine was loving, caring, and devoted to her family. She enjoyed traveling around the world  in her younger years, but once she had a family of her own, her enjoyment shifted to cherishing time spent with her family and taking family vacations.

Elaine met the love of her life Joseph LoTurco and they married on June 21, 1969 at St Anthony’s Church in Hawthorne, NJ.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-three years. Elaine and Joseph’s marriage was blessed with a daughter, Jolaine, a son-in law Donald and two beautiful grandchildren AJ and Alexa. Her grandchildren were the light of her life.

Elaine is survived by her husband Joseph, daughter Jolaine, son-in law Donald, grandchildren AJ and Alexa, sister Judith and husband Roy, nephew Kyle and extended family.

George M. Fallon, age 75 of Stockholm, NJ, died on Wednesday, January 18, 2023. He has lived in Stockholm since 1987.

George had worked as an inspector for the United States Postal Service in Manhattan during the 1980’s. He was very tech-savvy and began building websites in the 1990’s which led to a second career with Lucent Technologies in Whippany. He retired from Lucent in 2013.

George grew up in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, graduating from Wayne High School with the class of 1965. Soon there after he joined the Marine Corps and served during the Vietnam War. He was an active member of the Vietnam Veterans Association in Kenvil, very patriotic, and remained a proud Marine throughout his lifetime. In his free time, George enjoyed wood turning, fly-tying and fishing, and he really loved keeping a vegetable garden. Music was also an important part of his life having played the Irish drum and sang with The Kindred Spirits band at Sullivan’s Irish Pub for several years

While working at the Post Office in Manhattan, George met Betsy Knicos and it was love at first sight. George’s marriage proposal was unique, indeed; he was sitting on the couch while Betsy was nearby ironing. He looked at her and asked “do you want to get married?” The rest is history; they exchanged vows in Hardyston and had a reception at Jorgenson’s Inn on Rt. 23. They’ve enjoyed thirty-one years in a loving and fun marriage, and Betsy will miss him dearly.

George is survived by his wife, Betsy (nee Knicos) of Stockholm, NJ, one sister; Maureen Ferrara of Wayne, NJ, his brother; William Fallon, Jr. of Spruce Creek, FL, sister-in-law Anita Knicos, nieces Katie Macones and  Amanda Fallon and  nephews Chuck and Joe Ferrara and also eight much loved grand nieces and nephews.  He was pre deceased by his father William (1981), mother Ellen (2012) and sister Paddy (2019).

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in George's name are asked to consider donating to the following organization.  

Northern New Jersey Veterans Memorial Cemetery

75 North Church Rd

Sparta, NJ 07871

Carolyn J. Mitton, 92, a resident of Pownal, VT and formerly of Totowa, NJ, died Wednesday January 18, 2023 at the Southwestern Vermont Medical Center in Bennington. She was born in Newark, New Jersey November 2, 1930. She was the daughter of the late Richard J. Irwin, Sr. and Mildred (Ennis) Irwin. Carolyn received her education in New Jersey. She married William (Bill) James Mitton, Jr. on September 11, 1954. They made their home in Totowa, New Jersey until moving to Vermont in 1986. Bill died September 6, 2015.In earlier years Carolyn was employed at Capezio Ballet Makers, Inc. in New Jersey and after moving to Vermont she was employed part time in the Billing Department at Greenberg’s in Bennington. Carolyn enjoyed baking, sewing, tag sales, antiquing, and gardening.

Survivors include a son, Daniel Mitton Sr. of Las Vegas, NV; a daughter, Nancy Mitton of Pownal, VT; a nephew, Marinus Hook who resided with the family; two grandsons, Daniel Mitton, Jr. and Christopher Mitton both of Illinois; six great grandchildren, Daniel 3rd, Lincoln, Mason, Morgan, Wesley, and Wyatt; as well as several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Pownal Rescue Squad, 54 Ladd Brook Road, Pownal, VT 05261

Phylis Jean D’Onofrio (Duttenhoefer), age 74, of West Milford, passed away peacefully on Monday, January 16, 2023. Her family members were lovingly by her side at the time of her passing.

Born in Queens, NY, the child of Wilbur and Dorothy (Nafz) Duttenhoefer, Phylis was raised in Merrick, Long Island. As a young lady, she enjoyed singing in the choir in high school as well as in the church she grew up in, St John’s Lutheran Church, just down the street from her home. After graduating from Sandford H. Calhoun High School in Merrick with the Class of 1966, she got her first full-time job an operator for the telephone company.

One day, Phylis was invited by her friend to that friend’s boyfriend’s company party. The company was Sperry Gyroscope in Great Neck, Long Island and also in attendance at the party was a gentleman named Stephen D’Onofrio. While at the party, Stephen saw Phylis from across the room and noticed that she had a necklace with a large cross on it. Figuring that she was a good Catholic he went and introduced himself. As they were leaving the party, Stephen tried to impress Phylis with his brand new 1969 Pontiac GTO only to find out that her car, a 1968 Mercury Cougar was just as cool. Her taste in good cars only prompted him to want to ask Phylis out even more, so he did. Still feeling that need to impress her, their first official date was to a fancy seven course meal restaurant at 251 East 31st Street in Manhattan called Marchi’s. He succeeded! Phylis and Stephen had more dates after that and ultimately fell in love and were engaged within nine months of that first date. They married on Sunday, September 28, 1969 at St. John’s Lutheran Church on Old Mill Road in Merrick, NY. After the reception, they jumped into Phylis’ pale blue Cougar and drove off for their honeymoon to Montreal and Québec, Canada. On the way, Stephen got pulled over for speeding and, despite telling the officer that they were on their way to their honeymoon destination, the cop gave him a ticket anyway.

Phylis and Stephen’s first house as husband and wife was a co-op in Howard Beach, Queens. A job transfer prompted a move across the river and into the Beaver Brook Garden Apartments in Lincoln Park, NJ they moved. Soon after, in 1974, they bought their first home together at 219 Magnolia Road in Pompton Lakes. While there Phylis and Stephen were blessed with their first son Christopher. One night, about 2 years after Chris’ arrival, Phylis and Stephen decided to go out for a nice dinner. They chose Jorgenson’s Restaurant in nearby Stockholm. Truth be told, the dinner wasn’t that great but they would soon learn that a bad dinner was the least of their worries. As they walked to their car, out of the woods two men suddenly appeared. One put a knife to Phylis’ throat while the other put a gun to Stephen’s head. The assailants jumped into the back of Phylis’ car (they had to squeeze in because of Baby Chris’ car seat back there) and demanded that they be transported to Newark. Halfway there, one of the assailant’s said “All I want is five dollars” and they demanded to be dropped off in Kinnelon. Stephen was more than happy to oblige and their lives were spared. Arriving home, they apologized to the babysitter for being late, explaining that “they got held up” (literally). Having given all their cash to the robbers, Phylis and Stephen remember having to pay that babysitter with Kennedy half-dollar coins.

In 1974, Phylis and Stephen renewed their wedding vows at St. Mary’s R.C. Church in Pompton Lakes. Then, in 1978 their house in Pompton Lakes flooded. Knowing it was time to move to higher ground, Phylis and family moved to their present home in West Milford. Soon after, Phylis gave birth to their second son David. As a young mom, Phylis poured all of her love and energy into taking care of her boys. In between, she managed to find a little time to explore some artistic pursuits. She took up painting, both oils and watercolors, and making beaded jewelry. When David, her youngest reached sixth grade, Phylis returned to the workplace on a part-time basis. General Motors had just come out with a new car brand called Saturn. In an attempt to promote the cars, the local dealership, Maroon Saturn in Pompton Plains, displayed some models in the local malls. It was Phylis’ job to give customers a tour of the car and to answer any questions that they might have. Soon after, she worked at the dealership. Again, her job was to go over all the attributes of the cars for customers who were taking delivery. It was the perfect job for Phylis as she loved people and loved to talk. After working at Saturn, Phylis held other administrative positions until fully retiring in 2010 from Progressive Machine, Inc. of Ringwood.With Stephen retiring about the same time as Phylis, it was time to play! Playing to them meant lots of travel. On many of their trips they were joined by Stephen’s sister Emilie and brother-in-law Bill. Together they visited London, Paris, Vienna, Prague, Budapest, all of Italy, Northern and Southern Spain, and an ocean cruise from Venice to the Greek Isles and a highlight trip to Turkey. There was also a trip to Sicily with friends Annette and Christine, several trips with friends Katie and Lou, as well as twelve river vacations, some of which included cruises on the Seine River in France, the Danube River, the Rhine River, the Volga River in Russia with newfound friends Lucy and Martin Lester from Great Britain who they met on that cruise and travelled with to the Yangtze River in China, the Douro River in Portugal and the Elbe River in Germany.

Early in their marriage, Phylis joined a bowling league with her girlfriends at Butler Bowl on Route 23. She also enjoyed bowling in a mixed league with Stephen. Cats and dogs had a way of touching a soft spot in Phylis’ heart. Knowing that so many worthy pets just needed some love and a good home, she poured her heart into her work as a volunteer at the Tri-Boro Animal Welfare Shelter in Butler and the West Milford Animal Shelter. From 1969 to 2020 there was always a cat or two in her home. Over the many years Coco Puff, Mittens, Sooty, Dog, Bandit, Kensington, Mandy, Gabby, Baby, Sassy, Tiger Lily, Isys, Shadow, Simon, and Caesar all enjoyed good lives in the D’Onofrio home. Not to be outdone by a bunch of cats, there were also many D’Onofrio dogs. West Highland White Terriers or Westie’s were Phylis’ breed of choice and again, over the years, she had six: Snow Flake, Peaches, Rugby, Ashley, Sassie, and presently, Tassie.

Above all else, Phylis was devoted to her family. In their elder years, she welcomed her parents to live with her and Stephen in their home. She was a fantastic cook who liked to add her own artistic flair to the recipes she found - a dab of this and a pinch of that always made them taste better. Stephen especially loved her eggplant lasagna. Strong-willed, “No” meant “No” so you always knew where Phylis stood on an issue. That said, she was lovingly loyal to her family and a fierce defender of their honor. She had a memory like a bear trap and she was a classy woman who loved getting all dressed up and pretty for a fun occasion.

Phylis was the beloved wife of Stephen, blessed in marriage for 53 years. She was the loving mother of: Christopher D’Onofrio of Butler and David D’Onofrio of River Vale; dear sister-in-law of Emilie Stris and husband Bill of Valley Stream, New York, and dear aunt of Peter Stris and wife Alice of Cerritos, California. She is also survived by Tassie, her precious Westie.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Phylis’ name are asked to consider:

‍West Milford Animal Shelter
P.O. Box 72 Lycosky Drive

West Milford, NJ 07480

Please make check payable to WMASS

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Brian P. O’Reilly, age 58, of Ocean Grove and formerly of Wayne.  Brian passed away peacefully on Sunday January 15, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Brian was born in Pequannock and was raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne.  He was the youngest of five children to Hugh and Phyllis O’Reilly.  While growing up in Wayne, Brian took an interest in music and taught himself guitar.  As a young student attending Wayne Valley High School, he was a member of the high school marching band playing trombone.  He was also active in the school’s theatre program and qualified for the All-Eastern Chorus with his rendition of Ave Maria. Ever since he was young, Brian took an interest in politics, and as a student in high school he ran for Class President. 

Following his graduation from Wayne Valley High School with the class of 1982, he enrolled at Montclair State College where he earned his bachelor’s degree in Political Science.  He went on to Rutgers University Law School where in 1989 he received his Juris Doctor degree.  

After passing the New Jersey State Bar exam, Brian found employment quickly, from 1989 to 1990 he worked with the Appellate Division Court in Hackensack where he did legal research and writing as well a civil and criminal litigation.  He also had a private legal practice for many years in Wayne and Newark where he practiced Criminal Law, Family Law and General Civil Litigation.  He also worked for Stoldt, Horan & Kowal in Hackensack where he represented corporate clients in insurance defense and municipal law.  Brian also worked with Allstate Insurance Company as well as Vasios, Kelly & Strollo, P.C. in Union, NJ where he represented clients in medical malpractice insurance defense cases.  Along with his various expert skills in litigation, Brian also was a major advocate for Marriage-Equality at the time when the movement was getting underway.  Brian’s career as an Attorney spanned nearly thirty-five years where he was truly well loved and respected by his peers, clients and colleagues.

Brian lived most of his life in Wayne until moving to Ocean Grove in 2011.  Throughout his life he had a wide variety of interests.  Brian enjoyed reading as well as the self-publishing media called “blogging.”  He was an avid reader and liked keeping up with current events especially in the political genre, both local and national.  He and his family treasured their annual vacations to Cape Cod where they would take part in whale watching and other activities.  His family also took a wonderfully memorable trip to England.  Brian never lost his love for music. He kept up with his singing and sang in a local church choir after moving to Ocean Grove, NJ. 

Brian has been described by many people to be a true gentleman.  He was a genuine intellectual and had a truly diverse vocabulary and was a skilled wordsmith.  He had a deep love for his family and friends and will be forever remembered as a kind and caring man, as well as a true professional. Brian touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Brian is survived by his four siblings; his two sisters Jean O’Reilly of Wayne, NJ and Maura Kayal and her husband John of Wayne, NJ, his two brothers; Jack O’Reilly and his wife Mary of Wayne, NJ, and Dr. Michael O’Reilly of San Jose, CA, two nieces; Andrea Kayal of Midland Park, NJ, and Shannon Leahy of Rockaway, NJ, five nephews; Brendan O’Reilly of Wayne, NJ, Sean O’Reilly of Valley Village, CA, Jeffrey Kayal of Wayne, NJ, Ryan Kayal of Wayne, NJ, and Danny Kayal of North Carolina, two grandnieces Opal, and Fiona, and his dear friend Mark Laico of Linden NJ.  He was predeceased by his nephew Padraic O’Reilly, his parents Hugh and Phyllis O’Reilly, and his sister-in-law Saundra O’Reilly. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Brian’s name may be made to The Sharing Network Foundation, www.njsharingnetwork.org

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Nancy Jane (Roscoe) Boyle, 71, of Bloomingdale and formerly of Pompton Lakes, who passed away on Friday, January 13, 2023.

Born in Glen Ridge to Herbert E. Roscoe and Jane C. Van Winkle, she lived a short time in Norristown, PA, and Bloomfield, NJ prior to moving to Pompton Lakes, where she resided for the majority of her life. Nancy met the love of her life, Patrick Boyle, on July 1, 1969, not long after she graduated from Pompton Lakes High School. On Pat's first day on the job, as a Pompton Lakes police officer, he went to the local eatery, where she worked as a waitress, to get an ice cream soda. They became fast friends and then dated for a couple of years before marrying on May 13, 1972. Pat was Nancy's everything and she was heartbroken when he passed away in October 2013.Even though she was in chronic pain for most of her adult life, she never complained and always tried to bring joy to the lives of others. Every time she was faced with a new obstacle, she overcame it. Nancy fought for what she believed was right and would always lend a helping hand when she could. She was a member of the PTA, a proud PLHS Band Parent, and regularly volunteered to help out when needed. She was also her daughter's biggest cheerleader and supported her in all of her endeavors - whether it was selling girl scout cookies, making hoagies for the PLHS band, trying new hobbies, volunteering, or various business ventures. Some of Nancy's proudest personal accomplishments were being a nurse (and graduating at the top of her nursing school class), serving as a Pompton Lakes councilwoman and her time volunteering with CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates).

She loved spending time in Atlantic City with her family, watching true crime documentaries & ghost hunting shows, online shopping (a tad TOO much sometimes), taking random day trips and of course, her fur babies (cats).Nancy is survived by her loving daughter and best friend, Tracie Boyle Lawson, and son-in-law, David Lawson, of Riverdale, brother; Mark Roscoe and his wife Grace of Florida, sister-in-law; Cheryl Roscoe of Butler, four nieces; Danielle Roscoe of Butler, Nicole Beek of Bloomingdale, Tiffany Roscoe of Bloomingdale and Brittany Roscoe of Florida, five great-nieces and nephews and her extended Otero/Lawson family, who always welcomed her with open arms.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Nancy’s honor are asked to consider the DNA Doe Project or the Tri-Boro First Aid Squad as she was extremely appreciative for the services that they provide to families. https://dnadoeproject.org/donate/
To give by check, please mail to:

DNA Doe Project

200 S Main ST Suite 130-114

Sebastopol CA 95472

‍http://www.triborofirstaidsquad.org/donations.html
To give by check, please mail to:

Tri-Boro First Aid Squad Inc.

P.O. Box 222

Butler, New Jersey 07405

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Joseph Donaghy, age 89, of Wayne, NJ.  Joe passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 12, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Born to Patrick and Annie Donaghy in Claudy, County Derry, Northern Ireland, Joe was 1 of 10 children.  Together with his siblings – Henry, James, Nan, Jane, Patsy, Mary, Philomena, Francis, and Phonsie – Joe had a wonderful, happy childhood in the beautiful Irish hillside of Muldonagh.  Though he loved his family and his home, he set off to London as a young man, where he became a very skilled mason and bricklayer.  From there, he traveled to Toronto and ultimately, to New York, where he would put down roots and become a US citizen.

It was at this time when Joe met his wife, Catherine (nee McCormack).  She was also an Irish immigrant, and had travelled to New York from Moorechurch, in County Meath, Ireland.  A secretary for Con Edison, Catherine loved to attend the traditional Irish dances, and on one fateful night, she met Joe at City Center.  Romance blossomed and in 1967, they were married in the Bronx.  Joe and Catherine started their life together in Riverdale, and later moved to Oradell, New Jersey, where they welcomed their daughter, Derry Anne in 1976.

Often recognized for his solid work ethic and quality craftsmanship, Joe had a successful career in construction that spanned 50 years.  Initially, he worked on buildings throughout Manhattan, and it wasn’t uncommon to find him on skyscrapers with the NYC skyline as a backdrop.  One of his favorite jobs was working on the Chrysler Building, where he repaired brickwork on the exterior many stories into the sky.  As the years progressed, he worked more locally in New Jersey, and became a very well respected mason in the Bergen County area.

One of Joe’s biggest passions was Gaelic football.  He began playing the sport as a young boy with his hometown club of Fore Glen.  While in London, he played with St. Joseph’s Gaelic Football Club, and later with the Toronto Senior Football Club.  Immediately upon his arrival in New York, Joe joined the Monaghan Club, where he played for many years – leading them to victory as Captain and Full-Back in the 1962 K.O. Final.  In 1966, Joe was elected Manager of the team and held that position until 1968, when the Monaghan Club won their first New York Championship.  In 1969, he became Manager of the New York team.

Joe was known for his great sense of humor, quick wit, and outgoing personality.  A devoted father, husband, and friend, Joe will surely be missed by all who knew him.

Joe is survived by his loving daughter, Derry Anne, his beloved younger brother Phonsie, numerous nieces and nephews, a host of lifelong friends, and his little dog, Orla.  He was predeceased by his wife, Catherine in 2008.

Diane Bernert, age 75 of Winter Springs, Florida and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully in Florida on Thursday, January 12, 2023. Her daughter was lovingly at her bedside when she passed.
Diane grew up in West Paterson, NJ and graduated from Passaic Valley High School and then earned her Master's Degree from Seton Hall University. She was employed by the Little Falls Board of Education as a third-grade teacher in a career spanning four decades. She enjoyed going to work while encouraging children to learn.
Diane enjoyed a loving marriage to her husband, Frederick, that lasted thirty-four years before his passing in 2009. She was a devoted wife and a nurturing mother. Her daughter, Kristin, recalls how her mother often read to her when she was a child, and Diane remained a supportive and encouraging mom throughout the years. Diane found the ultimate joy in being called “Gigi” by her adorable granddaughter, Olivia. Diane loved spending time with Olivia, reading to her, and playing games together. Olivia cherished her time with her grandmother and will miss her dearly.
In retirement, Diane continued to lead an active lifestyle.  She was enthusiastic about travel and celebrating the arts.  She enjoyed the theater, visiting museums, art exhibits and events, and attending concerts. Her loyalty, kindness, and fun-loving spirit also earned her many lifelong friendships.
Diane is survived by her daughter; Kristin Shields and her husband Thomas of Winter Springs, Florida, one granddaughter; Olivia Shields, and her brother; Dennis Babich of Woodland Park, NJ. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Frederick Bernert in 2009.
For those wishing to make a donation in Diane’s memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Patricia Ann Kaune (nee Kane).  Patricia passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 11, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Pat was born and raised in Paterson NJ.  She and her sister Joan were raised by Harold and Catherine Kane.  Following the death of her mother, Harold remarried Elsie, who had 2 daughters, Ida Sugalski and Elsie Zaky.   As a young lady growing up in Paterson, Pat attended St John High School where she excelled in academics and graduated in 1951.

