Joseph DiPasquale, age 82, of Pompton Lakes, passed away peacefully at home with his loving family by his side, on Monday, March 19, 2018.

Joe was born and raised in Paterson and, after graduating from Central High School with the Class of 1953, he attended Lincoln Institute where he studied auto mechanics. He began his career as the owner of Grand Esso – a service center and gas station which he operated on the corner of Grand and Marshall Street in Paterson. After many years of doing his best to satisfy his many customers, Joe sold the business and went to work as a fleet supervisor maintaining the buses and Meals-On-Wheels delivery vehicles for Passaic County Para Transit in Wayne. He retired completely in 2006.

Joe met the love of his life, Anne Passiatore while spending time with common friends. Their first date was out for dinner and it quickly became mutually apparent that they were meant for each other. So, after a period of courtship, Joe asked Anne for her hand in marriage. She said yes and the engagement party was held at Joe Pips Hall on Haledon Ave. in Paterson. Then they exchanged their wedding promises on Saturday, August 9, 1958 at St. Anthony’s Church in Paterson. Joe and Anne’s first house was on Lewis Street in Paterson, and, in 1962, they moved to Wayne and lived there until moving to Pompton Lakes in 1993.

When he was younger, Joe had a lot of fun working on and racing midget racing cars at the race track in Pine Brook. He eventually put that behind him choosing instead to simply watch the pros race NASCAR. Besides racing, Joe loved his Brooklyn Dodgers, and even when they became the Los Angeles Dodgers, he kept rooting for them. In the fall and winter, it was Giants football season and Joe especially enjoyed it when his three sons would share time watching the game with him. Joe was very thankful for his loving family and the feeling was mutual. His quiet sense of humor and Nostradamus-like abilities to predict future events were most noteworthy. To Joe the simple things of life like home and togetherness were most important.

Joe was the beloved husband for fifty-nine-and-a-half years of Anne DiPasquale (nee Passiatore). He was the loving father of Joseph DiPasquale and wife Josephine of North Haledon, Mark DiPasquale and wife Delia of Wayne, and David DiPasquale and companion Patricia Church of Eatontown; cherished grandfather of Danielle, Arielle, Jessica, and Nicole; proud great-grandfather of Evelyn; dear uncle of several nieces and nephews; and dear brother-in-law of Janet DiPasquale. Joe was predeceased by his brother Salvatore DiPasquale and sister Mildred Winkler.

James V. Vecharello, Sr., age 76 of Wayne, died on Monday, March 19, 2018. He had been a resident of Wayne for thirty years.

Jim grew up in Belleville, NJ. One summer, while vacationing with his parents and two sisters in Upper Greenwood Lake, NY, he had the great fortune of meeting a lovely young lady named Catherine Provenzano. They soon fell in love and began a courtship which ultimately culminated in the exchange of their wedding vows on Saturday, July 7, 1962.  After the ceremony and reception, Jim and “Ginger” as she was known to many, drove to the Poconos in Jim’s ’56 Ford for their honeymoon. They settled in Jim’s hometown of Bellville before moving to Paterson and then West Paterson.  In 1988 they purchased a home in Wayne where they had lived happily ever since.

Jim’s first job was in the textile mills of Paterson. After a short stint there, he began working for his uncle in the family auto repair business. It was there that he found his vocational calling. He became a career mechanic who, in addition to working for his uncle, became a head mechanic for the Montclair Bloomfield Ford Dealership. In 1976 he opened his own business – CJ Auto Service in Bloomingdale. Jim derived the name by simply taking the first letter of his wife Catherine’s name, plus the first letter of his own name to come up with the “CJ” in CJ Auto Service. After ten years, Jim decided to sell and he completed his career as a mechanic for Entenmann’s Bakery in Little Falls.

Jim and Ginger were avid campers. They bought a tent one day and after their first campout, they traded up to a popup camper which eventually gave way to a large travel trailer that they towed all over the east coast. They’ve camped from Nova Scotia to Florida and everywhere in between. They traveled as far west as Tennessee and, with the exception of the one and only time that Ginger flipped the trailer, they enjoyed many miles of safe travel. They also loved riding snowmobiles – especially to Old Forge, NY in the winter months. Jim and Ginger once traveled nearly 600 miles on their snowmobiles, touring throughout Upstate NY, into Canada and back again. They just loved it and they loved being together. They also treated themselves to several more traditional vacations to Italy, London, Mexico, and even Hawaii – of course, not on snowmobiles. Jim had a classic 1964 ½ original Red Ford Mustang which he loved to spend time restoring. While he truly enjoyed all of these leisurely pursuits, Jim’s greatest love was, of course, his family. All of his hobbies, interests, and vacations were special because of the people he shared them with. His sons and grandchildren made him proud and he and Ginger shared a love not unlike that portrayed by Fred and Ethel Mertz - always with love in their hearts for each other.

Jim was the beloved husband of Catherine (nee Provenzano) who passed away in 2015. They enjoyed 53 years in a loving marriage. He is survived by his two sons: James, Jr. of Morris Plains and William of Vernon; his four cherished grandchildren: James Vincent Vecharello, III of Morris Plains, Amanda Lee Vecharello of Morris Plains, Julia Catherine Vecharello of Vernon, and Matthew William Vecharello of Vernon; two dear sisters: Sara Foglia and her late husband Robert of East Stroudsburg, PA, and Rose Marie LoGrecco and her husband Angelo of Murrell’s Inlet, SC; his brother in law and best friends Thomas Williams and his wife Corrine of Wayne; and his nieces and nephews: Dr. Gina Marie Foglia and her husband Ralph White of Stroudsburg, PA, Andrea Kolenc and her husband Ernie of Totowa, Richard Kaufman and his wife Michele of N. Arlington, Thomas Williams, Jr. and his wife Dana of Wayne, Michael Williams and his wife Krystan of Andover, and Kenneth Williams and his wife Theresa of Totowa. Jim was predeceased by his parents Concetta (nee Bennato) and William Vecharello.

Armen Menakian, age 52, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on Monday, March 19, 2018.

He was born to the late Mihran and Hermine Menakian in New York City. When he was just one year old the family moved from the Washington Heights section of Manhattan to Paramus, New Jersey.  Armen was raised in Paramus having attended Paramus High School with the Class of 1983.  He proudly enlisted in the Army Reserves and just after he finished basic training Armen suffered a non-military related head injury that affected him for the rest of his life.

He was very proud of graduating from taxidermy school in the Finger Lakes region of New York State and for many years he volunteered at the Paramus Veterans Home and at the former Paramus Nature Museum as well. Many will recall him riding his bicycle just about everywhere around Paramus and more recently his local reach was widened with his mastery of Uber. While living in Paramus he made many friends at his favorite Gold’s Gym which was a large part of his life. He was a friendly, outgoing and a good hearted person who loved children and they in turn loved him.  He truly enjoyed traveling and was blessed to be able to visit just about every country in the world with his parents. Armen had a huge heart and love of nature and animals. He was kind, considerate of others, loved to tell jokes, and had a very dry sense of humor. Armen also enjoyed fishing, wood carving, cooking, and talking politics.  He was gifted with a great memory, loved shopping, and had an extensive collection of teas. He really enjoyed living in his condo at the Breckenridge where he made many friends and they became his second family. He enjoyed going to the board meetings and conversing with everyone.

He was the loving brother of Maral Nazy and her husband Musa of Paramus and Hoorig Olivieri and her husband Frank of Wayne; cherished uncle of Christina Balas and her husband James of Oakland, Nicole Nazy of Pompton Lakes, Jamil Nazy of Paramus, Kristen Olivieri of Wayne, and Alyssa Olivieri of Wayne; he was the dearly loved great-uncle of Taleen and Nora Balas.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Leon’s Armenian Church, 12-61 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ 07410 would be appreciated.

James F. Nash, known to friends as “Jim,” peacefully passed surrounded by his loving family on March 18, 2018, at the age of 85 years.  Jim was a resident of Wayne with his wife, Frances (née Commarato), who survives him.  Born in Chicago, Illinois, on May 14, 1932, to Grace Shugrue Nash and James F. Nash, Jr., he moved in early childhood with his family to Katonah, New York, where he was raised and graduated from high school.  Jim graduated from the Wharton School of Business at the University of Pennsylvania with a B.S. in economics and then was commissioned as an ensign in the U.S. Navy Reserve, serving for two years and rising to the rank of lieutenant.  After his service in the Navy, Jim worked for the First National City Bank of New York in New York City before a long career as an executive in domestic and international finance at American Cyanamid.  While at Cyanamid, he was Director of Corporate Real Estate, Director of International Banking and Finance, and Assistant Treasurer before retiring in 1996.  Since his retirement, Jim had worked as a consultant in international finance and export insurance.

Jim had a zest for life and was a loving husband and father, as well as a doting grandfather and great-grandfather.  He was a voracious reader of mysteries and thrillers, and an avid gardener who frequently earned “Lawn of the Month” honors in his subdivision.  Jim also was an inveterate sun worshipper who loved the beach because “it sure beats working!”  Jim enjoyed traveling internationally and domestically with his wife, Frances, and visiting his daughters, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.  A devout Catholic who was a long-time parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation in Wayne and of St. Mary’s in Pompton Lakes, Jim spent many years helping with parish finances and was a driving force behind Ecuador Quilt, a philanthropic organization to build schools, playgrounds, and housing for the poor in Ecuador.

Jim also is survived his daughters Jean Hildreth of Atlanta and Karen Nash-Goetz of Baltimore, sons-in-law Jeff Hildreth and Chuck Goetz, grandchildren Kathleen Hildreth, Katie Hildreth, Abby Hildreth Johnson and her husband Nolan, Emily Hildreth, Molly Hildreth, and Hal Goetz, and great-grandchildren Enya Renfrow and Will Johnson.  His sister Barbara Nash Hudgins, his brothers John Nash and Michael Nash, and his sisters-in-law Midge Nash and Joan Nash, also survive him.  Jim will be long remembered by his family and his large circle of friends for his humor, love of life, and generosity.

Memorial donations in memory of Jim can be made to Our Lady of Consolation Catholic Church of Wayne, New Jersey.

Marty S. Walk, age 67 of West Milford, died suddenly and unexpectedly at home on Friday, March 16, 2018.  Marty was the owner/operator of Highland Trucking in West Milford for the past fifteen years.  He was also a longtime volunteer member of the West Milford Macopin Fire Company #4.

Marty was raised in Paterson and moved to Wayne with his family as a teenager.  He had been a manager of the Willowbrook Sears for more than twenty years before he purchased the Park West Cleaners on McBride Ave. in West Paterson.  He ran the laundry with his family for nearly fifteen years before starting Highland Trucking.

His wife recalls how Marty was always willing to help others.  He would gladly drop whatever he was doing to help a friend in need.  He was also a wonderful husband and father who worked very hard to provide for all of them.  He never sat still and was always on the move.  For example, during their annual summer vacation to Long Beach Island, Marty would begin his relaxation by washing all the windows of the rental house!  And the running joke was that Marty’s beach chair was always there in the sand…but he never sat in it!  It was simply his nature to be perpetually active.  A skill he honed well at the boardwalk was operating “the Claw” arcade machines; he was a pro at the claw and was able to grab many prizes over the years for his family.  There was a “little boy” quality to Marty’s personality and the boardwalk was one of those places where you saw that very happy part of him.  His greatest joy came from spending time with his children and grandchildren.  He loved being with them, enjoying activities with them, and he learned as much as he could about each of their interests.  He truly loved them with all of his heart, and he’s left them with wonderful memories to cherish throughout their lifetimes.

Marty met his wife, Arlene (nee Graupe), during the 1970’s when they both worked at Sears.  Arlene was working at the Sears food concession when Marty ordered two eggs.  He asked for one egg up and one egg over, explaining that the eggs would look as though they were winking at her.  His charm led to a proposal at the Bundle of Rubble Restaurant in Wayne and they married on July 31, 1977 in West Paterson.  After a wonderful honeymoon to Hawaii, they settled in West Milford where they have lived and raised their family ever since.  Arlene describes Marty as “very hard working and forgiving” man, and they were truly united in loving matrimony for over forty years.  She will miss him dearly.

Marty is survived by his wife Arlene (nee Graupe), daughter; Karalyn of West Milford, son Brian and his wife Janine of Franklin Lakes, two grandchildren; Josephine and Vivienne of Franklin Lakes, two brothers; John Walk and his wife Melanie of Upstate New York, and Zem Walk and his wife Eve of Warren, NJ, one sister; Jenne Schleider of Wayne, a brother-in-law; Bob Liem of Marlboro, NJ, and a large, extended family.  He was predeceased by his sister; Faye Liem of Marlboro in 2014, as well as both of his parents.

Donations in Marty’s memory would be appreciated.  Please consider the West Milford Macopin Fire Company, 1362 Macopin Rd., West Milford, NJ 07480, or the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 15829, Arlington, VA 22215.  Marty's daughter, Karalyn rides for the ADA "Tour de Cure" and your direct support would be very much appreciated.  Click here to support Karalyn's ride.

Lawrence “Larry” William Boniface, age 31, passed Thursday, March 15, 2018.

Larry was born and raised  in Kinnelon NJ.  He went to DelBarton High School in Morristown where he played lacrosse and hockey, and was Assistant Captain of the Ice Hockey team, graduating in 2005.  He attended Villanova University and graduated in 2009, earning a BS Degree in Economics. He played ice hockey for the Villanova Icecats for four years, and was team captain.

Upon graduation Larry worked at Bonland Industries in New York City as a Project Manager.  He then took a job with Goldman Sachs in Salt Lake City, Utah where he played semi-pro hockey for the Park City Pioneers and enjoyed many hours of snowboarding.   After four years he returned to Bonland Industries in Wayne.

Larry will be  remembered  as a warm, loving person with a quick wit, who touched everyone he met.  His smile and the twinkle in his eye would simply light up a room. He was a true athlete, loved snowboarding and working out, and had a deep passion for the game of hockey. Of all of Larry’s passions, he was always happiest spending time at home with his family.

Larry was the loving son of Bill and Debbie Boniface; devoted brother of Meredith Kayne and her husband Josh of Boca Raton, Florida; he was the cherished uncle of Bodhi and Luca Kayne; much loved grandson of his Maternal grandfather Lawrence Canovali of Vero Beach, FL and his late wife Joan, and Paternal grandparents Earnest and Margaret Boniface of Wayne.

Larry was also a beloved nephew, cousin, and friend to many.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 would be appreciated.

Donald Barno, 57 of Wayne, died peacefully at home on Wednesday, March 14, 2018.  He was a cancer survivor for more than twenty two years.

Don grew up in Garfield and graduated from Garfield High School with the class of 1978.  He first worked at Singer-Kearfott and the Garfield Board of Education before joining the Garfield Housing Authority more than twenty years ago.  Don was a skilled maintenance man and he was especially loved by the Garfield residents for his ability to fix just about anything.  Someone was always offering to make him lunch or inviting him over to watch TV.  He was tall and a bit intimidating with his leather jacket, tattoos, and tough looks, but Don was a self-described “rough & tough cream puff.”  He was a good guy with a big heart, generous spirit, and always willing to help anyone in need.

Don loved animals and he surprised his family on many occasions with all sorts of critters.  Tarantulas, birds, cats, dogs, and he even rescued an injured pigeon once, driving it to the local veterinarian for help.  He loved to go surf-casting off of Sandy Hook and Cape May Point, although he wasn’t a very good fisherman at all, and rarely caught anything other than sharks.  Cape May was among his favorite places and he had a home there for several years.  He was a huge football fan and the Cincinnati Bengals were his team. Don also loved all types of music. He was a drummer and would often be tapping the beat to songs while on the couch, in his truck, or anywhere else.  Don also enjoyed going all-out on Halloween, decorating his house and hosting a large party.  If Tom Jones music was blasting from his house, you knew the party had started!  He knew how to have fun and could make you laugh for hours.  He will be sorely missed by many.

Don met his wife Heather (Neil) in 1990.  He asked her out, but she said “no!”  A few months later she agreed to go out with him and they quickly fell for each other.  They married on July 18, 1992 and honeymooned in the Bahamas.  They settled in Wayne that same year and they’ve enjoyed twenty-six years of marriage together.  Heather has always loved his quick wit, even if he was a wise-ass from time to time, and she will miss him dearly.

Don is survived by his loving wife Heather of Wayne, and their daughter; Samantha Oras and her husband Alex of Parsippany, as well as several much-loved pets.  He was predeceased by his parents and his brother; Michael Barno, of Ballston Spa, NY in 2013.

Donations in Don’s memory would be appreciated to “Animal Rescue R Us” P.O. Box 1005, Lodi, NJ 07644 or visit their website at www.arrus.org.

Hugh O’Reilly, age 98, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, formerly an over fifty year resident of the Packanack Lake Section of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Tuesday, March 13, 2018.

He was born in Belfast, Ireland. At the age of 3, his family came to the United States on the S. S. Cameronia sailing out of Londonderry. They settled in Passaic, New Jersey and were raised in the Saint Nicholas Parish in Passaic. As a youth he helped support his family during the Great Depression and went to a Depression Work Camp in Haledon to learn a trade. He would talk about his time in the work camp and how he helped to build the rock wall along Goffle Road in Hawthorne. On February 16, 1942 he entered the US Army and served as a Tank Crewman. He served in Naples-Foggia and Rome-Arno, the North Apennines, and the PO Valley Campaigns. For his service he received the European-African-Middle Eastern Service Medal, the Good Conduct Medal, and the Purple Heart with Oak Leaf Cluster Medals. He was honorably discharged on September 28, 1945.

After his service, Hugh found work as a machinist for the U.S. Rubber Company in Passaic, where they made the Keds sneakers. He worked there for thirty-three years until the company moved away. He later worked for the Passaic Board of Elections for about twenty years.

Hugh met a pretty and smart woman named Phyllis Kay through friends. They soon fell in love and married on February 18, 1951 at Saint Josephs Church in Paterson. They drove to Florida in a black Pontiac and honeymooned in Fort Lauderdale. With the help of the G.I. Bill the young couple were able to buy a home at 41 Hillcrest Drive in Wayne where they raised their family and called home for over fifty years. They have enjoyed a loving marriage of sixty-seven years having spent the autumn years of their life at Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains.

Hugh will be remembered as the kind of person who was always inquisitive by nature and always seeking to learn. He was truly self-taught in many ways. His machinist heart loved to analyze just about everything around him and he especially enjoyed looking at different tools and how they were used. He was a craftsman and forever tinkering. He built an addition to his home, took apart a 1952 “Willys” automobile and rebuilt it. He amazingly built a custom trailer that the family took on their annual camping vacations to Cape Cod. He and Phyllis were blessed to travel to many and varied places all around the world including: Antarctica on a Russian research ship, Argentina, Easter Island, Tibet, the British Isles, China, and Italy to name a few. His curiosity regarding how things worked carried over to his travel as well. He was always fascinated by the tools and machines the varied cultures he encountered used. His breadth of knowledge was wide and varied and as of late he was trying to figure out the iPhone.

Hugh is survived by his wife Phyllis O’Reilly; his children: Jack O’Reilly and his wife Mary, Dr.Michael O’Reilly and his wife Saundra, Maura Kayal and her husband John, Jean O’Reilly, and Brian O’Reilly; his eight grandchildren: Brendan O’Reilly, Sean O’Reilly, Padraic O’Reilly, AndreaKayal, Jeffrey Kayal, Daniel Kayal, Ryan Kayal, and Shannon O’Reilly Leahy, one greatgrandchild Opal Faye O’Reilly. He was the loved brother of the late Joseph O’Reilly, Margaret(Peggy) nee Biss and Kathleen O’Reilly.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the "Cedar Crest Resident Care Fund" with "In Memory of Hugh O'Reilly" written in the memo line of the check. Contributions can be mailed to: Cedar Crest, Attn: Department of Philanthropy, 1 Cedar Crest Drive, Pompton Plains, NJ 07444.

Dolores D. Santen, age 98, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday March 13, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born and raised in Union City to Ernest and Rinaee Maggiora.  Like many of the men and women of the “Greatest Generation”, Dolores grew up during the deprivation of the Great Depression and as young adults bore witness to the Second World War.

After graduating from High School with the class of 1938, Dolores went to work in an office for one of her local Catholic Churches.  During that time she met a handsome young man by the name of Rocky Ramagnano.  They dated for short while and were married in 1941 just before Rocky enlisted in the United States Navy.  Following Rocky’s Honorable Discharge from the military, Dolores and Rocco settled in Union City.  There, they had their first and only child, Joanne.  Joanne was born with a congenital heart problem.  When she turned thirteen, her doctors recommended that she finally have the surgery she needed.  Tragically, Joanne passed away shortly after surgery due to complications.  Dolores was a strong woman with perseverance and a resilient Catholic Faith.  It was through her faith and inner strength she found the will to move forward.  Dolores and Rocco went on and cherished forty-five years of loving and loyal marriage until Rocky’s passing in 1980.

Dolores owned many cars throughout her life, and from time to time, like many of us, she had to have repairs made.  She was a loyal customer of a particular service station in the town of Wayne.  The owner of the station asked her if she would like to meet a nice man her age.  That man was the owner’s father-in-law, Ray Santen.  Dolores agreed and went bowling on a double date with Ray, his son-in-law, and his son-in-law’s wife.  As fate would have it, Dolores and Ray both found love again and were married after only a short time in May of 1987.  Ray and Dolores settled in Pompton Lakes and cherished only six years of marriage when Ray tragically and unexpectedly passed away in 1993.  Although Ray and Dolores didn’t have children together, Ray had two daughters of his own, Judi and Margie.  Dolores had and continued to have a special and dear relationship with them and their children.  During the short time that they had together, Ray and Dolores traveled to many different destination including Hawaii, Italy and Cruises to other various destinations.

Dolores was extremely dedicated to her Catholic Faith and was a parishioner of the Church of Annunciation in Wayne.  She was also a Parishioner of St Mary’s Church in Pompton Lakes prior to Annunciation.  During her time as a parishioner at St Mary’s, she was a member of the RCIA with her cousin Steven Madreperla, who was a deacon there.  The Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults, is a process developed by the Catholic Church in preparing adults, including those seeking full communion with the Catholic Church, for the reception of the sacraments of initiation, baptism, Eucharist, and confirmation not previously received.  Dolores always had a special relationship with Steve and his family.  They would often travel together with Steven’s wife Dorian and their children on long trips.   Not only devoted to her catholic Faith, Dolores was always willing to devote and volunteer her time to charity and those who were less fortunate.  Throughout her life, Dolores always sought opportunities to volunteer and serve others.  She volunteered at the Association of the Blind and worked as a secretary for St. Joseph’s Home for the Blind in Jersey City.

Dolores was also an avid bowler that held a respectfully high average.  One of her most impressive accomplishments was bowling a 224, at the age of Ninety!  Dolores was an extraordinarily strong person and was blessed with a long healthy life.  Although having lived through very difficult, troubling times and situations in her life, Dolores touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Dolores is survived by her Step-Daughters; Judi Asaro and her husband Robert of  West Milford, Margie Panas and her husband Richard of Bloomingdale, five grandchildren; Mark, Matthew, Jenna, Amy, Christopher, eight great-grandchildren Lucy, Raye, Matthew, Clark, Stephen, Douglas, Calvin, and Jake, and her dear cousin Steven Madreperla and his wife Dorian of Barnegat, and their four children; Steve Jr., Scott, Dorian, Nancy & spouses, and nine grandchildren; Emily, Eugene, Grace, Nicholas, Paige, Olivia, Faith, Julia, and Matthew.  She is also survived by her beloved niece, Cathy Pusterla, husband, John, and their sons in addition to scores of friends.  She was pre-deceased by her first husband Rocky Ramagnano in 1980, her daughter Joanne Ramagnano in 1959, and her second husband Ray Santen in 1993.

Carmen Melchor, of Haskell and formerly of Pequannock, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 13, 2018 at the age of 90.

Carmen was born in Quito, Ecuador and immigrated to the United States in her early 20’s.  She married Luis Melchor and started a family in New York, settled her family in Pequannock, New Jersey and later relocated to Miami, Florida in order to start a successful import-export business.

Carmen will be lovingly remembered as a big-hearted, socially active, hard-working and generous person who, through music and dancing, loved life to the fullest and loved being with her family and her dear friends.  Carmen was extremely dedicated to her Catholic faith which stayed with her until the end.

Carmen was the loving mother of Louis Melchor and his wife, Jolyn and Elizabeth Williamson and her fiancé, Ray; cherished grandmother of Jennifer Bathgate and her husband Andy, Nicole Grabinski and her husband Rich, Stephan Vegliante, Kimberly Vegliante, Michelle DeGraff and her husband Gary, Julie Melchor and Adam Melchor; and much loved great-grandmother of Brayden, Barron , Benjamin, and Nicholas.

Grace E. Vagell (nee Noble) born July 15, 1943 left this world on Monday March 12, 2018.

She was born in Paterson, NJ to parents Roy and Dolores Noble.

She graduated Eastside High School and Barbizon School of Modeling in which she did a photo shoot for BSA Magazine.  She worked as a statistical typist/steno for Kearfott/General Precision Aerospace then raised her three sons which meant the world to her.  She then worked for Lakeland Regional High School in the main office for the Vice Principal and was Supervisor of Substitute Teachers.  She worked there 22½ years and retired in 2005.

Grace belonged to the Elk’s Ladies’ Auxiliary #1895 of Pompton Lakes and served as their Chaplain.

She was a member of Class of 1961 Reunion Committee.

She also organized the “Fab Five” luncheons with the same girls she went to Kindergarten with.

Grace enjoyed cooking/eating, reading, crossword puzzles, poker, Bocce, watching TV mysteries and comedies with her husband, Bingo and writing poetry which she hoped to someday publish.  She wrote and read the prayers for the Elk’s Dinner Parties.

Beloved wife of Robert W. Vagell, Sr.  Loving mother of three sons, Matthew (Amy), Roy, and Ronald Giarmo.

Loving grandmother of Camerson Giarmo.

Loving stepmother of Cindy (Frank) Bacigal, Lynn (Jerome) Levy, Robbe (Todd)Huth Vagell and step grandchildren Gabrielle Levy, Corrine & Paige Bacigal and Lucca Huth Vagell.

Devoted sister of Roy (Nancy) Noble and nephew Damien (Caroline) Noble and their children Julien and Alexandra Noble and niece Jessica (Lou) Durso.

Also devoted cousins and very dear friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Grace’s name to Elk’s Lodge #1895, 1 Perrin Ave, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Victor S. Houghton, age 88, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, passed peacefully on Saturday, March 10, 2018.

He was born in New York City and raised in Oakland, New Jersey.  He graduated from the Pompton Lakes High School with the Class of 1947.

Out of high school Victor served four years in the United States Coast Guard and after being honorably discharged found work as a door-to-door salesman.  He soon realized the salesman’s life was not for him and had an opportunity to become an apprentice electrician with IBEW (International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers) Local 102 in Paterson. He enjoyed working as an electrician and was soon a full-fledged member of IBEW Local 102 which eventually moved to Parsippany.  He retired after a many year career from the Electrical Union and worked for a few years as a driver for the ADP payroll company

Victor’s wife enjoyed telling the story of their first meeting.  When they first met Victor pointed at her and said “you’re coming with me!”  From the first meeting they were both smitten with each other and soon fell in love marrying in January of 1991.  They have enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of twenty-seven years.

Many will remember Victor as a kind hearted, generous, tough man who would stick up for others even if it meant sticking his neck out for you.  He had a dry sense of humor and was too honest at times.

He was the loving husband of Kathy Houghton; devoted father of Kathy Brody and her husband Robert of Lake Hopatcong, Keith Houghton and his wife Veronica of Sebastian, FL; loved step-dad of Nick Quinn and his wife Dawn of Wayne; cherished grandfather of Cathy, Jared, Jennifer, Keith Jr., Sarah H., Veronica Mary, and Sarah B.; he was the much loved great-grandfather of Michaela, Cooper, David, Anneliese, Daniel, Jaylen, and Joseph; he was the dearly loved brother of the late Ruth Snydack, Lois Bachelor, and Marjorie Bachelor.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Wayne Township Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 would be appreciated.

Robert (Bob) Hayes Reed died peacefully in his sleep on March 9, 2018 at the age of ninety. A longtime resident of Wayne, NJ, Bob was born in Nashville Tennessee, the son of Col. William Allison Reed and Dorothy Brooks Reed. He was a graduate of Riverdale Country Day School, and Trinity College in Hartford, Connecticut, and he earned two masters degrees from Columbia University. Bob married Louise Wade Longenecker on April 21, 1962, and they enjoyed 56 wonderful years of marriage. He was an employment counselor and later a supervisor for the New York State Department of Labor for over 25 years. Bob enjoyed singing, acting and history, and he loved to travel with his wife, Louise.

Bob and Louise raised their three daughters in Packanack Lake, enjoying swimming and sailing on the lake in summers and ice skating in the winter. Bob made a porch swing where the girls would sit and listen to him sing “Bye, Bye Blackbird” and “the Merry Widow” on hot summer nights.

Bob was a proud “Barbershopper” and a member of the bass section of the Montclair Chorus and later the Dapper Dans of Harmony, both barbershop choruses which were part of the Society for the Preservation of Barbershop Quartet Singing in America. Fondly, he remembered performing on stage with the Montclair Chorus to earn a 5th place finish at the international competition in San Francisco, California in 1976. Bob was a member of Wayne Presbyterian Church for over 45 years where his lovely bass voice blessed the church choir; he smiled after he hit his low D.

Bob enjoyed community theater. A memorable role was “Teddy Roosevelt” Brewster in the Packanack Players’ production of Arsenic and Old Lace. Once he involved his entire family in a production of The Sound of Music, with some on stage and some in the pit orchestra.

A history buff, Bob was a member of the Titanic Historical Society and could be counted upon to provide trivia of all kinds, as requested. He and his wife made a pilgrimage to Thompson Dry Dock where the Titanic was built.

Bob and Louise loved to travel, often for a month at a time. Among their many journeys were two trans-Atlantic ship crossings, a Canadian rail crossing on the historic Pullman cars before they were retired, a tour of Israel, Egypt and Jordan, and a special Christmas in London with his entire family where they admired the windows at Harrods Department Store. He was a wonderful guide on road trips, finding scenic byways and little known historical gems.

Bob is survived by his wife, Louise, his three daughters, Amy Louise Eich, Susan Kay Dromsky-Reed, and Deborah Reed Joves, seven grandchildren, Louise Elizabeth Eich, Dolph Evan Eich, Jr., Katharine Marie Eich, Jessie Elisabeth Dromsky-Reed, Robert Millen Dromsky-Reed, Constance Athena Joves, Audrey Reed Joves, and one great-grandchild, Dolph Evan Eich, III. He was loved.

Philip Zofrea, age 89, of North Haledon, passed suddenly on March 9, 2018.

He was born and raised in Paterson having graduated from Central High School. While in high school he was an All-State athlete in multiple sports having been on the football, basketball, baseball, and track teams. Just out of high school he signed with a minor league division of the New York Giants baseball team.  He married his high school sweetheart, Marie Schrick on July 18, 1953 at Saint Pauls RC Church in Prospect Park and honeymooned at Lake George, New York.

As a young man he began working as a mason and builder. He founded ZOF Enterprises and was self-employed within the building trade for many years before retiring in 1988. During the winter months he removed snow for the Paterson Schools. He also applied his trade skills to working as the Director of the Department of Public Works for the town of North Haledon for six years.

Phil was truly dedicated to his community. One avenue of that service was dedicated to helping the youth within his community develop their athletic talents. He coached numerous teams and sports in the area where he touched many lives. Some of the places he coached include: Kennedy High School, Eastside High School, Hawthorne High School, Manchester Regional High School, North Haledon Eagles, and Saint Michaels where he played semi-pro football and coached. He also served as Head Coach and Assistant Coach for the William Paterson University Pioneers. Phil was very proud of his appointment to the Paterson Athletic Hall of Fame.

Another avenue of his community dedication was to the Borough of North Haledon. He was a Councilman and served on the Board of Recreation and many other township committees. Many will remember him for his morning walks with Uncle Jack, Uncle Ed and friends. As they walked through the township you could always count on a big wave from them as you drove by Phil also had a special seat at the Village Gourmet Deli in North Haledon where many of the worlds problems were solved over a cup of coffee. Phil, made friends easily, always treasured those friendships, and even had friends from high school he regularly had lunch with. Phil will be remembered as a generous, strong, supportive person who you could always count on to have your back. He was the kind of person who would be there for you before you even asked.

Phil was the loving husband of sixty-five years to Marie Zofrea; devoted father of Karla Zofrea and her husband Nick Sardone, and Philip Zofrea and his wife Brenda of Bradenton, FL; cherished grandfather of Nicholas and Michael Sardone, and Christopher and Zachary Zofrea; he was the loved brother of Saveria Long of West Milford, and the late Concetta Coronato, Joseph and Dominic Zofrea.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 would be greatly appreciated.

Theresa Darleen Zosche (nee Gwizdak), age 86, of Pine Brook, passed away on Wednesday, March 7, 2018.

After graduating from Mount Saint Vincent Academy in Newark, Theresa went to work for Prudential Life Insurance Company in Newark. She took the same bus to work every day, and there was one young man who also regularly commuted on that same bus. Terry could not help but notice him because he was very handsome and seemed like quite the gentleman. Apparently, she caught his eye too and, consequently, they began do date. His name was Raymond Zosche and, as God’s providence would have it, they married on Saturday, May 24, 1952 at Sacred Heart Church in Irvington. After the wedding, Terry and Raymond initially settled in Irvington before moving to Pine Brook into a home that Ray built with his own two hands including masonry, framing and all the finishing touches. Ray built the home and, together with Terry, they filled it with love and four beautiful children.

Creative at heart, Terry wove artistry into every facet of her honorable roll of adored wife, super mom, and homemaker. She was an amazing seamstress who used her skills for everything from creatively decorating the home to making the greatest, over-the-top Halloween costumes. A gourmet cook and baker, she enjoyed being imaginative with delicious meals and she always had fun planning themed parties to make her children’s birthdays special along with lovingly baked sky-high birthday cakes too.  

