It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Elizabeth Zazzella (nee Soder), age 90, of Wayne.  She passed away peacefully on Monday, December 19, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Elizabeth was born in North Haledon and raised n Totowa, NJ.  She was one of four children to Alfred and Elizabeth Soder.  As a young woman she attended St Mary’s Catholic High School in Totowa and graduated with the class of 1950.  Following her graduation from high school, Elizabeth found work quickly in the office of William H Coleman Associates where she worked for several years.

While working with William H Coleman Associates, Elizabeth was introduced by some mutual friends to a handsome young World War II veteran by the name of Louis Zazzella.  Louis and Elizabeth hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on January 26, 1952.  After getting married, the newlyweds settled in Pompton Lakes where they lived for several years. While living there, Elizabeth and Louis welcomed the birth of their first child, Michael.  As time went by, Louis and Elizabeth had a home built in Wayne where they have been ever since.  While residing in Wayne, the couple welcomed the birth of their second child, their daughter Linda.

After Elizabeth got married, she made the decision to become a full-time homemaker.  This was truly Elizabeth’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.  Elizabeth was a devoted wife and mother for the rest of here life.  She was a longtime member of the VFW in Bloomingdale and was an avid reader especially of novels, mystery, and fiction.  She loved shopping for clothes and cherished cooking, baking, and hosting parties and holidays in her home.  Throughout the years she hosted wonderfully traditional family Fourth of July parties.  Her absolute favorite time of the year was Christmas.  Every year the entire family would gather at Elizabeth’s home to celebrate Christmas and her son Michael’s birthday which was only two days later.  Family holidays and birthdays were never forgotten.  Everyone in Elizabeth’s family received holiday and birthday cards every year.

Elizabeth was not only dedicated to her family, but was also dedicated to her Catholic Faith.  She and her family were parishioners of St Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes and later parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation in Wayne for many years.  She also regularly donated to Eva’s Village in Paterson.

Elizabeth was a kind and loving person who never spoke an ill word about anyone. She had a wonderful outlook on life and could always find an upside to everyone and every situation.  She was often selfless and stopped whatever she was doing to help her friends and family.  She was the kind of person who could talk about anything to anyone and was always knowledgeable about current topics and events. Elizabeth could captivate an audience of any age with her ability to tell a story.  It was clear that Elizabeth’s greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Elizabeth that providing for and spending time with her family.  She was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sorely missed by everyone that knew her. She and her husband Louis cherished an amazing seventy years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Elizabeth will forever be remembered as a loving wife, and a devoted mother, sister, and aunt.

Elizabeth is survived by her husband Louis Zazzella of Wayne, her son Michael Zazzella and his wife Debra of Vernon, her daughter Linda Zazzella of Wayne, and many loving nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, and great-great nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her two sisters; Eileen Henderson, and Doris Way, and her brother Fred Soder.

Those wishing to make a donation in Elizabeth’s name are asked to consider Eva’s Village, 393 Main St, Paterson, NJ 07501,  www.evasvillage.org

Charles F. Greenwald, age 66, of Wayne, NJ, passed away December 19, 2022, from battling Multiple Myeloma since 2017.  

Charles, known best as Chuck to family and friends, grew up in Shaler Township, Pennsylvania with his parents and four siblings, five if you count a lifelong friend.  Chuck went to college at Frostburg State College and earned a teaching degree in Health and Physical Education.  Career wise, initially, he started off crating and rigging at his father-in-law’s company, ABC Crating Co.  Through continuing education he became a millwright and also earned a CDL Class A driver’s license.  In total he worked 39 years at the family’s company, ABC Crating and Rigging Co., LLC.

 While at Frostburg State College, Chuck met his future wife, Eileen.  After graduating college, they were married on July 15, 1978, and have been together for over 44 years.  They had three children, owned several pets, most recent a German Shepard named Lola, a parrot named Captain, both of whom were Chuck’s junk food buddies.

During the fall, you could find a football game on the television at any point in time.  If there wasn’t a football game, he found other sports events to watch and was a reliable source for all football stats.  Chuck was a sports fanatic, a die-hard Steelers fan with more Steelers clothing/gear than most professional athletes. He had played high school and college football as a defensive end and linebacker.  While attending his children’s sporting events, he had a distinct “hoot” that could be heard over crowds as he cheered on the team.  He was happiest being outdoors with special interests in hunting and fishing however he preferred freshwater fishing over saltwater fishing because he would become terribly seasick.  He hunted in NJ and NY with trips to Manitoba, Newfoundland, British Columba, Wyoming and Montana where he had many adventures and successful outings.

Chuck enjoyed being around family and friends especially during the holidays. Christmas was one of his favorite times and he put many hours into making the house look festive. One of his main contributions to the decorations was a large Christmas village train table that he would decorate every year with different designs that would have at least 3 HO model trains running. One Christmas Eve Chuck stayed up all night to make sure that the train table would be completed for his children on Christmas Day.

Chuck is survived by his wife, Eileen (Tuohy) Greenwald, of Wayne, NJ, his children Courtney and her husband Brent Rieger, C. Montana Greenwald, Bridget Greenwald and his siblings Karen (Lloyd) Keller, Marilyn (Robin) Weis and Jeff (Adrianne) Greenwald and among many nieces and nephews.  He was preceded in death by his parents Charles S. and Frances M. Greenwald and a brother Gary A. Greenwald.  

In lieu of flowers, a gift can be made to John Theurer Cancer Center at the following link:  https://give.hackensackmeridianhealth.org/site/Donation2?1582.donation=form1&df_id=1582&_ga=2.191137002.1948184815.1671491833-595199346.1671491832

The Gift Designation, please choose the following program from the drop-down menu: Multiple Myeloma Division

Avery Rose Ingraffia passed away peacefully in the loving arms of her parents, Megan and Michael Ingraffia, on December 19, 2022.

Avery Rose was born on December 17, 2022. During her three short days here on Earth she touched many lives and was loved deeply by her parents and family. Her life was a brief gift to us from God, but she will live on in our hearts throughout eternity.

Avery Rose is survived by her parents, Megan and Michael Ingraffia, her grandparents Walter and Ann Marie Smith, Victor and Patricia Ingraffia, her great grandmother Betty Perrotta, her aunt Kaitlin Smith, and her uncles, Zackary Smith and Matthew Ingraffia.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Avery Rose’s memory would be greatly appreciated to the Foundation for Morristown Medical Center. Click this link to donate online.

It is with great sadness that the family of Patricia Miller, age 82, of Pompton Lakes, announces her unexpected passing on Sunday, December 18, 2022.

Pat was born in Paterson, NJ to James P. and Ruth (Rock) Duffy. She grew up in the family’s home on Getty Avenue and attended Central High School in Paterson. After graduating high school, she got her first job at the A&P Grocery Store in Paterson before taking a job with Lakeview Savings and Loan. She eventually settled into a thirty-two-year career with Pathmark Grocery Stores where she rose to the position of Bakery Manager of the stores in Wayne, Kinnelon and Parsippany.

Pat married William “Bill” Sadlock and together, they were blessed with two daughters:  Karyn and Sandra. The family lived on William Street in Little Falls until their house was completely flooded out. They then moved to Wanaque where Pat continued to be a loving homemaker and mother for the next twenty-plus years.

After her divorce, Pat met a gentleman named Byran Miller while a Bakery Manager in the Pathmark’s Kinnelon store. They dated for two years then, one night while out to dinner, Bryon asked Pat for her hand in marriage. They married at the Golden Age Hall in Wanaque on March 17, 1990, which also happened to be St. Patrick’s Day, and took a honeymoon trip to Canada. Their first home together was at the Waterfall Village in Bloomingdale. They later moved to the Brookside Heights community in Wanaque, then to the Forest Hill Lake community in West Milford before moving to the Twin Lakes community in Shohola, Pennsylvania after Bryon’s retirement in 2007. It’s interesting to note that, in all four of their residences during the course of their marriage, Byron and Patricia always lived in a community with some form of aquatic-themed name.

Pat and Byron loved to visit flea markets. They didn’t travel a lot during their life together but, they did take a couple of trips. There was the cruise on the Caribbean but their trip to Jamaica was the most memorable. They just happened to be in Jamaica during a presidential uprising. It was a chaotic time and they ended up being evacuated a day before they were supposed to leave.  

Pat’s hobbies included decorating cakes, challenging herself with word searches, painting by numbers and watching One Life to Live. While engaged in these activities, her little feline friend Priscilla was always by her side.

Pat’s faith in God was important to her. For many years she was active in her parish at St. Francis of Assisi R.C. Church in Haskell where she enjoyed volunteering to help at all the carnivals and was also a member of the PTA when her daughters attended the church’s school.

Pat especially cherished the good times and memories made with her family. She loved hosting gatherings at her house. With a pool in the backyard and plenty of good food on the grill, everyone liked getting together at her home. At Christmas time, her sister Joan hosted Christmas Eve and Pat always had all the family over on Christmas Day.

Pat and Byron adored their grandchildren and, having them live fairly close by was something they were especially thankful for. All together they enjoyed fun and educational adventures learning about the art of glass blowing, taking trips to the nearby Milford Museum, and fun days at the local amusement park. Sometimes they just did simple things like having sleepovers and watching television. Pat loved spoiling her grandchildren and, with her bakery experience, she had fun suprising them on their birthdays with specially themed birthday cakes.

Pat was a good friend to Laurie and Frances who have gone on before her. Down to earth, she would tell it like it was. She will be missed for her endless guidance and her mere presence.  

Pat was the loving wife of the late Byron Miller (2018). She was the loving mother of the late Karyn LoCicero (2019) and Sandra Kolinsky and husband Stephen of Ringwood; cherished grandmother of: Wyatt LoCicero and wife Kerri, Dakotah Stout an husband Brandon, Evan Kolinsky, and Jacob Kolinsky; dear sister of her three sisters: the late Bettyann Smith (2019), Carole Duffy of Wanaque, and Joan Colella and husband Dr. Lou Colella of Wanaque; and dear aunt to numerous nieces and nephews. She is also survived by her cat Pricilla.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Pat’s name are asked to consider:

American Cancer Society

P.O. Box 42040

Oklahoma City, OK 73123

Click Here to download a mailable form.

To donate by phone you can call 800-227-2345

Whichever method you use to donate, please indicate that the gift is in memory of Patricia Miller and include your name and address. Thank you..

On Sunday, December 18, 2022, Charles J. Warnasch of Wayne, NJ, passed away at the age of 80.

Charles was born September 22, 1942, in Paterson, NJ, to Charles J. and Louise (Pisciottano) Warnasch. He graduated from Wayne Valley High School in 1960. Chas excelled at baseball and basketball, and sports remained an important part of his life. He was a lifelong Mets fan.

After years of childhood accordion lessons (at his mother’s insistence), Charlie had become an accomplished accordion player and formed a band, The Starlighters, that performed around north Jersey for decades. After working at a few local corporations, Charlie’s professional career took an important turn when he began managing the well-known restaurant The Holster in Wayne. This experience led to the opening of his own restaurant, The Steak Out, in Sussex in 1972, which enjoyed great success for more than a decade. Later, he moved back to Wayne and started a livery service business, Crescent Limousine, which he operated until his retirement.

Charlie was also a vintage car enthusiast – he restored several ’57 Thunderbirds and prided himself on tracking down original parts. He was a big fan of the great American songbook and particularly loved the music of Frank Sinatra.

Charlie was preceded in death by his parents, Charles and Louise Warnasch. He leaves behind his loving sister, Barbara Van Duyne, and son, Scott Warnasch. At his wishes, there will be no formal funeral service.

Susan Carroll (nee Malcolm), age 82 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Friday, December 16, 2022. She has lived in Wayne since 2004.

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Martin E. Allman, “Marty” age 93 of Oak Ridge and formerly of Wayne, died peacefully on Thursday, December 15, 2022.

Marty was born in Passaic and grew up in Clifton. Although smart as a whip, he never had much use for school so, as soon as he could, he went to work for his father Peter in his plastering business. Eventually, he and his brother Garry joined the Bricklayers and Allied Craftworkers Local #4 Union. His family used to tease Marty by telling him that he and Garry were the Allman Brothers before the rock band was the Allman Brothers. Marty enjoyed a long and prosperous career as a union plasterer. He was a member of that union for 76 years! A true craftsman, he could make Cornish moldings by hand that today you’d buy prefab.

Shortly after joining the union, Marty was called to serve in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. He bravely served in Korea from 1951 to 1953. Over the course of his lifetime, he shared many accounts of how God protected him while he was overseas. One of those accounts came when he got a leave to go home to be by the bedside of his dying father. He was in a mail jeep enroute to the airplane that was going to fly him home. As they drove toward the plane, the driver suddenly yelled “duck Allman!” The jeep came to a screeching stop just narrowly avoiding Marty and the driver from having their head decapitated by the nearly invisible wires that the enemy had strung across their path. They got out of the jeep and began the time-consuming task of cutting those wires so they could get Marty to the plane on-time. Unfortunately, they arrived too late and Marty’s plane had already taken off. Of course, Marty was disappointed but his disappointment turned to thankfulness to God when he learned that the flight he missed was shot down by the enemy and there were no survivors. He was able to get on the next flight and again, God spared his life when that plane experienced a hobbled landing in Honolulu, Hawaii when one of the engines caught on fire.

Marty was a decent man who lived in the service of others and always tried to do the right thing. While serving in Korea, he was a cook. It was regular practice for food scraps to be loaded into a truck to be dumped into the river. One day while dumping the scraps, Marty noticed hungry Korean children picking up those scraps with rusty tin cans. Feeling compassion, from that point going forward, whenever he went to dump the scraps, Marty always brought some good food to give to those kids.

As an Army cook, Marty was well aware of the policy that soldiers ate for free but officers had to pay for meals. Despite the policy, Marty never made the officers pay. To demonstrate their appreciation, they used to let Marty take the jeep out for a ride as long as he stayed behind enemy lines. One day while out for a ride, he saw another jeep turned over on its side with one of the tires still spinning. Stopping to see if anyone was hurt, he learned that a soldier was stuck under that jeep. Quickly, Marty’s adrenaline kicked in to the point where he was able to upright that jeep on his own. That day he saved a captain’s life, but it wasn’t until some seventy years later that Marty learned that he was the recipient of the Bronze Star for that humanitarian act of heroism. It happened when his son-in-law contacted Congresswoman Mikie Sherril to inquire about some other medals that Marty had never received. One of the medals that came in the mail was the well-deserved Bronze Star.

When he was just ten years old, Marty met a girl named Marion Ten Hoeve who was just eight. She didn’t know it but this shy boy immediately took a liking to her. As the years went on and the two moved into adolescence, Marty’s admiration for Marion never faded, but he was only interested in dating her if she shared his Christian values, but he was too shy to go up to her and ask her. Well finally, one night when Marion was a young beautiful eighteen-year old girl, to Marty’s delight, she miraculously showed up at his church, Prospect Street Christian Reformed Church in Clifton, to attend a hymn sing. At last the question burning in Marty’s heart all these years was answered…..Marion was a church-going girl! The next day, Marty greeted her as she was coming off the bus from school. He immediately asked her to go out with him. Their first date was what could best be described as a park and smooch in the Paterson Mountains. Marty picked Marion up in his very cool 1949 hunter green Dodge Meadowbrook, they headed to the Paterson Mountains. They truly fell in love and one Memorial Day, while Marion was helping Marty wash that 49 Dodge, he bent down as she was scrubbing a white-wall tire and quietly asked her for her hand in marriage. Of course, Marion said yes but the wedding had to wait two years while Marty served in the Army in Korea. When he returned home, they exchanged their wedding vows two weeks later before family and friends at Lodi Christian Reformed Church on March 28, 1953. They drove to Florida in that same Dodge Meadowbrook and recall being wary of sailing together in the glass-bottomed boat. Marion and Marty enjoyed almost 62 years in a blessed marriage. Marion was Marty’s sweetheart – the only girl he ever dated, because to him, there was no one that could ever top her!

After the wedding, the newlyweds came to live with Marty’s mother in Clifton. They lived there for three years and during that time, they became parents for the first time. The baby was little girl which they named Kathy. Their next home was a fixer-upper in Clifton. They lived there a little over seven years and during that time they welcomed another daughter which they named Carol. Then one day, Marion and her mom went out on one of their favorite pastime excursions – house hunting. They were checking out a model of some new homes that were being built in Wayne. They liked the home and the price was right - $24,000. Excitedly, Marion told Marty about it and they ended up moving into that house in 1963. Marty and Marion lived there for the next forty years until moving to Oak Ridge in 2003.

In his spare time, Marty enjoyed doing wood working projects in his home wood shop. He could make anything, from furniture and to even baskets. For one of his wood projects he made display cases for his Disney pin collection. He made a case for himself as well as ones for his grandson’s collections. Marty was also somewhat of a car enthusiast. It’s estimated that, over the course of his life, he had more than thirty new cars. His goal was to have a Lincoln Town Car and he achieved that goal on several occasions.

Marion was the sunshine in Marty’s life. When she passed away in 2015, the rest of his days on earth were really never better than partly cloudy. He missed her warmth , friendship, companionship, her delicious cooking, and especially sharing their mutual love for the Lord. If anything sustained Marty, it was his faith. Marty was an original member of the Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church. He spent time every morning learning new things about God in his personal bible studies. Yet despite walking closely with the Lord his whole life, it was not until recently that Marty had the peace in his heart that comes from assurance of knowing he was going to heaven. It came in a full understanding of Hebrews 11:1 in the holy bible which reads “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”

Just a few days ago, Marty had a dream that his wife Marion and his parents were greeting him with open arms in heaven. Now that Marty has passed, his faith has become sight and that dream is fully realized as he is with the Lord and reunited with those whom he loved who had gone on before him.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Marty’s name are asked to consider:

Wounded Warrior Project

P.O. Box 758516

Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516

Click here to download a mailable form

Click here to donate online

To donate by phone call 855-448-3997

Whichever method you choose to donate, kindly indicate that your gift is in memory of Martin Allman and leave your name and address. Thank you.

Dolores “Dee” Cach, age 87 of Wayne, NJ, died peacefully on Thursday, December 15, 2022.  She has lived in Wayne for fifty years.

Dee was raised in the Lafayette section of Jersey City and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1952. She became a secretary in the financial services industry and eventually landed with Paine Webber in New York, NY. She was the executive secretary to the CEO at Paine Webber for twenty-nine years.

After moving to Wayne in 1972, Dee took to gardening and enjoyed taking care of the landscaping around her home. She also traveled to destinations such as Iceland, Alaska, Hawaii, Puerto Rico, Cape Cod, Nantucket, Martha’s Vineyard, Mackinaw Island, Savannah, Charleston SC, New England, New Mexico, Spain, Portugal, Morocco, Greece, Bermuda, Nova Scotia, Mexico, California and Florida, Canada and many others.  She visited the National Parks, Niagara Falls, touring Route 66 and Disney World & Land. She also spent many summer vacations in at a Bed and Breakfast in Cape May with her family. Dee was a huge fan of the NY Yankees & NY Giants, went to games, and followed them closely. She enjoyed going to various plays on Broadway. Her nieces and nephews recall Aunt Dee Dee taking them to see the Ice Capades, the circus, King Tut’s Tomb at a Museum, Great Adventure, Mini Golf, sporting events & to the movie theatre. Her family and friends all have many fond memories of happy times shared with Dee, and they will all miss her dearly.

Dee is survived by two sisters, Carol Balinski and her husband George of Wayne; Joan Gillman of Wayne, one brother; Stanley Cach and his wife Marilyn of Hamilton Square, NJ, three nieces; Debra Graham, Beth Balinski, Jill C. Hume, and three nephews; Ron Balinski, David Balinski, and Paul Balinski.

Robert E. Buyck, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home surrounded with love by his family, on Wednesday, December 14, 2022.

Bob was born in Paterson, the son of August and Marie (Van Der Sande) Buyck. He was raised in the family’s home at 196 Grant Ave. in Totowa until he was fifteen. At that time, his family moved to 26 Greene Ave. in Totowa. He was a graduate of Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls with the Class of 1949.

During his years in high school, Bob worked part-time at the Crayola Crayon Factory in Paterson. One day his boss told him that he had to unfortunately lay him off because Bob was underage. Unflustered, Bob exited the crayon factory and took a walk down the street to a business called Hillside Laundry. He started working that same day! Once he graduated, Bob took a job in the tool room at an auto dealership called Von Lengerke Motor Company – a Buick dealership in Paterson. Working on Buicks seemed only fitting as his last name “Buyck” was commonly pronounced “Buick”. It was a good job for a guy like Bob who had a real interest in cars. As a young man, he and his buddies started their own club called the Speedsters Car Club in Lodi. All the members had “official” jackets. As for Bob, while his first car was a 1938 Pontiac sedan, his favorite was his 1951 Ford Fairlane 500 with dual pipes and a racing stripe.  

One day after work Bob came home to a letter that arrived in the mail that day from Uncle Sam. He was drafted into the U.S. Army and served in Korea during the Korean War from 1952 to 1954. Bob attained the rank of Sergeant and for his proud service to his country, he received the Korean Service Medal with one Bronze Service Star, the United Nations Service Medal, and the National Defense Service Medal. Bob returned from Korea to find out that his 51 Ford Fairlane had turned into a 1956 black and white Ford Crown Victoria. Truth be told, his father replaced it when he accidently put Bob’s prized Fairlane into the Passaic River.

Attempting to get back into the workforce, Bob applied for jobs at three different potential employers: the U.S. Postal Service, Public Service Electric and Gas, and New Jersey Bell. The telephone company was the first to respond and for the next thirty-two years, through the company’s name change to Verizon, Bob worked in numerous roles. He started his career climbing poles as a lineman, then moved into different sectors of the job including repairman, switchman, and ultimately the title of supervisor until retiring in 1988. When asked about his job, Bob said “I really enjoyed that career!”

In April, 1959, Bob married Carol Klaus and they moved into the home located at 69 Knolls Road in Bloomingdale. From there they moved to 366 Valley View Ave. in Paramus and ultimately Bob ended up in Wayne where he continued to live the rest of his life. Bob and Carol were blessed with two children, Suzanne and Jon. Eventually, Bob and Carol parted ways amicably and Bob found love again and enjoyed a thirty-plus year companionship with Clare DeVries.

It was well-known by Bob’s family and friends that, if you were looking for him on a Saturday afternoon, he could usually be found at the racetrack. He loved betting on the horses and spent lots of time betting and watching the races with Bruce – his buddy from work, or with family. Bob was well-acquainted with all the racetracks including, Meadowlands, Belmont, Aqueduct, Garden State, Freehold, Yonkers, and any other one you could think of. He also loved the game of roulette and played frequently in Atlantic City and on his cruise vacations. Throughout his life he also enjoyed bowling in various leagues. He bowled for many years in the phone company’s league which bowled at the former 10-lane Haledon Rec. He also bowled in Wyckoff and the Bowlero lanes in Clifton.  

One of Bob’s favorite pastimes was traveling. His son and daughter can tell you about the annual road trips, during the dog days of August to Disney World in the old Dodge station wagon with no air conditioning. Those trips were fun but they were hot, so nobody was upset to see that station wagon be replaced by a Mercury wagon with much-appreciated AC. There were also many family cruises to the Bahamas, Bermuda, and all over the Caribbean, and annual visits to see Bob’s parents at their condo in Florida.

Above all else, Bob’s family was his greatest treasure in life. He loved going on cruises together, gathering for all the big holidays and birthdays, and attending all his grandchildren’s sporting and musical events, graduations, and weddings.

Bob was the loving companion of Clare DeVries; dear father of: Suzanne Russo and her husband Michael of Glen Rock and Jon Buyck and his wife Arlene of Rochelle Park,; cherished grandfather of: Matthew Russo and his wife Tierney, Katherine Harper and her husband Seth, Christina Russo, Jonathan Buyck, and Nicholas Buyck; and adoring great-grandfather of Theodore Harper.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Robert’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Click Here for a mailable form to send with your donation

It is with a heavy heart that we announce the passing of Barry M. Koblick on December 14, 2022.

Barry was born in the Bronx and raised in Yonkers, New York. He was the oldest of three children to Murray and Olga Koblick.  

After attending Yonkers High School and graduating with the Class of 1966, he attended and graduated from Manhattan College in 1970 with a Bachelor’s Degree in International Business.

Barry found employment working for the Government Accountability Offices at the World Trade Center for several years, later for GPU Nuclear Corporation in Parsippany for fifteen years as a Senior Operations Analyst, and for Geller & Company in New York City as an Operations Analyst Manager. In 2005, he found his home as a Project Manager for nuclear power plants with Enercon Services where he worked until his retirement in 2015.  Throughout his career, Barry was well loved and respected by his friends and colleagues.

In 1968, Barry met his beloved wife Annabel Di Domenico at Manhattan College.  They dated for about four years, fell in love, and went on to marry on June 24, 1972 at Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Queens, New York. The newlyweds settled in Richmond Hill in Queens, NY and welcomed their first daughter, Kristen. In 1977, the family moved to the High Crest Lake community in West Milford, New Jersey and welcomed two more daughters, Jessica, and Kasey.

During his time in West Milford, he volunteered in his community and became an active member in the West Milford PAL, where he served as a soccer coach. Barry also enjoyed vacationing with his family every summer at the Outer Banks in North Carolina – a beloved “second home” for their family. Barry’s favorite past time was cheering on his grandchildren at their soccer and baseball games, throwing the football around, and fishing with them on his canoe at the lake.  He was known affectionately as the “pet whisperer” and loved caring for his five beloved grand dogs: Sapphire, Winston, Finn, Bailey, and Lincoln.

Barry's greatest passion was for his family, nothing in the world meant more to Barry than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren. He brought laughter and joy to his daughters, and to his grandchildren, and often would play wonderfully funny practical jokes on them. He was a fierce and loyal fan of the New York Yankees and New York Jets and enjoyed classic rock music with The Rolling Stones and Tom Petty being some of his top favorites.  He also enjoyed learning and researching world history, particularly World War II.

Barry was a funny, fun loving, and outgoing person who was kind to everyone he met.  He made friends wherever he went and could talk about anything to just about anyone.  He was sincerely loved by all who knew him.  He treasured fifty years of loyal and loving marriage to his wife, Annabel.  Barry was often selfless, putting the needs of others around him before his own and was warmly known as a “second father” or “second grandfather” to many of his children and grandchildren’s friends.

Barry was a truly special person who will be remembered and greatly missed by all who knew him.

He is survived by his wife Annabel (Di Domenico) of West Milford, three daughters; Kristen Koblick of Pompton Plains, NJ, Jessica Koblick of Bloomsburg, PA, and Kasey Koblick-Ferrante and her husband Michael of Morristown, NJ, four grandchildren; Alexandra Ortega of Pompton Plains, NJ, Dylan Ortega of Pompton Plains, NJ, Cole Horrax of Bloomsburg, PA, and Dax Ferrante of Morristown, NJ; one brother Nicky Koblick of Flowery Branch, GA; one sister Caroline Caldropoli and her husband Joe of Leland, NC; one brother-in-law Rocco Di Domenico and his wife Eileen of Newfoundland, NJ; three nephews - Brian, Michael, and Mark and four nieces - Danielle, Ericka, Stephanie, and Tara.

May his legacy of love, laughter, and kindness live on in our hearts forever.

Those planning to make a donation in Barry’s name are asked to consider The American Heart Association, PO Box 840692, Dallas TX 75284-0692. http://www.heart.org/donate

On December 13, 2022, William (Bill) LaShell, passed away suddenly at the Packanack Golf Club in Wayne, NJ, doing what he loved best, playing golf.  He is survived by his wife, Lorraine, son Bill Jr. and partner Stephanie Spratley, son David and wife Amanda, daughter Nancy Spencer and husband Dave, grandchildren Nicholas, Eowyn, Alexander and Crystar, sister Joan Yows and husband Tom and their children, and by all the many people who loved him.

Bill was born in Manhattan, Kansas on September 2, 1941.  He attended Manhattan High School and Kansas State University.  An entrepreneur at heart Bill started several successful businesses one of which revolutionized communications in the cruise industry and the United States Navy.  His varied work life included running a manufacturing facility, exploring for oil and gas, and installing satellite communications at sea.  

The love story with his wife and best friend, Lorraine, began 60 years ago when Bill left his hometown and drove to New York for a summer job at Freedomland USA in the Bronx where Lorraine worked between college semesters. Two years later they married and for 58 years raised a family and shared a life of love and laughter.

An accomplished golfer, Bill shot a 78 at age 81. In addition to golf, his other passion was his Union Pacific HO gauge model railroad. He built a layout, train cars and industrial and residential buildings and taught himself digital command and control to run the trains. He was also a puzzler and great storyteller.  Bill traveled extensively throughout the world first for work, then for fun and adventure with Lorraine.

Bill was a true gentleman, an amazing husband, father, grandfather and friend who was admired and loved by all who knew him.  He will be deeply missed.  

In lieu of flowers a memorial donation to Oasis, a Haven for Women and Children in Paterson would be greatly appreciated.  https://oasisnj.org/.

Brenda Lynn Van Wingerden, age 43, of Oak Ridge died on Saturday, December 10, 2022 after a hard-fought battle with cancer.

Brenda grew up in Pompton Plains and graduated from Netherlands Reformed Christian School with the Class of 1997. She then attended Berdan Business School where she earned certification as a Medical Assistant. She was a true ray of sunshine to the patients that she cared for while working for the private practice of Dr. Aasmaa.

After dating Leonard Van Wingerden for some time, Brenda and Len married on June 13, 2003 at Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes. Soon after marriage, God blessed Len and Brenda with their firstborn, a son named Caleb. Caleb was followed by brothers Jacob and Kevin, little sister Alanna, and little brother Noah. Brenda left her work as a medical assistant and embraced God’s new role as loving and devoted mother to her children and support for Len in his electrical contracting business. Brenda guided her children with an albeit firm hand tempered with a vast outpouring of loving guidance, kindness, sweetness, considerateness, compassion and devotion. Her love, in fact, touched the lives of simply everyone she met. She was an incredible, wife, mother, daughter, sister, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law, aunt, and friend. Ask anyone who knew Brenda and they would testify that she was always looking for the good and finding something to love in everyone.

Brenda is survived by her beloved husband Leonard, their five children: Caleb, Jacob, Kevin, Alanna, and Noah Van Wingerden, her parents Jacobus “Joe” and Margaret (Kievit) Willekes, her nine siblings: Laura Prol and husband Jeff of Pompton Plains, Robert Willekes and wife Brenda of Choteau, Montana, Linda Van Grouw and husband Mark of Blairstown, Donald Willekes and wife Hendrieka of Vaughn, Montana, John Willekes and wife Anna of W. Milford, David Willekes and wife Amy of Pequannock, Abraham Willekes and wife Beverly of Allamuchy, Kevin Willekes and wife Konnie of Oak Ridge, and Barbara Negrotto and husband Joseph of Oak Ridge, her father-in-law and mother-in-law Len and Marjan Van Wingerden of Toano, VA, her brother-in-laws and sister-in-laws: Case and Star Van Wingerden of Toano, VA, Mike and Mandy Van Wingerden of Weddington, NC, Ben and Allison Van Wingerden of Yuma, AZ, Josh Van Wingerden of Yorktown, VA, Rianne and Zack Vander Groef of Wantage, NJ and Lydia Van Wingerden of South Sudan.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of remembrance in Brenda’s name are asked to consider:

Operation Kindness NJ

23 Quaker Church Road

Andover, NJ 07821

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Our dear father, Dr. Gurdial Mal Sharma passed away peacefully surrounded by his family from all over the country and India.  He is survived by his wife Aruna, three daughters: Sarita Sharma Croce, Neelima Sharma and Shobha Sharma Vohra, his two Son-In-Laws: Steve Croce and Vijay Vohra, and his five grandchildren: Balmikki Sharma Croce, Phillip Sharma Croce, Hannah Sharma Croce, Sonia Sharma Vohra, Asha Sharma Vohra, sister Shakuntla Sharma & many nieces and nephews.

Dr. Sharma was born on November 11th 1930 in Punjab India, the 5th of 7 children to Ram Ditta Sharma & Rattan Devi Sharma, he grew up in Pathankot, India.  He received his Ph.D. in Chemistry from Punjab University in 1960.  He will always be remembered as a great athlete playing volleyball and boxing.  While in college Dr. Sharma qualified for the Olympic men’s Indian Volleyball Team.

Following his graduation from Punjab University, he married his wife, Aruna Avasthi, now Aruna Sharma, who traveled with him to Ottawa Canada where he was a Post Doctorial Fellow at the National Research Council.

In 1965 Dr. Sharma, Mrs. Sharma & their first daughter Sarita came to the United States where he worked at The Lamont-Doherty Geological Observatory of Columbia University. In his 11 years working at Columbia, he directed research on marine biology and published his findings in numerous scholarly journals. While at Lamont Dr. Sharma and Mrs. Sharma had two daughters, Neelima and Shobha.

From 1976 – 1980, Dr. Sharma was head of the Chemical and Biological Oceanography Department of the New York Ocean Science Laboratory, Long Island, Montauk, NY. In 1988, he was appointed Full Professor at William Patterson University. He spent the remainder of his career researching and teaching his love for Chemistry to generations of students at the University.  During his tenure, he also served as the Chemistry Department Chair.  After a very successful 53 year career Dr. Sharma decided to retire in 2014 at the age 83.

In his life, Dr. Sharma has published many papers in the areas of Organic Chemistry, Biochemistry, Analytical Chemistry and Chemical/Biological Oceanography. Through that research he had the opportunity to travel to Quebec Canada, Italy, Australia, Norway, & India to present his research.

Outside of being academically acclaimed, Dr. Sharma was incredibly loved by his family, friends & colleagues. He enjoyed time spent reading, playing the tabla’s (Indian drums) & time with his children, grandchildren, and friends. Some of the fondest memories spent with him will be those traveling with his family, having wonderful family gatherings filled with wonderful conversation and laughter.

Dr. Sharma was extraordinarily generous and a friend to all those in need of friendship. He was unbelievably kind but more importantly he was passionate. A trait that will live on through his 3 daughters.

Dr. Sharma will be remembered as an amazing husband, father & grandfather who lived life to its fullest!

Gloria Keenan (nee Cordisco), age 99 of Wayne, better known as "Ma" to just about everyone, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 8, 2022.

Born in Passaic, Gloria grew up on E 4th St in Clifton and graduated St John's HS in Paterson. She began her career as a secretary at the home offices of the A&P in Paterson. She later worked as a Purchaser at Wood Press Printing, Paterson, retiring in 1982. See later resided in Wayne.