Following her graduation from high school, Pat found work quickly as a medical assistant with Dr. Sall’s medical office in Paterson.  Dr. Sall eventually partnered with another physician, Dr Myers.  Pat’s career with Sall/Myers Inc in Clifton spanned over thirty-five years where she was eventually promoted to Medical Billing Specialist.  Pat retired in 2010 and was able to fully enjoy and revel in her retirement.  Pat was truly dedicated to her work and was sincerely loved and respected by her peers and colleagues.

In the late 1950’s Pat met a handsome young man by the name Amos Kaune while at a restaurant.  Pat and Amos hit it off  and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on January 30, 1960 they became husband and wife.  The newlyweds settled in Passaic at first then moved to Clifton where they remained for the rest of their lives together.

Pat had a true love of music, particularly music of the jazz genre.  She worked closely with her husband Amos managing their jazz club, Gulliver's.   Some of her favorite jazz musicians included Thelonious Monk, Roy Eldridge, Bucky Pizzarelli and Mercer Ellington. Pat was a genuinely dedicated wife to Amos and the two cherished more than fifty years of a loving and loyal marriage together until Amos’ passing in 2012.  She was not only dedicated to her husband, but Pat was also devoted to her Catholic Faith.  She and her husband were parishioners of Holy Trinity Church in Passaic for many years.

Pat was a quiet and private person and truly a “salt of the earth” type of lady.  She was easy going and had a wonderful way about her.  She had a talent for making people feel comfortable and brought smiles to those around her.  Pat was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sorely missed by her family and friends alike.

Pat is survived by her niece Patricia Bassetti of Alpharetta, GA, her nephew Norman Sergeant of Wharton, NJ, her great nephew Brendan O’Dea of Alpharetta, GA, her nieces, Tara Head of Hanson, MA, Lisa Marie Foust of Seabrook, TX, her sister-in-law Nancy Kaune of Seabrook, TX.  She was predeceased by her husband Amos Kaune in 2012 and three sisters.

In lieu of flower, donations in Patricia's name may be made to Alzheimer's Association, 425 Eagle Rock Ave Suite 203, Roseland, NJ 07068.  http://www.alz.or

Martin F. Sheridan, age 80 of Toms River, NJ, and formerly of Wayne, NJ and Norwalk, CT, died peacefully on Wednesday, January 11, 2023 surrounded by his loving wife and devoted children.

Marty was born in 1942 to Mike and Madelyn Sheridan of Jersey City, NJ. After the death of his mother, he was raised by his father, a Jersey City policeman, alongside his brothers Mike and Danny. Marty recalled his youth fondly and loved to share stories from his childhood and college days. He attended St. Michael’s High School in Union City where he met his high school sweetheart Bonni. Marty, named after his Olympic Gold Medalist uncle Martin J. Sheridan, was a star athlete whose passion and skill in football earned him a scholarship to Upsala College where he received a degree in Chemistry. After graduation, Marty and Bonni were married on October 3, 1964 at St. Paul’s Church in Princeton, NJ. They have loved each other very much and enjoyed a truly good life during their fifty-eight years of marriage. Marty began his career at Uniroyal where he proved himself and made lifelong friends. During his successful career, he also worked for Raybestos, Star Glo Rubber Manufacturing, Becton Dickinson, Ames Manufacturing, and R.T. Vanderbilt. He was very technically savvy with an expert knowledge of the rubber industry. He also contributed a great deal to the 14th Edition of the Vanderbilt Rubber Handbook before retiring to Toms River, NJ about ten years ago. After residing a few years in Wallington, NJ, he and his wife moved to their first home in Wayne, NJ where they raised their three children. Here he enjoyed playing in a local softball league, coaching basketball, and volunteering his time to the community. Marty and Bonni always made sure that their door and table were open to old and new friends alike, they created a home where all were welcome. He always believed the life worth living was the life that gave.

He was known by many names over the years. To his cousins and childhood friends, Butch. As a friend and husband, Marty. Then Dad, Uncle Marty, Grandpa, and his favorite Grandpa Gorilla. He always looked forward to every opportunity to spend time with his family, especially his grandchildren. He loved spending time with all of them, watching their sports, school events, theatre and dance performances, and more. He was so very proud of each of them and loved them very much. Marty was also an avid reader and movie fan, and he loved to play golf. He was always willing to share his knowledge and wisdom, and was often found imparting life-lessons to his kids and grandkids and others. Marty also enjoyed spending summers with his family at Long Beach Island on the Jersey Shore. His memory will be treasured by his family and friends for many years to come. Marty is survived by his beloved wife, Bonni (Kathleen Sheridan) and their three children; Marty Sheridan and his wife Robin and their children Sam, Jake and Emma; Sue Corb and her husband Kevin and their children Maddie, Shannon and David; and Kara Keene and her husband Ben. Marty was predeceased by his three siblings: Margaret Kirk, Daniel Sheridan, and Michael Sheridan.

For those wishing to make a donation in Marty’s memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Theresa Joan Giordano (Messineo), age 93, of Bloomingdale and formerly of Pompton Lakes and Florida, passed away peacefully on Tuesday afternoon, January 10, 2023.

Born in New York City, Theresa was the oldest of parents Frank and Rose (Rigano) Messineo’s three children and was raised in the Canarsie section of Brooklyn, New York, She eventually moved to Passaic and Fair Lawn, NJ. After graduating from high school, she worked as a telephone switchboard operator. If you close your eyes and think back, you could almost hear her greeting someone who dialed “O”…..”Operator, what’s the number?”

In 1948, Theresa married Anthony “Tony” Giordano and they moved to 21 East Sixth Street in Clifton. There, they were blessed with their first three children: Joanne, Patty, and Debbie. With three kids, that house got too small so the moved to 160 Washington Avenue in Clifton. There, they caught lightning in a bottle when “Baby Susan” was born.

With four little ones, Theresa dedicated herself to being a full-time homemaker and mother to her children. Who could ask for a better mom than Theresa? She poured herself into her children’s lives, volunteering as a member of the school PTA and attending all of their school events and milestone moments. She was a fantastic baker and her children were the lucky recipients of all her delicious treats. Theresa could often be seen in the kitchen with her daughters by her side. They in turn became skilled bakers who passed it on to their children.

When her children reached an age of relative independence, Theresa returned to the workplace where she worked as a school’s switchboard operator. She later moved to Florida and worked in sales.

In the 1980’s, Theresa met The Lord Jesus Christ when her daughter invited her to a church in Clifton. She soon grew in her newfound faith and her walk with the Lord lead her to Calvary Temple in Wayne. She was even there for the groundbreaking of the church’s new location on Preakness Ave. Throughout the years Theresa loved the Sunday worship services, the music that energized her soul and drew her closer to God’s side through praise and encouragement, the life-giving messages from Pastor Fogel, and the sisters and brothers in the Lord whom she attended with. She volunteered in many capacities at Calvary and one of the all-time highlights of her life was getting to take a trip to the Holy Land.

As a young woman, Theresa enjoyed bowling and she also loved to dance. She even took lessons at the Arthur Murray Dance Studio. When Christ came into her heart, she developed a habit of reading His word, the Holy Bible regularly. It became one of her favorite pastimes. Her other favorite activity was spending time with her children and grandchildren. She was the most fun grandmother a kid could hope for and she loved to spoil them with little gifts that she’d get for them from The Dollar Store. Theresa's grandchildren affectionately referred to her as “Grandma with the orange hair” and some of them thought she lived on an airplane because she went to Florida so much.

Theresa would be the first to admit that her life was not always easy. That’s probably why one of her favorite readings from the Bible was Psalm 23. Today her family mourns her passing but they are grateful to God for her life and they are happy the words of Psalm 23 verse 6 are now a realized reality for her.

Psalm 23:6
Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

Theresa was the most loving mother of: Joanne Martino (predeceased in 2009) and her husband Ray of Hewitt, Patty Sudol (predeceased in 2021) and her husband Ronnie of Toms River, Debra DiGiorgio and husband Lex of Wayne, and Susan Lopez and her husband Ray of Pompton Lakes; adoring grandmother of: Michele Martino (predeceased in 2017), Roseanne Gonzalez and husband Jayson, Tina Martino, Ron Sudol, Jr. and wife Nicole, Gina Lopez and her partner Bob, Chris Lopez and wife Kate, Marissa Buklad and husband Corey, Joey DiGiorgio, and Anthony DiGiorgio (predeceased in 2020); cherished great-grandmother of: Carissa, Hayley, Joseph aka “J.J.”, Roman, Raylen, Emma, Ethan, Nora, Mason, and Noah; dear sister of Frank Messineo and wife Julie of Lacy Township, and Georgia Allen of Punta Gorda, Florida; and dear aunt of her nieces and nephews. Theresa was also predeceased by her former husband Anthony in 2016.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Theresa’s name are asked to consider donations to one of the following worthy organizations:

Health Center at Bloomingdale
Attention:  Recreation Committee
255 Union Avenue
Bloomingdale, NJ 07403

Calvary Temple
1111 Preakness Avenue
Wayne, NJ 07470

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Angelo D. Cirelli, age 83, of Pompton Lakes, NJ.  Angelo passed away peacefully after a courageous battle with cancer on Tuesday, January 10, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Angelo was born in Jersey City, NJ and was the older of two children to Americo and Irene Cirelli.  He grew up in North Bergen, NJ and as a young boy he was always involved in several different sports, however, baseball in particular was his favorite.  He attended St Peter’s Prep in Jersey City during his high school years but graduated from Cliffside High School in Cliffside Park, NJ.  While a student in high school, Angelo played basketball and baseball in school and on extracurricular affiliated teams. Following his graduation from high school with the class of 1956, Angelo worked with his father at the family business, a car lot in North Bergen, NJ.  Angelo felt it in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army.   Angelo was stationed in Kansas for a short time then was shipped out to Germany where he would spend the rest of his time in the armed forces.

Subsequent to his honorable discharge from the US Army, Angelo found work quickly as a truck driver.  He was working for a company called Rentex as a truck driver and he took notice of one of the secretaries there, a young attractive girl by the name of Betty Jane Youpatoff.  It was a snowy day in winter when Angelo noticed her walking home from the office.  What really caught his eye, and what provoked him to approach her was the manner in which she walked.  Angelo and Betty Jane hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on April 22, 1972.  After getting married, the couple settled in Passaic for a short time. While Betty was pregnant with her son Angelo, they moved to Pompton Lakes where their son was born and have been there ever since.

Angelo continued his career as a truck driver working for Rentex, located in Passaic, and then Aramark and Hygiene Linen, both located in Newark, NJ where he was promoted to Route Manager until retiring in 2012.  Retirement was not in the cards for Angelo, so he took a position as a flower delivery driver with Perry’s Florist in Glen Rock, NJ.  Angelo eventually fully retired about five years later due to his health concerns.

In Angelo’s spare time he enjoyed playing golf in and around the Northern New Jersey area.  He also enjoyed dining out with his wife Betty, his brother-in-law Michael and his wife Terry.  He was an avid reader of books, especially spy and suspense novels.  He loved listening to music, particularly music of the big band era, as well as Frank Sinatra.  He also enjoyed watching gangster movies such as The Godfather, Casino, and Goodfellas, and as of late treasured completing his crossword puzzles. And he was a passionate sports fan, especially of the NY Yankees and NY Giants.

Those who knew Angelo were well aware that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to him than providing for and spending time with his family.  Although Angelo could be stubborn and a little short tempered, he was a truly caring man and was loved by his family and friends alike.  He was outgoing, funny, and had an infectious personality that brought smiles to those around him.

Angelo will forever be remembered as a devoted father, husband, and brother, as well as a true patriot.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Angelo is survived by his four children: his daughters Liza Cirelli of Greer, SC, and Monique Meadows Auburn, AL, his sons Dennis Failla of Parsippany, NJ, and Angelo Cirelli of Pompton Lakes, NJ, his sister Cecelia Cirelli of Paramus, NJ, and his brother-in-law Michael Youpatoff of Toms River, NJ.  He was predeceased by his wife Betty Jane Cirelli in 2019, and by his parents Americo and Irene Cirelli.

Those planning to make a donation in Angelo’s name are asked to consider Shriners Hospitals for Children, Attn: Office of Development, 2900 North Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607.  http://www.lovetotherescue.org

Vicki Paul VanZetta, 52, caring wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend, passed away peacefully on January 10 at her home in Ringwood, NJ after a brave battle with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease).  She was surrounded by her husband, family and close friends.

Born May 3, 1970, from New Milford, NJ, Vicki was a kind and warm soul who made everyone feel like they were the most special person on earth.  Generous and thoughtful, beautiful inside and out, there’s nothing she wouldn’t do to help friends or family.

While attending New Milford High School, Vicki overcame cancer in her teens and was the star of her high school tennis team. She earned her degree in Recreational Therapy at Ithaca College and her master’s degree in Special Education.  In her professional life, for 30 years Vicki was dedicated to helping children with special needs, as an Early Intervention Specialist.  

In her personal life Vicki loved being with her husband, friends and family.  As an outdoor enthusiast, she spent her free time exploring the world through biking, hiking, kayaking, camping, and skiing.  You name it, Vicki did it.  Vicki also had an incredible sense of humor.  If you asked her, she would tell you she’s the funniest person she ever knew (and she’d be right!).  She just loved to laugh and joke and sing (usually Bruce Springsteen songs), and just enjoy life.  Vicki was an inspiration to everyone on how to live, love, and laugh. She left an imprint on everyone she touched, whether they met her for 5 minutes or knew her for 50 years.  She made everyone’s world a better place.

During her battle with ALS, Vicki was grateful to her devoted husband James who took care of her and stood by her 24/7.  She was so thankful to her huge circle of friends and loving family who were there to constantly lift her spirits, just as she had done for countless others throughout her life.  “Inspiration breeds inspiration and love breeds love.” She will be sorely missed by so many.

Vicki is survived by her husband James VanZetta, mother Joan Paul, brother Josh and his wife Melissa, sister Liz Branshaw and her husband Phil, nieces Carolina Paul Lastres, Sammi and Devorah Branshaw, many dear friends, and her beloved cats Bob and Marley.  She was preceded in death by her father, David Paul.

In lieu of flowers or other condolence items, donations in Vicki’s name can be made to The ALS Association (www.als.org) , Bridging Voice (www.bridgingvoice.org) or Hark-ALS (www.hark-als.org).

James “Chippy” Sorce passed away peacefully at home with his family at his bedside on Sunday, January 8, 2023.  He was 94 years old. He was born in Garfield, the son of Paul and Vincenza Sorce. Chippy graduated from Garfield High School.  His father had passed away when he was just one year old, and he worked any chance he got to help his mom as she was widowed and raising seven children.

Chippy was in the US Army and served his country proudly. He was a Korean War veteran with the First Cavalry Division. He was awarded the Korean Service Medal with two Bronze Service Stars for valor, the United Nations Service Medal, and the Combat Infantry Badge before being honorably discharged in 1952.

Chippy married Joan Augustowski, who lived just a few blocks away in Garfield.  The two, with many others, always hung out at Babe’s Sweet Shop on Jewel Street in Garfield. When Chippy went into the Army he carried a photo of himself and Joan standing on a lakeside beach along Route 23.  They married on June 27, 1953 at Our Lady of Sorrows Church in Garfield and honeymooned at Brookdale on the Lake in Scotrun, Pennsylvania.  After starting out in Garfield they moved to Wayne in 1965. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of sixty-nine years that was blessed with one son James and a daughter Jacalyn and four grandchildren Ashley, Nicole, Gina, and James.

Chippy and Joan were parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.

Chippy was owner of S&S Painters and Decorators in Wayne for 40 years.  He was a hard-working man that was dedicated to his family. He was always thinking and often quiet in that thought. He enjoyed hunting, fishing, and working outdoors – especially around the yard.

He and Joan were able to enjoy travel all over the world including: family vacations to Brookdale on the Lake in Scotrun, PA, Hawaii two times, Aruba, St Thomas, and Sanibel Island in Florida. For many years they also enjoyed the companionship of their English Setter-Collie mix Freckles, Frisky the cat, and a white outdoor bunny named Peter.

He was the loving husband of Joan for sixty-nine years; devoted father of James S. Sorce and his wife Patricia of Sparta, Jacalyn Sorce Potter and her husband Kenny of Oak Ridge; he was the cherished grandfather of Nicole Sorce, Gina Sorce, James Wamback and his fiancé Kaitlyn Wilson, and Ashley Wamback Lobban and her husband Robert; he was also predeceased by all his siblings: Samuel Sorce, Josephine Lech, Charles Sorce, Paul Sorce, Leonard Sorce, and Mary Darata.

It is with great sadness that we announce the sudden passing of Marie Padula, (nee Trifari), age 91, a long-time resident of Wayne, NJ on Sunday, January 8, 2023.

Marie was born to Joseph and Natalina Trifari in Long Branch NJ, where her family lived until she was 11 years old.  Marie was the third oldest of 8 children.  She carried the happy memories of that childhood home in her heart all her life.  When life circumstances changed, the family moved to Paterson, NJ, where her mother’s extended family resided.  Marie settled into her new life with her sister and brothers, and proudly made the town her own, forming beautiful life- long friendships.  She graduated from Central High School and chaired the committees that planned every reunion for her class through the 65th year.

From her vast circle of Paterson friends, she met and married Michael Padula in 1952.  They eventually left the familiarity of Paterson when they moved with their two young daughter to Wayne, NJ in 1959.  However, she did not leave behind the early friendships she cultivated there.  New relationships also began with families in Lions Head Lake and all parts of Wayne.  Actually, she made friends wherever she was and in the true spirit of Marie, she sustained every one of those friendships throughout her entire life.

Marie was the parish secretary at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne while it was being established and during the early years.  She became a respected pillar of the parish and was once proud to serve as President of the Rosary Society.  She remained active in Amity and the Seniors Group and continued to be a faithful and giving parishioner.  Her Christian faith was evident in the way she lived her life.  She served those in need, and her benevolent generosity benefited many charitable organizations.  Once her grandchildren were grown, she became a nanny.  The three families she cared for over the years still hold a special place in their heart for her.

Marie’s outgoing personality, positive energy, sense of style, and devotion to her friends and family is legendary.  Words that many use to describe her are larger than life, immortal, the matriarch, a fashionista, glamorous, a class act, vivacious, and a force.  Yes, she was a force of life and love.  Any superlative would be befitting to describe Marie.

Marie was active her whole life.  She bowled back in the day and was an avid tennis player, belonging to many leagues.  She walked for miles every day well into her 80’s. She loved watching football and tennis.  She knew all the stats, and could call a penalty before the officials.  She frequented AC and was also a competent horse race handicapper.  Yes, she loved all games, including her weekly card games with her friends.  She was even playing gin rummy with Bill the night before she passed away.  She enjoyed NYC, Broadway, and music (especially Streisand).  She later supported local theater productions.

Marie loved to travel.  Along with her husband, she visited most islands; Paradise Island and Aruba being her favorites.  They spent their 25th Wedding Anniversary in Monaco.  She traveled throughout Europe, and later enjoyed “girl trips” with different groups of friends to all parts of the US.  She loved the monument parks, as well as the ocean and beaches.  She spent summers at the Jersey Shore.  Marie loved to cook, entertain and decorate her home for every holiday, up to and including this past Christmas.

Family was most important to Marie. Along with her daughters, grandchildren and great grandchildren, she adored her dozens of nieces and nephews and many godchildren who always included her in all of their important life events.  Her favorite night of the year was the Trifari Christmas Party, where she will be forever renowned and remembered for “The Scroll.” She has wonderful sisters-in-law, loving cousins, and cherished friends, with whom she enjoyed consistent kinship.  Her greatest sadness was the passing of her sister and five of her brothers, as well as many treasured friends.  Her husband of 62 years also predeceased her in 2016.

She will be missed by her loving family and friends as she was undeniably a special person who made everyone feel like they were the special one.  The world already feels less vibrant without her.