Theresa wanted her kids to experience all that life could offer and she loved being with them to watch them take it all in. She was an enthusiastic Cub Scout Den Mother and Girl Scout leader and reliable taxi driver to their music lessons. Theresa and Ray were always together and they included their children in all their activities. They wanted their family to share amazing events and destinations so they took trips to many places like the World’s Fair in New York, the Expo in Montreal, Yosemite National Park in California, Arizona’s Grand Canyon, trips throughout Mexico, Spain and Hawaii, and events surrounding the bicentennial of our great country in 1976.  

Theresa was a parishioner of St. Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes where she served as a Eucharistic Minister, much-adored Confirmation Leader and, along with her husband Raymond, she would visit nursing homes to bring fellowship and communion to the residents.

Theresa was one of the most perfect examples of what a loving wife, mother, and grandmother should be and was very much loved by her family while also enjoying the respect of many friends. While her life here has ended, it has just begun in the presence of her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Her family mourns her loss but are so grateful for her amazing new life and that she is reunited with her beloved husband Ray.

Terry was the beloved wife for fifty years of Raymond Zosche. She is survived by two dear sons: Thomas Zosche and his wife Barbara of Byran, and Dr. Darren Zosche and his wife Karen of Mendham; two much-loved daughters: Donna Aquino and her husband Dennis of Kinnelon, and Karyn Sobieski and her husband Stan of Ringoes; one dear brother Daniel Gwizdak of East Brunswick; and nine cherished grandchildren: Christine, Dianna and husband Sean, Janette, Christopher, Alex and Natalie, Alec, Ryan and Reece. She was also predeceased by her sister Joan Machos.

Kazimierz Lapszynski, age 79, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday, March 6th, 2018 in the presence of, and while receiving the loving care of his family.

Kazimierz was born in Poland to Wladyslaw and Katorzyna Lapszynski.  He was born and spent the first several years of his life at a time when the entire world was at war.  Kazimierz and his family were uprooted at the onset of the war and were eventually relocated to Prudnik, Poland.  Prudnik is where Kazimierz would spend his formative years, get his formal education and work on the small farm his family owned.

Following his High School graduation, Kazimierz was recruited into the Polish military.  Not long after being discharged from the military, Kazimierz attended a local village dance with a few close friends.  That night is when he met a young attractive women by the name of Helena Drobnicka.  Helena was a young pretty girl who caught the attention of many of the young men.  Kazimierz though, out maneuvered, and outwitted all of them and got Helena to go out with him on a date. Kazimierz courted Helena for about two years and as fate would have it, they fell in love and were married.  They got married on October 6th, 1961 in a small Roman Catholic Church in the City of Prudnik.

Subsequent to their marriage, they immigrated to the United States in 1964, for search a better life and the American Dream.  They left Poland with their one year old child and while Helena was six months pregnant with their second.  Upon arriving in the United State, they settled in Garfield where they lived for seven years.  Then, in 1972 they moved their family to Wayne.  Wayne was the place they would call home for the rest of their lives together and raise their four children.  Helena and Kazimierz cherished fifty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Kazimierz earned a position as a maintenance mechanic when they moved to the US, at a company called Pantasote in Passaic, where he worked for eighteen years.  Following the closing of Pantasote, Kazimierz went to work for Globe Foods in Clifton for five years, then Roche in Passaic for about four years then finally at Almedica in Waldwick until his retirement in 1994.  All of the positions that Kazimierz held were of a technical nature, installing, and maintaining equipment such as production line machinery of all kinds. Kazimierz excelled in all of the positions he held due to the pride he took in his work.  Kazimierz earned numerous accommodations throughout his career and more importantly he earned the respect and admiration of all that were lucky enough to know him.

Kazimierz was an avid gardener.  In Pennsylvania, he owned a small farm where he maintained an orchard of fruit trees.  In addition to maintaining his orchard, Kazimierz also upheld a bountiful vegetable garden, an assortment of berry bushes, several Honey Bee colonies and became a Master Beekeeper.  Actually anything having to do with the outdoors or wildlife, Kazimierz had a love for.  Fishing and hunting in particular brought many years of joy and satisfaction to him.  Being the highly skilled mechanic that he was, Kazimierz loved to work with his hands and had a hard time sitting still.  He could fix just about anything.

Kazimierz was also devoted to his catholic faith, he and Helena were parishioners of St Joseph’s Roman Catholic Church in Passaic for many years.  Kazimierz was also an usher for the church for many years as well.  His family remembers many summer days over the years being spent at the Jersey Shore, particularly Seaside Heights, where he would go fishing and clamming.

Aside from all of Kazimierz’s hobbies, skills and interests, his greatest love and passion was for his family.  Nothing meant more to Kazimierz than providing for and spending time with his family.   Kazimierz was an extraordinary person, he was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Kazimierz is survived by his wife Helena (Drobnicka) of Wayne, three sons, Christopher Lapszynski, John Lapszynski and his wife Marybeth of Oak Ridge, and Joseph Lapszynski and his wife Jolanta of Garfield, one daughter Irena Gazzillo and her husband Nick of Freehold, ten grandchildren; Brooke, Samantha, JohnPaul, Nicholas, Patrick, Christopher, Mark, Kimberly, Kathleen,, and Eric.

In Lieu of flowers, those planning a donation in Kazimierz name are asked to consider The Lustgarten Foundation, 415 Crossways Park Dr., D, Woodbury, NY 11797, or Rutgers Cancer Institute of New Jersey 195 Little Albany St, New Brunswick, NJ 08901.

Charles A. Wigfield, age 91, of Prospect Park and formerly of Wayne passed away peacefully while surrounded by his family.

Charles was born in Paterson and grew up in Prospect Park. He graduated from Central High School in Paterson with the class of 1944 and served his country in the United States Navy until 1947.  After a short stint with the telephone company, he started working for Story Electric Motor Repair Company, Inc. in Little Falls, eventually becoming one of the owners of the company.  He worked for that company until his retirement in 1992.  Unable to sit still in retirement, he put his mechanical talents to good use working for other companies and volunteering with Habitat for Humanity.

He was a lifelong member of the Sixth Reformed Church in Prospect Park and met his wife Betty there in 1947 after returning from service.  He and Betty were married in February of 1949 and started a family with the birth of their first child in 1950.  In 1955, Charles and Betty moved to Wayne where they raised their 3 children.  After their children left the family home and were married, Charles and Betty moved back to Prospect Park where they resided for the rest of their married lives.

Charles and Betty spent their summers and as many weekends as possible in a house they owned in Ocean Grove.  Since the house was over 100 years old, Charles never ran out of things he could do to fix up and repair.  At the Sixth Reformed Church, Charles was an active member having served as both a Deacon and an Elder of the church as well as a member of the male chorus.  Charles was extremely devoted to his Christian faith and was a godly man of integrity; in addition to his involvement in the Sixth Reformed Church, he also served as an usher in the Great Auditorium.  It was a very rare summer Sunday when Charles did not participate in the traditional usher’s march during the morning and evening services. During the rare times he wasn’t participating in church activities or fixing something, Charles enjoyed seeing his friends and playing golf with his best friend, Joe Van Eeuwen.

Charles is survived by his son, David and his wife Kathleene of Wayne; two daughters, Pamela Hess and her husband Christian of Kinnelon, and Allison Cantilina and her husband John of Milford; six grandchildren and one great grandchild; and his sister, Corinne Verduin of Wyckoff.

Those planning to make donations in Charles’ name are asked to consider Living Word Reformed Church, 21 Pleasant View Drive, North Haledon, NJ 07508 or The Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association, Attn: Now and Forever Fund, 54 Pitman Avenue, P.O. Box 248, Ocean Grove, NJ, 07756.

Joyce Frances Chiaro Schwartz (nee Passero) 81, of Totowa, passed Monday, March 5, 2018.

She was born in Stamford, Connecticut and raised in Haledon, New Jersey before moving to Montville.  She graduated from the Mary Help of Christians Academy with the Class of 1954. After high school she continued her education at the Saint Joseph's Hospital School of Nursing in Paterson having graduated in 1957.

After graduating from nursing school Joyce married Ralph Chiaro in November of 1957. Ralph was serving in the United States Air Force at the Dover Air Force Base in Delaware and the newly married couple soon started their family. After having two children, the next stop for the young family was Mt. Holly, New Jersey where Ralph was transferred to McGuire Air Force Base in Wrightstown. Ralph was discharged from the Air Force in 1964, they settled in Totowa, New Jersey. Joyce continued her career as a Registered Nurse at Saint Joseph's Hospital in Paterson and Ralph worked at Ford Motor Company in Mahwah, New Jersey. In 1967, when their daughter Patricia was eight and daughter Marie was six, Ralph suddenly and unexpectedly passed away. Joyce was a single working mom who raised two children on her own. She not only raised them but managed to buy a house in Totowa. After working at the hospital Joyce worked as the nurse for Dr. Sydney Baxt on 21st Avenue in Paterson, the Little Sisters of the Poor where she worked the night shift, and retired from nursing while at the Daughters of Miriam in 2002.

Joyce will be lovingly remembered as a big hearted, socially active, generous person. She was a great baker and her Christmas Cake and Carrot Cake will always be fondly remembered. Joyce was a member of the Totowa Junior Women’s Club, the Clifton Quilters Guild, Past President of the Totowa Seniors, a member of the Totowa Republican Club, the Italian American Club, and the Friends of the Totowa Library.

She was the loving wife of the late Ralph Chiaro (1967) and wife of the late Marvin Schwartz (1996); devoted mother of Patricia Gangi and her husband Thomas of West Milford, and Marie Reenstra and her husband John, Jr. of Pequannock; cherished grandmother of John Reenstra III, Kelsey Reenstra, Rebecca Zuks and her husband Art, and Nicholas Gangi; loved sister of Sr. Louise Passero of the Salesian Sisters of Saint John Bosco of Haledon, and the late Charlene Jaycox (2017).

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Salesian Sisters of Saint John Bosco, 659 Belmont Ave., North Haledon, NJ 07508 would be appreciated.

Thomas F. Lowe, age 71 of Wayne, NJ, died suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, March 3, 2018.  He has lived in Wayne, NJ for over forty years.

Tom was a lawyer and had been an Administrator with the Office of Administrative Law.

Tom was raised in Clifton, NJ and graduated from Seton Hall Preparatory High School in Newark, NJ.  He earned his Bachelor’s Degree from the College of the Holy Cross and began teaching at Kennedy High School in Paterson, NJ upon graduation.  Deciding to serve his country during the Vietnam War, he enlisted in the United States Army.  After completing Officer Training in Fort Dix, he was sent to both Panama and Guam to complete jungle training school and was quickly sent off to Vietnam to serve as a 2nd Lieutenant in the infantry division.  Tom was a decorated soldier, having earned a Bronze Star for distinguished service in combat, and was honorably discharged as a 1st Lieutenant in 1970.  He was grateful to serve his nation and credited his military experience for teaching him the personal management skills that proved useful to him throughout his lifetime.  Tom was a devoted, focused, and exceptionally bright man who believed in helping others reach their true potential.

Upon returning home from Vietnam, Tom took a job as a Probation Officer for Passaic County, NJ.  In 1979, he took the position of Administrative Clerk with the Office of Administrative Law in Newark, NJ and began his long-tenured career in civil service.  In 1980, he was accepted into Seton Hall Law School and earned his Juris Doctorate degree in 1984, all while working and raising two young children.

Early in his career, while working in Passaic County, Tom met Georgina Calcines.  The two of them fell in love and were married on April 23rd, 1978.  Their marriage was defined by love and laughter, as well as “healthy debates,” but it was truly a blessed union.  They promised to never give up on each other and to always be there to support and encourage one another.  Tom and Georgina traveled extensively both within the United States and internationally and shared wonderful memories in many destinations, including Germany, Spain, Italy, Mexico, the Caribbean, Florida, California, and the Grand Canyon in Arizona.  Martha’s Vineyard was one of his favorite vacation destinations, as was the Pocono Mountains, which was very special to him.  Georgina describes their forty years together as “so blessed” and credits their love of their family, their friends, and their faith in God for all they have enjoyed.  Georgina had two young children when they married and Tom selflessly raised them as his own as a dedicated father, mentor, and friend.  Tom coached the children in their childhood sports, even dedicating time to study the rules of sports that he was not familiar with.  He would also attend every school event and activity that he could and was, simply put, a loving and devoted father.  When grandchildren came along years later, he devoted himself to them as well.  In fact, his motivation to retire was his grandchildren!  Tom saw how much time his wife was spending with their grandchildren and became envious, prompting him to submit his retirement letter and join her as a full-time grandpa!  He loved his grandchildren deeply and they will all miss him dearly.

Tom was also a very charitable and selfless man.  He was truly an advocate for those in need and he found great satisfaction volunteering for many causes, such as the St. Mary’s Church Soup Kitchen and their annual Coat Drive.  He was also a volunteer tax preparer for AARP, drove the elderly to medical appointments, and volunteered with CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) for disadvantaged children in New Jersey.  He looked out for the ‘little guy’ whenever possible and gave selflessly to those in need.  He will be dearly missed by the many he helped throughout the years!

Tom is survived by his beloved wife, Georgina, of Wayne, NJ; by his daughter, Georgette Toles and her husband David, Jr. of Pompton Plains, NJ; his son, Dr. Alfredo Lowe and his wife Jackie of Livingston, NJ, and his three grandchildren, David Toles, III and Hailey Toles of Pompton Plains and Carly Lowe of Livingston.  He is also survived by his brother, Brian Lowe and his wife Joan of Florida and Manasquan, NJ; sister, Jane Hawke and her husband Merrill of Brielle, NJ; as well as many nieces and nephews.  Tom was predeceased by his father, John, his brother, Jack, and his mother, Jane.

In lieu of flowers, donations would be appreciated to CASA of New Jersey, 77 Church Street, New Brunswick, NJ 08901, www.casaofnj.org, or to the St. Mary’s Church Food Pantry, 17 Pompton Avenue, Pompton Lakes, NJ 07442.

Richard Alan Armando, Sr., age 69 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday March 2nd, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of his family.

Richard was born and raised in Bloomfield to Frank and Joanne Armando.  He graduated High School from a private school in West Orange, New Jersey with the class of 1967.  Following his graduation, Richard was accepted to Reinhardt University in Waleska, Georgia.  He attended his first two years of college there when suddenly Richard’s father became terminally ill.  He left college to help take care of his father and went to work for the family business.

Richard’s family owned business at the time was Armando and Sons Co., located in Clifton.  Richard worked there for a several years. He worked for a few trucking companies over the next couple of years, until eventually earning a position as a Bus Driver for the Parsippany Troy Hills DPW.  Richard held this position up until his passing.

In June of 1976, Richard was attending the wedding of a good friend, when he met a young woman by the name of Carolyn Bolster.  Carolyn was attending the wedding by herself, however, Richard brought a date.  After the wedding, Richard dropped off his date and met Carolyn for coffee at a local diner.  Richard and Carolyn dated for about four years and as fate would have it, they fell in love.  They got married on December 27, 1980 and honeymooned in Hawaii.  Immediately after, Richard and Carolyn settled in Wayne.  They called Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their five children there.  Richard and Carolyn cherished thirty-seven years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Richard was an avid golfer and was a long time member of the Forrest Hill Field Club in Bloomfield for many years.  He and his family would spend many Sunday afternoons at the club for dinner.  Richard was also one of the few golfers to have accomplished the illusive “Hole in One.”  He achieved this at the famous Doral Golf Course in Florida.

Richard enjoyed landscaping his own home.  He was meticulous about his yard and it gave him countless hours of joy and satisfaction.  He was also scrupulous about his car.  Richard could be found outside many afternoons completely detailing his automobiles.  Richard was funny.  He liked to make people laugh and bust their chops.  He was a fun person to be around.  He and his family had many dogs, including German Shepherds, over the years.  Their “Pups”, as he always referred to them, all held a special place in Richard’s heart throughout his life.  Richard was a strict father, but he was fair.  He was always there for his family to protect them, and would do anything for them.  Aside from his love of golf and other interests, nothing in the world meant more to Richard than spending time with and providing for his family.  Richard was an extremely devoted husband, father, and grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by his friends and family alike.

Richard is survived by his wife Carolyn (nee Bolster) of Wayne, three daughters; Melanie Giordano and her husband Robert of Oak Ridge, Heather Vaccaro and her husband Nick of Wayne, and Jennifer Wells and her husband Stephen of West Palm Beach, FL, two sons; Richard Armando and his wife Noelle of Wayne, and John Armando of Bloomingdale, and twelve grandchildren; Lauryn, Lynnae, R.J., Julianne, Freddy, Basil, Dante, Brett, Tristan, Sean, Angelo, and Tiziana.

In lieu of flowers, those planning to make a donation in Richard’s name are asked to consider Wayne Animal Shelter, 201 Pompton Plains Crossroad, Wayne, NJ 07470 or Wayne Twp. Memorial First Aid Squad, P.O. Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474.

Morris Altomare, age 93 of Wayne, died on Friday, March 3, 2018.  He was a lifelong resident of Union City, NJ and had recently moved to Brookdale Senior Living in Wayne, where he lived with his brother Gus.  Sadly, Gus also passed away just seven weeks ago.

Morris was born in Hoboken in 1924.  He moved with his family to Corona, Queens as a teenager and finished high school at the Newtown High School in Queens.  Promptly upon his graduation, he was drafted into the U.S. Army and found himself headed to war in Europe.  He survived the invasion of Normandy – barely.  He earned a Purple Heart and carried shrapnel fragments in his flesh throughout his lifetime.  Upon his discharge in 1945, he returned home and began working for Curtis Wright.  This led to a career with Pan Am Airlines that lasted nearly forty years before he retired in 1991.

His employment with Pan Am allowed him to travel extensively and he received discounts of about 90% off of his airfare costs!  He had visited Spain, the Bahamas, Rome, Nice, and most other areas of Europe, and many other wonderful destinations.  He was took full advantage of Pan Am’s generosity during his years there.  He also enjoyed taking bus trips to Atlantic City and the Meadowlands Race Track was also a favorite place to spend the day.  He also made some good friends at the Italian club in Hoboken where he would play cards for hours with his friends.  He liked going to the movies and he even learned to play the piano.  He was certainly a quiet and reserved person, very well mannered, and he was always his mother’s favorite!   He was blessed with a long and happy life and his family will miss him dearly.

Morris was predeceased by his parents; Donato (1970) and Rose (1972), his sister; Catherine Altomare (2009), and by his brother; Cosmo “Gus” Altomare in January, 2018. He is survived by his brother; Donald Altomare and his wife Pat of Wayne.

Catherine M. Andrieu (nee Bennett), age 101 of Wilmington, North Carolina, died on March 1, 2018.  She had lived in Ridgefield Park and Dumont before retiring to Delray Beach, Florida in 1978.  She moved to Wilmington in 2004 to live with her daughter.

“Kay,” as she was affectionately known by most, was born on March 12, 1916 and grew up in North Bergen.  One of her early childhood memories that she enjoyed sharing, occurred on May 21, 1927, when she was just eleven years old.  She recalled the exact date because it was a Saturday afternoon and she was on her way to confession when her father stopped her and gave her a dime, saying; “light a candle and pray that Charles Lindbergh arrives safely in Paris.”   She never forgot that historical event.  She went on to graduate from St. Michael’s High School in 1933.  Always a good student, and an extremely smart girl, Kay skipped an entire grade in high school, graduating at the age of sixteen!  She did bookkeeping for a local lumber company as a teenager and had a knack for numbers.  Her father, however, wanted Kay to stay home and help her mother with the housekeeping and taking care of her five brothers.

Instilled with a traditional Irish Catholic foundation, no doubt encouraged by her mother, Kay had a strong faith.  Her mother was a sweet lady who lived to be eighty-four and her dad lived to be eighty-five.  Kay was also predeceased by all five of her brothers.  Kay learned to be a good cook from her mother, and she was a wonderful homemaker.

Kay’s older brother introduced her to his friend, Harry Andrieu.  They married in 1938 and enjoyed a loving marriage for forty-six years.  Her son recalls his parent’s marriage as one that “couldn’t be better” and wishes that kind of marriage for everyone.  In the 1950’s and 1960’s, Kay returned to work at the County Trust Company in Dumont as a teller/bookkeeper.  Kay and Harry retired in 1978 to Delray Beach, Florida at “High Point of Delray” where they made many great friends and wonderful memories.  Sadly, Harry passed away in 1984 and Kay remained in Florida until moving to Wilmington, North Carolina in 2004 to live with her daughter.  Kay was a kind and gracious lady and, according to her daughter-in-law, she was the “nicest mother-in-law anyone could have had.”  Her family and friends will all miss her dearly.

Kay is survived by her daughter; Carol Orwig and husband Rick of Wilmington, NC, one son; Ron Andrieu and wife Bradlyn of Riverdale, NJ, four grandchildren; Melissa Varjian and husband Mike of Cedar Grove, NJ, Scott Orwig and wife Clare of Pierce, Nebraska, Cheryl Whapham and husband Ted of Irving, Texas, and Jennifer Mitchell and husband Brian of Orlando, FL, and she has been blessed with twelve great-grandchildren.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations online or by mail to the Spina Bifida Association, 1600 Wilson Blvd, Suite 800, Arlington, VA 22209, or visit their website at www.spinabifidaassociation.org. Thank you for your generosity.

Thomas Mamakos age 91 of Wayne passed suddenly on Wednesday February 28, 2018.

He was born and raised in Elizabeth, New Jersey and graduated from Edison High School. He served in the Navy (N.A.T.S.) Pacific Wing 1944-46. Tom served as President of the AHEPA 1951-52. In addition to being a restaurant entrepreneur, having also been a licensed real estate broker after earning his associate degree from Rutgers University. According to Tom’s brother Socrates, many would not believe that Tom actually played the violin as a child. He wasn’t a prodigy, but he took lessons regularly from a teacher up the street from his childhood home on Reid Street.

Tom met Sophia Kramedas in 1951 at an AHEPA Convention in Washington D.C.. When Tom married Sophia, they resided in Elizabeth where they first lived in an apartment and then bought a home on Cleveland Avenue. In 1958 they moved to Wayne where they raised their family and have lived for the past 60 years.

Tom was the loving husband of Sophia Kramedas (deceased 2015); devoted father of Dean Mamakos of Wayne, Spero Mamakos also of Wayne; and beloved Tom Mamakos (deceased 1985); he was the cherished grandfather of Dean Mamakos, Jr.; he was the much loved brother of George (deceased 2015) of Buffalo, N.Y., James and his wife Jeanette of Pasadena, Ca., their two sons Jason & Paul, Socrates and his wife Denise (deceased 2012) of San Francisco, Ca., and their sons Nick & Mark, and daughters Christina, Laura Mamakos,Tryphyllis and her husband Stathis, and the many grandnieces & grandnephews.

Tom wanted his Father’s Day letter from his son Dean in 1995 to be his eulogy.

June 1995

                                                         Father’s Day

                                                      “I know him well”

Today, I did not see my father; however I spent most of the day thinking about him.

“I know him well.”

What impresses me most about him is his perfect rhythm, the rhythm to which he works and plays. It is poetic in every sense. Even his gait appears more like dancing. It is as if a symphony orchestra is playing in his mind.

He lives simply and practically by his own design. It fits his temperament. He discards the marginal and unimportant matters to avail himself to the bigger picture therefore, taking control of a situation.

We were taught to compromise all conflicts that adversely impact each other. Answers were found by his common sense way and an uncommon sense of humor restored our cheer.

His educational background came from his personal struggles, hardships, and triumphs.

In these continuous coordinated efforts he defined our code of conduct and laid the groundwork for us to build our future… To this end, it is my privilege to have worked side by side with such a graceful and masterful man.

“I know him well.” He is my father.

                                                                                                                           Happy Father’s Day

Colette Adrienne Wagner, born September 3, 1928 in Le Havre, France, left this life early in the morning of February 28, 2018, surrounded in prayer by her loving family.

She was predeceased by husband of 55 years James Arthur, beloved sister Agnes, and loving parents Robert and Raymonde David. She is survived by: brothers Jacques, Jean, Dominique and wife Françoise, François and wife Brigitte - of France; children Jerome, Natalie and husband Tom Vigorito, Valerie - of Wayne, and David and fiancée Kristie Nilsson of Irvington, NY; grandchildren Danielle and husband Julien Pieretti, Anthony Marzocca, Christine and husband Christopher Kearse, Charlotte and husband Jack Flanagan, Brittany and husband Jacob Banks, Lauren Wagner and Theo Kadela; precious great-grandchildren Carson, Cooper, Callahan and Lincoln; and extended family in France.

As a teenager growing up in the north of France during the Second World War, she experienced both the hardships of daily life and the terror of the Occupation. A shy, but very courageous young woman, she left her beloved France to teach French and Latin in Ontario, Canada. When on a tour at the United Nations in New York City, she met a tall handsome gentleman from Chicago, embracing her destiny to build a life and family in the U.S. and eventually becoming a proud U.S. citizen.

A long-time resident of Wayne NJ, she considered the home that Jim found in Packanack Lake to be an absolute paradise – a true blessing and joy. She lodged visitors from France there; she entertained visiting grandchildren there. She marveled in the beloved trees outside her windows and the many splendid sunsets viewed there. She delighted in the spring blooms and fall foliage which adorn the region.

An educator in heart and practice, she taught French to neighborhood children, which afforded her own children the opportunity to study music. She helped them discover academic accomplishment through diligence. Colette remained an active participant in her adult children’s lives, offering unwavering support through life’s ups and downs.

Later in life, she contributed to the upbringing of her grandchildren. Whether spending an afternoon contemplating masterpieces in New York City's museums or offering books in lieu of birthday cards, she helped them open new horizons. She worked tirelessly to offer them exciting activities and outings, including blissful afternoons at Packanack Lake’s East Beach and regularly indulged the family sweet-tooth with freshly baked brownies or cream puffs. As the grandchildren grew up, she never failed to check in on their studies and their professional evolutions. She especially delighted in her four great-grandsons.

She maintained a close relationship with her siblings and extended family in France, through occasional visits and frequent phone conversations. Her interest in their lives was illustrated with each leisurely telephone conversation. Her good cheer and bursts of laughter filled her family with joy during visits to France. There is no doubt that one of her greatest achievements was creating and maintaining ties between her family in France and her American family, forged by the sharing of stories, long vacations spent together, and a shared enjoyment for laughter that bridged any language barrier.

Colette had a way of making everyone feel unconditionally loved and appreciated. Love of and service to family gave meaning to Colette’s life. She always shared a sense of justice and compassion, acting selflessly and living strong values. She inspired her children and grandchildren to emulate her sweetness, kindness, compassion, and supportive nature in their own lives.

Colette will be remembered for her smile that could light up a room and melt away one’s worries and for her hugs that felt like a warm, loving blanket.  She will be remembered: for her infinite kindness and patience; for teaching not only the French language, but also courage and perseverance; for instilling in her children and grandchildren a deep respect for the strength of family ties - no matter how great the distance – as well as an appreciation for the French culture and the simple pleasures of life - the smell of baking bread, the dappled light on the kitchen table, the hum of cicadas in summer, the sharing of a good book. She will also be remembered for her adorable French accent which never faded.

We meant everything to her and she was everything - and more - to us. In short, Colette led an exemplary life, practicing virtues which enriched those around her. May we each take a lesson from her.

Over the past year, Colette has experienced trouble settling into her most recent residence, despite innumerable assurances, “You’re in your home, Mom.” May you find peace now, Mom, in your new – your final – home. God bless you. Nous t’aimons – profondément.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Eva’s Village (http://www.evasvillage.org/donate.html).

Dorothy Canale (nee Weber) age 93 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Sunday February 25, 2018 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Dorothy was born and raised in Union City, NJ. She grew up, as did many people in her generation, during the deprivation of the Great Depression and as a young adult lived through a time when the entire world was at war. After finishing her education, Dorothy went to work at an early age.  She held various positions at different companies. However, shortly after World War II, she met a handsome young GI back from his service overseas with the US Army named Louis Canale.  They dated for a few years and as fate would have it, they fell in love and were married on June 19, 1948.

Louis and Dorothy lived in Union City for a couple of years immediately after they were married, eventually moving to Wayne in 1953. They would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their two children there as well. Following her marriage to Louis, Dorothy decided she would devote herself to her family and become a full time homemaker.  Dorothy and Louis cherished over fifty years of loving and loyal marriage until Louis’s passing in 1999.

Dorothy lived in Wayne for many years and was not only dedicated to her family, but also her neighborhood.  She lived on a street where everyone knew each other.  She enjoyed cooking and especially baking.  Dorothy was famous for her Christmas cookies and always made enough for everyone in her family, and in her neighborhood.  She touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed.

Dorothy is survived by her daughter Nancy Benvenuto and her husband Peter of Oakland, her son Gary and his wife Kathy of West Caldwell, five grandchildren; Nicole, Tracy, Madison, Claudia, and Julia, two great grandchildren; Gianna, and Steven.  She was predeceased by her husband Louis in 1999.

Ricardo “Rick” Pabon, age 53, of Garfield passed away peacefully, with his loving family by his side, on Saturday, February 24, 2018.

Rick was born in San Germán, Puerto Rico. He came to New York at the approximate age of five, then moved to Passaic where, while attending Passaic High School, he starred in baseball and football before graduating with the Class of 1982.

Rick’s first job after high school was with Passaic General Hospital as a patient transporter. After 5+ years he began working at Barry’s Tuxedo in Passaic delivering tuxedos all over the tri-state area. He used to say about this job, “I’m making dreams come true one tuxedo at a time.” In 1992, he returned to healthcare when he joined the staff of Hackensack Medical Center (known today as Hackensack University Medical Center), as a Nursing Assistant. His work took him all over the hospital – O.R., recovery, I.C.U., and everybody knew Rick whose big voice always arrived before he actually did. Wherever he could be found, he always made coworkers and patients laugh out loud while simultaneously enjoying the utmost respect of doctors and staff alike. Rick enjoyed his work in the hospital for eighteen years until, in 2011 while testing out his friends new bike, he shattered his knee resulting in countless surgeries and ultimately the end of his ability to work.

The first time that Rick met his future wife Janet Ramirez was at Janet’s Uncle Tomas’ house, for a sweet sixteen party rehearsal for her cousin Helga. Rick was there that day with his present girlfriend, but when he saw Janet, he began asking himself “Why am I not going out with her?” That was 1979 but Rick and Janet didn’t have their first official date until 1988. It was Rick’s birthday and they went to El Torito Restaurant in Paramus. After dinner they caught a movie – Coming to America starring Eddie Murphy. Their love for each other was real and so one day, Rick asked for Janet’s hand in marriage while she was putting on her makeup in the bathroom in preparation of attending hers brother-in-law’s birthday party.  They married on January 10, 2004. The venue for the wedding was the Wayne View Care Center – a place that no one would typically pick for such a grand occasion, but that’s where Janet’s father Raul Ramirez was and both Janet and Rick agreed that la familia was much more important than a fancy wedding venue. After all, weddings last one day but marriages and the love of family are forever!

They first lived in Lodi and later moved to Garfield where they’ve been to the present.

Rick was a person who drew energy from people like a solar panel draws energy from the sun. When he walked into a room full of people, he drew in the energy by having light-hearted conversations and, like that solar panel, he radiated it back with his contagious laugh, big warm smile, quick wit, and total lack of inhibition. He would often embarrass his family a bit by talking to complete strangers in restaurants. He had a great warm-hearted way of disarming you and making you feel very comfortable and loved. When newbies came into the family, it was Rick that made them feel welcome and at ease.

Rick was all about fun and was definite welcome company on family trips to Hershey Park, Myrtle Beach and down the Jersey shore. If he traveled, it was rarely by plane or jet. He had a fear of flying and would always say, “We weren’t meant to fly. If we were, we would have been born with wings.” Rick loved to dance and frankly, he was an excellent dancer – especially his beloved salsa. He was a huge fan of football, baseball, basketball and boxing and he always rooted for the team that was doing great because who wants to root for a loser?  It’s no fun! Rick loved to buy the latest and greatest electronics to watch his sports on, play games on his Play Station, or catch a good movie. And the movies had to be high energy flicks with lots of action, explosions and car chases.

Above all, Rick loved the most important thing in life – being with and loving good family and friends. He leaves a hole in the hearts of those who cherished his larger-than-life presence, but he also leaves blessings for countless souls with many great memories.

Rick was the beloved and devoted husband of Janet; loving son of Rosita Pabon of Clifton and the late Roberto Pabon (2012); dear brother of Nelson “Sonny” Pabon, Roberto Pabon, and Alice M. Pabon and husband Roberto, all of Clifton; dear uncle of: Robert A. Fulgencio, Jr., Rosiline B. Fulgencio, Eddie Pabon, Catiria  Pabon, Robert Alexander Pabon, Thalia I. Pabon, Anthony Mercaldi, Nicole Mercaldi, Lisette Garcia, Michael and wife Amanda Ramirez, and Daniel Ramirez; dear son-in-law of Dolores Ramirez and the late Raul Ramirez (2004; and dear brother-in-law of Maria Mercaldi, Nacio and wife Sue Ramirez, and the late Anthony Mercaldi (2012) and last but not least his godson Anthony "Junito" Mercaldi whom he adored and cherrished.

Marcella “Marcy” E. Radice, age 93, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Friday, February 23, 2018.

She was born in Eynon, PA and her family moved to Kearny, New Jersey when she was a child.  She graduated from Kearny High School with the Class of 1942.

Just out of high school Marcy found work at the Ronson Corporation in Newark as a secretary.  She later worked as a secretary for the Whitehead Metals Company in Newark, and the RCA Corporation in Harrison where she was the first woman to be trained as a computer programmer using punch cards.  She would write the programs and get called in the middle of the night to troubleshoot them when issues arose. She met her husband to be Robert Radice while working at RCA. They left the company together to start the Colorama Company in Garwood where they repaired and painted automobiles. They also established the first Subaru dealership on the East Coast.

Marcy will be remembered for her love of children and the enjoyment she got from teaching the little ones to read.  While riding in the car she would say “look at the stop sign…what letters are those, what do they sound like?”  She enjoyed her flower garden and all types of sewing – especially making custom clothes for American Girl dolls. She was also a great cook whose manicotti from scratch will never be forgotten.

