Michael Angelo Lorusso, age 66, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away peacefully on Friday, December 19, 2025 with his loving family by his side.

Mike was born to Angelo Lorusso and Jenny Gradzki in Brooklyn, New York and later relocated to West Orange, New Jersey with his brother, Vinny. He graduated from West Orange High School in 1977, where he played varsity football and enjoyed playing tennis, softball, and ice skating with friends. He continued his education at William Paterson University, earning a Bachelor of Arts degree in accounting in 1981.

In 1987, Mike started his own accounting practice, Lorusso & Company, which he ran for 17 years and later continued as a consulting firm throughout his professional journey. He became an accounting and tax manager at Cullari Carrico, LLC, before moving to The Dunn Group as a controller. In 2015, Mike began providing his accounting services to The Meglio Group where he worked for eight years before resuming his full-time practice.

Mike dedicated 45 years to the volunteer fire service in Wayne at POL Company #2 and Foresport Fire Department in Forestport, New York. He held various ranks including Lieutenant, Captain, Assistant Chief, and Chief. In 2003, he assumed the role of Fire Commissioner where he oversaw Wayne’s five fire companies. He also held an administrative position as Company #2’s Treasurer which aligned perfectly with his profession. In Forestport, he achieved Lieutenant and Captain after bringing the “big city” firefighting experience to small town New York. His knowledge made him a valuable asset in training and operating procedures which allowed him to move through the ranks rather quickly, all while still learning firematics, after decades of experience, from his friends in Forestport.

Mike’s favorite hobby was snowmobiling in Old Forge with his daughter Gina, and friends Joe, Tammy, Jack, and John. He developed a love for Ski-Doo snowmobiles and BRP ATVs, refusing to purchase any other brand because the exhaust sounded just right, not too pitchy. In 2022, he briefly moved to a beautiful cabin just outside Adirondack Park in Forestport, where he enjoyed the fresh mountain air and could access the snowmobile trails right from his own driveway.

There, he prepared many delicious home-cooked meals after long days of riding, especially on holiday weekends when his daughter and friends would drive up to enjoy the snow and scenery. His favorite feature of the house was the wood stove which not only kept the home warm, but also kept his coffee warm as well when he would place his mug on the top of it. He enjoyed sitting in the backyard by the fire as he watched his dog, Hazel, run around the five-acre property, sniffing for any deer that may have passed through. He loved cooking and grilling, tackling home projects, playing golf, and watching and attending hockey games with Gina. His sense of humor could light up any room, and he made everyone feel welcomed and cared for — it’s the Lorusso way.

Gina was the center of Mike’s world, and he was her biggest supporter in anything she did. Above all, he was her best friend. He read every article she wrote for her college newspaper and cherished watching her grow and succeed every step of the way. He never failed to mention her in conversation, always making sure people knew how proud he was of her. He was a wonderful father, teacher of life lessons, and made the best school lunches, always excited to pack her the new flavor of Oreo he found at the food store. He attended every soccer game and school event to make sure Gina always had someone in the crowd. They bonded over a shared love of coffee, their favorite movie Slap Shot, and long walks with Hazel. So much of Mike’s personality shines in his daughter, from his dedication to his work to his quiet strength and unwavering loyalty to the people he loved.

Mike is predeceased by his parents Jenny Gradzki and Angelo Lorusso, and his beloved son, Anthony who suddenly and unexpectedly passed away at the age of 16 in 2002.

He is survived by his cherished daughter Gina, his brother Vinny, cousin Linda Lopez Papetti and her husband Joe, cousin Steven Shovelson and his wife Mickie, and cousins Jeff and Tammy Shovelson.

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The family requests in lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the following organizations:

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- Wayne POL Fire Company #2 | PO Box 1, Wayne, NJ 07470

- Trackside Blazers Snowmobile Club Inc. | PO Box 334, Forestport, NY 13338

- Forestport Fire Department, Forestport Firefighters Inc. | 11965 River Rd, Forestport, NY 13338

Shirley P. MacLeod, age 91 of Lakewood, passed away on Friday, December 19, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson as an only child to Sterli and Louise Molteni, Shirley grew up with a love for ballroom dancing and cherished memories of family picnics and trips to the beach in Atlantic City. During these early years, she also developed a passion for photography that would stay with her throughout her life.

After graduating from Central High School in Paterson, Shirley began her professional career as a secretary at Prudential Incorporated before moving to Metropolitan Life, where she worked until her retirement in the late 1990s.

Shirley met and fell in love with Anton Hartman, and the two married. He lovingly became a father to her daughter Karen, and together they shared a happy marriage until his untimely passing in 1969. After his passing, Shirley found comfort and companionship with James MacLeod, with whom she spent the next twenty-five years until his passing in 2006.

Though not naturally athletic, Shirley embraced roller skating when her daughter Karen took up the sport, and it became a beloved family tradition. The two would go to the Paramus Roller Rink regularly, where they joined a skating group that became like family. Every Sunday, the group gathered at Cold Spring Lake to enjoy the beach and share picnics together. 

In her later years, Shirley enjoyed collecting dolls, especially the Shirley Temple Dolls after which she was named. She was an active member of the Leisure Village Doll Club and found peace watching the waves roll in at the ocean and spending time with her family. Easy-going yet occasionally stubborn, Shirley was quiet but very sociable and quick to make friends. She will be dearly missed.

Shirley is predeceased by her husband Anton Hartman, her companion James MacLeod, and her parents Sterli Molteni and Louise Molteni. 

Shirley is survived by her daughter Karen Zimin and her Husband Al Zimin; her grandkids: Alex Zimin and his wife Paula Zimin, and Paul Zimin and his wife Robin Butler; and her great grandkids: Lautner and Landon Zimin, and Lainey and Liv Zimin.

Laura DeBrock, 61, of Towaco, passed away peacefully on Thursday, December 18, 2025. 

Laura was born in Livingston and raised in Cedar Grove. She was the firstborn of Joseph and Nancy (MacFarlane) Freda’s three children. 

A graduate of Cedar Grove High School’s Class of 1982, Laura, after completing her education, worked at the Fortunoffs Store in Wayne’s Willowbrook Mall. While there, she established deep friendships that spanned more than forty years with two of her coworkers, Cheryl, and Pam. That job also proved pivotal in her life, as it was where she met the man she would eventually marry - Christopher “Chris” DeBrock. 

Chris’s sister, Eileen, also worked at Fortunoffs, and one day she brought Laura home, where Laura and Chris met for the first time. Around that same time, Eileen had purchased a new home, which served as the perfect excuse for Chris to ask Laura if she wanted to take a ride together to see it. A few days later, Chris was supposed to meet a friend at the 94th Bomb Grill in Fairfield. The friend never showed up, but—wouldn’t you know - Laura was there. From that point on, for both Laura and Chris, there was never a thought of turning back. 

Their dating relationship ultimately led to a marriage proposal by Chris, which took place at the former With Love Restaurant in Lincoln Park. Seizing the moment, Chris dropped to one knee right in the middle of the dining room, in front of all the other patrons. He popped the question, and, caught completely off guard, Laura smiled and said “yes,” as the entire restaurant erupted into applause. 

They exchanged wedding vows on Sunday, May 19, 1991, at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church in Pompton Plains. It was a beautiful, sunny spring day - perfect for a wedding. A reception followed at the former Mayfair Farms in West Orange, and they then honeymooned in Aruba. 

After the wedding and honeymoon, Laura and Chris began married life in their home at 19 Albert Street in Pompton Lakes. While there, they were blessed with two children, Christopher and Kelsy. It was during this time that Laura established a cherished friendship with her neighbor, Janine. After several more moves, Laura and Chris settled in their present home in Towaco, but their friendship with Janine and her husband, Perry, never ended. Laura and Chris enjoyed time spent together at Janine and Perry’s home in Florida, and every weekend their families gathered at one another’s homes for cake and coffee. 

Laura poured herself into her children. For all the years that Kelsy played youth softball, Laura served as the head coach. She never missed any of her son Chris’s football or lacrosse games, and she was always happy to play bus driver for her children and all their friends. Sometimes she would even take them all to the diner after a game, and her home was a welcoming place where her children’s friends loved to visit. She was simply a great mom. 

In between her “Mommy” activities, Laura worked for many years as a dental assistant for several dental practices. 

Laura enjoyed working in her gardens, tending to her flowers and vegetables. She was also every dog in the world’s best friend. If the names of every dog touched by Laura’s love were written down, they would fill a page and more. Some notable ones included Hunter, Calvin, and Benny. She never passed up an opportunity to give an animal a second chance. Just ask Benny - a dog who remained unclaimed at a shelter for more than two years. Moved by compassion for this pooch who had no chance of winning a beauty contest, Laura finally took him home and gave him the love that every living creature deserves. Laura’s love of animals extended far beyond dogs. She also helped care for cats, birds, parakeets, and even tarantulas and lizards. If Dr. Doolittle had a wife, it could have been Laura. 

Above all else, Laura cherished her family. Recently blessed with two grandchildren, she loved being their “Nuny”. She adored them with all her heart, and despite her physical limitations, those two little angels were welcomed any day of the week and every weekend. Laura was a truly generous and giving person. It was not unusual to arrive at her home and hear her say, “Hey! Open that box. I saw it, thought about you, and thought you’d like it.” Or she would call her daughter and say, “Hey, put on the QVC channel right now. Whatta ya think? I want to get that for you. What size should I get?” 

Laura was the captain of her ship - no grass ever grew under her feet. She knew what she wanted, and she made it happen. Laura and her husband Chris were the ultimate hosts, always eager to welcome friends and family into their home. There was always plenty of laughter, and Laura made sure there was more than enough food - so guests could head home with a nice helping of leftovers. 

Laura’s warm personality and the energy she brought into a room will be dearly missed by all who were privileged to share life with her. In recent years, after losing mobility, her family got her a Google Home speaker. While it was helpful for making and receiving calls, getting information, or listening to music, it also became a great source of entertainment for her family as they listened to her interact with the device. Her children and grandchildren will deeply miss FaceTime calls with Nuny. Laura had a knack for calling right before dinner, naps, or whenever she could find an excuse. 

Laura was the kind of person who was always there for you. She lived to help others. 

Laura was the beloved wife of Chris DeBrock, blessed in marriage for 34 years. She was the loving mother of Christopher and his wife, Jillian DeBrock, of Oak Ridge, NJ, and Kelsy and her husband, Albert Tyma, of Green Township, NJ; the adoring grandmother of Owen and Alexandra; the dearest sister of James and his wife, Marianne Freda, of Kinnelon, and Craig and his late wife, Kelly Freda, of Hope, NJ; and the dear aunt of Gavin, Casey, Mackenzie, Hayden, and Kiernan. 

Because of her great love and big heart for all of God’s creatures, in lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Laura’s name are asked to consider the Montville Animal Shelter, 7 Church Lane, Montville, NJ 07045.

Emma Lorell (Gordon) Thompson peacefully journeyed into heaven on Wednesday, December 17 , 2025. She was 95 years old.

Emma, known better by her nickname, "Peggy" was born on August 28, 1930, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She was the beloved daughter and only child of the late Frances Henrietta (Jones) Gordon and Walter Avery Gordon.

Emma was serving as an American Red Cross Volunteer at the Veterans Hospital in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania in 1944 when she met her future husband, Edward Lewis Thompson (1924-2004). He was an injured and decorated soldier who served in the US Army. They were married in 1948 and moved first to his native home in Closter, New Jersey, then to Teaneck, New Jersey, and eventually made Wayne, New Jersey their home. They shared a loving and spiritual family life with their two children: Chery! Ann (1951-2008) and Edward A(1954-2016).

Emma was a strong and independent woman with a sharp and wonderful sense of humor and a contagious laugh. She found joy in her various Arts and Crafts, watching her favorite sports teams on television, and -most of all-staying connected with others. She was both a colleague and mentor to many other employees and students throughout her many years at William Paterson University. Her photo was used and featured in the University's New Student recruitment ads during its "Making a Difference" campaign, showcasing one of its employees on campus who was making a difference.

She certainly made a difference to everyone in her life, including co-workers, colleagues, students (and the children of students), and those she knew and loved as friends.

Miss Emma/Peggy was an endearing wife and mother. Her children and family were her heart, her joy, her everything. Both children were exceptional artists in their respective fields of Music and Art. Their parents have created endowed scholarships in their names at William Paterson University, their Alma Mater.

Her favorite book: The Holy Bible

Her favorite song: Over the Rainbow (James Taylor)

Her favorite poem: God Grant Me the Serenity (Rheinhold Niebuhr)

Emma's spirit, kindness, generosity and love wilt live in the hearts of all who knew and loved her. She will be remembered always for her strength, humor, advice (whether requested or not), and the deep love and respect for others she shared so freely.

Alice Catherine Larranaga (Herrmann), age 86, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at her home, in the presence of her loving family, on Wednesday, December 17, 2025.

Alice was the firstborn of Eugene and Irene (Muckenhoupt) Herrmann’s three children. She was born in New York City and raised in the Parkchester neighborhood of the Bronx.

Alice was a graduate of St. Helena’s High School in the Bronx and Hunter College in Manhattan, where she earned her bachelor’s degree with a major in mathematics. She married shortly after graduating from college and had three children, embracing her life as a mother and homemaker. 

In 1966, the Larranaga family moved to Wayne, NJ and purchased their home at 12 Cathy Ann Court.  Alice worked for the Township of Wayne in the personnel department, retiring after 30 years of service at age sixty-two. In 1985, she moved to her present home in the Lion’s Head Lake section of Wayne. She remained there for the rest of her life and, to her, it was truly “Home-Sweet-Home.”

Alice was gifted by God with a creative spirit and found many outlets for expression throughout her life. As a teenager, she was active in high school theater productions; as the mother of three children at Our Lady of the Valley Grammar School, Alice was active in the OLV Church music ministry and often led Masses as a solo singer accompanied by her guitar. Other musical outlets she cherished were her roles with the Stuart Smith Singers, performing in large productions twice each year and her role in an educational program called the Sweet Inspiration Vocal Trio. The group put on educational performances at schools and shopping malls. In retirement, she continued to develop her musical talents, learning to play the piano and enjoying bringing her guitar to her grandchildren’s schools to entertain the children.

When she was not performing, Alice loved spending time in bookstores and visiting the Wayne Public Library. She enjoyed losing herself in a good story and she made it a practice to donate her books once finished so others could experience them as well.

And then there were the art classes – an opportunity she seized upon in retirement to enrich her life and keep her mind sharp. Drawn to fresh air and sunshine, Alice especially enjoyed painting landscapes primarily utilizing oil-based acrylics as her medium of choice. She cherished fond memories of summers as a child with her mom, dad, and brothers at Squam Lake in New Hampshire and, as an adult, with family and friends at the Jersey Shore. Retirement also allowed more opportunities to gather with friends for lunch or dinner - something Alice relished, as it combined her love of exploring new foods with enjoying the company of those she held dear.

Above all, Alice treasured time spent with her family. She was a loving and devoted grandmother to her seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren.  Summer visits to “Camp Grandma” and bathtime are cherished memories for all the grandchildren. And back-yard gatherings at Bill & Joan’s house brought the entire family together, including extended family and friends.

Alice embodied the qualities that make a person a true blessing in the lives of others. Never one to complain, she was loving, caring, and selfless. Patient yet direct, you always knew where you stood with her—and it was usually in a good place. Her creativity sustained her through life’s challenges and inspired those around her to see the good in the world.

Alice was the loving mother of William Larranaga and his wife Joan of Wayne; Catherine Thiel of Marlton, NJ, and her late husband Frank (2024); Thomas Larranaga of Verona; and her daughter-in-law, Amy Bergen Larranaga of Park City, Utah. She was the cherished grandmother of John and his wife Tameka; Thomas and his partner, Luisanna; Colleen, Brian, Jason, Michael, and Jennifer; and the adoring great-grandmother of Arya, Grayson, and Jaylen. She was the dearest sister of Thomas Herrmann of Citrus Heights, CA, and Reverend Francis Herrmann of Chestnut Hill, MA, and a dear aunt to many nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Alice’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

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St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Alice C. Larranaga.

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For those of you who are unable to attend the mass services on Tuesday, please click on the link below to watch the livestream service.  

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Eleanor Wnorowski Adamchak, a loving mother, grandmother, and dedicated professional, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 14, 2025, in Wayne, New Jersey, after a brief illness. She was 89 years old.

Born on May 19, 1936, in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania, Eleanor was the daughter of the late John and Jeannette Wnorowski. She grew up in Wilkes-Barre and graduated from Meyers High School with the Class of 1953.

Eleanor began her career at The Times Leader Publishing Company before her marriage. She later applied her sharp skills in finance, working for GMAC as a loan processor across several locations, including Camden, White Plains, and Paterson. After taking time to be a dedicated homemaker while raising her three young children, she returned to the professional world, finishing her career as a clerk in the Note Department at First Union Bank until her retirement in 1995.

Eleanor met the love of her life, Cornelius “Whitey” Adamchak, at a high school football game. They were married on October 19, 1959, beginning their life together with a honeymoon in the Poconos and moved to Haddonfield, NJ.   They also lived in Yonkers, NY and Marlton, NJ before settling down in Wayne, NJ.  They shared a devoted marriage for 38 years until Whitey’s passing.

Eleanor enjoyed spending time reading, solving crosswords, playing cards, baking banana bread and cookies.  She loved to travel around the world, especially on Viking River Cruises, with friends and family. She attended many plays at the Paper Mill Playhouse and enjoyed quality time with the Golden Age Circle of Wayne community.   She was a devout member of Our Lady of the Valley Church.

Eleanor’s greatest pride was her family. She is survived by her three devoted children, Erik Adamchak (m. Angela) of Wayne, NJ; Susan (Adamchak) Smith (m. Dan Smith) of Springfield, NJ; and Cory (Adamchak) May (m. Ben May) of Saylorsburg, PA.

Her laugher and overwhelming affection will be missed by her cherished grandchildren: Brooke Adamchak, Sarah Adamchak, Colin Adamchak, Jordan Smith, Tyler Smith, Riley Smith, Nathan May and Claire May.

She is survived by her brother Joseph Wnorowski and sister-in-law Barbara Adamchak, and several nieces and nephews who love her dearly. 

She was preceded in death by her husband, Cornelius Adamchak, her sister, Jeannette (Wnorowski) Bukevicz, brothers, John Wnorowski, Eugene Wnorowski and her parents.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the V Foundation for Cancer Research (donate.v.org).

George Carmen Dent, age 98 of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, December 14, 2025.

Born and raised in Lyndhurst, NJ as one of four children to Patrick and Rose Dent, George grew up during difficult times but always described his childhood as idyllic. Though everyone had very little, there was a camaraderie and joy among neighbors that made those years special. He cherished fond memories of kids always playing outside in the neighborhood that you don’t see any more in today’s world. With World War II underway, George was accelerated through high school, graduating at just 16 years old to help support the war effort. True to that calling, he joined the United States Army Air Corps (the U.S. Air Force didn’t become an independent branch until 1947).

After his military service, George was set up on a blind date with a beautiful woman named Mary Mirti. The two hit it off immediately, and one date kept leading to another. They fell in love and married at the Military Hotel in Mary’s hometown of Newark. They settled in Wayne, NJ where they purchased a home together and were blessed with three beautiful children: Theresa, Patrick, and Julie. George and Mary enjoyed a loving marriage of over 60 years and ran a successful business together while raising their family. During their marriage, George and Mary also got enjoyment from their beach house in North Carolina as well as their travels to our National Parks, Hawaii and Brazil. When Mary became sick, George devoted himself to caring for her until her passing in 2019.

George had a passion for dancing, which started in his youth and never wavered. He competed as a ballroom dancer for a time but even after he stopped dancing competitively, he never lost his passion. He danced his whole life well into his 90’s! He was famous for his Jitterbug and especially loved moving to Big Band music. Beyond the dance floor, George was an avid gardener and maintained an incredible garden full of flowers and vegetables. He also loved reading the newspaper daily, excelled at random trivia, and enjoyed watching Jeopardy every night. George also got pleasure from watching his favorite sporting teams, the Mets and the Giants. After Mary passed away in 2019, George taught himself to cook proving it’s never too late to learn new skills.

George will be remembered as someone everyone loved. He was sociable, loved to smile and laugh, and occasionally shared a complaint or several. But above all, he loved life. Bright and articulate, he could seemingly converse on any subject with anyone (and he would). Most important to George was his faith and his family. He was a deeply religious man who shared both his faith and his love of life with everyone lucky enough to cross his path. He will be dearly missed.

George is predeceased by his wife Mary Dent; his parents; Patrick Dent and Rose Dent; and his siblings: Madeline Huss, and Benjamin Dent.

George is survived by his sister Connie Morton; his three children and their spouses: Theresa and Mark Davies, Patrick and Renee Dent, and Julie and Richard Koop; his five grandchildren: Christopher Dent, Erika Kelly, Rachel Davies, Zachary Koop, and Joshua Koop; and his 4 great-grandkids: Nash Ryan Kelly, Colton Patrick Kelly, Madison Charlotte Kelly, and Cassen Joel Dent.

Donations to the American Cancer Society or Alzheimer’s Association are appreciated in lieu of flowers.

Stephen “Steve” Savva, age 90, of Queens, NY peacefully passed on Saturday, December 13, 2025, with the comfort of family by his side. Steve was residing in Wayne, NJ the past two years with his son and his family.

Steve was born to Savvas and Despina Georgion on September 22, 1935 and graduated from Stuyvesant High School in NYC. Both of his parents came from Rhodes Greece through Ellis Island with no more than their suitcase, where they later ventured to opening their own luncheonette.

Steve’s first job was working in his local butcher shop in the South Bronx where he met his first wife, Winnie. He spent his career with early mornings in a butcher/deli shop for 10 years before moving to wholesale at the Hunts Point Market in the Bronx. He worked in this field until he was 65 years old. After long work hours he enjoyed going to play paddle ball at Orchard Beach and Castle Hill Pool with his friends. He was known for his strong work ethic and many side hustles ranging from a vending machine route to selling gold jewelry. While enjoying his retirement he enjoyed traveling with his wife and friends to many memorable locations.

Steve enlisted with the Army National Guard at age 18, where he spent four years mainly in the kitchen feeding over 400 service members at a time. This is where he stumbled upon his love for cooking and spending time in the kitchen.

Steve was a devoted family man, father and husband. He is survived by his wife Elizabeth Savva of 52 years where they lived in Whitestone, Queens with their toy poodle Ceasar. Before selling his home in Whitestone he enjoyed hosting his friends on his deck for barbecues and weekly card games. He also enjoyed playing pool, bowling leagues, betting at Belmont race track, golf, trips to Lake George, lunch with his friends and being the comedian of the group. Steve will be remembered by his never ending stream of jokes with any topic of conversation. It amazed all of his family and friends with his endless memory of jokes and childhood stories. He was a devoted new york sports team lover, putting in weekly bets with his Giants, Yankees, and Knicks team with his son, Nick. He was thrilled when fanduel betting came out so he did not need to call his bookie as often.

Steve was preceded in death by his older brothers George and Bundy. He is survived by his son from his first marriage, Nicholas Savva and Stephen Savva from his second marriage. He is also survived by his daughter in law Andrea Savva and grandchildren Karlee Owens, Haley Savva, Marc Laufer and great grandchildren Zanee, Lucius, and another baby boy arriving in February. Steve moved out of Whitestone in 2022 and into Nick and Andreas' home where they cared for him in his final years. They created many special memories together during these years including sitting on their deck in the summer with Bowie and Zowie, football sundays, tending to their vegetable garden, feeding the birds, audio books, sharing his family recipes including his famous twice baked potatoes, casino trips with his son, and many home cooked meals followed by his famous jokes. Haley and Karlee cherished the past years of quality time and conversations where he slowly became grandpa to all of their close friends. He enjoyed watching the success of his children and grandchildren as they grew through life and was happy to be apart of so many milestones.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Valley Hospital would be greatly appreciated. (or Nick Savva and Connor Owens Fanduel accounts, Go Giants!)

Ruth Frances Gilmore Murphy was joyfully welcomed into the arms of Jesus surrounded by her children on December 11, 2025. She was 85 years old.

Born on September 12, 1940, in Paterson, NJ, Ruth was the beloved daughter of the late Robert Aloysius Gilmore and Maria Naomi Rutt Gilmore. She grew up in Paterson and graduated from Saint Mary’s High School in 1958. 

After graduating, Ruth started her career with New Jersey Bell (NJB) as a Service Representative.

In 1961, Ruth married Robert P. Murphy of Fair Lawn, NJ and together they had three children: Robert, Christine, and Heather. They moved to Wayne, NJ to raise their children, after which she returned to NJB, continued her career, and eventually retired from her position as an IT Systems Analyst.

Ruth was quick-witted and had an infectious laugh that filled a room. She was a super competitive scrabble opponent, loved crime fiction novels, and was passionate about ballroom dancing.  But more than anything, she loved her children, nieces, nephews, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

In her final years, Ruth lived at Mira Vie Assisted Living in Montville, NJ. She was part of a loving and supportive community where she had many friends with whom she enjoyed exploring her faith while attending weekly Bible study.

Her presence, love, and sense of humor will be deeply missed by her loving and devoted children, Robert Peter Murphy Jr. of Pittstown, NJ, Christine Ann Murphy of Warwick, NY, and Heather Maria (Murphy) Bonner (m. Jack Bonner) of Montville, NJ.

Her laughter, and overflowing affection will be missed by her grandchildren: Stephanie (Murphy) Shepard (m. Michael Shepard), Alexandra (Holmes) Rosario (m. Clint Rosario), Timothy Holmes, Taylor (Wright) Campbell (m. Philip Campbell), and Victoria Holmes; and her five cherished great-grandchildren: Jayden Shepard, Karter Shepard, Zander Shepard, Sol Rosario, Rory Campbell, and of course, her favorite grand-dog, Mia.

She is survived by her sisters, Pamela (Gilmore) Dolan (m. James Dolan) and Anne Gilmore, and several nieces and nephews who love her dearly.

She was preceded in death by her brothers, Robert A. Gilmore Jr., Paul Gilmore, and by her sisters, Rosemary Gilmore, Claire (Gilmore) Burger (m. Robert Burger), and her parents.

William F. Benedict, age 87, formerly of Wayne, New Jersey, and most recently of Long Beach Island, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on December 10, 2025.

Born in Montclair, New Jersey, and raised in Belleville, he was the eldest of three children born to William and Eleanor Benedict. He attended Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington, graduating in 1956, and went on to Seton Hall University, where he earned a bachelor’s degree in Business Management.

In 1961, William got the call to serve his country in the United States Army and served honorably until 1962. Following his military service, he began a distinguished career with the International Nickel Company in New York City. Over the course of thirty-five years, he rose through the ranks, heading the accounting department in Sterling Forest, New York, and ultimately as a financial executive before retiring in 1996. He was widely respected and deeply admired by his colleagues and peers for his integrity, leadership, and dedication.

In retirement, William devoted himself to faith-based service and charitable work. He became a Knight of Malta and later took the vow of obedience.  Through the Knights of Malta, he was one of the founders of their Prison Ministry program.  For this work, he received the President’s Award from the American Association.  He also received the Caritas Award from the Catholic Diocese of Paterson for his dedication and outreach to the incarcerated.  He went on to found the charity “Knights For Christ The Healer” which supported members of the military and first responders, coordinated an annual Mass of Appreciation and awarded scholarships to children of active duty and honorably discharged veterans.

A devout Catholic, William served as a trustee of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne for twenty-five years and was a parishioner of St. Francis of Assisi Parish in Long Beach Island. He was also a proud Fourth Degree Knight of Columbus in Wayne and Manahawkin.

William met the love of his life, Theresa Trivigno, in 1960 while attending college. As fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on October 3, 1964, at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne surrounded by friends and family.  They made their home in Wayne, where they raised their two sons, William and Gerard. Approximately thirteen years ago, they relocated to Long Beach Island. Family and faith were the cornerstones of William’s life, and he cherished sixty-one years of loving and loyal marriage to Theresa.  Nothing in the world meant more to William than providing for and spending time with his family and the people he loved. 

In 2015, William endured the profound loss of his son Gerard. Through this tragedy, his faith and the love of his family sustained him and remained his source of strength.

William enjoyed hunting, golfing, real estate, and closely following the stock market. He possessed a remarkable ability to connect with others.  He was able to engage in conversation on nearly any topic and made friends wherever he went. It was said that no matter where he traveled, he was sure to encounter someone he knew.

William will be deeply missed by all who knew him. He will be remembered as a devoted husband, loving father, proud grandfather, faithful son, brother and uncle, and a man whose warmth, generosity, and true faith left a lasting impression on every life he touched.

William is survived by his wife Theresa (Trivigno) of Long Beach Island, NJ, his son Bill Benedict of Manahawkin, NJ, his only grandchild Katherine Benedict of Little Falls, NJ, and his sister-in-law Diane Benedict of St Helena, SC.  He was predeceased by his son Gerard M. Benedict (2015), and his two brothers Raymond J. Benedict (2023), and Gerard J. Benedict (1957).

Andrew “Andy” Canavan, originally of Emerson, New Jersey, formerly of Little Falls, passed away suddenly on December 8, 2025 in his home in Jonesborough, Tennessee.

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Andy was a loving father who wanted nothing more than his children to succeed and stood behind them with love and pride. He was known for being firm when it mattered and gentle when it counted, and he showed his love through the practical, steady ways he cared for family. While his life took different paths, one constant was the pride he felt for his family and the joy he found in being a father. His recent years with Maureen were filled with true happiness. A first degree Knight of Columbus at St. Philip the Apostle Church of Clifton, his faith was also very important to him. 

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A Marine Corps veteran and master electrician, Andy took immense pride in his service and his craft. He spent his career enjoying work he genuinely loved and was widely respected for his skill. His expertise played a key role in creating some of New York City’s most iconic holiday displays including the famous snowflake on 5th Ave., Christmas lights, and the New Year’s Eve Ball in Times Square.  His work and contribution brought brightness to the city and joy to millions. He later founded Great Notch Electric and then continued to make an impact by contributing his skills to many major corporations.

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Those who knew Andy remember him as being kind, down-to-earth, and always ready to lend a helping hand or offer advice. He was known by everyone for his generous heart, vibrant laugh, his commanding presence, and constant ability to be there when it mattered most. A motorcycle enthusiast who enjoyed hunting, wood working, taking scenic rides, and playing with his German Shepherds, he enjoyed life to the fullest. 

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Andy will be deeply missed by all who loved him, and he will be remembered for the warmth he brought into the lives of those fortunate enough to know him.

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Andy is survived by his wife, Maureen, who brought companionship, laughter, and comfort in his later years. He also leaves behind his children - his son Peter Canavan and wife Caryn of Wayne, NJ, and stepdaughter Edvie Marie Castro and husband Jean Carlos of Wayne, NJ and one granddaughter - who were truly the light of his life.  Also surviving are his wife Maureen’s children to whom he was a cherished friend. He is survived as well by his brothers Bob and wife Julia Bryan of Raleigh, NC, Joe and wife Rosemary of Dayton, NJ, Fred and partner Mary Jane of North Salem, NY, and his brother-in-law Tom Petrowski of Wayne, NJ, as well as his nieces and nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews who will remember him for his loving character, quick wit, and loyalty to family.  He was predeceased by his parents, Cira and Peter Canavan, and his sister, Patricia Petrowski.

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Donations to the Sisters of Charity of Saint Elizabeth, Convent Station, NJ may be sent in lieu of flowers. 

Ann V. Dwyer, age 96 and a longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully in the presence of her loving and comforting family on Monday, December 8, 2025.

The daughter of the late William and Anna (Doubrava) Novotny, Ann was born and raised in Nutley, NJ. She enjoyed a wonderful childhood there, making many neighborhood friends, one of whom was a young boy named Vincent Dwyer. They took a special interest in one another and began dating when Ann was just fourteen and Vincent was fifteen. After seven years of courtship, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends in a ceremony held at her parents’ home at 42 Chase Street in Nutley. Following the wedding, Ann and Vince lived with her parents for five years before moving into a brand-new home, in Wayne, which they built themselves, and where they lived for the rest of their lives. They were eventually blessed with three sons—Michael, Gregory, and William. During their boys’ formative years, Ann devoted herself to raising them, and once they reached a more independent age, she worked outside the home: first at Bekin’s Moving Company in Wayne, later at Suburban Bank in Wayne, and most recently at Acme Fabric in Pequannock.

In 1966, Ann and Vince purchased land in Hague, NY, near Lake George, and the following year they broke ground and built a home. It was truly a family project, with Ann, Vince, their three sons, and their girlfriends all contributing to the construction. It quickly became the family’s summer haven, and Ann was happiest when spending her summers there surrounded by loved ones and friends. She enjoyed swimming, boating, and tending her large vegetable garden, proudly canning its bounty to be enjoyed throughout the year.

Ann’s hobbies were many. She loved making puzzles, playing cards, sewing, and knitting. Her love of sewing was so strong that her job at Acme Fabrics was motivated largely by the perks—especially discounts on materials that allowed her to create even more. Later in life, she lovingly knitted countless hats for cancer patients at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock. She also enjoyed crafting and often sold her creations at local craft fairs. Ann loved going out for a delicious meal, with favorite restaurants including the Grasshopper Restaurant in Wayne, the Pompton Queen Diner in Pompton Plains, and the Chit Chat Diner in Hackensack.

One of the great joys of Ann’s later years was the gift of travel. She explored the world with her best friend Alta at her side, creating memories and adventures that brought her tremendous happiness.

Ann was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and sister. Her family cherished her kind, sweet personality, and even-keeled disposition. She lived her life with class and propriety, serving as a beautiful example of a life well lived.

Ann was the beloved wife of the late Vincent “Vinnie” Dwyer (1992); the most loving mother of: Michael S. and wife Angela Dwyer of Wayne, Gregory V. and wife Bonnie Maura Dwyer of Wayne, and William G. and wife Robin Dwyer of Pompton Plains; adored grandmother of: Gregory Joseph and wife Kathleen (Bronson) Dwyer of Wayne, Jonathan Vincent and wife Christyn (Babieri) Dwyer of Ridgefield, NJ, Sarah Maura (Dwyer) and husband Zachary I. Cantor of Raleigh, NC, Kyle William and Stephanie (Yosco) Dwyer of Towaco, NJ, Lindsay Lesia Dwyer of Boonton, NJ, and Matthew Raymond and Alexandra (Koschtial) Dwyer of Flat Rock, Michigan; cherished great-grandmother of: Ethan Gregory Dwyer, Dylan Walter Dwyer, Amber Elizabeth Dwyer, Ava Maura Cantor, Owen Bruce Cantor, Brooks Matthew Dwyer, Rylie Lynn Dwyer, and Olivia Marie Dwyer; and the dear sister of William and wife Nancy Novotny of Ticonderoga, NY.