Marie is survived by her two loving daughters:  Janice Billera of Basking Ridge, and Roberta Enright of Totowa; three adored grandchildren:  William Enright and his wife Kristen, Michael Enright and his wife Mariel, and Michele Scasserra and her husband Michael; five precious great-grandchildren:  Mason, Ethan, Emilia, Calvin, and Elijah; and one brother Frank Trifari.

Leonard A. Agrusti of Wayne passed away Sunday, January 8th 2023 at age 80, with the comfort of family by his side.

He is survived by his wife, Mary Ellen; his sons, Paul (Evelyn) and Adam (Myung Hwa); his grandchildren, Leonard Carl (Stephanie), Thomas (Abby), Mary Lee, and Leonard Han; and 2 great-grandchildren, Weston and Owen.

Leonard, born and raised in Paterson, New Jersey, was known for being the owner of the Colonial Grille and Chamberlain Shopping Center in Paterson. He went to St. Mary's Grammar School, followed by Oratory Prep School, and continued his education at Marquette University and Fairleigh Dickinson University, where he graduated with a Master's degree in pharmaceutics. After working in the industry such as owning A & A Drugs and as a pharmaceutical rep in NYC, he took over the Colonial Grille from his father, due to his father's health issues. Leonard sold the restaurant in 2001, going head first into numerous organizations to give back to the community.

Leonard served for the Rotary, Elks, Fidelians, as well as three First Aid Squads: Tri-borough, Passaic County Sheriff's, and Wayne. He was a Lifetime Member for the First Aid Squad with numerous awards and taught CPR, was Exalted Ruler of the Elks, President of the Fidelians, and Governor of District 7490 for the Rotary. He was proud to take on whatever responsibilities were needed, and was always the first to volunteer and step up to accomplish any goal or challenge placed before him. He even was the Cub Master of Paterson where his sons were Cub Scouts. He will be missed by the many lives he touched throughout the years, and leaves behind a lasting legacy, for which his family is very proud.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Alicia Waldeck, age 93, a long-time resident of Montville and most recently of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, January 8, 2023.

Alicia was born in Monaville, West Virginia, a genuine coal miner’s daughter. Along with her sister Dolores and brother Joe, Alicia was raised in Monaville by her parents Joseph and Dolores (Carrizo) Lozano, who were both originally from Bacares, Spain. The family then moved to Newark, NJ where Alicia graduated from high school.

As a young woman Alicia enjoyed frequent travel. Her travels included ski vacations out west and trips to Spain with her sister and close family. One time, the ski club she belonged to combined with another ski club for a trip to Europe. During that trip, Alicia met Bob who was blessed with an outgoing personality, a great sense of humor, and an inner kindness that was apparent to her in no time. They skied together in Europe and quickly fell for each other. They married on Saturday, November 21, 1959.

After their marriage, Alicia and Bob’s first home as husband and wife was in Bob’s two-hundred-year-old family homestead which stood in the vicinity of what was then known as the infamous “Killer Bend” of Route 23 in Wayne.  Bob and his father built Alicia’s dream home in Montville where they moved their family to in 1966. Alicia lived in Montville until just eight months ago when she moved to the newly constructed Brightview Gardens in Wayne.

Alicia was the classic homemaker who provided a clean home filled with warmth and love where the togetherness of family was always valued. She was ever present at her children’s school functions and milestone moments. Her Sunday family dinners were always delicious and never missed. During the holidays she was famous for her apple and pumpkin pies.

When their children were still very young, Alicia and Bob, along with her sister Dolores, managed to find the money to purchase an A frame chalet in Stockbridge, Vermont. The cost of the house at the time was a mere eight-thousand dollars. Every summer, the family vacationed there, and every winter, they would ski together on the slopes of nearby Pico Mountain Ski Resort.  

Alicia eventually returned to the workplace in various administrative jobs, the most recent being with Goulds Pumps in Fairfield. Along with retirement came the blessing of two grandsons, Bobby and Christian. Alicia and Bob thoroughly enjoyed spending their well-deserved leisure time with the boys. They took regular trips to their house in Long Valley and never missed any of their sporting events, concerts, or any other school activity. One of their greatest joys was taking them skiing which Alicia did until she was seventy. They could not have been more proud of those boys!

Alicia along with her husband Bob and family experienced tragedy several times in their life journey. They lost a beautiful daughter Laura Waldeck at age five to cancer and then in 1985 their son Robert was killed in an auto accident at age 19. The loss of her children had a profound effect upon their lives, causing many hard days. But through those hard days, it was the love and support of strong family ties that helped pull them through. Despite the pain of loss, Alicia was able to experience a sense of gratefulness for the blessings in her life.

Surviving to mourn her passing are her two loving daughters: Karen Lutz and her husband Walter Lutz of Springfield, and Roberta Diaz and her husband John Diaz of Caldwell; two adored grandchildren: Bobby Diaz and Christian Diaz, and nieces Lisa Smith and Sandra Massarano.  Alicia was the beloved wife of Robert “Bob” Waldeck, blessed in a loving marriage for 50 years until his passing on March 24, 2010; and the dear sister of Dolores Lozano, her brother Joseph Lozano and his wife Mary who all predeceased her.  

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Alicia’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Ruth Marie Alloway, (nee Young), age 92, of Wayne, NJ.  Ruth passed away peacefully on Friday, January 6, 2023 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Ruth was born in Jersey City, NJ and was the only child of Naomi and George Young.  She grew up in the Pacakanck Lake.  Following her graduation from high school, Ruth attended Grove City College where she earned her Bachelors Degree in Mathematics.  She later attended Jersey City State Teachers College where she earned her Teacher’s Certification.  Later she earned her Master’s Degree as a Reading Specialist at Kean College.

Following her education and certification as a teacher, Ruth found work quickly at Preakness School in Wayne where she taught fourth grade students.  Ruth taught there for about four years then took a position as a Reading Specialist in Woodbridge, NJ.  Ruth then accepted another teaching position at Colonel White High School in Dayton Ohio from.  Ruth moved back to New Jersey and took a position as a teacher in Passaic County Technical Vocational School in Wayne. During that time she also held a position as an Adjunct Math Professor in Paterson University of New Jersey.  Ruth’s career as a Teacher spanned forty-five years until her retirement in 1995.  During that time, she touched the lives of countless children and students of all ages.

Ruth was past president of the Sigma Sigma Sigma Sorority at Grove City College in PA while a student there. She was also past president of Colonia Branch American Association of University Women, as well as past president of Avenal Junior High School PTA. She was a member of Packanack Lake Community Church, and a member of YM-YWHA.  She was a longtime member of the Pines Lake Seniors in Wayne, as well as a member of Wayne Adult Community Center in Wayne NJ.  She was also a member of Mountain Squares and Lakeland Square Dance Club.

One of Ruth’s most cherished past times was travel.  Ruth traveled throughout the world and her destinations included Norway, Singapore, Portugal, Sweden, Malaysia, Spain, Denmark, Thailand, France, Switzerland, England, Germany, China, Scotland, Wales, Ireland, Argentina, Chile, Australia, Austria, Uruguay, New Zealand, Fiji, Turkey, Romania, Bulgaria, Canada, Mexico, Hungary, Kenya, Egypt, Iceland, Caribbean Islands, and the Netherlands.  She was truly dedicated to her Christian Faith and was a devoted member of United Methodist Church in Wayne for many years.  It was clear to everyone that knew Ruth that her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Ruth than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Ruth was a truly special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by all that knew her.  She will be forever remembered as a devoted teacher and a loving and caring mother and grandmother.

Ruth is survived by her children, her son Dr. James A. Alloway and his wife Janet, two daughters; Reverend Lynn Alloway, and Ruth Ann Rushe and her husband Dr. Todd Rushe, and six grandchildren; Christian Alloway, Alexis Alloway, Sandie Alloway, Aubrey Rushe, Eric Rushe, and Shelby Rushe.  She was predeceased by her parents George and Naomi Young.

Christopher “Chris” J. Brozuski, age 67 of Oak Ridge, passed Friday, January 6, 2023.

He was born to the late Charles and Victoria Brozuski in Denville, New Jersey.  He was raised in the White Meadow Lake section of Rockaway Township and graduated from Morris Hills High School with the Class of 1974.  During his high school years Chris played trumpet with the high school’s band and marching band.  He continued his education at the RETS Institute in Nutley where he received his Associates Degree as a Certified Electronics Technician.

As a young man he was a paperboy in White Meadow Lake where he would eventually work in the maintenance department of the lake.  He also worked at the ShopRite in Rockaway’s produce department during high school and while attending RETS. His degree as a Certified Electronics Technician would take him to the Casio Corporation in Parsippany, Bell Labs in Whippany and as an independent contractor for a time.  Over the last fifteen years he has worked as a Technology Coordinator for several school districts including Metuchen, Morris Plains, and through 2022 he worked with the Wharton Borough School District.

Chris met Cindy Vergano on a blind date on November 22, 1980 at a dance club in Andover.  He proposed marriage after one month of dating and Cindy said she was not ready.  It took three and a half years for Cindy to wrap her mind around marriage and they tied the knot on June 10, 1984 at Our Lady of Consolation Church, Wayne and enjoyed a honeymoon in Key West, Florida.  Their marriage was blessed with a son Greg, and they enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of thirty-eight years.

Chris will be lovingly remembered for his ability to fix just about anything.  He was like the Energizer Bunny paired with the all-knowing skills and ability of the famous television personality MacGyver. He had every imaginable tool and always had a couple projects going on at the same time. Chris took over the basement and claimed it as his workshop. Those who knew him will recall he didn’t like the cold weather, was annoyed by the Fall and its leaves, and was not a fan of Winter. He enjoyed family trips to Wildwood, Ocean City Maryland and wanted to buy a boat until Cindy put a stop to that. He loved watching the winter and summer Olympics and was a huge Green Bay Packers – Aaron Rodgers fan.  He also shocked his family by buying a full size backhoe on eBay and when he expressed in interest in getting another back hoe Cindy had to put a stop to that just like the boat.

Chris was the loving husband of Cindy Vergano Brozuski; he was the devoted father of Greg Brozuski and his fiancé Keira Logue of Eastampton, NJ; he was the loved brother of the late Valerie Casey and her surviving husband Bernard of Holly Springs, GA, Charles and his fiancé Trish Rogalsky of Lake Hopatcong, and Michelle Lazzari of Freeport, NY; loved father-in-law Dino Vergano and late mother-in-law Dolores of Wayne: loved brother-in-law of Chris Vergano and his wife Deneen of Wayne; and dearly loved uncle of many nieces and nephews. He will also be dearly missed by his Beagle-Pointer mix dogs Gremlin and Guava.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Lung Association www.lung.org would be greatly appreciated.

Doctor Stuart B. From, Chief of Allergy and Immunology at Englewood Hospital and owner of his own practice Englewood Allergy Associates, both for almost thirty years, passed away on Thursday, January 5, 2023. He was 68.

Born and raised in Bronx, NY, he was currently a resident of Park Ridge.

Doctor From was predeceased by his parents David and Annette (Ravett) From. He was the loving father of Emma From and Molly From, both of Westwood; dear brother of Dr. Robert From of New York City; and dear uncle of Neal, Jeffrey and Daniela. He is also survived by his former wife Janet, many cousins, friends, colleagues and patients.

Dr. From was a child prodigy who skipped both the third and eighth grade and graduated from Stuyvesant High School in Manhattan in 1970 at the age of sixteen. After earning his B.A. in Physical and Biological Anthropology from Brooklyn College he attended the University of Colorado Boulder where he earned his B.S. in Science and Biology while becoming an Emergency Medical Technician (EMT). From there, Dr. From attended St. George’s University School of Medicine in Grenada. In 1979, while there, the Grenada Revolution took place and, as a consequence, Dr. From and his entire class were emergency evacuated and returned to the states. Shortly thereafter his whole class had the privilege of meeting President Ronald Reagan at the White House. Dr. From continued with his medical studies at New York Medical College where he received his M.D. After serving a medical internship at Montefiore Hospital in the Bronx he received a fellowship at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical Center. Eventually Dr. From landed his allergy practice in Englewood where he always went the extra mile for his patients.

Stu was a man with an endless appetite for living life to the fullest. He loved food – both enjoying a nice night out for dinner and staying home to cook. No one made better ribs than Stu. No one! He loved to go fishing, especially in Sheep’s Head Bay, down the shore at LBI and in the Florida Keys. He could also be found skiing on the slopes at Mount Snow in Vermont, in Boulder Colorado, in New York at Windham Mountain, in Chamonix France, Bormio Italy – the French and Italian Alps. Stu played tennis, went cycling and spinning and played paintball. When it was time to sit still, he loved a good game of Scrabble or Pictionary (although he hated losing which he did frequently), listening to jazz or rock music (he actually went to a Jimmy Hendricks concert one week before Jimmy died), and dabbling in photography. As a youngster he enjoyed summer camp with his friends and being a part of Glee Club.

Stu will always be appreciated for his dedication to his profession – especially his patients. His daughters Emma and Molly will remember buying cool ties and Green Polo cologne for him, and he will be remembered for his overuse of the words “knucklehead” (to those he loved or thought funny) and “marvelous” which he pronounced “maaaaavelous”.      

If you would like to reach out to Stu’s family with words of love and encouragement, you are invited to send a message to CelebrateStu@gmail.com.

David “Dave” Sean McFadden, age 60, of Pines Lake in Wayne, NJ, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, January 4, 2023. Dave is survived by his devoted wife of 30 years, Cynthia, and loving daughter, Mallory of Wayne, NJ; by his mother Joan McFadden of Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ, and his sister Jody Lyons and husband Stephen Lyons of Wayne, NJ. He was a dear uncle to Chase and Shannon Lyons of Wayne, and Natalie and Mckenzie McFadden of Kinnelon, NJ. Dave is predeceased by his beloved father, Harold A. “Mickey” McFadden (d. 2016) and dear brother Henry H.A. “Mickey” McFadden (d. 2021).

Born in Passaic, NJ, to Joan (Crowley) McFadden and Harold A. “Mickey” McFadden, the family soon built a new home in the beautiful Pines Lake community in Wayne, where David and his own family continued to reside throughout his life. A Wayne Hills High School Class of 1981 graduate, Dave soon joined his family’s well-loved establishment, McFadden’s Pub, in Haledon, NJ. He continued on to build a career as a letter carrier for the Oakland Post Office, which combined both his love of the outdoors and his joy for connecting with the local community in a very meaningful way. He retired in 2012.

An inquisitive and active young man, Dave’s youth and teenage years rarely found him indoors—except to teach himself chess, master the latest video or pinball game, or tend to his many pets. Rather, he’d be found fishing, biking, exploring the Glen, or joining his friends in every sport from tennis to basketball, baseball and skiing. Dave’s years at McFadden’s Pub allowed him to cultivate his culinary skills, where he became an excellent cook. His family and friends had the longtime privilege of being the willing recipients of his delicious creations.

Like his father and brother before him, Dave’s larger-than-life personality, conversational ease, and sharp sense of humor will always be remembered. There wasn’t a discussion he couldn’t contribute to or a subject he didn’t know something about, and his observational bits of wisdom will keep us laughing for years to come. His exuberance for, and love of, alternative music was legendary, earning him the nickname “New wave Dave.” And there wasn’t a collectible he didn’t try to collect, finding purpose and meaning in so many objects and everyday things. Yet through the vivaciousness, Dave was a gentle and sensitive artist, one who enjoyed painting landscape scenes on tiles, left out in nature to be discovered by his Pines Lake community: he wanted no accolades, just to inspire. The beauty and solitude of lake fishing predominated his life, and in his older years proved to be the one place Dave could surely be found. This unique, personable, creative, and interesting soul will be deeply missed; and as he taught us all, may he be ringing Heaven’s doorbell with his elbows.

As per Dave’s wishes, the family will not be hosting a memorial service at this time, but invite you to share your memories and messages in the guest book.

Dave’s love for fishing extended to teaching Pines Lake youth the principles of the sport. If desired, a donation can be made in his honor to The Ike Foundation, an NJ-based non-profit organization providing underrepresented youth with fishing lessons and gear. Thank you!

Www.theikefoundation.org

Carmen J. Castellano, age 94, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, January 4, 2023 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Carmen was born in Newark, NJ, the oldest of Alex and Josephine (Cordasco) Castellano’s three children. He grew up in Newark and worked for his father as a butcher from grade school through college.

After graduating from Upsala College in Newark, Carmen taught History for a brief time before joining Public Service Electric and Gas (PSE&G). He worked for the utility for 37 years serving in various roles in customer operations and human resources. In 1988, he retired as a Retirement Planning Coordinator. During his years with PSE&G, Carmen also worked several part-time jobs in a variety of different industries including furniture sales, appliance sales, and even cemetery monument sales. Carmen’s greatest key to success was his ability to take his time to get to know everyone whom he worked with. He truly cared about people and always wanted the best for them.

One night at a church dance in Newark, Carmen met a lovely young woman named Mafalda DiCocco. With his big smile and natural warmth and charm, Carmen quickly captured Mafalda’s heart, and soon they were steadily dating. They quickly fell in love and married on April 24, 1949 at a Catholic church in Newark. After the wedding, they made a cold water flat in Newark their first home as husband and wife. While living there, they were blessed with their firstborn, their son Alex. Soon after, they moved to a new apartment in Belleville. This one had hot water, which made everyone a bit happier. While living there, baby Alex was joined by a new baby brother named Raymond. When that apartment started feeling too small, Carmen, Mafalda, Alex and Ray loaded the moving truck once more, this time en route to their new home across town. With each new residence came a new baby and this time was no exception as baby Diane was born. In this house in Belleville, Carmen and Mafalda raised their family from the early 1960’s until 1988 when they moved to the Packanack Woods section of Packanack Lake in Wayne. After retirement, Carmen and Mafalda started a new chapter in their lives in a retirement community in Lakewood, NJ and most recently, they had moved back to Wayne where Carmen was presently living.  

Carmen enjoyed many different amusements. As a middle-aged man, he enjoyed bowling, playing poker, and going to Atlantic City with his father and brother. Later in life, he enjoyed watching old movies on the Turner Classics channel and listening to big band music. Carmen was smart! He loved investing and talking about stocks. If you asked him the secret to his success, he would advise you to invest in companies that paid dividends and reinvest the dividends. He also believed that, no matter how good a stock looked, at the end of the day, in your heart of hearts, you had to feel confident about the company's product.

Even with all his interests, hands down, Carmen’s greatest love was for his family. He would be the first to tell you that credit for his great life went to three generations of women who always spoiled him– his mother Josephine, his wife Mafalda and his daughter Diane. He was very spry and attributed his good health and longevity to a healthy diet consisting of foods like fresh salmon and lots of fruits and vegetables (well-cooked with no salt). Carmen was rightly convinced that there was no restaurant in the world that could hold a candle to his wife’s genuine, Italian cooking. His sons and daughters and their spouses were his pride and joy, and his grandchildren were the apple of his eye. He loved spending time with all of them and was always up for a good conversation or a political debate. Mafalda was Carmen’s forever sweetheart and together they enjoyed a happy marriage that lasted 73 years.  

Three of Carmen’s greatest qualities were his contagious smile, his natural sociable nature, and his sincere sense of compassion. Carmen was one of those guys who could make friends with a perfect stranger in just a matter of minutes. His smile made him approachable and, after he’d ask you a few questions you couldn’t help but feel drawn to his warmth and friendliness. Still driving at age 94, Carmen visited the Trader Joe’s store in Wayne at least once and sometimes twice a day. He knew all the employees. He was so well-loved at Trader Joe’s that when they’d offer free samples of coffee, they’d give Carmen a regular-sized cup and sometimes even something sweet to go with it.

Carmen was the beloved husband of Mafalda (DiCocco). He was the loving father of Alex and wife Nancy Castellano and cherished grandfather of their son Mark and daughter Laura and husband Nicholas Stong and adoring great-grandfather of their son Dylan; loving father of Raymond and wife Maryellen Castellano and cherished grandfather of their son Steven Castellano; loving father of Diane and husband Alfred Ascione and cherished grandfather of their daughter Nicole and husband Christopher Diaz, and Kristen Ascione; and dear brother of Ralph Castellano and Marie Ferriero.  

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Carmen’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

Frank Giordano, age 86, of Hillsborough and formerly of Little Ferry and Wayne, NJ, died peacefully on Wednesday, January 4, 2023. He lived in Wayne for eleven years before moving to Hillsborough in 2022.

