James (Jim) D. Henson, age 91, of Wayne, NJ passed on Tuesday, June 17, 2025, with the comfort of his wife, Joan, by his side.

James was born in Detroit, MI to H. Lyle and Norma Henson where he graduated from Dearborn High School in 1952 having played football, ran track, and swam.

He continued his education at the University of Michigan and Wayne State University in Detroit where he graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree in engineering in 1958. He also worked for J. Hode Corporation while attending college.

During college, he met Joan Chiravelo to whom he presented his fraternity pin. Jim and Joan dated for several years, got engaged, and got married in 1956 just prior to Joan’s graduation from college.

Jim continued his education and work while they started a family with son, John, born in 1957 and son, David, born in 1959.

Jim continued working for J. Hode Corporation until 1965 when he took a position with Lone Star Industries in New York state where he worked as a civil engineer with extensive travel to Asia. At that time, Jim, Joan, and the boys relocated to Wayne, New Jersey.  

In 1982, his cement industry expertise took he and Joan to Strongsville, Ohio. In 1989, Jim and Joan returned to Michigan where he worked for Lafarge North America. He retired from Lafarge in 2008, but continued consulting for the cement industry for several additional years.

Jim’s real passion was community service at each of the churches he attended. In the late 1960s, Wayne Presbyterian Church (Wayne, New Jersey) held services at Wayne Valley High School. Jim’s engineering experience was instrumental when as he served as a Wayne Presbyterian Building Committee member to help create, finalize, and get the church built that currently resides at the corner of Alps and Ratzer Road. He also served as a session member and a senior high school Sunday school teacher at this church. Jim continued community service as the Treasurer of his church in Strongsville, Ohio. At the methodist church in Northville, Michigan, he was involved with the annual hosting of homeless persons for a week at the church. Jim was also involved in the Civic Concern of Northville that provided a food bank for the community.

Jim is survived by Joan, his loving wife of 69 years, his sons John and David, daughter in law’s Cindy and Anne, four beautiful grandchildren; Justin, Andrew, Nicholas and Lauren, and his precious great granddaughter, Cynthia (Thia) Henson.

Jim lived a loving and purposeful life and will be missed by all those who knew him. 

It is with great sadness we share the passing of Shirley Pinajian, 90 on July 16, 2025, an over 60 year Wayne resident.

Shirley was born to Samuel and Miriam Shainfeld, Holocaust survivors who arrived to Ellis Island for a better life. Times were extremely difficult throughout Shirley’s childhood, but she was able to overcome and flourish into a woman whose humor never wavered.

Shirley attended Paterson schools and graduated from Eastside High School - Class of 1952. Following graduation, Shirley became an administrative assistant for an established company in Paterson. Ultimately, she maintained employment at her husband, George Pinajian’s family dry cleaning business, National French Cleaners in Hawthorne. Later in life, Shirley was a customer service rep for Viva Optique where her friendly and funny attitude brought her many friendships and memorable times.

Most importantly, Shirley loved her family. In recent years, Shirley enjoyed evenings with her cherished son, Alan Pinajian as he cooked and brought her dinner most evenings and kept her company while she ate. If Alan was not there, Tara, Alan’s “Queen” as he refers to her, spent much time sharing dinners and stories with Shirley. Shirley’s daughter, Cindy Fisher devoted her retirement to taking care of Shirley during the day. Shirley and Cindy’s mother/daughter relationship had deep roots and was adored immensely by both.

In addition, Shirley’s exceptional love was shared with her grand-daughters Tracy, Kimberly and Brianna, as well as with her grandson, Scott prior to his passing, each truly believing they were Granny’s favorite. Shirley signed each card for any occasion, “To My Favorite,”which became a friendly competition between the girls and Scott. Giorgio and Joseph, Shirley’s beloved great-grandsons were also the loves of her life. Both will forever love and miss their Nanny.

To know Shirley was to love her. Shirley was everyone’s close friend, whether someone young or old. At all times she brought a smile or laughter to anyone in her company. Shirley loved alone time, watching her daily soap operas, and keeping her home spotless with either her signature carpet sweeper or dust buster never far away. Shirley enjoyed Facebook, even though at times she thought every post was written specifically to her. Shirley thrived when corresponding with others and loved watching videos on her iPhone, especially of animals and babies. She loved purchasing adorable outfits with Tara at Chico’s as well as reading a plethora of books on her kindle. Shirley loved her numerous visits to Atlantic City with her best friend, Vera, and her daily phone calls with her close friend, Joni. From her weekly hair appointments at The Gallery with Gina, to her nail manicures with Donna, to chatting with the girls, Shirley was a unique, extremely funny, chic, friendly person who was always able to get “the dirt” from anyone in which she came in contact.

Shirley is survived by her daughter, Cindy Fisher (Clifford), her son, Alan Pinajian (Tara Iattarelli), grand-daughters Tracy Gelok-Fisher (Giorgio Olmo), all of Wayne, Kimberly Fisher-Moe (Brian) of Oregon, Brianna Ackerman (Sam) of Tinton Falls, and great-grandsons Giorgio and Joseph.

Shirley was predeceased by her devoted husband, George Pinajian in 1983, her dear daughter, Ellen Rosen in 2005, and her most-loving grandson, Scott Gelok in 2015.

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In lieu of flowers please consider a donation in honor of Shirley to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, Atlantic Health Hospice or an organization of your choice.

William “Bill” Smith, age 62, of Kinnelon, NJ and formerly of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 15, 2025. He leaves behind a legacy of hard work, laughter, and a life lived to the fullest.

Born in Pompton Plains, New Jersey, Bill spent his early years in the Lowcountry of South Carolina while his father was serving in the U.S. Navy. He moved with his family back to Wayne, New Jersey, at the age of 10. Growing up in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, Bill developed a love for mechanics, boating, and a strong connection to the community that would shape much of his life.

Bill graduated from Wayne Valley High School with the Class of 1980. Even as a teenager, he was already a true “jack of all trades” – and a master of most. Mechanically inclined from a young age, he could fix anything and had a special knack for engines, often building go-karts out of any engine lying around the neighborhood. There wasn’t an engine around that hadn’t been taken apart and put back together at least once. At a time when most teens were hanging out with friends, Bill commandeered the household “party line” to launch his first pool repair business. He was always on the phone doing business which made his sister, Marguerite, crazy!

That entrepreneurial spirit grew into North Jersey Pool and Spa, a business Bill proudly owned and operated for decades, serving countless pool and spa owners across northern New Jersey. It was only fitting that Bill would find his place in the pool industry, given that his grandfather invented the vinyl pool liner – a family legacy that Bill proudly carried forward with skill, integrity, and tireless dedication.

But Bill was not all work; he believed in playing hard, too. A modern-day Ernest Hemmingway. Fitting since he loved getting out on the boat with friends for an action-packed day of fishing or just going out and enjoying being on the water. Live for today, not worrying about yesterday or tomorrow. When he wasn’t fishing, Bill loved snowmobiling, occasionally riding his motorcycle, playing darts, and skiing across Vermont, Colorado, and even the Italian Dolomites. He enjoyed traveling the world, beating the odds at the blackjack table, and sipping a good bourbon or beer at the end of a long day. His Ford Raptor pickup truck, which he enjoyed driving so much, served as his mobile office, and was always ready to take him on his next adventure or to the job site. That Raptor also served to notify the neighbors when he was leaving for work (7:30 AM sharp) every day. When the engine didn’t fire up, or the truck was missing, the neighbors noticed. Throughout his tough cancer battle, he continued to keep his strict work schedule - his grit and determination never wavering.

Bill loved spending time with his friends and always had their backs. Whether it was at the bowling alley, out on the water fishing, or sharing stories and laughter around the horseshoe pits by the beach, he was always surrounded by a circle of fun. His last wish was to get out on his boat and go fishing with his friends just one more time, a testament to the simple joys he cherished so dearly throughout his life.

Bill will be remembered for his unshakable work ethic, his mechanical genius, and the way he made everyone feel welcome in his presence (as long as you didn’t cross him!). His family, friends, and the countless people he helped over the years will deeply miss him and the unmistakable energy, hardy laugh, and competitive spirit he brought wherever he went.

Bill is survived by his sons Brandon Smith of Kinnelon and Brett Smith of Big Pine Key, Florida, his mother; Marguerite Smith of Big Pine Key, Florida, his former wife of more than thirty years; Tammy Smith, his brother-in-law; Curt Kabula, his niece; Maggie Kabula, his nephew; Trent Kabula, his soul sister; Tracy McCann, and his dear friends; Greg Fischer, Steve Nebesni, Bob Giancaterino, Sheldon Frankel, Jerry Lange and Betania Lesko. He was predeceased by his father, Craig, in 2021 and by his sister, Marguerite Kabula in 2024.

Stuart D. Anderson, age 87, of Montville passed away peacefully on July 15^th, 2025.

Stuart was born to Sydney and Lillian Anderson (née Larson) in Minneapolis, Minnesota on August 27^th, 1937. The youngest of three boys, Stuart was always a dedicated student and musician. Stuart attended Wesleyan University, originally to pursue his love of music, however, graduated with a Bachelor’s in Finance & Accounting. He then chose to continue his education at the University of Chicago where he earned his Master’s in Economics. He served in the United States Army from 1961 to 1962, continuing in the reserves for an additional five years.

Stuart met his wife-to-be, Eileen Anderson (née Arvila), in 1962 at a coffee social after a church service in Chicago. They fell in love and married a year later on October 26th, 1963 and remained in Chicago for three years. They later moved to Brooklyn, NY where Stuart worked in finance for AT&T. After three years in Brooklyn, Stuart and Eileen moved once more, and settled in Montville, NJ where they lived for 50 plus years. They enjoyed a loving marriage that spanned 52 years in which they cherished many great memories.

Stuart took great pride in being a father and a provider for his three children: Erik, Kirk, and Lisa. While stoic and serious about his responsibilities by nature, he made it a point to take extended time from work for annual family trips to Minnesota where the kids would be joined by their cousins on many fun adventures. Most notable being the year of the “Edmund Fitzgerald” in which Stuart and his brother Duane navigated a stormy houseboat ride while the children found humor in the chaos.

Upon his retirement from AT&T at age 58, Stuart and Eileen made it a point to see as much of the world as possible. Some of the many countries visited were Croatia, France, Italy, Germany, Russia, Peru, the Czech Republic, Argentina, Finland, China, South Korea, Albania, Sweden, Norway, New Zealand, Australia, Switzerland, and Egypt. He had a natural ability to recount his travels in such detail that you would feel transported to the destinations he was speaking of (a bit like one of his favorites, Rick Steves!). After the love of his life and travel partner, Eileen, passed away in 2016 he continued to explore with his immediate family. This included a trip to Israel and Jordan with his son Erik, a trip to Italy with his daughter-in-law Sharon, Alaska with his son Kirk, Greece with his daughter Lisa, and Japan with his eldest grandson Justin.

One of Stuart’s greatest passions was gardening. After settling in their forever home in Montville, he and Eileen took great pride in building and maintaining their diverse garden. This included not only vegetable gardens in which he would enlist the boys to help tend to, but also a variety of perennial plantings in which he would track their progress throughout the years. Often if you would stop by for a visit you would find him walking throughout the yard, tending to his landscape. If you were lucky, you would even get a detailed history as to the why and where each plant originated from. In addition to his passion for gardening, Stuart also never strayed from his love for music. He was an avid pianist and sang tenor in the church choir. As recounted by his children, some of the fondest memories they have are him sitting at the Steinway piano in the living room showcasing his talents.

Stuart and Eileen were devoted members of St. Timothy’s Church. Stuart found great joy in the relationships he built with the congregation and pastors over the years. Singing in the church choir gave him the chance to share his musical gifts and form lasting friendships. For Stuart, the church was more than a place of worship– it was an extended family that brought him deep happiness. 

Stuart is predeceased by his wife Eileen Anderson and his brothers Duane (Shirley) and Ronnie (Mary) Anderson. Stuart is survived by his son, Erik Anderson and his fiancée Kourtney Triola; son, Kirk Anderson and his wife Sandra Anderson; daughter, Lisa Anderson; daughter-in-law, Sharon Anderson; two grandsons: Justin Anderson and his fiancée Marissa McClement, and Jacob Anderson and his partner Evelyn Secallus; and many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Stuart’s name are asked to consider a donation to St. Timothy Lutheran Church Memorial Fund, 395 Valley Rd., Wayne, NJ. 

Louise Ann Ewasko, age 86 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 15, 2025.

Born as the oldest of three children to Alphonso and Violet Iuele, Louise or Lou Ann as she was lovingly known was raised on Keen Street in Paterson, New Jersey. Her childhood home sat directly across the street from a boy named Bernard Ewasko’s home. Throughout their early years, Lou Ann and Bernie developed a close friendship, often racing bikes together through the neighborhood streets and sharing in the adventures of their youth.

Their friendship became something deeper once they reached their teens. Bernie, then 17, found the courage to ask 14-year-old Lou Ann on her first date. With her father’s blessing earned through Bernie’s reputation as a trustworthy young man, the young couple went on their first date – a Sunday drive past the farms along Ratzer Road in Wayne.

Their romance was temporarily interrupted when Bernie was called to serve his country in the United States Army from 1955 to 1958. After his return from service, they picked up right where they left off and on Saturday, November 28, 1959, the couple exchanged their wedding vows at Blessed Sacrament Church in their hometown of Paterson and married. The newlyweds celebrated their marriage with a honeymoon in sunny Florida, a destination that would be a cherished winter retreat for the rest of their lives together.

The couple began their married life in their first home in Paterson, later moving to West Paterson before settling in Wayne, where they would spend the next 57 years building their life together until Bernie's passing in 2018. Their marriage was blessed with two beautiful children, Jo Ann and Steven, and spanned nearly 59 years.

Lou Ann and Bernie created a tradition of escaping New Jersey's harsh winters for their ocean condo at Indian Harbor Beach in Florida. True to her nature, Lou Ann insisted they drive to their winter escape since she refused to fly. This suited Bernie perfectly, as he was passionate about his cars and looked forward to an excuse to take them on a long ride.

Among Lou Ann's most cherished companions was her beloved dog Chico, who held a special place in her heart from September 1977 until his passing in November 1993. For over sixteen years, Chico was her devoted friend, bringing joy and companionship to the Ewasko household and leaving paw prints on Lou Ann's heart that would last a lifetime.

Lou Ann is survived by her children: Jo Ann Ewasko and Steven Ewasko along with his wife CharlotteAnn Ewasko; her siblings Carmen and his wife Karen Iuele, and Irene Seltenheim; her grandchildren: Nicole Ianuale and her partner Paulo Almeida, Mark and his wife Jackie Ianuale, and Cory Ianuale; and her great grandchildren: Marcelo Almeida, Nina Almeida, and Elaina Ianuale.

She is predeceased by her husband Bernard Ewasko; her brother-in-law Christopher Seltenheim; and her parents Alphonso and Violet Iuele.

Louis Anthony Todaro, age 44, of Los Angeles, California passed away on Monday, July 14, 2025. Louis was born to Mariann Portelli and Salvatore Todaro. He grew up in Wayne, NJ and attended Wayne Valley High School. He continued his education at William Paterson University and soon after moved to the west coast to follow his dreams.

Louis could only be remembered by his family and friends as vibrant and passionate. His personality was larger than life, and in his presence, you were sure to smile, laugh, and feel loved. Louis had the biggest heart that was undeniably felt by those around him. Within moments of meeting him, you experienced his kindness and humility. In the presence of Louis stood the presence of a true friend, genuine heart, and pure soul.

Louis had an unmatched enthusiasm for life. He lived his life to the fullest, ensuring every moment was filled with laughter, fun, and excitement. His sisters described him as ambitious and “a dreamer,” as he lived life fearlessly chasing down his every goal and dream. Louis believed we could do, have, and create anything we wanted. No matter what he endured, Louis’ persistent positivity uplifted those around him and gave others hope. Louis truly believed life was an adventure, and to Louis it was. The sky was not the limit, but merely a starting point.  

From kicking off his life as a charismatic and successful child actor, to developing his growing love for music as an exceptional and talented DJ. Louis brought so many people together, creating unforgettable memories.

His life was driven by the passions of his heart, that he boldly shared with those around him. From acting, to music, to his love for food, business, and personal development. To his unique and outgoing sense of fashion, his relationships with family and friends, to taking massive action to change the world for the better. These were the things that meant most to Louis.

Louis had such a strong and unstoppable entrepreneurial spirit. With countless business ventures, from real estate development to energy performance and more, he was always seeking the next opportunity for expansion. Louis had a growing love for God and a deep faith that fueled his daily life and dreams. No idea or concept was too big. If he thought it, he could bring it to reality.

Finally, his biggest passion of all, the love he had for others. Louis was always selfless and ready to help others before himself. He jumped at the opportunity to help everyone and anyone, even people he did not know. He had a drive to be better, to grow, and to help others do the same.

His parents, his sisters, and to all his cousins, relatives, friends and business partners, from coast to coast; these are the people he lived for. To support them, to love and protect them, and to make his family proud. That was his end goal in life. 

Louis is preceded in death by his stepfather, Robert Giannella, and his grandparents, Mary Portelli, Anthony Portelli, Teresa Todaro and Louis Todaro Sr.

Louis is survived by his parents (Mariann Giannella and Salvatore Todaro), sisters (Elizabeth Graves, Sarah Giannella, and Rachel Giannella), nieces (Serena Graves, Kendall Graves, and Ella Graves), nephew (Bond Hanna), brother-in-law (Kent Graves), and sister-in-law (Madison Giannella). 

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to Louis’ church, Fearless Church, LA, would be greatly appreciated. Louis had a vision to help support and expand Fearless Church, LA. It was a special place that had a profound impact on his life.

Joan Elaine Kievit (née Smith), age 93, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on Monday, July 14, 2025.

Joan was born in Phillipsburg, NJ, the only child of Donald and Gertrude Smith. During her childhood, her family relocated to Saddle Brook, NJ, and she graduated from Garfield High School where she was a cheerleader with the Class of 1950. Not long after, she was introduced to William (Bill) Kievit on a blind date. Their connection was immediate, and with Bill’s job relocating him to Virginia, he proposed just two weeks after they met, knowing he had found the love of his life. As fate would have it, they fell in love and the couple married on September 6, 1952.  Joan and Bill then began their life together in Richmond, Virginia. They soon moved to Baltimore, Maryland, where they welcomed the births of their three sons: David, Bruce and Bob. In 1959, they settled in Wayne, New Jersey, where they built their first home and created a lifetime of memories.  Joan and Bill remained in that home for the rest of their lives together.

After getting married, Joan embraced her role as a full-time homemaker with joy and devotion. It was a calling she fulfilled daily with grace and pride. She was a deeply dedicated wife and mother, known for having breakfast and dinner on the table every day and for lovingly hosting countless family holidays and celebrations. She was an outstanding cook and was legendary for her macaroni and cheese, her cheese bread, and famous brownies.  Her brownies were shared generously with family, friends, neighbors, and even her hairdresser.

A true embodiment of the 1950s American homemaker, Joan found tremendous fulfillment in caring for her home and her family. She took great pride in maintaining a spotless house, preparing delicious meals, and welcoming her husband home each evening dressed with care and grace. She also had a natural talent for home improvement, confidently selecting and installing paint and wallpaper herself.

Joan’s greatest passion in life was her family. Nothing in the world meant more to her than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  She and Bill shared an extraordinary sixty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage, marked by deep affection and mutual respect, until Bill’s passing in 2021. Together, they enjoyed memorable trips to Bermuda for their 25th anniversary and to Hawaii for their 50th. Family summers were spent annually in Harvey Cedars on Long Beach Island at the Jersey Shore, a cherished family tradition that brought joy and lasting memories to their family throughout the years.

Though she was a private and quiet individual, Joan had a delightful sense of humor and often delivered unexpectedly witty remarks that brought smiles and laughter to those around her. She was loved not just by her three sons, but also by all of their friends who would frequently spend time in her home.  She adored her beloved dogs, her cherished poodle and 3 Bichons, who were always by her side.

Joan Elaine Kievit will be remembered as a devoted wife, a loving mother, a proud grandmother and great-grandmother, and a woman whose heart and home were always open to those she loved. She touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all who knew her.

Joan is survived by her three sons; David R Kievit and his wife Liz of Glen Mills, PA, Bruce W Kievit and his partner Paulette Marsh of Coatesville, PA, and Robert C Kievit and his wife Laura of Cedar Grove, NJ, as well as seven grandchildren; Will Kievit and his wife Alyssa of Ridgewood, NJ, Mike Kievit and his wife Kendra of West Chester, PA, Tim Kievit and his wife Tiffany of Phoenixville, PA, Jeanette Caccese and her husband Ryan of Holmes, PA, Brian Kievit and his fiancé Sarina Shinko of Quincy MA, Christine Kievit and her fiancé Jon Dolmseth of Levittown, PA, and Jennifer Kievit and her boyfriend Magnus Reistad (“Mr. Beautiful” as Joan called him) of Meriden, CT, and two great grandchildren; Harry, and Riley.  Joan was predeceased by her husband William Kievit in 2021.

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In lieu of flowers, donation in Joan’s name may be made to Tunnels to Towers or Make a Wish Foundation

Herbert J. Bischof "Pop Pop", age 82 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, July 14, 2025.

Herb was born in Paterson, NJ and raised in Saddle Brook as the eldest of three children to Herbert and Lily Bischof. Throughout his life, Herb or “Pop Pop” as he was lovingly known, embodied what it meant to be a devoted family man above all else.

Herb always went the extra mile to be there for his family. Whether that meant his unwavering support at all their events, or making celebrations extra special in the little ways only he could come up with. Pop Pop’s biggest fans were his Pussycats: his daughters Jennifer and Amy. As a father he was consistently reliable, creating weekend plans with activities prepped so his daughters had fun and joy throughout their shared time. When he was blessed with four grandchildren, the love, affection, and laughs grew and expanded to include them as well. 

Herb’s ability to make holidays extra special was second to none. He always found unique ways to make the memories unforgettable. He famously made his grandkids dress up in themed outfits each month. His love of pictures only grew when he began turning them into custom calendars for himself and his family to cherish. Additionally, he was notorious for always keeping a few gifts tucked away during special occasions like Christmas, only to be revealed near the end. He would say at the end of unwrapping gifts, there might be oneeeee more, before leaving to grab it. He would then surprise someone with an extra present he hid away. Then once their excitement settled and the other’s expressions started to droop from disappointment that they did not receive something special, he would say it again and surprise the rest with that one last item. It was a small tradition that never failed to bring smiles and laughter to everyone’s faces. 

Herb’s social life centered around “The Gang” a group of eight men (and their wives) who were best friends for over 60 years. They brought out the best in each other (or the worst depending on who you asked)! They shared a tough love that had newcomers questioning how they could actually be friends. Based on the way they talked, you never would have guessed. The truth is they shared a camaraderie that was forged over years of wonderful friendship. Their ability to joke around and never take anything too seriously, helped make them all friends for life. The Gang was famous for their barbecues, parties, and annual fishing trips to Chincoteague; where they would make new memories and reminisce about old ones. 

One of those famous parties with The Gang introduced Herb to a beautiful woman named Lydia. At the time, Lydia was enjoying a glass of wine and a cigarette when Herb came up and introduced himself. She offered him both, which he declined, claiming he didn't drink or smoke. By the end of the evening, however, Herb had a glass of wine in one hand and two cigarettes in the other, asking Lydia for her number. She relented on the condition that he wouldn’t call her on Thursdays as she was typically busy that day bowling with her league. Well, true to Herb, he called her on Thursday regardless and Lydia answered. The couple fell in love and enjoyed a loving relationship and marriage for forty-five years. 

Beyond his roles as husband, father, and grandfather, Herb was known for his remarkable handyman skills and his eagerness to help family members or neighbors with home improvement projects. Whether it was electrical work or major structural projects like building decks, Herb had the expertise to tackle any challenge. There was just one catch: if you wanted Herb's help, it had to be done his way. This stubborn streak earned him the ironic nickname "Mr. Flexible." Many tried to suggest alternative approaches, but they ultimately learned to accept that Herb's way was the only way the job would get done.

Above all, Herb will be remembered for his constant reminders of love. Like a broken record, he would regularly ask his family, "Did I tell you today that I love you?" But his love wasn't solely expressed in words - it was demonstrated through his unwavering presence at school events and athletic competitions (even though he didn't particularly care for sports), his willingness to help with any project, and his ability to make every gathering special.

Herbert "Herb" Bischof was a jokester, a talented handyman, and most importantly, a loving husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. His legacy lives on in the countless memories he created and the deep love he shared with all who were fortunate enough to get to know him. Pop Pop will be dearly missed, but his spirit of devotion, creativity, and unconditional love will continue to inspire his family for generations to come.

Herb is survived by his wife Lydia Bischof; his daughters: Jennifer Maguire and Amy McEvoy-Font and her husband David Font; and his grandchildren: Lily Maguire, Kaitlyn McEvoy, Liam Maguire, and Madison Font.

Herb is predeceased by his parents Herbert and Lily Bischof; and his siblings: Dennis Bischof and Diane Cavallo.

Linda Modne Wooldridge, 73, of North Caldwell New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Sunday July 13^th, 2025, surrounded by her family.

Linda was born in 1952 to Jack and Shirley Modne. Linda and her younger sister, Meredith Rinas, grew up in Livingston, NJ, and were always together riding their bikes, watching sitcoms, and swimming at the town pool with their neighbors.  She attended Tufts University in Medford, MA, where she earned a bachelor’s degree in biology and a master’s degree in public health. Linda worked as a community health researcher at Boston City Hospital before joining Digital Equipment Corporation as a technical writer. After pausing her career for more than 20 years to raise her three children, Linda turned to public education advocacy in her local community. She served on the Bernards Township Board of Education for more than 9 years, stepping down in 2020. During her time on the Board, she served terms as President and Vice President, and on every single committee. Linda was also Board liaison to the township Municipal Alliance for many years, where she worked to reduce the harms of substance use in the community.

Linda met her husband of 48 years, Jim Wooldridge, at a square-dancing class. They married in 1977 in Warren, New Jersey and raised their family in New Hampshire, California, and New Jersey. She passed on her determination and excellent taste in 60s rock music to her son, Michael; her patience and love of reading to her son, Jonathan; and her tenacity and scientific curiosity to her daughter, Lisa. Linda was completely devoted to her family, and loved nothing more than doting on her two granddaughters, Scarlett and Ivy.

Linda was determined in everything she did, open-minded and accepting of everyone she met, and unceasingly patient. Her family and friends cherish memories of cooking meals, playing Scrabble, traveling, and going on long walks together.

Linda is survived by her husband, sister, children, and grandchildren; her daughter-in-law Carolyn Davis; her brother-in-law, Dave Rinas; her nephew, Daniel Rinas, and his wife Karolina Rinas. She is predeceased by her parents and by her nephew, Isaac Rinas.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Community Foodbank of New Jersey at cfbnj.org/donate-now

Gasper “Gary” Gerardi passed away peacefully with his loving family and parish priest offering him comfort during his last moments of mortal life. 

The second of two sons born to Mary & Vincent Gerardi, Gasper & his brother Eugene were raised in Bayside Queens where they were pupils at St Robert Bellarmine grammar school. 

In acknowledgement of his academic excellence at St Robert’s, Gasper was invited to attend the prestigious Xavier Catholic high school.  Every week for four years, he traveled by subway to 14th Street in Manhattan from his home in Queens. In addition to his studies, he drummed in the school’s military corps & played the accordion all while thriving on the academic challenge of a strict Jesuit education.  

Like so many others of his generation, it was during these years that Gasper discovered his love of Rock & Roll.  

At the famed Filmore East, he & his friends saw the likes of The Who, Led Zeppelin and The Byrds, and they rocked the house late into the night.  

Upon graduating Xavier in 1969, Gasper decided to attend St John’s University in Queens, following in the footsteps of his brother and other family members. Here, he was inducted into the Delta Sigma Phi fraternity, again choosing to follow his brother who was president of Delta Sigma Phi.  

Continuing to display academic brilliance Gasper obtained his BS in marketing in 1973 and was granted a fellowship, teaching students while earning his master’s degree in business administration. 

Finally ready to seize the day, Gasper entered the fascinating world of perfumery as a marketing assistant at a small fragrance house located in Brooklyn called Felton inc,/fragrances. Thus began a lifelong passion for all things fragrance. Soon, his ambition to become more immersed in the business of fragrance led him to his next milestone, Gasper was recommended for a job in Allendale New Jersey as Vice-president/sales & marketing and was quickly made an offer he wouldn’t refuse. Upon meeting his boss for his first day at Lautier Aromatiques, he quickly began addressing Gasper as “Gary” and that is the name he proceeded to become known by. 

Gary purchased a home in Ramsey, New Jersey, enabling him to work long hours during the day formulating marketing and sales strategies and entertain fragrance clients later in the evening. He sharpened his skills to great success but continued to seek other industry opportunities . During his time at Lautier, Gary & his former wife Diane happily welcomed two children, Steven arrived in 1981 and Kara two years later. 

After stints at other fragrance concerns, the entrepreneurial spirit and belief in his ability motivated him to strike out on his own. With his experience and insight, he understood what a fragrance company should offer: excellence in creativity coupled with excellence in service. 

To this end Gary traversed the country on his own seeking opportunities and orders. 

His genuinely cordial demeanor along with the expertise he offered opened the doors to underserved clients who were grateful to be attended to, this became the start of the International Aromatics success story. 

Assisted by his father Vincent and his then- spouse Diane, Gary used his garage as his production area and secured credit from raw material suppliers to fulfill his orders. 

It became apparent that business was growing and Gary, having had to relocate his production facility to several different towns, prepared to find a permanent home for International Aromatics, He located & purchased the ideal building in the industrial friendly town of Moonachie, New Jersey, Perfumery, production, sales & marketing would grow together under one roof. 

The adage “work hard, play hard” appealed to Gary and he began snow skiing at top mountain resorts, bringing his children along to learn and enjoy the sport. 

September 1990 began as an ordinary day as Gary made his way to another local fragrance house called Novarome to discuss business with a friend and former industry colleague. 

Walking through the hallway to his meeting, Gary’s eye was caught by someone working in the conference room. It was Miss Val, who happened to be the senior fragrance evaluator at Lautier Aromatiques, where they both worked during the years 1977 through 1981. 

Perhaps the air that day had an enticing special scent to it because Gary and Miss Val quickly became a couple. They married in November 1992 at a lavish wedding at The Manor in West Orange. 

As International Aromatics grew, so did their lives together. In 1994 they built a home in Montville and joyfully welcomed their son, Vincent Edgar Gerardi to the world.

Gary also loved to play golf and when in 1995 was accepted as a full golf member of North Jersey Country Club he immediately bought a new set of clubs, gloves & hats to fill his personal locker in the men’s lounge. Gary gladly assumed the post of golf committee chairman and served his term with distinction, 2002-2007,  

Gary was a family man and desired a beach home to enhance their ability to entertain and relax at the Jersey shore. Manasquan was chosen to be near Val’s numerous relatives who had settled there. Gary’s favorite pastime was simply to sit on his deck above the beach watching the ocean in front of him and allowing the world to pass by. With or without company, he could easily spend all day enjoying the view, 

Not content to play golf only when Jersey weather allowed, Gary next purchased a residence in Grey Oaks Country Club, Naples Florida.  

Gary and Val enhanced their lifestyle with memberships to Deal Golf Club, Deal and Manasquan River Golf Club, Brielle. Friends and family were often invited to share dinners, events and holidays with the Gerardi’s at their clubs. 

Gary was helped during his lifetime by different people at different times for different reasons and he was one who paid it forward whenever he could in many ways, large and small. 

He was a good and joyful friend who could get a laugh from a rock because he was always ready with a joke or witty anecdote, happy to have an audience to entertain. 

He had a strong love of reading, and he especially enjoyed reading history.  

He was a Civil War buff but especially immersed himself in the lore and legend of the Kennedy presidency.  Ever thirsty for knowledge, he eagerly devoured biographies, mysteries, histories, and any that raised his curiosity. 

Being a fan of pop-culture, his fictional heroes included James Bond, Indiana Jones, Don Corleone, Star Wars and The Man From Uncle. 

As a self-declared Beatlemaniac, Gary amassed a large collection of Beatle music and memorabilia. He and his wife shared a love of Tom Petty, The Who and Bryan Ferry and joyfully attended many of their concerts, as well as countless other live shows, creating never to be forgotten memories.  

Gary was a man of sophisticated taste. However, should someone crave a sweet treat, he would offer a massive variety of candy, and as much as they could eat! 

He had many good times with friends who stayed loyal to Gary throughout his life.  

He also developed new friendships, and they too became loyal to him. 

Above all, Gary himself nurtured his family, loved his family, and had a smile for them every day, It was his great joy to have his three children want to become part of International Aromatics and he gently ushered each of them into the business that he had founded and will be his enduring legacy. 

And finally, Gary’s fondest hope was realized when his grandson, Louis Petrocelli was born on July 10 2023.  

Gary is survived by his devoted wife of 32 years, Valerie Accad Gerardi, his loving children Steven Gerardi, Vincent Gerardi, Kara Petrocelli, her wife Lana and their son Louis. 

Also surviving Gary are his brother Dr, Eugene Gerardi & his wife Cheryl. Gary’s nieces Catherine Bonanno, Elizabeth Collegio, Christine Farrington, Kristen Shaker his great niece Grace Bonanno.  

Gary’s nephew Edward Shaker and great nephews Cole Bonanno, Charles Collegio and Bear Farrington.  

His sister in law Denise Accad Wilson and her husband Chris Wilson. 

His sister in law Danielle Accad Shaker and her husband Corey Shaker. 

Gary was deeply honored to be called godfather by Catherine, Jennifer, Allison, Elaina & Brandon. 

He will be sadly missed but never forgotten by any who called him family or friend. 

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In lieu of flowers, donations in Gasper's name may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital or Tunnels to Towers.

Paul D. Oesterle, Jr., age 85, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, July 9, 2025.

Paul was born to Celeste and Paul Oesterle on July 18, 1939, in Chicago, Illinois. In 1941, the family moved to Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, where Paul spent his formative years.

He attended St. Vincent Preparatory School in Latrobe, PA. There, he shone both in the classroom and on the field, playing football and earning the title of Most Valuable Player in baseball in his senior year. Paul also sang in the choir and glee club and held the office of class president during his sophomore, junior, and senior years. Thanks to his hard work and academic excellence, he was awarded a full scholarship to St. Vincent College and chose to stay in Latrobe for his college education.

Following graduation Paul enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps Reserves and served honorably. While working full-time, Paul also pursued his MBA at Duquesne University. He earned his degree in June of 1965.

Paul found his greatest joy when he met Mary Ann Joyce, the love of his life, on a blind date during his senior year of college. They were married in June of 1963. Together they built a beautiful life and were blessed with three children.

In 1969, Paul was transferred to California as a Product Manager to lead the launch of a new line of terminals for the manufacturing industry. The family enjoyed four memorable years living on the West Coast before Paul was transferred to New Jersey, where they settled in Packanack Lake in Wayne. There Paul worked for one of the first computer companies and led a team that covered the US, Europe and South America. He later joined Union Camp before moving onto Digital Equipment Corporation and then Hewlett Packard where he completed his professional career.

Paul loved his community deeply and gave generously of his time and talents. While living in Packanack Lake, he served on the Board of Governors and the Board of Directors for a total of 15 years. He was the first President of the Parish Council at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne. He served on the Paterson Diocesan School Board and worked in the finance department at DePaul Catholic High School. He coached numerous Packanack sports teams and served on the board of two local banks. Of all his civic contributions, Paul was especially proud of his role as President of the United Givers Plan of Wayne, which—under his leadership since 1999—supports over thirty local charities.

Paul was the beloved husband of Mary Ann for 62 years; loving father of David Oesterle and wife Erin of Pequannock, Caroline Sulc and husband Michael of Wayne, and Mark Oesterle and wife Liz of Washington, D.C.; adoring grandfather of Shannon, Sarah, Ryan, Julia, Mark, and Patrick; dear brother of Father John Oesterle of Pittsburgh, PA, the late Mary Ellen Oesterle, and Carol Dove of Pittsburgh, PA; and a cherished uncle to numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to honor Paul’s life may consider a gift to United Givers Plan (UGP) of Packanack via Venmo: UGP-1959.

Archpriest Paul Kucynda, age 81, recently of Jackson NJ, former priest of Holy Resurrection Church in Wayne NJ from 1968 through 2019, departed in peace Wednesday, July 9, 2025.

He was born and raised in Charleroi, Pennsylvania to William Kucynda & Elizabeth Huri.  In his youth Paul attended Holy Trinity Orthodox Church in Charleroi (often walking there himself) where Arch-priest Gregory Soroka was a huge influence in his calling to the priesthood.  From a young age Paul was destined to be a priest. A story shared by his sister Charlotte with whom he had a special and close relationship, describes how he, as a child, for fun, fashioned his own blessing kit, complete with brush and bowl for holy water. Regardless the time of year, he would set up Easter baskets to practice blessing them.

Young Paul was fortunate to also have a large extended family nearby.  In addition to his grandparents, he was especially close with his aunts Julia, Ann and Mary, uncles Wasil, Stephen, Walter, Joe and Theodore, along with Pete and Martha Yaros all of whom played important roles is his early life.

A vignette, shared by his son Tim, further illustrating his Dad’s true nature:  Later in his youth, always energetic and hard-working, he walked up and down the steep streets of his hometown delivering newspapers every day. Recently while on vacation together, when Tim asked what he did with the money he was able to save from those years of tedious work. His reply was unexpected but characteristic:  “I bought Bubby and Pap (his mom and Dad) a porch swing.”

Before graduating high school, he achieved the rank of Eagle Scout by researching and explaining Orthodoxy in conjunction with Fr Vladimir Soroka.  Upon graduation  from the Charleroi High School uncles Joe and Theodore helped financially, making it possible for him to further his education. At the age of 18 Paul left Charleroi for New York. He went to NYU (New York University) where he received his bachelor’s degree and then upon graduating went to Saint Vladimir’s Seminary in Yonkers, NY where he received a Masters of Divinity and  was ordained on January 7, 1968.