Gloria enjoyed traveling throughout Europe and the Mediterranean countries. She enjoyed playing golf and spent many days sailing. She was a devoted parishioner Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne and was an active member of the Golden Age Circle of Wayne.

She is survived by two sons: Gerard (Jerry) Keenan and his wife Kathy of New Bern, NC and Albert Keenan and his wife Linda of North Haledon, NJ, nine Grand Children Kathryn, Elizabeth, Jason, Karen, Paul, Duane, Lindsay, Kimberley and John, six Great-Grandchildren and two Great-Great Grandchildren and a sister, Lorraine Daly of Vero Beach, FL. Gloria was predeceased by her first Husband, Leo Keenan in 1976; and her second husband, Thomas Harding in 1995, by her son, Leo in 2000, and by two sisters; Dolores Tortoretti and Rita Moritz.

Charles Hargreaves, a longtime resident of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on December 7th, 2022 at the age of 101 while receiving loving care from his family.

He was born on May 23rd, 1921 in Prospect Park, New Jersey to William and Emma Hargreaves.  The youngest of four children Charles grew up in Paterson, New Jersey and attended Eastside High School, graduating with the class of 1939. After graduating he worked Schneckenberger's Bakery, the family business in Paterson.

Charles was a member of a rapidly shrinking “Greatest Generation”, those who grew up during the Great Depression and as young adults fought in World War II, or whose labor helped win the war.

After the Unites States’ entered into World War II, Charles enlisted in the United States Army Air Corp in 1942. His tours of duty took him to Italy and Africa, where he served as a staff sergeant in Ordinance. Charles received multiple honors for his service including the American Service Medal, European African Middle Eastern Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal, and Meritorious Service Unit Plaque. Charles’ service to his country had a profound effect on his life and resulted in him becoming a great patriot.  Throughout his life he donated regularly to American Veterans’ charities and the American Diabetes Association.

Upon his discharge from service, Charles worked at Hawthorne Rubber for his brother-in-law.  After a few years he was employed as a purchasing agent for Harmon Colors Corp, Allied Chemical, Mobay Chemical and then Bayer. He was truly loved and respected by his colleagues and cherished a career that spanned nearly 48 years until his retirement in 1993.

Charles met Peggy Fredericks on a blind date in the early 1940’s.  The couple eloped to Maryland (with the assistance of Peggy’s aunt Lil) and were married on July 27th 1954. The newlyweds settled in Totowa NJ where their first two children were born; Marc and Karen. In 1963, as the family grew, they moved to Wayne NJ where their third child Paul was born. Charles enjoyed gardening and meticulously cared for his yard and gardens. He loved his family deeply.  Providing for and spending time with his family was his greatest passion and was always willing to help family and friends at any time. Nothing in the world meant more to Charles than spending time with his children and grandchildren.

He treasured vacationing with his family at the Jersey Shore points including; Avon by the Sea, Point Pleasant, and Asbury Park. Charles and his wife Peggy enjoyed dining out together eating fine food and enjoying the company of friends. He and Peggy cherished their forty-six year loving and loyal marriage until Peggy’s sudden passing in December of 2000.  

Charles was a quiet, soft spoken private man who kept to himself.  He will be remembered by those closest to him as a deeply caring, loving, and generous person.  He was wonderfully organized, “having a place for everything and everything in its place.”  Charles touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Charles is survived by his sons Marc Hargreaves and his wife Susan of Lakeland FL, Paul Hargreaves of Wayne NJ; daughter Karen Stone and her husband Bill of Nazareth PA; grandchildren Marc Hargreaves Jr.and his wife Katie of Lakeland FL, Steven Hargreaves of Lakeland FL, Ryan Hargreaves and his wife Margarita of Lakeland FL, Kiel Stone and his significant other Meredith Delaware of Fairfax VA, Garrett Stone and his significant other Sarah Hanson of Salt Lake City, UT and Braden Stone and his wife Camille of Nazareth PA; one great granddaughter, Mila Hargreaves and a future great grandson Stone due in March; two nieces Barbara & Kristin; he was predeceased by two sisters Gladys Young & Alice Esselman; and one brother Vincent Hargreaves.

The world has lost a true patriot whose love for his family ran deep and will never be forgotten.  Charles will be remembered as an amazing husband, father & grandfather who lived life to its fullest!

In lieu of flowers, donations in Charles’ name may be made to Valley Hospice, 15 Essex Rd, Paramus, NJ 07652 www.valleyhealth.com

The unsinkable, unstoppable Ivy Rodgers of Wayne passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, December 4th at the age of 100.

Ivy was born to Robert and Agnes Graham in Paterson, NJ, the third of six children. Her full name was Ivy Vietta Young Graham, named after the midwife that delivered her. She was put into the Fresh Air class in grade school because she was thought to be sickly, but she’d be quick to tell you it was just because she was thin. She graduated from Central High School in Paterson and went on to business school to become a bookkeeper.

Ivy's first job was as a waitress in Paterson, but she quit after one day when a customer was rude to her. She went on to become an elevator operator at Meyer Brothers Department Store in Paterson. During the war she was a bookkeeper at Wrights Aeronautical. At some point, she decided she wanted a raise and when it was denied, she quit. Her boss asked her to come in a week later and gave her the raise.

It was at the Third Presbyterian Church in Paterson that she met her future employer and future husband, Nathaniel (Nat) Rodgers. Nat had just started a trucking company and asked Ivy to teach his sister how to keep the books. His sister never quite caught on and Ivy became the permanent bookkeeper for Rodgers Brothers Express. Although Nat was engaged to someone else when they met, they fell in love and on December 17, 1946 they were married in her mother's living room. They built the business together with Nat's brothers. Ivy was always proud that all of her ledgers came out to the penny.

Ivy and Nat welcomed daughter Deborah and moved to Wayne shortly thereafter in 1954. Ivy took great pride in decorating her new home. She would paint walls, mow the lawn, iron the curtains and loved having family parties as long as she could cater and not cook the food. When her daughter Deborah started school, Ivy became very active in the PTA. She started the first library at Lafayette School, was a girl scout leader, and hosted a talent show to raise money for the school.

Ivy was thrilled to become a grandmother and was a daily presence in her grandchildren's lives. She could be seen at school pick up, every school play, baseball game or any other activity.

Shortly after celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary, Nat passed away in 1997. Ivy focused her full attention on her grandchildren and loved every minute. She could also be seen walking all over Wayne. Her favorite spots were the A&P, Walgreens and Shop Rite. She also loved dancing and singing along to Perry Como.

In the winter of 2012 she fell and broke her knee. The doctor told her that because of her age it would be a long recovery. She reminded the doctor that her grandson was getting married in April and she would be dancing at his wedding. And she did! A few years later, she proudly walked her granddaughter down the aisle at her wedding.

The highlight of her later years were her great grandchildren Ivy, Nathan and Chloe. She looked forward to every moment spent with them, and was never shy about getting on the floor to play with dolls, cars, or legos.

Ivy is survived by her daughter, Deborah ( Scott), her grandson Fredrick Karamanol ( Emilia), her granddaughter Courtney Cronk (Jason), great grandchildren (Ivy Karamanol, Nathan Cronk, Chloe Cronk), her sister Beatrice Adderley, and nieces and nephews.

On December 5, 2022, the world lost a bright light with the passing of Gabrielle “Gaby” Keeler, age 75, of Wayne, NJ. Gaby was born in San Mateo, CA. She was one of three daughters to John Roy and Doris May Higgins (nee Reidy). Her father’s work with the FBI and later in advertising moved their family around the country; Gaby and her family eventually settled in West Caldwell, New Jersey where she attended James Caldwell High School and graduated in 1965. Gaby then attended St Mary’s College in South Bend, IN, the sister school to the University of Notre Dame. She later attended the Katherine Gibbs School and William Paterson University where she earned her bachelor’s degree in accounting. Gaby’s career as an Executive Assistant spanned many companies and industries including Eastman Dillon & Co., US Steel, Yellow Freight and the Jewish Community Foundation of Greater MetroWest NJ.

Gaby was an active member of her community. She served on the board of directors for United Givers Plan of Packanack Lake, was president of the Packanack Lake Leisure Club, a former member of the Packanack Lake Board of Governors, and a member of the legendary Dominoes book club for 20 years. She was an avid reader who enjoyed best-selling novels as well as researching anything and everything. Gaby also loved to travel the world, enjoying destinations such as Italy, England, Scotland, Ireland, Russia, France, Greece, Wales, Australia, and anywhere in the Caribbean where a cruise ship would take her. In recent years, Gaby and Paul vacationed in St Pete Beach, FL, during the winter months. She also enjoyed exercising, especially yoga and walking. Every morning, Gaby could be found with friends walking around Packanack Lake.

Gaby was known by everyone who met her as being social, outgoing, and engaging; making friends wherever she went. She never met a stranger and never forgot a name or a face. Gaby’s friendships were many and her devotion to those friends was always evident.

It was clear to everyone, though, that her greatest passion in life was for her family. Gaby met her husband Paul Keeler on a blind date on New Year’s Eve 1969 and after dating for two years they were married on August 28, 1971; Gaby and Paul cherished fifty-one years of marriage together. They lived in Saddle Brook briefly before moving to Packanack Lake, where they lived for the next 50 years. Gaby and Paul had two children: Laura and John. Along with being a loving wife and mother, Gaby was a loving and devoted GG (Grandma Gaby) to Finn and Teagan, John and his wife Sabrina’s two boys. Nothing in the world meant more to Gaby than spending time with her husband, sisters, children, and grandchildren.

Gaby is survived by her husband Paul E. Keeler, Jr. of Wayne, NJ; daughter Laura Anne Keeler of Washington, DC; son John Paul Keeler, daughter-in-law Sabrina, and grandsons Finnegan Paul Keeler and Teagan Martin Keeler of Ardmore, PA; two sisters Patricia Higgins (and her husband Francis Ferraro) of St Petersburg, FL, and Candace Higgins of Colorado Springs, CO; two nieces Jennifer and Barbara; and four nephews David, Brian, Thomas and James.

Gaby will be remembered fondly by those who knew her best – family members will miss her dearly but take comfort knowing that she is now reunited with those who have gone before her.

Donations in Gaby’s name may be made to the United Givers Plan of Packanack Lake, PO Box 1835, Wayne, NJ, 07474-1835 www.packanacklake.com

Joyce (nee Gailey) Fedell of Ormond Beach, Florida was born in Newark New Jersey to William and Elsetta Gailey in 1937. She lived her life in Wayne, New Jersey until she was married in 1962.

Joyce graduated from Wayne High School in 1955 and went to work for Congoleum Nairn in Kearny, NJ and then later worked for the 1st National Bank in Pompton Plains.

Joyce was married to Joseph Fedell by Judge DeWalsh in Wayne on March 16, 1962.  Joe was a self-employed mason. They lived in Butler, Lincoln Park, and Marsella before building a home in Milton, NJ.  In the early 1970’s they moved to Old Forge, NY where they bought a home on 1st Lake and enjoyed snowmobiling on the many scenic trails.  While living in Old Forge, they purchased the Strand Movie Theatre which they operated until Joe’s death in October of 1981. After his death, Joyce moved back to Milton, New Jersey where she purchased a mobile home and lived there until she moved to Ormond Beach, Florida in 1999.

Every year she looked forward to coming north for the holidays and enjoyed her time here being with family and friends.

Joyce is the 2nd of five daughters of the late William and Elsetta (Miller) Gailey who lived in Wayne from 1932 until their respective deaths in 1978 and 1989. Her surviving four sisters, Carol Beatty of Wayne, Gloria Hinderlong of Oak Ridge, formally of Wayne, New Jersey, Merilyn Martin of Florida and Bonnie Longo of New Foundland, New Jersey. She is also survived by seven nieces and nephews and their respective children on her side along with her nephew Tony Fedell and his wife Denise and their two children of Nutley, New Jersey and Bob Maday and his wife Geraldine of Florida and many other family members from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania on Joe’s side.

Joyce leaves a Dear, Dear friend, Janet Minogue of Inverness, Florida, formerly of Milton, New Jersey. Janet traveled all the time across the State of Florida to make sure Joyce’s health issues were being addressed and she was comfortable and just being the best friend she could ever have. She always decorated her room for the holidays, so Joyce never felt left out of festivities. Janet and Merilyn always made sure she had the personal items she needed and of course the snacks along with bananas and grapes that she always looked forward to getting and enjoyed immensely. No one could ever want a more caring friend than Janet was and on behalf the family I want to say, “Thank you and Bless you Janet for all you did for Joyce in your caring and loving way.” You are a true friend.

William H. Wackwitz, age 99 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, December 3, 2022. He’s lived in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne since 1963.

Bill had been a commercial printer for decades, retiring from Peerless Stationary Co. in Nutley in 1987, and he had previously worked as a printer for the Commercial Leader newspaper, and Nutley Sun newspaper. He was also politically active in Lyndhurst, serving on the Planning Board and the Board of Education. After moving to Wayne in 1963, he became a charter member of the Packanack Golf Association, and served as the Packanack Lake ‘Ranger,’ patrolling the community for twenty-two years before retiring from that position in 2009, at the age of just 86!

Bill was notorious for living life on his own terms, and Frank Sinatra’s “My Way” was his anthem song. This all began on the day he was born, when his mother went into labor rather quickly while visiting her mom in Brooklyn, New York. Things happened so fast that Bill was born right there in his grandmother’s house, arriving into this world like a whirlwind. Growing up in Lyndhurst, NJ, during the 1920’s and 30’s, Bill experienced things in his childhood that no one will ever be able to experience again. He witnessed the construction of the George Washington Bridge and then drove across it with his father when it first opened. Bill was there. His dad also drove him through the Holland Tunnel when it first opened. He witnessed the first commercial seaplane arrive at Port Washington, Long Island. Bill was there. When he was just thirteen years old, on May 6, 1937, his dad drove him to Lakehurst, NJ, so together they could witness the much-anticipated arrival of the Hindenburg dirigible. Bill was there!

Bill would be the first to tell you that he didn’t care much for school when he was a young boy. At thirteen years old, he left school and started working for a printer. Soon thereafter, his brother, Eddie, taught him to be a welder. In 1943, Bill was drafted into the U.S. Army, and he served under General George Patton in the 5th Armored Division of the 3rd Army. As a welder, he was assigned to fix tanks that had broken tracks or needed other welding repairs. Always a creative thinker, Bill was credited with creating a mobilized repair unit so they could go right to the front lines to repair damaged tanks and get them back into the battle as quickly as possible. Among his most frightening memories of World War II was during the crossing of the Roer River when his unit was dive-bombed by a German Me-262. These were the first jet-propelled aircraft ever, and the sight and sound of this plane was terrifying to all the soldiers. Bill was there. Upon returning to the United States aboard the Queen Mary, Bill recalled one of his most emotional memories occurred while he passed the Statue of Liberty. All the soldiers aboard ship were overwhelmed with emotion that day. Bill was there.

As a young man growing up in Lyndhurst, Bill met June Davies, who lived in the neighborhood. They hit it off quite well, and on November 29, 1947 they exchanged wedding vows. As the story goes, Bill insisted that he be able to watch the entire ARMY football game first, and only after the game had concluded could the wedding commence. June knew what she was in for because Bill always did things his way. They enjoyed a honeymoon to Williamsburg, Virginia before settling into a two-family home that his father owned in Lyndhurst, and they lived there for about fifteen years before moving to Packanack Lake. Throughout the years, they enjoyed many road-trips throughout the United States, all the way to California and back. After seventy-one years of marriage, June passed away in 2018, and Bill has missed her dearly. Bill and June were very proud of their loving family and of their large legacy of children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. They were truly blessed in this life.

Bill is survived by his two children: Judith “Judy” Gerasimenko and her husband George of Kinnelon, and William D. and his wife Cathy of Wayne, five grandchildren: Lauren LaMantia (Charlie), Christine McDevitt (Dan), Michael Gerasimenko (Geralanne Maglione), William D. Wackwitz, Jr. (Michelle), and Brian Wackwitz, two great-grandchildren: Brendan Hout and Page Erekat, and one sister: Elizabeth Cloughley. Bill was predeceased by his beloved wife June in 2018.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Joseph Miglino, 81, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, December 3, 2022.

The firstborn of Gennaro and Carmela (Cetrangolo) Miglino’s two sons, Joseph was born and raised in Italy, in the town of Rutino in the province of Salerno.

When Joe was just five years of age, his father, a Carabinieri, tragically lost his life while on duty during an earthquake tremor near Mount Vesuvius. The tremor caused the opening of the cave he was in to be blocked and, sadly, his father suffocated. Despite losing his dear dad and primary role model, Joe persevered and lived a life that had a positive impact on countless persons who were blessed to have known him.

Between the ages of thirteen and nineteen, Joe spent his summers as a teacher, educating the poorer children of Rutino, some even older than him. When he was sixteen, he was bestowed with a national award, Premio Della Bontá, for his humanitarian effort. Joe’s benevolent nature continued throughout his entire life and, along the way, he proved to be a blessing to family, friends, and countless acquaintances.

After graduating from Istituto Tecnico Industriale in Italy, Joe emigrated to the United States in 1960. Upon landing on American soil, Joe moved into his Aunt and Uncle Cetrangolo’s home on 23rd Street in Paterson, NJ. His first order of business was taking English classes. He was a quick learner and soon secured a job as a tool maker in a machine shop in Paterson. Joe’s leadership skills and spirit of advocacy for fellow workers inspired him to attempt to form a union within that shop. When those efforts fell short, he left his position and joined the United Electrical Union.

Joe met the love of his life, Tina Leo, at St. Michael’s Church in Paterson, at a church sponsored gathering for young Italian immigrants. Soon after, they began a beautiful courtship and Tina even suggested that Joe take a job at a machine shop called United Tool and Stamping Company located right next door to the coat factory she worked at on Andrews Drive in West Paterson. It was the perfect suggestion because it gave them the opportunity to enjoy lunch together every day. Afraid that Tina’s parents would not approve of her seeing Joe, they secretly dated for six months before they got caught. Tina recalls that Joe bought her an LP record to convince her not to break up. Then he mustered up the courage to talk to Tina’s parents. He won them over with his respect and charm, so much so that they wondered why he and Tina kept their relationship so secretive in the first place. Once Tina’s parents accepted Joe, they were considered engaged. They married on Saturday, April 18, 1970 at St. Michael’s Church. It was a sunny but very windy day. After a reception at Natolis on Route 46, the newlyweds honeymooned in the Poconos and then in Italy. Their first home as husband and wife was a second-floor apartment at 101 Totowa Ave in Paterson. From there, along with their six-month old son Daniel, they moved to 281 Paterson Ave in Paterson. While in that home they were blessed with two more children – Debbie and Rino. In 1981 they moved once again, this time into a brand new home in Wayne. Along with friends and family always willing to help, Joe did a lot of the finish work on the house like tiling, painting, and trimming. It was in this home that Joe remained for the rest of his life. Joe’s love for his beloved Tina was immense. A true romantic, every year he bestowed her with a gift on the anniversary of the very first day they met in the church.

Prior to marriage, Joe pursued further education at Farleigh Dickinson University where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in linguistics. He was fluent in four of the five romance languages – French, Italian, Spanish, and Portuguese. Immediately after graduating Joe was offered a teaching job but, with a family to provide for, the salary wasn’t enough so he chose to stay with United Tool and Stamping Company and part time with the United Electrical Union. With a heart for the welfare of his fellow workers and the gift of negotiation, Joe was able to convince United Tool to allow its workers to unionize. Most shop owners would oppose such an idea but Joe was such a fair negotiator that, his boss not only agreed, but they remained good friends. Joe enjoyed a career that spanned over forty years until full retirement in 2005.

With time to spare Joe became Tina’s right-hand man in her bridal store in Totowa – Tina’s Bridal. Joe served as her business manager, her “gopher” and her “Jack of all trades.” Retirement also gave him more time to focus on his hobbies including stamp collecting, oil painting on canvas, and painting intricate beach scenes on large seashells. He loved artistic painting and was a huge fan of Bob Ross’ television show, “The Joy of Painting.” Above all, Joe put together a nativity scene every Christmas which became more elaborate every year including running water, lights, and expanding real estate.

Joe was a fantastic father and grandfather who believed that nothing was as important as his family including his nieces, nephews and in-laws whom he adored. Family vacations included many cruises, trips to Hawaii, Italy, Costa Rica, Disney, and summers down the Jersey shore at their family beach house in Brigantine, NJ. He was an incredible “Nonno” to his six cherished grandchildren. It sounds like an old cliché but they truly were the apple of his eye. When they were with Nonno, his grandchildren were his entire world and, like any good grandparent, he and Tina spoiled them like crazy.

A theme quickly emerged when his family was asked to use words to describe Joe – words like sweet, kind, gentle, warm, complimentary, accepting, patient, selfless, compassionate, and benevolent. Wherever he went, Joe had his hands in helping people. Whenever the fellow Italian immigrants that he met in St. Michael’s Church needed help, whether it was applying for citizenship, filling out documents, or anything to help them assimilate into their new communities, they knew he would always be around for them. In 1980, Joe’s wife Tina went to Italy for her father’s funeral. While there, an earthquake struck. Joe left his children with relatives and flew to Italy to be with Tina. The earthquake caused the relocation of many Italian citizens to the United States. Joe helped them relocate, get jobs, and he even gave them rides to and from work.

Sadly, Joe suffered from Alzheimer’s Disease for the past five years. His family looked after him with the same love and compassion that he would have given to one in need. While they mourn his passing, they are grateful that his suffering is over and their hearts overflow with thankfulness for the honor of having him in their lives.

Joe was the beloved husband of Tina (Leo), blessed in marriage for 52 years; loving father of: Daniel and wife Heather Miglino of Hammonton, NJ, Debbie and husband Marc Foti of Wayne, and Rino and wife Lindsey Miglino of Kinnelon; adored grandfather of: Peter Joseph Foti, Julia Foti, Joseph Miglino, Marissa Foti, Alessia Miglino, and Daniel Miglino; dearest older brother of the late Daniel Miglino (2011) and his wife Anna of Italy; dear brother-in-law of: the late Maria (2015) and her late husband Teodoro Pizza, Iolanda and husband Gerardo DeSimone of Wayne, Franca and husband Michael Tafuri of Wayne, and Antonio and wife Joanne Leo of Wayne: and cherished uncle of: Rosaria, Anna, Giuseppe, Federico, Jessie, Luci, Sonia, Joe, Lorena, Pam, Enrico, Michelle, Nick, Sabrina, Jessica, and all their spouses; and dear great-uncle to numerous great-nieces and great-nephews.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Joe’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

Attn: Development Dept.

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, #203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please make your check payable to Alzheimer’s New Jersey.

Stephen F. De Carlo, age 90 of Wayne and formerly of Rochelle Park, passed away on Tuesday, November 29, 2022. Steve had been a licensed electrician in NJ and served as a Foreman for the Rutherford Board of Education where he worked over 42 years until he retired in June 1996.

Steve was born in Manhattan.  His family then lived for a short period of time in Passaic, NJ closer to relatives until finally settling in Rutherford, NJ. He was the third eldest of twelve children in his family, with the eldest sister passing away around eight years old. With so many mouths to feed, Steve entered the workforce after finishing high school. His father was a carpenter and taught him the trades which turned to serve as a great value to his future. He started working for the Rutherford Board of Education school system as a custodian and worked his way into doing various trades for the school system.  He also obtained his Black Seal Boiler License.

It was in Rutherford that Steve met his wife, Elsie. As the story goes, Steve’s mother and eldest sister would babysit for Elsie’s daughter Patricia, when the two first met.  Elsie & Steve fell pretty hard for one another! Steve also adored little Patty.  Elsie laid a kiss on Steve that he couldn’t forget, and the rest is history. They were married on August 3, 1957, and enjoyed a honeymoon to Bermuda. The two of them were inseparable and did just about everything together. Steve was a devoted husband and father, and there wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for his family.  He taught his children sports and attended all of their events. The family participated in the church folk group where Steve would happily help with all of their instruments.

While working during the day, Steve started classes at the Bergen County Tech Vocational School which eventually led to him becoming a licensed electrician. He continued to work for the Rutherford Board of Education by day and did electrical & TV repair side jobs after work and on weekends; sometimes taking his children with him to help and learn.  When Elsie began fighting cancer, he was by her side through every doctor visit and treatment. Sadly, Elsie passed in 1989 and Steve has grieved for her ever since. He then assumed the role of both father and mother to his children.  They would take him along with them everywhere and he was an active part of their adult life.  He enjoyed collecting and running 0 Gauge toy trains with his son and grandsons.  Steve also loved to video-tape all of their family events, and he took great pride in editing the videos and adding music soundtracks. He would make copies for the growing family to share.  They have hours of videos to cherish for their lifetimes. He was also a devoted grandfather and never missed an opportunity to spend time with his grandchildren. He would often babysit his grandchildren and never missed their events.  They adored their PopPop.  

Steve was a big fan of the NY Yankees. He also enjoyed following politics and was an avid reader. After his wife passed away, he began studying the Bible and his faith deepened greatly. He became very religious and read the entire Bible four times. He enjoyed sharing his catholic faith with his grandchildren. Although he could be stubborn at times, he was always kind, helpful, and generous with his skills and most importantly his time. He was always willing to help if you asked and put his family first.

Steve is survived by two children; Thomas De Carlo and his wife Sherri of Wayne, and Margaret “Peggy” Duffill and her husband Bill of Maywood, His son in law Joe Farsijani of Florida, six grandchildren; Stephen, Thomas, and Matthew De Carlo of Wayne, Luke and Leah Duffill of Maywood, and Michael Atanas and his wife Allison of Florida, four great-grandchildren; Mackenzie, Morgan Ryleigh, Morgan Patrick, and Maya, three sisters; Marie De Carlo of Toms River, Catherine Fernandi of Seattle, Susan Rossi of S. Jersey, two brothers; Frank of Whiting and Danny of East Rutherford. Steve was predeceased by his dear wife Elsie in 1989, and by their daughter, Patricia Atanas-Farsijani in 2019 , two sisters; Catherine De Carlo and Dina Leonte, and by four brothers; Carlo, Joseph, Vito, and Dennis.

Robert J. D’Arienzo, “Bobby D” age 65 of Pompton Plains and a longtime former resident of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Monday, November 28, 2022.

The second of Romeo and Edith (Milite) D’Arienzo’s two children, Bobby was born in New York City and, after beginning life in the Bronx, his family moved to Elmwood Park, NJ. Bobby graduated Elmwood Park High School with the Class of 1975. He went on to earn his bachelor’s degree in 1979 from William Paterson College (today called William Paterson University). During his years in high school and college, he excelled at ice hockey and played for both schools.

It was while working his first full-time job at Suburban Savings Bank in Wayne, that Bobby met the love of his life Debbie Brino. She also worked at the bank and she’d often go to lunch with her girlfriend Lynn. Having a sincere interest in Debbie, Bobby would tag along. This practice went on for a while until one day Bobby asked Debbie if they could just go to lunch alone. It became a regular practice and their go-to eatery was the former Taco Maker on Berdan Ave. They’d get their food and then head up Berdan Ave to the park by the Wayne Museum along the Point View Reservoir They’d sit at a picnic table where friendship grew to love. Fast forward to one night at the former Gaspers in Wayne, Bobby asked Debbie to marry him. He had the engagement ring hidden inside his Frye cowboy boot. She enthusiastically said yes but later realized that Bobby had never asked her parents for permission to marry her. Very soon after, they went to a Giants football game where Debbie’s father had a luxury box. There he received permission from her parents and the engagement was official! Bobby and Debbie exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, October 13, 1984 at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes. After a reception at The Manor in West Orange they honeymooned in Hawaii.

Being a mortgage banker, Bobby and Debbie moved numerous times throughout their marriage. They started out in a townhouse in Lincoln Park at 78 Gettysburg Way. Nine months later they moved across town to a condo at 135 Harvest Lane. After eight months they moved again into a home at 39 Kiwanis Drive in Wayne. During their eight years living there, Bobby and Debbie were blessed with two wonderful daughters and an awesome son. The next move was to 81 Yellow Brick Road where they stayed for a whopping twenty-five years. Bobby loved that house. He even made a 20 foot by 40-foot ice skating rink in the back yard for the kids. In 2018, they moved into their present home in Pompton Plains.

Bobby eventually left his job at Suburban Savings to become a mortgage banker at National City Mortgage Company in Clark, NJ. Most of his career was spent there. He later worked for Atlantic Home Loans in Parsippany and was just getting ready to retire. Because he was often the highest producer in his company, he won many-a trip to great destinations like Mexico, Hawaii, Puerto Rico, St. Thomas, and Miami.

Bobby was an active, fun-loving guy who was always up to something. As a young man he could be found at the gym working out, and in more recent years he got involved in the men’s softball and hockey leagues. He also served as a hockey coach for his son Rob. He had a couple of nice corvettes, one of which he wanted to bring his daughter Julianne to school in but she was too concerned about attracting unwanted attention. Bobby loved to build and fix things. He had a blast making that ice rink in the back yard. While his kids skated, he stayed warm by his chimenea while sitting on the bench that he built and his cat Mikey was always faithfully by his side. He also built the kids a tree house, built a shed for himself, and a backyard deck. He renovated his daughter, Nichole and Mike's first home.

With Bobby, his kids enjoyed a fun-filled childhood and life was always interesting for the whole family. Favorite memories included nights out for Karaoke at the Tawara Bar in Wayne. His favorite songs to sing were Elton John’s Rocket Man, The Foundation’s Build Me up Buttercup, and anything by Boston. Not necessarily the voice of discipline, Bobby was known to take his children out on Goosy Night. It was clean fun as they only TP’d their own bushes and trees and maybe the neighbor’s house from whom Bobby had already received permission. Family vacations were spent taking Carnival cruises to the Bahamas, Cancun and Canada, as well as trips to Florida, Lancaster Pennsylvania, and, of course, the ever-trusty Jersey Shore. And when his four grandchildren came into his life, Bobby’s world was never the same. He was always psyched when he knew they were coming to his house. To him, they were magical!

Bobby was a witty and kind, the life of the party! His practice of dancing with a trash can at corporate parties earned him the title “Trash Can Man.” He was a generous person and he had a real soft place in his heart for homeless animals. His late cat Mikey was rescued from a shelter. His late dog Teddy would have also been from a shelter too but his love for his daughter Julianne won out. She wanted a dog so bad that she saved every penny to buy one. She’d put another dollar or two into her “dog fund” and then go ask her daddy if she had enough now. Finally, Bobby melted and he just bought her the dog she wanted. As mentioned, the dog’s name was Teddy and he turned out to be Bobby’s favorite walking buddy.  

Bobby is survived by his beloved wife Debbie, blessed in marriage for 38 years. He was the loving father of: Nicole Thuring and husband Mike of Pompton Plains, Robert N. D’Arienzo and wife Gabrielle of Montville, and Julianne Sclavounos and husband Aris of Oakland; cherished grandfather of: Luca, Penelope, R.J., and Leo; dearest brother of Francine Hamilton and husband Ralph of Wayne; dear uncle of: Michael Hamilton and wife Kim, Jaclyn Hamilton, Reid Hensen, and Stevie Hensen; dear son-in-law of Rosalie and the late Ed Brino (2022) of Pompton Plains; and dear brother-in-law of: Christina Brino of Pompton Plains, and Laurie Hensen and her husband Reid of Wayne.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Robert’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Click Here for mailable form to send with your donation

FOWA Rescue (Friends of Wayne Animals Rescue)

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

Click Here for mailable for to send with your donation

Joseph Chernishuk, age 90, of Wayne passed peacefully in his home on Monday, November 28, 2022. He was the only child of Theodore and Catherine Chernishuk, and was born and raised in Jersey City. After graduating from Jersey City High School in 1952, he enlisted in the United States Air Force.

Joseph served in the United States Air Force from 1952 to 1956, during the Korean War. He received both the National Defense Service Medal and the Good Conduct Medal. He trained as a radar mechanic at the Electronics Training Center at Kessler Air Force Base in Biloxi, Mississippi. The training he received in the military led to a lifelong career as an electrical engineer.

Joe met Caroline, the love of his life, on a blind date. They married about a year and a half later in 1963, and bought a house in Wayne. Caroline and Joe enjoyed a “robust and enthusiastic” marriage spanning forty-six years that was blessed with a son Joseph “Teddy” Chernishuk and a daughter Catherine Trajkovic. Their marriage can be warmly characterized by them considering each other “best friends.” For many years they enjoyed traveling, having visited Europe, the Vatican, Spain, Las Vegas, California and a few cruises as well. Their favorite trip of all time was a drive along the Pacific Coast Highway from San Diego to San Francisco.

Joe will be remembered as a quiet, reserved person, but once he got to know you that façade disappeared. He enjoyed a good joke, kielbasa, a nice glass of red wine, and both the New York Giants (even though his son persistently tried to convert him to a Washington Commanders fan) and the New York Yankees. He enjoyed watching classic movies on the Turner Classic Movies channel. He was a dog lover, and his late Golden Retriever Coco was certainly spoiled as she slept under the covers and even had her own pillow. He was also very fond of the current family dog Oscar who is a Yorkie.

Joe was dedicated to his Catholic faith and was a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne for many years.

Joe was predeceased by Caroline, his wife for forty-six years, in 2009. He was the loving father of Joseph “Teddy” Chernishuk and his wife Jennifer of Wayne, and Catherine Trajkovic of Highland Lakes. He was the cherished grandfather of Kayla, Saralyn, and Sienna Chernishuk, and Alex and Max Trajkovic. He enjoyed spending time with his family, and seeing his grandchildren always brought a smile to his face.

George A. Freeman, age 96 of Pompton Plains, died peacefully on Monday, Nov. 28, 2022. He had lived in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, NJ for more than 60 years before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2009.

George was raised in Nutley, NJ along with three brothers and in 1944 he joined the U.S. Navy and served as a tail gunner in the three person crew of a torpedo bomber. After serving in World War II, he went to college to earn his Bachelor’s degree in engineering from Davis and Elkins. While in college, George met Mary Parsons and they were married on November  25, 1950  in Maryland. After a reception at the Bethesda Woman’s Club, they honeymooned to Florida. They lived briefly in Colorado and Washington, DC before settling in Packanack Lake in 1960.

George and Mary quickly became very involved in the Packanack community playing softball, golfing, bowling, playing horseshoes, and playing cards. They were a very social couple and enjoyed cocktail parties with their neighbors. Together, they were incredible dancers and everyone would clear the floor to watch them dance. They loved to travel and most of all, loved each other throughout their 70 years of marriage.