Frank was a truck driver, a Teamster, throughout his professional career. After retiring, he worked several days per week for Enterprise Rent-a-Car as a transport driver, moving cars between locations. This part time job got him out of the house, kept him out of trouble, and gave him the opportunity to make some good friends along the way. He worked well into his 80’s and appreciated the way his coworkers always looked out for him.

Frank spent his formative years in Lyndhurst, NJ. As a teenager, he joined the U.S. Navy and served during the Korean War. He sailed to Cuba and travelled as far as Africa. He remained a very proud Navy veteran throughout his lifetime, speaking fondly of his time in the service. After returning home, he met Marilyn Lutz in a Jersey City bar. She was a knockout and Frank, always the ladies’ man, just had to meet her. He introduced himself and told her that she was the most beautiful woman he had ever seen. She replied by explaining she was taken and Frank said “I don’t care. I’d like to take you out anyway.” They were married not long thereafter and went on to raise a family of three children. Although their marriage was untraditional in many regards, they always remained a team, caring for one another until the very end. Sadly, Marilyn passed away in 2013. Frank was heartbroken and declared to his loved ones that he had truly lost his best friend.

Frank was an ‘easy-going’ man who never took life too seriously. He was happiest hanging out by the pool, working on his tan and always enjoyed a good meal. His family meant everything to him and he was always there to lend an ear. He was a great listener, often offering sage advice. Holidays celebrations were a favorite of his, as the large Giordano/Lutz family gatherings were always memorable. Dozens of aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends would crowd into their homes for some quality time, laughs, and great food. Though out his life, even through his very last days, Frank was a great story-teller, shocking his loved ones with his sharp memory of every minuet detail. He was very talkative and loved to socialize, making sure everyone he met smiled. He was an incredible man, loved by many, and will be missed by all.

Frank is survived by his three children; Frank and his wife Carol of Wayne NJ, Lynn Petner and her husband Jimmy of Hillsborough, NJ and Glenn of Howell, NJ, six grandchildren: Stefanie Crull (and husband Josh), Jessica Pagan (and husband Bryan), Butch Giordano (and fiancé Cassie Hart), Mikey Bonura, Gina Giordano and ‘Little G’ Giordano, and one great-grandchild; Brooklynn Crull. He was predeceased by his wife, Marilyn, in 2013.

Jeanette DeLillo, age 83, of Butler passed at home on January 3, 2023.

She was born in the family home at 114 Division Avenue in Garfield, NJ to Vincenzo and Vincenza Spoto.  Jeanette was raised in Garfield and graduated from Garfield High School.

In 1960, Jeanette met the love of her life Robert “Bob” “Butch” DeLillo.  They courted for about a year and married on April 8, 1961.  It is well known that he finally caught Jeanette who played hard to get.  They honeymooned in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania.  The only problem with the honeymoon was that they forgot to bring warm clothing and when the winter gave its last blast of snow that week, they nearly froze.  As things turned out, Bob and Jeanette had forty-nine years of a mutually fulfilling, loving marriage that was blessed by two children, Robert, Jr. and Jennifer, as well as eight grandchildren and one great-granddaughter.

Jeanette will be lovingly remembered as a kind, fun, warm, and welcoming person. She was the stereotypical Italian Grandmother who would greet everyone with a kiss and hug and soon start feeding them. She was a talented seamstress that would make beautiful curtains and matching dresses for her and her daughter, Jennifer; her artistic abilities extended into making all kinds of crafts. In addition, she was the business partner of her late husband for 27 years as they ran J.R.’s Wholesale Outlet in Paterson, NJ, managed by their son.  She was also a dedicated and devoted New York Yankee fan who would jump, clap, and yell at the television while watching games.

When it came to Sunday family dinners, she was the consummate Italian cook where the meal she prepared consisted of tons of hors d’oeuvres, main courses, and desserts. There were always leftovers to be taken home as Jeanette always overcooked. Her grandchildren will remember Cookie Weekend at Christmas time where they would all spend the weekend with Grandma and Papa making all sorts of cookies. Jeanette cared for her family both through her kitchen skills and as a caregiver to her parents, husband, brothers, and in-laws.  She truly looked for the good in others and helped others see that good as well.

Jeanette was the loving wife of the late Robert L. DeLillo, Sr. (d. 2010); she was the devoted mother of Bob DeLillo, Jr. and his wife Geralyn of West Milford, NJ and Jennifer Tempio and her husband Stephen of Kinnelon, NJ; she was the cherished grandmother of Jaclyn Torres (née DeLillo) and her husband Luis, the late Jillian DeLillo (d. 2013), Kristen DeLillo, Katelyn DeLillo and her fiancé Matt Rola, Bobby DeLillo III, Jennifer Fancera (née Tempio) and her husband Brett, Melissa Tempio and her partner Thomas Calcara, and Stephen Tempio and his partner Kayla Thiessen; dearly loved great-grandmother of Sophia Torres; loved sister of Sylvia Saccomondo and her husband Nick of Garfield and the late Russ Spoto, Vince Spoto and his wife Marion, Salvatore Spoto, and Joseph Spoto. Jeanette will also be dearly missed by her loving nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers donations in Jeanette’s memory to: St Jude Children’s Research Hospital STJUDE.ORG, The Shriners Hospital SHRINERSCHILDRENS.ORG or the CHD (Congenital Heart Defect) Coalition CHDCOALITION.ORG would be greatly appreciated.

Eulogy read at her service:

Everyone here knows that my grandma, Jeanette, had an incredible capacity for kindness, empathy, generosity, compassion, and love. Whenever we would visit her at her home or see her at a party, she was always happy to see us. She greeted all of her family and friends with so much warmth; it was infectious.

When people would meet her, even just once, they would instantly take a liking to her and comment on how sweet she was.

We were all lucky to have known her, but the luckiest people in this room are her grandchildren.

Jeanette was born to be a grandma; it was her calling. She and my grandfather constantly thought about their grandchildren and what they could do for them. When we would go to their house, Grandma would cook for us and give us sweets. When we were sick, my grandparents would visit with presents. When we graduated, Grandma beamed and brought us flowers. When we were going through rough times, she would give us advice and be a shoulder to cry on.

All of my memories of my grandma are precious, but I wanted to take a few moments to share with you just a few of the ones that stick out in my mind.

We used to have Sunday dinners at my grandma’s house. As a child, Sunday was my favorite day of the week. I loved going to Grandma and Papa’s house. When we arrived, the house was warm and filled with the aroma of fresh cooked sauce and meatballs. I would immediately be wrapped in an embrace from my grandparents, and my grandma would flit all over the kitchen, cooking a huge meal for her whole family.

As kids, my siblings, cousins, and I used to sleep over my grandparents’ house. I think most kids prefer to sleep over their friends’ houses, but not us. We loved sleeping at Grandma’s house. She would hang out with us and listen to everything that we had to say. In the mornings, she would make her traditional breakfast of french toast. She never got tired of having us there or making us food.

In the summers, my siblings and I would go to their house for a nighttime swim with my grandfather. While in the pool, we would look at the planes overhead. Then, after a lot of swimming, we would sit on the deck, and Grandma would bring out cookies and lemonade. And the five of us would just talk and enjoy the evening.  

Once I got my driver’s license, I would drive to Grandma and Papa’s house all the time, just to hang out, talk, do the crossword puzzle with my grandfather, and enjoy their company.

When I was a kid, Grandma and I would talk about everything. I would tell her about school, friends, and TV shows, and she would tell me stories from her life. The older I got, the more our relationship evolved. As an adult, I would often spend evenings and weekends at her house. We would just sit and talk for hours about everything. She would often ask me for my advice or my perspective on things as well. She would say, “Well, Jennifer, you know you’re my confidante” and proceed to share an internal conflict, a decision she was struggling to make. I cherish those talks; they are my favorite memories. She was my best friend.

I am so lucky and so grateful to have had my grandma for 31 years. She was there to see me graduate college. She saw me learn how to cook and bake, get a job, and buy a house. She was there to see me marry my soulmate, just like she knew my grandfather was her soulmate.

I do want to touch on one more thing, which I think was my grandma’s strongest quality—forgiveness. I think nearly everyone in this room at one point in their life has asked my grandma to forgive them. I certainly have. Life happens. We get angry, we say things we regret, we make mistakes. But my grandma forgave you before you even realized you were wrong, before you apologized. She always saw the good in people, she was always able to consider perspectives other than her own. She knew there were two sides to every story. And she was always the first to admit she may have made a mistake.

Take a moment to imagine what the world would be like if we were all like Grandma, if we could all stop and consider someone else’s perspective, if we could forgive so easily, and move on.

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When my grandma got sick, she handled her decline with the most grace and strength that I have ever seen. At one point, when she was in the hospital, she said to me, “What would I do without you, Jennifer?” But all I could think was, “What will I do without you, Grandma?”

Being your granddaughter is the most special gift that life has given me. I already miss you terribly, but I am so thankful for the time that we had, and I will spend the rest of my life trying to be as good of a person as you were.

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MOM’S EULOGY

I AM SO GRATEFUL TO GOD THAT HE GAVE ME SUCH WONDERFUL PARENTS AND FAMILY.

MOM, YOU HAVE BEEN MY BEST FRIEND AND CONFIDANT MY WHOLE LIFE. THROUGH YOUR ACTIONS YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO HAVE COMPASSION, EMPATHY AND TO ALWAYS SEE THE GOOD IN PEOPLE. I NEVER HEARD YOU SAY NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT ANYONE, YOU WOULD ALWAYS POINT OUT SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT A PERSON. YOU WERE LOVED BY EVERYONE, FORMED FAST FRIENDSHIPS WITH YOUR NEIGHBORS BECAUSE PEOPLE COULD SEE HOW GENUINE OF A PERSON YOU WERE.

MOM, YOU HAVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME AND I NOW KNOW YOU ARE LOOKING DOWN FROM HEAVEN TO WATCH OVER ME.

TAKING CARE OF YOU WHEN YOU WERE SICK WAS MY HONOR AND PRIVILEGE AND I DID MY BEST TO BE STRONG IN FRONT OF YOU AND KEEP YOU COMFORTABLE.

THANK YOU SO MUCH TO MY HUSBAND STEPHEN, WHO WAS THERE FOR ME AND NEVER COMPLAINED THAT I WAS HARDLY HOME THE PAST FEW MONTHS.

JENNIFER, MELISSA AND STEPHEN, THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELP AND EMOTIONAL SUPPORT WITH GRANDMA. I NEVER HAD TO ASK FOR YOU GIRLS TO COME AND WORK FROM HOME AT GRAMS HOUSE. STEVE, I ASKED YOU TO HOOK UP A GENERATOR BECAUSE OF POTENTIAL BAD WEATHER AND YOU MADE SURE IN BETWEEN YOUR BUSY WORK SCHEDULE THAT YOU DID IT FOR ME SO I WOULDN’T WORRY ABOUT GRAM LOSING POWER. THESE ARE JUST A FEW THINGS YOU DID FOR ME AND GRAM.

THANKS, TO MY BROTHER BOBBY WHO WAS THERE WITH ME FOR DR’S VISITS, DISCUSSIONS WITH MOMMY ON HER CARE AND STAYED WITH ME ONCE MOMMY WAS HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL.

I DON’T KNOW WHAT I WOULD HAVE DONE WITH OUT ALL OF YOUR SUPPORT NOT ONLY WITH HELPING ME BUT EMOTIONAL SUPPORT ALSO.

THANK YOU AUNT SIV WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR ME TO TALK TO ABOUT HOW I WAS TRYING TO COPE WITH EVERYTHING THAT WAS HAPPENING TO MOMMY.

THANKS TO DR. RAPPAPORT WHO HAS ALWAYS GONE ABOVE AND BEYOND TO TAKE CARE OF OUR FAMILY, AND MADE SURE I HAD HIS CELL PHONE TO CALL HIM AT ANY TIME, WHICH I DID SEVERAL TIME WHEN MOMMY CAME HOME. HE ALWAYS HAD COMPASSION AND EMPATHY WITH OUR FAMILY.

THANKS TO DR. BERNSTEIN WHO ALWAYS SHOWED COMPASSION AND EMPATHY TO MOMMY.

SO MOM, THE ONLY THING THAT MAKES THIS EASIER IS THAT YOU ARE NOW AT PEACE IN DADDIES ARMS.

TILL WE MEET AGAIN, I WILL LOVE YOU ALWAYS,

JENNIFER

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Beloved husband, father, and grandfather, Alex Fadynich, died peacefully at home, Tuesday, January 3, in Pines Lake, Wayne, NJ. He had just turned eighty-eight this past December 28, and was born in 1934, the son of the late Aleksey Fadynich and Stefanida (Noreiko) Fadynich, who both came to the United States from Russia.

Born and raised in New Jersey, Alex graduated from Lyndhurst High School, and attended night classes at Fairleigh Dickinson University. His career as a Marine Engineer spanned fifty years from the Brooklyn Navy Yard, to Hudson Engineering in Hoboken, to ownership of Sea Motive Inc. in Port Newark. He finished his career as a consultant for Bouygues Offshore in Paris, France. His expertise took him around the globe.

He was passionate about the Pines Lake community where he and Nancy resided since 1959, in the home they built. In 2004, he served as the first President Of Friends of Laurelwood Arboretum, a non-profit member organization set up to manage and protect a 30-plus acre botanical oasis on the west side of the lake. He and Nancy volunteered there for many years. Laurelwood has been a huge part of their lives.

Alex had a great sense of humor, with a passion for sports, especially, as a lifelong suffering NY Giants fan. He also loved to create. Life was filled with home restoration, fishing, hunting, and hiking in the Adirondacks, where he and family members, Lelio and Peggy Passaglia shared the property.

But what was most important to Alex was his family. He cherished spending as much free time with his children and grandchildren as possible.

He is survived by his wife Nancy Kathrine (Scott) Fadynich, of Wayne; son Scott Alex Fadynich & wife Linda Chorney of Tucson, AZ; daughter Sandra Fadynich and husband Kurt Vonder Fecht of Wayne; and four grandchildren Chelsea, Devin, Alexsandra Novakoski of Wayne, and Hunter Fadynich residing in Arizona. He was predeceased by his Sister, Anna Seifert, of CO, who passed a week before Alex, at ninety-three.

Robert S. Sisti, age 95 of Wayne, died on Saturday, December 31, 2022. He grew up in Paterson, NJ but moved to Wayne in 1957 with his wife, Mary, and their infant son Robert and has lived there ever since. They happily grew their family adding their daughter Kathleen in 1958 and Noelle in 1967. Noelle, and her husband Jack became the homeowners of his residence in 2001 after he was widowed so he would not have to live alone.

Bob was a U.S. Army veteran of World War II, having served in Europe. At the conclusion of the war, he served on the Morgan Line in northern Italy in disputed territory along the Yugoslavian border. Having experienced Europe during the World War II era, he was profoundly grateful to be an American, proud of his time in the service, and he remained a loyal patriot throughout his lifetime.

After being discharged from the Army, Bob took advantage of the G.I. Bill and went to Oklahoma A&M College where he earned his degree in Civil Engineering. Licensed as an engineer in 1955 he was employed by Passaic County as the Assistant County Engineer for roughly 10 years. He then returned to the private sector as a Project Engineer for Goodkind & O’Dea where he performed various design and construction planning associated with road and bridge projects throughout the tri-state area. He retired in 1992 after

42 years of active employment.

In 1989, Bob lost his son, and in 2000, his beloved wife, Mary. In the years that followed, he found comfort in researching his family heritage, and it soon became a passion. A “paisan” and friend, Vince Stamboni, helped him trace his family line all the way back to the 1700’s. He enjoyed sharing all his discoveries with everyone. Raised by first-generation immigrants, he cherished his heritage but always maintained pride in being born in America- and appreciated all it had to offer.

Bob lived a devoted Catholic life and was a lifelong, active member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish in Wayne. He was past president of the Parish Council of Men and co-chaired many communion breakfasts. He proudly ushered every 10:30 mass at I.H.M. for over fifty years and was an active member of the Nocturnal Adoration Society for over twenty-five years.

As an active member of the Eastside High School class reunion committee, Bob enjoyed organizing and attending class reunions faithfully throughout the years. With his passing, his daughters know of only two alumni remaining from the Eastside High School class of 1944. The three remained in contact right up to this years’ holiday season.

He was a huge YANKEES and NY GIANTS fan, he heartily enjoyed watching the games on TV…in early years he watched with his son-in-laws David and Jack, later adding his nephew Ryan, and in his last years he would watch Yankee games while on the phone with his younger brother, Frank and they would exchange commentary and yell at the TV as if they were right in the stadium!

Bob was an intelligent man, an avid reader and lover of crossword puzzles. He loved learning new things and when his granddaughter, Marielle began bringing home “new” math or science textbooks, he would steal them to read for pleasure!

He was huge fan of local diners and it was a Sunday ritual to treat his family for breakfast after 10:30 mass where they would share their stories of the week, have great laughs, and form the family bonds he so cherished.

He was generous and charitable and loved by many. From the waitresses where he ate, to the nurses who cared for him when he had hospital stays, to the home health aides at the end, ALL expressed that he was a kind, generous gentleman who was a pleasure to serve.

Bob lived his life with adoration of God, Family, and Country. A devoted Catholic, he read aloud his morning and nightly prayers to the very end, even after a stroke made speaking nearly impossible. His family was his greatest worldly priority, and he cherished each and every relationship he was blessed with. He greatly looked forward each year to a hosting the annual Sisti Family Christmas gathering on December 26th at home. It was nothing short of chaos, but he loved every minute of it!

Bob is survived by two daughters; Kathleen Fisher and her husband David of Albion, RI, and Noelle Bikoff and her husband Jack of Wayne, two grandchildren; Ryan Fisher and Marielle Bikoff, his brother, Frank Sisti of Randolph, and all his nieces and nephews whom he adored. He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Mary (Sullivan) in 2000, by their son, Robert Sisti, Jr. in 1989, by his sister Josephine Chakiris in 1990, by his two brothers: Armand Sisti in 2010 and William Sisti in 2007, and by his nephews; Christopher Sullivan in (2018) and William Chakiris in 2021.

For those wishing to make a donation in Bob’s memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Maureen Clegg (nee Mulligan), age 72, of Lincoln Park.  Maureen passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 31, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Maureen was born in West Orange and lived there for about a year in the barracks for American GI’s returning from war.  She was the younger of two daughters to Edward and Dorothy Mulligan.  When she was only about a year old, Maureen and her family moved to Wayne where she grew up and spent her formative years.  As a young lady, she attended DePaul high School in Wayne where she was a member of the Choir and Glee Club.

Following her graduation in 1968, she enrolled at the St Joseph’s School of Nursing in Paterson.  After three years, Maureen received her certification as a Registered Nurse.  She found employment quickly and accepted a position in the emergency room at St Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson.  She later worked in the Intensive Care Unit there as well as the same day surgery department.  She continued her passion for nursing at St Vincent’s Nursing Home in Montclair and later in Cedar Grove where she earned the title of Assistant Director of Nursing in 2006.  Maureen spent nearly thirty-five years at St Vincent’s and her career as a registered nurse spanned over forty-five years until her retirement in 2015.  She was truly well respected and loved by her peers and colleagues.

In 1969, Maureen was introduced to a handsome young man by the name of Steven Clegg.  Steven’s college roommate introduced the two and they went out on a blind date.  Maureen and Steven hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on November 6, 1971, they became husband and wife at Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne.

The newlyweds first settled in Wayne for about four years then moved to Lincoln Park where they have been ever since.  After moving to Lincoln Park, Maureen and Steven welcomed the births of their three children, Steven, Kristin, and Kaitlyn.

Although Maureen was dedicated to her career as a nurse, she was truly devoted to her children.  For many years she was an active member and past president of the Lincoln Park PTA and later very active at DePaul High School and Morris Catholic High School while her children were students there.  It was truly apparent to everyone that knew Maureen that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Maureen than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren.  Her spare time was spent attending her children’s and grandchildren’s school plays, and sporting events.  She and her husband Steven cherished fifty-two years of a loving and loyal marriage.  Maureen was not only dedicated to her family, but she was also dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were longtime parishioners of St Joseph’s RC Church in Lincoln Park and was also a Eucharistic Minister there.