One of the highlights of his time at seminary (and of his life) was being a member of the octet and touring the country. While on tour Paul met Barbara Kuntzevich at her parish, Holy Trinity Orthodox church in Brooklyn.  Barbara would reminisce of how, while serving water to the seminarians at dinner, Paul kept playfully sliding his glass to the side while she was attempting to pour causing her to stop and re-start. Eventually Barbara simply poured the water onto the table (an appropriate touche’ considering she fenced while in college).  They eventually fell in love and Paul gave her an  engagement ring, September 13, 1965.  They married on June 11, 1967 at Barbara’s parish, Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, and honeymooned in Bermuda.  They enjoyed a devoted marriage of over fifty years before Barbara’s passing on February 16, 2018.

The young priest and his Matushka Barbara were assigned shortly after his ordination to the Holy Resurrection Orthodox Parish in Wayne, NJ. They started out with just 12 families and three acres of land, originally holding church services in the rectory. Over the last 50 years Father Paul and Matushka Barbara ( endearingly known as Motch ) have built a church, served the community, and grown a vital parish family. Always a thriving church community, Holy Resurrection spreads Christ’s message of love and opens it’s doors to all who come in faith.

Father Paul was a man whose deep faith in others—shaped a life of remarkable compassion, humility, and service. He consistently placed the needs of others before his own, living unselfishly and generously in both word and deed. As a pastor for over fifty years, Father Paul embodied the true spirit of ministry—not just from his fervent love of serving, preaching and teaching, but in his daily walk with people. His fatherly and grandfatherly presence brought comfort, guidance, and a sense of belonging to all who knew him.  At some point Father Paul mentioned having an affinity for Polar bears. This innocent declaration snowballed into a decades-long amassing of polar bear figurines lovingly gifted to him by parishioners, friends and family.  They were both the crown jewels and the welcome committee predominantly displayed at the front of his office desk in the church rectory, a rectory in which no matter the time or day, the phone was always answered and the door always open to anyone he could help.

A true shepherd, his legacy lives on in the way his church family warmly embraced the pastor who succeeded him—a testament to the strength of his teachings and the inclusive community he nurtured. Father Paul was also a hands-on servant, never above getting his hands dirty. He took great pride in the yard work around the church, even gaining a new member one day when someone asked the gardener about the church, only to discover they were speaking with Father Paul himself.

Outside of his pastoral duties, he cherished his wife Matushka Barbara and son Tim putting his whole heart into being the best husband and father he could be, always striving for their happiness and well being.

Lastly, he gave the best hugs, loved family trips, apple pie and popcorn - comedy shows, gardening, feeding the birds and post-it notes. In his retirement he particularly loved beach vacations, channeling his inner Eagle Scout he thoughtfully outfitted his own beach cart with everything one might need for a perfect day “down the shore”—organized, prepared, and full of joy, just like the life he led.

Most of all, he loved being a priest because It gave him the chance to love and be loved by yinz.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Holy Resurrection Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be greatly appreciated.

Margearet H. Dzienis, age 96 and a seventy-five-year resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 8, 2025.

The only child of Joseph and Pauline (Petrick) Mraz, Marge was born in Somerville, NJ and raised in Raritan. She attended St. Peter’s High School in New Brunswick, graduating with the Class of 1948.

After high school, Marge began working as a telephone operator—maybe she even connected one of your calls!

Life often brings unexpected connections, and Marge was fortunate to have hers intersect with a handsome gentleman named Lucius Dzienis—better known as “Dennis.” Their paths crossed when Marge was living with her aunt in Piscataway, next door to Dennis’s brother. At first, it wasn’t love at first sight—in fact, they didn’t like each other much at all! But over time, something changed, and the two fell in love. They were married on Saturday, July 1, 1950, at St. Peter’s Roman Catholic Church in New Brunswick.

After a honeymoon on the Canadian side of Niagara Falls, they settled temporarily in a two-family house shared with Dennis’s mother before purchasing their home in Wayne—where Marge would live for the next 75 years. Back then, homes cost just a fraction of what they do today. The deposit on their house was a mere forty dollars—Marge and Dennis each contributed twenty.

Together, Marge and Dennis were blessed with three wonderful children: Patricia, Linda, and Robert. Marge devoted herself to being a nurturing mother and homemaker during their early years. Later, she took a job as a machine operator at General Hose, an auto hose manufacturer in Fairfield, NJ. Dennis worked during the day and got home about half an hour after Marge left for her shift. During that brief window, the kids managed on their own. Marge remained at General Hose for 28 years, retiring in 1985.

Throughout their married life and into retirement, Marge and Dennis loved to travel. They took several senior group trips to Las Vegas, visited Aruba and Disney World, and traveled to Washington, D.C., to see the World War II Memorial—an especially meaningful visit for Dennis, a proud veteran. For their 25th wedding anniversary, their children surprised them with a fully paid trip to Hawaii, which included a one-week cruise and a one-week stay on the Big Island.

Marge also loved visiting New York City, especially for Broadway shows and performances at Radio City Music Hall. She had a passion for gardening—a hobby she shared with Dennis. She took care of the flowers while he tended the vegetables. At home, she enjoyed puzzles, needlepoint, and reading American authors like Danielle Steele, James Patterson, and Nora Roberts.

Marge was a longtime parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne. She attended faithfully until physical limitations made it too difficult. She will be remembered as a warm-hearted, outgoing, and kind person who made friends easily and was always ready to help someone in need.

Marge was the beloved wife of Lucius “Dennis” Dzienis, with whom she shared 57 years of marriage until his passing in 2006. She is survived by her two daughters, Patricia Dzienis and Linda Dzienis, both of Wayne, and her son, Robert Dzienis of Tucson, Arizona.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a memorial contribution in Marge’s name are kindly asked to consider the American Cancer Society P.O. Box 6704 Hagerstown, MD 21741, or a charity of your choice.

Please make sure to indicate that your gift is in memory of Margaret Dzienis.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Robert John Hascup, age 88, of Wayne, NJ. Robert passed away peacefully on Monday, July 7, 2025, while surrounded by the loving care of his family.

Born in Paterson, NJ, Robert was one of three sons of John and Madeline Hascup. At the age of ten, his family settled on Weinmanns Boulevard in Wayne, where he would spend the remainder of his life. He attended Passaic County Technical Institute and graduated with the Class of 1954. After high school, Robert pursued a career in the trades, mastering the art of pipe fitting. He was a proud and longtime member of Pipe Fitters Union Local 274 and spent nearly four decades working for the Frank A. McBride Company in Hawthorne, NJ until his retirement in the early 2000s.

In 1959, Robert enlisted in the New Jersey National Guard, where he served his state and country with pride and distinction for more than forty years. He was also an active member of the New Jersey National Guard NCO Club for many years.

During his youth, Robert’s family maintained a large garden and operated a small poultry business on their Wayne property, raising and selling live chickens until the late 1950s when they transitioned the land into a family retreat, complete with a swimming pool that became a beloved gathering spot.

Robert remained in the family home throughout his life. He was a passionate collector of German beer steins, Tiffany glass and lamps, Hummels, and fine porcelain pottery. Known for his independent spirit, Robert was unafraid to speak his mind and lived life on his own terms. Despite his stubbornness, he was deeply devoted to his family and treasured time spent with loved ones.  He could often be seen poolside, beer in hand, sharing stories and laughter.

Robert is survived by his five nephews: Robert Hascup of Wayne, NJ; Richard Hascup of Coronado, CA; David Hascup of Boonton, NJ; Thomas Hascup of Torrance, CA; and John Hascup of North Caldwell, NJ. He also leaves behind twelve grandnieces and grandnephews who will cherish his memory. He was predeceased by his beloved twin brother, Raymond Hascup, in 1968, and his older brother Harold Hascup.

Robert's life was marked by dedication to his work, loyalty to his country, and a strong love for family. He will be remembered with affection and respect by all who knew him.

Mrs. June Bernice Day, 95, of Oak Ridge, passed away peacefully in her home on Monday, July 7, 2025.

“Junebug,” as she was known by loved ones, was born June 30, 1930 in Paterson, NJ to parents Margie and John O’Brien. Sister to John, Jane, and Joseph, June graduated from Benedictine Academy High School and went on to earn a Bachelor of Science degree in education from Panzer College.

While vacationing in Bermuda one summer, June was swept off her feet by her future husband, Earl E. Day (of Oklahoma). Earl was a diver for the US Navy at the time and was stationed in Bermuda. Their chance meeting kicked off a life-long love between the couple, who were married for over 50 years.

June was a mother to four loving children – Michael, Patricia, Christopher and Timothy – and supported them throughout their numerous moves across the United States. Earl’s Navy career took the family of six to Virginia, Hawaii, and California, where they had many adventures together. Eventually they settled in Wayne, NJ to be closer to June’s family.

While in Wayne, June continued her career as a physical education teacher, which she began while in California. She taught at Schuyler-Colfax Middle School and later Wayne Valley High School for over 30 years. June’s college education and long career were significant achievements at a time when relatively few mothers pursued careers outside the home.

As June’s children grew up, she had more time to explore her hobbies and interests outside of parenting and work. She was known for her knitting and needlework, making countless sweaters for loved ones through the years. She was also an accomplished golfer and tennis player who enjoyed antiquing, and later in life, jigsaw puzzles. Anyone who knew June will remember her extensive collection of pig figurines, keepsakes and other items, which she accumulated over the years.

June’s children and grandchildren will always remember her unmatched Thanksgiving family dinners, where she tirelessly hosted holiday gatherings for 20+ people for more than two decades. Despite their best efforts, no one has been able to replicate her recipes for stuffing or apple pie, which were unparalleled. Although, if you asked Earl, the pie was “all about how you sliced the apples.”

June loved to laugh and enjoy time with friends. Throughout her retirement, she made many close friends with neighbors living in the Fairways Community. She deeply valued these relationships and kept up with regular card games with friends until her passing. Parties at June’s house were always filled with music – preferably Frank Sinatra – shrimp cocktail, and a Manhattan or two for good measure. She maintained her wit and sense of humor until she passed.

June was a devout Catholic and longtime member of St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church in Oak Ridge, NJ. She prayed the rosary regularly and put her faith into practice by supporting causes that were meaningful to her. She spent many years volunteering for Meals on Wheels and also supported the Jefferson Township Rescue Squad with numerous donations over the years.

June is survived by many loving family members, including: her son Michael Day, his wife Lori (Forked River, NJ), and their children Michael Day, Rebecca Day, Brian Day, and Matthew Day; her daughter Patricia Teeling, “favorite son-in-law” Robert (Dumfries, VA), and their daughter Erin Scronce; their son Christopher Day, his wife Marilyn (Lebanon, PA) and their children Lauren Havens and Steven Day; and her loving niece Mary Potosnak (Vernon, NJ), husband Joe and children Jennifer, John and Caitlin. She was predeceased by her husband, Earl, and her son Timonthy, who had three children, Kristina Diglio, Meghan Porter, and Kelsey Belz. June also earned the distinction of “GG” for 12 great-grandchildren.  June was also predeceased by her three siblings John, Jane, and Joseph.

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In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Jefferson Township Rescue Squad, PO Box 300, Lake Hopatcong, NJ 07849.

Wayne J. Potosnak, age 69, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Saturday, July 5, 2025, with his family lovingly present at his side.

The son of Joseph and Adele (Sudol) Potosnak, Wayne was born in Passaic, NJ, where he spent his early years before the family moved to Wayne.

Wayne was a proud graduate of Wayne Hills High School, Class of 1973. He continued his education by earning a bachelor’s degree from William Paterson College and later a master’s degree from Fairleigh Dickinson University.

From a youthful age, Wayne showed great determination. At seventeen, he began working at Preakness Fabrics, helping to put himself through college. He also had a knack for numbers—in fact, at just eighteen, he was already preparing his friends’ income tax returns at the local diner. Naturally, he pursued accounting in college, eventually enjoying a long and rewarding career with Moe Frankel, CPA in Fair Lawn, where he rose to become a partner. Most recently, Wayne operated his own accounting practice.

Wayne’s love story began at a friend’s wedding, where he met a kind and beautiful young woman named Jacqueline “Jackie” Marro. They hit it off instantly. Their first official date was to a Halloween party. Their relationship was just beginning, but unbeknownst to them, Jackie and Wayne’s parents already knew one another from Shop-Rite, where Jackie worked the service desk and had interacted with them several times, a welcome surprise when they first met.

Eventually, Wayne proposed. Jackie remembers how nervous he seemed that night. Throughout dinner, Wayne kept fidgeting and checking his pocket, worried he had dropped the ring off the edge of their balcony table. Fortunately, he hadn’t. He found the ring, proposed, Jackie said “Yes,” and they celebrated with Häagen-Dazs chocolate chip ice cream for dessert. They were married at Wayne Presbyterian Church on Sunday, July 11, 1982. After a reception at the Wayne Manor, they honeymooned in Bermuda.

They began married life in a cozy West Paterson apartment, later purchasing their first home in Elmwood Park. While living there, they were blessed with their three sons—Ryan, David, and Jason. In December of 1992, the family moved to their current home in Wayne—right in the middle of a nor’easter, making for a memorable move-in day.

Outside of work, Wayne had a deeply artistic side. He played guitar and even wrote his own music. He often insisted that the lyrics in Aerosmith’s “Livin’ on the Edge” was stolen from an original song he submitted to a contest. His favorite musical artists included Brian Wilson and the Beach Boys, The Beatles, and Paul McCartney.

Wayne loved time spent at the beach. As a boy, his parents brought him and his two brothers to Seaside Heights, renting a house every summer with family. He continued this beloved tradition with his own family, visiting Belmar even in the winter, walking the boardwalk in Spring Lake with his sons, fishing at Island Beach State Park and Maryland shores, and vacationing in Cape Cod with— Jackie’s twin brother and their families.

As the father of three boys, Wayne got involved as a volunteer Boy Scout leader. His accounting background didn’t go unnoticed for long—Troop 102 quickly recruited him as treasurer, a role he fulfilled for decades. He and his sons camped one weekend a month and joined in countless service projects. Wayne was especially proud that all three of his sons earned the rank of Eagle Scout.

Devoted to his family, Wayne cherished his marriage to Jackie, loved sharing in life’s moments with his sons, and was the proudest “Pa” to his three grandchildren.

Wayne was the beloved husband of Jackie, blessed in marriage for just a few days short of 43 years. He was the loving father of Ryan Potosnak and wife Stacey of Alexandria, VA, David Potosnak and wife Sara of Bloomingdale, and Jason Potosnak and wife Emily of Oakland; proudest grandfather of: Brooks, Ramona, and Griffin; dear brother of Joseph Potosnak and wife Mary of Highland Lakes, NJ and Thomas Potosnak and wife Darrell of Westborough MA; and dear uncle of Jennifer, John, Caitlin, Jessica, Nicholas, Michelle, Amanda, Anthony, William, Matthew, Timothy, and Brandon. Wayne was predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Adele (Sudol) Potosnak.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Wayne’s name are asked to consider:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Patrick A. Mullin, age 75, of Manhattan, NYC, peacefully passed away on Saturday, July 5, 2025, after a long-fought battle with cancer. 

Patrick was born to Gerard and Frances Mullin and graduated from DePaul High School. Patrick went on to obtain his college and master’s degrees from William Paterson University. During his years at WPU, Patrick was active in politics and was the youngest member in his town to run for a Board of Education seat. 

Patrick later went on to pursue his law degree at New York Law School and spent a semester at Harvard University, where he studied international law. A fierce advocate, both inside and outside of the courtroom, Patrick represented the rights of countless people and ensured they received due process under the law. Additionally, of note, Patrick appeared before the Supreme Court of the United States in 1996 where he argued against the mandatory minimum sentencing laws. 

Beyond his love of the law, Patrick also was a black belt in Karate, an avid sports lover (Yankees, Nets, Giants) and enjoyed traveling the world with his wife, Tatiana. Patrick was a member of St. Patrick’s Cathedral in New York City where he was a long-time parishioner. Patrick was also a loving and dedicated father to his only child, Ashley Mullin-Kucharski, who, like her father, pursued a career as a lawyer and ultimately as a jurist in New York City, which Patrick was beyond proud of. 

Patrick was pre-deceased by his parents as well as his sister, Gwen Mullin Veith. Patrick is survived by his wife, Tatiana Mullin (nee Petrov), his ex-wife, Donna Mullin, his daughter, Ashley Mullin-Kucharski (Jarrod Kucharski), his stepson, Stephan Emory (Jenny Emory), his step-grandchildren (Laurence and Kingston Emory), his siblings Timothy Mullin, Gerard Mullin, and Maureen Mullin, as well as his many nieces and nephews and friends who were like family.  

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For those who are unable to attend in person, please click here to view the live-streamed funeral mass for Patrick Mullin.

Cecilia Lena Paolello, age 93 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Saturday, July 5th, 2025. 

Born and raised in Newark, NJ, Cecilia was the third of four children to Giuseppe and Cecilia Zinno. Her early years were shaped by both promise and profound loss. A talented artist, she attended Catholic school before earning her place at The Arts High School of Newark through her artistic abilities, an achievement that Cecilia was very proud of. However, tragedy struck her family when her older brother died in World War II while she was just 14 years old. Only four years later, at 18, Cecilia lost her mother, leaving her to navigate young adulthood without them. 

Rather than be broken by these early losses, Cecilia demonstrated the resilience that would define her character throughout her life. She entered the workforce straight from high school, starting in an entry-level position and steadily climbing through determination and exceptional work ethic. Her integrity and competence earned her promotions typically reserved for college graduates, eventually reaching the role of Personnel Manager. She began her career at Kleen-Stik Products in Newark before joining The B. Manischewitz Company in 1970, where she remained for the final 27 years of her professional life until her retirement in 1997. 

Cecilia's personal life was marked by love found twice. Her first marriage to Frank Tobias lasted ten years before they divorced having grown apart over time. Later she found lasting love with Alphonse Paolello, Jr., whom she married and remained devoted to for the rest of her life. 

Those who knew Cecilia will remember her for her incredible Sunday Italian dinners featuring homemade gravy, meatballs, braciole, and eggplant parmesan. When she wasn’t cooking for others, she could be found enjoying her favorite classic movies, especially “Casablanca” and “Gone with the Wind” her all-time favorite movie. 

Above all, Cecilia will be remembered as a loving and caring soul who doted on everyone around her. She was selfless to a fault, a tireless worker, and endlessly kind. She was a person of unwavering trustworthiness who touched the lives of all who were lucky enough to get to know her. 

Cecilia is survived by her husband Alphonse Paolello, Jr.; her son Frank J. Tobias; her grandchildren: Frank D. Tobias and Sara K. Linder; her great grandson William Linder; her niece Donna Gardinier; her grandnephew and niece Jonathan Curtis and Alison Curtis. 

Cecilia is predeceased by her parents Giuseppe and Cecilia Zinno; her siblings: Frank Zinno, Catherine Pruski, and Joseph R. Zinno; her niece Patricia Curtis. 

Arlene Benzenhoefer, age 91 of Pompton Plains and formerly of Wayne, NJ, died peacefully on Saturday, July 5, 2025.

Arlene grew up in Weehawken, New Jersey and graduated from Weehawken High School, Class of 1951. During her youth, Arlene cherished summers spent with her aunt Olga at Erskine Lakes, New Jersey, where she developed a lifelong love for nature and the simple joys of lake life.

It was at Weehawken High School that Arlene met Emil Benzenhoefer. They dated during their teenage years and were married in 1953, followed by a memorable honeymoon at Niagara Falls, New York. They first settled in Weehawken before buying a home in Wayne during the mid-1950s. Arlene welcomed motherhood and devoted herself to raising their two children; Lynda and Paul. She became an active, beloved member of the community and was deeply involved in local civics, serving as PTO President at James Fallon Elementary School for many years, volunteering at the Foundation for the Handicapped (Found Abilities) and at the local voting polls, as well as serving as a Cub Scout and Brownie and Girl Scout leader. She also served as President of the Preakness-Wayne Woman’s Club for many years, helping to foster service and connection among local women. She loved her community and enjoyed being an integral part of it and she believed in community service. 

Arlene didn’t learn to drive until she was in her 40’s, and this skill expanded her reach quite a bit. She embraced her newfound independence and continued to be a devoted homemaker and community supporter. She was an avid reader, particularly fond of romance novels. She and Emil enjoyed dining out together often, treasuring their time and conversations over shared meals. Berta’s Chateau was among their favorite places to dine.

Together, she and Emil traveled extensively, exploring England, Ireland, Scotland, Paris, and The Bahamas, and they made many cherished memories during their time-share visits to Aruba. Sadly, Emil passed away in 2014 and Arlene subsequently made some lifestyle changes for herself. For the last eleven years, she’s been a resident of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains. She enjoyed the many social clubs and activities available to her there, and she lovingly embraced her community there as well. Arlene will be remembered for her dedication to her family and community, her love of travel and learning, and her commitment to living life fully. She leaves behind a legacy of kindness and love that will continue to inspire all who knew and loved her.

Arlene is survived by her daughter Lynda Benzenhoefer and her partner Bernadette Fiore of Lyndhurst, and Paul Benzenhoefer and his wife Denise of Wayne, a grandson; Matthew Benzenhoefer and his wife Lisa of Riverdale, her cousin; Joyce and Vinny Boland of Ringwood, Lisa DeHope Wagner an almost second daughter to Arlene and Emil, Nicie Collins formerly of Wayne a cherished forever sister-friend,  and dear friend Maria Boscarino.

For anyone interested in making a donation in honor of Arlene, please make a check to:

Cedar Crest Scholarship Fund

1 Cedar Crest Village Drive

Pompton Plains, NJ 07444

Or contact Christine Pretino (Cedar Crest Philanthropy Coordinator) at 973-831-3517.

Mary Brophy, age 72, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 30, 2025.

Born on June 10, 1953, Mary was one of eight children of Robert and Leona Mulvihill. She grew up in Clifton and later Wayne, New Jersey, and graduated from DePaul Catholic High School, where she excelled at basketball and was honored as “Most Athletic” in her graduating class.

On December 14, 1974, Mary married her loving husband, Kevin Brophy, whom she met while vacationing in Manasquan. Together, they began their life in Clifton, where they were blessed with three sons: Daniel, Thomas, and Matthew. They later settled in Wayne before coming full circle to retire in Manasquan.

Mary was outgoing, kind, and selfless, always putting the needs of others before her own. She found the perfect outlet for her boundless compassion in a nursing career, working at various medical facilities over the years and helping countless individuals through both routine and serious medical challenges.

Mary’s love of athletics fit perfectly in a household full of boys. She loved spending time with her sons, supporting them in their sports, helping them practice, and cheering them on from the sidelines. She taught them to see every setback as another opportunity, never to blame others or feel sorry for themselves. A talented athlete herself, she played softball well into adulthood, was often seen shooting hoops, and later took up and excelled at pickleball. She also enjoyed the beach, gardening, cooking, crossword puzzles, and watching game shows—especially Jeopardy!

Mary was a dear friend to many and a true social butterfly, making friends from all walks of life and keeping in touch through countless phone calls. She offered wise counsel, hosted many gatherings, and was always ready for good conversation, priding herself on being able to talk to anyone about anything. Her home was always filled with warmth and conversation, with an open door and an open heart for anyone who needed a friend.

Determined and resilient, Mary was known for her perseverance in every aspect of life—at work, at home, and in her personal pursuits. She approached any problem with positivity, a solution-oriented mindset, and a smile on her face.

Above all, Mary was devoted to her family. She loved her parents and siblings deeply and treasured her role as grandmother to her five grandchildren. She will be remembered as a wonderful sister, mother, grandmother, and friend. Gone too soon, she leaves behind a garden of beautiful memories, watered by a million tears, and will never be forgotten by those who knew her.

Mary was predeceased by her husband, Kevin Brophy, in 2021; her mother, Leona Mulvihill, in 2009; her father, Robert Mulvihill, in 2016; her sister, Diane Wilson, in 2019; and her brother, Joseph Mulvihill, in 2021. She is survived by her three children: Daniel and his wife Nancy Brophy; Thomas and his wife Kelly Brophy; and Matthew Brophy; her five grandchildren: Lia, Jack, Grace, Alexandra, and Kevin Brophy; her sisters Ellen (and her husband Tim Monahan), Christine (and her husband Dave Jablonski), Laura Iurato and brother-in-law Peter Wilson; and her brothers Dr. Robert Mulvihill (and his wife Rosanne) and Stephen Mulvihill (and his wife Susan).

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Thomas Francis Vassallo, age 65, of North Haledon, NJ, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, June 28, 2025.

Born in Paterson and raised in Wayne, NJ, Tom was one of two sons of the late Rudy and Joan Vassallo. He graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1977, where he was widely recognized for his exceptional artistic talent, particularly in sketching and painting.  This was a skill Tom continued to nurture and practice throughout his life.

Following high school, Tom attended Stockton University in Galloway, NJ. After a few years, he chose to step away from his studies to join his father in the family’s sign painting business. After his father's passing in 1985, Tom embarked on a long and dedicated career as an Inventory Control Clerk with Anritsu, a medical equipment manufacturing company, where he worked for several decades before his recent retirement.

A man of quiet passions, Tom found joy and community through bowling.  Bowling was a sport he cherished deeply. At his peak, he bowled three to four times a week on his own and in leagues throughout Northern New Jersey, including venues in Ramsey, Mahwah, and the T-Bowl in Wayne. Although he never achieved a perfect 300 game, he came heartbreakingly close, once falling short in the final frame. Tom was also an avid boxing enthusiast and a devoted music lover, with a deep appreciation for a wide variety music including artists like Lou Reed and Iggy Pop.  He was also quite proud of his extensive and treasured collection of vinyl records.

 Though reserved and private by nature, Tom found strength and comfort in his Christian faith. He created lifelong bonds with a close-knit group of dear friends which he fondly referred to as his “Group of Sixteen Friends” with whom he shared decades of memories, laughter, and companionship.

Tom will be remembered for his gentle spirit, artistic soul, and the quiet yet meaningful ways he touched the lives of those around him. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and everyone that knew him.

Tom is survived by his brother, Mark Vassallo of Spring Green, WI; his nieces, Olivia Vassallo of Middleton, WI, and Megan Zink and her husband Eric of Stoughton, WI; his nephews, Tommy and Dylan Vassallo, both of Spring Green, WI; and three grandnieces and nephews: Noah, Milo, and Ethan. He was predeceased by his beloved parents, Rudy and Joan Vassallo.

Those wishing to make a memorial contribution in Tom’s name are kindly asked to consider a donation in his name to the ASPCA.

Marie J. Cappiello, age 87, of Asbury Park, NJ, passed away peacefully on June 28, 2025, surrounded by the love of her family.

Born in Neptune, NJ, and raised in nearby Asbury Park, Marie was one of two children born to Edgardo and Rose Bertini. She was a proud graduate of Asbury Park High School, Class of 1955. In 1957, she married the love of her life, Frank Cappiello. Together, they settled in Bloomfield, NJ, where they raised their four children: Frank, Christina, Matthew, and Patricia.

Marie dedicated many years to being a devoted homemaker, creating a warm and loving home for her growing family. Following her divorce after eighteen years of marriage, Marie reentered the workforce and joined Kings Supermarket in Verona, NJ, where she became a familiar and cherished face in the deli department for over twenty-five years until her retirement.

Throughout her life, Marie called several New Jersey towns home - including Montclair, Cedar Grove, and Bradley Beach, where she lovingly cared for her aging mother. After her mother’s passing, Marie returned to her beloved hometown of Asbury Park.

Marie had a gift for making people feel welcome and cared for. An exceptional cook and baker, she was known and adored for her pasta, London broil, eggplant dishes, and her signature cupcakes. Her home was often the heart of family celebrations - holiday gatherings, birthday parties, and spirited Sunday football games - where her warmth and hospitality brought joy to all.

Her deepest devotion was to her family, especially her grandchildren, whom she cherished beyond measure. A woman of dedicated faith, Marie never missed her daily prayers and remained closely tied to her Catholic beliefs throughout her life. She found simple pleasures in crossword puzzles and her favorite TV shows, Wheel of Fortune and Say Yes to the Dress.

Marie is survived by her loving children: Christina Cappiello of Wayne, NJ; Matthew Cappiello of Overland Park, KS; Patricia Cappiello of Morristown, NJ; and Frank Cappiello of Florida. She is also survived by her brother, Jack Bertini of Oakhurst, NJ; her beloved grandchildren: Amanda Cappiello, Frankie Simpson, and Taylor Cappiello; and a dear family friend, Debbie Tichko.

Marie will be remembered for her generous spirit, unwavering love, and the enduring legacy of family and faith she leaves behind.

Douglas Bean McGilvray, of Wayne, New Jersey passed away on Saturday, June 28, 2025 at home surrounded by close friends and family. 

Born to Elizabeth and Dugald McGilvray in 1946, he was a proud graduate of Montclair High School, class of 1964. His love of music was a lifelong journey that took him from playing a variety of instruments to becoming an avid decades long Drum Corps supporter. At MHS he sang in Madrigals, played in the orchestra and band (clarinet) and was a member of the soccer and track teams. In his younger years he loved spending time in the woods and swimming in the lake at the family’s summer house. 

This sparked his lifelong love of trees. He took a wild tract of land in western Pennsylvania, planting groves of trees that he grew from seed and carving lush meadows out of wild brush. His soft spot for all things living showed as the deer would gather at the sound of this truck pulling up the drive waiting for the cracked corn he would purchase for them at the local feed store.

An Eagle Scout with Troop 2 Bloomfield, Doug led the troop through major changes within the unit. Working for eight summers at Fire Place Lodge, a girls’ camp in East Hampton, NY, found him forging lifelong friends and an abundance of memories. 

A Chemical Engineering major at the University of Maine gave him the education needed to pursue a career with the insurance industry, traveling around the world.  Working alongside the underwriters, he inspected a variety of facilities from mines to atomic plants providing feedback in safety and fire protection. In retirement, he volunteered as an advisor to applicants regarding benefits of the various programs of the Engineering Department at U. Maine. He started his career at American Factory Insurance out of the Pittsburgh office. 

Taking a position at AFIA moved him back to New Jersey. Through a series of mergers and acquisitions, he lived a second life around the world both at work and play. Doug retired from Zurich Insurance, continuing to travel the globe many times landing on his lanai on Maui with his wife, Lorraine, finding time for a round of golf.

As a volunteer fireman with the Lyndora Volunteer Fire Company in Butler Pa., it was the beginning of an over 50-year commitment to protecting his community. Moving to Wayne, NJ in 1977, he joined Fire Company #2 beginning a long-distinguished history. He served as President and Secretary and was responsible for the filling of air tanks for the 5 fire stations in Wayne. His engineering background was a natural fit for the team charged with building and inspecting new fire trucks for delivery. An exacting man, the manufacturers soon learned to follow all the agreed upon plans. 

In 1998, he rejoined the Boy Scouts, this time with Troop 13 Montclair to assist his nephew’s troop’s quest to go to Philmont. A bucket list item for Doug, he readily agreed to serve as assistant scoutmaster for the trek. He continued to attend additional Philmont treks, Floodwood High adventure canoe treks, trips to England with the troop, and overnights. He also served the council as a merit badge counselor and as a mentor to many Eagle candidates for the next 27 years. Since Camp Glen Grey changed to an independent camp, Doug served as a campmaster and was inducted into the Old Guard of Glen Grey.

After being introduced to Drum Corp in high school by his band director, he became an ardent admirer and loved nothing better than spending a summer evening watching the intricate choreography and listening to the blend of horns from some of the most talented young people in the country. His ability to remember the music played year after year and special qualities of each piece, be it time or key changes, by his favorite corps was amazing.  He traveled all over the country “catching a show” or attending the 3-day championships each August. Life would have been perfect if he had been able to travel by train to each of the shows.

Doug was a terrific person in so many ways. If you were a friend, you were a friend for life. If you were a neighbor, you knew you could call on him for help and it would be cheerfully given.

He was a son that his parents could depend on especially in their golden years. The best brother anyone could ask for, he had the distinction of being born in the middle of two sisters and was a strong support for his sisters and brothers-in laws. He was a terrific uncle who took a special interest in each of his 3 nieces, 5 nephews and 15 great nieces and nephews. Doug began researching the family tree and soon had 17 pages spanning over 17 feet when opened.

He leaves behind his wife of 37 years, M. Lorraine, his sisters Jean Watson Esselink of New Britain, Ct. and Liz Hemminger of Montclair, N.J., brothers-in-law-Paul Hemminger, Michael Machette of Wharton, N.J. and sisters-in-law Denny Pizarro and Pat Sanford of Summerfield, Fl. and their families.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to P.O.L. Fire company #2, P.O. Box#1, Wayne, N.J. 07470.

Robert Edward Corcoran was suddenly called home by his beloved Lord on June 27, 2025.

He was born on April 20,1948 in Paterson, NJ, but was raised in Wayne NJ where he lived most of his life.

Bob was predeceased by his loving parents James M. Corcoran and Kathryn( Powers) of Wayne NJ. He is survived by his brothers James Corcoran and his wife Jean ( Wilson) of Sellersville, PA and brother Charles Corcoran and wife Wanda (Petrosewitz) of Olean, NY, nephew Mark Corcoran and Kate( Kelley), niece Lisa {Corcoran}Wichert and husband Kent Wichert and 15 great nieces and nephews.

He is also survived by his beloved partner of 38 Years Erik Linotte from the Netherlands, who currently resides in their residence in Wayne NJ.

Bob received his degree in liberal arts and history from Christian Brothers University Memphis TN. After Graduation Bob traveled the world extensively mainly Asia where he taught English and history in Hong Kong where he lived for several years. After returning to the USA he lived for several years in Hawaii and California before returning to New Jersey where he managed his parents ‘Jay hardware store in Mountain view.

Erik and Robert met each other 38 years ago in Amsterdam during one of his travels and they had that instant connection, they lived a simple life but filled with love and respect for one another.

Bob was a man of faith, he was a true believer and if you would ask him what his faith was he would tell you’ he is following the Gospel of Jesus’, because of his strong faith his partner and  family know that Bob was taken by his beloved Lord into His Kingdom with wide open arms where he is at a good place surrounded by his beloved cats and dogs that have passed over the years.

Bob loved to be outside and work in his garden which he was so proud of, he created a piece of heaven for himself and Erik. He also loved his animals, no animal too big or small he took care of them with great care and love. As a profound history buff he could tell you many interesting stories and people loved his stories about history and his travels, his partner Erik had to listen to many history lessons mostly very early in the morning .There are so many things that can be said about Robert but he will always be remembered by his personality, his kindness and beautiful heart, he will be missed by those who knew him but he will watch over us forever.

In Robert’s honor, please make a donation to your local animal shelter, or the Sid Roth ministries.

Johanna Pettrizzie, age 85, of Wayne passed peacefully on Friday, June 27th, 2025.

Johanna was born to John and Antoinette (nee Romano) Pettrizzie, she was one of six children in her family. Sadly, Johanna’s father passed away at a young age, and her older sister, Madeline, helped to raise her siblings. Johanna went on to graduate from Emerson High School in Union City, NJ, with the class off 1958, where she had also been a majorette with the marching band! After high school, she began working as a receptionist/office manager for Foremost Corrugated in Little Ferry. She enjoyed a lengthy career before retiring in '95. She had lived in N. Arlington, Union City, and Ridgefield before moving to Wayne in 1995.

Johanna was of fan of the “Big Apple” and enjoyed all that New York City had to offer, especially the night life. She would frequently bring her niece and nephews to see the Christmas Show at Radio City Music Hall starring the Rockettes and Parade of the Wooden Soldiers during the winter holidays, and Broadway shows like Peter Pan, Annie, etc. She took in live concerts, seeing Elton John, John Denver, and so many more. She frequented “The Barge Club” on the Hackensack River in Carlstadt, The Bicycle Club in Fort Lee, and the Meadowbrook in Cedar Grove. She had a lot of fun through the years.

Johanna loved her independence, enjoyed bike riding and was an animal lover. Her poodles, first Max then Buster were like children to her and she would spoil them to no end. After they left her for doggie heaven she would always enthusiastically volunteer to "babysit" for her niece's Yorkshire terrior, Rosie. Johanna shared her love unconditionally. In addition to her love of dogs Johanna would always make sure the local squirrels in her backyard had their daily snacks of peanuts that she fed them on the deck. She was also an avid reader and enjoyed diving into a good novel. She has a book collection like no other. She had also enjoyed some world travel, visiting Rome, Italy, and Hawaii.

Johanna remained extremely close with her siblings Madeline and John. The three of them lived together throughout their lifetimes. Her family, and the love they all shared, was essential to her. She is the last of her siblings to have passed away after her sister Madeline died in 2001, her sisters Agnes Spada and Marie Manzini in 2013, her brother John in 2014, and her sister Frances Ianuale in 2020.

Johanna is survived by her niece, Marissa Sabia and her husband Carmine, three nephews; Steve Ianuale, Michael Ianuale and his wife Laura, and Robert Spada, her great-nieces and great-nephews; Nicole, Francesca, Mark and Cory, and a large extended family. They will all miss her dearly.

Deborah (Debbie) Lynn Cassidy, 71, of Wayne, NJ, passed away peacefully on June 27, 2025.

Born on May 20, 1954, in Ridgewood, NJ, Debbie dedicated her life to raising her five children. She is survived by her loving children: Jessica Vander Wall and her husband Todd Vander Wall; Mark D. Cassidy and his wife Wendy Cassidy; Kristin Figueroa and her husband Jesse Figueroa; Leanne Lewis and her husband Tom Lewis; and her daughter Karen Cassidy.

She also leaves behind six cherished grandchildren: Matthew, Hunter, Liam, Quinn, Peyton, and Olivia, as well as her beloved nieces and nephew. Debbie was a devoted mother, and her impact extended beyond her own children to their friends and her beloved nieces.  Debbie is also survived by her brother, Glenn Sisco, and Annette Peshia. Debbie was previously married to Mark Dennis Cassidy of Ridgewood, NJ.