Carl P. Padula "Butchie" passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, December 6, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson, Butchie was the youngest of two children to Happy Harry and Angie Padula, as they were affectionately known. After spending his early years in Paterson, the family moved to Pompton Lakes, where Butchie would eventually make his permanent home.

In 1966, Butchie enlisted in the United States Army during the Vietnam War, serving stateside throughout his deployment. After completing his military service, he joined the Military Police for two years, discovering his calling in law enforcement. He began his career with the Paterson Police Department, where he spent his entire career advancing from patrolman to the motorcycle division and ultimately to Detective in the Narcotics division. During this time, he also served in the National Guard. Butchie retired from the force in 1993 and went on to serve as Director of Security at Passaic County Community College's Paterson Campus.

Throughout his life, Butchie was deeply committed to his community. He served on the Pompton Lakes School Board and also the Town Councilman for years and was an active member of the Elks Club, Rotary, Blue Knights, Honor Legion, Italian American Club, and 200 Club. He also proudly served as President of the Retired Policemen Club for many years.

One evening at a local diner, Butchie met a beautiful young woman named Barbara Ann Fitzgerald. As they talked, Barbara reminded him they'd actually met years earlier in grammar school when young Butchie used to dip the ends of her braids in ink and paint with them! Fortunately, Barbara found the memory hilarious, and the two began dating and quickly fell in love. They married on September 13, 1969, and settled in Pompton Lakes, where they welcomed two sons: Carl E. Padula and Randy V. Padula. Barbara and Butchie shared a loving marriage of 50 years before Barbara's passing in 2019.

Butchie loved riding his motorcycle and was a member of the Corvette Club. Above all, he was a true food connoisseur who founded both a dinner club to explore new restaurants and a Saturday morning breakfast club. He cherished family vacations to Lancaster, Pennsylvania, where they attended Dutch fairs and savored the delicious homemade food that became a family tradition. He also enjoyed trips to the beaches in Wildwood with his family.

Butchie will be remembered as an honorable man who was always willing to help others. He was tough and stubborn, yet kind and loving in an old-school way that made everyone admire him. He will be dearly missed by his sons, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and the countless friends he made throughout his remarkable life.

Butchie is predeceased by his parents Happy Harry and Angie Padula, and his wife of 50 years Barbara Ann Padula.

He is survived by his two sons: Carl E. Padula and Randy Padula; his 5 grandchildren: Dominick Padula, Rachael Padula, Michael Padula, Bella Padula, Giada Padula; and his 2 great-grandchildren: Dayna Melo and Aurora Padula.

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Anna Dall’omo Starita, age 97, of Wayne and formerly of Woodridge, pass away peacefully on Saturday, December 6, 2025, while in the loving presence of her dear family.

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Anna was born on March 4, 1928, in Loiano, Italy, where she lived as a young woman through the hardships of World War II and the Nazi occupation. During the war, when the U.S. Army took over her uncle’s farm, Anna met an American soldier names Charles “Charlie” Starita. They were married for 61 years, from 1947 until his passing in 2008.

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Anna and Charlie’s life together took them from Jersey City to Georgia, Virginia, and Germany before they settled in Woodridge, New Jersey, where they raised their four children. They were avid travelers and returned to Anna’s hometown in Italy every summer. 

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Anna was a woman of many talents and passions. An excellent cook, she taught her children and grandchildren the art of making fresh pasta. She was an avid and talented knitter, and she enjoyed staying active through swimming and tennis. A devoted and sharp card player who maintained that canasta was for dummies, she spent many hours playing cards and Mahjong with friends at the Wayne Adult Center. 

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Most recently, Anna resided with her daughter and son-in-law in Wayne where she was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church. 

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Anna is survived by her children and their spouses: Carla Scheld (née Starita) and her husband John, Richard Starita, Paul Starita and Sheila Peterson, widow of her son Robert “Topo” Starita who predeceased Anna in 2022. She also leaves behind four grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and six great-great-grandchildren, and she was predeceased by her two brothers: Bertino Dall’omo and Giorgio Dall’omo. 

Carol Mary Mackie of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, December 5. 2025. 

Carol was born in Brooklyn, NY to Marguerite and Edward Naylor. She graduated from Midwood High School and began working as a bookkeeper at Noyes Co at the age of seventeen. After fourteen years, when Noyes Co. moved offices, Carol began working at Credit Suisse. It was while working at Credit Suisse that Carol had her first date with who would become her husband, her love, and life partner, Joseph “Bob” Mackie. 

Carol enjoyed sewing and spent much of her life making her own clothes. She told stories of her mother teaching her to sew when she was young and how she picked it up quite naturally. She had a special knack for zippers; her mother would tell her. Over the years, Carol sewed many beautiful and colorful outfits for herself, but her favorite color for clothing and everything else was always purple. 

Throughout the years, Carol made an impact wherever she went. She spoke to everyone and if you had a conversation with her, you’d always remember it. And, if you were lucky enough to make her laugh, you’d also notice the room light up. She had a take-charge attitude about everything and a wry sense of humor. Everyone she spoke to, right down to the clerk at the grocery store, felt immediately like Carol was a friend after a single conversation. 

Although they basically grew up together, Carol and her beloved husband, “Bob,” wouldn’t begin dating until prompted by Carol’s brother, Donald, who was a good friend of Bob’s. While both working in Manhattan, Carol and Bob began dating with a lunch date on South Street and then continued with trips to Marine Theater on Flatbush Avenue, Broadway shows, Luigi’s pizza parlor, and Friday night fried shrimp dates. After a year and a half of dating, they were married at Our Lady of the Skies on May 5,1973, coincidentally Kentucky Derby Day. Carol and Bob honeymooned in Florida and then continued their lives going everywhere together. Vacations to New England or road trips to Lancaster, Spring Lake, grocery shopping and all of Bob’s softball games, they went everywhere together. For over fifty years of marriage, Carol and Bob never spent even one night apart, a true testament to their love story. After a lifetime of love and partnership, Carol leaves her husband of 52 years, along with her sisters and many adoring family members and friends. Carol was predeceased by her parents, her brother, Donald, and her niece, Gayle.

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In lieu of Flowers memorial donations to Disability Rights New Jersey would be appreciated.

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Anna “Anne” Josephine Arnowitz (nee DeSpirito), age 95, of Kinnelon, NJ, passed away peacefully on December 4, 2025. She was born to Joseph and Anna DeSpirito on June 7, 1930 in Paterson, NJ and as the baby of the family had four older siblings: Mary, Nick, Phil, and Catherine.  She spent her early years working in her parent’s pastry shop, Caruso’s, on Market Street, Paterson, along with her family. Anne graduated from Central High School in Paterson and continued her education at Paterson State College (William Paterson University) where she earned her Master of Education degree in teaching. Her first job was in the Clifton Elementary School System and eventually landing a position at Ryerson School in Lincoln Park, NJ where she taught grades 2 through 5.  Anne had a love for learning and valued education and later became a Learning Disability Specialist where she continued to work in the Lincoln Park School System until she retired in 1994.

Shortly after High School, Anne met the love of her life, Marty, in Paterson, and they were married for 32 years until his passing in 1987. They were soulmates, and loved entertaining, spending time with family, traveling and were extraordinary dancers. The struggles they endured uniting the two Paterson families—Catholic Italians on one side and Eastern European Jews on the other—was a testament to their love. They began their life together in an apartment in Clifton, NJ and purchased their first home in Lincoln Park, NJ, where their only child, Glenn, was born, and finally moved to Kinnelon, NJ in 1969. 

Anne possessed a positive outlook on life and always saw the good in others. One of her favorite sayings was “This too Shall Pass”, when faced with adversity. Her generosity touched countless lives as she donated to numerous charities and volunteered for many organizations. Her faith was a fundamental part of her life, and she was a devout Catholic and parishioner of Our Lady of the Magnificat in Kinnelon. Anne was a very social person and had a passionate curiosity about people and loved to socialize. Travel was one of her great joys and she explored the world with wonder and appreciation visiting Europe, Hawaii, Asia, South America, Africa and Australia, collecting artifacts from each adventure.

She was very active in her community as well and was a board member of the Kinnelon Friends of the Library, and of her Italian American club. Anne was also on the committees for her elementary, high school and college reunions. She was a member of many book clubs, and a long-time member of the “Birthday Girls”– a group of over 25 friends who celebrated monthly birthdays with long afternoon lunches. She exercised, aqua-sized, walked, and enjoyed the theatre, opera, movies and was an avid reader. Anne was a talented chef, and her specialty was anything Italian. Her gravy with meatballs was a Sunday staple.

Anne loved life and possessed a youthful spirit, regularly commenting that her age was “just a number”. She had a wonderful fashion sense as well and was always dressed perfectly for any occasion.

Without a doubt, the biggest joy in Anne’s life was her two granddaughters, Kara and Lisa. She was their “Nonnie” and showered them with endless love and affection. Her serenading “Happy Birthday” phone calls each year were legendary and just one example of her youthful spirit and playfulness.

Anne is predeceased by her parents, Joseph and Anna, her husband, Marty, her sisters Mary, Catherine, brothers Phil and Nick and daughter-in-law, Suzanne. She is survived by her son, Glenn John Arnowitz and wife, Colleen, granddaughter Kara and her husband, Matt McKevitt and great-grandchildren, Lily and River, and also granddaughter, Lisa Arnowitz and partner, Andre Woods, as well as many nieces and nephews. 

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In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the American Heart Association and American Cancer Society.

John James Hackett, age 77, of Wayne passed away on Tuesday, December 02, 2025, surrounded by his family and an immense amount of love and gratitude.

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John was born on February 13, 1948 to his loving and adoring parents, John and Margaret Hackett. John was raised in Ridgefield Park and enjoyed his childhood in small town America.  He spent his days with the neighborhood kids riding his bike all over town, playing stickball and stoopball, and coming home when the street lights came on.  One of John’s favorite things to do as a child was to run and grab the family camera when his Dad was leaving for work. That camera would then capture the “big smooch” shared by his parents, for all to see in the family photo albums.  When John was four years old, he reluctantly welcomed his sister Anne into his life but that reluctance quickly turned to seventy-three years of love and admiration.  There was nothing that John wouldn’t do for his sister and he left this world with her knowing that.

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John attended St. Frances Grammar School in Ridgefield Park and was a proud graduate and member of the inaugural freshman class of St. Joseph’s Regional High School in Montvale.  He later went on to attend William Paterson College for a short time.  On March 19, 1970 John followed in his father’s footsteps and reported to ARMY boot camp at Fort Leonard Wood in Missouri.  The Missouri sun and John’s pale Irish skin proved to not be a friendly match.  After days of blistering sunburns, John’s commanding officer approached him and in his southern drawl stated, “Son, unless we’re fighting war in Siberia, you ain’t going to no war!”  Can’t fight in warm weather climates then became a notation in John’s ARMY file.  After bootcamp, John completed his service agreement with the New Jersey National Guard and he was Honorably Discharged.

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John was employed for thirty-five years by the SEARS Roebuck and Company, which John referred to as the Great American Company.  Throughout his thirty-five years he worked in many store locations (Hackensack, Irvington, Union City, Livingston, White Plains, Wayne, Maywood,  Paramus) and served in many different roles.  John found his niche was in working in Loss Prevention.  John took great pride in protecting the store and the company from theft and fraud and did so with a way of professionalism and grace that people noticed.  John built relationships with the local police departments that very few other Loss Prevention managers were able to do before or since.  While working at Willowbrook Mall, John even had his own typewriter in the Wayne Police Department Detective Bureau and was once honored as the Wayne PBA Citizen of the Year.  John also worked sixteen years as a security manager at Giants Stadium.  Two of his favorite events that he worked for were World Cup ‘94 and Pope John Paul II’s mass.  He loved working Giants games and he slightly tolerated working Jets games.  After retiring from SEARS, he worked briefly with the MarMAxx company, in their fraud division.

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John’s favorite things in life always revolved around his family, his faith, and dogs.  The 4th of July, to John, was like no other holiday.  Being a son of Ridgefield Park can have that effect on you, as it hosts the longest continuous running parade in America.  John could be seen standing at Preston Street and Main Street for every year of his life, minus just a few.  For years that parade ended and the party continued at the family home in Clifton.  Where family and friends gathered in John’s manicured backyard, with beautiful gardens, and the kids splashed around in the pool that he was so proud of.  John thrived in being a part of whichever church community he was in.  He was an active member as a teen and young adult in the St. Frances CYO.  At St. Phillip’s in Clifton he helped run Thursday night bingo and the annual carnival.  John took great pride in working with his hands and doing things for himself.  There wasn’t much he couldn’t fix or much he couldn’t figure out how to fix in his way (he was like MacGyver). John’s greatest trait though was his personality and humor was his greatest asset.  He had the ability to draw people in and allow them to feel seen in his presence.  If you ever met John, then you met John.  He was love personified and extended that love and grace to all that he met, even those that may not have deserved it at the time.  His heart was big and his nature was forgiving.  John found love in the many dogs that graced his life, especially his grandpuppies.  It was apropos that in his own home he welcomed two golden retrievers, a breed that shares and exudes the same qualities that he did. 

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One night in 1965 John was in the presence of the love of his life; he just didn’t know it.  You see, because on that night John was trying to avenge the honor of his cousin who had been wronged by a man and as he was being dragged out of the house screaming obscenities, he was pulled past Donna Hausler, a friend of his other cousin Noreen, who promptly asked who was that and she stated, “Oh, that was just my cousin John, don’t worry about him!”  Their second and more formal meeting came at the St. Frances car wash, where John saw Donna pull into the parking lot in her Ford Mustang and told her he needed to wash that car.  After that car wash, they were inseparable for the next sixty years.  They walked through this life, wherever they were and whoever was around, hand in hand.  Their love was one for the ages and a guide to those who witnessed it.  They were married on November 29, 1970 at St. Frances followed by a reception at The Fiesta.  They settled into an apartment in Leonia, and on January 26, 1974 welcomed their son John.  In 1975, their family of three moved into a two-family home in Clifton on Normal Avenue, after the insistence of the home owner Erik who they had met several times.  On November 14, 1977 they welcomed their daughter Kerri Anne and thought at the time, their family was complete.  In 1981, Erik came to them and said he wanted to sell them the house because they had helped him so much with the gardens and helped keep pride in the house he loved so much.  On February 8, 1983 they welcomed their son Bryan and now their family was finally complete.  The role of father came as naturally to John, as his dad jokes did.  He loved hard, he loved often, and he disciplined with love.  He believed in family dinners, he believed in having an open door for his children’s friends, and he believed in whatever it is that you did, make sure people know you care.  He was there for all the big moments and all the quiet moments, and whatever it was that his kids were doing they knew if they looked over their shoulder, he would be there.  John will miss him during Giants and Yankees games, Kerri will miss the love in his eyes as he looked at his daughter, and Bryan will miss him every time he steps foot into Rutt’s Hut.  In those memories and in those moments they will know how lucky they were to have a man like him as their father.  He also welcomed in Michael and Lauren, not as in-laws, but as a new son and a new daughter into his life.  They both were held in the same amount of love as his children.

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There was no greater role in John’s life, than that of Poppy. Bryn (his Baby doll), Caitrin (his Princess), Brady (his Best Pal), and Delaney (his Pumpkin).  The four of them brought a light to his life and he could never get enough of them.  Whether he stopped by to see them or stopped by the house when they weren’t home, they always knew Poppy was there because their favorite snack or candy was left on the counter or their favorite ice cream was left in the freezer.  A little something to say here is something you love left by someone who loves you immensely.  John relished in the fact that, in retirement, he was able to enjoy his grandchildren in a completely different way than he was able to enjoy his children.  When they came to the house for the day he was up making breakfast, he was taking them on walks in the stroller, he thoroughly enjoyed partaking in nap time with them, and he always ended the day with a trademark Poppy hug and kiss.  They will live their lives knowing what unconditional love is because Poppy helped teach them that.

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John is survived by his devoted wife of fifty-five years, Donna (nee Hausler), their three children John, Kerri O’Rourke and her husband Michael, and Bryan and his wife Lauren, his grandchildren, Bryn, Caitrin, Brady, and Delaney, his sister Anne, and his adored cousin Noreen and her husband Ron (a childhood friend of John’s), Brother-in-law Jack Hausler and his wife Kathy, along with nieces and nephews that he loved as his own.  John was predeceased by many people in his life that he had great love for but most importantly his father John and mother Margaret, who we know were waiting in front of the gates of Heaven to bring their Johnny home.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made in the name of John Hackett to Found Abilities, 30 Woodridge Terrace Wayne, NJ 07470.  John had great love for the special needs community and nothing would make him happier than knowing his name is helping keep them active in this world.

Jane F. Picone (nee Liffers), age 93, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, December 2, 2025, with her family by her side.

Born and raised in Union City, Jane was the younger of two children of Robert and Marie Liffers. She was a proud graduate of Holy Family High School in Union City, Class of 1949. Shortly after graduation, she began her career as a dental assistant for a local dentist, a position she held for five years.

After marrying, Jane spent several years living in Norfolk, Virginia.  She then moved back to her hometown of Union City where she began raising her family. She welcomed her three children, Michael, Patricia, and Robert, while living in Union City. In 1962, the family settled in Weehawken, New Jersey, where they remained until 2003, when Jane relocated to Wayne.

After the birth of her first child, Jane devoted herself wholeheartedly to being a full-time homemaker. Later in life, she returned to the workforce as a bank teller in Weehawken, working for several financial institutions located in the same building, including Provident Bank, Wachovia, and Wells Fargo. She found great fulfillment in her work, cherished the relationships she formed, and was truly loved by both clients and colleagues. She retired from full-time employment at age seventy, though she continued to work part-time for another decade in the banking industry. Jane’s love for staying active led her to continue working as a receptionist at Llanfair House Nursing Home in Wayne well into her mid 80’s.

She was an outgoing and social member of her community.  Jane was involved with the Weehawken Adult Club that frequently attended Broadway shows, a pastime she greatly enjoyed.  She was also a member of the Golden Age of Wayne.  Jane was a woman of deep Catholic faith and a longtime and active parishioner of St. Lawrence Church in Weehawken, later becoming a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

Jane loved spending time with friends and family, especially playing Bingo and Rummikub. In her younger years, she enjoyed biking through Weehawken and cherished her annual September trips to Cape May.

Above all, Jane was a devoted mother whose greatest joy in life was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Jane than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She will be remembered for her warmth, spontaneity, quick wit, and wonderful sense of humor. She was a truly special person who loved her family deeply and will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

Jane is survived by her three children; Michael Picone and his wife Lynn of Scotch Plains, NJ, Patricia Picone and her husband Andy of Ottsville, PA, and Robert Picone and his wife Eileen of Rivervale, NJ, five grandchildren; Greg Vigilante of Myrtle Beach, SC, Lauren Ramos of Scotch Plains, NJ, Katie Picone of Morganville, NJ, Matthew Picone of Warren, NJ, and Andrew Quartuccio of Hoboken, NJ, and three great grandchildren; CJ, Ryan and Enza.  Jane was predeceased by her sister Marie Liffers.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jane’s name may be made to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105.

Barbara “Basia” “Barb” Voss, age 55, of Wayne passed away on Monday, December 1, 2025.

She was born in Queens, New York, and raised in the Bensonhurst section of Brooklyn, where she graduated from John Dewey High School in the Gravesend neighborhood as part of the Class of 1988. Barbara later lived in East Rutherford and Morris Plains before settling in Wayne, where she has made her home for the past twenty-four years.

Barbara’s work life began at a bakery in Brooklyn, New York, and shortly after graduating high school she joined the Balfour Maclaine Corporation, a commodity trading and brokerage firm, on Wall Street. Over the years, she built a distinguished career in accounting and finance, holding roles of increasing responsibility across several corporations. Her positions included Accounting Supervisor and Financial Reporting at CMC Electronics in East Rutherford; Manager of International Accounting for Computron Software, Inc. in Rutherford; Senior Manager of International Finance for the National Basketball Association (NBA) in Secaucus; and roles in Accounting and Financial Reporting for Content Critical, LLC in Carlstadt. She later served as Director of Finance for MWWPR in East Rutherford and, most recently, as Controller for Marketsmith, Inc. in Whippany.

Barbara met the love of her life, Earl Voss, while they were both working at CMC Electronics in East Rutherford. Their first date—a dinner at a restaurant in Fairfield—quickly led to a deep and lasting connection, and it wasn’t long before they fell in love. Earl proposed on a balcony at the Brittany Chase development in Wayne, a moment Barbara treasured. They were married on February 4, 2001, at the Ramsey Golf and Country Club and celebrated their honeymoon in Las Vegas. For nearly twenty-five years, they shared a happy and devoted marriage, one that Barbara often described as being “rich in love.”

Barbara’s personality was straightforward, caring, and selfless, and she approached everything in life with an extraordinary work ethic and unwavering devotion to her family. She was also a wonderful cook, and the special ingredient of love she infused into her bolognese sauce, meatballs, chicken cutlets, macaroni and cheese, and Thanksgiving stuffing will be dearly missed by all who were lucky enough to enjoy them.

She was the loving wife of Earl Voss; cherished daughter of Diane Kozlowski of Wayne and the late Alexander Kozlowski; devoted mother of Emma Voss of Wayne; loved stepmother of Jason Voss of Belleville and Julian Voss of Mahwah; she was the loved sister of Robert Kozlowski of Chandler, AZ.  She was also the much loved aunt of her sister-in-law Lisa Dragone’s pets.

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For those wishing to make a memorial donation in Barbara’s memory we ask you to consider the Wayne First Aid Squad.

Joanne Okken, age 82, of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, November 30, 2025.

She was born and raised in Passaic, New Jersey and married Jacobus “Jack” Okken on June 23, 1975. They soon moved to Wayne where they would live their whole life.

Joanne was a homemaker and loving mother, ever caring for her husband and four children. She was a life-long member of the Ebenezer Netherlands Reformed Church in Franklin Lakes where she was active for many years in the church’s Lois Circle. She loved the years she was a helper in the kindergarten class and for the many kindergarteners at Netherlands Reformed Christian School.

Joanne loved to bake and cook. The large assortment of her cookies and Dutch Oliebollen (deep-fried pastries) were family favorites. Her family was a constant source of joy, and making crafts with her dear grandchildren, and nieces and nephews, was always very special to her. 

Joanne was the beloved wife of the late Jack Okken (2003). She was the loving mother of: Laura and husband Jake Van Dalen of Middletown, NY, Craig and wife Cathy Okken of Sparta, James and wife Andrea Okken of Hackettstown, and Joseph and wife Christene Okken of Park Ridge. She was the cherished grandmother of: Kaitlyn, Jacob, Kristina, Emma, Shannon, Jackson, Callie, Adley, Hanna, Ronald, and Amelia. She was the dear sister of: the late Walter Hoogmoed and his late wife Evelyn, the late Gertrude Van Houten and her late husband Paul, the late Cornelius Hoogmoed and his late wife Claire, Lena “Winkie” Southway and her late husband Peter, Elizabeth Okken and her late husband Henry, the late Cornelia “Cookie” Hoogmoed, and Arthur Hoogmoed and his wife Chris. She is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews. 

Joanne’s family would like to take this opportunity to express their sincere thanks to the staff at Sunrise Assisted Living, Wayne, for their kindness and caring. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Joanne’s name are asked to please consider a memorial contribution to the Netherland Reformed Christian School, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444. 

Edward Charles Nann, age 89, of Jupiter, FL passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 27, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in Totowa, Edward was the elder of two children born to Edward and Pauline Nann. A proud graduate of Passaic Valley High School, Class of 1954.   Edward was an accomplished basketball player, earning All-State recognition for his talent in the sport.

Following graduation, Edward enlisted in the United States Army.  He served proudly and honorably for two years. Upon his honorable discharge, he quickly found work as a carpenter, a trade in which would help build his legacy.

After gaining valuable experience in the field, Edward partnered to form Smith & Nann Framing Contractors. Through hard work, and an unwavering commitment to quality, the company grew to become one of the largest framing contractors in northern New Jersey. In time, Edward expanded his work into building and selling homes, and later co-founded Environmental Developers, a firm that focused on multi-family real estate development. He had the privilege of working alongside his sons, Jeffrey, Edward and Kenneth, for more than 30 years.

Edward’s career in construction and real estate spanned more than forty-five years, until his retirement in 2002, when he relocated to Jupiter, Florida. He was a respected leader and known as a hardworking boss, a patient mentor, and a true role model. He took pride in training young and inexperienced employees, and he never asked anyone to perform a task he would not do himself. He earned the admiration and respect of employees, clients, and peers.

Edward married the love of his life, Diana, and together they raised three sons; Jeffrey, Kenneth, and Edward.  Edward and Diana shared many wonderful years of loving and loyal marriage until Diana’s passing in 1991.

Outside of work, Edward had many passions. He loved to cook, and his family and friends fondly remember a number of special dishes he loved to prepare. He was an avid boxing fan, his favorite boxer being the famous Sugar Ray Robinson.  He also loved to listen to Jazz, and watch Notre Dame Football.  While living in Florida, he enjoyed deep-sea fishing and riding his bike throughout Jupiter. He also took great pride in gardening, meticulously maintaining his beautifully landscaped front and back yards all year-round.

Above all, Edward’s greatest passion was his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Edward than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He was a truly devoted husband, father, and grandfather whose presence, guidance, and love will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Edward is survived by his three sons; Jeffery Nann of Delray Beach, FL, Kenneth Nann and his wife Sharon of Bradley Beach, NJ, and Edward Paul Nann and his wife Kathy of Bradley Beach, NJ.  Seven grandchildren; Jason, Ryan, Amanda, Laura, Samantha, Daniel, Jaime and twelve great grand children.   He was predeceased by his wife Diana Nann in 1991, and by his parents Edward and Pauline Nann. 

Margaret T. Gross (née Gilmartin) of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, November 25, 2025, with her family by her side. She was born on January 14, 1937, the youngest of seven children to Michael and Teresa Gilmartin.

Margaret experienced profound loss early in life with the passing of her mother when she was just three years old. During the hardships of the Great Depression, her father was unable to care for all seven children on his own, and they were placed in foster homes. When Margaret was fourteen, her oldest brother welcomed her into his home in Pompton Lakes, where she became a cherished part of his family.

She attended Pompton Lakes High School, where she was a tumbler, and later worked at the local A&P. It was there that she met the love of her life, Robert “Bob” Gross, just months before he was deployed to Germany with the U.S. Army. While overseas, Bob mailed Margaret an engagement ring, and the two were married upon his return from Europe.

Their first daughter, Mary, was born in 1958, followed by their second daughter, Cathy, two and a half years later, and their son Bobby five years after. In 1967, the family settled in Wayne, where they made their home for more than fifty years.

In her forties, Margaret became a Licensed Practical Nurse after spending many years working with individuals with disabilities. She was deeply dedicated to caring for others and found great purpose in her work.

Margaret and Bob shared a lifetime of love and adventure. They created lasting memories with family vacations to Disney and Lavallette and continued their travels later in life with trips to Europe, Hilton Head, and numerous cruises to beautiful and exotic destinations.

Margaret’s greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Margaret than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.  Margaret and Bob cherished many years of loving and loyal marriage together until his passing in 2018.  Tragedy also struck the family’s lives when her only son Bobby passed away in 2000.

Margaret will be remembered for her resilience, her warmth, and her unwavering devotion to her family.

Margaret is survived by her two daughters; Mary Meyer and her husband Danny of Wayne, NJ, and Catherine Burke and her husband Larry of South Heidleberg, PA, four grandchildren; Leiha and her husband Mike of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Dawn and husband Aaron of Pompton Plains, NJ, Danny of Wayne, NJ, and Zach of Wyomissing, PA, great-grandsons; Dennis and Michael of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and great-granddaughters; Vanna and Quinn of Pompton Plains, NJ.  She was predeceased by her husband Robert Gross in 2018 and her son Bobby Gross in 2000.

Mary Claire Skillen, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 22, 2025.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Mary's name are asked to consider:

John Theurer Cancer Center at Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

343 Thornall Street, 7th Floor

Edison, NJ 08837

If you wish, you may also give online at John Theurer Cancer Center.

Please make a note that your gift is in memory of Mary Skillen.

Mary Ketterer, a long-time resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, November 20, 2025. She lived a blessed and remarkable life that spanned 101 years.

The third-born of Henry and Lillian (Kick) Clark, Mary was born in Passaic and raised in Nutley, where she graduated with Nutley High School’s Class of 1941. She continued her education at Newark Teachers College (now Kean University), earning her B.A. in education before going on to teach kindergarten at Jefferson Elementary School in Wallington for several years.

While attending college, Mary worked part-time for a local dentist. One day, a familiar face from high school came in for dental work—a young man named Albert “Al” Ketterer. Al must have had a winning smile, because the two quickly hit it off. They dated for several years, including during Al’s service in the U.S. Army. Upon his return to civilian life, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends at a church in Mary’s hometown of Nutley. After a reception at the former Marlboro Company in Montclair, they honeymooned down the Jersey Shore.

Because Al had one more semester to complete at Syracuse University, the couple’s first home was an apartment in Syracuse, NY. They later moved to a one-bedroom apartment in the Styertowne section of Clifton, where their first three children—Kathy, David, and Doug—were born. With the three children sharing the only bedroom and Mary and Al sleeping in the living room every night, it became clear that more space was needed. In 1954, they purchased a home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, and Mary lovingly called that house home for the rest of her life.

Once in Packanack, four more children—Paul, Susan, Victoria, and Nancy—were welcomed into the family. Mary devoted herself to caring for her home and raising her children. In later years, once her children reached a level of independence, she joined the family business, Clark Transmission Company in Fairfield, working as a bookkeeper. Remarkably, Mary worked remotely long before remote work became commonplace.

Mary was a woman of many interests. Her home featured both a baby grand piano and a harp, and no one could make those instruments sing quite like she could. She loved reading—especially detective novels by Agatha Christie and suspense stories by Mary Higgins Clark. Gardening was another passion she shared with Al, and their gardens were a joy to behold. A talented, self-taught seamstress, Mary passed her skills on to her daughters, sewing all their matching Christmas and Easter dresses, as well as their school clothes, for many years—at least until homemade clothing became less “cool.” She also knitted and crocheted. After Al retired, the couple traveled extensively for over a decade, visiting international destinations throughout Western Europe.

Faith and family were the true centerpieces of Mary’s life. When she and Al moved to Packanack Lake, the area was rapidly becoming a year-round community. Recognizing the growing need, the Catholic Archdiocese established Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, where Mary and Al became founding parishioners. It was there that they raised their children in faith. Mary also created a warm, welcoming home—a place of comfort at the end of every school day or workday. She was a steady, calming presence and a gifted cook and baker.

During her children’s early years, a Sunday afternoon tea tradition gradually took root. After the children were grown and out of the house, the tradition continued weekly—only now on Thursdays. Visitors could always count on a homemade crimpit, scone, or other baked treat lovingly prepared by Mary to accompany a cup of tea and cherished family time. She loved her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, sharing with them the joys she knew best: playing piano, sewing, cooking, and always extending an open invitation to tea night. As the family grew, birthday parties often became outdoor picnics at Ringwood Manor to accommodate everyone.

Mary was a dear soul—kind, gentle, and full of grace. Everything she did was touched with her desire to make others happy. Her family is deeply grateful for the many years they were blessed with her love and influence. They rejoice in knowing she is reunited with her beloved husband, Al, and look forward to seeing her again.

Mary was the beloved wife of Albert, to whom she was married for 58 years until his passing in 2007. She was the most loving mother of: Kathleen Bogert and husband John of Wayne; David Ketterer and wife Jeanne of Chapel Hill, NC; Douglas Ketterer and wife Julann of Lincoln Park; the late Paul Ketterer (2008); the late Susan Ketterer (2023); Victoria Witterschein and husband James of Wayne; and Nancy Cohen and husband Scott of Cedar Grove. She was the cherished grandmother of: Jack and companion Courtney, Steven, Stephanie and husband Mark, Robert and wife Kerry, Matthew and wife Jaclyn, Daniel and wife Brianne, Melissa and husband Shawn, Mark, Mary Caitlin and husband Brian, and Anneliese and husband Tom. She was the adoring great-grandmother of: Nicholas, Noah, Dorothy, Miles, Wrenly, Aiden, Laura Rose, and Audrey. She was the dear sister of the late Henry Clark and the late Gerald Clark, and a beloved aunt to numerous nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Mary’s name are asked to consider:

Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad

PO Box 2004

Wayne, NJ 07474

Alice Irene Booth, born on January 22, 1938, in Teaneck, New Jersey, passed away on November 20, 2025 at the age of 87. Alice was the cherished daughter of George Augustus Decourcey and Laura Peterson Decourcey. She was one of the renowned "Decourcey triplets," alongside her sisters Lorraine and Pat. Her older siblings, Mariane and Frank, and her sister-in-law Cynthia, all predeceased her in death.  Alice was a devoted daughter who remained at home to care for her mother during her illness with lung cancer.

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Alice married her beloved husband, Arthur Dewitt Booth, on April 20, 1963, after meeting and becoming friends at Rutgers University. Their marriage, spanning 62 years, was a testament to deep love and dedication. Alice and Art (affectionately known as Bud) shared a close, loving relationship that inspired everyone who knew them.

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After marrying Bud, Alice partnered with her mother-in-law, Lois, to create the antique business "The Two Bee’s”. A graduate of Douglas College with a history degree, Alice developed a passion for hunting antiques for their home and participating in antique shows. Over time, her love for 18th-century antiques grew, and Bud shared her enthusiasm. Together, they collected and sold antiques, spending weekends at auctions and shows throughout the Northeast and Mid-Atlantic. Through this shared passion, they formed lasting friendships with other collectors and dealers.