George’s career as a Licensed Professional Engineer began with the United States Atomic Energy Commission, would later become a Vice President for Vogelbach and Baumann in 1973, started his own firm; G.A. Freeman & Associates Consulting Engineers, and he retired from Atmos Engineering in 1989. During his career he also served as President of the New Jersey Chapter of The American Society of Heating, Refrigerating and Air-Conditioning Engineers, ASHRAE. He was well known for incredible work ethic and rarely missed a day of work.

George was a true gentleman and always willing to help anyone in need. Sometimes he was even a little bit too eager to help, but his heart was in the right place. True to a Freeman trait, he was stubborn to a high degree, but complimented with a big heart. He kept a large place in his heart for his dogs; Toni, Belle, Snooky, and Sugar and would walk them every day in all weather. George was also a devoted grandfather and great grandfather and loved spending time with them and watching them grow. His children, grandchildren and great grandchildren each know how blessed they are to have had such a loving example in their lives and they will all miss him dearly.

George is survived by his four children: Dan Freeman and his wife Almeda of Pompton Plains, NJ, Richard Freeman and his wife Linda of Newton, NJ, Brad Freeman and his wife Diane of Whitehouse Station, NJ, and Joyce Lorusso and her husband Phil of Pompton Lakes, NJ, eight grandchildren; Dawn McDonough, Danielle Wallin, Reese Freeman, Lyle Freeman, George Lorusso, Maddie Freeman, Nikki Freeman, and Sammy Freeman, and four great grandchildren; Brendan McDonough, Colleen McDonough, Maggie Wallin, and Ryan Wallin, and his brother, James Freeman of Reading, MA.  George was predeceased by his beloved wife, Mary, in 2020, and by two brothers; Whitman and Robert Freeman.

In memory, please consider a donation to St Hubert’s Animal Welfare Shelter, sthuberts.org

Jean B. Kent (nee Baumgartner), of Pompton Lakes, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, November 26, 2022. She was 89 but if you ever asked her how old she was, she would get a twinkle in her eyes and just reply “I’m plenty-nine.” Jean’s middle initial “B” really stood for her maiden name but she always said it stood for “Beautiful”.

The second of Edwin and Murial (Squier) Baumgartner’s four children, Jean was born in Rahway, NJ and raised in Westwood.

After graduating from Westwood High School, Jean attended the University of Cincinnati on a full scholarship where she studied to become a registered nurse. After earning her bachelor’s degree, her first foray into her nursing career was working for the Cincinnati Department of Health.

While at the University of Cincinnati, Jean met Joseph Kent who hailed from Indiana and was also attending the university studying accounting. On their first date, Joe got a case of alligator arms as he forgot to bring his wallet. Jean ended up paying for that date but she fell for him all the same. Their mutual love for each other continued to grow to the point of exchanging marriage vows on August 8, 1955 at the Presbyterian Church in Joe’s hometown of Aurora, Indiana. After the ceremony, a reception took place in the church basement where ice cream and cake were enjoyed by all. Jean and Joe’s honeymoon was a “tour of the Midwest” which, in reality, consisted of just driving her mother to the train for the trip back east. Despite a humble honeymoon, they did get a chance to visit Niagara Falls after college graduation.

Jean and Joe eventually relocated to the northeast and, in 1962, they settled into a home on Lakeside Avenue in Pompton Lakes, NJ. They started their family and were blessed with three children, Steven, Michael and Janet. When the kids were young, Jean focused primarily on caring for them and limiting her outside work to a part-time job as substitute nurse for the Pompton Lakes and Wayne Schools. In 1972, when her sons and daughter reached an age of relative independence, Jean returned to full-time nursing at what was then known as Wayne General Hospital in Wayne, NJ. Over the course of her thirty-two-year career at the hospital, during which it was taken over by St. Barnabas Hospital before becoming St. Joseph’s Wayne Hospital, Jean skillfully and caringly attended to the needs of thousands of patients. When she retired from the hospital in 2004, she lovingly stepped up to the call by caring for her great grandson Josh who needed daily care for the first two years of his life. In her later years, Jean also served as her husband Joseph’s personal nurse until his passing on May 20, 2021.

It was after her retirement from full-time nursing that Jean and her husband Joe joined the Pompton Lakes Golden Agers Club. With his background in accounting, Joe served as the club’s treasurer while Jean faithfully served as second vice-president from 2011 to 2017. She loved the challenge and more importantly, she loved the many dear friends she and Joe made and the really fun activities that the Golden-Age Club offered. She loved the many trips, especially the ones to Shawnee Playhouse in East Stroudsburg, PA and the great lunches at the Shawnee Inn. In fact, Jean not only loved going on the trips, she also loved planning them as well as the Golden Agers involvement in the town’s annual “Pompton Day.”

Nothing got between Jean and her University of Cincinnati Bearcats football games. She remained a loyal fan from her college days throughout the rest of her life.  

Above all else, Jean’s greatest love was for her family – her children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, brothers and sister. In recent years, many family reunions took place throughout the country in New Jersey, Connecticut, South Carolina, Florida, Georgia, and Nevada. Jean’s last trip was to California when she went to visit her older brother Edwin who just passed away in the fall of this year. Her family shared a love of genealogy and could trace their ancestors all the way back to the Mayflower. She loved the holidays and her family is so thankful that they got to spend this past Thanksgiving together.

Jean was the beloved wife of Joseph, blessed in marriage for 65 years until his passing in 2021. She was the loving mother of: Steven Kent of Sussex, Michael Kent of Pompton Lakes, and Janet Kent-Peterson of Pompton Lakes; cherished grandmother of: Jackie Laurice and husband Ryan of Randolph, Steven Kent, Jr. and wife Krystal of Sussex, David Kent of Pompton Lakes, James Kent of Oakland, and Nick Kent of Wayne; adoring great-grandmother of: Isabela, Logan, Luke, and Josh; and dearest sister of: the late Edwin Baumgartner and wife Connie of Merced, CA, Alan Baumgartner and wife Carolyn of the suburbs of Atlanta, GA, and Nancy Mannino and husband Frank of Bunnell, FL.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jean’s name are asked to consider:

The Salvation Army

New Jersey Division

P.O. Box 3124

Union, NJ 07083

Please indicate that the gift is in memory of Jean B. Kent

Rosemary Grillo, age 64, of Wayne went to her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Friday, November 25, 2022.

She was born in Summit and was the daughter of the late Charles and Patricia Grillo. Rosemary grew up in Berkley Heights and attended Governor Livingston High School where she found her passion for singing in the choir. Her family moved to Westfield in her senior year as the school system there had special accommodations for her late sister Alycia. Rosemary continued her love for the arts at her new school and found joy participating in school plays  and singing with the Westfield High School Class of 1976. Following high school, she followed her love of music and attended and graduated from the Harford School of Music in Connecticut.

In her younger years Rosemary worked as an on-call accountant and excelled at several sales positions. In her mid-50’s her new role became caretaker for her mother which gave her the time and opportunity to return to school and receive a teaching certificate so that she could pursue her dream career in childhood education. For several years she worked at the Elizabeth Board of Education as a first-grade teacher.

Rosemary will forever be lovingly remembered as a beautiful soul who was outgoing, positive, giving, loving, caring, and a true caretaker who was there for anyone in need. She loved to worship and was a dedicated member of Calvary Temple International in Wayne where she sang and proudly displayed her license plate that read “RU Ready” with a frame that added, “To Let Jesus into Your Heart?” She was loyal, had a servant’s heart, was selfless and artistic. She loved pink flamingos and was a member of the Flamingo Buddies.  She once had a Pink Party where everything was pink from sunglasses, t-shirts, plates, cups, and more.  She was also a devoted cat lover always having at least two cats and at one time was up to four.  Rosemary was one of the most friendly, welcoming, loving people you ever met unless you called her “Rose” – she would immediately add “Mary” to correct you.

Rosemary was preceded in death by her Father Charles Grillo, Mother Patricia Grillo and Sister Alycia Grillo. Rosemary is survived by her brother Charles Grillo and his wife Sarah of Cumming, GA, brother Christopher Grillo of Westfield and four beautiful nieces, Theresa, Nicole, Olivia, and Madeline Grillo. She will also be dearly missed by her close friends who are like family: Faith & Gary Woortman, Jane Scalzitti, Audrey Lewis, Cathy & Joe Dobiszewski and her church family at Calvary Temple International in Wayne, NJ.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Calvary Temple, 1111 Preakness Ave., Wayne, NJ 07470, calvarynj.com/give or the Valley Hospital Cancer, valleyhospitalfoundation.org.

Charles “Charlie” Sanclementi, Sr., age 93, passed away peacefully at his home in Wayne, NJ on November 24, 2022.  Charlie is survived by his loving daughter Karen Balter, her husband Richard, their daughter Allison McNamara and her husband Collin; his loving son Charles “Chuck” SanClementi, Jr., his wife Erin and their children Rosa, Gena and Luca. Charlie was predeceased by his adored wife of nearly 70 years, Rose, in January of 2020; as well as by their beloved son Steven in 2003.  Charlie was the last of his five siblings, predeceased by his brothers John, Dominic, Angelo and Frank and sister Annie Ridgewood.

Charlie was born to Frank and Mary Sanclementi in Pompton Lakes, NJ on March 4, 1929.  He graduated from Pompton Lakes High School and married his high school sweetheart Rose Giannone in 1950, to whom he was devoted for nearly 70 years.

Charlie was an army veteran of the Korean war.  Upon his return from Korea, Charlie continued his work as butcher at the store he ran with his brothers, Frank’s Market, named for his father, in Pompton Lakes, NJ.  Subsequent to that, Charlie worked as a groundskeeper for the Wayne Board of Education until his retirement.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Arlene M. Loreng (nee Leobold), age 81 of Kinnelon, passed away peacefully at her home on Thursday, November 24, 2022.

Arlene grew up in South Paterson, on Thomas Street where she graduated from St. George’s High School. She began dating Walter when they were teenagers and got married on September 17, 1960. They lived in Paterson and Wayne before moving to Kinnelon in 1982.

Throughout the years, Arlene and Walt enjoyed themselves everywhere they went. They always enjoyed hosting family and friends whether it would be at their home in Kinnelon or Chadwick beach. They loved traveling together as, Paris was perhaps Arlene’s favorite destination, despite the fact that several of them got pick-pocketed while they were there! Arlene also enjoyed spending time with her two sisters, Betty and Dolores by having lunch and shopping on Friday afternoons

Arlene was an excellent cook and her scalloped potatoes, corned beef and cabbage, and pistachio cake were just a few of her remarkable specialties. Her turkey soup, however, tasted like dishwater, and her family never let her live that down! She loved eating out and Novelli’s was among her favorite restaurants.

Two of Arlene’s favorite pass times were reading and golf outings. She won the summer tournament twice, an accomplishment she was very proud of. Arlene could also polish off a Dean Koontz and James Patterson novel in just one sitting! Above all, Arlene was a huge fan of the New York Football GIANTS. As a season ticket holder for many years, Arlene was enjoying the success the team was having this year.

Arlene adored her grandchildren and loved building blanket-tents and forts around the house with them when they were little. She also enjoyed visits by her grand-dog, Mango Happy. Mango Happy would always enjoy his visits with grandma.

Arlene is survived by her beloved husband of sixty-two years; Walter, predeceased by their infant son, Walter, their daughter Lisa Warnek and her husband Adam of Kinnelon, three grandchildren; Caitlin, Adam and Bryan Warnek, and many loving nieces, nephews, and dear friends. She was predeceased by her two dear sisters: Mary Elizabeth “Betty” Brugaletta of West Milford and Dolores Salvati of Kinnelon. We will all miss her dearly and hold our memories close to our hearts.

For those wishing to make a donation in Arlene's memory, please consider the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center. You may donate online at www.mskcc.org.

Walter A. Triebel, age 78, of Packanack Lake in Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 23, 2022 while his loving family was by his side.

Walter was born in Newark, NJ and raised in Union, NJ, the second son of Adolf and Marie (Seidman) Triebel.

After graduating from Union High School, Walter attended Fairleigh Dickinson University where he received his bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering cum laude in 1969. He completed his education in 1972 earning his master’s degree in electrical engineering at New York University.

The predominance of Walter’s career was with Intel Corporation where he rose to the rank of Senior Field Engineer. He also served for fifteen years as an adjunct professor at his alma mater Fairleigh Dickinson University at the Teaneck campus, and he was a published author of more than twenty college text and reference books on digital electronics and computer technology.

A huge Yankees fan and an all-around fan of baseball, Walt and his brother Bob managed to visit all the major league baseball stadiums throughout the country and his love of minor league baseball was legendary. As an avocation, he was a freelance sports writer covering both major and particularly minor league baseball. Interestingly enough, he also authored a trade book titled “Road-Tripping the South Atlantic League: A Guide to Teams, Ballparks, and Cities.”

Walter truly enjoyed being a resident of Packanack Lake, where he often played tennis with friends. He was also an avid snow skier, who loved the thrills of down-hilling at Killington and Stratton in Vermont. Both skiing and going to baseball games were special times he spent with his daughter Lindsey. He spent time in North Carolina, during his later years, with friends.

Walter was the loving father of Lindsey Triebel of Wayne NJ; dear brother of Robert Triebel of Newton NJ; loving uncle of: Erika Schudde of Monroe NY, Christopher Triebel of Boscawen NH, and Russell Triebel of Little Egg Harbor NJ; and dear cousin of: Arthur Sedmont of Smyrna DE, Roger Sedmont of Turnersville NJ, Myriam Walther and Ursula Tautz and her children Gabi and Andy of Germany.In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Walter’s name are asked to consider:

‍Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center
633 Third Ave, 5th Floor

New York, NY 10017

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‍National Multiple Sclerosis Society
PO Box #91891

Washington, D.C. 20090-1891

Longin Tybur, 91 of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on November 23, 2022, surrounded by family, in his own home of 42 years.

His life was a tale of perseverance, survival, and hard work balanced with loyalty, patience, and gentleness. His was not an easy start to life, but one with a happy journey that embodied the American dream.

When Longin was eight years old living in rural Poland, Russian soldiers invaded his village and herded Longin, his family, and Polish community onto cattle cars. They were deported to Siberia as prisoners of war, subjugated to labor camps.

Toward the end of WWII, Longin, like many Poles, were unable to return home. They faced relocation throughout the world. Longin found himself in Tanzania, Africa, where his father died of malaria.

Ever-enduring, Longin took steps to join Polish General Anders' Army as a young teen, and then, upon the end of WWII, turned his eyes to the sea and enrolled in a merchant marine high school in England. He graduated and over 47 years at sea, from age 18 to 65, he worked his way from assistant cook to the role of chief engineer of super tankers. The position was a challenging one, calling for a physically strong, hardworking individual with innate mechanical abilities. The person had to problem solve, survive weeks or months away at sea in hot engine rooms on often tumultuous waters. They would be exposed to different cultures and experiences, docking in ports around the globe. It was the perfect match for Longin, who sailed to every continent, even Antarctica! He found another perfect match during a visit back with family in Poland in the early 1960s, when his sister, Stasia, introduced him to his beautiful wife of 55 years, Mariola. Longin and Mariola immigrated to the US in 1966, settled in New Jersey, and raised three sons, the pride and joy of his life.

After retirement, Longin never really stopped working and learning. He was constantly fixing things at his home and the houses of his sons. Even his 90th birthday didn't stop him from climbing ladders or using chain saws! He adapted to computers, IPads and the internet with great pride. Always curious, he never lost interest in learning how things worked and was happy tinkering for long hours with a broken printer in his computer room or refurbishing the carburetor of a snow blower by his workbench.

His family treasures his many stories and important lessons from the life of this great man, but ultimately his life inspires them to live lives that embody his core values, and to make choices that would continue to make him proud. He is proudly and affectionately survived by his three children: Chuck (Marcy), Tom (Tanya), Jim (Marie); and his seven grandchildren: Jonathan, Spencer, Ben, Maddie, Matthew, Noelle, and Graham, as well as a younger sister, Stasia, and older brother, Zdiswav, in Poland and their extended families.

Elaine Vellis, 89, of Pompton Plains and a former longtime resident of Fairfield, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 23, 2022.

Elaine was born and raised in Clifton. Her maternal grandparents also lived with her as she was growing up, so she was able to benefit from their love and knowledge as well. She learned to speak fluent Italian, and she learned to cook from her grandfather Longo, who was a chef in Italy before emigrating to the U.S.A. This not only developed in her a life-long love of cooking but also helped her to become an excellent cook in her own right, making such family favorites as arancinis, meatballs with wine gravy, or a delicious pot of sauce.

After graduating from high school, she worked for New Jersey Bell as a telephone operator followed by a job with General Electric. She married in 1957, and they moved to Fairfield in 1961. They had two daughters, Margo and Karen, and Elaine stepped into her new role as a wonderful and loving full-time mom.

Elaine was a woman of various interests and talents. As a young woman, she was a dance instructor at the Charlie Shaw Studio of Dancing, and she competed in and won various dance competitions. Later, she developed a talent for poetry into a business writing personalized poetry for special occasions. At various times, she also enjoyed racquetball, needlepoint, crocheting, and knitting and loved ones were often the fortunate recipients of the fruits of her loving labors.

In 1981, Elaine returned to the workplace, this time with BOBST, North America in Roseland where she worked for over 25 years in marketing and then in their parts department. When presented with an opportunity to visit Italy with a friend from Bobst, she jumped at it and felt blessed to witness, firsthand, the sights and culture of her grandparents and ancestors. She talked about it for years afterwards as the trip of a lifetime. Just prior to retirement from BOBST and after over 40 years in her Fairfield home, Elaine moved to Cedar Crest Village. It didn’t take long for her to get involved in various activities offered at Cedar Crest and to establish some great friendships, and she especially enjoyed getting together with friends after dinner to play cards.

Above all else, Elaine cherished her family. Times spent with them made for the best of times and the greatest of memories. Whether it was taking trips to Disney with Margo and her husband Rudy and their boys, or just getting together for a night of board games with her daughters and grandsons, the most important part was being together. She loved the holidays, especially Christmas, and the joy of giving to others.

Elaine was a special woman. When asked what they will miss the most about her, her family quickly named many of the simplest but most important things: her giving, loving, and caring nature, her wit, her kindness, interesting conversations, lots of laughs, the way she made the holidays so special, and of course, her delicious cooking.

Elaine was the loving mother of: Margo and husband Rudy Garbely of Pompton Plains, and Karen and husband Patrick Mullen of Wayne, and cherished grandmother of her five grandsons: Rudy Garbely and wife Carolyn Hoffman of Dingman’s Ferry, PA, Kyle and wife Lindsay Garbely of Hickory, NC, Brendan Mullen of Charlottesville, VA, Michael Mullen of Glassboro, NJ, and Luke Mullen of Wayne, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Elaine’s name are asked to consider:

American Heart Association

PO Box 840692

Dallas, TX 75284-0692

Click here to access the Printable Tribute Donation Form

Giuseppe “Joseph” Carrini, age 83, of Kinnelon, NJ passed away peacefully on Friday November 18, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Giuseppe was born and raised in San Fratello, Sicily.  He was the oldest of three children to Giuseppe and Serafina Carrini.  Like many children Giuseppe’s age, he left school early to work on the family-owned farm.  There he worked alongside his family until 1967, when he emigrated to the United States of America in search of a better life and the “American Dream.”

Upon arriving in the United States, Giuseppe settled in Astoria, Queens.  Giuseppe found work quickly as a factory worker.  In 1970 he accepted a position in the construction department at AT&T.  Verizon eventually took over the outfit, but Giuseppe remained at the company becoming a Fiber Optic Technician.  Giuseppe’s career with Verizon spanned a period of thirty-one years until his retirement in 2001.  Giuseppe was in New York City on September 12, 2001 to re-establish phone lines after the September 11th attacks at the World Trade Center.  Helping his country rebuild and recuperate from the tragic events of 9/11 was something that Giuseppe was truly proud.

After his retirement, Giuseppe’s outstanding work ethic encouraged him to secure a position with the Paramus Board of Education as a School Bus Driver for disabled children.  Giuseppe happily held the position for over ten years.

In 1968, shortly after emigrating to the United States, Giuseppe’s cousin Alfio introduced him to a young attractive lady who was studying English as a second language.  Her name was Maria Enea. They fell in love and on December 14, 1969 they became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Queens and welcomed two sons, Anthony, and Frank.  They called Queens their home for the next thirty years until moving to New Jersey in 2003. Giuseppe loved to spend his free time gardening, growing vegetables such as zucchini, tomatoes, string beans, and had a fig tree imported from Sicily in his backyard.  Along with gardening, Giuseppe treasured making his own wine, tomato sauce and fresh ricotta for his family.

Giuseppe had a talent for storytelling and could easily capture an audience with his tales of the “the old country” or stories about his work. He loved watching and talking about movies.   He treasured surfing the internet on his laptop and searched YouTube for Italian singers.  He was truly proud of his Sicilian heritage and his hometown of San Fratello.  Growing up in San Fratello, there was an annual feast for San Benedetto.  In 2018, Giuseppe was fortunate to travel back to San Fratello, Sicily and attend the feast that year.

Aside from all of Giuseppe’s talents, hobbies and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Giuseppe than spending time with and providing for his family.  He and his wife Maria cherished fifty-three years of loving and loyal marriage. Giuseppe would create any excuse to get his family together so that he would be able to be close to his family.

Giuseppe was also dedicated to his Catholic faith.  He and his family are parishioners of Our Lady of Magnificat in Kinnelon for many years.  Giuseppe was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be deeply missed by everyone that knew him

Giuseppe is survived by his wife Maria (nee Enea) of Kinnelon, two sons; Anthony Carrini and his wife Christina (née Graziano) of Kinnelon, NJ, and Frank Carrini and his wife Arlene (née Antunes) of Cedar Grove, NJ, Also, two sisters; Benedetta Pernice and her husband Salvatore of Paramus, NJ, and Serafina Vasi and her husband Bernardo of Eatontown, NJ, and may nieces, nephews, and godchildren.  Giuseppe was predeceased by his grandson Sabastian Carrini in 2014.

Jerrold A. Berr, age 85 of W. Hartford, CT and formerly of Verona, NJ, died peacefully on Wednesday, Nov. 16, 2022.

Jerry grew up in the Delawanna section of Clifton and played at the varsity level in football, basketball, and baseball while at Clifton High School. After graduating, he went to earn his bachelor’s degree in accounting from Upsala College, and then his MBA. He worked briefly as a CPA and even owned a couple of car washes before settling into a career as an insurance agent for John Hancock.

Jerry had lived in Verona for thirty-four years where he and his wife, Phyllis, raised their children and he coached Little League. They were active at Temple Sholom West Essex in Cedar Grove, where Jerry was a member of the Brotherhood throughout the 1970’s and 1980’s., serving as president twice. Jerry loved to golf, and he was a lifelong athlete and sports fan. It could be said that his life revolved around three things: sports, sports, and sports! He played softball in a local men’s league for years, and he loved all sorts of professional sports. He had season tickets to the Jets, Rangers, and the Devils. He went to Madison Square Garden almost weekly for many years, taking in the Knick’s and the Rangers as often as he could. And he never missed an opportunity to see the Yankees or the Mets play. Yes, even the Mets. He even bought season tickets to the newly formed World Football League back in the 1970’s, and later to the USFL Jersey Generals. If he couldn’t catch a live game, he’d be watching sports on TV. He just couldn’t get enough. Jerry did enjoy some balance in his life, was an avid reader and he did the NY Times crossword puzzle daily. There was always time for family, as well. They enjoyed memorable summer vacations each year, trips to Disney World, Newport, Rhode Island, Vermont, and several traditional Jewish vacations to resorts up in the Catskills. They even visited Israel for an entire month back in 1980. He was also a devoted grandfather who was always there to cheer on his grandchildren. He was at every soccer game he could make it to, with his folding chair strategically placed on the sidelines, encouraging them on every play. He loved his grandchildren very much and they will all miss him dearly.

Jerry met his wife, Phyllis Schmidt, when they were both students at Upsala College. As only Jerry could tell the story, he was walking behind Phyllis and said to his friend; “I’m going to marry that girl.” From his perspective, it was love at first sight. They were soon married on June 14, 1959 and honeymooned to Bermuda. They first settled into a small apartment on the third floor of Phyllis’ parent’s home in Newark before buying their family home on Willow Terrace in Verona in 1963.  Jerry and Phyllis planted deep roots in Verona and loved living there. Phyllis battled cancer twice during their years together, and it was during those battles that Jerry showed his true colors as a devoted husband. He did all he could for her, but sadly, after thirty-seven years of marriage, Phyllis lost her battle with cancer in 1996. Jerry sold the house in Verona not long after and he lived briefly in Caldwell and Lord’s Valley, Pennsylvania before moving to Hebron, Connecticut, in 2009.

Jerry is survived by his two children: Andrea Barletta and her husband Martin of W. Hartford, CT, and Steven Berr of Skaneateles, NY, five grandchildren: Rachel, Jonathan, and Harrison Berr, all of Connecticut, Zack Barletta of Tennessee, and Jake Rasmussen (Mykayla) of North Carolina, and one great-grandson; Asher Rasmussen. Jerry was predeceased by his wife, Phyllis (nee Schmidt) in 1996, and by his brother Martin Berr of Vernon, CT in 2004.

For those wishing to make a donation in Jerry's memory, please consider McLean Hospice Care. You can visit their website and donate online at www.mcleancare.org.

Mary Darlene Matonti, age 76, of Waldwick passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 13, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Mary was born in Paterson, NJ and was the only child to Anthony and Dorothy Matonti. As Mary grew up, those closest to her always knew her and referred to her as Darlene.  At the age of about ten years old, Darlene and her family moved from Paterson to Wyckoff.  There, Darlene attended Ramapo Regional High School.  While in high school, Darlene excelled in Dance and was active in the school’s theatre productions.  After graduating from Ramapo Regional High School with the class of 1963, Darlene was accepted to New York University where she was enrolled in Pre-Veterinary studies.  Darlene left NYU after marrying John U. Greene (Jack) and the birth of her first child Donna in 1965.  The couple lived in Wyckoff after getting married then moved to Paterson where they welcomed the birth of their second child, their son John.

After moving back to Wyckoff, Darlene worked alongside her husband Jack at their family business, Urban Appliance Repair.  Darlene and Jack owned and operated their business for more than ten years together.  Although Darlene was helping with the family business, her true full-time job was that of a homemaker.  Raising and caring for her children was clearly Darlene’s calling and where she genuinely flourished.  As the years went by, Darlene and Jack eventually separated.  However, in 1983, Darlene found love and companionship again when she met her true love, Thomas Sabiel.  Tom and Darlene moved to Waldwick and have been together ever since.      

Being a homemaker for many years gave Darlene the opportunity to hone her cooking skills.  She was an outstanding cook and was referred to as a gourmet chef by her family and friends.  To say that Darlene loved animals was seemingly an understatement.  Throughout her life, Darlene raised and rehabilitated animals for the state of New Jersey.  Her home was always filled with not only dogs and cats, but animals of all kinds, including squirrels, racoons, ducks, and a variety of birds.  Even for about two weeks, Darlene sheltered two African lion cubs from the Bronx Zoo that were scheduled to be transferred to the San Francisco Zoo in California.

On one afternoon, while Darlene was driving with Tom on route 208 in Wyckoff, Darlene spotted an adult duck pacing to and fro on the side of the road.  Darlene told Tom to pull over as she was sure something was wrong.  When pulling over, the couple found that the duck’s babies were trapped in the storm drain.  Tom tried to lift the storm drain cover by hand but was unsuccessful, he then tried to hook up a chain and pull it off with his car. While trying to do so, a NJ State Trooper pulled up behind them and asked what they thought they were doing.  After Tom and Darlene explained the situation, the officer said, “Okay… I was never here!”      

Darlene enjoyed freshwater fishing, scuba diving and travel.  She had a wonderful sense of adventure, traveling to a variety of destinations over the years including Italy, Bermuda, Jamaica, the Dominican Republic, and Puerto Vallarta, Mexico.  She and Tom also enjoyed racing cars. She was a genuinely true patriot and had a deep love for her country. But aside from all her hobbies, talents, and interests, Darlene’s greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Darlene than spending time with her children and grandchildren.  Darlene was a loving and caring person with a huge heart.  She was often selfless to a fault, putting the needs of others before her own.  She was a firm believer that material things were not what is important in one’s life, but the relationships with family and friends are what really matters.  Darlene was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.        

Darlene is survived by her longtime companion Tom Sabiel of Waldwick, her daughter Jacqueline Donna Elefante and her husband Andrew of Lincoln Park, NJ, one step-son, Thomas Sabiel, Jr. and his wife Michele of Waldwick, NJ and five grandchildren: Alexis Drew Elefante, Ryan Ross Elefante, Thomas Joseph Sabiel, Andrew Nicholas Sabiel, and Nicole Leticia Greene.  She was predeceased by her son John Anthony Greene in 2018.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Darlene’s name may be made to the New Jersey Humane Society http://www.newjerseyhumanesociety.org, 6412 Dewey Ave, West New York, NJ 07093,  or Wounded Warriors, 370 7th Ave, Suite 1802, New York, NY 10001 http://www.woundedwarriorsproject.org

Minnie Pelosi succumbed on November 13, 2022 surrounded by loving family and friends at Chilton Medical Center. Minnie was born on January 28, 1933 in Paterson where she was a longtime resident, later followed by a longtime residency in Wayne.

Upon graduation from Central H.S. she attended and graduated from The Paine School in the City of New York where she was trained for Medical Technology and Office Management. After program completion, she was employed as a Medical Technician and Office Manager in the Medical Practices of Fred J. Crescente, M.D. (25 years), followed by Ramesh C. Gupta, M.D. (35 years) respectively. Both of these careers spawned and forged lifelong friendships and precious, loving family relationships with Minnie, that has spanned multiple generations.

Minnie, the sister of the late Antonetta Foschi (Nicholas predeceased) is survived by sisters Grace Liskay (Paul predeceased), Mary Ann Hoppe (Steven), and brother Dominick Pelosi (Catherine), nephew Nicholas Foschi, nieces Paula Calabrese, Kimberly Fedo, Pamela Hronich, Jennifer Parisi and several great nieces and nephews.

Her compassion, spirit and generous acts of kindness were gifts to this world. Minnie brought love and light on a daily basis into the lives of all who were privileged to know her. She leaves a legacy of many lifelong special relationships, treasured memories, and making a difference in peoples’ lives.

In lieu of flowers, please make charitable donations to Wills Eye Research Center or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital (stjude.org).

Dolores Vergano, age 92, of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Friday, November 11, 2022.

She was born to Rudy and Gladys Ferris in New York City and was raised in West New York, New Jersey.  Through her youth Dolores moved several times as her father was an entertainer. Dolores graduated from Memorial High School in West New York with the Class of 1948, where following in her father’s footsteps, she was the lead in her senior play.

When she was a young girl she had only one date with Dino Vergano before he was sent off in the US Army’s Air Corps. They corresponded by mail and when he came home from the war they fell in love. Dolores and Dino were married on June 4, 1950 at St Joseph of the Palisades Church in West New York and honeymooned at Niagara Falls, New York.  They have had seventy-two years of a loving and devoted marriage. They were inseparable and were often seen wearing coordinating clothing.

As a young girl Dolores worked as a cashier at the Mayfair Movie Theatre in West New York.  Through the years she worked at an insurance company, law firm, the Basic Foods in Englewood Cliffs – who held her job for a year after her first child was born.  After giving birth to her children Christopher and Cynthia she worked as an office manager at a company in Fairfield, volunteered at the Thenuis Dey School’s library in Wayne, and found work at the Wayne Haven Nursing Home in Wayne where she was an Assistant Administrator for twenty-two years.  After retiring, Dolores proudly volunteered at the Chilton Memorial Hospital’s Business Office for twenty-five years.

Dolores was dedicated to her Catholic Faith and was a founding parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.  For many years she served as an Usher and Eucharistic Minister for the church.

Dolores will be remembered as strong-willed person who was not afraid to articulate her thoughts on any subject matter.  Up until her passing she was up to date on all current events and read the newspaper every day.

She was the loving wife of Dino Vergano of Wayne; devoted mother of Christopher Vergano and his wife Deneen of Wayne and Cynthia Brozuski and her husband Chris of Oak Ridge; she was the cherished grandmother of Kyle Vergano and his fiancé Jenna DeMarco, Allison Vergano, and Gregory Brozuski; she was also the dearly loved sister of Gloria Deradorian and her late husband Edward of Washington Township, Kathleen Catalo and her husband Rich of Hasbrouck Heights, and Egidia Vergano and her late husband Ernie of Attleboro, MA. Dolores is also survived by several nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated. Please indicate on donation memorial for Dolores Vergano.

Julia M. Bidden, age 95 of Wayne for the past 44 years, died peacefully on Thursday, November 10, 2022, after enjoying an interesting, long and healthy life. She had worked for many years in the Law Library of NYU and Columbia Universities in New York City where she was in charge of procuring legal literature from around the world.

Julia’s life began in the city of Ploiesti, Romania, where her family enjoyed a degree of notoriety under the last name Socolescu. Her father was an accomplished agricultural engineer, and her uncle is still renowned for much of the architectural beauty in the city of Ploiesti. Her teenage years were defined, in large part, by the events of World War II, beginning with German occupation, then allied air raids and bombings, followed by Soviet Communist rule. She made clear her disdain for the communism that ensued in the years after the war, and the darkness and desperation that came into all their lives. Her family, due to their notoriety, was terrorized by the Communists, and she wanted desperately to leave Romania. In 1972, she and her husband John, were able to attend the Olympics in Munich, Germany. While driving back to Romania, they were involved in a terrible car accident and, over the next three years, her husband needed specialized healthcare. They were allowed to go back to Munich, Germany for his treatment and while there, Julia procured visas to the USA for both of them. This was a huge gamble for two people in their 50’s, but they took a leap of faith and came to the United States in 1977, changing their name to Bidden and never looking back.

Once in America, they settled in New Jersey. Julia was hardworking and driven to succeed at everything she set her mind to. She was well educated and spoke five languages. From 1980 to 1983, Julia worked for Columbia University and seized this opportunity to expand her education. She elected to take night classes at the university while working there and managed to earn a Master's degree in Library Science. In 1984, Julia’s impressive education led to a job with NYU in the position of Acquisition Librarian. She worked her way up to oversee procuring legal materials for the Law Library, enjoying a lengthy and fulfilling career there until her eventual retirement from NYU in 2000.

Julia loved to travel and explore the world. From 1974-2010, her sense of adventure took her all over the globe from the far west to the far east and even to the north and south poles. She was truly an extraordinary woman with unique perspectives accumulated from her years of exploration. After seeing the world in all its beauty, Julia always came back to her love for America and the freedom that it provided. She would often find herself reflecting on how lucky she was to be in such a special place in this world never taking the freedom and democracy enjoyed here for granted.