In her leisure time, Debbie enjoyed reading, listening to Rock-n-Roll music, and relaxing in the sun, especially at the beach. Some of her most treasured memories were made in Spring Lake, NJ, where she enjoyed bike riding with her children, fishing, and crabbing. A true lover of lobster and all things seafood, she also loved dining out and was a great cook herself. Debbie was widely known for her infectious and boisterous laugh.

Debbie's life was enriched by the close friendships she found at Summerhill, where she appreciated their companionship and daily visits. She especially looked forward to playing Bingo with her friends there.

Matthew Walton, 26, of Wayne, NJ, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, June 25, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of quiet strength, loyalty, and a deep love for those around him.

Born and raised in Wayne, Matthew graduated with the Wayne Valley High School Class of 2017. A lifelong sports fan, Matthew especially loved the New York Jets, proudly enjoying the season tickets that his father held. They made countless memories at MetLife Stadium. One of the highlights of his young life was attending the 2015 Super Bowl through the Make-A-Wish Foundation. This included four fun-packet days with VIP treatment for him and his family, with great seats to the big game! It was a dream come true for Matthew.

Matthew had a passion for fashion and collected sneakers with a discerning eye, appreciating the unique designs and stories behind each pair. He loved music and was a really good dancer, often surprising friends with his smooth moves, even though he was otherwise an introverted and quiet soul. Matthew was especially proud of his Italian heritage, and he never missed an opportunity to share that fact.

A lover of video games, it’s anyone’s guess how many hours he spent on his Xbox, but it was a lot. He found comfort and relaxation in the time he spent gaming. For the past three years, he shared a loving relationship with his girlfriend Nicole. They were introduced by a mutual acquaintance, and together they found happiness in simple moments—taking walks around Packanack Lake and dining at Portobello restaurant. Of course, Matthew also liked to argue with her, and Nicole would give anything today to argue with him just one more time. She will miss him dearly.

Matthew battled with Crohn’s disease for many years, the reason he was granted his wish by Make-A-Wish Foundation. Despite those challenges, he faced each day with courage and resilience, never allowing his illness to define his spirit. His love, kindness, and quiet presence will be remembered by his family, friends, and all who knew him. Matthew will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered for the joy he brought to others, his dedication to the things he loved, and the quiet but strong way he walked through the world.

Matthew is survived by his mother, Jackie Valorani and her husband Anthony of Wayne, his brother Eddie Walton of Woodland Park, his grandmother; Sue Walton of N. Carolina, and his girlfriend; Nicole Lucero, as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, and heartbroken friends. He was predeceased by his father; Mike Walton in 2021.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Matthew’s memory to the Crohn’s & Colitis Foundation or the Make-A-Wish Foundation, organizations that made a meaningful difference in his life. www.wish.org 

Joseph A. Stinziano, age 88, a man whose bright colored outfits and even brighter spirit could light up any room, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, June 25, 2025, in Oak Park, Illinois. Joe had resided in Wayne, NJ, for much of his life before moving briefly to Wanaque, NJ, and then to Oak Park in 2017.

Born in Jersey City, NJ, in 1937, Joe graduated from Ferris High School, where he discovered his passion for music and maybe even a little mischief. Joe played drums for more than ten years with “The Tunesters,” touring across the country and holding a three-year residency in Las Vegas during the late 1950s and early 1960s. On one particular occasion, he returned home late at night from a lengthy tour and was unable to get into his parent’s home, so he slept on the porch. In the morning, his mother discovered him there and didn’t recognize him. Thinking he was vagrant, she proceeded to yell and call the police! One of his greatest musical influences was Frank Sinatra, and Joe remained a loyal fan of his music “Saturdays with Sinatra” throughout the house for many years. 

After retiring from the music scene, Joe became a general contractor and painter in the Jersey City area before making a bold move in mid-life: he went to college, eventually earning his Master’s Degree in Teaching. Joe began teaching special education at Passaic County Vo-Tech High School in the 1970’s, where he created a “life skills” curriculum for deaf students that continues to be used today, a legacy that made him deeply proud. Joe loved being a teacher, and his students benefited from the same warmth, humor, and a firm belief that anything was possible. He retired from teaching in 2005.

It was at Passaic County Vo-Tech High School that Joe met the love of his life, Ellen. He used a corny pickup line to convince her to join him for lunch, and so began their romance. It only took thirteen years of courtship before Joe asked Ellen to marry him, and they tied the knot on July 27, 2003, followed by a honeymoon aboard a Caribbean cruise. They enjoyed cruising so much that they’ve embarked on more than one hundred cruises to ports all around the world. This year they’ve already enjoyed three cruises and had three more booked in the coming months. Joe would often pack his suitcase about thirty minutes before leaving the house, filling it with his ‘cruise clothes’ which included the most outlandish outfits of crazy shirts, patterned pants, and bright colored belts. His attire only served to enhance his already-exuberant persona.

Joe could certainly be described as a big dreamer, always believing in the impossible. His purpose was simple; to make people smile. He brought a special energy, fun, and chaos wherever he went, and there was never a dull moment when Joe was around. In order to provide a great environment for all the family fun, Joe and his sons built a huge party room, where Joe hosted and held court over many memorable parties.  He spent weeks planning the menu and choosing the perfect décor, and he cooked everything to perfection. Joe truly loved his family, believing that time spent with loved ones was the most important gift in life. He is a testament to living boldly, loving deeply, and finding joy in everyday moments. His family and friends will forever remember the way he could turn an ordinary day into something special, simply by showing up as himself.

He was also a “master putzer” who loved to tinker and fix things around the house—though finishing projects was never as important to him as the joy of starting them. Most of his projects would reach a point of ‘nearly complete,’ and that’s where they would remain. He’s left little reminders of his handiwork all over the place.

He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by his wife Ellen of Oak Park, IL., his two sons; Joseph Stinziano and his wife Laura of Wayne, Mark Stinziano and his wife Kelly of Hewitt, his daughter Julie Cantrell and her husband Mike of Missouri, one brother; Dennis Stinziano and his wife Patricia of Hollywood, FL, his cherished grandchildren who all called him Pop-Pop: Joseph, Jaclyn, Donna, Donald, Philip, and Phylicia Stinziano and Ferris Cantrel, many friends, former students, and all those whose lives he touched with his humor and kindness. Joe was predeceased by his parents: John and Rose Stinziano; his five beloved sisters and two dear brothers: Theresa Sucato, Anna Kachnowski, Jeanette Quarterbosh, Rosemary Falcone,  Josephine Lombardi, Dominick and John Stinziano; and his former wives Patricia Brunning and Donna Cortese.  

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In lieu of flowers, donations would be greatly appreciated to Wounded Warriors or to The Maria Costanzo DeBenedetto Memorial Foundation (find Foundation on PayPal, or by check mailed to MCDM Foundation, 19 Point Road, Wayne, NJ  07470.

Mark William Rudiger, age 65, of Hackettstown, NJ, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Tuesday, June 24, 2025.

Born in Passaic, Mark spent his early years in East Rutherford before his family settled in Wayne, NJ, where he was raised and shaped by the close bonds of his large family as one of six children to Harry and Barbara Rudiger. He graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1977, where he was a proud member of the varsity football team and also enjoyed playing hockey and competitive skiing during his youth.

After high school, Mark began his professional journey with the Wanaque Reservoir. He later joined Interstate Maintenance in Boonton, NJ, where he spent nearly two decades mastering the trade of Building Engineering. His career continued with Newmark Law Offices in West Orange, where he worked as a Building Engineer for over twenty years until his passing—a testament to his strong work ethic and dedication.

In the early 1980s, Mark married Kathleen Brown, and together they raised their two children, Cynthia and William. Through the years, the couple grew apart and their marriage eventually ended.

While working at Interstate Maintenance, Mark met Jamileth Arrieta—a connection that would change his life. After a first date at the beach in Long Branch, the two quickly formed a deep bond. Their love grew, and on October 5, 2006, they were married. The couple first lived in Elizabeth before settling in Hackettstown, where they built a home filled with warmth, laughter, and love.

Mark had a passion for cooking and grilling, often hosting lively family gatherings. He and Jamileth shared a love for gardening and could often be found working side by side in their yard, meticulously tending to their flower beds and vegetable garden. Mark was a skilled handyman who took pride in his home, always keeping it in immaculate condition. Together, he and Jamileth traveled to places like Cancun, Punta Cana, and Costa Rica.  They also cruised together on several occasions to many of the exotic islands in the Caribbean, creating memories that became cherished chapters of their life together.

Above all else, Mark’s greatest devotion was to his family. He found true joy in providing for them and spending time with those he loved most. His Christian faith was also a central part of his life. Mark accepted Jesus in 1980 and remained a devoted student of the Bible, eventually inspiring his parents to draw closer to the Lord as well.

Known for his easygoing nature, infectious humor, and generous spirit, Mark had a gift for making those around him smile. He never missed an opportunity to share a joke or lighten the mood. He was a loving son, a devoted father, a supportive brother, and a cherished grandfather. Most of all, he was a faithful and loving husband who treasured more than two decades of marriage to his beloved Jamileth.

Mark is survived by his wife, Jamileth Rudiger (née Arrieta) of Hackettstown, NJ; his children, William Rudiger and his wife Lauren, and Cynthia Andrews, all of Bradenton, FL; his grandchildren, McKenna, Kaleb, Jaxon, Ashton, and Jordon; his siblings, Lorraine Marquez and her husband Marrio of Ronda, NC; Carol Rudiger of Montville, NJ; Karen Rudiger of Fort Lee, NJ; Karl Rudiger and his wife Susanne of Charleston, SC; and David Rudiger and his wife Debby of Clemmons, NC; as well as seven nieces and nephews and 6 grand nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by both his parents, Harry and Barbara Rudiger, within the last thirteen months.

Mark’s sudden departure leaves a deep void in the lives of all who knew and loved him. He will be remembered for his kind heart, unwavering faith, and the legacy of love and laughter he leaves behind.

Roy John Miller, 78, of Hackensack, NJ, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 23, 2025, surrounded by the love and care of his family.

Born in the Bronx, NY, Roy was raised in Teaneck, NJ, the beloved son of Royale and Cecelia Miller, and the youngest of their three children. He began his education at the Essie Olive Abeel School in Hackensack before attending Valley Forge Military Academy in Wayne, Pennsylvania, where he graduated with the Class of 1965. Shortly thereafter, Roy proudly enlisted in the United States Marine Corps, answering the call to serve his country.

Tragically, before he could deploy overseas, Roy was involved in a devastating car accident during a brief period of leave. Ejected from the vehicle due to his position in the backseat, he was the sole survivor among his group of friends. The accident brought a premature end to his military service, and he spent a lengthy recovery period at a hospital in Petersburg, Virginia.

Following his recovery, Roy began a successful career in the automotive industry, working as a service manager for a Mercedes-Benz dealership in Englewood, NJ, and later at other locations. He eventually transitioned into sales at George Glove, Inc. in Midland Park, NJ, where he rose to the position of Vice President of Sales.

It was during his time at the Mercedes dealership that Roy met Joan Foschini, a young woman who brought her car in for service and was immediately drawn to his charm. She asked him to dinner, and the two quickly formed a deep connection. They married in 1980 and made their home in Hackensack in a condo owned by Joan’s family. Though their marriage lasted nearly twenty years before they eventually divorced, Roy and Joan remained close companions and caring friends throughout their lives.

After the divorce, Roy returned to the home where he was raised in Teaneck to care for his aging mother. Following her passing in 2004, he moved back to Hackensack, where he remained.

Roy was a man of quiet strength, deep intelligence, and thoughtful presence. He loved nothing more than spending time by the beach, drink in hand, basking in the sun and sea breeze. A connoisseur of good food and drink, he was a regular at the Miller Ale House in Paramus, always enjoying a scotch on the rocks and a hearty steak. An avid Mets fan and a devoted viewer of Jeopardy!, Roy was both intellectually curious and deeply grounded.

Above all, Roy was a kind and loyal soul, devoted to his family and especially close to his sister Patricia, with whom he spoke daily. His warmth, wisdom, and gentle spirit will be dearly missed by all who knew and loved him.

He is survived by his former wife and dear friend, Joan Foschini of Glen Rock, NJ; his loving sister, Patricia Deraney of Wayne, NJ; his niece, Danielle Palumbo of Oakland; and his nephews: Rod Deraney of Newtown, CT, Ed Deraney of Wayne, NJ, Robert Nardi of Virginia, and Christopher Nardi of Missouri, and many great nieces and great nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, Royale and Cecelia Miller, and his sister, Flora Nardi.

Joseph Stern, Jr., of Hardyston, passed away on June 20, 2025, at United Methodist Communities Bristol Glen, in Newton. 

Joe grew up in the Wanaque, Pompton Lakes area and spent most of his life there.  During his high school years in Pompton Lakes Joe went into a work program and started working at the Riverdale Rambler Auto Dealership. He started out in the Parts Department and over a period of a few years, he purchased the property and turned it into an RV center called VanCon, that he ran for many years.  

Joe moved to Sussex County 25 years ago, spending 20 years in Oakridge, and the last 5 years in Hardyston, in Crystal Springs.  

One of Joe’s favorite past times was boating, and he did many enjoyable trips up and down the East Coast, going to Florida and the Carolinas.  

Joe will be deeply missed by his brother Albert of Hardyston, his Aunt Effie Stern of Wayne, and many nieces, nephews, and friends. 

Richard W. Falato, age 79, of Wayne and Marco Island, FL went to his eternal rest on Wednesday, June 18, 2025, with the comfort of his wife by his side.

He was born in Paterson to John and Ruth Falato and raised at 849 Main Street in Paterson New Jersey, graduating from Central High School with the Class of 1964.  He continued his education at the Newark School of Fine and Industrial Arts where he studied Advertising Design with the Class of 1967.

Rich’s remarkable career began humbly, plucking eyes out of potatoes at the farmers’ market on Railway Avenue in Paterson. His first job in his field was with the American Cyanamid Corporation in Wayne working in the art department. Rich went on to serve as Art Director for the Ridgewood News. In 1972 he moved his young family to Sherman Oaks, California, where he joined the printing department at Price Waterhouse, a job his brother in law secured for him until he could find something of his own in a more creative vain. Two years later, they returned to New Jersey, where Rich worked for Westshore Publishing in Bogota before joining Curtin and Kissane in New York City.

There, he designed brochures, game tickets and other promotional materials. This led him to establish his own firm, Joshua Productions in Riverdale, New Jersey. Changes in the graphics business led him to establish a home-based company on Oakwood Drive in Wayne. He specialized in advertising, product photography, brochures, and magazine ad placement. Ready for a change, and ever adaptable, Rich transitioned into a scientific role at Schering-Plough—later Merck—where he spent the last seven years of his work life as a Pharmaceutical Lab Process Specialist. Rich officially retired in 2015.

Rich was always on the move, embracing an active lifestyle with his trademark enthusiasm and good humor. He loved playing golf at the Packanack Golf Club, especially with the Wednesday Seniors, even if his skills on the course were more often the source of friendly teasing than trophies. What he lacked in golfing precision, he made up for with laughter and camaraderie. Rich also enjoyed the fast-paced game of pickleball and was a regular at the gym, where he was known for his dedication to staying fit. One of his favorite pastimes in Florida, was playing bocce ball, a sport that brought him many dear friends. 

Rich met the love of his life, Patricia “Pat” Dowd, at a Central High School football game in Paterson—a serendipitous moment that marked the beginning of a beautiful lifelong partnership. Their relationship deepened over time, and Rich proposed to Pat while they sat together in a car near William Paterson University, then known by its earlier name. They were married on June 22, 1968, at St. Mary’s Church on Union Avenue in Paterson, and celebrated their union with a joyful reception at the Wayne Manor. Their honeymoon to the sun-soaked shores of Saint Thomas and Puerto Rico marked the start of a marriage rooted in love, respect, and shared values. This union produced two children, a source of tremendous pride to Rich. Years as a coach, rooter, advice-giver, all rolls played by him, thanks to two children born nine years apart – to the day. These two children brought him tremendous joy by making him a grandfather of six. This new generation kept him on the go with ball games, graduations, building projects, bedtime stories, and home-cooked meals. Over 57 years of marriage, Rich and Pat built a life full of meaning, and Pat remained faithfully by Rich’s side, a constant presence of love and strength, at the time of his passing.

Rich was the loving husband of 57 years to Patricia “Pat” Falato; devoted father of Joshua Falato of Hoboken, Bree Falato and her husband Terry Kelly of Hoboken; cherished grandfather of Samantha Falato, Dean Falato, and Vincent Falato all of Wayne; Shane Kelly, Damon Kelly, and Sophie Kelly all of Hoboken; he was the loved brother of John Falato, James Falato, and Evelyn Wedel all of Tucson, AZ.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to St Jude Children’s Research Hospital or Avow Hospice would be greatly appreciated. You can click on the blue text to redirect you to their donation pages.

Michael Dennis Oscar, age 72 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, June 16, 2025.

Born as the youngest of four children to John and Stella Oscar, Mike was raised in Norwalk and Stamford, Connecticut. From a young age, he enjoyed photography and the outdoors, interests that would remain with him throughout his life. After high school, Michael continued his education at Newark College of Engineering (now known as NJIT), where he studied engineering. During his studies, he met a beautiful young woman named Joyce McPartland, who was studying at nearby Rutgers University.

Michael fell head over heels for Joyce, expressing his love and admiration with flowers that he would place on her car or on her lab seat at university. The two fell deeply in love, and shortly after graduating, they exchanged vows on May 2, 1976. After a honeymoon in Hawaii, the newlyweds moved into an apartment in Elizabeth before purchasing their home together in Packanack Lake, Wayne, where they’ve lived ever since. Their family grew with the birth of their son Craig in 1981 and their daughter Karen in 1983.

Michael and Joyce shared a passion for show dogs for many years, raising beautiful Shelties and Min Pins. They competed with their beloved animals across the United States, traveling extensively as a family. Their adventures took them to nearly every state, visiting unique destinations such as Busch Gardens, Disney World, New Orleans, the Grand Canyon, and countless other locations during their road trips.

One particularly memorable journey to the Delaware River included a canoeing adventure that became a family legend. When their group took a wrong turn through the rapids, Mike and Joyce's canoe flipped, sending everything to the bottom of the river. Though Mike could not swim, Joyce managed to dive down and pull him to safety under their overturned canoe. After flipping the canoe with help from their group, they discovered that a single rock had somehow remained in the canoe throughout the entire ordeal. That rock became a centerpiece on their fireplace mantle, serving as a reminder of the trial they overcame together.

Mike was a determined man with tremendous grit and a true family man who could help fix anything. He loved to cook and experiment with new recipes for his family's enjoyment. His passion for camping complemented their frequent road trips, creating countless memories with Joyce as they explored the country together.

Michael will be remembered for his loving devotion to his family, his adventurous spirit, and his generous heart that touched all who knew him.

Michael is survived by his wife Joyce Oscar; his brother Richard Oscar; his two children: Craig Oscar and Karen Garrett; and his three grandchildren: Wyatt Oscar and Skyla and James Garrett.

Michael is Predeceased by his parents: John and Stella Oscar and his brother Ken and sister Marcia.

John J. Sidor passed away unexpectedly on Monday, June 16, 2025, just one day shy of his ninety-first birthday. He was a longtime resident of Wayne.

Born in Jersey City, John was the oldest of John J. and Annie (Turker) Sidor’s three children. He was raised in Hoboken and after graduating from Demarest High School, he attended Seton Hall University.

As a young man, John managed an IGA grocery store in Lyndhurst. He later drove a truck for Sexton Food Service. As a driver, he would frequently take his little daughter Pamela with him in the truck. John also took Pam on rides on his motorcycle. She was just 3 years old and they’d ride for hours.

In 1953, John joined the United States Army, where he served with great pride and distinction from 1953 to 1957. Upon his honorable discharge, he continued to serve in the Army Reserve until 1990, meaning John’s service to his country spanned a total of 37 years! He retired as a Sergeant Major at the age of 56. His service as a reservist consisted of one weekend a month as well as two weeks in a row, three times a year. He primarily served as a drill sergeant and his work in the Army took him all over the country, with most of his time spent at Fort Dix in Lakehurst, NJ. There was probably no bigger part of John’s life than serving in the Army. You could say his blood flowed Army green. He even preferred going all the way to Tobyhanna, PA to shop at the Picatinny Commissary instead of his local grocery store. He’d boast about the great deals he could get there and quite frankly, he just loved the militaristic atmosphere. John was truly proud of his Army service and he beamed with pride when people saw his Sergeant Major stripes and saluted him.

After his full-time Army service ended, John took a job as a district manager with Burger King. A single father of his precious daughter Pamela, it was while working at Burger King that John met the true love of his life. Her name was Arlene Moran, and she was a cashier at the Hackensack location and a single mother of two young boys — Richard and James. At the time they met, John was 34 and Arlene was just 24. You could say that their relationship got off to a cold start. You see, they happened to meet on a day when that Burger King got robbed. The perpetrators locked all the employees in the freezer. Talk about a captive audience! They hugged each other to keep warm and that close encounter led to a flame-broiled relationship, a marriage proposal at a restaurant in Englewood, and a marriage ceremony before God, family, and friends on Saturday, January 19, 1974.

Married life for John and Arlene began in River Edge, where they stayed until moving to their present home in Wayne 45 years ago.

John’s favorite pastimes included cooking on his grill and camping at Otter Lake in the Pocono mountains of Pennsylvania. Camping started in a tent, progressed to a pop-up trailer, and ultimately to a twenty-seven-foot trailer. In the early days, that trailer was located on a lakeside campsite. It later became a permanent trailer on campsite “X-3.” Camping at Otter Lake was a longtime family tradition and, to this day, John’s kids have fond memories of campfires, roasted marshmallows, and even watching their father build cages around the hummingbird feeders to keep the bears from drinking all the sweet nectar.

John was also a very gifted painter. All you had to do was ask him to paint whatever you wanted, then leave him alone and watch the magic. Murals, nature scenes — you name it, John was a modern-day Picasso. At his campsite, he painted rocks to look like real turtles. Once he did that, his campsite became known as “Turtle Site” by all the other campers.

John was a man who treasured the love and presence of his family. For Halloween, he painted the most amazing pumpkins for all his grandchildren and, at Christmas, he was the go-to guy to put together all of their Christmas presents. Around his family, you’d never know he was the tough Army drill sergeant. They would describe him more as “funny” and “relaxed” and the guy who had fun going pumpkin picking and dancing in his living room. He was the “Poppy” who loved Charles Shulz’s Peanuts characters — especially Snoopy, and especially when Snoopy was imagining himself as the Red Baron. In fact, John had over fifty Snoopy Christmas Ornaments and, when it came to dancing, there was no more enjoyable sight than to watch him perform the Schroeder dance. John also loved his cat, whom he rewarded with the name “Killer” because Killer caught a mouse in his apartment.

After retiring from his position with Burger King, John took a job with the Wayne Township Board of Education as a bus driver. With his wife Arlene by his side as his school bus aid, John drove Bus 77 for the next twenty-one years, not retiring until he was 84 years old. The first 5 years he drove the big buses and after that he transitioned to the shorter buses for the special ed kids. He transported literally hundreds of kids during his final career and they all loved him! They even would invite him and Arlene to their summer barbecues. Of course, he went! After all, he loved those kids as much as they loved him.

Later in life, John put his faith in God. It meant a lot to him and, while he is no longer here, because of his faith, they know where John is. They bask in that comfort and they’ll always cherish the memories and the beautiful gift that he was until, sharing in his faith, they will see him again one day.

John was the beloved husband of Arlene (Moran) Sidor, blessed in marriage for 51 beautiful years. He was the loving father of Pamela and her husband Robert Reilly of Lake Ariel, PA, Richard Albolino of Wayne, and James and his wife Kerry Albolino of Stony Point, NY; adored “Poppy” of Jimmny Rivera, Jason Reilly, Melisa Reilly, Eaker Smith, Brittney Albolino, Kyle Albolino, Tyler Albolino, and Catrina Albolino; proud great-grandfather of Max Reilly, Alyssa Rivera, Ayden Finley, Alivia Finley, Savanna Rayner, and Aaron Albolino; and dear brother of Philip and his wife Sheila Sidor of Florida. John was predeceased by his parents — John J. Sidor and Annie (Turker) Sidor — and his sister Evelyn Jadevia.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in John’s memory to:

Wounded Warrior Project

P.O. Box 758516

Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516

To download a mailable form CLICK HERE.

Donations can also be made by calling 855-448-3997.

Please be sure to indicate that your gift is in memory of John J. Sidor.

Ida J. Van Dalen, age 89, of Wayne for 62 years, passed Monday, June 16, 2025.

She was born in Passaic to Chris and Anna Van Der Stad. Ida has lived in Passaic, Newfoundland, Totowa, Prospect Park, and Wayne. In 1964 they moved to Wayne in a house that her husband Jake built with the help of family and friends. Prior to her marriage Ida worked for the Travelers Insurance Company, Paterson in their claims department.

Ida’s future husband Jake was serving in the U.S. Army and when he was able to come home on temporary leave from the military, his sister Elizabeth invited her good friend Ida Van Der Stad to go for a ride with her and Jake. They drove into New York City and one of Ida’s distinct memories was that Jake, who was driving, ran through every red traffic light that they encountered. In today’s day and age, such driving behavior might land you in jail but this was the 1950’s when there weren’t nearly the number of cars on the road that we see today. That night was the beginning of a loving and devoted relationship that ultimately led to Jake and Ida’s marriage with a ceremony taking place on Friday, June 1, 1956 at the Netherland Reformed Church in Passaic. After the wedding ceremony and reception, Jake and Ida set off on their honeymoon to Niagara Falls on the Canadian Side where they visited the famous Lover’s Lane and Holland, Michigan. Thus was the start of many trips they would take together and with their family exploring the United States and Canada as well as Europe, Australia, and New Zealand.

Ida was a warm, social woman whose zest for life was matched only by her deep love for family and community. She was a lifelong traveler and camper. She gradually upgraded from an umbrella tent, to a tent trailer, to various other trailers, and then finally a 30-foot travel trailer, embracing adventure at every stage. She cherished the many family trips (more than 20 trips) to P.E.I.(Prince Edward Island), Canada, where memories were made along the red roads & cliffs. They visited many lighthouses, especially their favorite Panmure Island, which they loved viewing from their camp site. They enjoyed driving around the island and exploring many of their favorite spots along the shores. There were also several trips to the western part of the United States and Canada to see the beauty of God’s creation. They went for the first time in 1959 as a couple and then in 1976, 1978, 1981 (for their 25th anniversary) with their children and finally in 1989 with their new son-in-law. In addition, each year for twenty-one years, in August, they held a family reunion at a campground in Lancaster, PA amongst the corn fields. A true conversationalist, Ida thrived in the company of others—always engaging with loved ones, neighbors, and friends with a genuine interest and warmth. She found joy in the simple, grounding pleasures of life: sewing which later developed into a love of quilting. She also enjoyed reading, thus when the Netherlands Reformed Christian School library was looking for volunteers she thought this would be a way to help students to explore the world through reading. She was a dedicated volunteer here for  thirty-five years  and eventually became the head librarian. She reluctantly retired in 2020 because of COVID. Ida also had a love of flowers, especially gladiolus, which her husband would plant for her each year, but in return she had to clean and cook the abundant harvest. Both her and her husband enjoyed watching wildlife—especially birds who came to their feeders, and deer if they were not eating in their garden. Another way she served her family and friends was  baking delicious desserts and cookies. She would complain that she was tired, but then she could be found baking cookies in the kitchen. Whether nurturing plants, stitching quilts, or sharing stories around the kitchen table, Ida lived each day with warmth, purpose, and grace. Ida was a long standing member of the Netherlands Reformed Church in Clifton.

Ida was the loving wife of sixty-four years to Jacob G. Van Dalen (d. 2021); loving mother of Ruth Ann and her husband John Bosch of Wayne, their children: Rebecca, Chris-John and his wife Jana; three sons: Jacob Jr. and his wife Laura Van Dalen of Wallkill, NY, their children: Kaitlyn, Jacob III, Kristina; Jan  and his wife Lori Van Dalen of Easton, MD, his children: Michael and his wife Lacey and their children (Joseph, Caroline, and Samuel), Daniel, Rachel, and Jonathan and his wife Shirley Van Dalen of Grand Rapids, MI, their children: Nathaniel, Colleen, Melanie, and Meghan; and numerous nieces and nephews. She was the beloved sister of Len Van Der Stad and his wife Alyce of Wayne, Dave Van Der Stad and his wife Lois of Wayne, and the late Cornelius “Neil” Van Der Stad and his surviving wife Grace of North Haledon.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Netherlands Reformed Christian School Library, 164 Jacksonville Road, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444 would be greatly appreciated. 

George R. Van Vliet, age 88, of Little Falls, NJ passed away peacefully Friday, June 13, 2025, while receiving the loving care and support of the DMAVA Staff, the Valley Hospice Staff and his family.

George was born to Henry and Katherine (Fink) Van Vliet and graduated from Roosevelt High School in Hyde Park, NY having been in the band playing tuba and bass, as well as focusing on Industrial Arts with the Class of 1954. After graduating, he pursued his interest in airplanes, taking flying lessons in Klaverack, NY and obtained his pilots license in the Fall of 1957. He and a few friends were able to come together to own a Piper TriPacer. During this time, he worked on his family’s dairy farm and a local Agway store.

George served in the Army at Ft. Monmouth where he was the Link Trainer, performing training for instrument flight, and part of Flight Operations. He was a noted Marksman and Sharpshooter. He was also able to see a bit of Europe during his time in the Army. He was honorably discharged in 1961. George worked for several Savings and Loan Associations over the years and retired in 1979. He was a Brother Mason and a member of the Little Falls Lodge No.154 F. & A.M. for 58 years, a Noble of Salaam Shriners for 52 years and a member of the Valley of Northern NJ Scottish Rite.

Before leaving the Army, on a weekend leave, his buddy John took him to his hometown and there George met his future wife, Nancy. They were married a year later, almost to the day!  They celebrated their 63rd wedding anniversary last fall. They were blessed with a son Michael and his wife Nancy, a daughter Lori, a granddaughter Rebecca, his loving caregiver Connie, his Gal Friday Daria, Nurses Cynthia and Ronnie, as well as many caregivers over the years. He is also survived by his sister Margaret and her husband I.W., his Koumas Olga and Doris, many nieces, nephews, cousins, friends and a very dear and supportive Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church Family. He is predeceased by his parents, Henry and Katherine, his sisters Gretchen and Louise and his mother-in-law Mary.

George was a faith-filled family man. Despite having Multiple Sclerosis since his mid-twenties, he approached life with a remarkable sense of striving to do as much as he could, for as long as he could. Several cross-country trips were made with a pop-up camper in tow! He and his wife Nancy enjoyed many years spending winters in Florida with family, friends and while there, attended St. Andrew the First Called Orthodox Church. He accepted the constraints of his limitations, but never complained. Always having a positive outlook and a smile. He will be deeply missed, but always in our hearts.

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In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to one of the organizations below would be greatly appreciated:

Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church

285 French Hill Road

Wayne, NJ 07470

The Valley Hospital Foundation

Please indicate the donation is going to: Hospice Care

4 Valley Health Plaza

Paramus, NJ 07652

National MS Society

P.O. Box 91891

Washington, D.C. 20090-1891

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Frederick Wallert, Jr., age 90 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 10, 2025.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, Fred was the youngest of three children raised by Frederick Sr. and Katherine Wallert. Fred was a lifelong learner and from a young age he was fascinated by technology. At just 12 years old in the year 1947, Fred built a television – a remarkable feat of engineering for someone so young.

After graduating high school, Fred enlisted in the Navy where his aptitude for learning was quickly recognized. The Navy offered him the opportunity to study and learn more about the electronics that fascinated him. In the 4 years he served, he spent 3 of those years studying and applying his knowledge to the Navy. The education proved worthwhile as he was able to contribute his growing expertise to Naval Mine Warfare and to the Talos telemetry systems (missile guidance). The Navy made several requests to Fred to try and keep him in their service including offering admittance to OCS and Naval Air Cadet (now TOPGUN) but, after four years in the Navy Fred decided to return to civilian life where he discovered a new opportunity on Wall Street. 

In 1961, Fred started his Wall Street career with Loeb Rhoades and Co. handling phases of Venture Capital Investment for the Loeb family and associates. That included tracking all aspects of financial performance, reporting, and real estate, motion picture, music, theatrical plays, and other various industries. In the 1970’s Fred served on the Board of Directors of Lol Oil Corporation, MGT Corporation, Rescent Corp, and Aerospace Mortgage Corp.  Over time, he became Vice President of Loeb Partners Corporation – the successor to Loeb Rhoades and Co. 

In 1980 Fred joined the Loeb family by personally participating as a general partner in various Loeb Investor Co. deals. His work in Venture Capital saw him participate in over 80 ventures including many innovative new ideas like the MRI machine, 1st Response Pregnancy Tests, and Monoclonal Antibodies to name a few. He was well known in the industry for his exceptional ability to recognize the innovations that would prove to be a success at a rate far exceeding the industry average. Fred continued in this role until 1999 when he was recruited by Wave Entertainment Inc. as Senior Vice President of Corporate Development.

Fred will be remembered as a self-made man. His expertise across such a broad range of subjects made him a remarkable individual that could truly talk about anything from a knowledgeable perspective. His skills made him invaluable to the Venture Capital world. Even in his 90’s Fred was approached for advice on prospective ventures! Apart from his professional career, Fred will be remembered as the loving husband of his wife of 63 years – Gail Wallert as well as a loving and generous father and grandfather.

Fred is survived by his wife Gail Wallert; his two children: Cathy Spence (spouse Vic Spence) and Rick Wallert (spouse Nancy Wallert); and his grandchildren: Laura Spence, Kelly Wallert and Rick Wallert.  Fred is predeceased by his parents and his older brothers, Charles and George Wallert.

Celeste (Opsomer) Gardiner, age 108, of Wayne, passed away peacefully Monday, June 9, 2025 surrounded by those who loved her.

Celeste was born in Sweveghem, Belgium to Hector Josef and Zulma Selvie Opsomer on April 21, 1917, just a year and a half before the end of WWI, a war in which her father fought and received a Medal of Honor for his service.  On November 15, 1927, at age 9, Celeste arrived in the USA via the SS Lapland Steamliner and entered America through Ellis Island with her parents and older sister, Estella.  The Opsomer family, through their sponsor, Charles Castelein, made their home in the Bunker Hill section of Paterson.  Celeste was a life-long resident of Passaic County.  A full-time homemaker, later in life Celeste made a life-changing decision to attend Capri Institute of Cosmetology in Clifton from which she graduated and worked as a beautician and manicurist until her retirement. Years later her granddaughter, Christine, followed in her footsteps and graduated from the same school for cosmetology.

Due to the crash of the stock market in 1929, and only two years in America, Celeste and Estella were compelled to seek work to help provide for the family.  Their father worked for Crucible Steel and was a barber for extra income.  Her mother remained a homemaker.  At age 11, Celeste worked for a shirt factory in Paterson as a ‘clipper’, cutting and securing the threads between the garments coming off the line.

As a teenager she met her future husband on a blind date arranged through friends. There are many stories of late nights, big band music and dance halls, and long walks to and from as cars were too costly at the time.  She was soon impressed when Frank bought a new Ford with a rumble seat.  They were married in Our Lady of Lourdes Church on November 7, 1937, making their home in Paterson.  They honeymooned in Niagara Falls and once made a joke that they actually went back years later to see the Falls. Their marriage lasted 73 years before Frank’s passing on June 9, 2010, exactly 15 years prior to the day of Celeste’s passing.

Celeste as a youth was a member of Our Lady of Lourdes School and Parish in Paterson.  Later in life she and Frank and their family found their home in South Paterson and were long-time members of St. George’s R.C. Church.  The Gardiner family moved to Wayne in 1964 and is currently a member of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne.

Celeste so loved her home in Wayne where she resided for 60 years and enjoyed their summer home in Marshall’s Creek.  Her passion was gardening, indoors and out, and was known to have an incredible “green thumb”; something she inherited from her father and passed on to at least one of her children.  She also loved her Bingo but would only play for money and enjoyed raising her arm and yelling “woo-hoo” when she won, often followed by a little friendly but competitive game of 7-card Poker.  She also enjoyed an occasional quiet moment peering out her window to the beautiful waterfall and lily pond below listening to her favorite music, Elvis Presley and Jackie Evancho.

Celeste was a passionate, dedicated, hard-working, devoted and loving mother to their three daughters – Barbara, Beverly and Brenda.  She never sat still.  She was always working in the house and in the yard making sure everything was neat, orderly, always taking pride in everything she did. 

Celeste was an avid knitter and while Frank watched TV, they sat in their matching recliners as she toiled away making baby blankets, always trying to keep one or two ahead of her growing family.  Each of their 16 great-grandchild and one great-great-grandchild, has a well-loved, some well-worn remnants of a blanket made with Celeste’s love and affection for her entire family. Celeste was also an excellent cook. Everything from scratch, Frank’s favorites were her creamy mashed potatoes and home-made gravy and her crusty-on-the-outside pink-in-the-middle eye of round roasts.  Everyone raved about and tried to duplicate her recipes for potato salad and deviled eggs.  Celeste hosted her first Thanksgiving dinner for the entire family just 18 days after she and Frank wed.  She prepared every Thanksgiving dinner for the next 50 plus years until one turkey wasn’t enough, 10 pounds of potatoes didn’t make it around the table and Frank couldn’t extend the dining table any further for the growing family. The family tradition was moved to the Lafayette House until after Frank’s passing and the family dinner was passed on to another family member.

Celeste and Frank were long-time active members of the Wanaque Senior Citizens Club.  They made many friends and traveled often with the group.  Once Frank retired, they spent much time traveling across the USA mainland and took memorable trips to Hawaii and Versailles, France.