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Alice enjoyed a long career as an investigator for the Passaic County Department of Social Services, where she served for 25 years before retiring. As an advocate for equal rights, one of her proudest achievements was helping to introduce the CWA union to her office. She also generously volunteered her time to assist coworkers in studying for and passing Civil Service tests needed for career advancement.

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Alice will be dearly missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her loving husband of 62 years, Arthur Booth; her daughters, Christine Booth and Ann-Marie Linz; son-in-law, Robert Linz; grandsons, Jason Linz and Ryan Linz; sisters, Pat Snow and Lorraine Lehman; brother-in-law, Bill Lehman; sister-in-law, Louise Decourcey; sister-in-law, Betsy Cronk; brother-in-law, Dave Cronk; and many beloved nieces, nephews and her many friends.

We honor and celebrate the life of Vivian (Golten) Bayley, a devoted wife, cherished mother, beloved Nana, and proud keeper of her Norwegian heritage. Born with a gentle spirit and a strong heart, Vivian filled every chapter of her life with love, resilience, and compassion for others.

Born in Brooklyn, NY to Sigurd and Aagot Golten, whom she adored, Vivian’s family soon settled in Pines Lake. Growing up there brought her some of the happiest moments of her life. The calm mornings, lake adventures, endless swimming, and the long summer days gave Vivian and her siblings—Sylvia, Norman, and Carol—and her forever best friend, Cathie Hinchman, an upbringing filled with happiness and lasting memories.

Vivian carried the traditions of her Norwegian roots with great pride and joy. She shared stories of her family’s heritage, passed down traditions that became favorites at every gathering, and kept alive the customs and values that shaped her life. Her home was filled with the warmth and spirit of Norway—especially during holidays, when she made certain, the family felt connected to where they came from.

She loved her husband (Richard) deeply, and it showed in everything she did. She was his partner, his friend, and his biggest supporter. Their life together was filled with love and care, and the way she stood by him for 55 years will always be treasured and never forgotten.

As a mother, Vivian had a steady, nurturing presence. She raised her three children (Paula, Ellen and David) with patience, encouragement, and a quiet strength that guided them through life. Vivian and Richard gave their children a childhood full of happiness and unforgettable memories. A mother-in-law, to Bianca Bayley, she was a source of unconditional love—always ready with a smile and a warm hug. As a Nana, to her four grandchildren (Gavin, Ella, Emme and Preston) they will forever remember the countless hours of love she gave them and the lessons she taught them through her actions: to, “Be Good and Kind to Everyone.”

Vivian’s kindness extended beyond her family. Whether offering a helping hand, sharing a thoughtful word, or simply bringing comfort with her gentle nature, she touched the lives of so many. Her warmth made people feel seen and welcomed, and her presence brought a peaceful steadiness to those fortunate enough to know her.

Though the loss of Vivian leaves a deep ache, her legacy is a lasting one—found in the beliefs she passed on, the love she gave freely, and the countless memories held close by those who loved her. Her spirit continues and will always guide and embrace her family, reminding them of the importance of love, relationships, and heritage.

For those looking to make a tribute in Vivian’s name, please consider donating to De Paul Catholic "Days of Giving."

Kasey Ryan Siepe, age 44, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 16, 2025, with his loving family by his side, following a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Paterson and raised in Wayne, Kasey was the youngest of three children to Kim and Karen Siepe. From an early age, he displayed exceptional athletic talent, especially on the baseball field. He was a standout player throughout his youth and went on to play for the Wayne Valley High School Boys Varsity Baseball Team. One of the many things he was proud of was being captain of the Wayne Valley baseball team , in the footsteps of his Uncle's Craig. Jeff and his father Kim.

 He was a graduate of the Wayne Valley, Class of 1998.  Kasey continued his academic and athletic journey at Greensboro College in North Carolina. While there, he studied Business Administration and graduated with his bachelor’s degree in 2002.

Following college, Kasey returned home and quickly began building his professional career. Landing a role in the healthcare field, he quickly excelled into the administrator role,  most recently at The Buckingham at Norwood, where he was admired for his work ethic and dedication.

Kasey never lost his passion for sports. He was a devoted fan of the Chicago Bears, the New York Yankees, and the New Jersey Devils. He also continued to enjoy playing sports himself, participating in softball leagues in his Packanack Lake community and playing hockey in local leagues in Wayne and Hackensack. An enthusiastic golfer, he enjoyed exploring courses throughout New Jersey and traveling on golf trips with close friends.

In 2007, while out with friends at The Barnyard in Totowa, Kasey met an attractive young lady bartending by the name of Effie Haralambidis.  This was an encounter that changed the course of his life. The two connected and began dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and in the presence of family and friends became husband and wife on September 08, 2019. The couple built their life together first in Pine Brook, where they welcomed their first two children; Kristian and Zoi and then moving to Packanack and welcoming their third child Dylan.  

Above all, Kasey’s greatest passion was his family. He treasured six years of loving and loyal marriage to his wife Effie.  Nothing in the world meant more to Kasey than providing for and spending time with his friends and family.  He treasured his summer family vacations to Brigantine, NJ.  Though quiet by nature, he possessed a fiery spirit, a deeply kind heart, and an unwavering devotion to those he loved. He defended his family fiercely, loved them wholeheartedly, and brought endless laughter to their lives with his sharp, dry, and wonderfully sarcastic sense of humor. He delighted in teasing those closest to him, which became his personal trademark.

He will be remembered as a loving husband, a devoted father, a dedicated son, and a wonderfully kind spirit.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Kasey is survived by his wife Effie Siepe of Wayne, NJ , his three children; Kristian, Zoi, and Dylan, his father Kim Siepe and step mother Lisa of Lake Hopatcong, two sisters; Keather Siepe and her partner Andy Picarelli of Pompton Plains, and Kourtney Simonson and her partner Tim of Newton, NJ, Six nieces and nephews; Kyana, Meiha, Kenna, Kacer, Jeffrey and Everleigh, three uncles; Craig Siepe and his life partner Narmeen, Jeff Siepe and his wife Juani and Keith Radhuber and his wife Janice. Kasey was predeceased by his mother Karen Siepe. 

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy are asked to consider contributions to Kasey’s Gofundme account.

Marie N. Dato of Wayne, N.J. age 96, passed away peacefully on Wednesday November 12th, 2025.

Marie was a Sister, Wife, Mother, Grandma and GG! It was always about her Family, Friends and Faith.

Born in Jersey City to Carmine and Rose Napolitano in 1928 she grew up there with her brother Joe and sisters Francis and Dolores. Graduating from Lincoln HS and going on to work at Merrill Lynch in NYC.

She met her “Sweetheart” Anthony in the late 1940’s “Down the Jersey Shore” in Keansburg, and it was ALWAYS a duo from Day One - Marie and Tony.

Married in 1950, her next career - and most important to her - would begin. MOM. Marie and Tony were married for 71 years and raised a family of Four. The first Susan was born in 1953, followed by John in 1955 living in Union City (Above their Brother-In-Law’s STAR Ravioli store)…Moving to New Milford in 1957, Michele was born in 1960 and then Daniel in 1967.

New Milford would see Marie’s circle of friends grow larger, with time at Little League Games, Girl Scouts and Brownies and of course the New Milford Swim Club, where her family and friends would enjoy leisurely summer days. As the young couple on the street, Reichelt Road, their neighbors- The Schultz’s and Renner’s would become 2nd family. Sending their children to Ascension School in New Milford would again grow their circle - Church, CYO, Communions, Baptism’s Confirmations and Weddings through Ascension.

After an amazing 19 years in New Milford, their circle of friends would grow again, moving to Wayne in 1976. OLC became an anchor, and a new circle of friends grew. Again Communions, Confirmations and Weddings at OLC.

Marie and Tony’s family was to grow again and take on a new role as Grandparents. Susan got married to Stephen (Rutkowski) and had - Scott, Stephanie and Sara. Michele got married to John (Brigham) and had - Jessica, John Robert and Thomas. Years again of a building a friend’s base through their children’s and grandchildren’s friends. School events, Football games and of course backyard parties at the kids houses.

Marie’s and Tony’s family grew once again as GG and G2 (Great-grandparents). Jessica married Michael (Valter) and had Ryleigh in 2018 and Harper in 2020. John Robert married Lauren and had Jay in 2019, Hailey in 2022 and Summer in 2025. Stephanie married Nick (Pacchiano) and had Anthony in 2021 and Luca in 2024. Sara married Mike (O’Leary) and had Benjamin in 2021 and Arthur in 2023. 9 count ‘em 9 Great Grandkids for GG & G2.

Marie’s family grew once more with Dan marrying Amber in 2023 and her having a new Daughter-in-law.

Continuing their family ties were their “Cousins” group from Hoboken. 12 people who would get together to enjoy good times traveling the world to drink some good wine, have a great meal and enjoy each other’s company. Marie’s family of In-Law’s, Nephews and Niece’s through the Napolitano’s, Patruno’s, Cerruti’s, D’Onofrio’s and Dato’s were “a crew”… when getting together would need a full backyard to enjoy the day.

Marie - A Sister, Wife, Mother, Grandma and GG. A smile will always be brought thinking of her.

Philip Scavone

July 7, 1976  — November 12, 2025

Lincoln Park, New Jersey

Philip Scavone, 49, of Lincoln Park, New Jersey, passed away on November 12, 2025. Born and raised in Little Falls, NJ, Philip built a life defined by hard work, creativity, and love for his family.

Dear son of Sharon Marquez (Pombo) and Philip Scavone. He graduated from Passaic Valley High School Class of 1995 in Little Falls, NJ. He continued his education at Engine City Technical Institute for diesel mechanics.

He began his career at Dell Landscaping, continuing his passion for small engine repairs. He later became the proud owner of StoneyBrooke Landscaping, where his dedication, skill, and craftsmanship could be seen in every project he touched. He had an incredible talent for building and fixing things whether it was a new project in the yard or tinkering with his quads, he found joy in his ability to construct and fix things. He could look at a broken object and somehow know just how to bring it back to life. If you gave him just a hammer and a nail, he could build you an entire house. His hands were never still, and his creativity and resourcefulness left a mark on everything he touched.

Phil met the love of his life Michele, during their high school years.  They married on June 7, 2003, and have been married 22 years. They began their life in Little Falls before moving to Lincoln Park. Phil and Michele’s marriage blessed them with two beautiful daughters Ashley & Brooke. He enjoyed spending time camping with them and sharing his love of quads. Sunday morning breakfast at his favorite diner with his family was always the highlight of his week.

Phil’s true passion was building and racing his quads.  He built his first quad in 1999 and from there his passion grew. Phil traveled the country racing his quad on the ice and on dirt tracks. He never cared if he came in first, last or crashed!

Philip’s greatest pride and joy were his family. He is survived by his beloved wife, Michele Scavone, and their daughters, Ashley and Brooke Scavone. He is also survived by his parents Sharon Marquez and Philip Scavone and his sister, April Scavone and her husband Carlo Galizia & their two children Giana & Carlo. Adored son-in-law to Anthony & Barbara Toscano. He was a beloved brother-in-law to Michael & Caryn Toscano and their children Michael & Vincent Toscano, Matthew & Colette Toscano, Jeffrey and Judy Toscano and their 2 children Jayden & Jocelyn Toscano and his great nephew Michael (MJ).

Philip will be remembered for his strong work ethic, boundless creativity, dedication to helping others and a remarkable ability to build and repair anything with his own two hands. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who loved him. 

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In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to the Mental Health Association of Essex and Morris County.

Alma Galante, age 82, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 12th 2025.

Alma was born in the Dominican Republic on January 13th 1943.  She was born to Melida Sanabia and was the step-daughter of Elpidio Sanabia.  The family moved to the Bronx when she was nine. Alma noted missing her red roller skates but absolutely loved seeing snow for the first time.

Alma had a love for learning and valued education. She earned her citizenship in 1961 and Masters degree in 1998. She was a supervisor at UA Columbia Cablevision for a number of years.

Alma is the beloved wife of Salvatore Galante. They began their marriage in the Bronx in 1963 then moved to Dumont NJ. They ultimately made their home in Ringwood, NJ where they raised their daughter, Marie.

Alma enjoyed crafting. She especially loved making piñatas for Christmas because she deeply treasured the magical moments that brought light to a child’s eyes.

Alma is survived by her husband Salvatore, daughter Marie Kreutz, Son In-law Bob, and three grandchildren, Alexandra, Marcus, and Zariyah. Alma was very close to her sister Rose and brother Robert. She also has a very large and loving extended family.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Alzheimer’s Association, alz.org would be greatly appreciated.

Valerie Joan Howard, age 61, of Montville, passed peacefully on 11/12/2025, with the comfort of family by her side.

Valerie was born in East Orange, NJ, in 1964 to Marcia and Wsewolod Luckewicz, the youngest of four children. She grew up in Livingston, NJ, graduated from Livingston High School in 1982, and from Rutgers University four years later. After graduating Rutgers, Val pursued a career in finance, which continued until Michael’s birth.

Val and Gregg met in 1987 and were planning their thirty-fifth wedding anniversary in July. They settled in Montville and started a family. Michael was born in 1995, and Graycen in 2000. Being a full-time wife and mother was Val’s true calling. She cherished each day spent raising a family. Val enjoyed getting involved in school activities and fundraising, and participated in whatever Valley View Elementary and Lazar Middle School needed her to do.

She formed close, life-long relationships in Montville, cherishing her “ladies’” nights out, which included Thursday night happy hour and Friday night BUNCO. For five summers, Michael played travel baseball for Montville, and some of Val’s fondest moments were watching his success and spending time with her baseball family.

Through the years she remained “sister” close to her Livingston “girls,” most of whom were able to visit her in her final days.

Val was a devoted lover of the ocean; she found her greatest joy on a beach. Val loved to eat what the sea offered, especially raw clams and oysters. Growing up, her family vacationed in Beach Haven every summer. Val’s sister Pat will remember celebrating their shared August birthdays, having banana ice cream at The Frosted Mug. That Luckewicz tradition continued as adults and parents. The first two weeks of August were spent in Beach Haven, joined by her two sisters and brothers’ families. Val always had a special place in her heart for her seven nieces and nephew, and spending those weeks together every year, seeing their growth and maturity, meant the world to her. She was always known as the “cool aunt.” After dating Gregg for a few months, Val discovered Longboat Key, FL. It was a place she always called her paradise. Her favorite time of day was sitting on that beach with a glass of wine and watching the sunset.

Val loved the holidays. Christmastime was spent decorating the house into a Christmas wonderland, she loved the smell of the tree in the house. Val would spend hours making sure she picked out the perfect tree. When the kids got older, for Halloween Val would dress up (usually as a witch) and trick-or-treat around Montville with Cathie S.

Michael is getting married this coming spring. From the very beginning, Val adored Willing. She would always say with a smile, “They’re so in love; Michael truly found his soulmate.”

Val’s fight with breast cancer began in 2014, and in 2021, she showed her strength once again, taking on metastatic breast cancer. For eleven years, Val faced this relentless disease with extraordinary strength, courage, and grace. Her will to live can only be described as superhuman.

Throughout these eleven years, Val was lifted by an incredible outpouring of love, support, and prayers. Val had such a huge heart, and the love she gave was returned to her many times over.

Val was predeceased by her father Wsewolod, and her brother, Michael. She leaves behind Gregg, Michael, and Graycen, whom she loved with every fiber of her body. She is also survived by her mother Marcia, sisters, Patricia Singley and Diana von Hoffman, seven nieces, and one nephew.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Valerie’s memory to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation (BCRF) or METAvivor.

Gail (nee Natale) Messercola, age 84, of Wayne, passed surrounded by her loving family.

Gail was born in Paterson to Fred and Flora Natale. She attended Central High School, where she graduated with the Class of 1959 and proudly served as a Drum Corps Majorette. It was there that she met her future husband, Louis Messercola, who was also a member of the Drum Corps. High school sweethearts from the start, Gail and Louis shared many memories together — including attending their prom side by side.

Gail and Lou fell deeply in love and were married on August 28, 1961, at St. Mary’s Church in Paterson. Their wedding celebration was held at the Villa Nova Restaurant, in Garfield, surrounded by family and friends. The newlyweds honeymooned in Bermuda before beginning their life together. Their loving and devoted marriage was blessed with two children, Louis and Susan, who became the heart of their world.

Gail began her career working at her family’s shoe factory in Paterson before joining the Nabisco Corporation in Fair Lawn as a secretary. After becoming a mother, she devoted herself wholeheartedly to raising her children. Once Louis and Susan reached elementary school, Gail returned to the workforce as the Administrative Assistant to the Director of Parks and Recreation for the Township of Wayne. She served the community with dedication and professionalism for more than thirty years, retiring in 2005.

When describing Gail, the words family and faithful come immediately to mind. She was the kind of mom and “Gamma” who would insist you eat something—offering food until you finally gave in. Though she wasn’t fond of cooking, she often joked that the best thing she made was reservations. Gail liked to say that the only two things she needed in the kitchen were a phone and a refrigerator.

The phone was essential for two of her favorite activities: making reservations and calling family. Her cheerful calls always began with the familiar greeting, “This is your charming—mother, Gamma, sister, aunt, mother-in-law, cousin,” or whichever endearment fit the occasion. The refrigerator, meanwhile, kept her Tab soda and Fiji water cold.

Gail loved to start her mornings with the newspaper, reading it cover to cover before officially beginning her day. Always a lady, she had her hair done once a week without fail, carried herself with grace and poise, and—much to the delight of her grandchildren—made sure they learned every colorful word in her vocabulary. She cherished her daily two-mile walks with her neighbors, could remove a stain from almost anything, and kept her home spotless—a reflection of the care and pride she brought to everything she did.

For her grandchildren, there were no limits to what Gail would do. It was often said that she truly lived for their happiness. Every year she hosted Christmas at Gamma’s—a cherished family tradition filled with laughter, excitement, and love. At Thanksgiving, she would hand each grandchild a Toys “R” Us or Target Wish Book and have them circle everything they wanted. She’d then collect the books and, come Christmas, each grandchild would find a mountain of gifts under the tree—every wish list fulfilled with her trademark thoughtfulness.

Gail also had a special way of making even the smallest occasions memorable. For every imaginable holiday, she sent each grandchild a card—always with a $5 bill and a cheerful smiley face inside. Birthdays at Gamma’s were equally magical: the birthday child would be showered with gifts, while the other grandchildren received their own small presents—perhaps a bag of snacks, a cozy hat and scarf, or something she knew would make them smile. It was her way of spreading joy evenly, making sure no one ever felt left out.

Gail was deeply devoted to her Catholic faith. For countless years, she and Lou faithfully attended Saturday evening Mass at Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, where she also volunteered her time in service to the parish community. Their Saturday nights became a cherished ritual—after Mass, they would head out to dinner, often joined by family or close friends, sharing good food, conversation, and laughter. It was a simple tradition, but one that reflected the love, faith, and fellowship that defined their lives together.

Gail was the loving wife of sixty-four years to Louis “Lou” V. Messercola; she was the devoted mother of Susan Bio and her husband Nino of Montville and Louis Messercola, Jr. and his wife Francesca of Wayne and; she was the cherished grandmother of Sebastian, Anthony, and Nicholas Bio and Daniella, Louis and Lucas Messercola.  Gail was predeceased by her sister Marie Meyers in 2023. She will be dearly missed by her caretaker of the last seven years Milica.

Gail was also the reluctant grandmother of her beloved “granddogs,” Zeke and Vienna. She would often protest when they greeted her with enthusiastic licks, claiming to hate it—but, of course, she loved them anyway. Her gentle affection for them was just another sign of the big heart she carried for all members of her family, furry ones included.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St Jude Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

In Loving Memory of Leonor (Mom)

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Leonor Reyes, age 91, of Wayne NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday November 8th, 2025 

Born on November 19th 1933 in Girardot Colombia, South America, she was the daughter of Mercedes Rojas and Emilio Rodriguez. The family later moved to Bogota, where mom received her formal education and graduated from a professional secretarial school.  

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After graduation mom starting working for the Club De Leones (aka Lyons Club) in Bogota, supporting businessmen in the financial industry. It was at that time mom met the love of her life, Hermes, with whom she celebrated 54 years of marriage.  They were united in matrimony on December 24th, 1955.   Following their wedding, Mom devoted herself to raising their five children: Colombia, Joseph, Angela, Clemencia and Diego. 

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Despite her full schedule as a mom, she found time to enjoy her favorite hobbies, including knitting, sewing and crocheting while listing to traditional Colombian music.    

Courageously, mom and dad made the decision to emigrate to the United States for the betterment of their children.  They recognized the opportunities available for those willing to strive for success.  THANK YOU, MOM AND DAD, FOR THE SACRIFICE!

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Mom is survived by all her children, two daughters-in-law Debbie and Iliana; five grandchildren, Joe, Andrea, Zachary, Matthew, and Elizabeth; one great granddaughter, Stella.

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It’s with a heavy heart we celebrate a life well lived.

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We fine comfort in knowing that she has reunited with her mom and dad and her husband who we know have welcomed her with open arms!

Eileen M. Amoruso, 76, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, November 7, 2025.

The third child of Matthias and Lucy (Buoye) Flammer, Eileen was born in Orange, NJ, and raised in Cedar Grove. A graduate of Immaculate High School in Montclair, she went on to Felician College in Lodi, where she earned her registered nurse degree. Eileen later continued her education at Jersey City State, receiving her Bachelor of Science in Nursing.

Eileen began her nursing career at Saint Joseph’s Medical Center in Paterson working in the Intensive Care Unit and later as nursing supervisor on the surgical floor. After a break to raise her children, she returned to St. Joe’s, working in the infectious disease clinic. In 2001, Eileen, along with her close friend, Rita, were nurse founders of the St. Mary’s Church Medical Assistance Program.

It was at St. Joseph’s that Eileen met her future husband, Dr. Robert “Bob” Amoruso, a young pulmonary critical care physician. Though Bob tried several times to catch Eileen’s attention in the hospital coffee shop, his early attempts went unnoticed. Persistence eventually paid off, and their first date took place at a New Year’s Eve party in 1976. Many dates later came a perfectly planned proposal: while vacationing in Lavallette, Bob placed an engagement ring inside a box of Cracker Jacks, letting it serve as the “prize.” When Eileen found the ring, Bob dropped to one knee—only for Eileen to drop the ring into the sand! Thankfully, it was quickly recovered, and the couple exchanged their wedding promises before God, family, and friends on March 8, 1980. Though the day was rainy and sleety, their love easily outshone the weather. Both avid skiers, they honeymooned in Aspen and Vail, Colorado.

Eileen and Bob began their married life in Clifton in a house located at 15 Renaissance Drive, where they welcomed their first two children, Katie and Dan. They later moved to 23 Robin Hood Way in Wayne, where their third child, Christina, was born, and in 2019 they moved to their present home in Wayne.

The Amoruso family created countless cherished memories at their getaway home in Smugglers’ Notch, Vermont, where they enjoyed hiking and skiing, and especially après ski. Eventually, she and Bob traded Vermont winters for the warmth of Bonita Springs, Florida, where she made new friends, enjoyed sunset cocktails at the beach and walks around the neighborhood.

Over 45 wonderful years of marriage, Eileen and Bob traveled extensively, visiting Italy, Peru, Scandinavia, Spain, and Australia, to name a few.  Eileen and Bob loved to travel with their extensive group of friends, especially the “WOWs” and their spouses.  Though, her favorite vacations were with her family, proudly dubbed “Amopalooza”. Just last year, for Eileen’s 75th birthday, they celebrated with their entire family—children, spouses, and grandchildren—on a trip to Ireland.

Eileen was the best kind of friend—loyal, kind, enthusiastic, and always ready to gather, whether for dinner, a game, or a celebration. She was invariably the first to arrive and the last to leave. She and Bob hosted Super Bowl parties for years, and in more recent times, Eileen loved playing Mahjong and Canasta with her close circle of friends.

Nothing brought Eileen greater joy than being surrounded by her family. She was especially proud to welcome daughter-in-law, Dawn, and son-in-law, Nathaniel into the family. Her two grandsons, Blake and Ryan, were her latest, greatest joy. She loved hosting family gatherings, especially Thanksgiving and Christmas, where her beautifully decorated home, delicious food, and warm, welcoming spirit made every celebration special. She was known for her impeccable hospitality, and her fondness for a glass of Chardonnay—or, on special occasions, a Manhattan.

Eileen kept an immaculate home, earning the nickname “Scoop.” If something was left in “the wrong place,” she would whisk it away in a New York minute to what she deemed “a better place,” leaving everyone wondering, “What just happened?”

Eileen took deep pride in her family’s accomplishments—her husband’s medical career, her daughters’ shared calling as nurses, and her son’s work as a cardiologist.

When Eileen was diagnosed with ovarian cancer nearly 12 years ago, she faced it with strength and grace. Through surgery and multiple rounds of chemotherapy she bravely fought, and, as many of her friends and family would attest, never complained.

Eileen was the beloved wife of Dr. Robert Amoruso, blessed with 45 beautiful years of marriage. She was the loving mother of Katie Amoruso and her husband Nathaniel, now residing in Kathmandu, Nepal; Dr. Daniel Amoruso and his wife Dawn of Mountain Lakes; and Christina Amoruso of Jersey City. She was the cherished grandmother of Blake and Ryan Amoruso; dear sister of Donald Flammer and his wife Carole of Albuquerque, New Mexico; the late Gerald Flammer and his late wife Connie; and Michael Flammer. She is also lovingly remembered by many nieces and nephews.

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The family requests that in lieu of flowers, remembrances be made by making a donation to:

John Theurer Cancer Center GYN Oncology Division at: Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

343 Thornall Street, 7th Floor

Edison, NJ 08837

If you wish, you may also give online at John Theurer Cancer Center

Please make a note that your gift is in memory of Eileen Amoruso

Laura Dunham, age 85 of Wayne, NJ passed away on Tuesday, November 4, 2025.

Born in the town of Russia, New York, Laura was the second of two children to Elsie Simonsen. When Laura was just five years old, her mother, Elsie, passed away after a battle with cancer. She and her sister Ann went to live with their aunt Esther in Cedar Grove, NJ, where they were lovingly raised. Laura attended Cedar Grove Public Schools before graduating from Bloomfield High School. Her pursuit of education continued at Houghton College in Houghton, NY, and she later earned her master's degree from Montana State University at Missoula, with additional coursework at Montclair State University and William Paterson University.

Music was Laura's lifelong passion. From an early age, she learned to play several instruments including the piano, organ, and cello. Her love for music led her to a rewarding career teaching music to others. Beginning in 1963, Laura taught private music lessons and shared her talents with numerous schools and churches throughout New Jersey. She held positions at several congregations, including Second Reformed Church in Little Falls, Calvary Baptist Church in Clifton, and Grace Church in Clifton, serving in roles such as choir director, organist, accompanist and even handbell director. Her musical excellence also led her to Carnegie Hall, where she had the honor of performing on the cello.

Beyond music, Laura expressed her creativity through handmade quilts and crocheted pieces. Known for her generosity, she worked tirelessly to create quilts as Christmas gifts and crocheted crosses for Easter, ensuring each friend and family member received something made with love.

Over the years, she cherished many beloved pets: Penny, a sassy Siberian Husky; Max, a beautiful Golden Retriever; and Teddy, an English Golden Retriever with whom she'd share burgers at Burger King (Teddy had a slight weight problem). She also adored her cats Hansel and Gretel, and most recently, Pumpkin.

Laura treasured her relationships, especially shopping trips with her sister Ann and the adventures she shared with her neighbor Judy exploring fun restaurants and stores together.

When Laura began as the choir director at Calvary Baptist Church in Clifton, she quickly caught the attention of a man named James Hiram Dunham, Jr (Jim).   Laura’s new role inspired Jim to join the choir – something he never had participated in before.  Laura and Jim fell in love quickly and the two were married in November of 1974. In September of 1975, the couple were blessed with their son James, III (also Jim).

Laura loved being a mom and she made it a point to be there for every boy scout event Jim participated in and every marching band performance he performed. When Jim and his wife Jennifer welcomed their two children, Kate and Jack, Laura’s heart grew even fuller. She absolutely adored being a grandmother—her pride in them was boundless. She wanted to be there for everything, from music recitals and sports games to cheerleading performances, cheering them on with joy and excitement. Talking about Kate and Jack always brought a sparkle to her eyes; they were truly the light of her life.

Laura will be remembered as a loving mother and grandmother, a gifted musician and artist, and a kind soul who was deeply sensitive to others. 

Laura is survived by her son, James Dunham III, and his wife, Jennifer; her cherished grandchildren, Kate and Jack; and her beloved cat, Pumpkin. She was predeceased by her husband, James Dunham Jr.; her sister, Ann; her aunt, Esther; and her mother, Elsie.

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations to the Clifton Public Library or the Wayne Animal Shelter.

Mary Kovach, age 98 of Wayne, passed away peacefully in the comfort of her home on Monday, November 3, 2025.

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Born in 1927 to Charles and Mary Kovach, Mary was the second of three children. Tragedy struck when she was just five years old as her mother passed away unexpectedly in 1933. Just two years later, faced with the difficult circumstance of raising three children as a single father, Mary’s dad made the decision to place her and her siblings into an orphanage at the Sisters of St Basil orphanage in Elmhurst PA. It was there that Mary grew up, graduated from high school, and developed many of the skills and values that defined her life: her unwavering faith, her remarkable organizational abilities, and her talent for crocheting.

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After graduation, Mary immediately went to work to support herself and her father. She began her career as an administrator at Sika Construction, the company that famously built many sections of the Garden State Parkway. Her organizational skills were so exceptional that salesmen from around the country would reach out to her for assistance. The construction workers adored her for her kindness and compassion, always looking out for her. They even went so far as to put chains on her tires when it snowed to help keep her safe. After her tenure at Sika Construction, Mary finished her career at General Foods before retiring after a long and successful career.

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Throughout her working years and beyond, Mary lived in the same residence in Clifton with her sister Helen for over fifty-five years. Though not twins, they were inseparable and as close as two sisters could be. They lived apart for a short time after Helen got married and moved to Philadelphia. After Helen’s husband passed away, they moved back together finding a new condo in Wayne where they have resided together ever since. 

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Despite her modest beginnings at the orphanage, Mary was determined to better her circumstances. When she first sought out to learn about investing, she was dismissed because she was a woman. Mary’s determination and ability eventually won over her teacher who recognized her potential and decided to impart as much as he could teach her. Mary excelled and built and managed her investment portfolio that grew steadily over the years. With her success, she graciously shared her earnings with the Church, numerous religious organizations, and orphanages.

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Mary was a woman of many passions. She was an avid skier, golfer, dancer, and crocheter. On the dance floor, especially when Polka music played, Mary and her sister Helen captivated the audience with their Polka dance. As a crocheter, Mary was as generous as she was talented, creating countless blankets and sweaters for family members and charitable donations alike.

Those who knew Mary will remember her for positive outlook and refusal to complain about anything. She had a gift for seeing the good in others and never spoke ill of anyone. Her kindness and generosity touched countless lives, and her faith was the true cornerstone of her life. Her commitment to her faith never wavered from her early years in the orphanage through her final days. She devoted herself to the Blessed Mother and to St. Michael the Archangel Byzantine Catholic Cathedral, where she put her administrative skills to work in service of the parish. More than anything, Mary’s faith was the source of her strength to help her through life’s toughest moments. 

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Mary is predeceased by her parents Charles and Mary Kovach; her sister Helen Niewodowski and her husband Frank; and her brother Michael Kovach and his wife Anneliese; her nephews Michael Kovach and Thomas Kovach; her great niece Margaret Caubet; and her great, great niece Alaina Teixeira.

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She is survived by her nieces Virginia Jakimowicz and her husband Patrick, Elisabeth Godlesky and her husband Richard, and Anneliese Nault and her husband David; her nephews Daniel Kovach and his wife Susan, and John Kovach and his wife Geralyn; her great nieces and nephews: Michael Kovach, William Kovach, Christopher Kovach, James Jakimowicz, Andrew Jakimowicz, Anneliese Meloni, Laura Godlesky, Christine Teixeira, Timothy Kovach, Gabriel Kovach, Melanie Nault, and Sarah Nault; and great great nieces and nephews: Mary Kovach, Anneliese Kovach, Michael Kovach, Amelia Meloni, Sophia Meloni, Kayden Godlesky, Benjamin Teixeira, Joseph Perkins, Anthony Perkins, and  Nathan Kovach.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to St. Michael the Archangel Byzantine Catholic Cathedral. 

Anthony C. Giaccio, a devoted husband, father of three, grandfather of six, great-grandfather of two, accomplished businessman, community leader, and a passionate master sailor, passed away peacefully on November 3, 2025, at the age of 87.

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Born in Jersey City, New Jersey on January 26, 1938, Anthony spent most of his early life in the Lafayette section of the city. His life was defined by industriousness, generosity, a spirit of adventure, and an unwavering commitment to faith and family. He attended Saint Peter’s Grammar School and graduated from Lincoln High School in 1956. His entrepreneurial spirit emerged at the early age of nine when he began selling used toys and worked at local church bingo nights, selling sodas to attendees. He also served as an altar boy for three years.

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In high school, Anthony was widely recognized as the best dancer in his class and took initiative to organize and host Friday night dances at the local YMCA. His strong work ethic continued into college, where he balanced his studies with a role at Worthington Corporation in the machinery industry. He earned his degree from Saint Peters University over four and a half years while gaining valuable professional experience. 

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Anthony spent initially over two decades in leadership roles within the machinery business before transitioning to his true professional passion, financial advising. In his late 40’s, he joined Merrill Lynch, where he built a distinguished 32-year career as a full-time financial advisor, earning the trust and admiration of clients and colleagues alike.

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Anthony’s life was forever changed when he met Margaret “Peggy” Giaccio in high school at one of the dances he arranged. They married on August 28, 1960, beginning a loving partnership that spanned 65 years. Together, they raised three children, Cheryl, Arlene, and Anthony, having eventually settled in Wayne, New Jersey, in the mid-1960s. Cheryl married John Goggin, Arlene married Andy Schaeffer, and Anthony married Laura Draudt resulting in the growth of the family even further. Over the years, he was blessed further with the birth of his grandchildren Daniel, Christopher, Jenna, David, Jack, and Ava then subsequent birth of his great grandchildren Ainsley and Kallie.