Marcella was the loving wife of the late Robert Radice (1991); she was the dear sister of the late George Matelitis and his surviving wife Joan of Sicklerville, the late Dorothy Ferguson and her late husband Joseph, and Martha Blazejewski and her husband John of Wayne; much loved aunt of Lynda Yanchusk, Lisa Yanchusk, Daniel Blazejewski and his wife Leslie, David Blazejewski and his wife Pamela, and Andrew Blazejewski and his wife Sarah; she was the dearly loved great-aunt of Lindsey Pyterzak and her husband Ed, Jonathan Blazejewski, Tyler Blazejewski, Trisha Blazejewski, Steven Lebo, Ryan Gormely, Erin McAleer; great-great aunt of Nora Pierzyk.

Elizabeth “Lisa” Mazie (nee Dechant), of Ossining, NY and formerly of Wayne, died on Friday, February 23, 2018.  She was predeceased by her husband George in 2010.

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Gregory Carson, age 29 of Belleville and Emerson, passed Tuesday, February 20, 2018.

“Gregors,” “Too Tall,” The Big G,”

Gregory Carson, age 29 of Belleville and Emerson, passed Tuesday, February 20, 2018.

He was born in Pequannock and lived in Prospect Park, Emerson, and Belleville. He graduated from Emerson High School with the Class of 2007.

Greg was an awesome artist and specialized in sketch drawings and graffiti.  He loved photography and enjoyed going to the Ramapo Reservation where he would photograph deer, wildlife and nature.  He will be remembered as a loyal friend, loving, caring person with a big heart; a true gentle giant.  He always had a big smile, enjoyed long-boarding, skateboarding and roller blading.  He loved nature, all kinds of animals including horses, dogs and cats and reality tv shows relating to the outdoors.

He will be lovingly remembered and always loved by his mother Lois LoSacco and her husband Lenny of Emerson, his father Bill Carson of Belleville, his brothers Joe and Mike Carson of Emerson, maternal grandfather John Tanis and his wife Diane of Bloomingdale, and maternal grandmother the late Bernice Tanis, paternal grandmother Elizabeth Carson of Wayne, and paternal grandfather the late William Carson, step-brothers Tyler and Nick LoSacco of Palm Bay, Florida; as well as his aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends.

Eleanor Romania (nee Dorso) age 88 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday February 20, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of her family.

Eleanor was born the youngest of seven children to Michael and Carmela Dorso. She was born and raised in Paterson and graduated from Eastside High School with the class of 1947. Following her High School graduation, she attended Paine Hall School in New York City, where she earned an Associate Degree and certification to work as an X-Ray Technician. She started working as an X-Ray Technician for Dr. Anthony Delario in Paterson. She worked for him for about ten years.

In 1952, Eleanor married her long time high school sweetheart, Nick Romania. They first started dating when they were about sixteen, and as fate would have it they fell in love and were married at St Anthony's RC Church in Paterson, and they honeymooned in Miami, Florida. After getting married, Nick and Eleanor settled in Paterson where two of their four children were born. In 1959 they moved to Wayne, where their next two children were born. Eleanor and Nick would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives and would raise all of their children there. It was very shortly after her children were born when Eleanor decided to stop working and devote herself to being a homemaker. Her number one priority in her life was caring and nurturing her family. While her children were growing up, she was very active in the Wayne School System. For many years Eleanor was a "Band Mom" while all of her children participated in the school music programs. Nick and Eleanor cherished sixty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Subsequent to Eleanor's children growing up, Eleanor decided to get back into the work place and went back to work as an X-Ray Technician for the late Dr. Tong Tsai in Wayne. She worked for Dr. Tsai until her retirement many years ago. In 1994 tragedy struck Eleanor's life when her son Nicky Romania passed away, and again in 2011 when her beloved granddaughter Sandra Mattera passed away. As anyone could try to imagine, these events had a profound impact on her life but Eleanor, husband Nick, and their family somehow found the strength to persevere and move forward.

Eleanor enjoyed reading books and gardening in her backyard gave her many years of pleasure and joy.   But above all of Eleanor's talents, interests, and hobbies, her greatest passion was for her family.  Nothing meant more to Eleanor than spending time with her family. Not only was she always there for her children, but she was always there for her grandchildren as well. She attended nearly all of her grandchildren;s events while they were growing up. Her family remembers her as being loving and caring, generous and giving. Eleanor was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people, she will be missed by everyone that knew her.

Eleanor is survived by her husband Nick Romania of Wayne, one son; Dr. Anthony Romania and his wife, Linda Talerico of Stonington, CT, two daughters Catherine Romania of Wayne and Candy Romania of West Milford; 5 grandchildren; Nicholas Mattera, Jessica Mattera, Joseph Mattera, Thomas Mattera, Rachel Lyons, Christin Morales and her husband, Humberto, Jr., and Lindsey Brennan and her husband, Christopher; 3 Great-grandchildren; Antonio, Sergio, and Bruce. Many loved nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her son Nicky Romania in 1994 and her granddaughter Sandra Mattera in 2011.

In lieu of flowers those wishing to make a donation in Eleanor;s name are asked to consider Sandra Mattera Memorial Foundation Inc., Scholarship Fund, 26 Columbia Tpk Suite 100, Florham Park, NJ 07932 https://sites.google.com/view/sandramattera

William Kudla, a longtime resident of Wayne and formerly of Clifton, passed peacefully on the evening of Monday, February 19, 2018. He was 92.

Born in Wallington, he lived in Clifton before becoming a resident of Wayne in 1955.

A proud American, Bill enlisted and honorably served as a rifle sharpshooter in the United States Marine Corps during World War II in Japan. He attained the rank of Corporal and was awarded two Purple Hearts for wounds he sustained while defending the freedoms that all Americans enjoy. He later became an active member of the Disabled Veterans of Clifton and the Elks Club of Wayne, and was also a parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley Church near his home in Wayne.

One day in 1945 while home on leave from Marine service, Bill stopped in an ice cream parlor near Fourth Street in Passaic. “Stunningly handsome in his U.S. Marine uniform” – that’s how a young lady named Mary Malik would later describe Bill as she would recount the story. Miss Malik happened to be in that ice cream parlor at the same time with some of her friends. She somehow made sure to make Bill’s acquaintance and doing so that day would forever change the course of their lives. They fell in love and the following year were married on April 28, 1946 at St. Joseph’s R.C. Church in Passaic. They would go on to enjoy 69 years in a loving and devoted marriage until Mary’s passing in 2016.

After the wedding, Bill and Mary initially settled on Lisbon Street in Clifton with Bill’s parents in a two-family house. A year later the stork made their first delivery. Bill and Mary were blessed with Marion, their firstborn. Three years later Patricia was delivered. This growing family moved, this time to Kulick Street, still in Clifton. Soon after, in 1956, they bought land in Wayne and, with the help of Bill’s step-dad Frank Szwed who was a mason by trade, Frank, Bill and Mary began building their new home at Alps Road, brick by brick by brick. In 1959 the stork visited their new home bringing Barbara #3. Next arrivals were Kenneth #4, Kim #5 and Darlene #6. Mary and Bill raised all their children in that home on Alps Road and it’s still the Kudla residence to this day.

After coming home from the war, Bill first went to work with his brothers John, Emil, and Elmer in the family gas station, Kudla’s Service Center on Route 46 in Clifton near the White Castle Restaurant. Soon after, he pretty-much simultaneously ventured into two other businesses – one on a part-time basis and one full-time. The part-time job was a venture that he started with his brother Emil. If you ever wondered who supplies the metal frames or stands to florists that they use to display floral sprays in cemeteries and funeral homes, you can stop wondering. Bill and his brother saw an opportunity. They offered to remove the frames from the cemeteries and funeral homes. Then they took them back to their shop in Passaic, refurbished them and sold them back to the local florists. They named their business Kudla Florist Supply and Bill’s children grew up in the business and have fond memories of those deliveries in the old Chevy box truck. Bill’s full-time work was in the garment industry. He began as a foreman with McGregor Sporting Goods, a clothing manufacturer in Haskell and later in Paterson. Later in his career he worked for companies making high-end apparel for the likes of Jones New York and Liz Claiborne before wrapping up a career that would span sixty years, for a designer of leather apparel. After retirement in 1990, he focused much of his attention on coming alongside his wife Mary in his floral supply business and from that job he never really formally retired.

Mary and Bill enjoyed a wonderful, blessed life together. When they were younger, they spent summer vacations at Seaside Heights with Mary’s brother Eddy and his wife Rose. Bill’s children have fond memories of fun times at the Jersey Shore. For their twenty-fifth wedding anniversary, Bill and Mary took a trip of a lifetime to Hawaii. They marked their fiftieth anniversary with a huge dinner celebration at the Brownstone House in Paterson and their sixtieth on a Circle Line Cruise in New York City. Family traditions were so very important to Bill. Everyone loved getting together for holidays but they were also expected to be together. Every Sunday, if you were looking for a member of the Kudla family, you could bet that you’d find all of them gathered at Bill and Mary’s house on Alps along with a host of friends. Sunday was “Funday” at the Kudla house and, on that day, you could count on plenty of folks swimming in the pool, playing games of lawn darts and badminton, and Bill tending bar and serving as the honorary “Master Griller.” At these parties he was also chief instigator - able to stir up commotion but the first one to always yell “That’s enough!” if things got too much out of hand.

A very special event took place this past Christmas. Actually, it was a reprise of a tradition that Bill started himself many years ago.  Every Christmas during their childhood and beyond, Bill’s kids remember how he would create a balsam wreath. But this wreath was different. It was 14 feet in diameter and every year, you had to walk through the wreath to get through the front door of Bill and Mary’s house.  Well, this past Christmas, Darlene – Bill’s youngest daughter who works at Yesterdays Irish Pub and Restaurant in Warwick, NY, asked the owner if she could re-create the 14 foot wreath and have it adorn the front door of the tavern. The owner agreed and Darlene and her sisters got together and built the wreath, decorated it with the ornaments, and set it up in front of the pub. With phase one completed, it was time for the fun part. Kim, another one of Bill’s daughters, picked up Bill and took him on a surprise ride to Yesterdays Pub to see the wreath and re-live the magic of Christmas’s past. On the way, to help focus Bill’s attention, she kept reminding him to look at all the beautiful Christmas decorations along the way. When they pulled up to the pub and Bill saw the magnificent wreath, the grin that came across his face could have lit up the Christmas tree in Rockefeller Center!  But there’s more to this great story. Yesterdays Pub is right near the Warwick train depot, and the United States Marines were holding an event there that same day to collect Toys for Tots. When Bill met these young Marines, he pride-fully stood as tall as his old body would allow and they in turn were so genuinely honored to have the privilege of meeting a World War II recipient of two Purple Hearts. The pub won best decorated storefront in Warwick and, because the wreath-making tradition was Bill’s legacy, the whole event was just pure Christmas Magic!

Bill was loved by his family in an immense way. While he didn’t always make things easy for his children, like any loving parent, sometimes he felt it best that they go through the trials to better prepare them for life. He did a great job of holding his family together – teaching them that when inevitable disagreements come along, to always remember that love is greater and more important than any conflict.

Surviving to mourn his loss but celebrate his life are his six dear children: Marion Velechko of Hamden, NY, Patricia Kudla of Tuxedo, NY, Barbara Rissman of Tionesta, CA, Kenneth Kudla of Wayne, Kim Kudla of Warwick, NY and Darlene Kudla Grasso of Highland Lakes; cherished grandfather of seven grandchildren: Kelly Garry (predeceased), Stacy Toner of Harpswell, ME, Bryson Nieves of Warwick, NY, Erin Addison of St. John, WA, Jessica Peabody of Orangevale, CA, Joshua Rissman (predeceased), and Michael Rissman of Tionesta, CA; adored great-grandfather of seven great-grandchildren: Caitlyn Rohmert of Boonton, Alyssa Addison of St. John, WA, Brandon Valencia of Orangevale, CA, Jesse Addison of St. John WA, Jayson Peabody of Orangevale, CA, Aiden Odle of Klamath Falls, OR, and Rusty Addison of St. John, WA. Bill was predeceased by his beloved wife Mary in 2016 and his three brothers: John, Emil, and Elmer Kudla.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Bill’s name are asked to consider the Fisher House Foundation, 111 Rockville Pike, Suite 420, Rockville, MD 20850-5168 or online at www.fisherhouse.org

Margaret “Mugsie” Hoerig, age 97, of Pompton Plains and formerly of Pines Lake in Wayne, passed peacefully from this life on Sunday, February 18, 2018.

Margaret was born and raised in Clifton along with her three brothers and three sisters. A lover of the outdoors, she learned at an early age to be an accomplished speed skater. Ahead of her time for a young woman living in the late 1930’s and early 1940’s, she medaled numerous times in the Clifton recreational league among her male and female competitors. Margaret also enjoyed horseback riding as a young girl and cheerleading for her hometown Clifton High School sports teams. After high school graduation with the Class of 1937, she was off to nursing school at Passaic General Hospital where she stayed in the school’s dorms during her years of nursing education.

One day in 1941, while in a candy store in Jersey City, Margaret found herself short a penny for her purchase. A young Navy sailor named Walter Hoerig just happened to be in the store at the same time and soon became aware of her dilemma. Walt willingly provided his penny to Margaret and the conversation that ensued that day turned into sixty-seven years of loving marriage for Walt and “Mugsie”, as Walt affectionately called her. They married in 1943 during a visit to New Orleans. Walt would probably tell you that it was the best penny he ever spent.

After earning her credentials and license as a Registered Nurse, Margaret’s first job was with the Visiting Nurse Service in New York City. Walt was still in the Navy at the time.  When he was transferred to the west coast, she took a position with Visiting Nurses in Bremerton, Washington so that she and Walt could remain near each other. After the war, they returned to New Jersey where she began a wonderful career with Passaic General Hospital.

Margaret was a very passionate nurse who displayed a genuine love for those entrusted in her care and she truly enjoyed working with the other nurses at the hospital. When her children were young, she worked part-time while her own father babysat. At one point, she decided to pursue school nursing, but the demands of further education plus working full time made her uncomfortable about not being able to give her family the love, care, and attention she wanted.  As a result, she decided to return to Passaic General after a few years. Besides, Mugsie, as her friends called her too, missed being with the other nurses at their 6 am coffee-klatches before their shift started.  In 1988, the hospital celebrated her retirement with a party, honoring her for all her years of dedication.  A few years later, she felt she still had more to give so she worked for several more years part-time.  

Mugsie and Walt moved to Pines Lake in 1954. They loved living and raising their family there so much that they stayed for fifty-five years until moving to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in 2009. There was always a real sense of community in Pines Lake and in the early years, Margaret enjoyed being a member of the “Sweet Adeline’s” – a women’s singing group. She loved life at the lake and especially afternoons swimming and talking with her beach friends. In the winter, when the lake was frozen, she really enjoyed sharing her passion for ice skating with her husband and children.

While watching the Squaw Valley Winter Olympics on TV in 1960, Mugsie and Walt thought that downhill skiing looked like a lot of fun. Soon the whole family began skiing. They would go to New York State, Vermont and New Hampshire on ski weekends and vacations. In later years, she took up cross country skiing too. Together with Walt, Mugsie skied well into her eighties and enjoyed being members of the 80-plus Club at Vernon Valley Ski Resort where, because of their age, they could ski for free.

In addition to skating and skiing together with family and friends, Walt and Mugsie enjoyed traveling during their retirement.  They usually camped with friends and made several cross-country trips across both the United States and Canada for weeks at a time.  When they were in their mid-70’s, one particular noteworthy trip for just the two of them was an 8-day raft trip down the Colorado River through the rapids and Grand Canyon and then across Lake Powell.

Margaret’s children recall their Mom being fully invested in their lives and well-being. Together with their father, she always made it a priority to be present for their academic ceremonies, swimming meets, and other sporting events. This was very meaningful to their children as was their parent’s love and support for all their grandchildren.

Margaret was the beloved wife of the late Walter Hoerig who passed away in 2010. She is survived by two children; Jane Hoerig and her husband Ted Garcia of Haymarket, VA, and Dan Hoerig and his wife Kathy Poehnert of Interlaken, NJ, as well as three grandchildren:  Cody Hoerig of Ocean Grove, NJ, Erin Garcia of Washington, DC, and Grant Garcia and his wife Natasha of Chicago, IL and two great grandchildren, Blakely and Rylan.  Mugsie was also predeceased by three sisters and three brothers: Mary, Helen, Anna, Mike, Emil and John.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Margaret’s name are asked to consider the USO (United Service Organizations, Inc.), USO Department WS, PO Box 96860 Washington, DC 20090-6860 (www.uso.org), or Doctors Without Borders USA, P.O. Box 5030, Hagerstown, MD 21741-5030 (www.doctorswithoutborders.org).

Edith Buchanan, (nee Farrell) age 87 of Ringwood passed away peacefully on February 2, 2018 with her family by her side and receiving their loving care.

Edith was born and raised in Paterson, NJ. She lived there for many years with her family until moving to Ringwood approximately twenty-four years ago. She also has spent the last 7 years of her life  at Lakeland Care Center in Haskell which she was well loved be the staff.

Edith grew up in Paterson and spent her formative years there. She learned at an early age the responsibilities of an adult. She also learned the influential lesson of a hard day’s work. Edith went to work at an early age as a seamstress. She was a seamstress for about four years. Edith would walk to work every day, and on one day in particular she met a young man that lived on the street she traveled. His name was Frank Buchanan. They got to talking over time when she would pass by and eventually they started dating. As fate would have it, they fell in love and only dated for a short time before getting married in September of 1951 at Ponds Reformed Church in Oakland, NJ.

Edith and Frank settled and stayed in Paterson and would call it their home for many years to come and raised their three children there. Subsequent to getting married, Edith decided that her career and her destiny was to be a homemaker. She and Frank decided to sacrifice any income that Edith would bring into the household, and invest her time into nurturing and caring for her husband and children.    Edith was not only an extraordinary mother to her children, but was like a “second mother” to many children in her neighborhood. Many a day when her sons would come home from school as teenagers, they would find “mom” playing and entertaining the many children who lived nearby. Edith’s family reflects about her “missing her calling”, she should have been a teacher.

Edith and Frank cherished more than thirty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together until Frank’s unexpected passing in 1986. Edith was a strong-willed woman and found the strength to move on, but tragedy struck Edith’s life again in 1999 when her son Robert also unexpectedly passed away. Following her son’s passing Edith moved to Ringwood with her son Rory and his family. Apart from losing her son, this brought her joy because she was able to be close to her two grandchildren. During Edith and Frank’s time together they enjoyed traveling to various places including yearly summer vacations to North Wildwood. Edith’s strength and perseverance was probably acquired due to the fact that she was also dedicated to her Christian Faith. Edith was quite creative and took pleasure in sketching and drawing, and loved exercising her mind with crossword puzzles. But of all Edith’s talents, interests and hobbies, her greatest passion was for her family. Nothing in the world meant more to Edith than spending time with her children and grandchildren. Edith was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by her family and friends alike.

Edith is survived by her two sons; Rory Buchanan and his wife Debbie of Ringwood, and Raymond Buchanan of Montclair, two grandchildren; Rory Buchanan, Jr., and Ryan Buchanan. She was predeceased by her husband Frank Buchanan in 1986 and her son Robert Buchanan in 1999.

In lieu of flowers, friends are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

Edward Mastrogiovanni, age 93, passed away peacefully on February 17, 2018.

Edward was born in Paterson, New Jersey where he resided for many years prior to moving to Fair Lawn, New Jersey.

Following retirement from Limbo Machine, Edward lived in Tannersville, Pennsylvania and most recently in Mid Florida Lakes in Leesburg, Florida where he enjoyed the company of many friends and socialized with buddies at the “Carpenter Shop”. His hobbies included snowmobiling and traveling and he was an avid NASCAR fan.

Edward is survived by his beloved wife of 71 years; Ruth (Gremmler) Mastrogiovanni, his daughter Sheryl Centrelli and her husband Richard, his beloved grandchildren Lynn and her husband George McTeague, Kristy Fernand and great grandchildren: Isabella, Ryan, Alexandra and Conner, his dear sister, Palmira Bollettino and generations of nieces and nephews.

Edward was the youngest sibling in a large, loving family and is predeceased by his daughter Linda, his parents Antonio and Palmira Mastrogiovanni, brothers Frank, Nick, Anthony and Richard, and sisters Sophie, Millie and Jen.

Edward was a loving husband, father, grandfather, sibling, uncle and friend and will be missed by all who knew and cherished him.

Mildred Wilkin, age 95 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Friday, February 16, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of her family.

She was born to Walter and Alice Shea in Jersey City, New Jersey and raised on Lindley Avenue in Tenafly. She lived at 554 Elizabeth Avenue in Rivervale, New Jersey, and spent her retirement years with her late husband William in Las Vegas, Nevada, before moving to Wayne in 2010.

Mildred graduated from Tenafly High School with the Class of 1940. After high school she worked as a bookkeeper for the Okonite Corporation in New York City before dedicating herself to raising her family.

Mildred moved to Rivervale, New Jersey just after marrying her lifelong friend, and high school sweetheart, William Wilkin.  Their parents were also longtime neighborhood friends in Tenafly.  Mildred and William fell in love and corresponded while he served in the US Army during WWII.  Upon his return from the military they married on April 14, 1951 at Mount Carmel Church in Tenafly.  They honeymooned in Florida and had a loving and devoted fifty year marriage that was blessed with a daughter Barbara before William’s passing in 2001.

Mildred and William enjoyed traveling. You would be hard pressed to find a place they haven’t been to.  They also were proud to say they had visited all 50 of the United States. Mildred will be lovingly remembered as being devoted to her Catholic faith, an avid reader, smart, self-taught person in many facets of life, who loved her 4 PM Southern Comfort Manhattans.

She was the loving mother of Barbara Forlenza and her husband Jay of Wayne; cherished grandmother of John Forlenza and his wife Michele, Deana Swanson and her husband Joe, and Nicole Forlenza and her fiancé Andrew; much loved great-grandmother of Aubrey Forlenza; dear sister of the late Agatha “Chickie” Woods and the late Walter Shea.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Mildred's name to Ennoble Care Hospice LLC, 2 University Plaza Drive, Suite 204, Hackensack, NJ 07601-6211

Barbara Anne Kucynda, age 71, of Wayne passed peacefully at home on Friday, February 16, 2018.

Barbara was born to John and Anna Kuntzevich and raised at 5905 Glenwood Road in Brooklyn.  She graduated from Samuel J. Tilden High School in Brooklyn and for one year attended Saint Johns University in Brooklyn.  Her family moved to Bridgeport, Connecticut and Barbara finished her education at Western Connecticut State University in Danbury, Connecticut where she graduated with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Elementary Education.

Barbara met a young man named Paul Kucynda who was doing seminary field work at her parish, Holy Trinity Orthodox Church in Brooklyn.  Barbara used to tell a story of how she was pouring water into glasses at a dinner and Paul kept sliding his glass to the side while she was pouring.  Barbara simply poured the water onto the table when he moved his glass. They would eventually fall in love and the night Paul gave her the engagement ring, September 13, 1965. They married on June 11, 1967 at Barbara’s parish, Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, and honeymooned in Bermuda.  They have enjoyed a devoted marriage of over fifty years having celebrated fifty years of marriage in 2017.

After graduating college Barbara initially worked as a substitute teacher in Connecticut while waiting for Paul to finish at the seminary.  When Paul was ordained on January 7, 1968 and assigned to the Holy Resurrection Orthodox Parish in Wayne, NJ staring with twelve families and three acres of land, while Barbara worked for the Wayne Board of Education until she was blessed with a son Timothy in 1969.  She dedicated herself to raising Tim until he was in about third grade when she decided to return to the workforce. She again worked for the Wayne Board of Education where she started as a substitute teacher and eventually worked as a Special Education teacher. After working for the school system she worked as a bookkeeper for Gotleib and Eurlich in Newark and later just Gotleib in Parsippany.  As the wife of a church pastor she also worked at the church as she was Father Paul’s right hand woman. She took on many and varied responsibilities at the church; her caring and supportive involvement with the church helped not only Father Paul, but at least four generations of her parish family. She and Father Paul celebrated fifty years of ministry together at Holy Resurrection Orthodox Church in January of this year.

Barbara is the loving wife of V. Rev. Paul Kucynda; devoted mother of Timothy Kucynda of San Francisco, CA; cherished daughter of Anna Kuntzevich of Wayne and the late John Kuntzevich; dear sister of Dianna Hurley of Bloomingdale and loved sister-in-law Charlotte and her husband Joseph Markovitch of Clearfield, PA; much loved aunt of Christin Messina of Vernon, Kelly Barbara Chabebe of Chicago, Il, Erin Schissel of Bloomingdale; great-aunt of Katelynn Messina, Fletcher and Griffin Schissel; and many beloved Godchildren, and many children and teens whose hearts were touched by her various youth oriented efforts.

Friends may visit with the family from 2-4 PM on Thursday, February 22, 2018 and a second day of visitation from 2-4 and 7-9 PM on Friday, February 23, 2018 at Holy Resurrection Church, 285 French Hill Road, Wayne. During the visitation on Thursday a 3 PM Memorial Service will be held.  On Friday an 8 PM Funeral Service will be held with Archbishop Michael Dahulich presiding.  

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Diocese of NY & NJ Youth, 33 Hewitt Ave., Bronxville, NY 10708 would be greatly appreciated.

Adele J. Verdi (nee Uzar), age 64 of Wayne, died on Feb. 16, 2018 after a two year battle with cancer.  She had lived in Wayne since 1990.

Adele had worked as a Credit Manager throughout her career.  She was with Panasonic for thirty years and then more recently with Ricoh USA in West Caldwell before retiring in 2013. She suffered a small stroke shortly afterward. Adele earned an Associates Certificate at Panasonic from Dunn and Bradstreet.

Adele grew up in Garfield and Elmwood Park, graduating from Elmwood Park High School with the class of 1971.  Adele and Ed met in February, 1974 ... almost to the day. Ed Verdi found her beautiful green eyes to be irresistible, and they fell head over heals in love. They were married on October 16, 1977 at St. John Kanty RC Church in Clifton, followed by a honeymoon to Pennsylvania.  They have enjoyed a “wonderful” marriage of over forty years, complete with lots of fun and good memories.  Ed recalls how Adele was always smiling and happy, although she certainly had strong opinions about some things. Adele and Ed liked to "play" and enjoyed teasing one another. They traveled together often and Acadia National Park was among their favorite destinations, a place they have visited in excess of thirty times!  Adele loved to hike along the shoreline and through the woods with Ed at her side.  Adele’s love of seafood no doubt endeared her to such a place as the State of Maine. The first few years, they "named" each lobster. She almost reached "Z" twice! She enjoyed bringing back a dozen or so lobsters and having a party with her parents and brothers. Dad and Ed had steaks. She loved her parents and brothers and sisters dearly. She was hostess to a huge Christmas dinner every year inviting the entire family. Lobster, sashimi, and linguini with white clam sauce were among her favorite meals. Adele loved to go for long rides with the roof dawn as well as going sight seeing. For the entire time they had together, they were  inseparable.Ed’s heart is broken and he will miss his beloved Adele dearly.

Adele is survived by her husband; M. Edward Verdi of Wayne, three sisters; Joanna Dioniseo, Diane Cochara, and Maryann Uzar, two brothers’ Joseph and John Uzar, two sisters-in-law; Patricia Ogawa of Toms River and Ellen O’Sullivan of Beverly Hills, Florida, and many nieces and nephews.

Born in Bronx, New York, January 31, 1916, Mary’s life was defined by the times in which she lived, from the advent of WWI, through the Great Depression and WWII, experiencing hardships that most today could hardly imagine, but people of that generation thrived. Through it all, hard work was her constant companion, as it would be for much of her life, with never a complaint. Mary was a survivor that did not stop moving.

Mary met and married Joseph J. Entler, a Motorman for the New York City subway, and they had two sons, Joseph and Martin. Through hard work they saved and eventually purchased property in Wayne, N.J and built their house themselves, never having a mortgage, moving there in 1960. Mary was proud of her home and her family, and she took great pleasure in being outdoors and tending to her garden. She was a dutiful daughter, taking care of her mother until her death, and she loved her husband, taking excellent care of him through a variety of illnesses until his death in 1994. Never having learned to drive, Mary took the local bus and lived on her own until she was 101 years old; she lived a life of service and was an amazing woman, loved by all who knew her.

Mary is predeceased by her son Joseph and survived by her son Martin and his wife Eileen of Sarasota, Florida. Mary had five grandchildren; Joseph Entler and his wife Catherine of Ringwood, NJ, Regina Eid and her husband Joseph of Midland Park, NJ, Ava Lahti and her husband John of Richfield, Minn., Florence Grant and her husband Robert of Sarasota Fla, Claudia Shea-Sweet and her husband Todd of Sarasota Fla, Martin Entler Jr. and his wife Tara. Mary had five great-grandchildren; Sara Lahti, Jared and Carly Entler, Grace and Rose Eid, Julia and Victoria Shea, Todd Sweet and Marti Ann Entler.

Ruth Elliott Walz, age 95 of Wayne, pass peacefully on Tuesday, February 13, 2018.

UPDATE: A funeral service will be held at 7 PM on Friday, February 16 at the funeral home following visitation.

Ruth E. Walz (Sullivan) age 95, of Wayne, passed peacefully on Tuesday, February 13, 2018.

Ruth was born to Joseph and Ethel Sullivan in Battle Creek Michigan.  She was raised at 390 Cliff Street in Battle Creek and graduated from Battle Creek High School with the Class of 1940.

Ruth married her high school sweetheart Gerald Walz.  Gerald was attending Michigan Tech’s College of Engineering in Houghton, Michigan and entered the ROTC program.  The United States entered World War II and Gerald, with his new wife, was soon on his way to flight training school and was certified as a flight engineer for a B 29 bomber.  He would be transferred overseas and Ruth returned home to live with her parents in Battle Creek.  Their first born was a war baby named Gerald who was born in Battle Creek while his father was away at war.  After his service Gerald returned from the war and the GI Bill permitted him to attend his college of choice to finish his degree.  Gerald was soon enrolled at Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut where he received his Degree in Electrical Engineering. Out of college the young couple moved to Moline, Illinois where they would be blessed with two more children Karen and Sue. Gerald’s work would have them move to New Jersey where they lived in the Smoke Rise section of Kinnelon for about ten years before returning to Battle Creek.

Ruth will be remembered as a very loving, sweet, gentle and kind person with a heart of gold. She had an amazing sense of humor who could always beat you to the punch.  Ruth was truly a beautiful person inside and out. One of her favorite things to do was to go clothes shopping with her best friend Dolores to buy clothes to then again, go clothes shopping.  She was a championship bowler and bridge player.  She loved listening to Elvis Presley and watching Tiger Woods. For many years she kept a huge vegetable garden and loved growing flowers. She was also an animal lover and had many dogs and cats through the years. One very special dog who was close to her heart was named Blackie who was her companion after she lost her beloved husband.  Ruth was an amazing and dedicated wife, fantastic mother and a phenomenal cook.  No one could ever come close to her Thanksgiving feast.  She made the best pot roast, beef stroganoff, and there was just something special about her imperial crab recipe that can’t be duplicated.

Ruth was the devoted wife of fifty-two years to the late Gerald Walz (1994); a devoted mother of Gerald and Deborah Walz of Denville, Karen Albano and her late husband Benjamin Albano (1996) and her loving partner Alan Barone of Wayne, and Sue Charbonneau and her husband Gary of Clearwater, FL; she was the loved sister of Elliott Sullivan of Battle Creek, MI and his late wife Millie, the late Joseph Sullivan and his late wife Doreen, and the late Mary Jane Poole and her late husband Bill; she was the cherished grandmother of eight grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren.

Henry Paul Tantow age 85 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Tuesday February 13, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of his family.

Henry was born and raised in Berlin Germany.  After graduating High School, Henry learned the trade of a machinist.  In the early 1950’s Henry and one of his friends decided that they would seek a better life and the American Dream and immigrated to the United States.  Henry was not able to get into the United States at first so he was living in Canada for about one year so that he could raise enough money to enter the US.

When Henry finally entered the US he settled in New York City.  There he found a job as a machinist with the Schaefer Brewing Corp.  He worked with Schaefer for seven or eight years until the company eventually closed.  Henry then earned a position again as a machinist with the Anheuser-Busch Corp located in Newark, NJ.  He worked there for many years until his retirement in 1998.

While attending an event at the Wayne Manor in Wayne, NJ he met a women by the name of Susan Carino.  They went out for some dinner and dated for about three years. As fate would have it they fell in love and were married on July 28, 1990.  After getting married they settled in West Orange where they lived for ten years until eventually moving to Wayne in the year 2000.  Henry and Susan owned a condominium in Cape Coral Florida where they would spend their winters.  He was also a member of the Elks Lodge in Cape Coral, Florida.  Henry enjoyed traveling, especially to Europe and the Caribbean.  He enjoyed fishing and creating arts and crafts particularly with sea shells.  He also enjoyed dancing and was quite a good cook.

His family remembers him as kindhearted and being able to make people laugh.  One of his memorable moments was meeting Henny Youngman. Aside from all of henry’s interests and talents, his greatest passion was for his family.  Nothing meant more to Henry than spending time with his family.  Henry was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather.  He touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends alike.

Henry is survived by his wife Susan (nee Carino) of Wayne, three sons Jeffrey Tantow  and his wife Virginia of Port Reading, Eric Sandsmark, and Kirk Sandmark and his wife Tara of Vernon, daughter; Melissa and husband Herbert, eight grandchildren; Jeffrey, Ryan, Jason, Kirk, Karley, Katelynn, Sarah, and Taylor, two  great-grandchildren; Dominic, and Kyhlye, his sister-in-law  Rosemary Klingen and her husband Jack of Dacono, CO, his nephew Jack Klingen and his niece Jill Hasting.  He was predeceased by his first wife Carmen in 1983.

In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Henry’s name to the American  Cancer Society, NJ Chapter, 986 S Springfield Ave,  Springfield, NJ 07081.

Frank P. Albora, age 89 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, February 13, 2018.  He had been a resident of Wayne since 1967.