Strong-willed, independent and a fighter to the end. Celeste loved her home and her family and friends.  Born during WWI and the pandemic of 1917, she lived through the Depression, WWII, all the wars that followed, and the pandemic of 2020.  Life was good, but times were tough. Frank worked for Crucible Steel and later Curtis-Wright during and following WWII.  Once the war efforts ended and to preempt a lay-off, Frank became a licensed general agent for John Hancock Mutual Life Insurance Company and later All-American Life Insurance Companies until his retirement.  Even though Frank had a supervisory position at Curtis-Wright during the war, living on rations for meat, sugar and flour was difficult.  Celeste was a master in making things work with whatever she had at the time.

Celeste was a very empathetic person yet was known for the school of hard knocks approach to life. Celeste always said, you have to have a good sense of humor to get through life or you won’t make it, and she always took her own advice.  Regardless of the circumstances, Celeste was always happy, could tell a good joke, and made the people around her feel comfortable and welcomed.  Celeste was always smiling, loved to be with people, enjoyed keeping up with and discussing current events.  She was willing but not pushy in giving advice and her opinion on a situation, like it or not, sometimes it was just what you needed to hear.

In November of 2018, Celeste was thrilled to meet Judge Jeanine Pirro at a Guardian of The Family Banquet dinner and book signing and wowed the Judge when she raced with her walker up to the front of the line and told her she was a mere 101 years old. The Judge reached across the table to hug her.

Celeste was predeceased by her parents, Hector and Zulma Opsomer; her sister, Estella Winschuh and brother-in-law William Winschuh, beloved wife of 73 years to the late Frank W. Gardiner, and her son-in-law Thomas Colella.

Celeste is survived by her three daughters Barbara (Anthony) Toscano of Wayne, Beverly (widow to Thomas) Colella of Wayne and Brenda Aldi of Hardyston (fiancé John Hauck) of Frelinghuysen. 

Loving grandmother to her nine grandchildren Michael (Caryn) of Wayne, Matthew (Colette) of Annandale VA, Jeffrey (Judy) of Bay Minette AL, Michele (Phil) of Lincoln Park, Tom (Christine) of Wayne, Dawn Marie (Pat) of Pompton Lakes, Jessica (Chris) of Sparta, Christine (Bill) of Oak Ridge, Marissa (Sterling) of Sandy UT.

Loving great-grandmother to her 16 great-grandchildren Mikey (Sarah), Vincent, Jayden, Jocelyn, Ashley, Brooke, Reid, Ryan, Pasquale, Amanda, Daniella, Dominic, Lily, Bryce, Bane and Sage.

Loving great-great grandmother to her one great-great grandson, Michael “MJ” Joseph.

The family would like to thank Merry Heart Assted Living for their outstanding care, kindness, compassion and dedicated staff.  A special thank you to her private care givers, Oscar and Felix but especially to Elizabeth “Lizzy” who cared for Celeste 16 hours a day, 7 days a week, for the last 8 weeks.  We are eternally grateful.

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In lieu of flowers, the family request donations be made in Celeste’s memory to the Charity of your choice.  If you do not have a charity in mind, please consider donating in Celeste’s Memory to any of Merry Heart’s facilities living, rehabilitation, nursing care and memory units (Checks are to be made out to Merry Heart and mailed to 200 Route 10 West, Succasunna, NJ 07876).

Joseph Gilmore, age 84, and a longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 5, 2025.

Joe was the firstborn of Joseph and Mary Gilmore’s two children. He grew up in the family home at 135 Jasper Street, in Paterson, and graduated from Paterson Central High School with the Class of 1958.

After high school, one of Joe’s first jobs was an offset printer and foreman for Program Printing and Advertising Company, in Fairfield. It was 1967, and at that print shop, Joe’s life would change forever. There, he met a young woman named Betty Vanden Bosch. Joe affectionately nicknamed her “Smocks” because she always wore a smock to protect her clothes from ink. He was smitten from the start, and after just a few months of dating, he proposed to her at the top of Hunter Mountain, New York, in May of 1967. They were married on January 20, 1968, and honeymooned in Mount Snow, Vermont—although the sub-zero temperatures quickly taught them to choose warmer destinations for future getaways. In the decades that followed, Joe and Betty shared a loving and joyful marriage filled with travel, partnership, and deep devotion. Joe often said the best response to any of Betty’s requests—especially for a Diet Coke—was a heartfelt, “Yes, dear.”

Joe and Betty initially made their home in Wayne, later moving to Cliffwood Lake for five years. In 1976, they returned to Wayne, where they remained for the rest of their lives.

Together, Joe and Betty owned and operated Associated Diamond Products in Paterson from 1985 until 2009, taking over the business from Betty’s parents upon their retirement. After selling the company in 2009, Joe worked behind the deli counter at the former A&P in Pompton

Plains. When the store closed due to flooding, he joined Jack’s Foodtown in Wayne, serving customers with his usual friendly demeanor until he retired at the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Joe’s greatest joy came from serving as a volunteer firefighter. He began his service in 1970 with the Hardyston Volunteer Fire Department. After moving back to Wayne, he joined Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Department, Wayne Fire Company #3, on August 2, 1978. In 1981, he stepped into the role of assistant treasurer following the unexpected passing of the department’s treasurer—and he continued in that role for an incredible 36 years, retiring from the position in 2017. He also served as a trustee for many years. Among the many calls he answered, two fires stood out most vividly in his memory: a house fire on Alps Road and a fire in the Red Barn Furniture on Black Oak Ridge Road. Joe had a Philadelphia Flyers shirt that became well-known as the “bad luck” shirt as there seemed to be a working house fire every time he wore it. They took the shirt away from him. This calmed their concerns and made them happy because none of them were fans of the Flyers! When asked why he loved being a firefighter, Joe simply said, “It just felt so good giving back to the community that I called home.”

Joe was an avid racing fan with a lifelong love of cars. He followed NASCAR and IndyCar Series racing, cheering for drivers like AJ Foyt and most recently Kyle Larson. One of the highlights of his life was each time he attended the Indianapolis 500 with his father-in-law. He enjoyed watching the Barrett-Jackson collector car auctions on television and took considerable pride in his own cars, especially the 2002 convertible Chevy Corvette he and Betty loved to cruise around in. He was meticulous in caring for his cars and was often found outside cleaning them to a shine.

He also cherished music and was the proud owner of an extensive LP collection. It was common to find Joe listening to his records with headphones on, lost in his favorite tunes. He and Betty shared a deep love for animals and welcomed many beloved pets into their home throughout their 50 years together. Their dogs—Lovey, Rebel, Dee Dee, Max, Cutter, Tawney, Ember, and Dusty—were cherished companions, as were their cats Morris and Peanut, and even a bunny, Bunsker E. Bunny, who was rescued from a fire at the former Wayne Hills Mall. One especially memorable rescue was Sparky; a dog Joe saved from a fire and gave it to his parents.

Travel was another passion for Joe and Betty. They went on 33 cruises together, visiting destinations around the globe—from the Caribbean to Alaska, Vietnam, the Philippines, Bora Bora, Tahiti, and beyond. The world was their playground, and they made the most of every adventure.

Joe was a joy to be around. Always easygoing, he had a constant smile and never a harsh word for anyone. He let the little things roll off his back and never took life too seriously. He was a devoted husband, a loving father, a proud “Papa” to his grandchildren, and a true friend to many.

Joe was predeceased by his beloved wife, Betty, in May 2018. He is survived by his two children: Michael Gilmore of Winter Springs, FL, and Kimberley Rossi and her husband Michael of Wayne; and by his six grandchildren: Alexis, Amanda, and Anthony Rossi, of Wayne, and Benjamin, Katelyn, and Liam Gilmore, of Sussex.

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For those wishing to make a donation in Joe’s memory, please consider the Pompton Falls Volunteer Fire Company #3, 130 Jackson Ave., Wayne, NJ 07470, or click here to donate online.

Arlene Cooper, age 76, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully from this life into the everlasting arms of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Thursday, June 5, 2025, while receiving the loving care of her family.  

The daughter of Frederick and Elizabeth (Beversluis) Rogers, Arlene was born in Paterson and spent her early years there and in nearby Prospect Park.

Arlene met and married John Cooper on August 28, 1983. She adopted her first two children before marriage – Matthew, Elizabeth, and after marrying John, adopted Brian and lived for several years in Sussex County. Later the family moved to Pompton Plains where Arlene and John adopted their last two other children, Sean and Abigail. The family had called Pompton Plains their cherished home ever since.

A woman of deep Christian faith, Arlene walked closely with God—her Maker, Provider, and Sustainer—throughout her life. She and her family were faithful attenders of the Trinity Baptist Church in Montville where she delighted in attending the church’s Helping Hands ministry – a program dedicated to helping those with disabilities. 

Arlene’s life was one clearly marked by service to others. She always put her children’s best interests before herself, even in situations where it might take a toll on her own health. She loved them immensely and was always on her best game when it came to celebrating their milestones, like birthdays, graduations, and personal achievements. As if raising five children wasn’t enough to keep anyone’s time fully occupied, Arlene also was also a volunteer with the Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA) organization by passionately supporting their mission to advocate for the best interests of youth in foster care. In addition, because of her son Matthew’s battle with Cystic Fibrosis, which ultimately took his life on earth in 2010, Arlene was a faithful volunteer to raise financial support and awareness for the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation. Her tireless devotion in all she did was a reflection of her love for God and her faithful obedience to Jesus’ command to love the Lord with all your heart, soul, and mind—and to love your neighbor as yourself.

On a lighter note, Arlene found horses to be such a delight. Deacon, Trooper, and Moe were her equestrian friends that she had the privilege of caring for and riding and, just last year, she even had the thrill of jumping into the saddle for a ride on a giant Clydesdale! Her love for animals extended to a wide variety of pets throughout her life, including a goat, rabbits, birds, guinea pigs, gerbils, a frog, a tortoise, a turtle named J.J. (rescued by her husband John shortly before his passing), and her loyal dog Jake, whom she affectionately called her protector. She truly was a real-life Dr. Dolittle!

Arlene’s favorite Bible verse was Psalm 4:8

 I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety.

The Lord gave deep comfort to her in this verse, especially in times of restlessness.

Arlene was a cherished wife, a devoted mother, a dear sister and aunt, and a trusted and treasured friend. Her absence will be deeply felt, but her memory and the legacy of her love and faith will live on in the memories and hearts of those whose lives she so deeply richly blest. Her family rejoices in knowing that she is with the Lord and by God’s saving grace will see her again. 

Arlene was predeceased in August, 2023, by her beloved husband John to whom she cherished 40 years of marriage, and by her precious son Matthew in 2010. She is survived by her other four dearly loved children: Elizabeth Cooper, Brian Cooper, and Sean Cooper, all of Pompton Plains, and Abigail Cooper of Little Falls. She is also survived by her dear brothers John and wife Cindy Rogers of Sebastian, FL, and Donald and wife Helen Rogers of Pompton Plains, as well as numerous loved nieces and nephews.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Arlene’s name are asked to consider the following charitable organization:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Click here to download a mailable form

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Arlene Cooper.

Thomas Joseph Burns, widely known as T.J. Burns, passed away on Wednesday, June 4, 2025. He was 35 years old. 

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T.J. was born to Thomas and Pamela Burns on October 3, 1989. He graduated from Wayne Valley High School and played on the varsity soccer team. He went on to graduate from William Paterson University with a degree in exercise science.

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From his early childhood through his high school and early college years, T.J. was the guy that everybody wanted to be around. He was funny, sharp, and loyal- and knew how to work hard for the things he cared about. 

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T.J. loved his family. To his mother, he was her one and only "baby son." His father never missed a single soccer game. His older sister, Lindsey, could often be found in his room on school nights, helping him complete a school assignment or write a paper. His younger sister, Dana, looked up to him as her soccer hero. Both sisters and his parents loved T.J. very much.

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T.J. also had a group of cherished family cousins he spent countless memorable times with growing up. The time the cousins spent together as kids made up so many of those golden childhood moments- the kind a person remembers even later in life and can't help but smile.  

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And all throughout his school years, T.J. had the same close circle of friends. The group remained almost unchanged all the way through high school. Whether it was weekdays at Wayne Valley, weekends on the soccer field, or weeknights in an endless rotation of visiting one another's houses, it truly seemed that they were always together. They were teammates, friends and brothers.  

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T.J. was surrounded by family and friends like these all the best years of his life. His story simply cannot be told without them. 

Gloria R. Diaz, age 78 of Wayne and Paterson, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, June 3, 2025.

Born and raised in Brooklyn, NY to Salvador and Alpha Reyes, Gloria was one of ten children! She was friendly, sociable and trustworthy from a young age.

Love found Gloria in an unexpected way when friends convinced her to attend a wedding as a blind date with a gentleman named Robert Diaz. Though initially hesitant, Gloria decided to go on the condition that if she didn’t like Robert she was going to go to the bathroom and sneak out the back! Fate had other plans, however, as she and Robert had a great time enjoying each other’s company as if they’d already known each other for years! The couple dated for three more years and on July 20^th, 1984, they were married.

The newlyweds began their married life in Brookly, NY before seeking the tranquility of suburban life, moving to Wayne in 1989. They cherished their Wayne home for over two decades until 2015, when they downsized to Paterson, NJ. There, they discovered a great and close-knit community where they formed many lifelong friends.

Gloria’s passion for gardening was well known in her neighborhood and she was affectionately known as the rose lady on Alps Road. Her green thumb and love for flowers naturally led to her dream to own and operate her own flower shop in Hoboken. She achieved that dream and opened her storefront called Sister’s Flowers on 1^st.

Gloria was strong-willed and yet open-minded. She loved her lapdog named Boobie and her travels all over the world. She and Robert travelled for a period of several consecutive months exploring Hawaii, Portugal, Spain and Florida.

Obituaries for Donald and Grace

Donald Nicholas Malone, of Wayne NJ passed away on June 2, 2025 at the age of 83, just one day before the passing of his beloved wife of 59 years, Grace (nee Mandragona) Malone of Wayne.

Born May 4, 1942 in Passaic, NJ to the late Trina (nee Leeuwrik) and Jerry Malone, Don was brought up in Passaic and Clifton, NJ before settling in Wayne, NJ in 1966 upon marrying Grace.  He attended Stevens Institute of Technology where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering. As an undergraduate in his junior year, he was able to simultaneously enroll in and attend Stevens’ graduate school on his way towards earning a Master’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Don was an engineer at Exxon Research and Engineering Co. in Florham Park, NJ, for 36 years before retiring in 2000. During his career he was involved with the planning, design, construction, and startup of new and expanded oil refineries. As a result, he and his family lived in numerous locations throughout the world including Thailand, Venezuela, France, Canada, England, Singapore, and California for periods of up to two years.  He did extensive consulting and contributed to safety and environmental improvements and the reduction of energy use in refineries.  Don also wrote and taught design methods courses for Exxon.

Don was an auto enthusiast from a young age and did most of his own maintenance and repairs. He was an avid “Do it Yourselfer”, who painted his house, designed and built a rear deck for his house, and did much of his own plumbing and electrical work.  He and Grace thoroughly enjoyed their annual summer vacations to St. Augustine, Florida over a span of decades.

 Above all, he cherished his family and prioritized spending time with them and sharing his life values and philosophy.

Surviving Don are his loving daughter Deborah G. Kayal and her husband George of Mahwah, NJ; dear son Gregory N. Malone and his wife Ann of South Windsor; CT; cherished grandchildren Jordan, James, Michael, and Joseph Kayal, and Elizabeth, Rachel, and Kyle Malone and sister-in-law, Rosanne Mandragona of Red Bank, NJ.  Don was predeceased by his brother, Kenneth R. Malone of Clifton in 2006 and his dear grandson Marcus Kayal in 2019.

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Grace (nee Mandragona) Malone, of Wayne NJ passed away on June 3, 2025 at the age of 82, just one day after the passing of her beloved husband of 59 years, Donald N. Malone of Wayne.

Born August 7, 1942 in New York City to the late Lillian (nee Mancuso) and James Mandragona, Grace was a graduate of Christopher Columbus High School in the Bronx.  She attended Hunter College evenings while working full-time as a secretary in the Instrumentation Division (where she met Don in 1963) and, subsequently, the Legal Department of the United States Atomic Energy Commission in New York City.  She moved to Wayne NJ in May 1966 upon getting married.  

Grace traveled extensively throughout the world with her family in connection with Don’s career.  The family lived in Thailand, Venezuela, France, Canada, California, England, and Singapore for periods of up to two years.  She was an active member of the Newcomers of Wayne / Prime Timers since 1984 and the Golden Age Circle of Wayne since 2008 where she ran multiple outings each year to Camp Hope in West Milford. Grace was a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church in Wayne.  A loving wife and devoted mother and grandmother, Grace was very family- oriented.  She spent countless hours on family genealogy and wrote a 376-page biography of her closest relatives, presenting a copy to each of her children and grandchildren. Over a period of fourteen years, she also babysat each of her daughter’s five boys before they began regular school.

Surviving Grace are her loving daughter Deborah G. Kayal and her husband George of Mahwah, NJ; dear son Gregory N. Malone and his wife Ann of South Windsor, CT; cherished grandchildren Jordan, James, Michael, and Joseph Kayal, and Elizabeth, Rachel, and Kyle Malone; and sister-in-law, Rosanne Mandragona of Red Bank, NJ.  Grace was predeceased by her brother, James S. Mandragona, in 2010 and her dear grandson, Marcus Kayal in 2019.

Rosanne M. Bowles, 89, passed away peacefully at home in Wayne, NJ on June 2, 2025. A funeral mass will be held at Our Lady of the Valley Roman Catholic Church at 10:30am on Saturday, June 7, 2025.

Rosanne was born on July 6, 1935 in Kearny, NJ. She was raised in Clifton, NJ, graduating from Pope Pius XII high school in Passaic in 1953 and William Patterson University in 1957. She had a teaching fellowship at the University of Denver in 1960 and earned an MBA there in 1961.

She taught business courses at Clifton High School and West Essex Regional High School from 1961 through 1998. She was recognized as Teacher of the Year in 1991/2. She was a member of several education associations.

Rosanne was an avid skier and loved to ski in Aspen and Vail, often as a member of a ski club. She played tennis and golf. She loved opera and held season tickets at the Metropolitan Opera for many years. She also enjoyed attending ballets and symphony performances at Lincoln Center in New York City and elsewhere.

She enjoyed travel for sports and fun. She traveled in the United States, Europe, Canada, Mexico, and the Caribbean.

Rosanne has been a parishioner at Our Lady of the Valley in Wayne, NJ, since 1964.

Rosanne is survived by her brother, Lawrence (Margaret) Bowles, and nieces and nephew, Jean Bolger, James (Martha) Bowles, Megan (Alfred Levitt) Bowles, Nora Bowles, Cathy (Brian) Collins, and Ann (Bruce) Fort. She was beloved by her grand-nieces and nephew, Maddy Bowles, Clare Bowles, Margaret Bolger, Jacob Levitt, Mairead Levitt, Kenneth Collins, Christopher Collins, Catherine Fort, and Evelyn Fort. She was predeceased by her sister, Mary-Ellen (John) Grunewald.

Patricia “Trish” Szlembarski (nee O’Connor), age 61 of Wayne, a beloved sister, friend, and cherished member of her community, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 29, 2025.

Born in Brooklyn, New York, Trish moved with her family to Wayne when she was just ten years old—a community that would hold a special place in her heart throughout her life. She graduated from Wayne Valley High School and earned her business degree from Katherine Gibbs School, laying the foundation for a diverse and successful professional career.

Trish began her career working at her father’s business, Center Sheet Metal in the Bronx, before moving on to Singer-Kearfott in Totowa. She later worked as a paralegal at several area law firms and concluded her career at Englewood Allergy with Dr. From, where she was deeply appreciated for her dedication and warmth.

While working at Singer-Kearfott in the 1980s, Trish met Robert “Bob” Szlembarski during a company charity event at The Barnyard in Totowa. Their connection deepened through shared activities like shooting pool and playing darts, and their romance blossomed.  Less than a year after meeting, they exchanged vows on August 1, 1987 at St. Michael’s Church followed by a beautiful reception at The Manor. They honeymooned in the Pocono’s and eventually settled into their home in Packanack Lake, close to family and friends. Sadly, Bob passed away in 2001 after just fourteen years of marriage and Trish has missed him dearly ever since.

In 2011, Trish moved to Florida to lovingly care for her ailing father during his final years — a testament to her loving, generous and loyal spirit. She cherished those years, especially all the one-on-one time she was able to enjoy with her father. She also enjoyed hosting all the visitors her father was blessed have stay at his home during that time. Following his passing, she returned to Wayne in 2013 and purchased her “dream home” on Packanack Lake. There, living close to her family and friends, and surrounded by the beauty of the lake, Trish built her own little haven of warmth and comfort.

Trish’s home was always filled with the scent of fresh-baked goodies — though, ironically, she never ate the treats she so lovingly made. Baking was just one of the many ways she shared love with those around her. She was also an avid music lover with a special fondness for Elvis Presley, Olivia Newton-John, and Neil Diamond. With her deepest roots in Brooklyn and the Bronx, she remained a loyal fan of the New York Yankees and the New York Giants (naming her cat “Jeter”), and she never missed a game!

Trish also loved watching movies and enjoyed many memorable trips to Atlantic City with her dear friends and former coworkers, where laughter, stories, and slot machines filled the days.

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She enjoyed every family gathering, never happier than when she was surrounded by those she loved most. Her bright smile and infectious giggle could light up any room, and her generosity, loyalty, and deep devotion will be remembered by all who had the privilege to know and love her.  She took her role as an aunt very seriously and was truly and lovingly devoted to all her nieces and nephews.

Since 2020, Trish faced serious health challenges with incredible strength and grace. Even through this hardship, her love for life, her family, and her faith never wavered. She leaves behind a legacy of compassion, laughter, and love — and she will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Trish is survived by two sisters: Maureen Cretella (Joey) of Wayne, and Irene Yalicki (Eddie) of Manahawkin; nieces and nephews: Annie (Greg), Amanda, Amy (Sean), Joey, John (John), James, Kelly (Ryan), Jimmy O’Connor III, Alexa and Rachel; cousins: Ron, Tom, Bill, and Rosie; aunt and uncle: Nancy and Jimmy Mike, and most recently her companion dog Alani, who brought her so much joy.

Trish was predeceased by her husband Bob in 2001; by her parents: James (2013) and Mary (2010) O’Connor; her sister Colleen Youngman (2015), her brother James, Jr. (2015), her brother-in-law Steveo (2015), her Uncle Ronnie (2024), and her cousins Greg (2001) and Dorothy (2020).

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In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests donations be made in Trish’s memory to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, reflecting her generous spirit and commitment to helping others. Trish’s quiet compassion and selfless nature touched the lives of many, and supporting this cause would honor her legacy.  Donations can be made online at www.stjude.org

Brian J. Goger, 43 of Pequannock passed away suddenly on May 29, 2025.

Brian was born in Rahway to Frank and Deborah Goger and graduated from Linden High School in 2000 where he played on the high school golf team.

Brian’s first job was at Steak and Ale as a busboy, followed by a work study program at House of Flowers in Linden cutting flowers. After High School he worked for Cooper Electric as a salesman for ten years. Brian then worked at Proud Papa’s Pizzeria in Edison as a manager for 6 years where he made many friends. Brian drove for Lyft for a year spending as much time with Dana as he could, shifting hours around her work schedule. After Lyft he worked at Texima until March 2020 when COVID hit. He then found his home at Atra Janitorial the summer of 2020 and has worked there ever since. Atra/Brady Plus truly became a family for him as he started as a truck driver, moved to warehouse supervisor and most recently Branch Manager. Brian took great pride in all his jobs but Atra held a special place in his heart.

Brian was the life of the party, had a great sense of humor, was a fantastic dancer as he perfected Michael Jackson’s thriller. Brian was an amazing cook and enjoyed making guacamole, empanadas, breakfast sandwiches, taco bake, Mexican chicken, and many other dishes his family enjoyed. Brian had an extreme love for NY sports which was evident by his many tattoos. His most loved team was the NY Giants, he never missed a single game, and you could hear him cheering down the street. He also loved the NY Rangers, NY Yankees and NY Knicks, along with Golf and Bowling. Brian was an avid bowler and drew a crowd with his 205 average and Wooooos throughout the bowling alley. He even convinced Dana to join a doubles league which won them several vacations and where they made many friends. Brian had a huge passion for WWE and he shared his passion with Dana taking her on a date to Monday night RAW. This is now a big part of the Goger household as Fiona has her own championship belt and sings the wrestlers entrances. Brian enjoyed family BBQ’s always bringing his beer pong table and enjoying playlists on his speaker. Brian’s favorite place to vacation was Wildwood, NJ which was an annual Goger vacation spot. He carried on the tradition with Dana and Fiona even going now in the fall as he loved the area so much. Brian had a love for fashion always coordinated from his sunglasses down to his sneakers. He had a different pair of sneakers for every outfit. Brian was always punctual, organized, and adamant about keeping a clean house and car at all times. Brian was a caring and thoughtful person, always putting his family first. He was honest and romantic, hardworking, determined, and loving. He valued family time at home teaching Fiona that weekends was fun time with mommy and daddy.

Brian met the love of his life Dana on Plenty of Fish, as he spotted her wearing a NY Giants jersey. They started dating January 2017, became official July 2017 and within 6 months they fell in love. Brian and Dana dated for 3 years before he proposed on November 19, 2019 at a beautiful restaurant in Pompano Beach, Florida. They married November 15, 2020 in the middle of COVID, a date that was special to them being the same anniversary as Brian’s parents. Brian and Dana welcomed their daughter Fiona May 1. 2023. Fiona completed their family and brought them tremendous joy. Dana and Fiona never doubted Brian’s love as he made it evident to them daily.

Brian was dearly loved by his father Frank Goger, his late mother Deborah Goger (2019), his sister Jessica Diddle, nieces Kylee, Skylar and Noelle, his Aunt Kathy and Uncle Bruce, and Aunt Maureen. Brian was the beloved son in law to the late Harry Barany (2023), and Diane Barany, brother in law of Emily Barany, Harrison and Juliana Barany and uncle to Serena and Isabella.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning to make charitable donations in Brian's name, are asked to please consider donating to Brian's GoFundMe page.

Donna Niethe, age 63, of Wayne, formerly of Newark, Irvington, Clifton, West Orange, and Livingston, passed Wednesday, May 28, 2025.

Donna was born in Newark to Karl and Marilyn Niethe and raised in Irvington. In a memorable family story, when Donna was born, her father Karl was nowhere to be found—he had fallen asleep in the doctor’s office. The family later settled in Wayne, where Donna graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 1979. She went on to attend William Paterson College in Wayne and later earned her Master’s Degree from Montclair State University in Montclair. Over the years, Donna held various roles, including working at Jamesway in Pompton Plains and as a graphic designer in Fair Lawn and Totowa.

Donna was a gentle and compassionate soul, known for her quiet strength and caring nature. She had a deep love for soccer, playing as a dedicated goalie and even coaching the sport she adored. Donna's talent and determination led her to compete as a member of the U.S. Paralympic Soccer Team, and she also played indoor soccer in Pequannock, where her passion for the game shone brightly. In addition to soccer, Donna found joy in horseback riding and excelled in dressage, earning recognition in several competitions. A true animal lover, she enjoyed watching animal shows, as well as professional wrestling, soccer, and horse racing on television—interests that reflected her spirited and diverse personality.

Donna had a simple and particular palate when it came to food—she never liked onions on her cheeseburgers and always made sure to ask for them without. She also had no interest in spicy food, preferring milder flavors that didn’t overwhelm her taste buds. Her food preferences became a running joke among family and friends, who knew Donna’s order by heart and lovingly teased her about her aversion to anything with a kick.

Donna was born with a mild form of cerebral palsy, a condition that challenged her balance and made her the target of teasing during her early years. But Donna refused to be defined or limited by her disability. Determined to prove herself, she achieved far beyond what others believed possible. She fell in love with soccer and, despite the physical obstacles, became a skilled goalie, ultimately earning a spot on the United States Cerebral Palsy Athletics Association's National Soccer Team. Her passion extended beyond playing; she also dedicated several years to coaching, inspiring others with her resilience and love for the game. Donna also found freedom in a second sport—horseback riding. What began as therapeutic riding became a source of joy and empowerment, as she felt completely unburdened by her disability while on horseback. With a deep sense of pride in her journey, Donna often said she wouldn’t change a single thing about her life. She lived by the motto, “Quitters never win, and winners never quit,” a philosophy she embodied every day.

This was read at Donna's Funeral Service:

Today, we gather in this room to celebrate the life of a remarkable woman—Donna. In her quiet strength, boundless compassion, and unwavering spirit, she touched each of us in unique and lasting ways.

But instead of us speaking about her, Donna wanted to speak to us—one last time.

What you’re about to hear is an open letter, written from Donna’s own point of view. It’s not just a eulogy—it’s her voice, her heart, and her goodbye. Though she is no longer physically with us, her words remind us that love, laughter, and memory never truly leave.

So now, with love and reverence, we share this letter from Donna… to all of us.

An Open Letter from Donna:

I was born with a mild form of cerebral palsy, which meant I walked with a scissor gait, and had a little trouble with my balance and coordination. At times, I was laughed at and teased. I was always the one who was 'different'. Little did those bullies (or I), know what was to come later on in my life; and how I turned around all the negativity I've experienced, to help me achieve things no one else ever thought possible, and prove them all wrong.

A friend took me to a Cosmos soccer game in 1979, and I became hooked on soccer. I spent 5 years watching and analyzing 'the beautiful game'. Then I finally got up the courage to try it. I showed up for the first night of indoor play (in a high school gym) in a rec league, and there were only men players. I had determined the best position for me to play was as a goalkeeper, and having those years of experience studying both of the Cosmos goalkeepers, I knew it would pay off. Playing with (and against) players who are much better than you is the best way to elevate your own game; no matter what sport it is. The more I played with and alongside men, the sharper my skills, quickness, and reading of the game grew. I had a friend who lives in NJ, who drove out to Long Island every weekend for either practice or games. Initially I went with her to keep her company, but eventually started playing in some tournaments as well.

Every year they have a big tournament, and teams come from all over to participate in it. One of the coaches, whose team we had played against, approached me about playing in goal for his team in a tournament in Florida, as I accepted his invitation, and played well. A few weeks later, I was back in Long Island playing in an indoor tournament. One of the refs during the tournament noticed me, and asked about my disability. He had a friend who coached the USCPAA (United States Cerebral Palsy Athletics Association) National Soccer Team, and he wanted my contact information. The coach did call me, three times while I was in Florida, and requested a tape of me for them to review. The only game footage I had was from the tournament in Florida; which I sent for their review. A week later, I was invited to tryout for the US National Team, all expenses paid - a trip to Texas, with a lot on the line. I had nothing to lose, and everything to gain. It was the culmination of everything I had been through, the reason why - I knew this day would come!

We had practice three times a day, and mid-afternoon, the coaches pulled me aside and told me that I made the team, I was elated! The team got together two or three times a year to train, and the rest of the time you were on your own. At that time, the focus was on the Paralympic Games coming up in 1996 in Atlanta, Georgia. The only thing standing in my way was that coaches/countries from South America would not allow co-ed play, and even after a few appeals through the appropriate Governing Bodies, sadly, permission was not granted. Knowing I was ranked no.1, and would have played in goal in Atlanta, for my country, is still a huge honor and privilege to this day. My ranking was earned, not given, and there's a big difference between the two.

There's a lot of hard work that goes into maintaining your fitness and agility during your 'off' season, and riding was a very good way of filling that void.

In addition to playing soccer, I wanted to coach it as well. So I took the necessary licensing courses so I could do that. I loved coaching, especially within the 'Buddy Ball' program, (where a child would have a volunteer guide them through the game, offering as much, or as little, help as needed). I was coaching a group of kids, ages 5 to 10, with physical and mental challenges. The parents would say that all their kids would talk about during the week was 'Soccer Saturday', and asked why it took so long to get here every week!

There was one young boy who came each week, but he wouldn't join in and play with the rest of the kids. He wouldn't leave his mother's side, he was too frightened; but he didn't want to leave until the session was over. For weeks the volunteer 'buddies' tried to persuade him to play, to no avail. Finally, I decided it was my turn. I went to him and asked if he wanted to play, that I would be his 'buddy', but only with his mom's permission, of course, and that I would hold his hand the entire time. I could sense his hesitancy, and then I remembered something. He was fascinated with my whistle - a shiny silver one, hanging on its cord, around my neck. I asked if he could help me, by blowing the whistle when I told him to, during the course of play and the end of the session. That was it - the connection he needed, finally something he felt comfortable with. It took about four weeks, but he came out of his shell, he was soon running and playing with the rest of the kids, coming to me when it was time to blow the whistle. To me, nothing is more important than making a difference in life of a child; that even if I only help one child, it's all worth it.

Simultaneously, along with soccer, came my second sport - riding. After finally getting a doctor's clearance, I was able to start therapeutic riding with horses. The warmth of the horse relaxes muscles that are stiff, and helps bring your body back into its natural alignment. I always felt so much better after my riding lesson, even though it was painful, I thought of it as the best physical therapy I could ever have. Riding is a full body workout, and it helped keep me in shape for soccer during the off season. The thing I loved the most, is when on a horse, no one could tell I had a disability, only when I got off. It was so much fun to compete at horse shows, many, many hours of practice come down to only a few minutes in the ring, so you have only one chance to get it right!

That was then, and this is now. So much has changed physically with my body. It has become a battle, and I have lost the war. Slowly but surely I lost the abilities to walk, stand, and transfer, and I am now in a powerchair. I fought as long and as hard as I could to stay out of my wheelchair.

I have no regrets, and if I had the chance I wouldn't change a thing, because I wouldn't be the same person that I am today. All things considered, I think I've turned out alright! I've lived by this motto: "Quitters never win, and winners never quit".

And so, as I bring this letter to a close, know that you leave today with a heart full of gratitude—for the life Donna lived, for the love she received, and for each of you who helped make her journey so meaningful.

Please don’t remember Donna in sadness, but in the quiet moments of laughter, in the warmth of shared stories, and in the everyday beauty of a life marked by courage and grace. Remember her not in grief, but in gratitude—for the strength she showed in the face of challenges, and for the way she turned that strength into inspiration for others.

Live fully. Love deeply. And never forget—Donna is still with you. Just beyond the veil of sight, her memory endures. And as you meet life’s challenges, know she is there, cheering you on with every step.

Donna was dearly loved by her father Karl Niethe, her late mother Marilyn Niethe (d.2016) and her late sister Robin Niethe (d.1961); her brothers: Kevin and his wife Karen Niethe and Glenn Niethe all of Wayne; and her 3 nephews Zachary, Aaron, and Corey Niethe. She will be dearly missed by her aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. 

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Flowers would be welcomed. Those considering a donation in lieu of flowers are asked to consider a memorial donation to the Carousel Horsemanship Pompton Plains. 

In Loving Memory of Louis Russo

July 25, 1950 – May 26, 2025

It is with full hearts and fond memories that we celebrate the life of Louis Russo, a man whose humor, warmth, and devotion left a lasting mark on everyone lucky enough to know him.

Louis passed away on May 26, 2025 surrounded by his loving family: his devoted wife Diane, his son Anthony with his wife Nicole, and his son Nick with his wife Jillian. 

Lou was a devoted husband to his beloved wife Diane, with whom he shared 48 beautiful years of marriage. Their love story began in 1973 and only grew stronger with time. Together, they raised two sons, Anthony and Nick, who they cherished with unwavering love, and took immense pride in the men they became. Lou found endless joy in his four grandsons: Dominic, Lucas, Ty, and Chase. Lou’s family was truly the center of his world.

Lou was preceded in death by his father, Anthony Russo, and his mother, Betty Russo, who no doubt welcomed him with open arms. He is also survived by his sisters, Kathy Valentine and Diane Cody, his brother Robert Russo, and Matthew Brophy, his sons’ lifelong friend, who held a place in his heart like a son. Lou is also lovingly remembered by his many nieces and nephews.

A proud veteran of the National Guard, Lou served his country with honor for eight years. Professionally, he was an accomplished electrical contractor and co-owner of Kristy Electric, where his work ethic and integrity shone brightly.

Beyond his career, Lou was deeply involved in his community. He served as chief umpire and later commissioner of the Metropolitan Baseball League and was a proud supporter of the Wayne Little League, helping to sponsor and run youth sports that meant so much to him.

Many mornings, you could find Lou at The Bagel Stop, holding court with his close-knit group of friends. He was also an avid woodworker, happiest in his impeccably organized workshop, turning pieces of wood into works of art – just like he turned moments into memories.

Lou had a deep love for his shore house in Seaside Park, NJ, a place that brought him immense happiness. He and Diane poured their hearts into that home on 22^nd Avenue turning it into a warm, beautiful gathering place for the family. Memorial Day weekend, the unofficial start of summer, meant everything for Lou. It was when his sons, their wives, and his grandchildren would arrive for weekends filled with sunshine, joy, celebration, and lots of laughter – exactly what Lou cherished the most. That house overflowed with love, just like the couple who filled it.

Above all, Lou will be remembered for his quick wit, infectious laughter, and unmatched energy. He had a gift for lighting up a room, and his presence made everything more joyful.

Lou leaves behind a life well lived, a family deeply loved, and a community forever better for having known him. His spirit, his stories, and that unforgettable sense of humor will live on in all of us. 

Lillian Putz, age 91 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, May 26, 2025.

Born and raised in Jersey City, New Jersey, Lillian was the youngest of five children to Joseph and Helen Krause. A dedicated student, she graduated from Lincoln High School in Jersey City. From an early age, Lillian demonstrated the caring nature that would define her throughout her life, helping her older siblings as their families grew and establishing herself as an exceptional caregiver who would be forever remembered as a devoted mother and grandmother.

Lillian found great joy in life’s simple pleasures: reading fiction novels and sewing her own unique dresses which she loved to showcase at weekly polka dances. It was at one of these dances that she met a gentleman named Richard Putz. Their connection was immediate and before they knew it, they were engaged. Around a year after the couple’s engagement the two were married.