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Shortly after settling in Wayne, Anthony discovered the one thing, other than his family, that he was most passionate about….sailing!  Over the next 42 years, Anthony and his family enjoyed sailing primarily on Long Island Sound having had many adventures throughout the entire area.  These adventures eventually led to settling in East Hampton NY where he lived out his sailing days as a profound expert seaman of the Gardiners Bay area up to the age of 80.

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Anthony’s faith remained central throughout his life. He was an active member of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne, NJ, where he supported church initiatives, assisted with construction programs, and offered financial guidance. He was also a longtime member of the Knights of Columbus and the Fidelians of America, contributing to charitable efforts that benefited countless families.

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Anthony will be remembered for his love for his family, his love for the sea and sailing, leadership, business acumen, a trusted confidant and counsel, dependability, and his unwavering dedication to those around him. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched and the family he cherished.  He will be sorely miss but absolutely never forgotten!

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital at www.stjude.org. 

Thank you, and God bless.

Gail Smiecinski, 62, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Sunday, November 2nd, 2025 at Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, NJ. Gail was born on January 9th, 1963 in Providence, RI, beloved daughter to Robert J. Richard, Sr. and Gail (Douglas) Richard.

Gail was preceded in death by her partner, David Boyle; her father, Robert J. Richard, Sr.; and her daughter, Regis Smiecinski.

Gail spent much of her childhood moving around to different areas of the country, including Terre Haute, IN and Baton Rouge, LA, before her family finally came to rest in Far Hills, NJ. Throughout her youth she engaged in a myriad of outdoor hobbies, including horseback riding, off-road dirt biking, and hiking. She also spent her free time learning to play the cello.

Graduating from Bernards High School in Bernardsville, NJ in 1980, Gail went on to work an assortment of different jobs, including bus driver, deli clerk, and accounts receivable for her own father's business; however, there was no job she loved more than being a stay-at-home mom and wife for her family. Gail married her former husband Mark Smiecinski in September 1983. They lived together in Cedar Knolls, NJ for 20 years with their two daughters, Regis and Katherine.

Due to the advanced progression of her multiple sclerosis (MS), Gail was moved into a nursing home full-time at the age of 39, spending most of the remainder of her life in Preakness Healthcare Center in Wayne, NJ. Despite these hardships, however, Gail flourished from the life she was presented with. In 2010, she met fellow MS patient David Boyle. The two quickly became friends and before long, that friendship blossomed into romance. They were inseparable; wherever one was, the other wasn’t far behind. They spent 10 beautiful years together before David's passing in 2020. She became a pillar within her nursing home community, serving for several years as president of the Resident Council where she helped organize activities and outings for her fellow residents, such as bingo and trips to local shops. She was extremely active in the Church community as well, her faith serving as a great source of strength and comfort for her.

Gail is survived by her daughter, Katherine Smiecinski; her grandchildren, Genevieve, Bobby, and Clifford; her mother, Gail Richard; her stepmother, Marlene Richard; her sister, Debra (Richard) Manahan; her brother, Robert Richard, Jr.; her stepsister, Kellie Piekarsky; her half-sister, Hillary Richard; and several nieces and nephews.

Gail was a bright light in the lives of all who met her. Her quick wit and kind heart gained her fast friends everywhere she went. She will be missed by many and replaced by none.

In lieu of flowers, the family has requested donations be made to the MS Society in Gail's name.

Natalie Conte – a beloved former wife and loving mother – passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 2, 2025, at the age of 93. She was a beautiful woman blessed with a long and wonderful life.

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Born and raised in Newark, Natalie was the youngest of ten children of Dominic and Rose (Basso) Delli Paoli. She spent the first sixty-eight years of her life in Newark. After high school, she developed exceptional skill as a seamstress, creating beautiful dresses in Newark’s garment factories.

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As a young woman—and truthfully, throughout her life—Natalie was a true beauty. One man who couldn’t help but notice her was Anthony “Tony” Conte. Their story began one day when Natalie stepped out of a restaurant wearing a short white coat and a black tammy hat. For Tony, that was it—he had to meet her. When he sent his cousin to introduce them, Natalie replied, “If he wants to meet me, he can come in here to meet me.” Tony mustered his courage, and he never regretted it. They soon hit it off, dated for some time, and were married on August 19, 1951, at St. Michael’s R.C. Church in Newark. A joyful reception followed at The Fountain in Belleville, and their honeymoon in Atlantic City—reached by bus—marked the start of a beautiful life together.

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The newlyweds began their marriage in a furnished Newark apartment, later moving into a home built into Natalie’s parents’ house. There, she and Tony welcomed their daughter, Antonia “Toni,” followed by their son, Louis. Eighteen years later, the family moved next door to her parents, and eventually to another Newark home. In 1995, after 44 years of marriage, Natalie faced the heartbreak of losing Tony. She remained in Newark for several more years before joining her daughter Toni and son-in-law Gary in Wayne, where she lived for the rest of her life.

Natalie devoted herself to her family as a nurturing mother and homemaker. She helped fundraise for her children’s school, hand-sewed Barbie clothes for Toni, and created a loving home. The family cherished their summer vacations at the Jersey Shore in Long Branch, surrounded by extended family and laughter.

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Always active, Natalie loved visiting flea markets, attending live shows in New York City, and playing bingo—first at St. Michael’s in Newark, later at the Wayne PAL. She enjoyed restaurants, scenic drives through quaint towns in New Jersey, New York, and Pennsylvania, Italian card games, and traveling with her daughter Toni throughout the world—visiting the British Isles, Italy, Greece, England, Ireland, and across the U.S., with New Orleans a favorite. She also enjoyed time in Florida and Canada.

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A talented cook, Natalie was known for her homemade lasagna and her famous Sunday gravy with meatballs and sausage. She especially loved the holidays - Christmas and Easter most of all. At Christmas, her home was filled with the scent of freshly baked Italian cookies and decorated from floor to ceiling, welcoming family and friends with warmth and joy. For years, New Year’s Eve was a lively family tradition filled with celebration and bingo with her siblings.

Though naturally shy and quiet, once you got to know Natalie, you discovered her generous heart. She was caring to the core—a true nurturer who would help anyone in need, even an enemy (if she’d had any). Selfless and loving, she always put others first. More than a mother, she was a best friend.

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Natalie was the adored wife of the late Anthony “Tony” Conte; the devoted mother of Antonia “Toni” MacDonald of Wayne and the late Louis Conte (2019); cherished sister of Dominic Delli Paoli and his wife Carol of Bloomfield; and beloved aunt to many nieces and nephews. She was also predeceased by her dear son-in-law, Gary MacDonald (2017), and by seven sisters and one brother.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Natalie’s memory are asked to consider a donation to:

Dementia Society of America

PO Box 600

Doylestown, PA 18901

To download a form to mail in a donation, please CLICK HERE.

Please make sure to designate that your gift is in memory of Natalie Conte

Robin Mae Voag, age 69, of North Haledon passed away peacefully on Sunday, November 2, 2025.

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Robin was born to Robert and Dorothy Voag of Haledon, NJ and attended Manchester Regional High School in Haledon. Robin began working at Foodtown of North Haledon in 1972 and retired in 2023. She dedicated 51 years of loyal and faithful service to Foodtown, where she was cherished and loved by customers and colleagues alike. Her friendly spirit often created a line at her register, as so many enjoyed the chance to chat with her.

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Robin will be remembered for her quirky sense of humor, kind heart, and unwavering desire to help others. She had a lifelong passion for animals, especially birds, and shared a special bond with her beloved parrot, BooBoo, who was by her side for 27 years. Robin’s compassion extended beyond her own pets- she was a devoted supporter of animal shelters and frequently donated to causes that helped animals in need.

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Beloved daughter of Robert Voag (1980) and Dorothy Voag-nee Mehalco (2007), and loving sister-in-law of John Levine (2014). Robin is survived by her brother Robert Voag and his wife Lori of Magnolia, Texas, her brother Carl Voag and his wife Maryanne of Highland Lakes, NJ, her sister Dawn Dunn and husband Chuck of Hamburg, NJ, her sister Jacqueline Levine of North Haledon, NJ and her sister Lisa Voag of Haledon, NJ. She is also survived by her 16 nieces and nephews and 20 great nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Ramapo-Bergen Animal Refuge, would be appreciated.

Jack Nick Riggio, age 89 of Pequannock passed away on Saturday, November 1, 2025.

Jack was born to Joseph and Josephine Riggio in Brooklyn NY where he grew up and attended high school. His father Joseph, was a furrier in the garment district in New York City and Jack and his brother John followed that career. Jack owned AA Fur Processing in NYC for many years until he retired at the age of 84 when Covid shut everything down. 

Jack was a very handsome outgoing guy and at the age of 21, he went dancing at the Starlight Ballroom in NYC and that is where he met the love of his life, Pauline.  Six months after meeting, they were married on September 8, 1957 and spent their honeymoon in Niagara Falls. Jack was 21 years old and Pauline was 26, Jack didn't tell her how old he was until they went for the marriage license because he thought she wouldn't marry him.  In March of 1959 they welcomed their daughter Joann into the family and in May of 1964, their son Joseph was added. Jack was a loving and caring husband and father and worked hard to support his family.

In 1967 they moved from Brooklyn NY to Wayne NJ into a brand new house where they raised their family and they remained there until 2021 when they moved to Cedar Crest. That year was hard for Jack, his son passed in March and Pauline passed in October. Thankfully he had made many friends at Cedar Crest. His daughter Joann, has received many messages and phone calls from his poker group and friends at Cedar Crest offering their condolences and expressing what a great guy he was and that he will be missed.

For many years Jack and Pauline were avid bowlers and belonged to leagues at T-Bowl but Jack's passion was hunting, he went upstate NY every year in November for a week to go deer hunting with the guys. Last month he went and bought a hunting license for 2025, even if he couldn't hunt, he just wanted to go and spend time with his friends John and Chris, they are much younger than him, but they all enjoyed each other's company and they truly became family.

Jack is survived by his daughter Joann (Riggio) Dura and her husband Glenn and two nephews John and Jason Riggio.  

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St Jude's or the American Diabetes Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Lorraine Florence Monk, age 87, of Wayne, passed away on Friday, October 31^st, 2025 with her daughter by her side.

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Lorraine was born to Olga & George Arnold in Hackensack, NJ. She was raised in New Milford, NJ. She graduated from Immaculata College and went on to teach Latin and English until her first daughter was born. When she went back to work, she became a bookkeeper for a law firm in Hackensack.

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Lorraine was a loving and caring mother, sister, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was a member of the Brownstone Quilters and the Prayer Shawl Ministry at St. Anne’s Church in Fairlawn. Her passions were watching tennis, doing her crosswords and jigsaw puzzles, knitting, and going to the opera.

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Lorraine was blessed with two daughters and two wonderful sons-in-law, Sandra Boes & William Boes, and Donna Rossi & Tom Rossi. Unfortunately, Donna Rossi predeceased her mother in 2017. She was blessed with four handsome grandsons, Kevin Rossi (spouse Aubrey Nagle), James Rossi (spouse Kacee Rossi), Brett Boes, and Christopher Boes, who unfortunately predeceased her in 2016 at the age of 20. She was then blessed with a beautiful great-granddaughter Zoey Rossi (parents James & Kacee Rossi), who is 3 ½ years old. She is also survived by her loving sister and brother-in-law Adele & George Zawisa, her two nephews Michael Zawisa (spouse Tina Zawisa) and John Zawisa (spouse Daria Zawisa), and her great niece and nephew Koriann & Dylan (parents John & Daria).

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In lieu of flowers, Lorraine asked that memorial donations be made to the Chris Boes Foundation in honor of her grandson. A check can be sent to Sandra & Bill Boes at 49 High Street, West Milford, NJ 07480, made out to Chris Boes Foundation, or via Venmo to William Boes @chrisboesfoundation

Patricia DiCarlo, aged 94, of Wayne, peacefully passed away on Wednesday, October 29, 2025, surrounded by her loving family, whose hearts will forever carry her memory.

Patricia was born on June 6, 1931, in Totowa, New Jersey, to her loving parents, Rose and Oscar Pudula. As the eldest of three children, she took on a nurturing role, looking after her younger brother, Anthony, and her sister, Barbra. Patricia's journey included heartfelt moments at Memorial Grammar School and Passaic Valley High School, where she laid the foundation for her future. She also found joy and camaraderie as a teenager, singing in the choir at Saint James Roman Catholic Church alongside her sister, creating cherished memories together in their close-knit community.

Patricia dedicated many years of her life to working as a receptionist at First Fidelity Bank in Wayne. With her warm smile and genuine sense of humor, she had a special way of welcoming everyone who walked through the door, often leaving them in laughter before they departed.

As a loving mother, wife, sister, aunt, great aunt, cousin, and friend, Patricia's devotion to her family was evident in everything she did. She was always there to offer a helping hand, sound advice, or a comforting shoulder to cry on when it was needed most. Her youthful spirit shone through her love for fashion, always dressing impeccably and showcasing her collection of beautiful shoes that brought joy to those around her.

Patricia found great pleasure in the arts, enjoying outings to the theatre, ballet, and opera. Above all, it was the time spent with her family and friends that brought her the greatest happiness—those treasured moments filled with love and laughter that she held dear. She touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed.

Patricia met her beloved husband, Joseph, and together they created a beautiful family with their three children: Joseph Jr., Steven, and Richard. She cherished her role as a grandmother to Joseph, Domenic, and Isabella, who brought immense joy to her life. Patricia was so proud of each of them and eagerly anticipated the arrival of her first great-grandchild. In her later years, she found happiness in spending time with her partner, Dan DeStefano, and embraced his family as her own. Patricia's warmth and kindness left a lasting impression on everyone who knew her, and her absence will be deeply felt by all who loved her.

Patricia was a deeply devoted wife to Joseph (who has predeceased her) and a loving mother to her son Joseph Jr. (also predeceased), Steven and his wife Joanna DiCarlo, and Richard and his wife Donna DiCarlo. She cherished her role as a beloved grandmother to Joseph and his wife Nicole DiCarlo, Domenic and his girlfriend Gabriela Insignares, Isabella DiCarlo, Michael and Karlee Rouskas, Roxanne Rouskas, Vasili Rouskas, Samantha and Evan Ruben, Kyra Ruben, and William Mazzia. Patricia found comfort and companionship as the forever partner of Daniel DeStefano.

Her heart was always open as a faithful sister to Barbara and Brother-in-law Jerry Speziale (predeceased), and her brother Anthony Padula (predeceased). She was a nurturing aunt and great-aunt, whose love and care extended to several nieces and nephews, creating cherished connections that will be remembered and celebrated.

Norman Hosier, Sr., age 98 of Wayne, passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday, October 29, 2025.

Born in Paterson to James and May Hosier, Norman was one of many children in a bustling household. His love for the outdoors began early with the Boy Scouts and turned into a lifelong passion for fishing and hunting; a trait he eventually passed down to his kids too.

When Norman turned 17, the attacks on Pearl Harbor shook the nation and led Norm to the Draft Board to serve his country. Assigned to the Navy and stationed in Hawaii, he served as a chef and baker for the next 14-18 months before returning home with his newfound skills and enjoyment for baking.

After Norman returned home from the United States Navy, he learned a beautiful young woman named Jennie had moved in next door to his parents at 147 Garfield Avenue in Paterson. Wasting absolutely no time, Norm asked Jennie to go out with him, and she said yes. The couple quickly fell in love and were married in less than a year on Saturday, September 16, 1950, at Pascack Reformed Church in Park Ridge. After a reception in the family’s home, Norman and Jennie jumped into his light green Nash and headed for Sarasota Springs, NY for a beautiful honeymoon.

The young couple began their married life in Norman’s parents’ apartment at 147 Garfield Avenue. They shared the apartment with his parents, and it was there that they were blessed with the first of their five children, a baby girl who they named Deborah. They quickly decided they needed a bit more space and conveniently enough Jennie’s parents in the apartment next door offered the newlyweds the upstairs apartment all to themselves. There, they were blessed with two more girls: first Janice and then Norma Jean. With their family growing they decided to move to Genessee Avenue in Paterson where they welcomed their two boys: Norman, Jr. and James. In 1962, they moved to their home in Wayne where they’ve lived ever since.

Norman built a career as a specialty cake maker and baker, putting his Navy training to expert use. Despite offers from large conglomerates eager to recruit his talents, he preferred working at local bakeries where he could perfect his craft. Besides baking, Norman was also an incredible carpenter. He built out his house himself, redid his own roof, and tackled just about any project you can think of in his home apart from electrical work which he wisely left to professionals. Norman was generous with his time going out of his way to help friends, neighbors and eventually his kids with their own home projects.

Norm and Jennie loved Long Island and Barnegat and made sure to pass on that love to their children by taking their family out on summer trips to their favorite spots. Norm taught his kids to crab off the bay docks and enjoyed every second spent with them, especially in the places they loved. Working six days a week never diminished his devotion to his children. On his Mondays off, he would sometimes surprise them by waking them up and exclaiming there was no school today because they were going fishing or hunting instead!

Norman approached both work and life with tireless ambition and the belief that every problem was simply a new challenge to overcome. This resilient mindset, which he embodied every day until his final moments, became a cornerstone value he passed down to his children.

Norman and Jennie shared a loving marriage that spanned a remarkable 73 years before her passing in October 2023. He will be remembered as a devoted family man who worked tirelessly for those he loved and who always made time for what truly mattered in life.

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Norman was the beloved husband of Jennie who predeceased him in October of 2023.  He was the proud and loving father of five children: Deborah LaSala and husband William of Wantage, Janice Nolan and husband Thomas of Pompton Plains, Norma Jean Johnson and husband Scott of Newton, Norman Hosier, Jr. and wife Maryrose of Newton, and James Hosier of Wayne; adoring grandfather of five grandsons: Jason Grieves, Billy LaSala, the late Christopher Grieves (2007), Michael Hosier and Matthew Hosier; dear uncle of several nieces and nephews and great grandchildren.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making memorial contributions to: The Plant Church, 115 Franklin Tpke. #155, Mahwah, NJ 07430 

Dolores H. Udland, 95, of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Tuesday, Oct. 28, 2025. Dee, as she was known to friends and family, was born on July 2, 1930 and had been a resident of Wayne since 1953.

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Dee was predeceased by her husband Arthur, to whom she was married for 68 years until his death in 2018. She is survived by her four children, Richard, Kenneth (Rosemary), Carol and Susan.

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Known as Grandma or Great Grandma, Dee treasured her time with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Dee is survived by 8 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren. Dee was predeceased by her great grandson, Joseph Mongelluzzo, who died in 2022.

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Art and Dee were married on April 9, 1950, and moved to Wayne three years later, raising all four of their children in the home they built together. A longtime member of the Preakness Reformed Church in Wayne, Dee was a faithful volunteer for various church groups and other organizations through the years.

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An animal lover, Dee was the faithful companion over the years to a series of small, white dogs – Pierre, Tiki, Jake, Milo, Teddy and Benji. Dee was an avid collector of owls – figurines, glassware, bowls, plates. If they could put an owl on it, Dee would find it.

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For the Udland family, Christmas Eve at Grandma’s was a tradition that went unbroken for decades, and her memory will live on in the hundreds of gold ornaments that adorn trees across the family each December. An avid baker, no Udland will eat a brownie and not think of Grandma.

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A dedicated scrapbooker, Dee leaves her family with dozens of binders, hundreds of photos, and countless memories of vacations, graduations, weddings, and all manner of family milestones. Dee was also a tennis player and enthusiast. She would spend hours watching all of the major tennis tournaments and of course she would have her strawberries and whipped cream prepared when watching the Wimbledon finals. Dee organized family reunions, kept tabs on family members spread across the country and the world, and kept the Udland clan together through so many of life’s ups and downs.

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In lieu of flowers donations to St. Judes Children’s Hospital or the Wayne Memorial First Aid squad would be appreciated. 

Edna May Nick (née Congleton), age 78, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 28, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

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Born in her family home in the Preakness section of Wayne, New Jersey, Edna was the beloved daughter of Warren and Edna Congleton. As the family grew larger, Edna's parents moved frequently to accommodate the significant size of the family. They lived in Wayne, NJ Kingston, NY, Totowa ,NJ, Lincoln Park NJ and then eventually settled down permanently back in Wayne. Like many young women of her generation, Edna left school early to help her mother take care of her siblings and to earn a living. Along side her mother, she worked cleaning offices at Kearfott in Totowa. Edna also did other jobs to earn money along the way.

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As a young woman, Edna lived just up the street from a handsome young man named Kenneth Nick in Paterson. At the time, Kenneth, known to everyone as Mike, was dating someone else, but Edna's best friend Lois, got Mike to break up with his girlfriend and convinced him to start dating Edna. After just six weeks of courtship, the couple knew they were destined to be together and the married on Edna's 18th birthday, December 19th 1964.

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The couple began their life together in Paterson, New Jersey, where they welcomed their first 3 children, Margaret, Brenda and Tammy. They then lived on Fayette Avenue in a house behind Edna's parents. Edna got pregnant with their fourth child and the couple needed a bigger house, so they bought a boarding house in Wayne that had many rooms to accommodate their quickly growing family. There they had the rest of their children,  Paula, Karey, Krissy, Erica, Kenny and Michael.

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Edna went on to drive a school bus for the Wayne Board of Education for several years as well as volunteering for the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad. During this time tragedy struck in February of 1985,  Edna's son Kenny passed away unexpectedly. This rocked Edna to her core. She knew she still had other children to care for so she picked up the pieces of her heart to continue on for her  family with the help of her husband, parents, older daughters, Margaret, Brenda and Tammy. Edna was always looking for jobs that allowed her to provide medical and financial stability for her family.  In March of 1985, Edna left the Wayne Board of Education to begin her career with General Motors in Tarrytown, New York as an auto assembler with UAW Local 664. She worked there for ten years until the plant was closed. In 1995, Edna was transferred to General Motors in Linden, New Jersey UAW Local 595. Shortly after transferring Edna had an opportunity to become a tradesman with the company. She originally wanted to be a Union Electrician, however the need for them was scarce. Instead, she decided to try her hand at carpentry. In April of 1996, Edna graduated from Middlesex County Vocational and Technical Adult Schools with a certificate in Carpentry. She then started her career as a Carpenter's Apprentice at GM and eventually worked her way to Journeyman Carpenter. In 2008, GM announced they would be closing the Linden Plant, so Edna was faced with deciding to transfer out of state or to retire. Edna's love for her family made that decision easy, she decided to retire from GM in June of 2008. 

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 Edna’s greatest joy was her family. She cherished every moment spent with her parents, siblings, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. When her mother fell ill, Edna devoted herself wholeheartedly to her care, just as she did for so many others throughout her life. Edna's parents were the foundation of the family. Her father passed in 1999 and her mother in 2003. She also lost her baby brother Frank to pulmonary fibrosis just a few months prior to losing their mother. Frank and his wife Kathy were very close with Edna's family. They were always together whether at Edna and Mike's house for pizza Fridays or bbqs at Frank and Kathy's house. Kathy her sister in-law was her best friend. In October 2010, Kathy unexpectedly passed away. This was a huge loss for Edna, she was almost inconsolable. Within a few weeks of Kathy's passing, Edna suffered a catastrophic, rare stroke that put her in a coma. The doctors weren't optimistic but after a week Edna regained consciousness. She said she could hear her family the entire time she was comatose and she knew that they needed her. Her awakening from the coma showed her strength, will, and love for her family. Edna was physically strong after her stroke but suffered cognitive deficits. She was unable to care for herself, so her husband Mike and their children cared for Edna. They did for her as she had done for them all the years prior. She instilled a great family ethic in all of her children. During the years that followed, Edna lost her brothers Alan and Bill, as well as her sister Jane. She also lost two daughters, Erica and Karey. 

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Edna will be remembered for her love, warmth, and generosity.  She was a woman who always placed the needs of others before her own. She leaves behind a legacy of hard work, kindness, and devotion that will continue to live on through the family she so deeply loved.

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She will forever be remembered as a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.

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Edna is survived by her husband Kenneth Nick, Sr (Mike). of Wayne, to whom she was married for almost 61 years , five daughters; Margaret Nick Henry of Lincoln Park, Brenda Amaya and her husband Luis of Wayne, Tammy Miller and her husband Mark of Wayne,  Paula DiBartolo and her husband John of Wayne, Krissy Montana of Wayne, a son Michael Nick and his wife Jessica of Pompton Lakes, and a son in-law Anthony Sorrentino of Totowa,  nine siblings; Robert Frields (Sue), Marilyn Wehnert, Bruce Frields, Elaine Maggiore, Warren Congleton, Jr. (Gerry), Philip Congleton (Lynn), Julia Swanson (Jim), Deborah Bailey, and Gay Longo (Steve), fourteen grandchildren; Emily (Dillon), Josh (Jess), Ashlyn (John), Amanda, Sarah, Lia (Chris), Brandon, Scott, Stacey (Andrew), AJ (Kristen), Kathleen, Allyson, Michael Jr., and Katie,  and seven great grandchildren; Decker, Evie, Brayden, Riley, Noah, John III, and Mark James.  She was predeceased by her parents Warren and Edna, her daughters; Karey Ann Sorrentino, Erica Mandeville and her son Kenneth Nick, Jr.  She was also predeceased by her siblings; Beverly Frields, Frank Congleton, Alan Congleton, Jane Ruck, and William Frields, and nephews William T. Frields Jr., William Frields, William Bailey, and nieces Daria Frey (her Goddaughter), and Tanya Congleton.

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Edna's name may be made to:

FOWA Rescue PO Box 3701 Wayne NJ 07470

or

Helping Felines In Need PO Box 2586 Wayne, NJ 07474.  

It is with great sadness, yet with immense thankfulness for his beautiful life, that we share the passing of Eugene “Gene” R. Kelly, age 64, of Wayne, on Saturday, October 25, 2025.

Gene was the firstborn of Eugene and Assunta “Susan” (D’Amato) Kelly’s two sons. Born in Jersey City, he moved with his family to Wayne three years later and lived in the family home at 43 Mandeville Drive for nearly his entire life - relocating only in 2022 to Pompton Lakes. Alongside his younger brother, Joe, the family spent many summers traveling the United States in their pop-up trailer. By the time they were done, they had probably been in or through at least 40 of the nation’s 50 states—without ever once asking, “Are we there yet?” (Well…maybe once.) Everytime they crossed a border, there would be a thrusting forward of hands on the dashboard to claim who was "first" in that particular state. They also cherished weekends spent at their permanent trailer in the Poconos.

Gene graduated from Wayne Hills High School, Class of 1981, where he had a blast serving as manager of the basketball team for all four years. Decades later, he could still recall key plays from standout games with laser accuracy—whether you asked him or not. After high school, he earned his associate’s degree from Edward Williams College, where he graduated in 1984 and his bachelor’s degree in history from Fairleigh Dickinson University, where he graduated in 1986—no surprise, given his lifelong passion for the subject.

Gene enjoyed a remarkable thirty-eight-year career as a maintenance worker with King’s Supermarkets. From 1987 to the present, he served many years at the Wayne store and most recently at the Verona location.

A deeply spiritual man, Gene was devoted to God and to his lifelong parish, Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. He served enthusiastically as an usher, a Eucharistic minister both at Mass and in local nursing homes, and as a Sunday collection counter. Gene loved his parish, often remarking proudly that he had been there since the building was first constructed.

Gene’s memory was legendary. It fueled his love for history and his uncanny ability to recall the past. Fiercely proud to be an American, he could frequently be found wearing patriotic shirts and—almost without exception—a baseball-style cap. He devoured book after book on U.S. history, could name exact dates of major events, and remembered precisely where he was during the notable moments of his own lifetime. He especially admired Abraham Lincoln, proudly sharing a birthday with “Honest Abe.” When his grandmother won a trip to Hawaii, she brought Gene and his cousin along. And though Gene did try a little surfing, what thrilled him most was visiting the historic site of the Pearl Harbor bombing.

Gene loved sports - especially the New York Yankees, the New York Jets, and the New Jersey Devils. Despite his loyalty to Gang Green, he and Joe would often use their dad’s season tickets to catch a Giants game at the Meadowlands in East Rutherford. He was also a dedicated Star Trek fan and enjoyed word search puzzles, shouting out answers during Jeopardy, solving phrases on Wheel of Fortune, and listening to good music – especially The Beatles and Simon & Garfunkel. Throughout his life, Gene was also a collector. It wasn’t necessarily about the items or the reasons; it was the thrill of collecting itself. His baseball cards were his most impressive stockpile - at least in sheer numbers. Ask him if he had a particular card, and he probably couldn’t tell you. Inventory wasn’t his thing - collecting absolutely was.

Gene was a true family man - the greatest storyteller and the family historian. Joe affectionately called him “my personal hard drive,” because whenever he couldn’t remember something, Gene would supply the memory in 1080p detail. He had a huge heart and was generous beyond his personal means. A major fan of video games, he loved old-school classics like Space Invaders, Super Mario Brothers, and Pac-Man. At Christmas, he lit up watching his nephews open new video games from Uncle Gene. Holidays were also about the only time Gene would enjoy a drink - a nice glass of Guinness Stout or maybe a shot (or two) of Bailey’s Irish Cream.

And Gene always had to be the first to deliver breaking news. The story could be splashed across every TV network and social media feed, but Gene would still get to you personally—face-to-face, by text, or maybe with a dramatic tone for effect.

Gene was a loyal friend, evidenced by over forty years of friendship with a core group of high school buddies (George, Chris, Eric, and Andy). Nearly every Saturday night for decades, they gathered to watch movies, enjoy snacks, and drink soda. And when it came to food, Gene never met a fast-food restaurant he didn’t like. Kind, loving, funny, thoughtful—Gene truly would have given you the shirt off his back, a quality modeled consistently by his parents.

Gene was the loving son of Eugene and Susan (D’Amato) Kelly, both of whom predeceased him. He was the dear brother of Joseph Kelly and his wife, Sharon, of Pompton Lakes, the cherished uncle of Ryan and Evan Kelly, and a treasured cousin to many. He also held a special place in his heart for his girlfriend, Kim Welma. They met in high school and remained close until losing touch when Kim moved to Texas. In recent years, they reconnected through mutual friends, gifting them a second chance to rekindle their relationship. Though long-distance, they spoke daily and visited each other a couple of times each year. Gene loved going to Texas to see Kim - and, naturally, to visit the historic Alamo. (Yes, he took notes.)

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Gene’s name are asked to consider sending a donation to:

Our Lady of Consolation R.C. Church,

1799 Hamburg Turnpike

Wayne, NJ 07470

For other ways to donate to the ministry of Our Lady of Consolation Church, CLICK HERE.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Eugene “Gene” Kelly.

Theresa Gollinger died at the age of 107.  

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She was born in Rabafuzes, Hungary and came to the United States in 1951 with four children. She was a homemaker and also worked fulltime with Brooks Brothers in New York as a seamstress. After retirement she moved to Wayne, New Jersey.   

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At the age of 101, she moved in with her daughter in New Port Richey, Florida. She died on October 24, 2025 and is survived by her three daughters, Anna, Irmgard and Brigitta. She had one son, Emil who is deceased. She has four granddaughters, Carol, Monica, Judy and Andrea.  Her family increased with eight great-grandchildren, George, Michelle, George, Justine, Katrina, Kristina, Gina and Leah; and four great-great grandchildren, Wayne, Walker, Gemma and Madison.

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She loved being around all her family and she will be missed.

Kathleen “Kay” (Cummings) Iapoce, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 24, 2025.

Kay was born on September 25, 1934, to Patrick and Margaret (nee Joyce) Cummings. Six weeks after her younger sister Mary was born, Kay and Mary’s mother Margaret passed away leaving Patrick a single father of two daughters under the age of 14 months. With the help of extended family, Kay’s father raised his daughters on West 90th Street in Manhattan. Tragedy struck the girls again when their father died in January of 1952. They moved from Manhattan to Mayflower Avenue in the Bronx to live with their Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie. At the time, Kay was attending Cathedral High School on Lexington and 50th in Manhattan.  She continued to commute via trains and buses to Manhattan for the rest of her high school years graduating in June of 1952. 

While vacationing in the Berkshires, Kathleen met a handsome young man from Long Island City in his twenties named Richard “Buddy” Iapoce. The two began dating and distance was no matter. Buddy traveled back and forth to the Bronx on the subway to see Kay as often as he could. They were married on May 19, 1962, and they enjoyed a honeymoon in the Pocono’s. They first settled down in North Bellmore, Long Island before a new job for Buddy prompted a move to Wayne in 1967.

A passionate traveler, Kay spent much of her life exploring the world with Buddy, and their many dear friends and family. Together they loved journeying coast to coast. Whether driving cross-country in the car for five or six weeks at a time, finding landmarks and historical places (maybe even a casino or two), or taking their annual Disney World trip with their grandchildren, they were always eager to discover new places and make memories they would cherish for their lifetimes. Kay found joy in seeing the world and experiencing all life had to offer. She continued to travel and create memories with her family, most notably to Outer Banks and Disney World.

Kay was a hard worker and had many jobs in her lifetime. She recently mentioned that she enjoyed every place she worked because there was something she learned from each experience. She had an extraordinary depth of knowledge across a wide variety of subjects. Her curiosity knew no bounds and she was always motivated to learn something new, solve a difficult puzzle, or simply engage in thoughtful conversations. Her family and friends often marveled at how much she knew about so many different topics. Her ability to absorb and share information made her a cherished source of wisdom and insight to all that knew her.

Faith was an important part of Kay’s life.  She was baptized, received her First Communion and was Confirmed at St. Gregory the Great Church on West 90th in Manhattan where her Father was the Sexton  (and rumor had it that her father had to stand in as best man for Babe Ruth at his wedding at St. Gregory’s Rector in 1928 because Babe’s chosen Best Man was not Catholic.. but you didn’t hear that from us).  Once she moved to Wayne, Our Lady of the Valley Church became her home parish for the next 58 years.  

Kay was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Richard Iapoce, “Buddy” in 2013. She was the loving mother of: Michael Iapoce and his wife Suzanne of Lincoln Park and their children Kevin, Connor, Kieran and the late Kyle Patrick Iapoce (1996) , Mary LaBarre and her late husband Edward (2021) of Wayne and their children Alyssa and her partner Ryan and their son Hunter Edward, Casey and Gregory LaBarre of Wayne, and Rick Iapoce and his wife Sue of Wayne and their children Ricky Iapoce, Nick and Dan Hanrahan, Katie and Justin Destefano and their daughter Vienna Grace.  She is also predeceased by her parents Patrick and Margaret Cummings, her Aunt Bea and Uncle Willie and her sister Mary Cummings.  