Frank grew up in Paterson and graduated from Eastside High School.  He went to Kansas State University and graduated in 1952.  He was then drafted into the U.S. Army and served for two years.  Coincidentally, the Army assigned him to duty in Kansas where he worked with the Veterinary Corps, tending to the various animals of the U.S. Army, such as horses and dogs.  He had a special love for animals and this was right up his alley.  This experience inspired Frank to continue his education after the Army and he later earned a Master’s Degree in Dairy Science from Penn State.  While in school, he was a member of the Dairy Judging Team, tasting and judging the quality of cheeses.  He had a firm knowledge of the science behind the foods that we all eat.

After college, he returned to New Jersey and began working for the Borden’s Ice Cream Company.  He eventually became the Food Plant Manager for Wellworth and the company was acquired several times over and he continued with each of the successive companies.  Frank retired in 1996.

Frank enjoyed gardening and took great pride in his veggies, including zucchini and tomatoes.  He also loved to go boating and kept a boat on Greenwood Lake for many years.  His daughter recalls spending summer days with him at the Preakness pool where he taught her to swim and dive, and he would play volleyball with their friends.  He was a very sociable guy and enjoyed a group of longtime friends.  He and his wife, Roz, played cards with the same group of friends for more than forty years.  He was also a member for many years of the Knights of Columbus and the Wayne Elks.

Frank met his wife, Rosalinda “Roz” Panebianco at a family gathering in the town of Upper Greenwood Lake, NY in 1957.  The two of them started talking and they truly hit it off.  Frank proposed just two weeks later and they married the following summer; June 29, 1958.  After a honeymoon to Lake George, they settled in Clifton and Paterson before moving to Wayne in 1967.  Frank had a “good heart,” and Roz described their sixty years together as “terrific.”  She will miss him dearly.

Frank is survived by his beloved wife; Rosalinda of Wayne, his daughter; Cara Shaw and her husband Ben of Raleigh, NC, two grandchildren; Aaron and Samuel Shaw, his dear nieces; Lillian Pagano of Paramus, and Jina Panebianco of Marina Del Rey, CA, his nephews; Joseph Panebianco and his wife Cynthia of Wyckoff, and Hugh Albora and his wife Elizabeth of Hackettstown, ten great-nieces and great-nephews, and an extended and loving family.

Raymond G. Grocela, age eighty-six of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday February 12, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving the loving care of his family.  He was born and raised in Irvington, New Jersey to Louis and Estelle Grocela. He went to school at Sacred Heart Church in Irvington until the 8th grade, where he primarily spoke Polish. After finishing the 8th grade, Ray went to Irvington High School where he graduated with the class of 1948.  After High School graduation Ray was accepted to Seton Hall University in South Orange, New Jersey where graduated with a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry in 1952.

Subsequent to his college graduation, Ray got the call to serve his country in the United States Army. When first entering the Armed Forces he was offered to study Russian at the Monterey School of Foreign Languages for training in espionage against the Soviet Union. Ray knew very well espionage can be a very exciting field to work in, but considering his education and background, Ray was stationed in New Mexico where he participated in Operation Castle. Operation castle was conducted as a joint venture between the Atomic Energy Commission (AEC) and the Department of Defense (DoD).  The ultimate objective of the operation was to test designs for an aircraft-deliverable thermonuclear bombs of unprecedented power.  Doing his time as part of Operation Castle, Ray was subjected to nuclear fallout radiation exposure. This unfortunately had short-term as well as long-term effects on his health.  In 1954 Ray was honorably discharged from the United States Army and went to work for a company called Fries Brothers. There he was employed as a chemist and worked on the development and manufacturing of various flavors. Ray worked there for several years and then earned a position at the Schering Corporation located in Bloomfield.  Ray spent the next forty-three years at Schering until his retirement in 1994. During his time there, Ray was a co-inventor of Gentamicin, a well-known antibiotic that has helped save millions of lives around the world, and that his son Dr. Joseph Grocela uses today for lifesaving treatments of his patients.

While working at Schering Corporation in 1959, Raymond met a young lady by the name of Sharlene Habermann, who was employed there as his boss’ secretary.  They went out on their first date and had some ice cream and as fate would have it they fell in love, and a year later were married on June 5th, 1960 at the Sacred Heart Church in Irvington where Ray had gone to school as a child.  Ray and Sharlene honeymooned in Miami, FL.

At first Ray and Sharlene settled in Bloomfield, where they lived for two years and then in 1964 they moved to Wayne. They would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their three children there. Ray and Sharlene felt they were each the other’s soulmates and cherished 57 years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Ray enjoyed woodworking and built most of the furniture in Ray and Sharlene's home.  Not only did Ray build furniture but he also built grandfather clocks.  Raymond also enjoyed bird watching and gardening.  Particularly his flowers and tomatoes brought him many years of joy and satisfaction.  Ray spent his spare time also fishing and camping.  Every year Ray and his family would travel the United States visiting almost evetry national park, traveling 10,000 miles or more a year every year for fifteen years, in their RV’s.  This would be the equivalent of Ray driving his family six times around the world.  Raymond was also dedicated to his Catholic faith and taught CCD at Holy Cross Roman Catholic Church in Wayne when he was a parishioner there, Ray and Sharlene were also parishioners of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne as well as Saint Mary's Roman Catholic Church in Pompton Lakes. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather. You always knew Ray's opinion about something, as he was very outspoken. He was kind, generous, and was always the first to speak up when he saw something wrong or someone doing something wrong.  He was the kind of guy that would root for the underdog and stand up for the weaker side.   Ray was an extraordinary person who touched lives of countless people and will be sincerely missed by his family and friends alike.

Raymond is survived by his wife Sharlene (nee Habermann) of Wayne, his son Dr. Joe Grocela and his wife Dr. Susan Ryan of Weston, MA, his two daughters, Cathi Grocela of Wayne, and Terri Grocela Rocha and her husband Gerardo of Wellesley, MA, eight grandchildren; Cory, Cayla, and Megan Bissonnette; Alicia and Julia Rocha; and Raymond, Katherine, and Michael Grocela, and one great granddaughter, Gia Rose Fornino.  He was predeceased by his brother Joseph Grocela.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Raymond’s name are asked to consider donations in honor of Raymond’s Great Grandniece Aubrey Kyne at www.befierce.org

Margaret Reid Phillips, “Maggie”, age 74, of Pompton Lakes, passed away on Monday, February 12, 2018.

One of Howard and Dorothy Reid’s six children, Maggie was born in Lyndhurst and raised in Secaucus and after marriage moved to Little Ferry where she raised her three children: Kathleen, Karen and Christopher.

MaggieÅ› career included several corporate office positions including Office Manager until she became a sales representative for Homes Magazine which parlayed into a very successful career that began in 1980 in residential real estate where she received such accolades as becoming a member of the Million Dollar Club. She became a Real Estate Broker during the latter years of her career and opened her own business, World Properties in Oakland, NJ.

Maggie enjoyed shopping, road trips, decorating and cooking but most of all, Maggie was an extremely devoted wife, mother and grandmother. She signed her children up for dance, softball and baseball and was their biggest cheerleader in the stands. She filled her childrenÅ› life with family and traditions and showed them the value of having that in their lives, creating lifelong memories. She was Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny and if her children did not have something they were never the wiser. She was their travel guide bringing them anywhere she thought would be fun to see and make memories. Maggie taught her children that nothing was impossible. If there was a will there was a way and to never give up, to believe in themselves and even in their weakest moments to keep their chin up. She let her children and grandchildren make mistakes but never shamed them for them. She protected her family, loved them, nurtured them and made them feel important. She made her children strong but soft enough to be the parents they are now and by example showed how to give, to love and to balance. Maggie instilled in her family that nothing was as important as family, to respect their elders, their Grandparents and to live for today not wait for tomorrow, to take care of themselves and each other. She taught her entire family to find the humor in things, but also the lessons and to not take everything so seriously. Her sense of humor and wit was infectious. She was not only a mother and grandmother, but a friend tried and true. Maggie was someone you could always count on. Whether you were a friend, family or someone she just met, Maggie would lend a hand and help you. She was someone who would always listen and give the best advice even if it was what you did not want to hear. She was honest and forthcoming.

Maggie was a force on this earth. She was strong, smart and beautiful and will be missed so very much by all of her family and friends. Her generosity and caring nature was her trademark. Her family and the love they have for her and each other is her legacy and a true testament to the wife, mother and grandmother she was.

Maggie was the beloved wife of William; loving mother of Karen and husband Peter Hug of Pompton Lakes, Kathleen and husband Steven Roman of Pompton Lakes, and Christopher and wife Patricia Graber of Lincoln Park; cherished grandmother of Edward and wife Therese, Kristle and husband Ryan, Matthew and fiancé Jackie, Peter, Andrew, Christopher, Keira, Ryan, Lucas, and Jacob; and adored great-grandmother of Aiden and Chase. She was predeceased by four sisters: Doris Cabany, Beverly Judge, Ruth Safer, and Judith Cortese; and one brother: Charles Reid.

Those planning an expression of sympathy in Margaret’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 (www.stjude.org).

Margaret Palumbo, age 94, a twenty-six year resident of Wayne, passed peacefully at home on Saturday, February 10, 2018.

She was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York to Angelo and Vita Giarratano. Margaret lived in Brooklyn for almost seventy years and was a true Brooklynite at heart…accent and all. This is evidenced by her love of Charles Bronson and Dirty Harry films.  She loved those types of movies and could often be heard saying things like “let’s see how they like it” when street justice and revenge prevailed. That being said she had a huge heart and would give you the shirt off her back .  Often visitors to her home would hear the “come on in and I’ll make you something to eat” as she was outgoing, kind, generous, and loyal.  She was raised and raised her family in an environment where family meant everything and the traditional Sunday Dinner, where everyone was expected to be there, was part of everyday life.  The love she cooked into her traditional Italian cooking will never be forgotten and her special touch on stuffed shells, macaroni and beans, hot dogs and cheese and stuffed shrimp will never be duplicated. She always enjoyed shopping but when it came to grocery shopping her Brooklyn came out as she knew exactly what she wanted, where it was, and if you were in her way you wouldn’t be for long.

Margaret Giarratano and Victor Palumbo met while they were just teenagers living in Brooklyn.  Victor’s sister had married Margaret’s brother and this brought the two of them together.  They married on November 13, 1954 and have enjoyed sixty one years together.  Victor and Margaret were a good team, strongly focused on their family and they passed on good values to their children.  The children recall fun family day trips to Coney Island when their mother would pack a cooler and they would each be carrying more than they could handle.  They would get on the subway with all of their gear and head to Coney Island to enjoy the sun and sand.  The day was never complete until they each had a few “Nathan’s Famous” hot dogs in their bellies before boarding the subway for the trip back home again.  They never realized back then just how special those memories would be today.  Victor was fortunate to enjoy a lengthy retirement and he and Margaret truly enjoyed themselves.  They fondly remembered touring Italy with Victor’s sisters Mary, Anna and her husband Sam.  They moved to New Jersey in 1992.

Margaret was the loving wife of the late Victor C. Palumbo (2016); devoted mother of Victor Palumbo and his wife Elizabeth of Wayne, Carol Rawa and her husband Donald of Lyndhurst, and Robert Palumbo of Lewisville, Texas, two grandsons; Brian Vacante and his wife Leonella, and Eric Vacante and his wife Tina; she was the loved sister of Leonard “Lenny” Giarratano and his wife Starlet of San Diego, CA, the late Gaetano Giarratano, the late Anna Pumilia, and the late Alma DeLia.

Kenneth E. Walter, age 89, of Lincoln Park and formerly of North Caldwell and Wayne, passed away on Saturday, February 10, 2018.

The youngest of three children, Ken was born in Hackensack and raised in Wallington.

After high school graduation from East Rutherford High School in 1946, Ken wanted to become a partner in his father’s plumbing business – Lou Walter Inc., Plumbing. Because his father would not just let him step into that role, Ken chose a different path for his future and enlisted in the U.S. National Guard. He served honorably and faithfully from 1946 to 1954, including reserve duty, attaining the rank of sergeant in the 165th Armored Field Artillery Battalion, 50th Armored Division and the 215th Armored Infantry Battalion while earning his certification as a wheel and track vehicle mechanic.

In 1949, while serving in the National Guard, Ken married his high school girlfriend, Doris Holzapfel. He also became a father three times welcoming two sons, Ken, Jr. and Robert, and a daughter Denise. He eventually did go to work for his father in the family plumbing business and, when his own two boys were old enough, he formed his own company – K. Walter Inc., Plumbing and Heating in Little Falls, retiring in 1996.

After divorce, Ken found love again. Her name was Jo Ann Cofrancesco and it was a volleyball injury that caused their paths to cross as Ken ended up in the hospital and Jo Ann turned out to be his caregiver. About two years later Ken ran into Jo Ann again while shopping at Macy’s Department Store. They had lunch together and eventually fell in love before joining their hearts in marriage. They had the mutual pleasure of traveling to West Europe, taking many trips to the Caribbean, and they especially enjoyed having their children and grandchildren visit to their condo in Naples, Fl. Their grandchildren meant the world to both Ken and JoAnn and they loved watching them grow, attending all of their sporting events and plays. Ken and Jo Ann very-much loved and supported each other and were thankful for every day together until Jo Ann’s passing in April, 2013.

In times of leisure Ken also enjoyed rooting for the New York Giants and New Jersey Devils. When he was younger, he took great interest in raising his sons, serving as a Boy Scout leader in North Caldwell Troop 1 and taking them pheasant hunting and also fresh-water fishing on trips to Canada and Alaska. Ken also had a heart for service and was a long-time volunteer with the West Essex Lions Club where he was a past-president, and later, when moving to Wayne, with the Wayne Lions Club. Ken’s faith in God was one of the most important aspects of his life and for many years he was also a faithful parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church in Wayne.  

Ken was the beloved husband of Jo Ann (nee Cofrancesco) who passed away in 2013; dear father of: Kenneth Walter, Jr. and his wife Deborah, Robert Walter and his partner Kristina, Denise Mara and her husband John, and Jaclyn Braddock and husband Thomas; daughter-in-law Donna Walter; cherished grandfather of: Tyler and Matthew Braddock, Kenneth Walter, III, Kristin Hernandez, Danielle Bush, Rhonda Lysiak, Lauren Chaput, Courtney Billings, John Mara, Jr., Christine Ward, and Erin Brooks; and 18 great-grandchildren. Ken was also predeceased by his brother Louis Walter and sister Helen McNiff.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Ken’s name are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 (www.stjude.org).

Julia Labowsky (nee Sveda), age 102 years, of Wayne passed away peacefully on Wednesday February 7, 2018 in the presence of and while receiving loving care from her family.

Julia was born and raised in Wallington, NJ to Joseph and Julia Sveda. Julia was never registered for public school, instead she one day at the age of four followed a group of children to a local grammar school and started first grade on her own. When she came home from her first day of school, her parents asked her where she had been all day. She replied, “I’m going to school now.” Starting grade school at a young age allowed her to graduate from high school when she was only sixteen years old, and she did so in 1932 from East Rutherford High School. Unfortunately, Julia’s parents both passed away at a very young age (18 when her father died, 21 when her mother died) and Julia was out on her own quite early in life. She started life with just $300, her share from the sale of her parent's home, making her a very independent person with great perseverance.

Immediately after graduating from high school, Julia went to work for US Rubber located in Passaic, NJ. She worked there in the billing department for nearly sixteen years. As the country mobilized for World War II, Julia began working seven days a week for the duration of the War as US Rubber produced jeep, truck, and airplane tires, high-pressure hoses, and the rubber soled boots used by soldiers and Marines in tropical and jungle environments. This was her contribution to the war effort. US Rubber was a major contractor for the Navy Department and she often worked closely with senior Navy personnel.

After the war, Julia’s brother John Sveda introduced her to a young man who had just returned from the Navy overseas. The young man’s name was Paul Labowsky. They were introduced and their first date was at a family gathering in a park in New York. After only their third date, Paul proposed to Julia, which was not uncommon in those days. Julia said she needed a little more time to get to know him, but as fate would have it, they fell in love and a few years later were married on a snowy January 24 in 1948. Their marriage ceremony was held at St John the Baptist Russian Orthodox Church in Passaic, and they honeymooned in Miami, FL for two weeks.

Following their marriage, Julia and Paul settled in Wayne where they lived with Paul’s younger sister Rose Baron and her husband, Paul. Paul Labowsky decided that he would start his own business as a plumber with Julia doing the books for him. In 1949, Julia and Paul welcomed their first child and it was then that Julia decided to become a homemaker, devoting her life to caring and nurturing her family. Paul and Julia decided that they would stay in Wayne and build their home there. They picked their home from a catalog and through numerous barter arrangements with other contractors, built their home and moved in on January 1, 1952. They would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their two children there.

As Julia’s children were growing up, she was always there for them as a class parent, in Cub Scouts, and in Girl Scouts. She was quite an athlete and was always conscience of nutrition and healthy foods for her and her family. Julia enjoyed playing tennis, golf, and played for the basketball team in high school. She always made sure that supper was on the table and hot when her husband and children arrived home from work or school. She was the kind of person that could time things perfectly. She was a great cook and baker and never used a recipe book, everything was from scratch and by memory. In 1992, Julia’s husband Paul suffered a stroke and was never the same. She devoted herself to being his full-time care giver even though she was in her late seventies and on into age 90. Paul and Julia cherished fifty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage until Paul’s passing in February of 2006.

During the middle 1960s, Julia wasn’t very happy with the car she was driving and needed something with a little more “pick-up.” She and Paul went out to buy a new car in 1967 and Julia decided it would be a new Pontiac GTO with a 400 cubic inch, 335 horsepower engine. Needless to say this car fulfilled Julia’s need for acceleration and also had all of the teenagers in the neighborhood salivating over it. Other young drivers often wanted to challenge her to a drag race from stoplights. She and Paul drove the GTO for ten years.

Julia was quite a card player, particularly poker, and would sit in on games with her husband’s friends whenever they got together. She also enjoyed trips to various casinos including Las Vegas, Atlantic City, and Mount Airy Lodge in the Poconos. She was an avid pinochle player and played against other neighborhood couples with Paul as her partner. Julia was longtime baseball fan, most recently of the New York Mets. She enjoyed betting with her son, Don, whenever the Mets played the Philadelphia Phillies (Don's home team). For years they bet $1/game, $5 for a sweep. Once the Phillies started going downhill, she pressed the bet to $2/game, $10 for a sweep, and won handily every year. When asked about regularly taking money from her son on these baseball bets, she always said she did it to teach Don a lesson not to gamble.

Julia was part of a group in our society that has become known as the “Greatest Generation.” The Greatest Generation are people who grew up during the deprivation of the Great Depression and later as young adults, worked and fought for the country during World War II. Julia lived through eighteen presidents, saw women gain the right to vote, saw the establishment of commercial air transportation, and the practical implementation of the automobile. She was blessed with longevity and good health. Julia lived through some of the most extraordinary, darkest, and controversial times in human history. She often took care of aging relatives, touched the lives of countless people, and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

Julia is survived by her daughter Dr. Christine Labowsky of Cincinnati, OH, son Don Paul Labowsky and his wife Bonnie of Chalfont, PA, grandson Alex Tepe and his wife Jessica of Cincinnati, OH, grandson Andrew Tepe and his fiancée Kendra Cozzens of Morrow, OH, grandson Nick Labowsky and his longtime girlfriend Stefanie Belding of East Norriton, PA, and great-grandson Ethan Tepe (Alex and Jessica's son). She is also survived by several nieces and nephews, and had a special relationship with her niece Barbara Rusinik. She was predeceased by her two brothers Joseph and John Sveda and her two sisters Mary Stoppy and Anne Rossi. She was a 70-year member of St. John the Baptist Russian Orthodox Church in Passaic, NJ. At the time of her passing, Julia lived a near independent life at home, was on no medications, and did all of her own cooking, cleaning, and bill paying.

In lieu of flowers those planning to make a donation in Julia’s name are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis TN 38105-9959 or St John the Baptist Russian Orthodox Church, 170 Lexington Ave, Passaic, NJ 07055.

Stefan Redl age 84 of Wayne passed away peacefully on February 4, 2018 while receiving the loving care and in the presence of his family.

Stefan was born in Hungary to Frank and Katharina Redl. Stefan spent his childhood and his formative years in Hungary growing up in the midst of the Second World War. Following the end of the War, Stefan and his family were deported to Germany. When Stefan arrived back in Germany, his love of boxing had begun. He started boxing as a young man and developed his skills to the point that he qualified for the 1952 Helsinki Olympics where he eventually lost in a split decision in the finals.

Four years later in February of 1956, Stefan came to the United States, settled in New Jersey, and became a professional boxer. He fought in the Boston Garden, Chicago Stadium, and four times at Madison Square Garden throughout his fifty-six bought career. His first fight at “MSG” was on August 3, 1956 against Tony Sansone. His second was on February 14, 1958 against Gale Kerwin. His third was against Gil Turner on August 22, 1958, and his fourth was on June 19, 1959 against Florentino Fernandez.

On March 29, 1958 Stefan Redl was named the New Jersey Welterweight Champion after going the full twelve rounds of the Championship Fight and defeating Johnny DiGilio on points. Stefan eventually retired from boxing in October of 1963.

On October 10, 1989 Stefan was inducted into the New Jersey boxing Hall of Fame. He retired with a record of 36 wins, 16 losses, 4 Draws, and 15 KO’s. This was something that he was very proud of and spoke about over the years to his family and friends. Also during the course of his boxing career, Stefan enlisted in the National Guard where he served until 1957 on active duty.

Subsequent to his retirement from professional boxing he started a carpentry construction business named Red-L Construction. He nurtured and built his business over the years and in 1989 dissolved his afore mentioned business and started a new one with his son named S&F Builders Inc.  He worked there with his son until his retirement in 2003 when he turned over the company to his son Frank. Also during his carpentry career he was a member of Carpenter’s Union Local 253.

While Stefan was honing his skills as a boxer in 1958 he met a lovely young woman by the name of Laura Kluesanovitz. They dated for a short time and as fate would have it they fell in love and were married on April 8, 1961. Stefan and Laura decided to settle in Wayne. Stefan decided with Laura not only to settle in Wayne but to build their home themselves. They would call Wayne their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their three children there as well. Stefan and Laura cherished fifty-six years of loving and loyal marriage together. Stefan loved to sing, particularly yodeling, and was an accomplished accordion player. He also enjoyed hunting on the small farm that he owned in Pennsylvania. Aside from his love of boxing and all of Stefan’s talents and interests, his greatest love was for his family. Stefan was always there for his children and was a devoted husband. Nothing meant more to Stefan that providing for and spending time with his wife and kids.

Stefan is survived by his wife Laura (nee Kluesanovitz) of Wayne, two sons; Frank Redl and his wife Antonette of West Milfrod and David Redl and his wife Melissa of West Milford, one daughter; Linda Redl of Wayne, five grandchildren; Stefan, Anjelica, Julia, Max, and Evan, two sisters; Elisabeth Minihoffer and Katharina Edl both of Germany.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Stefan's name to Our Lady of Consolation Church, 1799 Hamburg Tpk, Wayne NJ 07470.

U.S. Army veteran, 82nd Airborne and Jersey City PD badge #982, West District.    

After enjoying a full and happy life, Michael Stofey passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loved ones on February 3, 2018. Michael grew up in Jersey City, NJ, was a long time resident of Avenel, NJ and recently lived in Wayne and North Haledon. Michael Stofey served his country and was a veteran of the U.S. Army, 82nd Airborne; he also served his community as Police Officer, badge #982, at the West District in Jersey City, NJ. He retired from the Jersey City Police Department in 2002.

Michael is predeceased by his mother Susan (Leno) Sosnowski and his brothers; Robert and John. He is survived by the love of his life, his devoted wife of nearly 40 years, Dorothy Stofey (nee Rucki) of N. Haledon, his children; Kristy Stofey, Michael Stofey III, Karen Stofey and Thomas Stofey, and five grandchildren; Michael, Josh, Stephanie, Sabrina and Thomas.

Michael lived life to the fullest. “Stofey” enjoyed helping his fellow man; whether it was protecting people in his role as an officer or lending a hand to his neighbors. He also loved to spend time with family and friends, drinking a Sam Adams and laughing loudly at a good joke. In his retirement, Michael spent many happy days going to the movies and taking day trips while holding his wife Dorothy’s hand. He also appreciated time at the lake house with his brother and sister- in- law Deborah and Ted Drake, playing golf with his son-in-law, Glenn Peano, and watching football and going on vacations with his best friend and daughter, Kristy.

In order to honor Michael’s life, the family encourages everyone to live like “Stofey” by helping someone in need, smiling often and laughing boisterously with friends and family.

John Tkach, passed away on Saturday, February 3, 2018 at the age of 87. His family was gathered around him at the time of his passing. He had been a resident of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne for 45 years.

Born and raised in Clifton during the 1930’s and 40’s, John had especially fond childhood memories of playing sports. After graduating from Clifton High School, he served in the U.S. Navy aboard the USS Forrest Royal Destroyer from 1948 to 1949. He later attended Randolph-Macon College in Ashland, Virginia where he lettered in baseball, football, and basketball. In his senior year John was named captain, earning all-state honors in all three sports. Upon his graduation with a degree in psychology John was recognized by Who’s Who Among Students in American Universities and Colleges for his achievements in sports during his college years.

John met his future wife Elaine Moskal at her uncle’s wedding in 1952. They hit it off, married on November 26, 1955 and honeymooned in the Poconos.

Together John and Elaine started a family and John pursued a career with Esso/Exxon as a salesman. He moved up the corporate ladder, first into management and eventually an executive role with MDC, Bayonne. Following retirement in 1985, John derived great enjoyment from staying in touch with former associates through REMOJ – a channel set up through Exxon Corp for that purpose.

During their years together until Elaine’s passing in 2015, John and Elaine enjoyed traveling together to such places as Bermuda, Florida, Myrtle Beach and the Jersey Shore. John always remained involved in Wayne softball, tennis and golf where he treasured the many friendships made at the Packanack Golf Club. In his spare time, he especially loved fishing and being a member of the Anglers Club. He also enjoyed woodworking and making golf clubs. John was extremely sociable and he had a terrific gift of gab with his vast knowledge of an array of subjects – especially sports and politics. In later years, he had more time to enjoy watching his favorite teams including the New York Giants and Knicks, watching movies, following Fox News, and spending endless hours on his computer.

John was predeceased by his beloved wife of 59 years, Elaine. He is survived by three sons: Bruce, Darryl, and Gary; his sister Dorothy and husband Dan Harrington, his brother Joseph; two nieces: Joy and Dawn; and nephews: David and Jeffrey and brother-in-law, Robert Moskal and wife Pamela.

Flowers or memorial donations in John’s honor to the Heart Foundation, 31822 Village Center Road, Suite 208, Westlake Village, CA 91361 (www.theheartfoundation.org), or to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 (www.waynefas.com), would be appreciated.

Charles George Mitchell Jr., age 89, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, passed peacefully on Saturday, February 3, 2018.

He was born to Charles and Lillian Mitchell on March 16, 1928 and raised in Jersey City where he graduated from St. Michael's High School with the Class of 1946. In 1952 he enlisted in the US Navy during the Korean War and served most of his time in Virginia Beach, VA. For much of his service he was a Signalman positioned in a land based tower and signaling ships with Morse code flashes of light from a search lamp fitted with a shutter. He was honorably discharged in 1954 and received the National Defense Service Medal for his service.

Charles joined the Port Authority Police Department in 1956. During his years with the department he began taking night school courses at Seton Hall University where he received a degree in Criminal Justice. Over the course of his career at the Port Authority Charles served in different PA facilities in different positions. He advanced through the ranks from officer to sergeant and ultimately to lieutenant. He was at JFK airport in 1964 when the Beatles first came to the USA and came home to say he saw some long haired singers come off a plane. Years later he was the Port Authority Police representative for dignitaries arriving at JFK and greeted presidents after they landed on Air Force One. Before his retirement from the Port Authority in 1990 Charles spent many years on the operations side of the George Washington Bridge. In so many ways this was the job he loved most. However, even then, he always looked for excuses to get out from behind the desk and join the guys in the field. He couldn't wait to jump in a squad car and be driven around to see what was happening. One such trip coincided with a man who decided he wanted to end his life by throwing himself off the bridge. Charles jumped out of the car and grabbed the man's wrist as both of them hung off the bridge over the Hudson River, one of Charles' hands holding the man, the other grasping the rail of the bridge. Fortunately, reinforcements arrived quickly and both were pulled to safety. Most days were not as dramatic, but even that day when Charles came home he treated it as just another day at work.

Charles and his wife Patricia moved into the Packanack Lake section of Wayne in 1950’s when many area roads were still dirt. They were founding parishioners of Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Wayne and were fixtures at Sunday Noon Mass for many years.

Charles was a devoted husband of fifty-one years to his late wife Patricia (McDermott) Mitchell, the love and focus of his life, who passed away in January of 2003.

He was the loving father of John Mitchell and his wife Linda of Rye, New York, Jim Mitchell and his wife Debbie of Cedar Grove, Thomas Mitchell and his wife Kelly of Vernon, and Mary Ann Atherton and her husband Jason of Virginia; he was the cherished grandfather of Christopher, Brian, Samantha, Matthew (d.2015), Billy, and Hannah Mitchell, and Eliza and Fiona Atherton.  He also really liked the New York Giants.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Immaculate Heart of Mary Church, 580 Ratzer Road, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be appreciated.

Tina Continanza (nee Tribastone), age 91 of Franklin Lakes, died on Friday, February 2, 2018. She had previously lived in Fairview and Wayne.

Tina Tribastone was born on May 6, 1926 in West New York, NJ. Her parents were immigrants from Ragusa, Sicily who came here with her two older siblings, and she and her brother were first-generation American born. She graduated from Memorial High School in West New York.

Tina married her childhood sweetheart, Ernest Continanza, on February 1, 1948 and she remained a devoted wife for 61 years. She was a warm and caring mother to three children, Linda, Allen and Laura. Tina and Ernest lived in Fairview for many years before moving to Wayne in 1993.

Family was most important to Tina and some of her happiest times were when the grandchildren came. She was a participating and loving grandmother to four grandchildren, Christopher, Nicholas, Jessica and Paul. Just six months ago, she was blessed with her first great-grandchild, Everly Grace Abrams.

Tina and Ernest also enjoyed a condo in Seminole, Florida for more than thirty years where they enjoyed visits from their children and grandchildren and made many good friends. They played shuffle-board, golfed and enjoyed many happy hours!

Tina was selfless. She was quiet, kind and introspective. She was much happier listening rather than talking. She was insightful. She was funnier than she knew. She was smarter than she knew. She was stronger than she knew.

Tina had a passion for cooking! She showed her love through food and how she managed to produce those banquet sized portions out of her little kitchen in Fairview was a miracle. She loved to play Scrabble and she wouldn’t hesitate to challenge your words and spelling right up to a couple of weeks before she passed.

Tina is survived by her three children; Linda Zic and her husband Ron of Scottsdale, AZ; Allen Continanza and his wife Doreen of Barnegat, NJ; and Laura Moser and her husband Paul of Oakland, New Jersey; four grandchildren; Christopher Continanza of San Francisco, CA; Nicholas Continanza of Helmetta, NJ; Jessica Abrams and her husband Samuel of Wyckoff, NJ; Paul Moser of Fair Lawn, NJ; as well as her great-granddaughter Everly Grace Abrams. She was predeceased by her beloved Ernest in 2009 and each of her three siblings; Samuel, Sylvia and John.

John Nunzio, age 75 of Bloomingdale, died on Thursday, February 1, 2018. Born with developmental disabilities, the doctors informed his parents that John would never walk, read, or enjoy a productive life. John proved them all wrong.

As an infant, growing up in Nutley, John often shared a playpen with his cousin, Barbara (nee Lanno). John followed her lead and learned to pull himself up and crawl. His aunt Clara devoted herself to teaching John how to walk, and before long, he was walking. His mother, who was an English teacher in the Newark school system, worked tirelessly to teach him how to read. She was successful, and John became an accomplished reader.

John completed elementary school in Nutley and he was an altar boy at Holy Family Church as well. He later attended St. Coletta’s School in Massachusetts before going to the Avalon School in the Berkshire region of Massachusetts. He learned his way around a restaurant kitchen there, helping in various ways as a part time employee. As his skills improved, he gained a full time job working in the kitchen at Fairview Hospital in Great Barrington, Massachusetts. He ultimately enjoyed a thirty year career at the hospital, retiring in 2003. John’s life was a series of accomplishments that defied all the odds.

Since 2006, John had been living at The Chelsea in Montville and the Health Center at Bloomingdale. He participated in activities such as Bible Study and loved playing Bingo. Despite his adversity, he was bright and his memory was sharp. At The Chelsea, John sort of ruined “trivia night” for many of the residents because he would shout out the answers before anyone else, and he was much the same while watching “Jeopardy” on TV.

John’s best character attribute was perhaps his attitude. He had a very ‘easy going’ disposition that enabled him to take life’s challenges in stride. Everything was easy with him and when more challenges came his way, he accepted them and continued on each and every day. Undoubtedly, John could have taught many of us about accepting adversity, and being responsible for our own happiness.

John is survived by his brother Charles Nunzio and his partner Barbara Nolan of Lincoln Park, his dear cousins; Barbara and Ronald Benucci, Ralph and Joan Milano, Anthony and Joyce Milano, Nancy and Dave Morgan, Marie and Ken Duane, Lisa Venezia, Michelle and Peter Moschello, Nick Vitiello and Jeff Kilmer, Lauren Vitiello and Mary Apikos, Linda Pelissier, Lea Del Pomo and Wayne Weeks, Diane (Del Pomo) Williams, Gail Dougherty, Tova Carol Vitiello, and an extended family that includes many dear friends.

Pauline Monti left us on Tuesday January 30, 2018. She was 88 years old.

Pauline was born on December 4, 1929 in Union City where she was also raised.

She worked at McGraw Hill Book Company for several years before moving in the 1970’s to Toms River with her husband Phil. She remained there for 40 years. After Phil passed, Pauline moved to Wayne to live at Sunrise Assisted Living with her sister Charlotte.

Pauline is predeceased and will join her husband of 54 years - Phil Monti; parents: Grace and Charles Brunje; brother: Charles, Arthur, Richard and Howard Brunje; and sister Charlotte Blau.