The newlyweds began their family journey together, welcoming their first daughter Diane just a year after their wedding. Their children Lydia and Robert followed in the years that came, and the growing family made their home in Clifton, New Jersey before eventually settling in Wayne.

From the beginning, Lillian cherished time spent with family above all else. Whether it was quiet evenings at home or the holiday gatherings shared with her sisters, Claire and Terry and their families. And years later, with her own family that grew from grandchildren to great grandchildren. It was these simple everyday moments; she found joy and meaning in being surrounded by loved ones.

Lillian and Richard shared a passion for travel and adventure, often exploring the world alongside Lillian’s sister Terry and her husband Joe Kizmann. Their journeys took them across continents from Europe to Alaska, through the Panama Canal, and to many other destinations. Among their most treasured experiences was a trip to Italy, where they were blessed with a private audience with Pope John Paul II at the Vatican, receiving his personal blessing.

After Richard’s untimely passing in 1997, Lillian remained true to her adventurous spirit and continued to explore the world with her sister Terry at her side. She never lost her zest for life or her desire to discover new places.

Lillian will be dearly missed by all who knew her, remembered not only for her role as a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, but for her generous heart, adventurous spirit, and the love she shared with everyone around her.

She is survived by her children: Diane Dario, Lydia Mandrikin, and Robert Putz; her grandchildren Jaime, Danielle, and Christopher; and her eight great-grandchildren.

Lillian is predeceased by her husband Richard Putz; her parents Joseph and Helen Krause; and her four siblings: Bill, Claire, Veronica, and Theresa.

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In lieu of flowers, please consider making a memorial contribution in Lillian's name to the Wayne PBA or Wayne First Aid Squad.

Renée S. Wilke, 39, of Clifton, passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, May 25, 2025.

Born in Hackensack, Renée was raised in Totowa and Wayne and attended Passaic Valley High School in Little Falls.

Throughout her young life, Renée held various jobs. She worked at Frederick Goodman Jewelers in the Willowbrook Mall in Wayne, Kohl’s in Wayne, and the Donna Reed Daycare Center in Wayne. She also worked as a receptionist at Absolute Glass in Wayne – a job that meant a lot to her, and she was currently working as a warehouse coordinator for Hotels and Home Worldwide in Fairfield and at Hope Through Care in the their women’s shelter in Clifton.

Renée’s life was marked by many years of difficulty and challenge. Like so many young people, she made one particularly devastating decision that led to a long and painful struggle with drug addiction. It was a hard season—for Renée and for her family, whom she dearly loved and stayed in daily contact with throughout. Her journey included desperate times, even homelessness. But thanks to her family’s unwavering love and support—and a powerful measure of God’s grace—her life began to turn around in the past four years.

In the Holy Bible in Isaiah 61:1–3 it says:

“The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion—to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor.” 

The Bible often uses “ashes” to symbolize mourning, a state of lowliness and despair, and repentance —but also spiritual renewal and transformation. Specifically in Isaiah 61:3, God describes God giving a "crown of beauty for ashes," reminding us that even in sorrow, God can bring joy, praise, and renewal. 

God never gave up on Renée. Ultimately, she was able to receive the help she needed and rise from the ashes of her past into a new life. She was recently baptized in her church and living at the Hope through Care group home in Clifton, where she was a constant source of encouragement to others recovering from addiction. She was also training to become a case manager to help others in their journey to healing.

Renée deeply loved her family. She considered her two children, Madison and Jeremiah, among the greatest blessings in her life. Every Halloween, she would visit her parents in Florida where Madison encouraged her and Jeremiah to dress up and go trick-or-treating together. One memorable year, they went as characters from the Addams Family—it was a blast. Living in Florida, Madison and Renée Face Timed daily and spent hours together playing Minecraft and other video games. Her son Jeremiah’s name was inspired by Jeremiah 29:11, which reads:

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Renée had a beautiful, encouraging spirit. She was a constant cheerleader for her mom in all of her endeavors, and was also a steady presence in the life of her grandmother “G. G.” who recently fell and needed daily care. Renée and Jeremiah spent many evenings having dinner with G. G. and caring for her.

Renée loved the natural beauty of the world, a passion that earned her the nickname from her sister Nicollette: “My Little Hippie.” Her idea of a perfect day was hiking outdoors at Garrett Mountain, something she did as often as she could.

When asked to describe Renée, her family offered words like: heartfelt, caring, loving, compassionate, strong, empathetic, encouraging, and a survivor. Renée is at peace. Though her time on earth was short and often filled with hardship, God delivered her from the ashes and gave her a crown of beauty—one she wore with a radiant smile, offering love, compassion, and grace to all those she met.

Renée was the devoted and loving mother of Madison and Jeremiah. She was the beloved daughter of Renee Albanese of Parrish, FL; William Wilke of Jacksonville, FL; and stepdaughter of Joseph Albanese of Parrish, FL. She was the cherished sister of Nicollette Kuiken and her husband Joshua, Cecile Wilke and her husband Melvin, Joseph Albanese III and his wife Randi, Michele Barth and her husband Austin, Sarah Wilke, and the late Dylan Wilke. She was the treasured granddaughter of Barbara Veltri and her husband Tony, and the late Christine Wilke. Renee was the proud and loving aunt of David, Kevin, Tyler, Brianna, Olivia, and Julianna and is also survived by her many loving aunts, uncles and cousins.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Renee’s name are asked to consider:

Hope Through Care/Heart of Hannah

Attn:  Kelly Moss-Brown

89 1st St.

Clifton, NJ 07011

Owen Lyon, age 92, of Wayne, passed away Thursday, May 22nd, 2025.

Born to Charles and Edna Lyon in West Orange, New Jersey, he graduated from Seton Hall Prep in 1951 before earning a Bachelor of Science in Physics from Seton Hall University. 

Fresh out of college, Owen began cutting the grass at PSE&G’s local office, and forty-five years later proudly retired as one of their well noted Project Managers, VP. 

Before leaving to serve in the Korean War as a U.S. Army gun specialist Owen met and proposed to the true love of his life, Frances Cort of South Orange, beginning a six-decade long love story. According to Owen, from the moment he spotted her at the Cricklewood Store soda shop, he “knew she was the girl” for him– even inviting himself along on her dates with other boys as a self-appointed chaperone. After returning home from the war, Owen and Fran were married on May 28, 1955 at Our Lady of Sorrows in South Orange.

Owen often said the pair were “well married”, as they had six priests on the altar and a Papal Blessing secured by the Passionist Brothers. They had a reception at the Condor in Livingston, and drove to their honeymoon in Miami, Florida. Owen and Fran enjoyed a loving and caring marriage for sixty-four years, both here in Wayne, and at their summer home in Long Beach Island.

In addition to being a loving husband, Owen was a devoted father and grandfather, survived by his daughter Karen, and husband John Holmes, of Perkasie, PA; daughter Sharon, and husband Paul Giordano, of Lincoln Park; son Tom Lyon, and partner Joe Breen of Montclair; and pre-deceased by his infant daughter, Joanne. He leaves cherished grandchildren, John and Julie Holmes of Long Valley, NJ; Justin and Alise Holmes of Perkasie, PA; Jessica and Derek Fromm of Quakertown, PA; Taylor Giordano of Springfield, and Michael Giordano of Lincoln Park; as well as great-grandchildren Mila Rose Holmes, Brody Holmes, Jackson Holmes, Dylan Homes, Charlotte Rae Holmes, Colton Fromm, Caleb Fromm, and Avery Fromm. Sadly, Owen also leaves behind his best friend, and constant companion Riley, his seven-year-old feisty yet devoted Shitzu.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to WOUNDED WARRIORS

Compassion, Passion and Fashion

Gloria G Chappa, known for her passion compassion and fashion was the last of her generation of the Garofoli/Basista clans, passed away at age 96 on May 20th, 2025. She was a special person who was upbeat with compassion to everyone she interacted with. She lived a comfortable life surrounded by her family and friends and made the world around her a better place.

Gloria and her two sisters, Helen and Teresa were born in the Bronx, New York in a walk-up apartment with family and lifelong friends on the floors of the tenement building. The sense of community comes from having an extended family living and celebrating their Italian heritage in their neighborhood. The daughter of immigrants from Como, Italy had some surviving home movies of family picnics with a large kettle of pasta being cooked at a barbeque in a park rather than the traditional burgers and dogs.

Gloria was a mother of Jody, Tom and Brian and with her first husband Ed lived in Massapequa Park, Long Island, Cherry Hill, New Jersey before settling in Wayne, New Jersey. In addition to being a home maker, Gloria had several jobs after her children grew up but her work at Passaic County Vocational High School gave her the most satisfaction working as an administrative assistant until her retirement at age 90.

Gloria was a deeply religious person who regularly attended services and whose compassion for children and underserved communities allowed her to donate her time to several charities including St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital.

Gloria had an eye and passion for fashion and home décor. Her mother was an accomplished seamstress who made and embroidered clothing for Gloria and her granddaughters. For her entire life she was always well dressed and had a large wardrobe of clothes. Gloria was constantly decorating, redesigning and moving furniture creating warm and inviting homes. In her later stages of her life, she enjoyed arts and crafts including painting and dried flower arrangements.

Gloria’s first husband and father to her children, Ed Basista, shared a life in Wayne, New Jersey enjoying dancing, watching movies, hosting friends and cooking. Nobody ever left Gloria’s home, being hungry with her being a fantastic cook and baker, guests always left with a care package of baked goods and desserts. Gloria had 4 grandchildren Brent, Michael, Mathew and Mark and a great grandson, Sonny. Her family meant everything, and she was generous with gifts and giving advice at family holiday gatherings and on the telephone. Goria’s second husband Joe was also from Wayne New Jersey.

     Doris Sinofsky (nee Hanssen) passed away at home on May 18, 2025, at the age of 97. She was born in Roseville, CA, the daughter of Joseph Clifford and Mildred (Warren) Hanssen. She was the wife of the late Kenneth Sinofsky and the mother of five children. She received her early education in the Roseville schools and graduated from Sparks High School in Sparks, NV. She graduated from the University of Nevada in Reno with a BA degree in Journalism. While there, she was twice elected to Who’s Who in American Universities and Colleges. She later obtained her MA in Reading from William Paterson University.

     She began her teaching career in Sparks, NV where she taught fourth grade at the Robert E. Mitchell School. After marriage, she taught at Union School in Rutherford, NJ. After her children started school, she returned to work at the John F. Kennedy School in Wayne where she taught fifth and third grades. She remained there until her retirement. She was chosen as Teacher of the Year in 1986.

     Mrs. Sinofsky had been a member of the Wayne Presbyterian Church where she served as a deacon and a teacher in the church school. 

     After retiring, she and her husband purchased a home in Pompano Beach, FL and were snowbirds for many years. After his death in 2003, she moved to Cedar Crest Village where she returned to her interest in writing and became a reporter for the monthly “Mountain Matters”.  In addition, she began working in the TV studio where she worked on the weekly television programs and also became involved in the production of documentaries. She was especially proud of her two Telly awards presented for “Our Heroes” and “Never Forgotten,” two of the documentaries that she helped produce at Cedar Crest.  All three documentaries told the lives of Cedar Crest residents. Her next endeavor was playwriting and many of her plays were performed by the Cedar Crest Players and were enjoyed by many. 

     Mrs. Sinofsky is survived by her children, Dr. Francine Sinofsky, Steven and his wife, Susan, Karen Mahida and her husband, Sanjay, Linda Sinofsky and her husband, Daniel DiTolla and Paul. Her grandchildren are Brett, Madison and Kenneth Sinofsky, Alfred (Jake) and Emily DiTolla, Cristina and Daniella Sinofsky, Isabella Mahida and Megan Watson and her husband Randy. Her great grandchildren are Gianna, Wari, Journey, Emiliano, Brooklyn, and Riley. She was predeceased by her sisters Alice Hanssen and Joyce Pinckney and her husband Bob, her brother Clifford Hanssen and his wife Dottie, and her sisters-in-law Bernice Russ and Miriam Holzsager. She also leaves many loving nieces and nephews.

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     In lieu of flowers the family has requested that you make a memorial gift to the Endowment Fund for the Doris H. Sinofsky Award for the Outstanding Electronic Media Student at the University of Nevada, Reno/Mailstop 310 Reynolds School of Journalism, Attn:  Carol McIntosh, 1664 N. Virginia Street, Reno, NV  89557 or online at http://unr.edu/giving and click on the “Give Now” button.  Please reference the Doris H. Sinofsky Endowed Award in the Gift Instructions or Comments’ section. 

Susan Kathleen Biroc Stender

November 30, 1960 – May 16, 2025

With deep sorrow and boundless love, we announce the passing of Susan Kathleen Biroc Stender on May 16, 2025, in Bradenton, Florida, at the age of 64, after a courageous battle with cancer. Throughout her illness, Susan never lost her radiant positivity, grace, or her unwavering generosity of spirit.

Susan was born to Barbara and Albert Biroc in Jersey City, New Jersey. She grew up in Wayne, New Jersey, in the Lionshead Lake community where she attended Wayne Hills High School.

She was predeceased by both of her parents, who instilled in her the strength, compassion, and joyful spirit that defined her life.

From a young age, she was known for her beauty, warmth, and natural charisma.

She met the love of her life, George Stender, in 2004, and they married in 2006. Together, they shared a deep and joyful partnership built on love, laughter, and unwavering support. In George’s words, “She was the greatest wife on this earth.”

Susan is survived by her loving husband, George Stender; her daughter, Kathryn Keskinyan; her son, Michael Culhane; her son-in-law, Shant Keskinyan; and her cherished granddaughter, Claire Keskinyan. She is also survived by her brothers, Patrick Biroc and Richard Biroc; her sisters-in-law, Monica Biroc and Lizette Biroc; her nieces, Kimberly Biroc and Sophia Biroc; her nephew, Chris Biroc; and her beloved dog, Rusty. She is also lovingly remembered by her aunt and uncle, Kathy and Eddie Agresta; her cousins, Jill Skinner, Todd Agresta, Kurt Biroc his wife Malaina and many extended family members and friends who cherished her deeply.

Above all, Susan was devoted to her family. Being a mother was her greatest passion and proudest role. She welcomed her daughter Katie into this world in 1990 and her son, Michael arrived in 1991. She often said that every age of her children was the best age—she truly loved every moment of motherhood. She embraced each season of their lives with joy, patience, and wonder. She was the most loving, attentive, and inspiring mother one could imagine, and she was also the proud and adoring grandmother to Claire, who brought endless joy to her life.

Susan was a gifted athlete and natural leader. She was an accomplished volleyball player who treasured playing on a recreational team with her mother and aunt, and in her twenties, she worked as a fitness instructor. Athletic and adventurous, her and her husband later became a certified master and rescue scuba diver, fearlessly diving with sharks and exploring underwater caves.

A lover of the outdoors, Susan was drawn to the beauty of wildlife—especially dolphins, manatees, cardinals, chipmunks, and pelicans. She found peace in sunsets over the canal behind her dream home in Florida, where she loved boating and exploring dockside restaurants with her husband.

In addition to a successful career in marketing and advertising—where she excelled at building relationships and leading with creativity—Susan was a bold entrepreneur and the founder of SNG Transportation Solutions. She was also a fierce and strategic Texas Hold ’em player who won multiple tournaments and was known for her sharp mind and fearless play.

Susan was an excellent and self-taught cook who delighted her family and friends with meals made from the heart. Her shrimp with white wine sauce and homemade chicken soup were legendary and filled her home with warmth and comfort.

She had a particular love for Christmas. Susan made the holidays magical, not just through her warmth and generosity, but with her famously over-the-top gift wrapping. She was an expert wrapper—each package meticulously decorated and sealed with so much tape that opening it became a joyful challenge. Her festive spirit brought delight to everyone around her.

Susan was stunningly beautiful, both inside and out. Her vibrant presence lit up every room she entered. She lived with purpose, gave selflessly, loved deeply, and brought joy to everyone around her.

Her warmth, courage, and radiant light will live on in the hearts of all who knew her. She was truly one of a kind—forever loved, deeply missed, and never forgotten.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Susan’s honor to:

- Cancer Research Institute give.cancerresearch.org

- National Wildlife Federation support.nwf.org

William A. Lindsay Sr.  82, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Thursday, May 15, 2025.  He was born in Jersey City, to the late William R. and Elizabeth (Yockel) Lindsay.

He was the devoted husband of Carol Ann (Ciaston) Lindsay for sixty years and was the beloved father of William A. Jr., Chuck (Charles) and Rachel Lindsay and father-in-law of Jörg Raab and Jeana Lindsay. His greatest pride and joy were his granddaughters: Samantha Lindsay, Sophia and Stella Raab. He was the older brother of Robert Lindsay, JoAnne Harder and Susan Maak, and uncle and great uncle of many nieces and nephews.

Bill grew up in Jersey City and was a graduate of St. Peter’s Prep and College. He studied Corporate Finance at NYU and later received a Graduate Certificate in Administration from Harvard. He retired from Harvard University Press where he was Associate Director and Chief Financial Officer for 18 years. Previous to that he was President of Dell (Doubleday) Publishing in NYC. During his time working for Doubleday, Bill enjoyed being a fan of the NY Mets with his kids and even got to attend the magical game six of the World Series in 1986 and many opening days.

While working at Harvard he served on the Board of Beacon Press. He was also instrumental in gathering books from other university presses for libraries in countries which were war-torn and/or impoverished for the Sabre Foundation. For five years he was a general trustee of the Archaeological Institute of America.

In retirement Bill enjoyed his granddaughters, reading, poetry, cooking, watching Jeopardy, bird feeding and watching, and supporting good causes.

The yearly highlight for Bill was a vacation on Long Beach Island with his family, walking to Skipper Dipper with his granddaughters in the evening to get ice cream and visiting his favorite Osprey at Barnegat Light, which he also followed via a webcam from home.

Most of all, Bill was known for his patience, generosity, humility and integrity. He believed that everyone deserved a chance and quietly cared for relatives and strangers in need.

In lieu of flowers we respectfully ask for contributions to Hearts n’ Hands Mission, St. Timothy’s Lutheran Church, 395 Valley Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 or your favorite charity.

It is with a profound sense of sadness that we announce the passing of RaeAnn Cheon, age 66, of Lincoln Park, NJ. Surrounded by the love and care of her family, RaeAnn passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 14, 2025.

Born in Paterson, NJ, RaeAnn was the beloved daughter of Henry and Muriel Bogert and one of two children. Her early years were spent in Paterson before her family settled in West Paterson (now known as Woodland Park), where she was raised and graduated from Passaic Valley High School, Class of 1976.

After high school, RaeAnn began her professional life at St. Joseph’s Hospital in Paterson. She worked there for several years before embracing the role of full-time homemaker following the birth of her first son, Ronald. Her second son, Christopher, soon followed, and the family later moved to Wayne, NJ, before RaeAnn eventually made her home in Lincoln Park.

As her children grew older, RaeAnn returned to the workforce, joining the Lincoln Park Care Center in the Medical Records department. She served there with quiet dedication for more than two decades until her passing.

RaeAnn was a gentle and private soul who found her greatest joy in family. She was deeply devoted to her children, grandchildren, and her sister, and treasured every moment spent with them. Her love and selflessness were the heart of her family, and her presence will be deeply missed.

She fell into the role of grandmother with such excitement, joy, pride, and love and willingly gave that to her grandchildren up until her last breath. From daycare pickups, dance recitals, talent shows, sleepovers, birthday parties, times spent at the Jersey Shore, and holidays, Grandma was ALWAYS there, with arms full of presents, of course!

RaeAnn is survived by her loving sons: Ronald Cheon and his wife Molly Cunder of West Orange, NJ, and Christopher Cheon and his wife Divna Burchici of Roxbury, NJ; her dear sister Debbie Sampat and her husband Vijay of Clifton, NJ; and her cherished grandchildren, Penelope and Jason Cheon. She was predeceased by her parents, Henry and Muriel Bogert.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in RaeAnn’s memory to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation

With deep sorrow, we announce the passing of Isabella M. LoRé (née Martin), age 96, of Pompton Lakes, who passed away peacefully on Wednesday, May 14, 2025, surrounded by the love and care of her family.

Born and raised in Boston, Massachusetts, Isabella was one of two children of Hugh and Dorothea Martin. Tragically, she lost her mother at the tender age of two. Her father later remarried, and together with his second wife, the family grew to include two more children. They remained in Boston until Isabella was about fifteen, after which they relocated to Dedham, MA. While attending Brighton High School, Isabella formed a close lifelong friendship with her best friend, June. The two shared many joyful moments, attending school dances and local events, navigating their youth during the challenging yet defining years of World War II.

A proud member of the Greatest Generation, Isabella graduated with honors from Brighton High School in 1947. She soon began her career as an accounting clerk at Sears & Roebuck in Boston and later worked at R.H. Stearns Department Store, where she thrived as an assistant buyer, model, and salesperson. After four years, Isabella left her job to embark on an exciting journey through Europe with three close friends.

The trip proved life-changing. While boarding the SS Constitution en route to England—just in time to witness Queen Elizabeth II’s coronation—she caught the eye of 3rd Mate Anthony LoRé. He famously told his shipmates, “I’m going to marry that girl.” True to his word, the two began dating upon Isabella’s return to the U.S., and their romance blossomed. On December 4, 1954, they were married in Brooklyn, surrounded by loved ones.

The couple made their home in Brooklyn, NY, where they welcomed their first three children: Louis, Carolina, and Peter. Later, the growing family moved to Clifton, NJ, where their youngest daughter, Lisa, was born. Isabella dedicated herself wholeheartedly to raising her children, embracing her role as a full-time homemaker with devotion and joy. In 1984, Isabella and Anthony moved to Brick Township, NJ, and after more than two decades there, they settled in Pompton Lakes, where Isabella spent her later years.

Isabella had a passion for reading—especially mystery novels—and counted Alexander McCall Smith among her favorite authors. She was a talented knitter and lovingly created knit blankets for her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Known for her culinary talents, she was especially admired for her creampuffs, pound cakes, and artichokes.

She loved to travel, often accompanying her beloved husband Anthony, who rose through the ranks to become a ship captain. Together, they explored the world, from a memorable nine-week trip to Australia and New Zealand to her final voyage across the Atlantic aboard the Queen Mary II with her sister Nancy, revisiting their family roots in Scotland.

Isabella’s greatest joy in life was her family. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, and nothing brought her more happiness than spending time with those she loved. She and Anthony shared 52 beautiful years of marriage before his passing in 2005.

Isabella will be remembered for her strength, intelligence, and unwavering love for her family. She touched countless lives with her warmth and generosity, and her memory will forever live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved her.

Isabella is survived by her children; Carolina Brown and her husband Christopher of Ringwood, NJ, Peter LoRé of Pennsylvania, and Lisa Fierro and her husband Michael of Hewitt, NJ,  her sisters; Nancy Martin-Li and her husband Litian of New York City, and Carol Martin of Massachusetts, seven grandchildren; Lindsay Baron and her husband Matthew of Andover, MA, Christian Stanton and his wife My of Boynton Beach, FL, Peter LoRé of Syracuse, NY, Katie Isabella Fierro-Ripoll and her husband Steven of Riverdale, NJ, Alice LoRé of Pennsylvania, Bella LoRé of Philadelphia, PA, and Henry LoRé of Massachusetts, ten great grandchildren; Jack, Julia, Alex, Isaac, Kayla, Anthony, Quinn, Tate, Charlie and Nico and her daughter-in-law Tiffany LoRé.  She was predeceased by her husband Captain Anthony LoRé in 2005 and by her son Louis Anthony LoRé in 2024.  She was also predeceased by her sister Dorothea Queenan, her brother-in-law Francis Queenan and Stepmom Helen Martin.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Isabella’s name may be made to Toys for Tots, Boys Town, or the Pompton Lakes First Aid Squad.

Thomas “Tommy” Vigorito of Wayne, passed on Tuesday, May 13, 2025, at home receiving the love and comfort of family and his wife Natalie by his side.

He was born to the late Ralph (link to Ralph's obituary can be found below) and Dorothy (Vigorito) Lukacsko in Passaic General Hospital. Interestingly Tommy was born the day before his wife Natalie in the same hospital and they likely shared time in the nursery together in 1959.

The family lived in Clifton, then moved to Wayne in 1967, where he entered Holy Cross Elementary School in 3rd grade.  He went on to graduate from DePaul Catholic High School in Wayne. He continued his studies at the University of Virginia. Throughout his schooling, he not only pursued academic excellence but also forged lifelong friendships. These enduring bonds, formed at Holy Cross, DePaul, and UVA, flourished and reflected the loyalty and warmth that defined his character.

Tommy’s love for football began in his youth with the Clifton B&C Aluminum Football program at Nash Park. When his family moved to Wayne, he and his brother Ralph would engage in spirited one-on-one tackle football games on the front lawn at their home on Leo Place. Their passion for the sport grew, and both brothers went on to play for the Wayne PAL Football program, where they were coached by their father, Ralph. Football was truly a family affair for the Vigoritos—while the boys played, their mother, Dorothy, led the Wayne PAL Cheerleaders, including sisters Darcy and Patti who cheered on the sidelines. The Vigorito family became a fixture at the Wayne PAL Parish Oval field, a place they grew to love.

A standout high school All-American at DePaul Catholic High School in the Class of 1977, Tommy drew scholarship offers from prestigious programs such as Notre Dame, Boston College, Duke, Purdue, Penn State, and Virginia. Ultimately, he chose to continue his football journey at the University of Virginia, where he quickly earned a reputation for his remarkable combination of toughness and speed.

When he left Virginia in 1981, Tommy ranked second on the Cavaliers' all-time career rushing list. He finished his collegiate career with 2,913 rushing yards, a mark that now places him seventh on the all-time list for Virginia.  His 648 carries remain the fifth-most in program history, and his 3,922 all-purpose yards, including 587 yards in kickoff returns, rank 12th among the Cavaliers' all-time leaders.

Following his successful college career, Tommy was selected in the fifth round of the NFL Draft by the Miami Dolphins, joining the legendary coach Don Shula. Over a five-year NFL career, he made his mark with several memorable plays, including an iconic 87-yard game-winning punt return against the Pittsburgh Steelers, which remains one of the most celebrated moments in the history of Thursday Night Football.

Tommy’s work history was a journey marked by dedication and consistency.   His early years saw him selling soda amid the smoke-filled atmosphere of Wayne PAL bingo nights and bussing tables at Gabriel’s in the Mountain View section of Wayne. He later served as a server for Hap Nightingale's legendary beefsteaks. Tommy’s career reached new heights when he played for five seasons in the National Football League with the Miami Dolphins. Following his NFL career, he transitioned into the business world, working several years in financial printing for the Chas. P. Young Company in Miami, Florida. The bulk of his career was spent selling municipal bonds with Roosevelt & Cross Incorporated in NYC, a job that he truly loved.

Tommy was a man of unwavering honesty, loyalty, and devotion, qualities that defined his life as a husband. He met his first wife, Dianne (Quaratino) Vigorito, at Holy Cross School, and the two attended DePaul together.  They shared a long and loving marriage, raising two beloved sons, Justin and Michael, until Dianne’s passing in 2015. The link to Dianne's obituary can be found below.  He untiringly dedicated his time and efforts for many years to caring for her when she was sick, and he protected her with all his might.

In 2016, “Tom” found love again with Natalie (Wagner) Vigorito, another DePaul classmate. Their bond was strengthened by shared faith, as Natalie sang at Mass every weekend. He never missed an opportunity to go with her, sometimes attending back-to-back Masses, even weddings and funerals, just to hear her voice, and afterwards telling her each time how beautifully she sang and complimenting her outfit. His heartfelt gestures such as these captured his enduring admiration and love for both of his cherished wives.

An exceptional golfer, Tommy achieved the rare feat of several holes-in-one and was once a proud member of the Montclair Golf Club in West Orange. His golfing prowess was further highlighted by his two-time status as a finalist in the NFL Alumni Association's Super Bowl of Golf Championship. He was a loyal participant in the annual IGT (Irv’s Golf Tournament)—a cherished tradition organized for many years by “The Commissioner”, longtime friend Bob Mulvihill. For those who didn’t know, Tommy’s father Ralph was affectionately known as “Irv,” making this trip even more meaningful.

Tommy’s interests extended beyond sports. He was an avid reader who read many novels in his youth and always listened to audiobooks in the car while riding with Natalie. His love for oldies music was profound – amazingly, he could sing all the lyrics of hundreds of songs while his actual speech declined due to his illness.  He watched Jeopardy every night and amazed everyone with the breadth of his knowledge and intelligence. His love of Elvis Presley and football legend Joe Namath remained unwavering. His generous spirit was evident in his service on the Board of Directors of the Buoniconti Fund to Cure Paralysis in Miami, where he avidly supported the organization’s groundbreaking research as well as the Miami Project Great Sports Legend Dinner.

Tommy participated in a research project at the Boston University Alzheimer's and CTE Center, the goal of which was to find tests that could diagnose Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy before death. Tom suffered from suspected CTE and confirmed Progressive Supranuclear Palsy, conditions that both can be caused by repeated head trauma.  With Natalie’s assistance, he organized a fundraiser for the 2024 End CTE campaign run by the Concussion Legacy Foundation, and he was deeply grateful to all those who contributed.  He wanted everyone to understand the potential dangers of long-term playing of football and hockey, and wanted to find ways to protect young athletes.

Tommy was a man of vibrant contrasts—sarcastic yet caring, quick-witted but deeply giving, friendly and outgoing yet somewhat antisocial.  Nevertheless, he loved being with his close friends, teammates and colleagues.   Above all, Tommy was devoted to his family. He never missed a family function—whether birthdays, holidays, or special celebrations—always showing up with his characteristic warmth, enthusiasm and humor, making every gathering more memorable. DGGG - “Do good, get good”, a family saying Tommy would write in his cards to family members.

Tommy had many wonderful healthcare providers, especially Dr. David Goldbloom of Wayne (9 years), and his physical therapist, Joel Menendez of Performance Physical Therapy (4.5 years), also in Wayne. Finally, he was blessed by the assistance and companionship of many kind caregivers in recent years, especially Jireh Brown, his “PBR” buddy for the past 2.5 years.  Everyone took extra good care of Tommy, who was deeply thankful for their friendship, presence and support, and he always kept them entertained in return.

Tommy was the loving husband of the late Dianne (Quaratino) Vigorito (d. 2015) and Natalie (Wagner) Vigorito for the past nine years; he was the cherished son of the late Ralph “Irv” Vigorito (d. 2023) and his late wife Sandy Vigorito (d. 2010), and Dorothy Lukacsko of Pembroke Pines, Fl and her late husband John (d. 2016);  he was the devoted father of Justin Vigorito (Becka) of Jupiter, FL and Michael Vigorito of Brooklyn, NY; he was the dearly loved brother of Ralph Vigorito (Debbie) of Lincoln Park, Darcy Nash of Pembroke Pines, FL, and Patricia Babich (Matt) of Wayne; he was also the proud grandfather of Dominick Vigorito, Mackenzie Payne and Ivy Payne.  Tom was also the proud step-father of Anthony Marzocca of New York City, Charlotte Marzocca (Mike Payne) of Wayne, and Theo Kadela (Ingrid Gres) of Totowa. Tommy will be dearly missed by his aunts, nieces, nephews, and cousins, as well as his cherished friends.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations the Concussion Legacy Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

Wesley J. Winkler, Jr. passed away on Monday, May 12, 2025; he was 77 years old.

Born in Paterson to Wesley and Etna Winkler, Wes was raised in Prospect Park, New Jersey. He was active in his church, Cedar Cliff United Methodist, where he met many lifelong friends as well as his future wife. Wes and Merrily were married in 1975 at the church where they’d met many years before. A few years later, they moved to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne where they raised two sons, Keith and Matthew. Wes’ and Merrily’s bond remained steadfast and strong over the years, and they were inseparable until the end.

Wes had a long career at New Jersey Bell and AT&T, where he progressed from installer to successful sales manager. He served in the Navy during Vietnam, and returned to complete the entirety of his higher education – undergraduate at Rutgers and MBA at Montclair State – taking night classes while working full time. Wes later retired from AT&T and had a short but successful tenure with Global Crossing.

One of Wes’ great loves was travel. Wes and Merrily took their children all over the United States, from local historic spots to national parks, as well as resorts in Hawaii. After their children had left home, they continued to travel, from cross-country drives to visit friends and family, to a cruise in Alaska. One of Wes’ proud accomplishments was having visited almost every state in the US.

Wes also loved his family dearly. Anyone who knew him for more than 10 minutes would have already heard proud stories of his children’s accomplishments. When his children were younger, he became very active in their Boy Scout troop, serving for years as Troop 104’s Committee Chairman. Once his sons were older, he and Merrily eagerly attended many of Matthew’s track meets and Keith’s musician gigs. Once he had grandchildren – eventually 6 of them – Wes loved seeing and playing with them, both at home and in the family’s beach house in Brigantine, NJ.

And that shore house was the place Wes loved to be most of all. He and Merrily rebuilt a small shore house into a vacation home that could fit them as well as their adult children and families. He loved time spent with them and with close friends at the beach. Wes had a lifelong love of the ocean, and could often be found body surfing or boogie boarding – either alone or with his kids and grandkids.

Wes was a devout member of the Methodist church, a member of both Wayne UMC and Grace UMC Wyckoff, where he again made lasting friendships. He raised his children in the church, and was active in bible study and other church activities. Through his church, Wes became devoted to helping those less fortunate. He served for many years as a board member of CUMAC food bank in Paterson, NJ; both he and Merrily spent much time volunteering there. Wes also volunteered building houses for Habitat for Humanity.

Wes had many other loves besides those as well. He loved watching sports, in particular football and golf. He was a lifelong handyman, tinkering and repairing his own home and later his children’s. And finally, he loved meeting new people, making friends wherever he went. Everyone he met soon knew Wes for his outgoing personality and love of helping friends and neighbors. He will be missed by all who had the fortune of knowing him.

Wes is survived by his wife, Merrily; his brother Wayne and sister-in-law Merry; his sons Keith and Matthew, and daughters-in-law Vicky and Maya; and his six grandchildren: Travis, June, Miles, Mira, Daphne, and Fern.

In lieu of flowers, donations to CUMAC: Feeding People, Changing Lives in Wes’ name would be greatly appreciated.

Louis A. Vanzini, age 90, of Wayne passed on Monday, May 12, 2025.

Louis was born to Frank and Erminia Vanzini in the family home at 124 Grassy Plain Street in Bethel, Connecticut. Raised in Bethel, he graduated from Bethel High School in 1952, where he served as Class President. Louis pursued higher education at the University of Connecticut, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Following his studies, Louis served in the United States Army, where he was stationed overseas in several countries. His service was marked by dedication, and he achieved the “Marksman” designation before being honorably discharged on August 31, 1963, upon completing his reserve obligation.

Louis built a successful career as an engineer, working for various companies before establishing his own business, P.C. Drilling, in 1972. Originally based in Paterson, New Jersey, the company later relocated to Fairfield. For three decades, Louis led the company with integrity and expertise until his son, Mark, assumed leadership in 2002. Under new management, the company evolved, merging with partners to become PCR Technologies, now located in Pine Brook, New Jersey.

Louis was a man of quiet brilliance, a steady presence whose intelligence and reliability were matched only by his subtle, quick wit. Beneath his reserved demeanor was a man of immense integrity, someone whose word was his bond and whose actions always aligned with his values. An avid snow skier and golfer, Louis found joy both on the slopes and fairways, but it was in his garage workshop that his true talents shined. With a natural gift for craftsmanship, he transformed raw wood into beautiful furniture, from intricate toy boxes and charming rocking horses for his grandchildren to custom fencing that framed his home with care. There was little he couldn’t fix, his hands skilled and his mind ever resourceful. Beyond his woodworking, Louis possessed a remarkable artistic flair, creating stunning paintings that revealed his keen eye for detail and beauty, a quiet testament to his boundless creativity.

He was the loving husband of the late Maureen Vanzini (d. 2022) and the mother of his children Beverlee Vanzini of Budd Lake; he was the devoted father of Mark Vanzini and his wife Lisa of Wayne, and Matthew Vanzini and his wife Jane of Somerset, and his step children Christopher Cerrina and his wife Elisa of Tuscaloosa, AL,  and Terry Davis and her husband Terry of Park Ridge; he was the cherished grandfather of Louis, Christian, Julia, Christopher, Emily and Lindsay; he was the loved brother of Diana Wellman of Newtown, CT; and devoted uncle of Kyle Wellman and Parris Wellman.

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Flowers or memorial donations would be greatly appreciated. For those interested in making a memorial donation please consider St Jude Children's Research Hospital or the Michael J Fox Foundation for Parkinson's Research.

Sandra J. Coyle, age 80, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, May 9, 2025.

The second of five children and the only daughter of Harold and Grace (Ruuth) Coyle, Sandy was born in Paterson and raised in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, NJ. She graduated from DePaul High School, Wayne, NJ, Class of 1962, and went on to complete her education at Berkeley Secretarial School in West Paterson, graduating with honors.

Sandy’s first job after graduating from Berkeley was with an insurance agency in Montclair.

Following her marriage and the blessing of a daughter and three sons, Sandy devoted the formative years of her children’s lives to being a loving mother and homemaker. Once her children gained a measure of independence, she reentered the workforce in 1991 as a secretary at the Federated Department Stores headquarters in Totowa. Her flair for efficiency, accuracy, and organizational skill quickly led to a series of promotions, culminating in her role as Executive Secretary to the Vice President of Field Logistics. She retired in 2001.

Sandy met her future husband, Edward Coyle, through one of Ed’s coworkers. While in college, Ed worked part-time at Grand Way Grocery, where a coworker excitedly told him about a girl she knew who happened to share his last name. After several attempts to meet—delayed because Sandy was busy babysitting her three younger brothers—the two finally went on a date. Her name was Sandra Coyle, and that first Sunday afternoon trip to Asbury Park launched a wonderful relationship and an even more extraordinary marriage that would span over 61 years.