In Lieu of flowers, a memorial donation to the following charitable organization would be greatly appreciated:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Stjude.org

Dorothy Locker Martin (Dot), age 94, of Little Falls, NJ, passed in the early hours of Monday, Oct. 20, 2025, while in hospice care at Sunrise of West Essex.  

Dorothy was born at home in Lodi, NJ, to Marinus and Trina Stienstra Locker in 1930. After her mother lost her battle with tuberculosis at Dot’s tender age of 9, her dad remarried Margie Van Wyen who largely contributed to raising Dot. In 1948, Dot graduated from Lodi High School and eventually married William Ray Martin in April 1956. They honeymooned in Williamsburg, VA. Dot was married to Ray for 66 years before he passed in October 2022. 

As a young adult, Dot traveled by bus every day to the phone company, where she worked as a switchboard operator. She also worked as a bookkeeper at the J.L. Prescott Company.  Ultimately, she worked at Bamberger’s (later Macy's) in the Willowbrook Mall. She held that position for more than 25 years, while raising her daughter, Brenda.

Dot was devoted to her family and was involved in the Second Reformed Church of Little Falls. Having been brought up in the Great Depression era she learned the value of financial stability early on, and instilled the value of fiscal responsibility into her family members by showing how to be a wise saver and shopper.

Dot and Ray enjoyed many summer and holiday weeks at their home with their two grandchildren playing in the pool, going to the local park, and shopping for back to school clothing. She also loved being with family in Ocean City, NJ, and going on cruises to many different destinations with friends and family.

Dot was an avid cook of both meals and desserts, especially during holidays when her homemade creations were desired and showcased. She felt great satisfaction knowing that her husband, Ray, had everything he needed to enjoy his daily meals to the fullest. She loved the company of her dog Snoopy and his support in licking up the kitchen floor. She enjoyed simple things such as the occasional game of cards and Rummikub.

Dot was predeceased by her husband Ray, and brother, Robert. She is survived by a daughter Brenda (who also married a man with the last name Martin), son-in-law Kevin, granddaughters Alison and Ellen, and great-grandchildren Keagan and Talia. Also surviving are cousins Kathryn and Lillian, cousins (twins) Robert and Ronald, and nieces Lauren, Alice and Cindy. Dot also leaves behind various grand-dogs and great grand-dogs.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Humane Society of New Jersey would be greatly appreciated using the following link - https://njhumanesociety.square.site

Garret A. Hoogerhyde Sr., 95, of North Haledon, was called home to be with his Lord and Savior on Sunday morning, October 19, 2025.

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Born in Paterson, Garry was the firstborn of Carl and Marie (Wiegel) Hoogerhyde’s six children. He grew up in Prospect Park in the family home at 111 Brown Avenue. A member of the Class of 1946 at Eastern Academy (now Eastern Christian High School), he went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in accounting from Pace University in New York City.

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In October 1951, Garry was inducted into the U.S. Army, where he proudly served at an anti-aircraft radar site protecting New York City. Following his honorable service, he began a long and rewarding career as a Certified Public Accountant.

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Garry’s first position was with Betts and Gilmore CPAs on Virginia Avenue in Paterson, and his apartment was conveniently located just above the office—leaving him no excuse to ever be late. Over the years, as his mentors retired, Garry assumed leadership of the firm, partnering with several colleagues along the way. His last partner was Dave Baker, giving the firm its name: Hoogerhyde & Baker CPA’s. For a time, he ran the business out of his home on John Ryle Avenue in Haledon. Most of the firm’s history was spent at 909 Belmont Avenue and later at 886 Belmont Avenue in North Haledon. In 2000, Garry sold his share of the business to his son Douglas, but he continued to come into the office—mainly to chat with longtime clients and let Doug handle the paperwork—until full retirement in 2019.

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Garry was the devoted husband of Marlene (Kara) Hoogerhyde for 70 years, until her passing in November 2024. Their love story began with a blind date arranged by a friend while Garry was on military leave. Intent on making a good impression, he showed up at Marlene’s home in his full Army uniform. Though neither remembered the specifics of that first date, it clearly made a lasting impact. They were married on May 8, 1954, at the Hawthorne United Methodist Church, with a reception in the church fellowship hall, and honeymooned through New England, finishing at Niagara Falls.

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The newlyweds settled in the Virginia Avenue apartment above Garry’s first office. Over the years, the family moved several times, including a relocation prompted by the planned construction of Route 80—which would have cut directly through their living room. Eventually, they settled in North Haledon at 326 Squaw Brook Road, where they raised their eight children. Later, they moved to 22 Brian Court, and most recently resided at the Windmere (formerly the Holland Christian Home) in North Haledon.

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Faith was the foundation of Garry and Marlene’s life together. Introduced to the Orthodox Presbyterian Church through the ministry of Grace OPC in Fair Lawn, they joined the congregation in 1956. Garry was ordained and installed as a ruling elder two years later. Over 63 years of service, he became probably the longest continuously serving elder in the history of the OPC, ministering at Grace OPC (Fair Lawn), Emmanuel OPC (Whippany), Living Hope OPC (Nutley), and Church of the Covenant OPC (Hackettstown).

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Garry taught Old Testament adult Sunday School classes and served the denomination in remarkable ways, including: 56 years on the Home Missions Committee, 58 years on the Pensions Committee, 43 years overseeing the hospitalization plan, and 36 years as the president of the Loan Fund Board. In 1976, he was elected moderator of the denomination’s General Assembly.  In addition, he served on the Presbytery of New Jersey’s Home Missions Committee, Diaconal Committee, and as its treasurer.

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To those who served alongside him, Garry embodied the qualities of a wise elder—humble, prayerful, joyful, and filled with Spirit-led wisdom. He worked tirelessly and quietly, always for God’s glory, never his own. In reflecting on his years of service, Garry would often say: “It’s astounding to realize that the Lord saw fit to use me that length of time and that the church feels I’ve been useful. That is encouraging and humbling—but it’s the Lord’s work. Unless the Lord had done it, it wouldn’t have happened.”

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Even with a demanding professional life and active church involvement, Garry found time to serve elsewhere. All eight of his children attended Eastern Christian Schools, and when asked to serve as president of the school board, he answered the call. He also served on the board of American Christian Schools in Succasunna, on the board of Christian Schools International and on their pension committee, on the pension funds for Christian Health Care Center (now Christian Health) and the Passaic County Public Employees’ Pension Fund, and on the advisory committee that helped launch Atlantic Stewardship Bank (now part of Columbia Bank).

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Garry also made room for hobbies. A passionate philatelist and numismatist (stamp and coin collector), he loved crossword puzzles, jigsaw puzzles, sudoku, and quiet moments in his easy chair with a hot cup of coffee and sacred hymns or classical music playing in the background. Nights often ended with The Tonight Show with Johnny Carson—prompting Marlene’s frequent calls from the bedroom to “turn it down!”—or family Star Trek nights, the only time the kids could watch TV at dinner.

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He also loved road trips. With many of his children attending Dordt College, he cherished the long drives between North Haledon and Sioux Center, Iowa. Trips to Vermont were special favorites, and visits by plane to his sons in Washington State became treasured memories.

Garry was a man of strong convictions, anchored in his Christian faith. Though accomplished, he remained profoundly humble, often deflecting praise. His life of service to his family, work, church, and community was, to him, simply a way to follow Christ’s example. Principled yet approachable, firm yet kind, Garry treated everyone—from the janitor to the CEO—with the same respect and friendly smile. And to all who knew him, that warm, familiar chuckle will always be remembered.

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Garry was predeceased by his beloved wife Marlene in 2024. He was the loving father of eight children: Stephen Hoogerhyde of Hackensack; Susan and husband George Lindemulder of Wanaque; Roy and wife Juanita Hoogerhyde of Nazareth, PA; Kathleen and husband Timothy Kline of Fair Lawn; Glenn and wife Jill Hoogerhyde of Lynnwood, WA; Stuart and wife Karen Hoogerhyde of Lynden, WA; Garret Jr. and wife Anita Hoogerhyde of Bothell, WA; and Douglas and wife Leah Hoogerhyde of Franklin Lakes. He was the cherished grandfather of 20 grandchildren and adored great-grandfather of 23 great-grandchildren. He was the dear brother of the late Arthur Hoogerhyde; Carl Hoogerhyde, Jr. and wife Edna of Hawthorne; the late Lawrence Hoogerhyde and wife Linda of Jenison, MI; Marie Zuidema and husband Fred of Portage, MI; and Kenneth and wife Pamela Hoogerhyde of Lamoine, Maine. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews.

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Special thanks to all who have kept Garry in prayer, visited him, called him, and encouraged him in his final days on this earth.  Also, his family would like to express our deep appreciation to the incredibly loving and caring team of caregivers at Windmere, who took amazing care of Garry.  Your work is often hard and thankless, but you took it as a calling as well as a job. Know that you are loved and greatly appreciated by the Hoogerhyde family!

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations in Garry’s memory to one of the following:

The Orthodox Presbyterian Church

607 North Easton Road, Bldg. E

Willow Grove, PA 19090-2539

Mid-America Reformed Seminary

229 Seminary Dr.

Dyer, IN 46311

Lorraine Ho, age 90, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home in the presence of her loving family on Sunday, October 19, 2025.

Lorraine was born in Nanking, China. Early in her life, her family escaped to Taiwan, where she attended middle school, high school, and college. She earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in English from Taiwan Normal University in 1957. After graduation, she moved to Saigon, Vietnam, where she taught English and worked as a translator for the American war correspondence press from 1958 to 1959.

Lorraine’s life changed course when she relocated to the United States to pursue a master’s degree in library science at Marywood College (now Marywood University) in Scranton, Pennsylvania, graduating in 1961.

After earning her degree, Lorraine began her career as a librarian with the former Engineering Societies Library (ESL) in New York City. It was there that she met a young engineering student named Tony Ho, who was working in the city during his summer internships from Virginia Tech. The two began dating, fell in love, and became engaged in December 1961. They married on March 16, 1963, at Corpus Christi Church on 121st Street in New York City. A reception followed at Earl Hall at Columbia University, and they honeymooned in Philadelphia.

Lorraine and Tony began married life in Hackensack, where Lorraine worked at the Johnson Public Library from 1964 to 1967. In 1967, they moved to Wayne, settling into a brand-new home where they would remain for the rest of their respective lives. In 1972, they were blessed with the birth of their son, Andrew.

Professionally, Lorraine served as librarian at the Okonite Research Library in Passaic from 1968 to 1969 and at the Clifton Public Library from 1969 to 1973. She later dedicated herself to raising Andrew, attending his sporting events, and taking him to all his Boy Scouting activities. She was also very active in the local Chinese American community and served as President of the Northern New Jersey Chinese Association (NNJCA) in the early 90s.

After retiring in 1995, Lorraine and Tony spent their later years traveling extensively, usually taking one major trip each year. Their favorite places to travel were England, France, and Hawaii, but they also loved travelling through Spain, Italy, Germany, Austria, Switzerland, Greece, China, and Tahiti. When not travelling abroad, they loved spending time together at their condominium in Wildwood Crest on the Jersey Shore.

In her spare time, Lorraine enjoyed swimming in Wildwood Crest, and at the Preakness Pool and Toms Lake in Wayne. An enthusiastic tennis fan and long-time member of the Pacquenac Tennis Club, she enjoyed both playing and watching the sport. She also loved capturing memories and was the self-appointed family photographer at all events and trips. While Tony oversaw most of the cooking, Lorraine’s specialties were her version of roast Peking duck for Thanksgiving and scallion pancakes for special occasions throughout the year.

Above all, Lorraine’s family was her greatest source of pride and joy. She adored her two grandsons, Nathan and Alex, and always looked forward to spending time with them. Known for her attention to detail, strong organizational skills, energetic personality, forthcoming nature and overall love of life, Lorraine touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Lorraine was the beloved wife of Tony Ho, with whom she shared 58 years of marriage before his passing in 2021. She was the loving mother of Andrew Ho and his wife Yani of Tenafly; cherished grandmother of Nathan and Alex; dear sister of Ting Pei Lee, Ting Yu Lee, Ting Cai Lee, An Yi Lee, and Frances Lee who all predeceased her; and the beloved aunt of many nieces and nephews.

Hazel Ann Neil, age 85 of Packanack Lake in Wayne passed away on October 19, 2025 in her home with her loved ones by her side.

Ann was born on May 29, 1940 to Louis and Hazel Hopper in Newark NJ and lived in Nutley as a child. She was a graduate of Wayne High School in 1958 and later Kathrine Gibbs School where she learned professional office skills. She worked in the Wayne school system for years and also at a Consumer Product testing facility until she became the Principal Clerk Typist at William Paterson College in the library department. Ann was the one that professors went to for help when trying to find information, and for the library Christmas parties she always got everything organized so everyone had a good time.

Ann was a loving mother to her daughter Heather Barno and son Chris Neil and his partner Lisa of Wayne. Ann's granddaughter Samantha Oras and her husband Alex, and is also survived by her nephew Raymond, and nieces Susan and Lisa.

Ann loved to read mystery novels particularly Agatha Christie and watch old Charlie Chan movies while she embroidered and did needlepoint. One of her favorite things to do was go on day trips to Atlantic city with her friends, she loved playing the slot machines. When she was younger, she liked to put together jigsaw puzzles and make matching clothes for her and her daughter Heather.

Patricia Kaelin, beloved mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, and friend, passed away peacefully on October 18, 2025, at the age of 66.

Born in Paterson, New Jersey, on June 1, 1959, Patricia was the cherished daughter of Kenneth and Angelina Armstrong. She grew up in Wayne, NJ in a close-knit family alongside her sisters Joan Green (Jeffrey) and Karen McIntyre (James), and remained deeply connected to her roots throughout her life.

Patricia was the devoted mother of Kimberly Kowzun (Richard) and Stephanie Kaelin, and the proud grandmother of Ricky and June Kowzun, who brought her endless joy. Her family was the center of her world, and she committed her heart and hours to their happiness.

A graduate of Wayne Hills High School and Rutgers University, Patricia served as the recreation director of JDT at Lincoln Park Care Center, where her creativity and compassion touched the lives of many. She had a gift for bringing joy to others, whether through her work or her beautiful singing voice, which she shared generously with those around her.

Alan D. Green, age 79, of Wayne and Hopatcong NJ passed peacefully on Friday evening, October 17th, 2025.

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Alan was born in Manhattan, NY and lived in Brooklyn, NY until the age of 5 when his family moved to Bogota, NJ.

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Alan served in the army from 1964 to 1967. Alan enlisted proactively and served in Texas until he was honorably discharged.

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Alan met Joan Vorch at a bingo event in 1969. They dated for six weeks before Alan proposed and married shortly after. Alan just knew. Joan and Alan were set to celebrate their 55th anniversary this November.

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Alan graduated from Thomas Edison College when he began work as an accountant. Alan loved working with numbers and the work he did as an accountant. However he hated tax season. He really hated tax season. Alan’s proudest highlight came early in his career. He loved to share that he had Clarence Clemons of The E Street Band as a client. He enjoyed going to Clarence’s Bar, “Big Man’s West” in Red Bank to sit back and take in the bands and atmosphere while he worked on the books.

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Alan was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He loved nothing more than to sit back with a hot dog at Rutts Hutt and tell stories of his past to his children. The stories were always the same, but the passion and smile for them were always infectious. His grandchildren were the light of his life. Scarlett, Grayson and Luca always made him laugh and he loved sharing their world. Alan had many hobbies but his favorite by far was fishing. He always looked forward to his annual fishing trip with his two best friends, (or as they called themselves, the three ballerinas) to Lake Gananoque in Canada.

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Alan is survived by his wife Joan, his son Jay, his wife Devan, their two sons Grayson and Luca, his daughter Joelle, her husband Jonathan and their daughter Scarlett. Alan is pre-deceased by Irving and Murray his two parrots.

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In lieu of flowers the family asks that you take the time to hug your loved ones and never pass up the opportunity to say, “I love you." Or as Alan would put it, “you can call me anything you want, just don’t call me late for dinner.”

Louis J. Eswood, Jr. age 68, of Parsippany, passed Tuesday, October 14, 2025 with the comfort of family by his side.

He was born in Paterson to Louis and Frances Eswood and grew up at 302 Michigan Avenue. He attended St. Brendan’s Elementary School later graduating from Paterson Catholic High School with the Class of 1975. Continuing his education, Louis earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration from Montclair State College.

Louis met the love of his life, Nancy Drost, during a happy hour at Gaspar’s Restaurant & Night Club, in Wayne, after work. That chance encounter continued later that evening at the Pompton Queen Diner on Route 23, where their connection quickly deepened. After asking for her father’s blessing, Louis proposed to Nancy at her apartment. They were married on June 1, 1985, at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton, followed by a reception at The Tides in North Haledon. The couple honeymooned in Bermuda and went on to share a loving and devoted marriage of forty years, blessed with two sons and four cherished grandchildren.

Louis’ strong work ethic began early in life. As a boy, he delivered newspapers to nearly one hundred customers each day, balancing the heavy basket on his bicycle as he made his rounds. He also cut lawns in Paterson, always willing to put in the effort to earn his way. During his high school and college years, he worked in the paint department of Sears at Willowbrook Mall, where he learned the value of customer service and responsibility. After graduating college, Louis began his professional career with Union Carbide Corporation in Wayne, working in the customer service division of their home and automotive group. When Union Carbide merged into 1st Brands Corporation in Parsippany, he transitioned into the role of Fulfillment Manager for Promotional Products. In 1999, Louis joined Prudential Financial in Newark as a Purchasing Manager for Consolidated Fulfillment, a position he held with dedication until his retirement in 2020. Over the years, Louis built a reputation as a dependable professional, admired for his integrity, attention to detail, and commitment to every role he undertook.

Louis was gifted with the talent of storytelling, captivating anyone who listened with his humor and insight. Inquisitive by nature and a true problem-solver, he was “Mr. Fix It” to family and friends alike, always ready to lend a hand or figure out a solution. His patience extended even to teaching parallel parking, where he turned a nerve-wracking rite of passage into a lesson in calm encouragement. He loved his time at the beach in Sea Isle City, found daily perspective in watching World News Tonight with David Muir, and delighted in dropping everything to catch Produce Pete on WNBC, eager to learn something new. Louis had a particular passion for investigating dairy product plant codes and sharing his discoveries with anyone willing to listen. Informative, resourceful, and endlessly curious, he found joy in the small details of everyday life and shared that joy generously with those around him.

Louis was the loving husband of forty years to Nancy Lynn Eswood (née Drost). He was the devoted father of Louis Joseph Eswood III and his wife Alyssa of Fairfax, VA, and Brian John Eswood and his wife Anna of Sewell. He took great pride in being the cherished grandfather of four—Madelyn, Connor, Olivia, and Bianca Eswood who brought him endless joy; he was the loved brother of MaryAnn Wiarda and her husband Pete of Green Pond. Louis was also the much loved brother-in-law to Ken Drost and his wife Dawn of Lafayette, CO, Tim Drost and his wife Jeananne of Verona, and Laurie Larsen of Wharton. He will be dearly missed by his many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends whose lives were touched by his kindness and love.

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In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to Ally’sElves, Inc. www.allys-elves.org is a charity inspired by Louis' niece Alana (Ally), and the seniors whose lives are brightened by the joy and companionship Alana and her community deliver each holiday season.

Zoila “Zoilita” Araujo, de 83 años, residente en Clifton, Nueva Jersey, falleció el lunes 6 de octubre de 2025.

Nació en Celendín, Cajamarca, Perú, hija de Glorioso y Celinda Araujo. A los siete años se mudó con su familia a Lima, es ahi donde conoció y se casó con Enrique Reyes. Su unión fue bendecida con cuatro hijos: Pilar, Rosa, Kiko y Carlos.

En 1980, Zoila llegó a los Estados Unidos con nada más que fe y valentía, decidida a construir una vida mejor para su familia. Acompañada de su hijo menor, Carlos D. Reyes, comenzó de nuevo: primero en Hollywood, Florida, y después de nueve meses, en Paterson, Nueva Jersey, en el 331 de la Avenida 21, Apartamento 1R. Poco a poco, sus otros tres hijos se reunieron con ella y la familia volvió a estar completa.

Zoila tenía una ética de trabajo extraordinaria. Aceptó todo trabajo honesto que encontraba —en las fábricas textiles de Paterson, limpiando casas, cuidando pacientes como asistente de enfermería, y, en un momento de su vida, convirtiendo su hogar en una pequeña cafetería donde los vecinos se reunían para disfrutar de su comida. Era pura energía y alegría: la música a todo volumen, la comida chispeando, la ropa lavando—y Zoila bailando entre todo ello. Creía que la vida debía vivirse con valentía y esperaba que todos a su alrededor compartieran su entusiasmo y propósito.

Fuera del trabajo, Zoila encontraba felicidad en los placeres simples: tejer, hacer crochet, cuidar sus plantas y resolver crucigramas. Le encantaba viajar y disfrutaba de las reuniones y paseos familiares. También amaba encontrar buenas ofertas en ventas de garaje y en la tienda de dólar.

Profundamente católica y devota, llevaba todos los días su collar de San Miguel Arcángel como símbolo de fuerza y protección.

Zoila encontró su verdadera vocación en el Lakeview Convalescent Center de Wayne. Bajo la guía de la familia Grosso, se convirtió en Asistente de Enfermería Certificada (CNA) y dedicó más de 25 años al cuidado de los residentes con compasión y orgullo —tanto así que sus propios hijos a menudo la ayudaban allí.

Zoila fue la amada madre de María Reyes, de Wayne; Zoila Figueroa y su esposo Jorge, de Wayne; Carlos E. Reyes, de Clifton; y Carlos D. Reyes y su esposa Magda, de Wayne.  Fue la querida abuela de Gabriella Sodroski y su esposo Dan Sodroski, Mariella Figueroa, Lucas Reyes y Daniel Reyes; y la adorada bisabuela de Paige Sodroski. Fue precedida en fallecimiento por sus hermanos Elena Araujo, Humberto Araujo y Elmer Araujo.

La vida de Nuestra Madre fue un testimonio de fe, esfuerzo y amor —el tipo de amor que cruza continentes y deja un legado imborrable.

Su fortaleza y calidez seguirán viviendo en las vidas que tocó y en la familia que amó con tanta intensidad.

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Zoila “Zoilita” Araujo, 83, of Clifton, New Jersey, passed away on Monday, October 6, 2025.

Born in Celendín, Cajamarca, Peru, to Glorioso and Celinda Araujo, Zoila moved with her family to Lima at age seven. In Lima, where she met and married Enrique Reyes, and together they were blessed with four children: Pilar, Rosa, Kiko, and Carlos.

In 1980, Zoila came to the United States with nothing but courage and faith, determined to build a better life for her family. Bringing along her youngest son, Carlos D. Reyes, she began again—first in Hollywood, Florida, and, after nine months, in Paterson, New Jersey, at 331 21st Avenue, Apt. 1R. One by one, her other three children joined her, and the family was reunited.

Zoila’s work ethic was extraordinary. She took any honest job she could find—in Paterson’s textile factories, cleaning homes, providing care as a nurse’s aide, and, at one point in her life, transforming her home into a small luncheonette where neighbors gathered around her cooking. She was pure energy and joy: music up, food sizzling, laundry going—Zoila dancing through it all. She believed life was meant to be lived boldly and expected everyone around her to share her sense of purpose.

Beyond work, Zoila delighted in life’s simple pleasures: knitting, crocheting, gardening, and crossword puzzles. She loved to travel and enjoyed family gatherings and trips. She also loved finding good bargains at garage sales and the dollar store. Deeply Catholic and devoted, she wore her St. Michael the Archangel necklace daily as a sign of strength and protection.

Zoila found her true calling at the Lakeview Convalescent Center in Wayne. Mentored by the Grosso family, she became a Certified Nursing Assistant and devoted more than 25 years to caring for residents with compassion and pride—so much so that her children often came to help as well.

Zoila is the dearly loved mother of Maria Reyes of Wayne; Zoila Figueroa and her husband Jorge of Wayne; Carlos E. Reyes of Clifton; and Carlos D. Reyes and his wife Magda of Wayne.  She is the cherished grandmother of Gabriella Sodroski and her husband Dan Sodroski, Mariella Figueroa, Lucas Reyes, and Daniel Reyes; and the adoring great-grandmother of Paige Sodroski.  She was predeceased by her siblings Elena Araujo, Humberto Araujo, and Elmer Araujo.

Our Mom’s life was a testament to faith, grit, and love—the kind that moves a family across continents and sets a legacy in motion. Her strength and warmth will live on in the lives she touched, and in the family she loved so fiercely.

Vincenzo Celso, age 80, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday, October 5, 2025, surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Born in Acri Consenza, Calabria, Italy, Vincenzo was one of seven children of Giuseppe and Assunta Celso. As a boy, he loved playing and watching soccer, a passion that grew into lifelong devotion to the Inter Milan soccer team. After completing high school in Italy, he proudly served in the Italian military, where he was stationed in Libya and other parts of Africa. Following his service, he worked as a skilled mason, a trade that would remain central throughout his life.

Through family connections, Vincenzo met the love of his life, Andreana Turano. As fate would have it, they fell in love.  Vincenzo and Andreana exchanged wedding vows surrounded by friends and family on August 7, 1971, beginning a union that would last fifty-four years. Shortly after their wedding, they immigrated to the United States. Determined to build their life together in search of a better life and the American Dream.  The newlyweds settled in Paterson, New Jersey.

Upon arriving in the United States, Vincenzo began working at Marcal Paper Products in South Paterson (now Elmwood Park) as a forklift operator. After several years, he returned to his skills as a mason, contributing to dye houses and textile companies throughout the Paterson area. In the late 1980s, he joined the custodial department of the Wayne Board of Education, a role he held with pride and dedication until his retirement in 2014.

Vincenzo and Andreana welcomed two children, Laura and Giuseppe, during their years in Paterson. In 1995, the family moved to Wayne, where they continued to build a warm and loving home. Vincenzo’s greatest joy was spending time with his family and dancing with his wife. He delighted in tending to his vegetable gardens, cultivating tomatoes, peppers, flowers, and fig trees, and preserving Italian traditions such as making his own wine. Handy and resourceful, he was able to complete home projects and repairs with ease.

A man of deep devotion, Vincenzo cherished his Catholic faith. He and his family were longtime parishioners of Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson and later Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne. He was known for his sharp wit, lighthearted teasing, and the sarcastic humor.  These were characteristics that endeared him to those closest to him.

He loved traveling with his family to Italy to reconnect with relatives, as well as enjoying trips to Atlantic City and Las Vegas. He also remained a loyal fan of soccer and professional wrestling, hobbies that brought him joy throughout his life.

Above all, Vincenzo was a man devoted to his family. His greatest passion was providing for them, sharing time with them, and celebrating life’s simple joys together. He leaves behind a legacy of love, hard work, and unwavering commitment to those he cherished most.

Vincenzo will be remembered as a loving husband, devoted father, proud grandfather, and dear friend. His memory will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

Vincenzo is survived by his wife Andreana (Turano) of Wayne, NJ, one son Giuseppe “Joey” Celso of Wayne, NJ, one daughter Laura Albornoz and her husband Jean of North Haledon, NJ, one grandchild Gia Albornoz of North Haledon, NJ, four sisters; Maria Celso of Acri, Italy, Agata Cappello and her husband Angelo of Norwalk, CT, Lina Celso and her husband Giuseppe of Italy, and Santina Celso and her husband Giuseppe of Como, Italy, one brother Ernesto Celso and his wife Lisa of Como. Italy, and his sister-in-law Giuseppina Lupo.  He was predeceased by his brother Domenico Celso. Also, survived by many nieces and nephews.

Daniel Martin, age 77, of Pines Lake in Wayne, sadly and unexpectedly passed from this life on Sunday, October 5, 2025.

Born in Waldwick, the third of Eugene and Joan (Blair) Martin’s five children, Dan grew up in the family home at 319 Wyckoff Avenue. He attended St. Luke’s Grade School in Ho-Ho-Kus and graduated from Waldwick High School with the Class of 1964.

As a young boy, Danny loved making models of cars, planes, and ships. He developed many practical skills as a Boy Scout, where he also discovered a lifelong love of hiking and camping. As teenagers, he and his three brothers spent countless hours working on cars and motorcycles together. Always busy with his hands, it came as no surprise when Dan pursued a career in construction. Dan was a proud, career-long member of Union Local 3 (LIUNA) based out of Mountainside, NJ. Known for his work ethic and skill, he was highly sought after by contractors who valued his conscientious approach to the job. He never turned down overtime and was always hustling to line up side jobs, motivated by his love of the work and his deep commitment to providing for his family.

After work, there was no idle channel surfing for Dan. He’d come home around 4 PM and start his “second shift” — tackling house projects, car repairs, or yardwork until dinner. After a meal, it was shower time, maybe a beer to unwind, then bed — ready to do it all again the next day.

Dan met and married Barbara Stoll on May 3, 1970. Two years later, in 1972, they moved to Pines Lake in Wayne, where they raised their three children — Laura, Geoffrey, and Andrew.

Dan remained in that same home throughout his life. What began as a modest ranch grew over the decades into a spacious home, the result of Dan’s skill, and determination. He completed nearly every project himself — masonry, framing, roofing, windows and doors, electric, plumbing, sheetrock, hardwood floors, trim, paint, and even wallpapering. His craftsmanship extended beyond his own home; when family members took on ambitious projects, Dan was there to help. In his family, helping one another was simply understood.

A lifelong learner, Dan’s free local library became one of his greatest resources. Self-taught, he used books to master car repair, construction, and architecture and to deepen his understanding of history, wars, shipwrecks, art — and just about anything else that caught his interest. He loved visiting museums like The Metropolitan Museum of Art and studying the architecture of New York City’s most interesting buildings.

In more recent years, especially in retirement, Dan enjoyed camping adventures that took him across the country to national parks and scenic spots. His trusty Ford pickup carried all the essentials — tent, sleeping bag, lamps, firewood, bicycle, even a kayak. He relished days spent hiking, swimming, and reading by the fire. Hunting and fishing, however, he always found “too boring.”

Dan also lived by the old adage, “one man’s garbage is another man’s treasure.” He loved spotting old furniture by the curb, recognizing its potential, and restoring it to its original beauty.

Above all, Dan’s lifelong passion was cars and motorcycles. As a young man, he owned both a 1965 Ford Mustang and a 1965 Ford Fairlane, each with a straight six-cylinder engine. When winter came and the Fairlane needed a new cylinder head, Dan would swap it from the Mustang to keep the Fairlane running. Over the years, his collection grew to include his Ford pickup, a red 2005 Ford Mustang convertible, and four motorcycles — a Harley, a Triumph, an Indian, and an old BMW. Few things brought him more joy than going for a ride on a sunny day. Sadly, his final ride came this past Sunday when he was struck by an oncoming car while out on one of his bikes.

Despite his zest for life, nothing mattered more to Dan than being a devoted father. He took that responsibility seriously, volunteering with his sons’ Boy Scout troop and showing up always for his children’s activities in Pines Lake. He was an encourager, determined to equip Laura, Geoff, and Andrew with the skills they needed to live full and independent lives. From a young age, his children learned practical lessons alongside him. On Saturdays, if he was working on the car, one of them was under it too — holding the light and learning as he explained what he was doing. By age ten, they knew how to use every tool in his extensive collection. When traveling, he taught them how to read maps. He also instilled thriftiness, reminding them not to waste money, but if they did, he’d hit them with asignature line like: “If I had your money, I’d burn mine.” And, of course, no one will forget his endless puns and dad jokes.

Alright — full disclosure: Dan did watch some TV. His favorites were car and motorcycle shows, especially The Dukes of Hazzard.

Dan was the loving and supportive father of Laura Martin of Astoria, NY; Geoffrey Martin of Wayne; and Andrew Martin and his companion Christina Whelan of Closter. He was the cherished grandfather of Klaus, Elke, Olivia, and Taylor. He was the dear brother of the late Peter Martin (2010), Thomas Martin of Oregon, the late Mary Martin (1999), and Chris Martin of Ballston Spa, NY, and a beloved uncle to many nieces and nephews.

On October 2nd, 2025, Patricia Ann (Mac Daniel) Manion (“Pat” to her friends and family) passed away while on vacation in Salerno, Italy after a sudden illness. Pat was born on December 18, 1950, to Francis and Norma (Glancy) Mac Daniel of Bridgeport, Connecticut. She grew up in Bridgeport, attended Notre Dame High School and graduated from University of Bridgeport with a degree in English literature. 

On August 25, 1972, Pat married Gerald Manion at St. Mary’s Shrine by the Sea in Bridgeport. They raised their son, Patrick, and daughter, Laurie, in Sandy Hook, CT where the family resided for more than 35 years. Pat was dedicated to her extended family, fostering close relationships with her parents, sisters, nieces and nephews, and cousins. Her home was often the gathering place for many family holidays and celebrations. Pat and Jerry then built a log cabin in Tolland, Mass., for their retirement years. 

Pat spent her entire 40+ year career at People’s United Bank (PUB) headquartered in Bridgeport, CT, where she started as a teller in college, rose up through the ranks in both branch and consumer lending in corporate and regional leadership roles, and then landed in leadership roles in operations where she retired as the Senior Vice President of Direct Banking and Operations. Throughout her career at PUB, she was a leader and mentor both professionally and personally and took great pride in driving numerous successful initiatives.  Pat’s friends and colleagues from PUB shaped a meaningful part of her life and she remained in touch with countless of them throughout the years. 

Pat was involved with numerous boards and philanthropic activities, most notably through her work with United Way, where she served on the board and chaired several committees, as well as volunteering with the Adopt a Family program in Newtown. 

Pat found a wonderful community of friends in retirement based at the log cabin they built at the Tunxis Club in Tolland, MA. Pat served as the Treasurer of the club for many years and took great pride in contributing her skills and talents to her community through organizing and running the finances. In retirement, she and Jerry also enjoyed years of traveling the world together exploring destinations such as Japan, New Zealand, Scotland, Paris, Austria and many more until he became ill and passed away in 2019. Pat was a devoted nurse and caretaker to Jerry during his illness. 