Julia liked to keep active and fit. She took up playing tennis while here in America and played in a league until she aged-out! She credits tennis with keeping her toned and in such good physical shape. Around her home you will still find exercise equipment, including small dumbbells that she used daily, up until just a few days ago. Even at 95 years old, she was determined to exercise and stay healthy for as long as she could, and it worked. She would often speak matter-of-factly about how grateful and fulfilled she was in her life, and that when God called her, she was ready.

Julia is predeceased by her husband John Bidden who passed away in 2012. She is survived by her niece Laura Socolescu-Brajon of France, her “niece” Oana Trister and her husband Robert Moore of Chatham, NJ. She will be dearly missed by her many friends from her travels all over the world.

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Julia had a special place in her heart for all the animals of this world. She cared for them and loved them deeply. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you recognize Julia’s devotion to animals through a donation to the Humane Society.

Gloria I. Affel, age 94, of Bridgewater and a long-time resident of Kinnelon, passed peacefully into eternal rest with our dear Lord in Heaven on Thursday, November 10, 2022.

Born in Perth Amboy and of Hungarian ancestry, she lived a selfless life dedicated to caring for her loved ones.  Her sweet nature was reflected in her love for animals, giving small donations throughout her many years to numerous animal rescues and shelters.  An avid reader, she enjoyed discussing current events and sipping coffee.  She was skilled at arts and crafts and baked many delicious desserts .  She will be remembered most for her quiet strength, and her friendship and kindness towards others.

We invite you to make a donation to ASPCA (aspca.org) or Best Friends Animal Sancutary (bestfriends.org) in her memory.

Please indicate that the gift is in memory of Gloria Affel

Carol R. Olson (Tasso), age 79 of Hamilton, NJ and a former longtime resident of Lincoln Park and West Paterson (Woodland Park), NJ, passed away peacefully with her family lovingly by her side, on Thursday, November 10, 2022.

Carol was born in Paterson and raised in West Paterson. Prior to her birth her father Frank was called into military service during World War II. While gone, his 8” x 10” military photo sat on a table in the living room. To Carol, that photo became the personification of who her daddy was. When he returned from war, he naturally looked a little different, causing Carol to exclaim “You’re not my daddy. Grabbing that photo and holding it up to him she said, “This is my daddy!”  Well, now safely home from service, her father, Frank Tasso and her mother Caroline (Perugini) Tasso raised Carol and her younger sister Lynn in West Paterson, within walking distance of many of her cousins who Carol played with daily and to whom she remained close to her entire life. Carol’s family recalls one story that Carol shared about her childhood. She was maybe four or five years old and her parents put a rope around her waist with the other end of the rope tied to a post on the front porch so that she wouldn’t be able to wander off with her older boy cousins.

Carol graduated from Passaic Valley High School with the Class of 1961. She pursued higher education at Paterson State College (William Paterson University) where she earned her bachelor’s degree in Education. Her first teaching position was at the Beatrice Gilmore School on McBride Avenue in her hometown of West Paterson. The school just happened to be within walking distance of her home at 68 Ryle Park Ave – the home she continued to live in since her childhood.

Carol met her husband Kenneth Olson on a blind date at a bowling alley. That night she learned very quickly about Ken’s affectionate disposition and wonderful sense of humor. Fast forward to 35 years of marriage, she could look back and emphatically say she was glad she went on that first date. Carol and Ken married at First Lutheran Church in Clifton on July 27, 1968 and started their “husband and wife adventure” in a little apartment in Little Falls. In 1971 they moved into the house at 7 Rose Street in Lincoln Park, and a few years later, they were blessed with their two daughters – Laura and Kris Anne.

As a young mom, Carol left her teaching job to turn her full-time attention to motherhood. She loved, nurtured, and raised her girls to an age of appropriate independence before returning to the classroom. Her first foray into re-entering the teaching world took place at Busy Beaver Nursery School in Lincoln Park. Then, in 1980 she took a teaching position for 5th and 6th graders at St. Joseph School in Lincoln Park. She taught there for nine years, finishing as a first-grade teacher before moving on to Holy Angels School in Little Falls in 1989. Prior to full retirement in 2006 she returned to where she began, at Beatrice Gilmore School in Woodland Park.

Carol, Ken and their girls made a close-knit family of four who truly enjoyed doing life together. Summer after summer, they’d take the annual trek down the Garden State Parkway South enroute to the Jersey shore. For many years they vacationed in Seaside Park, a couple of years in Wildwood Crest and ultimately to Ocean City where, in 1996, they purchased their own beach house. They enjoyed family cruises to Alaska and the Caribbean, and in 2003, they took the family on a cruise to Bermuda (where they had honeymooned) to celebrate Carol and Ken’s 35th wedding anniversary. Sadly, and suddenly, Ken passed away in his sleep shortly after that cruise. After he passed, Carol remained in Lincoln Park until 2011 when she moved full time into the house in Ocean City. She and Ken enjoyed a storied marriage. Their love for each other was immense and abiding. They were each other’s best friend and time spent together was as good as it could get. Travel was surely one of their greatest pastimes. In addition to their penchant for cruises, they got to see much of the USA. They dubbed one such trip to the south “Carol and Ken’s Great Adventure”. When they took a trip out west, they fell in love with Arizona and there was also a trip to the Canadian Rockies. In the end, no destination held a closer place in Carol’s heart than down the Jersey shore. It was a quick excursion which held so many fond family memories and quite frankly, to Carol, nothing felt better than a shell in her pocket, and sand between her toes after a walk on the beach.

For many years, Carol enjoyed the game of golf. She played in the Lincoln Park Women’s League and enjoyed playing in Ocean City. She was a bit of a collector and sometimes her family wondered if she loved collecting commemorative golf balls more than playing the game. She also had a large collection of tea pots and she never saw a mug she didn’t love. She had so many, you would swear her mugs were having babies in her kitchen cabinets. She was so cute about it though and could be heard saying things like, “this is such a perfect mug for coffee, don’t you think?” Carol loved the arts and one of her favorite things to do was taking trips into New York City for a Broadway show. She could regularly be found cheering on her beloved Yankees, while watching the game with her dog Jeter. She loved visiting wineries down the shore (good taste!) and after Ken passed away, she and her sister Lynn enjoyed jazz cruises.

As the expression goes, Carol was an angel! She saw the good in all and was always the first to lend a helping hand to virtually anyone in need. In keeping with her faith in God, even unkind thoughts or deeds directed towards her were always returned with kindness. She was the consummate believer in the value of loving family ties. She had the privilege of being raised with cousins that lived up the street from her and who she continued to enjoy her entire life. She so much enjoyed raising her two daughters and, as those relationships changed as they grew to be adults themselves, their love and adoration for each other grew more and more. Thanks for the memories Mom! Her grandchildren saw their grandmother regularly and she could always be counted on to cheer for them at all their performances and competitions, and celebrate with them at all life’s milestone moments. Though separated by nine years, Carol and sister Lynn remained best friends who loved each other’s company, and her nieces and great nieces were as important to her as her own children and grandchildren.

Carol was the beloved wife of Kenneth, blessed in a loving marriage for 35 years until his sudden passing in 2003. She was the most loving mother of Laura Foster of Hamilton, and Kris Anne Kinney and her husband Jonathan of Simsbury, CT; cherished grandmother of Mackenzie, Brayden, Caroline, and Linnea; dearest older sister of Lynn Kroll of Wescosville, PA; dear aunt of: Jacqueline Walsh and husband Justin of Cherry Hill, Allison Kroll of Pittsburgh, PA; dear great-aunt of: Evelyn Walsh and Emilia Walsh, both of Cherry Hill; adored cousin of numerous cousins, and the precious godmother of many godchildren.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Carol’s name are asked to consider one of two charitable organizations:

Wounded Warrior Project
4899 Belfort Road Suite 300
Jacksonville, FL 32256

Cancer Support Community
New Jersey
At Gilda’s Club
700 New Road
Linwood, NJ 08221

Marjorie Doherty was born in 1927, in Jersey City, NJ to Otis and Marjorie Zabriskie.  She peacefully passed away on November 8, 2022 surrounded by her family.

Marge graduated from Snyder HS with the Class of 1945 and went to work on Maiden Lane, in New York City (as she always proudly told us!)

She met her husband Joseph Doherty thru family and friends and they married on March 28, 1948. Since Joe was a merchant seaman at the time they lived with her parents at first.

In February 1952 they moved to "the country" in Wayne, they happen to come across a new development going up, stopped in to go thru the model home, builder said they could leave a deposit, and Dad jokily said all I have is ten dollars in my pocket and builder said “I’ll take it”,  They lived in the same house (which Joe had to enlarge a few times as the family grew). Her husband Joe passed in 1998 six months after celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary.

Marge was able to be a stay at home mother to her five children. She volunteered at their school and was class mother many times!!!! In the early 70’s she was a member for the Musical Theater Group in Wayne, which she enjoyed making all the costumes and was stage manager for the productions. Later in life, she volunteered at Packanack Lake Church with their quilting group making sleeping bags for the homeless.

She loved to travel enjoying yearly vacations camping across the US and Canada with Joe and kids.  In her later years she traveled to Europe with Margaret and the entire family enjoyed a trip to Ireland.

But most of all she just loved being with family and friends.

Marge was predeceased by her parents, sisters Ella Cadden and Clare Cordes and her husband Joseph Doherty.   She is survived by her children Margaret Ellen of Wayne, Catherine Murphy (Thomas) of Columbia, NJ, Mary Post (Randy) of Greenwood Lake, NY, Joseph of Sparta and Teresa of Wayne. Also survived by her loved granddaughters Elizabeth Murphy Malik (Ben Malik) of Brooklyn and Emily Murphy of Manhattan and 17 nieces and nephews.

John W. Shane of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Monday, November 7th 2022, at the age of 75.

John was born in Lakewood, Ohio. He spent his early childhood in Hudson, Ohio where he and his parents lived with his paternal grandparents. His family later moved to Berea, Ohio, where he graduated from Berea High School with the class of 1965.

Following a year in college, John moved to New York City to pursue a career in theater. He acted, directed and created set designs at several regional and community theaters in the New York City area, and volunteered with youth theater groups. For several years, John worked for McGraw Hill Publishing in New York City as a textbook editor. At this point in his career, he went back to college at City University of New York and earned a Bachelor of Science degree in computer science. After his graduation, he found work as a software engineer for Cornell Mayo Associates first in Secaucus and later following the company to Parsippany. During his thirty year career at Cornell Mayo, he developed secure software for retail credit card transactions. John's interest in software development and computer science influenced his daughter Jennifer's decision to pursue electrical and computer engineering.

John and his wife Susan met in a dive bar in Chelsea, New York, when, after a terrible day at the office, Susan heard a soft, warm voice next to her say, "if it's any consolation, you're not the only one who's had a bad day". They were engaged a year later when John casually revealed his plans for their fall wedding in response to a question from Susan's father despite not having discussed it with Susan beforehand, leaving Susan dumbfounded. They were married on October 12, 1986 and honeymooned on Block Island, Rhode Island, and Hawaii. They were married for 36 years, and were blessed with a daughter, Jennifer.

John was dedicated to his faith and was a longstanding member of the Packanack Community Church in Wayne, New Jersey, where he served as a deacon and on the Christian Education Committee. Through the church, John volunteered for a number of charitable organizations, including Habitat for Humanity and Appalachia Service Project, a program where the Senior Youth Group and adult members of the congregation traveled to depressed areas in Appalachia to repair homes for people in need. He also sang in the choir, played in the bell choir, and was an active participant in the music and theater outreach program. He acted and sang in many theatrical productions at the church, including performing the roles of Captain Von Trapp in the Sound of Music, Daddy Warbucks in Annie, Ebenezer Scrooge in A Christmas Carol, and Jud Fry in Oklahoma.

John was the son of the late George and Katie Shane and the brother of the late Roger Shane. He was the loving husband of Susan Shane and devoted father of Jennifer Shane and her husband Bernhard Firner. John will always be remembered as a loving, supportive father and role model who was actively engaged in his daughter's childhood and adult life.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Packanack Community Church (120 Lake Drive East, Wayne, New Jersey, 07470) would be greatly appreciated. (Please indicate Memorial Donation for John Shane in your memo.)

Inga Horrocks (nee Ichkitidze) passed away peacefully on Wednesday November 2nd 2022, surrounded by her loved ones.

Inga was born and raised in Tbilisi, Georgia. She was the middle child of the three children of Suliko and Jana Ichkitidze.

As a young woman Inga had a passion for linguistics. She studied tirelessly and as a result became one of eight people in the city of Tbilisi, to be accepted to Ivanovo University, one of the most prestigious universities in Russia at the time.  Inga earned her bachelor's degree and continued working on her master’s degree in her hometown of Tbilisi.

At the age of 24 Inga was married and became a mother to her first two children Mariam and Giorgi. Along with raising her family she owned a private practice where she taught English language to adults with her own published books. At the same time, she was teaching English literature at the same school where her daughter was attending.

In 1999 Inga immigrated to the United States in search of a better life for her family and fulfilled her dreams when she brought her children to the United States. Inga opened her physical therapy office in Manhattan where she met her husband, Sam Horrocks.  Inga and Sam dated for a couple years and became man and wife on September 8th, 2011. In the same year, they welcomed their daughter Jeana Sophia Horrocks.  After two more years the three of them moved to their new home in Wayne, New Jersey.

At the age of 52 Inga decided she wanted to become a lawyer and enrolled in Concord Law School.  She had plans to become an immigration lawyer and open her own practice.  Although she was battling stage 4 cancer, she was able to successfully graduate from law school in August 2022 and proudly wrote “There is a new Juris Doctor in town!”.

Inga was an extremely talented and creative individual and had many hobbies such as playing the piano, reading, gardening, baking and cooking. She also created her own line of soaps and skincare. She always had new ideas of things she wanted to create or do or accomplish.  She could transform any ordinary day into a big party!

Inga treasured traveling with her family to various destinations, such as Paris, Hawaii and Mexico and looked forward to her yearly Disney Cruise with her youngest daughter Jeana and her grandchildren Mariam and Nicholas.

She had the unique ability of connecting with people on a deeper and personal level. She was loved not only by her own friends and family but by her children’s friends and family as well - to many she was like a mother, an inspiration, a role model, and a friend.  Inga was the glue that held her huge family together and will be deeply missed by everyone that knew her.

Inga was adored and is survived by her husband Sam Horrocks, their daughter Jeana, her daughter Mariam along with husband Beqa and her son Giorgi along with wife Mariam. She is also survived by her mother Jana, three grandchildren, Mariam, Nicholas and Alexander, and her brothers Goga and Roma.  She was predeceased by her father Suliko Ichkitidze.

Michael Thomas McGrath, age 20 of Wayne, passed away on Saturday, October 29,
2022.

Michael was the third child born of Kevin and Theresa McGrath’s four children. He was born in Boston, Massachusetts and the family moved to Wayne when Michael was just two years old.  He was the beloved brother to his older sisters Caroline and Catie and his younger brother Jack.  Michael will be tremendously missed every single day.

He embodied everything a parent could ever wish their child to be and his positive impact on family and friends will be felt forever.  

Michael was a kind, caring, thoughtful, and loving young man whose admirable qualities were deeply cherished and enjoyed by all who were blessed to have shared life with him. Michael had a keen sense of understanding the joys and concerns of others while demonstrating subtle acts of kindness to those in need.  

Michael was a graduate of Wayne Valley High School’s Class of 2021. He was presently a sophomore in the Honors Program at The College of New Jersey (TCNJ) where he was considered a bright and talented member of the school community studying Secondary Education - History.

Michael’s spirit will live on through his tremendous impact in many different activities. He was a member of Phi Mu Alpha, TCNJ’s music fraternity, and was a percussionist in the college’s concert band. He was a robust member of the Wayne Valley music program, playing percussion in the Wayne Valley Marching Band, jazz band, concert band, and percussion ensemble. He served as drumline captain his senior year.

Michael was incredibly bright and intelligent, and was able to use his quick wit to entertain family and friends. He was a member of the National Honor Society and Tri-M Music Honor Society at Wayne Valley.  He made the Dean's List each semester while at TCNJ. He planned to share his passion for history and helping others by becoming a high school history teacher after graduation.

Michael was the adored son of Kevin and Theresa (Von Tobel) of Wayne; dearly loved brother of older sisters Caroline and Catie, and younger brother Jack; cherished grandson of maternal grandparents: Carl and Rosemary Von Tobel of Matamoras, PA (formerly of Paramus) and fraternal grandparents Thomas and Barbara McGrath of Fairfield; dearest nephew of: Aunt Karen and Uncle Jay McCann of Caldwell and their children, Emily, William, and Erin, Uncle Carl and Aunt Kim Von Tobel of River Vale and their children Desmond
and Joey, and Aunt Erin and Uncle Brian Gessner of Paramus and their children Aidan and Abbey; and dear great-nephew of Father Joseph L. Desmond of Old Bridge.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Michael’s name are asked to consider a donation to a memorial scholarship set up in his name:

Michael McGrath Scholarship
c/o Wayne Board of Education – Attention Mary Monisera
50 Nellis Drive
Wayne, NJ 07470

Joseph F. Donnelly, age 86, of Wayne, passed peacefully on Friday, October 28, 2022.

Joseph was born in Manhattan, NY to James and Josephine Donnelly and resided there until he married Ruth Ann Donnelly in May 1963 and moved to Queens NY then subsequently to Wayne, NJ.

Joseph served his country in the United States Army as a medic and was honorably discharged in March 1963. He worked for the Federal Reserve Bank of New York for over 25 years serving as a Senior Bank Officer before retiring in 1985.

Joseph will be lovingly remembered for his dedication to family, faith, and community. Nothing in the world meant more to him than spending time with and providing for his family. He especially cherished his beloved grandsons and never missed on opportunity to share their accomplishments. He was a loving Father, Brother, Uncle, Cousin, and Friend who cared so much, gave so quietly, and loved so deeply. He reminded us daily that life is about giving and being of service to others. He was dedicated to his Catholic faith and was proud to serve as the Director of Stewardship at our Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. He was recognized for his service to the Catholic Church with a Vivere Christus Award in 2018.

He was the loving father of Annmarie Fairweather and her husband William of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Cathy Basenese and her wife Carla Silva of Milton, DE; he was the dearly loved grandfather of Kyle Ruffing and Evan Fairweather; much loved brother of Edward Keys of Queens, NY, Donna and John O’Reilly of Wappingers Falls, NY and Bill Kelly of Estero, FL and is predeceased by his siblings Joan Conty and David Keys; He is also survived by several close nieces and nephews, Melanie Scarpati, Kevin Keys, Jenn Keys McNamara, Michael Keys, Sean Patrick O’Reilly, Meaghan O’Reilly, Liam O’Reilly, Stephanie and Siobhan Keys.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Joseph’s name are asked to consider:
Father English Food Pantry
435 Main Street
Paterson, NJ 07501

Jeanette F. Scudieri (nee Van Blarcom), age 80 of Pompton Plains, died peacefully on Wednesday, October 26, 2022. She was affectionately known as “Janet” to all and has lived in Pompton Plains for forty-four years. She had been co-owner of Brookdale Office Supply in Hawthorne, NJ, sold carpets and rugs at Fortunoff and Family Carpet in Riverdale, and was the office manager of a chiropractor’s office for many years before retiring.

Janet grew up in Passaic Park, NJ and graduated from Passaic High School with the class of 1960. She was just sixteen years old when she met Robert Scudieri in high school. As the story goes, Bob saw her getting out of her mother’s car one day and he simply said “wow!” He was smitten from day-one and they never looked back. They went to the Senior Prom together and dated for the next few years before marrying on May 5, 1962, at St. Nicholas Church in Passaic. After a fabulous honeymoon to Miami, they settled in Passaic, them moved to Pompton Lakes for a few years before settling into their forever-home in Pompton Plains. Bob describes their sixty years of marriage as “excellent” and filled with many fun times. They traveled together all over the United States, including San Francisco, Las Vegas, New Orleans, and her favorite was Naples, Florida. They had also enjoyed many cruises together to the Caribbean and Bermuda. Wherever they went, and whatever they found themselves doing, they were always having fun together! More recently, she enjoyed visiting Lancaster, Pennsylvania and the Amish Country. Whether taking in a show at the Sight and Sound Theatre, or visiting the many shops in the area, they’ve visited more than fifty times. On one occasion, she and Bob struck up a conversation with a Mennonite man who invited them to his home for dinner. It was nothing short of a fantastic, once-in-a-lifetime, experience and they learned so much about the Mennonite lifestyle.

Janet’s family brought her the greatest joys in life. She enjoyed a close, loving relationship with her sister, Beverly Cannata and with her cousin, Cathy Petrecca, since gradeschool. They did just about everything together, including especially memorable ‘girl’s trips’ to Naples, Florida. Janet was grateful for the strong bond they each shared during her lifetime. Above all else, she was a dedicated and loving mother to her son, Scott. She was always very supportive and gave him solid advice while helping him grow. He recalls fondly how she would often remind him “I have your back.”

Janet is survived by her beloved husband, Robert, their son Scott, her sister; Beverly Cannata, all of Pompton Plains, and her life-long cousin and friend; Cathy Petrecca. She was predeceased by her brother-in-law; Frank Cannata in 1988.

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to St Jude Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org)

John Fiorello, Esquire, age 84, of Wayne, passed Monday, October 24, 2022.

He was born in West Paterson to the late Anthony and Genevieve Fiorello (nee Arena). He graduated from Passaic Valley High School with the Class of 1955 where he excelled academically and musically. He was passionate about playing piano and was a member of the unofficial class band, the Velvetones, playing at high school functions and dances. John was raised in Totowa Borough and has lived in Wayne for over 60 years.

After high school, John attended Seton Hall University where he graduated in 1959 with a major in History. He continued his education at Seton Hall Law School where he obtained his Juris Doctorate Degree with the Class of 62. It was at Seton Hall that John met his lifelong friends Gus Loukedis and Peter McDonald. John was an ROTC student and immediately following law school he served on active duty in the United States Army for two years. John was stationed in the Pentagon with the Defense Intelligence Agency and was Honorably Discharged as a Captain. 

After completing service, John returned to Wayne where he began his work as an attorney in Paterson. It was there where he met the love of his life, Fran Curcio.  They married on October 6, 1968 and soon thereafter began their family. They had a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-four years that was blessed with three sons and two grandchildren. Fran was John's secretary and together they worked side by side until their recent retirement. Everyday John would thank Fran for being his wife and was certain to tell her he loved her.

John practiced law for over 55 years in Wayne, NJ.  During his career he had the distinction of serving as Passaic County Bar President and for years served as a trustee to the New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA).  He also served for over 30 on the Family Law Executive Committee of the NJSBA.  John served as Wayne Township Attorney under Mayor Waks and was appointed as Special Counsel for the township under all subsequent administrations. John was selected as the Professional Lawyer of the Year by the New Jersey Committee on Professionalism and was selected by his peers as the Passaic County Family Lawyer of the Year. 

John was an active member of the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church.  He served in many capacities, including several terms as the President of the Parish Counsel.  John loved to cook and enjoyed a good meal along with a great bottle of wine, for which he had an extensive knowledge and collection.  Most of all, he enjoyed sharing it with the people he loved. 

John also loved to read (anything historical) and was an avid Yankee fan.  No story about John would be complete without mentioning his love of theatre and music (specifically the Piano).  Is was rare to be at the Fiorello house without hearing John play.  He passed on his passion for music to his sons and grandsons. 

John will be remembered as the kind of person who thought before he spoke. He always strived to do what he thought was right, even when that meant taking a much harder road. John was a mentor to many colleagues as well as to his family, simply by treating others with kindness and respect and living his life doing the right thing.

John was a devoted family man.  He is survived by his brother Anthony Fiorello and wife Isabel, his sister in law Mariaelena Perosi and their families. John is also survived by son John and his wife Chris (of Ringwood) and their sons Jake and Zack, his son Jeffrey (of Montclair) who was his law partner for many years, his son Jason and his husband Michael (of Edison) and, of course, his loving wife of 54 years, Fran.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, for which John served as volunteer attorney for the past 3 decades. 

Holger John Loor, age 55, of Easton, PA passed away peacefully on Friday, October 21, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Holger was born in Esmeraldas, Ecuador and was the only child to Olga Chelita Loor.  At the age of twelve, Holger and his mother Chelita immigrated to the United States of America in search of a better life and the American Dream.  Over the years after arriving in America, those closest to Holger came to know him simply as “John.”  When John and his mother arrived in the US they settled in Passaic, NJ where they lived for several years.  While residing in Passaic, John attended Passaic High School and was on the boys’ Varsity Wrestling Team.

Following his high school graduation in 1985, John attended Montclair College where he studied business for about two years.  John eventually left college and took a job offer as a manager of the Loews Theater in Wayne. Over the next twenty years John held the position of manager at several different Loews/AMC Theaters in the Northern New Jersey area.  After leaving the theatre chain in 2006, John worked in the accounting department at CAG Industries in Fairfield, NJ.

During his time of employment at Loews Theaters, John worked alongside Lynda Toth.  In 1986, around the Thanksgiving holiday, he asked her out on a date and the two of them hit it off great.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and were together for the next thirty six years.  On February 7, 1997, John and Lynda officially became husband and wife at Disney World in Florida.   The newlyweds settled in Lincoln Park, NJ and remained there until 2003 when they moved to Easton, PA.  John and Lynda welcomed their son Dakotah Maximus, “Max”, to the family in 2007 and they have called Easton their home ever since.

In 2008, John fell ill and needed a new kidney.  In 2014, he received a kidney transplant via an anonymous donor, which helped to prolong his life.

John was always interested in electronics and the latest technology. He could often be found watching videos or reading articles about the latest and greatest gadgets, phones, and computers.  This interest in technology also was alluring to John in the way of automobiles.  John was constantly reading up on the latest automobile technology and aspired to purchasing the car with the most recent and upgraded equipment and machinery.

John was a truly kind person with a warm and enormous heart.  He always tried to be funny and pleasant and went out of his way to make people around him comfortable.  He lived life at his own pace and by his own rules and very often “lived in the moment.”  It was clear the John’s true passion in life was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to John than spending time with his wife, son and extended family.  His love also included dogs of all kinds, particularly his beloved German Shepherds and Labrador Retrievers, whom he always had by his side.  Taking them for daily car rides was one of his favorite simple pleasures in life.  John was a special person who touched the lives of people he met and he will be sincerely missed.

John is survived by his wife Lynda (nee Toth) of Easton, PA, his son Max Loor of Easton PA, his mother Chelita Loor of Scranton, PA, and many loving extended family.

Donations in John’s name may be made to the Donate Life America, www.donatelife.net or to your local animal shelter.

John, his wife Lynda, and son Max

Geraldine Whitesel Rodin passed away on Friday, October 20, 2022 while in the loving presence of her three children.

Born on September 16, 1938 in Moscow, Idaho. Geri moved to Prosser, Washington when she was in jr. high school.  She was voted the FIRST Ms. Prosser in her senior year.

Geri was exceptionally bright and fearless with a flair for fashion.  Right after graduation, she headed east to pursue a career in modeling and fashion in Chicago.  She worked in Marshall Field’s for several years, then in 1960, she met her loving husband Syd at a business party.  Not long after that, they moved to Northeastern Pennsylvania where Geri and Syd created their own business, Rodin Industries, beginning with just two-and-a-half employees, including themselves.

They grew their enterprise to 150 people working 24/7 to create and market New Year's Eve party favors and holiday decorations.  Geri’s areas of expertise were fashion design and operations.  By going above and beyond the call of duty, Rodin Industries maintained an impeccable reputation for service and quality in the promotional products industry, earning many awards.  Geri was a real pioneer in the programming of mainframe computer systems for their business.  She was also a skilled sculptor and seamstress with a wonderful talent for entertaining.  Her dinner parties were legendary.

Geri and Syd eventually moved to Scottsdale, AZ and maintained a small portion of their original business working from home. They loved to travel and they hiked many miles together. Geri had a great sense of humor and always had a quick wit and incredible smile.

Geraldine was the first daughter of the late Elsie and Raymond Whitesel.  She was the wife of the late Sydney Rodin and mother of their three children: Michael Rodin (Renee), Nannette DiMascio (Ron), and David Rodin II (Elke); grandmother of Keyhaan Rodin, Aimee Rodin, David Rodin III and sister of Steve, Lynn, Judi and Jan.

Eric Munoz, age 44 of West Milford, NJ, died unexpectedly on Tuesday October 18, 2022.

Eric was born in Paterson, NJ, and as a result of his father’s career, he enjoyed his formative years living in Venezuela, Brazil, and the Dominican Republic before returning to New Jersey as a teenager. He graduated from Don Bosco Tech High School in Paterson, where he was also a wrestler and practiced the martial arts. Eric had a very technical mind and enjoyed working with computers from a young age. He was just a kid when he first began playing with his father’s work computer and eventually messed it up to the point where it would no longer function. His father was beyond angry, and he made Eric work with the computer repair people so he could learn how to fix it. Thus began Eric’s lifelong passion for all things technical and computer related. At thirteen years old, he took his first job working at Ward’s Ice Cream in Paterson. He was just a kid working in the warehouse, but he quickly became known as the kid who could fix computers. This led to him starting his own computer repair business, Mu-Tech in Clifton, and then his more recent venture called Level Technologies, in Fairfield, NJ. He was one of the hardest working people you could have known and every challenge turned into an opportunity for him to learn more. He had a true thirst for knowledge and would research everything. He truly loved his work and was passionate about his work and technology.

Eric’s hobbies included day-trading, traveling, and of course his family. He had been married to Daisy Munoz for thirteen years and although their marriage ended in divorce, they were blessed with two beautiful children; John and Erilys. His twin children meant the world to him and he loves them very much. Eric loved helping John with his video game streaming. He was beyond proud to see Johns passion and hard work. Eric looked forward to going to concerts with Erilys and nothing compared to the joy he felt when he would watch her dance. He was especially close to his parents and his little brother, Michael. When Michael was born, Eric was so excited he exclaimed “I’ve waited ten years for a little brother!”.

Eric was also fortunate to have met Natalia Moya while exercising at East Side Park in Paterson twelve years ago. Their love has grown in the years since and they have stuck by each other through everything. They’ve enjoyed traveling together and taking road-trip vacations. They’ve driven to Chicago, Illinois, around Indiana, throughout Ohio, down to Nashville, and all the way to Miami and Key West, Florida. They also enjoyed regular vacations to Old San Juan, Puerto Rico.

Eric’s greatest goal was to become a pilot. He loved airplanes since he was a little kid and he was driven to achieve this goal. He had recently passed the written exam and was planning to begin flight training as soon as possible. Today, he knows what it like to have his own wings.

Eric is survived by his beloved children; John and Erilys Munoz of West Milford, his parents; Arturo and Aida Munoz of Butler, his brother; Michael Munoz and his wife Meryl of Wayne, his girlfriend of twelve years; Natalia Moya of West Milford, a niece; Alenna Munoz of Wayne, and his stepson; Roberto Sanchez.

Kyle Joseph Ruffing, age 31 of Denver, Co, formerly of Wayne and Jefferson, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, October 16, 2022.

He was born at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock, the son of Gordon and Annmarie Ruffing. Kyle attended Wayne Hills and Jefferson High School where he enjoyed baseball and robotics, before graduating from Wayne Hills in 2009. He went on to the University of South Carolina where he pursued a degree in Engineering and later attended the New Jersey Institute of Technology, where he was a valued member of the robotics team.

Kyle was a creative, gifted cad engineer and welder with a sharp eye for detail. He moved to Denver, CO in 2017. He was currently working for RK Industries, LLC in Denver, where he was a dedicated team member, who truly enjoyed the company of his co-workers and friends.

Kyle was a member of the YANKiiZOKU Drift-Racing Team in Denver. He was the proud owner of a Lexus IS 300 drift car and had a passion for racing. He was an adventure seeker, who enjoyed traveling, riding dirt bikes in Sussex County, and fishing and crabbing in Lavallette. Kyle could light-up a room with his smile and loved to have fun. He had a witty sense of humor and fearless style, often donning a bowtie and suspenders with unique flair.

Kyle was the loving partner of Renna Munson; the devoted son of Annmarie and Bill Fairweather of Pompton Plains and his father Gordon Ruffing of Jefferson. Kyle was the loving brother of Evan Fairweather of Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, Lynn Fairweather of Pompton Lakes, and Michael Fairweather and his wife Jennifer of Bangkok, Thailand. Beloved nephew of Cathy Basenese and Carla Silva of Milton, Delaware. He was the cherished grandson of Joseph Donnelly of Wayne, Ruth and Kevin Ward of Milton, DE, and the late Jeanne and Gordon Ruffing of Spring Lake.  

In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to St Jude Children's Research Hospital (www.stjude.org)

Ann Pagano (Di Pasquale), age 92, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 16, 2022.

Ann was born and raised in the Sandy Hill section of Paterson where she had the distinct honor of being voted Queen of the Campus while attending Eastside High School. She graduated with the Class of 1945.

When Ann was just a young little girl, she lived in a neighborhood in Paterson with lots of kids her age. One of those kids was a young boy named Joe Pagano who would come visit his cousin who happened to live across the street from Ann. The three of them, Ann, Joe, and Joe’s cousin, along with a bunch of other friends would often play ball, ride bike, and just spend time together near Ann’s house. Ann’s mom got to know these kids and would often look out the window and watch them play. She really took a liking to little Joey Pagano. As the kids grew into their teens, Ann got a job working at the lunch counter at Woolworth’s department store. Joe started taking a different kind of liking to Ann and oftentimes he’d visit her at work. He’d come in and say something to the effect of “How about a soda Ann?” She’d reply with “Do you have any money to pay for the soda? No money, no Coke.” On Friday and Saturday nights when Ann was about to get out of work, Joe would often show up to walk her home or they would go catch a movie. Then one summer, Joe’s grandma bought him a car for $300 and Joe and Ann and their friends started going to Paramus Beach. That was usually on a Sunday and after a day in the sun, Joe and Ann would come home, get a shower and they’d be off to the movies again. Eventually Joe got a motorcycle and one day, out of the blue, he said to Ann, “I think I’ll sell this motorcycle and we can get married.” A little surprised, Ann replied, “How do you know I want to marry you?” Joe answered by exclaiming, “I figured you might consider it since you seem to like to hang out with me.” Well, they did marry, on Sunday, June 8, 1952 at St. Anthony’s Church on Beach Street in Paterson. After a reception at the Dover Club on 20th Ave. and State Street, they got in their car and drove to Florida for their honeymoon

Ann and Joe first lived together in an apartment in Paterson on Trenton Ave. Joe started his own construction business and one of his first jobs was building a beautiful home for Ann and himself on Jackson Avenue in Wayne. They enjoyed a fairytale marriage of about one month shy of 66 years until Joe’s passing in May of 2018. In all those years, they lived in that same home.