After just eight months of dating, Ed proposed to Sandy at a boat basin marina on the Hudson River. With her radiant smile, Sandy said yes, and together they began planning their wedding. Her father had one condition: Sandy couldn’t marry until she was at least twenty. So, two days after her twentieth birthday, Sandy and Ed exchanged vows before God, family, and friends on Saturday, September 19, 1964, at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Sandy’s hometown of Wayne. Their reception was held at the Friar Tuck Inn in Clifton, and they honeymooned at Elbow Beach in Bermuda. That trip almost took a tragic turn when Sandy, unfamiliar with driving on the left side of the road, accidentally steered her moped into oncoming traffic!

The newlyweds began their life together in an apartment above Ed’s parents’ home in Elmwood Park, on 18 Church Street. In 1969, they moved into their brand-new home in the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, built on a cul-de-sac with four family homes next to each other along with Ed’s parents and two sisters and brother in laws. At one point, Sandy even petitioned the town to rename their road to “Coyle Way.” Though the effort was unsuccessful, it demonstrated her trademark tenacity.

Sandy and Ed remained in their Packanack Lake home to the present day. It was the perfect place to raise their four children, who enjoyed a warm and structured upbringing. Sandy ran a tight but loving household. Dinner was served daily at 4:30 PM sharp, and on Sundays at 5:00 PM, the Coyles were always at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church—often followed by a family trip to Hardie’s for hot dogs. A resourceful mother, Sandy was always ready to support her children. When algebra posed a challenge, she taught herself the subject so she could teach them. Her children knew they couldn’t get away with much, but they also knew how deeply she loved them—because she told them so every day.

Family vacations were filled with joyful memories. Each summer, Sandy and Ed took their family to Wildwood Crest, staying at the Pan American in Room 114. Fresh donuts from Packanack Bakery sweetened the two-and-a-half-hour drive. In later years, they enjoyed time at their condo in Ocean City, NJ, and wintered at Sugar Creek Country Club in Bradenton, Florida.

Sandy’s unwavering faith in God was the foundation of her life and informed all her most important decisions. Since 1969, she was a devoted parishioner at Immaculate Heart of Mary R.C. Church. A true prayer warrior, she prayed E-V-E-R-Y D-A-Y for everything and everyone. Despite her fiery spirit, she had a heart full of compassion. Who else but Sandy would give mouth-to-mouth resuscitation to her son’s dog during a seizure? And who else but Ed would happen to drive by at that exact moment—and keep on driving in classic, humorous Ed fashion?

Sandy’s love for Christmas was legendary. Each year, she sang “Happy Birthday” to Jesus on Christmas Day and hosted Ed’s family on Christmas Eve and her own on Christmas Day—nearly thirty years in a row.

She also had a cherished relationship with her favorite soap opera, The Young and the Restless. Watching it was sacred—no interruptions allowed. Her devotion to the show earned her nicknames like “Marge” and “The Duchess” from her kids.

Sandy will be remembered for countless reasons. Spirited and driven, she set high standards for herself and encouraged others to be their best. A true Energizer Bunny, she wouldn’t rest until she had walked at least 10,000 steps each day. She was a fighter—for her family, her beliefs, and even her cable bill, which she was disputing with Optimum just days before her passing.

To Sandy, her family extended beyond her immediate circle. Her daughters-in-law were daughters in her eyes, and she maintained strong friendships from her DePaul High School days.

The world was truly a better place with Sandy in it. Her legacy lives on in all those she touched.

Sandra was the beloved wife of Edward Coyle, with whom she shared 61 blessed years of marriage. She was the devoted mother of Cathy Lynn Coyle of Wayne; Ryan P. Coyle and wife Nancy of Wayne; Mark Coyle and wife Carla of Wayne; and Greg Coyle and wife Lara of Wayne. She was the cherished grandmother of Brittany (Jonathan), Ryan (Emma), Taylor (Zach), Nick (Olivia), Canon (Hannah), Tommy (Carla), Mackenzie, and Chelsea; the proud great-grandmother of Jaxon; and the dear sister of Harold “Buzz” Coyle of South Jersey, Ken Coyle and wife Ginger of Tempe, Arizona, Doug Coyle and wife Donna of North Carolina, and Wayne Coyle and wife Sissy of South Jersey. She is also lovingly remembered by numerous nieces and nephews. Sandy was predeceased by her parents, Harold and Grace (Ruuth) Coyle.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy in Sandy’s memory may consider a donation to one of the following charitable organizations:

Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center

P.O. Box 5028

Hagerstown, MD 21741-5028

To download a mailable form CLICK HERE

John Theurer Cancer Center

c/o Hackensack Meridian Health Foundation

92 2nd Street

Hackensack, NJ 07601

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Sandra J. Coyle

🌹 A Celebration of the Life of Joan Maiello 🌹

“To live in hearts we leave behind is not to die.”

Heaven gained an angel. Earth lost a soul who breathed love into the very air she touched. Joan Maiello was not just a mother, a sister, or a friend—she was a radiant force of love, sacrifice, and joy in human form.

Even at 72, Joan carried a zest for life that danced through every conversation, every moment, and every memory she helped create. She lived not from the world, but for the people in it. And when we say she loved? She chose love. Daily. Intentionally. Endlessly.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband, Frank—her partner in all things; her cherished son Robert, whose memory she kept alive with every breath; and her parents, Doris and Wilbur, whose hearts surely greeted her at Heaven’s gates.

She is survived by her devoted daughter, Nicole Maiello, a reflection of her strength and spirit, and her loving sister, Patricia Powers.

Her friends and classmates became her chosen family—faithful friends from as far back as four years old. Through every season of life, they stood strong by her side. And in her final days, they wrapped Joan’s daughter in fierce, faithful love—as if she were their own, as if Joan were their sister. That’s not just friendship—that’s forever. That’s the power of belonging, built through decades of devotion, unbreakable bonds, and deep, enduring love.

And it didn’t stop there. Joan’s world pulsed with a vibrant crew of volleyball teammates—bound by a rhythm as timeless as the tides—and former colleagues who transformed into chosen family. Joan was the epicenter of joy, warmth, inclusion, and belonging. She didn’t just create community—she embodied it.

Her love was felt across rooms, through the thickest of walls, beyond the borders of time and space. She brought joy to strangers. She gave kindness without condition. She lit up every room not just with her presence, but with the presence she gave others.

How do you put into words a woman whose impact is felt in silent tears and unfillable space? You don’t. You feel her. You live her legacy. You become her ripple.

We believe in what she believed—that this is not the end. That love does not die. That her spirit is not gone but ascended. Joan hasn’t left us. She’s loving us from a more soulful place. She's still choosing family. Still choosing love. First. Always.

So this is not goodbye. This is farewell for now. Until we meet again.

To honor Joan Maiello is to love with all your heart. To protect with all your might. To laugh like it’s your last day. To give when you have nothing left. To celebrate the people you’re gifted with—and never take one breath of that gift for granted.

She walks now with the angels who missed her dearly—Frank, Robert, Doris, Wilbur. And somewhere beyond this world, they’re laughing, embracing, and saying, “Welcome home.”

Joan Maiello didn’t just leave this world better than she found it. She redefined what better looks like.

And if we could choose family? We’d still choose her.

Elaine M Mingo (nee Tibus), age 90, of Wayne passed away peacefully at home on Monday, May 5, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Elaine M Mingo was born in Clifton, NJ and attended Clifton schools. She graduated Passaic General Hospital School of Nursing and attended Providence Lying-In Hospital in Rhode Island for post graduate study in obstetrics.

An active volunteer in Wayne Township all her life, she coached PAL and Our Lady of the Valley cheerleading squads and was the editor of the PAL newsletter. She worked in crisis intervention at the Wayne Counseling Center and was a member of the medical team for Special Olympics. For 18 years, Elaine was an active member of the Wayne First Aid Squad and as an exempt member continued to volunteer on the fund drive committee.

Our Lady of the Valley Parish in Wayne, was blessed with Elaine’s membership since the 1960s. She regularly prepared meals for Eva’s Kitchen and participated in the Cornerstone Women’s Retreats. Her love of knitting and crocheting inspired her to start the church’s Prayer Shawl Ministry more than 20 years ago. In 2015, she received The Vivere Christus Award in recognition of her outstanding and faithful service.

Elaine started her nursing career at Passaic General Hospital. For 20 years she was employed by Hospital Nurses Registry doing private duty, and was a staff nurse at Little Sisters of the Poor in Totowa until she retired.

She was predeceased by her husband of 41 years, James A. Mingo, of Wayne, NJ; her father and mother, John and Mary Tibus of Clifton, NJ; and her brother, John D. Tibus of Springdale, Utah.

Surviving is a loving and devoted family. Sons James G. Mingo of Wayne, NJ; Gerard J. Mingo of Wayne, NJ, partner Donna Cahill, and grandsons Michael and Matthew. Daughters Christine Mingo Byrd and grandson Justin of PA; Marianne Mingo Hazzard, husband Thomas and grandsons Jonathan and Joshua of Lake Worth, FL.

More than anything, Elaine loved the Lord, her family, friends, and neighborhood - with all her heart and soul. She was a giver! If you stopped by her home, which was always open and welcoming, you’d likely find her knitting, share a few laughs, and she would definitely try to feed you. She loved to cook, had a great sense of humor, and always put others first.

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In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Wayne First Aid Squad.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed.  Please click the link below to watch livestream.

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It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Judith A Kloo (nee Kieck), age 72, of Wayne, NJ.

Judith was born in Jersey City and raised in Secaucus, NJ.  She was one of two children of George and Violet Kieck.  While growing up in Secaucus, Judith attended Holy Family High School in Union City, NJ and graduated with the class of 1971.  After graduating high school, Judy attended Jersey City State College in Jersey City for a couple of years.

In 1971 while at a relative’s wedding, Judy stood as a radiant bridesmaid, not knowing the day would change her life forever. She was paired with an usher, a young man named Chuck Kloo, a close friend of the groom.  Judy initially exchanged only polite small talk.  As the celebration unfolded, their connection blossomed into something more. They hit it off wonderfully and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on Easter Sunday, April 14, 1974, Judy and Chuck exchanged wedding vows at Immaculate Conception Church in Secaucus surrounded by friends and family becoming husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Secaucus for a few years before moving to Wayne Township in 1977.  While residing in Wayne, Judy and Chuck welcomed the birth of their one and only son, Matthew.  Judy and Chuck called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together.

Shortly after getting married, Judy decided to become a full-time homemaker.  Judy’s dedication to being a wife and mother was truly her calling and where she flourished.  Those who knew Judy knew that her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Judy than providing for and spending time with her family.  Judy discovered a new kind of joy with the addition of a “daughter” and especially when her grandchildren were born. In her grandchildren, Judy found not just delight, but a new sense of purpose.  She treasured spending time with her grandchildren and spoiling them to no end.  Throughout the years, Judy cherished hosting the holidays at her home, especially Christmas.  Judy and Chuck recently celebrated an amazing fifty-one years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Judy was not only devoted to her family, but also to her Christian Faith.  For many years she was an active member of the United Methodist Church in Wayne.  Judy was a wonderfully social lady who could talk to anyone about anything.  She and her husband Chuck owned a home in Naples, Florida where they would spend their winters.  There, the couple spent countless afternoons and evenings with their friends and neighbors in front of their home eating, drinking and talking.  Those who participated in the gatherings called it “Driveway Therapy.”

Judy will forever be remembered as an outgoing and compassionate lady who deeply loved her family and friends.  She was a very special person who touched the lives of many people.  She will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Judy is survived by her husband Alfred “Chuck” Kloo of Wayne, NJ, son Matthew Kloo and his wife Tracy of Wayne, NJ, sister Patricia Beider and her fiancé James of Toms River, NJ, two grandchildren Braylee and Braeden Kloo both of Wayne, NJ, and many beloved extended family members.  She was predeceased by her parents George and Violet Kieck of Secaucus, NJ.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Police Unity Tour in Judy’s name would be greatly appreciated.

Peter Mierop, age 87, of North Haledon, passed peacefully at home on Sunday, April 27, 2025.

He was born to Jacob and Elizabeth Mierop at the family home in Clifton. He was raised in Clifton and graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1955.

Pete began his working life early, delivering the Herald & News newspaper as a paperboy in Clifton. As he grew older, he took a job in the produce department of the Grand Union grocery store in town, where he developed a strong work ethic and a knack for customer service. Pete later transitioned into the trucking industry, working as a driver for Oppelaar & Meyer Trucking in Kearny, transporting goods with reliability and care. He went on to become a route man for the Frito-Lay Corporation in Little Falls, where he built lasting relationships with his clients. Eventually, Pete finished his career proudly serving Bergen and Passaic Counties as a trusted route man for Pepperidge Farm, known for his dedication, friendly demeanor, and commitment to doing the job right.

Pete’s life was a living testament to his deep faith and unwavering devotion to the Lord. A lifelong member of Hope Reformed Church in Clifton, he poured his heart into the church community that he loved so dearly. Over the years, Pete served in countless roles — as a deacon, elder, Sunday School teacher, Sunday School Superintendent, Youth Group leader, and Prayer Group leader — always leading with humility, kindness, and a servant’s heart. His quiet strength, compassionate guidance, and steadfast spirit left a lasting imprint on everyone he met. Pete didn’t just talk about his faith; he lived it daily, offering an enduring example of what it meant to walk closely with God.

Pete was a man whose deep faith shaped every part of his life. Outgoing, kind-hearted, and full of genuine warmth, he was always ready to lend a hand to anyone in need. If there was a job to be done or someone who needed help, Pete never hesitated — he simply jumped in without a second thought.

Pete met the love of his life, Karen Meyer, while working for her father at Opelaar & Meyer Trucking in Kearny. Their connection quickly grew into a deep and lasting love, and they were married on September 28, 1963, at Bethel Christian Reformed Church in Paterson. After their wedding, they set off for their honeymoon in Florida, driving Pete’s beloved 1959 white convertible Pontiac. Over the years, Pete and Karen built a strong, devoted marriage filled with love, laughter, and faith, celebrating sixty-one wonderful years together. Their life together was richly blessed with two daughters, Kimberly and Wendy, who were the joy of their hearts.

At home, Pete was like a real-life Dr. Dolittle, happily caring for a lively menagerie of pets. Over the years, he and his family shared their home with their beloved terrier, Muffin, as well as three cats, rabbits, fish, hamsters, a chameleon, and even a gerbil. Pete had a natural way with animals, showing them the same kindness, patience, and gentle spirit that he offered to everyone in his life.

Pete was the loving husband of sixty-one years to Karen (nee Meyer) Mierop; devoted father of Kimberly Veinberg and her husband Dima of North Haledon and Wendy DeWall and her husband Stephen of Newtown Square, PA; cherished grandfather of Anya Veinberg, Peter DeWall, Nathan DeWall, Elise DeWall, and Anna DeWall; and loving brother of Elizabeth Kranik, Bertha Bassani, and Jacob Mierop.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations in Pete’s memory may be made to: Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center, 297 Lafayette Avenue, Hawthorne.

Thomas P. Ayres

February 28, 1948 – April 26, 2025

Thomas P. Ayres, age 77, of Parsippany, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on Saturday, April 26, 2025, surrounded by his loved ones.

Born to Raymond and Audrey Ayres at Wickersham Hospital in New York City, Tom grew up in the family home at 47-24 204th Street in Bayside, Queens. He graduated from Saint Helena’s High School in the Bronx with the Class of 1965. The commute to high school and after-school jobs left little time for sports. Still, Tom played catcher for a Catholic Youth Organization (CYO) baseball team. In his senior year, he formed his own Police Athletic League (PAL) team with friends, proudly helping them win the 1965 Queens County Championship for their age group.

Following high school, Tom answered the call to serve his country, enlisting in the United States Marine Corps. He served honorably, attaining the rank of Sergeant and receiving the Good Conduct Medal and the National Defense Service Medal. His sense of discipline, loyalty, and quiet strength would be hallmarks of his life.

After his military service, Tom pursued his education at night and on weekends while working full time, first at Western Connecticut State College (now University) and then at The New School in New York City. There, he earned both his bachelor’s and master’s degrees focusing on Human Resources (HR) - a testament to his self-driven spirit, desire to succeed, and unwavering commitment to providing for his family.

Tom’s professional journey was as hardworking and honest as he was. He started working as a boy with humble jobs — mucking out stalls at Bayside Stables, hauling stacks of Long Island Star Journal on his paper route, bringing home the meat as a delivery boy for “Pete’s” Meat, and hustling as a messenger at the Equitable Life Assurance Company. After his time in the Marines, he joined Xerox Corporation as a service technician, eventually working his way up to become Personnel Operations Manager for the New York Region. His HR career continued to evolve at CYRO Industries, which was ultimately acquired by Evonik Industries in Parsippany, where he rose to the position of Vice President of Human Resources for North America. He retired in January 2011 after a long and distinguished career, respected for his leadership, fairness, wisdom, and unwavering work ethic.

Tom was known for his serious demeanor, but beneath it lay a wry sense of humor and an endless repertoire of "dad jokes" that he delivered with perfect timing. He had a deep appreciation for life’s simple pleasures: photographing quiet moments, tending his roses, reading on the back deck, and hitting the greens as a longtime member — and former board member — of Newton Country Club. He also loved to travel, embracing each new place with a sense of wonder and gratitude.

A natural mentor, Tom guided countless young professionals with patience and encouragement. Outside the office, he shared his love of sports with the next generation, coaching and managing the Morris County Dynamo soccer teams. Both on and off the field, he inspired others through his steady leadership and kind heart.

Tom truly shined in his role as a grandfather, a chapter of life he cherished deeply. After retirement, he became a “professional grandpa,” eagerly cheering from the sidelines, capturing photos of milestones and special events, hosting sleepovers, organizing holiday celebrations, and creating memories that his grandchildren will carry forever.

After years of companionship and love, Tom recently married his beloved Marie Armenio on April 17, 2025. He was the proud and devoted father of Thomas Ayres and his wife Jennifer of Milltown; Sherry Ayres of Jersey City; and MaryAlice Ayres of Wharton. He was the adored grandfather of Fiona Marin-Ayres, Brady Ayres, Alaura Ayres, Jordyn Ayres, and Savannah Budinger.

Tom also leaves behind his loving siblings: Raymond P. Ayres, Jr. and his wife Linda of St. Marys, GA; Nancy Pricci and her husband William of Amityville, NY; Patricia Harford of Patchogue, NY; Michael Ayres and his wife Leslie of Marietta, GA; and Mary Beth Daly and her husband Bill of Kings Park, NY. His many nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends will forever remember his steadfast love, sharp wit, and generous spirit.

In place of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Lustgarten Foundation in Tom’s honor, supporting the fight against pancreatic cancer — a cause close to the family's heart.

Tom's life was a beautiful example of quiet strength, deep loyalty, and steadfast love. His legacy will live on in every life he touched.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Lustgarten Foundation would be greatly appreciated.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed.

Hans Ruffler, age 88, of Pompton Plains, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 25, 2025.

Hans was born in Heilbronn, Germany, the third of four children and the only son to his parents, Karl and Else (née Rechkemmer) Ruffler. The Ruffler family lived in a house in the city center, above the family’s furniture store and upholstery rooms.

Hans’ grandfather, Karl Ruffler, had left Germany for the United States in the 1870s and become a U.S. citizen in 1878, but then returned to Germany and opened the furniture store in the mid-1880s.

In 1944, the Ruffler family’s house was destroyed during a bombing of the city center. Hans’ father was killed, and his mother and the four children, sheltering in the basement during the bombing, eventually found refuge outside of the city. After living in multiple temporary locations, the family rebuilt their house and business.

The Rufflers lived near the Neckar River, where Hans swam often. He and his friends once built a raft from scraps they found along the river bank. They toiled many hours. When they finally floated down the river, they realized they had forgotten to account for the current making it impossible to come back. The friends abandoned their raft and resigned to a long walk home.

Hans’ love for adventure was undeterred. As a teenager, he and his friends went on weeklong excursions to Switzerland by bicycle. In his teen years, he also developed a lifelong love of photography, inspired by his father.

During high school, students were encouraged to have an American pen pal. Hans became pen pals with a girl living in Mesa, Arizona. They stayed in contact long after high school.

After graduating, Hans completed a three-year apprenticeship to prepare him to take over the family business. However, plans changed, and in 1957 he followed his sister Eva to the United States instead, landing jobs such as surveyor’s helper and Bond Bread salesman, making early morning deliveries and singing as he drove. (To his surprise, he found out much later that his customers could hear him and had dubbed him the “singing bread man”.)

Hans’ American pen pal’s parents owned a swimming pool business in Mesa. They invited Hans to come and work for them, and he was ready for a new adventure. In Arizona, Hans spent his free time exploring the surroundings in his first car, a Studebaker, marveling at the landscape so different from what he knew.

Hans’ mother, stepfather, and younger sister, Ute, arrived in New Jersey in 1959. His mother sent him a plane ticket to return to New Jersey. Shortly thereafter, he was inducted into the Army and went to basic training at Camp Kilmer, where officers encouraged him to pursue higher education.

After an honorable discharge, Hans began working at Warner-Lambert Pharmaceutical Company in Morris Plains. He enrolled at Fairleigh Dickinson University in Madison, attending classes at night over the next twelve years and graduating with a B.S. in Marketing and, ultimately, an MBA.

As if he weren’t busy enough during those years, he found time to fall in love with a fellow immigrant, from Sweden, Gunnel (née Larsson), who also worked in the International Division of Warner Lambert. In 1966, they married and held their reception at Germania Park, Dover. They then settled into a garden apartment in Parsippany and over the next few years, they welcomed their daughters Lisa and Susan.

In 1971, Hans took a job with American Cyanamid in Wayne and the family moved to Packanack Lake. The house at 1 Sunset Terrace was a dream come true for the couple. Hans was thrilled to have a workshop in the basement, where he made bookshelves, a toy chest, candlesticks, and later on an incredible dollhouse with handmade furniture. He built a work bench for his girls and introduced them to woodworking. (Much later, he also built a playhouse for the girls, “1½  Sunset Terrace,” from scraps after a renovation project. The playhouse was eventually taken over by his grandchildren. It is still there!)

The family joined the Packanack Community Church, where Hans and Gunnel made lifelong friendships and Hans sang in the church choir, served as a trustee, and helped wherever he could lend a hand.

Hans and Gunnel welcomed a third daughter, Heidi, in 1974.

In February 1979, the Rufflers moved to Gosport, England after Hans accepted a transfer, which lasted until the summer of 1980. The family then returned to their treasured home in Packanack Lake, which had been rented out.

In 1982, Hans accepted a position with Luitpold Pharma, a pharmaceutical company in Munich, Germany. This lasted until 1999, when the company was acquired by a Japanese company, Sankyo GMBH, and Hans retired.

One of Hans’ countless highlights of being back in Germany was reconnecting with his German relatives, including his older sister, Inge, who had stayed in Germany, and her family. He went on many mountain climbing weekend trips with two cousins also named Hans, a cause of confusion when the two other fellows would call out “Hans” and all three responded.

One other highlight was the family’s cabin in Sweden, where Hans used his skills and strength, felling trees and building a stone path when Gunnel asked for one.

Other highlights included making a great group of friends and enjoying an active lifestyle, skiing in the Alps, hiking, learning to play the guitar, and traveling. Hans also developed a love of cooking, exploring many German recipes and keeping track in the margins of his cookbooks of the date and how well the recipe turned out. (Almost all, “very good!”)

After retirement, Hans and Gunnel once again returned to their home in Packanack Lake and were welcomed back warmly by their friends and family. Hans re-joined the church choir and took up watercolor painting with a group of friends at the Packanack Lake Clubhouse. He also loved playing tennis and enjoyed a variety of classes at the Center for Lifelong Learning at Kinnelon Library.

Hans and Gunnel welcomed numerous grandchildren: Alexandra and bonus granddaughter Sarah, Markus, Mia, Annika, and Matteo. The grandchildren were introduced to German nursery rhymes and songs by their Opa (grandfather in German). In time, family members couldn’t help but notice several of Opa’s traits among the grandkids, including athleticism, music, art, curiosity, mischievousness, interest in cooking and sharing food, and a love for nature.

In 2020, Hans and Gunnel sold their beloved home in Packanack Lake and moved to Cedar Crest. The pandemic had just started. In spite of restrictions, Hans and Gunnel were lucky to start playing bocce and meet fellow residents that summer.

Eventually, hiking, gardening, exercise classes, and pickle ball became part of their daily lives. Last summer, Hans had a chance to show some of his watercolor paintings at Cedar Crest, an occasion for an extended family gathering. Time seemed to pass faster than ever.

Hans is survived by Gunnel, his wife of 59 years, daughters Lisa, Susan (Andrew), and Heidi, grandchildren Alexandra, Sarah, Markus, Mia, Annika, and Matteo, his sister Ute Morris, many nieces and nephews, and friends in the U.S., Germany, Sweden, U.K., and Portugal.

For those unable to attend in person, the ceremony will be live-streamed at  https://www.youtube.com/@packanackcommunitychurch/streams.

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Hans’ name to the Packanack Community Church or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

Virginia A. Bailey NEE Nazzaro, Age 74, of Pequannock NJ passed away on Wednesday April 23, 2025.

Virginia was born in Paterson to Dr. Rocco and Pearline Nazzaro, the second of five siblings. She grew up in Wayne NJ, attending Wayne schools and graduated from Wayne Valley High School's Class of 1968. She extended her education at The Wilfred Academy.

She worked at various clerical jobs until being employed by New Jersey Bell Telephone Company in Morristown.

She was married to Christopher Bailey and was blessed with a son, Anthony. She leaves behind a son, Anthony Bailey, his wife Heather and two grandsons, Austin and Kyle. Her siblings, Rocco Nazzaro and his wife Dorothy, Kathleen Stanicki and her husband Gary, Loretta Maloney and her husband Martin, Lou Nazzaro and his wife Eileen and five nephews and a niece.

She was loved by all and will be dearly missed.

Patricia “Pat” (nee Lazzaro) Santana, age 71, of Wayne for thirteen years and previously of Clifton, passed Friday, April 18, 2025.

She was born to Salvatore and Theresa Lazzaro in Passaic and raised in Clifton.  Pat graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1972.  

Pat worked as a data processor for entire working career.  First for the ADP Corporation on Market Street in Paterson, then the UPS Corporation in Parsippany, and finally the GAF Corporation first in Wayne and later in Parsippany before retiring in 2018.

Pat met the love of her life, Benjamin “Ben” Santana, at the Dealer’s Inn on Main Avenue in Paterson.  Apparently, Ben’s language was a little salty and Pat called him out for it.  That was their first encounter.  It was soon followed up by a formal date for dinner at the Jade Fountain in Clifton.  They fell in love and decided to spend the rest of their lives together.  Benny and Pat exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, September 8, 1979 at St. John Kanty Church on Speer Avenue in Clifton Pat was just out of high school.  Everyone celebrated the marriage at a reception at the Athenia Veteran’s Post at 147 Huron Avenue in Clifton.  Afterwards, the newlyweds set off for their honeymoon to Virginia Beach, Virginia.  After the honeymoon, the first place they called home was a first-floor apartment at 193 Ludington Avenue in Clifton.  From there they moved into a first-floor apartment in a four-family home at 227 Speer Avenue in Clifton that was owned by Pat’s mother.  In 2010 Ben and Pat moved to Wayne.

Pat was truly a one-of-a-kind person, a vibrant spirit with a personality that could light up any room.  Her love for music was evident in her adoration for The Beatles and Phil Collins, and her caring nature made her a beloved friend to many.  A lifelong cat lover, she formed deep bonds with her furry companions, especially Nika and Jordan, though she welcomed numerous feline friends throughout the years.  Pat enjoyed her evenings, engrossed in her favorite TV shows like Survivor, The Andy Griffith Show, 48 Hours, Court TV,  and various programs on the Lifetime Channel.  In the kitchen, she was a culinary wizard, whipped up delicious sausage, lasagna, savory pastas, and delightful baked goods, including her famous Rum Balls and all kinds of Italian specialties. However, despite her love for cooking there was one dish that she could never bring herself to enjoy: spaghetti, which she humorously dismissed as looking too much like worms.  Pat’s unique quirks and boundless affection left a lasting impression on those who had the pleasure of knowing her.

Pat was the loving wife of wife of forty-five years to the late Benjamin Santana (d. 2024); she was the loved sister of Vincent Consalvo of Beverly Hills, FL and his late wife Penny (d. 2021); she was also dearly loved by her in-laws, Juana Santana of Clifton, the late Patrick Santana (d. 2005), Monte Santana, Jr. and his wife Barbara of Clifton, and Maria and Hector Lopez of Clifton; she was the cherished aunt of Monte Santana, III and his wife Ashley and Vincent Santana and Nina Ibarria.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

John David (Jack) Coleman, age 91, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 18, 2025.

Jack was born in southern New Jersey, in the town of Matawan. He was the second of two sons born to Edward J. and Agnes (Shields) Coleman and was raised in the family home at 308 Montgomery Street in Jersey City.

A proud member of the Class of 1950, John graduated from Ferris High School before continuing his education at St. Peter’s College in Jersey City. Determined and hardworking, he paid his own way through college and earned his bachelor’s degree before being called to serve in the United States Army. From 1956 to 1958, he trained in Ft. Lee Virginia and deployed to Korea where he served his country honorably. While there, he meticulously photo journaled his experiences.

Jack began his professional career with Equitable Life Insurance Company, where he was fortunate to receive early IBM computer training - a fortuitous opportunity that launched him into a long and successful career in the emerging world of technology. As a programmer and systems analyst, he contributed his expertise to several well-known companies, including Union Camp, ABC, Western Union, Otis Elevator, Nasdaq, American Express (in the World Trade Center), ADP and finally, Computer Horizons, where he worked until his retirement in the mid 1990s.

It was at Equitable Life that John met a young woman named Patricia Prior. Though his job would change, his heart stayed with Pat. The two fell in love and were married on Saturday, September 12, 1959, in a church in Jersey City. They began their life together in Jersey City on Varick Street before moving across town to 112 Duncan Avenue. In 1968, they made a lasting move to the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, where they raised their three sons and shared a loving marriage that spanned 63 years until Pat’s passing in February 2023.

Outside of work, Jack was a devoted family man. A loving and involved father, he poured his energy into raising his sons, creating lasting memories of pickup basketball games and family bike rides. He was an amateur artist and known for his corny Dad jokes. An avid self-taught handyman, he often spent time working on his cars and home repairs. As a grandfather, he cherished every moment spent with his four grandsons and three granddaughters, always offering kindness, wisdom, and warmth.

John was the beloved husband of the late Patricia (Prior) Coleman; the loving father of John R. Coleman and his wife Robin of Wayne, Robert Coleman and his wife Irene of Butler, and Martin Coleman and his wife Christine of Clifton; the proud grandfather of John Coleman III and his wife Lina, Emily Coleman, Marjorie Coleman, Christopher Coleman, Thomas Coleman, Maura Coleman, and Brian Coleman; the adoring great-grandfather of Jameson and Raelynn; and the dear brother of the late Edward Coleman.

John Matysik Jr., age 82, of Wayne passed on Friday, April 18, 2025 after an illness.

John was born on May 31, 1942, the oldest of John and Genevieve Matysik's three children. John grew up in Clifton, NJ and graduated from Clifton High School. John was drafted into the Army during the Vietnam War. He was honorably discharged in March of 1966.

John was quiet and humble and had the strongest work ethic of anyone you could ever meet.  John worked as a tool and die maker in various machine shops for most of his life.  His daughter recalls many years of her childhood where her father would work 10 hours a day, 6 days a week, standing in a hot machine shop.  Despite those conditions, he rarely missed a day of work.  Yearly summer vacations took place in Seaside Heights, NJ.  The family also took trips to Washington, DC and Disney World. After his son-in-law Anthony passed away in 2009, John immediately went back into "dad mode" and made sure Heather, Krystian and AJ always had the help they needed. John and Eleanor even moved in with Heather and the kids for the first year after Anthony's passing.

John could fix just about anything and was always the first call Heather made when something broke at the house (which was often).  John took great pride in his lawn, which was often described as a "mattress".  John also spent nearly 16 years taking care of the lawn at Heather's house and taking care of the pool.  Every Sunday morning John would go grocery shopping and bring bagels to Heather and the kids and ham for his grand-dog, JJ.  John took up skiing when Heather was younger because she wanted to ski like her friends. After a few years, Heather decided she didn't like being cold and quit but John continued to ski for many years, into his 70's.  In recent years John began going to Reloaderz where he enjoyed his new hobby of target shooting.  The employees got to know him very well and even got him a cake and sang happy birthday to him a few years ago.

John was introduced to the love of his life, Eleanor, by a friend.  The two dated shortly before John was drafted into the Army.  They wrote letters to each other while he was away and when he returned from the Army he proposed.  John and Eleanor were married on September 22, 1968 at Sacred Heart RC Church in Bloomfield.  After their honeymoon in Niagara Falls, John and Eleanor settled in Belleville.  John and Eleanor welcomed their daughter, Heather, on October 7, 1976 and a few months later moved to Wayne, where John continued to reside in the same home until his passing.  John and Eleanor enjoyed nearly 45 years of a devoted marriage until Eleanor's passing in 2013.  John's greatest pride and joy were his grandchildren, Krystian and AJ.  He would tell everyone he met, from the cashier at Stop and Shop to the hospital and rehab staff, all about them.  He attended every school event that he could and enjoyed taking them for ice cream and to Dave and Busters.

John was predeceased by his wife Eleanor in 2013, his sister Elizabeth in 2024 and his son-in-law Anthony in 2009.  He will be deeply missed by his daughter Heather, grandchildren Krystian and AJ Lanza, brother Ralph and his wife Phyllis, nieces and nephews PJ (Kim), Maryanne, Ron (Kim) and Doug (Erin), the Lanza family and many other extended family members, friends and neighbors.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Arnold Raquet, age 93, of Wayne, NJ.

Arnold passed away peacefully on Friday, April 18, 2025.  Arnold was born and raised in New York City and was one of two children to Andrew and Anna Raquet.  While growing up in New York, Arnold attended Brooklyn High School of Automotive Trades.  

Following his high school graduation with the class of 1950, Arnold found employment quickly with W. & J. Sloane.  There he was hired as a delivery truck driver.  Arnold worked for W. & J. Sloane for more than thirty years until the company’s closing.  After W. & J. Sloane closed its doors, Arnold took a position with the Township of Wayne.  Throughout the years, Arnold held several positions with Wayne Township and eventually became a Water Pollution Control Plant Operator.  This was the position Arnold held until his retirement in 2010.

In the mid 1950’s, Arnold agreed to go on a blind date with a young attractive woman by the name of Gloria Wisloh.  The two hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on April 29, 1956 the two exchanged wedding vows surrounded by family and friends and became husband and wife.

The newlyweds settled in Brooklyn after first getting married and then moved to Wayne, NJ.  While living in Wayne, they welcomed the birth of their one and only daughter, Evelyn.  Arnold and Gloria raised their daughter in Wayne and called it their home for the rest of their lives together.

Arnold enjoyed tinkering with all sorts of machinery and electronics and could fix and build just about anything.  He also never lost interest in cars, he treasured working on and maintaining his automobiles throughout his life.  One of his favorite cars he owned was his pink and black 1957 Buick.  In 2005, a truly special event occurred for the Raquet family.  The Norway Spruce tree on the Raquet family’s property was selected to be the Christmas Tree at Rockefeller Center in New York City.  

Aside from all of Arnold’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Arnold than providing for and spending time with his friends and family.  Arnold and his wife Gloria cherished over forty-six years of loving and loyal marriage until Gloria’s passing in 2003

Arnold was a man of few words, known for his quiet stubbornness and tendency to keep to himself. He wasn't the type to seek out conversation or spend time in crowds. Those who took the time to look past his reserved nature discovered something unexpected.  He had a warm, thoughtful side marked by loyalty and kindness. Beneath his tough exterior was a man who cared deeply for family and friend.

Arnold will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  He was a truly special person who touched the lives of many people.  He will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Arnold is survived by his daughter Evelyn Zerenner and her husband Steve of Newark, DE, two grandchildren: Michael Zerenner, and Kaitlyn Zerenner both of Newark, DE.  He was predeceased by his wife Gloria Raquet in 2003 and by his brother Robert Raquet.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Arnold’s name may be made to the Friends of Wayne Animal Shelter PO Box 3701, Wayne, NJ 07470

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Agostino V. Rottino, age 84, of Wayne, NJ. He was known by all family and friends as Augie.

Augie was born and raised in Jersey City, NJ and was the only child of Anthony and Antoinette Rottino.

One of Augie’s first jobs as a young 5-year old boy was scooping Italian ice in his grandfather’s deli. Then at the age of 15 he started cutting hair at his father’s barber shop. Augie went to barber school and obtained a legal license to cut hair.

He attended St. Aloysius High School in Jersey City graduating with the class of 1959. Upon graduating Augie enrolled at St. Peter’s University located in Jersey City where he earned his Bachelor's Degree. Augie found work quickly after graduating from college and accepted a position as an economics teacher with Snyder High in Jersey City. Later, after establishing his career as a teacher, Augie earned his Master’s Degree in Education at Seton Hall University.

Augie was a dedicated teacher, known for his passion for helping others grow and succeed. After four years in the classroom, he felt a pull toward something new. Teaming up with a close friend who shared his entrepreneurial spirit, Augie co-founded the Commerce Employment Agency in Morristown, NJ. Their goal was to connect talented individuals with meaningful job opportunities. Augie and his partner owned and operated the business for more than ten years.