She also leaves behind her nieces and nephews: Artie and Patty Brunje, Howard and Jane Brunje, Richlene, HelenAnn, Charles and Richard Brunje, Janet, Diane, Cathy ,Tara , David, and William Blau; all her great nieces and nephews; and her sister-in-law Patricia Brunje.

Pauline was a wonderful daughter, sister, aunt and friend! She will be missed dearly.

She grew up in Kearny and had lived in Packanack Lake since 1953.

Margaret Jansen (nee Kelaher), age 98 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, January 30, 2018. She had lived in Packanack Lake since 1953. Margaret had worked in accounting department for many years at Cooper Labs in Parsippany.

Margaret grew up in Kearny, NJ, living on Elm Street during her younger years. She was introduced to her husband, Frank, by mutual friends and their courtship led to engagement. They married on June 10, 1944 at St. Stephen’s RC Church in Kearny, NJ and honeymooned at Atlantic City, NJ. The two of them enjoyed forty-two years together before Frank’s passing in 1986.

Margaret had always been a strong and independent woman who was loquacious and loved to tell a joke. A devoted, Catholic, she was actively involved with the Catholic Daughters of America well into her 80’s. She also volunteered at the Little Sisters of the Poor's St Joseph Home for the Elderly for many years. She enjoyed traveling and spent many summers vacationing in Wildwood, NJ. More recently she enjoyed the company of her cat; Minar. She kept her mind sharp by reading on her kindle and learning to use her iPad and iPhone to communicate with family and friends. She was practically attached at the hip to her iPad and became addicted, in a sense, to games like “Words with Friends” and Solitaire, which she spent countless hours playing. Those little devises brought her happiness and enabled her to communicate (and play!) more closely with everyone she loved. It’s important to note that she was also a breast cancer survivor for over thirty years.

Margaret is survived by her two children; William Jansen of Wayne, and Franceen Jansen Govatos of North Bergen, as well as extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her husband Frank in 1986, by her sister Rose in 1992, by her daughter-in-law; Joanne Jansen in 2016, and by her son-in-law; Ty Govatos in 2014.

Donations in Margaret’s memory would be appreciated to Little Sisters of the Poor, 140 Shepherd Ln, Totowa, NJ 07512, or visit www.littlesistersofthepoor.org.

Robert L Fomen age 76 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday, January 29, 2018 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Robert was born in the summer of 1941 in Passaic to Leonard and Mary Fomen. Bob lived with his family in Garfield from 1941 until 1946. His family then moved to Fairfield in 1947, and this is where Bob would grow up and spend his formative years. After graduating High School in 1959, Bob continued to further his education and was in the midst of taking some certification courses and working for the Bendix Corporation, when he got the call to serve his country in the US Armed Forces.

Bob decided that he would enter the US Navy in 1965, was stationed in Newport, RI and served on the USS Brownson. His service on the USS Brownson took him almost twice around the globe. Some of the operations of the USS Brownson during Bob’s service were the bombing of coastal Vietnam during the Vietnam War. Robert served honorably in the United States Navy from 1965-1967 and spent another two years in the Naval Reserves.

A young lady by the name of Judith Capparelli was asked by a few of her co-workers at the time, if she would like to write and correspond with the GI’s overseas to boost their morale. Judy agreed and sent her first letter to Robert L. Fomen in November of 1966. It took a little while but Robert wrote back to her a month later in December. They wrote each other during Bob’s entire service overseas. Finally, when Bob was honorably discharged from the Navy, he called Judy on the phone informing her that his service had ended and he was on his way to see her. He showed up at her doorstep on May 12, 1967. Bob and Judy dated for about three years and as fate would have it they fell in love and on September 12, 1970 they were married at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Roman Catholic Church in Oakland.

Judy and Bob settled in Wayne, NJ and they would call it their home for the rest of their lives together and would raise their two children David and Jaclyn. In 1973 Bob went to work for SB Thomas Bakery in Totowa where he worked as a Project Manager for three years until 1976. Following his employment at SB Thomas, Bob earned a position as a Manager of Facilities Maintenance at Werner & Pfleiderer in Ramsey. Bob spent the next twenty-six years there until his retirement in 2003. Bob worked part-time after his retirement and then enjoyed full retirement a couple of years later. During his employment at both SB Thomas and Werner Pfleiderer, Bob made good of his spare time and went back to school at night at NJIT where he eventually earned his Bachelor Degree in Engineering Technology along with other various certifications.

Bob was a “Motorhead” from when he was just a teenager. Cars were one of Bob’s passions, he spent countless hours fixing, repairing, and rebuilding automobiles. His pride and joy was his maroon 1935 Ford Coupe. He was a long time member of the Tri-County Cruisers in Wayne and would attend and display his car in Car Shows just about every weekend in places such as Boonton, Wayne, Pompton Lakes, and Succasunna to name just a few. While with the Tri-County Cruisers, Bob would drive his car in the Memorial Day Parades in the area and was also involved in organizing Automotive Scholarships through the organization as well. Over the years, Bob owned a variety of cars and motorcycles including his joint ownership of a race car that he would race at Island Dragway in Great Meadows, NJ and other nearby states. Bob was also a member of the American Society for Industrial Security where they organized field trips to places like the Metropolitan Opera House and the Empire State Building. He was also a long time member of the Association of Facility Engineering.

Bob got his fill of world travel while in the United States Navy and decided that if he were to continue to travel, it would be within the United States. He and his family enjoyed many trips to various places throughout the country. Bob was a quiet man and as one would figure with his technological and engineering background, he was patient and organized. He truly enjoyed doing his yard work and being handy around the house was an understatement. Bob could fix just about anything. Aside from all of Robert’s talents, hobbies and interests, his greatest passion was for his family. Nothing meant more to Bob than spending time with his family. He and his wife Judy cherished forty-eight years of loving and loyal marriage and was a devoted father to his children. Bob touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew him.

Robert is survived by his wife Judy (nee Capparelli) of Wayne, his son David Fomen of Wayne, and his daughter Jaclyn Wacker and her husband Derek of Raleigh, NC.

In lieu of flowers, those planning to make a donation in Robert’s name are asked to consider the American Cancer Society, NJ Chapter, 986 S Springfield Avenue, Springfield, NJ 07081 or the Tri-County Cruisers PO Box 3671, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Patrick C. McGill, age 55, of Wayne, passed away on Monday, January 29, 2018.

Patrick was born in Hackensack and raised in Midland Park. While attending Midland Park High School, he worked part time jobs in town at the Long John Silver Restaurant and at Center Pharmacy. One of his duties at the pharmacy was using a retired U.S. postal service truck to deliver prescriptions. It was a good job for a high schooler and the boss even let Patrick keep his job after he flipped that old truck on its side.

After high school graduation with the Class of 1980, Patrick did what every honorable McGill did before him – he got a real job! Always a stickler for detail and precision, Patrick landed up working in the field of orthopedic prosthetics or, as he would say, “body parts.” His first job was with Pfizer and he stayed with them when they got bought out by Howmedica Osteonics Corp. When that company decided to move to Ireland, you would think that a guy with a name like McGill would jump at the chance to go, but Patrick chose instead to stay in the states. He joined a company as a precision machinist involved in a similar line of work called Diversitech in Riverdale. Patrick worked for Diversitech from 2001 to 2011, until his truly never-diagnosed illness forced him to stop.

In 1981 Patrick met Carol Sinclair through mutual friends at a place called Alfred’s. He impressed her on a first date with a night in the city to see the Rockettes at Radio City Music Hall. They dated for seven years. Then one day he called Carol at work and told her he was coming to pick her up to take her out for lunch. The problem was, Carol had established somewhat of a reputation for taking breaks that were a bit too long. Her boss was on to her and Carol was concerned that a lunch out with Patrick would linger and could mean the end of her job. Patrick went behind her and called Carol’s boss to tell her that he wanted to take Carol out for lunch to propose marriage. The boss let her go and Patrick and Carol headed to The Kings Ransom Restaurant. They each ordered a glass of wine and, while Carol excused herself to use the ladies room, Patrick dropped the ring into the bottom of her wine. When she came back she noticed something in her glass. Her expression went from disgust to delight when she realized that it was an engagement ring. They exchanged their wedding promises before God, family and friends on Saturday, October 14, 1989 at Church of the Nativity in Midland Park. After a honeymoon in the Bahamas and Disney World, they started married life together in a little apartment in Haledon. In 1994, they moved to Wayne and right next to the realtors “under contract” sign on the front lawn, stood one of those big pink storks announcing and welcoming their newborn baby girl Kimberly.

Besides his family, which Patrick certainly loved the most, he really enjoyed getting away to go fishing. He loved both salt water and fresh water varieties. You could say that his car tires must have worn a rut in the road from his house to Atlantic Highlands where he would take a boat in pursuit of fluke, tuna and blues. He especially loved catching a blue – not so much for eating but more for the good fight they would give when he was able to hook one on his line. His favorite fresh-water holes included Whites Pond in Waldwick and the Ramapo Reservation. On the home front, Patrick always looked forward to his annual pig roasts. He’d roast the pig and it grew into this big event with lots of neighbors and friends coming, spread over his and two of his adjoining neighbor’s yards.

Pat’s family will always have great memories of summers down at Wildwood Crest. They’d stay in the Apollo Hotel along the beach and Pat’s daughter Kimberly looks back and smiles when she thinks about swimming as a little girl with her dad and Pop-Pop between her. She’ll also remember how Pat taught her how to ride a bike, being very thorough and not letting her lose the training wheels until she could do multiple figure eights. Patrick was a parishioner of Our Lady of Consolation Church. He started going to bring Kimberly for mass and for different events that she could be involved in at church. When Kimberly went to school at Cairn University, a Christian college intentionally set on integrating Christ and His word into all aspects of daily life, Pat would really enjoy long, deep discussions about God with her.

Pat will always be loved and cherished for being the person that God created him to be. While it’s true that he could be outspoken and never known to be one to sugar-coat things, he always chose to laugh versus cry at whatever life threw at him. He could be a little long-winded…..so much so that his family would joke that if you asked him something as simple as “what time is it”, Pat would tell you how to make a clock. His smile was his gift to everyone and he wore it all the time, even throughout the last six years that he’d been sick.

Surviving are Patrick’s beloved wife Carol, loving daughter Kimberly McGill of Wayne, dear mother Betty Ann McGill of Midland Park, two brothers: Andrew McGill of Elk Bannon, NC and Kevin McGill of Hackensack, and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his father Ronald McGill in 2009 and his brother Ronald McGill, Jr. in 2015.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Patrick’s name are asked to consider the St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 or at www.stjude.org.

Mary Ellen Farnese (nee Tomevi), age 82 of Forked River, NJ, died on Monday, January 29, 2018. She had lived in Paterson sixty five years before retiring to Forked River in 2002.

She had worked as a bookkeeper for Wonder Bread in Paterson for decades before the bakery moved out of the city. She then became bookkeeper for Fairfield Gardens in Fairfield before retiring.

Mary Ellen grew up in Paterson and graduated from Central High School with the class of 1953. It was at a local party that she met Alfred “Fred” Farnese and the two of them became inseparable. They were married on November 6, 1955 at St. Paul’s Church in Haledon and honeymooned at the famous Fontainebleau Hotel. Upon returning to Paterson they settled into their home on East 28th Street which they bought from Fred’s brother Pete. They would spend the next forty seven years there, raising their family. Mary Ellen and Fred enjoyed summer vacations to Wildwood for many years when their children were younger, and then later on they began going on Caribbean cruises and they took trips to Hawaii, Bermuda, and Paradise Island in the Bahamas. No story about their travel would be complete without mentioning Mary Ellen’s purchase of salt and pepper shakers everywhere she went; she had over 200 of them. One of Mary Ellen’s favorite travel destinations was Sedona, Arizona. She had visited there for a family wedding about twenty years ago and had often spoken about the natural beauty of the place. Just recently she mentioned to her daughter how much she wanted to go back and visit Sedona once more. She enjoyed collecting carousel horse figurines and always had a huge pocketbook on her shoulder.

Mary Ellen and Fred had three girls together, but he often reminded his wife that she was always his “top girl.” Sadly, Fred passed away in 2004 and Mary Ellen has missed him dearly. Mary Ellen enjoyed being a grandmother and she has left them all with fond memories. Grandma’s tuna fish sandwiches were always a treat, and playing ‘hangman’ on the back of a paper placemat at the diner was fun. They will all miss her dearly.

Mary Ellen is survived by her three daughters; Diane Jaouen of Hamilton Square, NJ, Debra Migliorino and her husband Robert of Wayne, and Donna Farnese of Forked River, NJ, five grandchildren; Tracy Jaouen of Bensalem, PA, Robert Jaouen of Hamilton Square, NJ, Dana Guglielmo and her husband Joseph of Scarsdale, NY, Amy DiCarlo and her husband Marshall of Pembroke Pines, FL, and Frank Migliorino of Wayne. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Alfred in 2004.

Michael Fusco, age 42, of Livingston passed suddenly and unexpectedly on Saturday, January 27, 2018.

He was born and raised in Wayne having attended Wayne Valley High School and later Livingston High School. He was a natural athlete and excelled at baseball in both high schools. He was a graduate of Lincoln Technical School with a degree in Heating, Ventilation, and Air Conditioning.

He will be remembered for always having a joke, making up stories and rhymes, being silly with his sister and mimicking all kinds of stars like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Kermit the Frog. He loved to laugh, was a daredevil and prankster at heart, and a fast and agile runner. As a young man playing baseball his coach once said his on base percentage was “always.” He enjoyed horror movies, loved Halloween, swimming in the family pool where he would jump off the roof into the shallow end all the time. In his youth he enjoyed family trips to the Jersey Shore with his cousins and getting ice cream at The Sandbar.  Mike had a huge heart, was extremely forgiving, loved animals, was kind, sensitive, and never held a grudge. A memory his mother will cherish is their shared love of baseball and how they would talk on the phone during every Yankee game.  It brought forth alot of laughter as well as some colorful words for the opposing team.  Most of all he will be remembered for his love of his son Dylan.

Michael was the loving son of Peter Fusco of Livingston and Helen Yselonia and her husband John of Wayne. He was the cherished brother of Cara Zaranski and her husband Pete of Wayne, and their children Ava and Declan, and his step-sister Jackie Yselonia of Forked River.

For those considering a memorial donation please send them to Shatterproof, 135 W. 41st Street, 6th Floor, New York, NY 10036 www.shatterproof.org, or to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 www.stjude.org.

Francisca Ruiz, age 88 of Wayne, passed away on Saturday, January 27, 2018.

Frances was born in Naguabo, Puerto Rico, the tenth of Marcello and Sabina Melendez’ eleven children.

When Frances was nineteen years old, she moved to the Bronx, NY in search of work. While getting settled, she initially lived with a family by the last name Ruiz. The Ruiz family had a son named George and it didn’t take too long before he and Frances began to take a bit of a liking to each other. In fact, they took such a liking to each other that they ultimately decided to get married. They exchanged wedding vows on Tuesday, May 16, 1950 at a local catholic church in the Bronx.

After marriage, Frances and George remained in the Bronx where they established their first home as husband and wife. Eventually they would welcome four sons and a daughter and Frances took her role as mother and homemaker very seriously. She did a great job teaching her kids about the value of hard work, character and honesty. She was also by far, their favorite cook and no one could make rice and beans, beans with dumplings, stewed chicken and other cultural Caribbean favorites like Momma Frances. The kids will always have fond memories of summer getaways, spending most summers at Cossayuna Lake in New York State where they all enjoyed being together in their sixty-foot trailer and watching Frances enjoy one of her personal favorite pastimes of fresh-water fishing. She was especially adept at catching sunfish and even more adept at fileting, breading and frying them up…….Mmmmmm! Flakey and delicious! She liked to catch perch and largemouth bass too. When her own children were older, Frances returned to the out-of- home workforce as a home attendant for the elderly.

Frances and George remained in the Bronx until 1994. By then their kids were all independent so they decided to move back to Puerto Rico. They remained there for four years, then, in 1998, they moved to Deltona, Florida because the healthcare was just better there than in Puerto Rico. In her retirement years, Frances loved watching television, especially Oprah Winfrey, The Price is Right, and reality programs on the Spanish broadcasting channels. Nothing made her more pleased though than when her thirteen grandchildren would come to visit. In 2015, two years after the passing of her husband George, Frances moved to Wayne to live with her son Frank.

Frances will always be loved and respected for providing a loving home where values were instilled. She was fun to be around and all of her children enjoyed her wit and humor.

Francisca was the beloved wife of George who passed away in 2013. They enjoyed 63 years in a loving marriage. She was the loving mother of George Orlando Ruiz and wife Norma of Lakeland, FL, Edda Lee Ruiz of the Bronx, NY, George Louis Ruiz of East Chester, NY, Raymond Ruiz and wife Maria Natalia of East Stroudsburg, PA, and Dr. Frank Ruiz and wife Alice of Wayne; Adoring grandmother of 13 grandchildren; 1 cherished great-grandchild; and dear sister of Ismael Melendez of Puerto Rico, and Roberto Melendez and wife Wilma of Puerto Rico. She was also predeceased by eight other dear siblings.

Antoinette (Ann) Rottino, nee Simone, born September 18, 1913 and passed on Saturday, January 27, 2018 at The Atrium in Wayne.

She was the daughter of Caternia and Jocomo Simone, the fourth of six children. She was born and raised in Hoboken where she met her loving husband Anthony. They purchased a home in Jersey City where they lived until moving to Wayne in 1972. Ann was a seamstress and worked for many years with the garment workers.

She enjoyed crocheting and passed her time making beautiful blankets that she loved to give away. Another hobby of hers was making clothing, she made most of her own wardrobe. You might find Ann walking up and down Preakness Avenue, on her way to the shopping center, or maybe at church. Ann was a member of Our Lady of the Valley Church for over 40 years. And of course she enjoyed traveling. Her favorite trip was to Rome when she was 95 years old, and at age 100 she went to Aruba.

Ann was predeceased in death by her parents, her brothers and sisters, Angie, Mary, Netti, Dominic and Mike, and her husband of 60 years, Anthony. She is survived by her loving son Augie and his wife Mary Jane, her grandson Anthony Rottino and his children Gina, Kelly, Michael and Matthew, granddaughter Terri Brown and her daughter Zoe. Extended family members Alicia, Jim, Jackie, Julia Johnson, Denise, Mike, Mikey Donohue. Also nieces, nephews and their extended families. Ann will be sadly missed.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 (www.stjude.org), or Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center, PO Box 27106, New York, NY 10087 (www.mskcc.org), would be appreciated.

Eleanor M. Doyle (nee Burke), 81 of Little Silver and formerly of Wayne, died on Wednesday, January 24, 2018. She was surrounded by her loving family when she passed.

Eleanor had been an executive secretary for Equitable Life Insurance in New York City during her early career. She later enjoyed thirty-five years as secretary of the Athletic Department at William Paterson University. She was a faithful supporter of all the athletic teams at William Paterson, but she especially liked watching the women’s sports. She also volunteered her expertise with many of the scholarship funds at the school.

Eleanor was raised in New York City and lived there for roughly the first thirty years of her life. She was a graduate of Mother Cabrini High School in Manhattan and later graduated from the Drake Business School. As someone who used the subway system often, she was very proud in the 1950’s to have been a “Miss Subways” nominee. On October 30, 1965, she married the love of her life; James Doyle. They had first lived in New York City before settling into their home at Packanack Lake in Wayne. During their forty years in Packanack Lake, they were very involved in the community. Jim played softball on the Klorpz team, and Eleanor enjoyed cheering him on and socializing with the other wives. You could also find her relaxing on the west beach during the summers, or chatting it up on the steps of her church, Immaculate Heart of Mary, after Sunday mass. Jim and Eleanor were fortunate to travel together and had visited Ireland, France, San Francisco, Tahoe, as well as several of our National parks. The two of them enjoyed a loving marriage of forty-five years before his passing in 2010.

Eleanor was also blessed with very strong friendships, most of which lasted her entire life. She had a group that vacationed annually to Eddy Farm in Pennsylvania, and later they would go to Cape May, along with their spouses. She cherished her friends and was truly grateful for the long-held bonds they all shared. Eleanor was also a very talented crafter who liked to paint and crochet. She was particularly good at making “old things new again,” turning garage-sale finds into unique, personalized treasures.

Eleanor is survived by her loving daughter; Jane Christensen and her husband Doug, and her dear grandson; Haakon Christensen, all of Little Silver, NJ, two sisters; JoAnn Gallagher and her husband William of New Fairfield, CT, and Noreen Alt and her husband Robert of Toms River, NJ, and one brother; John Burke and his wife Margaret of Galloway, NJ, and by her dear brother-in-law; Alan Peterfreund and his wife Susan Mosler of Hadley, MA. She was predeceased by her loving husband James in 2010, by their infant daughter; Mary Clare many years ago, and by one sister; Catherine Peterfreund in 2008.

Friends wishing to make a donation in Eleanor's memory are asked to consider; Food For The Poor, In Memory of Eleanor Doyle, 6401 Lyons Road, Coconut Creek, FL, 33073, or visit; www.foodforthepoor.org/donate

Stella M. LaConte, age 93, of Wayne, passed peacefully on Sunday, January 21, 2018.

She was born in Franklin to the late Charles and Mary Wilton. Stella graduated from Franklin High School in 1942 at the beginning of the United States entry into World War II. She found work assembling aircraft engines and was a “Rosie the Riveter” at the Curtis Wright Corporation, a company founded by Glenn Curtis, the father of naval aviation, and the Wright brothers, who were renowned for history’s first flight. It was at Curtis Wright where she found the love of her life Tulio “Ace” LaConte. Stella and Ace married and lived on 21st Street in the People’s Park section of Paterson where they started their family. In 1950 they moved to Woodridge Terrace in the Preakness section of Wayne where they raised their family. After raising her family Stella went to work as a waitress at the Ramapo Lanes on Hamburg Turnpike in Wayne and later at the T-Bowl lanes in Wayne. Before retiring Stella worked for the Wayne Public Library for over twenty years.

She will be remembered for her strong and independent personality. It is said that no grass grew under her feet. She was a great cook and her sister-in-law who every called “Aunt Mary” taught her how to cook with an Italian flair. On many family occasions her special touch on lasagna was the center of the meal. She was also known for her Cornish Pasty which harkens back to her British lineage. She had a love of the New York Mets and was an avid fan of watching her son Ray’s softball games; she rarely missed a game. She was an animal lover and for many years Bootsie and Taffy were by her side. Most recently she got a cat for Christmas and named her Holly. Stella was a devoted member of the United Methodist Church in Wayne.

Stella was the loving wife of forty-four years to the late Tulio “Ace” LaConte (1994); devoted mother of James LaConte and his wife Carol of Wayne, The Honorable Thomas LaConte of the New Jersey Superior Court and his wife JoAnn of Wayne, and Raymond LaConte of Lincoln Park; cherished grandmother of Kevin LaConte and his wife Grace, Andrea Magno and her husband Robert, Greg LaConte, Megan Lynn and her husband Derek, Amanda Farina and her husband John; much loved great-grandmother of Angelina, Luca, and Neva LaConte, Aidan and Gavin Magno, Nolan and Tyler Lynn, and Juliet Farina; dear sister of the late James Wilton.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the United Methodist Church, 99 Parish Drive, Wayne would be greatly appreciated.

Justyna Dolegowski, age 20 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, January 16, 2018. She is yet another victim of the heroin epidemic that is senselessly claiming so many of our wonderful children. She was a 2015 graduate of Wayne Valley High School and a lovely, beautiful young woman.

Sadly, Justyna was six months pregnant. Her and boyfriend Robert Mlynarski were anxiously anticipating the birth of her son; Christian Mlynarski. The two met through family friends and have had an unbreakable bond ever since the day they met. She had recently been shopping with her sister and was excited to be buying clothes and planning for Christian’s arrival in April.

The day Justyna found out she was pregnant with a beautiful bundle of joy, she could not wait to tell everyone. Right away she told her sister Beata who was with her at the time, then they drove to her mother’s job to reveal the news. They then rushed over to Iwona’s place of work where all the sisters wept tears of joy. The whole family was filled with excitement. Her best friend, Samantha Falato was just as excited to hear the news. Justyna and Samantha have been best friends for over thirteen years and when out in public, people would often mistake them as twins. They were inseparable. Just one week ago, Justyna was with her mother and siblings at home admiring Christian’s baby kicks. There was a special joy and light in her eyes and she just couldn’t wait to hold him in her arms. The two of them will now have to rest peacefully together forever.

For those struggling with addiction, or a family member of an addict: addiction is a family disease. One person may use, but the whole family suffers. Heroin will kidnap you, raise you, take your soul and return only your body to your family. Almost all of us know somebody who has lost someone they love to heroin overdose. Addiction is so hard to understand. The desire to use never goes away and the addict battles that desire every single day. It is not their fault, the drug takes over the brain and they have no choice. Addiction is the only prison where the locks are on the inside, but before you can break out of prison you must realize you are locked up. No matter how far you have gone, you can turn around before it is too late. Always remember that in some way or another, you are somebody’s angel, even if you do not realize it. They love you and think of you even if you do not hear it every day. Trust that there is love all around you even if you cannot feel it. You are not alone.

Justyna enjoyed swimming at Tomahawk Lake, walking near the water at Hoboken, Belmar Beach and the boardwalk. Anyplace with water was where she was happiest. As a young girl, she loved having tickle contests with her sisters; seeing who would be the first to laugh themselves off the side of the bed. Justyna was attached to her mother’s hip as a child, would not even let her mom step into another room of the house without her. She was very close with her family, her sisters and brother, and especially her four year old niece; Maya. Justyna and Maya were kindred souls and shared a very special bond. When Maya heard the news of Justyna’s passing, and was staring at her picture, she simply said “…so beautiful.” Justyna leaves them all to cherish memories of a quiet and peaceful girl who could be silly and goofy at times, with a heart that was larger than herself. They will all miss her terribly.

Justyna is survived by her parents; Malgorzata “Margaret” Dolegowski of Wayne, and Janusz Dolegowski of Wallington, her sisters; Iwona, Beata, Hanna Dolegowski, and her brother Bart Strzelczyk, her boyfriend; Robert Mlynarski, as well as a large family of aunts, uncles and cousins.

A GoFundMe page had been established to help the family with funeral and related expenses. Your support would be greatly appreciated. Please follow this link to Justyna’s GoFundMe page.

DeAnna Lee Pasciuto (nee Stark), age 38 of Wayne passed away peacefully on Monday January 15, 2018 after a courageous battle with cancer and while receiving the loving care of her family.

DeAnna was born to Joann and Thomas Stark and was raised in Ledgewood, NJ. She graduated from Morris Catholic High School with the class of 1997. DeAnna went on to further her education at Richard Stockton University in Galloway Township. Here she earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Biology and her Master’s Degree in Physical Therapy. After earning her degrees she went to work for Advanced Rehabilitation Therapy in Springfield, NJ where she worked for eight years. DeAnna then earned a position at Atlantic Healthcare in Morristown where she was employed for nearly three years until her illness prevented her from returning to work.

During the summer of 2005, DeAnna was introduced to a young man by the name of Mike Pasciuto by a mutual friend. Not many people expect very much from a blind date, however, as fate would have it, DeAnna and Mike fell in love, dated for a few years, engaged in February of 2007, and were married on August 15, 2008. Their marriage ceremony was in St Therese Church in Succasunna, NJ. DeAnna and Mike first lived in Morris Plains after getting married, and lived there for two years. Then in 2010 they moved to Packanack Lake in Wayne where they have resided for the last eight years and where both of their children were born.

DeAnna was extremely active in the Packanack community where she was known and loved by many people. You would be exceedingly hard-pressed to find anyone that disliked DeAnna. Not only did DeAnna coach but also played in the Adult Soccer League in her community. She was an avid New York Giants fan and “adopted” the New York Yankees to make her husband Mike happy. DeAnna was also a music fan and was particularly fond of “The Boss” Bruce Springsteen. Her family remembers the many summers at the Jersey Shore house they owned in Point Pleasant, as well as the winters spent snowboarding and vacations in Cape Coral, Florida.

DeAnna loved and cared for so many people and truly enjoyed planning and hosting parties and events at her home. DeAnna was very strong and passionate about everything that she did in her life. Her family remembers her also being a visionary, she always planned her future with great thought. She was such a “strong” woman, that her husband Mike nicknamed her “Rocky.” Mike’s and DeAnna’s family recalls never having met someone stronger than DeAnna. Aside from all of DeAnna’s interests, talents, and hobbies, nothing was more important to her than caring, nurturing, and spending time with her family. She and Mike both cherished their ten years of loving and loyal marriage together. DeAnna was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people. She was taken too soon from this life and will be sincerely missed by everyone that knew her.

DeAnna is survived by her husband Mike Pasciuto of Wayne, her son Anthony Pasciuto of Wayne, her daughter Ava Pasciuto of Wayne, her sister Dawn Gessner, and Husband Steve Gessner of Walkersville, MD, her parents; Joann and Thomas Stark of Hazelton, PA formerly of Ledgewood, her mother-in-law and father-in-law Richard and Johanna Pasciuto of Haworth, NJ, her brother-in-law Stephen Pasciuto, his wife Nancy Pasciuto of Hillsdale, NJ, and brother-in-law Richard Pasciuto and his husband Larry Pasciuto of Ridgefield Park, NJ, as well as a large extended family.

Those planning a donation in DeAnna’s name are asked to consider St Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959, or March of Dimes Foundation, Donation Processing Center, P.O. Box 673667, Marietta, GA 30006.

Matthew Daly, age 63, of Oak Ridge, passed away on Sunday, January 14, 2018 at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Hospital in New York City with the comfort of his wife Debbie by his side.

He was born in Passaic and raised in Little Falls. Matt graduated in 1972 from Paul VI Regional High School in Clifton, where he was on the Cross Country and Track teams.

Matt continued his education at the College of Steubenville in Ohio where he graduated with a Bachelor’s of Science Degree in Accounting with the Class of 1977. He received his Masters Degree in Accounting from Fairleigh Dickenson University.

After college, his work history in the accounting profession include Botany Mills in Clifton, Panasonic Corporation in Secaucus, and the Singer-Kearfott Corporation that would change names to BAE Systems in Little Falls and Totowa where he has worked for the last thirty-four years.

It was during his tenure at Singer-Kearfott in Little Falls that Matt met the love of his life Debbie. They worked together and for four years nobody at the company knew they were dating. As Matt got promotions, Debbie would wind up moving into his former position. It would seem management thought they worked well together; they just didn’t really know how well. Their first date was to see the movie “Year of Living Dangerously” which was so bad they walked out. As they left it began hailing. After they married, Matt would recount how bad their first date was and that he was sure a higher authority was trying to warn him. They fell deeply in love and while driving to The Harbor Restaurant in Parsippany, where Matt planned to propose, they got stuck in traffic on Route 3. Matt confided to Debbie that he didn’t get her anything for her birthday and suggested they pick up a microwave. Deb’s anger level began edging up when, at the Route 3 and Route 46 merge, Matt asked her to marry him. “You romantic devil” as she couldn’t believe he would ask her this while stuck in traffic! He didn’t actually have the ring yet as he told the guy he was buying it from not to hurry. That was Matt’s personality, not wanting to put anybody out. They married on October 12, 1986 at Saint Mary’s Church in Passaic and honeymooned in Hawaii. When it was time to leave Hawaii Debbie was very sad and Matt promised to bring her back on their 25th anniversary, which he did. He was certainly a man of his word. They have enjoyed a loving, devoted, and caring marriage of thirty-two years. During their years together they were blessed with a daughter, Katie. Having a daughter was predicted by Matt many years earlier when they were dating. Matt looked at Debbie and said “when we have a daughter we need to name her Katie.” Deb asked him how he knew they would have a daughter and not a son. He just said “I just know.” Matt and Debbie would see both of their parents through the autumn years of their lives. Deb moved her dad into their home without even asking Matt. He didn’t blink an eye…that was Matt…and that loyal and loving, take charge personality where you do what you have to do, is what he truly loved about Deb.

Matt will be remembered for being fun and mellow with a dry sense of humor, and the best one-liners ever. Matt-isms, as they became to be known, some not repeatable, made everyone laugh. Many will remember Matt as the kind of person who would give you the shirt off his back or the hat off his head. Speaking of hats, Matt had a baseball style hat for just about any occasion. He would often look through his hundreds of hats for just the right one. Matt, who loved to be different, was an Oakland Raiders fan. His love of the beach stretches back to his childhood where he spent summers on Long Beach Island with his cousins. He thought he would never get his feet in the sand as his illness was affecting his mobility. He found his true “happy place” when he was able to get the sand between his toes just this past September. Matt loved beer and was always searching for the perfect IPA as the more flavor from the hops in the brew the better he liked it. Matt truly enjoyed quality time with his daughter Katie and searching for the perfect cheeseburger. This quest took them from New Jersey to San Diego, California.

Matt was the loving husband of Debbie (Bopp) Daly; devoted father of Katie Daly and her fiancé Matt Albanese; he was the much loved brother of Eileen Howard of Cary, NC, Pat O’Brien of Hilton Head, SC, Fr. Kevin Daly OFM of Butler, the late Kathleen Kessel, Maryann Cavino of Cary, NC, the late Sean Daly, the late Timothy Daly, and Rosemary Russo and her husband Tom of Butler; he was the cherished uncle of many nieces, nephews and great-nieces and great-nephews.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the Lungevity Foundation would be greatly appreciated.(you can click on the blue text to hyperlink you to the foundation's donation page)

Diane B. Kempf, age 47, of Parsippany, went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Sunday, January 14, 2018. Her family stood sorrowfully, but lovingly by her side at the time of her passing into the arms of Jesus.

Diane came into this world in Somerville, NJ. She remained there with her parents and three older sisters until a job change for her father necessitated a move to Johnstown, PA when she was three years old. She spent her formative years there, graduating from Richland High School with the Class of 1988.