After high school, Ann did clerical work many years for Federal Cleaners, a drying cleaning chain in Paterson. She also volunteered at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock and eventually she accepted a full-time job offer from the hospital. In addition to her work outside the home Ann kept the books for her husband Joe’s business, Joson Construction, Inc.

As a young woman, Ann pursued an interest she had in painting. She experimented a lot and took lessons too. She became quite accomplished and a self-portrait she painted will be displayed during her funeral services. Being a true believer in the value of daily exercise, Ann was a regular at the Wayne YMCA where she’d get together with friends to play tennis and to swim on a consistent basis throughout her adult life. Together, she and Joe had a great love for getting out with friends on their boat in Lake Hopatcong. Throughout the years they owned three boats together. Starting off with an old used Chris Craft, their third one was their first new one and they named her “Fancy Free”. For too many years to count they also took annual vacations down the Jersey shore, always choosing to stay at a place called the Wind Drift in Avalon by the Sea, with her sister Gloria and Gloria’s husband Walter. Neither Ann nor Joe were ones to sit around. Another favorite pastime was going to the Meadowlands, Monmouth Park or the Delaware Park and Casino where Joe would bet on the horses and Ann would enjoy helping him spend all his winnings at a nice restaurant with some of their friends.

Ann’s faith in God was foundational to her life. She was a regular at both St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes and Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.

Ann was the beloved wife of Joseph Pagano who passed away in 2018. She is survived by her sister Gloria Schleser of Butler; her nephew Wayne Ray of Pequannock; great-nephews: Albert Aboyoun, III and wife Gina of Wayne, and Joseph Aboyoun and wife Liz of Paterson; and great-great-nephew Michael Joseph Aboyoun and another great-great-nephew on the way. In addition to her husband Joe, Ann was predeceased by her brother Orlando Di Pasquale in 2013 and his wife Carol Di Pasquale in 1962, brother-in-law Walter Schleser in 1992, nephew Harold Di Pasquale in 2012, niece Marilyn Aboyoun in 1992 and her husband Albert Aboyoun, Jr. in 2015, and her nephew Benny Di Pasquale in 2009 and his wife Laurie in 1992.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Ann’s name are asked to consider:

American Cancer Society
P.O. Box 42040
Oklahoma City, OK 73123
800-227-2345

Robert “Bob” John Whetham, age 87 of Wayne, passed Saturday, October 15, 2022.

He was born in Paterson to Paul and Stella Whetham.  Bob was raised in Hawthorne and graduated from Hawthorne High School, where he played on the basketball and football teams, with the Class of 1953.

After high school Bob worked for Public Service Electric & Gas and shortly thereafter enlisted in the United States Army.  He served during the Korean war and was stationed in Guam for eighteen months on a demolition team.  When he returned from his service with the Army, he continued his employment with PSE&G.  He worked his way up through the ranks at PSE&G from working a service truck to becoming a supervisor. He retired from PSE&G in 1993 after 42 years of service.

Bob met the love of his life Marilyn Breen while on a blind date. They fell in love and Bob proposed to Marilyn at St. Anthony’s Church in Hawthorne.  They married at St.Anthony’s on September 6, 1958 and honeymooned in Florida.  They just celebrated sixty-four years of a loving and devoted marriage that was blessed with three children, six grandchildren and six great-grandchildren.

Bob enjoyed golfing with his wife Marilyn and they have played all over with several other couples. He has also been a member of a Hawthorne High School Alumni group who went by the name “Joe’s Boys” and even had jackets with the name on them. This group was named after Joe’s Luncheonette in Hawthorne where they would all hang out during their high school days. This group has remained tight knit over many years. Bob was also a member of the Golden Age Circle of Wayne where he and Marilyn enjoyed many friendships.

Bob will be remembered for being very social, always laughing and telling jokes, and his happy-go-lucky personality.  He was dedicated to his Catholic faith and through the years he has been a parishioner of St Anthony’s Church in Hawthorne, Our Lady of Consolation Church and Immaculate Heart of Mary Church both in Wayne, and Holy Spirit Church in Pequannock.

Bob was the loving husband of Marilyn (nee Breen) Whetham; devoted father of Brian Whetham of North Haledon, Laurie Dubinsky and her husband Curtis of Hummelstown, PA, and Karen Arnott of Wayne and her late husband Russell (d. 2011).; he was the devoted grandfather of Robert and Brian Whetham, Eric and Laura (Shawn) Johnson, Amanda (Kyle) Kelly and Ryerson (Jennifer) Arnott; he was also the cherished great-grandfather of Rae, Owen, Wyatt, Greyson, Harper, and Rome. Bob was predeceased by his loving brother Paul Whetham.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Heart Association, PO Box 840692, Dallas, TX 75284-0692 would be appreciated.

Peter Fitzpatrick, age 91 of Wayne, died on Friday, October 14, 2022 with loving family by his side.

Peter was born and raised in County Cavan, Ireland, the youngest of Peter and Mary (McGuire) Fitzpatrick’s five children. As young men, Peter and his brother John made the life-changing decision in May 1957, to leave their homeland in Ireland to pursue the opportunities that life in the United States had to offer. Like other Irish immigrants, they got their foot in the door by agreeing to play football in the Gaelic Football League in the Bronx, NY. No doubt, they loved playing football but they were also motivated by the fact that, in exchange for moving to America to play, this league helped young men like Peter and John to get jobs and ultimately, citizenship.

Peter and John’s first jobs in America were working as elevator operators at Prudential Insurance in Newark. While there, Peter had the greatest fortune of meeting a young lady named Marilyn Ann Murphy. Their relationship sparked a courtship and they were married in 1961 at St. Mary’s Church in Elizabeth. After their honeymoon in Miami, they settled in Kearny before moving to Wayne in 1964.

Peter eventually was offered a membership with the International Union of Operating Engineers Local 68 where he learned to be a boiler maker and operating engineer. He enjoyed a long and prosperous career in the union and was able to retire in 1993 at the age of 62.  

Peter was a proverbial “animal whisperer” who enjoyed his share of shelties throughout his life and one feisty chihuahua. It was therefore no surprise that after retiring, he took a part-time job with the Township of Wayne as the town dog catcher. If there was truly such as thing as reincarnation, Peter may have been a dog in a previous life. He was the perfect dog catcher because he had an innate understanding of how they thought and felt. Even the fiercest dogs were putty in Peters hands. For that matter, he was just as effective with feral cats or any creature that walked, flew, crawled, or slithered.

Peter’s gifts and talents were seemingly endless. He was tough as nails, he could build or fix anything, and was always willing to be of assistance to his family, a friend or neighbor. He even built an addition on his own home. In all these types of endeavors, his sense of humor always came out. For example, one time he was inspecting his neighbors old-fashioned wooden gutters. He found them to be fairly rotten and, after accessing the situation he came back with his report explaining, “they’re pretty rotten and you’d be too, if you were hanging up there all those years.”  Peters garden was another of his great achievements, the secret of his prize tomatoes being the fresh horse manure that he picked up from a local farm in Oakland. He’d load the still steaming manure into the lined trunk of his Plymouth Valiant, take it home, and work it into the soil.

Peter was a generous man who liked to volunteer and be of service. For 40 years, he coached for the St. Joseph Gaelic Football Club and, for those 40 years of service, he humbly received a much-deserved award. Many would agree that it was something Peter sincerely enjoyed. After all, football was in his blood! Every year he’d go back to Ireland to visit his family and to attend the All-Ireland Gaelic Football Final – the veritable “Super Bowl” of Irish Gaelic football. He always rooted for County Cavan and other Ulster teams and always against County Kerry!!

Peter and Marilyn enjoyed their share of travel throughout the years. Vacations in the Catskills (dubbed “The Irish Alps” by Peter) were high on the list of his favorite destinations. The family also liked Point Pleasant down the Jersey shore. Just a few years ago, he and Marilyn got to go on a grand European tour visiting Holland, Germany, Switzerland as well as several other destinations, and he loved it.

Generally quiet, yet certainly a sociable lad, Peter had several favorite topics of discussion. These included stories about his work, his family life in Ireland and in America, and anything to do with the New York Yankees (especially Derek Jeter), but also the Mets and the Philadelphia Phillies and really baseball in general. Oh! And of course, Irish Football. He enjoyed a pint of Guinness and, quite surprisingly, he also liked to drink Budweiser – a taste he might have acquired from his days when he worked for the union at Anheuser-Busch, and every week he went home with a free case of Bud! Part of drinking beer is enjoying it with friends and acquaintances. That is why Peter enjoyed taking bus trips into New York City to go pub hopping- mostly to his son’s Irish pubs of course. On some occasions his daughter Julie would join him and together they’d take a tour of the city on one of those double-decker bus tours. Throughout his entire life, Peter was also an avid walker. It was an activity that he was doing up until the last ten months of his life and most recently, his daily walks were like clockwork – about 20 minutes a day.

Above and beyond any interest in Peter’s life, his greatest love was for his family and friends. He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.  
 
Peter was predeceased by his beloved wife of 50 years Marilyn (Murphy) in 2011. He is survived by his son; Peter Fitzpatrick and his wife Eileen (Shea) of Far Hills, NJ, his daughter; Julie Fitzpatrick and husband Steven Singer of Whippany NJ, three grandchildren; Shea Julia, Peter Murphy, and Kelly Marie Fitzpatrick, all of Far Hills; his eldest brother, Patrick Fitzpatrick and wife Cissie of Ireland; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister Mary Ann Cassidy and her husband Mickey, two brothers: Hugh “Hughie” Fitzpatrick and John Fitzpatrick and his wife Anna.

Those who are unable to attend the funeral services in person are invited to join virtually via the livestream link found on the Our Lady Of Consolation Church Facebook page here.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Peter’s name are asked to consider:
Eva’s Village
393 Main Street
Paterson, NJ 07501

Gregory J. Velardi, age 60, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on Friday October 14, 2022. He was also known as “Big Dog” and “Chief” by his friends.

Greg was born in Pompton Plains and was a lifelong resident of Wayne.  He graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1980.  He continued his education at Jersey City State College, where he received his Bachelor’s Degree in Fire Science.

His first job was at the Bristol Industries in Butler where he learned welding. He also worked at the Meadowlands Sports Complex as part of the “Change-over Crew” that would modify the facility to accommodate different sports such as hockey to basketball. Once he graduated from college, Greg spent his career of 34 years with Wayne Township starting as a Fire Inspector and was later promoted to the Wayne Township Fire Official. He retired in 2020.

Greg met Laurie at Gabriel’s Restaurant in Wayne in 1989.  On their first date, Greg thought Laurie had stood him up; however, she had simply overslept.  They fell in love and married about two years later in July of 1992 at Saint Joseph’s Church in Lincoln Park.  They honeymooned in Aruba and just celebrated their 30th anniversary this past July.

Greg will be remembered for his huge heart-that he did not like to show. He was easy going, very giving…even giving the gift of aggravation to others… and was generous to a fault. For many years he donated to the Friends of Wayne Animal Shelter (FOWA) and the Tunnels to Towers Foundation. He was an avid golfer and has several first-place trophies from the Wayne Township Golf League. Greg was a dedicated New York Giants Fan and New York Yankee fan.  He passed away watching his beloved Yankees in a playoff game. Greg was also a co-owner and member of the Metropolitan Cigar Club in Fairfield. He was very opinionated with his politics and the family isn’t sure how, but they know Greg will vote in the upcoming November election. He pre-deceased by his Maltipoo Isabella and was truly loved by his new Maltese puppy, Mia.

Greg was community-minded, and a 42-year Life-member of P.O.L Fire Company 2 in Wayne where he served through the ranks having been Chief in from 1988-1991, and President for 9 years. He was a Life Member of the NJ State Fireman’s Association, and a Life Member of the NJ State Exempt Fireman’s Association. He was also a Past-President and current member of the Bergen-Passaic Municipal Inspectors Association.

Some of Greg’s favorite past-times were smoking a “heater” on his deck with his nephews, Beefsteaks and Pancake breakfasts at the firehouse, fishing trips, golfing, and enjoying meals with family and friends.

Greg was the loving husband to Laurie (nee Scarpa) Velardi; loving brother of Frank Velardi and his wife Gillian; his nieces and nephews Timothy Velardi, Paul Velardi, Robert Velardi, Amanda Bendett and her husband Michael, and their son Ralphie, Gianna Scarpa, Nicole Scarpa, Sabrina Goodman, and James Goodman who he truly loved like they were his own children.

In lieu of flowers donations to the P.O.L. Fire Company #2, 970 Route 23, Wayne NJ 07470,  or Alan Purcell Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne NJ 07470, or the Tunnel to Towers Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Catherine Gerhardt Miller, age 55, of Bloomfield, NJ passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 13, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Cathy was born in New Rochelle, NY.  Her family lived there for a few years then relocated to Charleston, SC.  They later moved to Chicago for a short time then to Kinnelon, NJ.  While living in Kinnelon, Cathy attended Kinnelon High School where she excelled in sports, particularly swimming.  She was a competitive swimmer- summers on Fayson Lakes Swim Team and winters on the high school team. She graduated with the class of 1985.

Following her high school graduation, Cathy enrolled at Bentley University in Massachusetts where she studied marketing.  In 1989, Cathy earned her bachelor’s degree.  Cathy found work quickly after leaving school with Bloomingdale’s.  She worked for Bloomingdales for several years where she made wonderfully close friends.  After a few years at Bloomingdale’s, Cathy worked in Real Estate for a time. Cathy left the Real Estate industry to pursue a career in Child Care.  She worked in the private sector of Child Care for about five years when her illness forced her to stop working in 2019.  Child Care was work that Cathy truly treasured.

In 1992, while working at Bloomingdale’s, Cathy was introduced to a handsome young man by the name of John Miller.  Cathy and John hit it off great and started dating.  The couple dated for about a year and as fate would have it, they fell in love and became husband and wife on September 11, 1993.  After getting married the newlyweds settled in Cranford, NJ.  While living in Cranford, Cathy and John welcomed the births of all four of their children, Nicole, Austin, Erika, and Ian.  In 2001 the family moved to Westfield where they remained until 2008.  Cathy and her family then moved to Kinnelon where they resided until 2010.  Cathy, John, and their children eventually moved back to Westfield where they stayed until 2020.

Cathy was a truly devoted mother and was a member of the Parent Teacher Organization while her children were growing up.  Cathy and her family enjoyed traveling domestically throughout the United States as well as other destinations such as the Cayman Islands.  They cherished their summer family vacations at Huletts Landing in the Lake George area of New York State where they relished boating, picnicking, and made life-long friends.

It was clear that Cathy’s true passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Cathy than providing for and spending time with her husband and her children.  Cathy and her husband John cherished twenty-seven years of a loving marriage together until John’s passing in November of 2020.  She was sweet, kind, and funny.  She made friends wherever she went and could light up any room she walked into with her bright smile and her unforgettable laugh.  Cathy touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by all her family and friends.

Cathy is survived by her four children; Nicole Miller of Pawtucket, RI, Austin Miller of Bloomfield, NJ, Erika Miller of Morristown, NJ, and Ian Miller of Montclair, NJ, two sisters; Juliana Amell and her husband Greg of Charleston, SC, and Ashley Stuckey and her husband Scott of Charleston, SC, her father Donald Gerhardt of Charleston, SC, two cousins, Samantha Tinampay, and Kimberly Cercena, and her very close friends; Chrissy Yule, Joanie Curley, Maria Nephew, and Pamala Fernot.  She was predeceased by her mother Ilona Brown in 2020.
Donations in Cathy’s name to the Alzheimer’s Association, National Processing Center Alzheimer’s Association, Greater NJ Chapter PO Box 96011 Washington DC 20090 www.alz.org would be greatly appreciated.

Kathleen McNeal, Age 78 of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, October 12, 2022 in the presence of and while receiving the love of her family.

The youngest of William and Mary (Chilkowitz) Snyder’s two children, Kathleen was born in Paterson and raised in Wyckoff and Wayne. After graduating from DePaul Catholic High School with the Class of 1961, Kathleen attended Mount Aloysius College where she received her Associate Degree in Science.

Kathleen was the beloved wife of Ray McNeal who passed away in 2018 after a cherished marriage of 53 years together. They met at Holy Cross Catholic School in Wayne while in seventh grade. They started dating when they were in high school at DePaul and made their wedding promises on August 26,1965 at Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne. Kathleen and Ray remained in Wayne for the rest of their lives together.

After college and during the early years of marriage, Kathleen was employed as a secretary for a large contracting company.  There is a road in Wayne that bears her name. After having children, she ultimately left that job to become a full-time and fabulous mother and homemaker.

Kathleen and Ray enjoyed many exciting adventures together – adventures that took them all over the world. She especially loved any destination that included sun, sand, and surf. In fact, her favorite place of all was right near home at the Jersey shore. It was a place the whole family enjoyed, especially when her children and grandchildren were growing up. More recently, Kathleen enjoyed traveling with her grandchildren and daughters. Trips included a cruise on the Queen Mary with her granddaughters, Sophie and Ellie, and a Caribbean cruise with daughter Yvette, son in law James, and granddaughter, Julia.  Quiet times were frequently spent enthralled in the latest romantic or suspense novel. To Kathleen, reading was enjoyed as much as eating a fine culinary dish, and she and Ray’s penchant for a good book turned out to be contagious as all her children also became avid readers. And speaking of fine culinary dishes, Kathleen was indeed the “foodiest” of “Foodies” who loved a nice night out for a fine meal with family or friends dressed in the latest fashion picked up during one of her regular trips to the mall. Kathleen was an avid fan of football, rooting for DePaul High School, especially when her son Ryan was on the team, in addition to cheering for Notre Dame and the New York Giants.

Aside from all of Kathleen’s talents and interests, her greatest passion was for her family. She enjoyed a loving and tender marriage spiced up by her wry and unpredictable sense of humor.  She could be found peeking out of her curtains and laughing when her family, friends and strangers slipped up her treacherous driveway in winter.  The harder you fell, the harder she laughed.  She was the proudest and most doting mother and grandmother who would do anything for her children and grandchildren. And Kathleen’s love did not end with her family. She was a very giving person who generously opened her home to friends and children’s friends who were always welcome to stay whenever the need arose. She also volunteered at Holy Cross Church in Wayne as a teacher’s aide and CCD teacher. Kathleen touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  

Kathleen is survived by her two loving daughters: Yvette McNeal and husband, James Pruden, Jr. of Pompton Lakes, and Kelly McNeal of Seaside Park; her loving son, Ryan McNeal, and wife, Wana, of Wayne; four cherished granedchildren Sophie and Ellie McNeal, Julia Fusco, and Ethan McNeal, and many dear nieces and nephews In addition to her beloved husband Ray, Kathleen was predeceased by her baby girl, Christie, in 1971 and her sister, Mary Anne Drew, in 2016.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Kathleen’s name can be made to DePaul Catholic High School, 1512 Alps Rd, Wayne, NJ 07470 or the Wayne Public Library - Make checks out to Wayne Free Public Library Foundation, â„… Wayne Public Library, 461 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ  07470, Attn: Richard Pino

Phyllis Ascione (nee Scalpone), age 88, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 11, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Phyllis was born and raised in Brooklyn and was the only child to Alfred and Mary Scalpone.  Growing up in Brooklyn, Phyllis attended Sarah J Hale High School and graduated with the class of 1952.  Following her high school graduation, Phyllis found work at the New York Trust Bank in Manhattan.  Phyllis was employed there for a short time when in 1955 her Aunt Josephine introduced Phyllis to a handsome young man by the name of Neil Robert Ascione. Their first date was a picnic together. Phyllis and Neil hit it off and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on June 24, 1956 Phyllis and Neil became husband and wife at Holy Ghost RC Church in Brooklyn, now known as the Holy Spirit RC Church.

The newlyweds settled in Brooklyn and while living there welcomed the birth of their first two sons, Patrick, and Alfred.  It was not long after getting married that Phyllis decided to become a full time homemaker.  As her family started to grow, in 1964, they moved to the town of Wayne. After moving to Wayne, Neil and Phyllis welcomed the birth of their third son, Neil.  Phyllis and her husband Neil have remained in Wayne and have called it their home ever since.

Becoming a homemaker was Phyllis’ true calling and where she genuinely flourished.  She was a completely devoted mother to her children, and a dedicated grandmother and great grandmother.   She was not only devoted to her family but also to her Catholic Faith.  Phyllis and Neil were founding parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne.  Phyllis and her fellow lady church friends would often go out for breakfast after weekday masses at Immaculate Heart of Mary RC Church, and they were affectionately referred to as “The Oatmeal Club.”

Knitting and crocheting were some of Phyllis’ favorite past times.  She treasured knitting scarves for family and friends.  She was a wonderful cook, everyone especially enjoyed her macaroon cookies and rice pudding which she made with tender love and care. Phyllis also loved and looked forward to hosting the holidays at her home every year.  Neil and Phyllis enjoyed traveling together and visited various destinations, many within the United States.  She and Neil also took two very memorable trips to Italy together.

It was clear that Phyllis’ true passion in life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Phyllis than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  Phyllis and her family enjoyed their summers at Greenwood Lake throughout the years.  She was a dedicated daughter as well, caring for both her mother and father as they grew elderly.  Phyllis and her husband Neil cherished an amazing sixty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Phyllis was a vibrant and spunky lady who made friends wherever she went.  She could light up any room she entered with her smile, her charm and warm personality.  She was giving and generous almost to a fault.  Phyllis was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.  

Phyllis is survived by her husband Neil Robert Ascione of Wayne, NJ, her three sons; Patrick Ascione and his wife Loren of Wayne, NJ, Alfred Ascione and his wife Diane of Wayne, NJ, and Neil Ascione and his wife Diana of Parrish, FL, five grandchildren; Neil Ascione and his wife Jessica of Montville, NJ, Allison Romeo and her husband Nicholas of Packanack Lake, NJ, Nicole Diaz and her husband Christopher of West Orange, NJ, Kristen Ascione of Packanack Lake, NJ, and Luke Ascione of Parrish, FL, and five great grandchildren; Mason, Tenley and Sienna Romeo, Evelyn, and Natalie Ascione.

Philip Christopher Ippolito,”Phil”  age 70, of Jersey City, passed Wednesday, May 11, 2022.

He was born in Jersey City and raised in Franklin Lakes. He attended Ramapo Valley High School, Oakland with the Class of 1969.

As a young man Phil worked at his father’s store, Ippolito’s Furrier at the corner of McAdoo & Fowler Street in Jersey City.  Soon Phil and his brother changed the store from a furrier to a wholesale and retail merchandise store called Joseph Thomas Distributors. The brother’s closed the store in 2005 and Phil soon found work as an Operating Engineer for the Jersey City Incinerator Authority in Jersey City.  He worked for Jersey City for about ten years before retiring in 2017.

Phil was a devoted and dedicated family man carrying copies of many family pictures in his oversized, rubber band bound, wallet that tested the tensile strength of the leather it was made from.  He will be remembered as a loving, caring, nostalgic, determined and giving man. Pop Pop loved his summer trips to Villa Roma and Cape May with his amazing granddaughters Gia and Valentina.  He loved swimming in the pool, jumping on the trampoline, and having ice cream with his little stars.

Phil met Sandra Murgola and after dating for about one year and they married on May 19, 1974 at Holy Rosary Church in Jersey City.  They had a reception at the Barrel Inn on Linden Avenue in Jersey City and honeymooned on Paradise Island in the Bahamas.  Phil and Sandy had a forty-eight year marriage that was blessed with daughters Erica and Cassandra as well as two granddaughters Gia and Valentina.

He was the loving husband of Sandra; devoted father of Erica Ferraro and her husband Mario, and Cassandra Ippolito; he was the cherished grandfather of Gia and Valentina Ferraro; much loved brother of Janice, Gloria, Marilyn, Thomas, Ralph, and the late Joseph.

Memorial donations in Phil’s name can be made to Saint Jude Children’s Research Hospital. www.stjude.org

Walter Bondarovich, age 97, formerly of Wayne, passed peacefully on Sunday, October 9, 2022.

He was born and delivered by a midwife at the family home on Homer Avenue in Nutley.  The family lived in Nutley, Newark, and Flemington through his younger years.  He eventually lived in Lodi before moving to Wayne where he lived for fifty-eight years before moving to Mount Arlington Senior Living about 3 ½ years ago.  Walter graduated from South Side High School in Newark with the Class of 1943.

On October 9, 1943 Walter entered active duty in the United States Army and served during WWII. He served as a Radio Operator in Central Europe, Rhineland, Northern France. He would recount that he was in the second wave during the invasion of Normandy and liberated two concentration camps during his two and a half years of service where he ascended to the rank of Corporal.  He was discharged on March 3, 1946 and awarded the Good Conduct Medal, the European African Middle Eastern Service Medal, and the World War II Victory Medal.

Walter met his future wife, Olga  during a dance at Three Saints Church in Garfield. They danced the whole night together, but neglected to exchange phone numbers. It was a year later before their paths would cross again in Monroe, NY. Walter had been working the summer at the Arrow Farm Resort when, by sheer coincidence, Olga showed up! After that, they never parted. They loved to dance and knew many of the Russian folk dances. They were married on August 12, 1950 and, despite Walter accidentally lighting her veil on fire with a candle, they’ve enjoyed nearly sixty four years of loving and devoted marriage together before Olga’s passing on July 16, 2014.

Walter’s work history started in his youth where he would shine shoes utilizing a shoe-shine box that he kept and is now passing along to his family. He worked as a stock-boy at the A&P Food Store in Newark and eventually became an Independent Insurance Agent for the Motor Club of America before retiring after forty years of service.

He will be lovingly remembered as a great dad who prioritized his family over everything. His children have fond memories of trips, vacations, car rides to Atlantic City, beach trips to the Jersey Shore, and many trips to Disney World in Florida. He enjoyed working on his cars in his spare time.

He was the loving husband of the late Olga Bondarovich (d. 2014); loving father of Elaine Brady and her husband Jim of McCormick, SC, and Diane Wehrenberg and her husband Karl of Hopatcong; he was the dearly loved grandfather of Karl Wehrenberg, Jr.; he was predeceased by his sibling James Bondarovich and Anna Kinder.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research would be greatly appreciated.

Mayla Sabeh, age 43 of East Hanover, died peacefully at home on Saturday, October 8, 2022, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Aleppo, Syria, Mayla came to the USA with her family when she was just ten years old, settling first in Wayne and then Clifton. She went on to graduate from Clifton High School in 1997 and attended William Paterson University. It was around this time, in 1998, that she met Alan Sabeh at a church party. They hit it off and their love blossomed quickly. Mayla was a gifted artist and she drew a portrait of Alan for his birthday that year. It was that very day that Alan told her “I love you” for the first time, and just a few months later he proposed! They were married on September 20, 1998 and honeymooned to Hawaii. The twenty-four years since have been nothing less than amazing! Mayla was an “all-in” kind of person who put her heart and soul into everything, including her marriage. She was always full of ‘gusto’ and rarely sat still. They traveled extensively too, visiting Syria, Hawaii, Bahamas, Jamaica, Mexico, Disney World, and summer vacations every single year to Wildwood, NJ. Their marriage has been a love story all along, and Alan will miss her dearly.

Mayla’s talents as an artist were a big part of everything she did. Her home was decorated beautifully, and floral arrangements adorned every room. She had floral displays for every season and her basement looks like a florist’s workshop! She loved decorating for the holidays, and Christmas was certainly her favorite. Her house looked like a museum at Christmas time, and it was all stunning. Mayla was also an amazing cook: preparing food for parties, some of her favorite meals were mahshee, yebret, kibbe byl lebaniya.  

Mayla’s family was, of course, her greatest passion and she often referred to her triplets as her “precious babies.” She was an incredible, devoted mother and gave them the best childhood she could. She taught them so much about being passionate, caring, loving, and kind. Above all, she taught them about the love and hope of Jesus Christ.

Mayla was profoundly devoted to her faith, and she lived in Christ. She read her bible often and frequently, she posted bible verses around her home, and she loved listening to Joyce Meyers, Joseph Prince, Andrew Wommack, and other evangelists. She organized bus trips to the Sights and Sound Theater in Lancaster, PA where she loved watching the biblical performances – something she would highly recommend to everyone. She also found great joy in raising funds for St. Jude Children Research. She was on the ALSAC of St. Jude Committee and had earned an award for her fundraising efforts, which is displayed at the St. Jude Hospital. She was unashamedly faithful to God and Jesus, and she shared that love with everyone she knew, and many more whom she didn’t know. She had an unwavering faith and trusted in the Lord that all would be well with her soul when she passed away.

Mayla is survived by her loving and devoted husband Alan of East Hanover, their triplets; Houda, Lani, and Hikmat, her sister; Miriam Gabriel, her parents; Michel and Maha Gabriel, and a large, extended family including Albert Sabeh and his wife Rimonda and family, Sylvana Sabeh and family, Gilbert Sabeh and his wife Najla and family, and Aurore LoRé and her husband Derek and family.

Those wishing to make a donation in Mayla's memory, please consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Hanna Puzio (nee Kapelanowska), age 63, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, October 6, 2022, at home in the loving care of her family.

Hanna was born in Zambrów, Poland, and was one of four children to Witold Kapelanowski and Bronislawa Sadowski. Following her high school graduation, Hanna attended college in Poland and earned her degree in Education. She was a History and Language Arts teacher, as well as a librarian, at the local grade school for many years. In 1992, she immigrated to the United States in search of better opportunities for her family. Hanna was truly proud of her Polish heritage and continued to practice Polish traditions while assimilating to her new American life.

Upon arriving in the United States, Hanna and her three children joined her mother in Clifton, NJ. Hanna married the love of her life, Józef Puzio, on September 9, 1999. While living in Clifton, they welcomed the birth of their daughter, Olivia. The Puzios resided in Clifton until 2010, when they moved to Wayne. Hanna and Józef have called Wayne their home since.

Hanna remained devoted to her career as an educator and treasured teaching in various local Polish schools. She was very active in the Polish community. In 2021, she was awarded and proudly accepted the KEN Medal from the National Education Commission for her commitment and contributions to the field.

Hanna led a rewarding life. From a young age, she adored reading books of various genres. She was an excellent cook and loved to bake. She traveled extensively with her family, checking off numerous domestic and international iconic sights. She enjoyed adorning her yard with beautiful flowers and plants. Aside from all of Hanna’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Hanna than caring for and supporting her husband, children, and grandchildren. She was a truly selfless mother who sacrificed a great deal to provide the best for her children, particularly her daughter, Angela. Hanna and Józef cherished twenty-three years of loving and loyal marriage together. Hanna was also committed to her Catholic Faith.  The Puzios were parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne for many years.  

Hanna was an extremely strong woman, steadfast and tenacious. She lived her life with great purpose and intention. Hanna was always willing to lend an ear and offer her wisdom and guidance to anyone in need. She was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by family and friends alike.

Hanna is survived by her husband, Józef Puzio; her four children: daughter Angela Jastrzebska, son Dorian Jastrzebski, daughter Dagmara Jastrzebska and husband Daniel Stratthaus, and daughter Olivia Puzio; her two sisters: Wanda Lendzion and husband Kazimierz, and Barbara Kaminska; and her three grandchildren: Sophie Jastrzebski, Hailey Stratthaus, and Zachary Stratthaus. She was predeceased by her brother Kazimierz Kapelanowski.

Bryan Vande Vrede, 49 of Belvidere, NJ and formerly of Pompton Plains, died on Thursday, October 6, 2022 after a valiant battle with cancer. He and his wife are the owners of Flowerland Growers in Belvidere, and Bryan is the former Mayor of White Township.

Bryan grew up in Pompton Plains and has always been a creative thinker. He had a natural head for business, and he was quite a salesman. In 2004, he started “Flowerland Growers” in Belvidere with his wife, and they’ve worked hard to build that together. If you knew Bryan, you know there was nothing complicated about him, he just loved helping people in every way he could. He taught his children to always have something to give. He also understood his civic responsibility, proudly serving on his town council before becoming Mayor of White Township in 2007. He loved his neighbors, he loved his friends, and he loved his family.

Bryan was especially grateful to the Lord for all of his many blessings. He loved his church family and had served as a Deacon and Elder with the Heritage Reformed Congregation in Kinnelon. He was raised in the Lord, attended the Netherlands Reformed Christian School in Pompton Plains through the eighth grade. It was here, in grade school, that he met Debra Nieuwenhuis, and they married on October 8, 1993. Debbie was the love of his life, his biggest cheerleader and supporter, and she lovingly cared for him throughout their twenty-nine years of marriage. They raised their family of four children and worked hard together every day. Bryan’s family meant everything to him, his kids were his pride and joy, and he loves their spouses just as much. He is grateful to have been able to see them all grow into the hard-working young adults that they are today. They will all miss his gentle heart and calm confidence, and his love will endure with them forever.

Bryan is survived by his wife of twenty-nine years; Debra (nee Nieuwenhuis) of Belvidere, their four children; Scott and his wife Leah, Emily Van Woudenberg and her husband Luke, Ryan and Rachel, two grandchildren; Connor and Blake, his grandmother; Jenny Van Vugt, his parents; David and Gerda Vande Vrede of Lincoln Park, his parents-in-law; Richard and Trudy Nieuwenhuis of Belvidere, his six siblings; Amy Carbone (Christopher), Kenneth (Lisa), Michael (Christine), Beverly Willekes (Abraham), Steven (Jaquelyn), and Daniel (Faye), his siblings-in-law; Bethanne McLean (Thomas), Lauren Spiro (Philip), and Cheryl Densel (Brian), twenty-four nieces and nephews, and a large, extended family. Bryan was predeceased by his son Thomas in 1997.

Donations in Bryan’s memory would be appreciated to the Puritan Reformed Theological School in Grand Rapids, MI.

Vincent K. Gough, III, age 78, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 5, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Vincent was born in Pequannock, NJ, raised in Lincoln Park, and was the oldest of five children to Vincent and Marion Gough.  As a young boy, Vincent was a member of the Boy Scouts and enjoyed playing baseball.  Later he attended Boonton High School where he excelled in sports and was a member of the High School Varsity Track and Field team.  Vincent attended Wayne High School in his senior year after he and his family had moved to Wayne Township.  For many years Vincent would boast to his family that he had held the record for the number of sit-ups performed in his high school.  