While the experience was rewarding and full of valuable lessons, Augie eventually felt a strong pull back to his roots. He returned to the field of education with a renewed sense of purpose. This time, he brought with him a wealth of real-world experience, which enriched his teaching and allowed him to connect with students more deeply. He accepted a position as the director of Project Coop in Newark, NJ. He also became the Business Administrator for the Board of Education in Lyndhurst and for Englewood Cliffs Board of Education. Later, Augie earned the positions of Superintendent and Business Administrator for the Leonia Board of Education. Augie would hold these positions until his retirement in 2005. The George Washington School in Leonia dedicated the Agostino V. Rottino Gymnatorium in 2005 to Augie’s legacy. Throughout his life and career, Augie owned and operated several businesses including The Breadbasket Deli and Hollar’s Restaurant in Clifton, NJ. In his retirement, he acted as a consultant to several boards of education in New Jersey including Little Ferry, Hasbrouck Heights, and Paterson. He was hired to oversee the building project of the George Washington School in Edgewater. Throughout his career, which spanned over fifty years, Augie was truly loved and well respected by his colleagues and his peers. Alongside his career, Augie was also on the Board of Directors at The Woods at Waterview Estates in Wayne, where he resided.

Augie and Mary Jane met in September of 1991 and formed a friendship that lasted forever. They moved in together in 2000, married, and lived happily in Wayne, NJ for 25 years. They had a loving and loyal marriage. Augie and Mary Jane enjoyed setting off on cruises to a variety of breathtaking destinations, each vacation bringing new adventures and cherished memories. Among all the places they visited, Aruba held a special place in their hearts.

Augie was a fan of the New York Yankees and the San Francisco 49ers. His greatest hobby was stamp collecting. He also had an obsession for following the New York Stock Exchange. Above all else, Augie’s greatest passion was for his family. Nothing in the world meant more to Augie than spending time with and providing for his family.

Augie will forever be remembered as a dedicated educator, a loving and devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was truly a special person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Augie is survived by his wife Mary Jane (nee Gallagher) of Wayne, NJ, his son Anthony Rottino of Toms River, NJ, two daughters: Alicia Johnson and her husband James of Green Pond, NJ and Denise Donohue and her husband Michael of Myrtle Beach, SC, six grandchildren; Kelly Sherin and her husband Alex of Hoboken, NJ. Michael Rottino and his wife Stefanie of Toms River, NJ, Matthew Rottino of Newark, DE, Jacquelyn Johnson of Green Pond, NJ, Julia Johnson of Green Pond, NJ and Michael Donohue of Cary, NC. Augie was predeceased by his parents Anthony and Antoinette Rottino.

For those unable to attend in person, the funeral mass will also be livestreamed. To watch the livestream, please click on the link below.

https://ecatholic.live/I6y40566uVswWhCySGEuIssgRFMVtQHE/channels/1/event/1000/public/view?signature=22e6392aa86265376813592f37c3ee7c1ff5e53f53d9f9117142ed9db8ace767

In lieu of flowers, donations in Agostino’s name may be made to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center or The Wounded Warrior Project

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Anna M. Froehner (nee Temple), age 101, of Pompton Plains, NJ.

Anna passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 16, 2025 while receiving the loving care of her family.  Anna was born and raised in Secaucus, New Jersey, and her life took a tragic turn before she could even form memories.  Her mother passed away when Anna was just a year and a half old. Left without a mother, she was taken in by her Aunt Ella, who raised her in an apartment above a well-known establishment named Mosie’s Tavern.  Mosie’s Tavern was a local bar nestled in the heart of Secaucus. For the first few years of her life, Anna believed Ella was her mother, clinging to her with the trust and innocence only a child could offer. It wasn’t until she turned five that she discovered the truth.  At five years old, Anna found out that the woman she called “mom” was actually her aunt. The revelation marked the beginning of a lifelong journey of self-discovery.

She attended A. J. Demarest high school in Hoboken graduating with the class of 1941.  After graduating from high school, Aunt Ella handed her bus fare and told Anna to head down to the Social Security office in town where they would help getting a job.  The Social Security Administration Office helped her by finding her a job as a secretary at a local insurance office. 

On Anna’s second day at work a young handsome man by the name of Kenneth H. Froehner spotted Anna in the office window when getting off the bus.  Anna previously met Ken at a church group meeting.  The first night they met, Ken saw Anna from across the room and asked a mutual friend if he could meet her.  When Anna found out, she went to the ladies’ room and hid there for the rest of the night!  She was only fifteen and not allowed to date, but she admits that he was very handsome.  Ken got off the bus, went into the office and spoke to her, inviting her to the movies.  The two hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on May 27, 1944 at St. Matthews Lutheran Church in Secaucus, they exchanged wedding vows and became husband and wife surrounded by family and friends.

Since Ken was still serving in the US Navy, the newlyweds moved around a bit from Oregon to a naval base in Florida.  Anna also lived with her in-laws for a short time in West New York, NJ.  The couple also lived in Lakehurst where they welcomed their first born, their son Ken.  Then, after moving to Dumont, NJ, the family welcomed their second son Gregg and their only daughter Dorell.  As the family grew, they eventually settled in Wayne, NJ where they would spend the next thirty years.  In 1989, Anna and Ken retired, moving to Toms River, NJ.  Later in 1998, they moved to Chester, NJ to be closer to family.  In 2014, Anna and Ken became residents of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains. 

Immediately after getting married, Anna devoted her life to being a full-time homemaker.  This was indeed Anna’s calling and where she flourished.  It was truly apparent to everyone that knew Anna, her greatest passion in life was for her family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Anna than providing for and spending time with her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great-great granddaughter.  Anna and Ken cherished an amazing seventy years of loving and loyal marriage until Ken’s passing in 2015.  Tragedy also struck Anna and her family’s lives when her son Gregg passed away in the tragic and devastating events of September 11, 2001. 

As Anna’s children got older, she decided to get back into the workforce and found employment quickly with Valley Cleaners in Wayne where she worked as a front counter clerk and seamstress.  She worked for Valley Cleaners for over ten years.  She also co-owned a small gift shop with one of her neighbors in Midland Park, NJ for a short time. 

Anna was not only dedicated to her family, but also to her Lutheran Faith.  She and her husband Ken were long-time members of St Timothy Lutheran Church in Wayne.  In her spare time, Anna loved to go shopping with family and friends.  Her favorite item to shop for was by far, clothing.  She also treasured playing a variety of card games with her friends such as Canasta and Pinochle. 

Every Friday night, Anna and Ken would take turns hosting dinner with their close childhood friends, creating a cozy tradition that everyone looked forward to.  The men would settle in for their weekly chess matches, filled with quiet concentration.  Meanwhile, the ladies prepared dinner in the kitchen then afterwards all played their favorite card games.

Friday was also a day set aside for Anna to get her hair done.  Anna was the kind of woman who never left the house without looking impeccably put together. Whether she was headed to the grocery store or a dinner party, she treated every outing like a special occasion. Her makeup was always flawlessly applied and her outfit meticulously coordinated.  

Throughout the years, Ken and Anna traveled across the entire United States.  Anna would never set foot on an airplane or boat, so their traveling was done by way of the automobile.  They visited a variety of placed withing the US including New Mexico, the Locks in New York, The Grand Canyon, and Yellowstone National Park to name a few.  The first and only time that Anna traveled by boat was a memorable trip to Nova Scotia. 

Anna will forever be remembered as truly devoted mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and great-great grandmother.  She was a very special person who touched the lives of everyone around her and will be sincerely missed by family and friends.

Anna is survived by her son Kenneth A Froehner of Pompton Lakes, NJ, her daughter Dorell McNamara and her husband Tom of Wayne, NJ, Mary M. Froehner, daughter-in-law of Lakewood Ranch, FL; seven grandchildren; Kimberly Gifford and her husband Mike of Massillon, OH, Kenneth W. Froehner and his wife Kristen of Pompton Lakes, NJ, Kyle Froehner and his wife Casey of Wayne, NJ, Meghan Froehner Reyes and her husband Gino of Geneva, Switzerland, Heather Froehner Lawrence and her husband Timothy of Califon, NJ, Matthew Froehner and his fiancé Madeline Floyd of Randolph, NJ, and Kathleen “Katie” Froehner of Wausau, WI, seven great grandchildren; Michaela Gifford, Hannah Gifford, Kenneth John Froehner, Oisin Reyes-Froehner, Rowan Reyes-Froehner, Odin Lawrence and Cian Lawrence, and one great-great grandchild Laila Mae Gifford.  Anna was predeceased by her husband Kenneth H. Froehner in 2015 and by her son Gregg J. Froehner in 2001. 

Donations in lieu of flowers to the Parkinson’s Foundation (https://www.parkinson.org/) or the Popcorn Park Animal Refuge (https://ahscares.org/) are appreciated.

Albert J. Scala, age 74, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 16, 2025.

Born in Paterson, NJ, to the late George and Eleanor Scala, Al was a proud graduate of John F. Kennedy High School, Class of 1968 – with the “Great 68!” He went on to earn a degree in history from St. Francis College in Loretto, PA, where he was a proud brother of the Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity.

Following college, Al began his career in the insurance industry, eventually founding his own firm, A.J. Scala & Associates. He was a dedicated and hardworking businessman, but his greatest joy came from serving his community and spending time with his family.

Al was a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend. He met the love of his life, Roxanne, in high school, and their bond only grew stronger with time. The two were named Mr. and Ms. Collegiate their senior year and married on March 22, 1975, at St. Mary Help of Christians Church in Paterson. They celebrated their wedding surrounded by family and friends at the Westmount Country Club, followed by a honeymoon in Hawaii. Together, they built a beautiful life and were blessed with three children: Jason, Jonathan, and Alicyn; two daughters-in-law, Kathleen and Kristen; and a son-in-law, Chris. Al’s greatest pride and joy were his grandchildren: Connor, Declan, Brielle, Greyson, Addison, and Talon - with one more on the way.

Al was deeply committed to giving back. He was an active and longtime member of the Rotary Club of Paterson, where he served as President and volunteered tirelessly to support others. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus at the Annunciation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Church in Wayne, where he served as Treasurer. Al loved to grill for his family and found joy in watching his grandchildren enjoy the backyard pool.

He will be remembered for his warm heart, unwavering devotion to his loved ones, and his generosity toward his community.

In lieu of flowers, a donation in Al’s name to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital or to the ASPCA would be greatly appreciated.

Robert "Jim" Kauer, age 93 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 14, 2025, in the comfort of his own home.

Jim was born as the only child to Robert and Henrietta Kauer in Pequannock, New Jersey. Growing up in Wyckoff, he attended Ramsey High School before immediately beginning his lifelong career with PSE&G, where he steadily worked his way up to earn the position of inspector.  

Jim’s life changed forever when he invited a beautiful woman named Rosemarie to go for a ride on his boat at Greenwood Lake. The two hit it off and he formally asked her to go on a date with him to the Mountain Lakes Tavern at Greenwood Lake shortly after. It didn’t take long for Jim and Rosemarie to fall in love and Jim asked Rosemarie to marry him in his distinctive two-toned blue and white Cadillac. The couple married on August 19, 1961, at St. Joan of Arc Church before spending their honeymoon in Quebec, Canada. Jim took great pride in their home in Wayne, New Jersey where they raised their three beloved daughters: MaryAnn, Lisa, and Karen. Jim had a special soft spot for his daughters and grandchildren (and grand pups) loving them dearly and doing everything he could to provide them with an incredible childhood in their close-knit community. His loving marriage to Rosemarie lasted 61 years until her passing in 2023.

Jim’s entire life revolved around the outdoors. His dad taught him to hunt and started a lifelong passion for hunting. Familiar with the Upstate New York area from his formative years, Jim made it his goal to build a vacation home there and with the help of his dad and some friends he made that goal a reality. The family cherished their weekend trips and extended vacations to this retreat, enjoying the peaceful surroundings and the cool waters of Lake George.

Jim will be fondly remembered for his generous spirit and willingness to help others. A man of many talents, from woodworking to general repairs, people from all walks of life sought his assistance. His tools were distinctly marked with yellow paint, and he lent them freely along with his advice and expertise.

Even in his later years, Jim maintained a remarkable memory, often recalling small details from conversations that others would typically forget. This attentiveness demonstrated how deeply he really listened to others. His kindness, generosity, and genuine interest in people and their lives will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

Jim was the loving husband of his wife who predeceased him, Rosemarie Kauer; devoted father of three children: MaryAnn Fallon, Lisa Cullen and Karen Kauer-Kiraly and her husband Jeffrey Kiraly; cherished grandfather of Carolyn Cullen, Erin Cullen, Amanda Fallon, Nicholas Kiraly, and Joseph Kiraly. He will also be dearly missed by his grand pups Milo, Chloe, and Maverick.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Kenneth J. Palczewski, 58, of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, April 10, 2025, surrounded by the love of his family.

The son of Leonard and the late Rosemarie Palczewski, Ken was born in Elizabeth, NJ, and raised in Avenel, NJ. He graduated with the Class of 1984 from Colonia High School, where he was a standout athlete—quarterbacking the football team, pitching for the baseball team, and playing forward on the basketball team. Standing six feet, seven inches tall, Ken was a true force on every field and court he played on.

Ken went on to attend La Salle University in Philadelphia, PA, where he played basketball and initially pursued a degree in economics, to then obtain a law degree upon graduation. During college, a life-changing week spent volunteering at a camp for children battling cancer shifted the course of his life. Inspired and moved, he changed his focus from law to education.

After graduating from La Salle, Ken began his career in education with a year of teaching in the Woodbridge Public School System. He then spent six years at Manchester Regional High School in Haledon, NJ, teaching Social Studies and coaching football, basketball, and softball. In 1998, he joined Wayne Valley High School as a teacher in the history department, coaching the girls’ basketball and softball teams all while pursuing his master’s degree in counseling at William Paterson University. He then transitioned from teaching to guidance counseling and later served as dean of students at Schuyler-Colfax Middle School after earning his master’s in Educational Leadership and Administration. Eventually, he became a vice principal at Wayne Hills High School. In 2013, he returned to Wayne Valley as principal—a role he cherished and held until his passing.

Ken was passionate about his work and took great pride in being part of the Wayne Valley community. He often said he loved every minute of it. He appreciated the unique energy of each day and the richness of the school environment. His “my door is always open” approach created a welcoming atmosphere for both students and staff. He found joy in the little things—like the student who visited his office daily to share a clever joke.

Ken met the love of his life, Maureen Donohue, at the Parker House in Sea Girt, NJ, a chance encounter that led to not only their love story, but six other marriages as well. Ken and Maureen’s romance blossomed quickly, engaged on St. Patrick’s Day of 1995, then later married in a picturesque beach ceremony in Barbados on Wednesday, August 14th, 1996.They began married life in a cozy home at 4 Sycamore Terrace in Wayne where they welcomed both of their beloved children Peter and Brenna before settling into their current residence in 2003. Over the years, Ken immersed himself in the Wayne community—not just during school hours but through coaching both his children in youth sports, his school’s extracurricular activities, and sporting events. If he wasn’t at school, he was likely at the Passaic County Golf Course, where he served as Co-President of the Elm Tree Golf Club and enjoyed early Sunday tee times with close friends.

Above all, Ken’s greatest joy was his family. Maureen was his partner, his soulmate. Together they raised two children, Peter and Brenna, who were the light of his life. Spring break trips became cherished traditions—from Disney vacations during their early years as a family to more recent getaways to Hilton Head, where Ken would golf and Maureen would relax with a good book. Through their shared love of sports as a family, Ken never missed a game in either of Peter or Brenna’s athletic careers. When Peter became a football coach to follow in his father’s footsteps, Ken and Maureen traveled to support him at games, often tailgating and listening to the classics. Evenings around the fire pit with Maureen, Peter, Brenna, and Amanda, sometimes with a glass of bourbon in hand, brought quiet moments of connection and laughter.

During his nine-month battle with cancer, Ken remained strong, optimistic, and uncomplaining. Every day was a fight—motivated by his desire to spend just a little more time with the people he loved most.

Ken will be remembered for so many things: his love of life and living in the moment, his eloquence and wit, his gift for storytelling, his loyalty, his generosity, and above all, his boundless heart.

He is survived by his loving wife of almost 30 years, Maureen (Donohue) Palczewski; his dearly-loved children, Peter Palczewski of Albany, NY, and Brenna Palczewski of Wayne; his father, Leonard Palczewski; his sister, Donna Garcia, and her husband Evelio, of Doylestown, PA; and his niece and nephews: Joshua Garcia and wife Laura, Alec Garcia, Bradley Garcia and fiancée Olivia, Ben Garcia, Catherine Dixon, and Sean Dixon. He was predeceased by his mother, Rosemarie Palczewski, in 2008.

Memorial Contributions

In lieu of flowers, and in honor of Ken’s lifelong devotion to his students, a scholarship fund has been established in his memory. Contributions may be sent to:

Ken Palczewski Scholarship Fund

c/o Lucy Couso

Wayne Valley High School

551 Valley Road

Wayne, NJ 07470

Please make checks out to Ken Palczewski Scholarship Fund.

In loving memory of Marion Shepherd, age 97, of Wayne, she entered into eternal life on Sunday, April 6, 2025.

She was born in Waterbury, Connecticut to Harold and Marion Connelly.  Marion graduated from Watertown High School, Waterbury, CT with the class of 1946.

Marion graduated from the Saint Joseph’s Hospital Nursing School in Paterson. She began her career at Barnert Hospital in Paterson. While raising her four children, Marion worked for Dr. Brogan on Broadway in Paterson. Once her children were older, she returned to nursing at Barnert Hospital, where she continued working until her retirement in 1993.

Marion married the love of her life, Vance, on February 14, 1953, at St. Mary’s Church in Oakville, Connecticut. Their marriage was a true partnership, blessed with four children: Margaret, Patricia, Phyllis, and Paula. They made their home in Wayne, New Jersey, where they raised their family and spent all their married years together. After retiring, Marion and Vance enjoyed traveling extensively across the United States, creating lasting memories along the way. Their loving union endured for fifty-six wonderful years until Vance’s passing in November of 2009.

Marion was a vibrant and spirited woman with a sharp mind and a deep love for reading. She read extensively and never missed a day without going through the newspaper, staying informed and engaged with the world around her. A loyal viewer of Bill O’Reilly and Fox News, she had strong opinions and wasn’t shy about sharing them—her fiery Irish temper made sure of that. Marion was also a devoted New Jersey Devils fan, cheering on her team with passion and sometimes a beer. In quieter moments, she found joy in watching classic old movies, appreciating the timeless charm of Hollywood’s golden era.

Marion had a lifelong love for dogs, and over the years, she shared her heart and home with several beloved Beagles, including Dandy, Dutchess, Henry, and Dylan; and each one held a special place in her life, bringing her endless joy, companionship, and laughter. In more recent years, she proudly became the devoted dog mom of her Dachshund, Jake, who was her loyal and loving companion. Her deep bond with her dogs was a constant source of comfort and happiness, and she cherished every moment spent with them.

Marion was the loving wife of the late Vance G. Shepherd (d. 11/8/2009); she was the devoted mother of Margaret Shepherd, Patricia and her husband Emmett McDowell, Phyllis Bogart, and Paula Shepherd; cherished grandmother of Erin and her husband Leonidas Anagnostopoulos, Charlie Bogart, Elizabeth McDowell, and Meghan McDowell; she was also the loved sister of James Connelly and the loved cousin of Lynn and her husband Dick Timas.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad would be greatly appreciated.

Ann Pillar, age 88, of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Sunday, April 6, 2025.

Born and raised in Paterson, Ann was the youngest of four children of Dominic and Carmela (Venditti) Ciarlo. A graduate of Eastside High School’s Class of 1954, after high school, she worked as a bookkeeper at Spotless Dry Cleaning, located near Paterson’s historic falls. In this role, she expertly used a key-driven mechanical calculator, known as a comptometer—an invention dating back to 1887.

Ann’s love story began one evening at Falls View Grill, where she caught the eye of a handsome Marine Corps serviceman, Joseph Pillar, who was home on leave. Over burgers, hotdogs, and French fries, a romantic courtship began—one that would continue through Joe’s military service. The couple exchanged vows at St. Anthony Church in Paterson, celebrating their honeymoon on the Canadian side of Niagara Falls before settling into their first home on Twenty-First Street in Paterson. They later lived on Front Street before moving to Wayne in 1961, where they would spend the rest of their lives together, raising their two beloved daughters, JoAnn and Debbie. Ann and Joe shared sixty years of loving and devoted marriage until Joe’s passing in 2017.

As a young mother, Ann fully embraced her role as homemaker. Her greatest priority was creating a warm, nurturing, and immaculately clean home for her family. Summers were marked by treasured annual vacations to St. Petersburg, Florida, during the last week of July through the first week of August. Once her daughters grew more independent, Ann returned to the workforce—first as a waitress at Casa Mia Restaurant, owned by her brother in Wayne, and later at Patty’s Pancakes in Haledon.

Faith and family were the cornerstones of Ann’s life. A devoted parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne, she rarely missed Sunday Mass until health concerns intervened about four years ago. Undeterred, she found spiritual nourishment through a televised 9:00 AM Mass, and her family quickly learned not to call and disturb her in any way during that sacred hour.

Ann was a cherished wife, mother, grandmother “Grammy,” and great-grandmother. Nothing brought her more joy than time spent with her loved ones. She was the ever-willing, always-loving babysitter for her grandchildren—an experience she found joyful, not a chore. Her baking and cooking were legendary among the family: cranberry cakes, chocolate peanut butter cakes, cream cheese cupcakes, and her Thanksgiving stuffing were all favorites. Her son-in-law Don especially loved her potato croquettes. With nimble fingers and a generous heart, she crocheted countless baby blankets, pocketbooks, and other handmade treasures for her family, and also enjoyed needlepoint.

Ann was a firecracker—spirited, strong-willed, and clear about how she wanted things done. Thank God, her mind remained sharp as a tack throughout her life. Her passing was sudden and has left a sad void in the hearts of those who loved her. Yet, her family takes comfort in the legacy of love, laughter, and beautiful memories she leaves behind.

Ann was the beloved wife of the late Joseph Pillar, with whom she shared 60 wonderful years of marriage. She was the loving mother of JoAnn Stinnard and her husband Donald of Pompton Lakes, and Debbie Arena, also of Pompton Lakes. She was the proud and cherished grandmother of Michelle Warren and her husband Eric, Aimee Pires and her husband Dan, Mark Stinnard, Dale Arena and his fiancée Misty Yesuda, Jenna Kennedy and her husband Ryan, and Shane Stinnard and his wife Becki. She was the adored great-grandmother of Nathan Pires, Nicholas Warren, Jake Warren, Andrew Pires, Olivia Kennedy, Jackson Kennedy, Joseph Kennedy, and Addison Yasuda. Ann also leaves behind her “adopted” daughter Debbie and husband Robbie Kutcher and their family, who held a special place in her heart.

She was predeceased by her parents, Dominic and Carmela Ciarlo; her stepmother, Maria Ciarlo; her brothers, Mario and Angelo Ciarlo; and her sister, Phyllis Ciarlo.

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In lieu of flowers, those wishing to express sympathy in Ann’s memory are kindly asked to consider a donation to:

St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please be sure to mention that your gift is in memory of Ann Pillar.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Frank Eller, age 92, of Allentown, PA and formerly of Wayne, NJ.  Frank passed away peacefully on Friday, April 4, 2025 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Frank was born and raised in Csibrak Hungary and was one of five children to Anton and Anna Eller.  Frank, the son of Hungarian parents, in the wake of World War II, made a move from Hungary to Germany. Germany became a temporary refuge and steppingstone toward immigrating to the United States.  In December of 1951, the family got their chance at a better life, and a new beginning. With courage and determination, they secured passage on a ship bound for America, braving the long and uncertain journey that took thirteen days.

Upon arriving in the United States, the family settled in Temple, Texas. After moving to New Jersey, Frank attended the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York and took courses in fashion and tailoring.  His first opportunity to apply his skills was when he accepted a position as a custom tailor at Tozzi’s Custom Tailoring in Nutley, NJ.

Frank, a hardworking and determined man, opened his own business, Valley Cleaners and Tailoring, in Clifton, New Jersey. Drawing on skills honed through years of hands-on experience, Frank built his business from the ground up, stitching together not just garments, but a loyal customer base that appreciated his craftsmanship and personal touch. Frank owned and operated Valley Cleaners and Tailoring for the next twenty-one years until retiring in 1992.  Upon his retirement, Frank worked part time for several years as a tailor for the Lord and Taylor department store. However his passion was devoted to assist in raising his six grandchildren and set an example and served as a true role model showing them the importance of family, love, kindness, responsibility and hard work.

As a young man, Frank would attend local dance halls where young men and women would get together to dance and socialize.  There, one night in 1960, Frank met a young attractive woman by the name of Teresa Kaindl.  Frank and Teresa started dating and as fate would have it, they fell in love and on August 5, 1961 they became husband and wife at Holy Trinity Church in Passaic, NJ surrounded by friends and family.  The newlyweds settled in Passaic and lived there for only a couple of years.  During their time living in Passaic, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter, Monika.  The family moved to Clifton, NJ where they welcomed their second daughter Renee.  Frank and his family remained in Clifton until 1975 when they built a home in Wayne.  Frank and Teresa remained in Wayne for nearly fifty years.

Frank enjoyed playing golf and bowling with friends.  He was a member of the SportsFriends Soccer Club for many years.  He and his wife Teresa and their friends enjoyed many nights dancing waltzes and polkas at Domyon’s Hall in Clifton or at President’s Palace in Passaic. Frank was also a man who could fix just about anything around the house.  He was intuitively creative and called upon his tailoring and sewing skills to alter or make garments for his family.

Aside from all Frank’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Frank than providing for and spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He and his wife Teresa cherished nearly sixty-four amazing years of loving and loyal marriage together.  Tragedy struck Frank’s and his family’s lives when his dear daughter Renee passed away. Frank was not only devoted to his family but also to his Catholic Faith.  He and his family were parishioners of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne for many years.

Frank was an intelligent man who spoke five languages. He had a playful nature and loved to make Teresa laugh.  His sense of playfulness and humor was one of his ways of showing affection to those he loved.

Frank will forever be remembered as a loving husband, and a devoted father, grandfather, and great grandfather.  He touched the lives of everyone around him and will be sincerely missed by his friends and family.

Frank is survived by his wife Teresa (nee Kaindl) of Allentown, PA, his daughter Monika Goldman and her husband Eric of Allentown, PA, nine grandchildren; Alexandra Lowry of Seattle, WA, Brittany Fetcho and her husband JD of Kingston, NY, Amanda Lowry of Millbury, MA, Nicholas Li-Lowry and his wife Anne of Long Island City, NY, Taryn Naundorff of Philadelphia, PA, Carly Naundorff who is finishing grad school in Texas, and Eric’s children, Brian Goldman and his wife Lauren of Atlanta, GA, Nathan Goldman of Chapel Hill, NC, and Danielle Goldman of Philadelphia, PA, and two great grandchildren, Reid Goldman and Georgia Fetcho. Frank was predeceased by his three brothers Anton Eller, Joseph Eller, and John Eller, and by his sister Anna Fett. Frank also has many nieces and nephews in NJ as well as Texas and Austria.

The family would like to suggest, in lieu of flowers, a donation to Our Lady of the Valley RC Church, Wayne, NJ.

It is with great sadness that announce the passing of Robert Alan Laskowski, age 74, of Wayne, NJ.  Robert passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on April 3, 2025.

Robert was born in Passaic, NJ, lived in Wallington, NJ with his family until about the age of eleven and then moved to the city of Clifton where he attended Clifton High School.  He was the only child to Benjamin and Adeline Laskowski.

Following his graduation from Clifton High School with the class of 1968, he attended Rutgers University in New Brunswick where he earned his Bachelor of Science Degree.  While attending Rutgers University, Bob was a member of the Rutgers men’s basketball team.  Subsequent to earning his Bachelor of Science Degree, Bob furthered his studies and became a Board-Certified Pharmacist.

Bob dedicated his life to serving others through his work as a pharmacist. He began his career working for  Hospital Pharmacy and Williams Pharmacy, both located in Paterson, NJ.  There he gained valuable experience and built strong relationships with his customers. However, his true calling was ownership, and after several years of hard work, he opened his own pharmacy, Kay Pharmacy in Paterson, which he ran for the next thirty-three years. Through his commitment to quality care and personalized service, Bob became a trusted figure in the community, known not just for filling prescriptions but for his kindness, advice, and unwavering dedication to those he served. His pharmacy became more than a business, it was a cornerstone of the neighborhood, a place where people felt valued and cared for.  Bob was truly well respected and loved by the members of the community.

Eventually Bob sold his business but because of his dedication and connection to the neighborhood, he remained on staff as a close consultant.  Bob truly loved his work and the people he served and never had the urge to retire.

In May of 1978, Bob was introduced to a young lady by the name of Eligia Marte, also know as Ellie, by a mutual friend.  Bob asked Ellie out and they had dinner at a local restaurant.  The two hit it off great and started dating.  As fate would have it, they fell in love and on March 28, 1984 Bob and Ellie married surrounded by family and friends.  The newlyweds settled in Paterson where they lived for about five years.  While residing there, they welcomed the birth of their first daughter, Elayne.  In 1987, the family moved to Clifton where they welcomed their second daughter, Adele.  In 1989 as the family grew, they moved to the Township of Wayne where they raised their children and have been ever since.

He had a passion for playing dominoes, spending countless hours strategizing and laughing with friends over intense matches. Bowling was another love of his, and he took pride in competing in local leagues with his wife Ellie, always striving to improve his game.

Travel was another venue that Bob and Ellie treasured together.  The two traveled extensively to a variety of different destinations around the world, such as the Dominican Republic, Ireland, Spain, Italy, England, Aruba & Costa Rica.

Aside from all of Bob’s talents, hobbies, and interests, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing in the world meant more to Bob than providing for and spending time with his wife, daughters, and grandchildren.  Bob and his wife Ellie cherished more than forty-one years of loving and loyal marriage together.  His family recalls their many family vacations to their timeshare in Puerto Plata, Dominican Republic.

Bob was the kind of guy who could turn any moment into a comedy show with his quick wit and playful sarcasm. A natural jokester, he loved to tease his friends and family.  His humor was never mean-spirited, it was just the right mix of mischief and charm that made people laugh.  Bob always had a way of making even the most ordinary moments entertaining. His laughter was contagious, and his knack for humor made him the life of any gathering, making sure there was never a dull moment when he was around.

Bob will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and a dedicated member of his community.  He touched the lives of countless people and will be sincerely missed by all that knew him.

Bob is survived by his wife Ellie Laskowski (nee Marte) of Wayne, NJ, his two daughters; Elayne Laskowski of Clifton, NJ and Adele Torres and her husband Jensen of Wayne, NJ and five grandchildren; Elliot, Emmett, Essex, Sebastian, and Julien.  He was predeceased by his parents Benjamin and Adeline Laskowski.

For those who are unable to attend the Funeral Mass on Friday, April 11, 2025 at 9 AM, the services will be livestreamed. Please click on one of the two links on Friday morning to access the livestream: Facebook or Youtube.

Edward Gilmore, age 90, passed peacefully on April 3,2025, surrounded by his loving family.  He was born in Paterson NJ to Edward and Dorothy (Waltz)Gilmore on January 6,1935.

Ed worked in the art department of Continental Can in his early years, and owned and operated E.G. Vending since the 1960’s, retiring in 1997. He coached baseball for Haledon PAL for many years and the kids always enjoyed going for ice cream after the games. Ed loved traveling,  golfing, fishing, going to his grandchildren’s sporting events and was an avid skier along with his wife. They were members of the North Jersey Whiz Skiers enjoying frequent trips to the Club lodge at Mad River Glen, Vermont. They also traveled more than 20 times to ski the American west with Some of Ed’s favorites being Vail, Park City and Deer Valley. Their adventures also took them to Europe, the United Kingdom, Canada, Mexico, Alaska, Hawaii, Tahiti, Bermuda and many Caribbean destinations.

Ed loved nothing more than spending summer days at his home in Wildwood Crest with family and friends. He was also a member of the Adam Reiser Social Club (known as the club with the heart) whose goal was to provide food and gifts for needy families in Paterson during the holidays and throughout the year. He was truly a generous man always willing to help others and will be missed by all.

Ed was especially proud of his large, loving family. He is survived by his high school sweetheart and wife of 67 years, Carol (Platte) of Wayne, their four children, Edward and his wife Debbie of Green Pond, Darren and his wife Rita of Park City, Utah, Scott of Hamilton, NJ and Darlene DeStefano and her husband Scott of Wayne, 11 grandchildren: Chris, Brad, Brittany, Cameron, Corey, Monika, Drew, Paige, Luke, Justin and Taylor, as well as 13 great-grandchildren.

No flowers please. A memorial donation can be made to St Jude’s children’s Hospital, Memphis, Tennessee

Joseph E. Rolandelli, age 87 of Wayne, passed away peacefully on Monday, March 31, 2025.

Joe was born and raised in Newark – a place that always held a special place in his heart. From a young age Joe had an entrepreneurial mind that his mentors in life encouraged. Coming from a family of blue-collar workers, they recognized his aptitude for business and pushed him to pave a new path for himself. His uncle John was one of the most instrumental in that decision; when Joe would ask for a screwdriver, John would instead hand him a pencil and explain that was what he really needed to learn to use. His entrepreneurial spirit started with a paper route before he turned 10 years old and turned into an egg route shortly after. He was a true self-made man. Starting from humble beginnings, he worked his way up to senior vice president and comptroller of Midlantic/PNC Bank.

One summer day Joseph met his wife Catherine at the beach in Manasquan. He was just minding his own business when a beautiful woman named Catherine started kicking sand on him. His response was simply, “Go away” and their playfully combative relationship began. The two started dating and after falling in love Joe decided he wanted to propose. He convinced Catherine to go with him after he got off work to look at engagement rings, but with her eager anticipation of the trip he decided to play a little trick on her. He told her he was running late at work and would come pick her up as soon as he could. Catherine, stressing that they would not make it to the Jeweler in time exclaimed to him, “By the time we get there, the store will be closed!” Joe’s carefully plotted scheme was timed perfectly as the jewelry store closed and Joe nonchalantly pulled over into a romantic setting in Branch Brook Park to surprise Catherine with the ring that he had the whole time. Cathy went from punching Joe to kissing him, and on Saturday, August 18, 1962, the couple were married at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church in Nutley with Joe’s cousin Bishop Mestice officiating the wedding ceremony. They were blessed with a loving marriage of 56 years until Catherine’s passing in 2019.

After their wedding, Joe and Cathy moved into their first home together – a four-room apartment in a multi-family home on Woodside Avenue in Newark. They created many happy memories there surrounded by extended family as the whole Rolandelli clan lived together in three multi-family homes on the same block. They spent the next 15 years at that home and during that time, were blessed with two beautiful daughters, Karen and Debra, before Cathy convinced Joe to leave the “old neighborhood” and build a new home in Wayne in 1978. Even after moving to Wayne, the apartments in Newark held a special place in Joe’s heart and he never parted ways with the three buildings. He even made regular trips back to maintain them over the years.

Joseph and Cathy had the privilege of traveling extensively through Europe with family and friends, especially Joe’s best friend Victor. Joe and Cathy returned to Italy many times through the years with Joe holding a particular fondness for being there and connecting with his Italian heritage. Joe was also well known for his love of cruises. He went on cruises with Cathy, his kids and grandkids. He was a frugal man but when it came to exploring the world and experiencing all it had to offer, he was incredibly generous to those around him. They share treasured memories of annual cruises with the whole family, including their grandchildren to the Caribbean, Alaska, and a Disney cruise too. Joe’s grandchildren will recall that some of their favorite memories are of the twelve years at the annual Rolandelli & Buttitta family vacation home in Lavallette, NJ nicknamed the “Big Brown House”.

Joe will be remembered as strict and tough but generous and loving. He cared deeply for those around him and always wanted what was best for you. He was a maverick with a zest for life that was rivaled only by his loving wife Cathy. What made Joe tick was his love for making deals and making money. He was clever and persistent, never taking no for an answer. Joseph was the embodiment of the expression, “Give a man a fish and feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.” A great example of this was Joe’s weekly meetings with his grandkids to go over their stock portfolios that he helped them establish. You didn’t show up to that meeting without having done your “homework”. He insisted on passing his success down to his kids and his grandkids in the form of education and experience. If you showed the initiative, he would provide you with the best opportunities in life. He was so proud to be able to put his kids and grandkids into elite schools throughout their entire education, and even more proud of the success they achieved from their hard work and heeding his advice.

Joseph can be described as driven, tenacious, determined, stubborn and loyal. He was a great storyteller and was fortunate to remain sharp even in old age. He never stopped “wheeling and dealing” making deals right up until his passing. The famous sayings of Joe Rolandelli will be dearly missed by all. Joe will be missed most for his mentorship and love. He was the man you turned to when you found yourself in a bind; despite his tough demeanor he was always there for you when you needed him. He truly wanted the best for those he cared about and went out of his way to help (of course, he also never failed to make sure you remembered that help). Joe reveled in his role as patriarch of his family and was proud to leave a legacy for future generations. His leadership and guidance will be greatly missed.

Linda Maresca Wright, 83, passed away peacefully on March 29, 2025, in Denville, New Jersey. Born on October 24, 1941, in Jersey City, New Jersey, Linda lived a life grounded in faith, family, and cherished traditions.

A devout Catholic throughout her life, Linda was a lifelong member of St. Simon the Apostle Roman Catholic Church in Green Pond, New Jersey. Her faith remained a constant source of strength and guidance. While residing in Rotonda West, Florida, she continued her spiritual journey by attending Mass at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church.

Green Pond Lake held a special place in Linda’s heart. It was there she met her beloved husband Larry “Lar” Wright, raised their children, and created a home filled with warmth and laughter. Even after Larry’s passing, the lake remained a treasured sanctuary where memories endured and family traditions thrived.

Linda is lovingly remembered by her sister Barbara; her sons Gilbert, Christopher, Michael, and Joseph; daughters-in-law Leanne, Mindy, and Stephanie; grandchildren Katie, Brianna, Sean, Eric, Megan, Devin and Emma; grandchildren-in-law Eric, Alice, Bridget, Kaitlyn, and Ezra; and great-grandchildren Taylor, Hannah, Michael, Charlotte, Lucas, Elliott, and Ruth.

Linda was an animal lover and particularly enjoyed the company of her Muggins and her many grand dogs over the years.