During those high school years Diane had the pleasure of spending summers with her aunts and uncles on their dairy farms in New York State. This made such an impression on her that she majored in Agricultural Business Management at Penn State University. While at Penn State Diane was involved with InterVarsity Christian Fellowship (IVCF) - an inter-denominational evangelical Christian campus ministry. It was there that she met Pete Kempf, the man she would eventually marry. Things were going well in college. Diane was pursuing a career that she was excited about, she was in love with a great guy, and she enjoyed the friendship of fellow students. But in her senior year (1992), a great challenge came with the diagnosis of multiple sclerosis. Buoyed by a very positive disposition, Diane remained strong and persevered – not in her own strength but in the strength of Christ through whom she could do all things (Philippians 4:13). This setback delayed graduation and the earning of her bachelor’s degree to that summer.

Immediately after graduation, Diane joined Pete and his whole family for a vacation to Nantucket Island. It was there while taking a walk to the beach together Pete asked for Diane to be his wife. Pete recalled with amusement he had to wait to pop the question while Diane finished eating her banana. Diane and Pete’s wedding date was set for Saturday, March 6, 1993. The day before the wedding there was a big snow storm - but most of their guests managed to make it anyway. Vows were exchanged at the Emmanuel Baptist Church in Diane’s hometown of Johnstown, PA. After a reception at the church, the newlyweds headed out west to Sedona, Arizona and to see the Grand Canyon. They were amazed at the beauty of Arizona and enjoyed the snow along the Canyon’s rim.

Diane and Pete returned from their honeymoon and settled into an apartment in Parsippany. In 1997, they purchased their own home in Parsippany which is where Diane remained to the present. They settled into married life and Diane worked as an office manager, most recently with Harman Office Furniture in Whippany until the symptoms of the M.S. forced her to stop working in 1997.

As time went on, the Lord laid on Diane’s heart a desire for a family. Diane and Pete prayed for God’s confirmation, then forged ahead in faith. In 2004, they joyfully welcomed little baby Kimberly from Guatemala to be their own daughter. Three years later, in 2007, they adopted and welcomed Timothy, also from Guatemala. Diane adored her children and the feeling was mutual! Kimberly and Timothy have wonderful memories of their Mom playing with them and being the most encouraging mother a kid could ask for. She made sure they knew they were loved and that no matter how they did in life she’d always love them – just as God loves us.

In the past three years, Diane’s fight with M.S. took a downward spiral including becoming wheelchair bound in the fall of 2015. Then in November, 2016, she was diagnosed with Leukemia. Chemotherapy treatments were going well until she suffered a stroke. After a period of recovery, chemo was resumed but became too much for Diane. Despite all these challenges and disappointments Diane remained upbeat and positive, usually more concerned about the plight of others than herself. She drew strength from Joni Eareckson Tada – a Christian woman who became a quadriplegic from a diving accident in 1967. Because of her own experiences she formed the "Joni and Friends" ministry to help others with disabilities.

The love of her family and friends was a constant source of sustenance, and her faith in Christ gave her an especially peaceful perspective. Diane loved reading novels. She loved organizing her husband’s photos - getting them printed and putting them into numerous albums. As members of Pompton Plains Reformed Bible Church, Diane and Pete shared the joy of being on the church’s missions committee for the past 16 years. Diane was dedicated to investing in endeavors with an eternal purpose. The last committee meeting she attended was on a cold night this past December, and she was thankful to be able to be in church on Christmas day.

Diane was the devoted wife of Pete Kempf; adored mother of Kimberly and Timothy Kempf; loving daughter of Martin and Evelyn Brasted of Johnstown, PA; dear sister of Karen and husband Joseph Bohn of Durham, NC, June and husband Jay Groff of Gordonville, PA, and Nancy and husband Vincent Davis of Parkersburg, WV; and dear aunt of several nieces and nephews.

Diane’s family also wishes to express sincere thanks to Nancy Immitt and Melody McQuaig for their help, love and support throughout the years, answering the call to do whatever needed to be done to support Diane. God bless you!

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Diane’s name are asked to consider a donation to Joni and Friends (www.joniandfriends.org/donate) or by sending a donation to PO Box 3333 Agoura Hills, CA 91376-3333

Ann Louise Fisher of Wayne, New Jersey left her earthly life on Saturd

Ann Louise Fisher of Wayne, New Jersey left her earthly life on Saturday, January, 13, 2018 to be with her Heavenly Father.  Ann (nee Conte) Fisher was born in Union City, New Jersey in 1933 to Elizabeth and Thomas Conte.   She graduated Emerson High School in 1952 as a National Honor Society student.  Ann attended secretarial school, leading to a 12 year career as a secretary for The Social Security Service.  During this time, she received many letters of exemplary service for her diligence and workplace contributions.

In November, 1961, she met her future husband of 53 years, Howard Fisher, at a dance.   She thought he looked a lot older than her, but she decided to give it a chance and dance with him.   The rest is, as they say, is history.  Howard, from Clifton, New Jersey, came from an ethnically Dutch Protestant family that welcomed Ann into their lives - and introduced this teetotaling young woman to the joys of a good martini!  In turn, Ann, being from a Catholic Italian background with an ability to create phenomenal pasta plates, kept Howard well fed.  The combination of the two cultures resulting in a lifetime appreciation of both food and drink.

Ann and Howard initially set up house in Clifton and soon were joined by a daughter, Irene, and a son, Howard. The family then relocated to their beloved “Camelot” community, Packanack Lake in Wayne, New Jersey. It was there that they would spend the next 50 years.

Ann was an unabashed home maker.   She loved to cook, bake and take care of the family. She was outstanding in all three areas.  Ann was highly insulted if a visitor left her home without sharing food or drink.   If you claimed to be on a diet, there was always cut up fruit in the refrigerator. She alway had something ready for everyone.  (However, if she gave you some leftovers, be sure you returned the Tupperware or there would be heck to pay.)  Over the years the Fisher home was to host many holiday gatherings, dinner parties, as well as New Year’s celebrations with their “gang” of friends

Ann and Howard also were quick to take the party on the road, as they enjoyed wintering in Marco Island and traveling around the world.   As avid cruisers, they logged close to 20 cruises with the majority of vacation trips accompanied by family.  

Ann truly shined on the holidays.  This was especially true at Christmas, which she made a special time for everyone.   The tree was always lovingly trimmed, house decorated, and baking which included her much anticipated cookies and fruitcake.   With Howard being especially busy with work on the holidays, she took it upon herself to organize the celebration.

Throughout her time at Packanack, she was a avid tennis player as well as golfer.   However, the exercise she enjoyed the most was her walks “around the lake” with Howard.  Solving crossword puzzles was a favorite hobby which she was capable of doing in even in her last weeks with us.   She had a very sharp mind and was always up for games that would challenge her mental skills.

For Ann, family was the number one priority to which she was fiercely loyal and protective.   A frequent toast of her’s was “viva la familia”.  

In July, Ann lost the love of her life, Howard.  Ever the caretaker, she was able through shear love and devotion to get Howard to the ripe old age of 91 even though he suffered through two heart value operations and various bypasses.   We take comfort in the fact that they are reunited.

Ann is predeceased by both her mother and father and her brother Vincent Conte.   She is survived by her daughter Irene Hicks and her husband Bob, and their daughters Emmy and Claire, her son Howard and his wife Janice, and their daughters Kristen, Lindsey and Emily as well as her brother, Thomas Conte.

In lieu of flowers, the family ask that donations be made to Packanack Community Church, 120 Lake Drive East, Wayne, NJ 07470.

Cosmo Altomare, “Gus” as he was fondly known, died on Tuesday, Jan 9, 2018 at the age of 90. He was a lifelong resident of Union City, NJ and had recently moved to Brookdale Senior Living in Wayne.

Gus graduated from Union Hill High School with the class of 1945 where he was a runner on the track team. He joined the U.S. Navy in June of 1945, just one year after the invasion of Normandy. By the time he finished his Basic Training, the Japanese had surrendered and the war was over. Some of his favorite Navy stories to tell were about his bouts in the boxing ring. He was discharged in 1946 and went to college to become a teacher. He taught elementary school in Hoboken for his entire career and loved it. He retired in the 1980’s after more than thirty years teaching.

As a teacher, he enjoyed the summers off from work and he spent much of that time in the Hamptons on Long Island. Fishing, crabbing, bowling, and socializing with his many friends were just a few of his favorite activities there. After retiring, Gus began taking bus trips to Atlantic City and he visited the Meadowlands Racetrack often. If you knew Gus, then you understood that he was the “essence of goodness.” He was always respectful, kind hearted and patient. He was a devoted Catholic and prayed his rosary often. His family will all miss him dearly.

Gus was predeceased by his parents; Donato (1970) and Rose (1972) and his sister, Catherine Altomare (2009). He is survived by his two brothers; Morris Altomare of Wayne, and Donald Altomare and his wife Pat of Wayne.

William D. Kidd, age 81 of Lincoln Park, died on Jan. 8, 2018. He had lived in Lincoln Park since 1992.

Bill grew up in Paterson and graduated from Eastside High School. Bill attended Newark College of Engineering and International Correspondence Schools where he trained as a draftsman, he began working with Burgess Steel Products and was self-employed for many years as a draftsman and detailer in the structural steel industry. He finished his career with Vander Meade Welding in West Milford, retiring in 2010.

Bill was an avid fisherman, primarily freshwater lakes and rivers. He loved going upstate and had also fished for steelheads and walleyes in Canada. He was very gifted with his hands and enjoyed being a modeler. A longtime member of the Academy of Model Aeronautics, he served as a judge and timer for many events, traveling extensively. Bill served as Scoutmaster with Troop 103 in Wayne when his sons were involved there, and he had the uncommon ability to punt a football an astonishing distance. Perhaps his most challenging struggle, and greatest achievement, was his ability to remain sober for the past thirty two years. During that time, Bill was able to help many other people as well, walking with them through their battles. He may not have been the easiest man to get along with, but he was always honest and forthcoming.

Bill is survived by his five children; William Kidd and his wife Theresa of Saddle Brook, Catherine Cray of Durango, Colorado, Carolanne Kidd of Durango, Colorado, Brian Kidd and his husband Ricardo of Tampa, Florida, and John Kidd of Pensacola, Florida, eight grandchildren and six great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his daughter Stephanie Kidd in 1998.

Zoran Milorad Filipovic age 47 of Poughquag, NY passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Monday January 8, 2018 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Zoran was born in Livingston, NJ and lived in West Paterson and lake Hopatcong before moving to Poughqaug, NY. When Zoran turned two years old his family moved back to their homeland in Serbia. It was in Serbia where Zoran spent his formative years and after graduating High School returned to the United States to further his education. He was accepted to Delhi State University of New York. Zoran attended Delhi State University for two years and then transferred to the prestigious Ivy League school, Cornell University in Ithaca, New York. It was at Cornell University where Zoran graduated with a Bachelor of Science degree. On September 23, 2000 Zoran married the love of his life Marija (Arandjelovic). They were married at St John the Baptist Serbian Orthodox Church in Paterson. Zoran and Marija cherished seventeen years of loving and loyal marriage together.

Following his graduation, Zoran went to work at as a Veterinarian’s assistant for about two years. Zoran then earned a position as a scientist at Hoffman LA Roche in Nutley, NJ where he spent the next fourteen years. Hoffman LA Roche eventually closed up and Zoran and his family relocated to Poughquag, NY where he took a position as Senior Scientist with Regeneron Pharmaceuticals Inc. Zoran and his family would call Poughquag their home until his passing.

Zoran was a driven man and quite brilliant and devoted to his Orthodox Faith. Aside from his love of Science, Zoran was an avid fisherman of all types, including freshwater, fly, and deep sea to name just a few. But apart from his career, hobbies, and interests, Zoran’s greatest love was for his family, nothing meant more to him than providing for and spending time with his wife and children. Zoran was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Zoran is survived by his wife Marija (Arandjelovic) of Poughquag, NY, two sons Stojan Garanovic of Stanhope, and Nikola Filipovic of Poughquag, one daughter; Danijela Filipovic of Poughquag, NY, his mother Mirjana Filipovic of Poughquag, NY, and one sister Biljana Filipovic of Belgrade, Serbia. He was predeceased by his father Milorad Filipovic in 2008.

Fred W. Wallenburg, age 88 of Pompton Plains, and formerly of Wayne, died on Saturday, Jan. 6, 2018. He had lived in Wayne for more the fifty years before moving to Cedar Crest Village in 2011.

Fred grew up in Clifton and graduated from Clifton High School with the class of 1947. During that time, Fred’s father was the yard foreman at the Kramer Lumber Company in Clifton, and this led Fred to his first job at Kramer Lumber. Fred worked his way up and eventually became the dispatcher, coordinating all the trucking and deliveries. He enjoyed a career with Kramer that lasted more than thirty years.

Fred enlisted in the U.S. Navy after high school and served onboard the USS C47 Philippine Sea, and the USS Monrovia. He was dispatched with the Seabee Battalion to help construct Thule Air Base. One his most notable destinations was Greenland. He subsequently joined the American Legion post 174 in Wayne.

During the vast majority of his time with the Navy, he served in the Reserves and traveled back and forth to Virginia each month to fulfill his obligation. A fellow reservist named Richard Whittaker frequently drove with Fred to the Reserve training, and on one occasion Richard introduced Fred to his sister; Claire. Fred and Claire hit it off and they were eventually married on May 17, 1953 at the Calvary Baptist Church in Clifton. Claire recalls that they had actually planned to be married on June 10, one week earlier, but Reverend Graves refused to perform nuptials on Mother’s Day. Bending to the Reverend’s demand, they moved their wedding one week and all was just fine. They honeymooned to Florida, visiting several different destinations around the State before returning home. That trip was just the beginning, however, of their many travels, and they have since visited all fifty of the United States, much of Canada, Nova Scotia, and the U.S. Virgin Islands. Fred enjoyed the ‘art of travel’ and was always anxious to plan their next adventure.

Fred and Claire moved to Wayne in 1960. Theirs was among the first homes in the area to be ‘certified’ by General Electric (JCP&L) as “all electric.” Their home required no other energy source, other than electricity, to provide for all their domestic needs; lighting, heat, hot water, cooking, etc. General Electric came to their house and did a photo-shoot, using those images to promote the benefits of having an ‘all electric’ home. Fred was very proud of his home and spent countless hours and days keeping it beautiful. He loved tending to his landscaping, grooming the yard, gardening, growing tomatoes, and keeping the whole property impeccable. With his job at the lumber yard, he was able to finish off the interior just the way he wanted it. They lived in that home for fifty one years before moving to Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains in 2011. When asking Claire about their sixty-five years of marriage, she responded with one word; “beautiful.” She will miss him dearly.

Fred is survived by his loving and devoted wife Claire of Cedar Crest, their son; Lee Wallenburg and his wife Romy of Merritt Island, Florida, their daughter; Debra Flynn and her husband Brian of Oak Ridge, NJ, six grandchildren; Kathleen Flynn of Charleston, S.C., Shannon and Patrick Flynn of Oak Ridge, NJ, as well as Randi, Nina and Troy Wallenburg of Merritt Island, Florida, two sisters; June Dickenson of Oklahoma and Ruth Foster of Long Island, a brother-in-law; Wesley Van Beveren of California, as well as many nieces and nephews. Fred was predeceased by his sister Emma Marie Van Beveren in 2017.

Donations can be made in Fred’s memory to the Memorial Fund of Preakness Faith Community (Preakness Baptist Church), 1441 Ratzer Rd., Wayne, NJ 07470.

Edward Privitera, age 66 of Newfoundland and formerly of Wayne, died on Jan. 8, 2018. He had been the owner of “A Class Act Limousine Service” for many years.

Ed moved from Hicksville, Long Island to Wayne when he entered the eighth grade and graduated from Wayne Hills High School in 1969. He loved athletics, was a standout player in multiple sports, and was feared as the Patriots point guard. As an adult, he played in two Wayne softball leagues and loved every minute of it. He simply wasn’t happy sitting still; he needed to play.

Ed met his wife Lorraine (nee Salek) when they were young teenagers, in the eighth grade, to be exact. They were inseparable and loved each other very much. They married at Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne on June 25, 1977. After a reception at the Wayne Manor, they honeymooned in Bermuda before settling into their first home in Haledon. They later moved Newfoundland in the 1980’s. Ed and Lorrie enjoyed a beach house in Ship Bottom, on Long Beach Island, for many years. They spent several weeks every summer there and absolutely loved the Jersey Shore. They also traveled a lot together, ‘following the sun’ to many warm destinations such as Cancun, Jamaica, and the Bahamas. Ed loved Lorrie dearly and he was heartbroken when she passed away in 2015 after almost thirty-eight years of marriage.

Ed is survived by his brother; Joseph Privitera of Naples, Florida and sister; Donna Marie Newton of Adairsville, Georgia, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Mary Tumminello (nee Aria), age 96, passed away on January 5, 2018, at her home in Scottsdale, Arizona. Mary was born on March 15, 1921 in Lyndhurst, New Jersey.

She was the widow of Raymond Tumminello. They were married in 1947 and shared 43 years together. Mary was also predeceased by her parents Carmella and Camillo Aria, six siblings, and a son, Raymond Tumminello, Jr.
Mary was survived by a son, Anthony Tumminello and his wife Carol, a daughter, Susan Rienzo and her husband James, and a sister, Lillian Portington and brother, Carmelo Aria. She had five grandchildren: Anthony Tumminello (wife Camelia), Tracy (Mrs. Jeffrey) Freundlich, Dan Tumminello (wife Jill), Christina (Mrs. Erik) Anderson and Kelly (Mrs. Joey) Landin, and eight great grandchildren: Ava and Olivia Freundlich, Aiden, Asher and Cale Tumminello, Sofia and Sadie Anderson, and Lilah Landin.

Mary spent part of her childhood years in Minersville, Pennsylvania, where her father worked as a coal miner, before moving back to Lyndhurst, New Jersey. In 1959 she moved to Wayne, New Jersey where her husband Ray owned and operated the T-Bowl bowling alley with his brothers and was a real estate developer and active in local politics. At the age of 81, Mary made a big move to Arizona to be closer to her daughter and granddaughters. Eventually all of her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren settled in Arizona and Mary happily presided as matriarch of a very close-knit family.




Mary was proud to have worked as a “Rosie the Riveter” for Wright Aeronautical during World War II. She had several other professions, including seamstress. She sewed many beautiful clothes, even formal evening gowns, for herself and her daughter. Mary obtained her beautician’s license and had her own hairdressing business. She also ran the Department of Consumer Affairs in Wayne, N.J.
Her love of learning new things was endless. Mary also had a passion for travel and saw many European countries, including six trips to Italy. She also traveled to Jerusalem, Israel and Egypt, as well as most of the fifty states.
Some of Mary’s happiest times were spent with her five sisters and two brothers. When they all got together they never stopped telling stories and laughing. Mary also enjoyed bridge, reading, movies, cooking, arts & crafts and bowling, which she participated in up until a couple of years ago, earning MVP of her bowling league in 2014. She was active in the Wayne (N.J.) Women’s Club and was a founding member of Our Lady of the Valley parish in Wayne. More recently, she was an active member of the Legion of Mary with St. Bernard of Clairvaux Church in Scottsdale.
But what Mary loved most was her family and seeing the three generations that came after her blossom and enjoy life. Their closeness, tight bond and carrying on of traditions brought her more joy than anything. That was her greatest legacy and biggest source of pride. Everyone who met her remembers her as a gracious, gentle, beautiful and sweet woman of great class who always seemed much younger than her actual age. She will be dearly missed by all.

Leonard F. Talerico, Jr., age 65 of Highland Lakes, NJ, died suddenly on Wednesday, January 3, 2018. Len is originally from Wayne and has lived in Highland Lakes since 1977.

Len grew up in the Sheffield section of Wayne and graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1970. In 1975, he began his career with the Township of Wayne. Starting out as a mechanic, he worked his way up through the ranks and eventually became the Construction Official. As a building inspector, he loved having the authority that came with the title.  Some contractors might have been intimidated by him a bit, especially with his signature outfit; a full-length overcoat, cowboy boots, Elvis-style sideburns and a hairstyle that hadn’t changed since the 1970’s. Len was surely one of a kind and he retired in 2006 after more than thirty years with Wayne Township.

Anyone who knew Len personally knew how much he loved cars. His wife estimates that he’s owned more than fifty throughout his lifetime! He was especially passionate about Corvettes and he’s owned some of the most collectible among them, including his favorite ’63 split window. He was a longtime member of the “Drifters” car club and he enjoyed bringing his cars to the local car shows. He also had a passion for unique cars, like the ’28 Plymouth he owns. He even built a Lamborghini (or the “Len-borghini as his family called it!) out of a Pontiac Fiero, using a kit he bought. In retirement, he spent most of his time restoring cars, or searching for his next project. He was also a ‘jack of all trades’ who did all of his own home improvements, built several homes for others, as well as additions and alterations. His children have reminders of their father throughout every room in their own homes. His hands have worked on too many homes to count, including just about every house on his own street. He did everything and his knowledge of all the trades was impressive, but in some cases he only knew enough to get by and keep himself out of trouble! He was also a proud member and Engineer with the Highland Lakes Fire Department.

Len met his wife Lori (nee Brinkerhoff) in high school. They were married four days after she graduated from Wayne Hills, June 17, 1973. They enjoyed a honeymoon to the Bahamas. Well, Len didn’t enjoy it so much, only because the Bahamas in June can be miserably hot, and it certainly was when they were there. Nevertheless, they have enjoyed forty-four years of marriage and Len was grateful to Lori for always being supportive of his dreams.

Len is survived by his wife; Lori (Brinkerhoff) of Highland Lakes, NJ, his son; Leonard and his wife Kelly of Vernon, April Blaine and her husband Fred of Vernon, and Amy Brennan and her husband Tom of Vernon, his mother; Katherine Talerico of Wayne, nine grandchildren; Sean, Victoria, Chandler, Brendan, Emma, Gabbi, Abby, Tristan, and Addy, two sisters; Cathy Talerico of Wayne, Linda Talerico-Romania and her husband Tony of Connecticut, and his brother; David Talerico and his wife Lisa of Wayne, and many nieces and nephews.

Fred A. Akel, age 80, of Lincoln Park and a former longtime resident of Wayne, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday, January 3, 2018.

Fred was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. A bright and gifted kid, he skipped a grade and was therefore able to graduate from Brooklyn’s Manual Training High School in 1954. Unfortunately, his dear father John passed away suddenly when Fred was a young teenager, so following graduation, Fred was called upon to run his family’s grocery business - Akel’s Grocery in Brooklyn. He managed the store until he was drafted into the U.S. Army. Before serving, in 1958, Barbara was having her sweet sixteen party. Since they grew up across the street from each other, it was customary for everyone in the neighborhood to be invited. During the party he asked Barbara if she would like to go out with him. Their first date was to the movies to see The Ten Commandments. They dated for five years, two of which Fred was serving in the Army. He served in Germany, from November, 1960 until October, 1962. During his service, his eardrum was permanently damaged and from that time forward he served as a clerk typist for the Military Police while back home in the states, Barbara awaited his return.

When he returned to the states in the fall of 1962, they planned their wedding and exchanged their vows on Saturday, February 23, 1963 at the Church of the Virgin Mary in Brooklyn with Barbara’s uncle Monsignor Elias Skaff presiding. After a reception at the Bossert Hotel – a place where the Brooklyn Dodgers would often stay, Fred and Barbara honeymooned at the Honeymoon Haven in the Poconos. The honeymoon lasted only four days because Fred had to get back to his new job at the John Hancock Insurance Company.

Fred enjoyed a rewarding career with John Hancock Insurance Company. He started as an insurance agent, underwriting policies for his many satisfied clients. Fred enjoyed upward mobility in the company later becoming a staff manager before ultimately rising to the level of Labor Relations Administrator. He and Barbara were transferred to Ohio and Illinois from 1969 to 1976. After that they were able to relocate back to the east coast, and settled in Wayne where they spent the next 39 years enjoying life and raising their four beautiful daughters.

In 1993, at the age of 55, he was able to retire but, still having a lot to give to this world, he started a new venture selling comforters. He eventually added sweaters to his line of offerings which he would sell at various flea markets. His outgoing, warm personality and genuine love for people in general enabled him to enjoy much success until he decided to explore another new venture – working with a Funeral Home in Brooklyn. Since his roots were in Brooklyn, he still knew what seemed like just about everybody that lived there. Again, his warm personality, ability to speak Spanish and Arabic, and his genuine care for the grieving enabled him to serve his client families well.

Although he lived all those years in Wayne, Fred’s Brooklyn roots went deep. He used to say, “You can take the guy out of Brooklyn but you can’t take Brooklyn out of the guy.” When he was just eighteen, he joined a men’s club in Brooklyn called the SYMA. He even served as president of this group for many years. It was a social club, but was also involved in charitable endeavors. Fred also loved to go to Atlantic City, which he visited frequently with a variety of family and friends. He enjoyed many games of chance and everyone knew his lucky number was 8.

Above all else, Fred positively adored his family. He was blessed with four daughters. When they were young he even coached them in a town softball league. Although Fred had little experience with the sport, as luck would have it he was teamed up with a very knowledgeable teenage girl who knew the sport well. With a mix of coaching advice and a bit of his natural charm, he ended up being coach of the year and they even asked him to coach the all-star team!

When it came to his nine much-loved grandchildren, he used to say, “If I knew having grandchildren was going to be this much fun, I would have had them first!” Fred spent the next few years enjoying countless celebrations, sporting events, and the accomplishments of his grandchildren. Like any good grandfather, he taught all of his grandkids how to play poker and blackjack. He also enjoyed cooking with them and his granddaughters always enjoyed a friendly competition of trying to be his favorite granddaughter.

Fred's big heart and compassion along with his infectious personality made him an extraordinary man. He wanted to tip everyone from the person who washed his windshield at the gas station to the nurses who helped him in the hospital, not because he felt obligated but because he truly believed they deserved it. Fred had a way of making everyone feel like they mattered.

His positive outlook on life and his charismatic warmth just put everyone he met at ease. It should really come as no surprise that he was this way because to Fred, his fellow man or woman was the most important thing of all. He would often say that anything that could be replaced with money really had no value. People were the most important!

Fred was the beloved husband of Barbara (nee Skaff), loving father of Christine Akel of Elmwood Park, Joanne and husband Michael D’Aloia of Wayne, Michelle Antonucci of Saddle Brook, and Renee and husband Andrew Centineo of Fairfax, VA; adored grandfather of Allison, Tyler, Christopher, Alexis, Victoria, Trevor, Caitlin, Jake, and Jenna; caring brother of Claire Kressaty and her late husband Fred, and brother-in-law of Richard DeFalco. He was predeceased by his dear sister Yvonne DeFalco in 2002.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Fred’s name, are asked to consider St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 or at www.stjude.org.

Paul J. Carratello, 81 of Wayne, died on Tuesday, Jan. 2, 2018. He had lived in the Lion's Head Lake section of Wayne since 1958.

Paul grew up in Paterson and graduated from Don Bosco Tech. He enlisted in the U.S. Navy and after completing Basic Training, he was assigned to the Naval Reserves. He was an exceptionally bright young man and he found his niche working at Bendix Corporation. Mechanical engineering appealed to him and as his career moved forward, he joined Singer-Kearfott where he worked on all sorts of aerospace engineering projects. He was among one of the happiest people at work and loved his career. He was with Singer-Kearfott for thirty four years and ultimately retired just a few years ago as a Metrology Engineer from DRS in Oakland, NJ.

Although he worked a lot, he was truly a family man. He met his wife Lois (nee Faline) at a high school dance and they hit it off from the start. They were married on September 6, 1958 at St. James of the Marches Parish in Totowa and enjoyed a honeymoon to Atlantic City. They settled into their newly built home in Wayne, where they have lived ever since. They made for a good match; complimenting each other in many ways. Raising their four daughters together, Paul took an active role and frequently drove the girls wherever they needed to go. He was known to sit patiently for hours in the mall while his girls shopped and socialized with their friends, driving them home when they were ready. His grandchildren were his pride and joy and they always brought a smile to his face.

Paul was active with his parish, Our Lady of Consolation RC Church in Wayne, for many years. He served as an usher and even volunteered on Bingo night some years ago. He loved his church and the many friends he enjoyed there.

Among Paul’s favorite pastimes was to visit Atlantic City and play the slots! He liked to go to the Borgata and Harrah’s as well. Next to that, he always had scratch-off lottery tickets! He simply loved to play, and he enjoyed a few winning streaks throughout the years.

Paul is survived by his devoted wife of nearly sixty years; Lois, four daughters; Ann Marie Garcia and her husband Al of Wayne, Lauren Carratello and her husband Steve Mermini of Wayne, Paula Alviggi and her husband John of Perkasie, Pennsylvania, and Elaine Healy and her husband Michael of Brick, as well as three grandchildren; Ryan Healy, Jack Alviggi, and Brooke Healy, brother-in-law; Klaus Muller and his children; Mark, Eric and Christine. Paul was predeceased by his sister Mary in 1959, brother Biagio in 2009, and by his sister Stephanie Muller in October of 2017.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Paul's memory would be greatly appreciated to The Salesian Missions, 2 Lefevre Lane, New Rochelle, NY 10801-5710.

Harold D. Hlad, age 95, of the Packanack Lake section of Wayne, and formerly of Franklin Lakes, passed Tuesday, January 2, 2018.

Harold served in the US Army during WWII and was stationed in New Guinea and the Southern Philippines. After WWII, Harold entered and graduated from the University of Nebraska at Omaha under the G.I. Bill.

Harold will always be remembered as a very active, social, person, voracious reader, and an athlete. He was an athlete who played baseball for many years, tennis until he was about 70, and golf from age 65 to 85. For many years he enjoyed his many friendships and looked forward to the fellowship with the R.O.M.E.O.S. (Retired Old Men Eating Out Saturdays). He had a love for music, opera was his favorite, and always enjoyed the music of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. He was a member of Arcola Country Club in Paramus for over thirty years and a member of the Indian Trail Club in Franklin Lakes for many years.

Harold met his late wife Shirley while in college and they married on September 11, 1949. They enjoyed a loving and devoted marriage of fifty-two years before her passing in June of 2000.

Harold was the loving father of Carol Gross and her husband Kevin of Wyckoff, Robert Hlad of Fairfield, CT, and Nancy Moses and her husband Paul of N. Wales, PA; he was the cherished grandfather of Erin Dey (Christopher), Brian Gross (Kristina), B. Jackson Moses, Lauren Moses, and Jessica Hlad; and much loving companion of Marge Smith of Wayne.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Boys Town, 14100 Crawford St., Boys Town, NE 68010 or the Packanack Community Church, 120 Lake Drive East, Wayne, NJ 07470 would be appreciated.

Donald Needleman, age 86 of Vernon passed away peacefully on Monday January 1, 2018 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Don was born and raised in Brooklyn and as a young man enlisted in the United States Army. After his basic training, Don was assigned to the famous 101st Airborn Division which was an elite modular specialized light infantry division trained for air assault operations. He served very honorably with the US Army from 1951 till 1953 during the Korean Conflict. Being part of an elite division like the 101st Airborn was something that Don was very proud to be part of.

Following Don’s discharge from the US Armed Forces, he earned a position as a salesman with Sherman Williams Paint Company, where he became one of their top salesman. Following Sherman Williams, Don started his own business while still a young man. Don built this company, All Maintenance Products Inc. located in Riverdale, NJ. Don nurtured and constructed his business so well that his success allowed him to retire at the young age of forty-five. Don enjoyed his retirement and took the opportunity to travel throughout the world. There weren’t many places in the world where Don had NOT visited.

Don lived in Wayne for several years before moving to Franklin Lakes. He moved to Vernon approximately ten years ago. After being retired for several years, Don decided it was time for him to get back to work. He obtained his Real Estate License and took a position at Preakness Realty where he worked for ten years.

Don was a member of the Indian Trail Club for many years in Franklin Lakes where he made long lasting friendships. Don was the kind of person that was always seeking to promote the welfare of others, especially to good causes and people who were in need. He was an avid reader and extremely erudite. Don cherished many years of a loving relationship with his wife Patricia. He was an extremely generous man and always held providing for his family his top priority in his life. Don was a very gifted human being. He touched the lives of many people and will be missed by his family and friends alike.

Don is survived by his beloved wife Patricia (Lawler) of Vernon and is survived by his step-children Edward Lawler and his wife Kristine of Annandale, Gregory Lawler and his wife Gioia of Parsippany, and Thomas Lawler of Little Falls, and six grandchildren; Kristyn, Lyndsay, Madeline, Marissa, Cassandra, and Trevor. He is also survived by his sons from his first marriage Gary Needleman, Brad Needleman, and Brian Needleman.

In lieu of flowers, friends may make donations in Don’s name to Wounded Warrior Project PO Box 758517 Topeka, KS66675www.WoundedWarriorProject.org

Michael James Furtak, age 32, of Dover Delaware and formerly of Wayne, passed away on Sunday, December 31, 2017. His beloved wife, mother and sister lovingly stayed by his side at the time of his passing.

Born in Hackensack, the middle child of Walter and Gale Furtak, Mike’s father was in the Air Force so the family moved around a bit but, for the most part, Michael was raised in Wayne. He attended Wayne Public Schools and graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the Class of 2004 where he played on the school’s traveling basketball team.

Like any kid from his era, some of Mike’s favorite pastimes included constructing Lego creations and doing anything that had to do with Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. He was also a great lover of music possessing a huge CD collection of hip hop and old school rap, and he found his joy in being outdoors, especially near the ocean’s shore, taking in the sun and the surf. It stands to reason that he loved surfing and golfing to unwind with his friends. After high school, Michael chose to go to Wesley College in Dover Delaware. He chose the school because it was small and close enough to home.