After graduating from Wayne High School with the class of 1961, Vincent enrolled at the School of Visual Arts in New York City.  He attended the school for a couple of years then Vincent left when felt in his heart to serve his country and enlisted in the United States Army in 1964.  Vincent was stationed in Vietnam and was assigned as a Cryptographic Technician.  At this position he spent his time deciphering, cracking, and translating secret codes.  Vincent honorably and proudly served four tours during the Vietnam War in the United States Army from 1964 until 1970. During his service he earned the rank of Staff Sergeant and received the Bronze Star, the National Defense Service Medal, the Meritorious Unit Commendation, the Good Conduct Medal, the Vietnam Service Medal, and Vietnam Campaign Medal.

During Vincent’s first tour in Vietnam, he met a young, beautiful Vietnamese woman by the name of Be Tran, whom he lovingly referred to as her nickname Tam, she worked with the US Army Laundry and Dry-Cleaning Operations.  Vincent had run into her a few times at her work, then later met her at a local tavern.  Vincent and Be hit it off great and it was truly a case of “love at first sight.”  Following his first tour in Vietnam, Vincent was sent back to the United States and was assigned a job in Washington D.C.  Vincent didn’t care for the position in Washington and re-enlisted for his second tour in Vietnam.  He did so also to be reunited with his beloved Be.  As fate would have it, when Be and Vincent reunited in Vietnam, they became husband and wife on February 2, 1967.  Shortly after getting married and while still in Vietnam, Be and Vincent welcomed the birth of their first child, their son Vincent.  Be, Vincent, and their son left Vietnam after Vincent’s honorable discharge from the US Army and settled in Wayne Township, NJ.  While living in Wayne, they welcomed the births of their next three children, Sanlee, Heather, and Nigel.  Vincent and Be called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and raised their family.

Vincent took a position as a Field Technician with the Bell Telephone company after returning to the US.  He later worked for Fairbanks Scales in Upper Saddle River for more than fifteen years.  Vincent then worked for Action Scales in Newburgh, NY and also Material Processing Technologies in Paterson, NJ where he was employed as Maintenance Manager and later promoted to Plant Engineer.  His last seven years of employment, before his retirement, he worked as a Field Technician with Verizon in Totowa, NJ.

Vincent was a volunteer fireman for the Wayne Fire Company #2 for many years.  He was also an avid softball player in a local bar league in Wayne and played on a Modified Fast Pitch Softball team for his company MPT.  Vincent was an avid hunter of large and small game and enjoyed hunting with both shotgun and crossbow.  He was a passionate fisherman, particularly of Trout and Bass.  Vincent was a lifetime member of the NRA and member of the American Bass Association.

Vincent was truly a man of integrity and a devoted patriot.  He was unapologetic about his views and opinions but always polite and respectful of others opinions.  He had a wonderful and colorful sense of humor and could captivate an audience of any age with his ability to tell a story.  One of his most prized possessions was his 1989 Jeep Wrangler, which was his first brand new car he ever purchased.  Vincent was an avid collector of model HO scale trains.  Seventeen years ago, in 2005, Vincent’s sister Janice donated one of her kidneys to him. A “Gift” that extended his life nearly two decades.

Aside from all of Vincent’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Vincent than spending time with and providing for his family.  He treasured spending time with his children and grandchildren and cherished fifty-five years of loving and loyal marriage to his wife Be.  Vincent touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Vincent is survived by his wife Be (nee Tran) of Wayne, his son Vincent Gough IV and his wife Elizabeth of Neptune, NJ, his daughter Sanlee Larena and her husband Pete of Jefferson, NJ, Heather Pettijohn and her husband Josh of Highland Ranch, CO, and his son Nigel Gough of Wayne, NJ, one brother Bruce Gough of Branchville, NJ, two sisters; Karen Sherrer of Pennsylvania, and Janice Sladicka and her husband Bob of New Milford, PA, nine grandchildren; Jason Gough of Fredericksburg, VA, Connor Halma of Jefferson, NJ, Fiona Gough of Wayne, NJ, Lila Be Pettijohn of Highlands Ranch, CO, Corrin Pettijohn of Highlands Ranch, CO, and Harper Pettijohn of Highlands Ranch, CO, Ally Larena of Jefferson, Michael Phillips of New Windsor, NY, Joey Phillips of Ramsey, NJ, and many nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents Vincent and Marion Gough, and by his brother John Edward Gough.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Vincent’s name may be made to Vietnam Veterans of America, 8719 Colesville Rd, Suite 100, Silver Spring, MD 20910 www.vva.org

Ray Martin, age 90 of Little Falls, died peacefully on Wednesday, October 5, 2022.

Ray was born in Clifton to Leonard and Lenore Martin before moving to Little Falls 46 years ago where he’s resided ever since. Ray served his country in the United States Navy as a 3rd class Engineman during the Korean war. His calling to serve and protect didn’t end there because after his return he elected to volunteer at the Eagle Hose Company #1 of Little Falls New Jersey as a volunteer fireman in 1962. His efforts in the Navy and as a fireman allowed Ray to discover his talents for hands on work which propelled him into his professional career. Ray went on to work as a Service Man for Royfax Corporation in Paramus for several years, and then later Eastman Kodak for 20 years before retiring in 1991. Ray helped us out here at the Vander May Funeral Home for many years and we all will cherish all the laughs and good times he could make out of tough situations.

Ray was a caring man who on April 21, 1956, decided to devote himself to his beloved Dorothy through marriage. They’ve been fortunate to enjoy 66 loving years in each other’s company. Ray found his faith and practiced at the 2nd Reformed Church in Little Falls for many years. He will be remembered as a faithful man with an ability to get a smile on your face no matter how difficult the circumstance. For many years Ray enjoyed supporting his daughter and son-in-law with their glider business called Jersey Ridge Soaring in Blairstown.  He would occasionally take glider flights, they have forms named after him, and he even helped assemble tow ropes for them.

Ray is survived by his wife Dorothy Martin, his daughter Brenda Martin and her husband Kevin of Germantown, MD and more recently Blairstown, NJ along with Ray’s Granddaughters, who lovingly called him “Ponkey” Alison and Ellen. Ray was also the cherished great-grandfather and “Ponkey” of Keagan and Talia. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Ray is predeceased by his brothers John Martin of Westwood and Wilber Martin.

In lieu of flowers those inclined to make a memorial donation in Ray's memory are asked to consider: The Second Reformed Church, 6 Walnut Street, Little Falls, NJ 07424  or  The Little Falls Rescue Squad/Fire Department (click here for the link)

Giovanni Domicoli, 70, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, October 5, 2022 while in the loving company of his dear family.

He was born in Gela, Italy in 1952 and Immigrated to the United States at the age of 15. Soon after Giovanni met Emanuela, who became his loving wife of 48 years.

Giovanni lived life to the fullest through simple pleasures; Sunday dinners with his children and grandchildren filled his heart with joy. He loved fishing, crabbing, gardening and spending time at the shore.

He was a hard-working father who was always there when we needed him. He had many friends and was well respected.

Giovanni leaves behind his wife Emanuela Domicoli, his three children, Phyllis, Joseph and Daniel along with his greatest joys; his grandchildren, Gianni, Giovanni, Juliana, Daniel, Joey, Marco and Mia.

He will be sadly missed and always hold a place in our hearts.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Giovanni’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital
Memorial Processing
501 St. Jude Place
Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Walter C. Johnson, age 74 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, October 4, 2022. He had been a machinist and engineer throughout his career before retiring fifteen years ago.

Walt grew up in Jersey City and moved to Old Bridge when he was twelve years old. He went on to graduate from Madison Township High School in 1966. In 1967, he enlisted in the U.S. Navy and proudly served as a Machinist for four years before being honorably discharged in 1971. He enrolled in engineering classes while working full time, and received his mechanical engineering degree from NJIT in 1996.

He was an avid league bowler and achieved a “300” game just a few years ago. He enjoyed deep sea fishing and landed a 619 lb. tuna when he was just twenty years old. He also loved golfing and working on home improvement projects.  Walt was a cancer survivor who experienced his share of health challenges for the past twenty-five years, but he was a strong fighter who wouldn’t allow himself to be held back from enjoying life. He was a hard worker and a perfectionist. He also had a great sense of humor and provided plenty of laughter for his friends and family.

Walt met his wife, Frances, in Garfield, NJ, while playing cards at a friend’s house. They married on May 25, 1975 at St Stanislaus Kostka Church in Garfield and honeymooned in Bermuda. They lived briefly in Old Bridge before settling in Parsippany where they lived and raised their family for more than thirty-three years. They traveled extensively including many cruises to destinations such as Alaska, Hawaii, the Caribbean, London and Rome.  His favorite destination was Bermuda and he was fortunate to have cruised there just three weeks ago! They were blessed with a beautiful, loving and devoted marriage of more than forty-seven years, and Fran will miss him dearly.

Walt cared deeply for his family and had always been a very supportive and loving father. He was gentle and strong at the same time, always leading by his example. He was a true gentleman. Each of his grandchildren meant the world to him and he enjoyed all the time he had with them. They all love him and will miss him dearly.

Walt is survived by his beloved wife, Frances (nee Sondej) of Wayne, their two sons; Michael and his wife Danielle of Rockaway, and Jason and his wife Michelle of Wayne; six grandchildren, Anthony, Aidan, David, Carlie, Abbey, and Cameron; as well as one sister, Carole Rux. He was predeceased by his sister Kathleen Johnson in 2009.  He also leaves nephew Scott Eder, who he was like a father figure to, as well as nephew Kenneth Rux, and nieces Kristen Blomstrom and Jennifer Aroche, as well as eight great nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donation in Walter's memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, www.stjude.org.

Brenda I. Roman, age 54, of Clifton, passed Sunday, October 2, 2022.

She was born to Emilio and Vidalina Brito in Heidelberg, Germany as her father was serving in the US Army and stationed in Germany. Upon returning to the United States the family first settled in Alabama, soon moved to Paterson, and ultimately settled in Clifton many years ago.

Brenda graduated from the John F. Kennedy High School in Paterson, where she played on the volleyball team, with the Class of 1986.

She will be lovingly remembered as a fun, crazy, outgoing, bubbly, wonderful person. She was an excellent cook specializing in Spanish cuisine. When it came to cleaning it is said that Brenda was obsessed with cleaning and would even clean your house when she came to visit. She loved caring for family and their kids, and enjoyed going to the Jersey Shore in Belmar, Bradley Beach, and Long Branch. She would sit on the beach and could look at the ocean or people watch all day long. When it came to her soap operas on television, she loved watching The Bold and the Beautiful.

Brenda met her husband Eli through friends. Eli proposed marriage while they were at a restaurant in Lincoln Park and they soon married on June 13, 2010…the day after her birthday.

Brenda was the loving wife of twelve years to Eli Salazar; devoted daughter of the late Emilio (d.2003) and her surviving mother Vidalina Brito; she was the mother of four sons: Joshua Virella, Skylar Roman, Justin Roman, and Devin Roman all of Clifton; she was the sister of the late Nidia “Mari” Brito (d.1985), Marta Rodriguez and her husband Miguel “Junior” of Paterson; and Elva Ghalam and her husband Darryl of Midland Park.

Virginia D. Canlas, MD age 76, of Passaic, passed away into the loving arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Saturday, October 1, 2022.

The third of Virgilio and Mercedes (Dimalanta) Canlas’ four children, Virginia was born and raised in the city of Manila in the Philippines. Her father was a physician whose desire was for his son Renaldo to follow in his footsteps. When Renaldo learned that this was not God’s calling for his life, Virginia came forward to tell her father that she would like to become a doctor. After graduating from Abad Santos High School, she attended Far Eastern University in Manila where she earned her undergraduate degree and served her internship to become a physician. In 1970, Virginia received her license to practice medicine and she was assigned by the Philippine government to the province of Pampanga as a general practitioner with a specialty in OBGYN.

Dr. Canlas practiced medicine in the Philippines until 1980 when, at the encouragement of her parents and two of her siblings, she joined them in the United States to be closer to her family and to enjoy all the opportunities that America offered. After taking some master courses in public health at Columbia University, Virginia took a position with the New York Department of Health.

Virginia, also affectionately known as Gie, held a deep and abiding faith in God. Sensing God’s call to use her medical skills for His glory, she left her current position to go work for an organization called World Vision, an international partnership of Christians whose mission is to work with the poor and oppressed to promote human transformation, seek justice, and be witnesses to the good news of the Kingdom of God. Over the course of several years with World Vision, Dr. Canlas served as a general practitioner, providing medical assistance in Cambodia, Romania, Laos and on the continent of Africa in the Democratic Republic of the Congo. Looking back on that experience, Gie was so grateful to the Lord for the opportunity to help those who otherwise would have had no hope. She eventually returned to the United States and worked at Trinitas Regional Medical Center in Elizabeth before fully retiring in 2015.

In addition to her love of travel through World Vision, Gie enjoyed the simple daily experiences of life like so many of us do. She kept her mind sharp by regularly watching Jeopardy and, having spent time in Los Angeles, she took a liking to watching Los Angeles Lakers games on TV. She was an accomplished pianist who loved to play the sacred hymns of the faith and was a bit of a fashionista who had just as much fun shopping for nice clothes as she did wearing them. Gie loved dining out, with favorite restaurants being East Japanese Restaurant in Teaneck, I-Hop in Clifton, and, of course, any restaurant that served delicious ethnic Philippine foods.

Next to her faith in the Lord, Gie’s family and extended church family at Bible Church International in Garfield (now in Randolph) were most dear to her. After her father’s passing, Gie eventually moved home to provide loving care for her mother Mercedes in Passaic. Somewhat shy, Gie was happy for her times of solitude but she also loved the company of her sisters, brother, nieces and nephews. She was a gentle and generous soul and, while her family mourns the loss of Gie, they are thankful to God for her life and look forward to being reunited with her in God’s glorious presence.  

Virginia was the loving sister of: Zenaida Sakdalan and husband Bonifacio of Pequannock, Leticia Abad and husband Antonio of Southbury, CT., and Renaldo Canlas and wife Ines of Flanders, NJ; and dearest aunt of: Dennis Sakdalan and wife Rachel of Pompton Plains, Ronald Sakdalan and wife Christine of Rockaway, Paul Sakdalan and wife Lorelie of Barnegat, Stacy Ann Canlas of Flanders, John Michael Canlas and wife Kimberly of New York City, Lea McNamara and husband Glen of Southbury, CT, Michelle Frost and husband Brad of Chicago, IL, and Anthony Abad and wife Cate of Wyckoff.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Virginia’s name are asked to consider:

World Vision
P.O. Box 9716
Federal Way, WA 98063

Joan Helene Ruyzam, 72, of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully at home while in the loving presence of her family on Friday, September 30, 2022.

Joan was born in 1950 in New York City and raised for a short time in Astoria Queens. Her life got off to a bumpy start as she was prematurely born resulting in lungs that were not fully developed. To assure the best chance for survival, Joan’s pediatrician advised her parents to move out of New York’s congested atmosphere to a place where the air quality would be cleaner. Her parents took the advice and moved to Ocean Township in South Jersey. By God’s grace, Joan’s condition continually improved to the point where she was able to lead a perfectly normal life.

In her teenage years, Joan attended Asbury Park High School while waiting for the completion of the newly constructed Ocean Township High School where she graduated in 1967. In pursuit of higher education, she attended Monmouth College in West Long Branch, NJ and graduated with her bachelor’s degree in Education in 1971.

Joan really loved the sun, sand, surf and everything else there was to enjoy about life near the ocean. While in college during the summer of 1970, she decided to compete in the Miss Seaside Heights Beauty Pageant. No surprise, Joan won the contest and, in efforts to boost tourism to Seaside, a large promotional poster featuring Joan was posted in prominent locations including Grand Central Station in New York City.

Joan’s “get your foot in the door” first job was at a business school in Asbury Park. After that, she subbed until getting a job teaching typing at a grammar school in central New Jersey. Being a teacher meant summers off and she’d typically waitress to supplement her income. One summer, Joan was waitressing down the shore at a place called the Thunderbird Hotel. It was there that she waited on a couple who knew about a job opening for a business teacher at Lakeland Regional High School in Wanaque Township, NJ. Taking their advice, Joan interviewed for the position and got it. She ended up staying at Lakeland for the next thirty years until retiring in 2007.

While teaching at Lakeland, Joan enjoyed the respect of her students and colleagues. One colleague was a history teacher named Joseph Ruyzam. She and Joe eventually fell in love and married. The wedding ceremony was officiated by the mayor of West Long Branch and took place on June 25, 1999. After honeymooning in San Francisco, California, Mr. and Mrs. Ruyzam took up residence in Pompton Lakes. For their seventh and fifteenth anniversaries, Joan and Joe renewed their wedding vows. On both occasions, they renewed those vows in Las Vegas, Nevada. Wanting to keep it lightly dignified, the renewal vows were officiated by an Elvis impersonator who asked Joe, “Do you take Joan to be your Hunka Hunka Burn’n Love” and “Do you promise to never send her to Heartbreak Hotel?” After the ceremony was complete, Joan, Joe, and Elvis walked down the aisle of the chapel together singing Viva Las Vegas.

Joan had a love for life filled with many interests. She was an avid reader who enjoyed anything from the latest Danielle Steele romance to countless writings about political history and current political events. When she and Joe travelled, she could never resist picking up a book about the places they went. She and Joe’s travels took them all over the USA including Los Angeles, San Francisco, Chicago, Nashville, the Grand Canyon, Las Vegas, Myrtle Beach, Charleston, Boston and New Orleans. There was also a very much enjoyed trip to Aruba where the restaurants were a highlight. Joan’s favorite music featured songs from the 1950’s. She and Joe were regulars at concerts by Johnny Maestro and the Brooklyn Bridge, The Drifters, and Frankie Ford. When it came to sports, the New York Mets were Joan’s team of choice. She was a life-long fan who started going to games with her father when she was just a little girl. Her all-time favorite player was first baseman Ed Kranepool who was a lifetime Met with a career that started with the franchises first year in 1962 until he retired in 1979. One time she got to meet him and Ron Swaboda at the Tarrytown Theater. It was a fun time where the players just told stories about their careers. Joan’s husband Joe revealed Joan’s greatest secret to Ed – that she had such a crush on him, she wanted to marry him. Ed’s reply was, “I should have married you!” Another Met highlight was when she got to meet the Mets former third baseman Howard “HoJo” Johnson. HoJo was on the 1986 world champion team and Joan got to try on his world series ring. Over the years, she and Joe attended games at Citi Field and many minor league games too.

Throughout Joan’s life, her faith in God was foundational. Even in recent years as she fought through various battles with her health, her faith was a constant source of strength. She was beloved by her students, her professional colleagues, and especially her family. Intelligent and quick witted, Joan was a pleasure to share company with. Here range of knowledge was vast and conversations with her were always interesting and thought provoking. Her smile was as beautiful as her heart from which her smile emanated.

Joan was the beloved wife of Joseph, blessing in marriage for 22 years. She is also survived by her brother-in-law John Ruyzam of Wayne, and her cousin-in-law Valerie Levine (Victor Barber) of Boonton. Joan was predeceased by her parents Edward F. and Edna R (Ford) Ringenberger.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Joan’s name are asked to consider:

Holy Cross Polish National Catholic Church
220 Browertown Road
Woodland Park, NJ 07424

P.A.T.C.H. (Pet Adoption Through Caring Hands)
26 Lakeside Avenue
Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442

Schavaria Reeves, age 56 of Clifton, went to be with his Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Saturday, September 24, 2022. He had fought a valiant battle with prostate cancer for the last eight years.

Schavaria grew up in Harlem, New York, and his mother raised him to know Jesus. From his youngest days, Schavaria chose to spend his free time at the local church, avoiding the worldly temptations that were so readily available on the neighborhood streets. He trusted that God had a better life in store for him. He showed promise as an artist and this gained him acceptance into the Fiorello H. LaGuardia High School of Music & Art and Performing Arts in Manhattan. After graduating high school, he went on to study art at the Fashion Institute of Technology, FIT, in New York. While a student at FIT, a friend asked him to create a story board for an upcoming music video and Schavaria’s artwork was so impressive that the production company hired him full time. His career began quickly and he found himself working as a production assistant in the art department making music videos for some of the most popular artists of the era. He eventually settled in as a sound engineer with IATSE Local 52 in Queens, NY, and had most recently been working on projects with Amazon Prime. He was passionate and professional about his work, was respected and beloved in the industry, and he enjoyed meeting all the celebrities along the way. Among the highlights of his career was when he was able to watch Michael Jackson rehearsing for a show in New York City.

On one particularly special day during his career, a friend of his came to visit him at work and she brought along a friend named Martha Melendez. When Schavaria first saw Martha, he was astounded. He pulled his friend aside and asked, “who is this woman? I have to marry her.” Martha, however, wasn’t as equally smitten with Schavaria at first sight. In time though, she warmed up to him and learned that he was a man of strong character, who was very loving, and he proved to be utterly devoted to her. They have shared twenty-seven years since first meeting, and their love grew stronger every day. The strength of their marriage is rooted in their shared faith in Jesus Christ, and they’ve shared that faith with their children, their friends, and just about everyone else they encounter. Martha is grateful for the time she was able to share with Schavaria, and for the faith that they both shared so deeply throughout their years together.

If you were blessed to know Schavaria, then you know he was always happy and joyful. He would talk to just about everyone he met, and he often made lifelong friendships after striking up a conversation with a stranger. He enjoyed life with a zeal and happiness that was fueled by his faith that something even greater awaited him in his next life. That faith began during his earliest days growing up in Harlem. He went to church frequently in his Harlem neighborhood, in an effort to stay off the streets. He spent hours at his church. He also watched televangelists such as Billy Graham and Jimmy Swaggart on TV, and his faith grew strong as he learned about the love of Jesus. He received the Lord at the age of fourteen and has walked with the Lord, as best as he could, ever since that day. He was not a perfect man by any means, but he always did the best he could, and he was never shy about sharing his faith. In the days prior to his death, as his family sat vigil, he never showed fear and held fast in the knowledge that he would see the face of Jesus soon. What a glorious moment that must have been for him.

Schavaria is survived by his beloved wife, Martha Melendez of Clifton, their two children: Sky and her husband Alex, and Kayloni Burton, his brother, Ernest Reeves, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his mother, Ollie Reeves, in 2021.

John C. Brugaletta, age 92, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Saturday, September 24, 2022 while receiving the loving care of his family.

John was raised in Haledon and was one of 4 children. Following his high school graduation, John found work at Food Fair in Paterson. While at Food Fair, John worked alongside a lovely young woman named Caroline Maratta. John asked Caroline out on a date and picked her up in his mother’s car (which he told Caroline was his). As fate would have it, they fell in love and while at church one Sunday afternoon John proposed to Caroline. The couple became husband and wife on April 20, 1952 and honeymooned in the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania.

After getting married, John and Caroline settled in Paterson and moved into an apartment on Union Ave just upstairs from Caroline’s parents. During their time in Paterson, the couple welcomed the births of both their daughters Carol Ann and Judy. In 1963, as their family grew, Caroline, John and their two children moved to Wayne. The couple remained in Wayne for the rest of their lives together. John worked for Instrument Specialties in Little Falls and then went to Weiss – Aug Co. where he retired. He and Caroline cherished sixty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together. John was a devoted father, grandfather and great grandfather. He also enjoyed being a Scout Leader in his early years, fishing and camping. John and his family frequented the Jersey Shore points such as Seaside Heights and Wildwood Crest during the summer for many memorable family vacations. John was a very special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew him.

John was the lovely husband of the late Caroline Brugaletta (d2020). Devoted father to Carol Ann Johanson and her husband Frank of Rockaway, and Judy Hanenberg and her husband Jay of Wayne, beloved brother to Ann Joseph and her husband Bill of Toms River, NJ, five grandchildren; Keith D. Hanenberg and his wife Katie, Kevin Hanenberg and his wife Brooke, Renee Ross and her husband Tim, Lori DellaValle and her husband Jeff, and Michelle Johanson, and eight great grandchildren; Tyler and Jared Hanenberg, Hadley and Kendall Ross, Leah and Kaylee Hanenberg, Sophia and Joseph Jeffrey DellaValle.

Travis C. Havel, 53 of Wayne, died unexpectedly on Thursday, September 22, 2022.

Travis had been employed with Virgo Medical Services and Lifeline Medical Services, both in East Orange, throughout much of his career. He has always enjoyed helping others and started as a volunteer firefighter and EMT in Wildwood, NJ after high school. After moving to Wayne about twenty years ago, he joined the Wayne Volunteer Fire Company 4 and served there for many years. He was always ready and willing to serve his community.

Travis met his wife, Karen (nee Arbucci) after being introduced by a mutual friend. They had been dating for some time when Travis surprised Karen with a new toolbox. This wasn’t exactly her idea of the perfect gift, and she was rather unimpressed. But Travis encouraged her to open the toolbox, which revealed a sparkling engagement ring! They were soon married on October 2, 2004, at Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne, followed by a fantastic honeymoon to Hawaii. They have enjoyed eighteen “wonderful and fun” years together. They went to countless NASCAR races, minor league baseball games, football games, and hockey games. Travis particularly loved going to Mohegan Sun Arena in Wilkes-Barre, PA to watch the Penguins play hockey. He would bring a Teddy Bear every time and throw it on the ice after the Penguins scored their first goal, which is a fun tradition there and the toys are collected off of the ice for charity! Travis and Karen also visited Atlantic City frequently, and they vacationed to Ocean City, MD where he enjoyed swimming in the ocean and relaxing on the beach. They had a lot of fun together and Karen will miss him dearly.

Travis was a good man, with a big heart. He was always willing to drop whatever he was doing and help a friend in need. All you had to do was ask and he would be there for you. He leaves behind a large group of friends, coworkers, and family who will all miss him very much.

Travis is survived by his beloved wife, Karen (nee Arbucci) of Wayne, his in-laws; Barbara and Vincent Arbucci of Wayne, his mother; Grace Havel of Wildwood, his sister; Jodie Beaudoin and her husband Chuck of Wildwood, two sisters-in-law; Lorraine Arbucci and her husband David Holowiecki of Florida, and Patricia Arbucci of Riverdale, his nieces and nephews; Gracie and Amber Beaudoin, and Dylan, Derek, and Devin Rhinesmith, and by his aunt; Anne Cielo. Travis was predeceased by his father, Charles Havel.

Betty Chanson (nee Oakley), age 93, of Wayne passes away peacefully on Wednesday, September 21, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Betty was born and raised in Clifton, NJ and was the youngest of three children to Alfred and Theresa Oakley.  While growing up in Clifton, Betty attended Clifton high School, excelling in academics, she graduated with the class of 1947.  Immediately following her high school graduation, Betty enrolled in the Berkley Secretarial School located in the Clifton/Paterson area.  After receiving her certification in the secretarial program, Betty found employment quickly at the Singer Kearfott company in Nutley, NJ.  Betty remained at Singer Kearfott for several years and later took a position as a crossing guard with the Township of Wayne. This was work that Betty truly treasured.  Betty remained employed as a crossing guard for more than thirty years until she retired approximately fifteen years ago.

When Betty was a young woman, she snuck into a local CYO (Catholic Youth Organization) dance.  While at the dance, she met a handsome young man by the name of Robert Chanson.  Robert asked Betty to dance and they hit it off great.  They immediately started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and Robert and Betty became husband and wife in Totowa, NJ.  After getting married, the newlyweds moved to the town of Wayne and have called it there home ever since.  While living in Wayne, Robert and Betty welcomed the births of both of their children Roy and Cheryl.  It was also after getting married that Betty made the decision to become a full-time homemaker.  This was truly Betty’s calling and certainly where she flourished.  Betty was a truly devoted wife and mother.  She was a wonderful cook and was famous by family and friends for her Pot Roast and her tomato sauce.  She was also proud of having won a cooking contest for her vegetable lasagna some years ago.  Betty cherished hosting her family’s events including birthday parties, and especially the holidays.

Betty was not only devoted to her family, but she was also dedicated to her Christian Faith and was baptized as a child at the Pompton Reformed Church in Pequannock.  She enjoyed traveling with her husband Robert over the years to a variety of destinations including the Dominican Republic, the Cayman Islands, and Bermuda.  She also treasured her family vacations to Dewey Beach in Delaware and frequented the Jersey Shore every summer.        

Not only was Betty devoted to her husband and children, but she was also devoted to her parents as well.  Betty took it upon herself to act as the primary and full-time caregiver for both her parents when they became elderly.  Caring for people was something that came natural to Betty and was also what some would call a gift.  Betty was often selfless, and whether if was family or friends, she took care of the needs of others before her own.  She was a wonderful and talented dancer, particularly of the polka, and was also a diehard New York Mets fan.  She loved all animals but had a soft spot for stray dogs.  Her husband Robert would often come home from work and find a new dog in the house that Betty had found.  She would often shelter the dogs until she could find their owners or bring them safely to the local animal shelter.

Betty was a kind and sweet woman who had a wonderful sense of humor and could light up any room she walked into with her smile and laughter.  Shel loved to joke around with people and had the delightful quality of being able to laugh at herself.  She was never heard to speak a bad word about anyone and had only friends, no enemies.  It was clear to everyone that knew Betty, that her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in world meant more to Betty than spending time with and providing for her family.  Betty and her husband Robert cherished more than sixty years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Betty touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Betty is survived by her husband Robert Chanson of Wayne, NJ, one daughter Cheryl Romeo and her husband Ralph of Wayne, NJ, one son Roy Chanson and his wife Amy of Princeton, NJ, four grandchildren; Nick Romeo and his wife Allie of Wayne, NJ, Mark Romeo and his wife Kristy of Little Silver, NJ, Eric Chanson of Princeton, NJ, and Alex Chanson and his wife Nicole of Atlanta, GA, four great grandchildren; Mason Romeo, Tenley Romeo, Sienna Romeo, and Charli Chanson.  Betty was predeceased by her brother Edward Oakley, her sister Dorothy Turner, and her granddaughter Melissa Romeo.

Donations in Betty’s name may be made to Friends of Wayne Animals (FOWA), PO Box 3701, Wayne NJ 07470.

Loretta Costabile (nee Coronato), age 95 of Wayne, died peacefully at home surrounded by her loved ones,on Tuesday, September 20, 2022.

Loretta was born and raised in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1944. It was in high school that her girlfriend introduced her to Charles Costabile. They exchanged countless letters while Charles served in the U.S. Army during World War II, and they courted for a few years after his return home. They tied the knot on October 19, 1952 at St. Mary’s RC Church in Totowa followed by a honeymoon to Washington, DC and Florida. They lived in Totowa Paterson for a few years before moving to their home that they built together in Wayne in 1960. Loretta has lived in that same home for sixty-two years! They raised their three children there together until Charles died suddenly in 1975. Loretta’s world was turned upside down as a result, but she was a fiercely strong woman, determined to do all she could for her children. She began working two, and sometimes three, jobs to make ends meet, and she did it with grace and poise. She worked at her father’s store; Coronato Brothers Silk Shop in Totowa, as a salesperson at Meyer Brothers, and as a cashier at the gift shop in Wayne General Hospital. She was a salesclerk at a bakery, a helper at a local nursery school, and as a library and cafeteria aid at the Lafayette Elementary School in Wayne. She was also a babysitter for countless families around town. She was truly amazing.

In her free time, she was an accomplished league bowler at T-Bowl, and she enjoyed knitting, crocheting, sewing various crafts, and solving jigsaw puzzles. She was a fantastic baker and a wonderful cook. Her pasta and meatballs were famous among her children, and she loved preparing large meals for the holidays. Christmas was her favorite holiday and along with the help of her sister, they would prepare the traditional seven fishes for Christmas Eve. No one is sure how she found the time, but Loretta also volunteered as the Treasurer for the Xaverian Missionaries in Wayne, Treasurer for the Our Lady of the Valley RC Church Seniors Group, Treasurer at St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church in Wayne, and as Treasurer for the Golden Age Circle of Wayne. Needless to say, she kept herself active and busy, and she was dedicated to many local charities and causes.

Loretta is survived by her three children; Loretta Costabile of Newfoundland, John Costabile and his wife Donna of Sparta, and Kevin Costabile of Goshen, NY, three grandchildren; Kyle C., Trevor J., and Anthony M. Costabile, and one sister; Theresa Coronato-Rossi of Wayne.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad.

James “Jimmy” H. Shaw, Jr. age 55, of Wayne, passed Tuesday, September 13, 2022.

He was born to James and Edie Shaw and raised in Wayne. In his youth, Jimmy played both football and baseball with the Wayne P.A.L. He went on to play both sports at Wayne Hills High School where he graduated with the Class of 1984. His love of football never faded as evidenced by his love for the New York Giants and his constant support of them through the years. His children still carry on his tradition of being season ticket holders for the Giants supporting them every week.

Jimmy discovered a passion for cooking early on, and enrolled at the Culinary Institute of America in Hyde Park, New York where he developed an affinity for French cuisine. He applied this skillset to the many restaurants he worked at during his professional career.

Jimmy enjoyed time spent with his family. He loved their annual trips to Seaside, from swimming to walking the boardwalk, to playing Frog Bog and riding the roller-coasters. He also loved deep sea fishing, a nice day spent golfing at the Knoll West Country Club in Parsippany and of course trashing the Dallas Cowboys. He will be remembered as a witty jokester with a great sense of humor, a beloved father, son, brother and friend.

Jimmy is survived by his three children: Casey, Kerri, and Ryan Shaw. He is also survived by his mother Edie Shaw, his brother and sister-in-law Joseph and Bonnie Shaw, and many beloved aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his father James Shaw and sister Edie Sich.

In lieu of donations, the family asks that you honor Jimmy’s memory with a cheer and toast for the Giants at the next game!

Francesco Ceraulo, age 82 of Ringwood, died on Tuesday, September 13, 2022. He had lived in Newark, and North Haledon, before moving to Ringwood in 2005.

Francesco was born in Sicily and emigrated to Lens, France with his family when he was just a teenager. In Lens, he found work as a coal miner, which he knew didn’t offer a very promising future. Fortunately for him, he had a brother-in-law living in Newark during the 1960’s, who encouraged him to come to America. He moved his family to Newark’s North Ward with little more than a heart-full of really big dreams. His brother-in-law helped him get work at Calandra’s Bakery in Newark, where he started at the bottom and worked his way up to become the foreman of their baking operation! He and his wife saved every penny they could and were soon able to open their own bakery, the Mediterranean Bakery, in Bound Brook, NJ. It was a wonderful success story based on hard work, dedication, and sweat which enabled him to retire in his 50’s. But retirement didn’t suit Francesco very well and he opened another bakery with his daughter and son-in-law in Washington, NJ, called Sicilia Italian Bakery. He officially retired in 2005.