She found joy in music as a proud member of Sweet Adelines and deeply valued the enduring friendships she shared with her beloved YaYas.

Linda was preceded in death by her devoted husband Larry “Lar” Wright; her father Joseph Maresca; and mother Betty Maresca.

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John Van Hoven, age 94, of Pompton Plains, NJ passed Saturday, March 29, 2025.

He had lived in Woodland Park since 1956 before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2007.

John was born at home in Prospect Park, NJ and graduated from Paterson Vocational Technical High School.  He worked at various jobs as a draftsman and retired from John Verduin Machinery in Paterson in 1996.

John was an excellent bowler and card player and always assisted his wife Doris when she was baking and making homemade applesauce. He enjoyed getting together with friends for pot luck dinners and card games.  At Cedar Crest he played Wii Bowling and played cards. He was a member of the 2nd Reformed Church in Little Falls for many years and served as an usher.  Once they moved to Cedar Crest Village, John attended the services there.

John met his wife Doris through a mutual friend.  They had been acquainted for years.

John served in the US Army in Germany from January 1952 to January 1954.  Upon his return from the military, they began dating and were married on July 17, 1954 with a service in his sister in laws home, followed by a honeymoon in Lake George.

During his 63 years married they were blessed to share a bond with one another that grew stronger through each year.  John enjoyed family vacations to the Jersey Shore, including Ocean Beach and LBI which made for some wonderful memories and also enjoyed frequent visits to Lancaster, PA and occasional trips to Florida, Viriginia and Mrytle Beach.

John is survived by his two daughters:  Diane Spath and her husband Alfred of Edison, NJ and Nancy Huhn of Parsippany, NJ, Five grandchildren; Stephen Huhn of Houston, Tx, Daniel Huhn of Parsippany, Lauren Caviglia and her husband Marco of Parlin, NJ, Gregory Spath of Edison, NJ and Michael Spath and his wife Laura of Oklahoma, three great-grandchildren Aubrey and Bryce Huhn of Houston, TX and Madelyn Caviglia of Parlin, NJ.  He was pre-deceased by his wife Doris Van Hoven and his sister Elizabeth De Block.

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Eulogy read by John's Daughter Diane:

Dad

Today we bury John Van Hoven our Dad, Grandfather and Great Grandfather.  He was also a husband, uncle, brother and friend to many. He lived to 94 and lived a good life and the most recent 15 months were difficult and challenging for him when we had to move him out of his apartment to LTC. All he wanted was to be able to walk to his meals. Dad and Mom loved their family and enjoyed their children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.  They traveled to Florida, Texas, Virginia, MB and enjoyed frequent trips to Lancaster, Pennsylvania. As kids we visited friends in LBI and Ocean Beach. Dad was advic bowler and enjoyed playing cards and watching sports especially if the Yankees loss. Despite him not remembering our names we had good visits with him. We all have great memories of Dad. Dad and all of us have been without Mom for the last 7 1/2 years and He always said I should of gone first. Dad died peacefully at the end but had many trials and tribulation while in LTC which frustrated him and now he is with our Mom. He is now our second angels watching over us now. We all love you Dad. Till we meet again

Sondra “Sandy” Lenore Pine (née Rachesky)

A life devoted to family, faith, and the power of education

Sondra “Sandy” Lenore Pine passed away peacefully, leaving behind a legacy rooted in love, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to others. Born in Passaic, New Jersey, to Samuel and Tillie Rachesky, Sandy was a bright light from the very beginning. She grew up in Clifton and graduated from Clifton High School (Class of 1952), proudly serving in the Math Club before earning her Bachelor of Science degree in Mathematics from Montclair State University.

A devoted wife, Sandy married the love of her life, Dr. Leonard Pine, in 1955. Their bond was a true partnership, forged in love and shared purpose. When Leonard was stationed at Fort Campbell, Kentucky, with the U.S. Army, Sandy followed him without hesitation, teaching the children of military personnel. She would fondly recall watching paratroopers descend from the sky—her students eagerly pressing their faces to the windows, searching for their fathers.

Sandy poured her heart into teaching, both in and out of the classroom. Whether in Clifton, Wayne Valley, or during her 17 impactful years at Morris Knolls High School, she was known as a gifted and compassionate educator who believed deeply in her students’ potential. Long after retirement, she continued to tutor students well into her 80s—proof that teaching was never just a job, but her true calling.

She was a guiding force in her community as well. A founding member of Temple Beth Tikvah in Wayne, she helped establish local chapters of Hadassah and B’nai B’rith and nurtured them through every transition. Together with Leonard, she co-founded the Foundation for the Handicapped in Wayne and later served as its Executive Director, committed to enriching the lives of those she served.

But above all else, Sandy’s greatest joy came from being a wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She was the heartbeat of her family, offering strength, unconditional love, and steadfast support. She was the beloved wife of Dr. Leonard Pine; devoted mother to the late Judith Ann Pine-Cooke and Michael Pine and his wife, Lori; cherished Nana to the late Willie Cooke, Brian and Adriana Dela Barrera, Alyssa and Kevin Smith, and Tyler Pine; and adoring great-grandmother to Juliana and Oliver Smith, and Drew Pine. She was the loving sister of Robert Rachesky and the late Herbert Rachesky.

Sandy will be remembered not only for her intellect and dedication, but for her grace, warmth, and the deep pride she took in her family. Her impact will be felt for generations to come.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Sondra's name may be made to Abilities First 167 Myers Corners Road, Suite 202, Wappingers Falls, NY 12590.

Patricia Lee Gagis (née Bernat), 85, of Wayne, NJ, a devoted wife, loving mother, cherished grandmother, and steadfast woman of faith, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 26, 2025, surrounded by her three adoring children and embraced in the love of her family.

Born in New York City to Donald and Antoinette (Caiola) Bernat, Patty moved with her parents to Paterson as a young child. There, she flourished, graduating with the Class of 1957 from Eastside High School.

It was at Eastside where she met the love of her life, Augustus “Gus” Gagis. Patty was a spirited 15-year-old sophomore; Gus, a 17-year-old senior. Their first date—hot dogs “all-the-way” at Libby’s in Paterson—sparked a lifelong romance. Three years later, on December 6, 1958, they exchanged vows at St. Brendan’s R.C. Church in Clifton, celebrating their union with a reception at Natoli’s in Saddle Brook, NJ before honeymooning in the scenic Poconos.

Pat and Gus started married life on Buffalo Avenue in Paterson, where they welcomed their son, John, followed by their daughter, Dona. In 1966, they settled in Wayne, where their youngest, Judeth, was born. Patty embraced motherhood wholeheartedly, considering her children to be among her greatest blessings. She devoted herself to raising them full-time before eventually joining Gus in the workforce at BASF in Clifton, where she took great pride in her efficiency and organizational skills.

Faith and family were the cornerstones of Patty’s life. A dedicated parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church in Wayne, she served with devotion—teaching CCD, acting as a Eucharistic minister, organizing food drives, and even helping to clean the church. She found true joy in attending Mass and praying for her loved ones and anyone in need.

As an only child, Patty found immense fulfillment in the family she and Gus built together. She adored her three children and their spouses, treasured her eleven grandchildren, and delighted in her nine great-grandchildren. She never missed an opportunity to share her gratitude for the abundance of love in her life. Patty also held a soft spot for the four-legged canine companions who brought her joy over the years—Maggie, T.J., Josh, and Marcie.

Patricia is survived by her devoted husband of 66 years, Augustus “Gus” Gagis; her loving children: John Gagis and his wife Judy of Bernardsville, NJ, Dona Meringer and her husband Jim of Wayne, and Judeth DeMonico and her husband John of Parsippany;  her cherished grandchildren: Elizabeth and her husband Grant, Augustus and his wife Bridget, Patricia and her fiancé Huan Tran, Joseph and his girlfriend Emily, Lieutenant Commander Zachary and his wife Micah, Abigail and her fiancé Stephen, Donald, Emily and her fiancé Matthew, Anna, Luke, and Michael; and her beloved great-grandchildren: John Peter, Alessandra, Evelyn, Lyla, Chloe, Sarah, Callum, and Theresa. She was predeceased by her parents, Donald and Antoinette Bernat, and her great-granddaughter, Zoey.

Patty’s legacy is one of unwavering faith, boundless love, and joyful service to others. She will be deeply missed but forever remembered in the hearts of those who were blessed to know her.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Patricia’s name are asked to consider a donation to:

Friends of Wayne Animal Rescue

FOWA

PO Box 3701

Wayne, NJ 07470

To download a mailable form, Click Here.

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Patricia Lee Gagis

Our beloved Wesner Pierre, fondly remembered as Wes by his coworkers and friends and NèNè by his family, sadly passed away in the early morning hours on Tuesday, March 25, 2025, at the age of 73. Wesner was born in Archahaie, Haiti on December 20, 1951 to the late Joseph Legrand Pierre and Asefille Marcellus. He migrated to the US in 1975.

Wes was a bright light in every room he walked into, always greeting others with his signature smile. He was incredibly devoted to his family, and he worked hard throughout his life to give them all the very best. Wes was always a practical man, emphasizing his core values of responsibility, respect, and fairness throughout all of his decisions, and demonstrating a strong sense of maturity from a very young age. Growing up in Haiti, he was affectionately referred to as Pèpè, or “Grandpa.” Wes was a determined and bright professional, he earned his Bachelor of Science while new to the US, learning English, and working several jobs to support himself. After graduating, he married his beloved wife in 1982. He worked a successful and full career as a chemical engineer for several prominent companies, working his way up to be a seasoned and respected leader on his teams. At home, his daughters and wife were constantly showered with love by him, and they enjoyed going on family adventures together that took advantage of his love for exercise and the outdoors. Whether it was a family bike ride, a hike, or just a walk around the lake, Wes was always the fittest and fastest of the bunch. These interests were luckily shared with his wife of 42 years, with whom he shared a friendship since early childhood.

Through date nights, moves, vacations, lighting up various dance floors and all of the twists and turns of raising two children, Wes and Maggie remained deeply committed to one another, and shared a strong bond and deep love that was ever-present in his final days.

Wesner was a beloved husband and father, and he will be deeply missed by his family and friends. There are not enough words to truly encapsulate what an incredible person he was.

He is survived by his wife Margarett Muse Pierre, daughter Jennifer Pierre and husband Michael Colin Schramm, daughter Stephanie Pierre and husband Jomari Picazo, brothers Marcaisse, Bercon, Jean-Eddy, Getty, and family, sister Yanick, Marie Lucienne, Rosena and family, and cousins Marie Carmel, Maryse and family, and additional family.

Wes was a long-time member of the Knights of Columbus. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Knights of Columbus organization, Chapter #6212, would be greatly appreciated. For additional information on the Knights of Columbus Chapter #6212, please visit their Facebook page at: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AL4adywvi/?mibextid=wwXIfr .

David W. Levine, age 32 of Wayne, died unexpectedly on Wednesday, March 25, 2025.

It is with a heavy heart that the Levine family announces the passing of our beloved, beautiful David. David passed away in the early morning of March 25th 2025 and leaves behind his adoring Mother and Father, Theresa and Josh Levine, his two treasured younger brothers; Keith and Marc, his precious dog, Moose, his dear cousins, along with his close friends, his wife Priyal, and countless number of people, all whom he touched with his gentle, easy going personality, wonderful character, and funny and quirky sense of humor, throughout his life. Always so kind and knowledgeable, he could find common ground with just about anyone, and engage in such fascinating conversations. He loved all things related to science, space and the cosmos, and while we are devastated he is no longer on this earth with us, we find great peace in knowing he will always be among the stars.

For those wishing to make a donation in David's memory, please consider the Epilepsy Foundation, www.epilepsy.com. It was through the Foundation that his wife received a certification in seizure first aid, providing her with critical skills to help Dave on many occasions. David had also been planning to participate in a charity walk with the Foundation in the near future, and your support, in his memory, would be very much appreciated.

Carol E. Beatty, age 89, a longtime resident of Wayne, passed Tuesday, March 25, 2025.

She was born in Newark to William and Elsetta Gailey and raised at 174 Newark Pompton Turnpike in Wayne. She was in the first graduating class of the Wayne High School’s Class of 1953.

As Carol would wait for the bus to high school a passing truck would toot its horn at her daily and she would turn her back.  Eventually Carol’s sisters, who worked at the local luncheonette, would introduce her to the horn honking Donald Beatty who often frequented the luncheonette. Their first date was to the movie theatre in Pompton Lakes and as fate would have it they fell in love. Donald proposed marriage to Carol in the kitchen of the family home on Newark Pompton Turnpike and they married at the Pompton Lakes Reformed Church on July 19, 1954. After a reception at Community Fire Company #1 in the Mountain View section of Wayne they honeymooned in Niagara Falls, New York.

Soon after their marriage Carol and Don bought a log cabin in the Pines Lake section of Wayne where they raised their three sons. When Carol’s third son was just nine months old she got a call from a friend at the Wayne Police Department asking if she would be interested in being a crossing guard at the Pines Lake School in Wayne. Carol said yes she would help and figured she would do it for a couple of years. She would cross children along Pines Lake Road to the Pines Lake School for thirty-two years before retiring in 1997.

Carol was a member of the Wayne First Aid Squad’s “Wives Club” for many years. In 1971, she and Don started vacationing in Old Forge, New York and they finally purchased a mobile home in 1985. They moved to Old Forge in 1998 but Carol returned to Wayne shortly after Don's passing to be closer to family.

Carol was an avid crafter enjoying both sewing and crocheting.  You would often find her and her sisters at local craft shows where she sold hand-made pillows and potholders.

Carol was the loving wife of the late Donald Beatty (d. 2004); she was the loving mother of Donald Beatty, Jr. and his wife Cynthia of Wayne, William Beatty and his wife Joyce of Pennsylvania, and Mark Beatty and his wife Kathleen of Bloomingdale; she was the cherished grandmother of Ian Beatty, Kelly Post, Kim Beatty, Brittany Beatty, and Allison Beatty; she was also the dearly loved great-grandmother of Alexandra and Cassandra Post, Brynn, Kyle, and Charley Beatty; she was the loved sister of the late Joyce Fedell of Ormond Beach, FL, the late Merilyn Martin of Holly Hill, FL, Gloria Hinderlong of Jefferson, and Bonnie Longo of West Milford.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 would be greatly appreciated.

Dennis James Martin, age 81, of Cedar Grove, passed Monday, March 24, 2025.

He was born to James and Irene Martin in Brooklyn, NY.  When he was about seven years old the family moved to Clifton.  He graduated from Clifton High School with the Class of 1961.  During his high school years he was a pitcher on the baseball team and learned to play the piano. Dennis continued his education at Montclair State Teacher’s College where he received his Bachelor of Arts Degree in Education. He later continued his education at the University of Maryland where he received his Doctorate Degree in Education.

In his early years, Dennis worked as a helper in an auto repair shop in Clifton. He began his teaching career in Paramus and Passaic, later teaching in Maryland. He also spent time working in the aerospace industry, where he specialized in drafting and mechanical drawings. Eventually, Dennis returned to education, teaching in East Orange and then West Orange, before retiring in 2007.

Dennis was a complex and vibrant soul—moody at times, but undeniably brilliant. He had a sharp mind and a quick wit that made his company unforgettable. A natural performer, Dennis was a talented dancer and singer, and skilled with a piano. He had a deep love for comedy and could light up a room with his spot-on imitations and infectious laugh. Fun-loving at heart, Dennis was the kind of person who brought energy and joy wherever he went. He adored movies, music, and his friends.

Dennis was the loved brother of Robert Martin and his wife Jennifer of Cedar Grove; cherished uncle of Cynthia and Dan Valeri of New Windsor, NY and Tim and Iris Martin of Olethe, KS; he was the dearly loved great-uncle of Dominic and Nico Valeri and Mya and Noah Martin.

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With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of Rene Graniere of Atlantic City, NJ.

Born to Richard Charles and Janet Graniere, Rene grew up in Wayne, NJ, where she built lifelong friendships and cherished memories. She graduated from DePaul Catholic High School in 1984 and later earned her bachelor’s degree in Marketing and Business Management from Stockton University in Galloway, NJ.

In her mid-twenties, Rene began her career at American Express in Manhattan. Through her dedication and strong work ethic, she rose through the ranks, earning leadership positions and earning great success.

Rene was a force of nature—a take-charge woman with a bold personality and an even bigger heart. Her greatest joy in life was her family, especially her beloved niece and nephews. She adored every moment spent with them and was deeply devoted to her parents, brother, and sister-in-law. Rene’s love extended beyond her immediate family to her aunts, uncles, and cousins, with whom she shared a special bond.

She found peace on the beaches of South Jersey and loved walking along the boardwalk. A skilled Blackjack player, Rene inherited her passion for the game from her uncle and often found herself on the winning side of Atlantic City. She also had a deep appreciation for music, especially The Grateful Dead and Queen.

Rene’s presence and unwavering love will be profoundly missed by all who knew her.

She is survived by her mother, Janet Graniere of Lakewood, NJ; her brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Ann Marie Graniere of Wayne; her niece, Brooke Graniere of Easton, Pennsylvania; her nephews, Richard, Anthony, and Jake Graniere of Wayne; and many loving extended family members. She is now reunited in peace with her father, Richard Charles Graniere.

May Rene’s memory live on in the hearts of all who loved her.

Margaret Kerton of West Milford passed away peacefully, in the comfort of her home surrounded by loving family on March 20th 2025.

Daughter of Olive and Corbin Parkhurst and born in Montclair, NJ, Margaret was raised in Pequannock and graduated from Butler High School.

Margaret’s work experience began with Prudential Insurance in the early 1960’s. She left Prudential to begin raising a family with her new husband, Norman Kerton. Later in 1981, she answered a calling that lasted thirty giving years, opening her home as a safe haven for foster children. Along with her family, she cared for and transitioned roughly two hundred children to many permanent homes. After retirement from her foster career, this kind nature led her to volunteer at Cape May Regional Hospital.

Margaret loved lobster and baked potato. So much that she’d ensure a portion came home from the restaurant on the front of her sweater. She bred and raised exotic cats, and adored her many kitties and the couple’s sweetheart Shih Tzu, Madison. Crochet was often a pastime. The national pastime was also dear to her as an avid Yankees fan. The Pequannock Reformed Church, and her relationship with God held a very special place in her heart. 

Margaret met Norman, the love of her life and husband of over sixty years, at Monahan’s Bar in Wayne on a night out. Finding common ground, after a year together they married. Their first home purchase was in Lincoln Park, where they grew their union by having three children. For the expanding family, a move to Pequannock was necessary and shortly thereafter a fourth child arrived. Soon the couple designed and built a house in Kinnelon, with Norman handling much of the labor and construction. The Kerton family spent eight lively years in this home they built. When the time to move came once again, the family found themselves back in Pequannock. After some years, and with an empty nest, the couple made a move south to beautiful Cape May. Seven enjoyable years passed, and a need to be near their children and grandchildren was fulfilled. They chose West Milford to spend peaceful time together with family. 

Margaret is survived by her loving husband Norman and their children - Daryl Kerton and his wife Kirsten, Linda DeCumber and her husband Jon, and Shane Kerton. She is survived by her grandchildren - Jevon Kerton, Bailey Kerton, Kiana Kerton, Jeremiah Kerton, Connor DeCumber, Mia DeCumber and Riley DeCumber.

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In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Pequannock Reformed Church would be greatly appreciated.

Jo-Ann Nauta (née Harraka)

January 12, 1955 – March 20, 2025

Jo-Ann Nauta, a beloved mother, sister, and friend, passed away in Wayne, NJ, on March 20, 2025, at the age of 70. She was a long-standing resident of Totowa, NJ.

Born in Paterson, NJ, on January 12, 1955, Jo-Ann was the daughter of the late George and Helen Harraka. She was a devoted mother to Dana Nauta and partner Travis Schmeisser of Brooklyn, NY, Ashlee Nauta, and a cherished Sitto to Bear Schmeisser-Nauta and Abigail Manzo.

Jo-Ann is survived by her loving siblings: Patricia Spinella and her husband Peter of Wayne, and Richard Harraka and his wife Maria of Little Falls. She was predeceased by her brother, George (Georgie) Harraka Jr. She was also a beloved aunt to Jeffrey, Keith, and his wife Cheryl, and Rachel, as well as a great-aunt to James and Jordan Spinella.  She is also lovingly remembered by extended family Jessica, Brendan and Matilda Nunn.

She will be remembered for her kindness, warmth, love of crafts, Syrian food and watermelon motifs, her enjoyment of bingo and dominoes, and her passion for shopping for the latest fashions.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Jo-Ann’s memory are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

National Ataxia Foundation

To accelerate the development of treatments and a cure while working to improve the lives of those living with Ataxia.

Women for Women

To create a world in which all women determine the course of their lives & reach their full potential.

Margaret Joan Terry affectionately known as P.J. and Peggy. age 82 passed away Monday, March 17, 2025 in the comfort of Bob, Troy, Linda and Dominick.

Her mother Margaret was from Scranton, PA and her father, Frederick,  was from Hawley, PA. They met at Lake Wallenpaupack and married, December 25, 1941. Peggy‘s father was in the weaving industry so they moved to Newton New Jersey where Fred was employed in a weaving mill. Peggy was born in Newton on September 15, 1942 along with her twin brother who died at birth. A few years later, they moved to Scranton to find better employment and it was there that Peggy's sister Florence was born. The family moved to Clifton, New Jersey in 1955, where Peggy and Bob's paths first crossed at Number 10 Middle School. Peggy and Bob graduated Clifton High School in 1960.  Soon after, Bob enlisted in the U.S. Navy and Peggy was hired as a secretary to the owner of Blanchete Tool & Gauge in Clifton.  Several years later, she became the credit manager at Kem Manufacturing in Fairlawn, N.J. while also working part-time during the tax season for the Leibowtz Accounting Firm in Clifton.  In 1967, Peggy and Bob's paths crossed again at the Barn Restaurant in Wyckoff and their relationship grew from there.

Peggy and Bob married December 28, 1968, surrounded by friends and family in Clifton, NJ where they resided and worked, saving money to start a business or buy a home.  In 1971, Peggy gave birth to their son, Troy, and since he was such an easy baby (lol), a few months later, they decided to start their own business.  In 1972 Terry’s Trophy Shop opened on Route 23 in Wayne, NJ where it still thrives today as Hero's Salute Awards Co. (a name change made in the 90's to market nationwide).  With Peggy serving as VP and treasurer and Bob as President and Operations Manager, they spent days and nights working tirelessly in between changing diapers, to make the shop a pillar of the community and recognized all over the tri-state area as the source for LL trophies, engraving and awards for corporations and organizations.  After three years of blood, sweat and tears, the business was thriving enough for Peggy and Bob to buy their first home in Packanack Lake where they raised Troy and developed many deep friendships in the Lake Community.  

Also, during this time they built a cabin in the Catskills and spent many weekends there with friends.  They enjoyed the country life after a busy work week and Troy and his friends and cousins Tim and Jason were able to grow up the "old fashioned way" hunting, camping, fishing, picking berries and riding dirt bikes.  Peggy was an amazing cook and baker and loved using her skills to make family gatherings special at home, or entertain friends they brought with them for weekend trips to the cabin.  To say Peggy was well rounded would be putting it mildly, as not only was she an extraordinary home maker, cook and baker, but she was with Bob every step of the way risking it all and working tirelessly at the shop to build a solid business that not only served the community but provided a great life. When it came to getting ahead, Peggy worked relentlessly from carrying cinder blocks with Bob to build their Catskill cabin to doing accounts payable, receivable and everything in between at the shop while Bob took care of production.  When out of the shop, Peggy would flip the switch to packing all the essentials in by snowmobile or four wheel drive for a weekend cabin getaway or to throw a first-class dinner party at their Packanack home.  Peggy was never afraid of hard work, in fact, it was how she loved others.  When Troy left for college at ASU, Peg and Bob sold the Packanack home and moved to a beautiful custom log cabin in NY State for a few years, before buying and renovating a ranch style house in Montville.  Peggy took great pride in decorating their Montville home tastefully and filled it with a lifetime collection of beautiful antiques and memories of a life well lived.

During the years of raising Troy, Peggy and Bob closed the store during their vacation weeks, exploring the National Parks of the US & Canada. In later years, she and Bob visited Alaska, the Caribbean, Mexico, Wales, England and finally Italy.  Peggy also enjoyed visiting her beloved Aunt Bev and Uncle Jeff in Indiana.  Throughout adulthood, Peggy remained close with her sister Flossy, a relationship that continued right to the end as Flossy was integral in Peggy's support system while Bob managed her day-to-day care through her Leukemia battle along with Troy and his wife Linda.

Throughout the last 25 years, Peggy enjoyed watching Troy and Linda raise Dominick and took Linda in like a daughter with friendship, advice and unyielding support and love.  She also loved being a grandmother to her grandson Dominick which brought back great memories of raising Troy.  Throughout Dominick's childhood she enjoyed going to as many of his sporting events as possible, from Tae Kwon Do to football, baseball, lacrosse and wrestling.  Just as she did with her own son, she tried to never miss an event and was always glowing when talking about a game or achievement.  Peggy had one of her proudest moments when her grandson, Dominick became a US Marine after high school, just about the time she started her fight with Leukemia.   Despite her uphill battle for the four years Dominick was serving, her focus was always selfless, and the first words out of her mouth each day to Bob, Troy or Linda was, "How is Dom?"  

Of course, this is all just a very brief snapshot of Peggy Terry's life.  Peggy, was kind to a fault and would do anything she could to help any one of the many friends she was blessed with, many of which were friendships that have lasted since her youth.  She was a supportive, loving wife who epitomized selflessness helping Bob to achieve his goals, build a business, keep an immaculate home and allow him to live life to the fullest by following his passion for hunting from North America to Africa for decades.  Peggy will also always be remembered as an amazing mother, grandmother and mother-in-law who never failed to have a kind word, thoughtful advice, a shoulder to cry on, bold encouragement, prayers to Jesus, or, when necessary, a wooden spoon...  God has found another angel for sure.

Memorial donations to the Tunnels to Towers or the Wounded Warrior Project would be greatly appreciated.

Jaime Buchicchio, age 62, of Wayne, passed with the comfort of his family by his side.

Jaime was born in Jersey City to the late Anthony and Teresa Buchicchio. He grew up at 593 Liberty Avenue and graduated from Hudson Catholic High School, Class of 1980. He later studied engineering at the New Jersey Institute of Technology for three and a half years before pursuing a different career path.

Jaime found his calling at the Hyatt Grand Central New York, where he wore many hats, but most predominantly served as a Banquet Captain for over 20 years. His work was more than just a job—it was a source of immense pride and joy. He took great honor in orchestrating some of the most prestigious events, ensuring every detail was flawless. He had the privilege of meeting celebrities, world leaders, and U.S. presidents, always carrying himself with professionalism and charm. The Grand Hyatt wasn’t just a workplace for him; it was a second home, filled with colleagues who became lifelong friends. Even after retiring in 2020 due to the COVID-19 crisis, his stories from those years remained some of his favorites to share. Jaime also co-founded Nicco’s Restaurant in Jersey City with a partner, successfully running the establishment for more than seven years.

Jaime was a charismatic and personable man with a natural gift for making friends wherever he went. His infectious laughter and sharp sense of humor brought joy to those around him, always ready with a joke or a captivating story. A hardworking and detail-oriented individual. Whether he was riding his bike through the neighborhood, relaxing in his backyard, or tackling projects around the house, he was always on the move, finding joy in the little things that made his home a welcoming and beautiful place for his family.

His wife, Marie, was not just his partner but his best friend and one true love. Jaime adored his wife, from the very first moment he laid eyes on her. When he walked into Rosebuds in Hoboken and saw her, he immediately said, “I’m gonna marry that girl,” knowing right then that she was the one. Their love story began that night, and it would go on to shape the rest of their lives. Their first official date was at Casa Dante in Jersey City, where they quickly realized they had found something special in each other. As their love blossomed, they exchanged vows on August 2, 1987, at Saint Nicholas Church in Jersey City, surrounded by family and friends. Together, Jaime and Marie built a life filled with love, laughter, and cherished memories. Their thirty-seven years of marriage were a testament to enduring love, devotion, and the unbreakable bond they shared.

Jaime was a devoted father who cherished every moment with his family. His children, Brianna, Matthew, and Giana, were the center of his world—the greatest joys of his life. He found true fulfillment in being their father, always making sure they felt loved, protected, and supported in everything they did. He was more than just a dad; he was their biggest cheerleader, their wisest advisor, and their most loyal friend. Whether it was helping them navigate life’s challenges, celebrating their accomplishments, or simply making them laugh with his sharp wit and unforgettable stories, Jaime’s presence was constant and unwavering. He had a way of making each of his children feel special, as if they were the most important person in the world whenever they were with him.

A devoted family man, Jaime cherished time spent with his loved ones, especially during family vacations and beach trips, where he created lasting memories. He loved to drive his convertible down to Cape May. His passion for travel led him to seek out the best accommodations around the world, ensuring each and every trip was special for his family as well as the many lavish trips he took alone with his wife Marie. He took great pride in knowing these memories shared on vacations would last a lifetime, never batting an eye at any expense.

A true Jersey boy, Jaime had a deep appreciation for classic movies and shows, with The Sopranos being one of his all-time favorites. An avid reader, he enjoyed John Grisham novels, in his downtime. He also loved skiing and fluke fishing beginning in youth and sharing that passion with his son. Jaime valued his friendships deeply. He made it a priority to keep in touch, always picking up the phone to check in, share a laugh, or reminisce about old times. Whether it was a quick call or a long conversation, he cherished those connections and made sure the people in his life knew they mattered to him.

Jaime was incredibly resilient, facing every challenge with unwavering strength and determination. Even in his battle with cancer, his positive spirit never wavered. His warmth, perseverance, and zest for life left an indelible mark on everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Jaime was the loving husband of thirty-seven years to Marie (Cannizzaro) Buchicchio; devoted father of Brianna Buchicchio, Matthew Buchicchio, and Giana Buchicchio; and the beloved brother Anthony Buchicchio and his wife Joyce of Jersey City, and sister the late Mia Buchicchio.

In lieu of flowers donations to St Jude's Children's Research Hospital would be greatly appreciated.

Richard Allen Ruck, age 82, of Wayne, NJ, passed away on Saturday, March 15, 2025, surrounded by his loving family.

Richard was born in Passaic, NJ and grew up in Garfield, NJ. He was a graduate of Garfield High School, Class of 1960. Following high school, he began working for Western Electric while attending William Paterson College, where he graduated with a business degree in 1972. He continued his professional career with AT&T until retirement.

Rich met his beloved wife, Joyce Pekaar, in an unexpected way. Though they were acquaintances in high school, it wasn’t until after graduation that they truly got to know each other. Following surgery, Rich was advised by his doctors to take regular walks to regain his strength. His usual route took him past Joyce’s parents’ house, where her family often sat on the front porch, enjoying a cup of tea. At first, they exchanged simple greetings, but those brief moments soon turned into longer conversations. Around that time, Joyce had recently ended a relationship and needed a date for her college prom. She asked Rich, and he happily agreed. However, when his boss threatened to fire him if he took the night off for the prom, Rich chose love over his job. True to his word, he accompanied Joyce to the prom, lost his job, but gained a lifelong partner. In time, he proposed to her at Garrett Mountain and on May 14, 1966, they exchanged wedding vows before God, family, and friends at St. Mary’s Church in Passaic. Their marriage began with a honeymoon in Jamaica, where they stayed at the Half Moon Resort.

Rich and Joyce were blessed with three wonderful children and cherished family life together. They created lasting memories on numerous family cruises and at their summer home in Wildwood Crest, where dining at The Lobster House and feeding the seagulls became a family tradition. Their retirement years were filled with adventure, traveling extensively throughout the Caribbean, across most of the United States, and through numerous European countries, including their ancestral homelands of the Netherlands and Hungary.

At home, Rich was a man of many talents, hobbies, and philanthropic pursuits. A gifted craftsman, he could build or repair just about anything. He constructed the addition to their home, built a deck, and finished the basement himself, mastering everything from framing and plumbing to electrical work, siding, drywall, and painting. He also had a passion for restoring antique furniture and driving classic British cars, particularly his Austin Healey and MG.

Rich had a generous heart and a deep love for animals. Throughout the years he was never without a dog at his side. He was a devoted husband, father, and friend—a man whose kindness, skill, and love left a lasting imprint on all who knew him.

Rich was the beloved husband of Joyce (Pekaar) Ruck, blessed in marriage for 58 wonderful years. He was the devoted father of Rick and his wife Margie of Pittsburgh, PA, Lori Varty and her husband Geoff of Annandale, NJ, and Michael and his wife Lilia of Murrieta, CA; proud grandfather of: Hunter Ruck and wife Carlisle Turner, Faith Ruck, Caleb Ruck, Kendall Varty and Abigail Varty. Rich is survived by his brother Kenneth and his wife Rosann of Brooksville FL and his sister-in-law Diane of West Milford NJ as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Rich was predeceased by his loving parents, William and Ethel (Schweighardt) Ruck, and his two brothers, William and Roger.

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In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy for Rich are asked to consider one of the following charitable organizations:

Amyloidosis Research Consortium

320 Nevada Street

Suite 210

Newton, MA 02460

Seeing Eye Dogs

1 Seeing Eye Way

Morristown, NJ 07960

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital

Memorial Processing

501 St. Jude Place

Memphis, TN 38105-9959

Please indicate that your gift is in memory of Richard Ruck.

It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Matthew M. Marakovitz, age 86, of Wayne NJ.

Matthew, the older of two sons, was born to Matthew and Elizabeth Marakovitz. While growing up, he and his family lived in Garfield and Clifton before settling in East Paterson, now known as Elmwood Park. He attended St. Leo’s Catholic School for several years, often recollecting that this is where he acquired his facility with math facts and calculation.

As a teenager living in Elmwood Park, Matthew attended Lodi High School. He played on the varsity basketball team and was a member of the glee club. He made friends easily, culminating in being crowned “king” of the junior prom and voted Typical High School Boy and Most Popular. Fifty years and many memories later, he served on the reunion committee, celebrating his high school years and bringing together his classmates.  

Following his graduation from Lodi High School with the class of 1956, Matthew found employment quickly as a teller at the Bank of Passaic and Trust Company. In 1957, he enlisted in the United States Army. He was stationed in Schweinfurt, Germany, which whetted his appetite for travel, a passion he avidly pursued later in life. He was a member of the Color Guard and the recipient of the Good Conduct Medal. Matthew served honorably and proudly in the US Army from 1957 to 1959.

After being discharged from the US military, Matthew returned to banking. He honed his skills and advanced to Assistant Vice President at the Bank of Passaic and Clifton. In 1968, he moved to National State Bank for five years. He returned to the Bank of Passaic and Clifton/Valley National Bank where in 1976 he was promoted to Senior Vice President of Marketing. He made two more moves in his career, first to North Jersey Savings and Loan Association and, finally, to the Trust Company of New Jersey. In 2000, he retired from his position as Senior Vice President, Regional Business Development Officer, at the Trust Company of NJ.

Throughout over 40 years in banking, Matthew brought his indefatigable energy, creativity and business acumen to roles in marketing, personnel, and business development. He built strong professional and personal relationships, never hesitated to serve as a mentor, and valued giving back to the community. He was an active member of numerous organizations including Junior Achievement, Passaic Jaycees, The Red Cross, Salvation Army, The Heart Fund, and United Way. He served on the Board of Directors of the Clifton/Passaic Regional Chamber of Commerce. In 1999, he was unanimously elected as Chairman of the Board of the North Jersey Regional Chamber of Commerce. He was known for his strategic vision, passion for local businesses and community engagement.  

Matthew met the love of his life, Lois Jane Keyser, roller skating. Saturday night at the local rink was ‘pick-up night;’ Matthew asked her to skate with him and the rest was history. After dating for a few years including the time that Matthew served in the US Army, he proposed to Lois in Goffle Brook Park while they were listening to the “Caballeros” band play on the lawn. As fate would have it, on July 1, 1961, they were married at St. Leo’s Roman Catholic Church in Elmwood Park. The two went on to cherish nearly fifty-two years of marriage until Lois’ passing in February of 2013.  The couple settled and remained in Wayne where they raised both of their daughters - Susan and Sharon.

Nothing in the world meant more to Matthew than providing for and spending time with his family. As a provider, he worked hard and maintained a beautiful home. As a father, he led by example. He took care of the day-to-day and passed on his values. He was a parishioner of the Immaculate Heart of Mary Church and raised his daughters in the Catholic faith. He truly held his wife and girls close to his heart throughout his life, celebrating their successes as if they were his own and supporting them however he could.  

He rounded out his full life with many hobbies and interests, always sharing these with others and making many friends along the way. He was a sports enthusiast, holding season tickets for the Giants and following the Yankees. He was also an avid bowler, ping pong player, and ice skater. He enjoyed skiing, a sport which he and his wife Lois first learned in their forties. Matthew and his wife Lois took ballroom and country western dance lessons regularly.  With their close friends, they enjoyed musicals at the Paper Mill Playhouse. After retiring, Matthew and Lois traveled together extensively along with their close friends. They visited many places in the U.S. and went abroad to Europe, traveling to Austria, Denmark, Germany, Italy, Switzerland, and Russia. They also visited many of the U.S. National Parks and covered the Eastern Seaboard from Maine to Florida on their many family vacations.

Matthew will be forever remembered as a devoted husband, father, and man who had a magnetic personality that drew people to him. He had friends from every walk of life and maintained some friends for over 60 years. He could easily strike up a conversation and captivate an audience with his talent for public speaking and storytelling. He was kind, generous, disciplined and civic minded. He will live on in our loving memories and be forever missed.

Matthew is survived by his two daughters; Sharon Marakovitz of Lincoln Park, NJ, and Susan Marakovitz of Cambridge, MA, one brother Edward Marakovitz and his wife Dorinda Jaquith of Somerville, MA, and two nephews; Christopher Marakovitz, and Matthew Marakovitz.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Matthew’s name may be made to the Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad or the United Way of Northern New Jersey