While attending college, Michael got a job working at The Children’s Place – an American specialty retailer of children’s apparel with locations in malls all over the U.S. He worked his way up to Assistant Manager of one of their stores. It was there in 2007 that he first met Brianne Morkert, a fresh-faced nineteen year old who was brought on as temporary help during the Christmas holiday rush. Those who had seniority over Michael quickly recognized that he had a gift for increasing store sales and managing people. Consequently, the company transferred Michael from store location to store location to boost their sales numbers. For some reason, whenever this happened, Michael would always ask that Brianne, whose status with the company had moved from temporary to permanent, be transferred with him. This was a bit surprising because they seemed to have a sort-of teasing, pokey, tit-for-tat relationship. Over time, Brianne continued to move up the ladder with The Children’s Place and Mike moved on to go work for Aeropastale. Consequently, they lost touch with each other for a while but, as fate would have it, their paths would cross again in a most interesting way. In 2012, Brianne was working in one of the top grossing stores for The Children’s Place but, when the store’s lease ran out the mall didn’t want to renew it. It was looking like Brianne was going to lose her job. Luckily, the district manager for Aeropastale was aware of her store’s closing and he approached Brianne to see if she would want to interview for a job with Aeropastale. Needless to say, she aced the interview and got hired. Now the interesting part! Little did Brianne know, but Michael caught wind through inter-company memos, that Brianne was joining Aeropastale. He immediately requested that she come work at his store in the Queenstown Premium Outlets in Queenstown, Maryland. They were both dating others at the time but they messed with each other somewhat flirtatiously which drove Brianne nuts but she knew Mike was important by the way he’d put down his front and let the real him shine through.

In the spring of 2014, Mike received his diagnosis of cancer – melanoma…..just a tiny little spot on his ankle. Treatments began but Mike always downplayed the seriousness of his situation. Summer was coming and it was time for one of his most celebrated annual events – attending the Firefly Music Festival in Dover, DE. Mike loved music, especially live music, so going became a tradition. It had never been tradition for Brianne to go, but this year, she went too. A week later, the two of them went to a party and that was it! Messing with each other flirtatiously finally took a bow to all out love. They settled into a pretty comfortable relationship in which being together was the most important thing. Consequently, a late night was a great night doing something together as simple as watching Hey Arnold or Rug Rats at midnight. A short time later, while out bowling one evening with family and friends, Michael felt moved to share his heart with Brianne declaring “I hope you don’t mind but I think I’m going to be with you for the rest of my life.” Brianne remembered feeling so loved! Then, in the spring of 2015, Mike had to undergo exploratory surgery because that tiny bit of cancer on his toe had metastasized to his lung. Finding out the devastating news that it was inoperable, Mike found himself trying to convince Brianne to move on with her life without him. She’d wouldn’t hear it, telling him to be quiet and assuring him that it would be fine. Later that summer, they attended Firefly 2015 and, while the song “Shut Up and Dance with Me” by Walk the Moon was playing, Mike felt moved to propose marriage by the simple act of slipping an engagement ring on Brianne’s finger. On July 29, 2017, they married in Washington State with the Puget Sound in plain view because Mike always loved that beach, ocean, sun and surf. The location was near Brianne’s side of the family and it was a beautiful, warm day despite the area’s reputation for unpleasant weather.

Mike was such a gifted retail manager. He just possessed the perfect temperament, personality, and attitude to be successful. His great personality enabled him to make his customers feel helped yet not pushed to purchase and his mostly young employees to feel valued and inspired. Often showing up to work in jeans with holes, his Firefly baseball cap and flip-flops, he was very approachable, always trying to foster a sense of family with his employees while inspiring them to work hard to succeed. As a result, many of those young employees affectionately referred to Mike as “Work Dad.” Brianne described Mike as the ultimate “man-boy” who was able to function in an adult world with the heart of a kid. It was that man-boyishness that was the key to Mike’s success, enabling him to turn dysfunctional stores into great money makers.

The man-boy persona was not something that Mike turned on for work and turned off when he got home. He was always that way because that’s just who he was – a roll-with-it kinda guy who thought more about the simple things of life and just loving people. Consequently, wearing Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle themed wear, watching Rug Rats, or getting together with his buddies to sing old school rap and hip hop (amazingly, they knew all the words) was normal for Michael, even to the end of his life. When his sweet little baby girl Siddalee “Sidda” was born, Mike was ecstatic! She became his ultimate play-mate and it was natural for him to share many of these simple pursuits with her too. He always wanted to be the one to put her toys or any baby furniture together for her, and his sensitive nature was magnified with the arrival of his little bundle of love. Brianne will always have fond memories of how Mike tried to change Sidda’s first diaper in the hospital as quietly as he could so as not to disturb Brianne’s sleep. But Mike generally loved all people and was sensitive to their needs, thinking nothing of taking in a stray friend to crash on his couch for as long as needed. And next to that couch was an end table with a drawer filled with an arsenal of Reese’s Pieces, assorted chips, Coke and any other junk food you could imagine. He was a great father and a great husband who would come home from work after a two-hour commute and start cleaning the house and doing laundry. No one is perfect but Michael’s family thought he could do no wrong often lightheartedly referring to him as “St. Michael.”

Michael leaves behind his beloved wife Brianne (Morkert); his adorable daughter Siddalee; his loving parents: Walter and Gale (Bartlo) Furtak of Wayne; his two much-loved siblings: Devon Buck and husband David of Florida, and Robert Furtak and fiancé Jessica Gilrain of Clayton, New York; his cherished grandmother Frieda Spinelli of Florida, and cherished grandfather Walter Furtak of Wallington; and his sweet niece Phoenix. He was predeceased by his cherished grandfather Thomas Bartlo and cherished grandmother Estelle Furtak.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Michael’s name are asked to consider Melanoma Research Foundation, P.O. Box 759329, Baltimore, MD, or at www.melanoma.org.

Nelly Villaverde, age 87, of Wayne, passed away on Friday, December 29, 2017

Born in Pinar Del Rio, Cuba, Nelly emigrated to the U.S. in 1962 and had been a resident of West New York, NJ for 53 years before moving to Wayne in 2015.

As a young girl, Nelly already knew that, when she grew up, she wanted to be a teacher. In her culture and in those times, most girls didn’t pursue the higher education that would be required to fulfill Nelly’s goals, but Nelly never let cultural norms stop her. In fact, Nelly never let anything stop her from pursuing her ambitions. When she announced to her father this goal of being a teacher, he said that first Nelly had to work to become a certified seamstress like her older sisters. Little did she know then, but this requirement would serve her well in the future when she would ultimately choose to live life in the United States. Nelly became a certified seamstress and then she began attending La Normal School – an advanced high school and college in Cuba with an accelerated curriculum. She had to be away from home during those years of school but fortunately, she had relatives that she could stay with. Upon graduation, she began her teaching career in Cuba. She was only nineteen years old when she started and her nineteenth year of life was a busy year indeed. Not only did she start her teaching career, but she also got married! She and her beloved husband Luis exchanged their wedding promises on December 22, 1949.

Initially, Nelly taught in Cuba and later in Venezuela. When she chose to immigrate to the U.S. in 1962, she had to pursue certification to teach in the states. While doing that, those seamstress skills her Papa made her learn came in handy as Nelly got temporary work as a seamstress and also working in a boxing factory in Ridgefield Park. She soon secured a position in the West New York, NJ public school system. Over her career there of more than fifty years, Nelly taught all grades from first grade through high school. Her dedication to her profession was so great, it earned her teacher of the year honors. Nelly was a beloved teacher whose passion for her students was unmatched. She also tutored as many as 30 of her students after school, in her home. Tutoring went on for 41 years and only stopped about five years ago. Many of the kids she tutored were immigrants who Nelly lovingly taught English as their second language.

When she wasn’t teaching or tutoring, Nelly could often be found creating culinary delights in the kitchen. Family favorites included her Ropa Vieja and plantains and her grandchildren especially loved their dear “Tita’s” famous steaks and soups. Between teaching, making lesson plans, tutoring, keeping her house clean, and managing all the other facets of being a homemaker, Nelly always found time for a little bit of vacationing. Her family especially looked forward to those times of leisure because they afforded the opportunity to spend precious time with her – time in which they didn’t have to share her with anyone else. No doubt those vacations were a wonderful opportunity for Nelly to sip on one of her favorite refreshments – Pina Coladas. For many years while residing in West New York, NJ, she was a faithful parishioner of the town’s hometown church, St. Joseph of the Palisades R.C. Church.

Above all else, Nelly’s love, adoration, and dedication was for her family. Her children will swear that there is no mother or grandmother who could come as close to being great as their "Tita". She will be dearly missed but her memory will shine on in the hearts of those whose lives she touched.

Nelly was the beloved wife of the late Luis Villaverde who passed away in 2007. She was the loving mother of Maria and her late husband Donald Kocialski of Wayne, Marianela and husband Patrick Martin of Wayne, and Nelly Mary Hayes of Bensalem, PA; adored grandmother of Richard Kocialski, Stephanie and husband Jeffrey Menzel, Peter Martin, Sammuel Martin, Katie Hayes, and Colin Hayes; cherished great-grandmother of: Marcelo and Cristiano; and dear sister of Juan Manuel Lopez of Miami, FL. She was also predeceased by dear brothers Amable Lopez and Rigoberto Lopez, and dear sisters Celeste Izquierdo, Teresa Camacho, and Irma Martin.

Karen Salley (nee Klinger), age 70 passed away suddenly and unexpectedly at her summer home in Wildwood Crest, N.J. on Friday, December 29, 2017.

Karen was born and raised in Chicago, later moving to South Holland ,Il., before finally settling in Wayne, NJ thirty five years ago. Karen’s father passed away while she was still quite young, leaving her to learn tough life lessons at a young age. Lessons she would pass on to her family and friends throughout her life allowing her to connect with so many. She attended Thornridge High School in Dolton, IL (class of 1965) and immediately joined the workforce after graduating. She found work at the Insurance Company of North America (INA) in Chicago and over a 10 year career grew her title to Regional Administrator.

Her time at INA was special not just professionally but also personally. In 1973, another INA employee named Roy Salley working in the New York office was transferred to Chicago as part of a promotion. It was this move from New York to Chicago that the beginning of both their lives would start to take shape. A short time after Roy arrived, they were set up on a date by a co-worker. This first date was a St. Patrick’s Day Party in a county park near Chicago where they basically, “stood around, talked, and drank beer.” in the snow! Although hardly a romantic, fairy-tale first date, as fate would have it, Roy and Karen fell in love. They dated a few years and on September 25, 1976 were married at Church of the Holy Name in Dolton, IL honeymooning in Wildwood Crest, NJ. Karen was of the Catholic Faith but converted to Episcopalian upon marrying Roy and remained a woman of strong faith. Karen and Roy cherished over forty years of loving and loyal marriage.

Karen and Roy settled in Dolton, IL immediately after marriage. They bought a home in nearby South Holland and began building their lives and family together. The next five years brought them three healthy children and in 1982 Roy’s work transferred him once again, this time back east. They moved to New Jersey and decided Wayne would be the place they call home and raise their children.

The move east meant Karen would be leaving behind her career and family to support that of her husbands while giving her kids the idyllic upbringing she wanted for them. This level of devotion and sacrifice came so naturally to her and is a small example of her many traits we will miss.

Immediately, Karen and Roy became active within the congregation of St. Michael’s Episcopal Church along with the Wayne PAL, where their kids played sports. Both organizations had a valuable impact on Karen and Roy. Not knowing at the time but the friendships they formed from their involvement would last a lifetime. Karen was also very active in the PTA where her children went to school and also found a part-time position as a Teacher’s Aid in the Wayne public Schools. Moving to New Jersey also brought out her love of the Jersey Shore. Karen and her family spent many summer days at various NJ Shore points. Karen fell so in love with the Wildwood’s that she plotted with her husband’s mother to purchase a home there. In 1994, 18 years after her initial honeymoon visit to Wildwood, Karen and her mother-in-law found “the perfect place,” and called her husband telling him the big news.

In addition to the Jersey Shore Karen got to visit outside the United States. Roy’s career allowed for global trips that often included spouses. The two traveled to many exotic locations around the world including Tokyo, Singapore, Sweden and France. One of the most memorable trips being a villa on the French Riviera that included Karen and Roy’s parents and kids.

Aside from all her interests and hobbies, her greatest passion was her family. Nothing meant more to Karen than being and spending quality time with her family. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother and was especially close to her daughters in law, Kimmy and Tonya . She was an extraordinary person, loving, caring, and compassionate. She touched the lives of many, many people. She will be truly missed by everyone who knew her.

Karen is survived by her husband Roy of Wayne, two sons; Roy Salley II and his wife, Tonya of Cedar Grove and Shaun Salley and his wife, Kimberly of Riverdale, one daughter Colleen Salley of Morristown, her mother Shirlee Klinger of Portage, IN, one brother; Jack Klinger of Crown Point, IN, four grandchildren; Rebecca Salley, Morgan Salley, Ava Salley, and Henry Salley, as well as several nieces, nephews, and cousins.  Karen is survived by her in laws whom she had a close bond; Nancy and Roy Salley, Kim and Jim Salley, Scott and Amy Salley, and Wayne and Diane Salley.  She is also survived by two of her dogs; Elizabeth Taylor and Nora.

Mary “Ciss” Schramm ( nee Lernihan ) age 97, formerly of Wayne for over fifty years, passed peacefully at home in Cedar Crest on Dec. 26th.

Born in N.Y.C. to Mathias and Mary Mariah Lernihan in 1920, Ciss' family relocated five years later to the Middle Village section of Queens, New York. There, along with her brothers Jack and Matt, she attended St. Margaret's grammar school, and later graduated from Our Lady of Wisdom Academy High School with the Class of 1938. After high school she continued her education by completing secretarial school.

Ciss met the love of her life, George J. Schramm, while growing up in Middle Village, where they attended the same grade school, and were both active parishioners at Saint Margaret's RC Church in Queens. It was there, after Sunday mass, that George first invited Ciss out for an ice cream soda, which eventually lead to the two of them falling in love. They married on January 16, 1943 while George was home on furlough from Army basic training. He was deployed to the European Front during WWII.

While praying for and awaiting his safe return, Mary commuted (via trollys and trains) to Manhatten from Middle Village, where she developed a love of the law while working as an executive legal secretary.

When George returned from the war, they settled into an apartment in the Flushing section of Queens, New York, and in 1947 they welcomed their first child. In 1951 they moved to River Edge, NJ, where two more children joined their family. In 1957 they relocated again, so as to raise their family in what was, at the time, "the country", at Packanack Lake in Wayne, NJ. Then, in 1980, as "empty nesters", they moved across Wayne to Manitou. After George’s passing in 2008, Ciss moved to Cedar Crest in Pompton Plains, where she has lived for the past nine and a half years.

Ciss will be lovingly remembered for her gracious manner, strong values, wise counsel, and devout faith. Although a private person, it was no secret to anyone who knew her well that she had a special devotion to the Blessed Mother, and, much like her husband, was never without her rosary.

Ciss also loved to sing. For over 30 years, she was a member of the award-winning Ramapo Valley Sweet Adeline's chorus, where she had the pleasure of experiencing standing ovations at every venue in many cities, including Carnige Hall in NYC and the Royal Albert Hall in London.

Having an appreciation and knack for fashion, Ciss would make dresses for her girls when they were little, and was known for always looking "put together". She had a gift for innovation and loved decorating. Consequently, she enjoyed finding just the right placement for everything in her home, including her beloved collection of dolls and carefully chosen antiques.

The sea was another of her great loves; she enjoyed many a family vacation at the Jersey Shore, as well as wintering near the Florida coast after George retired. Her children and grandchildren also fondly remember her gift to them of the '97 ocean cruise to Bermuda.

Along with her husband George, Ciss enjoyed golfing, and was a founding member of the Packanack Lake Golf Club in Wayne. There they both developed and enjoyed lasting friendships fostered during many rounds on the course.

For many years they spent their weekends in the Pocono Mountains, where Ciss cherished the peace, natural beauty, and abundant wildlife. She especially enjoyed watching the deer quietly walk through the woods, and the many and varied birds that would visit her hanging geraniums and dine at her bird feeders.

Still sharp as a tack on her 97th birthday, Ciss stayed on top of world events by watching news every night. When she would change the channel, it would often be to QVC, for she did also love to shop.

The innocence and antics of little children always made her beautiful blue Irish eyes smile. But conversely, her heart would really ache for any child in need which is reflected in the Foundation referenced below.

Along with her enduring faith, her greatest love of all was the love she had in her heart for her family.

Ciss was the wife of sixty-five years to the late George J. Schramm (2008); mother of Gregory J. Schramm (Greg) of Wayne, Jacquelyn M. (and Jehovenn Honculada) Schramm of Wayne, and Mary-Therese Schramm (Tracy) of Pompton Plains. She had five grandchildren: Geoffrey (and Michelle) Schramm, Amy (and Chris) Adickes, Timothy (and Tracy) Schramm, Jehda (and Ken Hermanny) Honculada, and Jessica (and Frank Troia) Honculada. She had eight great-grandchildren: Kayla Schramm, Ryan Schramm, Jake Adickes, Dylan Adickes, Grady Schramm, Wesley Hermanny, Sophie Schramm and Gavin Hermanny.

She will continue to be deeply loved and will be missed beyond measure. Please remember her in your prayers.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary’s memory can be made to the Lernihan-Schramm Foundation, 25 Shady Terrace, Wayne, NJ 07470. This foundation helps families in need through established charitable organizations.

Charlotte Blau left us on Tuesday, December 26, 2017.

She died from a long journey with Alzheimer’s of about 13 years.

At the end of her life, she was surrounded by her children around the clock.

Charlotte was born in Union City, NJ, in 1939. There she was raised, met and married her husband Bill in 1956. They moved to Lyndhurst for 10 years and then settled in Wayne for the next 46 years. Charlotte spent those years raising her six children and making Christmas the most special holiday. Most memorable were all the home-made Christmas cookies shared in her special tins! So it is symbolic she leave us at this time of year!

Charlotte worked at Sterns in the Preakness Mall, then State Farm when the children were grown. There she found fulfillment and met many wonderful people that gave her fond memories and laughs. Most will remember her love for the beach, and the memories she and Bill had at their home in LBI.

Charlotte was predeceased by her husband William Blau of 55 years, her parents Charles and Grace Brunje, her brothers Charles, Richard, Arthur and Howard Brunje, and loved in-laws Phillip Monti and Anna Jenisch-Brunje.

She leaves behind her sister Pauline Monti of Wayne and her children: Janet and William Carafello of Seaside Heights, Diane Blau-Torres and Steve Torres of Wayne, Catherine Blau of Pompton Lakes, Tara Blau of Wayne, David and Sherry Blau of Pompton Plains, William Jr. and Kasia Blau of Wayne; her beautiful grandchildren: Kristen and Frankie Iattarelli, David and Samantha Torres, Alexandra, Kimberley, and David Blau, Annabelle and Allison Blau; and her nieces and nephews and in-laws.

Vincent Caropreso, age 51 of Pompton Plains and formerly of Wayne, died on Christmas Eve, Sunday, December 24, 2017. He was surrounded by his loving family and many loyal friends during the final days of his courageous battle with cancer.

Vinnie grew up in Wayne and graduated from Wayne Hills High School with the class of 1984. He had been a standout football player with the Wayne Hills Patriots and when he went on to study at Villanova University he tried out for the football team as a walk-on. The odds of joining a Division 1 football roster as a walk-on are slim, but despite the odds, Vinnie made the team! He enjoyed his time at Villanova, maybe even a little bit too much, and after a few semesters he decided to leave school and join the carpenters union in New York City. Vinnie has been a member for more than thirty years of NYCDCC Union 157 and he was most recently a project manager. His coworkers know him as a perfectionist and a workaholic.

Vinnie was selfless and caring and he who would do anything for his many dear friends. He could fix and do just about anything and he loved being able to help others. If he knew that you were doing a home improvement project, he would just show up and help you – and his work was meticulous. He volunteered on the Wayne P.O.L. Fire Company 2 for thirty years and served as their Chief from 2001-2003. His fellow firefighters were like brothers to him and he cherished their friendship. Being a firefighter emboldened Vinnie to enjoy one of his favorite hobbies; playing with fireworks! The Fourth of July was, understandably, his favorite holiday and Vinnie always seemed to have the best fireworks! Of course, it wasn’t uncommon for the police to show up in response. Vinnie loved throwing big parties as his house and cooking for all of his friends. His parties were always memorable.

Vinnie was devoted to his wife and two sons. He met his wife, Maureen (nee Bardone) at the famed “Waterfront” in Packanack Lake. She found him to be a romantic man who always wrote long notes in the cards he gave her. They married on Oct. 3, 1992 at St. Anthony’s RC Church in Butler, followed by an Aruba honeymoon. Their honeymoon was anything but typical, as two of Vinnie’s best friends, along with their wives, joined them for the week!!! Throughout their years together, Maureen and Vinnie’s love for each other grew stronger and stronger. As Maureen candidly and very honestly describes; they didn’t always like each other, but they always loved each other; they enjoyed fabulous times together and Vinnie gave her a wonderful life. When it came to Vinnie’s two boys; Dominic and Joseph, they were his everything and he loved the two of them tremendously. He could be a strict dad at times, but that was the ‘perfectionist’ side of him that wanted only the best for his boys. There wasn’t anything he wouldn’t do for them and they always knew how much they were loved. In 2003, Maureen gave birth to twin boys; Joseph and Anthony. Sadly, Anthony passed away just a few days later and Vinnie’s love seemed to be amplified in response; drawing him even closer to his family. He had a huge heart and his family will miss him dearly.

Vinnie is survived by his beloved wife Maureen (nee Bardone) of Pompton Plains, his two sons; Dominic and Joseph, and by his dear mother; Joan Caropreso of Wayne, his sister; Kathy Siso and her husband Tom of Wayne, his step-sister; Megan Caropreso of Butler, nieces; Shauna Siso of Wayne, and nephew Patrick Siso of Wayne, and two aunts; Kathy Falato of Wayne and Catherine Garcia of Wayne. He was predeceased by his son Anthony in 2003 and by his father, Ugo in 2001.

Donations in Vinnie’s memory would be appreciated to benefit the St. Joseph’s Hospital NICU. Donations can be sent to; St. Joseph’s University Medical Center Foundation, 703 Main St, Paterson, NJ 07503 or visit www.stjosephshealth.org.

James “Jim” Sofis, age 95 of Manchester passed away peacefully on December 22, 2017 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Jim was born in New York City to Constantine and Esmeralda Sofianides. He lived in Wood-Ridge and Wayne before moving to Manchester 21 years ago. Jim graduated from Rutherford HS with the class of 1940. After High School graduation, Jim enrolled at Stevens Institute of Technology in Hoboken. He studied there for two years. With a desire to serve and protect his country like many others, he dropped out of college and enlisted in the United States Army to serve during WWII. Jim was a rifleman and Draftsman, he was assigned to the 104th Infantry, 415th regiment. He was stationed in Europe where he fought very honorably and courageously, receiving two Purple Hearts, two Battle Stars, as well as the Combat Infantry Badge. Like many men returning from war, Jim didn’t speak much about his experiences, but it was clear that his service during the war played a profound role in his life.

After being honorably discharged from the United States Army, Jim earned a position as a tool designer for the Bendix Corporation in Teterboro, which later became known as Honeywell Industries. Jim worked there for forty two years until his retirement in 1989. Following his retirement, Jim was not the type of man to sit still, he continued to work part time for a company called Rickett Benckiser in the R&D labs for three years. Again, Jim felt the urge to retire and then moved to Leisure Village West in Manchester in 1996.

Following his service during World War II and amid his first few years working for Bendix Corporation, Jim met a lovely young women by the name of Nina Macredy. They dated for a short time and as fate would have it they fell in love and were married in 1952. They settled in Wood-Ridge for a time then eventually moved to Wayne in 1963. They would call Wayne their home for many years to come and would raise their two daughters and son there. Jim cherished twenty-five years of a loving and loyal marriage together until Nina’s passing. Jim eventually fell in love again and remarried a women named Bernice Wickersheim. Jim cherished another twenty five years of marriage to his second wife until her passing in 2011.

Jim was a member of the VFW in Manchester where he was very active for a while. He also loved to travel. He has been to just about every corner of the globe including memorable trips to China, Russia, Thailand, Sweden, England, Greece, Turkey, and Ireland, as well as traveling to the Caribbean on various cruise lines. Jim also enjoyed bowling in local leagues in his area and after his second wife passed away, took routine trips to Atlantic City where he enjoyed playing poker and socializing with many friends he made during his trips there. Jim was caring and generous and was the type of person that everyone liked.

Jim knew the Lord and was extremely devoted to his Christian Faith. Above all of Jim’s hobbies, talents and interests, he had a great love for his family. He was a devoted husband and a loving father, grandfather, and great grandfather. He cherished the time he spent with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, nothing was more important to him. Jim was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people and will be missed by everyone who knew him.

Jim is survived by two daughters; Ginnie Palumbo and her husband Jimmy of Wayne, Irene Myers of Wayne, one son Stephen Sofis and his wife Jill of Vernon, one brother; Dr. Thomas Sofianides and his wife Anna of Tenafly and their daughter Catherine Sofianides, five grandchildren; Jessica Myers, Kimberly Myers, Jamie Sofis, Cassandra Sofis, and Erika Sofis, 2 great grandchildren; Dante Ferreira, and Madison Myers, and many nieces and a cousin. Jim is also survived by 6 step-children and 16 step grandchildren whom he loved very much, from his second wife Bernice. He was predeceased by his first wife Nina Macredy, and his second wife Bernice Wickersheim in 2011. Jim was also predeceased by his two sisters Clara Wassel and Faye Nicholiades in 2008.

Sebastian G. Basart, age 34, of New York City, passed away peacefully on December 7th, 2017, after a short battle with brain cancer, in the presence of his loving and caring family.

Sebastian was born to Monique Arends and Martin Basart. He and his family lived in Rye, NY until Sebastian was about five years old. Eventually his family moved to Kinnelon, NJ where he would spend his formative years growing up. As a child Sebastian was what you might call an overactive child. His mom and dad could barely keep up with him. His parents gave him the nickname “Apie”, which when translated from Dutch means, “monkey”. They would go outside looking for Sebastian and when he couldn’t be found his mom would “look up”. She often found that he had climbed up a tree which he was exceptionally good at. Sebastian was the most influential person of his brother Alex’s life. He will always be his inspiration.

As a teenager in High School, his charismatic personality fostered such an energy that it allowed him to build an extended family of lifelong friends He participated in many sports and activities while in school and particularly enjoyed swimming. He followed his love for swimming and as a teenager he obtained his first job as a lifeguard. Following his graduation from Kinnelon High School with the class of 2001, Sebastian attended William Paterson University where he earned a Bachelor Degree in Arts in 2006.

Sebastian followed the Basart family legacy in the record industry. Coupled with his passion for music, he embarked upon his career at Sony Music Entertainment.

He was at Sony for approximately six years until his promotion lead him to his current position: Manager, A&R Administration Columbia Records in Manhattan.

Shortly before Sebastian became ill, he met a young woman by the name of Elisa Araujo through a mutual friend. After several dates they grew to love each other. When Sebastian relayed the news to Elisa that he had become ill, she embraced his battle and never left his side. She cared for him and loved him unconditionally. Their connection and love for each other will carry on forever.

Sebastian was very spiritual. Meditation and yoga were positive forces in his life, which guided him to lead a healthy lifestyle. Traveling was another passion that took him all over the world: Brazil, Europe, Costa Rica and Iceland to name a few.

Sebastian was a kind-hearted, generous, humble and modest person who touched the lives of many people. His family remembers an incident when he had lost his wallet in New York City. The New York Transit Police found his wallet and returned it to him with nothing missing, including fifty dollars in cash. Sebastian decided to give the money to a homeless man on the street.

Unfortunately, he was taken from his family and friends too soon and will be missed by everyone that knew him and he will remain in our hearts for all eternity.

Sebastian is survived by his mother Monique Arends and her husband Max Munzer of Butler NJ, his father Martin Basart and his wife Kathleen Basart of Sebastian, FL, his brother Alex Basart of Sebastian, FL., girlfriend Elisa Araujo, many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews who live overseas as well as his many friends who were family to him.

Josephine Massoud, age 84, formerly of Wayne, passed away peacefully on December 8, 2017 while receiving the loving care of her family.

Our mother and matriarch Josephine passed away on December 8, 2017 to begin her journey home to her daughter Patricia, her mother Mary, her father Elias and the rest of her departed family and friends. Josephine lived life " Her Way". She always had a clear and confident vision for herself and her family. Josephine's love is strong, omnipresent and something that her family and friends cherish and rely on, like a shelter from the storm.. With OUR mother you always felt safe and you knew that she always had your back. When deserving she dealt swift, effective and conclusive discipline, but when the tears settled Josephine was there without fail to build you back up and let you know that no matter what you did you were still loved. "Don't do the crime if you can't do the time!" Her brand of love was intended to build character by bringing you to the source of the conflict, no matter how uncomfortable, for a face-to-face apology and hopeful resolution. Her "Iron Will" was never more apparent than when after 30 years of smoking a pack a day she stopped cold turkey on the birth of her first grandchild. Never to smoke again!

Our Josephine was and exceptional teacher. Countless Massoud's learned how to swim under her instruction in the pool at Emerson place in Wayne. There was only one rule, you drop off your child and you leave. The family bowling instructor produced students of high average and the captain of the Depaul bowling team. Not to mention that she carried a 187 average and was a legend in female bowling at T-ball in Wayne. When Josephine was on a roll, the lanes went silent like the time she notched a 297. Her hand eye coordination was incredible ,not only in sports but also as the family doctor. Just ask any of her patients who underwent splinter removal.

Perhaps her HOSPITALITY is what she's known best for by her friends and family. Organization was not just a passion but a necessity and an art of Josephines. Stop and think about the sheer number of people who passed through her front door. Not to mention those who chose to go around back called by the sounds of revelry. It was truly great because you never knew who was going to come around the side of the house to add to the party. She worked 14 hour days seven days a week and twice on the holidays. We all have memories of Christmas Eve , the Budbadah and we already miss the smell from her kitchen. You could eat in, have some laughs and tell stories, or you could pick up a package of love to take home to your family. Hospitality is Josephine, but always served with the biggest portion of Fun! EVERYONE has their favorite auntie Jo story.

At the age of 60 Josephine was dealt the worst possible hand, loss of a child, her precious daughter Patricia. Instead of being rewarded for all of her hard work with the joys of simply being a grandma, she was thrust back into the role of a parent to Patricia's children. But with Josephine there were No Excuses, simply unacceptable! Josephine and her husband began a decade of five hour round trip rides to South Jersey to assure Patty's children got their Sito Giddo and family time. No Exceptions! That is what you can expect when you are loved by Josephine.

Josephine gave wise counsel to those who would show up on her doorstep no matter the time or circumstances. Often she played family mediator or loving listener. Not unlike anyone else, sometimes people would get upset with her, but I believe most often it was caused by her shining a light on your imperfections in a dangerous attempt to help you reach your full potential.

My Mom was a living example of CLASS, HONOR and UNCONDITIONAL LOVE and she is DEEPLY MISSED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Josephine is survived by her husband Joseph Massoud of Cypress, TX, two sons; Anthony Massoud of Spring, TX, and Bryan Massoud and his wife Jodi of Englewood Cliffs, one daughter; Michele Rosell and her husband Robert of Cypress, TX, two sisters; Gloria Massoud, and Shirley Massood, two brothers; Mike Massood, and Joseph Massood, 15 grandchildren, and 4 great grandchildren. She was predeceased by her daughter Patricia Massoud Beer in 1994.

Carlo A. Tirri, age 67 of Wayne, died on Friday, December 8, 2017 with his family gathered at his bedside.

Carlo was born in Monteforte Irpino, Italy, and came to the United States when he was six years old. They settled in Paterson and Carlo graduated from St. Joseph’s High School in Paterson. He went on to earn his Bachelor’s degree from Ramapo College where he also excelled in their football program. While in college, he worked for Coca Cola and earned enough money to purchase his first investment property. Thus began his career as a real estate investor which eventually enabled him to own property all over the area and even in multiple States. He did everything himself, including all the repairs and maintenance. He went on to earn his plumbers license and was skilled in all the trades. He loved being able to do everything himself and passed many of those skills along to his daughters. He always had a project to work on around the house.

Carlo was truly a devoted father. He spent as much time as possible with his daughters, taking them to Backstreet Boys’ concerts all over the country, MTV’s Total Request Live in Times Square, and many other fun and exciting adventures. He loved to gamble and as the girls got older, he would take them to Atlantic City and Las Vegas with him. He loved having a good time wherever he went, was gregarious and full of life. His family is grateful for all the wonderful memories and they’ll miss him terribly.

Carlo met his wife, Marilyn (nee Rodriguez), at the Cozy Castle Club. Carlo asked her “do you want to see my car?” referring to his new Seville that he was so proud of. At first she kinda laughed at him, but he was charming and they hit it off. Their wedding followed on October 11, 1980 and they celebrated with an Italian honeymoon to Rome and Avelino. They settled in Clifton before moving to Wayne in 1985. Over the years, they’ve enjoyed traveling to the Bahamas, Las Vegas, and countless trips to Atlantic City. Carlo loved to play Blackjack and you would often find him at the higher-stakes tables because he liked to play with people who really understood how the game is played. He recently had a ‘last request’ to visit Atlantic City so his family took him there for the day on November 4th. He got himself a suite at Harrah’s and played cards. After making a few dollars, he cashed out and went for a steak dinner. He liked to “hit’m and run!” as he would say, and he did exactly that.

Carlo is survived by his wife of thirty seven years; Marilyn of Wayne, three daughters; Lauren Tirri and her husband Donald Royce of Lincoln Park, Lisa Plitsas and her husband Alex of Fairfield, CT, and Toni Tirri and her husband Craig Bonagura of Riverdale, NJ, two granddaughters; Isabella and Sophia Plitsas, his two sisters; Rosa LaRosa and her husband Salvatore of Franklin Lakes, and Virginia Imbimbo and her husband Tony of Wayne, and a brother; Jerry Tirri and his wife Marilena of Park Ridge, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Donations in Carlo’s memory would be appreciate to the American Diabetes Association, P.O. Box 11454, Alexandria, VA 22312, www.diabetes.org

Agnes Bauzon Brady, age 55, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 6, 2017.

“Aggie” as she was affectionately known, was born in the city of Manila in the Philippines. When she was ten years old, her father Benjamin, who was a Merchant Marine, secured a job in the United States with the U.S. Postal Service and consequently, he moved his whole family to this new country. Of course, this had a profound effect upon ten-year-old Aggie and all of her family. They settled into their new home at 430 Lafayette Ave. in Passaic and Aggie eventually embraced life in America.