Francesco met his wife, Mattia (nee Ricca) when they were both living in France. They have enjoyed over sixty years in a very loving and close marriage. They’ve traveled extensively and loved visiting new places. They’ve been to Spain, Greece, France, Hawaii, and Australia. They also enjoyed taking cruises and have sailed the Mediterranean Sea, the Caribbean Ocean, and many others. They enjoyed going for long drives in the car, eating out, and visiting Atlantic City where they would stroll the boardwalk. They loved being together and Mattia will miss him dearly.

Francesco is survived by his beloved wife of sixty years; Mattia, their three children; Salvatore Amato (Annamaria) of Totowa, Vincenza LoCascio (Sebastiano) of Martinsville, NJ, and Lillian Auteri of Ringwood, nine grandchildren; Francesco LoCascio, Antonino LoCascio, Angelo LoCascio, Michael LoCascio, Mattia Doyle, Anthony Amato, Angelo Auteri, Frank Auteri, and Paula Greggo, and sixteen great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his son-in-law, Guiseppe Auteri of Ringwood in 2017.

Friends wishing to make a donation in Francesco’s memory are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Marjorie H. Considine (nee Evans), age 82 of Wayne, died peacefully on Saturday, September 10, 2022.

Marjorie had grown up in Edgewater, NJ and went to Leonia High School. It was here that she met the handsome James Considine and a whirlwind romance ensued. They were practically just kids when they married on December 8, 1956, and went on to raise five children. They enjoyed a fun and adventurous marriage of fifty-seven years. They had lived in Bergenfield for most of their years together and retired to a home on a lagoon in Little Egg Harbor. They often went bicycle riding and golfing together, and they even took up Scuba diving as a shared hobby. They were ‘snowbirds’ for a number of years in Port Charlotte, Florida, and they vacationed on countless cruises all over the high seas. Marjorie discovered tennis as an adult, and she enjoyed it so much that it was more of a second childhood for her! She excelled at tennis and competed in club tournaments nationwide. Later in life, she took up playing cards and had regular games of Pinochle, Conasta, and Rummy. She was always an excellent Scrabble player too – but everyone knew she cheated! Her own grandchildren were shocked when they caught her cheating while playing with them! Marjorie was very outgoing and funny, would freely speak her mind and she often had a witty comment for you. She was an excellent conversationalist and she enjoyed making friends.

Marjorie and Jim retired to Little Egg Harbor and they would often host all the grandchildren there. They loved having family around and their grandchildren all have great memories of crabbing, digging for clams at low tide, and going out on the boat. Sadly, their home was destroyed by hurricane Sandy and just a few months later Jim passed away. Marjorie moved to St. Peter’s Senior Residence in River Edge and lived there before settling more recently at the Christian Healthcare Center in Wyckoff.

Marjorie is survived by her five children; Daniel  Considine and his wife Elaine of Wayne, Kelley Bacci and her husband Kurt of Bergenfield, Laura Phelan and her husband William of Rivervale, James Considine and his wife Sharron of Dunstable, Massachusetts, and Kristene Neal of Highland Falls, NY, and twelve grandchildren. She was predeceased by her husband Jim in 2013.

For those wishing to make a donation in Marjorie’s memory, please consider the St. Peter’s Senior Residence in River Edge, NJ.

Jon D. Swenson, age 75, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, N.J., passed away peacefully on September 10th, 2022, after a courageous but brief battle with pancreatic cancer.

Born on September 17, 1946, in Newark, NJ, to the late Edwin G. Swenson and Pearl H. Swenson, Jon was an only child who grew up in North Caldwell, NJ.   After graduating in the first class of West Essex High School, he attended Stevens Institute of Technology in Hoboken where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering. In 1972, Jon graduated from NJIT (formerly Newark College of Engineering) with his Master of Science in Mechanical Engineering.  Jon also holds a Professional Engineer license with the State of New Jersey.  

In 1970, Jon met his future bride (Joyce Halloran) at Billy Bud’s Shanty Pub in Fairfield, NJ. He asked her to dance and then asked for her phone number.  Immediately thereafter, they dated, and eventually were married on October 21, 1972, at St. Paul’s Roman Catholic Church in Prospect Park, NJ.  They were blessed with two sons and a daughter to complete their family.

Upon graduation from Stevens, Jon began his employment at Becton Dickinson & Company, first in Rutherford, and later in Franklin Lakes, where he spent his entire 37- year career.   Jon worked in various divisions, starting in machine design and advancing to product development and management. Ultimately Jon became the Director of Needle and Blade Technology and was a global leading expert on needle sharpness, reducing the pain felt by millions of patients who receive a needle stick each year.  Jon was led by guiding principles of exactness, precision, excellence, perseverance, and ingenuity in everything he pursued.  It was his desire to improve the patient experience, especially for young children, so that through its design each needle would be as painless as possible.   Jon was awarded numerous patents, and in 2001 received Becton Dickinson’s Wesley J. Howe Award for Technological Innovation for a Lifetime Achievement in Needle Technology.  Many of the manufacturing machines designed by Jon almost fifty years ago are still running and operational in multiple Becton Dickinson facilities.  

Jon had a solution for every problem.  His grandchildren affectionately called him “Mr. Fix It” because he could fix anything.   He cherished doing projects around the house with his children, took exceptional pride in his extensive tool collection (especially obscure ones that solved unique challenges), and loved teaching his grandchildren how to ride his beloved John Deere lawn tractor.  His youngest grandchild, only 6, learned to drive it this past summer!  Jon had a deep love for the history, power, ingenuity, and legacy of steam railroad trains, especially the Pennsylvania Railroad. It was an ongoing challenge to find a railroad book that could be gifted to Jon, as he already owned a copy of (and read cover-to-cover) almost all of them that were in print.   He could recite the wheel configuration, hauling capacity and years of operation for nearly any locomotive from memory and enjoyed taking road trips to visit obscure railyards and stations from past and present. Around the house, Jon spent considerable time attending to his many gardens with pride and joy.    

For Jon’s family and friends, Jon was selfless with his time and willingness to help.  He volunteered for his children’s youth baseball and soccer teams in Packanack Lake, as well as committees that erected floating curtains at the swim areas of the lake’s two beaches. He oversaw a large project to install lights at the sports fields and always made time to have a catch with his children, so long as they were prepared for a lesson in applied physics. He took genuine interest in others and saw friendship as its own reward.  Jon was a daily reader of the Bible and his strong beliefs guided him through his everyday life.

Jon loved that Joyce was one of four children and had a large family.  Together they hosted many family holiday parties at their home and no detail in the preparation was overlooked.  Jon organized many of the family events, whether it was planning the annual Christmas tree cutting in PA, planning the after-tree gathering at a local restaurant, hiding Easter eggs for the Easter egg hunt, getting the Easter pinata ready for all the children, or even dressing up as Santa for the Christmas Eve party.

Jon is survived by his wife of 49 years; Joyce Swenson (nee Halloran) of Wayne, NJ, two sons; Kirk (Wendy) of Mountain Lakes, NJ, Kevin of Silver Spring, MD; a daughter, Katy Lauber of Essex Fells, NJ, and is affectionately known as Grandpa and Poppy to his six grandchildren (i.e., Luke, Addison, Russell, Nora, Will, and Connor).  Jon is also survived by two very special cousins Raymond and David Scaravaglione of NY and Florida, respectively, as well as many nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jon’s memory would be appreciated to the Tunnels to Towers Foundation or the Lustgarten Foundation for Pancreatic Cancer Research.

Jack A. Lavelle, 72 of Lodi passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 8th 2022.  Jack was born in Scranton Pennsylvania to Aloysius and Hannah Lavelle. Jack was raised in  Lodi, New Jersey where he grew up surrounded by loving family and lifelong friends.

Jack served in the U.S. Army, where he was stationed in Germany. He was Honorably discharged in 1974. Jack joined the Bergenfield police force in May 1974, where he was later promoted to the detective bureau. Jack excelled professionally throughout his career receiving numerous training certificates, letters, and awards memorializing his outstanding service to the community. Jack excelled in all areas including welding and mechanics which he enjoyed with his son, Jack, and brothers Mickey & Al. Jack was truly captivating, his thirst for knowledge, wisdom, and genuine love and compassion for all living things shined bright. Jack was a devoted Christian with a deep-rooted faith in God. He truly was the type of person everyone loved being around, always there to lend a hand or an ear. He will be sincerely missed by his family and friends.

The only thing Jack loved more than his career was God and his family. Jack and Helen Santorawere introduced in High School. They were married in June of 1974 at St. Joseph’s Church in Lodi, New Jersey. After three children the two shared a special bond, providing unconditional support for each other.

Jack’s most cherished possessions were his children, Michelle Minassian of Wayne, Angela Pagano and her husband Daniel of Wayne, and Jack J. Lavelle and his wife Mariela of Wayne. Jack and his daughter Michelle shared a love for animals. Michelle’s fondest memory with her father was at the age of six, when Jack told Michelle he had to stop at the bank, but instead surprised her with a German Shepherd, Shamu, after the passing of their beloved German Shepherd Sheba. Jack and his daughter Angela shared a love for knowledge. Angela’s fondest memory with her father was their road-trip to Arizona, where they spent three days chatting about life, law, and politics. Angela enjoyed questioning everything in life and Jack enjoyed pondering these questions with his daughter. Jack and his son Jack Joseph shared a love for mechanics. Jack fondly remembers spending hours with his father toiling over cars, boats, etc., anything in need of repair. Jack looked to his father for advice and strength. Jack truly inspired his children; Jack is deeply loved by his children and Jack’s earthly absence will be deeply felt by his wife, mother, and his children.

In the last years of his life Jack enjoyed nothing more than spending time with his grandchildren, Ava & Daniel. Jack instilled in his granddaughter Ava the importance of school and learning.  Jack’s kind, caring nature lives-on in his granddaughter Ava. Jack and his grandson Daniel share a deep love for Good & Plenty and Computers. Jack’s handsome good-looks and charming personality lives-on in his grandson, Daniel.

Jack’s pride and joys were his grand-doggies two German Shepherd’s Reina and Bruce (whom Jack was instrumental in saving from shelters), his beloved Stella who would enjoy weekends with Grandpa Jack while her pet parents were away and his sweet Angel. Jack loved being with his grand-dogs & the dogs loved being with their grand-poppy.  Jack loved the water. For years he enjoyed his Sea Ray which he kept docked on the Hudson and boating with his beloved brother-in-law Sal. Jack enjoyed taking friends and family to Island Beach State Park and seeing the fireworks from his boat on July 4th. Jack’s mother fondly remembers looking out her kitchen window and finding Jack scuba diving in their family pool, during the winter after he purchased scuba gear. Jack enjoyed the occasional poker game with his brother-in-law Mark and Sal and watching football games in the fall with his mother, Hannah. Jack’s inquisitive, charismatic nature was what made Jack.

Jack is survived by his wife Helen Lavelle (nee Santora) of Wayne, NJ, two daughters: Michelle Minassian of Wayne, NJ, and Angela Pagano and her husband Daniel of Wayne, NJ, one son Jack Lavelle and his wife Mariela of Wayne, NJ, his mother Hannah Lavelle of Lodi, NJ, three brothers; Aloysius Lavelle and his wife Jacqueline of Lodi, NJ, Gerald Lavelle and his wife Ann of Paramus, NJ, and Michael Lavelle and his wife Terri of Oakland, NJ, two sisters; Debra Iurato and her husband James of Pompton Plains, NJ, and Linda Santangelo of Mahwah, NJ, his mother-in-law Angelina Santora, two grandchildren Ava Minassian, and Daniel Pagano, his brother-in-law Salvatore Santora and his sister-in-law Mary Ann Weiseltier and her husband Mark, as well as many nieces and nephews.  Jack was predeceased by his father Aloysius Lavelle, his brother-in-law’s; James Santangelo, and Joseph Biss, his sister-in-law Mary Beth Santora, and his father-in-law Joseph Santora.

In lieu of flowers, donation in Jacks name may be made to Ramapo-Bergen Animal Refuge, Inc. 2 Shelter Ln, Oakland, NJ 07436 https://rbari.org/

Frank Giannini, 91 passed away peacefully on September 8th, 2022 as his childhood sweetheart and wife of 69 years, Audrey, held his hand.

Frank was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, where, as children, he and Audrey would hold hands on the subway on the way to church. They later married and settled in the Pines Lake community of Wayne, NJ to raise their four children. They later built a house on Lake Bomoseen in Vermont, where they enjoyed living for 30 years after their retirement.

Frank was an avid skier and golfer well into his 80's, and he and Audrey enjoyed playing cards and square dancing with friends as well as traveling the world. Frank was happiest when surrounded by his growing family in their “paradise” on Lake Bomoseen. He welcomed friends and significant others as if they had always been a part of the family and modeled that there is nothing in life more important than spending time with those you love.

Frank was a Korean War veteran and earned his Bachelor’s degree in Biology from NYU and his Master’s in Chemistry from Stevens Institute of Technology.  He spent most of his career as a manager in pharmaceutical manufacturing plants at Hoffman La Roche and Lederle Laboratories. He was also always active in his church, serving as a youth group leader, singing in the choir, and leading Bible studies.

In 2021, Frank and Audrey moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, NJ, where they were closer to family and surrounded by many old and new friends.

In addition to his wife, Frank is survived by his four children, Bob (the late Lori) of Middlebury, CT, Bill (Liz) of Highland Lakes, NJ, Ron (Melony) of Lighthouse Point, FL, and Kathy Curtin (Ted) of Wayne, NJ. He is also survived by his beloved grandchildren, Andrea Brunner (Andy Orlando) of New Milford, CT, Valerie Beard (Len) of Southbury, CT, Robyn Giannini (Charles Tsang) of New York, NY, Alissa Giannini of Driggs, ID, Peter Giannini (Erin), of Bloomingdale, NJ, Kelly Cohen (Josh), of Washington, DC, and Jim Curtin (Baileigh Carter) of Chantilly, VA, along with his eight great-grandchildren (Katelyn, Bill, Leah, Harleigh, Maddie, Kyle, Alex, and Ryan). He is also survived by several close nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to: Preakness Reformed Church Memorial Fund, 131 Church Lane, Wayne, NJ  07470

Christopher J. Oldham, age 57 of Stockholm, NJ and formerly of Wayne, NJ, died tragically on Thursday, September 8, 2022. Chris had lived in Wayne throughout most of his life and moved to Lake Stockholm eight years ago.

Chris graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1983 and he’s been a landscaper for many years. Most recently he’d been working with Papa Grieves Pools of Rockaway.

Chris was the definition of gregarious. He loved to socialize, loved to talk to people, was always helpful to anyone, and he had a great sense of humor. He could be a bit sarcastic at times and had a stubborn side as well, but always a heart of gold. He was a genuinely good guy. He quickly made friends among the Lake Stockholm community after moving there eight years ago, and he seemed to always be helping out a neighbor or friend with his handyman skills. Chris could also sing and he would get on stage and sing with any band that let him. He was also a prolific reader who loved sci-fi novels and would devour books at breakneck speed. It wasn’t uncommon for him to read a few books per week, and he has three burned-out Kindle readers to prove it!  

Chris also had a romantic side to him. When he met his wife, Sharon (nee Westdyk), they fell in love quickly. Although it took him a few years to propose, he did so with a cute Vermont Teddy Bear dressed as a bride holding the ring box. They were married on September 23, 2001 and honeymooned in the Dominican Republic. The D.R. became their “go-to” vacation spot and they’ve been going back to the Ocean Blue & Sand resort in Punta Cana for many years. They’ve had a lot of fun in their twenty-one years together and Sharon knew that Chris always held her closely to his heart. She will miss him dearly.

Chris is survived by his beloved wife Sharon (nee Westdyk) of Stockholm, NJ, his two stepsons; Kyle Kerstner and his wife Alyssa of Franklin Lakes, and T.J. Kerstner and his fiancé Danielle of Stillwater, NJ, a brother; James Oldham of Totowa, his nephew; Ryan Oldham and his wife Melissa of Connecticut, and his niece; Kirstie Oldham of Connecticut. Chris was predeceased by his brother Robert, and by both of his parents, Robert and Ruth Oldham.

M. Camille Pabst, age 92, of Wayne and a former resident of Monroe Township, passed away on Thursday, September 8, 2022.

The first of Louis and Nancy (Caraccia) Pesile’s three children, Camile was officially named Mary Camille Pesile but was widely known throughout her life as Camille. She was born at home in Lyndhurst at the family’s home on Green Ave and raised in the same town in the home located on Valley Brook Ave. When she was just two years old, Camille fell out of a second story window. She broke an arm but her life was spared, and for that, her parents were eternally grateful to God.

After graduating from Lyndhurst High School with the Class of 1946, Camille set off for higher education at Montclair State Teacher’s College where she received a B.A. in English with an accounting minor. Following graduation on June 15, 1950, she taught eighth grade in the Lyndhurst School District at Lincoln School.

Camille met the love of her life, Ferdinand Pabst at a block party in Lyndhurst. They soon fell in love and married on Thanksgiving Day, November 26, 1953 at Sacred Heart Church on Ridge Road in Lyndhurst. After a reception at the Rutherford Women’s Club and a honeymoon at the Paradise Valley Lodge in the Poconos, PA, the newlyweds settled into their first home together which was an apartment in Carlstadt. From there they temporarily moved into Ferd’s parent’s home in Woodridge while they waited construction of a brand-new home which they purchased in a then, “up-and-coming” town called Wayne. They moved into their new home, located on Terrace Road on December 12, 1956, just in time for Christmas. Soon after, Camille and Ferd welcomed their firstborn, a baby girl whom they named Paula. She was soon followed by her younger siblings Robert, Neal, and Nancy.

With four children and a new house, Camille transitioned from life in the classroom to fulltime life in the home. She lovingly cared for her four children and did a great job of providing a welcoming place for them to grow up. Eventually she returned part time to the classroom serving as a substitute teacher in the Wayne school system. Her years in education culminated with the position of a Career Counselor in the career resource center at Wayne Valley High School before fully retiring in 1987.

In 1988, Camille and Ferd relocated to the Clearbrook a 55+ community in Monroe Township. Camille settled quite nicely into retirement spending much of her leisure time playing her lifelong passion, bridge, and going out to lunch with old and new friends. In the winters she and Ferd escaped the cold by traveling to their second home in Naples, Florida. Retirement years also proved to be a great time for traveling adventures together throughout much of Europe, Asia, and South America. They especially loved river cruises. It was also a season of life filled with the blessing of grandchildren, and Camille and Ferdinand enjoyed them to the fullest by attending many of their sporting events and dance recitals. They were always fully supportive of their grandchildren and made every effort to attend all their events so they could watch their grandchildren grow up.

In addition to cherishing her family, Camille was deeply devoted to her Catholic faith. When she and Ferd moved to Wayne, they soon joined the faithful for weekly mass at Our Lady of the Valley R.C. Church in Wayne. In fact, they were charter parishioners! Throughout their many years of living in Wayne, Camille remained very active in the life of the parish as a member of the women’s club, the Mr. and Mrs. Club, volunteering to help clean the church and rectory. In later years, Camille and her husband taught marriage Pre-Cana classes for parishioners. Upon relocating to Monroe Township, she and Ferd again became charter parishioners of the newly formed Nativity of our Lord Church. They remained faithful parishioners for many years.  

Throughout her life, Camille enjoyed athletics. For many years she played volleyball in the Wayne Women’s League. She also enjoyed playing tennis, and in their retirement, she and Ferd took up the game of golf. Camille was also a true movie buff. Ask her about a classic movie and she could tell you all about it, including who starred in the movie and when it came out. Her favorite actor was Charlton Heston, and her favorite movie was Gone with the Wind. Camille possessed a great vocabulary, a skill which was probably somewhat aided by her love reading and crossword puzzles. She was a real socialite who loved going to and hosting parties. Her house was always a hub of entertainment for summer barbeques, family reunions, birthday bashes, and holiday parties.

On December 19, 2018, Camille’s beloved husband Ferdinand passed away at the age of 89. Camille continued to live at Clearbrook in Monroe Township until this past November when she moved into the new Brightview Senior Living community in Wayne.

Camille’s college yearbook described her well.  It made mention of her sparkling brown eyes, her always being ready with a laugh or a helping hand, and her carefree but capable nature. When asked to describe Camille, her own children used words such as spunky, chatty, smart, strong-willed, and yes…..sometimes a bit bossy. Camille will certainly be missed, but her family is grateful for her long life and that she is now reunited with her beloved Ferdinand.

Camille was the beloved wife of Ferdinand, blessed in marriage for 65 years until Ferd’s passing. She was the very loving mother of Paula Mecke and her husband Jim of Hayden, ID, Robert Pabst and his wife Diane of Branchburg, Neal Pabst and his wife Karen of Wayne, and Nancy Gilmore of Haskell; cherished grandmother of: Tyler, Emily (Scott), Paige (Sam), Luke, Corey, and Jordan; dear sister of the late Frank Pesile and his late wife Darlene, and Martha Hart and her husband Tom of Columbus, NJ.

For those unable to physically attend, the mass will be livestreamed at olvwayne.org/live-streaming. Following the Mass, Camille will be laid to rest at Christ the King Cemetery, Franklin Lakes.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Camille’s name are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959

American Heart Association P.O. Box 417005 Boston, MA  02241-7005

Ann Marie Simpson (nee Gentile), age 65, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 8, 2022, from a long and heartbreaking battle with Alzheimer’s Disease. She was surrounded by her loving family.

Ann Marie was born in Brooklyn, NY, and one of five children to Mario and Marie Gentile. When Ann Marie was 12, her family moved from New York to Wayne, NJ.

She attended Wayne Valley High School, Class of 1975. She completed her BA degree in dental hygiene at Fairleigh Dickenson University.

Over the course of her dental hygiene career, Ann Marie was passionate about her patients, and loved her day-to-day interactions with them.

Ann Marie met the love of her life, Don Simpson, in high school. They dated from 1973-1974 but drifted apart. Nine years later, in 1982, Ann Marie decided to go dancing with some friends at Gaspers in Wayne. She reacquainted with Don, and they danced the night away. They were inseparable from there on. They married on October 22, 1983.

Ann Marie will be remembered for her magnetic personality. She was a shining star that lit up any room she entered. She will be cherished as a great wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend who will be greatly missed by those whose lives she touched along the way.

Ann Marie’s three daughters can attest to a house full of laughter and love. Tara, Danielle, and Andrea are lucky to have had a wonderful childhood where Ann Marie was fully invested in each of their passions, creativity, and education, but most importantly, she instilled a strong family bond for which they are so grateful.

Ann Marie loved to volunteer her time and spent countless hours arranging cultural enrichment programs for her three daughters during their elementary years in school.

The summer was Ann Marie’s favorite time of the year. She enjoyed opening her pool and hosting many gatherings throughout the summer. Ann Marie spent days gardening and preparing her backyard with beautiful flowers. Her backyard could have been photographed for a magazine.

Ann Marie was the loving wife of 39 years to Don Simpson. She was the devoted mother of Tara Parker and her husband Greg of Mandeville, LA, Danielle McGuire of Nutley, NJ, Andrea Simpson of Woodland Park, NJ. She was the cherished grandmother of Bethany, Grace, Emma Jane, Nathan, Benjamin, and Vivian. She was the most loving sister of Chris Doran and her husband Jim of Fort Mills, SC, Tom Gentile and his partner Ellen Oster of Cheshire, CT, Mary Jane Threlfall (beloved twin sister) and her husband Gary of Landing, NJ and Salvatore Gentile and his wife Arlene of Wayne, NJ. She was the much-loved aunt of many nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by her parents, Mario Gentile (2020) and Marie Gentile (2017).

Those planning on an expression of sympathy in Ann Marie’s name are asked to consider:
Alzheimer’s Association
You can donate online at (www.alz.org)

St Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital
Memorial Processing
501 St. Jude Place
Memphis TN 38105-9959
You can also donate online at (www.stjude.org)

Phillip “Phil” John Angello, of Wayne, NJ passed away peacefully on September 7, 2022 with tears in his eyes, hand-in-hand with his beloved daughter by his side. Phil was 78 years old.

Born in Passaic, NJ to the late Phillip (1989) and Mary (2002) Angello, Phil Angello was the youngest of three children. Upon graduating from Garfield High School in 1964, Phil courageously entered the Air Force, proudly serving his country as a Staff Sargent with the 170th Civil Engineering Flight. After receiving an honorable discharge, Phil entered his trade and developed his craft as a union recognized plumber working for nearly 30 years.

Many of those years found him stationed at the Meadowlands racetrack in East Rutherford, New Jersey. Phil loved being at the stables and his love of animals meant that he spent much of his downtime admiring the horses. He was even known to rescue stray cats from the racetrack. When needing to refuel, Phil often patronized Pegasus, a well-known restaurant in the stadium, where he was known to always “sneak something off any passing plate.”

Phil’s career not only included his professional occupation, but also spanned a variety of other ventures which included a first responder at the World Trade Center after 9/11 as well as an entrepreneur delving into real estate and other businesses. Phil’s various enterprises included owning and operating greenhouses and tropical plant wholesale.

Phil possessed an adventurous and generous spirit. When not working, Phil could be found engaging in hobbies that ignited his passions. Racing fast cars, hunting and freshwater fishing were among a few of his interests. Although a hunter, Phil cared deeply for nature and enjoyed the outdoors. He would often share stories of his encounters with ailing animals, taking them into his home while nursing them back to health or even keeping them as pets. When inside Phil’s home, it was obvious that gardening was another passion as evidenced by thriving tropical plants. Phil took pride in learning and educating himself in botany and his expertise in this area was realized through his uncanny ability to provide the scientific name of any plant or tree he encountered.

Phil was hard to miss when he walked into a room; he transformed the energy with an endless supply of jokes and stories. Being with and around Phil guaranteed all that were in his company a good laugh. One of Phil’s favorite holiday activities involved dressing up as Santa Claus during Christmas. He loved giving gifts, especially to the children in his life. Knowing that he brought happiness to his loved ones provided Phil with an infinite amount of joy. Nothing in the world meant more to Phil than spending time with those he loved.

Although some may describe Phil as “a little rough around the edges,” like a diamond, he was unique and spectacular. Phil possessed a heart of gold, was loving and caring. Phil especially shined when someone was down on their luck, lonely or truly needed a friend. Phil’s unconditional commitment to those he loved was selfless, authentic, and genuine. His life, particularly in our world today, should aim to inspire how we all treat each other, especially in times of strife and suffering.

Angello, stemming from the Greek word ‘angelos’ means “messenger” from God. For those in need, many are able to share stories of instances in where Phil impacted their life just by being there for them. Phil Angello was the kind of guy that would give you the shirt off his back. He truly was a guardian angel and touched the lives of those around him and those that needed him. He will be sorely missed by all who saw his true colors.

Comfort lies in the knowledge that Phil fulfilled his life’s purpose as he has left a legacy and carried out his behests. This is now Phil’s time to take the special seat saved just for him in heaven. Phil was not only devoted to his family, but he was also dedicated to his Catholic Faith and being a son of God.  He was a parishioner to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne for many years.

In lieu of flowers, please submit a funny or heartfelt memory, story on how Phil impacted your life to kcappelli03@aol.com or consider a donation in Phil’s name to PanCan (Pancreatic Cancer Action Network) 1500 Rosecrans Avenue, Suite 200, Manhattan Beach, CA 90266 http://www.pancan.org or the Lustgarten Foundation, 415 Crossways Park Drive, Suite D, Woodbury, NY 11797 http://www.lustgarten.org

George "Pops" Morris, age 67 of Pompton Lakes, NJ died on Wednesday, September 7, 2022. He lived in Pompton Lakes for thirty-one years and retired recently from the Caldwell – West Caldwell Schools where he had been the maintenance foreman.

George was raised in Fair Lawn by his mother Angie and his father George, along with his two sisters Julie and Nancy, who always wished for a little brother. He graduated from Fair Lawn High School, class of 1972 and "couldn't wait to get the hell out of there". He spent some time in college, and was an avid skier, travelling to Europe. After a much-needed haircut, he joined the U.S. Coast Guard, eventually being honorably discharged having achieved the rank of coxswain. He was also awarded the Coast Guard Meritorious Unit Commendation Ribbon. George was proud of and regularly enjoyed proving that he had been ranked "expert" in both pistol and rifle during his service.

After the Coast Guard, adventures surfing in California soon led him to Wyoming where he worked as a hunting guide. Surfboards and Jersey plates, seldom seen in the wilderness of the great American West, made for some interesting interactions with locals. Rekindling his romance with his high school sweetheart, Regina "Jeanne" Sangis, he finally had reason to stay in civilization. A proposal on her birthday led to a 39-year marriage filled with its fair share of both love and trials. They built a life together surrounded by friends and family.

After starting their own family, first George and then Samantha, George and Jeanne moved to be close to family in Pompton Lakes, NJ. The next several decades were spent mostly living on soccer fields, hunting, fishing, gardening, working, cooking, spending time with loved-ones, and yelling at the TV (with Samantha), the dog, the kids... there was always lots of yelling. And singing. And whistling. While George was constantly busy, he always made time for both of his children, nieces and nephews. He often told Jeanne he was most proud of being a father. The time he spent playing soccer with Samantha and yelling at his son George to hold the flashlight still are a testament to this fact.

If you knew George, you knew he was stubborn. He loved stubbornly. He fought stubbornly. He had strong opinions about music and food and culture and history. Luckily, he had pretty good taste. He enjoyed sharing the things that he loved with the people that he loved. George will be sorely missed by all who loved him.

George is survived by his beloved wife of thirty-nine years; Regina “Jeanne” (nee Sangis) of Pompton Lakes, their two children; George Morris and his wife Catie of Pompton Lakes, and Samantha Morris and her fiancé Dave of Hoboken, two sisters; Julianne Bruno and her husband Jim of Cody, Wyoming, and Nancy Johnson and her husband Eugene of Beachwood, NJ, and his nieces and nephews who he loved; Jimmy Bruno, Laurie Steward, Karen Carew, Amy Sturgis, Dan Carew, Danielle Walsh, and their families.

For those wishing to make a donation in George’s memory, please consider donating to the National Audubon Society or the COPD Foundation.

Nettie Zagra, age 89, passed away on Sunday, September 4, 2022.  She was born in Plains PA and lived in Wayne NJ for the greater part of her life.

She is survived by her daughter, Debra Scism and grandsons Ryan and Stephen Scism.

Nettie was a homemaker, active in her church as a Eucharistic Minister and enjoyed taking trips with various senior groups.

She will be especially remembered in the happy times, vacationing with her family and attending her grandchildren’s sporting and musical events.    

OAKLAND - On Saturday, September 3, 2022, Joseph Catanzaro, beloved brother and uncle, passed away at the age of 91. He is survived by his sisters Rose Carrabba and Regina Alpern, niece Josephine Heberling, great-niece Katherine Heberling and her husband Jason Young, and is predeceased by his nephew Henry Heberling and great-nephew Michael Heberling.

Born on June 5, 1931 in Paterson, NJ to Joseph and Regina Catanzaro (née Attanasio), Joe was an avid hunter in his youth and loved fishing, football, and baseball as well as music, dancing, and singing. He worked for decades as an interior upholsterer at Market Auto Seat Covers in Paterson, NJ, and later retired to West Palm Beach, FL for 17 years. Joe was equally known for his warm and easygoing nature as for his love of sweets, especially ice cream. He made friends wherever he went and had a kind word for everyone he met.

Joe spent his final years at Oakland Rehabilitation Center and his family would like to thank the staff for their generous and loving care.

Yorghi “George” Turkmany, 68 of Wayne, died on Friday, September 2, 2022. He has lived in Wayne since 2000.

George was born in Aleppo, Syria and emigrated to America with his family when he was just seven years old. He was one of eight children in his family, and they settled in Paterson. When he was nineteen, he met Siham Attieh who had been visiting from Beirut, Lebanon. They were married just two months later, on October 15, 1977, at St. Ann Melkite Catholic Church in West Paterson, followed by a honeymoon to Seaside, NJ. They settled in Paterson, and then moved to West Palm Beach, Florida for about fifteen years, before moving back to New Jersey in 2000. They’ve enjoyed forty-five years together, raised six children, and welcomed ten grandchildren into the world.

George was very talented and could fix just about anything. As a young man, he learned to wallpaper and became an auto mechanic. He went on to have his own gas station and repair shop for many years. He always worked hard to keep himself in shape, working out, running on the treadmill, and exercising. He had a boat while living in Florida and he loved to go fishing. He especially enjoyed taking his kids to Disney World when they lived in Florida, and they would go every few months. George liked riding in the front seat on the rollercoasters, and his kids have so many great memories of those fun times! George was a fun and loving grandfather to his ten grandchildren. He spent as much time with them as he could, and they all know how much he truly loved each of them. They will all miss him dearly.

George is survived by his dear wife Siham of Wayne, five children: Elias Turkmany and his wife Victoria of Hackettstown, Bertha Qassar of Wayne, Loris Turkmany of Wayne, Touma Turkmany of Wayne, and Nadima Turkmany of Wayne, ten grandchildren, his siblings, and many nieces and nephews. Sadly, George was predeceased by his son, Yorghi, Jr., in 2020.

Doris M. Lepari, age 92, of Basking Ridge and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, September 2, 2022.

The first of Frank and Frances (Flynn) Warner’s three children, Doris was born in Paterson and raised in Hawthorne at the family home located at 46 Kingston Ave. The classic oldest child, while her sister Carole was known to occasionaly stick her tongue out at her father in defiance after a whooping, and her brother Dick once drove a car off a bridge into a creek, Doris was a parent pleaser who always did the right thing.

After graduating from Hawthorne High School with the Class of 1948, Doris worked in a local bank in Hawthorne as a teller.

While in high school, Doris met a handsome young athlete named John Lipari. John was a star football, basketball and baseball player who, while in a game, could hear Doris rooting for him from the stands. They became high school sweethearts who ultimately married on Saturday, May 14, 1955 at St. Anthony’s R.C. Church in Hawthorne. After the wedding the newlyweds honeymooned in Florida before settling into their first apartment in a house on a side street off Diamond Bridge Ave in Hawthorne. After marriage, Doris remained with the bank until one day when she developed what she thought to be flu symptoms. It turned out that her strain of flu was better known as pregnancy. After that, she retired from banking to pursue her new career as a mother and homemaker. She and John were blessed with a baby girl which they named Diane. Soon after, they moved to the home at 44 Rea Ave in Hawthorne and there they welcomed child number two, a baby boy which they named Steven. In 1962 they purchased their first home and moved to 89 Farmingdale Road in Wayne. Doris remained a Wayne resident even after her beloved John passed away in 2005. In 2020, with the onset of the pandemic, Doris moved in with her daughter Diane in Oak Ridge and in 2021, they all moved to Bernardsville where Doris stayed until moving into Sunrise at Basking Ridge in late 2021.