Maureen was a wonderfully outgoing person who truly cared about the welfare of others.  Her dedication to her profession completely defined her as a person, she was always willing to put the needs of others before her own.  While a parishioner at St Joseph’s Church in Lincoln Park, she privately cared for the priest there who was diagnosed with cancer.  She was truly proud of her Irish heritage and was famous throughout her family for her cooking specialty, American Chop Suey.

Maureen was genuinely a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her.  She will be forever remembered as being dedicated to her profession, and as a devoted wife, mother, and “Nana”.

Maureen is survived by her husband Steven Clegg of Lincoln Park, NJ, one son Steven Clegg and his wife Dianna of Butler, NJ, two daughters; Kristin Bell and her husband Christopher of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Kaitlyn Clegg and her fiancé Jered Clifford of Stamford, CT, one sister Carol Corazza of Oak Ridge, NJ, four grandchildren; Braeden Bell, Logan Clegg, Andrew Bell, and Mason Clegg, one nephew Joseph Corazza and his wife Michelle, two grand nephews; Matthew Corazza, and Paul Corazza, and one grandniece Amelia Corazza.  She was predeceased by her parents Edward and Dorothy Mulligan, her nephew Matthew Corazza, her brother-in-law Joseph Corazza, and her mother-in-law and father-in-law Charles and Shirley Clegg.

Those planning to make a donation in Maureen’s name are asked to consider the American Cancer Society http://www.cancer.org, PO Box 42040, Oklahoma City, OK 73123 or Michael J Fox Foundation 469 7th Ave, New York, NY 10018 http://www.michaeljfox.org

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Joan Hadland (nee Barnett), age 89 of Kinnelon, died peacefully on Saturday, December 31, 2022.

Born and raised in the Kings Highway section of Brooklyn, NY, Joan graduated from the James Madison High School with the class of 1951. Proud to have been among the top students in her class, she graduated as a member of ARISTA, the National Honor Society. Among her classmates, and a fellow ARISTA member, was Ruth Bader Ginsberg.

Shortly after high school, a friend setup Joan on a blind date with Robert Thorne. Bob was in college at the time, home for the Christmas holiday, when they first met. Their romance blossomed and they began to make plans to get married. Bob was about to enter Officer training to become a U.S. Navy pilot and regulations forbid married men from such training. Nothing, not even the U.S. Navy, could stop them from getting married. Bob snuck off the Navy base one weekend, and they married on August 1st, 1953, at a small ceremony in Pascagoula, Mississippi. Somehow, Bob managed to keep that secret from the Navy throughout his training, and he soon earned his Navy wings. Joan was now an ‘officer’s wife,’ and Bob’s Navy assignments found them living in such places as Trinidad, Panama, and Ohio, before settling into their home in Kinnelon, NJ, in 1966. Sadly, in 1968, Bob was killed in a plane crash during Reserve training at the Navy base in Lakehurst, NJ, and Joan found herself widowed, with two children, at just thirty-four years old.

Several years later, she was setup on another blind date, this time with Harry Hadland, an assistant principal of Susan Wagner High School on Staten Island NY and principal of Washington Irving High School in NYC. A widower with four children of his own it was fate that brought the two together. The two fell in love immediately and were married three months later, on January 26, 1975. Their marriage was full of love and dedication to one another, and the two families blended just about as well as any Hallmark movie could have scripted. With Joan’s maternal instincts and Harry's paternal devotion, they were bound by a deep love for each other and their six children and seven grandchildren. After nearly twenty-five years of marriage, Harry passed away in 2000 and Joan was truly devastated, but the love of her large family was strong and she persevered through her grief.

In 2008, she met Andy Sventy of Denville and they went on to enjoy a loving companionship of nearly ten years before Andy died in 2019.

Throughout the years, Joan enjoyed traveling. In addition to having lived in a few foreign countries while Bob was in the Navy, she also visited London, Ireland, much of Europe, Puerto Rico, California several times, Seattle, Vancouver, and many more destinations. She was a bit of a ‘foody,’ and enjoyed eating out wherever she went. Understandably, Ireland was among her least favorite places to visit because, in her opinion, the food there was terrible! She was known to have ordered veal parmigiana in just about every restaurant she visited, even the finest ones, and if it wasn’t on the menu, she would ask the waiter if they could make it for her.

Joan was blessed with a natural beauty, and she was a very attractive woman. She always looked lovely, enjoyed dressing fashionably, with her hair and makeup done just right. Joan’s granddaughter recalls from her law induction ceremony that many of the 20-something year old men in her class commented on how “hot” her grandmother was!

Above all else, Joan adored her family. When grandchildren came onto the scene, she was there caring for them daily. Her grandchildren recall how much she loved music and loved to sing. They all have many fond memories with her to cherish throughout their lifetimes and they will all miss her dearly.

Joan is survived by her two children; Laura Trawinski and her husband Robert of Montville, NJ, and Robert Thorne and his wife Mohini of Edgewater, NJ, by Harry Hadland’s four children; Harry Hadland and his wife Leslie of Houston, Texas, David Hadland of Lexington, Kentucky, Karen Fleming and her husband Bruce of Sebastian, Florida, and Brenda Calderone and her husband Lewis of Brick, NJ, six grandchildren: Kathy Faehner and her husband Kyle of Mountain Lakes, NJ, Robert Trawinski and his fiancé Amanda Feeley of Morristown, NJ, Harrison Hadland and his wife Gina of Houston, Texas, Steven Stavros and his fiancé Raquelle Puglise of Brick, NJ, David Calderone of Brick, NJ and Ava Hadland of Washington, D.C., three great-grandchildren: Brendan, Avery Joan, and Fallon Faehner, all of Mountain Lakes, NJ. Joan was predeceased by her first husband, Robert Thorne (1968), her second husband, Harry Hadland (2000), and by her grandson, Christopher Calderone (2015).

Thomas A. Pini, age 79 of Wayne, died peacefully on Friday, December 30, 2022. He has lived in Wayne since 1979.

Tom grew up in Lyndhurst, NJ and graduated from Lyndhurst High School in 1961. He went on to earn a Bachelor’s degree from Rochester Institute of Technology in graphic design and eventually owned his own printing company, Kingsland Printing, which was first located in Wallington and then West Paterson. Tom sold the business in 1997 and had been retired ever since.

Tom was a true “people person” and a gifted conversationalist. He could talk to anyone and everyone, and he did! He had a real talent for getting people to open up to him and he would often come away knowing intimate and personal details of strangers he had only just met. He had a genuine interest in getting to know people and he enjoyed making new friends wherever he went. In more recent years, he made a point of attending as many of his grandchildren’s activities as he could, and he became friends with all the other parents at each event. Tom was a devoted grandfather, and his favorite hobby was to be with his family. He went to all his grandchildren’s sporting events, school plays, and activities and cherished that time with them. He even treated them all to a few Disney vacations. He especially loved the holiday season and looked forward to having his family all gathered in his home. There are also many years of great memories shared at the Jersey Shore, where Tom and his wife had built a home in Ocean Beach Unit II and also cruised around on their boat. Ocean Beach was his happy place and his family will cherish the memories they each made there with him.

Tom has been married to his beloved wife Ellen (nee Baracca) for fifty-four years. They met in high school when they were just teenagers and they frequently hung out at Midler’s Candy Store on Ridge Road. They were married on June 15, 1968 at Sacred Heart Church in Lyndhurst and after a honeymoon to Bermuda, they settled in Lyndhurst before moving to Wayne in 1979. Tom was always a very hard worker and did all he could to provide for his family. During his retirement years, he and Ellen enjoyed many long days together, especially at Ocean Beach. They’ve enjoyed all their years together and she will miss him dearly.

Tom is survived by his wife, Ellen, of Wayne, their three sons; Thomas Pini and his wife Paula of Butler, Chris Pini and his wife Allison of W. Caldwell, and Brian Pini and his wife Janet of Montville, five grandchildren; Nicole, Ryan, Landon, Elliott, and Evalee, one sister; Judy Hines of Boynton Beach, FL, and her two sons Jonathan and Steven.

In 2008, Tom received a kidney transplant, donated by none other than his own son. Through that experience, Tom and his family became enthusiastic supporters of organ donation, and more specifically of The NJ Sharing Network. Therefore, and in lieu of flowers, donations in Tom’s memory would be greatly appreciated to the Sharing Network Foundation. You may donate online at www.sharingnetworkfoundation.org.

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Patsy T. Totaro, a life-long resident of Hoboken and a great American hero, passed away peacefully in the early morning of Thursday, December 29, 2022. He was 97.

Patsy was the youngest of John and Barbara (Bucessa) Totaro’s four children. He was born at home in Hoboken, delivered by a midwife who just happened to be Frank Sinatra’s grandmother. His parents officially named him Patrick Thomas Totaro but, as life went on, he became widely known as “Patsy” and “Skippy.”

After graduating from Stratton Military High School Patsy was called right into U.S. Army service during World War II. On June 6, 1944 more than 160,000 Allied troops invaded a 50-mile stretch of coastline in France to fight Nazi Germany on the beaches of Normandy. Known as the D-Day invasion, Patsy was one of those soldiers who was there. As a paratrooper, he parachuted into enemy territory and bravely fought for the freedoms we enjoy today. During that battle, Patsy was one of only fourteen paratroopers that survived despite sustaining gun shot wounds while trying to save a fellow soldier. For his bravery and valor, Patsy was awarded the Purple Heart and was also awarded the World War II Victory Medal, the American Campaign Medal, and the European African Middle Eastern Campaign Medal.

Patsy was the beloved husband of Margaret “Margie”. You could say that Patsy’s little dog, a Boston Terrier named Skippy, was the one who introduced Patsy to Margie. You see, Margie’s father owned a candy store in Hoboken called Fusco’s Candy Store and Patsy would often take his dog Skippy for walks right past that store. One day Skippy ran ahead of Patsy and headed right into the candy store. When Patsy caught up with his pooch he discovered that Skippy had found a new friend in Margie Fusco who was feeding Skippy chocolate treats. As the saying goes, the rest was history! They fell in love and got married at Saint Francis Church in Hoboken. After a reception at the Union Club, also in Hoboken, Patsy and Margie flew on a propeller airplane to Cuba for their honeymoon. During the course of almost 50 years of marriage until Margie’s passing in 1996, they always remained in Hoboken, first at 218 Eighth Street and later at 625 Madison Street. With the exception of the last four years when Patsy and his daughter Roseanne moved to Union City, Patsy had been a life-long resident of Hoboken.

After Patsy’s return from the war, he got a job with the U.S. Postal Service as a mail carrier in Hoboken. He was one of those mailmen that you just came to love. Hard working and dependable and, being a native of the town where he delivered mail, Patsy knew everyone and everyone knew Patsy. He had an incredible work ethic and even took a job with the New York Times on their printing presses which he’d report to every day after completing his mail route. Patsy truly believed that providing for his family was one of his most important duties and he was proud to be able to help both of his daughters Patricia and Roseanne to pay for college in pursuit of their Masters’ degrees. In addition to giving time and energy to his family, Patsy also gave back to his community through the good work that he did as a member of the Knights of Columbus.  

In their times of leisure, Patsy and Margie enjoyed traveling and taking cruises. Their granddaughter Janenne, whom they both adored, got to go on lots of the trips with them. Patsy also loved spending time at their shore house right on Ocean Ave in Bradley Beach. The hours would just melt away as he sat on his deck, looking across the street to the ocean while enjoying a cigar. It became a familiar sight and a great memory for his family. Patsy just loved the ocean and, in addition to collecting Santa Clauses, he had an extensive light house collection. In later years, you could always catch Patsy sitting comfortably in front of the television watching a western on the Western Channel.

Patsy’s family is grateful for the many years they were blessed to have him in their lives. He was such a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother and uncle. They couldn’t have asked for more. While they are sad about his passing, they will cherish the memories and are glad that he is once again reunited with his beautiful wife Margie.

Patsy was the beloved husband of Margaret “Margie” (Fusco), blessed in marriage for almost fifty years until her passing in 1996. He was the loving father of Patricia and husband Mario Brando of Wayne, and Roseanne Totaro of Union City; cherished grandfather of Janenne and husband Rich Eustic of Wayne; and adoring great-grandfather of: Alexandra, Aiden, and Jackson. He was also predeceased by his brothers John and Ralph Totaro, and his sister Phylis Rongo.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Patsy’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Vincent Fortunato, age 89, of Wayne, NJ.  Vinny passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 27, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Vinny was born and raised in the Bronx and was the younger of two sons to Nicholas and Anna Fortunato.  As a young man, he attended high school in the Bronx where he excelled in Track and Field.  Following his graduation from high school in 1951, Vinny found employment quickly with the Prudential Life Insurance company where he worked for about two years.

In 1953, he got the call to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army.  Vinny was stationed overseas in Korea during the Korean Conflict where he served as an Electrical Technician.  He served honorably in the US Army from 1953 until 1955.  During his service with the US Army, he received the Good Conduct Medal as well as the National Defense Service Medal.  Serving in the United States armed forces had a profound effect on Vinny’s life and would make him a lifelong devoted patriot.

Following his honorable discharge from the US Army, Vinny honed and further developed his skills in electronics, by enrolling and obtaining a certificate in Television and General Electronics from the RCA Institute in New York City.  After obtaining his certificate from the RCA Institute, he again found employment quickly, this time at The Bendix Corporation in Teterboro, NJ.  During his employment, Bendix was acquired by Allied Signal, and eventually Honeywell.  Vinny’s career as an Electronics Technician spanned more that forty years until his retirement in 1995.  During his career, he was well loved and respected by his peers and his colleagues.  He was also active in the local union at the Bendix Corporation, regularly attending union meetings.

In 1972, while at a dance at the Crest Haven Dance Club in New Jersey, Vinny met an attractive young lady by the name of Anna Gentile.  After the dance, he gave Anna a call and asked her out to dinner.  They hit it off great and immediately started dating.  The couple dated for about three years and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on April 12, 1975.  The newlyweds settled in Yonkers and remained there for about twenty-five years.  During that time, they welcomed the birth of their one and only son, Matthew.

About five years after retiring, in 2000, Vinny and Anna moved to Wayne, NJ and have resided there ever since.  Throughout Vinny’s entire life, he was an avid New York Yankees and New York Giants fan.  He was also a great admirer of “Joltin” Joe DiMaggio.  He liked keeping in shape throughout his life and enjoyed jogging around the local high school track as well as going on long walks with his wife.  He treasured yearly family vacations to a variety of destinations.  Vinny thoroughly enjoyed doing yard work and always had his front and back yards meticulously manicured.  He also enjoyed doing his daily jumble puzzles.

Vinny was generally a quiet and private man but also had the gift of captivating an audience with his way of telling a story.  It was clear to everyone that knew him that his greatest passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to him than spending time with his wife, son, grandson, and daughter-in-law.  He and his wife Anna cherished forty-seven years of a loving and loyal marriage.  Vinny was not only dedicated to his family but also to his Catholic Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of St John the Baptist Church while living in Yonkers, and are longtime parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne, NJ.

Vincent was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will forever be remembered as a devoted husband and father, as well as a true patriot.    

Vinny is survived by his wife Anna of Wayne, NJ, one son Matthew Fortunato and his wife Ginny, one grandson Luca, and three cousins; Jeanette Zahn of New Jersey, Ceil Greco of Connecticut, and Rosemary Rolosen of New Jersey.

Those planning to make a donation in Vinny’s name are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 http://www.stjude.org

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Helen M. Head (nee Amen), age 86, of Pompton Lakes.  Helen passed away peacefully on Friday December 23, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Helen was born and raised in New York City and was the youngest of six children to Paul and Josephine Amen.  Growing up in New York City as a young lady, Helen attended high school in East Harlem, NY.  Following high school, she worked for a few years until she met the love of her life, William Head, a New York City Police Officer.  Helen and William met at a church dance and hit it off great.  They immediately started dating and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife when Helen was only twenty years old.

After getting married, the newlyweds settled in the Bronx and lived there for nearly thirty years when they then moved to Pompton Lakes in the mid 1980’s.  The couple remained in Pompton Lakes for the rest of their lives together.  While living in the Bronx, Helen and William welcomed their one and only child, William.  Helen made the decision to dedicate her life to being a homemaker following her marriage to William.  This was truly Helen’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.   Over the years, Helen developed her skills in the kitchen and blossomed into a wonderful cook.  She was famous throughout family and friends for her pasta and meatballs.  She was a devoted New York Yankees fan throughout her life and was a great admirer of “Joltin Joe” DiMaggio.

It was abundantly clear to everyone that knew Helen that her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Helen than providing for and spending time with her husband and son (as well as her treasured dog, Rosie).   She and her husband William cherished fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until William’s passing in January of 2008.  Helen was not only devoted to her family, but she was also dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  While residing in Pompton Lakes, she and her family were parishioners of St Mary’s RC Church for many years.

Helen was a funny and easygoing lady who took the time to truly listen to family and friends when they needed some to talk to.  She often gave those closest to her practical, profound, and logical advice.  Helen always had a way of looking at things in a positive manner and never “sweated the small stuff.”  She was truly a special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends.

Helen will be forever remembered as a wonderfully funny person and a loving and devoted mother and wife.

Helen is survived by her son William Head of Pompton Lakes, NJ, one brother; Louis Amen of Williston Park, NY, five nieces; Susan Schlosberg and her husband John of Waiting River, NY, Karen O’Keefe of Franklin Lakes, NJ, Louann Georges and her husband Arty of Williston Park, NY, Roseann Amen Zameryka and her husband John of Williston Park, NY, and Dawn Wade of White Plains, NY, two nephews William Wade of Charlotte, NC, and Vincent Amen and his wife Priscilla of Henderson, NV.  She was predeceased by her husband William Head in 2008, and her siblings; “Anna Amen, Antoinette Jannetto, Vincent Amen, and Aurora Wade.  

In lieu of flowers, donations in Helen’s name may be made St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 http://www.stjude.org

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Frank Monte, age 87 of Wanaque.  Frank passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 21, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Frank was born and raised in North Bergen, NJ and was the only child to Joseph and Anna Monte. While growing up in North Bergen, Frank attended Dickinson High School in Jersey City where he was a member of the boys varsity gymnastics team.  Following his graduation from Dickinson High School in 1953 he found work quickly as a carpenter and cabinet maker.  He soon started his own business which he owned and operated for nearly ten years.

In 1963, Frank was offered a position at Emerson High School in Union City as an Industrial Arts teacher.  Because of his advanced and brilliant carpentry skills, the school offered him the position, and while working at Emerson High, Frank attended Kean University at night to earn his bachelor’s degree and teacher’s certification.  Frank’s career as an Industrial Arts Teacher spanned a period of thirty-five years until his retirement in 1998.

Following his retirement, Frank kept busy crafting interior woodwork and furniture for his home and the homes of his family members.  In his retirement he also took up oil painting and sketching.  As a young man when his children were younger, he loved to cook and make wine in his basement.  He enjoyed camping at the Jersey shore where he would also go fishing and crabbing with his sons Frank Jr and Vincent.  Throughout his entire life, Frank had a passion for cars and motorcycles.  Over they years he had restored and rebuilt many cars including a 1965 Mustang, 1955 Crown Victoria, and a 1960 Cadillac Convertible.

In 1991, Frank was introduced to the love of his life, Pamela Lombardi, by some mutual friends.  Frank and Pamela immediately hit it off and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 10, 1992, (Pamela’s birthday), they became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Woodland Park where they remained for the next twenty-two years.  In 2013 Frank and Pamela moved to Wanaque where they have been ever since.

Aside from all of Frank’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Frank than providing for and spending time with his family.  He was a truly dedicated husband, father, grandfather, and great grandfather.  He and his wife Pamela cherished thirty years of loving and loyal marriage together.  On the outside Frank had a seemingly rough exterior, but those who got to know him best knew that he had a rather soft side to him.  Frank was kind, generous and a caring man who loved his family deeply.  Frank would often try to convince others, be it family or friends, that he was always right, and most often when he presented his argument or opinion, he almost always was right.  Not only was Frank dedicated to his family but he was also dedicated to his Catholic Faith.  Frank was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Frank will forever be remembered as a loving and dedicated husband, a devoted father, a treasured grandfather, and a great grandfather.