In her most recent years, Patricia continued her love of travel, taking trips with her friends and sisters to England, France, Croatia, New Mexico, Australia, Colorado, cousins and sisters annual weekends in Marthas Vineyard, sisters trips every year for the last 23 years, summer vacations in Boothbay Harbor, Maine, and visiting her sister and friends in Florida, and more. When she didn’t have an available travel buddy, she wasn’t afraid to join up with a group tour and hiked through Portugal and Sicily on her own, making friends in her tour group along the way. Pat was never content until her next trip was booked, and her family takes comfort that she passed doing what she loved, traveling with her family. When she was home, Pat loved attending Broadway shows, concerts at Tanglewood, playing mah-jongg and pickleball, playing word games, doing jigsaw puzzles, reading hundreds of romance novels, watching her favorite reality tv shows, taking long walks in the woods, and enjoying the latest and greatest Hallmark movies. 

She was the best sister extraordinaire and was a role model and leader of the sister's pack. She also had a legion of friends, old and new, all of whom individually and collectively played an enormous role in her enriching her life.

Pat’s true joys, however, were all about her family. She and Jerry cherished their years in Sandy Hook where Patrick and Laurie grew up. Their family time was filled with school and extracurricular activities, snow days, summer days playing in the woods, hanging with their friends, vacationing in Maine, and enjoying every season being outdoors with her children.  She and Jerry are both so proud of how Patrick and Laurie launched as adults. Her other joy was her role as beloved Amma to her grandson, Alex Manion. The two shared many special traditions and bonds, including their trips to Trader Joe’s to find the hidden cow, outdoor adventure camp together at Tunxis, exploring the tide pools in Maine, cleaning her garage on every visit, doing the “mixer dance” while making mashed potatoes, watermelon on the front porch, their hide and seek morning routine and breakfast at sunrise bagels. As well as their daily FaceTime calls. She also loved spending time with her grand dogs in Brooklyn, NY and would look forward to babysitting for Hugo and Oscar on many occasions. 

Pat was pre-deceased by her husband, Gerald Manion, and is survived by her children Patrick Manion (wife Sarah and son Alexander) of Wayne, NJ; Laurie (and husband Rob) Hadick of Brooklyn, NY; her sisters Joan (and husband Andy) Bissonnette, Laurie (and husband Al) Huebner, and Amy (and husband Mike) Gavaghan; her brother in law, Stephen Manion; her cousins and her many nieces and nephews. 

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Blood Cancer United or the American Brain Tumor Association.  Please visit their websites at the links below for instructions on how to make a memorial donation online or by mail and make a note in honor of Patricia Manion. 

Blood Cancer United - https://bloodcancerunited.org/get-involved/ways-to-give

American Brain Tumor Association- online at bit.ly/DonateABTA or via mail:

The American Brain Tumor Association
8550 W. Bryn Mawr Ave. #550
Chicago, IL 60631

Pat would enjoy....no, expect.....that in honor of her remarkable legacy, her celebration of life would be filled with laughter and fun and Diet Coke. Join us to bring her wishes and expectations to life. By the way, a tip.....we are somewhat concerned that the Coca Cola Company may suffer a downturn in their Diet Coke sales, so if you own their stock, please keep an eye on it....

It is with great sadness that we share the sudden and unexpected passing of Robert Cascone, age 73, of Pequannock on Friday, September 26, 2025.

Robert was the second child of the late Joseph and Viola (DiPaola) Cascone. He was born and raised in Paterson at the family home at 234 East 19th Street, where he spent his entire childhood.

A proud member of the Class of 1970 at St. John’s High School in Paterson, Robert had always known he wanted to become an engineer. He went on to Stevens Institute of Technology, graduating in 1974 with his bachelor’s degree in engineering. Two years later, he earned his master’s degree, also from Stevens. His engineering career began at LAN Associates, before he moved on to spend the bulk of his career with Burns and Roe.  In the final seven years before retiring in 2019, Robert transitioned into a role with The Dormitory Authority of the State of New York. Even in retirement, Robert used his engineering skills as “project manager” during the recent renovation of his daughter’s home in Denville, a lasting gift to her.

Robert’s love story with his wife Nancy began at St. John’s High School. He was a grade ahead of her and served as manager of the basketball team. One day, the bus was filled to capacity for an away game in Sparta, leaving Nancy without a seat. Robert quickly solved the problem by offering her his lap. She accepted—and in that simple moment, a lifetime began. On Nancy’s 18th birthday, Robert arrived at her workplace holding a ring, ready to ask for her hand in marriage. She said yes, and on June 22, 1974, they exchanged vows at St. George R.C. Church in Paterson. They began their married life in the second-floor apartment above Robert’s parents’ home—the very house in which he was raised—before moving to Pequannock two years later. There, they built a loving home, and raised their children, Rob and Karen.

Robert was never one to sit still. A licensed ham radio operator since the age of thirteen, his call sign was “WB2FSL.” He connected with friends all over the world and still spoke to fellow operators in Bermuda often. He was also enthusiastic about Lionel trains and had an impressive basement layout. At Christmas, three or four trains always circled under the tree. He took pride in keeping his yard meticulous and stayed active by working out at Spa 23, playing bocce ball and pickleball—going so far as to build his own bocce court in the backyard. Every Monday morning, he and Nancy played pickleball together. 

Family traditions were important to Robert. As a child, summers meant family trips to Wildwood—a tradition he continued with his own children and grandchildren, spending countless days building sandcastles on the beach with them. In addition to his annual trip down the shore, Robert always looked forward to taking the family skiing to the Poconos, Vermont or New Hampshire.  He and Nancy also became avid cruisers with frequent trips to Bermuda and the Caribbean while also visiting Alaska, Hawaii, and Europe.

Robert cherished time with his family most of all. Halloween was his favorite holiday when his children were young, and his creativity knew no bounds. He hand-crafted imaginative costumes—flying carpets, Santa and Mrs. Claus in a sled, and a toy soldier from March of the Wooden Soldiers. Trick-or-treating always begged the question: who was enjoying it more, Robert or the kids. Later, as a grandfather, his joy doubled. The arrival of twin granddaughters Emilia and Natalie in 2016 was a blessing beyond measure. He loved playing “Whipper-Snapper,” a silly game where the girls ran off laughing whenever Grandpa called “Hey, you little Whipper Snappers!” His grandson Carter arrived in 2022 and enjoyed time together playing with Grandpa’s trains, Hess trucks, and drum set. Ever the craftsman, Robert built a backyard swing set for his grandchildren, bringing to life the ideas he imagined in his woodshop. Robert enjoyed his role as “Grandpaw” to his dog Reese, and shared a special bond with his son’s dog, Cooper, until Cooper’s passing.

Above all, Robert will be remembered as a devoted husband, father, and grandfather—a hardworking provider, a gifted craftsman, and a deeply loving man.

Robert is survived by his beloved wife of 51 years, Nancy; his loving children, Robert “Rob” Cascone and his wife Heather of Pequannock, and Karen Boulineau and her husband Richard of Denville; his cherished grandchildren, Emilia and Natalie Cascone, and Carter Boulineau; his brother, Paul Cascone and his wife Marie of Del Mar, California; and his dear cousin, Joseph Cavalieri of Totowa.

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Memorial Contributions:

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in Robert’s name to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Pequannock Township First Aid & Rescue Squad

PO Box 33

Pequannock, NJ 07440

Rae Josephine Padreza (nee Mauro), age 101 died Tuesday, September 23, 2025, at home while receiving the loving care of her family.

Rae was born to Clara and Patsy Mauro on March 20, 1924, and was raised on Chestnut Street in Newark, NJ along with her brothers Tony, Sal, and Mario and sister Kitty.

Later Rae lived on Mac Donald Drive in Wayne N.J. for 71 years with her adoring late husband Stanley until moving to Brookfield CT in 2023 to live with her devoted daughter and son-in-law. 

Rae was the loving mother of Jill Brennan and her husband Edward of Brookfield, CT and Todd Padreza and his wife Marie of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Michelle and Brian Padreza; and loving Aunt to many nieces and nephews.

Rae met the love of her life, Stanley, while working together at IT&T in the 1940’s and were wed in 1952. Later, after starting their family, Rae also worked for the Wayne school system.

She was an avid reader of novels as well as the daily newspaper and enjoyed working on her crosswords and word search puzzles. In the evenings she would not miss an episode of Jeopardy and Wheel of Fortune and especially looked forward to new series of Dancing with the Stars and The Bachelor. Throughout her life a favorite time of year was baseball season when she could watch and root for her NY Yankees.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org would be appreciated. 

If you would like to send a donation by U.S. mail, please download a donation form by clicking HERE.

Lane C. Hawthorne, 84, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on September 23, 2025, at Chilton Memorial Hospital in Pompton Plains, New Jersey.  Lane was born in Millersville, Ohio on September 6, 1941. Lane graduated from Collinwood High School in Cleveland, Ohio.  He worked as a clerk for City Blue, a blueprinting company, for many years.  Lane loved all sports, but especially fishing, golf, and baseball.  He always treasured time with his family.

Lane was preceded in death by his parents, Hugh Boyd Hawthorne and Sara C. Hawthorne.  He is survived by his sister, Ruth Ann Rainforth and brother-in-law Robert Edward Rainforth; his 6 nephews and nieces, John and wife Lisa Rainforth, Suzanne and husband Rick Iapoce and Jeff and wife Kim Rainforth; 10 great nephews and nieces Nick, Justin, Katie, Nina, Dan, Ricky, Jason, Megan, Brendan and Bryan; and 1 great-great niece Vienna Grace.

Lane will be remembered by the remarkable man he was.  Lane was born with cerebral palsy.  He was blessed to have parents that never gave up on him.  They always said to him “never ever say you can’t do it, for you can.”  Lane did everything other children did despite his disabilities.  He played baseball and golf and loved to play games. 

The last 7 ½ years he was a resident of Alps at Wayne.  It wasn’t an easy decision to move Lane to Alps, but it ended up being the best thing that could have happened to him.  He had so many friends and fantastic people taking care of him.  He shared his smile and positive attitude with everyone.  A big Thank You from his family for taking such good care of Lane!!!

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the cerebral palsy foundation or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959

James Henry Breit

September 6, 1957 - September 22 2025

James Breit passed away peacefully on September 22, 2025 at the age of 68 in Hackensack, NJ.

Jim is survived by his loving children, Taylor and Jackson; his wife, Christine DeVita Breit; and dozens of cousins, nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by both parents, Henrietta and Alfred Breit. 

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In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to Oasis: A Haven for Women and Children, a charity co-founded by his wife Christine where Jim was one of the original board members.

Whether a typical Sunday dinner with family or one of his famous Giants tailgate spreads, if you saw Jim in the kitchen or behind the grill, you knew it was about to be the best meal you'd ever tasted. When Jim wasn't perfecting his recipes or rooting on the Giants (New York and San Francisco), he could be found enjoying his time on the golf course. Jim cared most about his two children, who were his proudest accomplishments, and was always there to cheer them on. He was a joy to be around and it will be his legacy of love and compassion that will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. 

Philip C. Matarazzo, age 69, of Wayne passed at home Thursday, September 18, 2025. 

Phil was born to Ettore and Maryann Matarazzo in Uniontown, PA and graduated from Essex Catholic High School in Newark in 1974. Phil continued his education at Rutgers University–Newark where he graduated with a Bachelor of Arts in Psychology and Accounting in 1978. 

Phil always possessed an incredible work ethic and at age 13 had his first job as a soda jerk at a luncheonette. From there, he worked at a coffee factory where he loaded, packaged, and delivered coffee. (In fact, Phil’s wife, Donna, was even seated atop a coffee bag when he proposed to her.) After college, he started work as an accountant, first at a packaging corporation and continuing for several other companies for many years. His final employer was InComm Conferencing in Glen Rock, NJ, where he worked as a controller and made many lifelong friends. 

Phil had an affinity for vintage cars, classic TV shows, and tool collecting. One of his proudest moments was when his sons surprised him with a cherry red classic 1973 Corvette as a Father’s Day gift. You may have seen him cruising around Packanack Lake in it or showing it off at local car shows. On weekends he could often be found visiting neighborhood garage sales in search of a new hammer or wrench. He was also on the lookout for gifts for his wife and kids and would often come home with a book or piece of art he had discovered. He was a modest man of few words but was always happy to listen and would often surprise people with his sharp sense of humor. 

Phil’s family meant the world to him. He and his wife Donna were high school sweethearts and dated throughout college. They were married in 1981 at Sacred Heart Church in Lyndhurst and honeymooned in Hawaii. They bought their first home in Lyndhurst where they started their family with their Irish Setter, Kelly. They went on to have two children, Nicholas and Daniel. In 1992, they moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne. Phil dedicated his life to his family. He served as a soccer coach, den leader in Pack 104, and was always found in the backyard with his sons practicing catch, kicking a soccer ball, or shooting hoops. Three years ago, Phil became the proud Poppa to his granddaughter, Jade, who brought him tremendous joy. After raising two boys, he seamlessly transitioned to endless tea parties. He could never say no to his little girl. He recently travelled to Bar Harbor, ME, one of his favorite places, for a special family vacation. 

Phil is survived by his wife Donna nee Salerno; his sons Nicholas and his fiancee Mallaurie of Montclair, Daniel and his wife Brianne of Ringwood; his granddaughter Jade; his brother Anthony and his wife Marisa of Toms River; and his nephews Anthony and Marco. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Ronald McDonald House would be greatly appreciated. When Phil’s son was hospitalized for many months in Cincinnati, OH, the Ronald McDonald House was not only a home away from home but a source of comfort and support for Phil and his wife during a very difficult time. It is a charity that was near and dear to Phil’s heart.

Linda Novak (nee Sliker), 71, of Pompton Lakes, NJ, passed away peacefully on September 18, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Paterson and raised in Totowa, Linda later moved to Wayne as a young girl. She was one of four children to Frank and Josephine Sliker. Linda attended Wayne Hills High School, graduating in 1972, and went on to study History at Montclair State University. After two years, she left school to begin her professional career, working in clerical and administrative roles at Prudential Insurance Company for several years.

Linda’s life took a beautiful turn when she was introduced to William Novak by her cousin Marc. Their courtship was brief but filled with love, and they married on May 15, 1976, at Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne. After a short time living in Florham Park, they settled in Pompton Lakes, where they welcomed the births of their two sons, Michael and David. Linda devoted herself fully to her family, embracing her role as a homemaker with love and dedication.

In September of 1988, Linda experienced the profound loss of her husband William at a young age. Left to raise two young children, she found the strength to carry on and move forward.  Later, through her sons’ school PTA, she learned of Timothy Decker, a widower with three young children. One Columbus Day, Linda prepared a meal and brought it to Timothy’s home, sparking a conversation rooted in shared grief and experiences. Months later, Timothy reached out to Linda through the phone book, and their friendship rekindled and blossomed. As fate would have it, they fell in love and on July 14, 1990, they were married at St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes. Together, they created a blended family of five children, each embracing one other.

In 2009, Linda returned to the workforce as an administrative assistant at the Porro Law Group LLC in Pequannock, where she remained an essential figure who was a friendly and sympathetic face for people first walking through the door.

Outside of her work and family, Linda loved reading novels, cherished family vacations to Cape May, and delighted in antiquing trips to Peddler’s Village in Pennsylvania and Cape May. A true New York Giants and Yankees fan, she planned her days around the Giants and enjoyed listening to Yankee games on the radio, never missing the familiar voice of John Sterling. Linda was also known for her warmth as a hostess.  Linda’s home was the heart of family gatherings, holidays, and celebrations. Famous for her chicken parmesan and meticulous presentation, she made every event special. Christmas, in particular, held a dear place in her heart where every year she would proudly display her Spode dinnerware.

Linda’s Catholic faith was central to her life, and she was a devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes. She will be remembered as outgoing, social, never shy with her opinions, and deeply selfless, always putting the needs of others before her own. Organized and detail-oriented, unintentionally funny and sometimes stubborn, she had a gift for forming lasting connections with people from all walks of life. Above all, her greatest joy and purpose were found in her family, to whom she gave her unwavering love and devotion.  Nothing in the world meant more to Linda than providing for and spending time with her children and grandchildren. Every morning she looked forward to spending time with her two grandchildren Audrey and Derek, whom she would personally drop off and pick from their school.

Linda also held a special place in her heart for her beloved dogs, BJ, Maggie, and Lola, who brought her companionship and comfort throughout the years. She often joked that Lola was her favorite child.

Linda was a truly special person who touched the lives of all those around her.  She will be deeply missed by her family, friends, colleagues, and all who were fortunate to know her.

Linda is survived by her husband Timothy Decker of Pompton Lakes, NJ, her two sons; Michael Novak and his wife Nicole of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and David Novak of Fair Lawn, NJ, three step-sons; Timothy Decker and his wife Alyssa of Basking Ridge, NJ, Christopher Decker of Langhorn, PA, and James Decker and his wife Danielle of Manchester, NJ, three sisters; Carol Schimpf of Wanaque NJ, Lori McNeil of Vernon, NJ and a sister Sandy, two grandchildren; Audrey Novak and Derek Novak, and six step-grandchildren, Lily, Brooke, Emma, Grace, Leila, and Ellie. She was predeceased by her first husband William Novak in 1988 and by her parents Frank and Josephine Sliker.

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Linda’s name may be made to Bloomingdale Animal Shelter, 23 Brandt Ln, Bloomingdale, NJ 07403.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be sent to: BSA Troop 114, care of St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church, 454 Germantown Road, West Milford, NJ 07480  and would be greatly appreciated. Please note: Troop 114 donation cards will be available at the funeral home.

Scott M. Schlieper, age 69, of West Milford, NJ, passed on Tuesday, September 16, 2025.

He was born to Arthur and Doris Schlieper in the historic seaport city of Portsmouth, New Hampshire and raised in the coastal town of Rye, New Hampshire.  Scott graduated from Portsmouth High School with the Class of 1973 and attended the University of New Hampshire.

Scott was a man whose passions flowed as naturally as the water he loved so much and started his working life on a lobster boat for Skipper Mike Flanagan, before working as a server for The Bratskeller in Portsmouth, NH which still exists to this day!  His love for the ocean later led him to work as a First Mate on a private yacht, sailing in the Caribbean.  In due course, he immersed himself in the restaurant world again starting as a server, and promoted to the Captain Waiter position conducting tableside service in the US Virgin Island of St. Thomas.

Returning stateside, Scott worked alongside his eldest brother Arthur, at TIECO Sales, a packaging brokerage company out of Ramsey, NJ, before founding his own company, The SMS Group in Hewitt, NJ, where he specialized in the grocery packaging industry reacting to the times by introducing reusable options. 

Later, Scott returned to his passion for food, working in food preparation and management at The Chelsea of West Milford, NJ where he advanced from line cook to Food Director in a few short years . During the COVID-19 crisis, Scott was an essential worker who worked tirelessly each day to ensure residents received nourishing meals. His career path reflected not only his versatility but also his quiet devotion to serving others, with his culinary skill always at the heart of his work. He later brought his dedication and talent to the Arbor Ridge Rehab and Health Care Center in Wayne, from where he retired in 2022.

Whether boating, fishing, or simply spending time by the shore, he felt most at home on the water. He carried that same adventurous spirit into camping trips in his time with the Boy Scout of America Troop 114 St. Joseph, West Milford.  As an Assistant Scout Master and Merit Badge Counselor, he volunteered for many years as he proudly watched both of his sons, Matthew and Jeremy, achieve the rank of Eagle Scout. 

A lifelong learner, Scott had a deep appreciation for history, especially World War II, and could often be found absorbed in the History Channel or discussing details of the era. He also enjoyed movies, but it was especially Star Trek—with its cerebral plotlines—that truly captured his imagination. An avid reader, he treasured the timeless works of J.R.R. Tolkien, particularly The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. Music was another of his great loves: he played guitar, sang with joy, and especially admired the iconic sound of Queen, whose songs were often part of his own soundtrack of life. Scott also had a New England “wicked smart” sense of humor, was outgoing, and tackled just about every situation with laughter, making even ordinary moments brighter for those around him.  

Scott’s love story with Heather began in a way that perfectly reflected his resourceful, adventurous spirit. Introduced by Heather’s sister Elizabeth, who worked in the packaging industry, their first meeting took place on Scott’s cabin cruiser, aptly named “Tieco Sails” on the Hudson River. 

True to form, Scott was in the middle of repairing the boat when they arrived—ever the natural ‘MacGyver’ who could fix anything. After setting things right, he took his guests cruising down the Hudson,  a prelude to the next day’s adventure touring New York City. Together they ascended the World Trade Center and shared drinks at the iconic Windows on the World, with moments that sparked a romance. Scott proposed to Heather on his beloved boat,  and they were married on September 10, 1989, in York, Maine, celebrating with a reception held on a boat!  Though Hurricane Hugo forced the party onto inland waterways, their joy was undimmed. 

Their honeymoon in Hawaii came with its own comic twist—discovering in the second week that their camera had been empty of film the entire first week. Through it all, Scott and Heather built a marriage of thirty-six years, navigating cultural differences between his American roots and her British heritage with love, loyalty, and devotion to their family. For many years, Heather and Scott were parishioners of Saint Joseph's Church in West Milford where Scott was also a member of the Knights of Columbus.

Scott leaves behind, his dearly loved family consisting of: Wife Heather Todd-Schlieper; eldest son, Matthew Schlieper and his wife Megan Sharma and beloved Grandson, William Schlieper of Barre, Vermont;  youngest son, Jeremy Schlieper and his fiancé Nicolle Chirinos of Wayne; sister, Jean Cave of Torrington, Connecticut, and brothers, Mark Schlieper and his wife Pam of Rye, New Hampshire, Bruce Schlieper  and his wife Lisa of Portsmouth, New Hampshire, the late Arthur “Sandy” Schlieper (d.2016) and his surviving wife Becky Schlieper of Raleigh, North Carolina and the late John Schlieper (d.2023) of Marathon Key, Florida.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations can be sent to: BSA Troop 114, care of St. Joseph Roman Catholic Church, 454 Germantown Road, West Milford, NJ 07480  and would be greatly appreciated. Please note: Troop 114 donation cards will be available at the funeral home.

Lawrence J. Konzelman, age 83, of North Palm Beach, Florida, and long-time former resident of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully with his loving family by his side on Sunday, September 14, 2025.

Larry was born in Paterson, New Jersey , the second son of the late Charles M. Konzelman, Sr., and Irene Costello Konzelman. He was raised in Paterson where he lived until 1963. 

After graduating with the Class of 1959 from Seton Hall Preparatory School in South Orange, Larry attended Seton Hall University, where he also joined the Reserve Officers’ Training Corps (ROTC). In 1963, he earned his B.S. in Marketing and was commissioned into the U.S. Army. He proudly served stateside at Fort Lewis in Washington until 1965, attaining the rank of First Lieutenant. Following active duty, he continued to serve for four additional years in the U.S. Army Reserves.

In 1965, Larry returned to civilian life. Larry was owner, operator of  Economy Paper and Restaurant Supply which  relocated in 1969 to Broad Street in Clifton.  Larry loved his work, supplying food service equipment and supplies to clients as far away as Saudi Arabia. For several decades, Larry took pride in preparing his three children; Michael, Kevin, and Susan to carry on the family legacy in the food service industry. 

Passing the business to the next generation gave Larry the gift of time to pursue his passion: fishing. An avid big game saltwater fisherman, he delighted in landing trophy catches. His adventures took him as far away as Costa Rica and St.Thomas in pursuit of the prized catch.

Above all, Larry’s greatest joy was his family. When business trips abroad allowed, he brought his children along, always ensuring there was time for adventure and memory-making. Larry often said his greatest accomplishment was raising his children and guiding them to take the family business to new heights. He was deeply proud of them, and their mutual “best friend” relationship was one of his greatest blessings. Larry was also a devoted and much-loved “Pop-Pop” to his grandsons, Peter and Matthew. He rarely missed a sporting event, celebration, or milestone in their lives.

Larry’s faith was central to his life. While living in Wayne, he was a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church, and after moving to Florida, he became active at St. Paul of the Cross Parish in North Palm Beach. His faith inspired him to serve others: he volunteered as a firefighter with Wayne Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Company No. 3, helped establish Eva’s Village and Oasis  - A Haven for Women and Children in Paterson, donated kitchen equipment when needed, and faithfully served Thanksgiving meals at Eva’s for many years.

Larry worked hard, played hard, and lived life fully. Outgoing and social, he made friends easily and remained loyal to them always. Grateful for the blessings in his own life, he lived by the belief that it is better to give than to receive, and he gave generously—both financially and through countless acts of kindness.

Larry was the proud and loving father of Michael Konzelman of Riverdale, Kevin Konzelman of Boonton, and Susan Majors and her husband Keith of Kinnelon; cherished “Pop-Pop” of Peter and Matthew Majors; dear brother of the late Charles M. Konzelman Jr. (September 2015) and his wife Bernadette of Phippsburg, Maine; beloved uncle of three nieces and a nephew; and devoted companion of Cathy Womersley.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Larry’s memory are asked to consider a gift in his name to:

Cystic Fibrosis Foundation

290 West Mount Pleasant Avenue, Suite 2240

Livingston, NJ 07039

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Lawrence Konzelman.

Rosemary Emma Calandrillo went to be with her Lord at the age of 91 on September 11, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born and raised in Montreal, Canada, Rosemary was the youngest of seven children born to John and Rose Redmond. She attended St Willowbrord School, where she excelled in clerical studies and the modern technologies of her time - including stenography and typing. As a young Canadian girl, she treasured ice skating with family and friends.

After graduating high school, Rosemary attended a one-year business college and quickly found employment with a local bank. Soon after, she joined Northern Electric and began in the typing pool, later advanced to the personnel department where she worked for eight years. Her career then led her to Zaloom Brothers in Secaucus, New Jersey. There she served as an executive secretary for twelve years. She often fondly recalled the aroma of pistachios that permitted the office, a company import.

Rosemary’s life changed forever when she met Harry Calandrillo during a vacation at Lake George, New York. The two made an immediate connection.  Harry would travel to Canada over the next year frequently to visit her.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on May 3, 1958 they became husband and wife exchanging vows surrounded by family and friends.  Together, they settled in Union City, New Jersey, where they raised their four children; Mark, Bart, Rhonda, and Ronald. Rosemary embraced the role of homemaker for the next fifteen years, devoting herself fully to her family.

Rosemary and Harry cherished twenty-seven years of love and loyalty until his passing in 1985. Following this profound loss, she moved to Pompton Lakes, NJ in 1997 and has been there ever since.  She found purpose through service at Calvary Temple International in Wayne, New Jersey initially starting as a volunteer. Her clerical expertise soon led to full-time employment where she remained dedicated for twenty-seven years retiring at the remarkable age of eighty-seven.

An ice cream connoisseur, Rosemary enjoyed puzzle games on her iPad, knitting, crocheting, and various other arts and crafts, including painting in her earlier years. She enjoyed swimming and loved to sing.  She will be remembered as a positive, caring, generous, and thoughtful woman who often put the needs of others before her own. Practical and determined, she demonstrated natural leadership as she actively served in her church community. 

Deeply committed and unwavering in her faith, one of her most cherished endeavors was supporting Royal Family Kids Camp, a ministry through Calvary Temple International serving abused and neglected children.

Above all, Rosemary’s greatest joy was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to her than spending time with and providing for her family.  She leaves behind a legacy of love, devotion, and faith that will be treasured by all who had the privilege of knowing her. She will be dearly missed.

Rosemary is survived by her four children; Mark (Sylvia) Calandrillo of Mount Zion, IL, Bart Calandrillo (Debra Malone) of Woodridge, NJ, Rhonda Calandrillo of Pompton Lakes, NJ, and Ronald Calandrillo of Pompton Lakes, NJ, two sisters; Shelia White of Nova Scotia, Canada, and Irene Germain of Montreal, Canada, ten grandchildren; Joshua (Ellen) Calandrillo, Jonathan (Melissa) Calandrillo, Jeremy (Mickie) Calandrillo, Hillary (Kyle) Carlson, Jordan (Miranda) Calandrillo, Hannah (Ian) MacKenzie, Jason Calandrillo, Hallel Calandrillo, Blaise Calandrillo, Brooke Calandrillo and daughter-in-law Daysi Calandrillo, nine great grandchildren; Ashton, Stephen, Micah, Nyssa, Anna Rose, Michael, Hazel, Malcolm, Juniper, one more “on the way” and many, many very close family friends.  Rosemary was predeceased by her husband Harry Calandrillo (1985), by her three brothers; Bernard Redmond, Robert Redmond, and Lawrence Redmond, and by her sister Gertrude DeMeo.

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Rosemary’s name may be made to Calvary Temple International Kingdom Builders 1111Preakness Ave, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Allen Glenn Miller, age 92, of North Haledon and formerly of Pompton Lakes and Somerset, died peacefully on Monday, September 8, 2025, while in the loving company of his family.

Allen was born and raised in Youngstown, Ohio and was the son of the late Harold and Viola (Thompson) Miller. When he turned seventeen, he left high school to join the U.S. Navy where he served for three years during the Korean War. During his time in the service, Allen received his high school diploma.

Allen met the girl he would marry one day, Helen Heusser. They were introduced to each other by Helen’s friend from Jersey City and their relationship began through a series of written correspondence. Their first actual date took place one weekend when Allen could get to NJ for a weekend leave from the Navy. He and Helen went to Jays Candlelight Bar on Market Street in Rochelle Park. Eventually, their friendship grew to love and, after Allen returned home from service, they exchanged wedding vows, marrying on May 1, 1954, at St. Mary’s Episcopal Church in Haledon. The wedding ceremony was followed by a celebration with family and friends at Warner’s Grove (today known as The Tides) in North Haledon. After a honeymoon in Bar Harbor, Maine, they began their married life in Clifton where they remained for three years before settling down in Pompton Lakes.

Allen’s first job was with Bogue Electric in Paterson. He worked there for two years, gained some experience, and then he joined the electrical union – Local 102 IBEW in Paterson in 1956, where he served on the executive board for many years. He loved the variety of electrical construction projects that he was involved in over a 38-year career. He recalled a project that was done at the U.S. Rubber Company in which he was involved. It was there that he learned how bowling balls were made. This was of great interest to Allen as he enjoyed bowling and actually started a bowling league for his local union. They bowled at T-Bowl in Wayne and Allen maintained a respectable 180 average.

As a young father, Allen took an active role in his children’s lives serving as president of the Pompton Lakes Little League for boy’s baseball and girls’ softball. Helen and Allen remained in Pompton Lakes for a total of forty-eight years. Then, in 2005, they moved to Somerset where they enjoyed life for nine years in a quiet, peaceful 55+ adult community. Later in life, when his children blessed him with grandchildren, he loved to attend their sporting events and dance recitals.

Over the course of his lifetime, Allen became involved in many civic and philanthropic organizations. He was a member of Falls City No. 82 Masonic Lodge in Paterson, the Mountain View Masonic Lodge No. 154, the Eastern Star Mountain View Chapter 205, and, as a member of the Tall Cedars of Lebanon of North American Paterson Valley Chapter No. 33, he helped raise money for muscular dystrophy. As a veteran, Allen was a life-member of the American Legion Weather Walks Post in Pompton Lakes and a member of the U.S.S. Sierra AD-18 Veterans Association.

In his spare time, Allen also enjoyed playing golf at the Passaic County Golf Course in Wayne and he and Helen did a lot of traveling to beautiful destinations including Hawaii for their 25th wedding anniversary, Puerto Rico, Bermuda, Costa Rica, Greece, and California. Most recently, in 2014, they took a river cruise to Europe which included travels through four countries: Switzerland, France, Germany, and Holland.

Allen was a long-time faithful member of Christ Episcopal Church in Pompton Lakes where he served as an acolyte and usher.

Allen was the beloved husband of Helen (Heusser) Miller, blessed in marriage for 71 loving years. He was the loving father of: the late Allen R. Miller (2022), Wayne and wife Jean Miller of Pompton Lakes, and Brenda and husband John Myer of Ramsey; cherished grandfather of: John and wife Allison, Brian and wife Liz, Michelle and husband Greg, Daniel and wife Diane, Rachel and husband Matt, Andrea, Eric, and Lauren and fiancé Ethan; adoring great-grandfather of: Trevor, Abigail, Melanie, Charlie, Sophia, J.D., and John; and dear uncle of numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his three brothers: Harold, Jr., Paul, and Ronald, and his one sister Geraldine Miller.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Allen’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Shriners Hospitals for Children

Attn: Office of Development

2900 Rocky Point Drive

Tampa, FL 33607

Carol Judith MacInnes Wisniewski, age 75, of Lincoln Park by way of Elmwood Park, passed away this Sunday, September 7, 2025 peacefully in her sleep after a short illness.

Carol was born to Angus (Scotty) and Millie Macinnes of Kearney, NJ. She graduated from Paramus High School in 1968. She and Matt Wisniewski married in 1972 and were married for 53 years. She worked briefly before becoming a mother to Holly Selenfriend of Hasbrouck Heights, NJ and Scott Wisniewski. Between 2009 and 2014 she became the most proud Nana to Zoey, Sienna, Savannah and Aaron. She is also survived by her sisters, Linda and Judy.

Carol could TALK. Wit as sharp as a knife which was gleefully passed down by her to her grandchildren. But her love was football. She was a diehard Giant’s fan and loved to watch Scott play. She will be missed by her Scottie, Guiness.

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In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the ASPCA.

Fred Huber, beloved husband, father, and grandfather, passed away on September 5, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.

Fred was a proud graduate of the Paterson school system, where he was recognized as a high school All-Star athlete. His talent and dedication to sports earned him a basketball scholarship to Mississippi Southern College, where he continued to pursue his passion.

Following college, Fred embarked on a long and dedicated career with Entenmann’s Bakery, where he worked for 26 years. In retirement, he continued to serve his community through Passaic County Meals on Wheels, delivering not just meals but kindness and companionship for over a decade.

Fred’s greatest joy in life was his family. He is survived by his devoted wife, Carol, his two loving children, Lauren (Bobby) and Jeff (Donna)and his five cherished grandchildren Shannon, Patrick, Julie, Kelly and Michael, who were the pride of his life and his brother Gary and his family.