After graduating from Passaic High School with the Class of 1980, she immediately enrolled in Felician College, then in Lodi, where in 1982, she earned her associates degree and, after passing the board exam, became a registered nurse. From there, Aggie began a very special career in which, for the next 33 years, if you were in the emergency room or hospital, you would wish that you could be under the care of this loving compassionate woman. She started her career in the emergency room at Passaic General Hospital and tenderly served patients there for the next seventeen years. Then, after a short stint at Wayne General and Barnett Hospital, she settled in again, this time at Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ in the cardiac rehabilitation unit where she worked from 2003 to the present. She enjoyed the love and respect of her colleagues and patients alike. When she was growing up, Aggie wanted to be an engineer but her father convinced her to go into nursing instead. This turned out to be a very fortunate thing for her patients! Many of those patients loved her so much, they would bring her gifts – mostly bells and shot glasses because that’s what Aggie told them she liked, but they were actually items her husband Frank collected.

If you ask Aggie’s husband Frank when it was that he and Aggie first met, he’d tell you it was one night in September of 1982 at Passaic General Hospital in the emergency room when he, as a Passaic County Sheriff’s Officer, brought a prisoner to the E.R. Aggie was working that night but she didn’t attend to that prisoner and she didn’t even notice Frank, but he definitely noticed her. As coincidence would have it, Frank ran into her again, this time at Bentley’s Night Club in Wayne. As Frank described the encounter, he saw Aggie from across the room, wearing a white mini-skirt and dancing on the dance floor. He couldn’t resist approaching her to ask if she remembered him from the other night in the E.R. She replied that she didn’t, explaining that it was a busy night. Undaunted, Frank asked Aggie if she’d like to dance with him. Aggie replied that she was with someone else but Frank still didn’t give up. He asked Aggie if he could meet her later that night at the Golden Star Diner on Route 46 along with his buddy George. Aggie finally agreed and there, she and Frank began to get to know each other. Their next encounter was at a party at her friend’s house in Passaic, but Aggie told Frank to just meet her at the party because her father was real strict. Then, on New Year’s Eve, they went together to a party but, once again, because her father was so strict, Aggie told her father that she was going to the party with some girlfriends only to get picked up around the corner from her home by Frank. That’s when their love for each other really began to blossom. Frank and Aggie dated for the next two years – all this time, still unbeknownst to Aggie’s parents. A special night came for them on Thursday, October 18, 1984. They went out for a movie, then dinner in a restaurant on Mulberry Street in the Little Italy section of New York City. It was there that Frank proposed marriage to his dear Aggie. That same evening, they went and bought a ring. It was high time that Frank meet Aggies parents to ask for her hand in marriage. Aggie’s father was concerned, explaining as carefully as he could that Filipino girls marry Filipino men, not Irishmen. Frank gave his best and most sincere pitch, promising Aggie’s father that he would love, honor, and respect Aggie and do his very best to be a loving and supportive husband for her. All seemed ok after that but, a few months later, in the summer of 1985, when Frank excitedly announced to Aggie that he had booked a few days down in Wildwood Crest for the two of them, she disappointedly had to turn Frank down, explaining that her father was sending her to the Philippines to spend time with her rich uncle. She went to the Philippines where she was given the royal treatment and introduced to handsome, well-off Filipino men. But Aggie wanted Frank – her Irish rooted American boyfriend and fiancé. Love prevailed and Aggie and Frank exchanged their wedding promises before God and family and friends on Sunday, September 21, 1986 at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton. After a celebratory reception at The Fiesta in Wood-Ridge, the newlyweds honeymooned in Jamaica, then settled into their first apartment together as husband and wife in the Richfield Village section of Clifton. After a couple years there, in May, 1989, they moved into their first home together at 10 Kievit Road in Wayne. They remained there until May of 1996 when they moved one more time into another home in Wayne where Aggie would end up spending the rest of her life.

Blessed by God with two sons – Frank, Jr. and Christopher, her boys became the most important part of Aggie’s life. She delighted in them, make them her utmost top priority, and consequently she always tailored her schedule around their activities and pursuits. From a very young age, both Frank, Jr. and Christopher displayed an evident gift for playing sports, especially football and basketball. When coached in the Wayne Boys and Girls Club football league by her husband Frank, Aggie was always there to support her sons and keep her husband calm. When they played basketball for the Wayne PAL Aggie and Frank traveled three times to Las Vegas and twice to Florida’s Disney Wide World of Sports to see the boys compete. As the boys grew older, Frank, Jr. attended DePaul High School then Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, Connecticut while Chris attended Don Bosco Prep and later Yale University. Both boys played football in high school and college and, as a result, traveled extensively to compete. They could be sure that Aggie was at every game to root them on to victory.

Aggie always did her best to make life special for her family. Spending her early childhood in the Philippines, she quickly found great enjoyment from being near the water. Ironically, she couldn’t swim but, living in New Jersey, she loved going down to the Jersey shore too. Her boys will always have fond memories of, many summers, renting a little cottage house on Amberjack Road in Ocean Beach. Despite the house being small, Aggie always had that house full of extended family and friends. She had a tremendous gift for hospitality and an even greater gift for cooking! In the words of her boys, “Mom was an unbelievable chef!” She mixed a little bit of her Filipino roots with some American traditions, sprinkled in a little bit of Italian flavor and Spanish spice to make some of the most delicious recipes on earth. Her beef, veal and pork meatballs were famous and there was always way more food than anyone could possibly eat. Her son’s friends were regulars for dinner at the Brady house and every Sunday she made a traditional meal. She especially loved cooking for the holidays and she would always buy those disposable containers for leftovers so that the army of friends she invited over, could all take the extras home with them.

Aggie never shied away from putting in whatever effort it took to get a job done. Like a robot, she never seemed to tire. Up at 4:00 AM every morning, she’d get herself ready for work, make breakfast for her family, work all day caring for others, come home, make dinner, and clean up all the dishes afterward. In between, there would be laundry to wash, dry, fold and put away, and trips to Passaic to care for her much-loved mother. She was a genuinely caring, selfless, compassionate, hardworking individual whose life was shaped by a love for God and a love for others.

Aggie was the beloved wife of Frank Brady; loving and caring mother of Frank Brady, Jr. and Christopher Brady of Wayne; cherished daughter of Imelda Bauzon of Passaic; dear oldest sister of Valerie and husband John Kapsis of Albrightsville, PA, Lea Bauzon Rodriguez of Wantage, NJ, and Benjamin Bauzon of Passaic; dear sister-in-law of Joseph Brady, Jr and wife Virginia Brady of Wayne; and much-loved aunt of nephews and nieces: Joseph Brady, Jr., Anthony Brady, Michael Rodriguez, and Mia Rodriguez. Agnes was predeceased by her dear father Benjamin Bauzon in 2003.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Agnes’s name are asked to consider the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241-7005.

Vincenza “Nancy” Macaluso (nee Longo), age 94 of Wayne, NJ passed away on December 6, 2017. She was the devoted and loving wife of the late Gandolfo Macaluso (1995). Nancy was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY by the late Philip and Filomena Longo. Since moving to Wayne in 1965, she was a parishioner of Holy Cross Church and resided in the same house for 52 years.

Nancy was exceedingly dedicated to her family and passionately raised three children. That dedication certainly extended to spending time with and taking care of her four grandchildren. Undeniably, Nancy's life was all about family. She believed that God's most incredible gift is family, and she demonstrated that sentiment by example. Her strength of character and values taught her family lessons that will surely be passed down to multiple generations. Despite struggling with numerous health issues in her last years with us, she persevered and remained strong. Nancy faced every endeavor with a positive attitude, grace, and incomparable strength that truly inspired all who knew her.

Nancy is preceded in death by her husband Gandolfo, sisters Gloria Longo and Carmella Defeo, son-in-law Joseph Halloran, and grandson Joseph. Left to cherish her memory include her children Joseph of Wall, NJ, Joanne Wiener of Union, NJ, and Phyllis Halloran of Lincoln Park, NJ, and four adoring grandchildren Joseph, Samantha, Victoria-Lyn and Vincent.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Nancy’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

William Gordon, 75 of Pompton Lakes, died on Wednesday, December 6, 2017.  He had been a butcher and Meat Manager at ShopRite in Lyndhurst, West Milford, Hasbrouck Heights, Emerson and Wayne, enjoying a career of fifty six years with Inserra Supermarkets. He retired from his position of meat manager twelve years ago but then kept working for them in CGO.

Bill was born and raised in the Sunset Park neighborhood of Brooklyn, NY. He and his brother Larry had loads of fun as kids, including swimming in Sunset Park, roller skating, and throwing various things off of the roof of the five-story building they lived in. On one silly occasion, the last day of school before summer recess, they spent an afternoon tearing pages out of their school books, folding them into airplanes, and then proceeded to throw dozens of them out the window. As a young boy, Bill was resourceful and learned to buy newspapers at the corner store for 10 cents, then sell them to the blurry-eyed patrons at the corner tavern for $1. As a teenager, Bill became an apprentice at the local meat market in Brooklyn where he learned his trade. His family moved to Wayne when he was just fifteen years old and he took a job at Great Eastern Mills.

Those skills he develop as a teenager would serve him well. He enjoyed a career of fifty six years as a butcher, Meat Manager, and recently retired as CGO for Inserra Supermarkets. Bill worked many of those years at the ShopRite in Wayne. Customers certainly knew him as a very personable guy, always smiling and laughing. Bill didn’t have mean bone in his body and loved having fun. “Joy to the World” by Three Dog Night was his favorite song, which says a lot about who he was. Earlier this year his family threw a 75th surprise birthday party for him. Somehow he became aware of the surprise so he decided to show up two hours early to the party! He came early not to ruin the surprise, but because he was so excited to greet all of his friends as they arrived! A great time was had by all. Bill liked watching TV too, and Johnny Carson and “Married, with Children” were among his favorite shows. He also loved watching the Barrett Jackson auto auctions. Bill was a car nut and even at a young age he could identify a car by sound, able to differentiate the subtleties of each rumble. He was a fast driver and often reminisced about the ’58 Impala he used to own; his favorite car.

Bill’s wife Barbara was the love of his life. They met while they were both working at Great Eastern Mills. Bills took her to a diner for their first date in 1960 and on May 13, 1962 they tied the knot at St. Mary’s RC Church in Pompton Lakes. After a honeymoon to Niagara Falls, they settled into their first apartment in Lyndhurst. They moved to Pompton Lakes on July 1, 1975 to raise their family. Bill and Barbara were simply meant for each other and they loved doing everything together. They went to Atlantic City as often as they could, enjoyed cruises, Aruba, and trips to the Poconos. When Barbara passed away in 2015, Bill was hopelessly heartbroken and he’s missed her terribly ever since. His love for Barbara was stronger than anything else and his wish was to join her for eternity.

Bill is survived by his children; Michele Marro and her boyfriend Jim Donohue of Pompton Lakes, son Anthony Gordon and his wife Jeanne of Flanders, two grandchildren; Danielle Marro of Pompton Lakes, and Anthony Gordon of Flanders, his brothers; Larry Gordon and his wife Eileen of Bushkill, PA, and Richard Gordon and his wife Barbara of N. Carolina, a sister; Patricia of Binghamton, NY, his brother-in-law; John Paduano of Brick, and many nieces, nephews, and very dear friends.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Bill’s memory would be appreciated to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959.

Petronella Lim (van Nunen) age 97, of Wayne, passed Wednesday, December 6, 2017. She was born in Eindhoven, Netherlands and was the youngest in her family. She was affectionately known as Petje (Pete-cha) by her family.

She lived through World War II and during that time she smuggled tobacco from Belgium into Holland and used the money to buy food. Those who know Petronella will remember her as a “survivor.” She always did what she had to do to survive.

Her first husband Martinus van den Oever passed at the age of 36 in 1954 along with her mother, she was truly devastated. Several years later she met Edward Lim at a social club in Holland. They married in 1956. They originally came to the United States that same year. A year and a half later, she became homesick and they returned to Holland. They did return back to live permanently in the United States in 1960.

They were originally sponsored to immigrate into California. By mistake, they ended up in New Jersey and settled there having lived in Newark, Toms River, Bloomfield and Nutley. After her husband’s death she moved in with her son in Wayne. She was a strong willed person, fighter, and would often say “getting old is not for sissys.” She lived to an old age despite eating just about anything including: salt, sugar, fresh veggies, and just about any fattening foods you could think of. As she put it, “lekker eten” (good food). Her family rarely went on a “vacation” as she did without in order to save money. They did however take day trips which provided many fond memories. They particularly enjoyed picnicking at the lakes. Petronella wanted everyone to know she truly cherished her friendships and family.

She was the loving mother of Martin van den Oever and his wife Madeline of Fairfield, Eddy Lim and his wife Bonnie of Wayne; cherished grandmother of Kristy Lim of Wayne. She was predeceased by her first husband Martinus van den Oever (1954) and her second husband Edward Lim (1996), three sisters and a brother.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to Saint Jude Children's Research Hospital,  Memorial Processing, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105-9959 would be appreciated.

Agnes Bauzon Brady, age 55, of Wayne, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, December 6, 2017.

“Aggie” as she was affectionately known, was born in the city of Manila in the Philippines. When she was ten years old, her father Benjamin, who was a Merchant Marine, secured a job in the United States with the U.S. Postal Service and consequently, he moved his whole family to this new country. Of course, this had a profound effect upon ten-year-old Aggie and all of her family. They settled into their new home at 430 Lafayette Ave. in Passaic and Aggie eventually embraced life in America.

After graduating from Passaic High School with the Class of 1980, she immediately enrolled in Felician College, then in Lodi, where in 1982, she earned her associates degree and, after passing the board exam, became a registered nurse. From there, Aggie began a very special career in which, for the next 33 years, if you were in the emergency room or hospital, you would wish that you could be under the care of this loving compassionate woman. She started her career in the emergency room at Passaic General Hospital and tenderly served patients there for the next seventeen years. Then, after a short stint at Wayne General and Barnett Hospital, she settled in again, this time at Clara Maass Medical Center in Belleville, NJ in the cardiac rehabilitation unit where she worked from 2003 to the present. She enjoyed the love and respect of her colleagues and patients alike. When she was growing up, Aggie wanted to be an engineer but her father convinced her to go into nursing instead. This turned out to be a very fortunate thing for her patients! Many of those patients loved her so much, they would bring her gifts – mostly bells and shot glasses because that’s what Aggie told them she liked, but they were actually items her husband Frank collected.

If you ask Aggie’s husband Frank when it was that he and Aggie first met, he’d tell you it was one night in September of 1982 at Passaic General Hospital in the emergency room when he, as a Passaic County Sheriff’s Officer, brought a prisoner to the E.R. Aggie was working that night but she didn’t attend to that prisoner and she didn’t even notice Frank, but he definitely noticed her. As coincidence would have it, Frank ran into her again, this time at Bentley’s Night Club in Wayne. As Frank described the encounter, he saw Aggie from across the room, wearing a white mini-skirt and dancing on the dance floor. He couldn’t resist approaching her to ask if she remembered him from the other night in the E.R. She replied that she didn’t, explaining that it was a busy night. Undaunted, Frank asked Aggie if she’d like to dance with him. Aggie replied that she was with someone else but Frank still didn’t give up. He asked Aggie if he could meet her later that night at the Golden Star Diner on Route 46 along with his buddy George. Aggie finally agreed and there, she and Frank began to get to know each other. Their next encounter was at a party at her friend’s house in Passaic, but Aggie told Frank to just meet her at the party because her father was real strict. Then, on New Year’s Eve, they went together to a party but, once again, because her father was so strict, Aggie told her father that she was going to the party with some girlfriends only to get picked up around the corner from her home by Frank. That’s when their love for each other really began to blossom. Frank and Aggie dated for the next two years – all this time, still unbeknownst to Aggie’s parents. A special night came for them on Thursday, October 18, 1984. They went out for a movie, then dinner in a restaurant on Mulberry Street in the Little Italy section of New York City. It was there that Frank proposed marriage to his dear Aggie. That same evening, they went and bought a ring. It was high time that Frank meet Aggies parents to ask for her hand in marriage. Aggie’s father was concerned, explaining as carefully as he could that Filipino girls marry Filipino men, not Irishmen. Frank gave his best and most sincere pitch, promising Aggie’s father that he would love, honor, and respect Aggie and do his very best to be a loving and supportive husband for her. All seemed ok after that but, a few months later, in the summer of 1985, when Frank excitedly announced to Aggie that he had booked a few days down in Wildwood Crest for the two of them, she disappointedly had to turn Frank down, explaining that her father was sending her to the Philippines to spend time with her rich uncle. She went to the Philippines where she was given the royal treatment and introduced to handsome, well-off Filipino men. But Aggie wanted Frank – her Irish rooted American boyfriend and fiancé. Love prevailed and Aggie and Frank exchanged their wedding promises before God and family and friends on Sunday, September 21, 1986 at St. Brendan’s Church in Clifton. After a celebratory reception at The Fiesta in Wood-Ridge, the newlyweds honeymooned in Jamaica, then settled into their first apartment together as husband and wife in the Richfield Village section of Clifton. After a couple years there, in May, 1989, they moved into their first home together at 10 Kievit Road in Wayne. They remained there until May of 1996 when they moved one more time into another home in Wayne where Aggie would end up spending the rest of her life.

Blessed by God with two sons – Frank, Jr. and Christopher, her boys became the most important part of Aggie’s life. She delighted in them, make them her utmost top priority, and consequently she always tailored her schedule around their activities and pursuits. From a very young age, both Frank, Jr. and Christopher displayed an evident gift for playing sports, especially football and basketball. When coached in the Wayne Boys and Girls Club football league by her husband Frank, Aggie was always there to support her sons and keep her husband calm. When they played basketball for the Wayne PAL Aggie and Frank traveled three times to Las Vegas and twice to Florida’s Disney Wide World of Sports to see the boys compete. As the boys grew older, Frank, Jr. attended DePaul High School then Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, Connecticut while Chris attended Don Bosco Prep and later Yale University. Both boys played football in high school and college and, as a result, traveled extensively to compete. They could be sure that Aggie was at every game to root them on to victory.

Aggie always did her best to make life special for her family. Spending her early childhood in the Philippines, she quickly found great enjoyment from being near the water. Ironically, she couldn’t swim but, living in New Jersey, she loved going down to the Jersey shore too. Her boys will always have fond memories of, many summers, renting a little cottage house on Amberjack Road in Ocean Beach. Despite the house being small, Aggie always had that house full of extended family and friends. She had a tremendous gift for hospitality and an even greater gift for cooking! In the words of her boys, “Mom was an unbelievable chef!” She mixed a little bit of her Filipino roots with some American traditions, sprinkled in a little bit of Italian flavor and Spanish spice to make some of the most delicious recipes on earth. Her beef, veal and pork meatballs were famous and there was always way more food than anyone could possibly eat. Her son’s friends were regulars for dinner at the Brady house and every Sunday she made a traditional meal. She especially loved cooking for the holidays and she would always buy those disposable containers for leftovers so that the army of friends she invited over, could all take the extras home with them.

Aggie never shied away from putting in whatever effort it took to get a job done. Like a robot, she never seemed to tire. Up at 4:00 AM every morning, she’d get herself ready for work, make breakfast for her family, work all day caring for others, come home, make dinner, and clean up all the dishes afterward. In between, there would be laundry to wash, dry, fold and put away, and trips to Passaic to care for her much-loved mother. She was a genuinely caring, selfless, compassionate, hardworking individual whose life was shaped by a love for God and a love for others.

Aggie was the beloved wife of Frank Brady; loving and caring mother of Frank Brady, Jr. and Christopher Brady of Wayne; cherished daughter of Imelda Bauzon of Passaic; dear oldest sister of Valerie and husband John Kapsis of Albrightsville, PA, Lea Bauzon Rodriguez of Wantage, NJ, and Benjamin Bauzon of Passaic; dear sister-in-law of Joseph Brady, Jr and wife Virginia Brady of Wayne; and much-loved aunt of nephews and nieces: Joseph Brady, Jr., Anthony Brady, Michael Rodriguez, and Mia Rodriguez. Agnes was predeceased by her dear father Benjamin Bauzon in 2003.

In lieu of flowers, those planning an expression of sympathy in Agnes’s name are asked to consider the American Heart Association, P.O. Box 417005, Boston, MA 02241-7005.

Patrick J. Del Vicario age 83 of Lincoln Park passed away on Tuesday December 5, 2017 while receiving the loving care of his family.

Patrick was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY. He graduated from Boys High School with the class of 1951. After his graduation from high school, Patrick attended Adelphi College for two years then transferred to University of Southern Mississippi where he earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Accounting and graduated with the class of 1956. Patrick was able to attend college on a full Football Scholarship, and following his graduation, he was drafted by the Baltimore Colts in the twenty second round. He played for the Colts for only a year but had the pleasure and honor of playing along one of the greats Johnny Unitis. He then took an opportunity to play for the New York Giants farm team. After a short time with the Giants farm team he went to play for the Newark Bears, a semi-professional football team. Since the Bears were a semi-pro team, Patrick needed to supplement his income by working for Rheingold Beer Company as a Goodwill Ambassador.

Patrick truly enjoyed his time and position at Rheingold, however it was short-lived when the company went out of business several years later. It was then that Patrick earned a position as an Insurance Agent at Mutual of Omaha in New York City. He worked there for twenty years until retiring in 1999. Patrick wasn’t the type to sit around for very long, he then went to work for the Wayne Township Board of Education as a Paraprofessional. Patrick worked there for eleven years until he was forced into an early retirement due to his illness.

In 1951 tragedy struck Patrick’s family when his older brother Anthony passed away suddenly and unexpectedly while returning home from his service with the US armed forces. Patrick had a special and very close relationship with his brother. After his passing, Patrick tried to go on with his life but was never really the same after that.

Needless to say that Patrick was a huge sports fan, particularly of the New York Giants and the New York Yankees. He loved playing Poker with his buddies and he also enjoyed bowling and golfing as well. He was devoted to his Catholic Faith and was a Parishioner of Our Lady of the Valley RC Church in Wayne. Aside from all of Patrick’s hobbies, talents, and interests, his greatest love was for his family. Spending time with his wife and children were the things that were most important to him. Patrick was an extraordinary person who touched the lives of many people and will be sincerely missed by all who knew him.

Patrick is survived by his wife Mary (nee Bonomolo) of Lincoln Park, one daughter; Carolyn Del Vicario of Lincoln Park, two sons; Joseph Del Vicario of Florida and Patrick A Del Vicario, one sister; Mary Jane Del Vicario of Queens, NY, and two grandchildren; Angelina Del Vicario and James Patrick Furler. He was predeceased by his brother Anthony L Del Vicario in 1951.

Carmen Peter Cerbone, age 75, of Wayne, passed Tuesday, December 5, 2017.

He was born and raised in Jersey City and when he was sixteen the family moved to North Arlington. Carmen graduated from Queen of Peace High School in North Arlington with the Class of 1960.

After high school he worked in the actuarial department at the Prudential Insurance Company in Newark and joined the National Guard in Newark. He left Prudential and worked at a men’s shop on Ridge Road in North Arlington that soon burned down. After the fire Carmen and a partner opened their own men’s shop in the town called J.Arnold. He would leave the men’s shop and found work with the Pavey Envelope Company in Jersey City and later the Mailwell Company in Jersey City. He would retire from the Prime Envelope Company in Teterboro in 1992.

Carmen met the love of his life, Linda, over forty years ago. They enjoyed each other’s company for over twenty-nine years before they got married in Las Vegas. They went to Vegas with a few friends and decided to “tie the knot” at the Little Chapel of the West. They didn’t tell anyone of their plans and Carmen called his daughter and said “I just got married in Vegas.

Carmen was a proud member of the Fidelians of North Haledon. He would spend hours at the un-official Men’s Coffee Gang located at the Dunkin Donuts on Valley Road in Wayne and the MacDonald’s on Hamburg Turnpike in Wayne. He was a very social guy and just loved to be around people. Carmen was cheerful, warm, loved conversation, and will be loving remembered as a good guy with a sense of humor. He also enjoyed listening to doo-wop music and oldies. He loved Christmas each year as it brought family and friends together. He found great joy in watching the excitement as the kids opened their gifts, and Linda would open something special from him. He always said, “Just get me a card,” because time together was what he wanted.

Carmen’s family has fond memories of annual and sometime twice a year, trips to the Silver Beach Motel in Wildwood Crest. He loved the ocean, was great at bodysurfing, and enjoyed his trips to Curley’s fries, and horseshoes in the sand with annual beach friends. Most of all he loved to see the joy the Jersey Shore trips brought his daughter, and later his grandchildren.

He was the loving husband of Linda (Allen) Cerbone; devoted father of Susan George (his daughter from his previous marriage to Joan) and her husband Robert of Toms River; cherished grandfather of Janelle, Robert, Abigail, and Daniel George. He is predeceased by beloved brother Ernest Cerbone Jr. and by their beloved parents, Ernest and Susan Cerbone.

Memorial donations to the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474 would be appreciated.

Lillian Lucchesi, age 90 of Pompton Plains died on Sunday, December 3, 2017. She had lived in Great River, Long Island with her husband Andrew (2012) before moving to Cedar Crest Village eight years ago.

Lillian grew up in Forest Hills, Queens, NY, as an only child to Giuseppe and Teresa DelPonte. She was very fortunate during her childhood to enjoy summers in Patchoque, Long Island, where she developed her love for the beach. She met her husband at a local dance and the two fell in love. They were married on June 18, 1955 and celebrated their honeymoon in Havana, Cuba. That marked the beginning of fifty-seven years of marriage filled with many travels, laughs, and wonderful memories. Lillian and Andrew had visited Italy numerous times, London, Greece, Mexico, and many other destinations. They truly had a great life together and made for a perfect combination. Moving to Cedar Crest Village proved to be the best thing for them. Lillian was an avid Bridge player and she could always find a card game there, and after Andrew passed away in 2012, she found countless friends and neighbors who helped during her grieving. Lillian’s children are especially grateful to those friends for all the support they shared.

Lillian had earned a Master’s Degree in Psychology and was a social worker at the New York Foundling Hospital. After starting a family, she became a full-time mom and was devoted to raising her three children. As much as Lillian enjoyed old movies, books, and visits to the beach, there was nothing she loved more than her family. Her grandchildren were the light of her life and she moved to New Jersey in order to be closer to them. They will all miss her dearly.

Lillian is survived by her three children; Joanne Delaney and her husband Robert of Ridgewood, NJ, Andrew “Drew” Lucchesi and his wife Dianne of Wayne, and Paul Lucchesi and his wife Sophie of Chicago, and nine grandchildren; Sara (husband Joe), Jack, Michael, Andrew, Cristina, P.J., Francesca, Tom and Charlie. She was predeceased by her beloved husband Andrew in 2012.

Lillian survived breast cancer nearly forty years ago and donations in her memory would be appreciated to the Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, 1275 York Ave., New York, NY 10065, or visit their website at www.mskcc.org.

Dorothy R. Bradshaw, age 87, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton Plains, passed peacefully on Sunday, December 3, 2017.

She was born in Queens, New York and raised at the family home on Park Avenue in North Bergen. At Union Hill High School, along with being voted Best Dressed in the Class of 1948, she was also the class treasurer. After high school, Dorothy worked as a public relations secretary at Hill & Knowlton located in the Empire State Building. She enjoyed working in New York very much. After having children, Dorothy was a full-time mother and was very busy with three boys and a girl. As her children got older, she went back to work as a secretary for Lehn & Fink in Montvale.

Soon after high school, Dorothy met her soul mate, John “Leo" Bradshaw. They would often meet friends at the Grotheer Ice Cream Parlor in North Bergen. Dorothy and Leo fell in love and married at Saint Joseph of the Palisades Church in West New York, New Jersey on October 28, 1950 and honeymooned in the Poconos. Married for fifty-five years, Dorothy and Leo, always had a very loving and devoted relationship. They both adored the beach, whether at the Jersey Shore or Naples, Florida.

Dorothy was a devoted Catholic, attending mass every week either at the church or watching on television. Her faith stayed strong throughout her life. Dorothy enjoyed entertaining friends and family, playing card games, and recently, became an avid golf fan. She loved her children and grandchildren deeply and treasured holiday and family get togethers.

Dorothy was the loving wife of the late John “Leo” Bradshaw (2005); devoted mother of Tom Bradshaw and his wife Kathleen of Mendham, the late Peter Bradshaw (1998), Jack Bradshaw of Tinton Falls, and Karen Finneran and her husband John of Mahwah; cherished grandmother of Alexis Bradshaw, Christina Bradshaw, Taylor Bradshaw, Elizabeth Finneran, Katherine Finneran, and Conor Finneran; dear sister of the late Jack Dalton and the late Lillian Genrich.

In lieu of flowers memorial donations to the American Lung Association would be greatly appreciated.

Jacob “Jake” Meyer, age 74, of Wayne, passed Saturday, December 2, 2017.

Jake, a devoted husband who loved his wife Estelle for 48 years and expressed it in so many beautiful ways and she to him.

Jake, loving father, who held his son, Dave and wife, Nancy and his daughter, Sherry and husband Jerry so close to his heart every day.

Jake, kind grandpa who greeted his granddaughters with open arms and big hugs.

Jake, son-in-law, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, nephew, cousin, friend, who always had a warm welcome for all.

Jake, a man of strong faith in God, a prayerful man who loved family and friends will be missed by so many people.

Jake met his wife Estelle in 1967 after she drove her friend to Chilton Hospital to pay Jake a visit. Estelle first saw Jake in a hospital room and thought to herself... mmm 'he's cute'. She saw him again about a year later at the T-Bowl bowling alley in Wayne. He recognized her immediately as the girl who stopped into his room at the hospital and they hit it off. Little did they know then that quite a few hospital visits would be in their future. They dated for two years and fell deeply in love marrying on June 21, 1969. Over their forty-eight year marriage they became closer and closer as loving companions.

Jake lived with diabetes since a young child, but he never stopped living a full life because of it. Treasured family memories tell his story of a joyful and blest life!

Jake loved gardening and transformed his backyard into a huge garden of tomatoes, corn, beans, strawberries, blueberries and fruit trees. He was always watering, weeding or just fussing in his garden. Jake made the best blueberry pancakes, of course from his homegrown blueberries, and if Estelle allowed him he’d have them seven days a week - for breakfast and for dinner.

Family vacations at the Jersey Shore in North Wildwood is where many memories were made. Jake loved to fish and spent many hours on ocean jetty’s in search of that big one while 'Stelle' relaxed in a cozy beach chair watching and waiting to hear Jake exclaim "I got one"! Jake's fileting skills were evidenced by the fact that no one hardly ever found a bone. Those fileting skills were only outdone by the fact that the one fish he caught could miraculously feed fifteen people! For many years he and Estelle bowled together with his sister Hilda and her husband Don. Estelle recalls that he said if she scored a 110 he would buy her a new bowling ball. That was easy and along came the whole outfit....blue case, blue shoes and blue bowling ball.

Jake’s children Dave and Sherry remember that their Dad was just plain fun. They have such fond memories of their father pitching a tent and building a fort in the backyard, playing baseball , making objects with paper mache, playing arcade games, and Nintendo’s Mario Brothers, which he was an expert at, for hours on end - the list of fun things dad will be remembered for just goes on and on. Many will remember his knowledge of trees and flowers. You could call and ask him anything about those trees or flowers and he had the answer. Whether it was football talk about the NY Giants with his son Dave or gardening tips with his daughter Sherry he was the best resource for all information, he was a smart guy! He also enjoyed watching the NY Yankees with his wife Estelle by his side. Estelle learned the best tips about planting geraniums from her loving Jake and they enjoyed this yearly planting tradition together. Jake, the hunter, even dabbled in taxidermy and mounted very creative displays of game birds. His taxidermy skills and techniques are something he proudly passed on to his daughter Sherry. Jake also had a gift for music. Dave recalls that Dad often had his favorite country music songs playing on the radio and played Christmas carols on an organ even without the sheet music. His musical ear passed onto Dave. Jake enjoyed playing cards with family and friends and after every birthday party or get together a card game would begin with Jake always a player. His granddaughters loved playing cards with Grandpa Jake!

Whenever the kids didn’t feel well Jake would say “Stelle go buy the ingredients so I can make chicken soup.” Jake would make the soup and Estelle’s job was to deliver it. Husband and wife, a good team! Jake had diabetic related pain in his legs and feet for many years but wouldn't dwell on it. He always had a positive attitude, a great sense of humor and he persevered in whatever he needed to do. He enjoyed just chatting with others, he had a great gift of gab, says Estelle and she will so deeply miss it.

Jake was a life long resident of Wayne Township who put his creative touches in landscaping designs in his work with his family of H.Meyer and Sons. Jake also was employed with his father-in-law at North Jersey Textile Co. He was a member of the Preakness Valley United Reformed Church in Wayne. Jake and Estelle were an ecumenical couple who attended both the protestant and catholic churches together for many years.

God and family were very important to Jake. He was “a man of great faith…a privilege to meet and know him…” these were words from his physical therapist who came to the house twice a week. "He left his family and friends many riches…rich memories of love, joy and faith in Christ, which he so readily shared through his words and actions. My dearest Jake is truly with the Lord and his spirit will always remain in us” were beautiful words from his wife Estelle.

Jake was the loving husband of forty-eight years to Estelle (Aldi) Meyer; devoted father of David Meyer and his wife Nancy of Wayne and of Sherry Liguori and her husband Jerry of Salt Lake City, UT; cherished grandfather of Kayla, Shayna, Heather, Chloe, and Sabrina Meyer; much loved son-in-law of Dominic Aldi and the late Estelle Aldi (April 2017); loved brother-in-law of Dominic M. Aldi of Wayne; loved brother of Hilda Tanis of Wayne and the late brother-in-law Don Tanis; loved brother of Janie Koldyk and husband Henri of Vt.; loved brother to Joseph Meyer and wife Pauline of Barnegat NJ; loved brother to Harry Meyer and wife Pat of Wayne; loved brother to Garry Meyer and wife Susan of Wayne and loved brother to the late John Meyer and wife Barbara of Wayne. Jake was the son of late  Harry Meyer, Sr. and Wilhelmina (nee Brain) Meyer.

Flowers are appreciated or those inclined to make a memorial donation are asked to consider the Wayne Memorial First Aid Squad, PO Box 2004, Wayne, NJ 07474.