Frank is survived by his wife Pamela (nee Lombardi) of Wanaque, his two sons, Frank Monte, Jr. and his wife Marisa of North Bergen, NJ, and Vincent Monte and his wife Christine of Edgewater, NJ, one step-son; Jeffrey Gallo and his wife Kim of Broomfield, CO, and one step-daughter Susan Rosario of Lincoln Park, NJ, eight grandchildren; Joseph Monte and his wife Sophia of Fairview, NJ, Francesca Monte of Guttenberg, NJ, Vincent Monte and his fiancé Francesca Cennerazzo of Fort Lee, NJ, Alexa Daibes and her husband Paul of Cliffside Park, NJ, Christian Rosario of Pompton Plains, NJ, Noah Rosario of Pompton Plains, NJ, Sydney Rosario of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Taylor Gallo of Broomfield, CO, and two great grandchildren Victoria Monte, and Vincenzo Monte.

In lieu of flowers, donation in Frank name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 http://www.stjude.orgor Schriners Hospitals for Children, Office of Development, 2900 N. Rocky Point Dr, Tampa, FL 33607 http://www.lovetotherescue.org

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Elizabeth Zazzella (nee Soder), age 90, of Wayne.  She passed away peacefully on Monday, December 19, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Elizabeth was born in North Haledon and raised n Totowa, NJ.  She was one of four children to Alfred and Elizabeth Soder.  As a young woman she attended St Mary’s Catholic High School in Totowa and graduated with the class of 1950.  Following her graduation from high school, Elizabeth found work quickly in the office of William H Coleman Associates where she worked for several years.

While working with William H Coleman Associates, Elizabeth was introduced by some mutual friends to a handsome young World War II veteran by the name of Louis Zazzella.  Louis and Elizabeth hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on January 26, 1952.  After getting married, the newlyweds settled in Pompton Lakes where they lived for several years. While living there, Elizabeth and Louis welcomed the birth of their first child, Michael.  As time went by, Louis and Elizabeth had a home built in Wayne where they have been ever since.  While residing in Wayne, the couple welcomed the birth of their second child, their daughter Linda.

After Elizabeth got married, she made the decision to become a full-time homemaker.  This was truly Elizabeth’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.  Elizabeth was a devoted wife and mother for the rest of here life.  She was a longtime member of the VFW in Bloomingdale and was an avid reader especially of novels, mystery, and fiction.  She loved shopping for clothes and cherished cooking, baking, and hosting parties and holidays in her home.  Throughout the years she hosted wonderfully traditional family Fourth of July parties.  Her absolute favorite time of the year was Christmas.  Every year the entire family would gather at Elizabeth’s home to celebrate Christmas and her son Michael’s birthday which was only two days later.  Family holidays and birthdays were never forgotten.  Everyone in Elizabeth’s family received holiday and birthday cards every year.

Elizabeth was not only dedicated to her family, but was also dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes and later parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation in Wayne for many years.  She also regularly donated to Eva’s Village in Paterson.

Elizabeth was a kind and loving person who never spoke an ill word about anyone. She had a wonderful outlook on life and could always find an upside to everyone and every situation.  She was often selfless and stopped whatever she was doing to help her friends and family.  She was the kind of person who could talk about anything to anyone and was always knowledgeable about current topics and events. Elizabeth could captivate an audience of any age with her ability to tell a story.  It was clear that Elizabeth’s greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Elizabeth that providing for and spending time with her family.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sorely missed by everyone that knew her. She and her husband Louis cherished an amazing seventy years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Elizabeth will forever be remembered as a loving wife, and a devoted mother, sister, and aunt.

Elizabeth is survived by her husband Louis Zazzella of Wayne, her son Michael Zazzella and his wife Debra of Vernon, her daughter Linda Zazzella of Wayne, and many loving nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, and great-great nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her two sisters; Eileen Henderson, and Doris Way, and her brother Fred Soder.

Those wishing to make a donation in Elizabeth’s name are asked to consider Eva’s Village, 393 Main St, Paterson, NJ 07501,  www.evasvillage.org

Charles F. Greenwald, age 66, of Wayne, NJ, passed away December 19, 2022, from battling Multiple Myeloma since 2017.  

Charles, known best as Chuck to family and friends, grew up in Shaler Township, Pennsylvania with his parents and four siblings, five if you count a lifelong friend.  Chuck went to college at Frostburg State College and earned a teaching degree in Health and Physical Education.  Career wise, initially, he started off crating and rigging at his father-in-law’s company, ABC Crating Co.  Through continuing education he became a millwright and also earned a CDL Class A driver’s license.  In total he worked 39 years at the family’s company, ABC Crating and Rigging Co., LLC.

 While at Frostburg State College, Chuck met his future wife, Eileen.  After graduating college, they were married on July 15, 1978, and have been together for over 44 years.  They had three children, owned several pets, most recent a German Shepard named Lola, a parrot named Captain, both of whom were Chuck’s junk food buddies.

During the fall, you could find a football game on the television at any point in time.  If there wasn’t a football game, he found other sports events to watch and was a reliable source for all football stats.  Chuck was a sports fanatic, a die-hard Steelers fan with more Steelers clothing/gear than most professional athletes. He had played high school and college football as a defensive end and linebacker.  While attending his children’s sporting events, he had a distinct “hoot” that could be heard over crowds as he cheered on the team.  He was happiest being outdoors with special interests in hunting and fishing however he preferred freshwater fishing over saltwater fishing because he would become terribly seasick.  He hunted in NJ and NY with trips to Manitoba, Newfoundland, British Columba, Wyoming and Montana where he had many adventures and successful outings.

Chuck enjoyed being around family and friends especially during the holidays. Christmas was one of his favorite times and he put many hours into making the house look festive. One of his main contributions to the decorations was a large Christmas village train table that he would decorate every year with different designs that would have at least 3 HO model trains running. One Christmas Eve Chuck stayed up all night to make sure that the train table would be completed for his children on Christmas Day.

Chuck is survived by his wife, Eileen (Tuohy) Greenwald, of Wayne, NJ, his children Courtney and her husband Brent Rieger, C. Montana Greenwald, Bridget Greenwald and his siblings Karen (Lloyd) Keller, Marilyn (Robin) Weis and Jeff (Adrianne) Greenwald and among many nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his parents Charles S. and Frances M. Greenwald and a brother Gary A. Greenwald.  

In lieu of flowers, a gift can be made to John Theurer Cancer Center at the following link:  https://give.hackensackmeridianhealth.org/site/Donation2?1582.donation=form1&df_id=1582&_ga=2.191137002.1948184815.1671491833-595199346.1671491832

The Gift Designation, please choose the following program from the drop-down menu: Multiple Myeloma Division

Avery Rose Ingraffia passed away peacefully in the loving arms of her parents, Megan and Michael Ingraffia, on December 19, 2022.

Avery Rose was born on December 17, 2022. During her three short days here on Earth she touched many lives and was loved deeply by her parents and family. Her life was a brief gift to us from God, but she will live on in our hearts throughout eternity.

Avery Rose is survived by her parents, Megan and Michael Ingraffia, her grandparents Walter and Ann Marie Smith, Victor and Patricia Ingraffia, her great grandmother Betty Perrotta, her aunt Kaitlin Smith, and her uncles, Zackary Smith and Matthew Ingraffia.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Avery Rose’s memory would be greatly appreciated to the Foundation for Morristown Medical Center. Click this link to donate online.

It is with great sadness that the family of Patricia Miller, age 82, of Pompton Lakes, announces her unexpected passing on Sunday, December 18, 2022.

Pat was born in Paterson, NJ to James P. and Ruth (Rock) Duffy. She grew up in the family’s home on Getty Avenue and attended Central High School in Paterson. After graduating high school, she got her first job at the A&P Grocery Store in Paterson before taking a job with Lakeview Savings and Loan. She eventually settled into a thirty-two-year career with Pathmark Grocery Stores where she rose to the position of Bakery Manager of the stores in Wayne, Kinnelon and Parsippany.

Pat married William “Bill” Sadlock and together, they were blessed with two daughters:  Karyn and Sandra. The family lived on William Street in Little Falls until their house was completely flooded out. They then moved to Wanaque where Pat continued to be a loving homemaker and mother for the next twenty-plus years.

After her divorce, Pat met a gentleman named Byran Miller while a Bakery Manager in the Pathmark’s Kinnelon store. They dated for two years then, one night while out to dinner, Bryon asked Pat for her hand in marriage. They married at the Golden Age Hall in Wanaque on March 17, 1990, which also happened to be St. Patrick’s Day, and took a honeymoon trip to Canada. Their first home together was at the Waterfall Village in Bloomingdale. They later moved to the Brookside Heights community in Wanaque, then to the Forest Hill Lake community in West Milford before moving to the Twin Lakes community in Shohola, Pennsylvania after Bryon’s retirement in 2007. It’s interesting to note that, in all four of their residences during the course of their marriage, Byron and Patricia always lived in a community with some form of aquatic-themed name.

Pat and Byron loved to visit flea markets. They didn’t travel a lot during their life together but, they did take a couple of trips. There was the cruise on the Caribbean but their trip to Jamaica was the most memorable. They just happened to be in Jamaica during a presidential uprising. It was a chaotic time and they ended up being evacuated a day before they were supposed to leave.  

Pat’s hobbies included decorating cakes, challenging herself with word searches, painting by numbers and watching One Life to Live. While engaged in these activities, her little feline friend Priscilla was always by her side.

Pat’s faith in God was important to her. For many years she was active in her parish at St. Francis of Assisi R.C. Church in Haskell where she enjoyed volunteering to help at all the carnivals and was also a member of the PTA when her daughters attended the church’s school.

Pat especially cherished the good times and memories made with her family. She loved hosting gatherings at her house. With a pool in the backyard and plenty of good food on the grill, everyone liked getting together at her home. At Christmas time, her sister Joan hosted Christmas Eve and Pat always had all the family over on Christmas Day.

Pat and Byron adored their grandchildren and, having them live fairly close by was something they were especially thankful for. All together they enjoyed fun and educational adventures learning about the art of glass blowing, taking trips to the nearby Milford Museum, and fun days at the local amusement park. Sometimes they just did simple things like having sleepovers and watching television. Pat loved spoiling her grandchildren and, with her bakery experience, she had fun suprising them on their birthdays with specially themed birthday cakes.

Pat was a good friend to Laurie and Frances who have gone on before her. Down to earth, she would tell it like it was. She will be missed for her endless guidance and her mere presence.  

Pat was the loving wife of the late Byron Miller (2018). She was the loving mother of the late Karyn LoCicero (2019) and Sandra Kolinsky and husband Stephen of Ringwood; cherished grandmother of: Wyatt LoCicero and wife Kerri, Dakotah Stout an husband Brandon, Evan Kolinsky, and Jacob Kolinsky; dear sister of her three sisters: the late Bettyann Smith (2019), Carole Duffy of Wanaque, and Joan Colella and husband Dr. Lou Colella of Wanaque; and dear aunt to numerous nieces and nephews. She is also survived by her cat Pricilla.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Pat’s name are asked to consider:

American Cancer Society

P.O. Box 42040

Oklahoma City, OK 73123

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On Sunday, December 18, 2022, Charles J. Warnasch of Wayne, NJ, passed away at the age of 80.

Charles was born September 22, 1942, in Paterson, NJ, to Charles J. and Louise (Pisciottano) Warnasch. He graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1960. Chas excelled at baseball and basketball, and sports remained an important part of his life. He was a lifelong Mets fan.

After years of childhood accordion lessons (at his mother’s insistence), Charlie had become an accomplished accordion player and formed a band, The Starlighters, that performed around north Jersey for decades. After working at a few local corporations, Charlie’s professional career took an important turn when he began managing the well-known restaurant The Holster in Wayne. This experience led to the opening of his own restaurant, The Steak Out, in Sussex in 1972, which enjoyed great success for more than a decade. Later, he moved back to Wayne and started a livery service business, Crescent Limousine, which he operated until his retirement.

Charlie was also a vintage car enthusiast – he restored several ’57 Thunderbirds and prided himself on tracking down original parts. He was a big fan of the great American songbook and particularly loved the music of Frank Sinatra.

Charlie was preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Louise Warnasch. He leaves behind his loving sister, Barbara Van Duyne, and son, Scott Warnasch. At his wishes, there will be no formal funeral service.

Susan Carroll (nee Malcolm), age 82 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, December 16, 2022. She has lived in Wayne since 2004.

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Martin E. Allman, “Marty” age 93 of Oak Ridge and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, December 15, 2022.

Marty was born in Passaic and grew up in Clifton. Although smart as a whip, he never had much use for school so, as soon as he could, he went to work for his father Peter in his plastering business. Eventually, he and his brother Garry joined the Bricklayers and Allied Craftworkers Local #4 Union. His family used to tease Marty by telling him that he and Garry were the Allman Brothers before the rock band was the Allman Brothers. Marty enjoyed a long and prosperous career as a union plasterer. He was a member of that union for 76 years! A true craftsman, he could make Cornish moldings by hand that today you’d buy prefab.

Shortly after joining the union, Marty was called to serve in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. He bravely served in Korea from 1951 to 1953. Over the course of his lifetime, he shared many accounts of how God protected him while he was overseas. One of those accounts came when he got a leave to go home to be by the bedside of his dying father. He was in a mail jeep enroute to the airplane that was going to fly him home. As they drove toward the plane, the driver suddenly yelled “duck Allman!” The jeep came to a screeching stop just narrowly avoiding Marty and the driver from having their head decapitated by the nearly invisible wires that the enemy had strung across their path. They got out of the jeep and began the time-consuming task of cutting those wires so they could get Marty to the plane on-time. Unfortunately, they arrived too late and Marty’s plane had already taken off. Of course, Marty was disappointed but his disappointment turned to thankfulness to God when he learned that the flight he missed was shot down by the enemy and there were no survivors. He was able to get on the next flight and again, God spared his life when that plane experienced a hobbled landing in Honolulu, Hawaii when one of the engines caught on fire.

Marty was a decent man who lived in the service of others and always tried to do the right thing. While serving in Korea, he was a cook. It was regular practice for food scraps to be loaded into a truck to be dumped into the river. One day while dumping the scraps, Marty noticed hungry Korean children picking up those scraps with rusty tin cans. Feeling compassion, from that point going forward, whenever he went to dump the scraps, Marty always brought some good food to give to those kids.

As an Army cook, Marty was well aware of the policy that soldiers ate for free but officers had to pay for meals. Despite the policy, Marty never made the officers pay. To demonstrate their appreciation, they used to let Marty take the jeep out for a ride as long as he stayed behind enemy lines. One day while out for a ride, he saw another jeep turned over on its side with one of the tires still spinning. Stopping to see if anyone was hurt, he learned that a soldier was stuck under that jeep. Quickly, Marty’s adrenaline kicked in to the point where he was able to upright that jeep on his own. That day he saved a captain’s life, but it wasn’t until some seventy years later that Marty learned that he was the recipient of the Bronze Star for that humanitarian act of heroism. It happened when his son-in-law contacted Congresswoman Mikie Sherril to inquire about some other medals that Marty had never received. One of the medals that came in the mail was the well-deserved Bronze Star.

When he was just ten years old, Marty met a girl named Marion Ten Hoeve who was just eight. She didn’t know it but this shy boy immediately took a liking to her. As the years went on and the two moved into adolescence, Marty’s admiration for Marion never faded, but he was only interested in dating her if she shared his Christian values, but he was too shy to go up to her and ask her. Well finally, one night when Marion was a young beautiful eighteen-year old girl, to Marty’s delight, she miraculously showed up at his church, Prospect Street Christian Reformed Church in Clifton, to attend a hymn sing. At last the question burning in Marty’s heart all these years was answered…..Marion was a church-going girl! The next day, Marty greeted her as she was coming off the bus from school. He immediately asked her to go out with him. Their first date was what could best be described as a park and smooch in the Paterson Mountains. Marty picked Marion up in his very cool 1949 hunter green Dodge Meadowbrook, they headed to the Paterson Mountains. They truly fell in love and one Memorial Day, while Marion was helping Marty wash that 49 Dodge, he bent down as she was scrubbing a white-wall tire and quietly asked her for her hand in marriage. Of course, Marion said yes but the wedding had to wait two years while Marty served in the Army in Korea. When he returned home, they exchanged their wedding vows two weeks later before family and friends at Lodi Christian Reformed Church on March 28, 1953. They drove to Florida in that same Dodge Meadowbrook and recall being wary of sailing together in the glass-bottomed boat. Marion and Marty enjoyed almost 62 years in a blessed marriage. Marion was Marty’s sweetheart – the only girl he ever dated, because to him, there was no one that could ever top her!

After the wedding, the newlyweds came to live with Marty’s mother in Clifton. They lived there for three years and during that time, they became parents for the first time. The baby was little girl which they named Kathy. Their next home was a fixer-upper in Clifton. They lived there a little over seven years and during that time they welcomed another daughter which they named Carol. Then one day, Marion and her mom went out on one of their favorite pastime excursions – house hunting. They were checking out a model of some new homes that were being built in Wayne. They liked the home and the price was right - $24,000. Excitedly, Marion told Marty about it and they ended up moving into that house in 1963. Marty and Marion lived there for the next forty years until moving to Oak Ridge in 2003.

In his spare time, Marty enjoyed doing wood working projects in his home wood shop. He could make anything, from furniture and to even baskets. For one of his wood projects he made display cases for his Disney pin collection. He made a case for himself as well as ones for his grandson’s collections. Marty was also somewhat of a car enthusiast. It’s estimated that, over the course of his life, he had more than thirty new cars. His goal was to have a Lincoln Town Car and he achieved that goal on several occasions.

Marion was the sunshine in Marty’s life. When she passed away in 2015, the rest of his days on earth were really never better than partly cloudy. He missed her warmth , friendship, companionship, her delicious cooking, and especially sharing their mutual love for the Lord. If anything sustained Marty, it was his faith. Marty was an original member of the Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church. He spent time every morning learning new things about God in his personal bible studies. Yet despite walking closely with the Lord his whole life, it was not until recently that Marty had the peace in his heart that comes from assurance of knowing he was going to heaven. It came in a full understanding of Hebrews 11:1 in the holy bible which reads “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”

Just a few days ago, Marty had a dream that his wife Marion and his parents were greeting him with open arms in heaven. Now that Marty has passed, his faith has become sight and that dream is fully realized as he is with the Lord and reunited with those whom he loved who had gone on before him.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marty’s name are asked to consider:

Wounded Warrior Project

P.O. Box 758516

Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516

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To donate by phone call 855-448-3997

Whichever method you choose to donate, kindly indicate that your gift is in memory of Martin Allman and leave your name and address. Thank you.

Dolores “Dee” Cach, age 87 of Wayne, NJ, died peacefully on Thursday, December 15, 2022.  She has lived in Wayne for fifty years.

Dee was raised in the Lafayette section of Jersey City and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1952. She became a secretary in the financial services industry and eventually landed with Paine Webber in New York, NY. She was the executive secretary to the CEO at Paine Webber for twenty-nine years.

After moving to Wayne in 1972, Dee took to gardening and enjoyed taking care of the landscaping around her home. She also traveled to destinations such as Iceland, Alaska, Hawaii, Puerto Rico, Cape Cod, Nantucket, Martha’s Vineyard, Mackinaw Island, Savannah, Charleston SC, New England, New Mexico, Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Greece, Bermuda, Nova Scotia, Mexico, California and Florida, Canada and many others.  She visited the National Parks, Niagara Falls, touring Route 66 and Disney World & Land. She also spent many summer vacations in at a Bed and Breakfast in Cape May with her family. Dee was a huge fan of the NY Yankees & NY Giants, went to games, and followed them closely. She enjoyed going to various plays on Broadway. Her nieces and nephews recall Aunt Dee Dee taking them to see the Ice Capades, the circus, King Tut’s Tomb at a Museum, Great Adventure, Mini Golf, sporting events & to the movie theatre. Her family and friends all have many fond memories of happy times shared with Dee, and they will all miss her dearly.

Dee is survived by two sisters, Carol Balinski and her husband George of Wayne; Joan Gillman of Wayne, one brother; Stanley Cach and his wife Marilyn of Hamilton Square, NJ, three nieces; Debra Graham, Beth Balinski, Jill C. Hume, and three nephews; Ron Balinski, David Balinski, and Paul Balinski.

Robert E. Buyck, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home surrounded with love by his family, on Wednesday, December 14, 2022.

Bob was born in Paterson, the son of August and Marie (Van Der Sande) Buyck. He was raised in the family’s home at 196 Grant Ave. in Totowa until he was fifteen. At that time, his family moved to 26 Greene Ave. in Totowa. He was a graduate of Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls with the Class of 1949.