He will be remembered for his unwavering kindness, his generosity of spirit, and his deep love for those around him. Fred had a passion for music—especially doo-wop—movies, sports, cars, and desserts. He was truly one of a kind.

Fred's legacy of love, laughter, and compassion will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

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For those wishing to donate in Fred’s honor, are asked to contribute to the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation, 383 Main Ave, 7^th Floor, Norwalk, CT 06851.

Edward “Eddie” Walton, age 31, of Woodland Park, formerly of Wayne, passed suddenly and unexpectedly on Tuesday, September 2, 2025.

Eddie was born and raised in Wayne, having graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the class of 2012.  For several years Eddie worked with his dad and then on his own trading as Walton Painting and Paperhanging from Wayne. 

Eddie was the dearly loved son of Jacqueline Valorani and the late Mike Walton (d. August 10, 2021); he was the much loved brother of the late Matthew Walton (d. June 25, 2025); he was the cherished grandson of Sue Walton of North Carolina as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, October 17, 2025, at Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Turnpike, Wayne where a 10:00 AM mass will be offered.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Make-A-Wish Foundation would be greatly appreciated. 

Patricia “Patty” “Trish” Galloway, age 64, of Kinnelon, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, August 31, 2025.

Patty was the firstborn of John and Winifred (Middlehurst) Jachera’s four children. She was born in Belleville and raised in Wayne—first at her family’s home at 40 Edith Court, and later at 85 Hemlock Terrace in the Packanack Lake section of town, where she spent her formative years. She graduated from DePaul Catholic High School with the Class of 1979.

Trish met her beloved husband, Jacob “Jack” Galloway, while out for a night of bowling at T-Bowl, a longtime Wayne landmark. They married on March 19, 1983, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne, when Trish was just twenty-one years old. She and Jack were blessed with twenty-six years in what Trish described as a “fun-loving” marriage. After a honeymoon in the Poconos, they lived in Jack’s hometown of Prospect Park in an apartment on East Main Street. In 1991, they purchased their home in Kinnelon, where Trish lived for the rest of her life.

Patty’s early years of marriage were filled with the joy and blessing of being “Mommy” to her dear daughter, Kristie. She was a devoted presence in Kristie’s life, serving as a class mom during her elementary years and spending countless quality hours together. In the late afternoons, Jack would return home from work and Patty would head off to her job at the Wayne Manor, where she was a beloved bartender. In later years, Patty continued her career in hospitality, serving as a food and beverage captain at weddings, corporate events, and family celebrations at venues including the Marriott in Teaneck, the Hilton in Woodcliff Lake, and most recently, the DoubleTree by Hilton in Fairfield.

On Sunday afternoons, if she wasn’t at work, Trish could always be found cheering for her favorite team, the New York Giants. She was a passionate fan, and when the Giants won the Super Bowl in 2012, she and Kristie took the day off to attend the team celebration at Giants Stadium in the Meadowlands.

Above all else, Trish treasured time spent with family, including her dearly departed dogs, Gypsy and Kimba. Kristie holds cherished memories of their annual vacations—breathing in the fresh air at Lake George, enjoying the salty breezes of Wildwood Crest, and visiting Clearwater, Florida during spring breaks. Trish also loved hosting Thanksgiving and Christmas Eve at her home in Kinnelon. After Kristie’s marriage, mother and daughter continued their tradition of weekend visits, which became even more special with the arrival of Patty’s granddaughter, Shayla. Patty delighted in being a grandmother—spoiling Shayla and taking her on fun outings to Turtle Back Zoo and Build-A-Bear.

Patty’s sudden passing leaves a void too deep to fill. Her energetic spirit, contagious laugh, and warm sense of humor will be remembered by all who knew and loved her.

Trish was the beloved wife of John “Jack” Galloway, blessed in marriage for 26 years until his passing in 2009. She was the devoted mother of Kristie Alessandra and her husband Thomas of Boonton, and the proud “Grandma” of little Shayla Alessandra. She was the cherished daughter of Winifred “Wyn” Jachera; the loving sister of Linda Feldman and husband Pete of Wayne, the late Michael Jachera (2019) and wife Holly of Scotch Plains, and Steven Jachera and wife Antonella of Parsippany. She was also the dear aunt of Amanda Feldman, Ally and husband Chris Zavala, Zachary Jachera, Tyler Jachera, Jayden Jachera, Jonathan Jachera, and Madison Jachera, and the adoring great-aunt of Aubree.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Patty’s name are asked to consider donating to her granddaughter Shayla's college fund. Checks can be made out to "Morgan Stanley" and on the memo line include "Shayla Alessandra." 

Agnes Delaney (Viglione), 96, of Wayne, NJ passed peacefully on Sunday, August 24, 2025.

She was born and raised in Paterson, where she attended Eastside High School, where she was a cheerleader.

She worked for an Optometrist in Paterson as a receptionist until her retirement. 

She met her husband, John “Jack” Delaney at the Osprey Restaurant, Manasquan, NJ on a blind date. They were married for 63 loving years, until John’s passing in 2021.

She enjoyed travelling, watching English movies in Montclair and dining out.

She is predeceased by her parents, Peter and Maria Viglione, her siblings, Tony Viglione, Andrew Viglione, Antoinette Fairchild and Lucia Nicoletti. She has many nieces and nephews.

She was a member of Our Lady of Consolation, Wayne NJ.

Arlene Estelle Cwikla, age 76 of Wayne, was called home to the Lord on Saturday, August 23, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson, NJ, Arlene was the only child of her doting parents, Louis and Frances Orlando, who gave her a wonderful childhood of dance classes, guitar lessons, and trips to Greenwood Lake and Coney Island. Arlene experienced a Catholic upbringing, attending Blessed Sacrament for grade school and Mary Help of Christians for high school. She fondly remembered walking herself home for lunch each day as a young student through the neighborhood, building independence. Her high school days were filled with the Future Nurses Club, service to her alma mater, and being with friends, driving around in her dad’s ’57 Chevy. Arlene’s pen pal in London sent her records of the hottest new bands in England: the Beatles and the Rolling Stones. Frequent trips were taken in 1964 and 1965 to the Academy of Music and Shea Stadium to see both bands in concert. She passed her love of music (and Paul McCartney) to her daughter later in life.

Arlene decided on a career of helping children, which led her to Seton Hall University to earn her nursing degree. She was hired by St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital upon graduation in 1970, where she worked for her entire career. She found her calling in the Pediatric ICU department, saving children’s lives for the next 43 years! Her daughter witnessed Arlene’s compassionate nature with others through the years during Take Your Daughter to Work Day, where she saw her mother’s quick thinking and medical knowledge firsthand.

In 1974, Arlene’s life took a wonderful turn when she was set up on a blind date with a gentleman named Marian “Marty” Cwikla. Their connection was immediate and lasting. What started as one date blossomed into a loving relationship. On April 24, 1976, the couple exchanged their vows and were married at Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson, NJ. Their honeymoon flight to Paradise Island in the Bahamas proved memorable for an unexpected reason; it convinced Arlene she never wanted to fly again!  From that point forward, their vacations were spent driving or, later in life, by cruise ship to their favorite places. Arlene and Marty would make their way to the Poconos each fall with their close-knit group of friends who had become like family.

The newlyweds settled first in Bloomingdale before being blessed with their daughter Carol Ann. Seeking the perfect place to raise their family, they purchased a home in the Harmony Hills section of Wayne, where they’ve lived ever since. They became parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Roman Catholic Church. She and Marty raised their daughter in the Catholic faith, where she attended the parish school. A little white fluffy peke-a-poo named Casey joined the family as well. Casey was a constant companion of Arlene’s, always at her feet.

One of the biggest parts of Arlene’s life was her daughter, Carol Ann. Arlene worked nights at the hospital to be involved in Carol Ann’s life during the day. She was a class parent at OLC for numerous years, served as a Girl Scout troop leader, and was a constant presence at her daughter's band competitions and performances in high school and college. They loved to shop, participate in exercise classes, and bake together. She was the one Carol Ann went to for sharing exciting news, to talk through bad days, and for advice when she needed to break the news to Dad about getting a speeding ticket. Arlene always knew what to say. When words weren’t enough, hugs would be. She was the greatest mommy in all the world.

Arlene became equally devoted to her grandchildren. She frequently said that being a Nonna was the greatest gift. Her first grandchild, Liam, was welcomed to the world on November 24^th, linking the two forever as birthday twins. Liam will remember Nonna’s kind and gentle voice, always comforting those around her. She was thrilled to be a Nonna twice more when grandchildren, Grace then Caedmon, were born. She and Grace marveled at trinkets and jewelry, sharing them back and forth between each other. Grace will always remember the times spent at the beach house together. Caedmon loved spending Thanksgivings at Nonna and Grandpa’s house with delicious food and family all around. Arlene was always showing off photos of “her loveys” and talking about them to anyone who would listen. Arlene and Marty made numerous trips to Delaware to visit them, attending soccer and volleyball games, cheering at cross country races and swim meets, and seeing their musical recitals and school plays. She loved her daughter and grandchildren more than anything and enjoyed being there for them in any way she could. She always ended a visit, phone call, or FaceTime with I Love Yous, hugs, and kisses.

Family traditions meant a lot to Arlene, so each year, summer vacations were spent in Wildwood Crest. Arlene and Marty began vacationing there when they started dating. They enjoyed the salty sea air of the Jersey Shore, going from one rental to another in the early days. It didn’t take long for them to realize how much they loved the area, so they purchased their own condo to come and go as they pleased. Once retired, the pair spent the majority of their summers there and welcomed their grandchildren with days on the beach, trips to the boardwalk, and fun playing in the pools. There were always special treats awaiting all the kids at the beach house. As summer came to a close, Arlene and Marty would plan their next cruise with friends and take trips on the East Coast.

Arlene also found joy in reading and spending time at the library, playing Scrabble, tending to her plants, creating beautiful cross-stitch pieces, working out with her Jazzercise girls, and praying the rosary each day. She was an excellent cook, perfecting her mother’s Italian recipes and her mother-in-law’s Polish recipes, much to her family’s delight. Chicken noodle soup, stuffed cabbage, lasagna, meatloaf, cheesecake, and Christmas cookies will never be the same.

Arlene will be remembered for her kind and caring heart, her loving personality, and her lifelong devotion to helping children. She will be dearly missed by her family and friends.

Arlene is predeceased by her parents, Frances and Louis Orlando. She is survived by her husband of almost 50 years, Marty; her daughter, Carol Ann, and her husband, Kevin; and her grandchildren (her loveys): Liam, Grace, and Caedmon. Her sister-in-law, Christine Badura, and dear friend, Jane Baldecchi, will always be remembered as loving caretakers and supporters of Arlene in her final months.

Arthur Cetrulo, age 70, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at his home on Thursday, August, 21, 2025. His loving family was by his side at the time of his passing.

Arthur “Artie/Cuz” Cetrulo was born at the American Legion Hospital in Newark, NJ.

Growing up in Newark & Belleville, Artie always recalled his childhood as one of the greatest. Always surrounded by his family & friends in the Silver Lake section of Belleville, in his opinion, just couldn’t be beat. Whether it was riding his bike, playing basketball, enjoying his race car, or to just hang on “the corner” with his friends, he always said they were some of the best times in his life. Times he would never forget.

Artie attended Belleville senior high school & Mercer County Community College where he obtained an Associate’s degree.

Artie was member of the Essex County Capenters Local #1342 from 1979 through 2010.

Artie was a talented craftsman & carpenter and always said to Annette and his children “I can build you anything from a bird house to the twin towers,” and there was no truer statement than that. Artie worked up and down the east coast, and every single place he drove, if you were in the car with him, you would here “I built that” numerous times. He loved his job, but nothing was more precious than his wife Annette, his children Anthony, Amanda & of course, his four grandchildren. A true family man for sure. He spent weekends at his mother & father-in-law’s vacation home in Dingmans Ferry, and decades vacationing in Wildwood Crest with his spectacular family. A true funny guy, always cracking jokes and making people laugh. Wherever his family was, that’s where you would find Artie.

Aside from craftsmanship, and fixing everything under the sun, his love for motorcycles riding was his second passion. He shared that passion with his son, brothers-in-law, nephews and many friends.

From the benefit runs, to the trips to Vermont, Lake George, the Carolina’s, South Dakota, etc…. He found great pleasure having the wind in his face and peace in his heart. He recalls the 9/11 Runs as one his favorites. A police escorted run with more than 2300 bikers and at times up to 2600 precipitants.

In 1977, he met the love of his life, Annette, and they married in 1979. After 4 years of marriage, they welcomed their first child, Anthony, and 3 years after, their beautiful daughter Amanda.

Was their life always a fairytale…. no. One of Annette’s closest friends, Diana, always said that as a couple their relationship reminded her of Elizabeth Taylor & Richard Burton’s, and she was correct.

Their love affair spanned over 4 decades and brought them to where they were today. Still enjoying their beloved family, friends, their passion for building and decorating. But Artie’s greatest joy was spending time with his four beautiful grandchildren, fixing their homes together, playing rummicub at night, dining out and hunting for treasures at flea markets & garage sales.

Artie was blessed to be a lung transplant recipient in September 2018, and was Forever grateful to his donor and wonderful doctors at Columbia Presbyterian in NY.

He never took his life for granted and appreciated being able to watch his grandchildren get bigger and his daughter give birth to his last and youngest granddaughter.

Those special little humans who knew him as “Pop” had more fun with him than anything. He had his own little language when speaking to them and they got it. They knew that the store Home Goods was Home Bads, that Stop and Shop was stop shop that CVS was Civiss…. And too many more to mention. They knew that “contact” had to be said once they were seat belted in the car or the car wasn’t able to move, and Jim Carey wasn’t the only one who did “the claw.” Aria once told him that “Pop was the funniest person she knew.” As with his own children, no one would have ever been allowed to hurt them. He would lay down his life for any one of them.

To say he will be missed is an understatement.

Artie was the beloved husband of Annette (Bolcato) Cetrulo, loving father of Anthony Cetrulo of Wayne, and the late Amanda Bellusci (2022) and her husband Thomas of Wayne; cherished grandfather of: Addriana Cetrulo, Gianni Cetrulo, Aria Bellusci, and Averie Bellusci; and dearest brother of Josephine D’Achille and husband Tony of Montville. He is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.

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In lieu of flowers, please send donations in Arthur Ceturlo’s name to support NewYork-Presbyterian Hospital.

Please make your check payable to New York-Presbyterian Fund, Inc. and mail to:

NewYork-Presbyterian

Office of Development

525 E. 68th Street, Box 123

New York, NY 10065

Please indicate on the check memo line that the gift is in memory of Arthur Cetrulo. 

Joseph F. Csencsits, age 81, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, August 19, 2025, after a courageous and long battle with cancer.

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Born and raised in Passaic, NJ, Joseph was the son of Joseph and Anna Csencsits and one of two children.  From an early age, he displayed both intelligence and creativity, excelling as an All-State violinist and active member of his high school glee club.  A proud graduate of Pope Pius XII High School in Passaic, Class of 1961, Joseph continued his studies at Newark College of Engineering before serving his country in the United States Army from 1965 to 1967. Stationed at Fort Polk, Louisiana, he served honorably as a hospital clerk and personnel specialist.

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After completing his military service, Joseph earned his bachelor's degree in mathematics from Upsala College in East Orange.  He began his teaching career a Ramsey High School, where he taught mathematics and introduced students to the emerging world of computer technology.  His enthusiasm for education later led him to the computer industry where he spent fifteen years teaching computer systems implementation with Microdata to both local businesses and major corporations.  Never losing his passion for the classroom, Joseph returned to school himself to earn a master's degree in education and resumed teaching mathematics, this time with the Englewood Board of Education, where he taught from 1998 until his retirement in 2009.  Even in retirement, Joseph remained dedicated to education, working as a substitute teacher in the Wayne, Pompton Lakes and Wanaque schools.

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Joseph's devotion to service extended beyond the classroom.  He was a longtime member and treasurer of both the Wayne Lions Club and the Lions Charitable Foundation.

In 1964, Joseph was introduced to the love of his life, Maryann Kowalczyk. After four years of courtship, they were married on August 17, 1968, at St. Joseph’s Church in Passaic. Together, they built a beautiful life, raising their three children, Cheryl, Brian, and Lauren; first in Clifton and later in Wayne, before settling in Pompton Lakes and ultimately Wanaque.

He was an avid collector of model trains, proud of his extensive collection, and enjoyed spending time at his computer, often sharing jokes and chain emails with friends and family. Above all, his greatest passion was his family. He never missed a concert, play, or sporting event, cheering on his children and grandchildren with pride.

Joseph and his family were devoted and active parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne while raising their family and most recently of St. Francis of Assisi in Wanaque. Known for his sharp wit and warm sense of humor, he loved to tease those he cared for most, leaving behind countless cherished memories and smiles.

He will be remembered as a gifted teacher, a faithful servant, and, most of all, a devoted husband, father, brother, and grandfather. Joseph’s legacy of love, laughter, and dedication will live on in all who knew and loved him.

Joseph is survived by his wife Maryann (Kowalczyk) of Wanaque, NJ, his three children; Cheryl Lowe and her husband David of Parsippany, NJ, Brian Csencsits and his wife Enya of Blairstown, NJ, and Lauren Csencsits and her fiancé Larry of Stanhope, NJ, his sister Joan DesRoches and her husband Raymond of Midland Park, NJ, and eight grandchildren; Alexander Reid and his wife Emily, Kyle Reid, Skylar Reid, Jack Lowe and his wife Ashley, Jennifer Lowe, Samantha Lowe, Tedi Csencsits, and Jacob Makover.  He was predeceased by his parents Joseph and Anna Csencsits and by a special brother-in-law Leonard Kowalczyk as well as other close family members. 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Joseph's name may be made to St Francis of Assisi or Wanaque Feed the Hungry 

Nunzio Vacca, age 87, Haledon passed away peacefully on Saturday, August 9, 2025 while receiving the loving care of his family. He was born in Gela, Sicily, one of six children to Nunzio and Grazia Vacca.

On September 10, 1959, Nunzio married the love of his life, Angela Romano. Shortly thereafter, they immigrated to Canada, where he worked in a cedar mill for several years. They made their home in Vancouver from 1959 until 1966, and it was there that their first son, Maurice, was born.

In 1966, the family immigrated to the United States and settled in Paterson, New Jersey. They purchased their first home there in 1972 and welcomed two more sons, Carmine and John. In 1984, Nunzio and Angela moved to Haledon, where they have resided ever since.

After arriving in the United States, Nunzio learned the trade of a machinist and worked for several local textile manufacturing companies, including Union Carbide and Sun Bright Textiles in Passaic, where he was employed for nearly twenty years before retiring in 1996. Throughout his career, he was a proud member of the National Textile Workers Union. Known for his dedication and strong work ethic, Nunzio rarely took a sick day and never collected disability.

Nunzio and Angela cherished their frequent trips back to Sicily, where they spent treasured time with family. A passionate follower of Italian soccer, he was an avid supporter of the Fiorentina team from Florence. At home, Nunzio took great pride in maintaining his property, always having his front and back yards meticulously landscaped.  Nunzio was truly loved in his community and was always willing to help neighbors with car repairs, home projects, or anything else they might need.  Nunzio was also a talented cook, cherished by family and friends for his delicious chicken and veal cutlets, as well as his homemade cannoli.

Above all, Nunzio’s greatest joy was his family. He was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather whose life revolved around providing for his family and spending time with his loved ones.  

Nunzio and his wife Angela cherished an amazing sixty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together.  His Catholic faith was an important foundation in his life, and he remained deeply proud of his Italian heritage, often visiting local Italian coffee shops and attending annual neighborhood Italian feasts both in the United States and during his visits to Italy.

Nunzio will be remembered as a loving husband, father, brother, and grandfather, as well as a loyal friend to many. He had a wonderful sense of humor, was extremely social, and made friends wherever he went.  His warmth, generosity, and devotion will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Nunzio is survived by his wife Angela (nee Romano) of Haledon, his three sons; Maurice Vacca and his wife Danielle of Ocean, NJ, Carmine Vacca and his wife Connie of Wayne, NJ, and John Vacca and his wife Rosanna of Wayne, NJ, two brothers Vincenzo Vacca and his wife Gina of Gela, Sicily, and Francesco Vacca and his wife Anna of Totowa, NJ, one sister Concetta Melilli of Italy, and four grandchildren; Matthew Vacca and his wife Stefanie of Wayne, NJ, Antonio Vacca of Wayne, NJ, Emma Vacca of Wayne, NJ, and Johnny Vacca of Wayne, NJ.  Nunzio was predeceased by his brother Giovanni Vacca and his sister Rosaria Tascone. 

Kenneth Bott, age 83, of Collegeville, PA passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on Monday, August 18, 2025.

He was born in New York, NY on July 29, 1942, the son of the late Bernard and Dorothy (Torpey) Bott.

Ken spent much of his life in New York before settling in the Packanack Lake community of Wayne, NJ, where he and his wife Madeline raised their family. He earned his bachelor’s degree from Manhattan College, his MBA from New York University, and went on to enjoy a successful career as a Computer Networking Engineer working for Bell Labs, AT&T, Lucent Technologies and Verizon. Upon retirement, he moved to Traditions at Skippack to be closer to his beloved grandchildren, with whom he cherished every moment. Ken embraced the community, taking part in its many activities, including proudly serving as the Chairman of the Finance Committee and founder and Commissioner of the Traditions at Skippack Fantasy Football League. A lifelong Mets and Giants fan, he also loved traveling with Madeline by his side. They enjoyed many family vacations in Rehoboth and Cape Cod, as well as the excitement of cruising and exploring destinations around the world. He was a parishioner of St. Eleanor's RC Church of Collegeville, PA. 

He is survived by his wife of 49 years, Madeline Bott (née Smith) of Collegeville, PA; daughter, Terri (Dan) Sullivan of Lansdale, PA; son, Kevin (Nicole) Bott of Orlando, FL; and two granddaughters, Kate and Audrey Sullivan.

Along with his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, Richard Bott. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in his name to the American Cancer Society. 

Claire Hillenbrand (nee Pennington), age 88, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away on Monday, August 18, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born and raised in Richmond Hill, New York, Claire was one of three children of the late William and Helen Rose Pennington. She attended Richmond Hill High School, graduating with the class of 1954. She had the desire to go to college later in life and completed two years of education at Queens College.

Shortly after high school, she met the love of her life, William Hillenbrand. After a brief courtship, they were married on October 10, 1956 in Elkton, Maryland, the "elopement capital" of the United States.

Claire and William settled in Flushing, New York, where they raised a son and daughter: William "Billy" and Jane. Claire was a devoted mother and biggest cheerleader, attending every school, athletic, and childhood event she could. Claire worked as a crossing guard for P.S. 219, a bookkeeper for Martin Paints, and a bookkeeper for Garden World. After retirement, Claire moved to New Jersey to be closer to her daughter Jane.

In later years, Claire was active with the Totowa Seniors, Sisco Village friends, and St. Michael's friends in Wayne. She loved to swim, travel and watch her beloved New York Mets. Above all, her greatest joy was spending time with her grandchildren. As with her children, she would attend as many of her grandchildren's events as possible. She just loved spending time with them at family parties. Her sense of humor was a source of laughter at every gathering.

Claire was a devoted parishioner of St. John's Episcopal Church of Flushing, NY, Christ Episcopal Church of Totowa, NJ and lastly of St. Michael's Episcopal Church of Wayne, NJ.

Claire is survived by her two children: William "Billy" of Seymour, Tennessee and Jane and her husband Greg Gallo of Wayne, New Jersey, five grandchildren: Jack, Gregory, Peter, Massimo and Dante, her brother: Richard "Rick" and his wife MaryAnn, and her sister-in-law: Joan, and many nieces and nephews. Claire was predeceased by her husband William "Nat" (1988), and by her brother Errol (2024).

Claire will be remembered as a devoted wife, loving mother, a loyal friend, and a woman of integrity, warmth, and wit. Her life was an example of kindness, and her memory will continue to guide those who loved her.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St. Michael's Church, 1219 County Rd 504, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.

Maureen DeBonta (nee McKenna), age 80 of Pompton Lakes, NJ, died on Thursday, August 14, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. She has lived in Pompton Lakes since 1960.

Maureen grew up in Hoboken, NJ and lived there until she was fifteen years old. Her family moved to Pompton Lakes and she went on to graduate from Pompton Lakes High School with the class of 1962. It was in high school that she met Elliott DeBonta and their romance began. Maureen was quick to realize what a wonderful man Elliott was and they were married on June 27, 1964 at St. Mary’s Church. After a honeymoon to the Pocono’s, they settled into their home in town where they have lived ever since. Over their years together, Maureen and Elliott vacationed in the Catskills and enjoyed several cruises together. They had a very special and devoted marriage to one another. Sadly, Elliott passed away in 2023 and Maureen has missed him dearly ever since.

Maureen had been a devoted homemaker throughout most of their married years, raising their three children. She had also worked at Marshall Opticians, Becton Dickinson, and as a cafeteria associate with the Pompton Lakes schools, the latter of which allowed her to keep a close eye on her kids! Later in life, God blessed Maureen with grandchildren, which she referred to as “the most wonderful thing God ever gave her.” She loved each of them beyond measure and they will all miss her very much.

Maureen is survived by her three children: Kevin and his wife Dana, Patrick “Rick” and his wife Heather, and Meghan Garrett and her husband Dennis, ten grandchildren: Zachary, Ailish, Joseph, Allie, Haley, Noel, Chloe, Finnegan, Kennedy, and Collin, her brother; Robert McKenna and his wife Yvonne, and her sister-in-law; Maria McKenna, and many nieces and nephews. Maureen was predeceased by her husband, Elliott (2023), by her brothers: Kenneth McKenna (2025) and John McKenna (1994), and by her sister; Cheryl O’Leary (2015).

Doris Marie (Weiss) Belschner, age 89, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday, August 10, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family and the compassionate care of the staff at Chilton Hospital in Pequannock, New Jersey.

She is survived by her daughter: Dale Rex Saltiel; her son: Mark Rex; her stepchildren: Suzanne Vierling and Bruce Belschner; eleven grandchildren: Jennifer, Todd, Clint, Heather, Melissa, Sara, Chaz, Brandon, Hudson, Samantha, and Parker; twenty great-grandchildren; and her brother: William Weiss. She was predeceased by her husband: Clifton Belschner; and by her children: Charles (Carl) Rex, Sharon Vassallo and Clifton Belschner Jr.

Born and raised in New York City to William and Doraliese Weiss, Doris graduated from Saint Walburga’s Academy in Manhattan and the Katherine Gibbs Secretarial School. She held administrative roles with ABC Television Network and Signetics Corporation in Fort Lee, New Jersey, and later retired as an assistant manager at Bloomingdale’s in Hackensack.

In 1957, Doris married her first husband, Charles T. Rex of New York City, with whom she had three children: Dale, Carl, and Mark. She later married Clifton Belschner and lovingly embraced his children: Suzanne, Bruce, and Clifton Jr., as her own, raising a close-knit blended family in Fort Lee. Doris later moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey.

Doris will be remembered for her warmth, humor, creativity, and above all, for facing life’s trials with grace, resilience, and perseverance. She loved a good joke, often at her own expense, crafted glassware with vibrant decorative papers, sketched, and tended to her thriving collection of plants. She enjoyed many lively games of Rummikub with dear friends at Siena Village and never missed a chance to celebrate family milestones. Above all, her greatest joy was time spent with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, watching her family grow across generations.

Her family is deeply grateful for the kindness, skill, and devotion of the many caregivers who supported her in recent years.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to a charity of one’s choice.

Tom Buckley, age 81, of Kinnelon, NJ passed away peacefully at home, on Friday, August 8, 2025, in the presence of his loving wife Diane.

Tom was born in North Adams, Massachusetts to Joseph and Helen Buckley on January 23, 1944. He was raised in Bronx, NY and later moved to New Milford, NJ where he lived for the majority of his formative childhood years. Tom attended St. Bonaventure University in Saint Bonaventure, NY and graduated from Fairleigh Dickinson University in Rutherford, NJ with a Bachelor of Arts degree in History and Philosophy. During this time, he was Chairman of the Fine Arts Committee and was instrumental in securing Dr. Benjamin Spock as a speaker. Throughout his life, Tom lived in Woodland Park, Paterson, Totowa, and Kinnelon where he resided for the past 31 years.

Tom’s professional career included 30 dedicated years at the Passaic County Board of Social Services where he worked tirelessly to support his clients and families. Early in his career, he was named Supervisor of the Child Support and Paternity Unit. Later, he designed, developed, and implemented a variety of systems integrating the use of computer science into public administration. In his role as Management Specialist, his work assisted agencies across New Jersey and gained recognition by state and national authorities. Tom retired in 1998 to pursue his interests in public service and travel. 

During his time at Social Services, Tom developed a passion for politics. Although never a candidate himself, Tom was largely responsible for assisting innumerable candidates in their quest for elected office. Tom was consistently sought after for guidance as his counsel was considered to be invaluable. His creative mind and intellect produced highly effective campaign messaging and advertisements. He was considered to be one of the best political operatives in New Jersey. 

Tom was a compassionate man who was deeply dedicated to his family and friends. Those who knew Tom appreciated his wicked sense of humor and at times mischievous and playful nature. He was an engaging storyteller and a skilled and avid tennis player. As a child, Tom spent summers at his beloved family cabins in Ware, Massachusetts. His experiences as a young child at “Camp”, led to a lifelong love of nature and the natural environment. It also sparked his joy for the game of baseball and enthusiasm for the Boston Red Sox. Over a period of 15 summers, Tom, along with his sons and friends, attended baseball games in each and every stadium in the U.S. Tom loved to travel and he instilled this sense of adventure in his grandchildren by taking each child to Europe after high school graduation.

Tom is survived by his loving wife of 37 years, Diane (nee DiPaolo), his two sons: Michael & his wife Amanda Marchesani, Matthew Buckley & his partner Lauren Smyla, and five cherished grandchildren: Christopher, Samantha, Kayla, Connor, and Sage.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation or to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center would be greatly appreciated.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Tom Buckley.

Frank N. Suberati, Jr., age 80 of Paramus, formerly of Wayne, passed peacefully on Sunday, August 10, 2025

He was born in Paterson and raised in Wayne having graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1963.  

Frank continued his education at Montclair State College where he received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Chemistry and Biology with the Class of 1968. While going to college he worked at the Shop Rite in Little Falls and for several years volunteer at Saint Joseph’s Vacation Camp for the Blind in Spring Valley, NY.

In 1968 Frank was drafted into the US Army where he received the Bronze Star for bravery. He was honorably discharged in 1970. After his military service he found a teaching position in the Science Department at the Dover High School. He then worked as a teller at the Orange Savings Bank and eventually became a computer programmer.  For a short time he worked at a savings bank on Wall Street in New York City and later for the Carteret Bank in Carteret as a programmer and project manager. His final job before retiring in 2011 was at Concerned Parents for Head Start in Paterson where he registered and scheduled the students. 

Frank will be remembered as an artistic man who loved painting, crocheting and stitching.  He also loved to read, especially comic and science fiction books.

Frank was the loving son of the late Frank Suberati, Sr. and Lena (Longo) Suberati; much loved brother of Maria Santangelo and her husband Richard of Glenwood, Sister Joan Suberati of the Sisters of Saint Joseph, the late Mark Suberati (2001) and his surviving wife Barbara of Pompton Lakes; cherished uncle of four nephews and two nieces; and cherished great-uncle of four great-nephews and five great-nieces. 

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Frank’s memory are asked to consider the Paramus Veterans Memorial Home, 1 Veterans Drive, Paramus, NJ 07652.

Leonard J. DeAngelo, age 80, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, September 2, surrounded by his loving family.

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Born in New York City, Leonard was one of five children to Frank and Hedwig DeAngelo. He grew up on the Lower East Side, attended high school in the Bronx, where he served as an altar boy at Cardinal Hayes High School.

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Following high school, Leonard proudly enlisted in the United States Air Force in 1962. Stationed at McGuire Air Force Base and Fort Dix, he served honorably until 1966 as a cargo plane mechanic, where he developed the avionics training that would later shape his career.

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Leonard met his wife, Florence Ott, in his youth when they met while working together at a Carvel ice cream shop in New York owned by her father. The two fell in love and married in 1963.  They lived in Toms River, NJ where their first child, Victor, was born and later moved to Wrightstown where their second child Bruce was born.  After completing his military service, they moved to Brooklyn, NY where they lived for several years.  Leonard briefly owned and operated a laundromat in Bay Ridge, NY.  

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They later relocated to New Jersey when Leonard accepted his position at Intercontinental Dynamics Corporation beginning a long and distinguished career in avionics. Intercontinental Dynamics Corporation, which later became Kollsman Avionics in Englewood, NJ, was where he worked as a field service engineer for more than 20 years. His work took him across the country and abroad as he specialized in troubleshooting guidance systems and cockpit instrumentation. Leonard retired from the avionics industry in the late 1990s, later working part-time as a taxi dispatch operator in Paterson, NJ, and at Haledon Auto Parts.

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Outside of his career and family life, Leonard had many passions. He enjoyed freshwater fishing, with Waywayanda State Park in northern New Jersey being one of his favorite spots. He was a Mets fan having taken the family to Shea Stadium during the Brooklyn years.  As a devoted father, Leonard cherished his role in his sons' lives, volunteering at the Prospect Park Boys Club, coaching Little League teams, helping to coordinate activities and fundraisers.  Later in life, he developed a love for golf.  He was not so much a player, but loved attending tournaments such as the Barclays which rotated through Liberty National, Ridgewood, Plainfield and Bethpage Black, where he was warmly received as a veteran in the Patriots' Outpost. He was also a proud and active member of the North Haledon VFW, where he valued the camaraderie of his fellow servicemen.

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Leonard will be remembered as a man who made friends wherever he went, embraced challenges with resilience, and brought warmth to those around him. He had an ability to make others feel at ease with a natural smile, often striking up conversations that turned strangers into friends. Family was always his greatest joy, and his love, devotion, and genuine lifelong kindness will be deeply missed.