Doris was a true example of a traditional, loving, family-oriented homemaker. Her skills provided a super-clean, well-decorated, peaceful respite for her husband and children to come home to, and a great place to care for her grandchildren when those little blessings came into her life. She believed in sit-down lunches and she was a decent cook. Her daughter Diane loved her veal cutlet and her son Steve loved her pot roast and French toast. Dessert was served at each and every meal, usually jello, ice cream, pie, or a family favorite called junket. Everyone knew the Lepari house in Wayne. It was the one that you drove by that had all the clean laundry hanging on the clothesline in the yard. Once adequately dry, that clothing would come in and it wouldn’t be hung in the closet or put in the drawer until it was neatly ironed. Armed with her coupons, Doris always was looking for the best deals at the grocery store. She loved all the holidays and her house was fully decorated for each one. She’d even make cherry pie on George Washington’s birthday! Every afternoon, while the kids were in school, she’d watch her soap opera and then she’d take a short nap. She also liked to watch Notre Dame and Dallas Cowboy football games.  

Since before her children were born, Doris and John enjoyed annual vacations for one, two or three weeks down the Jersey shore in Manasquan. It became a family tradition that Doris cherished the most and one that continued for multiple decades, right up until recently. She and John also enjoyed vacations with friends to Hawaii, Bermuda, and annual trips to the Poconos.

Doris enjoyed the blessing of many friends. She enjoyed hosting them for games of Pokeno and she’d frequently get together with them to go shopping followed by lunch. Doris liked to take care of herself. She loved looking fashionable and she enjoyed going out with her daughter Diane to get her nails done. Everyone at Sunrise always complimented her on how nice she looked. She also loved it when old friends would visit her at Sunrise and take her out to lunch.    

Above all else, faith and family were the cornerstones of Doris’ life.

As a devout catholic in her Christian walk, when they moved to Wayne, Doris, along with John, became charter members of a then-new church in Wayne called Our Lady of Consolation R.C. Church. Doris was always very proud of the fact that they were charter members and they were regulars at Sunday’s 10:30 mass where John also served as an usher. Doris understood the importance of praying the rosary and for many years, she was a member of the church’s rosary society.

Her devotion to God was only matched by her devotion to her family. Doris was such a loving, steadying presence in their lives. She was loyal to her children, even her son Steven who she’d often say would be the death of her. Even as a young kid sewing his oats, when Steven ran away from home, she’d call the school to make sure he showed up that day. She and her husband John made a great team. The roots of their love and devotion ran deep and, throughout John’s battle with Parkinson’s Doris gave him the best of care. Attending all their grandchildren’s sporting events and performances, she and John were always so proud.

While her life was long and blessed, Doris’ passing was somewhat unexpected. She passed away into the loving arms of Jesus as she slept. She will be remembered and cherished as a great wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, sister, aunt and friend who will be missed by those whose lives she touched along the way.  

Doris was the beloved wife of John, blessed in marriage for 49 happy years until his passing in 2005. She was the most loving mother of Diane Tasker and husband David of Bernardsville, and Steven Lepari and wife Gloria of Lebanon, NJ; cherished grandmother of Amy Shaver and husband Josh, and Sean Tasker; adoring great-grandmother of: Bryce, Tessa, and Ashton; and dear aunt of: Richard, David and wife Sharon, Michelle and husband Joe, Timothy and wife Joyce, and Lisa. Doris was predeceased by her younger sister and brother: Carole Finan and Richard Warner.

At the request of Doris’ son Steven, NOT in lieu of flowers, please feel free to send flowers in Doris’ memory. After all, she loved them so very much.

Angelo “Buddy” Palumbo was born March 9, 1947 in Paterson, New Jersey. The first born child of Vincent and Jean (nee Roatti), he was raised in Wayne and graduated from Wayne High School in 1965.

After his high school graduation, Buddy joined the United States Air Force, reaching the rank of Sergeant, and served our country during the Vietnam war. After his honorable discharge from the USAF, he returned to New Jersey with his first wife and his son, settling in Haledon, where he owned and operated Belmont Cleaners, a local dry cleaning service. He later added Belmont Carpet Care to the business.

In 1988, Buddy relocated to Florida with his second wife, where he worked for ADT as a security system installation supervisor. He lived in Wellington for several years before moving to Stuart 19 years ago. In his spare time, Buddy enjoyed boating, going to drag racing events, working on cars and hitting up his favorite local diners.

In 2021 as his health failed, Buddy returned to New Jersey to be closer to his son and his family. He spent his final year as a beloved resident of Arden Court in Wayne.

Buddy is predeceased by his parents, Vincent and Jean; and his first wife and the mother of his son, Nancy Palumbo (nee Roberts). He is survived by his son, Tony, his wife, Danielle (nee Deraney), and his grandson, Tony, of Oakland; his former wife, Christina Palumbo (nee Iveson Dasker) of North Carolina; his brother, Jimmy and his wife, Ginny, of Wayne; his sister, Bobbie Gerardo and her husband, Pat of Wayne and their sons, his nephews, Pat Gerardo and Vinny Gerardo.

A tribute to Monroe Aboyoun

We honor and celebrate the life of Monroe Aboyoun of Wayne, NJ, who passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, August 30, 2022.  Monroe was 90 years old.

Monroe was living proof that your past doesn’t have to define your future.  He was born of humble beginnings in Paterson, NJ to Charles and Manira Aboyoun on January 9, 1932.  Monroe was the youngest of seven children and his mother Manira tragically passed away during his birth.  Monroe spent the first 8 years of his life living at the home of his mother’s best friend, Mary and Abraham Ablahani, along with their seven other children, who became his foster family and who loved and raised him as their own.  He moved into his father’s home, learning of, and meeting his six older siblings for the first time at the age of 8, and spent time living with cousins in Brooklyn, NY.

Navigating so much change in his early years taught Monroe that hard work and effort builds self-esteem and independence.  As the youngest in a poor household, Monroe was expected to pull his weight at home. He took his first job at 8 years old - shining shoes at a Paterson barber shop for pennies. He would go on to deliver ice from a wagon and sweep a soda shop floor.  One day he found a dollar bill while sweeping the soda store floor and even though it was a fortune in those days, he turned it in to his boss.  From that day forward, his boss at the soda shop, perhaps testing Monroe’s character with that dollar bill, trusted him implicitly.  

Monroe was a trustworthy, honorable, and exceptionally kind man who proved that character is destiny.  His calm, sunny personality and instinctive curiosity and intelligence helped him grow into a real “people person” as well as a respected and trusted leader who never raised his voice.

Monroe met the love of his life, Carol Agnello, in 1951 on a blind date. He was instantly smitten the moment he laid eyes on her, and later described her as “a real knock out” who was “movie star gorgeous.”  Carol was attending college at the time, and although all his brothers worked in a factory, Monroe knew he would have to attend college too if he was to be worthy of such a terrific woman. After his first semester in college, however, Monroe realized he simply couldn’t afford the tuition.  One of his professors became aware of his situation and encouraged him to take a test to apply for a scholarship.  Monroe did and he received a full scholarship, graduating from Seton Hall University with a degree in Business. Soon afterwards, he proposed, and Monroe and Carol were married on June 29, 1957.

Monroe cherished Carol and he was a thoroughly devoted husband to her over the nearly sixty-five years they were married.  He also loved Carol’s parents and they adored him, treating him as if he was their own son. Monroe always said he got “the whole package” by marrying into such a loving and kind family, and he in turn was very good to Carol’s parents as they got older, taking care of them every way he could.  

Together Monroe and Carol raised three beautiful and talented children, their daughters Jane and Susan and their son, David.  He and Carol enjoyed exposing their children to all the world had to offer.  They loved the theatre, visiting museums, and traveling with their children: they traveled to Europe, all around the United States, Hawaii, Mexico, and the Caribbean. Road trips with AAA TripTik’s as their guide were also commonplace.  Monroe would drive and Carol would be the tour guide, following the prompts of the AAA TripTik.  Carol was an artist with an artist’s temperament, while Monroe was the rock and the calm in the storm. The two balanced one another perfectly. They lived a very full and blessed life together until Carol’s passing on November 18, 2021.

After he married, Monroe found a job with the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company, and he prospered there, rising to Agency Vice President.  Monroe was always more interested in others than himself.  He loved people, was a good speaker, and most of all an outstanding listener. Unique for his time, Monroe was an inclusive leader, and he would teach others how to leverage their best qualities to their advantage at work. Monroe was able to take a struggling office and turn it around into a nationally recognized producer for the company. His family would attend Met Life conventions with Monroe and saw him receive many accolades – professional and personal – over the years. Monroe worked for the Metropolitan Life Insurance Company his entire career, retiring in 1996.

Despite his many achievements at work, Monroe felt that his greatest accomplishment was without a doubt his family.  He was ahead of his time in his approach to raising a family and he epitomized what it was to be a great husband, father, and grandfather. As a young father in the 1970’s, for example, he would wake his three children in the morning by asking them what they wanted for breakfast and lunch.  Carol called him a “short-order cook,” as he would individually make their breakfast and lunch orders.  Most school lunches he made consisted of a sandwich, a piece of fruit, cookies, and money for milk and ice cream.  Speaking of ice cream, Monroe had a lifelong love of it that he happily shared with his children and grandchildren every chance he got.

Monroe especially loved spending time with his six grandchildren – Adrienne, Chris, Ben, Luke, Leslie and Jordan – and he led them on trips well into his 80’s.  Visits to all kinds of places were planned, including the Intrepid, Liberty Science Center, Cirque du Soleil, the Bronx and Turtleback zoos, Children’s Theatre at NJ PAC and Broadway shows in New York City, as well as teaching his grandchildren to swim.

Monroe and Carol were generous people who had many friends, looked after too many animals to mention and actively participated in their church and community.  Monroe also followed the ethos that a healthy body is a healthy mind, spending hours in the pool swimming or working out at the gym.  He stayed physically fit all his life and prided himself on his mobility, as that allowed him to help others.

Monroe will always be remembered for his words of encouragement and his positive outlook in everything he did. He was resilient, supportive, generous and he truly loved life.  Recently, as he contemplated his own passing, he shared that he had no regrets. Monroe was grateful for the life he led, proud of his family, and appreciated his good fortune to lead a life and devote his energy to the things he valued most.  Most of all, however, his family are grateful for him – for leading by example, for his unfaltering support and for his unconditional love.  They know above all how lucky they were to have such a remarkable, special man as their father, grandfather, brother, and friend, which is what also makes saying goodbye so hard.

Monroe is survived by his three beloved children and their partners: Jane Aboyoun and her wife Emma van Rooyen of Manhasset, NY, David Aboyoun of New York, NY, Susan LoFrumento and her partner Ivan Kimball of Morristown, NJ; his six adored grandchildren: Adrienne, Jordan and Leslie Aboyoun, and Christopher, Benjamin, and Luke LoFrumento; and his sisters Mary Rigoloso-White and Lynn Snihur.  Monroe was preceded in death by his siblings John, George, Charles, Michael, Elias and Anna Ablahani, and Lee, Joan, Sam, Ned, and Edward Aboyoun.

In lieu of flowers, Monroe asked that donations in his memory be sent to: St Marys Church, 17 Pompton Ave., Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Dorothy Patricia O’Connor, born on May 22, 1931 died peacefully in Wayne, NJ on Monday, August 29, 2022.

Dorothy was born in Brooklyn, NY, the first-born of James and Rose (Cummings) O’Connor’s three children.  She was joined by her baby sister, Mary (Nihill, dec. 2005) and several years later she welcomed her baby brother, Jimmy O’Connor (dec. 2013).

As a young lady, Dorothy loved to stay up late and wait for her dad to return from work, as he worked the late shift.  They would spend special time together enjoying chocolate pudding, which led to him affectionately calling Dorothy “Pudding Head”.

Dorothy had a deep and strong devotion to her Catholic faith.  As a young woman over 70 years ago, she joined the convent and became a Carmelite nun.  Her faith never waivered throughout her life.  Her religious name was Sister Mary Armata, DC.

As she grew older, Dorothy became known and loved as Aunt Dorothy, with three generations of nieces and nephews including: Mary Rose Nihill, Maureen Cretella, Colleen Youngman (2015), Greg Nihill (2001), Jimmy O’Connor, Jr. (2015), Dorothy Cudia (2020), Patricia Szlembarski, and Irene Yalicki; great-nieces and great-nephews: John Youngman, Anne Marie Mazloom, James Youngman, Amanda Cretella, Amy Cretella, Kelly Titus, Joey Cretella, Alexa Cudia,  Jimmy O’Connor III, and Rachel Cudia; and great-great nieces and great-great nephews: Robert Titus, Connor Titus, John Youngman, Audrey Youngman, Angelina Mazloom, Scarlett Mazloom, and Joseph John Cretella.

Rosaria C Abrescia, (nee Caruso), age 97 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, August 26, 2022 surrounded by her loving family. She received devoted care by Lineth Burke, her caregiver for over ten years whom she adored.

Rosaria was born and raised in Newark, NJ and was the oldest of four children to Ralph and Ida Caruso.  While growing up in Newark, Rosaria attended Arts High School where she was a member of the Girls’ Varsity Fencing Team.  Following her graduation from high school with the class of 1943, Rosaria enrolled in Pratt Institute in New York City where she studied Fashion Design.  Sewing and clothing design was a skill that Rosaria would flourish in and fine tune throughout her life.  In the mid 1940’s Rosaria was attending the Italian Feast of SS Maria Buonocammino in Fairview, NJ.  While there, she caught the eye of a handsome young man by the name of Nicholas Abrescia.  Nicholas was a young GI who had been stationed in India during the Second World War and had recently returned home.  Nicholas and Rosaria met and started dating.  She initially played hard to get, but he was persistent and finally won her heart. As fate would have it they fell in love and on September 25, 1949, Nicholas and Rosaria became husband and wife.

The newlyweds first settled in Newark with family.  While living in Newark, Nicholas and Rosaria welcomed the birth of their first two daughters, Nina followed by Ida.  Rosaria and her family also lived in Jersey City for a short time then bought their first home in North Arlington where they welcomed the births of their next two daughters, Donna then Patricia.

Shortly after getting married and having children, Rosaria decided that she would set her sights on being a full time homemaker.  This was Rosaria’s true calling and where she sincerely flourished.  She remained a homemaker for several years, then in 1960 she put her dressmaking skill to the test and opened her own business in North Arlington, called Rosaria’s Bridal Shop.  Rosaria owned and operated her business for many years designing a wide variety of bridal dresses and women’s formal wear.   Rosaria eventually closed her business to care for her husband Nicholas who was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis.  Rosaria later worked as an apparel buyer for Muir Department Store in Orange, NJ.

In 1978 they built their dream home in Wayne, NJ.

Rosaria loved gardening and growing flowers and vegetables in her yard all year round.  Her front and back yards were always meticulously manicured and had a wide variety of flowers and vegetables to pick from.  She was a wonderful cook and was famous through family and friends for her eggplant, manicotti and cream puffs. She treasured hosting the holidays and all the family events at her home.  An event as simple as Sunday dinner was always made out to be a feast of sorts.  She was an outstanding baker, baking cakes for all her family’s occasions.  Throughout the years she constantly called upon her dressmaking skills to design all of her family’s wedding, prom, baptism, and communion dresses.  It was clear that Rosaria’s true passion in life was her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Rosaria than providing for and spending time with her children grandchildren and great grandchildren.  One of her favorite past times was babysitting her grandchildren who came to know her affectionately as “Gram.”  Rosaria and her family share a lifetime of wonderful memories including frequenting Atlantic City and Virginia Beach for summer vacations every year.  She and her husband Nicholas cherished forty-one years of loving and loyal marriage until Nicholas’ passing in 1990.

Rosaria was not only devoted to her family but also to her Catholic Faith. She was a parishioner of Annunciation Church of the Blessed Virgin Mary in Wayne for many years.  There she also served as a Eucharistic Minister and was past president of the Parish Prime Timers Group.  Rosaria also volunteered at St Joseph’s Hospital in Wayne, then known as Wayne General Hospital, where she gave out communion to patients.

Rosaria was a loving and generous woman who loved her family deeply.  She had an outstanding work ethic; she was strong willed and tenacious in everything that she did.  Having taken care of her husband for many years made her even stronger.  Rosaria was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Rosaria is survived by her four daughters; Nina Constantino and her husband Salvatore Sr. of Bolivia, NC, Ida Cantrella Pfeuffer and her husband Alfred of Nutley, NJ, Donna Guidetti of Wayne, NJ, and Patricia Taylor and her husband Richard of Bloomingdale, NJ, four grandchildren’ Steven Taylor and his wife Jennifer of Mahwah, NJ, Nicole Serapiglia and her husband Nicholas of Wayne, NJ, Christopher Taylor and his wife Ana of Wayne, NJ, and Denene Guidetti of Wayne, NJ, Anthony and his wife Kimberly Guidetti of Upper Saddle River, NJ,  eight great grandchildren; Dylan, Sienna, Brandon, Aviana, London, Lucci, Jaxton, and Matteo, and many nieces and nephews.  She was predeceased by her husband Nicholas Abrescia, her granddaughter Jennifer Cantrella, her son in law Jeffrey Guidetti, two sisters; Sue Iafelice, and Lena Lancelotti, and her brother Anthony Caruso.

In lieu of flowers, donation in Rosaria’s name may be made to National Processing Center Alzheimer’s Association, Greater NJ Chapter, PO Box 96011, Washington DC 20090 http://www.alz.org or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital Memorials Processing501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959 http://www.stjude.org or National Multiple Sclerosis Society 733 third Ave, 3rd Floor, New York, NY 10017 http://www.nationalmssociety.org

Jill Allen Strauss, age 70, of North Haledon, NJ passed away peacefully on August 26, 2022.

Born in Brooklyn, NY, the oldest of twin daughters to Harriet Goldstein and Albert Allen, Jill attended elementary and junior high school in the Bronx, alongside twin sister Fran and older brother Jeffrey, where she found a circle of lifelong friends and discovered a passion for acting. Every Saturday, Jill would travel by subway from the Bronx to NYC with her devoted mother and sister Fran so she could take method acting classes at The Ansonia Theatre on 73rd St.

Following the passing of her father, Jill’s mother Harriet married Ralph Rizzo, a Marine veteran with two children Charles and Janise. The blended family then settled in New Milford, NJ, where city girl Jill had to adjust to life as a Jersey girl.

On a summer night along the Jersey Shore, Jill met her husband Deke as he fronted a rock band and Jill was studying speech at Montclair State University. During their 47-year marriage, they raised two children, daughter Daryn and son Joshua, with a love of music, drama, and constant laughter, settling in Wayne, NJ. Jill’s love and dedication to her family soared through every moment of her life. From the backstages of smoky bars to weddings to dance recitals to film shoots, Jill was always there, making sure everyone was OK.

A leader and problem solver with a huge heart, Jill was known for her infectious smile and for getting things done. A Former President of the National Association of Insurance Women (NAIW), Jill managed large books of commercial and personal insurance lines across New Jersey for over 35 years. Jill’s entrepreneurial spirit also saw her successfully run her own business, bridal gift store Expressions. She is remembered fondly by thousands of couples all over NJ for her kindness during the planning of their weddings over the course of 10+ years.

A radiant personality with the feisty soul and strength of a movie heroine, Jill’s heart and compassion were felt by everyone who crossed paths with her. She will be lovingly remembered for her ability to bring joy and warmth to every room she entered and as a fierce advocate for everyone around her.

Jill was a longtime member of High Mountain Church where her desire to help people led her to many different areas of ministry ranging from Sunday School teacher to Compassionate Ministry leader to Church Board elder and Maranatha Church of the Nazarene where her brother and sister are pastors and where Jill served as a Sunday School teacher.

Jill is predeceased by her brother Jeff and will be greatly missed by her husband Dennis, children Daryn and Joshua, sisters Fran and Janise, brother Charles, her many nieces, nephews, and grand nieces and grand nephews who love their silly aunt, and her congregations at High Mountain Church and Maranatha Church of the Nazarene.

To honor Jill, please send donations to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.

James T. O’Sullivan, age 80 of Manahawkin, NJ died peacefully on Friday, August 26, 2022. Jim had lived in Brooklyn for sixty years before retiring in 2001 to Beech Mountain Lake in the Poconos, and he lived more recently in Manahawkin, NJ.

Jim was an electrical engineer with the New York Transit Authority and IBEW Local 3 throughout his entire career before retiring in 2001. He was a bit of legend during his tenure there, and he was especially proud for having been part of the team of engineers that developed a new and specialized switching system for the subway. He truly enjoyed his years there, and the many good friends he made in the tunnels. He was a gifted engineer, and even after retiring in 2001, he continued consulting for many more years.

Jim was born in the Prospect Heights section of Brooklyn, NY, the youngest of four children in his family. He went on to graduate from Chelsea Vocational High School and promptly joined the U.S. Army. He took full advantage of the G.I. Bill after his discharge and graduated from Brooklyn College with a degree in electrical engineering. He accomplished all of this while being married, having children, and working a full-time job (and sometimes two jobs!). He was committed to making a good life for his family, and he worked hard to do just that throughout his entire career.

While serving in the U.S. Army, Jim was stationed in Frankfurt, Germany and it was here that he met a cute German girl named Heidemarie Vehse. Thus began a love affair that has lasted nearly sixty years! Although Heidi’s parents were not so supportive of the relationship at first, Jim proposed to Heidi upon her first visit to the United States in 1962, and they were married just three months later. They settled in Brooklyn to build a life together and raise their family. Jim was a naturally loving husband and a great father. He became a sort of ‘neighborhood father’ to many kids on the block and he was always there to help someone in need. Together with Heidi, they built a very strong, loving, and close-knit family. Their home was the place where aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends alike would gather, and Jim provided plenty of comedy and laughter for everyone. After retiring, Jim and Heidi moved to Beech Mountain, PA, in the Poconos. Jim became an avid boater and loved cruising around on the lake. In 2016, Jim and Heidi moved to live with their daughter in Manahawkin, NJ and have been there ever since.

Jim is survived by his wife of fifty-nine years; Heidemarie (nee Vehse), their three children; Corinna Byrne and her husband Kevin of Wayne, Eileen Erwin-Michael and her husband Jared of Verona, and Sean O’Sullivan of W. Babylon, NY, ten grandchildren; Meghan (Kevin Solomon), Matthew, Elizabeth, Brendan, Erin, Thomas, Caleigh, James, David, and Katie, a sister; Ann Denning of Staten Island, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sister Maureen in 2015, and by his brother Jack in 2014.

Lisa Ann Maguire (nee Cassie), age 61, of Stockholm passed away peacefully on Thursday, August 25, 2022 while receiving the loving care of her family and after a courageous battle with cancer.

Lisa was born in Passaic and was raised in Wayne, NJ.  She was the older of two daughters to Frank and Martha Cassie.  Following her high school graduation in 1978, she found employment quickly with the Wayne Board of Education as a bus driver.  Lisa remained a bus driver for about nine years.  She was a homemaker for a number of years and then returned to the workplace later in her life accepting a position as a Bus Driver Aide, again for the Wayne Board of Education.  Lisa held this position until her illness forced her to stop working a short time ago.

In the early 1990’s, Lisa met a handsome young man by the name of Michael Maguire at a local tavern while getting together with some friends.  Michael and Lisa hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married in November of 1995.  The couple settled in Wayne and while living there, they welcomed the births of their two children Michael and Cassandra.  Lisa and Michael called Wayne their home until 2007 when they moved to Stockholm, NJ.

Lisa enjoyed riding Harley Davidson motorcycles and treasured traveling to Daytona Beach Florida for “Bike Week” every year.  She enjoyed doing jigsaw puzzles and gardening.  Her back and front yards were always meticulously manicure and decorated with a variety of beautiful flowers.  She also had an extensive collection of wind chimes that adorned her porch and back yard.  Lisa was an animal lover and rescued a number of dogs, cats, and other animals throughout her years.  She also spent several years breeding Pugs.

Above all of Lisa’s talents, hobbies, and interests, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Lisa than providing for and spending time with her children, family, and friends.  Lisa was a truly dedicated wife and mother.  She and her husband Michael cherished twenty-five years of loving and loyal marriage until Michael’s passing in 2020.  She and her family treasured frequenting the Jersey Shore at Seaside Heights every summer for family vacations.

Lisa had a bubbly personality and could light up any room she walked into with her infectious laugh and sense of humor.  She was a truly “Happy Go Lucky” girl, easy going, and enjoyed the simple things in life.  Lisa was a sincerely special person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Lisa is survived by her daughter Cassandra Maguire and her husband Daniel Evans of Lafayette, NJ, her son Michael Maguire of Stockholm, NJ, her stepson William Maguire of Athens, TN, one sister Lorelei Moskowitz of Stockholm, NJ and four grandchildren; Lindsay, Sheri, Kennedy, and Jack.  She was predeceased by her husband Michael Maguire in 2020, and by her mother Christine Parese, and her father John McDermott.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Lisa’s name to http://www.fuckcancer.org would be greatly appreciated.

Waine Sarah Haines (née Porter) of Oakland passed away peacefully at home on Tuesday, August 23, 2022, at the age of 80.

Waine, better known as Sarah, was born in Bennettsville, South Carolina and was one of three children to James and Victoria Porter.  When Sarah was about five years old, her family moved from South Carolina to Brooklyn, NY, where she spent her formative years. There she attended Ft Hamilton High School and was involved in Trinity Club, the volleyball team and was voted MVP for the Girls’ Varsity Basketball Team. After graduating high school in 1959, Sarah enrolled at the Brooklyn Hospital School of Nursing and received her certification as a Registered Nurse in 1962.

Sarah furthered her education earning a Bachelor’s Degree from Jersey City State College in 1978 and a Master’s Degree from the California College for Health Sciences in 1998.   Over the course of her career, Sarah worked at a number of medical institutions including Beth Israel Hospital in Passaic, NJ, Alps Manor Nursing Home in Wayne, NJ and Oakland Care Center in Oakland, NJ.  Beyond her clinical work, Sarah was engaged as an LPN Instructor at Passaic County Technical Institute in Wayne, NJ, where she taught students from 1979 until 1986.  Later, Sarah moved to California where she served as the Director and Psychiatric Technician Instructor at Hacienda La Puente Unified School District, until she retired in 1998 to care for her second husband who had fallen ill.  After her husband passed, Sarah spent time tutoring nursing students studying for the Nursing Board exams.  

On the 23rd of September in 1962, Sarah married Marvin Marshall Liss.  Together Sarah and Marvin lived in Passaic where they welcomed the births of their two children, Allan and Michele.  Shortly after the birth of their daughter, the family moved to Lincoln Park, NJ, and later, Wayne, NJ where they settled to raise their children. Eventually Sarah parted ways with her first husband and was later introduced to Olympus (Oly) Ernest Haines, the brother of her close friend and colleague Athena Fitzgerald.  The two fell in love and married on September 27, 1987 in Las Vegas, NV and settled in southern California. She and her husband Oly cherished eleven years of committed and loving marriage together until Oly’s passing in 1998.

Sarah was very active in a variety of programs at the Oakland Senior Center, particularly the Arts Program. She was a voracious reader and was a member of a variety of book clubs in her area including the Oakland Senior Center and the Oakland Public Library.  She most enjoyed  romance novels, mystery novels, and watching crime drama programs on television, and  considered herself a writer of sorts. Sarah worked on her own novel over the years and was quite artistically talented,  creating a number of watercolor paintings and pencil drawings.  Most important to Sarah, however, was her family. She was a dedicated wife, mother, and grandmother.  

Sarah dedicated her life to caring for others.  In her family, career, and friendship, Sarah demonstrated a remarkable level of devotion, selflessness, and generosity. She touched many lives and will be missed dearly.

Sarah is survived by her daughter Michele McInnes and her husband David of Brooklyn, NY, one brother James Franklin Porter, Jr. of Brooklyn, NY, three grandchildren; J. Hammerman of Brooklyn, NY, Lucky McInnes Connelly of New York City, NY, and Brigid McInnes Connelly of Los Angeles, CA, four stepchildren; Linda Klass of Long Island, NY, Doreen Haines of Colorado, Michael Haines of Indiana, and Andrew Haines of South Carolina.  She was predeceased by her husband Olympus Ernest Haines (1998), her son Allan Brian Liss (1996), her brother William Joseph Porter (1955), and her stepson Jeffery Jerome Haines (2017).

In lieu of flowers, donations are welcome in Sarah’s name to the Humane Society of the United States,1255 23rd St. NW, Suite 450, Washington, DC 20037  http://www.humanesociety.org

Shirley A. Cantwell, age 93, of Lincoln Park and formerly of Packanack Lake in Wayne, passed peacefully at her home on Tuesday, August 23, 2022, while in the company of her loving family.

The youngest of Bert and Sarah “Sadie” (O’Rourke) Waldorf’s six children, Shirley was born and raised in Dubuque, Iowa.

After completing high school, Shirley worked as a secretary for a year. She had a niece named Gloria and, while Shirley was technically Gloria’s “Aunt Shirley” the two were so close in age that they were more like friends. Gloria happened to also be an aspiring singer and piano player who performed on the road in many varied venues but, living in an age when female musicians would never travel alone, Gloria needed a chaperone. Who better than Shirley? It turned out to be a win-win arrangement and consequently, the two of them had a lot of fun and got to see much of the Midwest. One Sunday morning, Shirley’s niece Gloria and Gloria’s boyfriend Ray attended mass at St. Joan of Arc Church in Okauchee Lake, Wisconsin. That morning, Gloria invited her Aunt Shirley and Ray invited his friend Tom Cantwell. During that encounter, Shirley and Tom hit it off rather well. That morning in church served as a springboard into a loving relationship which ultimately led to their marriage on Saturday, April 25, 1953 in that same church where Shirley and Tom first met. After the wedding ceremony, the newlyweds took a road trip to Florida for their honeymoon.

Shirley and Tom’s first home together was in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. As time went on, they started a family and Shirley settled into her much-enjoyed role of wife, mother, and homemaker. Tom’s profession in sales necessitated numerous moves all over the U.S. With the purchase in 1970 of a home at 100 Oakwood Drive, they ultimately landed in a little lake community in the town of Wayne called Packanack Lake. By this point, they were the parents of six children. Unfortunately, in 1987, at the young age of just 61, Tom passed away. Shirley remained in their home in Wayne until 1992 when she moved to Lincoln Park where she was living to the present.

Shirley was the consummate mother and homemaker who viewed her role to be as important as in reality, it truly was. With Tom frequently away on business, Shirley was the nurturing and stabilizing force in her children’s lives. It wasn’t always easy raising her family but she did it with just the right measure of grace and grit. Up until about 1980, she could still beat any of her kids in an arm-wrestling challenge. Her son Kevin recalls the time he came home to find his minibike in the garbage can. Kevin wasn’t sure how Mom managed to lift it into that can, but he knew she didn’t want him to have it because she said it’s too dangerous and didn’t want him to get hurt. Shirley was also the best cook in the world!  She herself was a real foodie, never finding a food she didn’t like. Her family loved her cooking as did her children’s friends. Mrs. Cantwell always made enough food to feed an army!  There was always plenty, and her children’s friends were always welcome to stay for dinner!  Shirley loved the family trips they took to Long Beach Island and was always welcoming with her “you’re welcome to eat here and stay the night.”  She was also a great baker! Come late October, the house began to smell like Christmas from all the cookies that Shirley began baking from that time, right up to December 25th. With six growing kids, most of those cookies never made it out of the house but Shirley managed to hide just enough of them to give to extended family and friends. Shirley was also the “hostess with the most-est”.  She found great joy in hosting all the big holiday get-togethers and it only became more loud and more crowded in the house when her precious grandchildren came along. Speaking of her grandchildren; as a new grandma, Shirley thought it would be fun to always have a jar of M&M’s out when they came to visit so that they could help themselves. It became a great tradition but quite frankly, her grandchildren were far from the only ones to frequently dip their hands in that jar. In addition to hosting her own family, Shirley was a frequent entertainer of her and Tom’s friends.

Shirley was an avid reader. A regular at the Wayne Public Library she was known for frequently checking out the new arrivals and reading them as fast as the librarians could put them on the shelf. She read the Record newspaper from cover to cover daily, and she kept her mind sharp by completing the paper’s crossword puzzle or by playing scrabble, especially with her son-in-law Rob or her best friend Betty. Every day at 5 PM, it was time for her daily martini with crackers and cheese. That tradition started with her husband Tom and continued for the rest of Shirley’s life, oftentimes later in life with her friend Betty while the two of them talked on the phone. In later years Shirley’s kids gifted her with an iPad. She took a great liking to Facebook as it afforded her with the ability to keep up with the happenings of her family.

With her job as mom largely behind her, Shirley got to accompany Tom on his business trips throughout the USA and much of Europe. They loved traveling together and it was a great way to see many interesting places. Shirley also enjoyed the comradery of Tom’s business associates and wives.  

Along with Shirley’s love for her family was her love and devotion to God. A lifetime church attender, when the family moved to Wayne, she joined Immaculate Heart of Mary Church and when she moved to Lincoln Park, she became a faithful parishioner of St. Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church.

Shirley’s family described her as a remarkable woman! She was a sincerely kind, patient and accepting person and the greatest mother and grandmother who never stopped worrying about her family because of her great love and devotion to them.  

Shirley was the beloved wife of Thomas Cantwell, blessed in a loving marriage until his passing in 1987. She was the most loving mother of: Thomas Cantwell, IV and his wife Patricia of Franklin Lakes, Kathleen Anthony and her late husband Lee of Dana Point, CA, Timothy Cantwell and his wife Sandra of Wayne, Kevin Cantwell and his wife Michele of Wayne, Terrence Cantwell and his wife Sheila of Montville, and Cynthia Balfour and her husband Robert of Pompton Lakes; adoring grandmother of Erik and wife Alyssa, Thomas, V and wife Hanna, Kristen and husband Thomas, Jeanette, Dannielle and husband Taylor, Jessica, Colleen, Kelly, Terry, Kyle, and Sarah; cherished great-grandmother of Annabella and Thomas, VI; and dear aunt of numerous nieces and nephews. Shirley was predeceased by her five siblings: Mildred, Lorraine, Hazel, Sister Pat, and Bill.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Shirley’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

You can also donate online by clicking here (www.stjude.org)