During his years in high school, Bob worked part-time at the Crayola Crayon Factory in Paterson. One day his boss told him that he had to unfortunately lay him off because Bob was underage. Unflustered, Bob exited the crayon factory and took a walk down the street to a business called Hillside Laundry. He started working that same day! Once he graduated, Bob took a job in the tool room at an auto dealership called Von Lengerke Motor Company – a Buick dealership in Paterson. Working on Buicks seemed only fitting as his last name “Buyck” was commonly pronounced “Buick”. It was a good job for a guy like Bob who had a real interest in cars. As a young man, he and his buddies started their own club called the Speedsters Car Club in Lodi. All the members had “official” jackets. As for Bob, while his first car was a 1938 Pontiac sedan, his favorite was his 1951 Ford Fairlane 500 with dual pipes and a racing stripe.  

One day after work Bob came home to a letter that arrived in the mail that day from Uncle Sam. He was drafted into the U.S. Army and served in Korea during the Korean War from 1952 to 1954. Bob attained the rank of Sergeant and for his proud service to his country, he received the Korean Service Medal with one Bronze Service Star, the United Nations Service Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal. Bob returned from Korea to find out that his 51 Ford Fairlane had turned into a 1956 black and white Ford Crown Victoria. Truth be told, his father replaced it when he accidently put Bob’s prized Fairlane into the Passaic River.

Attempting to get back into the workforce, Bob applied for jobs at three different potential employers: the U.S. Postal Service, Public Service Electric and Gas, and New Jersey Bell. The telephone company was the first to respond and for the next thirty-two years, through the company’s name change to Verizon, Bob worked in numerous roles. He started his career climbing poles as a lineman, then moved into different sectors of the job including repairman, switchman, and ultimately the title of supervisor until retiring in 1988. When asked about his job, Bob said “I really enjoyed that career!”

In April, 1959, Bob married Carol Klaus and they moved into the home located at 69 Knolls Road in Bloomingdale. From there they moved to 366 Valley View Ave. in Paramus and ultimately Bob ended up in Wayne where he continued to live the rest of his life. Bob and Carol were blessed with two children, Suzanne and Jon. Eventually, Bob and Carol parted ways amicably and Bob found love again and enjoyed a thirty-plus year companionship with Clare DeVries.

It was well-known by Bob’s family and friends that, if you were looking for him on a Saturday afternoon, he could usually be found at the racetrack. He loved betting on the horses and spent lots of time betting and watching the races with Bruce – his buddy from work, or with family. Bob was well-acquainted with all the racetracks including, Meadowlands, Belmont, Aqueduct, Garden State, Freehold, Yonkers, and any other one you could think of. He also loved the game of roulette and played frequently in Atlantic City and on his cruise vacations. Throughout his life he also enjoyed bowling in various leagues. He bowled for many years in the phone company’s league which bowled at the former 10-lane Haledon Rec. He also bowled in Wyckoff and the Bowlero lanes in Clifton.  

One of Bob’s favorite pastimes was traveling. His son and daughter can tell you about the annual road trips, during the dog days of August to Disney World in the old Dodge station wagon with no air conditioning. Those trips were fun but they were hot, so nobody was upset to see that station wagon be replaced by a Mercury wagon with much-appreciated AC. There were also many family cruises to the Bahamas, Bermuda, and all over the Caribbean, and annual visits to see Bob’s parents at their condo in Florida.

Above all else, Bob’s family was his greatest treasure in life. He loved going on cruises together, gathering for all the big holidays and birthdays, and attending all his grandchildren’s sporting and musical events, graduations, and weddings.

Bob was the loving companion of Clare DeVries; dear father of: Suzanne Russo and her husband Michael of Glen Rock and Jon Buyck and his wife Arlene of Rochelle Park,; cherished grandfather of: Matthew Russo and his wife Tierney, Katherine Harper and her husband Seth, Christina Russo, Jonathan Buyck, and Nicholas Buyck; and adoring great-grandfather of Theodore Harper.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Robert’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

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It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Barry M. Koblick on December 14, 2022.

Barry was born in the Bronx and raised in Yonkers, New York. He was the oldest of three children to Murray and Olga Koblick.  

After attending Yonkers High School and graduating with the Class of 1966, he attended and graduated from Manhattan College in 1970 with a Bachelor’s Degree in International Business.

Barry found employment working for the Government Accountability Offices at the World Trade Center for several years, later for GPU Nuclear Corporation in Parsippany for fifteen years as a Senior Operations Analyst, and for Geller & Company in New York City as an Operations Analyst Manager. In 2005, he found his home as a Project Manager for nuclear power plants with Enercon Services where he worked until his retirement in 2015.  Throughout his career, Barry was well loved and respected by his friends and colleagues.

In 1968, Barry met his beloved wife Annabel Di Domenico at Manhattan College.  They dated for about four years, fell in love, and went on to marry on June 24, 1972 at Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Queens, New York. The newlyweds settled in Richmond Hill in Queens, NY and welcomed their first daughter, Kristen. In 1977, the family moved to the High Crest Lake community in West Milford, New Jersey and welcomed two more daughters, Jessica, and Kasey.

During his time in West Milford, he volunteered in his community and became an active member in the West Milford PAL, where he served as a soccer coach. Barry also enjoyed vacationing with his family every summer at the Outer Banks in North Carolina – a beloved “second home” for their family. Barry’s favorite past time was cheering on his grandchildren at their soccer and baseball games, throwing the football around, and fishing with them on his canoe at the lake.  He was known affectionately as the “pet whisperer” and loved caring for his five beloved grand dogs: Sapphire, Winston, Finn, Bailey, and Lincoln.

Barry's greatest passion was for his family, nothing in the world meant more to Barry than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren. He brought laughter and joy to his daughters, and to his grandchildren, and often would play wonderfully funny practical jokes on them. He was a fierce and loyal fan of the New York Yankees and New York Jets and enjoyed classic rock music with The Rolling Stones and Tom Petty being some of his top favorites.  He also enjoyed learning and researching world history, particularly World War II.

Barry was a funny, fun loving, and outgoing person who was kind to everyone he met.  He made friends wherever he went and could talk about anything to just about anyone.  He was sincerely loved by all who knew him.  He treasured fifty years of loyal and loving marriage to his wife, Annabel.  Barry was often selfless, putting the needs of others around him before his own and was warmly known as a “second father” or “second grandfather” to many of his children and grandchildren’s friends.

Barry was a truly special person who will be remembered and greatly missed by all who knew him.

He is survived by his wife Annabel (Di Domenico) of West Milford, three daughters; Kristen Koblick of Pompton Plains, NJ, Jessica Koblick of Bloomsburg, PA, and Kasey Koblick-Ferrante and her husband Michael of Morristown, NJ, four grandchildren; Alexandra Ortega of Pompton Plains, NJ, Dylan Ortega of Pompton Plains, NJ, Cole Horrax of Bloomsburg, PA, and Dax Ferrante of Morristown, NJ; one brother Nicky Koblick of Flowery Branch, GA; one sister Caroline Caldropoli and her husband Joe of Leland, NC; one brother-in-law Rocco Di Domenico and his wife Eileen of Newfoundland, NJ; three nephews - Brian, Michael, and Mark and four nieces - Danielle, Ericka, Stephanie, and Tara.

May his legacy of love, laughter, and kindness live on in our hearts forever.

Those planning to make a donation in Barry’s name are asked to consider The American Heart Association, PO Box 840692, Dallas TX 75284-0692. http://www.heart.org/donate

On December 13, 2022, William (Bill) LaShell, passed away suddenly at the Packanack Golf Club in Wayne, NJ, doing what he loved best, playing golf.  He is survived by his wife, Lorraine, son Bill Jr. and partner Stephanie Spratley, son David and wife Amanda, daughter Nancy Spencer and husband Dave, grandchildren Nicholas, Eowyn, Alexander and Crystar, sister Joan Yows and husband Tom and their children, and by all the many people who loved him.

Bill was born in Manhattan, Kansas on September 2, 1941.  He attended Manhattan High School and Kansas State University.  An entrepreneur at heart Bill started several successful businesses one of which revolutionized communications in the cruise industry and the United States Navy.  His varied work life included running a manufacturing facility, exploring for oil and gas, and installing satellite communications at sea.  

The love story with his wife and best friend, Lorraine, began 60 years ago when Bill left his hometown and drove to New York for a summer job at Freedomland USA in the Bronx where Lorraine worked between college semesters. Two years later they married and for 58 years raised a family and shared a life of love and laughter.

An accomplished golfer, Bill shot a 78 at age 81. In addition to golf, his other passion was his Union Pacific HO gauge model railroad. He built a layout, train cars and industrial and residential buildings and taught himself digital command and control to run the trains. He was also a puzzler and great storyteller.  Bill traveled extensively throughout the world first for work, then for fun and adventure with Lorraine.

Bill was a true gentleman, an amazing husband, father, grandfather and friend who was admired and loved by all who knew him.  He will be deeply missed.  

In lieu of flowers a memorial donation to Oasis, a Haven for Women and Children in Paterson would be greatly appreciated.  https://oasisnj.org/.

Brenda Lynn Van Wingerden, age 43, of Oak Ridge died on Saturday, December 10, 2022 after a hard-fought battle with cancer.

Brenda grew up in Pompton Plains and graduated from Netherlands Reformed Christian School with the Class of 1997. She then attended Berdan Business School where she earned certification as a Medical Assistant. She was a true ray of sunshine to the patients that she cared for while working for the private practice of Dr. Aasmaa.

After dating Leonard Van Wingerden for some time, Brenda and Len married on June 13, 2003 at Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes. Soon after marriage, God blessed Len and Brenda with their firstborn, a son named Caleb. Caleb was followed by brothers Jacob and Kevin, little sister Alanna, and little brother Noah. Brenda left her work as a medical assistant and embraced God’s new role as loving and devoted mother to her children and support for Len in his electrical contracting business. Brenda guided her children with an albeit firm hand tempered with a vast outpouring of loving guidance, kindness, sweetness, considerateness, compassion and devotion. Her love, in fact, touched the lives of simply everyone she met. She was an incredible, wife, mother, daughter, sister, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, aunt, and friend. Ask anyone who knew Brenda and they would testify that she was always looking for the good and finding something to love in everyone.

Brenda is survived by her beloved husband Leonard, their five children: Caleb, Jacob, Kevin, Alanna, and Noah Van Wingerden, her parents Jacobus “Joe” and Margaret (Kievit) Willekes, her nine siblings: Laura Prol and husband Jeff of Pompton Plains, Robert Willekes and wife Brenda of Choteau, Montana, Linda Van Grouw and husband Mark of Blairstown, Donald Willekes and wife Hendrieka of Vaughn, Montana, John Willekes and wife Anna of W. Milford, David Willekes and wife Amy of Pequannock, Abraham Willekes and wife Beverly of Allamuchy, Kevin Willekes and wife Konnie of Oak Ridge, and Barbara Negrotto and husband Joseph of Oak Ridge, her father-in-law and mother-in-law Len and Marjan Van Wingerden of Toano, VA, her brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws: Case and Star Van Wingerden of Toano, VA, Mike and Mandy Van Wingerden of Weddington, NC, Ben and Allison Van Wingerden of Yuma, AZ, Josh Van Wingerden of Yorktown, VA, Rianne and Zack Vander Groef of Wantage, NJ and Lydia Van Wingerden of South Sudan.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of remembrance in Brenda’s name are asked to consider:

Operation Kindness NJ

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Andover, NJ 07821

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Our dear father, Dr. Gurdial Mal Sharma passed away peacefully surrounded by his family from all over the country and India.  He is survived by his wife Aruna, three daughters: Sarita Sharma Croce, Neelima Sharma and Shobha Sharma Vohra, his two Son-In-Laws: Steve Croce and Vijay Vohra, and his five grandchildren: Balmikki Sharma Croce, Phillip Sharma Croce, Hannah Sharma Croce, Sonia Sharma Vohra, Asha Sharma Vohra, sister Shakuntla Sharma & many nieces and nephews.

Dr. Sharma was born on November 11th 1930 in Punjab India, the 5th of 7 children to Ram Ditta Sharma & Rattan Devi Sharma, he grew up in Pathankot, India.  He received his Ph.D. in Chemistry from Punjab University in 1960.  He will always be remembered as a great athlete playing volleyball and boxing.  While in college Dr. Sharma qualified for the Olympic men’s Indian Volleyball Team.

Following his graduation from Punjab University, he married his wife, Aruna Avasthi, now Aruna Sharma, who traveled with him to Ottawa Canada where he was a Post Doctorial Fellow at the National Research Council.

In 1965 Dr. Sharma, Mrs. Sharma & their first daughter Sarita came to the United States where he worked at The Lamont-Doherty Geological Observatory of Columbia University. In his 11 years working at Columbia, he directed research on marine biology and published his findings in numerous scholarly journals. While at Lamont Dr. Sharma and Mrs. Sharma had two daughters, Neelima and Shobha.

From 1976 – 1980, Dr. Sharma was head of the Chemical and Biological Oceanography Department of the New York Ocean Science Laboratory, Long Island, Montauk, NY. In 1988, he was appointed Full Professor at William Patterson University. He spent the remainder of his career researching and teaching his love for Chemistry to generations of students at the University.  During his tenure, he also served as the Chemistry Department Chair.  After a very successful 53 year career Dr. Sharma decided to retire in 2014 at the age 83.

In his life, Dr. Sharma has published many papers in the areas of Organic Chemistry, Biochemistry, Analytical Chemistry and Chemical/Biological Oceanography. Through that research he had the opportunity to travel to Quebec Canada, Italy, Australia, Norway, & India to present his research.

Outside of being academically acclaimed, Dr. Sharma was incredibly loved by his family, friends & colleagues. He enjoyed time spent reading, playing the tabla’s (Indian drums) & time with his children, grandchildren, and friends. Some of the fondest memories spent with him will be those traveling with his family, having wonderful family gatherings filled with wonderful conversation and laughter.

Dr. Sharma was extraordinarily generous and a friend to all those in need of friendship. He was unbelievably kind but more importantly he was passionate. A trait that will live on through his 3 daughters.

Dr. Sharma will be remembered as an amazing husband, father & grandfather who lived life to its fullest!

Gloria Keenan (nee Cordisco), age 99 of Wayne, better known as "Ma" to just about everyone, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 8, 2022.

Born in Passaic, Gloria grew up on E 4th St in Clifton and graduated St John's HS in Paterson. She began her career as a secretary at the home offices of the A&P in Paterson. She later worked as a Purchaser at Wood Press Printing, Paterson, retiring in 1982. See later resided in Wayne.

Gloria enjoyed traveling throughout Europe and the Mediterranean countries. She enjoyed playing golf and spent many days sailing. She was a devoted parishioner Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne and was an active member of the Golden Age Circle of Wayne.

She is survived by two sons: Gerard (Jerry) Keenan and his wife Kathy of New Bern, NC and Albert Keenan and his wife Linda of North Haledon, NJ, nine Grand Children Kathryn, Elizabeth, Jason, Karen, Paul, Duane, Lindsay, Kimberley and John, six Great-Grandchildren and two Great-Great Grandchildren and a sister, Lorraine Daly of Vero Beach, FL. Gloria was predeceased by her first Husband, Leo Keenan in 1976; and her second husband, Thomas Harding in 1995, by her son, Leo in 2000, and by two sisters; Dolores Tortoretti and Rita Moritz.

Charles Hargreaves, a longtime resident of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on December 7th, 2022 at the age of 101 while receiving loving care from his family.

He was born on May 23rd, 1921 in Prospect Park, New Jersey to William and Emma Hargreaves.  The youngest of four children Charles grew up in Paterson, New Jersey and attended Eastside High School, graduating with the class of 1939. After graduating he worked Schneckenberger's Bakery, the family business in Paterson.

Charles was a member of a rapidly shrinking “Greatest Generation”, those who grew up during the Great Depression and as young adults fought in World War II, or whose labor helped win the war.

After the Unites States’ entered into World War II, Charles enlisted in the United States Army Air Corp in 1942. His tours of duty took him to Italy and Africa, where he served as a staff sergeant in Ordinance. Charles received multiple honors for his service including the American Service Medal, European African Middle Eastern Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal, and Meritorious Service Unit Plaque. Charles’ service to his country had a profound effect on his life and resulted in him becoming a great patriot.  Throughout his life he donated regularly to American Veterans’ charities and the American Diabetes Association.

Upon his discharge from service, Charles worked at Hawthorne Rubber for his brother-in-law.  After a few years he was employed as a purchasing agent for Harmon Colors Corp, Allied Chemical, Mobay Chemical and then Bayer. He was truly loved and respected by his colleagues and cherished a career that spanned nearly 48 years until his retirement in 1993.

Charles met Peggy Fredericks on a blind date in the early 1940’s.  The couple eloped to Maryland (with the assistance of Peggy’s aunt Lil) and were married on July 27th 1954. The newlyweds settled in Totowa NJ where their first two children were born; Marc and Karen. In 1963, as the family grew, they moved to Wayne NJ where their third child Paul was born. Charles enjoyed gardening and meticulously cared for his yard and gardens. He loved his family deeply.  Providing for and spending time with his family was his greatest passion and was always willing to help family and friends at any time. Nothing in the world meant more to Charles than spending time with his children and grandchildren.

He treasured vacationing with his family at the Jersey Shore points including; Avon by the Sea, Point Pleasant, and Asbury Park. Charles and his wife Peggy enjoyed dining out together eating fine food and enjoying the company of friends. He and Peggy cherished their forty-six year loving and loyal marriage until Peggy’s sudden passing in December of 2000.  

Charles was a quiet, soft spoken private man who kept to himself.  He will be remembered by those closest to him as a deeply caring, loving, and generous person.  He was wonderfully organized, “having a place for everything and everything in its place.”  Charles touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Charles is survived by his sons Marc Hargreaves and his wife Susan of Lakeland FL, Paul Hargreaves of Wayne NJ; daughter Karen Stone and her husband Bill of Nazareth PA; grandchildren Marc Hargreaves Jr.and his wife Katie of Lakeland FL, Steven Hargreaves of Lakeland FL, Ryan Hargreaves and his wife Margarita of Lakeland FL, Kiel Stone and his significant other Meredith Delaware of Fairfax VA, Garrett Stone and his significant other Sarah Hanson of Salt Lake City, UT and Braden Stone and his wife Camille of Nazareth PA; one great granddaughter, Mila Hargreaves and a future great grandson Stone due in March; two nieces Barbara & Kristin; he was predeceased by two sisters Gladys Young & Alice Esselman; and one brother Vincent Hargreaves.

The world has lost a true patriot whose love for his family ran deep and will never be forgotten.  Charles will be remembered as an amazing husband, father & grandfather who lived life to its fullest!

In lieu of flowers, donations in Charles’ name may be made to Valley Hospice, 15 Essex Rd, Paramus, NJ 07652 www.valleyhealth.com

The unsinkable, unstoppable Ivy Rodgers of Wayne passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, December 4th at the age of 100.

Ivy was born to Robert and Agnes Graham in Paterson, NJ, the third of six children. Her full name was Ivy Vietta Young Graham, named after the midwife that delivered her. She was put into the Fresh Air class in grade school because she was thought to be sickly, but she’d be quick to tell you it was just because she was thin. She graduated from Central High School in Paterson and went on to business school to become a bookkeeper.

Ivy's first job was as a waitress in Paterson, but she quit after one day when a customer was rude to her. She went on to become an elevator operator at Meyer Brothers Department Store in Paterson. During the war she was a bookkeeper at Wrights Aeronautical. At some point, she decided she wanted a raise and when it was denied, she quit. Her boss asked her to come in a week later and gave her the raise.

It was at the Third Presbyterian Church in Paterson that she met her future employer and future husband, Nathaniel (Nat) Rodgers. Nat had just started a trucking company and asked Ivy to teach his sister how to keep the books. His sister never quite caught on and Ivy became the permanent bookkeeper for Rodgers Brothers Express. Although Nat was engaged to someone else when they met, they fell in love and on December 17, 1946 they were married in her mother's living room. They built the business together with Nat's brothers. Ivy was always proud that all of her ledgers came out to the penny.