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Leonard is survived by his two sons Victor DeAngelo of San Francisco, CA, and Bruce DeAngelo of Totowa, NJ, one brother Frank DeAngelo of Oak Ridge, NJ, two sisters; Ursula Daidone and her husband Garry of Lincoln Park, NJ, and Barbara DeCaro of East Elmhurst, NY, two grandchildren Jordan DeAngelo of San Francisco, CA, and Marisa DeAngelo Kim of Brooklyn, NY, and dear cousins, as well as many nieces and nephews on both sides of the family that loved and cared for him.  He was predeceased by his sister Carol Stadulis.

Karen Gawrys, age 73 of Wayne, passed away on Friday, August 1, 2025.

Karen was raised in Saddlebrook, New Jersey by Harold and Marjorie Heim, growing up as one of five children. After graduating from Saddlebrook High School, she initially pursued nursing at St. Joseph’s, driven by her lifelong calling to help others. She eventually discovered that nursing school wasn’t the right fit. Instead, she found her path as a nurse’s aide and went on to build a fulfilling career in various healthcare positions until her retirement. 

Shortly after high school, Karen’s life took a wonderful turn during a casual outing with a friend when they met a gentleman named Tom Gawrys. Karen and Tom started off as friends, but before they knew it the two friends fell in love with one another. They started dating and several years later, on April 22, 1972, the couple exchanged their vows, beginning a beautiful marriage that spanned over five decades. 

Their honeymoon was an adventure they would never forget. Starting with a cruise from Florida to the Bahamas, Karen discovered how terribly susceptible she was to seasickness as the cruise portion of their honeymoon was one she wished to forget. Thankfully, their time in the Bahamas was beautiful, and Florida proved even better. They fell in love with Walt Disney World, which had recently opened in Orlando, and discovered their slice of paradise at the Three Crowns in Deerfield Beach. The suites surrounded a pool just steps from the beach, and they loved it so much that returning to the exact same room became their cherished annual tradition. Over the years, they even developed a friendship with the owner, whose family joined in their celebrations.

The newlyweds settled into their newly built home in Wayne, New Jersey where they were blessed with their two children, Tommy and Crisanne. Family meant everything to Karen, and she embraced motherhood with her whole heart.  Naturally, when she discovered the news that she would become a grandma she was overjoyed. From that point on her world revolved around her grandkids Arianna and Colton. She loved them so much and made it her mission to pick them up from school every day, rain or shine, sick or well she was there for them.  

Among Karen’s most treasured relationships was her friendship with next-door neighbors Michele and Joe. The couples became inseparable. Tom and Joe played in a band together while Karen and Michelle were their biggest fans, dancing and cheering at every gig. Since both couples got married in the same month, they celebrated their anniversaries together with a joint trip to Aruba. They shared an incredible time creating lasting memories they would reminisce about for the next 28 years. When Joe got sick with cancer, Karen did everything she could to help. Whenever Joe wasn’t feeling good, he would call over to Karen for her famous chicken noodle soup. She would drop everything to make it fresh and deliver it to him. Though Joe eventually lost his battle with cancer, Karen and Michele remained best friends through the years.

Part of what made Karen so special was her extraordinary gift for putting others’ needs before her own. Her selfless nature was perhaps best expressed through her cooking. She regularly sent guests home with goodie bags overflowing with her delicious homemade meals. This generosity, combined with her natural ability to bring people together, made Karen the heart of countless gatherings. Unsurprisingly, Karen lived for hosting parties. She always found reasons to invite family and friends to her home for good company, swimming and great food. It was a given that every Sunday would be spent “at grandma’s” and it should come as no surprise that holidays were a favorite time for Karen. She loved Christmas with its accompaniment of her beloved Hallmark Channel movies. Labor Day was another favorite, marked by huge annual gatherings at Wild Duck Pond in Ridgewood, New Jersey. The extended family came together for softball, kickball, horseshoes, and potluck picnics featuring Karen’s legendary homemade mac and cheese (a dish so beloved that friends and family requested it year-round). When her son Tommy moved down to Florida seven years ago, Karen and Tom enjoyed a new annual tradition spending the Fourth of July down there with him at their treasured Deerfield Beach. 

Karen will be remembered for her endlessly caring and selfless nature, her remarkable ability to bring people together, and her delicious cooking that she gave out so generously. She was the best mom, grandma, and friend anyone could ask for, and her loving presence will be deeply missed by all who were lucky enough to know her.

Karen is survived by her husband Tom Gawrys; her kids: Crisanne and her husband Justin, and Tommy; her grandkids: Arianna and Colton; her siblings: Douglas, Patrice, Harold, and Kathleen; and her close friend Michele.

She is predeceased by her parents: Harold and Marjorie; and her close friend Joe. 

It is with profound sadness that we announce the unexpected passing of Dr. Shirley Mary Rajan on July 31, 2025.  Shirley was a devoted mother, loving daughter and sister, and visionary psychiatrist. She leaves behind two cherished daughters, Amaya and Nora, her adoring mother, Sugandhi, two brothers, Patrick and Stanley, and a legacy of care and empathy.

Shirley was born on March 27, 1983 in Cedar Rapids, Iowa to John and Sugandhi Rajan, but spent most of her life in New Jersey.  She earned her dual B.S. with honors in Psychology and Neuroscience from Rutgers University, followed by a residency in General Psychiatry and fellowship in Child/Adolescent Psychiatry at the University of Massachusetts.

Shirley was a bright light in many of the lives she touched with her kindness and happy spirit.  Shirley’s legacy shines most brightly through her beloved daughters, Amaya and Nora, who were the heart and soul of her world. Her devotion to them was boundless, and she took immense pride and joy in nurturing their curiosity, strength, and compassion. 

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to organizations supporting causes close to Shirley’s heart such as adolescent mental health.

May her memory be a blessing, and may her legacy continue to inspire healing and hope.

Roy C. Lawrie, age 83, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 31, 2025.

One of Sydney and Winifred (Griffith) Lawrie’s fourteen children, Roy was born in the north-east part of South America in the country of Guyana.

Roy met his wife Shirley who grew up in a nearby neighboring village. They were childhood friends who, as young adults, fell in love and ultimately married at St. George’s Cathedral in Georgetown, Guyana.

As young adults, Roy and Shirley migrated to the United States in pursuit of opportunities and happiness this country afford. With the blessing of four beautiful children, two sons and two daughters, came a real responsibility to care and provide for them. Roy embraced that calling on his life and worked diligently and consistently, twenty-five hours a day, and eight days a week as a self-employed residential building contractor, electrician, and restaurant/bar owner. His family praised him for being a great provider and a truly awesome and loving father who always encouraged his sons and daughters to do their best and to get a good education.

In his spare time (though it is hard to imagine that he had any), Roy enjoyed farming and traveling with his beloved wife and life’s companion Shirley. They especially loved annual trips to Florida where they hoped to one day have property and a second home. Sadly, those plans never came to fruition as Roy contracted Alzheimer’s Disease at a relatively early age.

In good times, Roy was loved and admired for being a cherished, caring, and supportive husband, father, uncle, grandfather, and brother who always made his family his main focus and priority in his life.

While his family mourns his loss, they will ever hold and cherish warm memories of Roy in their hearts and are grateful that his pain and suffering are no more. Rest in peace Roy.

Roy was the beloved husband of Shirley (Ramdai) Lawrie, blessed in marriage for 60 years. He was the loving father of: Cleopatra, Nigel, Roswell, Rosanna, and Jason Pallimulla; whom Roy considered to be like one of his own sons; and a cherished grandfather of Reg, Dillan, Ryan, Devin, Milana, and Princeton.

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Those planning an expression of sympathy in Roy’s name are asked to consider:

Alzheimer’s New Jersey

425 Eagle Rock Avenue, 203

Roseland, NJ 07068

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Roy Lawrie.

Arnold F. Schmidig, age 84, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Thursday, July 31, 2025, surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Born in Passaic, NJ, Arnold spent his early childhood in Garfield before his family settled in Wood-Ridge when he was about five years old. He was the only child of Fridolin and Pauline Schmidig. Arnold attended Wood-Ridge High School, graduating with the Class of 1959, and went on to work as a draftsman before getting his associate degree in Mechanical Design from Newark College of Engineering now known as NJIT.

Over the course of his career, Arnold worked for several companies as a draftsman, ultimately spending the final eighteen years of his professional life at Howmedica in Rutherford, NJ before retiring in 1999.

Arnold married Dolores Breen, and together they raised three sons; Gregg, Brian, and Scott while living in Wood-Ridge. Although Arnold and Dolores later parted ways, he found love once again with his devoted partner, Stasia Hrab. Together, they shared many happy years in Wayne, NJ.

In retirement, Arnold enjoyed the simple pleasures of life, relaxation, trips to Atlantic City where he tried his luck at the slot machines, and quality time with his family. He was a sociable and kind-hearted man who delighted in helping others, whether they were neighbors, friends, or strangers. He was deeply proud of his Swiss and Austrian heritage and loved sharing stories about his roots.

Arnold’s greatest passion was his family. He especially cherished memorable East Coast road trips he took with his three sons.  He will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Arnold is survived by his three sons, Gregg Schmidig and his wife Safia Bhimji of Monroe, NY, Brian Schmidig of Haskell, NJ, and Scott Schmidig of Wood-Ridge, NJ, and four grandchildren; Averie Schmidig of Monroe, NY, Brianna Schmidig of Basking Ridge, NJ, Joseph Schmidig of Basking  Ridge, NJ, and Michael Schmidig of Wood-Ridge, NJ. 

Carl F. Ferrigno, age 93, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, passed Tuesday, July 29, 2025.

He was born in Jersey City to Italian immigrants Paul and Gabrielle Ferrigno.  He was raised in North Bergen and graduated from St Peters College in Jersey City with a Bachelor of Science degree in Management. He continued his education at NYU where he received his MBA in Business Management. Through the years Carl has lived in North Bergen, Fairview, Fort Lee, and for the past eight years lived at the Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains.

For twenty years starting in 1955, Carl ran the family business, Blue Point Tavern in Jersey City. For several years he held his Real Estate Agent license and eventually became an elected political official in North Bergen. He served as Police, Fire, and DPW Commissioners in North Bergen and also served as Superintendent of the Hudson County Park (aka James J. Braddock Park). He retired in 1998 as Board Secretary of the Hudson County Vocational School after serving for ten years.

Carl was a quiet, introspective man whose strength and wisdom left a lasting impression on those who knew him. A passionate traveler, he explored the United States, Canada, Italy, and Costa Rica, and took great joy in the more than twenty cruises he embarked upon throughout his life. He had a deep love for the outdoors—whether fishing, strolling through parks, or volunteering at Palisades Interstate Park in Alpine, where he found both purpose and peace. Carl was strong-willed and knowledgeable, the kind of man who could be facing illness without ever uttering a complaint. Though reserved by nature, he was deeply caring and an extraordinary storyteller, with a gift for bringing memories to life. He found quiet companionship in his daughter Lisa’s late yellow Lab, Crash, who would faithfully lie at his feet, a silent testament to the quiet bonds Carl so often formed—with people, places, and the world around him. And in the quiet curl of smoke from his favorite cigar, Carl seemed to find a moment of calm that perfectly reflected his steady, thoughtful spirit.

Carl was the devoted father of Susan Peia of Suffield, CT and her late husband Dennis (d.2025), Michael Ferrigno of Wayne and his late wife Maria (d.2022), and Lisa Russo and her husband Richard of Butler; he was the cherished grandfather of five grandchildren and five great grandchildren; he was loved by his brothers Paul Ferrigno and his wife Barbara of Holmdel, and the late Joseph Ferrigno. He will also be missed by Carl’s daughter Lisa’s first husband Ralph.

In remembrance of his brother Joseph memorial donations to The Big Silence would be greatly appreciated. 

Charley Kolasa, age 81, a fifty-three year resident of Wayne, passed Sunday, July 27, 2025.

He was born in Paterson to Charles and Joan Kolasa.  He lived in Hawthorne before moving to Wayne in 1972. Charley served in the US Army in Germany during the Vietnam War.  He received a Marksman (Rifle) designation and the National Defense Service Medal for his service. He was Honorably Discharged on September 6, 1967. 

From the age of twelve, Charley had an insatiable passion for mechanics, tinkering with car engines and learning the intricacies of automotive repair. His talent and dedication led him to various garages in Paterson, where he honed his skills and built a reputation as a trusted, reliable, and gifted, mechanic.  In 1981, he began working at Central Garage, now Allendale Auto Repair, of which he became the owner in 2001. In addition to his talents diagnosing and repairing cars, he was very empathetic and the ultimate "people person", which made his shop a staple in the community. For over four decades, Charley poured his heart and soul into his work, fostering friendships and becoming a beloved figure in the Allendale community before retiring in 2022.  His customers were such an important part of his life.  Just this past Friday, he openly expressed how much he missed both working on cars and the warm camaraderie of the Allendale community.

Charley had a sharp mind and an almost photographic memory. Conversations with him would always include him telling endless stories of his family, work, life, and his rebellious times as a young man. His quick wit and sense of humor were shaped by his appreciation for classic comedies such as Johnny Carson, Rodney Dangerfield, and The Honeymooners. 

Charley would do anything for his family, and all his early mornings and long hours at the shop were dedicated to providing for them. He was a loving husband to Sandra Kolasa. They were inseparable, and their deep love and devotion to each other was obvious every day as they built their life together for fifty-three years.  Charley was the loving father of Susan Kolasa  (husband David Harrison) of Wayne and Sherry Kolasa (fiancé David Konas) of Wayne; cherished grandfather of Ethan, Adam, and Kaitlyn Harrison. 

Charley was the kind of father everyone hopes to have: loving, supportive, and always there when it mattered. His generous heart shaped the women his daughters became, infusing their lives with love and strength. They cherished their early morning 6AM chats with him, and his yearly "Happy Birthday" call became a sweet tradition they always looked forward to. They both wanted to be close to him, and they bought homes in Wayne only ten minutes way.

Charley was a man who found joy in life’s simple pleasures, and time with family was everything to him. He took great pride in caring for his backyard pool, often spending summer days swimming and relaxing with those he loved most. Later in life, he and his wife purchased a second home in Florida. This home served as a vacation retreat for them, and he so enjoyed the weather, the water, and friends in the community. 

Spending time together as a family was a priority.  While his kids were growing up, they took annual trips to the Caribbean and Mexico. It meant so much to him when his mother and father-in-law, Bea and Eli, were able to join as well.  Later, his daughter Susan honored the same tradition by bringing everyone together in Cape May.  No one loved the beach more than Charley. He was reliably the first one ready for the ocean every morning and the last to want to leave. 

He will be so sorely missed, but his family and friends have a lifetime of memories and that will keep him alive every day.  We'll especially remember him on the Cape May porch, a place he loved the most. 

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Ruth M. Kozell (née Van Houten), age 90, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 26, 2025, surrounded by her loving family.

Born and raised in Paterson, Ruth was one of two children of the late Ben and Anna Van Houten. She graduated from Eastside High School with the Class of 1952. Shortly thereafter, she met the love of her life, Jacob Kozell, on a blind date.  Their meeting blossomed into a beautiful marriage in 1957.

Ruth and Jacob settled in Clifton, where they raised their four daughters: Deborah, Donna, Doreen, and Dawn.  Devoted to her family, Ruth embraced her role as a homemaker with unwavering dedication and joy.  She created a warm, loving, and nurturing home. Later in life, she and Jacob moved to Wayne, where they continued to build a life together, cherishing 60 years of loving marriage until Jacob’s passing in November 2017.

Ruth's family was her true passion in life. Summers were joyfully spent in the backyard pool in Clifton and on cherished vacations to Long Beach Island at the Jersey Shore. In her spare time, she enjoyed watching her favorite game shows, and she was an avid fan of the New York Yankees, the New York Knicks, and the Kansas City Chiefs.  Ruth was a gentle, private soul whose love for her family was deep and unconditional. Her family finds comfort and joy in the belief that she is now reunited with her beloved Jacob in eternal peace.

Ruth will be remembered with love and will be sincerely missed by all who knew her.

Ruth is survived by her four daughters; Deborah Kozell of Nutley, NJ, Donna Kozell of Clifton, NJ, Doreen Catelli and her husband Donald of Doylestown, PA, and Dawn Kennedy and her husband Richard of Pompton Plains, NJ, sister Elizabeth Marchitti and her husband John of Totowa, NJ, and three grandchildren; Nicholas Catelli, Joseph Catelli, and Megan Kayal and her husband James.  She was predeceased by her husband Jacob Kozell in November of 2017.

Claire M. Monteleone (nee Augustowski), age 88, of Wayne, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 26, 2025 surrounded by her loving family.

Born at home in Elmwood Park, New Jersey, Claire enjoyed most of her formative years there. It was in grade school that Claire met Rudy Monteleone, and they became sweethearts during their teenage years. While Claire was planning for marriage, Rudy made his own plans and joined the U.S. Navy. Claire was not discouraged and she waited four years for him to return to her. They were married on June 30, 1956 at Our Lady of Sorrows Church, followed by a honeymoon to the Pocono’s. Their marriage was marked by love, enduring loyalty, and profound devotion. Their bond would span nearly seven decades, built on mutual respect, constant support, and a deep affection that was obvious to all who knew them.

Claire was the heart and soul of her family. A devoted mother to her two daughters, she raised them with tireless love, patience, and wise insight that inspires her daughters even today. Claire was their biggest cheerleader, attending every school, athletic, and childhood event she could, always present with quiet encouragement and a warm heart. She was not just a mother, but a lifelong best friend, confidant, and trusted advisor. Her daughters often found themselves asking, “What would mommy do?”—a testament to her sense of fairness, her clarity in complicated circumstances, and her unfailing guidance that could always be trusted. Claire’s emotional strength was among her superpowers. She was strong-willed, wise, and never complained, even in the face of great difficulty. Those who knew her admired her for her grace, her humility, and the calming presence she brought into every situation. She made everyone around her feel proud to be in her company, and her loss will be felt by many.

Travel was one of Claire’s great joys, and she explored the world with wonder and appreciation. Rudy’s employment took them all over the world and she was able to enjoy the beauty of Hawaii to the vibrant streets of Singapore, Tokyo, and Hong Kong, to the elegance of Switzerland and France, Claire embraced every destination. Closer to home, she cherished family trips to Woodloch Pines in Pennsylvania, where lasting memories were made summer after summer. Claire also maintained long friendships and left a lasting impression on everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. She was shaped in large part by her loving parents—her mother, saintly and gentle, and her father, strong and resilient—and Claire carried those qualities in balance throughout her life.

Claire Monteleone will be remembered as a devoted wife, a loving mother, a loyal friend, and a woman of integrity, warmth, and unmatched wisdom. Her life was a living example of kindness, and her memory will continue to guide those who loved her.

Claire is survived by her husband; Rudolph “Rudy” Monteleone of Wayne, their daughters; Karen Palmeri and her husband John of Wayne, and Sharon Maurice and her husband Mike of Glen Rock, five grandchildren; Alicia and her husband Angelo, Domenick and his wife Julia, Alexa, Michael, and Anthony, three great-grandchildren; Anthony, Alania, and Alessia, her sister; Joan Sorce, and sisters-in-law, Carol Cupo (Ronald), and Norma Augustowski, and many nieces and nephews. Claire is predeceased by her brother, Edward Augustowski in 2010.

Charlotta Gregory (née Pinketti), age 95, of Yonkers, New York, passed away peacefully on Friday, July 25, 2025, surrounded by the love and care of her devoted family.

Born and raised in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Charlotta was one of four children of Charles and Magdalena Pinketti. She graduated from Hallahan Catholic High School in the Class of 1946 and went on to work as a secretary at Villanova College, an opportunity she took great pride in and often spoke of with fondness.

Charlotta’s life changed forever when she met the love of her life, Hugo Gregory, at a family gathering. The two fell deeply in love and were married on March 11, 1950, in St. Alice's Church in Upper Darby, Pennsylvania. Their wedding was held swiftly, as Hugo was preparing to be deployed overseas in the Air Force during the Korean Conflict. By a stroke of fate, Hugo's unit was shipped out without him, and he remained stateside.

The couple began their married life in the Bronx, where they welcomed their first child, Michael. Soon after, they made their home in Yonkers, where they raised their daughter, Alice, and lived for the remainder of their lives together.

Charlotta embraced her role as a full-time homemaker with unmatched grace, dedication, and love. With Hugo working nights for NY Daily News & NY Times, Charlotta became the heart of the household, nurturing, educating, and guiding her children. She was their teacher, cheerleader, counselor, and caregiver. She attended every school play and sporting event and proudly served as a Daisy Troop Leader for her daughter. Being a homemaker was her true calling, and she flourished in every moment.

A woman of deep Catholic faith, Charlotta was a devoted parishioner of both St. Anne's Roman Catholic Church and St. John the Baptist Church in Yonkers. Her faith sustained her throughout life’s trials and triumphs, especially during the greatest sorrow of her life, the sudden and heartbreaking loss of her son Michael in 1957 at the tender age of five.

Charlotta found joy in simple pleasures and special traditions. She loved taking her children to the beach at Sherwood Park during the summer and later enjoyed boating with Hugo after he purchased a boat in Norwalk, Connecticut. She and Hugo also cherished traveling together to exotic destinations, including Bermuda and Martinique, creating memories that would last a lifetime.

Charlotta was known among family and friends for her extraordinary Italian cooking, especially her legendary sauce and meatballs.  She was also known for her impeccable organization. She was the glue that held her family together through every season of life. Though strong-willed at times, her determination, loyalty, and boundless love for her family never wavered.

Above all, Charlotta was a loving wife, a nurturing mother, and a proud Nanny to her grandchildren. This past March she and Hugo celebrated their 75th Wedding Anniversary.  This was certainly an enduring testament to their love, commitment, and unbreakable bond.

Charlotta’s legacy lives on in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her. She will be remembered always for her strength, warmth, and the quiet yet profound impact she had on the lives around her.

Charlotta is survived by her husband Hugo Gregory of Yonkers, her daughter Alice Scheiner and her husband Laurence of Wayne, NJ, one sister Rita Gallagher and her husband Chuck of Pennsylvania, one brother Charles Pinketti and his wife Marlene of Pennsylvania, two grandchildren: Alyssa Scheiner along with her fiancé Joe of Somerville, MA, and Michael Scheiner of Philadelphia, PA.  Charlotta was predeceased by her son Michael Gregory (1957), her brother Louis Pinketti (2014) and his wife Louisa (2015).

Robert A. Carlo, age 100, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, July 20, 2025, in the loving and comforting presence of his dear family.

Born in Paterson and raised in the family home at 13 Redwood Avenue, Bob was the youngest of Vincenzo and Nunziata (Pacelli) Carlo’s four children. His education took him through the eighth grade. He attended the first day of high school and, at the end of that day, said he’d give it one more try. But after the second day, Bob declared, “That’s enough for me!” He decided that rather than spending time in a classroom, he’d be better off entering the workforce—and he never looked back.

The next 49 and a half years were, indeed, well spent. Bob built a long and fulfilling career at Witco Chemical, in Paterson. Witco, a maker of powder and liquid soaps, became Bob’s professional home, and he truly loved his work. Over the years, he earned a reputation for turning around departments—improving efficiency, productivity, and morale wherever he went. His leadership and know-how won him the lasting respect of both his supervisors and his coworkers. Outside of work, Bob was affectionately known as “The Soap Man.”

During his time at Witco, the world was at war. In July of 1943, at just 18 years old, Bob was drafted into the U.S. Army. Eight months later, he was deployed overseas. Reflecting on the moment his regiment entered the battlefront, he once recalled: “We were in the channel for six, seven days before Eisenhower gave us the word. ‘We’re going to hand you over to the generals of the Army. ’We looked at each other and figured this was it.” It was the Normandy Invasion, and Bob’s infantry regiment landed at Utah Beach.

Sometime after his arrival Bob was injured—shrapnel from a grenade explosion struck him in the forehead. “It went up, instead of in,” he later said. “If it went in, I don’t know you.” The injury led to three months of hospitalization, a discharge from active duty, and him being awarded the Purple Heart.

Years later, at age 94, Bob was watching television coverage of the 75th anniversary of D-Day with his family. Moved by what he saw, he suddenly announced that he wanted to return to Normandy. And six months later, that’s exactly what he did—accompanied by his daughter, son-in-law, grandchildren, and great-granddaughter. That same year, he was honored with the Distinguished Service Medal, which he wore with pride, hanging over his heart from a red, white, and blue ribbon.

When Bob returned home from the war, his job at Witco was waiting for him. At that time, the company had retooled its production line to manufacture drums for gunpowder in support of the war effort, and Bob was trusted to lead that project.

Before Bob left for war he met the love of his life, Connie Silvano. They met at an Italian feast at Blessed Sacrament Church in Paterson. Connie took a liking to Bob right away, and in her characteristic fashion, she didn’t wait for him to ask her out—she asked him. Their first date was another Italian feast at Werner’s Grove in North Haledon (known today as The Tides), and from that moment, their relationship took off.

When Bob was called into Army service, Connie said she would wait for him—on one condition: they had to get engaged first. And so they did, exchanging love letters while he was overseas. After Bob’s return, the two were married on Sunday, October 21, 1945, at the newly built Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Paterson. They honeymooned at the Robert Treat Hotel in Newark, and one night, unsure what to do, they returned to Paterson for an evening at the Majestic Theater. During that same honeymoon, they made a rather untraditional stop at an appliance store in Newark to buy their first refrigerator, using $300 Bob had received from the Army.

Their first home was the three-family house at 13 Redwood Avenue—Bob’s childhood home. It became a true family residence: Bob and Connie on the first floor, Connie’s parents on the second, and Bob’s parents on the third. They remained there for 50 years, from 1945 to 1995, before moving to Wayne, where Bob lived for the remainder of his life.

Earlier this year, Bob celebrated his 100th birthday at a wonderful celebration hosted by his family at the Packanack Lake Clubhouse. More than a hundred guests came to honor him. Ever sharp and gracious, Bob gave a heartfelt speech in which he said, “I thank you for what you’ve given me.”

One of Bob’s favorite pastimes was heading to Atlantic City. He and Connie loved staying with their daughter Barbara and son-in-law Al in Brigantine, making trips to the casinos to try their luck at the slot machines. They may never have hit the jackpot, but they always came home with great memories.

Nothing was more important to Bob than his family. He showed his love for Connie, Barbara, Al, and his grandchildren and great-grandchildren in countless ways. Bob shared a special bond with his daughter, Barbara. From taking her as a child to the West Side Park, to driving hours just to bring her to college, he was always by her side. He embraced her love for yoga—thanks to Barbara and Al—and often picked her up after work as a teacher to head down to the shore. Their 4 p.m. coffee together became a cherished ritual, as did spontaneous drives for ice cream. Bob loved to tell the story of how he had hoped for a boy when Barbara was born, but over the years, he would always add how grateful he was that it was little Barbara who arrived—saying there’s no way he would have made it to 100 without her. And, of course, his grandchildren and great-grandchildren will always remember the five-dollar bill Pop would slip them every time he saw them.

Bob was, in every sense, one of the kindest and most humble people you could meet. He had a warm heart, a gentle charm, and—some might say—a playful, flirtatious spirit. Whether at his house or the porch down the Shore, he loved to greet his neighbors with a smile, a wave, and a familiar invitation: “Come over for a cup of coffee!”

After retiring from Witco, Bob wasn’t ready to sit still. He took a part-time job at ShopRite in Wayne offering customers free samples of prepared foods—an ideal job for a people-person like him. His friendliness and easy manner earned him the nickname “ShopRite Man.”

Bob’s life was deeply rooted in his faith. He and Connie were longtime parishioners at St. Mary’s in Paterson. In his later years, he attended Mass with his daughter Barbara and her husband Al at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne.

His family and friends are forever grateful to God for the gift of Bob’s life. One hundred years filled with love, laughter, dedication, and grace—truly, a life well lived. Not long ago, Bob raised a coffee mug and said, “Cent ’Anni!”—“Good health for 100 years.”

Rest peacefully, Bob. We love you.

Bob was the devoted husband of Constance (Silvano) Carlo for 70 years until Connie’s passing in 2015. He was the loving father of Barbara and her husband Al Turco of Wayne; cherished grandfather of Amy and her husband Dave Fazekas of Glen Ridge, David and his wife Stacy Turco of Wayne, and Michael and his wife Nicole Turco of Wayne and the beloved great-grandfather of Tyler, Maci, and Alex Fazekas, and Aidan, Dylan, and Kylie Turco. He was predeceased by his two older brothers, Pasquale and Michael Carlo, and his sister, Seraphine Cerce.

In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a gesture of sympathy in Robert’s memory are kindly asked to consider a donation to: Leukemia & Lymphoma Society which was a cause near and dear to his heart. www.lightthenightmichaelturco.com

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UPDATE: Janet will be laid to rest with her husband at the Arlington National Cemetery on August 4, 2025.

Janet McLean Thompson (nee Steenstra), age 86 of Wayne, passed away on Wednesday, September 27, 2023. She was a Wayne resident for more than fifty years.

Janet was born and raised in the Totowa section of Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1954. She was a Band Majorette and member of the Color Guard spending Saturday afternoons in the fall cheering on the Colts at Hinchliffe Stadium.

Janet met Jimmy Thompson as a teenager while they were both attending the First Presbyterian Church in Paterson and Jim played on Central’s football team.

After graduation, she began her career working for the telephone company. During this time, Jim had joined the military and was serving with the Army in Germany when he proposed to 19 year old Janet! With her father’s blessing, Janet traveled overseas (alone) and married Jim in Munich on August 4, 1956. They enjoyed a wonderful honeymoon there as well. Once Jim returned home, they married again for the benefit of their family and friends.

They bought their first home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they lived for 20 years before building a new home across town.

Eventually, Janet and her sister Clariss joined her father’s company, Steenstra Paper Products in Paterson. After her father’s untimely passing, Jim needed to step in and run the day to day business operations. Janet was at his side the whole time for over 25 years. They were a loving couple and Janet was utterly devoted to her beloved Jim. They always considered themselves lucky to work together at Steenstra Paper Products, and they loved being together each and every day. After Jim’s unexpected passing, Janet led the business for another 5 years until her retirement.

Together, they raised their two boys, James and Edward. Janet was a very involved and attentive mother. She was always supportive of her boys, attending their sporting events, scouting activities, band concerts, and school events. She and Jim were proud to attend Wayne Valley Marching Band competitions as well as football games at Muhlenberg College. She was an excellent cook and spoiled her loved ones with her baking.

During the 1970’s, at the urging of her high school friends Charlene Delvecchio and Maggie McMahon, Janet and Jim purchased several acres in the town of Cobleskill, NY. Jim worked alongside his close friend Jerry Delvecchio to design and build a country “cottage” on the property. Affectionately known as “The Farm”, Janet and her loved ones enjoyed countless trips to her second home over the past 50 years. This despite the home having neither electricity nor running water! These trips eventually included her grandsons where she would enjoy teaching them to play games such as Pokeno and Uno as well as dying easter eggs.

She was perhaps an even better YaYa, babysitting at every opportunity and spoiling her grandsons with love and hugs and lots of cookies. They will all miss her dearly.

In 2003, Janet moved to Oak Ridge where she lived on the fourth hole of Bowling Green Country Club. With the help of several close friends and neighbors, she quickly picked up the sport of golf and treasured her time on the greens.

Janet was fortunate to always have a large group of friends and she was very social. She played cards with her girlfriends often and loved playing tennis and golf over the years. Somehow, she also found time to tend to her garden or do needlework. She was very fond of her Dalmatians: Chequers, Chief and Mikey and considered them her other sons. Janet was blessed in many ways and her family will miss her presence.

Janet was predeceased by her loving husband, James(1994)and her parents, Edward Steenstra(1965) and Minnie(nee McLean) Steenstra(2006). She is survived by her loving sons: James and his wife Peggy of Seattle, Washington, and Edward and his wife Kathleen of Wayne, four adoring grandsons: McLean, James, Danny, and Matthew, one sister, Clariss Rock of W. Caldwell, and three loving nieces; Jocelyn Anderson, Cynthia Mizzone and Joanna Clarke.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Packanack Lake Fire Co. #5, 5 Lake Drive West, Wayne, NJ or the Alzheimer's Association.

Jaden Gyamfi Dwumah Buahin, age 5 of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, July 18, 2025.

Jaden brought laughter and joy to his home in Wayne, New Jersey, where he was lovingly raised by his parents Harriet and David Buahin alongside his four brothers. He had a remarkable gift for bringing smiles to everyone around him.

With his curious mind and creative spirit, Jaden found wonder in the simple things. He could spend hours absorbed in puzzles, his little hands working away to complete them. His imagination truly came to life when he played with Legos, creating unique combinations with the little connectable pieces. You could often find him clutching a handful of colorful pieces or other small treasures like his moldable Play-Doh.

Jaden also loved his tablet, typing, texting, and emoting with emojis to express himself. Music brought happiness to Jaden that couldn’t be replicated. He enjoyed singing nursery rhymes especially his beloved, “Five Little Ducks” song that he loved to recite.

Jaden will also be remembered for his tireless energy! He was always in motion climbing, running, and filling the house or school with his wonderful belly laughs that were infectious to all. He also loved to play leapfrog games that taught the alphabet, always signing along with joy.

His loving and affectionate nature touched everyone who knew him. Jaden’s favorite foods were pepperoni pizza, Lay’s potato chips, and Sugar Bread, a special Ghanaian treat that connected him to his family’s heritage. He also loved snacking on raisins and cranberries and other sweet treats.

The Preakness Early Childhood Center in Wayne became Jaden’s second home, where he quickly became a beloved part of the school family. Though his time there was brief, he left an indelible mark on the staff and students. His favorite teachers, Ms. Hanan and Ms. Carla, held special places in his heart, and he in theirs.

Faith and God played an important role in Jaden’s life. As a cherished member of the Children’s Ministry at the Church of Pentecost, he joined his family for worship every Sunday.

Jaden’s five years were filled with laughter, creativity, love and boundless curiosity for the world around him. His memory will be a source of light and joy for all who were blessed to get to know him.

Jaden is survived by his parents Harriet and David Buahin; his brothers: Enoch Buahin, William Buahin, his twin Jason Buahin, and Bryan Buahin; his grandparents: Alice Buahin and Beatrice Boateng; and many aunts and uncles and extended family back in Ghana.

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