Ivy and Nat welcomed daughter Deborah and moved to Wayne shortly thereafter in 1954. Ivy took great pride in decorating her new home. She would paint walls, mow the lawn, iron the curtains and loved having family parties as long as she could cater and not cook the food. When her daughter Deborah started school, Ivy became very active in the PTA. She started the first library at Lafayette School, was a girl scout leader, and hosted a talent show to raise money for the school.

Ivy was thrilled to become a grandmother and was a daily presence in her grandchildren's lives. She could be seen at school pick up, every school play, baseball game or any other activity.

Shortly after celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary, Nat passed away in 1997. Ivy focused her full attention on her grandchildren and loved every minute. She could also be seen walking all over Wayne. Her favorite spots were the A&P, Walgreens and Shop Rite. She also loved dancing and singing along to Perry Como.

In the winter of 2012 she fell and broke her knee. The doctor told her that because of her age it would be a long recovery. She reminded the doctor that her grandson was getting married in April and she would be dancing at his wedding. And she did! A few years later, she proudly walked her granddaughter down the aisle at her wedding.

The highlight of her later years were her great grandchildren Ivy, Nathan and Chloe. She looked forward to every moment spent with them, and was never shy about getting on the floor to play with dolls, cars, or legos.

Ivy is survived by her daughter, Deborah ( Scott), her grandson Fredrick Karamanol ( Emilia), her granddaughter Courtney Cronk (Jason), great grandchildren (Ivy Karamanol, Nathan Cronk, Chloe Cronk), her sister Beatrice Adderley, and nieces and nephews.

On December 5, 2022, the world lost a bright light with the passing of Gabrielle “Gaby” Keeler, age 75, of Wayne, NJ. Gaby was born in San Mateo, CA. She was one of three daughters to John Roy and Doris May Higgins (nee Reidy). Her father’s work with the FBI and later in advertising moved their family around the country; Gaby and her family eventually settled in West Caldwell, New Jersey where she attended James Caldwell High School and graduated in 1965. Gaby then attended St Mary’s College in South Bend, IN, the sister school to the University of Notre Dame. She later attended the Katherine Gibbs School and William Paterson University where she earned her bachelor’s degree in accounting. Gaby’s career as an Executive Assistant spanned many companies and industries including Eastman Dillon & Co., US Steel, Yellow Freight and the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater MetroWest NJ.

Gaby was an active member of her community. She served on the board of directors for United Givers Plan of Packanack Lake, was president of the Packanack Lake Leisure Club, a former member of the Packanack Lake Board of Governors, and a member of the legendary Dominoes book club for 20 years. She was an avid reader who enjoyed best-selling novels as well as researching anything and everything. Gaby also loved to travel the world, enjoying destinations such as Italy, England, Scotland, Ireland, Russia, France, Greece, Wales, Australia, and anywhere in the Caribbean where a cruise ship would take her. In recent years, Gaby and Paul vacationed in St Pete Beach, FL, during the winter months. She also enjoyed exercising, especially yoga and walking. Every morning, Gaby could be found with friends walking around Packanack Lake.

Gaby was known by everyone who met her as being social, outgoing, and engaging; making friends wherever she went. She never met a stranger and never forgot a name or a face. Gaby’s friendships were many and her devotion to those friends was always evident.

It was clear to everyone, though, that her greatest passion in life was for her family. Gaby met her husband Paul Keeler on a blind date on New Year’s Eve 1969 and after dating for two years they were married on August 28, 1971; Gaby and Paul cherished fifty-one years of marriage together. They lived in Saddle Brook briefly before moving to Packanack Lake, where they lived for the next 50 years. Gaby and Paul had two children: Laura and John. Along with being a loving wife and mother, Gaby was a loving and devoted GG (Grandma Gaby) to Finn and Teagan, John and his wife Sabrina’s two boys. Nothing in the world meant more to Gaby than spending time with her husband, sisters, children, and grandchildren.

Gaby is survived by her husband Paul E. Keeler, Jr. of Wayne, NJ; daughter Laura Anne Keeler of Washington, DC; son John Paul Keeler, daughter-in-law Sabrina, and grandsons Finnegan Paul Keeler and Teagan Martin Keeler of Ardmore, PA; two sisters Patricia Higgins (and her husband Francis Ferraro) of St Petersburg, FL, and Candace Higgins of Colorado Springs, CO; two nieces Jennifer and Barbara; and four nephews David, Brian, Thomas and James.

Gaby will be remembered fondly by those who knew her best – family members will miss her dearly but take comfort knowing that she is now reunited with those who have gone before her.

Donations in Gaby’s name may be made to the United Givers Plan of Packanack Lake, PO Box 1835, Wayne, NJ, 07474-1835 www.packanacklake.com

Joyce (nee Gailey) Fedell of Ormond Beach, Florida was born in Newark New Jersey to William and Elsetta Gailey in 1937. She lived her life in Wayne, New Jersey until she was married in 1962.

Joyce graduated from Wayne High School in 1955 and went to work for Congoleum Nairn in Kearny, NJ and then later worked for the 1st National Bank in Pompton Plains.

Joyce was married to Joseph Fedell by Judge DeWalsh in Wayne on March 16, 1962.  Joe was a self-employed mason. They lived in Butler, Lincoln Park, and Marsella before building a home in Milton, NJ.  In the early 1970’s they moved to Old Forge, NY where they bought a home on 1st Lake and enjoyed snowmobiling on the many scenic trails.  While living in Old Forge, they purchased the Strand Movie Theatre which they operated until Joe’s death in October of 1981. After his death, Joyce moved back to Milton, New Jersey where she purchased a mobile home and lived there until she moved to Ormond Beach, Florida in 1999.

Every year she looked forward to coming north for the holidays and enjoyed her time here being with family and friends.

Joyce is the 2nd of five daughters of the late William and Elsetta (Miller) Gailey who lived in Wayne from 1932 until their respective deaths in 1978 and 1989. Her surviving four sisters, Carol Beatty of Wayne, Gloria Hinderlong of Oak Ridge, formally of Wayne, New Jersey, Merilyn Martin of Florida and Bonnie Longo of New Foundland, New Jersey. She is also survived by seven nieces and nephews and their respective children on her side along with her nephew Tony Fedell and his wife Denise and their two children of Nutley, New Jersey and Bob Maday and his wife Geraldine of Florida and many other family members from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania on Joe’s side.

Joyce leaves a Dear, Dear friend, Janet Minogue of Inverness, Florida, formerly of Milton, New Jersey. Janet traveled all the time across the State of Florida to make sure Joyce’s health issues were being addressed and she was comfortable and just being the best friend she could ever have. She always decorated her room for the holidays, so Joyce never felt left out of festivities. Janet and Merilyn always made sure she had the personal items she needed and of course the snacks along with bananas and grapes that she always looked forward to getting and enjoyed immensely. No one could ever want a more caring friend than Janet was and on behalf the family I want to say, “Thank you and Bless you Janet for all you did for Joyce in your caring and loving way.” You are a true friend.

William H. Wackwitz, age 99 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, December 3, 2022. He’s lived in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne since 1963.

Bill had been a commercial printer for decades, retiring from Peerless Stationary Co. in Nutley in 1987, and he had previously worked as a printer for the Commercial Leader newspaper, and Nutley Sun newspaper. He was also politically active in Lyndhurst, serving on the Planning Board and the Board of Education. After moving to Wayne in 1963, he became a charter member of the Packanack Golf Association, and served as the Packanack Lake ‘Ranger,’ patrolling the community for twenty-two years before retiring from that position in 2009, at the age of just 86!

Bill was notorious for living life on his own terms, and Frank Sinatra’s “My Way” was his anthem song. This all began on the day he was born, when his mother went into labor rather quickly while visiting her mom in Brooklyn, New York. Things happened so fast that Bill was born right there in his grandmother’s house, arriving into this world like a whirlwind. Growing up in Lyndhurst, NJ, during the 1920’s and 30’s, Bill experienced things in his childhood that no one will ever be able to experience again. He witnessed the construction of the George Washington Bridge and then drove across it with his father when it first opened. Bill was there. His dad also drove him through the Holland Tunnel when it first opened. He witnessed the first commercial seaplane arrive at Port Washington, Long Island. Bill was there. When he was just thirteen years old, on May 6, 1937, his dad drove him to Lakehurst, NJ, so together they could witness the much-anticipated arrival of the Hindenburg dirigible. Bill was there!

Bill would be the first to tell you that he didn’t care much for school when he was a young boy. At thirteen years old, he left school and started working for a printer. Soon thereafter, his brother, Eddie, taught him to be a welder. In 1943, Bill was drafted into the U.S. Army, and he served under General George Patton in the 5th Armored Division of the 3rd Army. As a welder, he was assigned to fix tanks that had broken tracks or needed other welding repairs. Always a creative thinker, Bill was credited with creating a mobilized repair unit so they could go right to the front lines to repair damaged tanks and get them back into the battle as quickly as possible. Among his most frightening memories of World War II was during the crossing of the Roer River when his unit was dive-bombed by a German Me-262. These were the first jet-propelled aircraft ever, and the sight and sound of this plane was terrifying to all the soldiers. Bill was there. Upon returning to the United States aboard the Queen Mary, Bill recalled one of his most emotional memories occurred while he passed the Statue of Liberty. All the soldiers aboard ship were overwhelmed with emotion that day. Bill was there.

As a young man growing up in Lyndhurst, Bill met June Davies, who lived in the neighborhood. They hit it off quite well, and on November 29, 1947 they exchanged wedding vows. As the story goes, Bill insisted that he be able to watch the entire ARMY football game first, and only after the game had concluded could the wedding commence. June knew what she was in for because Bill always did things his way. They enjoyed a honeymoon to Williamsburg, Virginia before settling into a two-family home that his father owned in Lyndhurst, and they lived there for about fifteen years before moving to Packanack Lake. Throughout the years, they enjoyed many road-trips throughout the United States, all the way to California and back. After seventy-one years of marriage, June passed away in 2018, and Bill has missed her dearly. Bill and June were very proud of their loving family and of their large legacy of children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. They were truly blessed in this life.

Bill is survived by his two children: Judith “Judy” Gerasimenko and her husband George of Kinnelon, and William D. and his wife Cathy of Wayne, five grandchildren: Lauren LaMantia (Charlie), Christine McDevitt (Dan), Michael Gerasimenko (Geralanne Maglione), William D. Wackwitz, Jr. (Michelle), and Brian Wackwitz, two great-grandchildren: Brendan Hout and Page Erekat, and one sister: Elizabeth Cloughley. Bill was predeceased by his beloved wife June in 2018.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Joseph Miglino, 81, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, December 3, 2022.

The firstborn of Gennaro and Carmela (Cetrangolo) Miglino’s two sons, Joseph was born and raised in Italy, in the town of Rutino in the province of Salerno.

When Joe was just five years of age, his father, a Carabinieri, tragically lost his life while on duty during an earthquake tremor near Mount Vesuvius. The tremor caused the opening of the cave he was in to be blocked and, sadly, his father suffocated. Despite losing his dear dad and primary role model, Joe persevered and lived a life that had a positive impact on countless persons who were blessed to have known him.

Between the ages of thirteen and nineteen, Joe spent his summers as a teacher, educating the poorer children of Rutino, some even older than him. When he was sixteen, he was bestowed with a national award, Premio Della Bontá, for his humanitarian effort. Joe’s benevolent nature continued throughout his entire life and, along the way, he proved to be a blessing to family, friends, and countless acquaintances.

After graduating from Istituto Tecnico Industriale in Italy, Joe emigrated to the United States in 1960. Upon landing on American soil, Joe moved into his Aunt and Uncle Cetrangolo’s home on 23rd Street in Paterson, NJ. His first order of business was taking English classes. He was a quick learner and soon secured a job as a tool maker in a machine shop in Paterson. Joe’s leadership skills and spirit of advocacy for fellow workers inspired him to attempt to form a union within that shop. When those efforts fell short, he left his position and joined the United Electrical Union.

Joe met the love of his life, Tina Leo, at St. Michael’s Church in Paterson, at a church sponsored gathering for young Italian immigrants. Soon after, they began a beautiful courtship and Tina even suggested that Joe take a job at a machine shop called United Tool and Stamping Company located right next door to the coat factory she worked at on Andrews Drive in West Paterson. It was the perfect suggestion because it gave them the opportunity to enjoy lunch together every day. Afraid that Tina’s parents would not approve of her seeing Joe, they secretly dated for six months before they got caught. Tina recalls that Joe bought her an LP record to convince her not to break up. Then he mustered up the courage to talk to Tina’s parents. He won them over with his respect and charm, so much so that they wondered why he and Tina kept their relationship so secretive in the first place. Once Tina’s parents accepted Joe, they were considered engaged. They married on Saturday, April 18, 1970 at St. Michael’s Church. It was a sunny but very windy day. After a reception at Natolis on Route 46, the newlyweds honeymooned in the Poconos and then in Italy. Their first home as husband and wife was a second-floor apartment at 101 Totowa Ave in Paterson. From there, along with their six-month old son Daniel, they moved to 281 Paterson Ave in Paterson. While in that home they were blessed with two more children – Debbie and Rino. In 1981 they moved once again, this time into a brand new home in Wayne. Along with friends and family always willing to help, Joe did a lot of the finish work on the house like tiling, painting, and trimming. It was in this home that Joe remained for the rest of his life. Joe’s love for his beloved Tina was immense. A true romantic, every year he bestowed her with a gift on the anniversary of the very first day they met in the church.

Prior to marriage, Joe pursued further education at Farleigh Dickinson University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in linguistics. He was fluent in four of the five romance languages – French, Italian, Spanish, and Portuguese. Immediately after graduating Joe was offered a teaching job but, with a family to provide for, the salary wasn’t enough so he chose to stay with United Tool and Stamping Company and part time with the United Electrical Union. With a heart for the welfare of his fellow workers and the gift of negotiation, Joe was able to convince United Tool to allow its workers to unionize. Most shop owners would oppose such an idea but Joe was such a fair negotiator that, his boss not only agreed, but they remained good friends. Joe enjoyed a career that spanned over forty years until full retirement in 2005.

With time to spare Joe became Tina’s right-hand man in her bridal store in Totowa – Tina’s Bridal. Joe served as her business manager, her “gopher” and her “Jack of all trades.” Retirement also gave him more time to focus on his hobbies including stamp collecting, oil painting on canvas, and painting intricate beach scenes on large seashells. He loved artistic painting and was a huge fan of Bob Ross’ television show, “The Joy of Painting.” Above all, Joe put together a nativity scene every Christmas which became more elaborate every year including running water, lights, and expanding real estate.

Joe was a fantastic father and grandfather who believed that nothing was as important as his family including his nieces, nephews and in-laws whom he adored. Family vacations included many cruises, trips to Hawaii, Italy, Costa Rica, Disney, and summers down the Jersey shore at their family beach house in Brigantine, NJ. He was an incredible “Nonno” to his six cherished grandchildren. It sounds like an old cliché but they truly were the apple of his eye. When they were with Nonno, his grandchildren were his entire world and, like any good grandparent, he and Tina spoiled them like crazy.

A theme quickly emerged when his family was asked to use words to describe Joe – words like sweet, kind, gentle, warm, complimentary, accepting, patient, selfless, compassionate, and benevolent. Wherever he went, Joe had his hands in helping people. Whenever the fellow Italian immigrants that he met in St. Michael’s Church needed help, whether it was applying for citizenship, filling out documents, or anything to help them assimilate into their new communities, they knew he would always be around for them. In 1980, Joe’s wife Tina went to Italy for her father’s funeral. While there, an earthquake struck. Joe left his children with relatives and flew to Italy to be with Tina. The earthquake caused the relocation of many Italian citizens to the United States. Joe helped them relocate, get jobs, and he even gave them rides to and from work.

Sadly, Joe suffered from Alzheimer’s Disease for the past five years. His family looked after him with the same love and compassion that he would have given to one in need. While they mourn his passing, they are grateful that his suffering is over and their hearts overflow with thankfulness for the honor of having him in their lives.

Joe was the beloved husband of Tina (Leo), blessed in marriage for 52 years; loving father of: Daniel and wife Heather Miglino of Hammonton, NJ, Debbie and husband Marc Foti of Wayne, and Rino and wife Lindsey Miglino of Kinnelon; adored grandfather of: Peter Joseph Foti, Julia Foti, Joseph Miglino, Marissa Foti, Alessia Miglino, and Daniel Miglino; dearest older brother of the late Daniel Miglino (2011) and his wife Anna of Italy; dear brother-in-law of: the late Maria (2015) and her late husband Teodoro Pizza, Iolanda and husband Gerardo DeSimone of Wayne, Franca and husband Michael Tafuri of Wayne, and Antonio and wife Joanne Leo of Wayne: and cherished uncle of: Rosaria, Anna, Giuseppe, Federico, Jessie, Luci, Sonia, Joe, Lorena, Pam, Enrico, Michelle, Nick, Sabrina, Jessica, and all their spouses; and dear great-uncle to numerous great-nieces and great-nephews.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Joe’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

Stephen F. De Carlo, age 90 of Wayne and formerly of Rochelle Park, passed away on Tuesday, November 29, 2022. Steve had been a licensed electrician in NJ and served as a Foreman for the Rutherford Board of Education where he worked over 42 years until he retired in June 1996.

Steve was born in Manhattan.  His family then lived for a short period of time in Passaic, NJ closer to relatives until finally settling in Rutherford, NJ. He was the third eldest of twelve children in his family, with the eldest sister passing away around eight years old. With so many mouths to feed, Steve entered the workforce after finishing high school. His father was a carpenter and taught him the trades which turned to serve as a great value to his future. He started working for the Rutherford Board of Education school system as a custodian and worked his way into doing various trades for the school system.  He also obtained his Black Seal Boiler License.

It was in Rutherford that Steve met his wife, Elsie. As the story goes, Steve’s mother and eldest sister would babysit for Elsie’s daughter Patricia, when the two first met.  Elsie & Steve fell pretty hard for one another! Steve also adored little Patty.  Elsie laid a kiss on Steve that he couldn’t forget, and the rest is history. They were married on August 3, 1957, and enjoyed a honeymoon to Bermuda. The two of them were inseparable and did just about everything together. Steve was a devoted husband and father, and there wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for his family.  He taught his children sports and attended all of their events. The family participated in the church folk group where Steve would happily help with all of their instruments.

While working during the day, Steve started classes at the Bergen County Tech Vocational School which eventually led to him becoming a licensed electrician. He continued to work for the Rutherford Board of Education by day and did electrical & TV repair side jobs after work and on weekends; sometimes taking his children with him to help and learn.  When Elsie began fighting cancer, he was by her side through every doctor visit and treatment. Sadly, Elsie passed in 1989 and Steve has grieved for her ever since. He then assumed the role of both father and mother to his children.  They would take him along with them everywhere and he was an active part of their adult life.  He enjoyed collecting and running 0 Gauge toy trains with his son and grandsons.  Steve also loved to video-tape all of their family events, and he took great pride in editing the videos and adding music soundtracks. He would make copies for the growing family to share.  They have hours of videos to cherish for their lifetimes. He was also a devoted grandfather and never missed an opportunity to spend time with his grandchildren. He would often babysit his grandchildren and never missed their events.  They adored their PopPop.  

Steve was a big fan of the NY Yankees. He also enjoyed following politics and was an avid reader. After his wife passed away, he began studying the Bible and his faith deepened greatly. He became very religious and read the entire Bible four times. He enjoyed sharing his catholic faith with his grandchildren. Although he could be stubborn at times, he was always kind, helpful, and generous with his skills and most importantly his time. He was always willing to help if you asked and put his family first.

Steve is survived by two children; Thomas De Carlo and his wife Sherri of Wayne, and Margaret “Peggy” Duffill and her husband Bill of Maywood, His son in law Joe Farsijani of Florida, six grandchildren; Stephen, Thomas, and Matthew De Carlo of Wayne, Luke and Leah Duffill of Maywood, and Michael Atanas and his wife Allison of Florida, four great-grandchildren; Mackenzie, Morgan Ryleigh, Morgan Patrick, and Maya, three sisters; Marie De Carlo of Toms River, Catherine Fernandi of Seattle, Susan Rossi of S. Jersey, two brothers; Frank of Whiting and Danny of East Rutherford. Steve was predeceased by his dear wife Elsie in 1989, and by their daughter, Patricia Atanas-Farsijani in 2019 , two sisters; Catherine De Carlo and Dina Leonte, and by four brothers; Carlo, Joseph, Vito, and Dennis.